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This is like Twitter for social reject women leave us alone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:33 PM
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I've seen worse. Meth is a hell of a drug lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:40 PM
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No wonder it's all about looks now tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:22 PM
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All men have to offer is good dick. There, I said it. Men are usually useless financially, emotionally, and in whatever other possible ways there are to be in a relationship. "Hurr durr you're after moneybags" first of all no. I am not a class traitor. Dick is the only thing of value men can bring to the table. Just my 2 cents
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:50 PM
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Disagree. There was further stratification based on social status, caste, what your job/role was, and gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:45 PM
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Honestly we need more violence and protests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:29 AM
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I've heard lesbians on dating apps behave the same way straight women do. Too selective, won't give you a chance etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:21 AM
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No I've dated a woman as a woman though. Pretty similar dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:17 AM
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No it also promotes this hyper individualistic viewpoint where you have to become better than other guys to get women. Its definitely a byproduct of capitalism in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:27 AM
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The whole point of the red pill is trying to beat other men at almost any cost. It also promotes acquiring as much wealth as possible. Theres no class solidarity there at all. And they also don't really think highly of women either. Seems like a bummer to be isolated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:22 AM
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That's not emotional that's being a Marxist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:14 AM
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I think thinking of your spouse as an employee and you as their bourgeois master suggests an exploitative relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:54 AM
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And yet manosphere guys have no class solidarity. Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:52 AM
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I don't care if I am nitpicking, I just say the first thing that comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:10 AM
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Is a spouse the same as an employee?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 08:46 AM
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Should marriages last 6 months instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 03:42 AM
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It could be worse but it's not looking good. Recessed temples can be pulled off reasonably well but it looks like the front of his hairline is receding as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:09 AM
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Yeah well they might last my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:08 AM
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I dont struggle with the idea of good things being impermanent but it's a lot harder for me to believe bad things are not permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:44 AM
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My parents are still together after over 30 years so even if my mom stopped liking my dad she still stuck with him. I am guessing that having a lull in interest in your spouse is a common but not really talked about phenomenon. At the end of the day people can and do still decide to stay. Whether that's out of convenience or whatever, I don't know. Plenty of marriages last longer than 4-7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:41 AM
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People don't like people who are different from them, and since being racist is a huge no no, sexism is a lot more acceptable. So you can take out your frustrations in life on other people who are different but not the wrong kind of different ykwim
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:33 AM
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I don't interact with that many people on the day to day, I only have to call a couple people per day and sometimes drive to a place to take photos and notes. The vast majority of my day is sitting at my desk waiting to be called/emailed back. If I worked customer service I would have to deal with angry people right? And I'd have to take calls all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:31 AM
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Some guys handle it pretty well in my experience. The ones who don't will usually move on when they get a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:13 AM
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I cant find a job like that. Insurance call centers want people back in the office and they're in Idaho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:08 AM
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Yes I will need to reference kropotkin in my leftist analysis of the dating market as well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:59 PM
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I actually have a ton of shit to get updated/informed about. I took a very extensive break from this stuff after the last election
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:57 PM
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I can feel the Marxism coming back into my soul. Probs gonna hop on leftist Twitter to read overly verbose memes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:51 PM
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High wealth people don't go to college? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:00 PM
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I think in college and on tinder those guys are fucking high n women on the down low.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:57 PM
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Like what percentile of earners are you talking about? I was thinking top 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:53 PM
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No I thought guys will sleep with slutty women but won't want to date her. So she can fuck rich and poor guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:43 PM
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No poor guys care too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:36 PM
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I think they mostly focus on women who are physically attractive. Other women basically don't exist to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:33 PM
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I actually don't know lol. They are all over the place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:46 PM
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I am actually not really joking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:08 AM
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I agree with what you're saying. I only like guys who look like they are a skater or possibly Italian most of the time. If I don't feel my heart being ripped out of my chest the second I glance at him and sense his deep seated mommy issues the first conversation I'm just not interested. They also get bonus points for committing crimes as well. Borderline personality disorder men please contact me and threaten suicide in my DMs 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:58 AM
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Oh yeah now I remember. I guess it's performing your gender roles not your overall behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:18 AM
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Literally nothing. That's worth all the c sections in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:11 AM
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Male privilege: -strength -get more respect naturally -almost always regarded with higher status -easier to get a better paying job with no college Female privilege: -simps -simps -simps -more clothing options/your behavior is less scrutinized Looks roughly equal to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:49 AM
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Sometimes guys would mention another girl he seemed to be interested in. I would not change my behavior though, I was usually fairly confident I was the favorite. So not technically I guess. Don't show your cards and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:27 AM
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Just popping in to say I think Lena Dunham is far below average, and should not be used as a metric for average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:46 PM
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I knew originally I wanted $2500, but according to my calculations I should be able to make $5400-6000 if I work through peak season. Part of me really wants more money and the other part is just beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:22 PM
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what do you do as a self employed guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:09 PM
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I really want that bag so I'm doing everything possible to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:56 PM
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I think they know that average women are not really that attractive, they just know they are unlikely to get better. If they thought they could get a better looking girl, they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:53 PM
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This is one of the main reasons I am not Christian anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:49 PM
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Probably trying to rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:45 PM
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Are you still a student?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:44 PM
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Yeah. It was a little awkward though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:42 PM
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Eh you get to sit at a desk, potentially work from home too. Nurse can't be WFH. Nursing is a physical job and those tend to be unpleasant in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:30 PM
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I already am splitting the cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:25 PM
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Yeah but they aren't that well respected. I think people want the status that comes with being an engineer. Men don't envy nurses who have to clean up piss and shit all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:21 PM
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I need to find a way to make enough at one job after I am done working 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:19 PM
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I recall a popular girl getting like 6 candy grams while everyone else got nothing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:10 PM
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Is it a problem when a male dominated field is male dominated (CS, eng) but not when a female dominated field is female dominated (nursing, teaching)? The issue is that STEM is a lucrative field where you can make a lot of money and it doesn't rely on your physical capabilities. That's why they're upset women aren't in STEM more, they want women to be able to make 6 figures. Teaching doesn't pay that much so it doesn't matter if there's less men, nursing pays a bit more but usually nothing crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:08 PM
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I see so many people on here who are doing really well in terms of money so I feel like I've fallen behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:01 PM
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I was thinking more like the money you need to move to a new apartment. First last security deposit. 6 months sounds aspirational. But I'm working 2 jobs and I don't know how long I will still be healthy enough to work both. I will wait until I am feeling a lot worse to quit though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:55 PM
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I've heard bad things about homes for disabled adults, but I'd probably choose that one anyways. Being a burden on your family will cause them to resent you and hate you over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:45 PM
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If they both will have a good career that will make them enough money, I will hedge my bets on the 6/10 incel. At least at that looks level maybe he can turn his life around. I kind of doubt it though. But he also won't have to deal with all the negative consequences of being ugly which could really lower his quality of life. If he still wants to be a bitch he can be but at least he won't suffer as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:40 PM
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Depends on which one seems to have the best life outcome in terms of career prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:29 PM
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I gave it up voluntarily so that I could have more options in the future. It's worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:25 PM
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tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:07 PM
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If I keep losing weight like I am right now I should hit my goal by January.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:28 PM
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No we are renting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:20 PM
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I get 5k to 10k steps in on Amazon days. Even the days I am just standing and pushing packages. But also, 7 hours of pushing packages probably burns at least 400 calories if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:07 PM
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Yeah being a journalist is having important business leaders and politicians be on their best behavior during an interview but basically living paycheck to paycheck as a lower income person. There's a lot of dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:04 PM
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I think having enough money to walk away from a situation you find intolerable is priceless. No matter how bad things get, being able to leave is a great freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:01 PM
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I am just scared of the rug being pulled out from under me so I need more money as fast as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:54 PM
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I'm almost there so I guess this is a crappy Friday for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:53 PM
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Yes but that's no guarantee of finding a new place. Only the items you own in your place are insured, insurance won't pay for a new place I don't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:53 PM
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Weight loss is a lot easier when you work a physical job no matter what size you are in my opinion. Another reason to keep working at amazon is the increased calorie burn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:51 PM
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Yeah when people call their mom "mother" I think they are either in a strange enmeshed relationship or they are distancing themselves from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:35 PM
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My aunt called my grandma "mother". I think they had a big falling out at one point and it seems more formal I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:29 PM
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I have to double check my calorie log because I haven't really been paying attention to it that much but yeah some days I probably only eat 700 calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:28 PM
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I feel like the best safety net is probably first, last and security deposit for a new place should a disaster happen and the place you're living gets flooded or burned down. So I'd actually need closer to 5000 for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:15 PM
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So it's been 2 days since I pulled a double shift and I am still extremely sluggish and feeling fatigued. After this next week I should have saved $2500. Should I quit my second job or does that make me weak? If I work through Christmas I should be able to save around $6000. This is a really hard choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:10 PM
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Overpopulation was a problem on the world scale, but it was actually not really a problem since our world can potentially support up to 12 billion (?). Population collapse is something that happens to specific countries which can threaten their economic growth. Though it is questionable whether permanent growth is even sustainable or desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:52 PM
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That's more than a biweekly paycheck for me. I'm poor af.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:53 PM
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Yeah I went when one of my coworkers at home depot was quitting to go back to college. The strippers were nice and shoved their boobs in my face
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:48 PM
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Oh yeah and there's other benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:09 AM
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You need to play it cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:50 AM
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I also wasn't that into short girl tall guy dynamics but there's definitely benefits that come with tall guys so I'm like well 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:27 AM
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Oh yeah. Sales tax also is disproportionately worse for poorer people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:25 AM
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I dated average height guys but it doesn't count bc the guy I'm marrying is 6 ft lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:15 AM
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Oh I know. I didn't want 0.02% more sales tax either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:01 AM
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Being an extrovert must be overwhelming. You only have so many hours in a day to spend with so many people who want you around
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:48 AM
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They have it a lot easier. Not necessarily "Chad" but good looking guys who have social skills. You quickly learn that being attractive from the beginning gives you a lot more opportunities and helps you develop better social skills than other people too. They will also sometimes complain when they get too much attention and get overwhelmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:43 AM
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Americans will never willingly be taxed more is the conclusion I've come to lol. They're like "yeah we complain about crime all day and ask for more officers and a bigger jail but you actually want us to pay slightly more for goods and services? Get bent!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:38 AM
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So a couple weeks ago, maybe 2 weeks or so, I did an article about a new measure that was on the ballot for an increased sales tax to expand the jail we have in our county (and provide funding for more law enforcement). Anyways, it didn't pass, and I'm watching this city council meeting where they talk about how much they need more officers and now they are mentioning that the jail we have in our county is always so full of people that people often get arrested and end up back on the street the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:36 AM
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Some people get really fat and once you're really fat it's basically impossible to lose weight and maintain the loss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:27 AM
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Oh wow. Should I try to contact someone who works at one of those facilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:13 AM
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I might get fat tho 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:39 AM
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Ah, opiates are pretty not great to be into recreationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:30 AM
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> He’s one of those who put a baby in her and then lost all attraction once she became the mother of his child. new fear unlocked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:28 AM
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What kind of drugs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:18 AM
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Incels biggest weakness is high inhibition imo there's always something in the way of them going after what they want. Drugs remove that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:18 AM
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It's not like it's good advice in the normal sense of being an upstanding citizen and not dying or whatever, but if you're cool committing crimes and potentially dying or ending up in jail there's no limits to how hard you can go in that scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:07 AM
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It really depends on what they are replying to. Some women write novels worth of shit on here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:03 AM
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Oh that does sound fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:02 AM
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I think doing drugs and becoming a lowlife degenerate would kick a lot of these incels' SMV into high gear. They could go from 0 to high n in about a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:01 AM
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It's because for every dating problem women have, like say they really liked this guy and decided to have sex with him and he's not responding to their texts anymore, guys will be like "YOU JUST GOT PUMP AND DUMPED BY CHAD" Or "my husband doesn't do the laundry even though I cook and clean and take my kids to soccer practice!" the response would be: WOW YOU SHOULD HAVE VETTED BETTER IN THE BEGINNING FOR GUYS WHO CAN DO LAUNDRY. DUMBASS GETTING CLOWNED ON AGAIN
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:56 AM
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I talk about and recommend people to do drugs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:53 AM
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Wow you must be joking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:52 AM
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If I were to become an investigative journalist, what topic would I investigate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:08 AM
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Yeah I like leanness but not necessarily a lot of muscle
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:18 PM
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Big dicks are a lot to handle. Some women can't handle them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:20 PM
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Idk I am physically attracted to all the guys I've dated. I don't know what other women do. Close their eyes and think of the Queen? People tell me the guys I think are attractive are average or only slightly above even tho I think they are gorgeous. I can't figure it out anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:37 AM
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Most guys aren't ugly, I just don't care about them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:20 AM
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Why u think that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:39 AM
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Most people live subpar lives that no one would really envy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:00 AM
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It's funny bc when you're like 21 and living at home and working some shitty retail job and have 3k in savings you're like "I don't need a man to make any money, it's all about how he makes me feel". A lot of women here are still like that but that's just because they probably make enough to support 2 people on their own. But when you're both poor, and you suddenly get hit financially for some reason, you will start to question your entire life. Money IS important, it DOES make people happier, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:28 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:43 AM
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No most men are average which is just not particularly titillating for us. Especially in the US where the average guy is 5'9" and 200 lbs. Borderline obese. Not that the average woman is any better though. But normal weight women aren't interested in fat guys generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:13 PM
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People are born winners or losers. It's determined from birth in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:32 PM
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Shitting on me for my grades is where my relationship with my parents went sour. There's other stuff but that was what really started me on disliking them as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:28 PM
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I finally had my sleep schedule down to where I'd be asleep by 8pm and get 4 hours of sleep. Then this dumbass election night happened at 8 and went to 11. The 5 free hours I had were in the middle of the day during broad daylight. I actually really hate it when my schedule gets interfered with. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:21 PM
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I just recall being like 17 years old and lurking /r9k/ a lot, then I found this place and remembered all the incel slang I learned. I did a lot of research on the blackpill and incels because they are my ADHD special interest. The way incels behave on /r9k/ and .is really makes you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:15 PM
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I have to be awake for 42 hours starting midnight yesterday. I took a 40 minute nap last night (doesn't count less than an hour). My joints are hurting a lot worse than usual. I feel like I need another adderall. A little pick me up. Bc otherwise I will pass out at my desk lol I fucking hate election night. I wish I was warned about it earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:47 PM
