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Russia, yes. haven't women left ukraine already?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:04 PM
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Yeah, being a kid is abnormally autistic in essence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:58 PM
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108, normalfag, lost quite a lot of points on physics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:58 PM
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And to have your pics*
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:53 PM
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confidence is the opposite of accountability, because it stems in staying in delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:52 PM
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BRO THIS IS LITERALLY RAPE, you think the local men pay the same rate to have sex with them???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:49 PM
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Notice though that unlike average men's tinder data, he left swiped a lot. I think his success boils down to being in a big city with shortage of men, his numbers are absurd when you look at his success rate when he reaches the chat, but indeed that's a lot of swipes that didn't land anything. I've lost my virginity on a dating app and I wouldn't even say I had more than 200 total female profiles pushed by the app within a year. Had been ghosted a lot by people asking for my height and I felt th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:42 PM
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There's indeed virtue signaling and emotional management going on here, but they burry the one they think they can, while lifting the ones they can't afford not to lift, it's domination and social matrix hierarchy forming itself. I'd probably not pay too much attention to this if I hadn't seen it more often IRL. And they'll always hide it behind "she has a great personality and that's attractive", while the only bit of clue they have is just that the girl dared to talk above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:20 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-YcBYUfgtc&themeRefresh=1 I love this video because it showcases it, the tall blond dyke isn't ugly but she immediately calls the shot, the fat one is also loud and imposing, and women eventually elect them as most attractive, while putting the shy feminine attractive one as last. However, I've never seen women do any sort of favor for an ugly non dominant woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:55 PM
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I think girls know who’s the most attractive in their group and how attractive they are but we’re socialised not to be honest about that.. I think girls know who is the most dominant woman and will claim she is the most attractive, regardless of if it's true or not. No I don't have links. I hate links.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:14 PM
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It's me, short fat guy, I agree totally. When I tried to date my looksmatches they were all vocal that they were far above me in looks and felt insulted I tried to hit on them. But women who were actually far above me in looks were fine with me. Insecurities make women even more delusional and obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:17 PM
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Last time I checked, studies suggested men were better at guessing objective attractiveness of both men, women, or themselves, but would sightly overrate everyone. Women would underrated everyone including themselves by a long shot. But news article somehow cherry picked that to claim men were narcissistic. As for my personal life experience, men are clearly more objective. I can't count how often men were capable to know which man was the chad of the group, and how often women would neg this ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:14 PM
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That's nice, I should make my SIL pay stuff. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:49 AM
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Why would they change a diaper? They aren't the parent. They need to work for the love they get or it's unfair. My comment is lighthearted don't take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:30 PM
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Being childfree means you don't want to parent or raise kids. Being childfree means you're a dead weight to society and you vampirise all the hard work of your siblings :'( my kids LOVE their uncles and their aunt, but they never changed a DAMN DIAPPER!!! It doesn't mean you don't want to have a relationship with kids in your siblings or friends. 🙄 Enough of them are pretty hostile to the idea of kids and parents themselves, because we have high carbon footprint or we're overpopulated blabla. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:54 PM
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My guy, it's called family. Wait until you hear about what your natural or adopted kids are considered \o/ I get your point, but seems to me that people who have relationships with their nephew and the like do kinda like kids and want some in their lives anyway, even if from afar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:41 PM
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no kids involved in niece life I mean technically yeah but also no. Everyone who has no kids seem to be living a bit of it by procuration with their siblings's kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:48 PM
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it's not enough to not tell, your behavior is a dead giveaway. You have to adopt the mentality of someone to who sex is normal and regular. That's why TRP talks of abundance mentality, but it doesn't have to be about yelling you have sex to everyone, it can be just subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:57 PM
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every PPD woman is not like the other woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:37 PM
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I got rejected twice because they knew I was a virgin, I lost my virginity soon after arriving to a new place and acting like sex was normal in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:36 PM
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You insist so much that my life isn't the way I'm experiencing it and keep throwing what you want, it's a boring discussion. This thread asks people their experience and you're here challenging mine, the insecure one is you, on top of being an hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:37 PM
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You've decided I was unmasculine and needy I guess, boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:23 PM
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Nah, women will show contempt the second they think they have any emotional labor to do, needy or not needy. I'm not even sure why you think neediness changes anything considering women are needy 24/7 with their confort tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:23 AM
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keywords "not the only way". Thus why I bring that up first before anything else. Just sharing how you’re feeling in the present is vulnerability. Which is equally welcomed with contempt by the female partners I've had. Any time you’re giving somebody the option to judge you for your true, authentic self, you’re being vulnerable And any time they judge me I show them involuntarily that I don't care and that none of it affects me. Which usually results in them respecting me for it and them thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:07 PM
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For men in particular, it’s just admitting when you feel lost, or sad, or you don’t have the answers. I don't process that in term of vulnerability either. I'm comfortable with saying I'm sad and I don't know. Crying is just the stereotypical one. I'm the kind of person open about his shortcomings and embarrassing past. I'll be stubborn on the topics I am confident I am right about though, which isn't refusing to be vulnerable. My wife is the one with the gigantic ego and with the evaluation of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:26 PM
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You do not make sense. I'm really blind to vulnerability, and anger comes from disrespect toward me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:21 PM
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I don't process things in term of being vulnerable. But clearly, crying and being a mess in front of my wife never yielded confort, instead it yielded contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:44 PM
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That's only for a minority of people to another minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:34 AM
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Beauty is objective enough. You can tell who is going to be of everyone's tastes, you can tell who is going to be a niche taste, you can tell who is nobody's taste nor niche. You can tell in a split second if a dude fucks. And you absolutely can do that on yourself, you'd need to see yourself in video often to determine it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:42 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:17 PM
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Nothing teaches you how to escalate but trying and failing. Blue pilled advices who tell you to first have a social circle ect... are wrong. Black pill advices who tell you to first fix your body are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:12 PM
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There's no "canceling". But women's availability in the dating market is what pushes men to approach them, that's why plenty of above average women are not approached while plenty of bellow average women are. Women need to show and communicate they are available, and then allow things to happen and facilitate it. The uglier she is, the more she needs to play on this in order to have any option. It won't cancel their lack of attractiveness, but it'll make men come and stick around. Attractive wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:56 PM
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Do you plan on being just friend with women? Have you missed the point of TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:52 PM
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Talking to women and trying to sleep with them is good advice, nothing else is. Being able to make friends only leads to being able to be friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:35 PM
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And one opinion informed by a collection of research and studies very much does hold more weight than one plucked out of thin air. Yeah well, collections of research and studies are supporting plenty of sociological wikipedia page yet it's filled with pure PPD garbage and biased takes. Not only is sociology not a science but also it's extremely biased in its initial intent. Let people stick their own conclusions to it and you get a fallacy of the cubic magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:46 PM
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there's no real science from soft science, soft science ain't science, it's BS, and since PPD is mostly soft science, all the sources are BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:33 PM
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Yea and if it's a shit source that they've misinterpreted, twisted or is simply a shit source, challenge them on it. It's tiresome to have to go through their source to tell them it's inevitably garbage in a way or another, and doesn't make their opinion have more weight than ours. And what you've described is the vast majority of science, there's very few things that are undeniable. The things that are undeniable aren't discussed. I think you overestimate how much of science discussion are actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:17 PM
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Sure some complaints are normal, viewing them with contempt and spending so much of your time engaging in very negative rhetoric around them? I would definitely say "sounds like you shouldn't be dating men/women then" Humans are simply not robots and people often conflate frustration with hate. Venting, coping, sharing... are often things they need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:58 AM
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To say though that sources don't mean shit is just pure lunacy though. Most stuff people wave here in an attempt to sound more scientifically grounded than the others is pure fallacy. You think there's no debate in scientific communities? Hate to tell you but there is a lot of it. Yeah and what's the focus of these debates? On things that are not provable yet, on scientific paper that don't appear right or rigorous, on hypothesis that are badly formulated, on proof of hypothesizes that could hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:38 AM
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Why do you come on PPD? Not a lot of things on PPD can be proven or disproven. Similarly plenty of debate topics in our societies are philosophical and science cannot help. If it was science based, debate wouldn't even exist. Make peace with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:24 AM
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That contradiction is loose and only exists because you keep defining mgtow as "living without the influence of women". I've tried to read the actual definition from mgtow but that sub is banned and the wiki definition is obviously from feminist people. But if you think mgtow as men not willing to date or be in relationships, complaining about women online isn't contradictory to that. If you think of mgtow as "an anti-feminist, misogynistic, mostly online community advocating for men to separate…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:22 AM
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That expression simply doesn't fit here. It's not related in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:14 AM
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You think there's a logical contradiction in what I say, the expression "have your cake and eat it too" is when people are greedy and want more than they can have. It's not related in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:05 AM
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First of all, the vast majority of real mgtow people have never heard of the mgtow community or don't participate in it. And that the ones you're talking of are a minority. Then, no it's not contradictory. Nothing about them suggests that they aren't attracted to and aren't wanting to live with women, some of them can need refreshers or motivators. And then, maybe some of them have fun with men similar to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:04 AM
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Yes, It's unlikely anyone would do the leg work to edit this seriously, while also likely that people can be annoyed at the new lara croft. Both can be true at the same time it's not difficult to envision. Don't use expressions such as "have your cake and eat it too" when you don't know what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:52 AM
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That just shows you don't understand the point of mgtow. Similarly if you said "why are wgtow having so much pet I thought they didn't need company" that'd be misunderstanding. These people literally said that they needed someone but the burden and constraints were too high to be worth it, it doesn't mean they're not going to fulfill their needs or try to cope about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:47 AM
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Daily reminder that your sources and facts are shit. If you come debating here expecting hard science you're at the wrong place. In facts, debates can't happen with hard science. Learn to properly debate instead of trying to insist your article is a scientific fact while other people's aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:41 AM
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it's literally a circlejerk sub....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:39 AM
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Outside the hotness there's apparent persona that matters, the right pic should be more OG lara's personality. But I agree with the other dude, this is exaggerated for the memes and you buy right into the rage bait because you're... check notes... unhappy people want their fictions to be like they used to like them. "oh I am a fucking loser arne't I" is a lazy attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:34 AM
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Bruh you're late, we got billionaires now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:30 AM
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"Cope" is blue pill, saying "Cope" as a pejorative term is what black pillers do and mods will do nasty things to you if you do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:54 PM
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That would gross me out. I'm just amused at the idea we would claim to be of one side and be both on the opposite sides of our claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:42 PM
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An average age gap of 1 year is sufficient to create a shortage of women all along the line IF the population is stagnating or shrinking, which is the case for most western countries. This is why there's such a disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:53 PM
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but I don't think it necesarily means you should never approach a woman. It doesn't necessarily mean that but in situ this is what they told me, don't approach women, don't bring up sex, don't make your interest obvious, be friend first, play the social game of having a wide social circle to meet people, and wait for them to make a move. These talking point also came back with 3rd wave feminism even worse. And are partly why TRP came up. The building blocks of all feminism is fight for political…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:04 PM
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That doesn't look like it's answering my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:05 PM
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Cope is for when you legit can't do jack shit about it. you're not supposed to cope about being alone, it's supposed to drive you into finding a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:01 PM
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This is not what toxic masculinity is at all. Good thing I said "gender roles" too. The women who raised me, the teachers, the media, 25 years ago, all were very vocal that men had to stop being on women's back. I was literally told to let women approach. The idea is simple: stop harassing women, stop being obsessed with sex, clean the home, take care of kids, don't repeat the machismo attitudes of your father, stop being so much into science and stop pushing women away from it. 2nd wave feminis…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:53 PM
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Similarly, I don't see why you're trying to synonymize "not being a feminist" with "not treating women like human beings". Feminism wants gender roles and "toxic" masculinity to stop, that means not approaching women, not escalating relationships yourself, "waiting them to come to you", which is a passive stance. You can also put in there that feminism wants me to step back from careers and not seek out to make a lot of money. Feminism also thinks women are having it worse in society and tries t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:03 PM
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Men have to be intentionally approaching, flirty, and escalate for relationships to happen. There isn't a grain of truth there, this kind of attitude makes men friendzoned at best and isolated at worse. It's women who need to be patient and wait for men to appear in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:54 AM
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That's a female mindset, that's blue piller advices. Men are supposed to be frustrated and to move their asses because things just don't happen to them out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:52 AM
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Beware because "thought terminating cliché" is just another way to say "cope" which is kinda banned on PPD for being incel speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:51 AM
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In which universe are men having the same standards as women? The shit you see on here is men being provocative to women. Things work differently IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:50 AM
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I usually would agree, but using emojis on reddit + using racised emojis is automatically making you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:43 AM
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For "the boat on how modern dating" to depart there needs to be more than half the people on it. The only thing that has changed is what the loud minority claims should be the norm. And for some reason, they only claim men should change and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:36 AM
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I was brought up in a feminist spirit, my circles were always mainly women and it's only natural for me to believe they're full of shit. Everything they told me was in the best interest of imaginary random women at the detriment of my interests, they just simply hated men. I have difficulties understanding the perspective of neglecting yourself for the benefit of unknown strangers. People like this are by essence unauthentic unpredictable and untrustworthy. And that really makes women uninterest…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:20 AM
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It's a lot to call it tension tho, one is hesitating and the other is waiting, it isn't obvious at first but at the end it is. If the interest didn't seem mutual it'd have been more difficult to catch up that the guy is hesitating, however it would have been obvious that he was somewhat more interested in her than she was in him, because of how he prompts her, looks at her, and she barely answers nor look at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:50 PM
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Oh sure that's a possibility. But with more context it's probably not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:29 PM
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The "oh god I hope you're not asking me out" is also a response to the guy's tension. She looks at him in the eyes at some point, someone who want not to be asked out wouldn't do that, they'd look like they are trying to run away. So I doubt that's what's conveyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:13 PM
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Character witnesses? What for? He was 15 during the supposed problem, he could have been doing a mistake, a character witness doesn't mean anything. Cross examination cannot really pick lies apart when one invented an entire story and the other denies it entirely. It's been too long for ppl to be able to tell that X person wasn't even there at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:28 AM
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Do they seem like they're on the verge of tearing down each other's clothes? Or are they just waiting for the other to make a move and admit their interest? It's obviously the #2 therefore it's a romantic tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:13 AM
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I mean, I'm technically obese (or right bellow the limit), but that's still not equally as fat as the average american so I'm fine with making fun of them :] Especially when they're like 15 year younger than me and are chidless, no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:09 AM
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That's projection. First of all, a 30 year old woman has no common interest with a 20 year old man in term of relationship expectations. But a 30 year old man and a 20 year old man are more likely to want the same thing. It's not a story of maturity here. Then, regarding people's interests and gender roles, it makes more sense for a 30 year old man to be with a 20 than the opposite. Women get a visceral response at the idea of paying for a man, teaching a novice man sex, and having to deal with …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:07 AM
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What if she turns around and continues to claim that something happened, but that she backed up because he was cut from the family? Wouldn't he put himself in a lawsuit where it's her words against his?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:04 AM
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I would not call it flirting but it's obvious there's a tension between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:47 AM
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Just wait until you age past their age group and you'll notice that you reach another level of invisibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:45 AM
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Strawman + blatant lies. Incredible you could pile up so much bullshit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:18 PM
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Oh boy camelot unchained is a fuckfest of bullshit. The entire mistake is they trying to develop their own engine without the competencies for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:01 PM
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Been waiting for camelot unchained here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:55 PM
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Yeah nicely formulated, seems insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:53 PM
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Add "waiting for IOIs" to the list
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:50 PM
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Why do they even call OP an asshole what did he do lol he's in his right mind to be disappointed that their common friend is a manipulative asshole, regardless of if he wanted to hear the story or not. But I'm not sure why anybody would think the wife is an asshole as well. People would definitively have gotten up and arms if that was a story about a dude cheating on 2 women in college. And people would expect the boyfriend never to talk to his friend again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/14wmht6/my_boyfriend_was_dating_2_other_girls_while_with I see the newer generation of women still don't have working "asshole radars".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:23 PM
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The worst are men. The best are also men. But on average, women are worse than men. Men are used to being rejected left and right, women develop PTSD over one rejection. Compare what's comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:51 AM
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You mean how many just say those things because they're losers who can't want anything anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:49 AM
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I literally talked to very rich people and know about their personal life, and you're comparing that with your hypothesis on melania trump? Great job debating. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:34 AM
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I think I know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:09 AM
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Lol she thinks having maids means the wife doesn't do chores. Maids is an ultra rich thing to begin with, and even with maids the wife has work to do. The help that UMC people hire are just here to unload some part of the work, but usually counter balanced by them owning big homes. Source: Know ultra rich people, they also stopped drastically having maids after covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:06 AM
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Lol she thinks rich men don't make their wives clean and cook while they have mistresses on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:45 AM
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/r/nattyorjuice , even tho they're delusional AF. Prob more subreddits but not heard of them. In fact ,there are more subreddits dedicated to trash men than women, and are far more popular. The entirety of reddit seems to dislike men more than women. I'm puzzled anyone would pretend the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:48 PM
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I'm a dude I don't have breast surgery or lips injection yet I know what a normal woman looks vs the bullshit I see on internet. When we say we want a dab bod, the immediate image that pops in our head is a Jason Momoa chest in perfect lighting. While at the same time they never meet a single man IRL that looks anywhere close to that even when in great shape, but somehow, somehow we have to forgive women for being absolute morons about their expectations while at the same time constantly beratin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:13 PM
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I'll give women that appreciating 3D features on a 2D picture is difficult, and that's why most cartoons exaggerate women's curves, or that most women think athletes have "normal bodies". But also they're just having their brain fried by social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:09 PM
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Spokespersons do more harm than anything else. Why do you think they're needed? Also why the obsession with this person being american or not? Why would it matter? The truth remains the truth regardless of who speaks it. Also americancentrism is cringe and annoying, if you don't like that you don't feel represented maybe you have issues to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:56 AM
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No it's not the same thing. Friends don't "work" together. A community aren't people you're forced to be friend with. OP’s point here is if you’re struggling with loneliness and depression, you’re not going to find a relationship let alone a family. You can perfectly find a relationship and build a family while being lonely. Loneliness is literally the drive for it. No one wants to be with someone they have to fix. Who said they had to fix? Sometimes finding the relationship with the right perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:08 PM
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Yes there's "self induced loneliness" that works like depression and won't be fixed by external stimuli. But environmental loneliness can be all about yourself being just ready for relationships, or kids. I don't understand this modern emphasize for friends, friends are literally the least meaningful bonds you can have in your life, and if you do not work that way, believe me that most people do work that way. A lot of people are accumulating friends, or pets, ignoring that what they really want…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:32 PM
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My comment said one person is maybe all you need, not about fixing loneliness. You suggest one person can't fix loneliness, I answer a group of friends can't either. You understand loneliness may not be environmental. Also some people might be needing to have kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:59 PM
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Just having friends also doesn't fix all of your problems. Maybe he feels lonely because his relationship is dysfunctional. Why do you think that guy is an example? Have you ever thought that people feel lonely because they can't maintain healthy relationships in a way that doesn't make them burn out? Have you tried understanding people at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:32 PM
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Yeah right every single extro I know think they're introverts, they're not at least as much introverted as the average person on PPD. Reminds me of sunhappy who was like "I'm such an intro! I went to convention to cosplay, that's an intro thing" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:56 PM
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It's nice you're an extrovert! Have you thought other people do not work like you? If you can't be friends without physically seeing a person that sounds like you've got problems with object permanence Doesn't sound like you even read my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:47 PM
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When is she going to have time to live her own life? People who don't want/have friends but want a gf/bf usually need a lot of personal lone time anyway. And yes, one person can fix your loneliness. Sometimes just knowing that someone exists while you're alone is all there needs to be. You've profiled loners very wrongly and you do a lot of naive projections. You're also naive about what the adult life looks like. People who have friends and kids see each other once every 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:28 PM
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Maybe you're just unobservant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:19 PM
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Sounds like a you problem, the truth doesn't care about you. 6/10 is very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:19 PM
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/r/truerateme is close to how I view things, I'm definitively not the only one. even if people don't agree on case per case, they should generally agree with the densities
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:16 PM
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but fail to recognize it has always been this way You fail to recognize it has not always been this way. Debunking feminists will not get you more pussy. In fact, when a woman is talking about feminism or any other ideology on a date, the best thing you could do is to take a neutral stance, even if you disagree and try to understand her. Are we on a date? No. We're on a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:50 PM
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On your scale, 80% of people are 1-5 and 20% are 6-10%. No. 80% of people are 1-6. My bell curve is symmetric. This isn't a "whole problem" with the 1-10 scale. The crushing majority of people are average, it's like this in any human metric. Height, IQ, anything.... Attractiveness works the same. This isn't subjective unless you both come from different countries with different obesity rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:07 PM
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but what will their acknowledgement give you? If you don't debunk feminism and women's pathological victimhood, society will be reshaped to accommodate to that and to screw you over. We live in a society where women can earn their money and get a lot of money from the government and from other men, but still successfully push ideas like "period products should be free" or that women should have advantage during hiring processes or acceptation in colleges (which is already the case). And all thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:42 AM
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Women can find men appealing for their sex appeal or for their good husband/parent qualities. You should build relationships with someone who has both, and stop pretending that having only the later is ok and will yield the sex life men want, because it doesn't and it's just disingenuous. It's a bit like if men told women that they should have sex on the first date, it's mostly an "advice" that benefits men and doesn't ensure that women get anything they want. It's a selfish false advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:07 AM
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Age 40: “Why aren’t men polite to women anymore?” Age 41: "Oh they're still polite to young women, why are men pedo???"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:46 AM
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Yep. If the whole 1-10 scale is linear, then only 40% of people are 7 or higher. It's not, 60% of people are between 4 and 6/10, only 20% of people are beyond 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:45 AM
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5 is meh. 5.5 is pretty cute. 6 is beautiful. 7 is like one in 20, it's far beyond "just cute".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:44 AM
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average is 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:43 AM
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Are you here to fight or? YES LOL this is a debate sub, debate me :')
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:41 AM
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Good for you, I don’t. "I don't see the point of paying you well " - boss to their employee You make a CMV post in which you show clearly you are projecting your female psyche onto men. I'm explaining you how men work, and that is all you got to say? You're just bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:33 AM
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And someone feeding you and sheltering you isn't a slave? You think he's your dad or something? Lol as the definition of homeless is skewed towards types more prevalent in men. The definition of homeless is pretty clear. You're the one nitpicking what poverty is so that only women are considered poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:46 PM
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It's not unpaid work if he pays the bills. If you pay the bills 50/50 and do all the chores, likely you pushed yourself into unpaid work. As we all know women impose their high standards of living onto men and then are pikachu face that men do not follow. Women are not more likely to live in poverty, men are majority of the homeless people and poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:13 PM
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That is out of topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:11 PM
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You're deflecting answering my points.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:11 PM
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No, you disingenuously declare anything that's masculine to be important to women. The privilege is having the choice between being paid to do the laundry or being paid to work, while men can only work. Some women go through their life never having to do any and never lacking any money, some women both work and siphon their working husband's money. But you're the biggest victims here right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:06 PM
