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Discussionthestruggle-isreal/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:54 AM
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Men should status maxx and money maxx
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:55 AM
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Idk why this sub denied this so much
/r/seduction01/02/24 03:48 AM
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Strawman argument
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:59 PM
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You passive aggressive as hell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:56 PM
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What could be another reason ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:37 PM
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Are you saying people without dates don’t have guy friends ? Another thing , men are very territorial about women , why would they invite more competition in their circle when they are also likely trying to date those women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:16 AM
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You honestly didn’t give a practical strategy at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:33 PM
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By reducing your hypergamy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:07 PM
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Could it be then men you were picking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:35 PM
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How would I even know what women look like me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:31 PM
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Didn’t I just explain how they did , but this 6 foot something shit is new my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:51 PM
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The height obsession is relatively new in human mating history whether we accept it or not . Were women going for men taller than them ? Yes. Were they actively going for very tall guys ? I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:50 PM
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Archeological findings clearly demonstrate that humans were rather short for a long time in history lmao , if anything we are getting taller now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:15 PM
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How do you know what women were attracted to in the beginning of humanity ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:58 PM
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Dude bartending really ain’t that hard nor is the social aspect of it. I been around bartenders, a lot of em suck and barely talk but those were mostly women to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:31 AM
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It’s because being bartender is ultimate status at a bar lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:38 PM
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Anything under 5’7 is a manlet . 5’9 is a good height
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:28 PM
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5’9 isn’t short lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:30 PM
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.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:27 PM
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I never said looks were everything … all these people you named, i know women who wouldn’t date them cause both their looks and personalities wouldn’t do it for them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:00 AM
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Women definition of ugly is so strange but some of these people are ugly yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:13 AM
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What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:45 AM
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I don’t care if it’s increasing , currently men out-earn women and in the vast majority of the couples you currently see where the woman is hot and the guy isn’t , he’s paying for it in some way. I have attractive middle aged coworkers, literally 10/10 times, their husband makes good -decent money , pays most of the bills etc Btw female breadwinners are increasing and people are dating less and having less kids
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:35 AM
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No you can easily google it, most married couples , the man outearns the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:26 AM
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If you can’t get anyone , it’s probably not your looks that’s the issue , but saying your lovely personality alone can get you anyone you want is just as false and wishful thinking I’ve slept with several women , very few were beautiful or hot. Hot women tend to date hot men or men with status or money, been that way since Adam and Eve
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:24 AM
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That’s very possible and pretty much could explain it . Money and status doesn’t mean they are Hollywood rich people, it could just mean they earn 80k a year while she earns 45k , that’s still hypergamy , in relationships people let themselves go , that’s also well documented . This is not even considering the fact that vast majority of couples are looksmatched What do you consider ugly or bum looking though ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:20 AM
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Why did you make the post if you barely sampled 4billion women yourself ? I said they probably have good enough personalities. I’ve interacted with plenty men dating women beautiful or not and often times , they are just regular dudes, sometimes they are assholes, sometimes they are funny , sometimes they are rich , sometimes they have clout , sometimes they are simps and sometimes they have great personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:09 AM
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We’re not talking about the same thing, you said Ryan gosling is unattractive meanwhile dude literally was casted as Ken in the Barbie movie. Do you understand how your claim is just falling flat by considering Ryan gosling unattractive? Most men in relationships, even with attractive women don’t have great personalities, good ones ? Yes sure, but not automatically great just cause they’re dating .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:00 AM
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She said she considers Ryan gosling unattractive. It all makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:42 AM
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Money or status or he let himself go but she didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:41 AM
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So Ryan gosling in your book is the ugly guy lmao ? Yea you right then, they do get beautiful women all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:35 AM
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Also broke though. Name a celebrity you consider ugly, show me what is on your mind that you consider ugly. People call Pete Davidson ugly meanwhile the motherfucker is 6’3 and slim and covered with tats which women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:28 AM
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Honest to god , only on Reddit do I hear about broke ugly ass dudes pulling beautiful women “ all the time “ lmao .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:21 AM
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The same society that has body positivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:11 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:55 PM
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In my high school , 90% of the popular kids were on the football team . You didn’t even need to be good at it, you just had to be on the team. The other 10 % just had Jordan shoes and other cool clothes The best advice I can give any young man in high school is to join the football team quite honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:44 PM
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I’ve never seen such comment , even then they certainly don’t meant it . But overall I highly disagree with this post . To be “insert whatever adjective “ , A LOT of people have to “insert matching verb “ .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:49 PM
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By this logic ,everyone is likable , enjoyable , attractive, confident etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:30 PM
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There have been many Average looking women on these shows
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:33 PM
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Nah it really depends on the criteria , most men are reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:15 PM
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These guys just don’t want to commit but they have taken her off the market , the whole 80/20 thing adds up to me from my observations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:35 PM
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She’s only interested in men of status from the fields she’s invested in. Yes those men are always of higher status than her and she’s perpetually single cause those men never want to commit. The red pill describes her so well, I can’t help but believe in the RP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:14 PM
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I have a sister and her experience with dating made me believe in the red pill incredibly hard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:38 PM
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There are 100 more environments you didn’t mention
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:08 PM
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What’s your rejection rate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:38 PM
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Are you saying that’s hard to come by ? To get validated as a woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:13 PM
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They say that about irl dating too . “ men suck “
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:10 PM
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Google says that’s in New Jersey .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:39 PM
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In a big city ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:10 PM
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I think more people especially young people are fit now more than ever in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:55 PM
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To be fair , he was talking about short men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:54 PM
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He said he’s in his best shape, he’s just fucking lying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:13 PM
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Then you sound be pulling just as much if not a little more
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:37 AM
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Women always say this while having a tall boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:58 AM
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You made no sense. You still have the same face
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:37 AM
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I think for so many women , it’s just don’t be short
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:32 AM
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I highly disagree with the notion that most men wouldn’t a woman taller than them .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:28 PM
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Muscles are sexually dimorphic traits too but women here love saying how they don’t care about muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:27 PM
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Relationships from proximity become harder to attain the older you get cause you’re no longer in those environments but you’re not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:28 AM
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I have female friend in the world who’s disgusted by a guy doing that exact thing. You go in the fucking real world
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:35 PM
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Different times, talk about now and this happens rarely, most women date who they are attracted to from the jump today cause they can
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:35 PM
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Why would you give someone you aren’t attracted to the time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:41 PM
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No that’s not how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:37 PM
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Have you talked to most women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:27 PM
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I’ve honestly seen men do it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:34 PM
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I know for a fact that I don’t but yes I’ve seen other men do this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:24 AM
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I take care of my appearance and trust me it’s true. Every girl is aware they can do better if they have a dating app profile
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:41 AM
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Wtf is that supposed to do lmao ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:49 AM
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Women care more about raw beauty than things you can take care of, I’ve seen dusty dudes get more attention than guys who take care of their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:40 AM
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If he’s never going to see you again cause he’s a stranger , isn’t it counterproductive to not ask you out then and there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:16 PM
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Troy brad Pitt would get more attention in real life imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:52 PM
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I actually think girls go for beefy dudes more than what you described , at least where I’m at
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:22 PM
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Yea white hipsters are very skinny , model like .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:07 PM
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Where do YOU live lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:43 PM
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I sometimes wake up to that weight and I’m shorter than him, people call me slim . Never been called fat
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:51 PM
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He quite literally is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:50 PM
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That’s not true, every guy I know who has an easy time in dating puts a LOT of effort into their appearance plus they have to pursue, plan dates, be charming, pay for the dates, continue this process for a while until she falls in love then the woman takes on the work in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:07 PM
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That’s different, women obviously put more work in relationships but men put a lot of work to get in one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:51 PM
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He’s light
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:24 PM
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True but I don’t that alone will put you in top 20% , for women ? Yes . For men , to be top 20% you have to score high on all facets of life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:38 PM
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So playing golf for fun puts me in top 5-10% of men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:36 PM
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Says who ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:48 PM
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What percentage of the population is under 35 ? That’s the crowd that matters most for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:21 PM
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Dude sounds crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:36 PM
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I guess they don’t count right lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:36 PM
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You sound crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:23 AM
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Most men standards are pretty low from what I see
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:23 AM
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Better be a joke cause it’s funny
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:54 AM
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Tell her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:39 AM
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For me settling is dating someone I’m not attracted to or doesn’t treat me right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:59 PM
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I like you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:42 PM
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Lmao I already know your type
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:41 PM
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But it’s cool if the roles are reversed ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:20 PM
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Lmao that’s dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:54 AM
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The average soccer player doesn’t look like Ronaldo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:52 AM
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She’s verbally expressed many times she thought I was out of her league and isn’t used to guys like me . Women date up or at least they try
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:12 AM
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Soccer players aren’t muscular
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:46 PM
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I think women care about height face and r@ce than weight which are things you can’t change
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:41 PM
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They swipe on everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:15 PM
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I do lol, she wanted a relationship with me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:14 PM
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Marriage rates are declining anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:13 PM
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A lot of women don’t even want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:11 PM
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Forever alone is mostly women no ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:12 PM
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No cause I didn’t pick her, she picked me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:16 AM
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You’re only 20 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:30 PM
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That’s how most men date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:28 PM
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What if her ass was really nice? would she still be average ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 11:50 PM
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That’s a good height and he’s a regular white guy who isn’t fat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:25 PM
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Smh must be the height and race
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:20 PM
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Link the pic of those extremely attractive guys again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:56 PM
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Pm me her pic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:35 PM
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Is the girl ugly too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:14 PM
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His hair is thin as fuck . I don’t feel like going through the trouble of finding an accurate picture but this dude is not it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:13 PM
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He’s below average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:58 PM
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Dude ugly asf ! What coast are you in that he can get anyone in it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:57 PM
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Yea but when most men hear go outside or touch grass, what they think is go approach women outside
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:00 AM
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Well touching grass is not enough , it’s touching a certain kind of grass ( being around the same people often and interacting with them for a long time ) . I went to touch grass at the club last week and it wasn’t easy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:55 AM
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Well that’s actually different, they were just being themselves in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:42 AM
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So average men need to tap dance for average women. Makeup is the only reason you think so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:39 PM
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What level of attractiveness were these women compared to the men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:17 PM
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And go where ? Back to school ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:52 PM
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I think real life is harder than dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:34 PM
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Dead bedrooms are common for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:49 PM
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I think the common level of attraction in most relationships are mild to moderate level
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:43 PM
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You think most guys get the girls they are attracted to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:40 PM
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Then date an ugly girl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:58 AM
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Date an ugly girl then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:57 AM
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Can you love a girl you aren’t physically attracted to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:54 AM
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What does No problem mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:16 AM
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And let me guess, their girlfriends are more attractive than them right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:16 AM
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The hygiene thing is the most Reddit answer ever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:38 AM
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How you know what people are thinking lol . What if it’s the opposite?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:18 AM
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It’s very much fair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:29 PM
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Great paragraph. Now what Is your physical type? That’s the question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:49 PM
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I get dates, I’m here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:53 AM
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I never said anything about women only events lol. Oh you’re saying there are obviously men there, you’re only seeing the ones who were invited obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:30 PM
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👏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:27 PM
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It’s different for women, y’all are always welcome to social events
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:17 PM
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Ok you’re correct
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:54 PM
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Yes it will but wasn’t This convo about attractive women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:49 PM
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Game isn’t enough to get you hot girls lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:42 PM
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The actionable advice to become high status, most men won’t become that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:39 PM
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O
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:59 PM
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So do women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:42 PM
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When you discount the elderly, kids, lesbians , unattractive women, you’re still left with about that much of not less
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:09 PM
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I just calculated. 1% of 7 billion is 70M people, so that’s 1 potential interested person per square mile scattered throughout the whole planet
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:40 PM
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It’s narcissistic to want the conversation to be about you yea
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:36 PM
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What do you have going on ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:35 PM
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Your standards are probably men more attractive than you as a default
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:56 AM
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How often can you find someone you’re attracted to to have sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:38 PM
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How common is it for men to hop on tinder and have sex with women 3x hotter than them ? I can tell you right now this has never happened to me in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:21 PM
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Yes they are. Get tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:15 PM
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OP said mildly autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:22 PM
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You can get laid with dudes who look 3x better than you several nights a week. Men can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:14 PM
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I was gonna say never but one did help me but I want attracted to the girl in question
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:08 AM
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You’re in school, your opinion doesn’t count
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:25 PM
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Any man saying this isn’t true is lying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:57 PM
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Nah they go hard sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:57 PM
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And weight isn’t the main factor is my point . Status is however
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:23 PM
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What norm ? Did you think most men were overweight just now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:17 PM
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No it doesn’t. You guys overrate how much weight matters, fat guys get girls over me all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:55 PM
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Healthy weight for all intents and purposes is what matters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:33 PM
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Do you understand the concept of majority ? It says 32 to 40% . Hence leaving 60%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:30 PM
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It say 32 to 40% . 60% aren’t fat
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:29 PM
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Depends on the age demo,most young people are fit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:17 PM
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Most young people are fit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:16 PM
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Where is she ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:19 PM
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Go on a dating app then see how much attention you get
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:56 PM
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Make a dating profile then remake your claim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:46 PM
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One thing PPD has taught us is that women will call attractive guys Average for the sake of winning a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:06 PM
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Meh I’ve seen chubby guys win over normal weight guys very often , I’d even say it’s the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:53 PM
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Fat 20 year olds all day
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:12 PM
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Not being fat does NOT make you above average as a man that is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:09 PM
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My experience disagrees with this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:58 PM
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So you think most men are generally dissatisfied in their relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:53 PM
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Obviously the explosion of online dating and social media being the biggest factor , more young people now being rich raising the standards for everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:41 PM
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In terms of dating , it most definitely has
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:42 AM
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That’s not the male experience though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:19 PM
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Women swear majority of men got a porn problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:03 PM
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What’s a coomer ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:32 PM
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It’s not , not even a little
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:17 AM
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Your height is not a problem dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:24 AM
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That’s it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:00 AM
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What does he need to do to get your attention? Backflips ? Jester ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:51 PM
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NPC answer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:44 PM
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Someone’s Raw looks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:16 PM
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I’ve become friendly with the guys , the girls are typically standoffish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:45 PM
1

