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Not a single pp or bp person is gonna tell you that. Yes, literally BP people will look at normal male incentives and declare that men who have these incentives are deranged, and those who indulge in them are also misogynistic. They'll not voice it in these words, but that's how it looks like to RP people. Simple shits like thinking that in a marriage, if you bring most money then she should do more house work, is going to be flagged as misogynistic by BP people. They think men should share thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:37 PM
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Introvert. You don't do anything, but when you're fully charged you do it needs to be very very stimulating. That's introversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:23 PM
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If you can feel satisfied of such pettiness go for it my bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:14 PM
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You seem to care, you do the leg work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:10 PM
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Again, my point is you can't really predict it unless you've had a lot of hardship together already. Sometimes being conscious that hardship is the problem and it is temporary is enough to get through major temporary incompatibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:59 PM
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I'm not doing your homework, dude, you're the one who offered going through my history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:57 PM
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Yes, ask the people you knew, they have the links.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:55 PM
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Or you could take a look at my flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:53 PM
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I admit it, your comment is a strawman with no sources like everyone can see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:52 PM
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I post that reminder fairly often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:52 PM
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That's irrelevant. The question are, is he good with sleep deprivation and burn out? Are you? Which of your priorities are going to drop first when shit hit the fan and how is it going to get conflicted with the other's priorities and needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:50 PM
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You could have not asked for anything. That would have been a shorter path to the same place minus you acting like a pretentious hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:49 PM
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Don't ask sources over people's personal experience if your entire point is formulated from your personal experience. Don't be this kind of hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:45 PM
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NGL the most misogynistic people I knew ended up being the ones alone and going to strip clubs and paying for porn way more often than the regular dudes who just pulled. . Where?! Where are these things happening? You gif links?? Start by giving me a link of "the most misogynistic people I knew" and I may find you a source for where the things are happening. You are being intellectually disingenuous, either you believe me just like I believed you or you don't answer me these horseshit fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:43 PM
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You can't predict how bad it'll be after having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:41 PM
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They strawman men's normal amount of selfishness as misogyny. There's a latent double standard in how men and women are expected to be selfish and they often justify women's selfishness as necessary for their survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:39 PM
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I’ve never heard anyone call putting yourself first misogynistic. They'll never say that explicitly that putting yourself first is misogynistic, they'll take men's actions where they put their needs and wants first and call it misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:32 PM
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A lot of people consider that "putting yourself first" is misogyny. So the dudes who "just pulled" likely were considered very misogynistic anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:25 PM
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What morality are you talking about? Because western dating morality has turned women's interest in the guideline for morality and that's another issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:21 PM
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I bet they started saying "you look tired or sickly"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:41 PM
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Yes. So? You guys start sounding like all these transpositive people who think we don't recognize most trans people in a split second.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:30 PM
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Sounds like her problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:54 PM
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IDK, my wife is more the kind to cum during blowjobs, not to cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:33 PM
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When you can recognize it, you see all women as walking liars. Be more worried of those men who don't see it negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:21 PM
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They are just stylistic choices ffs Lying is an art. It's not incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:46 PM
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Since you agree biology is unfair and we can't change it, you must also agree we do not need any sort of compensation in the law. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:42 PM
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Volcels are religious people, they exist. They're cucking themselves in the name of sky daddy and you think that's gonna convince me they're not losers? And no, lack of sex isn’t cheating I didn't use the word "is" I said it was equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:40 PM
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All options women have too, but women have one more option that men don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:35 PM
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Yh I do because sex is not a marital duty and is actually something that's decided by each couple (within reason) based on what works best for them Yes, people adapt, if both opt out of it, it's fine. However, very often, one is opting out of their initial agreement without communicating it, and you're right to not be happy with it, you're right to divorce for it, you're right to cheat in the mean time. But if the lie is about whether you were cheating then they absolutely do not respond better …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:34 PM
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I'm also procrastinating. I'm tasked to write a bunch of lies and I can't motivate myself to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:23 PM
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So two 70 year olds that no longer have interest in having sex are abandoning eachother, causing eachother emotional damage and existing in a relationship scam? No and you know why. They do, pick better That's a fallacy. That's why they wear it in the first place because guys respond more to it Well duh??? Yes??? And men lie because women respond more positively to them lying. I'm glad we agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:21 PM
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Don't you have goods and services to provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:20 PM
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You do good to remind men here that they shouldn't love women unconditionally when they're objectively bad deals. A lot of men tend to forget that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:10 PM
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Daily reminder: Sex is a marital duty, lack of sex is abandonment. Lack of sex is equivalent to cheating, both are relationship scams Men deserve reproductive choices, child support is a scam unless it is combined with rights over the kid Incels have issues getting sex, Femcels have issues getting commitment, women who are 25 and can't keep a man for more than a year are femcels. Ability to get sex doesn't make a woman not a femcel. Volcels don't exist, volcels are just high standard people with…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:08 PM
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When evaluating what's the popular opinion, I'm going to ignore what's not being upvoted. This is like, common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:53 AM
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Russia, yes. haven't women left ukraine already?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:04 PM
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Yeah, being a kid is abnormally autistic in essence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:58 PM
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108, normalfag, lost quite a lot of points on physics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:58 PM
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And to have your pics*
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:53 PM
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confidence is the opposite of accountability, because it stems in staying in delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:52 PM
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BRO THIS IS LITERALLY RAPE, you think the local men pay the same rate to have sex with them???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:49 PM
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Notice though that unlike average men's tinder data, he left swiped a lot. I think his success boils down to being in a big city with shortage of men, his numbers are absurd when you look at his success rate when he reaches the chat, but indeed that's a lot of swipes that didn't land anything. I've lost my virginity on a dating app and I wouldn't even say I had more than 200 total female profiles pushed by the app within a year. Had been ghosted a lot by people asking for my height and I felt th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:42 PM
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The top comments are the ones that are upvoted the most, I'm not going to go read all the comments...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:37 PM
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There's indeed virtue signaling and emotional management going on here, but they burry the one they think they can, while lifting the ones they can't afford not to lift, it's domination and social matrix hierarchy forming itself. I'd probably not pay too much attention to this if I hadn't seen it more often IRL. And they'll always hide it behind "she has a great personality and that's attractive", while the only bit of clue they have is just that the girl dared to talk above them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:20 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-YcBYUfgtc&themeRefresh=1 I love this video because it showcases it, the tall blond dyke isn't ugly but she immediately calls the shot, the fat one is also loud and imposing, and women eventually elect them as most attractive, while putting the shy feminine attractive one as last. However, I've never seen women do any sort of favor for an ugly non dominant woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:55 PM
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I think girls know who’s the most attractive in their group and how attractive they are but we’re socialised not to be honest about that.. I think girls know who is the most dominant woman and will claim she is the most attractive, regardless of if it's true or not. No I don't have links. I hate links.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:14 PM
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The qualities that make the initial spark happen aren't the same as the qualities to make a relation durable. Both are necessary and you are often fooled by the first one. No idea who that guy is tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:00 PM
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It's me, short fat guy, I agree totally. When I tried to date my looksmatches they were all vocal that they were far above me in looks and felt insulted I tried to hit on them. But women who were actually far above me in looks were fine with me. Insecurities make women even more delusional and obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:17 PM
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Last time I checked, studies suggested men were better at guessing objective attractiveness of both men, women, or themselves, but would sightly overrate everyone. Women would underrated everyone including themselves by a long shot. But news article somehow cherry picked that to claim men were narcissistic. As for my personal life experience, men are clearly more objective. I can't count how often men were capable to know which man was the chad of the group, and how often women would neg this ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:14 PM
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The top comments aren't directly disagreeing with her idea that men aren't worth it but are rather telling her she needs to fix herself and her expectations. It's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:08 PM
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My comment is lighthearted don't take it seriously. Maybe you missed that memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:49 AM
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That's nice, I should make my SIL pay stuff. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:49 AM
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they're cheaters >.< getting very enthusiastic love while changing zero diaper
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:03 PM
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Why would they change a diaper? They aren't the parent. They need to work for the love they get or it's unfair. My comment is lighthearted don't take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:30 PM
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Being childfree means you don't want to parent or raise kids. Being childfree means you're a dead weight to society and you vampirise all the hard work of your siblings :'( my kids LOVE their uncles and their aunt, but they never changed a DAMN DIAPPER!!! It doesn't mean you don't want to have a relationship with kids in your siblings or friends. 🙄 Enough of them are pretty hostile to the idea of kids and parents themselves, because we have high carbon footprint or we're overpopulated blabla. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:54 PM
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My guy, it's called family. Wait until you hear about what your natural or adopted kids are considered \o/ I get your point, but seems to me that people who have relationships with their nephew and the like do kinda like kids and want some in their lives anyway, even if from afar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:41 PM
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no kids involved in niece life I mean technically yeah but also no. Everyone who has no kids seem to be living a bit of it by procuration with their siblings's kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:48 PM
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that's a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:30 PM
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Aren't you going to be banned if it gets known you're not 18? or is it only the discord that forbids teens?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:21 PM
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Oh finally a good argument from you after 10 useless comments :|
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:17 PM
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That wasn't the point being debated, you clearly can't stay on topic and see a simple truth about it, nobody azsked you to have 3 kids, but 3 kids from different mothers is less chores than 3 kids from the same mom, it is that fucking simple, and you're derailing the argument every 2 seconds because you have ego issues regarding this debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:10 PM
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Sounds like a childless person's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:04 PM
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Married, divorced, ect... Doesn't matter. Even in the worst situation, you'll end up having 1 kid for a week and 3 kids for another week. It's easier than having 3 kids all the time. This shouldn't be complicated to understand.....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:54 AM
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No. If you use condoms or BC pills correctly, they're something like 96 to 98% efficiency. Stop spreading misinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:52 AM
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Oh it's so difficult for ya? You know divorced dads often don't have the full guard of their kids, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:50 AM
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Sounds like a lie. But you do indeed have the opinion of a 17 year old person who never experienced getting older with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:40 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:37 AM
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IDK I just provided this possibility from the limited context I have. I also hate this woman for no good reason. :')
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:37 AM
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So? Can't you solve this simple equation that taking care of a kid is easier with more responsible and available people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:36 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:35 AM
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Reminder that if you don't get 80% of the results with 20% of the efforts, it's not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:30 AM
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Don't, most of them are fine because they in fact behave more RP than they're willing to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:29 AM
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Anybody I know who tried to leverage their hobbies to meet women would meet 1 woman every 2 year with who something is possible. And I'm not talking of nerds with nerd hobbies, I'm talking of dudes whose hobbies are mixed sports or activities with lots of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:28 AM
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People take me for a fool but I do know many women who find 99% of men gross and ugly. And you need to get used to that idea because that's how the extreme womanly women all are. But they all eventually end up with a man they don't find attractive but "he grew on her" you know.... That being said, people who film themselves doing "healthy masculinity" are disgusting attention whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:27 AM
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I'm red pill since a decade, I never subscribed to anything red pill nor listened to any red pill influencer. No you don't have to pull a lot of effort for breadcrumbs, anything should come with low effort or it's not worth it, you got other things to do as well you can't put your 80% of efforts to get 20% of results. That's also why TRP in its core idea does tell you to just lift with a simple 5x5 routine 3 times a week and not overthink it. Reading the sub and the influencers will have you bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:25 AM
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That's not gonna change anything. One baby mama has only two arms. 2 different moms = more people to take care of the babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:20 AM
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The only people who will praise your big muscles or big beard are other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:19 AM
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There are 18 year old women who don't like partying and never will. There are 18 year old women who don't like partying but suddenly around 25 develop a taste for it. And that's far from being the only 180° turn people take in their life. There are plenty of things you can't predict. Also he said partying that could also mean unfaithfulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:17 AM
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No birth control method is 100% effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:15 AM
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Yes, it's a mix of both sedentarity lifestyles and refined sugar in common food.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:14 AM
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Literally word for word the kind of post you could find on incel subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:12 AM
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it's not enough to not tell, your behavior is a dead giveaway. You have to adopt the mentality of someone to who sex is normal and regular. That's why TRP talks of abundance mentality, but it doesn't have to be about yelling you have sex to everyone, it can be just subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:57 PM
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every PPD woman is not like the other woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:37 PM
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I got rejected twice because they knew I was a virgin, I lost my virginity soon after arriving to a new place and acting like sex was normal in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:36 PM
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Internet blue pillers? Maybe. Real life men? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:21 PM
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The idea that libido increases before menopause makes sense. Most women at that age however are out of shape and their libido was likely higher in their 20s anyway. BC pill and other long term medications will also fuck them up long before menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:18 PM
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I live in a first world country, and whatever you earn is also your "home's money". You can have a different marriage contract to specify that isn't the case, but the default is shared money and assets. And it works like this in most first world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:59 PM
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Of course I like sexually satisfying and pleasing my partner, but not to the degree where I perceive it as a duty. Well I like not to cheat on my wife, but not to a degree where I perceive it as a duty. Yet. Faithfulness is a marital duty. Neither would it be an issue if my (or his) libido went down. If I (or he is) am not in the mood then there is no expectation of getting sexual regardless because of "his/my needs". Would you be ok if he gets his needs elsewhere if you had no libido at all any…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:42 PM
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I live in a first world country, unlike americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:41 PM
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Strawman of the day award goes to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:40 PM
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You pulled your meme of goods and service meme up like a troll how do you expect me to argue with you, and I'm the one who wanna hear my own ideas repeated back at me?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:54 PM
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Positive mindset will hide that it's hiding things obviously. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:47 PM
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Must be because I realized who you are and stopped taking you seriously. :')
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:46 PM
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you have no emotional connection (or at least one that is far lesser) with the company you work for, having a spouse is a completely different ball game. Yes and that is dangerous, because you can be more easily tricked into "working for free" for a spouse because your emotions are getting in the way. Criticizing your relationship will help you not set up something that is toxic. But admittedly some people do want to be tricked to forget that their relation is ruining them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:33 PM
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I don't like to positive mindsets, I prefer the truth above all mindset. Positive mindset will hide things.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:30 PM
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Yeah well, my frigid of a SIL got her ass dumped for that reason I think :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:29 PM
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The funny thing is when you cheat, people don't like it because someone else who isn't implicated is not agreeing with it. But abortion when it's about killing a literal human fetus? Damn that's her body bro. Hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:28 PM
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service NOOOOOO a employer is an equal not a superior... Also no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:27 PM
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Yep, they're more courageous than the people who hide their infidelity. They had a difficult choice to make, and they made it. That's fair at least! I have no idea how you thought this was an apt comparison... How? because I'm really SMORT. Putting in less effort into a job is not the same as cheating on your spouse. Come on bro. I do cheat on my job by working on my hobbies during "work time". Sometimes I even work for other people for free all the while getting paid by my boss. I'm really naug…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:31 PM
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Well, as feminists say, your body your choice :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:29 PM
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Too late, now you know about our watersport phase!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:29 PM
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Can’t the people in marriage decide what their duties are? They kinda do. That's why older people don't have sex then cheat a lil on the side, still stay together. I think it's fine that people adapt, it's maturity. A lot of people think they don't get to decide what their duties are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:28 PM
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That means you think it's not important to sexually satisfy your partner? Has it worked for you so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:26 PM
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Marriage is ALL ABOUT marital duties yet women absolutely want to get married. Sounds like it's not not enjoyable isn't it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:26 PM
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does it matter what they say as long as the young women dont mind it? Of course not. ;) Just as it doesn't matter that you say "cheating is always bad", it isn't always bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:25 PM
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Yes during the pregnancy, not after.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:24 PM
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Or you married the wrong woman. Frigid women are not so rare, it's better when they like duty sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:24 PM
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We had a little watersport phase but it didn't stick for long. We're not having a deadbedroom btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:23 PM
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My money is her money according to marital laws. What's your argument now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:22 PM
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Do marriage certificates come with the clause of "you must have sex whenever your partner wants to"? Ok go tell a judge you want to get more than half of the shit because he cheated, because you wouldn't fuck him, we'll see if things are as black and white as you think they are. Cheating is the coward's way out. So you think men who leave their ageing wives for younger ones are brave and courageous? :D Two wrongs don't make a right That's a very idealistic immature look at the world. The point i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:21 PM
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that is literally what sex as a marital duty means. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:12 PM
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Would you consider romance and basically talking as a marital duty too? These are usually considered included vaguely in other vows. In my country, sex is literally a marital duty, written down in the civil code tho. Duty is something you have to do, not something you want to do and I'm sure most married men wouldn't want their wife to see sex with them as her duty or vice versa. In the case of marriage, marital duties are a mix of things you should want to do and things you have obligations to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:10 PM
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You think that women stopping having period makes their libido higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:08 PM
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Blue pillers literally thing pregnancy unlocks women's higher libido. The one thing that can be true is that by ageing, women who are very prude and neurotic will drop some of their barriers. But for the vast majority of women, ageing and having kids will break down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:07 PM
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That's a blue pill myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:54 PM
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You're not forced to hate and dislike your partner who deadbedroom you, and yes, it is an excuse for cheating. You can't expect faithfullness from someone you don't fuck, otherwise it's a scam. You try to work together to resolve the issue, and if you can't you then take the decision When someone cheats I don't ever hear "you try to work together to resolve this issue" lol. You should consider deadbedrooming like cheating. "Getting some on the side" is not morally justifiable as much as you want…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:53 PM
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By that logic... marriage is just a long term contract of employment. Where the husband employs a woman to provide sex and childcare. While the woman obtains a plentera of goods, currency and services... Funny you think one employs the other when it's not the case. First of all, men also do childcare and do plethora of physical and emotional labor for their wives. Their money isn't theirs anymore it's also hers. There's no notion of one being superior to the other at all, because we do not live …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:50 PM
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Yet you probably believe that it's important even if it's not written in the law that sex is a marital duty (it is in my country). You'll still implement most of it and you'll understand that it is an issue if your libido goes down. Am I wrong? Sex as a marital duty doesn't mean rape is allowed if you missed the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:46 PM
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losing libido seems like a rite of passage for ageing women. I'm too young for that yet if that's what you're implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:39 PM
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Apparently an unpopular opinion: Sex is a marital duty. You're supposed to sexually satisfy your partner, for life. If you stop having sex with your marriage partner, you should get your ass divorced or you should not expect faithfulness. It's pretty simple and easy. A lot of people when ageing kinda accept that people grow older and get different needs, get their needs elsewhere, ect... As loong as it is discreet. But somehow, blue pillers (or women in general) can both be against cheating when…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:02 PM
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I don't recall a specific situation. My wife is interesting in that she'll communicate the contempt, other more agreeable and neurotic women will just show support then nope out, IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:22 PM
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I was pretty clear that I received contempt for sharing sad emotions. And I'm masculine and non needy. The explanation is simple: Sad emotions require emotional work, and women hate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:10 PM
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That is gaslight or genuinely a hole in your ability to communicate. When I talk of my personal experience and you're like "this isn't how it works" that means you think my personal experience didn't happen the way I described.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:01 AM
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You insist so much that my life isn't the way I'm experiencing it and keep throwing what you want, it's a boring discussion. This thread asks people their experience and you're here challenging mine, the insecure one is you, on top of being an hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:37 PM
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You've decided I was unmasculine and needy I guess, boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:23 PM
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Nah, women will show contempt the second they think they have any emotional labor to do, needy or not needy. I'm not even sure why you think neediness changes anything considering women are needy 24/7 with their confort tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:23 AM
