Daily Community Chat Megathread

SerpentCypher · 2023-06-22T22:58:59+00:00

It still confuses me when people with "misandrist" in their flair downvote you when you refer to them as a misandrist.

Peacesquad · 2023-06-23T19:59:57+00:00

Damn no tearful goodbyes? This is my last day

potoricco · 2023-06-23T19:43:02+00:00

Started watching spider man and

Tom holland sounds and looks like a 12 year old boy

Toby Maguire and miles Morales are the best. not tom holland and the other guy

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-22T19:02:09+00:00

Second

Wanna hear another duck joke

Which president was a duck?

Bill Clinton

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-22T19:05:03+00:00

NSFW: Has any girl or guy done the fruit roll up thing? How’d it go?

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T19:10:10+00:00

"It's not your fault men don't wanna date you"

Ahhh yes it is

Since nobody can do anything about it except you

night-time_coffee · 2023-06-22T19:26:28+00:00

What’s wrong with coffee dates ?

I love coffee and I’m addicted to it , i would be so happy if a person invited me to drink coffee

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-06-22T19:36:46+00:00

I don't know if anyone has been following the Call of Duty streamer drama but someone said Dr Disrespect is more loyal to NickMercs than his wife and I ☠️

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-06-22T19:51:18+00:00

Life sucks

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-06-22T20:21:50+00:00

Feminism and slavery did irreversible damage to the psyche of black women and black men which is why the black community is a mostly deteriorating demographic

potoricco · 2023-06-22T20:31:15+00:00

My ideal date is not in a restaurant

There’s just something so vulnerable about eating. When i see people I love eat I’m like awwww🥺. But with everyone else? 🤢🤢🤢 . I hate watching people eat and seeing and hearing their mouth sounds. As well as gulping/slurping noises. Seeing guys eat is a huge ick

baresquad · 2023-06-22T20:38:05+00:00

Q4A: If you’re sexually experienced, what’s attractive about inexperience?

Personally I equate inexperience with issues like not knowing what to do in the bedroom, insecurities that restrict someone from exploring and experimenting, and general ignorance to all things sex (health, education, etc.). I’m not claiming that’s the case for all inexperienced people but that’s definitely how I was so I find it really easy to identify those traits in other people and I’m not willing to deal with that.

So when I see men push the idea that only virgins are worth committing to, I can’t help but feel like the underlying message is that we should lead unfulfilling sex lives otherwise you’re less of a man if you date someone who’s had sex before.

I believe that things work best and the most success comes when experience is equal so men who’ve slept around should leave inexperienced women alone, it’s better that they be with inexperienced men.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-06-22T20:49:37+00:00

Where does women and beastiality stem from?

dyngladfel · 2023-06-22T21:33:11+00:00

People who are into the 1 - 10 scale. Is that scale for all people? Or is a scale for people of the same gender/age/location.

Interested because I feel like people use a mixture of definitions. Is it contextual or absolute?

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T22:25:44+00:00

"What does it mean when a guy calls you cute"

Means he wants to fuck the shit out you but he won't tell you that

So he sugar codes it with the word "cute"

Again lot to learn about men here

meteorness123 · 2023-06-22T22:46:18+00:00

Rollo Tomassi is such a beta :

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/wg7gt65gBL8

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/KvI1aRMAyq4

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T22:59:53+00:00

I think this is the moment many men should take advantage of in dating

More women in colleges

More women in the workforce

Therefore higher female ratio

Therefore meeting/dating women around your daily environment becomes a 100x easier

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T23:12:01+00:00

I never knew how powerful and deceiving makeup was

Until one day l searched porn-stars without it

And no gosh it was just complete shock how makeup visually lies to you

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-23T00:39:19+00:00

Absolutely so in love with woman. Literal perfection to me.

https://www.instagram.com/iamkaylanicole/

Infammo · 2023-06-23T00:52:46+00:00

Worked dragged on and now I've started dinner way to late. Who the hell eats 9pm meatloaf?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-06-23T01:56:53+00:00

u/-Shes-A-Carnival

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/14g581e/this_woman_admits_to_doing_sexual_things_to_her/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

😂😂😂😂

potoricco · 2023-06-23T01:57:59+00:00

ICE SPICE AND NICKI KINAJ AGAIN YESSSSSSSS

DogsWillHunt7 · 2023-06-23T02:43:11+00:00

Trying to tap into a girl's dominant side when you're a switch or submissive male without giving her the ick is the ultimate challenge.