Wait so you want guys to approach you at the gym ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:54 PM
1

Not bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:46 PM
2

If you were working from home , where would you meet men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:14 PM
1

Meeting in person where ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:42 PM
1

What’s neurotypical ? Everyone is fucked up in the head in their own way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:40 PM
3

Accurate as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 03:25 PM
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Cause men and religion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:31 PM
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I don’t believe in evolutionary psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:22 PM
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For thousands of years they weren’t allowed to cheat, have pre marital sex, abort Babies , work neither . They’re having a blast with those things today
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:15 PM
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Why isn’t the social norm for women to approach men since it’s more effective , men having to approach women is as silly as women having to physically protect men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:37 PM
1

What about your self worth after constant rejection after putting in lots of effort, that’s the only hurtful part really
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:48 PM
1

What about your self worth after constant rejection after putting in lots of effort, that’s the only hurtful part really
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:47 PM
1

What about your self worth after constant rejection after putting in lots of effort, that’s the only hurtful part really
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:47 PM
3

Who’s average to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 05:41 PM
1

What would I need to show you to change your mind ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:57 PM
1

That’s a contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:52 PM
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What’s a neckbeard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:34 PM
1

How is it pathetic to fuck women I don’t wanna be seen with outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:18 PM
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What type of logic is this lol ? The average person has some form of trauma dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:37 PM
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If women already get all their companionship needs from their deep intimate female friendships, how Come they are not more hookup oriented than men ? I mean all they are missing at this point is to just get dick , the rest is taken care of from female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:11 PM
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Online dating is real life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:15 PM
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I don’t know , I guess for whatever reason they know they better hold on to their current girlfriend even if she isn’t treating them right or isn’t that attractive perhaps. Point being , being in a relationship doesn’t mean you aren’t struggling, just like having a job doesn’t mean you aren’t struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:20 PM
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You could be sure lol. I know men in relationships struggling cause by their own admission they would have a hard time dating if their girlfriends left them. These men are struggling in my opinion even though they are sexually active . To not struggle , you need to have power and control over your own dating life . I have friends who don’t struggle and they tell me about having sex with new women all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:15 PM
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My definition of struggling is , are you able to get laid within a month with a looksmatch and do so consistently , if you can’t do that, you are struggling even if you are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:11 PM
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It’s an analogy dog , you are ignorant because you think “your world “represents the totality of the US. To answer your question, some average men struggle , some don’t . That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:06 PM
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It’s like a dude on the basketball team saying the average height for a man is 6’5 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:04 PM
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lol interesting saying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:58 PM
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I never advocated for staying in one’s room lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:11 PM
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Lol you proved my point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:06 PM
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Is that your current situation ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:48 PM
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Yes I definitely believe men are not joining social circles ( with women ) Young enough and end up screwing themselves later on .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:51 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:44 PM
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How you going to create a new social circle and get people who already have social circles to join?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:43 PM
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I disagree with that very much . I don’t think people are making a conscious effort to avoid dealing with people from work that they like just because of the potential future issues . It people were so forward thinking, there wouldn’t be any fat people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:36 PM
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Why the dismissal of work though ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:30 PM
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I think more men than you think are willing to put in that Effort, they just don’t believe it will yield to anything they are seeking or at least anytime soon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:28 PM
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Making friends is not the issue, it’s the quality of the friendship that’s the issue. I’ve recently made several “ friends “ from work, none have invited me to any activity that could have potentially led me to meeting a date. I’ve been the ones to invite them to stuff and most decline or only show up once
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:23 PM
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Are you a woman ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:04 PM
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Sure, but the other people involved already have their separate social circle that they mainly deal with especially for romance related purposes . I’ve seen it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:00 PM
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I never advocated for staying inside the house
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:59 PM
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Feel free to make a dating profile and see for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:49 PM
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I think it’ll amount to 80/20 no matter the sample size
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:17 PM
1

Ok well that’s really good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:31 PM
1

So you’re telling me you fucked “ many “ women who you have met from a brunch event ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:59 PM
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So true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:53 AM
1

Lol if you’re a 5, try out the 10
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:45 PM
1

And what do you consider yourself on the looks scale ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:19 PM
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Who would you pick as a woman then, a 3 who’s really good at sex or a 10 who’s bad at it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:37 PM
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Nah I’d fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:31 PM
2

Most of me pleasure comes from the way she looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:16 PM
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Starfish 10 every time. Sleeping with 3’s will lower your self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 05:58 PM
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I’m talking about the women. If the man is around physically unattractive women, does it not matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:16 AM
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No they are serious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:46 AM
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The PPD will give advice that sounds good but have no proof that it works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:50 PM
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You avoided the question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:26 PM
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So your own advice , you have no proof it works ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:09 PM
2

Ok fine, how many men have you dated from a brunch event ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:44 PM
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How many women have you fucked from brunch ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:37 PM
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How many women have you fucked from brunch ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:37 PM
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What if they are unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:34 PM
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I didn’t say they were chads, I said they are attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:55 PM
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I only have one ugly friend and he’s an incel, the others are attractive and in relationships or they fuck around with multiple women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:37 PM
2

Yea I rarely see ugly young people together
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:27 PM
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Makes sense, well ugly men having children will be a thing from the past
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:36 PM
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The ugly people having children will be a thing from the past generations
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:32 PM
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Why is that worse ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:51 PM
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I’ve seen it happen countless times but they were fat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:00 PM
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I’m currently hooking with a woman that I’d consider a 3 and her inbox is flooded
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:59 PM
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No difference really . On tinder you don’t get matches and in real life, you get one word answers and disinterest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:55 PM
2

Isn’t going to the gym making them better looking ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:00 PM
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I’d say 6/10 but yea I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:50 PM
0

Same as you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:13 PM
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Which are most American women believe it or not . Even if all red pillers became alternative , that scene would become flooded with men making dating even harder there cause of the unbalanced ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:12 AM
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Do you eat their ass back ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:58 AM
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He could have using money or gifts or something like that to get them . I rarely see this in real life and I’m very observant but according to Reddit, it happens all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:51 AM
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Maintaining a social group is great and easy, but if you happen to be one of the people who didn’t make a big social group in school or you made one that only had men in it then you’re fucked . I’ve said this many times but it’s incredibly hard to become a consistent member of any social group after it’s already been formed and you are over a certain age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:48 AM
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Why is that a requirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:53 AM
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I hate this comment so much . I don’t know any fucking ugly dude short bald dude who gets attractive women. Just because you think you are unattractive as a man doesn’t necessarily mean you actually are dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:19 AM
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Social groups after school? Very hard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:33 AM
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Runway models are anorexic and most men don’t even find them hot. YOU are doing the female gaze thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:59 PM
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Any man who disagrees with this doesn’t get no Pussy at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:46 AM
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Lol Reddit women are not representative of real women at all. Thor would get a LOT of attention in real life from actual hot women but probably not nerdy women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 01:41 AM
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Tell her to date her male equivalent . That’s true and not disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:59 PM
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People often meet at work and school, in those cases they are almost always platonic friends first
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:23 PM
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Being persistent, trying your best to woo her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:54 PM
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I’ll have to pursue for longer than usual, I might have to be persistent , I might have to really “ try “
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:36 PM
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I wouldn’t discard a woman from a relationship just cause she slept with me easily. I’ve only had sex with women who made it easy for me but I feel like the ones I find very attractive won’t make it easy but it’s still possible for me to get them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:20 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:02 PM
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In this specific post, what I mean by simp is a man who tries to get with any girl who doesn’t make it easy for him to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:55 PM
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I’m starting to think that simps always end up getting the girl honestly. Maybe any girl who makes it easy for you is a girl you can do better than whether you realize it or not and that girls on your level or above , you will have to actually pursue them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:48 PM
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If it works it works
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:47 AM
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Women , please tell me THIS isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:23 AM
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I meant most women are dating people they already know , that was a typo. No I have good social skills, I just don’t get to meet enough quality women organically. I don’t see how I’m shifting the blame off myself, not everything is one’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:41 AM
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I personally know my standards are not too high because people tell me I have low standards lol. I know what my issue is , it’s that I have to rely on dating apps and approaching strangers in real life . Most women are people they already know and often times, that person is someone they’ve known for a long time so I’m often a day late and a dollar short.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:15 AM
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Showering , regular hygiene and smelling good won’t really do much tbh as most men do that and still struggle . Yes of course wipe your ass but for you to find out a man’s ass isn’t wiped, you would have to already have gotten this far in it’s him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:32 AM
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Every woman I’ve spoke to admit to watching porn. They won’t go as far as subscribing to any only fans but women definitely watch porn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:36 PM
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Truest shit ever
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:54 PM
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They consume porn at a rate very closely similar to men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:47 PM
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If men put just as much effort into their looks , not only would they look gay but women would still be considered more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:45 PM
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I’ll stop Doing it but they way I see it, there isn’t enough thin or non fat women for everyone. It’s not 50/50 . Most Thin women go for above average men cause they can, some of the average men can get lucky and get a non fat woman but a lot of average men are forced to date down
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:19 PM
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We don’t live in an equal dating market lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:30 PM
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Sure cause of money and status but then those men aren’t average anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:26 PM
1