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keywords "not the only way". Thus why I bring that up first before anything else. Just sharing how you’re feeling in the present is vulnerability. Which is equally welcomed with contempt by the female partners I've had. Any time you’re giving somebody the option to judge you for your true, authentic self, you’re being vulnerable And any time they judge me I show them involuntarily that I don't care and that none of it affects me. Which usually results in them respecting me for it and them thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:07 PM
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For men in particular, it’s just admitting when you feel lost, or sad, or you don’t have the answers. I don't process that in term of vulnerability either. I'm comfortable with saying I'm sad and I don't know. Crying is just the stereotypical one. I'm the kind of person open about his shortcomings and embarrassing past. I'll be stubborn on the topics I am confident I am right about though, which isn't refusing to be vulnerable. My wife is the one with the gigantic ego and with the evaluation of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:26 PM
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You do not make sense. I'm really blind to vulnerability, and anger comes from disrespect toward me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:21 PM
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You must be new, I'm the token PPD frenchman since 7 years. I can build a guillotine with 2 toothpick and dental floss.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:19 PM
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Oh no not another person who thinks that there are as much truths as there are observers >.<
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:59 PM
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Woa seriously? I was just exaggerating for comedic purpose. I always said that engineering is a mindset not a set of skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:50 PM
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If you tell me this place was flooded with women and not much men I'm forced to accept your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:49 PM
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I'll ask you to immediately cease all activities on this account and adopt a more appropriate nickname.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:47 PM
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I don't process things in term of being vulnerable. But clearly, crying and being a mess in front of my wife never yielded confort, instead it yielded contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:44 PM
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You mean so my theory works...?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:40 PM
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Will you confront your hubby about his bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:39 PM
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No evidence is suggesting that I'm wrong. All evidences point to you being biased. Heavy unbalance in couples happens in heavily unbalanced landscapes in term of gender ratios. Festivals ain't one. The average redditor's socioeconomic landscape is generally unbalanced with a surplus of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:35 PM
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Philosophy is about what we cannot prove or disprove yet. Science is the collection of proven truth (until proven otherwise). Engineering tries to make practical use of science. Even a sentence more reasonable such as "Without engineering science is just theory" would still be false. I'd be very surprised an engineer would pull such a bullshit as the image you showed us. It's not even "inaccurate but funny" it's just wrong and very infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:31 PM
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"noooo you're such an assoomer" you're like an open book I swear :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:26 PM
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Start a sex strike like the french you are, and see how his opinion changes. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:24 PM
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That sentence is bullshit and I'm an engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:24 PM
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Very strange indeed that people who are known for finding men ugly and women beautiful do tend to be biased into finding men ugly and women beautiful. I bet you think this is a looksmatch: https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/991433332309106779/1146586442047434752/hq720.png
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:20 PM
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As I said, what men are complaining about are already the least crazy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:18 PM
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è_é
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:16 PM
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My little finger tells me you live in a bubble where men are dating down, which is very common in middle class socioeconomic places. The "dance festival" landscape is more balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:16 PM
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What's funny is I know you think you're among the less crazy ones but I assure you men are already dating the least crazy and toxic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:14 PM
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What if they've fixed it, recognize that the wrong education made them waste a couple of years of healthy social development, and think it's an interesting PPD discussion topic? They shouldn't debate and discuss it because you'll just do an ad personam fallacy and brush it away? What if they have kids on their own and wish to not repeat that problem on their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:12 PM
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Most couples are looksmatched on average, you are likely very biased like most blue pillers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:05 PM
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I tried to date bellow average women, not only were they more crazy due to insecurities they were also less available, more picky and rejected me. Average and above average women were saner and more available, I never dated an ugly woman despite I'm bellow average myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:58 PM
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Somehow it's always the fault of the one who has the options and power in a market isn't it? Must be because these are the ones with the options and power.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:55 PM
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It's probably because most men between 25-40 have been raised by an angry feminist of a mom, who experienced sexual revolution and it didn't work out like they wanted, so they blamed it all on men, masculinity and patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:53 PM
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That's only for a minority of people to another minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:34 AM
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Beauty is objective enough. You can tell who is going to be of everyone's tastes, you can tell who is going to be a niche taste, you can tell who is nobody's taste nor niche. You can tell in a split second if a dude fucks. And you absolutely can do that on yourself, you'd need to see yourself in video often to determine it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:42 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:17 PM
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Nothing teaches you how to escalate but trying and failing. Blue pilled advices who tell you to first have a social circle ect... are wrong. Black pill advices who tell you to first fix your body are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:12 PM
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There's no "canceling". But women's availability in the dating market is what pushes men to approach them, that's why plenty of above average women are not approached while plenty of bellow average women are. Women need to show and communicate they are available, and then allow things to happen and facilitate it. The uglier she is, the more she needs to play on this in order to have any option. It won't cancel their lack of attractiveness, but it'll make men come and stick around. Attractive wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:56 PM
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Do you plan on being just friend with women? Have you missed the point of TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:52 PM
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Talking to women and trying to sleep with them is good advice, nothing else is. Being able to make friends only leads to being able to be friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:35 PM
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And one opinion informed by a collection of research and studies very much does hold more weight than one plucked out of thin air. Yeah well, collections of research and studies are supporting plenty of sociological wikipedia page yet it's filled with pure PPD garbage and biased takes. Not only is sociology not a science but also it's extremely biased in its initial intent. Let people stick their own conclusions to it and you get a fallacy of the cubic magnitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:46 PM
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there's no real science from soft science, soft science ain't science, it's BS, and since PPD is mostly soft science, all the sources are BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:33 PM
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Yea and if it's a shit source that they've misinterpreted, twisted or is simply a shit source, challenge them on it. It's tiresome to have to go through their source to tell them it's inevitably garbage in a way or another, and doesn't make their opinion have more weight than ours. And what you've described is the vast majority of science, there's very few things that are undeniable. The things that are undeniable aren't discussed. I think you overestimate how much of science discussion are actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:17 PM
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Sure some complaints are normal, viewing them with contempt and spending so much of your time engaging in very negative rhetoric around them? I would definitely say "sounds like you shouldn't be dating men/women then" Humans are simply not robots and people often conflate frustration with hate. Venting, coping, sharing... are often things they need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:58 AM
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To say though that sources don't mean shit is just pure lunacy though. Most stuff people wave here in an attempt to sound more scientifically grounded than the others is pure fallacy. You think there's no debate in scientific communities? Hate to tell you but there is a lot of it. Yeah and what's the focus of these debates? On things that are not provable yet, on scientific paper that don't appear right or rigorous, on hypothesis that are badly formulated, on proof of hypothesizes that could hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:38 AM
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Why do you come on PPD? Not a lot of things on PPD can be proven or disproven. Similarly plenty of debate topics in our societies are philosophical and science cannot help. If it was science based, debate wouldn't even exist. Make peace with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:24 AM
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That contradiction is loose and only exists because you keep defining mgtow as "living without the influence of women". I've tried to read the actual definition from mgtow but that sub is banned and the wiki definition is obviously from feminist people. But if you think mgtow as men not willing to date or be in relationships, complaining about women online isn't contradictory to that. If you think of mgtow as "an anti-feminist, misogynistic, mostly online community advocating for men to separate…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:22 AM
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That expression simply doesn't fit here. It's not related in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:14 AM
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Sadly this is what feminism has brought to our world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:12 AM
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You think there's a logical contradiction in what I say, the expression "have your cake and eat it too" is when people are greedy and want more than they can have. It's not related in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:05 AM
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First of all, the vast majority of real mgtow people have never heard of the mgtow community or don't participate in it. And that the ones you're talking of are a minority. Then, no it's not contradictory. Nothing about them suggests that they aren't attracted to and aren't wanting to live with women, some of them can need refreshers or motivators. And then, maybe some of them have fun with men similar to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:04 AM
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Yes, It's unlikely anyone would do the leg work to edit this seriously, while also likely that people can be annoyed at the new lara croft. Both can be true at the same time it's not difficult to envision. Don't use expressions such as "have your cake and eat it too" when you don't know what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:52 AM
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That just shows you don't understand the point of mgtow. Similarly if you said "why are wgtow having so much pet I thought they didn't need company" that'd be misunderstanding. These people literally said that they needed someone but the burden and constraints were too high to be worth it, it doesn't mean they're not going to fulfill their needs or try to cope about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:47 AM
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Daily reminder that your sources and facts are shit. If you come debating here expecting hard science you're at the wrong place. In facts, debates can't happen with hard science. Learn to properly debate instead of trying to insist your article is a scientific fact while other people's aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:41 AM
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it's literally a circlejerk sub....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:39 AM
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Outside the hotness there's apparent persona that matters, the right pic should be more OG lara's personality. But I agree with the other dude, this is exaggerated for the memes and you buy right into the rage bait because you're... check notes... unhappy people want their fictions to be like they used to like them. "oh I am a fucking loser arne't I" is a lazy attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:34 AM
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Bruh you're late, we got billionaires now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:30 AM
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What's that? Are you seriously commenting on a 3 month old comment just to tell me "stop debating you fucking nerd"? On a debate sub? Are you ok??? Someone hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:22 AM
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"Cope" is blue pill, saying "Cope" as a pejorative term is what black pillers do and mods will do nasty things to you if you do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:54 PM
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That would gross me out. I'm just amused at the idea we would claim to be of one side and be both on the opposite sides of our claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:42 PM
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I'm not into "people" news article and even less would I ever read anything about the kardashian
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:27 PM
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Don't be delusional as a woman either, the fat acceptance and plus size movement is for slim women to have less competition while fat women spend money on the products they manufacture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:10 PM
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It's not their dads who are pushing the idea that men are shallow and need to change and women are perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:09 PM
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I don't really care to debate this, I'm just pointing to lilith she's being hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:06 PM
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It's ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:06 PM
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An average age gap of 1 year is sufficient to create a shortage of women all along the line IF the population is stagnating or shrinking, which is the case for most western countries. This is why there's such a disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:53 PM
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You just said their behavior didn't matter their looks does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:51 PM
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So first, just to clarify, the Pew poll in question(edit: wrong article, this is an older similar one, this article is the one I meant to post) defined being "single" as poll respondents who reported that they were not in a "committed romantic relationship", living with a partner, or married. This was the wording of the question. In the latest poll conducted July 2022, almost twice as many men aged 18-29(63%) reported being single compared to their female counterparts(34%). This is the post m8. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:49 PM
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Lol seriously? Despite statistics literally say more men are single than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:48 PM
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....... That's literally what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:43 PM
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Every point you made suggested that'd not be a problem if they looked better, so clearly to YOU it is all about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:37 PM
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I'm explaining why more men are single than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:37 PM
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The most reasonable explanation for the disparity is because women statistically date and marry men sightly older, and that our population is stagnating/shrinking, leading to a for ever shortage of women in men's dating pool, and a surplus of men in women's dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:17 PM
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So it's all about their looks and not their behavior, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:15 PM
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The reality often is that it's both dropping efforts to each others gradually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:14 PM
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These were never men's problems because nobody cares about men. Women always had all the attention that includes negative attention as much as the positive one. For instance, nobody cares about school bullying until it's a girl who is a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:13 PM
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but I don't think it necesarily means you should never approach a woman. It doesn't necessarily mean that but in situ this is what they told me, don't approach women, don't bring up sex, don't make your interest obvious, be friend first, play the social game of having a wide social circle to meet people, and wait for them to make a move. These talking point also came back with 3rd wave feminism even worse. And are partly why TRP came up. The building blocks of all feminism is fight for political…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:04 PM
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being yourself is not anybody's exclusive life theme.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:58 PM
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That doesn't look like it's answering my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:05 PM
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IDK and IDC. I just like this part of the lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:04 PM
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Cope is for when you legit can't do jack shit about it. you're not supposed to cope about being alone, it's supposed to drive you into finding a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:01 PM
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That's really not my type of humor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:55 PM
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This is not what toxic masculinity is at all. Good thing I said "gender roles" too. The women who raised me, the teachers, the media, 25 years ago, all were very vocal that men had to stop being on women's back. I was literally told to let women approach. The idea is simple: stop harassing women, stop being obsessed with sex, clean the home, take care of kids, don't repeat the machismo attitudes of your father, stop being so much into science and stop pushing women away from it. 2nd wave feminis…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:53 PM
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He's not dead....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:40 PM
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A wise singer once sang Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do what you tell me Fuck you, I won't do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:31 PM
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Similarly, I don't see why you're trying to synonymize "not being a feminist" with "not treating women like human beings". Feminism wants gender roles and "toxic" masculinity to stop, that means not approaching women, not escalating relationships yourself, "waiting them to come to you", which is a passive stance. You can also put in there that feminism wants me to step back from careers and not seek out to make a lot of money. Feminism also thinks women are having it worse in society and tries t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:03 PM
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Men have to be intentionally approaching, flirty, and escalate for relationships to happen. There isn't a grain of truth there, this kind of attitude makes men friendzoned at best and isolated at worse. It's women who need to be patient and wait for men to appear in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:54 AM
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That's a female mindset, that's blue piller advices. Men are supposed to be frustrated and to move their asses because things just don't happen to them out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:52 AM
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Beware because "thought terminating cliché" is just another way to say "cope" which is kinda banned on PPD for being incel speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:51 AM
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In which universe are men having the same standards as women? The shit you see on here is men being provocative to women. Things work differently IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:50 AM
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I usually would agree, but using emojis on reddit + using racised emojis is automatically making you wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:43 AM
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For "the boat on how modern dating" to depart there needs to be more than half the people on it. The only thing that has changed is what the loud minority claims should be the norm. And for some reason, they only claim men should change and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:36 AM
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I was brought up in a feminist spirit, my circles were always mainly women and it's only natural for me to believe they're full of shit. Everything they told me was in the best interest of imaginary random women at the detriment of my interests, they just simply hated men. I have difficulties understanding the perspective of neglecting yourself for the benefit of unknown strangers. People like this are by essence unauthentic unpredictable and untrustworthy. And that really makes women uninterest…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:20 AM
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Should I be saying "relational equity" instead? Things like "find a job" or "find a place to live" are also heavily related to your ability to be accepted by others, and where being less attractive hurts you. Access to healthcare and equal treatment by the justice system are more law-related indeed, even though it's also a known fact that being uglier leads to healthcare workers and the justice system treating you worse. Everytime there's a human interaction, being uglier works against you. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:16 PM
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Social equity is an impossible ordeal that will only lead to giving more privilege to individuals that are already relatively privileged. Some part of feminism and trans ideologies are trying to push this idea around. Social equity is the idea that no matter who you are, your skin color, your gender, your sexuality, or your gender™, you should have the same social opportunities as a white man. That means as a black trans woman who approach a man you should be equally as likely to be successful m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:26 AM
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When men complain about how they're supposed to behave all the time the way women and other men expect, this is called toxic masculinity and men are told it's their own fault for putting that kinda pressure onto themselves because women don't expect that of them. Then women go on and expect exactly all that of men. When women complain of the same thing but gender reverse. It's somehow still men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:56 AM
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It's a lot to call it tension tho, one is hesitating and the other is waiting, it isn't obvious at first but at the end it is. If the interest didn't seem mutual it'd have been more difficult to catch up that the guy is hesitating, however it would have been obvious that he was somewhat more interested in her than she was in him, because of how he prompts her, looks at her, and she barely answers nor look at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:50 PM
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Oh sure that's a possibility. But with more context it's probably not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:29 PM
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The "oh god I hope you're not asking me out" is also a response to the guy's tension. She looks at him in the eyes at some point, someone who want not to be asked out wouldn't do that, they'd look like they are trying to run away. So I doubt that's what's conveyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:13 PM
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Character witnesses? What for? He was 15 during the supposed problem, he could have been doing a mistake, a character witness doesn't mean anything. Cross examination cannot really pick lies apart when one invented an entire story and the other denies it entirely. It's been too long for ppl to be able to tell that X person wasn't even there at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:28 AM
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Do they seem like they're on the verge of tearing down each other's clothes? Or are they just waiting for the other to make a move and admit their interest? It's obviously the #2 therefore it's a romantic tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:13 AM
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I mean, I'm technically obese (or right bellow the limit), but that's still not equally as fat as the average american so I'm fine with making fun of them :] Especially when they're like 15 year younger than me and are chidless, no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:09 AM
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That's projection. First of all, a 30 year old woman has no common interest with a 20 year old man in term of relationship expectations. But a 30 year old man and a 20 year old man are more likely to want the same thing. It's not a story of maturity here. Then, regarding people's interests and gender roles, it makes more sense for a 30 year old man to be with a 20 than the opposite. Women get a visceral response at the idea of paying for a man, teaching a novice man sex, and having to deal with …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:07 AM
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What if she turns around and continues to claim that something happened, but that she backed up because he was cut from the family? Wouldn't he put himself in a lawsuit where it's her words against his?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:04 AM
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I would not call it flirting but it's obvious there's a tension between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:47 AM
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Just wait until you age past their age group and you'll notice that you reach another level of invisibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:45 AM
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Lovebombing is funny to me because that's an exaggeration of what they fucking want and then they cry because that's what they are given.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:22 PM
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Strawman + blatant lies. Incredible you could pile up so much bullshit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:18 PM
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She just got fat and grew masculine features. Are you one of those people who think disliking masculine features on women is pedo? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:02 PM
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not mutually exclusive ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:42 PM
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People start feeling like they're stunning after 6/10. 7 or 8 doesn't set such a difference regarding the effect you get, but it does make a great difference regarding to how likely random people are going to be more attractive. I don’t see how very many people could look 2 whole points better than her In a room of 100 young women, 4 women being likely as attractive or more is not such an unthinkable odd considering how she looks. 8/10 would be 1 woman likely as attractive or more. And for 9/10 …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:26 PM
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Lol if hitting the wall is for whites then blacks are born post wall? I can make up dumb shit too m8. She def hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:11 PM
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Anyway you call people NPCs while failing to realize you would also be under this category I do not typically evaluate people's looks by using other criteria than looks, that sets me apart from them in that fashion. A while ago I posted Halle Bailey and you said she was ugly, but I find her very attractive. Attractiveness is not objective + also you are not the sole arbiter of who is beautiful and who isn’t I feel halle bailey is popular thanks to the hallo of hollywood, she was somewhat cute bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:56 PM
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It’s just made to look less assuming than more theatrical make up. Yes, but the makeup isn't creating much features that weren't there, nor trying to deform others. But I'll admit that I'm pretty bad at spotting makeup on darker skins. She just also has colorful hair, which people associate with lots of make up. Nah definitively a lot of features created that weren't there. Black girl has pretty shy eyelashes, this one has thickened them hard, altered a lot of her skin color, puts bright gloss..…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:51 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/14x8lnc/19f/ Reasonable amount of make up, averages to 7. https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/14wasqj/24f_lets_see_how_this_goes/ Buttload of makeup, averages to 6 It's going to be rare to have girls above 6 have no makeup at all in their pics tho. But I don't think this sub is make-up biased all that much. However https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/14x0vjd/35f_give_me_your_honest_opinion/ This uncanny person that use buttloads of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:29 PM
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I'm good at debating, that's why I don't engage with you, fallacies do not deserve answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:23 PM
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Celebrities are overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:13 PM
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No, sexual dimorphism plays a big role. Then there's the good chunk of the NPC population that is uncapable to rate someone based off objective criteria but will do so based on emotional criteria like "she's in a movie so she must be hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:13 PM
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you always bite the bait, but you're not fun to debate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:12 PM
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From what I understand, they don't allow it if after some times it's too much apart from the average rating on this post. There are posts where people all commonly agree of a 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:05 PM
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I mean, women refuse to believe that gender roles are making it difficult for introverted or autistic men, so I refuse to believe any of this is of any issue. Just change bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:56 PM
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CEOs on linkedin: "Being a CEO is tough, which of my minimum wage employee is going to try and slack off at their job??? so stressing"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:43 PM
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Yeah right. People overrate women so much it's irritating. People can't understand the dynamics of the SMP if they don't understand the "women are wonderful" effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:24 PM
