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CMVLiveWallaby233/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:10 AM
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Because it is a soap opera? Using a fiction history written by someone to compare with reality doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:24 PM
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Nothing new is happening, teenage girls are obsessed with young male pop stars. This has been happening since I don't know when.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:25 PM
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Woman aren't actively competing for men. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:54 PM
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Being a predator is not necessarily making others feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:16 PM
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I don't believe in genuine love, that one can care about the other without expecting anything in return. I don't believe that you can love and care for someone if they can't provide you with anything. Humans by nature are selfish and only care about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:47 AM
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Im at about 11%-12%, last time I tested, I benched 95kg, and I weigh 75kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:15 PM
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Morals, it all comes down to morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:47 PM
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Nice to meet you, I'm the living evidence that you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:17 PM
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A 10/10 has more chances on a club, dating apps, bar, than a 6/10 billionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:14 PM
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Firstly i wanna make this short, i absolutely believe that looks make u more attractive and its easyer and all the other lingo blabla. I also believe if youre 5‘1 with a deformed face that no women will truly desire you etc. You just refuted your own idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:12 PM
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You really have no knowledge of nutrition, human health and human physiology.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:21 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:14 PM
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No, they weren't lol. Professional athletes have the bests nutritionist behind their backs telling them what, when, how, and how much they should eat. Do you really think that you don't have to eat healthily to be at the 0,001% of the best in a sport? And where did you get this info that ex-athletes are obese? Do you have any example?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:54 PM
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Having different metabolisms doesn't mean one can't lose weight?! My whole family is obese, my siblings are obese, so I have all the perfect genetics and metabolism excuse to be fat, but I'm not. I changed, I worked myself to get where I am. Being fat is a choice for 99,99% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:51 PM
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Even though my dad was around my whole life until I moved out, he wasn't really there. We never talked about anything except when I tried to like the sports he like to watch. I learned how to shave on youtube, I learned how to change a tire on youtube, I learned how to drive with my friend's dad, and I learned how to treat girls on the fucking internet. Even though I really wished he was more interested in me, I don't blame him at all, I know he worked very hard to provide for a family of 3 chil…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/23 07:38 AM
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You just described an ideal men according to feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:21 PM
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Are you dumb? Plenty of sexist **sholes like you on this sub do. I literally said that I don't believe in that?! How stupid can you be? You're treating women like some gambling object Im not treating women like objects, im looking at social skills as a science, what works, and what doesn't. Again, where did I say that I needed to approach a high number of women because failure rate is so high? I never said anything remotely close to that, at this point I'm 100% sure you are sitting on a hospice …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:19 PM
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I would like you to quote that part that you read, because I really can't find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:13 PM
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I don't know if I need to start using glasses, or if you are just delusional, but would you care to mention where do you think you saw those words under my username?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 10:08 PM
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I've had a platonic cuddle buddy for the last half a year. But she did randomly kiss me at some concert three weeks ago, and I haven't been able to get my shit together since, so idk "I'm not gay, but I do have sex with men sometimes " Same energy...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:58 PM
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I think you are off by a couple of dozen years
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:25 PM
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? When did I say that I'm chasing every woman that I come across? Can you even read?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:13 PM
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I'd like to see that data.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:53 PM
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I have a friend that at the beginning of the relationship, she was giving me attractions signals, even friends would tell me she was attracted to me but when I tried to move things forward she would shut it down. One day I asked her what did she feel about me, and it was purely platonic. Turns out that her way of showing friendly affection is a bit different. I was/am very attracted to her, she's one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen, we have ALOT, in common. So I didn't ghost her after that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:57 AM
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I don't think that's a real thing....the whole 50/50 split I know at least two guys who lost half of their patrimony from 50/50 split of a year long marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:55 PM
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Care to share your experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:15 PM
