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Yeah...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:47 PM
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Funny how nearly every single friend circle I join seems to think I need help with attracting women. Back in HS, my friends kept on dragging me in front of women that clearly seemed bored by my presence. In Uni, my 2 closestbmates tried to set me up with girls that both ended up telling them they wanted more exciting guys than me, and now as I start my work life, my new housemate says he can bring home some prostitutes if I ever feel the need to "get rid of the virgin stench that's putting ladie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:39 PM
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Chances are that player needed to be that much better to overcome perception bias....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:30 PM
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And also, even if you did learn from a woman why is that gay. I guess the idea is that since cooking is a "female past time," the only way I could get that good is by neglecting my male hobbies and spending time with women. Only a guy with no interest in such and is comfortable around ladies (e.g. a homosexual) would fit that bill. People are so strange. So I am learning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:15 AM
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I thought learning to cook would make me an attractive guy. Instead, I have just overheard the following from a chubby, pretty girl gossiping to her friend, BFF: "How come he can cook this well?" Her: "He's probably gay or something. No man can learn to cook that well without learning from a woman. " Geez, Cindy. Here I was thinking this would be a way for us to connect and bond and yet you just drop me like that. Well, at least I can make some legendary cinnamon rolls and tandori chicken now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:17 AM
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Musical instruments are so expensive. God!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:31 AM
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decent Nah...not anymore, it seems. caring, responsible Maybe these, yes... intelligent In what sense of the word? I can say that nearly all the academically gifted guys I've known personally have talked about how tough it is to find a girlfriend nowadays. I did an informal survey and only 2 of the top 15 in our uni program are either married or dating seriously....Inb4 "School is not a predictor of intelligence."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:58 PM
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decent Nah...not anymore, it seems. caring, responsible Maybe these, yes... intelligent In what sense of the word? I can say that nearly all the academically gifted guys I've known personally have talked about how tough it is to find a girlfriend nowadays. I did an informal survey and only 2 of the top 15 in our uni program are either married or dating seriously....Inb4 "School is not a predictor of intelligence."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:57 PM
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Everytime I hear your opinions, I really wish I could French Kiss you, lillith.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:49 PM
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CMV: Dating is screwed because men have very little to offer women in romantic relationships. In the last 200 years, men's bodies have been rendered almost useless for protection and labour, 2 unique things men could bring to the table of a romantic relationship. Also, since the '80s, women have enjoyed more freedom in education and the job market than they have traditionally had. This means financial stability is also out of the options available to be tabled. Apart from emotional support (whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:47 PM
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Good point! I don't think I'd say I wanted any of them, but others will say it is possible to leverage those experiences into something else in adulthood. For instance, the most obvious one would be business and romantic relationships. I started my career rather late because no one seemed willing to go out on a limb and back me when it came to hiring. Then with romance, I have a far smaller social circle to pick from compared to folks that partied every fortinight. This becomes problematic when …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:12 PM
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if not then you can meet friends as an adult its just harder because you put in extra effort to show up to events I've started to notice this as I grow. Back in uni, I remember women being eager to meet all kinds of people - guys included - whereas now, even a common interest isn't enough sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:09 AM
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How so? One would say I've missed out on a lot of formative experiences e.g. I don't know how to react if a woman says her card declined and she needs me to lend her some cash. I don't know how to react if a lady says, "I want you to make me feel better." I don't know when it's okay to touch, hug or kiss a lady. 1st date? 2nd date? Official?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:04 AM
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I regret the trips I missed or the hangouts with friends I did not went to because I was training or studying. It is never worth it. Shit. I guess I am set for a mid-life crisis...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:59 AM
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That's the position I'm in. I was so laser focused on my performance that I ended up torching my social life in the process. Funny thing is that my grades ended up being mid after everything so I ended up wiping out on both... I pray he is wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:52 AM
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There are women that aren't too bothered about height. Hard to find, but they are there...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:51 AM
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Met my old college dormmate and he just told me that I'll probably have a cosmic level midlife meltdown because I didn't enjoy my "college life experience." I didn't have black out drunk nights, subpar dates, hookups with curious girls or any of that stuff. He said, "Pretty soon, you'll see that all that focus you put on your degree was not even remotely worth it." Do you think he's right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:45 AM
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CMV: It's okay to give a prostitute oral sex. For as long as you are using dental dams, it can be a great act for those not in relationships looking learn the intricacies of the female body...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:01 PM
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CMV: Drinking alcoholic beverages is the best way to socialize and drinking places (e.g. Bars, Clubs and Lounges) are a goldmine of interesting individuals. If you do not take alcohol, it is unreasonable to expect the rest of society to accomodate your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:34 AM
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A few of us told him we hope she dates a player like him in her teens...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:29 AM
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Just heard Mr. Steal-your-girl from highschool just had his first kid....It's a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 06:19 PM
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I imagine she cares...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:05 AM
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I try to be discreet but I do get caught sometimes and most don't seem to react well to it. In all my life, I can only remember one girl that liked it and it shook my worldview vigourously...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 09:05 AM
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I feel so bad about checking a pretty woman out. I know she'd probably be horrified that I'm looking at her, but sometimes I can't help it. I really wish I was asexual, sometimes...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:26 AM
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Let's assume it's on the high end of moderate, i.e. A full crate on the weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:25 AM
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What's wrong with girl doing lean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:11 AM
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What impact would the following drugs would have on a person's attractiveness (male or female)? Alcohol Smoking weed Smoking tobacco Drinking lean Drinking dropping Acid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:52 AM
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Not necessarily 1:30 AM but I do get it a lot when looking at pics of myself. Like, there will never be a time a heterosexual member of the opposite sex looks at me and thinks, "Wow!" or even "Meh." It will probably always be "Yuck!" feels bad, man...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:12 AM
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Aren't these places women complain about being hit on?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 07:02 PM
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You would be surprised...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:29 PM