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Looks are objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:23 PM
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Sadly yes, in this day and age, suggesting that violence and outlaw actions are still important influence to a market is morally condemned, it doesn't make it not true though. The point remains that people often claim that women would be better deal for men if men weren't being hypothetical threats to women's security. And I don't think that's true, remove men's higher physical and behavioral dangerosity and you'd not get more open minded and sexually liberated women, but more competitive women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:38 AM
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Lol 90% Of this post is just quoting people being unhappy about the sub, and one piece of media article about the former mod. The few time I've been on the sub all I see is people trying their best to give an honest rating, the ugly people are actually mostly ignored, doesn't seem to be any major relentlessness over punishing ugly people. But maybe the mods are nuts, they're mods after all, they all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:21 AM
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I'm clearly arguing against people who believe that women have asshole radars. They exist, they do not need to label themselves blue pill, but they'll be to me. You are pretty smart in the way you shame people for... trying to have debates on a debating sub. But all you're doing is proving you have no fucking business doing on here. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:13 AM
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Today I discovered a portion of reddit gets extremely angry at /r/truerateme . Apparently people have a hard time with the idea that looks are objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:58 AM
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The majority (over 50%) of North Americans are overweight, in debt, living paycheck to paycheck with no savings, working boring jobs - YET most are STILL married with kids. Do they fuck 3 times a week minimum tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:57 AM
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Well I sure as hell do not claim any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:21 PM
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literally just /u/me link
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:21 PM
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Hm I might have missed that indeed. Definitively a weird thing to want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:21 PM
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For the same reason they find angelina jolie, adriana lima, or emma watson to be 10/10 : Their rating is an emotional response, not the result of an objective analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:19 PM
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Yeah probably, their idea is to make an engine that is very good at displaying a thousand people fighting. Which is probably not common, but they should have built that on top of an existing engine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:18 PM
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Men doing something wrong is a norm. What we trying to show here is women are enabling it, because blue pill narrative suggests women do not wrong and are capable to set apart assholes from good people, and that the only reason you're struggling is because they can tell. But you can continue to prove you know nothing about the sub you're on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:17 PM
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Oh boy camelot unchained is a fuckfest of bullshit. The entire mistake is they trying to develop their own engine without the competencies for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:01 PM
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And I can go out in the street and see more attractive women in a matter of seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:59 PM
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Been waiting for camelot unchained here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:55 PM
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My mom told me I can decide that you are a man. è_é
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:55 PM
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You fell for it hard, so it was worth it. :]
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:54 PM
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Yeah nicely formulated, seems insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:53 PM
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Add "waiting for IOIs" to the list
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:50 PM
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Yes you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:50 PM
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It's a mirror link, who ever clicks it always see their own profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:49 PM
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The entire western half of the planet has high obesity rates though, Not at her age, that seems to be an unique american thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:48 PM
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You're a man now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:47 PM
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Why do they even call OP an asshole what did he do lol he's in his right mind to be disappointed that their common friend is a manipulative asshole, regardless of if he wanted to hear the story or not. But I'm not sure why anybody would think the wife is an asshole as well. People would definitively have gotten up and arms if that was a story about a dude cheating on 2 women in college. And people would expect the boyfriend never to talk to his friend again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:47 PM
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you wish you looked like her Yeah, she has good masculine traits all around that I could make good use of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:40 PM
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Don't be a hypocrite now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:39 PM
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If half the women her age are equivalent or more attractive than her, that should tell you enough about how she's mid and how we're not underrating women. People in general have issues with overrating women, not the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:38 PM
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Speaking of gnomes: https://cdn.unitycms.io/images/7wGypCO142fBjdl0ffCw6E.jpg?op=ocroped&val=1200,1200,1000,1000,0,0&sum=rAiiXEDx3o8
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:35 PM
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Don't backpedal. :') you are butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:34 PM
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Pretty much anywhere except maybe in countries with very high rate of obesity. Like damn people just take a look at her, she has such a weird face with masculine features, no tits and no ass. Most average women you see on the street at least have one good perk and that'll be enough to burry zendaya.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:33 PM
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More personal attacks because I hurt your little feelings eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:31 PM
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He's conflating me with someone else, I rate myself 3/10 and I'm not autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:29 PM
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Who claims to be a 6 autistic code bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:29 PM
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w0t?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:29 PM
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Meeting people IRL is more exciting and fun than meeting people on OLD. Do you think you don't have to seduce the girl in person after talking on the dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:28 PM
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Is that all you got to prove me wrong? "hurr durr you ugly". Doesn't change jack shit what you think I look, she's mid and you're so easily fooled by big screens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:28 PM
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That's all you got as an argument? "don't cry when only mid girls look your way" as if that was a tragedy to date an average girl? You gotta be a woman for not seeing the masculinity in this face: https://cdn.unitycms.io/images/7wGypCO142fBjdl0ffCw6E.jpg?op=ocroped&val=1200,1200,1000,1000,0,0&sum=rAiiXEDx3o8 Absolutely not photogenic if she doesn't keep a straight face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:27 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/teenagers/comments/14wmht6/my_boyfriend_was_dating_2_other_girls_while_with I see the newer generation of women still don't have working "asshole radars".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:23 PM
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Zendaya is really mid and yes you can find plenty of hotter girls by going for a walk outside. Zendaya is your typical hollywood woman with some good features and some masculine features. Which tends to look good on camera and appeal to everyone, but otherwise isn't men's first choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:09 PM
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What's most surprising to me is that most of the guys I know are apps-based. Sex is an ego boost, yes, but sex arising from in-person socialization unironically feels better. do you think people don't have in person socialization after agreeing to meet up on an app...? Do you think they just fuck and not talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:09 PM
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That's 60% of the population. 6/10 and above is the 20% "attractive" people and 4/10 and bellow are the 20% "ugly" people. 4/10 is objectively where someone is unboringly bellow average AKA ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:07 PM
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Women are never interested in me, always feeling behind in every area of life and having to be socially awkward all the time. Autism isn't even needed to experience that as a man, just be avg.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:54 PM
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Well 3 people tried to explain you and you're still not getting it...... Either you just like playing fool or...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:34 PM
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Yes, that's where ugly starts, objectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:33 PM
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I hadn't him in mind but he's a solid specimen, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:14 PM
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People will start off by denying that 4/10 women are ugly, while throwing most 5/10 men as ugly. You must begin there to show who has it harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:13 PM
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That doesn't seem to be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:12 PM
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this person, mega ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:04 PM
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Nothing more cringe than men virtue signaling misandry, especially on here, trying to convince others that men are so strong and better that they have to accept being penalized or marginalized. Doormatry that they try to rebrand as strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:00 PM
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Explain me where I said circumcision is feminist fault. Explain me why if this topic was first started by feminist why it's no more a feminist talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:49 PM
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I don't care what you think of me, you ask things I answer, there's no deception in there. I already knew the reason why they'd do this because it has been known for the longest time that male circumcision significantly reduces the rate of contraction and infection of HIV with the potential impacts being described as enormous. I already knew of this and this is like an improvement of 0.1% to 0.07%, but they'll phrase it like "30% improvement". This is deceptive propaganda. Circumcision probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:47 PM
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So you googled that and ended up reading some unknown men's rights articles and decided that was feminism, and you want me to think I'm the one unhinged from reality? UN Women, a mondial feminist group, literally advocates circumcision as a good thing in third world countries, and refuses to label it mutilation, refuses to fight against it. Feminists hate that topic because they hate the idea of putting circumcision of men on par with FGM. Have you seen feminists make circumcision outlaw anywher…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:34 PM
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Affirmative actions are an example of things that feminism do that obviously hurts men by introducing anti men sexism. Example I experience was recruitment for my engineer school and for engineer jobs. Women were recruited at the school with less relevant or less good backgrounds than men. They were then recruited for internships and jobs way faster than men, some of them were literally told being a woman was the reason they were recruited. But all the mean time we were still told that we were h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:21 PM
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The worst are men. The best are also men. But on average, women are worse than men. Men are used to being rejected left and right, women develop PTSD over one rejection. Compare what's comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:51 AM
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You mean how many just say those things because they're losers who can't want anything anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:49 AM
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Why even go toward surgeries? Women are perfectly able to go the uncanny territory with redrawing their eyebrows or painting their nails already. A lot of lipsticks look gross as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:10 AM
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If I remember correctly the case, it's journalists that harassed her so she told the story and they made it bigger than she cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:44 PM
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I mean, before he gets beaten he's just a dork with a slimfat body. And it's suggested marry jane already noticed him at this point. Though there are many versions. We could think of transformer otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:36 PM
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Damn, and you're a hypocrite? How do you live with that much conflict in your heart my man? take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:35 PM
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I take care of explaining the link between the elements I bring with the topic. You don't. And when we prompt you, you explain yourself, and we eventually always find out it isn't relevant, it's just that you're trying to stick something with something else because it's easier to attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:34 PM
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Seems rough man. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:27 PM
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and IDGAF. Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:23 PM
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Irrelevant, bye
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:22 PM
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You think he's not sounding like an idiot when he talks of tesla? Most men I know think he's a buffoon. You seem like you are both racist and misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:17 PM
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Calling a character ugly (that's what you said the context was) has nothing to do with unfit expectations on reality. People do not expect realism in video games. So that's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:15 PM
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You're the only person here who thinks there are no blue pillers here. Again, try to find people who are concerned to debate with them about it. But I just think that you don't like we think you're blue pilled. You hate that don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:13 PM
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So you're saying men being dissatisfied with the gender roles that WOMEN IMPOSES on everyone is the result of men having too high expectations, yet bad taste in women and too low expectations, and that they're bad at communicating? You're aware that sexual revolution and second wave feminism happened to teach men not to have expectations of women, right? So you can't blame men for not having expectations on women's behavior, you have to blame women for themselves, you have to blame women for dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:11 PM
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Seems to me you got issues with people making up codifications so they understand each others better even when there's a lot of disagreement. That's such an odd thing to be rebellious against. Again, I invite you to make a post about it maybe you'll find more weirdos who feel concerned about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:06 PM
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That's just you having a bad case of strawman fallacy. Also, guys were willing to harass a trans game developer because a realistic character was “too ugly” and wasn't fap material. That's totally unrelated to your original point lol :|
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:04 PM
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That's literally not a strawman, I invite you read the definition of that fallacy. I'm not sure what you want, people come here to debate when they have diverging opinions, most of the time it's BP vs RP, and you seem to have issue with this constructed notion...? Good for you man?? If you got issues with that make a post. I'm not concerned at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:03 PM
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That's not what I'm saying. Most men have more standard than just "be interested in me", but even when they're having a gf, they're generally not getting the demonstrative love and interest they'd expect. Because women tend to think this is a thing men do to women, and that when women do it it's doormaty, like you just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:02 PM
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IDK, women seem more out of touch with reality than men. Women literally think jason momoa's lack of abs is "dad bods". They grow anorexic because of how other women make money off instagram photoshopped pictures. Their brain is on average more fried by social networks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:00 PM
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Can't you understand men just want a woman who is into them and who is bit demonstrative about it? You're aware men are also jealous of rockstars who have women line up for them and write them love letters and everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:58 PM
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What are you even saying? I'm here to debate blue pillers and in general people I disagree with. If you are everything like a blue pillers or if your opinions are divergent from me, I'm going to debate you. You're getting issues because I don't get any interest into knowing you more than that? I'm sorry man. But to me you're just a blue pillers that I use for short term debate, I don't have plans to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:57 PM
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Oh my god that's outrageous. Name?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:54 PM
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I mean, if she's asian, and acts submissive. Where is the scam...?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:53 PM
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A woman expressing her interest to a man, regardless of the way she does it, regardless of her body language, regardless of anything else, would be considered bottom tier according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:51 PM
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If many red pillers concluded that you're blue pilled after you went at them with blue pilled debate tactics, blue pilled arguments, and blue pilled opinions... Maybe you are blue pilled enough...?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:50 PM
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Welcome to tiktok where people pretend to be genuine on camera. This dude isn't the most obvious one, he just filming himself crying. Most people usually set up their camera, groom, put makeup, and then cry on camera after hours of preparation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:47 PM
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What are you offended at exactly? You're free to not view RPs as RPs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:45 PM
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What's happening here? Haven't you forgotten the rest of the exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:42 PM
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Reading you is difficult, you keep stacking words without structure nor punctuation. What act are you talking of? Are you aware one point TRP has is that most blue pilled men behave red pilled but just refuse to admit it or perceive it that way? What makes someone blue pilled isn't much their behavior, but their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:39 PM
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First of, if you’re rude or weird about it, then yeah, people get angry. But lets not act like we men do not judge people for the same things. https://external-preview.redd.it/eZmSHOsW8Ee6r03vzrh0XSc3leCwYA6FSw4Wnva0q0k.jpg?auto=webp&s=6e659c09dd9fca1d9d5705a16bc6e7de53ef11b7 You mean the kinda thing where when a woman does it it's normal but when a man does it it's rude? Women are generally rude about their standards, moreso than men since they're not bullied for it. (Also yeah you’re a pedo if…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:37 PM
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In the grand scheme of things, Identity is what people perceive of you, not how you perceive yourself. You do that everyday all the time, you're just putting much thoughts to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:31 PM
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So you're saying that the entirety of men who approach girls and show them interest are "desperate pickme" that are doormats? Somehow there must be subtilties in behavior and social codes that allows expression of interest without sounding needy and imploring. Ever heard of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:30 PM
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Men are selective just right for most women having their chances. That's how things should work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:53 PM
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Is this some sort of propaganda to tell men that they should pick women like you instead? But have women like you made an effort to tell men when they're interested? Maybe that's what men want, being shown interest to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:51 PM
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Report more. Show me the comments I'll report those who break rules in similar fashions that I've received warnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:49 PM
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IDK why you ask me this, people are blue because their opinions are blue, not because they self label blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:47 PM
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Crying = comments you don't like? Ain't that a strawman and ad personam. You not seeing the real life does not mean I am gaslighting you The gaslight part is when you deny someone's personal experience over your presumptions. Not because we disagree on real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:45 PM
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People get angry over men's preferences all the time. Tinder subreddit is full of women getting offended men ask for their weight. Reddit is full of women calling men pedo for choosing women younger than them. This subreddit is full of women complaining about men's preferences. It's everywhere. Acting like it's not the case is just a blatant lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:43 PM
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Backpedaling again. I get why people think you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:39 PM
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Blue pillers sure do love shaming others for hypothetical feelings they attribute to them. Very debaty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:38 PM
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Funny how "you got nothing" when I emulate your behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:37 PM
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Where is the crying part? Don't like being told you gaslight? stop gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:34 PM
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stop crying over my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:34 PM
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withdrawing consent after the encounter???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:41 AM
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I'm just talking to you so that others see you in plain light. I don't care otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:34 AM
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That's not funny nor witty
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:32 AM
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You'll waste your time strawmaning and personally attacking hypothetical groups but not waste your time defending a position. That's admitting you can't defend it, that's what doesn't play in your favor. You're just admitting you have zero credibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:31 AM
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That's backpedaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:29 AM
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Themselves. Women struggle with themselves. All of women's problems are self induced, by choice and by mental illnesses. They struggle with their high standards and their high neuroticism, it's their entire thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:28 AM
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You say that as if that's supposed to play in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:27 AM
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I like how you have a 'no, I will not provide evidence' comment saved. Losing debate and having 0 credibility when personally attacking others, speedrun any%
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:25 AM
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Nobody has been crying over your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:24 AM
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I literally talked to very rich people and know about their personal life, and you're comparing that with your hypothesis on melania trump? Great job debating. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:34 AM
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Well, good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:14 AM
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If animes ain't cutting it for you I can also offer all the spiderman shit where the loser gets the hottest girl that everyone want.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:12 AM
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Imagine being so jealous Uneastaji ain't talking with you that you're going to invent shit about his comment. It's not the right time of the month to log in catchphraze you can do better I've seen you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:11 AM
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I think I know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:09 AM
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People do not get angry for wanting a virgin. They do get angry for men having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:45 AM
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What a gaslight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:17 AM
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Pickmes do it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:15 AM
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This isn't what I'm asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:13 AM
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Why are you so jealous I'm having a conversation with someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:10 AM
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Yes I know I had those teenage fantasies too, but I was ashamed of them because of how stupid and unrealistic they were. But with women, it doesn't even seem to be such a "fantasy", most women seem to think they deserve things beyond their reach, or things that are obviously not going to be good for them. That's why it's a bit infuriating, especially when women keep pretending they're not like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:09 AM
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Don't be stupid, countries are getting economical issues because people don't reproduce enough. And economical issues makes people not want to reproduce. The economic situation of a country is a far bigger parameter than people's willingness to pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:50 AM
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For real? You were fat and wrote about getting chad's commitment? This is about as cringy and stupid as nerds watching animes about the loser getting all the hot girls. Like no amount of you thought that you shouldn't have to be shallow if you weren't conventionally attractive? Not even a little bit of self criticism or openness? Like IDK getting married with a cute dork like you or anything? no, only chad with conventionally attractive hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:47 AM
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IDK where people are finding their real life example. Every woman who breaks up finds a boyfriend in a month. Every man I Know who breaks up needs typically many months to many years. If you look at people only in stable positions you'll think they're stable, you have to look for when things are unstable to see who achieves stability more easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:29 AM
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How many kg of drug do you have to put up your ass in exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:27 AM
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They also think not being sick automatically makes anyone healthy and happy, if we want to push the equivalent further. WOmen complain left and right that they're not privileged because having men line up for you doesn't mean the relationships will be good. Men don't have women line up for them, and then it doesn't mean whatever they find is ever going to be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:23 AM
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Lol she thinks having maids means the wife doesn't do chores. Maids is an ultra rich thing to begin with, and even with maids the wife has work to do. The help that UMC people hire are just here to unload some part of the work, but usually counter balanced by them owning big homes. Source: Know ultra rich people, they also stopped drastically having maids after covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:06 AM
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Lol she thinks rich men don't make their wives clean and cook while they have mistresses on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:45 AM
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/r/nattyorjuice , even tho they're delusional AF. Prob more subreddits but not heard of them. In fact ,there are more subreddits dedicated to trash men than women, and are far more popular. The entirety of reddit seems to dislike men more than women. I'm puzzled anyone would pretend the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:48 PM
1

I'm french, I'll turn your ducks into bird butter meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:16 PM
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I'm a dude I don't have breast surgery or lips injection yet I know what a normal woman looks vs the bullshit I see on internet. When we say we want a dab bod, the immediate image that pops in our head is a Jason Momoa chest in perfect lighting. While at the same time they never meet a single man IRL that looks anywhere close to that even when in great shape, but somehow, somehow we have to forgive women for being absolute morons about their expectations while at the same time constantly beratin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:13 PM
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I'll give women that appreciating 3D features on a 2D picture is difficult, and that's why most cartoons exaggerate women's curves, or that most women think athletes have "normal bodies". But also they're just having their brain fried by social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:09 PM
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Clearly not natty and you're delusional if you think most men can get this through a normal lifestyle and 3 days a week lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:05 PM
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Women fuck animals far more disgusting than chickens. Men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:02 PM
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Bad news for your naive little heart but the internet is a lot more fucked than men fucking chickens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:47 PM
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Can't you guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:45 PM
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Dude looks 0% threatening and she was not alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:45 PM
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You for real or are you ironical? Last time I checked it's women who fuck the most bizarre objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:42 PM
