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| 8 | Real relationships cannot replace escorting.some of the creepiest and grossest men in your city. This is what I picture too, but in all the documentaries and after-sex-work interviews paint those men as everyday Joes - usually wealthy but in sexless marriages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 03:07 PM |
| – | CMV: Women who cannot orgasm through penetration don't experience the same level of bonding/emotional attachment to their partnerWell that's why I'm on record as promoting the concept of being responsible for our own pleasure. Yes you should absolutely be generous and care about the other person. But don't let your pleasure be dictated by another. Get yours like he gets his! Women deserve pleasurable sex. Sadly, when I posted that, most other women disagreed 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 10:37 PM |
| – | CMV: Women who cannot orgasm through penetration don't experience the same level of bonding/emotional attachment to their partnerTrue and if a woman is insecure about not being able to cum, he'll feel that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 10:32 PM |
| – | CMV: Women who cannot orgasm through penetration don't experience the same level of bonding/emotional attachment to their partnerI agree. But this is the complaint that I have heard a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 10:08 PM |
| – | CMV: Women who cannot orgasm through penetration don't experience the same level of bonding/emotional attachment to their partnerlikely a lack of enthusiasm or follow-through on the man’s end if he knows she only cums from clitoral stimulation. Odd, I have heard complaints to the opposite. That guys take it as a challenge and proceed to put themselves on a mission to make it happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 10:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.I answered each ofyour questions. Can you answer each of mine please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 04:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.So is she a prostitute? I don't think that's her job title, no. She needs to be compensated monetarily for sex? No, he's not giving her cash. Why are you so focused on the prostitute label? Do you think it's uncommon for women to expect some kind of upfront investment or demonstration of effort before having sex with a man? Is that so unusual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 04:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.I would never do that to another woman. The woman in the clip felt pretty strongly that it changes things. I was just agreeing with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 03:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.Like what I didn't say like anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 03:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.That changes things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 03:45 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentBut women in here are talking about THEIR sex robots of the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 09:59 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentYou don't get to control me. I'm not trying to control you (individually) I'm looking out for the greater good of society of which I am a member. Not dissimilar from the anti pornography campaign. https://youtu.be/QkgbTYHVdrA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 09:58 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentI am consistent. I disagree with the amendments you've made to my argument. There are women who need to put in effort as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 08:06 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentIf you'd have told me 10 years ago that thousands of everyday women would be selling adult images and videos of themselves online, I'd have thought you were crazy. Yet here we are with OF. All that is to say, what seems far fetched now, can quickly become normalized. I don't want everyday random men to have access to realistic looking, perfect-bodied, never-say-no, sex bots. It'll warp their expectations for real women (much like pr0n) It will further stretch the limits of what young girls will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:57 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentWhy would you do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:42 PM |
| – | Sex robots are imminentWhat is the debate? That it's not imminent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.Did you watch the clip? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 03:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.Yes I was paraphrasing the woman in the clip. You did watch the clip right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 03:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.I'm not a sex worker. Not being paid FOR the sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 03:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.Because you are going to have sex with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 01:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.Why would someone be flying to meet someone they barely know I don't think that's the situation. You know the person, you just aren't dating. Why meet at all? You want to see this person The set up to this is just rage bait. What makes you say that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:54 AM |
| -12 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.Hey gold Shepherder, good to see you. I never post rage bait.I don't think she's assuming they're going to have sex, she's saying if they do then he should be paying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:14 AM |
| -6 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.What if she wants to come see you though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:12 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.I don’t owe him anything. True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:55 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.If she wants to go, she should pay But they're likely going to have sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women should not pay for their own flight to see a guy.She wants to come to your town | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:54 PM |
| 1 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.But what makes it unpleasant? Emotional distress. You like ice cream. You like spaghetti. But you don't necessarily want ice cream shoved in your mouth when you're still chewing on your spaghetti. Even if you like both things, there's a time and place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 10:10 PM |
| 2 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.Now that you see it, what made you think men would find it rude? When you are not expecting to be presented with sexual imagery, and it is being forced upon you by a stranger unexpectedly... that is an unpleasant experience for me. So I just sorta figured ya know why do you think there's a difference in the way men and women view these sorts of things? I think guys don't feel as unsafe in the world to the same degree of as women do (yes, despite the statistics suggesting they should). The result… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 07:29 PM |
| 2 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.Well I'll be damned. I stand corrected. Thanks for sharing the link. That was... unexpected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 02:18 PM |
| 0 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.A woman did this test on a dating app and was shocked that men still were engaged Source? I don't believe it Why do you think men wouldn't like it? Because it's rude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/26 01:23 PM |
| 8 | If women treated men like men treat women we would love it.unsolicited dick pics is predatory and creepy, even if it is the “average” behavior across men. I tried to tell men that they wouldn't like receiving unsolicited Volvo photos from strangers and they fought me against it Edit: I meant vulva... But unsolicited Volvo pics are also unacceptable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?That is an... uncharitable assessment of my contributions to PPD What makes you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?Oh, well I didn't mean to suggest any of that. That's my bad. Just saying a plan is calculated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?That's like down voted "2+2=4" because you disagree with the person saying it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?Exactly. I don't know why people are disagreeing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?Incels never take into consideration the amount of fear that women are constantly managing. All the danger that surrounds us every day. They dismiss it as over villainizing men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 03:37 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?this is just needless villianizing in my eyes That's something an incel would say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 02:13 PM |
| -16 | Q4M: What is the real reason y'all want to go out for drinks?Seems calculated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 07:21 PM |
| 4 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?Oh yeah I remember that upgrade. People were going nuts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 01:42 AM |
| 13 | Is AI dating necessary or unhealthy?People don’t care If I've learned anything, it's that people will say this. And yet there will be news segments, memes, think pieces, articles, blog posts, tweets, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Why are men obsessed with “submissive”women?Being submissive is very challenging anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 02:48 PM |
| 10 | On a date, men are just trying to not mess it up. But, women enjoy dates. What does that feel like?Same! I try to pick a place he might like, hopefully somewhere that he doesn't think is too far. At a time that works for him ( not too late, not too early) also has to work for his schedule. Then you have to try to avoid the minefield of hidden icks that he might have. All while "just being yourself". Oh and don't forget to make him laugh and be confident. It's exhausting. How do you do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 03:34 PM |
| 12 | Debate me - I hold that men have zero collective responsibility for the sexual behaviour of other men, and that they should only be expected to take responsibility for how they individually treat womenNah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 12:29 AM |
| -10 | What’s going on with the comments on this IG reel? Do women just hate men?Those commenters are just trying to make women look hateful and unhinged. It's just internalized misogyny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/26 05:53 AM |
| 0 | What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument?I only speak the truth. People sometimes can't handle it on PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 08:14 PM |
| -11 | What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument?I think women are all going for the same top 20% of men because those are the men who are emotionally vulnerable, have emotional intelligence, do their share of the domestic labor, and handle their share of the mental load. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 12:40 AM |
| 1 | WDYT about S.I.G.N. language? (Shame, Insults, Guilt, Need to be right)Do men engage in SIGN language more in your experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 03:30 PM |
| 0 | WDYT about S.I.G.N. language? (Shame, Insults, Guilt, Need to be right)Do you think it is effective? Is it on purpose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:14 PM |
| 1 | WDYT about S.I.G.N. language? (Shame, Insults, Guilt, Need to be right)You think it's effective? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 02:13 PM |
| 3 | WDYT about S.I.G.N. language? (Shame, Insults, Guilt, Need to be right)Why do you think people resort to these tactics so much in the pill space? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/26 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Honesty is ruining romanceI see. "You're the greatest of all! If I only consider you" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Honesty is ruining romanceThey can be both better AND irrelevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Honesty is ruining romanceI think, in love, the healthy state is thinking your partner is the greatest of them all. That's kinda... delusional though no? There's always someone out there better than you at something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?Only an insecure man would Calling people insecure is very popular in the gender wars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/26 01:56 PM |
| – | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!That's because it's low effort. Only pick mes would be ok with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?What makes you say that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 08:21 PM |
| – | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?Oh well then feel free to tolerate them then I'm not about to sit through all that YMMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 03:11 PM |
| – | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?Yes. Punish them for being too outlandish. Punish them for being too boring. Eventually they'll figure it out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 02:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: less marriages would be sexless if men made more of an effortExactly. I don't see how that's so controversial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 02:10 PM |
| -6 | CMV: less marriages would be sexless if men made more of an effortIt's obvious he was just being lazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 01:19 AM |
| -3 | CMV: less marriages would be sexless if men made more of an effortThe husband referred to in the clip did not put in effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?For women. We are saddled with these dry ass conversations. Everyone sounding the same. That's why in a lot of profiles you see people talking about hating small talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 10:39 PM |
| 8 | Women, do you like how men walk on eggshells when talking to you?I never thought about it but your probably right. These milquetoast conversations are guys playing it safe trying to avoid hidden ick landmines. Kinda sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Question for Women: If I can guarantee to you that all future hookup experiences will be like the typical male hookup experience, would you sleep around more?I'm sure that's the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 04:03 AM |
| 5 | Question for Women: If I can guarantee to you that all future hookup experiences will be like the typical male hookup experience, would you sleep around more?I didn't say anything about major religion. I said different religion. There are religions that don't frown upon premarital sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Question for Women: If I can guarantee to you that all future hookup experiences will be like the typical male hookup experience, would you sleep around more?How do women expect a man to know how to please a woman without experience and guidance? How do men expect a woman to know how to please a man? He doesn't - he is responsible for his orgasm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women: If I can guarantee to you that all future hookup experiences will be like the typical male hookup experience, would you sleep around more?How about being born into a different religion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 08:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!These are just assumptions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:23 PM |
| 2 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!I was just wondering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!I disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!Do you think that this app forces people to date against their will? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!dating fundamentally should be something people engage in willingly Do you think that this app forces people to date against their will? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!You should not date people who are entitled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:39 PM |
| 3 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!That's what I was thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:38 PM |
| 3 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!Oh, for some reason I thought escorts were considered sex workers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 11:13 PM |
| 3 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!You don't think that women would be attracted to a man who pays her to be at the date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 08:48 PM |
| 3 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!A woman. Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 08:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!No, she just values her time. No where did she say sex is being provided | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 08:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!What preparation costs are there? https://youtube.com/shorts/NJzZQUO2SiE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 08:39 PM |
| 3 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!What is gross about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 08:35 PM |
| 3 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!The difference between this and prostitution is, what, precisely? With prostitution you are paying for sex with no expectation of relationship In this your paying to cover the cost of your date agreeing to be courted by you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 08:34 PM |
| 4 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!Oh my bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 08:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!I'm asking about the single mom part specifically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 08:31 PM |
| 3 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!Oh wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:31 PM |
| 2 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!If a civilian woman And if she was active military? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!like what? I didn't say it was like anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!lol. Single mom. lol What exactly is funny about single moms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:09 PM |
| 3 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!I don't think that's what the creator was going for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:08 PM |
| -3 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!people who are prostitute adjacent. What does this even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Do you think you are good at recognizing other women's enjoyment in erotic content?I like to believe that they're bored and just faking their enjoyment and all men are oblivious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?That's a great answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?That's correct. Each individual man can look around at other men's behavior and rhetoric and share their opinion on what they observe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:30 PM |
| -3 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?Yes I want to see if they are aware of ANY of the delusions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: what is something you think guys overestimate women care about in dating?lol I was going to basically say this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 05:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotYou do realize going out doesn't even guarantee there will be single women around to talk to, right? Sure, just because you leave the house that doesn't make other people leave the house. I'm not suggesting that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 02:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotStop that. Sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 01:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotWell it's also not about you? Are you asking me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotTrue it doesn't have to be, but it could be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotIt's not option C because I'm asking "which is more likely" of the 2 options I presented. 1 of those is definitely more likely than the other. Can you guess which? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:29 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Rejection is hotYeah, one fucking slogan on a billboard from a fucking company trying to sell you something doesn't fucking change anything. Are fucking sure about fucking that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 08:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Rejection is hotWhy would I change the company's slogan? 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 05:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Rejection is hotWithout dodging the question... Which (of these 2) do you think is more likely: A. This company now exists because the number of women approaching men has drastically reduced over the years B. This company now exists because the number of men approaching women has drastically reduced over the years InB4 "option C" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 05:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Rejection is hotI know where you got the idea Oh ok, so it WASN'T a matter of ME phrasing the title a certain way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 05:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Rejection is hotI did see it Oh ok good. Can you guess where I got the idea for the post title? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 05:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotBut I don't? A-are you asking me if you don't? I'm not sure TBH. If you don't find a man being emotionally vulnerable to be a positive thing, then that's ok (see disclaimer) That's just, like, your opinion But this isn't about Lemon_gecko. It's about the larger society of women in the dating pool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 05:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Rejection is hotI think you purposely phrased this change my mind to something that sounds insane so you'd get views Did you see the billboard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 05:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotI mean it's not "lying" to say that someone finds those things to be positive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Rejection is hotwomen are looking for men to put a little bit more effort into the initial approach when dating Exactly. And that effort manifests as more men approaching you in public | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotShe rejected him. Why does it matter if it's hot? It's not making a difference. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/NVrwwQAjsl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Rejection is hotThe men i know who get rejected most often also get laid the most often. Exactly. It's a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:48 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Rejection is hotIt's hot in the same way "vulnerability is hot" or "a man doing emotional labor" is hot. It's doesn't cause physical arousal or anything. It's just a way to encourage men to change their behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:47 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Rejection is hotdon't understand the premise of this post Let me see if I can clarify there's an AI dating app in some form of testing stages Yes, that is correct then proceed to promote...an AI app? The company is promoting the AI app. I'm just referring to the fact that it even exists speaks to the dearth of courageous men willing to face rejection IRL dudes go to these meetups every so often and...do what exactly? Approach women IRL and risk rejection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotDespite OP being OP Wait, what's that supposed to mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Rejection is hotWinners never quit. And quitters never win. Just remember that when you're in Thailand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Rejection is hotThat photo with the billboard was of the New York subway system | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:32 PM |
| – | CMV: Rejection is hotWatch gravel roads not even talk about it or make a joke about it if he does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 03:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herYes, the millionaire vampire werewolf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herOpinions can change over time ☹️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 03:41 AM |
| 0 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herWhy not? Persistence is a cornerstone of many a romance novel - of which 84% have women readers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 06:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by heryes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 06:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herhttps://youtu.be/qTA0RuZoIxM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herWhat's that supposed to mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:31 PM |