Very few women want to feel like dominatrixes. But feeling irresistible and seductive to a man they actually respect can work out.

potoricco · 2023-06-23T03:18:01+00:00

Is Tesla expensive? Tesla has boomed in popularity in my area recently. When I go out driving I can see like 3 different Tesla cars per day

I mean I doubt I just consistently stumble upon rich people. Are Teslas even affordable?

rhagaeas_executioner · 2023-06-23T03:32:13+00:00

If you dismiss men paying for meals on dinner dates as an insignificant expense you're frankly retarded. Eating out at any sit-down non-chain restaurant is quite expensive, cost per person is usually at least $50-$60, usually more because of alcohol, tax, tips.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T15:27:21+00:00

"Age-gap relationships"

Pls l don't care hence l've discussed this over a thousand times here

If both parties consented l could give a crap how far the gap is

If you think it's wrong great

If you think it's ok then also great

chilikettlechips · 2023-06-23T19:36:30+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/14gu968/holy_fatherrr/

Did this get reposted here yet? In before new daily thread.

scwizard · 2023-06-23T18:34:36+00:00

My stripper friend is working on getting sterilized.

So guess she is planning on staying in Texas lol

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-23T18:32:58+00:00

Excerpt from a book I’m reading:

She never raised her voice, always deferred to everybody and everything. She had assumed that somewhere down the line there would be a reward for that; a prize. But when her daughter had asked her if she'd ever had sex with anyone but her husband and she'd answered, "No, of course not," her daughter's reply had been, "Oh Mother, how dumb. You don't even know if he's any good or not. How awful." It was true. She didn't know.

So in the long run, it didn't matter at all if you had been good or not. The girls in high school who had "gone all the way" had not wound up living in back alleys in shame and disgrace, like she thought they would; they wound up happily or unhappily married, just like the rest of them. So all that struggle to stay pure, the fear of being touched, the fear of driving a boy mad with passion by any gesture, and the ultimate fear-getting pregnant— all that wasted energy was for nothing. Now, movie stars were having children out of wedlock by the carload, and naming them names like Moonbeam or Sunfeather.

I’ve seen a lot of conversation lately about the “pros” of being a “good girl”, if any at all. Good to see people talking about it.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-06-22T22:41:53+00:00

I’ve been thinking about someone telling me that they’re more concerned about their sex life than they are about the economy. That is truly a very privileged mindset to have when money is not a fucking concern to you. Most people in the world would kill to be that situation. Also, it reinforces my theory that a bunch of these guys obsessing over their sexless “problems” are spoiled brats. Minor things will always feel like the end of the world when you don’t have real shit to worry about.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-06-22T20:02:46+00:00

I like when it comes to paying on the first date women will say whoever offered to go on the date is supposed to pay. That's the technicality women like to use because what are the chances of women ever offering men to go on the first date?

caobozo · 2023-06-23T00:50:02+00:00

why do people here use "shallow" as a catch all term for women's standards that they deem ridicilous, stupid, too high... if women value a bunch of things including looks, and men only value looks, men are the more shallow ones. (it's not morally superior to have more standards and it's not morally inferior to only value looks, I'm arguing the semantics)

Chokeman · 2023-06-23T03:41:03+00:00

I believe insta and Tiktok are the worst social media. They distort the view of the reality for their users.

There are not many cryptolords, influencers who make 7 figs, girls who demand her partners to be atleast 1 ft taller, gold diggers, and etc. as their presences on insta and Tiktok.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-06-22T19:02:46+00:00

Obviously a controversial take on here but men actually don’t know better than individual women about what we want or believe!

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-06-22T19:27:56+00:00

One thing i've learned on this sub is that 25 is when women gain full consciousness and are able to fully make decisions for themselves.

night-time_coffee · 2023-06-22T19:30:16+00:00

I think that bitch sakura from naruto proves the idea of hypergamy but i was too blind to notice back in the days

Fuck sakura anyways

Willow-girl · 2023-06-22T20:00:28+00:00

I just overheard my man scolding one of the ducks, "You left your babies in the greenhouse. You should be ashamed of yourself!" while the duck tutted angrily in reply.

Too funny!

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T20:14:53+00:00

This stories of erectile disfunction are so funny 🤣

Bro just get it up , it's not that hard

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T21:03:33+00:00

I'm all for paying on dates but the arguments for it don't make sense

"The man has to pay because she takes time to get ready"

Bruh l also have to get ready, unless you think l just get up from bed and go to the date

dyngladfel · 2023-06-22T21:25:37+00:00

Unpopular opinion: Americans seem to be the most backward country in the west regarding gender. You're all going fucking batty over absolutely nothing. Freaking out over who pays for the first date and whatnot. But American primacy means their shitty culture gets all over the Internet and spreads like contagion.

lehibu38 · 2023-06-23T01:53:05+00:00

Found a youtube comment i resonate with a lot, thoughts?

