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DiscussionIncel_Finder/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:47 PM
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Incel_Finder/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 12:37 PM
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The red pill, PUAs, incels, neckbeards, alt-right, neo nazis are all part of the far right pipeline that make up the manosphere. They all share a common enemy: women. And we need to speak up at all times to shine a light on the dangers.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 06:26 PM
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Yea about that... for the umpteenth time: I created it as a tongue in cheek joke but before long I realised just how bad the situation is with this lot. So here I am giving advice 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:13 PM
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Stop coping What does that mean? I'm a woman by the way lol. So I was speaking on your behalf but whatever. Like I said, the OLD women have created a simple filter to quickly get rid of anyone toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:03 PM
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Understood and my apologies. I assumed it was directed at me. Edited accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:49 PM
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We all lose in the end as a result of toxic online movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:37 PM
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Incels: wE aRe mIsUnDeRsToOd Also incels: "Bitch I'm going to burn your face off and rape and kill you" I want to make it loud and clear for the lurkers and dweebs who message me, if you call yourself an incel and say you aren't like the others, you are compliant in this behavior. If you don't call it out, you deserve to be lumped in with these shit stains. Now waiting for a mod to tell me to keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:27 PM
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Quite simple really: you wouldn't dare speak offline in the real world the way you do here. Because you know full well that you'd be ostracized and shunted. That means you're self aware and know full well what you're doing but refuse to change, and so, you live one life here online, and another offline
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:25 PM
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Ain't that the truth! I've had huge manuscript level discussions with one one of the users here called bottlebank who doesn't realise that feminism, which he is so staunchly against is one of the main reasons why the world is that much better aware of neurodivergence and disabilities. Man's constantly mixing up radical feminism with coherent feminism. It's wild! That's indoctrination for ya!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:12 PM
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I'm sure you mean well, but I just can't get past these online terms. Like how am I supposed to have a decent discussion when the person is using the language which are the symbols of his indoctrination? Yet unbeknownst to him?🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:09 PM
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Don't forget the ones who send acid attack pics, rape and death threats with their fresh 0 day profiles. Though maybe my username is to blame for that and it's a self fulfilling prophecy 🤦🏻‍♀️ To be honest I'm surprised it wasn't already taken 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:50 PM
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Ha I didn't have the links ready. It was a very simple on -the-spot search into Google that spat out more than I could handle and just picked a few. The damage has been done by the rise of the far right and fascist movements. So I guess we should all enjoy the ride now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:48 PM
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Russian web brigade Why incels love Putin Far right pipeline and incel terrorism How the alt-right’s sexism lures men into white supremacy recruitment MAGA and the "incels": Latest Jan. 6 arrests show how fascists target insecure young men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:39 PM
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And they target neurodivergent men who have an intense burning sense of injustice and betrayal at the smallest issue, which is part and parcel of neurodivergence. I seem to remember the whole incel / black pill / alt right movements really took off in around 2012 just as trump declared his running for presidency. Yes it existed before then but not to the same degree. We now recognise that trump's right hand man Steve Bannon orchestrated with Russia to infiltrate many online communities with prop…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:31 PM
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It's why I'm here. To learn and teach my nieces what to watch out for. Meanwhile my cousin is showing signs of inceldom even though he's 14 which goes to show it's preying on young vulnerable minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:27 PM
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Alfalfa grass and betamaxx VHS cassettes everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:25 PM
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Because they believe in the pseudoscience of phrenology
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:19 PM
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The red pill is vague on purpose so that it leaves wiggling room to get out of logical questioning. I might be new here, but I find it hilarious the mental gymnastics on show in every thread of every post. I just can't look away. I think I'm addicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:12 PM
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Ha we wish. When you realise that the red pill teaches Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy, it's as far removed from a sane logical person as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:09 PM
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So much victimhood in here. How do you guys walk around thinking you're 'alpha'?🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:07 PM
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It's a zero sum game. That's what red pill teaches. Must win at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:02 PM
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This post nailed it a while back. I personally believe the black pill is a psy-op. The majority of youths who self label as black pill are privileged Americans. Get the youth to feel despair, push really daft ideologies onto them, and watch the shitshow from afar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:53 PM
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Oh but don't you see, single mothers who commit to bringing up the child alone after being ditched by the coward guy are the bad ones. (Not even going to bother putting a /s after this one)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:46 PM
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The red pill is the antithesis of love. Both for the self and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:22 PM
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The internet manosphere causes men to acquire toxic masculinity, [Machiavellianism](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Machiavellianism_(psychology), narcissism, and psychopathy. Please take the time to read through those links. These traits are all negative shadow forms of man. It breeds discontent and causes him to be farther away from the happiness he seeks. If you're part of any pill, you're in it I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:19 PM
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What I'm saying is that in general, men aren't even allowed to be victims, especially not in intimate relationships. Not sure what you mean by men can't be victims in a relationship. If you mean they can't show their emotions, then yes they can. My husband and I have become stronger due to exactly that. Having set healthy boundaries and talking through things when they arise rather than one of us playing victim and covert resentment at play. If the woman hates seeing a man show emotions, it's he…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:07 PM
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Aw but I like you! Come here! 🙌🏻 Edit: lol he blocked me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:57 PM
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Someone's swallowed the black pill eh? How silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:53 PM
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This goes to show how young / lacking in social skills these guys are to make such assumptions whilst having a dictionary of female psychology tucked under their arm at all times to quickly pull out and state some obscure fact, yet the same talking points come out - hyper-gammon and the wall-rus
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:50 PM
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Go to r/IncelTear to see what goes down on both sides. Incels send death and rape threats, the posters of that sub post their 'wins' in how they wound up the incel. Plus some women who instantly ask what height the man is such as on OLD is shit testing the guy to see if he has toxic masculinity surrounding certain traits to quickly filter out the haves from the have nots. And most guys fail the simplest shit test yet call themselves 'alpha'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:26 PM
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A young person man or woman is open to manipulation. They have no bite. No grit. What they do have is innocence and a sense of wonder that these men want to snatch and sully so that they can shape her and control her autonomy before "Chad" gets her - except that's not what's happening. Every human being is on a journey and a rights of passage - apart from incels and alike who have lost hope and seek to take down others with them. It's a mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:23 PM
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By men taking responsibility for their shortcomings and accepting that they are low on confidence and self esteem. The sub needs to promote and allow advice posts. That's what those men need more than anything else, instead posts are mainly CMV even though the person making that post isn't seeking CMV but rather wants validation for their views.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 12:19 PM
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I'm saying it's been pushed by them to piss off people here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:25 AM
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Did I hurt your feelings? Funny how I get called high and mighty when it's you folks who think you know the psychology of women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:25 AM
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Is this a bot account that responds to that gif? Because that was hilarious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:06 AM
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But don't you see, I'm not the one who's sex starved or see the world through some lense that is harmful to me. My beliefs are set in reality where life is so incredibly complex, yet somehow you guys apparently got it all figured out with all your terminology and internet jargon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:35 AM
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You insult your own intellect like I keep saying by narrowing down life into pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:45 AM
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The problem is that you see life as these pills. That's an insult to you own intellect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:44 AM
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Ah yes. Making up your own stats and you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:43 AM
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imagine thinking the world in terms of pills. Who's the real fool here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:41 AM
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I didn't mean you specifically. I meant this lot. Your logic is correct
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:40 AM
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The whole point of international dating is that impoverished women are easier/more attainable (lower expectations, less superficial regarding looks, more agreeable, sometimes doormats, value basic financial stability as opposed to being materialistic) while simultaneously being more valuable (youthful/open to age gaps, non-fat, little baggage, non-jaded). This is a fantasy. I guess you've never seen the stories of guys going over to the far East to find a wife bring her over, who then proceed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:15 AM
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Because when you live on the internet, you make up your own rules as you go along and the points don't matter. Whose line is it anyway?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:08 AM
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That was posted here during purge week as if it's a rights of passage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:03 AM
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And a few brain cells
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:54 AM
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And you still couldn't be one of those counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:52 AM
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Alfalfa and betamaxx VHS cassettes ftw!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:45 AM
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Because it's a trope from the other side. It's an FDS mentality and strategy. It reduces men to a small pool that then creates the kind of angry guys we see on here. It's all fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:42 AM
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It’s all relative. American women are also arguably the top 5% of the women using your definition. So they have top 5% standards for men. All Western women have a top 5% standard mentality? Your comment though highlights why passport bros is discussed a lot on this forum. An American man can do much better globally because his perceived status / SMV, whatever you want to call it is actually recognized by foreign women. Well if he can travel and if it helps him score or settle then that's great. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:36 AM
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You keep digging yourself a hole the more you speak lol. So you believe in all the horrid things that you're saying and you're seeking attention. Got it 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:29 AM
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As per your flair, you call yourself a red pill man, but your comment reads like a very insecure man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:25 AM
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They're literally and figuratively telling you that they are utter trash as human beings. And I'm a woman saying this. Where's the common sense? They aren't telling me I am trash, just that they aren't attracted to me and aside being called the short and ugly in a non-approach setting no woman has rejected me for any of those reason, just told me typical soft letdowns. I also don't simp for any woman, the reason I know most women feel this way because of studies. I didn't say they were telling y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:21 AM
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Inflammatory = trolling and seeking attention. In case you didn't realise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:17 AM
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So you're trolling to get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:54 AM
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It's all absolutely self inflicted! How can they be so blind!?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:50 AM
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You're way deep down that rabbit hole of online manosphere with all the terminology and jargon and beliefs in tow. Yes, when you’re nearing 30 and used up by chad and Tyrone then you want a relationship with a stable man, like I said. This comment of yours is fucking horrific yet you'll never know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:48 AM
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LMS and 666 are terms used to describe what women like as a general rule, most women prefer a taller, more handsome and more financially successful guy All women?... Who are these airheaded women that want that and why would you cater to them like some simp? They're literally and figuratively telling you that they are utter trash as human beings. And I'm a woman saying this. Where's the common sense? So the only thing standing between me and a woman with the looks of Adriana Lima when at her pea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:29 AM
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No no don't you see. Women are merely numbers. 2/10, 5/10, 8/10. We're at a pig market and we're here to buy and own one! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:24 AM
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This guy is something else. I didn't even see your response and the words I muttered to myself was exactly the same as yours. I felt despair at what he typed. These guys are too far gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:17 AM
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Cognitive dissonance in full effect... I'm gonna say it straight to you. You're not ugly on the outside. You're ugly in the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:15 AM
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The definition of attractive here has many permutations depending on who you ask. One man may say they find a hard working, caring, passionate woman attractive who matches his looks and outlook on life, and ideology, and everything in-between. The next man will say he is attracted to the kind of woman who matches his libido and quirks and sense of humour and sense of adventure. The red pill man will say he is attracted to Stacey 10/10 who is touted highly in society, who is also low/0 n count an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:09 AM
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The only thing standing between you and your goals is the fucking bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it. Just like I said. You call yourself ugly. That's your bullshit story. You're putting yourself down like it's a badge of honour. If I was your close friend in real life and you told me that, I'd walk all over you because you're telling me and the world that you're worthless. Do you understand this at all? It states exactly what I said. No self esteem or confid…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:51 PM
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Precisely. They're empty on the inside and neglected the most important part of themselves that would make them the richest men on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:41 PM
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I already explained. Many times on this sub. It can't possibly be that the men here are lacking self worth and confidence, and instead, they are filled with self loathing and beliefs that are detrimental to their growth. It couldn't possibly be that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:37 PM
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I'm sorry but this whole LMS, 666, SMV terms and beliefs are utter bullshit. You folks are already uber privileged because you live in the West and live in the top 5% of the world's population as well as the history of mankind. The only thing standing between you and your goals is the fucking bullshit story you keep telling yourself as to why you can't achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:20 PM
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Well I mean you're talking to a woman so we're not all into the victim complex mentality mode. Those that are, either have had bad life experiences and have learned those behaviours and are acting subconsciously, or are also Machiavellian and know precisely what they're doing. Either that or they are narcissistic and it's just a trait that comes part and parcel of narcissism. Then again I'm big on psychology. I understand and appreciate that the dark arts exist and both men and women have used t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:10 PM
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men like the new wave of red pillery because it's prescriptive and it puts agency into their lives where before they had none. I wish I could've told my 15 year old self 'you chose poorly, you didn't work on yourself and you wasted too much time on videogames and being butthurt about getting cheated on' as opposed to 'woe is me, how could she do this, what kindof person goes off and fucks some extremely attractive and more popular dude when given the opportunity'. See I've been told to my face b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:40 PM
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They feel bad, lonely, depressed, helpless before discovering the pills, or any of the other stuff that goes along with it. Why do you think they're Googling "how to get girlfriend" or "stop feeling lonely"? They already feel stuck, they're trying to find advice This. Go to Google and type that and the first few pages will give you results that are relevant. Before long, the blogs begin. The red pill gets mentioned. A few clicks and we're into manosphere videos. Besides, most youngsters are usin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:32 PM
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lmao. I have now! I guess she's proud of her labia majora
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:47 PM
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You're probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:37 PM
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Ah yes, actively deciding to lose hope, like it's a choice. Why do you think people commit suicide? Why do you think they committed suicide long before any of this pill shit existed? Decades, centuries ago, long before the internet? You do realise we're on the same side quite often don't you? Actively was the wrong word, I'll admit that. I should have said inadvertently choosing. Will that make more sense in what I was trying to say? Because losing hope is a thing that happens, whether you want …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:17 PM
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No I don’t understand what you mean by this. This statement implies that the end goal of the red pill is to make people who otherwise wouldn’t be, into abusers. Which I don’t agree with. The dark arts hopefully this will explain. It's what the red pill is built on. You may not agree with it and that's fine, but you'll come to understand that what the red pill does is to teach those traits whilst totally overlooking the harnessing positive character traits. It does the opposite “This is instillin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:00 PM
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Firstly I hope this is a genuine post. I say that because it sounds very naive. Which is at odds with you, the person who has these high level qualifications. You seem to want to please others. That's the assumption I'm making. I'm probably wrong. But if it is that, it won't end well. You do you. Never settle for what others want from you. You'll just end up being a martyr and resent your choices. Do your parents have much say in your decisions? If so it makes sense why you think the way you do.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:43 PM
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I think you missed the "/s" But yea. It won't end well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:39 PM
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You'll be just fine. Just please don't turn black pilled or some such where you actively decide to lose hope and disregard responsibility like some here have and then end up complaining why things have turned worse without realising the root cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:28 PM
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I don't assign value to women I let them assign it to themselves. Really? So you don't go around giving woman a x/10 rating in terms of looks? I find that hard to believe. You pick your women. If not you'd be sleeping with a 1/10 in which case they are not high quality as we discussed. Again, you're missing a fundamental part of the red pill. Women assign the value. Men are expected to generate it. This is all new to me. Are men therefore simping themselves just to be noticed after spending time…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:25 PM
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Glad we have come to an understanding. And that is why it's important for me to be there to question these guys as well as learn from them for the sole purpose of understanding my cousin. He's not some woman hating individual. He's not spouting off about hypergamy this or the wall that. Not yet anyway. All I've noticed up to now is how he's gone from a happy-go-lucky-kid to a quiet individual within 6 months. And when we finally managed to get him to speak on his terms he mentioned how he thinks…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:19 PM
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Maybe I should make myself totally clear. You see, my would view remains in the present and in reality outside the internet. I don't get all my talking points from the internet. I don't live online in terms of seeing life as memes and communicating in dating lingo that is wholly detrimental to me. Plus I'm a teacher so it's actually imperative for me to understand what's going on in these spaces where youngsters pick up all these talking points and bring them into the classroom, thinking they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:14 PM
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You mean Chad will settle for a woman only on his level? But I thought you guys said that 80% of women are chasing 20% of men or some such.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:09 PM
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Ugh we're going in circles An abuser will not be changed into a non abuser by different advice. Because he’s already an abuser. If a person is already an abuser he won't need the red pill as a tool. I hope you understand what I mean by this. Guys who are decent to begin with but end up having bad experiences or get indoctrinated by the red pill end up learning behaviours akin to abuse. After all, the red pill teaches Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy. They literally meant that a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:07 PM
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So you consider those women who cheated with you as high quality and high value? Isn't this just you seeing the world through your lens and nothing more? And if your lens is that of the red pill, every bit of nuance is being translated through that lens. Everyone talks about their successes. You will have had many women who turned you down. Do you see those women as low value or high? Because some may say that those are the high value women who refused to cheat etc. And yes, makeup is a form of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:52 PM
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Social media and the new age of tech has really divided us all. Quite unfortunate. We're ever more connected yet extremely lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:40 PM
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I'm not the one making that up. There are all walks of men. Some have translated that term to mean they can abuse a woman while they can. Then there are those who think of it from the perspective of hypergamy to mean that she will move on no matter how much he changes himself thereby cementing hypergamy for themselves, even though hypergamy exists in a particular subset of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:39 PM
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I just fucking hate all these xxx-maxxing terms. They are not part of the real world. I've even heard jihadmaxxing where young Muslim men have been radicalised to become terrorists. How can anything good come of these terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:29 PM
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The not so attractive men are filtering themselves out of the gene pool through the red pill. Quite ironic really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:28 PM
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And guess what the young men translate that as. Some think it means that they can abuse her and pass her on. Others won't go near her thinking she has high n count and have their negative biases confirmed. We're talking young men with very little real world experience and critical thinking. This got brought up in r/exredpill. I'll link if I can find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:26 PM
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But muh AWALTz!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:14 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:11 PM
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I need halp. Send halp!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:09 PM
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You just sounded so insecure, which is who the red pill targets. Why would I want a fucking doormat for a man? I would want my man to match my level of value. You twisted to cover your own insecurities because you fully realise you don't have those positive traits. It's why you and your chums here want to target young women who have no value or self worth. The whole world can see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:09 PM
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No. It doesn't 'suck' for my cousin lol. He's being recruited and I won't allow it. It's as simple as that. That young boy playing Minecraft will get a message on twitch or discord from some bot or a bad actor or a proxy recruiter (another young kid) which will send him down the rabbit hole within a few clicks. Also it's interesting just how little empathy and sympathy people have these days
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:06 PM
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You just proved my point. Some girls will search feminism just as guys search Tate. Tiktok actively pushes suicide on both genders which is fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:02 PM
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Go type Andrew Tate into YouTube and see that happens to your feed. I rest my case. Don't be daft. And to respond to your other comment about window shopping (can't post since I got blocked by the other poster lol) Here I'll save you the time. I have a cousin who is 14 and calling himself an incel. What business does a 14 year old have in calling himself involuntary celibate when he has never even kissed a girl yet already believes that "it's over" because supposedly he's ugly and short (even th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:35 PM
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Didn't take long to start shifting the focus back to women, did it? Clearly women in shelters/hostels are less at risk than men who have no shelters/hostels and are living on the street. You can't equate the two as similarly "homeless". Remarkable... Women consciously know that they are far more at risk on the street than men and so accept that they should stay in hostels at night. Why is this difficult to understand? You twisted it and made a mockery of homelessness and created some victim comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:29 PM
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Will guys here lack even the basics. How does this help? And what women are these guys chasing where even the supposed basics aren't enough? Why is everything taken to an extreme?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:17 PM
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These are very one sided takes. It's ad hominems that no matter how I respond, puts me on the backfoot lol. I know you understand this. The online spheres like the manosphere is damaging for the person following it because it exists in a bubble, which cannot be expanded. It exists as is. It's one sided and biased. Life is also a bubble until the person expands their bubble by growing in esteem, stature, and confidence through experience and knowledge. Of course they'll have many setbacks. But by…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:13 PM
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I responded to the wrong post 🤦🏻‍♀️ Nobody is refusing to accept that there's no systemic issues in society. Both men and women suffer for different reasons. You merely concentrate on men. Yesterday I showed you how feminism actually has massively helped the plight of neurodivergent men like yourself. I read a study a while back on homelessness and there was a 60-40 split between men and women however there was also hidden homelessness where women were unaccounted for due to having been based in…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:56 PM
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He understands the concept of if it's not broken don't fix it. Also he's most likely been told by his peers and parents to use critical thinking. That's evident because he's questioning things. Guys who have committed to the red pill didn't question what they were reading and instead let their emotions get played. Why is this difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:44 PM
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He's using real world advice that has worked for centuries instead of some trope like "she's not yours, it's just your turn" bollocks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:38 PM
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You fail to see the fact that men turn into redpills because they put themselves out there and played this game. And found out the game is cruel and shit. Only to guys who are self loathing and have zero self esteem. They then turn to the red pill and get poisoned even further. Want to know what a man's real value is? The true value of a man is his integrity, his patience, his kindness, and willingness to support his partner, to listen to them, and care for them, regardless of what he earns or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:35 PM
1