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What do I gain from being wanted because I'm a good husband and parent? I'll gain more work, not more rewards. If I am wanted for my sex appeal, I'll get more sex, which is the reward. As long as women will not reward stable men with sex, respect and passionate love, men are not going to feel good for being the stable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:15 PM
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There's empirical evidence that women are systematically disadvantaged in a range of MASCULINE areas by their own performance and choices. While there are empirical evidences society keeps helping them more than men to try and compensate for it. Despite the other empirical evidences that women obliterate men in feminine areas of life with no hint of trying to give equal opportunities to men. I understand you may not feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:05 PM
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It hasn't been about the amount of sex you have for a long time. Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:44 PM
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Yes that's the problem, they don't think, they're just "anything my group experience is harder than other groups".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:43 PM
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Feminism and women all tend to share this tendency to take a "feeling" and think it is a truth. 2X is as a result feminist because it caters to women's feeling of victimhood. Normal women are successful in dating. But most of them will still side with that the dating market is disfavoring women simply because their emotions are negative about it. Regardless of numbers, statistics, and everything, pointing out that men are getting the shorter end of the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:58 PM
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No. You are successful or you're not, regardless of how good you are at coping with your lack of things in your life. Someone who never dated because they focused on their studies and career are as much of an incel as the one who complains they're alone. If dating was easy to the first one they'd be able to date while pushing the rest forward. A lot of people are going to posture as "not interested/never tried" just so they never appear as losers, but they're losers just the same, they're postur…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:48 PM
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The excitement comes from you pursuing them not from you pursuing other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:25 PM
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It might work but I disagree. Men need to accept that they are interested, accept to communicate it, accept that it is going to be visible. It needs not to be a vulnerability to admit interest, but to be normal, and be assertive about it. Your specific interest for a woman might give off a scarcity vibe but it's also quite necessary to seduce most women, they're not going for someone to who they're "just a random approach", they need to feel like they've been chosen out of many. You give away ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:12 PM
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That sounds irrelevant to the comparison. Obviously there's a degree of gravity for both incels and femcels. Some men had success early on and have a hard time later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:33 PM
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I know a few women who never desired a relationship. My aunt is a prime example. You know a few femcels. Femcel aunt isn't an uncommon trope. Here is the kicker. For most women who do not want relationships with men, have been sexually assaulted by a man/men in the past. So they're mentally ill or damaged in a way or another, and that's supposed to convince me they're not femcels? You're aware most incels are also deranged, right? People still call them incels. Femcels are just dysfunctional one…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:30 PM
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Try to make it work, has a widow been uncapable to get commitment? Or has she literally gotten successful commitment before? Does a husband dying a sign that she's uncapable to pair bond, has shit looks nad personality, or is too high standard, ect...? women who never desired a relationship. Being unwilling is a common theme among incels and femcels. 99% of incels are literally incels because they don't move a finger you know that, so you can guess it works the same way for femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:59 PM
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What are you talking of, prostitution? How is that relevant to anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:56 PM
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It's fine, I'm just putting this reminder because people tend to evaluate femcels as women who can't get sex, which makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:00 AM
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Femcel = Any woman who isn't married or in a serious LTR at 25. If incels can't get sex, femcels can't get commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:25 AM
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I reproduced and I fit none of your standards. Only those who reproduce are meant to reproduce, that's how natural selection works, it doesn't care how.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:06 PM
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Debate lost with that comment my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:09 AM
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If you're a man, then you should NOT be listening to random people about what you can or cannot do. I was not top 20% financially, not in shape, not "emotionally mature" (we all know that's just bullshit tho), and didn't have cool hobbies. I dated and everything was fine. The only advice men need to learn regarding women is "go talk to women", there's nothing else that matters immediately, everything else is just a nice bonus. And 99% of incel's issue is they don't talk to women, or they're seve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:08 AM
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Women literally do not earn and contribute as much to the household than their men. And are complaining days and night that men aren't going to respect the standard of living their impose them. If there's anything I've noticed, it's that it's women who think "his money is our money" but not "his chores are our chores"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:05 AM
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Reddit isn't representative of reality. Normal people still go with strong notions of femininity and masculinity, only most people have been influenced by feminism and have very low expectations of femininity while maintaining strong standards for masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:02 PM
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Won't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:19 PM
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and a few pets. What's that to tidy up after? Pets really do force a lot of vacuuming and moping tho. My wife wanted 2 cats and 2 dogs, I didn't want any, we compromised and we have 2 cats and 2 dogs but I never vacuum nor mop. Eventually it was a good deal for me :') Floor turns into nasty garbage every 2 days. Well, or a prodigious misser of toilets when it comes to puke, piddle, and poo. You miss the toilet, your responsibility. But the rest I'll gladly handle. I used to clean after myself, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:49 PM
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contributing according to what percentage of the household income you make is sensible to me. It is, if kids are in the equation. Otherwise, no thanks. No reason to pay more for someone who doesn't want to invest themselves more. And people, especially on reddit for instance, are pretty adamant that marriage = shared money, but as soon as you say whoever pays more does less chores, suddenly the logic turns into "whoever has more free time makes more chores". Again, the general sentiment is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:34 PM
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I quote andrew tate and elon musk while picking my nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:11 PM
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Sadly I meet a lot of hypocritical women who think me earning more money is pure luck and randomness, think my money is their money, and then don't think my chores are their chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:48 PM
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This isn't about your opinion on what constitutes "dressing like a man", there was a time when pants and t-shirts were not considered appropriate for women, and a time when it became appropriate. Name it however you want, but this is what I am discussing here. Discuss the points I make, I don't want to hear your pedantic nitpickism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:37 PM
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All the statistics show that there are still more outearning men in marriages and that women still seek out financial stability from men even when they are financially dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:35 PM
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Now men see us as toys and the children they make with us as mere side effects of a good nut. Statistics say men are involved parents more than ever. It was reasonable to ask for basic rights, such as financial independence Yes, it's also reasonable now to tell women to date men who earn less. Yet, they still expect men to do more. But people still want to blame it on men, when women and their standards are the issue. Stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:30 PM
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How do you call this kind of gaslight or fallacious manoeuver to shame someone? There's no way in hell you think I'm supposed to argue back to someone who can't align 2 consistent sentences. If you really agreed with me you'd not care I explain my point any further when it's been exposed plain and clear already, stop lying. So I will also just not engage any further with you, have actual arguments or walk away, fallacies don't work with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:48 PM
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The point isn’t to take away choice from women again and demand that they can’t have personal standards. That's literally what was asked of men, to not have personal standards. And women promised that they already had no personal standards regarding gender norms. Which is why stay at home dads experience less shame and senses of “failure” than before A minority nonetheless. Majority of women are accepted in traditionally male gender roles. Things haven't changed for men in any significant fashio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:29 PM
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In general, the women who tell men to just talk to random girls are also those not being against men who have approached them politely and haven't insisted. While those who live approaches very negatively also tell men to stop doing it. I've not found many contradictory or hypocritical women out there on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:19 PM
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Sucks to be low a low T man I give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:18 PM
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I may have adhd and I made it out of solitude at 19 despite an extreme blue pilled and feminist inhibited education. it's not an argument but so is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:55 PM
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That's male natural selection, healthy men are supposed to thrive despite 100 rejections. The male psyche isn't supposed to see a difference between doing nothing and being rejected 100 times, the male psyche is supposed to embrace that risk for the reward is big once it lands. And if that healthy man with male psyche is gifted with a decent brain, he'll also learn plenty and improve. The sad part is society should embrace health masculinity and help men be that way, not teach them to inhibit th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:32 PM
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No, they're just giving advices that benefits you because they aren't concerned. While other women tell you to leave them alone when they're concerned, because that benefits them. Some people have a hard time admitting that what benefits men do not benefit women, but it's often that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:30 PM
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why do you care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:37 PM
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I personally already refuse to conform to gender norms. And yet the market seems to be getting worse for men every year. That is explained very simply by the fact that men are over represented in the dating market place, due to a stagnating or shrinking demography. Again, women could simply do what they demanded men to do during 2nd wave feminism, and actually drop gender norms for men? Women are literally like cats in australia. Cats are fed by the humans they own, and can also feed on preys in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:13 PM
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There are plenty of us who don't expect that. But somehow all of those who don't expect it happen to have a partner who earns more! Statistics backing that point anyway. Be the change you want to see. Another "blame men" argument. Men are literally having the shorter end of the stick in the dating market, they're not the ones who can drive changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:03 PM
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How am I blaming men?? I simply said, blame men Ok...... well you know what, forget it, discussing and arguing isn't your strong side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:54 PM
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and men can opt to be stay-at-home husbands/fathers if they want. Women do not want that, expectations didn't change, men are expected to make MORE money than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:52 PM
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Strawman of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:44 AM
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Boss to employee: "The problem is a large % of employee have low skill and low motivation and minimum wage is the only move they have, so I'm not raising salaries guys this is just your fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:41 AM
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Sexual revolution and 2nd wave feminism: Women asked that we drop gender roles, that we stop holding women by high standards of sexual behavior, that men and women could do what they want. Result: Men did effort, approached women less, hold women for lesser standards. Women can now do what they want, dress like men, have men's life. Women didn't change one yotta in their expectations of men and their behavior. But we still got people like you blaming it all on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:40 AM
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Men probably don't care to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:37 AM
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Yes, hugging girls who don't have bras especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:36 AM
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High quality men care about a certain aesthetic but not about looks directly. They want educated thin women who know how to behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:17 PM
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Younger women are easier. An age gap makes it easier for these women to respect you. Ageing makes women build more standards while losing value. Now I agree that "those men are predators" is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:03 PM
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Is that a personal attack based on thin air?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:10 AM
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Pump and dump is actually not a recurring nor common phenomenon. Most men do escalate commitment despite it is women's job, which is disingenuous to men. The dating market is also greatly in favor of women because there's permanently a surplus of men until people are 50 year old. If a woman faces a lot of issues with pump and dump, the problem is her and entirely her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:37 PM
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If you're surprised rich famous dudes cheat you're really too young for this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:36 PM
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Yes you can, happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:07 PM
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Women are perfectly capable to ruin sex for themselves without even having sex once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:27 PM
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WIth such a post title I thought you'd be talking to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:35 PM
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Good thing rules stop at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:12 PM
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No you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:11 PM
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I downvoted 10 of your comments to compensate. Clearly you're too emotional to be ready for your popularity yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:13 PM
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What ways? It was never noble, it was always hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:10 PM
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Using words does not make you a loser, your status does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:08 PM
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I saw you write in french! Viet girls are cute and have wide hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:47 AM
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what are you then, why do you talk french on here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:44 AM
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You're viet?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:43 AM
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I bet you make your baguette sandwitches upside down like a degen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:42 AM
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I tried last week but you didn't answer, you're not even a true french.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:41 AM
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And most unbalance would be understood if people accepted men seek sex and women seek commitment, and that sex is considered evil while men are pushed to give their commitment easily and early.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:38 AM
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Yes, that's totally how things happen /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:46 PM
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Or they're very attractive or low drive and never experienced any hardship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:13 PM
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No, it's friday afternoon, nobody works on friday afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:28 AM
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"working for free to your boss isn't a bad thing, it's just a thing" Nice try, boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:21 AM
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It's not that assholes attract women, it's that strong desires and assertiveness are considered wrong, so whenever someone has those trait there are also other traits like egocentrism, narcissism and domineering behaviors that makes them assholes. Same can be seen with women who think they keep men because they're toxic pieces of shits. They think being jealous bratty possessive assholes is what works when in reality it's simply the expression of interest and efforts to keep the relationship ali…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:20 AM
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Whatever. I'm not interested reading about indian people's perspective on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:56 PM
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when a woman is truly attracted to you. Yeah that's the problem here m8, doesn't happen for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:56 PM
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IDK for oneself, but how I reignite the spark of my wife for me is by dreading her hard. Maybe that person you lost attraction from needs to try a little harder to get your attention and seduce you. So dreading might work just as much, worst case scenario you move on and don't waste your time, best case scenario they move their asses to seduce you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:42 PM
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Nah that's all upside down. Women do not want to sleep with a myriad of dudes, they want commitment. That makes men's commitment more valuable than their dick. That's why men need to be giving away their commitment more scarcely, and they need to make women work for it. Your reasoning sound like it would make sense to an indian conservative man with low libido and who is working class. But anywhere else, doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:22 PM
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I've been raised BP and I converged to RP because reality worked differently that the bullshit I was told. If plenty of people converge to RP despite not knowing about it and being isolated in a sea of blue pill messages, you should ask yourself questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:02 PM
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The fundamental problem with FDS is that it tells women to not show any interest. TRP at least is about showing interest. It wouldn't be successful, as not showing interest is the hallmark of failure for both genders. The FDS woman wouldn't go on a cheap date and the TRP dude wouldn't go on an expansive first date anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:17 PM
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What about rather accepting that men feel more anger than anything else and you gotta accept that and teach men to redirect that anger correctly, as a part of "work on as a society"? Instead of telling men they should be more like women? Which is what society does since 3 decades and hasn't worked...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:11 PM
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This narrative is bullshit because men are expected to give commitment and freebies left and right often paying twice or triple times for the same good. This obsession with owing and being entitled just shows women's perception is warped around this logic. Women are understanding the antagonistic nature of relationships and playing the game aggressively, but it's in their interest to convince men it isn't antagonistic or transactional so they keep pretending it's such an horrible perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:04 PM
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If most men aren't concerned since they're not "good men" then your post and opinion aren't worth anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:11 PM
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Answer the rest of my comment then: I need precision: Should you let your man be responsible of everything tho? Like does he decide what you get to buy or not buy with your money? Does he own everything, the house, the car...? Should you always abide to his decisions? Should you do duty sex? It's important for me to know if you're a hypocrite or if you adhere to the full package.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:04 PM
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You're a woman, you believe that everything is to be blamed on men. What. a. surprise. I need precision: Should you let your man be responsible of everything tho? Like does he decide what you get to buy or not buy with your money? Does he own everything, the house, the car...? Should you always abide to his decisions? Should you do duty sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:55 PM
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Height matters in compensating for other ugly bits. When a short girl has a strong manly jaw it goes under the radar, if she's tall it's more noticeable. Height alone however doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:36 PM
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And what is your behavior? Would I see shallowness disguised as grand mystical emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:23 PM
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It's not so much about masculinity itself but rather the morals you're fed. I was raised by a single mother and I got told extreme blue pilled stuff like "don't approach women, let them come". Some other kids might have had lack of masculine social activities while growing up because of a mother as well and aren't properly socialized with men. Most of the time what it creates is a delay in development. It's going to look like gender roles to you. And indeed I was raised with completely erased eg…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:58 PM
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I'm serious. When you observe women you just realize they'll just stick mystical or indirect words to their shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:52 PM
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Yes, single russian mothers and their sons feel masculine enough for us, the feminized western society. For russians they're probably really unmasculine. Though this isn't such a big problem for russia because the SMP is favorable for men due to shortage of men. Not the case for western countries though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:47 PM
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I'd like to see some kind of proof of the opposite. It's not like almost the entirety of red pillers reported that the major issue in their life was the lack of opposite narrative and perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:41 PM
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And I suppose your "physical attraction" and "emotional closeness" are deeply tied to how much money he makes, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:40 PM
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Caring mothers are notorious for raising unmasculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:38 PM
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The problem in your reasoning is that you put lilith in the "PPD women" group.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:37 PM
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It has never been easier to climb the socioeconomic ladder. Literally class mobility is at an all time low
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:44 PM
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So spending years with your method is worthwhile and spending years on any other method isn't? You're going to need to learn to flirt anyway no???? So why spending 5 fucking years learning to play the social game and build your circles and then you'll need another 5 years to learn to flirt women correctly? You learn how to flirt and escalate as quickly as you got opportunities to flirt. If put all your efforts into building something that makes flirting opportunities scarce it's going to be expo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:04 PM
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Sounds like you're good with OLD and come across as pretty charming irl. I'm 5'5, chubby and I dress wrong and don't take pics. No I'm not good with OLD. And "charming" is just going for them and it took me years to learn, years I didn't spend playing social games, trying to lose weight or whatnot. I'm extremely introverted video game type of nerd, but I have high libido, that's all there's to it, I just want to fuck girls, it motivates me to talk and flirt, nothing more. And even that I had to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:58 PM
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How did you meet these lesbians? OLD, webchats, street, and some social circling with lesbian friends I made along the way. The thing is it didn't feel like work to build the social circle to meet women, the social circle built itself by flirting women directly. It's secondary, not primary. Approaching women in a bar/club is going to be far more effective than approaching in whatever other public place. Bars yes if you know the right ones. Which is also work. The fact that there is so many compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:40 PM
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It's just such a pathetically self defeating philosophy. The pathetic self defeating philosophy is your "put efforts anywhere except where it matters" philosophy. It's heavily blue pilled and has failed so many people. The idea that if you're an average or below guy, there's no benefit to social activities in regards to your chances of meeting and being seen as attractive to women is the most ludicrous view I see on this sub regularly. That's because you haven't experienced it. I know plenty of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:26 PM
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Yeah "it's not who I am" is legit when all you can tell others is "just become a drugged raver broh".... Stop recommending people to do things that YOU THINK would indirectly yield encounters with women. Social games yield good results for attractive men, for average and bellow average they're just going to be exposed to women who are high standards and have way too many options, and there won't be enough new women to push the numbers high. Again, men should just talk to girls, if any of your ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:01 PM
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We just say "no". Though my son is only 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:59 PM
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so agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:24 PM
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They can work their way up to it. Back to square one: working your way up to talking to girls instead of talking to girls. there's plenty of legal ones in actual venues. They're high entry barrier Not from my experience, lots and lots of average looking guys. You're biased. Dudes at raves are on avg taller and more beafy and masculine looking and behaved. the uglier one just don't go there since it's too punitive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:23 PM
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Do you think guys who have no outlets are going to find raves and to be resourceful at raves? I don't think so. I personally have no idea how to know where raves happen, and from my perspective it seems a lot like you need an already existing friend circle to know about them. I'm also a pretty innocent looking man I'm not sure I'd do well at a rave, from the little I've seen of raves, the average attractiveness of men here is fairly high. And then we could talk of style and general vibe, me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:43 PM
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Nobody needs to. If there's one goal you have: have a gf/fuck women, the last type of advice you should take is anything that isn't directly about talking to women. I can assure you people who aren't the type to go to rave won't magically pull girls at raves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:27 PM
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I'm good I could find girls without going at raves, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:18 PM
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some of you mf just need to develop hobbies you're not into K m8
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:08 PM
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it's not about seeking empathy it's about telling them they're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:08 PM
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All volcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:16 PM
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https://learnenglish.britishcouncil.org/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:05 PM
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https://www.khanacademy.org/ela/cc-2nd-reading-vocab
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:00 PM
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you're compromising their agency in that respect What agency? Can you explain that part? no one forced you to be or remain in that relationship. No one forces the other to remain in that relationship either. However, it's still funny that something "you'd never know if nobody told you" is considered having more impact than marital partners openly breaking their marital woves. Again, most countries do not punish failure to sexual duty in marriage. This is a pretty one-to-one virtue-ethical transl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:57 PM
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Sorry you really haven't understood and I don't think I explained myself badly. I'll not further answer because I might just become ableist if I continue to take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:52 PM
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patriarchal sentiments are still prevalent Nah. No way. Forget it. Such as? IDK it's so vast and huge. Take fat acceptance. Take trans identities. Anything from third wave feminism, to sociology, to anti racist ideologies, everything is about social equity AKA being immune to the consequences of their own actions. Yea if you wanna be ugly be ugly 😂 Ppl be complaining a lot that they have to suffer the consequences of being ugly after making themselves ugly tho :((( You're taking a bizarre all or…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:42 PM
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Reread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:53 AM
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Well that's an interesting thing don't you think, that cheating is only true if the other knows. That means it holds so little actual consequences that you could ask yourself if it's all that wrong. Meanwhile, people and especially women so easily fail to their marital sexual duty. And not a lot of country accept it as a fault. It's weird how marriage is shaped around the feminine imperative don't you think? Almost as if... it's biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:52 AM
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Yeah no, women are more often excused for cheating when they feel (and I insist, FEEL) "neglected". In very patriarchal places men are more often excused for simply being men, as long as they fulfil their marital duty though. You can choose to betray someone's trust, doesn't mean that you are immune from the consequences. Yet, everything nowadays is about people being immune from the consequences of their own actions. Even uglifying themselves. That's why cheating still being high up there is co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:49 AM
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" sorry , not beautiful " Well, she indeed is not beautiful, she looks fat. If she is really that lightweight while looking like this, it means severe lack of muscle mass or just bad genetics. Who cares tho? Quick google shows she's clearly not 160. But what do you want with all that? You're taking 2 influencer girls who are making a business out of staying slim, and who pick random people to interview and you see only what they decide to show you. Men are generally more capable than women to gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:42 AM
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What lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:33 AM
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In this world where men are finger pointed for controlling how their wife dress outside, because trying to be sexy publicly is considered a betrayal of trust, it's just weird that only women's idea of betrayal of trust are still maintained as high priority. People will even excuse female cheaters more often than male ones. It's so very convenient "my body my choice for me, responsibilities for you", just like abortion debates, really. It's weird and hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:29 AM
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I'm not saying people shouldn't care. But in this day and age where we prone maximum personal freedom in social codes, isn't it weird that people still have major hangups about cheating? There's a lot of hypocrisy and contradictions in modern ethos. It's like the debates around abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:20 AM
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Cheating is just like leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:15 AM
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Breakups also destroy some people you're not gonna force yourself to stay with them because they can't manage their emotions...?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:07 AM
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It's hilarious that what you do with other consenting adults is anybody's business. Think about it, isn't that the most baseless social rule there is? Now, infecting someone with a disease, or forcing them to raise someone else's kids, now that's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:04 AM
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The woman is not the machine, the embryo is. The woman fuels the machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:01 PM
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When someone gives you a machine to create a beautiful painting and you just press a button. Who is responsible for the artwork? The machine. You're just pushing the button of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:13 PM
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Oh you're pulling the good old hilary clinton aren't you? https://www.snopes.com/uploads/2015/12/hillary-clinton-quote.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:50 PM
