Daily Community Chat Megathread

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-05T00:45:16+00:00

It's astounding to me how different the social experience is for men and women.

A man can go to some new group, class or meetup to try to meet new people and see women getting much more interest and people being much nicer, more likely to include her, more likely to invite her out to other meetings.

A mans at a bar or club for hours and have no one try to talk to him or engage. Meanwhile a woman will have dozens of men and women trying to talk to her.

This is the privilege and inequality that feminists and liberals need to focus on.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-05T00:40:55+00:00

How to trigger PPD men: tell them the most encouraging positive words ever

scwizard · 2023-11-05T00:40:13+00:00

https://www.cnn.com/2023/10/29/opinions/deepfake-pornography-thriving-business-compton-hamlyn/index.html

Crazy how life ruining deepfakes can be.

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-05T00:39:33+00:00

I've tried the Paco Rabanne 1 million flagrance (it's supposed to be the fuckboy flagrance). Still no girls approaching me; still didn't get laid.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-05T00:25:48+00:00

Daily reminder to make sure you’ve applied your deodorant

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-05T00:24:59+00:00

Women claiming they don't like the overly muscular look but then proceed to say Zac Efron (Baywatch) or Thor are not overly muscular really puts a light on how important visible muscles are for sexual attraction. When they say they don't like muscles they are talking about someone like Schwarzenegger or Ronnie Coleman.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-05T00:16:00+00:00

some chick on Twitter's bio: 20 y/o teenage girl🤭

just let it go sis

Maffioze · 2023-11-05T00:01:06+00:00

https://youtu.be/u8bHjdljyLw?si=KELFWKexj2iOxK3w

Ultimate French weed smoking song.

8mm_Magnum_Cumshot · 2023-11-04T23:55:04+00:00

three years of being blueballed by MAPPA, it's over at last thank god. i am finally free.

antisplatter · 2023-11-04T23:45:43+00:00

all mods are bastards

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T23:27:03+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SxsUhe/

Why the fuck would you put that in your eye like im literally freaking out watching this

MalandiBastos · 2023-11-04T23:04:34+00:00

SEA update:

Been back in manila for a month as of yesterday. Had sex with 9 women in that time. Could have been a few more but I canceled on a few, and because my main girl comes over on the weekend, which is prime time for meeting new women, as most people here work long hours on the weeks.

As I write this she is in the kitchen right now sweeping in a night gown I just got her yesterday. (Pink, very cute, and only cost 4 dollars). She has been over the last 72 hours. Things have overall been going well, but she can be quite annoying at times because of clingyness/immaturity. But as I was told before, "Dont get a puppy and be suprised when it barks and pisses on the floor". It just kinda comes with the territory of dating an 18 year old.

I got her a wax, her first one. At first she was afraid of the pain, but after she told me she loved it and how smooth she felt. 23 bucks total for full leg + bikini + underarm + face.

She has been helping me with my excersize, yesterday did a 4 mile walk together. We went to the mall and walked around.

One of the reasons was because I wanted to buy her a school girl uniform 😭. After we picked it out I took her to the changing room, but the attendant wouldnt let me go in with her and barked at me "women only, sir!" She was actually a little concerned, as I look like I could be in my 30s and she looks younger than her age.

Attendant: Youre getting uniform for school?

My bih: "Yes 😀"

Attendant: "And how old are you?"

My bih: "Almost 19! 😀".

Though it is actually plausible that she could be getting a uniform for school here, as 1 there are many people who finish highschool late gere, and 2, there are many catholic colleges here that require uniforms.

I can tell she is super in love with me, I am kind of considering having her move in, but she would have to do a lot for that to be worth it to me. She requires more training 😝

One last thing I wanted to talk about.

The level of fetishization towards foriegn guys here is crazy. A lot of people think guys only come here because they are the fetishizers, and sure in some cases its mutual. Personally I never found filipinas to be that attractive, the main reason im here is because I find them to be good enough, and theyre crazy over me. The comments I get here, well if it things were said from me to them instead, an SJW would want my head.

The last girl I had over admitted to me she only dates foriegn guys, and after I pressed her on it a bit for the reason why, she said "The truth is, I want mixed babies".

My main girl has made tons of comments like this. The one that stood out the most to me is "Dont worry love, money doesnt matter to me, I want your american genes".

A lot of women here will compliment my nose and say they want it, and that they hate their own nose. Or that if they had a baby they want them to have a nose like mine (lol). Most filipinos have flat noses.

