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There's been a fair share male sex, it's just very rarely discussed because society isn't as hysterical about men having sex as it is about women doing the same. The introduction of this study mentions the finding of several other studies about male sex work, none of which paint a pretty picture. There's also a meta-synthesis based on interviews with males sex workers which shows that they experience many of the issues female ones do. You could've easily found it yourself if you were interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:03 PM
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The nordic model criminalizes sex buyers, which makes prostitution practically illegal. There's no such thing in other problematic industries/trades like farming. ​ It’s also possible that there’s something inherently damaging about getting plowed by a bunch of random dudes for pay. Thanks for proving my point once again by ignoring men who do porn/sex work, which I mentioned previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:25 PM
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Yeah, sex is still such a controversial topic (if you're a woman of course) that any mention of sexual work or casual sex creates a massive wave of criticism, and many people seem to believe that any sex a woman has outside a committed relationship must be the result of some conspiracy by some random reddit feminist or a titok model who wants you to sleep around more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:23 PM
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But not most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:16 PM
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Which women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:14 AM
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This is also the case for influencers, models and actors. I suspect that most content creators making crazy money already have a fanbase outside onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:13 AM
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Sex positive liberal feminists claim that it’s the stigma of prostitution (sorry, sex work) and pornography that’s damaging to women, and not getting slammed by strangers who don’t give a shit about them for pay, and in the case of pornography, for the sexual satisfaction of millions. In that case, why those who oppose the sex industry want to ban it instead of regulating it the way other potentially dangerous professions are regulated? Abuse was (is?) commonplace in industries that rely on info…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:05 AM
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They shouldn't be allowed to vote though. Eh? Yes, I'm saying that actors/musicians are the same as porn stars/escorts. Double eh?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:42 PM
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A reminder that older men have their charm: https://preview.redd.it/gwohqh2vaa8c1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=2ca4797544ccd0888504b3b024440d66c22f04c1
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:16 PM
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As for porn, if women don't want to be seen as nothing but a set of tits and ass, they need to shame women that do porn and shame promiscuity among women alongside being realistic in dating and mating, aka, women need to stop chasing Chad when Chads make up 20% at best of the dating market. Men are the biggest consumers of sex and they don't need to stop trying getting laid to be seen as more than a dick and a pair of saggy balls. Any woman who needs to shame other women so the men she likes "re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:06 PM
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Who says it's empowering? I mostly see these women mocked and disrespected. I'm aware that some sex workers actually like their job and might say it's empowering to them, but if this is how they feel it's not something I can argue against.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:25 PM
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Of the dick is also taller than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:22 PM
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You're probably right. People with strict parenting or religious upbringing tend to be very sensitive to anything that would be considered degeneracy. I have a great deal of respect for people who actually offer those pushed into the sex work the means to get out or at least to engage in it safely. Writing long paragraphs about how sex work and casual sex are bad in reaction to some woman on the internet admitting doing because she likes it is ridiculous, and just adds to the stigma and mental h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:20 PM
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Reading all the "sex work/casual sex /[insert random sexual act here] is not empowering to women" threads and wondering: is there any evidence that society at large supports women doing these things? Men are more likely to be encouraged to do hookups and men who do porn/sex work do not receive nearly the same amount of vitriol as their female counterparts, and yet all these anti-sex work/casual sex threads target primarily women. STIs, drug use and abuse are issues that potentially affect men. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:01 PM
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Exactly, live and let live. I'd feel uncomfortable doing sex work and wouldn't recommend that women unaware its implications do it. But if a woman is aware of what sex work entails and does it safely than the problem comes down to morality, which isn't my place to dictate if I'm not being affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:21 PM
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Many things are driven by low self-esteem. The constant need to seem respectable is also a form of validation seeking, but it's a form of validation seeking that is socially acceptable, unlike the other forms that involve sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:19 PM
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But those are the most fun, especially the cuck culture guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:34 AM
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Look how disrespectful this man is when describing his wife, SIMONE BILES. He brags that he’s the catch, men are the catch, and that he was afraid of commiting to her. Why would someone want to be involved with someone like this regardless of who pursues whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 01:02 AM
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I just met her And that was crazy! Did you give her your number so she calls you, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:53 AM
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What is the difference between this and the daily chat?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:10 PM
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Because a large part of society sees sex as something man take at the expense of women and that engaging in sexual acts with more than just a few guys in a committed relationship each degrades women, but not the men involved. And many of these stories sounds fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:07 PM
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A parent constantly diminishing you vs. a stranger hitting you. You can't escape you parents and they have much more influence in your life. Getting choked and assaulted on several occasions - as the OP implies - in certainly worse than being made fun of because of your clothes by mates. You seem more interested in agreeing with OP about how terrible women are than discussing abuse. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:45 PM
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Why should a topic two people aren't interested in come up? And how is that sociopathic? I wasn't aware that the marriage talk is an expression of empathy. You either don't know what sociopathic means or have a strange idea of what a marriage talk is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:32 PM
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You'd be surprised how many people think that this is barely above average. People who grow up with very high earning parents in a neighborhood of high earners tend to assume that this is the norm. I've no idea who the tiktok person is, but women in wealthy households are often raised to assume that they'll eventually become housewives provided by a very high earning man, because that's what they see around them. Edit: Just watched the video. There's no context to it so it might be rage bait or …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:35 PM
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Probably because there's an assumption that women want marriage and that they will agree to it as soon as you propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:25 PM
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My husband and I were together for years before marriage was even discussed because there was no need for it at first. I'm pretty sure none of us are sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:22 PM
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They can be great, but it also seems that some people aren't open to proposals, which seems to be the case with that woman. I didn't want a proposal either. We just talked about it and agreed on a wedding date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:19 PM
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Yes, but that doesn't seem OP's case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:12 PM
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And yet nobody is actually addressing why they're wrong, everyone is just dismissing what I just wrote with anecdotal evidence of which I have a bunch as well. I always appreciate people who scrutinize research as they should, but nobody is doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:36 PM
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I'm aware that emotional abuse is a thing, but most of the time is not as serious as physical abuse which the OP admited to experience but brushed under the rug.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:31 PM
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And I'm getting downvoted, lol! I'm open to getting my sources scrutinized, but what their doing here isn't arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:30 PM
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And yet many of the guys complaining about easy women are very easy themselves for anyone that's willing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 09:18 PM
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This is what I find fascinating about so many PPD posters. They promote men being non-committal and even disloyal, but expect women to commit on the spot when the man is tired of fucking around and want marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:54 PM
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Why would it be weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:51 PM
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No, that's what the doctor does :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:45 PM
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There were no marriage talks according to her. It was out of the blue. I dont get this situation tho. They have a civil union…whats even the difference other than a little circus? As I explained to a previous poster, the circus might be the problem, but I'm not 100% sure. I would also have declined the proposal if I were in her shoes. Not so much because of minor differences between marriage and common law/civil union, but because this is something that wasn't consulted with me, and I'm not a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:44 PM
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There are minor differences between marriage and common law in my jurisdiction. I can't say for sure, but from what I've been told by this co-worker, there's a cultural expectation that that when two people get married, this should be followed by a wedding and other traditions she's not comfortable with, but realized he expects. I know that this isn't necessary the case. My husband and I had no wedding and no proposals, but some people think that marriage and weddings are inseparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:38 PM
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Paternity fraud is the most horrendous thing someone can do to someone else and only women can do it. Aside from abandoning your own child, beating up your partner and murdering your partner, yes, I agree. I also wonder how many paternity frauds were committed against OP by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:30 PM
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I'm not sure how much emotional abuse you need to receive for it to become the equivalent of getting choked and assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:28 PM
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Sorry, my bad: Older, childless single men. Those who deliberately withdraw from the dating market focus on hookups and FWBs first are responsible, alongside the sexually exploitative elements of the red pill, for the female childlessness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:26 PM
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A coworker of mine went for Christmas dinner with her boyfriend of 5 years, family and friends. I didn't go with them but I was told by her that her boyfriend did a surprise proposal which caught her off guard. Instead of accepting the ring, she quietly told him that they needed to have a talk. They had been dating for 5 years and living together for around 3. They declared common law/civil union in a written document a couple of years ago, but she said marriage had not be mentioned once during …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:15 PM
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And bad girls squirt on in bad boys mouths. bad girls > bad boys > nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:43 PM
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Older, childless single men. Those who deliberately withdraw from the dating market are responsible, alongside the sexually exploitative elements of the red pill, for the female childlessness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:38 PM
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Do you honeslty believe some random studies are going to change anyone's view about these things? Good luck. Facts are facts regardless of someone's view. You either believe them or you don't. And speaking of view, my experience has been that women who openly shame men for the things you listed are criticized and disrespected by most people who aren't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:30 PM
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All the people in your post are athletes, and I don't see men fanboying mathematicians either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:26 PM
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I'm not arguing that women can't be as physically abusive. I'm pointing out that the OP specifically referred to men being physically abusive, but focused her rant about women being mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:24 PM
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Idgaf my entire life and the lives of most other men speaks to the opposite. Because they're not used to be called out to the same extent as women are for being mean. Hate speech by women is judged harsher. Women are judged harsher for ethical violations at the workplace than men are. The only exception to the trend are attractive women. Female CEOs are judged harsher than male ones for ethical violations as well. Female attorneys are judged harsher for expressing anger than male attorneys. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:58 PM
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Before I met my husband being the wife of a monogymous bi male couple was the goal. HOT
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:07 PM
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Now even if men were okay with it... women don't even want that. Women most natural relationship is what we currently have in the west, they date someone 5-10 years, then switch to someone else. I like variety and it's something I've fantasized about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:07 PM
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I've had the fantasy of having multiple boyfriends as I like variety, but I'm not sure how that would play in real life. The only thing I'm sure about is that I wouldn't want to marry all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:05 PM
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This is not true. There's are many experiments on how the same immoral and selfish behavior tends to be less tolerated in women than in men. Men are expected to be less moral and blunt and when they are, they're not as penalized as women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:57 PM
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You literally admit that you've been physically abused by men, but then write a post about how women are mean. I'm really sorry to hear that this has happened to you and I know that it must be hard, but this reads like you're simply have a lower bar for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:54 PM
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You post names of successful men in areas catered to men and are surprised that women don't worship the professionals in these areas. You then proceed to tell us that not treating a celebrity who is irrelevant in our day to day life as demi-god is a sign of being self-centered and selfish. What is this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:48 PM
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You're basically saying that, physical abuse aside, women are worse because they're mean. This tells me you have a biased perspective and probably you are more likely to tolerate bad behavior from men than from women. Women can be terrible and men aren't necessarily bad, but you're writing as someone who is set the convince us that women are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:19 PM
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I know. I'm not arguing against the fact that there's a segment of redpiller that promotes traditional marriage, I'm arguing that there's also a segment of the rp that promotes exactly what fresh and fit promote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:08 PM
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I see the RP people always preaching one sided open relationships where the man can cheat but the woman has to stay loyal due to biology like it’s natural for men to have sex with a bunch of women but it’s not for a woman and a woman just needs to be provided for financially Prostitution is natural. Being provided by a single man in risky. Being provided by several of them while also producing genetically varied offspring is in women's best interest. Being provided by a single man who will leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:51 AM
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Fresh and fit aren't polyamorous leftists and I've heard many other redpillers promoting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:46 AM
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No, it's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:33 AM
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People on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:32 AM
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That would depend on the woman. That said, I'd love my 7.5 husbands all the same :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:33 AM
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A marriage of one woman to two or more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:23 AM
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According to PPD wisdom, it damages women's pair-bonding and only benefits men. Again, according to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:23 AM
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its not uncasual just cuz theres a mainpiece waiting… Yes, according to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:21 AM
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I would comfort them as I try for a second round
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:12 AM
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Causal sex is bad for women. For this reason, I support polyandry as a means for them to explore their sexuality with up to 10 men per year within the confines of a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:08 AM
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I prefer them to be virgins, the kind that cries after his first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:01 AM
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I’ll take my downvotes now, please! No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:51 PM
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Nobody aspires to become worse off than they are. Westerners are in a very privileged position compared to people in impoverished countries, this doesn't mean they should be ok with making decisions that will lead them to be hungry like the people in those other countries are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:31 PM
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Man: “Women have high standards” Woman: “No, we just look for a kind man” M: “But women hookup with model looking or rich guys”. W: “Of course if a woman looks for fun, she’ll choose the best option. But we choose a kind and caring men for an actual relationship”. They don't say they choose the best option, they say they'll take the most physically attractive option. This isn't nice to hear either, but men say stuff like this all the time: beauty and sexiness is important when I just want to hoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:16 PM
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I'm viscerally attracted to goats. There's nothing zoophilic about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:13 PM
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Yes, and this line of thought also invertedly perpetrates the idea that a woman's sexuality should depend on what men want and think. He might have gotten what he wanted, but why should this be my problem as long as I got what I wanted aswell?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:53 PM
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It's really funny to see women complain about the patriarchy and the so-called choice feminism while simultaneously supporting traditional roles and courting process in a relationship. The idea of men leading a relationship is based on the assumption that women are less capable of making decisions. Men pursuing women also stems from the idea that women are not agents in their love/sex lives but things to be conquered. Marriage proposals aren't true proposals as they come with the implicit assump…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:34 PM
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I think people have a hard time warping their heads around the fact that not everyone wants or acts the same as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:13 PM
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Many women derive their validation from being pursued. When another woman breaks this rule, they feel their values are getting questioned and devalued. That said, I don't like proposals at all and prefer when marriage is the result of a conversation between both partners, whether it's the man or the woman who brings the topic first. In other words, I didn't get on my knee to propose to my husband, but I didn't want him to do that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:08 PM
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Why should someone put the FSM above their own desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:02 PM
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I'm obsessed with love... I just like it better when it comes from 7 dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:47 AM
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She was like I’ll move with you but I want a ring and a baby, are you willing to give that to me? A better question is, if I don't want to move to another states, why would a ring make a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:46 AM
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WIF: WAP inducing fella
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:43 AM
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No no no. I want dumb with a sixpack. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:41 AM
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This is the kind I love to peg.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:40 AM
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So I feel like fellas if you’re dating a girl but she’s still hanging out with other guys cause you’re not exclusive- she’s just not that into you. Speak for yourself lady, I want a reversed harem with at least 7 dudes in it. All hot, dumb and young.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:39 AM
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When I thought shit couldn't get any worse, I just learned there are people masturbating to this: r/skidmarked I'm a pervert but this is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:38 AM
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But I bet they couldn't resist the charm of PPD posting dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:58 AM
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I used them to record music from the radio and CDs I didn't own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:57 AM
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Listen to him. He applies some makeup to chadmax every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:07 AM
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What you're describing isn't the friendzone as she's not really a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:52 AM
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Aspiring to be a "stay at home" girlfriend without a wedding ring is a recipe for unhealthy dependency (god forbid the guy paying all of your bills is abusive) Marriage doesn't make it much better. Most men, even those who can support a SAHM, don't make enough to support a SAHM after divorce, and divorce itself can be pretty expensive. Staying home is bad idea in most situations regardless of marriage status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:51 AM
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They're pretty gross. You'd assume that the person would shower themselves before sex,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:33 AM
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did any of them ask you for commitment? ​ yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:52 PM
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The run through chicks are always some form of sex negative cray cray with 1,020,000 icks or super jaded and slutty. Agree with you about the rules. I got ran through by 69.7 gentlemen. When I had sex with the 30.5th, I put 12,000 rules for the next ones, from expecting them to have a trimmed fresh asshole to not going anywhere near their penises until I sat on their faces for at least 30 minutes. I'm slutty and the skid marks in their underwear made me jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:45 PM
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I was wondering when I'll hear from you again. LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:27 PM
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Or put boundaries in the wrong areas. I will never go out with a guy who makes less than I do, but I'll put up with him not doing anything around the house even though I work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:22 PM
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I think some women have normalized certain red flags to the extent that they see those as normal male behavior. Men do this all the time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:18 PM
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yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:16 PM
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well yeah, they want sex And so do I. I don't approach men for non platonic if I'm not interested in sex down the line, and by the way, these men were intersted in relationships. a man being interested in a woman approaching him doesn't mean he will treat her well for a long period of time (neither does a man approaching a woman, but the odds are better) If a man is not interested it shows. The conversation doesn't flow. If you exchange numbers he doesn't call, if it's a man you already know he …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:13 PM
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All sex is potentially risky. I'm risking more by having having consistent unprotected sex with a boyfriend I never tested who potentially also had unprotected sex with other women, than by occasional protected sex with an uncommitted partner. Chances of pregnancy with while using a condom + the pill or other method are often lower than your chances of dying in a car accident. It's also riskier to have sex within the confines of an exclusive relationship with a guy I met on tinder a month ago th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:55 PM
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But isn't that what losing your last name symbolizes? You are just an extension, a passenger in his odyssey. Pretty much, that why I'm really skeptical when women say "I changed my name because we're now a team".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:39 PM
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Women should not hold onto their virginity as it's a big deal or a reason for pride. Agree. Also, women should not engage in casual sex. This is not an unpopular opinion. Also, casual sex isn't inherently bad for women or good for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:58 PM
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As someone who's had her share of casual sex and it was good at best and lackluster at worst, I'm not seeing how casual sex is inherently bad for women and good for men. I also don't think this is an unpopular opinion. Tons of research backs up the fact that the majority of people see casual sex as worse of women than for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:54 PM
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The only way you will truly know if a man is interested if he approaches you and pursues you in a masculine way. Hard disagree. I've approached men first and some of these approaches have resulted in a genuine interest from the men. Men who weren't interested in me showed their disinterest very early on, which was a sign that I had to drop the conversation very early on. You approach him first better believe he's gonna tell all his homies about how thirsty you are after him He's free to tell his…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:49 PM
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Women's desperation for commitment coupled with their very passive role in dating gives men the upper hand during the dating stage and often after marriage. Women sleep with men afraid that the man might decide to end the relationship shortly after. They date men and hope for marriage in the early stages of the relationship while waiting for the man to pop the question when he's ready . Once marriage comes, women are more likely to give up their names and slow down their careers for the sake of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:35 PM
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How i'm I leeching your tax dollar when I pay for everything myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:56 PM
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:( feel personally attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:16 AM
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Oh no, not those, just the covid and the flu ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:16 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Those memories must be horrible and traumatic. Have you thought of getting therapy to heal your wound?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:14 AM
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Hot. I like germs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:12 AM
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You don't have to do anything. According to men of PPD, you can get a rich simp to take care of you only by opening an Instagram account and showing some cleavage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:11 AM
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Yeah, I had a ho phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:03 AM
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Cuck culture guy is back: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:54 AM
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I bet bad performance in school has more to do with the amount of screen time which prevents children from training their cognitive skills than with values. I'm a millennial and remember plenty of millennial and gen z being disrespectful. I'm pretty sure that people complained about boomers and gen x-ers as well when they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:51 AM
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You interpreting it that was has something to do with you. You said this was a "beautiful thing". Last time I checked, calling something beautiful is an opinion, and you are expressing your opinion in a public forum that hosts people with dissenting views. You need to get used to people having opinions that disagree with yours. Most women like the idea. Women do many things you couldn't pay me enough to do. And yes, the husband leads the family. In the families that agree to it. Not all families…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:47 AM
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The regular male college student has a better chance at having a good relationship with a good woman than Logan Paul. Why would a dumb superficial guy want a "good" woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:39 AM
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How are millenial's children a complete mess? it seems to me that people always complain about the youngest generations no matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:37 AM
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I have two last names: one from my dad and the other from my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:34 AM
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I don't find this beautiful at all. It implies at some level the inferiority of the woman. If it was really about creating a family then they'd both change their names into a different one. There's a reason why men see the suggestion that they take the woman's surname so offensive. I kept my name and can't imagine changing it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:34 AM
