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The paper addresses it Nordic countries have lowers reporting rates to police when compared to other EU countries so it can’t explain it
/r/BlackPillScience21/04/25 12:26 AM
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People do this all the time in relationships, this seems obvious not exactly sure what the post is responding to?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:29 PM
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My response assumed the male was the father
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:13 PM
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Thank you for the link
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:13 PM
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Do you mean if they're in a relationship? If so, then I think it should be based on income, if the man earns significantly more, then I think he should pay for all of it, closer in income it should be half. If it is some random guy with a baby mama, socially I think it should be since as good for a man to contribute financially to the delivery
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 10:03 PM
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There is no far share to be had if there is no child born yet but again the reason why child support exists isn't about fair share. The idea is that both parent are responsible for the maintenance of the child to ensure its wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:38 PM
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Republicans in Congress submitted a resolution in favor of "wellness based fertility" in lieu of the pill Do you have a link to this? I can't find it, was it recent? Do doubt it happen I just want to read the bill myself. As for no fault divorce ban, while this does affect women more(as the initiate divorce the most), the only equivalent is itself since no fault divorce technically also affects men as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:33 PM
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It’s not reasonable lol. The principle behind child support is to care for a child’s well-being, so it doesn’t make much sense to pay for it before birth. If a woman can take care of herself she has enough money to support a growing infant. I could also say some abortion restrictions are reasonable for example, no abortion after around the 12th to 24th week, if you care about fetal pain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:16 PM
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white women also date against their interest? Implying that voting for Trump was against their interests
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:59 PM
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This is a weird scenario, if you actually wanted to do it only these options below is the closest male equivalent of banning abortion: Men need to pay child support from conception When a man has a child, a tax on the majority of his wage goes to his mothers baby and child. Even then I would adjust the second one to just be that a certain amount of the income for a child to live comfortably(considering the wife's income) would be taken from the income
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:54 PM
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Everyone here is making fun of you/saying you’re wrong but hasn’t posted any research showing you’re wrong so I will. A meta analysis by Eastwick et al. shows that looks predict romantic choices for men and women at almost the same amounts, it was r=.43 for men and r=.4 for women, the correlation was strong and the difference wasn’t significant. There is also another study by Eastwick showing that it is looks>personality>money for both men and women in terms of actual relationship success/reveal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:43 PM
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She’s just sexy red for white women at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:20 PM
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I’m sorry for your loss, she sounds like she was a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:29 AM
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A lot of people here have said what I wanted to say so I’ll just reiterate and add some stuff. Women can struggle if they are unattractive but it has to be significant i.e. 3 and below and even then she would still struggle far less if than a man at or even a little above her looks level for sex and love. I disagree that women are only value for their looks in society other stuff like their intellect and personality matter, although it is true women get judged more for it than men aside from ugl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:26 AM
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I find it funny that when a man goes to work you say it is something he would do anyways as if when a woman cleans a house or takes care of the kids it isn't something she would do anyways if she was a single mom as well. The same with the birthdays and gifts, this isn't really supporting if the man doesn't care about it. As for the study, while it is more likely when the woman is in poor health, this is true but you left out that when the man is depressed the marriage is also more likely to end…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:19 PM
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While I'm not sure what study the OP is referencing there is some evidence that oral contraceptive use is correlated with less attraction to more masculine faces although the causative link is unknown. There is also some evidence that discontinuing oral birth control use negatively affects relationship satisfaction if the husband is less attractive and positively does so if he is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:54 PM
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It's rare because most people have kids but there are cases of celebrities without kids who pay alimony, Mary J. Blige for example had no kids with her husband but pays him alimony. I just want to clarify that income difference isn't all that matters length of marriage matters as well but alimony is for the spouse while child support is for the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:53 PM
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Alimony is still given in childless situations, all that matters is if there is a significant income difference
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:33 PM
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I don't believe in 80/20 but your argument doesn't make any sense much sense people generally would prefer to date the most attractive people but most people don't have access to the 8s and 9s. There are other factors that come into play like the reality of your own looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:01 PM
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You’re assuming most of the men here aren’t just normie men wrt dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 09:05 PM
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You don’t necessarily become a misogynist from being a long term virgin. Most of the men who have negative views on women are likely not virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:35 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:28 PM
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The owners have aren’t the ones in charge of what is written in the magazines that decision is delegated to the editor in chief. That being said it would be whoever owns the conglomerate the magazine is published under which is typically a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:24 PM
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Since the late 60s sure, that was when cosmo got a female editor in chief and they have had only female ones since then. The same with other female magazines like Vogue, Harper’s bazaar, Elle since the late 60s they’ve been run exclusively or mostly by female editors in chief
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:21 PM
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I mean the ideas that self-identified bluepillers generally push align with what I said but I guess you’re correct. That being said mainstream advice on the gym is contradictory with some saying it would improve looks while others saying women prefer dadbods
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:00 PM
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Women and men but mostly women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:57 PM
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After decades of closeups of celebrities at the beach ranking top 10 worst beach bodies (aka they have a little cellulite) This is quite literally almost exclusively done by media advertised to women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:50 PM
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The bluepill doesn’t really preach those thing generally it focuses on be yourself, there is also the fact that the bluepill rejects gender roles and holds to behavioural sex differences being due to societal factors
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:38 PM
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Can you link to the post or explain more? Was the flirting/sexual stuff only with sex workers or normies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:33 PM
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Won’t it be easy to just drop the redpill ideas that promote promiscuity?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:30 PM
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Artistic sure but political not really, they don't do anything involving substantive politics at the Met
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:03 PM
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According to world bank(using WHO data), most men in Eastern Europe are overweight, tbh putting the or obese in my comment was a blunder on my part since most men in the US are obese either. That being said I agree with the rest of your comment, I think at some point as a man especially a sub-5, if you have actually tried and see no results you should throw in the towel and try to get the level of joy from a relationship/sex elsewhere like hobbies, career etc either that or geomax
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:41 PM
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I can't speak for him but the Met Gala is one of the blatant examples of economic inequality, it is quite literally an event where the rich parade the wealth. The foundation of left-wing thought is about social and especially economic equality, while it is not the worst thing in the world it is bizarre and reads like parody that someone who present as left wing would go to such an event and wear a tax the rich dress.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:34 PM
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It's pretty easy to access just type AOC horse in google images
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:10 PM
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Personally, I don't care much about this topic and would have not done any research on it if she didn't accuse me of being triggered because I critique her source and her interpretation of that source
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:00 PM
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Agree with this that the majority of the people who push this general want to sell courses but the problem is inceldom is primarily due to your looks not because of being jaded. The second problem is that if you are an average male(in terms of looks, money, status) dating will be difficult(though not impossible) for you, you will have to suffer to improve your looks(though I believe looks improvements are limited if you don't use hard looksmaxxing) and/or financial status to make it easier to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:30 PM
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If "the stats trigger my feelings!", why would I mention that marital satisfaction is higher and that is in support of your overall point. This is just a braindead take, I read source and critique it like you should do with any information. Edit: I actually decided to go on google scholar and the studies there either show no difference in terms of divorce rates, a higher divorce for women with more egalitarian views or discordance in terms of whether one partner is for egalitarianism or traditio…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:21 PM
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I read the article, it doesn't say divorce rates are lowest for egalitarian marriages, it does say they have higher marital satisfaction which is in favour of your overall point. The only point were it goes into divorce rates in by Christianities which looking at the chart removing catholicism which is an outlier due to their strong stance against divorce, there isn't any strong correlation between how egalitarian(wrt marriage) the denomination is and the divorce rates. Edit: This is the link to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:13 PM
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Well, I mean reading between the lines of the clip, it seems like the trad mom is better overall if she has a man who respects and appreciates her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:13 PM
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Do you have statistics for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:45 PM
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This clip contradicts your point the family with the modern mom enjoyed the trad mom while the one with the trad mom still seemed to prefer the trad mom. Edit: I watched the whole playlist for added context and the trad mom was better, the trad husband and modern mom were both abrasive and annoying, that said the trad husband was worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:44 PM
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Foster care is rarely better than responsible parents The operative word is responsible, I don't think all single moms are bad and I think most of them would do an average to above average in some case job of raising their kids. I actually do agree with you that in most cases of single motherhood the blame should solely be put on the father. That being said there are some cases were the child would fare better in the foster system than with the mother, obviously this applies almost always to onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:43 PM
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I read the whole thing and their argument was a bad one. This is an appeal to ignorance in that the crux of the argument is arguing is that there is lost proof of a secret woman's contribution, it is a fundamentally unfalsifiable position.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:01 PM
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Lol, why? It is a pretty apt comparison considering wignats and feminists make similar arguments with respect to racial minorities and men respectively
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:06 AM
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There's a comparison to African American populations here that you would be uncomfortable making. I got a 3-day ban for making this exact argument in response to a post about male crime
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:50 AM
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Even Einsteins wife helped him with this theories but like many female scientists or doctors, they were allowed to have their work published and either had to use their husbands name or fake it This isn't true Einstein's wife had no hand in his work this is just a myth especially considering most of these ideas had been forming in his mind since his teenage years. There are not many female scientists who did what you mentioned only a minority of them, in the cases of women who worked with their …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:45 AM
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Women are often the ones raising kids and caring for the elderly in society While this is true, I'm not sure how this makes women better than men. If it is about societal contributions, a greater percentage of men than women are in STEM fields and these fields have contributed immensely to the reduction of human suffering. Men are attracted to very young women. There is a study on this were men had their penises hooked to devices to measure erections and majority of the men showed maximum attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 10:38 AM
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You should probably delete this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:32 AM
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Russia has literally no interest or reason to invade any other Eastern European country(at least right now). The reason Ukraine was invaded in the first place was because Russia was losing geopolitical influence there and the pro Russian forces fighting in eastern Ukrainian were going to lose. All of the other European countries surrounding Russia are run by decidedly pro Russian parties(Belarus and Georgia) or in NATO(all rest). Btw I don’t necessarily think Ukraine should surrender,although I …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:08 AM
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I just want clarify something before I respond in my quoted response the experiencing was meant to be expressing that was an error on my part. You are agreeing with me here that the belief is based in women’s nature being hidden, for whatever other purpose, intentional or not. I understand that not all manospherians think women are being maliciously deceptive, but you still believe that any woman who disagrees with this theory is wrong about her deeper true nature. It’s an unfalsifiable belief, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:17 PM
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The blackpill is just that looks matter the most in dating and have a significant(though not complete) impact on your life outside of dating. There is also the idea that looks is mostly determined by genetic factors, that being said most blackpiller belief you can enhance your dating outcomes through improving your looks by looksmaxxing(although it would be limited improvement in most cases), gaining money, status and other minor stuff. It does lend itself to hopelessness because the idea is tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:39 PM
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Yeah I am, why do you think that would contradict what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:29 PM
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If I have a woman who loves me that I’m fine taking on the tradition masculine role. Aside from that I want to be physically strong cuz I unironically like gymrotting and getting strong. I also have an ideal of masculinity that I like to live up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:27 PM
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The coherent manosphere ideology is that women have a “true nature” that is being hidden from the masses so that women can covertly manipulate society by claiming to be innocent. You can have different factions in the manosphere disagreeing over the details, but they all still share that belief. Except the blackpill doesn’t think this, the ideas behind the blackpill is that looks are the most important factor when courting a woman. The blackpill explanation for women not expressing this desire i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:20 PM
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I haven’t read the source so it may or may not be true but what does that have to do with the actual content of the paper
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:14 PM
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Women are both having less children/not having them and having them later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:30 PM
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I guess that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:24 PM
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How would that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:36 PM
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It deviates from the norm so it is considered weird, therefore it is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:53 PM
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It doesn't, you still have sex normally just that semen comes out from the perineal hole
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:52 PM
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How is anything he said feminist theory? His opinions are women are naturally and rigidly submissive to strong men and their desires caused the creation of patriarchy, I think most feminists would reject this and say it is the patriarchy that caused women to be that way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:35 PM
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Why are so many manospherians opposed to recognizing that they have an ideology? Well because there isn't a coherent manosphere ideology, there are different ideologies within the manosphere but a lot don't agree with each other. For example, blackpillers and MGTOW are opposed to PUA and the redpill, infact the blackpill arose in opposition to the ideas espoused by those groups vis a vis dating. Comparing manosphere dynamics to feminism is incorrect, it is more like comparing different philosoph…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:27 PM
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I don't think this should be under the debate flair, it should have been under discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:19 PM
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Do you mean this guy cuz he IDed as an inkwell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:14 AM
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Mgtow is fine, if it’s just men going their own way and not you know praising each other for writing mass murder manifestos and making bombs. Self identified MGTOWs haven’t been linked to any violence, those would be inkwells
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:02 AM
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Getting fat from pregnancy is also a process, it doesn't just suddenly happen. It happens because of increased sedentariness after pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:26 AM
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Okay I’ll concede that rapey is different from actual rape and that was the point you made from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:00 AM
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I can’t remember her name, I think the tab from before it was deleted is still opened on my laptop so I’ll have to check when I get back home
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:20 AM
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The first one is the only one related to rape, for the next two unless they have a component involving the woman being forced to do that aren’t related to rape. This is like saying a woman who is into femdom porn has a rape fetish or to say it like you: “no, I don’t have a rape fantasy I just like porn where a woman orders a man into pegging”. In those videos(the scenario I mentioned and the last 2), the consent is either explicit in the videos or implied in the videos
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:16 AM
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It’s not, there is a reason you had to specify Japanese to explain the style of porn you were talking about. Go on the sites yourself to see if it is like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:57 PM
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No, it’s not: https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2024-year-in-review, also I didn’t talk about porn in my response
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:54 PM
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I specifically talked about child sexual abuse not porn why you brought the topic back to porn, I don’t understand. As for “barely legal” and “stepdaughter”, they don’t even crack the top 22 of pornhub most searched terms: https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2024-year-in-review
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:54 PM
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It's not though, the men who commit child sexual abuse are a tiny percentage of the overall male population similar to the men that have a rape fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:07 PM
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JAV style porn is not mainstream anywhere outside of Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:52 PM
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Having a submissive wife isn't CNC though, you can say it is a covert BDSM relationship(although I won't say that) but not a rape fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:14 PM
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Tbh I think the mods were unfair to delete your post for that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:46 PM
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I don't know definitively but I'll say that rape is considered bad when men do it, far less so for female perpetrators, so if a man fantasizes about being a rapist he would shove those thoughts down/won't say it. As for men who fantasize about being raped, to be honest I have no explanation for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:44 PM
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That's how firefighting already is though, there is a gender-neutral physical standard that the vast majority of women don't reach. A woman tried to sue last year because it was gender neutral and most women couldn't pass it without extensive training: https://www.shrm.org/mena/topics-tools/employment-law-compliance/firefighter-physical-test
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:05 PM
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Plus, all we really have to do is just decide to make a combat draft a warcrime. The main reason we need drafts is because our people can't be convinced to fight (ex. American Nazi sympathizers in WWII). If the bad guys start drafting (enslaving their people), we can use that as an example of their crimes to help convince our troops to be against them. No one would really care about that enough to fight especially considering the fact that most wars in history and even today are fought for econo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:12 PM
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It's not bad boys, it is about looks in most cases, Alek Minassian has no fangirls because his looks are average. Not saying some women can't be genuinely into those guys but those women are often just criminals themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:45 AM
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The effort itself isn’t what makes you attractive it is if those efforts translate to tangible results. Also fitness and getting jacked will only give you limited results unless you were fat before
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:00 AM
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No amount of effort is going to attract a woman to you if you remain unattractive becoming more attractive is what makes you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:40 AM
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Why would you get ban this isn’t a rule violating post?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:14 AM
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Just don’t compliment women, it isn’t socially required even if it is a sincere compliment the risks of her flipping out at you are just not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:10 AM
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Because women don't have to approach men, even the most unattractive women get more attention than average men. Also women do engage in passport sis behaviour even before the passport bro movement: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sp84fX30UVg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:03 AM
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You can go to more than 3rd world countries(although it would be easier there). If you are a less attractive male geomaxxing/passport broing will make dating easier and very likely ensure you get women for the first time in your life, that being said your phenotype has to be the correct one to get the best response(lighter skinned men would have the best experience in the most places). Also the women would not necessarily desire a green card but a foreigner from a wealthier country especially th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:41 AM
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I don’t think it is about gender roles, just that men are more attracted to women than the reverse. Even in a scenario where women approached more most women would only go for a small subset of men for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:31 AM
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No, I specified younger people because it would he the most relevant point here since he talked about boys and girls, for men and women regardless of age group it is men more likely to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:58 AM
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The data is skewed cuz of older people amongst younger people(18-29) women cheat more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:49 AM
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Ah, I was just a bit confused cuz the rest of your post said something else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:46 AM
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Women are attracted to men who make them feel like a whole human and just some attractive object. Did you mean than instead of and?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:42 AM
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This is cap, in terms of looks attraction men and women are pretty similar with the exception that for the lust that men have for random women a man has to be one of the top guys to instil that reaction in women. Both men and women have both relative and absolute attraction, hence LA 5 and insert small town here 9
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:01 AM
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It’s interesting that you take is that he be honest while some other women here prefer not to know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:52 AM
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Wtf? Why did this happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:11 AM
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Implying that most 30 year old women are interested in younger men, they’re not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:56 PM
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Do the women tell you that your money isn’t enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:03 AM
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Wtf, I knew some of guys here were fucked up that's insane. Won't give even 1 plate of food to prevent his "exploitation", jfk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:55 PM
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Rejected a guy after a few dates because she didn’t like his pinky ring Absolute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:50 PM
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Another example is a passport bro bragging about how he didn’t want his Filipina sex partner to use him for food after they had sex so he ate 3 portions of food so that she would have nothing to take home to her impoverished family. This happened on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:44 PM
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Did you meet her on the apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:37 AM
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Sad truth tbh. For some men, looks are just not up to par to obtain a woman without betabuxxing or even worse escorting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:00 AM
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I mean, intoxicated rape also endangers society to some degree. I was asking because I have rarely seen anyone make the argument that both parties having drunken sex and one or both say they it was rape that it is not rape
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:52 AM
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If they’re both drunk then one wasn’t “taking advantage” of the other. They were both making a drunken mistake. Wait hold on, this doesn't make any sense. Like if two people are drunk and drive, in turn colliding with each other causing injury, they would both be guilty for impaired driving causing bodily harm. The same principle should apply to drunken sex, both parties should be guilty of rape
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:24 AM
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I'm surprised most of the pushback is from women especially bluepill women considering a lot of the things OP said particularly in part 2 overlaps with what is said by them here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:02 AM
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This is why you see so many women filing for divorce around menopause (early 50s). Its when the wife wakes up one day realizes she was duped into becoming a virtual slave. Meanwhile, the husband is "blindsided" because he was ignorantly happy with their arrangement. Most divorces get filed for within the ages of 25 to 39 and most first marriages that end in divorce end in 8 years so this idea of the old woman realizing she is a slave in untenable. The age of divorce is rising but that's because …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:29 PM
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The only people who say this are men who haven't gotten desire from women, just because you have to betabux and/or use social pressure doesn't mean attractive men have to do so. Since you are redpilled, I'm assuming this is satire based on what women say. I also wanted to add that the problem with your evolution/sexual selection part is you don't even know the basic of sexual selection. The genes in women would like to propagate themselves just like those in men as it turns out humans can't repr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:05 PM
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The reason why people like me are obsessed with looks is because it is the bar for if people(women in this case) care about your personality, it also makes dating easier for you. This is like asking why people who want to get into university focus on grades, grades like looks are the most important factor to be considered as a candidate. There is also the fact that things like compatibility can't be changed and if you do change your personality to match a woman it will affect your relationship i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:51 PM
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I’m not only interested in more attractive women, I’ve approached women who would be viewed as less attractive and didn’t get any positive results. Also while I don’t think most forms of looksmaxxing(improving appearance)will have significant results in most cases, I still do things that are considered looksmaxxing like going to the gym, skincare, haircut. I’ll give you the social access part though I haven’t done much of that recently
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:01 PM
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I'm not saying women have to compromise on it. I'm just giving the explanation that it is because of the man's looks women commit to the relationship and invest in it longer than is reasonable by overlooking glaring flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:24 PM
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I’m not advocating women date less attractive men and he doesn’t seem to be either just giving an explanation for the situation. I for one believe women have every right to chase Chad only but I’m against them overlooking bad behaviour in the men they like then blaming most men in the form of “the bar is in hell”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:50 PM
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The reason why the women stay in the “bar is hell” type relationships is the sunken cost fallacy after they meet a guy who they actually find physically attractive. You know if she was dating a sub-5 if that guy sneezed wrong she’s leaving. Obviously I’m excluding abuse since OP excluded it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:37 PM
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Not really, in the modern era at least it is just a sub-5/lower attractiveness male response to make up for women's looks standards Btw, I just want to clarify that I disagree with OP's central thesis but I don't think men trying to betabux is due to patriarchy in 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:52 PM
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Your pew Link is broken
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:22 PM
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I mean, I'm not saying nothing would work. Taking finasteride or getting hair implant surgery would work if you are balding, skincare/better diet would work if you have poor skin. I think gym and diet would work but to a limited degree and I think most men should try it because there are little negatives although the positive won't be drastic unless you stored a lot of fat on your face. Getting a significant amount of money will also work(although the attraction won't be genuine). My point here …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:45 PM
