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| 1 | Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens.Liberal vs conservative basically boils down to Individual Liberty vs Greater Good. So conservative groups will always be stronger as a group than liberal groups. This is why progressive politics is so splintered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 09:04 AM |
| – | What can a woman do to avoid harm from men who consume too much porn?Go to church | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Men, does religion help or hurt men’s rights? Or is atheism/agnosticism more freeing? (I’m hoping for a diverse range of opinions)Then he doesn't have to be part of a culture or religion that expects those things and he can go find people that share his sentiments. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Men, does religion help or hurt men’s rights? Or is atheism/agnosticism more freeing? (I’m hoping for a diverse range of opinions)See my second to last comment. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 06:54 AM |
| 5 | Men, does religion help or hurt men’s rights? Or is atheism/agnosticism more freeing? (I’m hoping for a diverse range of opinions)That's irrelevant to the point I'm making. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Men, does religion help or hurt men’s rights? Or is atheism/agnosticism more freeing? (I’m hoping for a diverse range of opinions)Religions evolve constantly through time. The "social contract" isn't something written down. Nobody is using the bible to justify animal sacrifice today. Today's moral system doesn't exist. There is no one "moral system" in the secular world. The values we do have are in large part evolved from religious principles and then Enlightenment humanism. Also, just because a group of people claim something is bad doesn't mean it really is. Furthermore, anyone can twist the words in any holy book to su… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Men, does religion help or hurt men’s rights? Or is atheism/agnosticism more freeing? (I’m hoping for a diverse range of opinions)This kind of thing happens in any kind of group. If you breach a social contract, you lose social privileges. It's a necessary sacrifice to keep the group as a whole healthy, like a quarantine. People have the right to choose, but that right doesn't shield them from the natural consequences of their choice. This is the same reason progressives have a very strict cancel culture. It's a phenomenon inherent to human society, not just religion. Also, people use anything to justify bad things. That's… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 06:24 AM |
| 8 | Men, does religion help or hurt men’s rights? Or is atheism/agnosticism more freeing? (I’m hoping for a diverse range of opinions)Religion helps people live according to a set of shared cultural expectations. It has a lot of benefits people dont appreciate. | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 04:23 AM |
| 104 | Is it wrong of me to be a little upset when girls say “I need to make sure you aren’t a serial killer,” right before a date?I dated a girl who accused her first bf of rape. Most of her friends sided with him, including people in the church. Years later, one apologized to her and said he turned out to be an a**hole... which to her, seemed like validation, but who wouldn't become one after such an accusation? She had another bf and a friend who both killed themselves because of her. When she told me at the start of our relationship, I thought about it, then she freaked out and asked why I "had a pensive look". She accu… | /r/MensRights | 11/09/23 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingOh I do. I've learned a lot from "bitter hags", and I believe inside everyone's heart lives a bitter hag. I know I, as a 31 year old man, have a lot more in common with them than I do with the sweet old ladies. Usually the sweet old ladies have never had to learn as many difficult life lessons as the bitter ones. And the bitter ones are usually tougher too. Frankly, when it comes to old ladies, they're all valuable in some way or another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingListen to them. Which ones? In all truth, many are bitter hags, many are guardian angels, many are tender and kind, and many are spiteful and terrible people, many are crazy, many are wise beyond measure. It's silly to lump them all into the same category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 05:38 AM |
| 5 | R/menslib feels like so weirdImagine responding to a feminist complaining about FGM with "have you tried meditating?" Lol | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/09/23 09:59 PM |
| 13 | Why Aren't Male Victims of Sexual Abuse Speaking Out?It goes against the prevailing narrative and makes you a target. There's little to no support for it and further, people see it as a red flag. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/09/23 04:59 AM |
| 3 | College women reacting to Men’s Rights😭 Right back at ya! | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 08:22 AM |
| 3 | College women reacting to Men’s RightsCongratulations. You've singlehandedly improved this guy's mental health just by posting this. This gives me so much hope and that alone makes a world of difference. I wish you all the best in your endeavor! | /r/MensRights | 28/08/23 06:34 AM |
| 2 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.You should see a therapist about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:16 PM |
| 11 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.Women make up 25% of all pedophiles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:14 PM |
| 2 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.And it's been shown that most people throughout their lives have had murderous thoughts. Hell, in Ancient Rome, the masses flocked to the colliseum just to see wanton brutality staged for their amusement. Even now, violence is a mainstay in entertainment, with slasher films and the like. Human beings truly are sick fucks who deserve no respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Male psychologist criticizing me for belonging to a “men’s rights sub”The youtube channel PsycHacks is really good. It's a private practice male psychologist who makes some great videos. But I also recommend the channel Cinema Therapy, which is admittedly more mainstream, postmodern, white man's guilt-ridden white men discussing mental health through film and character analysis. I think it's beneficial to take such things in if only to understand the thinking behind it and meet other people at their level. There's a lot of helpful info there if you ignore the iden… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/23 03:27 PM |
| 15 | Why do some guys with alot of female friends start hating other men?Hate is contagious. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/23 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Is it really true that men are calling off dating because of the abuse that goes on to men? Or are we just saying that?I've done so. There's a mental health crisis going on. I've been dating women like someone would chain smoke cigarettes. Always one at a time, but always a new one to rebound to within a week. I've kept up with their stories, their traumas, their diagnoses, the way they see the world. It's fascinating having been on the ground level of it all. But in short, with the rising interest in mental health awareness, more and more people are looking inwards and trying to find what they themselves truly … | /r/MensRights | 23/08/23 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Hey bpd crazies, get your meds and antidepressants ready cuz im gonna explain to you all why so many guys dont want nothing serious with 304s and im going to disprove all of your lies and gaslightningSounds like some salty person with BPD saying, "you'll never do better than me!" That's such an abuser line it's ridiculous. | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/08/23 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Hey bpd crazies, get your meds and antidepressants ready cuz im gonna explain to you all why so many guys dont want nothing serious with 304s and im going to disprove all of your lies and gaslightninghttps://youtu.be/W6aDNutZoB0 This video says it all. It's been toxic girl summer out here with all these mid 2010's tumblristas out here. My sister is one of these Lolita-reading, "Girl, Interrupted"-watching, female manipulator types. Turns out she's been basically sending other bpd types my way to date, all unbeknownst to me. It wasn't enough that she molested me when I was a kid. All these severely toxic women get together online to jerk each other off instead of getting help. These are the k… | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/08/23 01:11 PM |
| 2 | The Myth of Egalitarian BonobosI'm not though. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/08/23 07:39 PM |
| 4 | The Myth of Egalitarian BonobosGorillas and Chimps are not generally known for such behaviors. Bonobos are held up as an example of egalitarian society with pervasive hypersexuality as a central feature. This is one of the things that lead to the "free love" movement within 1960's counterculture as young people sought to make love, not war. This sentiment of course gets carried over into modern movements such as feminism. Incest and pedophilia are actually quite rare in most species. It shouldn't be assumed that all apes exhi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/08/23 07:09 PM |
| 4 | The Myth of Egalitarian BonobosDont forget matriarchal bonobo societies are riddled with incestuous and pedophilic behavior. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/08/23 11:44 AM |
| 4 | Women would be straight up miserable if their partner refused to have sex with them, yet because it usually happens the other way around they find excuses that sex is not importantAs a guy, I can say that having sex early on is a great way to move way too fast into a relationship that you might not want to be in. The best relationships are built on solid friendships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 10:32 AM |
| 13 | Came across this after the Shoe vid on loneliness searching for feminist channels acknowledging the issue, and was deeply disappointed on the content and comments. Your thoughts?I love how she tells men what they really mean. This is a classic bullshit tactic. Twist the other person's argument around from "we want basic respect and acknowledgement of our issues" to "oh, what you really want is to make women slaves." There's no point in even entertaining these types of people as anything you say will be put through a filter and altered in its meaning just to build an easily dismissable strawman. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/23 05:57 PM |
| 15 | Men are not allowed to feel certain emotions like fear (especially of women).Don't you know women are perfect angels? /s I remember a time when feminists rejected benevolent sexism like that and called for more female villains in media and things like that. Now, they're leaning as heavily as they can into the idea that women are faultless and always safe. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/08/23 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Thoughts on the repressive policies towards women and girls in places like Afghanistan?Sounds like he's acting like human rights are men's to give or take away. Nope. Human rights are human rights. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/08/23 10:53 AM |
| 9 | It's not fair that a small percentage of men get to affect women's views on all menI dated a black girl who grew up in the projects, lived in a neighborhood they wouldn't deliver pizza to, etc. My boss at the time, this older fella, would always talk about avoiding those neighborhoods or if he was in one, getting tf out as soon as possible. He was a little racist by modern standards, but honestly, I really never blamed him for trying to avoid risk. The whole reason human beings are so bent towards tribalism in the first place is due to the need for survival and safety. I dont … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | New to this community and want supportThank you! r/mensrights, r/leftwingmaleadvocates, etc are good places to start. But if you really want to get down to brass tacks and be able to sympathize with men, I'll say this: What first got me into feminism was a very peculiar life experience. My mother was a CSA survivor and was horribly abusive and hateful when I was growing up. When my dad told me about her rough childhood to get me to sympathize with her, I ended up just blaming all my life's problems on that one issue. He went on to t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm growing more and more convinced women are not individuals but instead one consciousness imitating individuals to trick us.We think we have it bad as men when women jump down our throats for perceived misogyny. Women get it way worse from other women. It's a basic strength in numbers thing. Back when I was a male feminist, I didn't really mind calling men out. They wouldn't jump on me for it. Hell, men are still good to me even when I've been an asshole. But the second anyone, male or female, does anything less than sing a woman's praises, you get a swarm of backlash. I dont blame women for not wanting to stick thei… | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Have you begun or would you consider utilising an 'AI Girlfriend' due to being unsuccessful in finding a partner?My exes would love this feature. Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:36 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Have you begun or would you consider utilising an 'AI Girlfriend' due to being unsuccessful in finding a partner?I've been too successful with women. I'd totally consider an AI girlfriend. I'm tired of real women. All the decent women my age are already in relationships/married and it's been that way since my early 20's. All the single ladies are almost always single for a reason. I'm more than ready to settle down with a nice virtual gf now. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:34 PM |
| 6 | Taylor Swift thinks its okay to stigmatise half the human population. Yes, sexism is always wrong.It's their trump card to offload the programmed white guilt they've internalized onto men. Taylor is a classic example of this, as a former country girl often just assumed to be racist all the time. In the new, affirmative action reversal of the status quo, black men and white women are perceived to have a different but roughly equal oppression status. So Kanye grabs the mic from Taylor and says she shouldn't have won. And then we elect Obama but not Hilary, and it's like the white women feel ca… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/23 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?Probably because it's just that--a phase. It's gone down in history as a standard millenial life stage that signaled the final waning of the sexual liberation movement that started two generations ago. There's been a collective cultural shift lately back to a more reserved sexual landscape that follows the increasing trend toward sexlessness in younger generations and the return to tradition as the collective hangover from being loosey goosey sets in. We threw the baby out with the bathwater. Tu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?Nobody likes objectification. But women get too horny to resist seeking out sex. So transactional sex becomes a thing. It's just two people agreeing to an equal exchange of physical pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 08:04 AM |
| 7 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?Women say There's your problem. You really need to stop listening to what women say and start paying attention to what they actually do and how they act. Women just use feminist talking points as a tool to guilt men and derive gratification out of it. They project all their lascivious tendencies onto men as a way of dealing with the cognitive dissonance that comes with their hypocrisy. In truth, many women want to be treated as sex objects so that they can feel better about treating men as sex o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 07:50 AM |
| 7 | Feminists deflectionIt's a classic double bind maneuver used by narcissists. Damned if you do damned if you dont. Either you agree that all men are rapists, which means you're a rapist, or you disagree, which is a red flag that means you're a rapist. You cant reason with these people. They're only out to troll because they dont know how to process their trauma in a healthy way. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/23 08:47 PM |
| 16 | Being bisexual and embracing redpill is very difficult once you experience what women doI’ve never had a woman push me to do things sexually I said no to Lucky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?Oh they come alright. Lol. When they say it's not worth it, it's probably because they were trying to turn a casual arrangement into something more and it didn't work and they feel all crabby about it and go all sour grapes. Women are funny like that sometimes. A lot of what they say you cant take seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?Same. Although that relationship started out as fwb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?I'm a man and I had a hoe phase. I can tell you for me it was a little bit of both. I did enjoy it enough, but I'm also happy to be done with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 07:56 PM |
| 25 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?they would associate "living their best life" with having men use their bodies as objects You do realize they're using the mens' bodies as objects as well, right? You do know women enjoy sex too, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 07:53 PM |
| 2 | My question about passport bro'sSimple. The women just elope and move back to the USA, glad to be away from their shitty home life and parents. It's not rocket science. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/08/23 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Every time I listen to / read "The father is not in the picture"...Jesus fucking Christ. People like that ought to be shot. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 11:41 AM |
| 5 | Every time I listen to / read "The father is not in the picture"...One of my first girlfriends had a bio dad she was effectively poisoned against, replaced by a step-dad who she held as her dadin her heart. I wonder sometimes if she ever actually explored why or got his side of things. He wasn't part of the cult we were in and that factored heavily into the alienation. He obviously loved her from what I was told, but he was blamed for not being around and obviously the pain of abandonment made it easy for her mom to direct that at the father. I cant imagine giv… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 09:10 AM |
| 4 | Women are not the enemy. They are being used to control menMost women can think for themselves, but they all believe other women think a certain way and they dont want to stick out like a sore thumb. Heresy is not tolerated. Questioning is punished. When you create a high-control environment, you can easily fool several independent people into going along with the group because being in a group makes them feel powerful and accepted. So if you convince a bunch of young women that they're better than men, they'll bond over their common enemy. When they gr… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Women are not the enemy. They are being used to control menI think it's fair to say some women are brainwashed while some are just bad actors. It's been a while since I've heard a woman speak up for the agency of women and against infantilization. Much respect. It takes more guts to be what they call a "pickme" than it does to bow to pressure to fit in with the rest of your voting bloc. Kudos to you. An ally like you is more a picker than a pickme anyway, as you get to have your pick of men, while buzzfeed feminists all have to compete for simps. I'm no… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 04:43 AM |
| 1 | I feel like feminists think they are saintly shepherds, and must herd minorities like sheep, in order to "save" them. Well I don't like being shepherded, for one. If you think I'm mistaken, then how do I interpret the evidence presented below?Deep down, this is the self-serving, unspoken core belief that draws women to feminism in the first place. It's manifest destiny/white man's burden all over again, but with women this time. | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Is there anyone here who was blackpilled who has been helped by therapy?Trust me when I say there's more to life than women. Unfortunately, the best way to get over women is to first get under a bunch of em. Lmao. But trust me bro, you don't really even want to know what you're missing. You won't find real love these days. Today's women grow up with the idea that men are just shallow creatures, only interested in sex, so relationships just become purely physical, which is soul-sucking and leaves you feeling used. Trust me bro, just stick to porn and enjoy your indep… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/07/23 01:25 PM |
| 3 | A man needs women’s approval. If women like him, they make his life better.Nah. This is just an overblown selling point for women. Truth is, if you're attractive and in a relationship, women can and often will make your life hell thinkin you wont break up with them. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/23 02:54 AM |
| 15 | Were Western societies really patriarchal before the 2000's?Fucking THANK YOU! It's like women think they're the only ones affected by societal ills. Such a hamfisted, one-sided way of seeing history. The fact that they really eat this shit up is disillusioning beyond belief. In the 90's, my married mom was able to cheat on my dad and still get primary custody of us kids and the money that went along with it, while she pretty much left us to our own devices, sometimes without enough food in the house. My sister got sucked into the tiktok pipeline and onc… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/07/23 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Fathers are being excluded by kids schools!Fatherhood is dying as a thing in the anglosphere/western world. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/23 07:12 PM |
| 10 | The In group and Out group biases of the male and female genders.This is exactly why I couldn't last as a feminist. I didn't have to become one, but I thought it was really the right path. However, on the inside, it's really nothing more than matriarchy under the guise of fighting for equality. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/23 11:02 PM |
| 3 | You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urselfI used to be this guy before I caught the woke mind virus. Lol. Maybe I'll be that guy again someday. But dont stop believing, OP. You're a good'un. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 06:08 PM |
| 2 | "Women these days want men who are emotionally available and emotionally intelligent"I knoooow. 😢 I guess I just cant help it. Oh well. Looks I'm gonna have to never deal wi-- I mean.. have the privilege of dating another woman ever again. Oh woe is me. But it's what I deserve for being a misogynist. 😔 | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 02:41 AM |
| 5 | Is there any other incel with a romantic interest in mute girls?Make sure she's handicapped too. That way she can't get very far on foot. /s. Seriously though, this is how you're going to sound to people, dude. 😂 Also, people are automatically gonna assume you're talking about a minor when you specify "teen girl". It gives major ick. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Major "let them eat cake" momentThe fact that so many women somehow cannot process this glaring double standard, among others, is exactly what leads men to stop being able to take them seriously. What baffles me is the fact that incels think that actually being with a woman will somehow make them hate women less. 🤔 | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Andhra Pradesh: Woman Cuts Husband’s Genitals For Watching First Wife’s Instagram ReelMisandry maims | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/23 12:44 AM |
| 14 | "Women these days want men who are emotionally available and emotionally intelligent"They think they want this until they realize it means a man who asserts his own boundaries and calls her out on her own emotional immaturity. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 12:06 AM |
| 52 | Billy Eilish posts misandrist and sexist rant, this is socially acceptableSounds like maybe she's the one with the small dick. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/23 03:25 PM |
| 3 | People always say this. (CW: suicide)Ditto! | /r/MensRights | 24/07/23 03:01 AM |
| 3 | People always say this. (CW: suicide)My whole life experience has been a testament to this. Now that I know people really dont give any fucks, I go on living purely out of spite. Lol | /r/MensRights | 24/07/23 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Study shows Women aroused by monkey sex, but not men. MONKEYPILLOof. A little too based. This is some "creedthoughts.com" material. Lmao. I'm just synthesizing Terrence McKenna with modern biblical scholarship. But who's to say this isn't just more propaganda? It's just one intersectional lens through which to see reality. No more or less valid than any other. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/07/23 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Study shows Women aroused by monkey sex, but not men. MONKEYPILL[TW: mentions of religion, cited scripture. If you have religious trauma, this may trigger you.] Why does this not surprise me? This is exactly why Abrahamic religions hate science and evolution. It all boils down to this. What's behind the curtain. What we knew and observed about women in ancient times that got subsequently covered up by millenia of faith-based distraction and social constructs. Its like Robin Williams in Good Will Hunting not having the heart to tell his wife she farted in her… | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/07/23 07:54 PM |
| 10 | Democrat repositioning on masculinity continueshelping boys is helping the "oppressor class." It's a dog-eat-dog world out there with dogs attacking people and whatnot. Obviously the solution is to neglect and mistreat puppies since they'll grow into dogs. This will totally make a less violent/oppressive new generation of dogs once they grow up. /s. Society treats boys worse than dogs and wonders why so many are checking out of society and are "lost". It's not the men that are lost, but rather the boys with stockholm syndrome who still belie… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/07/23 09:15 AM |
| 27 | A woman in "Are We Dating The Same Guy" group killed her husband.good luck getting most women to give a shit. I dont care if they give a shit anymore. I stay away from women for my own safety. The misandry is really ramping up. It's absurd. If you so much as say something critical of a woman or trends women follow, or even bring up men's issues or male victimization, you are labeled a misogynist, which means you're inherently dangerous, which means you're a threat, which they use to justify violence against you. The combined victim complex of mentally ill wom… | /r/MensRights | 20/07/23 07:57 AM |
| 230 | A woman in "Are We Dating The Same Guy" group killed her husband.Misandry kills | /r/MensRights | 19/07/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | The number one cause of violence against women is the shitbag men they pick to sleep with. Men talking to each other on the internet and saying mean but true things about women is not violence against women.The two things are not mutually exclusive. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/07/23 07:47 PM |
| 8 | Society Caters To Narcissistic Women Way Too Much And Defend Them With A Mob Mentality, Proving Women Have No AccountabilityIt's a difficult process transitioning from society infantilizing women to treating them like adults. You have to be patient. Once enough men go their own way and leave women in charge, there'll be no one else to place the blame on. My mother was narcissistic when I was growing up and alienated us kids from our dad. And recently, she actually owned up and apologized to my dad and to me, which was really big of her. It doesn't undo all the damage done over the span of my whole life which still ha… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/07/23 07:49 AM |