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Have you seen anywhere that non white and non black women are struggling in the dating market of any white country? They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:49 PM
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Women cannot create life either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:47 PM
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Why tho? Stop buying bad sleep, buy good sleep instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:46 PM
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It is not the norm for women, at least not a norm that men pressured onto women. But it's already a reality for men, all the ripped men you see on the internet are on steroids, so taking drastic risky decisions to be physically attractive is already a norm for men. Except that it's not to please the female gaze, it's to make money over other men. Just like all the acrylic nails, foot binding and lip plates are just to impress other women and get their attention and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:44 PM
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And just like real feminism, you guys are going to think that female animals are suffering uniquely more because they're maintained alive in more or less bad conditions while the males are just killed at birth or not much later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:43 PM
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They can be. Though there's a non negligible portion of women who prefer the company of men both in life and at work, and who can't deal with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:38 AM
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A male social group with male social codes. It's frequent to hear complains from women who are in numerical inferiority at their company. They claim too much are demanded of them and that the ambiance is too aggressive and abrasive. Despite most of the time they're being treated more leniently than other men, they might feel they're treated worse than other men. Some women evolve to adjust to these social landscapes, just like men learn to adjust to women when they want to court them... But that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:10 AM
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Sorry my edit came late: "being taken seriously" I don't really believe it. Women are being taken seriously, it's just the incompetent or ugly ones, who act pretentiously, or because they're socially inept regarding the male social matrix. If chad is taken more seriously than avg men, stacy too, as long as they're not braindead archetypes. Chad privilege isn't sufficient though, rich chad privilege however are beyond anything any woman can do. But also, women can rarely get as low as men can. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:53 AM
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You sound like you're an incel larping as a woman. "being taken seriously" I don't really believe it. Women are being taken seriously, it's just the incompetent or ugly ones, who act pretentiously, or because they're socially inept regarding the male social matrix. If chad is taken more seriously than avg men, stacy too, as long as they're not braindead archetypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:47 AM
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Everything is a zero-sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:34 PM
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One thing to consider is that "Chads" were socially successful since they're born. And that plays a big role in how they develop to be healthy, charismatic, assertive and socially apt individuals. As well as improve their genetic potential so they grow even more attractive than those who were less fortunate. The other thing is the curve of benefit of your looks as a man may be flat for majority of men, but then when a certain threshold is hit, the attention from women gets crazy. Literally ask p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:07 PM
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But him implying that women who don't fuck on first dates or take long time to do it are only pure and relationship material is where I take offense. You read too much into people's justification of their preferences. But the argument here is that he can't generalize or bash women who had sex on first dates. And announce they are not worthy of relationships. When he goes and does the same thing. Yes he can. Men and women aren't the same, don't have the same roles, ect... Men are supposed to want…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:00 AM
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yes this is just shit flinging post thus why I said it's a shit post. Edit: OP blocked me. Can't answer, can't comment on any of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:52 AM
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You do not sound like you even read the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:10 AM
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Shit post but I'll bite. Where is the hypocrisy? He's not committing to the women he slept early with, so he kept his words. Double standards? Probably. I also bet that none of these women approached him and he had to do all the work up to sex, so why do you take offense in him having double standards exactly? Are you just discovering that men and women are different, and that even if your so called "women are treated equally here" nobody is actually being treated equal socially? I live in Berli…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:09 AM
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Hm................... Hmmmm..... I don't know how to take that. Considering she's from a country that's known for women's likeliness to kill their husband. :')
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:14 PM
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My relationship is still going.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:43 PM
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First of all, we already had 2 kids. And for death related reasons and other parental rights it was just sightly better to be married. Prior to marrying we were in a civil partnership that was beneficial for taxes but hadn't the same separation issues. Plus, by bearing my kids I think my wife earned that I make a compromise. Prior to kids I don't think your partner deserves half of your shit. Kids are to me a greater commitment than marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:37 PM
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Not yet. We've been together for a dozen years prior to marrying. Been married a couple years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:17 PM
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Why would I want marriage to be obligatory forever? I just don't bath myself in illusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:10 PM
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You can do all this without being married. Besides the laws on when he dies or when there are kids, everything about marriage seems to be imposing things on men's back, and screw men during divorce. Make an argument on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:58 AM
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I married with the entire conviction that it'll end up in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:57 AM
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There’s this pervasive myth that defies reality that woman are not going for average men, which isn’t true. Yeah that's true, women are not going for men at all. It's men who go at them. You should check out this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships And this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_the_United_States And finally this https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ Maybe you'd get an intuition as to why averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:41 AM
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You sound very uncivil and bad faith, but I'll still answer. TRP loves to talk of the decay of the western world caused by women's selfish mindsets. And says that the proper answer is to understand the antagonistic nature of everyone's incentives, and that cooperation happens only when there's a healthy force rapport between these selfish forces. You're free to believe women's selfishness isn't the reason our societies are decadent, however, saying TRP is hypocritical for advocating selfishness …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:18 AM
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It feels like work to a lot of people to take decisions for themselves and their partner. Why do you think the meme about girlfriends not choosing a restaurant yet refusing all proposals exist? There's a clear tendency in which women don't like to choose but expect men to choose right for the both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:10 AM
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Well that's the problem women have, to find someone who will work for them unwarrantedly and do the "right" things according to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:49 AM
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Rollo is a moron, I was not answering on his behalf but on the post's claim. Do not listen to anyone who tries to make money and image out of an ideology, they're most of the time not even being canon with it. But going to college seems to be commonly admitted as a good thing regardless of if you plan to work or to be a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:47 AM
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Most people couple up with a partner within their socioeconomic circle to someone they feel love and attraction for. How convenient. How convenient as well that men are more likely to marry down and women more likely to marry up. Totally a story of pure genuine love where nothing else influences them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:55 PM
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If you think that way then statistically not a lot of women marry for genuine attraction and """chemistry""". Seeing how women are rarely marrying men poorer and younger than them. Unless. Unless... "chemistry" is just how women fool themselves to believe there's attraction with whoever has the right status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:46 PM
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If you think women are gold diggers for being in love with their rich husband you're maybe misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:40 PM
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That’s so stupid. Don't be misogynistic. Why to make an extra step to get to the same place? Why do work when others can work for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:30 PM
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The implication of our discussion is that she is in need and he isn't but doesn't share much. Meaning that separation of goods during the divorce will be favorable to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:29 PM
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That's not false though. Ambitious and career driven women can manage if they know where to go socially to find equal men, but that means they should be competent enough to manage themselves more free time. Very often careers are just fallacious traps to overwork and squeeze people to death
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:28 PM
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If being with her husband is so bad, why not cutting the loss early? Mustn't be so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:25 PM
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guide men toward seeing the virtues of a girl boss if this generation of influencers (and people in general really) are more inclined to raise girl bosses? You'd want your son to have an educated wife, but a girlboss? As in a dominant career oriented woman? No, that's too little availability while being too demanding. Basically you want your kids to have as many options while being as much independent and resourceful as possible. For your daughter that might include having her educated, wanting …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:24 PM
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She can divorce and get half the shit, can't she?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:12 PM
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The essence of submission is giving over your will to someone else's better judgement. Or, in the case of women, giving over your will to someone else who will take the same decisions as you, but it's not you. The only way you get looked after in that scenario is if the dominant party feels like it. Well marriage laws are pretty nice about making it more or less mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:01 PM
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Who looks after her interests? Herself. And that daughter gets to grow up watching her mother be used and mistreated. No TRP man believes that they use and mistreat the women they commit to, because committing and providing is literally what they think women want. To them it's a give and take relationship. You're a bit mistaken here. TRP men want their daughters to be educated girlbosses to elevate the bar for the men who pursue them and for their daughters to have the tools to have all the opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:42 AM
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I'm not sure about the details of this post. However wanting the best for yourself is not incompatible with wanting the best for your kids.... You might want a submissive feminine wife because it's the best for you, and want your daughter to be an educated girlboss because it's the best for her. Now it depends of what girlboss is in this context. But if you believe in teaching your son TRP game, you should also believe in teaching girl game to your daughter, the hypocrisy would be to teach your …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:08 AM
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The “dude with the house car and acces to booze” is not going to be much in the market for 16 year olds, and everyone who is of that age (the dudes age) is not going to want to associate with him because he dates high school girls. Either you live on a different planet (christian planet central maybe?) or you've never been with 16 year olds. Besides, that part was meant to be "the 16 year old dude with the house the booze", you should be able to tell that this dude generally had an edge with gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:50 AM
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These women do not go around thinking in term of benefit, they just think 16 year old men are immature or unattractive. I'd say roughly at my HS it was like this: Half the girls were single, half were taken, half of the taken were dating same age, and half were dating adult men. it doesn't help that in my country, 16 year olds can't drive. Why would a 16 year old girl who has all the options she wants prefer the dudes who have no money, no car, no access to booze, no place with intimacy, and who…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:34 AM
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Especially since 16 isn’t adult and it can be for example a highschooler in 10th grade with someone doing their second year of uni It's super common depending on where you live. 16 year old women just aren't all that much attracted to 16 year old men, and there's not much benefit in dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:26 AM
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You seem to try too hard to be french for you to actually be french. Hypergamy isn't just the TRP's addon on the definition. Hypergamy is still generally true statistically, and TRP isn't advancing that women will disregard sunken cost fallacies just for the hope of slightly better. It's just that if men will lurk at the sexier younger women, women will lurk at the doctor who earns good money. Lots of men don't leave their ageing wife for a younger one, some do. Same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:22 AM
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Who are you even?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:20 AM
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Or an 18 year old dating a 21 year old People definitively seethe at 16 year old women dating 19/20 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:18 AM
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I'm not single. And I can't talk of overall SMV including money and status. But overall women seemed most interested in me between 28 and 32, which coincides with when I had a fully formed beard and looked most like a man. Though I suspect I've been attracting eyes less since due to weight gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:17 AM
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Well I can't relate, most women would rather want that I don't exist and don't try to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:26 AM
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Tell him to just grope gently instead? He might be doing this because he isn't sure he can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:57 AM
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She's a rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:50 AM
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Nothing will give you an idea of how to escalate. No amount of reading other people's stories will help. TRP tells you one thing: You need to exercise and eat right, it'll make you be at least healthy, and then likely hotter. You're supposed to do that to be at your high potential of testosterone and other hormonal levels. Which in turn should help you have a more masculine behavior. Then, you need to approach girls, and you need to feel the thrill of it, and you need to feel the pleasure and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:49 PM
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I guess you missed the chapter where TRP tells you about not caring too much about anything and that the most important effort was to approach women. But with millions of morons on TRP who talk about how to optimize every bit of muscle and of bullshits that are optional you forgot about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:26 PM
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Does it matter? Being able to make friends doesn't translate well into being able to flirt women, all you gain by having good social skills is being able to get friendzoned. There's no bypassing literally training by flirting with women, it's the only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:07 PM
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I doubt it, they're just being picky on what to qualify as a hobby, or you're the one being picky on what to qualify as a hobby. Anyway, you don't need hobbies to get women, you need to flirt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:58 PM
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Flirting is a word used in more languages than english and it means the same thing everywhere. And I know how english people are using it, and while it may have meant only this at first, it doesn't mean just that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:56 PM
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let me guess, you didn't count any of their hobbies and passions as ones because it's not sexy to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:53 PM
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Because when something bad happens they put on a show to pretend they are empathetic. Or maybe they actually are empathetic and they do feel bad when something bad happens. That means someone else has to fix both the bad situation and her feeling bad because of it. You can see this during an accident or a public freakout, women will start screaming, so it alerts men, so men can fix the situation and then calm them down. Most of the time all it does is just distract the people trying to fix thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:51 PM
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You make flirting way too specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:47 PM
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A bicycle is not a bad car, it may still get you to where you need to go, but it's fundamentally different. They're both vehicles... "flirting" encompasses all the behavior meant to attract/get the attention of someone, it's not one behavior, it's a superset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:38 PM
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So "confessing is more flirting than flirting" ...?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:36 PM
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Well one is socially skilled and the other inept. I'm not sure why being bad at flirting makes flirting not flirting in the eyes of some people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:37 PM
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Lilith venting about people not buying into her strawmen fallacies where she invents what others are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:30 PM
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Why? The intent is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:30 PM
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Yes, flirting is one of the socially adjusted way to confess interest, while confessing interest is the socially inept way to flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:29 PM
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You like to challenge yourself I see!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:29 PM
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It's about intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:28 PM
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Flirting isn't necessarily two way. But is confessing more flirty or no flirty at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:11 PM
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Is flirting also sexual harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:58 PM
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Hahaha very good way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:52 PM
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What is the intent of confessing? What is the intent of flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:46 PM
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Q4A: Is confessing your interest flirting, or not flirting? Lilith is not allowed to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:39 PM
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Doesn't seem to explain why, just shows it found the pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:45 AM
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Women marry men who live longer* you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:47 AM
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It's not, but also, it feels like a norm with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:46 AM
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men are more likely to be killed by strangers, and women by men they know. So best bet as a man is to know all the men, and as a woman to know no man. :o
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:45 AM
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We don't need to even search that far, firefighters are working dangerous job to protect everyone's asses yet men are often shamed for being more likely to be a firefighter...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:42 AM
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It's a "fair and unbiased" PPD grade take if you ask me :]
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:40 AM
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Here: but that attraction wears thin if their husbands constantly disappoint them. The secret is to find a woman who doesn't have unrealistic expectations for your behavior, and is grateful for whatever you contribute. There two pieces only are possible if there's a significant gap between your respective value. And even then it's not won for ever. If you pair with your match she'll likely be constantly disappointed in you one way or another, and she'll have unrealistic expectations of your beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:37 AM
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So in short: be an extremely high value man and pick an average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:01 PM
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I feel most of the secrets men keep out from others are just extreme version of who they appear to be. While women's secrets are diametrical opposites of who they appear to be. Except maybe homophobic men who are often hiding having gay tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:54 AM
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Men die at a greater rate of everything, it's a common knowledge. But feminists and misandrists love to just brush it away as "men take more dumb risks and neglect their health". Then I saw this yesterday: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bqbQRL6rW20 And I thought, how common must it be that women discretely poison their husbands to death, or cunt their husbands out of healthcare, or cunt their husbands to work to death more? I also saw statistics suggesting that male babies were more likely to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:51 AM
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I talk about patterns all the time, I even commented about a pattern Im seeing right now in this subreddit. What you talking about? Sorry, it's my fault. I tend to prefer people to be dumb or ignorant than to be just intellectually dishonest. I stand corrected that you are the later. Being an overly sensitive asexual is not insignificant. That is A RED FLAG. For the bazillionth time, that isn't what's AWALT about her. And TBH I thought you took pride in being like that, because you seem to think…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:29 AM
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I'm exposing her inconsistencies and you call me a liar because the inconsistencies she has appear in my texts? Impressive demonstration of low reading comprehension. Even when women aren’t around Chad, they generally don’t act like overly sensitive asexuals. Yes that is the entire point of my comment. She presents as overly sensitive asexual only to not be around chad. She presents as only being BB but eventually you find out she is AF/BB anyway. Impressive demonstration of low reading comprehe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:26 AM
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The thing is, I showed literally that she wasn't such an oversensitive asexual when chad is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:15 AM
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I love that you always say "thank you for proving my point" despite you're the one proving that you're uncapable to perceive patterns if there are insignificant differences....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:14 AM
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You're claiming she actually never talked to me of her sexual life and that I'm full of shit? It's your right. Just don't talk to me then. I'm just the one who was there when shit hit the fan, I helped her stitch her life back together, and I make people feel unjudged so they generally feel secure to talk to me of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:06 AM
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My comment is literally to say that even if a woman appears different in how she presents, her actions still reflect the same patterns AWALT talks of. Besides, plenty of women present as very neurotic, high disgust and prude, it's not a majority, but it's not a minority either, you just don't see them much out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:02 AM
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You are taking a person who would be hated by most people in general Most people would be hated by most if their secrets were spilled publicly. and trying to make it seem like she’s the typical woman. Yes she is a typical archetype. Not the most common, but not rare either. Her sexual incentives remain typical though. When you’re basically claiming that 4 billion people are exact same, the details do matter. Well 4 billion of people have heads, arms, legs, fingers, they all need to eat, sleep, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:01 AM
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How come you claim to know yet you don't get what AWALT means?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:57 AM
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Hilarious when people come to debate RP but don't know RP. Don't come to me with just "uh nawalt"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:56 AM
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All women aren't going to pretend to be a very neurotic prude woman. All women are going to AF/BB though. Maybe you should read TRP's sidebar before trying to argue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:49 AM
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She's AWALT in how her sexual incentives end up being the same as every other women regardless of how prude she claims to be. AWALT has always been on a high level plan, you keep thinking it's the details that are important. But the details are just what she tells you, the AWALT is what she does. And as we all say, watch what she does, not what she says. Though, plenty of women are like her and are very neurotic and high disgust and people don't take offense in their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:47 AM
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I don't think she's calculating anything. I don't think majority of women are calculating anything. And that's a thing men have to integrate, that women's default and unconscious behavior is a lot more machiaviavelian, materialistic, opportunistic and inconsistent than advertised. And that it's enabled because men's group support is low. Men don't share intels around all that much. Meanwhile, women are very serious about building networks to share intels on men to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:43 AM
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Which part of this would require mind reading? There are either things she told me or things I saw happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:31 AM
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I got a female friend that is an interesting case of AWALT. She cultivates an idea of frail and prude insecure girl. She is very convincing that way, her boyfriend needed months of flirting her before she "grew into him". Despite she found him ugly at first. She is disgusted by everything, finds all men ugly, and she is afraid of everything. She says things such as "I'd never cheat/flirt/send nudes", or "I'd never do that to him". She claims she never masturbated, doesn't know what an orgasm is,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:26 AM
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You guys read unformatted walls of text?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:55 AM
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What do you mean jesus, easter is for chocolates, eggs and rabbits now :D
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 09:08 AM
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Not wanting to be judged for your decisions follows that you won't judge other people for their decisions either. Nah. I don't know how to even counter argue this, it's just such an evidence for everyone who roamed the world for 2 seconds. Everyone is selfish and everyone even if they try not to will judge others harsher than they judge themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:05 PM
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Homosexuality is fine. But I find homosexuality and transgenderism can be acquired due to exposition. Except transgenderism seems more impactful and handicapping. So I'd not wish it onto my kids, and I'd do my best to raise them with the conviction that their body doesn't have to match whatever image of themselves they have in their mind, as I believe it is a very unhealthy tendency.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:11 AM
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a boss baby? Pretentious. did you find her attitude attractive? No. But often time, they're available and they allow things to happen, so they have men lining up for them, which validates them into thinking their toxic aspects are attractive. what's up because you were intimidated perhaps? 0% intimidated, 100% they're just pretentious people over marketing themselves. That idea that men who aren't into them are intimidated is just part of their marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:31 AM
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Yeah well I think coping strategies are harmful to men's development, they're supposed to be pissed off they don't get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:57 AM
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The context itself isn't doing a generalization on women so what are you talking about? Have you read the context you're talking of even?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:03 PM
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According to Lilith: Man saying a woman is an "unhinged hysteric" => close minded bigoted asshole Woman saying a man is an "unhinged narcissist" => considerate, deserves sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:55 PM
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"unhinged narcissist" is considerate name calling according to you? Reverse gender and put something else instead of narcissist and you'll get lynched by reddit. It's not like we don't have examples everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:15 PM
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Lilith explains to you that in order to not be labeled a misogynist you need to talk like you were a woman, and reproach other women only defects only other women accept to be defects. Having different incentives, boundaries, and preferences, from the female hegemony, is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:00 PM
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Women have a way of passing functions as romantic functions to the stranger eye, but in the end it's very similar as to what men do. The difference is just marketing. Women aren't being used, they're being confronted to men's antagonistic incentives. They feel used because they tend to reframe women's incentives as "good" "right" "respectful", which is a dogmatic fallacy. One isn't more valid than the other, and when someone is "used" it usually mean they were trying to use the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:14 PM
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There's such a thing as being dispersed and not seeing the main pattern because it's abstract behind the details. In the end it doesn't matter that some people eat apples and some eat pears, they both eat fruits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:09 PM
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It's not worth it to consider edge cases and minorities when discussing groups. Our brain are good at spotting patterns, if you refuse to consider patterns you're just dogmatizing being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:15 PM
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Like a picture where you pose together like you're friends, or a picture where you're accidentally in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:03 PM
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Some form of FGM also are about just removing the hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:50 PM
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With such a superficial mindset you can't understand the dynamics of entire groups. If you want to furthermore understand this topic I encourage you take courses on economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:49 PM
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Do you think the clitoris is just the tip that's visible?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:44 PM
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"colors don't exist" - blind person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:55 AM
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Can't handle the truth or a claim, so you mystify it so that it's easier to attack. Textbook strawman fallacy. Don't need a god when logic is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:33 AM
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Hypocrisy is terrible. Fallacies too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:19 AM
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https://i.redd.it/kfd4iu59vvs21.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:15 AM
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I meant "you" as actually you, lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:11 AM
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I have spoken.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:10 AM
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I want to manifest my disappointment today regarding this user's step backs. :( You can do better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:02 AM
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Imagine investing real energy hating complete strangers because they don't dare spend their lives molding themselves into what you want them to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:58 AM
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Yeah historically the mistreatment of men and boys has always been insane, with many historical genocides of men, but all you gotta hear about is how women had it harder in the past because they couldn't vote or own lands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:49 AM
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Many phenomenons here as to why you feel people are getting more dumb as you age: When you're young you tend to be surrounded by people who went to general schools, but by growing up you realize it's not as common as you thought Everybody kinds of get dumber as they age School was forcing everyone to muscle their brain, but a lot dropped any effort as soon as they left school, and their brain rotted. You're simply are getting older and don't remember where you've been
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:47 AM
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Ignoring your humble brag, I feel that a lot of people don't get that owning money doesn't mean wanting to pay more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:43 AM
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It's fair to derail the conversation when people are asking us to feel concerned for FGM in africa. All the while health orgs are pushing for more MGM in africa, all the while MGM is much more prevalent ANYWHERE. FGM is already outlawed in our countries, maybe it's time to feel concerned about MGM don't you think? So, derail that conversation, always. Once their personal problem are solved they're going to move on to their next personal problem, or onto some stranger's problem, the topic will ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:38 AM
