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Some are helping themselves, some are more entitled. I disagree with your second paragraph. Young men choose to not be social and form connections, no one is stopping them. I'd be open to discussing this more in DMs if you're up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:28 PM
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My message is to a specific demographic on here, it might not apply at all to you. This subreddit is about blue/redpill which is mainly about coming to terms with life's harsh truths. Also I'm not implying parents help you find a relationship or even socialize but we can sometimes adopt unhelpful worldviews from them about anything. Please be more cognizant that not everything has to relate to you, Thanks. Yes, some of you were probably given misleading ideas and advice by your parents, media, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:24 PM
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This is foremost a reminder to myself, not everything is going to exactly apply to you. Firstly you operate under some kind of global equality metric where you measure yourself and circumstances to certain guys who had much better predispositions, this is the biggest mistake. Measure against yourself, possibly your peer group (acquaintance, friend of friend) for some calibration. X group somewhere has it easier doesn't mean it's not worthwhile for YOU to do now. If you want something you will go…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:42 PM
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I don't understand people like you. Me, I'm lazy about everything, at 32 I've never put effort into any aspect of life. You grinded in your studies, then at work, and that also involved dealing with people. Why is it hard for you to use the little time you have and put effort into social/group-hobby/dating? And if you're actually going to be FIRE soon, can't you just find a different role where you get more time and can spend energy on the other aspects of life? There must be SOMETHING you care …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:26 AM
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Thoughts on this viewpoint? https://np.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/s/mVWoNQMZy9
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 02:13 AM
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theres many other upload sites, one is imgbb which has auto-delete after a certain time period
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:26 AM
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Daphne Velma effect https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BJ7NS9mgdQ
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:34 AM
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I see two Possibilities: 1) You're in a culture where women complimenting men they're attractive is weird or uncommon, and they're shy to break the norm. Or due to your background/circles you attract the religious/reserved/introverted type. 2) Women can sense things that others cant, they see you look attractive and well put together however your body language, presence, behaviour are not attractive. The incoherence might even make it worse and confusing, similar to how ugly confident guys piss …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:44 PM
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reduce it to only 3 varied options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:53 AM
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Im not sure tbh, you'd have to ask the doc
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:10 PM
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Not excusing it, analysing it. Plus they can post all the vitriol they want online or hearing 'men are trash' in person. Unless it starts affecting my livelihood or security I will simply shrug it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:37 PM
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When women make these, they dont infringe on my rights and I shrug it off. What I did was just analyse possible reasons for the trend, I'm well aware they want men taller than them. As for the backlash against men posting about standards, yeh i got no answer for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:33 PM
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Save a horse, ride a cowboy https://youtu.be/mFRxRS8IkPU?feature=shared&t=27
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:16 PM
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its a blood test to check for thyroid hormone levels. if theyre too low or high you could have energy level issues
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:46 AM
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get thyroid checked too just in case
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:13 AM
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Nope I'm accountable, havent done enough with my personality to be fun, interesting, secure and so on. Won't speak for other men but my dating results are completely my responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:51 AM
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Yeh it is harder, you'll have to be more open minded to try things that both men and women show up to. Your location and what your job allows will also play a role. As for learning social skills as pertains to women, its pretty much trial and error. Theres no handbook but don't sell yourself short, you can definitely learn it all still.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:14 AM
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College life experience is a very recently invented phenomenon. School already is pretty weird and relatively new but college takes it a step further. Chances are you wouldnt enjoy those things, it favours a certain type of person who is extroverted, high risk takers, need stimulation. One thing you probably could take advantage of is networking for business reasons but even if you didn't do that, its not a big deal. As for making good lifelong friends, you cant really force that. If you happene…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:20 AM
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I'll give you my take. I've been 6 ft since I was 16, i'm 32 now and still a virgin, I might as well have been a shorty and it would have made no difference to my life with women. It may have prevented some bullying attempts from other men though Anyway as for this trend, it really does seem like that generation of women really don't have many metrics to compare or judge quality of men so they go by height, hairstyle and those tiktoks seem like exaggerated jokes. I don't think they actually beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 06:05 AM
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what type? i've only ever used the handheld one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:54 PM
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I tried replika AI, i'm afraid it wasn't that good. Just my opinion but the best AI doll won't replace a real woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:57 PM
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oh i meant for me, i dont think you shoud force anyone to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:54 PM
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i wouldnt be against the first one but old school warfare was much cooler with swords, shields and charging armies. edited: for myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:45 PM
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To be fair though, alot of those men just want something sexual which might not even be satisfying for the woman. As for those guys that wanted companionship yeh its rough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:30 AM
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gratitude is mostly a mental state. Religion helps though you dont need a God to be grateful to. Experiencing what unluckier people live like helps. But it is also the language in your head like "I have to do x" vs "I get to do x". Being upset with something negative in your life doesnt have to contradict still having enthusiasm for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:24 AM
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i read or heard somewhere that allowing yourself to get angry there and then is a form of instant gratification. another reason i thought of is with victim mentality people dont have to do much work or change their habits and can put it on others to change
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:58 AM
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I've been in that situation. I'd just call it default life, discontentment or struggle have always been the standard state. I think the people there who got more possibly worked more on being better or got lucky. That's okay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:58 AM
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You'll be more at peace when you don't need people to recognize any inequalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:42 AM
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thought of the day - i'm not sure of the reasons behind it but indignation can be addictive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:36 PM
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Assuming they did, people want what they want. Do you think it would have any impact?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:44 PM
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have a go-getter attitude in life despite setbacks and unfairness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:20 PM
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Isolation can be peaceful, especially since you can curate your social needs somewhat online. But in the long run you should consider that working on social skills and improving them will help you in every aspect of life going forward, I doubt everything will be robots in the near future. People will still be apathetic towards you but thats just how it's always been, unfair and tough I assume you want to survive and avoid suffering in the future and for that you need to be able to deal with peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:04 AM
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I don't think her rejecting you in the past is important here. She might have had a different set of values and we all make mistakes. The main thing that stands out to me is mental health crisis, does she have a personality disorder or was it circumstantial difficulties? I wouldn't invest too much here, yeh she needs supportive friends but you don't owe her that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:00 AM
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I'm going to play devil's advocate here. Her brain isn't developed yet, thats 25 buddy. Also how long have you known each other? If you knew each other since she was like 18/19 you must have used some smart manipulation tactics to make her want you. Very unethical what you're doing, a bad bad man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:49 PM
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that Jonathan Meijers guy is technically succeeding genetically https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/world-news/serial-sperm-donor-who-fathered-30277408 They say throughout history theres been at least 10 other men like genghis khan who have a genetic legacy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:51 PM
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Im impressed at his knowledge, start mewing early
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:00 PM
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GigaChads of ppd walking into a club np.reddit.com/r/interestingasfuck/comments/1dr1hq3/how_a_breeding_bull_is_greeted_by_pasture_full_of/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:57 AM
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lol https://np.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/1dq1ewc/meirl/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 09:18 PM
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tall and white. But anyway thats all I remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:45 PM
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he did one bout a year or two ago. Looked average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:42 PM
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Peeking after a while. Looks like a new crowd except a dozen recognizable names. Steady growth on the followers too! I suspect the growth will continue as red pill becomes more mainstream, more people refer to it or make videos about it. Then other people will eventually find purplepill and this sub. Interestingly enough most people don't know much about the original TRP and the archived posts. When referring to "those red pill guys" the images they show are Tate, Myron, Pearl. They're starting …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:48 AM
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Stop rewarding women's bad behaviour. Punish them, no ultimatums, no arguments, just pure action (or inaction if you're walking away)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:50 PM
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https://youtu.be/YL-OfZA7u3U first few mins
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 03:21 PM
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watch the videos, he doesnt even talk about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:59 PM
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its just a lazy one word counterargument to someone providing reasons and solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:56 PM
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reality hurts normie brains
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:51 PM
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😈
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:42 PM
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even the "progressives" are noticing and yet loads of people on ppd are in denial https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xmw_1wfUmFs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DBG1Wgg32Ok I really hope its too late to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:36 PM
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in this case its most likely a manchild but in others it wont be so clear since its a vague social concept made up of many signs. Like i said they probably have the same life experience, though as the woman she probably got more life and relationship experience as with her innate beauty she can open more doors quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:27 AM
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we talk about body count all the time .. oh wait you don't mean how many bodies we've put 6 feet under. nevermind
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:22 AM
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your logic doesnt really work for example what if theres a 30 year old who isnt working and just doing a course while living at home, has no car or place. clearly he is at the same life stage as the 18/19 year old in your scenario and they should be perfect for each other and have similar experience. Lets pretend the 30 year old was at playing games or random shit where hes stunted, plus women are usually a decade ahead in maturity. see what i mean? simply looking at financial dependence is too …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:17 AM
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The world summit discussing N count. It is top priority issue now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:55 PM
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it used to be having and raising babies, taking care of the home. today its nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:01 AM
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the world works on what is, not what should be
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:06 PM
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i half agree. i would say marriage is definitely a scam. relationships are extremely one sided in benefit. the main benefit for a man is sex sometimes and some experience for the future. "dating" as in spending money, effort and time only benefits the woman. The best arrangement is simply having many women in your social network and phone. so in case one sometime is lonely, horny, needs a rebound, sees you as the non-weirdo guy, etc. she'll hit you up to meet up and fuck. I know I made it sound …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:31 PM
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its weird to women because they dont see or experience sexual desire like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:22 PM
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nah i wish i was a trust fund baby with no living relatives so i can live alone in peace and never leave the house. fuck the experiences and glamour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:21 PM
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people have been brainwashed well today to believe that women see cheating the same way as men. or that having multiple sexual partners affects men the same way as women. we dont have the solid science to prove it yet but we have thousands of years of human wisdom from every culture. surely they knew nothing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:19 PM
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anyone watching the whatever podcast tonight?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:18 PM
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shes going to leave him when the kid turns ~7. He will be zeroed out in every sense. she will teach her kid(s) a narrative that makes him and men look bad and raise the next generation of awful humans. Dear God I trade any good deeds I may have for this, please make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:17 PM
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marrying.. in america or europe. lol ok buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:13 PM
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I hate the oily look lol. Also non-tight non-firm fat asses are ugly to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:31 PM
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But is it really serious mental illness or more so saying they have things to play victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:30 PM
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Fair point but you are here. You don't need to contribute but it seems like the most sensible, practical and moral decision from every angle. The opposite mainly hurts you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:29 PM
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I think they quoted it rather than reply. Then again idk how Twitter works https://twitter.com/benshapiro/status/1653551871955435520?t=GqcFSVmWROq5Uyx5Y_YJXQ&s=19 https://twitter.com/MattWalshBlog/status/1653541245355016196?t=rjG7sY97L_BDo1S3J2cbTA&s=19
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:23 PM
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Just being the best version of themselves. Reaching their genetic potential. Contributing to society and it's needs Hard to do when you're a man in his 20s 30s doing the bare minimum to survive, just playing video games, watching porn, smoking, drinking and (insert sedation)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:13 PM
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https://twitter.com/RationalMale/status/1653442566896103425?t=Xkp2AA0RJKp-0lwWqSrgHQ&s=19 Lol it made Matt Walsh and Ben Shapiro respond.. among other people. 6 million views. I find the sedations one most interesting as everyone can agree that being deep in your escapism is hurting your potential in the real world. Isn't 25-29 technically the best time health wise and mentally for both men and women to have children and a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:59 PM
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Nothing is free. What u giving me in return
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:50 PM
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guess who's out of ppd dungeon for personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:04 PM
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the bonding process is temporary and it served a purpose : procreation. Predictions are at least half the women will be childless. Kinda moot now Violence is our monkey brains too? Whats your point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:22 PM
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Didn't shootings especially school shootings massively go up in the last 3 years? Gee I wonder if it has anything to do with domestic violence, broken families and bad parenting!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:18 PM
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But it can't when you make every individual self-sufficent and even able to have or raise kids alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:14 PM
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don't worry. best you stay in your bubble, ignorance is bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:12 PM
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ever seen a man break down when he loses a court case and cant see his kids due to absurd laws? then the kids grow up to be trash of society, drug addicts, prostitutes, gang members, on welfare. The mother dies without ever accepting what she did wrong. Only in today's era we get to witness such beauty. As we speak this is happening, families are breaking apart and abusers are filling in the void.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:11 PM