| 4 | Mother is found guilty of parental alienation and sentenced to jailYes. You're right about this. Parental alienation is prolonged, perpetual abuse, depriving ones own child of love and support and a relationship with their parent. It's disgusting anyone would do that to their child and shows a clear lack of regard and a profound, reckless selfishness and callousness. It's like severing a limb and not allowing it to heal. Sooner or later, the damage done is irreparable. It is one of the most egregious crimes you can commit toward a child. So many heartless piece… | /r/MensRights | 19/07/23 07:24 AM |
| -1 | Mother is found guilty of parental alienation and sentenced to jailI still feel like that would be punishing the child for the actions of the mother. It just feels like parental alienation, but with the shoe on the other foot. The child still suffers by not having mom around. There has to be a better way to enact consequences for parental alienation without more parental alienation.... but I cant think of what. A fine would hurt the child if they were poor. I think maybe a shit ton of community service would be the best thing, as well as a formal apology to bot… | /r/MensRights | 19/07/23 01:34 AM |
| -17 | Mother is found guilty of parental alienation and sentenced to jailThis raises an important question. Is it more harmful to the kids to continue to be alienated from their parent, or for the kids to see their primary care giver go to prison? What would be more jarring to the child? /gen | /r/MensRights | 19/07/23 01:07 AM |
| 10 | Alienated Father Bullied into Taking His Own LifeI'm currently dealing with this. It's wonderful that someone is actually speaking out about it. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/23 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenHow are you this bad at reading? THE COMPLIMENT IS NOT THE OPENER! No one is plying anything. Stop clinging to your deliberate misinterpretation and doubling down. You're only further proving my point. If it was genuine attempt to be kind, he would say it and keep moving. This IS what I do. I literally just told you this is what I do! Saying "I'm not flirting" just makes it weirder. How would opening with that be weird when clearly many women like yourself fall over yourselves to assume every in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:19 PM |
| – | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenYOU are the one who needs to learn this. You presume to tell me what I "need to learn", like I'm some dog for you to train? I dont need to learn anything. I have no problem respecting people. My being angry at women for good reason is not me disrespecting them. If you felt disrespected, lets talk about it. But I believe in treating women like human beings and not like pedestalized, irreproachable higher beings who are faultless and infallible. I treat women as equals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:10 PM |
| – | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenAs am I. This person doesn't get to speak for me! I'm my own person, entitled to human dignity and respect! I deserve to be treated like a human being and not just some fabricated strawman crutch for someone's low self-esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenNo. The opener is "I'm not trying to hit on you, but.." which makes the compliment just a compliment. Usually something like, "I fucking love your nails!" Or "you're very pretty." Or something like that, and then I just keep it moving. I do this with men as well. And women do it to women. It's called treating someone like a person. But for me, since I'm conventionally attractive, I have to add the disclaimer that the compliment is not flirting, but rather just a compliment, so they know how to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenMan, I really set you off, huh? You're just grabbing at anything to try to ad hominem me rather than arguing the facts. Lets talk more about the compliment thing. What were you trying to say there before you abandoned that argument? That you lack reading comprehension skills? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:31 PM |
| – | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenHe has literally just admitted in his comment that he is more entitled to sex with us than we are to basic human respect Now you're literally making things up. You really put the delusion into overdrive. Where did I say I was entitled to sex or even wanted sex from women? See, this is exactly what I'm talking about. Lol. Delusional beyond belief. You double down with the "every man wants to have sex with me" rhetoric because you have low self-esteem and want to feel wanted. Newsflash, no one her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenGood ol sunshine state... if the sun shines out your ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:21 PM |
| – | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenWomen are not starved for male attention I have every right to assume the worst. We are starved for basic human respect and dignity. You are not at ALL entitled to anything from me for any reason! We get it all the time. From every area. Constantly. Being greeted by the walmart greeter is not an unwanted sexual advance. But go on flattering yourself believing all men are only ever trying to get in your pants constantly. Lmao. you are not at ALL entitled to speak to literal fucking strangers for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:07 PM |
| -1 | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenGenuine compliments don’t require reciprocation. Nowhere did I indicate that they did... but go off. Managed to combine fifty year old racism with sexism in the same sentence. Lmao. I thought you couldn't be racist against white people? Pick a lane why dont you? Besides, it's not a race. In my mind, a Coonass is just a French Redneck. Is "Redneck" racist? I guess that'd make me racist against myself since I'm half redneck. Much like rednecks call themselves rednecks, coonasses also call themselv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenThing is, it's really likely that these women are so starved for male attention that they deliberately misinterpret interactions in order to flatter their own ego. Sadly common. That's why I start most interactions with strange women with the words, "hey, I'm not trying to hit on you, but..." I like giving strangers compliments and seeing their faces light up, and with this opener (edit: the opener being "I'm not hitting on you."), it squashes any expectations that I'm romantically or sexually i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Everyone sucks, Human beings are fucked upSee, the way to play the game is that your demographic is the good guy and everyone else is the responsible for all evil. It's called scapegoating and it's been this way forever. Us vs Them. This way, you get to have an echochamber of people jerking each other off to the idea that they're better than everyone else. This happens in all races, religions, ideologies, genders, and countless other groupings of people. "The man of knowledge must be able not only to love his enemies but also to hate hi… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/07/23 05:23 AM |
| 7 | The straw that breaks the camel's backI think the camel's back is already breaking. More and more men are checking out of dating and just living for themselves. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/23 09:30 AM |
| 12 | The straw that breaks the camel's backBasically. I'm starting to think this is why patriarchal systems evolved in the first place as a counterbalance to this bias. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/23 09:29 AM |
| 13 | I am at a loss for words...This world is going to Hell. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Being blamed of racial fetishization is insulting for men who seek girls of different race for other reasonsSee, this is an appropriate and common response. Not fetishizing or shaming, but true to your feelings and honest. And trust me, hitting the cervix feels incredibly repulsively uncomfortable and painful for guys as well. With great power comes great responsibility. Imo, all men should measure themselves, go to r/bigdickproblems, and make sure that if they're big down there that they know how to be a responsible lover and mitigate all the potential issues that come with having a large member. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Being blamed of racial fetishization is insulting for men who seek girls of different race for other reasonsBody shaming is gross. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Being blamed of racial fetishization is insulting for men who seek girls of different race for other reasonsEven big dick fetishism is not only accepted but glamorized among feminists I've known personally and its gross af. It's their bragging rights they share among friends, detailing their sexual exploits. Hypocritical and degrading are understatements. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Being blamed of racial fetishization is insulting for men who seek girls of different race for other reasonsWomen will call anything fetishization in order to try to manipulate male preference in whatever way that benefits them. | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/07/23 05:28 PM |
| 6 | Feminists do a bad job of fighting against misogyny. They will make more men misogynists.I started to become misogynistic the more I delved into feminism. I did it in good faith and I tried to label all problematic stuff as just bad actors trying to give feminism a bad name. But at the end of the day, it wasn't feminism, but rather the feminists in my life, who really disappointed me. Your average feminist has such a distorted view of men that it's enough to drive a man insane. I'm done subjecting myself to such degrading treatment. I used to adore women. I promised myself a long ti… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/23 05:26 PM |
| 2 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageYeah. Politically incorrect, but still true. I knew a guy whose girlfriend would go off on him if he wasn't in the mood. I had a partner break down in tears when she didn't get it. Made me feel kinda bad, but also made me feel even less in the mood. I think self-service makes them feel devalued. It's like how New Jerseyans get indignant about having to pump their own gas. Lol. Women get upset about having to pump their own brakes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageOof! Yeah, on a societal level, women like to keep their sexual cravings a secret and project this idea of men being that way. But on the ground level, it's known women often go stir-crazy if they dont get laid. And they aren't ever taught to put a lid on that shit. They just feel like they're owed dick. It's gross. This idea that men need to work hard to meet women's standards only makes sense if the women are worth it. Sorry ladies. They really thought they could offer only sex and men would d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:14 PM |
| 3 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageThe marriage business ruins plenty of lives itself. I would gladly stop viewing porn if I started dating again, even if we didn't have sex. The right woman is worth that and more for sure. But much like there are few eligible men, there are also few eligible women. And I say that with very, very low expectations/standards. Relationships have become so transactional that you might as well get some good customer service and pay less money in the long run, by using ethically sourced sex work. Women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 02:34 AM |
| 5 | Most attractive men know they are attractive, and the whole “you’re probably not as good looking as you think you are” nonsense is just a deflection and shaming tactic to once again divert attention from realityWomen constantly use devaluation tactics to put men down. How gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:03 PM |
| 3 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingIt's suspicion of cheating too, and using that to justify tracking your every movement. Thank you for your sympathy. Thing is, there have been women I trusted in the past, but I took them for granted. Because of the kind of women in my family, I only really click well with women who display dark triad traits (narcissism, machiavellianism, psychopathy) because that's all I've ever really known. The kind of women who are trustworthy and mentally stable used to seem rather dull to me. So it's kind … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:37 AM |
| 7 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI dont so much mind women that dont know me being distrusting of me or crossing the street when they see me. But it's that even within a long term relationship, the distrust never really goes away. Also, the true crime obsession and other propaganda deliberately used to continually stoke that fear doesn't help. The thing that a lot of women dont understand is that it goes both ways. Living with someone who distrusts you is not only unnerving, but also a gross indignity that easily leads to them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:48 AM |
| 18 | Is parenting sub a feminist (even misandrist?) sub in disguise?This is nothing new. When I was a kid, my friend's single dad was talking to my mom about his daughter's first period coming. My mom, being a Karen of Southern Appalachian stock, was like, "welll... she should be with her mom." (He had primary custody and the mom lived in another state). He, a black man used to this kind of shit, said, "Why? I know how to read what's on the box." Obviously my mother didn't want to explicitly state her actual feelings, in which she tended to sexualize everything,… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/23 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Do you prefer slim or curvy?Curvy and voluptuous | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/07/23 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Females and Men are not equal at all and shouldn’t be treated like it ever.Females and men.... this is obviously meant to be inflammatory. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/07/23 04:11 PM |
| 3 | The number one cause of violence against women is the shitbag men they pick to sleep with. Men talking to each other on the internet and saying mean but true things about women is not violence against women.These women go for these guys for a reason. They dont feel they deserve better. They're the Jenny to your Forrest. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/07/23 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth fighting for shared custody if your partner accused you of sexually molesting your daughters, and it was proved that she made the whole thing up and left with the kids and never admitted she lied?Yeah. Honestly, why would anybody want to live in a world where it's even considered normal to suspect such a thing of a father? | /r/MensRights | 11/07/23 02:32 AM |
| -1 | Are many pill men looking for monogamy/marriage?I'm not part of any "pill" ideology. I've had my fair share of casual sex and been in my fair share of monogamous, long-term relationships. And I've completely lost faith in women. I've tried making myself gay/bi, but sex with men just doesn't do it for me. So I'm content to stay single and celibate the rest of my life. Casual sex always leads to feelings which lead to relationships which lead to heartbreak. I'm done with all of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:34 PM |
| 15 | What’s going on with women?Yes! It's like many women are trying to see just how much they can get away with. Then when they face consequences and rejection, they get even more righteously indignant that you've rained on their pity party. I've been big on empathizing with women, their vulnerability, fear, etc my whole life. I've dabbled in feminism for a long time. But I'm increasingly becoming disillusioned with the women in my life really giving into their narcissism. I'm kinda fed up and started calling it out and not t… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/23 08:40 AM |
| 6 | Your history is not personal, and any prospective partner should be made aware of itI knew a woman who never asked about my past ever and hushed the convo when I'd start to talk about it. She'd tell me about some of her past, but all cherry-picked to make herself out to be a constant victim. As I got to know her further, it was revealed she had facebook stalked me before we ever started dating, which was creepy, but I didn't make a big deal out of it. As the relationship went along, some things started to look really bad. I didn't mind sleeping on the couch when her little sist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:30 PM |
| 7 | the fact people seem okay or even outright support women that are pedophiles disgusts meA lot of covert female pedophiles have the power to seduce people (not just children) and gaslight them. They'll use Bonobos as an example of "peaceful" utopian matriarchy among our closest animal relatives. In Bonobos, mothers rule the group and they sexually molest their own children from infancy. I saw a youtube video of a couple at the zoo, watching a group of bonobos, and when an older female started sexually touching a small, juvenile female causing her to orgasm, the man just noped out of… | /r/MensRights | 08/07/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What's gone wrong for men, and the thing that can fix themSorry to hear that about your husband. Sure we can. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | This sub and many others are being infested by man-hating f3n1nį$ț$ and it is clear as day.Explain | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 11:06 PM |
| 2 | This sub and many others are being infested by man-hating f3n1nį$ț$ and it is clear as day.I know what sarcasm is when it makes sense. What are you even trying to say? | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 06:49 PM |
| 2 | This sub and many others are being infested by man-hating f3n1nį$ț$ and it is clear as day.You're the one who brought it up in your initial comment | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 03:59 PM |
| 2 | This sub and many others are being infested by man-hating f3n1nį$ț$ and it is clear as day.Seriously though... | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 03:31 PM |
| 0 | This sub and many others are being infested by man-hating f3n1nį$ț$ and it is clear as day.This. I take all the pills, am a Feminist and an MRA. I'm on the side of unity, of everyone. And the thing about truth and a good argument is that it stands up to scrutiny. It's nice to meet a fellow male feminist here. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 03:20 PM |
| 2 | This sub and many others are being infested by man-hating f3n1nį$ț$ and it is clear as day.What's sign language in this context? | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | What's more important, finding one person who loves you completely or being desired sexually by many people?First, obviously. But we cant always choose what we get in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What leverage do you hold in your relationshipThis is psychotic... but it's also on par with the way a lot of women covertly strategize relationships. When you do this, it makes women feel excused to do the same and it's sad and degrading and controlling. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/07/23 01:42 AM |
| 2 | What's gone wrong for men, and the thing that can fix themThank you so much! Hugs right back at ya! Thank you! | /r/MensRights | 05/07/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | What's gone wrong for men, and the thing that can fix themSo just because a man talks about false accusations doesn't mean he's invalidating your experience. A guarantee you know a man who has been falsely accused of something before. Or wrongly suspected of something. It's more common than you think. And the fact that you respond to that with suspicion and invalidate his experience only serves to push more men away from feminism. This is exactly how patriarchy wins. When everyone thinks you fit a certain label and speaking out only entrenches you furt… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Y'all pushed us this far.Lmao. I'm not a loser. And neither are you, my friend. Respect yourself. You dont spend as much time with women as I have without pickin up the lingo, my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 06:13 PM |
| 1 | What's gone wrong for men, and the thing that can fix themAnd this kind of invisible binding is the glue that made for the success of the monotheistic religions and the advance of western culture. It's why the far-right whites blame the Jews. It's why white slave holders forced their slaves to rape their family members blindfolded. The forced genital mutilation of the psyche, circumcision of the heart, is the unconscious motivator behind the most robust patriarchal structures. Just as David brought King Saul two hundred Philistine foreskins for his dau… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | What's gone wrong for men, and the thing that can fix themNothing binds people like shared guilt. This is why Jesus' mother, by law should have been stoned by her whole village, friends, family, loved ones, for not being a virgin when given in marriage to Joseph. But Joseph was a good man. And Jesus transformed the status quo, his ancestors being Solomon, David, Ruth the inbred Moabitess, Rahab the Harlot of Jericho. And now, the wheel turns once more. Some things will always be with us. But our attitudes dont have to be. Jesus was the fulfillment of t… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What's gone wrong for men, and the thing that can fix themIt's as old as the very first civilizations. The Epic of Gilgamesh depicts Enkidu the wild man being tamed by way of a temple prostitute. And in the Bible, wise king Solomon writes: "6 For at the window of my house I looked through my casement, 7 And beheld among the simple ones [(this is probably the most ancient depiction of a 'Simp' lol)], I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding, 8 Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house, 9 In the t… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | What's gone wrong for men, and the thing that can fix themI'm technically a feminist as well. Thing is, I dont deny the existence of rape culture at all. However, due to rape culture, there are a lot of instances of false accusations. Not always direct, malicious false accusations, but often just products of the hysteria (sorry to use that word in particular) caused by living in a rape culture. See: Emmet Till, Harper Lee's To Kill A Mockingbird, The Tulsa Race Massacre, etc. It should not be invalidating to victims of rape. Furthermore, because the na… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Y'all pushed us this far.Lol. Don't slutshame me. I kept myself pure for a long ass time, and I'm back to being celibate now. It was a phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:00 PM |
| – | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?The one about how often women hit men is also pretty revealing I had a gf that used to playfully slap my face at random times. Tbh, I found it kinda cute and quirky in the moment. My best friend's grandma who was like a mother figure to me, who had been a social worker, said that's how abusively-inclined young women test the waters to see what they can get away with later on. It's subconscious, I'm sure, but extremely problematic. The empathy gap is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | 'Blue pill' guy explains 'blue pill' concepts.My objective was always to act like the man I want to be and that has done me well in attracting women. But the wrong partner can easily bring out the worst in you and ironically, it's when I act out of character that they think my "true colors" are showing. This makes them assume anything good about me was all an act, which is kind of a dumb assumption to make, but that's neither here nor there. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/07/23 06:42 AM |
| 7 | Is it worth fighting for shared custody if your partner accused you of sexually molesting your daughters, and it was proved that she made the whole thing up and left with the kids and never admitted she lied?It aint about being jailed at all. For a thing like this, it takes no proof or conviction to condemn you in the court of public opinion. You can no longer trust anyone who associates with you because they will be more likely to be pedophiles. Many may be other falsely accused ones. But you can never be sure. Cancel culture is real. And actual pedophiles often still have support systems, so you cant really accurately judge based on how others treat them. As far as waiting until the kids are older… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/23 05:30 AM |
| 21 | Is it worth fighting for shared custody if your partner accused you of sexually molesting your daughters, and it was proved that she made the whole thing up and left with the kids and never admitted she lied?This happened to my uncle. My poor cousin grew up in foster care because of it. She confided in me once that she just didn't know. She had no recollection of anything like that happening. But naturally, an accusation alone is traumatizing and it kept her from being able to trust her dad after they were reunited. Later in life, her mom and dad made up and I think got back together before the mom overdosed on pills. Some traumatized women (and men) can be prone to suspicion and paranoia to the poi… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/23 01:52 AM |
| 13 | Why is every "i hate being male" reddit post, always filled with people not reading anything the person is saying and immediately going to "women have it worse, women are secondary citizens" etcThis is a very eloquent way of putting it. It's disillusioning to see how little rationality people employ in accepting the demonization of half the population. I tried to give feminism the benefit of the doubt and I still believe in it, but it's like Christianity. The followers definitely dont live up to the ideal teaching and they often use it instead to gain control and power over others. It's sad and gross and disappointing. People are just shitty. And mankind will always have a penchant for… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/23 12:18 AM |
| 1 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?Yup. Our boundaries are not respected even by those who go on and on about boundaries. Honest, self-aware mothers tell their boys not to cry because it wont ever serve them well in life. Their tears will always be seen as crocodile tears. The smartest mothers, like mine, dont say boys dont cry. They just lead by example by never crying themselves and being cold and strong and unemotional (aside from freakouts). I always felt free to cry to myself just for my own emotional release and there was o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:29 PM |
| 9 | What's gone wrong for men, and the thing that can fix themdoing so fine that they were the one sociodemographic group you could lovingly… beat up on a bit.’ Feminists want men to be more like women. Women have the self-love to not accept being shit on as a group. Men in times past were respected enough to not care as much about the "lovingly beating up on" part. It was more akin to being yapped at by a little dog. But nowadays, women's words weild so much more power. And men have been taught to take them more seriously. But the constant double standard… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?Yup. And even if a boy is in touch with his feelings, constant invalidation just means he learns that his emotions don't actually matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?You're sweet. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 12:53 AM |
| 2 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?No fuckin doubt. I know I have. But thankfully, due to my conventional attractiveness, I've been around enough women to fully flesh out my feelings. It's sad other men don't get that opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 12:53 AM |