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You earned the price for the biggest fallacy of the day. You should take an anatomy course btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:34 AM
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Circumcision kills too. And since it's much much much more prevalent in the entire world, it's likely causing more death and harms. Especially in developed countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:34 AM
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It's appropriate to compare with FGM regarding how much they violate bodily autonomy rights and how both are useless mutilations that should be illegal. FGM can be much more damaging. But it's not nearly as common. It's funny when you search for how many women die of FGM in the western world, sources are like "blabla over X of women in the world every year". There are 100 male babies that die every year in the USA of circumcision, the fact we have no number for FGM indicates that maybe it's so i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:30 AM
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Seeing how it's formulated it's not a truth. That discussion topic is not quite simple though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:43 PM
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Truths can hurt but that doesn't make a truth not true. If the tone is about discussing it, bullying people isn't the right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:54 PM
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Generalisation is never fine, This is dogmatism that idealizes stupidity. If I said most black people are criminals I’d (quite rightly) get called a racist pos, see how that works? Because that's untrue. We literally have statistics on this you know. If you refuse to admit a statistically true thing because it sounds racist, you are being wrong for the sake of moral. Black people in the USA are statistically more likely to commit crimes than other ethnicities. That has been shown, and you're not…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:59 PM
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Until women migrate to their own islands where they successfully provide for their own, AKA growing food, building things, providing water, ect... Which are all essentially managed and done by men even nowadays. They'll need men to survive, but men are a full package, and to get the 80% of men who will provide and build society to the point that women won't even realize men are useful, we'll have to deal with the 20% shitty men who destroy it or go rogue. But that number could be lower if societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:29 PM
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Generalization on men happen all the time and don't warrant such backslash though. Generalization is fine if it's true most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:23 PM
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The terms toxicity and misogyny are thrown around for a lot less stereotypical claims. Try suggesting women are picky on reddit, despite it's common knowledge, and you'd get called a misogynistic incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:38 AM
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Is there an argument at all in your comment or are you just here to shame others for how they perceive things?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:52 PM
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I'm a man posing as a woman posing as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:04 AM
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Aw hasn't happened to me in a long time :( I'm afraid I've hit the PPD wall, I'm being too tame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:01 AM
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half the price Why would they be cheap?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:36 AM
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Your point being? I'm not saying that everybody who doesn't resent their sexless 15-17s isn't going to get any action. But IME when you're on the uglier side of men, a strong drive and feeling FOMO helps in improving. The rebellious, and vocally frustrated ones where those who eventually experimented, improved, and succeeded. While those who didn't care much also didn't made it out. The frustration phase is part of the many steps of accepting that things are different than excepted and that you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:58 PM
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That rejoin my argument. Maybe the people who don't dwell on it at all are so inhibited and stunted in their development that they don't even have the drive to change and improve...? Anyway, that idea that red pillers dwell on it is just a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:44 PM
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that is literally my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:34 PM
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but you get the picture. No I do not. You do not seem on topic at all. And you seem to be doing some FUD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:24 PM
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What about the missing out on young love and stunted social development of blue pillers who are left with no drive but somehow think red pillers are in the wrong for not being content with having nothing? Most men are going through their 15-17 sexlessly while most of them are experiencing the biggest urge to have sex. Why would anybody be content with it unless their social development was so stunted that they hadn't even a proper puberty and libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:06 PM
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Isn't it women who always call men dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:09 PM
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When people mean "people of the opposite sex with hobbies I dislike" but say "addict" instead to shift the blame, I think it's fair to give them a bit of their own medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:07 PM
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Haha. I was fed up of people throwing around "video game addict" and "porn addict" so easily for men who have hobbies and preferences. So I started suggesting that women are pet addict. Look what popped today on /r/all : https://www.reddit.com/r/WitchesVsPatriarchy/comments/1281ttt/yes/ Literally memes writing themselves. Tomorrow I'll talk to you about how women are travel and date addicts. https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleTwitter/comments/127to0c/listing_all_the_pros_in_the_cons_column/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:57 AM
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I'm not attuned to the value of american money. However the thing to understand is that even when kids are out of the picture, people sometimes can't even live properly on their own salary and could only make it because they partnered together. So yes, when these guys separate, there isn't much money to send to the kids and it's not enough. Sometimes divorce is just not economically viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:12 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:10 AM
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Nobody talked of deadbeat dads and they're absolutely not an epidemic. Most of the time dads pay their CS and want to see their kids, but mothers also like to just relocate far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:54 AM
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I'm 34 and I was raised with the "don't approach women, let them come" thing, and it was and still is a common narrative. Our generation were the first to experience at this scale it because we've been raised by women who got their expectations high during the sexual revolution then hit the wall and the reality. And we're also the generation where divorce started being this much rampant, leaving a lot of kids to be raised only by their mom. We're also the generation that saw feminism go batshit.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:14 AM
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PPD isn't an advice sub nor your personal diary. But you sound like you're still finding excuses not to even try. This is beyond any online intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:56 PM
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That seems like irrelevant to the original topic but I'll bite. We would never have needed to work as women if men were able to provide on one income. You would never have needed to work as women if it wasn't for capitalism wanting to cheapen the labor market by making more people work. More men would be able to provide on one income if labor wasn't so devalued and competitive due to the presence of women in it. Women on the labor market are like cats in australia, they can hunt for extra food a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:27 PM
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People are capable of thoughts and then still follow some magical instinct. Why does that not make them people according to you? Because you think objects have magical instincts? I'm trying to infer what leads you to think this absurd thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:50 PM
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They should do that more but dont. Eh yes they absolutely do. Some attractive men even say they can't go to clubs without being gropped by women. Your reasoning is meh. Your reasoning is meh. Shallowness means something, you're making it hyperspecific. We were literally told women do not care about looks and approach men just as much as men approach. They care so much they think everyone is ugly, but they have to compromise one day or another in order to not be alone, or they compromise for othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:47 PM
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Call me when women are actively approaching average men for sex and relationships at the same rate as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:42 PM
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Objects have sexual, survival and reproductive incentives according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:37 PM
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TRP thinks the only person who can change your situation is you. But TRP absolutely thinks you're lied to about how women are perfect, and thinks women are full of flaws just like men. TRP thinks women follow their very selfish and antagonistic incentives, just like men. It doesn't think women are supposed to change, unless these women want men to change. So there isn't much blame put on women... It isn't incompatible. Not sure if you genuinely can't see that of you're just trying to gaslight me…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:35 PM
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The same way men are called shallow since for ever and are paired with all types of women. And again, pairing isn't very indicative of anything. The sexual market place demands a lot more effort from men for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:33 PM
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Thank you for understanding. You can now delete your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:20 PM
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I don't see a contradiction, if you see one, you're indeed confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:20 PM
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TRP thinks people generally have incentives akin to their gender, and TRP thinks most people don't go against these incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:18 PM
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Yes I go outside thank you. People pairing together isn't very indicative of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:17 PM
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We're on a debate sub, we're here to debate with people who disagree with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:15 PM
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Men never hid being shallow. Maturity in this context is a fallacy. A fabricated moral weapon. Men here think it is important young men know about the male perspective so that they do not buy into the misandry that is pushed onto them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:47 PM
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There should be a rule about it tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:40 PM
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Men here are not obsessing over other men getting more women. Men here have always been told women were mature and not shallow. They saw that is was false and they built a reading of the world that contradicts the mainstream views, that's what's called "The Red Pill", they come here to debate that topic. If you start to see problem in people who want to debate PPD topics, maybe you're better off not coming here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:30 PM
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You need to force yourself to move on by flirting with other women. once the dopamine kicks in you'll be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:26 PM
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When women claim they do it for themselves they truly mean for their own gaze. And I do know women whose gaze is their own and is not influenced by what men want. But critically, yes, all this boils down to doing well in society, they don't like their image in the mirror because others exist, I don't believe that if they were the only human on earth they would develop a sens of aesthetic and a need for self expression by their own body. Though, most of the time they seem to do things to work wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:54 AM
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There were studies showing women suffer intensely at first then forget, while men suffer breakups less intensely but on a longer period of time. And it corresponds to what I've seen IRL personally. To move on men need to experience new things but it's harder for them to when they have to do the first moves and they don't have the energy to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:38 AM
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Seeing how much you insist I'm forced to believe you based on nothing but you repeating the same thing 3 times. I'm out of funny way to present this to you, so you won. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:58 PM
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If you say so. Jennifer lawrence is very goofy too but I might give her a chance if she begs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:19 PM
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I've never seen native use it consistently right either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:04 PM
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Hardly believable that she's all tight like this despite she had twice that amount of skin before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:02 PM
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I'm not black pill, but everytime I saw a woman call a man "goofy looking" that man was fairly masculine and handsome looking dude with maybe one less flattering facial trait. So I'm not going to believe into this extremely believable anecdotal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:57 PM
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Yes, we need to stop stigmatizing men. That's my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:15 PM
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The people of okcupid didnt rate old people, they rated people their age mostly. Why in the world wouldn't it be a normal distribution? If you don't perceive a normal distribution you are just biased. We literally ask you to rate people considering that 5/10 is the average, and you somehow manage to find 80% Of people to be bellow average, and you see no issue in this. Some people are just bad at estimating the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:14 PM
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The height curve is a nice normal distribution and a good example. If your ratings on looks is anything else but a normal distribution centered on 5/10 you've done it wrong. Debate can occur as how wide or narrow that bell curve is though. http://i.imgur.com/L9Vu4Zo.png The first graph is a good example of how it could look like if you were reasonable, and then the second graph shows how biased and wrong people perceive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:59 PM
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No it isn't. It uses simple logic such as "average= 5/10" which somehow is a very simple yet mandatory principle that most people can't integrate properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:50 PM
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Scales are arbitrary No they're not. Your dumb arbitrary scale is closer to the common consensus, and the common consensus isn't close to the reality of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:30 PM
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No we don't. We need men to approach women more and stop telling them to approach less. You can't teach flirting social skills without trying to flirt, no class room nor theory is ever going to help. And any other form of socializing isn't going to help a lot either, it's sure is a good indicator if you can make friends with the opposite gender, but as all of our friendzoned dudes can tell it isn't what makes the spark happen. Forcing men and women to mix together for activities is however a goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:26 PM
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6/10 is already very attractive it's not "nothing stands out". So you mean 5/10. The intelligence is a tricky question because what matters is rather that the person is stable and long term oriented, and has intellectual interests similar to mines. There are plenty of very smart people that I have 0 affinity with, or smart people who are very emotional and dysfunctional. Similarly there are beauties that are more likely to sustain with age and some that won't. I would disregard pure intelligence…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:20 AM
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they have to think about kids and the future. Not only an age gap has no coherent impact on "kids and the future" but also most women literally claim that same age is ideal. I'm even sure we got statistics that blue piller like to show around suggesting age gaps make less stable homes. They also never think in term of kids consciously when they're celibate and childless, nobody does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:07 AM
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Similar or higher is a huge bias when you account society in its entirety. Same thing for age, 85% of married couple feature a man that is same age or older. 55% older, 30% same age, 15% younger. This is kind of why a lot of men here meme that women are hive minds, because the most insignificant bias in selection creates a pareto ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:03 AM
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The best at anything is always a man. The worst is also a man. Even in domains that are traditionally feminine, like cooking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:59 AM
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What I see is women uglifying themselves as a way to say "fuck you" to the patriarchy. You know, getting fat, short hair, colored hair, and becoming lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:58 AM
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And bars let women in free to entice men to enter with the insinuation of sex with drunk women. That's called a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:47 PM
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CMV: Most women have tiny tits. Tits aren't something men have, so I got nothing to compare that to, but I still believe women have all tiny tits because I'm just not satisfied with the tits I see. This is about as fallacious as your post is. Game is something only men have to develop while women do nothing and expect men to read their mind, all the while women all are different yet all convinced it works the same for everyone. You just sound like you're ranting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:37 PM
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The data are right here in front of your eyes. What you talk of is completely irrelevant, this isn't about swipe. People gave a rating to others, they made averages of these ratings, and messaging data were gathered. If what you say would influence the data, then men's messaging would be evenly spread all across women's attractiveness, or all women would be 10/10. But it's not the case. In the end, you do not even sound like you believe women aren't shallow. So I'm not sure what you're arguing f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:19 PM
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https://gwern.net/doc/psychology/okcupid/yourlooksandyourinbox.html Third graphic "female messaging and male attractiveness". People often use this graphic to say "women rate 80% of men as ugly", people answer with "yes but women message men anyway so women are less shallow than men". When you look at who women message the most it's men around the 1/3 percentiles, just like men messaging women. So what's happening isn't that women are less shallow than men, what's happening is women are as shall…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:02 PM
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People like you keep claiming that the other graphics of the OKCupid prove anything, but all it proves is you can't weight a graphic with how much people are in each categories, and that you're not good with maths and logic. No, women aren't more likely to message ugly men than attractive men. No, women aren't messaging ugly men more than men message ugly women. Most messages are sent to people in the top 1/3 percentile, regardless of gender. And all this proves is just that women message attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:37 PM
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Oops haha I'm so dumb sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:05 PM
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/u/LillthOfBabylon
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:03 PM
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As usual, a bunch of strawmens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:19 AM
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Organically meet women who are same age and younger* Highschools I went to had a fairly high rate of girls dating students while most boys would be alone. It sure helped men organically meet women to be at school, but that age gap bias didn't work too well when you pack boys and girls by age.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:03 AM
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They don't matter for attraction and love. They may conditionally matter for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:59 AM
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You're mad that I'm not your googling slave smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:56 AM
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Yeah just like Christianity doesn't really come up a lot but the basis of its moral is the basis of most western secular countries. In a similar fashion, feminism is the basis of most people's moral codes. And we all know that teachers all tend to be hardcore leftist. Teachers also tend to be misandre due to boys being more work for less results (or so they say) Even if most people don't verbally support feminism, most people support part of it without knowing and are going to spread their prece…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:55 AM
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It's very likely that he was just too eager for diversity. Like many of us are told that our desire for other women would plummet once we have a gf, and it never happens, one way to calm it down is to use porn but that also makes your cravings for your current gf plummet too. It got better after 25 for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:39 PM
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Do you think I mopped the floor every week when I lived alone? I mopped the floor once every 2 months. Living with someone, especially a woman, means higher standards of living, and compromising.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:37 PM
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single person Have you tried asking the married or cohabitating ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:36 PM
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Google is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:26 PM
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PPD isn't the problem, you're the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:41 AM
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In a world where everyone is different, everyone seems like an outlier to everyone. The girl who doesn't ghost her date for a cheese story will do so for a wine story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:39 AM
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But unless you seek out feminist shit it doesn't really reach you. Who do you think raises you and teaches you at school? You gotta be delusional if you think redpill is the main societal narrative and not feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:48 AM
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You're late, the girls who have started metoo have been shown to be sexual harassers and assaulters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:46 AM
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Are y’all out of your mind? Do you know how hard it is to sustain a family on one income? Do you know how hard it is to take care of 2 kids, a home and work full time? It's horrible. Plenty of minimum wagies have stay at home wives in my country anyway. Nobody asks that for life tho, the first 3 year of the kid's life would suffice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:44 AM
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The elephant in the room is the age gap in relationships and the fluctuation of demographies. 20 year old men are actually competing with shitload of men for a minority of women just because 20 year old men are less numberous than 30 year old men, and because women have a tendency to avoid younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:42 PM
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Bro you clearly have understood or haven't read, I'm sad for you that you wrote all this which I'm not going to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:40 PM
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why are men who didn't do shit and whose only contribution to our society is that they pay taxes - and most wouldn't pay taxes if they could get away with it, legally - making a claim on the achievements of other men? Oh yes I'm a firm believer that a productive member of society has to 1) work 2) pay taxes 3) make kids 4) raise kids. So, childfree people and rich people are obviously leeches to society for they're not doing all 4 of these for society. But you know, there are more women who thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:24 PM
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Yeah well…the great incel uprising? It ain’t never going to happen. That's an issue. And I don't think of incels but the population as a whole has a lot less tools to uprize and revolt than before. people are talking a lot about how technology automates jobs but talk little about how tech protects and hides rich people. For now the mechanisms at play to balance society are still working enough that there isn't a bubble that buildups. I'm not sure if things can buildup at all. Historically the lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:56 PM
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I don't assume anything. But I said "rogue" for a reason. But historically, these guys would go and raid other countries. Historically again, the dirty ass low value men also got together to reverse the power in place very often. Eventually there were enough men who die to rebalance things out. But that doesn't stop we migrated to a modern era and that most men adapted to it, but women haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:41 PM
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Women are definitively not straight forward. Maybe lesbians evolve to be though. The few I've seen, for anything to happen one needs to develop some masculine behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:36 PM
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I'm never going to deny that men would have a hard time going back in the wilderness and do everything on their own. But they'd do so much more easily than women. Look at what a man's living place looks like when he leaves his parents. Literally nothing in there. They have very low needs and typically build a good place just to attract women. And women then start living with them and furthermore increase the demands and needs for living standards. Men don't need a lot for themselves, they need a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:26 PM
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Quote me where I say they can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:23 PM
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That's made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:22 PM
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That's definitively atypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:15 PM
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Even if it were true, both men and women rely on it. I'm part of the whole thing. But if I had to quit it all and get off the grid my materialistic needs would be typically lesser than a woman's, and my survival rate higher. BUT alone I have no chance of fulfilling any of my sexual and relational incentives. Men typically don't need society for their physical comfort but for the sexual and relational opportunities. Literally any healthy relationship I've ever been in. Your gf protects you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:12 PM
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Machines designed by men, installed by men, maintained by men, eggs processed by men or machines made by men, transported by men, entreposed by men. Even if you find more women in some part of this process than usual, it's still a minority in the grand scheme.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:11 PM
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Women need men just as much, but society has made sure that men's labor and existence are virtualized to us all. Food arrives at your store and you buy it to a female cashier, you've never seen any of the men who worked to grow the food and make it arrive there. And food is only one example among many. You and women are all victim of that fallacy that men are useless in our modern era because you lost sight of all the men that work to make society work at all. Men also rely on women in their liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:39 PM
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Literally you're just listing reasons why heterosexual relationships are more interesting, but to you it's more difficult because you guys are different? Why is it difficult for you or for him? I expected you talking to me of flirting, of getting your needs met, of solving conflicts, of arguing... I discovered most men don’t wipe after peeing and I was losing my mind over it because I didn’t even realize that was a possibility??? Many men don't like the feeling of wetness down there, and I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:11 AM
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Yes. Though blue pillers tend to conflate black and red together and like to misrepresent reds as incels. So if you're blue maybe that's your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:04 AM
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Lesbians
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:10 AM
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Everybody who hasn't been here long enough says that. I've been here for 7 years, it's definitively less black pill than it was 3 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:56 AM
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You literally linked a twit that links to a twit that no longer exists. My emotions are anger and lost faith in humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:54 AM
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Easy how? Do you feel like walking on eggshells around men? I'd assume you don't have to navigate through a man's emotions since he considers he's the driver. Or do you mean easy in term of getting what you want? I'd assume women are less likely to shower you in gifts and romantic gestures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:50 AM
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Are women specifically dating the top X% of men, or do men simply not meet the "bar"? If there was a "bar" then our ancestors would all be beneath it. The bar is clearly evaluated according to the local population, which means the bar women develop is always inherently more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:37 PM
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We're falling into the typical american pro-choice fallacies. Embryos aren't parasites. Not creating is different from killing. I'm not debating this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:29 PM
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why would an atheist care if a fecunded egg is destroyed? Some people can develop their own personal moral codes. How do you think the secular countries run? Do you think we just kinda kill each other and run on total moral-less anarchy? ;) does she know how many dozens of millions of fecunded eggs are destroyed by women's bodies with no contraceptive every day? She can't do anything against that. The point is she doesn't think she gets to choose who lives and who doesn't. if the IUD prevents sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:12 PM
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I'd be nice that you don't judge without knowing. My wife is european atheist pro-choice and well educated and read. Our health org are still claiming that it is abortive, the controversies seemed to raise only since americans got issues with their abortion laws, and the sources are still scarce. Some anglophonic sources claim that "it's not abortive because it's not the main mechanism" which seems like typical american pro-choice bullshit. The thing commonly found is that "women on IUD aren't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:41 PM
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Must be IUD yeah... I'm ESL so I forgot the name. She said that when fecondation happen that thing is meant to irritate the uterus and the embryo can't stick to it and is evacuated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:40 PM
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Can you tell me more about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:39 PM
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Everyone is faulty of having a bias toward women. People should be selfish and cooperate on a healthy force rapport, but when half of your own side has a bias toward the other side then that other side can assert whatever they want regardless of how pretentious and unreasonable it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:38 PM
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I'm not inclined to take it, my prospect in life to find a partner are far lower than my partner's. I don't think I should be further penalized in this area by voluntarily making myself less masculine and less attractive. We also have higher mortality. However I wish my wife would stop taking hormonal pill, but she insists on being against the few non hormonal options she got because they're "abortive"... Also the pill alleviates some of her hormonal issues. PS: I think the male pill had higher …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:46 AM
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Women don't want to be wives, mothers, don't want to be stays at home, don't want to provide sex, don't want to be approached by men, don't want to be feminine and attractive to men, don't want to have and raise kids. They also won't provide money, they won't fix things, they won't approach men, they won't work for commitment, they won't take some of men's gender roles, they still expect men to earn more, to pay for things, to pay for dates, to work hard and have careers, to be masculine, to app…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:41 AM
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I'm a rebel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:27 PM
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The main complain is women complain about gender roles pushed onto them and no longer maintain them while simultaneously expecting the same if not more gender roles from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:22 PM
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height, dick size, money
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:01 PM
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Is this it? I challenged someone's view? HEY GUYS I WON PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:12 PM
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than
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:09 PM
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3 days ago I fapped and at the end got a very intense headaches. :( we getting old AF
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:04 PM
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Nobody is asking you to coddle them Lillth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:30 PM
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Q4M: how do you envision a political reality where paper abortions and routine paternity tests become normalized? No, we're moving further away from male parental right, not closer. You need essentially all men and some women on your side Most men will never support it to begin with. They're more concerned by the hypothetical feelings of virtual women than the idea of rights given to men. Also paternity tests are conflicted with human rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:29 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:20 PM
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The statistics on demography and age gaps in marriage indicate that men are heavily disadvantaged in the SMP up until 40-50 year old when men finally start dying a lot. IDK if you were ironical, but someone's situation isn't necessarily reflexive of their actual value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:40 AM
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So he can also require 25 years of rent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:36 AM