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the state of things today, the distrust, divorces, serial monogamy has proven that when men and women dont need each other for practical reasons the "love" is gone. Love is a shared mass psychosis by women and effeminate men. it is a delusion. I am so glad it is slowly dying. people are getting old and dying alone in their apartments and old homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:03 PM
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love is ultimately selfish anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:58 PM
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love is the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:53 PM
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not all https://youtu.be/iKVRc4WvCC8?t=11
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:41 PM
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How come? anhedonia?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:37 PM
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Who else is enjoying the decline? I smirk when I hear a man talking about how relationships aren't worth it. When a woman says she can't trust men with anything. I know the coupled ppders will deny it because they "see average people together outside all the time" but slowly the dissent will grow between males and females. Some will only use each other for sex or money. Its beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:30 PM
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They say generic comments about women. No personal attacks. But if you insist we'll go back to our extremist breeding grounds on the underground web instead of trying to understand each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:04 PM
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Say that to the millions of excess men in China and India?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:02 PM
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Well let's assume you're willing to lower to the most smelly, disgusting, old whale. It's more a matter of how much effort you're willing to put in order to give a good sexual experience or at least have transactional sex. Standards is only one part of the equation. Don't forget effort and right place, right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:00 PM
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This is one of the reasons why I like my job as an embalmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:25 AM
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Women should never have been given any power. Bring back the patriarchy through force. Subjective truth and reputation destruction. https://youtu.be/_XmSIx2Fccs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:23 AM
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do any of the men here make $5 million a year or more? https://www.youtube.com/live/YC2f4U8u2gU?feature=share&t=1843
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:43 AM
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depends on age. 27 and under you have a good case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:38 AM
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she didnt fall in your frame. a woman would be willing to check the show or concert you're interested in as she wants to be part of your natural lifestyle. mixed signals = not interested busy women who are interested will make time or she would have reached out after the first time and given you times to do something. this just sounds like a free foodie date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:36 AM
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i should go work on my autism!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:42 AM
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he/she means on the subreddit, most content is related to virgins or men without sex and relationships. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:36 AM
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sex havers got their thread. virgin thread when? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:31 AM
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did anyone catch this jubilee video?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:30 AM
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its not always porn, i knew a somewhat normal girl at uni who tried it for a bit but said she only did lewd shots. (no nipple or v, no sex). she stopped it pretty soon because someone was leaking it. another what i would call more eccentric girl was regularly meeting older men from seeking though. Bear in mind this age range is 18-24. These women werent starvin broke just sayin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:10 PM
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Keep blaming him lol, his bad decisions, his inadequacies, his "insecurity". Never the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:44 PM
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Women are always ungrateful for what men do for them. Don't love her too much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:40 PM
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Q4M - Whilst subs like exredpill, incelexit and bropill exist, ima ask you here. How much your life changed after discovering TRP or the manosphere concepts? Better same worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:54 AM
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no, the experience of life someone on high privileged or low socioeconomic status is vastly different. same with race, same with where they live. and in this case, the male and female life experience is vastly different
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:19 AM
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this goes beyond simply being rejected. You have no incentive to take guys' words on their experiences, you clearly have a great life which you post about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:54 AM
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i see it as only one part of the puzzle. to hyperfocus on it is being disingenuous to yourself. it will mostly make older you upset with your younger self
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:44 AM
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based on reality and realistic experiences which you will shoo away because of female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:39 AM
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i blame u op for all my failures
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:33 AM
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there may be one or two guys emphasizing looks or genetic determinism. but generally no, those groups have other secret places to hang out :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:32 AM
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and yet many women call each other biches in a friendly tone. you assume its evil just because it comes from a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:53 AM
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Everyone knows fries are the superior form of potato
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:41 AM
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not nearly as powerful as the ones men have. then again this is unfalsifiable but I have all of history and modern day events on my side with even in the most equal civilized societies men still harassing, molesting, assaulting, coercing and pushing for sexual acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:36 AM
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no meat? you're out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:35 AM
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how do you know im not already in their solitary confinement dungeon with basic internet access and windows 98 pc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:34 AM
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this is one thing I agree with the people here about, this is some manosphere revenge fantasy. Whilst this may have been true in the past when they became grandmas, husband passed away, children moved to bigger work cities. but today I can assure you older women get noticed plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:32 AM
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death by vitamin C overdose. well at least it wont be through scurvy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:20 AM
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ok im ordering a late night mcdeez, uk menu. wtf do u want bichez
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:15 AM
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Many men have things that are unacceptable to nearly all women. Your advice is very impractical
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:14 AM
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Responsibilities women do not have: consistently controlling sexual impulse from teenage years all the way to old age if not death talking rude, disrespectfully, passive aggresively, snarky without facing any realistic consequences or punishment. their gf or wife not immediately losing attraction if you give into your emotions in a difficult time or confrontation To be continued.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:13 AM
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just a snippet of what your future wife isn't telling you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:50 AM
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we should be more judgemental as a society. why? because social feedback is important for healthy growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:24 AM
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criticizes red pill concept of traditional wife and side chicks.. then tells me she dated a married man who loved her. God where would we be without the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:30 AM
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gotta love how in a convo this woman calls red pill worst thing to happen to dating.. and in the same breath says she'd date tristan tate (knowing all the background)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:26 AM
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The Rational Male 1 and 2 are the most important books if you're a man in a western developed country today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:48 PM
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What manosphere related content do you still consume and what do you recommend to others
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 08:24 AM
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i guess men are horndogs even till their 70s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:33 PM
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Whilst I do understand the sentiment, I think you may be missing the qualities and traits those guys had. Perhaps they were not easy to spot up front nor good virtuous qualities. Some just happen to be in the right place at the right time like a rebound, others had dark triad, dominance, aggression, persistence when others gave up, always up for a good time with drugs, better in bed, able to spike her emotions positively and negatively. I guess what I'm getting at is life is random but human beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:20 PM
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Cringy but hilarious https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sd7SEKr3y60 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vIqCVyPk31k
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:59 AM
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Many men don't make the best of themselves by their 30s. If they do, usually they've married and started having kids. The men in their 30s having an active dating life aren't taking pictures and bragging about it anywhere. Why would they need to prove anything to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:21 AM
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It's psychological, she may still look good but she knows she doesn't look as good as she did when she was 23. So the man she gets past 30 will never be as good as the one she could have locked down at 23. Western women's general timeline. Men and women's relative value as a dating or relationship prospect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:11 AM
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Yes you are better at wording it than me. However there are still people who will argue against what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:23 PM
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i'm aware of nofap. i just don't think your argument makes sense. I've already said asexual or graysexual people probably exist but for most people if they arent getting a sexual release they're highly likely to be stressed, frustrated and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:21 PM
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there are a bunch of ways to confess. indirect and direct, flirting is one of the indirect ways to show interest
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:14 PM
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how many people are doing what you said by choice? hehe are they a majority? then you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:12 PM
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if a person didnt need sex they wouldnt masturbate or look at or read sexual content.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:12 PM
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no. flirting is more like playing a two-way game. its for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:08 PM
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earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:05 PM
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0 adults took up my offer. Thank you PPD. Gentlemen, remember when women try to control you through shaming or emotional tactics its only for their benefit. Always be your own mental point of origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:54 PM
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i dont know why we keep going back to these examples where religion forced people to behave a certain way. would any sane person today choose this life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:11 PM
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And we don't have the details on their lives. How they sexually released, assuming they would even share that with all the religious and cultural stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:05 PM
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keyword "seem" they are such few in numbers today. Do we have detailed accounts of their life today? How do we know for sure they aren't asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:03 PM
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Are you taking me up on the offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 05:00 PM
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the social media women are hot. men want to have sex with them, maybe some want to show them off. but they dont want her as a long term prospect no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:55 PM
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While being miserable. They're so few in number they might as well be the true asexual people. Nice try tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:40 PM
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And this time i made it clear that I mean sexual release which is a PROXY for sex. no one so far has been able to disprove me. I've destroyed PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:37 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_Church_sexual_abuse_cases https://edition.cnn.com/videos/world/2023/04/10/dalai-lama-kiss-young-boy-apology-vedika-sud-ovn-intl-ldn-vpx.cnn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:36 PM
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not need for survival. need to have a healthy life :) if hypothetically someone takes away your internet, electricity, bed, food flavouring. Will you survive? yes. Will you be miserable? probably lol try again
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:36 PM
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https://edition.cnn.com/videos/world/2023/04/10/dalai-lama-kiss-young-boy-apology-vedika-sud-ovn-intl-ldn-vpx.cnn https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_Church_sexual_abuse_cases
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:33 PM
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they are until they get married, then the spouse is responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:31 PM
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Keep looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:28 PM
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To all the mothertruckers who dare argue with me when I said sex is a need. I dare you to go without sex or masturbation for the rest of your life. Any takers? I'm waiting. Masturbation and consuming lewd material is a proxy for sex. You're not stimulating eating a cheeseburger, you're stimulating sexual acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:26 PM
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Out of context. Theres a bunch of women that enjoy rough role-play.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:56 PM
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its been months. wheres the proof? they've gone through all his stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:54 PM
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um, he meant go out and do more. Learn through experience than sitting there reading intellectually masturbating. And he was right, sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:44 PM
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Despite the dark shit he does, Tate is the hero of our era. No one even comes close. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mVMt46CPwHo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B2b-bE\_rjng
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:38 PM
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women choose guys so well! uhuh thats why theres tons of revenge nudes and porn on the internet. no, you needed your male protector to vet your man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:15 PM
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No one is pressuring them. They are free to do what they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:26 AM
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and their anti-depressants https://www.informationliberation.com/files/anti-depressants-women-nyt-1.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:23 AM
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if they had no other options then yes. but men with options choose younger hotter tighter
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:41 AM
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no women are at their peak in 20s, even people here agree on this lmao. they just try to say men peak in 20s as well to feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:11 AM
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I mean they're a window into how things were done for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:12 PM
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look at everything not green https://www.womanstats.org/substatics/ISSA-SCALE-1-2020.png straight from the horse's mouth. reality can be a bitter pill to swallow
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:28 PM
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doesnt matter, its based in biological reality for thousands of years of human history. lol just because we've slowly changed social norms in the last 60 years doesnt mean it isnt true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:13 PM
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you got that right and another
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:04 PM
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thats a fault with the policy, marxism and communism. if most people in the world were only allowed one child, they would pick a son because it makes the most sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:01 PM
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mans out here appreciating european architecture while we bicker in this dark corner about the same topics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:56 PM
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why do women struggle to separate personal worth from SMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:51 PM
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this is why among man reasons theres historically generally a son preference even today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:46 PM
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you don't think who we attract is a somewhat a reflection of ourselves and an indicator? come on
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:41 PM
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TRP isnt that obsessed with virginity, mainly just a general low n count. He met his wife while they were both non-exclusively dating. You're conflating other viewpoints
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:30 PM
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Thats due to the damage communism caused. awful architecture and pollution. Chinese culture before that is beautiful. I'm sure theyll find a way to fix their marriage and birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:24 PM
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no its visceral disgust. probably due to making sure the kid is yours. does the latter reason matter as much today for some men? no.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:13 PM