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How would that math work then? If men can't have sex but woman can... Also, why are you assuming that men have no self-control? That man can't be in a committed relationship? That men are bad and if they have the chance they will cheat? Have you ever stepped outside and lived in the real world? This was seriously one of the dumbest things I've ever read on this sub. This place is getting out of control...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:19 PM
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Men and women age badly, but women age worse than men, so that gives men an advantage. In general, a 30yo guy will have a higher SMV than a 30yo woman. Plus, single moms have a huge disadvantage in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:11 PM
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Even though I'm a male, I feel disgusted when I see an older man hitting on a much younger woman. I've seen my sister get harassed and almost sexually assaulted by older men, and I've seen close female friends of mine being hit on by much older men, and it's so disgusting because I see how they (woman) feel powerless. In that situation with my sister, the guy was a cop, and all I can remember was how powerless I felt in that situation not being able to do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:03 AM
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Take a look at Grindr, being a man at Grindr, you don't have sex every day only if you don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:43 PM
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Correlation is not equal to causation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:40 PM
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SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:52 AM
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There is no point in using Tinder for them, that's the whole thing. If you go to subs like Tinder or idk, seduction, or dating advice for men, you'll see men asking how to improve because they get 0 matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:54 PM
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Yeah, I can tell you are a woman. The majority of guys simply don't get any matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:38 PM
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The swipe right % is an interesting one. That would save the right swipes from woman with like 1% rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:32 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:29 PM
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It will only be harder for men that have no matches. No woman wants a man that is not desirable to any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:28 PM
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I strongly disagree. The older you get, the better you get financially. You have more experience in life In general, you had more time to develop social skills, more time to develop a hood body etc. But of course, nothing of this will happen if you don't put in the work, but the older you get, the better conditions you have to upgrade your SMV. I believe that for these reasons dating peaks age 12-22, i.e. middle school through university for all regardless of gender. Are you a pedo? Anyone under…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:21 PM
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I definitely think that an initial spark of physical/sexual attraction is important. I disagree that it’s more important than finding someone with the right personality for you Yeah, but without that initial spark, the big majority of women won't even try to get to know the guy, so in reality, doesn't matter how good and compatible his personality is to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:07 PM
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Love doesn't exist, love is a chemical reaction to promote the procreation of the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:42 PM
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Why suddenly everyone went crazy about Passaport bros? What harm are they doing? Let them live their own life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:45 AM
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They really did. Once I hooked up with a crush of mine, she knew I liked her, she told me she didn't want anything serious but a friendship. I said no problem, I just don't want to be friends with you, it will be hard on me being so close to you but not romantic. So we both went on our ways. A few weeks later she spreads humor about me that I'm misogynistic, aggressive, controlling, toxic, and all of that shit. Be aware that the only time we exchanged words was before hooking up and that talk th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:40 PM
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Where do you think money comes from? From trees? I suggest you read some books about economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:02 PM
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What I said was a bit of exaggeration actually, I used to count everything yes. But I currently don't since I'm already where I want to be. I do eat out at least twice a week and I know how to separate moments a have a good time sharing a meal without worrying about calories. But my point is that it's a lot of effort to get to a place and stay at that place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:00 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:57 PM
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I wish I was as optimistic as you. I work my ass off every single day and count every calorie that goes on my mouth so I can have a nice body. My skin is good because of my 3 years of skin care. I have a good sense of style. I make good money compared to guys my age. I have a lot of hobbies. My social skills are good. All of that, so maybe I can have 2-3 dates per week. Imagine a men that don't do anything of the things I do. Do you really think that he has options?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:42 PM
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No, there are a lot of men that spend literally their whole life without a woman even looking at them. Take a look at the virgins, lonely, Foreveralone subs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:24 PM
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The difference is that in one situation, the person could get affection and or sex, even if it's not from who they want. In the other situation, even if all they wanted in the world is affection and or sex, they couldn't get it. It's like when a girl says she has nothing to wear but her closet is full of clothes, compared to a homeless without clothes. One doesn't have clothes that she likes, the other literally doesn't have any clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:23 PM
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Sure, there are invisible women, but the amount of invisible women is irrelevant compared to invisible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:20 PM
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You seriously can't understand figures of speech, can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:18 PM
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? A key that can open many lockers can't be easily replaced. Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:03 PM