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My monotone voice is creepy. It fits my personality which is trash
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:43 PM
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They were all reasonably successful with women at a young age. My current bf is low n by choice, but he had several girlfriends in high school. The other guys are all high n.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:27 PM
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Attraction is involuntary. I actually don't care if other people only value me for my looks, I am actually fairly confident that I am an interesting person to talk to. If they don't respect me I just get rid of them. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:51 PM
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People don't know how to deal with suicidal ppl fr. You just shower them with validation then go home
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:57 AM
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MY LEG!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:43 AM
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If I get sciatica at Amazon I'm sacrificing myself on the conveyor belt. Goodbye world!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:32 AM
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Love is nothing but emotion. So if women can't love, men can't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:17 AM
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Makes women sound like an amusement park ride to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:16 AM
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Betabuxx. At least he'll have money and won't be a lower middle class scrub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:19 AM
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There is nothing more soul crushing than being a cashier. You can't even walk around so you have 0 autonomy, if you need to use the bathroom you have to ask your bosses permission, you get told when to take your breaks, and you have to deal with abuse from customers. I've had a lot of jobs but cashiering was the worst by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:42 AM
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Yeah I tried having a sales job but it was a lot lower stakes than that. I never developed actual sales skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:27 AM
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Do you make commission?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:31 AM
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I would throw myself into the fires of hell for eternity for 50k in my bank account rn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:18 AM
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They are going to try every avenue they possibly can to try and get women to fuck them. However, a "cool" job like a musician, an MMA fighter, or some other "bad boy" type of thing is a lot better than being a financial analyst or a fancy accountant for increasing SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:53 AM
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No matter how bad my life gets, at least I'm not working retail. I'll say the same thing when I'm in the hospital, the prison, or the morgue.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:50 AM
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Describe the perfect pair of breasts, in detail please.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:25 AM
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Even thinking about my partner doing this makes me angry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:23 AM
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Wrong post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:20 AM
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Yeah less than 10 hours between shifts is pretty rough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:03 AM
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I don't want all over body herpes. I'll be tainted forever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:00 AM
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That's not emotional cheating because the motivation behind it is sexual. Emotional cheating is where you start flirting and develop feelings for a coworker or someone else you know and you indulge in like, basically like a talking phase with them. But you don't have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:59 AM
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I am just here for the regular users who are here all the time. I like them even if they don't all like me. I would try to detach myself emotionally from the dating topics if it is upsetting you too much, but if you can't do that then you might want to take a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:54 AM
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Oh no I just remembered the Down Syndrome guy who worked with a special disability support thing at my old job at Holiday Inn was really into me. He worked in the restaurant as a dishwasher and would sometimes eat day old fries off of the room service people would leave in the hallway after they were done with it. That wasn't a fun experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:38 AM
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I dont feel like making a list
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:38 PM
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So you'd like to be a brokie in a struggle love relationship? Financial problems are a huge strain on relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:02 PM
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Yeah these guys were super likable to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:01 PM
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If you have a huge fucking emergency that can get pretty expensive. If you're not saving anything and can only afford to live subsistence level paycheck to paycheck that's really bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:58 PM
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Oh yeah we were all pretty young and despite not being 6'4" with a jaw of steel these guys were popular with women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:47 PM
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Do guys with high n counts always count as Chad or do they need to be 6'4" with a square jaw
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 10:28 PM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:38 PM
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I just meet people in real life and get a feel for them before we start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:16 PM
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Damn that's like 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:08 PM
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I don't care really either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:57 PM
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If you hang out on the daily thread there are other women who aren't really here to insult incels. There are a few who do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:52 PM
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Welcome to being married /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:15 PM
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I discovered this subreddit because it popped up on my front page and the title of the post was intriguing. I was like oh wait, I used to hang out on 4chan's /r9k/ board when I was like 17. So I knew who Chad and Stacy were. I then had to learn even more redpill and blackpill terminology so I could keep up with the conversations on here. I had a lot of free time on my hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:15 PM
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People just don't like empathizing with men over romantic struggles because it "feels" socially unacceptable for men to talk about how hard it is to find a gf. I think the fact that not being able to find a partner doesn't seem like an urgent problem that needs immediate solving and is not a traumatic event (like your mom dying or getting jumped/assaulted on your walk home) that it's not "worth" talking about I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:01 PM
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Eh, I've been relatively successful for a woman in dating (not that many first dates, straight to relationship/commitment with men I found genuinely attractive) but the rest of my life is trash and I like talking to people on here. I actually tend to get along with blackpillers decently well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:50 PM
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Dated insecure guys before and wow they really know how to wear you down into a nub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:41 PM
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It depends on what kind of job, but if you are working for a wage you'd want to work the full 40 and possibly overtime so you can have a full paycheck. For salaried individuals I have no clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:07 PM
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Chicken Marsala, potato and leek soup, chicken corn soup, steak bites
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:47 PM
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I wish random fucks online would send me 500 dollars. I'd hit my savings goal a week faster
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:50 AM
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Doing drugs while pregnant is a crime if the drugs are scheduled and she has no prescription
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:24 AM
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You're back!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:24 AM
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YES FINALLY A GUY WHO DOESNT WASTE EVERY SUNDAY WATCHING THE GAME HALLELUJAH
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:07 AM
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A guy who can easily get women interested in him, he often has multiple options at any given time, he's usually a player type, and good looking is a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:38 PM
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Yeah it feels like I don't belong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:18 PM
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Yeah this was back in 2017 maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:17 PM
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"A bit overweight is better than skinny!" I don't know how to explain how wrong this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:17 PM
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It was harmless it just ruined outings because he was being unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:33 AM
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Nah he was a present father who wasn't abusive. He was just moody
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:32 AM
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She should dump her hubbie and go through a wild lesbian phase. They don't call it dirty 30 for nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:35 AM
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Healthy as in below a BMI of 25
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:55 AM
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Used to be a Socialist, upgraded to communist/marxist-leninist, then I moved into anarchy and anarcho communism. I used to hang out on leftist Twitter and am used to that style of lecture. Eventually I became disillusioned with all of that stuff so now I have been avoiding politics and don't keep up with world events at all. Now I am a reporter for a local newspaper so I try to keep a neutral stance on all of the elections and ballot measures I have to cover in my stories. At the micro level thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:59 AM
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In my personal real life experience most guys are able to find an acceptable girl in the west for an LTR. Online though it seems like a lot of guys are doing worse. It's hard to know what's going on to be honest. But I'm a healthy weight Western woman so that means most of my experiences are totally foreign to people on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:15 AM
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Not that I've noticed, I guess men's definition is looser since a lot of them are okay with mildly overweight women who have good fat distribution. However there's still guys who want only lower end healthy bmi and nothing else. And with women they are hypercritical of themselves so even if she's definitely not overweight at all she still "feels" fat. But then there's the body positivity movement and "small fats" and "large fats". It's really hard to figure out who is stricter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:38 AM
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Some people define "fat" as morbidly obese and some people define it as higher end of healthy bmi. Really depends on the individual
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:32 AM
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I like guys who look brooding. Guys who get moody all of a sudden are attractive to me. My dad did that all the time when I was a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:29 AM
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I agree with this. I am attracted to people who are attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:27 AM
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I always thought the hot exes were suddenly the worst asshole of all time after its over, and the ugly exes are just kind of irrelevant and forgotten about?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:26 AM
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Nice butt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:24 AM
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I dont feel bad about this at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:36 AM
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Sometimes I don't bother if I know I'm gonna come home and take a shower. No one gets close enough to me to smell me really
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:31 AM
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I thought he was attractive and we developed an emotional bond. I also wanted to lose my virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:25 AM
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some people have a hard time transitioning from teens to 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:16 AM
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I don't see how what he said was unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:05 AM
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Men with female friends are more likely to understand female social dynamics and behavior. Not like a red pill guy knowing "female nature" but know the ins and outs and details of how women interact with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:46 PM
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No we didn't get high together. Sometimes he'd show up high.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:35 PM
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I think its about social proof, men can prove they are trust worthy by having female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:29 PM
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Tag?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:21 PM
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She doesn't look good in the first pic imo. I feel like I look better than her and I look like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:17 PM
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It makes a decent difference but she looks off in the second photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:14 PM
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Of comparing her sex appeal to a skinnyfat guy. They are both the same in my opinion. I am only envious of women with flat stomachs and a good hip to waist ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:09 PM
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She won't be toned and probably won't have a flat stomach so what's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:06 PM
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I disagree I've dated more than 1 good looking guy with an attractive sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:47 PM
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The three on the left are acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:47 PM
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I am actually very perceptive of when other women are flirting with a guy. I don't get emotional about it but the guy is always surprised or acts like it can't be true when I mention it to him later, rarely he will say that I am correct. It's also never waitresses, it will be women he knows from work or someone from his social circle. I've never been wrong also, the woman would always come out about it at some point later on. Women also are bad at hiding their feelings or interest which makes th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:44 PM
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I like it until we are out and about and he starts talking to someone and I want to go the fuck home already.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:22 PM
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15% or less. I don't know what those shapes mean
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:20 PM
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Low bodyfat with good shoulder to hip ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:17 PM
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"Bad body" to most people means overweight, so even if they have a good face, it's ruined by fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:11 PM
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??? I sacrifice my time energy and resources too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:35 PM
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No I had sex with him because I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:08 PM
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I just think people need to be more aware if their SO is way more or less experienced than them. The less experienced partner usually gets FOMO or resents the more experienced one and the experienced one can kind of look down on the less experienced one. People need to be aware of this and not go in blind assuming everything will magically be okay "because they understand" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:06 PM
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I dont know I never spent years of my life going for casual. Casual sex is usually like something you have in between ltrs. Most people don't spend that long of a time only pursuing casual and if they do their n count is like 30+ by age 23. They are good ltr candidates for each other in my opinion. Hugely mismatched experience levels are usually not conductive to ltrs. Like someone with n = 2 should not be with an n = 40
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:17 PM
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You just need to delusionmaxx or try getting drunk all day so you always have beer goggles on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:25 AM
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My advice isn't really meant for women who are only interested in extracting resources from guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:59 AM
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I'm a woman here. I get love goggles really bad so I genuinely think the guys I date look better than male models. Idk how yall survive not being like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:11 AM
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Going for the best genes is the woman's natural biological imperative though. Going for money means disregarding your own biological imperative in exchange for money. The point of sex is to exchange genetic information, John wants to do that but due to his circumstances he feels that paying is the only way rather than finding a genuine mutual attraction. If you think like this that means you think all non paid sex is also prostitution because most people have sex due to attraction. And a beta bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 04:38 AM
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He would have to actually exchange something for that to be a valid argument. Chad does not lose his physical attractiveness to have sex. A John has to give money away and now he's poorer as a result to bang a prostitute. Banging a hot guy does not make the woman more attractive either. If anything it makes her less desirable if the guys on here are any measure of what men value. Women are giving away their sexual purity in exchange for fucking Chad. Chad only gains from this interaction, he los…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:48 AM
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Looks is not currency as it is an immutable characteristic and not something you earn. Obviously in the dating market looks are "valuable" because they bypass money and resources and get you real affection and desire. Theres a huge difference between fucking someone who thinks you're hot and someone you had to pay to fuck you. Like an ocean of difference. Chad isn't exchanging anything he has to give up for sex. He fucks, and he's still just as attractive as he was before. Meanwhile a John is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:26 AM
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No thanks fuck that I don't want to have the stigma of herpes so even if it's "not a big deal" medically I will pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:16 AM
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Oh yeah, I prefer guys who have more dating and sexual experience than me. They have more to talk about and my history is usually kind of vanilla/nothing special in comparison. I have a few couple year long gaps in my dating life as well. I am very particular about who I date and I am very motivated to turn it into a long term relationship. I am pretty ruthless when it comes to getting what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:07 AM
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I was 17 he was 16. He made minimum wage as a courtesy clerk at Safeway, so probably like 9 dollars an hour for maybe 8 or 16 hours a week. This was first sexual experiences in general not PIV. Just looked it up, 9.04 per hour the first year and 9.19 the second year, I don't know if he got any raises during that time but let's calculate: 9.04 x 8 = 72.32, over 4 weeks it's 289.28. Let's take off 13% for taxes and there's no state income tax here so roughly 251.67 per month sometimes a little mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:55 AM
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It's a lot of useful information you can use to extrapolate how he might end up feeling about you and where the relationship will go. You should actually compare yourself to his exes as long as you can remain rational and measured. Not everyone can but its very useful to know where you are in the hierarchy of women he's been with. Ideally you want to be at the top within a year of dating, so you need to be aware of how to get him to like you more than the other ones. Which is also information yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:12 AM
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I don't agree with the concept of not talking about exes. You learn *so* much about someone through talking about their past relationships. Honestly I want to know when your last relationship was and what happened for it to end on the first date. How they talk about this says a lot about their emotional state, their maturity, and what they are about as a person. This is extremely accurate. I always get information about exes. Names, when and for how long they dated, how and why they broke up, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 02:04 AM
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I haven't noticed a difference but I'm on progesterone only bc so idk if that has any impact
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:01 AM
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I'm working 2 jobs currently so I'd have to extend the amount of time I am working 2 jobs, I'm planning on going back to one job in a few weeks. But yeah I'd cover it. He would need to find a new job ASAP because I'm getting worn out from the lack of sleep/rest working 2 jobs. If he didn't I might actually start suffering negative health effects from working this schedule for a prolongued period of time so it's kind of imperative that he also works. I'm not like a lot of the people on here who c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 11:39 PM
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Another wonderful schizopost from iamslightlysad. What are you talking about???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 10:35 PM
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Okay I will return to commenting under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:08 PM
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These hypotheticals are getting more and more outlandish every day. I don't care, I will never meet someone in a similar situation to this so what the fuck am I supposed to think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:30 PM
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Thanks it was inspired from a comment on one of my posts in the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:24 PM
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My flair has "women" in it. Is that really not enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:21 PM
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I mean I dated a guy whose mom was an alcoholic pill head. He sent me a video of her shooting up while she was crashing on the couch of the woman he was living with at the time. That was a lot to process for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:16 PM
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Emotional labor is, "managing emotions during interactions (e.g., organizational outsiders) to achieve professional goals and conform to work role requirements"). Being emotionally supportive outside of a work or labor role is not emotional labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 06:04 PM
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I got psychological damage from my high school relationship so I guess I've been post wall since age 17. Sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:41 PM
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At 18 people thought I looked 13. It actually felt really awful when I was 19 and heading into a college class and the dean of the school was like "wow you look so young. I thought you were in middle school." JFC that was painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:38 PM
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22-24ish. I finally started looking like an adult at that age. Before that people thought I was underage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:37 PM
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I was never under any illusion that short or ugly guys had it a lot worse than average and attractive guys. But I really don't know what to say to guys like that though, "sorry it's not your fault but you will have a lot more trouble with romance, sex, and dating than other guys who did literally nothing to earn it" seems like a tough pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:32 PM
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Yeah I disagree with that. If you're dying on the side of the road you'd ask anyone to call an ambulance for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:22 PM