| -1 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herYou don't think she is making a valid point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:31 PM |
| 0 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herThe woman in the clip is specifically talking about the woman who has rejected you. Your odds are better with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by heryou have more chances of getting with a woman if, in the chance shed reject you youd be okay with it and move on. Possibly, but the woman in the clip is suggesting that you have better chances with THE SPECIFIC woman who rejected you. Not just any woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:05 PM |
| -3 | CMV: there's a greater chance of you getting with a woman if you are ok getting rejected by herThe title has it all. It talks about increasing your odds by being ok with rejection. Why would you want increase your odds? Because you are NOT giving up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Dressing for myself.those arent sexually charged Where do you draw the line when it comes to what's in other people's mind? Is it ok to have a boundary on what your SO can fantasize about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Dressing for myself.doesnt everyone? No sensory input of others is a very common boundary So the cilantro and sneezing examples make perfect sense to you then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Dressing for myself.Odd? sure if you mean im the minority No no - I don't mean odd in how common it is. I mean odd in having strong emotions on something that shouldn't affect you: The sensory input of OTHER people. It's like saying, "Now that we're in a relationship, I better not catch you eating cilantro!" Those aren't your taste buds. Or, "I don't want other people to hear you sneezing!" Those aren't your eardrums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 06:06 PM |
| 5 | Dressing for myself.the same way a person in an open relationship can call you insecure for not wanting your man sleep with other women. That's fair. Ok let me retract the insecurity part. Can you admit that having boundaries on the visual processing of others is odd? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Dressing for myself.The notion that my significant other has exclusive rights to "visual access" to MY body just seems weird to me. The same way some women want to control what their bf has visual access to (ie: stop following Instagram models) with HIS eyes. Controlling what people see reeks of insecurity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 04:15 PM |
| – | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?An Incel is someone who is involuntarily celibate because they hate women I believe you are thinking of incelhawos which is short for involuntarily celibate because hating women. Incel only stands for the involuntarily celibate part. It is entirely possible to be involuntarily celibate and not hate men or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?People insult people Insightful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Where are the TikToks of men being angry towards women?I never really thought about that but the only ones I see are the pill content guys. They will have podcasts and stuff and are typically reacting to other tiktok clips | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 03:17 PM |
| 0 | The Orgasm Gap is real... but it has NOTHING to do with male selfishness.She just has to be with a dude who knows wtf he’s doing and is actually good at it. Exactly. It's his job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas?Well shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas?I can't say that I have considered countries to be "tinder-brained" no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas?The women they date are often average for the area. That would suggest that "average" woman overseas are of higher attractiveness than women in the west - which just isn't true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas?American women are significantly fatter and therefore uglier than most other women in the world. It's a chopped MALE epidemic why does this need to stop? It is a loophole. Loopholes typically should be closed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas?Why do you care? I'm curious about dating related topics so I post here Quick question for you though... How is it that mid guys are able to pull tens overseas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas?So it's chopped AND screwed overseas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:28 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas?There's something gross about that response. I can't quite articulate why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: How is it that mid guys with no game still pull 10s overseas?Cool cool Hey how is it that mid guys are able to pull tens overseas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairOk that's fair To expand on what I was getting at - Using the term celibate invokes the chastity vow that traditional women often use. The watered down version of it is: "I'm not going to have sex with him until he proves he is serious". Financial celibacy appears to be a reaction to that. My read of this is that these men are essentially saying, "if you're not going to put out then I'm not going to pay" That strikes me as Petty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 05:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairIf it’s irrelevant, it is irrelevant I never thought about it this way. It's giving me a lot to think about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairHow is it petty? I explained in the OP Just don’t date those guys Way ahead of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairthe concept of financial celibacy should imply a man will eventually start spending money on his wife? Yes, that's the idea ostensibly There is no way the man doesn't get used to not doing that. True! This is why women who are celibate until marriage often have dead bedrooms. It's because they got used to not putting out during the dating stage! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairFree will No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairOh... well. Carry on then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 02:23 PM |
| -1 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairWhy do you have to spend money on beauty products for a man? Don't spend the money on the products for men. Spend the money on the products to feel good about yourself. Nonetheless, society places this beauty standard on women, whereas men don't get the same pressure. Women are socialized to be attractive at all times. And if we're not wearing makeup, we're told we look tired, etc. https://youtube.com/shorts/_4USCElA8-4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:18 AM |
| -2 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairOops, I meant to say unfair. Fixed it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:13 AM |
| 2 | The Phrase "Women And Children"Hollywood made the term popular I usually hear it when I listen to world news "This just in from our war correspondent - 100 civilians were killed in the conflict zone including 13 women and children" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:01 AM |
| 1 | When Does Male Virginity Become A Red Flag?Is someone who is celibate involuntarily an incel? Also the usual disclaimer - Not all men/women/boys/girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:22 PM |
| 1 | When Does Male Virginity Become A Red Flag?Incel = red flag, right? Involuntarily celibate = you WANT sex but you cannot have it = red flag The human male typically reaches puberty approximately around the age of 12. That is when masturbation begins. From that point on, testosterone hormones are telling the male needs to reproduce. So that's when the clock starts. By the time he enters high School, sex has been on his mind for the past 5 to 6 years. If he hasn't been able to have it for 5 to 6 years despite his efforts then he is essenti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 06:05 PM |
| 2 | When Does Male Virginity Become A Red Flag?What part needs elaboration? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 05:56 PM |
| 0 | When Does Male Virginity Become A Red Flag?Yes. When I was in high school, most of the boys had been wanting to hook up since they hit puberty. So that's like 6 years by the time they get to highschool. If you have been wanting to hook up for 6 years and you haven't been able to... You are involuntarily celibate. Huge red flag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 05:46 PM |
| -2 | When Does Male Virginity Become A Red Flag?18 17 in some states | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?In modern dating, men are expected to be the entertainers I don't think that's true if I need something exciting to do together, I'll organize something Do you think women don't do this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Are you part of the vast majority? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Citation needed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Why though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?The painting with composition and subjects | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Ok cool cool. The fact that 99% of people in the world are boring is still you-problem though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?men say they're looking for a best friend that they get to fuck I have never heard this sentiment. In fact, quite the opposite. Most of what I hear from men is about how they wish their gf had her own life and her own and actual hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?we’d get compliments a lot from how cute we looked together I see. Is how you look to other people important to you in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?I don't think you don't understand what I'm saying. Let's put it this way, if you find someone boring... Just let them also know you find 99% of people boring. Then they'll realize they're not the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Oh okay, it makes sense then if that's your outlook | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Only if You require novelty to not be bored | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 05:20 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?If you find practically everyone else in the world boring... You don't think that's a you problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?They look for connection and understanding above all else. Really now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Finally! Sheesh I was beginning to think this wasn't a requirement for men We fit well aesthetically Can you elaborate on this? I'm not sure what this means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?I think you're confusing boring with being unoriginal. Someone who is attending music festivals and going to concerts and doing all of the things that are very typical is unoriginal. Boring as something else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Ah ok, that attitude would explain things. It's clearly a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?I don't think that is true. How many women have you heard women say, "I expect my boyfriend to entertain me?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:23 AM |
| – | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingYou are the one doing the hating, as I clearly pointed out Oh sorry I read your original sentence wrong. Your OP indicates otherwise. My OP suggests I considered it and it WAS the case? Seems like you might have read my OP wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?I'm not just talking about famous people. There's a lot of talented women who never make it big. Just like men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?So you have or you have not met a boring person before? I'm not sure what your answer is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:19 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Why would there be a difference between the genders? Is there any pill that has a hypothesis on this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Oh. Lemme go double check that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?99% women are boring I don't agree with this. There are so many female artists, actors, musicians, dancers, entertainers, celebrities, writers, comedians... The list goes on all of these women can't possibly be that minuscule 1%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?It’s not a woman’s job to entertain a man. Do you believe that it is a man's job to entertain a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 01:04 AM |
| -2 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?men don’t require their partners to be exceptionally entertaining or charismatic like women do, It sounds like you're saying women have higher standards than men do. I vehemenly disagree with this. The bar is on the floor when it comes to women's expectations from men. This is well established | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Can confirm Do you have experience with having a boring, significant other? Can you share what made this person boring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 01:02 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?with men they often default into being passive consumers of experience. If that were the case, then I would imagine a lot more men complaining of having boring girlfriends. But I'm just not seeing that in here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Men aren't looking for women to entertain them. Have you ever met someone who was boring? For example, sometimes you have a coworker that might be just an outright boring person. That doesn't mean you have expectations that they need to entertain you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?I don't really know what boring What do you think the person writing into the podcast meant? If you had to guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?99% of women are boring That's insulting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:49 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Why do you think that is? Edit: I'm trying to see if there's a difference between the genders on this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?they want me to do more or less all the administrative work for the relationship It sounds like you're talking about invisible labor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?men will stay with a woman who is “boring” as long as he gets what he wants But if he's bored, it sounds like he's not getting what he wants out of the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?I'm boring myself Any of your guy friends leave their exes because she was too boring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:48 PM |
| -2 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingI would assume that law enforcement would be the bigger person and carry out their duties for which citizens pay taxes... Rather than show up to a crash site and let the driver burn to death because they spot an ACAB bumper sticker | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 03:32 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingSeems like you should be thrilled about a group you openly hate ignoring you. I'm usually unhappy about being hated Did you ever consider that you're just desperate to play the victim? I have considered this. Turns out that was not the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 02:34 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingstupid prices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingapproach random women That's just it - she's not random in this case. He would be a | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 02:32 PM |
| -4 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingThey're not free to choose the bear and then demand that men still treat them as if they haven't chosen the bear. Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingwe're not comparing the police to bears That's not how analogies... You know what nevermind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:22 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingIt can't be for both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 12:34 AM |
| -1 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingIf a man gets angry that women choose the bear, l can safely assume he's a callous, self-centered fucking piece of shit True! If men want the "Man vs. Bear" comparison to go away I don't think they want it to go away. I think they are having too much fun throwing it back in our face when we ask for the bare minimum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 12:34 AM |
| 0 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingwas just wondering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 07:01 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingWould you rather be in a pool with a bunch of crocodiles or human males How big is the pool? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:55 PM |
| -5 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingThe man that makes us feel safe when approaching should not be afraid to approach and is not offended by the bear answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingMy point exactly 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingBecause one is about not being assaulted and the other is about dating. 2 different things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:18 PM |
| -10 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingThere's no correlation. That's what makes it a disingenuous argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:14 PM |
| -5 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingBoth. One is about dating The other one is about assault. It's like saying people who complain about police brutality shouldn't be allowed to call the police when in trouble | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessGot it. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 12:50 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessSo... yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessI didn't say it shouldn't be discussed My bad I don't get why you posted this So we can discuss it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 11:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessYou never answered my question by the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessDo you believe that contributes to this conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:33 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessThat's not really up to you though, is it? No Do you think you get to decide that for men? No, I don't get to decide it for men. Nor can any single man. What I can do however is acknowledge that there are men out there who don't see single mothers as having less value. Am I allowed to acknowledge that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessthis is bait What exactly is "bait" about this? if she is genuinely happy being single Nowhere does she suggest this is the case why should she settle for a guy she doesn’t really like just because she has children? She shouldn't. That's my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessOh, You're asking for examples, my bad. https://youtu.be/8LV9oYFJ2YI Let's start with music videos (4M views) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessThe one where it makes women feel like they have to give up their preferences. Are you looking for a serial number or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessI think it's ok to discuss societal pressures even if no one is physically forcing people to adhere. Some people are against tipping culture excesses, even though tipping is entirely optional. Does that mean they shouldn't be able to discuss it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessWho is making her settle? No one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 06:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessLess as in fewer of her preferences or requirements are being met | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:26 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessultimately the right man won't mind the kids and will love her and treat her right. Exactly 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:44 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:42 PM |
| -7 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessdon't expect men to settle for less either and if that means most men don't date single mothers Single mothers aren't "less" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:42 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessJeff Bezos and Matt Damon wifed up single mothers. Exactly. It's possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:31 PM |
| -6 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessshow us "men" how a "real man" would date this person. Approach her. Respectfully, confidently Get to know her, make her laugh, be witty Ask her out on the date and then plan the date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:31 PM |
| -5 | CMV: Single mothers should not have to settle for lessSometimes society beats down your self-worth so that you don't have an accurate assessment of what you qualify for. In those cases you end up settling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDo you believe men treat women's height the same way women treat men's height? When it comes to dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 05:08 PM |
| 0 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFshuh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 05:07 PM |
| -1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBecause women do those things for themselves - it's not about appealing to the male gaze | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 03:55 PM |
| 0 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsdon't cook if you don't want to, Agreed, if your BF wants you to cook and you don't want to. DON'T | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 03:08 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWe do that for ourselves to feel confident | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 10:54 AM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 10:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsEver? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsjust meant why dangle something nice to do Why dangle marriage in front of a woman until she cooks for you? I don't think that is right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsIn not entirely convinced in some of these things that I find on the Internet so I bring them here to get the other side of the position. Eventually I will form my opinion after hearing very compelling arguments. The vast majority of my opinions put me square in the blue pill camp | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFshe’s also under no obligation to stay with her, pay for dinner, change her tire or anything else that could be considered marriage privileges. That should not be restricted to husband privileges | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:54 PM |
| -2 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsEither a man wants to be my life partner or he doesn't. If he doesn't, he can leave So things are pretty black and white eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:51 PM |
| -6 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsSo? So it is still happening today and it's not uncommon Financial coercion used to incentivize women to get married. Now women can support themselves. So? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsI'd like to cook an unusual tasting soup for Vladimir Putin and Kim Jong Un. That ain't happenin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsWhy would dangling something you should do for a ring? I'm not sure what you are asking. Can you rephrase please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsCool cool. Do you agree that GFs should not cook for their BFs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:29 PM |
| -5 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWe do that for ourselves. Besides, men aren't as height sensitive as we are so a few inches taller or shorter isn't as impactful when it's the woman's height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:27 PM |
| -4 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsPeople can cook for whoever they want. No they can't People need to eat I agree with this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:24 PM |
| -5 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsincentivize someone to marry you. Sex, children, and cohabitation was an incentive for quite some time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:22 PM |
| -6 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsI’m sorry, You're good but what? I was saying GFs should not cook for their BFs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:19 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'm not sure how to feel about shoe lifts for men... 🤔 On the one hand, if it makes you feel confident - do you On the other hand, thats false advertisement and reeks of insecurity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 05:15 PM |
| 2 | What is the definition of a 'low-value man' from a women's POV?Not ambitious Not confident Not emotionally intelligent Not a feminist Not educated Bigoted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.The only comments I saw were from women. Same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 12:33 PM |