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We could go through them individually: Learn some social skills, practice flirty banter I count them as one, this stuff only matters after the woman is already attracted to you but I'll count it as working. go for that promotion Unless it is a large amount extra money from a promotion won't attract women to you have a salad instead of a 2nd chili dog This is about being fit but unless you are obese fitness won't matter much if you lack the face and height threshold be funny This can actually wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 09:25 AM
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I would like to point out that the lady in the video Ms. Lynn-Pope blames women for having unrealistic standards. That aside do you really believe that aside from basic hygiene stuff you listed here, most of this stuff are not going to improve men as sexual option in female eyes. There is no gym for your face or height, the main things that attract women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:20 AM
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That's not why the Athenian audience would have viewed it as a comedy, the play is filled with dirty jokes and the point behind it was satirizing the idea that men go to war for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:09 AM
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Yeah, the women in the play also wanted sex with their husbands, in fact one of the reason they start the strike is the dildo industry is affected by the war
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:05 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:59 PM
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I'll have to correct you this but the features that are selected in sexual selection isn't for aesthetics in most cases, they signal genetic quality expressed visually. Like antlers do have the function of defence from predators and rivals, that being said I understand your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:58 PM
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Yeah right now(although it is a really short one) but I also used my beardless pics and it still said I was 30
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:47 PM
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I'm 22 but it says 36, is it over <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:34 PM
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but their options for style and fashion are vastly limited compared to women. Really men should be able to use makeup (in fact makeup is a masculine concept) Style and fashion don't do much to improve the looks(by looks I mean sexual attraction not aesthetics) of either men or women. In general, beyond personal hygiene/grooming and gymmaxxing(which won't do that much to improve looks unless you are obese) men can't do much to improve their looks aside from plastic surgery. Not sure why you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:15 PM
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Soft looksmaxxing is improving looks without surgery, sorry for not explaining
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 10:38 PM
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The problem with this is that for both males and females soft looksmaxxing won't do much improvement beyond basic hygiene, women are already more attractive to men than the reverse without any improvement. I'm not saying gymmaxxing or using a beard to fraud a good jawline won't do anything, it will but only by a small amount(unless you're very obese)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:31 PM
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That may be true but the data he posted doesn't show that unless you think more guys should rate themselves as sub-5(which is a position I agree with though)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:21 AM
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How does the data show that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:02 AM
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Interesting that men and women perfectly agree except in the 4 and 5
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:02 AM
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Lol, this isn't too high a standard. I thought you'll have something like 6'8 but I guess the guy not being able to answer should have been a good tell
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:56 AM
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How old are you now and what was your list?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:18 AM
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No, I understand it, I'm assuming this is minimalism writing for you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:12 AM
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Why do you write like that? Like with each sentence as a paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:05 AM
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While I agree with you that sometimes the rating is a humiliation ritual and the looks scale isn't objective i.e. it isn't independent of human minds and/or experience but I think most people generally know where they stand if they are being honest even if they won't be super accurate. That being said I do think looks rating is better if a lot of other people rate you or someone who has studied looks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:04 AM
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I think it is fine advice in a case by case basis
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:53 AM
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Meg lolz
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:01 AM
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That’s relatively irrelevant to me, I wouldn’t feel good doing it, so I won’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:06 AM
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I’ll choose B just because I don’t think it would be moral to be a criminal element or have children in broken homes. Also I don’t want to add to the stereotype about black men being criminals and absent fathers. Also aside from the Disney world and accounting degree which are both of no interest to me, B life mogs me by having kissed 3 girls
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:15 PM
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For example: hinge does not allow you to swipe based on appearance. How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:36 PM
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I agree with the advice to use the apps less for most and not at all if your looks are really bad but my point is that more people are meeting through the apps these days it is about 40%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:57 PM
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I don't even agree with that guy that you should go on apps like that but 40+ experience is different from the 18-27 one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:08 PM
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Bots and also apps are low effort
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:01 AM
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The problem that lies in this is that people say you can't approach women in hobby groups as well because women just want to enjoy themselves and not be pestered by men. Also when a man inevitably has poor success from OLD people will tell him to get off the apps because obviously they are just looks based(which is true btw apps amplify the normal dating problems)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:56 AM
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His 1st point was based on the idea that people(mostly women tbh) spread that the bar is just treating women well, if this premise in true then women should fall for the first man who treats them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:53 AM
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I did both cold and warm approaching but what I am asking is about cases before the woman has made her response know i.e. when you approach a woman you like in a bar or a female friend of a friend. As for the looks improvement, I'm not saying nothing will work and you won't get an improvement but there people that even with improvements they will still be seen as unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:52 PM
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You don't understand OP's position, points 1 and 2 were in reference to the bar is in hell quote. His position was if the bar was truly in hell and the only standard was treat women as human beings then women should be attracted to random people in their circle. His second point was that people turn the supposedly only low standard that women have of just treat them like humans unto men as use it to insult men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:55 PM
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Few things how would you know a woman isn't attracted to you without approaching first? If it is about looks, there are men who have approached even women less aesthetically pleasing than them but get no positive response and those men don't have other women interested in them. Well if he's unattractive. He's likely not grooming, staying healthy, keeping up with appointments (orthodontics/dentist). Working on his style. Which are basic easy to do tasks that make you more attractive. That's kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:34 PM
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How would talking about your problems help in dealing with your problems, if you don't have an answer or a solution you will still have the problem making your life stressful. Also why do your title, body and conclusion all have different topic? As for accommodating women's feelings in regard to if they come to you with a problem, I think you should do so if you want a viable relationship with women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:09 PM
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Not everyone wants to be muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:00 AM
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It is important to me but not primarily in the sense of looking good(although I do like seeing my abs) but I care about being strong and physically capable so I gymrot and do running/sprint training. If this is about partner traits, I would most prefer a fit woman but beggars can't be choosers so I only care about her not being sloppy fat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:54 AM
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The problems with this statement are for men and women looks are the most important factors so it would be what matters most in picking a partner. There is also the fact that it assumes the good looking guy has an abundance mindset while the ugly guy has a scarcity mindset, sure a looks/blackpill aware ugly guy might try to make up in other areas but there are lots of deluded unattractive people and there are also attractive people with developed qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:10 AM
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Here it is fairly well expressed, when I say she hides her weight, that isn't a bad thing btw(men do it as well) just that a good tell that she is as fat as you would expect a 5'3 190 person to be is her calves and the hip to waist ratio is that of a fat person. This is the link to that person's post: https://np.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/b456dn/f2254_305lbs_190lbs_115lbs_weight_loss_progress/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:19 PM
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Andrew tate is so unattractive, how is getting any woman? He's tall, wealthy, fit and average looking. I don't think he would have trouble getting women especially since at least one of his ex-gfs has accused him of rape
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:02 PM
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She does well in hiding her weight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:46 PM
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I can't even get a woman to date me normally so it won't be logical to add restrictions, tbh I also don't care about any of those thing just about if I am physically attracted to you and you treat me well. As for most men, I think it is partly because both men and women don't care about money that much as compared to looks, women's higher desire than to date up and the different value of men and women in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:36 PM
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I can understand the 3rd and 4th one but why do you think a “powerful woman” would be more likely to the rest? I get you have experiential data but I can’t imagine being a boss babe type would make you more likely to be promiscuous or to keep fit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:33 AM
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is very racist even though he seeks out foreign women In many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:59 PM
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Was your dad handsome or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:57 PM
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It was about a man you know
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:53 PM
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No, I was influenced by what the critics of incels and the blackpill like r/inceltear and some femcels say: … the common retort against incels is they are attracted to fat and less attractive women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:00 PM
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You’re not fully understanding my position but I guess it is my fault for not explaining it. My attraction to women falls into 4 categories: women I am really attracted to and women be maximally satisfied with, women I am attracted to but won’t be as satisfied as the first(but still good/very good satisfaction), women I am not too attracted but can be somewhat satisfied, and women I just won’t do anything with. The women I am not as attracted to fall into the 3rd category, category 1&2 are women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:42 PM
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I approached women I didn’t find as attractive because I didn’t want people to have excuse that I’m not getting interest in women because I only want attractive women, I also wanted practice approaching women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:27 PM
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I’ve approached both pretty and not so pretty girls before I stopped because both apps and irl didn’t give me any results. I’ve never denied the disadvantages to being the recipient of interest I just think for the most part the advantage of being approached outweigh most of its disadvantages
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:15 PM
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There’s no such thing as a “standard woman” or a “standard man.” Yeah, there is generally most women will be approached by men IRL several times in their life while most men will not. On dating apps, most women will get several matches while most men will not. This is the equivalent to saying there is no such thing as a standard black vs white person with regards to socioeconomic status because there are rich blacks and poor whites
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:09 PM
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Men advantage: social norm is you are supposed to approach. Which means any person you approach is someone you probably find attractive. How is this an advantage? The burden of rejection is placed on males because of this, women’s role of being able to select suitors is the advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:53 PM
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Plus you didn't mention the first part why is that You mean the bad boys not caring? If so then obviously they don't because their goal is sexual pleasure. I wanted to add that I have seen u/half_avocado33's newer comment about her husband so the first sentence was mean speaking if I lacked the hindsight
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:17 AM
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These nice guys vs bad boys debate always miss is that women what the attractive guy first and foremost and a Chad nice guy will almost always beat out an average looking bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:04 AM
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The mainstream RP is in opposition to trad con christian ideal like marriage although it doesn't specifically attack christianity or any religion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:03 AM
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as a Catholic I was never taught to expect any earthly reward for goodness Yeah but you get the ultimate reward after death eternal bliss far surpassing any earthly gain according to the Catholic ethos.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:02 AM
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Lol, I don't think stalking is love, obsession sure but not love
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:57 AM
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Obviously its not 100% guaranteed especially in this passport bro situation but I was speaking in general
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:29 AM
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I personally see nothing wrong with passport broing but don't be one of those jabronis who can't find a woman he wants in his country and has to geomax then talks about how much of an alpha slayer he is while selling courses and ragging on unselected males.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:26 AM
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lol, I was way off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:23 AM
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You looked white in your pic so I'm assuming you're from Romanian?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:22 AM
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I mean traditionally some sort of spousal support is expected so the woman can take care of herself post marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:21 AM
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I mean, I'm not a trad man looking for a trad woman myself but what percentage of self-IDed trad women are actually trad even in church, most of them aren't virgins, aren't in favour of being stay at home wife/mom, wouldn't want to be led by their husbands and in some cases they don't even want to be mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:20 AM
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who is an absolute stunner I’m sure This was uncalled for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:15 AM
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A lot of the people on lady boners are gay men though. The guys posted on lady boners are also top % of men in terms of facial aesthetics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:02 AM
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Height is an important factor for women in dating, half of women will reject a 5’8 guy and the most preferred height is 6ft and woman want a guy 9.84” taller(link), so it is not just about the be taller than her meme. That said is height all that matters no but if you are 5’8 or less your height would matter and you will have to work harder to make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:24 AM
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That subreddit, it is so over
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:02 AM
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You mean gametes not genitals lol, I also wanted to add that the reason for choosiness isn’t about gametes size either but parental investment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:10 PM
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Yeah I did, but only the last one would be know without knowledge of her prior relationships either directly or indirectly by knowing the guys she dated
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:18 PM
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You wouldn't unless you know the guys she previously dated but that's the point the feeling won't be there unless the woman says something about it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:56 PM
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Both can be true but there is a difference between being settled for and feeling like it. Realistically most men are settled for by their partner to a certain degree because their looks, money, status might not be up to their partner’s ideal man would look like. That being said feeling like you are settled for is if the woman for one says so, treats you worse than her previous male partners or just all round doesn’t feel like she has to put in any effort to keep you compared to other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:33 PM
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I know you can’t say which player but how famous was he?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:19 PM
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*for women In online dating, the usual problems of the dating world get magnified, it is one of the few places were 80/20 isn’t just a meme but a reality. It can also get very depressing if you are male, you’ll invest a lot of time and money into these apps getting nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:10 PM
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I’m assuming you’re in bad boy/asshole category
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:46 PM
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Again looks, money and status(LMS) have a threshold that you have to reach to get women attracted to you. Focusing on them(LMS) to attract the opposite sex is no more cope than a woman who focuses on her looks to get men, she doesn’t somehow see herself as a sexdoll because of that especially when reality proves it is the most important factor for attracting men neither doesn’t it mean she’s attracted men who aren’t into her as a person just that there is a barrier for that to matter in attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:39 PM
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I read this part and thought it was nonsense. Cope is defined as a way to deal with the difficult reality of something. You yourself admitted that women are attracted to looks, money and status, so you accept them as part of reality, you just assert that those women are the worst women and say that people who focus on improving them are coping. The idea become even more ludicrous when you remember that most women don’t consider you as a mate no matter how good your personality is if you don’t me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:14 PM
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How is it cope? You don’t explain that and it seems the crux of your argument is that you don’t like that women are attracted to looks, money and status(personally I think women are attracted to looks while you get artificial attraction for money and status)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:01 PM
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This is some A rank trolling as usual windmill actually made me lol but her points are dumb. For one both people try to prove themselves/impress their date that is the point behind dating. Her second point is just stupid, people typically check if an endeavour is possible or there is a viable chance before investing into it so why should dating be any different. Finally for the last point, 200 dollars is a lot of money to spend on anyone you don’t know like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:38 PM
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This is an understandable perspective and while women would trust men more. There is also the male end where a lot of men are in like pseudo-relationships with their female friends not even about sex or sexual stuff just emotional validation like in a relationship if this validation is removed then less men would want to be in friendships with women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:52 PM
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This just becomes a friendship at best and an antagonistic relationship at worst. How long I can hold out depends on the reason why she said no sex if it is for a medical condition then as long as it remains. If it is because she just doesn’t want to and won’t or has no reason why, then I would break the relationship immediately. As for your second question, male-female relationship in a world without sex or intimacy, my answer depends on what intimacy means. If it is just sexual then while rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:00 PM
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I can reverse the question to you why marry and not feel a sense of commitment to uphold the idea of the marriage? That being said I will answer you question the context my comments were written in were in reference to if a man loses attraction/feelings for a certain period, lack of excitement or wanting to find himself(whatever that means), the man should stay because those feelings are likely temporary and would pass. Obviously when you get marriage you should do so with strong feelings of lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:35 PM
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Not necessarily you can have a sense of duty to just the idea of marriage i.e that people stay together for lifelong pair bonding
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:26 PM
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I don’t necessarily see it as duty to the woman but duty to the marriage and kids
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:12 PM
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I don’t think sexual/social conservatism applies to all conservative women just most because if you self-identify as a conservative you are likely socially conservative as well otherwise they’ll just be like your gf and ID as libertarian, centrist or classically liberal(although most of the people in this category just came out as conservative), also republican if you are in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:17 AM
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4 and 5 are just catcalling which does mean they are attracted to you but you likely don’t want that attention. 1,2,3 and 6 are all likely signs the man is attracted to you but aren’t what I would consider flirting or approaching. Flirting involves banter and approaching involves making your interest known
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:36 AM
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The only reason I can think of that most conservative men would be more attracted to liberal women than conservatives women is because they put out. Most conservative women even the ones that aren’t virgins are also religiously conservative and will want to wait till marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:33 AM
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Oh okay that’s what you’re talking about yeah gossip
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:18 AM
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Such as? What is the point of reference here? This assumes it’s a small town or high school. It’s far more likely in a small town or school setting(high school and university) but it can happen in a large city as well if you hang out around her circles you’ll hear rumours of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:15 AM
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If she cheats somewhat regularly she will have a reputation so someone that isn’t her friend will tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:06 AM
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lol, she’s a real person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:01 AM
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Tbh, you probably can't actually tell(unless you have a study) and people will just say this based on their biases i.e. a tradcon would say liberal women cheat more, while a liberal woman would say trad women cheat more. By way of actual research, it seems republican voters(conservatives) generally tend be more committed to non-married/engaged relationship(for marriage/engagement there is no differences in commitment btw libs vs cons) and they are also less likely to report cheating on their par…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:46 PM
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Is there any actual evidence of them cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:58 PM
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The heart is a muscle though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:31 PM
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I used to collect manga and old comics, are you attracted to that of course not, it is a weird, nerdy hobby. The hobby you like not only has to be attractive to women but it wouldn’t do much to engender them to you, it only acts to prevent loss of attraction if she was already attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:34 PM
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My disagreement is that character typically involves the thing that make you a good person but most women(people) don’t deeply care about whether or not you’re a good person just if they like being around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:28 PM
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Looks and *personality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:25 PM
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You can have sex with people you don’t love or even care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:21 PM
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Incels are blackpill not redpilled at least get that right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:57 AM
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I don’t particularly care but you brought up white women when no one was breaking it up into racial demographics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:24 PM
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It’s more of a racial attack
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:48 PM
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I would still date her although I would ask her to go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:20 AM
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recognizing that we were on unceded native land Most useless thing ever, if those people were actual in favour of native rights or land back they would withhold the vote for it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:51 AM
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What your friend thinks he looks like when he says that btw. Anyway, I can’t lie I think this guy is either fake and this is anti-female ragebait or the women you know are just awful people(or the guy is just adonis tier in looks)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:49 AM
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You mean the cumfart guy on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:59 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:53 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:16 PM
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You can objectively know people are beautiful without being sexually attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:10 PM
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Got em
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:00 PM
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But it was with another guy in your age range right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:52 PM
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Is this like consensual or CSA?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:47 PM
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some misogynistic behavior Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:42 PM
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Don't mind me asking but how are you still a virgin if you are bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:40 PM
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Your first study is about speed-daters, which by definition is a group of people specifically picking a partner based on immediate arbitrary traits. It's also specifically listing height in relation to the viewer, not overall height ... so a slightly taller male will genetically be likely to be a healthier male... Most dating studies either involve speed dating or online dating, second of all the participants were given time to get a feel of each other's personality(3 min) and even if it was onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:47 PM
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I don't particularly care about the physically dominant aspect of this description and the big muscles is just gymcel cope(although women general do prefer a fit, muscular boy to a point) but height is quite literally one of the most important factors to women after face and wealth is one of the few things that can make up for deficiency in other areas and both of this has been shown in dating studies. Most women including cynical women or feminists are not thinking like you in fact the exact op…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:57 PM
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The problem with this is a lot of women don't like it when men are their friends and try to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:52 PM
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Also, what you described is a form of celebration lol Fair enough but I don't think most people in the west at least would consider that celebration. I like how you're generalising across many different cultures. That may be the case for your culture but you're wrong if you're applying this to all cultures I wasn't raised muslim although I do have some experience in a muslim religious environment. As for the generalization, I mean most religious rituals are similar or the same across cultures wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:38 PM
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Most Islamic holidays prior to very recently with the commercialization of these holidays didn't really involve celebration just feasting, handing out sweets or ritualistic animal slaughter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:06 PM
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Does sugar daddying and pays 20k/year assumes other men do the same Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:18 PM
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Fit from fresh and fit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:35 AM
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Chad2Dad That guy’s account was depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:35 AM
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lol, isn’t that just Myron’s thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:32 AM
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I don’t think this is true sex is an experience with another person so you should strive to make your partner cum. I do agree that you should talk with your partner so they know what you like though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:03 AM
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First windwill post to inflame both men and women, well played
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:00 AM
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This isn't about redpill but there are only 2 human sexes, sex is based around what gametes you can produce i.e sperm or egg not chromosomes, chromosomes are the system of sex determination in human but the sex determination system varies based on species
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:59 AM
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My dad met my mom from cold approach, anecdotal I know but still just pointing out that it happened
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:59 AM
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First of all, I’m blackpilled not redpilled. Second, looks being the most important dating factor doesn’t mean a guy with bad looks can’t get women either due to luck or being exceptionally in other factors i.e. money, status, it means that looks have the most weight it dating and if you lack them you will need to make up far more than if you lacked other categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:57 AM
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Jfl, why would he add this to his post and then delete it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:03 AM
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Women of all ages will get attention/more attention than men around or close to their age group but it would be less that when they were younger
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:55 AM
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lol, I guess the OP edited that out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:54 AM
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This is nonsense and you know it, if you aren’t attractive as a man on those apps, no woman would swipe right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:48 PM
