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Yeah, sex is still such a controversial topic (if you're a woman of course) that any mention of sexual work or casual sex creates a massive wave of criticism, and many people seem to believe that any sex a woman has outside a committed relationship must be the result of some conspiracy by some random reddit feminist or a titok model who wants you to sleep around more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:23 PM
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But not most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:16 PM
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Which women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:14 AM
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This is also the case for influencers, models and actors. I suspect that most content creators making crazy money already have a fanbase outside onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:13 AM
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Sex positive liberal feminists claim that it’s the stigma of prostitution (sorry, sex work) and pornography that’s damaging to women, and not getting slammed by strangers who don’t give a shit about them for pay, and in the case of pornography, for the sexual satisfaction of millions. In that case, why those who oppose the sex industry want to ban it instead of regulating it the way other potentially dangerous professions are regulated? Abuse was (is?) commonplace in industries that rely on info…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:05 AM
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As for porn, if women don't want to be seen as nothing but a set of tits and ass, they need to shame women that do porn and shame promiscuity among women alongside being realistic in dating and mating, aka, women need to stop chasing Chad when Chads make up 20% at best of the dating market. Men are the biggest consumers of sex and they don't need to stop trying getting laid to be seen as more than a dick and a pair of saggy balls. Any woman who needs to shame other women so the men she likes "re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:06 PM
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Who says it's empowering? I mostly see these women mocked and disrespected. I'm aware that some sex workers actually like their job and might say it's empowering to them, but if this is how they feel it's not something I can argue against.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:25 PM
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Exactly, live and let live. I'd feel uncomfortable doing sex work and wouldn't recommend that women unaware its implications do it. But if a woman is aware of what sex work entails and does it safely than the problem comes down to morality, which isn't my place to dictate if I'm not being affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:21 PM
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Many things are driven by low self-esteem. The constant need to seem respectable is also a form of validation seeking, but it's a form of validation seeking that is socially acceptable, unlike the other forms that involve sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:19 PM
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But those are the most fun, especially the cuck culture guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:34 AM
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What is the difference between this and the daily chat?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:10 PM
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Because a large part of society sees sex as something man take at the expense of women and that engaging in sexual acts with more than just a few guys in a committed relationship each degrades women, but not the men involved. And many of these stories sounds fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:07 PM
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You'd be surprised how many people think that this is barely above average. People who grow up with very high earning parents in a neighborhood of high earners tend to assume that this is the norm. I've no idea who the tiktok person is, but women in wealthy households are often raised to assume that they'll eventually become housewives provided by a very high earning man, because that's what they see around them. Edit: Just watched the video. There's no context to it so it might be rage bait or …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:35 PM
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Yes, but that doesn't seem OP's case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:12 PM
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And yet nobody is actually addressing why they're wrong, everyone is just dismissing what I just wrote with anecdotal evidence of which I have a bunch as well. I always appreciate people who scrutinize research as they should, but nobody is doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:36 PM
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I'm aware that emotional abuse is a thing, but most of the time is not as serious as physical abuse which the OP admited to experience but brushed under the rug.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:31 PM
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And I'm getting downvoted, lol! I'm open to getting my sources scrutinized, but what their doing here isn't arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:30 PM
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No, that's what the doctor does :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:45 PM
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Paternity fraud is the most horrendous thing someone can do to someone else and only women can do it. Aside from abandoning your own child, beating up your partner and murdering your partner, yes, I agree. I also wonder how many paternity frauds were committed against OP by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:30 PM
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I'm not sure how much emotional abuse you need to receive for it to become the equivalent of getting choked and assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:28 PM
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Sorry, my bad: Older, childless single men. Those who deliberately withdraw from the dating market focus on hookups and FWBs first are responsible, alongside the sexually exploitative elements of the red pill, for the female childlessness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:26 PM
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And bad girls squirt on in bad boys mouths. bad girls > bad boys > nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:43 PM
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Older, childless single men. Those who deliberately withdraw from the dating market are responsible, alongside the sexually exploitative elements of the red pill, for the female childlessness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:38 PM
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Do you honeslty believe some random studies are going to change anyone's view about these things? Good luck. Facts are facts regardless of someone's view. You either believe them or you don't. And speaking of view, my experience has been that women who openly shame men for the things you listed are criticized and disrespected by most people who aren't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:30 PM
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All the people in your post are athletes, and I don't see men fanboying mathematicians either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:26 PM
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I'm not arguing that women can't be as physically abusive. I'm pointing out that the OP specifically referred to men being physically abusive, but focused her rant about women being mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:24 PM
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Idgaf my entire life and the lives of most other men speaks to the opposite. Because they're not used to be called out to the same extent as women are for being mean. Hate speech by women is judged harsher. Women are judged harsher for ethical violations at the workplace than men are. The only exception to the trend are attractive women. Female CEOs are judged harsher than male ones for ethical violations as well. Female attorneys are judged harsher for expressing anger than male attorneys. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:58 PM
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Before I met my husband being the wife of a monogymous bi male couple was the goal. HOT
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:07 PM
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Now even if men were okay with it... women don't even want that. Women most natural relationship is what we currently have in the west, they date someone 5-10 years, then switch to someone else. I like variety and it's something I've fantasized about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:07 PM
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I've had the fantasy of having multiple boyfriends as I like variety, but I'm not sure how that would play in real life. The only thing I'm sure about is that I wouldn't want to marry all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:05 PM
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This is not true. There's are many experiments on how the same immoral and selfish behavior tends to be less tolerated in women than in men. Men are expected to be less moral and blunt and when they are, they're not as penalized as women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:57 PM
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You literally admit that you've been physically abused by men, but then write a post about how women are mean. I'm really sorry to hear that this has happened to you and I know that it must be hard, but this reads like you're simply have a lower bar for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:54 PM
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You post names of successful men in areas catered to men and are surprised that women don't worship the professionals in these areas. You then proceed to tell us that not treating a celebrity who is irrelevant in our day to day life as demi-god is a sign of being self-centered and selfish. What is this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:48 PM
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You're basically saying that, physical abuse aside, women are worse because they're mean. This tells me you have a biased perspective and probably you are more likely to tolerate bad behavior from men than from women. Women can be terrible and men aren't necessarily bad, but you're writing as someone who is set the convince us that women are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:19 PM
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I know. I'm not arguing against the fact that there's a segment of redpiller that promotes traditional marriage, I'm arguing that there's also a segment of the rp that promotes exactly what fresh and fit promote.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:08 PM
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I see the RP people always preaching one sided open relationships where the man can cheat but the woman has to stay loyal due to biology like it’s natural for men to have sex with a bunch of women but it’s not for a woman and a woman just needs to be provided for financially Prostitution is natural. Being provided by a single man in risky. Being provided by several of them while also producing genetically varied offspring is in women's best interest. Being provided by a single man who will leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:51 AM
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Fresh and fit aren't polyamorous leftists and I've heard many other redpillers promoting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:46 AM
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I’ll take my downvotes now, please! No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:51 PM
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It's really funny to see women complain about the patriarchy and the so-called choice feminism while simultaneously supporting traditional roles and courting process in a relationship. The idea of men leading a relationship is based on the assumption that women are less capable of making decisions. Men pursuing women also stems from the idea that women are not agents in their love/sex lives but things to be conquered. Marriage proposals aren't true proposals as they come with the implicit assump…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:34 PM
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I think people have a hard time warping their heads around the fact that not everyone wants or acts the same as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:13 PM
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Many women derive their validation from being pursued. When another woman breaks this rule, they feel their values are getting questioned and devalued. That said, I don't like proposals at all and prefer when marriage is the result of a conversation between both partners, whether it's the man or the woman who brings the topic first. In other words, I didn't get on my knee to propose to my husband, but I didn't want him to do that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:08 PM
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Why should someone put the FSM above their own desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:02 PM
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What you're describing isn't the friendzone as she's not really a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:52 AM
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Aspiring to be a "stay at home" girlfriend without a wedding ring is a recipe for unhealthy dependency (god forbid the guy paying all of your bills is abusive) Marriage doesn't make it much better. Most men, even those who can support a SAHM, don't make enough to support a SAHM after divorce, and divorce itself can be pretty expensive. Staying home is bad idea in most situations regardless of marriage status.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:51 AM
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They're pretty gross. You'd assume that the person would shower themselves before sex,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:33 AM
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did any of them ask you for commitment? ​ yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:52 PM
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The run through chicks are always some form of sex negative cray cray with 1,020,000 icks or super jaded and slutty. Agree with you about the rules. I got ran through by 69.7 gentlemen. When I had sex with the 30.5th, I put 12,000 rules for the next ones, from expecting them to have a trimmed fresh asshole to not going anywhere near their penises until I sat on their faces for at least 30 minutes. I'm slutty and the skid marks in their underwear made me jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:45 PM
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I was wondering when I'll hear from you again. LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:27 PM
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Or put boundaries in the wrong areas. I will never go out with a guy who makes less than I do, but I'll put up with him not doing anything around the house even though I work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:22 PM
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I think some women have normalized certain red flags to the extent that they see those as normal male behavior. Men do this all the time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:18 PM
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yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:16 PM
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well yeah, they want sex And so do I. I don't approach men for non platonic if I'm not interested in sex down the line, and by the way, these men were intersted in relationships. a man being interested in a woman approaching him doesn't mean he will treat her well for a long period of time (neither does a man approaching a woman, but the odds are better) If a man is not interested it shows. The conversation doesn't flow. If you exchange numbers he doesn't call, if it's a man you already know he …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:13 PM
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All sex is potentially risky. I'm risking more by having having consistent unprotected sex with a boyfriend I never tested who potentially also had unprotected sex with other women, than by occasional protected sex with an uncommitted partner. Chances of pregnancy with while using a condom + the pill or other method are often lower than your chances of dying in a car accident. It's also riskier to have sex within the confines of an exclusive relationship with a guy I met on tinder a month ago th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:55 PM
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But isn't that what losing your last name symbolizes? You are just an extension, a passenger in his odyssey. Pretty much, that why I'm really skeptical when women say "I changed my name because we're now a team".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:39 PM
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Women should not hold onto their virginity as it's a big deal or a reason for pride. Agree. Also, women should not engage in casual sex. This is not an unpopular opinion. Also, casual sex isn't inherently bad for women or good for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:58 PM
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As someone who's had her share of casual sex and it was good at best and lackluster at worst, I'm not seeing how casual sex is inherently bad for women and good for men. I also don't think this is an unpopular opinion. Tons of research backs up the fact that the majority of people see casual sex as worse of women than for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:54 PM
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The only way you will truly know if a man is interested if he approaches you and pursues you in a masculine way. Hard disagree. I've approached men first and some of these approaches have resulted in a genuine interest from the men. Men who weren't interested in me showed their disinterest very early on, which was a sign that I had to drop the conversation very early on. You approach him first better believe he's gonna tell all his homies about how thirsty you are after him He's free to tell his…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:49 PM
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Women's desperation for commitment coupled with their very passive role in dating gives men the upper hand during the dating stage and often after marriage. Women sleep with men afraid that the man might decide to end the relationship shortly after. They date men and hope for marriage in the early stages of the relationship while waiting for the man to pop the question when he's ready . Once marriage comes, women are more likely to give up their names and slow down their careers for the sake of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:35 PM
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How i'm I leeching your tax dollar when I pay for everything myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:56 PM
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:( feel personally attacked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:16 AM
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Oh no, not those, just the covid and the flu ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:16 AM
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Sorry to hear that. Those memories must be horrible and traumatic. Have you thought of getting therapy to heal your wound?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:14 AM
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Hot. I like germs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:12 AM
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You don't have to do anything. According to men of PPD, you can get a rich simp to take care of you only by opening an Instagram account and showing some cleavage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:11 AM
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Yeah, I had a ho phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:03 AM
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Cuck culture guy is back: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:54 AM
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I bet bad performance in school has more to do with the amount of screen time which prevents children from training their cognitive skills than with values. I'm a millennial and remember plenty of millennial and gen z being disrespectful. I'm pretty sure that people complained about boomers and gen x-ers as well when they were young.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:51 AM
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You interpreting it that was has something to do with you. You said this was a "beautiful thing". Last time I checked, calling something beautiful is an opinion, and you are expressing your opinion in a public forum that hosts people with dissenting views. You need to get used to people having opinions that disagree with yours. Most women like the idea. Women do many things you couldn't pay me enough to do. And yes, the husband leads the family. In the families that agree to it. Not all families…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:47 AM
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The regular male college student has a better chance at having a good relationship with a good woman than Logan Paul. Why would a dumb superficial guy want a "good" woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:39 AM
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How are millenial's children a complete mess? it seems to me that people always complain about the youngest generations no matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:37 AM
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I have two last names: one from my dad and the other from my mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:34 AM
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I don't find this beautiful at all. It implies at some level the inferiority of the woman. If it was really about creating a family then they'd both change their names into a different one. There's a reason why men see the suggestion that they take the woman's surname so offensive. I kept my name and can't imagine changing it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:34 AM
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Not all women want to be mothers, even if they get a lot of money for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:27 AM
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I was in my 20s. It was with someone I was casually dating. He was fun to be around but not trustworthy and not exactly my type physically. He was around the same age as I was. He was ambitious and hard-working, but not someone I could see myself in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:56 PM
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The man's career is often a major part of how he attracted his partner in the first place. It's required that he keeps working to keep his partner happy. So you're admitting that it's not only about his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:16 PM
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Before you start lecturing me on biology and sociology, maybe you should grab a book yourself. I'm aware that there are plenty of factors that influence a person's behavior, both good and bad. You're the one making blanket statements about women and casual sex without understanding that scientific findings in social sciences deal with averages and report tendencies in behaviors and correlations. I've read the actual papers that talk about women and casual sex and not a single one of them reports…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:15 PM
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I believe you are supporter of hook up culture because you defend women having casual sex. I defend people conducting their sex life in the way they see fit, as long as they don't bother others. Not sure why this seems a controversial concept to so many people. Do you honestly think that shame is the only factor preventing people from having casual sex. I said that shame is a factor in much of the regret experienced by women, not that women don't have casual sex because of shame. It's perfectly …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:38 PM
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Men seek careers as their contribution to their family. Their motives of their pursuits line up. Men spend less time on childcare and are less willing to give up their careers to take care of their own children even when they're are married to a high earning woman. None of this would be true if men's career was simply a means to contribute to their families.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:46 PM
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This makes me think you support and advocate for hook up culture. I'm not a "supporter" of hookup culture. I'm not interested in getting people to hook up more, and I don't even believe that hookup culture is even a thing outside a small number of social circles. I'm just noticing that harms of hookup culture are almost always brought into the argument when the topics are feminism or anything female-related, even though statistically men are more likely to be encouraged to hook up, and this enco…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:42 PM
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Again, 200K in SF is almost twice the median individual income in San Francisco. If you leave SF for a LCOL, your salary could drop too. Which would make $200K in these areas even higher compared to their median. At the national level, making this as a household puts you in the top 12. As an individual, it puts you in the top 5. SF housing is not abnormally expensive compared to many other parts of the country where the wages are lower. Median home price in the US -$431K-, is around 5.8 times th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:16 PM
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$200K is more than enough to buy a house in most places, not to mention that we're talking about the income of an individual. Most homebuyers are couples who have a combined income that's way below $200k. $200K salary isn't impressive in San Francisco because that city has abnormally expensive housing and it seems to be a bubble where everyone thinks you're either homeless or a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:15 AM
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The median salary in San Francisco is 104,404 and 73,950. Anyone who perceives $200,000 to be below average must live in an upper class bubble or severely overestimate the amount of money others are making.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:33 AM
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It's hard to say. Housing prices are through the roofs and a big share of men and women in some of the biggest cities will never be able to afford living away from parents without roommates or a significant other on a below average salary. What I do find to be a massive flag are high earning people who live with their parents and are not their caretakers. I've seen several people like this and they seem to be too dependent on parents. There's no specific age for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:28 AM
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Countless research has shown women are much more sexually satisfied in relationships than they are hookups. Hookups mainly benefit men. Countless research also shows that sexism surrounding casual sex disproportionally affects women and that sexism is the main reason why women feel harmed by casual sex. It also shows that a big proportion of women do NOT regret casual sex or feel neutral about it, but I see countless of posts insisting that casual sex is bad for all women. It annoys me also that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:56 AM
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Agree: decoupling sex from romance is bad, advocation of prostitution is bad, undermining negative emotions in men is bad, romanticizing female promiscuity is bad Why are these things bad and why, even women who call themselves feminists, seem to spend more time criticizing the supposed romantization of promiscuity in women when statistically men are much more likely to be encouraged to be promiscuous and double standards between men and women are still pretty much alive? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:48 AM
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The point is that many people, men and women, see that career and children are mutually exclusive if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:43 AM
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But what about k-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:33 PM
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Feminists are femcels that want Chad's genes, but can't get his commitment, so they cry and scream misogyny at the fact that unrelated men don't want to get taxed for their choices(mistakes). I don't need Chad's commitment to get his genes. I don't even need to fuck him. The sperm bank takes care of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:30 PM
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It's bad when women do i because the ability to have sex without the expectation of romance means that a woman's commitment wouldn't be guaranteed. Being the one who gets to decide whether the woman is worth committing to while knowing (or at least assuming) that a woman that's sleeping with you is expecting a relationship and even marriage at some point gives you, the man, the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:19 PM
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I am not going to respond to the first part as I don't think it would be a productive conversation based on our past interactions. I don't remember us interacting before. Often times with articles about tribal society the author romanticizes paternal uncertainty as an indicator of female liberation. I know what paternity uncertainty is. I was just curious to know how it was promoted by feminism because I don't remember feminists discussing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:10 PM
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I'm a feminist in theory but I disagree with many of the points individual feminists make. There seems to be a lot feminist criticism of capitalism, which many consider to be a patriarchal construct, and many advocate for socialism and other economically "egalitarian" systems. I think this is extremely naive. Every system has activities that are valued more than others and positions that are more respected than other. Disadvantaged groups in these systems will end up getting the short end of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 08:07 PM
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I don't see most feminism pushing for female promiscuity, but I see many saying that if we don't shame men for doing exactly that, why should we expect women to only have sex within the confines of a relationship, if that's not what some of them want? Also, what do you mean by "parental uncertainty"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:44 PM
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You pursue business transactions you don't personally enjoy just because they are profitable and look good in your portfolio. I'm not sure how that would work with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:29 AM
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Romantic relationships aren't business transactions. The person doesn't even need to be objectively worse than you are. If you're not feeling it then you shouldn't pursue a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:22 AM
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Are you going to lecture me on why I, a woman, have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:45 PM
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All they need to do is get a degree in a marketable field, interview well, work hard at their entry level positions, and they will end up having a high paying job. Do you realize that the only reason high paying jobs are high paying because very few people have the skills to them while the demand is high. If all the poor people went to get a marketable degree the degree would be no longer marketable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:57 AM
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Because looks aren't the only thing that matters. You can love a person that isn't attractive by mainstream standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:51 AM
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The irony in this post though...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:31 AM
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You sail "All" women want resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:27 AM
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I've never dated a man for his money and I'm married to someone I outearn. This is the case of many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:00 PM
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I never said he was a right winger, but someone worried about the declining birth rate and making a documentary on it is very likely to have an agenda. A documentary isn't the same as an unbiased research. Both serve different purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:58 PM
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Wanting and LTR doesn't mean wanting a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:57 PM
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But don't think that a documentary by an organization formed by people "concerned about birthrates" (according to their website) will be biased towards the ideology it promotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:17 PM
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I can't watch the doc right now. How did he come with that number? Was it a survey? who did he survey?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:18 PM
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Where this 80% of women regretting children comes from in first place? I did a google search and the only thing I found is that it's estimated that 80% of women childless women are childless by circumstances, a figure that probably includes older women who who were of childbearing years a long time ago and probably held different goals from women who decide to be childless today. I'm in my 30s, by the way, and I've never had a desire to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:10 PM
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what makes you think that all the women doing casual sex want a guy to provide for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:59 PM
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Then these women are in the group that doesn't want casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:58 PM
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I guess many men don't know who these women are or they want to sleep with specific women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:57 PM
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Sorry about that. Your pet petting habits have soiled you in the eyes of high value PPD men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:56 PM
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Because not all women are for it and if th guy thinks she's not than he might lie about wanting a relationship to get her to bed. That said, I'm not sure how often men lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:28 PM
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There are women who want casual sex and there are women who do not. There are women who want casual sex right now, but did not want it yesterday or tomorrow. Men lie to women who they believe don't want casual sex. I also disagree that women have higher standards for casual sex. A woman who makes a conscious decision to keep the sex with a guy casual does so because the guy falls short in some domain. When I had casual sex, I had it with men I wasn't compatible with or men I didn't feel passiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:37 PM
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If you replaced women with men, then that would essentially apply to all men. So if that’s a reason for men to hold some women in low regard, then would it not be a reason for women to hold all men in low regard? Logic doesn't apply to this sort of PPD discussions because women bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:58 PM
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Yes, certain hormones are released during sex, but they’re also released when hugging a family member or petting a dog Soon on PPD: Women who pet random dogs aren't fit for marriage. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:47 PM
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In my experience, passport bros were men who had a very low opinion of women in their own country and went to another one because they expected to be more accepted in a foreign country. Many of them had traditional views of women that tend to be more welcome in traditional countries. I had no desire to date men like these, but if a women who were fully aware of what was going on still wanted to, that was their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:04 PM
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Like I said, I loved them in my younger days. Just don't get mad when the guys are not interested so you have to lie about it. The same applies to men. They can have as much fun with the bad girls as they want, but shouldn't get mad when they can't find a good girl they like to settle with because the good girl isn't interested in dating a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:59 PM