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Not all women want to be mothers, even if they get a lot of money for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:27 AM
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I was in my 20s. It was with someone I was casually dating. He was fun to be around but not trustworthy and not exactly my type physically. He was around the same age as I was. He was ambitious and hard-working, but not someone I could see myself in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:56 PM
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The man's career is often a major part of how he attracted his partner in the first place. It's required that he keeps working to keep his partner happy. So you're admitting that it's not only about his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:16 PM
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Before you start lecturing me on biology and sociology, maybe you should grab a book yourself. I'm aware that there are plenty of factors that influence a person's behavior, both good and bad. You're the one making blanket statements about women and casual sex without understanding that scientific findings in social sciences deal with averages and report tendencies in behaviors and correlations. I've read the actual papers that talk about women and casual sex and not a single one of them reports…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:15 PM
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I believe you are supporter of hook up culture because you defend women having casual sex. I defend people conducting their sex life in the way they see fit, as long as they don't bother others. Not sure why this seems a controversial concept to so many people. Do you honestly think that shame is the only factor preventing people from having casual sex. I said that shame is a factor in much of the regret experienced by women, not that women don't have casual sex because of shame. It's perfectly …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:38 PM
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Men seek careers as their contribution to their family. Their motives of their pursuits line up. Men spend less time on childcare and are less willing to give up their careers to take care of their own children even when they're are married to a high earning woman. None of this would be true if men's career was simply a means to contribute to their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:46 PM
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This makes me think you support and advocate for hook up culture. I'm not a "supporter" of hookup culture. I'm not interested in getting people to hook up more, and I don't even believe that hookup culture is even a thing outside a small number of social circles. I'm just noticing that harms of hookup culture are almost always brought into the argument when the topics are feminism or anything female-related, even though statistically men are more likely to be encouraged to hook up, and this enco…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:42 PM
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Again, 200K in SF is almost twice the median individual income in San Francisco. If you leave SF for a LCOL, your salary could drop too. Which would make $200K in these areas even higher compared to their median. At the national level, making this as a household puts you in the top 12. As an individual, it puts you in the top 5. SF housing is not abnormally expensive compared to many other parts of the country where the wages are lower. Median home price in the US -$431K-, is around 5.8 times th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:16 PM
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$200K is more than enough to buy a house in most places, not to mention that we're talking about the income of an individual. Most homebuyers are couples who have a combined income that's way below $200k. $200K salary isn't impressive in San Francisco because that city has abnormally expensive housing and it seems to be a bubble where everyone thinks you're either homeless or a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:15 AM
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The median salary in San Francisco is 104,404 and 73,950. Anyone who perceives $200,000 to be below average must live in an upper class bubble or severely overestimate the amount of money others are making.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:33 AM
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It's hard to say. Housing prices are through the roofs and a big share of men and women in some of the biggest cities will never be able to afford living away from parents without roommates or a significant other on a below average salary. What I do find to be a massive flag are high earning people who live with their parents and are not their caretakers. I've seen several people like this and they seem to be too dependent on parents. There's no specific age for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:28 AM
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I love travelling, but I'd never quit my job to go travelling because I know I'd runout of money and see myself in the streets. It's a similar sentiment to not wanting to be a housewife. Quitting a good job to become a housewife comes at the expense of your independence and financial well-being. Men know this better than anybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:07 AM
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Countless research has shown women are much more sexually satisfied in relationships than they are hookups. Hookups mainly benefit men. Countless research also shows that sexism surrounding casual sex disproportionally affects women and that sexism is the main reason why women feel harmed by casual sex. It also shows that a big proportion of women do NOT regret casual sex or feel neutral about it, but I see countless of posts insisting that casual sex is bad for all women. It annoys me also that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:56 AM
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Agree: decoupling sex from romance is bad, advocation of prostitution is bad, undermining negative emotions in men is bad, romanticizing female promiscuity is bad Why are these things bad and why, even women who call themselves feminists, seem to spend more time criticizing the supposed romantization of promiscuity in women when statistically men are much more likely to be encouraged to be promiscuous and double standards between men and women are still pretty much alive? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:48 AM
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The point is that many people, men and women, see that career and children are mutually exclusive if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:43 AM
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But what about k-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:33 PM
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Feminists are femcels that want Chad's genes, but can't get his commitment, so they cry and scream misogyny at the fact that unrelated men don't want to get taxed for their choices(mistakes). I don't need Chad's commitment to get his genes. I don't even need to fuck him. The sperm bank takes care of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:30 PM
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It's bad when women do i because the ability to have sex without the expectation of romance means that a woman's commitment wouldn't be guaranteed. Being the one who gets to decide whether the woman is worth committing to while knowing (or at least assuming) that a woman that's sleeping with you is expecting a relationship and even marriage at some point gives you, the man, the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:19 PM
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I am not going to respond to the first part as I don't think it would be a productive conversation based on our past interactions. I don't remember us interacting before. Often times with articles about tribal society the author romanticizes paternal uncertainty as an indicator of female liberation. I know what paternity uncertainty is. I was just curious to know how it was promoted by feminism because I don't remember feminists discussing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:10 PM
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I'm a feminist in theory but I disagree with many of the points individual feminists make. There seems to be a lot feminist criticism of capitalism, which many consider to be a patriarchal construct, and many advocate for socialism and other economically "egalitarian" systems. I think this is extremely naive. Every system has activities that are valued more than others and positions that are more respected than other. Disadvantaged groups in these systems will end up getting the short end of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:07 PM
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I don't see most feminism pushing for female promiscuity, but I see many saying that if we don't shame men for doing exactly that, why should we expect women to only have sex within the confines of a relationship, if that's not what some of them want? Also, what do you mean by "parental uncertainty"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:44 PM
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You pursue business transactions you don't personally enjoy just because they are profitable and look good in your portfolio. I'm not sure how that would work with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:29 AM
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Romantic relationships aren't business transactions. The person doesn't even need to be objectively worse than you are. If you're not feeling it then you shouldn't pursue a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:22 AM
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I wasn't feeling it, i just pointed out the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:08 PM
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One of the most pleasant discoveries I've had since breaking into the top 1% a few years back is how I passively started considering myself to be superior to others. You came here to let everyone know that you're in the top 1% of something and that you consider yourself superior to others. This is no different from the men calling themselves "alpha". You're just doing it with a different vocabulary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:51 PM
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I don't know when exactly something becomes "regular", but something that is done by less than 10% of women isn't regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:47 PM
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A man doesn't need to be making 6 figs to make more than the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:46 PM
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Are you going to lecture me on why I, a woman, have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:45 PM
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All they need to do is get a degree in a marketable field, interview well, work hard at their entry level positions, and they will end up having a high paying job. Do you realize that the only reason high paying jobs are high paying because very few people have the skills to them while the demand is high. If all the poor people went to get a marketable degree the degree would be no longer marketable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:57 AM
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The true red pill is that this place always sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:54 AM
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Because looks aren't the only thing that matters. You can love a person that isn't attractive by mainstream standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:51 AM
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The irony in this post though...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:31 AM
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You sail "All" women want resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:27 AM
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I've never dated a man for his money and I'm married to someone I outearn. This is the case of many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:00 PM
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I never said he was a right winger, but someone worried about the declining birth rate and making a documentary on it is very likely to have an agenda. A documentary isn't the same as an unbiased research. Both serve different purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:58 PM
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Wanting and LTR doesn't mean wanting a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:57 PM
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But don't think that a documentary by an organization formed by people "concerned about birthrates" (according to their website) will be biased towards the ideology it promotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:17 PM
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I can't watch the doc right now. How did he come with that number? Was it a survey? who did he survey?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:18 PM
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Where this 80% of women regretting children comes from in first place? I did a google search and the only thing I found is that it's estimated that 80% of women childless women are childless by circumstances, a figure that probably includes older women who who were of childbearing years a long time ago and probably held different goals from women who decide to be childless today. I'm in my 30s, by the way, and I've never had a desire to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:10 PM
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what makes you think that all the women doing casual sex want a guy to provide for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:59 PM
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Then these women are in the group that doesn't want casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:58 PM
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I guess many men don't know who these women are or they want to sleep with specific women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:57 PM
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Sorry about that. Your pet petting habits have soiled you in the eyes of high value PPD men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:56 PM
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Because not all women are for it and if th guy thinks she's not than he might lie about wanting a relationship to get her to bed. That said, I'm not sure how often men lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:28 PM
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Sorry, but I couldn't help it: https://youtu.be/bAEA7fjqvvU?si=1zoOBiXeyr_JB9cT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:49 PM
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There are women who want casual sex and there are women who do not. There are women who want casual sex right now, but did not want it yesterday or tomorrow. Men lie to women who they believe don't want casual sex. I also disagree that women have higher standards for casual sex. A woman who makes a conscious decision to keep the sex with a guy casual does so because the guy falls short in some domain. When I had casual sex, I had it with men I wasn't compatible with or men I didn't feel passiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:37 PM
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If you replaced women with men, then that would essentially apply to all men. So if that’s a reason for men to hold some women in low regard, then would it not be a reason for women to hold all men in low regard? Logic doesn't apply to this sort of PPD discussions because women bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:58 PM
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Yes, certain hormones are released during sex, but they’re also released when hugging a family member or petting a dog Soon on PPD: Women who pet random dogs aren't fit for marriage. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:47 PM
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In my experience, passport bros were men who had a very low opinion of women in their own country and went to another one because they expected to be more accepted in a foreign country. Many of them had traditional views of women that tend to be more welcome in traditional countries. I had no desire to date men like these, but if a women who were fully aware of what was going on still wanted to, that was their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:04 PM
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Like I said, I loved them in my younger days. Just don't get mad when the guys are not interested so you have to lie about it. The same applies to men. They can have as much fun with the bad girls as they want, but shouldn't get mad when they can't find a good girl they like to settle with because the good girl isn't interested in dating a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:59 PM
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The way it's framed, yes... People are trying to created frameworks where it's considered "wrong" for men to have these standards. To somehow shame or punish them for those standards. And how is that any different from the framework that calls women goldiggers, sluts, skanks, hoes and easy for acting on their preferences? You sound like someone who wants to have unfair preferences, but does not want to get criticized for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:38 PM
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Do you really think that women travelling all over the world and all over instagram are regular women? A very small percentage of women are influencers and you have no idea how some random chick paid for her flight ticket. I travel quite often, although my instagram is private, and I'm paying for my own trips.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:15 PM
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That's also insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:10 PM
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I always see this... Like men aren't allowed to have any standard at all. Women will try to shame and attack them, call them insecure, controlling, sexist, etc.. Who is "not allowing" you to have standards? Are you being forced by anyone to date women with high numbers? Last time I checked, criticism is not a ban from doing as you please, if it was, women dating rich men wouldn't exist because of all the complaints men have about them by calling them hypergamous sluts and goldiggers. You come to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:09 PM
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They hate sex workers, but reduce sex had by women to a transaction that the woman allows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:56 PM
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People who have chemistry tend to form a bond when they see each other in person and participate in activities together, no matter how simple. There's very rarely a true bond over and app. The fact that you've been talking to each other over an app and haven't met, I assume, is telling. If there's not enough interests in first place or whatever there is is lost, ghosting is easy. You either have to meet women in real life or accept that many of you interactions on an app will end up in ghost on …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:37 AM
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Dating app or real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:28 AM
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Timothee chalamet seems like he would be my type but Idkkk hes just missing something I feel exactly the same about him. He's gorgeous, but wen I see him talking there's missing I feel. I also don't think he's that good of an actor. I find his expressions to be repetitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:20 AM
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Abuse is what happens when the women "protected" under patriarchy start seeking autonomy or refuse to live up to very strict moral standards imposed on them. Women who think that even protective patriarchy is in their best interest are delusional, unless they enjoy being treated like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:12 AM
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I believe women are more likely to settle when it comes to men, marriage and lifestyle, and it's not because of the cock carousel and the wall. Society is still more likely to see marriage as an achievement for women as evidenced by engagement rings, flashy wedding dresses and surname change. If a woman doesn't marry, especially if she is cohabitating, she's more likely to be seen as a failure than men in the same situation. The fact that men are the ones who propose when they're ready whereas w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:03 AM
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That he's looking for something serious? You gotta see how he acts around me and weather he enjoys my company.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:48 AM
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I was just kidding, don't expose your friendsd
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:47 AM
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This might be the case for specific circles. Exchanging sex for money is rare, unless you also consider the expectation of the provider/homemaker relationship model a for of sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:04 PM
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Say the truth in what context? Cues are different depending on context.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:58 PM
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What's his profile, I mean, for the science and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:49 PM
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I'd rather God not forgive me. If he does, it would mean I'd go to heaven and miss out on all the fun people in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:37 AM
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No, unless he puts his hands under my skirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:33 AM
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Slap her butt. A nice butt is worth getting metooed for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:32 AM
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I'd find the father and drop the son at his doorstep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:31 AM
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You are great! You're so handsome and perfect! Every single word you type is a nugget of wisdom, wisdom I have never witnessed before among humans. You're amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:30 AM
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Like "hoe"? There are no equivalent words for men, unfortunately, but songs like WAP, My Neck My Back and Squidward Nose sing about men like men are sexual objects. You just don't seem to register it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:23 AM
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Has kids they’re not involved with This isn't just icky. This says a lot about him as a person. Someone who's not involved with his children is a piece of shit, unless there are reasons for that beyond their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:15 AM
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I'm not playing. I want to know how singing about sleeping with women is degrading to women, but not to the man that sleeps with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:09 AM
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Women should be able to sing about how getting choked and creampied by a stranger is empowering but a guy looking at a woman's tits sticking out is oppressive. This is a culture that has lost its mind. Men should be able to sing about how banging hoes after getting money is rad, but women who select men based on their money are goldiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:06 AM
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I think people in general don't get as triggered by sexualized men even if they consume their content, be it onlyfans, pornography or some other type of media.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:04 AM
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Degrading to whom, to the women they sing about or to themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:02 AM
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That's not the point. The point is that it's only "degrading" when women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:01 AM
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Sex work isn't really common, and most women wouldn't make money from it. Men who complain about women doing onlyfans simply like the type of woman who does onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:00 AM
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And I've known men who experience the same, and women who really mean it when they say they want to do casual. I think that society at large still looks down on women who have casual sex and don't get a relation ship out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:58 AM
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t’s hard to degrade guys who have a lot of sex tho. Like, just rationalise it. “Uhh you are so attractive and handsome that women can’t help but to love you and give you all of their love and affection, how horrible”. Like, there is literally no downside to being able to get sex well. Men have lower standards than women, not sure why I should think this is an accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:55 AM
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Oh, thanks! I wasn't familiar with the QFT argument, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:29 PM
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I've heard very few women saying that WAP and OnlyFans are empowering, in fact, I see many female spaces decrying the sexualization of women as wrong, which seems to be a common sentiment according to research. There will always be women promoting these things just like there will always be people promoting pretty much anything. What I do find interesting is that nobody claims that men on OnlyFans or other pornographic media (they exist and are pretty easy to find) or men who sing about sleeping…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:21 PM
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Of course, many women do and stay in relationships that aren't going in that direction. I'm referring to the fact that it tends to be an automatic assumption that women want marriage, even when the woman in question hasn't stated that she wants this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:13 PM
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That's more about individual women. Some people don't expect a serious relationship until it becomes serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:10 PM
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Grammar? I fixed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:09 PM
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It's hard to watch a woman date the same man for 5 plus years without a proposal and the sadness in her face when she interacts with a baby because she desire to start a family. As a woman who didn't get married until after 5 years of being with my partner, who also has friends who've been a long time with their partners, but no plans of marriage, I find the pity/sadness some people here express for us interesting. None of us are particularly interested in marriage and only expect to marry is it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:37 AM
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controversial - don't have sex on the first date. Not having sex o the first date helps you staying relatively safe if you're dating strangers, but I'm not sure it's a good advice to actually get a man. Men who sleep with women, but think less of them for doing so aren't good men. They're the embody the same type of sexism women complain about on PPD, so I'm not sure why getting someone like this to commit is considered success.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:30 AM
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In plenty of places prostitution is either legal or not prosecuted. I'm not sure what the OP is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:54 AM
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I’m super glad my children are likely to survive infancy, but disappointed that they lack the freedom to roam and explore nature without risk of getting hit by a car. And if you were living in the past when cars and roads didn't exist you'd probably be worried about your kids getting attacked by a wild animal, falling into a body or weather or losing their way in the middle of a Forrest. Absolutely not. It’s so much better to care for children alongside other parents and family. Not even close. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:21 AM
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u/Ainsleygz will be horny-banning them !nc3ls until this sub becomes one big fat virtual orgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:43 AM
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I've never heard of this and I'm a woman who grew up in a very status conscious country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:35 AM
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Humans may not be captive but we inhabit a sterile simulacrum of the our natural environment much like a zoo. Natural isn't always good. Diseases, poison, natural disasters are about the most natural thing you can get and yet, we're better of by preventing those. Artificial isn't necessarily bad either. The world today, at least the Western world, is the best it has been for reproduction purposes. It's safer, food is abundant, healthcare is accessible, and wouldn't the lack of interaction with o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:30 AM
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Men intuitively know that when it is socially acceptable for them to either play the field or have committed relationships, while only the later is acceptable for women, they get the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:10 AM
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It might be that she's very horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:05 AM
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Who if forcing you to find them attractive? You can date who you want, but people will have unfavorable opinions on your standards just like you have unfavorable opinions on women's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:02 AM
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Humans are not going to let themselves go extinct by virtue of not having kids. 99% of species that have ever lived went extinct. Chances are humans will go extinct too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:36 PM
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Are pandas being “de-programmed” since they are not reproducing in captivity? Or is there something deeply wrong with their habitat? Humans aren't in captivity though. They have access to reliable contraceptives now so those that don't want children or want less children have the power to prevent a pregnancy. Decades earlier, these people would have reproduced anyways and made themselves and their children miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:29 PM
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Meanwhile your wife be like: https://preview.redd.it/3550oszres2c1.png?width=390&format=png&auto=webp&s=7f4217058b39a0d3b66a5b80ad2bbbe2608ca401
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:44 AM
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Passport bros are relentlessly oppressed in their home country by unattractive women who refuse to cook and to have sex with them. These poor men are pushed to buy overpriced flight tickets and forced to eat crappy airplane food for 5 hours, just to arrive to a place where they can get feminine women by offering them a green card eternal love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:40 AM
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How are women married to ugly dudes any different from war prisoners?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:31 AM
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Or worse. He was a doctor and pretty much knew what he was doing, but started playing stupid when he got called out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:35 PM
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I didn't know that. I remember him bragging about making enough money for his wife to stay home, but I didn't remember his profession. There was a similar case on quora. A guy who bragged about being a rich businessman with a wife and a long experience with sugar babies was outed as actually being and slightly above average earner. The big deal about this one is that he was an alleged pedophile who had child pornography in his possession.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:32 PM
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No, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:27 PM
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You've no idea how many sandwiches I can make.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:44 PM
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Upper hand and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:44 PM
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There likely is. So you haven't actually seen any statistics that compare humans living in a modern-day setting to hunter gatherers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:43 PM
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I find penises extremely gross and offensive. That's why, when I life the guy but not his penis, I do whatever it's in my power to cover it with my vagina or ass-cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:39 PM
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Yes, I'm turning 34 soon. What was your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:34 PM
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"Your worst sin is that you've destroyed and betrayed yourself for nothing" That, and lusting after the father of the local church.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:32 PM
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How many sandwiches are hey worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:28 PM
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What if she makes $700k, do you bring the sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:26 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:25 PM
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Because I don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:25 PM
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This is the reason why I can't take men's activists seriously. They don't care about men's rights, they only care about gotcha-ing feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:17 PM
1