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I mean there are social gatherings and circles where you can meet women Which ones are these? Work is a big ,"no-no," anyone with good sense is not stepping into a church, festivals and concerts are out of most young people's price range. Unless you're a drinker or live in a big city that can attract large enough gatherings for your hobbies, you don't have a lot of options. Worse if your childhood social circle is dead....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:31 PM
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That doesn't sound good at all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:42 AM
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I'm not sure but I assume it's the heavily volatile, spontaneous, heart pounding and passionate relationship with a caree-free guy. I'm more cautious and calculated about my affairs...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:41 AM
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Shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:08 AM
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Not sure I'll make it...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:50 AM
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A diplomatic way of saying I'm ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:49 AM
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Dating does make me feel that way, sometimes...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:48 AM
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A woman I've been talking texted me the following, "You'll make a very good husband someday but I can't date you because I don't want to skip any stages." I don't know what to feel....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 05:32 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:14 PM
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Alright, perhaps I may be wrong on the scientific and military front. However, I still do maintain it may have played a role in artistic, culinary and maybe even physical acheivement...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:12 PM
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Alright, perhaps I may be wrong on the scientific and military front. However, I still do maintain it may have played a role in artistic, culinary and maybe even physical acheivement...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 03:11 PM
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What I believe but cannot prove: A large amount (dare I say a majority) of scientific, artistic, military and culinary breakthroughs were driven by a male's desire to impress women in general or a certain woman in particular....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:52 PM
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As a born-bred African that has seen extreme poverty 1st hand, I disagree profoundly. Most guys can probably acheive the outline, but chiseled abs is only for the lucky and/or the dedicated...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:15 PM
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I know several relationship "experts," that have suggested just that...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:11 PM
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Surrender feels sweet...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:18 AM
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SMV: 4. Chubby build, 5'6, dark-skinned and nerdy. Go figure. RMV: 6. I have a job that pays okay, but quite stable with a lot of room for growth. I have a few interesting hobbies and a few older women have said I'd make a very good father. My looks and econonic situation really bring me down...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:38 PM
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How is eating pussy unmasculine Idk. He didn't elaborate. I'm still a virgin, but I don't think I'd have any qualms about doing it. The application of his advice varies on what you are looking for. Perhaps, but he did argue that the principles of attraction remain the same. For instance he has used some of his knowledge when finding long-term girlfriends but did advise that in such a case, "scale some of it back," once you have captured her attention. "You can't get the job if you don't pass the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:40 AM
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Don't want to say exactly, but sub-saharan Africa...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:25 AM
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My 3 month stay with a reformed womaniser comes to an end this week. Here are the top 5 tips he gave me about male-female attraction: Looks do play a role. If you're short, fat, ugly or a combination of the 3, you will definitely struggle. Period. Eating pussy is very unmasculine. Save that act for a gf that won't judge you for being that unmanly. A lot of women struggle to correctly identify the source of their emotions. If you can get her into a situation where her emotional state is heightene…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 10:06 AM
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And we are seeing the chickens coming to roost already (e.g. #MeToo, Sex Recession, Gender wars.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:24 PM
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But you did say it's making men worse. Yes, I did. You did say that it's making men depraved. Not quite. What I said was this; Gen-Alpha males might end up being the most depraved in history... The possibility of porn sending people into depravity is there but not always gauranteed. Sorry, how is that meaningfully different than evil? In the same way one might say pizza, black forest cake or weed are unhealthy, but not evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:19 PM
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I would say there's a lot more correlation than causation in the studies I've seen. Also, read other responses, many are still unconvinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:11 PM
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Islam is the solution to the world's depravity...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:40 PM
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So we have to unhealthy things on the loose. Men are truly fucked...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:39 PM
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Yeah, although IME, most of them seem disgusted by it and rarely watch it. It would seem to be a predominantly male activity....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:37 PM
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More of the latter, although the former has not gone away completely...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:34 PM
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Gen-Alpha males might end up being the most depraved in history...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:34 PM
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I didn't say it was evil, I just said it was unhealthy...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:33 PM
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Young men shouldn’t watch porn, instead of going off to porn they should fantasize about females they know irl. learn self-control and channel that energy to more productive endeavours.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:32 PM
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The amount of variety present online dwarfs whatever could be found in any historical king's harem....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:31 PM
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What I Believe But Cannot Prove: Porn is inherently unhealthy and is making young men worse....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:53 PM
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Shame. I didn't actually mind the presence of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:01 PM
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Waste - Foster The People
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:28 PM
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If you got dates on Online dating, you're probably more attractive than you give ypurself credit for...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:06 PM
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Be sociable. With how almost everyone seems to have social anxiety these days. Unless there's a chance of repeated encounters, this is unlikely to work. Use apps. Definitley will not work if she's "out of your league." Chances are she's alreadu Go out to events. Maybe this....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:40 PM
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And here I was thinking dick pics were a nuissance to women across the board...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:57 AM
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A good looking loner is useless. Perhaps this only happens once people mature. I say so because as a Zillenial, this has not been my experience, particularly when it comes to my fellow men. Some of my friends have turned down really friendly, chatty women because they were a bit too "Homely" and have taken a chance on "Baddies," that are known to be "toxic," (prounounced: Misunderstood.) I've seen it in women too, but to a lesser degree...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:56 AM
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She cannot possibly know he has a huge cock on the first encounter...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:56 AM