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The way it's framed, yes... People are trying to created frameworks where it's considered "wrong" for men to have these standards. To somehow shame or punish them for those standards. And how is that any different from the framework that calls women goldiggers, sluts, skanks, hoes and easy for acting on their preferences? You sound like someone who wants to have unfair preferences, but does not want to get criticized for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:38 PM
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That's also insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:10 PM
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I always see this... Like men aren't allowed to have any standard at all. Women will try to shame and attack them, call them insecure, controlling, sexist, etc.. Who is "not allowing" you to have standards? Are you being forced by anyone to date women with high numbers? Last time I checked, criticism is not a ban from doing as you please, if it was, women dating rich men wouldn't exist because of all the complaints men have about them by calling them hypergamous sluts and goldiggers. You come to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:09 PM
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They hate sex workers, but reduce sex had by women to a transaction that the woman allows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:56 PM
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People who have chemistry tend to form a bond when they see each other in person and participate in activities together, no matter how simple. There's very rarely a true bond over and app. The fact that you've been talking to each other over an app and haven't met, I assume, is telling. If there's not enough interests in first place or whatever there is is lost, ghosting is easy. You either have to meet women in real life or accept that many of you interactions on an app will end up in ghost on …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:37 AM
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Dating app or real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:28 AM
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Timothee chalamet seems like he would be my type but Idkkk hes just missing something I feel exactly the same about him. He's gorgeous, but wen I see him talking there's missing I feel. I also don't think he's that good of an actor. I find his expressions to be repetitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:20 AM
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Abuse is what happens when the women "protected" under patriarchy start seeking autonomy or refuse to live up to very strict moral standards imposed on them. Women who think that even protective patriarchy is in their best interest are delusional, unless they enjoy being treated like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:12 AM
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I believe women are more likely to settle when it comes to men, marriage and lifestyle, and it's not because of the cock carousel and the wall. Society is still more likely to see marriage as an achievement for women as evidenced by engagement rings, flashy wedding dresses and surname change. If a woman doesn't marry, especially if she is cohabitating, she's more likely to be seen as a failure than men in the same situation. The fact that men are the ones who propose when they're ready whereas w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 04:03 AM
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That he's looking for something serious? You gotta see how he acts around me and weather he enjoys my company.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:48 AM
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I was just kidding, don't expose your friendsd
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:47 AM
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This might be the case for specific circles. Exchanging sex for money is rare, unless you also consider the expectation of the provider/homemaker relationship model a for of sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:04 PM
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Say the truth in what context? Cues are different depending on context.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:58 PM
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What's his profile, I mean, for the science and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:49 PM
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I'd rather God not forgive me. If he does, it would mean I'd go to heaven and miss out on all the fun people in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:37 AM
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No, unless he puts his hands under my skirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:33 AM
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Slap her butt. A nice butt is worth getting metooed for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:32 AM
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I'd find the father and drop the son at his doorstep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:31 AM
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You are great! You're so handsome and perfect! Every single word you type is a nugget of wisdom, wisdom I have never witnessed before among humans. You're amazing!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:30 AM
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Like "hoe"? There are no equivalent words for men, unfortunately, but songs like WAP, My Neck My Back and Squidward Nose sing about men like men are sexual objects. You just don't seem to register it this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:23 AM
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Has kids they’re not involved with This isn't just icky. This says a lot about him as a person. Someone who's not involved with his children is a piece of shit, unless there are reasons for that beyond their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:15 AM
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I'm not playing. I want to know how singing about sleeping with women is degrading to women, but not to the man that sleeps with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:09 AM
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Women should be able to sing about how getting choked and creampied by a stranger is empowering but a guy looking at a woman's tits sticking out is oppressive. This is a culture that has lost its mind. Men should be able to sing about how banging hoes after getting money is rad, but women who select men based on their money are goldiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:06 AM
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I think people in general don't get as triggered by sexualized men even if they consume their content, be it onlyfans, pornography or some other type of media.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:04 AM
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Degrading to whom, to the women they sing about or to themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:02 AM
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That's not the point. The point is that it's only "degrading" when women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:01 AM
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Sex work isn't really common, and most women wouldn't make money from it. Men who complain about women doing onlyfans simply like the type of woman who does onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:00 AM
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And I've known men who experience the same, and women who really mean it when they say they want to do casual. I think that society at large still looks down on women who have casual sex and don't get a relation ship out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:58 AM
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t’s hard to degrade guys who have a lot of sex tho. Like, just rationalise it. “Uhh you are so attractive and handsome that women can’t help but to love you and give you all of their love and affection, how horrible”. Like, there is literally no downside to being able to get sex well. Men have lower standards than women, not sure why I should think this is an accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:55 AM
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Oh, thanks! I wasn't familiar with the QFT argument, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:29 PM
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I've heard very few women saying that WAP and OnlyFans are empowering, in fact, I see many female spaces decrying the sexualization of women as wrong, which seems to be a common sentiment according to research. There will always be women promoting these things just like there will always be people promoting pretty much anything. What I do find interesting is that nobody claims that men on OnlyFans or other pornographic media (they exist and are pretty easy to find) or men who sing about sleeping…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:21 PM
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Of course, many women do and stay in relationships that aren't going in that direction. I'm referring to the fact that it tends to be an automatic assumption that women want marriage, even when the woman in question hasn't stated that she wants this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:13 PM
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That's more about individual women. Some people don't expect a serious relationship until it becomes serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:10 PM
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Grammar? I fixed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:09 PM
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It's hard to watch a woman date the same man for 5 plus years without a proposal and the sadness in her face when she interacts with a baby because she desire to start a family. As a woman who didn't get married until after 5 years of being with my partner, who also has friends who've been a long time with their partners, but no plans of marriage, I find the pity/sadness some people here express for us interesting. None of us are particularly interested in marriage and only expect to marry is it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:37 AM
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controversial - don't have sex on the first date. Not having sex o the first date helps you staying relatively safe if you're dating strangers, but I'm not sure it's a good advice to actually get a man. Men who sleep with women, but think less of them for doing so aren't good men. They're the embody the same type of sexism women complain about on PPD, so I'm not sure why getting someone like this to commit is considered success.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:30 AM
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In plenty of places prostitution is either legal or not prosecuted. I'm not sure what the OP is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:54 AM
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I’m super glad my children are likely to survive infancy, but disappointed that they lack the freedom to roam and explore nature without risk of getting hit by a car. And if you were living in the past when cars and roads didn't exist you'd probably be worried about your kids getting attacked by a wild animal, falling into a body or weather or losing their way in the middle of a Forrest. Absolutely not. It’s so much better to care for children alongside other parents and family. Not even close. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:21 AM
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u/Ainsleygz will be horny-banning them !nc3ls until this sub becomes one big fat virtual orgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:43 AM
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I've never heard of this and I'm a woman who grew up in a very status conscious country.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:35 AM
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Humans may not be captive but we inhabit a sterile simulacrum of the our natural environment much like a zoo. Natural isn't always good. Diseases, poison, natural disasters are about the most natural thing you can get and yet, we're better of by preventing those. Artificial isn't necessarily bad either. The world today, at least the Western world, is the best it has been for reproduction purposes. It's safer, food is abundant, healthcare is accessible, and wouldn't the lack of interaction with o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:30 AM
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Who if forcing you to find them attractive? You can date who you want, but people will have unfavorable opinions on your standards just like you have unfavorable opinions on women's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:02 AM
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Humans are not going to let themselves go extinct by virtue of not having kids. 99% of species that have ever lived went extinct. Chances are humans will go extinct too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:36 PM
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Are pandas being “de-programmed” since they are not reproducing in captivity? Or is there something deeply wrong with their habitat? Humans aren't in captivity though. They have access to reliable contraceptives now so those that don't want children or want less children have the power to prevent a pregnancy. Decades earlier, these people would have reproduced anyways and made themselves and their children miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:29 PM
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You've no idea how many sandwiches I can make.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:44 PM
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Upper hand and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:44 PM
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There likely is. So you haven't actually seen any statistics that compare humans living in a modern-day setting to hunter gatherers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:43 PM
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I find penises extremely gross and offensive. That's why, when I life the guy but not his penis, I do whatever it's in my power to cover it with my vagina or ass-cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:39 PM
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Yes, I'm turning 34 soon. What was your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:34 PM
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"Your worst sin is that you've destroyed and betrayed yourself for nothing" That, and lusting after the father of the local church.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:32 PM
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How many sandwiches are hey worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:28 PM
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What if she makes $700k, do you bring the sandwich?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:26 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:25 PM
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Because I don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:25 PM
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This is the reason why I can't take men's activists seriously. They don't care about men's rights, they only care about gotcha-ing feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:17 PM
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Do we have reliable statistics on mental illness among hunter gatherers?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:48 PM
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Golddiggers aren't a myth, it's just that they are very easy to spot. Men who date them do so knowingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:13 AM
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Doesn't FDS tell women that men should jump through hoops though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:09 AM
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Most women will never have the opportunity to get into a private jet even if they're naive. This is a pleasure reserved for attractive women who are already in billionaires' social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:08 AM
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I have to agree with this. Attractive men have an easier time racking up a high n-count, but many of the men with a high n-count I know are not attractive, just average and below average, and they are willing to sleep with women who aren't that attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:06 AM
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I like how the type of argument you're responding to is only brought up when discussing gender differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:00 AM
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Being hot doesn't mean you don't have issues. I know many hot women who had difficulties keeping relationships when young because they self-sabotaged or were difficult to deal with. They're having the same issues now that they're older.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:11 AM
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And it's men who drive the demand. There's no theatre without an audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:09 AM
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RIP your inbox.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:18 AM
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Women that don't have issues getting relationships when they're young, don't have problems getting relationships with men they want later. The majority of women who complain never had access to the good men to begin with. "Good" of course means whatever it is that the woman is aiming for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:31 AM
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So by that logic, doesn't that mean that women's brain didn't re-wired to want a career?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 01:26 AM
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is sex work the highest paid occupation? no it's not. women can have careers in 2023, you know? and the fact that we have contraceptives now does not just rewire our brain automatically when it comes to this. So did our brain re-wired or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:49 PM
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Thanks for sharing! glad everything ended well for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:45 PM
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Is there evidence of that? I see a lot of people speculating on the reasons of a breakup, but I rarely see celebs themselves talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:43 PM
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Because the person I'm replying to obviously cares enough about other men and women not involved with her. That's why I ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:26 PM
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The question is how OF/porn affects a woman's dating options, not whether women are ok or not with being former sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:23 AM
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Which is a sign that men are still interested in marrying her. This isn't a good sign, but the OP asked if her dating options would be affected. Having a bunch of divorces means the answer is 'no".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:21 AM
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Can I ask you how you because a child prostitute and how you changed paths, if you don't mind me asking? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:47 AM
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Mia Khalifa got married and even in a relationship after she quit. Not sure she's a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:43 AM
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Excuse me, may I speak to the moderator?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:33 AM
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It affects her dating options in the same way that tattoos affect a woman's dating options. Both date in their own bubbles where men have similar attitudes to theirs, so the rest of the world doesn't matter. Most female porn stars end up married, often to other porn stars or men with lax attitudes towards sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:29 AM
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Well, yes. Plenty of women have contradictory standards. I certainly don't support modern women judging men by traditional standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:22 AM
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According to evopsych logic, sex work is the ultimate female imperative as the woman is trying to secure resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:20 AM
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They just want a return on their investment. Then they should stop complaining about goldigging and sex work., and this is something i've seen many "traditional" men do. A byproduct of equality. You would have a point if women weren't expected to be the primary caretakers while also getting shamed for wanting a provider. Compared to ... ? Compared to staying married to that wealthy man. Women judge men for their ability to improve their lives and how they fit in the life they want. It is fair fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:44 AM
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Most don't act like sex work is like working at a grocery store, but many wonder why sex work, when it's done by both women AND men, it's only discussed in a bad light or at all when women do it. Most of these social consequences of sex (not only sex work) affect women disproportionately because women are held to higher standards in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:36 AM
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I find it fascinating how accepting some people are of the fact that men are willing to sleep with women without commitment, and also justify the same men not wanting to date women because these women are willing to sleep with men without commitment. Men also participate create/participate in pornographic content but i very rarely see this subject discussed in the same way the subject about women is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:33 AM
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So sugar mammas/daddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:24 AM
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And when they're obese, post-wall or ugly themselves, they know damn well that money is the only way they can get the hottie that's out of their league. That's why I'm not too worried about men getting with goldiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:19 AM
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To me, a golddigger is a woman that specifically targets men to leech resources from and live a lavish lifestyle - a parasite. She's not trying to procure resources for her future family, but rather for herself; except in circumstances where she is trying to dual mate and commit paternity fraud, which is atrocious. A goldigger is someone who uses their partner for money. Whether this money goes to their kids, extended family is irrelevant. It's also irrelevant whether that money is enough for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:36 AM
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Men who want a traditional woman want the status that being a provider to one confers them, and they love the leverage that money gives them in the dating market, but they don't like the idea of a woman wanting them for their money. Furthermore, society hates women who will judge men by the content of their wallets, but expect women to prioritize their children over their careers, hence the constant redefinition of the word "golddigger". Divorce cuts your household wealth and income significantl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:26 AM
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I would fuck anything that moves, so it's up to the other party to bear the responsibility of saying 'no' to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:15 AM
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I see you haven't met internet forum users talking about their income yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:38 AM
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Needless to say, men are not evil for having these desires. They don't want to hurt those women or their wives either. They just feel their sexuality is totally disconnected from romantic love, while for women often there is some kind of connection anyway. That is why men can love women they don't want to fuck, or fuck women they don't love. Needless to say, women are not evil for having these desires. They don't want to hurt those men or their husbands either. They just feel their desire use me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:35 AM
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For those of you struggling to answer the question about your social class, I compiled a short guide based on my sociological research of internet forums. It's based on the yearly income of a two-parent household with 2.1 children: $100K or less - Too poor to have internet access $101K to $300K - Scraping by. $301K to $600K - Lower middle class. Probably slumming it up in a detached home with less than 5 bathrooms. $601K to $999.9K - Upper middle class. Living comfortably, but not playing golf a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:54 AM
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Difference between being neutral and treated favorably is what respect is. I ask because when people bring up "respect" in those situations they do not mean "treating someone favorably", they usually mean that they treat the person they don't respect as less than they would treat someone who they're neutral about. I don't think that I've seen feminists advocating that sex workers need to be treated like royalty. If you don't know the difference between a drug user and a drug dealer, I'm not sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:20 PM
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Woman slut or man slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:44 PM
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I didn't mean to say that women are the standard. The point that I'm making is that women who have lower standards for sex, whether they're the default or not, are having standards as the men insulting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:26 PM
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Seeing as male is default character I think it's actually because women have higher standards I'm not sure I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:12 PM
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And this gender has a hard time getting sex because they have lower standards for sex while simultaneously judging women who have standards as low as theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:08 PM
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If women just pathologize casual sex or explore sex with vastly different standards than for a relationship, it creates perceived scarcity for sex and causes men to fixate on obtaining it. I agree with most of what you said, but not with this. Pathologizing casual sex is not a woman only thing. Plenty of men, many of whom are also having casual sex, think that casual sex taints women or is the product of psychological problems in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:06 PM
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And yet this men who are also engaging in NSA sex don't see themselves as scraps, only the women they sleep with are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:58 PM
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NSFW groups attract people looking for sex or open to it. If you post on these sort of groups you'll eventually end up interacting with men looking for sex, whether it's the majority of them of not. I get the impression that you take this interactions personally and see them as offensive. You shouldn't. You should just accept that some men are interested in casual sex and ignore them if you're not interested in interacting with them further.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:42 PM
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What do you mean by "respect"? Admiration or simply not treating people badly because of what they do when it doesn't affect you? I mean, men also complain about the stigma of using prostitutes, so how complaining about the stigma of being one is any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:33 PM
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I'm just leaving this here: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:20 PM
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If red pill blogs were the new cosmo magazine they were offering more ass-eating tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:06 PM
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Or by women who think that sex work should be regularized, made safer for women who actually choose to be there, and become a no go-zone for traffickers. Nobody should be forced into sex work or engage in it if they don't feel comfortable, but at the same time, certain branches of feminism should policing consensual sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:05 PM
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That would be a nightmare for me. I lived in a culture that is overprotective of women's sexuality, and all it achieved was making women guilty about acting on their sexual desires, even after marriage. I say "women" because it has been my experience that traditional couples put the ultimate responsibility of sexual restraint on women. The fact that you highlight women's but not man's virginity is a great example of this. I wouldn't like my parents to be involved in the courting process either. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 07:19 PM
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Men do the best when they're not desperate for sex. Women do the best when they're not desperate for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:28 PM
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I don't think virgin shaming is ok. In fact, I think your sexual experience in nobody's business unless it affects other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 03:06 AM
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Anyhow, he's racked up a body count in the nid double digits but legitimately gets hurt when the girls realize he's not really relationship material and move on. I think most women are used to the idea that (some) men will sleep with them but not date them. Most men seem to assume that if they got a woman in bed they also got her in a relationship and don't deal well when they realize they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:33 AM
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Women didn't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:24 AM
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I've known of men who seem to get women in bed, but complain when this women don't want to continue the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:00 PM
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Saying that both men AND women are partly responsible for who they sleep with and how they do it is not blaming men or infantilizing women. However, saying that women are the ones with the power over sex and excusing man's bad behavior on their low standards it's infantilizing to men. I'm pretty sure that plenty of men behave the way they do because there's plenty of women and men like you who think that expecting men to be partly responsible for where they stick their dicks is offensive. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:58 PM
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There are man y potential explanations, but like many things in psychology, it's hard to prove a causal link between biology/upbringing and behavior. A possible explanation is that male strength gave them a comparative advantage in gathering resources which paved the way for the traditional family, whose dynamics are learned very early in childhood by observing ones parents. I'm pretty sure that there are many other potential explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:50 PM
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Women like this are attracted to many guys, they just aren't too attracted to most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:41 PM
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Are you trolling? The chart reads Percentages of Married Men & Women with a Bachelor's Degree Married to a Spouse Without One. For men who were surveyed in the 2010-2018 period, this was under 35%, for women, this figure was above 35%. For the youngest group of men surveyed in the same period, this number was 25% or less, whereas for women the number was above 40%. You're the on who need to learn how to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:40 PM
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We've all heard about Chad pumping and dumping, but what about Stacey squiring and quitting? Discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:03 AM
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It's not an argument, it's just me giving you permission to do stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:01 AM
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No, I'm just giving you permission to think she was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:59 AM
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Me sucky sucky, me so horny, me love you long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:57 AM
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From now on, you all get my permission to be jealous of your partner going half-naked to a concert while masturbating to porn AT the concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:56 AM
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In fact, most foreign women can probably speak more languages than the average American, which is ACTUALLY shown to increase intelligence. I'm a foreign woman and I've no idea where this comes from unless you're referring to foreign women living in an English speaking country or Dutch/German/Nordic women. Most of the women living in countries where passport bros like to go don't speak more than one language. The "can't even" speak english isn't an insult to their intelligence, it's pointing out …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:53 AM
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It most be all the stench from PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:44 AM
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Nobody "gatekeeps" fertility. A man can say "no" or wear a condom. The "gatekeeping" argument exists because a large chunk of society hasn't come to terms that sex cuts both ways and that men have a say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:34 AM
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Firstly women choose who gets to procreate/ pass on their genes. No, both men and women choose were to stick it. What has been going on in history is irrelevant to the fact that the man can say "no" to sex or wear a condom as much as the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:31 AM
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Hot! I prefer green then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:21 AM
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What color are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:18 AM
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Are those the new colors for viagra?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:13 AM
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I'm criminally insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:57 PM
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Maybe women should just not give any of them sex before marriage and make that popular in culture again. Women aren't sex dispensing machines. They don't give sex any more than men give dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:57 PM
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What do I gain from marriage (I’m not religious so that aspect is gone) You get the respect from random PPD users.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:52 PM
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Because the OP is a traditionalist and, according to traditionalism, bad behavior from men is the result of women's failure to put a stop on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:50 PM
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I respect your consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:44 PM
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It's not misleading because if women were not interested in marrying men without a degree, even if they were more likely to have one, the few married women would be married to men with degrees, while the surplus of women with degrees would not appear in the chart at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:44 PM
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It's about sex, not cumming. It's about being provided for, not spending money. Nobody suggested manipulation. A quick reminder that you did: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:37 PM
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It doesn't matter what's the function of a ring. The point is that there's the expectation that just one party gets one. Of course both couples can get both a ring or skip it altogether, but that's beyond the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:33 PM
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Young women may be more likely to marry a man without a degree today compared to men today because of the existence of gap The question is if women with degrees marry men without one. Data show they do. The common argument is that women with higher education that don't find men with degree struggle to find a partner because they refuse to marry someone with a different educational attainment level. Number show this ain't true. I'm not sure what you're trying to say here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:30 PM