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I think the problem in this case is those women were having sex with other guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:11 PM
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Looks are quite literally the biggest determinant of dating success(i.e. how many dates/sex you get, how easy it was and the calibre of women you get), if you have bad looks it would hinder your ability to “get pussy”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:06 PM
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Oh okay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:31 AM
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Basically it was saying that out of a sample of divorced homosexual couples, 72% were female and 28% male. This is what OP said unless he edited it after: of homosexual divorces, 72% comprised of lesbian divorces compared to 28% for gay divorces in 2019 in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:30 AM
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Do you have the rates for lesbian v gay marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:21 AM
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Yeah but if you're gay it is a death sentence in a lot of places around the world, in the west you get discriminated for it more than a promiscuous woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:18 AM
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Because gay men are united in their community to fuck around and swing, to close ranks and support one another. Meanwhile lesbians bring 18+ years of slut shaming and pressure to bear children, and an affinity for fidelity they gay men don’t care about much, since they suffer zero risk of pregnancy and the lifelong freedom to fuck around and enjoy the title of stud. Why would any of this matter if you are a lesbian and the person you are with a woman and also has the experience of a woman so she…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:57 AM
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Are lesbians more likely to be married than gay men because if they are then this might just account for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:48 AM
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They would lol, a lot of non-european people look up to people of European descent especially if those European descendants are American
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:01 PM
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I don't hate men. 🤷‍♂️ Not saying you do just that line was a bad argument
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:55 PM
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I typically don't respond to her but this just rubbed me the wrong way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:46 PM
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The average American women suffer the same fate in SE Asia If it is an American woman of European decent she will slay like in America unless she is overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:42 PM
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Huh? Idk how I can hate men. I'm engaged to a man. My father is a man. My brothers are men. I'm around men all the time. If I hated men, why would I marry a man or even spend time with men? If a man had said this vis à vis women, you would notice the fallacious reason in this. You can hate a certain group of people while still having members of that group you like or tolerate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:39 PM
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I don't want you to say the bar is in hell and imply it is so easy for men to get women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:18 PM
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All you have to do is be yourself. This is nonsense and you know it, the men rejected for their face and height are all been themselves as the attractive males who get women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:15 PM
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I think average men will struggle but ultimately get women, the only men it can be said are doomed are sub-5s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:09 PM
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The problem with this is that we are talking about physical looks not the whole SMV. If you are saying that men should approach women with a lower SMV then this will work but the problem is that it will just artificially raise the SMV of the lower SMV women leaving the lowest SMV men with no options
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:10 PM
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I've been good with women since 2nd year of college when I met a milf at my MMA class and she really taught me to fuck. How would her teaching you how to fuck help with getting more date, the women wouldn't know you can fuck beforehand when you are trying to court them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:45 PM
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This is rather interesting, you say men don't approach worse looking women than themselves, he responds and says they do but you say that it is unlikely the men are better looking. This is circular reasoning: men get rejected because they approach women more attractive than them but when they approach and get rejected by less attractive women it is because the women were more attractive than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:42 PM
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It's about your looks, if you are sub-5, no matter how witty and respectful your approach if women will find a way to nitpick it while if you are a Chad you could go rather far in terms of rudeness and women will still respond positively. TLDR: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:27 PM
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Ask yourself why male sex work isn’t as common, lucrative, discussed, or shamed I don't agree with him but male sex work isn't as common/lucrative because it is easier for women to get sex and romantic relationships. Male sex work not being as common is why it is less discussed and part of why it is less shamed, the other part is the different way some people in society view men and women having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:42 AM
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Why do you know so many sex workers? Also this might just be a biased sample or they just don't talk about the negative effects, you can't just say they all became good we just don't truly know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:31 AM
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Never knew British people spelled skeptical like sceptical
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:54 AM
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I speak as a fellow escortmaxxer, it isn’t particularly dignified behaviour while I do agree with you that it hasn’t changed my opinion of women, I don’t feel particularly proud of myself whenever I do it and would prefer much to have done sexual stuff with a gf/wife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:06 AM
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Fat distribution, where it is on the body is irrelevant? Wtf It’s irrelevant in this conversation because we are talking about bodyfat percentages at which fat would begin to accumulate noticeable around the trunk for women So almost all cultures finding both curvy and skinny women attractive on a large scale can be proof for the healthiness of them. People are attracted to markers of health and fertility sure and yes it is true that visual markers of those traits generally align with health but…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:28 PM
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It depends on where the fat is stored, if it’s in a feminine distribution around the legs and butt that’s way different than excess fat around organs, a 30% body fat healthy woman would just look curvy, female body fat works differently with the rest of the body and endocrine system But a woman who stores all her fat in the waist, around organs would not be healthy at 32% body fat, no 18-32% is a pretty standard recommendation in medicine The differences between android and gyroid fat distributi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:40 PM
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Toxic masculinity is a two way street. How does this relate to toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:13 PM
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It’s worth noting that men and women are not the same biologically. Women can be healthy at 18-34% body fat, and men can be healthy at 10-18% body fat. That’s why about a 1/3 of men like skinny thin women, and about 1/3 of men want thicker curvy women (me). A woman at 25+% body fat would have surpassed the healthy range at 30+% she would be obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:03 PM
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Sure but losing bodyfat will increase endurance, that being said during that same period, I went from a 95lbs paused bench to a 275lbs paused bench, a 185x5 deadlift to a 565lb deadlift and 145lbs squat to a 405lbs squat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 04:03 PM
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Eh okay, then I apologize
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:45 AM
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I know just joking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:49 PM
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I have been 25+% bf and now I am 17% bf, I lasted the same length
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:49 PM
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I really do think that young women should be given a vibrator when their get their periods Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:44 PM
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Tested them 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:31 PM
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• ⁠Stamina(get your ass on the treadmill once in a while) No amount of cardio will stop you from cumming too quick
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 11:09 PM
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I just try and reach my daily goals depending on the day, sometimes I aim for 250kcal, sometimes 750kcal but most of the time around 300. I personally mostly do LISS(unless it is my conditioning day) as well and just do as much cardio as you want depending on your goals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:58 PM
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Obviously it works in that case because the man is so much more financially well off and has higher status than the woman but the attraction will be inauthentic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:58 AM
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Looks is the most important factor for both men and women in choosing a partner, that being said I should have said more likely and wrote less in absolutes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:57 AM
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Nah, the exact opposite for looks at least. If a woman is significantly more attractive than you, she would be intensely aware of that either on her own or because friends and family tell her and she will look for a better option, the only way to counteract this is either be around/greater in looks than the woman or be significantly more than her in either status or looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:13 AM
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When I said it applies to most men I meant most men likely haven’t heard about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:07 PM
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Bruh, I haven’t even heard about this Blake lively shit and I think that applies to most men, this is to say most men don’t know about this drama
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:04 PM
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luxury fashion Did you just forget you wrote this? Lilith is right your statement is contradictory, it feels like you only responded because your gf is in the subset of "High maintenance feminine women" and you feel the need to defend her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:16 PM
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Yeah but it wasn’t because he did that, it was because he didn’t trust God at the desert of zin (source)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:39 PM
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No, Moses literally commanded genocide against the Midianites and kept the virgin girls as sex slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:10 PM
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I was just wondering cause I was thinking that people would be more careful about that stuff because of HR
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:27 AM
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The problem is that women sometimes say men who are undesirable are that way because they can sniff the bad personality(desperation or misogyny) instead of the obvious factor in most cases that they are just physically unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:17 AM
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The men at your work say stuff like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:10 AM
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This is actually a point in OP’s favour since this means women don’t have a personality detector that works effectively
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 01:53 AM
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I never said I approve of or disapprove of the age of consent being 16 or 18, I just brought it up to show that in most western societies the age of consent doesn’t match the age of adulthood. Frankly raising the age of consent to 18 or 21 worldwide won’t affect me because I haven’t had sex with normie women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:56 PM
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What’s funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:47 PM
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In most of the US and western societies, you can freely have sex with 16 year olds as an adult, so this is a strange point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:46 PM
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There is no style for your face or height, unless you are just completely neglecting your appearance like not doing normal grooming stuff, style won’t improve your looks much
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:00 PM
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you even got the tall dark and handsome thing going on I personally would never go this far, I’m also not tall(5’8.5”), that said my point is that you honestly look perfectly average
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:28 AM
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You’re height is going to be an issue in dating and I won’t pretend about that but aside from that you are perfectly fine in the face and do factually look better than me. As for your obesity, while the BMI does say you are obese according to your stats, that is fixable and it isn’t that bad on you because your weight didn’t go to your face much. PS: I just now sent you a photo of me in your chat and yes, you mog me(facially at least)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:05 AM
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You’re not ugly just average looking, honestly you mog me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:37 PM
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Is your pfp the female version of Riley from boondocks?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:41 PM
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If the woman is a bad person sure but aside from that women want the men they love/are attracted to, to love them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:41 PM
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But “one bad apple” doesn’t mean “apples are bad, watch out!” I’m not sure I’ve heard people use it against a race, because it inherently acknowledges that apples themselves are “innocent” and that they become worse due to the actions of an individual, IF that individual is allowed to remain unchecked in their social circles. It's less common today because the "race realist" types have just come out as racist but early in the anti-woke movement it was quite common among those circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:51 PM
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While all of the things you said about the difference between black people and men with respect to the analogy are true, I don't think the matter much in the analogy, aside from the second point. Can't someone just use the same point for men that the only men you need to worry about are men who came from bad environment? All of this being said I actually kinda agree with you in your other comment and think the anti-male comments by feminists while they might come off as hurtful, they don't matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:47 PM
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Jameela Jamil's analogy was the same as "one bad apple spoils the bunch". The "One bad apple" analogy and the "box with shit" analogy being the same doesn't mean that apples and shit are the same thing. Basically, her analogy was just referring to how harmful behaviour is very common, and how it is hard to tell the difference between a man who may be a threat and a man who won't. Given her history of eating disorders, anxiety, and depression, as well as her modeling career, I wouldn't be surpris…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:26 PM
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It's possible that is what she meant although I doubt it because she responded to me and didn't raise your objection
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:55 PM
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If you think women valuing a man for his height is shallow, a man valuing a woman for a woman's weight is equally shallow. I put shallow in quotes because I don't really think wanting any physical trait is shallow even if that is all you want in a partner. If you don't want to fuck, date or marry a woman bevause she's not skinny, why is it a problem when a woman doesn't want want to date, fuck nor marry a man who's not tall? It's not a problem for me but I listed the reasons why people bring up …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:54 PM
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First of all, I do not understand why people see a man's height and a woman's weight as synonymous to eachother. The 2 are entirely different things. Because a woman's weight and a man's height are physically factors related to the body that men and women respectively place a lot of stock in but less so for the woman's height and man's weight. I believe when guys challenge women in this way they are telling them "I can have my preferences, but you can't have yours, therefore, you need to appreci…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:39 PM
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I understand this was meant to be glib but you’re assuming he wouldn’t label things in gay porn as also a biohazard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 08:07 PM
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How is it exploitative in nature? If she were a prostitute or her OF was losing subs and she needed to do something outrageous to feed or pay her rent I would understand but that wasn't the case, her OF was doing well and she didn't have to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:27 PM
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This isn’t true at least on social media, most of the women be they rad fem, conservative, trad con or left wing, say that she’s a victim and the men exploited her. Heck, some of them have even gone as far as compare her to Gisèle Pelicot. I also don’t think you can say the men are more disgusting, they are either as disgusting as Lily or slightly less so unless you are talking about the guy who went last, he is more disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:20 PM
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It depends on the information surrounding the case, if the accuser is credible, it also depends on if he seems like the kind of person who does something like that(unnecessarily touching kids or women, making perverse comments etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:14 PM
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I don't necessarily think his friends offer drugs to take advantage of addicted women, it seems the same as offering alcohol in a party which is to say they do it because they think it is fun to do drugs and their guest might also want to do some. There is also the fact that if these women wanted drugs only, they could get them on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:54 AM
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Yes, I would still pursue relationships because one, prostitution is still illegal in most countries, two, using the services of escorts isn’t a very dignified thing to do and I personally would not want to do it for the rest of my life and three, I want someone to love me and to love on a romantic level. That being said if I reach 30 and have no gf, I would resign to my fate and continue escortmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:39 AM
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You should if you see it as accusatory
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:22 PM
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This doesn't make any sense, he is a lawyer people including criminals usually tell their lawyers everything about the situation so they can offer the best defence possible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:21 PM
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Christ both of you guys are insufferable, this is the Lisak study and this is the Kelly study
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:17 PM
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I understand it is suggesting infidelity and who would do such a horrible thing. You already gave the reason why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:03 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:57 PM
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Conservative women seem to be more attractive considering all your categories just because liberal women would be more likely to be in favour of body positivity and eschewing beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 10:00 PM
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Perhaps there is a critical mass where sexless men would resort to mass violence but that bar has to be very high
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:33 AM
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No, I don’t think women have a moral duty to reproduce. I also don’t think in modern society men without mate are going to resort to violence on mass, there has been like only around 8 incel attacks since the term became a thing in 1997, sexless men will just cope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:27 PM
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You should have done this for RP men only since the post is about young RP men. That said I myself am young 22, single, inkwell. I can’t vouch for the general trend of this sub since I have no demographics data though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 12:24 AM
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Your title and your closing statement ask different questions so I would answer both Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex? No, I believe most men, average guys(4.5-6) that struggle in dating do so because women are just generally picky and don't desire sex/relationships as much not a specific fixation on 666 Chad. For men like myself(sub-5s), it is just a matter of being physically unattractive not because of 666. do you believe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 07:17 PM
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Men basically have to not be highly abusive in order to get a partner. The fact that that so many men claim they can't find a partner is a measure of how many men are potentially highly abusive, not how many men are considered repulsive. Yet all the abusive men including criminal elements still easily get women. Looks not personality are the biggest determinant of dating success but you are here implicitly saying that all the men without any dating success is because they are abusive, even thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:35 PM
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Looks are fixable. I say this as someone who did glow up. Cosmetic work, gym, braces and skin care. Looks are fixable and you can change your style, your hair, your body weight. Guys who aren't as tall can slay if they have a nice face. No, looks mostly are mostly immutable, all of the things you listed only work if you have the potential already, style in particular will give you little headway in the looks department
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:29 PM
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Find it funny that you use this to be like I'm not like other guys. Could it be that the women who say stuff like this are just picking terrible guys and overlooking their flaws until after the break up because they are attractive or other factors like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:19 PM
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First guy is that fuckboy guy i have seen on tik tok. Second guy is Sean O'Pry. I think first guy is good looking but only has niche appeal due to his race. ... I think Pete Davison slays more than either of them unironically. He's way more normal looking which is going to be more appealing to most people. This is nonsense, Austin Dunham has done several dating app experiments(actually has a whole playlist) and not only does he get a lot of matches like hot female tier, the women are also of a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:28 AM
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What do you think this guy or this guy is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:40 AM
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He has good qualities like his jawline and decent ones like neutral canthal tilt but has some bad features like his nasolabial folds(likely due to his smoking), long mid face and bags under his eyes. He's not ugly like people say though he's like a 5 at his worst and a 6.5 at his best. That said subjective preferences apply which is why you say he is an 8
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:46 AM
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If all of those men are ogreish, I am a literal ape. All those men were at least a 5 and had fame and success, while Tatum, Lautner, Patterson were all 7s in their prime even Davidson was very tall and had rumours of a huge cock
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:10 AM
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Yeah, I would, that said I won't marry her until the debt is gone. I'm current not broke but also not financially stable as I am in university
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:17 AM
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Oh, I knew
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:19 PM
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Lol, BMI is a bad measure for fatness, honestly visual in mirror is better than it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:13 PM
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An average man who is 19-21 BMI would be extremely skinny and undermuscled
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:01 PM
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Chads are just attractive men, the cope is that Chads are more likely to be or are all assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:36 PM
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This is anecdotal evidence that only describes your experience so it is fairly useless. As for Chad being a bad person, that is cope by undesirable men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:20 PM
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How do you know it doesn't influence your view of women? Did you ever in your adult life not watch it for over a month? Yeah several times although not for long though just like 2 months at most, I usually also do No-Nut November but I didn't do it this year. I know it doesn't influence my views because my views on women have mostly remained the same since before I discovered porn and masturbation at 13(aside from blackpill ideas).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:49 AM
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I would if I thought porn did influence my view of women in a noticeable way but it doesn't and I can't see myself succeeding in getting into any romantic/sexual relationship with a woman anytime soon let alone the caliber of woman you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:04 AM
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I agree but there are a lot of people who would prefer the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:45 AM
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Having no partner at all is worse to some people especially if you’ve spent a long time being without any romantic prospects
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:39 AM
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People in the former category aren’t staying in those relationships because they are miserable, it’s because they have negative personality traits. For the later, low self esteem or an understanding that they can’t get any better partner
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:16 AM
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Lol, her profile is pretty unique so that didn’t help much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:45 PM
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I wouldn’t say I am in favour of it but I’m not opposed to it either. The problem with this is someone can just lie about a person cheating and I also don’t think it should be in the domain of the state to regulate fidelity. That said if the list uses definitive evidence of cheating and is a community organization thing I don’t see anything wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:43 PM
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Not really, the blackpill is about looks and its supremacy in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:57 PM
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For the same reason you're likely here, as a pastime
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:40 PM
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Could you bring up examples? Because the only other context I can think this is common in is if again a dating experience topic is posted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:11 PM
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I only do so if someone asks me about my dating experience, I would assume the same applies to other men who have done the same. As for the point, if someone asks a question do not respond honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:06 PM
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shut on ? But either way that clip is just an example. The larger point still holds Sure dating as a woman can be exhausting but it is a breeze compared to dating as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:48 PM
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The woman complained about getting cliché dates while the average male and her looksmatch complain about not getting dates, even when they do get dates the woman expect him to plan everything. Also none of the dates she went on were bad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:48 PM
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I only put it there as proof it is possible, I’ve remove it since you’re not going to view it. It works by removing the actual fleshlight from the plastic casing first
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:34 PM
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It's not anatomically impossible to do the solution, I actually checked pornhub for it and there are a few videos of this scenario. I would assume it won't hurt though since the fleshlight is soft and not that big in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:33 PM
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Can’t lie even I thought that was weird
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 11:57 PM
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I guess this is the problem with anecdotal/experiential evidence because in most of the relationships I see the woman is less attractive and/or fatter than the man aside from in trad relationships(i.e mennonites/amish, muslims or Orthodox Jews), their women are far more attractive than the men in most of the cases I have seen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:38 PM
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Yeah but most women(like men) want monogamous relationships so they enter LTRs with men that are at least average looking(which is most men). The below average men would need either be lucky or be exceptional in other areas to get partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:35 PM
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Most men have sex and LTR. So why are you pretending its a huge factor? America is a fat country and guess what? Most of them are fucking. Because it is a huge factor, the average looking male will struggle to get a relationship or sex especially if he a wants a woman at or around his looks level. The below average looking male will get nothing unless he is exceptional in another area like financial success So it turns out women can have different beliefs Yes but you ignored this: Now you can sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:45 AM
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The reason why people criticize women's advice or at least why I do is because it downplays looks(particularly the unchangeable aspects that make the bulk of the looks factor) and can sometimes be contradictory. Even in your own post you say nothing about how face, height and ancestry play a role in dating, not that personality doesn't matter but the former 3 play more of a role in entering a relationship. As for the contradictory aspect, women say they don't want to be approached in bar/clubs b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:41 AM
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Man come on, you know wlw relationships are not the same dynamics as straight ones
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:07 AM
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Yeah but there is a huge difference between 60 to 100% tariffs on China(his original plan ) vs 10%. One will be incredibly damaging while the other would lead to negative outcomes but far less bad. Also there is no evidence to suggest China bribed him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:21 AM
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You are still talking about a smaller percentage. I would say 25-30% of women care about looks. Half of all women reject a man for being 5’8, 90% do so for 5’4, while only less than 2%(1.55%) reject a man for being 6ft.(source) Looks equally predict the choice of romantic partners in men and women, and it is also the major motivator in mate choice(source) 10-20% care about finances If this was true, then an increase in finances won’t lead to increased attraction even when you have factors holdin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:17 AM
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No, women still have high standards for the shit that mattered the most, looks. Even the money stuff women generally either don’t care or prefer a man make more not the case you said and lol the vast majority of women still have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:44 AM
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Someone probably told how ubiquitous Chinese imports are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:35 AM
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Why is this the second pro cheating post today?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:41 PM
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Sex is expected in a relationship, if you’ve spoken to your spouse/partner about this and they do nothing about it for a long time then you are in your right to leave that relationship. Cheating is dishonourable behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:36 PM
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Why do you say she is not a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:42 PM
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I tracked down the primary source your source used for it information here, the data seems to be fairly out of date because the most recent CDC data on this reports that 47.3% of women vs 44.2% of men report violence(sexual, physical or stalking from a partner) but from physical domestic violence it is 42% of women vs 42.3% of men report physical domestic violence. There is also the study that reports women are the perpetrator of non-reciprocal DV but the study is fairly old and reports on young…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:41 PM