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Nah, i know what is inside all women. In case you ask: Due to how humans evolved, women were taken as war brides and had to adapt to a new man, family, culture. This means nearly all women have no coherent moral code nor are they incentivized to have one even today. They may feel guilt but it is self serving and will depend on her social milieu rather than what she actually believes. Why would I respect someone who will change their principles according to what suits them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:45 PM
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Wdym help? A woman who's 30 and hasn't locked down a quality man is a complete failure and is definitely going to have a sad life. A man who's single at 30 passed the shit tests of society, family, women and as long as he's been working on getting his ideal life. His peak is only getting started. It's unfair and a double Standard but it's not like it's a secret
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:37 PM
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suddenly I love the Chinese
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:18 PM
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Does he really need other men's seal of approval? Usually their respect is a part of preselection and status but not always. For example in some settings a man simply with traits of dominance but no virtue, no skills or competence, just some traits and not liked by any other men can still be percieved as high value by women. Think the ghetto, the mysterious bad boy out of reach and emotionally unavailable, big fish in a small pond or middle management with no competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:10 PM
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from a woman's perspective who sees this, its not the external success itself that is attractive. She has to meet him and see the man hes become through achieving those and confirm he genuinely has those skills and character traits that make him attractive. So the guy should know how to show he has them without looking like hes bragging. Yeh he could also have gotten the money, business, network from his father. Trust fund babies are not as impressive and it shows when you interact with them lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:46 PM
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money is good too but i'm sure there are 6 figure earning men who have built a body and a business while living in a fancy apartment near silicon valley and have a big network but have no clue how to leverage it or show off the traits they have through that process, alot of value is perception so if he maximized his location his value technically is the same but its relatively higher. All these things themselves are external (and meaningless on their own except to people who want to use you) but…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:34 PM
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most of the time its just to enjoy sex. none of that other stuff you said
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:11 PM
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Able to provide value in the form of fulfilling other people's needs, solutions to problems, compensatory traits to offset their weaknesses and more recently feed their fantasies and desires. This is best done when you convey and present yourself as innately having that value through having a good grasp on social dynamics (like being funny or lighting up a room) rather than something solely external (money). What those things are will vary on who it is, is it someone old or young? man or woman? …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:06 PM
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I don't need to improve myself. I was always perfect, a profoundly gifted genius, the supreme gentleman. Its women who need to improve their judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:36 PM
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you know, that sounds awesome. If only it worked in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:13 PM
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careers will usually make them sacrifice the quality of their relationship and being a good mother so its not a worthwhile tradeoff. good alternatives are having your own business or working from home
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:12 PM
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https://www.insidehighered.com/news/2017/07/24/media-circus-surrounding-mattress-girl-case-changed-conversation-sexual-assault more clowns
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:05 PM
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nah some women genuinely are hypersexualized. Could be genetics, upbringing, culture but usually its how much her first lover during teens got her to be sexually open
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:21 PM
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well the truth is most men may state a preference but they'll probably be happy with most types of women, so you're healthy. Ahh i never liked the muscle look
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:04 PM
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does what they want regardless of how others feel or get harmed indirectly. but sometimes makes exceptions for you, is nice to you sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:53 PM
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damn women be getting too smart these days. know how to reverse image search, whats next?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:51 PM
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that was quick. you're either a smart nerdy one or you know too many models
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:43 PM
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the point of the thread was to say what your ideal physical features are. I assume it meant in one person you stay with. even then, i know its rare to find what i said and be the kind of guy she'd want. a man can dream tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:41 PM
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haha hey gurl, was thinking of you while walking around town https://imgur.com/a/pQfP7zC
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:36 PM
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i think you needed a new throwaway account for this place. nevertheless i doubt most ppl on ppd are able to help us 30+ virgins anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:33 PM
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yeh dudes like a variety of types of women. but theres so much virtue signalling going on in that thread bruh. come on stop the cap
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:31 PM
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i took this on my stroll today https://imgur.com/a/pQfP7zC
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:29 PM
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no im not. i saw you simping for liftnlurk, choosing the jock again screeches
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:27 PM
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i do dislike it when egos clash and people go off to make their own little branches of groups. Its human nature though i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:20 PM
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I act it well because I am one of them. Merely a little more self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:17 PM
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gets my whiniest voice ready what?! you expected me to throw a ball around in physically unsafe conditions? I have much more intellectual pursuits than these peons. Sports is a neo-liberal tool to distract brilliant minds like mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:05 PM
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why? so you can make fun of my looks? no chance eMiLy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:00 PM
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yes but no man is going to take him seriously lol. and no woman is going to change her attraction nor be expected to seeing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:48 PM
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i was watching one of his laptop/smartphone tier stuff and noticed this. you can just watch the first few minutes and get the idea. But damn hes setting the bar high for the rest of us guys https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKvZ9KhLgHE tldw; He asks her parents permission to propose, creates a custom escape room based on their dates for her, proposes with a ring he spent alot of effort finding. Considering he has money, he really worked alot for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:35 PM
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Greene says the most repellent trait is insecurity. When you’re too self-conscious, you act awkward and uncomfortable, and this makes others feel awkward and uncomfortable too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:32 PM
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sure makeup, hairstyle and some cgi helped. if you check the actresses otherwise online .. yeh no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:26 PM
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why can't dwarfs be good looking? this is not cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:15 PM
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i mean they try to normalize it for men too but its never worked. the whale for example is still pathetic to most women of any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:14 PM
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so first rings of power shows a couple where the woman is black with non european features and on the bigger side. now mandalorian has a clearly obese black woman as the qween. cmon bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:04 PM
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stop talking about women like specimens!! they are intelligent individuals who can make their own decisions and are not predictable at all!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:43 PM
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looks like alot to work on, if you wanna stop repelling people..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:37 PM
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8 types of anti-seducers can confirm bumbler+reactor is me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:58 PM
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Did anyone catch this podcast with robert greene regarding seduction? https://youtu.be/Qv70RMUFlu0?t=2530 from 42 mins to 1 hour 11 mins
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:56 PM
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correct. jessica jones season 1 came close but it was also carried by men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:11 PM
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idk what ur eating my friend but it aint chicken thigh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:06 PM
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thigh is the best part of a chicken. dont @ me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:39 PM
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never. NEVER!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:33 PM
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Woo what is it? 👅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:36 PM
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idk about internet personalities. but any female celebrity in a movie or something has probably done a nude or sex scene, or has pictures leaked. i know in some cases the women purposely want their lewd pics to be everywhere but in most cases i think its just men taking advantage of the post 60s revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:27 PM
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so whats the latest hot topic being discussed in dating & relationship spaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:56 PM
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I said he's willing. I'm figuring out the importance of impotence to women on a primal level. It's important to be desired and see it in the forms I said (erection, cumming, unleashing animalistic side and enjoying physically) So I was wondering if he's happy to show desire in every other way she wants except this. How much of a deal-breaker it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:52 PM
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Woman with weird/eccentric/ugly face and hot body is the best one-off cheating material.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:48 PM
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He can enjoy in the mind by being a giver. Like how women say they enjoy giving a bj.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:44 PM
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Ladies, hypothetically you have your man, he's great. However he cannot get an erection due to some issue nor can he cum. If you want kids in the future there's technology for it. He's still willing to pleasure you in other ways and use a strap on. Are you fine with this arrangement for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:35 PM
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no they need their father
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:35 PM
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they're lying, exaggerating and need to be more grateful instead of focusing on every little thing wrong with their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:29 PM
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i mean a solution is government voucher for a 2 hour visit to a clean, safe, discreet escort. but this is not actually going to solve the problem, since its multi-faceted and not just experiencing body contact with ANY woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:27 PM
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can you be more specific what general take you disagree with on there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:07 PM
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Top 5 regrets of the Dying 1) I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me. 2) I wish I hadn't worked so hard. 3) I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings. 4) I wish I had stayed in touch with my firends. 5) I wish that I had let myself be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:33 AM
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No I mean when it's the main focus of your life, see it as an extra or something you will still have a good life without.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:02 PM
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Its straightforward fact we must accept. I already stated here how most men will end up as beta bucks. Many of them aren't complaining and see no problem with it. Its not simply about having some experience, its being with someone you really desired in the past. And now choosing a dude who is convenient as a placeholder for your other needs and lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:34 AM
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You're taking beta bucks too literally. It's not just about the money, everything that isn't genuine desire falls under long term attraction and BB. For those who money matters most are not in the west since they can earn and give themselves a good lifestyle, they're in poorer countries and looking more for financial security and peace of mind. Sure you get young women who are in college with sugar daddies. With regards to people in your circle the question is: Is he the man she really wants? Wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:00 AM
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no this is a relatively new concept. age gaps were generally bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:17 PM
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When i said have a good time, give a good time that includes physical intimacy and orgasms. If you desire to pleasure and feel good. Does that not mean I include things beyond friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:32 PM
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My current opinion on this is yes. It's best casual, fwb, poly people get with others like that. Serial monogamist with others like them. -"The one" or religious people with each other. The trope of the guy who is casual and wants to just have some fun but the woman is actually looking to be in a commitment is too often causing resentment and more damage to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:35 PM
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Forget the word "chase" for a moment. Stop chasing shit assuming it will give you long term happiness. The goodness is in the doing, now that we've got that out of the way. It's simply biological and social fact that most of the time you as the man will have to initiate, interact and pursue the woman. You can do these things for different dysfunctional reasons but ideally it's to 1) have a good time, give a good time, connect with another human. 2) it is also for improving yourself and your abil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:24 PM
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You're probably good looking, that's why you found a man your age to commit. This is not the general trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:03 PM
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For women to make men believe they peak in 20s so they have their pick when women approach late 20s, 30s onwards. Make them more likely to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:58 AM
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Check the survey results from a few months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:51 AM
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Most men are never going to experience casual sex or visceral genuine desire. However they will eventually have a choice to get in a lifelong relationship in their life. The only caveat is if they use unethical means such as love bombing, letting her assume there's commitment, manipulating and abusing power dynamics to extract sex. The women who want casual sex/Fwb are stricter in specific criteria which most men do not posses even with effort. This is even without talking about the attractivene…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:10 AM
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.. of the closet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:03 AM
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Whilst I see where you're coming from and having experienced some myself, I think the best way for non-handsome men (so most) to behave is simply un-interested or at least not overtly interested in women they see or know as they go about their day. Making short platonic conversation is fine too, just remember the boundaries that if you cross (into the grey area) can look suspicious if she tells or shows someone else. Ask women out who do actually show enthusiasm and interest and do feel safe aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:51 AM
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damn. dustin is a handsome guy, wonder what his problem is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:40 AM
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Senior years of high school when she's forced into a conflict between continuing a monogamous relationships she began in her teenage years and severing it as college looms closer or a simple want for freedom as she approaches young adulthood, graduation and possibly moving away from home for an indefinite period.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:32 AM
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this doesnt apply to you child-free women. https://i0.wp.com/therationalmale.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/smv-timeline1.jpg fellas, after 27 its almost impossible that she'll want YOU for you. Only the tools you provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:58 AM
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quick glance at your comment history, i'm not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:49 AM
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whats the age they start worrying and have to have kids before? is it 30 or 35? Shisha party with Jamal, settle for Ahmad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:25 AM
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only 5% of american psychologists under 30 are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:16 AM
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You deny preselection and now this. Idk what delusional bubble you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:47 AM
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Men are usually more direct about being user assholes, at least with other men. When sex isn't involved basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:23 AM
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You said we wouldn't be where we are now..I told you how far we came lol. Thank your male ancestors and show gratitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:24 AM
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We're not in caves killing each other and dying to animals, while barely struggling with extreme weather. Yeh we got pretty far thanks to patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:17 AM
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I'm glad. I don't think egalitarian or female led relationships work out but let's see
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:59 AM
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what things would you say changed about you that enabled you to attract these women and keep them around?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:15 AM