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You realise endless men would take advantage of that and leave women in poverty If its a hook up, they can easily abort the baby if they can't afford What if they were married and planned of having kids when she got pregnant? In reality, men wouldn't leave the marriage since that currently doesn't happen, even if, she could abort Financial abortion is a way to protect men from women who control men with abusive child support, plus, it's morally wrong with men not having a right that women have, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:02 PM
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What does that even mean? People are the same in other countries because guess what? We are all the same species. What makes us different is our culture etc. Your post Is like saying water is wet, no shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:42 PM
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Smaller problems to the population in general, some more problems to the government, as it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:40 PM
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A locker that every key can open, is an useless locker. A key that can open every locker, is a super key
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:35 PM
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All smaller problems compared to the current ones
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:34 PM
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"Wash their hands of their responsibility " isn't it exactly what women do when they get an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:30 PM
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But what about before the child is born? The men have 9 months to declare his wishes, and most likely they will in the same second as they find out that she's pregnant. Child support is mean and stupid, and MANY women use it to take advantage of men. Man SHOULD be able to have sex without worrying if they'll have to give the woman half of his paycheck, just like women can have sex without worrying if she'll need to carry a baby for 9 months and then raise a human being. And if you disagree, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:29 PM
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Hook-up culture isn't only about body count, but mainly about sex with no strings attached. No relationship, just casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:22 PM
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Of course, you can. Just like a woman can simply abort a child without any documento before sex, men should be able to have a financial abortion after the sex if he wishes. If we take your line of thinking. Women should make a document before sex saying that they will or won't have an abortion if she gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:15 PM
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No, It wouldn't be difficult. All that needs to happen is for the father to say " I don't want the kid" Poof, done.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:10 PM
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You can't expect that every time someone has sex they need to make a document proving that they don't want kids. That's just unreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:09 PM
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Why they shouldn't be able to do it after the pregnancy? What if the condom broke or they were using other methods and they failed? You can't expect that every time someone has sex they need to make a documentation proving that he doesn't want to have a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:06 PM
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Yeah, that's the same argument that pro-lifers use. "If women can get abortions whenever wherever, then that just makes them more careless about who they sleep with ". This is dumb, just as a woman should be able to abort if she wishes, men should be able to not be involved emotionally, financially, or in any way in the child's life if he wishes so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:03 PM
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Although I think it is very bad for the father that wants the child and the mother wants to abort, I think that the mother should be the one making this decision. But the father should 100% be able to have a financial abortion, this is a HUGE double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:58 PM
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Did you like it? Would you go on a second date or hook up or even have a relationship with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:18 PM
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No, its no. Social skills are just like any other skill, you have to practice to get better. Speaking from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:09 PM
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When I finished high school, I moved to another country to college, during that time, I had a huge glow-up. I lost weight and got a very nice 10% bf body, my skin improved a lot. As I was in a new place, I had to meet new people and make friends, so my social skills and confidence got a lot better. When I go to my hometown from time to time, I noticed a lot of attention from old female classmates that despised me before. I'm not disrespectful or anything to them. But I act like they don't exist,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:56 AM
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Well, alright. At least I didn't think about that when I was at the edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:35 PM
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Because men are not taken seriously by society. We are seen as oppressors or even as enemies. Our problems are irrelevant or even a good thing to those who are fighting against our existence. Feminism started a war against masculinism. Our problems will never be taken seriously and be as important as woman's, LGBT's, and other's minority's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:24 PM
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And men are just more selfish with their methods so they're more instant. Women are more likely to consider the clean up process so there's more time for interventions. When you are on the edge, the last thing you think about is the work you will leave to clean up your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:17 PM
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This is the most stupid argument against capitalism. In the history of humanity, there have never been as many billionaires as there are today, and at the same time, poverty has never been at its lowest. When you work, you don't take value from someone else, you create value. If I have a piece of wood and I make a table from it, I created value, I didn't take any value from someone else. Please go read some books before posting a stupid comment like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:13 PM