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Well, there are more 35 year old men with 18 year old women than 35 year old women with 18 year old men tho. But the majority of the age gaps are within 1 and 5 year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:13 AM
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I see more people counter arguing it than it even being argued. I think yall just react to the idea that men's SMV is delayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:07 AM
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I constantly never see that but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:57 AM
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So? The slightest gap has huge consequences over the sexual market places.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:55 AM
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When you talk of staying at your bf's people expect tea or sex stories not jars or pantries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:27 AM
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So brave of you to prefer your guys to risk their life as a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:44 AM
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Yeah I'm not getting opinions from phone sales managers about their employees. xD It's like listening to women about their exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:40 AM
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Age gaps ease attraction. Literally nothing changed for me physically or intellectually when I had to repeat a year of class when I was 15, but girls upon hearing I was a year older all had more respect for me with no proof of any actual value from me. Age is social proof. And women run on social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:36 AM
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There's functionally no difference between a 20 year old gf with a 20 year old maturity and a 20 year old gf with a 30 year old maturity. The maturity you expect a woman to pick up in her 20s is how to cohabitate and share finances and that's it, which you don't care about for a gf. And TBH it boils down to personality type more than maturity. Everything else are things that you think are important but aren't. Nobody wants someone who has had an "eventful" life, that's usually bad news.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:31 AM
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I got your point perfectly since it's literally a popular opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:59 PM
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I'm pretty sure this sub has been calling women spoiled since the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:56 PM
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What is uncivil here? The post is entirely about him being an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:14 PM
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I mean yeah, you're a woman and I am not, it makes sense you get it more than I do, I don't expect respect and loyalty as something brought to me by the relationship, respect and loyalty aren't needs, they're mechanics of relationships that make cooperation possible. When I'm asked why I don't like to be alone, I'm never saying "I miss being respected and having someone loyal to me", it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:11 PM
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Wouldn't all of this be explained by the fact you're not an alpha but a dysfunctional antisocial person? Universities see all sort of very dominant and ambitious men, and they go through it like a breeze alongside the beta because they know how to work with others. You know warlords are warlords because they are lords of people and are good at war. Just being convinced you're good at war won't make you a warlord.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:31 PM
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That sounds extremely vague and void of sense. You don't bring respect and loyalty to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:38 PM
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My guy says that... The problem with answers like this is we could very well consider anything your boyfriend says as "fake romantic posturing". I'm sure all men here can relate to exaggerating some things their gf do for them that they don't really care about. I’d do that for any and everyone. That's bringing something to the relationship. “and you let me touch your boobs whenever I want.” Yes yes yes yes yes, white card on groping is central IMO xD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:37 PM
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"everyone's feelings are valid" idealistically doesn't mean that, it doesn't mean your feelings translate to a truth, it means you're not wrong for feeling that way, and then that you need to work a certain way to deal with these feelings. But women will very often time believe that their feelings translate to a truth, yes, and society evolved that way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:33 PM
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I shouldn't have to, but I always do, and it always ends up worse. Just today I had to do everything while also having to do emotional labour for her. While I try to help her she found the strength to be annoyed that I didn't know her taste in food (that changes constantly). Because I was offering her to cook or buy any food she wants because she's starving herself for no reason and I'm trying to help. I'll get reproaches for this eventually, and I'll be punished with more work and reproaches. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:27 PM
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Why can't you learn to quote ;-; Your argument is really that it's frowned upon for you to cheat? No that's ... again a strawman. Reducing my argument to something over simplified easy to attack. There's a lot of difference between a marriage as a contract and marriage for love. And that is just one versant of society that changed recently. Everything moves toward the same idea that men should be more like women and everything should be considered through female perspective. Because she's not im…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:22 PM
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I'm 5'5 and RP outlook of relationships helped me tremendeously. It's unavoidable, only hot people can afford to be BP, a BP ideology on a shit looking body is a death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:19 AM
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I know, I just know that once she wakes up from that she'll ask more stuff from me instead of recognizing I need to rest xD
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:46 AM
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She feels this way for an obvious reason that isn't about me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:39 AM
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She's depressed for other reasons that don't concern me, and this has been going only for few days. I'm not sure why ppl talk of depression. I'm just saying that when she's getting out of this, she'll demand effort from me when I'll be out of energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:39 AM
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we split evenly until she decides it's not even, then I show her everything I did and why it's even or even, then she interprets my defense as me saying she did nothing, when I prove her that she's wrong, she cuts contact. Eventually she's always the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:24 AM
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Hopefully you two have someone you can pawn the kids off to for a day or two while you both rest. haha... No. :x
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:23 AM
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depressed != depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:22 AM
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Everytime. Otherwise I'd not predict that outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:22 AM
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IKR. She too thinks that because she spends 6h cleaning on the weekend it surpasses my 3h daily chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:21 AM
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I'm here. I speak of it. Many on PPD speak of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 12:20 AM
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Wife is very depressed lately and gets home in the evening, goes to sleep instantly and leave me with all the chores and the kids to take care of. Mark my words that at the end of the week when I'll be tired of doing everything on my own, and when she'll finally have some energy to allow me to rest, she'll be like "you never spend time with me" and will try to push me to spend more energy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:53 PM
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You are attacking the legitimacy of TRP, you say there's no hint that it helped anybody. I admitted the ideology helped me. I'm telling you that the people who benefited from it didn't stick around to tell you. Now you say since it helped me then its existence is not longer legitimate? That's just a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:46 PM
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That's a strawman. Address my points or just say "I disagree" and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:18 PM
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I went from forever alone to rejecting a threesome because I had a gf, and then I cheated a month later with yet another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:48 PM
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Hi. TRP didn't "help me" but the evolutions in mentality and behavior I went through to be successful and happy are the same you'll read on TRP. I don't partake in TRP because I don't need it. TRP is legitimate even if people aren't noisy about it, because many were helped by it, and many are adhering to it without knowing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:42 PM
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I can't rewind you 3 decades of feminism, of media and social media, of sex and civic education at school that were very brainwashing. If you've not been exposed to it, that's good, but many have been. And people who have been educated by feminist moms are just finding it natural that everyone has to make an effort against gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:40 PM
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27-30 year old women would be interested in the 32 year old. Can't you see the domino effect? So, who is left for the 27-30 year old men? Less women. So they have to get interested in the 25 year old women. Who is left for the 25 year old men? Less women. So they have to get interested in the 23 year old women. Who is left for the 23 year old men? Less women... You spin that until you reach 18 year old men, or 16 year old men, and as you go younger you find out that it stops there because girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:34 PM
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I suspect you don't know what disingenuous means. It means insincere. I suspect we both know what disingenuous means, but you use "disingenuous" disingenuously, so I do that too so you better understand how it feels like. to angry Quit sticking emotions to reasonings. Attack the arguments not whatever you're imagining. What you're ignoring is that the largest group by statistics is that women marry men the same age 50% older, 34% same age, 15% younger. Clearly the largest group by statistics is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:25 PM
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The averages are less applicable as women are choosing their partners mostly around 2 to 5 year older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:15 PM
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That's literally, gender reversed, what feminism keeps telling men to do since 3 decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:14 PM
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I'd have no issue with your opinion if you accepted that all those arguments are in favor of men being paid more. Especially knowing that men have a shorter life expectancy. So, are you in favor of men being paid more?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:14 PM
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that's not what my data are saying. Yours are averaged. When you divide year per year you find waves and high variations. Maybe not 15%, but definitively 12% gap between 32 and 25 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:09 PM
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I'd say he pursued me for months before we got together. Do I need to read your entire comment after this summary? He literally pulled the legwork to have anything from you and the second you have to do anything you lose interest. Haven't I deduced everything right from the beginning? High on life. Both of us. After he worked for months to convince you tho. Can you imagine how insulted a man could feel for having to pursue someone for this long for them to feel comfortable? But we don't get insu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:07 PM
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What a dumb take. Well, didn't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:58 PM
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Oh no! Please come back and tell me more about your baseless fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:57 PM
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In the same way that society provides for and protects men. 🤷‍♀️ Society provides men with sexual and marital opportunities, which are the problem we discuss right now, and social labor and protection, which men barely benefit from anyway considering men's mortality is higher, considering police forces are more likely to kill men, considering social cares are less likely to aid men. For the rest, men are mostly the providers, being the receiver isn't their priority nor incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:56 PM
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I'm sorry, you're obviously putting the efforts and good will, but it seems you haven't properly read or understood my post. I do talk of the 5% innate gap in my post already. The 10 to 15% comes from intergenerational gap that is directly observable on the pyramid of ages, made directly from statistics. The disparity in homosexual rate is one order of magnitude (10% vs 1%) lower than the disparity in demography. Therefore almost insignificant. But yes it is favorable to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:54 PM
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I don’t understand I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:46 PM
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You for sure are a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:42 PM
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are far more likely to be looking for egalitarian relationships with cooperating partners than traditional gender roles than any other time in history. Egalitarian for women's gender roles, women are still always marrying "equal or higher" men. Maybe women marry more "equal" men than before, but they're not marrying "lesser" men more than before. We don’t need a man to provide and protect us. Correction: You don't need a man to provide and protect you when other men you are never going to talk t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:41 PM
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we would either be having sex sooner rather than later, or he would try his hand with someone else. You were having sex without him having to initiate it and seduce you? Who approached who in the relationship? Who had to seduce who?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:37 PM
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Just saying it's disingenuous doesn't make it disingenuous. You need to elaborate if you want to convince me, or if you want me to dissipate your confusion. Otherwise I'm just going to ignore you as you seem disingenuous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:35 PM
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Yes. 5% more men are born than women. By age 50 that number usually has resorbed because men's mortality is higher. Why do you tell that to me though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:34 PM
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The usual age is 3 years or less, so it's mostly in the same age cohort. I'm more and more convinced I should run that simulation... Because the issue isn't the age gap itself, it's that the opposite age gap doesn't exist at the same rate. Even if we reduced it all to just 1 year age gap, as long as women are 3 times more likely to date a man with 1 year gap above them than bellow, you'll have a domino effect going on that screws young men, or screw men born in low birthrate generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:19 PM
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Refusal to elaborate is going to be considered as confession of being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:10 PM
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How, exactly, would you like to see women “police themselves” and what “adapting” do you think should occur? Being less picky and less focused on men's gender roles. I don't think women (or any living form) are capable of adapting their incentives though. I think society has to reshape to revalorize men, their labor, their presence, their contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:09 PM
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Has it not occurred to you that you were supposed to seduce him into committing since it's your incentive and not his? Besides, he probably disliked more the idea of marrying than the idea of being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:06 PM
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I think I perfectly understood. She once and only once had to seduce him into committing and bailed immediately after she realized she wasn't being entitled to it. Even though moral tries to tell us that men are the ones who have to initiate things, I think it's normal that women have to seduce men into committing the same way men seduce women into sex. Other than that, the guy could very well just not like the idea of marriage while being entirely committed to her. A lot of men our generation d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:05 PM
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Well that was for sure a pathetic rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:01 PM
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The past probably had a more "pyramidal" demographic pyramid, which meant there were more young women than older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:00 PM
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When I started talking about inexpensive wedding plans he hesitated. And that was the beginning of the end for me. A good 75% of my feelings for him evaporated in that moment. Woman loses feelings for a man when she has to move a finger? How surprising. A common refrain heard in my youth was that men should never settle down until they're 35 A common refrain heard in mine is that men should be happy any woman wants them, should buy a ring, should propose, should organize the marriage... While wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:36 PM
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Because on top of having the upper hand in the dating market until they're 40, women are claiming that most men are mediocre options and that they're the true victims. Because after 30 years of feminism blaming men for everything and asking men to adapt and to police each others, women have never policed themselves, never adapted other than by becoming more picky. But ultimately, it's society's fault for indulging too much into women's demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:31 PM
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How is this age gap thing bs? Aren't you failing to think in multiple dimensions? Say everyone dates 3 year older men or same age exactly. 30 year old men being 15% more than 27 year old men. If a portion of the 30 year old men date the 27 year old women, the 27 year old men have less available women their age, and are going to be stressed more around 24 year old women. Which leaves less women for the 24 year old men, who will stress more the 21 year old women.... The slightest bias has repercus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:27 PM
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literally the truth this is rather disingenuous Enlighten me, my friend, show me how disingenuous this is. Something tells me you think this is disingenuous because you think I'm saying 20 year old girls date 33 year old men. But you need to think in 2 dimensions here and understand that this bias applies on everyone at once. You can compute the dating pool of both genders at both age if you want and see for yourself how women always have bigger dating pools.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 02:23 PM
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Sounds like you dislike my opinion so much is makes you feel better to think wtf you're thinking about me. I clearly stated I believe "pure intentions" or "being a bastard" are fallacious point of views. Don't bother answering unless you got something relevant and non personally-attacking thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 12:20 AM
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And I'm going to repeat myself: that's a fallacy to think that this is about being a bastard. He's just going to be worth what he's worth, and if you're not worth the same, you'll likely pay back in another way that you didn't expect. When men get with an attractive girl above their pay grade they commonly call this as "high maintenance". Obviously it's not deterministic and you can get lucky, but sometimes it'll show up in a delayed fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:33 AM
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The entire fallacy comes from the idea that a man who settle with a woman is "a good person" tho. The whole point is men above your pay grade are likely not going to be the good deals you feel they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:00 AM
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You'll most likely be in the "you're going to get taken advantage on and abused" league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:18 AM
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People who believe in subjectiveness don't think there's a normal distribution and that there isn't such a concept as average, median, or small standard deviation. They think that all things that vary will vary in equal probabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:16 AM
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No I'm just not seeing what is your comment adding.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:09 AM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:11 PM
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What is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:49 PM
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Probably a bias in favor of women was favorable for survival of humans? Since men are expandable but women are the bottleneck of reproduction...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:33 PM
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Why what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:40 PM
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If you understand that women evolved to be pickier because of the higher risks their biology imposes them. That's when you're supposed to conclude that men and women aren't dehumanizing each others. But you can also choose to read it from a modern politically correct point of view. What makes you think being open minded is wrong? Plenty of women would find it disgusting that I have hobby X or hobby Y, how the fuck do you justify this as something good and humanizing to be disgusted at what peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:26 PM
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"sUpPoRtEd By ReSeArCh" you mean you read some sensationalist garbage and you stuck your morally loaded conclusion to it. And what's supported by research is that women are pickier than men, as simple as that, you won't convince anybody that this is more humanizing than not being picky, and you won't convince anybody that your opinion is anywhere close to have any scientific weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:07 PM
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If that isn't the fattest and most hypocritical virtue signaling I've ever seen. You literally just describe women being uncapable of objectivity and of treating men as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:01 PM
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Yeah they always do. Men tend to do it too tho, overrate women and underrate men. This phenomenon is all packed in the "women are wonderful" fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:58 PM
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I wouldn't trust ppl who claim they're high value either. But clearly women are generally biased to think men are all low value and women all high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:53 PM
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Have you not seen all these memes of men's minimal setup for a house? A bed, a chair, a tv, a console. This is just a meme, but this is an example of men not having high standards of living. What elevates this standard is women and children. Men don't have high needs otherwise, and that means, men don't have high economic needs, and don't need to be careerist or even in the workforce at all if women aren't a goal. Few decades/centuries ago that'd be more obvious and translate into men who are 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:45 PM
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There are two types of people: Those who think who you are with is your league, and that leagues are subjective and fluctuating concepts. And those who think leagues are measurable according to concepts of averageness and variance. These two types of people really can't communicate, their conception of human metrics is deeply different and it's a fool errand to try to have one side convince the other side. Both are right in their own way. There's definitively an objective way to measure people's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:27 PM
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Ok hey listen hear me out, having a job, working out, taking care of yourself, and self improving is nice.... But have you tried talking to girls????
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:52 PM
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A lot of people get sick and aren't reduced. People don't usually push themselves to work in bad conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:48 PM
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Doesn't that register as some sort of invalidity and companies hiring invalid people get subventions?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:47 PM
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You see men building all these things in order for everything to be more easily accessible to everyone, and you see women distancing themselves from men as a result of everything being accessible, and you think somehow that it's men who stopped doing their job...??.?.? Right formula, wrong answer. Guys, do not expect any woman to provide to you the services that your mother did. When "men hunted and women guarded the house", women used to provide to you the services that your mother did. We can …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:43 PM
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How do women justify taking their man's money if they diminish the worth of their man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:49 PM
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admittedly it's not blue pilled here, it usually is very blue pilled though. It's still serving you the most politically correct and most commonly accepted idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 11:46 AM
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You know you have no options only if you actively approach and flirt women. Since most men do not actively seek out other options, they can be considered loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:14 AM
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We could have asked that question to chat gpt ourselves we don't need you for that. I'm personally not interested in non jailbroken answers from chat gpt, especially on edgy topics like this where it's going to try and remain politically correct and blue pilled if it's not jailbroken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:10 AM
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What do you mean "will", AI is already everywhere on your dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:10 PM
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When you say corporations have power it sounds like a group of people have power. But it's not a group, it's just the guy who takes the decisions who has the right to use the weight of the corporation to assert his goals. Corporations aren't really acting like living forms on their own yet unlike societies. And these people at the top usually own several corporations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:37 PM
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Lilith, they didn't choose you not because you're less attractive, but because you're less attractive and just as shallow and crazy as the attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:29 PM
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Condolences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:28 PM
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While it may be true that some men may continue to pursue women who consistently date people who treat them poorly, it is unfair to generalize all men as being "no better" than these women or as "idiots who pursue shitty women." Relationships are complex and often involve a range of factors, including individual preferences, past experiences, and emotional attachments. Furthermore, it is important to recognize that everyone has the right to pursue the relationships they desire, even if they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:33 PM
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corporatocracy Seems like a term invented by people who couldn't figure how capitalism and libertarianism would naturally go. It's wrong anyway, corporations don't have the power, the people at the top of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:20 PM
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I'm sorry I'm not too good with american stuff. To me, capitalism isn't the free trade of products, that's liberalism. The way I understand capitalism is that capital is power and is inherently against free anything because who ever got the capital will dictate the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:19 PM
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Capitalism is all about men's desire to hoard power to get more women. It's always about women and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:14 PM
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I don't see your and Op's points being mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:02 PM
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ADHD?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:51 AM
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Literally FUD.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:49 PM
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gibberish
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:48 PM
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Nah I'm definitively not alone and you're pretty big on the strawmen compared to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:47 PM
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Bro I am a man. My classifier says you present 99% as a woman in term of opinion, outlook on life, personality, self expression. And I don't usually go against how people present as. How is “I love my partner the more I get to know them” neurotic? It's a classic from high disgust people who have a hard time getting safe around someone. Seems also like a very sugar coated outlook of reality. You also haven’t said what you even like about each other. I use real life example to decorate my points, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:04 PM
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Eh, I feel more excited about my partner now, after getting to know them for decades. Sounds like you're the very neurotic type. That's one hell of a weird flex! That's absolutely not a flex, and I'm a basic man with basic interests. Video games, computer science, sci fi... On reddit at least that's 90% of men. It bores my wife to death because she's not a man with basic male interests. Not that I've never found women who were intellectually interested, but it still bores them beyond the initial…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:47 PM
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Not how it works for the majority of human kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:37 PM
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You can't tell me that things are just as intense as the first few months. No I'm not contradicting myself. Being capable to entertain yourself doesn't mean you are not boring to others. I assure you all my hobbies are of utmost boredom to my partner, and they don't make me socially fun otherwise unless with people into my hobbies which is rare. The thing is I just don't need people around me to feel entertained. I go for people when I want to socialize. Some people tend to go for other people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:29 AM
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Your significant other is also not here to entertain you. If you're not able to entertain yourself on your own you're not ready for a relationship, and a lot of women think of their boyfriend as a way to fix them. The flirting phase is when people aren't boring. But long term companionship is going to be boring if you expect butterflies every single day. This is the issue of lots of femcels nowadays anyway. Only have relationships up to 1 year and then the honeymoon phase is over, they grow bore…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:38 AM
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Women do not even understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:47 PM
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You're having that type of argument "what you do isn't sexy" to men who aren't here to flirt women but rather to debate them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:46 PM
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On the contrary, I have some example, and they all made their own companies (which was, of course, funded by daddy's money and grew thanks to daddy's network, usually after, indeed, they had a 6 or 7 figure position at one of daddy's company), while the daughters are just walking incubators for other rich men. The thing is if they don't make their own money/assets they're not good prospect for marrying other rich high status women. Even if it's all fake they still have to be active. You'll hardl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:43 PM
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Not uncommon in some circles but a lot of the time it's more family money. Men with family money still work and try and make their own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:53 PM
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Literally pedo. her brain just finished developing !!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:32 PM
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They're not working there they're shopping. They're spending money and they're not even working.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:26 PM
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unironically my RP takes could give me some audience on youtube or tiktok, since controversies generate attention, and I have pretty fucked up takes even by RP's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:26 PM
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AND men. Not IME but it's true attractive men are more likely to be rich. Doesn’t necessarily mean they are sugar babies or escorts The girls? No I'm not aiming at the sex work only. These girls get married to wealthy dudes too. My point is that as a woman you have the option to make money femininely or masculinely. As a man it's masculinely only. In both case, being hot helps, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:18 PM
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I know what kind of work it takes. But even with all the right work I'll probably never be making a single penny. Any woman with that kind of work will make some shit money, and good enough portion of them can even make a lot of side money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:07 PM
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Same thing, the disbalance shows you what kind of edge women have on the SMP, even if they can't outward live from it. Look at it this way. When you go to the luxury shopping centers during work hour, it's full of furiously hot women. Onlyfans aside, it's clear women have their own ways to make money that men do not have, and if it fails, women can always make money like men do. While most men here formulate this idea badly, this is what they're complaining about, there's an unbalance. Onlyfans …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:06 PM
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I don't think I can make any money as a regular influencer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:02 PM
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Mine went over your head too? But no, they ain't joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:02 PM
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If you go to the grocery store and there's food in there that means men been doing their job. If you look at the pyramid of demography and see it doesn't look like a pyramid anymore that means women not been doing their job. https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/b/bd/USA_Population_Pyramid.svg/1024px-USA_Population_Pyramid.svg.png Women haven't been doing their job. Tax women. men used to be artisans men used to craftmans I mean you post this on your fucking smartphone who do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:50 PM
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Women really don't seem to understand that any woman making a single penny on onlyfans is already way too much and tells a lot about women's privilege and power in the SMP. it's more of a liberation liberation from what? Who feels liberated selling nudes for 5$ a month???