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From the looks of things, his strategy sounds like this to me; Get one lady interested by simply getting lucky. Rock her world with your skills. Let her become your advertiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:55 AM
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The jokes write themselves, bruh..."Your advantage is that you get to work 3 times as hard for a quarter of the attention."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:09 AM
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This is why Gay/Celibate/Asexual men dominate social circles and achieve pinnacle of power and success. Do they? I think you're severely underestimating just how many scientific, artistic, athletic and technological achievements have been driven by heterosexual males trying to impress ladies...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:42 PM
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I think this post might be specific to heterosexual males....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 04:38 PM
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What diet are you following?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:10 PM
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Did you ask her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:59 PM
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I find that even more difficult to believe....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:55 PM
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So I have discovered...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:33 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:28 PM
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Do MILFs actually exist? Nearly every older woman I've approached seems to be appalled by the idea of being romantically involved with anyone 5+ years younger than them.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:32 PM
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Shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 08:19 PM
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What happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:33 PM
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Will hugging her, comforting her and cooking for her help when she's in that state? Because I can do all that...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:31 PM
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Sounds a bit extreme. Although I do believe there might have been a lighter version of your suggestion in the old testament of the Christian bible....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:28 PM
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Idk what the ratios are in my area. Hope it wont be too tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:23 PM
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Wise...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:22 PM
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Oh, no...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:21 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:21 PM
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I have no sisters and didn't track mom's cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:44 PM
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Been trying to get a girlfreind and a thought just hit me the other day. What if I'm not man enough to handle her on her period? I often hear how women range from unreasonable to boderline abusive around that time of the month. What if PMS makes her say something that'll crush the baby in me? How do men in relationships manage this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:07 PM
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Uhmmmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:47 PM
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If women being hypergamous is indeed a real thing, then I am convinced that polygamy will definitely make a comeback. Male college enrollments are well nigh the toilet, right now so there are going to be a lot less, "High Value," men be to be monogomous with..... ....That is, unless college education loses its lustre, which some say it is....What a time to be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:42 PM
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Some of my friends say they enjoy it. Like getting free admission to a wrestling match...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:36 PM
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You find the video yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 01:57 AM
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Men who put effort do have success. I really don't think this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:56 AM
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CMV: The current sex ratios on colleges suggest that women have allways been smarter than men and were simply held back by the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:18 PM
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For people who are well-adjusted and actually touch grass often enough (going to concerts, bars, that sort of thing): No need for a solution. They’re probably getting into relationships.. And if they are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:57 AM
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If she’s comparing you to guys on apps, so what? Dating has always been like that. Not quite. See before the internet, the dataset of men she could compare with was a lot smaller than it is now. The only guys she was comparing you to were those she had either met or heard about. So even if there was a comparison, it was not as extreme as it is today. You’ve got a way better chance in person to make your case than you do over a phone screen. Why would you intentionally put yourself at a bigger di…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:50 AM
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You have it backwards. The reason they're saying there's no one good is because standards are higher....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:04 PM
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Go out into the wild and actually physically approach and talk to women As someone that rejected OLD until very recently, I can reliably tell you that women's standards have definitely changed. Even if you approach them in real life, she's still comparing you to the guys she's seen on the apps and social media...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:03 PM
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Stop comparing yourself to other people. This is pretty much human nature so it's a lot more difficult to do than you think....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:23 PM
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Pay According to the historical record, that's the quickest and most effective way to go about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:21 PM
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Most men are married, so it definitely seems like game that most men are profiting from. I guarantee you that this will cease to be true when Gen Z matures...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:49 PM
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No they don't. Don't fall for the just world fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:51 AM
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Someone who rapes also “succeeds” at having sex. The 2 are not even remotely similar. Rape involves overriding someones will whereas assholery does not.In fact, it is the very trait drawing some of these women in. A better question to ask is why do so many women fall for this kind of attitude if they know it is detrimental? And why won't thsy admit that it does work, at least in the short-tern.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:49 AM
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How old are the people in question? He's 26 and she's 33. From what I understand women mature faster during puberty, but dudes catch up and everyone is on an even playing field in adulthood. This is what they don't believe. They are under the impression that since women get off to an early lead, it remains that way throughout life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:13 AM
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Do women really mature faster than men? I ask because a friend of mine started dating a woman 7 years his senior and his parents threw a fit about how she probably just saw him as a boy she was baby sitting. According to them, a woman should be a year younger if they are to have the same level of maturity....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:57 PM
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Fax...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:49 PM
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I think they may have tried that already...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:19 PM
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Being short as a guy is clearly one of the worst treat you can have in dating. You're not doomed but you're playing the game on an insane difficulty. Out of the thousands of languages that exist on planet earth, you have chosen to speak pure facts. And no, this "self-improvement" thing recommended to guys rarely improves thjngs drastically...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:36 AM
