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| -6 | Billie Eilish says that men don't face criticism over their bodies because women are nice.I think what he’s trying to say with that is that women aren’t likely to discredit or deride a man’s abilities or value because of their appearance, whereas women will absolutely have that happen purely based on their looks. This goes both ways. A pretty nurse will be more likely to get promotions than an ugly one for the same work, and a pretty scientist will be more likely to receive criticism or derision than an ‘ugly’ one. In attraction and sexuality, sure, men kinda read like a diagram, a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 04:32 AM |
| 2 | The "friend" fallacy.Oh hey, that’s me! I’ve been saying that! Cool. Your personal circumstance means you do not need friends, very cool ‘I work alone 😎’ vibes from you. But when I say this I am saying it in reference to people who have neither friends OR success with women. You’re right, you don’t need friends to have success with women. But getting success with women is a hell of a lot easier when you do have friends. Even if those friends aren’t directly connected to your ability to get women, they inferentially … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?That’s neat. Show evidence. Send me links. What I’m saying with that is not “beat your head against a brick wall to knock it down eventually you’ll either make it through or die so it won’t matter anymore” it’s more “if you engage in a cycle of learning social skills, informed reading on strategy, reflect on interactions and learn from them, improve personally and make yourself more dateable, improve your attractiveness, be honest with women and keep being social, you will eventually grow to hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Bingo! You can apply for thousands of jobs and talk to thousands of women but if you don’t hone your strategy and just go for it with blind perseverance you’ll achieve nothing! Best thing I recommend to guys and people struggling with this whole dating thing is to actually track and notate their approaches and interactions. What went well, what went wrong, what was their name, where did you meet them, how would you describe them, what actually happened etc Getting better at dating is a learning … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:30 PM |
| -1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Ugh. Stop reminding me why I don’t like being in this community. I guess that’s it then. I’m privileged, I have something you don’t have, and because I already have it and you don’t you’ll never get to the ground floor I’m operating on and never succeed. Yep. That’s it I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?I wasn’t giving those recommendations to you, I was referring to myself to give you an example of what those thought processes look like. If there is something fundamental with how you socialise, to seek a professional to help you with that. They can help. Just seek out a professional trained in it. Moving country is also an amazing one. You live in Ireland, meaning you still have a proper EU passport. Take advantage of it. Work towards that. I guess that’s the essence of what I am trying to say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 02:18 AM |
| 0 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?I am a mid 20s guy with ADHD, mild social anxiety and some kind of autism. I do not struggle with this because somehow I got lucky and don’t seem to suffer from social awkwardness, if anything social awkwardness suffers from me. I will actually literally do what you say you cannot do. I will literally walk up to a group of people, ask if I can join and meet them. Easily. Happens all the time. I can easily reach out to them for contact information. I can plan to meet up with them. It often doesn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 02:12 AM |
| -2 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Okay, cool, then find ways around those requirements. Again we can go around and around in circles. You’re right, it’s easy to say these things, but harder to plan a point from A to B. I’ll try it on with you. You say the process is this: Have friends > Go out with those friends > meet women > date women Okay cool. That’s your process. So, you’re at step 1 of that process. Let’s break that down again, going further: Find social avenues to make friends > connect with those people and form those c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?Take stock of everything in your life, be honest with yourself, find weaknesses and improve them. Repeat until successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 01:10 AM |
| 0 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?so difficult to fix they should just give up I haven't had much social contact since 2016 You are exactly the person I'm talking about. In the past 7 years you could have been out there trying, but you didn't. Because effort, self improvement and repetition is hard. It's easy to give up, because giving up frees you from the obligation of your own goals and desires. It's comforting. Giving up is easy. Trying is hard. You could spend the next 7 years of your life trying, getting back into socialis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 12:56 AM |
| 15 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?They’re ‘struggling’ because they don’t even try. They think they try, but they don’t. And their definition of ‘trying’ is having a free tinder account or chasing after one girl they see at work and no one else. Wow. Big effort. A lot of men could do way, way better by learning to be social and getting out and doing things. A lot of men are happily content in their little bubble of work, home, the internet and whatever random insular hobbies they chase. I’ll always say this, but the harsh truth,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship…Not the point. You chose to cherry pick the phenomena from a male’s perspective to the female, misrepresenting it as a problem which typically effects mainly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 11:49 PM |
| 4 | The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense.You’re close but not completely there. The answer IS ‘treat her like a human’, but the devil is in the detail of what you define as ‘human’ treatment. That’s the one million dollar question with one million different answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 09:42 AM |
| 6 | There's a "What are your most controversial or unpopular dating rule/opinion" thread over at r/AskWomenOver30. What are your controversial opinion about their controversial opinions?Firmly disagree. Most men do the bare minimum to meet those criteria. Go out and people watch, how many men actually dress super well? How many men have well done hair? How many men are fit? How many men look confident? Then, look for men who have ALL of those things together. You rarely see them. And nah dude, I have been paying attention. I will swear up and down that the leading cause of relationships and sex is repeated, consistent contact with women. It's a skill, women just have a massive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 01:43 AM |
| 4 | There's a "What are your most controversial or unpopular dating rule/opinion" thread over at r/AskWomenOver30. What are your controversial opinion about their controversial opinions?True Slavic/Russian woman moment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 11:58 PM |
| 14 | There's a "What are your most controversial or unpopular dating rule/opinion" thread over at r/AskWomenOver30. What are your controversial opinion about their controversial opinions?I guess that none of them are actually that controversial lmao I think they’re all pretty reasonable and as an individual you are absolutely entitled to have preferences. The subtle difference that a lot of people fuck up though is that you’re entitled to have preferences, but if your preferences are out of your league due to them having options, you won’t ever get them unless you provide something others can’t or you get lucky. Like if you’re some sort of amazing high value stud and picky Laura… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 11:56 PM |
| 39 | This shit is so addictiveIt is incredibly addictive, but I can wholeheartedly recommend transferring that energy into keeping an active roster alive. Nothing screams power and outcome independence like knowing that you have a selection of options to engage and receive immediate sex. And Blue/Black pill guys wonder why women don’t wanna give up the Cock Carousel for their needy low value ass… | /r/seduction | 24/10/23 05:46 AM |
| -1 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?As far as I can tell, no, there isn’t. I highly recommend leaving this community as soon as you can. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 11:32 AM |
| 0 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?That’s honestly a good sign lmao, that’s actually just flirting. If I can save you, please listen to me. Your face is not the issue here. There is no magic level you’re being denied because of your face. I’m ‘cute’ but it isn’t this chiseled jawline, perfect symmetry nonsense people think women want. You think women don’t look at their own face? They have insecurities too, they aren’t these omnipresent beauty monsters who only accept perfection, they just want a fun guy who makes them feel good,… | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:28 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?I guess that’s where I’d look at it with a RP mindset and ask how hard you were pushing to be polarising. I love being polarising, I’ve been slapped, had drinks thrown at me, whatever, but that same energy gets me results, and I would rather that happen than not get anything. You have a chance bro, get out of here whilst you still can and learn more game and apply it more frequently, you aren’t meant to be here. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:19 AM |
| 4 | Standards so high now that it's over for average guysI know why you enjoy being here, because feeling like you don’t have control over your life and shifting goalposts makes your lack of accountability valid and acceptable. I’ll see you on the other side when you grow up and realise that self determination and accountability are the only things that will give you success. Bye. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:17 AM |
| 0 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?The part where you say that red pillers define their success by the women they fuck. That’s literally not the point, or at least that isn’t the point of TRP I know. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:15 AM |
| -1 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?Im here because I got invited from PPD when I said that them banning BlackPill questions was a good idea. And it is. Because black pillers are retarded. Thanks for proving me right. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:14 AM |
| 6 | Standards so high now that it's over for average guysWhy are you crying on an incel sub then. WHY. ARE. YOU. CRYING. ON. AN. INCEL. SUB. If you’re 6’1 why are you even here? Doesn’t that make you a chad? | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:13 AM |
| -12 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?Yeah but I was a Chadlite because of my gym efforts. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:12 AM |
| 9 | Standards so high now that it's over for average guysWhat, dating women and having them be interested in me? Yeah okay. Please tell me how tall you are. Honest answers only. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:11 AM |
| -8 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?Cry more incel. I laugh at your pitiful tears. I just wanted someone to actually provide me with data to support the wild claims of genetic superiority and women being picky but no, instead you all attack me because hate it all you know and respect. Enjoy being alone forever, I’ll go and take my average height and face out into the real world and have it sat on because I actually try. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:08 AM |
| -9 | Standards so high now that it's over for average guysYeah I think a lot of that has to do with an unwillingness to go out and actually meet people but sure it’s genetic I guess. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:06 AM |
| -5 | Standards so high now that it's over for average guysI’m 5’9. Better tell all of the women I’ve fucked that they shouldn’t have. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:05 AM |
| -15 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?If I’m above average then fuck you guys must be some real ugly, unfuckable goblins. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:04 AM |
| 0 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?No one here cares, I just wanted to establish that before I wrote this whole community off as a desolate place of doomed circlejerking. Thanks for giving me the opportunity to discover that. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:03 AM |
| 0 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?That’s not true but sure, believe that if you must. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 07:02 AM |
| -18 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?But that’s literally the point. I’m not super above average, I’m not this top 1% you all seem to think is required, and I doubt you are either, so honestly dig deep and tell me why you don’t? | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 06:53 AM |
| -6 | What the fuck is all of this bullshit?I am, but I wanted to give you lot a chance to actually provide me with examples and arguments as to why the hellscape of the dating landscape doesn’t line up with what I know it to be. Give me examples before I am forced to write this community off as the second coming of /r/incels | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 06:50 AM |
| -7 | Standards so high now that it's over for average guysIf you’re thinking that the thirst trap, clout chasing semen demons involved in online gaming and streaming are ‘normal women’ you gotta go touch grass brother. Streamers date other streamers. You do not. If this ‘clix’ bloke went out and dated non streamer people he would do well. And who the fuck are these ‘red pill’ dating coaches you speak of? Please give me examples of RedPill coaches and vanguards saying that if you are under an arbitrary size number you have no options. Please show them t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Being monogamous and wanting children should guarantee every man getting a female partner. Our current dating environment is just an anomaly before population collapse.I said one very simple thing, that being that reductionism is a terrible stance in any topic which requires nuance to accurately discuss. Sorry you didn’t see that, I truly am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Being monogamous and wanting children should guarantee every man getting a female partner. Our current dating environment is just an anomaly before population collapse.“Using reductionism I have concluded that 1+1 should equal 2 but instead it equals 1. This is a sign that society is going to collapse” Tell ya what. If we ignore all of the social, personal, ideological nuances, biological history of mate selection, the economy, irrationality, life circumstances and emotions, you are correct. But you aren’t just throwing the baby out with the bath water, you’re throwing the tub, entire bathroom, half the house and both parents out with it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 12:39 AM |
| 3 | LOOKS DISCUSSION MORATORIUMThey don’t want Blackpillers because unlike Red or Blue pillers, the Black pill is a ‘solved’ ideology and stance and doesn’t actually add anything to the conversation. If the core concept of the Black Pill is “Looks and genetics trump all”, that is an absolute stance. That’s the entire Black Pill in one sentence. If I were to add to it, I’d tack on “doesn’t matter who you are or how you act, if you aren’t attractive, you won’t succeed.” The Black Pill also adds nothing to the conversation becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Women, dating, sex and love are hobbies. Stop treating them like chores.There’s a lot of shit to unpack here dude, some of it is related to this concept, but a lot of it seems like it is but actually isn’t, and I don’t think I’m the right person to help you with that. All I can say is that I hope you have a brighter outlook on life and society in the future man, I have been where you are and I know it isn’t fun. Stay safe, yeah? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Women, dating, sex and love are hobbies. Stop treating them like chores.They always did. Women always got preferential treatment in no fault divorce proceedings. If anything it's more fair now, given a good lawyer and fruitful settlements, you can expect to receive 50/50 custody or more assuming you are the one divorcing your wife for valid reasons. As for the whole making children thing? Same rules apply. We have enough people, don't have a child unless you know you are in a position in your life where you can comfortably raise it and support it for at least 22 yea… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/23 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Women, dating, sex and love are hobbies. Stop treating them like chores.Same here my guy, I've been treating this subreddit like my own personal journal. These are my inner thoughts and interpretations. If they help others great, but be aware they may be sporadic in nature. I think my next goal would be to write a summary on The Book of Pook or models. I'm gonna re-read it soon, and as mentioned writing a summary on it will be a good way to digest the information and internalise it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/23 06:41 PM |
| 4 | Women, dating, sex and love are hobbies. Stop treating them like chores.Honestly? Yes. You should always be adding value and be the best option for her indefinitely. If you can nail that, she's yours. The biggest change pre and post LTR is that the game changes. Before an LTR is established, you should have indifference game. The vast majority of RP game is built off that concept, it's the language of the chad, so to speak. The issue is, once you enter into an LTR, the game changes. It is now a game of control. I know that sounds bad, but realistically you have now … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?That’s what TRP is meant to be in relation to working smarter, it’s a framework of a series of experience, study and failure you can use to skip a lot of the trial and error and simply focus on what works in general, and what works for you. That’s why people didn’t like it, because it’s real advice that works, but it isn’t pretty and doesn’t align with the politically correct sentiments common in society today. Women will always be women. Men will always be men. But I think as we go on into this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:20 PM |
| – | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?I absolutely agree, but I think the factor not being considered here is the draw of an attractive, confident human physically in front of you laying on their charm. Even if you objectively look at that guy and say “yeah he’s like a 7 out of ten he’s got no shot” but he’s effective with his words, knows how to play the game and build attraction, he’s gonna succeed over the guy who is a 9 but can’t talk his way out of a paper bag. Women aren’t these complex creatures who sit there and think “look … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:06 PM |
| 16 | Brutally Effective Tactic To Prevent Other Guys From Interrupting Your Conversations With WomenBoth OP and u/Tzar_93 have valid approaches to this phenomena, I just think it honestly depends on where in the escalation chain you are. Against typical convention, I’m going to say that OP’s solution is more valid in the earlier stages of the engagement, and Tzar’s solution is more valid in the latter stages of the engagement. Reason why I say this is that OP’s approach is useful early on in the engagement because you’re still building that initial draw towards you in the conversation, and out… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/23 11:56 AM |
| – | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?Issue is I’m not talking about eugenics here, I’m talking about the simple fact that men, by their own choice, are taking themselves out of the gene pool by choice, they just don’t know it. I think the biggest issue is that goalpost shifting and the international and homogenous nature of the internet has meant we think we need to be the top 10% of the world, when in reality you just need to be in the top 10% in that bar, or on the app that day, or in the room or city in general. I also think peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:29 AM |
| – | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?Build better men. I’ve been saying it for years, but the moment we let women define what men should be is the moment we started to have positive masculinity disappear. TRP tried to do that, but the issue is that the concepts and discussions which happened here were straight talk about power talk. That is a scary prospect. We now have a fake red pill in the form of Tate and co. They are trash. They build men who are just as shallow and manipulative as the worst women, except unlike the worst wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 11:20 AM |
| – | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?I'll rebut each of them with my perspectives on them. Your goddam right. All of those brain chemicals and emotions exist for a reason. But the reality is that both sides are suffering. Women don't have good men to pick, and men aren't stepping up to become good picks. We want to have the cake and eat it too but we don't want to bake the cake or buy the ingredients. Honestly I think that most women, given the opportunity to be with a strong, independent and valuable man would pick that, but if th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:05 AM |
| – | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?Yes and no. It comes from two places. Attraction, at its core, is all about Genes and Memes. Men and women both look for good Genetics. Wide hips, broad chests, tig ol' bitties, long legs for running, height for being scary and powerful. Those sorts of things. Memes, by the Dawkins definition, define what traits, values, appearances and cultures are attractive. If you're rich, poor, popular, unpopular, what social group you belong to, how you dress in terms of fashion and trends, how you act, ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 06:48 AM |
| – | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?Exactly. You do not NEED a woman, you WANT a woman. The protector/carer dynamic I describe from before the sexual revolution is true mutual dependency. If he doesn’t bring in the goods, they both don’t survive. If she doesn’t care for the children and keep the house in order, they both don’t survive. That is the literal definition of mutual dependency. That doesn’t exist anymore. If the guy doesn’t bring in the ‘goods’ (make her feel loved, cared for, provide her with comfort and support whilst … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:17 AM |
| 6 | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?I try. Really hard to find them when the vast majority of people on here are burnt out incels or black pilled into oblivion because being black pilled and giving up is easier than trying, failing and then succeeding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:14 AM |
| 6 | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?It is, but realistically they are. The definition of a hobby is An activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure. If that doesn’t describe modern dating and relationships, I don’t know what does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?I mean, they do though. Arousal and sexual desire is a common trait in all humans, women are just better at the emotional intelligence required to hide it or shape that desire into something positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 02:12 AM |
| 16 | Are [the relevant] people [of both genders] simply too independent for relationships?Look, I think it comes down to the fact that relationships and love are a hobby more than they are a requirement, and that adjustment is causing a lot of people to freak the fuck out. Realistically, relationships between men and women had valid, rational, utilitarian purposes. Your man protected you from danger and brought in the goods, and in return the woman helped keep the home and the children safe and comfortable. We’re now in a post industrialised society where those major concerns (food, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?Link? I’ve delved into forums.red, but I didnt know there was a discord. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?Firm disagree. TRP isn’t about hating women. That subreddit is full of broken men who hate women. I don’t hate women, I just aim to understand them as best as I can. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/23 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Dr Shitstorm or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Red FlagIt’s whack seeing you comment, I read a lot of your stuff and I keep seeing your name pop up. I think that the stuff you list is closer to what I look for as actual red flags, and honestly I feel like a lot of men here see red flags as ‘oh shit, get her out of my life ASAP’ Like no, if she’s still putting out and has value to you in terms of what she can provide, don’t get rid of her! Just take note, try to coax her into doing the right thing through punishing bad behaviour and rewarding good be… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/23 01:23 PM |
| 2 | In defence of being a Scumbag: Why being the villain is sometimes fun and makes you a better heroI honestly don’t think it is. Having boundaries, holding frame, approaching women, applying kino, flirting and dating in general is all sexual market strategy. Morality is a spectrum. Some people may choose to stop that spectrum at hookups and ONSs, others may stop it at lying to women or employing some of the more devious PUA tricks, some might not have a moral compass at all, and then there’s the argument of whether or not you should let the actions and decisions of others affect your own mora… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | In defence of being a Scumbag: Why being the villain is sometimes fun and makes you a better heroI mean if it works it works. Looking into them neither of them seem like the types of people I would particularly like or care about, but I also don’t fit the mould of those people in any way. I also emulate people, but when I do it I take segments and aspects I like, fragments of them that I like the sound of or ways of talking which make sense to me. I mean that’s basically how accents and phrases get established. I’m also Australian, so my personality, intonation and tonality are defined by t… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/23 12:06 PM |
| 2 | In defence of being a Scumbag: Why being the villain is sometimes fun and makes you a better heroIt isn’t monopolised, the content is still here, completely free to read and absorb, it’s just that the big names have made it into a product that is easy to market and capitalises on the anger and resentment men feel in the absence of a way forward. None of the current champions and big names are people you should listen to. And frankly, as selfish as it is, if you listen to them and buy into their bullshit you’re making the lives and chances of those who listen and digest the nuance easier bec… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | In defence of being a Scumbag: Why being the villain is sometimes fun and makes you a better heroThe point is not to be content with 'another club drone', the point is that instead of using, say, 80% of your mental and physical energy to secure 1 club drone, it costs you 20% or even 10% of your energy to secure multiple. Like it isn't even effort once you nail down game and have a firm frame, you know you're gonna get it from someone, it's either this burnt out rat or another burnt out rat just like her you're gonna meet 20 minutes later. So, is she gonna shit or get off the pot? Again, fee… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | In defence of being a Scumbag: Why being the villain is sometimes fun and makes you a better heroI really don’t understand this line of reasoning. It feels very similar to the Fat Feminists who think that the world and beauty standards should conform to them, instead of them conforming to the beauty standards which would allow them to achieve success. We live in a world where, realistically, relationships are a pastime. A fun addition to a life which is realistically unnecessary. Women don’t need the protection of men in order to have children or to live a safe, successful life and men don’… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/23 03:59 PM |
| 3 | In defence of being a Scumbag: Why being the villain is sometimes fun and makes you a better heroYou ask 5 different people why TRP changed and you’ll get 6 different answers. As someone who was around between 2013-2016, the biggest factor that caused the downfall in my opinion was the US election and the rise of the alt right and MAGA-ism. They co-opted the concepts and a lot of the men who were here started to get political and started to believe that the orange conman was the ‘red pilled’ man for them in power. He was instead a conman. Always has been. That was the trigger, the MAGA camp… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/23 02:47 PM |
| 1 | In defence of being a Scumbag: Why being the villain is sometimes fun and makes you a better hero100% agree, but if you’re here, you’re here to learn. A big part of old pill was having people constantly tell you this stuff so it stuck. Without that, you just touch surface level shit and don’t get pulled in. I also prefer TRP to be secret now, it makes it more powerful, but I’m under no illusion that not talking about it is better. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/23 02:08 PM |
| 2 | In defence of being a Scumbag: Why being the villain is sometimes fun and makes you a better heroI mean, the goal of most men is to find their LTR. That’s the idea. But, the success of that LTR still depends on RP factors, in fact there’s a whole genre of discussion here around LTRs, a lot of RP men hate them, but it’s a factor. That’s why my advice is so important. You can’t even remotely begin to contemplate an LTR until you’ve become comfortable with cultivating attention and attraction. Basically, knowing how to hook up and have meaningless sex with women is the base level on the Mazlow… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/23 02:06 PM |
| 3 | In defence of being a Scumbag: Why being the villain is sometimes fun and makes you a better heroThe best way I can think of that concept is to simply explain how I will pull a Kino power move of pushing a woman up against a wall to kiss her. I’ll do that, I’ll put force into it, I’ll grab her neck when I do it, but what does the other hand do? It goes behind her head. It protects her head from being smacked into the wall, jolting her brain and actually hurting her. It’s the illusion of danger, the illusion of fear. When you have a ONS, interact with a casual sex partner or spin a plate you… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/23 02:01 PM |
| 11 | Stop going for girls you do not like, it will never improve your game.HAH Joke’s on you because I like needy clingy goth girls with daddy issues and BPD so I simultaneously like them AND hate them. Winning all round, undefeated champion. Nah but seriously this is absolutely true. Another one is men who learn RP, land their first girl then immediately abandon all outcome independence and end up absolutely roasted when he loses frame because he “got the girl”. That story is written in blood and tears time and time again. Only thing that’s missing here is the “how” t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/23 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Dr Shitstorm or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Red FlagSometimes you may come across howitzers though. Sometimes you may need to know how to use one. You don’t have to be adept, but it’s better than getting domed by the recoil because you stood behind it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/23 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Dr Shitstorm or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Red FlagHonestly? Ya got me. But just because I’m out here on black ops chasing demons doesn’t mean your average infantryman can’t learn a thing or two. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Women are like cats: They like getting scratched.Thanks bro, it's tough but with physical therapy I might just be able to hang up my whip and wand and enjoy normal sex. Nah. I'm gonna spank a bitch and tell her she deserves it. That sounds like way more fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/23 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Women are like cats: They like getting scratched.I don’t like emojis but uhh… 💀 My guy. Gonna blow your mind by saying I’m a dominant sadist. Yep, I have used my knives (blunt), rope, belt, whips, chains, fucking fists, spit and all manner of sex toys to inflict physical and mental duress on women. I’m fucked. I know I’m fucked, but at least I’m not this fucked. BDSM is fun. This is weird. Okay thanks bye! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/23 09:39 AM |
| 3 | Dr Shitstorm or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Red FlagGotta love it when old red pill is novel and fresh, huh? Look, the biggest issue people faced with the old pill is that it would work, they’d get their goal of a girlfriend, run headfirst into it and it’d fail. I did that, so many others did that, and it’s a terrible idea. The difference between those who ended up succeeding and those who ended up burning out is how they dealt with it. Some of us gave up completely, wrote the whole thing off, and some of us went back to our roots, realised the i… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/23 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Dr Shitstorm or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Red FlagThat’s another aspect too, I don’t wanna get all no true Scotsman, but what’s the point of learning this shit if you don’t use it? Masters have failed more than an apprentice has tried, so yeah, you’ll get burnt, but you learn from those scars and get better. And same lmao, I have a thing for goth girls and alternative women, and boy does that group have some fucking problems, like capital-fucking-P problems. The crazy ones only hurt you if you let them. You make that mistake once, realistically… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/23 05:48 AM |
| 11 | Dr Shitstorm or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Red FlagThat’s exactly it. My biggest issue with the manosphere as it stands is this adoption of the feminine and meaningless adoption of being picky and selective. Women do that because they are the ones who decide. That’s their only tool, the ability to say no. Men? Their job is to get them to say yes. You either get a yes through effort within frame or through being so much above them that saying yes is the best option for them. That’s I think the big thing that is misunderstood, high value and ‘alph… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/23 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Red flags in a woman you should NEVER ignore.Eugh yes, but also kinda no? It’s like you’ve hit the nail on the head, but you hit the wrong nail. Task failed successfully if you will. The devil is always in the details. I read the full list, and if you apply all of them objective you’ll end up with basically 0 options. None. I cannot think of any modern woman who doesn’t at least exhibit one of these traits. Obviously if you see multiple or one of them is particularly egregious, she belongs to the streets, but the reality is that they all h… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/23 12:42 AM |
| 17 | Do you split costs in a relationship 50/50?You’d be fucking surprised dude. Your grandmother was around in the 60s, and sleeping around and premarital sex was common throughout all periods of history, we just make a big deal out of it due to the survivorship fallacy, rose tinted glasses for the past and the visibility of modern dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:28 AM |
| 2 | CMV: There was never an expectation to have sex early or to have an "active sex life". Who came up with that?Again, never going to convince you, there's no point bothering. You didn't even laugh at my WCE Joke, god you must be so sad. BTW, if we're going to wank about logical fallacies, I'm calling The Fallacy Fallacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:00 AM |
| 5 | CMV: There was never an expectation to have sex early or to have an "active sex life". Who came up with that?Look I know that the personal Life of Ben Cousins is a touchy subject for WCE fans given he was your last good Midfielder but you can’t take it THAT personally lmao Look there’s a lot to unpack here and I could engage you in a massive argument, but let’s be real. I will never convince you that casual sex is good and healthy if your perspective on it is that it’s tantamount to sexual assault. I just fucking can’t talk someone back from that, that’s concerning by guy. Even in my darkest most lonel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 09:45 AM |
| 7 | CMV: There was never an expectation to have sex early or to have an "active sex life". Who came up with that?lol it does tho People randomly hook up all the time. They do it casually, on a regular basis with no emotional connection, through apps, in social circles (anyone who has worked in a bar knows this well), based on fetishes, based out of boredom, based on situations (camps, bands, clubs), whatever. And the hardest thing for fuckers (well, non fuckers) like you to accept is that the reason why you aren’t doing it is because it requires repeated social interaction and a willingness to be bold and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:31 AM |
| 5 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?I have done so but there isn’t much going on, feels like a slow burn. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?I do, but I blame algorithmically driven social media. I’ll say it till the cows come home, but that shit feels like our generation’s smoking in terms of the amount of damage it does and the social acceptance of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?I think that’s the core of it. The concept of the Red Pill has been bastardised to the point of being completely meaningless, that’s why I don’t proudly call myself Red Pilled. I have to hide it. I mean it’s always been dangerous, but the worst I was called is a mean name or called a misogynist, now I’m called an incel or a Tate follower. Nope, he ain’t my vanguard, he ain’t my hero, those fucks can fuck off. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?I really feel like that’s the answer. Sure, the community and movement may be dead, but like an ancient society you can still read the texts and lessons they teach and they still hold power. If anything it feels like they hold even more because a lot of this stuff is even more forgotten and derided. The whole core of the effectiveness of TRP from the context of dating and relationships was that women use power talk and subversive communication to discern good and bad partners, that hasn’t change… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?It’s the inevitable burnout of the sub. The core of the community, the vanguards who kept the ship on course have left, and now you have the the remains being fought over whilst ignoring the gold buried underneath. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?Oof, at least you made out with your life still intact, I feel like you have TRP to thank for that in some capacity? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?Not before I get to shout about how much better I am!!!!!! /s | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?Posts here which get upvoted to the front wouldn’t last an hour on old RP. A lot of this stuff is regurgitated concepts written better by others or discussed in greater depth elsewhere previously. I mean, it’s still useful information, but there’s nothing I’ve seen on here which stands out to me as new or profound information in comparison to reading the old school content. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 04:56 PM |