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Right, if the guy is not attractive even after maximising on his looks. He will need something collection of other amazing qualities in order to ask out those women he's acquainted with. I agree. I think I know what tinder experiment you're talking about, heres another one I found interesting, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vat7bMxFG6M the woman actually seems to do okay but i think she may struggle with the face-face interaction and flirting during the date if she was a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:04 AM
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I half agree, I don't agree with the way women here tell men to be friends. What I agree with is having many circles a man is part of, so you're acquainted with many women. ie, you have someone you know mutually, you have each other added on social media, you've seen and introduced each other at a couple events. But that friend shit where she wants to go somewhere to eat and drags you with her simply using you for things, yeh pretty much against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:51 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/blackmagicfuckery/comments/121j2gv/audible_black_magic_fuckery/ In a similar vein, you hear what you want to. A person has to purposely be open minded and critical of their previous beliefs "why do I think this way?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:37 PM
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yes and they neglect to preserve and nurture the best parts of actually being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:31 PM
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I half agree in the sense we shouldnt have obligated desire with marital rape. However you have no proof that traditional cultures had more rape. Women were protected and respected. No if I recall correctly most rape is from people they knew ie. someone they were developing a relationship with. If you want to talk about friends and family we can go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:20 PM
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the criminal system will never be good enough to get them locked up. tradtional values had the answer to prevent these rapes in the first place. Not talking about covering up by the way, more so having protective male family members around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:04 PM
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There is no such culture. It is a heinous act that happens when different factors align up and the environment is right. People should look to prevent those from happening, the man who has guilt inside about committing bad actions or how he'd face God would not do something like that anyway.. And the men who would do it given the chance would anyway no matter how much women harp on about "rape culture"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:44 PM
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The disgust comes from 1) in the past we had no paternity test and a virgin woman is the least likely to cheat so you don't have to raise another man's child. 2) STDs and diseases in general 3) women who have dealt with alot of men are more likely to still have one they miss and can't stop thinking about 4) women who have been with alot of men are usually jaded and carry alot of baggage and triggers "Omg that's exactly what mark used to do" cries They're slaves to their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:31 PM
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Rationalize? There's not much to rationalize, their aversion makes sense for multiple reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:21 PM
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i assume you're fine with sex work? why is it okay when she does it and now when she is willingly doing it with her "partner" and wants to benefit him you suddenly have a problem? I keep showing your inconsistencies again and again :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:35 PM
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Tate quoted this one once https://sunnah.com/bukhari:29
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:29 PM
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appreciation is very valuable, its partly why men in the west are so disenchanted with the women. they are ungrateful and show no appreciation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:27 PM
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me when the n-count thread is up
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:14 PM
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It is a myth. Many women use sex as a tool and later claim they didn't actually want it and were co-erced and manipulated because the seducer short circuited their developed adult brain. In my humble opinion this is extremely disrespectful to actual rape victims who deserve compassion and the men involved can be punished properly by their local community and family. Don't know what fnf said, since I didn't watch that particular show, nor do i know which guest you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:59 PM
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personality or character encompasses way too many things. we need to be more specific
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:15 PM
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I've come to realize even the most switched on conventionally feminine woman today is a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:41 PM
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Fine. However I mean the % risk increase is very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:05 PM
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the male % of all the risks are much much lower. the female ones drastically start increasing at 35
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:55 PM
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again young adult women.. look at the post title...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:45 PM
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First of all lets assume most women fall somewhere in average, and can look above average with some work like staying fit, curvy, healthy skin and hair, the right amount of make up. The women who maximize what they have and still are naturally unpleasant to look at, yes life is very hard for them from the get go. These women should be treated with respect and where possible, kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:42 PM
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Cold approaching a stranger is extremely context dependent but lets say you're in a place where many people are walking around in leisurely way like a shopping high street or mall. Even there the best thing cold approach is for is exposure therapy and lose that fear of rejection. Its hard to make it seem natural as if you're going about your busy day and you struck up a conversation with this complete stranger who is flattered that someone like you came up and had some nice words.. and exchanged…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:17 AM
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that type of love doesnt exist, if it does its so rare that it's negligible. even parents have favourites among their children of who earns the most, who gives them the best reputation etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:06 AM
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Our reasons vary but they won't be good enough for others. They'll say just try harder and get with someone ugly/old/fat/smelly even if it's a one off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:06 AM
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Those men play to women's fantasies. Women want to believe it's true. Tinder Swindler's victims were grown women in their 30s and 40s specifically in the most gender equal countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:41 AM
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how would I know? I don't go looking for them. I look for men's spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:29 AM
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I mean you're not wrong. Some men still find ways to connect through car, bike clubs. Or fighting. But it's much more informal and technically women can join anytime, they just tend not to. Official men's only setups are treated with extreme suspicion. I think it's simply harder for men who start out with no real masculine hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:22 AM
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Read the history of freemasons, its a fraternal organisation. Making a woman's section or recognising it was not necessary. I'm not against women only spaces. But most places (even the most woke) will have some women's only section to help them feel safe, discuss matters and that's fine. Women's only spaces are important and serve a function.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:19 AM
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There's no such male only groups beyond school sports teams and university fraternities. As for all adult groups, women have infiltrated them or had shut them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:06 AM
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They claim alot more than that, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:02 AM
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Not as far as I know, its something more instinctual. I love how you ask me for a study on this, yet women go nuts when we ask for proof of their "intuition" beyond just anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:31 AM
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in this context i used it for the video of the couple shared. they look fine and happy, my argument was he doesnt seem to exhibit conventionally masculine behaviour, lilely due to low T. This MAY impact how aroused she is by him. I didnt mean it as an outright insult or trying to shut down conversation about him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:57 AM
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Except it's not? Come on you have the internet just as much as I do. You can quickly learn about this without even being a biologist or doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:38 AM
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Nice try Amrou. But no they're all 'grifters' in the sense they do what will get the most attention and money. As a side effect it may provide value and help some men out. Whilst I agree he provides entertainment through the women and sometimes has good guests on for deep talks.. ultimately none of these men care about what happens to you. https://twitter.com/\_Rian\_Stone/status/1632431025266520064?s=20
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:30 AM
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you can criticize it and give a better criteria based on evidence of what a high T and low T man looks like. or a High T woman even. But to compare it to astrology is being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:20 AM
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No there are alot of signs. I mean we have the internet, you can pretty much look up all the signs now. You can usually guess right. Its not stereotype, its biological reality of hormones and chemicals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:16 AM
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I'm not referring to anyone specific or a topic, just pointing out the meta observation and differences. I can hold disagreements with people and be fine. Not need to run to my underground in*el group and find people who will shower me with "yes you were right"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:15 AM
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This is all women's fault. If they let masculine men have local groups to help young boys. These grifters would get no one buying their stuff. Second wave feminism is partly responsible, you reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:11 AM
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So? People are allowed to have an opinion. Can they accurately predict without the tests? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:09 AM
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Something I notice with women and feminine men: They're unable to process something on their own, they're like predictable robots so if you input (say) something that bothered or triggered them, they'll be bringing it up elsewhere with people (output). As if to mock the exact thing with people they agree with. Or vent about it to let it out of their system, since it may be an uncomfortable truth. Masculine men don't need to do this. They are able to process negative words, criticism as well as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:07 AM
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theory : something like having an extremely masculine brain (becoming too logical) leads to autism having an overly feminine brain leads to social justice where women are obsessed with shaming and trying to control other people's behaviours to fit their standard
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:56 PM
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lol that post history tho "my wife knows.." as a response to a deleted comment about _____ . People are hilarious on the internet with their stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:47 PM
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who cares? people guess and say things all the time about other people. the point isnt if they're 100% right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:39 PM
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except testesterone does have psychological effects. and they can be spotted by others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:31 PM
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you're literally doubting actual scientific data and effects of testesterone levels. And evidence that its been lowering for decades now. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4303243/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16967834/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3222987/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17164220/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19496976/ https://www.optimale.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/Total-and-calculated-bioavailable-T-concentrations-from-Massachusetts-Male…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:30 PM
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maybe he'll start projects again but his name has been smeared. now whenever people hear his name or see his face they'll think "predator"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:22 PM
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lets join the adonis academy directed at teenagers for.. $500 a month
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:19 PM
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And what would her reason be for waiting for you? Just curious what it would be, if it isn't religious shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:04 PM
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because he's a low testesterone soy boy. I'd give the dude a hug but I very much doubt he arouses her, he's great for her in every other sense except sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:46 PM
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No this is between men. We already disagree with women on alot and dont care about it. It's natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:32 PM
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Do you genuinely believe she is sexually aroused by him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:25 PM
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Aren't women more aroused during their period? In Islam it's forbidden to have sex while menstruating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:21 PM
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But she lives in America I assume? I read or heard somewhere that peer group has just as big an effect as parenting on your personality. So unless she made only religious/chaste friends growing up (which I highly doubt) she will have a belief system that incorporates American values and the media she consumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:19 PM
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Fellas, you will never find a guy friend who you agree with 100% which is fine as long as you agree on foundational moral values.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:49 PM
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they would invoke the primal fear in women of having a baby from a man who for example said he was a lawyer but turns out to be a broke loser. So genetically and traits wise now she has to raise a child who is inferior. I mean it makes sense to me Obviously today they're not having kids with them but thats why fakes and posers are disgusting. Its much better to meet a man who genuinely likes doing sports, or is charismatic or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:49 AM
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Just a theory : Because then men who arent naturally "fit" can't just read a book and exploit women's sexuality. Give them a baby with bad genes. For example a man who doesnt actually enjoy being extroverted but pretends to be, Pick up Artist tactics that mimic naturals but don't have the positive qualities and traits that those guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:46 AM
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Why is this the case? does it apply to general mixed race kids? Are there genetic disease issues? Why ugly? when i look on something like r/MixedRaceGirls i assume mixed race can just be random As for the mental health stuff, I guess that one makes the most sense with a lack of solid identity. Happens with some people who move around alot too
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 10:34 AM
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Whilst you do put a big chunk of men 75% into the 'cant reach attractive' category.. what i suspect is many women here will argue "but i see average couples out there all the time". In my view, a fair amount of these men DO pair up eventually as they get older with women their age who have had their fun. Why do these women choose these guys? because having a placeholder for companionship and other benefits is better than having no one. People can't distinguise arousal from attraction. Arousal be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:22 AM
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weird strawman, i said navigating life which includes everything, one aspect of that is dating and eventually ending up in a good relationship. i highly doubt they have better health, especially since a father teaches by example how to have self control over emotions and impulses, they are more likely to be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:39 AM
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depends on what outcomes those studies are using for successful. boys need a masculine father. https://youtu.be/0gwDpEBDjFc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:15 AM
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https://twitter.com/_Rian_Stone/status/1632431025266520064?s=20 there. Even rollo said something along the lines of we're all grifters, but we provide value. All men are going to be at competition for the same 20 something young women, however they can still get satisfaction from helping other young men, while making money. Why do you assume it has to be a fully charitable endeavour?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:55 AM
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yeh i heard of him, saw a couple vids. rubbing hand sound fellas..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:54 AM
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5 minute daily quota of an amateur couple video.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:34 AM
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the women decide where the men will go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:26 AM
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half agree, they can feel love towards other women, family members, animals and definitely children. but their romantic partner will be opportunistic love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:21 AM
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theres actually no men's youtube channel i can recommend except one of the first ones i came across. short stuff: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S0iyKP4viEc , https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WXl6fVhnbW8 longer stuff: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vnrkr_S--CM im sure theres plenty of books, but who reads lul
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:15 AM
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Both sides are important arousal and attraction but the former doesn't nearly get talked about as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:09 AM
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In the west, women are the gatekeepers to both relationships and sex. (If you ignore the top % of desirable men). Obviously because they can get everything they used to need a man for done through herself, other people or institutions. Name me one thing even an above average dude can provide to her life she can't get in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:37 PM
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no not the kittens. NOT THE KITTENS!! https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-65017536
