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Feminism is literally just incel yapping that got legitimized because of post-modernists needing something to do for their PhD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:23 PM
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This is essentially my philosophy on the whole thing. Dating isn't fair, so why should we be? Do whatever you have to do without breaking the law. Whats the worst that happens? Some disgruntled girl thinks you're an asshole? Great, that is no different than all the millions of girls angry at their ex boyfriends. Look at Olivia Rodrigo and Taylor Swift, they've made careers off of demonizing their ex boyfriends. I had that realization young. Shitty guys get songs written about them, not shitty gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:39 PM
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I am scared to answer truthfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:50 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:43 PM
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Tbh lately I've been thinking about this concept of determinism. It took a lot of fighting to get where I am and I was able to hack my personality enough to get the results I wanted. I know we can break out conditioning, but it takes a lot of effort. You might not get the authentic chad or billionaire experience, but you could get something closer to it than you have now. It is just a matter of whether it is worth it or if it is better to learn to accept ones station in life. I just know I'd rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:43 PM
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I don't see it as being weak willed, just doing what is effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:41 PM
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Yeah. He was a total love bomber. I adopted a lot of my fuckboy tendencies by asking my partner open ended questions about him early in our relationship and reading her private messages when she wasn't around. A couple things I learned that were effective was when you get a new girl tell her you're going back with your ex so you can't be sexual anymore, but then still push for things to be sexual. That then establishes the dynamic of her being the side piece. The other is you do have to act like…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:39 PM
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Because even if I identify and recognize the emotions, they're still there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:33 PM
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My wife and I met in high school. We had a class together. We didn't talk then, and I dropped out of school, but for a couple weeks we were in the same class together. There was another girl in that class. Both of them dated the same guy that year. The guy took my wife's virginity and I don't know about the other girl, but I know they had sex. There was also a girl in the class next to ours that this guy also had sex with that same year. This guy, in the course of less than 6 months was having s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:30 PM
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It still shows someone desires you which is a positive thing especially when you feel undesired.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:24 PM
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You wouldn't get it because you're a woman and aren't starved for affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:21 PM
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I feel you. The only advice I can give is you have to psychologically fuck with these girls. Find the ones with some trauma and family issues, and then give them everything they want. Lovebomb the fuck out of them, fuck them really good, and then take it all away and leave breadcrumbs that they can think they can get you back. Too many guys refuse to do it, but what do you gain from being moral? At the end of the day these guys are getting the girls who reject you so what do you owe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:15 PM
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Everyone is so annoying about this shit. It's a fucking WEDNESDAY! sorry I don't want to get all dressed up and go out to a restaurant when all the other schmucks are going to be there and the service will be shit in the literal middle of the week. What is so wrong about moving all celebrations to the weekend? I don't care if we celebrate my birthday a week later when it's more convenient. I'd rather reschedule and actually enjoy it than be stressed out just to meet social conventions. Also...I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:50 PM
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My assumption is that women are developing more looks-focused metrics due to the popularity of dating apps. I believe a conspiracy theory which posits that these dating apps are purposefully designed to leave both parties dissatisfied. For women they have an endless stream of options, however none are satisfying because it disregards their need to get a holistic sense of a potential suitor. For men they also get an endless stream of women which will spike dopamine based on the visual aspect of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:43 PM
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That is what the experts say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:31 PM
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I'm not a woman, but admittedly I think it is insecure and hurt men trying to demean women who they feel threatened by. I could never actually believe that, but I could see myself saying it to try to hurt those who I feel intimidated by. I don't know if I would ever actually believe it, but if you say something enough it becomes your reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:29 PM
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It's definitely the number of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:07 PM
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I can definitely do it without porn, but it is so much nicer to look at women who I normally wouldn't be able to attract. I guess men are just more visual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:17 PM
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For me it's because it is a testament to all the sex I missed out on. Knowing she has more experience than me makes me feel inferior. You can never truly reclaim your youth and even if you do have a hoe phase as a man when you're older it won't be the same because it is only a new experience for you as opposed to both of you. It's a little easier to deal with now because I did have a hoe phase in my twenties plus I shifted my mindset to view sex as something that should be fun and not a competit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:15 PM
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Tick Tock Tick Tock tomorrow is Valentines Day. Hope you bought a gift for your someone special...Oh? what is that? Alone on Valentines day again? How sad lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:58 PM
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The thing is he doesn't even register as a Chad to me. He just looks like the kind of guys that works in landscaping or some shit and gets a beat red farmers tan in the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:46 PM
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I was getting the ick watching him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:45 PM
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He is 65 and looks like he has diabetes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:42 PM
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They were putting their post game order in at Dennys and was told they're out of BBQ sauce for his chicken nuggies 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:36 PM
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All those NFL guys have brain damage and roid rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:32 PM
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Tbh the only thing I like about Taylor Swift is her producer Jack Antonoff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:32 PM
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Even at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:31 PM
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"He's an athlete in the super bowl! Of course it is acceptable for him to scream in his 65 year old coaches face! That is totally normal behavior!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:30 PM
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I don't give a care about Taylor Swift, but considering people can't stop talking about America's sweet heart and her varsity all star boyfriend, I can't help but think how embarrassing he is for her. He yells, he acts brutish, and he just looks like a poor. I saw someone say that watching them kiss during the super bowl was like being forced to be part of a Disney high school rom com none of us consented to. I agree with that take. I like some of Taylor Swifts music even if I think she is a ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:25 PM
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I think he is going to murder her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:18 PM
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Not really insomnia, but probably depression even though I don't feel sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:11 PM
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Sort of both. I only masturbate to help me fall asleep, but I use the visuals to get started. After that it does feel good so I keep going. Then after I have an orgasm I feel relieved and more relaxed so I roll over and shut my eyes as fast as I can and fantasize about having a better life. If I am unable to masturbate before bed I can't fall asleep and actually having sex doesn't put me in the same relaxed state that masturbating does. Tbh I am not even interested in sex or masturbation, I just…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:01 PM
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Reminder to men to not get your lady some roses for VDay and to instead make her start a huge fight so you can have bomb ass make up sex the next day. Stay toxic kings 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:59 PM
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New Vampire Weekend album dropping in a couple months 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:16 PM
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Damn I thought there was some milf wrestling category and I got excited for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:15 PM
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Honestly I feel bad because I harassed and sexualized girls when I was that age but it was only because my male friends were doing it. I wonder if they genuinely wanted to do it or if it was only because they saw other boys doing it too. There is one girl who me and my two friends would grab her butt when she was getting off the school bus. That is blatant molestation and I'm sure traumatizing for her. Of course the guys who did that were also the ones who got the most female attention so part o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:14 PM
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Not getting to have sex during my sexual peak when everyone else around me was. I guess I can always inject black market TRT and lie about my age on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 10:10 PM
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Basically the jist of it is that I am watching a movie about sex/porn and it is making me anxious and upset but the anxiety is from shame and insecurity. I struggle with having empathy for women because my own inferiority complex supersedes any remorse or emotional recognition I have for women. I definitely struggle with and identity with the concept of the madonna/whore complex and I think for me it is easier to view all women as "whores" in any scenario whether that is because they are satisfy…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:16 PM
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I need to think of how to word it properly so I can say everything I want to say without it being a word salad. I might put it into chat GPT tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:09 PM
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I can see that about the personality thing. I think the other issue is that the primary demographic for these books/movies were young girls that were typically social outcasts or at least outisders in some way, so they would be more attracted to a man/character who has a seemingly under developed body. Someone with a good physique would be associated with either being older and/or more intimidating i.e. a jock or something. But even despite that, I think almost all women prefer a man who shows s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:07 PM
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Jacob was just too entitled or something. He felt that because they knew each other since childhood and his family was connected to her dad that they had a deeper connection. I totally get that feeling from the guys perspective, it is a very male experience, however it is clear she felt a stronger connection with Edward. Plus, not to mention, being a vampire seems a lot cooler than being a werewolf, especially if you have a family of vampires you can live with forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:54 PM
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There is something I really want to say, but I struggle to articulate things clearly sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:51 PM
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Team Edward. It's so obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:40 PM
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And it turns out women have no interest in physique, all they care about is height. I've never met a girl/woman who was "team jacob"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:40 PM
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Q4M: So guys, have you bought your girlfriend anything for valentines da- oh, thats right, sorry...I forgot lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:18 PM
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Read body language? She seems like she is heavily sedated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:56 PM
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What if someone were to break up over it if they are in a long term relationship? Would you think they're shitty then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:56 PM
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disingenuous take
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:26 PM
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Men are so much more fair in love. My partner and I are both going to have significant amounts of loose skin. I couldn't imagine leaving her because I don't find it attractive. I guess men just understand love more authentically.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:08 PM
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Sure, but she doesn't even seem aware of her surroundings. There is another show called down for love which is a similar concept but shows people with down syndrome and some seem more cognizant than others. In her case I wonder if she even knows or understands what is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:06 PM
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When I was a teenager I had a realization that sounds a bit crass now, but essentially my motto was if you're not paying me or laying me I don't give a fuck what you think about me. Now that I'm older I think a much more mature way to phrase it is if you're not benefitting my life in some way, then I don't owe you the effort of seeking your approval. Also just generally knowing your worth and preferring to surround yourself with supportive people helps a lot. Too often people feel they have to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:01 PM
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Yup. It's good because we can spin a half true story and make it seem like we were high school sweet hearts. People love that. Life is all about appearances. The truth is I was 19 in the 11th grade with severe emotional issues stemming from my lack of sex and living in extreme poverty. I dropped out of the class two weeks in because I was going to KMS. She thought I sounded smarter and more intelligent than the other guys in her grade because I was familiar with a lot of the material and that im…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:57 PM
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Why do you need friends for social media? Stop chasing the chad fantasy and take the dark and brooding outsider pill. Chase after girls with emotional issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:52 PM
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Would you think a guy is a bad person for breaking up with a girl after he finds out she has loose skin from significant weight loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:49 PM
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They've got the autism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:48 PM
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I think the show has two primary appeals. One is for stressed out normies to wish their lives were as simple as theirs seem to be portrayed in the show, and the second is people who enjoy a spectacle. My partner and I like the show, but we can't help but think how exploitative it is. Like that clip for example, should that girl even be dating? Is she even aware of what is going on? I don't know. It's pretty infantalizing. I still like it though. That and shows like 90 Day Fiance are way better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:47 PM
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social media dms
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:38 PM
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I dropped out of high school. She contacted me a year later and we've been together ever since. Ended up going to college together too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:25 PM
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Yeah, you really can't quantify how much of your tax bill is actually going to any specific individual. I would have to estimate it is a fraction of a cent. You would need to know how many people receive each service and then how many people who receive that service meets the criteria you're upset about, how long they're on the service for, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:08 AM
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So I put it into chatGPT and it estimates there are 20 million single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:06 AM
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See, there are so many variables I don't even know how one could begin to even estimate this. It's such a scapegoat thing. I'd be more upset my taxes aren't providing more social relief programs than be upset at "single mothers" whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:00 AM
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How would you quantify taxes going to single mothers? Let's say that the average income is 50,000 and at a 22% tax rate this means the average person would pay $11,000 in taxes. I have found the fact that, "25% of U.S. families are headed by a single parent, and 80% of single-parent headed households are moms — or 21% of U.S. children live primarily with a single mother, according to Census data." We would need to know how many single mothers there actually are. According to PEW research there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:55 AM
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I never got the point of being upset about taxes in this way. I'm upset my taxes don't go to universal healthcare. I don't get being angry at a group that is such a small fraction of the population when more tax money goes to the military than it does food stamps. Who cares where the tax money goes? You probably contributed all of $23 to that specific section of the pie chart which is dispersed through millions of people. You can't even really quantify that in an accurate way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:44 AM
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idk man, but I don't think 5'9 is short, but I do think 5'4 is short. I'm 5'9 and I only like girls 5'6 - 5'10
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:18 PM
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In what regard? It's from the movie the Matrix. I've never seen it, but I know it comes from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:23 PM
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In the springtime, my partner and I visit this large cemetery that was constructed in the late 1700s to watch the geese. We see them arrive, have their babies, raise them, and then leave again when winter comes. A couple years ago one family caught our eye—they had only one gosling, likely losing the others. They were protective of it, a reminder of how tough life can be sometimes, but also the sweetness that it contains.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:18 PM
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They're all that kind of girl. Even the "good" ones have a slutty side. It isn't a bad thing though. You have to integrate both sides of women otherwise you fall victim to the madonna/whore thing. It's all very Jungian.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:08 PM
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You'll ask, find out she has been gang banged, then get all depressed and not get laid. Hold the tough questions until after you get your score up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:57 PM
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I'm going to push my FOOTBALL TEAM STORY agenda until it becomes a meme because I find it hilarious. And I agree. One of the things I learned too late is to not ask questions you don't want the answer to. If you get your score up, then sure, ask and break up if you don't like it, but it's dumb to shoot yourself in the foot and perpetuate your sexlessness while simultaneously being upset that women have had more sex than you. Just get your score up and move onto the next one so you're in a positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:56 PM
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I know right. I don't even think women should be allowed to get diagnosed as autistic because it doesn't really make a difference for them in their quality of life as evidenced by many autistic women going undiagnosed until later in life. There are really no ways I can think that women have it considerably worse in life than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:52 PM
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Woman without a doubt. Minimal and easily obtainable beauty standards. Society trusts you. Women love creating cliques and girl clubs in the work place. The only way women have it worse is that they have to endure childbirth, but that is rectified by their choice whether or not to have children, and they are more likely to be victims of SA, but that is easily avoided by not putting themselves in dangerous situations. Even in both instances though, they are sympathized with by society where as me…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:43 PM
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Why should a high body count matter for women but not for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:38 PM
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It's your funeral son
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:36 PM
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Eventually i'll ask her if she's ever had sex or been with anyone. I'm going to give you some fatherly advice and suggest you do not ask this until AFTER you've had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:33 PM
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I don't KNOW for sure. You when the seemingly nice girl you're talking to reveals THE FOOTBALL TEAM STORY as if it was a normal Thursday night. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:32 PM
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Wall is absolutely [redacted]. It's sad to me because the guys who perpetuate the idea of the wall existing are creating a self fulfilling prophecy and perpetuating their own misery. Teenage girls are the worst most flaky most insecure age to pursue. These guys are so obsessed with their pornographic revenge fantasy they they latch onto this delusion that at 40 they'll be able to attract countless 18 year olds. Women, in my experience, are a lot more sexually confident and open starting around a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:18 PM
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No, couldn't be. Men's shared experience can't be valid because women say it isn't. When the women have spoken, it is settled. Aren't women wonderful? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:54 PM
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In what way? The Israel-Palestine thing? It's clear that Israel has way more military might. It isn't even a war. People saying "from the river to the sea" are going to be in for a rude awakening when they realize the underdog only wins in the movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:01 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:58 PM
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Just encountered a perfect example of an internet phenomenon I've noticed where people end up defending things they don't agree with because they refuse to concede or find common ground with people they view as the enemy. I claimed mutual respect is more important than feminism Someone claimed that they refuse to respect men because men support Andrew Tate who they assert is a sex trafficker. I dislike Andrew Tate, but I am left defending him because he has not yet been found guilty of sex traff…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:03 PM
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It is actually and still proves my point. It's pretty chronically online as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:33 PM
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That is the kind of reactionary opinion I'm referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 06:40 PM
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I think a lot of women foolishly adopt a feminist identity when what they really want is mutual respect. However, their anxiety and inferiority complex causes them to adopt more extreme beliefs. For example, on TikTok I have seen a number of instances where a post will show a woman waking up early to pack her blue collar husband's lunch. The comments are usually adversarial and consist of remarks like "could never be me" or "Are your husbands arms broken?" Feminists will oppose these simple acts…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:53 PM
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Social media DMs. They get to have a better impression of you because it's social media. You're mostly competing with guys who send unsolicited dick pics. It isn't a dating app so their guard it down. There is minimal risk just like dating apps because as long as you don't message her more than once, she isn't going to expose you. These women are all strangers so you most likely don't have to ruin about damaging your reputation. Tbh, I think this approach could even work at any place women are. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:42 PM
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I wouldn't say women "deserve" abuse, but they do put themselves into situations where abuse is likely just like they put themselves into situations where "accidental" pregnancy and single motherhood is likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:50 PM
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She downvotes me too and then denies it. She also blocks me once a week even though it's against the rules lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:48 PM
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Most men are in the same boat. What is there to compete against?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:42 PM
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As someone who is envious of women, I've thought about this before. I can't really compare myself to women because our experiences are different. Still though, the feeling persists. I think it has to do with feminism convincing us men and women are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:41 PM
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I'll never understand why dog owners think they're superior. You stand around with their poop in a bag. They smell like wet dish towels. They bark at anything that moves. You have to take them out multiple times a day to poop and pee. If you leave them alone for a day they'll destroy your house and piss and shit everywhere. I knew a family that would put a gate up in the kitchen and in the morning would just clean up the dogs piss and shit. every day lmao. The whole think just reeks of insecurit…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:38 PM
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Everything good is banned. I got a warning the other day because something I posted here was "too serious" so your choices are 1.) post an original thread and have it get removed 2.) post in the daily chat and have it get removed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 08:29 PM
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Do you know anything about the history of civilization?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:01 PM
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It's just always funny to me when people reject the reason why we recognize "don't be a shithead" as what it is. Or worse "I don't need a sky daddy to tell me right from wrong" while living in a civilization built on the teachings of that "sky daddy."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:50 PM
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I'm sure you're not at all instilling moral values that come directly from these religions though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:38 PM
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Tbh I think men are more faithful, committed, and just. In my experience it is women who struggle with the existential dread of responsibility. For example the book my sister's keeper is all about a girl not wanting to donate a kidney or whatever to her dying sister. Bodily autonomy and all that. We know two things for a fact about women. They initiate most divorces and they are perfectly fine with setting arbitrary standards for dating. In women's defense though, I think they are much more comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:46 PM
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You're good, you can comment under my posts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:41 PM
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I think it is people getting their cues from movies and TV
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:41 PM
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Reply to this and I'll let you know if it is ok if you comment under my posts or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:37 PM
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This isn't even your post, and again I'm replying to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:36 PM
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or specifically that she was gang banged at an NFL game or had relations with Oscar the Grouch lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:05 PM
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I wasn't talking to you. I was talking to my good friend and associate RicePresident_
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:59 PM
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For the crime of making the women a little upset 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:51 PM
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They were on Twitter first. I want to see them out of curiosity. I'm shocked and amazed at how they're effectively being scrubbed from the internet. Typically something like this you can't get rid of. From what I've seen though they don't look that bad. Nothing I haven't seen before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:47 PM
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Went to a "club" last night. I'd say most people there just hung out with the people they were there with. I think the best thing to do as a guy is to take a girl you're already seeing to do things like this. When I was younger and my hormones were raging, I'd always fantasize about being the kind of guy who can go to a music festival or a night club and hook up with any of the dozens of random attractive women. Maybe that does happen, but I think mostly people are dating and not having one nigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:39 PM
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I'd be ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:35 PM
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Women: You're not entitled to sex, male loneliness epidemic is a joke Also women: The orgasm gap means you have to make me orgasm 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:56 PM
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I'm making fun of the way black pillers talk, I'm not being serious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:35 PM
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I don't know. I don't open them and I throw them out in the morning. But probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:29 PM
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Hell yeah. It beats having to get up in the middle of the night, stumbling down a dark hallway and tripping over the cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:27 PM
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why wall of dudes? If you want to flip the roles, it would be walls of women doing this and I think most guys would enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:18 PM
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My gf knows about my pee bottles and still loves me 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:14 PM
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Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a man who is SUB5 to get gf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:13 PM
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I don't think feminism is really about men's issues or has claimed to be. It is fundamentally about giving women equal rights. Make your own movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:09 PM
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It's posts like this that make me realize why incel content isn't allowed. What you're saying is sort of valid, or at least approaching territory of being a valid critique, you're just phrasing it in such a nonsensical way. The real issue is that you feel overwhelmed by the obligations of life while feeling unfulfilled in other areas. That is a personal issue. Sex is a small facet of that, but it isn't the whole thing. Besides, with money you can enjoy other things. Go to a museum, climb a mount…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:08 PM
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It's almost like religion codifies fundamental human truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:59 PM
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I love christian apologetics. Atheist arguments are so weak because it is always attacking organized religion and not the source or the true thing that is God. Atheism should really be called anti-theism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:22 PM
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nihilistic atheists when they still base their morality on western theology.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:18 PM
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I agree. I think atheism is illogical. I really like the aesthetic argument for God.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:16 PM
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If someone was making AI content using a coworkers likeness and passing it around at work, I can see that being immoral and the person should definitely be reprimanded, fired, and even sued. That would cause undue humiliation to the colleague and legitimately damage their reputation and create a hostile work environment. But one of the biggest celebrities in the world right now? Get over it!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:18 PM
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I don't think there is really anything inherently wrong with AI or deepfake nudes. Women are all in an uproar about how it is an invasion of privacy and objectification, but these same women have no problem with reading and writing erotic fan fiction about their favorite celebrities. I think it is really just an example of how women are repulsed by men they're not attracted to being attracted to them. In regards to the Taylor Swift controversy, from the ones I've seen they weren't that bad but e…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:22 PM
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Same. The previous iteration was good for me. The text was large and easily readable. The hard edges of the text box made more sense for typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:34 PM
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The girls on the hook up site are probably closer to stacy or aspiring stacy, where as the asexual girls are probably closer to a femcel or something. I don't know the words to describe things. I was good with women in my whoring days, but I knew how to target the ones that would respond best to me. Usually girls that had Tumblr, suffered some kind of abuse in their past, quiet and awkward, etc. That ties into what I often say here where guys just stacy chase and that is why they fail. Like they…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 03:07 AM
