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i’m ready for the fall. usually around the beginning of august i start forcing autumn vibes even if it’s still 100 degrees outside
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:46 PM
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i live at home rent free at 23 but i know my household is not a democracy either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:54 PM
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there was a period of time in my adolescence when my mom thought i could have been gay so i don’t think it’s an exclusive male experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:38 PM
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being muted on teams in crazy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:11 PM
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i need to be like you. my supervisor left me on read and it hurt my feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:02 PM
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this is me trying to figure out when to send follow up emails or teams messages
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 06:54 PM
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i’m getting my degree in a field that can be pretty stressful and requires a lot of human interaction. interaction is actually the whole point of the job so i’ll probably always be somewhat stressed. my therapist said that i’m a bit of a masochist 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:34 PM
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it was fast paced and required a lot of interaction. i wanted to work at my local library but they didn’t hire high school students. i really couldn’t handle stress or negative emotions at that age. i’d just spiral and want to kms. i worked in a fast paced coffee shop for a year after i graduated college and i could handle that a lot better because i had matured a lot. now i work for my university at a very slow and laid back job and they are paying my tuition for my master’s degree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 01:18 PM
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at 17, i worked at a fast food restaurant for like 6 months. it gave me so much anxiety. i put in my two weeks notice and didn’t even work it. i just stopped coming in lol then i didn’t have another actual job until i graduated college at 21. before that, i was just babysitting during breaks from school
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 12:42 PM
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i’m glad it turned out well for you and you don’t feel negatively impacted by the relationship. i just can’t comprehend it and it doesn’t align with my value system. i’ll have a masters degree before i’m 24 so i can’t imagine being that age and wanting to date a high schooler. i feel like there has to be something really wrong with a person to consider doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 11:04 PM
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i know that you are european and age of consent laws can be different here. but 16 is the minimum age of consent in most states and a lot of states the age of consent is 18. even at 16, with certain age differences the adult could be charged with statutory rape i’m 23 and i can’t imagine being romantically or sexually interested in a 16 year old. i see them as children
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:53 PM
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i feel like he should be in prison for that ngl 😅 when i was 16, i was reading bts fan fiction and dozing off in zoom classes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:47 PM
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i feel a very similar way. it’s really about repeated use and practice. coping skills work the best when you are continually using them while you are feeling well so they are second nature to use when you are spiraling even as someone who is a baby therapist, i don’t really use coping skills very consistently which makes my therapist kind of annoyed with me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:16 PM
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i think you would benefit from learning about radical acceptance and acceptance and commitment therapy. https://youtu.be/vwNnG7mIu1E
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:59 PM
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sometimes when you start talking, you realize there is a reason. and even if there is no reason, then there is still a benefit of talking about it with someone and there are interventions besides medication that can help with depression
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:23 PM
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you should definitely talk about that. not only is it a therapist’s job to help with these things, you are also paying for a service and not disclosing that is you not getting the most out of something that you pay for. backslides and relapses are normal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:50 PM
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i’m lucky that i received a pretty large scholarship for my undergrad degree and then happened into a job that is paying the tuition for my masters degree. i still have debt but i think it should be manageable since it will be less than 1 year’s salary once i get a job within my field
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:52 PM
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about 95%. i have irrational thoughts but i know they are irrational (most of the time)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:04 AM
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oh i didn’t know about that. that sounds very painful 😬 glad you are beginning to feel better now!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:37 PM
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are you injured ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:32 PM
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i do a morning workout and then yoga every night before bed. it helps a lot with relaxation and tension
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:27 PM
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i am now doing yoga everyday and using a self care app
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:24 PM
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what doesn’t kill you leaves you constantly trying to regulate your nervous system
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:51 PM
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i have other "real" coping skills but this one has made this week feel less shitty and that's all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:21 PM
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<image> happy birthday (or soon birthday) fellow cancerian friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:39 PM
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the coping skill i developed this week is scrolling depop and buying stuff. it’s cheaper than buying new things and better for the environment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:32 PM
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i don’t get the luxury of work-life balance at this stage of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:42 AM
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i think i did that at least once in high school during covid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:41 AM
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i have a meeting at 8:30 pm. who’s idea was it for me to get a masters’s degree 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:20 AM
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i remember in like 2015-2016 wishing i was a bit older so that i could actually participate in the emo and the pastel goth culture that was occurring on tumblr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:33 PM
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i was a part of this pipeline so i agree that it exists
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:17 PM
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of course. but i think there are a lot of people who have a hard time separating their preferences from judgements of a person’s character. it is seen on this subreddit all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:03 PM
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i think i remember saying you tend to date alt girls and i think that would be a more common opinion among that demographic there are a lot of problems with the military and i understand why someone wouldn’t want to date someone who was in the service (i’ve even said that i wouldn’t date a military man lol) but there is a lot of nuance to the reasons that a person joins the military. for a lot of people, it is seen as a way out of poverty and the military industrial complex preys on that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:52 PM
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idk why you are trying to catch me in something. i said it was wrong. but what they had in common was going to the same high school and probably being two of the only sapphics in a small town. the girl was 15 and my roommate was freshly 18. i don’t think it’s terribly uncommon for college freshman to be dating someone they met in high school that still hasn’t graduated yet. i wouldn’t do it or advocate for it but i don’t think these people belong on the sex offender list i would feel differently…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:50 PM
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i don’t think a guy dating his high school gf necessarily needs to go to prison and be put on the sex offender list either 🤷‍♀️ i think there is a better path forward
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:26 PM
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could have because i’m not sure if there would be some sort of loop hole for that in my state. they met when they were both still in high school. my roommate was a senior and the girl was a freshman. i think that’s kind of fucked up but a lot of people wouldn’t consider that to be criminal. it would just come down to whether the parents would have wanted to press charges
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 09:14 PM
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i had a random memory of the times i would wake up in the middle of the night during my first semester of college and my roommate was arguing with her 15 year old girlfriend 😬 i knew it was weird at the time but now i’m thinking she could have been charged with something. sometimes they would meet up in hotels without that girls parents knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:34 PM
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i agree that women shouldn’t be judged for it. but a lot of women take the stance that if you want to be successful and liked within your industry there are sacrifices that have to be made. however, as long as people perpetuate this mindset then things won’t change. i do think things have changed in recent decades though, especially since covid. i don’t think all industries operate in this way. it seems to be a very corporate and sales type of mindset. those environments put heavy value on appea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:04 PM
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anyone with human decency and dignity wouldn’t knowingly sleep with someone in a relationship. they don’t have the same amount of responsibility as the one in the relationship but they aren’t innocent. they are knowingly contributing to the pain of another human being
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:54 PM
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i think it has a lot to do with insecurity. but i’m aware of some studies that state women who wear light to moderate makeup are seen as more competent and put together so there are societal and cultural factors at play also
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:49 PM
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i saw a tiktok where a woman said that women who don’t wear full faces of makeup to work are unprofessional and even if you work from home you should wear makeup because you shouldn’t subject people on zoom/teams to your bare face. at first i thought it was satire but sometimes it’s hard to tell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:35 PM
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this critique has gotten really popular and i guess it confuses me because i don’t consider olivia or sabrina to be women that dress like children. for some reason a feminine, more cutsey aesthetic has been classified as catering to pedos
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:54 PM
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she’ll end up with a demons semen rather than her husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:30 PM
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i feel like that should be discussed. it feels a little weird to do without prior consent. but that might be hard if they are young and it was a sudden death and that conversation never occurred
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:09 PM
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music, coffee, sleep, time with loved ones, books, animals, pretty scenery
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:53 PM
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<image> she scared the hell out of me but she’s an icon. i love when women get to be crazy and scary (in film)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 01:08 PM
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i was also given a candle and a chapter to read about the biblical origin of my name from my religious coworker lol. she’s a sweet woman. i’m going to read it to make her happy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:25 PM
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my coworkers put a happy birthday banner on my desk and got me a card. it was so sweet 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:25 PM
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was getting distracted in class because the girl next to me was playing snake.io and looking for wedding venues
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:15 PM
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😒 not bad tbh, after i got over my existential crisis. i'm growing and getting wiser
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:33 PM
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thx!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:30 PM
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also birthdays as an adult are not fun. i have class and then i have to do unpaid labor <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:38 PM
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a funny thing about birthdays is getting your once a year texts from different family members
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:27 PM
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i’m in therapy now and i’ve been in and out of it a few times since i was 13. primarily for anxiety and depression
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:17 AM
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i wish i didn’t do it so often lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:52 PM
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i always just say i’m super busy and that i have things to catch up on it which is sometimes true but often an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:49 PM
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where i should have been in 2009 but i was too busy learning the alphabet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:13 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:33 PM
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who came up with this term 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:47 PM
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this was an insecurity i didn’t know i was supposed to have until a few years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:44 PM
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i think anyone of any attractiveness level can be smart or dumb. maybe for some because they have been treated a certain way in life for being attractive they didn’t feel like they needed to learn certain things. also some women will play dumb around men because they think men like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:47 PM
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4/4 heck yea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:52 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:39 PM
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i always think i want an extended break and then when i have one i get extremely bored and somewhat depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:25 PM
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how can i redeem myself today after hitting a bird with my car? this is my reminder about the fragility of life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:23 PM
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i know i’m the problem because when i was on my way to class i saw a classmate and felt a little bit of dread that i would have to talk to him instead of listening to music on my walk to class
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:07 PM
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indeed. this will be the 4th birthday that i’ve been on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:31 PM
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wasn’t feeling too excited for my birthday next week but then i realized i can get some free stuff. like free starbucks and free sephora gift. i could probably find other free things to get as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:36 PM
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it’s definitely not for everyone. but even if you work with adults, hygiene will sometimes be a topic of discussion for certain people with certain problems
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:42 PM
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cool! i like things like that for fidgeting purposes but this particular one is also useful for the nervous system
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:40 PM
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there are these things called acupressure rings which are like these rings that have little spikes on them that you can roll up and down your fingers. i tried them in a class once and i really liked them. i’ll probably get some for myself. they aren’t painful but i think the spikes help to focus your attention to the present moment. they also massage your fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:32 PM
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there are certain touch techniques i’ve heard of like “butterfly tapping” which are something you can do for yourself. i know it’s not the same as being touched by someone else but it could be worth a try. i know there are other variations as well but yes, this whole somatic therapy/EMDR/mind-body stuff is a new wave of therapy that is becoming a lot more popular
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:25 PM
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not really. i believe i had a therapist try some of the techniques with me when i was younger but i didn’t get it at that time. i’m a very cerebral, intellectualizing type of person so that mind-body connection was not intuitive to me. i understand it now and i try to use some of the techniques on myself. for example, yoga has been very helpful for me i would like to get training on it as a therapist because i think it is useful. the body carries a lot of the trauma and stress that a person has …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:16 PM
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one pattern i’m noticing at my internship is how common it is to need to address hygiene with young boys/men in therapy. i’ve seen a lot of treatment plans with goals about showering, washing hands, brushing teeth. granted a lot of the kids i’ve seen have adhd, autism, schizophrenia, intellectual disabilities, etc so they are already at a disadvantage. the agency ordered books for therapists to use that cover hygiene and puberty for boys because sometimes having these conversations can put thera…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:31 PM
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i know it is. i still drink coffee. i had people yappin at me telling me i was consuming excessive caffeine. ngl i was sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:25 PM
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do it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:53 PM
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shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:40 PM
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there’s always going to be up and downs. it’s important to learn how to weather the storms. that is where coping skills come in
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:30 PM
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how is therapy going ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:22 PM
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a lot of people here are miserable and want others to be miserable with them. the same can be said about most places on the internet tbh. it’s up to the individual to either avoid the miserable triggering places or to cultivate a mindset where they are immune to the misery
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:14 PM
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you have to do what is best for you. this place doesn’t bother me so much but that is because what is discussed here usually doesn’t pertain to my life at all. if i was seeking out areas of the internet where all my triggers were discussed, i’d probably go insane
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:01 PM
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i was just thinking of quitting social media apps. i probably won’t though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:56 PM
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i haven’t had an energy drink in over a month. i don’t think my life has gotten any better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:51 PM
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as i got older, i started reading stuff on tumblr and ao3. i kind of preferred tumblr because a lot of the stuff on ao3 was too freaky lol (ngl i still be reading on wattpad sometimes)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:25 PM
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the kids unironically need to go back to writing fanfic. back in my day, middle and high schoolers were writing full novels on wattpad. now they just use chatgpt and tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:19 PM
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yes 🦀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:47 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:43 PM
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impression of cancer women? i think cancers can be controversial. not as controversial as gemini but i see mixed opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:34 PM
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could be. could also be a sign of nervousness, anxiety, neurodivergence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:44 AM
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<image> i’m a *thought* daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:40 PM
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it doesn’t help that fireflies (or lightning bugs as they called where i’m from) are going extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:07 PM
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this song gives me intense nostalgia. it reminds me of being a child and that makes me sad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:01 PM
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i suppose it will eventually. i just have to push myself i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:52 PM
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i’d hope i’d have a parachute or that would be murder i think in most circumstances adrenaline feels like fear to me and that is what stops me from doing things. i do like roller coasters though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:19 PM
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just speaking my mind and taking good beneficial risks for my career
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:16 PM
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that would technically be a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:12 PM
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edit: no criminal activity either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:11 PM
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how to be more impulsive and spontaneous? no alcohol or drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:08 PM
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i think this is how i am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:32 AM
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yeah you never know what will happen until you try and if it doesn’t work out then at least you know you tried and there isn’t a ‘what if’
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:56 PM
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i hate that phrase lol. but i believe you are also open to short term relationships so i don’t think there is any harm in going on a date. i can see why you would be hesitant though in case in becomes serious and then there is the mismatch on the kids conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:38 PM
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is she looking for something longterm?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:26 PM
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i learned today that you can experience fear over zoom and that family therapy should not be done through telehealth. i’m so glad i wasn’t the actual therapist for that session
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:10 PM
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i suppose so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:12 PM
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<image> how grad school is going
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 02:02 PM
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i think it’s one thing to be attracted to older men but know that someone who is like 30+ dating a 19 year old probably isn’t the best option. people are going to make their own decisions and mistakes at the end of the day though the age gap discussion is very nuanced though and the internet strips away the nuance and only sees good vs bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:31 PM
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this man at my internship was venting to my supervisor today about how his son is kind of a bum and he’s worried that once the son marries his gf she will get pregnant and they will try to move in with him. at least, they are waiting till they are married to have children. a win is a win ig
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:29 AM
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i also had my first existential crisis around that age. maybe 7
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:26 PM
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i’m going to be 23 😪 i saw a tiktok this morning that said if you are 22 rn that you should find a way to pause time because you don’t want to be 23 lol. i’ve heard people say 23 is a notoriously troublesome year similar to being 17
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:48 PM
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that is something that i need to work on internally because i get told that i have achieved a lot for my age and i don’t really feel anything about my achievements
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:46 PM
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that you do or don’t have an existential crisis?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:44 PM
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that’s definitely a better way to look at it. i end up thinking about all the things that i should be doing that i’m not doing. and i wonder if i’m on the right path in life and if i’ll do everything that i want to accomplish
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:38 PM
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does anyone else have an existential crisis near their birthday?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:34 PM