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:34 PM
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look at this man, says he's a meathead but actually smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:24 PM
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it's a crazy time. We can make food appear in half an hour at our door. You can see a picture of an item online and have it appear the next day. It's magic!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:13 PM
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Wcyd. They have the social power, other women trust and believe them because they're usually victims of life and men. Other men believe them because they're pretty, innocent, cute, have some misplaced sense of virtue and might sleep with them. Masculine men today are islands fighting their battle alone. No one's on your side. It's mentally pretty tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:09 PM
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this thread is full of 🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:55 PM
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holy crap you have so many removed posts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:44 AM
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Fair enough, however there is more information on Alpha Widows on the The Rational Male blog if you are interested. Whilst many unscientifc placeholder terms are used, the concept is a reality and happens a fair amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:03 AM
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you have control over your worldview, especially through what you expose yourself to. I assume you live in a western country, its likely she will have multiple partners throughout her life and have sex with men she enjoys it with. Acceptance of reality is important albeit painful, it does us no good to hold onto distorted ideas of reality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:01 AM
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Black and White thinking cannot be applied to people, its lazy and humans want easy patterns to understand the world. First of all there are no angels, humans have dark thoughts and impulses all the time and some may choose to never act on them. Second what is your definition of 'slut' here? You havent made that clear. I don't think the majority of women would fall under your definition of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:53 AM
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You find another short guy, buy a long overcoat and go on a date with one of you holding up the other. It's a foolproof plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:58 AM
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Yeh we're already seeing it today, less men approaching and using low-risk online methods. Means the winner gets all, rest get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:54 AM
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I just don’t like that they won’t leave me alone thats what she said. My argument was men will approach women as it is natural, sure it'll be annoying sometimes but the alternative is nothing happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:47 AM
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You want men to stop approaching women completely?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:42 AM
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Fair point however https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11v3q32/daily_community_chat_megathread/jcw0yrf And these are from years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:42 AM
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Your latter problem is legitimate but gets not dealt with because women take up all the oxygen in the room with other more petty problems. As for not being left alone, in general yes men shouldn't annoy women but if they do initate a conversation with you.. its not the end of the world as long as they leave after you reject them. If men left women alone, then there would be barely any relationships, sex, children because men initate and carry the conversation 99% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:12 AM
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What a lovely wattpad fanfic piece.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:46 AM
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We are on an anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:40 AM
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Yes for men. It's been only somewhat difficult for women since the dawn of time and especially now. Privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:32 AM
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extremely unlikely if you understand what women need from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:14 AM
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women don't want a man who would cheat but they love a man who COULD cheat. attraction is not symmetric in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:13 AM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/1059219/social-media-usage-uk-females/ https://www.statista.com/statistics/249802/percentage-of-female-us-internet-users-who-use-social-networks/ https://assets.pewresearch.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/12/2013/09/social-world-1.jpg https://www.massmailsoftware.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/5/2012/04/social-media-website-visits-statistics-age-gender-1.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:08 AM
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Men in general are sexual opportunists and have regrets later in life for the ones they missed. Surveys show this. This is because their mating strategy is to have variety
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:06 AM
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only with males.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:05 AM
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Fair point however it makes complete sense if she's doing it when single. Its similar to men pursuing women and stopping it once he has one. Though arguably he can maintain emotional investment while sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:05 AM
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Those answers are better answered by a scholar. Not as straightforward
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:03 AM
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Dress up as a nun and still get flirty dm's. Who knows one day your dream man will see it and message you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:41 PM
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Why do they care what you look like? Why can't they just see your gardening or whatever hobby you have and connect purely based on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:25 PM
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A woman cheating with a woman does not being the visceral feelings of disgust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:21 PM
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So I'm right.. like I said posting yourself in public when in a relationship makes zero sense unless it's necessary for your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:20 PM
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There is nothing you need to spend alone time with your male friend that you can't do with a female friend. Why choose to be around a person who would say yes if you asked for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:15 PM
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Its saying I'm still on the market. Approach me, this is how hot I am. Literally no one needs to see it publicly. She can have a private account for friends and family and share normal pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:13 PM
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Whilst I don't agree with obligated desire. Perhaps this is the best way to structure society so it's stable without many women chasing a small percentage of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:11 PM
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It's forbidden during menstruation however in this case it is a hyperbole. Women would give birth sitting on camel saddles, so it's to say she must obey even while giving birth, what could possibly be more urgent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:09 PM
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The rights of the husband in case you were curious https://sunnah.com/ibnmajah:1853
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:02 PM
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Usually public thirst traps but can be pictures advertising her beauty, simply for attention and validation from random men. But also hoping a better man comes along in case you start not being good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:58 PM
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If she doesn't distance herself from "male friends" and spending alone time with them once you guys are together. You are a cuckold and a temporary placeholder boyfriend while she fulfills her other needs though different men while waiting for a better catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:57 PM
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Men have an innate disgust towards cuckoldry, it can go so far as to want purity/sanctity with regards to retroactive cucking (she had previous partners or has kids you raise). Without going into detail, in the past meeting someone of a different race from a different climate like jungle did actually mean death due to diseases. It doesnt anymore thanks to vaccines but we are working on millions of years of machinery. Now how do men today cope with these uncomfortable feelings? They turn them int…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:54 PM
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Do you want me to tell you the other things she'll change?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:53 PM
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She'll do it herself without being asked or told to. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:49 PM
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She had no need to anymore. she found the love of her life and all her desire is towards him. As for keeping in touch with friends and family, they don't need to see her publicly post photos to chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:40 PM
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Pictures of herself. Especially advertising beauty and sex appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:36 PM
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If she doesn't stop advertising herself on social media once you're together. You are simply a placeholder boyfriend, not the one she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:26 PM
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You're in denial about the evoltionary psychology side of things. Disgust/Sanctity is seen as a moral in itself. Watch this to learn more https://youtu.be/NF09gso3ktk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:20 PM
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of all the things you could have accused them of, you choose the worst one, something that can have no understandable explanation (like murder, theft).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:04 PM
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What did i miss here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:03 PM
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you were a kid once, so was every person in your ancestry line. Kids are beautiful and their perspective brings joy to life. The problem is they're alot of responsibility and require forbearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:53 PM
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there were no waves, it was always about supremacy not equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:51 PM
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ive seen some of his angry rants, the other one i saw was about race https://youtu.be/ABInTYLfsng
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:42 PM
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having a child in itself is not gross whatsoever. no one reasonable is saying that. life happens, in the past she was more likely to be a widow because the father died in war.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:38 PM
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Its hard to explain, because its more about what benefits the man himself. So it goes against your best interests. I'm still glad you guys grew up and found each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:35 PM
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Interesting. I find it interesting when people couple up that young today and stick with the first or second person. It's good for the woman but not so sure about the man. Depends on how ambitious he stays
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:21 PM
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It's the only way to talk about this. The other way is what early PUA forums and the red pill did. Which is sharing field reports and comparing notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:19 PM
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No we have to speak in generalities. Sure we can discuss a particular city and culture if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:03 PM
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I believe you. I just don't think your preferences were always this. And if they were, perhaps the kind of man you wanted was so rare that you stayed single. Not having the looks but also the effort to become the personality they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:58 PM
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It is when they are young. Captain America is only sexy to most women like 28+.. Until then it's exciting bad boy iron man who she wants to tame and he's "good" only to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:47 PM
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I heard horse girls have a smell problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:38 PM
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Ideally yes but few men are pro social alphas. That's why dual mating strategy exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:36 PM
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It's ok we're men. Made of stone. We can handle it!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:17 PM
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Don't forget funny coloured hair, short hair , body hair, tattoos, overly pierced, hygiene
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:11 PM
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Imagine you have guests over and your parrot just starts doing this to embarrass you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:41 PM
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That's weird. People do say don't befriend men who have no money and no women.. But I'd assume his friend with him being an Nba star was not likely to have that problem. If it's true it's the greatest biological failure as a man, but also the backstab..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:38 PM
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Society should be judgement. Shame is a good tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:29 PM
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No they also want men who attractive personality traits. It's a huge list.
/r/AllPillDebate19/03/23 12:53 PM
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What was the point of reading dating stuff if you're not going to apply it, try it out? I mean I do it more so in search of knowledge and entertainment. I don't think going to drinking environments with young women is going to be a place where they want a genuine guy. You're still going to have to be active about this, its not just going to happen itself. Not so much incessantly pursuing one woman but pursuing many women that don't know about each other. I guess if you really don't want to pay f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:20 AM
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It works very well on humans, especially women. Emotions are a tool to sway them. A woman who grows up in the UK could have been trained to be a rad-fem through all the influences she had in person but also online and the media. Every step has trained her brain to look for evidence to support her pre-existing beliefset. If I asked her to step outside it just for a moment, it would be extremely scary. Just like a well trained dog, a scared child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:09 AM
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Nah humans can be trained, and they are emotional like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 11:00 AM
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It's time to move.. https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/share-of-females-defined-as-overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:55 AM
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No. There's a market for thick women but not for fat men. Your only option is to get fit. It's not shallow it's the biological reality of attractiveness and arousal. Also maintaining fitness signals that you respect your body, have discipline and pain tolerance. Traits that are attractive to people, not just women. Now that I've told you, you have no excuses left.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:50 AM
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I don't want to be that guy but it seems like you're a normal dude who has everything going for him except you don't know how to talk to women non-platonically, flirting, game, seduction, emotional spikes. Besides practice and reading some tips.. It seems like you need a legit dating coach who's in the field with you telling you what you do wrong. Whether it's in Vegas during the day or in bars and clubs. Other than that something like sartains men of action which is about social circle game, go…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:54 AM
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Not sure where Automod is.. but yeh pretty spot on. Although not as applicable since most people here are in the US, having a strictly religious household can somewhat make it difficult. If they don't like you talking to women, make it as though you will marry later, create shame along with the local community if you're seen interacting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:05 AM
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maybe i can take you out for dinner and you can find out? 😏 but yeh my point was i can be intellectually stimulated by male friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 04:20 AM
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No I'm saying he wants to protect her from the darkness of his own desire, being tainted or jaded by the world. In way retain their child-like persona and femininity. This is partly why some men feel very uncomfortable with taking a woman's virginity. Sure the clinginess and attachment is annoying but men do fundamentally want the human race to continue and there to be good mothers, cute women are the future. This is my understanding, I'm sure you'll get various answers on why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:34 AM
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because of the perception of purity. it goes back to the madonna-whore complex. The cute girl better symbolises an innocent feminine mother figure who will raise children and not "dirty" herself with the wild kinky stuff the husband wants to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:27 AM
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No I don't mean mistreatment at all. Its hard to put into words but it just functions better. Yes, especially after they've tried dating model looking women and seen the downsides. They can very much pick an average looking woman to stay with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:18 AM
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And where do you find a feminine woman who will make a good companion?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:05 AM
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I used to want her to be intellectually stimulating which is pretty much impossible as I am a profoundly gifted genius. So I'll be fine with a woman is simply feminine (rare enough today).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:02 AM
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Hypogamy. When the woman is one or two points below in percieved attractiveness (SMV) the relationship dynamics are much better. Men want their leadership to run smoothly, they aren't looking for more problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:57 AM
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I have thought before about what you said. Cute features and neoteny is more associated with plain good long term material and the safe option. A 'sexy' woman besides having the body for it have a physical rarity, where they may be fetishized for it. Their faces tend to have some exaggerated features. They may be seen as more fun, adventurous and for being wild in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:53 AM
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Nah the market has chosen. If women really cared about those things, they would all sign up to those kinds of apps. Its just that when you're given so many options you start funnelling them on the most obvious thing first, the pictures. Plus I don't think women know what they want until a much later age, they usually know what they don't want in a guy. I doubt there will be a dating app revolution of any kind. The current best app (instagram) is about showing how good looking you are, how fun yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:19 AM