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T22:58:16+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SxvCX9/

This is what they took from me

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T22:55:50+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SQ1rrM/

She is my older sister spiritually

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T22:51:29+00:00

I love jnroberts and 1herebach

SianOiseau · 2023-11-04T22:48:53+00:00

There was a very heart-warming thread on askMen about platonic female friends. Men talked how they got supported, listened to, cheered up, helped when they had suicidal plans, got gifts and company, food, hand-made gifts etc.

PPD men, what is the best thing your female friend has done for you?

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-04T22:48:34+00:00

Q4M: describe/show pictures of your idea of a good female body and a bad female body

CasseroleTruck · 2023-11-04T22:46:39+00:00

I've noticed a lot with both celebrities and people I've seen IRL, goodlooking people often don't have siblings of the opposite sex who are equally goodlooking (or at all). For example, take a goodlooking guy and his sister probably doesn't have the same appeal, and vice versa. I'm guessing it's because a guy is goodlooking b/c of the same features (masculine, robust, angularity) that make his sister look kinda off or manly. Conversely with a lot of attractive women with brothers, you'll see that the dudes look kind of blah, potato-ey or soft in the face, and it's this same softness that makes the woman attractive.

Also from discussion in another thread, I haven't noticed much of a correlation between the attractiveness of a pair of parents vs their kids either, just going by people I know and looking at their parents (pictures of when their parents were in their prime). There are probably good celebrity examples as well but I haven't searched extensively. One that comes to mind is Rob Lowe who is handsome but his sons basically look average or model Daniel Henney whose parents look average.

dbz__f · 2023-11-04T22:44:40+00:00

Taking photo of my car in parking lot so I remember where I parked it. Gf poses in the picture with one leg in the air and two finger peace symbol.

Female persons why are you like this?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-04T22:30:20+00:00

We do agree that a random 20 something woman who doesn't exercise at all, but eat well and make sure to stay at a healthy weight is going to have a much more attractive body (to the opposite gender I mean) than a man of the same age with the exact same habits, right?

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T22:17:19+00:00

How do i respectfully get my brothers to stop acting like bitches?? Like they are both friends with this 10 year old boy and they just let him walk all over them, he says dumb 10 year old stuff like do this or ill unfriend you on roblox and the worst part is that my brothers will literally drop everything to do what he says. Like we went out right now and the kid called them asking them to join his google meet and they both started glazing begging him for the code bla bla bla. Im not gonna lie I got the ick (in a familial way) I have discussed this multiple times but every time they misunderstand me and think Im saying they shouldnt be friends with him at all. But what i am saying is as a 12/13 year old boy WHY are you letting a literal 10 year old boss you around??

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-04T22:14:02+00:00

Q4W: To accompany the little poll below, what is according to you a good body when it comes men's attractiveness? Pictures would be appreciated but description in words is alright too

Edit: Bonus question: what is a bad body according to you? Skinny, obese, or something else?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-04T21:59:59+00:00

Why are women so complicated?

Why can't a man just walk up to a woman and tell her he wanted to talk to her cause she's hot? Why does he then have to pretend about caring about all the random stuff she's saying and entertaining her for hours when he just wants to be intimate with her?

Most men talking to her have to pretend to have some random reason to want to talk to her and that he is interested in some random thing about her other than the fact that she is hot, when he just talked to her because he thought she was hot.

Why can't women just be real and accept that most men are talking to her because of her body?

Maffioze · 2023-11-04T21:52:53+00:00

https://youtu.be/S-Xm7s9eGxU?si=TT5Yzd9V_j_WPQb-

Why is this song so depressing? It feels like the pointlessness of life but in a song.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-04T21:51:09+00:00

Have you ever deliberately tried to make your partner jealous? How did you do it?

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-04T21:49:26+00:00

In a thread about unrealistic body expectations for men. Woman says she doesn't find the Hollywood muscle body attractive and prefers natural. Proceeds to say The Rock and Chris Hemsworth are attractive because they are natural and somewhat skinny.

Women can really be the meme gender sometimes jfl

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GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-04T21:38:04+00:00

My little polls confirm my hypothesis that body is the most important aspect of men’s appearance, and all men really want is for women to be nice to them

meteorness123 · 2023-11-04T21:25:11+00:00

Truth : Women really like men that can talk/speak well and have emotional and social awareness

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-04T21:20:23+00:00

I work at a fast-casual restaurant and I’m so sick of women thinking I’m hitting on their boyfriends because I’m polite 😭 like it’s literally my job to be nice to you. I can’t imagine being with a woman like that is an enjoyable experience.

supremethrone · 2023-11-04T21:10:12+00:00

dude is broken so bad he started cuckposting

https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelExit/comments/17nmvx6/actually_felt_happy_for_another_guy_doing_well/

saulbasedman · 2023-11-04T21:09:20+00:00

How the hell does "Someone You Loved" by Lewis Capaldi have so many streams on Spotify? Such a simple song with only a piano. 3 billion streams.