| 1 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?Broad strokes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What is one thing you would change about male acculturation?I will say, the in-group bias does seem to fall away when a woman is in love with a man. Whatever degree to which it exists varies I think. But overall and in general, it seems obvious. And in modern times, sisterhood has been culturally reinforced even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 08:45 AM |
| 10 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?I've always been more attuned to my emotions, which is a big part of what draws me to relate more to women than to other men. But it's been a necessity for me as I have emotional disregulation from ADHD and other stuff. So big feelings. I also get specific with colors and things. It's like that part of my brain is more female than male. If you have nice nails or something like that, it will draw my attention and I will gush over it. As a man, though, I do often compartmentalize my emotions. I cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 08:42 AM |
| 6 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?I'm glad I could do that for you! ❤ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 08:34 AM |
| 1 | What is one thing you would change about male acculturation?"Bros before hoes" wouldn't be a saying if men naturally had in-group bias. The phrase exists for the sole purpose of counteracting the existing trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 07:18 AM |
| 32 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?I love love love women for their emotional intelligence. They feel emotions like they see colors, in detail. They are more artistic, sophisticated. They are well versed in the finer things. They can create an atmosphere. They can nurture. I love how fun they are. Women know how to have a good time. They are also very peaceable. They make wonderful friends. They are lovely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 05:59 AM |
| 7 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?I admire this right here. I knew from an early age how men can be. Nearly every woman I dated, I asked about their trauma because I didn't want to marry someone as jaded as my mom was just like my dad did, and just like his dad did, just like my dad said I would. But every woman I clicked with had the same kind of trauma and I couldn't just abandon them after finding out. I got one gf the book The Courage to Heal. Turns out my dad had got the same book for my mom when they were young. I read the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 05:25 AM |
| 2 | It’s difficult for me now, to have hope for society and men’s lives improvingYeah. I weirdly feel a lot more respect for conservative women. They ironically act less like victims and more like strong, capable people I admire. But that's not really politically correct, so... | /r/MensRights | 30/06/23 06:09 AM |
| -3 | It’s difficult for me now, to have hope for society and men’s lives improvingI follow my own version of feminism that cuts out all the bullshit and keeps all the good bits. It's a version of feminism that gives a shit about men's issues as well, and tries a holistic approach that unites instead of divides. But it's really just me doing my own thing. You know how feminists used to claim that true feminism would take care of equality and all that, including men's issues? That's the elusive, mystical form of feminism I follow. | /r/MensRights | 30/06/23 06:06 AM |
| -3 | It’s difficult for me now, to have hope for society and men’s lives improvingI went the other way. Still a feminist now. It was a long time coming, but I figured if we just gave women whatever they want, they'd be happy. Feminism has been great for highlighting real issues. But ultimately, I'm more a misogynist now than I was before becoming a feminist. It's a never-ending thing and the women in my life have mostly happened to be generally shitty people so that affects my outlook. But maybe they would be less shitty if we humored them. Like, I cant really do much about m… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | After seeing redpill/blackpill shit on internet as a woman，i dont get the point of losing my virginity/being with a manIts not the same as strip clubs I figured. But that's just the closest thing I have to what you describe. Last time, I hung out and smoked in the back with two dancers and we talked about behavioral psychology. Another time, I sat at the bar with a college-educated dancer and we talked about art history. Another time, I sat with a dancer who was a budding entrepreneur and we talked about more ethical business models for strip clubs that she wanted to get into. You meet the most interesting peopl… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/06/23 07:38 PM |
| 1 | After seeing redpill/blackpill shit on internet as a woman，i dont get the point of losing my virginity/being with a manNot all guys are sex-crazed. If I wasn't horribly damaged by my experiences with women and you weren't too young for me, I would date you in a heartbeat. You honestly sound like you got it figured out though. Tell me more about these host clubs? It sounds like the same reason I'd go to strip clubs. Nice to interact with someone in a setting where both parties aren't trying to guess at the other's intentions. I used to look for that in relationships, but the women I've dated saw me less as a pers… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/06/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel if you dated a woman who constantly referenced (and cited) pages like AllPillDebate and PPD?If anyone's on these subs, it's a huge red flag for me. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/06/23 06:49 PM |
| 14 | Why do feminists always say “you’re proving my point”?Women are masters at self-validation. They can rationalize anything and call on their fellows for support. This is not real feminism. It's women gaming the system to get their way and uphold the double standard. When you see right through it, they jump to different distractive tactics just like the wife in the Truman Show when he starts to figure out she's been lying to him all that time. She resorts to feigning fear and victimization. It's all tactics to maintain power. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/23 02:37 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men who claim they want a virgin/ low n count woman can’t handle the baggage that comes with itPurity culture exists in the minds of anyone who needs a term to describe what the term "purity culture" describes. I dont have any idea what kind of off definition you go by if that's what you think, but for most people who use the term, it's a lot more prevalent and exists in many places and settings. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/06/23 12:33 AM |
| 9 | A lot of men who claim they want a virgin/ low n count woman can’t handle the baggage that comes with itAre you delusional? No one is doing that but you. Stop trying to strawman me | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 05:36 PM |
| 9 | A lot of men who claim they want a virgin/ low n count woman can’t handle the baggage that comes with itNo. I didn't. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 05:35 PM |
| 7 | A lot of men who claim they want a virgin/ low n count woman can’t handle the baggage that comes with itI'm choosing not to engage with your strawman argument re: "one partner". Nobody gaf if you've had one partner. I was a virgin, saving myself for marriage and my girlfriend at the time told me about how she had been sexually active. It didn't bother me. I didn't judge her... until one time she told me she seduced her ex and took his virginity just to see if she could. That, to me, was fucked up. But she belonged to the streets, so what're you gonna do? I tried not to make her feel bad about it. … | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 05:34 PM |
| 8 | A lot of men who claim they want a virgin/ low n count woman can’t handle the baggage that comes with itAnd women like you are so worried about what redpill men are saying/thinking that you proceed to base everything on sex because "well, they do it!" Because the men you interact with are like that and have made you think all men are like that. Which is a good reason for men who want real love and commitment to steer clear of high-n-count women and the redpill men they model their behavior in response to. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 05:29 PM |
| 9 | A lot of men who claim they want a virgin/ low n count woman can’t handle the baggage that comes with itThat's simply not true. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 05:25 PM |
| 7 | A lot of men who claim they want a virgin/ low n count woman can’t handle the baggage that comes with itWhere are you getting this? Out of your ass? Lol. Tell me you only attract emotionally immature men without telling me you only attract emotionally immature men. Of course, you would tend to attract more emotionally immature men only after sex when you're loose. The thing is, this totally applies to men too. Being a manslut after guarding my virginity for a long time has absolutely affected my view of women and relationships for the worse. Having a high n-count makes a difference and you just do… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 05:24 PM |
| 7 | A lot of men who claim they want a virgin/ low n count woman can’t handle the baggage that comes with itSurprise surprise. Women who've had a lot of casual, meaningless sex have their view of men shaped by the men they interact with, leading these women to believe sex is the end-all be-all for men and that men dont require emotional support. I've fallen in love with a fwb before. The relationship dynamic was no different than a permanent fwbs situation. There was no emotional intimacy or honesty. Granted, she grew up with a father who was emotionally incestuous, relying on her for emotional needs … | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 05:16 PM |
| 9 | A lot of men who claim they want a virgin/ low n count woman can’t handle the baggage that comes with itThat stuff is not baggage. Baggage is issues you carry from experiences. What you describe, the shyness/reticence, is just lack of baggage and resultant fear of gaining baggage from putting out before commitment... oh look, we've figured out the reason marriage is a thing and the purpose of saving oneself for marriage. Who'd of thunk our forebears had once had any idea what they were doing? The only way to destroy purity culture was to make a hypersexual society and a hookup culture where everyo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 05:03 PM |
| 6 | A lot of men who claim they want a virgin/ low n count woman can’t handle the baggage that comes with itI'm not so sure it's all fetishization. Being sexually active does affect one's relationship to sex and romantic relationships. The issue is a lot of women feel cheated out of their virginity by a hypersexual society and so they denigrate celibacy. It really isn't fair to so many women that they're put in a category they cant escape. The whole "damaged goods" thing is kinda real though. I say this as a virgin turned reformed slut myself. I'd date a virgin and wouldn't mind giving up sex for any … | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Just take the NDpillEven then, the relationships are not fun. Women like simple men they can easily control without appearing to control. ND men are notoriously difficult to manipulate and rely on direct communication. This is something many women, NT or not, are not used to, because of the way they're socialized to rely heavily on subtext. And because of this, they often completely misread, fill in blanks, and misunderstand any and all direct communication. There are ND women who are better about this, but they al… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/06/23 07:07 PM |
| 6 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualitySo you're basically calling me a liar. This is exactly why men dont open up about their traumas. That's pretty disgusting. And why does it have to be a competition anyway? I've heard plenty from both men and women about being victimized by both men and women. And I've had my own experiences. I'm not over here denying the experiences of others like you are. I believe victims. That bit about gaslighting sounds like some preemptive projection because you know you're upholding a certain narrative th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:11 AM |
| 10 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityYou dont know most men's experiences. And it seems lopsided to you because you have a lopsided view informed by selection bias. It's like you're just not getting it. You have no idea what men experience. It only seems incredibly lopsided to you because you've only heard stories from other women. You're in an echochamber. Men are largely already shut out of the discourse and cant contribute. And women really dont want them to anyway, else women would have to start taking accountability and having… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 02:03 AM |
| 8 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityYour viewpoint is heavily biased and ignorant of the experiences of men. This happens with a lot of women. It's as if they think they're the only ones with the whole story. But the worst female offenders are the ones who try to keep the focus on men and project onto men. Otherwise, there wouldn't be such negative reactions to men coming forward with their own accounts of abuse. Men are often punished and ostracized for doing so, to keep the narrative you push from crumbling. Female on male abuse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 01:30 AM |
| 39 | Reporter doesn’t know how to react as Grimes admits she ‘likes the patriarchy’Lmao. I love Grimes. She's so cray. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/23 04:41 AM |
| – | Scientific BlackpillI'm not virgin shaming. I've been voluntarily celibate most of my life and I am again now. Our opinions aren't super different. Mine's just nuanced. Technically, I fit the description of a chad. I'm not scum or evil. I am an asshole at times. I am a little misogynistic sometimes. But I have heart and good intentions. Anyway, how are women supposed to know if a man is a monster? It's not like it's announced. There are women who go for serial killers and stuff, but that's usually because those wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 08:10 PM |
| – | Scientific BlackpillWomen are drawn to strength and confidence. Men who have been tested throughout life are often strong, confident, and mentally ill (and mentally ill men are often the best lovers). Women seek these men to "tame", and when they get broken up with, these women often go all sour grapes and label the man as an abusive misogynist. And often times there's a nugget of truth if not the whole truth in it. But there's a big difference between saying mean things and hurting feelings and being evil. What mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Disgusting! This chauvenist feels so entitled to sex that he lights himself on fire! She doesn't owe him ANYTHING. He does NOT own her.Maybe bro just wanted to light himself on fire. He's entitled to that. She doesn't own him. He doesn't owe her his continued existence. Lol. His body, his choice. And I say that only semi-ironically. Everybody grieves their problems differently. And to say it was all because she rejected him is kinda silly. No woman is worth that. Obviously he has other issues. But some people cant resist to weird ego boost that comes from thinking he killed himself specifically for her. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/06/23 03:49 PM |
| 21 | Men are showing emotional maturity and skill by leaving friendships with women after expressing unrequited sexual interestI know what you're saying. They're just taking the last paragraph as an implication. Also, it is ok to strike up a friendship with someone you are romantically and sexually attracted to because how else are you going to get to know them and decide if they're someone you should date? It's definitely not ok to pretend to be a friend when you're not. But this is how it can look from the outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to have “handbag boyfriends”, as in, men they are in relationships with solely for the boost to their status, and are more concerned with showing off the relationship than actually caring for the man? What are your thoughts on such relationships?My ex relished bringing me around and hearing her coworkers and others say I was hot. I loved her for who she was as a person (or who I thought she was) so it looked like I was out of her league (I wasn't and still am not, but hey, conventional beauty standards, amirite?). For a non-conventionally attractive woman who hates men, or an older woman with a "boy toy", handbag relationships are most definitely a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Is it common for women to have “handbag boyfriends”, as in, men they are in relationships with solely for the boost to their status, and are more concerned with showing off the relationship than actually caring for the man? What are your thoughts on such relationships?Oh! I see. Thank you for your patience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to have “handbag boyfriends”, as in, men they are in relationships with solely for the boost to their status, and are more concerned with showing off the relationship than actually caring for the man? What are your thoughts on such relationships?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Scientific BlackpillThat's not what scientific racism is. Scientific racism was the prevailing idea in academia and scientific fields that different races were unequal. Shit like phrenology. We know better now, but it just goes to show how illegitimate science can be. Before long, your scientific sexism will be outdated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Which pill is better for men with aspergers?Pushing that the hardships that you go through is a result of you secretly being a misogynist/pedophile/rapist/serial killer/hamburglar/racist and that you need more self improvement does not help with depression. One might say living with these stereotypes is probably one of the leading causes of said depression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Shoutout to women I kinda enjoy their companyYaaass! I love girls nights. Women really know how to have fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Scientific BlackpillWhat do you think about the legitimacy of scientific racism I mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 09:27 PM |
| – | This may be common sense, but to have that loving, amazing relationship....But thanks for this post. Like, "be the change you wanna see" is my mantra. We cant control how others act, but we can control how we act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:59 PM |
| – | This may be common sense, but to have that loving, amazing relationship....This is my attitude, but I end up accidentally lovebombing because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Scientific BlackpillWhat are your thoughts on scientific racism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:40 PM |
| 1 | We as men should be thankful that the goddesses known as women participate in this sub with us.Unironically, yes, thank you ladies for being you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Very fucking equalWho said I was a good boy? 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Very fucking equal😂 what, so you can send me off to war? ☹️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Very fucking equalvelociraptor noises | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Very fucking equalClever girl.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Something should be done against these False accusationsSometimes it isn't even a direct accusation. In the case of the Tulsa Race Massacre, what set it off was a black guy tripping going into an elevator and falling against a white woman who screamed. After that, others got involved and it was taken out of the hands of the woman who screamed. Similar thing in To Kill A Mockingbird. The victim was raped, but she couldn't risk pointing the finger at her own father, so the father and the town accused a black guy. What gets people upset about the notion… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/23 06:02 PM |
| 8 | Very fucking equalOof. Did you come up with this? It's bitingly clever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:51 PM |
| – | I miss 2016.I've been seeing this in real time. Men are digging in their heels and becoming more misogynistic as feminism continues to take hold. The 2016 arguments still stand, but no one gives a fuck anymore. You're either in or you're out. If I have to give up my rights for women to have a voice, so be it. Even in boomer culture, it's always been "happy wife, happy life" and "she's never been wrong and I've never been right". Women know their power. And honestly, society has always been gynocentric, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:51 PM |
| 15 | Men that are called trash by women are actually attractive enough to get women to give them casual sex in the hopes of a relationship in the future.This has been my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Y'all pushed us this far.I can appreciate this mindset. I used to be a very devout Christian and kept my virginity most of my life. Part of me wishes I'd have just waited until marriage still. I felt like a prude and finally gave in and joined in the hookup culture. It really is degrading in the long run. You just don't see how until it's too late. An old fella once told me recently, when you have sex with a woman, you're giving away part of your spirit. I'm starting to see what he meant. Keep your faith. It'll serve yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 06:06 AM |
| – | "let me ask my wife first"This is just being considerate to your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Y'all pushed us this far.I'm not sure that's an accurate use of the term scapegoat. But I'm not tryna be pedantic about it. I think it's valuable to be someone who was aware of their trauma and found ways to work through it. I believe this. But at the same time, there are less traumatized people who also grow as people. The thing about trauma, what makes it trauma, is that it alters your whole life trajectory, development, etc. And RPers aren't the kind of people who know how to deal with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Y'all pushed us this far.a lot of my hoe-ing was due to existing trauma This is a common occurrence. You shouldn't feel bad about it. My situation was somewhat similar, which is why I would emotionally bond with casual partners and they'd often want to date me seriously. I dont blame RPers for wanting to avoid baggage any more than I blame feminists for wanting to. But it does suck feeling like damaged goods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:09 AM |
| 4 | BLM in the streets, KKK in the sheetsThis checks out with my experience | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/06/23 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Y'all pushed us this far.Number of sexual partners you've had. Some call it body count. The n stands for "notch". But I think these terms are a little degrading. Every person I've been with was special in their own way, not just another "notch". But hey, I dont coin the terms. At the end of the day though, I was still a hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 12:00 AM |
| 26 | Y'all pushed us this far.Before anyone else calls you a misogynist, I think it should be noted that this applies to both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 11:55 PM |
| 7 | Y'all pushed us this far.Which is why a lot of men dont want a girl whose first impression of sex is kinda shitty... not me though, I've got too much of an n-count to be a hypocrite like that. And guess what? It doesn't make me a more desirable partner. I have emotional trauma too, that affects relationships. There's truth to what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 11:53 PM |
| 3 | it's trueMen have it easy in every aspect of life because we're less fragile. We're less fragile because our lives are harder from the start. Strength is always preferable to dependence. I wish I could give you my privilege. I'm so sorry you're suffering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Are we dating the same guy (screenshots)Thank you for your service. It's nice to see a woman who actually cares and respects men. I know in our time, it's supposed to be women who get respect. But men also appreciate it and it makes us better people to be treated with dignity. So big thanks! You are a hero! | /r/MensRights | 14/06/23 12:36 PM |
| 0 | How does one cope with permanent sexlessness?It aint hard. Plenty of people choose it. Instead of coping, why not just enjoy it? | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/06/23 03:36 AM |
| – | CMV: “Men and women are different” is just an excuse to rationalize hypocrisy.I dont think men and women are the same. I think they are different, but for different reasons, due to socialization and other factors. But no two people are the same, really. That's why most people are socialized into their respective cultural norms. Their respective groups. When it comes to the difference between men and women, they're divided by what the other really thinks but is not saying. So when it comes to being based in gender relations, I take radical feminism and reconcile it with fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 12:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: “Men and women are different” is just an excuse to rationalize hypocrisy.I love your username and I love this take. Very based. Brava and thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Anyone ever brings up "men pay less for everyday products, and that's male privilege" line...Women are biologically more beholden to society and community. They survive by sticking close to the herd. So they naturally have to keep up with the Joneses (other women). They compete sexually using the strengths they've always used: homemaking, make-up, fancy clothes, all the vanity in the world. Men do the same thing, but with cars/trucks, high paying jobs, etc. Now that women have entered the realm of earning their own money, they hate having to spend it on the same frivilous traditional sh… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/23 02:19 PM |
| 2 | If your main motivation to start and stay in a relationship or marriage is sex, why dont you just pay for escorts and prostitution instead?women arent wired to see the things they nurture as sexual beings. Damn. So that's why women dont do anything to nurture their man. Maybe men dont like being sex objects. Many think they do, but at the end of the day, all of us just want love and affection. We want to be nurtured too, not just used. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/06/23 12:13 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men here don't understand that the age gap discourse is not mainly about the age gap itself, it is about men fetishizing women fresh out of high schoolWhat's more predatory, a 21 and 17, or 30 and 18? (Imo, the latter leans more toward predatory) And thank you so much for saying that. I really appreciate it being taken seriously. It's weird growing up in an age where there was such a double standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:56 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Men here don't understand that the age gap discourse is not mainly about the age gap itself, it is about men fetishizing women fresh out of high schoolLol. These are just buzzwords. Pretty soon, any age gap relationship will be deemed predatory. I have empathy, but to think like that would mean acknowledging all the older women that preyed on me. And we as humans dont like to think of women as being predatory. It's like a set of blinders. I had an older woman I thought was my friend, who I used to make music with, even played a song we wrote at her wedding. When I was still a teenager, she sent me a clip of a song she wrote that she told me no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:36 AM |