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I agree with you however you're approaching this from a "what she wants" perspective. Whilst you do need to change yourself to be attractive to more women (or the type you want) it is ultimately for your in the long term, your life is better when you have a woman. But the question is how much should you change? How much should you adapt? How hard should you try to appeal to this wide net of women with the examples you gave? The answer is understanding the type of woman you really want around and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:11 AM
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For some cultures, like muslim or some african. The obsession with dogs especially by women is so weird, cats too to a certain degree. People think they can replace a spouse and kids with a pet, no it doesnt work. Also women have an extremely different criteria of love for Adult males than they do for children, pets, other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:00 AM
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Agree with you but trying to look for those rare women in the US is wayyy too much hard work, same with the UK. Its better to find a woman from other countries, bring her wherever you want to live and heavily curate her social group. If you have trained her well then she will only befriend women who agree with the fundamental values you've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:55 AM
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Still has a PhD from Cambridge. Are there other things that matter? Sure. But in this case I think you simply don't like what he has to say, or quotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:41 PM
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You Mr Man need sex (or temporary fixes such as wet dreams, masturbation, erotic material) as much, if not more than you need the internet, clothes, electricity, phone, computer, a comfy bed, showers and all your life's conveniences. For functioning better as a human being and having the full human experience rather than an impaired one. Everything you won't die without like food water air. All evolved actions are proxies to lead to survival and reproduction https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:25 PM
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You need sex (or temporary fixes such as wet dreams, masturbation, erotic material) as much, if not more than you need the internet, clothes, electricity, a comfy bed, showers and all your life's conveniences. Everything you won't die without like food water air. All evolved actions are proxies to lead to survival and reproduction https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1386256329648611330?lang=en-GB https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1470442180766539788?lang=en Can't reproduce without se…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:23 AM
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its part of a normal lifestyle as an adult human male. without it, its almost like living without a limb, not experiencing an aspect of your existence. Anyway there are several temporary outlets, masturbation being the obvious one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:04 AM
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Okay, that's fine. But yes female bodies are looked at for replication value more so, and male ones for survival, fitness, protection, security. Handsome may be a priority for you but isn't across the board. Also I said navigated life, not necessarily rich although that could signal it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:21 AM
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They are made to survive. But you will still find the small signs of fitness attractive such as a certain ratio V Taper. The value is more so built through struggle however and not so obvious or innate. A man who has navigated life successfully and is surrounded by attractive women interested in him is a better indicator. So as to your question, kind of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:15 AM
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Nah, even if evidence like that came about you'd find a way to dismiss it. The brain is a funny thing when it doesn't want to change habits. Fixed vs Growth mindset https://www.mindsetworks.com/Assets/images/science/impact/impact-content.png
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:43 PM
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Weird, I told you what it'll take. Would you like this advice to come from Mike Thurston? While he shows you proof of his attractive girlfriend? No one who actually has a busy good life will come here, or in person and help you. Theres enough people even on here who lift and will agree with what I said. I simply relayed biological facts about attractiveness, look up V taper ratio and arousal in women. Sacrifice is required, you cannot escape it. Don't shoot the messenger. When you decide you act…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:38 PM
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according to biology, the female body is literally designed to be a beauty and sexual object to attract a male, monthly menstruation with limited eggs, a body that can hold and carry another life, feed it. men didnt make it up, they're simply saying "what is"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:31 PM
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They're lying to you, you will first have to maximize your looks, most importantly 10% body fat, then grooming, clothes, skin, hygiene, find a possible solution for your jaw alignment. And yes even after that it'll be alot of going out in your city and taking part in activites with women, you will get alot of indirect rejection face to face until possibly a woman wants to spend time with you. If you have been undersocialized or are on the spectrum you will have to work double as hard to simply a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:29 PM
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in case you dont know about norah vincent who lived as a man and died of assisted suicide for various reasons, short documentary and book
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:51 PM
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because in nature the man's body count has much else effect. The woman's is detrimental usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:14 PM
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Many people can't process a fact or statement devoid of moral or political sentiment. This is why factual statements elicit responses such as: "So?" "And?" "Your point?" They can't process a fact without being told how to feel. source
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:05 PM
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Hatred is too strong an emotion to waste. The opposite of love is not hate, its indifference. If you hate someone, you still care about them or their thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:40 PM
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I do but most smart people are not going to believe some anonymous stranger on the internet who could be LARPing. However me explaining what I said might re-arrange their perspective on their life and what they experienced. If they haven't then great, if they have then they get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:13 PM
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nope its simple, men like a fun adventurous slut, they just want them to be their slut. lady in the streets, freak in the sheets. Yes this dichotomy in some cultures creates the idea that men should have their fun with the slut type and then settle down eventually with the good girl type who knew no evil, and she raises their kids. However I assure you only a very few men get away with this. Its not like the AF/BB which is much more prevelant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:06 PM
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fake it till you make it. once they're successful enough i'm sure they can proudly say their height, applies to other things too that people tend to view as "not good enough" like their background, their birth name and more because men are expected to perform up to standards regardless of what trouble they had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:04 PM
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Almost everyone has had a hard time in some form or another, unless they were royalty and aristocracy at the top or more recently born into generational wealth with good social connections. Whenever you have a disagreement with a woman on an issue and try to rectify it for everyone's benefit, they always resort to making it about themselves or how womankind are victims. They forget there is a whole other gender making up 50% of the adults on earth. Zero acknowledgement, empathy, care or action t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:49 PM
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To survive? No. To have a healthy functional mind and life? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:32 PM
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I mean today yeh it shouldn't be that extreme. I'd say as a rule of thumb the woman should be educated enough to be able to home school the kids till A Levels, maybe even help with university. And women should experience the workplace, random jobs here and there to gain an appreciation for their husband, money. So yeh at least have some skills or know how to go manage a job in case of divorce or widowed. It's usually career women people have problems with, those who are uncompromising about thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:10 PM
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https://www.bmj.com/content/349/bmj.g7641 https://cdn.mdedge.com/files/s3fs-public/148270_graphic_web.png https://fanaticcook.files.wordpress.com/2018/04/antidepressantusepeople.jpg https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Heikki-Hiilamo/publication/261187220/figure/fig2/AS:296798599041027@1447773708201/Proportion-of-antidepressant-users-by-gender-and-age-groups-between-1995-and-2010-in.png These women have all the rights men have if not more, yet they're unhappy and on antidepressants. This can onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:03 AM
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Don't get lost in the semantics, but her life will be pretty sad and lacking. And the submission should be willing, you cannot force it or have obligated desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:44 AM
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Men need sex, among other things. They're solving it in any way they can, some you've mentioned. Before and today its the same, compromise & sacrifice is required by all sides. This wisdom is usually passed down from mothers. aunts and grandmothers. A woman who lives without submitting a man, without children, grandchildren lives as if she is limbless, deaf or blind. It's a half life, a cursed life. Having pets, community service, adopting children, serving coorporations or feminist organisation…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:32 AM
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Men have a reproductive problem, they are attempting to solve it. I would argue when women don't need men like in the West today, they make terrible decisions and still end up unhappy. What you said in theory sounds great but its hurting women the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:59 AM
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theres no absolutes when talking about human behaviour, its just probability. Shes likely to have mental scars involved with the context behind those experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:50 AM
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There is no one, few to little good men who are quietly busy with their small local circle and community. We are alone brother, completely alone. Take the useful actionable advice you can get from all kinds of men but never idolize one. Only young boys have heroes, who are supposed to be their father, uncle, grandad, brother, cousin. When you become a man you realize the burning harsh truth, everyone is wingin' it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:18 AM
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I sheath my sword. You come not with the intention to learn truth, but rather blame men for "oppressing" women since forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:24 AM
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I can bring you citations and destroy your current worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:01 AM
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https://twitter.com/RationalMale/status/1104089727248920576
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:47 AM
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even though in religions, the woman prefers a virgin man. She does still want an experienced man, that doesnt come out of thin air like magic. It comes through struggle, heartbreak, trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:41 PM
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it varies, but his ability to be promiscuous is rarely a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:30 PM
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nature is sexist. take it up with evolution or whatever form of God you believe in. its not equal, its not balanced, its not fair and human laws are an adaptation at best. the experienced man can realistically form a healthy happy family with virgin wife in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:44 PM
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thats the way i like it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:42 PM
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Marriage is the outcome women want. Not men. Solipsism. Men and women's goals are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:25 PM
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Your initial response creates men who aren't going to be attractive to most women, including the writer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:21 PM
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And I'm talking about behaviours too, especially in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:17 PM
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i was using it as a visual example, i meant feminine traits in general, emoting like a woman. its the contrast to how the man usually is that makes it hot, it still has to be congruent though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:10 PM
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feminine traits like holding a puppy with a smile are ONLY valuable in a man who has already established himself as default masculine most of the time. think jason mamoa. every time some woman tries to say feminine men are attractive, i really hope its willful ignorance and not something worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:07 PM
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No I never downvote. I'm a good boy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:05 PM
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Who do you think it was? 🐍 But your old arch nemesis
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:04 PM
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Physical and social dominance as well as peacocking although more primal, are still forms of masculinity and are rewarded with short term relationships which sometimes result in single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:00 PM
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penalise is a funny word hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:53 PM
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No they want a based blackpiller named fat sack guy. All the ladies swooning
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:55 AM
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anyway, she secretly wants me to put boundaries on her to control her chaotic feminine energy also known has hormones. Thank mother nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:24 PM
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I don't like red. I prefer darkish blue flags. Can we have those?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:12 PM
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It's for the best. Trust in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:04 PM
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No her close friends should be female and also be following a similar value system. Otherwise I will isolate her from all friends. 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:58 PM
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you're ok with the number, once you find out what the patterns are with relation to personality. I think you will reconsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:34 PM
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that is not the reason women divorce. complete myth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:35 PM
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Why? Women want an experienced man who has been able to navigate life in every aspect, including this. (Most) Men want a virgin or someone with only 1 or 2 count whether it was casual or long term relationships (it varies). Some male sluts might be fine with up to 10. Is it unfair and unequal? Hell yeah, thats nature baby. There are many reasons why men want what they want, but mainly its the personality traits that increase the chances of good relationship, family life, mother for kids. What I …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:22 PM
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That is the advice some take. They know they have a limit to their potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:48 PM
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Yes and that's just what it is. Accept it. It doesn't mean darker women are completely out. Stop trying to become something you're not, stop comparing yourself to white women. You can work with what you have, and you're not ugly at all. This obsession around it just shows you don't want to work on your feminine character & personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:26 AM
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Whilst there are men with a preference. It's not like black women are completely out of the market. You can keep telling yourself that but I can bring you stats on obesity+ethnicity as well as anecdotal evidence about more masculine women that are a turn off to men and lead them to go abroad/look at women of other cultures. Also I quickly flicked through your profile because I suspected. And yeh you're nowhere near ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:18 AM
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How dude? We literally just had this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11olkti/male_delusion_calculator/ Yes it doesn't cover things we can't put a number on or define clearly. However men have a low attraction floor. For most it's literally: 1) don't be disgusting and unhygienic 2) don't be too old 3) don't be be obese (many still go for overweight) 4) don't have kids (though many still overlook this) 5) don't be in debt you need help paying off 6) don't be so crazy you …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:10 AM
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No its not racist, nor is it offensive. But at the same time be honest with yourself and aware, "why do i like x race", "why do i like beards". The answer is usually in your early years of upbringing to your teens, sometimes your first close relationship. And what your disagreeing friend was probably getting at is white imperialism being dominant so people sometimes have a self-hatred of their identity, race and hence partners of that same race.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:03 AM
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They're anti depressants not anti-"I've decided self deletion is the most pragmatic decision for me". After a divorce, breakup, losing what they built, getting fired from a company they were loyal to etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:53 PM
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this quoted here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:48 PM
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the problem isnt that they don't agree with looks being the first funnel among many. the problem is theres very little to discuss there.. unless you have a channel like qoves with real professionals breaking it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:42 PM
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some weirdos, stalkers, creeps ruin it for the rest of us. I think most people would be civil in sharing face/nudes, look, discuss, have a laugh and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:38 PM
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well yeh aside from ragebait memes, and blackpillers talking about looks.. Maybe there will be something new and fresh since the last decade of this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:35 PM
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damn, you're good at this. you could probably make a course and have lifetime passive income!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:25 PM
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What if instead of purge week at the end of the year, we had purge day at the end of every month? whos with me? 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:20 PM