| 9 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?I think that’s also a massive aspect too. The rise of dopamine based social media means that your average women is just goddam worse than they were before, I don’t think the rise of MGTOW as an accepted reality is a surprise when you’re dealing with what your average woman thinks is a healthy relationship or expectation of their life. If I can provide any solace, I feel like the old school red pill concepts and teachings are more powerful than ever, you have people who are so easily controlled a… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?I think it has a lot to do with the attention spans of folks. TRP takes fucking time, energy and effort to truly digest properly. You have to sit there and really absorb it, read things and force yourself to change, and that concept is completely incompatible with 90 second clips and dopamine fixes. You have to drop little truth bombs with no context, podcast clips do well because they’re the tip of the best bit of the meal with none of the nutritional value or substance of the rest of the meal.… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 04:48 PM |
| 10 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?That is always the argument I used when it came to movements like this. You have the leaders, who teach the followers, and those followers graduate and move on. Some stick around, but they eventually leave. Same thing here, except the leaders were forced out and the followers grew angrier and angrier, they had no leader and were instead let into the halls to riot. So, naturally, it broke down. At least they didn’t burn down the library, that’s still here. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 04:44 PM |
| 8 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?That’s the biggest thing that still exists here for sure, this is a toolbox, you can yell at the toolbox for not helping you fix the thing you’re trying to fix, or you can pick up the tools, learn how to use them and eventually fix the problem. People in general don’t wanna do that anymore, fixing things is hard. And why fix it when you can just waste your attention away on TikTok? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 04:41 PM |
| 3 | For redpill men, What was the moment that made you go redpillWorst part is that I still have those views, I still think of myself as politically and socially progressive and still think of myself as for the betterment of women and women’s rights, but I don’t agree with the modern institutions which are associated with the labels. It’s all gotten a tad weird. I don’t know how I feel about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 03:38 PM |
| 19 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?I mean the content is still there kinda, I wish there was an easily accessible way of reading though it. I guess sorting by top is an option, but it's not the same... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 07:12 AM |
| 9 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?Suppose that is the issue with this stuff, it only sticks when you're being held accountable. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 07:11 AM |
| 15 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?Brother I feel like the ship already sunk years ago, the fact that purple pill debate is more active than here is very, very telling... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 07:10 AM |
| 22 | Old school TRP member here: What the fuck are you all doing?I'm looking at it and the forum link seems to be where the good conversation happens, so I'm heading there lmao. But yeah, this subreddit is a shadow of itself sadly. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/23 06:43 AM |
| 16 | For redpill men, What was the moment that made you go redpillHonestly? The point that made me consider TRP was the fact that the conventional dating advice I was used to wasn’t working, and the point I ‘swallowed’ TRP as a permanent part of my thought processes is that like it or not, it fucking works. It is important to note I come from a period where TRP was all about actually helping men achieve success in a world dominated by bullshit pandering and false information, not the doom and gloom society we inhabit today. The modern Red Pill subreddit is an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:15 AM |
| 46 | Life is not a competitionrational advice which is actually useful and valid and isn’t just “fuck bitches get money” This isn’t the Red Pill I know today, are you a time traveler from 2014? Is that you Mark Manson? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/23 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.I hate it too, one of my defining traits in a partner is if they see sex as a fun thing to do because it feels good, but I’d be lying if I said society at large doesn’t pressure women into thinking that desire is bad (or makes them slutty) and they should hide those desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 04:32 AM |
| 7 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?Bruh I don’t even know why I bother engaging in passport bro discussions. If you’re already convinced that a SEAsian wife is your end goal and the solution to your relationship problems because western women aren’t ’submissive’ or are ‘too used up’, nothing I say will ever make you decide differently. Go find the 20something rail skinny Thai girl who always wears heels, full makeup and contact lenses and treats you like a king, bro, I’ll go for the bold, opinionated western woman who has their o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 03:46 AM |
| 3 | What makes “Passport Bros” so predatory if impoverished or poor women are the ones targeting high income earning men from all around the world?The Sephora cashier marrying drake for his money is just as predatory as a passport bro picking up a Filipino girl for her looks and indebted servitude, it’s just that the Sephora cashier is engaging in a fantasy and the passport bro is doing it for real. I think people see passport bros as predatory because they’re going into these developing countries with no care for the local culture of country, scooping up a girl who is willing to just leave her home country and family (usually women who do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.Definitely think you’re overplaying the severity of this “all men are sexual deviants” concept. I don’t think the hypothetical woman thinks the hypothetical man they’re alone with in the elevator is a sexual deviant, they get tense and on edge because that scenario is one of the thousands of scenarios where a woman could be assaulted or abused and they innately feel this and get nervous. Doesn’t have anything to do with the man specifically, simply has to do with the fact it is a man and this is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:00 AM |
| 15 | Promiscuity in women being viewed as unattractive is not a double standard. Lack of sexual discretion is unattractive in general. That's the standard for all genders.You’ll never get it due to the inherent differences between how men and women determine their self worth. In your example you have : Man who has not slept with anyone Woman who has not slept with anyone Man who sleeps with a bunch of people Woman who sleeps with a bunch of people It’s a tad strawman-ish to use the example of a League player with a phobia of grass as the man who hasn’t slept with anyone. There’s a bunch of men I know who haven’t slept with anyone due to it not being a priority, n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | My last 4 dates were basically identical.There’s a firm difference between self deprecation and highlighting a goof or a misspoken phrase or word. One breaks frame and is inherently negative, the other hold frame and builds off the mistake to make it even stronger. It’s the difference between saying “god damnit I’m over sharing I should stop talking” and amping it up by saying “bet you weren’t expecting me to tell you THAT! Got anything that can match it?” | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/23 04:07 PM |
| 2 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenI’ve experienced the difference first hand with my mother and my aunt. My mum obviously had me, my aunt chased money and success. My mum is only just finishing her degree at 56, my aunt is building her multimillion dollar dream house on a country hill full of all the latest fixtures and fittings after her husband sold their live in home (fully paid off) for 10x what he paid for it. My aunt is CONSTANTLY stressed about everything, nothing is done right, she has no idea how to talk to me because s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:33 AM |
| 29 | Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is?I’m exactly 6” and I call myself 5”12”. I matched with a girl on tinder who had one of those dumb height requirements and said I wasn’t 6” but I was 5”12’. She said “so long, short king” and unmatched me. Feel like I massively dodged a bullet of stupidity there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 09:42 AM |
| 5 | The things I've learned from 3 years of online dating from my own lived experience. What things have you learned?Easiest way I’ve learnt to deal with the rescheduling flake is as soon as they reschedule, the ball is completely in their court when it comes to logistics and confirmations. Like if I’m the one who asked them out, I’ll take the lead on deciding when and where and be the one to send the confirmation message the day of to make sure I’m not just showing up to nothing. But if they reschedule, especially if they reschedule last minute or in response to the confirmation message, it’s now up to them w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Red pillers, what made you believe in what they preach?TRP garnered my curiosity when the teachings and concepts being discussed aligned with my own experiences in a way I hadn't experienced before. It had my attention when the techniques, skills, concepts and information worked when applied to my current and future experiences. I will say though, as time has gone on I've backed away from a lot of the more extreme techniques and theories I once believed to be true or used to great effect. Treating women like indecisive children who will go with whoe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 08:06 AM |
| – | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menWe just aren't built to have that sort of level of rejection or attention. Having tens of thousands of men or women to swipe through any time is not normal. Getting constant matches and likes from hundreds of guys who want to fuck you directly into your inbox is not normal, nor is shooting your shot (swiping right) on hundreds of girls and getting nothing back normal. Being able to see the absolute worst in male and female sexual behaviour and having that be valued and boosted by an algorithm is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 06:37 AM |
| – | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menYou're correct, the Core defining factor to their decision making processes when it comes to romantic interests is they make decisions based on how they feel at that current moment. How they feel at that current moment can be defined by both internal and external factors, can be completely rational or completely irrational and change as quickly or as slowly as they like. With that in mind, let's go though the questions. 1. You'll find that there is a time limit to your attraction, you've probabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:55 AM |
| – | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menIt'll usually be option B, assuming a few dates occurred. Again, women experience attraction differently to men, women can become attracted to guys who don't hold any of the traits people on PPD seem to think are requirements, but attraction simply creates a window, if you don't act on that window by not seeking out or responding to IOIs and escalating the window will lapse and you'll be locked out. There's also every possibility option C or option D occurred, usually option C is someone else go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:15 AM |
| – | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menUhh, yeah? Notice how I said ”those aforementioned features affect the way they feel both positive and negative”? There’s obviously going to be a negative effect if you have negative marks against you, but your entire premise relies on this prevailing idea around here that ALL women, be it old, young, different cultures and personalities, hot or not will ALWAYS revert to talking or identifying with the hottest guy they can pull. That in no way lines up with what my experience has been both as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 11:22 PM |
| 9 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menIt honestly makes online dating completely irrelevant to me in general. Not only do I have to contend with the sea of algorithm manipulation, pokes and prods to pay and constant false matches, but when I do get matches my first impression is a hollow set of photos and text, I’ve lost the vast majority of my power, personality and presence which I can no longer utilise for that super important first impression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 07:03 PM |
| 33 | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menI’ve always understood it this way. Women will always prioritise the way someone makes them feel over objective features like face shape, body shape, age, social status, financial status and height, however those aforementioned features affect the way they feel to both the positive and negative, and your individual success or failure with these women will depend on how those two priorities intersect in comparison to others (both current options and past experiences). What that gobbledygook means… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:05 PM |
| 3 | The unavoidable corruption of dating apps. I worked in the dating industry for a dozen years and it is an probably the most intrinsically fake legal industry in existence. The entire thing is built on misconceptions, half-truths, and flat out lies, mostly about men and their chances of success.Oh crap, yeah, forgot about that bit. Uhh, stay away from the BDSM community please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 04:55 AM |
| -1 | The unavoidable corruption of dating apps. I worked in the dating industry for a dozen years and it is an probably the most intrinsically fake legal industry in existence. The entire thing is built on misconceptions, half-truths, and flat out lies, mostly about men and their chances of success.I’ll also throw in my tried and tested recommendation of kink and BDSM groups. Learning how to properly dom someone does wonders for your self confidence and ability to talk to women in general, and when you actually get into a lot of these communities the people inside them are super welcoming and accommodating. Just make sure you check in your expectations at the door, you aren’t going to be walking into a club full of young, hot, leather and latex clad sluts who are begging men to spank and r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Except for gym, i don't see TRP helping men get laid, at least honestly.Yeah, no amount of learning or understanding of skills will improve your chances to be 100%, but it goddam helps a fucktonne, especially when the conventional ways that information was passed on had been torn to shreds and scattered to the wind. And yeah, none of TRP was specifically new or groundbreaking, the reason why it was important is because that knowledge had never been collated and widely publicised in one place before, so being shown it all at once was confronting for people. I think i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:05 PM |
| 4 | The problem with online dating is just that it breaks dating dynamics and only promotes one piece of the pieI know it would never work, but I’d love to see a dating app that purely relied on text and you only got to see photos of them when you matched. Anyone who posts distinctive features about their appearance could be reported and banned. I wonder how many people’s world views would be shattered when they realise the people they’re into aren’t always hunky studs or buxom bimbos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Except for gym, i don't see TRP helping men get laid, at least honestly.You and I obviously have different recollections of what the red pill is. The whole point of the red pill was to give men the tools to create the success they were after but the point was that success could be applied to any facet of their life and they’d have tools to help them. Take my own changes for example. I found that negging, kino, game strategy and stoicism didn’t really fit my personality so PUA didn’t appeal to me, but the red pill taught me how to weave my own cloth and use humor, jo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Except for gym, i don't see TRP helping men get laid, at least honestly.Pickup artistry is about faking having game and frame for long enough to get your dick wet combined with bullshit tactics which are only effective because if you say them enough you’ll eventually luck out and get laid. Beyond that there’s no substance, it’s simply a grift to get your dick wet and nothing else. TRP is about legitimately improving your game and frame to the point of it becoming second nature. You take a red pill man and a pickup artist out of their preferred stoping grounds the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 12:16 PM |
| 16 | The problem with online dating is women's selectiveness, not the ratio of men to womenThe problem with OLD is it’s inherently built to be unfair to EVERYONE because being unfair to everyone makes the most profit for their shareholders, they don’t care that they’re ruining men and women’s expectations when dating because they prefer it this way. OLD apps have perfected the concept of ‘men are the customers, women are the product’, a man’s experience on OLD is that of slowly falling into a dopamine cycle akin to a gambler, a woman’s experience on OLD is that of a veritable meat mar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseYou can call strawman all you want, but I reserve the right to call that argumentum ad logicam, not every characterisation of something for the sake of argument is a strawman just because the opposite perspective creates one, that's a pretty boring way to debate someone. Your core argument appears to be 'what if those things don't work? What if I make myself better and still fail?', and I just have to absolutely refute that as a possibility. I fail to believe that someone can read up on social d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:14 AM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseNo u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseSorry, I’m just sick of seeing people on here say they have zero options when they don’t. Could you explain why you have zero choices? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speakingYeah, I get that, and the reality is that if I'm given enough stimulation I'd probably keep at it. I guess my stance on this comes from the fact I escalate quickly and without hesitation if I feel there's a mutual attraction building. If that isn't happening I lose interest fairly quickly because why waste my time? Why spend weeks and weeks building up tension when the tension can be built over the course of an evening? If I were to relate it to the cake analogy you got going on I'd say it's not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseI'll accept that an overweight, insular, poorly kept, socially inept man child has limited options but zero options? Nothing at all? Not a chance. Now, saying you have options but you deny those options because you see them a below you or not good enough for you? That sounds more reasonable, that sounds like the incel entitlement I'd expect to hear from someone who has such a pessimistic outlook on dating that they'd say something like that. As previously mentioned, create a feedback loop where … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseDo appreciate you completely ignoring the part where I say that people who integrate themselves into the culture and date locally are fine. Isn't that also a strawman? I'm agreeing with you but you keep focussing on the part where I speak ill of the people doing the thing we both think is bad. Going to a foreign country to pick up a submissive local girl and trucking her back home because you're fed up with western women is bad. Moving to a different country, becoming involved in the culture, le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speakingI guess that's what second dates are for lmao Look, I think I've just generally gotten lucky, I tend to date socially progressive and expressive women and they typically engage in casual sex, even the concept of casual sex seems weird to me as the general concept of sex isn't a big deal to me at all. I also think it's hard to be objective in these sorts of discussions as they inherently rely on lived experience or circumstantial evidence, my lived experience is 'women typically fuck me on the fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Being sexually open is a viable mating strategy for womenThank you. Women who hide in corners are just as unsuccessful as men who do the same thing. And yes, women can hide in corners and turn down every advance they get in the same way men can hide in a corner and turn down the opportunity to approach. It’s been fact forever that the easiest way to get sex and relationships is through incidental contact with your chosen sex. If you don’t make the contact, you won’t get it. You could be the hottest person in the world but if no one knows you it doesn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speakingThat's what I'm saying. If someone requires additional time to become comfortable with sleeping with me, either I haven't done my job right or we aren't compatible and that's 100% okay, but more often than not sex on first dates is an easy, straightforward thing to achieve and the types of people I find myself drawn to typically agree with me. And when I say 'fix', what I mean is I have very little time for people who want to sleep with me, but need arbitrary convincing or feel like there isn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseDefinition of a 'passport bro'. I'm literally describing the phenomena. A passport bro is someone who travels to a developing country in order to either live like a king or find a woman who is able to provide their idea of what a wife should be. Now, someone else who is actually a passport bro pointed out that there's a difference between going down to Vietnam for a month to snag a woman and living in that country, integrating yourself in the culture, meeting a local and dating them on their own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:41 PM |
| 2 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseI can’t be arsed, but I elaborated on all of those points in other comments. My whole point is basically “going over to a developing country to snag a foreign wife because you’re fed up with local women or think that dating a foreign woman will give you the submissive, house trained woman of your dreams is foolhardy at best and predatory at worst”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:26 PM |
| 0 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseHah. Zero choices. You do have choices. If you aren’t successful, look at why you aren’t and fix it. Repeat until you achieve success. I’m sick to death of this incel ideology of “everyone hates me and I’m worthless because I’m not 6’4”, have perfect genetics, a million dollars and an 8 inch cock which ejaculates Louis Vuitton handbags and puppies” like bro if you think you have 0 options there’s no goddam surprise you aren’t successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:23 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseI hope it does next time. I really, really want to die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speakingShame is still shame be it external or internal. And yes, there can be many reasons why someone is careful or hesitant, it can be personal preference, social or cultural pressure, a lack of confidence, that’s great for them, really feel for ya sis, but if the consequence of that feeling is that you won’t fuck me, even though you want to, I’m not going to wait around for you to reconcile that in much the same way I wouldn’t wait around for her to reconcile her feelings for me because she ‘isn’t r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseI literally explained why I made that argument. I’ve explained why I made that argument many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:07 PM |
| 3 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseThat’s not what I meant at all. Yes, there are qualifiers, what ‘me’ means also includes things like my income, physical appearance, status in society, whatever Tate lovers like to point to as reasons why they can’t get laid (it’s because they’re terminally online and lack social skills), but there’s also things like my hobbies, interests, preferences, my personality, what I enjoy, how I form opinions, how I carry myself and how I respond to things, all of those things are going to be differenti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 02:03 PM |
| -1 | Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speakingAh yes, it’s almost as if I was saying that to prove the point that you can do insidious, morally corrupt things in order to achieve goals but that you shouldn’t because they are insidious and morally corrupt! Nah, that’s legitimately what I do. I go to a bar, find the most drunk, obviously slutty and emotionally vulnerable woman I can, fucking zone in on her like a laser guided missile, take her home, have horrible drunken sex with her and kick her out into the cold. Yeah. That’s my idea of a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 01:38 PM |
| 3 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseSomeone else mentioned it here but usually because either they’re running away from their own skeletons and demons or because the prospect of marrying and living overseas in a developed country is better than their prospects at home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 10:22 AM |
| 8 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseListen to yourself man. You seriously think men have 0 autonomy over their choices in partners and that women are all secretly succubi waiting for the right moment to drain you of everything and run off with 𝙐𝙡𝙩𝙧𝙖 𝙘𝙤𝙤𝙡 𝙈𝙚𝙜𝙖 𝘾𝙝𝙖𝙙™ and his harem of women? Bro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 10:16 AM |
| 5 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseI know why because it’s incredibly easy to see the archetype. I’ve witnessed it when I was the age of the girls and I see it all the damn time. It’s usually a scrappy looking dude in his late 20s who obsessively listens to Joe Rogan (or clips of his podcast on TikTok), has no ambition and a loud modified car with a sluttily dressed teen something with terrible tattoos. They’re both as bad as each other. Same with passport bros, it’s a balding fat guy in his 40s or 50s with a skinny south East As… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 10:14 AM |
| 9 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseI cannot. Cool tu quoque fallacy though. There are other people who have married or are with Asian women and they simply re enforce my argument, there is a distinct difference between dating foreign women because you think it’ll be easier and dating a foreign woman because you legitimately have a real relationship based on your love for one another and your nationalities make no difference in the way that relationship would have formed. The former is a ‘passport bro’, the latter is just an inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 08:29 AM |
| 6 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseI’m not saying there’s abuse, I’m saying that I personally prefer to date people who like me for who I am, not what I can provide. This goes for many other scenarios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 08:21 AM |
| 5 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseYeah? I said I’d prefer to date someone because they liked me, not because they like the fact I’m older. There is a distinct difference. We both know the type I’m referring to, the ones who date teens because they themselves are teenagers in maturity but are older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 08:19 AM |
| 12 | Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speakingIf you understand the fundamentals of attraction and dating, it isn’t hard to put yourself in the position of that ‘one guy’ who got to fuck her at a nightclub, but the vast majority of people don’t because they understand that in order to do so, a level of manipulation or coercion is required and a lot of people aren’t willing to do that. I could easily dress up nicely, go to a bar, find the most vulnerable woman there, pump her full of drinks, turn on the charm and fuck her, that’s basically w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 07:38 AM |
| 19 | There's nothing wrong with being a passport bro and the excuses against the practice make no senseAlways felt similar to dating a girl fresh out of high school because you’re 27 and have a car, apartment and can buy her alcohol. It’s predatory. You know that 18 year old is only into you because you’re older and appear to be a pillar of maturity and independence, in much the same way importing a woman from a developing country is predatory because her choice to be with you was primarily made because she gets to live a life much better than what she would otherwise have access to in her own co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 07:27 AM |
| 7 | Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hook ups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speakingI legitimately lose interest if there’s no sex by the second date, and I’ll only allow that second date to occur if it’s incredibly obvious that sex will occur but couldn’t due to various reasons. This isn’t because I go into these dates or am interested purely in sex, I just have a personal preference for women who are comfortable with sex and see sex as an enjoyable thing to do and not a tool to lock down ulterior desires or motivations. We’re both adults, we both know sex is enjoyable, we’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:39 AM |
| 7 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourWell the issue wasn’t that she didn’t want to or they hadn’t talked before, she had been chatting to her for ages via text, she was just nervous about meeting him in person, general dating stuff ya know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 08:44 AM |
| 7 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourI feel like that’s one of the biggest hurdles with OLD if you have any form of anxiety. I had to basically force an anxious housemate to go on her first date with her now boyfriend because she was too nervous. Question is, would you be less nervous if that same person met you in a coffee shop or at a bar or social event, talked to you for a few minutes and then asked for your number? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Her "She's not interested" cock blocking friend is often times just projectingWut. Most women in groups have a girl who doesn’t seem to fit or is obviously unattractive in comparison to the rest who acts as the unofficial (but jokingly offical even though they sometimes take it too far) bouncer for the group. Yes, sometimes the more attractive woman will ignore the bouncer’s requests, maybe you’re the 5th hot guy she’s rejected on her behalf and she’s sick of it so she comes back, maybe you disarm the bouncer, whatever, but many otherwise successful attempts at women have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 12:00 AM |
| 0 | How does the ideology of "gender roles suck" mashes with stuff that women can do but men can't?Exactly. I can think of so many ways to score free pot. Shit ain’t hard… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:05 PM |
| -1 | How does the ideology of "gender roles suck" mashes with stuff that women can do but men can't?You’re still looking at this through a male lens. Given enough time, I could find somebody to fuck. Would I enjoy it? No. Same goes for women. Same with ‘dressing provocatively’. There is a real and distinct difference between dressing provocatively for men, which is nudity and scantily clad outfits, and dressing provocatively for women, which is basically well dressed plus extra bits. Men can become hetero sex workers, I’ve met them, they’re basically physically fit guys who can play the game a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:04 PM |
| 6 | How does the ideology of "gender roles suck" mashes with stuff that women can do but men can't?It’s a balancing act. Women go to bars and get hit on, women also have to worry about being drugged or taken advantage of. Women can upload photos, but the majority of guys want nothing but sex and aren’t her type. Men can easily have causal sex, but with other men or ugly women. Men can also dress provocatively, and it has the same level of effectiveness depending on attraction as men. Men can become hetero sex workers. Men can get a free supply of weed by making friends in the right places, sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:33 AM |
| 6 | Body count disparityMen like to always assume women are capable of things they would do if they were hypothetically a woman themselves, how they would totally sleep with a new person every weekend, have lots of sex generally, do porn/onlyfans/stripping/sugar relationships for money, whatever. Reality is that unless you’re messed up in the head, the emotional toll of sleeping with new people every weekend and being a general whore is quite high and a lot of women don’t have a libido high enough to desire that lifest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 06:45 AM |
| 13 | No More Andrew Tate ShitThat depends. Do you want 2015-style advice or a place to be an incel and ponder what the interior Mr Tate’s foreskin tastes like? If you want advice, check out the blogs listed in the sidebar, check out general “manosohere” content, look up red pill books, and have a browse through modern RP style blogs like ‘kill your inner loser’ and ‘red pill dad’. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/23 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Dont say 'you are sexy' to women.Fair enough. There's a difference between saying that to someone whilst flirting or gaming, but that's catcalling, which is complete chauvinist bullshit, not to mention completely ineffective. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/16 11:01 AM |
| 1 | What is a social circle?A social circle isn't really a circle, its this weird brainstorm of links, placement and connections. If you were to boil it down, the point of a social circle is to place people in a group without inherently knowing their place in a group, what this means is that in a group of, say, 6 people, there's the alpha, the whipping boy but everyone else is unknown in their placement, connected by their mutual affinity to the alpha of the group, despite having interests and connections to lesser people … | /r/askTRP | 15/10/16 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Bros there are three painless spots somewhat like pimples on the skin of my penishave a look through this list, it's very likely you'd know if you had something, but more often than not these bumps are benign and nothing to worry about. If you're still worrying though, go to a GP and see what they say. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/16 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Bros there are three painless spots somewhat like pimples on the skin of my penisYou say somewhat like pimples, describe them. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/16 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Girl in interested broke up with BF.Sure, why not, she's expendable and you have other chances with other people, why squander it. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Made tinder/okc profiles and I am having success with it but I don't actually want to meet anyone because I feel like I haven't made enough progressYou'll never be finished, but if someone finds you attractive that's all that matters. What do you exactly want out of tinder? Fucks? Dates? Conversation? Discern what you specifically want and get it out of the people you want it from, women on tinder, much like real life are very unlikely to reciprocate or make any moves in a digital or non sexual space, it's all on you and all on you to get to the point before that interest fades, which appears to be what happens. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Is a Porn Producer AF or BB?There so you do know. I think you'll find that just because your work colleagues have sex for money, doesn't mean they'll have sex with you any more than most colleagues will, social proof and status will still matter, however I'd assume the work parties will be more interesting. Up to you, as someone whose interested in the porn industry (from a production standpoint) I'd go for it. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Is a Porn Producer AF or BB?Have you actually been offered a job doing that? If so the answer wouldn't matter to you, if you actually have, know that working in porn is a black mark on your job history and there's a prejudice against porn workers in general from the 'normal' film industry. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 06:12 AM |
| 2 | How often do you see hot blonde white girls going interracial in the USA?Hahahahaha I'm white Australian bro fuck off, why are you so angry like I mean being alpha is important but really | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 04:14 AM |
| 1 | How often do you see hot blonde white girls going interracial in the USA?Because your question is dumb and isn't worth answering, who gives a fuck, most white girls go for black guys because they're big or they're hood, if you're Asian you need to be higher smv than white guys. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 04:10 AM |
| 1 | How often do you see hot blonde white girls going interracial in the USA?People are weird, they do weird stuff, I've seen hot guys with trash and hot girls with losers, I don't think you can really quantify it in some fort of puesdo sociological context. And anyway, why does it matter to you? | /r/askTRP | 19/09/16 04:05 AM |
| 5 | red pill vs mgtow in the long term?You seem to think this is some form of cult, that associating yourself with one or the other makes you that, how about you just read, see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/16 11:53 PM |
| 1 | No shit tests?Perhaps I mispoke, flirting. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/16 09:33 AM |
| 1 | How to be a two dimensional, superficial person?I guess if you want your life to be defined by the ways and woes of women, working a job you dislike to support women and their ever expanding desires, but there's more to life than that, ever consider that? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/16 08:25 AM |
| 1 | How to be a two dimensional, superficial person?Boy are you going to be disappointed when you finally have sex... | /r/askTRP | 18/09/16 08:20 AM |
| 3 | How to be a two dimensional, superficial person?Sounds like you already are, you sound like a fuckwit, giving up things you like because they don't get you closet to sticking your dick in things like it's the only thing that matters, so well done. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/16 07:34 AM |