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I'm a woman so my perception of looks is a bit different. I think most people look their best at around 24-27 when their face fully matures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:21 PM
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Psychological wall? Whats that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:19 PM
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I like jobs with downtime but only if I am allowed to browse the internet mindlessly or have some kind of distraction. Working at amazon, my last shift was as a "push" associate, which means that they stacked packages on a conveyor belt and all the packages marked "C" or "D" got pushed to the other side of the conveyor belt. That is all I did for 7 hours. It gave me too much time to ruminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:19 PM
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How is me feeling sympathy for guys who are 5'3'' but still not dating them going to make them feel better in any meaningful way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:16 PM
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Genitals in porn look better than the nudes posted to r/normalnudes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:14 PM
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No I have always understood that younger = better to most men. When I was 21 I knew guys preferred 18 year olds, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:13 PM
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I thought 27 was post wall. I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:07 PM
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You would think women becoming more like men by prioritizing looks would make men better able to relate to us, but instead the opposite has happened. There's an entire movement for guys who think their looks aren't up to par. Kind of fucked up but it's whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:45 PM
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Theres probably some other busy work you can do. Follow up calls, emails, scheduling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:41 PM
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I mean she didn't hate men but she gets violent and physically abusive with her older brother when she doesn't get her way or things are going bad. Definitely a solid 9 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:38 PM
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I dont think it's necessarily settling more like being realistic about your own age and going for things other than just looks. But women always want to be improving, they always want to become hotter and have their glow up but that chart shows them they can't really improve that much past age 24. A bit depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:31 PM
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Makes sense. The good looking guys get a lot more attention, this has been true since middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:28 PM
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I've never been a receptionist but I applied for several receptionist jobs. They seemed more complicated than what she says but maybe I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:27 PM
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I need my emotional support himbo or else things are going to get ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:21 PM
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I guess it's the implicit message of "you're only really hot for a very brief couple year window and after that you're leftovers" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:19 PM
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Probably take a nap or get some McDonald's to make me feel better. Or, go online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:15 PM
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If I am feeling off despite everything being good, it's probably drug related (could be aftereffects, mild wds, or a bad high). The answer is to do more drugs and escape that feeling. If you do enough drugs you'll get mindfucked but eventually you get used to it. I almost never feel normal anymore but I am also working 68 hours a week with no rest fueled by adderall, greed, and abject hopelessness. I might just decide to blow all my extra money on something stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:50 PM
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Mismatched libidos can destroy a relationship. The higher libido partner will feel rejected, unwanted, unattractive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:36 PM
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Oh whoops
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:26 AM
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Should I try to upgrade to being trailer trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:16 AM
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I realized I became the ultimate lower middle class white woman this week. I worked 68 hours but still found time to make a cheeseburger casserole (extremely midwestern) for a work potluck and bring it in hot. What other things do lower middle class white women do? Being obese is not an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:15 AM
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In my personal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:30 AM
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If they end up together she will not be able to afford the lifestyle they live on her own. Just because she makes enough to live an OK life on her own doesn't mean she is satisfied with that. Women want a high earning man because they don't want to live in a 1 bedroom apartment in a mediocre area for the rest of their lives. At least this is my interpretation of why women want a guy who makes 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:22 AM
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If you are low libido I am guessing the woman you end up with will be much higher libido than you. Not sure why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:19 AM
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So in relationships where the woman is ugly, they are both more likely to cheat on each other. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:12 AM
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Women from UMC families but are just starting out in their careers don't make 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:09 AM
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Yeah I almost mentioned the n = 2 people in my comment but I decided to leave it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:57 AM
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A woman with a less affluent background.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:53 AM
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I have to think about this for a minute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:50 AM
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Idk a lot of people say promiscuity is okay and not an indicator of future infidelity on reddit but when I look up promiscuity on Google it's a bunch of studies about the negative impact it has. People who slept around before they got married are more likely to cheat according to statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:45 AM
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Those are the guys working class women aspire to be with. UMC women don't appreciate them like a woman living a more humble life would.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:36 AM
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Inb4 reddit post: "my husband discovered I had a gang bang with 6 ex convicts" to r/relationshipadvice. Video evidence and all. Also plot twist she's pregnant. Predictable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:34 AM
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All the women are saying "absolutely not" and then there's this guy. Way to flip the script
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:26 AM
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It's a science mumbo jumbo word for people who are more okay with/seek out casual sex or sex outside of a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:24 AM
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I will probably forget about it and a few months from now there will be banana peels on my car and I'll get kidnapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:19 AM
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People who are high on sociosexuality are probably more likely to cheat. BPD people are also often serial cheaters. People who use sex as validation probably can't stop cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:17 AM
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Some women are hypervigilant to this stuff. Others might not even be aware of it. Otherwise this kind of trap wouldn't work. I didn't know about this before but I'm making a mental note of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:12 AM
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I notice girls who date felons are usually not very smart. The smarter women who like bad boys go for the guys who don't end up getting caught lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:02 AM
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She sounds like one of my friends with a much lower count but still only dates felons. She's extremely attractive but she also can get physically abusive and screams when things aren't going well for her. Her mom had borderline personality disorder so it figures she ended up the way she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:50 AM
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My 5'9" good looking ex boyfriend was always getting a lot of female attention much to his 6ft (a little above-) average looking friends chagrin. I've seen that dynamic ^ several times afterwards as well. I think face is more important than height as long as you're not significantly below average in that department.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:44 AM
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How promiscuous are we talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:38 AM
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I avoid low libido guys like the plague. That arrangement is unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:34 AM
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What is the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:11 AM
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Used to but we don't see each other anymore. I actually can't remember her name. I dont know, probably. She was living in Seattle downtown near the international district so I'm sure she's seen some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:07 AM
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It's an odd but satisfying dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:05 AM
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I just know it's better to be on roughly equal footing with a guy. Someone who can relate to your life experiences and maybe had it even worse than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:00 AM
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I love these kinds of edits
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:58 AM
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But the opposite is common. Who wants a happy ending in their book? I prefer things ending in tragedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:56 AM
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I feel like romance would be a better genre if there was higher stakes for the characters beyond "will they won't they?" I like high drama, like the Sopranos and Breaking Bad where the stakes are "they end up in prison or die".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:55 AM
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Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:53 AM
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My scale sometimes changes the weight while the food is still on it. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:52 AM
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I dont like the idea but I'm an outlier and kind of a weirdo so can't extrapolate based off me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:48 AM
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That is the exact type of vibe I am going for. Path of destruction type shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:38 AM
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Yeah I'm trying to lose weight. I started working at amazon so I'm no longer sedentary so I can afford to ballpark guess now and still lose weight. Weighing food is extremely mentally taxing on me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:36 AM
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I also dislike it when I know things aren't being measured correctly. I stopped letting my bf cook for me because it was so stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:32 AM
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It will mostly be the man corrupting the woman or gay guys, which I am not opposed to necessarily. But the woman turning the guy bad is pretty uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:30 AM
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I haven't read that much romance to be honest. I used to in middle school read fanfiction and fiction written for online that was about romance but I prefer crime dramas and fantasy genres. Nowadays I mostly like shit like Taxi Driver and Nightcrawler. So loner guys who are maladjusted committing crimes basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:29 AM
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Just so you have something to put in your calorie logging app when the food is only measurable by milliliters. Sometimes shit like a casserole is only measurable by milliliters what the fuck is up with that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:22 AM
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Only 11 comments. Wow such a rich genre. If I am reading a romance book or erotic novel it needs to be like the peak of perfection in the craft. I need to experience all the emotions and be shook for weeks afterwards. Anything less and meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:20 AM
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The fantasy always ends with one or both of us dying tragically anyways so no need to worry about the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:15 AM
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I do like guys wearing beanies but usually they have longish hair underneath. I like that kind of carhartt chic look somewhere between like, a carpenter and a skater. That aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:11 AM
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Honestly it's kind of hard to say because they were all roughly the same attractiveness level in my opinion. Edit: the "ugliest" is a 7, hottest is an 8-8.5. My rating? I don't know, I can't rate myself accurately. No I do not want to know what my rating is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:04 AM
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Corruption
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:01 AM
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Theres so much more heightened emotions and drama as he slips further and further away from God. Call me emperor Palpatine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:52 PM
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I'm always evil in my fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:30 PM
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It would basically create another Baby Boom imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:21 PM
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Broke: Turning a murderer into an upstanding citizen Woke: Just dating the upstanding citizen to begin with Bespoke: Turning the upstanding citizen into a murderer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:20 PM
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And there are no romance/erotic books about turning a good boy to the dark side. Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:10 PM
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Guys with the potential to be a bad boy after you ruin them >>>>>>> all the others
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:07 PM
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I mean if you want to participate in hookup culture but don't want to put in the effort, why should anyone have sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:31 PM
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I actually did not realize the bar was so high to participate in hookup culture for men. I recall a few years ago one of my friends who was always talking about how ugly he is and how no girls liked him finally got a BPD gf who dumped him and he had a villainous hoe phase/revenge arc where he ran through about 15 girls off of tinder afterwards. I was like "I guess if the guy who says he is ugly can do it, anyone can!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:21 PM
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"Just go to grad school and be a forever college student!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:16 PM
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I am curious about this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:14 PM
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I don't doubt that a higher percentage of incels are truly ugly compared to the general population, but they almost never post photos of themselves online so that makes it seem like it's mostly normal looking guys. Unfortunately that leads to people online telling incels who are actually probably completely fucked that they just need to be more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:10 PM
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People want to send me their pics. IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:06 PM
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I have just met some incels online who send me photos and they are usually decent looking, enough to where if they were at a party or whatever it is not inconceivable that there would be women there who would be receptive to being approached by them. Really, truly ugly guys never send pics. So my perception is kind of distorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 10:01 PM
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I don't really push the personality is all you need shit on here. You need to meet a looks threshold first before your personality matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:57 PM
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I think what he wants is possible for a male 6 or a guy who can fit into a specific niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:56 PM
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There was a mentalcel who started messaging me a few weeks ago who was Chad level attractive he just did not leave his apartment for like 2 years. He was convinced he was subhuman. Unsurprisingly when he went out and cold approached he got a blowjob on his first try. There are always outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:52 PM
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It is really hard for me to fully understand the guys who talk about how ugly they are online when there's no photographic evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:45 PM
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Technically they bring less since their salary can't afford to take care of a family of 4 or buy a house all on their own. My fiance "uplevels" my life because he was able to get us an apartment in a bad situation. IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:03 PM
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Upper Middle Class and Middle Class
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:50 PM
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I don't make anywhere near 6 figures and neither does my fiance. Making that much money only really matters for attracting UMC and some MC women, who are the ones who write all the articles about "economically unattractive men" in those magazines you guys are always citing, because they have money and appealing to people with money is most publisher's MO. Working class and lower middle class women probably can't even dream of getting a guy that makes that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:44 PM
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I actually don't think it is attractive to men. Men are uncomfortable with it, but they are more willing to look past it in women. Some guys who are "fixers" like it because they think it adds emotional depth and they can be the hero or whatever but those guys aren't the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:52 PM
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He is still lower n than the guys I used to date. My bf from working at holiday Inn had 22 bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:31 AM
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princedune baiser_vole sine120 and TRecovers? (Can't remember the full username) come to mind immediately. Also that one girl who is waiting for marriage. But I think most of the usual suspects are above average
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:58 AM
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Get baker acted and get sent to an involuntary psychiatric stay. During group therapy if it is co ed there will def be BPD women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:44 AM
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Hes deranged af but a lot of the bluepillers here are older married people who went to college
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:43 AM
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Ok that is not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:41 AM
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Some of the bluepillers here are pretty smart imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:39 AM
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I think my boss would have mentioned something. Our office is small and there's no security IT people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:38 AM
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I am not sure it was a power imbalance thing, more like an "opposites attract" thing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:36 AM
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Yeah it's not a great metric but it's basically one of the only ones that are used in science/statistics so it's basically the best we have. Not everyone took the SATs or the ACTs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:32 AM
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I've been doing it for over a month and no one has said anything. I don't think my office is very tech savvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:26 AM
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I just find guys who are not as smart as me to be more relatable because I'm not a big achiever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:25 AM
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I keep hearing that women want someone equally as smart or that they prefer smarter than them. I can't figure out which one is supported by data. If my IQ test results are accurate (actual IRL test administered by a psychologist) then the outcome of my life is too disappointing to think about. So I prefer average guys who maybe aren't super achievers due to them being more relatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:24 AM
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12 dollars an hour is well below my state's minimum wage. He couldn't even survive here on that working full time + some OT. I remember when the minimum was lower and I was making like 11$ hr but I was also making commission on top of that. How old are yall?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:17 AM
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I have never had a problem dating but I am willing to date down in intelligence which is apparently "not normal" for women, even though IQ is a genetic trait. IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:11 AM
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Yeah I am lucky to have an office job where they don't really monitor me much. I spend the whole work day on here in between making phone calls and arranging interviews, and actually writing articles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:09 AM
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I actually think most PPDers (the usual suspects) are above average intelligence. I don't understand it when people say PPDers are dumb tbh. There are a lot of really smart people on here even if their opinions might not really mesh with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:58 AM
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Yep, that's what I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:54 AM
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It is interesting, I never thought about experience mismatched couples until I found this board. Which is weird because I preferred the mismatched experience dynamic but the other way around, low n woman with a high n man. That pairing seems to cause a lot less issues for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:54 AM
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Oh wait I forgot many of the guys who were critical or indifferent to me were actually attracted to me. Never mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:51 AM
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If you message her via text or social media or whatever, you can start up some banter and ask her to hang out so you can teach her how to grill. Get a 6 pack of beer and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:50 AM
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Love your username btw
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:44 AM
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But you have to be an ugly woman to comment on this post, which means I am ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:43 AM
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I think if a guy is pretty critical or indifferent to you but actually has to admit you're good at X you can be fairly certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:40 AM
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Her voice is really annoying in my opinion. She's both a scam artist and pathetic, she rides that line amazingly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:38 AM
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Were you a full timer?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:34 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:33 AM
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I am female but I recall guys I knew back in the early 2010s who preferred Emma over Megan. At one point everyone hated Megan Fox.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:33 AM
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I am ugly, and I am proud.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:32 AM
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Honestly, based opinion. Babies are selfish af.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:17 AM
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Same lifestyle and future goals? Sounds like the enabling relationship I dream of. Eventually one of us will die pretty soon though. But that's character development! I'm down for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:14 AM
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I want to know more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:11 AM