Don't get me wrong it's good, but that's the 3rd streamed most song on Spotify. How? There's barely any rhythms that make you keep listening and wanting to replay it.

Bravo to the man though. He has every genetic disadvantage someone can get and is succesful.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-04T21:05:55+00:00

Grifters and scammers are not the same. Each requires a different skill set

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-04T21:05:43+00:00

Q4M: If you had to pick between the following women, which would you choose?

A) high n count, above average looks, treats you moderately well,

B) low n count, average looks, treats you moderately well,

C) medium n count, average looks, treats you exceptionally well

(Whatever those terms mean to you personally (with “average looks” being your personal 5), and for the sake of the hypothetical, she can’t improve on looks)

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-04T20:48:41+00:00

The initiated know the ego inflation that comes with a guy pulling a baddie just one time. It's like the super soldier serum for your confidence. Lol fake it till you make it my left asscheek. Once you made it you know you can and will do it again.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-04T20:46:22+00:00

Fat women live life on easy mode.

Admirable-Regret-499 · 2023-11-04T20:43:42+00:00

Trying to push through my social anxiety and went out to the bars after a long time. Everyone seems to be talking to the group they are with. Heres to hoping for a problem free and pleasant night

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-11-04T20:41:33+00:00

Who is your favorite Roman emperor?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-04T20:40:57+00:00

personally I think that if you think women generally are no good (valid opinion) but still want their attention for...some reason I think you should fleshlightmaxx

massive pros: constant post-nut clarity. you can perfectly curate it to your tastes. easy and takes no work (unlike women). you don't have to pay to have sex with it once you get it. you can put drugs in it. you can have many of them, this fulfilling your biological want to fuck as many pussy.

**USE IT WITH VR !!!!

doesn't this sound great idk why u guys don't fleshlightmaxx

scwizard · 2023-11-04T20:36:05+00:00

Of course "outing" people is legal in the US because of the first amendment.

But are there European countries where it's illegal to out someone who's closeted?

purplish_possum · 2023-11-04T20:32:04+00:00

I'm done with working but the earliest I can retire is still two years away and then I'd have to live on 45K per year (doable but not great). If I work five years past that until I'm 67 I'll have 100K per year to live on. The fucking bastards have me.

SianOiseau · 2023-11-04T20:31:49+00:00

Husband has gone to the gym, so I've made egg-fried rice with garlic shrimps for us to eat when he comes back. But it's already ready, he's not come yet and I'm hungry.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-11-04T20:31:29+00:00

You don't want a partner. You want a body who will sacrifice their time, energy and resources for you.

Maffioze · 2023-11-04T20:30:54+00:00

https://youtu.be/h4UqMyldS7Q?si=txJeoOZkAe_0Bkrn

This is such a classic.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-04T20:28:39+00:00

Women know lust is not love but why can't they process that love they have with that sweek, caring, reliable guy is also not love. It only seems to click them after they have been married for 5+ years with kids. Smh

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-04T20:22:15+00:00

Q4W: If you had to pick one of the following men to date, which would you choose?

A) Tall man, but bad body, mid face

B) Short man, good body, mid face

C) Mid height man, bad body, good face

ETA: all of them are slangin’

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-11-04T20:20:01+00:00

I just want someone to bring me a sandwich while I use sentient AI to take over the world.

happy_discus · 2023-11-04T20:12:46+00:00

Matched with a girl on bumble. She asked me if I think about the roman empire. I asked her about which period. She unmatched me. Same day some different girl matched with me, asked me a bit about dinosaurs and then just ghosted me.
Might delete the app again.

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T20:06:00+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8S9Pjdv/

Bro idec about the video the SOUND 💀 every time i hear this sound i bust out laughiing like who made this MY EARS GODD

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T20:00:02+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8S9rhSv/

FINALLY a man that gets it. PPD men take notess this is your duty

yellowho · 2023-11-04T19:55:30+00:00

If an incel rejects a woman is he still an incel or does he have to actually reject sex from the woman? What if he's just not attracted to her? Are religious people incels too?

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T19:54:56+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8S9SAk5/

Me bc i need to lock in and be serious like right now

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-04T19:49:21+00:00

Make obscene amounts of money and looks maxx to your limit,women don't care about your personality.