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Is the expectation of a birthday gift based on gender, race or other characteristic other than the date of your birth, which everyone has?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:27 PM
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You don't need a woman to cum. You can use your hand or fuck other men. Manipulating some poor woman into sex is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:24 PM
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A diamond ring in not a simple romantic gesture and it's not an exchange, it's a one way expectation. Of course, people are free to pursue the kind of dynamic they want, I'm not arguing that they should not. I'm arguing that it's contradictory to believe in equality while expecting an unequal dynamic. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:23 PM
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Yes, didn't you see his commentary on the song?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:01 PM
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They're not saying it's wrong or bad to give someone a ring. You're actually trying to argue it's hypocrisy to receive any gift, which is ridiculous. There's a big difference between getting gifts and expecting a ring based on gender traditions. There is nothing contradictory about supporting some socially conservative views and believing in gender equality - in fact, most modern western right-wing parties are moving towards this set of views. Most modern western ring wing parties who believe in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:01 PM
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The tradition is for the man to give the woman a ring, so it's safe to assume that what he means is that these women expect a ring, but don't give out a ring themselves. I don't think this is something that needs to be stated explicitly. You mention that people can support a left wing party and be pro-marriage. Sure, they can. Marriage is a legal agreement that affects the genders equally. Marriage isn't inherently traditional, although some of its customs are. The left wing isn't inherently pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:17 PM
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I thought that everybody here made at least six digits and lived in the 'burbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:33 PM
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Why do men who don't offer anything else complain about being used for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:19 PM
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The OP isn't criticizing marriage, he's criticizing the traditional rituals that come with it. A progressive person, I assume, believes in equality. Expecting a ring from your partner is not egalitarian, unless it's an exchange of rings in which both partners participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:15 PM
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Progressive people don't need to proclaim how progressive they are. Anybody who does is most likely very traditional in some other way. I've had the same experience with "progressive" people. If you really want a progressive woman watch how they act, not how they identify.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:11 PM
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Does Shapiro even WAP?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:06 PM
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Younger women (between 23 and 32yo) surveyed during the last wave(s) (2010-2018) are the group of women with college degree who are the most likely to be married to a man without one. More so if you did one now you find even fewer college educated women with men without a college education. Do you happen to have a more recent study on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:04 PM
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I like self-sufficient smart men. They're more likely to have a college degree, but they don't have to have one for me to find them attractive. Despite the hysteria surrounding the gender degree gap, young women with a degree are more likely than young man with a degree to marry someone without one: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:26 PM
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I have to disagree with your first sentence. Both men and women know who gets the most attention from the opposite sex in their respective group of friends. Women can also tell the difference between sexy and sophisticated. They understand that Megan Fox and Emma Watson, for example, appeal to different audiences or to the same audiences for different reasons. They know that Watson doesn't have as much sex appeal and is less striking than Fox, but they aren't wrong when they assume that women li…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:17 PM
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-more clothing options/your behavior is less scrutinized Actually, women's behavior is more scrutinized than men's and there's a whole body of research on the topic. People expect women to be better behaved and more moral than men, so they're more penalized than men when they fail to live up to these standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:16 AM
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Like Maybe you're in a club and a guy goes homes with another girl, Maybe you're talking to a guy and you find out that he got into a relationship with someone else in the middle of the talking stage, etc. There's nothing to deal with here except for with my feelings. The guy already made his decision by going with another woman. The same goes for him getting into a relationship. There was someone I liked, but I'm not sure if those feelings were mutual. I later found out that he started dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:22 AM
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Yes. It's finishing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:00 PM
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What would be an example of a man being demonized for not being obsessed with women? Most of men in our lives are acquaintances who treat us with the same courtesy they treat other men, but aren't particularly interested in us. These men aren't demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:13 PM
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I do not use evolutionary psychology to explain pretty much anything. Evolutionary psychology has the same vices as many other social science fields that aren't experimental and thus can't establish a causal relationship between two variables, but still rely heavily on assumptions that have have never been tested by the person(s) conducting the research. For example, we know that women are more sensitive to resource cues in potential partners, but there's no way to test if this is an inborn trai…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:34 PM
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Not to mention that the couple might be having secondary infertility. I'm not really sure what people are trying to achieve when they ask others to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:48 AM
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You'd be surprised how man y people there are out there who don't think that sex with an unconscious person is a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:18 AM
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As it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:17 AM
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A friend and her husband had a daughter a few years ago. People are insisting that they have another child. These people don't know that they're in the process of divorcing because of his legal troubles and alcoholism. A friend and her partner who have been living together for a while get a lot of pressure from their parents to have a child. She got pregnant, but had to terminate the pregnancy because after paying for childcare and other baby expenses they wouldn't be able to pay rent, and none …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:15 AM
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No, there's only pepper.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:49 AM
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This should be the norm. Both parents should be able to have a life outside of family, but also know and be willing to take care of their children. Women should stop gatekeeping childcare and men should spend more time taking of their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:47 AM
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I want someone that doesn’t make me feel cheap and used. Nobody can make you feel cheap and used without your consent. Easier said than done, but women's biggest weakness is that they deep down hold the same beliefs about themselves as sexist men. Fortunately, not all men think this way. Unfortunately, you can't change those who do. The good news is that you can work on how you see sex and learn to not rely on men's validation of your sexuality. When you feel genuinely comfortable about your sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:45 AM
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Why are men so complicated? Why do they have to chase me, send me flowers and take me on dates? They like holding my hand and telling me how beautiful I look. They go to great length to prove to me that they're worthy of my attention. They get degrees, high-stress jobs just to convince me they have the resources to care for our offspring, when all I want is dick and a nice six-pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:29 PM
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I don't want a whole body nor his time. I just want dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:21 PM
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It's up to your boyfriend to not flirt back.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:19 PM
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Something like this: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:17 PM
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It's an annoying answer to "why do you expect this behavior in a relationship?", but it's also the most honest one. Most of our expectations in a relationship are learned from watching the roles our parents played. We spend most of our time either trying to replicate those roles or trying to correct what we felt was wrong about them. Many people grew up wanting to imitate the traditional aspects of our parents relationship, but fixing the disadvantages those roles come with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:38 AM
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No idea to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:30 AM
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Oh wow! That was the most intelligent thing I've heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:37 AM
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He's planning to conquer Russia. No other person has potential for an empire that big.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:35 AM
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Congrats. I don't have to worry about anything anymore because you got laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:34 AM
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Penis
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:32 AM
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Hiring a private chef.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:30 AM
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The guy who masturbates to anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:30 PM
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Every woman has a vagina, so a vagina can't be valuable. That's economics 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:03 PM
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Which mean both can be fat as long as they bring pussy, competence or skill, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:57 PM
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It doesn't matter what it entails. She's filtering men that would disagree with women's right whatever those mean to her. This isn't an attempt to debate, this is a filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:55 PM
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Because women’s rights is definitely something a guy wants to talk about when he matches with you on a dating/hook up app. So many women make themselves unapproachable on dating apps Looks like her filter is working as expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:34 PM
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People with no social life have many options to increase their dating prospects: Mail order brides and grooms Arranged marriages by mom and dad AI girlfriends/boyfriends Blow-up dolls They don't need to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:33 PM
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You won't get cancelled unless you also start insulting other groups. Nobody will cancel you for saying "fat men are beautiful".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:28 PM
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I'd love to marry him just as he is. I'd wait for him to cheat on me and then proceed to divorce-rape him. Unlike McKenzie who put that money towards charity, I'd buy myself a harem of 21 year old dudes with a six pack none of whom I would want to marry because I wouldn't like to get divorce-raped. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:25 PM
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then out of the blue she gets distant and you find out she is dating several men, men that she has carefully selected, to determine who is the "winner". you are not special to her, you are not unique, you were just a player in her "strategy". She probably took the red pill and forgot that the advice to spin plates, sleep around and don't simp was directed at men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:20 PM
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Start your own. Who's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:16 PM
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Red flags don't matter, what matters is your tolerance to certain behaviors. Being heavily tatted up and drinking alcohol is correlated with impulsiveness, but many man do find impulsiveness and other problematic behaviors attractive even if they don't do so consciously, which explains their inability to find something "better". There are also many women who show problematic behaviors even if they don't drink and aren't tatted up, who also never fail to get long term relationships. Red flags tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:52 PM
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As someone who was constantly catcalled and saw other women getting catcalled, catcalling men back made them stop most of the time. Men seem to like the idea of it until they start experiencing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:38 PM
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I'd catcall him back and see how he likes it. His housing status is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:17 AM
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How is this related to the OP's question? Yes, sugaring is prostitution and I would also go as far as to say that the expectation of traditional relationship is a form of monogamous prostitution as well, but how many women are sugar babies or seeking that sort of relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:13 AM
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If it's dehumanizing, why only women get flak for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:08 AM
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Yeah this is true but it has very little to do with ethical behaviour or does it? Sex is considered a moral/ethical issue by many people, so I would say yes. There's no actual physical or psychological harm inflicted on others by people who post half-naked pictures. Depends on what the behaviour is I think but this is just because men are seen as more competent, not because they are judged less harshly on ethical behaviour. I'm pretty sure that perceptions of competence are part of this, it's st…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:17 PM
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As a woman I've scarified just as much for the love of my life. You've no idea how much money and time I spent to chain the object of my love to my basement floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:57 PM
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That's true when it comes to physical violence as women are perceived as weaker and men as stronger, but it reverses when it comes to to issues of morality. For example, female lawyers are more likely to be disbarred for violating the conduct code than male lawyers, women are judged harsher than for having sexualized pictures of themselves on social media, women are judged harsher for unethical behavior while they're directing an organization or a company, and they're also judged harsher when th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:21 PM
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You realize that rich men constitute a very small percentage of all men, right? This is most of the women you know, but a very small percentage of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:38 PM
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I don't know if most, but there are many women who only believe in equality under the law, but still expect a traditional relationship. PPD is full of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:37 PM
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Sure they cannot just sit around doing nothing. Every day at least 15 ugly and average looking women are in front of the only international hotel in the city "sunbathing" in hopes of getting a rich and good looking husband... And how many of these women succeed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:35 PM
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In what sense? that the woman has to go to a greater extent to be seen as unethical? Not really. There are many experiments showing that women get more backlash/outrage than men for the exact same behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:33 PM
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Where is the evidence that average women are travelling around the world thanks to a man's pockets?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:29 PM
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Average looking middle class women don't get free drinks and food in upscale restaurants. Average looking middle class women don't get to travel the world on a man's paycheck. Average looking middle class women don't date model-looking upper class guys. The women that have all these privileges are far from average and those are the only women you notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:09 PM
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Condoms are great! Not only they prevent pregnancies and STIs, but they can also be used as cum stained balloons on a pervert's birthday party.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:55 PM
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To piss them PPD dudes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:52 PM
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Red flags in men: posts on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:50 PM
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I don't know a single woman in her 30s that had no issues "getting commitment" in her 20s and who suddenly can't get a committed partners. All women who I know who are in their 30s and struggle getting commitment also struggled in her 20s. I also hate the whole "get commitment" phrase. It's a two way street, not something men offer women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:49 PM
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Do you realize that a a significant number of women aren't feminists and most women aren't Swedish? If you put a video on the internet about a practice that's only prevalent among a minority of people you'll get many comments that will oppose that practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:45 PM
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Even when them balls are hanging below the knees?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:26 PM
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It's only what's outside that counts... no,wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:35 AM
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I like them hot. They can be dumb and broke, but they should never be ugly. They should also be 21 years old max. I ain't dealing with them bald spot and saggy balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:30 AM
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On a side note, because I have a more positive experience with women, I also hold them to a higher standard. This is a common side effect of WaW. Women are hold to higher standards and are judged harsher when they fail to live up to it. Despite the "women aren't accountable" trope, there is a lot of research showing that unethical behavior, promiscuity and selfishness generate more backlash when it's a woman showing these.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:24 AM
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I lived in a country that's also a destination for sex tourism. I didn't have a bad experience with most foreigner, but I do remember some that were utterly disgusting. I've always got the impression that they behave this way because they think they can get away with this kind of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:07 AM
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Most people were poor for the majority of human history, and yet people had more children back then than they do today. Countries that are poor in terms of GDP per capita also have higher fertility rates than rich countries. The economic gun doesn't seem much of a factor in the decline of fertility rates unless there's available contraception and less pressure is put on couples to reproduce. When reproduction becomes a choice people are more likely to consider economic aspects of it that otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:28 AM
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Yes, I've felt it several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:54 AM
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There's nothing people love more than blaming their least favorite social system for their personal lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:53 AM
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Ah the old “all choices are equally valid” chorus line of liberalism. I've never said all choices are equally valid. I said that that prioritizing your career over motherhood is as valid as any other choice, which given the context, should mean "as any other choice regarding motherhood, such as prioritizing motherhood instead of your career". Women who really want kids and are ready to have them don't wait to have them. If they wait it's because something is missing or they're not as interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:24 AM
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He'll be my main husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:00 AM
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Where are all these dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:39 AM
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Communists like to share a bit too much. I want a harem of 21 year old dudes to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:38 AM
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Capitalism is the system that upholds prostitution. Communism is the system that upholds polyamory and gay orgies. Which system should I follow if I'm interested in eating ass and licking armpits?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:28 AM
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Most women who aren't attractive or those aren't in the same class as the guy don't get dined and wined in expensive restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:20 AM
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Both Top Gun movies were a massive cheese-show. I perfectly understand why they were popular, but i wouldn't watch them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:18 AM
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Negatives for who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:15 AM
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Women stop taking showers for a decade after they turn 30 which explains the U shaped relationships between female smell and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:13 AM
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Women who freeze their eggs because of their career are either in such a position that they can't afford raising children and supporting themselves, or they have a career they actually enjoy and prioritize it over becoming mothers, which is as valid of a choice as any other. "I want to wait to establish myself" and "we can't afford kids" is also often a reason people give others to avoid explaining other issues such as infertility and marital problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:10 AM
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Me love me some hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:01 AM
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No. If that's a big deal to you move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:23 AM
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No, I mean ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:20 AM
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I'm a woman and I don't look down on men who make less than I do. I do look down though on men who would expect me to earn less than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:24 AM
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I'm a woman and I'd be lying if I said I've never felt envious of smart successful unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:17 AM
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You said it's men who feel emasculated, not that women themselves emasculate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:09 AM
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That touches upon your comment about men being emasculated by a high earning woman. The question is, why would an ambitious woman want to tone her success to make some insecure dude happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:51 PM
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But what if they have kids? SAHMs aren't the only people with children. Most children live in a home where both parents work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:36 PM
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But it shades doubt on the idea that the SAHM is the main reason why the man is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:32 PM
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I reject putting on deodorant and using toilet paper. The bravest of us will always go against the grain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:36 PM
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To all the men who say they're not allowed to have a preference for a low n-count, from now on, I'll only allow you to date women with negative n-counts. Anything above -1 is off limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:32 PM
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I like my men to smell like curry and onion rings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:29 PM
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You have my permission to not date hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:27 PM
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Pardon my immature vocabulary. I meant to say "phallus".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:25 PM
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They clean just after themselves though, having full control over what and when is to be cleaned. They don't clean after their spouse, they don't need to keep track of the entire house, they don't need care about anyone's needs but their own, they don't do twice the dishes, etc. But they still prepare food, keep tracks of bills and appointments. Working families with children also have to do those things for their children while holding a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:23 PM
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• Pick tougher, and higher paying jobs to attract you • Work longer hours to attract you • Select harder college courses to attract you • Select younger women (because they make less money, so are thus attracted to older men) Imagine doing all of that to impress me when all I want a hot dumb 21 year old with a 6-pack a generous pee pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:06 PM
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You have my permission to go abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:59 PM
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If she was working and still got alimony chances are she made very little money. Child support is determined by who's got the custody. Either she was the primary caretaker or there were other reasons why custody was awarded to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:57 PM
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Not quite, otherwise laundromats would run out of business. We cannot get a fully automated washing machine just yet, so laundry for myself and my husband involves rinsing by hand. Not to mention delicate items that need to be either carefully handwashed or taken to dry cleaning - and I obviously opt for the former. Serious question: is this still common? I grew up in middle class in a poor country and while washing machines weren't fully automated they did most of the job. Laundromats here are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:54 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:46 PM
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I wasn't aware of any anal sex orgy around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:39 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:35 PM
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Independent women can't fuck you over built a significant share of the marital wealth, which means you can't complain about them running away with your half, as they probably put half or close to half int the marriage. Independent women aren't eligible for alimony, and because independent women were busy working, they are less likely to have been the primary caregivers and thus less likely to receive sole custody and make you pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:33 PM
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Men who are married a sahm are generally happier. Men whose wives become SAHMs either marry women with low earning potential compared to the cost of available childcare, or make much more money than the wife which often means that they also make way more money than the average man. Making more money will make you happier on average, and making a lot of money means you can easily outsource household duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:28 PM
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I am 40, divorcing, and while my divorce is a financial hit for me, I would still choose to be a SAHM and sacrifice my career advancement over those years. NOT due to laziness—but bc nobody would raise my kids with the same love, nurturing, investment, and purposefulness as me. NOBODY. What about your husband/ex-husband? I agree with the rest, but I would assume that children are the responsibility of both father and mother, provided there's no big difference between the salaries of both partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:19 PM
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I want to be paid for existing. I want five husbands who are faithful to me. I want someone to scrub my feet twice a day for free and tell me they love me for no reason. That, and very hot sex with the five husbands at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:16 PM
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Most of the households do not, in fact, have all the newest appliances that cook and do laundry for you. Almost all households in the west have a stove, a laundry machine, electricity and running water. Most people in the west don't grow their own food and don't cook from scratch. You can't compare a suburban housewife who can just put mac n cheese in a microwave to one that has to raise a whole cattle and then skin, cut and prepare her own food. You need to remember all the tasks to be done on …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:13 PM
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Why are you so insistent on judging others, and yourself, for “laziness”? Laziness it's just a word, nothing more. There are things where I or other people just have a preference to put less effort on. Nothing wrong with that. The only reason there isn’t a system that doesn’t require working for money is because capitalism utterly destroyed any alternatives. For the vast majority of human history, we lived without money. That's why I said money or services. I'll add goods/resources as well. Some…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:46 PM
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Sure, but plenty also would not. And many if not most women also don’t have the option to get a well-paid job. I understand that, but that's not the point. Wanting an easier life does not make one lazy. It seems like you’ve been so corrupted by capitalist propaganda that you think anything less than working yourself to death is “laziness.” I don't want to have children because I don't want to care for another human being. That makes me lazier than women who want to work AND care for another huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:53 PM
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It’s not “lazy” to not want to bust your ass for a pointless minimum wage job, it’s common sense. I've never denied that most people would choose a provider over a minimum wage job, but plenty of women would also choose to work on a well paid job over getting their bills paid of by a man. Of course being a SAH wife is easier, what’s wrong with that? That's the whole point. You claim aspiring SAHMs aren't lazy, but choosing the easier lifestyle is lazier by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:26 PM
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That's a great choice if the parent is a better teacher than the teacher working in the school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:20 PM
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What is a quality girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:39 PM
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Working in a low wage job means putting in long hours to pay rent and food, or putting up with the uncertainty of being given enough hours by your employer to not end up in the streets. Working a medium to high wage job means having an in-demand skill built by years of experience or education, if not both. It also often means taking decisions and solving problems that not everyone is capable of making or solving. Women in both of these scenarios still take care of their own children. Being a hou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:38 PM
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but women's innate sense of hypergamy Plenty of women marry men they outearn and many women don't have traditional expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:15 PM
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Around 18% of parents stay at home when they have children under 18, but less than 3% of children are homeschooled in the US. I suspect that these numbers are similar for Canada and other Western countries with similar childcare systems and benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:13 PM
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This post was definitely not made by a man. Plenty of men don't respect the role of a housewife. Not only I've heard many men calling SAHMs "goldiggers", but the words and the actions of those who claim to respect them tend to be condescending as well. A man who says "I'd rather my wife stays at home because i don't want her to work too much" is basically saying that being a housewife is not work. I hear this very often from men who lament how feminism "pushed" women to the workforce. Men who ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:06 PM
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SAHMs might be less likely to seek a divorce, but when they do it's messier because they'll be more likely to get alimony and custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:53 PM
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A woman serving her employer only has to worry about keeping the ropes with her employer. A woman serving her husband has to worry about her husband's rope to his employer and her own to her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:39 PM
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By that logic, the school system is still raising your child unless you plan to home-school, and the parent that work isn't raising their children either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:33 PM
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12 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:29 PM
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12 systems? Me love me some bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:29 PM
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So sorry. I know how badly you wanted to score a PPD dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:28 PM
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I get the impression that what happens is one of the following: A. Women have kids, cut hours at work and start picking up most of the chores, which establishes a dynamic where the woman is the one expected to do the cleaning. B. The man never actually did chores, and it is not until the woman stop doing them as well to take care of the children that she started realizing that her partner doesn't clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:31 AM