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I am actually trying to create a narrative about who he is in my mind, that is why I ask a lot of questions. I am not really actively looking for red or green flags. Usually the more tragic the story or the story that is the most moving or interesting makes me like him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:08 AM
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It is just a lot of interesting information about how he processes his emotions, how he handles conflict, and how he deals in "worst case scenarios". "Crazy" meaning in my mind, either emotionally abusive, physically abusive, or extremely emotionally unstable. Not just irrational and says dumb stuff. Those kinds of situations cause heightened emotions as well that are beyond what you would experience in a normal relationship. BTW I think my original comment disappeared lol, I rewrote it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:52 PM
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He might be able to land a childfree woman in her early 30s. It's not all bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:44 PM
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They are both beautiful women in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:39 PM
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I said one of. Her facial features are more suited to the early 2010s, they are less popular now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:34 PM
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Oh yeah, he could be one of the incel patron saints
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:33 PM
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Nah nvm. My takes on Israel are outdated, from leftist twitter in 2019-2020. I stopped paying attention to politics. Instead, here's a list of the best and worst drug combinations I've trie *gets knocked out*
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:32 PM
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Back about a decade ago she was considered one of the most beautiful women in Hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:27 PM
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What I like to do is close my eyes and take a deep breath and visualize them disintegrating. IDK if that will help. Worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:25 PM
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So you're telling me you want my takes on Israel?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:25 PM
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No by that age if he's a put together single dude aged 40 a lot of divorced women would want to snap him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:20 PM
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He looks good for his age in my opinion. He definitely looks 40 but not in like, a bad way, ykwim
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:06 PM
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People always complain about "aNeCdOtAl EvIdEnCe" all the time yet they also clearly built their beliefs from their own personal experiences. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:05 PM
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There's other pill colors as well, and neutral opinions that have no pill affiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:00 PM
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I think I hit a new low on here every single day I make a comment. I'll make sure to say something even worse tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:51 PM
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His manifesto is based. Anarcho primitivism is a cool concept as well. He was also a die hard about it. I like people who are dedicated to their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:46 PM
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I really dig the Unabomber tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:44 PM
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People displaying maladaptive coping mechanisms or signs of mental illness openly has been known to make other people uncomfortable fwiw
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:37 PM
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I honestly am willing to tolerate a lot of baggage from the guys I date. You would have to fuck up pretty badly to get me to nope out if I am already interested. I am not sure if other women are the same or not, I suspect a lot of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:34 PM
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Digital self harm or "pain shopping" is a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:33 PM
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People tend to notice the things that make them upset or trigger negative emotions over things that make them feel neutral or good. Makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:29 PM
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My fiance had an ex like that, she dumped him a few weeks before we started dating (I'm the eternal rebound girl, it's whatever) then she tried to get him to buy in to her MLM bullcrap. After we became facebook official she started going through all my posts on fb and instagram and commenting on them, and when I blocked her she created (actually convincing) fake profiles to harass me. He had to change his phone number and all, she tried to get me to think he was cheating on me with her by sendin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:24 PM
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There's a lady working at my Amazon location with an elaborate tattoo down the center of her throat going to her chin. I guess it is kind of badass but it also makes sense why she can't get a better job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:18 PM
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I will start asking a lot of questions about his crazy ex because when men talk about that kind of stuff you can get a lot of information about what kind of guy he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:16 PM
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Yeah he seems like he's done this time. He's tried to divorce her 2x before but their son was little. Now he's 9 or 10 years old and might be able to handle it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:00 AM
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Most of the couples I see, one is extremely demanding with a big personality and the other one is eternally beleaguered. For example my sister's husband is kind of a weak guy but he also steals money from their savings accounts and now he wants a divorce and is going after her retirement accounts. The beta is after the bux.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:30 AM
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It is really hard to quantify because there are periods where I am always the one initiating and periods where he's the one who initiates. I'd say roughly ... 30%? That's a conservative estimate btw
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:19 AM
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Compersion is a made up word for what a guy feels when he's doing hotwifing or whatever the fuck imo. https://www.polyphilia.blog/home/compersion I also feel compersion when seeing my partner have sex with an attractive person, and my social circle can personally attest to seeing me grinning from ear to ear while it’s happening. It makes me think, “Wow, what an amazing experience this must be for him. I’m so happy he’s having a good time, and I’m so happy that this other person appreciates him e…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:02 PM
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Oh my God here we go again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:55 PM
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Take the brain scramble pill then add sleep deprivation and no food for several weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:51 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:47 PM
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I think most women know how to de-escalate situations. Usually by bending over backwards but it usually works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:23 PM
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I went to therapy for like 8 years, different formats, different shit. Tried most of it. Didn't work for me. It is not worth it for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:22 PM
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Eh, in the n count thread I made a post about polyamory and this one lady came at me with the usual talking points. I actually don't like polyamory at all but I don't have the energy to waste getting in a flame war and potentially get banned. Inb4 another poly person comes at me trying to explain compersion again. I get it, you're a cuckold. Don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:14 PM
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Therapy is a big fat lie imo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:57 PM
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Par for the course on things men say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:41 PM
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I feel it but eventually their bullshit beats you down and you stop caring about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:32 PM
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Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:30 PM
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Nope don't care what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:28 PM
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It's true for me because I've been cutting people off for years
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:59 PM
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I have no purpose whatsoever all I do is fuck around
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:57 PM
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There is no love and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:56 PM
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I DONT DESERVE LIFE. I SHOULD BE IN THE GROUND. Next time I do a bunch of drugs recklessly I will make sure no one can save me if shit goes sideways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:54 PM
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Hindsight is 20/20. If I died in 2021 I would have died at my lowest weight, going to college and not working 2 jobs simultaneously and none of the events of 2022 or 2023. Give me a time machine and I'll finish the job
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:50 PM
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My life has gotten so much worse and will keep getting worse for DECADES. I want out!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:48 PM
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To the people, my fiance, doctors, surgeons etc who have saved my life: FUCK YOU. YOU SHOULD HAVE LET ME DIE. STHRHJFTJKKGRGJJFDTHNBDES
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:43 PM
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I see people talking about it happening to them on reddit so it must be real right
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:41 PM
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I just think the guys here are neat. They remind me of my socially awkward male friends from high school I liked to harass all the time. Except their opinions are fucking insane, like some of my other friends who harassed me. This place just feels familiar ykwis?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:40 AM
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So many open relationships end up disproportionately benefitting one party its like ok. Why do you ppl think this is a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:24 AM
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You mentioned compersion : point You mentioned lacking jealousy: point Mentioned "doesn't take away from me": point You guys are all really predictable. That's the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:17 AM
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No he's just a hoe imo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:27 AM
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They deviate from the norm in a pretty extreme way imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:14 PM
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Weed makes me chill so I'm not annoying then I'm basically comatose
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:41 AM
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Does anyone else flirt by trying to be as annoying as possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:36 AM
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You need a script for fin iirc? I know what you mean though, I've had bad experiences with them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:20 AM
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They always try to present themselves as more enlightened and fulfilled but honestly I just don't believe anything they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:19 AM
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Yeah if it's that sudden and dramatic I'd get a blood test from the doctor to rule other causes out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:15 AM
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You don't eat enough right? Could be vitamin deficiency
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:10 AM
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Not anymore I don't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:07 AM
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It's some guy saying he feels this place is like being on a foreign planet because all his friends are married or in LTRs and being a "late bloomer" meant being a virgin as a college freshman. He can't relate to the guys on here and etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:57 AM
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Wasn't he depicted as attractive in the movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:52 AM
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Yeah it just seems like a lifestyle for completely degenerate people. I mean they can do what they want but there's too many vice and medium articles about people "exploring" ENM. I bet they do gangbangs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:49 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:43 AM
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EXECUTE ORDER 66, WIPE OUT TINDER
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:43 AM
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Hocus Pocus even tho he got made fun of constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:40 AM
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I also feel very out of place here lol. I still like it though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:39 AM
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Okay okay okay I know I promised myself I'd try to avoid this topic but... what's the deal with polyamorous people? I've met some and jfc. Like holy shit. What's wrong with them???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:36 AM
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Some guy was on here talking about bringing back arranged marriage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:33 AM
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Why would I hate them? I like to make friends with them and try to push their buttons more often than not. Yannow friendly harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:32 AM
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Bourgeois = Chad, Stacy Proletariat = Billy Beta, Becky The proletarian Becky has no loyalty to her male equivalent so prole women ARE ALL FUCKING CHAD!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:27 AM
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He does????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:25 AM
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Hes Mr Average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:19 AM
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Let's do another Marxist breakdown of the dating market 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:12 AM
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Can't stop thinking about him... <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:10 AM
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Ha!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 10:02 PM
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They rave about purity just like I do in my dark web reviews
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:35 PM
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I'd probably tolerate this behavior until it became problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:28 PM
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It was okay, one of the important people (I think) at my job said I worked my butt off so that's probably good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:33 PM
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I'm laying down rn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:02 PM
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In order to do my job effectively with very little or no sleep this dose is necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:58 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:56 PM
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Just finished work, came home, got groceries, cleaned the kitchen, cleaned the bathroom, dyed my hair now I need something else to do or I'll lose my momentum
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:39 PM
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I cant imagine this going well tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:28 AM
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Does it count for 2 if you also have sex with him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:44 AM
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Hes not into it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 02:01 AM
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Idk it's just on my mind. I've never done it and only had it done to me for 1 awkward minute in the passenger seat of my car once. People keep raving about it online
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:53 AM
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Bipolar disorder is a trip
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:51 AM
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Manic episode
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:42 AM
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Do you like it if it's done to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:25 AM
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Every other guy I've dated had a flat ass. Getting to touch such a rotund ass is a new experience
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:04 AM
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What if she wanted to do it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:48 PM
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Signs point to promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:39 PM
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When we first started dating my fiance was super fit with a squat ass. I was actually upset his ass was bigger than mine. Hypergamy in action
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:38 PM
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Seems like the default sex position
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:24 PM
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Missionary
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:20 PM
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What are your thoughts on ass eating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:08 PM
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I'll bring party favors
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:56 PM
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I'm trying to choose love over drugs but it's hard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:50 PM
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Sounds hot
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:10 PM
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Women also use their hands lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:01 PM
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I gotta
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:43 PM
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Quick and easy protein sources when you're on a diet? I've got greek yoghurt and string cheese
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:13 AM
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Dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:58 AM
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Get a social group of people who also partake. You would be shocked how easy it is to network with other drug people. They will introduce you to girls who do it, the social scene of the drug world is very co-ed/mixed sex. You will meet a lot of women. Raves are also a good place to meet women who are high off their ass on MDMA and they will be feeling the love and very open to talking to strangers. Easy to make a connection with someone while on it. My list: -cocaine -ketamine -if you meet a hip…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:55 AM
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I mean I don't recommend it necessarily but absolutely yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:41 AM
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I score 96th percentile on openness to new experience. I might be arrogant too, but I'm definitely pretty open minded. I think pill ideology is rather regimented and invites criticisms from other regimented types. Most discussions here are the same arguments being rehashed over and over. Every once in a while there's a gem of originality which is what Im trying to snort up like cocaine. In the end though the real reason I like this place is because of the usual suspects/regular users on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:40 AM
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I cant keep drinking anymore bc I get too angry when I'm blacked out. The one that almost killed me was mixing special k and dark web opiates. I ended up falling and couldn't get up but kept trying to get up and ended up with acute kidney failure from rhabdomyelisis after being stuck in the same place for over 48 hrs. Dialysis is extremely boring btw. Also the hospital food they give you can't have salt, tomatoes or potatoes bc potassium and sodium can get built up in your body if your kidneys a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:49 AM
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Oh yeah it definitely seems fake, just like most reddit stories. It's just there for people to discuss the implications which is why I'm using it rn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:35 AM
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It's one thing to wait 1 week with 1 person but wait like 3 weeks with someone else, but demanding this dude be in a relationship with her before they fuck is completely whacky imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:34 AM
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It's really fucked up but I know a couple people with it. It gets ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:28 AM
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What you gleaned is classic BPD shit tbh. Whenever I say disordered I mean cluster B personality pathology disordered.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:25 AM
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Hey at least she's honest she's hooking up with other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:19 AM
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I think this "hook up with random douchebags but make my one and only wait 3 months" shit is disordered behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:17 AM
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Oh man I imagine so many dudes here will soil their undergarments with rage at this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/s/Csht8j4li5 Shes for the streets!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:08 AM
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Yeah but that's a long term planning thing that requires research and preparation. That's not getting shitfaced at your second cousins bar mitzvah levels
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:01 AM
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Nexplanon definitely has not done anything to my libido. If it has, my libido when off it must be fucking psychotic nymphomaniac levels
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:59 AM
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I've been doing creampie only finishes for 4 years straight, thanks nexplanon!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:56 AM
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Hard agree. Being a degenerate means you get laid a lot more. Too bad most incels are too high inhib for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:52 AM
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Hes definitely going after binge drinking 21 year olds. Hopefully he meets one on there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:42 AM
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Its supposed to be a fun party drug but you might end up in a coma. Worth it!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:41 AM
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He looks like he's probably no stranger to binge drinking tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:38 AM
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Side effects of GHB can include drowsiness, vomiting, mood swings, dependence, and more serious symptoms of unconsciousness and respiratory collapse leading to coma or in extreme cases death. The risk of overdose increases when GHB is combined with other drugs such as alcohol, benzodiazepines, and opioids. I'm not a stranger to taking big risks with downers, its actually kind of amazing I am still alive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:37 AM
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I didn't realize 34 year olds looked so wrinkly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:29 AM
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I'm becoming more unhinged by the day
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:25 AM
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Also this drug is used to date rape people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:21 AM
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I said YES to the new experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:14 AM
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After several years I finally get to have a new drug experience. My fiance got us GHB to get fucked up on tonight. It's super dangerous which makes it even more metal. I'm so stoked!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:10 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:00 AM
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You've been using them all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:59 AM
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Yeah all women are into ENM cuckoldry bullshit like the women on reddit are. Have you not been paying attention to ANYTHING???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:58 AM
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I'll never forget how my middleschool best friend told me she thought butt plugs were to keep you from shitting your pants when you had diarrhea. Lindsay, if you're out there: WHAT THE FUCK
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:47 AM
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Just develop a crippling cocaine addiction, bro!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:44 AM