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Even if your fit it doesn't matter if you don't have the height or looks women crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:40 AM
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Looks have always mattered, but they matter even more so now. How is it easier to set yourself apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:23 PM
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Looks mattering over everything else is getting more and more true every day. I feel bad for Gen Z men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 05:38 PM
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I'm deadass laughing too so 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:43 PM
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Finally you said something that is accurate and true and real and based and true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:39 PM
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They have to be "terrible" because they're men and society favors women. It's the martyrdom of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:38 PM
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I'm saying rich men, such as Jeff Bezos and Elon Musk, are despised despite gaining status in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:35 PM
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Because women in general are infinitely more desired than men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:27 PM
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Are you referencing neocoom? And regardless, sure I can date and have dated a lot, I've never really been single, but it's easier for women to be widely accepted whereas even if a man gains a lot of status, he will still be mocked like Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk. But if a guy looks like Jacob Elordi, he doesn't need to have any status and he will be loved by all women. You see how being a man in general is a losing endeavor compared to being a woman? Of course though, as a man you could go the inno…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:26 PM
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How doesn't it? Women experience sexual liberation by being sexually liberated. How can a man be sexually liberated? Gooning to OF models making $50,000 a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:15 PM
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Sure, but what is the alternative? To accept our inferiority and give up essentially? Women are the root cause of our self hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:06 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:03 PM
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My disdain for women stems entirely from impotent rage. Being a man is such a peculiar thing. I am responsible for my own self victimization but the alternative is to accept and embrace ones own inferiority. Being a man is like being a snake that eats its own tail. Being a man is to never truly be free, to always have to live up to others expectations and satisfy their demands while being existentially obstructed by their perceived limitations of you. Men will never get to experience liberation …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:58 PM
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Yeah, that is what I said too. I'm only a quarter into the movie, but it seems very try hard. It's a good concept and Barry Keoghan has played similar roles very well, but the movie so far lacks anything beyond the aesthetics of it. The shallow vapidness definitely mirrors the biggest supporters of it and their obsession with Jacob Elordi.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:51 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:46 PM
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Shame I'm not that attracted to indian women 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:17 PM
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I've worked with overweight attornies who are workaholics and extremely competent. That is why I don't get people who have the "fat people are lazy" perception. Most of them are fat because they're so busy. It's like how people say they're concerned for people's health when they're overweight, but have no problem with thin people chain smoking or binge drinking or doing cocaine. I've had coworkers in the past that would talk about how being overweight is unhealthy but couldn't go a shift without…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:06 PM
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Always confirm. A message is not received until it is confirmed by the recipient.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:35 PM
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I want to stop buying bottled water, but I'm really scared of drinking tap water thinking about how disgusting and gunk filled the pipes are. Even the idea of a water filtration system doesn't seem trustable to me. I don't want to accidentally get Flint, Michiganed because of an inept city government and lazy water authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:25 PM
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Tennis is another example
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:21 PM
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​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:07 PM
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Make the most money It really is that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:01 PM
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Started watching Saltburn last night. The cinematography is good. The acting isn't spectacular but I think this is a result of poor directing as Barry Keoghan was incredible in Killing of a Sacred Deer. I'm only a half hour in since I needed to go to bed. My partner and I watch a movie together every night with dinner. We enjoy foreign films and art films, but it's a shame we never get to watch a full movie anymore and have to watch them in two or three parts. Anyways, it's kind of heart breakin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:43 PM
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Women care more about height than penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:43 AM
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Girls have always paid for me for things, I guess I'm just lucky or something. I also didn't learn to drive until I was 23 so they'd give me rides too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:42 AM
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I don't really care that much about n count, it just comes down to feeling like I missed out. I think now I'm over that though because I'm ran through myself, but I still wouldn't want a high or even mid n count woman just based on the principle of the situation. Like we have to keep these thots accountable for their actions. I just think sometimes about how when I was a teenager I had a friend (6'+ tall) who took a new girls virginity every month, had been with like at least 10 different women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:27 PM
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Irrelevant since most have lost it at 14. Tbh 20 would be better because if she is 30 it means she is too finicky about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:35 PM
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Her mother can explain how her choices led to that decision. That is not his child and he should be compensated for any money and time he put towards that kid, but of course since the courts are anti-man, the mother gets to go on unaffected and will ultimately play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:13 PM
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Women when talking about men: My body my choice, you're not entitled to my time or emotional labor, you're actually a horrible human being and everyone can sense it. Women when talking about women: Where is your sense of fairness and justice? Have you no compassion? What about nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:04 PM
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Women when talking about men: My body my choice, you're not entitled to my time or emotional labor, you're actually a horrible human being and everyone can sense it. Women when talking about women: Where is your sense of fairness and justice? Have you no compassion? What about nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:03 PM
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I am married. I was her second, she was my third.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:33 PM
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Also important alongside n count is when she lost her virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:32 PM
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Yes. She would not check all the boxes due to her casual attitude regarding sex. I do not want a reformed hoe. I do not want a current hoe. I will sleep with a hoe, but I will not commit to a hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:26 PM
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noooooo u can't just hold women accountable, that would literally be the handmaids tale
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:22 PM
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hmmmmm https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/192dyqp/wibta_if_i_abandoned_my_child/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:06 PM
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I have never known a fat woman who had trouble getting laid the same way most men have trouble. Men are fine with fat women. It is women who have very strict preferences about height and other uncontrollable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:11 PM
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You probably just don't know how to appeal to the female gaze or you're stacy chasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:50 PM
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I am fat, short, broke, and have a bulbous upturned nose and I still fuckboy maxxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:50 PM
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fuckboy max and cheat a lot early in the relationship. Consider it a loyalty test. If she stays then she really likes you and you can slowly start being more genuine. This is basically what I did and it worked. Our connection is stronger than ever. It also helps if you can find a way to breed codependency and generally help her realize that she is better off without her toxic family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:48 PM
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Why else would you approach? I don't get it. Also, just like women are entitled to reject men, men are entitled to express interest. Idgaf if women don't like being approached, it's hard as a man and you have to be strong and go after what you want. We don't have the luxury of endless options. I really think the best mind set for a man to have regarding women is to stop caring about what they think/feel. Like as a man you have to send out 10 DMs and hope that at least 1 will respond. You can't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:42 PM
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Maybe in NYC, but I've never been there. I would say everyone I encounter is average height. Like 5'7 to 6'. Maybe one or two people out of a crowd I see will be over 6'1. My hometown though I have to say 6' or taller is the norm. But where I went to college and where I live now, all of which are still in NY that has been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:43 PM
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New York State.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:09 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/House_of_Darkness_(2022_film)) It was actually pretty cool. A couple cringe parts, but it was a nice little movie. It was just very loaded "men are bad, boss babes need to get their revenge on these dirty dogs"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:09 PM
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Oh, I see this thing about Barry Keoghan being short because he is 5'8 so that means since I'm 5'9 women must think I'm repulsive, let me ignore the probably 100+ women I've been involved with over the last two decades. But I want to be faithful so I have no way to prove I'm lovable. And the fucking irony is that I'm lovable! I'm in a long term relationship for fucks sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:02 PM
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Alright, I'm going to be vulnerable for a second. I'm not diagnosed BPD, but I definitely have some signs. So like, you know how sometimes women will say to a guy "do you even know any women?" Like, you know, talk to women and get to know them so your opinion of them isn't bad. So I've talked about this pretty extensively, but since I started dating at around 15 I've been a habitual cheater. I've been very faithful from 2018 - 2022 where I had a slight lapse but then was caught and have been com…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:00 PM
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They are not to be trusted because they have their own groups interests in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:48 PM
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We all knew Disney was going to milk this cash cow to death. I don't like much nerd stuff, but I did love the original star wars trilogy growing up. What a shame they had to ruin it's reputation and run it into the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:44 PM
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Act like women don't prefer female doctors
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:43 PM
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Tbf I would prefer a male doctor over a female doctor. Women in those roles always have something to prove and they have bias against men so are incapable of being compassionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:40 PM
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DeWalt. I like their logo better. I prefer red, but the Milwaukee logo looks like it should be on a beer or something. DeWalt looks very work zone and the yellow works for that as well. Ryobi looks like a japanese tech company that you'd buy off of amazon, and Makita being stylized as all lowercase doesn't give work zone. It is a good logo, but it would be better for a clothing or sneaker company or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:35 PM
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Pay attention to what women do, not what they say. Fwiw most red pill manosphere gurus are clueless as well, but if anyone says they know something for certain be very skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:30 PM
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I agree with this. If you can make her orgasm and get into that state of being sexually submissive to you, then she is yours for life or at the very least the next few months. The issue nowadays though is who gets the opportunity to even try though and it is becoming increasingly harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:29 PM
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Maybe that is just a big city thing. Where I live currently as a 5'9 man it is very rare for me to encounter men that are significantly taller than me. I often see men shorter than me with their partners. I live in a city with a population less than 50,000.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:06 PM
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HEIGHT IS NORMALLY DISTRIBUTED IT RESEMBLES A BELL CURVE. 5'8 - 6' is the average height range of a US male. ​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:29 PM
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Completely logical, but I saw so many comments saying "5'9 is average so 5'8 is short"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:24 PM
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Still fucked up by this Barry Keoghan and Jacob Elordi thing. Saw a TikTok of women saying that 5'8 is short. The thing is Jacob Elordi is such a rare height. I think I might see someone who is 6'5 in public maybe once a year or less. I see way more men who are 5'8 and shorter. Despite this though, rather than having a concept of "average" women will think in a binary and say men are either tall or short. Not only that, Barry Keoghan supposedly rose from a life of foster care to become an academ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:27 AM
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My blatantly sexist explanation is that they don't have to be. Being a woman is easier. It is easy to be virtuous when the world opens itself to you. I don't believe the patriarchy exists, but what feminists describe as patriarchy is absolutely necessary for society to function. I remember learning in my global politics class that when women achieve the same status as men in government, they tend to start advocating for wars at the same rate as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:28 PM
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I have been an amazon prime customer since the early 2010s and it's always arrived when it said it would. Sometimes I've even gotten things the next day if I order early enough in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:24 PM
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Consider this though, women can purposefully make themselves look weird, but still expect to be treated the same as if they followed social norms. Men on the other hand are unable to escape the limitations of their genetics. Women have it so easy they have to make their own problems. They are the definition of wanting freedom without responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:52 AM
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Heard HR complaints went down and everyone who attended was finally able to get some work done.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:47 AM
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Yeah, because women are only attracted to things that are outside of mens control. I'd say it's unfair, but I don't want to be accused of whining. It's just the way it is and there is nothing we can do about it, but it really goes to show that women have it so much easier and anyone who denies that is lying through their teeth. It's just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:54 PM
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I have red in my beard and I'm so scared that if I have sons they'll be red headed. I don't care if I have daughters because women are accepted lookswise no matter what they look like, but I would absolutely do gene selection. It's odd how women are always so progressive and probably hold the opinion that CRISPR is unethical, but they're the ones that make genes matter. If men ruled the world things would be so much more fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:52 PM
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That is a really good comparison, I never thought about it that way, but you're absolutely right. Women would be freaking out if that ever happened and yet that is exactly what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:49 PM
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As long as someone showers and wears deodorant they shouldn't smell, but that isn't enough. I've seen women talk about this natural scent thing before too but it was years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:42 PM
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Logically you'd assume there is a height cap. Like 7' is freakishly tall, that is an anomaly that you rarely if ever see in real life. But it's often been said women are illogical creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:40 PM
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Every time. Women have so many options to make themselves attractive, but if a man isn't just naturally attractive there is nothing he can do. Knowing this, why do women still say they have harsher beauty standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:07 AM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@giogiorabbit/video/7302181056474647840 Saw this on TikTok. It is becoming increasingly hard to deny that the looks threshold for men is getting more and more impossible to meet. Barry Keoghan is 5'8 which is around the average height for a man. Jacob Elordi on the other hand is 6'5 which is .07% of men. This is such an interesting trend with Gen Z. Either they are admitting what women refused to admit for years, or the internet and dating apps are allowing women to carry …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:59 AM
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Same. I'm 5'9 and fat but I've got that boyish goofiness that girls love or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:30 AM
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ok, I see. I was misunderstanding the numbers. It is 36% still thought, that is an awful lot more than men at 1.8 percent. Like shockingly drastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:26 AM
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I prefer cheek kisses, but I don't actually kiss the person on the cheek, we just touch cheeks and kiss into the air.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:22 AM
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I like kisses on the cheek. My partner thinks it is because I'm not attracted to her. I think kissing is kind of gross too. I like deep french kissing when having sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:21 AM
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I do, but I also live in a lower cost of living area. I make 45k a year not including bonuses and side hustle money and my rent is $1160 so it is 30% of my income. Realistically I probably make closer to 50k. Despite that though, I still try to live very modestly. The economy is impossible unless you make 6 figures AND keep expenses low. Back when I was making 30k a year out of college my rent was 45% of my income but I refuse to live in the ghetto. I hate out of touch financial gurus or r/finan…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:19 AM
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They match with more than half they swipe right on which is much better compared to men who only match with 1.9% of those they swipe right on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:09 AM
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Thot daughter. Don't know what the big deal is if she is a good person. Also maybe she can bring some of her thot friends around for me 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:11 PM
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How short could your partner get before you'd leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:10 PM
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Women are like the Jeff Bezos of the dating market. I've thought of this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:06 PM
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How so? Maybe that women also deserve some sympathy, but I think men are more deserving of sympathy and empathy because their struggle is worse. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:59 PM
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And despite that, due to your female privilege, you are still viewed positively by society. Like the old adage goes, women are born with their value, men have to earn their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:48 PM
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Like I just imagine some woman going to a date with a clipboard tallying up points to determine the value of her date Red flags and icks. The check list is in their head but women really do look for excuses to not be attracted to a man and they're often arbitrary things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:28 PM
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Hyperbole doesn't disprove what I'm saying. Beauty standards are much more rigid for men, whereas a woman can gain weight and still be attractive with many men preferring a woman with higher body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:26 PM
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I'm not personally obsessed with it, but I think it is good to hold women accountable considering how strict they are with the preferences they apply to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:23 PM
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unironically female privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:20 PM
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Something I've realized as I've gotten older is that being in shape is the most important thing you can do to look good as you age. Also, those women look like they'd be awful to deal with. I think the type of women men here are attracted to is why they struggle so much with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:18 PM
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Made a couples letterboxd account. We also have a couples account on AllTrails. It's funny because I feel like this is the kind of thing on TikTok girls would be like "Me and who? 🥺" But the ironic thing is a lot of the girls that would say that most likely wouldn't date me in the first place. This happened one time when I was walking out of the grocery store with my partner and we were laughing and joking around and stuff, and some girl said something like "oh you two are so cute, it must be so…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:13 PM
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This is literature what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:51 PM
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Can't tell height on TV. How tall are you? As long as you're close to average height you're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:50 PM
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Guys, why aren't you Jim Halpertmaxxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:01 PM
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Give us this day, our daily thread and forgive us of our banned posts as we forgive those who commented against us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:47 PM
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When I was seven momma took me to Communist Cell meetings they sold us garbanzos a handful per ticket a ticket costs a nickel and the speeches were free everybody was angelic and sentimental about the workers it was all so sincere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:46 PM
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Of course. You can't force someone to do something they don't want to do, but if they value my input then it would be their decision and not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:46 PM
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Soft men will always be rejected and unwanted. I don't think this is true. More like men who hold this belief aren't interested in the kind of women who like soft men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:44 PM
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Women are in their right to be upset about guys commenting on thirst traps and I feel sorry for girls in relationships with guys like that. As a guy, I'll look but I would never comment or follow because it is humiliating to do so. The difference though is that for women they are getting the attention funneled right to them but as a guy you have to seek it out and get the other woman's approval which is already rare enough so there is less risk for men on social media to actually do something de…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:11 PM
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Guys who are smart realize dating apps don't work and social media DMs get more success. I am estimating these numbers but I'd say my success rate with DMs was like 80% and my success rate with Tinder was less than 5% Like that is the thing, I'm realizing it isn't even being controlling, it is protecting her from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:00 PM
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I've never been the controlling type. I wish I could be, but the truth is I never really cared enough. I always figured if a girl was going to cheat or entertain other men, that is on her and isn't my responsibility. I guess I'm just more emotionally stable than other people. But just saw something about how women shouldn't have instagram or social media in a relationship and I have to say I agree. I don't think I could bring myself to being that controlling, but why be with someone who would al…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:53 PM
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I want to have sex with a midget girl so bad. Definitely one of those things that Chad gets a pass for fetishizing them I'm sure. Plus the last time I saw a midget girl was 2007 so they're so rare. Anyways, I'm in a very serious relationship now so that will never happen, but every once in a while I go down that rabbit hole. That dude is hung af though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:09 PM
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They don't even need to be hot, I'd settle for cute or even just unoffensive to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:55 PM
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this essentially <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:53 PM
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tbf, he has gotten 15 matches in two years. He is clearly showing his interests and personality and comes across as a good guy who wants something real. Yes, the height will definitely hinder his results, BUT assuming he isn't just looking for hook ups, 15 quality matches in two years is a good rate of return. I never understood people who want a committed relationship but get frustrated when they have trouble looking for something sincere. I understand people who just want to hook up but get no…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:50 PM
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What about men who scorch their eyebrows off lighting the grill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:20 PM
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Simps and pick mes are just the words used by people who are disgruntled at the opposite sex and upset at their gender compatriots not sharing their disdain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:19 PM
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My partner and I went to Ulta the other day. We've also been going to stores like Marshalls and TJ Maxx. These are generally discount stores that sell designer brands but for less. She bought a lot of make up and stuff for cheap. I couldn't help but think of something though and follow me here. 1.) Women complain about having to wear make up and having beauty products marketed to them 2.) Women complain that men don't have to put as much effort into their appearance But as a man, I am left with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:16 PM
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The sad thing is, they're probably both describing the same scenario. She just laid there because she froze up and was scared bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:08 PM
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This is based, but I have to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:08 PM
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The good thing about something like eggs is that the fat in them makes the vitamins more bioavailable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:58 PM
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it's still only 470-560 calories. That's the equivalent to two slices of toast and some butter. 2 slices of toast would be 200 calories, plus a little under half of a tablespoon of butter would be <50 calories so the bread and butter would be about 8g of protein and 240 calories actually. That long with a couple scrambled eggs seems like a nice well rounded breakfast that is pretty even macro split. This would probably be even better with Ezekiel bread as it would be 10g of protein for 160 calor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:50 PM
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I've licked a couple too, but in my defense it was 2013 and was all the rage 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:34 PM
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yeah I'm just fucking around. This is my whole bit. It's funny though because I've gotten nudes a few times by telling girls I've never been sent nudes before in my life lol Little did they know I had a google drive categorizing and organizing them all by name and date sent 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:27 PM
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Not even that because I don't do protein powder, but it's just the fact that calorically, fat is providing most of the calories. If I think of something as high protein, I want most of the calories coming from protein like lean chicken breast. I guess one could also say that lentils or quinoa are a good source of protein even though most of the calories are coming from carbs. I'm not saying this in a "fat is bad" way since I know everyone is pro fat these days, just that if I have two or three e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:24 PM
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Yeah well at least you get to have sex 🙄😤😢 I've never even been in the same room as a woman my entire life 😭😠😓
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:12 PM
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Can someone explain to me why eggs are considered high protein. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:11 PM
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None. Every time I get a job offer I've taken it. Often I take the first job that comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:12 PM
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NPR is the CEO of doing too much. I remember a segment on NPR defending cock fighting because "culture"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 07:11 PM
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The problem is that guys here don't want to get a starter girlfriend that will house train them so they can be more attractive to other women. That is the secret. You get a starter girlfriend. She points out all the times girls are interested in you. She helps you become more appealing to women, then you leverage those lessons to maximize your girlfriend getting potential. Instead they want the Chad treatment right from the start and they think anything less than that is an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:58 AM
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When I was in college there were these lectures in the media department and one of the first ones I attended was a professor from Toronto talking about the history of cat memes. There was also a class which focused on memetics, but I didn't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:52 AM
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I know this is an unpopular opinion, but I believe having an affair is the only way to truly emulate that experience. Sneaking around your partner takes the place of having to sneak around your parents. I know people aren't going to like hearing this, but being unfaithful helped me to work through a lot of my depression surrounding my virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:44 AM
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Damn, that's the kind of service you usually only get in France.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:41 AM
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These women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:41 AM
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I don't think Millenials and younger use Facebook much anymore. We were ran out by the boomers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:41 AM
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Last winter was brutal. There is currently an el nino. This is a rainy winter. It happens. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/El_Ni%C3%B1o Over North America, the main temperature and precipitation impacts of El Niño generally occur in the six months between October and March. In particular, the majority of Canada generally has milder than normal winters and springs, [...]. People don't understand the difference between weather and climate. Even if climate change is real (which I believe it is) there…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:39 AM
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I (ironically) feel that women are unable to truly relate to that song and it is strictly for the boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:26 AM
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Add it Up by the Violent Femmes. It has obscure enough indie cred which they tend to love, and the lyrics are legit about being an incel a couple decades before incel was even a thing. https://genius.com/Violent-femmes-add-it-up-lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 02:25 AM
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No, I'm just not attractive enough to be part of the "football team story." I have to get my degeneracy needs met through more nefarious methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:46 PM
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I don't have a problem with gang bangs, it's just the fact I'll never get to be the kind of guy who participates in one 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:40 PM