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I've found convincing her friends far more challenging than convincing her alone. Isolating is an important part of both ethical game and dark game whichever way you look at it. Her friends are not doing it because they truly care about her (except the rare bff she confides in).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:56 PM
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Interact and have conversation with yes. Date, no. Unless we're going back to that club environment where people regularly sleep with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:47 PM
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Some might do it for that reason but don't discount the men that do it to have a traditional wife and perhaps a family. Some do it for actual love too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:43 PM
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it does because people have limited attention, and their cognitive plate can only handle so much, they will pick the best. Do I think many men are not trying hard enough in lukewarm approach? Absolutely However its by design that most men in these social networks are invisible, unexciting, milktoast milquetoast or creeps who quickly get dealt with today thanks to #metoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:28 PM
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i dont think people always make necessity a virtue, but yes for the most part you are correct. no good deed goes unpunished
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:23 PM
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and i assume japanese and korean women arent so open to foreigners in general.. even though they are thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:02 PM
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i guess.. theres little reason to stay and love each other unless you have kids, raise them, then grandkids. Maybe you have a huge life project and she is helpful to you throughout, that can create a love bond that is long lasting. But otherwise you're right I don't see why people would stay together
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:43 PM
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well yeh and i agreed its the least-worst way to meet women here https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11pmmkn/comment/jbzxoxo/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:12 PM
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yeh, you're right i missed out that part. about not being ashamed and working with himself instead of resisiting or making a destructive enemy out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:00 PM
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I propose we start a global group called below average men, and we help each other out with productive, creative endeavours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:48 PM
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exactly. because women talk and they will share the text convos with others in their secret group chat. And even if you did it properly in person at an event or hangout session, she'll still tell herself "i didnt feel it for this guy because there must be something wrong with him" so gurl you probably shouldn't either. Improving personality and being part of many groups is hard, but we live in a time with big cities and information where its possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:45 PM
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yes it isnt but you will meet friends of friends, or acquaintances through these original friends you have, or the social club you frequent and are trusted in. I think you're really missing the point on how it is as a guy, the risks of having a rumor about being the weirdo, creep, perv, inapprpriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:41 PM
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it stays into 20s onwards too, but theres just alot more other priorities and life isnt as easy, less free time. money, health, family getting older etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:35 PM
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my man johnny autism is back, now wheres hard truthss? and we can get the cool gang back together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:33 PM
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and that proves his point, social circle game for most guys is not viable. its only viable for extroverted men with many circles, who have high energy and constantly socialize. because they can afford to just rotate and ask out women in different groups without poisoning the well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:32 PM
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After puberty begins somewhere around 9-14, we think about it every day of every week of every month of every year from then on until a dude usually gets really old, then its less frequent. this is why its so crucial for the boy in that age period to have his father and other male figures he respects to learn from example in sublimating his desires through studying, work, art, sports, gym, boxing and generally creating value for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:27 PM
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its not to do with morality, its not to do with hedonism or sex/quality of sex either. Purity/sanctity/disgust are just proxies to the man for how likely it is the woman will have mental scars from the past. This is why the virgin, or woman with only one or 2 n counts is likely to have the qualities he wants in a long term wife, and a mother. Those things in themselves are not "moral" or the "good thing god wants" its simply more stable and creates a happy family, a pillar of society. It really …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:13 PM
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holy crap, the degeneracy has blown my mind. you said you find feelings and emotions to be a detriment, do you have feelings of love toward any familly or a good male friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:09 PM
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Yeh I'm in London too. Went to uni outside the city though, but what you said makes perfect sense to me. What do you think of people who say ask women out IRL but in your social circle or hobby groups, is that realistic for most guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:14 PM
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Look abroad. Leave the Anglosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:57 AM
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so it was all online? you live in a big city? just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:34 AM
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I think it's pick and choose the parts they like and benefit them. Like there's traditional conservative feminists today as well like Sydney Watson who was on the women's vice panel. They take the parts from both that benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:30 PM
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Generally 13-19 teenagers want pretty boy with Nice hair. 20-27 want chad with adventure. 28 onward compromise and will settle for a non chad who is more well-rounded and takes care of her, is a pillar of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:24 PM
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thats my point the guys that are at least "ok" and "decent" are already doing their part and its NOT enough. what the reasons are will vary, the reason i gave is social trust, i use sweden as an example often because a few decades ago it was much safer the trust between men/women was stronger due to homogeniety. a dude wouldnt mess with someones daughter because he had some level of sympathy but also social repurcussions. but today in the big bad dirty individualistic city with all kinds of peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:53 PM
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CMV -theres no such thing as red pilled women- a woman cannot emotionally accept the red pill in its entirety since it involves losing and sacrificing more, and the man gaining more ultimately. there is no equal win/win, its a zero sum game with relationships. I've said it before, the women that at least understand some of the red pill tend to be on the autism spectrum, they have a part of their brain that can be completely logical without emotions attached to the information. As for traditional…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:49 PM
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.. https://media.tenor.com/jqfTdAJg9jQAAAAd/no-i-dont-think.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:44 PM
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I mean I'm not doing those things, and if my friends were to do it, i'd call them out or cut ties. but we cannot control what men do? the things you said continue to happen in developed civilized places for various reasons. general social trust is one, and that always drops the larger the cities get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:40 PM
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they can accept the data but also still not change their worldview much. i think necessity and strong emotions are truly what will change the view of men who are i guess "go along to get along"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:36 PM
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Where was I when the uprising happened? Locked up in my bunker with enough supplies to last me. The year was 2023, the month of april. It started in the West coast and soon spread to the rest of the USA, Europe and the developed world. These men were not joking, they wanted things to change! Viva la revolution!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:35 PM
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men with healthy testesterone process emotional differently to women due to their brain structure. they also emote differently and channel emotions differently. men who dont do this in a way without harmin others are usually emoting like a woman or outright with violence, shouting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:34 PM
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that feeling you get when you've learnt or figured out some truth about life. feel so smart and connected to everything .. only until life punches you in the face and you're forced to admit to yourself "fuck i was wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:41 PM
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Not Blue pill. I actually think english is such a reductive language sometimes, we use one word to describe so many concepts and people end up having different definitions. Especially when its text and the context/tone isnt there in person. If I was trying to explain I would say strength of Character is more important than personality and more important than being a virtuous, moral, pro social guy. What do i mean by character here? I mean like resilience to life's challenges, stronger pain toler…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:10 PM
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bonk frequency, clap digits
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:54 PM
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What a sad state of affairs. Mgtow or wgtow never bothered me though, if they're doing ok and have at least some close personal connections with their gender. Isolation and loneliness is deadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:45 PM
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Never expected it. I laugh at those who do. I don't necessarily think that because of the money itself but the traits and skills involved to make that money consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:41 PM
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Look the world is chaotic and we need something stable to hold on to. Especially without the collectivist family structure. Women by nature due to oestrogen cannot be stable all the time. This then falls on the man in the relationship. It sucks but at least you can be vulnerable with a therapist, counsellor, an older mentor or a trustworthy male best friend in private.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:37 PM
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No their version of game, flirting and retention even in marriage are different. It's why something like Models by Mark Manson is more promoted in mainstream society. Whereas I can tell you plenty of books on game (that involve practice) which will never ever be approved by the majority of women and some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:40 PM
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And return to stoic batman voice "hey.."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:36 PM
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Yes because it's clearly not platonic love on his side? If it was no one would have a problem since he feels the relationship is mutually beneficial. But in its current state she clearly has huge emotional leverage to use him for whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:34 PM
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Times have changed alot, technology wise and socially in the last 60 years. Chances are most people will be working around women, even have superiors who are women. The exception is probably all the physical jobs and IT? It's crucial to learn how to socialize with women, yes maybe dads grandads didn't need to learn how to it but men are evolving. Look at these, are they fit by today's standards? https://youtu.be/Dr9yUmYF7T4
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:28 PM
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She won't put up with your lack of self belief for long. If you don't believe in your abilities or at least your potential to improve. Who will?! There's no one playing on your team right now. Therapy is just the start of trying to figure out why and what things you can start to do that'll change your mindset about this. The most obvious way to notice improvement in yourself and feel proud is build an aesthetic body. Start valuing what you do everyday than what you are "I'm a failure". You're go…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:21 PM
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Now you told us your ppd friends. Hey buddy I'm in a rough spot, you've always been a good guy. Can you loan me a grand?? I swear I'll pay you back in the next life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:13 PM
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Hm most of the stuff he put in his videos and all is in 2 years. I thought he might have been a poster from years ago deep into TRP theory. I like the oldest one though about not revealing sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:10 PM
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What's the username?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:29 AM
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no, i tried to find them the other day, maybe he deactivated his account or deleted them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:49 AM
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Direct game is for guys who have already mastered indirect game, and are socially super switched on. As in they can go in a room, read it, scan for the woman who would respond, go up to her and directly start flirting. Many guys today are undersocialized with men but especially women due to videogames, discord, porn, alcohol, weed, work from home, ubereats, reddit, ppd, everything. They should NOT jump straight to direct game. Cold approach is a different matter, its an exercise similar to expos…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:14 AM
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no dude. i dont think its healthy psychologically for people to do cosmetic surgery, especially men. unless its like an accident or deformity from birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:27 AM
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mods can we pls sticky this on the sidebar and confuse newcomers https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/11mxdth/comment/jbl5ln9/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:43 AM
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first the leg surgery, now this https://www.gq.com/story/meet-the-men-paying-to-have-their-jaws-broken-in-the-name-of-manliness oh dear.. its going mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:24 AM
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Men built civilization, not just the physical world but the social policies too. You think they care about other men theyre in competion with? you think they sacrificed everything while knowing they'll die in a few decades? They did it for their wives & their daughters. They did it for women in their community because they valued them as creators of life, read any religious scripture and how it talks about mothers. Sure some things were not as well understood about problems unique to women regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:04 AM
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I know, and thats by design but I gave an ideal setting. In reality in most places both parents will be working full time. https://ourworldindata.org/uploads/2017/08/Labor-Force-Participation-of-women-in-the-US-1955-2005-750x415.png https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/ratio-of-female-to-male-labor-force-participation-rates-ILO-WDI
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:36 AM
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those unremarkable guys don't feel bad about missing out on "youth" where from 13-25 they could have been going out and having casual sex/fwb with many women of different types, while getting attention and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:07 AM
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the best situation is where she works part time in something she is actually passionate about, something creative, artistic, caring for people, community minded. Then takes a break when pregnant, raises kids, when those kids are old enough then she returns to part time work, charitable causes, volunteer work. but yes most of the time will be spent trying to help her husband's goals. the cooking/cleaning themselves are not hard for the guy to do or hire someone to do, they are an expression of he…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:46 AM
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Feminism was never about equality, it was always a supremacy movement and built on the resent of some women. There is plenty of evidence of violent hate from the "first wave" as well as policies put in place that destroyed families and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:21 PM
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It'll be cool when they add more options to this based on census data. As well as to the male calculator too. I'm aware numbers are easiest to deal with at the moment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:48 AM
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depends on the cultural context and the woman's beliefs about herself shaped by upbringing and experiences. Most people have some insecurities and like attention and compliments. I think she can stay single for long periods if she has other priorities, the most powerful in my opinion is children. Aside from that fears of security, societal shaming, working to survive, studies, career, taking care of family members such as parents grandparents siblings, hobbies and to a lesser extent having fun w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:38 AM
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1) not obese 2) don't care height 3) don't care as long as she knows how to get a job and sustain herself 4) preference for white, then my own race, then rest 5) legal age, not too old like 50 onward 6) ideally less count as possible but don't care much anymore 7) ideally doesn't have or want kids, it's alot more work 8) don't care about her lifestyle or habits, as long as we have some basic things we can talk about and isn't making my life intolerable the above is honest. I hope to have better …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:14 AM
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Ziona Chana who was the head a polygamous Christian sect died in 2021 ..He had 39 wives, 94 children, 14 daughters-in-law, 33 grandchildren and one great grandchild
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:56 AM
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He has divorced seven wives, three have died, and three "escaped". https://www.thenationalnews.com/uae/two-fathers-and-138-children-1.549548
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:47 AM
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Divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:45 AM
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I don't think simply being kind and empathetic ignites such attraction to the point a woman is purposely changing the way she thinks and behaves, ie. financially spending on him instead of herself, her family, her friends. Read his post, we're not talking about simple birthday and Christmas gifts for your boyfriend. It's much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:33 AM
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Alpha gigachad laughs at clueless beta chump https://www.reddit.com/r/ContagiousLaughter/comments/11nr3n7/father_of_84_kids_laughing_on_journalist_for/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 08:16 AM
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Well there's fairness in terms of luck in life, not talking about that. Fairness in how people generally treat you, arguable, especially for those in some countries. And lastly fairness in that you understand why the opposite gender rejects you and you can be honest with yourself about why you're not attractive, like you get it. The rules and how they usually apply to everyone. You don't see yourself as some special victim of women & guys who get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:52 AM