Do we have reliable statistics on mental illness among hunter gatherers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:48 PM
1

Do you eat ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:18 AM
2

Nothing... if i get to be the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:15 AM
1

What Plutarch wrote about the mating patterns of Sparta.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:15 AM
2

That's how they did it in Sparta, not this sister wives bullshit we got today.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:32 AM
1

I've never heard of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:31 AM
2

"Thus if an older man with a young wife should take a liking to one of the well-bred young men and approve of him, he might well introduce him to her so as to fill her with noble sperm and then adopt the child as his own. Conversely a respectable man who admired someone else’s wife noted for her lovely children and her good sense, might gain the husband’s permission to sleep with her thereby planting in fruitful soil, so to speak, and producing fine children who would be linked to fine ancestors…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:27 AM
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Golddiggers aren't a myth, it's just that they are very easy to spot. Men who date them do so knowingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:13 AM
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Doesn't FDS tell women that men should jump through hoops though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:09 AM
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Most women will never have the opportunity to get into a private jet even if they're naive. This is a pleasure reserved for attractive women who are already in billionaires' social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:08 AM
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I have to agree with this. Attractive men have an easier time racking up a high n-count, but many of the men with a high n-count I know are not attractive, just average and below average, and they are willing to sleep with women who aren't that attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:06 AM
2

I like how the type of argument you're responding to is only brought up when discussing gender differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:00 AM
1

Harlot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:59 AM
1

0 :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:57 AM
1

Sorry, but I don't know how to read?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:11 AM
1

What's wrong with hoes? a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:09 AM
2

I only like male sex symbols that have sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:08 AM
3

Which hand do you prefer, le left or the right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 02:07 AM
1

Being hot doesn't mean you don't have issues. I know many hot women who had difficulties keeping relationships when young because they self-sabotaged or were difficult to deal with. They're having the same issues now that they're older.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:11 AM
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And it's men who drive the demand. There's no theatre without an audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:09 AM
1

RIP your inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:18 AM
2

Hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:16 AM
1

They're glad that it wasn't their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:16 AM
1

Then everything worked almost as I planned.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:15 AM
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Women that don't have issues getting relationships when they're young, don't have problems getting relationships with men they want later. The majority of women who complain never had access to the good men to begin with. "Good" of course means whatever it is that the woman is aiming for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:31 AM
2

Can I sit in on your face? please?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:28 AM
1

I take it a bit further.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:27 AM
1

I'm right as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:27 AM
1

So by that logic, doesn't that mean that women's brain didn't re-wired to want a career?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:26 AM
2

An only fans subscription of my favorite male porn star.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:13 AM
1

Hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:13 AM
1

I'd rather drink matcha than eat banana.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:11 AM
1

I like children, but have no desire to raise one. Never felt the urge. Motherhood isn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:08 AM
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Men hug their female friends because that's the closest thing to sex they can get from them at the moment. I sit on my male friends' laps because that's the closest thing to sitting on their faces I can get at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:06 AM
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is sex work the highest paid occupation? no it's not. women can have careers in 2023, you know? and the fact that we have contraceptives now does not just rewire our brain automatically when it comes to this. So did our brain re-wired or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:49 PM
1

Thanks for sharing! glad everything ended well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:45 PM
1

Is there evidence of that? I see a lot of people speculating on the reasons of a breakup, but I rarely see celebs themselves talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:43 PM
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Because the person I'm replying to obviously cares enough about other men and women not involved with her. That's why I ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:26 PM
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The question is how OF/porn affects a woman's dating options, not whether women are ok or not with being former sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:23 AM
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Which is a sign that men are still interested in marrying her. This isn't a good sign, but the OP asked if her dating options would be affected. Having a bunch of divorces means the answer is 'no".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:21 AM
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Can I ask you how you because a child prostitute and how you changed paths, if you don't mind me asking? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:47 AM
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Mia Khalifa got married and even in a relationship after she quit. Not sure she's a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:43 AM
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Excuse me, may I speak to the moderator?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:33 AM
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It affects her dating options in the same way that tattoos affect a woman's dating options. Both date in their own bubbles where men have similar attitudes to theirs, so the rest of the world doesn't matter. Most female porn stars end up married, often to other porn stars or men with lax attitudes towards sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:29 AM
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Well, yes. Plenty of women have contradictory standards. I certainly don't support modern women judging men by traditional standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:22 AM
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According to evopsych logic, sex work is the ultimate female imperative as the woman is trying to secure resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:20 AM
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They just want a return on their investment. Then they should stop complaining about goldigging and sex work., and this is something i've seen many "traditional" men do. A byproduct of equality. You would have a point if women weren't expected to be the primary caretakers while also getting shamed for wanting a provider. Compared to ... ? Compared to staying married to that wealthy man. Women judge men for their ability to improve their lives and how they fit in the life they want. It is fair fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:44 AM
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Most don't act like sex work is like working at a grocery store, but many wonder why sex work, when it's done by both women AND men, it's only discussed in a bad light or at all when women do it. Most of these social consequences of sex (not only sex work) affect women disproportionately because women are held to higher standards in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:36 AM
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I find it fascinating how accepting some people are of the fact that men are willing to sleep with women without commitment, and also justify the same men not wanting to date women because these women are willing to sleep with men without commitment. Men also participate create/participate in pornographic content but i very rarely see this subject discussed in the same way the subject about women is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:33 AM
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So sugar mammas/daddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:24 AM
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And when they're obese, post-wall or ugly themselves, they know damn well that money is the only way they can get the hottie that's out of their league. That's why I'm not too worried about men getting with goldiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:19 AM
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To me, a golddigger is a woman that specifically targets men to leech resources from and live a lavish lifestyle - a parasite. She's not trying to procure resources for her future family, but rather for herself; except in circumstances where she is trying to dual mate and commit paternity fraud, which is atrocious. A goldigger is someone who uses their partner for money. Whether this money goes to their kids, extended family is irrelevant. It's also irrelevant whether that money is enough for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:36 AM
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Men who want a traditional woman want the status that being a provider to one confers them, and they love the leverage that money gives them in the dating market, but they don't like the idea of a woman wanting them for their money. Furthermore, society hates women who will judge men by the content of their wallets, but expect women to prioritize their children over their careers, hence the constant redefinition of the word "golddigger". Divorce cuts your household wealth and income significantl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:26 AM
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I would fuck anything that moves, so it's up to the other party to bear the responsibility of saying 'no' to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:15 AM
1

do you get it for a lo lo?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:51 AM
1

What would be an example of a non-lame not lazy song?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:42 AM
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I see you haven't met internet forum users talking about their income yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:38 AM
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Yes, unless the person buying or providing the service is knowingly engaging with a minor or with someone who is forced to engage in the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:17 AM
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I would feel uncomfortable doing either. Whether this is a judgement or not is irrelevant because the topic you brought up isn't the one of "consumes/produces porn vs. does not". The topic you brought up is "produces porn vs. consumes porn".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:38 AM
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Needless to say, men are not evil for having these desires. They don't want to hurt those women or their wives either. They just feel their sexuality is totally disconnected from romantic love, while for women often there is some kind of connection anyway. That is why men can love women they don't want to fuck, or fuck women they don't love. Needless to say, women are not evil for having these desires. They don't want to hurt those men or their husbands either. They just feel their desire use me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:35 AM
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I'm ok with both the consumption and production of porn/sex work, at least in the sense that I wouldn't hold one on a higher standard than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:28 AM
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Know the pipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:25 AM
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Being murdered is like not being able to date rich guys. I'm not making light of murder, murder is terrible. I'm saying that most of you don't appreciate how terrible not dating millionaires is. You saying "No it isn't!". You are proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:23 AM
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For those of you struggling to answer the question about your social class, I compiled a short guide based on my sociological research of internet forums. It's based on the yearly income of a two-parent household with 2.1 children: $100K or less - Too poor to have internet access $101K to $300K - Scraping by. $301K to $600K - Lower middle class. Probably slumming it up in a detached home with less than 5 bathrooms. $601K to $999.9K - Upper middle class. Living comfortably, but not playing golf a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:54 AM
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They compete for access to males.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:35 PM
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Female emus are the Chads PPD men aspire to be: Breeding takes place in May and June, and fighting among females for a mate is common. Females can mate several times and lay several clutches of eggs in one season. *The male does the incubation**; during this process he hardly eats or drinks and loses a significant amount of weight. The eggs hatch after around eight weeks, and* *the young are nurtured by their fathers**. They reach full size after around six months, but can remain as a family uni…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:28 PM
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Difference between being neutral and treated favorably is what respect is. I ask because when people bring up "respect" in those situations they do not mean "treating someone favorably", they usually mean that they treat the person they don't respect as less than they would treat someone who they're neutral about. I don't think that I've seen feminists advocating that sex workers need to be treated like royalty. If you don't know the difference between a drug user and a drug dealer, I'm not sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:20 PM
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Add “that they lust for” to your final point and maybe it’s a bit more true. The median annual earnings of a man between 45-54 years old in the US are around 64K, a number probably lower in countries other than the US. This might be enough to pay rent/mortgage and other essentials, but not enough to save or have a life outside the home. Most men making that would not like to be the only providers in the relationship especially if they can access women who can make a similar amount of money. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:15 PM
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She won't have much of a leverage if she married an average earner. She will no longer have her mortgage/rent paid by her husband, and her alimony and child support money will likely be to low to compensate for the new costs plus childcare if the children are still small. After so many years out of the workforce, she will no longer qualify for decently paid jobs. The breadwinner will also get hit by the divorce, but he will still have a career to fall back on. there will always be another guy wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:09 PM
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lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:59 PM
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A bucket that can deal with any leaking pipe is a great bucket. A pipe that is constantly leaking is a useless pipe. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:58 PM
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If he his financing their entire lives, then that comes with the territory. That depends. If he's a low earner who has to take increase his working hours then he's sacrificing a lot. If he's not interested in taking care of the kids and prioritizes his career achievement, and a SAHM is only a small portion of his income then he's not sacrificing much. It’s also fear mongering to automatically assume the woman is worse off. That presupposes that the man always has a foot out the door. I presented…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:56 PM
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Unless you're saying that anyone who casts upvotes/downvotes on are themselves the vocal minority Not necessarily. It's more like most upvoters upvote a small number of topics each and each topic is only upvoted by a minority of all upvoters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:50 PM
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Woman slut or man slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:44 PM
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You're assuming that the vast majority of people who say 50/50 are referring to the breadwinner/homemaker model, and this isn't the case most of the time. Both the men and the woman work and take care of children in this kind of relationship. The other thing to consider is not only your role, but the things you gave up to play that role. I do agree that a woman marrying a high earner, who doesn't have much earning potential herself, has it easier compared to mothers who have to work long hours f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:44 PM
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1.2K is still a very small number and most likely mean that it was upvoted by a small minority of vocal people. It's very similar to extreme political parties that get more votes than other party, but still below 25% of the votes because 75% of the voters do not agree with it, but their votes are shared among a larger number of parties with each gettig only a small slice of the total votes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:35 PM
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I didn't mean to say that women are the standard. The point that I'm making is that women who have lower standards for sex, whether they're the default or not, are having standards as the men insulting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:26 PM
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The post had 1.2K likes and it was made in a subreddit with 3m subscribers that can have over 3k distinct users online over a span of 15 minutes or so. 1.2k likes is a negligible number compared to the total number of people who saw the post. It looks like a lot, but it's not. https://preview.redd.it/qpmch4795d1c1.png?width=383&format=png&auto=webp&s=1b95c4e2300e665ed4eb2014063ab852f838e479
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:23 PM
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Seeing as male is default character I think it's actually because women have higher standards I'm not sure I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:12 PM
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And this gender has a hard time getting sex because they have lower standards for sex while simultaneously judging women who have standards as low as theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:08 PM
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If women just pathologize casual sex or explore sex with vastly different standards than for a relationship, it creates perceived scarcity for sex and causes men to fixate on obtaining it. I agree with most of what you said, but not with this. Pathologizing casual sex is not a woman only thing. Plenty of men, many of whom are also having casual sex, think that casual sex taints women or is the product of psychological problems in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:06 PM
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And yet this men who are also engaging in NSA sex don't see themselves as scraps, only the women they sleep with are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:58 PM
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NSFW groups attract people looking for sex or open to it. If you post on these sort of groups you'll eventually end up interacting with men looking for sex, whether it's the majority of them of not. I get the impression that you take this interactions personally and see them as offensive. You shouldn't. You should just accept that some men are interested in casual sex and ignore them if you're not interested in interacting with them further.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:42 PM
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What do you mean by "respect"? Admiration or simply not treating people badly because of what they do when it doesn't affect you? I mean, men also complain about the stigma of using prostitutes, so how complaining about the stigma of being one is any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:33 PM
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I'm just leaving this here: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:20 PM
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If red pill blogs were the new cosmo magazine they were offering more ass-eating tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:06 PM
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Or by women who think that sex work should be regularized, made safer for women who actually choose to be there, and become a no go-zone for traffickers. Nobody should be forced into sex work or engage in it if they don't feel comfortable, but at the same time, certain branches of feminism should policing consensual sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:05 PM
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In that case, take a next step if you're interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:55 PM
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The same as you do with men. Do they seem interested when you talk to them? Do they make an effort to contact you when you don't contact them first? The last part is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:44 PM
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I wasn't aware you were reading the Kamasutra. My bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:42 PM
1

That's why you don't prep things un til you know you're both on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:29 PM
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I'm really looking for that guy who tells men to eat ass more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:28 PM
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That's what happens when you're too busy to see them doing their magic :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:26 PM
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That would be a nightmare for me. I lived in a culture that is overprotective of women's sexuality, and all it achieved was making women guilty about acting on their sexual desires, even after marriage. I say "women" because it has been my experience that traditional couples put the ultimate responsibility of sexual restraint on women. The fact that you highlight women's but not man's virginity is a great example of this. I wouldn't like my parents to be involved in the courting process either. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:19 PM
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Everyone has its audience. Plenty f women who get around also manage to date and marry men who are aware of their lifestyle. This doesn't mean that all women and men are ok with it, and women are more likely to be raised expecting promiscuity from men as a normal trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:31 PM
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Then that's on them to stop. Nobody is putting a gun to their heads to spend/produce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:27 PM
2

So you think men wouldn't participate in consumption if it wasn't for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:10 PM
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Probably both. Carrying a child in your womb must strengthen your bond with them, but at the same time, if you don't really want to be a mom that bond will be probably too weak or non-existent. I'm also pretty sure that there are many women who would kill for their child, but don't necessarily like doing the tasks associated with mothering.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:50 PM
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But the conversation always boils down to this: Women are, generally speaking, always dissatisfied and never satiated. They are the ones that always want more, better, never fully content with what they have now more so than men. Men can make do with a whole lot less in life, and genuinely live happily. Don't men also complain about the lack of sex and the lack of sexual variety? How is that any different? Women are the ones that are the nexus, the orin point of the economic "invisible hand" bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:44 PM
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Plenty of women don't enjoy raising children either, or at least not in the way that's expected. The big difference between men and women is that the later are still expected to carry most of the caretaking burden in a way that men do not, and are ultimately responsibilized for whatever child they make. This is very obvious in public discourse where feminists themselves are more likely to blame the lack of flexible hours and corporate discrimination for women not having career-life balance than …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:41 PM
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Men do the best when they're not desperate for sex. Women do the best when they're not desperate for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:28 PM
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Where's the laughable part? Men are infinitely more transparent than their peer aged women, and I certainly am very open talking about my own past, thoughts and beliefs about things. The point isn't that they hide their past. The point is that they wear it like a badge of honor while simultaneously expecting women to be ashamed of theirs. And the idea that it boosts mens value and diminishes women's is an arguable debate, but what it isn't arguable is that the same behavior performed by men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:25 PM
2

Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:07 PM
1

You forgot that all men need to be millionaires and pay women's bills. You ain't a man if you don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:06 PM
1

People overestimate how much money you make online. Only small number makes enough to support themselves with no additional income.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:52 PM
1

Yes, 4 and a half fingers is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:49 PM
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I'm not repulsed at revealing my past and I'm aware that it is too much for many men. I just find it laughable how men who discuss women's past conveniently leave their own out of the equation or pretend that the kind of past that taints women somehow boosts their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:42 PM
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I don't think virgin shaming is ok. In fact, I think your sexual experience in nobody's business unless it affects other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:06 AM
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You're a woman, you're not allowed to have n-count preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:05 AM
1

Thank fucking god for cheap escorts Why do you want to fuck god, you blasphemous heathen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:58 AM
1

Who accused you and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:56 AM
2

Hello!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:56 PM
1

That's why real men switch to electric cars :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:23 PM
2

I have two children by three different men. One day I got tired of them so I went to an ex-boyfriend's house who was not the father of any of those and left those two kids at his doorstep. Total Stacy move!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:20 PM
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You get extra alpha points if the mother is single and your children survive on a combination of minimum wage and a meagre government paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 07:15 PM
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All dem western women from 4th wave feminism who promote promiscuity by seeking domination from the alpha male while they're fertile are terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:45 AM
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Anyhow, he's racked up a body count in the nid double digits but legitimately gets hurt when the girls realize he's not really relationship material and move on. I think most women are used to the idea that (some) men will sleep with them but not date them. Most men seem to assume that if they got a woman in bed they also got her in a relationship and don't deal well when they realize they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:33 AM
1