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T19:39:33+00:00

I am applying for a job I cant take this anymoree I hate being jobless

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-04T06:46:53+00:00

I hate seeing couples in public

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-04T04:07:14+00:00

Keeenw · 2023-11-04T11:16:28+00:00

A man who turned 35 and is serious about starting a family is not a misogynist or a creep for wanting a 5 to 10 years younger woman. He just understands basic biology.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-04T12:53:07+00:00

Lmao Youtube be calling me out, just got recommended a video "Worried about being single forever?"

afk_row · 2023-11-04T14:31:26+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/bdaxfcn9dcyb1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=78f458a696c9e3bc7366310b86c4e402bf51c74b

Thoughts?

8mm_Magnum_Cumshot · 2023-11-04T16:21:54+00:00

Being a stay-at-home boyfriend or husband is the most based male lifestyle and you cannot convince me otherwise. Being able to live without the 9-5 grind is incredibly liberating, you have so much free time on your hands to do the things you actually love. And there is no better indication that a woman loves and adores than her willing to open her wallet for YOU. You are flipping the traditional narrative of men groveling at womens feet by having a woman essentially simp for you.

Tradcucks can cope and seethe, enjoy being divorce raped in 10 years or so when the hoe that married you for your money has had enough of you.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-04T16:41:09+00:00

Just be tall bro

8mm_Magnum_Cumshot · 2023-11-04T05:30:18+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/CQ5GsI955JQ?si=8haUenbnKAildUXh

"This is why as a father, you tell your kids you love them every day. If you don't, someone who doesn't will."

"I'm a father of four. Three are girls. This hurts my heart. I pray for her and any others in the same situation."

"As a mother, this breaks my heart. She is someone's daughter too."

LMAO these comments are so cringe. I don't get why people patronize sex workers so much, they make bank doing what they do, and it requires no educational/professional qualifications.

Who are you to tell a stripper that flipping burgers 40 hours a week for 10 bucks an hour is better than working 2-3 shifts a week and walking away with hundreds of dollars in cash after every shift?

Is it really that difficult to understand that everyone likes money and sex isn't a big deal to many people?

Keeenw · 2023-11-04T10:17:13+00:00

I made another post about this yesterday but this is another perfect example of women shaming men for having preferences despite women having many preferences and standards of their own. Why should men be shamed to the point of “not being a good person” for having the preference of wanting a younger woman while it’s perfectly OK for women to want a taller/richer/better looking boyfriend ?

Are women that threatened by male standards ?

https://preview.redd.it/s4scrsat3byb1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ea3ba8f5524c1d771e5f5f9e4c1af1fa335d2811

Puzzleheaded_Sign_46 · 2023-11-04T18:46:21+00:00

would you say its disrespectful for a girl to organize a date with a guy from an app, hours before her previously planned second date with a different guy from the app?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-04T19:31:42+00:00

miss him so bad

https://preview.redd.it/m6sj5uvuudyb1.jpeg?width=1014&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=77708d3f0a8b03131c571972363794c0ef1bb65e

unironically half u bitches

dbz__f · 2023-11-05T02:02:03+00:00

New rule: if you complain about a man/men not cooking, then when he does cook, you have to try his food even if it’s bad. And you have to be encouraging, all criticism must be constructive. Deal?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-04T04:09:24+00:00

Dating a fattie woman be like

https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/17mqssd/feel_bad_for_the_guy/

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-11-04T04:58:23+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/7ekq6xp1j9yb1.jpeg?width=1300&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f9f946d6551ac08f828a9a12184d2131d3455b39

Damn. Women really do just wait at the finish line huh?

I'm sorry for not believing you, red-pillers 😞

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-04T07:34:21+00:00

Women are so nice to look at. Just watched a female friend make some food in the kitchen and her curves, her movement, her skin....Good Lord.

It's unfortunate that as a man, I'm scary and so I can't just sit and watch them...

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-04T10:57:14+00:00

Clean jokes are funnier than dirty ones. It takes effort to form a joke that’s funny but appropriate. Hearing tits, ass, abortion, 9/11, Hitler, penis, holocaust, war, etc gets old past the age of twelve.

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-04T14:05:47+00:00

Women greatly overestimate the effects of steroids and underestimate the amount of men who take roids.

They think any man who takes roids will start to look like Arnold Schwarzenegger. They think their favourite IG influencer or fitness model is natty just because he doesn't have bulging Mr. Olympia 3D muscles.

This sets unrealistic expectations for men who don't want to use roids or test and just want a lean body from lifting some weights. I have some nice shoulder and arms after going to the gym for 2-3 years and some women still think I don't lift weights and have those muscles from doing some other sports like swimming or running just because my muscles are not bulging or not that visible in a sweater.

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-04T15:30:52+00:00

Can women stop exaggerating when it comes to childbirth

There's 8 billion people on Earth

Its not that hard

saulbasedman · 2023-11-04T15:38:45+00:00

Daily reminder: judge people by their actions, not by what they say

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-04T15:39:11+00:00

Muscles are so hot. Men are so lucky that muscularity is a beauty standard, cuz they can just build a masculine body in the gym.