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i don’t enjoy a lot of socializing but it is important. i wish i enjoyed it more because it would probably help career wise. i enjoy a lot of alone time and it’s hard to break that pattern and include more social time into my schedule when all of my free time, i’d 95% of the time prefer to use it relaxing on my own
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:05 AM
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i hate sunday nights
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:51 PM
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i’ve seen women online with masters degrees who plan to give their entire careers up to be a stay at home mom. i don’t understand why someone would put themselves through so much effort and work and debt, if they are planning to not use their degree or only use it for a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:43 PM
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that’s amazing. congratulations to her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:58 AM
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it’s not my pastime and that’s all that matters to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:21 PM
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yeah but then you would be watching baseball
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:15 PM
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i was able to get them presale. it was $85 before all the fees and then i decided to get parking. it ended up being $127 each
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:51 PM
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i impulsively bought concert tickets to see phoebe bridgers. i was able to get one of my classmates to come with me and give me half for the tickets. it will be a fun but emotional time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:39 PM
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there is only 24 hours in a day and energy cannot be created or destroyed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:41 PM
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i want to be more creative but i don’t have much time or brain energy for creativity right now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:18 PM
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i did have my first experience getting somewhat emotionally activated while shadowing a session yesterday. acknowledging that and dealing with it internally in the moment is definitely a skill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:43 PM
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it feels illegal that i have access to people’s medical charts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:38 PM
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as someone who has had interest in serial killers and criminal profiling before, this is literally every suspect profile ever made
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:46 AM
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how i felt watching $2,740 leave my bank account for 6 credit hours. at least i get to graduate a few months earlier now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:09 PM
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i’ll be 23 in less than a month. my mom was 23 when i was born. i don’t even think i’m mature enough for a child. my mom said she felt the same way but having a child makes you mature very quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:08 AM
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i saw someone say when they watch reality tv they can’t believe how different their life experience at 22/23 is compared to someone that age on a show like love island. i feel the same way. but i also feel that way about people my age who are married with 2 kids already. for both instances, it’s like how have we been on this earth for the same amount of time and our lives are so completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:39 AM
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my favorite power puff was the pink one and my favorite power ranger was also the pink one. i didn’t watch totally spies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:33 PM
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<image> i can admire a good scam from time to time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:43 PM
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listening to lana del rey on the beach is a vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:59 PM
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i can see it becoming a thing eventually. these types of services are popular in countries like japan where people are more isolated and work extremely long hours. as people in western countries, are beginning to report more isolation and loneliness, i think it’s only time before someone tries to break into that market. it wouldn’t be for me and i think it’s kind of a sad thing as a whole but i can see it happening
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:21 PM
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have you ever thought about going to japan? they are known for their BFE type of services
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:06 PM
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i mean it’s a bit funny but still not right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:56 PM
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there’s a liquor store by my house with a sign that says “open earlier than your therapist.” that’s terrible 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:51 PM
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not saying it’s good to be obese but anorexia kills faster than obesity. it’s the deadliest mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:25 PM
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i don’t really think the body positive movement is much of a thing anymore and fat liberation is just a niche community. it’s much more popular to talk about wanting to be skinny then it is to say everyone is beautiful. i have to go out of my way to avoid ED related content on tiktok. just because certain words are banned doesn’t mean it’s gone and not popular
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:19 PM
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sometimes i think the wall-e movie predicted our future
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:29 PM
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my internship sends out a few self care reminders a week. they obviously made this one with chat gpt <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:09 PM
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no i think i didn’t phrase my first comment the best lol. i’ve seen some cities where they don’t really allow check splitting, especially for groups of people. places like miami are known for ruining friendships partially for this reason because people will put their card down and their friends never pay them back
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:27 PM
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yeah that’s kind of what i meant by 50/50. split checks or whatever. some things aren’t as easy to split though so that’s when people will do the “i’ll buy this, if you buy that” thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:21 PM
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ime it’s always been 50/50 or one person will buy something and then someone else with buy a different thing, if it’s of similar value
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:17 PM
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i have two brothers. one is 21 and the other one will be 15
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:17 AM
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i forgot how young you are. i kept thinking you were my brothers age. i do remember when you were a minor though (that sounds weird)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:11 AM
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at least i’m getting something out of my degree both professionally and personally 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:45 AM
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not just media, a lot of older people in my life have frequently told me high school was the best years of their life. my parents have said the same. i think the theme i put together is that all of these people had children relatively young so high school was the last time they got to be kind of free with no responsibilities. like i’ll be turning the age this year that my mom was when she had me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:40 AM
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yeah mental health counseling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:36 AM
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my masters program is like 75/25 in person vs online. we don’t really do tests. it’s mostly papers and discussions and experiential components like internships. i would say it’s more difficult than my bachelors but in a different way. it’s not super academically challenging but it’s challenging in a way that it forces me out of my comfort zone and i’m having a lot of new experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:09 AM
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the badge i wear for my internship makes me feel important even though i don’t have any responsibilities yet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:06 PM
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i didn’t have my first relationship until after i had my bachelors degree. i was extremely focused on school and that took up most of my energy. but i was also not really in the mental state for dating most of college due to anxiety and depression. i’m also very shy. those things can be considered yellow or red flags depending on the person. but i think a lot of people that didn’t date throughout high school or college have similar experiences, in addition to focusing on academics
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:33 PM
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i’m confused. i don’t think i’ve ever seen anyone say that you can’t date a younger person because they have a different social media algorithm. men and women in general have different social media algorithms. there are a lot of people that have strict ideas on age gaps but i’ve never heard this one before 😭 i feel like op just used some random ig post he saw to make a rant about anti age gap people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:33 AM
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not really ig. horror movies are known to cause arousal. there is a physiological overlap between fear and sexual arousal since they share the same nervous system pathway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:26 PM
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i keep seeing clips of that obsession movie. anyone seen it? i think it’s supposed to be a cautionary tale that you don’t actually want a yandere gf lol the trailer: https://youtu.be/gMC8kkwbIQQ
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:44 PM
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she’s a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:40 PM
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<image> i have an old soul 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:14 PM
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there’s plenty of people who go through terrible things and still are kind and empathetic. a lot of those people also want to help others going through similar situations
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:15 PM
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sometimes i think about how sigmund freud coined the term libido and he did use it to refer to a person’s sexual drive but it also encompassed a person’s entire life force. it resides within the id portion of the unconscious which is the primal, instinctual element of humans that only wants to maximize pleasure and minimize pain. but now the word is almost completely removed from its origin and is now synonymous with sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 04:01 PM
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for the country obvs. being smart in kentucky is like being a big fish in a small pond
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:30 AM
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when i took the ACT exam in high school, i was in the 99th percentile for both reading and english
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:18 AM
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had to explain to my brother how hierarchies work when he asked why i get my own room and bathroom in the vacation rental for our family vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:29 AM
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no. i had terrible self esteem then so i didn’t believe them anyway. i thought it didn’t couldn’t if an older person thought you were attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:51 PM
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i had the opposite thing happen. older people used to tell me all the time when i was a teenager that i’m a catch and must have a lot of interest from boys. i don’t think anyone was interested at that time lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:45 PM
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it’s a cruel world hot lack
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:34 PM
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i graduated with my bachelors in 2024. i’m doing a masters degree now and will graduate in 2027
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:32 PM
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well i’m still a student but i am getting there lol. but yeah i started posting on ppd when i was 19. a lot has changed since then but i am still here 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:28 PM
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i could probably leave and no one would know but i’m not going to do that 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:21 PM
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her wedding was planned before she ever met me. i started working here in january. i’d rather be at home than at her wedding lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:17 PM
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i wish my supervisor told me to work from home today because i am the only one on my side of the office today because they are all at my coworker’s wedding. i’m all alone and i had to walk in the rain from my car to the office. brutal start to the day
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:13 PM
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my issue was that i ran into someone who wanted to bring her bf to every hang out. i was not interested in that set up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:49 PM
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i ghosted her. i shouldn’t have done that. i’m not perfect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:47 PM
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i find so many aspects of human socialization to be a humiliation ritual sometimes also the last time i tried to actively make friends didn’t go so well. re: my time on bumble bff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:43 PM
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potentially. she is one of my coworkers. she’s an international student from jamaica so that’s cool
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:40 PM
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asking someone to hang out is a bit humiliating but it worked out so it’s ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 11:35 PM
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people at work are really irritating me and it’s not even been an hour. too many people are coughing, clearing their throat, hiccuping
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:56 PM
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yah that’s why idk if i could live there long term. but definitely want to visit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:02 PM
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this is how i feel about the pnw. although idk if i would like living there in reality. i just think the scenery is very pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:49 PM
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throw the whole state away
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:45 PM
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makes me think of that one movie “the perks of being a wallflower.” i related to the main character of that movie a lot especially as a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:23 PM
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i tend to go unnoticed a lot which has allowed me to be very observant and learns lots of information
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:12 PM
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I am typically always in the office. I don't normally work on wednesdays but I am trying to make up hours because I had to attend a mandatory training on monday. I am balancing a job, classes, and an unpaid internship, so something is almost always clashing in my schedule
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:37 PM
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there are a lot more people looking into the way eating disorders present in men since the research has been so female centric. but yeah everybody struggling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:20 PM
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yeah. a pretty big topic of conversation in the female side of social media is the return of the 90s and 00s popularity of the heroin chic aesthetic. people are saying that body positivity is dead
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:16 PM
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i do think in the age of social media pressures to look a certain way are contributing to a greater sense of competition, even among women. a pretty big story not too long ago was about liv schmidt who created a whole online group of women (and teenage girls) who were competing with each other to become as skinny as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:12 PM
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no women are definitely competitive with each other. it’s not as overt as male competition but it is there. think of pick me’s who put down other women and place themselves above those women in the female hierarchy to try to gain male attention i think there is no direct equivalent term to emasculation because a historically and culturally a woman being more masculine is not considered as humiliating as a man being more feminine. that doesn’t mean that women aren’t criticized for being or being …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:04 PM
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defeminization is a term but i don’t think it’s used in the same way emasculation is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:56 PM
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supposed to be working from home today but i have therapy and class so we’ll see how much i accomplish
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:17 PM
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pennsylvania is a weird place. i’ve never been there but i know it’s a weird place. it has a lot of red necks for a place that is decidedly not the south. i guess it’s the influence of the appalachian mountains
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:02 AM
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the polo + hat with sunglasses on top combo did it for him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:59 AM
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this man looks like he would have a big maga sign in his front yard and his favorite store is bass pro shop
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:45 AM
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i have some block heels and kitten heels. they all hurt my feet after awhile. ig it’s not that big of a deal as long as i don’t have to walk a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:02 PM
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i guess balance is an issue but also they just generally hurt my feet after awhile. it happens with block and just regular heels. also i’m kind of clumsy which doesn’t help lol. but i want to keep wearing them because they look cute
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:48 PM
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does walking in heels get easier with practice? or am i doomed forever? i only own heels that are 1-3 inches tall btw
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:24 PM
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i do think it’s a symptom of the current culture though. things like love and vulnerability aren’t valued as much in society right now. the idgaf, what can you do for me attitude is what is valued right now. this is not only for business and professional endeavors but also interpersonal. this attitude is observed in both men and women and is contributing to the growing sense of loneliness and disconnection that so many people feel today
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:54 PM
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they lack whimsy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:19 PM
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well it’s been lasting for 5 years so far. but military + young marriage stacks some odds against them. but i am rooting for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:27 AM
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my conspiracy is that they weren’t too worried about their housing situation because he is military and now that they are married a lot of housing opportunities will probably open up for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:13 AM
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no lmao. at least not a house that has structural integrity. the average house is about 250k
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:09 AM
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my brother’s friend got married yesterday. the wedding was 35k. two 21 year olds had a 35k wedding. my brother said they paid it off already. they saved for over 2 years for it and still live at the bride’s parents house and i think her parents helped pay for some of it as well. ngl i feel like it’s crazy to be married and still not have moved out yet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:46 PM
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no no that’s very different lol. this has nothing to do with personality disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:59 PM
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i believe the theory started with type a vs type b personalities but it was expanded to a, b, c, and d. it is typically used to describe a person’s work personality <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:41 PM
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a workaholic who can’t ever relax and has anger and/or anxiety problems
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:22 PM
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well it is incredibly normal. for some people their therapist is one of a few people in their life that is kind and supportive toward them so it’s easy for feelings like that to develop. some schools of thought would say that all transference can be used to further the therapeutic relationship because it is indicative of a person’s subconscious. other people would just be like that’s normal but i can’t date or have sex with you because that’s unethical and an exploitation of a power dynamic. and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:30 PM
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that would explain why i don’t know them. i don’t like fighting things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 11:23 PM
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idk who those individuals are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:21 PM
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it’s going lol. i’m half way through now and i’m starting my practicum. i will graduate next spring it’s pushing me a lot and it’s exhausting. i’m going into the most difficult part of the program because i have a job, classes, and an unpaid practicum/internship. it’s worth it though because i know this is what i want to do but that doesn’t make it any less difficult. i’m also nervous to start seeing clients on my own
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:44 PM
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yeah i’m in a masters program for clinical mental health counseling right now these are the book since you are interested: letters to a young therapist by mary pipher, self compassion by kristen neff, and the self compassion workbook by kristen neff and christopher germer
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:34 PM
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i got a book with advice for young therapists and then i got two books on self compassion. one is like the actual book and then the other one is a workbook. those were recommended by one of my professors
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:00 PM
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books
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:00 PM
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usually clothes. but books today which doesn’t feel as wasteful lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:38 PM
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whenever i’m bored, i spend money. not the best habit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:05 PM
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glad i could help lol. i don’t remember the video but im pretty sure it was an fd signifier video. he makes really good social commentary videos
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:38 PM
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i don’t think that’s your baseline. it’s likely the withdrawal side effects. the higher the dose, the worse the side effects as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:35 PM
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lower case conservatives are people who appreciate traditional ideals like marriage and white picket fence suburban living with 2.5 kids and a dog. they may also endorse some conservative political views but they aren’t in favor of forcing everyone to conform to their way of living like upper case Conservatives (think nazis, maga, extreme evangelicals)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:52 PM
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this made me remember a video i watched about being lower-case conservative vs upper case Conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:33 PM
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i don’t think she’s a nazi because i feel like that would conflict with also being a proud black woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:30 PM
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i mean i’m sure based off her age and religious beliefs that she does consider herself to be a traditional wife. but tradwife™️ is an internet thing mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:27 PM
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the same older coworker who told me about the biblical origin of my name told me today that she appreciates how i dress because a lot of young people don’t know how to dress
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:05 PM
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aww now the story feels a lot more flattering to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:44 PM
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lol throughout the story i was trying to figure out the correlation to me because she said she was reading that part of the bible and thought of me but i guess it’s just the name
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:20 PM
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i’m guessing you would have thought it was creepy if it was a man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:17 PM
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no she’s a sweet older woman. just very religious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:14 PM
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one of my coworkers came to talk to me about the biblical origin of my name. apparently she was this woman who prayed 24/7 to become pregnant and then she eventually became pregnant. i guess the moral of the story is that i should pray more?? i just smiled and nodded