| 1 | No shit tests?Shit testing occurrs between 2 people who are attracted to each other and of similar SMV levels. They're either not attracted to you or your SMV has gone higher than what they're used to. Start it up again, shit test them and see how they respond. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/16 07:32 AM |
| 2 | So... errr... I showed emotion and concern for a girl. Did I break frame? What can I do to fix it?She is a potential plate and maybe even LTR material for me (Am somewhat in monk mode? Though she is young, has a low partner count and actually has an interesting hobby.) So you wanna fuck her but you have a bullshit excuse instead. Sounds like it's all in your head, I mean yeah you let go of this seemingly long term edging session with her, but why were you doing that anyway, just give it a go or get over it and stop caring so much. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/16 07:30 AM |
| 0 | Found a nugget of wisdom in Star Trek: Voyager. Need a second opinion.People are too complex for rules like that, but basically "treat women the opposite of how they present themselves" works most of the time. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 09:14 PM |
| 7 | She said I need a nose job"Well I also need a blow job and considering you aren't a plastic surgeon I suggest you give me the latter" That either works or gets a drink in your face, but fuck someone who says something like that legitimately. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Where do you buy original cologne?Uh bro, you do know that you get used to smelling something after awhile, and that if you can sell a cologne after 2 hours on you it probably reeks of whatever the strongest mid tone is to everyone in a 2 meter radius. I'd recommend trying a perfume (in strength) if you need all day smelliness along with an odourless antiperspirant. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/16 01:25 PM |
| 1 | What did you do to get over this?Youre getting agitated over comments made in the past? That's on you buddy, I mean it's important to hear because it advises you as to how she will act, but it's been a few months now you should probably be more concerned about how to keep her around over anything else. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Quick Advice on IgnoringYep. But ghosting implies she's thinking about you, which she isn't, she's thinking about attention and sex, and obviously she has other avenues to recieve that. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Quick Advice on IgnoringSounds like she doesn't know what the fuck she's doing, and planning anything with her after you've done nothing with her (you should have fucked her by now) is pointless, sorry, you lost, move on. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Need assistanceTime. Seriously. Nothing you read will flick an alpha switch, if it did it'd be on the front page and referred to globally. Its a long term process that will take time to imbed, id reccommend observing things in the real world through the rp Lens until you innately react to things in that way, for example I found a fault in every woman, no matter how attractive, just keep questioning yourself until you come up with the right answer | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | My method for giving up porn permanentlyMy method is to base it on orgasms, so I fucked someone on the 30th, I can't wank or look at porn till the 30th next month, but if I fuck again, whatever day that is is the day next month I can, means I either have sex or don't think about porn, works well for me anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/16 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Are girls more attracted to guys who know how to fight or is having a buff physique enough?Change your attitude, if I was into you id be turned off by now. What's this money bullshit? I don't have money and my life doesn't suck, fuck off with your self taught capitalist ideals. Go do a defense course, something to instill honour and stoicism, it's obvious you need that over MMA which is dickheads hurting each other. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Are girls more attracted to guys who know how to fight or is having a buff physique enough?I want to do mma but I don't want to get brain damage as that is going to hamper my capability to make money. What a wanker. Do defence courses, lift weights, Krav Maga is a good one if you can find someone to teach you, they go hard but it's good. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 06:28 AM |
| 3 | How did you give up on legitimate LTRs?It applies to everyone, everyone is a cheating, lying scumbag just waiting for an excuse to fuck someone over, laws, society, self restriction and ramifications, even the fear of god are what keep that in check, accept that and learn from it and you'l go far. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 06:11 AM |
| 1 | How did you give up on legitimate LTRs?Well, you do know you can cheat on your LTR if someone better came along, right? You could be the girl in that situation, your current girl sucks and this new one is into you so why not? Why you gotta talk about girls all the time anyway, what else is going on in your life? That's still happening whilst you measure dicks with every other guy in existence, so think less of it and just work it out when it happens. As for advice, pick your women well, don't be afraid to have standards, I've turned … | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 05:55 AM |
| 6 | Pansexual?Pansexual is just a fancy way of saying "I'll fuck anything that's into me", could be you one week, someone else the next. I'd aggressively try to fuck her ASAP and establish a very dominant role, that's worked for me with 'weird' sexual preferences, just don't expect anything more than a friends with benefits (Dating but not really dating) scenario if you can bear her input, if not fuck as you wish. Also expect some weird bullshit polyamory argument when she cheats or fucks around, so yeah, don… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 05:35 AM |
| 3 | How did you give up on legitimate LTRs?I don't think the problem is giving up on LTRs, that's what MTGOWs do and MTGOWs are as bad as cucks and NEETs they just like to think they've chosen it. There's a difference between giving up on the idea and accepting it for what it is, I would enter into an LTR no problem, but the person would have to be right for me and I'd have to know that if I fuck up it'll implode. If anything, this will come with along with a healthy sense of cynicism and internal reflection, the ability to step back and… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 05:31 AM |
| 2 | How to treat a girl who was a bitch to youThis is assuming you don't just ignore, I like being a cunt so YMMV | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Wouldn't be interestedSee, this is the difficult part about shit tests, they want you to respond sourly so you can fight and she can gain leverage, so my natural response is "Well in 5 years we'll see what happens" but that's super bad. And yes, that's the argument she's trying to make so you bend. See how it's an argument? Ignore it. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 05:22 AM |
| 5 | How to treat a girl who was a bitch to youText wall bro, get rid of it. You could make a childish pissy comment like "there's a hole punch in the draw make sure you add your notch to the belt on the way out" or something or you could just treat her like every other plate who comes through, if I was in your situation here's what I'd do: Her - "Something intended to get a rise out of you" You - "Are you here for the household 4 way?" Her - "Retort to make you look bad/insult" You - "Don't talk to me until it's on" Any shit test from there… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 05:18 AM |
| 0 | Wouldn't be interestedYes, because it's dread and it's working. If she knew what you were like then it's a a massive dread test and should be responded to like the childish comment it is, if the implication is that she's changed and you haven't it could be that she's downgraded or matured, either way (it's too late now) you should ask her to elaborate next time. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/16 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Is there such a thing as "just alpha enough"?Fuck women higher than a true 8 anyway, they're boring and have had life handed to them, dirty 7s and clean 6s are where fun can be really had, think if it like a Ferrari, a Ferrari is a solid 9 or 10 on the car scale, but a Mazda Miata or MG midget is 1 to 5 percent the cost and arguably 95 percent of the fun, mainly because you can afford to not worry about it and actually use it. So op, go for the middle chicks, they're still hot and very good fucks for the value. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Is there such a thing as "just alpha enough"?Alpha Alpha Alpha Alpha, fuck off. You aren't Alpha, nor is it a sliding scale, there is a #1 alpha, people fighting for the position in a social battle, betas who aren't, and sigmas who are using whoever the current Alpha is to their advantage, and plucking the position off them when it doesn't. Sounds like you wanna be alpha though, so I'd go and be as alpha as possible, AMOG everyone and be very ready to get into fights as much as you can, because you WILL get into them doing this. Then, you … | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 01:43 AM |
| 3 | How the fuck you make 150k a year?Don't avoid promotions, I mean if you're given one cool, but don't chase them over other job opportunities, it's always better to move laterally with more vertical movement than it is to purely move vertically, think of it like zig zagging up a mountain instead of going straight up. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Will buying a nice car help me?Yeah that's half the fun, they're a car that feel fast when they aren't. They can happily accept turbos though | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Will buying a nice car help me?Only if you have a stock one and are also a girl. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 06:42 AM |
| 3 | How the fuck you make 150k a year?People also say get swole, wear suits, get a tan and fuck whores, but that isn't how it always goes. That advice is typically for people in line to get into event based income, so you'd do a job and get X amount and then do another job and get Y amount. With your Mech engineering studies, you wanna be constantly looking for higher paying areas that also improve your skill set and employability, avoid promotions unless they're more than 2-3 steps above what you're currently doing, and always be l… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Will buying a nice car help me?Get a car that matches your personality. If you're young, get something cheap and modify it to make it loud and obnoxious, if you're older get a car and make it fast, but a "nice" car is kinda boring and will typically attract boring women, it'll also give you something to value over the girl, adding to the amount she has to work to get your attention. Or get all of those things in one and buy a Miata, because Miata Is Always The Answer | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Getting laid, but not enjoyablePretty much yeah. If you've lead the entire time and made all the moves, seems a little strange to suddenly stop and expect her to do it, no? I'd also consider adding an element of danger or desire to it, a thing I always do on dates after we've fucked (which I'll sometimes do on the first date in public) is take their panties and keep them for the entire time, sometimes pulling them aside and inserting a finger or two occasionally, you know, keep them constantly aroused. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Getting laid, but not enjoyableGet a deeper voice. I trained myself to get a deeper voice, it doesn't take much. You'll find that sex isn't really that enjoyable if you don't sell the experience to them, like everything, you're the one who dictates who enjoyable it is, so make if fun for yourself independent of what they do. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Shit test "you never listen to what I say". Best answer, in your opinion?"Come closer, I can't hear you" | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 09:10 AM |
| 15 | Shit test "you never listen to what I say". Best answer, in your opinion?"I'm sorry, what?" With a movement towards her is always a good response | /r/askTRP | 18/06/16 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Banged Tinder Girl on First Date - She mentions after sex, that she doesn't know if we should have fucked - Tons of shit testing. i.e. "I'm not fucking you"Not everything is PowerTalk, that is just her being tired and not interested. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | New job I am working with all women, what are somethings I should know to not get involved in the shit woman do in the work place?Looked it up, agree, will fix now and in the future. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 06:19 AM |
| 1 | New job I am working with all women, what are somethings I should know to not get involved in the shit woman do in the work place?At some point the roles were reversed, and you know what those girls did? Dealt with it in order to climb regardless, or whined about it to deaf ears, currently you're doing the latter. Your goal should be to be your bosses boss, always look for that, in the meantime you should be quietly agreeing and acting busy, you don't wanna fuck any of these women until you're professionally disconnected, so you shouldn't care if their view of you is "the weird guy who is really busy all the time", even if… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 05:48 AM |
| 0 | What do you do when she cries?If she cries over something not related to you, distract her, if she cries as a way of protecting her assets or gaining capital (breaking up, taking something away, free shit etc, child things), act like any parent would and ignore it until she starts providing positive things. The real question is how long you can stay rigid for, if she knows what she is doing, she'll try more and more drastic things until her loss is equal or greater than yours for not replying, meaning she could just end up p… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 05:39 AM |
| 8 | Do escorts actually have a lower risk of STD's than your average bar sloot?Depends. The hooker in the corner doing it to survive? No. The escort doing it at decent prices with health checks? Yes. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Lost my virginity today, now I am freaking out at 2 am.Ouch. You won't get an STD, she probably doesn't care about you enough to ruin you. If I could recommend anything, start being sexually dominate, for me it's easy, but with practice it'll come Massive dick move on her behalf though, wow. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 06:55 AM |
| 1 | What thread/article goes in depth about general character development?Do it. Go out there and do it. You can read all you want about skateboarding, but no matter what you're going to have to practice, you may learn quicker because you know the process, but the physical act of doing it is harder. I don't know what else I can say, doing it is the next step. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 02:12 PM |
| 1 | What thread/article goes in depth about general character development?What? TRP doesn't have a mantra, it has a set of skills and tools you apply to your own life in order to get the most favourable outcome attainable. TRP is, in essence, formless and a purely organic journey. Best thing I can recommend you do is practice and fail again and again until you can preempt your failure and turn it into a success. Want something to read? Go have a look at illimitableman's posts. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 01:55 PM |
| 5 | So i kmow my dad is cheating. But im not sure if its wrong.If you want your parents to be on good terms with you (your father would hate you and your mother would be thankful, but distant) it's advised you keep your mouth shut. I could put it a nicer way, but it's the truth. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 07:51 AM |
| 2 | I want to fuck my female waitress coworker(s). How would you go about this?Yep, ask to become trained in being a server, then reciprocate IOIs with plausibly deniable flirting and kino (Brush up against them, make eye contact for a little too long etc). Emphasis on the deniable, you need to be able to cover your ass if questioned, the other person will pick up on it if they're interested because they want it to fit their narrative. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/16 07:51 AM |
| 8 | Banged Tinder Girl on First Date - She mentions after sex, that she doesn't know if we should have fucked - Tons of shit testing. i.e. "I'm not fucking you"What I'm basically doing is decoding something called power talk. Power talk is a subliminal language that is used convey messages and gain results whilst still retaining a sense of deniability and a lack of accountability. This general concept can take form in a number of Redpill concepts such as shit tests, ASD and rejections. A prime example is the "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" rejection. If you are invested in gaining a relationship with someone and they say this, they're doin… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/16 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Banged Tinder Girl on First Date - She mentions after sex, that she doesn't know if we should have fucked - Tons of shit testing. i.e. "I'm not fucking you"Pretty much, oh well, set a date and soft next if nothing happens. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/16 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Things girls let you do with them in bed?Hard to say, but if you didn't establish some for of standard and basically said "this is enough to satisfy me", it's unlikely there would be any impetus for upward movement. The obvious answer is to just do it and see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/16 03:07 AM |
| 24 | Banged Tinder Girl on First Date - She mentions after sex, that she doesn't know if we should have fucked - Tons of shit testing. i.e. "I'm not fucking you"As you may know, as soon as someone mentions not doing something proactively (as in your example instead of saying no reactively when pushed), they're really actually considering it, they just don't have the accountability waiver required. If you were to break down the subtext of your exchange, it would read like this: her: "Do you have a set schedule for the tinder girls?" "Was I mistaken in giving you sex too early? Do you have alternate partners?" Me: "Yeah I have a google calendar that I sha… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/16 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Should you keep your girlfriend after starting a business?Well, give that a go, it'll be cheaper than keeping her and getting burnt. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Should you keep your girlfriend after starting a business?Ask her what she'd do if she won a million dollars. If her answer isn't something along the lines of "Stay in my current job, don't buy anything ostentatious, start looking into investment opportunities and keep my fucking mouth shut", that'll give you a good tell of how she'll handle your cash flows and income changes. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/16 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Too young, the only obstacle I faceI have the same problem. If they ask, jokingly tell them something bullshit and move on, typically asking shit like that means they're either looking for an excuse to not be into you or they wanna find out if you'll be a long term provider. The fix? Date women younger than you or women younger than the age range you're striking out with, women always want to look up, if they see you like a little brother, they won't. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/16 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Red Pillers: Which "waves" of feminism do you support? Where do you think the movement began to regressive, rather than progress?Fourth wave feminism isn't a thing, it's all 3rd wave. With that said, anything that isn't 2nd or 1st is pretty much bogus. Most women don't call themselves feminists because the image of a feminist today is a disgusting, fat, socially retarded crybaby, and most women don't want to be that, in fact, some women want a husband or boyfriend. Either way, when questioned on it, say you support equal opportunity and don't open yourself to any further questions, that is, unless you feel like having an … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/16 05:59 AM |
| 1 | I'm improving and beta's are teaming up against me. Should I start worrying about them?Not once did you mention this, but alright. Start looking for new, better jobs and in the mean time under promise and over deliver, making your boss look as good as possible in the process. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/16 05:50 AM |
| 0 | I'm improving and beta's are teaming up against me. Should I start worrying about them?Hahahahahaha, oh so it's a friend group. You're in high school and you're giving a shit about a friend group. Fuck off dude, tell the dudes you'll fight them when you see them (to their faces, push them and make them get all pissy), and tell the chicks which ones you want to fuck, either one by one or in a group, doesn't matter, none of them will fight you, and none of them will fuck you, what it will do is make them all hate you, meaning that when you come to a new group with your tail between … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/16 04:51 AM |
| 1 | HOW did feminists come to dominate social sciences/academics?2 reasons, academia is geared towards a female mindset and disposition, and women refuse to leave this womb due to the lack of transferrable skills from their bullshit degrees, ergo, they stay, increasing the intensity of the echo chamber. It'll all blow over soon enough. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/16 02:03 PM |
| 25 | I'm improving and beta's are teaming up against me. Should I start worrying about them?Don't care. The women who believe them weren't going to fuck you anyway, and the guys who talk shit about you aren't worth your time. You're outgrowing your room, find a bigger room and work your way up again. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/16 11:19 AM |
| 2 | On Treating Women Like Children: Which Parenting Books should I read?Nowadays? None, but read up on psychological concepts from 'red pill' times, anything between the 40s and mid 80s will work. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/16 11:10 AM |
| 2 | On Law 40: Despise the Free Lunch / On Giving and TakingOnly if she's done something good. Make her do something good, then reward her for it, that's the 'free' lunch. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/16 09:58 AM |
| 1 | What's your return rate?Soft nexting? Usually there's a reason, and usually I don't hold people in rotation for longer than a month, so 0, but dread works most of the time. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 08:11 AM |
| 3 | Tinder profile while on a USA road trip? Looking for ONSDrop the Casey Anthony joke, it isn't new enough to be offensive, is just in poor taste. I'd also drop the photo of you in a suit, your friends look like betas. Apart from that, not bad. I'd invest in some passports for tinder, it allows you to set your location elsewhere and get matches before you're even in the area. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Stage Fright helpMore often than not, you can't even see the people, the lights blind you and the audience isn't illuminated, meaning it just looks like a black abyss unless you really focus on it. As for your nerves, multiple ways, don't think about it, focus on your lines and what you learnt in rehearsals, or even think about how excited people are to see you perform, and yes, in some capacity they are there to see you perform. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/16 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Plausible deniability helpGame her hard, make her want to come over, any excuse is acceptable, fuck, it used to be for coffee. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 02:06 AM |
| 0 | Organising a house party with no social proof?Sadly I can't do that in 4 days, so I think I'll leave it up to them, I am under no obligation I thought I might make it slightly better. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Red pill circles in my city?People jumped on him because he wrote an article advocating rape to be legal (in the same way murder is in relation to home protection) on privately owned property, if I remember it was in order for women to begin to take responsibility for themselves instead of relying on the state to clean up after them, but still, the tagline 'legal rape advocate' sells newspapers and also gains him a whole heap of publicity, he uses this to educate a whole heap of men and urge his listeners and similarly inc… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Red pill circles in my city?Red pill people don't typically congregate on the basis of being red pill, look how well that went for Roosh V. Best way to find them is by getting to places and being in places where red pilled ideas are common or required to attend, gyms, men's clubs and sports come to mind. Another place is in the realm of counter culture, I personally found people through modified cars, however with most hobbies, there are people who enjoy it within the bounds of the law and political correctness, and there'… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 11:26 PM |
| 1 | TRP and the male SMV - Ideology and ContradictionYou're right, but you're forgetting that women are creatures of romantic and sexual impulse and opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 05:58 PM |
| 0 | Just graduated college. Advice on girls/social life in the post grad life?Tinder and getting the fuck out. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 11:30 AM |
| 0 | Shit Tests? Comfort Tests? Am i missing something?It could be because the SMV disparity is so highly in your favour that women are just honoured to be considered by you, meaning if that level of woman is pleasing to you, you're set, but it also means you might be able to move up a few rungs on the SMV ladder. Try hitting on progressively hotter and hotter girls and see when shit tests start to fly. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 07:44 AM |
| 1 | TRP and the male SMV - Ideology and ContradictionSee, the reason the graph is shaped the way it is is because women have two sources of SMV, their appearance and mileage, as they age, their appearance decreases and their milage increases, their SMV trajectory could be very linear, or it could be very sudden, this is why you end up with women in their early 30s who are still LTR material, and women in their late 20s who are burnt out hags. Men, due to the accruement of not only SMV, but of sources of SMV as they age, are able to objectively hit… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Am I correct in thinking that beating off to porn is self-cuckoldry?Correct? objectively no, subjectively yes. I feel the same way, as an extension any pornographic images make me think "I should be doing that/in front of that", and masturbation, although tempting and easy to do, means I have an out instead of actually arranging sexual encounters. But objectively, if masturbation and M on F porn doesn't affect your ability to talk to women and secure encounters, it isn't cuckoldry in a literal sense. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Shit Tests? Comfort Tests? Am i missing something?Nope, the more you see someone, the less likely you are to stop seeing them, and as an extension, the more they will assume you're the only one they're seeing (because what's true for them is true for you from their point of view), therefore reducing the dread (of you leaving them) level. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 07:19 AM |
| 0 | Shit Tests? Comfort Tests? Am i missing something?Oh, you obviously had sex with her, cross country vernacular threw me out. See, it all depends on what you want, passing a comfort test might mean you move towards commitment, which might be something you want, but it could also be a fail because you've now set yourself up to potentially be an avenue to release tension. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 07:17 AM |
| 4 | Shit Tests? Comfort Tests? Am i missing something?You failed, you validated her complaints, next time it happens, don't reply if you don't want to fulfil that role, the fact she messaged you later drunk and horny means you are her best option, probably why you're receiving the tests. Shit tests usually stop and get replaced with comfort tests when a sense of dread is minimised. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 05:00 AM |
| 5 | Shit Tests? Comfort Tests? Am i missing something?If you break it down to an Alpha/Beta dichotomy, Shit tests are tests to see if you're alpha, Comfort tests are tests that gauge how much of your guard you've let down, both are gauges of investment. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Why is red pill unethical?TRP is essentially teaching men how to be attractive. Women hate it because unlike makeup, high heels, skinny dresses and plastic surgery, a 'fake' alpha is indistinguishable from a 'real' alpha, someone who has these traits innately. Because of this, women and blue pill men will slander TRP as unethical and full of 'assholes', partly because the advice given here isn't coddled and deemed as harsh (people seem to think advice needs to make someone feel better instead of fix their problem or guid… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/16 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Tips on what to talk about with a feminine girl to show masculine polarity?Interesting anecdote. No, women are trained to stay away from men who are low status and high investment. So, if you know how to be 'alpha', why ask? | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Tips on what to talk about with a feminine girl to show masculine polarity?Pretty much anything , I've bedded a girl after explaining politics to her, just make sure what you say allows you to include kino, but d argue that's the most important bit, talking just facilitates touching. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 09:11 AM |
| 3 | What is the best crash-course site for TRP?'Models' by Mark Manson is essentially the framework TRP is built off (very big simplification I know) to the point where reading that book and that book alone would be sufficient to create positive change. The sidebar, however, is really the place you want to go if you want to 'wake up' and start the red pill journey. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 03:55 AM |
| 3 | How can I stop orbiting and using covert contracts?Gay guys are women with dicks, I've had little cause for concern from them. She knows that if she asks, she'll receive from people like you, so she does, because you're in no position to give her any repercussions or get anything in return. Stop giving this attention sponge your time or resources, I had someone try and do that to me when I started uni, I just stopped interacting with her. That doesn't fix the overarching problem you have, your own need for validation, I've always argued that the… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to height shit test?Exactly, all of these would either start an argument or cause her to dread you by being offended. Always treat women like they're children trying to piss you off, they want you to fall. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 11:26 AM |
| 12 | How to respond to height shit test?Silence, really, that one isn't even worth responding to. Next time she needs to reach something, lift her up to it. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Questions from a VigilanteLittle reminder, the language and techniques you used (appeasing my opinion by telling me it's 'alright', creating deniability by stating that mental illnesses aren't logical and then bending that logic to make you would correct) work in the real world where people don't notice things and take your authoritative tone as gospel, but if you come in here asking for advice, accept advice. I'm not debating wether or not the psychologist in question is dumb, I'm hi lighting the fact that by you thinki… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/16 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Questions from a VigilanteStop with the nameless hero bullshit, that felt like reading a C list superhero bio, not the description of a real human being. There is no going back to your old self, there is your current self and your future self, you get to your future self by making decisions and fixing problems. You want to fix your shit? Identify what those problems are and apply the correct solution, no complaints, no emotion, just an inbox and an outbox. Id also recommend sorting out your cognitive dissonance. You're s… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/16 05:14 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways you can escalate in a exclusive relationshipYep, advice for the future, never, ever make statements or escalations that place you in a position of submission or remove your power. You have basically said to this girl "I'm yours, do what you want to me and I won't leave." This is pussy kitty litter. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/16 03:51 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways you can escalate in a exclusive relationshipHave you had 'the talk'? If not, you aren't committed, seek other people or apply dread to get her to either break up with you (which is a good thing) or escalate herself. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/16 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Caught by my LTRs mom. Need advice.If there is a will, there is a way. You might have some future LMR, but going for a 'drive' somewhere, staying over your house (She can say she's staying over at a friend's) or just damn doing it in public are your options now, fuck, I am yet to have sex in my own house and I've been active for 3 years (currently 18) and I don't even have a car. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/16 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Where to start on improving my confidence and standing in the social hierarchyConfidence? It's more about removing doubt and feelings of inadequacy. You don't smile at people because you don't think they'll smile back, you don't talk to people because you don't know what to say or you think they won't like you or be too busy. You don't escalate or ask for a phone number because you don't think it'll work, you don't walk away because you don't think you can repeat the process all over again. Being more attractive will improve the odds that those things won't happen, but if… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/16 08:16 AM |
| 1 | HaircutsFind and build a relationship with a good, local barber. Find things you like, learn about how they're built, find out how often you need to go in. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/16 04:08 AM |
| 11 | LTR wants to meet my family but they are racist?"My Grandmother is extremely Racist, it would be inconvenient to meet my family now." No further questions. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/16 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Law 19 of 48 laws of power, what are some kinds of people in today's world you absolutely don't want to get on the bad side of?Simple client rules here, do not fuck with anyone who could improve or ruin more than 10% of your quality of living, and work as hard as possible to make sure the number of people who can is at an absolute minimum. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 08:06 AM |
| 1 | What is the male version of the hot blonde when it comes to looks?I'd argue it would be some form of white, even aryan, buff, tall, broad shouldered man. Don't use that to compare yourself to however, I majorly prefer Italians and Mediterranean women to that 'blonde bombshell' type, just dress and shape yourself to whatever will fit who you are the best. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/16 07:57 AM |
| 0 | Habits/advice for getting out of this BP induced guilt about sex?Self deprecation will get you nowhere, and discerning yourself between being 'blue pill' and 'red pill' will send you backwards. You owe these women nothing, as they owe you nothing, you are both animals chasing to partake in an animalistic act, any negative feelings felt by the other party are feelings of jealousy and resentment, nothing you should concern yourself with or avoid inflicting. Just do what you want to. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 09:51 AM |
| 16 | Girlfriend of 4 1/2 months has many guy friends, other red flags; thought was a unicorn, now not so sure . . .Actually nope, fucking dump this slut and fix your shit, you've had this problem for years. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 05:50 AM |
| 9 | Girlfriend of 4 1/2 months has many guy friends, other red flags; thought was a unicorn, now not so sure . . .She’s already tasted sexual degeneracy, having threesomes, just because she doesn’t go out now, doesn’t mean she’s ‘better’ than her past. You think she’s better than you, bad position. 4 times in 4 months? Weak ship, your fault, no abundance mentality. You aren’t holding a tight ship, she shouldn’t even be worried about you being paranoid. “She doesn’t want to do anything you’re uncomfortable with”. She has the power, not you. You fell into her paranoia trap, not stoic enough. Luckily, you ‘bre… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend of 4 1/2 months has many guy friends, other red flags; thought was a unicorn, now not so sure . . .I didn't read through it, I'll read through it now and take notes. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 05:22 AM |
| 27 | Girlfriend of 4 1/2 months has many guy friends, other red flags; thought was a unicorn, now not so sure . . .Holy fuck. That's over 3000 words on some random teenage chick doing edgy stuff. Demote to plate status, start finding other women, she questions you or sees you with other women, 'I'm just not ready for a relationship'. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/16 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Developing feelingsYou're grossly inexperienced, the problem is that unlike most new people here, you actually have success, and therefore can be put into a situation where red pill knowledge is too far out of your reach. I've done the same thing as you, found a girl after a short time on TRP, fell in 'love', got my shit kicked in, I wouldn't take it back because it was an excellent learning experience for me, but I wouldn't do it again. I'd recommend going and reading 'Men in love' and 'Women in love' on Rollo's … | /r/askTRP | 07/05/16 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with being led onThat's about normal. I don't really know what to say, women are suckers for attention and will drag out an interaction (even if they know you won't get anything more from them) because you're giving out attention. Best thing you can do is as soon as you notice it isn't going anywhere, drop them and move on to someone who will provide more. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/16 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Explain the logic of 'red pill' and SMVYeah, always keep in mind that a lot of these endorsed contributors are selling a message that's 'you can get there' instead of 'the boat already sailed', both are true, both lead to different outcomes. The crux of TRP is really teaching men how to power talk through straight talk, it's like being taught a language, except this language is one that half the population uses to gauge wether or not they'll fuck someone. But like being taught a language not native to you, it'll never be native, you … | /r/askTRP | 07/05/16 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Explain the logic of 'red pill' and SMVAh, yes, this is the timeless problem, and also the timeless problem with TRP and men treating TRP as scientific fact (this is where you come in). Here's the difference between men and women, women have value, men have currency. This is why women always require validation, why women can do nothing and be attractive and have lots of partners and abundance, why they only feel protective love and why they hit their peak SMV at 19. They are only valued on the SMP because they're pretty. Men, on the … | /r/askTRP | 07/05/16 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with being led onWhere do things stop? On the first date? Second date? Do you not get a first date? Do you expect one night stands to lead onto plate status? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/16 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Explain the logic of 'red pill' and SMVYour post makes no sense, I really can't discern anything past "If 20 year old men don't have the highest available SMV, why are they getting women in their prime?" The answer is twofold. Firstly, just because a male's hypothetical peak SMV is somewhere in their thirties, that doesn't mean women automatically seek out the highest SMV available, some work it out, but the majority of women will pick the highest SMV male in their age group, be that 20 or 30. And secondly, a male's SMV rises later i… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/16 04:59 AM |