Do you care that they judge? The key is not to care who says what. We all have to carve our own path in life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:03 PM
1

Not all men. Only a subset who can't see the wood for the trees and have fallen for an ideology that has rotted their brains. Are you telling me that some of those so called incels who are only 13 years of age at best should be spouting off about wanting to rape woman and all the hate have autonomy and self awareness at that age? Because that's what's happening on the internet. Young minds are being manipulated daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:38 PM
1

Ah yes. The male feminist term pops up. Do tell me more about what you think that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:33 PM
1

Ah yes. Cherry picked studies and only the bits of the study that exacerbate the plight of those already in a quagmire of unresolved internal issues and anguish. Do tell me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:27 PM
1

I guess you don't see the problem then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:26 PM
-1

Do you think you're less better than everyone here? Hello? Please respond
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:22 PM
1

If they are losing in life, they are better off reading the RP. Bitter pill, but they have all the materials to turn their lives around. This bit is the problem. So you see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:19 PM
2

I didn't check lol your comment is at the top of this post and I remembered your username. That can be awkward to be around family who might inadvertently cock block you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:18 PM
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Oh. I didn't know I was coming across like I was better than anyone here. What makes you think that? Do you think you're less better than everyone here?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:05 PM
3

... Which you didn't do even though she sat next to you in church 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:00 PM
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"No u" But you see, I'm window shopping. Plus I just can't take my eyes off this car crash happening before me daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:55 PM
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He didn't buy into the algorithms and crap he saw online but using critical thinking first. Others like the majority here who also didn't have any experience did and are now deep down that rabbit hole of despair. Who's winning here exactly? He is. And good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:47 PM
1

Time to watch children of men again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:44 PM
1

That is incel content because you've bought into a shitty ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:43 PM
-1

Jeezus. That's some next level catastrophization.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:42 PM
1

The vast majority of the internet lol. Yea like they are shining beacons of common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:38 PM
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Just stay away from the manosphere. There's a reason why it solely exists online and hasn't seeped into the real world. Because it's utter bullshit and a coping mechanism for weak men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:34 PM
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You said it yourself, he's learning. He's putting himself out there, making mistakes, making gains, playing the game. He'll get over his nice guy phase. Compare them to this lot who are chronically online, spouting their hate from behind their anonymous usernames. Who's going to succeed here? Him or them? Yea, I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:33 PM
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They are 'alpha' didn't you know. Alpha = not fit for public release.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:31 PM
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Imagine thinking the whole of life is some pill lol. No wonder you internet people are so lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:29 PM
2

Hey you're doing just fine. You think with logic and reasoning and critical thinking, rather than emotions like this lot do. You'll be a million miles ahead of this lot who are seething away online. These are the casualties of the new age of internet algorithms and jargon. They know this. They're scared and living in fear. Do you want to be like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:25 PM
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Said the chronically online people believing in some daft ideology that has them seething daily at the supposed state of the world? Yea sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:22 PM
2

Are you an only child
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:16 PM
1

The internet says jump off a cliff Will you? Answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:32 PM
1

You didn't answer my question. Should I drink and do drugs to get rid of my problems? The internet said so. Your logic is very flawed. I'm guessing you're very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:44 PM
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You don't see any issue with that? Is the internet always right? The internet can never be wrong, right? I read on the internet that if I become a drug addict and an alcoholic, all my life problems will go away. Should I start doing drugs and drinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:05 PM
2

So you are assuming and believing in hearsay based on the community you associate yourself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:19 PM
1

I'm not from the current generation. This gen got fucked up by digital tech, social media, algorithms, grifters, what have you. They then decided to join their culture. Before, it happened in the real world. Emos, punk rockers, Jocks, snobs, nerds, etc. With the advent of social media it all turned into a cesspit of online spheres. With all due respect your comment read like a victim complex rant. I personally don't have an issue with it either way. It just makes me wonder what that mindset will…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:13 PM
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So you saw it with your own eyes then...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:08 PM
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You're trying to get your 15 year old cousin laid? You creep me out quite honestly. ?... I'm trying to educate myself so I can then educate him about his predicament and why he's thinking the way he is. He's not even ugly. It's a mental health issue that keeps getting compounded due to the repetition process of his routine of going online and consuming the incel rhetoric. That's one daft assumption on your part. And let's be perfectly honest here. Incels are causing their own issues. Depends. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:08 PM
1

Well we all lose. Incel says foid. Femcel says moid. Things escalate. Some shit goes down over time. Things reach a crescendo. All it takes is a spark and we'll have a bad event on our hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:58 PM
1

Children too? Really? I know they hate men like 2X does, but kids? Really? To the point of shooting up the place?...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:25 PM
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My cousin is going down the incel path. Only 15. I make it my imperative to educate myself in the best way possible to then talk with him as best I can. And let's be perfectly honest here. Incels are causing their own issues. They are falling for an indoctrination. I know you'll disagree and say how women have rejected them. I bet you most guys are normal looking guys with a very skewed belief system due to how long they've spent in their community online after falling down that rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:24 PM
1

Then I apologise. I'll walk away from this one. Apologies for my assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:52 PM
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Not quite. We humans have inklings. Just as you want to be in the best position possible to make gains in your dating life, hence your post, some of us really want to learn the minds of the people who are in their predicaments. That's all. Their lives have no bearing on ours. We are merely snooping into the looking glass and wondering why, how, what is happening. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:51 PM
1

You missed the point of my post. Are you not a red piller?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:48 PM
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Who made you believe this? Did you see all women of the west with your own eyes become this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:44 PM
1

You and I have had plenty of discussions on here and it's very disappointing to see your reaction here How many deaths are caused by women? Quite a lot, actually. Many against children, some against spouses, others simply "generic" murders. More children are murdered by their mothers in one year in the USA than all deaths attributed to incel killers, ever, across the entire world. I just had exactly the same conversation here with another guy called tired_hilbilly or some such and he did exactly…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:42 PM
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I see your post got deleted which isn't surprising. You're seeking attention and it's easy to spot. You are angry for some reason but hey it's your life. We only have one to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:04 PM
1

So you want to be a sociopath and have psychopathy traits? All I'm pointing out is that with money and age, women tolerate a lot more from a guy and are more sexually available to that guy. My point is women will sleep with anybody with money, he's proof of that, so you can't say age doesn't make you more sexy when money comes with age. All I'm doing is commenting on women's behaviors, not what I aspire to. I don't even actively date anymore dude, why would I want to be like Weinstein when I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:59 PM
1