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I dont care about how much she makes as long as she's not financially illiterate and knows how to manage her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:42 PM
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Depends on the reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:40 PM
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What is your problem? I said that as an argument opposing the OP's opinion, not trying to impress anyone. This is not a dating sub, I think you are in the wrong place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:49 PM
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It might take longer, but if you look at the big picture, both people with degrees in medical and software engineering, have a very similar level of intellectual/intelligence. Your point was that career/job/ intellectuality isn't as important, but in my opinion, many men would choose to start a relationship with an ok in looks, smart, intelligent, with a good job or a good degree, rather than a very good looking without job or education, less smart. At least to me, intelligence/education/job/car…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:10 PM
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This comparison doesn't make sense to the point of your post. A software engineering degree is arguably similar to a medical degree. So the deciding factor is not about how smart/ career/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:57 PM
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I'd much rather start a relationship with a 6/10 woman with looks with some sort of high education or a good job, than with an 8/10 woman with looks, without a job, high education, or any kind of plan for her future. A well-educated woman is an interesting woman, someone who can add to your life and grow together with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:05 PM
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Forests are getting more and more destroyed. Icebergs are melting, the average temperature is rising each year, animals are getting extinct, the sea level is rising, natural disasters are more and more frequent, droughts are becoming longer, more frequent, and extremes. Just because your local river looks better, doesn't mean that things are getting better. Not everything revolves around America bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:10 PM
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Forests are getting more and more destroyed. Icebergs are melting, the average temperature is rising each year, animals are getting extinct, the sea level is rising, natural disasters are more and more frequent, droughts are becoming longer, more frequent, and extremes. Just because your local river looks better, doesn't mean that things are getting better. Not everything revolves around America bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:10 PM
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It is in our instinct to seek sex, any living being has the instinct to reproduce. When someone doesn't have sex for a long time, it'll probably affect them in a different way than not eating your favorite food might affect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:05 PM
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From what you described, you seem to be above average from your age. In my opinion you'd most likely be able to find a good girl. If your a nice person to be around etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:02 PM
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Funny how that argument is the same one used by pro-lifers against abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:46 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:30 PM
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Don't you agree that men should be able to not participate in the child's life and not be expected to pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:30 PM
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If a woman decides she doesn't want to have a baby, she has all the right to an abortion, next-day pill, adoption, etc, right? Then why when a man doesn't want a child, he MUST pay child support otherwise he's going to jail? Sounds kinda odd to me...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:11 PM
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Fuck it, I'm becoming gay. Too much fucking stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:08 PM
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My goal is to retire at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:56 AM
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Im not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:50 AM
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No its not, according to my doctors and WHO, BMI of 34 is obese, almost extreme obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:16 AM
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I'm 20, I was obese all my childhood. Around 15, my BMI was 34, and that's when I decided to change my life. Around 18 my BMI was 29, still very high but I've changed a lot. A few months back, I hit 21. Last week I did a test and I'm currently with 12,6% of body fat. So I've been at a healthy weight for less than a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:54 PM
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I don't think it will change standards for attractiveness. A fit body is a healthy body, it's in our instinct to be attracted to healthy people. What I'm going to say next may upset a lot of people, feel free to disagree but this whole "body positivity" with fat models is dangerously stupid. Obesity is a disease, one that kills a lot of people and makes life miserable. This whole body positively is forcing people to understand that it's okay to be fat, but it's not. Only a very small percentage …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:25 PM
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Some women really are completely clueless about how it's like to be a men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:55 PM
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Because people who do this, 99% of their viewers are gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:49 PM
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One of the biggest of such flaws is the inherent belief that ALL women are the same, and following blueprint XYZ will undoubtly yield success. Literally, no one believes that there is a formula that works for every woman. The thing is that it's humanely impossible to create a new personality and approach for every girl you try to meet, so we often look for the approaches that have the best success rate, and in my opinion, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. I don't know if you are a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:08 PM
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If you are well groomed, good haircut, take care of your skin, have a good style, and project confidence, you don't have to be above average looking to work. I'm not above average on looks, but I take care of myself and I act confident and it works, I might get rejected sometimes, but rejection is part of the game.