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Welp, late stage pregnancy sex was one of the most painful sex of my life, and I'm the guy. It does work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:28 PM
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Reminder that women think jason momoa's offseason body is considered "dad bod".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:59 AM
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Retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:58 AM
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Spokespersons do more harm than anything else. Why do you think they're needed? Also why the obsession with this person being american or not? Why would it matter? The truth remains the truth regardless of who speaks it. Also americancentrism is cringe and annoying, if you don't like that you don't feel represented maybe you have issues to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:56 AM
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80 pounds A lot of it was retained water weight though. I don't think that's how water weight works. Seems to me that your ex just doesn't like your post pregnancy body and your ageing. Life happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:33 AM
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This is the result of catering to women's feelings instead on focusing on reality. When you try to solve their proxy problems they'll just invent another proxy problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:01 AM
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Maybe you have a bad case of slimfat and saggy skin going on? I have a friend who weights 105lbs for 5'0 and she looks good clothed on but in swimsuit looks visibly chubby. She has 0 muscles and does 0 sport and it shows. People's weight doesn't correlate well to their aspect. I weight very heavy yet people give me 10 to 20kg less than I am, and they think I am "normal weight" despite I'm technically obese. I store my fat viscerally and that makes me look ok with more variance. Women often store…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:56 AM
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I don't wanna hear women ever again complaining about the audacity of mediocre men. Have you seen the things who want you to pay for their half assed nudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:06 AM
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Me for instance. Most of the red pillers...?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:30 PM
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Riddle me how come plenty of people are fixing their loneliness by finding a partner? There must be many important parameters in your "logic" that you are missing entirely. It's almost as if they have needs and fulfilling the needs fixes the unfulfilled needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:59 PM
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More like "woman commits solipsism fallacy and refuses to be told other people exist differently".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:24 PM
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Already addressed your fallacious point. Address my points instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:22 PM
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It’s illogical for you expect one person or even a group of people to solve your problems when they are internal. What if the problem isn't internal? If the problem is a need unfulfilled? If the problem is "I don't have a partner"? Then it solves it, logically. Again, it depends if the loneliness is environmental, or internal. But I'm glad you recognize "a group of people" won't solve it, because that is OP's premise. If being lonely was such great drive why are guys on here always complaining a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:59 PM
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No it's not the same thing. Friends don't "work" together. A community aren't people you're forced to be friend with. OP’s point here is if you’re struggling with loneliness and depression, you’re not going to find a relationship let alone a family. You can perfectly find a relationship and build a family while being lonely. Loneliness is literally the drive for it. No one wants to be with someone they have to fix. Who said they had to fix? Sometimes finding the relationship with the right perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:08 PM
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Yes there's "self induced loneliness" that works like depression and won't be fixed by external stimuli. But environmental loneliness can be all about yourself being just ready for relationships, or kids. I don't understand this modern emphasize for friends, friends are literally the least meaningful bonds you can have in your life, and if you do not work that way, believe me that most people do work that way. A lot of people are accumulating friends, or pets, ignoring that what they really want…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:32 PM
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I'm not reading you anymore, go have your fallacies and gaslight elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:29 PM
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That comment starts off with irrelevant derailing and personal attacks. I'm not reading this. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:00 PM
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My comment said one person is maybe all you need, not about fixing loneliness. You suggest one person can't fix loneliness, I answer a group of friends can't either. You understand loneliness may not be environmental. Also some people might be needing to have kids...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:59 PM
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Just having friends also doesn't fix all of your problems. Maybe he feels lonely because his relationship is dysfunctional. Why do you think that guy is an example? Have you ever thought that people feel lonely because they can't maintain healthy relationships in a way that doesn't make them burn out? Have you tried understanding people at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:32 PM
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The vast majority of food consumed by hunter/gathers was from gathering not hunting. That's bullshit. hunter gatherers were eating a lot of meat, especially during winter. Even modern hunter gatherers hunt and eat meat daily, meat is all they think about it's literally their obsession and their life. The reason why we evolved like this is because childcare was left to the tribe members who could not do other work, not women, the elderly. Your idea of women shivering in the cave waiting for a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:30 PM
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I've not read the article specifically but I read somewhere that many alimonies were negotiated with uneven asset repartition in mind. Like some women gave up half their ownership of properties in exchange of higher alimonies. Perma alimonies make no sense when this is the part that's supposed to help stay at home wives get back on their feet. But if that is an arrangement for properties repartition it makes sense that this must be renegotiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:00 PM
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Yeah right every single extro I know think they're introverts, they're not at least as much introverted as the average person on PPD. Reminds me of sunhappy who was like "I'm such an intro! I went to convention to cosplay, that's an intro thing" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:56 PM
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Women can make their own money, and buy the labor of men without ever talking to a man. They can even get pregnant without even seeing a man. While men still have to talk to women and be good deals to them to access anything women provide. Let that be social care, labor, bearing babies... Humans lived most of their existence as hunter gatherers in relatively small communities, the absence of men meant no food, no shelter, no protection. They had to be good deals to men or men could simply leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:54 PM
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It's nice you're an extrovert! Have you thought other people do not work like you? If you can't be friends without physically seeing a person that sounds like you've got problems with object permanence Doesn't sound like you even read my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:47 PM
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When is she going to have time to live her own life? People who don't want/have friends but want a gf/bf usually need a lot of personal lone time anyway. And yes, one person can fix your loneliness. Sometimes just knowing that someone exists while you're alone is all there needs to be. You've profiled loners very wrongly and you do a lot of naive projections. You're also naive about what the adult life looks like. People who have friends and kids see each other once every 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:28 PM
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Maybe you're just unobservant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:19 PM
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Sounds like a you problem, the truth doesn't care about you. 6/10 is very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:19 PM
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Well to you it might not change much, but for the next guy that wants a "low n count" woman, it might matter a lot. There is a lot of time and mistakes before your N count is actually too high, that'd suggest you really can't select men, which all in all works at spotting the lesser value women often enough. The math ain't mathin' is what i'm saying. This is mathing correctly. Women too think that men should commit quickly to them, but they don't like divorced men compared to men who never marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:24 PM
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/r/truerateme is close to how I view things, I'm definitively not the only one. even if people don't agree on case per case, they should generally agree with the densities
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:16 PM
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I asked you do not troll. I asked you to elaborate. You elaborate and clearly show you're keeping up on trolling. None of what you said actually is about my points nor concern me. So, don't troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:35 PM
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Because these are qualities that are not affected by being in a relationship or a hookup. No matter how many relationships you have, you will remain taller, richer, older etc. Not the same with n-count. What does that change? Preferences being preferences. If a lot of women were to specifically target rich dudes in order to crash them into bankruptcy, That is literally what happens, women target rich dudes to suck on their money. Bankruptcy is an unfit exaggeration from you that isn't equivalent…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:33 PM
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I don't think we're talking about quite the same thing. I am talking specifically about high N count guys wanting low N count gals (or reverse the gender if it happens). And you think they want low N count gals just for sex??? Typically they have high N count with casual sex and they don't care about N count of their partner until they want to settle. why is it not hypocritical of him to demand that his partner be low N? Why is it not hypocritical of women to demand that their partner to be tall…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:55 PM
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Ok well if you don't like the "littering" analogy you can discuss it with the person who made the littering analogy, that I reused to make them understand my point. You can also discuss this with the men who are seeking virgins, not me. None of this has to do with my points, and I hate to break it to you but couldn't care less about your moral concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:52 PM
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but fail to recognize it has always been this way You fail to recognize it has not always been this way. Debunking feminists will not get you more pussy. In fact, when a woman is talking about feminism or any other ideology on a date, the best thing you could do is to take a neutral stance, even if you disagree and try to understand her. Are we on a date? No. We're on a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:50 PM
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On your scale, 80% of people are 1-5 and 20% are 6-10%. No. 80% of people are 1-6. My bell curve is symmetric. This isn't a "whole problem" with the 1-10 scale. The crushing majority of people are average, it's like this in any human metric. Height, IQ, anything.... Attractiveness works the same. This isn't subjective unless you both come from different countries with different obesity rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:07 PM
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Don't troll. Either you discuss the point and I dissipate eventual misunderstandings or you don't. You just don't pull that kinda shit comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:58 AM
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but what will their acknowledgement give you? If you don't debunk feminism and women's pathological victimhood, society will be reshaped to accommodate to that and to screw you over. We live in a society where women can earn their money and get a lot of money from the government and from other men, but still successfully push ideas like "period products should be free" or that women should have advantage during hiring processes or acceptation in colleges (which is already the case). And all thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:42 AM
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Having sex with a virgin will permanently make her a non-virgin. It's not like removing a tall guy from the dating pool. It's removing a virgin from the dating pool. So it's literally the same. Tall guys will go back to the dating pool and pair again with a short woman since the demand for them is high. Eventually it's always going to be "everyone want it and a non negligeable amount of people who don't need it the most are still going to get it" and it's going to create an unbalance no matter w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:23 AM
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Women can find men appealing for their sex appeal or for their good husband/parent qualities. You should build relationships with someone who has both, and stop pretending that having only the later is ok and will yield the sex life men want, because it doesn't and it's just disingenuous. It's a bit like if men told women that they should have sex on the first date, it's mostly an "advice" that benefits men and doesn't ensure that women get anything they want. It's a selfish false advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:07 AM
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I still don't understand how women want men who earn more but can't find them, take high earning jobs. It's not merely a preference. You are actively creating the problem you are complaining about. By taking high earning jobs you not only make it more difficult to meet a higher earning men but you also take a high earning spot that a man could have had. "Well, it's the same as a short woman wanting a tall man". No, it's not. Unless the man somehow gets shorter after their hookup. That means ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:55 AM
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Age 40: “Why aren’t men polite to women anymore?” Age 41: "Oh they're still polite to young women, why are men pedo???"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:46 AM
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Yep. If the whole 1-10 scale is linear, then only 40% of people are 7 or higher. It's not, 60% of people are between 4 and 6/10, only 20% of people are beyond 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:45 AM
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5 is meh. 5.5 is pretty cute. 6 is beautiful. 7 is like one in 20, it's far beyond "just cute".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:44 AM
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average is 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:43 AM
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Are you here to fight or? YES LOL this is a debate sub, debate me :')
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:41 AM
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About 30 minutes if I have lots of private time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:39 AM
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Good for you, I don’t. "I don't see the point of paying you well " - boss to their employee You make a CMV post in which you show clearly you are projecting your female psyche onto men. I'm explaining you how men work, and that is all you got to say? You're just bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 09:33 AM
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Oh yeah free gift are just free gift! Created out of thin air! How convenient in your narrative. :') Sleeping in a car? Do you think more women sleep in their car or in inappropriate places than men???? By the definition of how much money they have more women live in poverty. By the definition of how much money, possessions, and things given to them, more men live in poverty. But these data are skewed anyway, poor men die earlier and more frequently than poor women, so the numbers for men are na…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:59 PM
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And someone feeding you and sheltering you isn't a slave? You think he's your dad or something? Lol as the definition of homeless is skewed towards types more prevalent in men. The definition of homeless is pretty clear. You're the one nitpicking what poverty is so that only women are considered poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:46 PM
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It's not unpaid work if he pays the bills. If you pay the bills 50/50 and do all the chores, likely you pushed yourself into unpaid work. As we all know women impose their high standards of living onto men and then are pikachu face that men do not follow. Women are not more likely to live in poverty, men are majority of the homeless people and poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:13 PM
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That is out of topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:11 PM
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You're deflecting answering my points.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:11 PM
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No, you disingenuously declare anything that's masculine to be important to women. The privilege is having the choice between being paid to do the laundry or being paid to work, while men can only work. Some women go through their life never having to do any and never lacking any money, some women both work and siphon their working husband's money. But you're the biggest victims here right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:06 PM
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Unwest sounds like east. And uneast like eastn't. So where does your dick point toward?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:57 PM
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What do I gain from being wanted because I'm a good husband and parent? I'll gain more work, not more rewards. If I am wanted for my sex appeal, I'll get more sex, which is the reward. As long as women will not reward stable men with sex, respect and passionate love, men are not going to feel good for being the stable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:15 PM
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There's empirical evidence that women are systematically disadvantaged in a range of MASCULINE areas by their own performance and choices. While there are empirical evidences society keeps helping them more than men to try and compensate for it. Despite the other empirical evidences that women obliterate men in feminine areas of life with no hint of trying to give equal opportunities to men. I understand you may not feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 05:05 PM
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I don't believe the demographics of female rappers are majority women. That's nice you say that because my comment just so happens to address this if only you read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:45 PM
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It hasn't been about the amount of sex you have for a long time. Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:44 PM
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Yes that's the problem, they don't think, they're just "anything my group experience is harder than other groups".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:43 PM
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Angelina jolie...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:43 PM
1

Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:43 PM
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It works on women. Women love masculine women. They'll be successful just like Hollywood man jawed women are successful. They appeal sufficiently to both men and women to be "winning" the competition of fame more than very feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:06 PM
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The blue pill field reports are.... interesting....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:03 PM
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Feminism and women all tend to share this tendency to take a "feeling" and think it is a truth. 2X is as a result feminist because it caters to women's feeling of victimhood. Normal women are successful in dating. But most of them will still side with that the dating market is disfavoring women simply because their emotions are negative about it. Regardless of numbers, statistics, and everything, pointing out that men are getting the shorter end of the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:58 PM
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No. You are successful or you're not, regardless of how good you are at coping with your lack of things in your life. Someone who never dated because they focused on their studies and career are as much of an incel as the one who complains they're alone. If dating was easy to the first one they'd be able to date while pushing the rest forward. A lot of people are going to posture as "not interested/never tried" just so they never appear as losers, but they're losers just the same, they're postur…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:48 PM
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The excitement comes from you pursuing them not from you pursuing other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:25 PM
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Love is a byproduct of the imperative of reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:19 PM
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Yeah no, the point of life is to survive and reproduce. Everything is a derivative or byproduct of these 2 imperatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:16 PM
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It might work but I disagree. Men need to accept that they are interested, accept to communicate it, accept that it is going to be visible. It needs not to be a vulnerability to admit interest, but to be normal, and be assertive about it. Your specific interest for a woman might give off a scarcity vibe but it's also quite necessary to seduce most women, they're not going for someone to who they're "just a random approach", they need to feel like they've been chosen out of many. You give away ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:12 PM
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That sounds irrelevant to the comparison. Obviously there's a degree of gravity for both incels and femcels. Some men had success early on and have a hard time later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:33 PM
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I know a few women who never desired a relationship. My aunt is a prime example. You know a few femcels. Femcel aunt isn't an uncommon trope. Here is the kicker. For most women who do not want relationships with men, have been sexually assaulted by a man/men in the past. So they're mentally ill or damaged in a way or another, and that's supposed to convince me they're not femcels? You're aware most incels are also deranged, right? People still call them incels. Femcels are just dysfunctional one…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:30 PM
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Try to make it work, has a widow been uncapable to get commitment? Or has she literally gotten successful commitment before? Does a husband dying a sign that she's uncapable to pair bond, has shit looks nad personality, or is too high standard, ect...? women who never desired a relationship. Being unwilling is a common theme among incels and femcels. 99% of incels are literally incels because they don't move a finger you know that, so you can guess it works the same way for femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:59 PM
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What are you talking of, prostitution? How is that relevant to anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:56 PM
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It's fine, I'm just putting this reminder because people tend to evaluate femcels as women who can't get sex, which makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 11:00 AM
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Femcel = Any woman who isn't married or in a serious LTR at 25. If incels can't get sex, femcels can't get commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:25 AM
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Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:47 PM
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It's subtle, but yeah, people don't look up to you, they think you're just expired and irrelevant. If I'm to divorce I'm not super hopeful I can rebuild a relationship where there'll be mutual attraction and respect. I'll definitively give it a shot, but seems like it's going to be harder than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:46 PM
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I'm 34 year old, married, with kids. I'm just noticing how people look at me and others differently past a certain age and past certain bagages. People never looked at me like I was a sexual being, due to being a bellow average male, but I didn't know it could be worse. :') I thought you couldn't get lower than the ground itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:36 PM
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Nobody wants to interact with men about their physic. There's just no interest doing so. People want to see women, and talk to them. Even women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:52 PM
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It's just that past 30 with baggage your odds of ever fucking someone half decent looking who is sexually attracted to you and isn't demanding too much of you gets very low. And love gets really washed down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:44 PM
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Didn't read
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:42 PM
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You know it's funny watching someone who makes less than me whine Didn't read past that. But I bet you're either being fallacious or backpedaling on your initial statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:32 PM
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you've proven that 70% of men are getting at least a thing a year. That amounts to not a lot of meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:31 PM
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He looked way too juvenile in the movies. And he looks way younger than 50 here. I'm sure he looked best in his 30s, or outside of the movies where he was voluntarily presented as juvenile looking because he was supposed to be 10 year younger than he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:20 PM
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The discussion is being an average man isn't easy. The discussion is avg men aren't getting pussies and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:20 PM
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You completely misunderstood. You are really a proof that mediocrity can get you far as long as you believe you're worth gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:19 PM
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And I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:07 PM
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I'm sorry I made that assertion thinking everyone knows the avg man isn't getting ONS and FWBs but apparently you need to discuss the existence of gravity every waking days on this subreddit.... Most chances at steady sex an avg man has is through a relationship, that means no relationship = mostly getting nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:54 PM
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Most men aren't getting ONS and FWB, so most single men are also celibate or whatever word you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:52 PM
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My assertion is what I believe. The link I showed deals with one of the point, you cannot use the lack of statistics for the other point to deny it. That's how you're nitpicky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:46 PM
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The thing they forget is 99% of people never felt represented in video games and media.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:45 PM
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well go be nitpicky to someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:42 PM
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You've inferred what you wanted to infer. Said the person who inferred what they wanted to infer. Original point was "avg men are getting pussies and relationships", and the second point is clearly wrong by these statistiques. That people search or not isn't an interesting distinction, because they'd not need to "search or not" if finding and maintaining was easy. Women spend most of their life not searching and not caring, a lot more than men, yet most of them are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:39 PM
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How many are getting sex 3 times a week for 52 weeks straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:14 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:13 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ Your numbers are suspiciously high considering most young men are celibate while most young women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:12 PM
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Pew research stated the average male's not getting anything tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:44 PM
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Why do you ask this personal question?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:22 PM
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I don't see why you think people who've had less sex are more stable. Look, that you want to be this naive for yourself is one thing, but not only most people do think this way but also studies show that this is effectively how things work. Most people who are virgin in their late 20s are simply people who focused on their studies and career monolithically and who then want to find someone to build a home. To a woman these men are often very ideal, but they're not immediately exiting so they'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:15 PM
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Yes, keeping a job and being half decent at it isn't difficult, but being so fucking narcissistic that you think your mediocre self is worth any high paying job is something 80% of people aren't. So the thing is you're just good at interview and not a lot of people can be. Last interview I had the dude was sold as a "master engineer that made his own company", first thing first he quoted me elon musk, then proved me he wasn't less knowledgeable than I am. Clearly an underqualified moron but who …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:05 PM
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Yeah the "life stage" thing is bullshit because at some point people want stable, and low N count or virgin people are the most stable people. The truth is women want a man with similar N count and men want a woman with sightly lower N count. At any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:57 AM
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I say that beard benefits him, he looks literally better than in the movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:50 AM
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I was rejected a couple time explicitly for this, so I started lying, had sex the next try. And the girl I fucked first, she didn't believe I was a virgin. Not wanting a virgin guy is a fair preference to have lol. If you think lying is legitimate you can't believe that preference is fair. Especially considering women are pissed off at men's disdain for high N count women, or considering women are pissed off at players and want stable guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:47 AM
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Because TRP is about the tiny effort that provides the maximum results. Lifting will make your health, mental, and body, be in a good state. Overdoing or overthinking it is going to be too much effort compared to what you're seeking. Steroids is a high price to pay for something most people are going to find uncanny anyway. And women will only notice it when you're naked, which is beyond the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:44 AM
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I've been rejected 2 or 3 times by women for being virgin. And they only fucked me when I started lying about it. Women as a whole are clearly as picky about their partner's sexual past as men, if not more. Let them justify their bullshit how they want they're entitled to their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:42 AM
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I've read a book about one's 10s being one's formative years. Another one about one's 0s being one's formative years as well. Don't search too much for "the science behind it" it's not science, it's speculation based on tiny bits of scientific truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:33 PM
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This guy never talked to LilithOfBabylon !