| 2 | teacher "had sex" teenage pupil and told him "you'll learn from a real woman"Yeah. It goes against all a man's conditioned response to life to think of oneself as a victim. It's really easier to be stoic about everything. But changing your feelings is the hard way forward. Half the stuff I was supposed to care about happening to me in life, I really just let it roll off me. But the more sensitive you become, the more you pull the future toward you. The hardest thing a person can do is change his beliefs. That's why so many people dont do it. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/23 11:46 PM |
| 2 | teacher "had sex" teenage pupil and told him "you'll learn from a real woman"Yes. Think about how old that episode is. We're the adults now. And obviously we care. So it's time to speak up. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/23 11:29 PM |
| 2 | teacher "had sex" teenage pupil and told him "you'll learn from a real woman"Most men know there's no point. So they dont try. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/23 10:46 PM |
| 6 | teacher "had sex" teenage pupil and told him "you'll learn from a real woman"Problem is a lot of women also just don't give a fuck about male victims, even boys. They really just don't care at all. It's up to men to start caring and stepping up to protect our own. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/23 10:11 PM |
| -3 | catch-22 regarding men's issuesI know from personal experience that patriarchy is real. I come from a religion that teaches male headship. So you cant discount widespread cultural trends that mentally trap both women and men into seperate roles. Yes, it's the elite against both. But it's the same with racism. The elite put one class slighy above the other in a sort of golden child/scape goat relationship designed to divide the two groups who would otherwise be too powerful working together. With men and women, it's more insid… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/23 12:17 AM |
| -5 | catch-22 regarding men's issuesPatriarchy isn't a feminist psyop. It's a naturally occuring social phenomenon. Women have had no choice but to work within the system. It's like racial/ethnic caste systems. White men outlawed chattel slavery and aided civil rights. Doesn't negate white supremacy. Feminists often display a distorted, exaggerated understanding of patriarchy, and it's often charicaturized in popular media in order to highlight cogent points. Political cartoons do the same thing. Give them a chance. They show trem… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/23 11:27 PM |
| -3 | catch-22 regarding men's issuesThis is the same thing men do with patriarchy though. It's all about power. And female power is no less legitimate than male power. So technically, it's really not any worse. It's just that patriarchs know how to rebuild lesser men's egos after emasculating them indirectly. Think of the white feather deal. That was men in power using women to emasculate men who valued peace over war. It's all about narrative. So the key to female power is to demonize masculinity itself. It's no worse, tbh. We're… | /r/MensRights | 31/05/23 10:51 PM |
| 2 | PurplePillDebate be like "maybe women aren't perfectly angelic and selfless at all timesWell, it happens to the best of us. I've spent enough time around hateful #KAM feminists that it's rubbed off on me from time to time. Hate is ugly in any form. So certain forms of hate being sanctioned serves only to desensitize one to hate. The double standard enforces a "gotcha" mechanism by which you can shame someone for doing the same thing you do constantly. A great, socially acceptable way to clapback at this is to talk about white feminism and white women/Karens. They're more privileged… | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/05/23 10:27 PM |
| 1 | PurplePillDebate be like "maybe women aren't perfectly angelic and selfless at all timesOh. Well that's different. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/05/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | PurplePillDebate be like "maybe women aren't perfectly angelic and selfless at all timesI know. My point is that it isn't an inherently sexist slur. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/05/23 10:13 PM |
| 2 | catch-22 regarding men's issuesAnd they really don't even like it when you do act like a woman either. That's the worst thing you can do. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/23 09:46 PM |
| 3 | PurplePillDebate be like "maybe women aren't perfectly angelic and selfless at all timesI guess women will just have to deal with it. There's more to life. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/05/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | PurplePillDebate be like "maybe women aren't perfectly angelic and selfless at all timesThe small-penised men are more civilized though. Women need to learn to love them instead of the crass, hyper-macho Chads. It's stupid that they reward toxic masculinity. But Chads are just objects of desire for lustful women who dont respect men. Their red flags are commodities. That's why AFBB. Before long, it becomes apparent that women don't really love Chads, but rather only the pleasure they bring. They wise up with age and settle for a decent, socially acceptable guy around age 30 when th… | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/05/23 08:58 PM |
| 1 | PurplePillDebate be like "maybe women aren't perfectly angelic and selfless at all timesThey shouldn't. It's really not worth it. Plus, you cant fake big dick energy anyway. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/05/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | PurplePillDebate be like "maybe women aren't perfectly angelic and selfless at all timesMen can be dumb sluts too. RP just refers to them as Chads because of misplaced envy. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/05/23 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women?I'm not a redpill guy, but I have known firsthand rich men who date broke women. You might not realize it because broke women in ltrs with rich men spend their man's money and are considered rich themselves even if they're just a housewife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 10:11 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: why do you feel the need to judge women who have a racial preference.People hate it when life is inherently unfair. But that's their problem. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/05/23 01:33 PM |
| 3 | How do we prevent women from destroying society and the planet?Women will never have absolute authority and society will never be a utopia. Dont be so dramatic. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/05/23 12:05 AM |
| -2 | How do we prevent women from destroying society and the planet?Give them enough time in power to mature into a functioning matriarchy. They haven't had a chance yet. They can be good leaders. But first, a certain amount of narcissism is absolutely necessary to overcome patriarchy's systemic misogyny. It may look like they're destroying society now. But you're thinking is too short term. If you wanna make an omelet, you gotta crack a few eggs. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/05/23 11:41 PM |
| 2 | I generally like sharing my ideas with people, but as someone traditional I feel like its hard to have meaningful conversations with people onlineI lean pretty liberal, but I agree with this. When there is no set social convention, expectations break down. Everyone is on a different page. It becomes hard to know what you're getting into with anyone. That said, idk what the solution would be. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/05/23 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Love doesn't existWe're living in a time of upheaval. In order for patriarchy to be smashed, we must tear down the curtain. The veil of dark romanticism that justifies male power. A generation or more of men must give up the dream they were once sold. In order for the reins of control to be relinquished over to matriarchy, the entire established order, the status quo, must be upended. This process has been generations in the making. Really centuries in the making. But now, we're seeing the contractions, the birth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 03:11 PM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenMen dont expect it. Men just dont have the same motivation for home making. That's why bachelors are content with blank walls and minimal maintenance. It's one of those cases where he who cares less wins. Women reliably and consistently spearhead domestic duties because they have higher standards. Men help with the home when they love their partner. In an equal partnership, a couple would both work in and out of the home, or one work outside and one inside. Women expect men to do the majority of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 02:48 PM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenTrad and redpill aren't even close. That may be. But it doesn't stop your average person from conflating the two. So be off put but the women who put you off and attracted to the ones who don't It seems your problem is the women you want are the gimmies and the women you don't aren't. It's not about me. I'm content to be single. I just happen to be heavily invested in the relationship between men and women as wholes. That's why I'm active here. Even women have to compromise. That's kind of what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 02:35 PM |
| 14 | True love is when women inverse gender roles for a manThis is the way. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/05/23 08:40 AM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenWomen are literal economic competition. Women are equals, and an equal part of the workforce. The reason for how things were in the past was because women were looked down on as lesser and had few opportunities jobwise. Nowadays, men just want an actual equal partner. Any jealousy comes from the fact that women have surpassed men in many areas, such as education, etc. Feminism is dominant. Women are just as capable as men. And yet, men are still expected to carry over parts of patriarchy that be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsHow come you're almost 30 and still use the word "crap"? Reported for personal attack. That wasn’t a quip, it was just a weak way of saying “idk what else to say so I am going to accuse you of being immature” That's fair. I apologize. So you’re comparing women who fear rape to men who write essays about how women are so ugly at 30. Lmfao No. You completely missed the point I was trying to make. It's a comparison of people who discuss trends and a random person saying, "I dont fall under this tre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsIdk. That's very oddly specific. Maybe you do wanna date someone like that. Lol. How come you're almost 30 and still use the word "crap"? Anyway, obligatory #notallwomen. This is like listening to a feminist describe rape culture and saying, "I'm a man. How come I dont want to rape anyone?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:39 AM |
| – | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsLmao. Rampage?? You're twisting what I said. What you're doing is not very different from what I'm doing. And you're kinda proving my point. I'm not judging all women. I'm describing a trend. You know, there's a difference between criticizing one man and saying all men are weird and have commitment issues. Maybe you wouldn't be so repulsed by men if you didn't spend all your time on red pill forums?? I dont know many men who hate women over 30. You sound like your hatred of men has been entirely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsI'm not saying you dont see normal people. Just that whats in your face more is what you register more. It's like selection bias or survivor bias. For instance, I have an emotionally driven, irrational tendency to view women based on my experience. But because the women I've most interacted with have been as crazy as I am, I recognize I have a bias. I know most women aren't like that, but I haven't had much interaction with stable women outside of friendships and acquaintances. So I'm aware that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsHow do you know? The thing about creeps is they're the ones you come into contact with. "Normal ass guys over 28 dating anyone 21 and under" dont come up and harass you, so why would you notice them? If a tree falls in the forest and no one's around to hear it, does it make a sound? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsNo. I really wouldn't. I dont associate much with a lot of men. And I'm aware how many creeps exist in the world. I know of many. But that still doesn't negate my statement at all. And to say there are more creeps than normal age gap relationships is just something you pulled out of your ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsI never said women expire. And they get desperate before 30. And I dont understand the comparison you're trying to make about Leonardo DiCaprio types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsBeing a woman over 30 doesn't shield you from criticism. Women aren't these otherworldly beings. They're people. And I'm not provoking anyone. And even if I was, "retaliation" is no excuse for shitty behavior or abuse. That's just the "you made me do this" line in a different form. I could say terrible things about men to even it out, but that would be infantilizing women. I just go by what I see. People over 30 are more desperate because there's a shrinking pool of available partners and becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsThe problem is the "barely legal chasers" get lumped in with the age gappers who get lumped in with other groups etc ad nauseum. The constant conflation of legal relationships to pedophilia is problematic af for a number of reasons. It has the exact opposite effect you want it to. If legal, age appropriate relationships between consenting adults are shunned as much as literal pedophilia and rape, that really sends the exact wrong message, dontcha think?? The two are not comparable at all. Just b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 12:02 PM |
| – | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsI never said it did mean that. But its also ok to be skeptical of people who throw out the word "fetishize" to make something otherwise innocuous sound dirty in order to paint it in a bad light. Any kind of attraction can be lambasted as fetishization by people whose minds only revolve around sex. Is Ryan Reynolds a narc for fetishizing Blake Lively? They check off some boxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsBut women dont have agency, so you offering a higher standard of living means they have to take it. You're taking advantage of their vulnerability, right? So you have coercive control over them, do you not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsWell, I know from personal experience that the illusion of freedom to leave a relationship can be just that--an illusion. Read Gone Girl and you'll see how even men (who woulda thunk??) can be trapped in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsMy bad. And honestly, more power to these guys. I mean, idk the nature of their relationships, but if she's happy and not being used, then good for her, I say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:56 AM |
| – | the biggest issue with the RP is that it views ‘male nature’ in the best light and ‘female nature’ in the worstThe shitty thing is even feminists adopt this line of thinking without realizing it. It's literally the bane of my fucking existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:53 AM |
| 0 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsI never said I was a hvm. Idk what this "we" business means. I also would never be in a 30+y age gap relationship even if I was a hvm. That's just gross imo. But you do you... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsMy ex fit this description to a tee. Except the battle was over my autonomy. We were supposed to be equals, but she literally controlled my life, tracked my every move, tried to trap me in a relationship when she didn't even have to, I already loved her. But in the end, I loved myself more, and I wasn't some possession to be kept simply to boost her ego and subsidize her life. And I was in love with this woman. Honestly, looking back, I'm sure she put some kind of witch's spell on me. Her covert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:21 AM |
| 2 | Being a tradwife, RPW in this day and age is likely to attract narcissistsIt's a manipulation tactic to ensure that older men are left for older women. A real high value man wouldn't care about what others think. He'd love his partner and treat her well regardless of what "type" she is. He'd respect her. But she'd be bombarded with hate from jealous older women if there's any kind of age gap. And he'd automatically be labeled an abusive narcissist. Women are making the rules now, and if they were honest about the real reasons for these rules, people would disregard th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Females are liars by nature and should be treated as suchLying is just a preemptive defensive control tactic. If it weren't for hormones, women would just avoid men entirely. If you wanna hear the truth, just ask a feminist. They'll tell you men are trash. But they'll still date you, because their hormones make them want to. But you'll never be seen as an equal partner or part of their in-group no matter how much you think you are. You'll always be kept at arms length. The biggest liars are the women who go along with patriarchy and work within it. An… | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/05/23 07:08 AM |
| 2 | give me all your fatalistic/negative beliefs about women and i ll challenge themIn my experience, most everybody's about as good as they are bad. There's no true dividing line. It's just that we judge our own actions by our intentions and interpret those of others by their outcome. | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/05/23 09:13 PM |
| 8 | give me all your fatalistic/negative beliefs about women and i ll challenge themMy most fatalistic/negative belief about women is that they are human. People are kind of awful. And I say that as a person myself. | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/05/23 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Experience with FB Are we Dating the Same Guy groups having real world impact?Places like that are ripe for severely deranged and desperate women to prey on men. | /r/MenSupportMen | 18/05/23 11:42 AM |
| – | Too many men prize a pretty face over the content of a woman's characterWomen are very adept at hiding their true character and blending in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Women of APD, how will you prepare you future sons for a life inceldom?Thats one part of it | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/05/23 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Women of APD, how will you prepare you future sons for a life inceldom?We're seeing the large scale dressing down of society and it's affecting how we view human beings. Romantic love has been deconstructed into a sexual marketplace and the sexes are in bargaining mode. Each sex feels entitled to certain things which from the other's perspective is an inaccurate valuation. Because deep down, men and women see each other realistically and themselves romantically. Humans realistically are unreliable, selfish, etc. But humans are good to themselves and inasmuch we lov… | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/05/23 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Women of APD, how will you prepare you future sons for a life inceldom?My mother used to say I reminded her of my father and it set her on edge in a weird way. I'm pretty sure she struggled with a Jacosta complex and that wrestling with that demon came out in the form of dominating, abusive, narcissistic behavior. Western women hate men because that's who they blame for their issues. They project their insecurities onto all men. Women are supposed to be the fairer sex, so when they're perverted in any way, that fact really messes with their heads. It's kinda sad, a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/05/23 10:16 AM |
| 21 | Are women irl as toxic as the toxic feminists on reddit?Because women determine how others feel about you. | /r/MenSupportMen | 10/05/23 08:45 PM |
| – | “its how we evolved” is a horrible excuse and it needs to stop being an argumentI've engendered the egalitarian ideals laid out in your argument and it got me nothing but a broken heart and lack of respect. I still believe in it. But women have a tendency to reward first and foremost the ability to provide. In turn, the ability to provide materially is historically tied to patriarchy. It's a racket for sure. I think these "excuses" are really a useful starting point to identifying the problem, which is the first step to fixing these issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 09:47 AM |
| – | “its how we evolved” is a horrible excuse and it needs to stop being an argumentLike what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 03:37 AM |
| 1 | “its how we evolved” is a horrible excuse and it needs to stop being an argumentWhen have people used evolution to justify shitty behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Defining Love.I'm way ahead of you there, buddy. I already protect myself from women by not dating. Tell me more about the singularity. What does that entail and how will it signal the beginning of the end? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Defining Love.Oh it is a problem. That's why when men feel feared, they run away. And the woman runs after them. And then you have your classic anxious/avoidant relationship. Men are raised in a world where the display of fear arouses mistrust. Fear leads to preemptive strikes. This is why a man who feels feared has a hard time feeling loved simultaneously. Love takes courage. And courage is not the absence of fear. It is simply the management of fear. So once such fear rises to the surface, especially when c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Defining Love.If the history of Christianity taught us anything, it's that much of society's moral fabric has been shaped by the idea of a God of Love who is to be Feared. A religion born of the product of a premarital pregnancy that would have resulted in the stoning execution of a young lady; but instead, she became the venerated Madonna, rather than the shunned wh*re. These the dual faces of the complex of much of the modern male psyche in the western world. In this duality is proven false the idea of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it’s possible to be a mainly stay at home wife, only working part-time and have my man be the main breadwinner if I don’t want kids?Thank you for writing all this out for me! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 08:14 PM |
| – | Do you think it’s possible to be a mainly stay at home wife, only working part-time and have my man be the main breadwinner if I don’t want kids?Well, that may be. It comes from trying to reconcile their thoughts and their actions. I've loved many women and I must have an extreme misunderstanding because I could never keep them in love. They sure are attracted to me though. This is why I am here. I want to understand. Please forgive me if I am spewing non-rp creed. I impulsively speak from my own unique perspective as a free-thinker. But I'll try to be more respectful and educated about what this sub entails. I'm not trying to derail any… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 08:02 PM |
| -9 | Do you think it’s possible to be a mainly stay at home wife, only working part-time and have my man be the main breadwinner if I don’t want kids?You should, I suppose. How do you do that? The whole red flags thing is silly, imo. Everything is a red flag these days. You're better off realizing that her character will be largely based off your character no matter what. That's exactly how people fall in love and find their soulmate. They find someone with a character to match their own. Birds of a feather flock together. If you improve your own character and worry about yourself, she'll follow your lead and start to worry about her own char… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s possible to be a mainly stay at home wife, only working part-time and have my man be the main breadwinner if I don’t want kids?If she lays out what she wants and gets it, why would she have any reason to want to fuck me over? Granted, I am very stupidly trusting. But you're gonna be in danger of getting fucked over either which way. As a man, you have to lead with trust. Otherwise, you dont deserve her trust. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 06:19 AM |
| 11 | Do you think it’s possible to be a mainly stay at home wife, only working part-time and have my man be the main breadwinner if I don’t want kids?biggest cheerleader. Some will scoff at this. But honestly, men really do need that kind of thing. We put up a big front, but we're just as insecure when it comes to love. We tend toward trying to be anti-fragile in this world. We know you could take a pin and deflate that ego in an instant. But that you choose to believe in someone and don't stop believing in that person when things get tough is what every man dreams of. Someone to build you up, not tear you down. That's why wealthy men will ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 06:09 AM |
| -1 | Do you think it’s possible to be a mainly stay at home wife, only working part-time and have my man be the main breadwinner if I don’t want kids?If she's on this subreddit to begin with, it means she's probably interested in being a loving wife. That right there is worth the funds. Cause guess what? Girls just wanna have fun. That's all they really want. Long as you keep em happy, they'll keep you happy. A good woman is worth anything. A good woman is the only thing that makes the rat race even worth it. A good wife is a loyal friend. And if I had a loyal friend, I'd be happy to have them stay with me for free. That shit is worth it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 05:56 AM |
| 4 | Do you think it’s possible to be a mainly stay at home wife, only working part-time and have my man be the main breadwinner if I don’t want kids?That might be true for most. But there are men out there who dont want kids and just would be happy to have a soulmate. But I'm curious. What are these red flags? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 05:34 AM |
| 21 | Do you think it’s possible to be a mainly stay at home wife, only working part-time and have my man be the main breadwinner if I don’t want kids?I'd say so, sure. A lot of men would love that, if they could afford it. In this economy, you'd have to find a man making quite a bit. But they exist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Are people who criticize passport bros. hypocritical in this sense?You're making a lot of assumptions. Anybody can be evil. Doesn't mean they are. But I get not wanting to feel stuck in someone else's world, reliant on them, and having them able to put you out if you displease them in any way. Power imbalances of any kind are dangerous. And yet, women want tall men. Because a man is a woman's power. She extracts from him all the things that give him power. Would you go find a 3rd world man to marry? It seems like to you, it'd be a good way to make sure that man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 01:48 AM |
| 6 | Are people who criticize passport bros. hypocritical in this sense?Ok. That's cool. So where does the assumption come from that poor people have values and rich people dont? Or is it Americans who dont have values? And what values? Is it that you dont want 3rd world values getting into America? You can marry a rich man with values. But it's more about value than values. What virtue is being broken by passport bros that is not broken if you marry rich? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 01:16 AM |