| – | Q4M: Who is in the wrong here?you say men can't tell when people do wrong. I said that? That is a classic "nice guy" move. I think you're mistaking the "nice guy" with the "creep" stereotype. Nice guys bend over backwards, have no backbone or boundaries and expect all the nice things they do to add up to attraction. When that fails, they claim women only like bad boys. Creeps are socially oblivious, misread the room, ignore body language, oblivious to nonverbal cues, and make an inappropriate approach. When that fails, they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 12:26 PM |
| – | Q4M: Who is in the wrong here?A simple question that you needed to "prepare" with a very oriented full oriented description of the video first? It's a part of the rules that you have to describe the video for those folks who can't access it. I had a post removed because I forgot to do that once. I do it for every single post that I make that has a video clip in it. video is staged See disclaimer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:21 AM |
| – | Q4M: Who is in the wrong here?I thought it was a simple question. You think this is "deep"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 10:45 PM |
| – | Q4M: Who is in the wrong here?your apparent position. My position is: "In this skit, who is in the wrong?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 10:43 PM |
| – | Q4M: Who is in the wrong here?He rejected her because she was too nice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Oh, that clears things up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 07:48 PM |
| – | Q4M: Who is in the wrong here?Script: guy punches innocent kid in the face Me: who was in the wrong? You: it was scripted! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 07:28 PM |
| – | Q4M: Who is in the wrong here?Would that change the answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 07:25 PM |
| – | Q4M: Who is in the wrong here?This is all fucking scripted lmao See disclaimer lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 07:07 PM |
| – | Q4M: Who is in the wrong here?Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Agreed. I just didn't expect to see all women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Yeah, like Tilly Norwood maybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.How can you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.general tone of your posts What's the tone of my posts in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:00 PM |
| 0 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.(we should also update laws regarding marriage, property ownership, contracts, drinking age, military service since all of those should warrant true consent). We're just talking about sex here. It's ok to have different age thresholds for different things. Driving. Drinking alcohol etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.I agree, this seems like a huge stretch. But something curious. When I look up the petitions against her. All of the comments seem to be women https://www.change.org/p/remove-a-platform-for-bonnie-blue-annie-knight-and-lillian-phillips/feed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Women. Do. Not. Care. An Australian woman created a petition to stop Bonnie from coming to Australia. 22k+ signatures At least 1 woman cared and took action | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.I think she actually seems like a genuinely nice person "Genuinely nice" people don't prey on 18-year-olds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.it would be paradise on earth. Why do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.they're fully consenting How can they consent when they're only 18? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Yeah, there’s the problem Ah, I see. You make a very compelling counter argument that has clarified the disconnect. I'll have to seriously reconsider my position now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:33 PM |
| 6 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.True. She definitely has haters as does every public figure. In was skeptical about the death threat from women, but it seems Bonnie herself is saying that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:30 PM |
| -2 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.When can they consent? At 25 when the prefrontal cortex is fully developed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.The podcasts. The comments are bots The podcasters and guests are AI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.It seems Bonnie herself is saying it's women that are making the death threats https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/bonnie-blue-ive-vile-death-34139855 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.she actually got punched by a feminist Source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:20 PM |
| 4 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.I don't want her getting MORE famous And I don't want Fuentes getting laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.🦑 checking in! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:17 PM |
| 9 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.It seems Bonnie herself is saying it's women 😔 https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/bonnie-blue-ive-vile-death-34139855 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Wait, Bonnie herself is saying it's women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.True! That's where in a previous post I was suggesting we moved the age of consent to 25... When the prefrontal cortex is fully developed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Knowing the legal age of your country is really telling on yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.How is she a predator if they are consenting Can they really consent though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Makes perfect sense to me. Wearing trousers at the time was seen as a men-only thing In society today, most predators are men This isn't to say pants were "strictly" men only or predators are strictly men only. The association is there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.I listen to a lot of feminist "womanosphere" podcasts, and wherever Bonnie Blue is mentioned, AI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?Why would men create "patriarchal societal norms" that disadvantage them? As is typically the case, it's primarily the in power who shaped most of the patriarchy. Those men had the discretionary income to demonstrate how much better they were than the brokies. See dowries, engagement rings, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?I like how you downvote me I never downvote in PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 11:38 PM |
| 0 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?There is no obligation k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?Where does what come from If I'm not mistaken, OP was asking about the obligation for men to pay on dates. I don't think he was asking about where the panic came from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?The question that was asked is, "where does this come from?" Do you disagree and think it comes from somewhere else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 03:06 PM |
| 27 | Why are Men are obligated to pay but women are not obligated todo anything?I see a lot of responses in here saying, "just don't date those women". I don't think that is the question It DEFINITELY doesn't answer the 2nd part of the question. OP - The answer to your question is that it is a vestige from the patriarchal societal norms of previous generations. The social contract was that the man pays for everything, and the woman will be arm candy and his muse. He's responsible for protecting and providing for her, she's responsible for satisfying him sexually, managing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:06 PM |
| -1 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?Yes, for women it's not all about looks Can he make me laugh? Is he confident? Is he ambitious? There are a lot of things that women look for first that are not as superficial as looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:55 PM |
| -2 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?It is not a social cue. That is all in your mind. https://www.socialfoundationsla.com/strategies-videos/socialsignals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:51 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?If the man is unable to read social cues, he is already failing. We don't want that man. We are looking for men for confidence. By us making the approach we are effectively obfuscating which men have the confidence in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?You sound like a disciplined person. We need more people like you to be the head of families. Creating better citizens for more cohesive society. Not checking out of it. What we will have left are those who didn't plan their families because they are not intentional or disciplined. The result will be children from single households that are undisciplined making up the bulk of society. That does not spell good things for society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?Making eye contact and looking away isn't obvious Of course - https://youtu.be/wSw1ddJmVDM?t=452 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:03 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?Of course it's obvious. Here's a tutorial https://youtube.com/shorts/_RFkpA7ff2c | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?That still sounds like a win. Not everyone you approach is going to end up in marriage and kids. There are a lot of points along the line where things may fail. to not even try to begin with Is blocking your own blessings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?It at least sounds like you are introspective enough to recognize yourself limiting beliefs. Cognitive behavioral therapy can help you recognize when this is happening and adjust your thinking to be more well-adjusted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:44 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?When a man is not interested in women? I suppose asexual or | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:58 AM |
| -5 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?I'm talking about at a party, or a bar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:46 AM |
| -13 | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?So... you're intimidated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:45 AM |
| 0 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?I was being a little hyperbolic when I said thousands of matches. But let's be real, there are a lot of beautiful women... And as for the guys... Maybe chopped is too harsh but... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:37 AM |
| -1 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?I don't see why guys push back so hard on this. It's so simple, and yet they are falling all over themselves to make it harder than it needs to be. I think it ruins their victim narrative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 06:35 AM |
| 0 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?Yeah I'm not saying 1000 matches literally. I'm just saying a lot of matches. Obviously it depends on the location in which this experiment is conducted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 06:33 AM |
| -4 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?There's a pot out there for every lid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:48 AM |
| 0 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?What are you talking about? Everybody is familiar with the guys being intimidated by successful women phenomena. These are the women I'm talking about. https://youtube.com/shorts/1L9VgPFHQrU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 11:20 PM |
| -2 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?Going to need receipts for all that, chief | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 11:07 PM |
| 0 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?Blast from the past. I forgot about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 09:15 PM |
| -6 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?I'm being dead serious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 09:07 PM |
| -11 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?Because the bar is in hell. There are so many beautiful, intelligent, ambitious, single women that have their s*** together. Literally all you have to do is just be yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?the sub would be a lot more boring without you around. It's very kind of you to say that ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:33 PM |
| 36 | Are there viral Blue Pill dating experiments?OP, you have a point! We should make our own blue pilled "evidence" videos to push back against red pill propaganda. Create a profile of an average normal guy. Make him 5'9, and decidedly not rich (a barista or something) In his profile, highlight that he is emotionally intelligent confident vulnerable a feminist. Take decent pics and remove the ones with him holding a fish. Then show the thousands of matches that he gets with beautiful women in just a few days. This will send the red pill guys … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:57 PM |
| 5 | What standards should men and women actually look for in someone they want to date?You can’t ask for something you don’t possess It should also be said that simply having a trait does it mean you are entitled to it when dating Tall girls aren't entitled to a tall man Guys that go to the gym aren't entitled to women that go to the gym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 05:38 AM |
| – | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?This is so general... What would be an example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 12:05 AM |
| – | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?it is suddenly clear why older men are the way they are. Wait why ARE older men the way they are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 10:04 PM |
| – | Are Women Becoming Less Attracted to Men in General?It's embarrassing to have a boyfriend nowadays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:20 PM |
| – | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?is that what that is meant to do? I think so. I can't think of any other reason for it. What else could it be for? Are cars running off the street onto the sidewalk often enough to invent a "rule" to protect us? You are more likely to be hit by a car as a pedestrian than attacked by a stranger. Yet we have all kinda self protection rules | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 06:35 AM |
| – | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?being aloof, distant and avoidant are positives not negative traits. Who said they were negative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:17 AM |
| – | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?That's his experience. Why would I attempt to invalidate that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:16 AM |
| – | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?Do you walk on the outside for your male friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 02:15 AM |
| – | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?Why not for friendships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?correct Got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?So you never said anything about them asking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?like I said- if a dude asked me to I would You said that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?imperfect translation layer That's a good way to explain the difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?I see, thanks for sharing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:55 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?"He was just interest in sex!". No, he wasn't. He was interested in a relationship But a relationship has sex in it, so it makes sense for her to say that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:38 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?I treat my female friends same as my male friends Why don't you walk on the outside for your female friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?emotional tampon We really need another phrase for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:34 PM |
| -9 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?That woman was trash That's not very nice. Why do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?observation Do you have a specific example of something common amongst women you've observed which exemplifies this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?The only things I can think of is like walking to her car or to the train station at night Want to walk your guy friends to the station? Last I checked guys were susceptible to violence from men as well... at least that's what they keep saying in pill spaces whenever violence against women is brought up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?Why nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?Keep in mind we're talking about friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:27 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?So far it seems you are the manliest man that ever manned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:27 PM |
| -3 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?I'm not going to intentionally do it You don't think it's chivalrous for you to get hit by the car instead of her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?Timisoara? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?a lot of women turn their brain off when outside. How have you reached this conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What things do you do for your female friends that you don't do for your guy friends?tanuki Words I didn't expect to read today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Chill infers there friendly with that lower intensity It sounds like your definition of chill means warm and friendly. My definition of chill is someone who is relaxed, not high strung. If we go with your definition, then yes it's contradictory. My definition is not however. I believe it's entirely possible to get along with someone who is relaxed and aloof. There's no arguing, no strife, no drama, no headaches etc. There's a movie on Netflix called Train Dreams where a lumberjack crew is exactl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?You misunderstand me. I'm bringing that up in comparison to boring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?It has to be that way so I can isolate peace vs love as the variable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Why peace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?It's not duty if she's horny It's also not love | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Everyone answering “someone madly in love with you can not be disrespectful” is not adequately allowing for the vast complex world that is ‘relationship interactions’. This is true. I just can't bring myself to explain that to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?basically just friends That have sex together regularly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?It’s mature in the sense of choosing the most effective tool for the job You sure you're not confusing mature with efficient? And is this a healthy way to handle situations in your relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Giving your partner peace is love So you're going with option two? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Sex isn’t happening in option 2. That's not true. I said everything else is equal between them. So if option one is not a dead bedroom then neither is option two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Can interesting and exciting be achieved without drama? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?That would likely lead to arguments down the line. If it does, it would be you starting the arguments. She's agreeable and cooperative. You'd be stirring up the drama | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?So you're choosing... peace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Why peace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Why Peace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Understood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?The highs wouldn't be as high, but the lows wouldn't be as low | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?To me the opposite of boring is interesting or exciting I think that can be achieved without drama, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?She’s not fulfilling my needs What are your needs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Thanks for your answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Whatever You assume for one you have to assume for the other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?I could give a shit whether a woman loves me or not wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Why peace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Love is cheap af. Why do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?how could a girl be distant hard to read but she's chill, easy to get along with but she isnt going to leave, cheat or display herself for other guys. Can a person be distant and chill? Yes Can a person be easy to get along with and not leave you? Yes Can a person be hard to read but never disrespect you? Yes I don't see the contradiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?if the second one is really as peaceful as you say she is then I could date other women simultaneously Why would you do that? She's not cheating on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:17 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?But that wasn- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Fair enough. Thank you for answering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Yes, If you were forced to choose between those two then it becomes challenging. The challenging nature of the question is what makes it interesting. You have to put your mind in the hypothetical of dealing with both of those and then make a tough decision. If the choice is between a cookie and a cupcake, it's nowhere near as interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Ever play the Would-you-rather game? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?InAfter "neither" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?You definitely don't. You could respond to a different thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?What makes the question interesting is that neither option is good, you are forced to give up something. And giving up something you are revealing what you value over something else. If the question just had two great outcomes, that's not as interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?I’d pick Love as I will at least know where I stand I see. It can definitely be worrying to not know where you stand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?I can just train her to keep me out of drama by yelling at her / scaring her Do you think this is a mature and healthy way to go about addressing her behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Peace Do you think it'd be boring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?I would pass on both InAfter "neither" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?If im trying to get a family id roll with peace. If I am 23 im rolling with love. Interesting. Thanks for answering! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?If I am forced to pick one, I would pick the second one just because I can't deal with that much drama in my life, but in reality I know I can find better than either of those options Finally, someone who understands how to answer a hypothetical question. Thanks for your answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:50 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Jesus Christ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?Ok, but for the sake of discussion, let's just assume you had to choose 1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: decision time - peace or love?So are you choosing the love option? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?Relevantpilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?Sure but either way you're still making all the decisions right? It's not like you were making 80% of the decisions when you were single and now that you're together with a submissive woman, you're making 100% of the decisions. Both before and after you were making 100% of decisions so that has not changed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 11:55 PM |
| 2 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?If she's submissive she'll do what you say, right? Then just tell her to express her desires and you'll take them under consideration. She will follow those directions... Problem solved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:04 PM |
| 2 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?obsessed with relationships Interesting fact I learned the other day... They looked at top 40 songs from 1960 to 2010 and found that between 78% and 83% of the ones by female performers referenced dating or relationships. Can you imagine a Taylor Swift album that has absolutely nothing to do with dating or relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:16 PM |
| 2 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?Shouldn't a partnership maje things easier? I didn't think guys looking for submissive women are particularly interested in "partnership" or sharing leadership responsibilities. My understanding was that the easier part comes from the fewer discussions required for making the decisions. Instead of the "What restaurant would you like to go to tonight?" dance - it becomes, "We haven't been to Olive Garden in a while. Let's do that tonight". You're right about having to adjust the considerations of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:12 PM |