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Idk about others but I can give you my experience. I'm 5'7 in a place where the average height is 5'10. Nearly all my friends are 5'11 or taller. Do you think dating is very difficult if you're short? Yes. There are women that have turned me down for that specific reason and nothing. E.g. Some of the things I've heard from women about me and my other short friends include; "I know that he's smart and kind but he's still short." "He's an interesting guy but tbh I want a man that'll make me feel f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:22 AM
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There's a lot of speculation in it but I doubt it's in the balloney category...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:53 PM
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CMV: If evo psych is correct, an ugly duckling is unlikely to become a swan without major cosmetic proceedures. Only losing weight and building muscle seem to be in your control. Most of the rest, (height, breast size, jawline, skin texture) are most certainly not...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:34 PM
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Well given that society doesn't seem to value the qualifications we earn there, I would say it's more overrated than evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:15 PM
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I guess so. Another girl that now thinks of me as a creep...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:08 PM
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Oh...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:58 AM
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Should I wear kevlar?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:54 AM
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It would have driven her crazy, probably even in a good way But wouldn't that put me in danger? She just threatened me with violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:53 AM
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I just told a pretty girl I know that she's looking like a snack. She smiled and said if I said that again, she would hit me. I'm hopeless at this flirting thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:31 AM
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I know. I'm ugly...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:14 PM
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Until a year ago, I believed it was impossible for women to get horny until I started watching the, "leading my gf on..." prank videos. It's amazing how agitated they get when their boyfriends turn them down for sex. P.S. Yes, I am a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:15 PM
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It's nowhere near as high as the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:35 PM
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You know, the fact that sexual scandals are virtually absent in nun run schools is another bit ofvevidence that the median woman has a lower libido than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:18 PM
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Not that unpopular. In my rather limited experience, early to mid 30s are when the curves really start to show. Contrast teen bodies with MILF bodies...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:11 PM
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Alright so ; I have an engineering degree but currently work in IT (lousy job market). I make slightly lower than what my former EE class mates are making. For the past 2 years, I've been exercising 3 times a week and mainly following a pollotarian diet I know how to play piano. Started when I was a kid (now at ABRSM ARSM level). Someone taught me how to cook and she went to cookery school. For some reason I still cannot get a date. At what point does this self-improvement thing begin to work? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:13 PM
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I come from a conservative country so my view point is a little different from the average Westerner. Puberty and how the body changes. I am yet to meet a person in the past 15 years that hasn't been lectured on this. I had "the talk" around 11/12 and it was probably that late because I am a male (i.e. mature later) Basics of how sex works between 2 people. We were (formerly) taught this in 9th grade (13/14-ish). However, guys that had access to porn or R rated movies were probably initiated to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:53 PM
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It's the entire sub, tbh....Someone will claim "men/women would never..." and yet the very next comment is a man/woman justifying that exact position...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:13 PM
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Obviously exaggerated, but several women have said that they prefer men with prior experience. So "no woman ever" might also be an exaggeration on your part....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:11 PM
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As a man, how am I supposed to feel when I'm told I have a "Ladies' ass,"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:38 AM
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Seconded. The USA is the promised land for many STEM pros in my country as well. Getting there is quite the process, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:45 PM
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Guess what, babe? I feel FREE!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:45 PM
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I currently run a small streaming and social media marketing operation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:47 PM
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Lose my virginity. Attempt to make my current business profitable Start another unrelated business (spreading my bets) Leave my home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:37 PM
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That's the most frustrating part about being a heterosexual male. She doesn't need to do much to have you drooling for her...Yet I have to move heaven and earth to have an audience with her...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:43 AM
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Yeah. It's ridiculous how gorgeous women are when they really mean to look good...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:16 AM
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A lady calling you "sweet" is so overrated. I want you to think I'm yummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:13 AM
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She don't need no man for validation....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:10 AM
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do well in school -> make more money Not anymore. It seems connections and experience are a lot more important in the modern job market....Ditch college and join a training program.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:08 AM
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Music and cooking are doing a lot worse than I thought they would...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:09 PM
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Dear ladies, rate how attractive the following skills are in a man: Athleticism. Musical talent. Humor. Culinary prowess. Household handiness. Wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:08 AM
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Micheal B Jordan
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:01 AM
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CMV: 80% if behavioral differences between sexes are due to socialisation or environmental factors...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:28 PM
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With current dating stats, I doubt this will remain true for long. Especially once gen Z hits the 40 mark
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:24 PM
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Wow, so this Western-based cancer has also infected Africa? It's not yet reached the terminal states we're seeing in the West (& I pray it doesn't) but it does seem to slowly be seeping in...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:01 AM
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I know a few men that have a huge abundance of girls and they are nowhere nearly as picky as women. I have seen women drop a guy because he doesn't have an Iphone (it's a status symbol in a lot of African countries.) The same cannot be said of men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 08:34 PM
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We honestly just need to make porn illegal again. This would never work...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:17 AM
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Well, until we find a number of beholders equal to the number that have loudly confirmed our repugnance, we still qualify as ugly....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:00 PM
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What if it's true, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:33 PM
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No. It is sweet to surrender. Accept your limitations and make peace with your own mediocrity. Happiness is but an illusion the mind plays on us to fuel us on this miserable journeywe call existence. You aren't special. You never have been and never will be. Your efforts are meaningless in the pitiless indifferent eyes of fate...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:22 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about the cancer...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:44 AM
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Carbs = Satan