| 3 | dark triad questionsPeople will tell you there's a problem, but in reality they won't notice when you do. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 06:32 PM |
| 6 | dark triad questionsGame and romance is all one big magic trick, and like magic, people love being fooled and mesmerised by tricks, but will turn on you if you make a mistake or reveal your tricks. TRP and Dark Triad teachings are like being taught magic, practice makes perfect, so go and practice. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 12:30 PM |
| 14 | I can never get a second or third date.Second or third, make your mind up. Online dating apps are your main problem, you're not a supplicating cuck, so as soon as they realise you don't want casual sex but a real relationship shock shock they run because it's easier to find another guy. One of the endorsed contributors said the best place to find long term partners are those doing grocery shopping on a sunday morning, shows they're dependable, don't go out partying and have a sense of self. Basically, look for the woman you want in t… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Is this girl interested?Hahahahaha, oh, you'll hurt her. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Am I losing out by not being on Tinder?That's another thing too, I remember I went on 'underage' tinder and I burnt through everyone in about 3 hours, getting undesirable matches. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 02:18 AM |
| 2 | How to respondFrom the sounds of it you went with Desol's response, only way you're gonna find out is by meeting up with her and escalating, you can't be polarising enough through text. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Am I losing out by not being on Tinder?Yeah, travel pussy is where I can see it working, but I don't travel often due to schooling so I can't justify it. Maybe one day, but for now not so much. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 01:27 AM |
| 3 | How to respondYep, make it a logistics exercise, and make it as soon as possible. Always chose the 'meet in person' option when texting, that's when the sex happens. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Is this girl interested?Being young on TRP is a double edged golden sword. You learn things that take normal men years to learn and understand, and the women you have available to you are still young and naive, meaning the bar for 'tricks' that work is set very low, but at the same time women at that age have an iron clad ASD, their virginities. I'd invite her over to your house without the friend, I'd assume the friend knows about her infatuation and they tag along as a buffer (lord knows I've been the 'friend' and th… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 12:23 AM |
| 8 | Is this girl interested?"I told her I was going to my room and she followed me and started sucking my dick, am I looking too far into things?" You're probably young, so it's understandable, but yes, she's into you. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | A Man Needing Advice from Another ManOh, for extra pain, you could even do it on your birthday, I'm sure given your circumstances it won't be fun. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 10:35 AM |
| 2 | A Man Needing Advice from Another ManDo you know where your things are? Do you have a car? Do you have a Job? Do you have an alternate place to live and if so, can you move to it? Forcibly take your shit, load it into your car (Yes, your phone and playstation are yours) and fuck off without another word. if your phone is in your father's name, make sure you transfer it or cancel the plan so you don't have the phone disconnected and bricked when you leave. Sadly, you're going to have to soft next your own father, make it a lesson to… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Couldn't EscalateThe way I work it is I'll escalate her to the point where she puts up a soft barrier without escalating myself (she typically does anyway), then I'll make her escalate me (removing clothing, moving her hand downstairs etc) and then go back to it whilst pushing it. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Any experience of being intimidating to girls?Simple ladder theory. In summation, people have different fields on the ladder, let's say it's -∞ to 0 for 'unfuckable', 0 to 10 for betas, 10 to 20 for alphas, 20 to 30 for chads and 30 to ∞ for 'unobtainable'. Because you were the top dog, because you were the one with power, you were in people's 'unobtainable' category, meaning you would either have to meet people for whom your position (be it 35) would be in the 'chad' or 'alpha' area, or lower your own position through purposefully beta act… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/16 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Approaching girls on campusNope, it isn't about the people or scenarios, it's about your mindset, the one thing you can always control. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 06:50 AM |
| 6 | Approaching girls on campusYou know how you have a fantasy that a hot girl will just randomly approach you? Everyone has that fantasy. It may not be specifically of you, but everyone has that fantasy. Got that in mind? Flip it back onto the girl you're interested in (in that moment). She's had the fantasy of a guy approaching her and being absolutely wonderful. Be that guy. As for specific examples? Don't need them. People aren't dumb, you approach a girl you haven't met and begin taking an interest in whatever inane shit… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/16 06:00 AM |
| 1 | I'm a "younger brother/crazy/annoying" personality type. Rock it or work to alter it?Yep, that would be about right. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 08:59 AM |
| 1 | I'm a "younger brother/crazy/annoying" personality type. Rock it or work to alter it?If what you do is successful, you do you. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 08:11 AM |
| 2 | There's a new dick in townMmmmmmmm. Nofapper, new to TRP, yep, this sounds about right. I'll answer your question. There is a difference between people being told you're a man and people just knowing you're a man, the latter comes with age and time, the former is seen as juvenile. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 08:10 AM |
| 3 | What would you do?Lie about your age on tinder. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Sad when seeing a cute girl walk byThe answer will always be yes for him. Agree completely. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 12:19 AM |
| 4 | If you upgraded plate to ltr, do you have to take them out?Yep. Relationships must always escalate, they can escalate at different rates at different times, but many people (Ahem, women) require there to be a next step or a next page as the continuation and escalation is the relationship. It's why women want to know the 'real you', why they want you to change your opinion on love, they want the next step, but as you know, someone has to step off first, so if this is your stop, you have to get off. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 09:07 AM |
| 2 | If you upgraded plate to ltr, do you have to take them out?Give em an inch, they'll demand a mile. Only give out your time and resources if they earn it and if you want to, if you do it because she asked (and she's asked, so now it'll always be because she asked) she'll ask again and get pissy when you say no, disrupting it and making you have to apply dread game and even next her. So yeah, deflect and keep doing what you do, but the bed's been set, she might issue you with a subtle ultimatum of "date me or I'll leave you", and you have to be okay with … | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 08:47 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill slice of life?Field reports are the best way, specially ones from endorsed contributors. It's important to note 2 things. Firstly, those field reports suffer heavily from survivorship bias (for every 5 reports you read 100 interactions have failed and aren't written up/reported), and secondly have no bearing on how your personal experiences and lessons will go. So by all means read through them, but don't use them as a yardstick for how being 'red pilled' will go. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Sad when seeing a cute girl walk byNothing is archetypically 'TRP'. All this, game, kino, gym, field reports, they're all tools to add to your kit, it's about whether or not you think cold approaching is worth doing, not whether or not it fits this narrow idea of what 'red pill' is. As for cold approaches, they aren't 'beta'. Women aren't dumb (You should know this), they know they're pretty and they know guys want them and they know very few will approach. So if you come along and say something, anything, you're already above al… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/16 02:29 AM |
| 1 | ONS — no intercourseNot direct, assertive. Imagine her life like a shitty romance novel (Spoiler alert, it is), you're the love interest, or, you're the first love interest who ends up being a jerk or 'not compatible' to her, like the other 30+ schmucks before you. Either way, you live in her narrative as a subplot and if you know you are, you can craft it. That's being direct, knowing that there's an ending to this and not forcing, but crafting an ending that's favourable to you. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/16 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Meeting rp men in the wild.It's important to make a distinction here, there are red pill men (men who are on this subreddit) and redpilled men, men who naturally know this. Here's how I spot the former. Let's take a guy I recently met (Hello to you if you work out who we both are) who wondered how I could tell. At the time I told him I could just 'tell', but now I think about it, it works like peeling back layers of an onion. The first point was his fashion sense. Business casual in a very informal educational environment… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/16 07:22 AM |
| 7 | ONS — no intercourseonce she made it clear No, once you made it clear you weren't fuck worthy material and she backed off. If she invites you back to her hotel, all she wants is for you to ram her deep and hard and add to the 3/4 digit tally of people who have fucked on that hotel bed. I think you're equally as inexperienced and need to keep practicing breaking those barriers, you should have pushed hard for an F close and left if she wouldn't give you that, nothing more nothing less. Again, the key to abundance me… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/16 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Theory Friday - No Stupid Questions Thread1) You aren't addicted to wanting sex, you're addicted to Masturbation, Porn and the idea of having sex. Stop wanking and looking at porn and really, really pay attention to how women talk and act, you'll learn how they work and despise them for how simple it is soon enough. 2) Thinking you lack game is the worst part. You get dates, you have game. Start slow, start with touching, patting her back when she says a joke, if she says 'yes' with her body language, keep working your way up till you'r… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/16 10:18 AM |
| 3 | Theory Friday - No Stupid Questions ThreadIt's very likely that through your experience and abundance you just got bored of coercing women into flirting and only escalated women who showed interest. Keep in mind that whenever you approach, talk or do anything, women automatically assume that what they want from you (sex, friendship, attention etc) is what you want to give them, so just be a flirt all the time and they'll make the 'sex' assumption more often. That and being a flirt is really fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/16 10:08 AM |
| 1 | I got a Ross and Rachel situation....If by sort stuff out you mean find another warm hole, then yes, do that. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 01:49 AM |
| 1 | "What's better than cuddling?""I'll show you" | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Am I too apathetic?Experience mixed with acceptance. When you're new to this there's an imbalance in the normality between doing it and not doing it, not doing it is normal, doing it is abnormal. But over time doing it becomes normal, and not doing it becomes normal, and obviously you want to do it, but it isn't the end of the world if you want to do it but you can't. But sadly, there wasn't one experience that made it pop, I only just noticed I was like this. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Am I too apathetic?Yep, definitely noticed that. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Feelings of self-doubt wrecking meKnowing what you wanna do with your life at this point is BS, You have a job, you have future plans, you have hobbies, throw in gym and diet and you'll be doing better than most of the dropckicks in your age group. Start worrying about your lack of direction in your 30s if you haven't decided by then. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Am I too apathetic?Yep, that's pretty much where I am. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 03:30 AM |
| 1 | tinder openers?What you say doesn't really matter if they see it, make a joke based on their profile or ask them a dumb question if you must, but they're solely picking the hottest guy in that list and working down if no more come in so if you want more replies work on that or put a bio in there that makes them want to talk to you, but even then it's only a small number for who that pushes you over the line for. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Am I too apathetic?Is this what it's like? Expecting every arrangement to fail automatically? Even when you don't have any other women on the agenda? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/16 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Can one be too stoic?"You do you" right? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Can one be too stoic?What would be your opinion if I didn't mention the depression? | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I bother with women who don't arouse me?Oh, so every time you ask a question you make sure the person knows what to answer with, making the process pointless? Bravo. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I bother with women who don't arouse me?That's kind of where I'm at now. There's 2 types of women to me, women who are sex objects and women that have a use. If they fall into the former category and are interested in me, we fuck. If she isn't interested and doesn't fall into the latter category, I drop them. If she falls into the latter category, I keep her around depending on how much utility she has, and if she has both I decide which one is more valuable and chose that category for them. It just happens that there's a whole heap o… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I bother with women who don't arouse me?Oh, yay, the one guy who comments saying that an askTRP post is invalid. There was a time when people asked more knowledgable and experienced people questions and they received answers without unnecessary retorts from people who have the bias of knowing the answer already. You might want to see how that works, cunt. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Should I bother with women who don't arouse me?Yep, female friend of mine got into a relationship, she provided lifts and perks, but now she provides nothing, oh, she also showed up at my gym and did nothing, which was a personal gear grind. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Should I bother with women who don't arouse me?I'm asking why I'd potentially waste time on people I'm not chemically attracted to, I can rationally see they're attractive but I don't give a shit. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Should I bother with women who don't arouse me?Long answer? This isn't me going MGTOW still have a general interest in sex | /r/askTRP | 17/03/16 05:17 AM |
| 22 | The entire system sickens me, I'm ready to opt out.Exactly, the age of staying in your country your entire life is over, I'll be living in another country by the time I'm 30, no doubt. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 11:33 AM |
| 55 | The entire system sickens me, I'm ready to opt out.Have you considered moving to another country or doing something else? I promise you the women you seek are out there, I know because I've met them. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Father hates me but I can't move out, what to do?Can't get it until I get my hours, hours need to come from parents. My mother is completely fine, by the way, he's somewhat doing the same things to her. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Father hates me but I can't move out, what to do?Funnily enough, my driver's license is what's keeping me at home. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Father hates me but I can't move out, what to do?I'll consider it, it'll be last resort though. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Father hates me but I can't move out, what to do?I could, but I have too much shit for it to be countered as legitimate, and because of my age most of my friends have parents. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Father hates me but I can't move out, what to do?Yep, pretty much gonna have to live with it for now... | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Father hates me but I can't move out, what to do?Because supposedly I don't contribute, I do, but not enough for him. He's depressed because he's in a dead end job and he takes it out on other people, kinda pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 10:31 AM |
| 2 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?I like what I'm doing, I just don't feel like doing it. I think it's a phase, I'll get over it. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 02:32 PM |
| 3 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?Okay cool so you're just going to assert that I do ad infinitum because you have 'frame'? Not mentioning a supposed internal problem would only hinder the advice that could be given to me, there's no reason for me to hide anything here. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?Nope, no idea what it is, I'd tell you if I knew. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?Yeah, that's the main thing, it's the dopamine source that drains you. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 12:09 PM |
| 1 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?The way I'm thinking about doing it is every month I can have a non PMO, if I fuck a chick that month resets. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?I think I have a throat infection so I'll ask my doctor about it whilst I'm there. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 11:53 AM |
| 1 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?Yeah I've been toying around with nofap and I'm now not horny ever, I think that might be how it's supposed to be. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 11:35 AM |
| 1 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?Everything pretty much, I'm a massive tech nerd and I've got an iPad mini 4 on the way tomorrow and I couldn't give less of a fuck. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 10:40 AM |
| 1 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?Now this is what I was looking for, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 04:51 AM |
| 1 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?Don't get me wrong, I was grateful too, but it also showed me how low SMV I am, which I am now fixing, but still... | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 04:09 AM |
| 3 | I lack energy and motivation, what should I do?The red pill, like the red pill in the matrix, removes the curtain from the workings of our society. It moves love from being something that 'just happens' to something that is definable, controllable and teachable and shows how women are emotionally driven creatures who only care about what you can provide, moreover, it places the onus for your individual success directly onto you, removing the ability to shit blame onto external sources. All of these things are harsh, cold truths that can't be… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Is this the anger phase finally hitting?Yep, this is something I just need to get over. I'll delete this now. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/16 01:20 PM |
| 3 | A moral dilemma: should I bang an old friend's ex?Sounds like you know that it'd be wrong, so don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 09:41 AM |
| 1 | A moral dilemma: should I bang an old friend's ex?She sounds like a bitch waiting to get her push on the CC, very low plate status. Fuck her, if she starts getting weird or says no in any capacity she's found someone else and kick her the fuck out. Not only will this make her 'next' your friend and allow him to get over her, but you get some hot dicking. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/16 08:40 AM |
| 89 | Why Women Aren't FunnyIf you want to see a great example of this in action, watch this roast competition between a 'pretty' female comedian and a fat male comedian. Notice how the only thing she has to say is that he's fat? The only thing she could come up with is his weight, something that's obvious and for him personally, a strength. He, on the other hand, took illicit hits at her and completely destroyed her, winning the crowd over in the process. Her reaction to this? Get all salty because she didn't win. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/16 08:30 AM |
| 1 | How much of a date should be spent me talking?You see, I speak very slowly. I speak at a pace abooout what I've forced you to read this at. This gives me enough time to think about what to say next. I find this is the advantage I have over 80% of people, they all talk too quickly and say too much. I'll pause and stop talking often too, typically for dramatic affect. Not only that, but I'll snap my fingers and point to places like the ground next to me to tell people to move to where I am, general things like that. With guys, it depends. The… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/16 06:04 AM |
| 2 | How much of a date should be spent me talking?I have a killer sense of humour and I know a lot of things, or can bullshit my way through. I'll also completely take charge of a group of people quickly through a few different ways, mainly trying to remember their names, they love it. Once you get that control, you can start delegating interaction between people and build a group dynamic. As for individual people, On dates I'm always very quick to make physical contact, typically I've already escalated to a kiss or just before a kiss so they'r… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/16 10:06 PM |
| 2 | How much of a date should be spent me talking?Because I communicate my sexual interest through implicit meaning and body language/contact, not through explicit verbal communication. And anyway, talking about sex and sexual topics with someone you haven't fucked makes them think of past experiences, not future experiences. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/16 09:43 PM |
| 2 | How much of a date should be spent me talking?I'm gonna go against the grain here and say that talking does have a dominant place, it can get you out of a situation where they're nervous and it gives you ultimate control over everything, when I lead the conversation past boyfriends, love interests, sexual things or daily never come up and I have much better success. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/16 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Male friend disrespecting me in order to impress female friend, thoughts?Honestly was kind of disappointing, I'm going to try and get through to him but I might have to eventually drop him on principle. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 10:11 AM |
| 3 | Should I send 2nd txt if first isn't answered in a timely manner?Never 'chat' with girls on your phone. You text someone it's to set up a meeting place, gain written consent in relation to previous events (So if she claims rape you have evidence that'll make most out of court settlements go away) or to flirt before and after meeting. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Should I send 2nd txt if first isn't answered in a timely manner?Why are you texting a girl for anything but logistics and text based consent? | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Purposes of selfies with boyfriend?I'm a photographer so I just say I don't pose for iPhone photos to uphold my industry, but if you look at her disapprovingly and don't give her something to photograph she won't. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Should I soft next my pre BP female friend?I'd argue that the difference between me and an orbiter is that I'm actively gaming her and getting somewhere as opposed to an orbiter who doesn't because he's afraid of rejection. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Working Student, Need help with cooking/nutrition.Indeed I do, watch as many of those as possible. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Does RP theory always trueWomen always go for the path of least resistance towards either emotional excitement or security of resources. It's obvious you aren't enough of either for her to pick you over someone else, so she went with someone else who has the potential to provide more resources than you can excitement. AWALT, you let her be like that by not being enough, try again with someone else. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Purposes of selfies with boyfriend?I know these days it can be a negative, but it's always a good idea to keep your life off social media as much as possible. Never add plates on Facebook, never change your relationship status and never text for any other reason than logistics or text proof of the positivity of your encounter. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 10:19 AM |
| 5 | Purposes of selfies with boyfriend?Pretty much. It also ties into the success narrative they spin online in order to gloss over the negatives. Always keep out of that spotlight, if you're in those photos you're not a man, you're her possession. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Should I soft next my pre BP female friend?I dunno, I've tried it but I get tired of seeing women, I'd rather spend a lot more time with one person than 2 shorter dates with 2. And anyway, if you smell like another girl they get suspicious. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Should I soft next my pre BP female friend?Hahaha, I've actually got a date lined up for tomorrow, so I'm not exactly dry of options. Hopefully you'll see a field report in the future. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Should I soft next my pre BP female friend?Oh, I literally only want to fuck her, I'm just wondering wether or not I should keep trying until better options arise or just stop and save my time. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Should I soft next my pre BP female friend?Exactly, Which is why I throw kino, negs and rapport breaks at her every which way, I'm trying to break that down, don't think it's working though. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Should I soft next my pre BP female friend?Exactly, and considering that ship sailed when I was 13 I can't see it happening. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Should I soft next my pre BP female friend?That's the difficult thing which has stopped me taking action, I don't lose anything, but I don't gain anything either, it's just there's so much of a deadzone between the two, and I can't call her out on it either, it does nothing for me. I'll next. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Can you judge a female by her job?If their job is something that inherently relies on their sexuality to succeed, it's a detriment, there's no job that benefits a woman's SMV because all female SMV comes from their appearance, it's like buying a suitcase for $1,000,500 because it's a $500 suitcase with $1,000,000 in it, zero sum gain and in many aspects a burden. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 12:07 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with scarcity?By doing other things that aren't sexual. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 07:44 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with scarcity?You deal with scarcity by creating abundance. You just did, you attended an english speaking club and fucked some women, do it again and again and again until you are in a position where you have abundance. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 07:14 AM |
| 2 | How to get laid?How to get laid: 1. Stop looking at porn, no images, no videos, no audio, if it's erotic or sexual, stop looking at it. 2.Stop Masturbating for a month. Every time you have sex, that month resets. 3. Approach every woman you can with the express and unapologetic intention of fucking them, hard. You can read all the books and guides and scenarios and field reports you want, but if you don't stop wanking and looking at porn, you will get absolutely nowhere because the difference between fucking an… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/16 07:10 AM |
| 1 | "I thought you might have hated me after that night", am I interpreting this correctly?Yeah exactly, i may have accidentally strung your comment and 50+s comment together in my mind. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 11:27 AM |
| 2 | "I thought you might have hated me after that night", am I interpreting this correctly?If she keeps bringing it up I'll make it a theme. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 11:21 AM |
| 1 | "I thought you might have hated me after that night", am I interpreting this correctly?I like it. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Working Student, Need help with cooking/nutrition.I'd recommend going and looking for foods you like eating, find out what their pantry component ingredients are and buy those, eventually you'll have a decent collection. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Working Student, Need help with cooking/nutrition.So you have no salt or pepper? Dude, that's harsh. I'd start investing in some spices, garlic powder, stock cubes with MSG, smoked paprika, curry powder, italian herbs, honey, mustard, dried chives, mayonnaise, spice mixes with certain types of flavours (Cajun, Asian, Moroccan etc), I'll add to this later. I'd also look into trying different types of chicken, I love chicken thighs or cuts like Chicken Maryland, also get a big bag of basmatti rice, get some coconut cream too. In terms of actually… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 07:01 AM |
| 2 | "I thought you might have hated me after that night", am I interpreting this correctly?You're right, inherently beta, not only would it mean I'd have taken notice of it for that long, but it would place me in a position of non abundance, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Hair style and professionalism?Honestly, the undercut is so prevalent and classical it wouldn't degrade your standing, it's all about how you wear it. Obviously if it's messy people will look down on you like any messy haircut, but you can easily make it a more respectable look with proper pomade and a comb. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 03:46 AM |
| 1 | "I thought you might have hated me after that night", am I interpreting this correctly?I plan on saying "And you thought I hated you..." after we fuck. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Still in high school and would like some guidanceTRP is a toolbox, and you'll find that some of the tools are for more advanced jobs than the one you're working on and therefore irrelevant to you. Now is a great time to be building stoicism and frame, people our age are going through that final establishment of personality traits and habits for the rest of their life, and people who have built beta traits have to unlearn them whereas we can just build our foundation on the alpha and omega ones taught here along with being able to more efficien… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/16 03:38 AM |
| 1 | TRP on Hamsters with Orbiters and why the use themYes, actually that's a perfect definition. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Drug DealerExactly, get that chick out, fuck. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 11:53 AM |
| 4 | Drug DealerIt's very likely they aren't even fucking for pleasure, might be for cheaper prices. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 11:40 AM |
| 5 | TRP on Hamsters with Orbiters and why the use themAn orbiter is a male friend, that's it. However, the orbiter is someone who is inherently beta and attracted to the female in question, ergo, he will enter a covert contract in which he provides LTR resources in return for... Well, nothing, the potential for the woman to realise she was meant to be with him, but because she already gets shit, she doesn't need to. It's important to note that the rest of your questions refer to the 'hamster' incorrectly. the 'hamster' is a metaphor for a woman's i… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/16 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Help me prepare for an upcoming shit testYou have a choice here son, you take this old chick you fucked around with for a year or you take this new one who doesn't know the old you and is more likely to put out because she doesn't know your tricks. Just tell this work chick that you don't want to take her anymore, don't mention the other chick, don't mention why, just tell her "Hi, I don't want to take you to my semi formal anymore, apologies for any inconvenience." and hang up and next, don't reply to her till the formal is over. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 02:57 AM |
| 1 | When you make them angry, is there anything else to do other than laugh at the situation and give no fucks?Define 'angry'. If you don't agree with someone or don't supplicate their feelings and they get 'angry' with you, you do laugh it off and not give a shit because it's just their feelies and they're mad you didn't enter their frame. If you've made a deal and gone back on that or wronged someone in any way and they have legitimate cause to be angry with you, then you should react according to how much they mean to you. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/16 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Am I trying too hard?Dude, that girl was asking you out and you told her to fuck off. You WANT to be an asshole, girls fuck assholes, but they don't fuck people who are mean. Keep in mind that your reaction to shit tests should not be about the shit test in that very moment, but how your reaction to that shit test will steer the interaction. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Shitest: "What is important to guys is just sex"Again, ramifications of a wider social construct, he would beat you, but he can't because you have a vagina. Don't be unnecessarily handsy. It isn't a good look. With a partner or date? Sure, but keep it calm, don't make it foreplay. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Shitest: "What is important to guys is just sex"I'd never open with it, he did that because he failed and you could easily kick him out of the club or bar. I'm talking a slap as we're walking somewhere, a reaction like the one I mentioned previously, it's usually my first piece of physical escalation, I'm a solid ass man. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Shitest: "What is important to guys is just sex"Oh, yeah, that's usually the first place I touch. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Shitest: "What is important to guys is just sex"It's a simple agree and amplify, I've said similar things in similar situations. You have to reply to the context of why she's saying it, because she assumes you'll just say "oh no we don't" and then she gets to go on a tirade about how commitment and emotions (things she wants) are better. It's also worth noting that there can be different tones to that saying, she could be saying it negatively to shit you, which in this case would be "And all girls ever think about is their hair and how they t… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Date With A Former ModelYour example is why I don't like fucking anyone who relies on their attractiveness to make a living. As you said, she didn't find you funny because she hasn't needed to learn about humour to get by, nor does she have the decency to build rapport with you. Try fucking the make up artists and assistants, they want the attention the models get and they'll work hard for it. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How to show dominance in bed (not while fucking, just hooking up)Do things without asking. If she making out with you, grab her ass, push her up against something or put her on a table, if it's a blowjob put your hand on her head, if you've already been intimate take her off to a corner and tease her by rubbing her with a hand under her skirt, a game that I love to play is I'll do that and then steal their underwear for the rest of the night, just make her feel a simulated (simulated is the important word here) lack of control and keep her on her toes. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Date With A Former ModelYou should have taken her in your car or driven hers, fuck her being a princess. You should have offered to pay, but I can understand why you didn't, buying weed is stupid and you driving would have stopped the danger, assuming you did buy weed and she pulled the whole "call a friend", my reply to "not doing anything" would have been "Then what the fuck are we doing?" (good work with the female friend though), and then assuming I came over I would have left within 5 minutes of her ignoring me. R… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How to handle gf exasperated shit test?It's shit testing, it's good, if she didn't shit test you she wouldn't be into you, perhaps ask the father how he does it. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Date With A Former ModelOh, in terms of not time traveling? Yeah, that's the way you should play it. And I'm not talking about her former lovers, I'm talking about the hottest guy she knows right now. Girls always have crushes, orbiters and undesirables, where you place on the ladder is how much of a priority you are. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Advice to a 15 Year Old Me: Step 1. Stop.The shit thing is getting this knowledge whilst simultaneously seeing our classmates and contemporaries failing. I have a friend who has been crushing on a female friend of mine for 3 years now. They go out in his modified car and he buys her things, she thinks they're friends, but she knows there's a covert contract afoot. I don't blame her, this guy is giving her everything she wants with none of the guilt or obligation, no push pull, no effort required, she's got him under her thumb and he lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Date With A Former ModelGrow an extra 6 inches and add another 3 zeroes to your bank account would be a good start. But honestly, there isn't much you could have done to get laid by her, I personally would have TTYLed when she started flashing money around, but that's just me. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 11:57 PM |