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I have a mini space heater in my cubicle. When my coworker just gave me that, and told me I could keep it there, I felt like Balenciaga or Gucci or whatever. I was like yaaaaassss I'm a rich bitch now. Suck my dick!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:40 AM
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The only 2 things that matter in life: money and escapism
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:22 AM
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You said "a date" not "a first date" in your op. Mom and pop shops are perfectly reasonable to have a date night with your gf. First date, probably a froyo place, discount movies, or an independent coffee shop. Smoothie bar, perhaps. Under 10 bucks each
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:10 AM
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Chain restaurants make you seem either cheap or unoriginal, unless it's 3 am as I stated above. I really like hanging out at Dennys after midnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:04 AM
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Some people care, others don't. I had an interview with a diner today that sources all of their food from local farmers. They won a huge award and everything. They are very into being farm to table. Places like that exist even in bumfuck nowhere where I live. There are people who care about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:01 AM
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No they are just too nervous to say anything you will react poorly to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:58 AM
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I understand exactly what they mean. Basically a situationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:57 AM
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They always said something vague and not specific. They don't want to tell you the real reason. Don't bother asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:55 AM
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Well mom and pop shops are known for their unique ambiance and vibes as well. Also something something ethics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:54 AM
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Chain restaurants like Dennys or fast food is good for a really late night date. You know when you guys start talking and stay up all night or whatever. Mom and pop is better for an afternoon or evening meal, when you'll have to be seen by more respectable people than the ones at Dennys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:50 AM
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I had tinder for a couple days, got a ton of likes and all my matches were bombarding me with messages and I was like "you know what? I can't do this". I just can't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:44 AM
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ALL people who seek attention have emotional problems
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:35 AM
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What, you mean lesbians? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:55 AM
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Yes 100% I love human trash
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:23 AM
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I can't help it, whenever someone starts quoting the Bible I want to grab them by the ears and scream in their face "I'm not interested"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:51 PM
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It's the first snow today and I was ceremoniously given extremely dry, cracked lips. Thanks mother nature you stupid bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:47 PM
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Really boring but I got my first paycheck!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:59 PM
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Once again: I hate the Bible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:36 PM
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I really like my flair, I don't want to add "woman" to it and ruin it. I will just comment under the automod from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:29 PM
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I'd take a lower status man I could keep for myself over a guy who will fuck me over. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:07 PM
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Nope just weirdos on reddit. I just felt an immense hatred when it was suggested. I do not want to participate in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:05 PM
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Many experienced guys can fuck things up. Just as much as an inexperienced guy. You can easily get away with lying, so men who are inexperienced should lie. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:04 PM
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Yeah I need advice for how to cold approach people. It is legitimately terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:02 PM
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Incels have a legitimate fear of scaring off women who are attracted to them. If they finally find a girl who wants to fuck, should they honestly tell her she's his first experience? I have come to the conclusion that he should lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:59 PM
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Cuckolds are the lowest of the low. Only the most garbage would want to watch their woman being fucked by someone else. I hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:47 PM
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I do not care how attractive a guy is, the second he mentions cuckolding ALL RESPECT IS LOST. I WILL NOT PARTICIPATE.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:46 PM
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Yeah, it is extremely uncomfortable for me to ask people at an event to talk. I was at the 100 yrs anniversary for my local university's homecoming and it was like being tortured. I am not good at cold approaching people with questions. My height probably does have a negative effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:44 PM
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Yes if you have a unique face + 6'3+ height that can work. However both of those men have a unique face that is not "conventional", if they were ugly ugly they would also have no success.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:41 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:36 PM
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Foolish but understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:32 PM
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A lot of incels and I mean A LOT are actually tall. Short incels say it's all down to height, tall incels say it is all down to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:31 PM
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5'2" real womanlet hrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:28 PM
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If you are a good looking man it does not matter. 5'8" + good looking always beats tall + average looking. Face is much more important for your success as a man. I am just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:21 PM
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Getting your looksmatch doesn't count? Wtf. They say Chad fucks down all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:20 PM
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Lmao 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:18 PM
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That's so fucking wrong. There's no way he actually thinks that. More likely is that he just isn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:17 PM
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Yes. I am planning on getting a breast augmentation since they look so much more realistic these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:15 PM
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No it's not. Fucking 3 different women in 1 month is more than most incels and even regular men can dream about. You need to get some perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:13 PM
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That is a sign of pretty severe mental illness if you ask me. But what else do you expect tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:10 PM
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If I like him and he keeps getting rejected by other women I will have a fucking psychotic episode because WHY ISNT HE ASKING ME OUT.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:07 PM
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Yeah I actually need to see photos of these people to believe anything they say lol. It seems like a lot of them are full of it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:02 PM
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I am actually considering saving up for plastic surgery. I think getting halo effect treatment is worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:00 PM
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Lmao @ "I'm semi incel bc sex 1x per week is worthless!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:51 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:49 PM
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Yeah it does
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:42 PM
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Nope more like 100th time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:41 PM
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Time to have a mental breakdown 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:24 PM
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Yes ideal women are tall. I agree as a womanlet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:19 PM
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Does phone sex add to your count?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:30 AM
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Okay so I either have that guy or no one else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:28 AM
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I'm kind of surprised I'm getting downvoted. I wonder if it's from a male acct or a female one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:28 AM
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Plenty of guys are in the 7-8 range imo. Those are the guys I usually like the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:57 AM
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What counts as first option? The favorite option? I am just asking because I don't think this way. I have 1 option at a time. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:07 AM
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Oh yeah, I live in kind of a rural area and the vast majority of people are obese. In the city, over half are overweight or obese. It's called "the obesity epidemic" for a reason. It's actually crushing our Healthcare system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:46 PM
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She works 2 jobs and is probably sleep deprived and irritable. I don't know why her opinion matters. Most people have opinions and most people's opinions are completely worthless. In the grand scheme of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:04 PM
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BOWLING
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:45 PM
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Anal week is a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:43 PM
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Yeah I have to drink a caffeine sugar bomb to stay awake lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:39 PM
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If you do do a coffee date I don't recommend going to a chain coffee shop. Go to an independent one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:05 PM
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I'd be stoked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:04 PM
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Openness to new experience is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:03 PM
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They don't have a care free spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:55 PM
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They are all squares who can go die.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:49 PM
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Drug culture is high octane
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:47 PM
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Go do something square I don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:46 PM
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Warehouse job at amazon, pick to buffer/stow. Organizing packages to be delivered
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:44 PM
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Forget coffee dates. Go on a date to a hotel where you both do drugs and fuck. I did this and now I am getting married to that guy. Poor life choices are a natural aphrodisiac
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:04 PM
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No I started a very physical side job though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:53 PM
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She's a little hotter but not enough for them to not be basically looksmatched. She's like .5 hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:37 PM
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Yeah RP seems to think casual sex is the holy grail. No it can often be underwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:22 PM
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It's still cap to say we don't enjoy it or don't care about it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:19 AM
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I was in therapy for like 8 years and only got a bunch of medication that made me feel worse ultimately. Benzos are a bitch to get off of. Lamotrigine is awful, Lexapro can kiss my ass. The only good thing I got put on was adderall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:29 AM
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I prefer mentally ill levels of low inhibition where they regularly ride the line of what is socially acceptable to say. That shit feels almost as good as a line of pure s isomer ketamine. I get blissed out over guys like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:28 AM
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IA?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:20 AM
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I asked my coworker about his bodycount because we were talking about dating, he said 22 and I called him a slut. Dumb shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:55 AM
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I am trolling lol. I don't give dating advice anymore, guys don't listen anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:54 AM
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I didn't realize guys were okay with getting puked on. Interesting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:53 AM
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I'd be more into rough throat fucking if it didn't make me nearly puke every time I tried to deepthroat. I feel like it would be 1 thrust and there'd be a volcano of puke coming out of me. Edit: also ass eating has been really popular for a few years. Many young women probably had early sexual experiences involving that. So whatever is trending in porn starts to become something people actually do IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:44 AM
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I am assuming those people have a higher stress tolerance than me. I don't dislike people who do that or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:30 AM
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Some guys don't even bother to ask before c*mming on your face. It's just normal behavior imo. Some people online were like "you really let guys do that to you?" I'm like "it's kind of expected isn't it?" It was mostly for the lols anyways I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:25 AM
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I just feel like men with mental illness issues "get it" or had similar experiences to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:23 AM
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My high school relationship was someone with cluster B personality pathology (BPD or NPD) and the emotional abuse from that at an early age caused horrific trauma and my brain has been broken since. Now I just want to date drug addicts and other damaged people because they are "on my level".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:11 AM
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I used to give ranked advice based on the guys' rank to me. If I think he deserves a gf I will give him better advice, if I don't care about him I'll give him whatever advice, and if I don't want him to ever get a gf I will give him the worst advice possible to set him up for failure. Do other people not do this???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:56 PM
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This is why women shouldn't marry hoe men. This right here, the entire post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:48 PM
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White women I know all care about looks primarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:37 PM
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Nope it was the old man sperm. I always had issues even as a toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:37 PM
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I think women have it easier, but in my personal experience as someone who likes to date maniacs, it's definitely not that easy. In fact most of my experience is with dating men suffering from mental illness problems so I'm not actually a good person to ask this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:32 PM
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Can I sue my dad for having me later in life? I think his old man sperm fucked me over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:15 PM
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There are plenty of attractive guys IRL. Who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:12 PM
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Yeah but a lot of guys are not willing to go out and meet people if there's no express intent of having sex immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:05 PM
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How is actually getting something out of using the app less good than getting nothing out of it? Most guys would like to have at least a few options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:52 PM
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How old are they? If they are 50+ yeah having kids is a stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:48 PM
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A lot of women think they can handle NSA sex but later discover they aren't happy with that arrangement. Him being married makes it way too complicated. If she catches feelings, not only will she likely never be with him, she is also making herself unsympathetic to anyone she wants to talk to about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:45 PM
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I don't want to get involved with married men. They don't have enough time on their hands to waste with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:17 PM
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IRL is so much better than tinder it's crazy. Better quality men with better intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:16 PM
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I just stop talking to him if he is bad. I had a lot of male friends and was always meeting new people. I am not too upset if it doesn't work out, there will always be more guys I think are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:09 PM
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I would just choose the best looking single male friend I had for FWB. It has worked so far, I have gotten relationships out of trying to do casual with my male friends before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:05 PM
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A lot of people are happy to cohabitate indefinitely. That's not really giving up on BEING married, it's just not having it be a legal contract or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:49 PM
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Ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:39 PM
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I tried to have a hoe phase but ended up getting cuffed pretty early into it. Foiled again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:35 PM
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All the guys I have asked out have ended up being disappointing so I stopped tbh 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:31 PM
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I dont value men for their money. I value them for their looks. A hot guy who is poor is better than an ugly guy who is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:12 PM
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Yeah I am not aware of "pump and dumps". I've always been the one to dump the guy. No one has pulled a fast one on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:03 PM
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A lot of women tell their friends to have one after a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:02 PM
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Being valued for your looks >>>>> valued for your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:58 PM
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What threshold?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:56 PM
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A lot of people talk about it and encourage it. It's when you pursue casual sex with no intention of a relationship for at least a fee months. 1 hookup doesn't count as a hoe phase imo, despite what guys on here think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:55 PM
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I get a lot of attention. I am just selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:51 PM
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I did for years as a broke college student. Now that I have 2 jobs I no longer qualify. Medicaid actually saved my life in the hospital with dialysis and stuff during my accident. Now that I can't have it for free anymore I just say throw me in the trash and let me die instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:47 PM
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Yeah lol. You don't have to date people you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:41 PM
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Apparently you can't buy a house with it. Solution: don't get married
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:36 PM
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My life isn't real life then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:35 PM
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Lmao the guys made it awkward in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:35 PM
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Works for me bc idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:34 PM
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More commonly she has her next bf waiting in the wings for her to dump her ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:55 PM
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It just seems like a low IQ thing to do. Makes me respect him less.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:25 PM
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I rarely am interested in more than 1 person at a time. I can't even wrap my head around dating 3 at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:32 PM
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I think they are missing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:30 PM
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This happens to me every time I become a repeat customer of a guy I am hooking up with. After a few months we upgrade our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:29 PM
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Because they made it awkward lol! Guys who are good in bed and respect boundaries and stuff will get me as a repeat customer, and every time I've been a repeat customer I became his gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:28 PM
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The most popular people in my high school were either popular because they were good looking, sporty and also good looking, and the less attractive popular kids were the class clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:20 PM
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Swallowing and facials were pretty normalized by the time I was 17. So I can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:14 PM
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In Italian culture it's seen as degrading. Ever watch the Sopranos? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-q3hK286j0
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:12 PM
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I've been called a slut, whore, all kinds of things when I was a virgin or low-n. So I really don't take guys who say this shit about women seriously, they will often make shit up in their heads to justify calling a woman a slut. Ya'll have made me stop taking you seriously at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:08 PM
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I never used a hookup app or an online dating app seriously. It was just window shopping for me. I met guys through my social circle and that tends to work to weed out guys who are just in it to hit it and quit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:06 PM
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I really can't help it, there's nothing worse than an awkward hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:56 PM
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Then I continued the sexual relationship with them and ended up being their gf after a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:51 PM
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It actually doesn't even matter if the woman is actually slutty or not, many virgin and low n women have been called sluts by their boyfriends during heated moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:49 PM
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One of the biggest c words (rhymes with "hope") men ever came up with is that women are not interested in sex. I definitely am, I always want to be with a guy who can keep up with my heightened sex drive, I am not interested in low libido men at all. You are probably physically attractive so you know lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:45 PM
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I am a high libido female so one of the most important things to me is sexual compatibility. It's one of the first things I screen for in my potentials. I am not interested in being with a low libido man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:40 PM
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I think most guys think that early 20s women are going through a hoe phase because most single women at that age are. But the vast majority of early 20s women are in long term relationships, there's statistical evidence for this and it's been true in my lived experience as well. Almost all young women are in a relationship, and if they break up, it won't be long that she is on the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:36 PM