/r/seduction31/05/23 11:51 AM
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Oh ok. You can just use what I said but you don't need to say your name or anything. You can ask maybe her opinion on something that you are/were doing, or literally anything. Holding a conversation is easy, the "hard" part is starting it but you don't need to overthink it, literally say the first (appropriate)thing that comes to your mind, maybe that's a joke, an observation about her, or the situation.
/r/seduction31/05/23 08:55 AM
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Does she knows that you know her name? Give me some more context so I can try help you out better.
/r/seduction31/05/23 08:20 AM
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Good luck bro! I didn't start with the goal of getting laid (of course it was in the back of my mind) but what I wanted was to learn how to talk to people, how to be entertaining, and how to make people feel good about themselves. And talking to people makes you happier, and lighter, I can't explain exactly but talking some random shit with a stranger and making them laugh is just fucking great. Starting with older people is easier, the big majority of them want attention, and they want you to t…
/r/seduction30/05/23 09:23 PM
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Yeah, you are walking home the same way you walked to the bar or club or whatever. You didn't lose anything. That's what you gotta keep in mind. I used to be extremely shy with strangers, not only girls, but little by little I worked on myself, I started getting comfortable talking to older people, then with men of my range of age, and then with girls that I didn't feel attraction until I felt comfortable with girls that I was attracted to. What we gotta keep in mind is that nothing happens in a…
/r/seduction30/05/23 08:34 PM
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Ask her: You: Do you like bread? Her: yeah, why? You: I don't know, just wanted to come here and say something to you, my name is ... nice to meet you! If she says her name back, you're in. It has worked for me a few times, the point is you have to look at her eyes dead serious when asking the question, and then you can smile a bit.
/r/seduction30/05/23 08:28 PM
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What I said is something that happens, women are naturally dating up. Sure there are exceptions but in general women are dating up. I don't date, and I don't see why bringing personal experiences is relevant. I didn't say that women shouldn't have standards, I believe that the majority of women have inflated standards, that are meet. But inevitably, creates an unbalance where many man will never have date experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:30 PM
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That number doesn't include men that had been married but are not anymore. It includes men that are out of the dating life as well, so the number we are looking for is a lot bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:17 PM
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Studies are showing that women out of 10 guys, would only choose the best looking/attractive 2. Anyone who is aware of what is happening in the world knows that the average woman will never date the averege men, woman will only date up, and men will only date down (excluding both extremes).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:15 PM
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Yes, 23% of all men older than 25 from the US, have NEVER been married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:12 PM
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No, I'm not blaming women. I just stated a fact, I didn't address any causation for that fact because I can't tell exactly what it is. I can suggest some factors but that's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:02 PM
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Definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:37 PM
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Not all men are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:58 PM
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You are clearly not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:56 PM
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Dating is broken because the majority of women want a minority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:48 PM
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Is there anyone saying that women don't like confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:43 PM
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So fucking a woman makes men more ladylike? That's a new one.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/23 03:41 PM
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Okay, then it's only 100× easier for nice girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:30 PM
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We don't live in a fairy tale guys. Girls aren't prepared to deal with men's problems, we are supposed to deal with our shit alone. If you want, talk to a really close friend or member of your family, but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:30 PM
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That's what I've been trying to say...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:28 AM
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Just because I have a different opinion from you, do you think that there's something wrong with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:13 PM
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Because men are the source of all toxicity, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:34 PM
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Im not using my personal experiences to base any of my responses
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:49 PM
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Science says love is a chemical reaction, one that can be generated by others ways. What I believe is that those chemicals are released by the way someone makes you feel, and the thing is that this someone, could literally be anything, it's a technicality, a robot can make provide you with those feelings. People don't care about other people, only about themselves. I don't see why you would take this debate to a personal level, I never mentioned anything from my life here, and didn't ask anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:38 PM