| 7 | Date With A Former ModelYou were attractive attention. She doesn't need to fuck you, she has better options elsewhere, she doesn't need your money, and she isn't interested in your jokes. You are, however, something to do, a source of validation and pleasantries, and a girl like that who appears to be massively haemorrhaging money loves spending it on her orbiters, which she was trying to turn you into, but because she's the one with the resources, she has no reason to put out to get yours, so she walked when you didn'… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 11:18 PM |
| 8 | Date With A Former ModelRed flag Red flag Red flag. You're nice, but you aren't the top 5% male models she was fucking in her 20s which she can toooootally still get now (the guy friend she was going to invite over). There were some beta things in there, but honestly it'd be like spilling a cup of water on the titanic. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Trouble with being a dick to people when I have to beTriad son, Triad. Illimitable man is a real DT machiavellian. I can link you to a post he made about how horrible it is to be DT, how he can never connect with people because he thinks he's above them, how lonely he is. That isn't something you want. What his posts do is share Dark Triad Personality traits and tactics to 'regular' people in order for them to improve their own game, not to make them a psychopath. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Female solipsism and double standards at work?No, they typically give the same apathetic advice to men as they do to women. I think the one omission here is that she's gotten disgusting and he's gotten bored, but telling her that a solution might come from within is against the ethos of /r/hamsters. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 11:27 AM |
| 10 | Shitest: "What is important to guys is just sex"Ignoring that one is good, it means she's thinking about fucking you. If I had to reply, I'd say "Oh no darling whenever I think about sex I just pray to jesus and the urge just goes away." I'd also say this whilst leaning in close and putting my hand on her ass, by the way. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Always Be In A Position To Tell Women(And Men) No.I know a lot of people who work in clubs from University, would talking to them help or are they just a part of the puzzle? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 05:25 AM |
| 16 | Always Be In A Position To Tell Women(And Men) No.That's what I love about The Red Pill. It does truly awaken, every little tactic and trick people try to play to get you to conform can be seen right through instantly, and because no one has ever said no, they have no idea what to do. I'll keep this one in mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 05:25 AM |
| 5 | Trouble with being a dick to people when I have to beYou come off as disrespectful and full of yourself. These are not admirable traits, they are veils to cover your weak frame. Make fair deals, ignore or quickly dispel negativity and use your power (in this case with the institution and as a paying student) to fix your problems. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 05:04 AM |
| 8 | Always Be In A Position To Tell Women(And Men) No.Come to think of it, I haven't seen anyone be a white night in awhile, it either isn't worth it to them or they're so cucked into a beta strategy that they don't wanna risk anything. On another note, how does one get into the nightlife job market? I'm nowhere near big enough to be a security guard, but I'm a killer bartender. Any ideas? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 04:53 AM |
| 9 | Always Be In A Position To Tell Women(And Men) No.How do you deal with the tantrums then? As soon as I read that, my first thought was that being the white night alarm and then I'd have to deal with extra BS. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Question on trickle truthCalculating the Vagfax™ of a girl requires context and a bit of calculation. Let's say that 'travel' period has been 2 months. That means her tally for a year would be about 18-20 guys a year, I'll be nice and knock that back to a guy a month, so 12. take that back to her being 19 (start at 19 to account for the ramp up through being a teenager) and she's currently 24, that means she's been with about 50 or 60 guys in her life. This includes dates, ONSs, Boyfriends and her being a plate. Ask you… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Why does everyone call me off when I ask them/tell them an honest question?By taking a moment to think about the wider implications of what someone is saying instead of the first thing out of your mouth. When a girl asks you "Do you say that to all the girls", your instinctive male logical response would be yes or no, but the wider implication of her statement is wether or not you are good with women, ergo, you reply with "Only the ones I think it'll work on" (Disagree and amplify) or "Do you tell that to every guy you're pretending to not be into?" (pressure flip). Al… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Why does everyone call me off when I ask them/tell them an honest question?How do I become more intimidating so people actually fucking take me seriously? This. This is the problem right here. If there's one thing people, women specifically are good at sensing, it's fake attitudes. Firstly, what the doctor person said was a joke, a joke reply to what he thought was a joke question (I mean come on do you walk into a BB&B and ask the store clerk if she hand stuffed those throw cushions?). Not everyone is going to respect you like you're one 7 foot tall muscle god who wou… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Suggestions on text gameNo, in person when he sorts a date. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Suggestions on text gameThis is a good application of Text game. Text game is about logistics, and you just set up something whilst also teasing. You did good, try throwing in some kino whilst asking. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 01:50 AM |
| 3 | I can't figure this situation out.Yeah, you game them, you game everyone, it's all one big game after all, but the important thing to understand is that if you sleep with any of the women in that class (or any class for that matter) they have leverage over you. They can destroy your grades, blackmail you, even get you expelled all with a bit of emotion and force. leave your romantic interests to outside of your respective field, don't shit where you eat. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How long to see results from lifting?In that case, you should be fine. Keep bulking (Cleanly and in a controlled manner) and lift heavy. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 06:58 AM |
| 1 | I can't figure this situation out.Oh so you just started? I did the same thing as you, you'll see. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 04:44 AM |
| 1 | How long to see results from lifting?Oh, in that case lose weight, all you're doing now is getting more muscle and fat because you're bulking, the "results" you speak of come from a low BF%. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 04:43 AM |
| 3 | I can't figure this situation out.You know how your female friend zone master would tell you about all the sexy shit she's into? Did you get to do any of it? No. You're an anomaly in a course distinctly designed for women and I bet many of them think you're there to make passes at them. Move out of the course, if you can't, keep it platonic. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 04:11 AM |
| 1 | How long to see results from lifting?3 month lifter here. I am only just starting to notice muscularity and even then I still look DYEL. I'd expect about 6 months constant bulking minimum to notice something. Also keep in mind if you have a BF% higher than 18% you'll just look fat. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Judge me TRP. What social consequences should I expect?I think both of these women are wrecks, Layla less possibly, but to the same extent as Mary because she obviously was attempting to groom you for an LTR. Fuck Mary, Fuck Layla, fuck both of them at the same time, it's obvious you can, and as soon as shit starts getting heavy soft next and move on. Enjoy your turn. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/16 01:18 AM |
| 4 | The Red Pill Perspective from a Teenager – A Field ReportThat's always the dilemma for young RPers. We hear about all this sleeping around and plating and BS, but the women we have access to (16-22 realistically) are either virgins, require an LTR to put out or have an actualised SMV so they fuck 22 20Y/Os +, really puts a dampener on things. At least we get a headstart on the SMV boosting and can easily get an athletic body, I very, very much look forward to being 20. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Need advice for how to proceedKnew that would happen. You're in a frat, she wants frat cock, you give her frat cock and she's happy and will keep fucking you (and others, don't forget) as long as she's invited to the parties you all throw. Enjoy. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 02:41 AM |
| -1 | Is this really what I have to look forward to?I give off an aura of maturity (Because of my deep voice and RP tendencies), so people place me as a 20 something. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Wondering TRP thoughts on this channel.This guy is a great example of how you can't build a bicycle wheel out of spokes. Every one of those videos is a spoke, you watch enough of them and you'll know what do do, you'll know what to wear, what to order, how to act, what do do, but you won't have the underlying framework to understand why. TRP is the why. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/16 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Is this really what I have to look forward to?Indeed, friends of mine seem to have success so when I reach their SMV I might too. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Is this really what I have to look forward to?Can confirm, my last $30 went to my gym membership. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Is this really what I have to look forward to?That's the way I think about it. Everything I do now is going towards having the best SMV by the time I'm 20, it's just disappointing I can't get much apart from a shitty "Love is worth more than sex" lip service LTR from a teen. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 02:04 AM |
| 1 | TRP perspective on love?Exactly. Your mother and father (mostly) unconditionally love you, your children (mostly) unconditionally love you too, but your wife is only in love with what you provide and what you protect her from, as soon as you stop doing both, you turn from the 'wonderful father to my children' into the 'bastard ex who fuck me and my kids over'. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/16 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Red pill helped me have sex with zero women.You live with them? Why don't you fucking hate them? (Unless it's something like your sister and mother) | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Red pill helped me have sex with zero women.Your mother is a woman, and despite what you think she wants you to grow up to be a nice, soft, gentile caring man for some ditzy wife. What would your father think is a more pertinent question, and if your father is anything like mine (and many BP men like me), he'll think just as poorly as you would, but show it to any man with his shit in order and he'll find it funny and true. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 02:00 PM |
| 2 | What is the purpose of life?The purpose of life is to transmit your genetic material into a suiting host to continue your lineage and populate the planet, but then our big dumb brains worked out we have consciousness and fucked it all up. Above that, the choice is yours. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 08:55 AM |
| 1 | TRP perspective on love?Love is you forming an addiction to a stimulus. It's why people have fur fetishes and try to fuck cars. As a man it is your job to protect yourself and your own interests, love, especially feminised love that women have marketed to weak men as the 'deeper, more important goal' to quell their sexual desires is completely incorrect and should not be entered into. Love also forms when a lack of options forms. You fall in love with someone because you have no other option BUT to fall in love with th… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Is this really what I have to look forward to?Didn't think of that, very likely. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Is this really what I have to look forward to?Indeed she has, at least she's got some pretty toys... | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Is this really what I have to look forward to?The idea is my Business degree will help me decide, I know it's somewhere in that area. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Is this really what I have to look forward to?She's 25, which is why I was so shocked. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Is this really what I have to look forward to?Perhaps I should add a caveat to the last one. At the moment, in the transitionary time between my school years (or potential full time employment), improving my SMV is what I can put the most effort into, and apart from reading and practicing game (which I count this FR as doing so), improving my strength and physical appearance is the best thing I can do to improve my options. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 03:06 PM |
| 2 | How do you react to being ignored?Why are you texting for anything but logistics? Stop doing that. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 01:41 PM |
| 13 | Other alphas trying to upstageYou got AMOGed. Best way to destroy an AMOG attack is to move away from the AMOG or make fun of him till he leaves. As soon as a guy approaches a girl I'm talking to in a bar a line I like to use is: Puts hand on his chest firmly "Woah woah woah there buddy, you wanna get in on this threesome produce some drinks for us first". | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Need of AdviceThis is just you rambling. Nowhere in your text is there a question mark or an exposition. Please restate your query in a question form. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/16 07:03 AM |
| 4 | Flashback Post #4: SHIT TESTSAbove all else however, it should be compartmentalised and categorical. Sometimes when new people come here they have to learn a whole heap of different things at once and it screws them up, having something that's more structured like a class would be beneficial. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 06:56 AM |
| 1 | A rejection of spirituality. The nihilist's take.Start doing so. Once you understand someone's motivations, you can control them, once you control them, you control everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Is comforting women always a No-Go?It does though. It costs you a little chunk of your frame. Every time you fold your frame into someone else's it loses a bit of strength, and what for? For her to go "Oh VP thank you" Click click click FORGOTTEN. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/16 02:57 PM |
| 1 | A rejection of spirituality. The nihilist's take.It plays into everyone's inherent sense of solipsism. Why would I be here if it weren't for a higher purpose? I must mean something because I exist! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 02:40 PM |
| 1 | A rejection of spirituality. The nihilist's take.Whenever anyone asks me if I believe in anything, I tell them "My only purpose is to carry my genetic lineage onto another generation, everything else is just our big dumb brains trying to make sense of it." So yeah, there's no meaning apart from biology. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 02:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm a woman. I don't identify as a red piller. I'm just here to say that if you use ppd don't. I have realized that the place is far from neutral. It's cucked.Why are you shocked by this? Firstly, the Blue pill is only an antithesis to TRP, it's villain if you will, they only serve to bring down TRP and take it's stuff out of context to feed their plugged in hamsters these bitter little nuggets for sustenance. Ergo, one side is just looking to take the piss and not answer questions, and the few redpillers who are there are often just bored, so they aren't the best help either. Sadly, it doesn't appear you can get your solipsistic feelz fix from arguin… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/16 10:06 AM |
| 3 | PUA's Australian via revoked, due to feminist campaignLuckily in Australia we automatically learn to swim through some avenue by 5 and are taught throughout primary school (Year 1 to 6). When I mean 'everything they can', I mean I'll present them with the opportunity to try everything they can. I wasn't really offered anything, and when I was I wasn't really supported in doing it, it really ties in to my whole belief of getting to a level of QoL good enough to support a child instead of a certain age. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 09:15 AM |
| 3 | PUA's Australian via revoked, due to feminist campaignExactly. If I ever have children I'll make sure they have a go at everything they can, it was the one thing I missed out on due to my BP hippie parents and I suffered greatly for it until I left Secondary Schooling. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 03:12 AM |
| 8 | PUA's Australian via revoked, due to feminist campaignWhich better country do you speak of? We all know how fucked the EU and US is, and I don't exactly feel like living in the 2nd or 3rd world. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 03:09 AM |
| -3 | PUA's Australian via revoked, due to feminist campaignThis is why I support the Libs. I don't give a fuck about our internet, or our economy, or how much a pack of darts are, or how the bars close at 3, or even our manufacturing sector, I just want a party that isn't a bunch of libertarian soft cocks, and the Libs seem to be the least of the evils. REDACTED: I forgot that they're shit too. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 02:26 AM |
| 31 | "How often do you masturbate?"They want to know how often you have sex. Someone who masturbates often is someone who does not have any sexual options, or alternatively does not plan on having any in the near future, whereas someone who never masturbates is likely to be someone (or assumed to be someone) who has sex often, maybe with multiple options. I answer this question with "Less than you do." | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Should I stick with these people?Don't really get a sense of peer pressure from these people, they don't do drugs and not many of them even smoke, they're mainly fucking with chicks from their high school year (from different schools) | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 12:35 PM |
| 1 | New Plate Managements: How to handle a new plate and have ''The Talk''?in after sex pillow talk, tell her that you enjoy her 'company', but you should keep it your little secret. Obviously spin it to make it sound like a good idea, but she'd be a good 'no other option' plate, specially if you go out and she's there after having no luck with other prospects, it'll help your abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 12:41 PM |
| 10 | Targeting the AMOGNotice how you're the only one in the group whose writing on TRP about how your manipulations and planning aren't working? Take that as a sign that maybe you shouldn't take this shit so seriously, if someone pulled me aside from a group of friends and told me not to be mean to my feelies I'd ridicule him even harder. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend just left to study abroad, how to handle?Might as well throw this sticked RP post at you, it's perfectly pertinent to your situation. She doesn't love you by Soft Harem She doesn't love you. She loves her attraction to you. I'm going to repeat this because it is that important - She doesn't love you, she only loves her attraction to you. Make no mistake fellow high value men, women have no loyalty beyond their own narcissism. The days of the lifelong partner your grandmother was to your grandfather have been put to rest. The instant va… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 09:31 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend just left to study abroad, how to handle?she literally cried 3 days in a row that she didn't want to go and leave me, how sorry she was for doing this to us, that she loves me more than anything, that she'll still love me the entire time and when she gets back, etc "Please mr high SMV, bringer of feelz and tingles, don't notice my guilt and forgive my sins (Cheating and loss of physique and attraction) when I return, I haven't even put on your saddle for your turn being my CC stallion" I forget which episode it comes from, but in Seinf… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend just left to study abroad, how to handle?Well, the average 'dry spell' for a woman is about a month following a messy breakup. Swap out messy for 'I'm still in an LDR' and it'll take her a month to justify hamstering out of her commitment. After that, if someone came up to her, he'd have to be higher SMV than you to break that justification and fuck her. From there, she'd be free to sleep around and enjoy being a foreigner and the perks it brings. As I said, soft next, if you are given an opportunity to be with someone then you should … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 08:52 AM |
| 10 | Girlfriend just left to study abroad, how to handle?She was never yours to begin with, it was just your turn. I doubt seeing you after 5 months of NC will be high on her list of priorities, after that amount of time she starts to form new bonds and breaks off the weaker ones, and if a study trip has been around for longer than you, you won't be around when it ends. Take this soft next as a blessing, you didn't have to go through all the BS that breaking up with the lesser sex involves, you just parted ways. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Now what? Looking to create a 2-3 month plan of actionMonk mode doesn't mean you abstain form creating options, it means you enter situations with your primary goal getting a quality interaction and lesson. You see, you could go out and pull a girl, all you'd have to do is go up to literally every one of them start chatting them up and pull away when you get a red flag or a no answer. You won't though, because you're scared of rejection and don't think that way. She doesn't either, and she doesn't want to go home with some dufus to be his sex toy, … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 06:26 AM |
| 1 | "Do you have other intentions with me?""I'm actually looking for someone to start a xylophone band with and I need to know if you can handle the massive about of groupies we would get on tour." | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 06:21 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys think of sites like sluthate.com and lookism.net?Fucking 14-16 year old girls is easier than fucking 20 years old+ women because: they are more sexuallly curious they haven't been exposed to extreme whiteknighting and shit. Just think about it: if a young girl (up to 17yo) sees a dick, she is all curious, giggling and stuff while a 25 yo women gets repulsed especially if the dick belongs to a sub 7. By 22-25, they've seen a lot of cocks and got a lot of them inside their used vaginas. They only get excited about big cocks that belong to 7+ hig… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 06:02 AM |
| 1 | TRP and Fashion?Firstly, if you're a fatty nothing will hide the SMV tank that it brings, and conversely the more aesthetically pleasing you are, the less your clothing truly matters. In terms of fashion, hair completes looks. Treat yourself to some high quality hair products and an afternoon with a professional stylist, then get in contact with a good barber who takes care of you, you'll never have bad hair again. As for clothing, there's a bellcurve in regard to your SMV. if you put too much effort into it or… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 11:58 AM |
| 1 | What does this girl want?This is the way I'm leaning tbh. She's cute but she isn't my only option, that said, I'm planning to go to my University's gym when it opens so getting awkwarded out of my current (No squat rack) gym isn't the biggest deal. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 08:36 AM |
| 1 | What does this girl want?Yeah, this will very likely turn into a field report. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 06:03 AM |
| 1 | What does this girl want?I'm confused as to why a girl like her is doing this. I've been taught that women don't give out their attention and resources like this to someone who they aren't into. Is this me 'being the prize'? | /r/askTRP | 16/01/16 05:54 AM |
| 4 | "The Red Piller's Guide to Online Dating:" Word FodderNot only that but if you apply everything in that book and stick to it, you can become self calibrating, meaning that when placed in a situation not covered in the book, you have the ability to react in a way that at minimum is good enough to get you there. With that said, Om's and endorsed contributors' reports are great strengtheners to the framework outlined by Manson. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 04:49 AM |
| 1 | What does she mean by this ?Strange. Maybe she's admired you from afar as your neighbour. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 09:29 AM |
| 2 | What does she mean by this ?Was she drunk or high? Repeated positive talk like that and her friend leaving early (because she doesn't like drugs) sounds like someone was on some good ol' fashioned MDMA | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 07:30 AM |
| 27 | Girlfriend devastated after I told her she has put on weight since we started dating. Where to go from here?As far as she's concerned, her job of finding a partner and provider is done, you're it. Why would she bother staying at her A game if she believes you'll love her all the same? This is a red flag to me and you shouldn't foot the bill for her to get back into her own shape. I'd start searching the market and applying dread, you may be able to fix this but the water is already starting to leak into this LTR. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Conflicting Signs of Interest (Low level game)?Set the time, location and what she should wear yourself, that's more than enough for you to be in control | /r/askTRP | 12/01/16 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Pickup line OCDWouldn't call these pickup lines, they're shit tests. the first one should be obvious, stop asking it, the next 4 are things you should just do, so replace the urge to talk with the urge to do, and the last one is just something you should say anyway. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 11:43 AM |
| 3 | what to do next: the conversational aspectI'll give answering it a go. The first thing you need to understand is in the initial interaction, she's in control. She'll find any excuse to leave. An example is when I asked someone in their car for a lift to the bus stop from the gym. She very politely did so and we parted ways, I never saw her again. I did it again with a girl in a range rover, she lived in the suburb of the gym but she decided to go 20 mins out of her way to drive me home. Why? Because I'm cute, and that's the most importa… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 09:55 AM |
| 2 | I'm 17, and I have followed TRP's advice for a year now (monk mode only so far). Through TRP, I have achieved a lot of "life success," knowledge, and a good physique. However, I'm not too sure about what's next when the real world comes. What should I do now? Please help guide me.I'm glad you actually got what I meant when I corrected you, being able to funny utilise the english language will benefit you greatly, more than wearing nice clothes or pumped pecs will. The 400KG club (or any weight based club, most notably the 1000 lb club) is where your bench press, back squat and deadlift total 400KG. Ideally I should be aiming for the 450 club because that's closest to the 1000lb, but at that point, 50kg in growth natty is 6 months minimum. If you can afford not to, you sh… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 09:31 AM |
| 1 | I'm 17, and I have followed TRP's advice for a year now (monk mode only so far). Through TRP, I have achieved a lot of "life success," knowledge, and a good physique. However, I'm not too sure about what's next when the real world comes. What should I do now? Please help guide me.'Fun stuffs' is grammatically incorrect. So is 'wasn't even bother looking at them'. As for what's next, I have set myself 5 goals by the time I'm 20: Own an MG Midget or equally interesting classic car Be studying at one of the top 5 universities in my country. Be a part of the 400KG club MINIMUM Earn equal to or over $800 a week (about $450 US) DJ at least ONE professional gig. As for my goals, the car will be saved up for this year, I'm currently studying my ass off in an equivalent degree at… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 04:11 AM |
| 0 | How can I convince my sister to stop dating an idiotSimple. Go to your mother or father and quietly tell them that there is a 30 something man who works in a warehouse camping out in their daughter's bedroom. I'm sure your parents will find a way of putting a stop to this. Unless she wants to provide you with money or a favour, you have no obligation to keep something of hers a secret, especially if you, as her brother, disagree with it. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Female friend disrespected me... I decided to confront her. How did I handle this?Well, to her, it's A: Not her money and B: Not her problem because according to her, you are the one who asked her to do something. This means that for her, the accountability of fixing the problem isn't worth her effort. You'll still be friends with her, she'll say "aww sorry" and nothing bad will happen. The fact you were friends with her as your BP self probably compounded this, she knows what the status quo is and you reenforced it to her. As for making sure it doesn't happen, the sure fire … | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 10:10 AM |
| 3 | How to tell your boss you probably won't be back anytime soon?"Due to retrospective evaluation my desired study outcomes have diverged from my current enrolment." | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Female friend disrespected me... I decided to confront her. How did I handle this?It probably didn't change anything. You fell into her frame out of desperation. To be fair, your hand was kinda forced, but that's beside the point. Live and learn man, live and learn. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Female friend disrespected me... I decided to confront her. How did I handle this?Good. As for how you should have handled that situation (assuming we can't wind back time far enough to have you not give out money in the first place), I'd have called her up and said this "Darling (Or whatever you call her, darling sounds demeaning), do you have any plans to return my money?" "Oh I was too busy I didn't go." "well then, it appears you owe me." click | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 09:12 AM |
| 8 | Female friend disrespected me... I decided to confront her. How did I handle this?You expected a woman to act like a man, that is, with morals and standards. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Two fat girls alongside a pretty one. You're alone, no wingman. How do you open that set without getting cockblocked by the two landwhales? Or is there no way?wave finger at all three pretending to choose "Uhhhh, you, can I borrow you for a minute?" | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 05:51 AM |
| 6 | Becoming friends with Girls?You don't. If I talked to my male friends in the same way I talk to women they'd ask me if I was trying to hit on them. I'd have to say yes, because that's what I'm constantly doing when I talk to all women. Every woman who isn't your mother is someone you should game. If you wanna fuck her, you be sexual, if she's a teacher or colleague you joke around, same thing without the sexual context. You wanna make friends with one? Add the sexual tension in and never act on it, ever. Learn how to do th… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Sleeping on floor questionNow, that's pretty much what I said minus slightly different syntax. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 03:07 PM |
| 1 | What could I turn this into and what comes next?Yeah, definitely a rookie error. I'll ask for it next time. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Using your sexuality against you- are these considered shit tests?Yes. A shit test is anything designed to disqualify you as a high value person. Women don't care if you fail, there's a million other guys they can try it on with. To combat yours, I'd try slapping the ass of your cousins. The barrier has been broken by them, and they'll either find it funny or so weird they stop. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Models the book.It's The Red Pill before it was The Red Pill. I see Models as a blueprint on which to build yourself, it's a great read and if you can absorb it all, you'll be miles ahead of the average male. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 04:13 AM |
| 4 | Is holding hands a beta trait?Yes, but only because there's better options. Holding hands is a visual reaffirmation to other people that you are together. For the woman it provides validation and for the man it's something to do with his left or right hand. But the act of constantly holding this sweaty hand thing is tiresome and requires adjustment, not to mention it also doesn't have any kino value or sexual connotations. An alternative is to herd. This means whenever you come across a crowd, corner, decision or stoppage, y… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 02:37 AM |
| 2 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"Even when it's so, so easy, not everyone can be saved. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/16 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Sleeping on floor questionNo. Correct technique requires most of the upward momentum to be created by the legs, not the back. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Sleeping on floor questionIt is. Not only do you not get the proper back support, but because you can't evenly distribute your body's weight (that's why they're soft, so the pressure is less than if only a few places were contacting), those areas get sore. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Sleeping on floor questionBut you deadlift with your back in a natural S curve, wide shoulders. You know how when you lay down on the bench your back forms an arch? It can do that because your limbs hang down low. Your limbs cannon hang down when you're on a flat surface, ergo you cannot form that curve, that's why beds are soft, the even the pressure on your skin and muscles and your butt digs into them forming that curve. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 12:09 AM |
| 5 | How sexual are you via text before and after fucking a girlIn my LTR I did, but with my plates no, not unless she initiates and if she does my replies will depend on what I'm doing. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 07:46 PM |
| 6 | How sexual are you via text before and after fucking a girlOnce you have actually had sex, a confirmatory exchange is a good way of getting evidence of consent. Outside of that however, it should be limited to subtle non frame breaking engagement before an encounter. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 07:36 PM |
| 5 | When a random woman come close to you and stay close doing nothing, it's possible that she want you to approach her?No you didn't. you asked; She wants me to approach? And my answer 'Yes' still sands, you dingus. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 07:33 PM |
| 2 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"I completely agree, but at this point playing into that narrative might be the only way to save him. Oh well. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 07:30 PM |
| 5 | Sleeping on floor questionSleeping on the floor is a horrible idea and your back is sore because it can't naturally form an arch and be comfortable, it's the same reason why lifting something with your lower back is a terrible idea. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 03:33 PM |
| 2 | LTR tells me she loves meHahahahaha yep, first LTR did the same fucking thing. She'll break up with you within the year, I promise you, it'll be the best thing that has ever happened to you. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 03:24 PM |
| 10 | When a random woman come close to you and stay close doing nothing, it's possible that she want you to approach her?Yes you dingus, stop asking questions you know the answer to. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 03:09 PM |
| 30 | "If you made more money, we would have more sex"Oh gosh, this guy again? Every time I read about him the train wreck gets more and more gruesome. Please OP, don't marry this witch. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How to go from Beta to Alpha in the minds of others?I was in the same situation as you and i just came to the conclusion it was easier to focus on myself and tighten up my frame taking the piss out of everyone instead. When you leave and inevitably see them outside of school they'll see you differently because the power ladder isn't there and you'll get in. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 12:48 PM |
| 0 | Why?Yes and no. Explorative questions should only be used because the person didn't provide a strong enough divergence point for you to retort with. You say too many it start to feel like an interview and then you have to swat that shit test. I'm also a big fan of talking to people like they're computers. If they haven't given enough questions I'll say "Elaborate." and if they're ambiguous I'll say "define [Word or phrase]..." | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 11:41 AM |
| 1 | "I have small tits""Don't worry darling they're bigger than mine" | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 11:37 AM |
| 1 | How to become a good conversationalist?Yep, and make it country specific unless there's a certain comedian you like. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 06:16 AM |
| 1 | How to become a good conversationalist?Talk about things you like talking about. I don't know how many times I've given an impromptu lesson on cameras, discussed orbital geometry ("Hey, do you think there's weightlessness?"), explained business concepts like organisational inertia and Vertical Integration (Thanks 30 Rock), even explained why the DMZ is such an interesting place. The reason why is because I like talking about those things, they're me go-to fillers for conversation, they're idle listen alongs for people to input their … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 06:01 AM |
