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DiscussionHighlyFlashy/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:22 PM
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Sounds like cope
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 10:44 PM
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I thought it was nice and her way of trying to put him out there to potentially find a girlfriend. I’m sure he’s gotten offers since she posted it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:32 PM
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All I said was how you would feel if that were your wife is irrelevant. The first part was fine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:21 PM
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The other 90% wasn’t worth responding to. It was your own personal opinion and thoughts in the excerpt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:16 PM
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The situation isn’t about you though. It’s about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:32 PM
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I agree with you 100%
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 07:19 PM
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Excerpt from a book I’m reading: She never raised her voice, always deferred to everybody and everything. She had assumed that somewhere down the line there would be a reward for that; a prize. But when her daughter had asked her if she'd ever had sex with anyone but her husband and she'd answered, "No, of course not," her daughter's reply had been, "Oh Mother, how dumb. You don't even know if he's any good or not. How awful." It was true. She didn't know. So in the long run, it didn't matter at…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:32 PM
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We can’t help it. It’s biological :(
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:21 PM
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I’ll go two years up of my own age and two years down of my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:41 PM
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No. I already told you in another reply that I said I wouldn’t date him. You either can’t read or have a hard time comprehending things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:46 PM
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Isn’t the post about age gaps? You can make your own post about racism in dating if that’s a topic that interests you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:46 PM
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Translation: it’s a non answer because it’s an answer I don’t like Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:35 PM
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The average age gap worldwide The wording could have been better ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:32 PM
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We shouldn’t have the same hobbies at their big age
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:31 PM
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You old guys are funny. Truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:30 PM
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There usually merit to the warning. Whether that’s wrong or right is up to each individual but warnings in general aren’t unfounded. It’s like someone telling you to look your door at night. It’s not a guarantee that someone will break into your house and kill you, but locking your door at night will most likely prevent that rather than just leaving it unlocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:24 PM
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No. I don’t have sex with men I wouldn’t date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:17 PM
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He literally got hate from women all over social media for that ugly ass jaw surgery. Same with Liam Payne. It’s not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:06 PM
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https://pyxis.nymag.com/v1/imgs/829/3f2/b9926c56e0384b2d79215cc77e52314513-zac-efron.2x.rsquare.w330.jpg Why do you need your jaw done or cosmetic surgery if you look so good in your 30s? Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:58 PM
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Rocket League
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:55 PM
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Come out then and date men. Idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:52 PM
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It means I’m laughing at a stupid comparison someone pulled out of their ass. That’s what the laughing emoji meant :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:51 PM
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Rather the guys my own age than a washed up old man approaching me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:47 PM
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THANK YOU. The age gap debates with men on this sub is so tiring. The constant usage of older rich male celebrities to support their argument is played out. They never use the average old guy at the supermarket as an example. Just these old celebrities (who ironically pay thousands of dollars a year to maintain a youthful look) that they’ll never be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:47 PM
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It was given to me by the mods after I said Chris Evans is hot but I wouldn’t date him. You tried and failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:45 PM
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By far the dumbest reply I’ve ever gotten on PPD. Truly. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14g3rou/do_older_woman_really_think_older_men_date/jp4h6vq/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3 Edit: And ironically. He used a younger picture of Zac Efron as an example. He doesn’t look like that anymore😂 (https://pyxis.nymag.com/v1/imgs/829/3f2/b9926c56e0384b2d79215cc77e52314513-zac-efron.2x.rsquare.w330.jpg)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:42 PM
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So you pick an ugly average young guy then compare him to an older rich celebrity who doesn’t even look like that anymore? I can’t😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:39 PM
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I love how it’s only unrealistic when a woman wants a partner she’s physically attracted to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:37 PM
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My parents have been married for 25 years and started dating as teenagers and got married young. I will say that does influence my view on the topic in some ways but not in the way you probably think. And most younger women think that because most older men look that way. You’re naming these older rich celebrity men who pay thousands a year to maintain a youthful look, to average older men who make average money. There’s no point in mentioning them because most older men don’t look anything like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:29 PM
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Okay you’re obviously talking to yourself at this point so I’ll leave you to it. Never forget that the global max age gap for a couple is 2.1 years <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:27 PM
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Which majority of you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:08 PM
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Still. Not. Interested. There are tons of reasons why I won’t date an older man. Just like men who have a hate boner for older women say they don’t want them due to baggage, them being more jaded, less attractive, etc. I don’t want older men for the same exact reasons and more. I’ve talked to girls my age who agree. And the reality is, majority of older men are not more attractive than younger men. Hence why younger women are not dating older men in mass and most are dating their own age or mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:02 PM
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It would be creepy either way. There is nothing me and an older man have in common besides the fact that we’re both human. I don’t find men who are immature enough to want to date someone my age because they either want to mold me or not take on any adult responsibilities as attractive. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:00 PM
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I know that’s an easy route to take but nah. People usually say those things because there’s indication that someone’s intention in the relationship is not good and is harmful to the other person (goes both ways), or one of the people in the relationship is making a choice that is isn’t smart for themselves or the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:53 PM
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Haha I knew that was coming. You guys really have to come up with something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:45 PM
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I don’t have any clue what I’m talking about but you do? An older man who has no connection to a large amount of younger women and who’s wishing for a fantasy to be true? Okay. Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:44 PM
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Trying to date is any form of approaching. Where are the older men with good intentions then? Why are they so silent? Why are men warning their daughters to stay away from them? Why is there so much opposition for a group of men that is, according to you and other older men, so great?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:42 PM
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That’s fine. I’m just giving my own opinion on the situation. Older men approach me quite often. I’m not rude to them despite finding it annoying. I just reject them then go about my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:40 PM
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This is possible but I think it’s normally closer linked to sexuality rather than attainability or settling. Because even 5s are shooting for men out of their league and are happy being alone if they can’t get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:39 PM
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No they don’t. How are you going to tell me what younger women want when I’m a young woman who’s surrounded by a large amount of younger women 24/7 and we literally talk about this stuff? Just because you hope for something to be true doesn’t mean it is. Sorry to ruin your revenge fantasy. If younger women loved older men so much, the global maximum age gap for couples in any type of relaironship wouldn’t be 2.1 years. Your hope and dreams aren’t reflective of the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:34 PM
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I said older men trying to date younger women my age is creepy, predatory, and creepy. If you’re going to quote, quote right. Even older men themselves claim they don’t have good intentions with younger women. Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:30 PM
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The attraction thing is totally understandable. It’s why I love guys my age and not into older guys (guys my age in general are more fit and more attractive). That being said, you can find someone attractive and know where you stand and have social cues. Which many older men who try to pursue young women, usually in very degenerate and uncomfortable ways, don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:18 PM
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Didn’t say old men were disgusting though they’re not attractive or interesting as guys my age imo. I think that them approaching young women and the ways they typically do it are quite disgusting and low though. Are dads who warn their young daughters about older men and their often degenerate intentions with younger women more liking to think in broad brush generalizations too. If so, someone needs to alert all the dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:13 PM
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I don’t shame younger women who are into older men at all. Not my business. And in my 21 years of living, I’ve only met one girl my age who admitted that she would be with an older man “but only if he was rich” (her words, not mine). I couldn’t even shame if I wanted to because the young women who are into older men are a very small minority. Can’t shame what you can’t find.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:01 PM
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Exactly. This pretty much applies to everyone except the groups I mentioned, but lots of women try to virtue signal because they don’t want to seem shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:45 PM
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Ooh my turn! What about younger women like me who think older men trying to date women my age is predatory, creepy, and disgusting? What’s your diagnosis for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:37 PM
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Personality does matter. It just matters after you meet the looks threshold. Anyone saying anything else is not being honest unless they’re asexual, they have a low libido, or sex isn’t a priority for them in a relationship. So let’s say a woman’s looks threshold is a 5. If you’re a 5 with a great personality, the personality can help make you more attractive overall for sure. You meet her basic requirements for physical attraction and you’re mentally and/or emotionally stimulating. This is good…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:25 PM
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The studies you can’t link? K. If you can’t link any of these comprehensive studies, there no point of even replying to me.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 09:34 AM
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90%? Definitely not.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 08:19 AM
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That’s part of it but she’s played in quite a few Black cinema classics. Black people know who she is and knew who she was before Will Smith came in the picture.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 07:48 AM
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Link the book’s referenced studies. Thanks.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 07:47 AM
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If they grew up in the 90s, yes
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 05:49 AM
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I agree that all non whites have it to some agree. I’m just saying black men have it the most and it’s evident in their behaviors and their failure to step up to the mantle of manhood and masculinity.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:31 AM
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Most black men have inferiority complexes and other mental issues lol
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 01:48 AM
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I have. I don’t find black men attractive on any level really. Even physically, I prefer white men’s looks. A basketball player at my university who’s now in the NBA was trying to get with me. I turned him down. I was already divested at that point.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 12:00 AM
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Proudly. Three years strong.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:57 PM
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But let’s look at the GENERAL picture. The MAJORITY. You might find this hard to believe but I come from a great home life. My parents have been married for 25 years, together since teenagers. My father, a black man, is amazing. He’s hardworking. Involved. Loyal. Loving. Intelligent. A great husband and father. I could write a whole book about how great my dad is and how much I love him. But I know that majority of black men are not like him. Your statistics. Your records. What you guys say and …
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:23 PM
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I think we’re in the same book, just on two different pages. What you’re saying is correct and what I’m saying is correct. Just in Western societies, where black men are on the bottom of the male totem pole and white men are on top, majority of black men seek white women because they’re white. Similar to op, their look, their weight, etc doesn’t matter like it would for say, a black woman. The white woman’s whiteness is a good trade off for them because they think it makes them closer to white m…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:15 PM
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I disagree. It’s a much better deal for any passport bro to go to Latin and Asian countries because it’s cheaper due to the poor conditions they live in. Like black passport bros barely have enough money to thrive in poor Latin and Asian countries. Hell, they ask for their subscribers to cashapp them to help them with traveling fees😂 They’re definitely not going to thrive in poor European countries lol.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:57 PM
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Black men themselves have said this. Watch interviews of black men who say this. Read the comments of the interviews agreeing. Read articles. Read books. Listen to podcasts. This is black men saying they view being with white women as a prize and an elevation in society. And no this isn’t a cucking thing. White women single motherhood rates have accelerated tremendously the past two decades, along with the WW/BM marriage and the insanely high divorce rate among this pair (more than any other int…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:53 PM
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Their lack of masculinity. Like seriously. If you were a woman who valued family, children, marriage, and a stable home life would you date, marry, and procreate with a black man?
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:35 PM
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They could easily date Latin and Asian women here if that was the case. But they don’t because they’re chasing whiteness. Whiteness is valued extremely in the US, hence why they chase WW. I explained in another reply that black men think dating white women makes them less inferior and increases their social status. It doesn’t for anyone but them. They don’t passport to European countries because it’s a better deal to go to Latin and Asian countries. They’re poorer. It also doesn’t help that whit…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:31 PM
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Could be for many, I don’t doubt it. But I think it’s a more common mindset among black men because in my experience. And it’s not necessarily something hard to believe either. The male ego is powerful and every man wants to be the best. Especially those who have been oppressed and are constantly under the control the most dominant male group. Black women tend to date out because of the “masculinity” of black men or the BMBW relationships they’ve seen.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:17 PM
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It’s definitely whiteness, at least for black men. Colorism does play a big part in the matter though.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:10 PM
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No it’s not even that. It’s just black men’s attempt to get closer to whiteness. Even black men like Nick Cannon have said that. They see white women as a prize and as a way to (delusionally) think that they’re less inferior in society. They don’t understand that being with white women will not erase their blackness or make white men have more respect for them. There’s more to it but that’s the basis.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:02 PM
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He’ll be biracial, yes
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:47 PM
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Not sure what that had to do with me being a divestor but thanks?
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:10 PM
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Nah I’m not a “kill all black babies” divestor lol. But that’s because I dont think black women should even sleep with black men if the plan is to divest. That’s counterproductive. Can’t abort what you don’t create. I’m cordial with black men and have no problem being friends with them. I just won’t date them or have sex with them or marry them or procreate with them.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:10 PM
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I wanna see the studies. The numbers.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:08 PM
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Okay so no actual study done that provides insight into the amount of people studied or age demographics, etc? Got ya.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:51 PM
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That’s 2009 data… I was 7 in 2009. I’m 21 now.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:49 PM
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Correct! I’m a divested 21 year old black women. I exclusive date outside of my race, primarily white. I try to urge black women to date non-black men and to stop limiting their dating pool. What that book shows is not reflective of reality, as true as I wish it were. And I don’t believe words on a page without a peer reviewed study linked. What are the demographics of the data? Where is the data coming from? Etc. I’m in black women social and online groups and most black women have a “I won’t d…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:48 PM
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Could you possibly link the peer reviewed study that book referred to? There was no reference in that screenshot unfortunately.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:37 PM
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Can you provide the data? Because there is no way in hell that the majority of black women prefer white men. Black women are the most race loyal group of women that exists. Overall, OP is describing is a common pathology among ethnic men, especially black men. There are reasons for this pathology but it exists.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:31 PM
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This is 100% normal, especially among lots of ethnic men, mainly black men
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:18 PM
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Jada Pinkett was a famous actress before marrying Will Smith. Only white people dont know who she is besides being Will Smith’s wife😂
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 04:59 PM
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I never said they didn’t lose focus either. But nobody uses instagram as a dating app unless they’re non average people (influencers, athletes, celebrities, etc). Average women find men who use instagram as a dating app as cringey and rightfully so.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 04:57 PM
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Those are the girls you attract. That’s a personal problem.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:22 AM
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That’s a great rating. She’s very pretty, even today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:16 AM
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7-7.5
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:06 AM
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Plenty in religious communities but they want religious men who are virgins and traditional as well
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:39 AM
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Depends on what you think a good woman is
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 01:51 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:27 AM
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Nope. Just wanted to make sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:07 AM
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I think you’re thinking of something else…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:06 AM
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Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:06 AM
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You’re overweight right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:03 AM
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I asked him to name my body type and that’s what he came up with. Odd lookin character but kind of accurate in terms of it being bottom heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:03 AM
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How short are we talking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:01 AM
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I’m LTRing a Chad and didn’t have to do this. I must have missed the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:00 AM
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He said i have a thin waist, thicker thighs, and a fat ass and those are the most prominent areas of my body so he felt like mewtwo was a good comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:44 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:39 AM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:30 AM
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I looked it up and I’m like ?? I get how we compare but idk if that was the right visual to compare me to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:28 AM
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My bf said my body shape is like a skinnier version of Mewtwo🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:19 AM
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Damn I’m sorry that happened to you. Not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:33 PM
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Oh yeah I couldn’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:32 PM
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How did it kill your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:18 PM
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I’m doing long distance right now too but it’s surprisingly not that bad at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:18 PM
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Like a moth to a flame burned by the fire…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:17 PM
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$$$
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:15 PM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:10 PM
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I have 0/13. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:09 PM
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Pay for one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:07 PM
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I’ve split the bill and approached. Not sure what you mean by active.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:07 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:54 PM
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Thx <3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:27 PM
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Not about the amount. It’s about the action of taking that provider role. Again it’s a bonus. Splitting isn’t a hindrance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:26 PM
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That’s literally the main reason why I don’t have any interest in older men. I want to build with someone and grow with someone. You can’t build with someone who already has their life set up and you’re just jumping into it. I’ve explained this so many times to older guys and they just say “but I have money and experience”. Too busy trying to flaunt things I don’t care about instead of listening to what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:25 PM
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Some weirdo who saw the convo sent me a chat asking me why I don’t date older men and trying to say how much better they are than guys my age and how I should try dating one and I’ll see how much better they are. I get a lot of guys private messaging me about what I say on here so I’m used to it. I think most women on this sub are. But it always infuriates me when older guys try to harass me into liking men I genuinely don’t like in any shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:07 PM
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Hate to burst your bubble but I’m not talking about you. Sorry :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:54 PM
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Very true. It’s just annoying and one of the reasons why I’m excited to get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:50 PM
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Antagonizing for saying money isn’t a good trade off for baggage and declining looks to me? So be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:46 PM
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I’m not. I just don’t find guys older than me as good looking as the guys in my age group. That’s my opinion that I’m allowed to have. And yes a lot of the late 20s guy I see are not attractive to me. Am i supposed to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:39 PM
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I’ve always thought it was odd how when I express that I am ONLY interested in men close to age as me, there’s a bunch of older guys trying to provide a list of advantages to dating older guys as a way to convince me to date them or other older men. They’re like salespeople who don’t know how to leave you alone after you already said you’re not interested 10 times. This has legit been happening to me since I was 18 and it’s actually so annoying. Men say women don’t date men their age (which isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:32 PM
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Here’s my thoughts on splitting the bill on dates. I don’t mind doing it, but I will think more highly and be more interested in a guy who pays for the date. If I have to pay for the whole date myself, I will have a low perspective of him and wont see him again. Same with approaching. I don’t mind approaching guys but the guy who sticks out in my mind is a guy who approaches me. So no it won’t hinder how I view a guy (unless im the sole payer) but a guy who takes initiative and showcases masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:52 PM
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We already knew this bud
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 07:37 PM
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Yeah go ahead. Just don’t be surprised when they reject you because chances are they will. And don’t come on here saying “Women are so horrible and only want Chad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:36 PM
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Definitely not as much depression as some of these guys because I did get to experience that once I became an adult. But during my adolescent years, I was probably as depressed as most of the guys on here. It was tough and bothered me a lot. I did feel like something was wrong with me or that I was abnormal and it was something I would vent to my mom about often as a teenager. I’m not saying that the experience between men and women in similar positions is exactly the same nor does it have to be…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 07:30 PM
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My dream scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:32 AM
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Then what’s my case as a woman? Why am I a woman who missed out on young love who holds the sentiments of guys here on that specific topic?