A new woman every month ? Or are they in relationships/FWB’s etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:24 PM
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A lot of non fat men are fucking fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:22 PM
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Well that’s not true because I’m not fat and I fuck fat women and I definitely am not satisfied with that . Most women are fucking UP in terms of the men they pick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:22 PM
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It’s also money and status
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:36 AM
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Unattractive men hold on very tightly to the first woman who gives them attention whereas attractive men are pickier and keep dating around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:35 AM
1

I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:17 PM
2

Describe doing “ fine “
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:12 PM
1

3-4/10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:17 AM
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Obviously being fat comes with it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:17 AM
1

3-4/10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:04 AM
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Q4M- would you date a woman who you considered unattractive but she treated you exactly how you want to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:56 AM
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If your only deal breaker is baldness , you do not care about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:59 PM
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Men didn’t come up with that. I never heard a man say he has a dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:45 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:29 PM
2

I didn’t realize that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:15 PM
1

In a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:14 PM
2

In a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:28 PM
2

In a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:27 PM
1

In a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:27 PM
2

You’re telling yourself the same thing cause you won’t date 20 something year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:38 PM
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Maybe they weren’t soft average dudes when they got together
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:32 PM
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Right but it’s still a dating website on which you can choose to overtly give money to women or not give them money at all but they choose to date you cause they like being around rich men .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:32 PM
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They should not, What’s your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:58 PM
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It’s a dating site lol , money is just implied
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:48 PM
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False- seeking arrangements has the best ratio which highlights true female nature
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:33 PM
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Thought he’d be a fat dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:20 PM
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Beat the game first then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:31 PM
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Isn’t the reason why women find it hard to find a connection precisely because they have so many options?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:02 PM
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What if the stuff they really believe in is misogynistic lol, is it still hot ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:37 AM
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So why are you single jerking off vigorously to porn dude ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:07 AM
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So you were a porn addict this whole time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:06 AM
1

Be less dense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:15 PM
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You’re the one who thought I implied way better looking when I clearly said I didn’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:11 PM
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You’re just plain ridiculous . If a woman is slightly better looking than her partner then he has to be rich lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:04 PM
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Below her in LOOKS . He can be above in other areas
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:58 PM
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Men work harder to stay in relationships when they feel they have a catch and men are more visual than women so no I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:42 PM
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You said way more attractive, I didn’t . The woman should be better looking , not saying way better looking. I’ve seen so many men settle with women who are physically worse looking than them cause dating is so tough. That’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:36 PM
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I believe women should be the better looking one in the relationship. A man dating a woman who’s worse looking than him is a failed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:23 PM
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To what end ? To find women to date
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:20 PM
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I think you live in a fairytale if you think going to random places will help your dating life . Women don’t date strangers for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:15 PM
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60% looks, 40% everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:04 PM
1

That’s unrealistic to go out every night. People have work and are not rich
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:04 PM
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The other guy has already, did you answer him? Dating apps and social media are how most couples are meeting today especially after school . A small minority of men receive the majority of matches on dating apps which result in the current “ situationship” epidemic that we have and the the study that says 63% of men under 30 are single whereas only 33% of women under 30 are single .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:33 PM
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Yes she does
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:17 PM
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Yea you’re clearly very new to dating studies and statistics lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:15 PM
1

We can agree on this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:32 PM
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Yes women finding most men unattractive is a testament to their unrealistic standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:02 AM
1

You were given it ? You chose it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:52 PM
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If he’s so perfect , why are you claiming Chris Evan instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:48 PM
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No they have a lot of choices dude . “So unattractive “ or “ “ very unappealing “ men are a minority if we are being honest . If you disagree then you accept that women have high and unrealistic standards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:01 PM
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“ unattractive “ men grow on women all the time and become more attractive, gay men do not grow on straight men .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:24 PM
2

Just take your L bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:55 PM
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I hate that comparison. Straight aren’t gay so how can it be the same ? Women are attracted to some men . Straight men aren’t attracted to no men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:06 PM
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You can’t be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:03 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:09 PM
1

We believe you, we don’t believe you’re necessarily attractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:27 PM
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I actually really dislike people like you lol. They pretend they want to help until it’s time to help
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:49 PM
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Give the details that actually matter and would give an insight into the situation. “Just be the best version of you “. Hell does that even mean ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:24 PM
4

Why not just give more details ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:13 PM
4

Was he good looking ? What level of attractiveness were the women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:08 PM
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What do you mean by 5’5 friend not having issues ? What does he have going for him to compensate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:56 AM
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They value it just as much but they value other things as well. The point is that both men and women go about dating in the initial stage the same. They SEE 👀 something they like and are interested. This has been my experience and every single guy I know who dates
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:56 AM
1

Ok bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:54 AM
1

Until they ask you why you are only having sex this way that’s not pleasing to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:50 AM
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I don’t want to give them awful sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:36 AM
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Why would that be impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:23 AM
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Attraction comes first , point blank period, no matter how you are trying to slice it . When she’s not attracted to you, she won’t even let you speak to her, give one word answers etc then actually try to hold a conversation with guys she find attractive. Go outside !
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:49 AM
1

Sure if you got a lot of followers or a very cool page , then maybe social media can work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:19 AM
1

If approaching in person was more effective , the stats would reflect that no ? Especially considering most men complain about OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:17 PM
1

What depends ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:16 PM
1

Isn’t Omegle an app ? Plus that case is a rarity
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 08:15 PM
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How most couples meet in America of course . You are very wrong about cold approaching being of a higher rate and to even go as far as saying 100% ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:44 PM
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The biggest cope I’ve seen in this sub is thinking that approaching women irl is more effective than online dating . Makes me laugh every time. Social circle is one thing but all data points to the fact that OLD is just more effective than approaching strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:04 PM
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Money, status, these women have a savior fetish etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 05:30 PM
4