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I tend to get a good idea of how things look in real life as I get to research the places before I visit them. I will say though that I found Montreal overrated. I'm glad I went, but I'm not interested in going back. I also found old Brussels extremely beautiful, but too overcrowded to be enjoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:21 AM
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In english please. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:15 AM
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Who is that and what did they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:14 AM
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My n-count is high. Now I'm afraid men of PPD won't like me. Also penis and hentai. Thank you for listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:14 AM
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It's not accountability when you don't expect responsibility from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:09 AM
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I have around one hundred. Around two thirds were with vibrators I stole from my girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:07 AM
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penis
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:04 AM
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The lack of proper contact between your skin and their body fluids prevents full emotional connection from developing. People who use condoms, particularly women because of sexist biological reasons I won't explain, lose their pair-bonding ability. Only people who hit it raw are marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:04 AM
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It's controversial because it's incredibly gendered and perceived as unfair. I'd argue that women's preference for men with high income is controversial as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:21 AM
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That and being afraid of being smelly after a long day of work were the reasons we didn't have sex the first night I went to his apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:43 PM
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Only to women or to the men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:21 PM
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There's more of a cultural push for men to be promiscuous. Society just finds in normal and not half as triggering as when women sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:20 PM
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If a woman spreads her pussy at the drop of a hat, it’s because she craves intimacy and wants to leverage sex. It doesn't makes sense because of this specific assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:15 PM
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Biologically speaking, promiscuous men are unreliable because they're less likely to invest and more likely to get poached, and women are better of securing resources from several men through prostitution, but this is an argument that nobody makes because it's inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:53 AM
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Literally any woman can be one if she wanted to. Meanwhile being the guy she fucks is way harder than the relationship guy Not this argument again. It's easier for women to get laid because men have lower standards. You're basically expecting women to have high standards while condoning low ones in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:28 AM
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Just look at the twitter threads with Maegan Hall and at men's comments on any n-count thread. Here's an example: Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"? : PurplePillDebate (reddit.com)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:25 AM
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It amazes me how often I hear this argument. It's almost as if many of you believe that relationship and commitment are something men give women but not the other way around, or that when these two come from a woman they aren't valuable and the man who married the woman didn't get anything in return. Furthermore, the women in these marriages got cheated on, as I implied in my comment, so there was more commitment on the woman's side than on the man's. As for resources, most of these women worked…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:02 PM
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Yes, I understand why some men have a problem with being seen as the relationship guy. I also believe that these men make these many assumptions about what women because they also see women through the madonna/whore lens. You'd be surprised how many men I've heard saying something along the lines of "she's not the most adventurous/attractive woman I've had, but unlike those other sluts she has values and motherly qualities". Many of these men ended up marrying women much less attractive than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:21 PM
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No, would men wait though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:42 PM
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I have rejected men for their sexual behavior and none of them took it well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:41 PM
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Except that many of these men often express the desire to punish these women and believe that bad treatment against them is justifiable. Just look at PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:40 PM
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So this dude has a trail of failed marriages, is bad in bed and is in a bad shape. Why should I marry him in the first place? I'm saying this as someone who didn't want a wedding or a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:54 AM
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It's much higher than average, but might be considered average in some very sexual circles. Not sure who Brittany Renner is though. Stop comparing your sexual life with that of other people who might be in different circles and different standards to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:44 PM
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What about vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:44 PM
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There's nothing I admire more than a well shaven buttcrack because it's something very few people can achieve. God bless them nice buttcracks!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:43 PM
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I've found more than 35 guys to be attractive. Not sure how this is strange. I also get the impression that women with high n-counts and women who have had one night stands or very short term arrangements do not necessarily find all their sexual partners overly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:39 PM
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yeah, true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:32 PM
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Sexual revolution starts at home. Not with the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:40 PM
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Sexual revolution simply made many sexual behaviors more acceptable. It is also in women's interest to be able to act on her sexual impulses and attraction without being shamed. This is something that many forms of feminism promote. You're attributing sexual revolution to men in your first comment. Many men still suffer from madonna-whore complex. More sex in the media or for consumption is not a form of sexual liberation, which is what I'm assuming sexual revolution is in this context, as this …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:22 PM
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The same way you describe in your OP. The guy wants a relationship and doesn't feel satisfied by sex only. The woman doesn't want more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:10 PM
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Well, it doesn't sound like you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:09 PM
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There's nothing more liberating than living your life on your terms without the constant need of seeking everyone's respect. Women spend too much time restricting their own behavior to meet hypocritical and unfair standards. Men get used for sex by women all the time, society just doesn't expect men to bend over and backwards to some stupid purity standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:56 AM
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No. You know men and women are different right? That's also for their genitalia. Different genitalia different experience. Have you heard of the orgasm gap? Or the pleasure gap? Well those are already heavy differences and they just get worse when talking about random hookups. Are you familiar with the word "average"? Literally not what I said You didn't say it, but strongly implied it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:45 AM
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Isn't that what many men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:43 AM
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It wasn't hard though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:40 AM
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why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:51 PM
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I was being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:30 PM
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Receiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:30 PM
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I was just being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:29 PM
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I had a very high body count when I married my husband. He never suspected the amount of chads buried underneath our garden.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:46 PM
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Males being horny-brained and the general tides of change “technological media innovations” “civil rights” “human rights” etc etc brought on the “sexual revolution.” As a horny-brained woman I'm glad that I didn't have to wait for marriage anymore, or pursue sex even when there were no men around who I wanted a relationship with. Not everything sexual revolves around men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:41 PM
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Not exactly the point of the thread, but I'd argue that there are many wings of feminism that also see casual sex as being used and believe that casual sex is an invention of the patriarchy. It's a very sexist form of feminism that reminds me of the horseshoe theory, but it's real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:37 PM
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I then ended it. He wanted more I didn’t. Truth was I didn’t see him as longterm relationship material for reasons I won’t get into. That doesn't happen on PPD. Only women want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:30 PM
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That's one way to put it, I'd say casual sex is way more in favor of men generally It's in favor of whoever wants it. Those few who do don't make the rule You're not saying most women don't want casual sex, you're basically saying that no woman wants casual sex. You're making the assumption that a random woman who says she enjoyed he encounter is lying or delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:24 PM
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ass-eating > buttsex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:20 PM
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What about penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:35 PM
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Because there's a longstanding notion that sex outside relationships degrades women and the men who marry them. It's similar to women who will put with any kind of shit from men but God forbid the dude doesn't have a high paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:33 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:28 PM
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Your question comes from the assumption that casual sex exists to serve men and that any woman participating in it has lacks sex drive or motivations of her own. This says more about yourself than any man or woman who has casual sex. Some women like casual sex and they don't care how men see them anymore than men care how women who have casual sex with them see them. Casual sex itself isn't liberating. Having sex on your own terms without caring about someone else's approval is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:25 PM
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This is only one factor and it doesn't explain why sexual assault that doesn't involve the use of force is still seen as less serious when it's against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:48 PM
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This is one of the reasons, but not the only one. The difference in physical strength doesn't explain why randomly touching a woman in a crowded space where the man can't really do much more than that is seen as more offensive than when a woman does the same to a man. It doesn't explain either much of the trauma women suffer after sexual assault revolves around women feeling dirty and not around being afraid for their physical safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:25 PM
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Working a good job can make you happier as long as you're also willing to leave some of the chores to your partner. Many women still feel responsible for running the house on their own and they shouldn't. That ain't feminism's fault, that's just a holdover from older times when women were expected to prioritize family.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:20 PM
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Because women are still expected to be the primary caregivers and homemakers. There are plenty of women with children and careers. These women also marry men who do their share of childcare, and would never stay or even marry/cohabitate with a man who leaves everything to his partners. You get what you're willing to tolerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:15 PM
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Getting touched by a stranger is an invasion of my personal space. I'm pretty sure most men wouldn't appreciate that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:40 PM
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He says women's breasts feel like bags of sand He posts on PPD about not getting sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:36 PM
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I generally agree that that you can't schedule sex/romance, but comfort is also a factor is how fast you should move. Having a stranger holding my hand, or trying to kiss me out of nowhere would turn me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:33 PM
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People in my life know I'm a pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:26 PM
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I want someone who is nice, kind, caring, doesn't insult or abuse me, someone who I have a intellectual and emotional connection with and can share a laugh with. That's all. No, they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:26 PM
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Men don't need to be conventionally attractive to be sexually attractive to a woman, but they need to be her type. If a man is not a woman's type, either in terms of looks or mannerisms, money is unlikely to compensate for it. I know many guys who are unattractive to me. They didn't become any less unattractive after I discovered they had money or where business savvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:24 PM
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This might not be a popular opinion, but one of the reasons why female on male sexual assault is trivialized is because the way society perceives sexual assault is closely tied to the way society perceives male and female sexualities. Society at large still values purity in women to some extent. Sexual assault against women is not only violence against the person, but it is also seen as an assault to female purity. Men often face the apposite problem. They're expected to have experience and aggr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:18 PM
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I was a virgin myself and I've never ever held such an opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:55 AM
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I bring around 65% of the income, but I work from home some days. I do more cooking on those days. Most other days he does the cooking and I do the cleaning. We clean floors and bathroom 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:34 AM
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If you want sex, you should sit and patiently wait for women to offer sex AFTER many many MANY long years of a relationship, thats WHEN women would prefer sex! not all this "if im SUPER sexist, thatll get me early sex" there is NO "early" sex. No, I don't want to wait for sex "many long years of relationship". I have sexual needs and the sexual aspect of a relationship is essential for this relationship to form. Ironically, men who wait to have sex because they don't want to "disrespect" the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:31 AM
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SO you're settling? OMG!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:23 AM
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My mom and my dad kept their last names. I have both last names. If I had kids, which I'm not planning to, we'd give them husband's last name and my first last name, exactly like my parents did with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:22 AM
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Men aren't even expected to take their wives last name? Why do women need an excuse to keep theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:20 AM
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You really want an LTR or you're just tired of dating around? They're two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:18 AM
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Men who don't want a family either are great matches for these women. You sound like someone who thinks starting a family is an obligation and that NSA sex is some sort of punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:11 AM
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I have both my father's and my mother's last name. My father's is my first one so I sometimes shorten it. What people assume is their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:04 AM
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I lifted the toilet seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:01 AM
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I'd hate to have anything to do with these men, but if I had a gun pointed at me and was forced between being the e-thot and the wife of a guy cheating with e-thots I'd rather be the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:59 PM
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lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:57 PM
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by "super soaker" you mean WAP?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:56 PM
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ha ha ha, lol, you're so funny. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:56 PM
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In my experience, men like that aren't as great as they think they are. They also get very defensive when it's the woman who doesn't want to see them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:50 PM
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I feel sorry for your wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:46 PM
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Are you ok? I think you should take a break from this site and work on your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:44 PM
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I've no problem with bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:43 PM
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And a big reason why they're like this is because women accept them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:10 PM
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don't all PPD topics end up like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:19 PM
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I think I wouldn't ne able to respect a man who engages in behaviors he doesn't respect women for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:19 PM
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When is the anal sex weekly discussion thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:03 PM
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Not all western women are American.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:00 PM
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If you judge people for their behavior, people are allowed to judge you for yours. Women who openly talk about wanting rich men also get judged and called names. Why is it such a tragedy when men get called names for theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:59 PM
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It's not. If you go on a date with a non-promiscuous woman, and then another, and another one... what kind of backlash are you going to get for not having dated high n-count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:10 PM
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By average I mean not attractive nor unattractive. They were not obese, but they weren't pretty/handsome either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:05 PM
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People using the word publicly could get fired from their jobs. People don't get fired for not dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:03 PM
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What do you mean "allowed"? There's no forced marriage over here. You're can literally reject women for any reason you see fit. What you're actually asking is if women look down on relationship oriented guys with no casual experience who prefer relationship oriented women with no casual experience. The answer is "no", at least most of us don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:21 PM
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I lived in one of these countries and I was amazed to see how these women were considered "easy" by the men actively seeking casual sex. What wasn't so amazing was the fact that once these "easy" western women left our country, it us good well behaved non-western women who would put with these dude's crap during relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:17 PM
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There are many unflattering stereotypes about western men and women were I grew up and at the same time, scoring a mediocre western man or woman for these same people was considered an achievement. I remember many guys who would bad-mouth western women, but then drool over average looking Americans. Most people are neutral to westerners, but there was a vocal minority that acted in the way I described.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:11 PM
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Recruiters should simp harder and stop sending those dick pics to their potential employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:21 PM
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Well, not all women dream of getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:20 PM
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As men become more broke, there are less husband-able men overall. I mean women could refuse to date poor men but that would require self-respect which a lot of women don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:02 PM
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But they say they can't have standards, so I'm assuming someone is forcing them to date certain women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:59 PM
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Ah yes, women should keep their n counts low so men have more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:58 PM
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You have to people starting a conversation for no other reason than finding each other hot. These people don't know each other, there's no context as to suggest that they might have something in common and the whole process of swiping left and right feels like shopping for shoes. You can't really expect much from dating apps. You might occasionally hit gold, but that won't be it most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:17 AM
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Men can't have body-count standards Who is forcing them to date and marry high body count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:12 AM
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How much would you get paid for 3 n-count threads per day?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:50 PM
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Data also shows that men with higher n-counts are more likely to cheat and less likely to be sexually satisfied in their relationships. This part of the data gets always ignored by the "female hoes bad" proponents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:49 PM
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Men are judged by their n-count and very promiscuous can reduce their chances of a relationship with certain women. The difference is that their n-count or perceived experience is much less likely to be used as a shaming tactic hence the lack of derogatory names for promiscuous names. Even when men are judged for their promiscuity, most of the judgement comes for what they do to women, not to themselves which implies that sex actually degrades the woman and not the man she slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:47 PM
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Do people judge low n-count? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:38 PM
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I would love to love every man I've shared my bed and bedroom with, but them mofos don't stop snoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:37 PM
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I actually lied up the one time I asked. My husband didn't ask, but he assumes that it's higher than it actually is. I've never bothered to correct him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:21 PM
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Can't speak for other women, but the men I wanted to keep things with strictly casual were men that I wasn't feeling passionate about or men that had a major flaw I didn't want to deal with long term. My casual partners weren't more attractive than my husband. If I really like a guy I don't aim for something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:19 PM
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It's even harder to meet your dad while the dude is still in bed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:13 PM
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The only upsetting thing about n-count is that most people don't know how to eat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:11 PM
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Do I act inappropriately towards PPD men? I'm I thirsty for PPD male attention? Does my n-count seem high? What about armpits?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:47 PM
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Wrong! I haven't fucked anybody from PPD yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:45 PM
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Well, you're getting confused about the target of the attack. I'm aware of that, but that's not relevant given that it's her past or the idea of her past that's weaponized against her. I'm also aware that many men see their partner's past as shameful, but it's still not fair to me as a woman to be expected to abstain from certain behaviors that men don't have to just to appeal to them. These men are free not to look at me or to leave. It can only be used to shame her or Logan if they actually fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:44 PM
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It's a choice. Like why you may not want to do drugs if you might eventually want a government job or be tested at your current job. You can choose to do it anyway, but then just be aware of the potential consequences. Drugs have consequences such as addiction and physical harm if done in excess. The loss of job opportunities because you are currently using drugs is a bigger consequence than some dude mocking you on the internet, not to mention that it's a fair consequence because being high on …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:12 AM
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Why should anyone conduct their life just to avoid unfair criticism? I have a past that I'm aware could be used as a smear campaign against me. Hell, I could have no past at all and get people to spread lies about me. I just don't want to live my life according someone else's standards so some asshole and whoever who believes me doesn't judge me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:13 AM
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We love you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:06 AM
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Since slut tells are real, what's my n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:48 AM
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Good, because I just lied about my f-count. My arms have been in 50 different Chadholes. Each one of them was a slut who lost his pair-bonding due to excessive intra-anal activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:46 AM
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I have several suggestions for a thread that have never been brought to PPD: -Women who have anal with Chad but not me -Women who slept with Chad 3 dates before the first date, but made me wait til marriage -The human status of men below 6'0 ft -Passport bros -My armpits
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:40 AM
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There's nothing that turns the average PPDer more than the image of Chad fucking someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:36 AM
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Asking all the right questions. Once I stuck the whole arm up Chad's butthole. Wondering if that makes me a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:34 AM
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And well, there is no companionship, only a mask we all use to fool women in order to get some sex... If that's how you feel about women, don't get surprised if women leave when you don't pay the right price.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:30 AM
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You're not purchasing sex if the woman splits the bill, unless you consider companionship a form of payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:19 AM
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Here, but now you need to lick them: https://i.pinimg.com/600x315/c2/f4/82/c2f482b8daa41ee1b60e2ee85d306158.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:17 AM
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then don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:39 PM
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So you're essentially purchasing sex. If the provision of goods and services stop, why should women stick?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:05 PM
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I'm really sorry about your aunt. On the other hand, your posting history suggests that you also treat women as disposable so why should women stick to you in the good and in the bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:02 PM
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I thought only chads could have casual sex. You also have no idea what kind of women he slept with. You just found a comment that contradicts your expectations so now you're trying to spin the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:55 PM
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OP asked about "strangers" and I specifically said "don't touch" and "don't make sexual comments". What kind of mental and health issues are you gonna have if you don't tell that random hottie that you like her ass while slapping her on the butt?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:51 AM
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Sounds crazy, but I don't even remember who was the first to talk about it. To answer your question, yes, I think it's ok for women to start it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:45 PM
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This is what I said in my first reply: I find the idea of waiting to be asked to be legally bound someone utterly strange. I don't believe in proposals, at least not in the "would you marry me?" types. I believe that marriage should be discussed in the same way that any other legal agreement. Whoever thinks about it first should mention it first. And no, I don't care for rings. I wouldn't ask for one and I wouldn't buy one either. There are better things to spend our money on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:41 PM
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Nobody proposed and we don't have a ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:36 PM
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You're welcome. I forgot to add: you don't need to worry about a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:35 PM
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Hard disagree to both statements: You can't control your thoughts. Finding people sexually appealing is normal and the hysteria around men viewing women in a sexual light implies that something about being a sexual being as a woman is wrong. What you should never do is acting on that desire. Don't touch, don't make any sexual comments about me and we're good. The idea that women don't view men (or other women) in a sexual light has been debunked by brain imaging studies and other studies that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:31 PM
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No, I think that the one who makes more needs to pay more. We both initiate sex and marriage was a mutual agreement. I find the idea of waiting to be asked to be legally bound someone utterly strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:23 PM
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No, he doesn't need to have a degree to be attractive, but if he's in my circle of friends he will likely have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:19 PM
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NVM, I thought OP said the worst "you've heard".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:54 PM
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If he hits you he loves you. Stay with him!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:50 PM
1

Is that a real advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:49 PM
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Actually he did, if n-count and attention from women are a marker for options as TRP argues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:47 PM
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I prefer a man who doesn't treat me like a child. I don't find it attractive when men insist to pay for everything. I'd rather have someone who treats me as an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:55 PM
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Settling is getting with someone you don't actually find attractive. Being with someone you recognize is flawed, but someone you're attracted to is not settling. If none of the people you're attracted to are attracted to you them there's the option of being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:58 PM
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Just look at your average streamer/YouTuber or even go out and look what life your neighbours are living. It's opposite of celebrity culture. I don't know many slutty woman who didn't marry/partnered up long term with the exact type of man that redpillers admire. Those who married unattractive men ended with them because they were unattractive themselves, not because they were sluts. From evolutionary standpoint a promiscuous woman is more likely to be a terrible mother. From an evolutionary sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:54 PM
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I've never had a man who wanted something long term with me ask. Not even my husband asked about my number even though he assumes it's high and jokes about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:49 PM
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The relationships you're talking about fail because the man bought into this garbage about men and women being equal. Nope, these relationships failed because these men got with lazy women and were surprised that they were lazy a few years in. Plenty of women contribute to the household expenses. He thought he deserved an equal partner in helping pay for things. Women don't actually think like that. I'm a woman and I contribute to a big share of expenses at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:46 PM
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But fact is that sluts still get married. And another fact is that many of these sluts also marry promiscuous men, so many of the problems caused by past promiscuity are also caused by man's pasts as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:42 PM
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Studies also show that fertility rates were higher at the beginning in 1900s than they are today, and even higher in the first half of the 1800s were it peaked at 7.0. It's also safe to assume that women in those times had children at a younger age. If economy and time were the main factors driving childlessness, fertility rates would be higher today than they were back then, as poverty back then was rampant, working shifts were very long, pay was low and quality of life was low as well as evide…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:39 PM