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:46 PM
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Who tf keeps answering to me then deleting their comments before I read them xD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:44 PM
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Strong link between number of premarital partners and marital stability. Strong link between people who believe sex is degen and between people who think divorce should be forbidden as well. Also, they're all a bunch of liars. Your fallacy is correlation not causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:41 PM
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https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/b/bd/USA_Population_Pyramid.svg/1024px-USA_Population_Pyramid.svg.png There's a surplus of people around age 29-33. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships More than half of women marry a man at least 2 year older. If we assume that women also tend to date older men, it's fairly obvious to see why the 18-29 age bracket is going to be full of single men, because the men in their late teens/early 20s are dating younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:55 PM
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I get the impression you guys are too reluctant to bully hypocrites. Yes men need to learn to ignore women's words. But also you're to correct irrational idiots. We're not here to date PPD women, we're here to debate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:45 PM
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Women literally told it to me, IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:43 PM
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Bahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:42 PM
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Well you do not sound very good with first order logic so i'll let you figure that one on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:19 PM
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their arguments isn't that low N count guarantees loyalty, but high N count guarantees lack of loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:15 PM
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In europe, yes it doesn't map. In the USA it maps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:13 PM
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There are more single men than single women because of a small baby boom in the generation that is 30-35 and because women tend to date older men. That means a lot of men are competing for a small pool of women. By the time men reach an age where their pool is big, they're 40-45, and then the tendency inverts and women are the ones struggling. Except at that age I'm not sure people really care or really get anything out of relationships besides companionship. So arguably men are fucked in genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:50 PM
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We can't do anything but educate our daughters properly. But that won't work with mentally ill women. Staying in toxic relationships with toxic men. That means they're very toxic themselves usually. But you listen to them and their narrative too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:19 PM
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If men could get pregnant, you can be sure the state would require every man produces 3 kids before 21 to gain the right to vote and be a citizen. People have no fucking idea how little empathy society has towards men. However, that ain't transphobic, problematic, nor dangerous. And it's not a common topic on PPD. It's just stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:15 PM
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Because usually it's scam for "buy me shits", they won't return the favor
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:12 PM
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Yeah until they literally say "men shorter than 6 aren't men" and other shits like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:47 PM
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Most women say "taller than me" but they mean "taller than most men".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:41 PM
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"Gifts as love language" is such a scam lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:26 PM
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When women say dad bod they mean greek god but with abs slightly less visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:16 PM
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You’re allowed to guess all you want, it doesn’t make it true. You too...? Everything you just said can be also said about TV and social media and they're known for causing more body image issues than porn. You've not said anything to attack my previous points so my view ain't challenged here. I've too seen documentaries of girls who grow anorexic despite they have a good lovely life and are literally just privileged, but they don't have thousands of likes on instagram so they must be ugly, thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:13 PM
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Trends are born the same way as any trends in any field. Someone sees a way to have an edge on others, they start doing it, others do it because they see the advantage, then it becomes the norm. Repeat until for ever. You think too much of women as victim of external pressure when women are mostly just greedy and competitive. I can't believe porn is the main drive for any of these changes when nowadays we see singers, models and "influencers" being more lewd than porn actresses and influencing e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:02 AM
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they’re coming out of the wood work to try to entice me…no thanks. And other illusions you tell yourself before sleep. See the problem with a lot of girls early on is they think they're ugly because no men approach them. Approach and attraction aren't correlated. If nobody approached you, it's likely because you seemed withdrawn. And you still are according to what you just said. The only thing that has changed, is men have matured and know to try to approach even when someone seems withdrawn. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:20 PM
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Because rejected lonely men have been harassing those 4s and below their entire lives. No they haven't. By my observations and by their own words. Highschool is generally too early for men to develop such a strong drive to approach girls, and will risk it only for attractive girls. Later in life, maybe you're right, but not early. They are the # 1 recipient of "hey beautiful" — "fine, fuck you you ugly bitch". These are typically 5s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:58 PM
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You potential just shrinks after 25, there's no debating this truth. You have this opinion likely because you don't understand the concept of potential and you keep seeing people who just reached their highest potential late in life or who are able to maintain themselves at their highest potential. But that potential is lower at 35 than it was at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:28 PM
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After a while? try immediately. I tried to approach 3s and 4s and they were the meanest most insecure people I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:10 PM
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but rather ideas about body hair, makeup, behaviour, body shape and so on. What are the misconceptions porn spread about these? Body hair => most women shave, and I've seen more hairy women in porn than IRL makeup => Pornstars have their makeup generally to the minimum since it gets fucked up real quick, so women IRL tend to wear more makeup behaviour => Yeh why not but it's not like anybody cares about behavior here... body shape => Porn makes it obvious when someone has fake boobs. Which is ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:54 AM
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Hey there I hope guys will recognize who I am, but I wanted to say: How come men are garbage????? I literally made up some shit in my heAd and I conclude men were the absolute poop I always thought they were. I have no friends no life and my SMV is non existant. How come men don't love me for my personality??? They must be shallow hypocrites!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:57 PM
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I learned a lot about how much of a sour loser you are today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:47 PM
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The pregnancy risk is more of an explanation for women's evolutionary acquired sexual pickiness and lower libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:07 PM
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It's just generational, zoomers are more gender conformists and competitive. It eases TRP's concept into mainstream but they were just red pilled by default. That means TRP will eventually lose traction as it'll be trivial to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:16 PM
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No, they're just extremely biased. Some indeed will conflate effort vs actual attractiveness. But most of the time they just find most men ugly and most women pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:21 PM
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They can but that's very few women, not enough to counter balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:40 AM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:32 AM
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Cool nitpicking bro, told you IDC
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:31 AM
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"I'm an exception teehee!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:21 AM
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Last time I checked people generally agree this man has crazy talent at the expense of being deeply mentally fucked up, and totally believe he'd do these things and don't excuse him for it. They're just not surprised. It's like marylin manson. "oh he was abusive to some of his ex? Oh wow. Who would have thought. Anyway...."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:20 AM
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I actually approached and flirted 3/10 and 4/10 girls, they were the meanest people I ever approached and tried to use me to get to their own crush who was far above their pay grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:00 AM
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he prob stopped juicing. Which is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:57 AM
0

We give a fuck about everyone. That's how socialism used to work. Then feminism came and distracted socialist considerations to be female exclusive, despite socialism was already biased towards women. So no, men care about men, just not about men only. Men are pragmatic and believe that things will balance by adding equality and non sexist considerations. Longer paternity leaves for men was big talk in my country before third wave feminism came in. Never heard of it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:55 AM
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are you more upset about picky women, picky women, or picky women? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:52 AM
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For big gaps, yes, for 2 to 4 year gaps, no. The general idea is that to see who is in who's dating pool, you need to pull back men's population pyramid by like 3 years. And that is a very nasty gender ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:35 AM
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https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/b/bd/USA_Population_Pyramid.svg/1024px-USA_Population_Pyramid.svg.png https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships We can notice in the population pyramid that there's a boom of population in the 29-32 age bracket, and from the data on marriage we know that half of women marry men at least 2 years older. The current generation of men between 18-29 is very much doomed because they're competing with men who are between 29-…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:30 AM
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So a 28 year old dating a 32 year old would fall outside the surveys categorization No it wouldn't. 34% of women and 63% of men in that age bracket are single. From data on age disparity (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships) we can roughly estimate that 30% of women 18-29 are dating men above 29 year old. That isn't sufficient to explain the gap. We can roughly estimate that of the 37% of men taken, maybe 20% are dating underage women (it's a bullshit estimate) An…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:26 AM
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Wife isn't the very validating type of person. I get what I need where I can. And I don't get moral lessons from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:48 AM
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It's all my personal observations of my experience and other people's. Just like you. When growing up people all talked like you, saying short women go with short men, I never saw it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:46 AM
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If you age a bit and start peeing yourself or have organs falling issues, you will thanks your country's health system. If you don't, then good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:43 AM
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Thanks for agreeing with me that americans are brainwashed. I could say the same about women spreading misinformation, literally on reddit on "badwomensanatomy" subs about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:42 AM
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Wtf do you want me to tell you, they think of a tall boyfriend as securing them, that's a pragmatic reason, regardless of if you agree or not this isn't some "our stars align" reason. I don't care otherwise this isn't the main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:39 AM
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I'm not american so I can't tell. But on internet it definitively feels common that american women are disgusted by foreskin and think that foreskin irremediably leads to having smegma/dick cheese. Mentalities are evolving though and more women are becoming sensibilized on the idea that infantile circumcision is an infringement of human rights, and that circumcision is useless unless explicitly medically required.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:28 AM
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It seems to me, women like you don't even know the female anatomy either. Like… you know vaginas are designed to dilate to 10cm to push a whole human out? Most women do this more than once as well… You seriously think your little guy is making a dent? Well several things things going on here: 1) Well you get it, it's a cheap insult, most people don't actually believe big dicks alter vaginas, but people believe women accustomed to big dicks will find smaller dicks underwhelming. It's the equivale…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:18 AM
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"young cute woman" would have been probably more appropriate indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:09 AM
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Ah my bad. My very bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:38 AM
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I feel like I do best with girls who are like almost 5 foot if not 5 foot exactly, then average and tall girls after. 5'5 is slightly above average height for women................ I'm unsure how someone can be this offset with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:24 AM
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What pragmatic reasons? Using her bf as a meatshield against other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:16 AM
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More like a good week. In any case, men aren't claiming women are useless. Women are the ones claiming shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:15 AM
1

How do you know about redpill but not about the red pill subreddit which is notoriously quarantined by reddit??? It's literally what started it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:35 AM
1

What about PURPLE pill DEBATE makes you think this is the place for RED pilled ADVICES. Couldn't you just directly post on TheRedPill???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:28 AM
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This isn't an advice subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:26 AM
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I live in a place where people just don't look, smile at, or acknowledge strangers. So her behavior stands out, especially considering she seems like the introvert type. In a culture where everyone does this, her behavior wouldn't leave me doubting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:23 AM
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Average > tall > short, in term of ease to date. Short women compensate their shortness with tall partners. Either because they're insecure either for pragmatic reasons. in my experience they tend to be obsessed about it. Tall women want tall men for attraction reasons but they're not as much hung on it as short women. Average women are just more likely to be attracted than tall women, and less likely to be insecure than short women. And they're a lot more common than the other two categories, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:19 AM
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I mean, men are a lot less useful in the modern developed world. No, men are a lot more VIRTUALIZED in the modern developed world. Women can live without a man because all the labor of men are provided to her without her knowing any of the men that are the backbone of society. Remove men and society collapses instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:16 AM
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More like one second/half a second stare when we cross. But other people reproached me of looking too much at others directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:07 AM
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I'm not single so I'm not going to approach her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 09:06 AM
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I don't really care, I'm just making convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:58 AM
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Do you know her? We crossed path something like 20 times. She might not have recognized me until now. Well I'd want to know if she's creeped out so that I stop eye contact. and if it is an indicator it's a pretty shit one and she should try harder next time 😂. I mean I have clear proofs that I'm not single that she must have picked up (like, literally tiny humans following me around). There's no reason for her to signal anything voluntarily, so that'd be restricted to involuntarily. Even if it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:57 AM
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Oh yeah there must be places where this is more normal. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:51 AM
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Well it's possible she just never recognized me before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:38 AM
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So number 2? Today I smiled and said hi to ~5 people on the street, because they were looking at me. That sounds like you aren't neurotypical. It's really an abnormal reaction and some people will understand it as you being open to conversation or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:37 AM
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How am I delusional if I haven't decided how to interpret it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:35 AM
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Every morning on my way to work, I cross path with that young cute girl. I look at her everytime and she doesn't. Today she made eye contact and half smiled at me, could be either an acknowledgement, or an embarrassed gesture. I'm not sure if that's an IOI or if that's her having enough of me maintaining eye contact every time. We have a noticeable age gap that might creep her off. Like I'm 34 and she might be anywhere between 18 and 28. I'm not single so I'm not going to approach her. But a lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:23 AM
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Yeah indeed that bullshit. Men should just say they'd be fine with being alone than being with her. Sometimes you get a more thrilling life by just knowing you can approach any girl even if you don't do it often, than being committed with an uninteresting woman. This is the kind of dread you need to push to be on an equality standpoint with a woman. Because women know they can replace you in an instant, and they know you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:15 AM
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Telling my wife I want to basically fuck all women who exist really counter intuitively calmed her the fuck down on the jealousy bullshit and installed a passive dread. But don't neglect that what really hurts them isn't the idea that they're replaceable but rather that you could very well prefer to be alone than be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:12 AM
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I'd be fine with a redditor woman. Someone who can sit down and discuss in full text with very little visual stimulation is probably a stable introvert and that's a good thing in my book. Well, unless they compulsively post in every subreddit about their real life rants. Tiktok women on the other side have their brain fried.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:11 AM
2

I'm not reading all that mess, learn to format your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 08:04 AM
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How is the consent part missing in porn? Because they don't stop and declare what they're gonna do and ask if they're fine with it? Most couples don't do that either and do things organically, and eventually know each others to know not to ask. Unless it's rape kink porn, things go crescendo and there's plenty of time to stop things before it gets too hardcore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:25 PM
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Ain't you conflating TRP with something else? And I don't think you understand the concept of "lie". the severity of violence men commit is almost always greater. The severity of the verbal and social violence women commit to men is never explored, yet we know women's social power is far greater than men's and outweighs men's physical strength in most situations. The Red pill seems to forget that these children also have fathers as well. Who hadn't a say in if she should abort or not. So, from a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 11:31 AM
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forcing her head down until gagging, You'd be surprised how many women love to masturbate while doing rough blowjobs. Like there are girls more prude than others, but there is also porn more prude than other type of porn. People act like women don't like any of the more hardcore things, but plenty of women are into these things, just maybe not everyday and without any prep... Hearing "I wish my husband was more rough in bed" isn't so rare either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:30 AM
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How is porn spreading misconceptions over how women's bodies are "supposed to" look like? If anything you get closeups of vulva which is what women reproach men not to know about. Porn assured me I knew where the clitoris was lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:28 AM
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Wearing make-up in it self is already patriarcal. I love how makeup is 1) not for men, it's for women to feel beautiful about themselves 2) but it's still men's fault tho :''') It's pretty clear from your comments youve never read a feminist book. Why would people read garbage?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:25 AM
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The stories I heard that goes like "she was being harassed, he intervened, now he's seriously injured/dead" is pretty common. Empathy gap is a real thing, if someone is ready to do anything to a woman you can bet he could do 3 times worse to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:19 AM
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Ah someone finally pushing the limits of batshit opinions on this subreddit. I disagree profoundly with you, but I also welcome you for your creativity. Why do you think anything should change because a woman is mad? Women will always be mad. Part of maturing as a man, is accepting that regardless of what you do, a woman will be mad, and you have to ignore them. It's like when you remove the TV from a kid. They'll be mad, it's normal, but it's good for them that they cut down the screen time aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:16 AM
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Before I even watched porn ppl were obsessed with teaching boys to not take examples from porn, or from cartoons in a least measure... Never seen people tell their daughter not to take examples from friends and other medias. Except my sexual life been more or less like porn...? Like IDK what they thought sex wasn't going to be like porn. What do they do in porn: they have oral, they have PIV... Maybe porn gives the impression anal is easy and direct and frequent, and that group sex is frequent t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:11 AM
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20% of women being foreign and JBW isn't exactly the big dating pool boost you expect. Plus when they're unapologetically shallow they're also into tall guys and gym goers more. AKA if you struggle with white women you're not going to be the type JBW women go after.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:07 AM
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Why do you not gender your post? It's women, all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:05 AM
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Just make yourself some period tampon tea. Then when you finish it look at the bottom of the cup and BAM sinistros, you gonna die cause you drank fermented blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:04 AM
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Tell that to women here who get their ideas on male nature from reading the future in their period blood and from planet's positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:36 PM
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When some people have brand new ideas they're treated like utter incomprehensible autistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:34 PM
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Took you quite the time to reach the end of your teen crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:33 PM
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For once a french girl post there but damn, you do not paint a good light of us. You're a lesbian feminist separatist, why do you care about what men like in women? I thought mentalities had evolved Mentalities evolve, truths do not change. mostly incels and pickmes A 100% fit for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 11:22 PM
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Why change an evil I worked around all my life for an evil I have 0 experience with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:13 PM
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Yeah, I know her by now...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:50 PM
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Again, this conversation is pointless because you lack the desire or capabilities to understand the plethora of things women are held accountable for that you have never even encountered in life. Literally what I'm reproaching you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:38 PM
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Be more specific
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:37 PM
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he has to be respectful. The twist is that to them "respectful" in the mouth of a lot of women is not basic human respect it's "gives me everything I want while asking nothing back". Or they're just virtue signaling liars. Why would this girl say anything so that the other 3 moron will publicly roast her? I see you like to say "it proves" a lot when nothing ever proves anything with you...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:04 PM
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waves at the entire internet there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:00 PM
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Yet every other study seem to show women are held accountable for nothing and are considered victims by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:57 PM
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Men have historically been gifted authority, privilege and freed of accountability. Only the top men, with also their wives and kids. Every study ever points to female leads bring blamed for failures more then men Every study ever points to female rulers starting more bloodsheds. Women are actually accountable for the emotional states of fucking strangers in a way men never are. full blown speculative gatekeeping that is irrelevant to the point. It's fucking ironic they don't know what they don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:47 PM
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And we're supposed to understand from your comment that you're a real alpha and they're not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 09:30 PM
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Yeah man I'll stop here I'm going to get uncivil and ableist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:37 PM
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That is some very rigid conception of language, people don't use words to literally mean what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:30 PM
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Their price is too high for the actual value they have, this is what people mean when they say ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:58 PM
2

So if he leaves, the pregnancy stops? Spoiler: no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:01 PM
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If you wanna go that route: How difficult pregnancy is to her has nothing to do with him. Not his fault she's a mid genetically. He has gone through natural selection and she chose him. Now is her time to prove her worth, there's no reason he proves himself many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:54 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:48 AM
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Who stops women from approaching? Nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:46 AM
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Then the women has to go through unbalanced hell. He had to go through unbalanced hell before she picked him. He already paid the hard price. Why do you want him to pay a second time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:18 AM
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And from my experience you're just going to raise incels and femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:02 PM
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Why stick around to slave away helping the guy while he’s a “nobody”, just to risk being tossed away when he becomes successful for someone younger? Men here are saying that when engaging with a woman in your 30th that has a sexual past while you "focused" on your career, you're just getting into a relationship where you start off as the loser/the one being taken advantage of. You're comparing something happening to you, to a risk you might have. Also you talk like your future husband is going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:52 PM
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A lot of people do claim that it's because women are in insufficient numbers to have evolved competitors. But the real most plausible answer is women are poop.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:45 PM
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However, the thought has continued to rankle. Women are permitted to take part in men's chess tournaments, but men aren't allowed to take part in women's chess tournaments. Sport works like that too supposedly E-sport is also starting to make their female exclusive leagues after no woman succeeded in main leagues. I don't think the few amount of female competitor justifies why there are 0 female competitors that are capable to go high. Yes, female leagues are net privileges to women. Out of all …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:42 PM
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I've known a lot of scrawny men with abs. Unless they were handsome their scrawny abs wouldn't give them no bitch. They all got thicker as they grew older without having to lift their ass off. However bad diet and no activity would put them into the slimfat territory real quick. The point is it's easier to grow muscle past age 18-22 and then they tend to just keep getting bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:18 AM
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"the peak" isn't peak people, it's peak age for average people. We ain't discussing exceptions here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:58 AM
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If they're avg they have avg test.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:58 AM
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All I see is men who aren't genetically gifted all get more successful with women the day they pack on more muscle mass and have a full beard. Your tiktok steroid and filter pretty boys don't mean jack shit in this discussion. But yes, height.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:40 PM
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I can't guarantee your safety on that subreddit. Don't forget your tin foil hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:09 PM
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masculinity can come with younger age too Not the case for average men. It's like if I kept comparing women to angie varona who had big tits wide hips and adult face at 14. Makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:08 PM
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i also have a preference for ''clean'' or high class looks I could guess. There are two types of masculine beauty: handsomeness and masculinity. You're into the former. But typically women in their middle 20s evolve to be more tolerant or more into the later, as men in their dating pool lose some handsomeness and gain masculinity. I don't think cougars are more common now than before, I think it's less common, but more mediatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:02 PM
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No you didn't. Opinion discarded. Delete your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:53 PM
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That's the opinion of a 16 year old girl smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:52 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:47 PM
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I comparing peak to peak. When people talk of peak age attractiveness they don't mean peak men's attractiveness they mean average men in their peak age where they're the most attractive. You can just delete your post now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:58 PM
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21-25 is when you are most youthful looking, Plenty of white men still look juvenile at 25. athletic and lean. Lean, yes, athletic? No. Especially in term of pure muscle mass. women between the ages of 18-21 care very little about money or settling down. hormonal BC does in fact makes them care more about that and earlier. They would much rather fuck someone their own age, rather than a old guy just because he has money. They would much rather fuck someone with muscle mass, chest hair, facial ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:32 AM
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Yes I know you post because you're sick of men. I literally told you this is a "men bad" post and not a PPD worthy debate post. So you deserve a cheap jab at women as a comment. All is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:36 AM
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You got the amount of good faith and effort you deserved for that bad faith low effort post. Be accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:33 AM
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Because you think your fallacious "men bad" post is of any interest? I post to challenge the view of others, you're very obviously bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:23 AM
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I'm stubborn and unyielding however my wife has integrated the "mad man" strategy extremely well and is much more of a domestic terrorist than I am. So I proceed more indirectly, especially, non verbally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 08:01 AM
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People keep telling me I'm stupid for settling for a girl that acts like a brat. I just go for the evil I'm able to manage and that yields the best result. I made a post recently about how trying to solve conflicts with these girls doesn't work and you have to be pressuring things non verbally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:54 AM
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RP men don't typically say women should approach. It's a blue pilled male and feminist belief. RP men think women should be accountable for that part where they refuse to approach men though, and not try to interfere with men learning to approach women as that's their only option. Mothers literally teach their sons not to approach then teach their daughters not to approach as well. Make sense of that. Like, do you get it? The reason we don't ask men out is because we are sick of hearing you say …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:52 AM
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They do, and if you don't have any, they eat you alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 07:48 AM
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You get eaten alive and dominated, she eventually loses interest or she kills you...?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:00 AM
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such a relationship doesn't work if the guy has a more fem behavior and she has a more masc behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:45 PM
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I often tell men like you they're gay but it's just meaningless bullying. Reality is guys like you prefer masc girls probably because you expect masculine girls to be more relatable, have a more easy and ongoing libido, and be less of a headaches. It's a sexual strategy with arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:25 PM
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Younger guys are prettier to look at. Aren't you a lil bit pedo? I know no woman who thinks 16 year old men are more attractive than 20 year old men unless they're 12 year old themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:10 AM
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As best as we can gauge it with the limited information we have, modern philosophy is the paragon of speculation. Anything less than believing blindly in modern philosophy is simply not being stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:09 AM
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Where can you find the word "hooker" in my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:07 AM
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Tell me you didn't read my comment without telling me you didn't read
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:06 AM
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"helps" but you'll never know how sleep deprivation stress and burn out affects them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:05 AM
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Blocking you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:47 PM
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Not reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:42 PM
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Too pedantic, not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:29 PM
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Yes she was mean to me first. I Won't go into detail, but we had that kid with the promise she'd work the home and the new kid because I was already overworked with my job who pays most of the bills, and our first kid which I take primary care of. I also worked a hell lot during that pregnancy to amenage the home for the kid, and to protect my wife from 3 different deadly viruses. However, while my wife isn't a good example of someone who will push "we're a team", I talked of this only to show a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:06 PM
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How are highschool girls "forced" to go for the college men who have a car, a place, booze, and money, while they ignore the men their own age who look very juvenile and have none of this? Who forces them to go and fuck older men? Nowadays it's more a story of 17 year old girl with a 25 year old dude. But 50 years ago, 14 year old girls going out of their ways to fuck men in their late 20s was apparently not such a rarity, especially around military bases. You think this is some sort of injustic…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:54 PM
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Do you genuinely believe that? You're not just being edgy or flippant? You truly think that there's only 2 types of women in the entire world, abusers and girlbosses...no others? That's a strawman cimzim... It's a bit more complex than that. There are 2 big subgroup of women: The conformists, which don't like me because I'm not a conformist. The non conformists, which are high dominance people and will be likely to pull up this sort of abuse, even if it's slightly. The conformists are likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:47 PM
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1) Nope. 2) why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:16 PM
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Yes this is bad, by any modern philosophical considerations. No it isn't bad by "any" modern philosophical considerations. And modern philosophical considerations aren't the paragon of truth either. It's not about culture when someone judges you hashly from both "tradcath" and "feminist" culture when it's the most convenient to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:13 PM
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or someone has imposed that on you. Yes, the people who fallaciously use that to shut you down. Which are legion IRL, on reddit, and on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:07 PM
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Diagnosed OCD is uncommon. OCD tendencies that isn't so much dysfunctional isn't so uncommon. And it's just an example. Neuroticism also drives standards up. High disgust also drives standards up. Tendencies women have more commonly than men. not every low libido person needs to "feel wanted". Low libido people who don't need to feel wanted usually don't engage in romantic relationships. The example with the low libido girl is to show how couples pair and work despite being fundamentally incompa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:06 PM
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If your partner isn’t willing to compromise or shift things, then them saying “we are a team” as a way to shut that down isn’t the issue, their unwillingness to compromise is. In my experience, they do compromise, but they do put up a fight to try and dissuade you if you confront them. I'm advocating for not saying, and doing instead. Because their emotions can't handle conflicts very well and they understand active pressure more. Which is exactly why I am willing to pick up the slack (as I do) …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:59 AM