| 0 | I have the chance to break the heart of the girl who broke mine a year ago and destroyed me. I really really want to do it. What would you guys do?A lot of people would tell you to not do it, but fuck it, it'll improve you and fix a scar. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Who in here is interested into a LTR and why?Redpill autocorrects to redial on my macbook. Seriously, who thought to put autocorrection on a keyboard... | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually had success with online dating? Because honestly, I can't see how to as a man. (Rant of sorts)Women inherently do not initiate, it's against their nature, so the impetus is on the man to initiate, and because he'll chose the best option, that leaves others to jump in. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/16 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually had success with online dating? Because honestly, I can't see how to as a man. (Rant of sorts)No. Women don't like fucking guys that are way too hot than them, it makes them feel self conscious. Also, even though a guy might match with an average girl, doesn't mean he'll talk to her, there's definitely stratified bands of matching. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Once a beta, always a beta?By being better than you were the last time you made contact. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually had success with online dating? Because honestly, I can't see how to as a man. (Rant of sorts)No, it's just that men, wether their hot or not will swipe right at almost everyone because a pussy is a pussy, women, knowing this, will selectively chose who they want. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Who in here is interested into a LTR and why?Either being an endorsed contributor on /r/theredpill or through moderators and other endorsed contributors flagging you as worth adding to the list. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Who in here is interested into a LTR and why?That's what sometimes annoys me about this community. It is about learning sexual strategy and masculinity, not about telling you what to do with it. If you wanna go and have a relationship, you should, I mean, it'll be your last if you don't slip out of redial thinking, but that's your journey. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 09:51 AM |
| 1 | To Shave or Not to Shave the BodNo, not at all. What I'm saying is that in the world of fashion, the more uniform and consistent a body style is the more people focus on the product. For women, that's skinny, for men that fit and clean. If you're hairy and it suddenly stops at your neck, it's weird. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Who in here is interested into a LTR and why?The reason why TRP isn't into LTRs is because most endorsed contributors tried LTRs and found them to be a waste of time. I wanted one too, but in the end you still have to constantly put in effort, except it's only for the same person, why not put in the same amount of effort and get more yield? I always recommend them however, it teaches you a lot. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 06:35 AM |
| 1 | To Shave or Not to Shave the BodBecause body hair is dirty and hard to photoshop over. Unless you're a hip brand, having your model be as blank and universal as possible is a good thing. It's the same as female bodies, the average girl is fat, but none of the models are because it makes the product look better. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 06:32 AM |
| 0 | To Shave or Not to Shave the BodFirst thing above all is to make sure you have something worth shaving (abs, pecs, traps to an extent) and have a low BF%, from there it honestly isn't much of a deal maker or breaker, just wether or not you can be fucked. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 05:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you recover from calling someone the wrong name? Not a huge deal, but a bit awkward especially with new friendships.Write them down in a book with where you met them, what they look like and an identifying feature. Keep reading through them and you'll know their names in no time. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 03:45 AM |
| 3 | How to be vulnerable without being weak?Being weak is saying "I care about what people think of me so much I'm shaped and controlled by it", placing yourself in a vulnerable position is saying "I don't care about what people think of me so much I do whatever I want, accept if or leave it." | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 11:48 AM |
| 1 | And I'm officially confused.Doesn't mean anything, maybe she was doing it as a joke. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 11:06 AM |
| 1 | And I'm officially confused.Lool. Signal's pretty clear, she has a boyfriend (and it's probably the boyfriend talking to you) and isn't interested, why do you need a forum to tell you this. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here actually had success with online dating? Because honestly, I can't see how to as a man. (Rant of sorts)the LSSW (Local Sexy Single Woman) is a myth. You are always inherently at a disadvantage in terms of investment and even the top 10% of men will accept 80% women, so you have no chance of getting anywhere close to a response when mr chad swiped right. Use it as a supplement, use it when you get bored and feel like pecking at a button, but never rely on it to succeed. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 11:03 AM |
| 2 | How to plate a friend who has a BFNope, it gives her plausible deniability and her hamster will wriggle out of it, always beg for forgiveness instead of ask for permission, her narrative is more likely to accept it if it 'just happened'. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 11:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Advice needed, managed to pull girl to room but couldn't even k-close.Sadly, that's how easy it is to kill. As for kino with walking, I'm a big fan of walking through crowds, my dates always consist of walking through a crowded area, it's a sure fire way of escalating because you're provided with an opportunity to grab her hand and lead her through the crowd. Before that however, I'll find any excuse to touch her, stopping her from walking out into traffic to cross a road, leading her over my path, sitting down, reacting to something and pushing myself into her, s… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 10:59 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Advice needed, managed to pull girl to room but couldn't even k-close.You didn't build kino in the cafe, you didn't build kino when going home, talking isn't enough, you need to start touching her ASAP, and if I'm honest with you, you should have moved her shit. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 10:03 AM |
| 11 | What's an event that strengthened a TRP truth for you?No one is better than you. A friend of mine, someone I wholeheartedly look up to, someone who has a wide group of friends, who supposedly has no problem getting women, who has a job with way more income than me completely bombed out and got oneitis for the only chick who isn't in a relationship at a party. Me, on the other hand, waited and found 3 girls who weren't, escalated and got a lay within an hour. On the way back I told him about it and he was shocked, asking me what I did, talking about… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 07:57 AM |
| 3 | How to plate a friend who has a BFDo it, then the morning after be like "No, we can't keep doing this, you have a boyfriend", she'll either agree with you and in like a week you'll just go back to it again (leading to the second option) or she'll weasel her way into making it a FWB scenario. The only way out of that with keeping your friendship intact is for you to then get another girl when she starts to branch swing, stating you didn't want this to go that far in the first place and that you should go back to being friends. Sh… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 05:12 AM |
| 4 | 6 years LTR coming to an end. Final meeting with my ex-girlfriend.Nope. No no no no no no no no. You will never be able to logic your way back into a relationship with her. Don't try, don't beg, don't talk, I wouldn't even go see her again. Get on with your life and keep reading here, it's the best thing you can do. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 05:08 AM |
| 5 | Question about getting set up on dates by friends.These are always difficult and I never usually bother with them, you have a pretence of "Hey our friend brought us together so we both know she's gonna hear about how it goes so we better not fuck", never a good place to start. You should have called ASAP and done something with her before new years, it's obvious she was on the lookout if her friend asked you out for her, and as you said, it wouldn't be difficult for her to find someone. Your loss, move on. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Cant tell if this is a shit test.Hahahahahaha, glad to hear. Understand that with emotional responses and women, there's always an implied meaning. When you do that you're saying to her "You're acting like a child and it's pathetic" in the nicest and finniest way possible. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Happiness from within?Apart from uni, what do you do? An existence that's just uni, home and a reminder of the one thing that hurt you the most isn't the way to live. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 03:38 AM |
| 5 | Cant tell if this is a shit test."Awwwww, does little bubby want their boo boo kissed?" If she's acting like a child, treat her like one. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Should you call if she doesn't text you backExactly. Soft Nexts are for dread or leads that are going cold, hard next are reactions to negative events. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Should you call if she doesn't text you backBut think about it, how many times has a woman been bothered to do that? | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Should you call if she doesn't text you backThese days, if someone doesn't reply within 6 hours (sleep notwithstanding) they are meaningfully ignoring you, and if they aren't, you'll receive an explanation. Soft next. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Once a beta, always a beta?The ladder theory discusses this in more detail. Basically, if you've positioned yourself to someone as a beta or you're below their ranking system for other people, you will stay there until you move up in SMV and SMV alone. So, if you started off as a 25 in someone's eyes and moved down to an 18, you must gain 15 points minimum to get into her radar, meaning that in the end you inherently are a 40 to other women, meaning you are more attractive to people who don't know you than to people who d… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Why have hundreds of subscribers left TRP in the past 16 days?Yeah, you can see on this graph how default subs have also taken a huge dip. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 11:15 PM |
| 9 | Why have hundreds of subscribers left TRP in the past 16 days?Every so often reddit goes through and deletes subscriptions from deleted and banned accounts, one would have to assume it happened around this time. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 11:11 PM |
| 0 | AirBNB vs Hotel vs Motel for banging chicks.I'm younger, so young it doesn't affect me, but it is a major issue. If they're a club rat, fuck em in the toilet, if they're day game, go back to theirs, if they're anything in between, public trips are fine. On a side note, all of my plates love public stuff, they get off on it so much and it makes dates less boring. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 05:23 AM |
| 6 | Issues with bragging. Help?Imagine you were talking to the master in whichever field you were in. Would he be impressed? Would he even be interested? If no, don't say it. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 05:14 AM |
| 0 | AirBNB vs Hotel vs Motel for banging chicks.Friend of mine lived out of his car and fucked hard, it was a good setup (4x4, bed in the back and properly set up) and he purposefully chose to do so. One of the things he'd do is go on spontaneous camping trips with girls, not very far away, just enough to not be bothered, and they'd go at it. As for the rest of it, her parents will be more lenient, and you sneak in and out so it's okay, same thing with yours. How old are you, by the way? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 05:13 AM |
| 20 | Need a ruling on display of emotion.Women don't dislike warranted emotion, they dislike unwarranted, erratic, uncontrolled emotion, it shows that your frame isn't as iron clad as it should be. So, as long as you keep it to yourself and don't rely on others for support, you will be okay, just don't expect it to be wholly beneficial to you. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 05:07 AM |
| 1 | AirBNB vs Hotel vs Motel for banging chicks.What's wrong with their house? What's wrong with your car? What's wrong with going camping? What's wrong with public places? What's wrong with club/bar/public toilets? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 05:04 AM |
| 0 | Workout questionLean gains IS bulking. Bulking isn't meant to be 'Go beastmode and eat everything in sight', bulking is putting on quality muscle and increasing PRs, so do that. On another note, if you have to ask this question you're a noob, and noobs always bulk, so go that route. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 11:33 AM |
| 1 | ELI5:Male vs Female OrgasmBecause women's orgasms don't actually do anything, they're a byproduct of the chromosome that decides gender. if you were to draw a chart with the X axis being amount of pleasure and the Y axis being time, you'd see the woman's orgasms as a wavy line, each peak being the orgasm in question, but never going higher than a certain percentage. Men's orgasms, on the other hand, build and build and build and then peak and drop off down into negative territory, taking a varying amount of time (dependi… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you have any examples of not putting up with her bullshit/putting your foot down and the woman involved being happy you did so?"Corona I can't hold these drinks" "put one between your tits" Girl on phone "Did you just tell me to put my tits on the phone?" "Yes, put ya tits on the phone hun" "Did you just invite me for a ride there?" "Of course, you think I'd be seen with you given the choice not to?" "Corona don't touch me" Slaps ass "You're such a dick" giggles | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you have any examples of not putting up with her bullshit/putting your foot down and the woman involved being happy you did so?Example of shit tests or examples of them saying what you quoted? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Do you have any examples of not putting up with her bullshit/putting your foot down and the woman involved being happy you did so?No. The only thing closest to it has been when they retrospectively thank me for actually having the gumption to 'disagree and challenge me' which is basically passing shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/15 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Soft next and Hard nextIt's winter, she goes home to her family, she has to put aside her sexual depravity which she associates with you, and when she's done she comes back. Women are incredibly good at doing and acting in their best interests, and even though not talking to you hurts you in some capacity (Not really but you know what I mean), she'll do it to avoid the guilt of thinking about it around her family, another great reason never to trust. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Soft next and Hard nextCan't go wrong with Rollo | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 12:42 AM |
| 2 | What is The Blue Pill's advice?Of course, of course, there's no way I'd ever accept the watered down version /r/PunchingMorpheus offers, just wanted to see what alternatives there were to keep rounded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/15 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Soft next and Hard nextYeah, sufficient amount of dread means she simply breaks no contact to apologise/make up for it. It's of course worth noting that you must be desirable enough to be something worth holding onto, so typically early on in the process, everything ends up being a hard next. Also, don't tell her you're doing it either, that's the worst mistake you can make out of all of them. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/15 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Am I a beta orbiter or Alpha or somewhere in between?I'd say she's gone for other options and seen you to be the better one out of the lot. If you think the amount of investment you're putting into her is yielding benefits, then by all means keep doing so, but just because she's now willing to give her fuck hole to you to deflower (Which isn't high on my list of fun sex experiences), it doesn't mean anything. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Anyone met a woman that has a RP mentality ?I've met women who openly accept that their looks are what give them value, who exploit lesser men for their resources and sleep around with multiple people, that's as close to Redpill as you'll get with many women, more of a reinforcement of AWALT than /r/RedPillWomen. As for a calm, honest, domestically blissful and inherently subservient woman who is happy with their partner? No, and I don't think I ever will. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Soft next and Hard nextNexting is always done for a reason, typically as a punishment, but never without a reason (not being interested in them anymore does count as such). Soft nexting basically means you don't make any attempt at contacting the person, wether that be as a reaction to misbehaviour, them not being worth your time or not being as responsive to your advances and suggestions (2 or more date changes with warning or a flake with no date change is soft nexting territory). Hard nexting is absolute no contact… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 06:17 PM |
| 4 | What is The Blue Pill's advice?Yeah, /r/PunchingMorpheus appears to be my answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/15 11:48 AM |
| 1 | What is The Blue Pill's advice?Yeah, /r/PunchingMorpheus appears to be my answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/15 11:47 AM |
| 1 | What is The Blue Pill's advice?You're right, there hasn't, there hasn't been one in over a month (That's because that's all I could be fucked searching for). I was really hoping I wouldn't have to add a caveat requesting non sarcastic answers, thanks for proving me wrong in record time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/15 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl I used to be friends with before I went NC and started working on myselfNo. No matter what you do, if you've built a foundation on friendship, platonic friendship, you have little to no chance of ever being romantically involved with that person. Keep being friends with her if she provides you with good things, but pursue other women. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Is this more than approach anxiety?Oh, first ever? Yeah, possible. Keep going, maybe next time you'll only throw up once. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Is this more than approach anxiety?Did you actually feel anxiety? I'd argue that food poisoning could have those effects. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Need some help with my favourite plate.You told her you didn't want to see her, doesn't matter whether or not you had you limbs torn off, she subconsciously took that as "I don't want to see you, nor do I want your affection." Maybe she's giving you space, maybe she's lost interest, maybe it was a hollow offer to attempt to make you feel better, either way, get better and hit her up again and forget about this, it isn't her purpose. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Are most girls not aware of how much they can slay on tinder?A male orbiter gets the validation of being able to talk to and be in the presence of an attractive woman and the pleasure or feeling like he's special to someone else. These are things we see as wasteful and pointless, but I've seen the justification play out in front of my eyes in many cases and examples over the years. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | I want to hate her but I just can'tIt does, but you won't notice your progress, just keep going and you'll wonder how you could live with yourself before. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 05:44 PM |
| 2 | I want to hate her but I just can'tOh. So she's just a meanie pants girl you're into? She isn't even mean? I think you interact with her negatively due to your infatuation, and that's reflected in your entitlement (Why doesn't she like me!) that you brought to this post. Forget about it, go read more and more and have that awakening. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I want to hate her but I just can'tSo what, you fucking her? She just a meanie pants you work with? If she's so bad, move jobs, she'll eventually force you to either way. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 04:51 PM |
| 4 | I want to hate her but I just can'tYou know the answer, you know how to get there, more than any of us, you just don't want to because it's easier for you to ignore it and come onto here and ask, no, beg for someone stronger than you to provide you with this golden solution that's easier than the reality. If I was in your situation, which I wouldn't, I would instantly drop her. We call this Hard Nexting, no contact, nothing. Do that. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 04:18 PM |
| 15 | Are most girls not aware of how much they can slay on tinder?She will because she inherently does not wish to change her ways, nor can she to some extent due to her history (A drift missile will end it's life as a drift missile, it will never be more than that). It's important to note that she is actually the female version of a nice guy, she's a shitty gatekeeper of sex because she believes it'll lead to commitment in the same way a nice guy is a shitty gatekeeper of commitment because he believes it'll lead to sex. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Should I hire a prostitute?No way man we're an inclusive and loving subreddit it doesn't matter if she's a grill she's entitled to comment here and provide relevant and thought provoking advice!!! | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 02:46 PM |
| 14 | Are most girls not aware of how much they can slay on tinder?Women love sex, but they have no shortage of it. Every girl I know could make one phone call and get laid within the hour. If you had that in your pocket, some jerk off with a pickup line or a pun about your name (that was so funny the last 20 times) is going to be nothing to you but free validation and good feelz unless they present a better offer than the one you currently have. Actually, you'll find that women typically only fuck in a range +/- 2 HB points their value, they see anything highe… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 02:41 PM |
| 7 | Should I hire a prostitute?Yes, if it's affecting your ability to approach, do so. I did once to try it, and it's very easy. Find the back page listing website for your country, find a girl you like for a price you can afford, call her and meet her, typically it's an in-call because it's safer. You pay her, she 'services' you and you part ways an hour/half hour later a non virgin. Prices vary depending where you live. I live in a holiday destination so there's lots of asian tourists who come here for an escort holiday on … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Regression.Oh. Sit back and view their living habits very closely and start to despise them for it, make them a constant reminder of why you are doing the things you're doing, listen to their stories of failure and laugh with them, but know you're laughing at them. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 02:31 PM |
| 31 | Are most girls not aware of how much they can slay on tinder?You forget that guys swipe anything that isn't fucking disgusting. You also forget that to women, this isn't new news. Guys are constantly hitting on them, talking to them, admiring them, giving them gratification for free (through every social media platform available), all because they have a vagina and tits. Yes, it's disgusting, but you wouldn't be complaining if you were in the same position. Remember always, goals are Men=Sex, Women=Commitment, both genders are the gatekeepers of each, we'… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Regression.So where's the problem? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Regression.Well then, do as much as you can to stop. I'd find a way of making weed gross to you, smoking will be less desirable if you can only think of bong water stank. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Regression.If the environment you're in is toxic, move out. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 02:09 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with guys that interfereIt's called AMOGing, you can out AMOG the guy because usually the front is pretty weak. The best thing to do is break his frame and send him away, my favourite line in clubs is "Hey buddy, the price of entry into this threeway is a round of drinks, so go on, off you scoot". It's important to note however that no matter what you say, the woman will be the one who decides the outcome of the interaction, and she will always chose the better person. There's very little you can do if the guy who walk… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 10:35 AM |
| 0 | A girl that has been giving me eye contact for around 5 months got approached another guy. I don't find her attractive in the least, but ever since I've been feeling angry and inadequate. Why is this so?Yeah sure, don't give a fuck, that is until you actually get someone attracted to you and you don't know what to do from there. If you're going to talk to women in that way, you might as well actually go the full length, inevitably failing at certain spots and learn how to be dependent the entire way though, so in my opinion, monk mode ends when you start interacting in a sexual capacity. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 10:15 AM |
| 0 | A girl that has been giving me eye contact for around 5 months got approached another guy. I don't find her attractive in the least, but ever since I've been feeling angry and inadequate. Why is this so?Yes, this is exactly why I have done monk mode in the past. I think it's a great exercise for people who have underlying problems that need fixing, and monk mode provides the time, space and drive to do so. But the goal of monk mode is always to get out of monk mode as quickly as possible. You should be doing these things as effectively as possible in order to move forward and start the process of attaining women as soon as possible. And As you said, if you're already talking to women, why not p… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/15 12:10 AM |
| 3 | A girl that has been giving me eye contact for around 5 months got approached another guy. I don't find her attractive in the least, but ever since I've been feeling angry and inadequate. Why is this so?I honestly wouldn't recommend that if you're trying to attract them. That girl? If you smirked back at her and approached her after class, you'd be displaying attraction, the key is to display attraction with low investment, meaning that you subconsciously transmit the message "I'm attracted to you, take it or leave it." | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 12:19 PM |
| 2 | A girl that has been giving me eye contact for around 5 months got approached another guy. I don't find her attractive in the least, but ever since I've been feeling angry and inadequate. Why is this so?i actually treat them just like i treat men Don't. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 12:07 PM |
| 2 | A girl that has been giving me eye contact for around 5 months got approached another guy. I don't find her attractive in the least, but ever since I've been feeling angry and inadequate. Why is this so?Yes. As /u/wehadtosaydickety said, you have the kind of oneitis that says "I could fuck her if I wanted", and when you see that window closing, you get mad. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 11:51 AM |
| 1 | A girl that has been giving me eye contact for around 5 months got approached another guy. I don't find her attractive in the least, but ever since I've been feeling angry and inadequate. Why is this so?Because you had built her up to be infatuated with you and only you, and when someone else hit on your girl, you got jealous, that's oneitis. Not having oneitis would mean you talked to her after class and plated her. As for saying things, first thing to come to mind, literally. Look around you, are you in a coffee shop? Say something about what you're going to order, strike up a conversation about coffee. In a library? Talk about the dewey decimal system. Anything that is based purely on your l… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 11:36 AM |
| 19 | A girl that has been giving me eye contact for around 5 months got approached another guy. I don't find her attractive in the least, but ever since I've been feeling angry and inadequate. Why is this so?I will never understand monk mode for this very reason. It places you in this weird isolation where you put off talking to women and getting laid, which is why you're doing monk mode in the first place. The feeling you have is indeed jealousy with regret. In your mind she was your little ego booster whom you gained massive oneitis, and if I'm to be honest with you, I don't think her intentions were as grand as you describe. You're jealous because some fucking guy walked up to her and did the thi… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Is she taking a jab at me?It means that even though you've only been in a relationship for 3 months she feels more attached to you than she expected. This is of course normal for women, CC amnesia and all. A good rule for those sorts of casual shit tests is "Take it at face value with a sense of humorous aloofness." Keep investigating her, applying dread and see how far you get. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Situational. If she has a boyfriend? (Need openers/transition advice)Yeah nah. Titties look like titties. Every girl's look the same. You wanna see titties? Go to a damn strip club or watch porn. Photoshopping someone you're into in real life is obsession. Think to yourself, if she saw those photos and requests, would she be put off? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 07:50 AM |
| 3 | BP Media for Women?Yes. This is the eternal problem, women will never be satisfied, I could explain it, but this explains it better THE HUSBAND STORE A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates. You may visit the store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the attributes of the men increase as the shopper ascends the flights. There is, however, a catch: you may choose any … | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 07:17 AM |
| 2 | Situational. If she has a boyfriend? (Need openers/transition advice)Yes. That level of obsessiveness will drastically affect your neediness and investment in this girl, both horrible things for attraction. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 07:11 AM |
| 2 | BP Media for Women?Notice how the guy is hot/high SMV? Women always go for that above all else, and because it's an estro-centric narrative for women, he's giving out all the commitment and love to this one girl. This is like watching Mighty Car Mods for girls. Men/Project cars have defined and unchangeable characteristics (Height muscles attractiveness/build chassis make model), the idea with a man/Project car is to chose the best man/chassis and build him/it to be the perfect man/car for you. Shows like One Tree… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Situational. If she has a boyfriend? (Need openers/transition advice)Hahahahahahahahahahaha. If you have to ask how to write a damn Facebook opener to a random chick that was probably just being nice to you and also has a boyfriend, you're barking up the wrong tree. Most people on here don't give a fuck about women and their relationships, many posts outline how contributors have been a woman's branch swing or how they have mistresses. Forget about her, if this is your first time hitting on someone, start with someone who is single and low SMV and partner count, … | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Got STD, confronted her, then got msg that "she had found out herself and had been treated, she just didn’t tell me because she was worried how I would react". To sue or not to? Question inspired by other topic.So she'd been 'treated' and thought she was all clear and knowingly omitted this information from you in order for you not to react? Yep, depending on your state that Grievous Bodily Harm. This page should have all the information you need. I'd start contacting lawyers if you wanna get something out of this. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/15 04:31 AM |
| 16 | What experience happened to you that made you unplug. [Can be stickied? Anecdotal - The origins of TRPers here today]In Australia, we have something called Schoolies. In many places, mainly on the Gold Coast, hundreds of thousands of school leavers converge for a week of drunken hooking up, drug abuse and violence. It's a great time, but not if you do what I did. I went to a small island, there were no parties on the beach, no large groups of people, just a small holiday resort booked out by a group of rejects and people who couldn't afford a proper time. I was roped in on a whim by someone I met on a bus. Abs… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Update on : Really feeling shitty...set me right brothers!By creating it. Put your mug on tinder and start cold approaching are the 2 places I'd start. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 02:43 PM |
| 7 | Should I tell my friend his new girlfriend is the town slut?Nope. You can drop hints, that's about it. Men have hamsters too, and his will spin you into someone who is envious and he'll drop you to protect his sex giver. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Dealing with an irritating guyThat's so bullshit though, you gotta admit that, again, imagine if a girl said that, you in your hopeful mind would think "Okay so like 80% chance" and not "20% chance because I'm the absolute last final worst option". You fucked this guy around, swallow your pride, stop looking for justification here and move on. EDIT: Looked through your history, so it was your chance at the big V card huh? And you knew you were gonna go do that as early as 30 hours before? Yep, shoulda told him something else… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 11:43 AM |
| 4 | Dealing with an irritating guyDunno man, looks like you're the asshole in that convo, I mean sure, he asked you to do something, but the way you said things (Saying you're available, specifying times and places to meet etc) made it sound confirmed, then last fucking minute you tell him "nah tits are better ima just shove you down to tomorrows preplanned gig". If someone I asked out (which is essentially what he did) did that to me I'd be pissed too. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 11:04 AM |
| 4 | Update on : Really feeling shitty...set me right brothers!Awesome, so you've fixed your problem until the 9th. You know what I predict will happen? She'll call you up and cancel in the new year, maybe even have a new year's kiss with someone else that leads on longer than that. You haven't fixed the underlying problem with your lack of abundance mentality. Fix that. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Average person's(both genders) view on judo, olympic wrestling, bjj? Weird pajamas thing, karate, bending or...?It's a sport you do in order to keep fit, cool. That's gonna be anyone you talk to who isn't into 1 on 1 contact sport is gonna think, in much the same way as you think someone who owns a Wankel Rotary engined car is just someone with a sportscar. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/15 07:56 AM |
| 8 | The Perks of Pissing on A WallflowerIf Bro Science did a video titled "Why being a dude is the best thing ever", it'd read exactly like this, good job. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 04:23 AM |
| 15 | Why hasn't "The Red Pill" started a full migration to their own platform instead of using the Cuckosphere known as Reddit?While the censoring really hasn't happened That's why. Reddit, wether we like it or not, is the most effective and efficient place for us to be. Why? The layout is simple, the downtime is minimal and we have a growing base of subscribers. The biggest reason, however, is that TRP isn't meant to be a club, it's meant to be a library of resources anyone can access or stumble upon, putting it on a website seperate from something as big as Reddit would mean less people would find us. Would we ever ha… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 10:03 PM |
| 0 | LTR jealous of female friendHer lack of trust for you is her problem, just keep doing what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 09:29 AM |
| 1 | LTR jealous of female friendWhy does she have any place to say who you can and cannot meet? Just because she fucks you occasionally doesn't mean she has the power to break friendships that came before her, always set that boundary. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 08:48 AM |
| 3 | LTR jealous of female friendUp to you is a comfort test, she doesn't want you to stop seeing this person, she just wants to make sure you aren't going to cheat, the fact you haven't set up a scenario where she's okay with you seeing her disturbs me, and the fact she has this control over you disturbs me even more. See your friend, doesn't matter if she has a vagina, tell your LTR that she's your friend and you have a longer history with her, she has a problem with that, there's the door. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 08:36 AM |
| 1 | What are some things I need to invest in this holiday season?Yeah, saw your post on /r/malehairadvice, not much you can do with that at the moment, I'd just let it grow out seeing as you're going monk and don't give a shit about women, then get it cut when there's something to play with. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 08:29 AM |
| 0 | What are some things I need to invest in this holiday season?I'd swap out 'more expensive hair products' for a quality session with a male hair stylist. Unless you were lucky like me, you didn't get a routine hairdresser with experience who loves me so much It's free, so going to someone who actually knows and has vision would be a better place to spend your money. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Should I confront my beta dad about his lacking dread game towards his current wife?It's a difficult thing, you can't force TRP on him and you can't force him to do things like that, I'd start by getting him to go with you to the gym, see what he's been missing out on, from there, get him into a positive mood and talk about his wife and see what happens from there. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 07:15 AM |
| 4 | What do you guys think of this scene from the Big Bang Theory? (Spoiler)I think it's a gag that fits Sheldon's character? It's based on the ludicrousness of affirmative consent, but most people would be like "Hahaha so dorky asking for consent like that LAWL". | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 07:13 AM |
| 2 | "Women Want A Rock, Not An Equal"Yeah, I've got the same problem, I've solved it by being so ludicrous that no one would ever believe it, but there have still been times where I have to clarify "Wait, so you actually think me, a 18 year old in Australia, met bill clinton by handing him toilet paper under the stall?" | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Low SMV girls in high schoolYeah, why not, it'll be a learning experience for you. You'll learn how to awkwardly have sex, you'll learn that falling in 'love' with someone is bullshit, and you'll learn that if you don't leave, she'll crush you. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 12:54 AM |