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I didn't want to waste my time educating you about all the other things you believe to be true but are not supported by any good data. I don't want to be educated by someone who bothers to write a response without actually addressing anything of what I've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:10 PM
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I don't know, some do I guess. The point is that not making enough money as a woman can be a deal breaker once the honeymoon phase ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:44 AM
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Divorce, losing half, losing children, going to prison for missing child support. This is the result of marrying women who either earn much less than you do, not body count. You also didn't address anything of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:43 AM
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They understand these slurs have a negative connotation but they don't understand the real world implication it has on a marriage viability, happiness, woman's behavior/fidelity, etc. They don't need to understand any of that. If that was the reason redpillers were "avoiding" promiscuous women they'd also avoid large age gaps, uneducated women or marrying women in their early 20s, but they don't. Furthermore, they would avoid high n-counts for themselves as more promiscuous men arse also shown t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:38 PM
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Men and women have completely different motives for working. A woman's job is her choice. Cool, but doesn't really matter to the guy she's after. He will stay with her if he likes the way she looks and likes being around her. I've seen relationships getting rocky because the woman refuses to work. Not all men dream of taking financial care of another adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:22 PM
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C'mon man. There are dozens of slurs for promiscuous women. Men constantly judge women by their revealing clothes, by how "easy" she's to get in bed, and say shit like "you can't make a hoe into a housewife". Men are aware, many just don't care enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:13 PM
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Because real life is not a red pill subreddit with unidimensional made-up women and men. Real life women might qualities that compensate for their promiscuity. Not all real life men care enough about promiscuity as to reject women who they perceive to be or to have been promiscuous. Many men, consciously or not, prefer women who are promiscuous or who have qualities that correlate with promiscuity. Promiscuous-looking women, I say "looking" because there's no way to accurately know someone numbe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:08 PM
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I've heard of "empty nest syndrome" for mothers who had their kids move out. So the logic of "Can't have empty nest syndrome if you never filled it to begin with" makes sense. I think the empty nest doesn't hit women who are simply mothers, but women who made their lives revolve around motherhood. I would imagine that mothers with careers or hobbies do well after their children are gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:08 PM
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Articles don't need to celebrate motherhood explicitly. Reporting on celebrities being pregnant, having children, talking about motherhood, or on regular people and their families pretty much sets motherhood as a norm. I can go weeks and often more than a month without seeing an article about the wonders of childlessness. If childless ness was the norm, nobody would need to be told how great it is so explicitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:58 PM
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Which modern society? For every article about how great being childfree is, there are five other either celebrating motherhood or reporting how x celeb just had a kid. Being a parent is still pretty much the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:49 PM
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I don't think there's much to be confused about here. You're pretty much choosing childlessness by being on the fence. You would be trying to conceive if you wanted children more than the status quo, but you're not. We me choices through inaction every single day and we don't even realize it. If having children wasn't such a big expectation the type of couples you're talking about would go on with their lives without even thinking about kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:44 PM
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Fertility rate today is the lowest it has been within more than 100 years. I really doubt our economy is doing worse today than it did during the two world wars or the great depression, especially considering that people at the beginning of the last century had to feed more mouths while also working more hours for a meagre pay. Marriage and children are increasingly seen as an option and not as an obligation. People actually stop to think about finances before having kids when they know that hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:28 PM
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When you care a lot about something you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:05 PM
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I don’t think the real truth has come out yet. And it might not come at all. Celebrities have a life outside of tabloids we know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:27 PM
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It's not proof that men don't care, but it's proof that they don't care enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:18 PM
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All relationships require mutual effort at some point, regardless of who's the one to take the first step. If I ask a guy out and he doesn't seem interested during the first date, or never texts me first then I have my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:46 PM
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They all seem good to me. B wants children, so might not be a good match if I wanted something long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:42 PM
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I feel that as a woman, expecting men to lead puts me in the passenger seat. That's a good place to be at times, but when everything you do is dictated by someone else you start feeling very little control over your life. I'm aware there's the expectation for men to lead, but the only solution I see for men who don't want to be in that position all the time is to find a woman who is more egalitarian, not in the lip-service kind of way, but one who also acts in that manner. That said, it's very l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:32 PM
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No, I understand that. There are many reasons why a horny person doesn't have sex. My point is that abstaining from sex just to keep a low n-count is not a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:37 PM
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Because you have competing other values and you aren’t making decisions in a vacuum What other values? Thinking that casual sex is wrong and that I need to abstain from it? Why should I abstain from it when the hypothetical man I'm dating won't abstain from it either if given the opportunity? It’s amazing how hard it can be for women to understand men We understand men, we just don't care enough to act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:06 PM
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Many people would argue that you can have a high sex drive and avoid casual sex. While this is true to some extent, long term relationships are not always available. If I'm in between relationships and feel sexual desire, why should I pass the opportunity to have safe casual sex if it will satisfy my desires?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:47 PM
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He was specifically talking about tall men while conveniently ignoring the part where women prefer rich men, probably because he can't argue against the fact that this is a standard that is highly shamed by both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:28 PM
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And you are conveniently leaving out the findings for men from another study from the same institute. The higher the number of sexual partner a man has, the less satisfied he's with his marriage. Please refer to Table 2 and Figure 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:25 PM
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This is true, but although I say "men" I'm specifically referring to this category: Some men are promiscuous and judge promiscuous women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:55 PM
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Please, refer to the reply on your other comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:54 PM
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Do they also sleep with many men and think it's ok for them to do so? Not this "argument" again. They're sleeping with many women/people. They're also being promiscuous. So yes, that makes them hypocrites, just like being an unemployed woman bitching about unemployed men also makes her a hypocrite as her gender doesn't make her any less unemployed, just like a man's and the people he sleeps with genders don't make him any less promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:53 PM
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You can't even respond to a comment without sounding triggered. I know you don't give a shit about these men, just like many women who you consider not up to your standards don't really give a shit about you either. You dont live up to mine so you can keep dreaming about it, to dream is free. I'm not dreaming about men like you, and it sounds like this is exactly what bothers you. You're not special either and there is no reason why women or anybody else should change their behavior to validate …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:46 PM
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And then I saw him, the man with the face of a horny donkey and the body of a pregnant cow, but he was also 6'5. His height made him the most attractive person I ever laid my eyes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:42 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:37 AM
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Regardless, what I see being argued most in the manosphere is women who want to be provided for (traditional) but also want to go out to clubs and sleep around (not traditional). These women are just the equivalent of manospherian dudes who want to fuck around and then expect a good woman to drop her standards for him, to love him for who he is, but to be willing to depend financially on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:26 AM
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Not sure how that's relevant to anything I said. Why should promiscuous women care about how non-promiscuous women want to be perceived. Also, I never said men should want promiscuous women, I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy on promiscuous men who demand good women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:23 AM
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Only gold digger even applies to that, but ok. Goldigger is used to criticize women who want to marry rich. You explicitly mentioned the word "rich". No, most men understand women biologically crave provisioning. We get that. Most men would not date a woman who openly says she wants a high earner/wealthy husband. This is one of the most complained about standards in the manosphere and other male spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:20 AM
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C'mon now. We both know women perceived to be promiscuous are insulted and labeled as "not girlfriend material" as soon as their seemingly promiscuous behavior becomes evident, before you even know if she expects you to pay or not. The men calling these women whores don't suddenly give them a free pass when they agree to go dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:18 AM
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They're hypocrites because they engage in a behavior they criticize women for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:33 AM
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"Women want tall, rich, handsome men because they're short, broke/lazy and ugly." - said no man ever. No, but they've called women goldiggers, prostitutes, entitled, height queens, desperate and so on. Why can't women understand the biological reasoning behind not wanting high n-count women regarding paternity/disease? I understand the "biological" explanation. I just think it's dishonest and self-serving. Women are called goldiggers despite any bio-explanation. You can also argue that promiscuo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:32 AM
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I addressed his arguments. Women aren't called insecure, but they're called entitled and goldiggers for having preferences. I'm not sure what else you want me to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:26 AM
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They're considered self-entitled and superficial. Women who prefer rich men are called golddiggers and, in the worst case scenarios, prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:40 AM
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Men are allowed to have standards and boundaries, but these standards and boundaries are also up for criticism. Men love to call women names for preferring rich, tall or hot men, so why hypocritical standards that men hold are off-limits when it comes to criticism? I've heard men who were interested in dating me calling women sluts and saying how promiscuous women were only good for sex. I couldn't force those guys to like promiscuous women, but I was entitled to reject them for their hypocrisy …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:56 AM
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I was a hoe and so was my husband. He's well aware of my history. i dont see no promiscuous hoe pricing guys for not caring about body count I've rejected guys for caring about body count. Keep in mind that I wasn't promiscuous by those guys standards, but these dudes did hold many double standards against women that I wasn't willing to put up with. You're writing a rant complaining about women and their standards, but the thing is, women also are entitled to reject men whose standards they disa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:48 AM
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People were talking about Taylor Swift non-stop in our work group chat, about how they had to get those tickets. None of those talking about it were women or gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:35 AM
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If a woman knows the guy only wants sex, but she accepts his advances because he doesn't want anything else from him, did she get used fro sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:10 AM
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My husband slept with a girlfriend before he met me on the first date. He didn't invite me to his apartment until a few dates in even though I was horny. It's really unfair how he made me wait for dick while giving dick to another chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:44 AM
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I use face cream, but aloe is good too. It also depends on your skin. Everyone's skin is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:34 AM
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Why you can't let her know you want to be a father and that you read all the books?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:40 AM
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Serial monogamy requires both parties to agree to be exclusive and in a relationship. Sleeping with someone with whom you're not in a relationship is not monogamy. By your logic, having one night stands is serial monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:37 AM
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congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:31 AM
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Don't shave very often because it can irritate the skin. Apply cream before you go to sleep them keep it hydrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:29 AM
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The guy I had sex with for the first time also did an amazing armpit licking job with pics and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:52 AM
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Certified husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:51 AM
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Pretty much. It felt good physically, but the passion wasn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:13 PM
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The fact that alchol is almost always involved with these one night stands just proves that point. Alcohol actually decreases inhibition and leads people to act on impulses that they otherwise suppress. If anything, the use of alcohol might prove that a huge aspect in sexual restraint is social.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:11 PM
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I don't think his performance was bad. I actually had an orgasm. It's just that I wasn't attracted to him so reciprocating felt more like a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:58 PM
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Listen ladies: if a man ate Stacy's ass on a first date, but is making you wait 3 months to eat yours, he doesn't love you. Also, if a man has eaten too many asses then he's no longer boyfriend material. You all know that it's hard to get a man to eat pussy, let alone ass. If he has eaten more than 5 assess, or has eaten ass outside a committed relationship, he's for the streets because his pair-bonding ability as been damaged by the constant mouth-to-anus contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:55 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:44 PM
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Yes. I once hooked up with someone because I was curious about what it would be like having sex with him. It was meh. I wanted it to be over as soon as I started.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:42 PM
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I think it's more than the idea of submission. It's the idea that sex degrades women even when there's no actual sex, such as in the case of women wearing revealing clothes. Sex is often seen as something man take from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:34 PM
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That's why you don't handle their baggage, you just spend with them one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:30 PM
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How many armpits should i lick before I'm a slut? How many armpits should he lick before he's a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:55 PM
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Sounds like a serial killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:42 PM
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The less you want in life the more power you have. This doesn't only apply to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:40 PM
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Because women are still judged by how seriously a man takes them and marriage is sign that the woman was worthy enough to be picked up by someone. This is reflected by the fact that when a couple isn't married, many people assume it's because the man hasn't proposed and look at the woman with pity. The expectation that the woman waits for the man to propose doesn't help the 'cause either. Being a hitchhiker will always put you in a more desperate situation than being a driver who can decide whom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:39 PM
1

Found Eva Mendes' reddit account.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:23 PM
1

I thought I read "socialism". I was going to disagree, but then I realized you said "socialization". I have nothing to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:20 PM
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Having children is only the entire point of marriage and dating for people who don't see any other point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:32 PM
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Probably depends on the country. I know that most women in the US and UK still take husband's surname. Don't know how accurate statistics are, but looks like less than 30% of women keep their surname in these places. These percentage is higher among high earning women, women with advanced degrees and immigrant women from countries where changing your surname isn't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:49 PM
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The difference is that you do charity to help existing human beings who need your help, and most of whom aren't good nor bad. You're arguing that one should reproduce for the small chance that one of your descendants might become the next messiah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:05 AM
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You can also donate money to charity, become a physician or a scientist, donate organs to those who need them and foster children who don't have parents. All these things have a certain, immediate and positive impact on society. Reproducing with the hopes that one of your descendants goes on to do some great things for the world does not. In fact, there's a chance that this descendent will become a corrupt politician/businessperson or mass murderer, or someone other that the world won't be too t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:12 AM
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Unless of course, they have children between the ages of 30 and 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:34 PM
1

Just like on BBC nature programs. Big Black Cock nature programs? Big British Cock nature programs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:34 PM
1

I control whether it goes down my throat or spat into my lover's left eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:32 PM
2

Fingers are glued to PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:29 PM
1

They're all white and male?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:23 PM
2

I don't understand what your getting at. You say women who don't have kids at 30 will never have them. Stats clearly show that a significant number of mother had their first after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:21 PM
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I'm a woman. I don't care about dom men in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:19 PM
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A significant proportion of women in the US and probably in much of the Western world have their first child in their 30s. I'm not sure where people are getting the idea that a woman who doesn't have kids by 30 will never have them. For most highly educated women, motherhood doesn’t start until the 30s | Pew Research Center
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:47 PM
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Great to know your value is like really high.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:38 PM
1

Well, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:34 PM
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People say that if he wanted he would, but I don't think this is necessarily the case. If a man is shy or doesn't think you're interested he won't make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:29 PM
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Why you want the upper hand? With this mentality, you should be thinking of adopting, not marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:27 PM
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To me, a man's future or present earnings are important for practical purposes. If I'm young and still living with my parents, I don't want a man who's not working towards being independent. If I'm already older and dating men my age, then I don't want to cohabitate with/marry a man who won't contribute to the household finances. None of these are relevant to whether I find a man sexually attractive. Sexual attraction is triggered by a man's looks and the way he carries himself. A man's bank acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:08 PM
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Insisting that I should take his last name, keep my level of sexual experience low and stay home as he "supports" me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:54 PM
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Do you realize that many of the women who are in retail and service sector by their own volition are also looking for men with money to finance their lifestyle? Would you be genuinely ok with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:35 PM
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Being "used" is part of feeling shame, and studies on casual sex regret also show how women report feeling "guilty", "dirty" and "cheap". The feeling of emptiness and being used comes from having had an experience that didn't benefit you as much as advertised or expected. Do you feel used and empty when you go to an expensive restaurant just to find out the food is overpriced? Do you also feel used and empty when you finally arrive to a new city only to realize it's an expensive tourist trap? Of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:26 PM
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/u/Ainsleygz Can't wait for her to start horny-banning all the undesirables.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:28 PM
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Feeling used and worthless for having sex implies there's something wrong about sex. This is not a feeling you get from doing things you're uninterested in when those things aren't stigmatized. The fact that you rarely hear men saying the same after having casual sex reflects the differences between how women are treated for having casual sex and men doing the same. Again, there's a lot of research that supports the fact that women are still stigmatized for having sex and rejected by both men an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:22 PM
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No, I don't. Those three were the only ones from strangers I remember. I think it's cultural. Men here don't even approach women, but in some other places they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:59 PM
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I'm more shocked that some newspaper made space for this article.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:50 PM
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I feel that many of these tropes such as getting free drinks at bars and finding hookups/romantic partners from random approaches are greatly exaggerated. I've witnessed free drinks maybe once or twice times, unless you count drinks offered by friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:49 PM
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What's missing from the picture is the fact that fertility rates are lower today than they were over 100 years ago, and this seems to be the case for most countries that collected the data as far back as 1900. In the case of the United States, even the years following the great depression had higher fertility rates than the 2020s. 100 years ago supply of food was much more limited, working shifts were long and pay was low. I doubt the environment back then was good to have children. The decline …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:21 PM
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The correlation seems to exist because of the outlier. Looking at the chart, it seems that bench press and number of sexual partners aren't correlated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:59 PM
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It's perfectly ok for women to lurk, they just shouldn't upvote because when they do, it's always the comments that lurking men disagree with. So please, if you're a woman, don't hurt PPD men feelings by voting stuff they don't like. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:26 PM
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I do believe that men can be seen as sex "objects" and there's definitely a market for hot men marketed to women (Magic Mike, random shirtless dudes in chick-flicks, etc.). It's just not complained about because it's not seen as a problem. It's not seen as a problem because objectified or rather, sexualized men, are still seen as humans worthy of respect. Male sexuality is often seen as offensive to women, but not to the man himself. This is why men are rarely called sluts or have their self-res…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:19 PM
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I'm very wary about this sort of claims and this is why: nowhere in the video says that 60% of Chinese aren't procreating or that 85% aren't marrying. What it says that an estimated 60-70% of Chinese people born in the 2000s will not want children, and that 85% of marriage eligible individuals in Shenzhen aren't married. While the numbers aren't lying and fertility and marriage rates have been declining, its important to note that as countries modernize, the age of first child and first marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:55 PM
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I know. When women are watching Magic Mike or looking at the half-naked men walking they are looking at those men from the perspective of their own sex drive. Women don't know either is these men are horny or not. The point is that women's opinion on men regarding sex isn't seen as degrading to these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:58 PM
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It depresses women because sex is still stigmatized. The idea that there is a large number of women being encouraged to have sex by other women is not supported. Casual sex being shamed explicitly or implicitly, on the other hand, is supported by numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:56 AM
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The sexualization argument is implicitly based on the idea that sex degrades women, but not men. Men are sexualized, society at large just sees men as sexual beings, and women as nearly asexual beings who give up sex in exchange for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:53 AM
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Thank you. While I'm not a fan of sex work all these cries about feminism oversexualizing women is just an appeal to the madonna of society's collective madonna/whore complex. Nobody complains about the men in porn, or male sex workers because nobody judges a man based on his purity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:46 AM
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Something I've always wondered is, how come hookup culture is never seen as degrading to men and men are never seen as a sex object? We don't have an oversexualization of women problem. We have a problem of double standards masked as "concern".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:41 AM
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I either like you the way you are or I don't. People are not investing opportunities. You don't accept someone you don't like with the expectation that they will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:36 AM
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Yes, that would turn me off. I don't care if the guy doesn't have much sexual experience. If his sexual experience was built by women he didn't even like I would see it as a massive red flag as it implies desperation and tendency to treat people badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:29 AM
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No. When I hang out with men I either pay my portion or take turns in paying. The few times we've moved we contracted a profssional service and moved the stuff around ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:42 PM
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I'm sorry to inform you that watching boobs other than your own is cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:35 PM
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When you fappernick to women you're living through the image of said woman. For this reason, for this reason, any thought of sex that's not happening during real sex between you and women is cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:33 PM
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It's too late for me. I've already tainted my hand by touching a different peepee.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:26 PM
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Tell him the size of your breasts is inversely proportional to the size of your penis and show him a pic of a 12 inch dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:24 PM
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The way you've judged the looks of both women whose pictures you linked tells me everything I need to know about your standards. By that logic I might accuse you of having low ones. You do realize teenaged party boys don't really represent a cross-section of straight men in broader society right? They were not teenage party boys. They were adult men who happened to be at a party. Men who I knew ignored these sort of women in other settings as well. There is no way a straight man in his right min…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:52 PM
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You're projecting your own incredibly high standards on to men. How do you know what my standards are? Most of us really aren't that picky about looks. When I used to go out or party in gender mixed settings, women like the woman in the picture were ignored by men who were on a similar level. And since when did Nina Dobrev become a "girl next door"? She's many notches above average. You'd be surprised at how many people I've heard calling her average. She's next door in the sense that she's abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:27 PM
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Most men would happily give her the time of the day given she doesn't make it too hard. Nope, they wouldn't. These women are often ignored for better looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:35 PM
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Just a friendly reminder of how average an woman looks like. This woman might have a great personality, she might have a niche appeal, she might have grace and sex appeal, but there is no way this woman is desirable by looks alone according to conventional standards. When men say an average woman is much more desirable than an average man they're basically comparing overweight Seth Rogen to the girl next door.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:23 PM
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I mean, it depends. There's a big difference between not treating your partner badly, and toning down your sexual history for a partner because they might not approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:18 PM
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fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:50 PM
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I'm surprised by the question because that's the first time I hear this. No, it's the act, not the lack of protection that defines cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:34 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:25 PM
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I wasn't a serial monogamist. I met men I wasn't interested in dating long term or dating at all, but still wanted sex. Then I met someone I liked for both sex and a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:24 PM
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I didn't hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:14 PM
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Avoiding men that held casual sex against me was the ultimate goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:13 PM
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It doesn't go against her strategy if she likes casual sex and isn't interested in men who would hold that against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:07 PM
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If I reject your advances, that's because I'm not interested in a specific act for now or I'm not interested in you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:43 PM
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I wouldn't know what to do if this place gets banned. This is the only place where I can openly discuss my sexual repression while promoting my armpit dedicated OnlyFans so all of you simps can drool over me and finance my anti-depressants addiction. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:29 AM
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Believe it or not, many women don't want men with no self-awarness and a superiority complex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:15 PM
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Yes, women often receive unfair criticism when they do what's good for them, but if you keep accepting unfair treatment out of fear of getting criticized you will always be treated unfairly. Criticized divorced women aren't the ones getting walked over by their own husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:14 PM
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How am I damaging myself just by being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:09 PM