I had to push a 10lb kid out of my hoo ha just to get feminine hips, and I’m back to having no boobs

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-04T17:42:08+00:00

Billions must be saved

jay813x · 2023-11-04T18:42:50+00:00

I wish women would stop treating the daily thread like a blog lol

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-04T19:09:59+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/s/jdn4Eex7Y2

Whenever I see something like this I can't help but see women as baby making machine who will cook, clean, bring money and take care of the children. As most guy's want kids. She didnt even describe her BF as hot. Who wants to be that sucker. I guess this is most guy's faith.

Affairs looks way more promising as I keep encountering this kind of comments.

Must be hard living as a women, when you can fuck hot men but can't keep them. You can't even speak this is how you feel about your BF IRL with others . Otherwise you will be trashed by the society. You can't be your true selves around him.

It's so sad. And ADHD + autistic women looks like a fucking red flag.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-04T05:19:15+00:00

If I were a guy I would not date women who identify strongly with Marilyn Monroe.

Qu3stion_R3ality1750 · 2023-11-04T07:45:23+00:00

I'm actually considering seeing what's going on with dating apps these days, because I've no real avenue of meeting women anyways. I work up to 60 hours a week, ain't nobody got the time or energy to "form a social circle" when you're too exhausted with too little free time to do so by the end of the week.

I'm not going to be expecting much...

yellowho · 2023-11-04T09:35:31+00:00

If you wear contact lenses do you tell your partner that you wear them or just let them find out? What about coloured lenses?

I overheard a man say a woman had beautiful eyes and she had on green contacts. I would let them know if it was coloured but just normal lenses, no.

Sillysheila · 2023-11-04T10:54:30+00:00

Made some spicy sofritas tacos hot enough to burn my mouth off 🌮 and settling in with the husband to watch National Lampoon. Should be a good time.

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-04T11:06:28+00:00

A thought: If a younger (but still adult) woman is dating an older man primarily for his money, who's really in control and who's being manipulated?

WilliamWyattD · 2023-11-04T11:15:36+00:00

Watching an interview where Chris Williamson (hot guy) is interviewing a female sexuality expert. She asks him about what shocked him during puberty, and he joked about how he would get an erection so easily. She laughed.
I could see all the Blackpills and Doomers screaming about 'pretty privilege'. But they don't get it. The key thing is knowing your audience. Chris would not have made that joke to some 80 year old Nun or whatever.
The fact is, that most people do not want to imagine unattractive people having sex or being sexual. It triggers an involuntary disgust response. So yeah, there is a pretty privilege in this way. But get over it. Why do you want to make people feel badly in ways they cannot control?
This relates to guys being creepy because they hit on some Stacy the way Chad would. Accept you are not Chad and have different rules in some areas.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-04T15:02:17+00:00

Day four of NNN. Going strong.

That__EST · 2023-11-04T15:08:33+00:00

Yesterday I did a deep dive reading a lot of old posts on this sub about Paternity Fraud. And it left me wondering why we don't have mandated paternity tests at birth. Reading through the threads, there was A LOT of frothing at the mouth about disloyal cheating women who needed jail time or some kind of large financial penalty for paternity fraud and I don't necessarily disagree with those comments because a lot of them were well thought out and had a lot of merit.

But what I noticed was missing was the idea that women can't get themselves pregnant on the side and that behind every cheating woman partner is a man who likely knew she was married or taken, didn't care, and isn't sad that another man is taking on the fatherhood role in his biological child's life. Especially when it comes to financial support. I'm of the opinion that a lack of paternity testing isn't done for the benefit of children or women, but it's done because the men in power don't want it to be done.

The men who are getting away with having sex with women in relationships don't want to be found out and have to pay for it. For everyone saying that if women had to pay back child support plus interest it would heavily disincentive paternity fraud, I say that if it could be proven that the man who she slept with knew she was in a relationship and the conception happened after that and he did nothing to right that wrong with her husband, he should be held liable too.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-04T15:57:18+00:00

now that i’m thinking about my birth story. it must have been so traumatizing for my dad. my mom doesn’t remember much because the doctors had her drugged up. but he was only 25 at the time and could have lost both his wife and daughter. bro that’s so sad 😭

Slipthe · 2023-11-04T16:08:26+00:00

God I am so vain. I am not ready to wreck my body just to birth a child.