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 03:11 PM
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i think it being legal is helpful in terms of safety. but i’m not particularly in favor of the industry. i think it does more harm than good. but that’s also just my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:37 PM
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there’s being low maintenance and then there’s being ok with being treated like shit. just something to think about. i’m testing out some therapy skills lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:16 PM
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i guess that depends on your personal philosophy and what you can tolerate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:30 PM
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i know it’s easier said than done but i think if you accept crumbs from people then crumbs is all they will give you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:57 PM
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you need to stand on business 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:41 PM
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woww you’re so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:28 PM
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there used to be someone that posted here that said james charles tried dming his friend. i can’t remember if that friend was a minor at the time though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:03 PM
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james charles made a rant about a woman who got laid off from spirit airlines asking him to donate to her gofundme. i bet if that woman was a 16 year old boy, he would have given him money……allegedly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:01 PM
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i didn’t properly read some emails this week so i didn’t know what’s going on at work today. i have to help with the doctoral hooding ceremony today and everyone is wearing university colors and i’m accidentally wearing the colors of our rival university 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:05 PM
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there’s probably something wrong with me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:01 PM
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i don’t judge her because i see her as being much more competent than me. but i do often think about the therapeutic intentions behind what she is telling me. plus i know that i experience transference with her. transference is when a client projects their feelings and desires onto their therapist. for example, i often wonder what she writes about me in progress notes and if she believes that i will be a good therapist so i am projecting my need for validation onto her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:00 PM
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idk. sometimes i just drink them because they taste good so i’m going to try to find a caffeine free alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:36 PM
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i have drank a 200mg energy drink and then taken a nap before
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:24 PM
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i feel like i really don’t even get that much energy from caffeine but i still need it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:11 PM
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thanks. i had an energy drink yesterday after therapy and will probably have one today. but i’m balancing it out by drinking less coffee. eventually i would like to stop or significantly reduce the energy drinks but i have some at home so i want to drink them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:07 PM
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i told my therapist i wanted to drink less caffeine so she suggested techniques she uses with her substance abuse clients 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:01 PM
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yea i don’t think it’s a bad thing to go for what you want. she’s free to say no and move on as well. it’s better to be open than go through an endless cycle of one or two replies every week or ghosting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:21 PM
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i once saw someone say that have a lack of object permanence for people. like if they don’t see someone every day irl then they forget they exist. idk if that’s better or worse than someone just not caring enough to message back lmao. it’s a harsh world out there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:13 PM
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sorry to ruin the fun 😭 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:44 PM
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i guess this comes from my own perspective and other people have different communication styles. but i don’t see how if someone is into you, they don’t make time to communicate. i’m very busy these days but i’m still on my phone all the time. i think most people under 30 are on their phone all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:38 PM
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i saw a tiktok about this girl that got her degree in psychology, posting a graduation photoshoot in a straight jacket, pretending to be in an asylum. the girl deleted the post but here is one of the pics 💀 <image> let’s hope that she doesn’t want to continue her education and become a therapist. or want to work at all because this is a crazy digital footprint
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:32 AM
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my new bangs keep tickling my face so i have to keep pulling a 2011 justin beiber <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:12 PM
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i wish i was a nepo baby so that i could go to school and not have to worry about working to pay tuition
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 08:58 PM
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that’s why i remain mysterious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 07:24 PM
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<image> i found this little graphic that shows some of the most popular forms of therapy. cognitive behavior therapy is what you will see most often in the united states but most modern therapists operate from an approach that combines a lot of these often times when people complain about therapists, it’s because they are seeing a therapist that does not match their goals or personality. someone who is solution focused might not want a psychodynamic therapist that wants to focus on their past. o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:49 AM
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i did therapy for a long time when i was a teenager. and i recently started again the end of last year because there was things i wanted to work on, especially as i am studying to become a therapist. therapy is very helpful but i feel like the general public doesn’t really know much about the therapeutic process or the various kinds of therapists there are. not all therapists or therapeutic modalities are for all people. i recommend using a website like psychology today if you are in the US to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:22 AM
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that might be an age thing. my brother is 21 and says crazy shit all the time. the frontal lobe needs some more time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:58 PM
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i didn’t want to. i only wanted to have sex in a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:20 PM
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zero
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:17 PM
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hamilton will be in my city for my birthday. maybe i should go. i never got to see it when i was actually obsessed with it a decade ago
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 02:25 PM
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she didn’t specify what exactly about my sitting looked uncomfortable. she just said i looked uncomfortable lol. but i probably do kind of sit like how you described. i make eye contact though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:54 PM
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that won’t help me when conducting therapy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:45 PM
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i’m in school to be a therapist. therapists typically sit in chairs a few feet from their clients. apparently the way i’m sitting in the chair makes me look uncomfortable and i fidget a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:43 PM
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i don’t think that would help. the issue is body language
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:49 PM
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every time i’ve gotten feedback on mock sessions from my professor, she tells me i look uncomfortable and if i’m uncomfortable, it could make clients uncomfortable 😭 maybe that’s just how i look idk how to make myself look more comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:35 PM
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i wonder if birds feel anything when their children die. one of the baby birds that was in the porch light at my house, left the nest this morning. before i left for work, the bird parents were watching it and i guess coaching it. but when i got home i saw it laying dead by our steps. the other babies are still in the nest and the parents were hoping around looking for worms i cried about it and i wondered if i am mourning this bird more than its own parents
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:58 PM
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i did a few lessons on it in elementary school. i think i do a version of it naturally. i use both hands to type and i don’t have to look at the keyboard so i think i’m efficient enough
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:47 PM
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is touch typing just typing in the “proper” way?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:41 PM
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<image> watching undergrads walk to their 9am final exams. i remember those days
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:52 PM
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being called basic doesn’t bother me anymore. i beat that internalized misogyny 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:07 PM
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why disappointed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:53 PM
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<image> my album of the summer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:37 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:09 AM
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<image> professor accidentally put the grade for my paper as 127/125 instead of 127/150 so now my grade is an A
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:01 PM
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if someone is stalking you and is violent toward you, they do not love you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 03:10 PM
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omg these are so adorable!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:33 PM
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it’s your cake day !
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:00 AM
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yeah i would say i have noticed that. whenever a stranger tries to talk to me, it’s usually a man. women will smile at me but rarely talk to me. i prefer not being talked to though lol oh i guess i usually get quick compliments from women as well but they never try to initiate a full conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:03 PM
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i was at a store and some guy said i look like a super mom and asked if i had kids. i said no then he asked if i was an aunt and i said no. he then told me to “get on that because kids are awesome.” i believe he was trying to sell something related to children because him and some others had a table set up outside the store trying to talk to people at first, i felt offended because i thought he was insinuating that i looked old but then i realized i’m definitely old enough to be a mom lol. my ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:31 PM
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it looks like a beautiful home! i would love to have a porch like that someday. perfect for reading and coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:26 AM
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<image> me waiting to send an email two minutes before i get off work so i don’t have to deal with the reply until monday
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:30 PM
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that makes me lose my appetite 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:07 PM
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the robins will grow into their looks soon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:54 PM
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we don’t mess with them. feeding them would require digging up worms and i’m certainly not doing that lol i guess the birds see it as a safe place but it’s not the most convenient for them because the mom flies off every time we open the door
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:52 PM
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there is trees. pretty every year since we’ve lived at this house a robin will build a nest on the porch light
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:48 PM
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<image> they are getting mogged by the doves in the backyard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:44 PM
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<image> these creatures are inhabiting the porch light at my house
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:43 PM
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my goal in life is to be like miss honey
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:39 PM
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i even put stickers on it that i got from south korea 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:15 AM
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i believe someone else is throwing it for her. this is a “we are all family” type of workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:06 AM
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allegedly some might consider $20 to be an offensive amount of money for a wedding gift
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:55 AM
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i wish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:55 AM
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hypothetically if you were getting married and decided to have a wedding shower at your workplace and your coworker who you have only known for 4 months and is like 12-15 years younger than you, gave you a very cute hallmark card with $20 inside, would you be offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 12:47 AM
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i watch a lot of video essays so yeah sort of lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:49 PM
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i haven’t but thank you for the recommendation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:48 PM
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idk 30 something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:38 PM
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sometimes ig. a lot of times they don’t get the answer they are looking for because they are asking specifics about their program when my department just does admissions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:28 PM
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yah that is my reaction because everything people call about can be accomplished by email. also people call about things that my department doesn’t even handle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 04:25 PM
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<image> me when i have to pause a youtube video and answer the phone at work. luckily i’m only at the front desk once a week
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:58 PM
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yah but i feel like is it bad to just get a card and no gift card. like is that rude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 03:01 PM
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my mom said i should. but i didn’t want to buy anything, i just wanted free lunch and to get out of sitting at my desk and trying to look busy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:35 PM
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if i said i was going to attend a lunch at work for a coworkers wedding shower, does that mean i have to buy something from her registry or some other gift??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 02:32 PM
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i would say i have a casual/cute style. but for my job and future career i’m learning to develop that in a more professional way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 09:11 PM
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he used men in the collective as in all men throughout history which includes the likes of genghis khan, hitler, stalin, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 02:01 PM
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men have always stood for the societal good that’s an interesting claim
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:48 PM
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yeah especially if they are regulars, they feel like they know you but the whole time you don’t even know their name
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:23 PM
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this morning, there was no one behind me and we made eye contact. i think sometimes it takes my brain a little bit to connect the face to my memories. this girl was a classmate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:14 PM
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sometimes when people wave to me, i don’t recognize them for a few seconds and i’m like oh shit who is this person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:03 PM
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but also winter can be annoying and there is a lot of rain and storms in the spring so that is why fall is the best season
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:06 PM
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i think the idea of summer is romantic but practically it’s just annoying to deal with. i think summer would be more enjoyable if i lived by the coast
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:03 PM
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i don’t think this would work for me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 07:29 PM
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i think i have like a phobia of things crawling out of someone’s mouth so this is really disturbing to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:14 PM
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yes. it has cats on it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:18 PM
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try to take some deep breaths and remind yourself if the person himself is ok with you not being there then there is no reason to feel bad for prioritizing your own wellbeing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:10 PM
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maybe you can go for just a little bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 08:00 PM
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that sounds awkward. i wouldn’t want to go either next week one of my coworkers is having a work wedding shower and since it’s during work, i have no choice but to be there
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:56 PM
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can’t you just say you had work to catch up on. i use that excuse a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 07:42 PM
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she was such an icon back in the day. i was a little late to watching gossip girl. i didn’t watch it till i was like 16 but blair was so iconic. blair >>> serena
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 04:02 PM
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it’s a cute look
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 03:52 PM
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i do use breathing exercises like box breathing. and i guess the core of mediation is focusing on the breath. i just get easily frustrated and give up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:35 PM
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one of my classmates stopped smoking weed for awhile so he could pass his drug test for practicum. i heard it stays in the system for awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:32 PM
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that’s a skill i need to develop because i’m not good at it. i sometimes use guided mediations to fall asleep at night. but to do it during the day, i can’t turn my brain off like that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:11 PM
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anxiety is so weird because why am i worried about failing a drug test when i’ve never done drugs before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:52 PM
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i’m not watching euphoria season 3 because it looks awful but i have seen some clips and pictures. and i don’t remember the first 2 seasons being so bad. i wonder if it’s because my frontal lobe wasn’t as developed back then. i remember being excited to watch each episode of the second season on sunday night in my dorm room. at that time as well i also volunteered to help international exchange students acclimate to the US and i remember the korean girl i was partnered with at the time asked me …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:25 AM
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i’m guilty of this 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:05 AM
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it’s an energy drink
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:10 PM
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but then i channel my youth again when i drink an alani a few hours later
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:02 PM
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whenever i go to starbucks and order just a regular hot latte, i feel very professional and mature
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 12:58 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/1g7GXgPUjHQ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 02:43 PM
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mother💅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 11:47 PM
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i think the question for a lot of people is if you ban one show of sexuality then what will stop people from banning other aspects of sexuality. books are banned all the time even in so called free countries i’m not a huge fan of porn but i don’t think banning it is the solution
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:16 PM
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i think written content isn’t as viscerally addictive or mind altering as video content. but it still does have an impact on developing minds. i think for a lot of young women my age our first exposure to sexual content was probably something akin to “kidnapped by one direction.” and those types of things do have an impact on what people see as normal and desirable. on tiktok, dark romance is a big genre right now. and from what i can tell, it’s worse than a lot of the stuff i was exposed to. th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:08 PM
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the neighbourhood is back together and performing. the videos bring me back to 2018 at 6 am on the school bus. not the best memories but still a nostalgic vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:58 PM
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thank you ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:44 PM
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it’s basically an internship but with less hours and requirements. if all goes well, i will also be doing my internship at this place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:18 PM
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it might even be paid 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:10 PM
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i got a practicum placement. it was a hard fought battle. i learned that sometimes you have to feel like you are being annoying to get the things you want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:59 PM
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april fools?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:44 PM
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<image> these are the categories and types of ACEs. the more of these someone experiences in their childhood the worse their mental and physical health outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:22 AM
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experiencing adverse childhood experiences (often called ACEs) is linked to a lot of health issues, especially cardiovascular
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:20 AM
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nah
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 02:09 PM
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i just remembered i told my coworkers at my old job that i would come to visit them sometimes. i never did that. oops. i really did mean it at the time but now it’s been too long so there’s no point. this is the exact way i’ve lost contact with so many people in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 01:27 PM
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lower middle class for a large portion of my childhood. my parents were hit hard by the 2008 recession. their income gradually increased as i got older. now i know they make roughly 135k combined which is solid middle class where i live for our family size. all their kids still live at home
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:34 AM
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i don’t intend to watch the movie and i only saw the trailer. but neither heathcliff or catherine were very good people so that part is accurate to the book at least also why is jacob elordi only casted as an evil abusive scary man. being nate jacobs really type casted him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:23 AM
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i am gen z and have been known to make a few of those jokes myself. in a clinical setting, i think it would be cause for some additional questions but it’s not a serious, this person needs to be hospitalized right now thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:35 PM
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and then in a different class later that day, i was in a mock therapy session pretending to be a client and my partner was a therapist. she accidentally called me autistic instead of artistic. we both broke character and laughed about that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:11 PM
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yesterday we were practicing suicide screening in my class. the person i was asking questions to made a joke when i asked her one of the questions and it made me laugh a little. the question was “in the past week, have you had thoughts of killing yourself?” and she gave me a smile and said “not this week but maybe next week.” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:01 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:14 PM