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Everybody is shallow to some extent so I don't see this "you dodged a bullet" thing as particularly compelling as a comfort tactic. I can see why people would think it's a "bullet dodged" if your girlfriend lost attraction to you due to you being emotionally vulnerable or going through some stuff. But getting rejected outright for height or physical attractiveness? That doesn't mean she's some awful woman who isn't worth anything. Just like how most guys would reject a morbidly obese woman, do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:31 PM
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I feel like when I am flirting with a guy, say at work, I build up a rapport with him and start teasing him, hoping to get a reaction out of him. I think I am fairly blatant about it, but just enough ambiguity to give me plausible deniability if he seems like he will reject me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:27 PM
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Yeah that is true, we hurt people we care about the most. But complete indifference doesn't feel good for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:22 PM
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No I usually hook up with someone in the hopes that we can keep having a sexual relationship. So FWB/more sex with them in the future. Guys who made it awkward turned me off so I was no longer willing to be a repeat customer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:20 PM
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If the hookup was awkward, I never want to talk to them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:03 PM
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And? Why should I care about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:37 AM
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I treated my hookups a lot worse than my bfs. Because I ghosted them immediately and didn't reply to their messages. At least I care about my bfs opinions lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:02 AM
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Show me the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:26 AM
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Isn't that like 10 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:26 AM
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I only date 1 person at a time. I meet someone and they seem interested in me + I find them physically attractive. I start flirting with them back until they ask me out. Relationship. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:02 AM
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You mean the old OKcupid study? No one uses OKC anymore. Many guys take shit photos, esp 10 yrs ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:52 AM
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BTW every time this gets brought up I recall an obese guy I used to know in high school who thought a 7/10 was just "okay".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:45 AM
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Please provide statistics to support your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 01:43 AM
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I've seen more men fighting against other men on here. But there are a lot more men on here than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:41 PM
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Social skills maxx 1st.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:28 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:35 PM
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Don't you know, having a job and having had sex before means you are unworthy of love, respect, or effort? NEET virgin women or BUST!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:29 PM
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Hoe men are pretty cool imo. Except when they demand virgins. That's just entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:17 PM
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Yeah he proposed to me like 2.5 weeks ago? We looked at engagement rings on Sunday. I think I want an oval shaped stone (probs getting a synthetic diamond)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:14 PM
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I think I will do the dumb thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:10 PM
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No, no. They were also high inhib.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:08 PM
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Sounds exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:08 PM
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Do the other men with Selective Mutism have gfs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:03 PM
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Yeah I used to know a couple virgin guys. They wouldn't stfu about how upset they were about being virgins. I was like wow this shit is annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:01 PM
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SM?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:59 PM
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I started with cigs. But now I'm vape only. I got to my lowest weight 2x while on vape, I was still normal weight on cigs. Sometimes you just stop caring about food because you don't feel like going to the store.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:59 PM
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High inhib guys give off this "I don't like sex at all, never think about it" aura just by the way they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:56 PM
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Asking for nudes and sex directly is the bold part.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:55 PM
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I vape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:52 PM
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You have to build up a rapport with her before you start asking for nudes and sex. That is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:51 PM
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Why are high inhib guys so unsexy? Has anyone figured it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:43 PM
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I have definitely lost weight visibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:32 PM
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It's mostly just dumb shit about "go to therapy", "respect women" and other dumb copes that don't work. My personal opinion is that they need to find a way to lower their inhibitions and become more impulsive. I prefer low inhibition behavior, part of what intrigued me about my fiance is that he never seemed like the type of guy to just flat out ask for a hookup. So I wanted to find out what that was about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:30 PM
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He's not ugly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:26 PM
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I would still be jealous. I want to be the skinniest person in the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:25 PM
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What does that have to do with flirting?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:24 PM
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you mean if he wasn't tall, fit and cute? yeah, nah. I feel like a lot of guys on here who go on about how ugly they are probably aren't that ugly though. I've hung out on incel forums and a lot of them are decent looking, definitely not barred out from having sex by their looks alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:21 PM
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Lmao same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:19 PM
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Immediate jealousy of her because I have issues. No thoughts about her life. I'm very self absorbed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:16 PM
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I am getting married to a guy I hooked up with impulsively. I guess that goes against the grain of what is typically asserted here. I think guys should be more bold in propositioning women. But maybe that doesn't work. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:15 PM
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I used to day dream about wolfpacks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:12 PM
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I think he is married? IDK, he saw the article I wrote about myself for the newspaper and my photo was on there too. It was basically like, "hey we are hiring this new reporter, look!" for 1 second.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:09 PM
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Ok I will try this week to go to a college bar. That's like 2 days from now though. Anyways I feel like this kind of claim can only be made with some kind of statistical data on age gap hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:07 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:05 PM
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I have to drive at least 20 minutes each day. I was actually really scared about falling asleep at the wheel, but I've been pretty alert when loaded with caffeine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:04 PM
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Wow that's healthy. Overwhelming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:03 PM
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He sounds lonely and like he wants to talk to someone. Also there's coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:03 PM
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(it's because they get to fuck the onlyfans girls they bring on their shows. I actually doubt it's for any other reason)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:02 PM
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Sometimes I wonder what happened to connections I made that never panned out. Did they decide I'm ugly after all and not want to meet me? Do they think I am stupid or something? Maybe they hate me because I am annoying. Then I remember, many men are just fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:01 PM
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We rent, so no one owns it and both our names are on the lease. It's a pain to break a lease even if you are just with roommates. I don't understand. Many guys want a forever gf and not a wife, why aren't you happier about this? Just be grateful and stfu.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:59 PM
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Yeah he became a bush pilot in the 1960s or something like that and went to the Yukon. He has 2 kids, 3 grandkids, and (I think) 3 great grandkids? I might get coffee with him at some point. Man I love coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:55 PM
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Are there any statistics to back up your claims? Like actual data.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:53 PM
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IDK I'm marrying a guy I impulsively decided to hook up with one time (and many more times afterwards). I think sexual attraction can easily lead to love if you are open to it. I really don't understand what other people are doing tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:47 PM
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I read that book when I was 16. It's actually pretty disgusting the way the violent acts are described, the movie was downright lighthearted in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:41 PM
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This small local author who is like 80 years old decided to call me at work and just spent 17 minutes telling me weird stories about his past. I couldn't understand half the shit he said tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:39 PM
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But I'm bored and want things to get shaken up. I need to find ways to fuck up my life on a budget
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:32 PM
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I don't sleep that's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:31 PM
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inb4 he shits on me for being a drunk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:30 PM
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I don't have anything in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:19 PM
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Nope never. i never did it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:18 PM
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I'm delirious so it's OK
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:41 PM
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They are basically the same except he would be saying horrible stuff about me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:37 PM
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What so praise kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:36 PM
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I don't even gaf about the downvotes. Fuck it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:18 PM
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Does that mean Jesus is the most likeable person of all time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:17 PM
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You sound like a snoreathon. Give me a real reason
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:13 PM
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Yeah but like... being more popular and well known inherently makes more people like you. Do the people who hate you, do their opinions factor into your likeability score?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:12 PM
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I actually might be starting a manic episode rn so that's why my thoughts are so fast
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:10 PM
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I am sleep deprived so I am liable to say some really dumb shit today. Should I ask my man to verbally abuse me in bed? I randomly thought about it the other day and was like "hmmm... maybe I should do that". Is that the sleep deprivation making me do something I will regret? I think I might be going insane!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:06 PM
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But doesn't your likability score go up depending on how many people like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:03 PM
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I can't work this much without some chemical assistance. Request denied
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:57 PM
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TFW Ted Bundy is more likeable than me... 😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:56 PM
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Yeah I can't fall asleep even though I should be exhausted. Eventually I take enough benadryl to KO me but I wake up with a pounding heart every day. I think I might start abusing adderall instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:54 PM
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She's the real beta bucks in that situation!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:52 PM
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Most people don't give that much of a shit about someone they don't like. I've noticed the same behavior in men who like me as well. It is not the same as basic human behavior at all, especially nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:48 PM
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Yeah I drink triple shot espresso Starbucks energy drink, 2 per day. 1 to wake me up, the other to keep me going because I have so many hours of work left to do. I've slept a total of 10 hrs in the last 4-5 days. I still don't care I just want more money *additionally I will have at least 3 cups of regular coffee or an energy drink when I start my main job
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:46 PM
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No I have compartmentalized the internet world and the real world pretty well, there's no disconnect for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:40 PM
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Every guy I ever dated would be able to answer these questions pretty easily after dating for less than 3 months. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:40 PM
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Like I am always looking at them, paying attention to everything they say, remembering things they said before. Sometimes I like to try to be annoying to them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:39 PM
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Well he did go to jail for several years
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:38 PM
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Surviving on caffeine and dreams
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:35 PM
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OH YOU STRUCK THE UNHOLY GOLDMINE. DISH!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:29 PM
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I meant dick giving skills not dick size lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:28 PM
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This is why I'm working 68 hr weeks now. All I can think about are those fat stacks of cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:27 PM
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I will pay a lot more attention to them. If they are too dumb to figure it out, then fuck it, I can afford to miss out every once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:27 PM
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What about letting crazy stick its dick in you? Why do people never talk about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:25 PM
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I'm legit sad I never got to be anyone's relapse bae lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:19 PM
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I agree, it's likely the same for men as for women. Mentally ill people are down to clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:07 PM
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Because they have done so much degenerate shit, it shows they are open to trying anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:06 PM
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Hell yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:05 PM
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People like the novelty of fucking new people from time to time. Many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:04 PM
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She actually looks less heavy than 200 lbs at 5'3''. I expected her to be made of flab. She just looks like an average american.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:02 PM
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I wonder if mentally ill dick is considered as good as mentally ill 😾.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:58 PM
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Most of my female family members skipped "alpha fucks" and went straight to "beta bucks". Except my sister and my crazy cousin, both of whom had a kid out of wedlock and are/were single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:50 PM
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I miss Bobby Shmurda. I actually believed him when he talked about murdering people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:49 PM
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What's the point in asking? They usually have a specific set amount of time before you get a scheduled raise of a set standard amount. I don't work at fancy jobs like you guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 04:31 PM
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Some guys on here are legitimately delusional tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:45 AM
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Theres a lot of statistical evidence that shows poorer life outcomes based on short height in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:32 AM
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Part of me thinks that guys who are really funny, like the kind that actually makes you snort laugh like an idiot in public, are like that naturally. Like they are just like that. Is that not true?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:02 AM
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A woman having an affair is more likely interested in her AP because of the way he makes her feel Is that not tingles?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:39 PM
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Wow you come off as really not great in this lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:28 PM
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Affairs happen and they don't necessarily mean pure sex. Many times, the AP can manage to poach your husband or wife. It's not common but it does happen. A woman having an affair is more likely interested in her AP because of the way he makes her feel-- not necessarily just the sex she's getting on the side. Men are worried about their wife having sex with another man because that means he may end up with a bastard affair child in 9 months. Women are more worried about their husband valuing the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:09 PM
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But then schizos online couldn't make rants about n counts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:22 PM
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He looks goofy in a cute way imo. Kind of reminds me of this cute guy I used to work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:40 PM
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the second one is better for a first date. you can make it memorable. dinner at a nice restaurant should be date 3, 4 or 5. imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:37 PM
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He looks like Linguini from Ratatouille.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:23 PM
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He's not hideous lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:22 PM
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oh wait he's a groomer? nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:21 PM
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He's not even that bad, he has a couple of attractive traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:11 PM
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You seem like you have a kink for slutshaming ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:05 PM
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Didn't you dump her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:03 PM
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Thats for people who stop tracking when they hit their goal weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:02 PM
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Guys usually still whine about how she was the one for them years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:38 PM
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I'm still fat tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:29 PM
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I see how it is 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:20 PM
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I actually don't know since I can't weigh myself rn (no scale). Probably like 24 or 23 though, at best. I'm also short so my sedentary TDEE is very low. I wanted to lose weight as fast as a tall person, so I started taking short cuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:19 PM
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I def need a step tracker now. I've been putting off getting one for months lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:14 PM
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I'm still working there full time. I started a side hustle at Amazon to start building up a savings account in case there's an emergency.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:06 PM
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I am trying to earn more money so I don't have to drain my bf as much. ARE YOU TELLING ME THAT MEANS NOTHING
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:00 PM
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"I can make him worse-maxxing"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:58 PM
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I actually need to figure out how many calories I'm burning at my amazon shift
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:58 PM
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Just existing, going to work, dealing with responsibilities, facing challenges. NEETs probably don't mature as much as working adults do, you're right there. But there still would have been challenges they had to deal with as they got older. I've also noticed people who became parents too young tend to be in arrested development more often. It's like they are stuck at the age they had a kid at forever. Even if they took on a lot of responsibilities and stuff, their ability to manage their (inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:54 PM
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No I just notice that I feel more like I am going to pass out when I skip eating for that shift. Which isnt good bc I still have more shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:49 PM
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Not necessarily. Also, most 20 year olds don't have enough life experience to be really mature like a 40 year old would. There are definitely a lot of people who never grow up beyond being a teenager, even when they are 50. But the opposite isn't really true, mature people are just "mature for their age" not "mature in general".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:44 PM
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I just had the unfortunate realization that I can't starve myself and work at Amazon. RIP leanmaxxing 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:41 PM
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Part of me wants to say she should like funny guys, but I think that would qualify him as a dancing monkey. Even if he's naturally just a funny guy. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:12 PM
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He was probably studying some yee yee ass bullshit in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:40 PM
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Hey she was probably only below average when she was in her 20s rather than hideous like she is now. Many guys like below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:38 PM
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Money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:37 PM
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I want to turn a good guy into a drug fueled psychopath. Corruption kink
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:36 PM
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Most guys. Probably bottom 5% can never get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:34 PM
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It's like if Jeff Bridges made a baby with John Goodman. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:32 PM
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I was just thinking about this schizophrenic woman on Twitter who kept saying nonsensical racist stuff about black people and triangles and weird shit like that. Is this similar?