| -1 | Are people who criticize passport bros. hypocritical in this sense?It's all relative. The ones that can do so will always marry up. My conventionally attractive American sister did. Married older and richer and foreign. There is no cut-off point to this. So why be a hypocrite? Everyone hopes for a better life for their children. No woman anywhere needs to marry up. But that's often the thing they most choose to do. And I dont blame them, because after falling in LOVE with different people, you start to realize that people are all just people at the end of the d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Are people who criticize passport bros. hypocritical in this sense?Which is it? Love or money? Seems to me most women have been smart enough to realize that you're better off falling in love with someone with money. Marriage has always been an economic racket between families and socio-economic backgrounds. But love is an action and a choice. Lust is a feeling. There's young, working class American men that could be passport bros and satisfy their bride's lust, as well as their need to be loved, and still be good enough financially. Truth is, with this whole pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Are people who criticize passport bros. hypocritical in this sense?So she should have married a poor man instead and left your western men alone? Is any wealth gap relationship exploitative? Or does one have to keep quiet until a white woman deems your situation exploitation? It seems like she's using him, not the other way around. The money is flowing her way and she also gets a husband who isn't poor which is a status symbol in itself. What is it she should want? If that's exploitation, I'd love to be exploited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do women set up their sons for failure?Oh for sure. My brother is a momma's boy from the same momma. Lol. She did him wrong by spoiling him. I do not envy that. Imo, mothers tend to go to extremes when the father isn't present to balance shit out. Checks and balances are why we have a three-branch government in the US. It takes three branches to raise a well-adjusted child--the mother, the father, and the "village" or community. These three components check and balance each other. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/04/23 03:35 PM |
| 5 | The main cause for depression and suicide in the incel and redpill community isn't intrasexual competition and virginity, it is social media.Or to the very comment you replied to. Men killing themselves is called a "hissy fit". That shows you exactly how much people care about men. I once joked with a feminist friend that all the worthless men are killing themselves and she laughed. Other shit, she'd say, "that's not funny". And it wasn't even that it was a feminist. Feminists care more about men than the average women. So what does that tell you? Honestly, I think this process will only make for a stronger patriarchy as weak men die… | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/04/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do women set up their sons for failure?My mom's actually a successful business woman and I'm really proud of her. But she's also a total Karen. Still tougher than most men I know, though. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/04/23 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do women set up their sons for failure?Luck is never seeing your dreams come true only to turn to ash in your mouth. The world owes us all nothing, but some of us it teases with possibilities that ultimately come to naught. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/04/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do women set up their sons for failure?Uh huh... | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/04/23 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do women set up their sons for failure?Who said anything about ND? | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/04/23 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Why do women set up their sons for failure?By some people's definition | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/04/23 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Why do women set up their sons for failure?My mom set me up for success by traumatizing me. Now my mentally ill ass is irresistible to women who want to "fix" me. Most mothers just want to be good to their kids, though. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/04/23 07:04 PM |
| 26 | FBI documents reveal that Red Pill terminology like "Chad", "Looksmaxxing" and "Red Pill" itself is being flagged and monitored as an indicator of incel violence or racial/ethnic based extremism. How if at all do you think this will impact TRP as a source of dating/life advice?Either way, it's a new red scare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 09:50 PM |
| 8 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesI don't see many on this sub take accountability To be fair, what would be the point? A person could take accountability for themselves in private or within a relationship. That would go a long way. But what would be the point of doing so here? This sub isn't a relationship. I come here because I'm interested in learning from interpersonal conflict within the dynamics of heteronormative sexual relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Women use standards as a shield, men use prejugement as one too but it's now renamed as misogynyI think you're responding to the wrong thread by accident. Your reply doesn't match up with anything I said. But yes, "I'm sorry that happened to you." is a lazy approach to someone in distress and not at all what I said. It's still, however, leagues better than the way you responded to the other person complaining of mistreatment. Why dont you treat men as human beings? Why dont you treat men how you'd like to be treated? | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/04/23 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Women use standards as a shield, men use prejugement as one too but it's now renamed as misogynyOk. So regardless of how you feel about it, it still effectively prevents men from getting help from police in DV situations | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/04/23 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Women use standards as a shield, men use prejugement as one too but it's now renamed as misogynyIt's a simple question. As a man, when a woman comes to me in distress about mistreatment, my first response would be to take her seriously and show compassion. If I saw another man responding, "what is he just not having sex with you?", I would probably give that man a dirty look. But as you just demonstrated, women often dont treat men as they'd like to be treated. They often don't even pretend to care. Now, back when I was more old-fashioned, I accepted this inequality as a fact of life. But … | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/04/23 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Women use standards as a shield, men use prejugement as one too but it's now renamed as misogynyEver heard of the Duluth model? | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/04/23 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Women use standards as a shield, men use prejugement as one too but it's now renamed as misogynyIs this what you'd say to a woman complaining of mistreatment? | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/04/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessSometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessThey'd be approaching the men who dont approach them. But many women have done this in their younger years and the rejection is too much for their attention-inflated egos to handle. So they go back to picking from among their chasers and putting them through the dance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessYeah. They get scientific with that shit. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessThat doesn't mean being misled for a hookup is not also wrong. I never said it wasn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:28 AM |
| 9 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessjust trying to be "suave" isn't the same as trying to be a pick up artist. I know this. Other people would take it that way, though. What female strategies are psychopathic? FDS is up there. Then there's babytrapping. Honestly, I'd rather be misled for a hookup than be manipulated and gaslighted throughout a whole ass relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:18 AM |
| 17 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessHonestly, it seems like both male and female dating strategies exist on a spectrum of innocent to psychopathic. When I was younger, I read up on being suave and it improved my social skills. People put that under the same umbrella of "PUA" as these deceptive malignantly narcissistic manipulation tactics. Excuse me for assuming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 06:58 AM |
| 7 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessIt works because women want to get laid too, but don't want their girlfriends to slut shame them. Especially the friends who hate hookup culture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 06:14 AM |
| 64 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessWomen have these manipulation tactics woven into their whole approach to dating. Never initiating, playing hard to get, etc. They learn it from their mothers and girlfriends and magazines and Female Dating Strategy. It's so well-established that it seems like the norm. But it's the same thing. Forget make-up. Men can wear make-up too. But if women didn't use manipulation tactics, they'd just be approaching men directly and honestly instead of using games to test men and getting mad when they get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 06:06 AM |
| 7 | Practically no men are "obsessed" with sex, they just can't satisfy their healthy, normal desiresHaving a high libido doesn't make a person sex-obsessed. I've always had a high sex drive, but I deliberately kept my virginity until I was much older. Now, I still have a high libido, but I dont feel I need sex as much as other people who aren't used to going without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 09:21 PM |
| – | Would you agree that a lot of Red Pilled men suffer from the Madonna/whore complex?I'd say this is pretty accurate. Men, especially socially conservative/religious men internalize the idea that their sexuality is a dirty thing. When I was a young child (elementary school age) and first began to fantasize, I followed this pattern. If there was a girl I had a crush on, it felt wrong to fantasize about her and I'd often avoid even looking at her, out of shyness. I'd have dreams about us playing checkers or doing some other innocuous activity and I'd bask in that feeling. I'd try … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 11:08 PM |
| 3 | New to this community and want supportThank you for clarifying! I have to work on my wording. I try to contribute with good intentions. And I completely relate to the sentiment of wanting to make someone happy so they love me more. But what I didn't really fully understand before was my need to feel respected and dignified as a man. I read the book Love & Respect, but at the time, I was still very critical of what I perceived as conservative ideals. Turns out I just throws out the baby with the bathwater. I realize now that the redp… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The perception that men are inherently (or most likely to be) net drains on women's lives drives more men to RedPill/Blackpill ideologiesWell, that's a very humble, insightful, and realistic approach. We all act irrationally in the heat of emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 08:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The perception that men are inherently (or most likely to be) net drains on women's lives drives more men to RedPill/Blackpill ideologiesCongratulations. You're a wise and thoughtful person. In the past, exes who were consumed by hatred at their heartbreak would never accept my explanations. It was a narcissistic response to the pain of rejection that sought to change the narrative to one in which I was just a heartless liar. But your answer shows true maturity and a growth mindset. I wish you luck in finding a great partner. You deserve one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 08:50 PM |
| 0 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.Men do fight the system and have been. That's why power has already swung quickly in favor of women. But many women dont want to give up their advantages in favor of equality. My whole life the "system" has favored women like my mother. And we're still going in that direction. But women still seem to labor under the idea that men still retain more power than they actually do. So what more can a man relinquish except everything? It's not women's fault. It's all of our fault for overcorrecting the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:23 PM |
| 43 | Seeking advice: Is using a location tracking app on my boyfriend crossing a line?My ex did exactly this to me. When I deleted the app, I noted her reaction. She brought it up and I realized she'd been tracking me actively. You essentially forced it on him by deceiving him. This is a massive breach of trust. Instead of communicating, you manipulated him. It's very good that you are honest with yourself at least. But you are taking away his dignity because you have trust issues and then you're essentially gaslighting him. This can have profound psychological consequences for h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 06:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The perception that men are inherently (or most likely to be) net drains on women's lives drives more men to RedPill/Blackpill ideologiesWhat you say about attractive men also applies to women more generally. The "I can have another you in a minute" attitude. Like, I'm sorry if my freedom to choose my own happiness hurts you, but I dont owe you anything. Yet women feel they should be shielded from the reality of heartbreak for some reason. Would you rather a man: A) leave you. B) try to change you. C) accept you but resent you. D) pretend he's happy until one day he offs himself. I'd like to know what you think can be done to pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 06:01 PM |
| 2 | New to this community and want supportIt's nice to know the kind of relationship I envisioned is out there working for someone. Thank you for your reply! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 05:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What’s the point of marriage when it only benefits women?You're welcome! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:59 PM |
| 3 | CMV: What’s the point of marriage when it only benefits women?It tickles me. I guess now you should add "thief" to that as well, since you stole it. Haha. I love when people appropriate the imputations of bad motives. You sound like a cool person and a good partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What’s the point of marriage when it only benefits women?Oh! Congratulations! I hope your marriage ends in death rather than divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What’s the point of marriage when it only benefits women?What lead to the demise of your relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | CMV: What’s the point of marriage when it only benefits women?This is all good and well, but your flair says you're a succubus demon whose every motive is pure evil, so it makes sense for you to do all that to keep him around. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: What’s the point of marriage when it only benefits women?I like this take. But why make it a marriage instead of just a partnership? What sets marriage apart is the whole idea of commitment. I can see how the titles and the ceremony of it can be appealing. But why step foot into part of the illusion at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:34 PM |
| 6 | CMV: What’s the point of marriage when it only benefits women?Exactly. You can only tend your side of the garden to cultivate the fairytale. The other person has to tend their side. If she can get better prospects, it disincentivizes her from actually working on herself. A lot of women seem to think men can be forced to be unaffected by unfairness, the same way a lot of men think that telling a woman "smile!" is a good way to get a woman to smile. We have to constantly incentivize a person to want to stay with us. And when they feel burdened by our limitat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.once a man finds himself single, he wants as much time to date as possible and fatherhood is secondary to his desire to get his dick wet. Television tropes and commercials used to paint men as bumbling dads but that message changed decades ago, Oh look, we replaced one trope with a worse one. that message changed decades ago, long before I was born Then you're too young to even understand. You just know how to use empty rhetoric to make a point based on very little life experience. TV is nothing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:03 AM |
| 0 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.Most fathers don’t want to raise their children full time Because from childhood, they're repeatedly hit with the idea that that's not their role. Women reinforce this mindset the most, but turn around and blame patriarchy for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 10:26 AM |
| 5 | New to this community and want supportWell, for most of my life, I'd been socially conservative and very religious. It shaped me into a patriarchal way of thinking. However, I still valued the feminine and nurtured my own "feminine side" as a way to try to understand women and not see their ways as beneath me. Then many of the women I wound up interacting with as friends and girlfriends, etc, would expose me to bits and pieces of feminism, which I resisted taking on ideologically just on principle (I was still a Christian). But I sa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 10:10 AM |
| 6 | New to this community and want supportIt's really difficult to handle criticism, especially when depressed. One thing you can do to ease tensions between you is instead of saying sorry all the time, say "thank you for your patience." This encourages him to be more patient and acknowledge that you have limitations but are doing your best. And you really are already being a good wife simply by your intentions and working on yourself. I'm a feminist-aligned man who was in a committed relationship to a feminist woman, and frankly, it di… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 02:41 AM |
| 2 | the flatmateTell them that you dont appreciate being preached to. Let her know you dont try to proselytize her to your way of thinking, so you'd appreciate it if she returned the favor. "Do to others as you'd have them do to you." | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 01:58 AM |
| 4 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.No one is estranging men from their children in these cases, except for the fathers themselves If that were actually the case, men wouldn't have to fight for their parental rights in the first place. It's so ridiculous when women do everything they can to alienate their own children from their father and then say, "fight me for it", even though this process often does more damage than walking away would. I wish my father had walked away. It would've been better for all of us. He was the better p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewLol. Dude, she already responded. It's a question. Get over it. I'm not the one judging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewWe all have internalized bias. Even dogs pick up on and adopt these biases. Our brains are designed to form in-group/out-group categorizations as a survival mechanism. It doesn't mean these have to affect the way you view people. But attraction is something more deep-seated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewYou're literally twisting her words. And even if she has unconsciously-internalized racism, possibly due to being socialized with less exposure to black people growing up; that wouldn't make her a bad person or at fault. Attraction, especially when it comes to Demisexuals is big on familiarity. This is probably why she is drawn to men from the more prominently patriarchal conservative cultures that mirror the fundamentalist Christian culture in which she grew up. The unfamiliar is too scary a th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewNo one is saying an entire race isn't attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewGotcha! That makes sense. So if Tim Tebow was a black man, it wouldn't have really made a difference? (For the record, I dont believe it's racist to have preferences. The heart wants what it wants. So dont take this question the wrong way) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewNot even Idris Elba? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:37 PM |
| 0 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalWomen haven't been out in the "real world" (the working world/the world of men) as long as men have, so they aren't as socialized to it and are often naïve about it. Knowledge has not been passed down to them. This is why a lot of men wont listen to their wives, because they feel they know better when it comes to certain things. But that is changing. Future generations are more equal. It's not at all hypocritical. To illustrate, women in my generation tend to dominate the role of raising childre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | New research helps explain why relationship satisfaction tends to be lower in role-reversed heterosexual couplesHonestly, you make a fair point. In theory, I take what women say at face value. But they never actually seem to really mean it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 12:10 PM |
| 8 | New research helps explain why relationship satisfaction tends to be lower in role-reversed heterosexual couplesI remember growing up recognizing these types of relationships and feeling less respect for the guy and liking the woman less. It feels like an inborn thing. But we're all programmed by the prevailing narrative, and you can feel the stigma even when it's not openly discussed. The only way through imo is radical change that starts with the self.. and ends there. You can only control you, after all, and be the change you wanna see in the world. Unfortunately for me, I internalized a very macho min… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 01:46 AM |
| 28 | New research helps explain why relationship satisfaction tends to be lower in role-reversed heterosexual couplesI feel like the answer to this is further normalizing reverse-role relationships in order to undo the stigma attached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 01:09 AM |
| 1 | For the men,would you rather be bachelor for life having sex with whoever you want but no relationship/kids or would you rather have a marriage and beautiful kids without any sex?Neither, to be perfectly honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: do you think there is any point in educating men about non-life threatening female issues, such as sexualization in media?A lot of grown men never got that education in school. Especially the finer points. There are men out there who think simply getting a "yes" means consent. They often aren't aware of their own coercive behaviors or the intrinsic power imbalance that keeps women in a state of constant fear of men. They think it's like in the movies where you gotta wear a woman down and be macho and shit. They follow the golden rule, which in this case doesn't apply, because few men have learned to fear saying no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | What are some blue pills?I find it interesting how many women seem to focus on either looks or career or whathaveyou. But they almost never focus on integrity or emotional intelligence for themselves. They see themselves as "the prize". How they treat a man seems to never factor in. Yet they have high standards for men in those departments. I would do anything for a woman who actually cared. I dont need a woman's money or cooking and cleaning or anything superficial, not even looks or hell, not even sex, as long as she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 01:16 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.I think you should put down the ideology and pick up an anthropology textbook instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 03:20 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Do the words AS GROUPS mean nothing to you? If infanticide was the rule, we'd be extinct. Stop contrasting individuals with populations. It really doesn't work that way. Also, infanticide/abortion is part of woman loving themselves/each other unconditionally because their survival is still essential over the survival of a baby. They can make more children, but a grown woman is a hard loss to replace for a population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 03:04 PM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.everything you just said is in opposition to what you said before I think you need to work on your reading comprehension. It's probably the reason your entire comment makes very little sense and shows a severely distorted understanding of biology. Nothing I said contradicts anything I said previously. Are you aware that we have, for instance, both a brainstem which drives instinct and a prefrontal cortex which inhibits behavior? The two aren't mutually exclusive. Also, saying we have biological … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 08:17 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Having instincts doesn't mean we aren't more than our instincts. You're projecting your own naïve misunderstanding. It's not pseudoscience. Instead of reading more into comments than what's actually said, try reading a book. It's naïve to think that the existence of, for instance, homosexuality negates what I said. That's like saying humans dont have a basic biological will to live just because suicide exists. There's a big difference between unconscious biological imperatives and conscious deci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 07:36 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.From google: "Most carnivores can pause their pregnancies, including all bears and most seals, but so can many rodents, deer, armadillos, and anteaters." There are also many animals that tend not to breed in captivity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 06:26 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Do you think instinct cant be overriden? The whole history of humankind with its religions and customs have been trying to get away from being like other animals. We have higher intelligence and agency and are able to bypass instinct. Also, even animals instinctively suspend procreation when conditions aren't fit for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:42 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Yes. But gratification is still just the byproduct and not the cause in itself. Bulimics value food although they vomit it up, thereby nullifying the biological imperative that gives rise to the gratification we seek through food. This does not mean that food's only value is gratification or even that it's primary purpose is gratification. Using casual sex for pleasure may satisfy many men's biological imperative. But they vomit out the love, nurturing, consistency, and everything else healthy a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:37 AM |
| – | If it wasn't for sex, most men would not bother with women.Women are automatically valued for the sexual gratification they offer to men Close, but no. Women are automatocally valued because we instinctually know that they are more vital to the survival of the species. Men dont sacrifice themselves in war to get laid. They both get laid and sacrifice themselves all for the furtherance of their lineage/tribe/species. It's all related to sex as sex is the mechanism for procreation in all animals. But when it comes down to it, society relies on women to gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I’m probably being silly, but…It takes two to tango. If you're too hasty or eager, then so is he. So no issue there. The other commenters probably picked up on this being a matter of you worrying what he thinks. I personally believe it's better for a LTR in the long run to wait. But that's just me and my opinion has nothing to do with arbitrary man-made rules and more to do with human nature. So let me say there is nothing wrong with giving it up on the first date. But postponing gratification can do wonders for a relationsh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?To spell it out for you, it tells us that Victorian men were largely ignorant about female sexuality. It's not complicated. Idk why people here are tripping all over themselves to miss this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 07:27 PM |