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What is the dating market place like in high school compared to the things people talk about on here? Tell us your observations, I'm really curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:16 PM
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I know a lot of people think it is cheesy, but do you have any new years resolutions? Mine is to write a budget each month and track my expenses as well as keep a planner, a journal, and write to do lists every night. These are all tied under the umbrella of using pen and paper to organize different areas of my life. Last year I made a resolution to use the internet less and I was actually quite successful at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:50 PM
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Women just don't understand. Explain to me how women can be compatible with 30+ guys by the time they're 19, but some guys just happen to be not compatible with anyone. It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:47 PM
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https://youtu.be/OxDFyn7FMgQ?si=mtnIEvHWcaRwT6QV This is honestly the most relatable line I've ever seen in a movie. When I first heard it I felt understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:41 PM
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You can weasel your way into being a fuckboy. Fuckboys just lie to increase their SMV. My go to line when I would start talking to a girl was saying I was watching my nephew. I don't have a nephew, but saying this made it seem like I was a good guy and family oriented. I would also lie about being at parties and shit. You just have to keep the facade up long enough to get laid then from there you do some mind fucking to make the girl attached to you. You know how guys will complain about girls f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:39 PM
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Feminists will be like "98% of sexual assaults are men, that means men are dangerous." But that statistic doesn't really tell us anything about how dangerous men are. When women use that statistic, the only possible resolution would be to make it 50/50 between men and women. Right, like if there was only 10 rapes that ever happened in the history of humanity, and 9 of those were men, then 90% of rapes would still be by men even though it's such a small percent of the population. You can scale th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:35 PM
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Yes wear deodorant lol. Antiperspirant performs a different job than just smelling nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:34 PM
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I read the OP, but I guarantee you some nerd ass bitch is in the comments like "I bet these guys don't even know the director of this movie was trans 🤓" People are so annoying. They learn one fact about something, then they see the trigger word and a filter runs in their head and they say the thing. Total NPC behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:33 PM
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A good woman is hard to find. I think as men we need to maximize our own dating strategy and not be as fair in our approach since women are not fair in theirs. Basically, just be a fuckboy until one of the women you're involved with proves herself to be different. This is really the best strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:30 PM
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Feminists will be like "98% of sexual assaults are men, that means men are dangerous." But that statistic doesn't really tell us anything about how dangerous men are. When women use that statistic, the only possible resolution would be to make it 50/50 between men and women. Right, like if there was only 10 rapes that ever happened in the history of humanity, and 9 of those were men, then 90% of rapes would still be by men even though it's such a small percent of the population. You can scale th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:26 PM
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It's so odd when feminists are like "teach men not to rape!" like, sis, they're rapists, they don't fucking care. They're bad people, you can't reason with bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:18 PM
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Because based on the options presented some will be better or worse. There is no bad because it is all relative. Women are privileged in that things get handed to them with little effort, but they can put in effort to increase the quality of their options. Men on the other hand will always be an option, so we have to improve ourselves to stand out to women in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:17 PM
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"It's her body and her choice, but also he owes child support" I used to be pro choice, but the fact men have no say in the matter really means we do need to legislate abortion. There are two choices, abortion isn't allowed except in very specific circumstances such as rape, incest, or severe birth defects, or up to 6 weeks, or abortion is allowed up to whatever term women want, but men can also withdraw their paternal rights carte blanche without a step dad taking custody and not have to pay a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:13 PM
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As above, so below.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 04:08 PM
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Aren't you already really thin? I feel bad for people that are much shorter than the average because your TDEE and BMR is so low already To lose weight some people would have to eat 800 calories a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:44 PM
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Also they view women as less of a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:40 PM
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I don't want to shatter your happiness, but if she was the other escort, it sounds like they were gassing you up to make your experience better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:34 PM
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I wonder how many of those "experts" are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:30 PM
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Because I didn't want to be a garbage collector, construction worker, or work on an oil rig. I wanted to get a piece of paper so I could work in an office with air conditioning and wear second hand polo by ralph lauren and commit time theft by posting on reddit during working hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:29 PM
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Apex fallacy. I realized that while enduring feminist lectures in college. Looked into it and realized it was an actual thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:58 PM
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First of all who says these guys want a virgin woman? You're making a strawman up in your head. Second of all that's why you watch porn in secret and don't be a coomer about it 🥸
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:54 PM
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I always find it odd how feminists/women will be like "we need more female CEOs and female movie directors!" But are never like "we need more female garbage collectors, construction workers, and more women working on oil rigs" The narcissistic gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:51 PM
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I saw an article once talking about how most abuse is actually reactive. This has played out in my own relationships so I have a lot of sympathy for men who retaliate when women constantly taunt us and push us until we snap and then they play the victim. Also consider how lesbians have higher domestic violence rates than gay men. Domestic violence is usually women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:50 PM
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But CEOs 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:48 PM
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I saw an article once talking about how most abuse is actually reactive. This has played out in my own relationships so I have a lot of sympathy for men who retaliate when women constantly taunt us and push us until we snap and then they play the victim. Also consider how lesbians have higher domestic violence rates than gay men. Domestic violence is usually women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:47 PM
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Keep telling yourself that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:42 PM
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you don't get targeted for crimes from men either most homicide victims are men. Anyways, you want a more specific example? This conversation right now. I'm telling you about my experience and you're denying it and rejecting. I highly doubt you would be this adversarial if it was a woman talking about the glass ceiling™
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:39 PM
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lmao I literally do. I've worked in social media marketing. Paint me a picture with words why what I'm saying is incorrect. -girls takes thirst trap -posts to insta -gets followers -some followers click link in bio -some of those followers that click buy some pictures or a video or alternately -girl signs up for chaturbate -guys peruse pages of girls -click on one they like -some of those guys who click will donate tokens It's literally the simplest thing and takes close to no effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:35 PM
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I'm so chronically online andrew huberman red pill I thought parents were now making their kids go outside to stand barefoot in the grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:00 AM
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Are there any philosophers you feel more connected to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:52 AM
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In what way? Is it easier than I realize?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:51 AM
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I only like reading the classics. Hemingway is my favorite. I enjoy Camus, but his prose was more to supplement his philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:33 AM
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Sure, you need an audience, but it isn't hard to find one when you're selling the most desired commodity in history. Women have an endless bank between their legs. You could set up an instagram and have hundreds of followers before you even post any content and the sites make it so easy to connect people with you. Like Chaturbate, you sign up, go live, people join your room and donate. Simple as that. I've dated two cam girls, I know a lot about how that works and while most girls aren't making …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:29 AM
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Then sell a product you believe in and only sell to people who need your product.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:27 AM
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Fwiw being a stripper seems shitty too. At least you wouldn't have to deal with perverted men putting their grubby little fingers on your waist. I enjoy sales when I've worked in the field. But I also enjoy being persuasive and overcoming objections.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:26 AM
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Fellas, I have an answer to a question I've been asking for a long time. SALES is the closest we can come to compare and compete with women being strippers or doing OF. In sales you have almost unlimited earning potential and what you put into it is what you get out of it. Of course OF is easier, but that is the difference between men and women since we already know women are the privileged and pampered gender. But still, I wonder if the "sex work is real work" crowd would consider sales to be u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:14 AM
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As a straight male with another specific characteristic I am seen as evil and the enemy and I have seen countless instances where I am treated with prejudice for putting in effort into things. For example when I was in college I worked my way up to editor of my school newspaper, but not without much active resistance from the girls club that was already in place. Thankfully the editor in the highest position wasn't involved in all that nonsense and gave me the promotion based on my work ethic an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:56 AM
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Feminism has overstayed it's welcome and is now focused on disenfranchising men. There is no such thing as the patriarchy, but what gets referred to as the patriarchy is entirely necessary for society to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:07 PM
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Eating canned oysters for the health benefits. This is the first time I've ever had oysters and I'm not sure what I think about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:42 PM
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That is funny. It's like even when guys try to get in on the game they still fumble it. Why are guys consistently so bad at this lol It's like they lack the emotional intelligence to connect with someone and get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:12 PM
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Let me try to explain it. I'm fully aware my logic is likely toxic, but I struggle to see any other point of view. So, when I was 14 or so I always had the Disney belief that I would meet a girl and we would get married and we would be each others first for everything. First love, first kiss, first time holding hands. It wasn't malicious, it just seemed so much more pure and magical. I realized though over the course of the next couple years this is likely not possible. What I saw instead was a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:05 PM
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What you're saying doesn't make sense. The chances weren't any better back then if you're getting rejected. I think you're trying to red herring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:36 PM
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How old are you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:30 PM
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You mean the ones that were smart enough to not let you know they were obsessed with your virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:30 PM
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No, but to think you could "just start dating" in high school as a man is laughable. A lot of us don't have a choice like women and young girls do. If we're repulsive to women, there is little we can do to change that without putting in a lot of work which tends to have results in your late teens/early twenties depending on how early you started. For me I started making changes when I was 14, really hit my stride by 17, fell off for a bit, and came back around 23 and was slaying. I couldn't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:28 PM
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Depends. But I have a feeling when you say fat girls you're talking about the ones with big tits, low cut shirts, and extroverted personalities. If you go for the greasy, dumpy looking ones then maybe. You can always help them clean themselves up and maybe get an attractive gf out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:25 PM
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Having girly interests is only bad if you are a fat beta. As a fat beta, feigning interest in girly things has gotten me laid a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:22 PM
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Why didn’t you start dating someone when you were in high school Women really don't get it. This is like Jeff Bezos level of whatever the word is when a rich person doesn't get what it's like being poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:21 PM
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tbf I think some girls might like that set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:20 PM
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Why don't men just make the first couple dates something free or low cost? Obviously these men aren't attracted to the kind of women who expect to be paid for, so why do they continue to chase after those women? I mean I know the answer, because we're desperate and don't have the freedom to be picky the way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:19 PM
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Q4Men: Do you think having some girly interests is good for men to attract women? Q4Women: Do you think a guy having some girly interests is appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:16 PM
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No, because you're going to chase after the cosplayers with good genetics that have a horde of thirsty, desperate orbiters. You're going to think a conventionally attractive women is unaware of how attractive she is because she is in a community that is typically associated with being a loser. You are not in these women's league and they surely are not virgins. Also, anime is a male dominated community. Find something that women like and be one of the token men in that domain. Like if I talk to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:12 PM
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I want to write a screen play or some short stories, but it is the one form of art that I see no purpose in. Like if you make a song, a painting, take a photograph, etc. it is more of a passive sort of media where there is less participation required by the observer. But to write relies on someone actually putting in time and effort to read your words. I took a stab at poetry, but aside from one club I attended once in college, there really isn't an audience for this kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:38 AM
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You have a son? Virgin Mary pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:31 AM
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One man's cringe is another man's based. Also, it's "couldn't" care less. To say you could care less implies you could, in fact, care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:30 AM
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Who are you trying to convince sweetheart?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:40 AM
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You're not the type of girl this routine is meant to work on 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:40 PM
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Nobody has to, but I cured my inceldom with this routine, so it will be read by those who need it most.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:59 PM
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Ok, I promised the routine a while ago, I'm going to drop it. Send a girl a DM, say "hey, you seem cool and I wanted to introduce myself" make small talk for a little bit. Say "I have to [something that shows responsibility like picking up your nephew from little league, you don't have to even have a nephew, just say it] and say, "you can message me on [text/kik(or whatever the equivalent is nowadays)/snapchat]" and give them the contact info. Make small talk for a couple days but get increasing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:45 PM
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Rationally, yeah, he is shitty. However, women have pounded it into our heads about entitlement, how the friend zone isn't real, about not oweing anyone anything, etc. So while as a man, I have a much better concept of fairness than women do, women have made it clear they are not concerned with fairness unless it impacts them. Women make the rules that men have to play by. Don't get mad at us for adhering to the rules women make.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:31 PM
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I really like that channel. Did you see the one where he snuck into the soviet hangar?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:55 PM
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Just made this dressing: https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/218337/our-favorite-balsamic-vinaigrette/ It's pretty good. I omitted the salt entirely, I put some of it on a handful of arugula along with some shaved parmigiano reggiano and it's a really delicious, healthy, and simple recipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:49 PM
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nah, disregard rules 1 and 2. Rules are meant to be broken after all. Really, the only way to be successful in dating as a man is to not give a fuck about women or their feelings. Just approach them and if one likes you, cool, you got your +1, now move onto the next while keeping the last one warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:51 PM
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I realized the other day it has been about a decade since I last heard, "If you got time to lean you got time to clean" So thankful for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:43 PM
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Get a few dozen under your belt. Lie and cheat. Get it out of your system. It helped to cure my depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:36 PM
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I hate when that happens which is why I very rarely do anything. Or you go somewhere and the host is there, but you're the only person who shows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:33 PM
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Sorry if this seems rude, it isn't directed at you, just something I've noticed and your comment reminded me of it. Something I don't get about people who want certain careers in the arts is they think it is all or nothing. If you want to be an actor, you have to be an A list celebrity, if you want to be a musician, you have to be in the billboard top 100 or on the cover of rolling stone. If you want to be an artist, you have to have your work showcased at MOMA. You can still have a career in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:32 PM
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Honestly, this is how men should act. Too many men are desperate for women though. "Thank you for the two dates" is so based.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:11 PM
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But they think they are. So if their behavior is excused, then the incel behavior has to be excused too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:55 PM
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Makes sense. Fwiw, I think most of the men here are wrong too. Maybe I'll delete and come back and be more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:13 AM
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I think it definitely comes down to physical traits. The first one being thin and lanky allows them to be more eccentric. The second one has a much more mature vibe and the clothes don't really fit/accentuate right. Like the collar is too big and sloppily peaking out of the cardigan. She also has a certain timid shyness and anxiety about her it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:12 AM
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watching you watching me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:57 AM
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body type and physiognomy. That is all it comes down to. Do you think that person pulls it off? Can you show some examples of someone who doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:56 AM
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That one actually does have a lot of reviews, I figured it had to be with how private and nondescript they were trying to make it look.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:45 AM
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gotta make an account to read the reviews
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:39 AM
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I don't know if I've ever met anyone named Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:31 AM
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It's just some woman getting her Carrie Bradshaw on, nothing important to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:30 AM
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Funny. Now women are using the word so it's suddenly acceptable and empowering. They knew all along what people meant by "alpha" and "beta" they just chose, like women often tend to do, to gaslight and act in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:29 AM
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There is a business in my hometown that has black plastic over the windows and the door, and a sign that says "SPA" in neon lights. What are the odds this is one of those thai massage parlors where they give you a hand job?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:10 AM
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Bro didn't even have the common courtesy to take you to a brothel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:08 AM
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I'm making fun of myself when I say that because that is the kind of things women say to men. I know the things I say are often reprehensible, but I truly believe like 73% of what I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:08 AM
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I was for 5 years. I'm not anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 01:06 AM
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Yes. at the beginning of the pandemic I was a vegan feminist ally who unironically was a Stalin apologist. Now I'm in my miserable little man era.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:49 AM
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Nope. Of course someone struggling with this would talk about the issue they're struggling with. Either what you're saying is in bad faith, or you're purposefully deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:24 PM
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I have questions, are you bitter because you don’t have sex or are you bitter because you are lonely? Women are willing to be friends with just about anyone and you except when there are expectations beyond friendship. How would you feel if you were married and your husband never wanted to have sex with you again? I know first hand girls freak out if you deny them sex. It isn't one or the other. A friendship, especially between a man and a woman, can only go so far in regards to intimacy. Would …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:18 PM
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Are you joking right now? This is such a blue pill deflection. Even if guys were to be selfless, it wouldn't change anything, right? The issue isn't the mends capacity to give love, it is the ability to have love reciprocated that is the problem. Of course that would be the problem they want addressed. And if a guy talked about how selfless he was, he would be told "nice guys aren't actually nice" It's a lose lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:15 PM
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they blame women. Prove this. Red pill is about self improvement to become a "high value man" to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:13 PM
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Very well written. I think this is also generally why men are drawn to movies which women love to point out "it's satire! The director is actually a trans radical misandrist, the movie was meant to make fun of men!" Becoming Patrick Bateman or Tyler Durden is really one of the few antidotes to the struggle that men face. The female satire component ignores the reality for men. We can't just give up the way women do and fall ass backwards into a successful sex life or rise up the corporate ladder…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:12 PM
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It really isn't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:28 PM
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You literally said "the men don't look that good either" Freddie looks better now than he did on the show, you just don't want to admit it because "society is so cruel to women"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:21 PM
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Freddie looks better, don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:49 PM
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For reference <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:47 PM
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He was the older brother, so yes, he is older.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:43 PM
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She still looks attractive, just older and supposedly had a very stressful and toxic life. Also, it looks like she might have had a nose job when she really didn't need one. Not to mention the photo of Nathan is done by a professional photographer. Jerry doesn't look that great, and the interview you showed I am sure she is sitting underneath harsh, hot studio lighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:40 PM
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Who is the Gen Z Barney Stinson? Something I notice is the idea of becoming a womanizer someone who is good with women doesn't exist anymore. People seem to believe everything is deterministic and that it either happens or it doesn't and you have no control over the outcomes of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:37 PM
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I wish my dad wasn't dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:33 PM
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Bro, the number of girls willing to let you smash without a condom is mind boggling. I've even been TOLD not to wear one because it FEELS BETTER for BOTH of us. I have a controversial belief, but I truly think if you're just messing with girls from the suburbs or higher, the chance of getting the big one is very low. Other than that you can just get a round of antibiotics if your peepee starts itching like a bald man wearing a toupee in the Louisiana summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:33 PM
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This comment is so red scare podcast coded
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:27 PM
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Or maybe the reason there are no super short guys in a lot of people's friends group is because super short guys are incredibly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:26 PM
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This is why I say you should text a lot before meeting up. Every time I'd meet a girl for a coffee date it was always "I just didn't feel a connection." But if I was talking to a girl for a while through text, we had already exchanged nudes and stuff like that, and then the first time I meet her we're 👀👀 it works out a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:21 PM
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How is that "what they get" when it's women encouraging this behavior for profit. You are against SW, but you're disagreeing with me because of your contempt for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:43 AM
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I find british accents repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:08 AM
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Just about everyone who bullied me in some way in my childhood is either overdosed, committed suicide, or they're in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:23 AM
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wtf is analog horror? Like found footage films?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:18 AM
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I have pretty severe ADHD and I find I can outperform other people by working in 20 minute blocks. I know that technique suggests longer working periods and shorter breaks, but setting and alarm every 20 minutes helps me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:18 AM
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I let some of my misogyny slip out tonight. I returned some stuff to the mall and when I got back in the car I was telling my wife about it and she asked what the cashier thought and I ended up saying something along the lines of, "I don't think he really cared, he probably hates his life having to work with all those women" And she asked what I meant by that and I told her that I'm sure they're rude to him because he looks dweeby and women are generally awful to work with especially to men they…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:15 AM
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Two thoughts. Guys saying don't ask for consent and just go for it are either inexperienced with women, socially inept, or strike out a lot and think their successes are indicative of something greater than they are. There are also lots of ways to ask for consent that isn't "would you like to participate in a sex with me?" Anyways, the reaching for her hand and guiding it onto my pants thing never worked as well as verbally getting some kind of consent. You can be playful about it too, it can st…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:12 AM
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Too many to really list. If I could only listen to twenty artists for the rest of my life, I think this would be the list I'd be happy with. Bright Eyes, Brand New, The Faint, Purity Ring, Kanye West, Drake, Alvvays, The Smiths, Joy Division, Silverstein, Saosin, Lorde, Touche Amore, La Dispute, From First to Last, Miike Snow, YACHT, Citizen, Title Fight, My Bloody Valentine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:06 PM
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Based. MBV is a band my partner and I bonded over early in our relationship. Also Brand New. We always wanted to start a two piece shoe gaze band to just fuck around if we ever own a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:57 PM
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Don't ask, don't tell. It's safer to assume any girl you're involved with has 30+ bodies until proven otherwise. This fact alone should give you license to spin plates until the situation makes it absolutely necessary not to. It's up to you to determine when that is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:53 PM
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I have an eating disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:20 PM
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I wish it was that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:11 PM
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Yes. Intuitive eating doesn't work. The compulsion to eat will always be there. It really is like a drug addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:11 PM
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Something I struggle with is tracking calories in what I make for dinner since those recipes tend to be more complex. I'm thinking really hard about how to do it. I think the trick is to take note of the weight of the vessel it will be cooked in. Measure all the raw ingredients. Make the meal, then measure the cooked food in the serving vessel, then subtract the vessel and divide by however many servings. Another thing I've wanted to do is make a curated cookbook of recipes I most frequently use…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:02 PM
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I’d maybe suggest slowing down and maybe your trying too hard? Just be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:43 PM
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Sounds like your mom needs to learn about entitlement. Good for your dad fulfilling his own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:05 PM
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I would cringe so hard if I heard that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:04 PM
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Don't forget to lay your jacket down over a puddle for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:03 PM
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If someone is truly poor, it is pretty easy to get out of that. The real problem is there is an odd limbo between being poor and financially stable. If you're poor enough and disabled, you can get welfare which isn't a lot of money, but with government subsidized housing, food stamps, and medicaid you have all of your basic needs met. The problem is when you start making too much money to continue to get those benefits but not enough money to support yourself. And they go by gross income. So let…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:00 PM
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I think 2 is the most likely. But also the fact that porn provides variety where as a stable monogamous sex life does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:02 PM
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Not my type at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:06 PM
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This is probably the first Chris Williamson podcast episodes that isn't terrible. https://youtu.be/XieCU9nzrl8?si=cmREJnyEnZahyxmH
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:00 PM
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I wasn't saying it to you. That comment was for the boys. Besides, when have I ever talked about random people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:53 PM