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The only religious affiliation in the US that does circumcision as part of their religion authority is Judaism, the churches have never performed or pushed for circumcision if this was a thing it would have been so in Europe as well. The only reason why circumcision is popular in North America is because of the works of Jonathan Hutchinson and Harvey Kellogg, heck female circumcision used to be a somewhat common thing is the US as well but fell out of favour, all in all no mainstream christian c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:12 PM
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Influencers are in complete control of what is being shown, so there is literally the problem of a life being shown to people when the life isn't real, and really hasn't been real. The whole point of influencing is to show an idealized version of your life so as to influence others to do it, the other stuff won't get hits on social media. All of the young, influencer (mainly women) advocating for this lifestyle are young. Where are the older "trad wives?" Social media is for young people general…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:12 AM
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Oh shit, how is this still up, lol. Anyways I think age of consent should be when a person can understand what sex is and the consequences of it, in most western states including in most of the US, it is 16 and I think that is a fine age for legal age of consent that said I think socially it should be looked down upon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:48 AM
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Lol, you came back
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:35 AM
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From both of his links just use ctrl+f
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 11:47 PM
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The body part he is expecting her to change does not effect him. The body part she is asking him to change can maim or kill her, and she's only asking him to change it if he wants to use it in a way that can maim or kill her. It does affect just not to the same degree that the vasectomy would, it is like if you neighbour releases toxic fumes that enter your house vs if they have an unkept yard both will affect you just that the former is a far greater degree because it can kill you while the lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:43 PM
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It seems like you and most of the people here just can't understand OP's point. His point being that when men and women are in similar situations the responses are different, for example the responses you gave here to his comparison between vasectomy and a more minor aesthetics change: These are usually relationships in which the man actively wants to have sex. It's not entitlement to the man's body, it's a boundary: "I do not want to have sex with someone who doesn't care about the health risks…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:15 PM
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Ozempic works by making you feel full so you eat less, eating less=indiscriminate weight loss(fat+muscle) and what makes a butt not look droopy is muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:54 AM
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I don’t know you personally so I can’t say if your personality is terrible, you might just not know how to engage in conversation with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:09 AM
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If this is true then it is your personality except unironically this time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:05 AM
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If women are not attracted to you, you are below average
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:34 PM
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What country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:51 AM
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I don’t know game theory never learnt it so I don’t know how it explains that the asker should get higher quality matches
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:40 PM
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The dating curve is 100% worse for men as well, women get higher quality and quantity relationships than men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:18 PM
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Men always talk about having to have muscles and being super tall, because looks is the only thing that arouses them but how women are rarely interested in a guy who is hyper focused on his gym workouts (because men are talking about the things that arouse them in women - looks, body, etc) The reason why gym doesn't work is that having a gymmaxxed body is low in the priority of what attracts women physically, it is faceheight>body. As for being tall, that does increase your attractiveness to wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:14 PM
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This applies to relationships as well, why you think dating translates to only sex, men struggle more than women in dating as well. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationship is c*pe
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:09 PM
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This should be under the Automod, you're agreeing with him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:06 PM
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You said violence, I haven’t done anything violent in this exchange including violent words
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:35 PM
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So your argument is that a lot of men are hitting their spouse as a first resort?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:26 PM
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How does this relate to anything the OP said?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:21 PM
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Log off and go get some beers with some dude from work. Drinking alcohol makes you a subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:13 PM
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No, men lower their standards because otherwise it would be impossible to get a woman for a relationship or sex unless they were a physically attractive man. Also the only time men get pissed about their dating success is when they literally have no success.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:42 PM
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In fact this is already happening, and it's heartwarming to see young men turning out for Trump and Vance, who will do tremendous work to attack feminist and leftist interests. I've said it before and I'll say it again politicsc*ping is the worst cope of all, just watch Rehab Room's video on it/the election
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:33 AM
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Lol, the person in the second post said the same point over and over again, did you get these comments from this sub? All that said it is great that women are now openly saying this since it exposes the contradiction of the advice given to inkwells and men with poor dating success that "real life isn't like online dating" and to approach women IRL instead of online.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:31 PM
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6 degrees of Kevin Bacon ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:43 PM
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You should watch what people, not just males or females, do not what they say. That said lol at this: Height doesn't make a big difference Height is very important to the point that 47.8% of when will reject a male for being 5'8 but only 1.55% of women will do so for a 6ft man(source).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:06 PM
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Could you point to anywhere in my comment I said a statement in opposition to this? Because all I said lifting weights is one of the healthiest things you can do(which it is) and that the act of building muscle and strength will give you health benefits in and of themselves independent of the leanness and cardio benefits of lifting. Obviously the healthiest training modality is lifting and doing cardio
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:39 PM
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Lifting and building muscle/strength is quite literally one of the healthiest things you can do and it is positively correlated to longevity and inversely correlated to all-cause mortality independent of cardiovascular health and leanness. Protein powder is neutral to health, yeah steroids are almost always universally bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:05 PM
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I'm fine dating an older woman seriously but they aren't interested in dating younger men even if it is for a marriage/ltr, heck they might be more adverse in that scenario than for hookup because of the views on older woman-young man relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:58 AM
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Hell men can punch few points above their SMV if they are willing to string post along 30 something women along for few years. Post 30 year old women are not interested in younger men, if they were I would date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:51 AM
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This is true but Paul also rejected circumcision later in life when writing Galatians, that it wasn't required for christianity(Galatians 5:2)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:03 PM
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I'm personally an atheist, I just said that because this isn't the kind of thing catholics typically harp on but I can see evangelicals and baptist doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:42 PM
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Catholic. Didn't expect a catholic to insist on this thought be would be evangelical or baptist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:16 PM
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a BIL threw a fit and demanded that my sister circumcise their sons. Why, what religion was he? Also don’t answer if it’s prying/private but none of the guys you had sex with in your community didn’t have a circumcision?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:30 PM
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You wrote lavish dates though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:42 AM
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So you are aware that Chad can get women even when poor and has no prospects but you preach stuff like this? The truth is if you are a man you should boost your attractiveness first and foremost but should also focus on being put together not like top 1% HVM but just be able to live/support yourself as an adult. If you can get a woman like this(even if it would be a struggle) then you are likely below average and achieving top 1% success would only get you gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:34 AM
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Bad looks are what will hamper you dating potential not failing at the patriarchy or capitalism. A broke Chad living in his mom’s basement will pull a greater quantity and quality of women than a trucel making 250k+/year
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:47 AM
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The person I responded to is literally talking about a woman exchanging sexual favours for drugs that seems like it fits the definition of degeneracy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:33 AM
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Lol, I think this comment was for the OP, I'm not him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:27 AM
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That’s incredibly degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:25 AM
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People including women say you shouldn’t ask your friends out though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:18 AM
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Looks as in the physical mostly immutable stuff like face and height is the only thing that can be closely described as everything for men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:02 PM
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None but the same applies to MGTOW, they haven’t actually done any violence. What I’m saying is if violent words count as men wanting to harm women despite no real world violence, then 4B saying violent words should count against them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:19 PM
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Best comment about MGTOW here most of them are MSTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:53 PM
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MGTOW hasn’t done any real world violence though, if violent words count then 4B should as well since Korean ones say stuff like men should be castrated
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:51 PM
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Babe wake up another election post has dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:31 PM
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Black men who are criminal elements and thugs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:22 AM
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Weightlifting Olympic weightlifting or just lifting weights?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:04 AM
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RMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:39 AM
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Suspected as much, was he religious and you’re not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:42 AM
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Would you prefer a reformed lothario catholic or a virgin atheist?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:41 AM
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Why didn’t it last long?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:40 AM
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lol, I wasn’t insulting you this was just a joke, I don’t care how you pass time. Besides brainrot content on this Reddit and 4chan is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:46 AM
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Girl, if don’t stop playing, I see you on here regularly so unless you’ve been in a hotel for over a month this is just c-word(that rhymes with rope). Also you can just pirate or use internet archive for books
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:39 AM
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Most of the women here are going to say some variation of they can’t have passionate sex with a man they don’t know. Edit: lol, I was wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:30 AM
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Blackpilled is just about looks mattering the most in dating/life, it isn’t about the best or worst of humanity considering all humans judge based on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:20 PM
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That man is literally a wealthy socialite(not a loser by definition)so I doubt his experience reflects that of the average male that said I would concede that flukes and other factors apply even if looks reign supreme
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:30 PM
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Why should men rejoice at a falsehood?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:18 PM
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I would be working with or without this scenario but if it is for someone I love that loves me back(and is my ideal) I would be happy to provide
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:30 AM
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Who said I don’t want to? If a woman is at least a 4 she is attractive enough for me to go on a date with to see if her personality is good enough for something further
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:33 PM
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If a woman approaches me I'll assume it is a prank but if it is done earnestly and I would go on a date with her if she is at least around average looks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:40 PM
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Chad just means an attractive male and I doubt you will say attractive males don't exist, so no, Chad is real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:59 PM
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Are the men more attractive than the women in those scenarios?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:00 PM
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This is dumb, women are most attracted to men who are significantly taller than them(as they become taller the height gap decreases but they still want tall men). The same with everything else educated, wealthy, ambitious women generally want men who are at least on their level and ideally greater. Edit: Obviously if you are a Chad, the non-physical stuff will matter less
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:54 PM
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The RP/FnF guys typically say that the woman obeying the man's authority and following him as a leader is submission
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:11 PM
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When people talk about 80/20, they aren’t talking about love but sexual attraction till date aside from you I have never seen anyone refer to it about love. With all that in mind it is true, that most men are attracted to most women while most women are not attracted to most men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:54 PM
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Harley Quinn is only there because she everywhere these days even in comics she's overused. As for bad boys/shitty women, both men and women are attracted to attractive people regardless of character but want attractive kind people over attractive assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:59 PM
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Women don't fuck assholes and settle with nice guys, they fuck attractive men(that they can get) and settle with attractive husband material guys(that they can get). To answer the woman's question I would want to be neither the asshole or nice guy but if I am forced to pick I would be the asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:14 PM
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Best post, Chads get approached regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:29 PM
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Why is she against male-female interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:26 AM
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t.Focusing on gaining knowledge makes you insufferable Sex addict
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:52 PM
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Those men are just sex addicts in my view, are you a virgin for religious reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:41 PM
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It was joke…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:21 PM
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I’m talking about right now like if a woman lives in an anti-abortion state and kills her newborn because her other kids would starve, would you say it is moral?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:25 AM
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Is infanticide okay as well like if the baby is a newborn or really young <12 weeks not a gotcha just a question because the justification for abortion is typically bodily autonomy not utilitarianism
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:14 AM
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You’re the first modern communist I have seen with this conservative sexual ethos
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:56 PM
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It's too late once people are given freedom this is what they would do drink, sleep around and do drugs(things that give pleasure), if hard drugs didn't have side effects as bad as they do people would do them. It isn't your job to fix society
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:26 PM
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I’m an atheist but we need sharia law now Nah we need the code of Justinian, America is a christian nation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:02 PM
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Marxist Wants religious law ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:01 PM
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Dude aghanistan has been a shit hole before america even touched it. The soviets where there in the 80's. This isn't true, while the Afghanistan was communist it saw improvements in leaps and bounds both in terms of social and economic progress. In fact unlike what you seem to be implying the time of conservative islam espoused by the Taliban didn't exist in Afghanistan that much even pre-communist rule(by the time of the communist government, it was going down dramatically) till the US and UK f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:58 PM
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This is dumb, most violent crime has nothing to do with acting irrationally because of signs of dissent or insults. Most violent crime is murder due to gang violence which is motivated by economic factors, I would venture to say that only a small percentage of violent crime is due to your scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:49 PM
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All that would happen from this is fisherian runaway, the old top 20% of men would become average ad infinitum. There is also the fact that unless you are in favour of extensive harems there won't be enough top 20% men for all women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:44 PM
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Assuming this was true which we don’t have any reason to believe either way, it isn’t a reason to oppose joint custody, if either parent wants less time with the child or it seems best for the welfare of the child for them to have less time then it can be adjusted in family court
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:07 PM
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Why do your parents live with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:45 PM
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Prediction: most of the women here would pick handsome and faithful
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:09 PM
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Lesbian porn is also made for men though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:31 PM
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… big throbbing dicks that are being pleasured and stimulated and cumming everywhere? You forgot to say pause
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:30 PM
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Okay so if a man hits is wife because see does thing, btw in both cases the thing that set off isn’t previous violence just something like talking back to them or the offending partner gets jealous seeing the abused around the opposite sex. You still don’t think it is abuse in this scenario with the clarifications?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:25 PM
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If a woman attacks her boyfriend anytime he does something to “set her off”, do you agree with me that it is abuse? If yes, should he be allowed to go and get his pistol to blow her brains out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:57 PM
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I am saying the man who hates sluts can have regular casual sex with sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:15 PM
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Can you do it enough times to be a fuckboi tho? To be called Chad? Yes actually, there is a difference between sexual attraction and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:56 AM
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President Harris (not trump) wants to decriminalize prostitution kind of ironic isn’t it. She doesn't lol, she just says and agrees to whatever she thinks would get her votes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:39 PM
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No, you can have sex with people you hate or don't respect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:21 PM
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I'm neutral towards them, if it comes to dating them(implying that I ever manage to ascend) it depends. For most men, it would probably be like sluts for STR and casual stuff but not for LTR or marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:17 PM
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This shows unaffiliated has grown by 50% among men and 77% among women. That is percentage change or the relative change not rate, when you refer to rate in math or even colloquially it is done wrt different change in one unit of measurement relative to the other usually one unit relative to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:06 PM
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I actually do, the most recent pew survey on this from 2019 says that men and women are leaving religion at the same rate but men are leaving christian at a higher rate with less men being christian both before and after that time period and more men being unaffiliated before and after the time period(link)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:30 PM
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Right off the bat, this newsletter survey presentation is poor because the newsletter article says it is about childhood religion while the image says it about religion entirely, those are two different scenarios( i.e. going from catholicism to protestantism would be counted as part of the former but not the latter), they also don't reveal the survey questions to show which is the accurate scenario. That said assuming it is about leaving religion entirely that still doesn't necessarily mean eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:11 PM
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Correct, more men are currently unaffiliated, but the trend right now is that women are more likely to leave, which is why I phrased it that way. Do you have any data on this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:03 PM
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Women are leaving religion in greater numbers than men and skewing more liberal than men. This is false while women are skewing more liberal they are not leaving religion in greater number, most of the adherents in most religion are women and most unaffiliated are men, also women are more likely than men to say they believe in a god and that religion is important in their life(link). The previous study is fairly old but I also found one a recent one from Canada that reveals the same results(link…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:57 PM
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This seems like an attitude a lot of parents have that boys don't need school as much as their girls do for some reason so they don't push their boys to get good grades. I saw this a lot when I was a kid. Girls would get grounded for bad grades, parent didn't give a fuck if their boys got straight C's. This is anecdotal evidence, I can just as easily bring up an anecdote from my childhood about how my parents insulted us(3 boys 1 girl) equally for getting bad grades, in fact my parents were hars…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:12 PM
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This is the second scenario, most people will fail, so it’s not good advice. Dating advice needs to be on the reach of the average man. This is like saying someone who ir poor, can only have a good life if they get rich. Its unrealistic. No, it’s not the second scenario, the fundamental redpill explanation on why your average male fails to become high value/top % is because they lack discipline not because they can’t do it. Now I think the redpill explanation is wrong and it is because of geneti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:43 PM
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I’m not redpilled but this is a misrepresentation of the redpill beliefs. For the self improvement one, most men aren’t going to improve so the improved man will never become the average, one of the few self-improvement shit that actual works is losing weight yet most people(including men) in the developed world are overweight or obese. As to men aging like fine wine, I agree that we don’t but the redpill belief is that women want LMS. The idea of men aging like fine wine also includes that men …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:29 PM
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Did she contact you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:15 PM
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Pedophile hunting is for content not about right or wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:36 PM
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When the royals attempted to subvert evolution, we ended up with the Hapsburgs. I mean, there is a huge difference between multiple generation of 1st cousin marriages vs what OP is describing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 08:05 PM
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No, he wasn't, he was a straight incel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:07 PM
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You just described in the content of your post the thing that is wrong with not being selected by women which is that it marks you as a genetic reject meaning by virtue of your birth you are inferior to those who were selected for mating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:39 PM
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lol, both males and females care about primarily looks in their mates then everything else comes secondary. The things women want the most height and a good face are largely uncontrollable and men are also more attracted to women than the reverse so women have an easier time finding partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:31 AM
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I think that it doesn’t make sense for either party to have a secret bank account. Why have it a secret? It’s not like pre-nups are made secret. The point behind the account being secret that have seen on this sub is so the potentially abusive man doesn't have access to it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:29 AM
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Can’t you just as easily say this for the secret bank account/leave money for SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:29 AM
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Indeed, masturbation has health benefits. Masturbation has literally no health benefits, it also has no health drawbacks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:14 AM
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What would you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:48 PM
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This seems like the most moral thing but I need the money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:48 PM
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I just found 100 dollars on the floor of my campus, should I keep it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:42 PM
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That’s the societal narrative, why do you think the men only want one thing meme exists
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:38 PM
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The standard societal narrative is women want relationships more and men want sex more, couple this with the societal idea(fact?) that most women don’t orgasm from sex then you have a a situation where consensual, non-relationship sex can be used to punish a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:36 PM
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I’m attracted to roughly 50% of 20-something-looking men I run into on a regular basis. This is cap
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:01 AM
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It's fake and they hope they can get a man they are dating to do something they want but he isn't doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:17 PM
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I mean some people, though a minority are share partners in polyamory, open relationships or swinging and they don’t consider it cheating and love each other so she could be the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:20 PM
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⁠No, commitment and loyalty. I mean she loves you, how can you betray someone you love and who loves you? In this scenario, my assumption was that I’d have her blessing but with all of this in mind I would pick number 1
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:17 PM
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3 questions: In the first scenario, what do you mean by she’s nice but doesn’t love/care for you? In the second scenario, why is the woman not having sex with me? In the second scenario, can I pay for escorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:08 PM
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Frankly, if you are doing all this, I’m wondering why you even get married and become a stay at home mom, it seems easier and more honest to just not get married or if you do get married keep working.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:31 PM
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Lie about the costs of stuff she buys and pockets the surplus
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:23 PM
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I would say the divorce lawyers and judges arguably do get this right, they look at what’s in the best interest for the child including joint custody or child support, depending on the situation and apply it. This isn’t true divorce lawyers do what is best for their clients not the kids unless the client explicitly tells them to put the kids first
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:21 PM
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lol, that’s a fantastic image
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 06:58 PM
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Every single society I'm human history punished raping women. They punished raping women in the in-group outside of marriage, war rape and rape of slaves were fine
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:16 AM
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I would like to first say before answering your question that the men who perpetrated the action weren't normal men, her husband had to go to a chatroom for the men who specifically had a fetish for rape and the men also didn't just come from Avignon but all over France if they could travel. As for what percentage, any amount would be pure conjecture beyond the one you gave that said even if it was a time travel or mind wipe, I would still think it would be a minority like ~30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 02:57 AM
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Lol, obviously he is talking about your drive to work not find sex, btw I don't think what he is saying is true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:10 AM
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Are they personified? I'm not sure how you would expect characters in something as low brow as porn to be personified beyond stock characters unless it is porn within a movie. Treated nicely? I mean, I won't necessarily classify someone doing what you want as being treated nice but it also isn't being treated mean either Presented as anything other than an object for the viewer to touch his dick to, existing purely for his pleasure? Are their desires ever paid any attention? Presumably in most p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:55 AM
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Even porn where women are portrayed as dominant is objectifying and degrading to women. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:54 PM
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Okay, I'll confess it was for coomer reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:12 AM
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That was also degenerate but I needed information because I wanted to debunk something on 4chan. Also there is a difference between describing someone’s body vs your own sexual experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:26 PM
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Yes, I won’t want to humiliate her and that kind of activity isn’t conducive to raising kids
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:58 PM
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OP, I would have to disagree men also talk about their partner/gf with their friends although it is not as detailed, I went to a boarding school and this was quite common
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:56 PM