| 6 | body count issue UPDATELetting go is hard. We look to others to help us love ourselves and when they reject us, it can make us want to win their approval somehow. Dont argue with him. Just say, "ok. I'll let you go look for the person you really want." Dont tell him his expectations are unrealistic. You dont owe him that. Just cut him loose and know in your heart that you are perfectly fine just the way you are. Walk away without a care. You acting in harmony with your value will help you value yourself more, instead … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/23 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?I dont know how you got that from what I said. But that was certainly not the case in general, most likely. Victorian men sent their wives to doctors who fingered them in order to cure "hysteria". What does that tell you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 04:40 PM |
| -2 | I’m probably being silly, but…You're not automatically doomed. But the start of a relationship is the foundation that sets the tone for the rest of the relationship. If you dont like the dynamic, the only way out is to either start over or move on. And if this is how you're feeling, then if he's right for you, you should be able to talk to him about it. If he's the one, he'll understand. Too many people on this sub see getting a relationship as the goal, even if it means giving up parts of yourself. But I think no relationsh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/23 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?There are plenty of men who dont have sex until marriage. It's not something only women are told. Men will do what they want, as will women. But when it bites you in the ass, you only have yourself to blame. It's happened to me. I've gone into fwb situations being upfront about my intentions and those women have often tried to pressure me into a relationship. One time, it worked and I fell in love and changed my mind. And I regret it very much, because you cant build a healthy relationship on su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 03:37 PM |
| 0 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?I dont think it's naïve. I think you're finding little success because women have already adapted to these ideas about sex. So they dont believe men like us exist. Men like us dont set the standard. But that could change in the future. It's selection bias in action. What feels too good to be true is discarded in favor of the current zeitgeist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 03:30 PM |
| 8 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?Men are often honest. You just dont want to accept it. I believe there are some instances of what you describe, but to paint all instances of it as "using" is just a tool to demonize all men because you aren't getting what you want. Dont use sex to get a relationship. It's that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 03:27 PM |
| 9 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?consent for a relationship was never going to be offered I dont buy this. This is a cope for women who couldn't be handled at their worst. You dont know a person's intent at the outset. People are allowed to change their mind. If you dont want to feel used, dont put out. Actually get to know someone first. This is exactly why conservatives/religious people embrace not having sex before marriage. Sex is not a commitment. Marriage is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 03:02 PM |
| 15 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?Sex shouldn't be used as a bargaining chip for a relationship. Sex is not a currency you use to buy a future with someone. It's supposed to be an equal exchange of pleasure. If you want a ltr, treat the person with respect and equality. Don't act like they owe you. It's not a contract. Just as consent to sex can be withdrawn at any time, consent to a relationship can be withdrawn as well. Nobody owes anybody anything. If you want a relationship, be relationship material. Why would you want to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 02:50 PM |
| 22 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?https://youtu.be/9osWeVE2Tg8 This video explains how the sexual revolution backfired and tends to enable male-centric ideas of sex while female-oriented pleasure gets left by the wayside. The thing is, the sexual revolution of the 60's was a necessary reaction to victorian prudishness and purity culture which also left women on the losing end. It was a societal overcorrection. Now, we're seeing younger generations try to find a balance, rejecting both promiscuity and purity culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 02:42 PM |
| -1 | I’m probably being silly, but…This is a tough one. I think you should talk to him about it. You're not being silly. It's a real concern. You should ask to stop, in my opinion. Explain and give context. If he doesn't understand or gets upset, then just leave his ass and get a fresh start on your terms. Tell him you missed out on the talking/courtship stage and you want to experience that. I'm a guy and I've been in a similar situation. Dont be afraid to share your feelings. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/23 01:30 PM |
| 9 | body count issue UPDATEJust because they're shitty boundaries doesn't mean they're not boundaries. I'm not defending his actions or beliefs. But if she was upfront from the get-go, she could've kept from wasting her own time on someone who's not for her. Stop trying to change men. Find the one you actually want. It's not your job to fix a man like this. If he's the biggest hoe out there and wants a virgin, that may be dumb and hypocritical, but it's still his prerogative. He still has a right to break up with who he w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/23 01:01 PM |
| 15 | body count issue UPDATEYou're not a hoe. But I'm gonna play devils advocate here and say he was probably frustrated with the way you dodged questions and weren't upfront. You acted like someone with something to hide and once he saw inconsistency and not getting straight answers, his trust was shattered. Just be honest and direct about who you are. If that's not good enough for him, you dont need him. But, as dickish as he's being, he still has a right to his boundaries even if you dont agree with those. Dont bark up … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/23 12:29 PM |
| 60 | When they ask what you do for work?If you're looking for a provider, be honest. Then you'll find a provider. If someone views that as a red flag, then they wouldn't be the person you want, so why pursue them? Asking what you do for a living is a pretty standard question when getting to know someone. It's not a trick. Your preferences are only red flags for the guys you want to weed out anyway. Buy lying is definitely a red flag for any guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/23 02:45 AM |
| 6 | "Relationships today are based on romance and lust, relationships in pre-historic times were based on survival and reproduction" how true would you say this claim speaks and do you agree or disagree with it?Wrong. Prehistoric means prehistory. Written records are relatively extremely recent in the span of human existence. People were around before history started being recorded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 01:34 AM |
| 2 | "Relationships today are based on romance and lust, relationships in pre-historic times were based on survival and reproduction" how true would you say this claim speaks and do you agree or disagree with it?The thing about "love" is its a loaded word that encapsulates a lot of disparate concepts. The concept of "love at first sight" and "soulmates" is really just a product of the romantic age that justifies this idea that love requires little to no effort and is naturally compulsive. Arranged marriages, however, often feature love in its natural form. After all, we dont pick our families. We love them because of attachment, familiarity, and (hopefully) reciprocal acts of care. Our modern sense of "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Anyone who says, 'You just need to communicate more', you should disregard everything they have to sayPresenting an unidentified problem and refusing to broach the subject is a great way to keep someone under your thumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | If you have sex with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, does it mean you take advantage of them?Exactly! It's very narcissistic and ugly. Also, a form of "sour grapes". And people like that wont change for the better for the good of a relationship. They think they are the good of the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 06:25 PM |
| 2 | If you have sex with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, does it mean you take advantage of them?Thanks for reminding me of my blindspot. I think you're right. I used to jump to the next option because I'm superficially attractive so I dont have to put up with bullshit. Exes would accuse me of leading them on or some shit because they couldn't handle that I left because I stopped liking them (for good reason). Their default assumption (which saves their ego harm) is that I never liked or loved them and was just using them (even in celibate relationships, like wtf would I even be getting out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 04:44 PM |
| 10 | If you have sex with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, does it mean you take advantage of them?I find the deception really happens often on the part of women. They try to seduce a casual man into wanting a relationship under the guise of agreeing to a casual relationship. They go in with false pretenses, only to pressure a relationship later on. Then, when it doesn't work, they convince themselves and others they were taken advantage of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 04:31 PM |
| 5 | If you have sex with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, does it mean you take advantage of them?In that case, not paying a prostitute would be considered rape. An episode of Law and Order SVU depicts the detectives explicitly telling a prostitute, "its not rape if he doesn't pay." Now, this is probably an outdated notion, and perhaps should be. Our definition of rape has changed throughout the years and that's not a bad thing. But along with it, we need education, because people are still ignorant and rely on old notions like, "you cant rape the willing" for instances of marital rape. Thes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 04:29 PM |
| 3 | If you have sex with someone who wants to be in a relationship with you, does it mean you take advantage of them?Safer to hold to the most stringent definitions of rape, however irrational you may think they are. They'll still hold up in the court of public opinion. On matters such as rape and other things, rationality gives way to emotion. Put it this way: if you were a black man in 1950's America, you may think making eye contact as you pass a white woman on the street is ok. But it could still get you lynched. Safer to bow your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Generosity. I don't understand where I'm going wrong ?As a man, I can tell you it's easy to overlook the reason behind such a question and can be hard to read between the lines. I would follow up with, "I'm happy I can make you happy and meet your needs. To be honest, I could use a little more support, and if I dont express this need, it leads to feelings of resentment that I dont want." He may feel a flood of panic and shame/embarrassment for something he was unaware was a problem. How he deals with these feelings is a very important indication of… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/23 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Generosity. I don't understand where I'm going wrong ?Society puts such undue pressure on women not to be "gold diggers". I would start by asking him questions and feeling him out. It is a touchy subject. He may fear being seen as just a wallet to you. It's similar to how women fear being seen as just a sex object. Sex and financial support are both integral parts of a relationship that cannot be demanded, but lack thereof can leave a person feeling neglected. I would assure him that you value him as a person. That he's who you want to be with, but… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/23 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Generosity. I don't understand where I'm going wrong ?It's a tough situation. I sympathize with you. But if he's choosing to take on a traditional masculine role, he should have no problem taking care of you financially, unless he's limited in doing so. But it's very important to see how he handles conflict early on. You will either be pleasantly surprised, or you will be validated in your fears, in which case, you should drop him. Ask yourself, do you want this dynamic to become set in stone? You're setting the tone for your whole relationship to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/23 02:29 PM |
| 4 | Generosity. I don't understand where I'm going wrong ?Communication is key. A lot of people feel shy expressing their needs, but that only leads to resentment, while your partner is left clueless. You end up standing in your own way and then blaming him for not being able to read your feelings. Tell him how you feel. If he objects, then he's not someone who can, or is willing to, meet your needs. You dont want to be with someone who wont meet your needs. If he listens and tries, be patient. If he argues, listen and then explain further. This is ext… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/23 02:14 PM |
| 25 | how to stop disliking men ?No judgement here. It's a completely understandable feeling. After a while, it gets hard to ignore patterns you see, but it's important to recognize that men aren't a monolith. Look at women who cheat and abuse and then look at yourself. If there's a you out there, then there's a man like you. People in general are very flawed people. But people also change and grow. Relationships are often a leap of faith. We tend not to focus on success stories for the same reason every story ever told must ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Single at 30 - how do I not freak out?Sure thing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/23 03:09 AM |
| 30 | Single at 30 - how do I not freak out?At 30, it's really nothing external that would repel a man. It's rather the freaking out itself, the loss of confidence, the fear of mortality as another decade of life passes. But you are wiser and more experienced than you've ever been. You got this. Good things come to those who wait. You still have plenty of time to find what you want. 30 is a scary age, but it's when you begin to know yourself. Later life marriages, second marriages tend to last because of this. Before 30, you're still pret… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/23 11:32 PM |
| 0 | Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them?If you think that, you're naïve. What would your solution be to mens' issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them?If we fix men, maybe women will love us?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 05:23 AM |
| 5 | My take on RP and BPAs I understand it, Bonobo societies are matriarchal and highly incestuous and pedophilic in nature. I dont think they're a very good model for a healthy society. Is the OP arguing that eliminating all sexual shame from society is a good thing? Natural ≠ good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | My take on RP and BPCan you elaborate on what you mean about Bonobos? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/23 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them?It's like a mirror. You cant trust someone who doesn't trust you. But they see your distrust and so they cant trust you either. It's a feedback loop. This is one of the reasons I'm a male feminist. It's probably also why you take an interest in PPD and TRP. The only way to get over mistrust is through understanding. So we examine possible motives for behaviors. We're trying to peek behind the curtain, so to speak. The problem with this is that TRP itself is a reactive cope. A way of framing wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 05:07 AM |
| 18 | Q4W: What do you think when the less attractive friend prevents men from talking to you?It's kind of a given though. By definition, the more attractive friend would always be the one to get hit on, leaving the less attractive friend to run interference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 01:52 AM |
| 36 | How to let it go when I think he's wrong.One of the best pieces of relationship advice I've gotten before was the simple phrase "pick your battles". Think of it like that. A lot of it may just be you wanna feel respected as an equal partner with your views validated. When two people feel this way, it leads to standoffs in small things. I recommend learning to take pride in letting your partner have their wins, but he needs to do the same for you. Also, bear in mind that you're both your own people with your own minds and you dont have … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenThis aint a strawman. This is a damn wicker man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenIf women put up with these things and much worse for millenia, surely us men can put up with a loss of status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenIn what universe do you remotely believe feminists want that? I'm one who wants it. Because it is a zero sum game. It will always be one as long as feminists are a thing. The sooner everyone gets on board with feminism, the sooner we can reach a point where feminism becomes obsolete. So you have male guilt and think men are to blame. "Well, every little boy thinks he invented sin. Virtue we think we learn, because we are told about it. But sin is our own designing." ---John Steinbeck What man do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenWhen scales balance, they dip over to the other side and go back and forth until settling in equilibrium. It's not enough to stop at equality. Women's power must override men's for a time. We're seeing that now. It oughta settle out to even in the next few generations or so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenHey, I just call it like I see it. I dont make policy. I just toe the line, ideologically. It's not so much bringing men down as it is leveling the playing field by favoring women. Once equality is reached, we can stop. Also, women are better suited to white collar jobs, so to give women a boost, it makes sense to offset education and have women be the majority both in higher education and working in the field of education. If you wanna refute this, go ahead. I'd love to hear your arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are men's lived experiences dismissed or unacknowledged?Yall act like it was nature.. Who's yall? I'm a feminist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Why are men's lived experiences dismissed or unacknowledged?women's liberation benefits the hell out of them. In the long run, yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 11:48 AM |
| 4 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenI agree with that. I appreciate you bringing up mens issues like that. See, people reading the post will assume you're unaware of mens issues, but you hit the nail on the head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are men's lived experiences dismissed or unacknowledged?The men with the power to affect mens issues benefit too much from patriarchy to act against their own interests. It has to be a from-the-ground-up approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenYeah. It takes a lot of hopelessness to really muster up the nerve to be effective at a suicide attempt. If you have a social support system, it makes it harder to lose hope. As a man with pretty privilege, I experience a similar effect to what a lot of women experience. Looks have a ridiculously big effect on social support, believe it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenI disagree. I believe we're seeing the final stages of bringing women up above the glass ceiling. I believe feminists want male empowerment, but it's too soon. These changes happen in generational waves. So you have society restructured in a way where female empowerment is given a "handicap" and male empowerment is necessarily impeded for a time. This accounts for the demise of men in education, among other things. It also accounts for what seems like lip-service from feminists. They/we desire m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenWomen do attempt suicide more, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenI think it's important to post polarizing views like this because they're the most thought-provoking. Truth is, there's no shame in not wanting to bend the knee to a romantic partner just because she is a woman. There's no shame in being an independent man, any more than there's shame in a woman not needing a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Women's failed relationships and dating abhorrent men proves women's "intuition" is bullshitTheir intuition isn't bullshit. It's misinterpreted. Their intuition leads them to seek out the same toxic dynamic they're most familiarized to throughout life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Do you think there's anything wrong with men to filtering out promiscuous women for serious relationships? If so, why?Well, lucky that you would understand. I was a JW too. Leaving was what triggered the "hoe phase". I just figured I'd get some experience under my belt before settling down. It has taken a long time undoctrinating, but I'm fully mentally out and I tend to vacillate between atheism and agnosticism. "fuck anyone who says yes" This was not the case. I'm basically using "hoe phase" to mean casual sex phase. Part of it was that (especially as a former JW) hookup culture seemed to be the order of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there's anything wrong with men to filtering out promiscuous women for serious relationships? If so, why?Like he had 4 longterm dead bedroom relationships? Or do you mean something different? Different. Like roughly a decade full of back-to-back serious relationships that lasted on avg a year, never living together and saving sex for marriage for religious reasons. Then, after that, a hoe phase. Then one sexually active serious relationship that lasted a couple years. Add into the mix that I've been in therapy and am conscious of my attachment style. What's my carfax? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Do you think there's anything wrong with men to filtering out promiscuous women for serious relationships? If so, why?I had a feeling it meant number, but saying number-count seemed redundant to me. Lol. more than 15 sex partners Perfect. Do you think this is the general consensus? Also, what if a man has been in a long series of celibate relationships before becoming sexually active? Do you think non-sexual serious relationships have an impact? I feel like the thing that really underscores the effect it has on future happiness is how a person's attachment style is developed. Thoughts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Do you think there's anything wrong with men to filtering out promiscuous women for serious relationships? If so, why?What's high N for a guy, in your opinion? ...also, what does the N stand for? I never figured that one out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that a guy friend would bang his female friend if given the chance mean he's not really her friend?I guess that's what I get for using tinder and hookups to try to make friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Does the fact that a guy friend would bang his female friend if given the chance mean he's not really her friend?Oh for sure. It wasn't overt pressure. But hanging out and watching tv together, it became obvious they were just waiting, and I could feel their eyes on me. I almost felt like I owed it to them. Last time I make that mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Does the fact that a guy friend would bang his female friend if given the chance mean he's not really her friend?The worst part of it is when you give in because you feel like they expect sex and you dont want to risk the friendship. But when you cut em off, they act like you used them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:18 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Sexually desiring “innocence” and “purity” is hedonisticOh my god.... this explains a lot. I always thought it was a judgmental thing. I'm very against slut shaming. But I guess the proof is in the pudding. What's the data on high n-count men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:09 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Sexually desiring “innocence” and “purity” is hedonisticSo the gist of what you're saying is: "high value men" decide what constitutes a "high value woman"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 04:25 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Sexually desiring “innocence” and “purity” is hedonisticWhere does this hard dick and intense nut stuff come from? Men talking. Men dont actually talk like this. Sounds like you've been reading the comments on pornhub. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:15 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Sexually desiring “innocence” and “purity” is hedonisticwomen who internalize it as a spiritual moral judgement Men internalize these ideas too. Not only that, but women who've internalized these ideas also perpetuate them. When I was keeping my virginity, I dated women who had been sexually active and I didn't shame them or look down on them. Women are just more sexually active than men and they know how to hide it. For a lot of men, this affects their view of those women. For others, it doesn't. Not every man is the same. Some fetishize things that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenPeople who lived in the past still exist in the present. Also, it's still going on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Do men even enjoy dating women?They dont what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:44 AM |
| 2 | Do men even enjoy dating women?So what's your complaint? If you don't like men, dont date em. A lot of men these days are already too disillusioned by women to care much about anything and that can lead to general malaise. Women also experience depression and fatigue btw. But a man's worth will only ever be tied to what he provides. Men are nothing but wallets to women. So let the men be alone. And you can be alone. He can live his shitty life and you can live yours. You can take care of yourself. You're a big girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Do men even enjoy dating women?Sure they will. What do you think men who live alone do? If you have a habit of dating selfish people, that's on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Do men even enjoy dating women?There isn’t a woman alive who looks forward to cleaning her husband’s shitstained underwear for sixty years. So dont... it's really not complicated. And men are people too and also enjoy different things. Like, why would women do things no one asks of them and then complain about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Do men even enjoy dating women?I wonder if men just hide it well in the real world or if men who are online just limit there time in the outside world which would explain why I don’t see them. It's both. And the same is almost true for women, except they show it more offline. There's also a lot of people who say what they dont mean. I went to school with a girl who openly announced her hatred of men. But when I sparked up a conversation with her, she was friendly and personable. People are funny like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 03:20 AM |