How many deaths were caused by movements like feminism compared to incel culture alone? Did gay men in the past take a gun and go shooting? Or were they the target of shootings? I can instantly remember incidents aplenty where some right wing nut has opened fire on gay people. I can bring up a list of incel related terrorism events. We're talking progressive movements that benefit us as a whole vs destructive movements (the far right) And bare in mind that while you're neurodivergent, feminism h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:43 PM
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So you want to be a sociopath and have psychopathy traits? See here's the issue. A lot of guys who get into the red pill at first feel exhilarated at the idea that they've found some sort of secret to getting women. A cheat code, if you will. And by guys, I'm talking decent guys to start off with who didn't have the best of luck with dating but their hearts were in the right place. Along comes the red pill and tells them they need to act in a particular way and live a particular lifestyle. Only …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:31 PM
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Do you need attention? Let people do what they want. If you don't want women then don't mock them either. Your attitude seems off, which is nothing new when it comes to guys here. Attitude is so damn important.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:25 PM
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The gay community had to raise awareness to make it happen. Did you forget that part? Even then the pushback was extreme especially on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:56 PM
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You poor souls are trapped in a perpetual cycle of internet jargon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:55 PM
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You got the wrong end of the stick here. No one of calling the FBI because someone used misogynistic words. What it does do is to create a precedent which makes it ok to start something bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:49 PM
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How many promiscuous women do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:22 PM
1

Sure sure. Nothing to do with confidence, or self esteem, or you know, experience etc. I bet most of these incels are normal average looking guys, who look angry due to their beliefs and shitty attitudes, thereby making themselves look ugly at their own hands. But hey, let's all blame women right? This reminds me of a saying by Roald Dahl who said: If a person has ugly thoughts, it begins to show on the face. And when that person has ugly thoughts every day, every week, every year, the face gets…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:21 PM
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The horror stories on r/exredpill say it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:20 PM
1

Look at OP's post history to see why he asked the question in such a way...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:12 AM
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You. Yes you. I like you. Sensible comments are always a win. These guys just won't understand that by using these shitty terms, they are outing themselves as having been indoctrinated. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:08 AM
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They get gaslit to hell and back and lose their sanity. Poor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:02 AM
1

Said the person with a set of beliefs he learned from the manosphere. Ahh the irony is delicious isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:00 AM
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This is the same as how so many guys don't understand feminism and have instead been told that "feminism bad" and then they go off spouting about it. When in fact there's coherent feminism, which fights for the rights of all men and women, while there's radical feminism, which is a small minority that shout the loudest, and ruined the movement for everyone. But no one cares or knows this. And yes there are shitty women out there that congregate together like FDS, 2x, etc. We all lose in the end …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:59 AM
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Am loving this sub being supposedly about red pill tactics to enhance the chances of dating, yet the person who says it is a full on incel, full of hate for the very beings of their desires, masquerading as a red piller, spouting off about hypergamy or the wall, paralysed from fear and anxiety, not having spoken to a woman yet. (There are certain neurodivergent guys in here who are caught between a rock and a hard place, so I do feel for them. Even then, it feels like they are slowly drifting in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:52 AM
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I'm not the one suffering due to a shitty belief system? 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:44 AM
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You ever had a look at incel forums? The whites control the narrative. Ever heard of terms like ricecell? Currycel? They actively create a hierarchy. And the minority incels are so down and out that they don't realise they're being ostracized by the very people they associate themselves with. It's a hierarchy of supremacy driven by online far right ideology. Incels are racist, homophobic to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:43 AM
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It's childish bullshit to put that much emphasis on looks. It's flawed logic. It's a brainwashing of the community that person is in, and we know well enough how the incel community prey on weak minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:09 AM
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The whole rise of the incel culture coincidences with the rise of the far right recruitment. I had another link but I can't find it so this one will do. Please read and gain the knowledge in knowing that incel ideology links in with radical white supremacy, hence far right hate groups. It's not difficult to search about incels and finding all the links to far right hate groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:02 AM
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Wait before you make me a mod I need to gain several hundred pounds. Bring me more Gatorade and Cheetos pronto! 👏🏼👏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:49 AM
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To the mind of the stupid, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:48 AM
2

He's self aware and is caught in no man's land due to realising which side he's been batting for up to now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:46 AM
1

Ah so you understand the stupidity of all these pills? I'm in agreement that misandry is a huge problem. But to call it a gateway to the political left? Well now that's stupidity. It's a gateway to hating men. Plus I can easily find you data and information on what I said about misogyny and the far right. Can you link misandry to the political left? Really starts sounding stupid doesn't it when you think about it like that right? So please, don't get your little panties in a twist. Oh and you ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:49 AM
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You're speaking of the far left zealots. Yes they exist. Both extremes are a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:44 AM
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Exactly. Guys and gals who rely on looks alone are hollow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:42 AM
2

Fortune favours the brave, so always try to go outside your comfort zone. That's where the magic happens. Even if it feels painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:20 AM
2

Really beginning to realise that you aren't paying attention to the context. Are those women going on some forum online and stating their hate for their kids or their SO's constantly? After which, one snaps and carries out an attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:17 AM
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women kill more than incels. Nice. Apples and bananas eh? Try to argue in good faith. I'll put you on the spot since you keep moving goalposts and creating strawman talking points. Who are these women that kill? Who are they killing? Men? If so, for what reason? If we talk about incels we can find all the data and the main reason why some have carried out their attacks - hate for women obviously. Now I'd like you to go and find me the data on which women kill. Over to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:34 PM
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lol. I'm married. But ok I'll be a femcel to fit your rhetoric and image of me lol. Does that work for you?🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:30 PM
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Haaa I was waiting for the tit for tat nonsense to start. Are you equating all trans to that single person and therefore calling them all terrorists? Am I doing the same when I mentioned the groups in my post? I made it clear that far right rhetoric has the ability to create individuals who go rogue. And again, the far left are a major problem. It's the difference between coherent, congruent feminism and radical feminism (which is a major problem, and I'm a woman saying this)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:29 PM
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Would you like to gain some insight into misogynist terrorism? Might help you realise a few things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:22 PM
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So you agree that incels kill? Do people even think before they post anymore? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:19 PM
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I'm a woman. I thought you guys unanimously agree that there's no such thing as a female incel considering we all love to use hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:10 PM
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Lots of good replies on this already in here, so I'll try to input from a slightly different perspective. Racism has been rife in the world of video games especially online. Some 13 years ago and prior, it was a horror show. You couldn't play an online game without hearing someone be racist. It's been cleaned up now with the new tech used by companies like Microsoft. But the damage was done. There was a big push around 2012 where Russian bots infiltrated many forums and spread propaganda and rac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:58 PM
3

Not the sharpest knife in the drawer, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:46 PM
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You just proved my point. This shows the far reaching implications of these negative words. It's the same as 20 years and prior when people would say "ugh that's so gay" which was a derogatory way of putting down gay people and equating them to something they didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:45 PM
1

I like that you can admit to that. Take the chance to get therapy because it could change your life. Out of curiosity, do you consider yourself an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:36 PM
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I mentioned I was a woman on a post where I made my point of the state of misogyny (nothing new there) and got acid attack threats, rape and death threats. Now go to other subs and you'll find other women are getting the same messages. This is the internet. Cowards will act this way from behind their anonymous usernames. Yet in the real world these people will be docile and unassuming. Of course we can post images. Go look at IncelTear if you don't believe the kind of messages users are getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:59 PM
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I am not far right. I just mocked how you leftists We can see you're right wing, if not far right. You're not very good at this are you? You keep giving yourself away. Here's a little bit of advice. Everything you've learned, such as all the tropes that you use (we know you use words like cuck, simp, leftists, etc) says a lot about how you've been radicalised.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:56 PM
1

You've got this completely backwards. If they're chasing you and you call yourself a loser, it means they are hypogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:55 PM
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So you're a far right individual? Congrats for giving yourself away. It's not that I don't 'like' it. It's that it's an ideology born of contempt for women. And before you say the red pill is a set of tools... If it was why does everyone in here speak like robots with exactly the same inputs. Monkey see, monkey do. Would you like me to post screenshots of the death threats and rape threats I receive on this sub often?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:42 PM
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I comment in there often. It's absolutely dire. Keep away. The guys are pretending to be red pillers but are incels in disguise. Most are neurodivergent and have possible mental health issues. The mods are probably incels also as their sub rules lean heavily towards allowing full on misogyny yet as soon as someone gives a tongue in cheek answer they delete the comment telling the poster to "be civil" There's nothing new about the sub after you've read one or two posts. Everything is a recurring …
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 08:46 PM
1

So do you think you might need some form of therapy since your thinking isn't like theirs even if they look the same as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:37 PM
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People commenting here are looking at this wrong. It's about the fact that the red pill, incels, neckbeards and neo nazis are all part of the far right pipeline which is what the FBI are looking into since they share terminologies that dehumanise women and therefore creates a violent mindset. Misogyny is the gateway to the far right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:31 PM
1

Well I'm a woman. What's your take on what I've said?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:25 PM
1

50% of us are totally unremarkable. 40% of us are above and below remarkable on both sides. Then there's 5% extreme on either end. The classic bell shaped curve. Based on what I've said here and based on that you've said about yourself, do you think every guy out there thinks like you do and puts themselves down thinking they're unremarkable?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:23 PM
1

I've been sitting here for a while trying to figure out how best to respond to you so here goes. Solid 5/10 here (Upside: 178 lbs 5'10, STEM masters, 40" shoulders, 33" waist, Downsides: hapa with a retrognathic jawline). The only women willing to right swipe on me happen to be overweight, bordering on obese. As such, most of my sex partners are heavier than I am. So you're intelligent, yet have poor self worth due to your looks, and furthermore have confined yourself to a particular league of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:17 PM
1

Off mobile? I'm on the train, can't carry some laptop around. And I'm a woman. And what's wrong with therapy? It's the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:46 PM
1

Therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:34 PM
1

Ohhh yes. You betcha. However I commend them for coming on here. You see that could just as easily spend all their time in their far off forums seething away like many do. But these ones are here because they have a semblance of common sense to feel that something isn't quite right with their way it thinking but will still have the same go-to talking points like hypergamy this and AWALT that etc. The red pill has made them believe they are 'alpha' or whatever and therefore instilled a pseudo-ini…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:08 PM
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Oh ok then I hope I don't see that word uttered by guys here again but we'll see lol And how are you a philosophy major when your profile is littered with the point of view you have lol. That's anti-philosophy. So that was a lie...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:40 PM
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I'm guessing you're quite young? Because then it's just a behaviour where we are still finding our way and going through the rights of passage of youth and its trials and tribulations. I was a total ugly duckling and couldn't buy looks from guys as a young girl. So what did I do? At that young age with very faulty logic, I started to believe I was indeed ugly especially when I compared myself to other girls as well as celebrities lol. I even believed it to be true. What I didn't realise was that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:39 PM
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As a woman, part of feminism is a cesspit. The real feminism died out a long while back with the original people who tried to raise awareness. Part of it is still coherent and part of it is a runway train. Which part are you choosing to concentrate on constantly hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:30 PM
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Of course you wouldn't know about male solipsism if you believe in the red pill, which does a great job of deflection. Solipsism applies to both men and women. Solipsism is a philosophical current that defends that the only thing that exists is one’s own consciousness; it says that everything we call “reality” is created by the mind. - please take a moment to read. Guys here don't even realise the by ingesting the red pill they're taking on an ideology and throwing away everything else. And then…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:19 PM
5

Bro she was testing you. Should have tried harder. You shoulda done this: Her: "I have a boyfriend" You: "Cool, he can make us breakfast in bed then" Then push her. Problem solved. /s for obvious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:07 PM
1

Gotta make gains mentally too 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:58 PM
5

I love the idea that a 5/10 woman is sleeping with Chad lol. Who is Chad in this context? A 10/10 man? Or are they confusing a normal guy who doesn't believe in all this pill bullshit, and instead lives in reality, enjoying the journey and rights of passage, sleeping with his equals, totally unaware that there's a sect of men online, who haven't left their bedrooms, yet spout the most far fetched beliefs whilst totally being left behind by society?... They all talk exactly the same. Every single…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:39 PM
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Wait until you hear about male solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:34 PM
5