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 05:30 AM
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Interesting. I feel like girls are easier to raise. I have two younger brothers who are just entering their teenage years and it is chaotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:50 AM
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Since we’re linking PPD, I’ll link this comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cux0dm/discussion_research_finds_that_women_do_not/ey0sjwi/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 02:22 AM
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So how are you choosing/finding women who are willing to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:19 AM
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So women who approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:07 AM
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Just hoping. Overall, I just want healthy babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:42 AM
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Random thought but I really hope I’m not a boy mom. I want a little girl so so bad. If I have four kids, there has to be at least one girl. Preferably two in a dream world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:33 AM
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It’s honestly sad at this point. They think “well if women won’t date me then they’re dating bad guys”. They have this pitiful “woe is me” attitude then wonder why they don’t do well with women.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 01:18 AM
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And they’re stupid for doing so
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 01:16 AM
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I literally see women on that sub saying that they’re choosing to exit the dating pool all the time. They’re usually the top posts in the sub? If they don’t want to be with those average or below average men and are choosing singleness rather than being with them, they’re willingly choosing to exit the dating pool. Not sure why that’s a hard concept to grasp. If women would rather exercise their freedom than be with men they don’t like, they let them be. Men only complain about it because they k…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 01:07 AM
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And what kind of women are you going for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:06 AM
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It’s 2023. If a woman is not in a relationship, majority of the time it’s because she doesn’t want to be. There are enough desperate men she could get with if she just wanted to be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. There are tons of men who will seriously commit to any woman because they’re desperate and scared of being alone. She can be old. She can be fat. She can be mentally insane. There’s a man out there willing to settle down with her in a heartbeat. Because most m…
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 11:15 PM
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We know. You guys just like to turn the narrative into they’re unwillingly putting themselves in those circumstance when many women are choosing to be unmarried and not have kids. That’s the disconnect. And it’s projection because for men, being alone and having no one is their biggest fear. Women don’t share that same sentiment.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 10:48 PM
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Disagree if you want. Doesn’t change anything I said. I find it very hard to think that a woman would stay loyal to someone she sees as below her. And most men on this sub agree hence why they always talk about AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:47 PM
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Again, as close in looksmatch is best. The further you get away from being looksmatched, the more the chances of infidelity increase imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:38 PM
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Disagree. A good relationship is as looksmatched as possible. If one person is way more attractive than the other, the chances of infidelity and disposal are higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:26 PM
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For sure. I was just answering the prompt, as OP said he’s an average guy with boring looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:17 PM
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Well he’s not an above average/attractive guy so he should be shooting for his looksmatch or slightly below it. The advice works but it’s just not the advice you guys want to hear because you guys want to be the rare 4/5s bagging 7+ women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:12 PM
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I’m black. My boyfriend is white.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:31 PM
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No I don’t fortunately
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:31 PM
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Never said he was a multimillionaire or that we were married? I am a Nubian Stacy and he is a Chad. You are correct about that.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:25 PM
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You’re not wrong but our lizard brain says these things for a reason. I just think people should just find what they want. No need to subject someone you don’t want to a half ass relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:21 PM
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And I’m a billionaire
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:16 PM
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But attraction is important too. If you’re not going to be able to fully desire your partner and treat them as such, you shouldn’t be with them. It will make them feel horrible and ruin them for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:11 PM
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Again, yikes
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:09 PM
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Paying for tinder is still a loser move lol
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:02 PM
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You can find a kind woman who likes you back who you’re physically attracted to. If big boobs are what you find physically attractive than why not find someone who likes you with big boobs? As someone with small boobs, it’s not fun finding out your partner isn’t truly attracted to you anyways and wishes you were different. I imagine men feel similar when they are not a woman’s height, dick size, etc preference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:59 PM
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I’m happy you’re D cups only :) Already found someone. My hot 6’1 boyfriend who’s the reason why I have this standard now. But thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:52 PM
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100% agree
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:51 PM
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I’m 21. I’ve probably gone on about 20 dates. Probably gave oral to eight (including three eventual boyfriends). Had intercourse with five (including three eventual boyfriends).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:38 PM
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Never everyone is using instagram as a dating app. you are. And that’s probably why you’re struggling with dating.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:32 PM
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Invest in a good wardrobe to slightly upgrade the boring looks. Be funny. Be intelligent and kind. Be fun and confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:31 PM
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Cute!
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:28 PM
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Paying for Tinder? Yikes
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:27 PM
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Projection. And it makes them feel better and superior to imagine women as unhappy as they are.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:25 PM
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Well yeah everyone can’t get a participation trophy lol
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:24 PM
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The revenge fantasies are really cute. Seriously.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:22 PM
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You do know that people use Instagram to connect with their friends and family right? Anyone can do that. You guys have lost focus of what social media was made for. Sad.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:17 PM
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He should communicate that then. When I hear complaints from married women they don’t speak about their husbands communicating to them. Just complacency and lack of effort, and one sided communication from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:14 PM
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Compared to a hookup he is typically waiting longer for sex, Men do this for women they don’t marry and for those they really desire from a purely sexual standpoint. Not a perk. paying for dates, Men do this for women they don’t marry and for those they really desire from a purely sexual standpoint. Not a perk. buys her the ring, Ties into marrying her which i said i didn’t want to hear as an example of how much he values her legally ties his finances with her Acceptable ect. Ah yes “etc”. Men v…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:51 AM
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They really don’t understand that women have similar sexual habits, some more intense than theirs. They think they’re so quirky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:35 AM
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When i see women in situations like this, i do tell them to break up with their loser husbands. And me personally? I wouldn’t let that fly in any relationship I’m in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:32 AM
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They literally think they’re superior beings when it comes to stuff like this. Like they’re the only ones who have eyes in relationships and that their girlfriend/wife are just blind and desire no one but them. It’s really laughable that they’re that silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:30 AM
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Women sexually fantasize and are turned on by other men too. It’s a human thing. If you really think your partner doesn’t see a hot man out in public and wasn’t sexually attracted or aroused by him to some degree, or that she’s not sexually attracted to the men she watches in porn, you’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:22 AM
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Besides marrying her and having children with her (which is more of a life altering event and responsibility for the woman than the man), how are you putting more energy into her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:20 AM
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Very. It’s so sad that many (I would argue at least half) married women are in this position with their husbands. When someone values something, they treat it as something sacred and put in the work to cultivate it. Same applies to relationships. When a man values his relationship and marriage, it is displayed in his actions and his treatment towards her. Women speak all the time about how their husbands don’t appreciate them. Or how they have gotten complacent. How they don’t show affection or …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:18 AM
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I’ll share the post description because I felt I explained it well here: Also known as the “Good girl” or the “Wifey material” woman that is often prioritized when men decide to take dating seriously after ignoring these women. Because this sub is male dominated, there’s always talk about AF/BB and being the guy a woman settles with “post wall”, but why don’t we ever talk about the “settle down” woman and her plight? Based on conversations I’ve had with men, here’s the levels of attractiveness m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:01 AM
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No. 5’11 is two inches taller than the average male and I’m two inches taller than the average female.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:00 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12orbz5/we_dont_talk_enough_about_the_settle_down_woman/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:58 AM
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Welp my new standard 5’11. That’s pretty fair and it’s only the equivalent of my height as a female. If I can’t find a guy who’s 5’11 or taller, then I’ll be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:57 AM
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That’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:49 AM
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😳
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:48 AM
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I feel like every time I come on here my “settle down woman” theory is proven time and time again. It’s literally undefeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:45 AM
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It’s true. Why downgrade after upgrading?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:44 AM
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Exactly that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:32 AM
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Q4M Would you start a couples’ OF with your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:26 AM
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Appreciative husbands make me happy. Respect to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:25 AM
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Thank you🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:21 AM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:05 AM
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Me either. They’re strange for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:21 AM
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Such as cancer as my original comment was regarding (prostate) cancer. It was an example. Most women pay half or more for their household in western society. So no you’re not talking about historically. You can’t speak for all men yourself included, then say “well I don’t do that” and make it seem like an exception is the rule. Doesn’t work like that bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:19 AM
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Sudden as you weren’t aware of the condition beforehand and quickly enter a grave state. Not [redacted], just fact We’re not talking about historically. We’re talking about today. Historically, men weren’t begging women to go 50/50 with them too. We can go on and on about what men did historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:13 AM
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Men usually deal with more sudden and unexpected (often fatal) issues than women, many of which don’t have any external indicators of whatever condition. And many of which could be caught in its earlier stages, such as cancer. So no, it is not always necessarily the most painful route. Men avoid these things because they’re scared and cowardly. So they should be the last ones talking about how women react and deal with the pain they endure due to being biological women. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:09 AM
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Men and women should be treated the way that best fits their needs. You can do that without being unfair or unjust.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:02 AM
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💁🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:02 AM
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Don’t underestimate or undermine extremely painful things women go through if you’re avoiding the very few painful health things men should do in their lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:01 AM
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Actually I misspoke on my last comment “both deserve to be treated with equity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:59 AM
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They will never be the same due to biological differences both deserve to be treated equal and respectfully
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:48 AM
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We never be *the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:42 AM
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😢
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:41 AM
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Oh 100%. I’ve seen women in my family live that life and since I was young. I vowed to never let that happen to me. Thank you for this.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 03:29 AM
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There’s funny guys who still act like respectful men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:56 AM
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They’re lame excuses for men who get too many passes for their horrible behavior. But that’s on women for enabling that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:54 AM
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List of ways I plan to looksmaxx before mid August: -New hair color: Light brown/blonde balayage -Fitness: Continue to work out at least four days a week, about two hours a session; Steadily return back to less lifting, more cardio -Nutrition: Drink more water; Eat more meat -Clothing: Continue soft girl/preppy era from last year but lean into it a bit more (wore a lot of skirts and half tops, need to wear more dresses); Embrace the anklet -Body mod: Small (and final) tattoo in honor of my grand…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:48 AM
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They don’t get enough hate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:39 AM
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My new height standard for men: 5’11
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:37 AM
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Be gay or die of prostate cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:25 AM
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She’s like me except the reverse and I’m much younger. Used to not care about height now tall men only😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:24 AM
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Men underestimate how painful periods and giving birth are and say “every woman does it, it’s not that hard” but avoid going to the doctors at all costs and avoid getting a finger stuck up their ass to make sure they don’t have cancer. Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:22 AM
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Right, most men They want maids they can bang and who will take care of them like their mothers did growing up. And they want you to do half of their role as a provider because it makes their lives easier. But the funniest part is they still expect you to submit and see them as the head of the household. L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:13 AM
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You’re not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:06 AM
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Not only is my bf a Chad but he’s smart, loving, caring, teaches me, and does so much for me. How did i get so lucky😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:03 AM
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Which country is that
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 09:02 PM
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You know that’s not true…
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 08:31 PM
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You admit that it’s western culture which most of us live in. It doesn’t matter if you think it’s a bad idea. It’s still apart of western culture.
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 08:30 PM
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That is something I am fortunate to not have dealt with. I can only imagine the mental and emotional impacts of that.
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 08:29 PM
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Good for you. Happy you followed your heart and didn’t let people choose the life for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:57 AM
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No fatties allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:55 AM
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https://youtu.be/xKBsuglscbY For context, the girl who flipped the table is a former teen heroin addict. This scene is a true depiction of my time on PPD today, with me being the black girl of course. Now time to take my creatine and get some gains at the gym. Ta ta!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:25 AM
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He actually doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:18 AM
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There’s a visual difference between someone on steroids and someone not on it. Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:18 AM
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He doesn’t need to do that because he looks how you wanted to look naturally. Keep shooting up!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:17 AM
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I can tell. My bf showed how to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:00 AM
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Naturally strong and muscular men are just more genetically superior. I’m not against men who take steroids. Do what makes you feel good. But naturally strong men are the epitome of peak male physical form. Literal perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:59 PM
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I’ve actually had quite a few crushes on Pacific Islander men. Some of them are very handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:53 PM
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A lot of words for “I take steroids” Boyfriend is strong with a six pack and we fuck three times a day. All he takes is pre workout and in the past he used to take creatine. Before we go to the gym and work out together, he takes his pre workout and I take my creatine. No steroids needed. Some men are just more superior than others. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:52 PM
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Hey I’m just happy I have a boyfriend who’s strong and muscular naturally through hard work in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:47 PM
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The perfect body for a male is one that doesn’t need steroids😍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:45 PM
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Damn there’s no hope for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:42 PM
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Mhm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:13 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:10 PM
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Haha so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:08 PM
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Because no one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:07 PM
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One of the most liked comments on the post: I feel like there are a lot of men out there who will promise the world prior to baby’s arrival but once it’s born they check right out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:06 PM
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That’s actually what people are telling her to do in the comments. Divorce and either do shared custody or give him full custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:05 PM
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Found on FB “The painful realisation that I could be living my childfree friend's life if I didn't give in to marriage and kids. I miss my freedom so much. I have a long time friend that I'll call "Maria", not her real name of course. We have known each other for years now. She chose to be childfree. I chose motherhood after an unplanned pregnancy. I regret it every day. I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old and everything is hell. I try and put on a brave face, but every day, I wish I was Maria.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:01 PM
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Nothing. I just had them sparkly pink though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:56 PM
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That’s a fair perspective to have
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 09:49 PM
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You can disagree if you’d like but there’s obviously others who feel the same way. Trauma comes in multiple forms, some more severe than others. I’m not an incel and even when I felt bad about my circumstances, I never started to hate men for it. But I can see how it affected me.
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 09:32 PM
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I was mainly talking pre legal adulthood. When most people are sharing an experience besides you, yes it’s bound to make you feel some type of way.
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 09:23 PM
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He could but majority of people who have status have money or they’re linked to wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:52 PM
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They’re greatly correlated though. People of higher status tend to have more money. Rarely are there any positions or circumstances where a person is of high status and aren’t tied to wealth in some format.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:29 PM
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Doesn’t matter. What I said still applies. Status equals money and money is more valuable when you don’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:26 PM
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*She
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 06:50 PM
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Not to the same degree as it was decades ago because women have their own statuses and aren’t legally forced to be in relationships. When you’re financially stable, it allows for pickiness with things like looks and personality. This is a big reason why lots of men are single. Being a man and having a job just doesn’t cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:50 PM
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I don’t personally think it matters above looks or personality. It’s just a desired bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:13 PM
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I’d say it can be pretty powerful. Even from an average people perspective, I’d say most women would rather be with the boss than the employee. Or the popular guy over the nerd. That being said, I’ve never heard women have any dealbreakers regarding status (“high status men or nothing”) unless she’s a really pretty woman who gets a lot of attention from men. But who could blame her for being that way? Lots of guys of all status want her so why wouldn’t she want the best of the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:02 PM
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It’s the fact that most people have relationships and intimacy prior to becoming an adult and it’s really prevalent during the middle and high school years. When everyone around you is going through this important life experience and you’re unfortunately left out, it does make you question your self worth and lowers self esteem.