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I think I could. There are at least two girls here I think I could legitimately pull. I think there are a couple others I could pull if I was trying to personalitymaxx (virtue signal) I think there is at least one girl who would date me so I'd be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:48 PM
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I accidentally drank from one of my pee bottles one night. I also will admit I have pee bottles. It isn't from laziness, it is because I don't want to get up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom otherwise my cats will think I'm up and start bothering me and I don't want to disrupt my sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:46 PM
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Now let's see Paul Allens face
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:25 PM
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We couldn't afford video games, but my experience was no better. I feel you on the whole things would be better to drink and do drugs. Shows like Euphoria try to be dark and sad, but honestly there experiences are way better than a lot of ours. Part of the reason I'm so immoral, I want to experience the bad things because getting caught cheating or hurting a girl emotionally is way better than being a virgin or unwanted in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:07 PM
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Really? Why do you think so low? I agree, his strumming is too harsh and it sounds computer generated or something. Like the strumming is too perfect, for something like that song the strumming needs to be softer and feel moodier almost like you don't actually want to be playing the song https://youtu.be/p4cJv6s_Yjw?si=XdO4GvTzxRPy4CZI
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:54 PM
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Didn't realize it was a cover. My bad. He would do fine, the goatee isn't a good look for him. He looks tall, has thick eyebrows, good hair. The cover is spot on actually. Fwiw, I like his cover better than Elliott Smith for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:51 PM
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It feels like an existential rejection. You're not good enough to do this thing virtually everyone else seems to be able to do with ease.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:47 PM
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GTA 5 soundtrack was so solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:33 AM
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Is your mom hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:31 AM
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Yeah, I've been seeing a lot of stuff about that too, but for me a bowl of cereal and a high protein meal replacement shake keeps me full for a long time without being super high in calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:30 PM
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That is what I've been doing, but I think they're catching onto me 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:29 PM
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Yeah, some do. I stole a pair of nikes from the lost and found when I was in high school once and they definitely boosted me up a noticeable amount. Interestingly they also helped me run the mile faster. It felt like I had springs when I was running as opposed to the skateboarding style sneakers I'd usually wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:18 PM
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lmao, but when women say they deserve to be loved, that isn't entitlement? bffr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:14 PM
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How often do you eat cereal for breakfast? What is your typical breakfast and how many times a week do you have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:07 PM
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Why is Gen Z so hell bent on repeating the mistakes of the 90s. There is a reason people moved away from all those tacky fashion choices. Thick filled in eye brow supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:02 PM
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tragique™
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:50 PM
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Yes actually. My partner and I really want to see a moose in the wild. Every fall we vacation and spend time in an area populated by moose, but it has been three years and we still haven't seen one yet. I just saw my first buck for the first time this year. Had big antlers and was eating with a female deer. I saw a couple other bucks about a month later, but their antlers weren't as impressive. Still cool to see though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:49 PM
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I think I may have told her once, but I don't think she was doing mommy JOI at that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:46 PM
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In what way are you Sylvia Plath pilled? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:45 PM
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Not really leaving as revenge. Leaving because I have self respect and dignity. And so what if she was a virgin? Don't feminists say virginity is a construct or some nonsense? If we're in a relationship the least we could do is have sex, but if you're clearly into other men more than me, then I deserve to be loved. If she wants to prove her love to me, then I would be willing to entertain that and see if she can make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:41 PM
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That is a valid thing to be upset about. I'd break up with her after having sex with her of course. She obviously likes the other guy more than she likes me, and I deserve to have someone who truly loves me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:35 PM
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I lost my v card to a girl who reminded me of a young Mila Kunis 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:31 PM
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I am obsessed with young Larkin Love because she reminds me so much of my wife when we first started dating. Honestly, the small view of this image I could easily mistake it as a picture of her. This is probably my ideal look for women. ​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:29 PM
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What is unreasonable or unrealistic about this? I'd say it's about as reasonable and realistic as women proportionately wanting a man over 180cm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:11 PM
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Yeah, that filter did my dirty. I am going to suffer about 3 more twin deaths over the next 30 years. It isn't looking good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:10 PM
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Should I tell my boss that I have an urgent bowel movement everyday right around the time work starts? I am pretty sure I have IBS, but I got to work early today thinking the bowel movement would happen earlier and here I am 3 minutes before work starts and I feel it coming. First of all, it's gross to talk about that stuff in person, and second of all I'm scared they'll think I'm making it up. I work from home so I guess I could just work for a while in the bathroom or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:58 PM
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There is nothing to be upset about this. He has a preference. He isn't expressing frustration at women for his preference. He isn't entitled. He is aware that he is finding it difficult to get matches in his preferred age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:55 PM
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Feminism is a sort of religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:10 PM
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That is the thing I don't get about atheists. They never dislike religion, they dislike the people who practice the religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:07 PM
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Bro paid the fanum tax. #skibiditoilet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:05 PM
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I think feminists should offer men something similar to indulgences. Like you donate to vera house or something and then you're forgiven for hitting on your 19 year old sister in law.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:04 PM
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You do realize women have a considerable advantage, right? I challenge you to provide valid ways in which men have the upper hand when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:00 PM
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check out r/gooncaves and you'll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:58 PM
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Cheating is valid male dating strategy. Check your privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:57 PM
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Probably wouldn't be dating anyways then. That is legit mental retardation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:15 PM
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So just to be logically consistent here, you think women are responsible for the abuse they receive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:59 PM
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They remove everything that might lead to a good casual discussion. Just post it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:41 PM
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You're ignoring the fact that those women are viewed as innocent victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:40 PM
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Depends how mentally disabled. I am average height and mentally disabled, so I'd be happy to be taller if I maintained my same amount of mental disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:36 PM
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That is up to you/them. I'm not the one claiming patriarchy exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:47 PM
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Show us an example so we can give better advice 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:35 PM
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"AWWWWWWW my calculus teacher just became a father Omgggggg"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:35 PM
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Q4Feminists: I don't believe the patriarchy exists. Prove to me it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:28 PM
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I wouldn't. But if I did, I would try to appear high status. Entice her with something lucrative like a modeling gig. Tell her she isn't like anyone I've ever met. Find a way to exploit her insecurities and satisfy her life desires. Find a way to seem like the person who can "make all her dreams come true" then once I get her hooked, I will take it all away and then string her along so her need for me grows stronger. But really a girl like that isn't worth the effort. Why do y'all stacy chase an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:22 PM
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Baseball, my ideal position would be bench.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:13 PM
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Right on. Personally for that I'd use different symbols and different colors for different things. Sorry I couldn't be of more help, but I'm sure there are some subreddits that could offer more advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:37 PM
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Probably look up stuff in the fountain pen community. I improved my handwriting in high school by just sheer will and using mechanical pencils. I wrote small, slow, and deliberately. I used to be an idiot, but I "dated" a girl who was in AP classes and then she stopped talking to me because I was an abusive, depressive, incel, but I admired her so I started caring about school and putting in effort to seem like a smart person. I think as humans we can will into being and construct any existence …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:12 PM
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I'm fine with it as long as I'm able to participate in it, I'm resentful about it if I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:08 PM
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The definition of bluepill delusion. You have to purposefully lie to yourself to act like you don't get what that picture is representing. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:05 PM
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Not being able to handle stress rationally is a bad trait. Leaving someone because of an inconvenience is disgusting. Being emotional over losing a job is fine, but dwelling on it and not dusting yourself off and getting to work finding another job isn't good either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:58 PM
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The only time I've been consistent with weight loss is when I did it to get laid. I would legit watch porn and be like "I want to look like that guy" and think about sex to motivate my workouts. Then I started having sex regularly and stopped caring about working out. So it is a double edged sword, and the issue is that if you lift for girls, what are you going to do when a girl rejects you? I see both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:52 PM
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One doesn't have to be better than the other. They're both bad. If you suddenly can't function and have a breakdown because your klonopin isn't able to be picked up for a few days, are you really doing any better? I've thought about getting treatment for my ADHD, but it isn't worth it the way I've seen people go crazy because their medication is delayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:50 PM
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Not in vivid detail, no. Tbh I don't even prefer naked bodies, I like a little mystery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:09 PM
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Every somewhat attractive girl I see I imagine all the things I would do to them. I imagine them being submissive and docile for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:04 PM
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Source: have worked with people who have emotional issues. Psych meds are over prescribed and the person becomes dependent on them. Most of their issues are because of environmental and social stressors, a pill is just an expensive bandaid that gets dangled in front of you like a carrot meanwhile you have to pay a psychiatrist to keep prescribing you them. It's so clear how fucked up and useless medication is for mental health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:02 PM
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psych meds are useless and hurt more than they help.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:42 PM
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"Your worst sin is that you've destroyed and betrayed yourself for nothing" Something dawned on me in the middle of the night, what am I doing with my life openly hating women online? I have a wife that cares about me deeply. I care about her with all my heart. I'm spending my time being frustrated online by women and strangers I am not even trying to attract. I don't know them. Why am I letting their opinions and misery dictate my mood? If heaven and hell are real, why am I throwing my life awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:18 PM
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It would be more reasonable to have standards regarding butt shape and size, or breast shape and size. The first girl who ever showed me her boobs in person, I said they were uneven and she had a breakdown lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:10 PM
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And you still think women have it worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:10 PM
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My partner and I have been hearing this song we thought was Justin Timberlake. Turns out the song is by some guy named Jungkook and Jack Harlow. Anyways, he sounds just like JT.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:44 AM
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lol what post some of these videos please. I've just been watching videos of people dry brining, spatchcocking, or deboning them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:43 AM
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Oh and all the girls who I'd add on MySpace that would message me like "do I know you?" Can't believe I didn't realize that was their way of trying to start a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:38 AM
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And then there was the girl who would try to get me to ride my bike to her house at 1AM because her mom was a nurse and worked all night but I was too scared to go out that late.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:37 AM
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And there was the other girl I would skip class with and make out. She would say sexual things to me like "I wish cum came in different flavors" and she was one of two girls who used this line "there is something I want to say to you, but I want you to say it first" both times I just played dumb but it is so clear they wanted me to say I liked them. At least the second girl who said that to me I was actually sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:36 AM
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Then there was this other girl that would talk to me on AIM and be like "I had a bad dream, can you walk me to class and hold my hand tomorrow?" and I would thinking we were just friends. Stupid stupid. Why was I so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:34 AM
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When I was in high school there was a girl missing an arm who had a crush on me and she would make my dick rock hard, but I was too self conscious to arrange a hang out. So many fucking instances like that I regret. There was also a girl on my bus and another girl who would wait for me in the lobby in the morning who wanted my D but they weren't my type so I said no. There was also this other girl that I just didn't like how she dressed and she would follow me around like a shadow. It's wild bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 03:32 AM
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What pill are fuckboys? Most of these guys definitely don't match the description of chad and they really don't have any status. Most of these guys just lovebomb and cheat. Not really red pilled though. That is my problem with the red pill, it just doesn't exist to this extreme in the suburbs I grew up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:46 PM
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No. Take the weasel pill and just DM randos and lie about how popular you are or how family oriented you are. Just have to keep the facade up long enough to smash. I'd always tell girls I matched with I'm watching my nephew. I don't even have a nephew, but it makes me sound like a good guy. If anything having a big social circle hurts because you have to worry about them cancelling you or humiliating you or judging you for who you hook up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:41 PM
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Teezo uses the metaphor of “dogs” whilst paraphrasing the famous saying “Boys will be boys”, meaning that you can expect from boys a behavior peculiar to boys. In the song’s context, Teezo alludes to staying out late at Delilah—the nightclub located at 7969 Santa Monica Blvd, West Hollywood, which Drake raps about throughout the track—and potentially hooking up with women other than his significant other. Teezo asks his partner to metaphorically, and quite literally, “leave the door open” as if …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:40 PM
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I'll just go to planned parenthood and get some antibiotics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:38 PM
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What do you mean? "they’re actually talking about the low average guys but are in denial." What that person said could apply to any guy really.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:19 PM
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Dogs will be dogs though we may roam leave the door open tonight I'm coming home
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:18 PM
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The problem with gastric bypass is that it doesn't solve the relationship issues with food. Sure, you might feel full faster, but if you have that constant compulsion to eat you'll just stretch your stomach back out. I would consider trying ozempic, but I think therapy, meeting regularly with a nutritionist, and keeping a food journal is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:48 PM
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ohhh, are you saying is there anyone under 30 who likes the band journey?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:45 PM
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They honestly do. I always thought about this when they talk about being scared of men. Like I'm scared of men too. It doesn't mean I'm scared of all men, just some that have an aggressive or intimidating vibe which honestly are very few and tend to exist on the fringes of society. They'll say "90% of crimes are committed by men" and it's like, ok, but what percent of the population is actually committing crimes? Also, what about the fact that racist people will bring up the 13/52 thing. The log…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:44 PM
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I have no clue what that is, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:39 PM
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and now the government is taking 238.47 from your paycheck every month 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:35 PM
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When you're hitting it from behind and she starts pushing back on it <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:34 PM
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Yeah I had typed out a response saying women are more obsessed with harley quinn than men but deleted it because I couldn't word it right. It is like some personal hero for girls that have BPD and view themselves as victims but also view themselves as rebellious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:27 PM
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Only above the eyebrows though 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:26 PM
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Is it? I'm very vocal about the fact that my preferred haircuts for women are straight bangs or french bobs and that seems to be received pretty well. Also that I like girls with thick drawn on eye brows and fake lashes. I think women like having their hoeness encouraged. I'm like a cheerleader for these thots 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:24 PM
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She has a weird mouth. I don't like their style/fashion sense. It's that whole swaggy instagram thing or whatever it is called now. They tend to be shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:22 PM
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And yet women refuse to think that way when they download any of the dozen dating apps available to them. So why should I put all that aside when meeting a woman in person? If women will look past their filters when meeting me in person, then that shows I really am a catch, so why should I then settle for someone who otherwise wouldn't have given me the opportunity to prove myself? Secondly, why should I have to prove myself when other guys don't? If, as a man, I have to put in all of this effor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:24 PM
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What assumptions do they have? Pawg is just a girl with big hips and ass but not in a BBW way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:47 PM
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Yeah, I don't see anything illogical about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:46 PM
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They are though. How are you going to say your experiences are the only real ones and the rest of us are making things up?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:44 PM
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Single moms either raise anxious attachment style men who are perpetually single, or they raise sociopathic men who typically are not. I was raised by a single mother who married a man in prison for murder. The contrast of abuse from my step dad and total admiration from my mother allowed me to be the selfish, entitled, arrogant, manipulative piece of shit you see today. And personally I wouldn't want it any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:41 PM
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It isn't even about the photos, it is about the fact that women set their filter to 6'+
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:22 PM
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I guess you're right. I just stick to the FYP and then I get angry and fight with people in the comments. I don't really search for anything. I guess I should search more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:21 PM
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I'm watching this YouTube video and the guy is suggesting men delete dating apps because most women are looking for a man who is top .32% and he suggests men instead put themselves in situations where they have to talk to women more often. My question for people who advocate for that is this, assuming women really are as shallow as TikTok and Tinder show, why would you want to meet someone in person who otherwise wouldn't be attracted to you? this idea of building a relationship with someone tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:18 PM
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It isn't though. My TikTok algorithm has fucked with my mental health. I'd rather have cute animal videos, cooking content, self improvement, music content, and art stuff, but for some reason it wants to give me shit about the israel palestine conflict and why men are so awful and black pill stuff. I didn't even know who Sean O'Pry or whatever Lachowski was and I don't care about that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:59 PM
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Something I've been thinking about is that I definitely objectify women. Porn has influenced a lot of men to put women into different categories. You see a woman and it is like ok this is a pawg, a milf, a teen, etc. Now rationally, I will concede with the feminists that this objectification is wrong and it doesn't allow women to have their own identity through the male gaze. I'm seeing these women as porn categories and not as human individuals. BUT, the issue remains that these women exist so …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:55 PM
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give some anecdotes of how they hated you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:48 PM
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Because human experiences aren't that different from each other. We're all being radicalized in the gender war, our algorithm is leading us in separate directions though. Men with beliefs like mine are just as valid and true to our reality as your beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:48 PM
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It's so funny, I've been the chad in that situation so many times with guys being like "of course you'd choose the cute asshole guy over me, girls always do this" And it's like my brother in christ, I have been rejected by so many women. I'm not special, she just doesn't like you and she likes me. It happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:40 PM
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No they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:38 PM
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The internet and being on TikTok.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:38 PM
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Not really. It is more like men going "I have this papercut, and it sucks." and women going "oh yeah? You think you're entitled to some kind of cash settlement for your papercut? Well I'll let you know women are more likely to be killed by letter openers so think about that. Here is this quote from Margret Atwood, or some Tweet that trivializes your problems and validates my own."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:37 PM
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I doubt they would. Go ahead and post yourself, I'll rate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:55 AM
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I want to post a pic of myself for a rating too. Tbf, I have revealed a lot of details about my life so I am pretty sure nobody here knows me. I doubt anyone would recognize you and there is no incentive for them to doxx you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:41 AM
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squirting and deserting rhymes better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:35 AM
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I just consider penetration sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:34 AM
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I just googled who he was, damn, I'm sorry bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:29 AM
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but hips and thighs and her throwing it back on my pp 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:22 AM
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hmmmmm 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:21 AM
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Don't enter social groups for the sole purpose of meeting women. As a man you have to be a little predatory and sneaky to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:19 AM
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The problem is all these guys think women want an ultra macho andrew tate type with a scar and an eyepatch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:18 AM
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I tried joining theatre and helping out with set design, but they weren't very welcoming or inviting to me. It could have just been my undiagnosed BPD though because I always expect people to dote all over me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:16 AM
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It is complicated. With the people in my grade I was a loser, but I purposefully failed all my classes to be held back a year and had a much better social life. I was a teenager right at the peak of the whole emo/myspace scene and I went really hard into that so I was able to find some sense of community. Being able to go on MySpace I was able to meet a lot of girls from nearby schools. This also helped with increasing my self confidence, but I've always struggled to attract women in person firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:14 AM
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Do you feel bad for her or the men that go to a strip club on a holiday? I feel worse for the men. She surely has some trauma in her life that makes holidays difficult, but we all do. Holidays are hard for everyone. At least she is sexually desirable and profiting from her existence as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:59 PM
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Whenever I hear the lyric in your flair, I can't help but think that is a surefire way to get a yeast infection.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:57 PM
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Pecorino romano. Several months ago I made carbonara and splurged for the good stuff and the difference is night and day. It is well worth the few extra dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:56 PM
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I had real imported parmigiano-reggiano and pecorino romano for the first time this year and I can't go back to the knock off domestic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:53 PM
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If you were comparing your girlfriend to a girl first date’s with a guy, you dont give a fuck about your girlfriend. I don't understand what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:15 AM
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"It's just a joke, jeez, calm down"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:13 AM
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It's funny, I just saw a TikTok equating the Rockefeller Center Tree to "women needing to perform" and all these feminists in the comments saying "It's so sad, she was cut down and dragged from the forest to be put on display." And now I see a TikTok of women saying the Rockefeller Center Tree is a symbol of their preferred height different in men. These two TikToks show the duality and hypocrisy of women. Their self imposed victimhood contrasted with their tendency towards eugenics and hypocrit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:03 AM
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Radfem brain rot. Women experience lust and attachment anxiety for men they're attracted to. Look at the current discourse on TikTok, show me all these women loving men. Your radfem compatriots will say that women were dependent on men for a long time, and now they no longer have any use for men. If you are a radfem who thinks women love men but men don't love women, then you are holding two conflicting opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:37 PM
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She is in her RadFem era. That is the problem with the internet in general. It is way too easy to get radicalized into either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:34 PM
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You mean women don't have a concept of love outside of physical attraction, right? Women aren't capable of love the way men are. Women only feel a combination of lust and anxious attachment style.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:33 PM
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I've said it before, but women's peak is 23 - 34. It can be pushed back into her 40s if she takes care of herself and gets properly planned facelifts, neck lifts, and botox.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:27 AM
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Nah, women just hate to see a man they have high disgust for succeeding. This is a sex life only available to women and top 10% men in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:26 AM
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lmao I wish I could laugh react on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:12 AM
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There are some good guys out there. Just don't let some fuckboy dupe you into a situation you don't want to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:12 AM
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So odd, where I grew up people started doing meth at 14 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:06 AM
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Thoughts on this hairline?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:05 AM
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I disagree. I think women are better suited to not have expectations of everything. As a man, and one who struggled with sex early in life, the ideas of buddhism really aggravated me. I don't want to suffer. I don't want to have to accept things are the way they are. Even when the counselors I saw would suggest meditation I would be pissed off because I don't want to meditate my problems away, I want to solve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:01 AM
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You say that now, but forever is a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:00 AM
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Chinese psyops like tiktok have a lot to gain from further engraining us into the gender war. Companies like Tinder have a lot to gain by making it harder to find love and more addicting to pursue it. It is like how Fox News and CNN both make their viewers dislike the other. Alexander Hamilton or James Madison or one of them said something about not wanting the US to be divided by factions, and that is exactly what is happening. A house divided against itself and the industrial revolution and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:30 AM
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They're out there, I promise. You have to apply to more national ones. Flexjobs is a good place to start. There are some facebook groups that post them too. Telehealth companies like BetterHelp, Plushcare, Romans, Hims, etc. are good places to look. Anything like that. Some companies like that are startups too so they might be in a hiring boom. I don't know about you, but not having to be around people significantly helped my mental health and the pay is so much better. I do get down on myself f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:24 AM