| 2 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?You had friends who wanted a woman that was "ran through". Are you from the United States? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:59 PM |
| 3 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?I see what you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:57 PM |
| 2 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?Ok - Why might they not actually want a virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 06:28 AM |
| 3 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?That's a good one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:02 AM |
| 2 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?Explain yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:01 AM |
| 3 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?It's weird to me when a girl is a men's rights activist. Is it possible for a woman to truly hold that position? Like if she has a son for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:18 AM |
| 1 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?It depends on the man and the woman Of course it does. Just like the ones I wrote about women depends on the individual. That goes without saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:17 AM |
| 0 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?Not to exclude that it might be possible to find a minority of such individual men for which such an XYZ would exist, but it would be so totally non-representative that we'd be far away from any point where the underlying assumptions of still wanting to generalize e.g. "not all women/men Read that sentence again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:36 AM |
| 8 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?In what ways does the manic pixie dream girl actually repulse men IRL? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:29 AM |
| 1 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?May not repulsed when they get virgins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:11 AM |
| 10 | "They SAY they want XYZ, but are inevitably repulsed when they get it". What is XYZ when it comes to men?making all of the decisions Don't they have to do that anyways when they're single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 01:11 AM |
| – | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the samemen define what makes a woman What is a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:10 PM |
| -4 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:37 PM |
| -6 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:08 PM |
| -5 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?None of my business. Maybe she's just sexually liberated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:03 PM |
| -4 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?Ew no Obvious signs of a porrnsick man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameWhy not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 01:55 PM |
| 12 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameImagine you grow up... you are told you are at a disadvantage. You're not paid equally, people don't take your accomplishments seriously, you have to work twice as hard, etc etc. So you promise yourself you're not going to be a financial hostage to a man, you're gonna dedicate yourself to becoming successful despite the chips being stacked against you. After all a secure man, a real man, will WANT appreciate the hard work you have put in. You see those power couples and aspire to be them. Your c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 03:55 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵In the 1st one, the woman has anxious attachment, is older, and makes more than him. Ticking time 💣 In the 2nd one, he's rich and they'll be together forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 03:31 AM |
| – | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.if she wants to die Maybe I.... misunderstood the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 10:54 PM |
| 1 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.You approaching a man or him not approaching doesn’t equate to him not being confident though & it’s just an approach, you not jumping into a relationship so why would u be settling? That's true. But I'm also chicken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 03:55 AM |
| 5 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.I mean u initiating would mean there’s attraction already right? Right man simply being confident enough to approach isn't the main deciding factor right? It's not, but the measure of a man is taken in totality. Were I to remove confidence from my checklist that would then be settling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 02:05 AM |
| 15 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.If I like the type of man who has the confidence to approach a woman, then my asking him out obfuscates whether or not he's the type of man I would like to begin with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 09:45 PM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?Nah that doesn't sound healthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:20 PM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?If the 2 people in the relationship find it to be happy and healthy for them... IDK if I would step in and be like, "no, you're doing it wrong" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:39 PM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?the ultimate goal for men when it comes to dating is to NOT be a beta male Shouldn't the goal be to have a healthy, long-lasting relationship? For "beta" males that might look like locking down a woman like in this clip | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:21 PM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?First of all, I don't believe in the whole alpha beta thing. But let's say that exists for the sake of argument. Don't betas need relationships too? Maybe she would be happy with a beta | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 02:36 PM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?post is a nice ad for the conservative lifestyle This woman strikes you as a tradwife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?huh. TIL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:40 AM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?internet bird. What is an internet bird? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 03:30 AM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?I'm not sure what you mean. It can sometimes be about generosity, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 12:57 AM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?Who says spending money is about generousity? It isn't always about generosity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 12:22 AM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?It must be nice to not have to spend any money at all. Why don’t you tell us more about that? I don't know anything about that. Whenever I go to the register they charge me for my items. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 12:21 AM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?in real life Do you believe that video is AI? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 12:17 AM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?A significant other is not the same as a woman on a first date That's true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:51 PM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?I don’t have a problem spending money. I’m just not going to do it for nothing This is what I expected responses to be. It tracks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:50 PM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?That's good feedback, I probably should have done that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:49 PM |
| – | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?There's nothing outlandish about this post. I call clip about dating and I asked a relevant question on a dating subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 09:06 PM |
| -12 | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?I wouldn't do something for a woman that I wouldn't do for a friend. I'm sure that makes your significant other feel very special. Starting to see why guys struggle with dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:54 PM |
| -5 | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?I thought you wanted to be masculine, providers and what not. Are you more of a follower type? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:48 PM |
| -9 | Q4M: When dating, do you only spend money if there's something in it for you?Not when you're dealing with supposedly "provider" men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?We want to find women who feel we are Chads. You are "Chad" to someone in the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?By the time you get to woman 32, is the effort and vulnerability the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?You keep giving me word salad so I'm just trying to clarify. You: "women said they don't want to be walked down the aisle so society stopped." Also you: "of course women still want to be led down the aisle." Jfc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?The same thing would happen these days with Chinese electric vehicles if the American government opened up the market to them. Chinese electric cars are superior? Even to Teslas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?“Don’t approach if I’m somewhere I’m breathing.” Do you have a single example of this advice being shared by a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 11:55 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?So...No? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?all they care about is flirting skills and "chemistry" Why have you come to this conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?Do you believe that people can change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:59 PM |
| -2 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?It’s easier to go to another country where the standards are not as high Do you normally go through life always trying to take the easy way out? Why not step up and meet the challenge instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?she is a liar What did she lie about exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?women gave bad advice For example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?Nah, just getting ahead of the next accusation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?the bride is walked down the isle by her father in a white dress. Women said they didn't want that, so society stopped doing it. Would you say it is uncommon for the bride to wear white and be walked down the aisle by her father in the society that you live in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 02:11 PM |
| -4 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?What if she is a woman of moral character, but she used to be promiscuous but is no longer promiscuous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 02:08 PM |
| -2 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?Women don't want to be courted It sure sounded like that is what they were asking for in the clip to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?No no, you misunderstand. I do not have BPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:31 AM |
| -7 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?"Hell, I don't think OP is human." say it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:30 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?an overwhelming number of women do not deserve to be courted How does one qualify for courtship exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?And you do What makes you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:10 AM |
| -3 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?women said they do not want to get courted Did we watch the same clip? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:09 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?So you don't believe these women would have fun being courted. Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?Ohhh when you were saying "they all" you just meant the women in the video. Not all single women on planet earth. Ok my bad for assuming the worst | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:07 AM |
| -2 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?Why bring them into this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?Which society? The ones in which men courted women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?Courting should naturally do the same. What do you think courting should look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 05:51 AM |
| -5 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?Why bring them into this? This isn't about hooking up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?They all have BPD and are undateable. If everyone else is the problem, it might be time for a little introspection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?only virgin women deserve to be courted "properly". Why do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 05:47 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?Dating is meant to be fun If you had to guess... Would you say these women would not have fun being courted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 05:46 AM |
| -4 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?Now that the modern woman thinks its liberating to fuck around and/or show their butthole for pocket change, whats the point? Let me get it straight... Because online pr0n exists... That means no woman is worthy of being courted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?we are on survival mode with all the layoffs That's fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:00 AM |
| -6 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?ick Why ick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: why do you no longer court women properly?if you work on yourself to be someone we'd be interested in, some of us would be interested in holding up our end of the bargain There are lots of women of value who have a good education, they have high paying careers, a lot of them are entrepreneurs and CEOs. But there are men who should be courting them are nowhere to be found | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereFor the most part, yes. Babies and toddlers are excluded See: Stranger danger You don't assume you're safe around men you don't know. That's how you end up missing and on the news with people in the comments, "always the naive trusting ones" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 12:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsGirls who become millionaires on their 18th birthday because they become OF content creators at midnight. I thought that's what we were talking about. Were you talking about something different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 04:40 PM |
| 4 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthswhere does that leave us? Good question. What do you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:34 AM |
| 3 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsMen are fantasizing about the adult elements of the 18 year old OF girls, not the the things that make them childish Fair. What about the loli stuff tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:33 AM |
| 0 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsit began at some point Maybe the beginning of homo sapiens something made it stick around Maybe it was evolutionary advantageous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:32 AM |
| 3 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsyou’re being surprisingly neutral I'm just trying to get a better understanding of how people think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:30 AM |
| 3 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsnothing like that exists in reality. https://www.realtor.com/news/celebrity-real-estate/bhad-bhabie-danielle-bregoli-onlyfans-house-mansion https://thetab.com/2025/08/25/onlyfans-girly-reveals-insane-14-day-earnings-from-content-filmed-one-minute-after-turning-18 3 hours after she turned 18 she made $1M | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 02:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsYou seem to be operating around morals and laws What makes you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 11:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsBy saying it's an old fantasy Me: when did I say it was new? You: when you said it was old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 11:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsyou wrote that men find kids sexy I'm saying the opposite of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 11:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsWhat millionaire? The ones who become millionaires on their 18th birthday as I wrote in the OP. Are you replying to the right post? And are you suggesting the guys actually have the sex instead of just fantasizing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 11:26 PM |
| 4 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsFor some that is 15. No longer a child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:52 PM |
| 4 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsBut there's a victim in the situation The millionaire? It's not a fantasy anymore. He's actually having the sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 08:45 PM |
| 6 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsThe fantasy is that she is sexually interested and available to him. You guys don't fantasize about being able to pay for OF - they don't wank to that They fantasize about having sex with the OF model - they wank to this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 03:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsthe guys i know, the guys who are into the loli stuff are also super into (questionable taste) anime. Maybe it helps them mentally process some trauma? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 02:56 PM |
| 3 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsWhat are the good things about loli and raep? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 02:55 PM |
| 4 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsWe don't listen and we judge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsWhere in my argument did I suggest this phenomenon is new? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsfantasies are the representation of an individual's and possibly a collective's behavior in their idealized version of reality, There's no reality in which women wants to be raeped | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 02:51 PM |
| 5 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truths18 isn’t illegal nor is it a child. At what age is a person no longer a child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 02:48 PM |
| 4 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsarbitrarily popped up recently? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 07:08 AM |
| 0 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsBecause of old tropes people tend to stick with existing fantasies. That's why they endure over time. They only slowly evolve if at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereThat's a good start | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out therethe idea that men should expect any appreciation for their labor is abhorrent to women, so that’s a non-starter. Where do you guys get these takes from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereyou guys come and say how stupid, naive and brainless those men are for believing those things I don't. I believe those things are true. Personality is very important and so is respecting women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:18 PM |
| 0 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereHey, I'm not one to yuck someone's yum. So if you find them attractive I'm not gonna judge. I personally don't believe a FREAKING MINOTAUR can ever be physically attractive. They can have attractive personalities in fiction (confidence, humour, emotional intelligence, etc) but physically? Nah chief... You won't find any sexy minotaur calendars on MY walls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:16 PM |
| -1 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out there10 feet hunk half man with fur on his skin, luscious muscles, wavy long hair, throbbing humongous Cock that the main character has to milk out to collect his semen all the while having a deep voice Wait .. d-do you find minotaurs attractive? 😨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Does masturbation (with or without porn) inhibit pair bonding for men?Well damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out therepersonality matters more than physical looks when it comes to the female gaze It does. One of the top selling romance novels right now is Morning Glory Milking Farm. Do you think those minotaurs are physically attractive to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 02:26 PM |
| – | Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of WomenVery common That much is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 02:23 PM |
| – | Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of WomenWhy do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 05:39 AM |
| 5 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereGuess we should stop shopping where douchebags shop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 08:43 PM |
| -2 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereNo. The majority of men are abusive and dangerous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 08:41 PM |
| 7 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereStop falling for lovebombing then We were conditioned to believe that if a manreally desires us, he will pine for us. Yearn for us. Go through great lengths to demonstrate his undying devotion and obsession over us. See Disney, Hallmark movies, romance novels, etc So when this starts to play out it feels right. Like, finally a guy putting in the effort that I deserve! Not like the other too-cool-for-school nonchalant f-boys. Only in retrospect does it become obvious it was just strategic love bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 08:40 PM |
| -10 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereUnironically true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereWhat would life be like if women were on average more attracted to inhibited, lower confidence, high fear, men of smaller stature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 08:34 PM |
| -4 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereUse that as an opportunity to self-reflect and be a better man for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of WomenI see. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 04:38 PM |
| 7 | Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of WomenSaid it before and I'll say it again I see this preface a lot, but I have never understood why people use it. Why is it important to you that other people know this isn't the first time you've said this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 03:45 PM |
| -9 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themThat's a small percentage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:26 PM |
| -13 | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themIt's important that we make women feel as comfortable as possible to come forward with abuse. So we should not have laws that overly punish false accusations otherwise victims will be hesitant to come forward if they don't think they'll be believed Which is subsequently why the Believe All Women movement is critical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendPeople call Tate an incel due to how he talks moreso than his actions He talks the incel-talk, but doesn't walk the incel-walk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 12:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)breaking I'm not sure what you're talking about. The website associated with this Matchmaker is a legit service. MyLoveDesign.com | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)If it was satire she'd be saying he needs to be 6ft 5, a celebrity or royalty, have a huge hog, drive a koenigsegg, etc. But she's saying none of that. She's being reasonable with her high standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)It's just a common symptom of a man being ambitious. The ambitious part is what she's after | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendOh, so he IS celibate. whew 😅 I would have had to go through my comment history and make a lot of edits and apologies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendAndrew Tate never had an issue getting women Wait, isn't he the final boss of incels? Is he celibate or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:14 PM |
| -2 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)TBH her standards aren't THAT high. She has a law degree from an ivy league university She's not even looking for the dreaded "six foot" tall guy She didn't even mention ethnicity She's casting a pretty broad net one could argue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)Cool cool Hey, WDYT of the video? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)obviously wrong I can't say that's the strongest counter argument I have seen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 02:52 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)Demanding a partner that makes far more money than you is depending on them for success Not if you're already successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)Oops let me correct that. I meant not all men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 02:47 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)She has a law degree. And works at a law firm. And is studying to pass the bar. I'd say she has a career | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 05:11 AM |