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 05:39 PM
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Your last sentence didn’t even make sense…
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 06:04 AM
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Yeah that makes sense. I’m still going to check it out because I didn’t miss out on relationships in young adulthood, but I did miss out on them in adolescence which I feel has left me stunted in some ways. Maybe therapy will help me at least a bit.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 11:37 PM
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That’s unfortunate to hear. I was thinking about trying to get therapy for my issues related to the problem but your review makes me nervous.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 11:23 PM
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You have to prove you’re worthy of worship though. You guys think they’ll just worship you automatically and that’s not the case. I mean a passport pro is literally going viral right now for getting checked by an overseas woman thinking he was going to get worshipped for simply existing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:50 PM
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Explain what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:47 PM
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Again, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:42 PM
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We don’t want old washed up men. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:32 PM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:26 PM
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How is it not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:26 PM
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Attractive enough for me to date them and then be in relationships with them. I obviously wouldn’t date someone I found unattractive.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 10:22 PM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 10:20 PM
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You’re obviously not listening to any of her speaking points. And no, she doesn’t use racial slurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:16 PM
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The child gets the father’s last name. Not the mother’s.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 10:15 PM
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Never said they were did I?
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 10:15 PM
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Omg I have a flair🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:35 PM
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I don’t like it. I would prefer that my partner get off to me or the thought of me. My current boyfriend does that now and it’s so nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:22 PM
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Chris Evans is my celebrity crush but I don’t think I’d be in a serious relationship with him if the opportunity presented itself. I’d love to meet him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:31 PM
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Im not black Exactly so of course you don’t understand. You don’t understand black community dynamics so I don’t even know why you’d try to give an opinion here. I agree that the aborting black males thing is wrong but only because black women who feel like Cynthia shouldn’t be having sex with black men in the first place. No need to abort what you shouldn’t be putting yourself at risk to produce anyways. Do you really think she cares about your opinion? She’s spreading messages that need to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:29 PM
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Depending on the women you date, you can put it that way if you’d like. Women end up paying their freedom, identities, and bodies away when they have kids which in turn continues their husband’s legacy. So all is fair.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 08:25 PM
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Very true. It’s calling having standards and expectations. Many guys have a standard and expectation to get sex by the third date or they’ll stop seeing the girl. We all have choices.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 08:21 PM
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Indifferent. I just turned 21 so it’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:45 PM
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Men use the “it’s biological” justification for their physical preferences in women but let a woman say she prefers tall men, she’s being “unfair”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:40 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:33 PM
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Ah yes. This is more like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:29 PM
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Who’s that👀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:26 PM
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They’re not secondary
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:25 PM
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You don’t. No one is forcing you too lol.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 07:23 PM
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🎻🎻🎻
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 07:21 PM
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No, you are correct that black women do need to be put together to date successfully and dating opportunities aren’t as easy for us compared to white women for example. Doesn’t mean it’s necessarily hard, just not as easy. It’s white definitely privilege in effect but it’s not a concept we’re not accustomed to. We see white privilege on a day to day basis. I personally think a lot of black women struggle in dating because they limit themselves to black men. Even if they say they’re not, they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:58 PM
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I love Cynthia G. I disagree with about 10% of her points but overall, she speaks facts and truth. I watch her videos all the time. You really have to listen to what she’s saying and it’s hard to grasp if you’re not in the black community.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:44 PM
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This is too ironic coming from a black guy. From Atlanta of all places.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:38 PM
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I’m a black woman and it’s truly not that hard for me to date. I assume location and upbringing plays a part. But you are correct. A lot of PPD is talking about white women and their realities in the dating world. That’s why a lot of topics like “The Wall” aren’t paid attention to by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:37 PM
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Just say you were busy yesterday and didn’t see her text. Whether you will have sex or not with her, is totally in her hands and based on if she even still wants to see you after it felt like you blew her off. You can’t change how people feel or perceive things.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 06:33 PM
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I never said I had a multimillionaire Chad husband ever on this sub lol The other account clearly says it’s my backup…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:51 PM
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I can promise you, you wouldn’t even be in my dating pool so that’s totally fine. Find a wife who will stay home while you do all the work and providing. As stated there are plenty of women into that. And that’s totally fine. And yeah I’ve never had anyone oppose my thoughts on this. A lot of my relationship ideals are based on my parents who have a similar dynamic. They’ve been married for 25 years and they’re only 46 and soon to be 43. Very successful people with very successful kids. So I’m g…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:50 PM
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Asking the real questions
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:11 PM
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def a ragebaiter but this is a real question. men complain about women wanting to be with physically attractive partners so they tell them to lower their standards then complain when their girlfriend or wife doesn’t want to bang them. a bit counterproductive.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:08 PM
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shouldn’t you want to have sex three times a day in a relationship?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:08 PM
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you’re correct. i don’t want to be a SAHM mom at all. not long term anyways. fortunately no guy that i’ve met had an issue with this, especially knowing my family background and how hard i’ve hustled to receive an education as a first generation high school graduate and college attendee who works two jobs to pay for her education. there’s no way in hell i’ve done all that to be a stay home mom. (just want to add on that another masculine responsibility i would take on is helping provide financia…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:07 PM
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I want a male partner that will lead, protect, provide for, and prioritize our family. I want him to act as the man of the household and I want to treat him as such by respecting him and allowing him final say on important decisions. I want him to embrace his masculinity. He doesn’t need to be the sole provider. He doesn’t need to initiate everything or court me all the time (I’ve always tried to court my partners and have paid for countless dates, even a first date before). He does need to help…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:27 PM
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No worries dude, I understand. Yeah I know libido is primary regulated by testosterone. My original comment was mainly a joke but do I think that I probably have a higher libido than probably 35% of men.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:23 PM
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I don’t want a traditional man
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:16 PM
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None of that had to do with libido. You just embarrassed yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:15 PM
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I’m probably not baseline but I’m probably very close. A tester one patch would just increase that tremendously.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:11 PM
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What do you mean both ways?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:10 PM
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This is how I see it too. All of my relationships besides my current one have been with lower libido men or men who were more boring sexually and it definitely played with my self esteem. It wasn’t fun at all and I don’t think anyone should feel rejected in a relationship. Compatibility and attraction are so important.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:55 PM
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Then I would have a higher libido than any man
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:37 PM
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That literally has nothing to do with what I’m talking about
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:09 AM
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No it’s because they’re physically unattractive and men have different attraction standards for other men than women do
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 08:36 AM
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What does that have to do with what I said?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:47 AM
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There’s several post from guys on this sub saying women have too high standards because a guy they find attractive is posting on other subs expressing they haven’t been able to find girlfriends. They use this tactic to support their “women only want Chad” narrative when they don’t understand that women don’t find those guys attractive at all. Men find them attractive and the epitome of handsomeness. Not women.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:38 AM
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Second
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:10 AM
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I’ve been dating one for almost a year
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:10 AM
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Yeah I’ve honestly never saw it as too intimidating though I get the fear of approaching. I always tried to remember that there are an abundance of attractive guys out there so one saying no to me won’t hurt.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:10 AM
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Why not speak English?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:05 AM
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Men also don’t understand what women find attractive in men and it’s all over this sub. Calling blatantly unattractive guys attractive because that’s what you men like in men. I agree with your second statement though.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:59 AM
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Ooh new fan unlocked
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:58 AM
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We don’t
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:58 AM
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You’re correct but men don’t understand those standards. As I’ve said, in my experience, men don’t understand what an attractive guy looks like to a woman. You named all of those attractive guys but none of them have problems getting women. And I would bet that would be true if they weren’t famous. So yeah a guy you find good looking might struggle but who says women find him good looking? Our standards aren’t yours.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:38 PM
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I’d say 1 out of 5 of the guys I’ve approached would be what you guys consider a Chad
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:09 PM
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You really gotta work on your comebacks bud. For your safety.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:39 PM
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That was pretty lame ngl
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:37 PM
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Omg you’re the patriarchy guy! Why make another account if you know you’re just going to get suspended again?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:33 PM
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One thing I’ve learned is men don’t know what a good looking guy is to women to I’m going to take this with a grain of salt
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:32 PM
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L O L
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:31 PM
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Most women don’t think that though
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:30 PM
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Obviously it’s virtue signaling
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:14 PM
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Say “Hey I think you’re cute. Can I have your some form of contact.” There can be tons of people who do something and it can still not be a majority. There’s tons of men who are creepy and abusive. Are majority of men creepy and abusive?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:13 PM
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Tons of women do approach men. Hell, I’ve probably approached at least five guys in my 21 years of living. We just approach guys we find attractive. Men think women don’t approach because women don’t approach them specifically and that speaks to their attractiveness. I won’t say women approaching men is a norm because it’s not. But how much women approach men is definitely underestimated..
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 09:23 PM
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Yeah, like preschool/kindergarten age
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:32 PM
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Never said I plan to be a SAHM because I don’t plan to be one lol. Not long term anyways. Probably just when the kids are young but I want to work throughout my life.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:31 PM
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I like everything but I love Japanese food I’ve maybe had five drinks my whole life. Not super into drinking but maybe I’ll warm up to it a little more now that I’m 21. I’ve never done any drugs. Don’t plan to. I don’t think so?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:30 PM
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Not interested in them either. I don’t want to be with a virgin. At least one sexual experience is fine with me.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 11:20 PM
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Awesome son
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:26 PM
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Hi. How’s your day been?
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:25 PM
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Aren’t you on your 1000th account because you’re permanently suspended and have to keep making accounts until they inevitably get banned? That’s unfortunate.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:24 PM
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No but after classes I’m either at his place or he’s at mine. So we do all of the typical “live together” stuff outside of doing chores together. We are currently looking for an apartment for next year where we will live as a couple.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 08:39 PM
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Exactly
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 08:37 PM
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Because girls like me are rare
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 08:28 PM
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😂😂 I hope they ask you questions. Your responses are gold.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 08:27 PM
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Because I find super high N counts off putting and it does make me look at a guy different. Shows lack of self control and desperation. Hmm in my last relationships I probably asked within a month of seeing each other. I don’t have trouble girlbossing then turning it off because my boyfriend/future husband/family are supposed to be my safe spaces. When I’m with them, I’m supposed to feel like I can be my most vulnerable and free. Where no fronts are needed and I can be myself. I would say I some…
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 08:23 PM
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Nah a year is too soon even for me. I want to really get to know someone and make sure we’re compatible before committing to something as big as marriage. But as previously stated, four years is my max. They’re free to propose beforehand if they’d like. If we’re past the 2.5 year mark of dating, id most likely say yes.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:53 PM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:51 PM
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Like I see the man as the head of the household and I want to submit to a male partner as long as he proves to be worthy of submission. I might girlboss irl but in my relationships and within the home I want to rest in my femininity and I want the man to thrive in his masculinity. I also value marriage and family units more than anything. I only date to marry and I would prefer to marry and have kids young. Not into waiting to start a family once I hit 30 or something like that. Looking for some…
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:51 PM
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Surprisingly, I’ve had pretty good experiences. I make it known pretty early into seeing someone that: -I will not have children out of wedlock. But after marriage, I want kids and not having kids/not being able to have kids is a dealbreaker. -I will not be in a relationship with someone for more than four years without a proposal being made to me. If I’m not engaged within four years of us dating, I will end the relationship and find someone else. (“Forever girlfriend” protection). -No large jo…
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:43 PM
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In regards to my morals/values?
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:23 PM
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I didn’t use those words. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:16 PM
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I like you. You’ve been killing it for the past 24 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:15 PM
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I’m also talking about real life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:14 PM
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As I’ve already said twice, the topics you listed aren’t comparable to the topic of age gap relationships. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:10 PM
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White males aren’t black males though. So again, not comparable. On the topic of age gap relationships, males are males regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:56 PM
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I’ve heard more concern from older women than anything. Always from an informative, storytelling perspective as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:49 PM
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A male is telling me about the thoughts of other males towards females. The topics of interracial and homosexual relationships aren’t comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:47 PM
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Please, it probably gets posted at least once a week. What I suggest you do next time is utilize that search tab at the top of this sub and make sure your topic hasn’t been posted a thousand times before you think to post something. Let’s come here with an actual creative take next time😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:09 PM
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I think this is true. And social media helps a lot with this because we get to hear the insight of women who were in age gap relationships (ie Taylor Swift, one of the biggest pop stars in the world, making a song and music video about her horrible age gap relationship with an older man), as well as the insights of men who seek age gap relationships whose reasons often are creepy, weird, and ill-hearted. This “old women are just jealous” narrative is so tired and played out. I’m 21 and always th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:03 PM
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Y’all need to come up with something new😴
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:58 PM
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You are correct that men find a higher % of women attractive. That doesn’t mean women should be called superficial for not wanting to be with someone they deem unattractive or that they should be guilted into dating someone they don’t find attractive. Your Devil’s advocate statement is just showcasing the entitlement men have towards relationships and sex. You’re essentially saying that because women don’t find as many men attractive, it’s okay to call their preferences superficial because it ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:52 AM
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Exactly this. It’s ok for men to prioritize looks when looking for partners but when women do it, we’re superficial and should give the guy a chance because he has a great personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:04 AM
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This isn’t all women. You just don’t pay attention to the women who don’t behave this way. That’s on you.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 06:42 PM
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Correct
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 06:37 PM
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This is the right answer
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 06:37 PM
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You don’t have to be hypergamous to care about money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:43 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:40 PM
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They don’t know what they want. They’ll go and on about how men don’t care about a women’s money or career but then turn around and say women are gold diggers, how alimony is “divorce rape” and that they won’t financially support a woman or household and everything needs to be 50/50. One second they care, one second they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:27 PM
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My birth year😇
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:01 PM
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The jokes write themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:40 PM
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Omg how’d you know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:36 PM
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It’s just the biggest ick to me. The guy could be a 10/10. If he I see he has flip flops on, he goes down to a 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:13 PM
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Wear flip flops (not at the beach)p or pool)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:10 PM
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Which majority of you don’t have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:55 PM
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Then don’t get into monogamous relationships. Be poly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:52 PM
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Liz is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:46 PM
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That doesn’t change anything I said. Infidelity is a huge deal. If she wouldn’t have dated leagues below her pay grade she could have been taking him for everything he owns right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:46 PM
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No it’s evidence that her husband is a shitty person and father. Too bad she makes way more than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:25 PM
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This is the correct answer but some guys on this sub find anyway to slut shame women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:42 PM
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Oh yeah for sure. I have to get my career together and I don’t want any children out of wedlock so I need to get married first. But in a dream world, I would have a kid right now. That would make me super happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:46 AM
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Always been that way. I think it’s partially because I got to heavily partake in helping raise my two siblings who are substantially younger than me. And I also think it’s because my mom is amazing and she is the embodiment of a great mother to me. I want to be just like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:44 AM
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I want to be a mom more than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:36 AM
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Yeah being young and not having a bunch of responsibilities is fun but I want a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:32 AM
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You and every other old guy on this sub… allegedly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:34 AM
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Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:38 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:21 PM
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Do what you want
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 05:04 AM
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Obviously
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 03:22 AM
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Exotic “Chads” are rarely attractive. In my experience, only men find exotic men peak male attractiveness when most women aren’t into that.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 11:14 PM
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You were saying that I called highly attractive men plain looking when all my comments explained that I said that because the guys I find attractive don’t look exotic or rare.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 11:07 PM
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I said something similar but instead you dissed me😭
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 10:51 PM
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Lol don’t project your type in men onto me
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 10:31 PM
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Which I’m not
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 10:30 PM
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No but I’m looksmatched with my bf who is a 7/10 Chad
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:48 PM
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Eh I would say no but very slightly. My bf is definitely what you guys would consider a 7/10 Chad. I would say my bf and I are looksmatched.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:47 PM
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They’re definitely 8/10 for sure. One of them definitely isn’t a Chad as he’s shorter. I just meant plain looking in terms of none of that exotic chiseled scariness that guys tend to think is super attractive on other men.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:13 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/13ym0wy/im_convinced_male_beauty_standards_are_too_high/jmnwbrc/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:06 PM
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Hispanic ones?
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:04 PM
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Got it. I think these guys are super attractive: https://pin.it/7FmusCs https://pin.it/5l6RuAd I would consider them normal because they’re not like mainstream celebrities or anything like that. What makes them stand out? They just have nice facial cohesiveness and nice smiles. I also tend to like plain looking guys, not into the super exotic chiseled look. I find it gross tbh. I’m a 21yo black female. My preferred demographic is primarily 19- 23 year old men (usually white but Hispanics is my s…
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:02 PM
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I would out Hispanic men as my second preferred group of men so not bias. He looks awfully feminine to me. Maybe it’s the hair and cheekbones.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:54 PM
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Where are you from where feminine looking men such as the one you linked are the real male beauty standard? South Korea?