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In both cases the women are kept by a man. In both cases, the women select a man by how much he can provide. Plenty of women choose a traditional lifestyle because it's easier to have a man that pays for everything than having to contribute financially to the house. Also, women don't want two jobs, work job and home job. Not all women who work and have kids work two jobs. Many of them have husbands who do their fair share. These women simply don't tolerate men who leave all the housework on them…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:47 AM
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Believe it or not, not every woman believes that marriage is a sugaring arrangement, that men should be taken care of and that only mom takes care of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:17 AM
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In this case, I feel you were either different or people with a similar mindset are less vocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:10 AM
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It's not just women and "white knights" claiming this, many men seem to genuinely see things this this way as well. I'm a man and I used to feel that way too when i was younger. The question is, do these men claim that casual sex degrades them or the women they sleep with? That's the point I'm trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:03 AM
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But most of us are tired that our women are basically just a bitch to their bosses... and a hindrance in their homes/family... So instead women should become just a bitch for a man who is both a bitch to his boss and a hinderance in his home. We worked a lot to get a good income, we are fine with them taking less hours, and some of us are fine with them working nothing at all... And so did the women who worked a lot to get their own income. When are men planning to go part-time or quit their job…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:39 AM
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Those who think that casual sex is degrading and relationships are ennobling, don't think this about the men, they think this about the women involved. If you're a man and you're criticized for not wanting a committed relationship, the idea behind the criticism is that you a re hurting or damaging women, not that you're hurting or damaging yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:32 AM
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It doesn't do anything for me. I just like the morning ritual of holding a cup with hold liquid in it while I'm checking the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:19 PM
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I mean, non-exclusive relationships can work, but not when you are fucking someone you have feelings for and getting mad that they're fucking someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:16 PM
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The original paper's claims were analyzed by another study. The writers of the original paper thought indoors prostitution had been legalized in 2003, so the decline in cases of rape they found took place between 2003 and 2009. However, prostitution had been legalized in 1980 so the potential impacts of the legalization were not actually captured by the original paper. Here's the abstract of the second study: In 2013, research findings by Cunningham and Shah claimed that rape and sexually transm…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:36 PM
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I'm not interested in having children so a man in the same page would be ideal. The rest depends on what "career oriented" means. I would no date someone who doesn't contribute to the finances at all and expects a free ride. Dating someone who contributes financially and has a job, but doesn't sacrifice everything for that job would be ideal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:32 PM
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Stop projecting your insecurity darling. Not really sure what about my post suggests projecting or insecurity. It's a fact that men are more open than women to casual sex. Men are the ones who ask a female to marriage.. don’t forget There's no amount of asking that will turn a woman's "no" into a yes, so I'm not sure what you're trying to tell me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:26 PM
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I think you linked the wrong thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:47 AM
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Yep, it's working. Been together with him for quite a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:39 AM
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Good for you, why should we follow your culture and standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:35 AM
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Sometimes excessive standards come from a constant need of validation. The amount of posts you created just to tell everyone you got engaged gives me the impression that your identity revolves around this man or men in general, so it wouldn't be surprising if you used dates to validate your self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:25 AM
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Your boyfriend secretly posts on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:38 AM
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Margaret Thatcher famously said "back in my mind I hope he eats ass" I understand the premise of the line but if he likes you he's gonna wear your ass as a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:36 AM
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Q4M: Would you rather kiss June Shannon in the lips or Stacey in her butthole after three days of camping?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:34 AM
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No, you do what's best to optimize your offspring's genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:31 AM
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They congregate in your local Church of Satan and sacrifice kittens as a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:28 AM
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Are we starting this again? Men have lower standards for sex. Shaming women for having many partners is essentially shaming them for having standards as low a men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:20 PM
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I strongly disagree. There's no reason why anybody should be always the leader or the default leader based on their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:46 PM
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I'm a sexual person. Sex is part of the reason why I date someone. I can't fathom dating a guy for six months without sex. I understand some people aren't as interested in sex, but if you're definitely are, but still avoid sex out of fear that it will bring you some imaginary problems, then it means that you might not have a very healthy view of sex after all. Sex should be "withheld" for safety reasons or when you don't feel a genuine desire. not because you want to use the lack of sex as a ban…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:44 PM
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I'm not planning to have any children, but I was named according to the conventions of a country where women don't take the husband's last name. I have my father's and my mother's. I use them both in all legal documents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:33 PM
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It that was about family unity you'd be open to take her name or, even better, make up a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:30 PM
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I didn't take my husband's last name. I didn't see the need.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:09 PM
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It’s almost like our reproductive systems are different… This doesn't mean all women want to stay home any more than all men want to work 12 hours a day in a minimum wage job to support their family. "Having it all" is based around expectations not differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:10 PM
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Most of them also have ex's that pay their phone, give them rides, or pay their Netflix subscription. Is this really a common thing among women who are considered to be independent? I generally see this with couples living together, not with exes. When it is issues about cars, such as changing oil or brakes, they very often get a guy to either fix it or get their car to the mechanic. So are rich people with a cleaning service not independent? What about people who order food delivery or any othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:01 PM
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The issue is that, in the public discourse, "having it all" is framed as a female problem, because only women are expected to have a career when childless and then prioritize time with children over a career during motherhood. There's no such expectation for men to choose between fatherhood and a career, because a father isn't expected to cut his working hours or drop out of the workforce to be the primary caretaker of his children. I wouldn't be surprised if men who suddenly have to work more h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:55 PM
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High value sounds a concept more related to social status than actual attraction. Whenever I see a man or a woman referring to their partner as "high value", they're implicitly using their partner as a measure of their own self-worth, not expressing how attracted they are to them. When they use "high value" in a more abstract sense they're almost always talking about a hypothetical person with qualities that are considered desirable on paper. A woman who wants to express feelings of attraction o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:29 PM
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Do you see a massive outrage about how men are sexualizing themselves by participating in porn or uploading shirtless pics? Do you see anybody questioning a man's self respect or ability to be a long term partner just because he has a shirtless pic? Do you see as many (upvoted) mean comments under articles of men for doing something sexual? When images of people engaging in sex are leaked, do you see men getting as much flak as the women involved? Of course not. There is a reason why revenge por…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:11 PM
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Disagree here, Feminism pushes for preferred treatment. If they did they would push for Military draft, and all those grunt jobs of society. But they push for preferred jobs, that they cannot claim on merits. Ok, but you still didn't prove feminism is pushing for hypersexuality. Can you give examples of how men sexualize themselves. Here, here, here, here and let's not start with the countless movies that show half-naked walking around for no other purpose than to serve as eye-candy to horny wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:56 AM
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Feminism isn't pushing for hypersexuality, feminism is pushing for equality. Society largely accepts men as sexual beings and actually expects them to be promiscuous. Nobody questions a man's talent, brain, career or respect based on how sexual he appears. This is what many feminists don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:13 AM
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Me in my white dress: 2526908e528a4aaea2ff049d5b45808b.jpg (800×1200) (pinimg.com)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:47 AM
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I find those videos annoying as fuck. He better uses earphones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:26 AM
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Needs a shrink/10
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:24 AM
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Yes, and it pleasant. Again, not a Henry Cavill, but good looking. Definitely better looking than the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:53 AM
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Above average as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:33 PM
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OK, I'm having a good laugh now :0 :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:41 PM
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I watched the film. I loved the cinematography and the acting, but found the way the message was delivered a bit basic. It would have been more effectual if the Kens started as Barbie equals or if Barbieland became and equal place. The way it was executed made it seemed like the film was pro-women as opposed to pro-equality, or that it was pro-equality with a rushed ending. I also didn't appreciate much the fact that it resorted to many gender stereotypes to deliver its message. I prefer films l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:39 PM
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well, he is above average, he ain't Henry Cavill but he is way better looking than what you see at your local walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:32 PM
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I wasn't aware that hating America was communism, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:31 PM
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What? Trump is a commie now? Do people even know what communism means?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:27 PM
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Above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:26 PM
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Excuse me, why are you laughing at my white face?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:24 PM
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Do people really say anyone could run a company? I've never heard of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:05 PM
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Existing before marriage is cheating on your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:57 PM
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I grew up in a place where the views expressed here were very common among men. If I was still leaving there I'd probably have a casual boyfriend here and there, but wouldn't be able to trust anybody for anything long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:08 AM
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Sending anything that you don't want to be seen is a bad idea. Nudes should only be sent by people who wouldn't mind if they were leaked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:56 AM
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No, just anus
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:45 AM
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yes please
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:45 AM
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I'm not a born again virgin. I'm still pretty much a ho. Next question please!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:33 AM
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Someone else's for sure, and vagina too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:29 AM
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In case nobody has mentioned this, I'll have to let you know that penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:20 AM
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I like Matt Bomer better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:18 AM
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We've no idea who dumps whom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:16 AM
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The fact that he simped his way to the bottom of the ocean so Rose could survive proves your wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:16 AM
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Their daughter are lovely women, I'm sure, and so are their wives. It's all other women that are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:13 AM
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I'll pester my bosses with sexy gifs to see if I get a promotion too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 03:09 AM
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I don't want you to do anything. I just shared my opinion which is what we do in public forums like this. I'm also not sure why people keep calling disagreement "gaslighting". I've never even said anything about telling men they're wrong, I just mentioned that when I experienced those comments I just stopped dating these men because I didn't consider that a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:57 AM
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I doubt that men are "wired" that way. The fact that a man's level of comfort with a woman's past (or present) varies from culture to culture tells me that this is something men learn. I've slept with men early and many of them still wanted relationship. I've never felt the need to actively work with this behavior because I knew I could get a man who didn't feel this way, and I also knew that a relationship where I would be seen in that way wasn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:36 AM
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I find it fascinating the amount of women who agree with the first date double standard and then are surprised how rampant sexism among men is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:04 AM
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It does something in the mind of men with madonna/whore complex, yes. I've had men tell me similar things and I'm just too disgusted to keep seeing them afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:01 AM
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I don't think women should be cooking and cleaning for a man she isn't married to, does not live with, does not sleep with? Women shouldn't even be going out with men who'd gladly sleep with them but judge them for being easy, like the OP is suggesting. His advice is terrible and full of double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:58 AM
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If I'm attracted to a guy and enjoy spending time with him it will show and if the guy is equally attracted to me he will reciprocate. I can't show signs of commitment with a man I have no bond with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:50 AM
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Sex should NEVER hurt, no, not even the first time. Makes me wonder if vaginismus is much more widespread than than statistics show. Painful sex is so normalized that many people might be unaware of having the condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:38 AM
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Based on your information women with careers would just prefer to pay someone to care for their kids instead of giving it up since it doesn’t seem to be affected by the husbands income. Did you even take a look at the study? Staying at home IS affected by husband's income. Men at the higher AND lower ends of distribution are more likely to have SAHMs, but for any given man's income bracket, women with higher level of education have lower SAHM rates compared to women with lower level of education…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:21 AM
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A woman who’s salary is a “small fraction” of her husbands is in the top few percent of household income. That’s not the most likely scenario at all. I don’t think you have any idea what type of women general stay home or why. What I said is that this is the most likely scenario where the woman chooses to stay home. I even wrote "choose" in italics to make the distinction. When the woman makes a significant share of the household income, but stays home chances are that the childcare related cost…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:08 AM
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I'm not projecting anything onto men. This man is basically saying that men are worthy of commitment regardless of how fast they sleep with women, but women need to repress their sexual needs if they want to be worthy of a man regardless of how promiscuous he is. Nobody tells men to play hard with their wallets to show women that they aren't easy. Women who are willing to use men for money are discarded as long term partners. There's no equivalent to holding off sex from a man's perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:24 AM
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Think of it as a male version of a shit test. I'm aware it's a shit test. I've had guys trying to pull that on me. I just thanked them for the date, paid for my food and declined any future dates with them. I'm not going around trying to get into men's pockets to see if they're simps. I can't respect men who do this sort of thing and believe that women who date these men don't respect themselves either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:13 AM
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We skipped the engagement ring and the whole formal engagement as well. Not only I dislike the dynamic it symbolizes, but we also thought that money would be better spent on a trip on an investment account.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:46 AM
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Except that men are much more likely to swipe right on women they're not interested in and less likely to message a match: Overall, we find that 21% of female matches send a message, whereas only 7% of male matches send a message. Source: data/estimates/match_estimate.eps (arxiv.org)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:38 AM
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The irrational fantasy for a man, is being with a woman who says no to every guy, but yes to him on the first night, because he's so charming and so amazing that a woman who always says no couldn't hold back her desire for him. Obviously, this can't work in reality. But you should use this knowledge to make him feel like you want him so badly it hurts, "but we have to wait because I'm not that kind of girl." To be honest, as a woman, that puts me off a lot. Knowing a guy is willing to have sex w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:28 AM
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I never said all women stayed home out of necessity. The woman whose income is a small fraction of that of her husband's might not need to stay home, but this is the most likely scenario in which women choose to stay home. The choice to stay home comes at a very high cost to households where the woman makes a significant share of the income. I could also argue that it's beneficial as well to have their father around, or see both parents taking turns in caring for their children, but you very rar…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:08 AM
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Because Hollywood films aren't documentaries. They're escapism depicting a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:12 AM
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I would get an abortion regardless of height. Not interested in having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:10 AM
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Single childless people make a house home, single parents make a house home and working parents make a house home. Basically all adults who don't have a house-spouse, a maid or a disability, which is the majority of them, have to make a house home. A woman with a provider isn't staying home because of her extraordinary housekeeping skills, she's staying home because either her salary doesn't cover daycare costs or her salary is just a small fraction of that of her partner, coupled with the fact …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:04 AM
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I bet your Jesus doesn't punish you as nicely as mine does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:02 AM
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I just wanted to say that I've found Jesus and I will no longer be engaging in ungodly behavior. God bless!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:54 AM
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Men peak at 21 and hit the wall at 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:39 AM
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Hypergamy knows no limits. Imagine leaving your partner for a hot rich woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:46 PM
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She's also the only woman on PPD that nobody stops talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:43 PM
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I "date" many men and women that don't give me tingles. I call them "friends".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:32 PM
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Sex twice a week but no anal = dead bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:30 PM
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I make more and we split proportionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:29 PM
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I know plenty of unattractive and average looking women who play or played a traditional dynamic at some point in their relationship. These women were married to high earning but equally average to unattractive men. The reality is, unless you're among the wealthiest men in your circle, and much more wealthy than the woman you're trying to attract, you're unlikely to marry someone much more attractive than you are. The reason why this advice is flawed is that money matters and so does the ability…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:42 PM
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I'm really curious: what makes some who expects to live off someone else's resources of higher quality than someone who just wants to date rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:37 PM
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I don't care about a promising future or his big paycheck, but I need someone who collaborates with the finances AND household chores. A promising future is available and I would support him if he was on his way to one, but it's not something I'd choose my partner on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:04 PM
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That's already more than what more people do with their lives. I also think that making the interaction itself fun is more important than talking about your hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:40 PM
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I don't disagree, but unless you know a person intimately you might be unaware prior to the hookup what their real attitude towards sex is. The point isn't that you should keep hooking up with someone who thinks less of you, the point is that you should move on with your head up if you already hooked up with someone like this instead of dwelling on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:38 PM
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What about Florida, the only state that is shaped like a penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:51 PM
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Sounds like the 90s fashion is back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:48 PM
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You might not see it that way, but there are many men who see women that hook up with them as less, which is very often obvious in their treatment of these women. This isn't something women should care about but they often do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:37 PM
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They are either two different groups of women, or they take an issue with how the guy does the approach. Many men approach hook ups as if the woman was diminished by them. Other men approach hookups in a desperate kind of way which might also be a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:15 PM
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They always feel offended when’s a anime women’s breasteses is huge but they don’t understand how much value that stuff adds to anime. It’s also nice to be able to put anime women on a high pedestal at least once. When his standards are so low that as a woman you don't even need to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:55 PM
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Men grow up in households where mommy is the primary caretaker, and they probably see how most single parents are women. Many men assume that pregnancy and children's a woman's job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:52 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:50 PM
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I just read that post and the guy seems neurotic. The girlfriend saying she didn't know anybody who would go on that boat and later mentioned that she knew the guy once she was on the boat could've just easily be ignorance. She most likely didn't know he would be there. The fact that she mentioned him later means there was no malice on her part. The part where she doesn't mention having a boyfriend is also normal. It's not like people go around mentioning their partners unless asked or the conte…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:48 PM
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This said. My real point is fellow men dont give crap and will cut your throat but so many of you cry women when your fellow man with cut you faster than a women. The issue is that women are expected to be supportive and wonderful, and when they fail living up to this expectation the world notices right away and is more likely to penalize them. I've seen women being competitive to a toxic extent, but I've seen men being like this more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:40 AM
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I'm not refusing anything. I just don't care either way and find your question irrelevant to the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:53 AM
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I'm having a hard time understanding this logic. Whether I marry for sexual accessor not is absolutely irrelevant to my fear of getting cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:36 AM
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Yes, the data shows promiscuity damages the ability of both men and women to form healthy long-term relationships. Data doesn't show that promiscuity "damages" anything. The sort of research you're talking about can't establish causation because of its design.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:11 AM
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Which many men ignore that it also applies to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:09 AM
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The problem is that none of those thousand couples are you. I'm jealous too and I don't even know your sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:08 AM
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Having sexual power as a woman is like having a stash of drug money. Society is very unaccepting of women using their sexuality to get things and as a woman, the only type of sex women can entertain is the one that eventually leads to a romantic relationship, or fwb type of casual sex, but only to some extent. The fact that sex work and goldigging is frowned upon is sign that women trying to use sex as a tool of power is pretty much unacceptable in our society. Now, you're the type of woman who …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:59 PM
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AWB: acquaintances with benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:25 PM
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People who care about diminishing returns don't get to brag on reddit about their $300 stake
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:12 AM
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If there's anything I love more than armpits is man boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:10 AM
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man boobs > everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:03 AM
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Jordan Peterson. I don't like listening to him talk, but I want to put my youtful butt on his geriatric face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:57 AM
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It that steak laced with gold dust? Did you get a foot massage and a blowjob under the table as you were eating it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:56 AM
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easy = "any woman who refuses to wait the amount of time I deem appropriate"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:04 AM
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Yes. Sexual attraction is pretty superficial and based on looks and certain demeanor that I find attractive. Those things are something I see pretty early during our interaction. The guy doesn't need to be conventionally attractive, but he needs to be attractive by my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:59 AM
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Hard disagree. There is such a thing as not being interested nor ready. This is a big reason why some people date, but never seem to find a relationship, or at least one that last past a few weeks. These people often have attachment issues or are genuinely uninterested in traditional romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:56 AM
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So basically FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:43 AM
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He then tells you „listen my dear you will be my only girlfriend/wife that i will date but i sometimes fuck some dumb hoes when im at the club.“ No matter how perfect a man might be otherwise. I would never allow a man in my life who refers to women as hoes while he gladly sleeps with them. He tells you that he always does a one side open relationship (if you cheat he leaves) but he will never be emotionally unloyal. Relationships are either open both ways or no way. The fuck I'm gonna sit at ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:41 AM
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And that's sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:06 PM
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Of course, and it's sexist women women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:54 PM
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I clearly stated I see this pattern in a majority of women. And many other men do too. In statistics, they call it a snowball sample when a group of people recruits other people they know for the study. In your case, you are using yourself and other men you know to make generalizations about the female population. Snowball samples aren't considered representative samples are used with caution. The fact that you experienced a pattern with most women you know doesn't change the fact that it's abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:41 PM
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You're citing an article written about a small number of contestants in a reality show. You can't generalize about the female population based on a reality show. Your dating experience doesn't necessarily reflect the dating experience of the average man either. Losing interest in a man just because he plays music on his own is extreme considering that most women are not even fishing for band members specifically. I doubt this is something that most men would experience. I also fail to see what's…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:14 PM
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Define "approach". I like people taking interest in me, men and women alike, and I've done some approaching myself. There a difference though between approaching people in a social event where people are obviously there to socialize, and hitting on random people while they're out doing errands. You can randomly approach me while I'm at the bus stop or in the supermarket, but I will probably ignore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:14 PM
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What I'm saying is that it's a system that could exist, even if it's not currently practiced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:03 AM
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why should men maintain a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:34 PM
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There's no perfect system for female submission. Under communism or state socialist women wouldn't depend on a single man or on men at all as both men and women would be provided for by their communities or states. It is under capitalism and market socialism (yes, market socialism is a thing) that there is market and resource driven inequality. This inequality is not only the reason why many men have less then other men and can't support a family on their salary alone, but also the reason why ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:07 PM
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It's not only about BMI but also about fat distribution and skeletal structure. Some women have a "healthy" BMI but distribute most of their fat around their bellies. Some women have very wide shoulders with narrow hipbones that make them look boxy. Some women have very bad skin or terrible facial features and make up does very little for them. These women find it easy to be attractive. I don't think that looks alone can explain singlehood, but when you're a regular looking girl you become inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:04 AM
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Yes. I've had several of those. The experience has been good. We would hang out, watch tv and youtube together, talk about our love lives and interact as if it was a same sex friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:11 AM