That’s what I meant and damn aids victim ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:43 AM
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Ah the myth that men with girlfriends tend to be out going
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:21 PM
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She’s not a 2 but not a 7 neither. Good 5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:45 PM
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I feel the same way about red pill deniers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:48 PM
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Where’s your data on this? Beautiful women are likely taken , why ? Cause they got approached
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:50 PM
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Attractive women get approached all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:13 PM
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She’d be pretty hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:30 PM
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There’s this girl who pressures me to have sex but I’m hesitant to tell her no to not hurt her feelings. What should I do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:21 PM
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Which one is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:57 PM
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That’s the lowest of the low 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:13 PM
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Being fat is worse than being a hoe tbh. Some men want to change an attractive hoe to a housewife but no man wanna invest in a fat woman . I should make a post about this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:12 PM
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Through very careful observation of the dating World and reflecting on my own experience, I can honestly say … the worst thing a woman can do for her dating life is to be fat. Nothing beats that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:55 PM
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What if the sex was bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:42 PM
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That’s been my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:58 PM
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Is it true that women get attached after sex or was this notion just patriarchal propaganda?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:45 PM
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Those last 2 paragraphs are something that be experienced as well. You got any studies on that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:03 AM
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Plenty of shy men in relationships or get hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:51 AM
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I don’t think you need to improve if you are already average , you might need to redirect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:41 AM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:50 PM
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I’ve been known that talking to women like you would men is terrible advice but most women advice are just terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:50 PM
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Men often get told to just treat her like a normal human being or like she’s not a different species so naturally we’d talk to her like we do men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:25 PM
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Share the link
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:33 PM
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Where’s the data ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:30 AM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:42 AM
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Your fat boyfriend prolly wouldn’t have dated you had you been fat like him so my point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:44 PM
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Sure but there’s a limit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:41 PM
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That’s not how attraction works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:54 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:53 PM
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So how do unattractive couples work ? Are they actually sexually attracted to each other ? Anyone here want to answer from experience lol ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:40 PM
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Funny because IM afraid they might make a scene lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:57 PM
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Most people date people they already know though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:38 PM
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It’s very immature lol. I’ve rejected girls and I never make it awkward. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:28 PM
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Then that’s annoying cause now I don’t want ask girls out that I already know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:27 PM
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Why do girls make it so awkward after they reject you when they see you around ? Like I’m the one who got rejected lol That’s the main reason why I avoid dating within my social circles which is how most people date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:09 PM
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I wouldn’t if that’s the only issue
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:07 PM
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The red pill just says women are attracted to money and status , women can’t refute that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:10 PM
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Women here are 50/50 . Red/blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:17 PM
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Why would you give your height in inches lol. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:52 PM
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Yes both of them are women who will act very similarly to men they like and men they don’t , they both will behave similarly in dating contexts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:50 PM
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I don’t think they are that different from each other
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:11 PM
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I don’t know what’s average anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:07 PM
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Lol how ?! I can’t hand pick who I want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:14 PM
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I don’t choose the women I date to an extent lol, I pick from what’s available
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:37 PM
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But they did match with you though so they found attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:36 PM
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I’m willing to bet everything I don’t select for women like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:27 PM
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Huh ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:20 PM
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I’m just saying yours is terribly low , your texting must suck
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:20 PM
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No I’m not, they love to chase
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:12 PM
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Women like men who act unavailable, I don’t care what anyone say . I lost every single girl who I made it seem like they had me . Problem is, I hate acting unavailable when I like a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:07 PM
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I’m talking about hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:04 PM
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Your text game is horrible . I got 3 dates from 25 matches and even less chats
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:51 PM
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Why is it assumed that women have emotional intelligence automatically just cause they are women ? cause in my experience, they are just as emotionally intelligent/dumb as men on average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:40 PM
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Yea women hate teaching men how to satisfy them in my experience which is completely stupid imo . A virgin can be dominant and all these things though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:31 PM
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Why not date a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:40 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:07 PM
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She’s gonna flake if you wait that long lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:51 AM
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In school and work and mutual friends. Some men are out of school, don’t work with women and have only guy friends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 02:23 AM
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I can agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:26 PM
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True ,some women are actually into that feminine look though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:17 PM
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So what lol. Women don’t want most men anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:12 PM
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You think men wouldn’t date women with plastic surgery ? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:02 PM
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That’s a good mindset. I’ve done that with guys in my hobby groups but the girls were more reluctant to join in the outings
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:15 PM
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That’s good but personally I have tried this in my current location and what I’ve noticed is that people hang out with who they’ve always hung out with , it’s very hard to break in new circles
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:08 PM
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Yes but most social circles passed a certain age and stage in life are pretty much set in stone with very few new additions . Acquaintances are easy to make but people who would include you in their circle and invite you to stuff ? Passed college ( age 25-27 ish) , it’s very difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:51 PM
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What they mean is that average men can’t get women through dating apps or cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:09 PM
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I disagree, I think there is a lot of overlap
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 12:01 PM
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I’m currently dating but I’m very much part of the high standards camp
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:47 AM
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They meaning destiny and the girl . Obviously fresh n fit acknowledge the black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:09 AM
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I don’t think they co-sign the black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:00 AM
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I don’t think they co-sign the black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:59 AM
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Silly me for talking about dating on a dating sub
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:39 AM
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So you’re siding with team A then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:38 AM
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What quality of women were these guys getting ? The video implies high quality women date losers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:35 AM
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That actually makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:26 AM
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Yea but acknowledge the norm, not the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:09 AM
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I still don’t understand lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:50 AM
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I don’t get the second paragraph. You’re saying women don’t know what’s attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:31 AM
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Yea I don’t think these guys are actual losers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:22 AM
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Destiny is a very smart guy , I’m sure he knows these aren’t actual losers but he was trying to win a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:18 AM
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I guess the Problem is neither side explained what they meant by “ loser “
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:15 AM
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Each side makes it seem like their observation represents the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:14 AM
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Watch the video
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:12 AM
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Knowing the girl in the video , she believes women don’t select based on looks so I’m guessing she didn’t imply they were tall good looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:09 AM
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In the video the man said , he knows plenty of attractive women who dated and invested in losers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:01 AM
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So 50% of young men in your city are chads ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:17 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:23 PM
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Number 5 is soooo common lol . I said remove you so you wouldn’t get emotional about it or something but yea I get your points
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:17 PM
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Sorry that happened to you . Let’s remove you from the equation , it just goes to show women naturally want men who treat them badly , how the hell can someone be in a relationship where a partner drives them suicidal ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:59 PM
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I don’t get to actually date them long term is my point cause I treat them right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:59 PM
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An abusive relationship had you suicidal or was it something else ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:50 PM
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If most people are traumatized and not working on it, in the end the healthy minded ones will be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:44 PM
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A lot of women don’t do that self work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:24 PM
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I eventually treat them right and lose them so no , treating them right wasnt worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:15 PM
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Just my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:14 PM
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I’m noticing a very sad pattern in the women I date , the ones who said they were hurt in the past will get turned off eventually if you treat them right . You have to somewhat recreate the Trauma that happened to them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:08 PM
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Yea I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:05 PM
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I’m talking about your friends that are 10’s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:25 PM
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Aren’t your friends in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:59 PM
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Attractive women are easier to get cause they get approached much less is bout the dumbest shit I ever heard
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:49 PM
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What if she shows up on dates though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:37 AM
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If she talks to you , would you ignore her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:37 AM
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I understand now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:16 AM
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So your bf expresses that he doesn’t like it and you couldn’t really care less ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:12 AM
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I hope so
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:59 AM
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You’re a slow texter to your own boyfriend?! That’s wild man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:56 PM
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Yes I get you , as least they don’t flake on dates but I’m just getting tired of the whole “ I’m a bad texter “ line
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:51 PM
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I can relate 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:49 PM
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1 a month if you working hard at it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:37 PM
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I don’t wanna come across needy but I feel like women who take hours to text back in between every reply just might be a deal breaker for me honestly. I like having a good back and forth and if I as a man want to talk more than the woman, it’s already a bad dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:34 PM
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Nobody here is chasing supermodels bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:53 PM
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Are you saying you were attracting bottom of the barrel women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:17 PM
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I mean if you were getting 3 matches a day, you are very good looking my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:47 PM
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I respect it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:36 PM
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Q4W Do you agree with the concept of SMV ? Why or why not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:30 PM
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I don’t believe you’ve only ever had sex after a relationship has been agreed upon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:26 PM
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The whole red pill is true except for the notion that women like mean assholes The whole black pill is true but every man is someone’s type if they work on their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:49 AM
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So you also only have sex with women who you commit to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:46 PM
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You wouldn’t date a girl you like just cause another dude had fuck zoned her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:29 PM
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Women liking beards is the norm. You’re not that different
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:56 PM
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Location is important
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:12 AM
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Yea I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:25 PM
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Most guys are not 5’6 anyway is kinda messed up when you think about it . That’s like saying this war will only cause 10% of a population’s death
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:20 PM
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You pretty much said height doesn’t matter but it matters lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:07 PM
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Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:09 PM
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If you get rated a 5 on rating subs , you are attractive lmao , their rating system is tough as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:02 PM
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Who said you were a 5 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:42 PM
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I don’t get the logic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:31 PM
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Well put
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:04 PM
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Does that look like Stacy you claim we are chasing ? u/LillthOfBabylon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:19 PM
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What if she lost weight ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:15 PM
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She’d still be hard to get
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:14 PM
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Is this woman below, average, or above average ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:08 PM
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Anything to confirm your world view huh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:16 PM
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No I’m speaking from experience here and I do not consider conventionally attractive women Average
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:11 PM
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Mediocre looking girls are very often height queens
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:03 PM
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What percentage of men you think women find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:38 PM
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I conduct this study all the time , it’s called getting rejected haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:28 PM
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You can conduct your own study by asking women in real life what percentage of men they find attractive. You’ll get similar numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:19 PM
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That post with the tik tok video of women sharing terrible experiences they had with men who didn’t find them attractive was interesting. So apparently some men tend to treat women they don’t find attractive with no civility and respect . The stories they shared can only represent 15-20% of men at most
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:09 PM
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Women are the ones who rate 80% of men as unattractive, how are they more accurate ? Men don’t have low standards, they have more reasonable standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:44 PM
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The way these women have been treated, I can’t say I have ever experienced this since elementary
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:42 PM
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Because what women consider below average is way more unfair than what men consider before average
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:08 PM
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Most women are willing to look past average or below if they are unattractive . If they they are attractive they will look past it for status or money
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:55 PM
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There are a LOT of men …too many , under 25 who would like a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:32 PM
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They are good friends though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:17 PM
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I need to view attractive ones as unattractive then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:16 PM
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They don’t want to be friends (close ), not sure why
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:15 PM
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One did last night sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:11 PM
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They all rated me higher than them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:09 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:03 PM
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How come every single woman I’ve been close friends with has been unattractive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:53 PM
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All facts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:37 AM
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Your opinion is what matters cause you’re a girl. To me above 25 before age 30 is Chad status
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:20 AM
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I don’t dating is complicated. It’s very easy to predict who will be successful or not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:04 AM
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Club is more status oriented
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:52 PM
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Strawman . He’s saying he can’t be his Natural cool self and be attractive, he has to be dominant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:40 PM
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If you’ve had sex with 30 women by your early 20’s, you are definitely damaged but undoubtedly a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:24 PM
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What do you think is the average N-count of men your age ? From what you’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:16 PM
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I explained it here It’s not your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:44 PM
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You’re tall , don’t let it bother you at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:26 PM
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Of course I don’t mean sloppy fat lol. I mean construction worker fat . Most women are overweight so why tell men to be fit just to compete for a minority of women who will also require money and status along with “ the being fit “package ? It’s better to be overweight and be part of the dating pool of most women because they are also overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:10 PM
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True but I’m willing to bet if we take a survey of all adult women , I’d be more right than you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:01 PM
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Girls of all sizes prefer men with a big build , most of them from what I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:49 PM
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The vast majority of your life won’t be in your teens to early 20’s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:45 PM
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What makes me say that? Experience experience experience and observation. I 100% recommend men go for the stocky and kinda fat build over the skinny one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:20 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:02 PM
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Ok I agree then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:40 PM
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I disagree, it’s better to be fat/stocky as a man than slim/skinny. As far as dating is concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:36 PM
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Oh wow I totally misread. I didn’t see the “ yourself “
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:19 PM
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We talking about looks here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:18 PM
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You ever shared your pics ? By the sound of it , you are very much above average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:08 PM
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Fat and not in the right places = below average Fat but in the right places = Average Normal weight with no curves = Average Normal weight with curves = above average Fit = above average For men it’s a bit more complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:07 PM
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The NBA player has a 5 wife who he likes and probably stuck with him when he had nothing but he’s fucking 10’s on the side
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:54 PM
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You can be unattractive and have sex with hot women. You just got to have money or status which is WHAT THE RED PILL PREACHES !!!! Lmao The dude who was debating against the red pill in the video is too stupid to realize his hot wife would not have looked at him twice if he worked at Walmart
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:53 PM
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The red pill tries to help men achieve their goals especially regarding women . Sleeping with unattractive women is no man’s goal so the attractiveness of these partners matter greatly . Destiny was trying to debunk the red pill but if the taller healthy BMI successful guys were sleeping with attractive women, as opposed to the poor short and fat guys then that proves the red pill right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:27 PM
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I’ve watched the debate entirely. Attractiveness is barely subjective and it definitively matters . I wouldn’t be surprised if poor people had more sex since they are less busy . If the short high BMI dude slept with 9 overweight unattractive women and the tall healthy BMI dude slept with 12 fit attractive women, that’s a HUGE factor to be considered cause ultimately men want to be able to sleep with attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:49 PM
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The study should have asked for attractiveness of these partners
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:24 PM
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Yea that’s a model in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:08 AM
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I see but 30-40 is an exaggeration but I agree the process isn’t enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:06 AM
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It’s not that hard neither. Drop your standards and make them feel good. This won’t work with attractive women though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:52 AM
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No. Every man get casual sex if they drop their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:06 AM
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Beauty is subjective, not average was or ugliness haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:19 PM
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Yea I think that’s weird personally
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:07 PM
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The reason I wasn’t interested in the past were 90% related to physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:01 PM
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Yea I couldn’t imagine having sex with someone repeatedly and not ever talk to her and be somewhat friends . That’s degenerate shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:00 PM