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This is completely normal amongst gay men, lesbians, and straight women. Why straight men are so hung up over it is its own mystery. It’s degenerate and most of all disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:54 PM
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Depends on the sport. Football, absolutely. Gymnastics? Nah. This is false men are superior to women at gymnastics just because men are just stronger than women, I doubt any female gymnast can do the iron cross for example which is fairly routine among male gymnasts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:19 PM
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Wow, very groundbreaking science OP and next you'll tell us bears are stronger than humans
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:15 PM
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No, the truth is getting an escort or even having sex as a fluke or pity sex from a friend would likely not improve what held you back. Honestly in a world where my son asks me for an escort I would feel I failed as a father although it won’t be surprising considering my own struggles and use of escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:45 PM
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My family won’t be of any help, my parents are boomers and my mom’s advice is mostly just be yourself. My friends I don’t see them much cuz of school work although I did make head way with therapy but it was too expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:35 PM
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Social anxiety and not understanding social cues due to lack of socialization in my formative years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:23 PM
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No, No and No to the 3 questions in the topic. If you don’t, can you explain why you don’t? No one has invited me to any party if they did I would go although I might not “have a blast” due to my mentalceldom in addition to my looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:08 PM
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Women are quite honest about what men they want and they generally want tall and handsome men. The dark triad pill is mostly a meme, if there are two males of equal SMV but one is dark triad and the other is a good guy, most women will choose the good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:54 PM
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Lol, no, the age pill comes for all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:41 PM
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Best post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:11 PM
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He mostly just makes repetitive videos on how she keeps sleeping around, they are the same topic and it just seems obsessive when he does it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:32 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:10 PM
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Why is Joker from Better Bachelor so obsessed with the Jana Hocking chick? Like she's an old thot I get it but when he makes a video on her it is always the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:03 PM
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I never said it is a virtue, it just is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:56 PM
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And real life shows that women re willing to date fat, short, unattractive men So what? The point is that all of the criteria you listed for women don’t apply and your average woman would find it incredibly easy in most cases to find a mate that is at least average looking while your average male will struggle to do the same. This is the reason why on dating apps even your average male gets very few matches and if you are below average you will get 0. Just clicked your link. Surely you don’t tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:48 PM
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This is false and you know it, tinder is experiments with fat, unattractive women getting plenty of matches above their looks level show that men are willing to date unattractive women: https://web.archive.org/web/20220724204139/https://forums.hfboards.com/threads/online-dating-experiment-with-pig-woman.2438447/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:34 PM
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Chrystul Kizer was 17 when she murdered the man who had kidnapped her and sold her body to others since she was 16. She was given 11 years in prison for murdering her captor and rapist. Kyle Rittenhouse was given zero time after hunting protestors in another state then murdering two men and seriously injuring a third. I'm not aware of the fully former case so I won't comment on it too much, from what I have read she killed her trafficker after she had been removed from his home with a gun she br…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:44 PM
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What is there to research? If you are male or female and commit a murder in both cases you can argue that the action being a crime of passion should be mitigating factor and the judge can rule on whether it is valid or not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:54 PM
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They apply to both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:45 PM
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You never answered his question about, what makes you believe that they're not bluepill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:45 PM
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They are high but not in a superficial or unrealistic way, have you tried church?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:25 PM
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Where in Nigeria are you from? I'm from Lagos
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:14 PM
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If evolution was as strong a force as evolutionary psych ideas would have us believe, we'd all be perfect by now. If sexual attraction, social dynamics, were genuinely that discriminatory the most unattractive traits would have been sidelined in the literal 10s of thousands of years that humanity spent tracking animals, picking berries, and washing their junk in running water. Every woman would be wide hipped and beautiful. Every man would be tall and strong. We'd all look like supermodels and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:06 PM
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36/Nigeria
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:11 PM
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To start with if you need a singles event, then you are most likely a lower value mate whether male or female. Men are wising up and are going to go to a singles event where they would have to jestermax to even have a chance to get a woman all the while being rejected multiple times by women in these events
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 02:50 AM
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I mean if those redpillers genuinely hate women then sure the analogy holds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:00 PM
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There was a racist white guy on /fit/ on 4chan who fucked black girls only and he posted pictures of them in sometimes. More famously, Strom Thurmond, an ardent segregationist, had sex with and fathered an illegitimate child with his black maid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:58 PM
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Not necessarily, there are anti-black racists who date and have sex with black people because they are attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:11 PM
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Because sexual attraction and liking women as a group are different. Straight men even misogynists are attracted to women hence they want to have sex with and/or date them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:06 PM
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She's quite fat herself(although less than he is) and her face is overall slightly below average looking while his is also slightly below average. If you are counting body then he is below by quite a bit but not too much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:47 AM
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No, she doesn't, they are looksmatched although he could look significantly better if he lost weight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:49 AM
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Her male kids are going to be abused by women when they enter a relationship, heck the 13yo boy was being abused by a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 10:07 AM
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How do you know he can't get a date? I would have understood if he was a blackpill flair but it is redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:17 PM
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The overwhelming majority of it is because of the motherhood penalty kek, umarried men and women earn similar amounts. This is false, at least in the US, mothers and childless women earn roughly the same if education level is accounted for: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/03/01/the-enduring-grip-of-the-gender-pay-gap/#:~:text=In%202022%2C%20mothers%20ages%2025,80%25%20as%20much%20as%20fathers. It didn't account for type of job but this is what the poster you are responding to like…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:56 PM
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Traditionally women have need to be tied to a man to survive or live well in a lot of cases. There was also the fact like I specified in my there is a looks threshold for not complete disregard around average for most women and a threshold where women find you attractive which is significantly higher than the minimum. That said you are also correct that the globalization of the dating market cause women's standards to increase and not settle since there is the more choices
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:40 PM
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what do women you consider to be unfuckable think about your dating habits? Where did he say he finds them unfuckable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:20 PM
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The reason why men struggle with women isn't because of provider stuff. It is because of looks, women generally find a smaller subset of men physically attractive than men do of women, so you will need to either improve your looks if possible or use other factors to make up for your deficiency in looks provided you are at least at her minimum looks threshold to not disregard absolutely. It isn't toxic masculinity, it is just how life is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:19 PM
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Denmark and Sweden both have paternity/non-birthing parent leave that is specific for 2 weeks and 10 days respectively then each parent is entitled to take time after that 32 in Denmark. Unlike what you are saying it isn't that one parent goes back to work and the other takes over the half in Sweden, they can take it simultaneously up to 30 days at a time or in the case of the father not take any leave at all, for Denmark I didn't find any restrictions to simultaneous leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:29 PM
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Why are very few people actually reading his post here the responses being given are mostly not actually arguing with his points.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:21 PM
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You guys should have really read his post carefully before responding, he brought up Denmark which is a country that has paid paternity leave for both parents and the unequal outcome still play out there according to the data he provided: January 2013, Denmark publishes numbers showing that an average Danish woman throughout her lifetime out-consumes state handouts above her contributions into the system by 1.628 million Danish kroner, or $293k, in 2011 money; men are taxed above state's expense…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:19 PM
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If Meeks was an average guy, he would have probably being a murderer and rapist like his dad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:35 AM
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Most people want the highest quality mates that they can obtain regardless of if the objects of their attraction like how they look naturally without improvement, this is why men gymmax to get women. As for tastes being different while niches exist most people find the same general factors attractive as others in the sexual orientation, this is the reason why shorter men generally struggle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:28 AM
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I mean that nobody ever wins trying to look good to men, they just sabotage themselves. If you want a high quality mate for both sexes, you will have to try and look good to the sex you are attracted to that way you will win
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:09 AM
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Its either the girls you are going for are damaged or those rude guys are just significantly more attractive than you, dark triad theory is mostly a meme
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:01 AM
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They weren’t ban from these jobs for most of them it was a restriction provided the employer/overseer could provide safe working conditions due to the harmful effects on materials routinely used in those industries. There was a ban employment in jobs that required lifting a “heavy” weight repetitively if it was done manually. I’m not sure if some of the jobs listed in your article applied to the USSR vs 2000 legislation considering that I know that there were female navy officers in the USSR. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 11:25 PM
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I said till the collapse of the communist governments, Putin isn’t a communist in fact he was among some of the people in Russia pushing for the dissolution of the USSR
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:48 PM
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Damn, manosphere shit has been on the internet for that long, was it the RP or PUA?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:58 PM
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I give a different answer but I don’t think it is because of social stigma that women approach less although it has some effect. The main reason is that apps are for specifically dating and hookups so people(women specifically)are more likely to approach first there. It’s like you said that in contexts where it is expected like parties women approach your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:54 PM
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Because most of those countries became very egalitarian till the collapse of the communist governments especially Russia
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:48 PM
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How old are you? If you’ve read manosphere blogs at 19 that won’t make you that old
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:47 PM
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I’m not sure how one can meaningfully change the way rape is prosecuted without it lowering the standard of justice aside from accused facing the accuser in court
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:59 PM
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What is your idea for this? Genuine question btw not being glib
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:30 PM
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Spain was colonized by Islam. So was southern Italy. Do you even history, bro? First of all, you can't be colonized by a religion, it is an action done by a population of people to another population not by ideas like religions. This is the equivalent of saying England was colonized by christianity because Emperor Theodosius banned all pagan relgions. Second of all, assuming that the emirate of Siciliy and Apulia in Italy and Al-Andalus can be characterized as colonization, it wouldn't negate th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:57 AM
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I literally said in the comment that whether a place was colonized, conquered or occupied was not a comment on if it justifies illegal or legal migration but I guess I should have been more specific that the aforementioned acts colonizing, conquering or occupying and whether they happened to a place or not is independent to the question of whether illegal migration of a certain population is justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 05:48 AM
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My response wasn't a comment on whether colonizing, conquering or occupying a country against the will of the indigenous population means that they can come legally or illegally to other countries it was a factual response to a question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:30 PM
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My response wasn't a comment on whether colonizing, conquering or occupying a country against the will of the indigenous population means that they can come legally or illegally to other countries it was a factual response to a question. As for Germany having no history of colonialism, this is false, Germany in the form of the German empire colonized several countries namely: Cameroon, Burundi, Tanzania, Rwanda, and most infamously Namibia where they committed the Herero and Nama genocides.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:30 PM
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If by casual fun you mean casual sex, then I don’t think an introverted male would be standoffish in that case. Frankly, I don’t think the introverted guy would be unapproachable even for a date, they would just keep to themselves in any social setting but may or may not be seen as disinterested depending on if they are actually introverted or socially inept
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:33 PM
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England, France, Spain, Italy, you know the usual suspects
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:22 PM
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I'm neutral towards them although I'm a military age male migrant myself, so I am probably biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:18 PM
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That sounds like way too much energy for an introverted man to achieve. Introverts don’t like to draw lot of attention to themselves because dealing with many people wanting your attention is just stressful and draining. You just have to be handsome looks is the significant majority of what has women throwing themselves at you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:43 PM
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Not really tradcons and redpillers clash when it comes to the matter of “degeneracy” i.e. dating/sleeping with multiple women, pre-marital sex, men can cheat stuff like that. Although I do agree that redpillers like FnF harken to tradition
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:29 AM
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This is one of those redpill dilemmas that isn't actually a dilemma, women will obviously pick the guy that is their type because looks>>>everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:05 AM
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Lol, why do you have the hasanlu lovers as your pfp?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:15 PM
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The reasons why some men want anal sex feels good, variety and it feels naughty/kinky cause it is the "wrong hole". As for why many men including the ones who want anal are opposed to pegging, it uses a phallic object to penetrate, hence it is gay, although in reality it is not gay since it is a woman doing a penetration and the object is not actually a penis. As for the pain, anal shouldn't hurt unless you just really can't do it or the guy penetrating didn't put enough lube and/or warmup the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:04 PM
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There is a difference from being cheap vs being frugal, even high quality cheeses at whole food cost only $36.99/lbs at worst, a slice of cheese is only 20 grams or 0.0440925 lbs which gives ~$1.63 for cheese at worst. I highly doubt the cheese that was served was six months aged gouda so no, not wanting to spend 3 dollars on worthless cheese doesn't make you cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:29 AM
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First of all, the lady's ick is stupid, just because a guy correctly doesn't wan't to waste 3 dollar on cheese she gets disgusted. That guy gave no indication of being a low quality option and the woman paid because she wanted to not because she had to, also women on dating apps don't get only low quality options even more unattractive women get high quality men on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:35 AM
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Wake up babe another u/Windmill_flowers schizo post has dropped
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 05:29 AM
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Most of them on Reddit at least hang out at asianmasculinity or aznidentity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:08 AM
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What race are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:08 AM
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Those are redpill men not tradcon
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:05 AM
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White women are the most endogamous group when you include all races, outliers don’t break the rule
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:53 AM
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I mean those men could all be dating the same small pool of women date is not equal to marriage or long term partner
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:51 AM
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but i don't really get why she has a platform. You already answered your question here: She's smoking hot tbf Honestly as a woman if you want to enter the RP/manosphere space, it is incredibly easy to grift that way. As to what dating experience a muslim woman would have, she's a woman, she would know what the typical woman wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:08 AM
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There is literally no reason to marry this woman she has the worst aspects of traditionalism and modernity, she's also not attractive. I would find it interesting to she this woman's reaction if her husband doesn't buy anything for her only for the kids and kicks her out for not paying rent on the grounds that she is an adult and he doesn't want to be her meal ticket. Honestly, I hope this was satire Edit: Just checked the account and it is satire
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:37 AM
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How would you realistically get caught?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:20 AM
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Why the prostitute? Because I’ve dated girls that have gone on hundred to maybe 250 dates. The regular girl with 100+ bodies never gonna be happy, and they going to cheat on you because they are addicted to new dick. Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 03:04 AM
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Where the escorts still working? Also why would you prefer the escort?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 02:28 AM
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This is an unrelated question but as a radfem would you date a man who paid for prostitutes in the past but changes his ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:39 AM
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100 bodies ex-prostitute vs 100 bodies normie chick would be more realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 12:36 AM
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Lol yes, just don't say anything too blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:24 PM
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Teach women to lower their standards and the orgasm gap will close. Won't this be the exact opposite because women can't control what men they find attractive but if they stop lowering their standards and be chad only they will orgasms more since they are only attracted to those men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:23 PM
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I will reiterate what I said to you in a previous thread, the main criteria women use for determining if they want to have sex with you is looks. Sure learning how to please a woman might work in making her more interested in sex after she has selected you for sex but before a woman selects you(the most important bar to cross) looks matter the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:19 PM
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I’m not saying you shouldn’t learn how to please your partner you should, I just disagree that the standards is related to bedroom performance when it is actually related to looks mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:54 PM
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Women decide if they are going to fuck you before you even have the chance to fail at finding the clitoris or describe the g-spot. Looks is the main criteria for women to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 05:45 PM
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It was actually Future from his account
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:59 AM
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You need to reach a woman's looks bar before she cares to consider the emotional intelligence and relationship skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:35 AM
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Has Drake actually been caught doing this or is this just a joke cuz of his sus behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:30 AM
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Camila Morone who This is still what I am saying about this lady
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 01:28 AM
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No life experience Haven’t supported themselves No education Inability to support themselves making them dependent on a man who’s preying on them Would you say the same for a 25 year old that never went to college and still lives in their parents house with 0 life experience outside of highschool?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:21 PM
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Why is 18 inappropriate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:39 PM
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it's not working for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:20 AM
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no, that's too, old the layout before this one, it looks like this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:02 AM
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How do you change the reddit layout to the old one, the new instead of www isn't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:52 PM
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Not all men prefer young women, it is that generally men prefer younger women. As for fidelity and what the woman should do, most men can't get younger women unless they are attractive or young themselves so the old lady would be fine and love would also increase your bonds to your partner as time goes on making it less likely for the male to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:48 PM
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I think the most likely reason is that highly educated successful women demand highly educated successful men but their male counterparts don't care as much about careers and education. The women then overlook the less successful men as potential mate so they then complain about men being intimidated by them(which is admittedly true in some case) when generally it is that the men they want are rare commodities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:22 AM
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Ya thats dumb, thats just the definition of a job. Paying a person is not coercion unless youre on some tanki shit. A few radfems are communists and socialists, I am somewhat sympathetic to their argument because there is coercion inherent to sex work(and all work generally) but I don't agree that the level of coercion inherent to sex work is enough to label all of it bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:58 AM
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chatgpt NGMI/s, that said the main radfem/SWERF critique of porn is that porn/sex work is inherently exploitative and coercive since the female wouldn't have sex with the male outside of payment and consent has to be freely given without coercion. Obviously all of the points you bring up still matter/are still used by them but the aforementioned point is the main argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:34 AM
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OP seems to be talking about the ages of the males
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:09 AM
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I think you raise interesting points. I would love to know about how “kinky” sex was back in pre-Internet time. I do suspect certain acts (oral sex, frankly) may have been somewhat common back in the day, while other things like BDSM are new, or at least were very rare before. Modern hygiene also factors into this; sex acts involving butt stuff have historically been a no-go for a reason. Lol, BDSM and anal have been around since antiquity. The karma sutra has both and those acts are quite commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:21 PM
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OP, what you said was misogynistic, you might think it is not but it is since you are framing men watching porn as the fault of women which removes all agency from men. It isn't a woman's fault that you need porn cuz you are an incel(non-derogatory). As for the relationship since you have clarified your position I won't comment on it much but if a certain sex act maters to you much or your partner is too boring for you and sex is really important just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:59 PM
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I'm assuming this is a joke right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:42 AM
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My mom, actually partner's mom, was a victim of FGM in Nigeria. Is she from the northern or southern region?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:41 AM
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While this may be true it is irrelevant considering there will really never be a time that any Islamist or Muslim identified party will get enough votes 20+% to be competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:59 AM
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Gaza isn't a very good example, Gaza is one of the most monitored and blockaded places on earth after Kashmir. More accurate example would be the 2 wars Israel has fought with Hezbollah, the 2003-2011 Iraqi war or the 19 years Afghanistan war
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:51 AM
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This is false and even if it were true it wouldn't affect votes by much, most muslims in France vote for the left wing parties, that are feminism, pro-LGBTQ and generally anti-conservative, so there it would have a net pro-feminist shift. Even in the US, most muslims vote democrat typically, so it would have a net pro-feminist position(although I personally don't believe the democrats are left wing or feminist)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:46 AM
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Sweden is only 2.1% muslim, the muslim birth rate would reduce to match the typical western birth rate in 1 to 2 generations like happens with other high fertility groups and the immigration isn't as high as /pol/ would have you believe. France will definitely not be 30% muslim by 2030, honestly I would be surprised if it reached 12% from its current 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:21 AM
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The west isn't going to "because muslim" just because unattractive men aren't getting laid lmao How does this follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:15 AM
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Islam is only 1.34% in the US even Dearborn, Michigan that people bring up to scare monger is only 55% MENA and probably only like half is muslim. There is also the fact that most muslims in the west act/are far more liberal than your average christian in the Middle East or Africa, for example, 44% of muslims in the US accept gay marriage vs 31% of white evangelicals and 7% in Zambia a heavily christian country(95.5% christian). Heck, my Nigerian christian mom has endorse the death penalty for g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:15 AM
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This is a false position, women have passionate and hottest sex with the most attractive men they have access to, it also isn't a reward relationship in the scenario women enjoy the sex with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:57 AM
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I honestly wouldn't care that a woman only cares about me for sex, that is a step up for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:22 PM
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It is also unrealistic but how is it hurtful?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 04:56 PM
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How come you didn't post the same thing on female dominated porn subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:33 PM
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Bro, what is wrong with your account
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:07 PM
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Black women commit more violent crime than white men(3rd in the rank of crime) and almost as much as hispanic men(who commit the 2nd most amount of violent crime in the US). There is literally no rational position you can take that would justify being cautious towards men as a group but not black women as a group
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:48 PM
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I would have picked Suzy but she can't cook and I personally don't like cooking so I would prefer a woman who does. The shower thing is fine by me just tell Mina to do it before sex, Anna is just annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:33 PM
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These posts are getting tedious and repetitive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:26 PM
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Mina is my first choice. Anna is just annoying with the social media shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:23 PM
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There is no difference, one is just socially accepted while the other is not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:48 PM
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It is sexist, these same people won't assume all black people(regardless of sex btw) are criminals and would correctly chastise those who do as racist but would do the same towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:45 PM
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Jane is my choice. Sally would have been fine but the camping in the woods is a definite no, Anna is an annoying consoomer but in female from, Tina also the woods
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 03:37 PM
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It depends on what you want tbh, you can also just lie about your age an get younger women on dating apps although some of those women might have an older guy fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:19 PM
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Men can but body factors far less into women's attraction to men, plastic surgery for your body is also not going to be very useful and looks bad for men. As for butterfaces, if a woman as a nice 8/10 body but a 4 or even a 3 face she will still have men lining up for her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:14 PM
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It is true for women as well to some extent especially wrt the face but men are far more attracted to women than the other way around. Women can also improve that bodies through gymmaxxing for a better butt or plastic surgery for butt, breast and hip shape since the body plays far more of a role in men being attracted to women than the reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:32 PM