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:48 PM
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Most of them are virtue signaling
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:47 PM
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You’re kidding…
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:31 PM
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Weird hill to die on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:19 PM
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Your obsession with student loan debt is so odd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:13 PM
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My bf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:04 PM
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Well he’s not attractive
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:03 PM
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I’m not lying. You saw my comment lol.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:03 PM
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I was being serious. A successful relationship requires a good amount of objectification on both ends imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:28 PM
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The key to a successful relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:21 PM
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FaceTime/video strip shows > anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:05 PM
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I avoid them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:20 PM
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Because those women tend to be above average in attractiveness and those are primarily the only women guys focus on until they feel forced to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:13 PM
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Breath
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:11 PM
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Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:09 PM
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Can’t explain because I don’t think they’re being truthful
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 06:02 PM
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Just like men don’t want to be settled for, women don’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:02 PM
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I agree with that statement though it doesn’t really have anything to do with what I was previously saying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:01 PM
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We can agree to disagree I guess. I stand firm on my views of the settle down woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:25 PM
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I don’t disagree. I just think a lot of these conversations would be more productive if men were more honest about what women they actually desire and pay attention to. There’s too many guys in here complaining about not getting attention and not being able to date but they’re shooting for women who are way out of their league and who therefore have more attractive options. Lots of these men aren’t looking for women who are in their league until they get desperate, which is on par with how they …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:12 PM
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I don’t think men have delusional standard or are desperate. Like what you like, not my place to judge. Calling out the fact that men aren’t checking for average women though is vital for conversations on this sub. Men are only scrambling to find an average woman when they’re ready to settle down or get tired/bored of chasing the above average woman. And I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with this but saying it isn’t true, like many men do on here, is just a flat out lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:01 PM
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Thanks for calling attention to this. It frustrates me no end to see the hypocrisy among many guys here who say average guys are invisible and will never be viscerally desired by women, but then they feel the exact way about average women. They want hot women, but they will settle for plain Janes because they still want to get laid and have sexual validation and romance - but women seemingly settling for their own reasons is the worst thing imaginable. I’ve also heard men here say that men “sett…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:52 PM
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I talked about the last bit on my “settle down girl” post awhile ago. The difference in treatment when a man actually desires and wants his partner versus how he treats the woman he settles with because they’re consistent and reliable, is blatantly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:44 PM
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All you mentioned was the south lol. I have cousins in Florida who see the same thing I’ve mentioned. Most people sate within their race, especially black women unfortunately. I’m not arguing against that. I’m saying that when white men date ethnic women they’re with above average in attractiveness women. They’re not dating the below average women. It’s mostly true especially for black men. My bf is white and we’ve talked about this before. He’s made it clear that black men specifically love to …
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 10:14 PM
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West coast US
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 09:59 PM
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An app guys use to create virtual girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:16 PM
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Please educate yourself. Stitches are given because the vagina tears during vaginal birth and infections need to be prevented. Not to make someone “tighter”.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:25 PM
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This is such cope lol
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:32 PM
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You tagged me in this why?
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:30 PM
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That is interesting. As you’ve probably figured I’m from the US. I’m black but Ive been fortunate to come from a good family and parents that value working hard for their children and providing them with the best opportunities. I personally feel like it’s hard to find that philosophy in mass in my own community so I tend to not date within my race because our values just aren’t the same. I value creating generational wealth. I value marriage. I value no children out of wedlock. I value a partner…
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:28 AM
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I’ve literally posted a photo of myself faceless on this sub before. Do you guys want me to verify next? I couldn’t imagine being this pressed over a comment😂 Do you really think I care about what an Asian incel thinks? Seriously?
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:12 AM
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What does that have to do with anything I said? I just said that when white men date out, they date above average ethnic women.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:35 AM
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No I said it’s mentioned in those things. My opinion is based on what I see in the real world and conversations I’ve had with white men with ethnic girlfriends including my bf. All old people don’t think they’re old. What’s new? I come on here to troll and fuck around as seen by most of my comments and posts on this sub. You guys take this shit seriously. I just find it funny. Gives me something to do when I’m bored, usually at work.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 04:12 AM
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That’s your race so you know it better than I would. I do find that interested though because the Asian girls I know who are dating white guys are very shy, quiet and timid.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 04:09 AM
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Someone sounds mad. I said that it’s mentioned in (non fictional media) all the time because it os. https://youtu.be/ERcjxLguk8o I can make a compilation if you’d like. I’m guessing you’re old so maybe you did see something different in your time. Gen Z ethnic hotties are dating White Chads and there’s a multitude of reasons for that. Visit your local college campus or spend some time looking at Gen Z interracial couples irl or online then get back to me.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 04:06 AM
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Black women are definitely included. Thinking otherwise is just cope.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 03:38 AM
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Then your experience is an odd one. You have people calling out this phenomenon all the time. In comedy, music, film, etc. What I stated was true. White men get the most attractive ethnic women and ethnic men get white men’s leftovers. Simple as that. You can say that the white men who date out are unattractive but white men have no reason to date out if they don’t want to. Dating out for white men is a choice they make for themselves. The dating world isn’t making it for them. I go to a PWI and…
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 03:31 AM
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None at all
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 03:27 AM
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The average white man pic you used is attractive and I would consider him about average But it’s because white men symbolize masculinity and power. They also tend to have morals that prioritize generational wealth. For women who are interested in reproducing, of course that’s a mindset you’d want the father of your children to have.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 03:26 AM
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If you’re being serious… In terms of vaginal “tightness” that doesn’t change with child delivery. Vaginal expansion for birth is temporary. The vagina is a muscle and returns back to its default size after delivery and swelling decreases. In terms of body changes like weight gain and such, that does occur of course (let’s remember that the body goes through tons of physical damage in its process of creating and keeping a whole human safe for nine months, and the body gains weight to protect and …
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:59 PM
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Usually don’t agree with you but you got my support on this one 🤝
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:41 PM
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Fair take. Just not correct from a physiological or anatomic standpoint.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:29 PM
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I said truthpill because I agree with you. Ethnic men who date white women specifically tend to date the unwanted, undesirable women white men don’t want unless they have tons of money. But when white men date outside their race, they’re typically with the most attractive women of said ethnic group.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:28 PM
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All good things must come to an end
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:16 PM
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“Doesn’t understand physiology or anatomy” pill
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:15 PM
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Truthpill
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:11 PM
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Where did I whine?
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 07:51 PM
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If you wanna take it that way, go ahead
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 07:13 PM
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More like equity
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 07:07 PM
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Men and women are different. You can’t project men’s behaviors onto women and vice versa.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 05:53 PM
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Or they can be like me in their “prime years” and chase attractive men, obtain relationships with them, and get an extensive education😉
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 05:42 PM
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Sounds like cope
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 05:33 PM
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No one said they’re subhuman. I’m just not going to lie to you guys and say virgin men aren’t avoided by lots of women.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 05:32 PM
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On my list but instead of extensions, I want to dye it
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 05:32 PM
1

Okay nice. Most of these I already do or naturally have so that’s good.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 06:16 AM
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Being good at sex is a great deal for high libido women who want a very active sex life
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 06:14 AM
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21 Some of these I don’t have to do due to genetics so I guess that’s good
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 06:13 AM
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Stay mad
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 01:15 AM
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Already done plus I already had a natural big butt
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 01:15 AM
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Mix of the second and third reasons for sure
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:49 PM
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The funny part is I am all those things and people consider me those things, but it doesn’t help me think of myself more positively. In fact, it does the opposite.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:39 PM
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I definitely agree. I already have a great partner as I am but it’s also about improving my self esteem and perception to others. Good is good but great is better.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:23 PM
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They hate the truth💋
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:19 PM
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Do you think it’s a good idea to get plastic surgery in one’s early 20s?
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:19 PM
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That’s how I feel too but I always hear mixed reviews. I’ve been wanting to hardmaxx but everyone around me says that I shouldn’t and I also don’t have the money for it so it sucks.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:12 PM
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I’m in my natural beauty era right now. I’ll usually put on some moisturizer, concealer, mascara and maybe some eyeliner. But I don’t look too different without it which I think is good.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:06 PM
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You’re right. I was just talking about that with some people the other day.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:05 PM
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I’m like 20-25%. I’ve always been an athlete up until 18 and now I work out 4/5 times a week, two hours a session.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:04 PM
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I have all that accomplished but hardmaxxing. Do you think hardmaxxing has more positives or negatives when it comes to social and relationship dynamics?
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:02 PM
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Woman here. Similar to you I just come on here when I’m bored and don’t have anything better to do. Sometimes I’m being serious on here and sometimes I’m just trolling.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 08:07 PM
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I thought this was a pretty known fact. I have virgin friends who wouldn’t mind being with virgin men, but most women don’t want to be with a virgin due to the teaching aspect. Women want to have an enjoyable sexual experience as well and it’s kind of hard to do that when you have to instruct the guy or he can’t last for long. It’s just a hurdle most women aren’t interested in facing.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 08:03 PM
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I would never date a single dad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:20 PM
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That’s a great prerogative to have for yourself
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 11:02 PM
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Fortunately there’s tons of women who are that height
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 11:01 PM
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I’m going for the Celtics tonight for the sake of my bf’s happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:40 PM
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K
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 10:37 PM
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Probably age and no obese men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:37 PM
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No I said any income
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:25 PM
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17.4%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:18 PM
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Removed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:11 PM
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A 5’6 one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:57 PM
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Wow I’m in the top 41% 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:54 PM
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Well I would suggest you take a look outside and examine the couples around you. Because I definitely see below average men or men who aren’t highly sought after in a relationship. But, they’re in relationships with below average women or women aren’t highly sought after which is what men in these spaces don’t want. They want to be below average with the above average woman or expect to receive companionship, loyalty, and sex simply for breathing air and that’s just not how that works. It really…
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:33 PM
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I would argue that the majority of women don’t care what men think about their preferences. There’s really no reason to.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:27 PM
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I honestly don’t give a fuck. Like who you like. Want what you want. It has nothing to do with me. The only “preference” I will push back on is liking underage persons. I hate pedos. Women who fit one, two, or all of those characteristics still often end up in relationships and marriages so it’s really no big deal if some men do not want them because other men will. Same goes for men. Some women don’t want certain characteristics in a guy but there will always be some woman out there that would …
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:24 PM
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I’m saying it here because it’s being brought up in conversation. And irl single mothers don’t have that much of a hard time struggling to find partners. I find single fathers undatable and don’t want anything to do with them. If I were in realms where they were complaining about not finding partners, I would say the same thing.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:14 PM
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Me! Not only can they get stuff off the top shelf but they can lift you high off the ground too. Which is good for intimate and non intimate situations if you catch my drift ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:12 PM
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I’ll have to disagree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:02 PM
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No, I asked do you think women care what men think about women’s preferences. We don’t.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:00 PM
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Wait women don’t have a good understanding of what men find attractive in women? Is that what you’re trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:57 PM
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If that were true you wouldn’t be bitching and moaning about women every chance you get. Keep lying to yourself bud. Muah💋
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 08:43 PM
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I don’t even know why you guys even listen to them. Like I don’t know why it’s just so hard to just do what you want and not care what others think. Do you think women truly care what men think about their preferences? Of course not.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 08:34 PM
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The one on the left. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:18 PM
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How does not wanting to just date anyone and everyone equate to you hating men? I don’t see the issue with wanting to be selective about people you share your time, energy, love, and potentially your fertility with…
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 08:03 PM
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I don’t nor does any woman I know care. I don’t date fat men. I don’t expect men to date fat women if they don’t want.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 07:21 PM
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You care too much about the internet and what other people think. Maybe if you didn’t, you’d be more successful with people and women :)
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 07:19 PM
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Why would this be considered depression fuel for you
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 06:36 AM
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Yeah I don’t know why these guys act like men don’t want and prioritize tall women. My bf’s exes were 5’10 and 5’8. He has always said he prefers taller women because he doesn’t want short kids.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 05:44 AM
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Sure but both things need to be prevalent for me in a relationship
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 05:31 AM
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Feeling feminine and protected in relationships is a non-negotiable for me. I’m perfectly fine being alone rather than being in a relationship without that component.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 05:27 AM
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Well fortunately my bf is 6’1 and works out everyday so he’s built. Win win for me :) And I’m totally happy decreasing my dating pool significantly. My time and love isn’t just for anybody.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 04:54 AM
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I didn’t pick my current bf because he was tall but you learn from relationships. And being with him has helped me realize I feel more comfortable and secure with a taller partner than a short one. I’m not even saying 6’0 and up. Just at least my male height equivalent. Also having this box checked doesn’t mean other things won’t matter. I just won’t care about the other things if this height box isn’t checked first.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 04:44 AM
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Adding that to my list. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:48 AM
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Masculinity is associated with height. Does it mean that they’re correlated? No. But it’s an association. Just like someone else mentioned that there’s an association that big boobs and wide hips equals more feminine and more successful child birth, none of which is true. It’s just how it is. Never been in the position to have masculine energy so great theory but not applicable to me
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 03:30 AM
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Where are some nice couple “getaway” vacation spots in the United States? My parents are gonna hit their 25 years of marriage in late November and I’m hoping to send them somewhere nice but need to save up for it starting now. They’ll be 46 and 43 at this time so something age appropriate for them would be nice (so not a totally young crowd but not a bunch of boomers either). Also want to add that I am a college student with two jobs and I pay my own bills so it can’t be super expensive😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:20 AM
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What is this, you’re 1000th account now?
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 03:13 AM
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Imagine caring about downvotes lmao
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 03:12 AM
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Thank you. Same to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:28 AM
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I really wish I didn’t read that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:26 AM
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I think you should give it a try. I’ve had three sets and haven’t noticed any damage to my natural lashes. I’m also a winged liner girl like you and there are eyeliners out there that are for lash extension wearers specifically. So it allows me to do my winged look if I want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:56 PM
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Why are you so angry buddy?