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So you guys didn’t talk at all . Just come over , have sex , leave ? Not one word ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:57 PM
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In the past when you were single
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:56 PM
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My fuck buddy is also my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:55 PM
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Why weren’t you interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:52 PM
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Why did you reject the ones who you were not interested in but also flirted with you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:43 PM
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They said they didn’t find them attractive . They were neutral towards them. Are you black pilled ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:30 PM
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The women said they didn’t like the guy or found him attractive until he flirted though but I’m guessing you’re black pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:28 PM
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If all it takes is just the guy flirting and suddenly women will see him in a new light. Why do most men fail successfully do this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:24 PM
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So from all the answers I got from my question , it begs the question, why are so many men stuck in friendzone ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:22 PM
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I think women do compare themselves to a potential suitor even if subconsciously. Was he always into you from the start ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:20 PM
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You think you would have had the same reaction if he was less attractive when he started flirting with you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:52 PM
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Reddit women are something else. You mean to tell you never had a crush on someone who you barely or never interacted with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:56 PM
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Yea women only go for men they find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:39 PM
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Whenever I’ve tried this , it’s only been awkward lol and they reject . Would you say he’s your looksmatch ? Better looking or worse looking than you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:51 PM
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You weren’t attracted to him until he flirted with you ? Really ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:31 PM
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Being with someone doesn’t count cause that’s obviously a valid reason. I’m asking all the men you weren’t interested in and started flirting with you while you were single but rejected, why did you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:30 PM
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So this is what I’m saying . In this scenario , you have met and learned about the guy etc and wasn’t interested until he started flirting with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:24 PM
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I don’t think you guys understand the question lol . Ok so those who you weren’t interested in and flirted with but you still rejected . Why did you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:17 PM
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Interesting … I believe you but how common is this for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:09 PM
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So a guy you didn’t find attractive, you weren’t interested in started flirting with you and that alone made him attractive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:04 PM
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So just cause a guy you already knew that you didn’t like flirted with you changed your mind about him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:00 PM
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Just because he flirted with you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:56 PM
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Your opinion doesn’t count on this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:56 PM
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See edit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:50 PM
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See edit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:49 PM
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See edit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:49 PM
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Q4W- have you ever not been interested in a guy until he started flirting with you ? I’m not talking about a guy you didn’t know. Someone you knew and have interacted with on several occasions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:41 PM
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In most cases for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:10 PM
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Define “ Doing well “
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:55 PM
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I think most women have a type from my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:23 PM
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Do you think most women feel the way you do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:42 AM
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How tall , what ethnicity , what physical build ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:34 AM
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Yea of course . What about physically ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:21 AM
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For get involved with someone intimately
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:18 AM
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What are your standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:11 AM
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The PPD is so hellbent on believing the average man is just swimming in pussy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:16 PM
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Even that included
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:32 AM
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My mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:04 PM
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You agreed with someone who did
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:01 PM
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I don’t any dude struggling in dating who doesn’t also go “ outside “ regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:53 PM
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They are more sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:22 PM
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That’s not the norm though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:16 PM
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Why post this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:43 PM
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Good luck dating then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:30 PM
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She’s not fat lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:16 PM
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What does game look like to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 11:36 AM
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If you really think about it , a girl being on dating apps is a red flag. That’s like a young guy needing TRT
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:18 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:17 PM
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This isn’t talked about enough . Most older women prefer young men contrary to popular belief
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:31 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:07 PM
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You literally said women have a lower looks threshold than men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:59 PM
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You’re downplaying it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:52 PM
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Attraction has to be there period , I don’t know what you’re on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:50 PM
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“ You’ll be somebody’s type “is indicating that her being into the way you look is still the foundation of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:45 PM
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You just contradicted yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:33 PM
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He does like you though but you were just the only girl Into him at the time but he did grow to like you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:39 PM
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Yea I would be very afraid to act like that towards a woman, every single time I have done this in the past, they lost attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:47 PM
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No He still likes you but he just was taking who wanted him but you weren’t his first/ideal choice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:39 PM
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Q4W- how would you feel if your bf told you he was taking what he could get when he got with you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:28 PM
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Not in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:39 PM
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Height, frame, mass whether muscles or fat and some muscles etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:33 PM
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Face over everything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:19 PM
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I’ll always disagree with black pillers about this, but physical stature is more important than your face to most women above 23
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:15 PM
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A beard makes a huge difference in a man’s face though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:36 AM
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No I think muscles and beard wins tbh from what I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:24 AM
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If you’re a girl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:24 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:53 PM
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I can’t compete, the game is too rigged against you on there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:37 PM
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Eh I hear you but if I like her I like her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:37 PM
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So many options basically , and they weren’t disrespectful neither
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:34 PM
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What do you mean by the last sentence ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:34 PM
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I once saw an unattractive girl’s OLD profile from her phone and what I saw made me just quit dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:03 PM
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We haven’t talked about the causes yet . I know too many men dating girls below their league who are also demanding and disrespectful , yes they are in a relationship but they are still struggling especially if that girl decides to leave them , they will go through a major dry spell
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:23 PM
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So struggling is to not be able to get “anyone” ? I totally disagree with that definition. Struggling is not being able to get your looksmatch on a consistent basis .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:07 PM
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We need to define struggling , unless we do so then statements like this can’t be falsified
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:00 PM
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Unpopular opinion: most people have average personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:12 PM
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If she’s extremely sexually attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:28 AM
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How so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:05 PM
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So they forced their attraction to another direction ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:22 PM
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So if an ugly person finds you attractive then doesn’t that mean an attractive can find you attractive also ? If yes then there aren’t really leagues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:01 PM
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Then why do fat people date each other ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:40 PM
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Does one’s own level of attractiveness influence who they find attractive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:34 PM
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Under 5’7 is danger zone though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:54 PM
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I’ve seen so many women call guys taller than them short . Like so many times
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:00 PM
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5’8 is not short
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:59 PM
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Men didn’t invent the height insecurity out of thin air lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:59 PM
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Far more apps
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:35 PM
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Ok bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:00 PM
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Doesn’t matter, they will call you short even though you’re taller than them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:57 PM
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Tom cruise is objectively better looking though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:56 PM
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I think Vince Vaughn would do wayyy better than Tom
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:59 PM
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I agree 100%. Height and size are way more important than your face
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:39 PM
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Handsome will win
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:38 PM
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I’m going to disagree with the common saying of face > height . From what I’ve seen height is more important . Tall average looking guy will destroy a short good looking guy, everything else being equal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:59 PM
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In most countries , men cold approach even more lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:11 AM
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Dude an idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:01 PM
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I’m not the one who said they should or do bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:10 PM
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I have no example in my life whether from family or friends of Average to below Average guys who have gotten attractive women. I’d say most guys don’t know how to rate men looks properly they THINK the guy is average or below
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:32 AM
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In my experience yes , most dudes I know who get attractive women are all at least average height
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:47 PM
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Being at least average height is pretty important
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:32 PM
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“ I’ve seen her verbally abuse him many times “
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:12 PM
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You don’t get it 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:33 PM
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I mean sure , it’s not surprising you have a very individualistic mindset as women do but we live in a society at the end of the day and we need each other and romantic affection is if not a need , it’s very close to it but again , I knew this would be your way of thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:25 PM
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It’s not a problem in and of itself , but if every or a big number of average woman think they are hot shit and refuse to date Average men , you don’t see that being a problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:20 PM
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I knew that would be your answer lol. You don’t really be thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:15 PM
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I get you and when you put it that way , it does a scream insecurity. So what do you think we should do about women and who feel they are too good for their male equivalent ? Don’t think of it as an individual problem , it’s a growing number of women labeling themselves a 10 when they are average and think men who are doing well as below average
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:55 PM
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I explained to you why it is but you haven’t explained why it isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:49 PM
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I don’t do it but I understand it’s necessary. Women being gassed up stifles the dating market . They already on pedestal by virtue of being a woman and being gassed up on top of that just worsens the balance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:42 PM
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That’s the treatment most men get in a relationship if the guy isn’t high value
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:36 PM
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Why do women viscerally hate neediness so much ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:25 PM
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I read your responses, you are either trolling or crazy as hell, I hope it’s the former
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:53 PM
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Make a profile that suggests that
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 05:24 PM
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Very detailed explanation ! It makes sense why there are more men online than women, cause it’s easier for women to have that network to meet people
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 12:57 PM
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How is it different from real life dating ?
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 12:25 PM
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Yet another metaphor lol
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 11:47 AM
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Anymore ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:31 AM
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20 men just in college is pretty high though. The average 7-10 for a lifetime for both genders? So that college girl is definitely part of hookup culture
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:06 AM
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Dude was hating hard
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 01:47 AM
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I get that
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 09:30 PM
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What does the metaphor of the second paragraph mean in real life ?
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 09:02 PM
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What is a red pill concept to you?
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 04:07 PM
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I agree ☝️
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 02:07 PM
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Lol I know what the bar being low means . I was just curious as to what the bar represents in this scenario but from what I understand, you’re saying that who other people like can very much be who you don’t like cause what other people prioritize aren’t what you prioritize
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 01:29 PM
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What bar are you referring to ?
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 11:30 AM
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I’m not talking about people“ selling “ a man to someone though
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 10:27 AM
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Just cause red pill didn’t invent it doesn’t make it not red pill
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 09:23 AM
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He overreacted but let’s not ignore the moral of the story though…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 03:36 AM
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I see what you’re saying
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 05:19 PM
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I respect that if it’s true
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 05:16 PM
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I don’t understand the question
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 05:04 PM
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Special social standing = status Which is what the red pill talks about
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 05:03 PM
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Not necessarily taken but around attractive women
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 04:15 PM
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This is a good subreddit to talk against these internet red pillers but the real red pill is just common sense and observable truths
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 03:02 PM
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Thank you. The rich get richer, the poor get poorer
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:54 PM
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Have you heard of the trope that men will sleep with women they don’t want to be seen outside with ? If preselection worked even with unattractive women, men would go out with these unattractive women just the Percs of preselection
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:53 PM
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Yea but it should also work if the woman is unattractive but the more attractive the woman the better it works to attract other people including women
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:46 PM
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No I don’t agree with those at all. That’s not red pill , that’s internet shock value stuff The red pill is about being the best man you can be , though money, status, character, game , physical attractiveness etc
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:45 PM
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You can’t watch people and tell who attracted their partner through preselection, we can’t tell how they attracted their partner at all. To me the red pill is about what increases your chances overall , not what attracts niche women
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:40 PM
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How is it so? You think it doesn’t really happen as much as people think or …?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:21 PM
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I didn’t mention looks . I actually think preselection supersedes looks, an average looking man that other women want for whatever reason will be more attractive than an unknown good looking man. It may not work for you but do you think it does on other women?
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:20 PM
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I didn’t say people , I said women . Walking around with a bunch of guys doesn’t do much . Walking around with attractive women makes a whole world of difference
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 02:10 PM
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I agree
/r/ExRedPill06/05/23 01:53 PM
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I’m not going to change your view, you’re 100% right as I’ve actually been thinking about this lately as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:04 PM
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That’s the sad part about dating. It often feels like most people meet their match when they are young or they have known each other for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:53 PM
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Congratulations. How did you meet your spouse ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:26 PM
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So keep doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:17 PM
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Why not make a move on him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:09 PM
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Until she breaks up with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:25 PM
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You speaking in too broad terms. Are you saying women I like are a monolith when it comes to who they date ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:25 PM
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Prime example why women just can’t give good dating advice . There are plenty men who meet a lot of women but can’t attract them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:24 PM
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Yes but the paramount point is How as far as gathering information to help one’s case . If we see a turkey on mars, all scientists would be trying to figure out how it got there not just the fact that it is there Or if your friend got a very good job , you’d ask them how they got it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:05 PM
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Why would you think it doesn’t matter ? They had to get together somehow which is what most male dating strategies are based around , knowing how to get the girl to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:00 PM
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Observing already made couples in pointless . Observing closely how they got together is more beneficial
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:47 PM
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Wow men who struggle just don’t have a pet I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:41 PM
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Those are different feelings though, they are NOT the same. Volunteering at an animal shelter ? That’s love to animals not women . Your point is detailing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:36 PM
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So why do some women go after guys who ignore them ? Or some women like a guy until the guy likes them back ? Some women like dangerous men who make them feel the thrill , while some like nice good men ? Btw the way you look is way more important cause it’s not that hard to cherish a person , so many lonely men with a lot of love they willing to give but little people want it from them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:30 PM
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The looks threshold is different for everyone. Isn’t the feelings required also different for everyone ? Some women like men who make them feel different things ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:23 PM
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To be fair, even when I’m succeeding , I still come here. I don’t think your sexual status has anything to do with your participation here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:06 PM
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Notice you haven’t said where in real life you meet them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:35 PM
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No worries, that was a good read
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 08:34 PM
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There you go lol he’s tall and in college . I rather be fat and tall than short and ripped any day of the week
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 08:32 PM
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It’s the dichotomy of it all I guess. The beauty and the beast phenomenon
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 08:12 PM
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What I mean is some men will think they or other men are unattractive because they don’t possess physical qualities they THINK women are attracted to meanwhile women don’t even care about it like muscles. A tall handsome chubby/fat guy will think he’s unattractive because he doesn’t have a 6 pack but women ARE attracted to tall fat handsome men more than ripped men. What do you offer to your wife ? Let me guess , you have a personality of gold and you know what to say every single time , you’re …
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 08:04 PM
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I think women are more attracted to men who LOOK dominant more than actual dominant men. If you look dominant but act sweet to them, they love that
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 07:53 PM
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I would believe you that you see what you THINK you are seeing however so many times I’ll hear those examples but the commenter leaves out aspects that would clarify why those relationships come to be. Beauty is subjective to a degree yes. Your partner is likely not out of your league but on the same level, you’re probably downplaying yourself without realizing.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 07:43 PM
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You don’t really say much lol. Not rich doesn’t broke ,Fat doesn’t mean ugly nor short . Good funny men get friendzoned all the time
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 06:05 PM
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Answer the question if you can
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 05:39 PM
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Who do you see dating attractive women outside ?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 05:25 PM
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Agree, the real world actually confirms the red pill all the time
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 02:49 PM
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So the only thing preventing one from becoming above average is them just being normal weight ? That’s sad ! Meaning they don’t want relationships as much as people here claim
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 07:21 PM
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Last girl I dated had close to those stats, she was very attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:26 PM
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Use hinge instead of tinder when trying to make any point about OLD and watch your point fall apart
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:10 PM
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It’s so sad that Reddit entertains the idea that the average woman is a big girl . And women are not as relationship oriented as Reddit claims neither , at least not the above “ average “ ones
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:07 PM
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That’s false red pill meant for shock value . I just explained the red pill above
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:42 PM
1