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:08 PM
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CMV: A lot of conclusions from the world of evolutionary psych suffer from neurosexism....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:07 PM
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Exactly. Since, people are fully free, they can finally dive head first into what they believe to be attractive and not their parents or their peers told them was attractive. I'm approaching 30 and still I see women my going for men that are not ideal because, and I quote, "At least we don't get bored." It's not as extreme as highschool, but it's definetley still there....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:51 PM
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Depends on the lies, tbh. Jho Low did get a lot of female company through deception and few would call him an "Alpha".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:37 PM
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If so, it can get better afterwards. It can also get worse....Much. Much. Worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:34 PM
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I guess we have quite a number of unhealthy women in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:33 PM
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All the 20 something guys I've seen try to flirt with 40/50 year olds are dispatched with, "I'm old enough to be your mother, son."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:28 PM
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France?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:23 PM
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What? On Reddit? That's basically the gold standard for evidence.....I guess it can therefore be accepted as an actual phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:23 PM
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Also, the dark triad doesn’t work when the guy is socially inept and/or unattractive. This is not true. Nearly every male serial killer, including the ugly ones, has had a sizeable amount of groupies....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:45 PM
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Most men get laid Why then is there talk of a sex recession?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:41 PM
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I think Cougar/Cub relationships are largely a media construct and rarely happens in real life. This isn't because both younger and older men are safocating young women with their romantic efforts, but because older women are simply wiser and more intelligent than young men. Apart from vague rumors or seeing it in Hollywood, I have never once seen an older woman get attracted to a younger guy....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:39 PM
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Still. OP's point is that even the best version of you, (whatever that even means) may still be unattractive. You can go to the gym, hire a stylist to fix your wardrobe, sacrifice your sanity to climb up the economic ladder and do everything else people do to "improve" themselves and still end up in virtually the same place. Race, height, facial bone structure and to a certain extent, personality are all fixed quantities, yet, they play a massive role in the modern mating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:38 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:20 AM
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Why are religious figures so attractive to so.e women? Have you noticed that nearly every religious leader in history has at the very least had a sizeable female following?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:12 AM
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A few women have claimed that they are impervious to a man's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:40 AM
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I was part of the brotherhood but Death Grip Syndrome hurt me like a bitch. I got to the point of watching full length 50 min porn flicks just to feel something....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:08 PM
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I think Coconut Oil > Baby Oil for male masturbation..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 07:02 PM
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Doesn't always work though. Especially the money one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:59 PM
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Dresses provocatively. This can have so many interpretations depending on your culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:57 PM
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Apparently any discussion of such makes you an incel and therefore dangerous...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:49 PM
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Don’t just look around at all the shorter, balding, chinless, acne ridden, lazy eyed, pudgy, fashionless, squeaky voiced, dumb, boring, poor, unemployed, remarkably ordinary guys in relationships I don't know where you live, but I know very few men under the age of 30 with these characterstics and are in a relationship. Most men south of 30 say unless you're rich, famous or irritatingly handsome, dating is unbearably tedious and I have seen them struggle. have a look at other subreddits here and…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:00 AM
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Trust me, things can get a lot worse for men. How? Many are already fighting tooth and nail for females that clearly want nothing to do with men...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:48 AM
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Religion is dying off anyway less and less people are religious. This is only true in the west. Religion is spreading like wildfire in Asia and Africa. 2 continents that have the largest populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 06:40 AM
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It has been said that if a woman wants to tease a man, she can wear clothes that reveal her curves and skin and add a hint of the sexual to her behaviour. What would a man have to do if he wanted to tease a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:40 AM
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Sigmund Freud once remarked "despite my 30 years of research into the feminine soul I have never been able to answer the great question "what does a Woman want?" Has any male had better luck than he did?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:09 PM
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This man gets GENUINELY more attractive and it aint about the money or status per se. It is a factor but it is not the KEY AND ALONE FACTOR. Why does his wealth matter at all, then? For the guys that say i am wrong, then i have a question, do you believe di caprio in his prime was just attracting golddiggers and clout chasers? Impossible to know, some may have indeed just wanted the status he had. Di Caprio was conventionally handsome, I doubt he'd need money to rope in a sizeable harem. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:12 PM
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Also stop using dating apps as evidence. Why not? Isn't that the default these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:32 PM
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The only way to know i'd be picked for who i am would be to be picked by a man who has options. Fair, but you do realise that you are basing your choice on how others have evaluated him? What happens if others have performed a lousy analysis of him? I would then know he picked me for good reasons and that he wont leave me or cheat on me the second he gets another option. In theory, this would be true, however, history seems to suggest that men that have options usually choose to pursue quantity …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:31 PM
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It ceases to be embarrasing after 22?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:41 AM
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At what age does having an n count of 0 become embarrasing for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:17 PM
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Hearts...in the metaphorical sense.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 08:33 AM
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Mean cognitive performance may be equal but the geniuses are disproportionately male and disproportionately productive (especially in the modern world). True. So would you say the future will have a lot of power law distributions?
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 10:11 AM
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Humans have souls... Do we, though?
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 10:07 AM
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the same thing can be applied to men, though? why does this only have to be women? Most men have never claimed that personality is what drew them. Women on the other hand are adamant that it's personality they're attracted to. also, what about love? that doesn’t have to purely be based on sexual attraction now, does it? You don't get the job if you're not invited for an interview. Unless you labour trying to find ways to express your personality, one might argue that you are never going to be co…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 04:43 PM
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Right. So men are obselete.....