| -4 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)Where did she say she wanted to be a dependent? She already has her career | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 04:27 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)Just because she knows what she wants and goes after it makes her "pressed"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 04:26 AM |
| -14 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)I believe there's nothing wrong with having high standards. She's obviously an ambitious woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 04:05 AM |
| -8 | CMV: Dating is not "easier" for women (see video)She went to an ivy league school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenYou tell me. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenKnowing your worth, keeping your standards high, and never settling don’t protect women from that. I disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenI do. Sometimes I listen to the podcast Sometimes I watch the documentary Sometimes I read the article Sometimes I will read the research paper Sometimes I'll check the chatter on Reddit I don't rely ONLY consume 1 type of medium | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenMen deserved to be spoiled Like a princess is spoiled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenThat doesn't really... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:33 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenBe honest, you’d likely be saying something like “girls, don’t settle for any less than this, this is the bare minimum!” Yes. A woman's standards should be high and she should not settle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenYoung impressionable women might believe this is the path they should take in order to get their guy to commit. They will be putting themselves in vulnerable positions that open them up to abuse. That is dangerous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenI am sure plenty of men would love to have a woman who takes care of all the household chores, but they don't necessarily respect those women Exactly. They see those women as beneath them and look up on them with disdain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenIt was your choice to use social media, though Of course it was my choice. Why would you highlight that part? I'm not choosing social media over other sources and still complaining about it. Some experts in their field just so happened to post on social media in addition to their websites and books that they publish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenDoes it even matter if it's a mask if u can keep it up? That's an interesting question. I think if you wear a mask your whole life it's no longer really a mask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenThere will always be desperate women who feel the need to demean themselves to a maid to feel “loved.” 🤷♀️ It’s pretty pathetic it’s their big accomplishment to them rather than pursuing dreams/goals/career. Facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 10:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenMen are the center of my life = pick me Men are no longer the center of my life = pick me If you say so sis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 06:09 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenMy hip flexors were feeling tight the other day, I went onto social media and found some fitness influencers who all suggested one particular stretch. I now include that stretch in my routine and it has worked wonders for me. I guess to you that represents a certain level of idiocy. In my mind, it is idiotic to rule out an entire group of people just because the information they're providing happens to be on social media | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenI don’t center men Sure, THAT will totally help me get picked by a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 06:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenAnd if someone says, "neither side should worship either side", then that isn't a romantic relationship at all Maybe you and I have different definitions of worship. I thought it was about reverence toward a deity that is higher than oneself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 06:05 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenShe's saying she's not like other girls. She's better because she does these things for her husband. Therefore that's why she got picked. It's classic. Pick me behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:06 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womencontribute to the rising rates of misogyny Women are the victims of misogyny. Are you attempting to blame women for misogyny as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 03:59 PM |
| -2 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenBecoming self-respecting is a journey. While some people are on that journey. They may use the guidance of others to help them. We don't come out of the womb being a fully formed self-respecting grown adult. Sometimes we rely on the wisdom and counsel of our support system, community and society Edit: was any part of this controversial? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 03:58 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Pick Mes are detrimental to other self respecting womenYou’re not self respecting to begin with if a “pick me” is detrimental to you. Self-Respecting can be a journey for some folks. Sometimes a young impressionable person will become self-respecting in time with guidance from others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 03:56 PM |
| 0 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partnerSure. Separately... I also don't like men who date prepubescent kids It can be said that I engage in paedo shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 02:31 PM |
| 3 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partnerIsn’t that what you’re doing just dressing it up? No I'm talking about health. Why not be with a guy who is out of shape or are you not body positive towards? I think you're confusing health and body shaming. I wouldn't want to be with someone who is malnourished and faints because they're so under weight for example. Neither would I want to be with someone so large that their knees would break under their weight. Neither of those 2 are healthy. My preference is health - not some shallow aesthet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partnerstays in good shape? Yes are you fat? No Why those two traits? I think people who are shallow tend to lack substance and depth. That is not something I would personally prefer in my partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 02:39 AM |
| 3 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partnerWhat does this practically look like? The usual stuff... Has a career and not a dead-end job Has his own mode of transportation (unless he's in a city like New York) Is not living with roommates or parents Is not drowning in debt Is saving towards retirement you will find both things right be difficult to find in a cishet man. Why do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 11:38 PM |
| 3 | To both men and women: Tell me your requirements for a partnerAmbitious Authentic Emotionally available Honest Makes me laugh Is not addicted to pr0n Confident Demonstrates emotional vulnerability Is around my age or older Not shallow and is body positive Chivalrous Is not a religious fanatic No STIs Not a slob & has at least some basic fashion/style Secure attachment style Not abusive Good listener with a growth mindset Will adjusted & not a mental health disaster Is college educated Not a Mama's boy Responsible & has his shit together Trustworthy & hasn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 10:45 PM |
| 17 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itI highly doubt that these women couldn't find a nice man to have children with wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 03:47 PM |
| – | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?Take care! Thanks you too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 10:24 PM |
| – | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?If you say so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:59 PM |
| – | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?It doesn't really make sense to include it. I can see why you might think that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:17 PM |
| – | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?I have found it's easier to just always include it. No matter what the question is, people will find a way to still get that part wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:02 PM |
| 9 | Reading dating profile bios doesn't make sense if you're a manyou see men on this app act like they are "saving time" by getting to things that quickly Yeah a lot of them will say, "not looking for pen pals" 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?I'm not sure. Why do you ask? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?Sometimes you can meet the right person at the wrong time. Nothing wrong with waiting until the time is right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?That's true. There's a chance that he gets snatched up in the meantime. It's a gamble to wait. Might be mitigated by keeping more than 1 in your back pocket | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?Oh, I see it now thanks. Let me go respond to that one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?Hi kingcrow33! What do you think of the advice she shared in this clip? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:58 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?You tell women to judge men on their past Not from a place of insecurity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:57 PM |
| 10 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?The daddy. Easy..I'm trying to find the downside in that option. Wait... how many kids does he have? Why did she divorce him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 04:58 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?rare men who just don't like casual sex in general and don't want to engage in it themselves Why would this type of guy "hate" sexually liberal women? That's like someone being gluten intolerant and hating people who eat gluten | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?No? My understanding was that boss babes prioritize their career first and then relationships second. Maybe I have been mistaken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 04:52 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?good dudes" are boring. Good guys don't have to be boring. That's not a prerequisite to being a good man "the good dudes", who don't know any better will be stoked to talk to her until they find out she's been riding that cock carousel Firstly that term is gross. Second, not all men are insecure about a woman's past never go back to bad cock of "the good guys" I'm starting to gather that you have a very low opinion of good guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 04:51 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?As for the advice, I mean... Lying to, manipulating and deliberately misleading a partner is a good way of getting them to do what you want, but it's really something only bad people are going to be able to do I don't remember the advice suggesting that you should lie and manipulate people. Are we talking about the same video? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:21 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?this is typical red pill advice I'd hear fresh and fit give to men. I don't watch that show. Do they say to sleep with men, women, dogs, trans etc and pass over the stable women while you're young? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?What are your thoughts on the advice that is given by the woman in the clip? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?boss babe is the way to go you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?Big believer in this. Why are you a big believer in that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?That's cool. What do you think about this advice though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?She's overtly affirming one of the most popular manospherian narratives Does she strike you as red pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:13 AM |
| 5 | Is it a red flag if a man doesn't own a home?He's a 10, but he doesn't have a mortgage... 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?You can't do an experiment twice and get any results You can't get results from an experiment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Are you saying there's a difference between the genders on this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 05:11 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?evidence It's simply an illustration of my point. Here's another illustration of my point: https://trends.google.com/trends/explore?date=all&geo=US&q=Stop%20telling%20women%20to%20smile,Stop%20telling%20men%20to%20smile&hl=en | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Scientific method is incomplete if it’s not able to be replicated. I agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Well I'll be a sonovabitch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?I encourage all women to call the police if they are a victim of harassment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:03 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Oh it's definitely gendered. www.stoptellingwomentosmile.com vs www.stoptellingmentosmile.com | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:55 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Sounds like "no". Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:47 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?far from the worst interaction But is it harassment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Exactly. It's harassment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:46 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Because harassment should not go unreported | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:46 PM |
| -2 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Strangers do way more annoying things Does that mean it's not harassment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?What is the combination to the slo locker in the hallway of the police station in resident evil ii? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Depends on the woman. Let's say it was Anna de Armas https://scontent-sjc6-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t51.2885-15/491897346_17906617365104636_2709409867249755538_n.webp?efg=eyJ2ZW5jb2RlX3RhZyI6InRocmVhZHMuRkVFRC5pbWFnZV91cmxnZW4uNzM2eDgyNi5zZHIuZjc1NzYxLmRlZmF1bHRfaW1hZ2UuYzIifQ&_nc_ht=scontent-sjc6-1.cdninstagram.com&_nc_cat=108&_nc_oc=Q6cZ2QFXy_ZbEde_9pAHkLq2_CuTRD8fzNf4SckZXXDt2T4Yo7ztsI79odchYq16YRYhUzY&_nc_ohc=bTSxdsxClg4Q7kNvwFX1jpo&_nc_gid=CFcCt2rkk1urRhfGhyC9fQ&edm=AKr904kBAAAA&ccb=7-5&ig_cach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:11 PM |
| -11 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?It's not harassment. Why do you say that? There's a book on exactly why it IS Stop Telling Women to Smile: Stories of Street Harassment and How We're Taking Back Our Power https://share.google/rntIfBs8tuU24jLMW | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?You don't think that women ask men to smile? No no. I'm asking if you feel harassed when it happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:07 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Have you filed a police report? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:06 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?you're telling me a random woman in public is gonna tell me to smile and then shoot me if I don't? Nope. Never said that. I mean what is this scenario? The scenario is someone who could pose a threat to your life is now telling you to smile. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?I'd still refrained from drawning conclusions Which is exactly what I did. I've completely discarded her findings and instead asked on PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:04 PM |
| -3 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?I think you're confusing the scientific method with statistical analysis. My entire childhood strangers told me to smile So you've been harassed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?its not uncommon for older women (usually older but not always) to touch my hair Random strangers touch your hair without asking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:15 PM |
| -5 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?The scientific method does not require a specific number of experiments, but it does require that any single experiment be repeatable to be considered valid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?So if it was Texas, open carry... Still no problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Would u be able to date an attractive women if u were a Male??It would be a piece of cake. Just swipe right and we'd match I'd be myself and open with a genuine message about something in her bio like, "Hi, I'm Windmill. Nice to meet you! I see you enjoy traveling. What's your favorite destination so far?" Then we'd small talk for a while and she'd ask for my number. We move off the dating apps I'd ask her out on a date. I'd simply ask what type of date she'd be interested in and what she'd like to do. Then as long as that lines up with what I want to do -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 03:04 PM |
| -4 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalExactly. The romance novels I read have the MMC that is in touch with his feminine side, is vulnerable about his insecurities, and respects women as equals. None of this domineering, "take charge" gender-roled crap. It's 50 50 equality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 02:39 PM |
| – | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsBecause you are not an attractive women based on your words and honestly I can tell you’re a miserable person who would never be happy even if a man gave EVERYTHING TO YOU personal attacks are unnecessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:51 PM |
| – | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? Cowardsthat’s been happening since humans have existed, so now what? So if a problem existed before, we shouldn't try and solve it? Is that what you're suggesting? how does men paying for sex translate to your political beliefs? It doesn't. Never said I did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:50 PM |
| – | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? Cowards☹️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:48 PM |
| -2 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsIt's not right. Love is supposed to be the backbone of a long term committed relationship leading to marriage, family and stability. Communities with this type of culture tend to be more prosperous, stable, and beneficial for society. The male loneliness epidemic is providing the necessary pressure for men to improve themselves. Escorts are a release valve on this pressure and is only going to do harm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 02:36 PM |
| -2 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsCool cool What do they do that's so different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 10:38 PM |
| -4 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsYou're looking at relationships through a cost benefit analysis lens. That's not how it's supposed to work. Love, affection, compassion, deep emotional connection, companionship, sexual chemistry... These are things that we do not put a price on - nor should we. No price = no CBA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 08:06 PM |
| -17 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsWindmill, of all the bad takes you’ve had I reject this premise. My takes are usually very poignant, considered, and nuanced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 08:01 PM |
| -2 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsThat doesn't answer my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 08:00 PM |
| – | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsMust have been referring to the comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 07:59 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsI'm asking about YOUR argument. Seems like you didn't understand what I meant by cheating before you made your argument against it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 02:47 PM |
| -5 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsI would like for people to not starve, not be killed in senseless wars, we can solve preventable diseases, etc But maybe I should instead "focus on myself", eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:46 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? Cowardsmen have been paying for sex a lot long that you realize, evidently. Let me make sure I understand you... Because men have been doing this for a long time... It's not cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:44 PM |
| -8 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsIt's not our job to solve your problems. Be men and get your collective shit together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:39 PM |
| -5 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsI don't want to live in a world where young boys grow up thinking I'll just forgoe dating, marriage and family. Hoard money and just pay for sex because it's normalized | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:22 PM |
| -9 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsI care. I want to deter other men from going down that route if possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:19 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? Cowards….and in other news, water is wet and the sky is still blue. And yet people will still fight me and say I'm wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:16 PM |
| -5 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsWhat do they do that's so different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 01:14 AM |
| -38 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsIt takes effort to withstand failures and to get back up to keep going | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 12:40 AM |
| -5 | Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face?Why do women wear make-up? Why do they get the vast majority of cosmetic surgeries (>90%)? Self expression | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 03:52 PM |
| -2 | Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face?Women are also "competing", hence the makeup, hairstyle, clothes etc. No no, we do that for ourselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?It doesn't give you the ick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?actions speak louder than words in that case... I'm not sure what you are referring to with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 09:50 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?That's not what I.. nevermind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:28 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:16 PM |
| – | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?men don't really care what women do for a living. Sex workers beg to differ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 12:45 AM |
| -8 | Q4M: if you refuse to approach, does that help or hurt the loneliness epidemic?She can approach, too. She already initiated by giving her gym crush the eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: if you refuse to approach, does that help or hurt the loneliness epidemic?You don't know. But that's the same anywhere. You will come to know if you shoot your shot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 02:47 PM |
| -21 | Q4M: if you refuse to approach, does that help or hurt the loneliness epidemic?What she means is chad isn't approaching her Sometimes I get the sense that you pill guys carry this baggage with you. You sabotage your own chances of success before you even start, so that you don't get your hopes up and risk defeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 05:23 AM |
| -22 | Q4M: if you refuse to approach, does that help or hurt the loneliness epidemic?It seems clear that woman only wants “chad” men to approach her You are projecting that. She didn't say anything of the sort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?you havent I thought I did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?Have you ever had a conversation with an adult male? Yes Seriously? Yes, seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?No, I don't want to date a lazy, aimless dependant Ok got it I don't think "dating down" necessitate that I date a lazy, aimless Me either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?I'm not sure I follow. What I asked was a yes or no question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?Would you want to be in a relationship with a lazy, aimless, dependant? Going nowhere in life, taking up space, not contributing at all? Aren't you the "what do you bring to the table" group? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?In this situation, is it not a reasonable conclusion that the ambitions of one partner are a direct detriment to the interests of the other partner? In that specific situation, yes it's reasonable. But I'm not talking only about 2 PhD couples. Ambition in general doesn't always go that route | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 02:18 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?Women can date whoever they want. Not true. I'd like to date Idris Elba, but I can't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?her ambition wouldn't bring anything to the rekationship to begin with Why do you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 02:14 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?meeting those expectations is something that takes away from my life. How so? If you're ambitious... Her wanting you to be ambitious doesn't take away from your ambition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 05:26 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?Dating down its pretty toxic, people are complicated and this term does nothing but condense people down to generic and superficial numbers and gets treated like some produce. Is this 1 sentence? There are no numbers in the phrase "dating down" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 05:25 AM |