Well she was lonely and unattractive and wouldn’t date a man who was more attractive than her , I was surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:25 PM
2

That women especially attractive ones like confident men, they like status and money ? I think these are observable truths
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:39 PM
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Ok I see where the problem is, you are misunderstanding the red pill. It’s not about hating women, it’s about the nature of them and the realities of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:02 PM
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That’s them writing stuff , how do you know it leaks into their relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:55 PM
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They are all average
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:47 PM
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Most women confirm red pill “ biases “
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:44 PM
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I don’t think they can trick their minds like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:51 AM
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Aren’t you contradicting yourself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:43 AM
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I was talking to this girl who by her own admission is pretty unattractive, I was surprised she still had standards and considered some guys who were more attractive than her unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:07 AM
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Western culture is different from other cultures around the world , I don’t think it’s inconceivable that passport broing is a decent option for men who want to date within those cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:02 AM
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Yes it would make a difference lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:29 AM
2

Did you really think you’d succeed with those pictures dude ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:59 PM
1

How do you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:01 PM
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No I’m not one of those people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:44 PM
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Men probably stop putting in the effort that made them desirable to begin with after 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:08 PM
1

Average height lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:31 PM
1

What’s your age range ? Young dudes tend to be scared to approach their peers
/r/ExRedPill29/04/23 01:50 AM
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Man that is interesting! I’ve heard the complaint from women before about men who give the impression that they shotgun approach every girl so their approach no longer feels special. Damn you go out a lot too ! Yea I don’t get it
/r/ExRedPill29/04/23 12:53 AM
1

I don’t blame you not taking interest in them. When you go out at night, men don’t approach you ?
/r/ExRedPill29/04/23 12:42 AM
-1

Women don’t like borderline abusive men but the bad boy archetype ? They tend to like that
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 11:15 PM
1

I might have been needy to be fair, I will never make that mistake ever again ! It’s funny cause on social media, girls are talking about how they want a man to be obsessed with them and I can say that they don’t actually want that lol
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 09:41 PM
1

Damn , well talk to them ❤️
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 09:40 PM
1

How many likes you got lol ?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 08:32 PM
1

Let me guess , you don’t do dating apps for whatever reason
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 07:58 PM
1

You don’t have guys in your life who would date you ?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 07:47 PM
0

Yea I hear you. Ironically I lost women I was seeing as soon as I expressed that I really liked them or wanted a relationship, I guess that turns some women off. Attractive enough women in their 30’s who are single are that way because they were most likely way too picky or didn’t do any self work emotionally. Men do have to worry about that lol. Most women in their 20’s don’t want anyone above 30 Yes there are invisible women out there for sure.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 07:04 PM
1

I’m willing to explore alternative perspectives . Tell me what do they struggle with ? Not being sarcastic
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 06:42 PM
-1

Unless your definition of average is unattractive, something not adding up. I was dating this girl who I found attractive but she’s technically average. I once saw her IG DM’s and she had so many unopened messages and another guy was texting her while I was with her. You guys just ignore your suitors
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 05:56 PM
-1

If you live in a big city , for sure Average women get propositioned all the time by make friends or strangers. I’ve seen it often
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 04:35 PM
3

She was physically attracted for sure, everything else you said could be a reason 100% . I guess I’ll never know
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 01:57 PM
0

I’m not asexual
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 01:45 PM
2

I understand a lot of the red pill stuff is B.S. but that scenario you described ? I have witnessed this a lot. As far as the tinder stats, obviously 80% of men are not single but chances are the average and below men with girlfriends got them after the top men either rejected them or were done fucking them
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 12:41 AM
1

Number 2 to me is very much real and I quite do NOT understand why people deny this so bad
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 12:29 AM
1

I’m sorry , I meant “ don’t like “ lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:28 AM
1

Oh ,so you like opening up to deaf ears ? I get you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:59 PM
2

Weird sentiment .How do you know it’s to make themselves feel good ? Would you prefer if they don’t care whether or not you ever opened up to them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:53 PM
0

I do just after nearly every woman lol, I’m not sure if I can help it lol
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 09:54 PM
1

Yea I can see that , I’d like to believe that’s not why I lost her though lol ( although it’d make sense ), that’d be red pill as fuck
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 09:17 PM
0

I 100% agree with this . It’s also very hard to keep the attention of a woman who has a lot of friends
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 08:53 PM
0

I actually agree but can romantic love exist without lust ?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 05:55 PM
-1

Men get assaulted as well ( more than women actually ) , I wouldn’t mention that as part of the argument with dating . This is a violence discussion not dating discussion
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 05:48 PM
-1

No because I think men objectively have it harder and I’ve given a lot of thought to this . I’m not saying women have it easy but they do have it easier
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 05:39 PM
-4

I’m not going to count that example you gave, that’s outside of the topic and you know it. Yes I speak to women about dating, it’s Always the same thing, they love the bad boy who doesn’t care about them while ignoring good guys who do
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 05:32 PM
-1

Just as ?!
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 04:11 PM
2

I’m not even a nerd at all lol but what I said still applies
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 03:16 PM
-2

Sure
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 02:03 PM
0

Young non good looking men
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 11:47 AM
2

Aren’t there also more young men in prison/ mental institute/ are shut Ins etc so technically, it should feel like there are more women
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 10:18 AM
1

There’s definitely a racial hierarchy in dating, but this guy is 6’4 so he shouldn’t be complaining
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 08:57 AM
-4

I understand everything you’re saying but as a man I can honestly tell you that having a woman by your side just does something to us as men that you can’t find nowhere else, it really does motivate you and calms you down at the same time , it’s hard to explain
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 01:45 AM
-1

Read the post
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 12:46 AM
1

They invite you to their house ? I have never done this and no one who get dates that I know does this
/r/ExRedPill27/04/23 12:13 AM
-2

That’d be great if most communities/meetups weren’t male dominated
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 10:39 PM
-3

I see. I think you should try online though. It’s literally the easiest for …women , sorry to say it
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 10:00 PM
2

That’s very nice !
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 09:57 PM
7

Love ?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 09:53 PM
-1

Is there a chance you could be projecting this onto men ? Like what makes you think all they are trying to do is upping their body count ?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 09:50 PM
-4

Were they also overweight ?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 09:48 PM
1

Lol what’s the experience ?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 09:44 PM
-6

If that’s the case , use hinge or bumble and you’ll find a boyfriend in a month
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 09:35 PM
-2

Are you average or above looking ?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 09:32 PM
-2

We are pickier for relationships but not “ picky “. Lol I would know I am a man and my friends tell me my standards are low all the time compared to theirs
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 09:21 PM
-7

Good looking men are more likely to be confident enough to ask you out but the other commenter is absolutely right though, you most likely disregarding men in your league which makes you fall in that predicament
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 09:14 PM
-6

You think men are waaayyy pickier than they actually are
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 09:12 PM
4

That’s fair , I’ve seen this happen
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 07:06 PM
5

How do you find it difficult ?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 06:54 PM
4

You make sense . So what do you say to men struggling that you feel they need to hear ?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 06:26 PM
4

Men need to stop doing number 2. No pun intended
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 06:15 PM
1

Wait , so you think most men experience this ?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 06:03 PM
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I can predict it on their fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:23 PM
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Makes sense but there are other female dominated subs about ratings and it’s the same thing over there too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:57 PM
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Ok they are average but they are attractive enough to not wonder about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:22 PM
3