"For me, the thing that put me off from dating, at least for now, is the this pervasive attitude that a woman’s time and energy is more valuable than mine. You hear a lot of these girls say things like “men need to get their shit together and treat a woman right” and it’s like yeah I don’t disagree, but when do I get to be treated right? It seems like as soon as you meet a girl, you immediately have to start proving to her that your even worth her time, but she doesn’t have to prove shit to you, and you only get “treated right” once you “earn” it. I’m a human being man, I deserve the same respect and compassion that is afforded to anyone else, so why does it feel like this relationship is so unequal right from the start and I constantly have to prove that I’m even worth treating properly? Feels pretty bad man ngl"

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-06-23T03:09:29+00:00

I had a conversation with a friend of mine some time ago and it ended up becoming a conversation about preferences, and race was brought up.

My friend then, I shit you not, said something like "Not wanting to date a woman who's had sex with black men is just a preference, not necessarily racist", lol.

Such an insane thing to actually feel IMO. Especially with the cognitive dissonance about how he feels like that but also feels that it's not racist. I think his belief is based on the retarded idea that all black men are hung like a horse or something, dunno.

I finally understand how sluts who see nothing wrong with sleeping around feel when they see men on PPD shitting on them and saying that sluts are undateable.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-06-23T04:33:23+00:00

I’m so ready for a girl that can stand on her own two feet. Had an amicable split with my ex. There’s a lot I miss about her but one thing I don’t miss is the constant emotional labor helping her deal with anxiety.

Novadina · 2023-06-23T04:57:07+00:00

I just bought a business for my husband to run. He quit his job of nearly 20 years that he’s been feeling unappreciated at, and now he can do the same thing but as the boss instead, meaning his efforts will actually be rewarded if the business makes more money. Whoever said marriage doesn’t have benefits for men? I maintain the quality of your marriage is about you and the person you marry, not the gender of the participants.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-23T06:48:30+00:00

I get laid today🥳 sooo excited

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-06-23T08:15:08+00:00

Where Black Pill guys go wrong is when they spout utter garbage like "I could workout and get a good body but my face is ugly so literally nothing will change."

If you workout and get a model level body, yeah your face may be a little rough to look at, you'll still objectively be more attractive than if you never tried to begin with.

If you don't try to improve yourself you're a coward.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T21:31:40+00:00

"Would you drop video games for your woman"

Probably not since they were always there before any woman l dated

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-06-22T21:38:28+00:00

I’ve been saying this on here for a while and this guy had the same observations that I did, it’s way easier to get hot women in Europe

For all the passport bro talk about 3rd world countries…you can literally go to a 1st world country and bag hotter women

Peacesquad · 2023-06-22T23:42:55+00:00

Tomorrow is my last day in this sub. We’re going to have an epic going away party and make it emotional as fuck. Come join me in my sendoff tomorrow!! Ok miss all of you!(most of you)

saraimarsena · 2023-06-23T00:51:08+00:00

for the right man? honestly i would.

for all the pessimism on here it’s nice to hear about marriage as a beautiful thing.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-23T02:10:59+00:00

Hot take : The answer to many life problems is ... money.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-06-23T03:08:30+00:00

We live in a post moral world.

The more I deal with clients (consulting) and the more stuff OF become a thing the more it’s becoming blatantly clear that’s what’s happening.

I wonder how this will turn out.

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-22T19:13:45+00:00

Those mfs on the submarine are so dead

Preme2 · 2023-06-22T19:35:22+00:00

Neymar cheated on his pregnant girlfriend Then wrote a public apology on Instagram for her. What a sweet guy.

caobozo · 2023-06-22T19:56:28+00:00

im an avid woman supporter but i will never support women posting their pictures on subs like pretty girls and selfies or whatever and asking redditors what they think. it just reeks of cringe i hope they heal

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-06-22T20:24:31+00:00

Question for Women and Men (I understand that men and women judge men’s looks differently)

What is an objectively, ugly man look like to you ?

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T20:31:24+00:00

Girlfriend made rice,potatoes,meat

7/10 dish honestly

SerpentCypher · 2023-06-22T20:44:04+00:00

Some women really think putting on makeup and doing their hair is putting in equal effort to a man's role regarding a date.

Ignoring the fact that for any other argument on PPD besides this one it's always "women put on makeup for themselves, it isn't for the male gaze." so women would be putting the same amount of effort into their appearance anyway, date or no date.

Men still have to put effort into their appearance before a date. They are also expected to approach, plan, invite the woman, arrange the date, and generally foot the bill for the whole thing.

All women have to do is get ready and show up to decide whether the man is worthy of her continued presence or not.