| -11 | Does virgin-shaming exist?If someone said something misogynistic, I will make fun of them by suggesting they have never touched a woman. Does that count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Lets assume there is an IslandIt would definitely lend some credibility to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 06:49 PM |
| 11 | Lets assume there is an IslandWomen talk amongst themselves, often about dating in relationships. After a while, certain patterns might emerge regarding bad behavior which would give rise to curiosity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 03:10 PM |
| 20 | Lets assume there is an IslandThe women could create an app and call it... Matcha. There they could determine whether or not they're dating the same islander and leave ratings about them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 02:48 PM |
| -5 | CMV: it's underhanded for men to keep their assets in their mother's name in case of a breakupIts funny isnt it? No. Nothing humorous about unfair splitting of assets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 05:09 PM |
| -3 | CMV: it's underhanded for men to keep their assets in their mother's name in case of a breakupLike you pointed out, it's hardly the only kind of these accounting tricks, and both parties can do it Do you think that makes it ok to do? NOT SAYING YOU SAID THAT, just asking a question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 05:08 PM |
| -2 | CMV: it's underhanded for men to keep their assets in their mother's name in case of a breakupI see the potential problems something like this can cause A lot of people in here don't seem to be able to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?If I was a "good man" I would be here crying alongside the incels Good man and incels are mutually exclusive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:06 AM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADQ4M: Imagine you have a choice to date two different women. They are identical in every way. Woman A however, is 4'9" Woman B is 6'4" Everything else is equal. Which do you choose and why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: when was the last time you were too intimidated by a woman's beauty to approach?She is intimidating because she is lacking in self-awareness and talking to someone like that is an absolute nightmare Let me see if I understand. As a man you would feel intimidated to approach this woman because she lacks self-awareness. And you can tell this from across the room | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 01:56 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: when was the last time you were too intimidated by a woman's beauty to approach?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Let's say that is true. It's not enough to just be out and buried in your phone. Men should approach women again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Men still exist in the world. I'm talking more about the dating and socializing context with women https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/20/style/modern-love-men-where-have-you-gone-please-come-back.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?I don't understand what you're saying. Using a throwaway would defeat the purpose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?You've tried not being hyperbolic and people will think that your question is literal? If only that was the case No, I've tried not being hyperbolic and people still think I'm being hyperbolic. Being literal doesn't help. I have to have the disclaimer. Now that that's cleared up, is there any way we can actually get on topic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Sometimes yes. I don't always detect that. Especially when text is the medium | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?You seem to be the only woman concerned about the "men being gone". Oh? It wasn't written about in the New York times? https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/20/style/modern-love-men-where-have-you-gone-please-come-back.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?I have tried that. Doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?That clears it up. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?This is like that gorilla suit in the background walking on the basketball court challenge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?touch grass Guess I must be terminally online amirite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?rigged game for majority of men rigged how exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:44 PM |
| -3 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?The right woman won't reject you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?I don't see them either. Are you gaslighting us right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:44 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Isn't what women wanted? It's what SOME women wanted. Even then it only applies to the men those women find creepy. Tldr just don't be creepy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?It's to be hyperbolic But then to acknowledge that it's hyperbolic. Some people think that's the way everything is literal. I found that I have to spell it out for those folks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?So sports bars? Would you be receptive to approaching a woman at a sports bar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?soon sure we will have to go out. When? Is there a window of time where we should hang out at Game Stop to intercept? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?The answer is obvious. Men are living their lives. Isn't everyone living their lives? I don't understand this A man does not have anyone else to pay for their shit. A man has to actually work their job. A man are responsible for everything in their lives. A man only has so much time, energy and money These aren't true for single women? Why do you think women are forgetting this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Why the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:34 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?So OP why would men ever go to these events? To find a soulmate organically instead of just a pretty girl to "fuck once a week". After all, I keep hearing about how most men don't do well on apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?atomized by capitalism The west has been mostly capitalist for decades if not centuries. Why now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Ok that's a problem. Your counterpart is getting dressed up and putting herself out there in hopes of serendipitously meeting her person https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTMJtFQR3/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Thank you for ACTUALLY answering. 1) How do we undo this damage? 2) Those seem like activities where you're already with friends and focused on the event instead of being open to socializing. Any other examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Where have all the men gone?Nobody wants to date western women That doesn't seem accurate to me. Why would you say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:17 PM |
| 0 | I think women are worst in bed then men areThe intimacy that you don't get when masterbating solo. It's not uncommon for couples to masterbate together for both the orgasm and the intimacy. This can be for when the sex isn't delivering or just to spice things up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 10:25 PM |
| 2 | I think women are worst in bed then men areThat is his responsibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 09:04 PM |
| – | Why men aren't as worried about the way they look as women are?Only a small subset of men care about stuff like canthal tilt. Basically no one offline even knows what that is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 07:39 PM |
| 5 | What are your views on the orgasm gap? Who is responsible for solving it?I made a post a while back saying that everyone is responsible for their own orgasm. (They should try to help each other of course!) The men agreed they'd take responsibility for theirs Women were not onboard with taking responsibility for theirs. I was surprised TBH | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 03:58 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?Self deleting after a brutal divorce isn’t enticing to me. This to you is the blue pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:20 AM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?You asked about how we see from the red pill side. I did not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 09:12 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?What happens when I can’t fit objective facts into my belief system without serious negative consequences? The human mind has ways to assimilate conflicting facts: You relegate them to outliers and exceptions You discount the source of the information. Rationalize the information Etc Reluctantly and with great discomfort I was asking you to walk me through the reasoning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 09:11 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?Cool cool... So A or B? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 09:07 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?I'm not disagreeing with that, so that statement doesn't advance the conversation any. Here, let me ask you a question. Which of these two statements is more accurate? A. You have a firm grasp of objective reality because you prioritize objective truths, research, and empirical data over feelings and vibes. B. Your perception of the reality is based on the subset of information and experiences that has been made available to you and is subject to your biases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 05:55 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?There's a whole different set of pitfalls that are invisible to you because you're RP. In taking the BP, they will be revealed to you. BPers don't want to give up the pitfalls they can see. RPers don't want to give up the pitfalls they can see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 05:45 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?To believe in sweet lies is easy. They wouldn't be lies, you would believe it to be the truth. Otherwise you wouldn't be blue pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 05:43 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?We have both rational and empirical methods of discovery. We're constantly disproving things that we KNEW were a fact just yesterday. There are things you believe now that are incorrect, same as me. Same as all other humans who are fallible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 05:41 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?I know that my brain creates a personal reality for me to live in based on sensory input, memories, feelings and beliefs. But I want this personal reality to have the biggest possible overlap with the objective reality. No matter what you choose in my hypothetical, it will overlap with objective reality because you will be viewing it through your perception - which you believe to be closest to the truth. Neither blue nor red can claim to be closer to the truth in this hypothetical. The only diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 05:01 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?I would rather not go back to being unaware of the pitfalls You wouldn't be going back to that. If you decided you wanted to believe the pill, those pitfalls would not be there anymore. Because if they were you would then believe the red pill. If you were on the blue pill side, everywhere you look You see things that confirm your views. Just like today as an RP, you witness a lot of things that confirm your current views | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 04:57 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?Truth is objective by definition. Sure, but none of us can claim we have access to it. We can only attempt to know what it is through our perceptions. That's why they say perception is reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 04:52 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?If you set your current beliefs aside... And you assume that either of your choices(Red pill or blue pill) would be the new reality that you believe in... Which would you choose? Keep in mind that your choice would become reality for you. Because you only believe things that are the truth etc etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:32 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?Yeah, go on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:03 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?Perception of reality is perception, not reality. Yes, but this is literally the only way we have access to reality. We act as though perception of reality is reality, because perception is the only way we have to interact with reality Exactly! but if we perceive incorrectly that doesn't mean reality changes to accommodate our flawed perception or flawed beliefs, it just means we perceived incorrectly and we are mistaken. True. I am not claiming that reality bends to meet our perceptions of it. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:02 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?If the world stayed exactly as it is and only my beliefs would change to blue, I would be living under a delusion. The blue worldview is a comforting lie but it’s still a lie You say that because of your current beliefs. You have to be able to set your current beliefs aside in order to properly answer this question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:46 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?It's troubling that these "logical" creatures are struggling to properly understand this hypothetical. Even if the answer is RP, that would be fine. But at least be able to answer properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:45 PM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?Cool cool Hey, do you wish the blue pill matched your reality so you could believe in it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:49 AM |
| – | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?If the Yellow pill was my reality, I would believe in the yellow pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?I want technology to keep improving during the rest of my lifetime. I'm starting to think I don't understand what RP is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:44 AM |
| 0 | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?Reality is reality, regardless of how you perceive it to be. Perception is reality. There are things you believe right now that are incorrect, you just don't know you're wrong. This is true for everyone. You are effectively asking "hey red pill guys would you prefer to be deluded and believe something false, just because a comforting lie is more comforting than a harsh truth?" No. In order to answer this question you have to let go of your current beliefs. Take a step back and view 2 different w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?People thinking the blue pill is true has basically given us Wall-E irl, and is not what my country, the US, was founded on. I'm not sure I understand. The United States was not founded on the principles found in Wall-E? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?I'm not sure why people are trying to re-prove the red pill. That's not what I'm asking. My question is simple. The world stays as it is, but your beliefs about it change. Some men wish they were gay because getting sex would be easier and they wouldn't have to deal with women. They say this not because they're currently attracted to men, but because they think the grass would be greener if they were different inside. In order to answer my question you have to put down your current beliefs, step… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?I'm not asking for a do-over of the world under the blue pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:20 AM |
| 3 | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?Got it. Hey, let me ask you an entirely different unrelated question... Let's say you didn't have breakfast this morning, how would you feel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?You are saying that everyone starts out blue pilled by default? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?k but its not lol k but I'm not asking if it is lol I'm asking if you would want to live in that reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Q4RP - do you wish you believed in the BP?no. The truth hurts, but its the truth I am not sure if you understand the question. If the blue pill was your reality... Then it would be the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:32 AM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?That's true. If we talk about gay porn, only HALF of the viewers are women. https://hotspotsmagazine.com/2025/07/25/pornhub-reports-almost-half-of-gay-porn-viewers-are-women-and-that-matters/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:45 AM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Fair enough. Now how about my 2nd question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Got it. That all seems reasonable. Why do you think there's such a difference between the sexes when answering this question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 01:42 AM |
| -5 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?IDK but It's an epidemic. Men these days are not chivalrous, they're not approaching, they're not courting, not attending singles mixers... hell they're not even going out much anymore https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/20/style/modern-love-men-where-have-you-gone-please-come-back.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?It's not really clear cut for women. Check out the Link in my post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Yes, it seems like most men are firmly in the... I would prefer she be bisexual than a cheater camp. Whereas for women it's not as clear-cut | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Oops I meant do you think that same reasoning would apply for most women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why would PPD women be more queer friendly than the general public? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?I don't know? Are you asking me if you don't know? It sounds to me like you know you don't know you have better insight as to why it would bother women I don't. Which is why I started this post. I would also like to ask other women but they frown on Women asking Women posts. A guy would need to do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Men and women who sleep with men are a problem That's a lot of people. What is the problem exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Then what explains the drastic difference in responses to this question between men and women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?🤔 A common preference brought on by how women are socialized as girls? IDK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?seemed like the most obvious question ever. That's what I thought until I watched the answers in the clip. Turns out this is actually a valid question... At least for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why that choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?I'm not on X so I can't see the answers in the comments. How did they shake out? A surprising amount of women opted for the cheater | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Gotcha. So do you think that same reasoning would apply for most women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Did you see the answers in the clip that I linked? For men, the answer seems obvious for women not so much. I'm just trying to figure out why the difference between the sexes on this topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:52 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?How is this even a question? The answers are pretty split for the women... So it seems like it's actually a good question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why don't hetero men get the same ick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | A Man is either desired by many women or no womenWhat do I do with this information? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?The same reason that these women are answering that they'd rather have the cheater? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Would be interested to see what gals think I would post the question in ppd, but alas I am not allowed to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?That all seems reasonable... I just don't understand why there's such a difference between the sexes on this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Sex is just an activity to be enjoyed by consenting adults. Nah. It holds a special place among all other activities. It is not treated the same like playing doubles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Homophobic stereotypes against bisexual men. wtf is this? I feel like everyone already knows about this except me. Calling women "homophobic" just seems dismissive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Women find gay sex disgusting I don't know if that's true. If you look at any fan fiction, the first thing women do is to "ship" the two main male characters. It's so common. It's a trope Slash Fic - TV Tropes https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/SlashFic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why is this even a difficult question? I didn't think it would be at first. But then I saw the responses in that video... Not a single man in here has answered with "cheater" that wasn't playing devil's advocate. Which leads me to believe there is some difference between the sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why not find out she's a cheater? Why is there such a difference between the sexes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?hate You think it's homophobia but only towards men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why do you think there is such a difference between the sexes on this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?who gives a shit? A lot of people care about their partners sexual preferences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?preferred Why preferred? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:02 PM |
