What are some blue pills?

grown_folks_talkin · 2023-04-08T05:16:21+00:00

Nobody who tells you "real men do _____" has your best interest at heart. Good one.

One blue pill which is true is that you see a lot of average Joes and average Janes coupled up together.

No-Rough-7390 · 2023-04-08T12:58:39+00:00

Happy wife, happy life.

It’s actually a threat.

Pathosgrim · 2023-04-08T05:28:58+00:00

Equality is the biggest blue pill

OpticalEpilepsy · 2023-04-08T07:58:23+00:00

As long as you are treating women well and just want to be platonic friends with them one day you will wake up in a relationship

EulenWatcher · 2023-04-08T05:11:13+00:00

Blue pill is generally everything and everyone who doesn’t agree with TRP or the black pill, so there’s no universal set of rules or beliefs in TRP. Considering that the majority of people don’t identify themselves as red or black, you can find a wide variety of “blues”, although most just have no idea about either pill. Basically blue is “normies”. So some might believe that appearance doesn’t matter, while others find it pretty important. Some are egalitarian, others are traditional etc.

I can give you some things I believe as I think I’m pretty blue: - Both appearance and personality matter, most people have some kind of lowest bar for both and if you don’t pass one of them you can’t really compensate it with the other. - Be the best version of yourself. If you wouldn’t date yourself, others probably don’t have much reasons to either. - Work in those social skills - Warm approaches work the best - Luck is a huge part to dating - Men and women have specific dating issues - Communication is the key - Dating is confusing these days, so try to be clear about your expectations and plans on the future, it saves the time for everyone

LordPeppino · 2023-04-08T16:47:01+00:00

Wow... This is fucking painful to read.

Most men believed this bullshit. Guess how they ended up redpilled 🙄

Extra-Confection-706 · 2023-04-08T13:57:47+00:00

Lmao all those blue pills trigger me so hard. Its painful to read tbh

At least its not that bad anymore with people of my generation. Thanks to tinder, Instagram and Similair shit even normies are more red pilled than before. I mean you legit need to be some special kind of retard if you still defend hardcore blue pill positions.

The most annoying blue pillers in my experience are older people and mostly women. Something around late 30s or older. Bonus annoying points when its a long time single mother.

Last time i was trying to explain to a 37 years old single mother of 3 why she has issues finding a man. Then she showed me her bumble/tinder to proof me how 1000s of men liked her and she is still in high demand. I was like 🤦

WingOutrageous9987 · 2023-04-08T10:27:30+00:00

It’s not a bad list but you made it too nice. This is what I’ve learned from women around me:

Real Men care most about a woman's intelligence, education, and career success. Looks are secondary. A man that goes after uneducated women are pigs and rapists who exploit women. If you don’t go after them you are also a classist and capitalist pig.
Women don't care about looks, money, or status. It's about how emotionally mature, emotionally available, and emotionally intelligent he is. A man who is successful with women is a man hore and a rapist. Do you want to be a rapist?
Any guy can get laid easily thanks to hook-up culture and dating apps. There are lots of women who are willing! (just not me - I need an emotional connection first). However if you sleep around or participate in hookup culture you are exploiting women. Do you want to be excluded from our friends circle? I refuse to be friends with rapists.
Any woman can find a long term committed relationship with a man she loves, admires, and respects. You just have to manifest it and when you stop looking, love will find you. There's someone out there for everyone! The fact that me (a woman) and all my friends just happened to marry and date high earners who are main breadwinners is pure coincidence. The fact that poor men don’t have as many kids is because they are toxic rapists.
Just be yourself king/queen! You have all the time in the world. If he/she doesn't like you - it's their loss! Don't change for anyone. Just focus on yourself - you're perfect just the way you are! If you can’t find someone it’s not because the standards are wrong or women are picky. It’s because there is a fundamental flaw in your personality. Actually I think it’s because you are a rapist and want to dominate women. Women pick up on evil.
Being a single mother doesn't negatively affect your dating prospects, neither does your body count. Not for a real man anyway. Short kings, just be confident and funny! If you don’t date and pay for single mothers kids you are a low life. Raising someone else’s kids is the most noble thing a man can do. There is nothing pathetic with it. Men like this are not exploited at all.

2023-04-08T13:22:16+00:00

Blue pill doesn’t even know what blue pill means lol

daylightxx · 2023-04-08T21:42:51+00:00

Um, no. These are silly and you know damn well you’re talking in extremes so they’ll be easy to knock down.

blebbyroo · 2023-04-08T05:59:46+00:00

You’ve exaggerated sayings/knowledge to the point of them being comical

No one says or believes any of your points as you’ve written them

MyUpSeemsDown · 2023-04-08T10:21:42+00:00

That you don't need shit like RP to get anything in life. Those wisdoms were present in life before RP, it's not like before RP people weren't disciplined, successful, hard workers and all and in fact those specific traditions ARE what RPers refer to meaning it takes the precedence and have existed before RP.

The problem of RP is that they blend the good and bad teachings of life into the one thing to consume, and this is problematic as it assumes the both good things and bad things to be true, when these notions are different in its essence. Good things in this case, is something that is ALWAYS good to have, these are traits that can genuinely help people to be better especially now days where people are spoiled with complacency. VS the bads are usually aimed towards other people, aka women.

The bad notions, while there exist applicable cases, it is lot less generally applicable in comparisons, I mean really think about how detach it is to assume even half of the women populations to be gold diggers, how fucking wild it is, to deem mostly fine functioning human beings to some morally evil beings.