This is not equal effort being put in. Which is fine, no complaints about that, but seriously, stop acting like it's 50/50 when it clearly isn't.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-06-22T21:01:55+00:00

They tell these girls in the music industry if you wanna blow up you gotta get gay males and straight women on your side. Straight men will never buy your records lol. They’ll masturbate to your pictures, they’ll like on social media, but not buying your shit so never try to cater to them. You got mad female artists who got tons of followers on IG but flop, people wonder why? A lot of that is dudes just lusting after them. Now it’s not all dudes, like for example My little sister follows this woman cause she likes how she does her makeup/outfits but she could care less about her songs.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-22T21:05:26+00:00

Taking my bf on a surprise date Saturday. I hope he likes it🥹

karspearhollow · 2023-06-22T21:33:51+00:00

Q4W: what responsibilities, if any, do you think women bear for problems in today's dating market?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-06-22T21:40:20+00:00

Arguing with someone on Tiktok takes more effort than necessary. Theres a video where one guy in his 40s set up a date with a woman for the end of the week and nothing was mentioned until the day of when he tells her hes waiting for her and she ends up rescheduling because nothing else about the date was brought up until then which was a few days later after he asked her. One woman reacted to the video saying he was wrong for not confirming it with her at a decent time, eventhough he initially set up the date and she agreed to it. I commented that she could have also reached out to him as well, but apparently that's not the other person's responsibility. Its funny because when women are interested enough with someone or something, they will continously make the effort to maintain communication to get whatever they want. I guess the date with the guy wasn't worth communication on her end to confirm as well, only him because he was the one who asked her on the date.

If you ask someone on a date, you have to do all the leg work. Planning, reminding every day that you two have a date scheduled ("Hey don't forget we have a date in 5 days" / "This is your reminder we have a date in 2 days 4 hours and 17 minutes from now in case you forgot"), maybe pick up the date in your car if you have one, and don't forget to pay. Chosing a venue should be the least of your worries on the first date.

Edit- Is it hard to just say " Oh shit, I forgot" rather than just blaming the guy for not mentioning the date until the day of? But blame him for it though.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-22T23:25:30+00:00

We need a PPD selfie day where we all post selfies of ourselves and rate each other. I would post a picture of my face.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-23T00:07:36+00:00

I literally look the best I’ve ever looked my whole life. Younger me would be in awe if she saw me now.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-06-23T05:31:14+00:00

Funny. Spent this morning going back and forth with guys who were mad that I called older men who go after young women creepy then got approached by an older guy on the way to work. Nice😀

lehibu38 · 2023-06-23T06:31:32+00:00

The more I read about men's (including me) struggles to attract women, the more I believe in the variable with the most predictive power to attain a woman being; shooting your shot, shamelessely even.

The men here (again including me) need to approach more, and just deal with the fact that a non-zero amount of women you approach will have an unpleasant experience, you will come of creepy, aggressive, any variation of negative trait, but you will improve for sure, and will eventually obtain a relationship.

A combination of fear of rejection, approach anxiety, not wanting to make the woman uncomfortable and onlookers has scared me from shooting my shot many times, I am 100% sure I have missed connections because of this, this is something I have to overcome and manage.

SerpentCypher · 2023-06-23T09:21:10+00:00

Lmao. YouTube algorithm decided I need to start considering van life.

Like any psyop, they think to convince people to own nothing and be happy by promoting the lifestyle with hot women who spend half the video wearing nothing but a bikini while driving around or walking her dogs..

The best part was after going on a big spiel about how hard but rewarding the lifestyle is, she introduced her "road buddy" Chuck.

Chuck basically follows her around in his own van. Does all the man stuff for her like when she breaks down or needs a tyre changing. He follows her around with canisters of gas in his truck for when she runs out.

Clear to see from only a few minutes he appears in that Chuck is head over heels for this chick. But she doesn't even let him inside her van lmao. Outside of when she needs his help she pretends he doesn't exist.

The comments are amazing.

"This chick has found a legal way to bring slavery back, respect."

"Imagine having a knight in simping armor following you around just a vehicle away, providing you with round the clock roadside assistance."

"It's cute how you've got a devoted guard dog, and I'm not talking about the actual dogs."

throwawayVishot · 2023-06-23T10:43:56+00:00

This age gap debate. My wife unit looks like she's 15 years younger than me. I get approval everywhere I go. What is going on here? It's men and women both.

I was led to believe this is socially unacceptable. But real life is the opposite.

Peacesquad · 2023-06-23T18:32:20+00:00

Just drove by a Five Below store. What the fuck is a Five Below store?

relish5k · 2023-06-23T18:27:04+00:00

Women Do Not Need Lunatic Overconfidence

New piece from Freddie Deboer. I don't agree with everything but he makes some good (and funny) points, such as:

There’s an endorsement of absolutely deranged self-confidence, an impossible level of self-belief that I imagine is actually only achievable while high on PCP.

Where we’ve gone wrong as a civilization in terms of understanding confidence is in thinking of it as a presence, as an emotion. But I think what we perceive as confidence is simply not constantly thinking about yourself and your value. That’s more real and sustainable to me than thinking about yourself all the time and consistently feeling good about what you find. Unfortunately it seems like not thinking about yourself is what many modern people find hardest of all.

md8716 · 2023-06-23T18:01:28+00:00

It amazes me how you can literally tell someone the steps to win at life, and they'll cry and make excuses about how scared they are to try.