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i think the way society is going is not conducive to our species thriving. people are disconnected because it’s becoming impossible to form a community. everyone has to fend for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:33 PM
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i was literally like the oldest person that worked there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:54 AM
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they run a strict program apparently. their baristas can’t even paint their nails
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:52 AM
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the coffee place i worked at wasn’t starbucks and the average employee age leaned younger than what i’ve typically seen at starbucks. when i first started working there, i expected to work with lots of people my age but most of my coworkers were still in high school or barely out of high school and starting college. so while it was discriminatory of the manager to exclude men from her hiring pool, i can see why she wanted to. especially considering some instances that happened with male customer…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:50 AM
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they were also just confused why he even applied there because he had like no availability because he’s a freelance artist and already has a sales job. they also found him weird because of his age i think. he was probably late thirties the manager of the coffee place i worked at for a year openly said she would never hire a man who was over 30 because she thought it was weird for a guy that age to want to work at a place with a bunch of teenage girls
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:33 AM
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starbucks kinda strict with their hiring. i listened to the manager and assistant manager do two interviews and they didn’t like either of the people. one was kind of understandable because it was a weird older guy who started singing in the middle of the interview 💀 last year i applied to this same starbucks and didn’t even get an interview lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:26 AM
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not much. phd gives more access to research and teaching as well as being able to do certain assessments. i’m more interested in being in the field then doing research so it was best choice me ultimately
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:53 PM
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it’s important to accept your limitations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 03:46 PM
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i’m so glad i decided to do a masters and not a phd (more like i wouldn’t have been accepted into a phd) because this experience is already so exhausting i can’t imagine doing it for 5+ years instead of 2
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 02:49 PM
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they really can put anything in a political ad. this one that is running in my state currently is racist and full of ai generated videos
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:48 PM
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someone asked me not too long ago when the last time i sat in silence was. pretty much only before i go to sleep. otherwise i always need to noise of some kind
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:41 PM
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mood
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:17 PM
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<image> me trying to convince myself i like the coffee i brought from home
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:06 PM
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i knew since i was a teenager that i wanted to be a therapist. i’m passionate about mental health. i specifically want to work with children
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:16 PM
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i think it’s like an automated system set up. i get one every few weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:24 PM
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despite me struggling to get a practicum placement, there are jobs in the field. high paying jobs? that’s a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:22 PM
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which ones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:21 PM
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the marines are continuing to email me. this time about becoming a fighter pilot. i know they just send these things to everyone on their list but what about a psych major now getting a masters in counseling says fighter pilot no option to unsubscribe from the mailing list btw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:12 PM
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extremely empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:30 PM
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i prefer caffeine which is technically a stimulant
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:54 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:39 PM
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oh that’s the woman from secret lives of mormon wives. i know there was an incident of her being arrested or something for domestic violence on that show
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:52 AM
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happy birthday! 🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:07 PM
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<image> the goat
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:06 PM
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for my final paper in my diagnosis class i was assigned this case study of a young male client with a whole bunch of issues. he’s got conduct disorder so he’s committing crimes and has engaged in exhibitionism a few times, he’s got a substance use disorder, and he’s depressed with suicidal ideation one of the requirements of the paper is to address how someone’s social identities can affect the treatment process. so i will be spending a portion of my paper addressing the plight of young men (spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:15 AM
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i used to be quite a radical feminist when i was an adolescent and teenager so i saw marriage and children as a trap for women. i also couldn’t envision myself as a mom which makes since because i was like 14
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:30 PM
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i told you no 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:11 PM
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you can always spot the car of a millennial because they like to put stickers on the back of their car that say things like “i hate muggles.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:10 PM
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lbd
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 11:18 PM
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all i know about detroit is cars and that one video game about androids
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:59 PM
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thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:18 PM
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yeah my city isn’t very big and i’m competing against my classmates plus other counseling and social work programs from other universities
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:57 PM
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internship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:45 PM
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it’s actually really hard to find a place that will let you work for them for free
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:25 PM
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his wishes still matter. he still deserves dignity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:12 AM
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it might give you closure but i would think about if this was something your friend would have been ok with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:45 AM
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i’m sorry for your loss. but do you think it’s appropriate to have strangers online critique the appearance of someone who just committed suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:42 AM
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emotions are weird. i felt the full range in an hour
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:54 AM
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dik dik’s mate for life. they are very wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:53 PM
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6’1
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:26 PM
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i cannot deny this claim
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 04:42 PM
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i never actually watched bojack. but i would come across clips (the ones with the lofi music in the background) back when i was in high school and definitely found it relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:40 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:16 PM
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well i’m pretty sure he is still around so you might have interacted with him. i probably can’t be too specific without being reported
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:08 AM
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bro idk. strange individual
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 01:00 AM
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someone who used to post here and pretend to be multiple different people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:57 AM
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the only time i’ve been called that is here on ppd by you know who 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 12:34 AM
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this reminds me that for some reason companies are putting protein in everything now. protein coffee, protein soda, protein cereal, protein dubai chocolate bar
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:35 AM
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don’t you guys hate when you are working on a paper and it’s not coming together very well but you are too far ahead in the process to start over 🫠 it’s spring break right now and i’m 10 pages into google scholar results
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:09 PM
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as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:27 PM
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i feel like an inconvenience to the construction workers on campus. they are just trying to do their job while all the students are supposed to be away on spring break and here i am walking through their construction zone. i’m sorry i have to work 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:21 PM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:27 PM
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ok thx! 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:44 PM
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girl i really don’t know what happened lmao but yeah i would say so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:37 PM
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i wouldn’t call my hair straight. it’s ✨wavy✨but yes it every where all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:27 PM
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it’s too late. they are already out of the oven. they didn’t harden completely and broke apart really easily. maybe i did something else wrong as well. they don’t taste too bad though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:25 PM
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literally me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:12 PM
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i made cookies for the first time last week and it turned out pretty well which got me interested in baking. i tried to make cookies again today and i let my beginning baking high get to me. i wasn’t paying close enough attention and put wayyy too much vanilla in there so the dough was too wet and therefore my cookies are a mess 😖 this isn’t the end though. i will try again this weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:07 PM
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at least it was a field and not a sidewalk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:17 PM
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i’m tired of college campuses having terrible drainage systems. puddles the size of the great lakes everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:05 PM
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iykyk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:23 AM
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i’m not sure. my mom used to get calls and messages from a marine recruiter during my senior year of high school. she kept telling them i wouldn’t be interested but they continued to contact her for awhile. i didn’t get any recruitment emails until recently and they are sent to my school email so i guess the school gave them my information
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:30 PM
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i keep getting emails from the marines. they must really want me. i’ve gotten emails for becoming a marine lawyer and now i just got one about being a marine pilot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:18 PM
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real. except it’s supposed to rain a lot where i am how is school going?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:48 PM
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i don’t know what that is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:37 PM
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i never did either. i don’t think it’s an end all be all type of thing. although i do feel like i do know a high percentage of high school sweetheart couples but that could be a location thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:37 PM
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i was working in a cafe today and saw teenagers on a date. they were so cute together! eventually one of their dads showed up and was going to take them to the movie theater
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:23 PM
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i’m neither jealous of my brother or a stripper and as far as i’m aware, there will be no strippers. it’s pretty much a joint bachelor and bachelorette party and the wife to be said no strippers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:29 AM
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i think i can get to a point where i have less than i do now. but i have been fearful and nervous about things since i was a kid so it’s also a temperamental and personality trait
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:50 AM
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no. i’m at the stage where it is relatively manageable. i’m kind of used to just a base line level of stress and anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:31 AM
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yeah not as much as it used to be when i was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:17 AM
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my own anxiety has been more impactful on my life than anyone else’s has been
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:14 AM
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my brother is going to a bachelor party in a few weeks and my mom is freaking out about it. it’s nice to have her anxieties focused on someone else for once
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 01:08 AM
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likely for your sensibilities haha. there is another scene in the second half of the season but it’s not as long
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:34 PM
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if you plan to watch season 4, i would skip the entire last 6 minutes of episode 5 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:17 PM
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i’d say the vast majority of the time it’s done for shock value and audience engagement. but there are times when it makes sense for the plot as an escalation of tension
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:00 PM
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idk if you would enjoy season 4 of bridgerton lol. i tend to agree but i have a bias and think it’s done way better in media intended for women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:40 PM
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i get too much enjoyment from it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:32 AM
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the other day in class we were discussing multicultural counseling and how to be culturally competent. everyone was supposed to watch something or listen to a podcast to learn about a new culture. this guy talked about how he watched a ted talk on menopause. so many women in the class congratulations him on talking time to learn about women’s issues. i thought that was funny. bro just watched a ted talk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:30 AM
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probably times are rough. i’m not exactly frugal like you though. i just hate spending money on gas. i probably spend a similar amount a week on gas as i do coffee. i’m getting better about the coffee spending though. i’m bringing coffee from home half the week. it’s not the same but it will do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 12:15 AM
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i do the same thing. it doesn’t make logical sense but it feels better emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 11:57 PM
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my younger brothers are the same. i think it’s a side effect of being the oldest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:23 PM
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i’m getting trained in new things at my job. i’m learning a lot about the education systems in different countries so that i can evaluate international transcripts for admissions. today i watched training videos on the education systems in india and nigeria. it’s actually kind of interesting not super useful skills that i can transfer to what i will actually do in life but learning about all these countries could be useful if i work with clients from different countries
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 01:21 AM
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in some ways, we all have to unlearn unhealthy behaviors and coping mechanisms that we learned in childhood. some people never fully make it to the unlearning process and repeat the same cycles over and over. it’s amazing that you have made the commitment to be a better person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:09 PM
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i also feel that way sometimes. but also i think of how i wouldn’t be the person i am now without first being that version of me and i can’t be the version of myself that i want to become without first being the past and present version of myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:42 PM
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i don’t think she’s lazy. i think she’s made the conscious decision to care less about this class. the professor is quite difficult and she’s told me already that she has “checked out.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:53 PM
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i feel like in a way lack of knowledge is easier to address and fix than lack of care. people can always learn new things but you can’t really make someone care more (without using some sort of threat lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:43 PM
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it wouldn’t be so bad if everyone was like me lol. not that i’m so great and smart or anything but i care and i work hard
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:03 PM
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and the thing is that we are not undergrads, we are master’s students. it’s expected that things will be hard and you have to put in a lot of effort
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:08 PM
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maybe i was being too discriminatory when i said i don’t like doing projects with guys because the largest issue i’m having is with the other girl in the my group. i haven’t directly brought up my concerns with her and i know i should. i’ve done some indirect tactics but i feel like i shouldn’t have to do any of this because she should just do her work correctly. and this my friends is how resentment kills relationships because now every time i see her i feel kind of annoyed and it sucks because…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:45 PM
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i once had dreams of going to an ivy league but then i realized i had no exceptional abilities or circumstance and i had no money so state school it was
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 07:06 PM
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actually yes lol. it was slowly dying because it was elderly and i accidentally spilled something on it earlier and it took its last breath
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:04 PM
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i killed my slowly dying macbook and had to get a new one 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:01 PM
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exactly. it’s also common to see photos of gold medalists biting the medal, kissing the medal, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:56 AM
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no bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:38 AM
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this version of the photo isn’t ai. but people have used ai on some of her photos
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:37 AM
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i think it’s just a cute photo. and it’s unfortunate to see that people are using ai to make it look more pornographic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:33 AM
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eww
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:22 AM
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patriotic bunny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:09 AM
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i don’t watch the olympics but i love when americans win gold. the girl who won the gold in figure skating seems really cool and adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 12:02 AM
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i feel like every song in mulan is a banger
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 11:46 PM
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i don’t discriminate apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:24 PM
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aww it made itself so small and cute
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:18 PM
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i didn’t even see it that way lol. i thought it was just calling me kind and considerate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:12 PM
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i did this prompt before and this was the image it gave me <image> some classic ai hands
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:06 PM
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lmao that’s a scary place. you are brave
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:12 PM
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i would say though that i personally think smut is less brain rotting than porn. but reading anything is more productive and better for brain health than watching anything (especially porn but that’s my opinion lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:05 PM
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i guess it depends on what you mean by worse. if time taken is the metric then i guess so. but in terms of smut written inside a romance novel then it’s no different than the taking time to read any other book
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:59 PM
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the drugs might get to him before then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:38 AM
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he did get arrested for something not long ago but i guess nothing amounted from that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:25 AM
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i saw a video of him where he ran into someone with his car and he didn’t care at all and the girl in the car with him was freaking out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:21 AM
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thank you ☺️ i don’t always think so and this semester has been very humbling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:47 AM
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this was the first time all semester i think i said something somewhat profound in a mock session. at least i know i’m capable of it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:32 AM
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i think you might find therapy more useful especially if you find one that specializes in autism spectrum disorder or is autistic themselves. idk how it is in your country but here in the US, psychiatrist appointments are typically 15-20 minutes long and it’s just to see if your medications are working or need to be switched
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:08 PM
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very unprofessional 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:02 PM
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i mean it’s all mental healthcare and some people use both (i do). but they operate on different philosophies on what to do about mental health problems. psychiatrists are doctors so they take a very medical and biological approach which sometimes lack the human-to-human approach that therapists take. both are effective in their own ways but i think good therapy will take you further than medication but medication is useful and necessary for some conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:01 PM
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psychiatrists typically aren’t very warm and their solution to all your problems is more medication lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:55 PM
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that’s a misunderstanding of what therapy is. i am going to school to be a therapist. my therapist is actually very honest with me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:29 PM
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my therapist cancelled on me. brutal 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:19 PM
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i’m trying to let go and accept that i can’t make people work the same way i work. my work speaks for itself and if she gets caught eventually that’s on her and her name is attached to her slides
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:28 PM
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i understand she’s at a conference this week but like girl 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:17 PM
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one of my group members completely chat gpt-ed her entire section this week. i’m pretty sure she usually significantly uses it every week but it was super obvious this week. like research being cited but when you click the link it goes to a different article. i’m editing it a little to make it less obvious but going to mostly leave her stuff alone because last week i changed things substantially and i decided i can’t do that every week for my own sanity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 07:16 PM
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i can’t say i recommend the combination of coughing, a headache, and period cramps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 07:13 PM