You got good taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:30 AM
1

I really miss the cuck culture guy who said that watching porn was cuckoldry. I also miss whoever said that women's preference for height was actually a preference for a bigger dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:30 AM
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Women didn't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:24 AM
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Now seggs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:18 AM
5

She also wanted to make cohabitation illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:30 PM
5

I know there's been a lot of grass-touching going on, but what about grass-licking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:19 PM
1

What other languages do you speak? French and English have vastly different pronunciation and structure, so it's not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:17 PM
1

Wanna seggs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:12 PM
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A better question is, would this woman hang around side-dudes? Plenty of women who won't tolerate this behavior from other women don't even notice it in men, and I find that absolutely disgusting. Not saying that this is the case of that specific woman though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:11 PM
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You mean that strippers don't like us, even when they say they love us?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:07 PM
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I bet that's a female bad bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:06 PM
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Yes. I too have a blog that can't even be found on google, but I find it fun and like it when a friend checks it out once in a blue moon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:05 PM
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I've known of men who seem to get women in bed, but complain when this women don't want to continue the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:00 PM
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Saying that both men AND women are partly responsible for who they sleep with and how they do it is not blaming men or infantilizing women. However, saying that women are the ones with the power over sex and excusing man's bad behavior on their low standards it's infantilizing to men. I'm pretty sure that plenty of men behave the way they do because there's plenty of women and men like you who think that expecting men to be partly responsible for where they stick their dicks is offensive. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:58 PM
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There are man y potential explanations, but like many things in psychology, it's hard to prove a causal link between biology/upbringing and behavior. A possible explanation is that male strength gave them a comparative advantage in gathering resources which paved the way for the traditional family, whose dynamics are learned very early in childhood by observing ones parents. I'm pretty sure that there are many other potential explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:50 PM
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Women like this are attracted to many guys, they just aren't too attracted to most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:41 PM
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Are you trolling? The chart reads Percentages of Married Men & Women with a Bachelor's Degree Married to a Spouse Without One. For men who were surveyed in the 2010-2018 period, this was under 35%, for women, this figure was above 35%. For the youngest group of men surveyed in the same period, this number was 25% or less, whereas for women the number was above 40%. You're the on who need to learn how to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:40 PM
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We've all heard about Chad pumping and dumping, but what about Stacey squiring and quitting? Discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:03 AM
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It's not an argument, it's just me giving you permission to do stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:01 AM
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No, I'm just giving you permission to think she was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:59 AM
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Me sucky sucky, me so horny, me love you long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:57 AM
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From now on, you all get my permission to be jealous of your partner going half-naked to a concert while masturbating to porn AT the concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:56 AM
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In fact, most foreign women can probably speak more languages than the average American, which is ACTUALLY shown to increase intelligence. I'm a foreign woman and I've no idea where this comes from unless you're referring to foreign women living in an English speaking country or Dutch/German/Nordic women. Most of the women living in countries where passport bros like to go don't speak more than one language. The "can't even" speak english isn't an insult to their intelligence, it's pointing out …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:53 AM
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It most be all the stench from PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:44 AM
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Nobody "gatekeeps" fertility. A man can say "no" or wear a condom. The "gatekeeping" argument exists because a large chunk of society hasn't come to terms that sex cuts both ways and that men have a say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:34 AM
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Firstly women choose who gets to procreate/ pass on their genes. No, both men and women choose were to stick it. What has been going on in history is irrelevant to the fact that the man can say "no" to sex or wear a condom as much as the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:31 AM
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Hot! I prefer green then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:21 AM
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What color are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:18 AM
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Are those the new colors for viagra?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:13 AM
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I'm criminally insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:57 PM
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Maybe women should just not give any of them sex before marriage and make that popular in culture again. Women aren't sex dispensing machines. They don't give sex any more than men give dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:57 PM
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What do I gain from marriage (I’m not religious so that aspect is gone) You get the respect from random PPD users.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:52 PM
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Because the OP is a traditionalist and, according to traditionalism, bad behavior from men is the result of women's failure to put a stop on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:50 PM
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I respect your consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:44 PM
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It's not misleading because if women were not interested in marrying men without a degree, even if they were more likely to have one, the few married women would be married to men with degrees, while the surplus of women with degrees would not appear in the chart at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:44 PM
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It's about sex, not cumming. It's about being provided for, not spending money. Nobody suggested manipulation. A quick reminder that you did: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:37 PM
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It doesn't matter what's the function of a ring. The point is that there's the expectation that just one party gets one. Of course both couples can get both a ring or skip it altogether, but that's beyond the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:33 PM
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Young women may be more likely to marry a man without a degree today compared to men today because of the existence of gap The question is if women with degrees marry men without one. Data show they do. The common argument is that women with higher education that don't find men with degree struggle to find a partner because they refuse to marry someone with a different educational attainment level. Number show this ain't true. I'm not sure what you're trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:30 PM
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Is the expectation of a birthday gift based on gender, race or other characteristic other than the date of your birth, which everyone has?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:27 PM
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You don't need a woman to cum. You can use your hand or fuck other men. Manipulating some poor woman into sex is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:24 PM
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A diamond ring in not a simple romantic gesture and it's not an exchange, it's a one way expectation. Of course, people are free to pursue the kind of dynamic they want, I'm not arguing that they should not. I'm arguing that it's contradictory to believe in equality while expecting an unequal dynamic. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:23 PM
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Yes, didn't you see his commentary on the song?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:01 PM
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They're not saying it's wrong or bad to give someone a ring. You're actually trying to argue it's hypocrisy to receive any gift, which is ridiculous. There's a big difference between getting gifts and expecting a ring based on gender traditions. There is nothing contradictory about supporting some socially conservative views and believing in gender equality - in fact, most modern western right-wing parties are moving towards this set of views. Most modern western ring wing parties who believe in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:01 PM
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The tradition is for the man to give the woman a ring, so it's safe to assume that what he means is that these women expect a ring, but don't give out a ring themselves. I don't think this is something that needs to be stated explicitly. You mention that people can support a left wing party and be pro-marriage. Sure, they can. Marriage is a legal agreement that affects the genders equally. Marriage isn't inherently traditional, although some of its customs are. The left wing isn't inherently pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:17 PM
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I thought that everybody here made at least six digits and lived in the 'burbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:33 PM
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I believe we should have a monarchy with me as the supreme queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:26 PM
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Yes. You shouldn't attempt to date or have any sort of relationship with men until you're exactly what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:23 PM
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Why do men who don't offer anything else complain about being used for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:19 PM
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The OP isn't criticizing marriage, he's criticizing the traditional rituals that come with it. A progressive person, I assume, believes in equality. Expecting a ring from your partner is not egalitarian, unless it's an exchange of rings in which both partners participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:15 PM
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Progressive people don't need to proclaim how progressive they are. Anybody who does is most likely very traditional in some other way. I've had the same experience with "progressive" people. If you really want a progressive woman watch how they act, not how they identify.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:11 PM
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Does Shapiro even WAP?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:06 PM
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Younger women (between 23 and 32yo) surveyed during the last wave(s) (2010-2018) are the group of women with college degree who are the most likely to be married to a man without one. More so if you did one now you find even fewer college educated women with men without a college education. Do you happen to have a more recent study on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:04 PM
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I like self-sufficient smart men. They're more likely to have a college degree, but they don't have to have one for me to find them attractive. Despite the hysteria surrounding the gender degree gap, young women with a degree are more likely than young man with a degree to marry someone without one: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:26 PM
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I have to disagree with your first sentence. Both men and women know who gets the most attention from the opposite sex in their respective group of friends. Women can also tell the difference between sexy and sophisticated. They understand that Megan Fox and Emma Watson, for example, appeal to different audiences or to the same audiences for different reasons. They know that Watson doesn't have as much sex appeal and is less striking than Fox, but they aren't wrong when they assume that women li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:17 PM
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-more clothing options/your behavior is less scrutinized Actually, women's behavior is more scrutinized than men's and there's a whole body of research on the topic. People expect women to be better behaved and more moral than men, so they're more penalized than men when they fail to live up to these standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:16 AM
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Like Maybe you're in a club and a guy goes homes with another girl, Maybe you're talking to a guy and you find out that he got into a relationship with someone else in the middle of the talking stage, etc. There's nothing to deal with here except for with my feelings. The guy already made his decision by going with another woman. The same goes for him getting into a relationship. There was someone I liked, but I'm not sure if those feelings were mutual. I later found out that he started dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:22 AM
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Yes. It's finishing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:00 PM
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I was the chick running right behind the dude with the nice ass hoping he puts it on my face and never makes it to the finish line.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:58 PM
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Find a social medium that you really enjoy, like hobby that puts you in contact with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:55 PM
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What would be an example of a man being demonized for not being obsessed with women? Most of men in our lives are acquaintances who treat us with the same courtesy they treat other men, but aren't particularly interested in us. These men aren't demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:13 PM
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I do not use evolutionary psychology to explain pretty much anything. Evolutionary psychology has the same vices as many other social science fields that aren't experimental and thus can't establish a causal relationship between two variables, but still rely heavily on assumptions that have have never been tested by the person(s) conducting the research. For example, we know that women are more sensitive to resource cues in potential partners, but there's no way to test if this is an inborn trai…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:34 PM
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You want a woman who is the oppressed in the streets but the oppressor in bed, am i right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:39 AM
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That's because all of them exists outside your bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:36 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:59 AM
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Most of them don't, but the ones who do are the ones that got your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:58 AM
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How many armpits did you have to go through to get your results?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:56 AM
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Not to mention that the couple might be having secondary infertility. I'm not really sure what people are trying to achieve when they ask others to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:48 AM
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You'd be surprised how man y people there are out there who don't think that sex with an unconscious person is a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:18 AM
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As it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:17 AM
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A friend and her husband had a daughter a few years ago. People are insisting that they have another child. These people don't know that they're in the process of divorcing because of his legal troubles and alcoholism. A friend and her partner who have been living together for a while get a lot of pressure from their parents to have a child. She got pregnant, but had to terminate the pregnancy because after paying for childcare and other baby expenses they wouldn't be able to pay rent, and none …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:15 AM
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No, there's only pepper.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:49 AM
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This should be the norm. Both parents should be able to have a life outside of family, but also know and be willing to take care of their children. Women should stop gatekeeping childcare and men should spend more time taking of their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:47 AM
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I want someone that doesn’t make me feel cheap and used. Nobody can make you feel cheap and used without your consent. Easier said than done, but women's biggest weakness is that they deep down hold the same beliefs about themselves as sexist men. Fortunately, not all men think this way. Unfortunately, you can't change those who do. The good news is that you can work on how you see sex and learn to not rely on men's validation of your sexuality. When you feel genuinely comfortable about your sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:45 AM
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Why are men so complicated? Why do they have to chase me, send me flowers and take me on dates? They like holding my hand and telling me how beautiful I look. They go to great length to prove to me that they're worthy of my attention. They get degrees, high-stress jobs just to convince me they have the resources to care for our offspring, when all I want is dick and a nice six-pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:29 PM
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I don't want a whole body nor his time. I just want dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:21 PM
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It's up to your boyfriend to not flirt back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:19 PM
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Something like this: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:17 PM
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You will get an inexplicable urge to betabux your man, according to PPD scientists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:00 AM
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She's not dating the guy in this photo. She's dating this one: https://preview.redd.it/p40eaqduw8yb1.png?width=750&format=png&auto=webp&s=695125cb6e97a44f8a3e190f4587026165ad3044
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:54 AM
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A woman never knows if a man is worthy of her love before he has sniffed her farts and cleaned up her ass after a bad episode of diarrhea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:50 AM
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Or that it is a date and she wants to be your sugar mama.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:45 AM
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It implies she thinks its her turn to pay and she doesn't want to use you as a meal ticket. Deep, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:44 AM
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Most of the men who date them aren't dating down, they're dating their match but are delusional about their own attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:43 AM
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It's an annoying answer to "why do you expect this behavior in a relationship?", but it's also the most honest one. Most of our expectations in a relationship are learned from watching the roles our parents played. We spend most of our time either trying to replicate those roles or trying to correct what we felt was wrong about them. Many people grew up wanting to imitate the traditional aspects of our parents relationship, but fixing the disadvantages those roles come with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:38 AM
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No idea to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:30 AM
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Oh wow! That was the most intelligent thing I've heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:37 AM
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He's planning to conquer Russia. No other person has potential for an empire that big.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:35 AM
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Congrats. I don't have to worry about anything anymore because you got laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:34 AM
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Penis
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:32 AM
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Hiring a private chef.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:30 AM
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No, but that's who I aspire to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:49 PM
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The guy who masturbates to anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:30 PM
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Every woman has a vagina, so a vagina can't be valuable. That's economics 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:03 PM
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Which mean both can be fat as long as they bring pussy, competence or skill, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:57 PM
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It doesn't matter what it entails. She's filtering men that would disagree with women's right whatever those mean to her. This isn't an attempt to debate, this is a filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:55 PM
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Because women’s rights is definitely something a guy wants to talk about when he matches with you on a dating/hook up app. So many women make themselves unapproachable on dating apps Looks like her filter is working as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:34 PM
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People with no social life have many options to increase their dating prospects: Mail order brides and grooms Arranged marriages by mom and dad AI girlfriends/boyfriends Blow-up dolls They don't need to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:33 PM
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You won't get cancelled unless you also start insulting other groups. Nobody will cancel you for saying "fat men are beautiful".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:28 PM
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I'd love to marry him just as he is. I'd wait for him to cheat on me and then proceed to divorce-rape him. Unlike McKenzie who put that money towards charity, I'd buy myself a harem of 21 year old dudes with a six pack none of whom I would want to marry because I wouldn't like to get divorce-raped. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:25 PM
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then out of the blue she gets distant and you find out she is dating several men, men that she has carefully selected, to determine who is the "winner". you are not special to her, you are not unique, you were just a player in her "strategy". She probably took the red pill and forgot that the advice to spin plates, sleep around and don't simp was directed at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:20 PM
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Start your own. Who's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:16 PM
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Red flags don't matter, what matters is your tolerance to certain behaviors. Being heavily tatted up and drinking alcohol is correlated with impulsiveness, but many man do find impulsiveness and other problematic behaviors attractive even if they don't do so consciously, which explains their inability to find something "better". There are also many women who show problematic behaviors even if they don't drink and aren't tatted up, who also never fail to get long term relationships. Red flags tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:52 PM
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As someone who was constantly catcalled and saw other women getting catcalled, catcalling men back made them stop most of the time. Men seem to like the idea of it until they start experiencing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:38 PM
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I'd catcall him back and see how he likes it. His housing status is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:17 AM
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How is this related to the OP's question? Yes, sugaring is prostitution and I would also go as far as to say that the expectation of traditional relationship is a form of monogamous prostitution as well, but how many women are sugar babies or seeking that sort of relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:13 AM
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If it's dehumanizing, why only women get flak for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:08 AM
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Was it confirmed that it was cheating? She said deception which could mean anything from cheating to lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:32 AM
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I want multiple men because 5 dicks > 1 dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:23 AM
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More evidence that women pay for sex too... It is a well known fact that there is a sex market geared towards women. What's so surprising about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:19 AM
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Yeah this is true but it has very little to do with ethical behaviour or does it? Sex is considered a moral/ethical issue by many people, so I would say yes. There's no actual physical or psychological harm inflicted on others by people who post half-naked pictures. Depends on what the behaviour is I think but this is just because men are seen as more competent, not because they are judged less harshly on ethical behaviour. I'm pretty sure that perceptions of competence are part of this, it's st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:17 PM
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As a woman I've scarified just as much for the love of my life. You've no idea how much money and time I spent to chain the object of my love to my basement floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:57 PM
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Then go on, and be better. What makes you think I'm interested in a millionaire? We have been waiting one English speaking woman to lift their butt for a while now. English is not even my first language, so I'm not sure what you're trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:53 PM
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they cant. but one individual of any area that is neither old or fat can rise by just not being passive because of the enormous priviledges they hold... if they just lifted their asses to do anything with their lives. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:47 PM
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How can 100% of women marry just 1% of the men? Are they supposed to take turns or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:33 PM
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That's true when it comes to physical violence as women are perceived as weaker and men as stronger, but it reverses when it comes to to issues of morality. For example, female lawyers are more likely to be disbarred for violating the conduct code than male lawyers, women are judged harsher than for having sexualized pictures of themselves on social media, women are judged harsher for unethical behavior while they're directing an organization or a company, and they're also judged harsher when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:21 PM
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And you really believe that is every single woman put the effort she'd been marrying a millionaire when millionaires are such a small percentage of the human population?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:48 PM
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You might see it happeing, but it's not happening to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:46 AM
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You realize that rich men constitute a very small percentage of all men, right? This is most of the women you know, but a very small percentage of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:38 PM
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I don't know if most, but there are many women who only believe in equality under the law, but still expect a traditional relationship. PPD is full of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:37 PM
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Sure they cannot just sit around doing nothing. Every day at least 15 ugly and average looking women are in front of the only international hotel in the city "sunbathing" in hopes of getting a rich and good looking husband... And how many of these women succeed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:35 PM
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In what sense? that the woman has to go to a greater extent to be seen as unethical? Not really. There are many experiments showing that women get more backlash/outrage than men for the exact same behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:33 PM
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Where is the evidence that average women are travelling around the world thanks to a man's pockets?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:29 PM
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Average looking middle class women don't get free drinks and food in upscale restaurants. Average looking middle class women don't get to travel the world on a man's paycheck. Average looking middle class women don't date model-looking upper class guys. The women that have all these privileges are far from average and those are the only women you notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:09 PM
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Condoms are great! Not only they prevent pregnancies and STIs, but they can also be used as cum stained balloons on a pervert's birthday party.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:55 PM
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To piss them PPD dudes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:52 PM
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Red flags in men: posts on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:50 PM
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I don't know a single woman in her 30s that had no issues "getting commitment" in her 20s and who suddenly can't get a committed partners. All women who I know who are in their 30s and struggle getting commitment also struggled in her 20s. I also hate the whole "get commitment" phrase. It's a two way street, not something men offer women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:49 PM
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Do you realize that a a significant number of women aren't feminists and most women aren't Swedish? If you put a video on the internet about a practice that's only prevalent among a minority of people you'll get many comments that will oppose that practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:45 PM
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Even when them balls are hanging below the knees?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:26 PM
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If a woman has to have her options limited in order to become a mother, then she shouldn't become one. That was my whole point. Capitalism and feminism, assuming that those two are influential, simply offer her the option not to. But don’t think that your employer paying for you to get your eggs frozen has jack all to do with female empowerment. I've never said that. In fact, I've never had an employer offering me to froze my eggs. If anything, my employer offers me flexible hours that I won't u…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:11 PM
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It's only what's outside that counts... no,wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:35 AM
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I like them hot. They can be dumb and broke, but they should never be ugly. They should also be 21 years old max. I ain't dealing with them bald spot and saggy balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:30 AM
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On a side note, because I have a more positive experience with women, I also hold them to a higher standard. This is a common side effect of WaW. Women are hold to higher standards and are judged harsher when they fail to live up to it. Despite the "women aren't accountable" trope, there is a lot of research showing that unethical behavior, promiscuity and selfishness generate more backlash when it's a woman showing these.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:24 AM
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I lived in a country that's also a destination for sex tourism. I didn't have a bad experience with most foreigner, but I do remember some that were utterly disgusting. I've always got the impression that they behave this way because they think they can get away with this kind of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:07 AM
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Most people were poor for the majority of human history, and yet people had more children back then than they do today. Countries that are poor in terms of GDP per capita also have higher fertility rates than rich countries. The economic gun doesn't seem much of a factor in the decline of fertility rates unless there's available contraception and less pressure is put on couples to reproduce. When reproduction becomes a choice people are more likely to consider economic aspects of it that otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:28 AM
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Yes, I've felt it several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:54 AM
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There's nothing people love more than blaming their least favorite social system for their personal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:53 AM
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Ah the old “all choices are equally valid” chorus line of liberalism. I've never said all choices are equally valid. I said that that prioritizing your career over motherhood is as valid as any other choice, which given the context, should mean "as any other choice regarding motherhood, such as prioritizing motherhood instead of your career". Women who really want kids and are ready to have them don't wait to have them. If they wait it's because something is missing or they're not as interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:24 AM
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He'll be my main husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:00 AM
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Where are all these dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:39 AM
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Communists like to share a bit too much. I want a harem of 21 year old dudes to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:38 AM
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It doesn't have to be gendered but it often is. Many of the guys complaining about n-count have a high one themselves or are trying to get a high one. You might think that an income preference in fair, but many people don't as evidenced by insults such as goldigger and all the complaints about it in sites such as this one..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:37 AM
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Capitalism is the system that upholds prostitution. Communism is the system that upholds polyamory and gay orgies. Which system should I follow if I'm interested in eating ass and licking armpits?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:28 AM
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Most women who aren't attractive or those aren't in the same class as the guy don't get dined and wined in expensive restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:20 AM
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Both Top Gun movies were a massive cheese-show. I perfectly understand why they were popular, but i wouldn't watch them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:18 AM
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Negatives for who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:15 AM
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Women stop taking showers for a decade after they turn 30 which explains the U shaped relationships between female smell and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:13 AM
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Women who freeze their eggs because of their career are either in such a position that they can't afford raising children and supporting themselves, or they have a career they actually enjoy and prioritize it over becoming mothers, which is as valid of a choice as any other. "I want to wait to establish myself" and "we can't afford kids" is also often a reason people give others to avoid explaining other issues such as infertility and marital problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:10 AM
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Me love me some hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:01 AM
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That's just benevolent sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:27 AM
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No. If that's a big deal to you move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:23 AM
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No, I mean ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:20 AM
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My (30F) fiancé (31M) wants an open relationship after he learned that I'm giving him sad hand jobs while i used to sit in Chad's face. Please help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:27 AM
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I'm a woman and I don't look down on men who make less than I do. I do look down though on men who would expect me to earn less than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:24 AM
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I'm a woman and I'd be lying if I said I've never felt envious of smart successful unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:17 AM
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You said it's men who feel emasculated, not that women themselves emasculate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:09 AM
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That touches upon your comment about men being emasculated by a high earning woman. The question is, why would an ambitious woman want to tone her success to make some insecure dude happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:51 PM
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But what if they have kids? SAHMs aren't the only people with children. Most children live in a home where both parents work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:36 PM
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I was ashamed of asking him about the shower because he would realize I was smelly. We had sex the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:33 PM
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But it shades doubt on the idea that the SAHM is the main reason why the man is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:32 PM
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I reject putting on deodorant and using toilet paper. The bravest of us will always go against the grain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:36 PM
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To all the men who say they're not allowed to have a preference for a low n-count, from now on, I'll only allow you to date women with negative n-counts. Anything above -1 is off limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:32 PM
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I like my men to smell like curry and onion rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:29 PM
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You have my permission to not date hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:27 PM
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Pardon my immature vocabulary. I meant to say "phallus".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:25 PM
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That works too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:24 PM
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They clean just after themselves though, having full control over what and when is to be cleaned. They don't clean after their spouse, they don't need to keep track of the entire house, they don't need care about anyone's needs but their own, they don't do twice the dishes, etc. But they still prepare food, keep tracks of bills and appointments. Working families with children also have to do those things for their children while holding a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:23 PM
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• Pick tougher, and higher paying jobs to attract you • Work longer hours to attract you • Select harder college courses to attract you • Select younger women (because they make less money, so are thus attracted to older men) Imagine doing all of that to impress me when all I want a hot dumb 21 year old with a 6-pack a generous pee pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:06 PM
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You have my permission to go abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:59 PM
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If she was working and still got alimony chances are she made very little money. Child support is determined by who's got the custody. Either she was the primary caretaker or there were other reasons why custody was awarded to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:57 PM
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Not quite, otherwise laundromats would run out of business. We cannot get a fully automated washing machine just yet, so laundry for myself and my husband involves rinsing by hand. Not to mention delicate items that need to be either carefully handwashed or taken to dry cleaning - and I obviously opt for the former. Serious question: is this still common? I grew up in middle class in a poor country and while washing machines weren't fully automated they did most of the job. Laundromats here are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:54 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:46 PM
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My man has below average empty space in his pants. He's fucked really nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:44 PM
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Bye. We will all miss your masculine energy over here. Please send dick pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:42 PM
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I wasn't aware of any anal sex orgy around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:39 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:35 PM
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Independent women can't fuck you over built a significant share of the marital wealth, which means you can't complain about them running away with your half, as they probably put half or close to half int the marriage. Independent women aren't eligible for alimony, and because independent women were busy working, they are less likely to have been the primary caregivers and thus less likely to receive sole custody and make you pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:33 PM
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Men who are married a sahm are generally happier. Men whose wives become SAHMs either marry women with low earning potential compared to the cost of available childcare, or make much more money than the wife which often means that they also make way more money than the average man. Making more money will make you happier on average, and making a lot of money means you can easily outsource household duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:28 PM
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I am 40, divorcing, and while my divorce is a financial hit for me, I would still choose to be a SAHM and sacrifice my career advancement over those years. NOT due to laziness—but bc nobody would raise my kids with the same love, nurturing, investment, and purposefulness as me. NOBODY. What about your husband/ex-husband? I agree with the rest, but I would assume that children are the responsibility of both father and mother, provided there's no big difference between the salaries of both partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:19 PM
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I want to be paid for existing. I want five husbands who are faithful to me. I want someone to scrub my feet twice a day for free and tell me they love me for no reason. That, and very hot sex with the five husbands at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:16 PM
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Most of the households do not, in fact, have all the newest appliances that cook and do laundry for you. Almost all households in the west have a stove, a laundry machine, electricity and running water. Most people in the west don't grow their own food and don't cook from scratch. You can't compare a suburban housewife who can just put mac n cheese in a microwave to one that has to raise a whole cattle and then skin, cut and prepare her own food. You need to remember all the tasks to be done on …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:13 PM
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Why are you so insistent on judging others, and yourself, for “laziness”? Laziness it's just a word, nothing more. There are things where I or other people just have a preference to put less effort on. Nothing wrong with that. The only reason there isn’t a system that doesn’t require working for money is because capitalism utterly destroyed any alternatives. For the vast majority of human history, we lived without money. That's why I said money or services. I'll add goods/resources as well. Some…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:46 PM
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Sure, but plenty also would not. And many if not most women also don’t have the option to get a well-paid job. I understand that, but that's not the point. Wanting an easier life does not make one lazy. It seems like you’ve been so corrupted by capitalist propaganda that you think anything less than working yourself to death is “laziness.” I don't want to have children because I don't want to care for another human being. That makes me lazier than women who want to work AND care for another huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:53 PM
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It’s not “lazy” to not want to bust your ass for a pointless minimum wage job, it’s common sense. I've never denied that most people would choose a provider over a minimum wage job, but plenty of women would also choose to work on a well paid job over getting their bills paid of by a man. Of course being a SAH wife is easier, what’s wrong with that? That's the whole point. You claim aspiring SAHMs aren't lazy, but choosing the easier lifestyle is lazier by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:26 PM
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That's a great choice if the parent is a better teacher than the teacher working in the school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:20 PM
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Chad has it good. He doesn't even need water. https://preview.redd.it/owee6boggeub1.png?width=540&format=png&auto=webp&s=2da40b15960b9982f8ff54b95b366236a540e7da
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:16 PM
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I like to pineapple pizza but only if it has ham in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:15 PM
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What is a quality girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:39 PM
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Working in a low wage job means putting in long hours to pay rent and food, or putting up with the uncertainty of being given enough hours by your employer to not end up in the streets. Working a medium to high wage job means having an in-demand skill built by years of experience or education, if not both. It also often means taking decisions and solving problems that not everyone is capable of making or solving. Women in both of these scenarios still take care of their own children. Being a hou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:38 PM
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but women's innate sense of hypergamy Plenty of women marry men they outearn and many women don't have traditional expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:15 PM
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Around 18% of parents stay at home when they have children under 18, but less than 3% of children are homeschooled in the US. I suspect that these numbers are similar for Canada and other Western countries with similar childcare systems and benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:13 PM
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This post was definitely not made by a man. Plenty of men don't respect the role of a housewife. Not only I've heard many men calling SAHMs "goldiggers", but the words and the actions of those who claim to respect them tend to be condescending as well. A man who says "I'd rather my wife stays at home because i don't want her to work too much" is basically saying that being a housewife is not work. I hear this very often from men who lament how feminism "pushed" women to the workforce. Men who ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:06 PM
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SAHMs might be less likely to seek a divorce, but when they do it's messier because they'll be more likely to get alimony and custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:53 PM
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A woman serving her employer only has to worry about keeping the ropes with her employer. A woman serving her husband has to worry about her husband's rope to his employer and her own to her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:39 PM
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By that logic, the school system is still raising your child unless you plan to home-school, and the parent that work isn't raising their children either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:33 PM
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12 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:29 PM
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12 systems? Me love me some bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:29 PM
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So sorry. I know how badly you wanted to score a PPD dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:28 PM
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I get the impression that what happens is one of the following: A. Women have kids, cut hours at work and start picking up most of the chores, which establishes a dynamic where the woman is the one expected to do the cleaning. B. The man never actually did chores, and it is not until the woman stop doing them as well to take care of the children that she started realizing that her partner doesn't clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:31 AM
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I tend to get a good idea of how things look in real life as I get to research the places before I visit them. I will say though that I found Montreal overrated. I'm glad I went, but I'm not interested in going back. I also found old Brussels extremely beautiful, but too overcrowded to be enjoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:21 AM
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In english please. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:15 AM
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Who is that and what did they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:14 AM
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My n-count is high. Now I'm afraid men of PPD won't like me. Also penis and hentai. Thank you for listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:14 AM
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It's not accountability when you don't expect responsibility from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:09 AM
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I have around one hundred. Around two thirds were with vibrators I stole from my girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:07 AM
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penis
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:04 AM
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The lack of proper contact between your skin and their body fluids prevents full emotional connection from developing. People who use condoms, particularly women because of sexist biological reasons I won't explain, lose their pair-bonding ability. Only people who hit it raw are marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:04 AM
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It's controversial because it's incredibly gendered and perceived as unfair. I'd argue that women's preference for men with high income is controversial as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:21 AM
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In the porno scenario, the police officer would have turned out to be a stripper and the three of us would have ended in a threesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:53 PM
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No matter how terrible and slutty men are. They deserve to have fun with slutty terrible women free of consequence. Consequences are for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:50 PM
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I know licking toilets is bad and I apologize for all the saliva I left around your toilet seat. Please marry me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:48 PM
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No. It's hard to imagine a world where young dumb hot broke dudes are seeking me as their sugar mama and for my glorious better than average armpits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:45 PM
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OMG, are you seriously telling me redpillers are secretly attracted to high n-count women who will suck their bank accounts dry?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:42 PM
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They're probably in the same place where the average looking women hanging out in yachts with rich dudes are at.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:40 PM
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Tall blonde dude with a square jaw slapped my ass and I grabbed him by the dick. He called the police on me. I threatened the officer with a blow job, so he let me go because he didn't want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:38 PM
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That and being afraid of being smelly after a long day of work were the reasons we didn't have sex the first night I went to his apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:43 PM
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stay at home moms
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:18 AM
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I like to put my bare ass on the face of men I love, cameras and red carpet and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:15 AM
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Is it my posts about armpits that offend you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:13 AM
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Sorry, but all my money goes to pay for OnlyFans of men with sexy feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:02 AM
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Men who fucks around complaining that women who fuck around aren't trustworthy. Pretty standards for red pill. I'm still waiting for a song about a man who prefers SAHMs while he also complains about alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:59 AM
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This body isn't attractive: This is the only type of body I'm willing to fuck. Hypergamy and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:16 AM
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I like to use big penises to get cell reception while I'm in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:13 AM
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Blue pill is viagra. Nothing feminine about a hard dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:09 AM
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Only women get the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:06 AM
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He wants to be the little girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:04 AM
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Big Boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:02 AM
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Traditional women marry young and money plays a big factor in who they marry. Men are also afraid of being wanted for their wallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:01 AM
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I like wolves more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:59 AM
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Only to women or to the men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:21 PM
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There's more of a cultural push for men to be promiscuous. Society just finds in normal and not half as triggering as when women sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:20 PM
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If a woman spreads her pussy at the drop of a hat, it’s because she craves intimacy and wants to leverage sex. It doesn't makes sense because of this specific assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:15 PM
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Biologically speaking, promiscuous men are unreliable because they're less likely to invest and more likely to get poached, and women are better of securing resources from several men through prostitution, but this is an argument that nobody makes because it's inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:53 AM
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Literally any woman can be one if she wanted to. Meanwhile being the guy she fucks is way harder than the relationship guy Not this argument again. It's easier for women to get laid because men have lower standards. You're basically expecting women to have high standards while condoning low ones in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:28 AM
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Just look at the twitter threads with Maegan Hall and at men's comments on any n-count thread. Here's an example: Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? : PurplePillDebate (reddit.com)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:25 AM
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I'm not a privacy expert, but you can do reverse image search with someone's picture, assuming the picture is public somewhere else. Pictures also have metadata that might include the location where it was taken. Not sure how Reddit handles that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:13 PM
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It amazes me how often I hear this argument. It's almost as if many of you believe that relationship and commitment are something men give women but not the other way around, or that when these two come from a woman they aren't valuable and the man who married the woman didn't get anything in return. Furthermore, the women in these marriages got cheated on, as I implied in my comment, so there was more commitment on the woman's side than on the man's. As for resources, most of these women worked…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:02 PM
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It was a woman who posted pictures of her face and gave details about her profession and state. She didn't post all of these in the same comment, but anybody with time and motivation could have easily put all the pieces together. Someone did exactly that. They found her social media and exposed her on PPD. This woman and the people who doxed her no longer use PPD, as far as I'm aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:52 PM
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Sh!t, you discovered my alt account.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:47 PM
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No, only my psychiatrist says that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:26 PM
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Yes, I understand why some men have a problem with being seen as the relationship guy. I also believe that these men make these many assumptions about what women because they also see women through the madonna/whore lens. You'd be surprised how many men I've heard saying something along the lines of "she's not the most adventurous/attractive woman I've had, but unlike those other sluts she has values and motherly qualities". Many of these men ended up marrying women much less attractive than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:21 PM
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Users will have to tap on the post itself to see the number of likes, reposts and comments it has. They will be able to see them if they tap the tweet. I guess he's trying to increase engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:01 PM
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Then don't :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:00 PM
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Everything that's not down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:56 PM
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Are you comfortable showing your face on reddit? I wouldn't do that. Someone here got doxed a while ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:55 PM
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Didn't you see yesterday's post?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:50 PM
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Nothing. You're free to believe anything you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:50 PM
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No, would men wait though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:42 PM
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I have rejected men for their sexual behavior and none of them took it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:41 PM
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Except that many of these men often express the desire to punish these women and believe that bad treatment against them is justifiable. Just look at PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:40 PM
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I actually have a good job I like, I just don't like horses :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:38 PM
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Only if the goat pays rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:35 PM
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No as it is very certain that the horse isn't your offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:34 PM
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Having a horse is the most emasculating thing a man can do. Imagine pouring thousands of dollars on land, food and training of a living being that's not even your own species. Raising horses is the ultimate act of cuckoldry, and the more horses you have the more of a cuck you are be. Doesn't apply to women because vagina. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:13 PM
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Not post on PPD and take regular showers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:49 AM
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He used to be a Chad, but he then started smoking crack and lost all the front teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:16 AM
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Yes, he bought each one of them a house with money he stole from the pension fund.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:14 AM
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Nope, I'm not interested in children and I'm not sure why so many people try to convince me that I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:12 AM
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Female emu lay eggs and let the males sit on those while they go and fuck around some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:10 AM
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Q4W: Hey ladies, imagine you have a boyfriend who says he loves you. He leaves skid marks in his underwear that he expects you to wash and his armpits smell like onions and curry. Would you cancel the wedding if you learned that his 7 ex-wives got a diamond ring each while you just got a CZ ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:09 AM
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You should have your degree by 30. Especially women get through school far quicker. plenty of degrees don't pay. Almost all women want kids and around 30, a switch goes off in most women. I'm 30 and don't remember a single time when I wanted children. Many of my friends feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:01 AM
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Not every woman is interested in long term relationships or children. There are other people who are more deserving of your pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:00 AM
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So this dude has a trail of failed marriages, is bad in bed and is in a bad shape. Why should I marry him in the first place? I'm saying this as someone who didn't want a wedding or a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:54 AM
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It's much higher than average, but might be considered average in some very sexual circles. Not sure who Brittany Renner is though. Stop comparing your sexual life with that of other people who might be in different circles and different standards to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:44 PM
1