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If older women are going to let themselves be fetishized, it will only be for Chad. Sorry, us average guys don't get to play out our milf fantasy as easily. Maybe we can fulfill ones emotional needs and weasel our way into a FWB situation, but same rules will apply as usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:12 AM
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smoke 'em if you got 'em
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:09 AM
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The good days before wokeism ruined society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:08 AM
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I think I'm having a herpes flare up :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:07 AM
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I remember being there. You're following the same trajectory as me. Quit and get a remote customer service job making 20k more a year without having to leave your house. You'll love it, I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:05 AM
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Why is this so difficult for men? It isn't. It is just both of those scenarios we are shamed for. Even within scenario one, you admit you have to "manage feelings of jealousy." Right, so unless you're referring to bottling up your emotions, which isn't healthy at all, contemporary psychology would say you have to acknowledge those feelings of jealousy. So, in scenario 1, you acknowledge those feelings of jealousy and you're shamed for "being entitled" In Scenario 2, you are shamed because women …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:05 AM
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It has to do with female nature to dominate while playing victim. Why do women even need to get into stem? And if they want to, fine, I support that, but why do they need to be pampered or have exclusive events? They are the ones infiltrating a male dominated space and expecting special treatment. You mentioned discrimination, but are fine with all the ways women discriminate against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:14 PM
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Chadette
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:11 PM
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Women think not receiving special treatment is being discriminated against because they have an inherent princess complex. Meanwhile they'll gas each other up and be like "oh girl, it's totally fine to reject otherwise suitable men because they're 2 inches shorter than your ideal. It's the men that are the problem, not us" So like, women can make all these value judgements based on artificial criteria, but god forbid men have an industry they dominate in. No, the women want to come in and change…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:09 PM
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All men pandering to feminists are to get proximity to women. The problem is the goal posts constantly move and we're always selling each other out meanwhile women stick together and defend each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:05 PM
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Why should women get special treatment? Why do women always want to abolish these double standards but maintain the ones that benefit them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:04 PM
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A lot of people struggle with this. You can have a pleasant life without ticking all the boxes that movies and television shows make you think you have to tick. My partner and I never went to our high school prom. Lots of people didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:01 PM
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Yup. And women are out earning men and over represented in college. They can't let go of their feminist delusion because that would mean giving up their victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:59 PM
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Kanye sang, regarding Kim, "what if mary was in the club, before she met joseph, around hella thugs, cover nori/saint in lambs wool, we're surrounded by the fucking wolves." I have been reflecting on that verse for a while and it came to me that he is saying a hoe phase shouldn't be forgiven.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:54 PM
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First one. I'd be able to show him some of my old tricks and coach him into not being an incel anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:51 PM
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I want to: Wake up an hour before work starts Journal Drink 2 - 3 liters of water Stretch Lift Do cardio Work on starting a business And so on, but I just can't do it despite it all being really simple things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:24 PM
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Can you get treatment for low test if you're overweight, or would they expect you to lose weight first and see if your test levels normalize? I have such low motivation to do anything. I'm not depressed, just existentially lazy. Like I could get up to 16 hours of overtime a month, but I don't do it despite wanting/needing the money. I also can't stick to a routine or be consistent with healthy habits I would like to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:23 PM
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I'm getting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:21 PM
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Yeah, I have this issue a lot. I wouldn't go so far as to say it is autism because people overly self diagnose, but I used to be a genuinely kind and sentimental person, but people rarely reciprocate that. I've had people I work on projects with who would unfriend me after the project is done and it's like damn, I know we're not best friends, but isn't that at least somewhat of a connection we have now?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:19 PM
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show some examples, for research purposes 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:17 PM
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I don't like any of those songs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:16 PM
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idk, she doesn't seem like she is faking it. I don't think anyone is that good of an actor and I'm usually pretty good at reading people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:15 PM
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What status? If anything he has anti-status
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:52 PM
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Boogie dating a 20 year old is such goals omg Does she really like him or is she using him??? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:18 PM
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This documentary is a cautionary tale. I think this is inspiring to not fuck your life up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:00 PM
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I bet that room of boogie and his big guy friends playing cards smells so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:56 PM
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Watching this documentary about Boogie. Dude needs to sell everything he owns, sell his house, move into a cheaper house, document it all, lose weight, and make self improvement content and apologize profusely for being shitty. Then get his income back up and budget his escort funds but keep it a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:54 PM
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Tinder is a hookup app. The majority of people there are using it for validation to fuck around. Those women he is interacting with on a day to day basis aren't going to reveal their romantic nature because their role is different. To elaborate, he isn't going to learn women's true sexual nature by interacting with his teachers, colleagues, or fellow civilians. The main thing I hear guys whining about is women are too stuck up to match them. Theyre not seeing women’s romantic side if they keep w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:14 PM
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What you're saying isn't logical. Those women he is interacting with on a day to day basis aren't going to reveal their romantic nature because their role is different. Like, as an example, you are a young man, you go to see a therapist who is a young woman. It is very likely she is doing coke on the weekends and going to clubs still OR very likely she did that in college. You're basically doing another iteration of the madonna whore thing like all women are good or all women are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:23 AM
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That isn't how markets work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:51 AM
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I don't really dislike women as much as I make it seem like, but I do let some of the things discussed/shared here get to me even though I know they're isolated incidents and not indicative of women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:48 AM
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I think it is pretty common. Kind of tied up into the whole madonna/whore thing. Plus kids are stressful and time consuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:45 AM
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Because he sounds based af
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:45 AM
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You really think prostitution being a lucrative market is driven by women wanting to have sex with men they otherwise for cash?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:42 AM
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Because the men are buying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:37 AM
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That is only logical if you devalue sex to nothing more than an action.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:36 AM
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It promotes the objectification of women and perpetuates the idea that sex should be transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:34 AM
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Yours 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:15 PM
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What concert?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:47 PM
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I'm listening to the controversial Matt Healy episode of the Adam Friedland Show and it really isn't even that bad. Just sounds like how a bunch of guys talk when they're fucking around. Weird how women will push sex work is real work, then cancel men for not watching the right kind of porn. Weird though because the hosts are making way worse jokes and weren't cancelled. I'm starting to buy into this whole anti-woke stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:34 PM
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"antichoice" 💀 I never pegged you as a liberal. And I am by definition not a zealot. The only zealotry going on is those who think "abortion is healthcare." If women truly believe it is their body and their choice, then men should not be held financially responsible for a baby they don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:15 PM
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well that settles it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:08 PM
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I'm fine with answering these questions. In all honesty I love talking about myself and the attention lol. It is hard to answer if it was a lie or not. It was a line, for sure. Like in my head I knew it was a good thing to say and would lead to the outcome I wanted so I said it. I admire myself for saying it, and would use it again. I don't dislike any of these women, I do genuinely like them, but it is more the attention they give me. I like them for liking me. Some I definitely like more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:07 PM
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Like it got to the point when I matched with a girl on a dating site who had a Maya quote in her profile I knew I was smashing lol. Me with the Lana Del Rey girlies. I'm like a lion sniffing out an injured antelope with those girls and I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:45 PM
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So based on your point, abortion should only be an option in medically necessary instances approved by a doctor. I also am fine with marijuana being legalized for medical purposes. But that isn't what is going to happen, women are going to make bad decisions because they don't have to suffer the consequences of them and people will smoke weed to do whatever it is that drug users do. To party I guess. These things aren't improving society in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:42 PM
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I have very bad intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:39 PM
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Yes, it is absolutely an ego boost. Yes, one of the worst instances was when I was caught by my partner with another girl at the mall and I ended up going home with my partner and we parked in a parking lot and she cried and grabbed onto me like a child, her tears soaking my shirt, and begged me to love her. I told her, "if I didn't want you, I wouldn't be fighting for you right now, and I wouldn't have came home with you today" I don't know if I meet the diagnostic criteria, and my level of emp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:37 PM
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I am really good at hiding my true intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:32 PM
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I don't think so, they were like this <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:24 PM
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You should give yourself more credit. You at 17 are smarter than a lot of people who grew up in my neighborhood who were often high school drop outs and on government assistance. This mentality being pushed is just giving young people an out to make stupid choices. You might not have wisdom, but between 17 and 24 I had plenty of insights that have benefited my life, and even after 25 I continue to have insights. So it isn't a binary thing. People are constantly maturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:23 PM
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It is still a pregnancy, and the only people this will benefit are the people who already smoke pot, they will just be more blatant and obnoxious about their drug use.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 05:18 PM
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My second cousin married a broke guy and funded his art career and paid to get his teeth fixed. I've been unemployed and lived rent free in my girlfriends parents house, had girls buy me things I wanted. Never like full sugar baby lifestyle though. I think this happens sometimes with an older woman and younger guy dynamic like on 90 Day Fiance or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:55 PM
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Ohio I guess "codified abortion rights" and "legalized recreational marijuana" and all the leftists are celebrating, but I am definitely full republican now because all I'm thinking is, "cool, they just normalized getting high and killing babies" Anyways, I used to be cool and liberal, but I've seen what a leftist utopia looks like, and it is pretty awful. Progressivism is a race to the bottom. It is the "good times make soft men and soft men make hard times" thing. The only progressive policies…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:50 PM
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When I was in high school I'd go to the breakfast line and get a couple of those nature valley granola bars. and have them later in the day or when I got home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:44 PM
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Get one of those ice packs that amazon ships food in and pack some better food in your backpack. My partner and I would go swimming in the summer and put one of those ice packs in a cooler and it would keep our drinks and lunch cold for hours plus they're reusable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:43 PM
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I remember in my high school they tried tricking us into eating health snacks by making these carrot vending machines that looks like cheetos. This is why I don't fully believe in the whole "pre frontal cortex doesn't develop until 25" thing, because adults act like young people are stupid or like SIMS or something. Like, y'all are smart. Y'all are aware of the world around you lol Anyways, that is stupid af because I'm sure that vending machine provides a little bit of joy to people during an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:42 PM
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Like guys here aren't the same exact way? It is a gender war, buddy, gotta choose a side.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:46 PM
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Wait until you get to college and have to deal with MyMathLab 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:43 PM
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She has bipolar disorder, but we are both doing well right now so we're kind of maintaining a healthy dynamic. I'll be honest though, I take full responsibility for the fact some of her issues were probably worsened by me and it is part of the reason I've changed, but my mental process is still the same so I don't know. It is something I'll have to fight with for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:35 PM
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How does that happen? Is it your diet?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:28 PM
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Yup. I get bored if I don't have anyone giving me attention. And getting it from the same partner for the rest of my life isn't going to be enough. It's fucked up. I'm probably at least a little more narcissistic than the average person. I enjoy the drama and excitement of being caught too which means that I don't feel any guilt over it and kind of crave it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:19 PM
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Yeah, I'm just joking. I just mean having good hygiene like getting my eyebrows waxed, wearing a good cologne and a good stick deodorant, keeping my clothes clean. All that general grooming stuff that a lot of guys don't put that much effort into.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:16 PM
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Yes, absolutely. There is a photo of me from 9th grade where I had a buzzcut, was wearing baggy shorts and a plain black t shirt. I looked doofy as fuck. Around 10th grade I had lost 40lbs, started dressing in a more emo style (not what a lot of you think as emo, but more like this) I would wear girls jeans, this was before skinny jeans were popular and you got a lot of scene cred for wearing girls jeans, I would wear tighter fitting band t shirts, flannels, hoodies, carabiner dangling from my b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:12 PM
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idk bro, I've been told I look like I could be Jack Black's brother a lot. It always offended me because I'm not that goofy and he isn't known for being particularly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:00 PM
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I just realized something, I was the receiving end of a betabuxx situation. It is so weird, I don't think I'm a Chad at all. I'm too short and ugly and poor, but I've been on the receiving end of girls giving me money and gifts. I think this really does come down to game, showermaxxing, and knowing your niche market appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:45 PM
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Women are only worth being pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:21 AM
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Smells like a skunk drizzled with lemon
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:19 AM
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Well sounds like it is that person's decision to leave or stay. It doesn't really have any reflection of the persons true feelings. Regardless, life is unfair and men are already playing at a significant disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:08 PM
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Plenty of things hurt people, we can't really avoid that. As for the foundation of trust, how is it ruined? It doesn't mean you don't love the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:51 PM
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But intentionally deceiving others, and not making good on your promises to be monogamous, are just shitty things to do regardless of gender. Why though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:26 PM
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I'm not necessarily chasing fads, but it can be summed up in this John Waters quote. ​ <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:54 PM
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There might be some serious discussion around women's lack of identity. They like to call out toxic masculinity, but they haven't even figured themselves out yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:51 PM
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They just went to touch grass, they'll be back
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:50 PM
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yeah bro I'm so triggered I'm legit considering deleting my reddit account and throwing my phone into the lake
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:48 PM
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Sometimes, but not really. She is deep in her "healing my inner child" arc so I played neopets with her for a bit, but I found it boring. We both enjoy the arts so that is something we both partake in. We also both enjoy hiking and spending time in nature. She likes the beach a lot more than I do, but I force myself to go even though I get sick of it pretty quickly. Basically we enjoy the same things, but there are some things she likes that I might try but if I'm not interested I won't keep par…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:44 PM
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projection, generalizations, and not very based of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:41 PM
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nah bro, I don't want to live in the past. It isn't even anything like wanting to stay young, it is just I always enjoyed culture and what was going on, but everything is "mid" now as the kids say.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:40 PM
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I think the musicality sounds good, but her lyrics are cringe and ragefuel. My partner likes her, but she also likes Ariana Grande who I think is a horrible human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:39 PM
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This is the next generation, man. I liked her at first because that one song reminded me of early Paramore. Musically I like her, but her lyrics are cringe and absolute ragefuel. My partner likes her, but she also likes Ariana grande who is another singer that I think is a horrible human being 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:36 PM
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What do you think of Olivia Rodrigo?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:29 PM
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I feel like a stranger nowadays. I don't like any of the current fashion trends, music, or topics of conversation. Last night I checked out the Red Scare Podcast thinking it would be up my alley, but I find myself asking why I was listening to this, I'm not interested in any of the social commentary. There was a period in the mid 2010s where the music on the radio was decent enough, but now everything has this laid back california swag vibe. There are about 7 songs they play on repeat and I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:09 PM
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6 days. I don't feel too guilty about it tbh. The only reason I was doing this was to practice self control because I struggle with over eating. I was never really a coomer or anything, I just do it at night to help me sleep. I might restart. Tbh, I will restart. I think mentally refraining for several days did have the benefit of making me feel more in control of myself. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:53 PM
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I met a guy there, talked about music and stuff. Never talked about where we were from. Then I saw him on my college campus. Wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:00 PM
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Yes, I don't even remember how many girls I would sext with off of there. At least 1 I had a sexting relationship with for like half a decade lol I know that a few other girls I met there and moved it to Kik/Snapchat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:59 PM
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Everything sucks and nothing is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:42 AM
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Why are they cackling so much, nothing they're saying is that funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:41 AM
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idk I'm listening and I'm getting bad vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:34 AM
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Chad if girl, Stacy if boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:28 AM
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TikTok is probably your best bet, but accounts that don't have a lot of reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:28 AM
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Anyone here into the RedScare Podcast? I don't know anything about it, but I might check it out. Sounds like it's target demographic center left, vaguely conservative hipsters of which I would say that describes me perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:24 AM
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codependency, devil you know, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:09 AM
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idk man, like an app specifically for meeting people or an app you can meet people on?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:08 AM
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Back in the day, Whisper. Wayyyyy back in the day, Omegle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:11 AM
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let all sub-5 mendisappear from existence ​ (except your male relatives and friends) You do realize this sort of cancels out the main premise of this question, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:01 AM
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How not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:59 PM
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Not to mention the response is pretty level headed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:58 PM
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How is this rage fuel? The response is way more just than I was expecting. Ragefuel would be them pampering and enabling her. They basically mocked her and said she was being ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:57 PM
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yeah but it's women doing the lying so I'm sure they have a good reason. You know, it's only wrong when men do the things women do every day 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:54 PM
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Depends on the reason for the lie. But I've seen women say men lying about their height is an immediate break up because even if it is by an inch or two, it means they might lie about other things soooooo I'd break up with her after we have sex of course
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:53 PM
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You are a single mother whining about dating experiences on reddit. You're not really in the position you think you are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:57 PM
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omg we got some real drama here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:57 PM
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Do you think it is likewise ok for men to be non-commital? For example, you say life isn't fair, and I agree with this, but something I would like a real explanation for is why are men still expected to play fair when it benefits women? The way I see it is that men do have to put in more work than women, so for that reason we should be able to fuck around more. Obviously everyone is free to do as they please, and nobody is entitled to anything, but for this reason I don't see anything wrong with…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:55 PM
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Let people have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:35 AM
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I wear cologne when I'm by myself. I had a really low point where I made myself purposefully repulsive as a rebellion against society, but then I realized that smelling nice is just pleasant even for myself. I still strongly dislike most people, but I enjoy being clean and smelling good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:34 AM
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His standards were literally, "be intellectually curious, and have some type of hobby you engage in" And considering he is probably one of the most famous people in that space, I would say that gives him quite a bit of status. Meanwhile women are getting the ick because a guy had to stand on the tips of his toes to change a lightbulb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 03:29 PM
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height is cope for short guys like face is cope for tall guys.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 05:38 PM
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5'9.3" and I do alright. I claim 5'9 or 5'10 depending on the vibe of the girl. If I was ever back on the dating market I'd probably get inserts and claim 5'11.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 05:31 PM
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Fwiw, and I'm not trying to argue because I appreciate you being honest, but there are times when I do defend women here and call out men for their shitty behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:57 PM
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Ok, I will try to be better, I am just a very hurt person. I am a victim when you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:56 PM
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It is because men are attracted to a diverse number of traits, whereas it seems women are only attracted to a few select immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:55 PM
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That is a shame because I have a positive opinion of you and am rooting for you. What can I do better? 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:53 PM
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I thought so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:52 PM
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Exactly. My mom would always be like "well maybe the girls won't date you, but at least they respect you." What kind of consolation prize is that? It just made me envy the fuckboys even more because they were hated AND had sex with girls. It's another reason why I like that negative attention from women. The idea of being hated by a group of women who all let me sleep with them is exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:52 PM
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Give me your honest opinion about me 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:50 PM
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I've never watched Euphoria. Shows like that make me sick to my stomach. Growing up movies like Thirteen and the show Skins really wrecked me. Even Teen Mom. I never watched them, but knowing what they were about just made me feel so bad about myself. Truly it seemed like everyone I knew was having sex and doing drugs at 15 and I wasn't good enough for any of it. It's like I was this loser that wasn't good enough or cool enough to participate in the supposedly bad thing. This is a direct cause o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:48 PM
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Twilight. I'm not sure about the pirate archetype, but probably common in romance novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:31 PM
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I have a couple interpretations of this. I have an admittedly bad faith belief that women are not capable of love, they just experience a combination of lust and attachment anxiety. Men on the other hand experience love in a much purer sense. This belief aligns with what you're discussing here. However, to counter this, one might argue that men are the more lustful gender because their infatuation relies solely on attraction and disregards any context. That is, a man will love the way a woman lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:22 PM
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Age rule is so stupid and arbitrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:07 PM
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Women: It's ok that I refuse to date anyone under 6'1, it's my personal preference Also women: *absolutely triggered because men find a certain age more attractive than another age* I don't want to dislike women, but they make it so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:07 PM
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There was a remake on Netflix a few years ago. I've never seen the original, but the remake is really good and tragic. If you speak German, you could watch it without subtitles which would make it even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:05 PM
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Multiple to varying extents.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:01 PM
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Bro doesn't recognize the importance of beauty to alleviate the existential dread of the mundane. Bro is never going to make it. I feel bad for bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:59 PM
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I always thought it was cringe, and now that I'm doing it, everyone suddenly realizes how cringe it is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:50 PM
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Did you watch all quiet on the western front?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:37 PM
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"ladies" want to be marxists nowadays. They don't wanna redistribute their ass though, freaking capitalist binches.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:36 PM
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Why is nobody talking about NNN this year? I am actually making an effort to see if it improves my life at all. At the very least I think it will teach me that I am in control of my actions and I am able to practice restraint which is something I struggle with. I have no self control when it comes to some of my vices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:33 PM
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Power and control. I have a free use situation so I don't ever have to worry about a dead bedroom. Guys are insecure so they see boundaries as some kind of existential rejection of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:28 PM
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- cheat multiple times and get forgiven - live in girl's parents house rent free - fight with her parents - drive her car, have no license - always jealous of other girls being nice to me - never had money, so girls would either pay for dates or we'd go 50/50 - always at least make out on the first meeting - high school drop out - anger issues, would get into fights with strangers, punch holes in the wall - into hard kinks and rough sex I'm a chad bad boy, aren't I?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:25 PM
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Yeah, I see a lot of discussion about that, but in my area I've never paid for a woman on a date. Either they pay or we split 50/50. Even when I've offered to pay trying to be a gentleman they want to pay for themselves. I guess it is a demographic thing, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:21 PM
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Sounds like a pretty typical experience. I don't consider myself particularly attractive, but I'm happy I've been able to consistently attract women I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:19 PM
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Is being a virgin a choice or are you genuinely involuntarily celibate? What is your backstory?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:09 PM