Love to hear it ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:17 PM
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Is the sub r/amiugly a place where women go to get an ego boost or are they really that insecure in the way they look ? cause I have yet to see an ugly woman there , most are clearly above average
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:14 PM
1

It was nice debating with you but you didn’t have to put the pornhub search bar thing , that was a bit sassy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:00 PM
1

Bro I agree that Average guy is trying a bunch of things ! My point is that it doesn’t result in enough options to be as realistically picky as he’d like bro . The only men that live that plenty of options life are above average dog
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:43 PM
1

Why do men date within their social circles if they can approach random women out there that are exactly his type and succeed ? If you tell me I can go outside and approach women I find attractive and succeed that way enough times to preach it to other men, why don’t stats reflect that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:32 PM
1

Ok so let’s use this here …. The average dude wants to date his ideal girl and there is an unlimited amount of ideal girls out here for the average dude to approach . Why do they end up dating someone from their social circle which is backed by stats . Please tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:25 PM
1

No my point is the average dude doesn’t have options to the point where he can afford to be picky , that’s my point dog. I agree the average dude does go out when he’s not getting matches or whatever and he most likely ends up going home alone as well until someone shows up in his life through his circle that he can tolerate but ideally , that he likes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:17 PM
1

You keep bringing the relying on OLD thing , did i ever say that’s what average men do ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:08 PM
1

So The average guy approaches and succeed yet the overwhelming majority of men get relationships through social circles in which they were friends with the woman first ? Use logic man please !!!! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:51 PM
1

Bro I’ve been to bars a lot ! Above average men succeed there consistently enough to have this as a “ strategy “ , I’m willing to bet on this ! I have literally gone out with men who can succeed in those arenas, they are not forgettable average dudes Most men/women don’t even be approaching strangers at bars , they go and socialize with their own groups man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:44 PM
1

I didn’t see that 12% figure you claimed. Every Time you say something here, it’s about approaching at bars now that I poked this hole in your theory, you want to downplay it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:27 PM
1

Dude what percentage of couples met a bar ? Like really , look it up ! OLD is more effective than approaching strangers at a bar if you believe in statistics that is. The friend of a friend thing is true but if you think the average guy has an endless supply of new women coming to his social circle that he can afford to be picky , you’re delusional This is basic common sense . The only way a dude can thrive in these environments is if he is actually ABOVE AVERAGE
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:15 PM
1

Bro please engage with my whole statement and not just the part about OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:59 PM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:53 PM
1

Wait ? You think hinge and bumble are any different ? Most men get left swiped is a FACT . Tell an average men to go out and approach 20 women , he’ll get rejected my most consistently . How are these not facts ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:53 PM
1

Getting some doesn’t mean anything spectacular. You didn’t refute my facts though. The average man gets swiped left on dating apps and rejected in real life as well. How is a man like that picky enough to wait for his ideal girl ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:42 PM
1

I’m talking about the courting phase. Once you get her to love you, you can mistreat her until she eventually breaks but while talking? She’ll drop you very quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:40 PM
1

My problem with this sub is that they love to twist the definition of average to whatever suits them. Most men get swiped left on dating apps and get rejected by the majority of women they approach IRL. The average man date within his social circle and takes what he can get in that sphere . The only guys I know with enough options to be picky are above Average whether it is looks , popularity, money , fashion , social skills, etc . They are never these guys that are just unnoticeable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:36 PM
1

These are model looking women however if you think their mindset only reside in beautiful women, you’re in for a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:27 PM
2

Most Average men don’t and that’s what I’m saying . Average Women drop men that hit deal breakers wayyyyyy easier and faster then men do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:18 PM
1

I’ll have to see what they describe them as
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:15 PM
1

The average dude can’t get in a relationship without ignoring shit that bothers him in the courting phase or else he’d be forever single. Women will drop a dude as soon as something he does bothers her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:12 PM
1

Awful Is an extreme but you guys love to redefine average to whatever suits you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:02 PM
1

That lady is an extreme example but the average dude. Yes AVERAGE, doesn’t have that many options to be dismissing most women who exhibit red flags . This is coming from someone who knows plenty of men in relationships with women who do show unfortunate red flags but nobody is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:01 PM
1

That’s an extreme scenario but my point still stands though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:50 PM
4

Lol johny Depp is a celebrity, he definitely chose this. The average guy can’t afford to be that picky
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:34 PM
0

Men don’t have that many options to avoid dating women with red flags like women can for men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:24 PM
4

That was very funny 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:11 AM
-4

In your opinion…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 09:00 PM
-4

A lot of men are red pilled even though they have no idea what that term even mean so I’d say no
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 08:52 PM
-4

Dangerous red pill channels are dangerous. Healthy red pill channels are healthy
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 08:40 PM
8

Yes , it’s a very common thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:39 PM
1

How short are they ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:38 PM
2

They see it as manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:34 PM
10

She’s not attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:28 PM
1

With Lex Fridman . I mainly collect my beliefs from experience and observation tbh . If personality was king, there wouldn’t be so many men complaining about the friend zone and so many women complaining about fuck boys
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 02:43 PM
0

I’ve only watched his interviews
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 02:36 PM
1

Yes David Buss
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 01:29 PM
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I just told you they can do even better than the scenario you mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:14 AM
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Lol bro they can score even higher than that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:03 AM
1

Their perception of it isn’t great but chances are they are perfectly fine
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 12:54 AM
-14

I forgot which renown evolutionary psychologist said this but he does agree that women select based on markers of stability and that status and income play a big role . The red pill DID launch lol. I’m going to ignore that last part
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 12:47 AM
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Why advise to let it go when you seen it work ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:19 AM
-24

The red pill just describes the reality of things. They get some things wrong but I think they are pretty spot on with most rhetorics. Unappealing truths: women do primarily select for status and money, looks more than they do personality. You do have to play a little bit of games in the beginning of counting someone. Height is indeed attractive. Women do select for men who other women desire. If she finds out no other woman wants you, she likely will lose at least some attraction to you. Etc
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 12:14 AM
-26

Cause the truth still sounds unappealing to them. I’ll have to say though, most women would agree with the red pill if it’s told to them in a sensible way , which would most red pillers don’t do
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 11:28 PM
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“ if she says no , she doesn’t like you. Move on “ Then you go hear about these countless stories where the man got the girl by being persistent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:46 PM
-1

No I’ve seen them . But I’m not going to pretend that’s the norm. If you want an attractive girl, your best bet is to maximize your LMS
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 09:01 PM
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Trendy clothes can be expensive too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:00 PM
-1

Anybody who goes outside believes in the LMS theory whether they realize it or not
/r/ExRedPill23/04/23 08:57 PM
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You pretty much disagree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:19 PM
2

You message them , they respond then stop . Your message them, have a really good convo then stop when you ask them out. You meet up, things go great on the first date then they ghost after They don’t ghost but ghost after the second date You make one joke she didn’t like although she liked the others then she ghosts you. She ghosts you cause you didn’t make a move fast enough She ghosts cause you did make a move I can keep going ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:16 PM
2

No he’s right, it feels like that a lot but I think that’s mainly an online dating thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:05 PM
1

Because men don’t reach their standards? Any woman can have a decent guy if she uses OLD. What do you think the standards are ? and try to not give vague answers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:14 PM
1

You’re getting the mentality early
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:56 AM
1

I can tell you’re in your 40’s by the way you speak . Older women are always more confident and optimistic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:40 AM
1

They won’t believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:44 PM
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What did you figure out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:32 PM
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You don’t be watching pearly things or fresh n fit ? Even the average women on there have high standards though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:51 PM
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These women in your post are not average for sure . But I don’t it’s that much easier to attract average women neither lol and I’m also curious what you consider average women then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:38 PM
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I think a lot of Average women look great cause of makeup and styling themselves which make them seem like attractive but they are still average with good presentation. Seems like you think the average woman is unkept and looks unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:08 PM
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I agree with the nothing in common part but not the very attractive part
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:02 PM
-1

Yea my fault, with a beautiful woman
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 02:33 AM
1

Why is marriage the only measure?
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 01:36 AM
0

They date beautiful women lower than them all the time though
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 12:34 AM
0

Why should a skinny man date a fat woman by your logic? He should be able to attract what he is , a skinny woman
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 12:20 AM
2

lol I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:31 PM
1

Looks and overall, they liked his personality too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:20 PM
1

Just say Instagram lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:19 PM
2

I was watching fresh n fit and all the women on the panel rated Myron a 8-9 . You’d think they rate him lower considering his views
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:13 PM
1

Dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:55 PM
2

What was missing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:44 PM
0

Nice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:43 PM
2

What is he ? What are you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:40 PM
2

They have to find that someone attractive too
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 09:36 PM
0

A lot of skinny men can’t attract a skinny woman though cause the demand for them is higher so it’s not that equally distributed
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 09:35 PM
2

Incels want relationships not hookups whether they know it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:23 PM
2

The money and stability yes sure but chemistry and compatibility long term ? No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:22 PM
0

Every famous or rich guy with a beautiful wife is a red pill success story
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 09:21 PM
2

Yea but I recently got me heart broken so let me heal a little first
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:10 PM
1

I just don’t think relationship standards are really something men can directly work on as well, either we click for long term or we don’t but for hookups , it’s easier to become attractive in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:09 PM
2

Lots of women won’t have a relationship with a guy they hooked up with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:06 PM
1

Lol interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:01 PM
1

You can right time, right place, right mood, right amount of alcohol your way into plenty hookups . Can’t do that for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:51 PM
1

Interesting. We have different experiences on this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:48 PM
1

Relationships are definitely harder to make happen than a hookup 100% and I’m a guy saying this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:45 PM
1

Anime definitely is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:42 PM
2

That’s a good analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:39 PM
3

People who think women have higher standards for hookups than relationships are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:38 PM
1

Congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:07 PM
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Happy for you, I’m just talking about probabilities here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:08 AM
1

This postis common sense to me, if you value commitment, just date men that are at least a little less attractive than you. That’s why what women have been doing for ages
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:39 PM
1

I mean even if all men had great profiles, there would still be men left with no women though. On the hinge subreddit, people post their profiles to get reviewed and often women say they look great but the men complain they can’t get matches
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:24 PM
1

You don’t think that applies to women as well ?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 09:32 PM
-1

Men are toxic cause it works ? Toxic cause they are hurt and haven’t healed ? Idk
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 07:57 PM
2

I’m glad You’re undoing those traumas , I feel like a lot of women I have dealt with that I genuinely liked had those same self sabotaging mechanisms , I hate that shit lol cause I really liked them
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 05:15 PM
0

Lonely women can find someone to fuck , that won’t help their loneliness, they want romantic connections
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 05:13 PM
0

So can any woman … to fuck
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:53 PM
1

With that being said , why are you recommending bars ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:46 PM
1

It affects my perception of the red pill
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:45 PM
3

Why that question ?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:37 PM
1

Hinge gender ratio is like 60/40 . Majority of women admit to going to the bar/club to have fun with their friends and not be bothered, we can say that this is probably a lie but I also feel like a lot of women also lie about using OLD strictly for entertainment as well. 40% of couples have met using online, I think 10% have met through bars/clubs so statistically OLD is more efficient. I’m all for not relying on OLD but I think you’re also advocating using archaic methods
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:34 PM
2

lol you think I’m getting this info from the internet ?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:24 PM
0