Do you know the rules and dynamics of a relationship? Reverse the situation. Your girlfriend says she's going out of town to stay at her ex's. How are you feeling now? What's going through your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:30 PM
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This kind of dating advice is all about making the external fit some societal standard (and its not a coincidence that many of the people who fall for it are neurodivergent men who feel the need to fit in), its all about pretending to be someone else, and the worst part is this person you’re pretending to be is often so surface deep that if you’re one of the best looking pulling this off, you’ll likely attract the very type of girl you claim to be the problem (ie. vapid, materialistic, shallow, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:00 PM
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50% of us are totally unremarkable. 40% of us are above and below remarkable on both sides. Then there's 5% extreme on either end. The classic bell shaped curve. We push ourselves out of the boundaries that we belong. Women use makeup as an example. Men use fashion, status, wealth etc even if he looks average. That instantly pushes them beyond their bracket. But as you know, life is so complex. The above doesn't even begin to explain it whatsoever. The way you look right now is one of a kind. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:49 PM
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There's a difference between shaming someone and raising awareness of their insecurity that might be unknown to them. Shaming is through use of language. Calling someone a fucking pussy is an outright form of shaming, given the context. Telling them "hey, you might be insecure if you're acting in xyz way" is raising awareness at the possibility that the person being insecure is not aware of it. Scenario: A guy is going to visit some old friends in his hometown. His girlfriend learns he’s going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:42 PM
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This. Why is this difficult for many to understand? It's utterly baffling. Maybe I'm too cynical and not from the current generation, being 35, and therefore I can see this. Anal Taint has an incredibly well oiled machine behind him [citations needed, and challenged by post below], which is well funded. And what better than to target kids who will then become proxy recruiters. This removes responsibility from the head honchos. Why is this difficult to notice. The same is apparent in the black pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:26 PM
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They spent a week together in total darkness. They had to do tasks such as falling off a ledge, where it was only 6 feet off the ground but in their minds they thought they were really high up due to lack of visual sensory. One person was blind and it was interesting how everyone saw him as a great leader and understanding of their plight whereas in the light, we see blind people as below us unfortunately. In turn they understood his hardships and a lot of emotional bonds ensued. That was just o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:49 PM
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Night vision cameras?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:30 PM
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No not really. It's not for me to say what anyone does with their lives. If you've chosen celibacy then that's your choice. You're not going to get applauded or appeasement for it from anyone. Besides, as human beings, our desires can never be extinguished.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:28 PM
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"The son must live the sins of the father" - your father learned from his father, and so on. Your father telling you to never cry was unfortunately a negative way of giving advice even if he meant well. It was a learned behaviour that he then passed on to you. It's totally fine to cry no matter who you are. It's a million times better than for that raw emotion to come out as anger, which can be dangerous. If you wish to look strong (not just physically strong, but emotionally and characteristics…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:15 PM
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You've not described me, because unlike the rest of the men on this sub who only think with their dicks, I've decided this game isn't worth playing. One quick look at your profile says otherwise. I could pick a few of your posts if you like? You're a red piller. Besides, I was addressing this: Are you really denying hypergamy is an evolved trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:06 PM
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They're totally different. It was called scared of the dark. Love is blind is a trope that creates a set of expectations. Plus every person on that show is superficial to a degree and somehow they're all uber successful. Imagine having a love is blind with normal people who don't have fancy apartments with high paying jobs so we can see their shortcomings in plain sight. Instead what we get fed is a trope. The show I watched was about how people interact in the dark. Even if it was bygone celebr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:03 PM
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virtual hug It takes sheer courage and strength to say what you just did, so kudos. It's the complete opposite of weakness. My husband talks to me about all his problems and I admire and love him ever more for his braveness and strength. The only people who are weak are those that will try to drag you down with them through negative words. So avoid them and seek out those who have your best interests at heart. Make friends who care for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:54 AM
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Oh now you're definitely on the backfoot trying to damage limitation with a veiled attempt at an insult. Heh no surprises there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:50 AM
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Are you nurturing and caring to yourself in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:45 AM
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It wasn't about love is blind. It was about living in the dark. Which goes to show you didn't read it. I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:44 AM
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I answered here AWALT and hypergamy thought processes amongst red pill men go hand in hand and causes them sheer suffering. Think about it, you've been actively told who to go for in terms of women, by the red pill. You've been told to act a certain way by the red pill. What this does is create a tunnel vision and a set of character traits that sets up the guy to forever repeat the same process, getting the same results. The fact that you think hypergamy is real is exactly because you only see o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:40 AM
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You just make up your own rules as you go along, so long as in your mind, you're winning right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:25 AM
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You commented so thank you. Except that's not the point and we both know it. Guys here do not want to do the hard work especially the incels who have infiltrated this sub. They will never change until they decide to change. That's all it boils down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:13 AM
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Neurodivergence, fear, anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:28 AM
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The data? You mean the cherry picked data to create fear and catastrophization? Go and find me the same data from renowned scholars over a course of a decade at least, which then got peer reviewed, not some data from some unknown company with God knows what agenda that got posted on some random website that you guys consume and point to every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:26 AM
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The wall is just as true for men. Look around you here. Guys can't get over their anxiety, fear, hate, bigotry etc. And they're pretty young don't you think? Yet they've hit the wall already... Edit: lol downvoted and no response. You guys are horrifically bad with logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:03 AM
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More suffering will ensue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:29 AM
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Therapy is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:22 AM
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In the last 12 hours some great posts have been submitted. Thought experiments, advice on mindset, asking difficult questions, and guess what, the usual suspects were nowhere in sight. After which there was a post about hypergamy in the title...30 posts within the hour with "but muh wiMinZ! The wall!" - guys here are not ready to change. They don't want to be happy. It's all self inflicted. You cannot help someone who doesn't want to help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:21 AM
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The usual suspects did not engage. There's a post about hypergamy just further up and it has 30 comments within the hour. Goes to show doesn't it? Guys here don't want help nor change.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:52 AM
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Welcome. We need more like you here to question the (false) status quo of these young men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:18 PM
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You talk sense. How come I haven't seen your name around here before?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:14 PM
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Would your time be spent better if you concentrated solely on your gf rather than even letting the thought of those women you described entering your mind? I'm sure that's already the case but I'm just wondering. Like you don't have to prove your point to anyone. Question: considering you are happy with your gf, what is your purpose being here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:12 PM
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Wonderful post.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:09 PM
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Would you be able to define what average looks like? Like who isn't average so you can say oh I'd like to look like him etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:50 PM
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I'm asking whether you understand yourself well enough and are content enough to not care about those women who are militant or those women who sleep around etc. I'm a woman and I can't stand the extreme of my gender. They shout the loudest and ruin things for the rest of us. But they're not even in my periphery as they're such a small subset and sect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:54 PM
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I'm of the belief that the kind of persons who go into psychology and such want to discover themselves. I'm doing so they try to help others who may be struggling. So then they go the professional route and make a job out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:49 PM
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They're having to be professional and state in layman terms. They can't get their emotions involved. So their input will come across as crass and lacking in sympathy and empathy even though they are listening and giving feedback. It's then a matter of whether the patient decides to apply what the therapist says or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:56 PM
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Hmm you don't see the issue in what you've said?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:52 PM
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If you've tried it and it didn't work for you then that's fine. But if you're speaking based on someone's opinion, then that would be a bit silly I'm sure you'll agree. The issue with talking about it is down to who you talk with. Take incels online in those far off forums. They talk about women without anyone questioning their point of view. It's validations all the way from strangers that they deem as friends. (Those others are not their friends), which creates a confirmation bias. They then c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:52 PM
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Well I hope you treat her well and not use some manipulation tactics on her or some such beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:46 PM
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I'm going by what guys here constantly say. Sorry if that doesn't apply to you. It means you're better than those who point the finger instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:46 PM
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Says who? You guys always mention hypergamy and the likes yet do you even know the impact it will have on both parties if for example a woman who is in a marriage or relationship cheats on her partner for someone supposedly better, and then the whole friend groups finding out? They will ostracize her. How is that aiming up? How does that mean she's high value or whatever you guys quote? This whole n count was born out of insecurity of the man because he didn't have a high n count. Acreage guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:45 PM
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Well that was a real trip to go on lol. Yes, there are bad therapists and good ones in equal supply. Everyone can actually do self counselling to a point to help themselves. The field of philosophy can help a guy find meaning in his life. But it anger is all a man knows, he's vulnerable to all forms of manipulation. And the online manosphere is unfortunately brimming with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:39 PM
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Yet people still demonise men for caring about n-counts... What's this bit all about then? You could have made your post neutral you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:32 PM
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If the genes are at fault, blame your parents for fornicating and creating you maybe? How is that women's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:30 PM
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Do only women have that gene? That was brutal. Goes to show the one way thinking of these guys. As if it's only them and their feelings that exist. But it makes sense considering they have been brainwashed by the online manosphere to think that women are a hive mind, equated to being objects without feelings or autonomy. Good thing the real world exists and always shatters their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:23 PM
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They need a concoction of many things. Having sex or having a girlfriend isn't going to fix their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:20 PM
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Not sure I understand your 'mum' comment. Are you referring the adage of how Sigmund Freud used to ask "Tell me about your mother" ?... If so that's a trope. It means the person has equated the whole field of psychology to a misnomer and representing it as a truth in their mind. Psychology is a very powerful tool. Something that is desperately in short supply. It helps people who severely lack in self-reflection and self-awareness. And that's the main issue with many young men here. If they had …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:09 PM
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Alongside CBT, there's also dialectal behavioural therapy which would definitely help show that two differing viewpoints can be true. Men here have placed all their hope and fate on the red pill. They need a bit of everything like philosophy, stoicism, psychology, spirituality, and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:47 PM
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I'll glad we're having your discussion. Would you care to mention what qualities and values you bring to the table as the man? You can message me directly if you don't want to type here. I ask because your answer will tell you whether you have the ability to find a match or not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:27 PM
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Seems that way doesn't it. They're too young or too deep into their turmoil to understand that they have the key to their own jail cell that they have confined themselves to. I remember seeing a post from the incel forum where one of the guys posted how he was leaving after a long stay since he realised it was all self inflicted, and his post was met with the harshest vitriol and poison from others. They called him a LARPer and a troll and a all sorts. Crabs in a bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:25 PM
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Aren't guys doing that here daily? A therapist is qualified in understanding and asking questions that unlock feelings and nuances that were unknown to the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:43 AM
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They DO tell you what you just mentioned. And once the person builds the level of respect for both the therapist for understanding him as well as when he builds respect for himself, things begin to happen. He'll take note of the therapist's input and recommendations. Guys here are suffering due to thinking life is this one way street and that life has been rigged against them from the start. They then fell for some online grift that truly downed them. The road to recovery starts with therapy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:43 AM
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Indeed hence why therapy is important. Gotta learn about the self to know why a person reacts the way they do. Oh but apparently therapy is for women or something silly. It's all self inflicted but they'll never agree or admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:15 AM
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My point is that you can get your dick wet if you stopped these stupid pill beliefs. Like what do you rate yourself out of 10 in looks? Let's say you rate yourself a 5. Would you then go and seek a 10/10 woman to get with? How does that work? Where's the logic? Why aren't you seeking someone on your level? Plus so many other factors feed into it. Your beliefs, your level of social skills, your hobbies, passions, and on and on. Everyone is matched out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:13 AM
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This comment demonstrates a distinct lack of empathy. I'm glad you mentioned empathy. You see guys here who call themselves degenerates, whilst also calling themselves ugly - tell me, do they show themselves any empathy? They don't give a fuck about themselves. It's mix of self loathing and victim complex all the way. They don't take responsibility and instead say how they've been told they're ugly and suffered by the hands of others. Yet somehow we don't have empathy which is supposedly the pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:07 AM
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Is the whole of life about getting one's dick wet? That there says there's a mental health issue afoot. Find true meanings to your life. Getting sex isn't going fix anything. You'll feel even more empty afterwards. You're hoping that by having sex, your life will magically change. It won't. Imagine you get diagnosed with cancer tomorrow. Now you have a real problem rather than this whole superficial aspect of needing sex. I'm sorry if you feel like I'm discrediting you and others here, but it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:02 AM
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Howdy! Hope you're doing well. What therapy does is to connect the person to their emotions and their ability to reason with themselves. These online pills takes them further away from that. But they won't seek it as it's too painful to admit that they have issues you begin with. It's very evident that those traits are currently missing. Every guy in here talks EXACTLY the same. The same mannerisms, (far removed from what it means to be a man) the same talking points, the same level of emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:39 AM
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A lot of guys here need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:30 AM
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holds door open for her "Would you like some dick?" ~Chris Rock
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:21 AM
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Good old evo psych... Might as well fling shit on a wall and see what sticks. It's all so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:15 AM
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I will forever commend the guys who go on r/incelexit as an example. Why? Because they have courage and strength to admit that they need help. And they then stay away from places that causes them great harm. They ask questions. They are open to change. Guys here? Hmmm. They're still stuck and only when they're ready to admit that they're in need of help, no amount of discussion with them or helping them will mean anything. He has to want it for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:12 AM
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Why do you think you're average?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:15 AM
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Every other bit of advice didn't work so I decided to go straight to the source
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:17 AM
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Touch grass. There is no blue pill red pill crap. You live online
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:16 AM
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That's what we keep trying to tell guys here. Oh the irony
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:15 AM
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Tbh, I was surprised it wasn't taken lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:14 AM
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Which women? ALL women? Can you see how stupid that sounds? Your words basically imply that you've tried your luck with every single woman on earth. I'm guessing you're quite young?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:36 PM
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Says I'm gaslighting men whilst believing in some pill colour where he totally got gaslighted to the extreme. The cognitive dissonance is strong with this one...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:53 PM
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No I agree with you. You've rightly stated that there are already many factors at play. Here's where it gets really messed up. The current age of social media with all these rabbit holes has really pushed these young men down the wrong paths. It was bad enough that the young man had lots self esteem and bad experiences, it became a nightmare when he accepted the black pill or red etc where his beliefs were changed to mess with his head and compound his issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:50 PM
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So it's either looks or height? I'm guessing you would describe yourself as an incel? A normal red pill guy wouldn't care about those traits. He'd still be able to be successful if he used TRP's tools. If you were an incel, you've been told to lose hope. Don't be that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:13 PM
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It's all these supposed studies that have paralysed many here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:39 PM
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The thing about redpillers, is that they are exceptionally bad at logic and stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:37 PM
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He is confident and has self esteem among many other positive traits that helps him. Looks only make up 10% of the whole picture. In your mind it makes up 90% Here's what I'm reading from your response: you're saying that Chad is good looking so therefore it's easy for him. In other words, you're actually telling us all that you are calling yourself ugly. If that's the case and you're ugly, why are you then so bothered about what women do in the grand scheme of it? Are you pleading with them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:32 PM
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The Ok Cupid "study" (spoiler alert: it's not a study, it's a report from the analytics team), which isn't even online anymore, proves the exact OPPOSITE of TRP and Incel shit. From the article: When it comes down to actually choosing targets, men choose the modelesque. Someone like roomtodance above gets nearly 5 times as many messages as a typical woman and 28 times as many messages as a woman at the low end of our curve. Site-wide, two-thirds of male messages go to the best-looking third of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:18 PM
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This summer's child grew up to be a full fledged woman Here ..The Ok Cupid "study" (spoiler alert: it's not a study, it's a report from the analytics team), which isn't even online anymore, proves the exact OPPOSITE of TRP and Incel shit. From the article: When it comes down to actually choosing targets, men choose the modelesque. Someone like roomtodance above gets nearly 5 times as many messages as a typical woman and 28 times as many messages as a woman at the low end of our curve. Site-wide,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:17 PM