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Extreme jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:09 AM
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He doesn't need to be a friend. It could be an acquaintance you occasionally see and talk to. This is also vetted for during the waiting process. Conversations can easily showcase this. I'd be curious to how it would happen. I've had men tell me "I respct you more because you didn't sleep with me", but I think those are outliers and it happened to me when I lived in a culture that explicitly promoted M/W.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:05 AM
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PPD. It's not exactly porn but all these n-count and Jonah Hill threads turn me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:03 AM
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If you are single you better be very selective with the men you sleep with because as someone's future wife you should keep your n-count low, but as soon as you meet a "special" man you better have sex with him as fast as possible and fuck him on demand. Always keep in mind that your sexuality doesn't belong to you. It belongs to the man who you marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:01 AM
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In my experience, the best way to filter men is to date men you already know. That'll give you a better idea of what kind of guy he is as courting is a performance game that makes people much more likely to wear a mask. Waiting makes you more likely to weed out men who only want sex, but it also makes it more likely to retain men who suffer from madonna/whore complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:49 AM
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Also, a large share of casual sex happens between exes. ONSs are rare and generally something that happens once or twice in someone's life. Most sex stories are pretty boring, even casual ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:37 AM
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And I think that's the point of it. Tinder doesn't really increase the amount of people getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:28 AM
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Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:25 AM
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The media is just selling a product people are demanding. People don't really want to watch a tv show about couples and their stable marriages. It's not a good plot for a main story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:25 AM
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I have a body count higher than average and married to a man whose body count is also higher than average. 1 and 2 aren't unpopular opinions. Women get told all the time that men are willing to lower their standards to have sex, but have a problem with women who do the same. Women are also told all the time to make men wait because men would not "respect" them otherwise. Most of us who have higher body counts and don't wait to have sex simply don't want a partner who demands from us what he can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:32 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:22 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised either that women who complain are also much more likely to be labeled as Karens and self-entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:39 AM
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1) Women's obsession with marriage and commitment as a tool for validation gives men the upper hand in dating once sex is on the table 2) A significant number of men will "lose respect" for women that sleep with the early, and the true winners in this dynamic are the women who fuck on their own terms and don't give the time of the day to these hypocrites 3) If you think that sugaring and high end escorting where women provide sex and company in exchange for material benefits is prostitution, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:38 AM
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What do you mean "cancelled"? Cancelled from where exactly? I'm pretty sure you'll be fired if you tell women to stop being "fat sluts" on CNN, but there are plenty of websites and news outlets, especially those that are conservative leaning, that have no problem telling women to be less promiscuous, to make him wait, to lose weight or change their appearance, just like they do with men. And of course nobody will tell you to stop being a fat slut in polite company either. People who say this are…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:10 AM
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Women are often told to lose weight, to be more feminine, to have their own hobbies, to not sleep around and to change in other ways to be considered girlfriend material or attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:39 AM
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Yeah, that's why I mentioned "people who read them"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:54 AM
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Many people are attracted to bad role models because bad role models are either entertaining or exhibit some behaviors the person attracted to them fantasizes about doing but can't do because of social restrictions. Whereas for woman there aren’t many who disagree with bad Behavior demonstrated by female role models. I assume due to fear of being seen as disagreeable. Plenty of women disagree with bad female role models. In fact, women with promiscuous images are often accused by feminists and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:53 AM
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The only thing giving me the ick are all these "reporters" writing news about this and the people who read them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:34 AM
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This is them before pregnancy: Jonah Hill's Rumored Fiancée Olivia Millar Is Pregnant with 1st Child (extratv.com) She's better looking than he is. He's a famous actor that will "attract" women due to his celebrity status and fortune regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:28 AM
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Simp harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:17 AM
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Olivia Millar is NOT his looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:17 AM
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They are considered as lesser in our society. I also don't think that most of these traits are inherently female, but they are expected much more in women than in men. Being maternal, empathic and considerate, for example, serves other people and not oneself. Being proper is simply conducting oneself according to expected social standards. Women lacking these traits are penalized, but women possessing them aren't rewarded in any real way unless paired with traits like intelligence and competence…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:12 AM
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I'm not fully convinced that most of the traits in a man that factor in women's hypergamy are sexually attractive, but assuming they are and that women are hypergamous, male preferences for more feminine women wouldn't be hypergamy. Feminine traits might be considered more attractive in women, but they're not considered to make women better than men as these traits are generally less valued by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:37 AM
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From this point of view, yes, being a housewife is a good deal. The problem is when you're giving up a well-paid job or a job that you like to become one. Such a long time out of the workforce can easily render you unemployable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:22 AM
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yeah, but it looks like many men don't. There are also cases when both partners can only afford rent when they pool in their resources together as they're both low earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:18 AM
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Not yet. You know something is wrong when nobody on PPD has mention n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:05 AM
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No. As a manly man you're only allowed to have opinions on guns, cars and bitcoins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:04 AM
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It all comes down to how much a the woman would be making as a single parent. If the woman's income would fall below a certain threshold she would no longer be able to afford rent/mortgage and other basics while also cutting hours at work and/or paying for childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:01 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean. Are you implying that it would be a good deal to do housework and not to work given that women do more chores, or that the amount of hours spent on housework is not that high and therefore a good deal to do only that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:57 PM
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I just took a glimpse of my boss' wife naked armpits. Now I want them on my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:41 PM
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I'm not hyping mine up. My husband is a legit billionaire standing at 6'9, with a 12 pack and young Brad Pitt's face. PPD b!tchez are very jelly btw. CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:27 PM
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It doesn't make it right, just not surprise-worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:41 PM
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If you've the options to replace with her a hotter woman that gives you sex much earlier, then yea you are entitled to that You don't need to have options to be entitled to want something. Getting it is a different game though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:37 PM
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Would you have early sex with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:35 PM
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He's attributing what he perceives to be anti-male behavior to women in a forum for gender debates, when there are plenty of places where public opi ion would be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:34 PM
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But if you posted something like this in askmen or a male-centric forum your actions would have been justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:15 PM
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Never said women were superior at everything and worse at nothing. Just said that there's no evidence that women promote more negative gossip based on the only research on the topic I've seen. You're just having an emotional meltdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:51 PM
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No, but it's retarded to date a known cheater and then setting boundaries. He's free to date modest women, but it's idiotic to pursue non-modest women and then expect them to change for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:41 AM
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That's not the reason the study gave The study doesn't need to give this reason explicitly. If the study never intended to measure accuracy then they're not going to classify gossip by accuracy. You sound like you're not familiar with how research is conducted. Besides lets not act like simple common sense based on what the genders enjoy in terms of entertainment doesn't give away that women like Drama and gossip more then men. And very often common sense is proved to be untrue or no evidence fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:16 AM
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They're equivalent in that none of these necessarily mean what people think they mean. Women sleep or don't sleep with men on first dates for reasons other than lack of attraction, just like men ask or don't ask women on a date for reasons other than attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:32 PM
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Assumptions of negativity are removed because the study isn't about gossip accuracy. And no, most gossip isn't damaging even if it's not accurate, and there's no evidence that most of the gossip was sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:07 PM
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Hey women, did you hear that? Please stop lying about all that stuff that you lie about. The boys here don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:57 PM
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I can't identify with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:51 PM
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$2.50 USD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:46 PM
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This study is garbage it, says academics should "remove value judgements" then they immediately make value judgements. The study isn't garbage just because you disagree with it. When they talk about "removing value judgement" what they mean is to remove the assumption that gossip itself is negative, not that gossip cannot be negative. "positive", "negative" and "neutral" were the categories how the gossip at hand was coded depending on whether the speaker was flattering, being malicious or neith…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:30 PM
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There was a study on gossip a while ago and it was NOT self-reported. Women did more "neutral" gossiping, but not more negative or positive gossiping than men. This idea that women criticize other more than men do either comes from anecdotes where this is the case, or is the result of people being more critical of women being mean than of men doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:37 AM
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I've heard those hippie dudes are suckers for unshaven body parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:02 AM
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I was re-watching that Mark Zuckerberg/Lex Friedman video. Almost got a boner. Almost.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:01 AM
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Clean your room and wash your balls. It's $100, thanks you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:59 AM
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Horseshoe theory. I wouldn't say this is all feminists, but the implication is there among many. They don't literally say "that's a woman's job", but will say "women can't have it all" with reference to a career and a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:18 AM
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The only way I'd enter a harem is if I was allowed to have a reversed harem of my own with the hottest Emirati 21 year old dudes of the kingdom. I would make them eat my ass, lick my armpits and feed me grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:16 AM
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The book is actually a feminist book. It hasn't shit on men so far, but it talks a lot about gender bias. The problem many feminists seem to have with this book is that it encourages women to play the corporate game and many feminists think that corporations are either inherently sexist or bad because capitalism. The other reason is that to play the corporate game as a parent you either need affordable childcare, a stay at home partner or an egalitarian partner. Many feminists still seem to assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:12 AM
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Sorry about that. I had no intention of messing with your friends, Sir. My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:07 AM
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penis
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:39 AM
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Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg. An interesting read backed up by research that got way too much undeserved backlash from other feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:38 AM
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Depends on how far apart your politics are from hers, and on whether they lead to a lifestyle that clashes with hers. If she's religious, for example, and you being a communist means you're an atheist, that will likely be a problem especially if she believes in following Christian values at home. The way you talk about politics can also be a deal breaker. As a liberal woman who believes in capitalism with a safety net, I wouldn't turn down a guy just because he has communist ideals. Going on a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:32 AM
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Someone's face between my butt-cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:23 AM
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In other words, women are expected to not be as easy as men, which is a double standard nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:20 AM
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But what I'm gonna eat my popcorn to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:26 AM
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yes, always, at least according to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:23 AM
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Ah, yes yes, I forgot about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:47 AM
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penis
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:36 AM
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I'm not really sure what it is that girls should be wary of? That boys might "use" them for sex? that would be a problem is if sex for women wouldn't be stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:35 AM
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Is it a specialized school in a very liberal area or that attracts certain crowds? That's the only way i can see it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:54 PM
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I've been hearing from a very young age people questioning another woman's self-respect because of how she dresses or with how many men she's assumed to have slept. I've heard little boys being told to respect girls by not touching them and not lusting after them which implies that sexual attention somehow diminishes women but not men. If a woman has sex with a guy and doesn't have a relationship with him the assumption in that she got "used". Then you have n count talks in male spaces while fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:53 PM
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I think what she means is that it's bisexual and lesbian girls in her circle. There's no way that girls are lesbians or prefer women when the number of people reporting being gay or bisexual is pretty small.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:38 PM
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you can always identify as a woman and switch back to being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:36 PM
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I'm pretty sure this type of men are concerned with your opinion about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:32 PM
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Virgin women don't want a used up dick attached to a dude with a virgin fetish who also posts on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:23 PM
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Because he doesn't see sexual experience as being "ran through" and she's more attractive to him than the 20 year old for one reason or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:19 PM
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It's not the virginity, it's the reason for it, but yeah, I agree. People who are virgin past a certain age either have hang ups and/or haven't managed to for a relationship, or are simply disinterested in sex. In either case, none of these are gonna give PPD men porn star sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:18 PM
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Most likely feelings. I doubt the mind is as sophisticated. That's why people can often agree on who's attractive and who's not but they can never agree exactly how attractive a person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:14 AM
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Well, you're being consistent, so no more complaints from me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:09 AM
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That's not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:09 AM
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I don't know you but it's possible that you were overcompensating. You could just have texted back or asked him about his plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:09 AM
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Some women cheat because they want to try a new dick. These women should get a pass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:02 AM
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The red flags are either subtly visible already before the switch flips or you're doing it in a way that may come off as desperate. That guy you hung out on Friday with, how close were the two of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:59 AM
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It's not normal even though it's widespread, and it's or common in cultures where people believe from a young age that female sexuality is easily tainted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:53 AM
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Is there a chance you come off as desperate? You might be giving small implicit hints that you are during the interaction, which makes you attract the kind of men who are willing to take advantage of you. It's also possible that you're subconsciously attracted to the kind of man who will not appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:50 AM
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Do you like cooking for men? If you do you better keep doing it. Men like this don't become appreciative just because you make them wait for their sandwich.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:45 AM
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Many women expect men to suffer from the madonna/whore complex and think that a man who is "worth it" will "respect" her more. Other women sleep with you as fast or as slow as they sleep with other men, you just don't know and make assumption because you don't have a timing sheet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:20 AM
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It might be a factor but incompatibility has always existed in many different forms. Most people will not be compatible regardless of the desire to have children. Childfree folks are still a minority and, everything equal, I'd be the one disadvantaged by my stance, not the men who want kids as there are many women who want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 05:03 PM
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This has nothing to do with love. Compromising on children is simply a terrible and irresponsible idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:19 PM
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For some reason I thought you had kids. I must have mistaken someone else's post for yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:17 PM
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I'm not interested in having children, someone who wanted kids had always been off limits for serious relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:14 PM
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My bachelor's was in a country with a public university that charged based on the school you had gone to. I went to a public school as well so my degree was very cheap and I just paid it from my pockets. Took around 25K for my master's and I owe around 4K right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:29 PM
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Marriage is still pretty much an expected milestone to hit, and a man's commitment is still used to measure a woman's worth, hence the assumption that a woman who has casual sex or cohabitates must have a low self-esteem. This creates desperation and pushes many women to think "hey, I don't desire him as much but at least he want to commit to me". There are other reasons as well, but I suspect that the above one is the most common one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:17 PM
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Leo is an extreme case. He's an A-list celebrity with lots of money. If he was an average guy he'd be good looking women dating women his age or close to his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:41 PM
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Alternative women might be more open to dating short and broke guys, but I doubt they want traditional conservative men. The lack of interest seems to be mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:26 PM
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If it wasn't interesting you would have just ignored me. If it wasn't original you wouldn't be beating around the bush, and I've no idea why you keep bringing incels into this. They're irrelevant to this whole thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:03 PM
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C'mon dude. You replied 3 of my comments calling me either toxic or a femcel, and yet you haven't addressed a single point of what I wrote. I'm not a femcel as I'm married and I couldn't care less if men like you think I'm toxic. I'm not looking to be on the payroll for some dude who apparently thinks that raising his children is his wife's job. I'm not even sure you have a wife now or to which extent the details in your OP are true. You claim to have been married for "a few years", but in this …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:26 PM
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This distinction only exists to keep plausible deniability. Any woman who expects to be a sahm will factor in your paycheck in whether she gets with you or not, and falling short of her financial standards wil be a deal breaker, even if she finds you attractive otherwise. Also, very few women have access to the kind of man whom they can marry and then sit on their assess all day. Doing housework and taking care of children, especially when kids start school, in exchange for a middle/upper middle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:10 PM
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And there is. Anybody who plans to live off your paycheck will factor in your paycheck in whether they partner up with you,and anybody who already lives off your paycheck will factor in they lifetyle they get with your money in their decision to remain in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:00 PM
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You don't want goldiggers, but then expect a woman who would happily live off your paycheck. I know plenty of aspiring homemakers, currently married or not. They have no problem dating broke guys, but would only accept marriage proposals from those who make good money. Many of them don't need to date wealthy guys either since their earning potential is so low that marrying a slightly above average earner would do it. In other words, they're goldiggers, they just dig gold in socially acceptable w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:04 AM
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Begone, slut-shamer!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:10 PM
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Where are the cultures where I can marry my underage cousin? Asking for a cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:09 PM
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Don't worry, your personality is awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:07 PM
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This post is hilarious. Some men shame women for sucking dick and now this dude also wants to shame a woman for letting him eat her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:08 PM
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almost, so people weren't having many children
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:37 AM
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I don't think they will never marry, I just wouldn't be surprised if some of them won't. A big minority of the population reaches the old age without having been married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:21 AM
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George Clooney actually married for the first time in his late 20s. I also wouldn't be surprised if a good chunk of these people never marries. Some people never find the "one" while other simply don't want marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:41 AM
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I didn't say anything about corporations being a moral entity. I said that demand for sex predates sexual revolution and corporations just took advantage of that. They're not the masterminds behind the sex revolution, they're just opportunists banking on a phenomenon that has existed for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:35 AM
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What amazes me about this sort of posts is that there are many studies pointing to the fact that sexual promiscuity, particularly among women is still looked down upon, and that it's mostly men, not women who are pressured to engage in casual sex. Statistically, women are more likely to be advised to wait for sex rather than to have sex right away, and most advice exists to prevent women from getting "used" by men who only want sex. It's also women whose level of respect is determined by how eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:32 AM
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A better question is, why do people spend so much time analyzing celebrities they don't personally know? We don't know their relationship dynamics, we don't know how they relate to other people, we don't even know if they are really interested in marriage. The way people talk about a celebrity's relationship says more about them than about that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:07 AM
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Sex was monetized either through explicit prostitution or through providership via marriage way before sexual revolution was a thing. Corporations don't really care if you get laid, they just see a demand for sex in its various forms and take it as a business opportunity to exploit. If purity was what sold all them corporations would be partnering up with the church to sell you crosses and bibles for you to jerk off to. Also, the biggest achievement of the sexual revolution was premarital sex fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:54 AM
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People tend to treat marriage as a milestone to bit achieved rather than the legal agreement it actually is. You can't genuinely know if a person will be compatible enough for marriage until you've been with them for a long time. Dating with the purpose of marrying can easily force people in the future husband/wife category when they have no business being there. To answer your question, courting rather than dating might make it easier with women who dream of marriage, but it might actually repe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:26 PM
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The birthing "crisis" exists because access to birth control prevents oops babies. The other reason why people are having less children is because we still live in a society that expects women to be the primary caregivers. When a woman has a job she enjoys or a job that brings a significant share of the household income the cost of opportunity of taking time off for the children increases. Hypergamy isn't the problem either as women marry less educated men at a slightly higher rate than the oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:13 PM
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It's because like minded people can actually congregate somewhere in a society that ostracizes them. It must be tough to hate fat people and not being able to tell these fat people in their faces how much you hate them. I volunteer to risk my job, my family and my life to fight for the rights of fatphobes to tell overweight people how much they suck, and to throw everyone who disagrees in the gulag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:12 PM
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Yes. I was making slightly more when we met and then much less because I took a hit for reasons not related to our relationships. Now I make almost double of what he makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:06 PM
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If you don't expect this from someone who doesn't want to follow these roles and only date men who are on a similar page then who cares about the opinion of those who aren't going to participate in that relationship? No matter which dynamic you choose, there will always be outsiders who won't approve of your relationship. ​ Since when did cooking become such a burden? Cooking can be very time-consuming and to expect one partner to always be the one to do it is self-entitled. I have no problem co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:59 PM
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I've never desired a man for having the upper hand in the relationship. Respect and desire are different construct with very little overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:52 PM
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The problem with this dynamic is right there in your first paragraph. You expect these things in a relationship. People who don't like this dynamic don't like the fact that some people expect them to change their behavior to accommodate these expectations. You also mention you're not talking about being a stay at home mom, but then talk about women tending the house and cooking, which basically means that the woman plays the worker and the homemaker at the same time. This is the worst of both wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:44 PM
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Men dating younger and men lowering their standards are two different things. Women criticize men dating younger because rightly o not, they perceive this as predatory. Women who tell men to lower their standards generally mean that men should date less attractive women their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:34 PM
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The concept of Alpha Widow assumes that the man a woman loves is the most masculine one she has experienced, which isn't necessary the case. Masculinity can reach levels where it becomes a turn off. I've dated men who were in constant competition with other or who were extremely dominant and territorial. That wasn't something I found attractive in the least. I also don't believe in the only and true love. There are many people with whom one can experience strong sexual and romantic chemistry. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:31 PM
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I don't use tiktok, but the divine feminine is something that has been discussed in social media for more than 10 years, with many dating blogs urging women to exude feminine energy. I'm also pretty sure that this has been a discourse in many works of literature even before the internet was a thing. I think it doesn't work. You're wither naturally feminine or you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:00 PM
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​ There’s no gain for a woman in sleeping around unless she’s doing it for money or to gain power. There's a gain for women who are single, horny and like variety. The chances of catching an STD while wearing a condom are actually very low, not to mention that plenty of women will sleep with a "serious" partner with no protection and no previous STD test.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:16 AM
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use and manipulate people to get pleasure, There's no using and no manipulation if sex is consensual and happening under terms that have been agreed to. spread STD's and unplanned pregnancy, Many people in long term relationships don't use protection consistently and don't get tested before engaging in sex. Combining condoms with a second method makes pregnancy less likely than dying in a car accident. lead married people into temptation Wouldn't be a problem if the married person knew how to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:51 AM
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If women engaging in sex wasn't as stigmatized and men had higher standards for who they engage in sex with women would be less selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:36 AM
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Men have a harder time because their standards are lower while they simultaneously expect women's standards to be higher, which produces a gender gap in casual sex supply. The men in this context ain't no poor regular African guy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:18 PM
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All I see is a bunch of big fat lawsuits coming in the next a few months. The fact that most of them weren't experts in ocean exploration will work against the company.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:06 PM
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And yet a woman who genuinely enjoys getting paid for is still looked down upon. That's my point. That regardless of how men try to justify their hypocrisy, it's still hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:59 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:56 PM
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Armpits here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:51 PM