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Women would still make it a feminist issue though. Female privilege is the inherent value women have from being able to birth children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:07 PM
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They say sex is a lot like pizza, when it's good it's good and when it's bad you get it all over your shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:06 PM
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They have to make it more important than it is, otherwise since everyone realizes it is unimportant, they will be even less likely to engage with the class.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:05 PM
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No, but I saw my step dad naked one morning. My mom and my partners parents knew we were having sex upstairs, but never walked in on us. I've never been caught masturbating, only once by my partner because where we lived at the time, there was a shadow cast on the wall and she saw me jaggin it before bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:03 PM
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You say that so disparagingly, how is that a "man moment?" 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:01 PM
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Everyone wants to glamorize the lifestyle, but nobody wants to put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:00 PM
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Respectfully, what is the point of writing if you don't have any connections? I enjoy literature and I have some ideas for short stories, but I just don't see the point since the likelihood of it ever being published, let alone read is almost nothing. Also, I know from reading the advice of some of my favorite authors that writing is almost like a chore. You have to just set aside time and write even if it is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:50 PM
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No because at my peak, I'm basically a high tier normie/chad lite and have a pretty good sized penis. In my prime I had no problem attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:47 PM
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Probably Morocco or Egypt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:44 PM
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When I was a 19 year old incel I would run a lot of experiments on OK Cupid. I always wanted to be with a much older woman. Obviously being a non chad women aren't receptive to being fetishized or a conquest. But I used one guy who was pretty handsome and messaged some older woman and was pretty forward and her response stuck with me because it was so sad. She said "we might as well since that is all anyone wants on here." Damn. I don't feel too bad though because I never got that kind of respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:41 PM
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We already know. The standards are on the floor for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:22 PM
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The girlies on TikTok have already proclaimed if an apocalypse scenario occurs, they would rather die.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:22 PM
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The texture is between milk and yogurt. It is high in probiotics. Supposed to be really good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:21 PM
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Sitting here drinking kefir Call me a mother fucker, but I never let her Talkin' Stacy, and Chad, but you're not even in her orbit Found out her n-count, had to write your own obit- -uary she's been with kevin, devin, marvin, and larry Had you up late night googling limb lengthening surgery Had you considering joining the clergy Not everyone makes it in this life It's over Alpha fucks, beta bucks, bought a bride Just to find out shes like the town bike everyone's had a ride Maybe they're right, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:15 PM
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I'm 5'9 and do pretty well in my niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:46 PM
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Saddest part is both of them turned out to be manlets. Women always reveal their true nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:45 PM
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A boxer, even better, those guys aren't known for being the biggest feminist allies lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:44 PM
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🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:42 PM
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It's complicated. He is a long time vegan and I'm trying to determine if vegans age better or worse than non vegans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:41 PM
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Oh joy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:40 PM
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I don't make the rules, sorry 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:38 PM
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This is why we gave up this look the first time around in the mid 2000s. That look only works on a very specific body type. This is the best fit for men, and this for women. Mom jeans are cool sometimes though, but not the baggy or loose fit ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:14 PM
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This person is 40. Do you think they look good for their age, normal for their age, or bad for their age? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:03 PM
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What are your goals? To maintain? Calories in vs. calories out. To gain? Calories in vs. calories out. What "visual changes" are you specifically referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:00 PM
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Calories in vs. calories out. That is all that matters. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a quack.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:53 PM
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most based takes I've seen here in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:05 PM
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This is what I have been saying since the "the brain doesn't develop until 25" crowd started drooling about their opinions everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:05 PM
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Exactly, my only issue with high n women is that men don't get to experience the same sexual freedom they do. Like another said, the power dynamic in sexual relationships is inherently in favor of women because they have more access and more opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:04 PM
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It's yours and all the other girlbosses, sis 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:57 PM
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I have heard mirror is more accurate despite being flipped. Most accurate would be a camera with a 70 - 200mm lens. Least accurate is iPhone camera in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:45 PM
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Same with seeing them simp for communism. Stalin would have had them sent to the gulag first
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:42 PM
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I'm a hair sniffer. My partner asked me why once because the only other guy that did that was her fuckboy first boyfriend. The other two guys she dated never sniffed her hair and were kind of beta cuck guys. I think being a hair sniffer is an alpha male trait for sure. I'm only being half ironic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:40 PM
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So you agree with me then, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:34 PM
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I know women aren't a hivemind They are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:33 PM
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Those are relatives. Your suggestion lacks merit and is not a viable solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:27 PM
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I am not bisexual though. The problem with your logic is that you are saying for women, men they're not attracted to are not seen as men. You see how that is a problem right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:24 PM
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Women are attracted to men Men are attracted to women. Women always gaslight with this. The equivalent would be hordes of mid women throwing themselves at us, which most men would be absolutely fine with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:19 PM
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I don't believe it to the extreme that guys posting Sean O'Pry mogging Jordan whatever his name is do. I think it is absolutely absurd to unironically believe you have to look like a male model to attract women. I believe heavily in the concept of leagues and that everyone can get their looksmatch as well as a little higher and a little lower. I believe the majority of men are of average height with no severe physical deformities. The "5'3 balding indian janitor" is such a small fraction of the …
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 05:17 PM
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Q4W: what is the equivalent male power play to this video
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:49 PM
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There sure is, but the problem is that you and I both feel the power imbalance is skewed in favor of one or the other of the competing factions. If we really lived in a patriarchal society, we wouldn't allow humor like that. Like I've always said, how can a patriarchy exist if it oppresses the very people it is supposed to protect? Women on the other hand are not bound by these limitations other men face. Women can get away with saying sexist things and disparaging men. If a group of male collea…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:46 PM
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Sorry, I had to step away from the misogyny and put on my normal guy act because I had a surprise meeting with my supervisor. Anyways, people definitely get offended at Family Guy just like they did with South Park. These jokes aren't being put in children's movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:43 PM
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Things happen. Don't be obtuse. If only the things that happen in our lives allowed us all to get into Oxford and win the nobel prize
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:39 PM
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What gives feminism it's legitimacy? Like the feminist literature just uses academic speak. It is insanely pretentious, but somehow received popular support. I saw this post on TwoX about men adopting leftist/feminist sounding rhetoric to talk about their issues and legitimatize them. I could probably find the post if I did some digging, and it's like women refuse to accept the male experience. Like, I was thinking about this, right. You have the male gaze. Today is halloween, thousands of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:37 PM
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Why is everyone always recommending these biased books that will somehow change my mind? Sad, a young girl was treated badly in the middle east. You know what though? She was also able to go on and write a book, become a household name, attend prestigious Oxford with an acceptance rate of 17.5% etc. I went to college and was constantly taught about intersectionality and white privilege and how I, the non traditional student driving my girlfriends beat up 2005 dodge neon is privileged and somehow…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:53 PM
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In the beloved children's movie Mary Poppins the children's mother says, "And although we adore men individually, we agree that as a group they're rather stupid." If this quote were said by a man and directed at women, the movie would surely be cancelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:44 PM
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Mary Poppins, beloved children's movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:41 PM
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Do you know where the line I'm quoting is from?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:54 PM
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It depends, I notice a lot of women that will be vulnerable and allow themselves to love their partner and when they get hurt they pull the incel act and say "but I was so good to him!" But I also do see people who resent their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:51 PM
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Respectfully, Islam is a religion of violence. They stone women for driving over there. It is terrifying. I think religion taken to the extreme deals with the power that women hold though, so they're kind of like fascists over women, but it still comes from the same source of women being inherently treated better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:43 PM
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It really depends on backstory. Were they all committed relationships, or was he spinning plates?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:41 PM
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She is in her "healing her inner child" arc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:35 PM
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It is all connected though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:34 PM
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Now what if a woman was to say the same, but replace women with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:25 PM
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Q4W: how do you feel if a man was to say this, "And although we adore women individually, we agree that as a group they're rather stupid."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:21 PM
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Women's primary hormone is estrogen which isn't known for causing aggression. This is my making stuff up, but I also have a personal belief that it is because girls are treated better and boys/men need to learn to be aggressive to function in society. I saw a teacher asking why boys tend to be so confidently wrong and I think the reason for that is we have to have a thick skin. It's a defense mechanism. I experience terrible rejection sensitive dysphoria, being told I'm wrong about something or …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:20 PM
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Fair enough. I guess I do tend to date girls that are traumatized and are still attached to child-like things. I think in a way I am also like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:56 PM
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I got my partner a Boo Basket. A cauldron with green fluff and plastic spiders, a Hello Kitty coloring book, a couple hand sanitizers from Bath and Body Works, a pirate dog plushy, and some candy. Am I going to get broken up with for not negging her and not acting disinterested?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:54 PM
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Big-Luck5139's idea
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:50 PM
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You never look back fondly at your childhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:50 PM
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Tbf, if you're 27, girls in their early 20s will still be in your same generation. I was involved with a few 18 and 19 year olds at 27 and we were able to bond over plenty. I'm referring to an age gape of more than 10 years. Like I don't think I could date a younger Gen Z woman because being on TikTok it seems our experiences are so wildly different growing up and that disconnect is only going to get greater.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:48 PM
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Oh damn, now that is a real monster. The worst I did was throw the toilet paper rolls into the toilet in middle school or pee on them, or that one time I tried setting them on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:46 PM
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Well someone call Chris Hansen, because I got a date at Chuck E. Cheese 🚔👮🏻‍♀️ This is obviously a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:44 PM
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Hey, you should give him a chance! My forever girlfriend gave me a chance eleven years ago when I was a jobless neet with severe mental health issues, and I can say after 7 years of my on and off cheating, followed by only one brief instance of relapse a a couple years ago while her cat was dying, it has been smooth sailing ever since and I genuinely care about here. Love conquers all 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:39 PM
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Testosterone and angst.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:35 PM
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Age gaps seem cool and all, and I'll admit I wouldn't be opposed to one in theory, but not being able to bond over the same nostalgia and childhood experiences would feel lonely and isolating. For example, my partner and I often talk about what childhood shows and movies we watched. References from Spongebob, The fact I never liked Rugrats and it was her favorite show, how comforting Arthur was, me quoting Drake and Josh, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:28 PM
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I'm about to drop some wisdom. Y'all don't appreciate me enough for how much value I offer. You want a virgin? You want some crazy sex stories to tell all your friends? Heres the secret, and this translates into other areas of life. Stop caring about it. Once you stop caring about it, and stop letting stress control your life, you can more readily enjoy things and let those things just happen. See, I've spent most of my life mentally ill, that is how I have all the wisdom I have today. I had thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:15 PM
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That isn't even that bad tbh. Only 3? What is she, a nun?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:09 PM
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Move somewhere where it is easier to find virgins and learn to be socially and physically appealing to them. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 08:58 PM
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When I was a kid, bananas would give me terrible cramps and a stomach ache. In my twenties I was able to eat banana, but only if I had it with another food like in oatmeal or something. I am trying to eat more fruit and vegetables, so right now I am raw dogging a banana for the first time in 2 decades. Pray for me, please 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:48 PM
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I will see guys that legitimately look at a girl like this online or in their college class thinking "shes got glasses and isn't dressed like a stacy, she is a wholesome nerdy girl and totally my looksmatch" meanwhile their looksmatch is actually this girl. Furthermore, "Chad" will totally hook up with the second girl, in which case these guys will be like "hypergamy!" My brother in christ, you could have dated that girl and taken her off of the dating market. You refused to date her then get up…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:47 PM
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oh ok, I get you, yeah that generation is pretty whack. They are consistently awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:19 PM
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If there was still purges, I would love this to be a thread, but you know that nobody would post pictures of themselves. Maybe they would if it was anonymously submitted though so it isn't associated with a reddit account. The other issue is who would be doing the looksmatching? Based on what I've seen, guys have no clue what their real looksmatch is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:07 PM
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These are absolutely not the same people. People just apply whatever political beliefs they dislike to their adversaries, don't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:06 PM
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the consequence is ya nastayy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:52 AM
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If you are trying to hurt me or make me laugh, I want you to know you succeeded in both. Fwiw, she probably did too though lol. I was so naive. Her sister later told me she was only sleeping with me so my mom would give her rides to work. I don't know if that is true or not because I did also cheat on her with who later became my wife so she might have been trying to hurt me. Also, she would get picked up by a "gay friend" who I couldn't meet who she later moved in with and was sleeping with. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:34 PM
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It depends. When I was 17 I lost my virginity in a closet at a shopping mall. We were standing and I was holding her up. The problem here is that I had trouble getting a hard enough erection to penetrate her so I don't know if this counts. Then when I was 21 and I had sex for the first time where I penetrated and orgasmed it was missionary on the living room floor. You cannot imagine how much relief I felt to know for certain that I was no longer a virgin and I didn't have to deal with that self…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:29 PM
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Yup, first wave feminism has a lot of merit. You know, having the right to vote, being able to work, being able to wear pants. I think they easily accomplished what they wanted to accomplish and didn't know what to do with themselves so they just kept going. Also, one could say fourth wave feminism is men actually becoming women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:21 PM
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Lame, I'm not going then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:19 PM
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I like doing it, but I don't want it done to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:17 PM
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20 and 30 something year old women: I need feminism because I should be able to have an astronomically high body count without suffering any consequences for my degenerate behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:16 PM
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Because I see on TikTok all the time droves of women defending high body counts and saying body count doesn't matter. They hold lives debating it and all this shit. If it really was just a select few, there wouldn't be a crusade of feminists trying to defend their thottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:14 PM
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Literally not what I saw in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:06 PM
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If I knew for a fact she was a virgin, I'd wait until marriage if I knew she really liked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:04 PM
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12 is still high imo, but I'd say it is pretty common for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:03 PM
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If it was so rare, then why are so many women defending it and saying "body count doesn't matter!" It seems a high body count is common place these days and almost expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:02 PM
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Only if liv will be there 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:51 PM
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Guys who think they deserve a hall pass are stupid. Just break up with her and get your number up. Guys are so desperate that they think they have to accept any woman who gives them the slightest bit of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:17 PM
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There is nothing unethical about having an affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:15 PM
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They're less likely to be held accountable is what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:14 PM
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This is true. When you really look into abuse statistics, most instances of abuse from both sides are retaliatory in nature. I experienced this too. The person will push you and push you until you snap, and then try to get you in trouble. The idea of some drunk guy wailing on his innocent wife only happens in the movies. A lot of times their will be tensions that build up until someone does something they regret. Also, women will often hit men and bully them but it goes unreported, so I'd say me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:13 PM
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If you're short, it's height. If you're ugly, it's face.
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 05:39 PM
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I don't struggle with women though. I would say being well read has actually improved my experiences with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:26 PM
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one of the lowest forms of literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:22 PM
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I agree, non fiction is good for learning facts, but in my view a good work of fiction really touches the soul as corny as that sounds. I think the main issue is the quality of the work. Like Fight Club is obviously a classic, but the themes it discusses don't really translate well to real life and people often misinterpret these works. Like someone might read/watch that and be like "that is a good critique on consumerism, maybe I should better analyze my purchasing habits" rather than a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:21 PM
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hit it from behind or let her be on top
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:09 PM
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I think you can learn a lot of lessons about humanity from fiction. The issue is that a lot of the fiction people consume just isn't very good. I remember reading a book in High School and something that stuck with me was this passage saying "If you like a girl, tell her. So many guys are going around trying to impress her by being mean, but if you have the confidence to tell her that you like her, even if she doesn't like you she will respect you more." That bit of advice had helped me signific…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:04 PM
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Ls in the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:51 PM
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You know what is brutal about this. I was watching a lot of tiktok dating lives a couple months ago and something I noticed that annoyed the fuck out of me was the guys always cheesin' and having a big goofy ass smile while the girls are just straight faced. Like, I get it, the guys are trying to seem friendly and stuff, but just the difference in reaction between this guy and the guys I would see on the lives is night and day. I mean, you can definitely get a girl to like you like that, but ima…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:34 PM
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I'm probably going to get banned soon for having an opinion. It's been real, and it's been good, but it ain't been real good. See you all in 30 days ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:29 PM
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And what would a minor be able to realistically add to that discussion? Especially considering that the red pill deals primarily with sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:27 PM
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right, because talking about casual sex and number of sexual partners with someone who turns out to be 14 is totally ok and not at all avoidable 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:23 PM
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It isn't just her. I have nothing against her as an individual, and this isn't some type of targeted attack, just that the presence of a minor in a space where we openly talk about sexuality seems like a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:55 PM
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If the mods feel it necessary to make an announcement that we should not discuss the relationship experiences of people under the age of 18, wouldn't it stand to reason that anyone under 18 shouldn't be allowed to participate in the discussions here? I mean you could say the wrong thing to someone thinking you're talking to another adult but end up committing a federal crime. It seems like anyone under 18 participating here is a liability and it is irresponsible to let them participate in this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:46 PM
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🤜🏻🤛🏼 me and bro dapping up right now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:27 PM
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Never heard AWAD, but I like it. Also, no, it doesn't have the same energy at all. How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:25 PM
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#1 fan of sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:19 PM
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I had trouble sleeping last night because I saw a TikTok that made me start worrying about the loose skin I'm going to have from losing weight. I will never get to see what my real upper limit is. I ruined my body forever. My only hope is that someday I will have the money to get the skin removed and to get a facelift and all that, but even then there is no way to know how effective that will be. I'll never get to be at my peak in my 20s or even know what that was like. It's like you are here on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:27 PM
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I don't like the numbered rating system either. I prefer the idea of leagues. Attractiveness has a lot of variance based on who is "interpreting" the beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:26 PM
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I would say I am currently a 3.5 who could easily get to 4.5 and I might be able to achieve 5.5 at least in the opinion of some women's minds but it would take a lot of work. I think my nose is preventing me from being able to achieve 6 because it is bulbous and upturned.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 02:21 PM
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Well, I am tall enough (5'9) and attractive enough (4.5 on the True Rate Me scale) to attract women that I'm mutually attracted to.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 02:10 PM
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How much do you think the endless stream of attractive people is warping our sense of what is acceptably attractive? In the mid 2000s this guy was the heart throb of many young women. Who is this guy? Who knows. I know his name is Alex, but a lot of people would use his photos to catfish. I think I might have been MySpace friends with his real account, but who knows. Regardless, at that time, this guy was the ideal emo boy. Despite this, and despite many women having fondness for his look, I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:51 PM
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The true rate me scale isn't saying men in that range are doomed lmao It is saying they are average which is perfectly fine for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:38 AM
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Do you think social media is warping your generations sense of what is attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:37 AM
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Looked at the height, it really makes you wonder, doesn't it? I take it back bro is posting his face like his reddit name ain't the lonely stroker 😭 Dude is actually pretty handsome but aint smart enough to know you gotta keep the freaky stuff private.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:25 AM
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When I was younger not at all. Now that I am older it is very important. And it isn't even about being intelligent per se, but at least having some level of intellectual curiosity. Being able to appreciate cinema and the arts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:23 AM
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What was said that made the mod announcement?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:16 AM
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prey eyes, feminine gonial angle, it's over for thirdreichcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:15 AM
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I am definitely shallow. I don't like ugly, poor, or uneducated people. I wouldn't say I'm superficial though. I'm definitely not materialistic. I just don't like scummy people or people who have nothing to offer. For example I have no interest in hanging around super models and would find them obnoxious nor would I want to hang around the Stacy bar hopping crowd because they're obnoxious as well. I would prefer to be around people who are college educated or at the very least intellectually cur…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:52 PM
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Wouldn't this be explained by the fact that men are more lenient in what they consider attractive and women are more strict? Like the two graphs intersect roughly at the medium rating, so men are messaging women that are average and then not messaging women that are below average or most attractive. Like, one could assume that for women the graph wouldn't even start until (3) on the x axis. Is there a female equivalent to this nameless and organizationless graph?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:51 PM
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I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 07:43 PM
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Pretty well actually. She has her guard down, the information about you reveals more about yourself rather than your height, star sign, and a 250 word bio. You just have to make sure you're not DMing girls whose inbox is already flooded.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:51 PM
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Nah, you're probably just socially inept. If you're 6'3 with no deformities and struggle to pull then it has to be personality holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:58 PM
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Bros got the imessage AND the chat going. I remember these days lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:55 PM
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fr fr. This is something I need to get better at doing, is implying things without actually saying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:54 PM
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But men are generally women's preferred sex. That is why what you're saying doesn't make sense. The subtext of what you're saying then is that women don't view men they're not attracted to as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:52 PM
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Good for you brother. Give us the "field report" so we can learn a thing or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:49 PM
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They all do anyways, that is why it is imperative for men to have their own rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:43 PM
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That doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:43 PM
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I don't like the numbered rating system. She is definitely in the top 20% of women though and I would not make an effort to pursue her because it would be too challenging.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:42 PM
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My range would be the legal age of consent in my jurisdiction up to 65. Although I think Leilani Lei is 70 and she is still fine af so I don't know anymore. Actually nvm, I looked her up and her age is really starting to show in her face. I think my upper limit would be 65, but it is a very select group of 50 - 65 year olds I'd still find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:40 PM
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It's better to date younger women so you can decrease their value before other men do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:35 PM
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Disingenuous, the opposite of that would be women viewing you as a dildo and tipping you well for giving them positive attention that they're starved for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:31 PM