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Confirmation bias 101 activated there by you eh? lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:34 PM
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And since you keep telling yourself that, it's why you're stuck. The issue is then compounded due to lack of hope (which is deadly), lack of confidence and self esteem, lack of positive beliefs, and so on. Yet apparently it's all about looks🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:32 PM
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Last time I checked 👍🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:30 PM
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It's vague on purpose. Ask Fresh and Fit, and they'll both give you different answers. Ask Tristan and Andrew and they'll tell you something different. And that's because looks are subjective like everyone sane here agrees. Yet when they respond they say women only go for Chad and that whole 80/20 crap they spout. No one knows cause no one is meant to know, it's a make believe concept like Scientology.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:22 PM
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They're also scholars of female psychology, didn't you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:19 PM
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I made it as a tongue in cheek joke but here I am giving advice 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:18 PM
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What you're feeling there is just a truth. Not some slight. I'm sorry you didn't like what I said. If anything I'm rooting for guys here to one day step up and be brave and get out of their mindset to just go out there and do their thing. How else can I raise awareness?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:12 PM
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Normal people don't. These pills do even though it's so vague. Ask one of these pillers to differentiate between a 9 and a 10 and they'll go quiet. It's all for clout amongst the hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:08 PM
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Then you don't need a woman. Problem solved🤷🏻 (Except you desperately need one. It's your prime directive and the reason why you're here)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:05 PM
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Love how when these red pill guys post a study with exactly the same sample size, they don't think twice about posting it so long as one of their chums validates it. Yet here we are with posts saying the sample size here is too small lol. Chad has a winner's mentality. He has an abundance mindset. He doesn't care what others think of him. He doesn't fear failure, he welcomes it. He is the complete opposite in every way to guys here when it comes to habits, attitudes, behaviours, personality, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:01 PM
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How old are you and what's your deformity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:41 PM
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'Ugly guys' are their own worst problem. They have zero understanding of self esteem and confidence. Prove me wrong. Once they gain those traits they'll realise that they're not actually ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:56 PM
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I'm confused considering you just said it was a pseudoscience. Why would you study bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:55 PM
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This is the same sort of tenet in the red pill as "she's not yours, it's just your turn" Total nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:10 PM
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Don't you think you're the one who's complicated since you can't do the simple task of speaking to the opposite sex? It means there's a plethora of issues occurring behind the scenes. Analysis paralysis, anxiety, self worth issues, lack of confidence, lack of social skills etc. Now you can see that you are complex.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 12:46 PM
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Feminism isn't your enemy. You are your own worst enemy. Many guys like yourself turn to the red pill hoping for a quick fix to their issues with self esteem and confidence. They then get a pseudo-initiation of manhood instilled where they think they're 'alpha' and away they go spouting anti feminist tripe. All the while they don't realise that they've been left behind by society. By the time they realise it (if they ever do) their youth, and the best years of their life passes them by. Don't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:36 PM
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You do realise that the whole of TRP is based on evo psych right? Goes to show guys in here are clueless and just regurgitating nonesense from somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:32 PM
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Hypergamy = projection of a man's insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:29 PM
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I know the post got deleted which is a shame but I'll respond to you. That apathy that the OP speaks of is self inflicted. I'll try to explain. Take the following sentence: "Nobody gives a fuck about you" -that can feel very hurtful if a guy hears it right? The next part is the revelation: *"Nobody gives a fuck about you because you don't give a fuck about yourself" * - therein lies the problem. Many guys here who self label as an incel are doing themselves a huge disservice. They are telling th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:39 PM
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I'd like you to go ahead and say all that in public where you cannot hide behind your anonymous username like you can here online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:28 PM
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That makes it even worse. But it proves the point that it's a learned behaviour. Welcome to the online manosphere I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:15 PM
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Misogyny is actually a sign of low intelligence. And it's bad for us all. You wouldn't be racist for no reason right? Racism is not hereditary. It's a learned behaviour. It occurs from fear of the unknown. The same can be said for misogyny. It's a learned behaviour born of anger and a superiority complex. And it ruins things for all of us. Much of misogyny stems from the way the patriarchy assigns values to gendered characteristics. Masculinity is prized, while femininity is devalued. That's how…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:57 PM
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Sorry I thought you were speaking about yourself. Please ignore that. But yea, if you find your happiness, who am I to judge. You're being true to yourself. And I'm guessing you're young. You'll have plenty of time to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:33 PM
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I hope you find what you're looking for. And I hope one day you recognise that labelling yourself as incel and having certain beliefs have hurt your chances of finding happiness. I can only hope for you. I wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:20 PM
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You're one of the more decent guys on here so I'll always make time for you to discuss things with you. Just know that if something isn't currently working for you, don't keep repeating the process hoping for it to change your fortunes. Change it up, be bold, be adventurous. I know you mention often how you've been on the recieving end of other people's vitriol in the past, but it doesn't seal your future. You have the power to change it at any time. When you're ready, you will. It's a slow proc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:09 PM
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It’s not subjective for the most part. People can tell when someone is ugly/average/hot. The contention is over a minimal amount of “points” on the 1-10 scale. If you’re a true exception it really doesn’t mean anything? Doesn’t change much. Plus there is the prevalence of settling of course, implying relationships can be based on things other than real love. These studies can only help us because they show what to improve that will actually get us results as opposed to engaging in useless activi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:04 PM
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There's always one to respond isn't there... Who nurtured the future president? Who taught the future president behaviours that set him up to become a well rounded man? The mum and dad right? They were both necessary. In the same vein you guys are told to hate single mothers. Despite knowing that the father walked out while the mother committed herself to the cause. Now go tell your mother that you love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:23 PM
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Awesome post. Right now in Afghanistan and many other similar countries you'd find true forms of oppressions of women. They can't work. They can't get education. They can't show their face or even to go out of the house. They have been relegated to the pit of that society. Do guys here want that? If not then don't complain about your privileged position in society because that's how it starts. Many guys have a major problem with the feminine within them. This is evident in how they react to diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:47 PM
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Men and women equally influence each other. This has happened for thousands of years. It'll continue to happen as long as man and woman exist. Anyone fighting for one side would be a fool. Understand it and exist in it. Next you'll be telling me that it was men who were pioneers that built the world - so before you do, I'll answer it for you - who gave birth to those pioneers?...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:31 PM
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Do you look like Quasimodo or Sloth? If not, you're not ugly. End of. Even if you were 'ugly' simply because some random people said so, why did you choose to lose hope? You have the power to change at any time if you want it. That has to come from you. Rise up already.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:04 PM
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Once you have enough self worth and confidence you won't care at all about what women do or say. You'll carve your own path in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:38 PM
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We have to remember that the red pill actively teaches narcissism. Bear in mind there's both healthy narcissism and unhealthy narcissism. Unfortunately the red pill teaches the unhealthy version where as per the second link, the man will learn anger, frustration, victim complex, and other negative character traits albeit unbeknownst to him. Young men here need to understand this. When a man has been armed with unhealthy narcissism as per the red pill, his way of processing his own self worth and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:07 PM
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beauty is mostly objective I would be a fool to not believe I am ugly if I was. that’s called being sensible. It's subjective. You and I differ in that area due to experience. As a 35 year old wife to my husband I know this. If I used the same x/10 rating system that the red pill guys here use, I'd rate myself a 7. And I'd rate my husband a 6. How can that be possible that I've settled with my husband? Surely I'd want the best of the best based on the supposed hypergamy studies. Except those stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:18 AM
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You killed it with this response. Top kudos to you. What these youngsters don't understand currently is that they are their own biggest problem. In that they all share the same shitty attitude and negative beliefs about themselves where they think they're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:00 AM
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I'm trying to tell you that your beliefs about yourself are paramount. If I told you to go jump off a cliff, would you? Yet somehow you believed some random person telling you that you're ugly as well as internalised it. That's called lack of self esteem and confidence. If you're young, then it makes sense. We all go through horrific times in our youth feeling worthless. It's a rights of passage. But the new age of the internet has fucked that up for youngsters by sending them into a whole new l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:32 AM
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I'm a woman but whatever. When you're ready to change, you'll know. For now, you're going in circles. Only you'll know when you're ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:12 AM
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It's the key to a successful life. But you carry on hanging out in negative spaces, killing off the chance of gaining those traits. See this is the problem with the new generation, self labelling themselves as incels or whatever, compounding their own issues. I hope you grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:07 AM
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Maybe you're too young to understand confidence and self esteem I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:25 AM
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And there's something called confidence and self esteem which means looks don't matter, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:43 AM
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These are kids asking these questions where everything must be a zero sum game. The top two comments have put these guys in their place considering both posts are women earning more than the guys. These guys' brains melted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:23 PM
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Doesn't matter. What's interesting is that everyone here has been thrown for a loop. They can't fathom that the woman is the breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:21 PM
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You wouldn't be able to tell me the difference between a 9/10 and a 10/10 woman which is why the system is daft Try to explain it to me. Edit: lol got some downvotes for my troubles with zero explanation to my request. Kids these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:34 PM
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I mean this is a "no u" argument of who started it first right? If you recognise that the world of dating is a fickle game you'll know that you should have an arsenal of tools at your disposal. Looks is just one and not the main qualifier. Gift of the gab is one among many. Confidence is another, charisma another, sense of humour another, and on and on. Now you're worth way more than her who tried to judge you on looks and thinks she can get far on looks alone herself. Play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:56 PM
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If you've been taught by the red pill to take a whole human being (including yourself) and to narrow everything down to a number, you are doing both yourself and the other person a disservice as well as dehumanising them and yourself. I would never place a number on myself. It brings way too many problems with it. Like I get it, the arbitrary number system is solely for the sexual market value in terms of looks and body types, but again, it has way too many limitations. It doesn't take into cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:18 PM
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The problem is that many guys don't even know what traits make an 'alpha' - they think it's a way of acting. Ask anyone here if they understand archetypes. Or character traits. Or personality types. Both positive and negative. They use the word "Chad" yet hardly understand what makes Chad a Chad. They've never met one either. Instead all we see is a groundhog day recurrence of hypergamy this, and the wall that, and all the part and parcel of red pill talking points that does nothing in helping t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:01 PM
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Sorry I was meant to reply to one of the comments on here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:23 PM
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How does a person have such lack of foresight and the indignity to take 4 billion men of the world and separate them into 2 camps of alfalfa and betamaxx VHS cassettes? It's fucking idiotic. Do you guys even hear yourselves speaking? The lights are on but no one's home...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:17 PM
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You guys seem to make up your own rules as you go along so long as you're winning right? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:56 AM
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Except it's not the norm. It's what you've been fed from the pill you swallowed. Do you consider yourself intelligent? Because if do, you wouldn't say the same thing about a woman who is a doctor for example. She would be waaaaaay out of your league. You wouldn't be able to get anywhere near her. I know deep down you know this. So stop this nonsense and get your head sorted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:00 AM
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Aw post got removed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:56 AM
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Something something apples and bananas apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:41 AM
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👆🏻 found his chum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:21 AM
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Rage baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:20 AM
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We're both playing the game. All's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:19 AM
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Women are now fruit? Just one more object added to the long list I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:40 AM
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So she was lying? She was being manipulative? And you found out right? Wasn't exactly difficult to figure out right? And there was no way for her to hide that for long right? Now consider how guys here and those starting out with the red pill are timid, doubtful, shy, hurting, jaded, and want to turn themselves into 'alpha' Chad using the red pill's supposed teachings - it won't end well because the real him, that boy with all the issues I mentioned above is always lurking underneath and will bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:35 AM
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So far he hasn't had anyone validate his claim. He needs that one post from his chums to make him feel the rage he needs to fuel his feelings of injustice. Him: But muh wiMinZ bad! Chums: Rabble rabble!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:25 AM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:22 AM
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A quick question: Are you equating her to all other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:21 AM
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It's all an indoctrination. If you think about it, the red pill is a regurgitation of someone's beliefs and mindset that the rest then fall in line and accept without question. If we take just one facet like AWALT: this term states that ALL women have the same nature in how they act and perceive the world - but as soon as you apply even the smallest logic to it, the whole thing falls apart as one expects considering there are a million different archetypes of women and what they seek, just as th…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 09:08 AM
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Wonderful answer. Sums it all up greatly.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 08:28 AM
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I wouldn't lose sleep over it. People choose. And most of the time they choose poorly. Whatever you seek is also seeking you, as they say, so choose wisely and be the change you want to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:00 AM
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Decent post and food for thought. The advent of new technology, algorithms, and social media have caused a real shift in the dating scene, and for the worse might I add. If you go back 20 years to a simpler time with the internet, or even prior to the internet, the rights of passage for young guys and girls was rooted in reality. They operated within reality even if they chose their factions. We had goths, punk rockers, jocks, nerds, snobs etc. They dated within their groups and had their own se…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:20 PM
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This all seems a bit one sided don't you think? We could spend just as long on men's nature. See this is what the red pill does. Its words are intoxicating to the reader. It gives them a sense of empowerment and sets them up to view life through a particular lense thereby ditching other lenses (other belief systems). He then goes around thinking he's been enlightened when in fact he's been indoctrinated. It's a pseudo-initiation of manhood. You'll get more of what you put in as well as more of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:56 PM
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We can't seem to have a discussion because it feels like you want the world to understand your feelings but you don't want to hear other people's point of view. Instead what we hear is waaa I'm not being heard. Yes you are. Question is, are you hearing yourself? In an early discussion I asked about how you feel about yourself in terms of confidence and self esteem and you shut that conversation down. Can't have that if you refuse to answer and then dictate the talking points can we?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:21 PM
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How would you know they're real if you preach from a cult's perspective where you are told what to believe? Before you didn't know anything about the red pill. Once you knew about those terms, you only knew them from the cult's perspective and didn't question it. You simply accepted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:53 PM
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It's easy to target women who are not high value, who have low or no respect for their long term partners, who are actively seeking to cheat etc. You get the idea. So of course some red pill guy is going to say that, because he is operating in his premises and his domain. He won't tell you how many turned him down at the same time. He will only speak of his successes. You then read this and it places a stereotype on all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:15 PM
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If we're all not understanding you, are we the problem or could be that you are not giving clear signals about what you're saying? How do you communicate with your therapist? How are they able to understand you? Or do you struggle with your therapist too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:08 PM
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Fantastic post. Wish you all the best in your search for happiness and getting what you want. You got this💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:29 PM
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You've most likely associated your self esteem solely with success with women, thinking that when you're finally successful or have sex, you'll magically have positive self esteem and bags of it. That's not the case unfortunately. Self esteem is born of doing things for yourself. Like having hobbies and passions that you develop to nourish the soul. It's great that you're in therapy in order to truly understand the inner workings of self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:14 PM
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Is that so? Guys here speak about hypergamy or the wall or AWALT as gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:58 PM
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So that was a lie...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:56 PM
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I guess you know yourself and all your shortcomings and toxic behaviours inside out and dealt with them to become the ultimate man amongst men 👍🏼💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:28 PM
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The whatever I said was that the red pill dictates a guy's life and beliefs. Definition of the halo effect: Is a type of cognitive bias in which our overall impression of a person influences how we feel and think about their character. Essentially, your overall impression of a person ("He is nice!") impacts your evaluations of that person's specific traits ("He is also smart!"). Perceptions of a single trait can carry over to how people perceive other aspects of that person. As a result, this ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:26 PM