| 7 | "Women Want A Rock, Not An Equal"It isn't about them taking him too seriously in general, they would litterally believe his amplification as fact instead of seeing through it as a joke, because he doesn't ever joke. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Should you fake sexual inexperience?Yes, always yes. Women are the only ones who have value placed in virginity, and they will always lie and round down, omitting ONS, Anything less than full penetration and FWBs, so you should conversely lie about having more experience than you actually have. I remember when I lost my virginity (17) to a 28 year old and she said I was one of the best she'd had, so as long as you don't cum in under 5 minutes or go soft, you'll be completely fine. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/15 09:13 AM |
| 1 | The combination of dread and hamster is amazing"I have plans that clash with yours, I'll see you later." Saying what you said, which is directly appealing to her emotions instead of addressing them through subtext is like putting your hands up whilst a bull runs at you, it does nothing, absolutely nothing. Saying what I said and waiting for her hamster to spin the other way would be better. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Do hot women tend to be stupider than homely women?No, not at all. I know hot women who are overachievers in their field, and 'homely' women who are as sharp as a mallet. I think what you're talking about is the more attractive women are, the less they have to learn and work for things such as friends and romantic partners, it's the 'hot girl bubble', which in that case can make them vapid and unintelligible. I think you'll find however that most if not all women are controlled and react purely based on emotional impulses, which can make them se… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Need advice for how to proceedYeah, shit test. She would have fucked you at any point along that line, but you fucked up and now her 'gina has superglued together for you. Please learn from this and react more sexually to women, and HARD next this girl, no contact, none. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 09:30 PM |
| 12 | Woman's constant putting me down"She says she wants a man that has drive and she wants me to be able to earn six figures, she says that I always say I am going to do things but then I don't." 8 Months ago you said this man, 8 months ago, and by the looks of it you decided to start playing diablo and warcraft and get worse and worse. Don't be surprised if she's cheating on you, I'd fucking cheat on you simply to keep sane. You need to sit the fuck down and work out what the hell you're doing with your life, work out why you've … | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 12:48 PM |
| -8 | LTR got mad, slammed door againBruh, it isn't your house. if she moved into yours, it's now only 75% yours, if you moved into her house, it's 25% yours, and if you both left respective houses, it's between 30 to 70% yours, depending who pulled the triggers and made it happen. Never forget this, she now inhabits your home, nothing is sacred or private anymore. Now, in your case, assuming you've talked to her about it already, I'd install some Overhead door closers, they aren't crazily expensive and you can easily remove them a… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Late Start; Arrested DevelopmentI'd describe 'well on their way' as someone who isn't living in their parents house without a licence, a virgin, unhealthy and unattractive and with no job or education, if you aren't any of those things, you are well on your way. Fuck, read about Casey Neistat, dude was a poor bum living in a shit house in brooklyn at your age and now he's famous and living the life he always dreamed about 10 years later, just keep going with your undergrad and start working your way up, doesn't matter you're 2… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 11:48 AM |
| 10 | What are the subreddits which Red Pillers get automatically blocked from?Also /r/rape, unsurprisingly. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 09:31 AM |
| 2 | How to find a side piece without Tinder?Doesn't even need to be that, I've said the most random things to people in supermarkets and it's worked, just as long as it's something. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 07:23 AM |
| 3 | How to find a side piece without Tinder?See pretty girl doing day to day things See what pretty girl is doing Approach pretty girl with anecdote about said activity, first thing off the top of your head is the best Say thing in head Bam, no need to scope out girls like a fucking pedophile. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 07:12 AM |
| 11 | Need advice for how to proceedYou fucking dope. Holy shit, you didn't just miss SOME interests, you missed an Interstate billboard with her cunt on it and the words FUCK ME RIGHT NOW emblazoned on it in flashing red lights. Invite her over again, take her by the hand, DRAG her up to your room, throw her on the bed and go crazy man, don't hold anything back, roll off her and say "Sorry, I must have missed a turn and needed to get back up to speed." What can you learn from this? Learn that you seriously need to start paying at… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 07:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do you guys give a fuck if someone doesn't tip??If you're canadian, it makes sense for you to have hesitations, but americans have to tip, it's deeply ingrained in their culture, but it's completely up to you wether or not you personally do so in your country and shouldn't have anything to do with impressing a girl. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Data Source for Rollo's SMV Distribution?Have you read the article? I'd guess it's a visual manifestation of a whole heap of different but converging ideas about the outlay of SMV, No actual data to back it up. You could always just ask the man /u/Rollo-Tomassi | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Are there any good movies that portray the "darker" (truer) sides of marriage?If you're interested, an Australian TV series called 'the beautiful lie' is basically about some bored housewife falling in lust with some AF foreign guy and completely destroying her family and life whilst chasing after him, lots of sweet schadenfreude and Hamstering. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Anyone with experience with Uni in Aus?I don't know where you are specifically, but I go a uni which is absolutely tiny in comparison to any of the Sandstone Unis in the capital cities so YMMV. Find out what social clubs are around and join, It's an instant group of friends and gives you something non academic to do. O Week and it's events also the best possible time to meet people and women, everyone is there looking to make friends, no one has study or tutorials to attend, nor will they be invisible due to classes running at times … | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 01:59 AM |
| 7 | Is it better to be 'beta' in this kind of situation?This is meant to be on asktrp, so prepare for a possible ban. What the fuck are you on about? The way you wrote that up makes it sound like the way you interact with people is on par with an insurance evaluator, so I'd have to assume you aren't the warmest person to be around. It sounds like this girl was just being friendly with you, maybe thinking about you romantically and you broke frame as soon as her BETA ex boyfriend messaged you and scared you off, and now you're looking for any excuse t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Advice for Teenagers of TRPIf you're a teen coming on here for advice, you're probably one of the two. And what? You're missing a whole heap of background work there. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Advice for Teenagers of TRPYou're missing the crucial point here, 'teenagers'. It's gonna take a year or two at least for an average guy to aesthetically get into the top 20 or 10% of his cohort, which by that time means he's likely in his senior year or at college, which makes this pointless advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/15 11:51 PM |
| 2 | "The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 1"Question 1: ”Are you a player?” "Of course, why else would I be talking to someone exactly like you" Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” "Only the ones dumb enough not to notice" Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” "dramatically* Ever since my wife left me I've been a mess." (I'm 18, so it's impossible)* Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” "Enough to know what I'm doing and not too many that I'm bored with it." Question 5: ”Are you seeing anyone e… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 04:06 AM |
| 4 | RP jobsThey're safe, profitable and there's work, that's it. if a job is something you must do to obtain money, you might as well do something that's efficient at that. I personally think business and law are more RP and dark triad than STEM, at least in those jobs you have the ability to become more self sufficient and build yourself, wether that be working yourself into a profitable and specialised area of law or starting your own business. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Most important things to keep in mind?Even if you fail, make it be on your own terms. If you want X out of someone, you either get X or you fail, never change what X is or convince yourself that their Y is actually your X. This is simple frame control, good things don't come to boys who wait, they come to those who ask, tell and do. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 02:01 AM |
| 1 | 30 Day Challenge - Small TalkI'll do this, I've been looking for a place to document my interactions, and I absolutely love the idea of the Craigslist black night, except change it to gumtree, for obvious geolocation reasons. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Is there a TL;DR for TRP? And how can I beat the information into my stubborn head so I can make use of it?Pretty much. Everything in your life is controlled by you and only you, excuses and blame are for the weak. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Is there a TL;DR for TRP? And how can I beat the information into my stubborn head so I can make use of it?The Red Pill is based on breaking down the Matriarchal narrative of the modern era and embracing delayed gratification, vulnerability, self sufficiency and security. Delayed gratification comes in the form of learning game and interpersonal skills, improving yourself physically and mentally and increasing your own quality of living. All of these things take time, but they can only be achieved through internalising and accepting that you must exert effort and suffer short term pain over a period … | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Approaching as a noviceExactly, the golden rule is if you go to a nightclub with the express intention of getting laid, you're doing it wrong and you'll end up having a horrible time. If you go there with having a fun time with your friends and bouncing around in mind, you'll have a great time, you should be talking to everyone anyway, and if you happen across someone who is into you (by no mistake of your own efforts), you pursue it and see how far it goes, and if it fails, oh well, you are independent from your outc… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 03:30 AM |
| 5 | Approaching as a novice-Guy who isn't good at club game | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Being virgin and asocial started affecting my (21m) concentration and (individual) efficiency. Sadly, the one thing I'm lacking the most is time.Don't do any fancy sleep shit. 7 hours, minimum, 7 times a week. As for your studies, I definitely do not think that your schedule is one that is recommended or endorsed or even normal by the standards of the campus, because it if it were, you're be one f the few whose sticking to it. So yes, talk to your faculty and academic advisors about this, because it isn't normal. Straight razor saving? Yeah, not the worst thing you could be doing with that time. Here's what I want you to do, take one of … | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 11:48 PM |
| 5 | Being virgin and asocial started affecting my (21m) concentration and (individual) efficiency. Sadly, the one thing I'm lacking the most is time.Honestly, I have no fucking clue. I've never seen anyone with a workload that constant and strenuous, You only get 4 and a half hours of sleep every night, and although you're exercising, I don't see any time for meal prep or even basic cooking, nor do I see any gym time or even time for yourself, I can perhaps see your morning routine is that time? Is there anywhere you can cut off time or use it more efficiently? | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 03:43 PM |
| 3 | How do you counter shit-tests about being bald"It's so shiny you can almost see your own desperation" (disagree and amplify) "At least my hair isn't fading as fast as your chances of marriage/a second date" (Disagree and Pressure flip) "I never date bitches, are you gunning to break the trend?" (Pressure flip) "I'd brush it off but I haven't owned a comb in over 4 years" (Agree and amplify) "I'd hate to be bald" "And I'd hate to be Insert unappealing feature here" (Discipline for bitchy comment) Like a comedian, have canned responses to com… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/15 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Having major marriage problems after we both took the red pill. Is my husband overdoing it or am I being a brat?Sounds like you've just switched places. See, he's in the anger phase, where he realises that his entire life has been a lie and despite getting you, he could have and should have done better in his life. To combat this, he's become incredibly insecure and is being like this to make up for all the past. He's getting being a pushover and caring for you mixed up. Passing you stuff, taking shit testing lightly, not turning up the heat, those are things that husbands and wives do for each other beca… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/15 12:33 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to cuddlingHonestly, in your place in the relationship, you're gonna have to be the one to initiate sex. Women only use desire to attract to and protect, and considering you don't apply dread game and aren't just starting to see each other, she just doesn't need to, she finds more comfort in cuddling. If you wanna improve this, get better at sex or find a new girl who provides that to you. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/15 09:10 AM |
| 5 | How to respond to cuddlingOne of two things are happening here. She either is such a prude and says she wants to cuddle because she doesn't want to state her true intentions, or she sees sex as an unnecessary part of your admittedly long lasting relationship because she doesn't need to provide it to you to keep you around. Which one sounds more feasible? | /r/askTRP | 28/11/15 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Where's my sex?Give it a go, step out of that comfort zone and pop that hymen that grew back over your balls and get human sexual contact back in your life, you're just paying with money instead of your SMV or time. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/15 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Where's my sex?Hire escorts. Seriously. Think about it this way, how much do you make an hour? I don't know, but let's assume it's $30. Where I live, I can get a beautiful asian or european girl with big tits, fair skin and no diseases for roughly $150-200 an hour, in call. What this means is that if you worked 7 hours, you could afford an encounter where the likelihood of a sexual encounter (a good one, she's gotta work for that money in some capacity) is 100%. You can freak out, lose an erection, do whatever… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Alone and scared: what should I do with myself?I saw your post got removed from RPW, which is strange considering. In terms of next steps, I'd keep going with your education, there's no point throwing away those credit points, as for a major, go and talk to the student support services and career advisors about a pathway that would work for you, do you have any inklings to a certain area? I don't live in your country so I don't know how to finance, are you eligible for a student loan or a scholarship based on your situation or history? As fo… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/15 11:09 AM |
| 1 | 18Y/O in a Sexual Marketplace dominated by women in their 20s, what should I do?I had one example where I went out with someone and they found out, their roommates and her hamster decided it was too weird and she told me she'd wait till I was 18, yeah, totally gonna happen. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 10:07 AM |
| 1 | 18Y/O in a Sexual Marketplace dominated by women in their 20s, what should I do?Hm? | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 06:52 AM |
| 3 | 18Y/O in a Sexual Marketplace dominated by women in their 20s, what should I do?It is very problematic. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Underling with pretty bitch syndromeI honestly feel like it's completely reasonable that I shouldn't have to go full on acting mode when I'm talking to an employee. The reality, however, appears to be contrary to that. Whatever some entitled bitch who you literally are above professionally has to say about you or the minimum wage job she has to finance whatever short term feelz gainers she decides to buy this week should not get in the way of you doing yours. This sort of professional shit testing needs to be met with friendly but… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 06:37 AM |
| 2 | 18Y/O in a Sexual Marketplace dominated by women in their 20s, what should I do?"Aww you're 18 that's so cute, I remember when I was 18..... incoherent story about hamsters/narrative/CC" | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 06:25 AM |
| 2 | 18Y/O in a Sexual Marketplace dominated by women in their 20s, what should I do?Funnily enough, my mother is a very well known member of the non faculty staff on campus, so most find my age from her saying hello to me. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 06:24 AM |
| 2 | 18Y/O in a Sexual Marketplace dominated by women in their 20s, what should I do?Oh, I've completely accepted that and have no qualms hitting on and being successful with people even 10+ years older than me, I'm just thinking about ways to swat the SMV damaging shit tests that put me at a disadvantage even when I pass. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Underling with pretty bitch syndromeDo you have any authority over her apart from managing? Are you in charge of shifts? Do you have the power to assign staff to certain areas? Because the best thing you can do to combat what is essentially childish behaviour is through punishment and rewards. Next time she asks why she has to do something, tell her it's either that or Insert worse job here, if she says doing her job correctly isn't a big deal, tell her that not putting her on next week isn't a big deal either. If she goes above y… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Redpill musicI personally listen to stuff on soundcloud, so I'll link a list of mixes/podcasts I prepared earlier. Hexagon Radio by Don Diablo Heldeep Radio by Oliver Heldens Planet Curbi by Curbi Spinnin' Sessions Bon Voyage Radio by The Voyagers All the mixes there are by artists that music on their own personal soundcloud, but as an extension of that, I'll add some of my personal favourites that don't have their own mixes. Joyride RÜFÜS Oliver Heldens Curbi MALAA Michael Calfan Future House Music (This is… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 10:44 AM |
| 6 | Becoming Less ClingyAbundance mentality in all aspects. It's very difficult to be clingy at work, and then in the gym, and then when underneath your car installing a wideband O2 sensor for the ECU/throttle body/intake/timing belt you're installing in your car over the next month, which you'll then use at next month's autocross with your friends, but not before you prep all your meals for next week, suddenly whatever this random pair of tits wants will become irrelevant. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Redpill musicI've personally moved into almost exclusively listening to house/trap/future for this reason. I used to listen to a lot of chill stuff like Mac Demarco, but once I wised up to the lyrics ("And I'm down on my hands and knees begging you please, baby, show me your world" Really?) It's predictable, different and it always gets you pumped up for whatever you're doing, and a lot of DJs do mixes, which is an hour of music that flows perfectly. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Passive Aggression from FriendYep, ever heard of a white lie? Lies that are isolated and smooth over potential cracks like nothing was ever there? You should have lied about being told it. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Bulking without a MachineWell, I guess your best option is to just do BWF. In your history I saw this workshop. Is this somewhere you have easy access to? If so, consider saving up for a home gym, it's cheaper than you think, you can get a squat rack, a bench and weights up to 130lb (Which WILL last you over a year and a half) for $1000 shipped, just something to consider. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 12:41 AM |
| 13 | Girls frequently call me a "dork". How do I stop being one?Be your brand of alpha. If that includes being called a dork as a playful shit test, then so be it. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/15 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Bulking without a MachineWell, first thing you need to understand is that if gaining muscle mass and strength is a gun, actually lifting weight is only the trigger, you need the ammo (Nutrition) and the frame (Lifestyle/Sleep) to actually create action, and each part is necessary for the other two. I can tell you right now that your current lifestyle is not going to be able to support the diet and exercise you need to gain mass, so you need to cut back on either work or school, and I think work is the easiest and best p… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 11:41 PM |
| 3 | What are the pillars that make up a successful life?Honest Living, Honest Action, and Honest Communication, Models 101. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Finally got around to making plans with a prospect...find out her best friend just died recently but she's still game (??)Honestly, you can't win everything. Go, if she's shit and just wants emotional dependancy and you don't feel like being a stoic pillar, just tell her that now isn't the right time to be doing this and that she should go and be with her friends and family. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Bulking without a MachineYou work? Where's the nearest gym to your work or along your route home? That's actually how far a gym is away from you. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 11:06 PM |
| -1 | Red flag listNah, I think now you're just throwing insults at women over their nature. In much the same way we chose to maximise our own level of gratification through cold approaching, pre selection and game, women maximise their gratification through various social media platforms. But when we're out with someone, we don't just suddenly hit on another girl in front of them, so to me, getting your phone out for any reason apart from utility or services shows an inherent lack of belief in the partner to prov… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 05:04 PM |
| 3 | NEED HELP WITH A PLATE.Look, I know you've only just woken up to this stuff, but the best thing you can do now is read and introspectively improve yourself. Please read what I linked, I promise it will be an important step. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 01:31 PM |
| 6 | NEED HELP WITH A PLATE.Motherfucker, if you aren't fucking her on a regular basis, she isn't a fucking plate. A plate is a girl whom you you are dating or seeing with the sole purpose and outcome of receiving sexual satisfaction. Please educate yourself with this wonderful guide. As for your situation? I don't think she was actually interested in you, women don't typically overtly acknowledge preselection, or you could be telling your story inaccurately in a vein attempt to measure to people here. Give me more detail. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Are women turned off by the act of lifting (seeing a man struggle)?I can't wait till my university's gym opens next year. It isn't really a gym per say, it's more of a demountable out near the running track with a bench, power rack, dumbbells and a cable machine. It costs $100 a year, and if you get a 1st aid certificate, you can 'volunteer' and open the darn thing at any time you like. So at worst, I'll have someone else in the gym, always male, doing legitimate exercises with me. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Red flag listA personal red flag for me is pulling your phone out at any available occasion, even 'socially acceptable' ones like if I went to the toilet or got a drink. To me it says that this person is incapable of being alone with their own thoughts, why do you need to be blankly consuming content or messaging people? It's important to be content with being bored, it's where some of the best ideas come from. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 11:13 AM |
| 4 | Can rough sex get me in trouble?Get written informal consent. Next time it happens, shoot a text along the lines of "Hope I wasn't too rough ;)" and when she replies positively you now have arguable proof that it wasn't rape. In your scenario however, I'd keep doing it, doesn't have to be explicit, just talk about the night before in a positive way, gather as much as possible to be safe. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/15 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Are women turned off by the act of lifting (seeing a man struggle)?There's a wife who does yoga/light cardio every friday, beta husband in tow, he has absolutely no idea what he's doing, which makes the fact she got hit on by another guy as he stood idly next to him even funnier, if only he knew the potential in the weights that surrounded him. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Are women turned off by the act of lifting (seeing a man struggle)?Is the intermediate stage spending $20 a week on a gym membership to use the elliptical machine for 45 minutes? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Did any of you fail TRP in the long run?Nope. See, there's no Red Pill philosophy, there's just a whole heap of advice and it's up to you to make odds of it. It's also up to you wether or not you accept or reject it, some people don't wanna know that the steak isn't real, hence why you have /r/TheBluePill, A subreddit devoted to cherrypicking and misrepresenting things posted here. In that aspect, I don't really know what you're asking. Can people fail to accept and begin the anger phase? Yes. Is there any going back from that? No. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 12:37 PM |
| 1 | How to un-clutter the thoughts in your mind and speak straight to the point?Slow your speech down as much as you can and spend a few seconds thinking about your reply before you answer. No one is going to look at you weirdly if you take a few seconds to respond, specially if you have solid body language and eye contact. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 02:48 AM |
| 2 | The Three Types of StrengthMental is internal, Emotional is external. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 10:52 PM |
| 3 | TRP from a rational approachAWALT, but only if you let them be. Keep that shit in mind always, yes, if you stagnate at your current level, your woman, wether it be a plate or a wife, will eventually grow tired and move onto a better source of positive emotions. This mindless pursuit of short term happiness and gratification is why you must never trust or respect the word of a woman in a sexual scenario, because her hamster will always find a way of climbing out of that hole if pressured hard enough. But here's where the be… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 10:56 AM |
| 1 | New to TRP, some guidance please.Her: Nah, but I'm hot so I can get free beer wherever You: Do you Say that to all the guys you're trying to impress? Or You: Prove it. Or You: Or maybe you're so ugly they take pity on you. Any of those three would have passed that shit test, but not "This is true". Awesome, great job, you were just bit the hook on her compliment reel, you twerp. Honestly? I could pull the whole macho man 'You best unfuck yourself before I do it for you' line, but it'd go straight through your ears. I'd recommen… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 11:10 PM |
| 10 | The Handicap PrincipleI think the problem with that comparison is that although I don't wanna fuck Arnold, I wanna go in that direction with my body, I don't have anything in common aesthetically with the girl, as blandly universally attractive as she may be. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | 30 Day Challenge - Physical SMV CapstoneShit man! I have, lemme fill it in. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Beach game?Damn, that post really must have made me look BP to get that sorta reply. My beach ain't got shit, no cafes, no bars, no shops, that's kind of the point of being a resident there. Your post did make me realise I'm looking for an excuse or actualisation externally is pointless however, I'll keep working at it, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 05:47 AM |
| 3 | She (virgin) wants a relationship, but I don't.It just isn't worth your time. In middle/high school? Sure, you have no choice, most women you have a decent equivalent SMV with are virgins, but in college and even late high school, most women aren't virgins and most women have had many of those gates so worn down they aren't even a problem anymore. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 04:08 AM |
| 4 | She (virgin) wants a relationship, but I don't.Mmmm, virgin girls aren't typically broken by people who aren't chads casually. You wanna fuck her? You gotta break down every one of those barriers to get to the frigid and substandard sex it provides, and you better not fuck up, because she'll shut up instantly and be even harder to open again. Just tell her that you aren't the guy she needs right now (CC Foreshadowing) and that you hope she finds someone who is and soft next. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/15 03:27 AM |
| 17 | A golden example of social conformityIt's also a great example of how no matter what, people will always take a cheap and easy opportunity to gain validation. I've seen so many people post statuses and selfies and shitty edits of photos of the eiffel tower/world monuments lit up with the french colours, changing their profile pictures, all with a bunch of likes, none of it helps, none, the reason they're doing it is to say "Don't forget about me". | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 11:09 PM |
| 3 | How to throw a Party.Can't agree more. It's gotta be the right stuff though, I personally listen to a lot of these as my daily music and tag ones that have a good flow or tracklist. If you don't know where to start however, I'd recommend Hexagon Radio by Don Diablo Heldeep Radio by Oliver Heldens Planet Curbi by Curbi (This one is great because there's no narration) Spinnin' Sessions (Can be a good one if there's an artist mix you like) Bon Voyage Radio by The Voyagers (Again, no narration) They're simple, free, eas… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 05:39 AM |
| 0 | Going out in highschoolWhy would you wanna go to more than 2 parties a month? If they're anything like what I'd go to at 16, you aren't missing out on much by missing one or two a month (I'm 18). You have the rest of your life ahead of you and this decision will likely be reversed or changed, focus on building long term gratifying habits (good game, lifting, language skills, a job etc) over dumb parties. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 10:53 PM |
| 3 | What is the kind of anti rape evidence that should be collected that is admissable is a court of law?It's why false rape accusations are such a big deal, you are always guilty in the eyes of your peers until you can prove empirically you are not, and even if you do, anything short of the girl publicly making it known she lied (which has a likelihood of 0), you will continue to be tarnished by it. This is also why you should never pump and dump people you work with, people you are in classes with or really anywhere where either you could be tarnished or she could gain an advantage. Never forget,… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 11:40 AM |
| 9 | What is the kind of anti rape evidence that should be collected that is admissable is a court of law?I'm not endorsed, but I'll answer anyway. Find out what the laws say in your area (for example, I can record conversations if I am a party in the conversation without consent from the other person) and plan accordingly. Cover your bases, formulate a question that clearly implies consent, but doesn't ruin the moment or give it away, and even get text based reassurance "Did you enjoy last night ;)". Keep in mind that unless you're rich, famous or in a position of power, most women will pull the ra… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 11:00 AM |
| 0 | Hotel Room WorkoutYou speak Vietnamese? Go find anywhere that has a power rack and weight up to 50kg, that'll be enough to start you off. As for a gym membership, I'd assume that they can work something out for you. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/15 10:46 AM |
| 3 | How to handle women's emotional excitementWhenever I get that I just go sarcastically overboard, I'll just go "OMIGOD HEYYYYYYYYYYY hugs and rocks side to side" in a camp voice, they are either too dumb to get it's obviously sarcastic or they get it's sarcastic and laugh/shit test (Shit tests are good, remember). As for your facial shit, your body and body language is more important than your face, as your face can change your demeanour from amused master to cute fun guy, just chose a facial set. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 09:48 AM |
| 1 | I have nothing to do except lift for 10 weeks, how do I fill my time?Been toying with this idea actually, see, I prefer Italian girls, and there's more Italian backpackers than french, so I might learn Italian. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I have nothing to do except lift for 10 weeks, how do I fill my time?Darn close, Cairns. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 01:45 PM |
| 1 | I have nothing to do except lift for 10 weeks, how do I fill my time?I've thought about that, but my town isn't very big. I'll have a look into things like that however. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 11:07 AM |
| 14 | "I find you really attractive but we are not sexually compatible"Yep, she wants commitment. Abundance mentality, soft next. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Its time for a realistic discussion about Beta-Males and misuse of the RedPill/MGTOW philosophiesWhoops, I did say that. I just don't get how this helps. Yes, you are dealt a set of genetic cards, some sets suck, some sets are awesome, but how does telling people that real alphas are XYZ and that you're unlikely to be one provide any useful knowledge? That's the point of this subreddit, to provide men with unbiassed (mostly) and useful information about being a man in a modern Matriarchal society. That's what I'm here for, to learn and improve, not to argue about things no one has control o… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 11:42 PM |
| 2 | How to talk to femalesDemographics, demographics, demographics. A 40 year old businessman with a 250k income isn't gonna get shit at a nightclub in a university town in much the same way a gym rat with a 225 bench isn't gonna get any at a conference. Identify your surroundings, your key demographic, work out a way to implement your natural personality into these things and practice your game until it becomes second nature. Also read through your post history, care explaining that? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/15 11:29 PM |
| 4 | Its time for a realistic discussion about Beta-Males and misuse of the RedPill/MGTOW philosophiesOh, so it's a genetics thing. Aight dude, go nuts with that one, I don't believe it for a moment because it doesn't make any sense from an evolutionary standpoint, but if you wanna think that something that can't be controlled is the reason why you're better or worse than someone else and you feel comforted by that one, go for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 11:23 PM |
| 1 | 30 Day Challenge - Physical SMV Capstone4th November: 7.5 hours sleep, 2200 Cal, Stronglifts 5x5 5th November: 8 hours sleep, 2000 Cal, 1 hour walk (strong lifts killed my calves, will become jogging) 6th November: 8 hours sleep, 1800 Cal, Stronglifts 5x5. 7th November: 8 hours sleep, 1939 Cal, Walk/run with dog. 8th November: 9 hours sleep, 1997 Cal, Another, longer walk with dog. 9th November: 8 hours sleep 2135 Cal, Stronglifts 5x5. 10th November: 7 hours sleep, 2283 Cal, Walk with dog. 11th November: 8 hours sleep, 2348 Cal, Fierc… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Its time for a realistic discussion about Beta-Males and misuse of the RedPill/MGTOW philosophiesEver heard of the "No True Scotsman" fallacy? That's basically what you're arguing here, that unless you're an alpha from birth, you will always be a beta fuckboy and should just accept it. Always ask yourself when posting things here, does the content and message of the post help people to become a better, more informed man? No? Post it as a rant, because that's all this is. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 10:37 PM |
| 3 | College freshman tired of having a loser and sad boy mentalityI went through your history and found out you do boxing and go to UT. UT has a massive weight room, start fucking using it to do Stronglifts 5x5. I'd also recommend dropping $55 on a PT there too, the fitness assessment and 2 sessions will be enough to teach you how to do squats, deadlifts, bench presses and overhead presses along with warmups and some basic nutrition (Assuming you tell the PT to instruct you with that ONLY). That's it. Do that. The rest of your post is Bluepill whining and reek… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/15 08:06 AM |
| 1 | 30 Day Challenge - Physical SMV CapstoneSarsaparillaCorona will take part in this challenge. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl from work flaked on me and gave some excuse. I didnt respond. What should I do?Dude, bro, man, bruh, whatever, these are all chummy bro terms used to describe male friends. Women have seen that and capitalised on it in order to subtly reenforce their intentions. If their intentions were romantic, they wouldn't say it. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Girl from work flaked on me and gave some excuse. I didnt respond. What should I do?She called you dude? Fucking N E X T. She probably would have done something with you when she asked, but it'd be on her orbiter terms, something you never want. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/15 01:45 PM |
| 12 | Men who get anal sexGiven the fact most women clean that shit up beforehand anyway, it isn't much of an issue, specially with plates. The whole 'don't eat and clean out the colon with an enema' is for porn where you can be active for hours on a shoot and can't afford for nuggets to fall out. But Blowjobs? If you aren't getting BJs, specially when you're giving them head, re evaluate your shit. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Is there something in-between or completely outside of the friendzone and sexzone dynamic?Have you heard of the ladder theory? That's what you're looking for. Using OmLaLa's model, witch ranks you from 'Unworthy', 'Beta', 'Alpha', and 'Unattainable", I'd say you sit around the upper middle of the 'Alpha' ladder for the chick who texts you, and on the lower area of the same ladder for the other one. Which one has more SMV? That's another thing to consider, but I'd assume it's around the same level. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/15 12:20 AM |