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Yeah, both incels and vegans have that in their defense. They hold unpopular beliefs that can be well defended and often have decent evidence supporting their stance, but people refuse to argue against and instead just dismiss it. I get incels often come into discussions with bad faith, but when they do come in good faith people disregard it. I thought about making some memes mocking them for using graphs and shit all the time, but I admit I'm no better than anyone else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:21 PM
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Relative to other female servers. That is irrelevant, what is more relevant is the income of female servers compared to male servers and what opportunities do women have for tips that men don't get. Women love to discuss the wage gap or other ways they're "oppressed" but they seem to not consider it an oppression if men don't have the same opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:12 PM
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True, plus a lot of these women hate men, so why would they want to come and argue with men that might challenge their world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:07 PM
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You and me both sister
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:57 PM
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They'll twist it to say how this is actually a bad thing though because objectification or male gaze or something. Then they'll disregard that and defend OF because all jobs are exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:55 PM
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Love this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:54 PM
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What do you mean by magic touch? I found that having friends held me back. If you're a lone wolf you can control the narrative more easily and project whatever facade you want the girl to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:43 PM
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That is the exact look of a girl I would have no interest in talking to. I can read her face and I know she will make the guy jump through hoops and do all of the things that the guys here complain about. She is a Taylor Swift fan so you know she subscribes to normie beliefs and social conventions. She has her arms spread out which exudes confidence meaning she will be bossy and domineering. I can just tell by looking at her she is not a meek or kind person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:41 PM
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So did you all study STEM in college? I see a lot of people referenced engineering, computer science, software development, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:33 PM
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yeah, I've seen a lot of women that will say they're 220lbs at 5'7 but look like the pawg category. Meanwhile a 220lb guy at 5'7 is going to look like an absolute dweeb with metabolic disorder. This is why I think guys are stupid for saying if women have a height requirement then men should be allowed to have a weight requirement. First of all, you are "allowed" to do whatever you want, but mostly weight looks different on different women and weight can fluctuate as well. I think a much better r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:27 PM
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tbf, some of the guys from my hometown who pulled the most were lone wolves that everyone hated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:22 PM
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Real and based and true and accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:20 PM
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why can't people just focus on one person at a time and let things happen naturally? If she is in her 30s, she probably feels her clock is ticking. They'll never admit to it, but women date strategically from the start. If a man dates strategically he is labelled a fuckboy, but he should still play to his strengths. If they're letting you smash, then who cares? Have fun with it and make sure you're qualifying them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:47 PM
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This is what I've been saying bro. Women love to play the victim. Even now that feminism has solved all the issues they set out to solve, they are inventing new ways to be oppressed or still clinging onto things that no longer apply. I used to be a feminist ally, but I realized women will say we need feminism because in the 60s they couldn't have a credit card. I've seen the way women handle money, we were probably better off with them not having credit cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:43 PM
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Probably more like 4.5, but I guess I could round up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:41 PM
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Women go around worrying about STD testing like they're not the ones who have a higher likelihood of spreading STDs since they have more access to sex than men do. I feel like I would consider this in that gray area of rape like "come on baby, just the tip" or "if you don't do it then I'll find someone who will" but you as the old adage goes, game is game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:40 PM
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I'm a 555 man. 5'9, 5.5 inches around, and 5 figure income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:32 PM
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This place seems dead the past few days. I usually come on here for banter while I'm working, but nobody is giving me anything to work with here. I want to argue 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:25 PM
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Just delete tinder, wait a few weeks, and sign up again so you get bumped to the top of the algorithm. Or better yet, avoid dating apps and DM girls on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:12 PM
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https://imgur.com/soZ3OuP 4 - 5.5
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:05 PM
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When did this rule change? I don't see anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:07 PM
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I don't enjoy giving or receiving oral sex so I am fine with it.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 08:55 PM
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Looking at the truerateme guide, I would say I am a 4.5 and I date/have dated between 3.5 and 5.5. This seems totally reasonable and obtainable for most men i.e. you look average and will be able to attract women above and below you in looks. I think too many men stacy chase and the FYP has deluded them into thinking the bare minimum for women is a 6. What I mean by this is that men will think a 6 is a 4. I had this problem in middle school. Looking back, the first couple girls I liked were way …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 08:31 PM
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I was watching a lot of Hamza and Andrew Tate videos. I felt like I had to become a real man by building muscle, date a bunch of girls, I'm a 30 something year old that unironically likes Hamza, and this isn't at all what he says. If someone legitimately takes advice from Andrew Tate, they are an idiot though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:52 PM
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90 seconds, I got shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:50 PM
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maintaining frame is pretty red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:43 PM
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idk man, I got a lot further ryan gosling maxing than I did being a macho alpha male. But hey, if it works for you, that is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:39 PM
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James Bond is a fictional character and it is a movie/book series targeted to men. Wouldn't it make more sense to watch The Notebook or something that is actually targeted to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:00 PM
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This is an example of bad red pill advice that is rooted in some sort of fight club or james bond kind of male fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:56 PM
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Red pill self perpetuates it's own misery. They ask why women don't like them, get advice from some clueless knuckleheads that want to live out their male power fantasy, then when that doesn't work they either "get their passport," get into MGTOW, or take up fundamentalist christianity or islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:53 PM
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Don't they call each other "girlies" and "sis?" Why do they always have to take our stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:43 PM
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In my experience it's women that went from being overweight to normal weight In my experience these are the kind of women who are most likely to be faithful because they feel disgusted by the change in attention they received compared to being overweight and thin. Maybe this is true if the girl was only a little overweight, but was still thin enough to be part of Stacy circles that lack self awareness. or women that are slightly chubby with decent faces This one I agree with. Chubby girls with d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:36 PM
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Everytime I read stuff like this, I want to know where can I find a partner like that because in my relationship I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. Where are these magical women that do everything? I think the "woman who does all the labor" is a construct they pedal just like incels do with Chad. It's imaginary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:31 PM
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Always keep your love life and your personal life separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:40 PM
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He is redpill and talks about status, so yeah. What do you want to post about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:39 PM
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Redpill for sure. If he was blackpill he'd get jaw surgery and stop talking like a lepruchaun with a speech impediment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:28 PM
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What does transphobic even mean? I'm not "scared" of trans people, I just think they're playing dress up and taking hormones or getting your genitals surgically removed doesn't change your biology. I'd still smash a trans girl though, but I accept I'm a little gay for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:24 PM
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I only go on PPD in a private browsing window using an email only associated with this account. I wouldn't want to have to explain to my partner why I'm obsessed with this subreddit especially since learning how to attract women/infidelity has been a huge issue for me in the past. I mostly am here though to spread my wisdom for the next generation of young men who struggle like I did
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:13 PM
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We're both probably chronically online, I spent way too much time on Tumblr when I was in college
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:09 PM
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Hell yeah, although I would suggest a community college campus as those girls tend to be more down to party. I knew a guy in his 30s that was in community college and worked his way through at least a dozen 18 - 20 year olds. He was also a drug dealer so he had that appeal, but still bro had it going for himself. He even tried sleeping with my girlfriend lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:08 PM
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you're not going to believe this, but that is actually the video/delivery I was thinking of when I wrote that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:06 PM
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Bro, I knew the moment you mentioned Moonlight Sonata. Bro might as well been playing Chopsticks or something. I'm admittedly not too familiar with Liszt's work, but I do enjoy some romanticism like Chopin for example. I'm listening to the pieces you mentioned now and yeah, they're wonderful. It's hard out here. I have this theory/test I haven't mentioned much, but it involves taking a guitar to a college campus and sitting out in a high traffic area. My belief is that if nobody approaches you, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:04 PM
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I think that is a wonderful kink to have. Keep being awesome, although for you I'm sure it comes easy 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:57 PM
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Nah, I would approach like 10 women a day. You have to look at the male/female difference in their K/D ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:54 PM
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You can always still go to the campus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:53 PM
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DM them on TikTok or Instagram. I would never cold approach in public. I might warm approach though. Like sometimes you are around people and a conversation just starts. Learn how to create that dynamic instead of just walking up to strangers and jumping right into it. Also most women seem unapproachable because they really don't want to be approached. But I would start with just complimenting people in passing, like "I like your shoes" or "I like your sweater" see what the response is. Or just …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:52 PM
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What is your biggest kink? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:42 PM
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The funny thing is, deep down they're probably both "fatphobic"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:40 PM
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That is rough bro, thank you for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:38 PM
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They are not looksmatched lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:43 AM
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What was the moment for you that made you realize how important looks are? For me I was in middle school and I enjoyed skateboarding. I was pretty good at it too. Despite being good at it, I noticed the kids who looked more like your typical "skater boy" would get more attention from girls and people would just assume they were good where as people would assume I wasn't very good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:39 AM
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When I was a teenager and early twenties I would look at myself in the mirror way more than I probably should have. I'm 30 now and avoid my reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:09 AM
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Yes because the question "Would your mother have a body count in the hundreds and still be holding out for a 6 foot 5 investment banker to sweep her off her feet?" only applies to a pretty small but vocal minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:58 AM
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grab 'em by the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:55 AM
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Well, if it were me I'd have made her a single mom of 3 🥸
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 01:53 AM
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Not at all, I take notice of when women are unattractive, but what I am saying is that all women have the potential to look attractive. Women who are unattractive typically just don't take care of themselves or what makes them unattractive could be fixed with surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:38 PM
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Both genders look good as long as they stay in shape. Most older men look like ass. I would say that most 40+ relationships, the woman still has some sex appeal because of her body shape like round ass, big hips, big boobs, etc. meanwhile the guy has gone bald and dresses for comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:34 PM
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This is what I've been saying, 6' is the new 5'9. You can't even compete until you're at 6'1. I personally think anything over 6'3 starts to look goofy, but I don't know how women feel about that. I think the minimum now is 6'1 to 6'3. I still see guys under 6' in relationships, but who knows what the girls backstory is. She is probably ran through meanwhile the guy has only had a few relationships under his belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:31 PM
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get angry that a woman isn’t a virgin 99% of western men are rational enough to understand most women aren't going to be virgins into adulthood. They shriek because y'all will be dating, having a good time, thinking you found someone wholesome to spend your life with, and then one random Thursday night she drops "the football team story" and you know you can't go band for band with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:27 PM
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On the front page of the group, click the pencil next to preview.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:52 PM
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Respectfully, couldn't this and rule 7 be lumped into "no low effort posts?" That seems to be the real issue with incels is that they refuse to articulate their beliefs using non inflammatory language. The dating market is really unjust and for men who don't understand female nature, it seems really precarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:51 PM
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Is she a playboy bunny? I wouldn't know, and it's funny because she just looks like any random girl I'd see walking around downtown drunk on a Saturday night. I'm not saying she isn't attractive, I'm just saying that look is achievable for virtually all women. And I'm not saying she needs liposuction, I'm saying women have that as an option where they can suck some fat out of their abdomen, but keep their butt and breasts large.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:33 PM
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These statistics cannot be trusted. Either they're outdated, the sample size is too small, they're lying, or there are some with very low body counts that are bringing the whole thing down. There is no fathomable way that you truly believe men have a higher body count than women. If that were the case, we wouldn't even have a PPD, women wouldn't be on TikTok saying body count doesn't matter, men wouldn't be making high body counts such a hot topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:29 PM
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Less guys rely on surgery or makeup, so women. I'd argue the surgeries available to men aren't as effective in changing women's perceptions as the surgeries available to women. The only one is the height one, but women might be repulsed that a guy isn't a natural 6'2 or look down on him for getting the surgery in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:10 PM
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It is a struggle. I am the heaviest I have ever been. I don't know why, but I can't stop eating. I always tell myself "I'll start fresh on Sunday" but then the cravings for unhealthy and self destructive foods in excess is so strong I can't resist it. I wish I could get professional help for this, but I don't even know where to start. The thing is, in my head I have this projected vision of myself and who I want to be, but I just can't make my actions match that person. I enjoy hiking and being …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:18 AM
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That is patently untrue, enough women have body counts over 30 to show they are having a lot of sex. Hell, if it isn't 30, most have body counts of at least 7 by the time they're 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:13 AM
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Well, I think because that girl is only attractive because of make up and how she presents herself. She could also get liposuction and breast enlargement to be more attractive. She can dress up in an outfit like that and do a sexual transition and it will be received well. However with men, and that man in particular, virtually every single thing that makes us attractive is genetic. If you're not at minimum 6'1 you're already out of the running of being seen as the male ideal. If you did happen …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:12 AM
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How is me not using condoms being disrespectful? It feels better for both of us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:24 PM
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You know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:52 PM
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I don't know, I would go, I've been there twice, but it just isn't my favorite. Besides, there are tons of things I'd rather do on a first date that go out to eat. That isn't really a good first date in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:51 PM
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Insulting people who don't pass your preferences is judgmental. There is no shortage of this from women on TikTok. The thing is what women mean when they say this is that it is ok to treat men who don't meet your looks threshold contemptuously as long as you don't say it out loud and even if you do say it out loud, just denounce it and say it is bad, but do it anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:47 PM
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tbh, I don't like the cheesecake factory either. It is low class people trying to be bougie. I prefer more authentic restaurants. Cheesecake factory is like a glorified Ruby Tuesday or Applebees.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:45 PM
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post the vid please I just saw it, she looks ratchet af. Are these the kind of women y'all are trying to date while saying women with tattoos are bad? The alt girls I mess around with are way more chill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:43 PM
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AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:43 PM
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I don't use condoms, it is against my religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:42 PM
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And have affairs. Lots and lots of affairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:42 PM
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So judging men for their insecurities, i.e. posting about how tall your boyfriend is would be completely justifiable and fine, even though the subtext is saying men who aren't tall are inferior, but applying that same logic to your own gender is socially contemptible? How come then men can call other men manlets and all that, and it isn't chastised with the same vigor? See, girls are part of this little club and they only include men who meet a select set of criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:41 PM
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yeah bro, I'm sorry to shoot you down, and I guess all I have to go off of is my experience, it is just a lot of things people say work didn't work for me and it was a lot of trial and error to figure out what does work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:37 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/notliketheothergirls/comments/17cupav/i_have_no_words/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 This post bro. I wish I was good with words so I could succinctly explain why this is infuriating. -subreddit is not like other girls where they make fun of girls for being seemingly competitive against other girls -the post in question is a girl saying the guy chose her tall ass instead of some dwarf woman to ensure they have children in the NBA -the women are TRIGGERED ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:35 PM
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"You're not like other girls" isn't a good line either. There is a whole subreddit dedicated to making fun of that concept r/notliketheothergirls a better line is saying you're not like other guys. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:20 PM
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What was there approach and was it affective?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:18 PM
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I tried all that and it didn't work. I think teenagers are able to see through that pretty easily as well. Meeting them on their level worked more consistently for me. I was dating girls 18 - 23 up until 31, but now I'm more faithful so I don't bother with all of that. "You're so mature for your age" was a line I tried but it would just creep them out because it isn't like they were born yesterday. It comes on too strong and predatory. These young women are a lot smarter than people give them cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:11 PM
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There is a difference between flattery, and using tropes that clearly have a subtext. It's like saying "you sure got a purdy mouth." Maybe it's a compliment, but you know, it has certain connotations. Even if a young woman is mature for her age, that is irrelevant because women the mans own age are mature as well and it would make more sense for him to date one of them. It would make more sense for the guy to portray himself as immature and well meaning, but just doesn't click with women his own…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:37 PM
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For real, I think the best way to approach younger women is to make yourself seem as young as you can within reason, like keep up with whatever trend is happening and never. mention. the. age. gap. and only acknowledge it if she brings it up or after you know she is into you. The only discussion around age should be Her: does our age difference bother you? Him: I'm fine with it as long as you are. End of discussion. Everything else will make you seem like you're fetishizing her, which even if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:29 PM
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thus spoke u/md8716 and so it was and so it always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:14 PM
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Q4A: Who has the harsher, more unrealistic beauty standards, men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:48 PM
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I wonder if the height would have been overlooked if he had presented himself more as a boyfriend role? Sure, it sucks that women "break rules for chad" but if the guy wanted to play the boyfriend game, he would have potentially gotten the outcome he desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:06 PM
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You're not wrong. It's hypocritical for me to try to act better than anyone else when I'm here too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:14 PM
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Alright, I'm sure you will do well on it. I avoided all that because I didn't want a low score to hurt me in the long run lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:12 PM
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I would have kinky sex with my 19 year old girlfriend and sext other girls in the bathroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:11 AM
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As a man who is notoriously unfaithful, no. And the thing I want to make clear is that cheating is never the result of a deficit on the woman's end. I am just wired to crave validation from other women. The dynamic of having a wife and several mistresses just appeals to me. I wouldn't even be upset if my partner had an affair, I just hope they respect me enough to hide it. I also don't think cheating means the person doesn't love you. Humans are complex and dynamic. We have many sides to our per…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:09 AM
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tbf a lot of us didn't have this sub at her age, and our minds were still polluted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:06 AM
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I would advise not taking any of that testing and just go to a community college for your first two years. It will give you some time to explore your options while saving money without having to do any of those tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:05 AM
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I only post here during working hours. Sometimes I pop in when I'm off the clock and am at the computer for something and it astounds me so many people are still posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:03 AM
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Incels just need to be contrarian and shocking. They have no authentically held beliefs, just whatever produces the most miserable outlook.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 07:43 PM
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Yes he could, the woman benefitting from male desperation is meaningless. The chad could easily find someone who genuinely wants to sleep with him within 24 hours, where as the woman could find a guy who would sleep with anyone.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 07:43 PM
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landwhales This term is thrown around too loosely here and probably applies to anyone who isn't some sexual caricature. Regardless, I love girls with thick thighs so I'm fine with this. disgusting art hoes full of tattoos and piercings Tattoos and piercings look cool, and I enjoy the arts so these women are fine. mentally ill manipulative BPDemons who will ruin your life These women are usually kinky af and are a good time. ​ The HP girls and single mothers aren't viable in my opinion because th…
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 07:21 PM
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Men message you to complain about their gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:36 PM
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"Hey, you seem cool and I wanted to introduce myself." If they reply then I know they're interested, if they don't then I move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:33 PM
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To establish the fact that they are the other woman or that there are other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:31 PM
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I don't know. I want to dismissively say just exist, but to answer your question more seriously we need to analyze what the woman's goal is in the relationship. I think the male/female dynamic isn't equal so women, based on what I imagine their goal is, would be to remain chaste and kind and if a man is showing red flags to cut contact with him. If a woman just wants casual sex and to be a party girl all she needs to do is show up. I truly believe that women are more easily able to remain pure b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:30 PM
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This is what I've noticed as well. The same group of men that talk about hypergamy are disgruntled because they're not able to be hypergamous. They say that they would be happy with a woman working at McDonalds, but the condition is that she is attractive. Not only that, if a man is wealthy, dating a woman who works at McDonalds creates a power imbalance. I truly think most people end up dating similar people to them and they go up or down slightly within their league. Very few women are aiming …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:25 PM
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Not necessarily. Likely they are trying to get with you in some capacity, but it doesn't mean they're going to be manipulative about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:22 PM
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PUA won't teach you this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:20 PM
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Yeah, I'm joking because I've never been diagnosed and people always self diagnose themselves as things, but I'm pretty sure I meet some of the criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:19 PM
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Game is game
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:17 PM
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Don't hate the player, hate the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:15 PM
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Everyone says this. I arrived at it from observing fuckboys in my high school. This is the only thing that has worked for me. Acting disinterested, acting mean, acting cocky, or all that Andrew Tate shit never worked for me. Lovebomb, withdraw affection, breadcrumb. It's the narcissistic abuse cycle and it works like a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:14 PM
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You have to be 18 to be diagnosed with a personality disorder. I would know, I am self diagnosed as a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:10 PM
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I promised I would drop the routine. I wanted to write out a fuller post, but I just can't focus long enough to do it, so here is a brief overview, so you'll have to fill in the gaps. 1.) Meet a woman on a dating app or through DM 2.) Tell her you just broke up with your gf 3.) Lovebomb the new girl. If she doesn't respond to this, she isn't interested so move on. If she does respond to it, then carry on the love bomb stage for a couple weeks. 4.) Don't message her for 24 - 38 hours. See if she …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:08 PM
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This is my specialty. Let me drop the routine. I'm just going to give the overview, so you'll have to fill in the gaps. 1.) Meet a woman on a dating app or through DM 2.) Tell her you just broke up with your gf 3.) Lovebomb the new girl. If she doesn't respond to this, she isn't interested so move on. If she does respond to it, then carry on the love bomb stage for a couple weeks. 4.) Don't message her for 24 - 38 hours. See if she messages first. If she does, you know your in. If she doesn't, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:08 PM
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who?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:53 PM
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let's disagree to agree. I think the not caring stems from not being able to change it so you just have to accept things for how they are. I'm not going to be one of these incel types that thinks women have to be with people they're not attracted to. That is ridiculous. I can carve out my little slice of paradise and that is sufficient for me and I'm happy with what I have even though I could have more if things were slightly different. I think they call that gratitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:31 PM
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so here I am, a non fat person who actually does stuff This is your problem, you think fat people don't "do stuff." What does that even mean? When I was in college I was working two jobs in my field simultaneously, while also getting accolades on personal projects. This is something I actually thought of at that time, that people just assume fat people are lazy when all they do is eat too much. Being fat isn't indicative of moral character at all. It's indicative of over eating. That is it. so i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:02 PM
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I think as a woman though you have to own that shortness. Again, something a woman can do where as a man doing so would be told they have a napoleon complex. I also was uncomfortable cold approaching people in certain circumstances. I remember one time I had to take some photos for my university and I was approached and asked who I was and the faculty chucked and was like "Ok, I just wanted to make sure you weren't some creep with a camera" Like no, I work here. I literally take headshots of all…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:57 PM
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That isn't true. I've been attracted to fat women since puberty. I remember when the click happened. I was waiting for the bus and this fat girl bent over to tie her shoe and her ass was huge. I couldn't stop thinking about it. Fat women are like a fertility goddess in my view. It absolutely isn't settling. Now, some fat women are unfortunate and don't have the right shape and I'll agree those women aren't attractive, but the ones who have thick thighs are very attractive to me. Discussing incel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:48 PM
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The who cares still ties into the concept of accepting it. I don't think you're making the point your trying to make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:42 PM