| 5 | Do men even enjoy dating women?And women dont like those things? Lol. You can't inflate your value by commodifying the act of caring about someone. If you're not a sex worker, it should not be some exchange of services. That's not how a healthy relationship functions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 03:09 AM |
| 0 | Do men even enjoy dating women?It's misanthropy and it spills out here and there. But I see everyone as equal all the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:58 AM |
| 10 | Do men even enjoy dating women?See, treating love like it's work is a big part of the problem. You want to be loved, but showing love to you is just labor. It's all transactional. What man would want that? It's depressing as hell. Relationships are hard work, but love compels a person. Without love, what more are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:57 AM |
| 6 | Do men even enjoy dating women?If you think most men see women as just a warm hole, that says more about the kind of men you attract. Plenty of us enjoy women who have something more to offer than just sex, and we tend to pursue those women who have more to offer. If that's not you, try taking up a hobby or reading more or something. Make yourself more interesting. Maybe be emotionally available. There's plenty of ways to draw the right kind of person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:27 AM |
| 14 | Do men even enjoy dating women?He wants women to be better for men, as if men deserve this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 02:21 AM |
| 2 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenI think I see the disconnect here. Ok, so libido is one thing. Need for sex another. I have a high libido, low need for sex. A lotta women prefer sex to masturbation, so they have a higher need for sex, even if they have a lower libido. It goes beyond biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:25 PM |
| 3 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenLmao. I'm really not being obtuse. Asexual people exist both male and female. Hypersexual people exist both male and female. Even if there seems to be a general trend one way or another, that much difference can still be heavily attributed to culture and environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:08 PM |
| 2 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenWomen do not have an "always on" spontaneous arousal instinct like men do. This isn't debatable, so don't try. Your argument seems to be that because women "enjoy sex in the right circumstances" that equals a male sex drive. That is not the case. Men basically enjoy sex in all circumstances and at pretty much any time and with far more intensity of drive and urge. Most men who have dated have witnessed women become "horny for them" but it is almost purely contextual and not remotely "always on" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 08:43 PM |
| 0 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenI've never seen one high libido woman who would walk up to some guy and proposition him for sex the way just about any man would if he thought he had a shot. And you really think that's just because of libido? It's because that's not even remotely safe or wise or good for her reputation (as in openly called a slut and harassed). I have heard of one instance on the news of a woman aggressively soliciting sex at a McDonalds from one of the workers and sexually assaulting them. But she had bipolar … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 08:22 PM |
| 4 | The elephant in the room is the libido gap between men and womenThe thing is, a shit ton of women really have high libidos, but they usually experience some kind of sexual shaming at an early age and that somewhat disconnects them from being able to openly enjoy sex the same way that men are socialized to. They want to enjoy it, but they've grown up with so many mixed messages that it frustrates them. Then they realize that there is power in the idea that men want women more than women want men. They realize there's power in being the one pursued, and less p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:02 PM |
| 7 | How the Manosphere led us to develop better mental health services for men — The Centre for Male PsychologyThis is a really good point. The thing is, as long as we're doing the identity politics thing, we will continue to view groups through their weakest links. If we didn't start from the bottom, the most dysfunctional men would be left out. It's the same reason Christianity starts with the baseline "everybody is a sinner". I'd hazard to guess the same logic is at play in radfem circles. | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/03/23 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Why should immuteable traits in a man be given a free pass just because they're immutable?It isn't an emotion born of rationality. It's the laws of nature encoded in our DNA that cause women to get upset at the prospect of their offspring having a significant disadvantage in life. They dont reason this shit out. It's just felt. The same way other drives are felt. When you're hangry, it's not because you're thinking, "I've gotten insufficient calories/nutrients today". You figure that out after the fact. At first, it appears to you as just a nameless feeling that something is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Why should immuteable traits in a man be given a free pass just because they're immutable?That's part of it, though. It's in a woman's best interest to secure prosperity for her offspring in the form of a man to protect and provide and fulfill other roles. Cant get mad at them for getting mad at men for not filling those roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it?Methinks the lady doth protest too much. I hope you dont think I'm talking about a demonstration with picket signs and chants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:47 PM |
| 0 | What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it?Cool. That's a lotta protest over an internet comment from a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:29 PM |
| 0 | What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it?A good friend doesn't give false hope to a friend who clearly wants more from him. He really just wanted someone to talk to while waiting in between classes. That's called a friend. You don't have to cancel plans for someone in order to be their friend. You're just sour you didn't get to smash. And now I know why my opposite sex friendships never work out. Smh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:21 PM |
| 9 | Why should immuteable traits in a man be given a free pass just because they're immutable?Sounds more like a competitive game, That's what life is. Females act as judges to determine the winners who get to pass on their genes to the next generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it?Maybe he just wanted to be your friend and you didn't get the hint? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 03:40 PM |
| 0 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?The person you're talking down to has all the tools to raise an autistic child and is, and has the empathy and compassion necessary. And guess what? They're autistic. So if their parents took them out of the picture, there'd only be one less parent in the world equipped to raise an autistic child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?I have ADHD. I get it. Most of my life, I've been suicidal. I believe a lot of symptoms associated with autism are probably actually just symptoms of ptsd. But I'm actually happy now. I know myself and the way I function. I'm at a part of my life where I can adapt. Not all will or can find that. But do you know why the world is unaccomodating to neurodivergent people, despite us often having strengths others lack? It's because we're the minority. Aborting more autistic people only makes the worl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 08:07 PM |
| -3 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?You dont hate them. You just wanna make sure people think twice before bringing an autistic person into your world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?Gotcha. Sorry for the misunderstanding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 01:41 PM |
| -2 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?Yes. I'm not a shitty person. I dont support eugenics. Also, autism is a spectrum and the way you cherry pick shit like smearing shit on walls is incredibly hateful, because you're just adding to the stigmatization of all people on the spectrum. Now if I could go back in time and prevent the birth of someone like you, that might be worthwhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 01:38 PM |
| -3 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?risk for having a child with autism increase Why do you hate autistic people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 12:04 PM |
| -1 | Why do women care so much if men care about their age or previous sexual behavior?i don’t understand judging someone for their age ain’t anyone on this earth getting any younger There it is. Time goes in one direction. If you like older women, you can still date a younger woman, get all the positives that come from that (healthy children, optimism of youth, general hotness, etc) and guess what? They still grow older! You get both. If you start off dating an older woman, it just increases her ability to manipulate you, you wont have as much to offer, and she'll likely die much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Divide and conquer as usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?robs boys of male bonding This is it right here. Smash patriarchy by preventing the aggregation of males in any form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyNice strawman. A woman will help a random woman on the street if they need a tampon or somebody to scare off a creeper. But then they'll turn around and stab their best friend in the back continuously and vice versa and that's a friendship. Lol. It's kinda the inverse for men. We dont have much love for random dudes, but once a man fights another, they become best friends. I'm sorry you cant understand nuance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...When did I call you misandrist? What'd that one word just stick out to you and you took it personal without reading the context? If your problem is with the concept of "fuckboy" in and of itself then take it up with OP, I'm just answering the question as presented. That's fair. But independent, promiscuous men who wear condoms are better off than your average married guy, depending on his looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 10:48 PM |
| 0 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyWomen tend to look out for each other because we’re at a disadvantage in society. Just like racial minorities and other disadvantaged groups. Groups that haven’t historically been oppressed don’t have that in-group solidarity because they haven’t needed it as much. Ok? Now that doesn’t mean men don’t have problems of course, and I’m all for men supporting men when they need it. Support among male friends when it comes to things like mental health is often lacking compared to female friends, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyI've immersed myself in feminism for the past few years and a lot of ideas have rubbed off on me. Women are strong because they support each other and defend each other. It's all too possible for a woman to make a false allegation, even an unintentionally false one. But we sweep whatever makes our side look bad under the rug, so we #believeher. Well, being a feminist taught me a lot of important things, but it also is dysfunctional as hell and I still felt othered, and put up with a lot of misan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...That's the story they give you when they wanna explain away parental alienation because in reality they want complete control over the child with no involvement from the father aside from child support checks. The "fuckboy" is a misandrist myth designed to reframe situations that make the woman look shitty or bruise her ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...I agree. But the thing is, I love my friends and even casual encounters. I love people. Period. I'm invested in them to varying degrees, but love is love. I've been in love deeply. Now we're just friends and we get along better and are both happier. Go figure. We still love each other. As you get older, you learn how to lean on yourself emotionally and are ok being single... or you get stuck in a codependent relationship you cant get out of because you're addicted to it, or go hopping from love … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyGaslighting. The woman might say she was acting unhurtfully, doesn't mean it's true. Those scenarios are likely tall tales. It's absurd that a man would act like that. And if he did, why the fuck would she be so hung up on him? Either it's good riddance or not. That's how you know it's sour grapes and she's lying about it, because no matter how bad a light she tries to cast him in, she still wants him so badly that she lashes out like that. If he was really that bad, she'd be happy to be free to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:52 AM |
| 0 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...So traditional nuclear families are the only loving, stable families. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...Ok. Lets stop getting married. See who complains. If what you say is true, the abolition of marriage should do a lot to equalize the disparity between men and women, giving men less benefits on the whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...Because generally speaking, women tend to prefer marriage. For one, it creates a safety net. I'm not gonna get into all the ways, but it stands to reason that women have their own reasons for overwhelmingly being in favor of marriage. Maybe ask a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...find someone to be really in love with each other. As someone who has experienced this several times Lmao. "True love is real! Just ask my long list of exes." That's all I heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...What if he went down in history as a great lover of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:37 AM |
| -1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...It's gross that you want to control the way your son reproduces. That's some medieval shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:35 AM |
| -1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...A fuckboy is unlikely to give me grandkids unless it's a bastard with some skank he knocked up. No thanks. That's a gross way of looking at human beings. And grandkids are not your accessories to add to your collection. To hoard as your own and not some other woman's whom your "intenalized mysogyny" (really jealousy and competition) tells you to view as beneath you. "Skanks" and "sluts". It's creepy the way you talk. It's as if you dont want your pure genes tainted by some common street rat. Peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...It's the ones who leave a cult that are often suicidal and have difficulty functioning in society, while those on the inside enjoy the illusion of freedom and happiness, until they wake up and realize it's bullshit. Then those in the cult will say, "of course he's depressed and suicidal, he's estranged from God" or some shit like that; That's the flaw in your logic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...I like this analogy, because honestly, that's a hard choice. Variety versus a potential lifetime supply only your favorite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:20 AM |
| -2 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...Wanting love and finding it are two different things. It's easy to get burned and never find that elusive thing. Your seemingly satisfied couples of so many years still do wrong by each other, still cheat, still betray, still grow to resent. They just put a pretty face on a practical economic/sexual partnership with someone they don't necessarily have to like. All because comments like this. I'm sure you know a lot of men, but that's still a poor sample size. In any case, I think it's absurd to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyHow do you know? Can you read the secret intentions of the heart? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyWhat I'm saying is the two are one and the same. In the first scenario, the woman in question describes it as the second scenario. And the same thing does happen when you flip the genders. It's called Sour Grapes. People like to exaggerate their misfortunes to gain extra attention when it benefits them. Unfortunately, it less often benefits men to do so. People tend to behave in ways society rewards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 02:36 AM |
| 0 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyThank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 08:31 AM |
| 0 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyFaking relationships to get sex sounds like that Key and Peele skit where the bank robbers get jobs at the bank to get money from a paycheck. That makes no sense. Lol. Stop degrading the word "gaslighting" and cheapening it. Some people are actual abuse survivors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 08:31 AM |
| 0 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyDone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyI do very well in my dating life, never looked up trp. But because I do well, I can tell you from personal experience that in general women dont trust and they lie. They see relationships in an adversarial context instead of a partnership or something true. They want power over you. I do well, but I've not yet found a woman (that I know of) who wasn't sneaky and deceitful. I still hold out hope, because plenty of women have never met a good man either. But I know goodness and maturity is out the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:54 AM |
| -4 | The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneakyWomen say men lie about being in love, because no woman will ever admit she just fucked up. He was until she probably showed her true colors. Then she turns around and accuses him of manipulation and of course everyone sides with her and believes her and the man is not only heartbroken, but completely shat on. Like period diarrhea shat on. It's no different from "he doesn't like me? He must be gay" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudYou're correct. Edit: just to be clear, comparing two things isn't meant to imply the two things are equal or identical or the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudIs it abusive to deceive your partner and commit paternity fraud intentionally? yes 100%. Is it sexual abuse? no. You're correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudYou've been speaking in legal terms. I've been speaking from an ethics point of view. That seems to be the disconnect. Edit: also, yes, it is debatable, like most things. That's why I made sure to add "in my opinion". That's also why I'm here on a debate sub debating about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudI'm sorry I didn't respond to that. I condemn that. I dont know how many red pillers will listen to me, but it is important to condemn wrongdoing. I apologize for not acknowledging the issue you highlighted. But it kind of reinforces my point. I was thinking more along the lines of the movie "revenge of the nerds" in which a nerd dresses up in a Halloween costume the same as the woman's boyfriend and impersonates him in order to deceive her into sex. That's rape in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudI'm talking about consent to procreate. A better analogy would be a man removing a condom during sex without the other party's knowledge or consent. In such a situation, consenting to sex does not equal consent to unprotected sex or pregnancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudYes. That's what I'm saying. The double negative makes my comment easy to misunderstand. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 09:00 PM |
| 7 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudIt's deception that would alter the status of consent had the facts been known. Violation of consent is violation of consent whether you believe it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudI fucking love that. You are a wonderful person. And what I'm getting at is that the whole reason sex feels great is that people who are born asexual dont tend to reproduce and pass on their genes. You come from a long, long chain of organisms that also happened to love the mechanism by which reproduction is facilitated. Basically, it's not a conscious thing. It's inherited instinct. Same way females are drawn to males with a lot of resources. I say females referring to not just humans. It's all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 0 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudWhy are you a parent? Why do you possess a sex drive? (I'm assuming) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 07:22 PM |
| 4 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudNot the only reason. But it makes as much sense to saddle the responsibility on literally any other man. We're not out here to just raise all the children. We serve as examples and role models, but literally unknowingly being a surrogate and cuckoo'd (not cuckolded, though that's included. But cuckoo'd, as in the bird who lays their egg in another bird's nest, and has the other bird raise it as its own.) It is a gross injustice, not unlike rape by deception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudIt matters enormously to every single living organism whether they know it or not. You just become aware of it when your paternal instincts are triggered... if you're in touch with your instincts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 07:03 PM |
| 6 | If your romantic frustrations are causing your sadness then YES, handling this part of your life WILL get rid of the sadnessBecause women respond to this issue with fear rather than empathy, thinking men will become sex-crazed and do away with their notions of consent. This is the kind of thing women are taught to think about. They're not taught to put themselves in mens' shoes. If they did, they'd realize they also complain about being alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:45 PM |
| 0 | What's your opinion of "The Man" by Taylor Swift?I can see how it'd appear that way to someone with a narrower gait. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/08/22 11:35 AM |
| 0 | What's your opinion of "The Man" by Taylor Swift?Yes, but people often co-opt forms of hate in order to use the full force of society to hurt a person. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/08/22 05:23 AM |
| -5 | What's your opinion of "The Man" by Taylor Swift?Fair, but as a Swiftie myself, I gotta say, she is an underdog in her given arena. Taylor specifically has received a ton of mysogyny. A lot of it comes from jealous women, some from jealous men I'm sure. But everyone is a winner in some way, shape, or form. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/08/22 01:37 AM |
| 6 | Do any woman here follow Female Dating Strategy? If you do, how is your dating life? What kind of men do you attract?Good for you! Loving yourself often entails and sculpting yourself into someone you admire. Insecurity is what tells somebody they have to stay how they are or else that means they're not loving themselves, but that couldn't be further from the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.So do men, but it isn’t acceptable behavior no matter who it is. I agree. But when men do it, we lock them up for being rapists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.For someone who never gave a damn, you sure do got a big chip on your shoulder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.Lol. I'm talkin about in general. If women didn't pursue me, I wouldn't know how bad most of them are at taking rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 12:40 PM |
| 13 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.men who damn near shrivel up and die when rejected. Women are incapable of even putting themselves into a position to be rejected. That's why they dont pursue men. They also tend to freak out when they dont get sex, but this behavior is normalized for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 02:31 PM |
| 9 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.In my opinion, it's not so much that domestic things are less important. But the pressures society and other men put on men, mean that men are more focused on making sure their woman has a house to decorate however she wants in the first place, and the smaller details (though no less significant) generally go to the woman because women have that set of societal pressures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 02:26 PM |
| 8 | I wish feminists would just be honest and say they want superiority and not equal rightsHuman feminist here. We need to support men and call out shitty feminists. It's not about owing anyone anything. It's about treating others the way you would like to be treated. That's it. You want a listening ear? Humanization? Benefit of the doubt? Are you giving MRAs those things? | /r/MensRights | 26/06/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Society is being atomized for the benefit of the elite | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Women say that. But truthfully, in real life, I've mostly seen women defending the guilty men in their lives. Same thing with supporting other women. They say they do, but then they tear each other down and act competitively. Feminism is an ideology, like Christianity. People virtue signal to the extreme because they know deep down that in real life, they dont always hold perfectly or consistently to the ideology, though some try very hard, and internalized misogyny makes it difficult. I've had … | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Yeah. A lotta feminists dont realize giving women certain rights actually does take away rights from men. Like you said about "believing her" fundementally meaning guilty until proven innocent. Same thing with childcare. My kid's mom has the choice to be a stay-at-home mom or work. I, in theory, have the same choice, but obviously it doesn't work like that, as giving the woman the choice means the man is left with the other option, hence he now has no choice. The unfortunate thing is that in the… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | As a man, I think the men here greatly underestimate the fundamental advantages of being a man in society......It differs from man to man. You dont have to be immune. You just have to be a less easy target. Being confident helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:18 PM |
| 16 | To the feminists here that are constantly trying to shit on men having equal rights… why?Fellow feminist here. Mens rights groups were formed not to attack feminism, but to emulate feminism to address men's issues. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. We saw feminism working and giving women a voice and power to change the system for the good, and as misogynistic views faded and men started looking up to women as examples, then men started being more conscious of their rights in the same way. There is still misogyny in men's rights groups. No denying that. There's also misan… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 2 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?I hate the paternalistic slant in this thinking, but it's fuckin true (most of the time). Women want sex like anyone else. So giving them sex is a good thing. But sex often triggers feelings of love in women, biologically. So over time, the dynamic changes. The woman feels that sex is now a token, and enough tokens deposited earns her a relationship. We have to sometimes protect women from themselves (as paternalistic and condescending as that sounds) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on this?Not very long ago, it was black men who had to veer clear when seeing a white woman coming down the street. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/06/22 07:30 AM |