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What you described sounds like torture to me, waking up every day having to worry whether I'm going to be good enough to make my partner stay, and if I'm not, I'll have to do things that I don't like doing, to please someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:33 PM
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Maybe that's my case, but I'm debating here excluding my personal experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 04:27 PM
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Emotions are superficial and almost insignificant, we can easily decide what we want to feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:48 PM
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I don't know what that is, but I'm not talking about myself in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:59 PM
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Happy cake day! No, they don't, they get happy when they see you because you feed them, and offer shelter, water, and pats that feel good. I had dogs and cats in my family, and no matter how much affection you would show them, they only cared about those who feed and tske them to walks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:57 PM
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Everyone only cares about their only well-being at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:45 PM
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No, I'm not on the spectrum and I don't see why this is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:43 PM
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I'm denying the existence of the media love, the love that people think exists. We are all chemically addicted, and love is a chemical reaction, we don't care about anyone, we care about having chemical reactions, and we get attached to one person to have these chemicals reaction because we are afraid of the unknown, and we can't be sure that others can provide your chemicals, but the fact is that even a robot can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:42 PM
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Love is just chemical reaction, in fact they are the same chemical reaction when you eat chocolate. Love is not caring unconditionally, is not what the media tell us it is. Love is you feeling good, and the fact that a person made you feel good is just a technicality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:31 PM
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They don't love, they like to feel good, and the person that makes them feel good is, is just a technicality, as much as if we were to replace all your phone contacts with robots that act the same as the original people, you wouldn't notice and would still feel good and care about them because at the end of the day, people only care about their only wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:26 PM
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We feel sad and grief, because that person is gone, so they can no longer make you feel like they did, they can't offer whatever they used to offer you. Love doesn't exist because anyone can offer whatever you want. How many relationships have you had? If love truly existed, you would only have one relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:23 PM
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Happy cake day! Now, people are selfish, and their primal instinct is to protect themselves, and one way they do it is by seeking emotional support, in relationships for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:19 PM
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When you can't get enough from a person its because they make you feel good, not because you "love" the person, you like a feeling, and the person is just a technicality. A robot could do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:08 PM
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Again, they wouldn't sacrifice themselves knowing that they will die. Even if you believe they would, that's a different situation because parents have the instinct to protect and provide for their children, so the species can survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:04 PM
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What I said applies as well to sexless relationships. Parents don't love their kids, they instinctively feel the need to care for, protect and provide, so the kids can grow to be healthy and strong. That's in our nature. People care about their parents because they provide safety and survival, and emotional support. As an example, kids that had parents who didn't offer emotional support, end up resenting their parents, not caring about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:02 PM
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Nobody is altruist, Nobody gives without expecting anything in return, because when you give, you feel better about yourself for being "a good person". So ultimately you are not doing it for others, you are doing it to feel better about yourself. Animals don't love, they protect and care intending to perpetuate the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:58 PM
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That's two completely different arguments. No one ever risked their lives knowing that they will die. Would you kill yourself for the chance of a SO of yours to survive? If you answer yes, you are suicidal not in love. Women select men that can potentially defend them because that's in their instinct to choose healthy strong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:56 PM
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You couldn't find any argument and decided to attack me? I've been nothing but respectful to everyone here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:53 PM
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People care about the welfare of others because if something bad happens to them, they won't be able to offer the same emotional support or provide you with happiness for that matter. Deep down, people don't care about other people, as long as they still make you feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:53 PM