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Are you not emotional right now to react in such a way? But ok. You take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:59 PM
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Dude. You're not showing yourself compassion. That's the problem here. Understand your own emotions. The next person that might read your post might say you are acting like a victim. Not saying I see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:53 PM
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It's well known that men don't talk about their problems or emotions. This issue is further compounded by beliefs instilled by the man such as the red pill which tells men never to show weakness in front of women. Who taught them that? Women? Society? Other men? The red pill? If a man resorts to shooting or suicide, he is already too far gone mentally. Everyone will point a finger at what they believe is the root cause. And we'll, everyone has their own beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:38 PM
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The wall is a negative self fulfilling prophecy and very detrimental for the man who has internalised it. Consider the following: Being attracted to the wrong kind of people. For example, a girl who's attracted to money and good looks, and prioritizes it over warmth and kindness in a man, may end up with a guy who's cute or rich but also a cheater or an asshole. A person's behavior attracts the wrong kind of people. For example, if a man acts dominant and agressive, they are going to attract gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:30 PM
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Politics has used the tactics for centuries in the game of power. Seduction techniques work precisely due to manipulation. Both men and women apply them equally. You only have to go as far back as the renaissance era to see the birth of a new wave of seduction techniques by women, which then caused men to step up and learn from women hence Machiavelli becoming a potent figure of his time. But you have to think about the meaning and reasons behind why a person would need to use these tactics. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:19 PM
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Hypergamy talk.... ugh Copied from another user who perfectly put it: Guys here believe that hypergamy is some super secret drive specifically in women to dump perfectly kind and sweet men they are in love with to go and chase money, status, or hotness. NO, that's a rejection coping mechanism. That's a dude who got dumped explaining that she left him because [insert insecurity here]. Her new boyfriend has a better job, a bigger dick, is taller, is funnier, whatever. That must be why she left. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:39 AM
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Good lord. Demons? Come on now. Let's be sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:34 AM
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No criticisms here from me. You got your mind set on objectives and you aim to meet them. That's commendable. But yes, your window of finding the one is small due to your wants. No doubt the autism makes things difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:30 AM
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can you explain to me HOW and WHAT am i self sabotaging if people are telling me that i am unattractive lol? Are you telling me you look worse than Quasimodo or Sloth? lol. This idea that people get to decide that you're ugly and to then tell it to your face being some sort of a fact is messed up. It means they're ugly. A normal decent person doesn't walk around pointing at a random person calling them ugly. Only ugly people call others ugly to make themselves feel better about themselves. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:17 AM
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That's what you took from my post? I've been hammering on about social media having ripped the fabrics of society, I've been mentioning the dire consequences of technology. All I've mentioned here is that while guys have a bad time of it to begin with, falling prey to online pills causes them more harm. Not everyone is evil. Even the ones who sent me rape threats on DM which was deplorable. They were too angry to think straight. You and I aren't enemies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:55 AM
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Way to assume Im a failure just because i'm calling out a silly platitude What is this backwards gymnastics? You were derogatory calling my message a cute platitude. Then when I answered with a real example you blew it off with zero empathy yet want my empathy? And your example had nothing to do with the discussion. The whole thing felt like a self inflicted wound.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:50 AM
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But does it give women the tingles lol j/k j/k
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:28 AM
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I hope you're doing ok now. Great answer by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:26 AM
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Are women marmalade jam now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:25 AM
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Dude go through my profile. I mention often that most women are toxic as fuck. Especially on social media. They are to be avoided at all costs. The real women won't be found online in the same capacity as the brash loud ones. as they don't hurt themselves or others Except they do hurt themselves. The longer they stay in some pill label thinking they've found enlightenment, the longer it'll take to get out. My preach comment was because the poster showed no contempt for others. They simply stated…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:16 AM
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I've answered this already. Confidence and self esteem. A guy who believes in himself has a contagious aura about him. He isn't afraid of getting what he wants. Doesn't make excuses for himself. And no he doesn't have to be toxic. If I was single, I'd refuse to let some man talk down to me like I'm some piece of meat or some object. Girls who let guys do that to them have zero self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:09 AM
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Yea that made sense. Goes to show there are so many flavours of guys here. See here's the thing you've got experience under your belt right? You can use that and build on it. It's going to be trial and error because after all that's what dating is. You'll have heartbreaks and you'll have success stories. There'll be moments of sheer beauty and horror aplenty. That's just part and parcel of the chaos of dating. But you're already ahead of many here. Gotta know yourself and know what you want and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:54 AM
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The self sabotage sentence was from the perspective that the person isn't aware whatsoever that they are doing that. Not that they actively and knowingly self sabotage for clout or something. As per our previous messages, you have made your position clear and I hope I've made it apparent that I've understood your situation and nothing I've said should have come across as crass or insulting. I'm sorry if that's what has transpired. Nuance can be lost in long messages back and forth. I did not mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:35 AM
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Are you following red pill teachings or any manosphere talking points to become something you're not as well as being told what type of women to go for? I ask because there's a possibility you're not going for what's good for you so you end up getting what you put in. For example if you've been told to act macho and aggressive to seem 'alpha' or some such then the kind of woman whose attention you'll get will be those who are attracted to that. Hope this makes sense? If however, you are let's sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:19 AM
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How did Chad become Chad? He wasn't Chad from the start. He was just a kid full of self doubt etc. Everyone fails. Everyone starts from level 0. Circumstance and many factors play a part. And yes, we all love to be noticed, admired, and desired. Who doesn't. It's just that when we're young, we really don't have a foothold on what life is about or our own worth. Along comes some online pill and fucks things up way worse than if we simply went through the rights of passage naturally, that is our a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:13 AM
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Yea I mean if we took these guys and placed them in a room full of beautiful women, they'd still begin to self destruct. The self sabotage would be off the charts because they wouldn't know the first thing about social skills and building charisma. Yet they are so so quick to shout about hypergamy, the wall, etc as if they are masters of female psychology. I hope this is all just a phase for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:09 AM
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That's not toxic masculinity. That's reactionary sentiments by those who don't care about others. Toxic masculinity is when a guy takes on negative character traits that causes him to have a negative archetype which then brings him more suffering. If a person becomes a shooter from those sentiments alone, do you think that's saying something about his mental well-being and how he should seek forms of therapy? Or is it women's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:06 AM
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Kudos to you buddy💪🏼 we need more guys like you here to spread positivity and common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:03 AM
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I was brutally bullied in school through my teens like I've mentioned on here. It's not some platitude. It's a shitty lived experience. But as I mentioned elsewhere also, I didn't lose hope. I kept true to myself, I always believed in myself that the next day would bring something positive with it. I didn't get far alone. I got the help I needed by surrounding myself with positive people who wanted the best for me. Not those who would drag me down or validate my negative outlooks. Is anything I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:02 AM
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Shitty advice like man up or just be yourself is fucking toxic and doesn't help anyone. I'm here talking to you because I see you as worth my time and effort. You're in a negative spot mentally and understandably so due to feeling outcast. (besides you're way too eloquent to be here lol) but like seriously, you remind me of my brother. He's in exactly the same boat. Can't catch a break. He feels like society's doors are shut to him while others have it so easy. He has Asperger's and finds it ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:48 AM
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Autism fucking sucks. My brother is autistic. Fully Asperger's. He was massively depressed which is why he spiralled and became an alcoholic as per my other post earlier on. I'm probably most likely on the spectrum somewhere. I definitely have some form of OCD or ADD even if it's mellow. But like seriously, us women are not all going around sleeping with every guy who gives us attention. I've only dated once and then my husband who I've been with for some 7 years. We suffer a lot too. Seems like…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:32 AM
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Nooo Steve Buscemi is a legend! I love him and his down to earth persona and great heart. See this is what I'm saying. Us women are not all the same to judge guys on looks alone because that would be fucking stupid. We'd miss so many good decent men simply because we were seeking good looks above anything else. Only a small subset of shallow women do that. See young girls might do the same because they're insecure themselves and their vocabulary is shit and they aren't exactly great judges of ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:28 AM
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There's a lot of fucked up things about the West in terms of how men get treated generally. But the same men who are getting ostracized should understand that they are open for manipulation online when it comes to all these pills. This is not a safe place even if it feels like that just because the guy finds many others like himself. I knew deep down guys here know this. That's basically a double whammy of bullshit. But it makes sense why guys turn to these online spheres. Look, I acknowledge yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:17 AM
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I fucking hate bullies. They ruined my youth. But I never gave up believing in something better. I never fell for some belief where I laid down my hope of a better future. Hope was my weapon. I had to face myself and accept that while I was bullied, that I was also sabotaging myself. I went therapy. It solved a lot of issues. Guys here refuse to accept that therapy is ever a good thing and think it's something only women do. It's a life saver. I learned to love myself again. I became happy. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:07 AM
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Ok so when I say self inflicted, I'm not saying it as the starting point. I just posted on another reply how I was bullied all through my teens at school. I looked different and I guess I became the target of some other girl and her buddies. I was a happy person before the bullying. Slowly, the bullying ate away at me and I began to doubt myself. I went from decent level of self belief to self sabotage because I began to believe that I was an outcast. I became withdrawn, shy and timid, doubtful,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:01 AM
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I was bullied throughout my teens. But I never believed what anyone said about me. I never gave in. I always knew I was worth something. I always thought the people who bullied me were the ones suffering and they targeted me because I was happy in my own skin. And sure enough I was right. My main bully was living a really shitty life at home and she would take out her home life frustrations at school on me and other girls. That was how she reacted to pain. It had nothing to do with me. I was sim…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:49 PM
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it doesn't matter whether i accept it or not, it doesn't change the fact that i am seen as ugly... See, we're both operating under the assumption that the other person is telling the truth here and not playing victim. I don't know your story or what you look like. I can only go on the words you use in your responses. So I can only give my opinions. So far, it's been confirmed in my mind that you're self sabotaging. Sorry to put it like that. If you're super young, that would make sense. We all d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:42 PM
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So you accepted what other people told you? If I came up to you and told you that you're ugly you'll accept it without question?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:04 PM
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Read their comment again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:55 PM
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Hehe that was a grave mistake lol. Oops. But dude. If you think you're ugly, you're rejecting yourself before anyone else ever could, given the chance. You're supposed to be your own best friend, not enemy. Why sabotage your own chances? That shows a lack of self esteem and confidence right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:30 PM
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Are you saying you are not attractive in looks and therefore you're ugly? Who told you this? Please try to make me understand. Being attractive isn't just a looks thing. Looks is a bonus. Attraction is not a choice. You guys know this right? Attraction is a massive concoction of a million things coming together like looks, positive character traits, attitude, passion, social skills etc. If you only consider looks as the holy grave, you've failed before you've started. It means you were hoodwinke…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:30 PM
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You're good :) we're all trying to help
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:05 PM
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I'm a woman lol but thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:44 PM
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Preach 🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:18 PM
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Except I care hence mentioning that this is all self inflicted to raise awareness. If you can't help yourself change, no one else can. You have to want it for yourself. You don't currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 05:13 PM
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Read his post again. Walk your own path. Doing what the red pill tells you to do is basically like simping yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:32 PM
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Yea what's up with that. And yet they think they deserve sex? I guess I'm new here but if this is what's been happening for a few years, then there's no help for some. Thing is, these same guys operate normally in society. They wouldn't dream of speaking the things they said to me on DM anonymously. Utter cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:17 PM
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Preach 🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:01 PM
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Failure is success in disguise. Now imagine if guys here thought like that. We both know most these guys hardly went for one approach. They felt ugly from the start due to lack of self worth and then found the online pills that totally pummeled them further and brainwashed them. It's a self esteem issue. Adolescence is all about vulnerability. And these pills prey on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 04:00 PM
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So if guys here are not confident sexual beings, how is that women's fault? That seems to be the main arc of this sub right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:56 PM
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Well yea, it's about having self worth. Knowing one's place in the world, having confidence, controlling one's space, being in the moment etc. Yet what these guys do is hang around some horrid forum where nothing but negative horrid thoughts are shared and they all end up full of hate. Who wants that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:54 PM
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What do you believe 'that tangible thing' is that women want, based on your experience up to now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:52 PM
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And that's as far as it goes. Beyond the politeness lies a nasty interior full of agendas. They won't understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:49 PM
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Most guys here lack social skills, confidence, self esteem, self respect, all the types of qualities that women find attractive. Instead they're filled with self sabotage. Self hate, placing blame on others akin to victim complex born of narcissism, and many other negative traits. Those traits I mentioned are like car components. Good components compared to bad ones. The exterior of the car could be a Ferrari but if it runs like shit, what's the use? A guy should aim to gain positive traits and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:47 PM
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What's with the victim complex? Just here to understand what's going on with you guys. So far it all seems self inflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:40 PM
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Hmm those incel forums speak for themselves where guys wish r*pe on women don't they.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:37 PM
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Where do you think attraction comes from? It's not just looks. It's from confidence and self esteem. Something that seems so completely alien to guys here. Makes me think guys here are way too young to be getting involved in these pills. You'll find guys who look totally normal and good looking but they are so deep in their self hate and lacking self worth that they turn ugly inside and out. Self sabotage really is ugly to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:31 PM
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Men and women have influenced each other for centuries. Men used brute force in the past. Women used seduction to gain power due to lack of physical power such as the renaissance era. Men used more brute force. Women used more psychological techniques. It's been a back and forth for thousands of years. You can't stop that. You either understand this and better yourself or you die out. Where are you in the grand scheme of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:29 PM
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Why does a clueless person, like yourself, come to a debate sub that is about the subjects you are clueless about? It screams pointlessness. Heh my husband did warn me that people here were very insulting due to anger clouding their world while simmering away in self hate and self inflicted pain. I've even received rape threats on DM. Probably from some 13 year old who doesn't know the implications of what they're saying. Serious question: What do you truly want out of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:25 PM
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Yea I think I'm left of center. I accept that both sides need to exist. Society and circumstances give rise to all extremes on either end. There's plenty of opportunities for all within this world. I guess they need to know what they want as well as knowing themselves as best as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:18 PM
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Traditionalism is one thing, where the person is brought up in that mentality and learns through practice and experience. It's another to seek out traditionalism through contempt, which is what's occurring here. Guys want control of a woman's body, autonomy, and thoughts. Never going to happen. It screams insecurity and lack of self worth and dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:15 PM
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Blue pill, red pill, depression pill, constipation pill, what do these pills even mean? To me they are coping mechanisms. Can you state why you and others ascribe to thinking of life as pills? It screams self loathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:12 PM
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So just as you've said, do you yourself associate with any pill and ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:02 PM
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Wonder why this wasn't the type of brainwashing done to young men during muh evil traditional times when there was a kettle for every dick Oh you're one of them. How could I possibly talk with you if your view is set in stone? You could easily swap this mentality for one that benefits you. Why not choose better?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:02 PM
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I made it as a joke and before long I felt terrible. These guys are brainwashed due to their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:52 PM
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Do you have biases against them? Plus how do you know who's right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:50 PM
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There must be a reason they go against you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:34 PM
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The reason I got with my now husband was his kind hearted nature among many other positive traits that matched mine. He was confident in his own being. Had self worth. Knew his place in the world. That's the important part. All his interests and passions were a great bonus on top. I love when he talks about his understanding of psychology and his love for history. He's not just an exterior but a filled out individual with so much value. Sometimes I feel like I'm punching above my weight. People …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:24 PM
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You're the one suffering not me lol. Maybe take advice of those you want to be like? You know? Less suffering of the soul? Nice try with the deflection though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:12 PM
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So are you at fault for how things have turned out for you? Or is it solely the fault of others?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:55 PM
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I call bullshit. You make your own world. Right now you've made one that is detrimental to you because you swallowed some pill which has become your poison. Sorry but I don't beat about the bush and say it like it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:46 PM
