I met a girl whilst drinking and she invited me back to her hotel for the night. She didn't explicitly say sex wasn't on the table beforehand, but I got the impression she was very inexperienced.

We fooled around. It was no big deal and I didn't push her once she made it clear.

We don't live close — but seeing someone occasionally suits me (which is what I'm already doing with someone else).

She is not a virgin, but that scenario was her first — despite not being young (spent many years in a LTR).

I want to be direct and ask whether she only has sex with someone she is in a relationship with. If the answer is yes, then I can be upfront and explain a LDR is something I wouldn't consider. I don't want this to drag on if we both want different things.

Any thoughts?