You can’t “pull “ 10’s is my point
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:16 PM
1

What’s the difference between getting a swipe right on hinge and at a bar ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:58 PM
1

Some dudes don’t care or imagine signals where there aren’t , but when a girl is sending signals , they make it OBVIOUS
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:50 PM
-4

Right, it pays to be toxic
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 03:49 PM
1

Whatever, let’s just argue about the other point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:42 PM
1

I don’t believe in the “guys don’t know how to read signals to being approached “ thing . It’s not rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:42 PM
1

You can’t dictate someone isn’t average just by virtue of struggling with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:34 PM
1

I mean IRL the swipe right is the woman giving you signals to approach which is the same on a dating app ultimately no ? She has to swipe right before you approach at a bar as well , at least judging from the example you gave
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:27 PM
0

Being able to have sex with a 10 isn’t the same as getting him to commit though
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 01:33 PM
0

So you are interested in your boyfriend for who he is and that he’s also sexy but you think women only get valued for their bodies ?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 12:16 PM
1

How do you know they were only interested solely based on your looks ?
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 12:15 PM
-1

Y’all do have it easier but not necessarily “ easy “
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 11:59 AM
0

I’m baffled too lmao , it didn’t make no sense to me lol but I believe that was an exception to the rule tho
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 11:43 PM
0

I wanted more I guess
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 11:35 PM
1

Hookups are hard for me to get and relationships are near impossible
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 11:34 PM
1

I’m definitely following my dick unfortunately
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 10:10 PM
2

You make a great point to be frank, could be that we didn’t click the way they wanted. Very possible , that sucks
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 09:53 PM
1

I mean very overweight , not chubby
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 09:40 PM
-1

I am superficial just like we all are to an extent
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 09:24 PM
1

No I don’t have any personal issue with weight whatsoever
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 09:20 PM
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I’ve had sex with the attractive woman I’m speaking of though
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 09:18 PM
1

Not a bunch lol. I won’t say the reason they give, but some ghost as well. A hookup is in a way easier to get than a relationship in my opinion
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 09:03 PM
0

So women get to decide whose league they are in and not men ?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 08:59 PM
1

The hotter ones say no
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 08:58 PM
1

I mean we had sex or at least made out
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 08:48 PM
1

It’s degrading to men too and it’s mainly used towards men by other men. Yea I hope you are right about the rest
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 06:57 PM
1

I see men with little money or status with attractive women often enough as well though
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 06:39 PM
1

That’s not attractiveness , that’s more like lifestyle/compatibility
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 06:19 PM
1

I agree with the last paragraph
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 06:07 PM
0

When I interact with guys, it seems a lot are struggling with relationships, maybe they are still having sex but they definitely sound like dating is terrible for them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:00 PM
1

That’s quite surprising. I wonder if some men lied out of embarrassment but even then I don’t think it would go from 30 to like 60%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:55 PM
1

Thanks . So 30% are sexless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:53 PM
2

Show the study that says this , especially for young men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:41 PM
1

I’m just wondering why I can’t keep the ones I find attractive, that’s strange
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 05:33 PM
1

I said very overweight and if normal weight is a high standard then I’m doomed
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 05:32 PM
1

If attractiveness is subjective then how can like attract like ?
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 05:25 PM
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Well I’m definitely not obese so by that logic , I shouldn’t attract obese women. I think I have the qualities I want in a partner tbh but I guess women look for different things
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 05:12 PM
1

Very wide range of women. I’m not that picky but very overweight women seem to be the most responsive
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 04:59 PM
0

I try to invest but they reject it , not much I can do . I’m not super attractive but the women who I find attractive aren’t models neither
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 04:58 PM
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I don’t want to date them , they are unattractive to me as well
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 04:57 PM
1

I actually thought about that but there’s a limit lol
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 04:20 PM
0

Lmao trust me they are . Mostly cause of weight though
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 03:35 PM
1

These are people I’ve already met in real life through dating apps like several times but I lose the attractive ones and can keep the unattractive ones
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 03:35 PM
0

I agree with not convincing people to like me cause they are attractive, that’s actually weak and show low self respect from me . Attractiveness isn’t the only factor but I need to want to have sex with them to want to date them
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 03:21 PM
0

They are objectively less attractive unfortunately
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 02:36 PM
0

Of course but for some reason the hotter they are the harder they are to get or keep no matter the connection or chemistry , in my experience though
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 02:03 PM
0

Well attractiveness matter whether we say it or not and I’m more concerned about whether or not I find them attractive . I don’t chase really hot people at all , I’m attracted to what a lot of people often consider average or a bit above. Yes I understand they wouldn’t like to read this
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 01:51 PM
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I don’t know if I send out desperate signals, I just send out I’m interested signals but then again it works for unattractive women so I’d guess it could also work for attractive ones but not really
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 01:48 PM
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I love your theory, but I’m starting to feel like I’ll never click with anyone I find attractive 😔
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 01:30 PM
-2

Why do I keep having better luck with unattractive women ? I’m not unattractive myself from what I’ve been told
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 01:20 PM
-10

Well I met these women in real life on dates, the only ones who make it easy for me are the “ unattractive “ ones
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 12:57 PM
4

There’s no correlation between athleticism and extroversion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:29 AM
6

Women accounts actually do this too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:38 AM
1

They might be red pill but definitely not the bad kind
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 12:53 AM
1

We think you’re autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:24 PM
1

It’s so much easier for women to have a high sex drive cause women don’t need to reload
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:23 PM
2

Can’t disagree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:57 PM
1

If body count doesn’t matter, why not just say yours. This is an anonymous forum and still won’t cause you know it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:20 PM
1

Lol proves my point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:14 PM
1

Thanks , hopefully I can find a girl who thinks not being a little hoe is a high standard but they are becoming rarer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:10 PM
1

If men don’t care and you don’t , what’s your body count ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:09 PM
1

What’s your body count ? I care and I don’t ask because oftentimes I don’t want to know the answer or I feel it will ruined the vibe but most men have little to no options so they will settle for a hoe if there ain’t anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:03 PM
1

Most men aren’t ok with it which is why women lie about it, stop being dense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:02 PM
4

You lack critical thinking , exaggerate findings and you ignore stats
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:57 PM
1

If most women couldn’t get a text back the majority of them would be single like young men . Men are FINE WITH WOMEN WHO ONLY HAD SEX WITH 10 PARTNERS !!! . But we are not ok with women who fucked way more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:56 PM
1

Are you reading what I’m saying ? I said if she’s had sex with damn near 40 -50 guys then yes we’d probably dismiss her but most women haven’t had sex with this many dudes anyway so body count isn’t really a factor as long as it isn’t high. Responding to messages from anywhere, dating apps, having approached her somewhere, friends. Most men can’t even get a text back
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:50 PM
5

She’s out of her mind dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:42 PM
2

Hahahahaha not being a hoe is a high standard?!!! The average woman has a body count of 10 in her lifetime . Why is asking that she isn’t a hoe a high standard? What about responding to messages and reciprocating niceness a high standard? I can’t know if you are being serious or not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:40 PM
2

63% of ‘Young men under 30 are single 🤦‍♂️ Just read stats
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:37 PM
4

Most female profiles are not that amazing neither but we aren’t t as picky as women so we are willing to give chances unlike women Men standards : she must look decent enough and responds to his texts and is nice to him and isn’t a hoe who had sex with over 30 dudes Women standards: must make as much or more than her, must be tall enough, must be charismatic and funny , must have things going on, must be willing to initiate despite him being a human being who is also afraid of rejection, must be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:31 PM
4

Respond to my comment or I will take it that you realized you’re full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:25 PM
7

Women swipe left on 90% of dating profiles whereas men swipe left on I believe 30%. There are video memes on social media right now showing men falling in love with women as soon as one is nice to them whereas women are known to not want to be approached or bothered . 63% of young men are single compared to 37% of young women . Why would anyone in their right mind think men have higher standards?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 06:02 PM
5

These are not men’s standards and these are not women’s standards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:53 PM
7

If you are going to make a comment like this, at least be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:48 PM
6

Biased Female perspective 101
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:38 PM
6

Outside of college, dating apps are how most men with high body counts got theirs from what I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:47 PM
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Yes status or money of some sort for sure . Also could be looks or confidence issue but everyone knows money and status attract women viciously
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:55 PM
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63% of young men under 30 are single compared to 30 something percent of women. Didn’t you see the stats ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:48 PM
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That’s what it is though! Most red pillers online are stupid as hell trying to make young men enraged
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:47 PM
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Money and status attract women, that’s the pretty much the red pill . It’s Not about being an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:30 PM
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Every man is red pill whether he realizes it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:21 PM
1

I don’t call them that lol. Men have very low standards for sex and low standards for relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:12 PM
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Men standards are literally on the floor lmao . Who are these men demanding models to date them while they are ugly?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:10 PM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:49 PM
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Women have an inflated sense of self due to dating apps and social media though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:33 PM
1

5 isn’t bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:32 PM
1

And What would you rate yourself physically ? Try to do it through societal lenses
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:02 PM
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I think most men are fine with “ not ugly “ as the standard but it’s not. It’s blatantly attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:57 PM
2

Matches mean more to men cause they get so few if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:53 AM
3

Bruh it’s bumble , they literally HAVE to message first, that’s the way the app works . I’ve messaged plenty women who matched with me on other dating apps and never got a response. A match means the same for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:35 AM
1

We have listened to your issues and concluded that we objectively have it harder in dating just like women objectively have it harder in raising children
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:28 AM
1

OP said only 1 out of 7 people he matched with messaged him so how can you say at least you know the matches are interested ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:26 AM
-1

I agree, women here deny it for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:47 PM
-1

Damn all that good news just to end with the worst of news , that looks is king lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:41 PM
1

This was good. 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:45 PM
-1

You are 40 and you said you avoid rich men “NOW”. Who were you going for when you were young?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:01 PM
1

What attracted you to the men you approached? You never answered
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:43 AM
2

That’s the main problem with people who dislike the red pill , they often times have no alternative solution to give to men which is why the red pill keeps getting bigger
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 09:10 PM
0

That’s just not true
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 09:08 PM
2

So what advice did you give third one that was better than red pill advices?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 08:41 PM
1

Thank you !!!
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 05:59 PM
2

What behavior are they exhibiting?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/23 05:59 PM
0

I cannot relate to this AT ALL, what planet are you in where women initiate and do all of that for men they are interested in ?! We are the ones who do all of this to get women into us lmao . You wear makeup and did your hair but what drew you to the man you like ? His APPEARANCE as well . Women I know ABSOLUTELY get men telling them how pretty they are etc by men their own age too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:50 PM
1

I don’t know why women complaining just don’t use dating apps. It’s literally a nuclear bomb for them when it comes to useful weapons they can use
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:02 AM
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