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I have to ask: do you see guys and gals in the real world walking around calling themselves blue or black or red pilled? These pills are solely online labels for people who use them as coping mechanisms. Sorry to be so direct but that's literally what they are. It means the person labelling themselves as such is struggling and having to create an association in order to belong. I'm just a human being with loads of positive qualities as well as bad ones. I have many shortcomings, and I'm aware of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:35 PM
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They have to want it for themselves. No amount of being given advice or showing them what's right will mean anything until they choose to want to change. My brother was an alcoholic for the longest time. No matter how much we as a family told him to come off it due to the damage it was causing him as well as loved ones, it didn't matter. He was so deep in his turmoil. It was only when he hit rock bottom and ended up in hospital having his stomach pumped on the brink of death as well as his wife …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:17 PM
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The first mistake a person makes is to take tiktok seriously as if it's some sort of benchmark for society. But then again I understand that the youth of today don't know that there was a time before social media and the internet. Ah those were the days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:13 PM
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It's entitlement. It's very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:11 PM
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Didn't you mock the other PUA Mark Manson yet you posted another PUA's video? Do you know who Mark Manson is? The dude wrote Models, which guys here tout all the time. Know what cognitive dissonance is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:50 AM
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It's a little more nuanced than that. You have to understand that by committing to the red pill, the person is taking on all the tenets. They change ideology. Their talking points change such as the use of language. The terminology, the stances, the whole bravado etc. What does all that encompass? Sex. So then the next person who reads their posts sees only one thing - that the person is sex obsessed. Even if he isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:43 AM
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More power to you 💪🏼. Good positive attitude despite the username lol. Makes me wonder why you're choosing to be black pilled? That's actually detrimental don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:34 AM
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What are you doing in your life to find that person? Because to be perfectly honest, what you're seeking is pretty easy to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:33 AM
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Don't concentrate on what you don't want. Concentrate on what you do want. You'll then see more of what you do want, out there in the world. It's a little well known secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:32 AM
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It's just very young men who have shot themselves in the foot for believing a silly ideology. They'll grow out of it eventually. No one likes to admit that they were hoodwinked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:31 AM
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This place is a shitshow. You'd be better placed in other subs like bropill, exredpill, incelexit etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:30 AM
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You might be seeking the wrong people or not being true to yourself without realising.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:29 AM
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That was very very specific set of sentences. Why are you concentrating solely in those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:27 AM
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Nope. Doesn't seem much to ask... So long as you offer the same level in return. Any level of toxicity alone from you is a deal breaker. And why discuss the whore aspect? This shows a lack of understanding. Is every woman a whore? You're literally showing the world that you're toxic DO YOU UNDERSTAND THIS??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:23 AM
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Do you have experience in dating? Or are you like everyone here, spouting off about hypergamy without even having touched a girl let alone kiss one?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:15 AM
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A man's sheer insecurity, as the guy described. It's like that movie Memento. Guys here repeating talking hypergamy without realising they're the problem lol. Everyone here is mentally fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:29 AM
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More guys here need to see this. That dude you responded to who was all mouth doesn't have a response to this. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:38 PM
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That's actually the best explanation for hypergamy I've seen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:33 PM
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The dude just destroyed hypergamy in one sentence and that's your response lol. You guys are self fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:32 PM
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Like tiktok is a shining beacon of society's benchmark. There are all forms of grifters out there. The red pill is a very well oiled machine currently. it's definitely being funded and pushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:53 PM
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It fits the small world thinking mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:23 AM
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Then don't get with a single woman? Turn gay. This is so stupid. Is everyone here extreme autistic or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:40 PM
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Why can't you guys read between the lines? Why can't you guys 'get it'? If you build a life with a woman who you spend say, 3 years with, after which you marry and settle down, if you still think she's cheating, it means you're the one who's fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:07 PM
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Thanks for the unsolicited response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:47 PM
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If you're always angry, how can you ever have a moment of clarity where you can think with logic and reasoning?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:46 PM
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If you're this insecure and paranoid of women, don't even think about having kids. Don't even go near one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:26 PM
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Plus they think more about his dick than the women do. Closeted homosexuals everywhere in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:24 PM
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This. A million times this. Why can't these guys understand that trying to change themselves for a woman is akin to simping? Considering they have already swallowed the red pill, they are narcissistic. They have inflated egos. When rejection occurs despite them putting in the effort to change themselves, their only reaction is a toxic one where they go down the path of victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:22 PM
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Don't bother. These guys are the victims don't you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:19 PM
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Isn't this called just being docile, thereby not ending up anywhere? No wonder these pills are a mess. People see things in binary instead of millions of shades of grey, which is what life is. Imagine living at an amazing time in life like right now and choosing to narrow down life to blue pill this, red pill that, black pill, suppository pill and so on. I guess some people just enjoy suffering. Be my guest guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:12 PM
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👆🏻Right wing trope. This is why many here are stuck. Equality has nothing to do with your situation. You've merely been made to believe that feminism and equality are what has caused you to end up where you are because supposedly women no longer need men etc. The far right have been similarly brainwashed to believe that the trans and LGBT movements are part of 'the great replacement' - bullshit. Stop hanging around those shitty dark corners of the internet which has rotted your brain, despite th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:09 PM
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all women who are worth a dime are allready taken. This bit is the problem. This is small world mentality. It's one-itis. You need abundance mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:42 AM
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Then why are you caring so much about that true hoe? While you've been stuck thinking and spending all your time on that hoe, the real women worth their salt got snapped up. Concentrate on what you do want not what you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:19 AM
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With all due respect I'm not going to take YouTube videos seriously. They're all agenda based. Although the mass psychosis one is credible. It works on both sides left and right man and woman. And I really couldn't give a damn about feminism. It doesn't affect me nor do I let it. Everyone is free to choose the side they want to fight on. You speak about society's ills and how the young men of today are feeling, and I'm all for raising awareness against movements that cause young minds harm. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:31 AM
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You. Yes you. I like you. Keep being awesome. Great breakdown and insight. History is always important to these conversations.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 11:27 PM
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This is a good take. The way algorithms work online is that the red pill will fade. Currently it's at the forefront. There's a possibility it's being funded well. So many YouTubers popping up and passing their takes, gaining a quick following by the young masses. Prior to this, Real Social Dynamics was a big deal in the red pill circles. Something doesn't feel right. It feels like some MLM movement. Young men being groomed, and then spreading the red pill's doctrine far and wide. What better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:03 PM
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I get that, and sure, there's an art to it. If a guy can pull that off, more power to him. The women then have to figure out how not to get used by those kind of guys in the future etc. The issue is that these guys here who call themselves 'alpha' have never left their rooms, yet somehow they feel entitled to a young beautiful '10/10' woman. How does the work?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:41 PM
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I know you won't answer this question properly, but how about this one For a moment, imagine you had an 18 year old daughter who is: as you guys put it, '10/10' - would you let any one of these chronically online 'red pill' guys anywhere near her? I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:14 PM
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These guys froth from the mouth when the single mother with a child finds a decent loving man who takes care of her and the child, where they live happily ever after. It destroys their illusion. It totally leaves them debilitated. They can't function at the thought of the women they put below them finding happiness. And I love it. Crabs in a bucket, simmering away, pulling each other down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:10 PM
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I have a 19 year old niece and every day I remind her to watch out for a certain secular set of men in society like those on here. I show her the posts on this sub often as examples of what to look out for. Then again you guys will probably think she's too old and over the wall or some such. She's living life and enjoying her youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:07 PM
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Hmm would I give a reformed red pill man who once spoke all sorts of daft misogyny and bullshit ideology online a chance? Naaah. They'd still be hella toxic. Once a scorned little man, always a scorned little men. This is too easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:55 PM
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Nintendo seal of approval
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:42 PM
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Because I've heard it from multiple people in multiple cities? That's your evidence? Good God... My mate Dave in the pub told me the other night that if I jump off a cliff, I could fly. So I believed him. Hellooooo anecdotal evidence. Logic and critical thinking be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:41 PM
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Thanks for answering. So why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:37 PM
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It's you who is painting yourself badly in the first place. The whole crux of the issue is that you're not happy about something about yourself. It's why you turned to the red pill. You talk about how I made it personal. It's you who took it personally because something within you felt it. When we feel a personal attack it means someone got close to our center, which we do everything we can to hide, if something feels lacking about us. I'll overlook your personal attack on me where you called me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:10 PM
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Hey how come you always say the wrong things?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:39 PM
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I'm actually in despair for you even though we don't know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:35 PM
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And unfortunately it's fucked up many young minds. Besides, the red pill is an allegory of our freedoms. I won't discuss the aspect that the Wachowski's used it in conjunction with the trans movement because that gets heated really quickly. Ironically the red pill itself has created an information overload in the young minds of those who have committed to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:08 PM
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Yea this is accurate. The same guys who come online and spout their usual diatribe and misogyny while calling themselves 'alpha' from behind their anonymous usernames are scared to death in bringing up these talking points offline for fear of being ostracized or outed (that's if they leave their rooms) What this means is that they are very aware of their actions and words. To me, that makes them very cowardly. It makes sense seeing some 12 year old say the same crap as Anal Taint in the real wor…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 02:52 PM
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I did answer it. I'm saying don't put all your eggs in one basket. If the red pill was the be all and end all of fixing your woes, you wouldn't be here. You'd already have had many successes under your belt. You simply wouldn't be here. Plus please take a look at how quickly you answered back without asking what I actually meant. This shows your closed mindedness. I can go on and on about all the ways in which your newly instilled mindset has put you farther back than where you started. You were…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:45 PM
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Red pill is popular because it speaks to a man's emotions. Not his logic. You guys won't hear whatever answer is given to but here you go. Take a bit of everything. Philosophy, psychology, stoicism, biological science, a little red pill, a little blue pill, because that way, your perspective will be greater in trying to understand your own experiences and emotions than just seeing it through one ideology, which is basically tunnel vision.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:18 PM
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As per one of your posts here, what causes you disgust/discomfort in seeing a man wearing earrings? Have you been able to seek the reason for it? Genuinely interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:49 AM
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I know that. I was speaking about the homosexual aspect in particular, not bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:36 AM
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The majority of guys in here are closet homosexuals but can't admit it due to swallowing the red pill where they've been told to act alpha and kill off any emotions. There's all sorts of shit going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:19 AM
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Doesn't this seem passive aggressive? Like as if you want to watch the world burn?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:35 AM
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Yea this. The red pill tells men to sort out their looks and exterior and get fit etc. Not because it's good for the person but as a way to get attention of the women. Well congrats guys, you're doing what's called simping because you're not doing things for yourself. You're jumping through hoops to get noticed. That leads to narcissism if no one pays attention after all the hard work one puts in. Everybody, would you please welcome victim complex to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:42 PM
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Dude. What you're trying to say is that you see yourself as having more 'value' to those SEA women you perceive as being below you, so then you've gone out of your way to discuss strip clubs in some corner of the world to validate your own point. The guy above you basically outlined your notion and then slam dunked it home to further cement the facts. This post isn't a discussion as such, it's an "I am right and everyone's wrong if they disagree with me" type post. Pretty much like every CMV pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:50 AM
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Bropill, incelexit, exredpill, there are a few, but yea it's a cesspit overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:58 AM
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Right on cue, post gets deleted. This place is a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:53 AM
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Good on you for helping out these guys. You're one of the good ones. The majority here want to drag others down because that's all they know from their learned behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:45 AM
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Mods here are crabs in a bucket. They don't want anyone here climbing out. Bring on more hypergamy posts so we can all simmer away! Chop chop!👏🏼 Mod: Be civil Ban incoming...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:43 AM
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Do you believe in religious doctrines? Or better yet do you realise what is going on in cult circles where an ideology is pushed that then gets more and more toxic the deeper down the rabbit hole you go? Andrew Tate, this Cooper guy, all those fox news anchors, all those toxic extreme individuals both on the left and right are the same. They're grifters. Their agenda is to get a following. Some are more charismatic than others. Some don't even believe in the bullshit they spew but know that youn…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 10:35 AM
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But how do you know if whether what you have seen or been told is real? How do you know if you haven't been radicalised to believe something that has made your situation far worst? Like sure, you had it tough. I had it tough when I was younger. But you can bet when I was younger (now 43) I didn't have the internet in its current form where a lonely guy can fall from grace and into a bottomless pit of despair where he labels himself some pill colour. I had a bad patch where I felt awful like all …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:39 AM
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I've already apologized as it was indeed a shitty comment. Though by God, these guys don't make it easy for themselves by believing in some tropes.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 10:07 PM
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Yes you're right. I said it in a really shitty way. I'm sorry. The issue remains unfortunately. The manosphere preys on vulnerable men. These men deserve better.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 09:48 PM
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Online dating is simply a shitty algorithm. I wouldn't even go near it. It's rigged. You'll only see more of what you hate. And so it creates a negative self fulfilling prophecy for it. A smokescreen, if you will. And then there's neurodivergence. If you have it, it's a monster. No doubt about it and it makes life feel like ultra hard mode. Have a look at r/incelexit to see things from a different side. (Not saying you're an incel but it's good to see things from a different perspective) You kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:31 PM
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Can we also talk about how these guys and possibly yourself are lacking in self esteem, respect, and confidence? It seems like a totally alien concept to all here. And before you say something like 'getting rejected loads by women caused this' - no that's not a reason but a cop out. What is your understanding of confidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:58 PM
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Victim complex is a bitch ain't it. All these guys need therapy pronto. Oh but wait "TheRaPY iS fOr wIMinZ!" These guys could gain so much from cognitive behavioural therapy and dialectal behavioural therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:40 PM
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Hey so I had a quick look at your profile and you seem like a decent fella without the usual toxicity one sees from these guys where they are resisting in changing their perspective and choose to remain scorned. My best advice for you is to look at other subs like r/incelexit (not saying you are one but the talking points in their are great with no toxicity allowed) as well as r/bropill, r/exredpill to see things from different perspectives. If you stay in this sub as well as other negative comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:35 PM
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Let me guess. Women did this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:30 PM
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I should have been more clear. You have modesty and humility. These guys don't. They're scorned
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:51 PM
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You cannot reason someone out of a position that they never reasoned themselves into. Think about it. He fell into the red pill due to some shortcoming within him. He didn't use logic or critical thinking to ask himself if whether what he was reading was fact or anecdotal, which was feeding on his negative emotions. He's a lost cause until he decides he isn't. Or never will. For you, you do you. That means get out.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 12:40 PM
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Most of the people in all these manosphere circles are neurodivergent. They aren't armed with the ability to think logically like a neurotypical can. Take a look at r/PurplePillDebate. It's a clusterfuck.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 12:36 PM
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Only if the person has no social skills and refuses to learn any
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:28 PM
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Me or them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:54 AM
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A good job is better than a good partner Really? How so? I agree with the other parts but this bit is puzzling. Surely when everything is great at home, it gives way to being able to concentrate on everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:51 AM
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Learn from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:50 AM
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Imagine having such low self esteem and confidence to actively call yourself ugly. Total lack of self awareness on show. Let me guess, you are black pilled and believe what you were told right? The state of these people and pills smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:38 AM
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When talking with neurodivergent people with lack of social skills, we all lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:34 AM
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A good man with values vs a shitty man desperate for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:30 AM
1