Gladboys · 2023-11-04T17:16:46+00:00

Literally me

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-04T18:15:26+00:00

Why do we stop doing fun things? I miss going to the theatre every month.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-04T18:55:28+00:00

There seem to be so few single people who are casually dating in the DD. It seems like everyone here is either:

in a relationship
single and unhappy about it (mostly men), single and happy about it (mostly women)

I see almost no women or men who are casually dating, having FWBs, going on tinder dates and having ONS etc. Too bad, I'd enjoy hearing their field reports.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-04T19:30:34+00:00

Does she sound crazy or am I being harsh? -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17bdig7/dating_a_blue_collar_man_who_wants_to_split/

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-04T19:32:18+00:00

LOL, a woman finds out she can't have the best of both worlds. HVM have no incentive to be soft or honest, betas on the other hand ...

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/178q329/do_honest_men_still_exist/

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-05T02:18:00+00:00

I noticed that so many young women are going for jogs at night by themselves where I live. What happened to the “scary men at night” meme?

scwizard · 2023-11-05T03:22:06+00:00

There have also been studies showing the percent of women over the age of 40 that say they have no interest in dating or sex in future at record highs

this is me. I just turned 46 and have zero interest in men and dating. I have dealt with a lifetime of bullshit from men, been married twice and not going to do it again. I love being single, living alone and spending my money on all my bullshit...like kpop, makeup and trees, lol.

I'm a part of that statistic. So are the straight women I know in NYC and LA.

Ok... Then why are you bent out of shape about guys dating foreign women or younger women.

You say it's prefatory but between being predatory and being alone you want them to choose being alone.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-04T04:01:00+00:00

Hello

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-04T04:16:38+00:00

You see, women are required to make tradeoffs in dating. Ideally they all want "prince charming", a guy who is both socially dominant and morally good. But these guys are exceptionally rare because it takes years of life experience to balance social dominance with morality. Therefore, most of their options are "nice guys" (morally good with low social dominance), "bad boys" (morally bad with high social dominance), and "incels" (morally bad with low social dominance). A "nice guy" can't get them wet, a "bad boy" will cheat on them or abuse them, and an "incel" is the worst of both worlds.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-11-04T05:24:10+00:00

Do all misogynistis and misandrists just project their extreme trauma from dealing with the opposite gender to the point where when it comes to dating its hard to change their opinion? I know I have extreme trauma from women, but it doesn't mean I hate all women. Anyone feel the same?

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-04T05:52:05+00:00

How do I learn to stand up for myself? I’m very timid and let people walk all over me. Will lifting weights help?

Big-Television-5670 · 2023-11-04T06:15:14+00:00

I really need to get a fake LinkedIn going for a made up person. I see so many troglodyte level takes from CEOs/presidents, but they never get told off because it’s “unprofessional”. Luckily LinkedIn doesn’t get many comments so mine would stand out until removed, but it’s mostly so the person who posts it to see anyways. Fuck you, you dumb CEO sharing a video of a dog to teach about hard work.

MyWifePomni · 2023-11-04T09:12:49+00:00

I just want a cute dino wife is that too much to ask for?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-04T12:14:20+00:00

How high is realistic self awareness here? I think see more of it among the women posters here.

Happy_Ben90 · 2023-11-04T13:12:39+00:00

It takes two things for a man to be incel or struggling at modern dating :

Being below chadlite level so women will never make the first move or signal interest
Being shy/socially anxious/low motivation/.. so they will never make the first move themselves or take every rejection at heart and they never try again after a couple of rejections

The only place where men can feel less shy and judged for signalling interest (online dating) is also the place where their looks matter the most

And the places where looks matter less (social circle/IRL approaches/settings where you can build rapport first/...) requires the man to not be anxious and to be pro-active

So it's a lose-lose situation for men who have both traits (around 30% of the male population)

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T14:21:08+00:00

I Cant describe how excited i am for the holidays

ratboi34 · 2023-11-04T15:48:11+00:00

If I go on a dinner date with a vegan woman, should I leave some leftovers on my plate so she can eat it without angering the vegan gods? Does that make sense? Or are most vegans so dogmatic that they wouldn't eat it, even if it would go to waste?

OneLobster26 · 2023-11-04T16:19:00+00:00

You ever not feel human?

In the sense that you never got to, and you never will get to, experience very "normal" things that average and attractive people get to experience?

I stumbled onto (this post)[https://old.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/15neey3/hooked_up_with_a_hot_guy_and_now_im_obsessed/?sort=top&force_seo=1] a hour back and this reminded me how "off" I am. People out there are just living their lives. Women out there getting "dickmatised" by hot dudes and there are women in the comment section claiming that they think about them after x number of years still because of "lust".