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:38 PM
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None of that has to do with having better child births. Please read an actual book about biology and child births. Online blog articles won’t cut it.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:30 PM
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Short guy triggered alert
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:30 PM
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Tall men usually have height preferences for taller women because they don’t want short kids. Mainly short sons. I don’t know why you’re so triggered by that😂
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:24 PM
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None of that (besides age) has to do with women with those characteristics having better child births. You also said only young women can have children which isn’t true. Instead of using google, read a book.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:23 PM
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That clip just gave me the tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:19 PM
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Why when older
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:18 PM
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Just get a classic lash extension set. That’s what I always get and they look natural. I don’t like overly fake looking extensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:18 PM
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I agree with you there
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:17 PM
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projecting? i know multiple guys including my boyfriend who refuse to date short women because they don’t want short kids. i’m the shortest woman my bf has dated but i’m also still taller than the average woman so it balances out.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:16 PM
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you can’t say guys don’t care that much and then say guys don’t care about height at all. pick one and stick with it.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:16 PM
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I’m sorry that this has been your experience. No one should be treated that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:15 PM
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as i’ve already stated in another reply, i was talking about height equivalency and whether it was fair that i wanted someone more than average height since i myself am more than average height for a woman. i obviously have enough smv for tall men if i’m in a ltr with a 6’1 man (who actively prefer taller women) so that’s not an issue. also as someone who works at a fertility clinic and who is going into maternal and prenatal care as a career, breast size and a “certain body type” plays no facto…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:14 PM
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Study it
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:13 PM
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as stated i’ve dating short guys before and felt feminine and girly with them. and protected to some degree i guess. i just feel more feminine and girly and safe with a taller man.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:13 PM
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if that’s your prerogative, that’s great. my prerogative is feeling feminine and i feel most feminine when the male leads in relationships and i support him. i think you’re thinking of some 1950’s traditional relationship dynamic but there are other ways to be submissive that aren’t as radical.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:12 PM
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lol thanks for sharing. i always see guys complaining that it’s unfair that short women want tall guys because most guys are taller than them so i thought i’d ask if it was fair to ask if above average height women could want above average height men. I didn’t even say 6’0 and up only. i think these responses showed me that no matter what the preference is, there will always be a bunch of guys who don’t fit the preference who are going to bitch and moan about it and find any reason to say that i…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:11 PM
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I think it’s the aspect of feeling small. It’s hard to feel that way with a man who’s shorter than you or who’s super close to you in height. And as stated I like being feminine and though I may girl boss in the real world, in relationships I prefer to be submissive and let the man lead and play his masculine role. It’s hard to be submissive to a guy who’s your height. It would be like we’re equals.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 09:02 PM
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I was talking about height equivalency. Men do care about a women’s height though. Tall men typically do anyways.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 08:56 PM
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Part of me looksmaxxing is for me to feel better about myself and more confident. I am 21 so I’m still insecure about so many things in regards to appearance like most young women are. So I’m not doing it to attract other people this time around but I still want to look and feel like my best self.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:38 PM
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It was more like me making behavioral and social changes in order to be more approachable or present myself with opportunities to approach men. Because I’m in a relationship, I’m obviously not focused on approaching others. Behavioral things i do adjust now are based on my partner and his needs so it’s very specific. But I’m always attempting to become a better girlfriend 24/7 unlike when I get in the mood to change myself which is once a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:32 PM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:27 PM
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I am being serious here but 90% of the time I am trolling on this sub, so I’m honored💛
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:21 PM
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Well my situation is a little bit different as I’m already in a relationship. In the past when I was single, I would work on more internal things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:14 PM
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She married one
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 08:02 PM
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Well I hope they find their Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:57 PM
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Men say women don’t work on themselves to make themselves more attractive but I literally go into looksmaxxx/reinvent mode every summer. And for some reason this has been my most difficult summer thus far. The ideas for improvement just aren’t coming to me like they usually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:45 PM
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Finally someone explains why lol. Appreciate the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:09 PM
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🥂
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 10:04 AM
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You might be fit but you’re not young lol I’m happy you’re happy
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 10:00 AM
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Sounds like a very odd and unrealistic situation but you know your situation better than me. You’re obviously way older than I so maybe that plays a part in it as well (generational gaps). I hope things get better for you.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 09:54 AM
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What type of girls were you approaching? Do you think there may have been a problem with your choice in women? My exes were 5’6 and 5’8. For perspective I’m 5’6. Their height didn’t prevent me from dating them nor did I settle (I was 18 and 19 at the time). I see guys your height with girlfriends all the time. So maybe it was your choice in women that prevented you from finding a quality partner.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 09:50 AM
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Are you positive it’s your height that prevented you from having a relationship? Just your height alone?
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 09:24 AM
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Hm interesting take. If you’re happy, I’m happy for you.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 06:39 AM
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Do you feel the same way about men who reject women over traits that they can’t change and were just born with?
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 06:13 AM
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Arms
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:20 AM
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Nope. Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:13 PM
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By why do you think they’re more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:59 PM
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No way really? /s I was asking him to explain the preference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:56 PM
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Big or abnormal shaped noses😍 Also stretch marks. Ive noticed when I’ve pointed them out to a guy he gets a bit self conscious but I think they’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:46 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:45 PM
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He does. I’m lucky to have him :)
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 08:34 PM
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I will always choose being alone rather than being with someone I don’t want to be with. That’s the difference between men and women. Men would rather be with someone they really don’t care for just to be with someone because they dread being alone. That’s not women’s fear. I’m in the best relationship I’ve ever been in and it’s partly because he’s everything I’ve ever wanted. It’s easy to love someone as they should be loved when you genuinely want to love them.
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 08:07 PM
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I would never settle. I respect and care for myself more than that.
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 08:01 PM
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Everyone I know including myself is someone you’d settle for. We probably just wouldn’t settle for you. That’s the tough part of dating.
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 07:53 PM
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Mood asf. I agree with everything you’re saying.
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 07:15 PM
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I really wish this was grammatically correct so we could understand what the hell you’re trying to say
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 07:13 PM
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I think your ideal is tougher to find than what you’d settle for
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 07:08 PM
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What’s wrong with your body?
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 07:07 PM
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I started having conversations with my dad about some of the topics on this sub and it’s so enlightening to hear his thoughts, but it’s also nice to just bond with my dad in the way we know best (debates/having in depth conversations about controversies). We made a deal to talk about one PPD topic every Friday :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:18 AM
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I never said that. I’ve always wanted to be inferior in relationships😤
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:22 AM
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Thanks for the context. I feel like this video would have been better for OP to post tbh. I feel bad for the guy but I do think he looks better bald. Would I date him or have sex with him? Definitely not as I don’t like baldies. But I hope he feels better fr.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 11:44 PM
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Notice how you said hair recession though. Like I said, I’m pretty sure this guy was required to shave because he’s in some sort of program that makes him. Anytime the “just shave your head” advice is given is when a guy is noticeably balding horribly but is still trying to keep those last strands of hair that he has. Most people are like just cut it all off at that point. This guy in the video did not include any photos of him balding or being mostly bald prior to shaving so I see your point bu…
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 11:30 PM
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If you really think women had the same legal rights as men, there’s no conversation to be had here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:21 PM
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Disagree. Women had no legal rights and therefore, couldn’t even attempt to live life on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:10 PM
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Judging by his shirt, I think he’s in the military or some sort of boot camp. He most likely had to cut his hair for that program. But idk the point OP is trying to make either
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 10:57 PM
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Oops sorry😀 But I’ll be in your situation in about a month so I get it. Just be nice and respectful as you can’t really go wrong with that route. Wear what you usually wear but of course look polished and appropriate. And don’t worry about if they’re going to like you. They’re going to love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:55 PM
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What’s her dad like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:44 PM
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Put a TW next time
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 10:25 PM
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Fr. I lowkey get depressed looking at it which is why i avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:12 PM
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But size doesn’t matter! Kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:11 PM
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Sure we’ll go with that. Hypergamy has existed since the beginning of time so if the 80/20 rule is true, that just proves that for most of history women were with men they actually didn’t like or want to be with, but had to be in relationships with them because they had no rights. If these women did have rights, most of us probably wouldn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:39 PM
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Hypergamy exists. I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:35 PM
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I did add something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:17 PM
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Men who wear flip flops. Instant turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:08 PM
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The RP doesn’t even really know what their beliefs are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:00 PM
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If their take is that hypergamy exist I’d agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:53 PM
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Women’s standards come from not needing or relying on men anymore. Men’s inability to become more desirable is mainly due to male entitlement, laziness, and sometimes genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:32 PM
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I did
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:19 PM
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I agree with the fashion pick but not the music pick
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:29 PM
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What even are the RP’s beliefs? I feel like RP is all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:14 PM
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Better and more aren’t the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:10 PM
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Why would I do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:54 PM
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You’re right OP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:50 PM
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Tally it
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:00 PM
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Health reasons
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 11:50 AM
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It’s 2am here and it’s summer vacation…
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 09:04 AM
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Wish I could give you an award. This made me giggle. Yes I do brag about banging my bf three times a day and having great intense sex with him. I think anyone in a healthy relationship with someone they love should do so.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 08:51 AM
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Will have/do have my own wealthy so dangling money in my face to overlook characteristics I don’t like won’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:25 AM
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Sure Jan
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 07:16 AM
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With attractive men obviously
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 07:11 AM
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Keep coping bud. I linked a photo of myself one time in a comment on here and multiple guys from this sub we’re in my DM calling me beautiful😂 don’t kid yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 07:09 AM
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I don’t agree but I’m also in a community where literally everyone is attractive so most people are with their looksmatch.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 07:06 AM
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If that makes you feel better believe whatever. It really doesn’t change my life or relationship at the end of the day :)
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 07:05 AM
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Well I’m dating a Chad so I doubt it bud❤️
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:59 AM
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Who said without breaks? Theres 24 hours in a day.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:19 AM
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How many times?
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 01:16 AM
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Ya know I actually agree with some things you’re saying to an extent but disagree with other points. But I’m not a white woman so I’ll sit this one out.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 01:11 AM
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Why can’t they date outside their race for the same reasons white guys do it?
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:43 AM
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Not bait just facts
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:41 AM
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I understand completely. Thanks for sharing.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:41 AM
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Why?
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:25 AM
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Why?
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:23 AM
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The skinny sub 3 I know is dating a sub 5 male. She’s definitely less attractive than him though he’s pretty unattractive himself. She seems happy and he does too. The other sub 3 (who’s chubbier but still fit) I know literally gets no guy attention and has never had a bf. She should be 20/21 now.
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 11:01 PM
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Nah there’s sub 3 skinny/fit women. I’ve seen a couple.
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 10:57 PM
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Why not date a sub-3 female
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 10:54 PM
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Makes sense. Good for you!
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 10:52 PM
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Why?
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 10:41 PM
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Flex? No way
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 10:41 PM
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Why?
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 10:32 PM
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Nope. There’s no reason to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:23 PM
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I like PPD and this sub because you hear a diverse range of thoughts and opinions about gender and dating. What the mods do isn’t really my business and to be fair, I’ve been temp banned like five times on PPD. Still enjoy reading the topics and debating with people over there. I’m just in these subs to give my thoughts, hear some thoughts, and fuck around.
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 09:58 PM
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I like that sub and this sub
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 09:49 PM
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Yep
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 09:41 PM
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Can ethnic girls answer or…
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 09:12 PM
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Woman here but agree with you
/r/AllPillDebate22/05/23 09:11 PM
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All of society and it’s practices still follow gender roles for both men and women. Nobody said it went away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:02 PM
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Right. I literally don’t but I’m also 21 so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:52 PM
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Lol I’d be out at month 2
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:52 PM
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You’re basically me minus never got covid (though I did make it until last Thanksgiving)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:51 PM
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Your examples aren’t substantial lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:42 PM
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Eh I think being fuck buddies and fwb are two different things but whatevs Your examples don’t counterpoint anything that I said. As previously stated, the friendzone isn’t real. It’s just rejection and the person using the term friendzone is just [redacted] with the fact that they were rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:39 PM
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Nobody in that thread said they didn’t find the guys physically attractive. They said they weren’t actively attracted to him prior to him approaching. I don’t identify with any pill but I do believe looks matter and I think looks are the initial most important thing for women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:36 PM
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Only your second example fits the definition of the word “friendzone”. Being fuck buddies does not equate to a platonic relationship. There needs to be a friendship involved hence the word “friend” in “friendzone”. The friendzone doesn’t exist though. Rejection is just rejection and people who continue to be friends with people who rejected them (usually with hopes that the person who rejected them will someday come around) are setting themselves up. That’s on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:33 PM
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You can not like someone but still think they’re attractive. Not actively liking someone doesn’t mean that they’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:29 PM
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Friendzone isn’t real. It’s just a term delusional people came up with to justify their rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:26 PM
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Maybe because the guys flirting are attractive and the men who fail are not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:25 PM
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What does your question have to do with guys being in the imaginary “friendzone”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:23 PM
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Males
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:17 PM
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Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:20 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:11 PM
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Sorry I want to be comfortable :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:09 PM
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I’m gonna link this comment whenever another one of you complain about divorce rates and how women initiate divorce more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:07 PM
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I’m married to my current bf with three kids trying for the fourth. We’re all healthy and happy. My family and I live in a beautiful home somewhere close to an ocean. I’m a Nurse Midwife making six figures and my husband also makes six figures. We do wealthy family things like taking trips, going out on my husband’s boat, members of a country club, etc. Neither I or my family members are unable to receive anything we would desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:06 PM
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Yeah I’m cool with it until kids come into play
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:03 AM
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You haven’t found out yet so they’re doing great😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:47 PM
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The number one thing I’ve learned on this sub is: Some men will go on and on about what traits they desire in a LTR partner, but never pay attention to women with said traits. These women with the traits they desire are often not even in their dating pool usually due to average to below average physical appearance. Instead of focusing on those girls and having the relationships they say they want so bad, they’d rather focus and rage about the women who are above average in attraction who exercis…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:44 PM
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Agreed. I work two jobs to pay my bills so he is lucky to have that. But no he takes out loans for tuition though his dad co-signs them. He works a part time job and is in school. We’re both in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:42 PM
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Correct. He also doesn’t really rely on his dad to do much for him financially besides pay his rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:37 PM
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His dad is but his relationship with his dad is meh. His parents are divorced and his mom is the parent he’s closest to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:33 PM
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How do you feel knowing that they’re more than likely fucking other guys too? Thoughts, comments, concerns?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:25 PM
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He essentially said that me doing that AMA triggered him because average guys have to work much harder than Chads for female success and that my post would be helping prompt other women to continue to focus on obtaining Chads rather than focusing on average guys. His thoughts, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:24 PM
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It is attributed to you though because you don’t even focus on the women who are like that lol. How are you speaking on women you don’t even pay attention to? That’s counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:22 PM
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Not the women you’ve met. But I see based on your other responses, those aren’t the women you want or pay attention to anyways. So works out for them and you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:18 PM
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Most aren’t based on your definition. Being quality in looks doesn’t equate to being quality in morale and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:16 PM
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Please tell me they’re doing a parody or skit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:14 PM
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Maybe the women you know. Again I think the success of my parents relationship helps feed my mindset. They started dating as teenagers. Got married young. We’re super broke and struggled a lot because they were young. Worked hard and built together now they’re upper middle class despite both of them coming from poorer backgrounds. Will be married for 25 years this fall. So growing up I saw that formula and I see the success of it so I replicate it. If I wanted to “move in” to success I would dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:12 PM
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Well you asked me about my opinion which I gave based on my boundaries…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:10 PM
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Quality women don’t date those type of guys. Funny you’re mentioning those women when those are the same women who make incomes off of posting thirst traps. The same women you say you don’t want but are choosing to focus on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:07 PM
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Thanks. Good luck with whatever you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:06 PM
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That’s dependent on the couple’s boundaries that they set
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:05 PM
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No quality woman wants a man thats being thirsty for other women while he’s in a relationship with her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:04 PM
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Delusional take
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:03 PM
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I never claimed to be a Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:03 PM
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🍪
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:02 PM
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If it’s not his mother or another close female family member, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:00 PM
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Nah I was just bored. The AMA questions and responses were pretty lighthearted and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:00 PM
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Haven’t seen them on this sub since that day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:59 PM
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Just like women shouldn’t desire to be wifed by men who give sexual validation to women they’re not in relationships with. Goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:59 PM
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Is the same for non hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:58 PM
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Don’t disagree or agree. I think guys should do what they please. That being said, I wouldn’t be with them. Similar to how guys feel about a woman giving her “best years away”, i feel similarity about men but in a different context. Because of the relationship my parents had/have and the success of it, I want to build a legacy with someone. I don’t want to be with someone who already has it made or has their life set. I’d rather we just grow together and plan our future together from a young age…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:58 PM
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Why do some men like thirst traps and follow insta models when they already have girlfriends? The world may never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:47 PM
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I’ll never forget the day I did my “I’m dating a Chad” AMA on here and some guy harassed me for 24 hours saying that I was “bragging” and that I think that I’m better than everyone else for getting a Chad to commit to me and that it’s “not fair for average guys”. Some of you take things way too far and it’s lowkey scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:45 PM
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As long as you don’t like thirst traps or follow insta models, your opinion is valid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:28 PM
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Please I’ve been temp banned like five times
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:27 PM
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She looks mid 30s. He looks 50+.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:21 PM
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She’s a 6.5, he’s a 4.5-5
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:19 PM
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The vast majority of single older men are married? That’s not what being single is… Aging around the same rate doesn’t mean aging the same rate. Science does say that minorities age better than white peoples due to melanin which protects the skin from skin damage and things like wrinkles, saggyness, etc. That’s a known fact. Science does show minorities aging similarity despite age. The aging gap is only exasperated in white people. Nobody said anything about makeup but you so including it in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:04 PM
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There’s an abundance of single older men who are looking to date younger women. To the point where they’ll lie about their age on dating apps in an effort to get younger women to notice them. Let’s be real. The attraction isn’t reciprocated and if it was, the average age gap for couples worldwide would be more than 2.3 years. I think it’s more prominent in white people. In minorities, men and women tend to age along the same rate as one another or the women tend to fair better than the males sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:47 AM
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You didn’t but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:31 AM
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Majority of women who want men over 6 feet won’t get one just like majority of men who want younger women won’t get one lol. Focusing on the minority who do is just pointless and quite hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:30 AM
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You obviously do as you’re trying to act like your anecdote is indicative of reality for most men. Get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:24 AM
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True true
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 06:22 AM
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That’s literally what I though lol
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 06:18 AM
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He’s uncircumcised
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 06:16 AM
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With topics like this, it is important to talk about the majority though. Why wouldn’t it be? The truth is majority of younger women wouldn’t look your way because you’re old and that’s the same for your old male counterparts. The demand for younger women by older men is greater than the demand for older men by younger women. So why not mention that instead of your (alleged) personal anecdote which majority of older men will never have the chance to do themselves? You guys love taking these rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:12 AM
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I disagree that many could because the attraction often isn’t reciprocated by young women. Also disagree that men (as a gender) age better than women do but I realize that when we talk about appearance with age on this sub, we’re often talking in regards to European beauty standards and people of European decent . So I won’t give you any push back on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:04 AM
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Obviously
/r/AllPillDebate21/05/23 05:55 AM
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I’m 21. My preferred age range is 20-24, though the closer in age the better. My bf is 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:33 AM
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Greatly said. I’m 21 and I think what you said is pretty accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:28 AM
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There is a limited supply of attractive women who are obtainable to them. Majority of younger women aren’t even remotely interested in someone maybe a few years older than them, if that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:25 AM
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We’re talking about the majority. Not a minority. Talking about a minority number of men and trying to make it seem like their situation is the norm is just giving the majority of men a delusional fantasy to believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:23 AM
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I’m not flat chested but i do have small boobs and wish they were bigger. It’s not fun to always work so hard to be seen as “sexy”.