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yesterday i was talking to my grandma and she told me she was proud of me for taking all the opportunities given to me in life. opportunities that she wished she could of had. it hit me in my feels 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:32 PM
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i remember people doing those posts in middle school. those were some trying times
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:05 AM
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having a sibling you are close to is nice because it gives you (almost) free reign to be rude to each other and know that your relationship will be fine. the other day my brother and i were arguing about who had the worst week. he was telling me that my week was easy mode because school isn’t that difficult. and i said “that’s why you dropped out, huh?” i think i won that one. i won’t lie he gets me sometimes though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:37 PM
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not all my ideas are from books but some definitely are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:52 AM
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i’m not sure what robbing a bank and going to a carnival have in common
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:49 AM
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oh you mean you don’t believe it’s her weirdest fantasy. i thought you meant that you didn’t believe it was a fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:36 AM
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omg i’m obsessed. now i want to go to this. i read a book with this type of vibe before and it was amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:21 AM
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that’s like the plot of half of all romance books
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:12 AM
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maybe he did that too. he’s the only actual creep that i know of here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:58 PM
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there was this dude that pretended to be multiple different people. on one of his multiple accounts he said he would save the pictures of women who posted themselves here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 11:50 PM
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thx bb 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:15 PM
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one of my cousins died of a fentanyl overdose a few years ago. we weren’t close. i hadn’t spoken to him really since i was a kid. i didn’t get to go to the funeral because i was in korea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:16 AM
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i’ve been facing it for many years. i just complain a lot but i still do the things (most of the time)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:09 AM
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people keep emailing the program director about this professor and i don’t see the point in it. she said to keep up updated so changes can be suggested for future semesters but people are emailing her like she is going to swoop in and save us. that’s not how it works. this one girl was showing people an email she planned to send the director and she does have legitimate concerns but one of her concerns is that an aspect of the class makes her anxious which imo is not a real concern. changes are …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:47 AM
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you know that meme that’s like “i’m alive but i’m dead.” that’s how i feel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:27 PM
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this class is actually killing me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:36 PM
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me: i’m available anytime after 2pm on friday my professor: ok here is the meeting link for 12:30 so he wants me to suffer. i understand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:49 PM
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i think we are misunderstanding each other because of the word threat. i personally don’t see that as a threat. when you enter a monogamous relationship, monogamy is a condition of the relationship. if that condition is no longer there, then the relationship no longer exists. to me there is no threat there. it’s just a consequence of breaking an agreement to me a threat would be if a person were to say “if you don’t do this, then i will…”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:47 AM
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boundaries are ultimately for yourself. it’s you saying i will not tolerate this behavior so i will separate myself from it. you don’t have to threaten or criticize anyone. if you make your boundaries clear and you leave because they were violated then it’s just a natural consequence of the other party’s behavior. they knew what would happen and chose to do it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:33 AM
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i’m not saying that i personally agree with that statement as a whole, i just found it to be an interesting idea. i do think accepting that you can only control your own behavior is a healthy concept. you can give advice but ultimately they are going to do what they are going to do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:29 AM
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the specific theory i’m talking about is choice theory. when it comes to relationships, it states there are 7 “deadly sin” behaviors that destroy relationships like criticizing, blaming, threatening, punishing, etc and that these behaviors are often do in an effort to control other people which ultimately destroys the relationship. people can have better relationships if they recognize the only person they can control is themselves and replace those deadly sin behaviors with caring behaviors suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:09 AM
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i read this thing in a textbook the other day and it said that we often have better relationships with those not so close to us like friends or acquaintances or even strangers than with spouses or family members. this theory says it’s because people tend to feel a sense of ownership over their partners or family members (like children) so they try to control them more which causes issues in the relationship. most people aren’t trying to tell their acquaintances what to do which results in less s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:50 AM
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thank you ☺️ you also got this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:47 PM
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i don’t even procrastinate. there is just so many all the time and most are time intensive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:39 PM
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yes 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:18 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:42 PM
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the trend is so funny because the doberman is just the scary/rbf version of the retriever or lab lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:41 PM
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what do you think about doberman bfs/husbands👀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:27 PM
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definitely not 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 03:41 PM
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unironically red lol. like a dark burgundy red. i wouldn’t want to go lighter than my natural hair because it would probably clash with my skin tone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:25 PM
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during undergrad, there was this guy that lived in my dorm that kept calling me emily. i told him that i wasn’t emily but multiple other times he tried to call me emily. i just ignored him because i’m not emily idk emily lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:54 PM
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yesterday my supervisor told me she thought she saw me at church but the girl had red hair and she was like i don’t think hannah would dye her hair red. i wanted to also say that i don’t go to church but i didn’t say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:45 PM
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yesss that’s so cute!! i will probably get my third lobe in a few months. i just want to wait till the current one is fully healed because they will be so close together
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:43 PM
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i’m happy i played a part in inspiring in this lol. i think i will get one more ear piercing at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:32 PM
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i thought i lost one of my airpods but it was in my ear 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:24 PM
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i wasn’t intending to make a logical point i just wanted to state my feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:34 PM
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every time i read your posts, i feel disturbed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:23 PM
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yeah my mom is interesting. she told me she’s glad she got a hysterectomy before i got my first cycle because she didn’t know if the family would survive with us both on our period at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:53 AM
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my mom told me that she didn’t want kids because she worked at a daycare for awhile and couldn’t stand children. and then my dad was able to convince her and she had 3. she told me she loves being a mom but still can’t stand other people’s kids. she told me to wait on having kids until her hormone levels are balanced out because the sound of a baby crying enrages her right now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:46 AM
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my mom told me if she was a young woman in today’s world, she wouldn’t have kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:38 AM
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yeah like you’ve been married to him for over 20 years so it can’t be too bad of a way to be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:09 PM
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i’m not sure i understand their musical direction i liked their debut song and that was about it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:59 PM
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when you are talking to your mom and get hit with “you sound just like your dad.” <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:50 PM
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unathletic son. ditziness is so annoying like just be smart
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:59 PM
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i got invited to a bar with people from my cohort tonight. i did contemplate if for a week but i’m too tired from the week 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:47 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:18 PM
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anxiety is a curse
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:45 PM
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yeah my life is also pretty good. all my suffering is self inflicted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:42 PM
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life is suffering 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:37 PM
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i didn’t realize how booked and busy my dentist was. i called to reschedule a teeth cleaning and was told the next available appointment isn’t till august
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:43 PM
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we had a regular that was at least 60 that liked to flirt with all the girls. half the girls there are under 18 or barely 18 so it was just odd and uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:28 PM
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when i was a barista, only old guys ever tried to hit on me. i figured it’s because old people have less social decorum
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:13 PM
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now the stakes are too high so i cannot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:17 PM
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being a good and responsible student is not based 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:38 PM
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i’ve never skipped class before. the only times i’ve missed class are when i was sick or because the professor said we could since the class was just going to be a study period or catch up day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:32 PM
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8:30 am and it’s time for coffee number two
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:37 PM
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i have no power to change anything in this situation. i can just try to work harder and hopefully get better at guessing what the professor wants from us since he doesn’t want to make it clear
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:03 AM
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i’m glad i have classmates that are trying to advocate to make this online class i’m in a better experience. their complaining hasn’t amounted to much but at least they are trying. i’m more of a suffer in silence type of person. i’m like this meme <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:56 PM
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i always compared myself to belle when i was younger. she was never my favorite princess but she was the most like me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:01 PM
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dang what did belle do to deserve that?? but i think snow white is the most plain and boring princess
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:56 PM
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<image> this girl
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:52 PM
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he tried to copy anthony’s iconic speech and then ended it with “be my mistress” 😒 anthony would recognize kate even if she turned into a worm
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:24 PM
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he out here investigating women with red hair, black women, etc. it was clear, even with the mask that she is asian. and then besides that there have been so many clues. i know it’s for that plot but it is def annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:20 PM
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i am enjoying the first half of bridgerton season 4 considerably more than i enjoyed season 3. benedict is a mess though <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:28 PM
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my uncle and fiancée have been engaged for at least a decade and i actually didn’t find this out until recently but my parents got engaged a year after being together but didn’t get married for another 5-6 years. they finally got married when i was like 10 months old. they went to visit my mom’s extended family soon after i was born and weren’t allowed to stay in the same bed because they weren’t married lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:04 PM
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bridgerton season 4 is out. let’s see if it can top season 2. they need to redeem themselves because season 3 was kind of trash
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 12:49 AM
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yeah for a therapy skills class i can also cry on command. not like big crying but i can summon some tears
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:52 AM
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try being a 19 year old graphic design major whose parents died in a car accident when she was 2 so she was adopted by her aunt and uncle. she also wears hearing aids. and she is in therapy because she is having identity issues
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:45 AM
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it’s actually really hard to pretend to be someone you are not. i had to do it for 45 minutes and it was exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:30 AM
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idk if you seen some of these but there is this meme format called cat rizz and i think you would like it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:14 PM
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in the interview for the job i just got, i didn’t lie but i definitely presented the best version of myself which is not entirely the person i am currently. i also knew my audience and used specific examples and phrases that would appeal to them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:10 PM
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i wonder who this man is. he looks like the manager from alvin and the chipmunks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:58 PM
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<image> i think i am an ipad kid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:55 PM
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idk. i know he was addicted to cocaine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:18 AM
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yeah the oedipus and electra complex are the two pseudo incest theories
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:09 AM
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freud’s concept of penis envy related to young girls and women being envious that they lack the power a penis represents (plus add some weird shit about being attracted to your father). this is more feasible than women being jealous of the penis itself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:50 PM
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this week is so disorientating. my classes have either been cancelled or remote and my work has been remote (except i don’t really have any work to do). i’ve been spending too much time in my house. my sense of time has been impacted. i thought today was wednesday <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:37 PM
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fish abuse is not ok
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:57 AM
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yeah those fish are just going about their day when all of the sudden they get ripped from their home and then thrown back in. and i think it’s fine to fish or hunt when you are planning to use it as food because that’s just the cycle of life. but killing a living creature for fun is just so odd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:35 AM
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i’m definitely not far from that demo. i think a woman in my area who planned to reject all profiles with a fish, dead deer, gun, truck, confederate flag, etc would be cutting at least 60% of all male profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:22 AM
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i don’t really like fishing because it seems like just traumatizing fish for fun. also one time when i was a kid my grandpa took me fishing and i think me and the fish traumatized each other. i hooked the fish and when it came out of the water, i got scared and dropped the pole and the fish was just flopping on the ground. and then i was upset because i thought the fish would die but luckily someone put it back in the water for me. so yeah i don’t have the best experience with fishing lol essent…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:13 AM
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that’s my sparkle
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:25 PM
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her messages kind of freak me out. she uses those ominous ellipses that old people love to use without knowing it makes their texts look a little threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:17 PM
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can’t argue with the truth 😌 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:11 PM
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i got a text from my supervisor and i didn’t have her number saved yet so when i saw a message that started with “hey dear…” i thought it was just some weirdo spam texting me but the rest of the text made it clear that it was my supervisor. she was so curt in her emails to me before i was hired and now i am dear. a little strange but i will just go with it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:10 PM
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<image> unfortunately i had to make some alterations 😇
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 08:02 PM
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when will ear piercings stop itching
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:51 AM
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yeah i’ve been taught this in multiple classes. it’s just so awkward to do with people your own age. i don’t want to seem bossy or overly critical but i want the assignment to be done correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:22 PM
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i hate correcting people. “hey you actually need to do this this and this. but otherwise you did a great job!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 08:33 PM
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she wasn’t when she was kidnapped and help captive for almost a year
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:32 AM
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that’s a terrible thing to say about a kidnapped child
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:27 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:22 AM
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i know in my local area, most businesses closed early today and won’t be open tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:50 PM
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i’ve seen a lot of healthcare workers saying they have been asked to sleep at the hospital to make sure they can be at their shifts and they are basically fired if they can’t come to work due to the snow my mom used to work in healthcare and she said the last time there was a big snowstorm in our area the choices were sleep at the hospital or someone will come pick you up from your house. not coming in was never an option
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 10:44 PM
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i was going to say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 09:50 PM
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makes sense that we have the same personality type
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:49 AM
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in my like 17 years of being in school, i have not had a single good experience working with a guy on a project
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:40 AM
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i would have an aneurysm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:36 AM
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it’s one of those things were we will each be typing separately on a powerpoint so i had to make sure it was set up correctly. usually though from past experiences, i still have to go back through and change the formatting to my liking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:30 AM
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and no offense to men but in my experience, the quality of their work often doesn’t meet my standards. it can be the same with women but women usually try to make their contributions aesthetically pleasing there is a guy in my group and we have a group chat to discuss stuff and me and the other girl are constantly chatting in there and he just puts a thumbs up or heart on the messages lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:27 AM
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i’m realizing that my issue with group work isn’t working with other people, it’s that i don’t have as much control. i’m dealing with this by at least making the template we will use for our presentations so i can control the fonts and colors used. my group members think i’m just being nice but no i just want control over what it looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:23 AM
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i guess it’s nice that i can do my school work. but i don’t like feeling useless. i like structure and rules
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 04:15 PM
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there is a guy in my cohort that used to smoke a lot of weed but last i heard he gave it up because he wants to see things with a clear mind
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 03:31 PM
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i wouldn’t even know where to acquire one of those
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:50 PM
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i started a new job and they don’t have anything for me to do yet so i just keep getting told to do whatever i want 😭 i find that stressful
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:38 PM
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i’m just glad my area is supposed to get way more snow than ice because i would prefer to have electricity this weekend. it will be the most snow i’ve seen in my lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 01:28 AM
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thx lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:41 AM
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yeah i guess so. not the most ethical practice for the student or the client but this is the way the industry works
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:29 AM
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you don’t get hired. you work for free or a very minimal amount of money. it’s an internship. the people you are working with consent to the fact that their therapist is still a student. sometimes they are offered free or reduced services
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:05 AM
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some poor individual this summer is going to have a 22 year old student therapist. bless them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:55 PM
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no thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:11 AM
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it’s amazing the things people will say in public. i was in a cafe today taking notes on substance use disorder and there was this group of middle aged women telling all sorts of tea on their marriage and troubled children. i had to pause my music to listen a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:55 PM
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it’s called sunday scaries
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:22 PM
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i think the anger can be there a lifetime, if you never work on it. it’s an active process of reworking the way your brain processes setbacks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:41 AM
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i internalize most everything so all of that negative energy is directed toward myself. so when someone gets something i want, i don’t feel upset with them, i feel upset with myself. if i was smarter, better, etc then i would have achieved it also
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:21 AM
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i definitely have an ego about certain things. and i have a hard time accepting things when they don’t go how i wanted or expected them to. i need a few business days to process it and then i can move on. i am happy for people when they achieve things but i can admit i do feel some jealously if someone achieves something that i didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:09 AM