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We say we love, we try to be moral, and we try to be "civilized" because that's what we believe that makes us different from animals. Yes, animals don't love, your dog is happy to see you because you offer it food, water, shelter, and pats that feel good. I meant to provide not only financial but emotional support is a form of providing. Kids in families that don't offer care and or emotional support, end up resenting their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:47 PM
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You care about them even if they are not around because if something bad happens, they won't be able to offer the same emotional support, feelings, etc. No one would sacrifice their life for another. This might be beautiful in Hollywood, but in real life, no one would risk their lives to save another person knowing that there's no chance of survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:40 PM
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You don't love each other. You both mutually offer emotional comfort and pleasure, and trying to find it elsewhere would be too much effort and damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:36 PM
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Feelings and emotions are sad, happy, angry, frustrated, etc. Love is supposedly a state when you care about a person just as much or even more as you when you don't care how bad the person treats you, or what the person says. Relationships are basically you repeatedly interacting with a person because she offers you emotional support. Love doesn't exist because you can't love a depressed person. After all, they will never be able to offer you emotional support as long as they are depressed and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:35 PM
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That's not love, that's the other person offering emotional support, making you feel better about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:30 PM
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It's not a sad view, it's a realistic view based on biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:29 PM
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You feel connected to your family because they provide for you, you feel connected to your friends because they might offer some level of emotional support. At the end of the day, we are all animals trying to convince ourselves that we aren't because animals don't love, their goal is to eat and procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:27 PM
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We are animals, and as much as we try, we can't suppress our instincts. A tall guy represents good genes and healthy person, a potential partner to perpetuate the species
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:50 AM
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You used your scale to determine what is average for you. If you take every person in America to put on a scale, the average person WILL be overweight, that's statistics, a science.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:57 AM
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A mid-woman (let's say a 5/10), has EASY access to pretty much all men under 7/10. A 5/10 man, has access to women under 4/10. If that isn't easy, I don't know what easy means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:49 AM
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I define "love" as a mixture of happy feelings that people get when interacting with others. But people misaim these feelings, you don't love the person, you "love" how you feel. The only reason that people get sad when their partner dies, is because at that moment, they think that they will never feel that way again, but when they find someone new that makes them feel like that again, they don't feel sad anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:46 AM
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Love is just a word to describe a mixture of feelings we can't describe, that alone already raises a lot of nuances. But let's say love exists, the only way that a long-distance relationship works is by keeping those feelings alive, and you don't feel, see touch the person to have these feelings, the person through internet communication, makes you feel those feelings. You don't love the person, you love the feelings a person makes you feel. And any person can do that, but you don't know that, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:42 AM
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Yes they do, good looks are perceived as good genes and good health, which is pretty much what the primal instincts of humans look for a partner for procreation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:38 AM
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In reality, you don't love anyone, you might like a lot the way a person makes you feel, but that's it, you like a feeling, you like a sensation, you don't like the person. Parent-child relationships are ultimately motivated by instincts. It's in the best interests of the parents as part of the human's species, to protect, nourish, and prepare you for the world, so you can successfully perpetuate the species.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:36 AM
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For all of human history, men and women get together for only one purpose, and that's to form a family. Forming a family is motivated by a primal instinct. Nowadays, people don't have that much of a concern for survival and the perpetuation of the species, so people have more time and energy to focus on other areas of their lives, things that bring them joy and happiness such as relationships, friends, sex without the procreation means, and this happiness and feelings are mistaken for love, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:26 AM
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My parents don't love me, it's in their primal instinct to protect me, nourish me, and prepare me to be independent so I can have the best odds of procreation and perpetuate the specie. Love doesn't exist, we mistake it for the needs and feelings we have when we exchange experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:20 AM
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You basically read the first sentence and ignored the rest of the comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:03 AM
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If you do self-improvement to have sex, you are doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:27 PM
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