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:04 AM
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Nobody wants to be seen as low status really
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:47 AM
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Just commenting here to remind everyone I like hoe men, with 3-5x my own bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:45 PM
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I just worked a shift at Amazon and now I'm at my main job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:04 PM
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That's his only reason for doing those things? Everybody loves money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:53 PM
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my feet hurt :c
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:35 PM
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So it's like MENSA vs Triple Nine Society, but with financial success instead of test scores
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:13 PM
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What age range are you going for?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:00 PM
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IDK if I count as high n, but my last +1 was 4 yrs ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:41 PM
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Nah, men totally don't see women as the physical manifestation of beauty and bliss and one of the most motivating force on the planet, naaah. They don't lol. Where did you get this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah he's above average. He should be able to get better results from irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:32 PM
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I am actually not sure. Today we just sorted through packages on a conveyor belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:27 PM
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I am a DSK-4? Basically a warehouse worker
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:43 PM
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I didn't react. I just carried on like normal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:41 PM
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Wouldn't be surprised if the guy I'm talking about is dead tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:41 PM
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Empathy is a bullshit word used by manipulative people to get their way more often than not. I don't buy into it at all, I'd never trust a man to be empathetic to me. Because they literally can't. The two sexes do not have any empathy whatsoever for the other. It was always this way and it will always be this way. No trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:46 PM
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If a guy trauma dumps on me like this one guy I used to know, it will be very entertaining. He got blacked out on benzos, started crying and cutting himself over voice chat. That shit was wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:40 PM
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Planning on getting some adderall to make it more tolerable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:35 PM
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Yeah early morning shifts before my main job. I'm working 70 hrs every week now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:35 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:34 PM
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2nd day. Yesterday was sitting through many mind numbing videos
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:33 PM
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I actually don't have a step tracker
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:33 PM
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Sorting through Amazon packages is actually mind numbing lol. Extremely repetitive. Better than customer service tho ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:42 AM
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Idk I think if I was single and 30 I'd probably just give up on dating and start grinding, keep hustling, and shoot for my dreams. God's got a plan for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:41 AM
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My guy used to be blackpilled apparently before he met me. Now he's bluepilled. I only recently discovered the blackpill and told him about JBW theory and he was like nooooooo not true. Didn't even know what JBW was. How do u be blackpill w/out knowing that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:37 AM
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Lol yeah there are a lot of short guy lovers on here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:35 AM
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That doesn't describe my man. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:46 AM
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Lmao you clearly never met a BPD man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:54 AM
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Damn that's rough. Glad I didn't get in too deep with opioids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:47 PM
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I thought the scenes where they smoke crack and Jonah hill and Leo DiCaprio are high off their ass on quaaludes was funny af. I couldn't stop laughing, I also took inspiration from his drug abuse, that "I WILL NOT DIE SOBERRRRR!!!" scene stuck with me. I watched it before I did drugs, then I did them and it was similar to how it is in the movie. Straight to the cerebral palsy phase! I just enjoy the hedonism and debauchery tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:19 PM
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Many of these guys care a lot imo. They are super anti non virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:14 PM
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He got on my nerves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:11 PM
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He was low key kind of a bitch ngl for complaining about people caring about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:09 PM
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Nah being desirable lowkey sucks. My desirable male friend was always upset and disgusted by all the average women who liked him, and was constantly having to deal with people wanting his attention. Heavy is the head that wears the crown.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:03 PM
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He went out of his way to hurt other people for... not being virgins. Wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:02 PM
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He had some kind of trauma around girls he knew growing up not being virgins so he decided to start treating them badly to push them away and then he decided to date them and cheat on them to punish them for not being virgins. Very insane imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:35 PM
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Yeah that guy was sexually successful. The sexually successful men on here are extremely disordered and unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:31 PM
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How does your height qualify you for anything. Like really
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:18 PM
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Have fun with your hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:46 PM
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Def
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:44 PM
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I just think guys who use hookers are low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:41 PM
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Yeah but spending money on sex which you can get for much less money from a real person, that's what's wasteful. Also he could potentially be a sex addict with a hooker habit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:21 PM
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It just shows overall wastefulness
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:13 PM
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Honestly I don't judge internet people for what they do but a guy who has seen an escort is a no go for me. It shows bad values imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:07 PM
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This one guy made a post in the daily chat last week that actually brought back a ton of bad memories. I'm like oh, I've seen this thought process before. The cluster B personality pathology is actually really disturbing imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:03 PM
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Feed it to chatgpt
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:57 PM
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Who does age well?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:36 PM
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CHAD ALERT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:31 PM
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ONLY PRIME STACY IS WORTHY!!! REEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:23 PM
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No a lot of them want multiples
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:21 PM
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Hm... not irl incels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:17 PM
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No they want every single woman to find him and him alone desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:14 PM
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No even incels rate harshly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:13 PM
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I actually have no way of knowing if the girls I meet are attractive to guys here since guys seem to rate faces more harshly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:59 PM
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That shit is weird dude
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:57 PM
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I finally met some people around my age after months and they're not bad looking. The girls are kind of cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:56 PM
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Unhinged tortured genius maxing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:44 PM
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Active interest is necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:43 PM
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I'm not physically addicted to anything so no need for rehab. Just do drugs for fun sometimes but take it too far and almost die sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:43 PM
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Does anyone have a Twitter account from a schizophrenic person posting fucked up shit all the time? Really specific, but I want to look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:42 PM
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Men value sex a lot, to the point where it blinds them to some things. Men also care even more about bodycounts than my psycho ex who accused me of lying because I "seemed like I liked to fuck" he had BPD so that's why. A loooot of guys on here sound disordered. Not all, but definitely a lot. It's like a sneak peak into a mentally ill man's brain. You guys are mentally ill ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:38 PM
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Honestly probs more k and adderall
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:33 PM
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I have sober phases but I always go back at some point so lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:21 PM
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Why would you date a girl who banged your friends tho? Makes no sense tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:43 PM
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Choir girls are all secretly whores tho. Every type of woman you can think of is a whore. AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:06 PM
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Oh that's pretty reasonable. Nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:24 PM
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What counts as high n to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:23 PM
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I'd have to get money + time for all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:04 PM
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So I'm assuming this will be flaired as QFM so I'm writing here. I'll probably work myself into the grave chasing that bag + die of substance abuse issues just being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:44 PM
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I think most people can look good till 40. Maybe I have weird taste, I didn't used to like older people that much. The main problem is that people start piling on weight at 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:16 PM
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You really seem to have a thing against high n women lol. A bit intense imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:11 PM
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I'm just trying to figure out why it's always a high n woman with a low n or virgin man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:43 AM
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Yeah that seems like a common theme. Lies or lies by omission, then someone they both know finds her porn video and shows it to him. It seems like these are nightmare scenarios that most guys are scared of. I am not sure why my bf seems to like them, he thinks they are funny and gross stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:39 AM
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Hmmm nah. Not for me. Usually they don't like my guys either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:36 AM
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I'm disturbed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:05 AM
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Ever do group sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:31 AM
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Yeah but these businesses want their money rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:59 PM
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I'm just trying to see if guys dislike gangbangs more than high n but no gangbangs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:50 PM
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My man will sometimes send me these reddit stories of girls getting outed to their boyfriends for being promiscuous. There's ALWAYS a gangbang involved, so I figured there was something about having sex with multiple guys simultaneously that makes men uncomfortable. It's definitely an American thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:43 PM
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It's a hypothetical to see what men think about gangbangs. I had a feeling most guys would dislike the gangbang girl more even if she has a lower overall bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:45 PM
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Oh yeah and they'll want to be keeping up to date on their fashion, buy more luxury goods, spend more on beauty treatments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:04 PM
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My way of looking at it is if there's a cultural push for something, look at who is profiting. People having a hoe phase and going on a lot of dates are spending money at restaurants, bars, take out. They need to go in for STD tests more often. They are just out there spending money. Whereas someone who's not promiscuous is probably not spending money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:55 PM
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I think its the fact that it's a taboo act involving multiple guys. I think if she participated in group sex with one man and multiple other women, that's still taboo but less "icky" to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:26 PM
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I think promiscuity is profitable for businesses. Like tinder, bars, parties, alcohol, weed. Perhaps they want women to be promiscuous because it stimulates the economy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:09 PM
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Yeah it's a hypothetical, but I wanted to know if participating in a gang bang makes you less appealing than a woman with a higher n who had only participated in normal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:00 PM
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Yeah men are especially sensitive to being perceived as some chump marrying a low class woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:55 PM
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Idk I just use it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:12 PM
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Either that or she dumps them really easily. Seen that happen a lot. Thinks every new guy is her forever person, gets bored or monkey branches to the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:12 PM
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What age should these women be?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:55 PM
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I notice in a lot of those stories on reddit of the slutty girl getting outed for her past to her current LTR partner, there's usually a gang bang involved. I think those stories might be fake, but the gang bang part is interesting. It seems like a fear guys have of having that be revealed to them after they've decided to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:53 PM
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Yeah it's usually the number of men a woman has slept with. If a girl was in an LTR and had sex all the time with 1 guy that doesn't add anything extra for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:45 PM
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Interesting! I was under the impression that the gang bang is worse for most guys. In all those stories on reddit of a girl getting outed to her bf about her past, there's always a gang bang involved so I assumed that was particularly a big no no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:38 PM
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So you think the gang bang is better? I'm also not asking if they are marriage material, just which one evokes the most disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:35 PM
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Serial monogamist only dates guys for short term or long term (exclusive) relationships. They are mostly normal men. Gang bang was a drunken frat party idea. Those guys are mostly normal but kinda degenerate bc they participated in a gang bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:30 PM
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Q4M What's worse: A girl who had a gangbang with 3 dudes but that's her total bodycount A girl with like 8 bodies who's a serial monogamist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:22 PM
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Yeah most people I know IRL have way more than the average. I'm guessing there's a lot of boring small town people bringing the average down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:20 PM
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I think the standards for what's too high for men are higher than the standards for what's too high for women. I think men with 40 or more bodies are icky, but 20 is totally fine imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:15 PM
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They know promiscuous women will get wifed up. That's why they're upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:01 PM
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I'm not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:02 PM
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I will often act like I am non judgmental of the whole poly thing but deep down I judge the shit out of them. I just think they are wrong. Can't help it really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:16 AM
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I remember when Destiny and his weirdo wife went on there and talked about their polyamorous marriage. Was like ah so this is some new wave bullshit I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:42 AM
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I cant meet those guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:30 AM
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2 pump chumps are getting ghosted immediately. Small dicks? Ghosted. Weird balls? I'm going ghost! Yall don't realize how disposable most of you are sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:28 AM
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Sometimes I think reddit is better but I'm having nostalgia for the shitfest of Twitter. I miss the adrenaline rush of some guy getting in trouble for something, then the dog pile, then the "well actually hes ok", "I'm on team guy" rehabilitation tour
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:08 AM
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East Coast is better for being crazy that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:57 AM
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Twitter could get downright fucked up at times. Sometimes people would get canceled and end up offing themselves after being dogpiled and doxxed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:55 AM
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I feel like Twitter has more extreme mental illness than here, used to follow a schizophrenic woman who would post racist conspiracy theories 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:52 AM
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No I meet people as friends through my social circle or through work. Then I wait a month to decide if I want to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:51 AM
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Ngl you sound like kind of a wimp that's probably why they don't want to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:45 AM
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I feel like the guys on here could be a lot crazier ykwim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:31 AM
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Do you think 4chan still has quality posts? On /r9k/? I actually miss lurking on wizardchan many years ago, that place was extremely bleak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:22 AM
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Where can I find the most mentally deranged people to surround myself with? I'm looking to kick it up a notch and befriend some psychos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:17 AM
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Whenever a guy on here starts talking about rape I consider getting black out drunk because of how awful the shit they say is. I'd rather be obliterated than perceive this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:40 AM
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Weird. Sounds expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:38 AM
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Sounds like an actual escort type job. Like actually paying to be escorted places and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:16 AM
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Substance abuse is a good avenue for most of life's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:22 AM
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Yeah it turned kinda brownish but not brown enough ymto be brown ykwim.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:12 AM
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YES
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:02 AM
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From when I was 6 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:00 AM
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😏😏😏🤪🙊😈
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:45 AM
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I used to love this shit in fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:40 AM
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A lot of what you are describing could describe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:36 AM
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Therapy isn't about looking better imo. It's about trying to feel better and interface with the world in a more productive way. Essentially it's to make "problematic" people less problematic. Your productivity and not causing trouble is worth a lot to business owners.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:35 AM
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Promiscuous guys are fun at first but they bring a whole laundry list of issues and they never get over some of their past relationships. I would definitely beware them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:28 AM
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I think some people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:24 AM
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Shots fired
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:17 AM
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She definitely looks like she's going to head to a club. Not my fave aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:11 AM
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I mostly date guys from my social circle. I just pick the guy who seems interested in me who I think is attractive. It's a strategy for women that works incredibly well for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:09 AM
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I just think she could step up her fashion game.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:06 AM
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Her skirt is supposed to be short and hug her body, and yet it has flaps all over the place. Wrinkly. Top doesn't show off the boobs as well as it could, they look too separated. And the colors don't go together. Needs a darker red for the skirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:01 AM
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I mean I would call the guys I had crushes on my friends to people who I talk to about them. I'd be like "here's Kevin, he's my friend I met through xyz, blah blah blah verbal diarrhea"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:59 AM
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It's just not that good of an outfit tbh. She could get away with wearing revealing clothes if she got ones that are flattering
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:56 AM
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This is why you need to start a flirtationship. Then you can be friends but start building tension with each other. It makes everything more rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:55 AM
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Hard to say but probably like a 7. I think if she was dressed more classy she would look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:52 AM
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Enemies to lovers 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:51 AM
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I'd probably enjoy friends too if i was high on opium. Opioids make everything feel better, and okay. There's no pressing matters or stress on that shit. I can see why it's so addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:50 AM
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Yeah I have always done this. I date within my social circle or guys I meet at work mostly. I prefer playing it safe in that regard. Not in any other regard but in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:49 AM
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Makes sense, a lot of therapists aren't going to be a good match for every patient. Find one willing to tell a brutal truth, they are usually the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:46 AM
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Elliott Smith looks so cute in some of his appearances on television. He really had that "I'm suicidally depressed and hopelessly addicted to heroin" type of vibe. Probably due to his heroin addiction and morbid depression. Everything about his music is so devastating to listen to. He really understood how to pull on people's heartstrings while composing colorful, textured songs. A legit genius. He looks completely miserable here I wish I could see him perform live but he died in 2004.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:45 AM