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oh damn. I'm sorry. I think even for women in business height matters, especially in journalism because you'll have to be in conversation with people who are often combative or defensive. At least you can wear heels without being judged negatively.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:41 PM
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I will concede that you didn't say you were an incel. You jumped into that conversation so I thought it was the same person who initially replied.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:38 PM
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I have to disagree with this. Height can compensate for looks. For example, if Adam Driver or Pete Davidson were 5'8 they would not be as attractive as people think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:36 PM
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I still stand by both statements. In the context of what we're talking about, I think the fact that there is an upper limit to the quality of women men are able to attract exemplifies that women have it easier and it is unfair. I also said that life isn't fair so there isn't anything we can do but accept it. In the context of the conversation I was having here, I am saying I am still attracted to the quality of women I am able to attract. Both statements can be true because I can be attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:35 PM
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Yes, as a man who is 5'9 with an ugly nose sometimes I struggle to accept my genetic limit will keep me from attracting the most "male gaze satisfying" women. My best bet would be to start an OF and spend all the money I make on hiring OF models to film my sexcapades.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:31 PM
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I did reply directly to you, but what you are saying is such a perfect example of something I've regularly encountered. You even self described yourself as an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:26 PM
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They make it up as they go along. Whatever suits their misery in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:24 PM
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They might say they do to garner sympathy, but their concept of what is attractive or unattractive is incredibly skewed by social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:24 PM
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And none of them will post a picture of themselves. I did get one who responded to a post and his only problem is that he is fat, has an unkempt patchy beard, and dresses like an NPC. I was in a FB group for incels and the ones who did have pictures of themselves their biggest problem was that they looked sad. Like they exuded this misery which would scare anyone off. They always use this example of a 5'4 balding indian janitor despite most of them being average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:23 PM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:18 PM
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This is a perfect example of something I notice from the incel community. I am overweight and have still been able to attract a decent number of women. I was attracted to every girl I have been involved with. To this, someone replied: Yeah dude I am sure they were absolute winners and not bottom of the barrel hogs lmao (Very few obese men actually fuck hot girls, stop insulting our intelligence, no one cares that you fucked ugly fatties) But at the end of the day, what does it matter? If I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:16 PM
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Does it matter? I still got laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:05 PM
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I used to be obese and was an incel. Still obese and got pussy. It was personality and fashion for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:45 PM
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I will say to an extent. I don't know if it is a reaction to women's strict height preferences, but I used to find really short women sexually attractive and still do, but for a long term relationship I am 5'9 and I'd prefer a woman that is 5'6 to 5'8, maybe even up to 5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:44 PM
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I knew I phrased that weird, but didn't care enough to reword it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:42 PM
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Edward and WerewolfBoy from Twilight Got me lol. And notice how in both of your examples it is the taller guy who wins the love of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:41 PM
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No. I was a semi incel. I could get lots of make outs, dates, etc. but it just didn't lead to sex. That was enough to inspire me to keep going until I figured out what my issue was and resolved it. Real inceldom, like no girls reciprocating feelings ever is far worse. When I was in middle school and started having crushes, none of the girls liked me back and I just didn't understand how to make the pieces fit or something. Thinking of having that feeling my whole life would be hell and I definit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:39 PM
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I remember about 10 years ago there was this big discussion about the cover of romance novels and what physique women liked best. I remember the feminist camp saying that those physiques are "male power fantasy" but it was never explained why those covers were designed like that when the main demographic is women. Regardless, now that I am older and wiser I know that the ideal female physique is tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:16 PM
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This is flawed logic. You're presenting a strawman by saying women can get sex anytime they want but they won't enjoy it. You're assuming that women only experience unenjoyable sex outside of rare circumstances or that the men they reject are somehow inferior lovers. The bar for men to attract women sexually is far higher than the bar for women to attract men. That is a fact, but the idea that the majority of the men who would sleep with a woman are bad or selfish sexual partners is illogical an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:57 PM
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Sex isn't a need though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:50 PM
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The flaw in your logic is that you think there is only one explanation, that women are only chasing after chads. This might be one explanation, but you can't ignore other possible explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:48 PM
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I'm surprised people aren't talking about Israel and Palestine more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:35 PM
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You know it is ok to have dissenting opinions, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:28 PM
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Funny thing is the black pill guys aren't any better. They're still biologically driven but pissed because they fail at it. They're in no way intellectually superior lmao
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:12 PM
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Fuckboymaxxing is what made me ascend. Back in my day it was snapbacks and that hitler youth looking haircut along with some good angles in selfies. Also raising my eye brows a bit. I think girls like prey eyes better than hunter eyes.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:10 PM
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Oh damn bro, that image with pictures of two drastically different looking men and some text above it really proves your point.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:09 PM
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He definitely looks like he has good hygeine.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:08 PM
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This is what I don't get about the black pill. He is clearly under 6', has prey eyes, puffy cheeks, long midface, wide nose, narrow chin, any jawline he has is from being thin. By almost every metric, he does not look like a chad. What he does have though is really clean, good fitting clothes, some accessory like a necklace and a ring, a haircut that works for him, and clear skin likely from a skincare routine. This guy is just unironically showermaxxed and since he has a smile and doesn't have …
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 06:08 PM
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That is wonderful. It is so rare for dads to actually be good. I want to have children so I can be the kind of dad that actually has a good relationship with their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:55 PM
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Only the shitty ones. I wouldn't enjoy it unless she was too. I guess I'm not like other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:54 PM
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at least once a night or else I can't sleep. Sometimes multiple times a day. Depending on the week, I'd say anywhere from 7 - 21. Even if I have sex, I still masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:52 PM
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I'm fine with getting coffee if we were already involved in some way, like there was some guarantee that she liked me. My partner and I will get an iced coffee and go for a drive or to the park or something. I'm referring specifically to the first time meeting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:51 PM
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I think most smart men leave. The older I get, the more I realize why my dad left.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:43 PM
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My dad would drive to work, work all day, get the groceries, then make the dinner. My mom wouldn't do shit. Most couples are like that. This is my relationship dynamic and it's because I fell for the feminist anti gender roles bullshit. I used to be really left leaning and wanted to be all feminist and shit, but really it is a bad deal for men. Also most women these days don't even know how to cook. I would leave, but what else is out there? Women that are ran through? Women that are non committ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:42 PM
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Exactly, I love a good cafe. I love patio seating. I love the Zooey Deschanel indie chic of it all. But it doesn't really scream sex appeal. It's like going to a library. They're good places to go, but nobody is getting laid in Aisle G of the non fiction section.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:32 PM
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Gotta disagree with you on that one, boss. Coffee dates aren't leading to casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:58 PM
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Just saw a post that mentioned something I had been forgetting to mention! You have to do something that released dopamine or serotonin. See, spending time with someone you like releases similar chemicals to heroin. Sitting in a coffeeshop brings back memories of throwing together a powerpoint for a college project or a business meeting. It brings back memories of meeting with a client for a freelance gig or maybe even doing a job interview. It doesn't make you feel excited. It is a nice place t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:57 PM
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Your first date should be to the library to finish your book report.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:53 PM
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How old are you? You have to seek out the validation from women, if you're getting it from gay guys then you have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:53 PM
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Having sex. Aside from that anything that isn't set up like a job interview. Take her shopping with you and tell her you're going to a wedding and want a womans opinion so you look nice. Doesn't matter if there is actually a wedding, you can just return the clothes OR better yet, keep the shirt and wear it on your second date with her. Aside from that go to see a movie. You are sitting close to eachother in a dark room and you don't have to open your mouth and say something stupid. Try to make a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:52 PM
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Are you a woman? Coffee date isn't "keeping things casual" it is keeping things boring and non-sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:49 PM
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Because the outcome is stacked against you. If chatting is that important, stick to text or a phone call. Like I've said, the coffee date is a job interview. Nobody likes job interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:34 PM
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Sounds like this season of AHS. The problem is these tropes have already been done and are basically satire at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:33 PM
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I forget who said it, but there was some early PUA that said you can't really get to know a woman until you have sex with her because prior to that she still has her guard up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:31 PM
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I don't know what that is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:29 PM
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Hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:23 PM
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Sitting across from eachother just talking doesn't allow your charm to really come through.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:22 PM
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Honestly, better than coffee. Especially if you are known at that bar and can establish social proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:21 PM
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EXXXAAACCCTTTTLLLLLYYYYYYYYY
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:20 PM
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It was nice meeting you today! I look forward to seeing you again if you'd like ​ Hey! Yeah, it was nice meeting you too. Thanks for the coffee, but I don't think we're a good match. Good luck though!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:19 PM
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1.) No first date, we just have sex This carries a lot of risk for the woman, but the benefit is that it almost guarantees she will want to see you again. 2.) Go to the movies. I get it, everyone here seems to think this is a terrible idea, but everyone here also complains about not getting women. The benefit of this is that you both are sitting side by side engaged in a shared task. 2 hours pass without having to say much which means you don't have as many opportunities to say the wrong thing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:14 PM
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GETTING COFFEE IS NOT A FIRST DATE, IT IS A JOB INTERVIEW. AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:02 PM
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Never take a girl to get coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:00 PM
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Coffee isn't a date, it's a job interview. Restaurants are for celebrating birthdays and anniversaries. Movies have consistently been successful for me. Also, don't even go on a date until you've had sex. Until then take a tip from the old PUA days and invite her to go shopping with you. Say you have a wedding and you'd like a woman's eye to make sure you look good. You can return the clothes you buy later. It gets you both moving around being active. There is something that happens psychologica…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 02:00 PM
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Thinking of it as a race against time is only hurting yourself. I used to have this mindset. I thought my life was over at 18 and 21 and then 25. The freeing thing about turning 30 was realizing that people just exist. Age doesn't really determine much because you're still going to have the same desires you did when you were younger. Nursing homes have a really high rate of STDs so even in old age people are still having sex. And yeah, you missing out on your adolescence has likely done irrepara…
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 02:36 PM
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I have a job, but I have ADHD so I post here when I should be focusing on my work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:24 PM
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3, 9, 10, 12, and 14 are valid, ngl. Some of the other ones could be valid, but are presented in a way that would often lead me to shooting myself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:15 PM
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In the words of Li'l Wayne, Tell her that I love her and I hate her in the same sentence I'm fuckin' her mind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:11 PM
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Anyone remember this: https://heartiste.org/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ This is the kind of brain rot shit that ruined my chances with women in my late teens/early twenties. So weird because prior to that I actually did well with women, it just never led to sex. I thought it was because I wasn't being machismo or douchey enough. Then I realized in my early twenties that the problem was that I was being too machismo. Things like always disagreeing and openly flirting with other women doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:05 PM
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Damn, that is going way back in the archives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:52 PM
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Hell yeah, still do occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:50 PM
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The shame is what makes it better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:50 PM
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hope you boys had your burner phone shut off so your main doesn't find out 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:49 PM
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lol, what are you even saying?
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 07:48 PM
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It is partly
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 07:05 PM
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"spread awareness of the blackpill" What are you? A vegan? lol
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 06:45 PM
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What you're saying is illogical. All you're saying is that women's disdain for men , in your view, is more valid than men's disdain for women because rape is worse than not being desired. But for the men going down that rabbit hole, they would say that their feelings are valid. Basically you're looking at this in an extremely biased way, again, based on your own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:49 PM
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I didn’t realize so many guys think that women’s views come from “feminism” or “social media” and not what she witnessed or experienced growing up or in her day to day? Also, wouldn't this likewise validate incel beliefs since their beliefs are coming from their experiences growing up and their day to day lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:11 PM
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Nowadays if someone says "white feminism" they'd get applauded. Sounds like unc was ahead of his time and the women hadn't downloaded the latest update from the feminist hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:10 PM
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I don't drink coffee in the morning, only in the early evening and once in a while as a treat. Caffeine dependence fucks up so many people and it isn't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:00 PM
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is 5'9 tall enough? 👀 I'm not into asian women in other SEA countries, but Japan is an exception because in my view they look the most western.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 04:39 PM
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Supposedly there is technology that allows for gene selection too. I'd do it. I would do the gender selection too. I'd like to have two daughters and one son. I would like the son to be younger than the daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:48 PM
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You're assuming that their knucklehead friends have a clue themselves. When I struggled with finding a sexual relationship as a teenager I had someone tell me I shouldn't put myself out there so much and another person tell me I had to put myself out there more. That is partly the issue with the blue pill is that it tends to be people who haven't really thought critically about this stuff before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:46 PM
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Is it weird to smile constantly? I notice my face kind of goes dead and I look nicer when I smile, but it feels weird to just smile randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:57 PM
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eh, some of them work, but you need a good mix of red and blue pill. You have to be red pilled internally but blue pilled externally. Some of the red pill concepts didn't work for my like seeming uninterested, and seeming like other women wanted me. In regards to that last note, what women want is a man who is desired by other women, but only wants her. When I was figuring all this stuff out, the way it was presented is that pre selection bias means women crave fuckboys and players, what I learn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:56 PM
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lol experiences with women created the overall impression we have of women, so yeah, I'd say women made me a misogynist.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 02:43 PM
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idk bro, that sounds like a lot of nonsense. I read the Stranger by Albert Camus and realized nothing matters, but being able to experience nature is a blessing in and of itself. I'm also not an incel so that probably helps.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 02:40 PM
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Not a woman, but maybe it's because that relationship didn't work out so she learned from her mistakes.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 02:33 PM
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When I was a teenager I was suicidal over the fact that everyone around me was having sex but I wasn't. I had tried comitting suicide 3 times by strangulation between the ages of 16 and 23, but chickened out each time. I'm happy I didn't go through with it because while my life isn't ideal, it is way better than it was. I think there was always this hope things would get better. Also I still got attention from women, it just never translated to sex. I realized though in my early twenties the rea…
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 02:11 PM
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Went to the mountains, saw a waterfall. Family was there with their 13 year old daughter. She was glued to her phone and looked annoyed at being there. Now that I'm older it's kind of a shame to see younger people unable to be in the moment and appreciate the awe of geology, but I guess that maturity comes in time. It's just such a miracle to be on this planet and be able to observe such beautiful things. I had a panic attack seeing this mountain for the first time. It is so massive and imposing…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:34 PM
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TikTok is radicalizing you. It is a fun app, but it is a Chinese psyop designed to divide our country. Pls don't become a radfem, it's just as bad as being an incel 🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:31 PM
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It's a debate sub, maybe do some introspection as to why girls don't like you.
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 01:17 PM
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Chad is cope, all incel and black pill beliefs are cope. The problem is them, but instead of admitting that to themselves they want to blame some mythical chad or say that average people in relationships don't count because it's their "looksmatch" Incels just want to stacy chase and feel sorry for themselves for not being what they consider a Chad while also putting in no work to get there.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 03:13 PM
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What about situationships with their looksmatch? I'm 5'9, obese and at the time was very poor and living at home and have had sex in non committed relationships with both my looksmatch and higher. Or does that not count? And if it does count, why can't you get your looksmatch?
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 03:12 PM
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It's clear that is what the issue is. Touch starvation doesn't legitimize pathological incel belief systems. Why would someone willingly give up romantic physical touch? If someone is stranded at sea or in solitary confinement, they're going to have bigger issues than not having romantic touch. They're going to experience true isolation. As an incel, you're not truly isolated aside from the prison you've constructed for yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 03:08 PM
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If all these guys are "starved of touch" why not be more supportive and affectionate towards each other? Touch starvation isn't "oh I didn't get my pp touched so I'm going to die." It even includes things like a hug from your mom or a kids dad doing that thing where they scruff their hair up, or even rough housing with friends. All of these are platonic and non sexual. Or do like the web page says and get into fitness or adopt a dog.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/23 02:47 PM
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I'm 5'9, bulbous upturned nose and morbidly obese and I get laid regularly. I also work an entry level data entry job for less than 50k a year. You do you though 😘
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 02:24 PM
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If anything it is easier to hide being an uggo online with certain angles and lighting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:09 PM
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I have a bulbous upturned nose. I'm also morbidly obese so when I do lose the weight I will have unsightly sagging skin. No talk about how much I accomplished will change the fact that loose skin is categorically unattractive. I'd argue that being overweight is more attractive than having sagging skin depending on the fat distribution. Anyways, I think the upturned nose is a worse feature. I also have a gay sounding cadence and I'm only 5'9. It is a mystery how I've managed to attract so many wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 02:04 PM
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Pretty much. I'm characteristically below average looking. I'm 5'9. Obese. Have a bulbous upturned nose. Yet I still have had no problem getting girls once I figured out the issues with my actions that were holding me back.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 06:59 PM
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You're right, that is the only example of a sub5 guy getting a girlfriend and a guy who is over 6' being sub5. come on, listen to yourself and get away from all this incel nonsense.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 06:48 PM
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What do you have to lose? I mean you might even make a few bucks if your prospects are really as hopeless as you say.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 06:41 PM
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What about Plymouth shooter Jake Davison? He was 6' and I'd say he even looks better than that guy. And btw, that guys is actually 5'8. And what about looskmatch? Is looksmatch not good enough? Jake Davison btw: https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2023/02/21/18/67929301-11776967-Mass_shooter_Jake_Davison_took_his_own_life_after_being_confront-m-24_1677003368542.jpg
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 06:35 PM
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If you want to hear some real low IQ nonsense, listen to the audibook "Why Women Deserve Less." It was written by the Timon looking guy from Fresh and Fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:13 PM
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ehhhhhhh, are you sure? I don't know about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:09 PM
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Who is donating to these women? Horny guys. Guys with a porn addiction. Guys who may want a woman they might not be able to get in real life (A teenager, a milf, a black girl, a trans girl, etc.) Guys who oppose the sex trafficking that occurs in the porn industry. None of that means they aren't able to get women in person nor does it mean that the only reason a guy would subscribe to only fans is because they can't get women. Plus having dated women who cam, many of the guys are actually in rel…
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 05:59 PM
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I made a post in All Pill Debate and was told that because of the way I wrote my post I was "trying hard to sound smart" It's sort of comedic to me because whenever I see incel posts, they always sounds low intelligence. It's like unless you say things in terms of Wojaks and catch phrases like "Chad" and "Top 10%" they have no way of comprehending anything outside of their own world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:30 PM
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First one (I'm a guy who is so insanely envious of women I'm incapable of empathizing with them)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:21 PM
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She is 17.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:14 PM
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The patriarchy doesn't exist, but it is completely necessary to establish it. The patriarchy is more ideal than whatever feminists want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:09 PM
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Generations don't exist in terms of eons, so what has occurred in the past is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:33 PM
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Women deserve the love that they are willing to accept
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:11 PM
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I am by no means a "hot guy" and I would always kiss on the first date. Sometimes even go further. This is more examples of "Chad is just any guy who gets a woman that I don't"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:09 PM
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oh damn, they are coming in hot. I'm gonna post one. Women dressed up to go clubbing: I dress this way for myself, not for male attention Also women: *does errands in sweatpants and a messy bun*
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:07 PM
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Banned for sure. I noticed myself going from having feminist leaning beliefs back to having some incel beliefs and was genuinely reaching out for help and all I got was downvoted, posts removed, and banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:05 PM
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What did they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:52 PM
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It can mean whatever you want it to mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:49 PM
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Is missing out on growth milestones traumatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:24 PM
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I'm a straight man with a gay cadence, but I'm ugly :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:23 PM
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lol would you prefer I speak solely in wojaks and catch phrases? What is cringe is people using the term "chad" unironically.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 02:22 AM
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"Chad is anyone who gets more matches than me"
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 02:20 AM
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I'm having a rough day. I have ADHD and really struggle to focus at work. I struggle to know what to do next and I have to sit there and think for a while before it clicks to me. This isn't a problem if I'm engaged in one task, but the need to multitask that every job requires doesn't allow me to focus enough to be as productive as others. Not to mention I allow myself to get distracted by non work related things like Reddit or YouTube or TikTok. My head just feels so scrambled all of the time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:13 PM
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OP was so incredibly based for that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:05 PM
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Don't you have a calculus class to get to? Scurry along now, kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:18 PM
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The problem with keto and the popularity of low carb diets is that it ignores the difference between complex and simple carbohydrates. Potatoes are one of the best foods you can eat, but since people prefer their potatoes loaded with sour cream, butter, cheese, and bacon, they think it is the potato that is the problem. Or they when they say "carbs" what they're referring to is cake or potato chips which are about 50% fat and 50% processed carbohydrates. I mean if it works for you, then great, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:17 PM
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Chad is a delusion, nothing more than a cognitive distortion.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 07:09 PM
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Nah, you're lying right now. I've seen plenty of black pill proponents absolutely denounce examples of women they deem unattractive. The problem is their mentality is skewed by the internet, they think women that are attractive are unattractive because they have a different vibe than what is societally considered attractive i.e. they seem obsessed with "nerdy" girls or girls who are attractive but might have a mousey bookish quality to them. That is what is so laughable about the blackpill, it i…
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 04:47 PM
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That is still a false equivalence, and you are unable to define what Chad is. Is Chad just anyone who has a better outcome than you? For example I am 5'9, overweight, poor, I have a bulbous upturned nose, and I have dated plenty and it definitely wasn't a betabux situation because a lot of times I've had girls buying me things or paying for our dates. I'm not saying looks don't matter, but it isn't a binary unless you are stacy chasing, which I notice a lot of the black pill people do. I can pos…
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 04:07 PM
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I could, but you wouldn't accept it because it is easier to cope and say it's because Chads are getting all the girls.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 03:32 PM
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I don't, explain it to me. I can offer several more plausible explanations than "It's Chad!"
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 03:24 PM
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You're kind of proving my point here. Explain the connection between the articles you shared and the concept of Chad being a real thing.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/23 03:02 PM
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And don't let countless rejections hurt your ability to actually let your guard down when you find a girl who does like you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:02 AM
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The disconnect and degeneracy is already there, there is no going back now. So we should just let people do whatever they want because "the degeneracy is already there?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:49 PM
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It really isn't though, its like saying preparing a nice meal and eating it while listening to some boyfriend ASMR audio is the same as going on an actual date with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:48 PM
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