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Okay, but why not vet against both abusers and girlbosses/high maintenance women? It's one or the other there's no in-between. What makes you think there are people out there who are "perfect" and want me back? It's like if I told you I'll not settle down for less than a runway model while I am not one myself. Not only they're rare but I'm just not up to the ideal. A salad doesn't need to consent for me to eat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:57 AM
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you're not restricted to the rooms or dishes that you personally cleaned. You say that like it's contradicting me while it's agreeing with me...? Like for instance, my wife on said when she was on maternal leave, that she cleaned my dirty clothes out of kindness, I answered that I paid her part of her rent out of kindness too. And she and her sister both acted like I said something unforgivenable. That's not what is happening and also that's not what gaslighting is. I'm tired of discussing this,…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:55 AM
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It is insulting all right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:51 AM
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But the caveat here is that I wouldn’t marry a person who would do it. How would you know beforehand that they're likely to do this? You just can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:50 AM
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I'm here to debate not to be your search engine. Don't believe me without source? Fine, walk away, and never come to this subreddit again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:46 AM
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You haven't understood. The inconvenience is the unfairness, you're supposed to discuss it and compromise. That's how a "team" works ideally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:38 PM
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Well, when you treat someone wrong, or that someone feels like they're being treated wrongly, it is useful to be able to count points a little bit. Maybe you can open their eyes on something you've been doing that they do not realize takes efforts and time off their shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:36 PM
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Would it not be better to try and find a non abusive partner who doesn't gaslight you, rather than stay with them? Even if it takes time to find someone who isn't abusive for some reason, surely it's preferable than to keep being harmed. In my experience, both bosses and girlfriends who are less gaslighty are also more likely to be high maintenance, high standard, and highly more likely to "quit instead of fix". Which are greater evils in my book because vastly less predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:31 PM
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So what would you do if when you try to address it, you're told that you should be more "team oriented" and are implicitly told to not consider that you suffering is the team suffering?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:09 PM
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Seems like a shaming attempt. Opinion discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:08 PM
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Well that's why women expect leaders not tyrants. Leaders take decisions for them that they want being taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:07 PM
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So if your husband ever stopped to consider your happiness, you'd keep considering his happiness unconditionally without ever being critical?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:05 PM
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I don't get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:04 PM
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An example I get on reddit a lot is one I quoted in my post. People seem to consider that your money is her money because you're a team. But also that her chores are your chores because you're a team. If you ever say that "I pay 70% of the bills she should do 70% of the chores", then somehow you're told that you're petty and not team oriented, that a real team member pays 70% of the bills and do 50% of the chores. There's this latent idea that who ever earns more is just lucky and should feel li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:01 PM
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but it sounds like this would occur most frequently in a relationship where the woman has a fairly inflexible expectation of traditional male gender roles (even if she doesn't have them for herself) That's really All People Are Like That tbh. It seems unrealistic to me to tell yourself that you break it and try and find better. Especially considering that men don't all have all that much options. It's also an evil that you personally might be better at dealing with, so gambling and trying to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:49 PM
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"She wanted a cat and I didn't. We compromised and we now have 2 cats" :''') Don't DEER is dealing with that indirectly, that if you try to treat her like an equal you are automatically flagged as beneath.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:41 PM
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I'm glad we reached an understanding! The word gaslight itself wasn't central to my point anyway, it's only here to synthetize the idea. On wikipedia they decline it as a list of 6 concepts, it's pretty huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:34 PM
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The gaslight is when you don't allow your team members to question team decisions and repartions of tasks because to you that's against the idea of team and you shame them for it. A team has a leader. When you have to explain yourself perpetually to team members and they never do the same, you're beneath them and your boundaries are going to be challenged a lot more. RP people's opinion also is that if you ever find yourself treating your wife like she is a coworker on the same level as you, she…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:27 PM
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Sometimes one will take a point of lead on certain things and someone else on others. For the matter of this argument, imagine that the time spans are longer and things didn't balance themselves in the long run. Being critical and being in a team is not mutually exclusive. That's my point. My issue is with people who think it is mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:25 PM
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Is there a reason you find yourself surrounded by that sort of person? The reason being they're the majority of people. I've never had these issue with friend men because we all naturally keep our distances in a way that nobody can get their boundaries wrecked. When your relationship is by design putting you in a more vulnerable position, like for romance or for work, you will have to defend your boundaries against people who function on an emotional level. Besides, on top of the relationshops b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:22 PM
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This comment is much better at explaining what your topic is than your post lol. I'm frankly clueless as to why since I used the same words and gave analogies. However I don't see how this is gaslighting? Because that kind of emotional argument and blame shift is part of gaslighting definition, which I thought would be easier for people to understand. But otherwise, I would have called it "we are a team fallacy". trying to shame you into not asserting yourself. Which is gaslighting by definition…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:14 PM
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Some people aren't mature enough for that introspection and aren't worth dealing with. Most people* . Thus why at the end of my post, I and TRP, advocate for non verbal boundaries asserting. It's not gaslighting just someone being self centered and immature imo. The intent is maybe not gaslighting, the act is. Dont waste time with people who can't admit when they are wrong, and if you find yourself rarely realizing you've done wrong them work on that too. I personally would be very lonely if I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:07 PM
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On the contrary, gaslight is a vague term that consists of different variations of emotional arguments and logical fallacies. It is a person who when told that they didn't have consideration for you will tell you that you have no consideration for the ideal moral of your mentality. They want to act like you have no right to ever feel taken advantage of and should just give 100% to the relationship without questioning the other side's efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:57 PM
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I return to you the same question. Do you not know what partner means? Do you not realize you got task repartition discussions to have? Why do you think there should be an immediate breakup threat under any of these discussions? Why do you talk of "playing games"? What is "playing games"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:54 PM
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Except this isn't about experience. This is about someone thinking you shouldn't ever assert your boundaries or think of your relationship in any transactional or antagonistic way. When you are initially trying to discuss an unbalance you're hit with a moral concern, and how you're such a bad person for trying to establish boundaries, this is the gaslight.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:51 PM
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Shifting the blame is part of the concept of gaslighting. But I'm open to more accurate suggestions to describe that phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:50 PM
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The blame shifting is the gaslight. Trying to end the rational discussion with a call to moral is a fallacy. That's literally what I'm trying to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:39 PM
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You don't throw away an entire thing at the slightest inconvenience. Could you stay on topic and not try to apply yet another absolutist moral to dodge the discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:35 PM
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I mean I agree that you have to be compatible in what you consider baseline acceptability. As I said, being "too dumb or too deranged to realize your partner pulls their weight or that you have unrealistic standards on cleanliness" is not part of "compatibility" concerns. You'd not believe how many women have latent OCD that drives their standards. But since they're not the type to wash their hands 20 times in a row and verify that the door is locked 50 times in a row nobody will call them menta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:37 AM
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It's not made up bullshit in most cases but proven fact. The only thing proven is women report that they do more. That's why compatibility is so important. Can't be compatible with neurotic pathological victims. It's just never going to play in your favor when the person is hardcoded to feel like they've more on their shoulders. I won't date anyone who doesn't clean up after themselves (exceptions made when they're going through illness, et cetera). Most of the time people's girlfriend complain …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:36 PM
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Was he threatening suicide? What you're writing about is that he literally just suicided
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:32 PM
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I think people disproportionately think a woman who kills herself was calling for help, but a man who kills himself somehow is evil and "did this to others" and is "selfish".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:23 PM
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I mean, yes, men also don't have any empathy for other men and will consider male victims to be aggressors. You're right. No hope for men to have any empathy whatsoever, but it's not like men are the people we expect empathy from.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:10 PM
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So, literally not "seriously fucked up" at all. You're just a typical case of "woman angry at man for suiciding and having 0 empathy for him". I thought you were going to say that he made a dirty mess or something a lot more horrible than "he just killed himself without much of a blood drop". Nothing suggests he tried to punish her in any way. Another typical example that women don't love you and won't miss you. They're just bothered about the money and they'll make it about themselves, that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:04 PM
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You lost at "owning an xbox"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:01 PM
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Don't be gay and cover it with your skin care cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:00 PM
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It sure must kill the lust to perpetually make up bullshit about how you do more work than your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:58 PM
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I don’t get why y’all keep comparing the two. If you were a software engineer you'd know how women and recruiters are behaving the exact same way :p so kinda makes sense more people can find employment than two people agreeing to engage in consensual sexual activity. Casually showing me that my analogy is not only good but more optimistic than the reality of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:54 AM
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23% of men ain't fucking, that means the standard division of men above that are barely fucking. If I told you 23% of unemployment do you think the next 25% is having good work condition?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:54 PM
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It is easier to date 3 year younger, especially in between 18-35. You just appear more attractive to them. Now 10 years age gap is just about targeting a niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:06 PM
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As long as people who are cold, calculating automatons or unfeeling psychopaths win in society and in the wilderness, women will target for them. Men are allowed to have feelings tho, but they have to fit the strong male narrative. It's likely you've just talked too much on the internet of things you factually think are detrimental to you, and they conclude those are insecurities. People called me insecure for saying my height is obviously detrimental to my success, IRL nobody ever called me ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:39 AM
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some of them might have been overdramatizing details to make the story funny in the momen Which is what they also do when they talk of creeps who approach them. when it comes to meeting strangers so it's kind of an unavoidable and awkward part of the dating dance. I mean women's behavior when they ever do a step toward a man are always exactly what they complain stranger men to do. This whole "you're a creep if you're rejected" idea pushed by red pill and black pill is a lot truer than people mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:25 AM
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We are over crowded We're overcrowded on earth since we left the hunter gatherer phase. Society will still malfunction if it isn't at least replacing its population. So, population is an issue. I magi be thinking telling a woman she needs to pop out kids so someone’s papaw can have his ass wiped for minimum wage is convincing anyone. Yeah that's why society turns to taxing bachelors and opening borders for immigrants. resources are the levels of waste industrialized nations pump out we’re destro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:10 AM
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Creeps and assholes keep hitting on women because nobody gets a girlfriend without hitting on women. Everybody's "how we met" story is creepy to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:39 PM
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Send nudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:36 PM
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Because as far as societies concerned enough people do so there is no need for drastic intervention. Every 1st world country is having demographic issues, so you're wrong. Also the topic is "why women are picky and consider men useless". It's not "why society should care for sexless men".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:03 PM
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So? I find people are a bit disingenuous when we say "women prefer older men", 90% of couples have same age or older man, even if most of it is 2 years age gaps. The inverse is so rare that it's notable that women don't want younger men. And for incels I advice to try women 3 year younger than them as a result, as it'll facilitate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:11 PM
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In general people agree that men in their 30s are the best for stability. So there's an advantage in having an older man over a 22 year old one. However a 45 year old one over a 30 year old one, it's always going to be because the girl is specifically into it or because she is closer culturally to that generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:48 PM
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It's cucked a different way but the CS laws of america can be seriously absurd. Or we can think of canada that pursue sperm donors for CS....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:39 PM
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You do not order one through court. A judge decides if doing one is reasonable during the contestation procedure. Paternity tests are forbidden otherwise. And the whole bullshit about a woman imposing a baby on a man shows you are the hostile one that wants to further this wrong image of how the law here works. This is how the law works black on white. Any baby your wife produces is automatically yours even when she has cheated and that you're not having sex. Laws in france tend to protect women…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:02 AM
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They do what they can?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 11:01 AM
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Yes, that's the entire point of my original comment. Society visualizes men's labor to society to the point that men are devalorised as husbands and boyfriends. But it's a fallacious perspective, because men's contribution is virtualized, and men's contribution is willingly ignored. Even tho single mothers have shitload of welfare to support them in developed countries, being a single mother still is a terrible condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:56 AM
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It's so easy to declare men do less chores by defining chores as the things she does while omitting the things he does. A classic strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:53 AM
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you started with statistics and now you go with "what I'm seeing"? Because what I'm seeing is men do just as much chores and taking care of their kids while working longer hours (because full time doesn't mean equal time) and driving longer commutes. What I'm seeing is men still are repairmen for their home, their car, ect.... And even if it's another man who repair your cars women still generally understand they're going to get scammed if they go to the repairman themselves. Also im not saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:46 AM
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How does that make me ignorant? You're literally repeating what I said and what you denied a comment ago. You seem extremely confused and hostile. I suggest you just stop there. Paternity tests are outlaw because they infringe the bodily autonomy right of your kids. Only a judge is authorized to order one under certain conditions and at their good will. Being married makes you automatically recognize any kid your wife has and if you got suspicions you need to contest it after the fact. It's writ…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:30 AM
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Often times men pay more bills and have more working hour and commute time. Note that women do not do more chores and take more care of the family because they're asked to, but because they got higher standards for doing so and get frustrated that men do not impose themselves work they do not think exist. Which rejoin my argument that men do not need a lot to live, pairing with a woman imposes them higher standards of living that they do not necessarily care about for themselves. Which is why so…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:24 AM
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because unlike you I know it from experience, not from ‘what I’ve heard’. What do you mean "unlike you" I just told you I know it from experience and from reading the law. You can't possibly talk to me of shit if you start off by saying "paternity test is not outlawed" you are clearly ignorant and making everything up. And here is a quick google search for ya: Cas général. Dans un couple marié, la filiation paternelle s'établit automatiquement : le mari est présumé être le père de l'enfant. Son …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:18 AM
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Even tho most women recognize that in their own head they like to pretend that their love and companionship is worth more than the one men provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:13 AM
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Paternity tests are outlawed in France. Being married automatically claims the child. A judge can request that a paternity test is made depending on if they think it is necessary, and at the condition that you provide strong evidences that it is not yours, and in a timely manner (like less than a few months after birth). And from what I heard it's still a rarity and the actual laws over contesting paternity are full of constraints to the point it just makes it very difficult to contest paternity…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 10:09 AM
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I keep pushing that idea since two years that men's labor is mostly virtualized either by capitalism or by society itself. And people kept saying I am crazy. I'm glad it finally caught some traction. But it's not just that. In France, the virtualization of women's role is forbidden and it is protected. Prostitution is outlaw, surogate pregnancy is outlaw, paternity testing is outlaw, many laws reinforce that a woman can impose you their baby even if it's not yours... There's some virtualisation …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:33 AM
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A fat girl who does some effort will be dangerous to the slim women. Especially considering that the fat girl MIGHT have some advantage the the slim ones do not. When you look at porn from 30/50/idk years ago, the girls who would have been fat nowadays have godlike bodies. I'd not say that the gap is big enough that the 2 were 2 different markets, being in favor of body positivity secures it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:23 AM
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People all make compromises on what they're attracted. If you're picky to the point that it is detrimental to your life, you have a problem, not others, you. And if women as a whole stay picky and don't want to contribute to society, then maybe society will adjust in a way women don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:13 AM
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People talk in absolute but don't necessarily behave in absolute. I'm not sure why people nitpick this obvious shortcut people make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:06 AM
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I'm interested to see your profile vs the profiles that ghost you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:04 AM
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Just because I'll walk down the street obsessed with buying the fattest pizza and eating it whole doesn't mean I put pizza on a pedestal nor that I'm putting myself beneath it. I'd be beneath the pizza if I went out of my way to buy the shittiest pizza, paid its weight in gold, and then didn't eat it because I respect it too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:02 AM
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What do men have to gain from giving everything and receiving nothing back?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:21 PM
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People made up alpha and beta because it was stupid to say beta men are feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:15 AM
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That's literally what I said if you could read.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:52 AM
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The core presuppositions of feminism is that women are oppressed and men are privileged and that we live in a patriarchy that favors men over women. Imagine thinking that the system that is responsible for sending men to war and protecting women is oppressing women and privileging men. Only a misandrist would think this way. Every precept of feminism is all about blaming men and portraying women as victims. That is by definition man-hatey.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:52 AM
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Why even search anywhere, feminism is by its core definition man hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:13 PM
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It just seems controversial to you, because you literally don't understand the language, in your perpetual haze of misinformed outrage. But all they're saying is that bio sex as a concept is defined based on certain biological realities, which is absolutely true. At this point I'm not even sure you've read me so you can keep your condescending answer for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:49 PM
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Maybe if you did your kegels they'd not ask for head as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:21 PM
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and for whom it is very benefitial if their gender is treated as their defining feature instead of their sex. Hopefully they're smart and reasonable enough to understand they, and the concept of social gender, are not concerned when the context is reproduction. Just like underage, old, or infertile women understand they're not "not women" because they do not fit in the usage of women in this sentence. Same thing for the controversies of trans in sport, or cis exclusive heteros/gays. Because a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:07 PM
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The very basics you and the entire trans community are ignoring, is that the sentence "women can bare children, men cannot" talks of sex, not gender. It always had been this way. It's only a recent cringe and fringe fashion to consider that "women" and "men" no longer refer to sex even tho the context informs you that it refers to sex. You'd assume that people would be reasonable and understand that when it's question of procreation then we're talking of biological sex and not social gender, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:17 PM
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What makes people with obsessions bad? Why should they be content with what they have? Why shouldn't they work to have more?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:54 PM
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Dude, you’re only happy because you got what you want. people were telling you to learn how to be content with yourself instead of obsessing over what you don’t have. But being "'obsessing" was what made me get it.... Let people obsess a lil bit, that's how they improve. Be worried if all they do is complain and they do nothing for years. Out of all the ppl I've known, those who never improved were those who never complained. What makes you think you’re any different? The fact the 2nd girl I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:52 PM
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I just want people to stop saying "quit without trying".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:39 PM
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Even in those periods I was never under the delusion that a girl would solve my problems. Well I think it's pretty straightforward that if your problem is dry spell then a woman who is sexually available would help it..... I just don't think your definition of "rebelling" is the same as mine. You shouldn't be satisfied of a dry spell just because other people told you you should. It was never tolerable for me to be sexless even tho a lot of people thought I deserved to stay sexless until I was f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:37 PM
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Lmao literally only the missionary picture portraits it being useful. And personally it's never worked for us. Might be a question of dick and vagina shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:26 PM
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how a fair marriage looks like is such a foreign or abstract concept for people? Because I know people's concept of a "fair marriage" isn't fair. It’s common sense that wanting a woman to obey you and your kids seeing that shit is unhealthy. It's also common sense that a dad that is disrespected by his wife is unhealthy. It's also common sense women talking of their problems on the internet is very biased. It's also common sense we don't have the entire context and we can't tell how bad their re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:22 PM
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Well similarly my boss will say I hurt the society by demanding a raise. And I'm going to ignore that fat fucking fallacy. Life is a zero sum. I'm sure these men are demanding too much for their own pay grade, but it's generally stupid to quit when you're underpaid without even asking for a raise first. and giving his kids a shit example on how a man acts. yes, because you know exactly how a man should act, how fair marriages are, and what's a good example to give. Like, I'm sure I'd agree if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:13 PM
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It's the same, the summary of the issue is: he's not satisfied with what he has, he wants more or he wants nothing. Why should it be a concern to him that he's going to destroy something he wants to be gone? He can only get what he wants or what he wants... Out of topic, but somehow I bet you'd not advocate for women to stick with their husband who cheat when they're on business trips. Even if that puts them to poverty and through single motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:06 PM
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Lysa talks of a general trend not necessarily of that post only, which I'm not going to bother reading. I'm addressing the general idea of "why should they care about destroying it". This idea that you shouldn't wnt to destroy something you're not satisfied at is the mental gymnastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:02 PM
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but you're an exception. No I'm not. Most men work like I do. And the incels online who found a gf became happy with it. It would be an extremely dysfunctional relationship and likely make them worse off than had they stayed single. You just don't sound like you get men. It's normal for men to be extremely frustrated, men are supposed to rebel and to change the world as they see fit. It's actually healthy for a young man to not be satisfied with their condition, it's what pushes them forward. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 01:00 PM
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Ok now you forget I'm red pilled and what other red pilled people said and you address my argument directly and not some hypothetical argument I made in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:57 PM
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Men give female stars and celebrities mid ratings because they can go for a walk and see better looking women at high enough rate. Female stars are essentially glorified 6/10. Here is why: Actually attractive women don't need to work, they get money out of doing next to nothing. You need to be a workaholic sociopath to win these social competitions to become a star, which is a masculine trait, and masculinity usually makes women less attractive to men. Feminine women actually don't partake in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:46 PM
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The red pill is realizing that nobody is with their first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:33 PM
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Maybe they're at a point where they're so unsatisfied with their marriage that both positive or negative outcome are a progress. It's like me right now at my job going to ask for a big raise, it either work and I get money or it doesn't and I'm out of this crap job. While people keep advising me to directly leave while attempting nothing to fix it. And similarly I'm not sure why you decide for them that destroying their marriage isn't an outcome they want. It seems like you care more about what …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:29 PM
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Feminism is victim Olympics, it started there, men doing it is a counter reaction to it. Women's issues are mostly unsolvable right now besides waiting that older generations are replaced and stopping immigration. But feminists are also against stopping immigration and they want active action being taken to help. The idea is still pushed around that women have less rights than men but they have more rights all in all. Feminism still conflates "less rights" with "being treated different socially"…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:00 PM
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He has strength? Andrew Tate is a traditional man He is??? Andrew tate himself is nothing like andrew tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:55 AM
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Secondly, no self-respecting trans-issue debater would retreat into any sort of motte after the response that person B gave. Just say "But women can bare children, men cannot" on any trans positive sub and see how long you stay unbanned
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:53 AM
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^ sounds like an anecdotal evidence :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:51 AM
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It's just their bodies tricking them into thinking it's the most important thing in the world. Yeah that's exactly the principle behind happiness and incentives. People thought too I was putting more weight into sex and relationships and should "learn" to be good with myself before finding someone. No, all I needed was someone, and it made me happy. No bullshit no extra step. Just talked to girls, became good at flirting those who would like me back, found someone, and got happy. It's that fucki…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:47 AM
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Yeah, people should always just listen to you about what should make them happy, and not listen to what actually makes them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:21 PM
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Oh yeah they loved to wave around ada lovelace everywhere at my software engineering school. Now explain to me how that's going to help with every promotion of that engineer school being 90% male who wanted to be there and 10% women who didn't really want to be there. The school even openly admitted being extra lenient on women to have more of them. Now that's a lot of words to say "exceptions aren't arguments". Exceptions don't contradict general tendencies. And that's just one field, one well …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:30 AM
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This argument is so stupid. I'm glad you realize that it is stupid because that's exactly how stupid it sounds to believe "it's just as bad". then YES, the wife is also suffering the loss of that money and time from her own family with the husband. It's stupid to think CS is as bad as being forced to raise a baby. Her kids will grow up knowing dad couldn’t keep his dick in his pants. But knowing mom couldn't keep her legs closed isn't as bad somehow? Yall are just biased, I'm not even reading an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 08:21 AM
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When the man cheats and have another woman pregnant, is she forced to raise that kid when it's birthed, or pay CS for it if she separates?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:45 PM
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women work in tech As managers, hr, or whatever that doesn't do actual tech* electricity, construction Nah. the food industry You mean the cashier? So it’s not like those systems are exclusively staffed by men. The core materialistic aspect of society is mostly all men. The social and people aspect of society is mostly women. It fluctuates depending on the country but generally it stays generally true. Now the point I am usually making when I said my former comment, is that men's labor is virtua…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:09 PM
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You sound like you're the one taking things personally when you need to attack my person and not my point on a debate sub. I was genuinely curious why you'd get stuck on such an insignificant trait. But the evidences keep stacking that you're not the kind of person who should come on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:05 PM
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Why the personal attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:53 PM
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You'll have to show me an example of hobbit feet according to you then because I suspect you're imagining something a lot worse than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:34 PM
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I'm stuck in the hunter gatherer era my bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:33 PM
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There are people who are happy with their life and just like to have an amoral space to discuss controversial topics they couldn't discuss elsewhere. But they're a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:41 AM
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As long as they can live off men's labor and have food, electricity, shelter, internet, tech, warmth, clothes, without having to suck a dick they couldn't care less
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:16 AM
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If you're into men you should be somewhat into the things that make men different from women even if the trait is exaggerated. You like when they're very tall? You should at the very least tolerate hobbit feet...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:10 AM
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We can't, we're on PPD, we're all just armchair psychologists. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:07 AM
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me: "water is wet" you: BIG AFFUMPFION VHERE
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:06 AM
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I see comments about how they "weren't jocks" or "got average grades". It's a lot of "I didn't stand out", "I am average at best". So, they felt personal responsibility? The thing I believe they all have in common though is the lack of facing challenges or adversity in their youth. Yeah I happen to think the same of women, they don't face challenges of having to find food, to build a roof, to make fire, ect... Having all that provided by men they're never going to ever encounter and be good deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:54 AM
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Damn who could have ever expected men had bigger and hairier feet than women? I guess nobody could have foreseen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:46 AM
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got zero hints of any form of paternal instinct. I mean yeah it's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:46 AM
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She has PCOS and that doctor is dumb as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:45 AM
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She's not worried to not be worth it she's worried he's not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:42 AM
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"some" being 80% of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:41 AM
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At 18 I learned to lie about my virginity because it was already a source of rejection. 18 year old, 1 year later than the average. No, women definitively aren't looking for reasonable redflags.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:45 PM
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No. We're not "very soon" anywhere close to any of this. If pets was all that's needed, then men would get pets. Sincerely, an AI enjoyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:36 PM
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I was originally answering to a woman who claims she couldn't date losers with no hobbies. While she's probably a hardcore screen addict who talks shit over other screen addicts. I'm glad we came to an agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:31 PM
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What you refuse to believe is that men do understand it and will tell you that's the basic life of an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:26 PM
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There are millions of young women who talk shit about men not having hobbies while theirs is scrolling through tiktok, I don't really care it was a memy answer. Video games are better than other types of screen time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:25 PM
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Ask that to the person above me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:23 PM
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Frankly yes, you are more credible by OP for being afghan but not by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:54 PM
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I mean if you listened to the Le Pen family of france you'd think everything is stranger's fault. So it's not silly, at best you've seen nothing, at worst you've seen nitpicked things. Again, I'm just here to say, you could have omitted that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:48 PM
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I don't think you are lying, I think you are more likely to be blind or biased. I just think precising you're from a political family is working against your credibility and you should just have stopped with your nationality. Yes OP is likely full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:43 PM
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My point is that people (like OP) will always try to use women’s reproductive capacity as a cudgel to justify controlling them or attempting to take away rights. A taxe isn't an attempt to control people or take away their rights. But you can argue that adding more sexism isn't going to fix sexism. Eugenics have plenty if not only counter arguments. That society needs kids and isn't healthy without replacing its population is a commonly accepted fact. You can't compare the two. Sometimes it’ll b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:40 PM