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 04:30 PM
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Well for a vast majority of history, they couldn't! Without the use of weapons, the overwhelming majority of women were far more vulnerable to threats from other predators and other men. Same thing applies when it comes to farming and hunting. I am lost as to how acknowledging this simple fact makes someone think women are sub-human.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 04:29 PM
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That's not what I meant to suggest. I'm just curious as to what men would need to offer (apart from looks and more resources) to become desirable to woman with modern sensibilities?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 02:23 PM
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Source?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:40 PM
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Obsolete implies there is a something that has completely over taken men, like male fuck dolls that can do labor, protect and provide for a woman and vibrate when he fucks her too. I indeed do mean obselete. Women can buy a vibrator, guns, pepper spray, stun guns, shock battons to take care of their physical and sexual needs. Provisions can be taken care of by themselves since machines do most of the heavy lifting these days....
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:38 PM
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Men that view don’t woman as sub human or objects and just treat them like another person are going to be fine. Are you implying that by offering protection and provision for women, men have treated women as less than human?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:34 PM
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What else is there for men to give? Resources? Done. Protection? Done. Children? Most don't want them. What value would you say a male - & a male alone - would provide (emotional support doesn't count because they can get it from their girlfriends who are much more empathetic)
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:32 PM
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and yet there needs to be a female category in chess because females cannot compete with men, the greatest scientists are men, the innovative companies are started by men. You left out one important word in my comment. Median. It is slowly becoming accepted that more men do occupy both tails of the cognitive distribution curve (i.e. more male geniuses, but more male retards). Also, women are allowed to compete with men in certain chess tournaments and have sometimes triumphed. Remember how Judit…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:28 PM
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This is actually an underrated sentiment. I've read about 4 sci-fi novels speculating about what the world would look like without men. Yet, it was quite the herculean task discovering books that speculated about a world without women... Do you believe that they have a point, though?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 01:22 PM
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It accentuates their feminine attributes. It sticks the butt out, accentuates the legs and pushes the chest outwards meaning the boobs stick out. Also, most men do like feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:10 PM
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Try laying ethernet cables in 34°C (93°F) heat. Thank goodness for my dark skin...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:03 PM
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Are you asking us to choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:00 PM
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Many blame it for the sorry state of dating in the developed world. e.g. Some interpretations of feminism state that women find it annoying to be approached by men that may have romantic intentions for you. Yet, time and time again, women have stated that they are too scared of doing the approaching. So we are stuck in a world in which men have been told not to do the approaching, and yet women do not want to do the approaching...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:59 PM
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Suppose such men make a committment to "ethical"prostitution. Would that still be misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:37 PM
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I couldn't say, the fact that even if a man made a committment to only engage in "ethicall prostitution," that would still not sit well with may women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:21 PM
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Not all prostitutes are vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:59 AM
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One would also say that offering sex for financial gain is taking advantage of someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:57 AM
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I don't think I can really tell which was more impactful between the following; Didn't make any girls pregnant. Didn't experiment with drugs (or alcohol) I would have also put "took school seriously" but after graduating college and speending 3 years unemployed, I often ask myself if perhaps I took school too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:34 PM
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Women like masculine men who are good looking and act a lil asshole-ish. I wouldn't say they have to be goodlooking, though. Neil Strauss admits that he wasn't very good looking when he descended into the dark world of PUA and yet, he still had success and became a bit of a misogynist when he was done. So much so that it ended up wrecking his marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:39 PM
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Correct....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:38 PM
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I should have put /s after that comment, but I genuinely need something that will give me an ass and thighs women won't be jealous of....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:08 PM
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Please rephrase your response
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:08 PM
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What do you believe feminism can be faulted for?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:00 PM
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I'm a guy that for the past 8 months, has been working out 5 days a week using the following schedule: Mon: Biceps, Triceps, Chest. Tue: 5km Jog Wed: Calves, Bums, Thighs Thu: 5km Jog Fri: Shoulders, Back, Abs. In that time, I have switched to a modified keto diet (I heavily supplement it with fruits.) I'm beginning to see the outline of my abs and my chest sticks out a lot more, but my thighs and bums are still huge. Female attention is still pretty rare to come by. Thinking of taking up smokin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:54 PM
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I'm not a passport bro, but was born and raised in a poor country....Where I'm from, 30,000 USD/year puts you near the top of a lot of pyramids. Including the sexual one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:32 PM
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CMV: Feminism is not to blame for the Wests' current dating woes...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:05 PM
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Women now approach men whenever they're interested and don't wait on men to make the first move. I think dating would go a lot more smoother if all women just approached whoever they're interested in and don't just sit back and wait for men to make the first move. Yes, please! That would be my first wish as well. It is you that has the power to decide whether I am a creep or not, not me. Since you are better at reading social cues than I am, there's a high chance that if you think I was checking…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:44 AM
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$1-$3 I live in Africa...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:49 PM
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Men can easily have causal sex, but with other men or ugly women. You do know that a person's looks have nothing to do with what their standards will be, right? Men can also dress provocatively, and it has the same level of effectiveness depending on attraction as men. No, no it doesn't. There is actually evidence that dressing provactively may actually make things worse for a man. Men can become hetero sex workers. I really don't know if you are trolling right now. Men can get a free supply of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:41 PM
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You don’t just slip and fall and have your dick land in a vagina. You would be surprised. Choice is not the limiting factor for men, though. Even if a man decided he wanted to indulge in mindless hookups, his numbers would be far, far lower than a female that decides to do the same. I say so because I know of many guys that wanted to have wild sex back in college, did the whole going out thing and failed at it spectacularly. Many have since become resentful (The guys that post, "Well, I'll be ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:19 AM