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 10:37 PM
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I like resting in my femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:30 PM
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I think they are. Thats why I’m upfront within three dates about wanting marriage eventually and giving them a deadline of when I would expect a proposal before I bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:28 PM
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Physically attractive, -1/+4 in age (though the closer in age to me, the better), family oriented, goal driven/ambitious, hard work ethic, smart, wants marriage, wants kids, high libido, at least 5’10, communicative, not bald, not fat, has some sort of athletic background, funny, not afraid to be emotional with me, masculine behaviors, heterosexual, doesn’t have a high body count but not a virgin either, dominant in the bedroom, accommodates my love languages, is low key obsessed with me physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:17 PM
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I’ve never met a woman who thought this was true…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:12 PM
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I would. But I come from parents who take their vows seriously and want to replicate that..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:05 PM
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If wanting to have sex with people you don’t find repulsive is chadsexuality, then so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:42 PM
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That’s not what I was laughing about but ok😃
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:40 PM
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Only promiscuous for those they find attractive. Being promiscuous doesn’t mean you just have sex with anyone. Standards still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:38 PM
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L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:35 PM
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It’s the ultimate commitment. Also personally believe that you can not achieve a successful family structure without marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:28 PM
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Depends on the girl but the chance of finding one who will have sex with someone they don’t deem “hot” is rare. Bias opinion though as I’m in a sorority and surrounded by mostly sorority girls so maybe non sorority girls would have lower standards, though I don’t see that being the case based on talks with my non sorority friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:25 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:23 PM
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I do. It’s great.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:22 PM
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A ton. A lot of my ideals about relationships come from my father and the positive attributes my dad obtains are those I try to find in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:21 PM
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Not correlated
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 04:12 PM
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I’m dating a Chad so obviously not ugly enough
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 04:11 PM
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They do. But you’re so busy playing the “woe is me” card to see that there are women with certain features being degraded and called unloveable because of them.
/r/AllPillDebate13/05/23 04:10 PM
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Don’t agree with this 100% but I get what you’re saying
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 09:16 PM
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I’ve been banned like three times
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:13 PM
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Where are you confused? I’ll explain it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:12 PM
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Q4M If a “Chad” seriously commits to a woman, what does that say about her? Whether it be about her character, appearance, behavior, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:04 PM
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Ohhh it just processed you’re talking about a child lol. Love that for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:58 PM
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Made? What are you playing, Sims?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:57 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:57 PM
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L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:52 PM
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I never really realized how much my parents’ relationship affected my views on dating and how I act in relationships, until about a month ago. We really are products of our environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:29 PM
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Yes. Happy to have found it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:25 PM
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And we can flip it and say women always want attention and to feel desired. Fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:25 PM
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Rise up❤️🖤 We probably don’t need any primetime games to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:24 PM
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Yes and I don’t give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:23 PM
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I go to one of the top five most attractive schools in the US…
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 08:17 PM
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I think it would be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:40 PM
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Thank you for this💕
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:36 PM
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Would this be deemed race baiting or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:35 PM
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I would argue that it’s not secondary at all. If her looks threshold isn’t met by a man, a woman isn’t going to give him a chance because he has a super great personality and ideal behavior. Most women only care about personality and behavior after she already found the guy physically attractive, which men know as I see guys talk about it all the time on here. Something that does make it hard for women to be honest with men is some of you like to tell women that they’re wrong and suggest that yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:27 PM
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Part of me agrees. I feel like women aren’t completely honest about the importance of looks when it comes to dating men and it’s something that annoys me a lot. I think it’s because women are socialized to be kind and are therefore, afraid of hurting feelings. I was actually talking to my best friend about this yesterday and she told me that growing up, her mom would tell her to be nice to men and rather than rejecting them , give them a chance because “You could make them turn gay”. Fortunately…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:15 PM
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What you said isn’t about liking small boobs though. You’re just comparing the sex between women with different breast sizes. If the bigger boobed woman gave you better sex, you wouldn’t even really acknowledge the small boobed women for anything other than “oh yeah she took my virginity”.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 03:38 PM
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There are probably as many men who prefer small boobs as women who prefer short men. And that “not caring” is called settling. Guys who date women with smaller boobs tend to wish they were bigger at least once. That’s not “not caring in the slightest”. That’s literally settling.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 03:27 PM
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I have tall male family members so my kids should be fine
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 03:19 PM
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I’m exactly 5’6
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 07:14 AM
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People really need to stop lying to themselves to cope with their insecurities. It’s 2023.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 07:03 AM
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I didn’t say they didn’t. But small boob women get the shorter end of the stick and have way less SMV than a big boob woman in the eyes of men. No point in acting like they don’t.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:59 AM
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That’s totally fair
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:52 AM
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Interesting. I go to school in Arizona, USA so maybe that’ll help paint a picture lol. Everyone here is pretty attractive so it’s hard for guys to mog women here I feel.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:48 AM
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5’6. My bf says the same things as you lol.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:46 AM
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In my experience with talking and meeting guys, tall guys tend to prefer women around my height or a little taller, as I am considered a small girl to above average height men so it works out :)
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:40 AM
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It’s me feeling more feminine. I love being a girly girl and resting in my femininity so that pairs well with a taller man. As mentioned I’ve had shorter exes and with certain shoes I was taller than them. Didn’t love how that made me feel but it didn’t take away from my feelings for them. That’s lame. An average height man is 5’9 which is one inch shorter than my newly developed preference so I’m cool with that. Though since I’m an above average height woman I would like an above average height…
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:24 AM
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I wouldn’t either if I didn’t have an argument of substance to provide :)
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:14 AM
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I genuinely didn’t care as long as the guy was taller than me. It was only until I dated a tall guy and saw the advantages of that before I set a standard for tall guys only. But old me was genuinely okay with a short or average guy.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:13 AM
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They’re similar as they both receive degradation, both get over looked, and both are not men’s first preferences. Simple as that.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 05:09 AM
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I actually agree. I’ll take a 5’10 guy with a nice face over a 6’4 guy with a mid face.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 04:48 AM
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Nah I feel like the couples I see are typically looksmatched. I don’t usually see couples where the girl is with an ugly guy, but I feel like I do see couples where the guy is with an ugly girl (I only see this at the gym too which is interesting). That being said, I go to college where majority of the student body is conventionally attractive or above average, and people tend to pair accordingly.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 04:45 AM
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Exactly. Well said.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 04:31 AM
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For sure. WMBW relationships make BM seethe.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 04:30 AM
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Gaslight? They’re right. If women have small boobs they get called names and often looked over. Told they’re not attractive and not real women. Just like short men and their perceptions. Implants are available for small boob women just like leg lengthening surgery is available for short men.
/r/AllPillDebate12/05/23 04:28 AM
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Some of us do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:38 AM
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One of my best traits
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:38 AM
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Never because it’s not true for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:37 AM
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At 21, I shouldn’t be able to. Pretty sure eboni wasn’t even making those paystubs after a month of being 21. Stay mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:20 AM
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You listed one degree statistic when there’s multiple degrees on that data set… whatever makes you feel better I guess. Again black men aren’t even in my dating pool because our morals and values don’t align. The successful black men aren’t any better than average black men just because they have money . In fact, they’re worse. I’m doing fine with my attractive, smart, rich white boyfriend who shares the same values I do :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:19 AM
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She makes more than you and I’m not sure why you’re being delusional thinking she doesn’t. Keep coming with the insults. I already said comments ago that’s black men’s typical behavior when they feel attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:10 AM
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You wish you were in her tax bracket lol. She asked the question because she’s interacting with a guest on her show like most talk show host and actors do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:08 AM
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I don’t care who you respect lol. Tell someone who cares. Black men aren’t even in my dating pool. I purposely exclude them. You tried to insult me (like black men do when they’re mad) and failed. You’ll have to do better than 2011 data kiddo, https://nces.ed.gov/fastfacts/display.asp?id=72
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:07 AM
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You know this how? Are you her best friend? You know who she’s dating or how her relationships end? You’re positive that everyone she’s been with has broken up with her and not the other way around? Do you know if she’s actively dating or what her focuses are? You guys need to mind the business within your tax bracket😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:02 AM
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Not sure what any of that has to do with a woman who makes way more than you saying she doesn’t want to date bus drivers. She said what she said. You don’t like her but you’re mad that she doesn’t want to date someone way below her tax bracket, like most bus drivers would even have be in her vicinity anyways? Weird. The difference between me and you is I let people just have their preferences and go about my day because it really has nothing to do with me. Why can’t you and the other black males…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:00 AM
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They are mediocre to her because of what she’s achieved. But they already know that which is why your justification for their complaining fails. Black men have major possession issues when it comes to black women. They expect black women to always be available to them and when a black woman sets a boundary that she has standards and won’t accept a specific sort of treatment, they get angry and often retaliate through degradation and insults. Which is what they’re doing to Eboni right now. It doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:51 PM
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You too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:51 PM
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Who Iyanla?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:48 PM
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If a white woman in her position said she wouldn't date a bus driver, nobody would care. I’ll just leave this here. If you really think white men would be complaining like black men are right now, about a white woman not wanting to be with a bus driver, there’s no conversation to be had. I love debating but I don’t love talking to delusional people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:47 PM
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It’s a hard concept for men to understand because they would rather have anyone than no one. Their biggest fear is being alone which is why they try to threaten women with it and use it as a manipulation tactic. Full projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:40 PM
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Bingo. And again, she literally has three divorces under her belt. The way pickmes always try to bring high achieving and attractive women down to their level is weird. Since she wouldn’t mind being with a bus driver, she can wait at her local bus stop and get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:37 PM
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Again, she only made it that way because black men were mad. I’ve seen the topic all over social media. Non black people know about it, they just don’t care because women in non black communities tend to have higher standards and non black men know this and act accordingly. If a white woman in her position said she wouldn’t date a bus driver, nobody would care . When black women get standards or choose to make dating choices that benefit them, the black community wants to throw a fit which is wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:29 PM
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I love what she said! She set a boundary and everybody (mainly black men) want to bitch and moan about it because shes an attractive (black) woman and she wouldn’t glance their way because of their mediocre career. I also love how she responded to all the hate and essentially said she doesn’t give a fuck. She’s so real for that. Women need to take notes. Iyanla is a pick me and I have no respect for her. Telling successful women to lower their standards and build with men who have mediocre jobs,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:25 PM
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She framed it that way because black men were the ones mad and bitter about her not wanting to date a damn bus driver
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:18 PM
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Haha all good
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:12 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:35 PM
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I used to be against prenups but I honestly don’t care anymore. If he wants to sign one, cool. My opinion of him won’t change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:39 PM
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Pretty sure they said 30s and up but could be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:05 PM
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Actually I take back what I said. If mid-20s to you ends at 27, I would agree. Simply because the average age gap globally is 2.3 years so those 27 year old men are typically with 25 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:04 PM
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No that’s a fine age gap though it deviates from the norm a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:03 PM
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I’m 21 and my mom was pregnant with me when 9/11 happened. You’re 100% right that they’re different generations (people under 25 vs people above 30), and thus have different perspectives on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:56 PM
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There is no wide mutual interest. You’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:54 PM
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But but but… it’s biological to want to be with teenagers and women who just became legal adults a couple years ago :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:35 PM
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I agree with this if we’re not including the many men who get complacent after x amount of time and stop pulling their weight because they develop a “she got it” mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:16 PM
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Pick better women. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:13 PM
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Don’t want a bill. Just don’t ask me to go 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:12 PM
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Men, on average, do this. Not as a whole. If you’re talking about prior to creating a family, that’s the man’s choice. Within families, both men and women often pick doing something they don’t love or want to do to provide for their family or to fit their family. Women are more likely to adjust their work schedules or work odd hours in order to take care of their kids because they tend to be the primary caretakers. That, again, is men’s problem. Whether it be because of their own insecurities or…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:12 PM
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99% of women can’t do it. And being able to do something doesn’t mean you will do it or that you have to do it. Look at the declining birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:02 PM
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How is providing emotional support to a partner (which is a relationship expectation for all sane humans) comparable to bringing life into this world and literally putting yourself at risk of dying each time you go through childbirth?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:00 PM
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What sacrifices do men make? You keep using this dangerous and stressful job argument when many men don’t work those type of jobs. Many men work in offices and work desk jobs as well. What sacrifices are they making?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:58 PM
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No this person is right, especially in regards to the second paragraph. You guys downplay pregnancy and the emotional and physical trauma the woman goes through to have your children. Not to mention the likeliness of that woman dying during childbirth to have your kid/kids. Why would you even expect someone who brought life into the world and has allowed you to continue your legacy, to split finances with you? Or if they are splitting finances, why wouldn’t you want to do more household labor? M…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:57 PM
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Not all men do “dangerous labor” so that’s a mute and boring point. Most healthy relationships include both partners doing emotional labor for one another. In a healthy relationship, supporting your partner is a baseline expectation. Only trashy men see supporting their partner as compensation for bringing life into this world and sacrificing her own life each and every time she goes through childbirth. Imagine wanting a pat on the back because you listened to your partner and provided them with…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:50 PM
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There’s no need to mention childless wives because the initial OC is about the value of a woman birthing your children and therefore, continuing your legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:47 PM
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You’re kidding right? I prefer to believe that you’re not actually being serious and you’re trying to be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:44 PM
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This is in regards to going 50/50. You don’t need to write a check but asking a woman who you have children with to split bills equally with you or to split household chores equally is kinda disrespectful ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:43 PM
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You wish
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:31 PM
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As the birth rate continues to go down, and people begin to question the role of women and procreation. I think a lot of men (and some women) don’t want to accept that women are going to need some sort of compensation for putting their bodies through the harsh realities of pregnancy and labor. A lot of men, especially the men here, like to scoff at how taxing pregnancy and labor are, and women are starting to see that their sacrifice is not only not seen as a sacrifice by a lot of men, but men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:29 PM
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I have various types. There’s usually some guys in each type that are attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:28 PM
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Definitely not. I love being a woman. Women are so amazing and powerful and I love being feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:22 PM
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Girls rule, boys drool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 11:03 PM
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Skinny, short skaters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:42 PM
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Correct. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:49 PM
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Non HVM care about body count more than HVM. We already knew this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:47 PM
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I would reject him because I love my boyfriend and only want my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:46 PM
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Because I’m committed to my partner and with my commitment comes loyalty. When he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, I made a promise to him and within myself to commit to him and only him, despite his imperfections and “bad” areas as long as he returns the same to me which he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:38 PM
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Askin the real questions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:36 PM
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Well happy birthday to them🥳
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:29 PM
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I don’t think it’s dumb. I’ve fallen in love with my boyfriend and want to continue to grow with him and develop our relationship. I don’t want better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:29 PM
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For sure. My type has kind of changed too because of my bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:24 PM
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Not at all. I love my boyfriend so much including all of his imperfections and faults. He’s my person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:22 PM
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Happy birthday!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:06 PM
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Fortunately for me my bf is Chad (without the millionaire part) so no need to trade him in for millionaire Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:05 PM
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Every once in a few months
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:03 PM
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Welcome back
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:02 PM
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Because sometimes I’m not with my partner and I want to get off. It’s also quick and feels good. He doesn’t care that I have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:22 PM
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Lol
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 06:10 AM
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🫡
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 06:10 AM
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Proof of her bank accounts or tax statements?