Unusual kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:39 PM
1

raccoons > everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:38 PM
2

What about vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:44 PM
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There's nothing I admire more than a well shaven buttcrack because it's something very few people can achieve. God bless them nice buttcracks!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:43 PM
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I've found more than 35 guys to be attractive. Not sure how this is strange. I also get the impression that women with high n-counts and women who have had one night stands or very short term arrangements do not necessarily find all their sexual partners overly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:39 PM
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yeah, true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:32 PM
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Sexual revolution starts at home. Not with the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:40 PM
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Sexual revolution simply made many sexual behaviors more acceptable. It is also in women's interest to be able to act on her sexual impulses and attraction without being shamed. This is something that many forms of feminism promote. You're attributing sexual revolution to men in your first comment. Many men still suffer from madonna-whore complex. More sex in the media or for consumption is not a form of sexual liberation, which is what I'm assuming sexual revolution is in this context, as this …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:22 PM
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The same way you describe in your OP. The guy wants a relationship and doesn't feel satisfied by sex only. The woman doesn't want more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:10 PM
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Well, it doesn't sound like you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:09 PM
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There's nothing more liberating than living your life on your terms without the constant need of seeking everyone's respect. Women spend too much time restricting their own behavior to meet hypocritical and unfair standards. Men get used for sex by women all the time, society just doesn't expect men to bend over and backwards to some stupid purity standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:56 AM
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No. You know men and women are different right? That's also for their genitalia. Different genitalia different experience. Have you heard of the orgasm gap? Or the pleasure gap? Well those are already heavy differences and they just get worse when talking about random hookups. Are you familiar with the word "average"? Literally not what I said You didn't say it, but strongly implied it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:45 AM
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Isn't that what many men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:43 AM
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It wasn't hard though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:40 AM
1