I'm a millennial, but man sometimes I wish I was born 15 years later, because I'm pretty sure I'd be dunking on this bitch made generation like Shaq in the paint.

Peacesquad · 2023-06-23T17:45:46+00:00

Women want men better than them in every way. A woman can’t be attracted to a man that doesn’t bring more value to the relationship than her. Equality doesn’t exist because women don’t even want it lol

Peacesquad · 2023-06-23T17:45:07+00:00

Men want seggs

shmupsy · 2023-06-23T17:34:13+00:00

Another fun video about the perks of being a tradwife.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sR3ULgkmmys

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-06-23T17:03:22+00:00

For all the women on birth control, does your type change based on if your on it or not? And do u notice it.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T16:49:11+00:00

"I only date men"

More females for me then

VampireChaser · 2023-06-23T16:44:46+00:00

Mods here thinking that calling someone 'boring' is an insult is everything you need to know about them.

potoricco · 2023-06-23T16:08:35+00:00

Does anyone here look like this

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-06-23T16:04:27+00:00

I swear it seems like everytime my fiance goes out while I'm not around she's hitting me up about being catcalled or followed something. Being a woman must be ass idk how some of yall do it.

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DancesWithMyr · 2023-06-22T19:02:03+00:00

First.

Send nudes

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-22T19:06:40+00:00

When people use the term “power” in the social sense, what does that mean?

Lovers691 · 2023-06-22T19:13:58+00:00

Now that my ban has passed, can the mods clarify to me what "Incel" comments are? Is just generally saying looks are the most important factor an incel comment?

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-22T19:34:20+00:00

What's the difference between stiletto and almond nails because I can't tell

KidOrenge · 2023-06-22T19:43:41+00:00

What are your thoughts on the cultural norms in Muslim communities? I’m mostly looking for opinions on American Muslims but feel free to chime in on other places in the world.

I’m ex-moose and didn’t like my time there.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T19:45:41+00:00

"What is the most attractive quality in a woman"

Loyalty bruh

When she knows she has hundreds/thousands of guys waiting to date her but still stays faithful to her man

A lot of guys can feel very special if a really cute/pretty girl decided to stay loyal to them

LiveWallaby233 · 2023-06-22T19:45:59+00:00

How does it feel to love and be loved?

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-22T19:48:59+00:00

Oh em gee sims 4 horses

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T20:02:24+00:00

"Why did you stop becoming an atheist"

Hedonistic lifestyle

The idea you can have a conscience and mind which separates you from other mammals

Many Atheists believe morality is objective like killing people or raping but can't explain why

Many of them can't explain how we got here

Apprehensive_Net7337 · 2023-06-22T20:05:19+00:00

where the ugly hoes at

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T20:08:27+00:00

I'm downloading tik tok people

Heard it drains your attention-span like crazy

night-time_coffee · 2023-06-22T20:16:43+00:00

Random thought : why from all the minorities that have been criticized by the right wing ,only the grandsons of abraham are being negligible by the main stream media

night-time_coffee · 2023-06-22T20:26:59+00:00

I wanna do the boom boom boom boom 👉👌 but I’m too lazy and introvert to do the bla bla bla bla bla

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-22T20:33:15+00:00

I can't masturbate to people in relationships because then I feel like I'm getting cucked

mrrelaf · 2023-06-22T20:38:10+00:00

baby don't hearn me

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T20:49:07+00:00

"Marrying in your 20s is not that bad"

For me it would have definitely had been

I owned no property of mine until near 30

Traveled to many cities to play sports

Just wanted to sex with good-looking women

Now l see the appeal in my 30s

throwawayVishot · 2023-06-22T21:04:19+00:00

It seems I didn't get my thread approved. So I will post it here.

Men need to lose the psychological battle

Players. The way I see it there's a battle for women's right to be picky and a battle for ass. You can win one but not both.

The psychological battle is about men living up to women's standards or women lowering their standards to what men can realistically do. Forcing women to lower their standards is at best going to get you reluctant intercourse. More likely no intercourse at all. But you can feel good about forcing women to be realistic.

The battle for ass is about getting passionate sex with young and tight babes. Something we can only get overseas. If you think that Western governments are going to allow hundreds of thousands of well off guys to go abroad and get easy sex you're bluepilled.

Want to know who can go abroad and get ass? Losers. Guys who tried and failed. Those of us who were too short, too poor, too insecure to qualify. We tried flowers and chocolates and poems but the women rejected us. So after crying in our basements we were forced to seek out women less educated and career driven. Women who will accept guys that Western women don't want.

No one cares if a bunch of failed guys go abroad. They're out of sight out of mind.

Stop complaining about women's standards. Stop complaining that dating is unfair. Tell them they deserve better. You're not good enough. You can't provide the life they deserve. You're intimidated by their success. Ask for fashion advice. Write some poems.