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 06:13 PM
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Keep rejecting you
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 05:10 PM
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I have them so what’s your point
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 05:09 PM
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She is though. You don’t know anything about her finances so this debt thing is a whack focus. She’s worked hard to be where she’s at and makes a solid income because of her hard work. There is no reason why she should even want to be with a damn bus driver. You guys are delusional.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 05:08 PM
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Ah so because your mom had the luxury to do that, every other woman had the same opportunity to. Got it.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 06:20 AM
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Y’all are so triggered that she doesn’t want to date someone leagues below her? Odd.
/r/AllPillDebate06/05/23 06:17 AM
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That definitely isn’t cool and I’m sorry you’ve experienced that. As much as I may joke around on here, I don’t support bullying or mistreatment of others. I know you told me things like that make it harder to socialize. I can only imagine. But I also think perseverance is important. Regardless what other people say, you gotta keep going. If you really want something, keep chasing it. I don’t mean stalking girls or anything like that. But keep asking people out. Keep making efforts to meet peopl…
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 11:18 PM
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As someone who has parents who’ve been married for 25 years, I probably understand the importance of merging families more than most people in society. And hey if that’s your prerogative so be it. I’ve always spoke my truth regardless of who i was talking to. Dating white men has me shunned by majority of the black male community I’d argue. Do I care? Nope.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 11:08 PM
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When have you been called creepy and why?
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 10:57 PM
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Why care about what they say instead of just living your life and doing what you want? Not sure why that’s so hard for you guys to do.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 10:54 PM
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I’m not dating them, I’m dating my boyfriend lol. I’m fortunate to have a boyfriend who does speak up against bullying and unfair treatment regardless of who the sentiment is directed towards . And I will, and have done, the same with my social circles. Sometimes I’ve gotten hate. Sometimes I haven’t. But at the end of the day I was proud of myself for standing up for what I felt was right so that’s all that matters. While I understand what you’re saying because it’s a common sentiment among peo…
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 10:52 PM
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That’s fair. I just don’t date people who don’t have the same relationship priorities and goals as I do. That’s a waste of my time so I just remove people who don’t align with my views out of my dating pool.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 10:21 PM
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I’ve met all of his extended family like his aunties, uncles, cousins, and grandparents. As well as best friends and close friends. All very sweet towards me and very fond of me. Make excuses? Not sure what you mean by that. We have talked about having kids in the future. We’ve picked names and talked about how we’ll raise them as biracial children.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 10:20 PM
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I don’t date men who are anti black or who have families that are anti black. I’m am happy that my boyfriend’s family loves me and embraces me, and that his mother talks about excited she’ll be about us having kids someday :)
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 10:04 PM
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That sucks that that’s been your experience
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 09:24 PM
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Appreciate it
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 09:19 PM
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Facts
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 08:53 PM
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Who would I care
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 08:52 PM
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The latter
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 08:51 PM
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Mainly due to how much they value the family structure. I value things like marriage within a timely manner, only having children in wedlock, working hard to provide my future kids with the best opportunities they can have, etc. And I find that white men tend to have those same priorities. They really value generational security and the familial unit and work hard to protect and provide for those that they love. I would say most races of men besides black men have this mindset, which is why I’m …
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 08:50 PM
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No. I posted as a response to a post that was essentially made about me within the past 24 hours.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 08:14 PM
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Nope. He just likes attractive women.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 06:45 PM
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Nah
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 06:43 PM
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Lol. I feel like I’ve always been accepted by white people just fine. Im from California, always lived in suburbs, go to a PWI, and im in a sorority. I’ve kind of always been in predominately white spaces, or at least spaces where black people aren’t a majority. Dating interracially doesn’t really make me feel any different in the acceptance aspect.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 06:42 PM
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He’s never mentioned getting turned on from that specifically so idk
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 06:31 PM
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Didn’t need you to let me know as I’m already aware and know how to read statistics :) Don’t have a racial fetish just a strong racial preference. Works out as I’ve only been in relationships with that racial preference so people obviously date outside their own race enough.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 06:22 PM
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I like to debate with people and like to read the variety of thoughts on controversial topics.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 06:10 PM
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Good question. No that’s not why. Don’t have a shallow cervix but it must suck to have one.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 06:06 PM
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It’s literally so obvious I’m a woman based on everything I’ve posted and commented on since this account was created. Cope more.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 05:52 PM
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You’re kinda a legend for that ngl
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 05:48 PM
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Agreed but regards to men
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 05:14 PM
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I’m bored and like talking to incel nerds. You guys make me laugh. Free entertainment.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 03:51 AM
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Right. I never said anything about women getting their value from sleeping from men nor have I ever said that so I’m confusion😵‍💫 They’re obviously a little… troubled so I’m just gonna let them get their feelings out. I like doing charity work for those in need.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 02:36 AM
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Can you at least try to give good insults dude? You’re such a boring person to go back and forth with.
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 02:35 AM
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I feel like I’m talking to one of those grandpas with Alzheimer’s who’s chatting away about some imaginary story he came up with in his head and everyone’s just looking at him like 🫤
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 02:10 AM
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More value than you obvi
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 02:03 AM
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She’s so real for that
/r/AllPillDebate05/05/23 01:55 AM
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All or nearly all
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 04:48 PM
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It was my personal opinion. Cry about it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 05:33 AM
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I believe that there’s levels of this mindset. Even some non incels have it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 04:27 AM
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I’ll say 65-70% of all men who exist
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 02:39 AM
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I think this is can be true for every race of women besides black women
/r/AllPillDebate04/05/23 02:38 AM
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You incels are soooo cute. You guys remind me of those puppies you see on those donation commercials that only come on at 2AM. But instead of giving you money, I’m giving you time instead because I pity you.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:43 PM
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L O L
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:38 PM
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You’re a wise woman. I like you.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:37 PM
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I was expecting a better come back than that. You’re lame.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:36 PM
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Stones
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:34 PM
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They expect women to do charity work for them to boost their fragile egos. Yet that same energy and charity work is never returned to women. Women’s standards should continue to be high and I’d argue that they really need to be higher.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:33 PM
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They don’t represent all men at all. Look at some of the recent posts on here. You’ll see these guys I’m referencing in the comments.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:30 PM
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There’s usually genuine reasons for why they’ve never dated a MOC before. They’re usually not aligned with self hatred I feel. I certainly have my own reasons and up until about 18, I only wanted to date men of my race.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:28 PM
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Exactly. That’s why their complaining gets ignored and laughed at.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:26 PM
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It’s fun. I love making losers mad.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:25 PM
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I don’t think it will ever end unfortunately. I think it is decreasing a lot with my generation, fortunately.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 11:23 PM
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The men in question
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 08:46 PM
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Not necessarily. Having an ideal doesn’t mean you can’t find other people attractive but they need to be attractive. Settling is being with people you don’t find remotely attractive and only being with them because they benefit you in some shape or form.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 08:33 PM
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Those guys are boo’d up here too but I was talking about the general preferences of most women. Doesn’t mean women don’t date outside of those preferences.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 08:24 PM
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Fair opinion. That’s not my experience but I’m also from the west coast of the US. I’m sure my experience would be different if I were from the south or something.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 08:21 PM
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No, money doesn’t matter. Same results usually occur whether the guy is wealthy or not. Wives of wealthy men actually have it better.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 08:20 PM
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I understood. I was just fucking around.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 08:13 PM
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She provides reliability and consistency in their lives because of what she does for him. That’s why they get married.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 08:11 PM
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Nah I’ll always be a Chad chaser🫡
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 08:09 PM
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What things about women do men care about that don’t benefit them or have to do with a woman doing something for them?
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 08:04 PM
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They say it themselves
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 08:02 PM
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Spot on
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 05:21 PM
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Yeah I don’t necessarily agree with the biological justification either. I think what you said plays a solid part in WOC divestment as there is typically some tie back to being treated unjustly by MOC in some shape or form.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 05:10 PM
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Black women dont. That’s for sure. But there’s a rise in divestment in all races, primarily among Gen Z women.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:31 PM
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If those are her employees, blame your mother for hiring those people
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:19 PM
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Careers like nursing, medicine, and pharmacy are STEM though… no, it’s because men are less nurturing and caring. Hence why they’re more likely to leave or cheat on their wives if she experiences long term or life altering health issues. Men, on average, are just not as nurturing or caring and if you’re trying to argue that, you’re being delusional.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:17 PM
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Do you know what WOC means…
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:13 PM
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Women on average do tend to be nurturing, hence why they’re way more likely to go into health related careers preferred to men. Men aren’t the ones taking care of others in times of need. So you can keep arguing but that doesn’t change facts, unfortunately for you.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:10 PM
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Not mentally absent but I definitely am a fuck toy for my boyfriend. As it should be. You’re right about that.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:07 PM
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Of?
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:03 PM
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Idk sounds like you’ve been cucked quite a lot. But that’s none of my business really.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 04:03 PM
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Therapy bud
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 03:49 PM
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Skinny guys definitely have value. Skinny, fit, and muscular are all preferred over dad bod/fat Face is important but a good face won’t compensate for a short height
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 03:47 PM
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It’s been good thus far
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 03:43 PM
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C*pe
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 03:42 PM
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Black
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 03:42 PM
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Women can find all races of men attractive just like men can. We’re talking about what’s usually most preferred among women. And that’s all the traits I mentioned. Not into hypermasculine men. Not a prostitute. Not a sugar baby. Hypergamy has never been extreme in the areas that I’ve lived in. I’ve always lived in chill quiet suburbs. College is the furthest I’ve been from that thus far.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 03:40 PM
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Where in my post history have I mentioned being a guy? I’ve been pretty transparent that I’m a woman and participate in subs for women often or will talk about women exclusive issues…
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 06:17 AM
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You’re telling me
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 06:15 AM
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I’m not contributing to any misinformation. I’m just giving my own personal opinion just like any man could give his. There’s tons of women who would love to be with uncircumcised men. I’m not one of them.
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 12:09 AM
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Props definitely help provide visual imagery
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 12:05 AM
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Circumcised looks more atheistically pleasing and appealing. Not a fan of the extra skin. Uncircumcised has stereotypes of being dirty (ie “dick cheese”) which is off putting. I prefer small over uncircumcised because (TMI but whatever) I love giving oral to a partner. I wouldn’t put my mouth on an uncircumcised dick because my mind thinks “gross” but I would put my mouth on small because there’s no “gross” indicators going off in my head. And I can’t date someone I can’t give oral too consisten…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 11:34 PM
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I think it is lying because it’s dishonest. That’s why nice guys exist. Too many men thinking being nice and having a good personality makes up for being unattractive, and I personally name women for giving men this false hope. Women know that looks are prioritized before personality but continue to spread a narrative that “looks don’t matter”. I’ve heard lots of women say this to men they’ve rejected but their behavior in determining partners indicates that looks matter before anything else. Th…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 11:06 PM
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Of course we discuss it. In fact, it’s expected to discuss it when a new partner is brought into one of our lives. Consensus is small and thin dicks are unattractive. A really small dick is a dealbreaker but less than average is acceptable if we’re compatible with the person in every other way. At least average is preferred. Slightly bigger than average seems to be the sweet spot. I’ve never heard anyone say big dicks or nothing” like some guys may believe. Another penis consensus is uncircumcis…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:58 PM
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No. I’m saying a 10/10 personality won’t matter if he’s a 3/10 in looks. He can have the best personality in the world. If he’s ugly, he’s out of luck. And many women try to make it seem like all men need to do is have a nice personality to be chosen which is false.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:37 PM
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I think we’re saying the same thing in different formats. Nobody is arguing that personality doesn’t matter. It does. It’s the argument that personality is more important than looks, and that looks don’t matter because a good personality will compensate for it that is false. As you said, personality only matters after the looks have passed the threshold. That’s why the statement that “personality is most important” is false.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:31 PM
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In my post I said “personality is most important”. I didn’t say “personality matters”. Two different things.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:23 PM
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I agree with you but I think men’s wide preferences are mainly due to not wanting to be alone, comfortability, the want for consistent sex, and routine. I don’t totally believe (right now anyways) that men can truly love, value, and desire a wide range of women. It’s a “a man is only as loyal as his options” type perspective.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:20 PM
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It’s quite frankly something like that lol. They’re not being honest with guys to protect their feelings but they know they’re not being genuine and what they’re saying isn’t the truth.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:15 PM
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Nah I’m just a realist. My views are all over the place in terms of pills.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:12 PM
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Second to last on the attraction list for most of my friends though I’ve always rated Asians third (and I’ve got a lot of pushback on this opinion). That being said, I’m only attracted to a certain type of Asian and I think when people think of Asian men they think of KPOP type guys or the nerdy guys.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:11 PM
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Hispanic or black is usually second. Asian is usually second to last. Middle eastern is typically grouped in with Indian though they’re different.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:10 PM
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I agree with you 100%
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 09:58 PM
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For perspective, I’m American so keep that in mind. For one, they’re physically attractive. Their facial features and symmetry is very appealing. Their hair colors. Their skin tones. All attractive. But bigger than that, I think the White man’s status in American society is attractive. White men are the true embodiment of masculinity here and women tend to gravitate towards that. White men are usually family driven and prioritize generational security. They are very long term thinkers. And most …
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 09:56 PM
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Totally fair. I’ve only met one “personality over everything” person while in college. For everyone else I’ve met, a “looks matter first” approach is definitely taken. I would attribute that to sorority superficialness but even my non sorority friends are like that too lol.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 09:40 PM
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Whereas women are terrified of looking shallow. Because women are supposed to be demure and sweet. I think a lot of women aren't aware that they're lying. In their mind, personality IS the most important thing. What they're often failing ti comprehend is that they only noticed a mans personality after his looks drew her in. I think this applies less to younger generations. Younger women openly speak about being shallow on social media and in conversations with friends, and talk about how a guy’s…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 09:35 PM
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I may not be a lot of things but I pride myself on being honest I also agree that women should be more transparent about this stuff . But I think the fear of hurting feelings and possible male retaliation makes it difficult to do so.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 09:09 PM
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I think that plays a strong part in it, yes
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 09:03 PM
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Definitely. I’m a WOC with friends from all races. Mostly everyone’s preference is a White male regardless of their ethnic background. Whether right or wrong, I have rated races of men from most attractive to least attractive with friends. White is always ranked most attractive by majority of my friends.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 08:54 PM
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Women to women conversations are more honest because there’s no incentive to be dishonest
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 08:42 PM
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As a woman in a sorority and who only has woman friends, I have a good perspective on how women are. What they are saying to men’s faces is usually not what they’re saying behind men’s backs. I don’t think there is malicious intent majority of the time though. It’s just to protect people’s feelings which women tend to do because we’re more caring/nurturing.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 07:56 PM
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You’re 100% correct. It makes me cringe.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 07:16 PM
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I also semi agree with the concept of being Alpha widowed but that’s another post for another day
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 05:39 PM
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As a divested BW who has only dated WM, this is definitely the case I would argue majority of the time. Lots WM are open to dating BW. BW just don’t reciprocate that energy and degrade WM,making WM less likely to approach.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 05:04 PM
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Not talking about finances. It’s mostly related to personal issues such as self esteem, confidence, and worth.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 05:02 PM
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Literally a month before. You’re making a whole bunch of assumptions about my life which are ignorantly false. I’m not saying my experience is comparable. I just said I can relate in my own way. This isn’t an oppression Olympics.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 02:33 PM
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No, not everyone knows that. Which is why people say it won’t solve your problems all the time.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 02:30 PM
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I would feel bad and I can only imagine the mental toll that takes on a person. I don’t agree with a lot that’s posted on this sub but I’m empathetic to the sentiment of you, OP, and anyone else who may feel this way. I love to debate but this is a topic I just listen to the opinions of because I know how depressed I was when I was experiencing something similar. I just gave my personal opinion is all.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 07:58 AM
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When I’ve heard people say “sex isn’t a big deal”, they’re not saying that it’s not important and that it doesn’t matter. They’re usually saying that it won’t make all your problems go away and your life won’t just magically change because you had sex. I’m a woman and I would consider myself a “late bloomer” in regards to sex and intimacy compared to, I would argue, most people. I didn’t kiss a guy until I was 18. Didn’t get my first boyfriend or have sex until I was almost 19. I’m 21 now. Prior…
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 07:34 AM
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Type a response that makes sense first
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:40 AM
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She’s right though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:11 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:30 AM