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I think the point OP is trying to get at here is that, for most women, it's choice. whereas for most men, it's circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:05 AM
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In my experience, you have a lot of Pareto effects while in college. 20% of guys have fucked or are currently fucking 80% of promiscuous girls while the other 80% of guys that want to be promiscuous get little to no action. I do remember that whenever we landed on conversations about this, say 7 to 8 out of 10 of us would either have nothing or just one experience to talk about. Then there'd be about 2 guys that would be showing us secretly recorded videos of them banging a new chick every weeke…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:58 AM
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Can you give some examples of what this bullying looked like? Not OP, but have also been bullied for being ugly. Some examples of bullying I went through include: • Girls refusing to sit next to you during lunch because, "They might lose their appetite." • Girls refusing to paired with you & opting to fail an assignment because they didn't want to associate with someone gross. • A girl uttering, "Yuck! No." when you ask her out. • Guys taunting you about said incident. It's hard to believe that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:39 PM
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Evolutionary Psychology isn't real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:22 PM
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Why wish bad things to happen to them at all? Envy. Some people feel it's wrong for someone to have their cake and eat it too. To them it's not fair that some folks had access to the short term sexual buffet while they didn't and then should also have first dibs in long term relationships...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:09 PM
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Ok, do you have a stat for declining marriage rates? Not everyone marries No, I don't but would be happy to look at it if you provided some. The burden of proof rests with the person making the claim. But even if you were to present this data it might not mean what you might interpret it to mean. One explanation might be that older more established men are going through a speed run of pumping and dumping young, women. Another might be that the rift between the sexes has just gotten wider and few…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:55 PM
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This is not more valid that the idea you're trying to debunk. It's based on your anecdotal experience. No, I don't think it is. According to the 2017 US stats, the average age gap for marriage is about 2-4 years, with the woman usually being younger. This seems to suggest that most men are indeed ending up with women around their age bracket rather than snatching girls 10 years their junior. Most men simply aren't going to be successful enough to do that because success in a lot of disciplines d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:46 PM
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Most people (yes the promiscuous women as well) find a long term partner in their 30s. Probably even earlier and to a Higher VM than the hustlers. “I’m doing bad right now, but when I turn 33 I’ll be sought after by all the young chicks, while my female peers will be undesirable old hags”. And bear in mind that even if this fantasy does come true, (& for most of y'all it won't) in most Western societies, age gap relationships are viewed with a lot of suspicion (see: Leonardo DiCaprio). Be prepar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:13 PM
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Most people (yes the promiscuous women as well) find a long term partner in their 30s. Probably even earlier and to a Higher VM than the hustlers. “I’m doing bad right now, but when I turn 33 I’ll be sought after by all the young chicks, while my female peers will be undesirable old hags”. And bear in mind that even if this fantasy does come true, (& for most of y'all it won't) in most Western societies, age gap relationships are viewed with a lot of suspicion (see: Leonardo DiCaprio). Be prepar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:09 PM
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It’s not true attraction you’re creating. Perhaps "true attraction" (whatever that means) is not the goal. It’s not true attraction you’re creating. It’s a niggling feeling of “why is this mid guy treating me like I’m not attractive? It doesn’t make sense….I am attractive….no? Or does he treat me like this because he’s got lots of options? How is that possible he’s mid?” Not all game involves negging. True attraction is something that you don’t even need to try with, you can even be a bit beta a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:46 PM
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A lot of women , especially younger ones, will pick the mysterious guy with the bad boy edge over the boring dependable guy. Define, "A lot." If it does not amount to a mojority, then I don't believe we should be too worried. I think there might be a false dichotomy here. Dependable doesn't have to equal boring. broken women and isntead wife up older, "wiser" (aka used to date assholes in her youth and now knows better) women who are finally ready to settle down. Do all women that learn life les…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:37 AM
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Why? Being confident for nothing works just as well amd takes a lot less effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:18 AM
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Well, according to most forms of psychological research and annecdotal evidence, male confidence (& sometimes even arrogance) is viewed upon as attractive. Hence if someone wants kids/female attention, given the highly competitive nature of modern dating markets, the best bet someone has is to become attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:57 AM
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This is my biggest gripe with the "Just be Confident," advice most people seem to give men on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:28 AM
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In most men's experience, women are a lot more picky about who it is they decide to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:27 AM
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But what happens if someone wants kids or worse...female attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:19 AM
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Precisely. If the bar is that high, what are men supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:57 AM
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This is not a sustainable long term solution for men. Is there really any alternative? The only advice I hear tossed to men on this issue is, "Well, improve yourself." Yet if everyone does that, then we're back to where we started. They say the best way to win at an auction is not to go and modern dating is definitely an auction for female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:34 AM
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Economic, mainly. But a few also do have fame on social media. For instance I just received a message that one guy I used to play soccer with in middle school already owns 2 houses at age 22 and drives his own Land Cruiser. No one knows how he made that money, but I don't think the multitude of women that suffocate him care much...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:08 AM
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Most men and women might prefer someone remarkable, but realistically won't end up with them, so it doesn't really matter. Oh, no! According to TRP, this is exactly why it matters. Since an average person will only be picked on condition that a person higher up doesn't declare interest first, it may sometimes lead to one party wondering why they weren't good enough to attract an "elite" mate and that they could do better than their current partner (Please read their theories on "Alpha Fucks; Bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:02 AM
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Many already do. At least in my circles...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:43 AM
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A man has to compete with all other men, so how can he compete You don't have to if you don't want to. There is quite a lot of evidence 123 that women tend to be hypergamous and that they will often check out of dating when men "higher" than them are unavailable or unattainable If you are disheartened by that, then perhaps it would be best to figure out how best to enjoy your life without the possibility of romantic relationships because in a dating market as competitive as that in the modern er…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:41 AM