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hi zair who is apparently not zair. you know i’d rather die than work hr
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:55 PM
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i went to my universities hr department today and it was kind of spooky. it was a big open space with like 100 cubicles but there was only two people there. so maybe a lot of people left early on friday but there wasn’t even anything, not even a computer on 99% of the desks. the lights were kind of dim too. it was like one of those spooky liminal space videos i was so tempted to ask the person i was talking to about why there was no people and no computers but i thought maybe that would be rude.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:46 PM
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no. same with cops and active military. the domestic violence stats are definitely a turn off, plus likely ideological differences
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:37 AM
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i fear this is likely very accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:33 PM
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i think to survive in the modern age of digital media, a lot of libraries are transforming to be community spaces which i think is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:17 PM
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i know people say local neighborhood libraries are dead but as i was leaving one today the middle school across the street was letting out and a hoard of kids were on their way over. it really is one of the only local places for kids that age to go
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:08 PM
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it’s a textbook about clinical interviewing skills and this section was about how to professionally present yourself to clients and whether clothing that showcases cleavage or crotch is appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:09 PM
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<image> sometimes textbooks can make you giggle
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:06 PM
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he’s a cute little guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:37 AM
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i feel like if my mom was younger then she would have listened to lana del rey and if tilly was a human then she would
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:32 AM
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yeah. yours truly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:17 AM
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makes sense. even as someone who listens to lana, i can’t deny that there are a subsection of her fans that are probably the most deranged women you could encounter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:58 AM
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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8fjD54t/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:47 AM
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i think gypsy rose needs to be locked back up for the harm caused to me by all those videos of her that have been released
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:38 AM
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campus safety sends the most vague emails. “there is an incident at the library. please stay away.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:30 PM
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i thought you were supposed to be pure
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:58 PM
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she can see a female gynecologist. and you can’t perform most gynecological services on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:35 PM
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such a generous queen
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:20 AM
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heart eye emoji. sus 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:04 PM
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it didn’t happen at the gym. i willed it into existence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:54 PM
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my grandma asked if i got taller. yeah i’ll be 6’ soon 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:48 PM
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it wouldn’t be so bad if it was phrased in a way that made it seem like he wanted to be helpful. it’s still embarrassing though. him doing it because he is so impatient is a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:35 PM
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i’m not really sure but vision is at the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 10:54 PM
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i’m also infj
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:15 PM
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this must be the year for detoxing from nicotine. several people in my grad classes are doing it and several coworkers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:08 PM
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an 18 year old girl :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:07 AM
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that’s ok. i only want to see nice things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:19 AM
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no. it’s a job for the university that would pay for my education
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:08 AM
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i would never use that bathroom. might get a disease
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:04 AM
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i might get an opportunity that would mean i would be leaving my job as a barista. i didn’t think this would happen but i will actually miss my coworkers i think we have a positive gossip wall in the bathroom and people leave little nice notes about each other in there. i found this one in there today (there was actually 2 about me). it made my heart feel warm <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:59 AM
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it’s still around in other ways 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:47 PM
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<image> they got my girl. but don’t worry i already found the backup sites
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:20 PM
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in just a random public setting where i don’t have the expectation that i will see a person again, i have never had the urge to talk to anyone. in other settings, i prefer other people to initiate first. but i will force myself for the sake of being normal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:07 PM
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man needs to go home to his wife instead of buying $8 drinks everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:17 PM
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old man customer told me that he thinks he saw me and my mom at the grocery store last week same customer told someone before that he likes coming to our location because he sees us all as his girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:08 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:28 AM
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since she is making this public information, i’m sure her husband knows all about her past. maybe he sees it as a testament to his righteousness. he was able to make a wife out of a “whore” through the grace of god or whatever someone has to tell themselves to deal with cognitive dissonance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:56 PM
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<image> this will probs be her next post the religious conservative grift is strong right now. i think it’s also a trend among OF creators
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:46 PM
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that sucks. what will you do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:04 PM
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for some reason, a lot of the child actors that were around when i was younger never age in my mind. for example, i saw a few women on tiktok talking about how hot they think finn wolfhard is and i was like isn’t he a kid 🤨 but then i remembered we are pretty much the same age and i’m no longer a kid so neither is he
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:22 PM
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you can’t fool me <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:08 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:00 PM
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my grandpa proposed to my grandma 3 times before she accepted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:13 PM
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what a cute little nugget
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:35 PM
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nah he actually had a rough life. i heard something about a tire iron being involved in one incident. he said my grandma changed him. i feel like they had an old school version of a wattpad romance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:51 PM
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it’s hard to believe this man used to run the streets and beat people up. he looks like santa claus
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:37 PM
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my grandma sent me a picture of my grandpa wearing the shirt i got him for christmas 🥹😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:27 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:25 PM
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true don’t have to be super people pleasing. my favorite way to be subtly bitchy to rude customers is to be extremely nice to them. they are angry and i’m just like “have such an amazing day 🥰”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:44 AM
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i feel like the parents that are most miserable are the ones that have multiple young children all at the same time. my brother and i were close in age but also didn’t act like how a lot of kids today act
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:33 AM
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i’m going to be a therapist so i have a whole career ahead of people telling me things that will likely make me feel uncomfortable sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:31 AM
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<image> always gotta pull this face when customers say something that makes me feel awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:16 AM
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customer told me today to never have kids. he said life stops being fun as soon as you have kids. he said this as his 3 kids all under 5 were screaming in the backseat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:08 AM
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better i guess because i have a college degree. my parents didn’t have kids at my age and both were still at home at my age. similar in most metrics besides the degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:58 PM
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thank you. merry christmas 🎄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:18 PM
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merry christmas. hallelujah 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:50 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:25 PM
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this is likely not the song being referred to but it’s what first came to mind for me. i’m not sure why because i’ve never been a fan of high school musical 3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:35 AM
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one of my brother’s friends has so much drama in his life that it’s very entertaining to hear about. this is the friend that got married to a girl that he knew for two months and now they live together and are trying for a baby a few days ago the friend found out that his sister has been cheating on her boyfriend that she has a kid with with the boyfriend’s younger brother. that’s already crazy enough but the craziest part is that this has been going on for two years when the little bro was 15!!…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 01:53 AM
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i’m not sure anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:59 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 10:54 PM
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thank you ☺️ i like to post cute things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 05:28 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:58 PM
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my parents didn’t let me walk to the library which was less than a mile walk until i was 16. walking to school was definitely not an option even in high school because they were afraid of us getting kidnapped and sold into human trafficking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:47 PM
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the elves are going to have to create a woman like dr frankenstein did
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:38 PM
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what did you ask santa for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:52 PM
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it’s christmas eve eve
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:45 PM
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the thing about kdramas is that there are rarely ever guns because guns are practically illegal in korea so to keep things a little more realistic in shows the violence is often knife based and at a certain point, i think it’s better to just be shot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:20 PM
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i’m watching this kdrama and it’s got me stressed out. can’t go a single episode without people fighting, getting beat up, and killed. i’m hooked though. only 3 more episodes left
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:14 PM
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it’s over for plasticcels
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:36 AM
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it costs a lot less to keep used butter, sour cream, etc containers to store food in. also better for the environment. reduce reuse and recycle
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:26 AM
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so you hate poor people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:20 AM
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chuck bass definitely liked scantily clad women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:38 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:20 AM
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i was looking for something very specific online and i couldn’t find it but i did come across some old anti suffrage political cartoons that i found funny <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:20 AM
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i do think my life would be a lot better if i lived in a walkable city or a city with good and safe public transit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:59 PM
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it’s aesthetic and it’s lana del rey
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:40 PM
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<image> real advice
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:50 PM
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the only part that really creeped me out as a kid was the scene with the marionettes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:03 AM
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i don’t know if i can explain it. the girls who get it get it. it’s a very deep nostalgia
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:03 AM
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i love the polar express movie but it also fills me with despair. the knowledge that what has been will never be again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:57 PM
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you should eventually compile these into a book or something. it would be a cute gift or keepsake
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:46 PM
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these are so cute 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:42 PM
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so true queen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:18 PM
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he’s still edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:30 AM
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<image> martha may is an icon
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:27 AM
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wait is this darktriadmaxx??!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:17 AM
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<image> you can be green and fugly and still get a baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:17 AM
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i think she thought it would help bond us together
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:57 PM
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my sophomore year english teacher made us all make homemade valentines cards for everyone in the class and you had to write at least one compliment. i didn’t even talk to most people in the class so my cards were basically just “happy valentine’s day! i think you seem cool.” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:39 PM
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your sweatshirt is so cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:51 PM
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honestly this is just how some girls interact with each other. i think that’s why being a lesbian can be really difficult sometimes because women say stuff like this to each other and it really doesn’t mean anything beyond being really friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:45 AM
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bro 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:44 AM
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is that the coworker that bought you vegetables
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:00 AM
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they don’t know that lol. but yes i took her shift
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:38 PM
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one day someone will. amen 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:27 PM
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one of them is married. she is 20 but married. and the girl who sent this message is into 6’3 lacrosse players which i am not lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:48 PM
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y’all wish you got messages like this <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:39 PM
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no. i work at a coffee shop. these girls are mostly a few years younger than me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:38 PM
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i have multiple coworkers (female) that tell me they love me. it kind of makes me a little uncomfy but i say it back because not doing so would make it more awkward. it’s difficult being so loved 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:35 PM
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i made a heartfelt comment and this is the reply. sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:52 PM
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i don’t remember you mentioning that to me. but that sounds cool! i think you would be good at animation with your drawing skills my semester was also kind of brutal but now it is time to rest 🎄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:19 PM
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hi keeby. how was your semester ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:49 PM
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you get a lot of shit and rightfully so a lot of the times but i do emphasize with you in the fact that you are under a lot of pressure. your family puts a lot of pressure on you and so does your gf. it does seem unfair when you consider that most 21 year olds are just living life but that being said, the lying is not good. you can’t please everyone. and yes, i would want to break up with someone who was lying to me to that extent. i think if you explained the situation to your gf months ago (li…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:36 PM
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my poor macbook can barely run the sims anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:16 PM
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yuyu 🤨 (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:55 PM
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<image> i’ve got you coat. so many cute things on pinterest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:10 PM
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my brother just got me sick. i feel like every time i get sick, it’s because of him. or my other brother. basically brothers just get you sick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 01:41 AM
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tell them to get an uber
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:48 PM
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i’ll always find out 👁️👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:24 AM
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i heard some talk of santa, easter bunny, etc not being real at school but what really did it for me was when i heard my parents discussing what they were getting me for christmas on accident. i’ve also always been quite perceptive so i caught onto the fact that santa wrapped gifts in the same wrapping paper that my parents used to give gifts to my grandparents and cousins. this was when i was about 7 or 8. i let my parents think i still believed in all of that for awhile
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:19 AM
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i was but a small child then. just a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:09 AM
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when i found out santa wasn’t real, i cried
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 02:40 AM
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that’s what i’m saying because i didn’t even like her new album. i have a few of her albums that i will listen to pretty frequently but not enough for her to be my #2 artist i feel
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:28 PM
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i got the se which is cheaper version with less features and i like it. i like it as an exercise tracker and randomly i also really like the sleep tracking feature. i like all that data
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:25 PM
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<image> i feel like my top albums are a better example of what i listened to this year than my top artists because there is always one or two artists that feel like i barely listened to but they are there anyway. like i’m genuinely not sure how taylor swift is in my top this year. it’s a conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:22 PM
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watch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:19 PM
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my first iphone was the 6s in rose gold. i felt so cool when i went to school with that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:11 PM
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i’m usually good at making all my products last awhile. i did have to replace my airpods recently because i lost them lol. my oldest thing is my macbook which was a high school grad present
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:09 PM
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i need to up my game next year. my listening minutes on spotify were only like 43k. i had 65k in a past year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:02 PM
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it’s probably because two of my top albums were released 2014-2015
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:00 PM
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<image> i got called a millennial
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:51 PM
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i’m stuck in the ecosystem. i have 5 apple products (6 if you count the apple pencil)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:46 PM
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weekend after thanksgiving <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:19 PM
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that’s nice. i chose a career that’s a big front loaded investment (with not the largest earning potential for a job that requires a masters degree but it’s ok because it’s my passion)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:59 PM
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get a masters and then you can put that off for a little bit 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:49 PM
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the one office i’ve worked/interned in so far was in a small-ish town so it was 98% white people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:42 PM
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b. guinea pigs are cool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:04 PM
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the barely legal thing is disgusting. there is also no way for her to actually verify that all those boys were even of age. ids can be faked and some people have said she doesn’t even always check ids i also think in general the things she does are gross but i’d have less of an issue if she just stopped doing the barely legal stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:35 PM
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that’s kind of her thing. she’s disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:24 PM
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french writers and artists were particularly freaky
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 04:21 PM
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i’ve still never tried venison
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:14 PM
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what will you eat for thanksgiving coat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:10 PM
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i saw many gen alpha girls in the sephora begging their mom for stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:56 PM
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i remember why i stopped going to sephora as much. i bought two little things and they put them in a tiny little bag and now $40 is gone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:43 PM
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there is hardly ever alcohol at my family events unless it’s an event with my extended family (those people drink a lot lol). no one in my immediate family really drinks. maybe because my grandpa was an alcoholic idk. my uncle used to drink a lot but then he felt like he was becoming an alcoholic so he doesn’t as much anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:47 PM
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i do like to read. i don’t do it as often as i’d like to though. growing up, fantasy was always my favorite genre because i liked the sense of escapism and being able to imagine a world full of magic and adventures
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 06:01 PM
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i think it’s a good thing to still feel that way. i don’t think i’ve felt that same level of happiness since i hit puberty. but i think that’s more on my brain lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:57 PM