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I'm not saying you should just laid down and rot, all I'm saying is that it won't do much. I still think you should do it because 20-30% increase in looks is still an improvement and you might like doing it. I still go to the gym because I like it and it would also improve my looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:50 PM
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Getting better hair and style won't do much unless you just don't know anything about how to dress yourself, I including not knowing how to dress and poor hygiene in slob. What does the most is the better skincare but most people have healthy looking skin from just eat like an adult and having good hygiene. Most of looks is just what you are born with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:25 PM
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"looks-maxxing" (the way women have done for centuries) a little more, Looksmaxxing won't do much unless you were holding yourself back by being a slob
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:50 PM
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Men aren't upset about looks mattering, what men even blackpillers are upset at is people downplaying looks and saying they don't matter in some cases. As for it is not Mommy‘s job to teach you how to get your dick wet I am a firm believer in not lying to your kids so if your son asks you how to get girl tell him the truth about looks, I mean people tell girls all the time that looks matter to get a man. As for effort into looks, looks are like 80% just your genes everything else is just minor i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:26 PM
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Yes. Why should we worry women that choose fun over thought ? blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:27 AM
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Mary would be my choice, then May, Susan and Jessica is last. Jessica is the worst because of the unavailability and Susan is lower because I hate the smell of weed, if Susan smokes it away from me then that's fine. I think I would be able to handle May being bad with money if she lets me manage finances. This ranking is subject to your definition of curvy(post pics) and what a low sex drive would be. This is nowhere as bad as the options for women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:39 AM
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As a dominatrix I feel this hard like the other day a dude asked me to put a catheter in him and piss in him Did you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:14 AM
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This convo is a case study in why you should actually read the study and not just the news report. Stoeckle and Thaler don't state humans or most of the world's species come from one breeding pair just that there was last common female ancestor for the COI mtDNA gene for most species that they studied within 200,000 years. They don't attribute the last common female ancestor of the 9/10 species to have occurred at the same time or even say the "Y-Adam" and "mt-Eve" lived at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 10:14 PM
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I haven't looked at this thread but most will say none because all of them suffer from some massive flaw or the other: Josh is violently angry and abusive, Paul is incredibly short, Adam is a backbiter and is a massive trump supporter(which would alienate most women), Jake has a micropenis and is obese. The next option will be Adam, then Jake, then Paul, Josh would be dead last, that said IRL Adam would slay the most, the Josh, then Jake, Paul will struggle due to his height + autism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:57 PM
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With attractive men. Yes. Ideally yes but women will settle and Chad only is mostly a meme Change your flair the 80/20 is fundamental to the blackpill It is actually a redpill belief that carried over to the blackpill, the fundamental blackpill belief is that looks are the most important factor in dating and that looks significantly influence all areas of a person’s life and most people can’t improve the looks they are born with significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:24 AM
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I disagree with their point that women only wanted resources from men although it did play a major role in the past. My point is that most of the mating that produces those kids is from third world countries were the economic situation changes the market and the OP is using western standards so you can’t really use the worldwide 8 billion population as evidence of pairing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:07 AM
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I will assume you aren’t female because women like sex too and would like a relationship just like the male sex. I’m not convinced on 80/20 rule, while I do believe women only find a small percentage of men(maybe 20%) attractive at first sight the same way men lust after women things I think most women find the average guy to be at least good enough in terms of looks and other factors like personality and wealth come into play if you reach the looks bar. If you are a truly average male while you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:03 AM
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The sexual market in Nigeria would clearly not be the same as in the USA, Canada or Europe. OP is very likely speaking from a first world perspective not the third world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:51 AM
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Third worlders especially sub-Saharan Africans are skewing this by a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:46 AM
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Women want looks first above everything the only difference was back then society was more patriarchal so men generally did the man provision and people live in tighter knit communities. It isn’t that the average male is providing less than males before considering that the average person in pre industrial times was a peasant who I doubt lived very good compared to today and worked harder for far less. The truth is with the bigger dating market and a more egalitarian society women have raised th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:44 AM
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The reaper comes to collect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:34 AM
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Henry Cavill is a HVM and he has no kids
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:38 PM
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Jesus and men actually saw you while knowing this? Did you just look mature or were they willing pedophiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:17 PM
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Lol, that's pretty paranoid, I've seen some for 300/hour and I've been tested with nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:13 PM
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Depends on the type of escort, you pay for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:59 PM
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When I was a teen prostitute back in the early 80s I ran into 3 married men/fathers who lived in my neighborhood and somehow were able to cruise the hill looking for adolescent boys without repercussions. At least 18 right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:58 PM
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I mean some of the redpillers online say Tate is a cuck for letting his gfs do porn and the tradcons think he is a degenerate for it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:42 PM
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I think if you use porn and don't become a degenerate it is fine but I've come to understand the rad fem position although I still disagree with it. As to women watching porn, I'm neutral on it. If you do it in a relationship, I think it is cheating though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:38 PM
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Not true, if you are below average or even average tbh in looks you will struggle in dating unless you improve
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:37 PM
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women only list after 6’ tall white men with beards. Very few people bring up beards in what women like in men. What is said by blackpillers at least is that women ideally want handsome, tall, white men with good hair when it comes to looks. It doesn't mean women will only go for those men as evidence by the existence of the Tyrone archetype. Personal preferences, niches and settling still apply, settling also doesn't mean you won't be happy, it just mean that you won't have your ideal person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:32 PM
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If you are female and regularly club, then I will assume so. If you are male, I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:37 AM
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Height, beard, face, tattoos and emotional detatchment. Beard and tattoos, lol. It's face, height, personality for raw attraction, beard and tattoos is just lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:15 PM
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Why not Italy, it doesn't seem like a really liberal country unlike somewhere like Germany or where you are now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:57 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:45 PM
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I believe technically most men including those I would consider trucels can get a woman if they try really hard whether she would truly love you and/or be you proverbially dumpster diving is another thing. As for whether it is normally feasible I think if you are an average male, you will struggle to date a woman especially a decent quality woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:43 PM
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I just looked up the Slater guy and you are underestimating his looks, he is average probably slightly above. His wife is also his looksmatch, the only outstanding feature on her is the blue eyes but it has less of an effect on whites than ethnics. I also think they are the same height and she just wears heels a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:36 PM
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What is this gif for?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:29 PM
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The point being contested is the red pill belief that women refuse to date men who don't make a lot of money (especially more than she does), which is demonstrably false, even in a generalized sense. I don't think most redpillers say this, they say that if you want the best women and/or improve your dating option LMS is the way to go because women prefer rich, successful, gymmaxxed tall dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:27 PM
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I thought the best deal was supposed to be the most women? The highest quality woman would be your monogamous wife but she's incompatible with "plates". I think most men would ideally like the scenario FnF preach(if they could get it), that is a main woman you love and are compatible with and spinning plates with multiple attractive women. I would prefer one woman only though Isn't the best deal to live a life where you're happy with yourself, as in not hurting anyone? It is the same as capitali…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:57 PM
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The problem with the MGTOW stuff is that a lot of men who go MGTOW are actually MSTOW, that us they were sent their own way and couldn't get a woman if they tried
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:17 PM
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The red pill is literally all about men just doing what they want themselves, being selfish and not caring about who gets hurt. I mean the redpill is about what would attract women while getting the best deal for the male, so the highest quality woman on your terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:14 PM
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I mean the way OP describes it any form of improving to get women is centring women in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:46 PM
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The reason the prescriptive redpill is that way is because straight men want women, the redpill has to centre women for that reason. You can preach walking away but the low popularity of going monkmode MGTOW would tell you that you won't get much followers/listeners for telling people to just not play the game. I personally think a lot of redpill advice won't improve your options much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:54 AM
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You are confusing Red Pillers with incels. Most incels subscribe to the blackpill which affirms that if as a man you are struggling with dating there is something wrong with you namely looks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:24 AM
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Could you give examples? Because I can't really think of skill that would be demanded of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:35 PM
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Would those male doctors be ok with dating a woman who upfront said she had no ambition to get an education or work outside the home? I couldn't tell you for sure tbh but I would say it won't be likely because the scenario in my family was the woman became a homemaker after marriage and schooling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:07 PM
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You just said that men don't care about skills. I don't consider skills to be personality and I was specifically talking about skills, when I talk about skills I'm talking about attributes specifically for performing tasks. Like very few people feel attraction towards someone just by looking at them. Depends, if it is sexual attraction, I think most people develop attraction to people who are sexually attractive to them by just looking at them(including females, although they have a smaller pool…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 09:04 PM
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Most men with a healthy social life aren't out there just dating anyone that happens by who looks good enough. I never said men only want women for their beauty, although beauty is the most important trait for males and females, it isn't the only trait personality is the second and it matters to an extent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:41 PM
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I don’t know, nor have I ever met a single male doctor or attorney who would be ok with dating a woman whose life goal was to be a homemaker. I've met and know quite a few in my family(doctors specifically), I would say thought that for most men and some women as well money matters very little as long as you have stable finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:29 PM
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This is just you projecting your own non-existant standards on other men. I mean, I haven't seen most men demand any other skills of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 08:17 PM
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How fit are you? Can you post your physique
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:39 PM
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and how many men have skills and money as a priority in women? I will say very little lol, the only skills I can think of men demanding is homemaking. As for the appearance, I think women put work into their appearance but not really for men tbh just that beauty is socially demanded from women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:35 PM
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No gym for your face, there is also the fact that you need to wear a shirt IRL so no one would see how lean you are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:31 PM
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No but this is just how the market is, men are more attracted to women than the reverse so men are more willing to improve for sex and love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:30 PM
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Eh, I think it is just that women have more encounters with men and less with bear, so the overestimate the dangers of the former and underestimate the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 07:17 PM
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I don't think anyone disputes men give women sex and affection easily, they do and it is because men have more of a desire for sex and affection than women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:13 AM
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What country? Do you still escortmax in your current country?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:42 AM
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What is the price for the escorts services for raw?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:26 AM
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Why would you smash escorts raw, aren't you afraid of AIDs? What other STIs have you gotten?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:07 AM
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I think she'll probably be disappointed since I don't know what to do in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:44 PM
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A, I don't have much dating/relationship experience so it would be nice to date someone like me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:17 PM
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They just hate women no matter what they do, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:05 AM
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Didn't know the lesbian dating app was called HER, how quaint anyways these people are clearly mostly opportunist, most trans people will transition because of their dysphoria or just the plain desire to look like the sex they see themselves as. Incidentally, from what I have heard on 4chan there are quite a few trans women on Grindr
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:03 AM
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Bro all your criteria is stricter than top 20% aside from the height and maybe the salary, it is at least 10% or 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:36 PM
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Height= 5'11+ Weight: 175 lbs Body fat %: 18% Approximate physical appearance (scale from 1-10): 6.5 Income: 95,000+ Job title (give multiple examples if you'd like): Engineer Body count: 10+ Approximate number of new sexual partners per year (assume this man is dating casually, FWB, one night stands, etc.): 2-3 close to his looksmatch if he tries really hard Value of home/apartment, or else his monthly rent: don't know Value of his car (specify model if you'd like, but not required): don't know…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:29 PM
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Surprised a bluepill woman has this take
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:12 AM
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The woman, no offence to the ladies here but a lot of women have bad aim and so long as I stay sufficiently far away from her she won't shoot. The bear would just eat me alive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:58 AM
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He's trad, so I assume it has something to do with that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:03 AM
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I mean if she is naturally like that I won't mind but if it is an act to get me to like her I won't like that woman because she is fake
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:01 AM
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This is the equivalent of asking an atheist why can't they just believe in a god. You either believe in the bluepill or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:54 PM
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A woman, she would have the potential to be able to do the same things as a guy so I can teach her anything required for our survival and unless she is a lesbian I’ll be able to have sex with her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:13 AM
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Do you feel like people are using very different definitions of feminism? Maybe not in personal circles but on the internet and in the media? Yes, if you are an anti-SJW or manosphere type, you will tend to view feminism as male bashing while if you are more SJW, you will view feminist as female empowerment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:42 AM
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what is your current definition of feminism? A movement for the empowerment/emancipation of women, each feminism defines how the emancipation should happen differently e.g. pro sex work vs anti sex work feminists. where did you get your first definition from? Just came up with it right now based on what I know about feminism. What has influenced the change from then and now? Don't understand what this question is referencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:23 AM
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I assumed in this scenario, the man is unarmed and I would be able to outrun him till he gassing out. Also he raped women so I doubt he would be interest in him especially since I don't look very feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:11 AM
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And realistically I would just die and at least the bear would be quicker. No, it won't, bears eat their prey alive, so it would be slow and you will likely die of blood loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:56 PM
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Bears eat you alive so it would be slow painful, torturous death vs rape and death
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:46 PM
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Bears eat you alive and a polar bear runs at 40kph(25mph) while a man who is that jacked will never be able to run very fast, I know from experience. I'll choose the jacked prisoner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:42 PM
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Well, yeah you're attracted to femininity not necessarily women. There's nothing wrong with that btw and I do agree that it is possible to be attracted to men if they pass as women but overall men being attracted to men is gay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:06 AM
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Being attracted to men is the definition of gay so it is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:46 AM
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Did you watch the new rehab room vid?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:37 PM
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Male celebrity you described has more and better options by far, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:29 PM
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The reason the standard exists is just because those men what to have their cake and eat it, they want to sleep around but want a low n-count or virginal woman. The explanations are just post-hoc rationalizations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:14 PM
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No, I would expect it to be just 25-35 cuz that is the range where men’s looks maintain before the decline
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:42 PM
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What I mean is that you can only compare a man doing porn vs woman doing porn not man watching porn and woman doing porn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:29 PM
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Those two situations are not the same, watching porn and being in porn. For the scenario to be the same it will have to be both sexes doing porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:02 PM
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In some cases
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:07 PM
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It's not surprising that we've never had a "conservative" Hollywood rise up to counter this. Because even if you have the money to produce alternative content, everyone who works in the industry would refuse to work on such projects. You cannot hire Meryl Streep to bash Hillary Clinton. The daily wire already tried to make conservative Hollywood and it failed/is failing because most people are normal and don't want to watch overtly political content that isn't well written. Trad shows like Yello…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:41 PM
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Bad idea, if a lady acts that way then don't do it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:26 PM
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I think his flair is ironic, I mean why would he call himself a beta male.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:10 PM
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No not really if it was in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:07 PM
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Whether you do that stuff or not you can still get cheated on and if you feel you need to do that stuff instead of it being something you do because you love your partner then you should leave the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:48 PM
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Why not want to improve themselves to become Chad? Why not have a harem of women? Just go back in time and choose the right parents bro. That said the RP does encourage improvement but there is a limit which money, physique and status will work, all that would happen is you get gold diggers in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:26 PM
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He censored it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:11 AM
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I don’t think so mainstream porn can act as a funnel and ad, for your OF
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:25 PM
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When did you get a bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:08 PM
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Thanks for the detailed comment
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 01:41 AM
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No, I'm just interested from a scientific perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:52 PM
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Question for women, when you are on your period, how often does the blood come out of there in the day?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:43 PM
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Yeah but you don't have to say it like you said
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:45 AM
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Lol, that was uncalled for
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:27 AM
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They have video evidence of women being raped, it’s still hard to get it anywhere near a court room How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:02 AM
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Women suck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:19 PM
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Good point. It’s difficult for these folks to say they don’t care about women or only value women for sex when a woman’s opinion is vital to his opinion of himself. I've never said I only value women for sex and like I've send in another thread high value/low value is only used in reference to dating potential not total human value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:17 PM
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But the person handing you the test. don’t determine if you are good or not. You are either good at math or not. The analogy I used was with reference to how someone can be low value in one area but high value in another not about the grading criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:42 PM
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Ok I’m confused. So a dude can be a complete success in life but be “low value” just cause it as many women want to date him compared to another guy? In terms of dating, yes, similar to how someone can be a genius in military strategy but be a unintelligent at math
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:34 PM
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The women with the traits men generally find to be the most attractive, same for men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:31 PM
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The high value/low value is only used in terms of dating, I don't use it outside of that context. Although for other people, they can view a man as high value in terms of dating but low value in terms of moral value or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:29 PM
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So essentially, women get to determine your value? In terms of dating, sure, if you are trying to attract women but generally, no, I have my own criteria for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:24 PM
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If you can get the most sought after women easily then you are a high value man, how you determine it is if you have the qualities women generally desire: looks, height, wealth, status
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:15 PM
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I think you might just not be that into women(not an insult btw) because all of these thing are stuff you get in a LTR(except virginity maybe) and most men desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:13 PM
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I disagree with that logic, since you aren't really paying for the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:59 AM
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Yeah they would but they’ll never know. Just wanted to say btw that I would personally tell any woman I’m with that I’ve seen escort if she asks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:41 AM
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I doubt you’ll even need to lie because most women don’t ask about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:30 AM
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I highly doubt up to 37% of men have paid for sex considering the sample size is the clients for his dating coaching services. The men who buy shit like that most likely aren’t getting sex easy so will be more likely to pay for sex. Also in the same article, he says surveys and studies say it is about 12-14% in the US, I will say this number is probably the same as the global amount since I’m most of the world prostitution is illegal. As for the ramifications, I see none, a lot of women are eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:26 AM
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You could just not tell her though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:18 AM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:17 AM
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she was chronically on Twitter and TikTok herself. This is most likely why she said all of that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:26 PM
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A variety of sexual partners is nice, commitment is difficult and what percentage of Chad type dudes do you think aren’t monogamous, I’ll say a very low one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:26 PM
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Doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:38 AM
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That twink is taller, and has a better physique than destiny tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:20 AM
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Neutral except the pit bull which is a turnoff depending on how well controlled it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:44 AM
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True but affordable and efficient sex bots are a long time away
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:15 AM
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I doubt women will ever compete with a sex doll unless they become really good and really cheap because most men especially the more attractive ones won't get them. (and people are already shockingly abusive to sex dolls) How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:51 AM
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JFL her name is Stacey. Don't think you should use TikTok considering the point is for the most polarizing thing to go viral. That say the reason why this happens is because men will accept it for sex, if men had higher standards women will go 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:00 AM
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Wouldn’t care if she liked me IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 03:10 PM
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How old are the kids in the school?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:41 AM
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Okay, I just wanted to understand your views on it and they seem fairly reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:36 AM
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What about if someone has two girlfriends in a liberal society and the relationship is closed aside from the two gfs would you have a problem with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:45 AM
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Does polygamy disturb you or just those groups specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:14 AM
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and not committing to a kid that isn't yours I said that here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:52 PM
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Rubi rose is hot but from what I've heard the OF is the same as her insta. Anyways the guy should have spent that money on an escort if he was so hard press, I think the woman is doing nothing worse than most form of capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:01 AM
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Let's be real a paternity test is about infidelity and not committing to a kid that isn't yours. That is the reason why men bring it up and it is why women find it a contentious issue, if it was about the other reason most women wouldn't find it contentious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:59 AM
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Because people keep asking them for a reason why and make it into a moral issue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:07 PM
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Are or were you close with her (talk to her about your life, your problems, did activities together)? I've rarely talk to her about life or life problems and aside from church we didn't do any activities together, although this might just be due to her weight. How much menial labor did your mother perform for you past the age at which you needed her to do it (cooking, cleaning, laundry, driving, shopping chores, etc.). Obviously I'm not talking about a mother feeding her 2 year old. I went to bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:59 PM
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Women can get men easily if they want to so I doubt the boyfriend AI will take off
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:37 PM
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I think it should be legal but there should be a social safety net for all people so poor people don't get into any shit job like sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:10 PM
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Lol, why does that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:08 PM
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Does she still do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:53 PM
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Yeah, one of them gave a guy a bj to completion in a movie. Another one, basically did heavy petting with my bully and he almost saw her naked tits, they got caught but somehow didn't get expelled(I went to a heavily christian school).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:52 PM
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Some people(both male and female) are into men dressing as women and since there are so few of them on twitch it is a good niche to get into. Also why are two of those guys British?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:44 PM
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I agree with all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:10 AM
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It's bad because it means you will have a higher bar to clear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:08 PM