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Glad to be here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:27 AM
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Same applies for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:19 AM
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I grew up in the suburbs and go to a PWI. I have never been in a predominantly black environment which may play a bit into my preferences. But I’m more attracted to non black men anyways, not just because of values and morals, but also due to physical attractiveness and commonalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:49 AM
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Values and morals
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:48 AM
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Marriage. A partner that values marriage and children in wedlock. Someone who’s goal driven and works hard. Someone who takes pride in being the head of his household and family and understands submission is earned. Someone who is looking for a solid, fair partnership. Are there BM who value these things? For sure. My dad is one. But I feel like they’re rare and few and I certainly won’t go looking through a haystack to find a needle. I’m divested if that provides further clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:46 AM
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No I don’t. But I agree that rap music does play a part in the issues of black culture. I primarily date outside of my race because on average, I’m not going to find what I want in a relationship with a BM.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:06 AM
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I’m not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:10 AM
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Teehee
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:08 AM
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What’s my age?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:08 AM
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Agreed. This plays a part in why I date outside of my race.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:07 AM
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Google him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:06 AM
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If Steven Pladl was still alive, he would definitely be on PPD and most of the men on this sub would be hyping him up for his relationships and how he treats women and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:03 AM
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Staying single forever
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:14 PM
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Whatever word floats your boat. If he’s not circumcised, he won’t see me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:41 PM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:59 PM
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“Men are the more delusional sex” is more fitting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:25 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:19 PM
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OP did in the daily discussion and nobody came at him about how much he found “roast beef” and “meaty” vaginas so disgusting. He’s allowed to have his preferences just like I’m allowed to have mine. “Uncircumcised” does the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:15 PM
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Free use >>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:10 AM
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You missed that “if we get sexual” part huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:09 AM
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I didn’t say they have an ugly dick. I just said I personally find it unappealing and therefore, do not want to be sexual with one. It’s like not wanting to be sexual with someone you find physically unattractive. Doesn’t mean they’re ugly. They’re just not compatible with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:53 AM
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I edited sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:47 AM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:47 AM
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I like to suck my bf’s gummy worm sometimes. It’s fun. I wouldn’t want to have to pull stuff off the gummy worm before I suck it though. Regardless it mainly an aesthetic thing. I’m not putting my mouth on something I find visually unappealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:46 AM
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I think a lot of the North East religious traditions and culture has a lot to do with their pilgrimage roots. They seem to have a lot of pride in those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:24 AM
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Not a claim. It’s an experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:19 AM
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Definitely. But even as a virgin who had only seen dicks in porn, I knew I wasn’t into uncut ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:18 AM
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Too bad this post wasn’t a survey. Kidding. Sorry that’s been your experience. I’ve been fortunate to date men who love it and I do too which they end up benefiting from :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:10 AM
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You’re talking about it from the viewpoint of the penis being fully erect. I’ve also seen porn where the girl pulls the foreskin back to perform oral. That’s not accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:08 AM
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I never made a claim, just gave an experience. Do you know what the word claim means?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:06 AM
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In North East coast US Catholic Churches they allegedly do. That’s a big thing for them outside of baptism and confirmation. I’m from the west coast and I’m not Catholic so I’m not the one to expand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:54 AM
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If that’s how you want to put it, that works :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:52 AM
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Fight hard for your belief🥳 I’m still rejecting and refusing to date or sleep with uncircumcised men regardless so I’m chillin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:48 AM
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And if you want to do that, I’m happy for you. It has nothing to do with me and my beliefs, just like mine don’t have an affect on yours :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:44 AM
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Yes. He grew up in the Catholic Church and that’s a prominent element of his life. But he also mentioned cultural norms and how the son would be made fun of by other men and women if he wasn’t circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:34 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3255211/ Phimosis and religion are the top reasons for adult circumcision. I actually wrote about this topic in a class last year and found a better newer article about it, but I’ll have to look for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:28 AM
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The funny part is no woman on this sub (from what I last saw) gave them backlash for those comments. But as soon as I said I don’t want to be with someone who’s uncircumcised the guys on here act like the world is ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:23 AM
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I’d be open to doing that honestly. My bf wouldn’t be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:21 AM
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Literally every circumcised guy I’ve talked to about this has said the same thing you said about uncircumcised penises. Why I don’t like it? It just looks physically unappealing to me. I don’t like the extra skin and don’t like the idea of needing to pull anything back. I’ve always been a visual heavy person and something that looks good often determines my want for it. Whether that’s a penis or food or clothes. It needs to look good for me to desire it. In a romantic relationship, I want to des…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:20 AM
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That’s a perfectly fair opinion to have. I don’t judge people for their preferences or their beliefs. I just stick true to mine and stand firmly behind them regardless of opposing opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:15 AM
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I’m not calling anyone out though. They’re allowed to have their preferences. Me saying that it’s ironic men are whining about my preference is not a diss at the preferences the men had regarding vaginas. I’m just saying both me and those guys are expressing the same thing in different formats, yet I’m getting hate for my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:14 AM
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My bf and I already talked about this and said that we would get our son(s) circumcised. It’s a mix of regional, cultural, and religious reasons for us as a couple, especially for my bf as he’s Catholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:09 AM
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The point is some men stated their genital preferences and expressed how vagina with prominent labia are sexually unattractive to them which is completely fine. And it was obviously fine for a bunch of people on this sub because no one called these men out on stating this preference. But I gave my genital preference and explained how uncircumcised dick was something I found sexually unattractive, without bashing it might I add unlike the men I mentioned previously, and all these men want to whin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:02 AM
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What’s the data?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:58 AM
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Many adult men willingly choose to be circumcised so what about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:57 AM
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Good thing I’m staying in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:55 AM
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You do know many adult men choose to be circumcised? Or does that not fit your narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:55 AM
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Not every man gets it done when he’s a baby. Some men become adults and choose to get the procedure done. I’ve also never met a circumcised man who was upset about being circumcised. Every man I’ve talked about it with was happy and proud to be circumcised. And that’s putting it lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:53 AM
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No, you’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:48 AM
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Not into wine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:18 AM
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Let me get this straight. For the past 24 hours, I’ve been seeing some guys talk about how gross “meaty” “roast beef” vaginas are and saying any man who interacts with a woman with this vagina “has to be strong🤢”. Saying this with basically no push back might I add. But when I say I don’t want to be with a guy who has an uncircumcised dick and would find him sexually unattractive because of it, I’m the bad guy and all the guys think I’m being unfair. Ain’t no way😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:17 AM
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Nah I’ll keep enjoying my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:12 AM
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You can’t be serious😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:15 AM
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It sure is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:55 PM
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Your morals are obviously different from mine. So I don’t know what else you want me to say lol. If you have different beliefs, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:19 PM
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I’m aware. Still doesn’t change my opinion on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:23 PM
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Everyone has preferences. There’s an abundance of circumcised guys so I’ll always be fine :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:22 PM
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21
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:21 PM
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Possibly but it’s not like it’s hard to find an attractive, good guy, who’s circumcised. There’s an abundance of guys who meet my requirements. Let’s be real. I’m not going to be sexually attracted to them if I were to date them, and it’s just going to hurt their feelings because I won’t want to be intimate with them and they’ll never get blowjobs from me. And I’ll just start to be resentful of them in the end because I enjoy sex. So why not just prevent that from happening by not wasting both o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:20 PM
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It’ll make him sexually unattractive to me and I don’t date people I don’t want to bang
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:17 PM
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Because a lot of women find uncircumcised dick unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:15 PM
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The professional consultation of someone who studied reproductive biology for decades > the opinion of some random Redditor who’s speaking out of emotion and has literally zero experience or knowledge in the field he’s talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:12 PM
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-Not physically attractive enough -Voice is annoying -Calls women “females” unprovoked -Lives at home with parents -No ambition in life or no goals -Doesn’t want kids -Doesn’t value marriage/against marriage -Past cheating history -Shorter than me -Lied about age (had this happen once) -Atheist -Too conservative or too liberal -Not exhibiting chivalry Oh also, if we get sexual and I notice he’s uncircumcised, I won’t go on another date with him and will find a way to exit that sexual situation a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:45 PM
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Q4All What’s your top three most superficial dealbreakers? Mine are bald, fat, and uncircumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:37 PM
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Did you call yet or are you going to keep dodging?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:31 PM
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I’m not talking about studies. Call up your local fertility clinic right now, ask to speak with a professional, and ask them about it. You can try to sit here and spread whatever narrative floats your boat but biology literally says otherwise. Also as I already stated, the #1 problem with older sperm is unsuccessful conception due to extreme decline in sperm count. A man’s sperm count decreases drastically the older he gets, and starts decline steady at around age 25-26.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:27 PM
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I’m not talking about studies. Call up your local fertility clinic right now, ask to speak with a professional, and ask them about it. You can try to sit here and spread whatever narrative floats your boat but biology says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:26 PM
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Ok so you’re just making up stuff obviously. I literally work with professionals who have studied reproductive biology for decades and youre choosing to deny actual science because it doesn’t fit your fantasy narrative. Have fun with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:15 PM
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I work at a fertility clinic in AZ and we see the same thing here. A great portion of the couples that come in are there due to male fertility difficulties. The woman’s reproductive system is just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:45 PM
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Most Men’s fertility barely decline at all until very advanced ages barring health issues This is simply not true. I work in a fertility clinic and any fertility professional you ask would tell you this is not true. If it were, most sperm banks wouldn’t stop accepting sperm from men when they hit around 36 years of age on average, though most banks say 40 is the maximum age they’ll accept. Basic biology shows that both men and women are most fertile when they’re young, and that’s when the chance…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:38 PM
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Early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:54 AM
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Mainly my hips widening. Slight boob growth. Thicker thighs. Rounder butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:08 AM
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Must be from SoCal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:50 AM
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Consistently working out at the gym and going through the mystic “second puberty” has changed my body so much in so little time. I’m constantly in this mental mindset of “what is happening to me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:40 AM
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Forgot to add /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:38 AM
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Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:33 AM
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That’s never going to happen though. If you think the male ego and male entitlement will be satisfied with sexbots, you’re mistaken. Sexbots are great for women because they’ll decrease a lot of the harassment, assault, and whining we hear from men. But sexbots won’t eradicate these things. And without complete eradication of these things, women will still receive male attention and validation to some compacity, for better or for worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:32 AM
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She’s better than me. I’m wearing white.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:05 AM
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Sexbots are such a win for women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:05 AM
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The usual: Man is found unattractive and undesirable by women in his teens and 20s. But as soon as the clock strikes 12 on his 30th birthday, his fairy godmother comes to grant his wishes, and he magically becomes super desirable to all ages of women. They all start fighting over him but he, as revenge for all the hurt and pain women his age caused him by exercising their free autonomy to choose who they want to be with romantically (ya know free will), says screw women his age and exclusively d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:46 AM
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I’ve never seen one. Imma make one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:27 AM
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Can we do one of these for dicks and balls?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:25 AM
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you’re lips don’t look too messed up omg? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:53 AM
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That’s not my argument? My argument is that most men don’t age like fine wine, most of you are delusional thinking that you do, and the few who do don’t look good because they hit a biological age. It’s because they actually tried to put in effort into their appearance. Now I don’t know what happened when you were growing up but “boys” are definitely putting effort into their appearance, and that along with the benefits of youth, is why they’re hotter than men your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:04 AM
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That fair. I just think it’s vital to see, experience, and navigate. I don’t think a relationship can last without experiencing those heated and angry moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:02 AM
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It didn’t happen in your 20s and probably rarely happened in your teens because you didn’t put in any effort to be attractive to the opposite sex. Like I said if you did what you did in your 30s in your 20s, you would’ve gotten that attention. Turning a specific age didn’t magically make you more appealing, your personal choices did. You think you’re aging well but of course that’s subjective. I hope that’s it true though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:57 PM
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Eh I think it needs to happen. It’s important to see your partner at their “worst” and to be able to bounce back from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:53 PM
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Arguments are a type of disagreement. So what I said still applies based on my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:51 PM
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No. Arguments/disagreements need to happen so you can learn more about your partner, exercise communication skills, and learn how to solve conflicts. I truly believe relationships will not last long term if there isn’t some sort of perseverance applied by both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:48 PM
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Well then the same thing can be applied to men regarding their vile and degenerate behaviors. But whenever a woman says this, she gets replies from angry men saying “not all men” and that the way women treat majority of men as dangerous and scary is dramatic and harmful to their mental and emotional health.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:44 PM
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I barely use social media so I’m fine with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:27 PM
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I don’t know why people get pressed over what Leo does. It’s clearly a business relationship and Leo is just an A-list sugar daddy. These girls are using him just like he’s using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:26 PM
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“But but but…. NOT ALL MEN🤬😡😤😠”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:23 PM
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You weren’t necessarily wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:22 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:32 PM
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But most of you don’t age like fine wine though. Becoming more desirable for men has little to do with age and has to do more with personal choices. Men have this habit of thinking that relationships should be rewarded to them simply for existing. Most of you don’t make better personal choices and check your entitlement, hence why most of you aren’t super desirable no matter what age you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:44 PM
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They do. I have. But doing these things as a woman is literally a huge trend right now. Go on YouTube and look up “life reset” “beauty transformation” and “glow up” videos. Those are women producing that content, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:18 PM
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Women can do that too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:06 PM
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Also update on my first time bar experience last night. It was fun and I had a good time. Some guy was into me though. He had his friend come up to me and do that “my friend thinks you’re cute” thing while he ran away somewhere because he was shy. Part of me was like “aw adorable” and the other half was like “how old are we? that’s immature”. He eventually came back and offered to buy me a drink and wanted my snap, but I told him I had a bf. Saw some people I know from my sorority at one of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:06 PM
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One sentiment of men’s that I do feel great compassion for is missing out on “teen love”. Reading some of the men’s experiences and feelings on it reminds me of how I used to feel about missing out on teen love and how much it bothered/bothers me, and I really empathize with these guys on that. I’m not a cold hearted broad guys, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:52 PM
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But that’s not what OP is saying. Some men on this sub (granted not a lot because there’s a good amount of men on here who actually do have common sense), think that once they hit a certain age, they’re magically going to become more appealing to women and that’s not true. It’s not hitting a certain age that guarantees you’ll be more desirable. For you it was actually caring more about your appearance and putting pride into it, which you could’ve done earlier in life to boost your RMV but you di…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:43 PM
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In my experience, women do care but that’s because predatory relationships are a huge discussion these days and young women are able to avoid these relationships better due to open conversations about them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:38 PM
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Very true. I’m black. My mother is black. Everyone always guesses that my mom is my sister and she’s constantly hit on by men. The wall is a very European beauty standard based concept but most people aren’t talking about minorities when they talk about the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:36 PM
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Didn’t get that DM request from ya
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:34 PM
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You’re delusional if you think he’s aging like “win”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:33 PM
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You must be his age lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:33 PM
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Dm me if you wanna see him so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:33 PM
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Culture and commonality plays a part in it. I mean I noticed you named two people who played in Marvel movies. If you went to school during a time when Avengers just came out or was a big topic of discussion, you shouldn’t be shocked you’re hearing that much about two actors being hot from that movie. We see it now. Most younger women are into K-pop musicians or actors from popular shows like Stranger Things and such. But all of those things are very popular in modern times. They’re trends until…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:48 AM
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Why is the conversation focused on male celebrities though? You missed the point of my last comment. A woman’s attraction to an older male celebrity is not indicative of her attraction to an average older man. The two topics aren’t correlated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:40 AM
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Salty about old men being delusional that most people outside of their own age want them? That’s a weird thing to be salty about. Women do that but yet, you have no proof outside of saying your friends do it. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:32 AM
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Those are celebrity crushes!! There’s no way you’re trying to use celebrity crushes as an indication of what type of guys women want and are actively going for. My celebrity crush is Chris Evans. Has been since I was in 7th grade. But I don’t date anyone more than four years older than me (though the oldest I’ve dated was 2 years older) and find old guys unattractive in every shape and form. Let’s also not forget that male celebrities are in no way similar to the average old guy you see on the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:07 AM
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It’s often the case because you said so? Ok. Come up with whatever scenario you need to to make yourself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:59 AM
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