Most of the guys here are closet homosexuals anyway. They just refuse to accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:26 AM
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Been saying it for the longest time. They're closeted. But somewhere along the process they fell into the red pill where they were told to act alpha, and to kill their emotions. Lo and behold, they are stupidly stuck. They think more about Chad's dick than the women do. It's like those alt right morons who hate on gays and trans people. They think about what gays do with their dicks. Meanwhile gays don't even know these idiots exist. Gays live rent free in their minds. And let's not forget. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:44 AM
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These guys are the lost souls of the internet. Leave them be. They chose this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:19 AM
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Nah. I believe that there are all walks of life out there. Both in men and women. There are good people and bad. Both life savers and life takers. The men here are scorned to the 9th layer of hell. They don't want to be saved. That much is apparent. Good luck to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:17 AM
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These are the guys who fell through the net and ended up on the dark side. They then blame women for their troubles lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:16 AM
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It's for weak men who go after weak women. The same men who call themselves alpha while thinking the woman is high value lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 08:58 AM
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Jeezus this automod is nuts. I mentioned how nihilism is a philosophy of acceptance if a person is content, yet how the black pill took it to the negative extreme. Are you telling me that a particular sect of people in those forums who wish r*pe on women and call the women words like toilets are 'content'? That's the total opposite of content. You might be different, but you share the same space and label as them. I'm sorry I offended you. I realise you aren't the same as them but consider my or…
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 02:50 PM
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In your own words: Kek.
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 02:46 PM
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Any guy can get laid if he changes his damn attitude
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 02:42 PM
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kek? I guess we know what community you belong to then. For your information, the right wing pipeline is all encompassing. Red pill, black pill, neckbeards, nice guys, alt-right, they're all part of the same scene and they all share one thing in common: a hate for women, and the liberties that you take for granted. Learn your history. In around 2009 a major movement of Russian bots took over many forums and communities spreading propaganda and hate. It swept everything in its path. Steve Bannon,…
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 02:31 PM
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lol
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 01:43 PM
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That the black pill is a cult and all who accept it have been brainwashed. Nihilism is a philosophy, however what black pill has done is to take it to an extreme. A negative extreme that is.
/r/AllPillDebate17/02/23 01:30 PM
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I'd hope the kid doesn't become an incel, which has a high likelihood. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:51 PM
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I wonder why with this lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:35 PM
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Fair enough. I'm a step dad to a son who is 16 years old and he's showing all the characteristics of a person who has his head screwed on tight. Bear in mind I couldn't have kids and wanted them. So it's never a simple one bracket fits all situation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:23 PM
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The fact that you can't see the issue with your save file comment is the glaring problem here. Next you'll be calling everyone NPC's
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:06 PM
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Lmfao I was in agreement until the totally unnecessary save file comment. Based on that, aren't you a copy of a copy of a copy etc etc etc? That makes you totally redundant no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:51 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:49 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:49 PM
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You're red pill right? You mentioned grooming. Isn't it grooming when red pill men seek a naive young woman of 18 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:49 PM
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Ah I see. "Another man's kid" Are you yourself another man's kid? You basically insulted guys here who have stepfathers. There's even another post about stepfathering
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:42 PM
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Interesting to see guys here pick the woman without the kid. What if the kid turned into the next Christiano Ronaldo or LeBron James or similar? All kids have incredible potential for greatness. Are you guys throwing that chance away?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:36 PM
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How come? For all you know, that kid could be the next LeBron James, therefore nurturing him would be an excellent challenge with its set of rewards
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:29 PM
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Low hanging fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:28 PM
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What value do these men bring?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:14 PM
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And a question for the men as well, is it easier to "land" a younger or older woman Land? Is she a plane now? Well now I've heard everything. Jokes aside, it's a fantasy. These men (black pilled guys, not red. That must be noted) want a young woman to control. Youth has no teeth, no bite and no grit. The young girls are naive, unaware to the ways of the world. Never gonna happen though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:00 PM
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Because the internet is a very dangerous place full of misinformation and rabbit holes that people fall down. It's not enough if one person with a "Dr." before his name has conducted the study. It requires peer review every time. Plus fake people exist. In the 70’s, Exxon brought onboard "researchers" to show that climate change was not as bad as it was claimed yet sat on the truth for the longest time. Plus fake researchers were used for reducing the negative aspects of smoking. People with mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:33 PM
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And yet I got downvoted lol. This place... Honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:28 PM
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Nooo stop speaking sense and using logic in here! Let these guys simmer in their hate. Just get the popcorn and enjoy the show.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:22 PM
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Hey there Mr. Smooth Rectum. Your post will be taken down by the mods for directly linking. I guess all it takes is one study to confirm your bias eh? More misery to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:11 PM
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It's interesting that the usual suspects who spout misogyny in this sub are nowhere to be seen in posts like this. Says it all really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:05 PM
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Ah yes. The good old 80/20 Pareto Principle... It's very misunderstood around these parts. But don't let me stop you from limiting yourself from success that you so crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:01 PM
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I understand what you are alluding to, which is sexual attraction. Sexual attraction can be built on. It's a mindset built on confidence, which is something that guys here refuse to acknowledge. It's a way of carrying oneself. Evan will need to clean up his physical external appearance, whilst most importantly, concentrating on his internal characteristics to become a man amongst men. Isn't that what the true red pill teaches? Minus all that misogynistic nonesense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:55 AM
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I mean I wouldn't class myself BP, whatever that entails. My outlook has always been to become the best you can be for YOURSELF. In doing that, you are carving your own path in life. In Evan's example, if he is on the charge to get sex, it's going to be very apparent to others. Whereas if his aim is to seek companionship, sex becomes part of a greater package. It's totally within his ability to gain that. The original question is a loaded one, but also very fair. And this is why we say that ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:47 AM
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He could possibly have a set of limiting beliefs that causes him issues. Success lies on the far side of failure, so it then becomes a numbers game. If you are alluding to looks being a factor, then sure, it plays a part but not the major part. Many factors feed into success.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:26 AM
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Bro, it's cringe. Oh the irony. To place 4 billion men in the world into these simplistic terms. That's horrifically short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:24 AM
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Why? How? On what grounds? Did you build rapport with her? Do you know what she wants in a man? You could be the chaddest of chads yet she could be into dad bod guys. How would you know exactly? What you're saying here is that you are walking around with a set of beliefs that are limiting your understanding of the many nuances of life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:24 AM
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That's an unfortunate belief. Unless a person looks like Quasimodo, he'll be just fine. I'm 5'6 and I've done just fine in the world. And there's the important part. I've gone out into the world. People refuse to make a move to begin with. If you have positive character traits, they will be noticed. For example if a person has dignity and a high sense of self worth. Imagine you plucked up the courage and stepped up to a girl yet she didn't reciprocate your advances. With dignity and self respect…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:21 AM
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Are these astrology terms for men? Sounds cool. Tell me more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:59 AM
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What's his attitude like? What are his beliefs? Does he think all women are bitches etc or conversely, does he think they're all angels? Or somewhere in between? What's his beliefs about himself? Does he feel that he is ugly? What are his shortcomings? There would be lots to pick at.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:53 AM
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Why would you let someone have power over you? In other words, why are you willingly giving away your worth? If some overweight woman rejected you, would you feel hurt? I bet your answer would be that you wouldn't approach the overweight woman in the first place. So why then feel hurt at the hands of rejection from a beautiful woman? Oh that's right. It's because you put her on a pedestal, hence above you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:48 AM
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That's just so stupid. It actually means you're lacking in many positive character traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:43 AM
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