That word "lust". That fucking word. It should mean nothing but in reality, a portion of men will never really get to truly live because they are "unworthy" of someone feeling that for them. They'll never have any sort of actual "love" because of it, because they'll always be second, if not lower, lower down. They'll never be a woman's type or first-choice. Forget fantasy or ideal, they're barely a pick or want.

I hate that I am one of those men. I'll do anything and everything in the world to be one of the men from the post.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-04T17:02:05+00:00

It's not really "maturing" if it feels like life is just wearing you down over time. Oh yes, I'm more mature now, what that really means is life has beaten me down too many times and I'm not about to stand back up to get clocked in the face again.

Lower your expectations.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-04T17:43:21+00:00

You know what, I think I'm going to sit out caring about how I look until this loose fit everything trend passes. I'm trying to get some style ideas from pinterest and everything looks so ugly. Reminds me of the way our moms dressed us when we were in elementary school shopping at K-Mart 😭

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T18:31:09+00:00

Bruh my brother is going on roblox voice chat i need to SAVE HIM

saulbasedman · 2023-11-04T19:14:25+00:00

https://youtu.be/X1Sar6XYpPk?feature=shared&t=70

Huge difference. I wonder how different men and women treat him after his surgery.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-05T00:50:39+00:00

"The biggest misunderstanding about TRP comes from the fact that very low percentage of men who try it actually make it"

Nope, biggest misunderstanding is nobody wants to their research but instead watches ADHD clips of F&F or pearly things, then their idea of TRP is already concluded

Then everytime it's my job educating them with their bs of "those redpill guys bluh bluh bluh"

Every argument/critic is the same when coming to disprove TRP, you get some tradcon talking about traditional gender roles or age-gaps, or some blackpiller moaning about looks, and already people are identifying them as "redpillers"

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T02:44:49+00:00

I am not excited like i literally will get nauseous if i think abot college like i physically cant

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SCj7pn/https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SCj7pn/

scwizard · 2023-11-05T03:40:18+00:00

It's not surprising to me that women under 35 have less sex than men.

Women take libido killing drugs and men don't. Also men will pay for sex workers.

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Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-04T05:04:30+00:00

Meanwhile our local weed shop got raided and closed down on Halloween night for selling mushrooms 😬 Big problem in the neighborhood apparently.

Blocksplain · 2023-11-04T07:11:14+00:00

Damn, women are so oppressed

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-04T08:09:29+00:00

My dad literally just said at the dinner table that the only way he’d show up to a gay club is with a firearm while we were talking about my brother going to college. I’m extremely concerned and confused about what I should do.

John_Oakman · 2023-11-04T09:21:29+00:00

Pointing out the immorality of making threats and censoring it on niche platforms doesn't make it actually disappear, nor does it solve the conditions that cause those threats to be made in the first place.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-11-04T10:37:59+00:00

I think blackpilled men or men seriously struggling should try hooking up with a woman prison pen pal. One that will be getting released in a few months. Some may not give you loyalty because they might have a man waiting on them but others will be desperate to finding someone to come home to, even if they only known them for a short time. The hardest part would be completely vetting them and trusting they won't unalive you while you're sleeping, but the level headed ones will be somewhat rehabilitated when they come out.

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T13:53:37+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8Sa79UE/

Waittt im about to do this cuz i have tons of perfumes that dont fking last

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T14:12:41+00:00

I forgoit to mention how yesterday my english teacher who was out sick for like a week came back and i wanted to be nice so i asked "Are you feeling better 😃" And then he just stared at me he was so done with life

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T14:16:42+00:00

i need to CLEAN MY ROOM my room isnt dirty but i live in fear because I rlyy need to clean like under my bed, behind my closet, drawer and desk like a bunch of places but i cant bring myself to because I am afraid of dust like Idk what im gonna see there and i dont think i want to. What if i see like dead spiders or something 🤢🤢🤢 I am waiting for my parents to buy me a new bed frame that way i will be forced to

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T15:59:51+00:00

Guys i bought aquaphor Im becoming basic noooooo

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T16:08:44+00:00

New york accents are sooooo sexyyyy omg

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-04T16:09:57+00:00

What are some luxury clothing brands that aren't too flashy and actually have good quality?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-04T16:11:21+00:00

I want to buy some hoodies/sweatshirts. I want a good brand, like back in my day American Apparel was the thing in my niche. Nowadays I don't know what is a good brand that has some status.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-11-04T16:33:49+00:00

Reddit has gotten weird at this point. I forgot what I was gonna ask after I found this lmao.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-11-04T16:33:53+00:00

It makes more sense to be rich and ugly than hot and poor. In 50 years you can just buy good looks with enough money. I forsee a period in time when everyone above a certain networth will look like modern models with perfect features. This will then devolve into the ultra wealthy trying to look "uglier" the way rich kids now dress in poverty chique.