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:36 PM
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If you offer me 200$ to help clean the diarea off your grandpa's ass because he's handicapped that'd be a turn off just the same as if you offered me 200$ to fuck me. Yet plenty, plenty plenty of men and women are doing this as a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:20 PM
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It's not. You sell your body for money. That's how regular work is, that's how prostitution is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:26 PM
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Deadbeat dad just "gave their kid up for abortion". I don't see why people should hold them accountable. You pay child support if you want rights over the kid, that's the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:00 PM
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"no discrimination in the work place" is for hiring, not selling. There are already jobs where people can refuse clients, where "refusal to sell" isn't a rule. Prostitution is real work, people have been sacralizing sex so much that they try to convince you selling your body for sex is worse than... selling your body for labor. And it's an intellectually disingenuous thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:59 PM
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I realize just now that I wasn't answering to the comment I thought I was. I thought I was answering to the guy who claims you shouldn't date if you're not rich hot ect ect.... And that you'd tell me that I succeeded because I'm in some alternative circle. I know quite enough about the alternative circle as well, no one really likes bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:00 PM
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I'm more of a normie than you are and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:46 PM
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Ok so that was an irrelevant intervention from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:08 PM
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I reproduced and I fit none of your standards. Only those who reproduce are meant to reproduce, that's how natural selection works, it doesn't care how.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:06 PM
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Most men have discernement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:13 AM
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Ron perlman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:12 AM
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You're aware a lot of women, if not the majority of women, have the ick for bisexual men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:11 AM
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Debate lost with that comment my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:09 AM
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If you're a man, then you should NOT be listening to random people about what you can or cannot do. I was not top 20% financially, not in shape, not "emotionally mature" (we all know that's just bullshit tho), and didn't have cool hobbies. I dated and everything was fine. The only advice men need to learn regarding women is "go talk to women", there's nothing else that matters immediately, everything else is just a nice bonus. And 99% of incel's issue is they don't talk to women, or they're seve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:08 AM
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I've no idea which gender you are so I can't tell what you're saying at all. I'll repeat myself: men aren't supposed to push for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:06 AM
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Women literally do not earn and contribute as much to the household than their men. And are complaining days and night that men aren't going to respect the standard of living their impose them. If there's anything I've noticed, it's that it's women who think "his money is our money" but not "his chores are our chores"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:05 AM
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We both know why you've been banned and that isn't for calling the discord a dumpster fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:15 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:15 PM
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Lesbians are a hoax.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:15 PM
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Wait until you hear about the women's arguments against age gaps in relationships, or against TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:14 PM
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Daily reminder men are the gatekeeper of commitment and women should be working to get it. You want to be married? Make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:13 PM
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Liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:11 PM
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You're aware you have to be 18 here too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:10 PM
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literally nobody except few women care about nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:04 PM
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Reddit isn't representative of reality. Normal people still go with strong notions of femininity and masculinity, only most people have been influenced by feminism and have very low expectations of femininity while maintaining strong standards for masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 09:02 PM
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Won't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:19 PM
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Shit's difficult to gauge sometimes. Small statured slim fat women look insanely good in clothes. While the chicks who look very good naked and have actually insane genetics usually don't look that good in clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:31 PM
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The entire issue of women is themselves, they have everything to go through life easily, their problem is neuroticism, pickiness, unwillingness to take risks and be assertive, ect... Some FtM are fixed by the hormonal therapies because suddenly their brain stops painting everything as bad. Some others were doing fine being balanced and see it as a straight downgrade because men's life is colder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:29 PM
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Yeah management and HR got feminized hard these last decades. And it's a shitfest of pretending and posturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:24 PM
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what about gay facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:21 PM
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Subs like /r/sex or relationship_advice are full of "dumb him" and "listen to her", all things equal people on reddit think women deserve to be listened, empathized to, and be given second chances, while men should be disposed of immediately at first hint of defect. It's not just women defend women just because they're women, everyone defends women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:21 PM
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On a debate sub, people should play by those rules or lose the arguments automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:17 PM
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Don't forget the "women are more mature than other men by 3 year!" when that is convenient to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:17 PM
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Feminism is not women helping women, feminism is everything helping women. Should you remember that feminism wouldn't be a thing and wouldn't achieve anything if men weren't also backing it up. because women were disadvantaged for a long time due to social and legal structure. Women were disadvantaged if you consider "being a man and doing man stuff" is an advantage, they were however advantaged in women's avenues. Women nowadays are advantaged both in men's avenue and women's avenue. That femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:11 PM
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No, as far as you remember they are fallaciously claiming that. But it's been debunked as unscientific conclusion. What happens is there is a rate of neurons produced vs neurons who dies, and equilibrium is reached in our 20s, and some part of our brains later than others. In no way does that indicate anything about "development" or "maturity". There are several layers of unscientific biased conclusions that are stuck on top of this simple phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:08 PM
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Benevolent sexism in feminism is recognizing this pattern. Are you denying that feminism isn't considering women to be in need of more protection and trying to protect them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:07 PM
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Or prevent being wrong, they're notorious for banning people who are actual knowledgeable feminist and spew unfeminist shit instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:03 PM
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Cap, all women who say 6ft is too tall always are with guys who are 6ft or taller anyway. My SIL literally tells me I'm perfect height at 5'5 I've never seen her with a guy shorter than 5'11. This just virtue signaling, height clearly compensates for something that they're unable to voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:00 PM
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"nobody told me how lonely being a man is" that's what happens when you are with woke people who pledge their life to denying men's issues and masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:55 PM
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Men need to be allowed to fail. It's like you don't read me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:06 AM
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Not a lot of people accept that people have different rhythms. Sometimes it's better that your partner doesn't see how you work. We do the bed together because it takes four hands. Amen, fuck lone bed making
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:36 PM
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Again just talking of my life and not an argument: I'm supposed to work around 40h but I don't work 40 effective hours. I'm effectively working 3h a day on avg and apparently it's a fairly common and DECENT rate among software engineers, but I need quite the time to energize myself to do these 3h a day, if I do chores in the remaining 5 hours I'm not energized to do the 3h of work. You know, I'm these "work in a burst" kinda person.... Wife is extremely annoyed by this... She can't not work 8h a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:18 PM
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My message is "men are supposed to accept they'll fall, fall, get back up and try again", which part to you sounds like there's no struggle? Society should accept that men will fall (aka approach women and be rejected) and accept that men need that to learn, and should make it more socially acceptable. Instead of telling men they should be ashamed to even try. Again, favorizing healthy masculinity will ensure that less men will fail all in all. But eventually, being persistent and improving is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:13 PM
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and a few pets. What's that to tidy up after? Pets really do force a lot of vacuuming and moping tho. My wife wanted 2 cats and 2 dogs, I didn't want any, we compromised and we have 2 cats and 2 dogs but I never vacuum nor mop. Eventually it was a good deal for me :') Floor turns into nasty garbage every 2 days. Well, or a prodigious misser of toilets when it comes to puke, piddle, and poo. You miss the toilet, your responsibility. But the rest I'll gladly handle. I used to clean after myself, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:49 PM
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Don't talk to me if you've only read half my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:34 PM
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contributing according to what percentage of the household income you make is sensible to me. It is, if kids are in the equation. Otherwise, no thanks. No reason to pay more for someone who doesn't want to invest themselves more. And people, especially on reddit for instance, are pretty adamant that marriage = shared money, but as soon as you say whoever pays more does less chores, suddenly the logic turns into "whoever has more free time makes more chores". Again, the general sentiment is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:34 PM
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Are you asking if there are people as late to the dating game as you? Depends your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:12 PM
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I quote andrew tate and elon musk while picking my nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:11 PM
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Sadly I meet a lot of hypocritical women who think me earning more money is pure luck and randomness, think my money is their money, and then don't think my chores are their chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:48 PM
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This isn't about your opinion on what constitutes "dressing like a man", there was a time when pants and t-shirts were not considered appropriate for women, and a time when it became appropriate. Name it however you want, but this is what I am discussing here. Discuss the points I make, I don't want to hear your pedantic nitpickism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:37 PM
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All the statistics show that there are still more outearning men in marriages and that women still seek out financial stability from men even when they are financially dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:35 PM
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Now men see us as toys and the children they make with us as mere side effects of a good nut. Statistics say men are involved parents more than ever. It was reasonable to ask for basic rights, such as financial independence Yes, it's also reasonable now to tell women to date men who earn less. Yet, they still expect men to do more. But people still want to blame it on men, when women and their standards are the issue. Stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:30 PM
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Stop making it personal. This is a debate sub, I'm not here to discuss my problems, I'm here to discuss societal problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:27 PM
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I can't control what other people think, but you can absolutely seek out those of us who don't buy into gender norms. You probably do while convincing yourself you don't. It's more and more people. No, it's getting more gender normified. In my country, all workers are eligible for mat leave or pat leave. I'm talking of mandatory paternity paid leaves, not the parental leaves that you take while sacrificing your earnings, that mostly women take because it's either one or the other. So find the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:26 PM
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How do you call this kind of gaslight or fallacious manoeuver to shame someone? There's no way in hell you think I'm supposed to argue back to someone who can't align 2 consistent sentences. If you really agreed with me you'd not care I explain my point any further when it's been exposed plain and clear already, stop lying. So I will also just not engage any further with you, have actual arguments or walk away, fallacies don't work with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:48 PM
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The point isn’t to take away choice from women again and demand that they can’t have personal standards. That's literally what was asked of men, to not have personal standards. And women promised that they already had no personal standards regarding gender norms. Which is why stay at home dads experience less shame and senses of “failure” than before A minority nonetheless. Majority of women are accepted in traditionally male gender roles. Things haven't changed for men in any significant fashio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:29 PM
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In general, the women who tell men to just talk to random girls are also those not being against men who have approached them politely and haven't insisted. While those who live approaches very negatively also tell men to stop doing it. I've not found many contradictory or hypocritical women out there on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:19 PM
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Sucks to be low a low T man I give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:18 PM
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I may have adhd and I made it out of solitude at 19 despite an extreme blue pilled and feminist inhibited education. it's not an argument but so is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:55 PM
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That's male natural selection, healthy men are supposed to thrive despite 100 rejections. The male psyche isn't supposed to see a difference between doing nothing and being rejected 100 times, the male psyche is supposed to embrace that risk for the reward is big once it lands. And if that healthy man with male psyche is gifted with a decent brain, he'll also learn plenty and improve. The sad part is society should embrace health masculinity and help men be that way, not teach them to inhibit th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:32 PM
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No, they're just giving advices that benefits you because they aren't concerned. While other women tell you to leave them alone when they're concerned, because that benefits them. Some people have a hard time admitting that what benefits men do not benefit women, but it's often that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:30 PM
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You're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:50 PM
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why do you care
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:37 PM
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You appear to be writing text that means something, then claim it means something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:37 PM
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that comparative doesn't make sense proceeds to show it makes a lot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:23 PM
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I personally already refuse to conform to gender norms. And yet the market seems to be getting worse for men every year. That is explained very simply by the fact that men are over represented in the dating market place, due to a stagnating or shrinking demography. Again, women could simply do what they demanded men to do during 2nd wave feminism, and actually drop gender norms for men? Women are literally like cats in australia. Cats are fed by the humans they own, and can also feed on preys in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:13 PM
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There are plenty of us who don't expect that. But somehow all of those who don't expect it happen to have a partner who earns more! Statistics backing that point anyway. Be the change you want to see. Another "blame men" argument. Men are literally having the shorter end of the stick in the dating market, they're not the ones who can drive changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:03 PM
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Boss to employee: "you're not forced to work for minimum wage, I give you the choice to live in poverty or live in extreme poverty" Thank you for your piece of wisdom! You don't understand the point tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 01:01 PM
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How am I blaming men?? I simply said, blame men Ok...... well you know what, forget it, discussing and arguing isn't your strong side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:54 PM
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and men can opt to be stay-at-home husbands/fathers if they want. Women do not want that, expectations didn't change, men are expected to make MORE money than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:52 PM
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Strawman of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:44 AM
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Boss to employee: "The problem is a large % of employee have low skill and low motivation and minimum wage is the only move they have, so I'm not raising salaries guys this is just your fault"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:41 AM
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Sexual revolution and 2nd wave feminism: Women asked that we drop gender roles, that we stop holding women by high standards of sexual behavior, that men and women could do what they want. Result: Men did effort, approached women less, hold women for lesser standards. Women can now do what they want, dress like men, have men's life. Women didn't change one yotta in their expectations of men and their behavior. But we still got people like you blaming it all on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:40 AM
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Men probably don't care to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:37 AM
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Yes, hugging girls who don't have bras especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:36 AM
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High quality men care about a certain aesthetic but not about looks directly. They want educated thin women who know how to behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:17 PM
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Younger women are easier. An age gap makes it easier for these women to respect you. Ageing makes women build more standards while losing value. Now I agree that "those men are predators" is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:03 PM
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My wife isn't the type to talk and listen. I solve problems typically by dropping my own standards. Just like I do for my boss. If they do what they want, I'll as well, no resentment build up thanks to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:54 PM
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Good for him, "skyn" condoms and all the super slim whatever condoms don't change jack shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:52 PM
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We can play the justify cheating game if you want but you're not going to like how women's justifications are in fact their own failure at abiding to marital duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:31 AM
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That's because women are also lead in deadbedrooming the men they marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:25 AM
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Everyone overrate women. But women in particular tend to overrate masculine women. That friend/sister who is "so gorgeous" has a chin so huge it could be used in a stone wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:33 AM
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Yeah well I don't care, statistics say your normies ain't normies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:31 AM
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sadly not how misandry works
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:20 AM
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Doesn't change one yotta
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:16 AM
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Dua lipa looks like a trans, why do you expect femininity and hypergamy from women who are obviously masculine sociopaths? Why do you expect rich and famous people to behave like normies?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:16 AM
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I glanced over the article and saw no attempt at excusing these lesbians for what they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:14 AM
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And that's how incels are created. Lol seriously do you expect most men to get any IOI ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:13 AM
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That's not narcissism that's pride and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:12 AM
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Cause you burn in hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:12 AM
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Is that a personal attack based on thin air?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:10 AM
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Pump and dump is actually not a recurring nor common phenomenon. Most men do escalate commitment despite it is women's job, which is disingenuous to men. The dating market is also greatly in favor of women because there's permanently a surplus of men until people are 50 year old. If a woman faces a lot of issues with pump and dump, the problem is her and entirely her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:37 PM
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If you're surprised rich famous dudes cheat you're really too young for this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:36 PM
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Yes you can, happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:07 PM
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Women are perfectly capable to ruin sex for themselves without even having sex once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:27 PM
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A good dad makes a woman’s ovaries explode. That's the thing women want you to believe that is a complete lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:08 AM
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It serves no purpose, african men aren't references.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:44 PM
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Who aren't going to consider them full men. Just like you can expect a divorced single mother to have a shitty libido and be a poor sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:44 PM
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Ok so you got the right answer that western men are too gentle, but your argument is so bad. Why do I care what mamadou does in africa? The real cuck is caring about what other men do tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:40 PM
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WIth such a post title I thought you'd be talking to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:35 PM
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apprehension of danger, cat caller tell you they're mad men, and mad men can always be more mad than you, and are ready to risk losing more than you. You experience it as a dude fairly often too, groups of thugs who curse at you, yell at you, ask money, ect... You know if you don't get out of here quickly something nasty can happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:26 PM
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I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:24 PM
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I usually like these guys, but this guy's style is just very bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:59 PM
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yeah well not a lot of men got the memo as they work their asses off to marry some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:44 PM
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Being married makes it extra difficult. That's why it's usually the richer men who have mistresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:41 PM
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Affairs would be rare if wives fucked their husbands. So they seek someone who view them as a full man instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:36 PM
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It makes him an asexual object but a good husband to most women. Much like a hardworking minimum wage worker in the boss's eyes. It's not in his interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:11 PM
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I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:10 PM
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Women don't like anything that lowers their value, they need men to be tied into competition without outlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:58 PM
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You are unobservant then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:45 PM
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Reread my previous comment and don't reply unless you got a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:30 PM
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That is not. I invite you to read the definition. either way I don't care, that's not the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:16 PM
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In the eyes of women it does. Haven't you seen women's reaction when a man is a divorcee with kids? It's like that man has expired.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:15 PM
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Men are not looked down upon by men or women for being married. "Minimum wage workers are not looked down upon by bosses for working and never being raised, they're praised for doing so, they're applauded for working despite the covid" Doesn't matter that they're applauded, the thing is they're paid like shit and aren't respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:15 PM
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Madonna-whore complex is specifically a lock in men's head that's not the same phenomenon as men not willing to commit to a slut whose only value is sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:13 PM
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Commitment is really the equivalent of sex. Commitment damages and degrade men. A woman who look up to you for commitment doesn't see you as a full man, only as a commitment whore. You'll never get her respect. And the biggest form of commitments are marriage and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:22 PM
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Good thing rules stop at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:12 PM
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No you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:11 PM
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I downvoted 10 of your comments to compensate. Clearly you're too emotional to be ready for your popularity yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:13 PM
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What ways? It was never noble, it was always hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:10 PM
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Using words does not make you a loser, your status does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:08 PM
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I saw you write in french! Viet girls are cute and have wide hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:47 AM
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what are you then, why do you talk french on here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:44 AM
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You're viet?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:43 AM
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I bet you make your baguette sandwitches upside down like a degen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:42 AM
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I tried last week but you didn't answer, you're not even a true french.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:41 AM
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And most unbalance would be understood if people accepted men seek sex and women seek commitment, and that sex is considered evil while men are pushed to give their commitment easily and early.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:38 AM
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Yes, that's totally how things happen /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:46 PM
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Among black men maybe, otherwise no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:35 PM
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Or they're very attractive or low drive and never experienced any hardship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:13 PM
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Unhappy when you spend time with friends, unhappy when you got no friends. Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:12 PM
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Yes, I will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:09 PM
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Forgetting one second that this sub is full of haters who just want to hate men, very often they'll spread lies about "how girls work", and I don't mean behavioral shit I mean biological things that are known.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:08 PM
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Being different isn't always good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:06 PM
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You're not supposed to care that a woman likes you or not, only what she does is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:34 AM
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Only with a thin waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:32 AM
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Literally all the women on here want an attractive husband with UMC job and you're surprised there are some men who want tradwives?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:30 AM
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No, it's friday afternoon, nobody works on friday afternoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:28 AM
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Go on and try insulting someone, see how long that fly with the moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:27 AM
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Most of the time, people are normal weight and look fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:24 AM
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"working for free to your boss isn't a bad thing, it's just a thing" Nice try, boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:21 AM
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It's not that assholes attract women, it's that strong desires and assertiveness are considered wrong, so whenever someone has those trait there are also other traits like egocentrism, narcissism and domineering behaviors that makes them assholes. Same can be seen with women who think they keep men because they're toxic pieces of shits. They think being jealous bratty possessive assholes is what works when in reality it's simply the expression of interest and efforts to keep the relationship ali…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:20 AM
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Whatever. I'm not interested reading about indian people's perspective on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:56 PM
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when a woman is truly attracted to you. Yeah that's the problem here m8, doesn't happen for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:56 PM
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IDK for oneself, but how I reignite the spark of my wife for me is by dreading her hard. Maybe that person you lost attraction from needs to try a little harder to get your attention and seduce you. So dreading might work just as much, worst case scenario you move on and don't waste your time, best case scenario they move their asses to seduce you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:42 PM
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Nah that's all upside down. Women do not want to sleep with a myriad of dudes, they want commitment. That makes men's commitment more valuable than their dick. That's why men need to be giving away their commitment more scarcely, and they need to make women work for it. Your reasoning sound like it would make sense to an indian conservative man with low libido and who is working class. But anywhere else, doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:22 PM
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I've been raised BP and I converged to RP because reality worked differently that the bullshit I was told. If plenty of people converge to RP despite not knowing about it and being isolated in a sea of blue pill messages, you should ask yourself questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:02 PM
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Au début j'étais content de voir un francophone. Maintenant je me dis que tu vas juste pourrir notre réputation plus que d'habitude. Arrête d'être malade mental stp. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:59 PM