why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:51 PM
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I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:30 PM
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Receiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:30 PM
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I was just being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:29 PM
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I'll give you those for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:00 PM
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Too much bitching about casual sex and not enough of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:53 PM
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I need to know. Meet me today at a place we'll agree to later. I'll bring $10,000, all cash. Please make sure nobody is following you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:51 PM
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PPD crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:48 PM
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I had a very high body count when I married my husband. He never suspected the amount of chads buried underneath our garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:46 PM
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Males being horny-brained and the general tides of change “technological media innovations” “civil rights” “human rights” etc etc brought on the “sexual revolution.” As a horny-brained woman I'm glad that I didn't have to wait for marriage anymore, or pursue sex even when there were no men around who I wanted a relationship with. Not everything sexual revolves around men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:41 PM
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Not exactly the point of the thread, but I'd argue that there are many wings of feminism that also see casual sex as being used and believe that casual sex is an invention of the patriarchy. It's a very sexist form of feminism that reminds me of the horseshoe theory, but it's real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:37 PM
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I then ended it. He wanted more I didn’t. Truth was I didn’t see him as longterm relationship material for reasons I won’t get into. That doesn't happen on PPD. Only women want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:30 PM
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That's one way to put it, I'd say casual sex is way more in favor of men generally It's in favor of whoever wants it. Those few who do don't make the rule You're not saying most women don't want casual sex, you're basically saying that no woman wants casual sex. You're making the assumption that a random woman who says she enjoyed he encounter is lying or delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:24 PM
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ass-eating > buttsex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:20 PM
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You have a good man by your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:57 PM
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Yeah, you should, there's no way that as a woman, you don't have an army of 100.5 simps, a million dollar onlyfans account, 5.6 best girlfriends and a gay guyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:56 PM
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I think this is more tied to the idea that a woman's worth is based on getting picked by a guy and a lavish wedding is a great way to show this. Engagement rings and surname change also symbolize this. I understand spending thousands of dollars on a wedding if the couple has the money and is the romantic type that just likes to celebrate, but spending money you don't actually have as a symbol of status is dumb. My partner and I didn't get engagement rings, held the ceremony at my parents' house …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:54 PM
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I bet he eats ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:42 PM
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You're obviously not a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:39 PM
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If you're taking him for dinner, please make sure he puts out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:37 PM
2

What about penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:35 PM
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Because there's a longstanding notion that sex outside relationships degrades women and the men who marry them. It's similar to women who will put with any kind of shit from men but God forbid the dude doesn't have a high paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:33 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:28 PM
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Your question comes from the assumption that casual sex exists to serve men and that any woman participating in it has lacks sex drive or motivations of her own. This says more about yourself than any man or woman who has casual sex. Some women like casual sex and they don't care how men see them anymore than men care how women who have casual sex with them see them. Casual sex itself isn't liberating. Having sex on your own terms without caring about someone else's approval is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:25 PM
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This is only one factor and it doesn't explain why sexual assault that doesn't involve the use of force is still seen as less serious when it's against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:48 PM
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There's no PPD without drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:04 PM
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By browsing PPD for a few more minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:03 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:30 PM
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I've only been to one wedding and that was like 10 years ago. There was some ballad for the couple to dance to. I assume that playing ballads is a common practice, but I might be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:29 PM
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Plenty of ugly women with tattoos get married. A woman isn't ruined just because she isn't someone's cup of tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:27 PM
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This is one of the reasons, but not the only one. The difference in physical strength doesn't explain why randomly touching a woman in a crowded space where the man can't really do much more than that is seen as more offensive than when a woman does the same to a man. It doesn't explain either much of the trauma women suffer after sexual assault revolves around women feeling dirty and not around being afraid for their physical safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:25 PM
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Working a good job can make you happier as long as you're also willing to leave some of the chores to your partner. Many women still feel responsible for running the house on their own and they shouldn't. That ain't feminism's fault, that's just a holdover from older times when women were expected to prioritize family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:20 PM
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Because women are still expected to be the primary caregivers and homemakers. There are plenty of women with children and careers. These women also marry men who do their share of childcare, and would never stay or even marry/cohabitate with a man who leaves everything to his partners. You get what you're willing to tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:15 PM
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Getting touched by a stranger is an invasion of my personal space. I'm pretty sure most men wouldn't appreciate that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:40 PM
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He says women's breasts feel like bags of sand He posts on PPD about not getting sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:36 PM
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I generally agree that that you can't schedule sex/romance, but comfort is also a factor is how fast you should move. Having a stranger holding my hand, or trying to kiss me out of nowhere would turn me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:33 PM
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People in my life know I'm a pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:26 PM
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I want someone who is nice, kind, caring, doesn't insult or abuse me, someone who I have a intellectual and emotional connection with and can share a laugh with. That's all. No, they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:26 PM
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Men don't need to be conventionally attractive to be sexually attractive to a woman, but they need to be her type. If a man is not a woman's type, either in terms of looks or mannerisms, money is unlikely to compensate for it. I know many guys who are unattractive to me. They didn't become any less unattractive after I discovered they had money or where business savvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:24 PM
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This might not be a popular opinion, but one of the reasons why female on male sexual assault is trivialized is because the way society perceives sexual assault is closely tied to the way society perceives male and female sexualities. Society at large still values purity in women to some extent. Sexual assault against women is not only violence against the person, but it is also seen as an assault to female purity. Men often face the apposite problem. They're expected to have experience and aggr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:18 PM
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It's a category that's hard to win. This place is a virtual psychiatric ward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:09 AM
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I was a virgin myself and I've never ever held such an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:55 AM
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Because bitchy annoying women are fun and will make your homelife into a rollercoaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:47 AM
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I've never understood this line of thinking. How does marriage benefit women more than men and why should men be incentivized to get married by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:44 AM
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Bold of them to believe that most families subsidize the lifestyle of adult children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:40 AM
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I bring around 65% of the income, but I work from home some days. I do more cooking on those days. Most other days he does the cooking and I do the cleaning. We clean floors and bathroom 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:34 AM
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If you want sex, you should sit and patiently wait for women to offer sex AFTER many many MANY long years of a relationship, thats WHEN women would prefer sex! not all this "if im SUPER sexist, thatll get me early sex" there is NO "early" sex. No, I don't want to wait for sex "many long years of relationship". I have sexual needs and the sexual aspect of a relationship is essential for this relationship to form. Ironically, men who wait to have sex because they don't want to "disrespect" the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:31 AM
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Imagine being so self-entitled to think that a woman keeping her own surname and a man doing chores in his own house is a crime against humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:22 AM
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That's why I made the comment. Why do women need to have a reason to keep their surname when men can keep their just because they want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:20 AM
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SO you're settling? OMG!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:23 AM
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My mom and my dad kept their last names. I have both last names. If I had kids, which I'm not planning to, we'd give them husband's last name and my first last name, exactly like my parents did with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:22 AM
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Men aren't even expected to take their wives last name? Why do women need an excuse to keep theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:20 AM
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You really want an LTR or you're just tired of dating around? They're two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:18 AM
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Men who don't want a family either are great matches for these women. You sound like someone who thinks starting a family is an obligation and that NSA sex is some sort of punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:11 AM
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I have both my father's and my mother's last name. My father's is my first one so I sometimes shorten it. What people assume is their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:04 AM
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I lifted the toilet seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:01 AM
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I'd hate to have anything to do with these men, but if I had a gun pointed at me and was forced between being the e-thot and the wife of a guy cheating with e-thots I'd rather be the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:59 PM
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lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:57 PM
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by "super soaker" you mean WAP?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:56 PM
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ha ha ha, lol, you're so funny. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:56 PM
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Then it means the woman can expect monogamy from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:55 PM
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If she's not looking for a relationship with the guy she is looking at him as a piece of meat. Whether that guy is physically more attractive than she is is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:54 PM
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Does a man who's willing to sleep with a woman who just says "yes" respects himself and sees himself as a person? Does a woman who only wants casual sex respect the men she sleeps with?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:13 PM
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I will say I simply don't think it's possible for a woman to love a man and sleep with another man, whereas I don't think the same is true for men. What you think is irrelevant. Both men and women can and do feel sexual attraction towards people other than their partners, and can act on it in spaces where monogamy is not expected, which is the case with open relationships If you're dating a guy who is one of the greatest athletes or performers in the world, he has 8s and 9s throwing themselves a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:10 PM
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1)The guy is not my type. I can't describe it but I know when I see it. 2) Violence aside, hypocrisy and double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:54 PM
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In my experience, men like that aren't as great as they think they are. They also get very defensive when it's the woman who doesn't want to see them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:50 PM
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I feel sorry for your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:46 PM
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Are you ok? I think you should take a break from this site and work on your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:44 PM
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I've no problem with bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:43 PM
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I mean, there are many factors at play when it comes to getting sex and romance. Being mean does reduce your chances after a certain point, but here we're talking about tinder. That's an app where you swipe on people based on how they look. Being a good person doesn't get you in the door when it comes to these.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:40 PM
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The difference between the two is honesty. A man who's upfront about wanting an open relationship is giving you the opportunity to decide whether you want the same or not. A man who pretends to be pro-family values and then goes on to cheat on you didn't give you the opportunity to consent to the relationship under these terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:35 PM
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I'm not really sure what's so shocking about this. Men are much more open than women to casual sex and are known to value a woman's appearance. Why should a woman who wants casual sex refrain from it or not choose men based on appearance, when that's one of the few things that matter to someone who's not planning to see you for more than a few nights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:32 PM
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And a big reason why they're like this is because women accept them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:10 PM
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pictures or it didn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:20 PM
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don't all PPD topics end up like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:19 PM
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I think I wouldn't ne able to respect a man who engages in behaviors he doesn't respect women for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:19 PM
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When is the anal sex weekly discussion thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:03 PM
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Not all western women are American.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:00 PM
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If you judge people for their behavior, people are allowed to judge you for yours. Women who openly talk about wanting rich men also get judged and called names. Why is it such a tragedy when men get called names for theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:59 PM
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It's not. If you go on a date with a non-promiscuous woman, and then another, and another one... what kind of backlash are you going to get for not having dated high n-count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:10 PM
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Yes, my armpits aren't a conspiracy theory, they're a fact, and they smell nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:06 PM
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By average I mean not attractive nor unattractive. They were not obese, but they weren't pretty/handsome either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:05 PM
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People using the word publicly could get fired from their jobs. People don't get fired for not dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:03 PM
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I agree. North Korea doesn't exist either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:59 PM
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Men are angry at women's attraction because they refuse to accept that it works differently than theirs. Men are angry at women's attraction because it filters men who aren't up to their standards, regardless of how that attraction works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:24 PM
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What do you mean "allowed"? There's no forced marriage over here. You're can literally reject women for any reason you see fit. What you're actually asking is if women look down on relationship oriented guys with no casual experience who prefer relationship oriented women with no casual experience. The answer is "no", at least most of us don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:21 PM
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I lived in one of these countries and I was amazed to see how these women were considered "easy" by the men actively seeking casual sex. What wasn't so amazing was the fact that once these "easy" western women left our country, it us good well behaved non-western women who would put with these dude's crap during relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:17 PM
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There are many unflattering stereotypes about western men and women were I grew up and at the same time, scoring a mediocre western man or woman for these same people was considered an achievement. I remember many guys who would bad-mouth western women, but then drool over average looking Americans. Most people are neutral to westerners, but there was a vocal minority that acted in the way I described.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:11 PM
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Visiting African countries and taking insta photos is always a fun thing because folks back in the US literally still think people live in huts. Africa actually exists?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:06 PM
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Their existence is an affront to God-fearing families with a white picket fence and 2.1 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:48 PM
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Like a big yoga studio.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:45 PM
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Where are these men inviting women to trips?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:42 PM
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If you live with your parents and get your essentials paid off by them, working retail or fast food for a year or two can save you enough money to travel. Food and accommodation are cheap in South East Asia and many places in Latin America, while getting from one country to another is ridiculously easy when you're in Europe. Furthermore, many 25 year old college grads have make enough money to travel if they have a decent job relatively cheap rent and no expensive vehicles.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:37 PM
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The actual truth is that capitalists are the ones who are able to think long term, that’s how they gained an advantage over the rest. They gained advantage over the rest by providing the right product/service to the right people and by having the right amount of capital to make it profitable. Long term thinking is useful IF you have certainty about the future or get lucky about the future. Plenty of people have thought long-term and got fucked over as much as those thinking short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:28 PM
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Better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:17 PM
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His frame-holding technique is not the best
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:54 PM
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Over here, but you better have the dinner ready when I get home, and you better serve it with no clothes on. Also, you're not allowed to leave the house unless you're with me, and when you are with me on the street, you have to walk 2 meters behind me. Does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 10:03 PM
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Sounds inappropriate. I'll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:59 PM
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I've said this once and I'm gonna say this again: you guy don't know how to hold frame. This is how you do it, in case you're wondering. You will have no problem with the ladies if you hold frame like this gentleman: https://preview.redd.it/17s7p6tkpvpb1.png?width=720&format=png&auto=webp&s=2ceb7c5a0d26a25618ecfc9d3e6bbc60d5ce351f
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:58 PM
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Recruiters should simp harder and stop sending those dick pics to their potential employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:21 PM
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Well, not all women dream of getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:20 PM
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As men become more broke, there are less husband-able men overall. I mean women could refuse to date poor men but that would require self-respect which a lot of women don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:02 PM
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But they say they can't have standards, so I'm assuming someone is forcing them to date certain women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:59 PM
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Ah yes, women should keep their n counts low so men have more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:58 PM
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There are people who think like this, but they're not the majority. Most hysteria around sex boils down to what women do to themselves and to what men do to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:18 AM
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You have to people starting a conversation for no other reason than finding each other hot. These people don't know each other, there's no context as to suggest that they might have something in common and the whole process of swiping left and right feels like shopping for shoes. You can't really expect much from dating apps. You might occasionally hit gold, but that won't be it most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:17 AM
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I have no idea to be honest. I've never seen myself in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:13 AM
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Men can't have body-count standards Who is forcing them to date and marry high body count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:12 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:09 AM
1

PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:07 AM
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Sex work doesn’t exist in a vacuum, if allowed to be legal it will just permeate until every woman is either a. A full on prostitute, or b. A future prostitute. Pornography, glamour modelling and stripping are sex work and they're pretty much legal in most countries. Prostitution is also legal in many countries. Only a small share of women engages in sex work. Like sex objects at anyone’s disposal. There are male sex workers and men in general are expected to be more open to sex, and nobody sees…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:03 AM
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How much would you get paid for 3 n-count threads per day?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:50 PM
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Data also shows that men with higher n-counts are more likely to cheat and less likely to be sexually satisfied in their relationships. This part of the data gets always ignored by the "female hoes bad" proponents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:49 PM
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Men are judged by their n-count and very promiscuous can reduce their chances of a relationship with certain women. The difference is that their n-count or perceived experience is much less likely to be used as a shaming tactic hence the lack of derogatory names for promiscuous names. Even when men are judged for their promiscuity, most of the judgement comes for what they do to women, not to themselves which implies that sex actually degrades the woman and not the man she slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:47 PM
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Do people judge low n-count? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:38 PM
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I would love to love every man I've shared my bed and bedroom with, but them mofos don't stop snoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:37 PM
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Have you ever considered working on your anger issues and projection tendencies with a shrink?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:31 PM
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is this a new mlm company?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:18 AM
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I actually lied up the one time I asked. My husband didn't ask, but he assumes that it's higher than it actually is. I've never bothered to correct him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:21 PM
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Can't speak for other women, but the men I wanted to keep things with strictly casual were men that I wasn't feeling passionate about or men that had a major flaw I didn't want to deal with long term. My casual partners weren't more attractive than my husband. If I really like a guy I don't aim for something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:19 PM
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It's even harder to meet your dad while the dude is still in bed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:13 PM
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The only upsetting thing about n-count is that most people don't know how to eat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:11 PM
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My armpits are really smart, and they type real good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:09 PM
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Nobody brainwashed me. I happen to deserve queen treatment because I'm the sovereign ruler of this land. Now bend the knee young knight, or I will throw you in the dungeon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:08 PM
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Happy 9/11 folks! May you have a blast on this special day!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:02 PM
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Feeling more invested is something that the other person might sense and this might come off as needy. Reach out to them once or twice later and if they never take initiative then you know it's time to move on. Also keep in mind that if you don't have some sort of connection with the people you're reaching out to it's normal for at least some of them to not seek you out because of the lack of a connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:53 PM
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Do I act inappropriately towards PPD men? I'm I thirsty for PPD male attention? Does my n-count seem high? What about armpits?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:47 PM
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Wrong! I haven't fucked anybody from PPD yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:45 PM
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Well, you're getting confused about the target of the attack. I'm aware of that, but that's not relevant given that it's her past or the idea of her past that's weaponized against her. I'm also aware that many men see their partner's past as shameful, but it's still not fair to me as a woman to be expected to abstain from certain behaviors that men don't have to just to appeal to them. These men are free not to look at me or to leave. It can only be used to shame her or Logan if they actually fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:44 PM
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It's a choice. Like why you may not want to do drugs if you might eventually want a government job or be tested at your current job. You can choose to do it anyway, but then just be aware of the potential consequences. Drugs have consequences such as addiction and physical harm if done in excess. The loss of job opportunities because you are currently using drugs is a bigger consequence than some dude mocking you on the internet, not to mention that it's a fair consequence because being high on …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:12 AM
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Why should anyone conduct their life just to avoid unfair criticism? I have a past that I'm aware could be used as a smear campaign against me. Hell, I could have no past at all and get people to spread lies about me. I just don't want to live my life according someone else's standards so some asshole and whoever who believes me doesn't judge me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:13 AM
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We love you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:06 AM
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Since slut tells are real, what's my n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:48 AM
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Good, because I just lied about my f-count. My arms have been in 50 different Chadholes. Each one of them was a slut who lost his pair-bonding due to excessive intra-anal activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:46 AM
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I have several suggestions for a thread that have never been brought to PPD: -Women who have anal with Chad but not me -Women who slept with Chad 3 dates before the first date, but made me wait til marriage -The human status of men below 6'0 ft -Passport bros -My armpits
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:40 AM
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There's nothing that turns the average PPDer more than the image of Chad fucking someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:36 AM
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Asking all the right questions. Once I stuck the whole arm up Chad's butthole. Wondering if that makes me a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:34 AM
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Those are untouchable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:32 AM
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I'd shave my butthole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:31 AM
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And well, there is no companionship, only a mask we all use to fool women in order to get some sex... If that's how you feel about women, don't get surprised if women leave when you don't pay the right price.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:30 AM
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Casual sex is a benefit to women who like casual sex. Women who don't like it can always abstain from it. It feels good when you go out with a man without worrying that your own sexual needs might lead to your family dishonoring or forcing you to marry the man you slept with, like happened to women who gave into their sexual desires 100 years ago. Women who take up 50% of the bill, can always leave 50% of the housework to their partner, and dump him if he refuses to do his fair share.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:27 AM
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You're not purchasing sex if the woman splits the bill, unless you consider companionship a form of payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:19 AM
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Here, but now you need to lick them: https://i.pinimg.com/600x315/c2/f4/82/c2f482b8daa41ee1b60e2ee85d306158.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:17 AM
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then don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:39 PM
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That's not what I keep hearing on PPD. Average men can only have sex if they betabux of pay for escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:38 PM
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So you're essentially purchasing sex. If the provision of goods and services stop, why should women stick?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:05 PM
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I'm really sorry about your aunt. On the other hand, your posting history suggests that you also treat women as disposable so why should women stick to you in the good and in the bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:02 PM
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I thought only chads could have casual sex. You also have no idea what kind of women he slept with. You just found a comment that contradicts your expectations so now you're trying to spin the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:55 PM
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I know, and this leaves them breathless too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:00 AM
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I don't even like fatties but I would get free BJs from fattie women between 23-35 BMI if it required no effort. This attitude is often obvious in men who are just desperate to get laid and it turns women off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:00 AM
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That's how I met my husband, except that I accidentally sat on his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:56 AM
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OP asked about "strangers" and I specifically said "don't touch" and "don't make sexual comments". What kind of mental and health issues are you gonna have if you don't tell that random hottie that you like her ass while slapping her on the butt?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:51 AM
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Sounds crazy, but I don't even remember who was the first to talk about it. To answer your question, yes, I think it's ok for women to start it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:45 PM
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This is what I said in my first reply: I find the idea of waiting to be asked to be legally bound someone utterly strange. I don't believe in proposals, at least not in the "would you marry me?" types. I believe that marriage should be discussed in the same way that any other legal agreement. Whoever thinks about it first should mention it first. And no, I don't care for rings. I wouldn't ask for one and I wouldn't buy one either. There are better things to spend our money on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:41 PM
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Nobody proposed and we don't have a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:36 PM
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You're welcome. I forgot to add: you don't need to worry about a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:35 PM
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Hard disagree to both statements: You can't control your thoughts. Finding people sexually appealing is normal and the hysteria around men viewing women in a sexual light implies that something about being a sexual being as a woman is wrong. What you should never do is acting on that desire. Don't touch, don't make any sexual comments about me and we're good. The idea that women don't view men (or other women) in a sexual light has been debunked by brain imaging studies and other studies that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:31 PM
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No, I think that the one who makes more needs to pay more. We both initiate sex and marriage was a mutual agreement. I find the idea of waiting to be asked to be legally bound someone utterly strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:23 PM
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No, he doesn't need to have a degree to be attractive, but if he's in my circle of friends he will likely have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:19 PM
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NVM, I thought OP said the worst "you've heard".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:54 PM
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If he hits you he loves you. Stay with him!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:50 PM
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Is that a real advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:49 PM
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Actually he did, if n-count and attention from women are a marker for options as TRP argues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:47 PM
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God doesn't eat ass and goes around impregnating random teenagers with the Holy Spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:23 PM
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Many women grew up with a mother who took care of most of the chores. They grow up to dislike it while simultaneously feeling that housework is their responsibility. They don't vet men accordingly and always pick up after him one in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:22 PM
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I prefer a man who doesn't treat me like a child. I don't find it attractive when men insist to pay for everything. I'd rather have someone who treats me as an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:55 PM
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Settling is getting with someone you don't actually find attractive. Being with someone you recognize is flawed, but someone you're attracted to is not settling. If none of the people you're attracted to are attracted to you them there's the option of being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:58 PM
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Just look at your average streamer/YouTuber or even go out and look what life your neighbours are living. It's opposite of celebrity culture. I don't know many slutty woman who didn't marry/partnered up long term with the exact type of man that redpillers admire. Those who married unattractive men ended with them because they were unattractive themselves, not because they were sluts. From evolutionary standpoint a promiscuous woman is more likely to be a terrible mother. From an evolutionary sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:54 PM
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I've never had a man who wanted something long term with me ask. Not even my husband asked about my number even though he assumes it's high and jokes about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:49 PM
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The relationships you're talking about fail because the man bought into this garbage about men and women being equal. Nope, these relationships failed because these men got with lazy women and were surprised that they were lazy a few years in. Plenty of women contribute to the household expenses. He thought he deserved an equal partner in helping pay for things. Women don't actually think like that. I'm a woman and I contribute to a big share of expenses at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:46 PM
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But fact is that sluts still get married. And another fact is that many of these sluts also marry promiscuous men, so many of the problems caused by past promiscuity are also caused by man's pasts as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:42 PM
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Studies also show that fertility rates were higher at the beginning in 1900s than they are today, and even higher in the first half of the 1800s were it peaked at 7.0. It's also safe to assume that women in those times had children at a younger age. If economy and time were the main factors driving childlessness, fertility rates would be higher today than they were back then, as poverty back then was rampant, working shifts were very long, pay was low and quality of life was low as well as evide…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:39 PM
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I didn't want to waste my time educating you about all the other things you believe to be true but are not supported by any good data. I don't want to be educated by someone who bothers to write a response without actually addressing anything of what I've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:10 PM
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I don't know, some do I guess. The point is that not making enough money as a woman can be a deal breaker once the honeymoon phase ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:44 AM
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Divorce, losing half, losing children, going to prison for missing child support. This is the result of marrying women who either earn much less than you do, not body count. You also didn't address anything of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:43 AM
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They understand these slurs have a negative connotation but they don't understand the real world implication it has on a marriage viability, happiness, woman's behavior/fidelity, etc. They don't need to understand any of that. If that was the reason redpillers were "avoiding" promiscuous women they'd also avoid large age gaps, uneducated women or marrying women in their early 20s, but they don't. Furthermore, they would avoid high n-counts for themselves as more promiscuous men arse also shown t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:38 PM
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Men and women have completely different motives for working. A woman's job is her choice. Cool, but doesn't really matter to the guy she's after. He will stay with her if he likes the way she looks and likes being around her. I've seen relationships getting rocky because the woman refuses to work. Not all men dream of taking financial care of another adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:22 PM
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C'mon man. There are dozens of slurs for promiscuous women. Men constantly judge women by their revealing clothes, by how "easy" she's to get in bed, and say shit like "you can't make a hoe into a housewife". Men are aware, many just don't care enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:13 PM
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Because real life is not a red pill subreddit with unidimensional made-up women and men. Real life women might qualities that compensate for their promiscuity. Not all real life men care enough about promiscuity as to reject women who they perceive to be or to have been promiscuous. Many men, consciously or not, prefer women who are promiscuous or who have qualities that correlate with promiscuity. Promiscuous-looking women, I say "looking" because there's no way to accurately know someone numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:08 PM
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I've heard of "empty nest syndrome" for mothers who had their kids move out. So the logic of "Can't have empty nest syndrome if you never filled it to begin with" makes sense. I think the empty nest doesn't hit women who are simply mothers, but women who made their lives revolve around motherhood. I would imagine that mothers with careers or hobbies do well after their children are gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:08 PM
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Articles don't need to celebrate motherhood explicitly. Reporting on celebrities being pregnant, having children, talking about motherhood, or on regular people and their families pretty much sets motherhood as a norm. I can go weeks and often more than a month without seeing an article about the wonders of childlessness. If childless ness was the norm, nobody would need to be told how great it is so explicitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:58 PM
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Which modern society? For every article about how great being childfree is, there are five other either celebrating motherhood or reporting how x celeb just had a kid. Being a parent is still pretty much the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:49 PM
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I don't think there's much to be confused about here. You're pretty much choosing childlessness by being on the fence. You would be trying to conceive if you wanted children more than the status quo, but you're not. We me choices through inaction every single day and we don't even realize it. If having children wasn't such a big expectation the type of couples you're talking about would go on with their lives without even thinking about kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:44 PM
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Fertility rate today is the lowest it has been within more than 100 years. I really doubt our economy is doing worse today than it did during the two world wars or the great depression, especially considering that people at the beginning of the last century had to feed more mouths while also working more hours for a meagre pay. Marriage and children are increasingly seen as an option and not as an obligation. People actually stop to think about finances before having kids when they know that hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:28 PM
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When you care a lot about something you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:05 PM
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I'm moving to Latin America because American women have high n-counts and hate autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:35 AM
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I don’t think the real truth has come out yet. And it might not come at all. Celebrities have a life outside of tabloids we know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:27 PM
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It's not proof that men don't care, but it's proof that they don't care enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:18 PM
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Nobody who posts on PPD is normal :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:45 AM
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You can always bag a rich lady to take care of you if you're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:09 AM
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All relationships require mutual effort at some point, regardless of who's the one to take the first step. If I ask a guy out and he doesn't seem interested during the first date, or never texts me first then I have my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:46 PM
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They all seem good to me. B wants children, so might not be a good match if I wanted something long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:42 PM
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well, I know several dudes like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:41 PM
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I know what average means. Thank you, and no, it's not a sub eight. The men in question were overweight, slightly shorter than the average woman with a plain face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:34 PM
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I feel that as a woman, expecting men to lead puts me in the passenger seat. That's a good place to be at times, but when everything you do is dictated by someone else you start feeling very little control over your life. I'm aware there's the expectation for men to lead, but the only solution I see for men who don't want to be in that position all the time is to find a woman who is more egalitarian, not in the lip-service kind of way, but one who also acts in that manner. That said, it's very l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:32 PM
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And for many other women as well. Not all women dream of getting and n-count obsessed dude to commit to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:24 PM
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There are men a woman likes, there are men a woman doesn't. The hoes in question did end up with guys they seemed to be attractive. As someone with an n count above average, I like my husband more then I liked my hook ups, that's why they were hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:23 PM
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Why can't you be honest? I am honest. Something not fitting your narrative isn't dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:20 PM
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No, I understand that. There are many reasons why a horny person doesn't have sex. My point is that abstaining from sex just to keep a low n-count is not a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:37 PM
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And I just said that that hoes don't care what men like you describe want, that's why they don't want stop being hoes. What's so hard to understand about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:35 PM
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I thought men didn't get the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:07 PM
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Because you have competing other values and you aren’t making decisions in a vacuum What other values? Thinking that casual sex is wrong and that I need to abstain from it? Why should I abstain from it when the hypothetical man I'm dating won't abstain from it either if given the opportunity? It’s amazing how hard it can be for women to understand men We understand men, we just don't care enough to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:06 PM
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And why should hoes who don't like hypocrites care about what hypocrites want? Every hoe was once an inexperienced woman, she got experience because she wasn't interested in keeping this sort of men around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:02 PM
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I need a man who will let me sit on his face. Is that being submissive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:00 PM
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Worse for whom? The wife presumably keeps the baby and lies to her husband about paternity. The husband probably abandoned a child knowing its his. I'm not sure what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:59 PM
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Dad: He is actually your brother since I had an affair with his mom. Daughter: Thankfully we're from Alabama and I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:56 PM
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This is why I have a hard time taking all these moralizing cries seriously. These people claim to stand for morality, but only seem to remember the depravity going on in female led shows ignoring the decades of tv and film glorifying the same behavior in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:51 PM
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fuck the congrats... sorry, couldn't help myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:45 PM
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Many people would argue that you can have a high sex drive and avoid casual sex. While this is true to some extent, long term relationships are not always available. If I'm in between relationships and feel sexual desire, why should I pass the opportunity to have safe casual sex if it will satisfy my desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:47 PM
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He was specifically talking about tall men while conveniently ignoring the part where women prefer rich men, probably because he can't argue against the fact that this is a standard that is highly shamed by both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:28 PM
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And you are conveniently leaving out the findings for men from another study from the same institute. The higher the number of sexual partner a man has, the less satisfied he's with his marriage. Please refer to Table 2 and Figure 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:25 PM
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Most of the promiscuous men I know have actually low standards for who they sleep with and aren't particularly attractive either. To assume that most promiscuous men are celebrities or wealthy is a stretch, not to mention that many of these men with "arrangements" often marry women who are interested in the lifestyle they provide and allow cheating just to secure that lifestyle, not because the men themselves are particularly great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:19 PM
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What kind of value are they demonstrating? Most of the men who I know who fuck around dumpster dive or sleep with women who are also dumpster diving.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:15 PM
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If affordability is the issue, why do so many men care about women who fuck around and then manage to find long term partners? Most of the hoes I know are either married and in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:14 PM
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This is true, but although I say "men" I'm specifically referring to this category: Some men are promiscuous and judge promiscuous women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:55 PM
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Please, refer to the reply on your other comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:54 PM
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Do they also sleep with many men and think it's ok for them to do so? Not this "argument" again. They're sleeping with many women/people. They're also being promiscuous. So yes, that makes them hypocrites, just like being an unemployed woman bitching about unemployed men also makes her a hypocrite as her gender doesn't make her any less unemployed, just like a man's and the people he sleeps with genders don't make him any less promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:53 PM
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You can't even respond to a comment without sounding triggered. I know you don't give a shit about these men, just like many women who you consider not up to your standards don't really give a shit about you either. You dont live up to mine so you can keep dreaming about it, to dream is free. I'm not dreaming about men like you, and it sounds like this is exactly what bothers you. You're not special either and there is no reason why women or anybody else should change their behavior to validate …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:46 PM
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And then I saw him, the man with the face of a horny donkey and the body of a pregnant cow, but he was also 6'5. His height made him the most attractive person I ever laid my eyes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:42 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:37 AM
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Regardless, what I see being argued most in the manosphere is women who want to be provided for (traditional) but also want to go out to clubs and sleep around (not traditional). These women are just the equivalent of manospherian dudes who want to fuck around and then expect a good woman to drop her standards for him, to love him for who he is, but to be willing to depend financially on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:26 AM
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Not sure how that's relevant to anything I said. Why should promiscuous women care about how non-promiscuous women want to be perceived. Also, I never said men should want promiscuous women, I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy on promiscuous men who demand good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:23 AM
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Only gold digger even applies to that, but ok. Goldigger is used to criticize women who want to marry rich. You explicitly mentioned the word "rich". No, most men understand women biologically crave provisioning. We get that. Most men would not date a woman who openly says she wants a high earner/wealthy husband. This is one of the most complained about standards in the manosphere and other male spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:20 AM
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C'mon now. We both know women perceived to be promiscuous are insulted and labeled as "not girlfriend material" as soon as their seemingly promiscuous behavior becomes evident, before you even know if she expects you to pay or not. The men calling these women whores don't suddenly give them a free pass when they agree to go dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:18 AM
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They're hypocrites because they engage in a behavior they criticize women for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:33 AM
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"Women want tall, rich, handsome men because they're short, broke/lazy and ugly." - said no man ever. No, but they've called women goldiggers, prostitutes, entitled, height queens, desperate and so on. Why can't women understand the biological reasoning behind not wanting high n-count women regarding paternity/disease? I understand the "biological" explanation. I just think it's dishonest and self-serving. Women are called goldiggers despite any bio-explanation. You can also argue that promiscuo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:32 AM
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I addressed his arguments. Women aren't called insecure, but they're called entitled and goldiggers for having preferences. I'm not sure what else you want me to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:26 AM
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They're considered self-entitled and superficial. Women who prefer rich men are called golddiggers and, in the worst case scenarios, prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:40 AM
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Men are allowed to have standards and boundaries, but these standards and boundaries are also up for criticism. Men love to call women names for preferring rich, tall or hot men, so why hypocritical standards that men hold are off-limits when it comes to criticism? I've heard men who were interested in dating me calling women sluts and saying how promiscuous women were only good for sex. I couldn't force those guys to like promiscuous women, but I was entitled to reject them for their hypocrisy …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:56 AM
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I was a hoe and so was my husband. He's well aware of my history. i dont see no promiscuous hoe pricing guys for not caring about body count I've rejected guys for caring about body count. Keep in mind that I wasn't promiscuous by those guys standards, but these dudes did hold many double standards against women that I wasn't willing to put up with. You're writing a rant complaining about women and their standards, but the thing is, women also are entitled to reject men whose standards they disa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:48 AM
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People were talking about Taylor Swift non-stop in our work group chat, about how they had to get those tickets. None of those talking about it were women or gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:35 AM
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If a woman knows the guy only wants sex, but she accepts his advances because he doesn't want anything else from him, did she get used fro sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:10 AM
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My husband slept with a girlfriend before he met me on the first date. He didn't invite me to his apartment until a few dates in even though I was horny. It's really unfair how he made me wait for dick while giving dick to another chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:44 AM
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I use face cream, but aloe is good too. It also depends on your skin. Everyone's skin is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:34 AM
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Why you can't let her know you want to be a father and that you read all the books?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:40 AM
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Serial monogamy requires both parties to agree to be exclusive and in a relationship. Sleeping with someone with whom you're not in a relationship is not monogamy. By your logic, having one night stands is serial monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:37 AM
1

congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:31 AM
1

Don't shave very often because it can irritate the skin. Apply cream before you go to sleep them keep it hydrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:29 AM
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The guy I had sex with for the first time also did an amazing armpit licking job with pics and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:52 AM
1

Certified husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:51 AM
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Pretty much. It felt good physically, but the passion wasn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:13 PM
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The fact that alchol is almost always involved with these one night stands just proves that point. Alcohol actually decreases inhibition and leads people to act on impulses that they otherwise suppress. If anything, the use of alcohol might prove that a huge aspect in sexual restraint is social.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:11 PM
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I don't think his performance was bad. I actually had an orgasm. It's just that I wasn't attracted to him so reciprocating felt more like a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:58 PM
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Listen ladies: if a man ate Stacy's ass on a first date, but is making you wait 3 months to eat yours, he doesn't love you. Also, if a man has eaten too many asses then he's no longer boyfriend material. You all know that it's hard to get a man to eat pussy, let alone ass. If he has eaten more than 5 assess, or has eaten ass outside a committed relationship, he's for the streets because his pair-bonding ability as been damaged by the constant mouth-to-anus contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:55 PM
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24
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:44 PM
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Yes. I once hooked up with someone because I was curious about what it would be like having sex with him. It was meh. I wanted it to be over as soon as I started.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:42 PM
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I think it's more than the idea of submission. It's the idea that sex degrades women even when there's no actual sex, such as in the case of women wearing revealing clothes. Sex is often seen as something man take from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:34 PM
1