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maybe i was being hyperbolic but children see the world through such an untainted lens (or at least they should). childhood is a beautiful thing. that’s the reason nostalgia is such a powerful marketing tool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:31 PM
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nothing is as magical as when you were a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:30 PM
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<image> i’m sad that this is most likely ai she doesn’t even have a mouth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:24 PM
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i love the holidays. but i get sad that it will never feel the same as it used to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 05:10 PM
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i do feel joy in that. i actually really like gift giving. i spend a lot of time thinking about what to get people and i do research. even years when i wasn’t working, i would try to do something creative as a gift. of course there are other ways to make people happy besides gifts and i try to do those things also
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:58 PM
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she is 4. she wants art supplies and i know there are a billion bluey coloring books. i feel like if i get her a few coloring books of popular kids characters and shows right now then chances are she will like one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:52 PM
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that’s always nice to hear. but it’s hard to divorce the fact that giving makes people feel good so in a way i am getting something out of this. when i took a social psychology class, a lot of theorists debate whether humans can be altruistic because the knowledge that we are giving back releases endorphins and stuff. but anyway i try to be a good person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:47 PM
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i adopted a child. and by that i mean that i’m participating in the angel tree charity this year. i wish they included stuff about their favorite color and favorite characters and stuff because my instinct is to get this girl a bunch of pink things but i don’t even know if she likes pink. it just lists clothing items they need and a few toys they would like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:42 PM
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i went to the doctor not too long ago and she asked if i engage in regular substance use and after i said no she was like what about caffeine. i forgot that was considered a substance lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:26 PM
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yeah i was going to say the only way to truly relieve the stress of a grad student is to get all our assignments done and ensure good placements 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:59 PM
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for what it’s worth, i think the majority of dark romance books that have evolved from booktok are disgusting. people who genuinely like things like that need help. this stuff is so far beyond the typical toxic male lead in romance novels
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:31 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:20 AM
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i only know about the book from tiktok. i saw the trigger warnings page and it’s just a list of crimes 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:16 AM
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it certainly is not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:05 AM
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yeah like a hallmark movie. she likes to watch those
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 02:09 AM
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is that what your gf likes to read
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:56 AM
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i’m going to buy my grandma some books for christmas. she likes romance books. i just have to make sure they are of the wholesome variety
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 01:46 AM
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you definitely need to have a conversation with him first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:29 PM
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maybe i’m just strange
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:30 PM
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maybe. i was somewhat aware of these topics before from youtube video essays
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:27 PM
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you’re a child
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:24 PM
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i’ve been around here since i was 19. there is one user that’s been here since she was 16
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:24 PM
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more like old hag 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:54 PM
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my coworker asked what year i was born and when i said 2003, she asked if i was a millennial 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:51 PM
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my brother would never get me a $1000 gift tbf i wouldn’t do that either right now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:06 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:23 PM
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are you even in the same department? i don’t think most people will think of that. university hierarchies aren’t something that crosses average people’s minds lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:58 PM
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only wrong if you’re her TA or something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:46 PM
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ughhh that’s what i wanted. i should have just got it. perfect for a rainy day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:17 PM
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i wanted panera but i convinced myself that since i wanted soup and bread that i could have panera at home. it was not as satisfying. there is something about the hard as a rock piece of baguette that makes eating soup so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:12 PM
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little brothers always make everything about themselves 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:38 PM
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my parents said we lived in a haunted apartment when i was a toddler. apparently one night i was crying because i saw a man with a burnt face 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 11:03 PM
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my grandpa has a lot of photos of his appalachian relatives similar to this. in most of them people didn’t seem to smile. he showed me a photo of this man when i was younger and he told me this guy was rumored to be a witch who did voodoo and stuff. it was a very creepy picture
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:37 PM
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not particularly. both are kind of basic scottish/irish names
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:54 PM
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no but i feel like i’m writing 51 of the 85 federalist papers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:54 PM
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i’ve been writing so much this week that i understand how alexander hamilton felt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:21 PM
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now i want a kitten
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:47 AM
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hi hot lack
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:41 AM
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maybe. my first semester roommate was a lesbian and she didn’t have much of a sense of style. she was still wearing skinny jeans and they were decidedly not fashionable anymore at that time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:06 AM
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i’m not a part of the community so i don’t really know but femme lesbians are definitely a thing. and some probably put more effort into their appearance than i do. some of the styling choices of masc lesbians can be called into question though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 12:59 AM
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how am i supposed to look presentable when i feel dead inside - my brother, 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:36 AM
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my feedback from my internship last year was positive but i was also told that i was too quiet. someone there compared me to a mouse 😅 i can’t be too quiet in my next internships because i will literally be someone’s therapist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:53 PM
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yeah depending on your career, people skills are very important. and as you become older people are less tolerant to social mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 03:43 PM
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put more effort into socializing when i was younger. those are skills that are hard to catch up on when you are in your 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 02:49 PM
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i used to say i would be alone forever and never get married or have kids also. i was just depressed with low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 04:11 PM
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in high school, my mom thought i was a lesbian because i was sad all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 03:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:27 AM
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she real short too. like no taller than 5’1
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:19 AM
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coworker was telling me she has to interact with a lot of student athletes because she is a reporter for her schools newspaper. and she was saying so many of the guys have bad attitudes because they are tall and think they can get away with it. and then she said “that being said i would only want to marry a man if he was at least 6’4” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:19 AM
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i was a huge icarly fan when i was a kid. i went to a meet and greet for jennette mccurdy and got her autograph. i was really nervous so i only said hi
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 10:53 PM
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will you be married in 5 years 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:17 PM
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getting stuck in rooms. very relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:16 PM
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that’s a part of the process though. enemies to lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:15 PM
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girl you are literally in the perfect place to do this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:11 PM
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<image> how this comment made me feel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:50 PM
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my coworkers think i’m a genius because i’m in a masters program and have a smart vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:39 PM
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i have a real dog. i don’t need a clanker one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:27 PM
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i thought maybe i could get one of those teddy bear cups from starbucks today but they were sold out when i went to my local one. i heard the workers saying people had lawn chairs set out at 4am today. there is nothing in the world that i want to buy that much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:16 PM
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i got them all right. i don’t know how much of an accomplishment that is though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:56 AM
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maybe not 3. but she lets me lead (sometimes, depends on the situation)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:23 AM
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<image> i am the alpha 🐺
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:16 AM
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you’re losing it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:07 AM
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<image> author could have phrased that highlighted sentence a little better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:26 PM
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i tried to get into her music and i like some of her songs. but overall it’s not my thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:05 PM
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wtf luckily i haven’t come across those
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:22 PM
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lmao i guess that’s why they do it. but it doesn’t make me want to download the game. it just bothers me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:55 PM
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yes. i really don’t like those ads. i hate seeing the little animated baby in destress lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:50 PM
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this is a very niche complaint. but you know the mobile game ads where the ad is just engagement bait and doesn’t actually show what the game is. this is more specific to those matching type games but the ads will sometimes depict characters in destress. like there is this one with a mom and baby in a house that is falling a part and the baby is cold and a pile of snow falls on it. or a guy falls into a pit of spikes. i don’t like it. i find it kind of disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:45 PM
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i would say i see as many customers as a cashier. i work at a busy coffee place. we have regulars that i see multiple times a week
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:50 AM
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it could mean she is interested. but i also remember things about regular customers at my work and i am not interested in them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:46 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:38 PM
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even if i wanted to which i don’t because i hate doing interviews, i really don’t feel like i have the time. also the paper can only be on one place
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:37 PM
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that would probably be a waste of my time since the paper is only on one organization. plus the time i need to dedicate to all my other final papers i have to prioritize what place i would rather have a connection to and the second place is what i would rather prioritize
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:26 PM
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i emailed multiple organizations for a paper i’m writing and i wasn’t expecting to get many responses. i got a response yesterday from one and i was like cool so i emailed back about setting up a meeting time. and i just got another response from an organization i’m more interested in. am i supposed to just tell the other person oops sorry for wasting your time 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:01 PM
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yesstyle is legit. they also sell skincare and makeup. it’s definitely fast fashion vibe though so idk if you are into that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:16 AM
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lots of asian especially korean fashion websites sell stuff like that. really only works though if you fit into asian sizing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:13 AM
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one thing about a college campus is that you will see people that you don’t want to see literally everyday and it’s really awkward. one time i ghosted this entire friend group and we were always at the dining hall at the same time my psychoanalysis here is that you don’t want to lose the attention he is giving you and even though you don’t like him, you like the fact that he likes you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:02 AM
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we do it because we care 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:50 PM
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lucky me that i have 2 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:19 PM
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sometimes i try to have serious conversations with my brother and i think he purposely tries to ragebait me. yesterday he was saying poor people should just go to the woods and hunt instead of getting government assistance. i think he likes to be edgy sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:08 PM
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what you say about yourself becomes your reality. it always sounds easy when people say to change how you think but it really does require a systematic change in the way your brain responds to situations. it’s an ongoing process, not an easy fix. it may seem silly but there is research that supports saying affirmations even if you don’t believe them in the moment has a positive impact on the way you respond in the future. even smiling when you are sad has a positive impact on your mood
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:10 PM
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a big part of neutrality and acceptance is changing how you speak to yourself. instead of things like “i’m a failure. i never do anything right,” you can say “i made a mistake but i can try again.” it doesn’t mean you give up on improving yourself, it just means you are less demeaning toward yourself in the process. you can work on losing weight without waking up every morning and thinking about how much you hate the way you currently look. that’s not to say that any of this is easy because it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:52 PM
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personally i think it’s better to aim for neutrality and self acceptance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:27 PM
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electric chair 👩‍⚖️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:52 PM
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sorry. for [redacted]
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:27 AM
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<image> for basil
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:11 AM
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<image> i love pumpkin but this is too far
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:58 AM
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it seemed pretty clean to me but everyone has different sensibilities. i posted this here before but here is some pictures of the one i went to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:42 PM
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the one i went to was in south korea. but i know there is one in my city but i haven’t been to it yet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:36 PM
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i went to one. it was really fun to just be completely surrounded by cats lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:35 PM
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yeah i guess if you went into it thinking of it as a coaching service instead of companionship. i think it feels kind of dystopian though to commodify companionship in this way. the article even mentions long work hours in japan leading people to feel like they don’t have time to meet people and form bonds i did see a story once of a woman falling in love with one of these rental boyfriends and then getting upset the guy didn’t want anything from her but money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:59 AM
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https://joyn.tokyo/about-japan/society/rent-a-boyfriend-in-japan
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:46 AM
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i think they have services like this in japan
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:43 AM
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<image> i’ll have a masters degree before my brother graduates high school
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:43 PM
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it’s been so long since i’ve read the books (like a decade) but i believe it was explained as nico was jealous of annabeth because he had a crush on percy. it was probably a change the author made when he decided to write the hero’s of olympus series rather than something he planned on originally
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:11 PM
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one of my first fictional crushes was on nico and i was sad when it was revealed that he was gay lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:01 PM
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maybe lol. it’s funny how gen z interprets being compared to a millennial as an insult. maybe i should start saying “millennial (not derogatory)”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:00 PM
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you type like a millennial 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:55 PM
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annabeth from percy jackson? but that’s also not how it works lol. my dad has blue eyes and my mom has brown. me and my brothers all have various shades of brown eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:54 PM
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you do kind of give millennial vibes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:47 PM
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at least capybara isn’t ai
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 01:46 AM
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saw an ai video with 2 million likes. the comments were eating it up. maybe the comments were ai too. maybe nothing is real
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 01:33 AM
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avoid them. eventually they will stop i guess that is kind of rude but i won’t lie and say i haven’t done it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 10:30 PM
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<image> just a chill guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:42 PM
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u/Unique-Afternoon6316 respond to these allegations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:38 PM
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over half way through the semester and i just got my first piece of good grad school gossip. it started off as complaining about a professor and then someone mentioned how they heard one of our male classmates talking about how he uses therapy speak to get girls. they didn’t say he name but we only have a handful of guys in our program and two of those handful are married with kids. i figure it’s probably the one guy with the stereotypical male feminist aesthetic. you know tote bag and black nai…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:08 PM
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i used a lot of mods and cc but never bothered to download a lot for male sims. my female sims looked like runway models and then their husband was just in a t shirt and jeans
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:00 AM
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<image> the simcel in question all my sims always looked the same. they were beautiful but definitely looked the same. and i never made male sims myself because they always turned out ugly lol. i think i kept just trying to put female facial features on them and it wasn’t working out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:49 AM
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i remember when people were doing the breed out the ugly challenge on youtube
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:43 AM
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i pay mine off every time i get paid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 02:27 AM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:38 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:35 AM
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i’d be able to do all the careers that i want. i’d be a writer, lawyer, doctor, baker, librarian. i’d be a detective if there was a universe where you also didn’t have to be a cop
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:24 AM
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imposter syndrome
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:12 AM
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communication skills are so big. shyness and introversion are a true hindrance in academia and the workplace. i always get the feedback that i need to speak up more and learn to be more pushy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:57 PM
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<image> type of shit tiktok shows you when you want a moment of rest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:40 PM
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the furries at my school were harmless. this one sounds like a menace
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:23 AM
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i can see that. i used to try and write ‘and’ like the symbol & but it always looks messy when i do it so i stopped trying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:54 PM
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no whip cream. a lot of pumpkin spice lattes will automatically come with whip cream unless you ask them not to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:48 PM
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the second one looks more like an @ but the first one looks more like a backward c
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:47 PM
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i try not to judge people too much. but who on earth writes ‘a’ like this. i won’t deduct points for my name being misspelled because how could she know <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:28 PM
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<image> so many good quotes from her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:52 PM
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if it was dark, then it wouldn’t be tea
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:08 PM
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piping hot work tea. last night someone left a coworker all alone in the store saying she was just going to talk to her boyfriend for a few minutes because he brought her some food. she didn’t come back for almost an hour and the other girl had to run everything by herself. the rumor is that she left to go have sex with her boyfriend in the car. and she was clocked in the entire time 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:18 PM
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not really
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:07 AM
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the friend is 21. i’m assuming the girl is similar age
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:53 PM
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guy is half white half korean and girl is white
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:49 PM
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my brother’s friend is getting married to a girl he’s known for a month. and no she is not pregnant or seeking citizenship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 11:15 PM