Most of RPers are detached or not experienced in reality especially in regards to women and hold resentment towards them because of it and in fact that is the very core of how RP convinces men to turn to it.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-04-08T14:35:38+00:00

Nobody thinks that looks are secondary.
See #1.
Most men I know get laid pretty easily, but my friends are a bunch of libertines.
I don't know about "manifesting", it seems to be the new way for men to insult women. I do know that I met my husband after I decided that I didn't want to date anyone. So we were strictly casual for 4 years before deciding to renegotiate the terms of our relationship.
You should be yourself, but you also should be constantly trying to improve yourself. Stagnation is death.
This one is true. Being a single mom after my divorce didn't impact my dating prospects, and nobody has ever asked my body count outside of this forum.

mike-sonko · 2023-04-08T06:04:57+00:00

Pedestalizing women.This is what boys are taught most of their lives and what is impressed upon men, especially undiscerning men.

Notable mention: Anything portrayed in mainstream media such as The View, Oprah, Steve Harvey Show, Wendy Williams Show etc

JNRoberts42 · 2023-04-08T11:21:51+00:00

Men really need to drop the baseless claim that women don’t care about looks. For women with a typical sex drive, that’s damn near all women, physical attraction is very important. Number 2 is blatant bullshit the red pill claims women say.

Number five is foolish because acting is always obvious. It’s painfully obvious when someone is pretending to be a different person and those who lie about what they have to offer are bound to disappoint two people and potentially ruin both lives if they commit and have kids.

The body count thing is hilarious and I suppose it’s a hazard of OLD, because inexperienced men who want inexperienced women tend to lack a social circle and are stuck using OLD and dating strangers. When they bring it up, women say “That’s easy, date in your social sphere so you have some idea of what kind of experience women have. Date women from church, or date other introverts or homebodies” to which men screech “No!!! I have no choice but to use OLD! I have no friends and don’t want friends! I’m stuck with potential sluts!”

To which women just walk off whistling because those men can’t be helped, they just want to rage against women. It’s pretty difficult to muster up any empathy for men who refuse to fix their own shit.

januaryphilosopher · 2023-04-08T09:21:03+00:00

The red pill (and black pill if you consider it distinct) is false. That's it, that's the whole blue pill. There is no other content. Someone who is blue pill can believe all or none of the things you said, because there is only one blue pill belief.

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SecondEldenLord · 2023-04-08T11:28:13+00:00

Disagree with that, men care whether or not you bring them peace and loyalty. Looks matter just to a small degree, if you are decent looking at least, that is enough.
Disagree with this as well. Source: look at how many women complain about their toxic, narcissistic and emotionally unavailable ex.
False again, only the top 10% of men can get laid easily.
I would say that any woman can actually find a husband that cares for them if they lower their standards.
Everybody should be on a constant grind to be the best they can be, man or woman.
Yeah, single mothers are a no go and women with huge body counts are a huge red flag. The more bodies they have, the less likely it is for them to create an emotional connection. Also, they one with short kings...... yeah, confidence and humor will only get you that far.

wes_bestern · 2023-04-08T13:16:26+00:00

I find it interesting how many women seem to focus on either looks or career or whathaveyou. But they almost never focus on integrity or emotional intelligence for themselves. They see themselves as "the prize". How they treat a man seems to never factor in. Yet they have high standards for men in those departments.

I would do anything for a woman who actually cared. I dont need a woman's money or cooking and cleaning or anything superficial, not even looks or hell, not even sex, as long as she didn't lie, manipulate, or otherwise abuse me. She could just sit and look ugly all day as long as she wasn't ugly on the inside. But that's rare in most people.

KingOnixTheThird · 2023-04-08T13:18:43+00:00

Any guy can get laid easily thanks to hook-up culture and dating apps.

The only people who say that are people who have never done online dating before.

Safinated · 2023-04-08T13:22:17+00:00

Anything mocked or resented by red pill

shrimp_dicks · 2023-04-08T13:47:21+00:00

Women respect you if you validate all of their opinions.

All women won't lose respect if you show real unfiltered weakness.

bhampig · 2023-04-08T14:53:43+00:00

True, I don’t want a deadbeat woman or low iq woman.
false, women have rejected me for saying I’m not attractive enough
Not true see incels
“Manifest it” why kind of women witch craft is that. There is not someone for everyone. I know men and women who are probably going to be single forever
You are not perfect the way you are if you have weight problems or hygiene problems
All those thing’s definitely matter. Single mothers have it harder than no children women. Men don’t want to pay to feed your ex’s kids. Body count definitely matters for marriage material. Women find tall men more attractive.

Endasweknowit122 · 2023-04-08T17:29:17+00:00

You get what you put out there.

daddysgotanew · 2023-04-08T18:43:13+00:00

Believing women care less about looks than men. It’s the other way around.

Spyro7x3 · 2023-04-09T06:55:29+00:00

The best way to get girls is to be wherever they are nothing is more important than that

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-04-14T04:27:44+00:00

A lot of blue pill wisdom is correct but a lot of it seems to gloss over how important looks are. People have types sometimes and if you don't fit their type you're not gonna get with them. It's not necessarily about conventionally attractive traits either. If a guy likes short, slim brunettes with bangs then that's what he will go for over a tall blonde with beach waves. Sometimes people break their type but it's usually after their type broke their hearts a couple of times. I always stalk a guys socials to see what women he's been with in the past and looking for clues for what type of girl he is the most attracted to. If I find that none of the girls look like me I get pretty deflated tbh

ExcellentNatural · 2023-05-01T15:50:32+00:00

Is actually incredibly toxic and lost me many years of my life. Like, don't go to the gym, just focus on your career and you will find someone because women care about security. I am almost in my 30s, I could easily support a family with kids since my 25s~ but wondering why I am still alone.

Title	What are some blue pills?
Author	Windmill_flowers
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Date	April 8, 2023 5:03 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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