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Girl who’s hooking up with you is more likely to be pickier and you’re prob the only guy meeting her this week and if the night goes good 90% chance you’re both gonna keep hooking up and seeing each other In terms of looks sure but even if it was true for other stuff, why wouldn't the woman be hooking up with other guys? Also isn't her being pickier bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:46 PM
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D2 athlete who achieved some fame for breaking a record. What sport was it? only short man I ever dated How tall was he?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:43 AM
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You'd be wrong. I certainly would love to know everything about a woman I'd be open to being very serious with. Sucks that your short ex was too much of a pussy to handle the truth. Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:32 AM
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I agree that the fact that some 18 year olds are still in highschool is the biggest problem with 18 being the limit for being an adult and I can understand the argument for raising it slightly to 19 or 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:00 PM
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WTF, I’m surprised a law like that could survive this long without it creating a lot controversy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:57 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:56 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:56 AM
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I'm far more concerned about the fact that you can legally marry and fuck children if their parents give consent to it What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:52 AM
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I think 18 is fine for all adult stuff, it doesn’t make any sense for you to be allowed to die in war, vote and be tried as an adult but you can’t drink till 21. I don’t really see the difference between 18 and 21, I’m 21 right now and nothing about me really changed since I was 17. I guess the only problem with 18 is some people will still be in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:51 AM
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No true scottsman I'm not saying they aren't blackpillers, if you ID as a blackpiller and at least believe in looks being extremely important in relationships then you are a blackpiller to me even the bigoted, reactionaries. What I am saying is that people who lash out just haven't come to the final realization and none of this lashing out would matter or make them feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:18 PM
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I'm already gymmaxxing now been going for almost 2 years now, not lean yet though and I'm still in uni but yeah I haven't given up on trying to improve my dating options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:14 PM
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This isn't necessarily true, I am a male loser in terms of looks and dating but I don't lash out to anyone, the men who lash out have just not fully swallowed the blackpoll and realized lashing is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:37 PM
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Blair white is conservative though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:52 PM
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A huge amount of this study concludes hypotheses were unsupported and/or negligible. And was based on speed dating and also admitted it did not weigh how the desire for long term relationships may impact the results obtained. The unsupported hypotheses were1: men will say they prefer looks more than women and women will say they prefer wealth more, 2: men and women will show more of 1 of they prefer long term partners and 3: individuals who state a preference for 1 will match their actual choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 09:11 PM
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The data showed both men and women want looks, personality then wealth if you track their actual choices and not what they say: https://faculty.wcas.northwestern.edu/eli-finkel/documents/EastwickFinkel2008_JPSP.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:17 PM
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Most to least: Love/care for each other Same plans for future(wants to be the mother of my kids) Similar values Sex/physical intimacy Looks Similar interests
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:08 PM
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I doubt that even a significant amount of relationships were started with a cold approach. Yeah, cold approach is the least successful approach but will still be somewhat success if you attractive IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:44 PM
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I do agree that pretending to be a friend is a shitty thing to do and women will take that as worse that if a man slowly develops feelings for them. That being said women still don't like it if a man develops feeling for them and it is unrequited on their end, I'm not saying men should go for it if they feel that way but that is how women feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:43 PM
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I mean, would you not have mixed-gender friend groups? If you don’t, then yeah, you’ll have some difficulty. I have had them but they didn't lead to anything romantic. That being said a problem is that women on reddit and social media don't want to have their friends try to progress into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:03 PM
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If you have a likable personality, both men and women would want to interact with you Yes, having a likeable personality will improve your dating and friendship opportunities. That being said if you approach a woman in one of these places and she doesn't already like you or is introduced by a friend, she won't want interact with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:00 PM
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There are parties and all sorts of social activities to get to know people. I would think you’d almost have to go out of your way not to meet people in an environment like that. If you live in a dorm, women have to want to interact with you in the first place if you do go to the social activities, otherwise from that you will just be seen as a pest. Of course, friendships often escalate to relationships. Women often talk about how they don't like it when men become their friends and try to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:33 PM
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I'd change it from "pursue women" to "meet people" in general. Most adults struggle to expand their social group. A lot don't even have one at all. The thing is if you are trying to make friends especially male friends as a man, all of these places are fine, for female friends you might still get the same thing that women don't want men to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:21 PM
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The truth is if you are an attractive man, you can go anywhere. Women just don't want unattractive men approaching them, you can easily go and twox and see this sentiment expressed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:19 PM
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I'm attractive as fuck man. I worked out 6 times a week all year until now I have a tendon injury so I'll cut it back to 5 after recovery. Gymmaxxing doesn't make you attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:38 PM
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Yet while they admit this expect women to torture themselves by demanding that females give these lowlifes a chance. I can't speak for most men but the reason I bring up the stats of women liking fewer men is to show that it isn't necessarily your fault as a man if you can't get women who find you attractive and being ugly is not a moral failing. You called men who aren't attractive lowlifes, even though they can't control it and being ugly doesn't hurt anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:36 PM
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That isn’t a good analogy, a good one would be if you then justified discrimination and stereotyping muslims due to that small minority
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:52 PM
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Lol did you get this from /fit/ on 4chan?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:22 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:14 AM
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Because sex is a power struggle where the penetrator wins/is validated/is stronger and the penetrated loses/is dirtied/is weaker; I don't think most people think sex is this way This attitude mainly applies to straight relationships but is also a factor in gay relationships, hence the designation of “bottoms” and “tops” And I think the tops vs bottoms is just about what role you perform in gay sex not about power dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:23 AM
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Society in general doesn’t like sex workers so they are an easy target to ridicule. Also I don’t think most women advocate for sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:02 AM
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Middle and late aged single men are significantly outearned by their female counterparts. Do you have evidence for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:45 PM
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No women like ATTRACTIVE bad boys because they are attractive. Second of all, porn and jacking off is nowhere as good as sex, if it was men would never use escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:44 PM
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Lol, this is the first time I have been awake for one of these kinds of unhinged posts. Just don't date women who dress like that for halloween.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:24 AM
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if a man is biologically male but feels like a woman, he has gender dysphoria. So he gets the "cure" by transitioning. Done. Yeah but what I am saying is that if someone is seeing themselves as something different that what their sex says then there is biological reason for that situation. If not, then just raising people as a different sex would make their gender change but it doesn’t and raising trans people as the sex they were born will make them grow up as not trans but it doesn’t. What I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:40 PM
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For most people who are born male/female they will view themselves as male/female For trans people with dysphoria, having the sex traits they are born with causes them dysphoria and they have surgery and take hormones to let their sex traits match how they view themselves. Where it is biological is that trans people with dysphoria undergoes gender transition by taking hormones and getting surgery if it wasn’t about their sex traits then no trans person would get sex change operations and would j…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:17 PM
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100% this, they are just calling you gay with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:11 PM
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I’m just now realizing the problem with this thread most people here are using gender, sex and gender roles interchangeably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:10 PM
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I personally doubt it would be available in that period unless there is something that revolutionizes the field because most of the work can only let embryos grow for a week at most, if it is a fetus then 3 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:09 PM
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Sassy is just what women call you when you don’t do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:59 PM
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Most trans people experience gender dysphoria which is a psychological phenomenon which means it is biological. What you mean to say is gender roles aren’t primarily biological but if gender wasn’t to some degree biological then trans people won’t have gender dysphoria.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:55 PM
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Why do you think it would be available in the next 20-30 years, for most of the embryological research done on this there has been very little headway and it only works for a few days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:49 PM
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I find people who don’t like animals an enigma. Don’t get it lol. They smell, you have to clean their poop and take care of them especially dogs who poop everywhere. The only upside is companionship and they are cute
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:33 PM
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Your original claim before you edited your post after I pointed out the flaw was that women do not expect attractive men to pay for a date is the bailey and your revised claim is the motte. That was 100% not what I said this is what I edited: "unless you are an attractive you will struggle with women" I added man to my post and introduced a comma after it in response to this person( u/AverageJenkemEnjoyer). I didn't start reading your comment till I edited it, I have no way to prove that I didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:30 AM
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My disagreement is that paying for dates is a show of good will, I don't think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:02 AM
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Why not? For the same reason why women generally don't openly say they prefer white men even though the evidence supports it, because it would be controversial Motte and bailey You aren't using that well, I am not using that statement "attractive men generally have it easier in dating" as monte. I'm using it as part of my argument for my position that average to below average men who hold that standard will struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:53 AM
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I don't particularly care about paying for dates, I would do it if it would increase my dating prospects without much costs. I'm just replying to the idea that it is about good will
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:48 AM
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Obviously no woman is out here saying this but attractive men generally have it easier in dating/more options and women also generally expect men to pay for dates especially the first one. It follows that attractive men that only want to split the bill will find it easier to get dates than average to below average ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:22 AM
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Thanks for bring attention to the error
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:11 AM
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Most women expect it and unless you are an attractive man, you will struggle with women if you try to split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:47 AM
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good will How does it show good will, the reason you do it most women still expect this aspect of traditionalism and if you don't play along as a man you will struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:45 AM
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Lol, that is some pretty intense stuff but I don't think they got it from any mainstream porn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:19 AM
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It also distorts mens views on sex which has in turn made a hell of a lot of girls i've been with want blowjob abuse, rape play, getting decked in the face while giving bj's etc The women, themselves asked for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:57 AM
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How is a body count related to love? Is there anything more romantic than wanting to be someone’s first and last love? I can see the romance in being each others firsts but the argument he made was about being cute and innocent. By the way, statistics show that people who save their virginity for marriage have very low divorce rates, compared to people who had premarital sex. When liberals hear these statistics, they respond by saying “people who save their virginity for marriage are religious f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:58 PM
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Find it funny you think Onlyfans is bad for normal, healthy relationships but FOSTA/SESTA and the shutting down of Backpage and Craigslist which are related to stopping Full Service Sex Work which is antithetical to normal male-female relationships is bad. Anyways the reason why sex work is ban and crackdown is because these places are run by Christian or liberals who do if for religious or feminist reasons respectively not some conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:54 PM
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-Why there are soo many stalkers who are man but very few who are women. Just going to stop you here, stalking isn’t love, it is obsession. Why men care more about a woman bodycount and talk about seeing her as pure, cute, inocent but women don't want an inocent , cute man, they want a dominant, masculine man which from my point of view doesn't sound romantic. How is caring about body count related to love? Men have a variety of women that they like (dominant woman, submissive woman, fat, skinny…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:44 PM
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100% this especially as a man. As an adult, if you didn’t socialize with people or got the degenerate parties as a teenager or in college, you would miss out of socialization. If you are female, you can catch up but as a male it would be extremely difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:21 PM
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No and I think that is a good thing, my mom would probably still have been a virgin prior because she is a Christian. That being said if she was under the modern dating paradigm she would have 100% not married my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:34 PM
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Ah, sorry about that, hope your life is going well now though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 10:18 PM
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I think it is just because those men are attractive and it acts as a halo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:52 PM
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until I went to prison Why did you go to prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:51 PM
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he's physically stronger and men assault people more than women You know this literally applies to all male- female interactions and using this logic you can say a man interacting with a woman even if she initiated it is wrong because he is very likely stronger and men assault more people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:49 PM
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What do you consider to be great shape though? Do you have to be this big or does he count?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:19 AM
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Yes, if you go to the gym for a 6 months to a yeah you will have a better physique that most people but the truth is these things won't do much to improve you looks unless you are really out of shape/have poor hygiene
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:55 PM
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No, wtf. Only a small percentage of women ask for money for sex/sexual content regularly. Obviously do whatever you want but you’ll just get laughed at by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:37 PM
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Going to the gym and showering doesn't make up for ugly facial structures. I’m happy a woman said this. I’m a man who is fine with the kind of relationship you describe if the woman loves me(like personality wise). I’m not very attractive but I find most women to be attractive, so obviously if I get into a relationship there is a chance that the woman might not find me physically attractive. I don’t mind that if she actually wants to be with me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:08 PM
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Men find most women fuckable, which is different Most men will date the same women they will fuck unless they don't like her personality and most men don't just try to date the most attractive women. Only attractive women are attractive, duh Yes, and I think most men see most women as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:17 PM
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Women control both sex and relationships in most cases, men have it harder in dating and finding a gf/wife than women do in finding a husband/bf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:51 PM
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Most men find most women attractive and will be willing to date them while most women don't find most men attractive. You don't have to be seen as beautiful to be desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:49 PM
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Not in a relationship but I would prefer independent for emotional needs. What do you mean by physical? Sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:03 PM
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Oh lol, I was replying to OP not the commenter that talked about buried penis
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:46 PM
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How? Do you mean that fat men will learn how to cook and be funny to compensate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:03 PM
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Your assumptions about fat men is false, just because you are fat doesn't mean all of those things apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:45 PM
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Yeah OP just assumed that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:43 PM
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No, the male physical prime for looks 20 to 30 past 30 is a slow but not very noticeable decline. For women, it is 18-25, then slow decline
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:53 PM
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The argument isn’t that short men can’t get any women just that it makes it increasingly more difficult the shorter you are and if a short male is struggling with women it is very likely to be his height.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:55 AM
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Depends on the advice, I’ll say the same about advice from an attractive man or a bi/lesbian woman. The dynamics won’t be the same in both cases, I think you should take the advice but think well about it applies to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:53 AM
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Are the women you date typically in your age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:34 AM
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She literally used that word first, I was only using it because she used it and it is a useful descriptor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:23 PM
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I'm six feet tall Lol, seriously didn't know you were that tall
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:19 PM
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A lot of men deny that they have height preferences but let’s be for real most guys are attracted to woman under 5’5 over woman that are tall Yes men are attracted to shorter woman as well but it is no where as much as the reverse, even a really tall women 182.88cm(6ft) has a lower chance(52.18% acceptance) of being rejected for their height that a slightly below average (170.18cm) 5'7 man(35.62). I mean, you could go for a taller guy or a shorter guy who doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:18 PM
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Yeah someone else gave me a link seems like that post would have been wild
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:10 PM
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You are right that there is still some stigma to being rape victim but the police will take you seriously regardless of if you are a perfect victim on not in most cases, that is their job. I mean even the woman that Kobe raped, she wasn't a perfect victim, she had sex with other guys after amongst other stuff that made some people in the media make fun of her but a police report was filed and it went to court. Not saying they won't give you a hard time if you aren't a perfect victim and ask irre…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:07 PM
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Prime example: Every man knows a woman who has been sexually assaulted or arrested but no one knows any rapist or harassers. So when the conversations come up as to why women are so defensive and scared of men, it’s immediately downplayed. Arrested? Also rape/sexual assault of a woman or child by a man is a crime and a pretty serious socially damning one at that fact. If a man admits to anyone that they committed such a crime they run the risk of being reported to the authorities or social ostra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:32 PM
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Just yesterday, there was a post that we should „breed female bodies in a vegetative state“ so men could have access to sex. Lol, why is it that al these unhinged posts happen when I’m not on this sub. Do you have a link to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:27 PM
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Depends on what kind of tattoo it is, where on you body it is and how many you have. Most of the time it will probably have a neutral effect, but if you have a lot or they are on your face or something like that it will be a huge turn off to most high quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:48 AM
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I don’t want to be that guy but there are a lot of Chadfish dating app experiment that show a lot of women are willing to compromise values for an attractive guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:07 AM
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I think if a man is attractive unless he is absolutely dogshit, his beauty will shield any personality defects
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:18 AM
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Okay I agree with your perspective especially the warm approach being easier than OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:34 PM
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I can see how social events won't be a cold approach but not parties unless you already knew them prior which would mean you met her somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:28 PM
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A lot of women complain about men who are their friends and try to go on romantic dates on them. Also having friends and going to places won't improve your chances if you are trying to go in the route someone in the Automod posted because you can just go yourself to those place and having friends with you won't improve your dating options much in fact it can harm them in some cases
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:08 PM
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Parties, social events These two are cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:03 PM
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Face Height R*ce Hair Leaness D size
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:31 PM
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Doubt it cuz if that was true African countries won’t dominate fertility rates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:24 PM
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Some of the first school shootings in America (19th century) were because an entitled male suitor got rejected by a school teacher Do you have a link to this because I looked it up and the only one that is close to it is that a guy shot the principal for not delivering his love letter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:07 PM
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Doubt it considering they both went to an expensive society private school(link)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:57 PM
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He said women pay money to stick big dildos in their asses and I said no, gay men do. It isn’t about viewing it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:50 PM
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It's almost as useless as using dating app statistics. You essentially have nothing but someones looks to judge them by, Dating apps stats are useful for the same reason why this is useful, it can tell you what people value physically and how much they value it which you can use to your advantage in looksmaxxing. There is also the fact that in speed dating studies you do get a feel of that person's personality by talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:21 PM
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Didn't notice this tidbit, I guess: I did, those studies are done on hunter-gatherer and farmer-forager tribes so it doesn't really matter to me here and in a lot of those tribes the men and women preferred the man to be taller just that it didn't translate as much to real world relationships in those tribes. Is not being rejected by over half the women for being 5'8 supposed to be bad? 2 inches shorter than average male participant height too. Yes, I would say so to some extent because the stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:18 PM
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I have read that study multiple times, I know it is a speed dating even the same way I know that past 162.56cm and above 198.16cm there were only single digits men. The same way I know that for the shorter men they had a greater chances of getting dates out of the smaller percentage of women who preferred their heights. The reason speed dating is used in dating studies is because it lets researchers easily mimic dating as close as possible in a study environment and receive feedback without wast…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:55 PM
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Yeah, I’m very sure that most women don’t do anal or masturbate with a 12in dildo and an even smaller percentage do anal with a 12 in dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:44 PM
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feminine social roles and more looked down upon, ie. the choice to be a housewife is, to an exten It is mostly feminists and women who do this, I rarely see a non-feminist man or woman disrespect female work especially not the housewife
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:25 PM
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I don't think you should hate women for their standards, it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:22 PM
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Appendix: Table A3 page 45
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:22 PM
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Most women don’t pay for it gay men do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:58 PM
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48% of women will reject a 5’8 male for being too short
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:57 PM
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question for men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:27 PM
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Why do you stay in those relationships when you see the signs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:19 PM
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I’m not saying that if you approach women the chances are she doesn’t want to talk to you and she might be rude unless you are attractive. I still think me should approach women since it is immoral or a crime to do so but they should keep the idea in mind and most of their approaches should be when they see choosing signals, if they want to be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:44 PM
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I think you were already a somewhat attractive or successful person to start with because just having a certain lifestyle in your niche isn't all that would attract women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:18 AM
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lifestyle What was the lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:32 PM
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A lot of women on reddit, twitter and tiktok say they don't want to be approched by guy in clubs or parties because they go there to have fun with their friends(although they obviously mean they don't want to be approached by men that aren't attractive.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:30 PM
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I’ll say it is different considering men don’t imply that the women who do fit the standard have some sort of moral or personal hygiene failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:59 PM
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i know how defend myself as i been watching self defense videos and fights but the worry is still very there If this is your experience with self defence, then you were better off not knowing anything. Most self defence videos are bad and the ones that teach you something relevant cause you to overestimate your strength since you have never sparred with a resistant target. As for how to avoid being raped, you should first understand that you chances of being attacked by anyone for any reason are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:01 AM
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You got a chance of fucking a woman that might have been forced into it. (I ain't judging your taste lol) You should 100% judge if the person actively looks for women forced into it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:09 PM
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What are the benefits of going to sex workers? If you can't get regular women like me, you get sex, if you can then but you aren't a slayer then you get to have sex with more attractive women than you would reasonably have gotten. Also if you are into a certain sex act like anal or femdom, you can easily find an escort who does it while regular women it might be difficult. What about the argument that you cannot get love from sex workers? You are going for sex not love, if you want love then I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:00 PM
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What do you mean by constantly under the threat of violence? Do you mean randos where threatening violence towards you on the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:52 AM
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It is 6% regardless of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:50 PM
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Everyone is equal we’re mandated by law to help stop a crime if we witness it. This isn't actually true, in fact in most states in the US you don't have to even call the police or give tips to them if you witness a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:41 PM
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No, men shouldn't be expected to help women, that being said people should be encouraged to help other people regardless of sex or race to the best of their ability and considering their safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:36 PM
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She is fat though, her arms and legs are big(and they are not muscle), she has a protruding belly and her face has noticeable fat, which is rare for women unless they are actually fat. Not saying she is a bad person for it but she is fat and not “thicc”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:51 AM
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trim your beard and keep it clean I agree with this although if you have a weak jawline, you should grow a beard invest in your style, even wearing things like watches or other accessories add to your style too. But the type of shirts you wear, pants, etc.. and how you wear them can really change your look too. I find that store like zara have really good stuff for men. I doubt style would increase your looks much to most women unless you just dress extremely bad wear cologne I don't think most …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:00 AM