| -2 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?I don't understand why it's such a big deal to women I'm trying to determine if this is a "woman thing" or a people thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why not? Why is there such a difference between the sexes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Why criminals are attractive to women?Women are NOT attracted to criminals. Ask any woman, "would you rather be alone in the forest with a bear or a felon?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Why criminals are attractive to women?So you're saying that women who are coerced and don't have the freedom to leave deserve to be abused? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?Men aren't taught to look for a provider woman. So fantasies are a byproduct of being taught. the guy ending with the hotest girl of the story If men weren't taught to look for the hottest girl of the story, they wouldn't want that? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?No, just has good jeans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?I just get the impression that billionaires are often under tremendous pressure. I could be wrong though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?The difference is probably that women are socialized in a way the makes holding power outright somewhat taboo, Like being a girl boss you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?Why bring all that pressure on yourself? Just have someone else be the billionaire for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?Sure, it's not developed in a lot of depth because they have other stuff to get to in the movie. But it's in almost every movie. And when it does take up too much screen time the movie is panned like Pearl Harbor (2001) was. Nonetheless, in all of these films the woman is never the billionaire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?Your fantasies are so, so much worse. Standards that are way more damaging than whatever men's porn consumption you take umbrage with. How you figure? No one is being trafficked in my fantasies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?it must be undoubtably be nice to be that rich in some ways, it also seems like most billionaires are depressed or unhappy. So marry a woman who's a millionaire... Then you get the money without the depression | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?Male arousal is not nearly as connected with manipulating power level differences as female is If that's the case why don't men object to age gaps more than women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?keep putting words in my mouth I'm literally just asking. Jesus I'm not accusing you of anything. Good grief Think I'll discuss with someone else less... touchy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?Where do you get that from? Nowhere. Just asking. fantasy terms, I don't find money sexy But you believe women do? we actually had something to talk about Like... similar tax payments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?manic pixie dream girl She's not balling tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?every now and then I drag a mattress to the living room, make some cheap meal and watch a good show until I fall asleep. well damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?I want to be the billionaire Why not her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?So it exists! Somewhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:13 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?power imbalance You'd rather the imbalance be in the other direction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?Do you think women want to be a drag on men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?Do you often hear about men’s romance at all Yep. In almost every movie there is a romantic interest sub plot, or they're saving some princess, or getting the girl in the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:56 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?whipped It would seem women don't have any... insecurities around this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:55 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?we can clearly see fantasies about celebrities. Like having Oprah or Cheryl Sandberg as your boss and a steamy romance ensuing from being snowed in together? or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?The money/comfort would likely be balanced by significant restrictions, under which I don't want to live my life. In these books the billionaire often cuts the female main character a blank check to shop as she pleases. You wouldn't be down for that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)What is that supposed to mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:00 AM |
| 3 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)Oh ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 12:56 AM |
| -2 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)This idiot Are you talking about me? 😞 I can see your comment you know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 05:27 PM |
| -4 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)Enjoy your club full of dudes I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 05:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)unctions Great word! But I'm not sure I'm following your argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 05:20 PM |
| -6 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)Men are not going to night clubs anymore. I don't think women should have to pay (literally) because of men's change in behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:55 PM |
| -1 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)There is nothing funny about this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)promos that actually bring in single women I think times have changed. It's more women going out now than men. https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/20/style/modern-love-men-where-have-you-gone-please-come-back.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)How could that possibly be better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:27 PM |
| -5 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)Are you seeing the answer to this problem Is rules number one and two? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:27 PM |
| -3 | CMV: We need to bring back Ladies Night (free entry)Especially in California and it's a problem https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/3279306/california-cancels-ladies-night/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 03:14 PM |
| – | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenWhere do you get the audacity to think you can police who other ppl date? I can't police who other people date. There are no laws that I can pass and I'm not a sanctioned peace officer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 12:50 AM |
| -4 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?How is it irrelevant? She spent money on herself to look good. The least you could do is spend the money to feed this good looking woman. Or someone else will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?You must have it tough with all those stipulations and criteria | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:08 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?Saying that Western women are overall willing to split the bill is ignorance Good thing I never said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?it is simple... https://youtube.com/shorts/3Zt3sRXre-A | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 06:51 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?That's fair. In which ways would you say you are non traditional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 04:21 AM |
| -1 | Does "don't shame men for their preferences" apply to men who want to marry porn stars?Relevant https://www.instagram.com/reel/DMLVggZsJBn/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?what type of men do you surround urself with? I have answered 2 of your questions now. Could you at least answer my 1 before asking yet another question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?She didn't say anything about you going on dates with non-humans in her music video | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:29 AM |
| -2 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?women do wear make up and revealing for men and male attention? No, that's for her I want an actual human being Have you ever went on a date with someone who was not human? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?just because someone is a "modern western woman" that automatically means that they're willing to pay or split the bill How would she be modern, if she is relying on traditional gender roles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?It is not often that one hears about a man NOT desiring a very attractive woman, so I thought I would engage in some conversation to learn more about where that is coming from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?Wdym why not? Sorry, I should have been clearer. What I am asking is... Why do you not desire to date a very attractive woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?lol, you'd think the men would have come out with their own song about paying 100%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?Cool cool. Hey, question for you... Would you prefer having to carry the whole dating process or would you prefer a more traditional woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?I don't desire to date the very attractive women Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Do you want dating to cost less? Or do you want a traditional woman?so no So you're looking for a modern woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Was you actual world view really challenged here?Yes, I have had my viewpoints challenged here. I even changed my mind on a topic I was originally thinking that the red pill was just trying to make women look bad by calling them homophobic for the way they treat potential suitors who are bisexual. I made a post about it, and the OVERWHELMING majority of evidence provided by BOTH the men and the women proved that I was wrong. So I changed my point of view on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 01:34 AM |
| -7 | Why it's controversial when a man says "women are attracted to a small percentage of men" when women themselves agree with this statement in their spaces ?Because when men say it, it's the set up for some misogynistic conclusion. So you challenge the premise When women say we refuse to lower our standards or settle it's not exactly the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themWhat part doesn't make sense to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:27 PM |
| -3 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themThey don't have any other option. Exactly. I'd say 90% of the women in clubs are wearing those outfits because they don't have a choice really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:24 PM |
| -7 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themWomen when they go out like to dress sexily and revealingly. If they have big boobs they’ll put them on display and wear something skimpy that barely covers their breasts. We do this for ourselves. Not for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenAh okay. Sorry I skipped your question. That was rude of m I haven't figured out the details of the law. I was just putting that forth as a provocation to get the ideas flowing. My goal is to source ideas from people here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 05:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenI can't tell if my post is locked or not. People keep responding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone ever changed their mind or their side as a result of this sub?I changed my mind one time I can remember. It was during a debate post I had about women being homophobic against bi men. I was astonished at the overwhelming evidence against my claim. So I changed my position and made another post the next day asking why. My post was promptly locked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 04:43 AM |
| 0 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenIt’s not helpful to men nor women for men to “step up”. The bar is in hell... If a woman's definition for stepping up is having a job, having good hygiene, having good social skills... How can guys investing in these things be "not helpful for men"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenExisting marriages can be granmothered into the new system | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:34 AM |
| 0 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenHow is it women's fault that the men in the dating pool are not stepping up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenWhy the fuck do you care? I don't want poor uneducated women being taken advantage of. Call me crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenBoth the woman in the video and I explained why it should be stopped. The same reason guys don't like when mid women are only going for the top 20% of men (or whatever that percentage is - keeps changing) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenNow we're thinking! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenNah, interracial marriage inside of Western countries is fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:28 AM |
| 0 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenThat's pretty good. We can build a narrative that those women aren't interested in being loved or having kid's and a better life. Its more than they're looking for a meal ticket and will file for divorce as soon as they get their residency status. Paint them as predatory. We should find find and elevate stories where this has happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenmisandrist TIL protecting at-risk women from predatory men is misandrist. Ok chief | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:24 AM |
| 0 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenMen don't have to date western women if they don't want to. I'm specifically talking about western men. The ones who have been raised to see women as equals. We've spent a lot of time conditioning Western men to be more egalitarian. Once they go overseas and come into contact with cultures where that is not the case... All of that progress begins to deteriorate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:22 AM |
| 2 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenMe: posts woman caring You: No woman cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenhow would you suggest a law gets passed? We could come together with a petition and get signatures. Then we could all write our Congress person and let them know this is a matter we care about. If they want to be reelected they need to have a clear stance on this issue. Especially in a country with a lot of immigration? I'm not sure how to answer this question. What law can make people stop dating internationally without outright stopping international travel? I don't know, I was just tossing ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:19 AM |
| -1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenYou don’t have the say as to what is right and what is wrong on how people live their own lives. I disagree. If I see some old guy pervert preying on young girls (for example) I feel it's valid for me to say that is wrong and not how he should live his life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:16 AM |
| 0 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenThose men just need to step up their game. Not throw in the towel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenDark blue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenIt's disrupting the dating market. Mid guys with 10s is just not the natural order This leaves women in the west with even less suitors to choose from. That 2 things alone are harm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenThen no women would get married. That's not a good solution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:59 AM |
| 0 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenso it’s obviously their fault that men have to go elsewhere. Not while there are single women in the west | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:58 AM |
| 2 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenNot suggesting Oh, well I think it'd be difficult. Even if you aren't suggesting it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:56 AM |
| 2 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenLet's go with this definition https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Western_world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:55 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenWhat kind of backwards logic is this? Men are behaving badly so we should punish women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenYou didn't say it, but I think you're suggesting that this would be difficult to enforce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenSome people dislike the idea of others being taken advantage of or when things are unfair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 12:18 AM |
| -1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenwomen don’t want those guys anyways so it shouldn’t hurt them Trust me. We don't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 11:38 PM |
| -1 | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?That's cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 11:31 PM |
| -2 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenLots of reasons Human trafficking Domestic abuse Sex tourism Mid guys with 10s like she said It just messes up the dating landscape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenThat's... A step too far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 11:13 PM |
| 0 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenThese women are being taken advantage of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 11:10 PM |
| -4 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenThis is obviously not right whats going on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 11:07 PM |
| -2 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenpassport bros will go away when women stop wanting transactional relationships. In the meantime how do we slow the spread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look more👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:41 PM |
| – | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:40 PM |
| – | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?Doesn't really seem to apply in this instance I have had this same thought only to be met with responses like: "What does it matter? Not all men date women!" You underestimate Redditors ability to say dumb inapplicable shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:21 PM |
| – | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?nno why you put disclaimers when you're asking a question lol Trust me. Absolutely necessary on this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 03:25 PM |
| – | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?exactly like me, I dunno if that's "too perfect." You're perfect just the way you are Solond | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:36 PM |
| – | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?Too perfect means she’s putting up a front. If she were perfect she wouldn't be putting up a front. Perfect people don't do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:35 PM |
| – | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?Because you don't want to ruin her? IDK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?"too normal" Is that possible? That's like ordering an extra medium sized drink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 05:10 AM |
| – | Where do men go to meet women?No hs sweetheart? Oh yeah you done messed up. You have 1 last chance in college. Then after that... It's pretty much a wrap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 10:50 PM |
| 59 | How should average men pursue casual sex according to women?The problem is that if you come right out and say it... 99% of women will vanish (understandably) So you lie, get your dick wet, and leave her heart broken Her count is higher despite trying to do the right thing. Now she hates all men. Congratulations Meanwhile you are looking for a woman who doesn't hate men and has a low count. But all of the women have been fucked over. This is the state of affairs you've contributed to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Introverted men or asocial men are far more likely to have odd interactions with women, due male gender expectations.I just wanted to comment on how I appreciate you using the proper term asocial and not antisocial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 11:11 PM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid.You're right. I suppose I should "touch grass" amirite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel bad seeing how some people talk about struggling guys or even incls?I coulda sworn he shot up a whole sorority. Am I thinking about someone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 03:19 PM |
| -1 | There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid.InAfter you dodge the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 03:18 PM |
| -1 | There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid.Do you think I am sharing my opinion on Reddit in hopes that they notice and care? InB4 you dodge the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel bad seeing how some people talk about struggling guys or even incls?He did? I don't know the details | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 02:52 PM |
| -3 | There is no such thing as an "invalid" or "shallow" reason not to date someone, every single dating preference is valid.I don't think Leonardo DiCaprio's preferences were valid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel bad seeing how some people talk about struggling guys or even incls?There was that one Elliot guy who killed women 11 years ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 12:26 PM |
| 0 | Men's love is highly conditionalif you dont have sex and dont get attention from your partner what is the point of even being together Having an emergency contact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Do you ever feel bad seeing how some people talk about struggling guys or even incls?They’re more inclined to making fun of us/bully us Why do you think that is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 08:25 PM |
| -3 | Do you ever feel bad seeing how some people talk about struggling guys or even incls?treating them harshly just pushes them in that direction. No. We are the victims of incels and we shouldn't be blamed for them becoming that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 08:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreIllegal? It depends. Is she underaged? Is he peeping into the women's bathroom? Or upskirt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreThat's different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look morewhile ignoring how men feel If you feel hot wear cool clothes. I don't know what you mean I'm ignoring how you feel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreInAfter you dodged the question. I can call these things ahead of time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 02:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreYou shouldn't body shame others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumIdon’t get to claim plant support You should. Especially if it was intentionally planted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 07:27 PM |
| -3 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumI didn't realize we're entitled to a certain lifestyle Yes, that's why the amount you pay is commensurate with how much you earn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 07:25 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Deadbeat dads shouldn't be allowed to pay child support up front in a lump sumWomen's choice, women's responsibility. Is a man involved in conceiving a child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreInteresting. I do some of these too! I don't think I have met anyone else who intentionally does this outside of r/socialskills Do you ever find that the effort and attention involved in properly maintaining these behaviors reduces the amount of attention you have available to spend on the conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreWhat other strategies do you employ to demonstrate trustworthy body language? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreI still don't understand. Sure there are observant people. Ok What specifically are you trying to prevent? People thinking that you have a weapon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreThat'd be the best way to "look out" for these victims no? That would be infringing on men's rights though. I believe that is a step too far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 01:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moretrying to dictate what people can look at I am simply looking out for the victims, by REQUESTING (not dictating) that men be gentleman again. That's all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreNo, but you are correct that some minorities do this so that they don’t get shot by cops Well then why do you do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 01:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreOrder comes from people following the law Laws come from people FEELING bad when suffering an injustice and agreeing it should not be allowed unquantifiable, unsubstantiable feelings Can a person sue for emotional distress? (InB4 you dodge this question) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 10:07 AM |
| 2 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreThat's not very nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 05:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreYou're free to complain as much as you want Sounds good. That's what I'm doing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreI tend to keep my eyes on a “personal zone” of mine. So for example, while swimming laps in a pool, there are a lot of people around. I sort of stare right in front of myself when I’m resting, in about the spot where there would be a person if I were talking to a friend. That would seem very suspicious to me. Kinda creepy ngl And what is with the pockets thing? Scared of peace officers? Are you a minority in the US? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 05:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moretok tiks No no, it's TikTok. Much like other social media (Reddit) I sometimes find clips there that get me thinking... Then I post my take here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 05:25 AM |
| -1 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreWhy should anyone care about their feelings? Because we live in a society. We should care about each other's feelings. That's how a civilized culture operates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 05:23 AM |
| -5 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreThat's not... 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:40 AM |
| 0 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreSo I don't know why you even used the clip you choose. Because she's making a similar point. In my experience more women feel unsafe with random strangers looking more. Not that they should get paid for being gawked at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:39 AM |