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Yet, it would seem people have few other better alternatives...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:21 AM
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Remarkable men will most likely get with remarkable women but there are still plenty of pickings left for the rest of us. TRP ideology would argue that most women want a remarkable man whether they themelves are remarkable or not. So if we assume they are correct, an unremarkable woman will still have lots of guys to choose from, while an unremarkable man will have a tough time and will probably have to deal with being a 2nd, 3rd or 4th round pick. And that might lead to resentment in both parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:18 AM
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How is trying to avoid a personal disaster saintly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:15 AM
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ITT: People not grying to change OPs view. Just saying, "Well, it's not for everyone."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:14 AM
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40% is still rather high...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:11 AM
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What evidence do YOU have that evolution does not apply to the homo sapien and specifically the brain? That's not my argument. My argument is that women not approaching men is not an evolutionary adaptation. Men weren’t ever scarce. We know this from ancient DNA and archaeological records. There were always roughly similar number of male and female Homo sapiens, but most men didn’t reproduce whereas most women did. I am very skeptical of this claim. For as long as war has been a part of human ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:00 PM
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And what happens when the others do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:37 PM
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You understand that’s sheer nonsense right? Is it though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:37 PM
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He's not wrong, though....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:35 PM
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Like most of human behavior, it’s because of evolutionary biology and sexual selection. What evidence do you have for that claim? Men have, in general, evolved to be the pursuers. That’s why they chase and approach. Women just have to filter This seems illogical. Don't you think that in instances in which men were scarce, women would have to do the approaching if they wanted their genes passed on? Why hasn't such behaviour survived?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:32 PM
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You are an exception. Most women say they don't want to do it...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:27 PM
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To all the women, what are your thoughts on dating a baby faced guy? Would it be a turn off because it's "unmasculine"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 08:04 AM
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Why do they say this? Few reasons. According to evolutionary psychology, it could be due to intra-sexual competition. Since statistically speaking, most older women find it significantly more difficult use just their looks to attract a partner, Evo Psych states that they might resort to other tactics. One is shaming men for picking women that are younger (pronounced: "prettier") than they are. It could be due to social upbringing. Most cultures in many western nations, view large age gap relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:56 AM
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There is some evidence that machiavellianism could also be attractive. Men that are willing to tell a woman just what she wants to hear with no regard for truth usually do better than men that are crippled by virtue. Especially in short term encounters....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:45 AM
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Alright, fine. Scratch that. Given that a man's approach can be scary for a lady, women should be given then the task of approaching. Yet a lot of women still seem hesitant to take the first step...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:22 PM
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That's weird, because women's issue with rejecting men who cold approach is when men threaten them, assault them, rape them, and murder them, but are always told that barely ever happens and women should stop living their lives in fear. This is true. In the words of one person, "A man's greatest fear is that the woman he's approaching will laugh at him, while a woman's greatest fear is that a man approaching will kill her." For this reason, many have suggested that it should be women to do the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:03 PM
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Confidence, brashness, bravery and machiavellianism are all attributes that women seem to be attracted to and assholes have them in excess supply...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:53 PM
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We need more women like you. After a few social media incidents, many young men are terrified of approaching a woman they are attracted to...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:52 PM
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I would say 90% to 95% of women will try their best to go easy on you (e.g. "I have a BF," "Sorry, not interested." Giving you a number but flaking.) See the issue a lot of men here have is with the 5%-10% that will do stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:48 PM
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Still lower than Asia, though...If the complaints about Western women are legitimate then this may well be a viable option....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:56 PM
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But they did get married in the first place, now didn't they? OP may even argue that they got married quicker and had "the best pick of the bunch." Whatever that may mean.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:32 AM
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It’s so easy to be attractive as a man. No, I don't think it is. Height requires breaking of bones. Wealth needs ruthless dedication. Muscle needs a very long time to grow....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:40 AM
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All you have to do is to have a healthy (19-21) BMI, put on minimal natural makeup and look minimally feminine. The range isn't even that narrow. A woman can make it to overweight range and still be a dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:37 AM
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2, 6 & 4 are the most attractive. 5 isn't bad but still the bottom of this list....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:38 PM
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Even if you dont believe in god, what do you think this says about female nature. Nothing... I truly pity the genuinely good guys in this world. I'm sure they'll be fine....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:12 PM
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They could be smart, sporty, creative, be in theatre or have any interest they wanted but generally they were just good-looking and likeable. Good looking, yes. Likeabke, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:39 AM
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6) You have to get good at reading her signals. Given that men have said that they are constantly confused by the signals women send, isn't it high time women improved the quality of their signals? How is this still men's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:42 PM
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As a man, there are few greater pleasures in life than hearing an attractive women moan your name in ecstasy as you’re fucking her brains out. Makes you temporarily forget the suffering that is life. Months of work for 20 mins of pleasure?...I guess it's no wonder they say men are less intelligent...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:40 PM
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i believe that many People in those subs are to theoretical and dont have reallife experience where they observed those strategies. I do think most PUA do make a point of having field reports and field videos of their encounters. Does that count as real life experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:10 AM
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Life is full of trade-offs, isn't it...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:22 AM
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I'm not telling men to be emotionless robots with blank and stone cold faces 24/7 You'd be surprised how often this tends to work as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:41 AM
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