That's why you don't handle their baggage, you just spend with them one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:30 PM
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It does. There's the occasional informative post or funny comments, but nothing else. I have better things to do than trying to convince grown-ass men that I don't hate men shorter than 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:45 PM
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People here keep downvoting me when I say I know several men who have no problem finding women to have sex with, but struggle finding or keeping a long term relationship. It's always interpreted as there not being enough quality women for those men to date. Knowing these men, I know that very often they either have very low standards for casual sex and unrealistic standards for long term relationships, or them having tendencies that make these men unattractive for long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:05 PM
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I've heard that many times. This made me wonder what would be the point of a long term relationship if this was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:56 PM
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How many armpits should i lick before I'm a slut? How many armpits should he lick before he's a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:55 PM
1

what kind of advice did your grandmother give you? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:51 PM
1

Sounds like a serial killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:42 PM
2

The less you want in life the more power you have. This doesn't only apply to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:40 PM
2

Because women are still judged by how seriously a man takes them and marriage is sign that the woman was worthy enough to be picked up by someone. This is reflected by the fact that when a couple isn't married, many people assume it's because the man hasn't proposed and look at the woman with pity. The expectation that the woman waits for the man to propose doesn't help the 'cause either. Being a hitchhiker will always put you in a more desperate situation than being a driver who can decide whom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:39 PM
1

Found Eva Mendes' reddit account.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:23 PM
1

I thought I read "socialism". I was going to disagree, but then I realized you said "socialization". I have nothing to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:20 PM
1

why do you care what men on reddit call you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:15 PM
1

Sounds more like a fdser than a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:39 PM
1

'cause puritans don't eat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:37 PM
1

Spray pepper spray on my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:36 PM
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Having children is only the entire point of marriage and dating for people who don't see any other point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:32 PM
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Excuse me, but the direction in which a man's penis points is of utter importance to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:59 PM
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I don't really care about being thought of as a whore. What I do care about if being thought of as a whore by men who think men can't be whores or only women deserve bad treatment for being whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:56 PM
1

Wait, what does hobosexual mean? being sexually attracted to hobos or being a hobo who is sexually attracted to people that provide housing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:52 PM
1

That's impossible. PPD told me it's men who decide when to marry while women beg for a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:49 PM
1

Not everyone sees marriage as a romantic gesture. Many people see it as a legal agreement to be had under very specific circumstances. My partner and I got married after many years of living together for insurance purposes and to be able to take decisions in case one of us was incapacitated to do it. In fact, we were looking at a civil partnership/common law marriage, but couldn't do it because with some document issues. Many of my male friends got married because she wanted to, and many didn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:44 PM
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Probably depends on the country. I know that most women in the US and UK still take husband's surname. Don't know how accurate statistics are, but looks like less than 30% of women keep their surname in these places. These percentage is higher among high earning women, women with advanced degrees and immigrant women from countries where changing your surname isn't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:49 PM
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The difference is that you do charity to help existing human beings who need your help, and most of whom aren't good nor bad. You're arguing that one should reproduce for the small chance that one of your descendants might become the next messiah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:05 AM
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You can also donate money to charity, become a physician or a scientist, donate organs to those who need them and foster children who don't have parents. All these things have a certain, immediate and positive impact on society. Reproducing with the hopes that one of your descendants goes on to do some great things for the world does not. In fact, there's a chance that this descendent will become a corrupt politician/businessperson or mass murderer, or someone other that the world won't be too t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:12 AM
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Unless of course, they have children between the ages of 30 and 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:34 PM
1

Just like on BBC nature programs. Big Black Cock nature programs? Big British Cock nature programs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:34 PM
1

I control whether it goes down my throat or spat into my lover's left eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:32 PM
2

Fingers are glued to PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:29 PM
1

They're all white and male?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:23 PM
2

I don't understand what your getting at. You say women who don't have kids at 30 will never have them. Stats clearly show that a significant number of mother had their first after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:21 PM
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I'm a woman. I don't care about dom men in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:19 PM
2

A significant proportion of women in the US and probably in much of the Western world have their first child in their 30s. I'm not sure where people are getting the idea that a woman who doesn't have kids by 30 will never have them. For most highly educated women, motherhood doesn’t start until the 30s | Pew Research Center
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:47 PM
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I'm not sure about "most" and "subhuman". Also, you don't need to be liked by everyone, just by the people you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:40 PM
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Great to know your value is like really high.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:38 PM
1

Well, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:34 PM
1

Many women aren't traditionally feminine. Why should they embrace something they don't naturally have?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:32 PM
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People say that if he wanted he would, but I don't think this is necessarily the case. If a man is shy or doesn't think you're interested he won't make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:29 PM
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Why you want the upper hand? With this mentality, you should be thinking of adopting, not marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:27 PM
1

Phyllis Schlafly spreading truths the world, especially young women, need to hear: A-Z Quotes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:37 PM
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My most conservative opinion is that I hate paying taxes... but will secretly love handouts for my business. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:15 PM
1

Ah yes, conservatives always relying on facts and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:11 PM
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To me, a man's future or present earnings are important for practical purposes. If I'm young and still living with my parents, I don't want a man who's not working towards being independent. If I'm already older and dating men my age, then I don't want to cohabitate with/marry a man who won't contribute to the household finances. None of these are relevant to whether I find a man sexually attractive. Sexual attraction is triggered by a man's looks and the way he carries himself. A man's bank acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:08 PM
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Insisting that I should take his last name, keep my level of sexual experience low and stay home as he "supports" me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:54 PM
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As long as we normalize cheating men knowing theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:39 PM
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Do you realize that many of the women who are in retail and service sector by their own volition are also looking for men with money to finance their lifestyle? Would you be genuinely ok with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:35 PM
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Being "used" is part of feeling shame, and studies on casual sex regret also show how women report feeling "guilty", "dirty" and "cheap". The feeling of emptiness and being used comes from having had an experience that didn't benefit you as much as advertised or expected. Do you feel used and empty when you go to an expensive restaurant just to find out the food is overpriced? Do you also feel used and empty when you finally arrive to a new city only to realize it's an expensive tourist trap? Of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:26 PM
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/u/Ainsleygz Can't wait for her to start horny-banning all the undesirables.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:28 PM
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Feeling used and worthless for having sex implies there's something wrong about sex. This is not a feeling you get from doing things you're uninterested in when those things aren't stigmatized. The fact that you rarely hear men saying the same after having casual sex reflects the differences between how women are treated for having casual sex and men doing the same. Again, there's a lot of research that supports the fact that women are still stigmatized for having sex and rejected by both men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:22 PM
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No, I don't. Those three were the only ones from strangers I remember. I think it's cultural. Men here don't even approach women, but in some other places they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:59 PM
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I'm more shocked that some newspaper made space for this article.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:50 PM
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I feel that many of these tropes such as getting free drinks at bars and finding hookups/romantic partners from random approaches are greatly exaggerated. I've witnessed free drinks maybe once or twice times, unless you count drinks offered by friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:49 PM
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What's missing from the picture is the fact that fertility rates are lower today than they were over 100 years ago, and this seems to be the case for most countries that collected the data as far back as 1900. In the case of the United States, even the years following the great depression had higher fertility rates than the 2020s. 100 years ago supply of food was much more limited, working shifts were long and pay was low. I doubt the environment back then was good to have children. The decline …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:21 PM
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The correlation seems to exist because of the outlier. Looking at the chart, it seems that bench press and number of sexual partners aren't correlated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:59 PM
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It's perfectly ok for women to lurk, they just shouldn't upvote because when they do, it's always the comments that lurking men disagree with. So please, if you're a woman, don't hurt PPD men feelings by voting stuff they don't like. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:26 PM
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I do believe that men can be seen as sex "objects" and there's definitely a market for hot men marketed to women (Magic Mike, random shirtless dudes in chick-flicks, etc.). It's just not complained about because it's not seen as a problem. It's not seen as a problem because objectified or rather, sexualized men, are still seen as humans worthy of respect. Male sexuality is often seen as offensive to women, but not to the man himself. This is why men are rarely called sluts or have their self-res…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:19 PM
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I'm very wary about this type of claims. The video doesn't say 85% of Chinese aren't marrying. It says 85% of marriage eligible individuals in Shenzhen aren't married. The 60% figure for childlessness refer to the estimation that 60-70% of individuals born in the 2000 will not want children. Fertility and marriage rates in China are declining, but many of the numbers presented in the video are either estimations or confined to specific regions. It's also important to note that as the country mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:02 PM
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I'm very wary about this sort of claims and this is why: nowhere in the video says that 60% of Chinese aren't procreating or that 85% aren't marrying. What it says that an estimated 60-70% of Chinese people born in the 2000s will not want children, and that 85% of marriage eligible individuals in Shenzhen aren't married. While the numbers aren't lying and fertility and marriage rates have been declining, its important to note that as countries modernize, the age of first child and first marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:55 PM
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I know. When women are watching Magic Mike or looking at the half-naked men walking they are looking at those men from the perspective of their own sex drive. Women don't know either is these men are horny or not. The point is that women's opinion on men regarding sex isn't seen as degrading to these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:58 PM
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If you were a grill, you'd probably have no earlobes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:59 AM
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It depresses women because sex is still stigmatized. The idea that there is a large number of women being encouraged to have sex by other women is not supported. Casual sex being shamed explicitly or implicitly, on the other hand, is supported by numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:56 AM
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The sexualization argument is implicitly based on the idea that sex degrades women, but not men. Men are sexualized, society at large just sees men as sexual beings, and women as nearly asexual beings who give up sex in exchange for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:53 AM
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Thank you. While I'm not a fan of sex work all these cries about feminism oversexualizing women is just an appeal to the madonna of society's collective madonna/whore complex. Nobody complains about the men in porn, or male sex workers because nobody judges a man based on his purity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:46 AM
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Something I've always wondered is, how come hookup culture is never seen as degrading to men and men are never seen as a sex object? We don't have an oversexualization of women problem. We have a problem of double standards masked as "concern".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:41 AM
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I either like you the way you are or I don't. People are not investing opportunities. You don't accept someone you don't like with the expectation that they will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:36 AM
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Is it Dillon Davis or Dillon Danis? And which Paul brother is it again?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:33 AM
1

Lower your standards and repress the urge to branch swing to an even more educated, richer and hornier lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:32 AM
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I also have a similar story with a situationship that ended abruptly. I had been fucking dating this guy for two weeks and realized I wanted to take our relationship to the next level. He was hesitant to do so, but in our six months he finally agreed to take the next step. He came to my apartment with flowers and a bottle of wine, unzipped his pants and bent over. When I spread his butt-cheeks to for some glorious ass-eating, that man turned out to have a very hairy asshole, with hair as dense a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:29 AM
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How dare you, a woman, not want a relationship? That's the only thing you're allowed to want. That, and first date sex of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:19 AM
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Not much if you both live on different sides of the continent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:59 AM
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He's a great guy with a massive bank account heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:31 AM
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Yes, that would turn me off. I don't care if the guy doesn't have much sexual experience. If his sexual experience was built by women he didn't even like I would see it as a massive red flag as it implies desperation and tendency to treat people badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:29 AM
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No. When I hang out with men I either pay my portion or take turns in paying. The few times we've moved we contracted a profssional service and moved the stuff around ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:42 PM
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I'm sorry to inform you that watching boobs other than your own is cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:35 PM
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When you fappernick to women you're living through the image of said woman. For this reason, for this reason, any thought of sex that's not happening during real sex between you and women is cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:33 PM
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It's too late for me. I've already tainted my hand by touching a different peepee.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:26 PM
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Tell him the size of your breasts is inversely proportional to the size of your penis and show him a pic of a 12 inch dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:24 PM
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The way you've judged the looks of both women whose pictures you linked tells me everything I need to know about your standards. By that logic I might accuse you of having low ones. You do realize teenaged party boys don't really represent a cross-section of straight men in broader society right? They were not teenage party boys. They were adult men who happened to be at a party. Men who I knew ignored these sort of women in other settings as well. There is no way a straight man in his right min…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:52 PM
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I'm not offended by men seeing me sexy. I'm offended when that "seeing" comes with a madonna/whore complex, and the mentality that if I accept the advances that come from men while seeing me as a whore make me a whore. There's not much to forgive here though. This is the consequence of growing up being told that in women, modesty equals self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:53 PM
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Thanks for confirming that the red pill/blue bill divide has always existed,it's just that today it migrated to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:41 PM
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You're projecting your own incredibly high standards on to men. How do you know what my standards are? Most of us really aren't that picky about looks. When I used to go out or party in gender mixed settings, women like the woman in the picture were ignored by men who were on a similar level. And since when did Nina Dobrev become a "girl next door"? She's many notches above average. You'd be surprised at how many people I've heard calling her average. She's next door in the sense that she's abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:27 PM
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I feel bad for Scandinavian people. It's not only cold over there, but their people are forced to live in a penis-shaped peninsula with saggy balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:45 PM
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All Florida is shaped like a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:38 PM
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Most men would happily give her the time of the day given she doesn't make it too hard. Nope, they wouldn't. These women are often ignored for better looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:35 PM
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Yeah, I'm not sure why people call all casual sex pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:30 PM
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Just a friendly reminder of how average an woman looks like. This woman might have a great personality, she might have a niche appeal, she might have grace and sex appeal, but there is no way this woman is desirable by looks alone according to conventional standards. When men say an average woman is much more desirable than an average man they're basically comparing overweight Seth Rogen to the girl next door.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:23 PM
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I mean, it depends. There's a big difference between not treating your partner badly, and toning down your sexual history for a partner because they might not approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:18 PM
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fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:50 PM
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I'm surprised by the question because that's the first time I hear this. No, it's the act, not the lack of protection that defines cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:34 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:25 PM
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I wasn't a serial monogamist. I met men I wasn't interested in dating long term or dating at all, but still wanted sex. Then I met someone I liked for both sex and a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:24 PM
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I didn't hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:14 PM
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Avoiding men that held casual sex against me was the ultimate goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:13 PM
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It doesn't go against her strategy if she likes casual sex and isn't interested in men who would hold that against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:07 PM
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And I never said that people should be valued for nothing. All I'm saying is that beauty and youth are conditions under which women are valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:29 AM
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Also from the article: Her model correctly predicted that self ratings would be more accurate for internal things, such as thoughts and feelings, sadness and anxiety, for example, than the ratings of friends and strangers. Attraction is an internal thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:28 AM
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Not this again. Nobody is valued unconditionally. If you're valued for your youth and looks than youth and looks are the conditions under which you're valued. Once these are lost you're not longer valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:07 AM
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I literally can't even begin to wrap my mind around the thought process one has to have to believe that they know billions of people better than they know themselves. That's not solipism. She doesn't say you can't know other people, she's saying that a person knows themselves better than others do. You can't read her mind after all. Despite attraction triggers being studied across all continents and subcultures, and arriving at the conclusion that women are predominantly attracted to the same th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:03 AM
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For instance, men prefer women 7 cm shorter than them, women prefer men 25 cm taller than them. The actual average height difference of couples is roughly 19 cm, much closer to women's preferences. It's also possible the male preference for height is less strong than women's and it's close to irrelevant. lot of guys on here and my boyfriend have told me that guys dating overweight women don't actually prefer that bodytype, they are just taking what they can get and some are even banking on their…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:42 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:29 PM
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If I reject your advances, that's because I'm not interested in a specific act for now or I'm not interested in you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:43 PM
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Depends. Some people don't like it and theyr'e allowed to say "no"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:37 PM
1

thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:11 AM
1

Not orgasm, but it feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:10 AM
1

Indifferent. I have to admit though that male bosses make better eye candies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:26 AM
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If things end up not working out for you in the future, I will consider allowing you to be a concubine. Sorry, but being a concubine is incompatible with my dream if a harem of househusbands
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:23 AM
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I'd love to have a househusband who does nothing but cook while wearing speedos and eat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:31 AM
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I wouldn't know what to do if this place gets banned. This is the only place where I can openly discuss my sexual repression while promoting my armpit dedicated OnlyFans so all of you simps can drool over me and finance my anti-depressants addiction. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:29 AM
1

So you're not quite as dead as people say, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:20 AM
1

High levels of repressed horniness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:19 AM
1

and the vagina too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:16 AM
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And she will be perfect. She will be submissive and an amazing homemaker. She'll be pure and carnally inexperienced. She'll reveal that she's pregnant on the night of your wedding, but you will not need to fear as the child will be that of the Holy Spirit. There will be no bigger honor as a traditional man than to be cucked by God himself. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:15 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:02 PM
1

They all looked like post-wall grandpas.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 11:01 PM
1

You can find the link in my profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:00 AM
1

No, but posting on PPD is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:14 AM
1

I don't think anybody except for maids or people living in technologically deprived areas do chores for that many hours. However, many of these chores are incredibly repetitive and not rewarded in any real way. Even childcare mostly involves cleaning, feeding the child, putting them to sleep and supervising them to keep them safe, none of which is rewarded either. Being a SAHM is basically being stuck in a rut unless you marry rich and spend most of your time working on hobbies or having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:13 AM
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thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:29 AM
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Yup, that's exactly how she claimed she was.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:04 AM
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I've no idea what happened between them, but being a Catholic or religious in general doesn't really protect women from getting cheated on. Religions want purity from both, but ultimately put the burden of gatekeeping sex on women, and base this responsibility on the idea that men are sexual beasts who need to be kept on leash by the love of a virtuous woman, or some similar shit. This often incentivizes men to misbehave since the woman is to blame for "letting them" have sex with her, and actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:00 AM
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That and waterboarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:07 PM
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Believe it or not, many women don't want men with no self-awarness and a superiority complex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:15 PM
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Yes, women often receive unfair criticism when they do what's good for them, but if you keep accepting unfair treatment out of fear of getting criticized you will always be treated unfairly. Criticized divorced women aren't the ones getting walked over by their own husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:14 PM
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How am I damaging myself just by being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:09 PM
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In both cases the women are kept by a man. In both cases, the women select a man by how much he can provide. Plenty of women choose a traditional lifestyle because it's easier to have a man that pays for everything than having to contribute financially to the house. Also, women don't want two jobs, work job and home job. Not all women who work and have kids work two jobs. Many of them have husbands who do their fair share. These women simply don't tolerate men who leave all the housework on them…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:47 AM
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Believe it or not, not every woman believes that marriage is a sugaring arrangement, that men should be taken care of and that only mom takes care of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:17 AM
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In this case, I feel you were either different or people with a similar mindset are less vocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:10 AM
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It's not just women and "white knights" claiming this, many men seem to genuinely see things this this way as well. I'm a man and I used to feel that way too when i was younger. The question is, do these men claim that casual sex degrades them or the women they sleep with? That's the point I'm trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:03 AM
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Do you realize that chances of a pregnancy, especially if you also use the pill, are incredibly small when you use the condom properly? Anyways, I've never made a guy wait. I'm not a dog owner training a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:00 AM
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Those handjob threads never end, do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:49 AM
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