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Isn't the context that she got exposed to dangerous chemicals that can be used to make bombs thus triggering his question?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:57 PM
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Les faux seins c'est moche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:53 PM
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C'est à peu prêt la même chose qu'on entend de la bouche de toutes les femmes. Et puis après elles se mettent en couple avec quelqu'un qui a rien de spécial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:29 PM
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The fundamental problem with FDS is that it tells women to not show any interest. TRP at least is about showing interest. It wouldn't be successful, as not showing interest is the hallmark of failure for both genders. The FDS woman wouldn't go on a cheap date and the TRP dude wouldn't go on an expansive first date anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:17 PM
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What about rather accepting that men feel more anger than anything else and you gotta accept that and teach men to redirect that anger correctly, as a part of "work on as a society"? Instead of telling men they should be more like women? Which is what society does since 3 decades and hasn't worked...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:11 PM
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This narrative is bullshit because men are expected to give commitment and freebies left and right often paying twice or triple times for the same good. This obsession with owing and being entitled just shows women's perception is warped around this logic. Women are understanding the antagonistic nature of relationships and playing the game aggressively, but it's in their interest to convince men it isn't antagonistic or transactional so they keep pretending it's such an horrible perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:04 PM
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If most men aren't concerned since they're not "good men" then your post and opinion aren't worth anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:11 PM
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Answer the rest of my comment then: I need precision: Should you let your man be responsible of everything tho? Like does he decide what you get to buy or not buy with your money? Does he own everything, the house, the car...? Should you always abide to his decisions? Should you do duty sex? It's important for me to know if you're a hypocrite or if you adhere to the full package.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 08:04 PM
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You're a woman, you believe that everything is to be blamed on men. What. a. surprise. I need precision: Should you let your man be responsible of everything tho? Like does he decide what you get to buy or not buy with your money? Does he own everything, the house, the car...? Should you always abide to his decisions? Should you do duty sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 07:55 PM
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It is optional for women. Freedom. But for men it's mandatory, so you're making a ground that is biased against men. Much like how Cats when they were introduced to australia conquered the small predator scene because they could both be fed by humans and by killing animals. A man, without being able to provide, proposing to a woman seems like a futile thing to do. Yeah you seem like you refuse to answer the question man. Your logic is ill fallacious and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:07 PM
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and not much we can do with it. Well, I should be bullying you because you lower men's value on the SMP. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:51 PM
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Btw men(atleast some I suppose) seek commitment as well I am one of them, just as, I presume, women(atleast some) seek sex as well. Women seek sex as well, they still don't work their asses off to get it. If you really think it all works this way, do you really feel that there is nothing wrong with this system? Well I got a couple gfs that didn't work for my commitment and got none, and one that did and we've been together 14 years, no forcing myself to do twice the work for the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:23 PM
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Exactly what I thought when I read you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:00 PM
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Feminism is not misandry. Feminism's foundations are rooted in misandry. It's constantly trying to convince everyone that powerful families are working in favor of men despite it's always been working for themselves first. Feminism is all about an apex fallacy that way. Feminism tries to rebrand every issue that men have as something men inflict to themselves, effectively silencing down the actual issues that could be worked on. Feminism hurts men's well being and men's causes. we have less poli…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:00 PM
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So you got zero issue with the idea that "women seek commitment, men seek sex" and then feel responsible for both making sex AND commitment happen? You don't think women have to work to get your commitment? You worked to get sex, and then you think you owe them anything after that despite they did absolutely nothing but consent? Sounds like to me you pay twice for the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:49 PM
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Women are literally the only oppressed demographic that isn’t allowed to dislike their oppressors. Women are literally privileged and free to spread misandry around and rebrand it "equality", while criticism of feminism and women is considered hate speech. Feminism is a strong social movement that is backed by most people, while anything else is a minority and is crushed down. What hint do you have that women are oppressed and that they can't be misandric? Is your only evidence that you're getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:44 PM
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then maybe it's best to start looking inward a bit and if not that, then atleast don't say anything of commitment cause you have a history of not feeling upto commitment. Nah man, because women can feel that way 20 times and still talk the same way. And nobody asks them to look inward. That's just the problem with markets in general, you're selling the best you have to offer, not the average you have to offer. He was talking about leading women on and treating them like "Chad" does. That is for …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:34 PM
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Why make life for others (in this case women) more difficult? Bruh that's literally what you're offering??? Naturally, men are supposed to be the provider. Yeah, therefore why do you allow women to make money for themselves? Why do you penalize men for failing to be providers in a society that allows women to take men's spots? By "natural laws" you do not allow women to take careers. Why would women marry any man if they can make their own money? That's your logic I'm spinning right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:31 PM
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What annoys me is that people are immediately going after the civilians as a whole. The hate should go toward putin. And since you're not part of the war, you should also hate on all these war profiteers that raised their prices for no god damn reason. smh nobody be wishing to bomb jeff bezos or musk....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:29 PM
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I don't have compassion fatigue because I was never emotionally involved to begin with, are you ukrainian? No? Makes no sense for you to be then. Russia needs a good french revolution for sure, but even being an ally that disagrees with putin makes you in the frontline of "accidents", it's def not an easy place to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:24 PM
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yeah it's war, it's ukrainians who are supposed to be so angry that they think bombing innocent russians is ok. Nothing justifies some american getting emotional about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:22 PM
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I'm describing what reddit does and where their empathy typically flows, if you can't read my comment without making these dumb strawmens or personal attacks just don't talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:20 PM
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people want to punish innocent russians for what their government has done*
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:58 PM
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Which is funny because that type of reaction is entirely dependent on who did bad things. Man/russia does bad thing => warmonging Woman/victim country does bad thing => call to empathy Depends who you ask though, but brainless empathy gaps are everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:58 PM
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Yes generally men do not seek women to be providers so they do not look at money directly, though they might care that a woman isn't financially hopeless as a hint of a good marital partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:33 PM
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Just change perspective. Nobody asks you to lead women on, but to act like everything will be fine if you feel like everything is fine right now. And then if it doesn't feel fine, maybe you should break it sooner than you usually do. Being optimistic isn't leading people on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:33 AM
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sweet pizza are gross no question asked no argument needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:50 AM
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People who admire these men tend to not exist for long so it's normal you don't see many of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:47 AM
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Who is asking you to lie? We're just asking you to follow your instincts and not buy into the sunken cost fallacy. If she feels bland after sex then maybe that's time to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:45 AM
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Men don't care about being seen as good husbands if there's no sexual attraction. All that's gonna lead to is a deadbedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:28 AM
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No sex before marriage. You need to provide. "men's dating issues can be solved by making dating bad entirely bad for men and all about the female incentive" Thanks you sherlock. What about we solve dating issues by making female celibacy a living hell with fuckton taxes instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:18 AM
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Yes, men do not care about a woman's income for sexual attraction, but care about a woman's income for relational health. These two ain't mutually exclusive you just failed to understand contextes of discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:15 AM
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They don't feel like they take advantage of them they think they deserve every bit of it and are giving just as much back if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:14 AM
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Height matters in compensating for other ugly bits. When a short girl has a strong manly jaw it goes under the radar, if she's tall it's more noticeable. Height alone however doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:36 PM
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And what is your behavior? Would I see shallowness disguised as grand mystical emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:23 PM
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It's not so much about masculinity itself but rather the morals you're fed. I was raised by a single mother and I got told extreme blue pilled stuff like "don't approach women, let them come". Some other kids might have had lack of masculine social activities while growing up because of a mother as well and aren't properly socialized with men. Most of the time what it creates is a delay in development. It's going to look like gender roles to you. And indeed I was raised with completely erased eg…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:58 PM
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I'm serious. When you observe women you just realize they'll just stick mystical or indirect words to their shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:52 PM
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Yes, single russian mothers and their sons feel masculine enough for us, the feminized western society. For russians they're probably really unmasculine. Though this isn't such a big problem for russia because the SMP is favorable for men due to shortage of men. Not the case for western countries though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:47 PM
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I'd like to see some kind of proof of the opposite. It's not like almost the entirety of red pillers reported that the major issue in their life was the lack of opposite narrative and perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:41 PM
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And I suppose your "physical attraction" and "emotional closeness" are deeply tied to how much money he makes, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:40 PM
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Caring mothers are notorious for raising unmasculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:38 PM
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The problem in your reasoning is that you put lilith in the "PPD women" group.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:37 PM
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It has never been easier to climb the socioeconomic ladder. Literally class mobility is at an all time low
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:44 PM
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There's not many girls out there who see a lack of friends and social life as a green flag... By the time they can tell that means you got your whole ass in there, sunken cost fallacy is a bitch, play on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:09 PM
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If you think it takes 5 years to learn how to be social, then another 5 years to learn how to flirt, then I don't know what to tell you. That's how slow it can be if you go for the 1 opportunity a year route lol. My point remains that you're not magically acquiring the ability to flirt by not flirting. If you're comfortable with cold approaching then by all means go for it, many aren't though and many girls aren't comfortable with it either. The point is take whatever that is already there. Don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:29 PM
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So spending years with your method is worthwhile and spending years on any other method isn't? You're going to need to learn to flirt anyway no???? So why spending 5 fucking years learning to play the social game and build your circles and then you'll need another 5 years to learn to flirt women correctly? You learn how to flirt and escalate as quickly as you got opportunities to flirt. If put all your efforts into building something that makes flirting opportunities scarce it's going to be expo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:04 PM
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Sounds like you're good with OLD and come across as pretty charming irl. I'm 5'5, chubby and I dress wrong and don't take pics. No I'm not good with OLD. And "charming" is just going for them and it took me years to learn, years I didn't spend playing social games, trying to lose weight or whatnot. I'm extremely introverted video game type of nerd, but I have high libido, that's all there's to it, I just want to fuck girls, it motivates me to talk and flirt, nothing more. And even that I had to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:58 PM
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How did you meet these lesbians? OLD, webchats, street, and some social circling with lesbian friends I made along the way. The thing is it didn't feel like work to build the social circle to meet women, the social circle built itself by flirting women directly. It's secondary, not primary. Approaching women in a bar/club is going to be far more effective than approaching in whatever other public place. Bars yes if you know the right ones. Which is also work. The fact that there is so many compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:40 PM
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It's just such a pathetically self defeating philosophy. The pathetic self defeating philosophy is your "put efforts anywhere except where it matters" philosophy. It's heavily blue pilled and has failed so many people. The idea that if you're an average or below guy, there's no benefit to social activities in regards to your chances of meeting and being seen as attractive to women is the most ludicrous view I see on this sub regularly. That's because you haven't experienced it. I know plenty of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:26 PM
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Yeah "it's not who I am" is legit when all you can tell others is "just become a drugged raver broh".... Stop recommending people to do things that YOU THINK would indirectly yield encounters with women. Social games yield good results for attractive men, for average and bellow average they're just going to be exposed to women who are high standards and have way too many options, and there won't be enough new women to push the numbers high. Again, men should just talk to girls, if any of your ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:01 PM
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We just say "no". Though my son is only 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:59 PM
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Nah. Just by height alone, the avg of such place tends to be one STD above avg.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:58 PM
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I mean like everyone you have an inflate idea of what's an average guy due to never being exposed to the actually average and lesser than average end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:50 PM
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And if you have no outlet to talk to girls then what next? Plenty of easier outlets or non outlets. Biased because my experience of going to raves is different to your experience of not going to raves? I've seen quite a lot of variety of raves, nightclubs, bars, and places where ugly men go, ect... I might know better than you think. And yes, uglier or average men tend not to attend these places.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:45 PM
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so agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:24 PM
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They can work their way up to it. Back to square one: working your way up to talking to girls instead of talking to girls. there's plenty of legal ones in actual venues. They're high entry barrier Not from my experience, lots and lots of average looking guys. You're biased. Dudes at raves are on avg taller and more beafy and masculine looking and behaved. the uglier one just don't go there since it's too punitive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:23 PM
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Do you think guys who have no outlets are going to find raves and to be resourceful at raves? I don't think so. I personally have no idea how to know where raves happen, and from my perspective it seems a lot like you need an already existing friend circle to know about them. I'm also a pretty innocent looking man I'm not sure I'd do well at a rave, from the little I've seen of raves, the average attractiveness of men here is fairly high. And then we could talk of style and general vibe, me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:43 PM
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Nobody needs to. If there's one goal you have: have a gf/fuck women, the last type of advice you should take is anything that isn't directly about talking to women. I can assure you people who aren't the type to go to rave won't magically pull girls at raves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:27 PM
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I'm good I could find girls without going at raves, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:18 PM
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Regardless of that, when you look at it, the people to who "rp strategies don't work" still have some milder forms of rp strategies working on them. There's absolutely nobody to who blue pilled idea of dating works, there always needs to be a strong masculine component in the seduction no matter what, some women's bar for masculinity is lower, but never 0 or negative. Men will always have to approach, seduce and escalate no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:16 PM
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Video games are hobbies. All women are going to complain you don't spend enough time with them, that's just normal. You need to accept that women are greedy and want to suck as much as possible from your time, money, and energy, and that they'll always be upset. You should view relationships as antagonistic for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:13 PM
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There's a difference between being sexually wanted and relationally wanted. My wife can tell me how much of a good husband/father/partner I am, at the end of the day if she doesn't want me more sexually I gained nothing. It's like your boss telling you you're a good employee but doesn't raise you. Thanks on telling me I'm a good at giving you freebies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:11 PM
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You got kids? Or raised kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:09 PM
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some of you mf just need to develop hobbies you're not into K m8
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:08 PM
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it's not about seeking empathy it's about telling them they're wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:08 PM
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Sad that you can't actually read a sentence or make your point clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:39 PM
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All volcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:16 PM
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https://learnenglish.britishcouncil.org/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:05 PM
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https://www.khanacademy.org/ela/cc-2nd-reading-vocab
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:00 PM
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Yeah that's what's funny and linkedinian, you're happy and boastful about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:59 PM
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That is a strawman of the argument. Please stop answering to this thread, it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:58 PM
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you're compromising their agency in that respect What agency? Can you explain that part? no one forced you to be or remain in that relationship. No one forces the other to remain in that relationship either. However, it's still funny that something "you'd never know if nobody told you" is considered having more impact than marital partners openly breaking their marital woves. Again, most countries do not punish failure to sexual duty in marriage. This is a pretty one-to-one virtue-ethical transl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:57 PM
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Sorry you really haven't understood and I don't think I explained myself badly. I'll not further answer because I might just become ableist if I continue to take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:52 PM
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"Is it really stealing if I didn't get caught? 🤔" Yes, items/money are missing. It's tangible, I know it's hard for you to separate tangible and intangible, but believe me on this, when stuff is missing, stuff is missing. Now the biggest stealing is when companies raise their prices for no reason at all other than because they can and are backed up by the government. People definitely see dead bedrooms as a bad thing. A bad thing, not a betrayal that deserves at fault divorce and compensation. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:51 PM
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patriarchal sentiments are still prevalent Nah. No way. Forget it. Such as? IDK it's so vast and huge. Take fat acceptance. Take trans identities. Anything from third wave feminism, to sociology, to anti racist ideologies, everything is about social equity AKA being immune to the consequences of their own actions. Yea if you wanna be ugly be ugly 😂 Ppl be complaining a lot that they have to suffer the consequences of being ugly after making themselves ugly tho :((( You're taking a bizarre all or…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:42 PM
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I won the argument it seems. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:38 PM
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Reread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:53 AM
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Well that's an interesting thing don't you think, that cheating is only true if the other knows. That means it holds so little actual consequences that you could ask yourself if it's all that wrong. Meanwhile, people and especially women so easily fail to their marital sexual duty. And not a lot of country accept it as a fault. It's weird how marriage is shaped around the feminine imperative don't you think? Almost as if... it's biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:52 AM
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Yeah no, women are more often excused for cheating when they feel (and I insist, FEEL) "neglected". In very patriarchal places men are more often excused for simply being men, as long as they fulfil their marital duty though. You can choose to betray someone's trust, doesn't mean that you are immune from the consequences. Yet, everything nowadays is about people being immune from the consequences of their own actions. Even uglifying themselves. That's why cheating still being high up there is co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:49 AM
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" sorry , not beautiful " Well, she indeed is not beautiful, she looks fat. If she is really that lightweight while looking like this, it means severe lack of muscle mass or just bad genetics. Who cares tho? Quick google shows she's clearly not 160. But what do you want with all that? You're taking 2 influencer girls who are making a business out of staying slim, and who pick random people to interview and you see only what they decide to show you. Men are generally more capable than women to gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:42 AM
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What lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:33 AM
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In this world where men are finger pointed for controlling how their wife dress outside, because trying to be sexy publicly is considered a betrayal of trust, it's just weird that only women's idea of betrayal of trust are still maintained as high priority. People will even excuse female cheaters more often than male ones. It's so very convenient "my body my choice for me, responsibilities for you", just like abortion debates, really. It's weird and hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:29 AM
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but who tell men women dont care about looks Women and their male allies. i mean even kids know women care about looks the most Millenials en masse still believe that's not true. Zoomers are a more aware generation tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:25 AM
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That in one hand has to do with men not gaining anything from leaving unsatisfying relationships, and also men being convinced they don't deserve to feel unsatisfied. You know, after 3 decades of women telling their sons they should be grateful a woman even tolerates them....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:24 AM
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In a bad relationship Or in a positive or neutral relationships too. Neuroticism will really just paint everything as wrong given enough time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:23 AM
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I'm not saying people shouldn't care. But in this day and age where we prone maximum personal freedom in social codes, isn't it weird that people still have major hangups about cheating? There's a lot of hypocrisy and contradictions in modern ethos. It's like the debates around abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:20 AM
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these passport bros, they claim average American women dont wanna them Well isn't that what I just said? men like hot women, women like hot men, Men's taste in women are more varied and lenient. they " think" women like short or ugly men W0t? No the issue is that all the while 2nd wave feminism tried to convince men that gender roles had to stop, it was also telling men that women don't care about looks and that men should be more like women. But red piller rather noticed that women were higher …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:18 AM
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Cheating is just like leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:15 AM
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Believe me, simply saying "fat always makes someone worse looking" word for word will hit on a lot of people's nerves IRL, especially women. Even though they evaluate themselves that way and will get insecure for a few pounds, they take offense in it being stipulated clearly that way because it reinforces that pressure that ruins their mood all the time everyday. To them, the truth is not worth hearing, and needs to be sugar coated to preserve neurotic people's mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:14 AM
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Breakups also destroy some people you're not gonna force yourself to stay with them because they can't manage their emotions...?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:07 AM
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It's hilarious that what you do with other consenting adults is anybody's business. Think about it, isn't that the most baseless social rule there is? Now, infecting someone with a disease, or forcing them to raise someone else's kids, now that's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:04 AM
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This is not a problem of tact nor respect, if you take offense in hearing the simple truth "fat makes people ugly", you are just immature and lack awareness. Women don't have issues saying short men are ugly in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:02 AM
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i mean nowadays women dont need average mens money Women said, while using men's technologies, under a roof built by men, using electricity, water, and food, all grown, managed and transported by men's doings. The thing is, when women aren't enough sexually and romantically available in a society, men tend to get the fuck out or to go rogue, and the first people to cry when that happens because they don't feel safe is... women. Then, when women do not pair enough with men and don't make enough b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:59 AM
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People being entitled whiners does make them vulnerable. Describing most women when they're "vulnerable".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:50 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_the_United_States https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships Simple mathematics Lilith. Women's dating pool is huge, men's is tiny. It reverses at 50 year old. Due to the average age gap of relationship, things can only be balanced if the population keeps increasing steadily. If it stagnates or shrinks, then men are fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:49 AM
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Working 2 jobs, for 50 hours, seems inhumane.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:47 AM
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The woman is not the machine, the embryo is. The woman fuels the machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:01 PM
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While ignoring male users admitting theyre desperate, pretending they’re average, and truly being no better from than the women this subreddit complains about. Men have statistical disadvantage, women have statistical advantage. why wouldnt women think theyre better? Than stacy? Tell me. Most women dont hang with awful bitches who laugh at men being vulnerable You literally are laughing at men being vulnerable. So what better than stacy does a woman on PPD brings? Stacy at least is hot and makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:16 PM
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This is some linkedin propaganda I swear. ayo I am FRENCH you know this shit REPULSE ME please take care of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:14 PM
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When someone gives you a machine to create a beautiful painting and you just press a button. Who is responsible for the artwork? The machine. You're just pushing the button of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:13 PM
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I've never experienced it, maybe because I don't express it like a complete asshole unlike most of the guys here. Well, some of us here are socially developed enough to have actual discussions and even debates with women. Men should fear that too 😉 Not as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:13 PM
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Keep gulping that youtube bullshit man, give money to these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:11 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_the_United_States https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships Go on man, no need for a 2 hour video, just look at these 2 statistics, and you'll realize that there aren't a lot of women for all these men. The root of all problems is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:20 PM
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Oh believe it or not, IRL women do take offense even when they're not fat. in fact, every girlfriend will fear that they grow fat and you're not attracted to them anymore. So they take it seriously that fat shaming should not be allowed, and men should be attracted to fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:19 PM
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I think I know everything I need to know, more than him. Seriously it's not complicated, just look at the damn numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:18 PM
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If this isn't talking about the statistics over relationship age gaps, and the pyramid of ages, which obviously show that men are having statistically tiny dating pools and women have big dating pools, then it's 2 worthless hours of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:15 PM
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But when you dare to say you're not attracted to fat women? That's a scandal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:13 PM
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Never needed gym to get girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:12 PM
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The sad issue is stacy didn't reject me because I hadn't muscles, she rejected me because I was 5'5. By the time we were 22 she was fat and I was still slim. And I bet she was still thinking she was above my pay grade. The other sad issue is women really don't care all that much about muscles. They care that you're not fat and that you have a good frame, AKA tall, wide shouldered, and fit enough. Well tbf, fat women do have fetishes on steroid bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:11 PM
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Yeah, that's exactly what we tell female users who are here trying to convince others that they're a better choice than stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:09 PM
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Are you saying that you had to work only 50 hours instead of 80 and that allowed you to have extra time to work your home? Never thought I'd get linkedin on my PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:08 PM
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Oh you're pulling the good old hilary clinton aren't you? https://www.snopes.com/uploads/2015/12/hillary-clinton-quote.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:50 PM