Then go abroad and make love to younger, hotter, tighter babes.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T21:15:16+00:00

The number of times guys in high-school pulled the girls hair

Something l couldn't wrap my head around

This girl even once told she won't let any guy pull her hair except her boyfriend

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-06-22T21:19:03+00:00

Does anyone think Brett Cooper is above a 6? Asking for a friend.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-06-22T21:58:48+00:00

Is a woman's busy-ness (seemingly always having somewhere to go or something to do) correlated with her sexual proclivity (i.e., women who are out and about a lot are more promiscuous vs women who are homebodies)?

Interested to hear your takes.

potoricco · 2023-06-22T22:00:42+00:00

I need advice

I basically never feel comfortable around people my age

When I was a kid, I preferred to hang out with babies, teenagers and adults rather than other kids.

It’s the same now, im more open around kids, babies or adults. When I’m an adult probably it will be the same

Like I don’t know what this phenomenon is but it’s ruining my life I need advice

potoricco · 2023-06-22T22:06:51+00:00

I purposely wear a lot of tacky/semi old fashioned clothes because I like the 2000s look. Like legit 2000s look not ugly SHEIN rhinestone nonsense

But like, im afraid people think I dress like that because I’m outdated and can’t keep up, and not that I’m just fashionable

potoricco · 2023-06-22T22:50:35+00:00

One time I was with my friend and we saw this stray cat. It was mixed with orange and brown, a bit strange looking

I said, look it’s a cat, then my friend said it looked so ugly. And it immediately ran away from us

Rationally I knew that the cat didn’t understand, it was probably just scared of us that’s why it rain. But I felt terrible about it for DAYS… still thinking about it

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T22:54:56+00:00

If l was singing

Dating wouldn't be hard

Because l know beautiful women are frickin everywhere from real life to the internet

Who cares if 3-5 woman rejected me this week

There's still a million more l can shoot my shot with

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-06-22T23:46:15+00:00

Whats a take you'll die on a hill for?

potoricco · 2023-06-23T00:01:45+00:00

RETVRN TO TRADITION

As a woman why do you not do your makeup like this anymore?

potoricco · 2023-06-23T00:05:43+00:00

NOOO HES MINE WHY WOULD HE TALK TO OTHER WOMEN

This is legit soul crushing

potoricco · 2023-06-23T00:29:08+00:00

Bruh Why do men have to take everything so seriously

lolmastr13 · 2023-06-23T00:36:55+00:00

I wonder what % of the population actually wants kids. So many people get kids just because of unprotected sex, practical reasons for business and societal expectations.

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-06-23T00:56:00+00:00

Q4M- would you date a woman who you considered unattractive but she treated you exactly how you want to be treated.

throwawayawsresume · 2023-06-23T01:40:30+00:00

I decided to do some social media as a guy and the difference between social media and dating apps is wild to me.

I'm an (unconventionally) attractive guy with niche interests. On social media, I just show off what I'm doing, tell stories about my day, and maybe post the occasional thirst trap. I average 50-100k views per video, and I have thousands of women (and hundreds of men) in my comments and DMs asking me to date them. People recognize me on the streets (rarely). On dating apps, I average maybe 3 matches a week, leading to a date every two weeks.

(Meanwhile, my female friend who only averages 1k views on social media gets on a dating app and gets a few hundred likes a week. They literally get more likes on dating apps than on social media!)

I don't know how to interpret this, but the cognitive dissonance is messing with me. Some thoughts: being unconventional might be unpopular on dating apps. The 80/20 rule probably doesn't apply on dating apps. I should probably resort to dating a fan, as uncomfortable as that feels. Guys have really got to get off Hinge and get on Insta.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-23T03:16:16+00:00

competence + (physical) presence > being pretty. As a man.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-06-23T05:06:30+00:00

Q4W Do you agree with her?

NumerousTheory5735 · 2023-06-23T05:10:03+00:00

Thinking about visiting an escort for the first time. Any advice from the dudes who've visited one?

scwizard · 2023-06-23T05:41:35+00:00

LINKEDIN. IS. NOT. A. DATING. SITE.

Girl why not just use the same approach to LinkedIn connections I do?

I will not accept your connection request unless you're a colleague I've interacted with at work or we've met in person in a professional capacity like at a conference or something and it was a positive experience.

Guys don't accept connection requests from random people they went to college with why are girls doing that?

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T06:37:53+00:00

Q4M: has race influenced your success rate ?