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T16:37:07+00:00

Anyone elses dad emotionally distant

FaradayBurka · 2023-11-04T17:18:53+00:00

Whatever happened to Mercedes Benzo AMG? He used to post here all the time.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-04T17:23:57+00:00

Can your followers see the things you look up on pinterest?

SianOiseau · 2023-11-04T18:15:33+00:00

u/AdEffective7894s,

There's no one answer or one recipe for everyone. Some people do better by trying to provide themselves and their close ones a better lifestyle - they can do good things in order to feel good about themselves or because they really deeply care about certain issues so they try their best to improve them.

Your way isn't that uncommon, but it isn't something gendered. There are a lot of people of both genders who associate most of their value to their job and generally to the good they can provide for others. It isn't the only way though, moreover, you can bring good to the world without being self-depriciating about it, you can get genuine joy out of it and generally enjoy your life. You can take of yourself and others and it's a more sustainable way long-term.

purplish_possum · 2023-11-04T18:19:42+00:00

One of my favorite songs from the 90s does a great job of illustrating how frustrating it can be to deal with women -- even when she's wrong it's your fault for not making things right again.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISyTqb8bVjE

Enough by the Dance Hall Crashers:

It began with a mistake,
I don't know what was at stake
I realize I was to blame, I just want things to be the same
I'll be the first to apologize and I know these things take time
I think of you and I see red even though you were alright in bed
It's not that we don't get along, it's just that you are always wrong
At least you could pretend that I was right in the end
Why won't you ever let this die, you can see how hard I've tried
Please don't hold this over my head,
Let's just say enough's been said
Enough is enough
I know I was to blame
I just want things to be the same
Just shut up and make it right

Well it's been a long long time and I've realized my crime
I want to leave it up to you
But you never seem to come through
Why don't you finish what you start
Before this whole thing falls apart
You know I'm beginning to think
That you drove me to drink
Not that I'm placing blame
But you're giving me a bad name
Why won't you eer let this die,
You can see how hard I've tried
I guess its time to say,
Fuck Off I'm gone after today

Enough is enough
I know I was to blame
I just want things to be the same
Just shut up and make it right

I never thought this would be such a nightmare
Get over your bad self, I don't, I don't really care
I don't, I don't really care

Enough is enough
I know I was to blame
I just want things to be the same
Just shut up and make it right
Just shut up and make it right

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T18:22:08+00:00

I love miles moraless

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-04T18:26:30+00:00

The problem is that everything on pinterest fashion is a caricature of itself. It is either hyper masculine inverted triangle men with skin tight jeans which looks terrible, or it is effeminate soft boys with loose fit parachute pants that also look goofy af.

monster_lily · 2023-11-04T18:30:45+00:00

I hate when older people think respect is 100% one sided Or that theyre entitled to respect just bc theyre old like if you are rude to me Im not going out of my way to respect you sorryy

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-04T18:37:19+00:00

Nah, having money matters in a relationship, only delusional rich people think otherwise.

In fact, having lots of disposal money is the only thing that matters

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-11-05T02:31:04+00:00

I had AI read an old poem of mine and asked who wrote it, and they said Esther Greenwood the character in Sylvia Plath’s “The Bell Jar.” It feels great to find people who are really understanding, even when they’re dead, fictional and inanimate.

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T02:32:00+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SCLKHu/

I love how baby kittens look pregnant its the cutest thing everrr

GrassToucher29 · 2023-11-05T02:32:04+00:00

Currently in an “argument” on instagram with a handful of women who are in denial about how much makeup can change a person’s face. One of them just said:

it’s paint. It’s literally just shadow paint. I couldn’t build my face to look exactly like this girl if I wanted to, but I could look similar. It’s not as much of a mask as you think it is

Like am I going insane, or did this woman just say she can make herself look like a completely different person, but that’s not changing the appearance of her face at all? Make it make sense

monster_lily · 2023-11-05T02:43:30+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8SC5eyV/

Female rageee

scwizard · 2023-11-05T03:12:43+00:00

I don’t understand how people claim there’s a “young male sexlessness crises” when there’s actually MORE YOUNG WOMEN having no sex than young men

It's not a crisis when it's women because women don't tend to get violent when they're unhappy.

Exactly, it's not a male sexlessness crisis, it's an incel terror crisis.

Well I haven't terrorized anyone that badly.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-04T13:35:35+00:00

One of my fantasies is baby trapping multiple women. Having two girls pregnant at the same time and going into delivery together but they don't know about each other then they find out and y'all have to coparent and they're forced interact with each other.

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