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Have you seen anywhere that non white and non black women are struggling in the dating market of any white country? They don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:49 PM
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Women cannot create life either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:47 PM
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Why tho? Stop buying bad sleep, buy good sleep instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:46 PM
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It is not the norm for women, at least not a norm that men pressured onto women. But it's already a reality for men, all the ripped men you see on the internet are on steroids, so taking drastic risky decisions to be physically attractive is already a norm for men. Except that it's not to please the female gaze, it's to make money over other men. Just like all the acrylic nails, foot binding and lip plates are just to impress other women and get their attention and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:44 PM
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And just like real feminism, you guys are going to think that female animals are suffering uniquely more because they're maintained alive in more or less bad conditions while the males are just killed at birth or not much later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 01:43 PM
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who talked of hurting? I should have said something to put him in his place, he felt too secure to walk on my foot that's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:27 AM
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I mean sure when you like potatoes you like bigger potatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:27 AM
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Well there was not an actual threat here. They were the uglier couple and his gf was fat and ugly, that was pathetic and obviously led to nothing, I just dislike that I was a bit naive at the time and didn't pick it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:26 AM
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I was with my wife and her best female friend, and her boyfriend. That dude "joked" about a threesome with my wife. I said nothing but I should have put him down, I kinda regret not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:15 PM
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Wrong scale. No money would equate to no looks, no looks means no face, no face means dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:41 PM
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I need to hear why she's already getting fat as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:32 PM
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Does it just fix alignment or could it also fixes stuff like forward growth? My teeth ain't bad, but my snoring and voice both indicate I don't have much space in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:31 PM
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Yes you absolutely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:30 PM
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Reality doesn't care that you accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:29 PM
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"Being rich is a curse" - rich people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:16 PM
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You have a problem with me finding her ew?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:09 PM
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My pleasure, keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:26 PM
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Your female friend is teaching you to manage like a woman managing women. Are you a woman managing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:20 PM
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Ew, you can have her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:18 PM
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Perception doesn't dominate decisions, it helps decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:56 PM
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Gut instincts != decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:51 PM
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Taking care of your living child with rights is not enslavement. Well ,we could also say forbidding doctors from killing embryos is also not forcing women to birth. Yet here we are. Multiple other reasons exist for abortion. That's not an argument. Giving men a choice to financial abort is the most unpragmatic thing ever. How is that unpragmatic? You really want people to feel resentful and enslaved to a whole person's choice? Very unpragmatic. Especially in the situation you can't even properly…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:20 PM
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That's so extremely based.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:06 PM
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Well... You kinda talk like a loser...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:34 PM
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You sure talk like you were famous, so maybe you'll make it some day after faking it for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:30 PM
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Typical lilith answer "thanks for proving my point" throw left and right based off nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:20 PM
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Because you think that women who don't fuck you will care about your emotional well-being? Last time I checked women who make men wait are doing that for themselves, not for men's emotional well-being, no indication that it's of any benefit for men or that they're more of the giving type.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:59 AM
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Some say it's all pee. Some say it's different pee made for it because you'll squirt even on an empty bladder and apparently it's less concentrated than pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:15 AM
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more on the original topic, pregnancies have unlocked squirting to my wife, but it seems to happen only in very specific conditions and only by her doing. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:57 AM
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That won't stop them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:48 AM
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Coackroaches do not appear due to some crumbs on the table. It's infrastructural problem mainly, you got rotten food in places you can't clean and got holes everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:22 AM
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who are you even??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:20 AM
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Crumbs on table won't get you roaches, you won't die because crumbs on table stay there until the next meal. Even though it's nice to clean the things you use after you use them, sometimes you got other priorities. I know what "guidelines" from neurotic people look like, they quickly pile and get unbearable. Roaches come because you got crumbs and rotten things where you can't clean and have holes in your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:18 AM
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Basic cleanliness will do that. Most people are having roaches due to infrastructural issues and no amount of cleanliness will prevent that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:13 AM
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Most of the others I mentioned were related to sanitation, pest, and disease prevention, as well as maintaining health and reliability of the household. And the litany of other relevant thing I listed. The litany of things women are most neurotic about you mean? As I said. Over controlling and exigent people are often their own problem, but would still blame the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:56 AM
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When kids are socially rejected they grow shorter and weaker. When kids are socially successful (aka everything handed to them in life), they grow taller, stronger, more attractive. Most people who have had everything handed in life, both men and women, tend to feel everyone is nice and benevolent and that anything they want they can have it. People who are convinced they are attractive and skilled do perform better at tests even when they're less smart than insecure people. Self confidence has …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:53 AM
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Once born that baby is more important than the father and the mother. Society likes babies. That doesn't justify enslaving a man for a woman's choice. The arguments around allowing abortion are the same around giving men financial abortion: Not force people who can't afford a kid to have a kid. Because it's not that unborn babies are considered not alive or not human at all, most countries put limits to abortion for that reason, most countries consider unborn babies to have bodily autonomy right…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:49 AM
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You're anti abortion then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:47 AM
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Feelings do not reflect reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:44 AM
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Do you want men here to fantasize about you? That's how you get men here to fantasize about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:37 AM
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Weaponized incompetence and mental load are really just buzz fallacious words to legitimize their biases and flaws and blame the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:36 AM
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Mental load can include things like making calendars and alarms for yourself and your partner Calendars and alarms are the opposite of mental load. You do that so you don't have mental load. Most people who bitch about mental load are organizational disasters. The other type of mental load bitchers are over controlling over exigent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:34 AM
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This sub has a lot of women so it's behaving different from a male spaces. But also this sub is really unique and weird in its own way so any parallel to real life is not pragmatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:01 AM
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I suspected you would so I'm glad you confirmed that I had a good intuition lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:48 AM
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They can be. Though there's a non negligible portion of women who prefer the company of men both in life and at work, and who can't deal with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:38 AM
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A male social group with male social codes. It's frequent to hear complains from women who are in numerical inferiority at their company. They claim too much are demanded of them and that the ambiance is too aggressive and abrasive. Despite most of the time they're being treated more leniently than other men, they might feel they're treated worse than other men. Some women evolve to adjust to these social landscapes, just like men learn to adjust to women when they want to court them... But that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:10 AM
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Sorry my edit came late: "being taken seriously" I don't really believe it. Women are being taken seriously, it's just the incompetent or ugly ones, who act pretentiously, or because they're socially inept regarding the male social matrix. If chad is taken more seriously than avg men, stacy too, as long as they're not braindead archetypes. Chad privilege isn't sufficient though, rich chad privilege however are beyond anything any woman can do. But also, women can rarely get as low as men can. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:53 AM
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You sound like you're an incel larping as a woman. "being taken seriously" I don't really believe it. Women are being taken seriously, it's just the incompetent or ugly ones, who act pretentiously, or because they're socially inept regarding the male social matrix. If chad is taken more seriously than avg men, stacy too, as long as they're not braindead archetypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:47 AM
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Your assertion is to contradict mine, so yes, we are to compare our evidences and arguments. Since you lack any, you lost the argument. You talk like we're in a law court, where the accusers has to provide proof (burden of proof). We're not in a courtroom, I'm not making an accusation. Debates work differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:03 PM
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My point is that not only do you have no proof of that I have evidences of that, while you have no evidence of the contrary. no one accepts biology as an explanation legally anyways Again, what does "legally" has to do with anything? And why would I care what other people think?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:50 PM
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having an intimate male friend is a redflag, believe it or not, you're free to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:49 PM
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Yeah well you're a woman so you feel reasonable wit hwhatever your high standards are... But it's very red flaggey.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:08 PM
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You're really out of topic. the law The law doesn't agree nor disagree they're not built around caring if your incentives are innate or acquired. Pushing that as an argument is a fallacy anyway. society Not a seal of quality, and still a fallacy. You’re expected to make choices based on your brain, not your brain stem Nothing is expected of anybody. What are you even up to? I don't want to be mean but it doesn't sound like you're really fit to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:57 PM
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Just loose interpretations. I got tendencies from statistics that I draw a conclusion from. You got nothing out of nowhere. In no other species gender roles exist. In many species female actively fight off males. Contradicting yourself in few words...? Of course most species have gender roles, and you give me many example of these. I bet you wanted to say something else but whatever I'm capable to interpolate sounds equally as wrong. You don’t apply nuances to humans, that why you believe any st…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:53 PM
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The problem isn't people who change behavior out of spite, but rather people changing behavior when they have all the choices they want. (or worse, when they think they got all the choices but in fact don't) I don't think that is possible because these choices are guided by incentives that are innate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:38 PM
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Everything is a zero-sum game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:34 PM
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I know, I've had that, and I'm not even a woman, I had no break from my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:28 PM
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For a human talking of humaning you sure do not sound like one. It's not a question of justifying things, but of pointing the origin of the behaviors, and seeing if we can change these behaviors in populations or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:11 PM
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One thing to consider is that "Chads" were socially successful since they're born. And that plays a big role in how they develop to be healthy, charismatic, assertive and socially apt individuals. As well as improve their genetic potential so they grow even more attractive than those who were less fortunate. The other thing is the curve of benefit of your looks as a man may be flat for majority of men, but then when a certain threshold is hit, the attention from women gets crazy. Literally ask p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:07 PM
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Since when has this discussion been about legality and illegal behaviors?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:58 PM
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I get it, you don't like the terms "leader" and "dominate". And correlation doesn’t mean causation. Have better evidences. In any case, we should not force them, so if some women don’t the way you expect, don’t get mad. On the contrary, I used to be like you and then I got mad that they want us to be mind reading leaders and executant for them. I don’t have any evidence because I am just skeptic of your claim If you're skeptic with your lack of evidences you should accept my claim has more weigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:57 PM
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That’s your claim but haven’t proof anything. Look at you having nothing better to push. Women all around want men their age or older, men their status level or higher, men taller and stronger than them, men making as much or more money. Men who approach them when they want them to approach, men who make the relationship happen, take them on dates, pay for them, propose for marriage.... In short ,every evidences are here for you to see that women don't want to be on top, to take the lead, to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:32 PM
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What about most of the gender differences are partially biologically driven. And that saying every gender difference is acquired is fallacious and even harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:39 PM
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Humans are animals and aren't beyond them nor are free from their biological imperatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:38 PM
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I don't think that kind of "perfect" friendship exists. That seems more like neighbors would treat each others. And for that to exist there needs to be either a moral predicate you believe in that tells you to. Which is nice but is imperfect indirectly. Or if there is a force rapport that forces you to be generally benevolent and cooperative unconditionally. Which would be imperfect in design, and in reality we see a lot of people taking advantage of that force rapport by being voluntarily "more…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:15 PM
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Because refusing to study gender differences due to moral hangups is totally not fallacious. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:02 PM
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So just a normal woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:59 AM
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If we start with that argument, we're not finished stripping women of all their privileges and any societal and social accommodation just to deal with their fragility and neuroticism. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:12 AM
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Not being able to get men's attention isn't men's complain either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:54 AM
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Women who don't pull their weight once the baby is born is also extremely common, but you only think of the child neglect aspect or the extreme cases. While most men you think as not pulling their weight are probably doing their fair share. Just typical misandrist bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:38 AM
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no it's usually called "post partum depression she is a victim and needs help".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:29 AM
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But that doesn't matter when your only dealing with the unattractives. No woman I know hasn't had the guys they wanted. So clearly they're dealing with the attractives ones too. This makes no sense, "being wanted makes you not feel wanted". That's literally women's argument. So tell these women that they do not make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:10 AM
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Women's argument is that being attractive to stranger men is not useful because they do not want them. But attracting the gender you're into at least increases the chances of being attractive to the people you want. Being attractive to gay men has no incidence toward being attractive to women, or worse it's indicating that you will be unattractive to women. So, women telling men they should go on grindr to feel wanted is a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:57 AM
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But him implying that women who don't fuck on first dates or take long time to do it are only pure and relationship material is where I take offense. You read too much into people's justification of their preferences. But the argument here is that he can't generalize or bash women who had sex on first dates. And announce they are not worthy of relationships. When he goes and does the same thing. Yes he can. Men and women aren't the same, don't have the same roles, ect... Men are supposed to want…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:00 AM
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Oh I'd be especially suspicious of someone who looks like he's not doing well with women. I'd immediately suspect he's in love. I remember when I was first years with my wife she had this acquaintance/friend she wasn't really spending much time with him but would often come back from HS with him. I told her it was obvious he's in love, she didn't believe me. He eventually confessed and she got creeped out. History repeating itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:55 AM
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yes this is just shit flinging post thus why I said it's a shit post. Edit: OP blocked me. Can't answer, can't comment on any of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:52 AM
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I want to precise, generally it's mostly women who want their boyfriends to cut contact with their female friends. Don't be fooled to think it's just men lol. It's just an ungendered norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:49 AM
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I've seen it IRL, it's friendzoned or friendzoning ppl who refuse to let an option go, or people who are really into sexual tensions with the other people they're close with and who aren't super satisfied with being monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:25 AM
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Good summary. A best friend of the opposite gender who you often spend time alone with is suspicious as fuck from both ends though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:23 AM
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It's normal to expect your partner to not have intimate friendships with members of the opposite sex if it's just one person you're going to spend time alone with very often. Having a group of mixed gender friends that you go with without your partner isn't as red flaggey, especially if you introduce your partner to that circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:21 AM
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Situation 1: You have a friend of the opposite sex, you are friend with since before your current partner, and who you see often alone and don't share other friends with. Situation 2: You have a group of mixed friends you got since before your current partner, and who you see often without your current partner Situation 3: You have a group of mixed friends you got since before your current partner, and you introduce your current partner to that friend group. Situation 1 will be a red flag to maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:18 AM
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Majority of people IRL don't want their partners to have exclusive friends of the opposite sex. Because these kind of friendships usually mean spending time alone with them without your partner, and that is a red flag to anyone because it sounds like it's too intimate and could lead to more. Friends that you meet with other friends are perceived less so dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:12 AM
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You do not sound like you even read the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:10 AM
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Shit post but I'll bite. Where is the hypocrisy? He's not committing to the women he slept early with, so he kept his words. Double standards? Probably. I also bet that none of these women approached him and he had to do all the work up to sex, so why do you take offense in him having double standards exactly? Are you just discovering that men and women are different, and that even if your so called "women are treated equally here" nobody is actually being treated equal socially? I live in Berli…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:09 AM
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If you're desired by randoms of the gender you want, chances are you'll also be desired by the people you desire yourself. If you're just invisible to the gender you want, shit hits the fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:03 AM
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About genuine friendships vs orbiters/friendzone debate. I feel there's a miscommunication between men and women here on what constitutes a "friend". When men here talk of male friends who aren't really genuine and were initially sexually attracted, they don't mean the acquaintances, they don't mean the friends you get by transitivity with other friends, or friends of your boyfriend. They mean when a dude chose you as his friend and made the friendship happen, it probably wasn't genuine, or ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:09 AM
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Harry potter doesn't strike me as an adaptation that is faithful enough to the books
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:01 AM
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They're going to squeeze every last penny of unknown lowly paid actors of colors too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:59 AM
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You think it's a typical male concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:55 AM
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The man not pulling his weight once the baby is born. Oh boy if you knew how many women don't pull their weight yet claim they've with a manchild.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:51 AM
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I have come to the conclusion that most women here are misandrists whether they are aware of it or not. That's the level 2. Level 3 is understanding that nobody likes to hear the antagonistic aspects of the other side, and that doesn't make them hateful. But since most women are stuck in the level 2, it's fair to throw their hypocrisy at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:49 AM
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You can be in a partnership, but women want to be in a partnership where you do the leg work and take the decisions she'd have taken. Pretty much like when a girl is into a man she wishes he approaches and flirts, she could do it herself, but no he has to do the legwork to prove he's worthy. Surely you won't comment "some women do approach" because that's statistically bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:46 AM
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Hate to break it to you, but if a lot of your behaviors are innate then you can expect more to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 06:44 AM
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Skepticism doesn't allow opinions at all. Skepticism will have probabilities of opinions at best, but a true sceptic doesn't voice opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:15 PM
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Yes it is riddled with bad data. At best we got good statistics that are indirect evidences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:14 PM
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What I'm saying is that if you're skeptical at the data being presented but then your opinion is based on nothing, then you're a [redacted]
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:18 PM
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The scientific method is pure skepticism. Are you saying scientists cannot have opinions? That's a fallacious reasoning. Scientists can apply the scientific method while not being rigorous afterward. The scientific method is pure skepticism indeed, that's why most conclusion drawn by the scientists or journalists are fallacious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:04 PM
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I assure you it is true and I invite you to read more about scepticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:30 PM
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Yeah I guess you're right. We grow 2 arms because we notice everyone else is having 2 arms. If we were left alone to grow on an island, we'd have 4, 6, or 3.14 arms instead...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:27 PM
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As obvious as it sounds this needs to be a PSA: You can't be a sceptic and have an opinion on the matter being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:25 PM
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Men are taught outright that showing emotion, affection or concern for oneself and others is feminine and thus not not okay (“be a man! Man up!”) Yeah even in places where dads aren't like this to their sons the sons still evolve to be like this. And the sons who don't evolve will change just because women don't want to fuck them. Not because other men bully them. Boy to boy bullying isn't efficient at changing men at all. What's funny is where I live, some parents try to educate their daughters…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:58 PM
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You letting her divorce you at any time is a smart move. What do you mean xD there are other options? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:19 PM
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Yeah business is a good example of people wanting their leaders to take the right decisions or they quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:15 PM
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Hm................... Hmmmm..... I don't know how to take that. Considering she's from a country that's known for women's likeliness to kill their husband. :')
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:14 PM
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My relationship is still going.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:43 PM
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That's the thing, they're never really quitting their autonomy. But partnering involve taking decisions for 2 and it can be work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:42 PM
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First of all, we already had 2 kids. And for death related reasons and other parental rights it was just sightly better to be married. Prior to marrying we were in a civil partnership that was beneficial for taxes but hadn't the same separation issues. Plus, by bearing my kids I think my wife earned that I make a compromise. Prior to kids I don't think your partner deserves half of your shit. Kids are to me a greater commitment than marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:37 PM
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Not yet. We've been together for a dozen years prior to marrying. Been married a couple years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:17 PM
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Yeah well your flair could have been LegEndHairy mr fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:16 PM
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Why would I want marriage to be obligatory forever? I just don't bath myself in illusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:10 PM
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Got a problem sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:00 PM
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You can do all this without being married. Besides the laws on when he dies or when there are kids, everything about marriage seems to be imposing things on men's back, and screw men during divorce. Make an argument on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:58 AM
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I married with the entire conviction that it'll end up in a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:57 AM
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So you were nitpicking. You guys don't want that the animal kingdom fully works on humans so you better not bring that as an argument to decide what should be the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:52 AM
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Are you really not understanding or are you just nitpicking the word I used?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:34 AM
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I can't stress how these 2 statistics: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_the_United_States https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships Are largely sufficient to explain the increased issues the newer generations of men are facing. A dynamic in which women marry mostly men same age and older will only be fair to men if the population is increasing. If the population is stagnating or shrinking the sexual and relational market place is going to be indubitably in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:56 AM
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There’s this pervasive myth that defies reality that woman are not going for average men, which isn’t true. Yeah that's true, women are not going for men at all. It's men who go at them. You should check out this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships And this https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_the_United_States And finally this https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ Maybe you'd get an intuition as to why averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:41 AM
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You sound very uncivil and bad faith, but I'll still answer. TRP loves to talk of the decay of the western world caused by women's selfish mindsets. And says that the proper answer is to understand the antagonistic nature of everyone's incentives, and that cooperation happens only when there's a healthy force rapport between these selfish forces. You're free to believe women's selfishness isn't the reason our societies are decadent, however, saying TRP is hypocritical for advocating selfishness …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:18 AM
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The point was to argue that TRP is being inconsistent. Not if TRP is right or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:13 AM
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It feels like work to a lot of people to take decisions for themselves and their partner. Why do you think the meme about girlfriends not choosing a restaurant yet refusing all proposals exist? There's a clear tendency in which women don't like to choose but expect men to choose right for the both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:10 AM
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Men do not have an inborn aversion to doctors, hospitals, or therapists; they avoid them due to gender based socialization. Men have an inborn incentive to independence, which may make them more reluctant to seeking external help, sometimes so much that it's unhealthy. While women have an inborn incentive to cohesion, which may make them more willfully seek external help, sometimes so much that it's unhealthy. Both together creates a big gap in behaviors. These are reinforced by socialization, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:08 AM
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Well that's the problem women have, to find someone who will work for them unwarrantedly and do the "right" things according to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:49 AM
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Rollo is a moron, I was not answering on his behalf but on the post's claim. Do not listen to anyone who tries to make money and image out of an ideology, they're most of the time not even being canon with it. But going to college seems to be commonly admitted as a good thing regardless of if you plan to work or to be a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:47 AM
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That's weaker tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:47 PM
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Clearly abusing power right here!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:46 PM
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Where can I buy your damn book , man ?!? I want to throw money at you so much !