I was the very few black guys in my university area with a lot of white girls, so l think that had a factor into it

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T06:43:53+00:00

Seriously how can you say men are shallow for placing huge value on looks

That's our main sexual attraction unlike women

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T06:49:02+00:00

Don't get Myron making a big deal of dating attention whores

Most pretty girls l dated were exactly that, attention from their social circles and social media by posting pics on Instagram

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T07:12:53+00:00

You know you still need men to survive

Misandrists: wait what

happy_discus · 2023-06-23T09:18:48+00:00

After looking into the mirror for the first time every I can safely say I am Quasimodos uglier brother.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-06-23T09:38:40+00:00

The ppd demographic here is no different to lipstick alley. advice for folks: w: please lose weight the CDC is begging you haha m: let go of your dream for a snowbunny wife and maybe dating will get easier.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T18:02:47+00:00

I think young men 18-24 should just pursue casual sex instead of relationships

Having a gf adds no value or meaning in your life aka making it better

But your strong sexual desire is still there

So logically you prioritize getting accessibility to sex than relationships

Peacesquad · 2023-06-23T16:01:11+00:00

Make my last day special. Did I impact anyone’s life while I was here?

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T16:00:03+00:00

Anyways the concept of social anxiety is you overthinking it

Nobody cares how you act

Because everyone is too focused on themselves

potoricco · 2023-06-23T15:51:10+00:00

Casual sex hurts women and benefits men

Abstain

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T15:50:17+00:00

"The art of approaching women really isn't that complicated"

Right

Just walk up to her and say you wanna kids with her

Not that hard

ThisBoringLife · 2023-06-23T15:31:43+00:00

Alright, time to be casual:

Q4All: You are tasked to make a sandwich. Fully stocked pantry, 15 minutes to make it. What kind of sandwich do you make?

Billsandasonom · 2023-06-23T15:18:05+00:00

What is this bullshit about 'working out' or 'exercising' being good for health but not actually helping weight loss. Exercise increases over basal metabolism, and burns calories (more than during the actual exercising) for hours afterward due to metabolic changes and recovery/growth, alters and improves mitochondric activity within cells, and so on. This goes doubly so if you lift weights, because weightlifting itself burns very little calories but requires a lot of energy (and food) afterward to grow and maintain the new muscle.

People like to say "abs are made in the kitchen, not the gym" like a gotcha just because if you work out but then follow it up with half a pie and a giant milkshake your progress is hampered. Yeah if you eat like complete shit obviously working out is going to seem kind of ineffective as you get on the scale everyday.

ilovesoundtracks · 2023-06-23T15:01:37+00:00

Gents, you prefer black or white girls?

FuuraKafu · 2023-06-23T15:01:35+00:00

Hottake: I think the main reason why so many men online defend age-gap relationships is actually because women tend to be creeped out by them. In reality, I think it's uncomfortable for men too, I mean it's essentially the biggest expression of hypergamy in society. 19 year old girl fresh out of high school going to a month long vacation to the Bahamas with her 35 years old rich-ass businessman boyfriend. If men find hypergamy annoying, which they do, there is no way that the majority of them don't feel negatively about these relationships, at least on some level.

I think it's usually more like a "huh, women are so creeped out by this, but it's their hypergamy's doing, it's on them" kind of thing. Let them have their cake (adult women are free to do whatever they want, criticizing "female sexuality" is misogyny) and eat it too (those consenting adult women willingly get into situations that creeps other women out, whoops!).

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T15:01:28+00:00

Anyways any Netflix show suggestions ?

I've watched all mainstream stuff

Disclaimer: don't give me shit if it's less than 4 seasons

Peacesquad · 2023-06-23T14:54:13+00:00

Ladies you prefer black or whit e guys?

Peacesquad · 2023-06-23T14:53:22+00:00

Todays my last day

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T14:52:25+00:00

"Homophobic,racist,sexist,toxic breaking bad fans"

I mean if your not gonna call the show a Masterpiece what you expect

potoricco · 2023-06-23T14:51:34+00:00

I’m not gonna lie I feel SO BAD for spot like

(Spoilers)

Miles morales is the reason why his universe has no spiderman
Miles morales destroyed his life

Honestly I’m rooting for spot because who does that? Like the problem with these superhero movies is that the superheros ARE the villains

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-23T14:42:55+00:00

The girl doing my nails literally sliced my hand open like bitch you aren't Edward scissorhands be careful

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T14:39:27+00:00

I'm sorry but l can't help it laugh at white guys who get intimidated at their women dating black dudes mainly of the stereotype of black guys having big dicks 🤣🤣🤣

Listen as a black guy who mainly dates white girls, l can understand your intimidation

obviousthrowawayaccs · 2023-06-23T14:31:37+00:00

don't be mad ladies. Men want what they want ;) whales seething

maybe his wife or kids browse this subreddit 😂 could be fake but doesnt matter, happens in real life enough minus maybe the leaving family part

SerpentCypher · 2023-06-23T14:21:14+00:00

The story of Patti Boyd is one of the strangest and most fascinating out there. Some of the best love songs of all time were written about and for her.

She was George Harrison from the Beatles' wife and he wrote "Something" about her. A song Frank Sinatra called the greatest love song ever written.