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You have to be willing to do the work to get better. Many people who are blackpilled don't want to get better, they are just searching for temporary relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:27 AM
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Guys will have sex with women they don't find attractive too. That is their sexual strategy for "spreading their seed". It doesn't pay off evolutionarily to be picky as a male. Women are the ones who are after quality. They want the highest quality guy (in her opinion) to get her pregnant and invest in her. Men don't care about quality unless they manage to land it. Then they will consider commitment after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:21 AM
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Dishwater blonde. Ugly af. I dye my hair black these days
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:13 AM
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I have a naturally ugly hair color and texture so I stopped giving a shit about ruining it. Now that my hair is a lot longer I have to be more careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:07 AM
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Lol I think they are for furries
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:39 AM
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I assume they like ugly guys tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:32 AM
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No tail plugs then eh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:21 AM
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It's "whole" some so yeah why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:53 AM
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My fiance is attractive to me physically. It's his personality that I thought was incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:51 AM
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But I did hook up with him. Actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:50 AM
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If I don't like a sex act then I don't care if I get dumped for not doing it. So many people in my dms want me to do cuckold shit and I'm like fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:49 AM
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The only thing I've learned from this board is that if I try a sexual act and don't like it, I should never tell a future partner about it. Then we can not do it and he won't get FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:36 AM
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Anything is possible. I promise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:31 AM
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They look fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:00 AM
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Never get up. Keep grinding, keep hustling. Shoot for your dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:46 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:44 PM
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You lose lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:44 PM
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If all of them don't include removing clothing then I'm not interested!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:41 PM
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Did it include stripping
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:38 PM
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Yes!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:36 PM
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He's not ugly. But not hot either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:33 PM
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Idk I made male friends at work too. They are usually nice people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:32 PM
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Not long enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:30 PM
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More like a giraffe neck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:30 PM
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Is that first guy clay from 13 reasons why? He looks similar
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:25 PM
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Ever see a guy with a long neck and be like "ah yes, Supreme neck genetics"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:25 PM
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Never get up. Keep grinding, keep hustling. Shoot for your dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:18 PM
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I actually started choking. Funny response
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:06 PM
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It has a good ambiance imo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:59 PM
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I think he is against butt stuff. He's done it with his ex gf but isn't interested in it with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:48 PM
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I know that if I tried anal and I enjoyed it I would definitely be doing it with my husband. If it was a horrible experience I wouldn't be trying to relive it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:42 PM
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You know what would suck, if I died then found out the whole time I could have tried that stuff, but he was too afraid to ask 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:37 PM
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Oh yeah, a university near me has a legend that the clock will not go off after graduation if a virgin graduates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:32 PM
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I am interested in butt related activities (not pegging) but asking for consent/asking them if they are interested is too overwhelming
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:31 PM
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It follows is one of my faves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:29 PM
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A lot of these guys are disordered imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:28 PM
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I have made subtle attempts to get closer to that region before. Guys aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:23 PM
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It would actually be different than most of the posts on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:22 PM
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Doesn't matter, still had sex lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:19 PM
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Yeah my dad had her when he was a lot younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:18 PM
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I'm interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:16 PM
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Is there a significant difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:13 PM
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My take on teen love is that it drastically altered my entire life. I wouldn't have met most of the people I know now. I probably wouldn't have wanted to move far away. Etc. It was a huge part of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:06 PM
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They probably have some "you never know!" reason behind it. Like someone looking for hookups will be overtaken by romance or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:04 PM
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She is a lot older than me. She is almost 50 now. I am very close in age with my nephew.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:03 PM
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Yeah but they are the stereotype of a BPD person. They are known for causing problems. BPD is very destructive even if the person who has it is a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:00 PM
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And they won't let you filter based on relationship preference? Thats wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:59 PM
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IDK my fiance isn't someone I would have normally considered hooking up with, but I said "yes" to the new experience. He has a low n count and isn't super impulsive or whatever, so when he propositioned me I was curious. I think guys need to start being more bold in general. Fortune favors the bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:58 PM
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BPD guys are very successful, they can hurt a lot of people for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:55 PM
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I've met guys with BPD before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:48 PM
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He is an adult now, going to college online and he's moved to Europe and gotten married so that he can be on her visa bc she wants to be an English teacher. They were living in NYC for a few years before that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:47 PM
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Which is out of your control anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:43 PM
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She is way too intense and a "dangerous woman" as my fiance puts it. Very social and outgoing, but very emotionally unstable. She has horrific meltdowns on a semi-regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:41 PM
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Genetic determinism in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:40 PM
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lol but I did so I have a unique perspective on teen love. I met my fiance because of a larger social circle that I got through my first ex, so it's all connected. If I didn't meet my high school ex bf, I would never have met most of my friends or had most of the experiences that I did. He had a huge impact on my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:38 PM
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low key teen love can drastically alter the trajectory of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:33 PM
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I just want a high libido man who is good in bed. I already do a vetting process on the guys I go on dates with, the first date usually occurs at least a month after meeting and getting to know him. Why wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:26 PM
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What other filters do they allow? Sorry to be annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:23 PM
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Lol my sister was a single mom and she has a lot of personality issues so that colors my perception. I don't really judge them, I feel bad for them especially if they are young. They are in a horrible situation. Yes I'd date someone willing to raise someone else's kids. The guys who date single moms I don't really judge, I assume they know what they are getting into. It's just the drama that those couples end up creating. That is when I start being judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:20 PM
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Most people are "looking for long term, open to short term" (bc if the sex is bad they won't want to commit) or "looking for short term, open to long term" (bc if the sex is good they will want to put a ring on it).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:14 PM
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My standards for guys I'd go on dates with and guys I would hook up with are pretty much the same. After the hookup is when he can prove that he is a good long term prospect. My first date with my fiance was supposed to be a non-commital hookup. Why would I even bother going on a date with a guy I wouldn't sleep with. I am pretty selective with guys I will entertain for dates so why wouldn't they be (what I consider) attractive guys I could be sexual with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:07 PM
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Neurodivergent includes ADHD, which is actually correlated with being a teen father, an earlier sexual debut, and a higher partner count in men (also women). So yeah I also feel weird about it because I have ADHD, not autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:54 PM
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Yeah a lot of guys want to cause harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:45 PM
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Guys actually do hate women who are slutty. I have met them IRL and they still treated me like garbage even though I was a virgin. The hatred for women in general is very powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:36 PM
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I don't get approached that often anymore since I became a recluse so IDGAF if guys do it or don't. Just do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:05 PM
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At the library, a pumpkin patch, maybe Whole Foods. you know one of those wholesome places you can tell your kids about. You don't want to have to tell your kids you met at a swinger's club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:59 PM
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That's dumb. Incel means "involuntary celibate". Why do people keep forgetting about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:42 PM
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I dated a hoe man who didn't believe me when I told him my partner count. He was always trying to catch me in a lie about it, or accusing me of not caring about him. BPD men. Never again. But yeah it can cut your pool down a lot. But not enough for women to stop doing what they do. Honestly there are men out there who would wife up a heroin addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:14 PM
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I mostly like hoe men and even they don't like hoe women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:05 PM
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I've heard that in the media, but I know guys IRL, they definitely care. So when I hear people talk about how "the past is the past, it doesn't matter if someone has 300 bodies!" I am like haha, yeah there's no way. People IRL are not as strict about it as people on here though, 5 isn't really a number that people scoff at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:32 PM
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I'm actually surprised so many women are shocked that guys care about their sexual history. Women I know IRL actually will go back to have sex with their ex bfs because "it doesn't add to my count".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 05:20 PM
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They can't be called incels because they are high n. Anyone who would call them that is a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 04:39 PM
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You sound traumatized in your post ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:07 PM
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No i think people would still do the dumb thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:40 AM
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I didn't downvote you, you downvoted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:13 AM
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More money = better life. That is the simplest way to break it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:02 AM
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It's not abstract it's real now. Rich people own the companies and fuck us over at every turn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 12:53 AM
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I thought genuine physical attraction created the best outcomes. At the end of the day your money could be taken away, your status could be taken away, but only time or a horrific accident can take your looks away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:53 PM
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We are all being crushed under the capitalists' boots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:10 PM
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The goal posts get changed all the time for what counts as promiscuous. First it's over 3, then over 5, then IF YOU HAVE CASUAL it doesn't matter, you're a wh*re. Etc. Eventually you realize most of these guys actually want virgins and I'm like lol, where were these guys when I was a virgin? No one thought that it was a desirable trait other than fetishists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:51 PM
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I actually exclusively dated guys with bodycounts that dwarfed mine, they couldn't say shit to me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:32 PM
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Sex is sex to a lot of promiscuous women is my argument. People with 20+ bodies don't actually give a shit most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:52 PM
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Yeah they immediately site statistics for porn stars. People who do porn are a lot more likely to be addicted to drugs. Hence the ODs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:47 PM
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You guys still spend a lot of mental energy on them. Talking about how they have baggage, trauma, etc. The way you talk about them it's like, ah, so they wouldn't be fun to fuck either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:46 PM
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Every guy has a different definition of what counts as high n to him. So if one woman has 5, some guys think she is marriage material and other guys think she's for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:28 PM
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I googled the statistics and I found this article first: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201606/do-women-more-premarital-partners-get-divorced-less#:~:text=Although%20the%20study%20found%20that,three%20and%20nine%20premarital%20partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:50 PM
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A lot of guys are against casual sex. So they will never bother with someone they think is too promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:41 PM
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I meant entertain for a hookup as in have a hookup. Like people on here won't even touch a high n woman. Casual or not, doesn't matter: they don't want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:38 PM
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Yeah once you have a large number of women you've slept with you just kind of stop caring. Not always though, some guys are "rules for thee, not for me" like those guys on fresh and fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:01 PM
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I've heard married women with a partner count of 2 (so 1 guy before they met their husband) are the most likely to divorce. Also, porn stars are more likely to be addicted to drugs. So ofc they'd be more likely to OD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:06 PM
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I think those women do pretty well for themselves when it comes to getting relationships actually. That's part of the reason they have a high number. Usually they are serial monogamists though so they dump guys all the time. Many guys want to date them ime. I've never heard of a woman being rejected for a relationship due to her sexual history irl. Usually the guys that want to date them know about their past anyways. Guys that aren't interested in that don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:53 PM
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Many guys on here write screeds about how undesirable high n count women are. Unworthy of commitment, unworthy of love, unworthy of anything because they are: combative, masculine, career-driven, blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:40 PM
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Depending on the guy. Some guys love anal and think it's a plus, but other guys are like "wow what a whore". So in a different guy's perception you will be more dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:29 PM
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But spiritually it can add to your count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:25 PM
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I think most people do actually care, it's just the number that will make them uncomfortable is a lot higher than most guys on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:16 PM
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Yeah there are a lot of views on what even constitutes promiscuity. Some guys say over 3, others over 5, others over 10, and even others say that you're not promiscuous unless you have over 20 or 30. I can't deal with it tbh, it hurts my brain because every time I have a discussion about it with a guy on here, they have a different number that they are thinking of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:14 PM
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I just mean the cognitive dissonance that I personally experience from guys constantly changing the goal posts on here. Every guy has a different view about it, or what even constitutes a high n count woman. Many guys on here say over 3 or over 5 is high n, but my boyfriend and some other guys say that up to 10 - 12 is a normal number. I feel stressed out trying to figure out what guys are even talking about on here so I've just decided to give up on caring about it tbh!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:11 PM
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One guy I know was like "if she gives up her butt on the first date, that's not a keeper". So butt stuff clearly adds something bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:09 PM
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They certainly don't like them. They have a lot of disdain for that kind of lifestyle. Plus I'm using the language OP used in his title.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:07 PM
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Some of these guys are trying to save themselves for their future wives so I actually don't believe that. These guys probably wouldn't even be able to meet a promiscuous woman because their social circles don't overlap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:07 PM
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Wait really? So many guys on here say that over 5 is high n. I don't actually know any high n women then, I only know of one girl with an n count of 42+. Nvm then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:00 PM
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A lot of guys on here seem to hate them. As in they won't even bother entertaining them for a casual hookup. There's a lot of cognitive dissonance around promiscuity these days, I really can't keep up with it. So I've decided to stop caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:54 PM
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More like 8-12 guys. The one woman I know who had over 30 was trying to rack up a large number intentionally. Whether the guy was bad on purpose because they don't care or not doesn't make a difference, the end result is the same: the sex was disappointing. Guys will ghost women after the fact if the sex was bad or she pushed some boundary the guy had. I assume it's the same way for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:28 PM
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Women in my life don't really complain about being pumped and dumped, aka being ghosted after sex. They get strung along in situationships but they also are having sex with other people on the side as well. But I live in the Seattle area and I've heard the dating culture is different here than in other places. Most guys won't just give up sex unless the woman did something really bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:23 PM
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I'm not trying to convince guys to date high n count women. I just feel like this narrative that they are perpetually getting rejected seems a bit unrealistic. Especially since hookup sex isn't always the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:43 PM
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I get the impression that a lot of women decide to hookup with a guy, and he's bad in the sack. So they lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:37 PM
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I just get the impression that they don't care. They may not be being honest but I prefer to take things at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:28 PM
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I actually think a lot of women participate in hook up culture and don't get romantically rejected because they aren't actually seriously interested in the guys. A high n count woman I know had a roster of guys and she mostly didn't give a shit about any of them. Not sure why but I think a lot of women actually don't care about the guy(s) at all. You guys are the ones who act like promiscuous women are getting their hearts broken all the time. I actually don't think that's true. It seems like gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:04 PM
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It's hard to explain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:43 AM
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In my personal experience men don't gatekeep shit. I've been living a crazy life doing whatever the hell I want and now I'm getting wifed up. I could probably get a husband if I decided to do heroin or drive drunk and get DUIs all the time. Like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:03 AM
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I don't tolerate guys who are bad in bed as a high libido female. They get kicked to the curb real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:38 AM
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Some people on here actually make me want to scream sometimes. Condescending assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:37 AM
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Graduated college, participated in art stuff, was on the deans list. Normal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:29 AM
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Good things fall into my lap all the time, just like many horrible things. I just do whatever and whatever happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:17 AM
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He posted on hingeapp a couple weeks ago. I was like oh wow, this is a good example of a guy I think looks good. I use him to illustrate being a good looking normal guy, not a Chad but definitely very attractive imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:42 AM
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Lol no. My bf doesn't want his pictures shared on here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:18 AM
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<image> He is so attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:14 AM
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I never bought from these guys. I met them outside of their drug dealing job, usually at their regular job where I was also working. In that normal environment they were able to work their charms. I was like "oh he sells drugs... OK whatever". Great storytellers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:13 AM
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They looked similar to my handsome mustache man, without the mustache and more gaunt. They were 5'8"-5'11" in height.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:10 AM
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Lean cuisine is sub 400 cals per meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:02 AM
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I was trying to do low carb but I eventually gave up and kept cutting calories severely. It is too much effort to weigh ingredients. Sometimes I will make a salad with canned tuna or canned chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:59 AM
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Drug dealer although there is usually overlap between the two. I've dated drug dealers before. They are huge sluts, I love how slutty and degenerate they are. They make guys on here look like wimps tbh. Inb4 downvoted to hell
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:55 AM
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