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I wouldn't listen to some upper class person about the state of the lower or middle class in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:35 PM
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1) People don't usually hold both opinion, people who say "people are supposed to contribute by having kids" and aren't shitting women who have kids. This is, as you noticed, a big contradiction. 2) Usually people shit on single mothers, which is I think maybe what you were referred to. And I'd say it's possible to think you're supposed to contribute kids to society and to do it well, it won't be a case of "damned if you do damned if you don't" but rather "damned if you don't or if you do it bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:15 PM
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I know. It's you who didn't get my point it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:08 PM
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Yeah he forgot about animes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:04 PM
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Playing video games makes one very likely to be half decent at computer science and engineering in general, which happen to be moneymaking jobs. Weird how solving problems as a hobby makes you good at solving problems. Some competitive online games even teach you about typical coworker issues faster than anything could. Meme answer: Ranting about women stimulates your critical thinking which are also good for an engineer. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:03 PM
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Nobody wins m8. You just get more on your shoulders. Somehow you thought women were exempted from this principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:02 PM
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It does unfortunately for your gatekeepy self. Hell they likely got their jobs due to being good at screen staring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:06 PM
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The women in military aren't doing low grade soldier work (or not commonly ), but rather are engineers or are doing intellectual/administrative work. The shift away from a manufacturing economy means that men need to develop skills rather then rely on their intrinsic strength. Do you think military, firemen, and construction workers aren't skilled? The problem isn't that women can't do these jobs due to lesser physical strength, but rather that they just do not want to do it, period. Men run mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:55 AM
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He probably has hobbies, you just don't think they're legit or sexy hobbies. Never seen a dude who hasn't hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:49 AM
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and a person from an influential political family This post is BS, but that does make your opinion less trustworthy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:48 AM
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If you agree, then I don't see what's your claim even. Most men know what it feels like to be invisible since they've been invisible all their life, even been considered nuisible most of the time. Most men can relate to having been bullied and rejected harshly. And bellow average men are getting it worse than you could possibly imagine. probably closer to 50-60% would be considered sexually non-viable by males. Because you think they'd be sexually available if men wanted them? No. This is wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:43 AM
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You can have kids without marrying btw. We're discussing in this post how society doesn't put the right incentives on people. On one hand, society can put more incentives on women to reproduce, and the other can put more incentives on men to marry. Now you can decide to do it with a reward or with a penality. You can perfectly imagine creating a bachelorette taxe while making marriage more attractive to men. I don't think the lower reproduction rate is due to lack of marriage though. But rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:37 AM
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People blame others for contributing poorly to society, and blame those who contribute nothing. It makes perfect sense. though you don't often see a person having both opinions together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:29 AM
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Any option women have makes them delusional because they're not real options. Everything about women's perception of their social success is heavily delayed. What men want is usually immediately a success or a failure. Women's incentives are long term. What's funny is while options are this way, SMV is the opposite, it's immediately easy to tell a woman's SMV, a man's SMV is vague and fluctuates hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:25 AM
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Too late for debating. Go away of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:21 AM
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ie. sexual invisibility. I have never been complimented, kissed, asked on a date, cat-called or wolf-whistled. AKA the life of an average man. I've known girls who looked like what you described. First of all this isn't average, this is way bellow average. Then, men would still line up for them if they're socially and sexually available. It's like for male incels, they struggle when they suck socially or are picky. Even if all what you said was true, you're talking like men only consider the top…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:19 AM
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Troll. Downvoter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 11:14 AM
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Literally read your own comment. Downvoting is forbidden btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:59 AM
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You're obsessed with strawmaning the people you don't agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:58 AM
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It's a constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:55 AM
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And one form of social proof that you are capable to get or keep a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:58 AM
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It's amazing how many can't understand the actual issue they're being criticized for. I get that it's annoying when ppl are very vulgar and negative for no reason, but the opposite where women tend to sugar coat everything is just as annoying. And while a lot of PPD women here are reasonable, IRL not even "I prefer fit women" would be accepted, men's preferences are looked as men being choosing beggars, suggesting anything makes women uglier and less desirable can quickly make you a misogynist t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:54 AM
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I'm not neurotypical and I'm not attractive. Ppl always called me autistic. Low inhibition changed everything. In term of pure friendship and social, letting myself out made a lot of people hate me but also some people to like me, while before, nobody hated me, nobody liked me. You can't bypass it, you have to abide to masculine gender roles as a man, there's no exception, and autism in men is still considered in the acceptable range of masculinity regardless of how shit people talk of it. Now e…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:03 AM
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You guys get feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:59 AM
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Blue pilled mothers put stranger women above their son's well being and survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:00 AM
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Most average guys are not insecure but are aware their physic isn't cutting it to anyone. And women think that is insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:02 PM
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People seem very confused about how "the west" isn't just the USA too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:56 AM
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Haha yes I like the "are you fucking stupid" proving they're so stupid they couldn't tell there was something else before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:26 AM
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without the creature comforts and protection of society. See that is something interesting. I haven't interested myself in MGTOW but I was always wondering if it meant just from women (which for most men feels like is the basis) or from society as a whole. It makes more sense to think this is about society. And funnily, in my analysis I've found that trying to separate from society was one of the tools that men used to have to punish society for its lack of sexual and familial opportunities. I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 08:09 AM
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Sadly a lot of people here can't even tell or have moral hangups about seeing reality for what it is :| first of all they're even having a hard time just grasping that what's masc or fem are just an heuristic and not a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:32 PM
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I needed 0 self improvement of this sort to go from permanently rejected 18 year old to being successful at 19. It was all behavioral changes that are most commonly talked of on TRP (except it likely didn't exist at the time) and are heavily discredited by blue pilled people/feminists/ect... The improvement in behavior was mostly to be very assertive and to be disinhibited sexually, AKA actively pursuing women and being explicitly horny and sexual. Assuming entirely the stereotype of the young m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:26 PM
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Just ask yourself why would you ask your friends to validate your existence as a desirable woman, you ask that to your bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:52 PM
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Alimony is not a punishment for making her stay home, it's the allotted portion of the money the family made with their homemaker/breadwinner division of labour. You know what, let's make the same things about jobs. When you leave your job, the boss keeps paying you. Seems fair since it's the allotted portion of the money the company made with him working.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:50 PM
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There are many reasons to legitimately divorce, but many reasons that aren't if that puts you into poverty. Whatever I don't wanna play the blame game Except when the woman has no money, we blame him, amaright? Bias again. Everyone has to keep their own financial independence, with half of all marriages failing, it's just too unsure a bet. That's already what women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:57 PM
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So now you gotta send the money AND she's around, that makes it worse, not better. We're trying to give the husband something in return for his money, not add extra burdens. Nono, we trying to not send shit to the ex wife. The whole "she should come back to clean the house and suck his dick" is to show how ridiculous alimony is. Because a wife's job includes things you cannot demand of en employee. Marriage is a contract, my dude. You cannot demand duty sex in marriage, but you can divorce for l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:09 AM
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Someone claiming someone is shitty doesn't mean they're actually that shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:19 AM
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you don't want the ex wife to keep basically living in the house. Yeah, you also don't want to send in any money to your ex wife. And "wife" isn't really a job like other jobs are, or at least it shouldn't be. Why not? In some countries you can give a salary to your wife, so that she can pay taxes and have all the social benefits she needs, including retirement. The sooner this gets recognized as something more legitimate the better for everyone. What the man suddenly lacks after the divorce IS …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:17 AM
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That's exactly why manosphere jokingly says she should come once in a while clean his home and suck his dick, it's just stupidly unfair from a labor standpoint that you provide for your wife who provides femininity, companionship, sex, housechores ect... and then you should keep providing for her despite she provides nothing to you anymore. Now the problem is she hasn't developed a career and can't get a living life right off the bat after leaving her husband. But is it the husband's fault? Isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:55 AM
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ranges 16 to 25
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:00 AM
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It really seems to me that the conflict here is men who perceive that dynamic as one they only want to have with a romantic partner; so when they are encounter fairly typical dynamics of how women sustain friendships, they see it as being “used for emotional labour.” Hard disagree. Women don't shit test or comfort test their female friends. They do vent a lot, yes, but not the same type. Have you even read my comment? You guys sound like you are obsessed with your self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:59 AM
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Our type of venting is more the form of just criticizing things, like the job, the news... IDK... Never personal things. And when it's personal things, we just stay rather informative and the amount of venting and supporting are few words at best. If they're like me, we just don't feel the need to. It's not like we'd talk to each others to vent that we feel ugly and undesirable which is the kind of things gfs and women who friendzone you do frequently. Even if my friend called me to tell me his …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:55 AM
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No she doesn't, even her sister. Only me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:52 AM
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Basically she vents and you lift her mood up. But the nature of the vents is more bf/gf dynamic than friend dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:28 PM
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I mean, they don't do that in my social spheres. My wife has a friend who does it a lot when they see each others, but it's one sided my wife doesn't vent back, and they don't call each others. Imagine this everyday but more in the shape of a gf comfort and shit testing her bf, except it's to a friend. Women do not comfort/shit test each others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:26 PM
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What makes it a bf/gf dynamic for a man? Emotional labor, comfort tests, shit tests. The "am I ugly" kind of things, having to compliment and reassure her daily. Stuff like that. Not the kind of things you have with friends. ANd it's obviously one sided because most friendzoned men do not need this type of emotional labor. But this could be just culture bubbles too. People don't vent and use friends for emotional support all that much, especially not men to their friends. Especially even less fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:17 PM
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Male friends don't typically exchange emotional labor and attention. Not daily for hours at least. While I know some male friends do so more than others, it's always a lot lot lot lot less, and not of the same nature as the kind you give to your partner. While friendzone is the kind you give to your partner. And when there's emotional labor going one way it also means it can go the other way. In the case of a friendzone it generally never goes the other way, it's just plain "I pay your attention…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:09 PM
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how did it happen Trying to be friend as "first step", generally asexual inhibited approach to not "scare" them away. Why did you stay Belief that it'd lead to something and that it's just normal to maintain a friendship. But since a friendzone is established under the premise that you sell your emotional labor and attention for nothing, it becomes draining long term. Did you ask her out or express your romantic interest and she rejected? Some didn't even bother to address it and acted like noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:05 PM
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You do every nitpicky fallacy you can to avoid addressing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:06 PM
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Masculinity isn't any of my argument. So what is left? Did you learn anything about their perspective from my comment or are you going to nitpick everything so you don't have to listen to other's perspective, and push your perspective as theirs instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:00 PM
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Which logical fallacy is it that I am breaching here? Please do inform me. You're pushing that you know what their sexual or relational preference stems from while admitting you can't cognitively understand nor empathetically relate to them. What? "I'm not saying that TO personally attack you"* mb mb
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:54 PM
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Your perspective is a fallacy. Even if it was an insecurity, masculinity includes the insecurities men have. And this isn't an insecurity because it doesn't stem from fear of failure, but rather stems from disgust. The point isn't to insist on masculinity anyway, the point is you're clearly an eccentric individual if you're a man and can't empathize at all. I'm not the kind to care about N count but at least I can understand. I'm not saying that you personally attack you, but to say that this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:47 PM
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I don't find a girl with limited sexual experience desirable. I don't want to have to walk a girl through every aspect of a sexual encounter. In fact, it makes me uncomfortable to have to impart knowledge. That makes you unmasculine. Most men are masculine and are ok with all these. We can't really help you empathize with that. What pushes masculine men away from high N count women is the idea of other men and of tarnished femininity in this woman. It is highly debatable that her femininity can …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:38 PM
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Well maybe assertiveness isn't the right word then? But the keyword here is SHOWING, you can show a confident and forceful personality, without being confident. The point is this idea of confidence isn't all that important, the point is you should try and take what you want without rejecting yourself pre-emptively, it doesn't matter if you think you deserve it or if you think your chances of getting it are high. Confidence by itself wont translate into actions, and actions are what matter for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:16 PM
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You know there are plenty of people who are born ugly and didn't ask for it. Some people don't get fat, they're more attractive than people who are fat, there's nothing to do about it. Slim people have the genetics that makes them more adjusted to modern life with abundant food.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:18 PM
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What do you mean by discriminating? You mean not befriending, fucking, dating, and marrying them? Or you mean, not hiring them at your workplace? In the first case, that ain't discrimination pal. You can perfectly never date, fuck and marry some people based on any reason and it won't be discrimination. What you're talking about is probably social equity, and social equity is not only massive bullshit that is unrealizable, but also this isn't the theme of this subreddit. And I'm a 5'5 man that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:12 PM
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Depends if she says it to a friend as some compliment or to someone she actively wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:07 PM
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Confidence is a state of mind. Assertiveness is actions. A state of mind doesn't bring results, actions do. I am a fairly insecure and negative person but I managed to make it work because my actions follow my horniness and attraction. This idea that your success is tied to how positively you perceive yourself is a very feminized idea, men can dissociate their negative thoughts from their actions. And that's where bluepill comes from and why it fails, giving advice to men that work for women. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:23 AM
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A lot of advices overlap, but "confidence" is rather a blue pilled term, "assertiveness" is the red pill equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:19 AM
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nooooo really =_=
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:18 AM
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you're just butthurt dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:26 PM
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Oh look, a butthurt one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:24 PM
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Paul Dano He's ugly masculine. Looks soft, yes, not feminine tho. Michael Cera Wouldn't call him feminine, he's just not handsome, but he plays losers in movies, should be a hint to you. Pete Davidson Literally chad's jaw, big triangular nose, centered eyes, flat forehead, bumpy eyebrows. Are you insinuating his lips are feminine? They're unshapely and ugly, not feminine though. MGK High feminine cheekbones yes, but that's the only thing. The rest is just masculine and handsome. His eyes are mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:23 PM
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That's because they're asians. You need to compare them to the population they're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:00 AM
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Guys in BTS are masculine (comparatively to other korean guys) but presented as feminine and groomed. They're tall, they're handsome, they've good body types, and most importantly, they're rich famous and attract girls 5 year younger than them......
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:41 AM
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Can you show me an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:38 AM
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"other times" which you didn't describe nor speculate about, besides suggesting their SMP is the same as ours nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:23 AM
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yes, we can't know how it affected women and the SMP. But if you don't want to speculate, then why even participate in the thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:19 AM
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So you understand it isn't just "accepted", the SMP landscape was wildly different, and your answer was missing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:12 AM
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I think what's suggested is not just "accepted" but also bisexuality being a lot more common
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:07 AM
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Right, this dude is probably imagining justin bieber when he says feminine, forgetting justin bieber has a 3km long jaw like no woman ever has. He's conflating handsomeness for femininity. Men who either lack masculinity are bullied by others. Men who have femininity are considered gay and very often are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 07:53 AM
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Men's success with other men is also a big reflection of their success in the SMP. The kid who is bullied is never doing well in the SMP, but the bully usually is doing well. The girl who gets kicked out of female social groups and gets bullied is doing very well in the SMP comparatively. It's just hard for women to get their own value because it either isn't visible or its actual value is displayed in heavily delayed ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:23 PM
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are also shit at raking photos for tinder No it's rather women have developed a culture of lying in the pictures they take, and set it as standard. Women have a problem of needing things to be sugar coated as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:20 PM
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I think your experience of RP and Black pill community is a self fulfilling prophecies where you read something, decide it means a lot worse to validate your original thought, and conclude it's biased. using and objectifying women You can't "spin plate" with objects. So that piece is a fallacy. but the idea of keeping multiple on a leash is pure manipulation. What about the idea of giving them what they want so they give you what you want? Why does trading things with others is automatically con…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:17 PM
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You got some nuggets of truth but you are still biased by your hate. Most of mgtow aren't incels. Most of incels despise and disagree with PUA. Terrorists were very mentally ill and off their meds. Whatever flag they give themselves isn't what made them be terrorists. Especially don't forget that somehow they only seem to exist in america. Guilt by association my ass, this is a fallacy from the opposite side to flag any male community they dislike as hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 10:06 PM
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People have been making a big deal over height the past few years with terms like “short king” being thrown around. I'm a 34 year old 5'5 man. 20 years ago it was already a big deal. No I don't think people are malleable when it comes to attraction. Women will not want to be seen as “that girl” going for and dating only tall guys. Plenty of social pressure have been around since the beginnings of times and it has never stopped men and women to go for what they're sexually attracted to, and it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 09:55 PM
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Oh I thought it was "get" women as in understand them but you mean "get" women as sleep with them. Hard to tell but you see it in a split second. It's a general "no good perk" idea from body and attitude. Someone is either a smart one or a natural one and some men immediately look like they're neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:09 AM
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The people who call it submission are either masculinists who idealize a role model where they lead but that is a foolish ideal, men using it wrongly just to mean tradcon, or women who want to tarnish the idea of female gender roles, which is also fallacious. What do you want me to say tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:53 PM
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In the grand scheme of things why would a TRP man be excited to be submissive when they believe they have to lead? This is a poor gotcha. If you want to poke hole in an asymmetric logic you need to make it just as much asymmetric. Yes I think the word is used with a heavy deprecative load. Just like how women love to label our sexuality as predatory or that we're attracted to neotenous features. SO I'd rather instead say it's a woman who likes to stick to gender roles, I don't believe there are …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:47 PM
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I don't like it being referred to as submissive too. But your attempt of a gotcha is stupid. It's like you're comparing men simping for a hot girl's nudes and men simping for their friend groups for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:38 PM
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Nothing. Couldn't have had a girlfriend without TRP beliefs and switch in behaviors. TRP still helps in maintaining that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:32 PM
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Last time I checked I saw women using it as a deprecative thing. "I'll never be submissive" and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:30 PM
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Diplomas don't certify anything because there are no standardizations. You told me guys are desperate for a guy who knows the basics of coding. A CS master degree should be a hint. Do you not return after conditions? Sure, it's nitpicky but you're competing against lots of other applicants. I think it's just a lot easier to follow code if you make it clean. The consensus is that multiple return points in a function is generally bad, it is what's considered CLEAN. I can argue about that, but I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:58 PM
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Leetcode is just the cheapest/fastest way to vet someone. Yeah that's why let's not give them the tools to cheaply vet people based on some nonsense...? I prefer codingame anyway. Some people can't code their way out of a paper bag because this field doesn't require any professional certification like other engineering fields. This is how every recruiter talks. But every interviews I've had it was clear to them I was competent and passionate and it's not where it was an issue. They figured I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:19 PM
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I'm not at a point where leetcode and behavioral interview skills matter. I'm at a point where I see there's just no difference between job offers on linkedin and job offer in the wilderness, as they both tend to have the exact same flaws. See, you thinking you need a leetcode is exactly why this field is rotten. No other field needs a fucking github or leetcode. You proved my point. Extremely picky field. I remember for an interview I was asked how many months I have worked on NodeJS. I'm a fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:52 AM
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What makes you think reality is not the same? I also see no difference between linkedin and IRL. I'm software engineer, I get 3 messages a day from recruiters, and past that step it's the same as finding a job IRL: extremely picky recruiters with insane demands and low pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:07 AM
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Lmao nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:00 PM
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Nah I think it's fairly balanced, it just takes different language to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:59 PM
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CMV: you take things too literally TRP isn't actually trying to describe something black and white and anybody who agrees with TRP will tell you that it depends of many things and isn't instant nor devoid of exceptions. You also need to understand that TRP is also a motivational echo chamber so it may exaggerate things, any motivational echo chamber works this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:37 PM
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normal people who are content with their life don't come here to hangout. I'm normal people who is content with his life and come here to hangout because this is a topic I like to debate. I struggled quite a lot as a teen, and that mostly due to an hardcore blue pill education. Most of what I did to become normal again fits TRP's descriptions. So I think my input can be interesting to other men who have been raised by angry single mothers. The problem is that there aren't a lot of normal people …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:36 PM
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Sure on apps that may be the case, so don't just use apps if you're a man. What makes you think real life doesn't work the same? You probably believe apps sucks because the userbase is 80% men. You probably also agree that men demand sex more IRL than women. Then why do you think it's not the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:19 PM
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So why are you saying it's unfair if there's payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:10 PM
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Yes. If she selects you then you're worth all the pregnancy efforts she's going to pull, you paid that price already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:36 PM
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No it should be more like you should seek a woman who enjoys working less to work more at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:18 PM
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Is she splitting life expectancy equally? Nah. So that good old "but pregnancy is unfair" argument is quite old and useless. Also it's pretty funny women select men harshly because pregnancy is unfair, and then pull the argument pregnancy is unfair again. It's like having to pay twice for the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:15 PM
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Eh it's hard to know if they're going to be. Wife and I worked a long decade before we reached a balance, however working a job and a home with kids is just not ideal even in an ideal balance of chore split.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:14 PM
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You never know indeed how people will be, but it's like childs. you got higher chances of someone wanting kids later in life is earlier in life they're not closed to the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:27 PM
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There are plenty of short white men, white women just choose to not register them. I'm in the south of europe, southern europeans aren't known for being tall. But white women are still insane about height there. It's a mix of Just Be White and exotism, yes. A lot of white women prefer exotic looking men too (albeit they never pick them short), partly because white men are too tame while ethnic men look more dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:22 PM
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Get a blood test ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:18 PM
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I'm answering to someone who doens't understand why men would want it, I'm explaining that. OP said to ask two question which 100% of women would answer with yes instead of starting an honest and clear negotiation. I told my wife I'd not want a second kid unless she does spend the early stage responsible of that kid, because I was already given the burden of the first one almost entirely due to incompatible schedules. I suggested she stopped working for 3 years while I pay all the bills, but tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:17 PM
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Alright you're mixing stuff up and assuming a lot, so i'm just not going to address your shit take reasonably. I feel sorry for your husband if you have so little esteem in him paying most of your bills. You probably deadbedroomed him anyway and are post wall. Ew. Hope he cheats like crazy and give you gonorea.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:09 PM
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My opinion isn't just based on my experience only but my experience is more or less that: white women do not register me as a man, ethnic women are more likely to be into me. Worked that way for most of my white friends who had a major flaw like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:07 PM
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Alright I'm lost. The point is explaining why men want it. I'm not sure why question, intension and abilities came into the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:04 PM
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Most women pay 50% of the bills whilst pregnant. Lmao no. First of all they don't even typically pay 50% of the bills whilst not even being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:03 PM
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Your experience isn't representative, cumdumpster
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:02 PM
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Having sole responsibility doesn't make it more work time or work load. Besides, my wife works full time and I'm still the main breadwinner and whenever I talk of taking risk or changing branch or just doing anything my wife is still like "but you earn more we can't risk that", it's the same as if I was the only breadwinner really.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:58 PM
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My be a shock to you but nobody cares about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:57 PM
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Exactly. There's also this aspect in which who ever is most neurotic is going to be a major cunt about chores. Guess who is more likely to be neurotic between men and women...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:56 PM
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They weren't shorter on the contrary. But they were less picky for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:55 PM
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The income isn't usually at its 100%, and if they take a year after, which a lot do, they get paid 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:55 PM
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I don't see why people would prefer to work 1.5 times rather than 1 times. Even if you specialize and work full time while your wife is a SAHM you got tasks to do at home anyway. YOu guys sound like you don't know how bad it is to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:53 PM
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You'd have to explain to me why does it make you dependent on women to have them do something for you. I'm dependent on women for sex because I can't have sex on my own. But cooking and cleaning is delegating not being dependent. I can do these on my own I'd rather just not to if I'm also working full time. In fact I'm the main cooker and caregiver of my family right now while working full time, it's just not an enviable situation. I'd rather be stay at home father OR working full time, not both…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:51 PM
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I don't care about your family in particular I'm talking about the working class as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:49 PM
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In third world maybe. In civilized countries you get few months at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:48 PM
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I'm a shortie white male. 2/3 of the women who were into me weren't white. White women are just fuckton more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:45 PM
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Then I guess you're fine with paying 50% of the bills even when you get pregnant? Or are you like most redditors going to act like men earning more money is just random?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:44 PM
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everyone worked Everyone also had shared account that means the more bucks men have been gaining was spent more toward the bills. And as soon as she gets pregnant her earnings are 0. So clearly you can't relate because you didn't bother to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:43 PM
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When you're non white, yes. When you're white, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:42 PM
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Women already make sure men pay all the bills while cunting them to do more of the chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:41 PM
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That's the point. You want one who accepts to be in charge of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:41 PM
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I think you don't get it that men do not want to work 1.5 full time jobs and would prefer to have specialized roles. They also don't want to split chores 50/50 while paying most of the bills. They also don't want to split chores 50/50 only to be irremediably cunted as doing less. Women have proven many times over and over that there's no way splitting chores is going fine they'll never be satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:38 PM
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When it's not the purge, every other post is man-hating in disguise or a female rant. The men's posts are removed. During purge you finally get to see what it looks like normally but gender reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:09 AM
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Yeah well I always ignore posts that are based on some influencer's sayings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:37 AM
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Stop acting like I am confused when you're the one who are. Again, they don't care about you and your moral code. You don't exist to them, you're dirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:35 AM
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saying "I need some help" is also part of the overload. Really I don't get it you have pretty bad expectation of human variation, have you never looked at people?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:29 AM
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Well IDK what to tell you for you to understand people aren't like you. I'd have preferred you are just an inexperienced idealist but apparently you're experienced and have 0 cognitive empathy. People don't like being overworked while the other isn't putting as much efforts, they don't need to count points it just happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:40 PM
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Why would they care about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:37 PM
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Kids bring you closer together cause now your goals becomes even MORE family oriented and less about you. (I mean just college funds alone….) Life isn't like "little house" tv serie, stress and sleep deprivation is rough on couples and they tend to distance themselves instead. The slightest disbalance in work load repartition is going to be experienced as a huge injustice because you're permanently burning out already. And straight up: “People will tell you who they are eventually, we just don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:31 PM
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The fact you don't have the beginning of a clue for why they do it screams 15 year old virgin idealist to me. You don't have to be like them to get it a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:26 PM
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The "cannot consent" thing is for when you're so drunk you cannot talk, cannot get up and leave, or cannot fight off. It never suggested that being drunk made you unable to take decisions, in fact, you'll always be legally responsible for your actions even drunk so it'd be inconsistent to think you can't consent to sex just cause you drank a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:21 PM
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But no one’s forcing you to put a ring on that finger. Shit hits the fan when you got kids, you can't tell before the kids. And considering how long it should take a dude to save up two months salary for that ring Or screen for a girl who won't expect this sort of ring. You do sound like an alien or you do sound like you got 0 experience. IDK what to tell you. Life ain't black and white. Women aren't out there telling you "I'm trash I will expect too much and not pull my own weight". Sometimes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:17 PM
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