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Excuse me, but Brad Pit wanting nothing to do with me is a big problem, right up there with poverty, hunger and cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:45 PM
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Nope. I'm the armpit girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:43 PM
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Yet your wife didn't have to earn access for yours, and nobody is here questioning your dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:42 PM
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Women don't pay for dick because men have lower standards (while simultaneously shaming women when they have low standards)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:40 PM
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I want to put my ass on my boss' face and let his wife sit on mine. Discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:29 PM
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*white hot 21 year old IG models
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:22 PM
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So at what price would a pussy be worth pursuing? $70, $700, more? Also, if you're the woman paying, does it means that your dick should have less worth to women as they don't have to invest in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:49 PM
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Her twitter is not available. I do believe there are white supremacist feminists, but I doubt they are the majority of radfem feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:42 PM
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I don't understand. Are these spaces for cheaters or for cheating victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:50 PM
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Can you give me a few examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:49 PM
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Society in general is more lenient to be assholes in this specific kind of way and women are simply expected to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:23 PM
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How is a woman making her degree and cash her whole personality any different from a man who won't shut up about how successful he is a tries to bag a relationship by telling women they don't need to work if they're with him,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:25 PM
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NAWALT! I'm hypogamous. I like them broke, young and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:23 PM
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I prefer Satanism but to each their own. Hail Satan!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:19 PM
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By disrespect I mean look down on, which I'm assuming that's what the OP means when they say " They sure are respecting them when they are running a train on them".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:18 PM
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You can recognize your partner is not perfect by mainstream standards, and still find them desirable. People don't need to be told to settle in this particular sense because they do it naturally. People who are refusing to settle are simply refusing to date someone they don't feel attraction towards. You can't lower your attraction standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:19 PM
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I agree with this, although I'm not sure if he was cheating on her new partner while she was pregnant. I wouldn't doubt he was though. He also cheated very openly. I remember him trying to flirt with me and another friend while his then wife was getting out of the car. That dude was gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:59 PM
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Your posts suggests settling and I'm just pointing out that settling is a bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:34 PM
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Lowering your standards doesn't actually work. Someone you find unattractive will still be unattractive even after everyone else you actually like rejects you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:39 PM
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Depends on your sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:19 AM
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You title mentions traditional women and I'm talking about working women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:18 AM
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A sugar relationship and a traditional relationship are only different in that the former is short-lived and more honest about the exchange of sex and company for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:15 AM
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The difference is that if a woman is your equal you won't be the one financing her lifestyle while she's sitting at home and being traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:01 AM
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Being a traditional woman benefits women who want a traditional man that will subsidize their lifestyle within a long term relationship. If you're not interested in men or in that kind of relationship model then traditionalism won't benefit you. I don't stop wanting sex and feeling attracted to men when I'm single. I see no reason refraining from sex just to keep my n count low or getting in relationships with sex partners I don't see a future with just to get the "casual" label drop off from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:00 AM
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They're not endangered, it's just that traditionalism has a price tag. A big factor in whether a woman stays home or not is the level of her income as compared to that of the man she's dating. Women become homemakers when their salary is just a small share of the household income, especially when it's not enough to cover daycare expenses. Men who want housewives either need to become high earners, which is difficult, or target women with low income and low earning potential, which is easy but al…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:34 AM
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People work because they they need money, like money, like their career or want the status of their career. The kind of man that traditional women want to marry, successful with a high income, pursues a career regardless of whether he has a wife or not and sees himself as the main passenger of a train who gives a ride to his woman on his terms. The men who work just so they can support their family are those who see themselves and their family in a tough spot financially. They overwork themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:27 AM
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I'm aware plenty of men don't respect us. The difference is that non-traditional women aren't marrying or aspire to marry the kind of man who disrespects them. Traditional women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:08 AM
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My moment in this? the time when I realized it was not gonna work? As soon as he came to the country where I lived and brought her as his partner. I knew nothing good would comeo ut of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:03 AM
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The guy was cheating on his wife back and forth and impregnated one of the women he cheated with. The woman didn't know he was cheating with her until they moved in together after he had separated from his wife as they both lived in different countries. The guy, unsurprisingly, started cheating on his new partner and eventually brought her an STI. This was a relationship that shouldn't have happened in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:15 PM
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I'm originally from Eastern Europe, but grew up in Latin America.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:07 PM
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Isn't your point that women like effort and that they say they don't like certain body types because they don't realize how much effort it takes? I'm aware that for many men Jamie's body is unattainable without exercise. My point is that this is irrelevant. I'm also aware that it takes even more effort to look like young Sylvester STallone or Arnold Schwarzenegger, but I still don't find their bodies attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:06 PM
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I'm pretty much aware that looking muscular takes many hours at the gym unless you've been blessed with good genes. I just don't like the look of very muscular bodies. I can admire the dedication, but I don't find dedication sexually attractive. I prefer lean/athletic guys like Jamie Bell and don't really care if that's the result of a strict gym regime or good genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:47 PM
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The non-American men and women criticizing American and Western women in general come from traditional and quasi traditional cultures where not doing 100% of housework, being as promiscuous as a man and standing for your self as a woman is profanity. I'm not American, but I couldn't care less to live up to standards of people like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:39 PM
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I wouldn't say he's neat, we're both less than perfect in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:17 PM
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If we're seeing each other often and consistently I assume we're not seeing anybody else, although asking if there's someone else is a good idea. This, however, doesn't mean the relationship will be long term. Only time can tell that. I started seeing my husband almost every day as soon as we started dating and we started getting involved in each other's friend circles and with my parents quite early. At some point we also started talking about future plans such as getting a house or arranging o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:53 AM
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People treat marriage and kids as a job task on your checklist. Taking a task to the end is your responsibility whether you like it or not and not following through is not an option regardless of how much you hate said task. People should start seeing children and marriage as a choice. If you're an extreme introvert, your circumstances aren't right and you're not feeling the drive the you shouldn't get married or have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:35 AM
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I work 8 hours and only do half. If he's not doing his share of housework I just leave the rest right there for him to pick up when he pleases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:30 AM
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I understand that this is a shitty feeling for your former partner, but that feeling sexually attracted or emotionally attracted to more than one person at a time is normal, and you don't owe your partner any fidelity once they're an ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:26 AM
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I'm pretty sure your man has the same thought when he looks at himself in boxers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:20 AM
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Situationships aren't a new phenomenon, only the word is. Dating someone with no clear path in mind is usually called casual dating or just dating. I think that in works for those who want company and sex without marriage/cohabitation, and for those who have a more spontaneous approach towards sex and relationships. I don't remember ever looking at a guy a saying "I want to marry him". I just go out him him and keep seeing him if I like the sex and his company. Long terms plans are determined by…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:14 AM
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Being single is an option. I did not have relationships at times where the only options where either unattractive or presented problematic behaviors/attitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:04 AM
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It it, it's just not considered degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:28 PM
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The same can be said about about half naked men whose pics are not only on the computers of straight women but also gay/bisexual men, and yet nobody seems to care about those.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:43 AM
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And who is going to police average men's access to casual sex? Other men? women? the government? Speaking as a woman, I don't want a man who sees relationships as a consolation prize for failed attempts at casual sex any more than a man wants a woman who's with him because she failed at establishing the kind of relationship she prefers with other men. I also don't think that the pursuit of casual sex is any more selfish than the pursuit of long term-relationships, both types of relationships are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:48 PM
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I mean, if he told her not to and she kept doing it that slap was well deserved. I have hit men for touching me inappropriately. Men should be allowed to defend themselves from unwanted attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:04 PM
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I lived in Latin America for a long time and can tell you that this isn't true, at least not in my country. This country has an in-your-face wealth inequality that people deal with by investing an inordinate amount of time and money in their image. Family can be very tyrannical and is often used to signalized status. You might see less conflict in terms of gender because conflict is avoided by women submitting to men whether they think it's fair or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:01 PM
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Men have no breasts, but they have chests and abs which are also considered sexually attractive and there's evidence that women react to the figure of a man in a similar way that men react to the figure of a woman. Women show much more skin at the beach than at any convention, especially if it's a beach where going topless is the norm, and being almost naked in this places doesn't seem to drive the same amount of controversy. The problem again is not nudity or sexualization, is that we don't see…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:45 PM
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According to Figure 5 of your first link it's separated people who face the highest risk of being victims of a crime across all crime categories. Does this mean you shouldn't marry/cohabitate because then you risk separation? If married and widowed people face the least amount of violence, does it pay-off to risk dating just to be safe later? Keep in mind that less than 5% of separated people have been victims of violence and less than 4% of singles have. Those are very low numbers and I'm prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:32 PM
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Do you realize that for most of those centuries women had to depend on men for their survival and that when not having a man means you won't get fed a six pack becomes a luxury? I've ever cam across a woman who didn't admit liking hot men or did something that made it obvious she preferred good-looking men, even when she was in front of other men. The few times someone lectured me about how looks in men didn't matter were other men, often older ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:16 PM
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When women say sexualization they mean objectification. Just take a walk at the park during the summer and it's going to be full of shirtless athletic men jogging in shorts or search for "guy" or "men" on Instagram and the first thing you'll see is attractive half-naked men. The difference between half-naked men and women is that only women are sexualized at the expense of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:08 PM
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Where does the idea that women caring about looks was a secret until recently? I know, looks aren't the only thing that matters and a guy can be someone's type even if he's not conventionally attractive, but that doesn't mean it's not obvious that having conventionally good looks as a man gives you a leg up. Look at the males leads in romantic movies, male models , boy band members, the way many women react when a physically attractive man enters the room, the fact that most hot women are with c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:57 PM
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Its a fairly recent concept to be talked about in the open. That women like good looks? It's always been obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:50 PM
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But how come that acts that don't involve sex are still seen as inappropriate for women, but are largely ignored when men do it, such thirst traps and revealing clothing? Even if the penis corrupts, the idea is still that by having sex with a man, the woman is degrading herself unless the sex happens within the confines of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:39 PM
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Slut shaming is based on the idea that sex somehow degrades women but not men, and the sex is something men do at the expense of women. The first is the reason why women don't even have to have sex to be slut-shamed and looking very sexual will get you the label even if actual sex isn't a possibility (ie e-thots taking their clothes off for their simps). The second is the reason why having sex with many men as a woman gets you that label quicker than having sex with other women, although I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:48 AM
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It's not the cheating that bothers me. It's the unfairness. Both of us have people we'er attracted to, but have never attempted to sleep with. If he cheats, I'll let him know that I'd also like to sleep with someone else, if he refuses, we're done because I'm not built for one way monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:31 AM
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No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:11 AM
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Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:57 PM
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Edit: Wasnt there a lawyer that killed his son and wife to hide that his son killed someone while drunk driving? That’s discipline? Are you talking about Alex Murdaugh? He lied about the (suspicious) death of his housekeeper to get insurance money that he apparently never paid to the housekeepers sons. He was also tried for embezzlement and his other son is believed to be involved in the death of a classmate, although police hasn't named any suspects. That's an exemplary father right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:51 PM
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I'm not following your logic. Are you saying that someone who brings value doesn't get abused or someone who abuses another person can't bring any value?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:33 PM
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I think women, but not for the reasons espoused on PPD such as hypergamy, too much casual sex with hot dudes. Commitment that eventually leads to marriage is still seen by many people as the only acceptable dating context for women. Women are still judged by whether a guy takes them seriously after sex, and by whether their long term boyfriend proposes or not. None of this applies when genders are reversed. I very rarely hear people making condescending comment about men getting pumped and dumpe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:55 PM
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Casual sex is destructive because of the narrative that casual sex is destructive. If casual sex wasn't seen as something men get at the expense of women nobody would be complaining about increasing n counts in women or men destroying women by sleeping with them. However, until this gendered perception of sex changes, men will have no incentive to not pursue casual sex because from a social perspective, the consequences of casual sex disproportionately burden women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:39 PM
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This jobs might be flooded with too many applicants so your resume might not even get reviewed. It's possible as well that hiring isn't the company's top priority so it might take them a while to respond. Keep applying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:24 PM
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They were safe in the sense that I knew them and it was unlikely that they'd pose a physical or emotional threat. I knew they would be discrete and they were sexually available, and nothing about them was a sexual turn off. I wouldn't say there was much of an interest on my part. Just horniness and willingness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:49 AM
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When sex was the only thing I was looking for, his ability to make me feel sexy was irrelevant and his "value" was lower than that of a man I wanted for a more long term arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:41 AM
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What's interesting about alcohol is that it actually reduces sexual desire but also decreases inhibition. Drunk sex is what you get when your desire to sleep with someone decreases at a lower pace then your inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:38 AM
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I was horny, single and bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:33 AM
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Fomo mostly hits people who wanted to experience certain things and didn't due to material or psychological obstacle. I think it rarely hits people who aren't interested in experimenting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:42 AM
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Because women are not allowed to do that. They need to want to marry the first guys who swings his dick their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:01 AM
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I don't get with men to beg for their commitment. It's a two way process where I can decide as much as he does that he's not husband material. He can be the kind to judge women for their sexual history or the kind to believe that his commitment is some God-sent gift to women, I'm just not going to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:58 AM
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I'm pretty sure most women know or at least can easily learn how to clean, cook and iron. The problem isn't that they don't know, the problem is that they refuse doing it for grown-ass men who expect to be taken care of as if they were children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:50 AM
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Do you realize that by pooling housing expenses, those who marry or cohabitate have more discretionary income to spend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:47 AM
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I've had unattractive friends who get laid and date. They also are also middle class so money isn't the reason why they attract women. They generally date and sleep with women who are either average or unattractive. They seem to have a big social network and go for women they already know who have shown interest. What I find interesting is that many of them seem to have difficulties keeping a relationship despite wanting one and they generally attract women who aren't interested in anything long…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:39 AM
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You're the one overstating male contribution. This thread isn't about whether men or women do more of a certain type of work. This thread is about appreciating men and women for the work they do, which I can't do because only a minority of either gender makes the sort of contributions OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:08 AM
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What does this have anything to do with what I said? Society won't become gender neutral just because I don't appreciate genders as whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:04 AM
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OK, what percentage of men actually did the things you mention? Only a small percentage of men has either built a road, a building or a car. So I'll ask again: why should I appreciate all men for these inventions? Also, I'm pretty sure that some of our buildings and roads were built by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:13 AM
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Hot!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:41 AM
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Are you saying men settle for Becky after they get Stacy widowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:37 AM
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I have this crazy desire to feed him homemade macaroni in a pot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:34 AM
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Scientific advancements and innovations come from a very small percentage of men, and most men have no claim to these. Also, women don't reproduce via asexual reproduction. Women need men to get pregnant. As taxing as pregnancies can be, there's nothing admirable about a biological function that almost any woman of reproductive age can exercise. Fact is, there's very little evidence that most of us leave a net positive impact just by existing and playing our roles. I'm a woman and I don't really…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:31 AM
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someone said once that women’s sexuality is narcissistic and i find that interesting, because i really do get off on being the object of a man’s obsession. i get off on knowing how hot i look. Both of these pump my ego, but they don't really turn me on. I still need the image of sex or something sexual to feel aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:49 PM
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Intelligence, after all, is the quality we attribute to people who agree with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:53 PM
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Nothing. Act like you would normally act around people you newly met. I understand the anxiety about the possibility of not being liked by his parents, but there's nothing you can do. Some parents are set to hate their daughters in law unless they live up to arbitrary standards. If he's worth it, he'll stay with you regardless of their opinion. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:02 PM
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I keep hearing about how women are told that they're being empowered by doing sex work, but who's saying this? Feminists themselves tend to be very critical of this line of work. I also wonder why this empowerment/degradation only comes up when people talk about women as if men don't participate in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:39 AM
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Tru dat. Me love me some ass that smells like curry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:17 AM
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I'm in my early 30 and it's unusual for anybody my age to be a virgin. It will probably depend on whether there are other red flags and the reason of his virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:14 AM
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I disagree that casual sex exists just because pre-marital sex is no longer frowned upon since people who have pre-marital sex could still value sex as a romantic activity. I never said casual sex just exists because of pre-marital sex acceptability, what I did was to point out how pre-marital sex views enabled casual sex with either poor mental health or lack of interest in a long term relationship as mediators.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:12 AM
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I'd choose the later if those were the only two options, but there are many more options in real life such as separation without a painful breakup, lifetime relationship with someone who satisfies you 95% and staying single. Most people are aware their partner isn't paper perfect. Settling becomes problematic when there's a lack of attraction, not when your partner is missing 20% of the qualities that would make them perfect in society's eyes but are irrelevant to attraction or long term compati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:58 AM
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Casual sex exists because pre-marital sex is no longer frowned upon. This sort of sex is, to some extent, an option not only to those with mental health problems who can't establish a lasting relationship, but also to healthy individuals who can relate to others, crave sex, but aren't interested in anything long term. I don't think casual sex or lack of a romantic relationships are inherently problematic. I also doubt that in the past, when marriage was transactional and a matter of life or deat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:49 AM
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Women tend to be more tolerant of certain bad behaviors in men such as cheating and not being helpful around the house, not because they like bad boys and assholes, but because they don't see themselves as true equals. One example is the phrase "women can't have it all" touted very often by women themselves when it comes to juggling work and motherhood, which is said because the default assumption is that it's a woman's responsibility to be a caregiver and to support her husband's career, whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:29 AM
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When in a long term relationship comes to an end, chances are both partners have tried working on it but it no longer made sense because of the bad state of the relationship. Marriage in these cases just prolongs a relationship that shouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:05 AM
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There is still a kind of social acceptance when it comes to marriage and less of the feeling that one is just “shacking up” with someone. I'm not really sure if this is because of my circle, but I very rarely see any genuine interest in a persons' marital status. I've seen this in other circles though and I find it incredibly nosey. Furthermore, as divorce is much more work than just simply “walking away”, it does provide an extra sense of security. The sense of security marriage provides is a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:32 AM
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She's got breasts between her tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:17 PM
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I'd also suggest The Forgotten Battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:50 PM
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The ick is a feature of the female intuition That tells you that Michael could have an addiction The ick is a feeling that something is wrong Like when your crush Tommy doesn't wash his balls The ick might predict that your man is grotesque That you will feel his neckbeard when you sit on his face The ick is intense but might also be sad If you're a woman, please listen to your gut.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:15 PM
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Dogs will branch-swing as soon as your bone supply dries up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:58 PM
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Watching 1917 has been a curse. Seeing George MacKay fighting the bad boys in this one made me realize how much I love pale butterfaces in WWI uniforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:56 PM
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Nope. I tend to find guys more attractive after they interact with me or with other people in front of me. I find hem attractive by the time they flirt with me. If they flirt with me right away I feel weird for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:49 PM
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Rogen lost weight and Dunham gained a lot. I specifically posted pictures of them before the changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:32 PM
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Good-looking people people exist, but the kind of good-looking people many guys post on PPD are extremely rare in real life and their good looks is heavily enhanced by makeup and clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:29 PM
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Most women AND men can attract someone even if they're below average, but the less attractive they are in terms of looks and personality, the harder it is for them to be given the opportunity to connect with someone. The women who I know were mostly invisible were average or below average. The often crushed on guys who wouldn't reciprocate the feeling. They would also get very little to no attention in situations that were based on first impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:29 AM
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I think Seth can be pretty cute as well, but when he's not dressed up and has some weight on he looks more on the average side. I think many average people could look better with haircut and nicer clothes, but many of them don't so they're generally invisible to most of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:07 PM
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I think Lena Dunham and and Seth Rogen are a pretty good example of average. People like them share seat with us in public transit, visit the same restaurants we eat at and stand in front of us at the supermarket line and we go home without noticing them. Neither of them is either pretty enough of ugly enough to be remembered and this type is the majority. The so-called Beckies are already in the top 20% whereas Stacies almost exclusively exist on Instagram and movie theaters after a good makeup…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 09:43 PM
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so the same as turn-off?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:59 PM
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You think sex is something women shouldn't enjoy and should "give it" to men in exchange for commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:59 PM
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True. It's also something you'd never say to a man because commitment is seen as something that women want, and that if the woman is the one taking advantage of a man she's not worth committing to at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:50 PM
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There's a big difference between just having sex and wanting marriage/relationship, which is my point. Sex shouldn't be a reward for acting like an adult and men that need to be rewarded to act like adults shouldn't be seen as long term prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:23 PM
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What does "just like that" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:18 PM
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"Don't give him wife benefits at girlfriend price". If the guy doesn't cook for himself, doesn't clean after himself and sex with him needs to happen in exchange for something, why do I would I want a serious relationship with him, let alone marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:06 PM
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Some people might be around under a different account, others disappeared for good. Reddit and other forms of social media can be extremely draining. PPD is also extremely repetitive. I've been around for at least 5 years - with different accounts - and the conversation has stalled. It's always the same topics over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:50 PM
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I like the codependence/independence/interdependence model of relationships and I would consider sugar dating an independent modern version of trad-con dating where the man provides for a woman who instead of tying himself down to him still provides him with feminine caregiving(sex, feminine energy, w/e he wants really) but just on a shorter term and non permanent basis. Tradcon women and men hate to be reminded of this. Tradwives and tradhusbands are just long-term sugar babies and daddies in d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:33 PM
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I get that mom is miserable but she also has to put on her big girl pants and communicate her needs to her husband. I don't know about this particular poster, but I've seen many real life cases where the woman communicates, but nothing really changes. And breaking up their family so she can feel more “respected” is certainly the worse option for her children, even if it’s the better option for her. Staying with someone who makes you resentful eventually impacts the relationship to the point that…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:09 PM
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I lived in a country with no welfare to speak of and the number of single mothers was rampant. Children are also incredibly expensive so the money you get as assistance doesn't compensate for the cost of having them. Single motherhood is the result of divorce and unplanned pregnancy in societies where women are expected to be the primary caregivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:47 PM
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