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:42 PM
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"Eat my periods" are more gender appropriate and also more funny IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:40 PM
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Loool so disruptive m8, write a book on how much of a sigma male you are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:39 PM
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who told you you're not supposed to build your entire life at once? What about working on your career stops you from securing a partner? Though a lot of careers are just scams where you'll work a lot, earn money you won't need, and be depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:04 PM
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If your bf acts like a cat, you can legally spray him with water to tame him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:43 PM
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good then, I won't have to assemble my portable guillotine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:33 PM
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You are right to be concerned about your son getting issues with the law. But the law isn't a moral compass. And besides, 16 year old is sexually adult in a lot of countries, if you really like to base yourself around that. You need to understand there are just not a lot of available women early on. Since women like to have an age gap and refuse to date younger men, even late in life, that always works like a domino effect in which younger men are just too much for too little amount of women. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:32 PM
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I deflect because even tho I'm ESL, even people from my native tongue do not generally agree with the way I generalize some words and concepts... I generally dislike it when I'm told I don't get it because I'm ESL, I get it, I just disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:26 PM
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I'm anything you want me to be baby. But it costs extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:22 PM
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Yep. I'll call any incel who ascends by ignoring the dumb rules others made for them a winner. And I'll call any person who tries to further control men with irrational rules a loser. These guys are literally insecure about going for a girl 1 year younger than them because they listen too much to people like you. You guys are going to sabotage your son's education just because you worry too much about some hypothetical stranger woman's well being more than your son's.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:21 PM
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"Love" is just more materialistic than people want to admit, we just do not process it consciously that's why we mystify it. Finding some one extremely wealthy who is willing to support you means you will have to make some sort of compromise. I know a couple of women who are fairly convinced their face and body being given is plenty enough compromise. They purposely went to social places with lots of rich people until they found one with who they had chemistry. Similarly plenty of men go for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:19 PM
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I do appreciate good food and pretty words however. Ah yes, you're an omelette enjoyer, both to the palate and to the ear :'D I've seen anything from money to height to the even more ill-defined status used as proof that hypergamy is real. And every single of these metrics are backed up by statistics. Height being a bit weird because women do not want "better" than themselves, we know they want better than most other men though. If you try hard enough you give any couple that doesn't fit the hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:16 PM
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The dudes that were the most attractive in my first years of uni were not dating highschoolers lol. So what? Men should be celibate for ever because you decided they were too ugly, because you decided so? Why should they care about your opinion? Incels should absolutely go for younger girls if that eases attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:12 PM
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Yes, plenty of seething losers out there not being happy others find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:05 PM
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Most people couple up with a partner within their socioeconomic circle to someone they feel love and attraction for. How convenient. How convenient as well that men are more likely to marry down and women more likely to marry up. Totally a story of pure genuine love where nothing else influences them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:55 PM
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If you think that way then statistically not a lot of women marry for genuine attraction and """chemistry""". Seeing how women are rarely marrying men poorer and younger than them. Unless. Unless... "chemistry" is just how women fool themselves to believe there's attraction with whoever has the right status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:46 PM
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I'm only asking, I don't blame you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:43 PM
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If you think women are gold diggers for being in love with their rich husband you're maybe misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:40 PM
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I've seen my fair share of parental brokenery, bullshit, money fights, mental illness and divorce, don't you worry. Maybe it's time you intervene and help her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:34 PM
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Thank you. You seem to try too hard to find fault with me to actually come up with a clever critique. I was just indirectly asking if you were actually french or not. The specific claims attached to hypergamy go beyond anything that could be statistically provable, like saying that women are biologically hardwired to behave in a certain way. Making an observation that most couples tend to have X income arrangement does not explain why they are like that. At best you can speculate. Yeah that's PP…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:33 PM
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That’s so stupid. Don't be misogynistic. Why to make an extra step to get to the same place? Why do work when others can work for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:30 PM
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The implication of our discussion is that she is in need and he isn't but doesn't share much. Meaning that separation of goods during the divorce will be favorable to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:29 PM
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That's not false though. Ambitious and career driven women can manage if they know where to go socially to find equal men, but that means they should be competent enough to manage themselves more free time. Very often careers are just fallacious traps to overwork and squeeze people to death
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:28 PM
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If being with her husband is so bad, why not cutting the loss early? Mustn't be so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:25 PM
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guide men toward seeing the virtues of a girl boss if this generation of influencers (and people in general really) are more inclined to raise girl bosses? You'd want your son to have an educated wife, but a girlboss? As in a dominant career oriented woman? No, that's too little availability while being too demanding. Basically you want your kids to have as many options while being as much independent and resourceful as possible. For your daughter that might include having her educated, wanting …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:24 PM
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I don't need your approval. Everyone knows me as a dad here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:21 PM
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I do understand why having kids hinders a sex life, I also think it's a fallacy to let that wear you down when you're also expected to maintain your side of the boat afloat. And I know enough people to who, after some years, their libido was stronger than before. But you can't know that without having kids nor having friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:14 PM
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She can divorce and get half the shit, can't she?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:12 PM
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…….Holy shit, you do even know how time consuming child rearing is. I have kids and you don't, btw. OK, so they’re stupid and emotional. Got it. Talking of yourself third person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:07 PM
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Are you seriously complaining about shit that naturally happens due to lower libido and having kids? Plenty of women relate to having more libido after kids. People have fuck buddies, and one night stands, and you think that should be a damn relationship? When you are both hungry and thirsty, the only thing you can feel is thirst. When you have quenched your thirst, you start caring about food again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:03 PM
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The essence of submission is giving over your will to someone else's better judgement. Or, in the case of women, giving over your will to someone else who will take the same decisions as you, but it's not you. The only way you get looked after in that scenario is if the dominant party feels like it. Well marriage laws are pretty nice about making it more or less mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:01 PM
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IDK Man maybe in the next city where you live it isn't creepy and you live in a bubble. Or maybe it's your specific european country, maybe you're brit, IDK, IDC. I'm just fairly certain that in western non brit europe, there's a lot less hangups about age gaps. Spain, Italy, France, Germany, Switzerland, Austria, Netherlands, Belgium, and I forget some, all are pretty similar in that fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:46 AM
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Who looks after her interests? Herself. And that daughter gets to grow up watching her mother be used and mistreated. No TRP man believes that they use and mistreat the women they commit to, because committing and providing is literally what they think women want. To them it's a give and take relationship. You're a bit mistaken here. TRP men want their daughters to be educated girlbosses to elevate the bar for the men who pursue them and for their daughters to have the tools to have all the opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:42 AM
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Why would I give you informations about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:29 AM
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I'm not sure about the details of this post. However wanting the best for yourself is not incompatible with wanting the best for your kids.... You might want a submissive feminine wife because it's the best for you, and want your daughter to be an educated girlboss because it's the best for her. Now it depends of what girlboss is in this context. But if you believe in teaching your son TRP game, you should also believe in teaching girl game to your daughter, the hypocrisy would be to teach your …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:08 AM
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Then you're from the other category. :]
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:53 AM
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It is universally creepy when "universally" is just american redditors and other sorts of stuck up people. I assure you anywhere else people care a lot less, and especially since people know it was marginally worse before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:42 AM
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I'm not talking about me, don't make it personal. People start freaking out at 16-19, 16-20 isn't rare. 17-21 isn't rare, at 18 the age gaps even get bigger. I do think however that incels should consider some age gaps for their own good. A lot of them have integrated this idea that it's wrong to go for younger women, even for a year or two of age gap...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:28 AM
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If you are a woman dating a 16 year old boy it is just as creepy. Who cares? What does that change? Literally I've spent my life being told that men are 3 year late in their maturity compared to women, only to find out as an adult that men are shamed for being with younger women? Lmao. Do you honestly believe you have the same emotional intelligence as a 16 year old? Honestly. I honestly believe I am ahead in emotional and raw intelligence compared to people my age, should I avoid dating them to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:12 AM
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Shouldn’t that tell you something? That EVERYONE sees you as a creep except the girl who might not be so mature yet (especially being 16). Well, not everyone. But no that isn't saying anything. People have all sorts of moral hangups over what men can or cannot do, you'll always be someone's creep, that's life as a man, the sooner you accept it the sooner you're free. Literally none of these girls who were dating college dudes were being with a 24 year old, but also none were sad or feeling taken…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:04 AM
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The “dude with the house car and acces to booze” is not going to be much in the market for 16 year olds, and everyone who is of that age (the dudes age) is not going to want to associate with him because he dates high school girls. Either you live on a different planet (christian planet central maybe?) or you've never been with 16 year olds. Besides, that part was meant to be "the 16 year old dude with the house the booze", you should be able to tell that this dude generally had an edge with gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:50 AM
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These women do not go around thinking in term of benefit, they just think 16 year old men are immature or unattractive. I'd say roughly at my HS it was like this: Half the girls were single, half were taken, half of the taken were dating same age, and half were dating adult men. it doesn't help that in my country, 16 year olds can't drive. Why would a 16 year old girl who has all the options she wants prefer the dudes who have no money, no car, no access to booze, no place with intimacy, and who…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:34 AM
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Especially since 16 isn’t adult and it can be for example a highschooler in 10th grade with someone doing their second year of uni It's super common depending on where you live. 16 year old women just aren't all that much attracted to 16 year old men, and there's not much benefit in dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:26 AM
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You seem to try too hard to be french for you to actually be french. Hypergamy isn't just the TRP's addon on the definition. Hypergamy is still generally true statistically, and TRP isn't advancing that women will disregard sunken cost fallacies just for the hope of slightly better. It's just that if men will lurk at the sexier younger women, women will lurk at the doctor who earns good money. Lots of men don't leave their ageing wife for a younger one, some do. Same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:22 AM
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Who are you even?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:20 AM
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Or an 18 year old dating a 21 year old People definitively seethe at 16 year old women dating 19/20 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:18 AM
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I'm not single. And I can't talk of overall SMV including money and status. But overall women seemed most interested in me between 28 and 32, which coincides with when I had a fully formed beard and looked most like a man. Though I suspect I've been attracting eyes less since due to weight gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:17 AM
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Well I can't relate, most women would rather want that I don't exist and don't try to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:26 AM
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Tell him to just grope gently instead? He might be doing this because he isn't sure he can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:57 AM
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She's a rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:50 AM
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Women all around literally claim to love their man more and more as they age while fucking them less. Make sense of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:41 AM
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Women with chest hair and beard exist too :| but you want to make rules of the exceptions??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:39 AM
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There’s plenty of men with the characteristics you listed Not to the point of the typical neurotic woman, or at least not in the same fashion. Most men do not have irrational phobia of spiders for instance, most men aren't high disgust and very picky, but most women are, and some even more than others. You call that toxic femininity, but you have no argument for why girls are like this before men even had the time to "shape" them into something they want, you have no argument as to why many of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:22 PM
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What will? Is it carnal? How did Chad do it? The same way I did, and I'm no chad. I tried and experimented until I could feel when it was right to go and when it's not. No amount of being groomed, social or having interesting hobbies could have helped with that. Sure, you don't need red pill to tell you that. It's common sense. It's absolutely not common sense to a lot of people. But outside of this, confidence and self esteem are vital. I don't like much the term confidence. You can not be conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:19 PM
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Yeah, men can fuck women they don't love. But men want to fuck the women they love, if there's no sex there's just no love. That's why when men say "like" they mean the whole package of sexually and romantically attract. While women will find different sexually attractive traits and likeable lovable traits in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:13 PM
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You're advocating for "we're born equal everything is acquired" and I'm advocating for biological determinism. Except you're not trying to contradict the arguments I pushed...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:59 PM
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Nothing will give you an idea of how to escalate. No amount of reading other people's stories will help. TRP tells you one thing: You need to exercise and eat right, it'll make you be at least healthy, and then likely hotter. You're supposed to do that to be at your high potential of testosterone and other hormonal levels. Which in turn should help you have a more masculine behavior. Then, you need to approach girls, and you need to feel the thrill of it, and you need to feel the pleasure and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:49 PM
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That doesn't change any of what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:26 PM
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I guess you missed the chapter where TRP tells you about not caring too much about anything and that the most important effort was to approach women. But with millions of morons on TRP who talk about how to optimize every bit of muscle and of bullshits that are optional you forgot about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:26 PM
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Emotional intelligence is more often described as the ability to read other people's emotions from their body language. You seem to be focused on some feminist definition. I'd not disagree to put both together though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:10 PM
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Does it matter? Being able to make friends doesn't translate well into being able to flirt women, all you gain by having good social skills is being able to get friendzoned. There's no bypassing literally training by flirting with women, it's the only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:07 PM
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Men do not separate sexual attraction from love, women seem to do. The cryptic ones here are women, literally unable to understand a straightforward question because they're themselves too complicated to even understand themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:05 PM
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Yeah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:01 PM
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I doubt it, they're just being picky on what to qualify as a hobby, or you're the one being picky on what to qualify as a hobby. Anyway, you don't need hobbies to get women, you need to flirt women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:58 PM
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Flirting is a word used in more languages than english and it means the same thing everywhere. And I know how english people are using it, and while it may have meant only this at first, it doesn't mean just that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:56 PM
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That doesn't make it anywhere more true. Women who are like this do not believe a single second they're expected to be, they can't help it, it's pathological.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:56 PM
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let me guess, you didn't count any of their hobbies and passions as ones because it's not sexy to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:53 PM
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Because when something bad happens they put on a show to pretend they are empathetic. Or maybe they actually are empathetic and they do feel bad when something bad happens. That means someone else has to fix both the bad situation and her feeling bad because of it. You can see this during an accident or a public freakout, women will start screaming, so it alerts men, so men can fix the situation and then calm them down. Most of the time all it does is just distract the people trying to fix thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:51 PM
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You make flirting way too specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:47 PM
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there's no sexual contexts. I have no issue believing majority of sociosexual men have 0 introspective abilities and can't tell why they behave a certain way, or that most will hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:46 PM
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That sounds like an hypoagentic feminist rhetoric to blame men for how some women are. And it's inconsistent because: They're like this before men's preference could be of any influence They'll be like this regardless, the presence of men will on the contrary push them to be more self relient Many of their behavior isn't appreciate by men, especially the one where they're extremely picky and low libido They tend to mimic their mother's mental illnesses and phobias so even if all of their behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:43 PM
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A bicycle is not a bad car, it may still get you to where you need to go, but it's fundamentally different. They're both vehicles... "flirting" encompasses all the behavior meant to attract/get the attention of someone, it's not one behavior, it's a superset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:38 PM
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My claim is that enough people claimed it for it to be generalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:37 PM
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So "confessing is more flirting than flirting" ...?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:36 PM
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Well one is socially skilled and the other inept. I'm not sure why being bad at flirting makes flirting not flirting in the eyes of some people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:37 PM
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That half exists because a lot of women are very neurotic naturally. Men do not shape these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:36 PM
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Lilith venting about people not buying into her strawmen fallacies where she invents what others are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:30 PM
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Why? The intent is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:30 PM
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Yes, flirting is one of the socially adjusted way to confess interest, while confessing interest is the socially inept way to flirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:29 PM
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You like to challenge yourself I see!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:29 PM
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It's about intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:28 PM
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Flirting isn't necessarily two way. But is confessing more flirty or no flirty at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:11 PM
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Is flirting also sexual harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:58 PM
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Common != Awalt. So you proved being wrong here. Don't reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:56 PM
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Hahaha very good way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:52 PM
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What is the intent of confessing? What is the intent of flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:46 PM
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I said around half of women. It's a spectrum like anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:45 PM
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That was also not the topic. I feel lots of women here deny that the archetype I describe even exists commonly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:43 PM
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Q4A: Is confessing your interest flirting, or not flirting? Lilith is not allowed to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:39 PM
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If you don't want to debate just don't talk to me. You're being a troll here. "What do you think" is a simple question, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:33 PM
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That's not an argument. Leave PPD if you're unhappy that psychology and sociology are not sciences with hard proves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:30 PM
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I don't get why you all suddenly talk of that archetype of women when I expressly talk of the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:29 PM
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No, down to earth low expectations and easy to please women are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:29 PM
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We're here to debate sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:27 PM
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And for some reason, you think that’s AWALT instead of understanding that’s just your personal experiences. Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:27 PM
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That's not an issue where I live. Some women are competent when left alone, but would still prefer men to take over because the tasks still are very draining to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:26 PM
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So? Then he can always get new interests. The goal is to have a gf...... Your advices are just meant to misslead people. Not the same thing. Confessing is socially inept flirting. Again, not everyone is good at flirting and flirting can easily land a guy in creepy PMs. if he is creepy to her then she wasn't interested. Everyone's "how we met" story is creepy. Men have to get used to appearing creepy to women, because women are neurotic and irrational their voice needs not to be heard. Much like …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:20 PM
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Doesn't seem to explain why, just shows it found the pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:45 AM
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All my life it seemed to me that a solid half of women have serious issues with assertiveness, pickiness, disgust, phobias, and indecisiveness. The memes of the gf who doesn't know where to eat but knows where they don't want to eat is an archetype that most men agree of is fairly common. Similarly, plenty of these women are afraid of many things, like spiders, driving, going out at night, calling someone on the telephone, reaching out to the waiter for an issue.... You sometimes wonder how they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:42 AM
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Indecisive women are pretty common and they tend to prefer simple men like me. Being decisive or relax is part of what we provide to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:36 AM
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Because she can't make a choice. I'm a simple man, I'm always hungry and in for anything to eat. She's picky, and has inconsistent favorite food.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:32 AM
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I often contemplated that. But now that I got kids, the eventuality that I'll not get the same timeline and not have them is really horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:19 AM
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A solid recipe for not ever going to the restaurant at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:27 AM
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I mean you got to a restaurant and she ordered something willingly. The rest of us have to go through 10 restaurants before one pleases her wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:00 AM
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Women marry men who live longer* you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:47 AM
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It's not, but also, it feels like a norm with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:46 AM
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men are more likely to be killed by strangers, and women by men they know. So best bet as a man is to know all the men, and as a woman to know no man. :o
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:45 AM
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We don't need to even search that far, firefighters are working dangerous job to protect everyone's asses yet men are often shamed for being more likely to be a firefighter...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:42 AM
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Burden of proof is a fallacy. We're not in a courtroom. And PPD ain't anywhere near hard science. Have real arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:41 AM
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It's a "fair and unbiased" PPD grade take if you ask me :]
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:40 AM
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Here: but that attraction wears thin if their husbands constantly disappoint them. The secret is to find a woman who doesn't have unrealistic expectations for your behavior, and is grateful for whatever you contribute. There two pieces only are possible if there's a significant gap between your respective value. And even then it's not won for ever. If you pair with your match she'll likely be constantly disappointed in you one way or another, and she'll have unrealistic expectations of your beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:37 AM
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That's not a proof of what you claimed, Lilith. Then he can just find women with his interests. What if that's too rare? People develop new hobbies and interests based on their friend group all the time. Not everyone "develops" anything based on others. Friends got me excited to going to anime conventions Oh yeah one did that too, and I regretted. :') Then he cant complain about women not having his interests. If you tell him the secret to finding women is shared interests, of course he's going …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:29 AM
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So in short: be an extremely high value man and pick an average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:01 PM
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No it isn't similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:58 AM
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Proof? You made the first claim, prove it. And? Get new hobbies. Why would anyone force themselves to do things they have no interest from? Especially if it's just for the hope of meeting people who share that interest that you don't even have? Sounds very dishonest and a recipe for burning out. All that is misplaced efforts. Because not every woman wants to be flirted with until there’s mutual attraction establish. How does he know there is or isn't mutual attraction? flirting is literally mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:58 AM
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I feel most of the secrets men keep out from others are just extreme version of who they appear to be. While women's secrets are diametrical opposites of who they appear to be. Except maybe homophobic men who are often hiding having gay tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:54 AM
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Men die at a greater rate of everything, it's a common knowledge. But feminists and misandrists love to just brush it away as "men take more dumb risks and neglect their health". Then I saw this yesterday: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bqbQRL6rW20 And I thought, how common must it be that women discretely poison their husbands to death, or cunt their husbands out of healthcare, or cunt their husbands to work to death more? I also saw statistics suggesting that male babies were more likely to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:51 AM
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Everyone else has understood my comment except you, it's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:39 AM
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Not being an asshole has never provided anyone with romantic success. A lot of men don't share many interests with most women. Why don't you tell men they need to be flirty? That's the basics for anything to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:34 AM
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I talk about patterns all the time, I even commented about a pattern Im seeing right now in this subreddit. What you talking about? Sorry, it's my fault. I tend to prefer people to be dumb or ignorant than to be just intellectually dishonest. I stand corrected that you are the later. Being an overly sensitive asexual is not insignificant. That is A RED FLAG. For the bazillionth time, that isn't what's AWALT about her. And TBH I thought you took pride in being like that, because you seem to think…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:29 AM
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I'm exposing her inconsistencies and you call me a liar because the inconsistencies she has appear in my texts? Impressive demonstration of low reading comprehension. Even when women aren’t around Chad, they generally don’t act like overly sensitive asexuals. Yes that is the entire point of my comment. She presents as overly sensitive asexual only to not be around chad. She presents as only being BB but eventually you find out she is AF/BB anyway. Impressive demonstration of low reading comprehe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:26 AM
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Well now you're making me say things I didn't. So that settles it, you're just bad faith as a defense for your own gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:23 AM
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So by your logic, "black lives matter" means that only black lives matter? Or do you understand that some things do not literally mean what they mean in a dogmatic fashion? Please don't answer...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:18 AM
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Your counter argument seem to show that you do not understand the points. Or you're misrepresenting them to better attack them. I prefer to think you're unaware rather than to think you're bad faith. But if you insist...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:17 AM
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The thing is, I showed literally that she wasn't such an oversensitive asexual when chad is around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:15 AM
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I love that you always say "thank you for proving my point" despite you're the one proving that you're uncapable to perceive patterns if there are insignificant differences....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:14 AM
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I mean the only thing wrong she did was cheat lol... And the focal point of my comment is how she's just more AF/BB, and is more sexual and low disgust than she claims, when it's for chad. And you're comparing that to violent and controlling... This just shows you don't understand AWALT and AF/BB which are very basic RP concepts. Again, go read more of the basic PPD material before you debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:12 AM
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You're claiming she actually never talked to me of her sexual life and that I'm full of shit? It's your right. Just don't talk to me then. I'm just the one who was there when shit hit the fan, I helped her stitch her life back together, and I make people feel unjudged so they generally feel secure to talk to me of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:06 AM
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My comment is literally to say that even if a woman appears different in how she presents, her actions still reflect the same patterns AWALT talks of. Besides, plenty of women present as very neurotic, high disgust and prude, it's not a majority, but it's not a minority either, you just don't see them much out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:02 AM
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You are taking a person who would be hated by most people in general Most people would be hated by most if their secrets were spilled publicly. and trying to make it seem like she’s the typical woman. Yes she is a typical archetype. Not the most common, but not rare either. Her sexual incentives remain typical though. When you’re basically claiming that 4 billion people are exact same, the details do matter. Well 4 billion of people have heads, arms, legs, fingers, they all need to eat, sleep, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:01 AM
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How come you claim to know yet you don't get what AWALT means?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:57 AM
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Hilarious when people come to debate RP but don't know RP. Don't come to me with just "uh nawalt"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:56 AM
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All women aren't going to pretend to be a very neurotic prude woman. All women are going to AF/BB though. Maybe you should read TRP's sidebar before trying to argue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:49 AM
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She's AWALT in how her sexual incentives end up being the same as every other women regardless of how prude she claims to be. AWALT has always been on a high level plan, you keep thinking it's the details that are important. But the details are just what she tells you, the AWALT is what she does. And as we all say, watch what she does, not what she says. Though, plenty of women are like her and are very neurotic and high disgust and people don't take offense in their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:47 AM
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