| -4 | CMV: summer clothing is not an excuse for men to look moreWell then guys should check each other more often for making women feel uncomfortable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Most women are terrible at giving dating advice for men. The RedPill is needed.After 20 years the only thing the RedPill The red pill came out before The Matrix? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsExactly you have to pretend like you're not hitting on me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingsurprises are nice If someone holds the elevator for you, that's a nice surprise. A lot of people don't do that. I doubt you'll see comments for people calling you to marry that person though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingI'm not missing anything, don't worry. Only you are stupid enough to be unable to comprehend someone being appreciative of kindness. Not your fault, you're a woman. You've been raised your whole life to be entitled and lacking gratitude and thinking the world exists to serve you, so seeing others be appreciative is beyond your ability to comprehend, due to how you think the world owes you everything for doing nothing in return Somehow I knew you would dodge the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingI think what you might be missing is the magnitude. If someone holds the door open for you, you're appreciative. But do you think it's amazing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingIs not! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingIs not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 06:09 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingwhy someone might appreciate someone else doing something nice for them You think that is what I'm asking? Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:42 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingI'd feel like whoever is leveling that accusation is just upset that my bf is raising the bar. I'd feel like their insecurities are showing. I'd feel indignant that they're calling my bf names | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:41 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingAh ok so it wouldn't help you in particular. I suppose it's a bad example then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingSame, but there's something a bit more going on here. For example, if she spent all morning organizing the files and folders in his Google drive. It could have taken her longer, but there would be no men in the comments talking about how she must be protected at all costs, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingI'd feel grateful. Yeah Marry him at all costs? Mmm, not quite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingExactly. That's the part people aren't getting. She could have organized the files in his Google drive folder, but no guys would be like "Peotect her at all costs!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 09:59 PM |
| -6 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingThe pickme part is posting it on the Internet for thirsty men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingBecause men are human I never understood why people say stuff like this. No one has confused men with being aliens or AI. messaging that showing care for their man is being a handmaiden for the patriarchy I've never seen this messaging. quite the opposite actually. Girls are brought up to be people-pleasers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 09:33 PM |
| -7 | Q4M: Why do guys act like cooking & cleaning for your bf is so amazingWomen do that everyday though. Why is this treated so differently? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 09:30 PM |
| – | Why does the phrase "Nah, she's too hot for me" annoy women?I have heard guys do this as the easy way to let her down easy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Chatgpt Gemini Grok Mistral Llama Claude They're all in agreement. Perhaps you have a better prompt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Oh yeah, I was talking about the one bending over... What you do is upload the photo to chatgpt and ask "which photo appeals to the male gaze - left one or right one and why?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Who? The one bending over with her butt in the camera? Or the other one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Seriously, this tweet reads like slavery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%If someone is a follower, they need a leader. Followers are not helpless. Similarly, if a woman is submissive... She would benefit in life by having someone who's more assertive. She would depend on this person. Another way to say this issue would need that person. Doesn't mean she's a helpless invalid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%helpless Why do people keep repeating this? I never said she was helpless. Literally never said that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Thanks for your contribution to the discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Doesnt mean shes helpless I didn't mean to imply that. I see a lot of pill guys talk about how a submissive woman is different from an "independent boss babe who don't need no man"... I assumed a submissive woman is one that WOULD need a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%different people like different things. You were supposed to say something about a monolith I think a lot guys look at the Asian woman and think, submissive, sweet, will take care of me etc. If she's submissive... Wouldn't that mean you'd have to take care of her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%We're at a hotel. There's a blonde woman standing by room 301 and an Asian woman by room 303. They're both smiling at you and beckoning you invitingly. I hand you a box of condoms and ask, "Which way, Wide-Illustrator2906?" This too would imply a singular choice among options. In this case, two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%porn brain and Asian fetishism I bet that is what is going on here. That has to be it. Sydney Sweeney is a sex symbol. She is being upstaged by an older woman who is decidedly not trying to be sexy or appeal to the male gaze | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Oh, my bad thought when you said, "Saori looks cute, and she doesn't give off career woman vibe."... you were suggesting it was a point in her favor. But neither give off that vibe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%It didn't say anything about long-term relationship or marriage?. It just said which way Western man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Would you say that the left photo looks more "career woman" than the right photo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%I understand what you mean. But, what part of her photo doesn't give off career woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%For me it is the game that puts me off What game are you referring to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Sydney Sweeney doesn't cater to the male gaze at all You sure bout that? "Sydney Sweeney Embraces the Male Gaze" https://www.newsweek.com/sydney-sweeney-male-gaze-saturday-night-live-1875971 https://youtu.be/G8ZxdsfG74E | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%she doesn't give off career woman vibe. What part of her photo doesn't give off career woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Sydney loses because she is posing in a sexual way ✅Sex sells? Yep ✅Men love sex? Yep So... dress and pose sexy? ❌No! men don't like that, u dummy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%They’re wearing clothes. True! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%I suppose a long haul trucker is in a similar field to an F1 race car driver | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%If it doesn't matter then what is the point of bringing up the fact that it's mostly bots? Bots like a salary woman more than Sydney Sweeney? I don't follow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%They're both famous women under 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Surely that must be the deciding factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Who benefits from bots voting for Saori? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:08 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%They both have equivalent careers Saori net worth is estimated to be $350k from modeling gigs, endorsements, and social media Sydney? About $40M, Hollywood actress Not sure I'd call those equivalent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:07 PM |
| -8 | Women do want a good man, just not enough.Women's list isn't long. The bar is in hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Would you be okay with a (one-sided) open relationship if there was a lack of sex in your LTR?Wait, how would it be out of spite? "Oh, you're not hungry? Well I'm going to go out and get something to eat! That'll teach you!" Edit: respond to the wrong person, but I'm going to leave it here anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?feels gross What is gross to you about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?example if someone is afraid of the dark they're looking for someone who can hold them in the dark and they feel safe rather than afraid. Well sure, but in that case we know specifically it's from the dark | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Show me 1 woman who doesn't want a guy that can be vulnerable, emotionally authentic, and himself. Just 1 I'll wait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?so no one can get to me This is what I'm trying to see if men can articulate Who is being referred to here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?You've just answered the question: "What makes a woman feel safe?" Now I'd like you to answer a slightly different question: "What do you THINK women are looking to be safe from exactly?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Got it. Thanks for the response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 01:52 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?They'd get mocked or even insulted. I don't think that is true, we have been saying how we want a guy that can be vulnerable, emotionally authentic, and himself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?I've heard mention of Lilith, but I don't know who sharp engineering is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?So... from the Mongolians? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?I still am having trouble connecting that to women's preferences in dating when they say they want to feel safe and protected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 11:32 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Women are not actually wanting to feel safe and protected? It's just for the aesthetics of their partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Got it my thanks for sharing your perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Oh you wanna know what women mean? I want to know what men think we mean. It's ok if I doubt the validity of your answer. Doesn't mean I don't want to hear it Why didn't you ask women? That wouldn't answer my question women are technically an adult I feel like there's something you're not saying directly here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?wanting due process for men thrown out the window. Can you clarify how a woman wanting to feel protected is related to wanting to be rid of due process? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?they want to feel safe that you aren't going to hurt them, This would explain why women typically go for the smallest, weakest, most docile men... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?then throw way that safety when her pursuit or pleasurable experience calls for it Do you have an example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?But you have your own problems to deal with. And women are grown adults. I don't think that is what we're saying when we say protected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?They want men to give them traditional protection Traditional protection from what exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Why do you think short guys have such a bad time dating yet such a easy time having Women friends, because they are not seem as threatning Is being threatening attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?This is not on topic. Please try to make a valid argument that I can address | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?feeling of being protected and safe Protected from what exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Oh my bad. That's what my question was about. Did you not see my question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:48 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?I'm not seeing a lot of men highlighting their wanting to feel safe and protected on their dating profiles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?But that doesn't.. Was he an asshole? That would do the trick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?they just want to be safe Don't men want this too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Yes to tariffs, but really in the form of economic stability. Financial power to plan for the future, and be able to handle emergencies anywhere from kids braces and car repairs, to last minute flights to see sick loved ones. Do men want this too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Protection to you means she wants to be free of her own problems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:25 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?How you figure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Someone who is capable of violence Are you sure? I feel like that's not a commonly expressed trait listed under "What I'm looking for" on women's dating profiles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?the person they are opening up to won’t hurt them. They won’t use words and memories and fears shared in moments of vulnerability against them. This all sounds great, but what does the physical size of the people involved have to do with any of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?But Protection from what exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?for one they want you to defend them from dangerous or creepy or unattractive men Ok that seems reasonab- but they’re not gonna choose a 5’7 strong brave bulky man over a thin stick 6’1 man bc they wanna “feel” safe. Wait, how does that make sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:17 PM |
| – | Q4M: How would you feel if women acted like "fukgirls"?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 02:36 AM |
| – | Commitment from a man with no other options means nothing realistically.being in proximity of a woman is seen as impressive Can you elaborate on this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:24 AM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.I don't see why people just don't admit that they do care. I care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:28 PM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.For someone who DGAF you seem to be rather invested in this argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | People are so naive thinking Tea app will hinder dating lives of men posted thereOh my bad. I read "here" but it's "there" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 08:04 PM |
| 3 | People are so naive thinking Tea app will hinder dating lives of men posted thereI don't know that anyone thinks it affects the men here. If anything, men here will try to put themselves on there on some kind of misguided "social proof" strategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | People are so naive thinking Tea app will hinder dating lives of men posted thereI don't know that anyone thinks it affects the men here. If anything, men here will try to put themselves on there on some kind of misguided "social proof" strategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Men Need an Extreme Separatist Ideology , Total Detachment from WomenYou musn't decenter women from your lives. You are supposed to go through heartache when you're young - it builds character. A real man grows from those experiences, becomes well-adjusted and eventually seeks to be a provider and protector of women. You are supposed to get married when you're an adult. Pair off, date, get engaged, marriage, and kids. That's the formula to keep society together. Don't defect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you think average men can treat average women poorly? Do you think men always treat women "in their league" well?So leagues are a thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 01:17 AM |
| -1 | Do you think average men can treat average women poorly? Do you think men always treat women "in their league" well?Agreed. Assortative mating in humans doesn't include similar attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 10:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingI hadn't heard of the handkerchief theory. That's interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 01:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingWhat’s the contract you’re referencing? Men approach women in a social gathering Women accept or decline the advances People pair off and relationships happen how did men drop the ball? Men are not approaching these days like they used to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 12:15 AM |
| 0 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingY'all are equals, no? Yes we're equals. But that doesn't make everything mirrored between the sexes. I don't expect men to breastfeed, but I still consider you equals to us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 01:46 PM |
| 0 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingWhich of those 6 questions should I answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 01:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingI'm not ignoring counterpoints. This person's point was "you made your bed. Lie in it" To which I countered directly by asserting that this is not a matter of women being at fault because the problem is: Men not holding up their end of the social contract (approaching) I highlighted this by pointing out that - it's not women who are failing to approach themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 01:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingYou are aware that "find a viral tweet or a successful post to use because it's almost no work and a winning formula" is a known and rather annoying common behaviour by journalists? This I am aware of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 02:27 AM |
| 2 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingNo, I wasn't aware of that. This tweet showed up in The New York Post which is how I came across it https://nypost.com/2025/07/20/lifestyle/why-single-men-arent-approaching-women-in-person-anymore/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:52 AM |
| 2 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating"You only live once" Margaret Thatcher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 10:42 PM |
| 4 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating"No pain, no gain" Jane Austen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 10:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingThis is men's behavior we're talking about. Women are not the ones not approaching themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining dating"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" Abraham Lincoln | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 08:53 PM |
| 3 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingFortune favors the bold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingNo I think you might have not read my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 07:08 PM |
| -1 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingredpill women points Red pill never puts any blame on men. I'm saying they're dropping the ball | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 07:04 PM |
| 0 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingMaybe he went out to meet a woman. Buying a drink was a socially acceptable way to indicate interest in a woman and create an opening for conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 07:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingThat would be annoying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingif they don’t want to. Wasn't there a lonliness epidemic or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 06:58 PM |
| -1 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingNothing ventured nothing gained | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingNo guarantees can be made about failure consequences. That's what makes it courageous to approach. Courage and confidence is attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingCool cool WDYT about the notion that men failing to keep up their end of the courting contract is ruining the dating scene? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 03:10 PM |
| -14 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingCool cool WDYT about the notion that men failing to keep up their end of the courting contract is ruining the dating scene? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 03:08 PM |
| 0 | CMV: men's failure to approach women is ruining datingAgreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyNo. Knock politely. No. No. No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 02:59 AM |
| -1 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyI would say her, but it's questionable as to whether or not that's a decision or a natural reaction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 01:14 AM |
| 0 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyCall her what you want. But to me it appears as though she's trying to enter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:30 PM |
| -2 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyThat's misogynistic. Domestic violence against women is no laughing matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 05:04 PM |
| 3 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyThis is all very interesting but uh... Did you respond to the right post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 03:59 PM |
| 0 | What exactly is the “female gaze” and what would fall under it?I saw this one guy looking like Ed Sheeran at the train station. That's all I have to contribute to this conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 03:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The next generation of women will have an even harder time datingThanks for the support. You bet! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 08:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The next generation of women will have an even harder time datingAre you saying this will be short lived? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Is the women’s equivalent to a man’s “I can fix her” a thing?mommying I have never heard of this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborWhy would you want it to stop? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 08:39 PM |
| – | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborYou never answered my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 08:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborIt's not, however... Women like men who are confident. If you don't want to take on the responsibility and demonstrate your confidence and social skills then you don't have to... You're dating success will be affected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 08:29 PM |
| -1 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laboryou said i'm stupid Whoa whoa whoa! I don't call people names. That's mean and I would never say that. You can be obsessed with someone and not hang outside their house at night in the bushes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 08:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborOk well maybe you can't measure it, but the same could be said about love "I love you 12 units" "No you don't, I only see 11 on the reader" Nonetheless love is a useful concept, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 07:19 PM |
| -1 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborIs consent only regarding sex? No, but that is the only time I talk about consent. So when you say "So now you're saying men should assume consent? Make up your mind." I assume you are talking about sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 07:08 PM |
| 0 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborHe plans the next interesting and enjoyable date without waiting for you to say "please plan the next date". He shows confidence and initiative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 07:02 PM |
| 0 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborSimple as. Are you missing a word? This sentence appears incomplete and I want to make sure I understand you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 07:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborare you talking about stalkers now Maybe we have different definitions of this word because you keep bringing it up. So let me define it and see if we're talking about the same thing. When I think of stalker I think of someone physically following you around and attempting to hide this fact. My post is about women wanting a guy that is obsessed and plans dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 06:59 PM |
| 0 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborAlso even if there is something special, how would he know that? This is that "what does she bring to the table?" rhetoric that red pill guys go on about. Nice try Wasn't that you who we talked about how to define obsessed? I was the one saying women are saying they want men to be obsessed with them. I believe you were the one saying we shouldn't believe what women say about our preferences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 06:52 PM |
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