| 12 | Thoughts on this?No. But identity does, and gay is the only thing seperating him from being a cis het white man. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/06/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you give a flying fuck about anxiety over paternity uncertainty?It's a slap in the face to be able to take for granted your certainty that your offspring is yours, even enjoying the privilege of pregnancy, labor, and childbirth, and then when a man just wants official confirmation that he is his child's father, to basically say, "fuck you. Take my word for it." Because of course, a woman stands to gain everything from it. She has every reason to lie. That's the real reason a reasonable accommodation is treated as a slap in the face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 10:44 AM |
| 11 | TwoX is encouraging rage among it’s 12 million members.Holy shit. I knew only certain emotions were allowed, and I knew being stoic is the best way to handle it to avoid being emotionally blackmailed. And I've been making the connection between that and power. And this comment you made just made it all nicely click into place in a single sentence. Jesus Christ. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Gotcha. That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?That's good to hear. You'd know better than I. I guess its just that I never hear women talk about the good guys. I hear about toxic masculinity, unsolicited dick pics, etc. I think the younger generations are much better though. Which gives me some hope for my daughter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Not the majority of men. But I'd argue the majority of men women deal with. I think sex pests and "nice guys" are overrepresented in women's DMs everywhere. So they're more visible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Yikes! And I'm not right in general. Just in a handful of cases, there's bound to be some room for doubt. I'd hazard to guess probably the majority of men women deal with are like your douchbag bday boy. Like, sorry I should've treated you like shit so you wouldn't be lead on, I'll get on that right away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Are men really bad at over/underestimating a woman's interest?Just to be clear, often men dont take friendly gestures as signs of interest, but simply have found someone special (the kind of person who would help you clean up when no one else would). That's objectively special. Of course a man would be instantly interested in a rare gem of a person like that. Women are kind often. But not to men, because of the situation you described. So when a woman does do something kind for a man out of pure goodness of her heart, she'll seem like a rare thing. Men lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Well, I cant say there aren't plenty of shitty dads out there. And step fathers really do deserve more credit. I hope your friend isn't too heartbroken. He's a good father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?Try being down on your luck financially when you have a kid as a man. I had to fight tooth and nail just to be able to see my kid and was still called a deadbeat by my inlaws. People are so full of shit. I'm really glad to see this daughter values family over money. Not saying she doesn't owe stepdad a great debt. But she doesn't owe him a certain place in her heart or to be treated like a dad. He deserves to be treated like a king for what he did. But that doesn't make him a dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?To be fair, if someone already has a dad, you cant buy a kid. You cant squeeze your way into replacing their actual father, just because you're banging their mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 09:02 AM |
| 7 | thoughts on Johnny Depp trialNo one wants to hear your whataboutism or your, "BuT mEn AbuSe tOo!" rhetoric. All you're doing is intentionally derailing and minimizing a very real problem that needs to be talked about. You can discuss women's rights at any time you want. There's no need to bring it up when a discussion is about women perpetrating abuse on men. It's incredibly tone deaf and tasteless. Why cant we talk about men's issues without making sure women's issues are discussed instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 05:19 AM |
| 7 | thoughts on Johnny Depp trialalllivesmatter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.I think anytime you're looking at men who listen to "dating coaches" and podcasts, you're gonna find men like that. It would naturally come with the territory. The kind of man you probably want is likely not in need of a coach. That's not even how dating works. It's not a competition. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.This data doesn't really suggest women's preferences are looks-based, though I can see how you'd extrapolate that. Women choose based on what looks tell them about a person. Even the unfair tallness preference is, while shallow, not necessarily based on physical attraction so much as experiential. Women's attraction is, in general, said to be more experiential. Not to say looks dont matter to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.I have never come across the kind of men to which you refer. But I'm old and lonely, so that tracks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.I never said looks dont matter to women and I said "in general". I get this idea from women. I believe women about their own experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 11:07 PM |
| 0 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.Women in general aren't as looks-focused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 01:36 PM |
| 7 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.An astute observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 06:02 AM |
| 27 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.Everyone wants to feel needed emotionally by those closest to them. Really, this whole comment just shows that women dont think men need that. All you see is "either financially provide or dont". But both a woman saying she doesn't need you and a woman just using you for your money literally both cause the same feeling of emotional distance, like you're either a paycheck they need or an accessory they want. Some men just want to feel needed on a deeper level, but men are treated as replaceable/d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:18 AM |
| 19 | Women, what do you don't understand about men.When you think about it, it'd be kind of absurd for all men to like the same one thing, when women come in all different shapes and sizes. It's not as though there's some one-size-fits-all template for attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Prostitution and mainstream datingI agree with you. I dont look down on sex workers or those who use sex workers. Imo, it's just more honest than marriage. Marriage mostly started out as a form of sex slavery where daughters were used as currency and peace/alliance offerings. It just morphed into this dumb romanticized arrangement. Incredibly disgusting when you really think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 04:18 AM |
| 6 | Is there any research on girls and bad boys?"An intellectual is a person who has discovered something more interesting than sex." --Aldous Huxley | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Do women realize how little maintenance men need to be statistically faithful?Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What every man wants and what very few get….perhapsVictim blaming and strawmanning rather than trying to actually understand. What if I said women's fears of walking alone at night are the result of their own fear-mongering? Men are more likely to be victims of violent crime. Even though this is the case, I would be a shitty person if I told women their fears are not unique to women. Instead, I would try to use empathy and compassion and not make it all about me. You should try it sometime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | What every man wants and what very few get….perhapsTalk to someone who has transitioned from female to male. They could describe it better than I can. In fact, there's a post by a trans-masc person describing this very thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 12:44 PM |
| 0 | What every man wants and what very few get….perhapsDid I say anything about sex at all? Or are you replying to the wrong comment by accident? And building "genuine connections" doesn't cure the kind of loneliness I'm talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 10:00 AM |
| 1 | What every man wants and what very few get….perhapsI wouldn't say that. Any man can be sexually attractive. And even a physically attractive man can be sexually unattractive. Or become sexually unattractive. It isn't 1-to-1 with looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 02:12 AM |
| 6 | What every man wants and what very few get….perhapsDont think of it like that. People treat unattractive people normally. How they treat attractive people is simply an exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 01:30 AM |
| 0 | What every man wants and what very few get….perhapsI found this to be true. Women will never realize the psychological impact of just being a man at all. They never experience that kind of loneliness. And that's not something you can talk away with a therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 01:28 AM |
| 8 | women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit.Wasn't there at least one incel who made a manifesto and killed a bunch of people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:20 PM |
| -1 | women (and guys) are you currently leading someone on that you don't have feelings for? if so, why? be honest this is reddit.I honestly love this. I love it when people make unfounded claims and once it's out there, I'm like, "well, I wouldn't want to make you a liar" if they're already saying it about you, then let em have it, I say. I'm gonna have to start doing this with man-haters. It felt so good dumping my ex when she was on that "men are trash" bullshit. You are my hero! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want/need commitment?I got my daughter a set of toy construction equipment to play with. Her grandfather can teach her how to operate just about anything. Her momma's an excellent driver. I think my daughter might have a decent shot at being a heavy equipment operator. I just hope she never has to deal with a terrible accident. I fear for her. So I have mixed feelings. But she is the toughest child I've ever seen, and I see great potential no matter what path in life she chooses. Here's to the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Why do women want/need commitment?Take it from someone who's been in the trades, they aint always what they're cracked up to be. Your body pays dearly for a lotta that shit. It was workin with these old guys, bodies fallin apart, on pain pills, still workin, still struggling some; that made me give up workin in the trades. Even they aren't what they used to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want/need commitment?....idk about all that. But then people say the same thing about shit I say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want/need commitment?Lol. Now you're embracing your worldview and trying to use it against me as if I think like that too. I dont care for gold-diggers. And if that's having standards, then most women dont meet those standards as their husband makes more. The only standard here is a double standard. I prefer women who value actual equality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Why do women want/need commitment?Lmao. I'm sorry you're splitting hairs and trying to double down. Lol. It's obvious what you meant. You see it on FDS all the time. "High value males" are such because of money. I take classism personal, yes. Because people like you make it shitty for the rest of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 01:10 PM |
| -1 | Why do women want/need commitment?Lmao. He said "makes less". And broke is a temporary state of lack of funds. It doesn't really have an effect on lifestyle. You didn't say poorer but it's exactly what you meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do women want/need commitment?It's all biological. Women seek men with resources for security/child raising. The reasons given are just rationalizations that dont really mean anything. If it did, men would feel the same way. Men truly are independent. Women have a choice to be. If you have a choice, what's the more appealing choice? To be taken care of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do women want/need commitment?Calling people poorer than you not your equals is kind of gross, just saying. You could use any other word that doesn't devalue human beings just because they exploit the capitalist system less than the greedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 12:30 PM |
| 4 | Why do women want/need commitment?To me, it means the same level of trust, respect & dedication you would expect from close friends and family. This is what I crave from commitment. But in my experience, women in general will never ever trust, respect, or dedicate themselves to a man the same way they do family and friends. They want that from men, but it's often one-way. Same with emotional support, often. It's really easy for a man to get sour, feeling women are only after money, because that's exactly the message they get fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?That's why I say it's an interesting topic, intersectionally. Thank you for bringing up this point. We really need cultural change and education. Laws only punish. So I feel like a woman making the choice to abort a baby because it's female..... I'm picturing a rural village. A poor pregnant woman, perhaps the victim of sexual assault and with no partner, no means of support. She may mistakenly see a boy as a good investment who can work to support her eventually. Women can work too, but histori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 08:18 PM |
| 9 | What will happen when technology reaches a point where you can choose your baby’s gender?This is an interesting point, intersectionally. In my opinion, it's no different from sterilizing black people--a form of eugenics/genocide. It's not what you're doing to the fetus. It's what you're doing to the sex as a whole, with harmful real world effects. It's attacking a demographic and devaluing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | The idea that it is suddenly common for women to have body counts in the 20+ range by the time they settle down is greatly exaggerated if not altogether a myth, most women have less than 10 sexual partners in their lifetime.Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 08:56 PM |
| 27 | The idea that it is suddenly common for women to have body counts in the 20+ range by the time they settle down is greatly exaggerated if not altogether a myth, most women have less than 10 sexual partners in their lifetime.Yeah. I'm a slightly above-average-looking, poor, mostly socially inept, man-passing person. But I've got my "body count" from 1 to around 15 in the last four years or so. If I were born with female parts, I feel like it'd be impossible to keep the count so low unless you really just hate casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Opposite-sex friendships: study shows males are significantly more sexually attracted to their female friends than the other way around but males are romantically attracted to their opposite-sex friends as much as femalesWell, I appreciate you sharing and unpacking all that for me. I'm sorry that that's the case for you. You shouldn't feel ashamed for something beyond your control, or have your feelings invalidated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Opposite-sex friendships: study shows males are significantly more sexually attracted to their female friends than the other way around but males are romantically attracted to their opposite-sex friends as much as femalesWell, I cant say that's not your right. And honestly idk how to feel about it. I once had a white female (platonic) friend in high school confide in me (a mixed race person of color) about a "bunch of black guys" on the street making fun of her boyfriend and her being so scared. Like, on the one hand, I get it... on the other hand, fuck you for bringing a whole subset of the population into it... maybe you cant control your discomfort, the way a vietnam vet with ptsd cant comtrol his discomfort … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 04:56 AM |
| 4 | Opposite-sex friendships: study shows males are significantly more sexually attracted to their female friends than the other way around but males are romantically attracted to their opposite-sex friends as much as femalesWhy is that? Other than misandry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Opposite-sex friendships: study shows males are significantly more sexually attracted to their female friends than the other way around but males are romantically attracted to their opposite-sex friends as much as femalesYou seem to have misread. Female friends that find YOU attractive. Not the other way around. I've heard the way gay/bisexual women talk about their friends. Women are just not portrayed the same way as men in pop culture. But they lust after their female friends the same way men do. You just don't notice it for what it is. Whereas any attention from a man can be easily construed as making a pass. I.e. "excuse me--" being met with "I have a boyfriend!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Opposite-sex friendships: study shows males are significantly more sexually attracted to their female friends than the other way around but males are romantically attracted to their opposite-sex friends as much as femalesI absolutely hate that women do this. It makes me feel othered and excluded. And I'm not even a real man (amab nonbinary). Then I realized I was doing the same thing to my gay friends, so I started breaking down my unnecessary boundaries, treating them like the grown people they are, and I discovered I'm a little gay myself. And gay men have all the positives that come with female friends and none of the negatives (like feeling othered/excluded). And there's even some perks I dont normally get w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 02:59 AM |
| 0 | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketAnd there's plenty of shitty men who find and keep hvw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketI'm sorry. I'm biased by my own experience, since I'm not most men. I thought fds women differentiated between high value and low value. Presumably, the ones they're divorcing are low value, and the ones they'd want to keep are high value. So really, these are two seperate groups. Women can keep lvm, but it doesn't mean they can keep a hvm, because there's plenty of fish in the sea for a hvm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketIt depends. Looks are definitely the gatekeeper. But once her true colors come out.. being ugly on the inside makes a person way less attractive. Whenever I've broken up with an attractive but toxic woman, she'd seem surprised she didn't have me wrapped around her finger. Then, she'll act like I was pretending to like her or leading her on or what have you, because it couldn't possibly be that a shitty personality pushes people away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 05:36 PM |
| – | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketWomen seem to labor under the assumption that looks are all that matter to men. Women may be able to attract a man, but they definitely could use some pointers on how to keep a quality man. Love at first sight is a myth. Thankfully, most of these fds type women vet themselves out. If they are rejected, it'll be sour grapes and they'll learn nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 05:53 AM |
| 23 | Men don't have problemsLook at the hashtag | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 11:18 PM |
| 33 | Porn use negatively affects men's sexual satisfaction in actual real-life sexWhy is it then, that women complain of being groped by their partners at inopportune times? Foreplay can start hours/days before the actual act. But some women seem to think if it's not time for sex, then sexual touching or anything suggestive is seen as an annoyance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.Oh! Gotcha. I've had like one ONS but not drunkenly. But yeah, that's a big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.I disagree. But I enjoy the company of women generally, so it's not really any effort. The sex was just a bonus and honestly very enjoyable. But mainly, I'm glad I got experience under my belt before I met my soulmate. Casual sex is great for men. It's practice with less pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 05:56 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.Having started out my sex life with mostly casual sex partners, but now finding myself in a long term monogamous relationship (that started out as fwb), the sex gets better and better and I would never in a million years, trade the long, exciting romance I have now, for any amount of casual sex with anyone. There's no comparison. The more we come to know each other, the better it gets. People who enjoy casual sex just don't know what they're missing. Also, regarding the orgasm gap, that can happ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 03:53 AM |
| 2 | What do men mean when they say they want sympathy for their dating issues?Oh. Yeah. No. That's definitely different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 02:52 AM |
| 2 | What do men mean when they say they want sympathy for their dating issues?Are you talking about sex or attention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/21 12:30 AM |
| 2 | What do men mean when they say they want sympathy for their dating issues?This is good to know. I guess I've been giving my partner too much sex and validation... is that why I'm not getting attention and a real relationship? Sometimes I feel like a commodity. I've been with the same person for a couple years and we started out as nsa/friends with benefits. But we've been serious for a couple years. Have a kid together and everything. Lived together just fine. But as time has gone on, apparently, all my appeal has worn off 🙃 I guess I should've known when I found out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 11:28 PM |
| 20 | Respecting WomenI'm almost 6'2 In giant culture, it's common practice to grind bones of men to make bread, so this statement holds up. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | In the Spring of 1900, Yaa Asantewaa, Queen and ruler of the Ashanti people, convinced women to refuse sex from men who didn't sign up to fight in a war with the BritishWell put | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/21 09:33 PM |
| 9 | In the Spring of 1900, Yaa Asantewaa, Queen and ruler of the Ashanti people, convinced women to refuse sex from men who didn't sign up to fight in a war with the BritishI agree with this. However, the instinct to procreate often supercedes the instinct to survive, evolutionarily speaking. Survival of the species is built in to us. The people who would rather live than have sex may never get the opportunity for the latter, while the ones who say, "doesn't matter, got laid" leave behind war orphans, thus passing along their genes to the next generation though their own lives are cut short. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Being a male fucking sucksWe are society. We make society everyday | /r/MensRights | 19/09/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | This is 100% true, I asked feminists what they thought of MRAs and they hate our guts and think we’re women haters. This was commented on a post showing how boys are not graded fairly compared to girls in school (that post got massively reported)It's not honor so much as just doing things right and not hurting others in the process like we've been hurt. And no, I have not let myself be devestated by feminism. I've been greatly affected by it. But I haven't allowed it to radicalize me. You think I don't understand your pain, but that's exactly what I'm trying to prevent--pain. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/20 10:50 AM |
| 2 | This is 100% true, I asked feminists what they thought of MRAs and they hate our guts and think we’re women haters. This was commented on a post showing how boys are not graded fairly compared to girls in school (that post got massively reported)I understand where you're coming from. But that's how all movements start--slowly. Until people get impatient and start pushing their agenda so hard it gains enough momentum to keep going and going until it's past the point of equality and becomes self-serving and retaliatory. This is exactly what happened with feminism, and you want to recreate it. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/20 10:40 AM |
| 1 | This is 100% true, I asked feminists what they thought of MRAs and they hate our guts and think we’re women haters. This was commented on a post showing how boys are not graded fairly compared to girls in school (that post got massively reported)The ends don't justify the means imo. People learn more by example. You'll get a more effective result, sure. But you will justify feminists actions by mirroring them, and then it becomes a race to the bottom... which is what most US politics is these days. You can turn your nose up at diplomacy, but it makes you feel better at the end of the day to have been the bigger man. Trust me on that. Feminism is a societal overcorrection that is now getting pushback. We don't need to overcorrect too. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/20 10:25 AM |
| 5 | This is 100% true, I asked feminists what they thought of MRAs and they hate our guts and think we’re women haters. This was commented on a post showing how boys are not graded fairly compared to girls in school (that post got massively reported)So your solution is what? Draconian Men's rights advocacy? Becoming the very thing you despise? I don't come with a knife. I come in peace. You destroy an enemy when you make a friend of him. That is real power. You just dont see it because you are weak and fearful. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 8 | This is 100% true, I asked feminists what they thought of MRAs and they hate our guts and think we’re women haters. This was commented on a post showing how boys are not graded fairly compared to girls in school (that post got massively reported)Or we could be the change we wish to see instead of recreating everything wrong with feminism. Don't play the game at all. Play your own game with better rules. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 14 | This is 100% true, I asked feminists what they thought of MRAs and they hate our guts and think we’re women haters. This was commented on a post showing how boys are not graded fairly compared to girls in school (that post got massively reported)I agree. I don't really hate feminism or love feminism. Frankly, I dont care for ideologies in general, but I recognize their usefulness and power in greater society. My SO is a feminist. I love her. She doesn't try to change me. And in turn, I don't try to change her. I love her as she is. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/20 02:54 PM |
| 8 | Men are not trusted with children while women are considered automatically to be good carers.Unknown men fit the classic "drifter" stereotype of untrusted stranger. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 03:00 AM |
| 17 | Men are not trusted with children while women are considered automatically to be good carers.That's infuriating | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 02:56 AM |
| 3 | We need to turn father's day into father's rights day until fathers are given equal rightsWhat's meant by "keep your donuts"? I seem to be out of the loop on that one | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/06/20 02:08 AM |
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