Eric Clapton, famed guitarist and George Harrison's best friend also fell in love with her when he used to hang at their house and write music together.

He wrote "Layla" about her which is about falling hopelessly in love with a woman who is unavailable.

He told George Harrison to his face at a party "I'm in love with your wife".

She ended up branch swinging and later marrying Eric Clapton on a weeks notice.

Like a real life Helen of Troy. This woman inspired some of the most emotive songs ever written. Arguably both men's most successful songs were written specifically out her.

potoricco · 2023-06-23T14:18:56+00:00

Ice Spice & Nicki Minaj- Barbies World

Song is terrible! I am disappointed tbh especially since I loved Princess Diana

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-06-23T13:56:29+00:00

Lots of age gap threads with super-salty women. Under the surface is a fear that if age gap relationships proliferate, they might get dumped and flipped out for a younger woman as they age.

My response is, so what? Women typically get more attention when they’re young whereas young men get the short-end of the stick. If women get a flood of attention and options from 18-30, why should they expect to lock someone in at their peak and never suffer the ravages of time?

Unlike the stock market, you can’t sell at the top and lock in your profits. Along the same vein, men in school studying to be doctors can’t pull forward their earnings and status and start dating models at age 23 while they’re still broke students in med school.

Your value is your value, if it tanks and your husband flips you out, sucks, you must be one of the many women who will not be hot your entire life (unlike Jennifer Aniston or something). Hey, men can go broke, bald, fat, impotent, or any number of ailments, and become a dud, and if that happens and he’s not attractive definitely divorce him (try not to take all his $$).

On PPD of all places where no one should settle for less, I don’t understand why men should settle for a 40yo partner who has stopped being attractive.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-23T13:48:31+00:00

I never understood guys sending their nudes to women

I understand it the other way around though since that's want guys want

But bruh you got entire online spaces of females complaining about receiving nudes from guys, that literally confirms they don't get turned on like we do

saraimarsena · 2023-06-23T13:20:36+00:00

lmao finally blocked by that that weirdo troll lacuti3

yk the one who tries to tell people that women don’t physically enjoy sex ?

potoricco · 2023-06-23T13:02:36+00:00

I’m not a radical feminist

70% of twitter radical feminists are former or current white supremacists

Many of them also are guilty of the same thing they criticize men for

According_Listen_897 · 2023-06-23T12:26:47+00:00

I don't think there is such a thing as love, there are only emotional attachments to people that are formed for a plethora of reasons such as the things they provide, how it makes us feel being in that particular relationship, the emotional comfort and security all of that provides, our inability to deal with life, and so on... I feel like our whole idea of love is simply based on human weaknesses and shortcomings. It's just like religion, there is nothing virtuous, meaningful, or grand about any religious practice it's just a reflection of our confusion about the whole of life if anything, I can't that seriously. By the same token, I can't take our understanding of love as this genuinely beautiful, simple, sincere, and the rest at face value.

I can never truly genuinely tell someone I love them if we don't have an already established understanding of what that word means to us.

Willow-girl · 2023-06-23T12:10:21+00:00

Perusing the upcoming tax sale bill, I spotted a nice parcel, just under an acre, wooded, less than a mile from the house.

My chainsaw is whispering, "Go buy that ..."

PaleontologistOk1049 · 2023-06-23T11:12:15+00:00

Q4M: Do you like hugs from women?

eye_fuck · 2023-06-23T11:03:13+00:00

Holy fuck cheating and affair spaces and subreddits really are mostly women

Lost-Zebra6453 · 2023-06-23T10:48:59+00:00

How many times do men try fail and then give up and find black pill ? Posts usually read like they have had maybe 2 bad experiences and they decided that was it they are unlovable and self improvement is a grift?

How many times is too many times for you?

Shit I’ve failed so many times in my life…that’s how you grow

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-22T19:05:29+00:00

To the people against age-gap relationships (man older than the women)

How is the man taking advantage when the women has 100x the more dating options than him — in most cases.

rhagaeas_executioner · 2023-06-23T05:34:29+00:00

So many foids keep spouting bullshit about how TRP tells men to fake interest in a relationship when they aren't, they clearly have never read it and are just making shit up. One of the most commonly given tips in TRP is to show little or no interest in commitment.

TRP has become a bogeyman for neurotic foids to ascribe any kind of game they don't like to.

Purple-Following-422 · 2023-06-23T03:59:18+00:00

How can anyone claim women aren't inferior to men? They're weaker, shorter, less brave, less creative, less intelligent, etc etc etc. All the stats whether that is sports, academics (real academics, not your little literature or feminism "PHDs"), founding companies, etc etc.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-22T19:17:22+00:00

"Would you date a woman more intelligent than you"

I've never came across a woman more intelligent than me, most people who were more intelligent tended to be guys

But yea l would as long as she meets the looks requirement to make my dick hard

Actually my gf might be more intelligent than me but it's a guess

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