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it wasn’t fake
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:49 PM
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some of the girls i work with have fake ids that say they are like 24, they do not look 24 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:45 PM
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in your language, is the same expression for “i love you” shared between family/friends and romantic partners or are there different expressions?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:35 PM
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he’s in a better situation than the customers who’s cards get declined multiple times and then they have to scrounge up a few dollars and change from the depths of their car
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:26 PM
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customer said he was in a financial rut and then proceeded to pay with a $100 bill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:24 PM
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imo when you include the ‘i’ it’s more intense. just “love you” is more casual and it’s used by family and friends typically at the end of conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:22 PM
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i’m not a super fan of either but i would say i prefer marvel
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:27 PM
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spider-man waved to me in the library
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:18 PM
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childhood vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:36 PM
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yes. top 3 is definitely these two and the red album. i remember crying to the songs on these albums before school. the nostalgia 🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:35 PM
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i haven’t heard the name toby keith in forever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:32 PM
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nice song. i like her voice. it’s nostalgic sounding to me. reminds me of the female country singers my mom listened to when i was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:30 PM
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<image> i fear she will never get back to this point of her career
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:18 PM
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they had no natural predators. mother nature intended for them to be free and unbothered. but as always, humans couldn’t let that happen 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:56 PM
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<image> brutal 😔 justice for dodo birds
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 07:45 PM
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the consequences of letting your dog be the alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:03 PM
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<image> or it be like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:55 PM
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this world doesn’t like chalant people 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:51 PM
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<image> i don’t have a dachshund but this is what it’s like to sleep with my dog
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:04 PM
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it kinda cute tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:02 AM
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i’ll summarize! if you are a man in your 20s, focus on your money and not long term relationships unless you find a unicorn 🦄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:19 PM
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here’s a vintage video from 2019. it’s cringe so watch at your own risk
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:40 PM
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i see so many teens say they wish they were in high school around the era of 2017-2019 and i think it’s a little crazy that my high school years are being romanticized already
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:36 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:34 PM
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apparently there are high schoolers out there dressing as vsco girls for decades day 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:31 PM
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need more bunny posts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:09 PM
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i fear i don’t understand this joke
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 07:05 PM
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en—g-d??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 05:33 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:14 PM
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prefects like in harry potter 🙀 but yeah it was teachers. they had rotating bathroom duty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:27 PM
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even if i wanted to, i don’t think i was criminally creative enough to figure out how to do it at my school. there was cameras everywhere and all main exit doors were locked. some people would ask to go to the bathroom and stay there for awhile to get out of class or they would wander around. eventually, teachers figured that out and limited the amount of times you could go to bathroom during class there was also bathroom monitors that made sure no one was in the bathroom when classes started. t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:16 PM
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cool math games as well. that’s what’s wrong with kids today, they don’t play random games with bad graphics in their computer class
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:45 PM
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<image> you can make the updated version of girls go games
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 11:38 PM
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i know it will be ok lol. i’ve lived through a few “end of the world” days already
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:11 PM
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shockingly, terrifyingly, disturbingly brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:41 PM
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at least, kitty will be saved
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:39 PM
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fun fact, i used to have nightmares about the rapture when i was like 8. i think i saw it in some christian movie and it terrified me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:28 PM
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guys did you know the rapture is going to happen tomorrow because some pastor on tiktok said it would. it’s over 😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:55 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:50 PM
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my dad after his football team loses: my whole week is ruined now maybe i got my dramatic side from my dad and not my mom. he went to mow the grass to get his mind off the game 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:11 PM
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don’t say too many crazy things or you’ll end up in grippy sock jail
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:58 PM
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i’ve had professors say it’s surprising what people will tell you. after initial trust is established, it’s not hard to get most people to disclose things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:03 PM
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well anything you would tell a therapist is protected in the same way as anything you would tell a lawyer or priest, except for the exceptions which get really complicated and messy. but i’m pretty sure if you disclose past crimes and no plans for future crimes and aren’t deemed to be a current risk then your past crimes stay confidential. but it’s still a super grey area
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:00 PM
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<image> more common than i thought 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:35 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:23 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:07 PM
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capy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:48 AM
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i’m not nosy, i’m curious 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:11 AM
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yes i do like to imagine the lives of random people lol. i also do it with regulars at work. there are a few customers that i found out recently were related and it’s so easy to imagine the family dynamics there. they all behave very similar. always on the phone when they come through, always very curt. it’s a dad, son and his wife. they give italian american vibes to me for some reason. the wife has a jersey type look
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:56 PM
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i do have a good imagination. i’d probably have more conspiracies about different neighbors if they were outside as often and kept their curtains and blinds open
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:44 PM
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well i can’t see all parts of their house from where i’m at, mostly the kitchen and living room area. i would hopefully assume they keep the blinds closed in their bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:35 PM
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i have a conspiracy theory that the people that live directly behind my house are swingers. they are an older (probably retired) couple that constantly have people over at their house and they are always hanging out in their backyard at all hours of the day (even at 5am). also for some reason all their blinds and doors are always open and you can see right inside their house all the time. odd people i know all these things don’t connect to swinger parties but it makes sense in my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:11 PM
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but why
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:13 PM
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my coworker is getting married tomorrow and said she would stop by in the morning to say hi. i don’t understand the people that come by on their day off, let alone on your wedding day lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 07:53 PM
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i didn’t notice that 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:01 PM
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disgusting. i can tell you that did not happen in the book lol. the book had quotes like this Catherine Earnshaw, may you not rest as long as I am living. You said I killed you--haunt me then. The murdered do haunt their murderers. I believe--I know that ghosts have wandered the earth. Be with me always--take any form--drive me mad. Only do not leave me in this abyss, where I cannot find you! Oh, God! It is unutterable! I cannot live without my life! I cannot live without my soul! it was not rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:25 PM
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how did you acquire a car since yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:14 PM
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now who decided to make wuthering heights into a victorian 50 shades of grey 😭 i’m deciding that this is the ramifications of dark romance booktok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:10 PM
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it will be ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:23 AM
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lol it’s not like i went out of my way to find it out but i paid attention to when they came and went to minimize any awkward interactions one year, my roommates were all senior sorority girls so they weren’t around much anyway. i would wait till they were all gone on a friday or saturday night to clean the main area and the bathroom. they probably thought some random fairy was doing it. no one ever wanted to clean the bathroom. 4 girls lived there, it needed to be cleaned. so much hair 😖
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:11 AM
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when i lived in a dorm suite, i learned my roommates schedules so that i could avoid seeing them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:03 AM
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only 1/11. let’s go
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:34 PM
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mine was when i was 1 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:55 PM
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apologize to kitty
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:40 PM
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$100
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:21 AM
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HOW ARE YOU??!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:55 PM
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happy cake day 🎂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:55 PM
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cow 🐄 !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:54 PM
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thank you. i’ll try not to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 05:37 PM
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bye bye little bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:57 PM
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🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:04 PM
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<image> i can’t believe this album is a decade old. makes me feel old. a defining album for my middle school years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 11:00 PM
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i’ve noticed mosquitoes really only go for me if no one else is around
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:51 PM
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35k is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:03 PM
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a customer told me today that he loved me and that i was his best friend because we had pumpkin flavor in stock. i’ve never seen a middle aged man so excited about pumpkin flavored coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:38 PM
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bro wants me to get kicked out of my program. it would be ironic to use chat gpt on a paper about being unethical lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 08:21 PM
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unfortunately i am human and have been unethical before 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:54 PM
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the way that didn’t even come to mind because i don’t really consider it to be unethical 😬 there are other things that are more relevant i think lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:31 PM
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my first writing assignment for one of my classes is to write about a time where i was unethical and discuss how it could effect me in my professional life. a lot of introspection for a first assignment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 07:06 PM
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idk how people’s nails naturally get that long. mine chip and break all the time. maybe i need more creatine or collagen or whatever it’s all called. actually i think the one i’m thinking about is keratin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:48 PM
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damn that’s a lot. are you doing an accelerated program?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:48 PM
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can you explain 67 to me lmao. i keep seeing it and i don’t understand 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:10 PM
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it’s not my first college class. just the first class of my master’s degree. the stakes are higher imo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 06:03 PM
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when i was in high school, it was popular to wear those virginity rocks sweatshirts. i don’t really even know the origin of it, i think it was some youtuber merch or something
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:59 PM
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i have my first class of the semester tomorrow. i feel like i haven’t prepared but there is also no syllabus posted and no notification that i need a book for the course. i have this fear that i missed something that everyone else in the class knows about but me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:56 PM
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my mom cried that day and i also cried. after they left, i called to ask them to turn around and pick me back up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:27 PM
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yes 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:59 AM
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wat ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:44 PM
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nope lol. clinical mental health counseling
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:33 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:33 PM
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there is a 71 year old in my grad school cohort. it’s never too late guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:04 PM
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oh i might have misread it and that was the actual offer. that’s really pathetic then lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:09 PM
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if i went and didn’t get selected, i would probably feel very rejected lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:58 PM
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share with the class?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:39 PM
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for awhile, i was getting letters in the mail from my credit card company reminding me to sign up for paperless communication to help save the environment. a little ironic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:37 PM
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at least they are offering $12 an hour lol. it’s more than i thought would be offered since minimum wage in my state is still $7.50
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:34 PM
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why are jury summons letters so threatening? my dad got one and it basically said if he didn’t respond within 5 days that he would be charged with contempt of court
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:29 PM
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imagine being born in kentucky
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:23 PM
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she will pick bill over everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:58 PM
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aww don’t delete my notifications, little bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:21 AM
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i have things to show your gf too 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:52 AM
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they are inconsistent with their discipline. they are prone to giving in to make him be quiet, especially in group settings. he does get spanked but because they have always been so inconsistent, it doesn’t do much. and my philosophy is that is probably doing more harm than good my theory is that he has hyperactive adhd and operational defiant disorder caused by bad parenting. his mom is the facebook conspiracy kind that thinks food dye and whatever else is causing him to be this way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:09 PM
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this is exactly how he acts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:04 PM
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my brother had a leash when he was a kid but that’s because he always tried to run off. it was a little monkey backpack with a leash attached
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:02 PM
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i’m not sure if that’s better or worse lol. but tbh i’m pretty sure my cousin has some sort of disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:00 PM
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screaming, kicking, throwing stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:59 PM
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i thought he would grow out of it a bit but he’s almost 7 and still having elite level crashouts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:46 PM
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i have an ipad cousin. he looks like a little angel with blond curls and blue eyes but he is demonic 👹
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:37 PM
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me core
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:58 PM
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i recognize him 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:04 AM
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harry potter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:51 PM
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my macbook is 4 years old. i thought about getting a new one this year but i think it can survive another year
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:34 PM
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🤨📸
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:19 AM
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would your gf be mad if jim was your wallpaper?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:09 AM
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is this your phone wallpaper ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:04 AM
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my first few semesters, i got loan refunds and i made that stretch the whole semester. when i didn’t get those, my parents sent me money every two weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:07 PM
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she’s mad because you thanked the cashier ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 08:36 PM
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i realized i would to need to get a parking pass for my new campus. i look at the website, $200 something 🫠 this seems about right for a parking pass ime. but i forgot i would need one so now i am annoyed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:52 PM
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it also seemed to be true for the crowd that i was around. but that crowd was my university’s honors department so that tracks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:34 PM
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at least from my experience, the people you meet at orientation and the first few days of classes is you will end up associating with all four years. i’m not sure if you are rushing a sorority and i know that experience is a bit different than mine. but just be yourself and you will do great! it’s a great time to reinvent yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:46 PM
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only so much you can say when they got you on the security cams
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:42 AM
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idk. i never got any more updates from my dad. the moral of the story was for me to not go to that mall anymore but that’s where the closest target is so i have been back i’m guessing he did though because the police caught the guy and he said “oh yeah, i thought he was someone else” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:27 AM
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there’s quite a bit of gang violence. like my dad’s coworker was at the mall a few months ago and got shot at inside his car because someone thought he was a rival gang member
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:14 AM
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yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:45 PM
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you can do it!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:11 PM
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i told this man he had a free drink on his rewards account today and he replied “oh hotdog!” i’m guessing he watches a lot of mickey mouse with his kids or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:00 PM
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i don’t like it. but it’s mainly gore that i have an issue with like paranormal horror without gore is tolerable. i don’t want to see any organs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:50 PM
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it’s not a ss from the og video. just one i already had on my phone lol. the og video was future telling fans that wanted to take a picture of him that he was ai and not real
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:34 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:30 PM
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it’s a tiktok meme https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8hEcy26/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:28 PM
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one annoying thing about being back in your home town is people recognizing you from high school 😖 you didn’t know me back then. that was the ai lol it also makes it look like you never left. like i did leave but now i’m back. but i guess it looks like they never left either 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:23 PM
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<image> i love eeyore. icon
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:39 PM
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<image> it was so much fun though 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:20 PM
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<image> this sort of vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:10 PM
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a customer told me that i sound tired today. i’ve been sick the past few days so my voice is a little hoarse. brutal 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:26 PM
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i told him to get this he didn’t like the suggestion 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:44 PM
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now he “has to buy a $1000 phone”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:30 PM
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my brother lost his phone at work last night and told me that he feels like he has hit rock bottom <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 07:29 PM
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oh i see. it’s what you wear to work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:59 PM
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pretty much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:52 PM
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why not just have pants and then shorts that you can wear for multiple years ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:50 PM
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<image> they are defrosting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:40 PM
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it’s not the same 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:34 PM
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if you drink it too fast though, it kind of feels like a waste of money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:23 PM
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