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Here’s the thing, you can only improve your looks very little unless you were obese, emaciated or have a medical condition affecting your looks. Most of the stuff you mentioned that women do like the coloured hair and nails men don’t care about, let’s be real only women care about new clothes, coloured hair, nails and non/natural makeup. That being said I am blackpilled and in favour of men improving their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:13 AM
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Stop bragposting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:54 PM
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Just lol at the answers aside from the nichemaxxing one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:48 AM
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sex ratio for elephant seals At birth it is slightly biased towards males(~52.3%)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:04 AM
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Just what to clarify I have no strong opinions on whether humans are monogamous naturally, although I do think we probably are. You are misunderstanding Fisher's principle, if there a lets say 100 females for 50 males in a species(and the male's gametes determine sex for simplicity) and it takes equally resources to raise them. The males would be more of a hot commodity that females due to rarity and produce more offspring, so it will mean that males with a greater propensity to produce male gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:38 AM
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You're welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:13 AM
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Prime age is 18-25
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:07 AM
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30 is the wall according to the RP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:02 AM
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Consistent sex and takes less effort, children, social benefits and tax benefits(in some states). All of the things you listed are also worse case scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:28 AM
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Ideal height for a male partner is 25cm(9.8 inches) taller for women, for men ideal female partner is 7cm(2.8 inches) shorter(1). Average height differences between male and female is 13cm(5inches) btw, also in that study 48% of women considered men at 5’8 to be too short while you had to be really tall 6'5 before close to the same percentage(46%) of women found you too tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:24 PM
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Sexually aggressive probably means sexual harassment in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:01 PM
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How can both these statements about sexualizing strangers be true? They aren’t and those women are most likely lying to appear virtuous or personally don’t feel sexual attraction towards strangers. Women do feel sexual attraction towards attractive men just that they don’t find most men attractive. Also just as an aside: It's not good to objectify or sexualize or fantasize about women in this non-sexual setting. To the women who think like this, how are you going to yourself from objectify or se…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:24 PM
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She acted like this for a whole week, that has gone beyond venting, especially since she was saying stuff like she would start eating like him to lose weight. Also if you are venting and don’t want a solution then it is just pointless conversation, even worse if you get angry at someone for giving a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:41 PM
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His gf is retarded, what was the point of her asking this question and saying shit like that if she didn’t want a solution
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:26 PM
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This whole subreddit is filled with men crying about women liking Chads. Are they saying women shouldn't like Chads? Because I am someone who says women prefer attractive men(Chads) first and foremost but I have never said women shouldn't do that. Even the people who complain about women preferring chads here or on blackpill forums don't say women shouldn't do that, they just complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:15 PM
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I haven't seen men say women should look past a man's looks aside from if it is used by a RP channels that say if you want a successful guy you will have to look past looks. As for tall men, the only scenario I have personally seen it brought up is as response for women who say men preferring fat women is shallow or to point out the hypocrisies of the body positivity movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:06 PM
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Looks don't matter, just be confident
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:00 PM
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Facts. Let’s put women in Burkas then. I didn't say that No you’re focus on looks I said unattractive women have their own looks standards that isn't about being focused on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:48 AM
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Oh? Then what is the big deal about “revealing clothes” if not for the attention aspect? One big reason is that you want the more revealing parts of your partner to only be seen by you or have moral values about dressing modestly. I hear religious women are reaaal fun in bed. I'm not personally religious but I would assume a religious guy cares about more than sexual performance. Oh so that’s why you’re black pilled Why? The religion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:52 AM
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but he’s still dating the kinda cute paralegal, not the fast food worker. Yeah, I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:24 AM
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Because attractive women and or people in general get a lot of attention. We are talking about revealing clothes not, the attention attractive women get. So if that stresses you out to the point of trying to dictate what a mf wears. It isn't about dictating what people(women) wear, lots of women attractive dress modestly without anyone telling them to(although most are religious). I never said it affects me personally just that your argument doesn't follow. Please go date ugly people. I would if…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:23 AM
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Or you can date a more modest attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:07 AM
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You're into obese women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:35 PM
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I am saying a hot female lawyer will date an attractive lawyer or attractive professional while an average looking lawyer will have to date a less attractive lawyer or attractive woman in a less prestigious job
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:33 PM
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Weight does matter to women, but an ugly fit guy is less attractive than an out of shape handsome guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:30 PM
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Aren't hot female lawyers also a hot commodity?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:14 PM
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normal weight Can you post a picture of what you consider a normal weight woman but is called fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:01 PM
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Margot Robbie are mid. Margot Robbie is more attractive than Emma Stone by quite a bit though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:00 PM
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CMV LOL, most of the comments here are just agreeing. What is the point if you aren't going to obey the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:24 PM
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This isn’t shocking, so get over it. But OP disagreed with that: what's even more telling is that when they finally meet a guy who might be ok in their eyes at least initial vibe and looks wise... He loses her because of lack of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:20 PM
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Blue pill is normal folks If we define the bluepill this way then it varies based on generation and demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:02 PM
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If you are attractive, women won’t care and would be fine teaching you how to be sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:58 PM
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Bluepill is generally used to describe advice that focuses around how the world should be with personality being the deciding criteria for women in terms of sexual and romantic partners. Also a focus on sameness between the sexes in terms of what they want from a relationship and personality/behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:56 PM
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That isn't bluepill though, it is just trad advice, most older people tend to give traditional advice that is neither truly red or blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:22 PM
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Unless we are think of different ideas of bluepill, the bluepill says that looks don't matter as much and it is mostly about your personality first and for most for either sex or relationships. They also disagree with the redpill on game and don't believe it works, bluepillers also say that money and status doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:49 PM
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Red pill is just blue pill explained to full-blown autists with cum-stained t-shirts living in their moms basements. In what way? The redpill and bluepill are different from each other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:13 PM
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Yeah, a somewhat positive effect, it made me understand about women and looks, it also stopped me from making awkward approaches to women like I did before and also helped me peace with bad looks. I'm blackpilled btw
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:40 PM
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I say ones initiated by women probably do better on average cuz more men are into women than the other way around. If a woman initiates she was probably really into you or desperate either way it would lower the risk of the relationship breaking up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:09 PM
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It's the road to inceldom. The road to inceldom is lack of dating success
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:46 PM
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You will be lied about everything. Women dont know the truth and seem to be averse to any kind of truth as their world is of appearances not facts. Everything no, about looks yes. Women are quite honest about what they want they just hide it. The moment you dont provide what she demands the clock is ticking for her to leave. If you are attractive and/or she actually likes you then, no. You will not be helped, supported or cared for. You are the one who does these. She will just take. And at best…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:14 PM
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We don't know, they both came out and said the divorce was amicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:02 PM
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Why are you using movies as evidence for what happens IRL? That being said they are both a 6-6.5 facially. SMV wise gosling is higher cuz of body, more fame and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:14 AM
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They can but it is just the point of her post was that even if you are a good guy your wife can still leave you and that just means that as a man, marriage/commitment is a risk because you can lose the love of your live because they just lose interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:42 AM
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I think it’s interesting that you put #3 and 5 as their own categories because they look like the same type to me. I’m sure there are reasonable differences but I have no idea what they are so they must not be meaningful to me. 5 is way bigger and leaner than 3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:35 AM
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and five guys on roids which do women find most attractive?" You don't need steroids to look like 3 neither do I think he is on roid, he has just been training for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:26 AM
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"roidhead" Lol, didn't think, I'll see Sam Sulek on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:24 AM
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Mallet? I meant manlet, it was the autocorrect. Rejection sucks? Who cares. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. Without risk there is no reward. "Rejection sucks", yeah. And it does suck and heat tempers the sharpest steel. Sure but you can understand that some men might not always want to go through rejection consistently. There is also my other point: a lot of women complain about not like it when men they are not attracted to approach them so the responsibility should shift to women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:19 AM
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You don’t need weights. You actually do, weight bearing exercises help increase bone and muscle mass which will reduce your risk of osteoporosis(which causes brittle bones) and help retain mobility. The more muscle you have also increases insulin sensitivity which helps prevent diabetes risk and reduces LDL(bad) cholesterol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:18 AM
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That name 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:06 AM
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You're using the word manlet wrong. I also don't think men want women to approach them because they are scared, it is just that rejection sucks and a lot of women complain about not like it when men they are not attracted to approach them so the responsibility should shift to women if it bothers them so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:05 AM
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OP's conclusion relied on a cherry picked example No, it did not. I brought up that example because it is a simple way to illustrate male-male intersexual competition and how it relates to paternal uncertainty. I could have just as easily brought up sperm competition as a way to illustrate my point but my original example is more commonly known. Also like I pointed in an early comment, there was a reason I said preference and said all species instead of solely and all males respectively because …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:42 AM
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I already addressed it my post but I’ll repeat it If it was that you just stopped liking him as a person as time went on, then this is just a reason to never get married or commit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:42 PM
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I agree with the sentiment but why get married in the first place, because if you entered the relationship knowing you weren't attracted to the good guy then you are a bad person. If it was that you just stopped liking him as a person, then this is just a reason to never get married or commit to women, both are support for redpill and blackpill ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:21 AM
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None of those posts say to shame women into lowering their standards though, they are just rightly saying dating is harder for men or average looking men don't get representation in female romance movies. In fact in one of them the solution is to get a hooker, it isn't related to what is being discussed aside from women having high standards for looks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:00 AM
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Who says you should do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:13 AM
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There was a reason I said preference and not a stronger word like sole desire or spoke in absolutes it is because I am aware of situations where individuals will care for another individual’s offspring like altruism (which can aid genes closely related to theirs to pass down ultimately improving their own fitness) or cases like yours. That being said I also think females also do have preference for their genes to pass down that is why first sentence said species not males.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:12 AM
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You are talking about the same species that would commit infanticide because the females would pay more attention to the baby than having sex. This is highly anomalous behaviour in humans even among humans who commit crimes, this is like an alien anthropologist saying cuckoldry fetish is normal human sexual behaviour. For most of our primal state we didn't even know how women got pregnant. Some groups of humans believed it to be intervention from the moon. The vast majority of primitive cultures…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:04 PM
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Paternal uncertainty is not a primal drive for men at all. This isn’t true, all species have a strong preference to pass down their genes and in some of them the male kills their rival’s offspring to ensure their genes propagate. Why would human males be any different in wanting to pass down their genes(obviously strategy is different)since we were and still are subject to the same evolutionary pressures. There is also the fact that in most human societies their is a preference for mostly monoga…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:22 PM
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Are you wealthy? Like make 6 figures after tax? Because if not less kids means an overall aging population which will lead to a less people to work and pay for your social security and take care of you in your old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:24 AM
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Great example, women of color changes are twice as likley to die during childbirth than that of a white woman. Which is ridiculous to me because we both have access to the same health care and modern medicine, how is it that a black womans chances of survival drop even!? Women of colour, you mean black women right, the only studies I have seen talk about black women. Black women, black people in general are poorer so they have lower quality of medical care in general
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:20 AM
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How? If he was pestering her after she made it known she wasn't interested sure but if not I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:47 PM
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who was likely fetishized and cornered by a gross, aggressive old man How do you know he was fetishizing her? The attraction could just be normal or he could just be friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:32 PM
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Your title and post are talking about two different things, but yes men get harassed more than women with the exception of sexual harassment but your post isn’t talking about harassment just sex workers aggressively advertising their services
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:00 AM
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Lol, I say them all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:38 PM
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I do lift though, I can paused bench 275lbs, deadlift 540lbs and strict press 200lbs at 190lbs, my point is just that lifting isn’t a panacea to male looks problems
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:39 PM
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Lol, cuz of Wheat Waffles looks or personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:26 PM
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That guy a composite image of the most attractive male faces so he is meant to be the one that appeals to the most number of people but yes individual preferences still do apply. That being what would you rate this guy and guy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:20 PM
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I never said that just that you can only improve your looks so by a certain degree because looks is mostly the face, not saying gymmaxxing doesn’t help
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:08 PM
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Get good. You can only improve your looks very little unless you are fat to start
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:49 PM
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How do I know if I’m 3 or 7? The most accurate method is ask a huge sample of the sex you are attracted to rate you and collect the average but no one has time for that shit so. You use a standard like picrel and rate men based on how much they deviate from it or how women treat you as a man(doesn't work as well for women attracted to men).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:47 PM
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Why are you using YouTube terminology to get around demonetization on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:43 PM
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49ers Lol, this actually made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:42 PM
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What do you find attractive about yourself? Above average eye area Decent jawline Mostly clear skin Somewhat muscular physique Would you say you have a high/low/moderate self esteem? Moderate Do you feel you have unattractive qualities and what are they if you don't mind sharing? Yes. slight below average heigh(5’8.5”) slight but noticeable facial asymmetry face is longer than it is wide which gives me a bad mid face nose and lips are too large for my face Have you ever gotten any feedback from …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:13 PM
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As a matter of fact, males who put other things above sex and women are more likely to get sex and women. Go figure. I don’t think they are correlated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:19 PM
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Living a comfortable life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:16 PM
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Who do you think that education and housing is for? For themselves, especially the education expenditure, that benefit is for the women individually, it doesn’t apply to their kids because this study only counted it for the individual. As for the housing, again it is for themselves obviously their kids are included in it if they are single moms but they need to live somewhere as well Why do you think they're more likely to be unemployed? Idk? Although, I’m sure what you are trying to get at is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:05 PM
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I bet what women "take" is generally for their families including men. No, you're wrong, women were more likely to use more health and education benefits than men, they were more likely to use housing assistance and unemployment(1). It would be impossible to say how much of their expenditure is family assistance, unless a study on that is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:12 PM
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This is a nice theory except it hinges on a few falsehoods, first most men aren’t impregnating multiple women in the modern era even among black people where they are more likely to have multiple kids by different mates, it is only 15% but for black women it is59%. In general women, have more kids with different partners than men. The next one is that for the most part incentives don’t seem to actually help with raising fertility it still goes down in the long term, although short term spikes mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:19 PM
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It was an old study(2013) from New Zealand that show men as a group are the only net tax payer due to women taking more from the system and putting less tax into it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:23 PM
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There are too many people in the 3rd world not in the 1st world, in the 1st world there aren’t enough people reproducing which can eventually lead to economic stagnation or regression due to less working age people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:10 PM
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In what ways OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:16 AM
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So what you’re saying is single dads suffer more than single moms. At least single moms can still more or less get laid whenever. I am comparing relative to their options without children. Depends what each individual defines as a “quality date”. By quality, I mean closer to what each sex wants on average, taller, handsome, fitter, wealthier men for women and prettier, fitter and shorter women for men. So I still don’t get your argument of single moms have a harder time. Seems like they get the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:41 PM
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Women have inherently higher SMV than men especially when it comes to sex so they won't have trouble finding a man who will have sex with them. For a relationship, it will reduce the quantity and quality of their dating options. Plus my own experience it seems like 2/3 Tinder profiles I see are single moms. I can’t say how much action they get but knowing men? As for Tinder, 75% of tinder profiles are male, just because people are in tinder in high numbers doesn't prove it works for them. That b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:26 PM
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Single parents are less attractive to both sexes but women suffer more for being single moms than men do in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:27 PM
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I meant I never said men don't do it as well. Also I don't really know what blackpill is. It is a pill type that stress the importance of looks as the most important factor in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:15 AM
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I never said men, I know people desire looks first my flair is blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:59 AM
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Women will chose 2 because he is taller and more attractive, the job won't affect it much since he is going to start making money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:49 AM
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I nominate u/Johnny_Autism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:12 AM
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You're still going to go out and interact with others and take ideas from porn into the real world, including ideas about entitlement to sex. There's even increasing evidence that supports a link between sexual and violent crime and porn use. Porn teaches violence, it doesn't remove it. Doubt it, when a meta-analysis was done on this it found no relationship between non-violent porn and aggression, assaults and sex crimes, in fact the population studies showed that it decreased sexual aggression…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:57 PM
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If you think you're "undesirable", there is an alternative option. What is the alternative?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:49 PM
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Doubt it considering having sex will always feel way better than masturbating to porn, if someone gives up on self improving for women, they are typically either lazy or have done it and it didn't improve their options
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:49 PM
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Is Toby MCGuire what we are calling average now? Facially, height wise and in terms of physique he is pretty average, technically slightly below in terms of height
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:35 AM
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Let's say an avg Toby McGuire looking man asked you out and promised to add 100 lbs to their bench, and cut their mile time by 45 seconds for you by the end of the year, and also make 6 figures by the end of 5 years into the relationship. (Essentially a 315 bench and 5:00 minute mile) and also promised to grow his dick by 1 inch but it would be without feeling or sensation at the glans. Women don't care how much you bench or how fast you run, also the average untrained male doesn't bench 215 or …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:25 AM
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Too many incels tried this How do you know if they are incels or not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:30 PM
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I doubt this would work if you are too young for her(early 20s) being that young will work against you. Older women still have standards like younger one, so if you are short and/or ugly, you will still get none, also just as an aside, aren't you afraid of catching something from the bareback sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:56 PM
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I love that so much attention is placed on someone behind 28 cis women That's 29th in the world out of 71328, not in a single meet, would be really impressive, that is in the 99.96 percentile of all female competitors. In a National meet she is typically 3rd, if she had competed in this years worlds she would have been 5th or 6th, and she recently broke a Canadian record.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:09 PM
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The CPU/IPF policy on this is really stupid(you don't have to hormonally transition to compete as a female). I also wanted to clarify something on powerlifting terms, "Raw": You are allowed to only use a belt and knee sleeves which both to some degree lift to lift more Drug Tested: Test for PEDs ban by WADA Non-Drug Tested: no drug test(you can raid ass much as you want) Equipped: You are allowed to use more supportive equipment like a bench shirt, squat and deadlift suit. For the bench shirt sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:19 AM
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I don't know just had a few convos with you and assumed you were one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:28 AM
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You are attracted to guys who like IFBB pros?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:03 AM
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Thought you were a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:29 PM
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You’re a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:45 PM
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Did expect that, what do they mean by personality, just be nice or game?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:32 PM
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Are your friends female? Anyways they do and they primarily care about face, then height, then being fit(not fat), having muscle is lower down(this is in terms of looks btw, not counting personality)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:43 PM
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The women most likely weren’t that attracted to the man in the first place, they settle and then stop being attracted to the male
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:01 PM
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Men do but I just think for women being with a beautiful man can overcome the disappointment of not orgasming
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:19 PM
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Yeah probably
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:51 PM
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I think the reason why counselling goes bad is because most people who go to counselling are already having problems in their marriages, so the counsellor is adding fuel to the fire. There is also the fact that a lot of the people in that line of work tend to have a female bias so they will downplay the female's bad behaviour and amplify the male's bad behaviour. As for the chores, I'll say breaking your marriage because of chore is a stupid reason and if it is causing you grievance bring it up.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:43 PM
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Most women won't offer their bodies to a man who is going to disappoint them Doubt it considering that women still do casual hookups with attractive men, even though they make jokes about how men can't find the clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:33 PM
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What is an example of a cute snap?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:28 PM
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I agree with most of these examples but I don't think texting after work for non-work related things isn't leading you on, they could just want to be your friend. Obviously sending "hey" by 2am or sending cute snaps is a form of leading on but I think that might also on some level me mistranslation of female friendships into mixed sex friendship, although I do agree that if a man sent that, it would be seen as flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:55 PM
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Almost all violent and problematic men get sex because they are willing to resort to being violent and problemetic to get it I doubt that this is the main reason why, I think it is just because violent criminals are seen as more masculine in their subcultures and have more status seeking traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:45 PM
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I'm a male, the reason why is either their personal experiences indicate otherwise or they are applying the halo effect or they know the studies that show that women only care about personality if you hit the looks threshold. As for the the choices of women, how crazy vs how nurturing and is the 5/10 woman shorter than 5'8(mostly the first one though)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:20 PM
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What if its a non extradition country like Phillipines or India or Ukraine? That's fine, the chances of it happening in an extradition country is extremely low as well Money in the bank can always be taken away electronically, but cash, they have to come to you to take it. Not, really if it is in a foreign account, the problem with putting it with you in the place is that anything can happen to it if TSA searches you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:06 AM
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I would advice you not to carry large sum of money in a suitcase, just open a foreign account in that country. As for why the man won't do it, if you have a kid with that chick then that's the end of you ever seeing them, there is also the trouble of your job, the language barrier and never seeing your family again. Aside from that, you might still get on the hook for child support due to international agreements if she is willing to fight(although that will be unlikely due to difficulty).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 05:41 AM
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Damn, sad way to go out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:26 AM
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Serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:15 AM
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Broke college student
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:14 AM
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ajdnrbeitnte ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:07 AM
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More therapy There are many therapy options with a variety of trained professionals. How is therapy going to improve your looks, and height
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:03 AM
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How do you not feel resentful? For 2 reasons, 1, if I was a female I would do the exact same thing as them and be oblivious to the blackpill, 2, in the grand scheme of it not being able to get a relationship isn't the worst thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:02 AM
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Theotokos Are you orthodox?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:33 AM
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