| 1 | In 48 Laws of Power, Law 6 says "Court Attention at all Cost", what do you do to court attention?This should elaborate on it, you have any more questions after reading that, ask away. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/15 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Apart from lifting, eating well and practicing game, is there anything else I can do as a young'n to help myself?I can actually play guitar, well, I can play tabs, I'd like to translate that into freeform musical talent however. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Apart from lifting, eating well and practicing game, is there anything else I can do as a young'n to help myself?I like this idea a lot actually, I'll look into it. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 12:26 AM |
| 6 | Met someone on Tinder, got to FaceTime with her last night, & texted afterwards. This morning, she deleted me on Tinder and hasn't responded to my "G'Morning" text. She's obviously not into me anymore, but has any of you experienced something similar and she wanted to get-together again?Nope. You don't have to dress up, your regular clothing should be nice enough that it doesn't matter, you don't have to buy her shit, she pays for her own things, if you buy anything at all. Ponder this, if you can't be fucked to get off your ass to meet someone to apply proper game, what chance do you have? | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 12:04 AM |
| 1 | How to learn Extremely DT behavior?Read this to first understand it. As for learning it? Read about traits and pretend you are, if you get results, stick with it, but I highly don't recommend it, it is a personality disorder after all. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 03:50 AM |
| 1 | "You're being so distant and unfamiliar."It's just another shit test. She said that to get a reaction and to get you back to your pudgy beta self, you give her one you lose. Wait for her to send you something positive or next her. In future, if you see someone who knew you previously and they whinge about you being different, be indifferent and ignore, heck don't go back to past interests, there are way better people who you have a blank slate with. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Realizing how easy women have it when it comes to getting sex has made me resent them. How do I get over this?Anger phase, it'll pass. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, everyone knows this, and once you get to that high SMV bracket, you'll love how this system works because you can game it to benefit you. But for now, look at it this way, she's in her prime right now, and you're only getting towards the climb. Sure, she has guys throwing themselves at her, but once that hot body gets all mushy and chubby as her metabolism catches up with her in her mid 20s, she'll wonder where her constant attention wen… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Housemate says she is confused about me. What is the right course of action?Guess I skipped explaining the ASD and LMR stuff and went straight for a tactic assuming OP knew about those things, but then again he's here asking this question so maybe not. OP, ASD is Anti Slut Defense. It's a shit test women put up to give them enough plausible deniability to rationalise doing such a thing and still come out of it not feeling used. You beat it like you would any shit tests, your example 'we shouldn't be doing this' can be beaten with an Agree and Amplify ("You're right, let… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/15 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Housemate says she is confused about me. What is the right course of action?Her source of good sexy feels dried up and she misses having a guy to have control over, you're just the closest and easiest thing that gives it to her. Honestly I don't know what the fuck she's thinking, but I promise you, her telling you she'd be sad if you brought home another girl is just her being sad that this little pocket of feels and intimacy will dry up and she'll have to actually put some effort into finding another source. Next time she pulls any of that "I don't see us together/I'm … | /r/askTRP | 25/10/15 01:55 PM |
| 4 | ASKTrp seems to be diluting the meaning of TRP.I like answering questions on here, I learn and digest information by putting it in my own words and repeating it to someone else so I don't mind answering the simple questions people have by repeating shit from the sidebar. But I have to admit, I've made and other people have made some very inaccurate assumptions and given incorrect advice because people don't flesh out their questions and provide context, there have even been times where I've flipped my opinion more than twice depending on the… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/15 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Studying Business Managment/Marketing a waste of time?Luckily, our universities (Australia) aren't crazy, is it still worth it? We start paying it back only if we make a certain wage. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Studying Business Managment/Marketing a waste of time?That's what I'm thinking too, just wanted some other opinions. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/15 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Studying Business Managment/Marketing a waste of time?I want to do marketing because I have an interest in the creative side of business and companies, I initially wanted to be involved in film, and I also wanted to be a photographer (I might, but not yet), so marketing and advertising seems to be where I want to head towards. As for the journalism side, I also have an interest in PR, and I thought journalism might open me up to more possible career avenues. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/15 09:43 AM |
| -1 | What about the cute shit?Yeah, I did, because most people come on here and ask questions without ever reading the main sub, and the way you prefaced your question made it sound like you don't wanna do cute things (because they're sarcastically manly as fuck), but now you've actually said something that fleshes out your question I can attempt to answer it. Every approach, every interaction, every girl is different, but 'cute shit' can typically be split into comedic escalation or intimate escalation. Let's use the exampl… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/15 08:36 AM |
| -4 | What about the cute shit?Okay, simple shit right here. The hamster is driven by 2 things, how women feel about that thing right now and how women feel about that thing in general. Jenny likes eating cookies on her lunch break because they make her feel good right now, however Jane told her she looks fat whilst she was eating cookies, Jenny isn't stupid and equates eating cookies to her getting fat, and because jane's comment made her feel bad right now, she now feels bad about cookies in general and therefore will not t… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/15 08:04 AM |
| 1 | TRP's Guide to Skyrocketing your SMV with PhotographyWhat? The only way I've raised my SMV with photography is by photographing events and lukewarm approaching women using street photography as an excuse. Buying a DSLR to take fancy selfies of yourself to get crazy likes on instagram? Sure, knock yourself out, I can see the tinder angle, but I've never been able to pass my big ass DSLR off to someone and get a good result. The only other way I could see SMV being raised with photography is if you're a photographer for an event or nightclub, some o… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/15 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Why is she "taking me for a ride"?She likes the attention, but doesn't like or is afraid of you actually doing anything, she's a window shopper and isn't worth your time, next. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 02:19 AM |
| -2 | Approaching women with purely sexual intent seems really weird to me. Am I looking at this wrong or do I just have AA to deal with?Who gives a shit? There are young, fresh, attractive 18 year olds coming of age every day just ready to be floated publicly on the sexual marketplace and strapped onto the Cock Carousel. Think of your approach dynamic as a comedic routine, you have your hard hitting set of jokes and stories that are interchangeable and work most of the time, but you have to learn what works and what doesn't, be it your first routine or new routines, and you might as well take someone who let's be honest here, is… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 11:39 AM |
| -1 | Approaching women with purely sexual intent seems really weird to me. Am I looking at this wrong or do I just have AA to deal with?I like the way you write, I can tell there's something going on up in there. How do you bridge that gap? Just approach. No sexual connotations, no intent, just talk to them. There was a recommendation on here to approach fatties, they're more receptive and you don't wanna fuck them, try that. Heck, game everyone, game those cougars, be flirty, just practice. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 10:05 AM |
| 20 | How about going balls to the wall, giving no fucks for a while?There's a difference between pretending giving no fucks and actually giving no fucks. Think of your fucks as a monthly subscription, everyone has this subscription, but people use it in different ways. That 'I gave my boss a piece of my mind because I soooooo didn't give a fuck that day' was actually giving so many fucks about your manager that you felt justified giving him a piece of your mind. Where your fucks should have been is in your finances in general, if your boss is affecting your abil… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 03:27 AM |
| 16 | Beating her to the LMR. "Fyi we aren't hooking up tonight because xyz"Uh, no? Bad idea. She'll just turn around and be like 'oh yay free dinner and attention and I don't have to worry about fucking you', and if you turn around and try to get that she'll ask why you said you didn't want it before. Be true with your intentions and accept and learn from your failures, lying about them doesn't 'outsmart' the gatekeeper. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 02:59 AM |
| 0 | Stuck between orbiter and getting with herGo do shit with her after class, you not good at physical escalation? Start on her, right now, next time you see her take her to coffee after class, get her to sit next to you and flirt away and bam, tingles and touching. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Is it too late to start lifting at 17You know Furious pete? The massive stole competitive eater? He started at 17. All these guys you see who are aesthetically perfect are all in their mid to late 20s and started around your age, around my age, start now. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 01:41 AM |
| 0 | Handling disrespect from friendsWhat's the trip? What's your relation to the one guy you didn't mention? Are you financially disadvantaged if you back out? Make your own group chat and ask what's happening, treat everything at face value, meaning that you don't know arrangements and are inquiring about them, you get any cattiness, ask why she's being so mean and put yourself on the high road. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Racecar drivers and power liftersThe reason they're fit is because of the G forces and endurance they endure. You wanna get into racing? There's time attack, drifting, drag racing, track days, hillclimbs, amateur rallies, targas (road rallies), autocross, offload racing, rock climbing, whatever kind or car or budget you want, you can get into it. You wanna do open wheel? Travel back in time to when you were 6 and give yourself a go cart, you've missed that single seater boat by so much, it's just gonna be your hobby. But please… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 10:49 AM |
| 3 | Radfems aren't keen on the movement of trans women into their space. Whats the red pill opinion of trans men?Nah, not at all, they're just people, normal regular people, if anything I find trans people (the ones I've met anyway) are really nice and inclusive, more often than not the societal shunning they receive into a subculture makes them inclusive due to the inclusive nature of said subculture, which is a good thing. In the sexual marketplace? They're placed in a difficult category (LGBT) and it's unlikely a regular jane/joe would enter into anything with them, save for the few drunk people who hoo… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/15 10:30 AM |
| 1 | What are these forms of rapes?This is all bullshit, pure and simple bullshit. Nothing in that piece of misguided drivel was anything remotely close to rape, rape is physically forcing sexual acts onto someone without consent, this is just someone whining and selfishly making themselves the most important person on the planet. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Am I a little bitch?Hm, it appears my day is pen themed. You remember the scene in Wolf of Wall Street where Belfort tells Brad to 'sell me this pen'? And remember at the end of the film where he hands out a pen trying to get someone to say anything other than "It's a nice pen, you can use it to write"? You 'sold' your pen by telling her it's a nice pen. This was a shit test you failed in a pretty big way, short of locking the door on her and demanding your property back, she was never gonna give it to you. When yo… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Virgin with other red flagsWould you agree that young people ought to go through this process? I see it as like learning to drive a car, you begin by mastering individual actions and movements and eventually working through and being able to progress naturally, or at least the effect it had on me. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 03:12 AM |
| 5 | Virgin with other red flagsOoooh, I've got firsthand experience with this. She's looking for the 'special first time' treatment, she wants to lose it to someone she loves and respects and she's gonna milk as much commitment out of you as she can before she decides to. She's had it hammered into her from a very young age that sex is a big deal and that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and cherish. If you chose to go down this path, sweep her off her feet, and eventually let her open up to you and enjoy th… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 01:10 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend's constant need for sympathy?I was gonna go and tell you to get her some professional help (Gonna guess you're somewhere in the UK because you used the term 'right cunts'), which I think you should do if you want to keep this sham of a relationship alive for a liiiiitle bit longer, but I read your other post, you're a codependent beta with oneitis who has romanticised the idea of love because you've sunk so much into this relationship. Go back and read everything they said as fucking gospel, even without reading the subtext… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/15 10:51 AM |
| 3 | She started talking about other guysGo out with her again, kino as much as possible, she starts talking about other guys, kiss her, do something to get the tingles going, go back to either's house, she stops you at any point, you have your answer and you can next or you get a very convenient plate. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/15 10:17 AM |
| 2 | What makes your value higher than the girls?You're missing a crucial component here, women have inherent value (if they're attractive, they know it, they say no, they're the gatekeepers), but men have wealth. It's why a guy with no money but an interesting story, loads of game and a decent body can pull HB8s, he has accumulated enough wealth that the value of these women is met by his wealth, and why a rich guy or an attractive guy or a buff guy can't pull shit because he doesn't have enough wealth from that trait alone. It's why women re… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 12:10 PM |
| 1 | the 'not having a big dick' problem, please adviseThe fuck you finding women who value an extra inch of cock over everything else? Looking through your history I guess you found someone as dimwitted as you seem to be and now you're combing TRP with this weird concept that you can't have a relationship due to your supposedly tiny cock. Fuck off, go monk mode for a month, even forget your dick has a use that isn't peeing, come back and open your eyes. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 11:45 AM |
| 1 | What is wrong with the newest generation???The way I see it, one less guy who squanders their potential being a white night because they buckle to what society is becoming is one less guy I have to compete with, so in a way they're doing us a favour by taking themselves out. As for these women who are growing up in a pressure chamber of institutionalised education? It's an easier way of picking out a basic bitch who I can move on from. These people, like similar ones who have been graduating and going out into the real world since the mi… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 11:27 AM |
| 3 | TRP and Female PromiscuityFemale promiscuity is a side effect of the social marketplace. Women now have value, and men, as always, have wealth. When men can meet the asking price of a woman, the woman is interested (Why a hot guy can do things that ugly guys are considered creepy for doing). When a man gains wealth (which he can do in a whole range of ways), his portfolio changes and allows the inclusion of better women, and women who were already in there will either improve their own value to keep the man interested (t… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/15 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Most girls have nothing to contribute to the conversation and just wait for you to do it?Well, entertain them. Go watch a lot of standup, pay attention to the timing and cues, make a routine out of it and entertain yourself too, your real entertainment comes from her mouth on your cock a few hours later. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Protecting frame/SMV whilst sick?Yeah, with the managers of the event, with performers, all those sorts of things, it'll be fine I hope. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/15 12:46 PM |
| 1 | when does a woman's fertility begin to decline?Gold standard, yes. But you're more likely to find women who are into it in their late 20s these days, the wall is a powerful thing... | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 08:04 AM |
| 1 | when does a woman's fertility begin to decline?Ideally? Virgin 21 year old from the country. Practically? The younger, lower mileage on the Cock Carousel and conservative the better. But it depends on you, if you can't singlehandedly support a family comfortably, at least till the children are in school and she can start working again too, reconsider. You do it without a solid support you're gonna screw it up, the roles will meld and you won't have any authority to raise good kids, that's half the damn problem these days (I'm one of the ones… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 07:35 AM |
| 5 | ELI5: How to date girlsGo read 'models' by mark manson. But an eli5? Well, remember the song 'Girls just wanna have fun' by Cindy Lauper? Although written about a man initially, it's a definition of modern women and dating. Women have jobs, independence, sexual freedom, security, all these wonderful things men used to provide them. So, what can men possibly provide now? Fun, or more pertinently, tingles. You know that bubbly feeling you get when you see a hot girl or the 'mmm' sound you think of when she touches you? … | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 07:17 AM |
| 4 | I'm curious why guys say they are surprised that their game is increasing, they thought it'd go down as they age - men in their late 30's or 40's. Is it more resources that make them more attractive? what if they don't have more status, why would they still be more attractive?Men don't really decline per say, but they generally, excluding outliers, start to disfavour and get less attention from women aged between 18 and 25 around 40, but men all the way up to 75 can easily attract women in their late 30s and early 40s, it's all relative based on which marketplace demographic you chose to do bidding in. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 06:05 AM |
| 3 | I'm curious why guys say they are surprised that their game is increasing, they thought it'd go down as they age - men in their late 30's or 40's. Is it more resources that make them more attractive? what if they don't have more status, why would they still be more attractive?Game is universal. You can still lift, spin plates, improve your money, whatever, but a woman in their 30s or 40s are on a steady decline, and modern society has denoted that men are too, so bucking the trend makes expectations a lot easier to raise. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Can I actually compliment a girl somehow? (Not her looks, e.g. her smell)Yes, but there are some guidelines for it sticking. Compliments must be specific, observational, or contextual, saying "you smell nice" whilst sitting near her is creepy, but saying "I like your fragrance" after hugging her or kissing her is completely fine. Compliments must also be personal, saying "Your dress is pretty" is just nice, but doesn't get tingles going, but saying "I love the way your butt feels in this skirt" whilst grabbing said butt will elicit tingles. And finally, compliments m… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Article on Psychology Today: 12 Ways to Spot a Misogynist. In other words, 12 shit tests.Mm, yeah, just a post wall women writing about her hate fantasies and making herself feel better about herself, nothing to see here. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 05:09 AM |
| 1 | I'm angry not that the bitch knows itNext time this happens, translate the anger into action. Anger is the purest, cleanest, most powerful emotion men can feel, it's feared and repressed because it can do things other people don't want, it's up to you to harness it and translate it into the correct action. You got any plates? Plates are great for abundance mentality, if a chick ever pulls this shit, it's as easy as hitting up one of them and getting a lay, really puts things into perspective. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 02:27 AM |
| 2 | I'm angry not that the bitch knows itIt seems like you have enough game and IDGAF attitude, I'm surprised you didn't just tell her to fuck off when she said "I'm going to be difficult", I'm surprised you didn't tell her to fuck off when she got you riled up and denied you, I'm surprised you talked to her again after that, and I'm specially surprised if you, who can supposedly get "20 girls who would love to be sitting where you are" even bothered after the whole thing at all. Every single one of those things were shit tests you fai… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Article on Psychology Today: 12 Ways to Spot a Misogynist. In other words, 12 shit tests.That's a shit test too. It means "If the woman did better than him because she was a woman and not because of the objective actions she performed, the guy feels wronged, if a guy did better than him, he compares his actions to his own and improves from it". Basically, if a guy calls out a pussy pass, he's a misogynst, classic shit test. The correct answer is to ignore it and focus on being better the next time it happens, the wrong answer is to focus on the pussy pass. EDIT: Also what the hell i… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 01:46 AM |
| 1 | entitlement = distorted view of own smv?Yep, that's entitlement, but get it out of your head that's a bad thing. If you put in 40 hours of work in a week, you're entitled to 40 hours of pay, pure and simple, no one will question that, same thing goes for your SMV, you put in the work, you are entitled to the level that work provides. Does this ever happen to men? No, because of fungibility. A fungible item is an item that has an equivalent replacement. if you lend someone $50 and they pay you back with 2 $20s and a $10, even though yo… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 12:07 PM |
| 2 | entitlement = distorted view of own smv?Well, the definition of entitlement is "The amount to which a person has a right to", so if you have a certain SMV, you're entitled to that SMV as a minimum from other people, hence why you feel like you deserve a certain standard. Women befall to an entitlement complex (which is what you're referring to) because they are the ones who hold an inherent value in the social marketplace, and because they are also the ones setting their price, an inaccurate self evaluation can lead to inflated prices… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 11:10 AM |
| 6 | Investing more time?Soft next. Women will always opt for a 'bestie' which provides all the boyfriend perks without the sex, sex can come from a bigger chad, and if she places you right (which she is by letting you have her a few times and cutting you off), she can rely on you to clean up after she's been pumped and dumped. I'd recommending going balls to the wall and trying to fuck her hard, and if she turns you down, hard next her, get over her, she's already somewhat pedestalised and in your early phase (The fact… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/15 10:10 AM |
| 1 | My overly serious attitudeThis is true, instead of cleaning his mind he'll think "what would a dumb person" do and screw up, so OP, when I mean dumb, I mean stop thinking. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 03:15 PM |
| 1 | My overly serious attitudeThis is gonna sound strange, but act dumb, really really dumb. The most successful social people in education grade social environments literally think one sentence at a time, it's why people call alcohol 'social lubricant', it stops your anxious little mind from thinking 20 steps ahead and makes you focus on what is happening in just that singular moment. What /u/zo34 is saying will essentially train you to do this, by simplifying social interaction to dumb jokes and puns, you're taking the thi… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 12:38 PM |
| 7 | Why do women keep on wanting my commitment before I even know them?Gonna have to elaborate. But it's because of the whole 'gatekeeper' philosophy, one of you has to open your gates under the assumption the other will follow, but as both genders know, it doesn't happen that way all the time. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Recently broke up with ltr. Need advice.Her getting mad is her saying "I'm not as prosperous outside of the relationship as you". If women were rational, they'd take it as a sign they need to improve, but they aren't, so they project their madness onto others to seem like the sane one. Unless she wants to be a plate, next her, your history with you doesn't mean anything. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on male prostitution/escorts?What do you mean? I'd assume that if you tended a profile on escort websites it could be a good occasional money earner, not a job, but a thing on the side. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 10:11 AM |
| -1 | LTR copped out due to period, how to proceed?Nope, and you're right, if she doesn't get her shit together I'm nexting for sure. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/15 01:06 PM |
| 0 | LTR copped out due to period, how to proceed?Does sexual experience play into that at all? She lost her virginity to me (I know she did, the bloodstains prove it) and has never given anyone head, so I think that played into her decision. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/15 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Not another Club postHow did you get into it? I'm a photographer and I've always been interested in doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 12:02 AM |
| 2 | What do you do on day dates?Your 'night game' is essentially based around actions, brashness and kino, right? Just incorporate that into your day game. I'll give you an example, let's say you're on a coffee date, you've just met up, start pointing at things across her, holing her back from walking in traffic, basically find any excuse to touch her, holding her is better. You get to the place, you go and find a bench seat and she sits next to you. No bench? Pull out her chair/stool and sit adjacent to her. By now I hope you… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/15 03:32 AM |
| 1 | People can't tell the difference when I am serious and when I am not.You're suffering from tall poppy syndrome. These people know you're better than them so they'll cut you down to their height to feel better about themselves. Use your higher skill to help these people, turn it into a positive thing for them and it'll be a positive thing for you. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/15 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Why hasn't the Disney B.S and feminist imperative taught girls to like beta behaviour.Because according to the feminist narrative, the alphas (prince charmings) are what these wymyn deserve, and as for the beta imperative? What's wrong with curbing the waves of big strong angry rapist men? What woman would want that? Just ignore the paradoxical nature of their teaching you cis man scum. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/15 12:14 AM |
| 7 | "you're a dick""You're a dick" means "You aren't falling into my frame", keep up the good work. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 10:00 AM |
| 5 | The Decline Continues - AUSNo fucking way. I see so many shit sniveling blue pill "sorry for being in your way" dickwads in clubs and daily life, we get 'women are precious men are potential rapists' hammered into us all through school, it'll take a lot longer for the revolution to hit here. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Whats up when females give you so much apprehension about basic conversation, being social and generally being a decent interacting human.Funnily enough, those sorts of 'decent human being' things aren't actually normal anymore. I could go really neckbeard and talk about how men don't know how to treat m'ladies with valour anymore, but that isn't the point. It sounds like you're in an uncanny valley, on one side is being so unattractive that you're not a threat so it's okay, and being so attractive that to merely take time out of your sexy, sexy day to pay attention to this girl is a massive compliment. This comes down to the fact… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 07:58 AM |
| 1 | ... Now what?This shit is better placed on r/teenagers man. I'm 'your age', and 'Yeah hahah' means fuck all, and if you're asking what to do after receiving one message, what the fuck are you going to do if you at every other point of escalation? As hard as it sounds now, ignore women for the rest of the year, go and read 'Models' (I'll give you a copy) and get yourself in a good position physically and mentally before you dip your toe into the very small pool that is secondary school, trust me. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 12:49 PM |
| 9 | How to casually tell a girl you're just looking for sex?Why would you even bother mentioning it? You have answered your own question by saying that you have other places and things to do, you're moving away and she's got her own little LDR BB to whine to, you're golden. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 12:39 PM |
| 1 | How long should I wait before I respond to a girl's texts?Obviously if iMessage makes you 'see' it, as soon as you've seen it (which screws you over). "Where are you" when meeting for a date is answered instantly. If she got your number, anything congratulatory for having a good night with her is replied to in the morning after 10, and if she asks you out, your response is a time and a place. Of course, this is all bullshit and you should do it whenever you feel like doing it, but keep 'chatting' to a minimum, it works in ways out and isn't productive … | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 06:46 AM |
| 7 | Should I take Interest in the Ugly Girls hitting me up?So you're overly eager to lose your virginity and will literally do anything to lose it? Fucking sounds like you are to me. Forget sex. If I wanna cum I'll do it with my hand, I'm better at it and can do it quicker. I have sex because I'm attracted to the person whose in front of me, never lower yourself, you're only worshipping the almighty power of vagina. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Did this girl I slept with try to turn me into an orbiter?Given a choice, women would rather have a new orbiter as opposed to a new fuck buddy. The reason why is because assuming they know how to play and are attractive enough for there to be demand, all it takes is one night out and she has a list of men who she can get dates/hookups from. But orbiters need to be cultivated and tamed, specially if you want them to do things for you apart from be an emotional pillow, so good job not falling into that trap. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 02:29 AM |
| 1 | LTR - Lost frame. Advice on how to proceedYep, this buyer seems to tickle her tinglebox in a way you don't or can't, and this outburst has set an irreversible course to her leaving, by either her breaking up with you, or her just cheating (which is something this person sounds like they would do). Start looking again and apply heavy dread, be happy she showed this side now and not in a year. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 12:03 AM |
| 1 | How to make this girl put outWomen, specially women with a low partner count don't like giving it out too easy because it makes them feel cheap (but then they say sex is cheap to make their whining seem worth more so it's a contradiction). That's their hamster being let loose to get out of that situation. How do you stop that? You make her so horny that she'll ignore it or even make it work in your favor to get her. She'll try and protest to get a foothold to stop you, but ignore it, only stop if she says no, that's the uni… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/15 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I keep my game sharp whilst having an LTR?Return On Investment. I put in and at the moment, get about twice or three times back. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/15 08:38 AM |
| 2 | How do I keep my game sharp whilst having an LTR?That's the thing I can't get over, I'm hard to motivate when there isn't a goal. Are there any goals you can think of that fir that criteria? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/15 08:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I keep my game sharp whilst having an LTR?Notice how I said 'personal choice'? Means the same thing. I am faithful to her because she gives me enough reason to want to be faithful, she knows that I will have less to lose if she stops, but that's beside the point. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/15 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Currently having an existential crisis on how I (20, M) should treat women - what's the best way to proceed for someone who does want an LTR with a girl but has so far (6 weeks, 10 official dates) treated her unlike a TRPer would?3 times out of 10 isn't bad for someone inexperienced, especially if they happened in succession after a certain number. I think you need to take a step back and assess what you're doing with this person. When I'm with my LTR, she's my entire attention, no matter what. I am never not touching her, holding her or kissing her (and lower...). She sits next to me, I grasp the root of her hair and pull her in when we kiss, I'm cheeky, I slap her ass in front of groups of people with pride, I instinct… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/15 05:45 AM |
| 0 | Currently having an existential crisis on how I (20, M) should treat women - what's the best way to proceed for someone who does want an LTR with a girl but has so far (6 weeks, 10 official dates) treated her unlike a TRPer would?You shouldn't need to ask that, it should be obvious. You'll know it's happened that way when you look back on your relationship and she says "even though you asked me out at X time, I was waiting for you to ask since Y time". In asking, you've pretty much said "I want to be monogamous with you if that's okay with you", which is repairable, but sets up a power dynamic favouring her. Instigating everything is normal, but there's a good way and a bad way. Again, time will tell which way she saw it… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Almost cheated on ltr. Am I a bad man for this?Its only when her friend has been over? This is the shit you need to tell us. We can only give general directions, and the way you phrased it made it sound like she just randomly decided to fling shit at you. Okay. Is she back to normal? If so, good. Do stuff as normal, treat her like the wonderful girl she thinks she is, and report back if it keeps going, be detailed. No, elaborate. How was she treating you exactly. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Almost cheated on ltr. Am I a bad man for this?Wow, that amount of time and she's turned into that? Fuck that, I was thinking more like 4 or 5 years. Nope, drop her. LTRs should always be escalating, she should always melt at your touch, smile when your eyes meet, and think you are the most amazing thing in her life. That requires maintenance on your behalf, and obviously she wasn't worth it or you didn't have enough. Swing to this new person, she's more attracted to you than your current girl. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Almost cheated on ltr. Am I a bad man for this?How long term? See, there's something called the sunk cost fallacy, where you value something higher than what it actually is because of all the time and energy you've put into it, and if you've previously put a lot of time and energy into this relationship, you're more likely to stick with it because if you don't, you perceive that time and energy as lost. Did you do anything wrong? You did feed her hamster, she could use this to justify potential cheating on her behalf ("It's okay, he was goin… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 02:01 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with/help my Beta father?I've been doing so, hence me being here (Had an alternate account, decided to start fresh). It's just saddening seeing my relationship with him deteriorate, But I'm not the only one with this problem so there's a solution somewhere. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 09:51 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with/help my Beta father?It isn't 65 years though, only in the last year or so | /r/askTRP | 08/09/15 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with/help my Beta father?65 | /r/askTRP | 07/09/15 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with/help my Beta father?65? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/15 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with/help my Beta father?18, he's 65 | /r/askTRP | 07/09/15 09:53 PM |
| 2 | You can't escape validationYeah. Guess I didn't word it correctly, my examples reflect my agreement with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 12:59 PM |
| 2 | You can't escape validationAnother distinction is when you do comment on her appearance, make it a personal gesture based on specific traits instead of a general statement. Saying "I like how you're dressed" or "Sorry I got lost in your eyes" (overtly romantic but they love that stuff) works better than "that's a nice dress" or "you have pretty eyes" because anyone can say that to her at any time. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 11:01 PM |
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