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Yeh I'm sort of hinting at the "most people are decent folk" belief but applying it to people are emotional but usually fair in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:50 AM
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For those who are single, do you feel the opposite gender in general has been fair in their behaviour towards you with regards to attraction ..relative to the money, effort, energy, time, focus, attention and health you've put in with the starting cards (family, upbringing, genetics, socioeconomic status, location) you were dealt?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:44 AM
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I've heard of stories online like this, where the guy might be a loser by every metric but believes in himself to be the top dog, and knows how to spike the woman's emotions. That is enough for her to spend all her money on him for years despite her friends and family scolding her for it. This doesn't just happen to "damaged" girls either. The other example is a good looking guy, but that one is more obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:34 AM
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since women on twoX and in general resort to "men commit most acts of violence and sexual assault today and historically, not all men but enough men" to win the men worse than women debate. It's difficult to have any discussion unless the room only has masculine men about problematic behaviours women cause for themselves and others without what I said above being used as emotional leverage. Akin to "solve the starvation problem before worrying about luxuries" What rebuttal do you have to show th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:02 AM
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No one here cares, especially not the women. Best you and I can do is mentor younger dudes we know in person who are willing to listen. Like if you help one or two make the right decisions, that's a victory..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:55 AM
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welcome to ppd daily where you can ask life advice on anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 03:52 AM
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Best blue pill book recommendation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:44 PM
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1stman, start with the shorter ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:43 PM
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The discussion is around what % of men are the ones they fuck with genuine desire & which are obligated desire (beta to provide finances for them and their kids, arranged marriage, marital rape) And those people who say "I see couples outside all the time!! most men are getting sex, it's not hard bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:43 PM
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https://i.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/029/223/cover2.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:29 PM
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Tinder swindler strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:47 PM
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Must suck to have someone describe the reader's deepest darkest secrets out in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:27 PM
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Creating peer reviewed data on this is difficult, especially for a large population. So all we have are anecdotes. The manosphere started as a way to compare notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:18 PM
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thats just my theory, we don't really know why. we just know what is and how it works. emotional highs and lows are important to a woman, why? we don't really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:05 PM
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its a need for most and anecdotal evidence will be enough proof for people. i spoke in generalities assuming a healthy hormone level. We can't exactly do studies to test for how common this is few 20%? many 50%? most 75%? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:54 PM
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Yeh because their hormone levels have been unnaturally changed. Unless you're going to now deny the drop in men's testosterone over the last few decades? I never denied men enjoy indignation too, hence all the tiktok reaction stuff on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:37 PM
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Never underestimate a woman's need for indignation, in the absence of drama she will create her own even if the actual reasons are petty. This may be due to biological programming to relive the trauma of her great ancestor who largely suffered and was constantly living a chaotic life of survival and raising children. The emotion spikes came naturally from problems in nature, community, her child's father and its unlikely life was ever perfectly happy for long. Moving on to men, never as a man un…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:25 PM
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the internet debate is largely about women 18-25 dating men at different stages of life 25-50.. As far as i can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:10 PM
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Completely get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:51 PM
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I agree many men have alot of trashy selfish behaviours, with little regard for the long term harm to women (and other men). I don't think she's wrong in the assesment of her experiences, venting, getting confirmation and feedback. What I don't understand is how she seems to have a blind spot to the fact human nature is in general quite abhorrent and that although women aren't the majority of violent killers or rapists, they still engage in morally wrong behaviours behind a smiling face? More th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:44 PM
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Shall we talk about how most dads treat their children and daughters? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:48 PM
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Because the American empire's supremacy has exported their culture everywhere now with movies, corporations and social media. Not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:47 PM
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That's like saying breeding is a fetish 😂 I mean it is but it's firmly grounded in millions of years of evolution, just like virginity is for hundreds of thousands of human evolution. Something like feet makes much less sense and may be considered weird or disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:45 PM
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In America yes. But the rest of the world it'll vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:42 PM
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We men have a secret test. I doubt anyone on ppd will ever reveal it so yeh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:41 PM
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It usually isn't a public relationship nor is it meant to be permanent. Your example was extreme, a 22 with a 36 year old seems more realistic conducive to a real long term relationship and possibly children and a traditional stay at home mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:40 PM
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Shall we ignore all the biological facts, and scans that show male and female brains are different? Hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:37 PM
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I didn't say they do. They are also generally against the idea today socially, it's mainly an American obsession too and not as prevalent around the world in Europe and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:35 PM
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They do because it's in the sisterhood's best interest to delude men about their sexual capital being just as valuable later in life (or more). It's competition and trying to create a flat structure heirarchy. Nearly every older woman (except the woman you're dating) is against these relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:29 PM
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You pretty much summed up what I was going to try say. My view, Im not against men going to therapy (to both men or women), it can help normal healthy men have a third person outlet (that isn't family or friends) rearrange some thoughts and habits with someone acting like a mirror. It's uncomfortable psychological work to change your mental habits, let alone everyday ones. However it's likely their main solutions are in "doing" which doesn't involve just saying their emotions out loud and follow…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:13 PM
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Men want sexual variety but will ignore this drive if they've found a decent woman they love and feel attached to, especially if they have a long term common goal like children or she helps his life in enough ways. So no he wouldn't want more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:00 PM
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Men don't care about women. Women don't care about women. Men don't care about men. Women don't care about women. Men do care about the woman they've chosen to be the mother of their children. We'll call it idealistic love. It's not unconditional but it's an imposed fantasy which will distort her true nature. Women don't care about the man they've chosen as the father of their children. They marry the lifestyle, they are opportunistic lovers. The "love" and emotional attachment comes through yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:54 AM
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I just ignore the black pill stuff. Anyone who's honest with themselves knows it's more a mental game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:43 AM
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Why should they? Do they owe it? Why do other men do it? Pro-social and selfless behaviours are seen as "good" but they make little sense for the individual if he's in a society with little social trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:39 AM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:34 AM
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Fine. I'd be impressed he manages to keep his masculine traits, habits and behaviourism. Similar case with a guy who has no dad growing up, just mum and a bunch of sisters and aunts. No one is immune to being affected by their environment which is why we curate how much time we spend in any type of circle. (Though from time to time we should still expose ourselves to it to challenge our worldview)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:24 AM
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Man I love humans sometimes. They always amaze me with their ingenuity. Efficiency and solutions!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:34 AM
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Wait, an actual traditional woman? I have questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:32 AM
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Nothing. Life is better than ever as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:21 PM
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sometimes, but yeh just get any drink without alcohol. It's just a crutch let alone all the health harms https://cdn1.vox-cdn.com/uploads/chorus_asset/file/3369928/most_dangerous_drugs.0.png
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:23 AM
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had a tiny epiphany i want to share with the young dudes here. the common rp self improvement advice of become the best man you can be, be healthy, become financially free and independent is all good, but when they say still improve social skills while on the grind, what it looks like is.. go to social events (non alcoholic preferably) and learn how to give value to people simply by your company, with how you talk and your presence, thats the skill you need to learn. Theres many ways to do this,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:01 AM
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Don't bother trying to make them understand. Find men who went through that same journey of self improvement. They're the only ones who will empathize
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:23 AM
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Top triggering topics here for men and women? I'll start. Women : n counts, age gaps, foreign women, sex is a need
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:37 PM
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Gotta love how triggered everyone gets over the age gap threads. Random ppd woman "But I would never date someone younger than me under 25, It would feel wrong" Well yeh but men and women are not the same, they don't want the same things. There are countless brain scans showing how our brains are connected differently and process emotions differently. Equalism is a false god. Sometimes I wonder if solipsism is true but it's more likely that they don't need to try understand and empathize with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:59 PM
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It means nothing. On average everyone of both genders uses logic, rationality and emotions to guide their decisions and behaviour. We need emotions, emotional processing and emoting as a guide to function in the world, especially in social situations with family, friends, children, strangers and lovers. When a person is overwhelmed by an emotion distorting their reality, it's difficult to reason with them. On average the girl may cry watching a film or do art, the guy may go to the gym and let o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:44 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:33 AM
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Its going to be hard because women respond emotionally, the things you said are logically good and mainly good for you. First accept its hard, second accept you're doing some things wrong. Now if you've actually used good pictures then it means you're not good looking enough for online dating. Delete the apps for now. Second are you in a big city or near one? force yourself to become extroverted and go to activities and social events, network, make friends both men and women (examples such as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:05 AM
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tell me about the golden era of this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:46 AM
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I'll play devils advocate here. When women are taught to think for themselves, they make bad decisions and end up unhappy with their lives. Generally women don't really want to go face the world's challenges and dedicate their life to their job and career. The women you described become too good at navigating life yet their biology says they need someone better than them. And they're lost because they can't find anyone nor turn off their hypergamy. So the end up extremely dissatisfied with their…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:46 AM
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Blue pill strawman summed up?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:51 PM
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This is good. This is very good
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:56 PM
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That's why you don't give them that power over you. If it happens with sincerity then great, but don't count on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:01 AM
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They don't like to do things, or go outside their comfort zone. Find the few who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:11 AM
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Fuck them. Help people in your local community in person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:15 PM
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Can't blame him. Dota is addictive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:49 PM
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but i am stupid and disobedient though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:25 PM
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not sure if its the content itself thats not allowed on reddit in general or its because that attracts a woe-is-me or troll crowd that doesn't discuss in a civil manner
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:23 PM
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same, so basically you have to stand out in multiple ways but still seem like a normal down to earth dude (not weird or creepy)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:33 PM
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You can want things and simultaneously learn to be content without them. Don't give up, even if you have a crappy life right now, it's still worth living and trying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:30 PM
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Depending on where you live, alot harder but never impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:26 PM
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Dang. https://youtu.be/7OQr9FJ1HFk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:23 PM
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if a thread got removed by reddit does that mean the mods left it up but the big people came and dealt with it 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:31 AM
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Whilst I don't disagree with your assessment (especially if he doesn't leave the west).. Don't other rewards make the effort worth it? Being healthy, strong, financially free, respect from men wherever you go, able to help your family and having their love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:16 AM
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A father is the only man in the world she knows who loves her in a platonic way and cares about her wellbeing. This can to a lesser extent also happen being raised by a grandad or uncle from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 05:12 AM
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oh my godd its been 11 whole days since the survey and its not even pinned. results when?! heavy breathing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:17 AM
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I'm from 92. We still spent alot of time behind TV, watching VHS and and dvds, pentium 3 computer screen playing pixel games, ps1, chat rooms, forums. I was chatting in game lobbies when I was 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:14 AM
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The problem with discord is you can't be casual with it. It combines forums, chat messengers, irc chat rooms all in one. It does everything! Keeps you stuck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:12 AM
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I mean that's kind of what this child psychiatrist unironically calls for https://youtu.be/YSaf5lRnkfQ It might not be so bad and it's not been experimented with yet because man strong, man fight. Btw he's married with kids, not gay lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:05 AM
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Is it possible humanity at some point reaches a dystopia where the genders are flipped, what I mean is technology is advanced enough that men's natural capability for violence is no longer an advantage. How would women run things in such a matriarchal or gynocentric city/country/world?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:59 AM
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I think today game is still in the top priority only if we define game as social skills and not doing the wrong things such as: 1) don't be weird or creepy 2) be good at asserting yourself in confrontations 3) don't be boring, be a captivating story teller and make your experiences and passions sound interesting But especially number 1. If you can simply just come across as a normal down to earth dude, that'll put you ahead of many these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:21 PM
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Cannot truly empathize with something you haven't experienced. However listen, understand and sympathize yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:32 AM
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Lol just curious do men here hug their friends or is it just a fist bump
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:27 AM
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Q4m if we were buddies, would you be ok with hugging properly every time we meet and say bye?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:24 AM
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As the new status quo gets exported to the middle east. In a few decades it will be the new place for upper class men to find a wife and bring her home.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:22 PM
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It's not a diss dude. Majority of guys would be very happy to have an average woman in their life. As long as she's not really hard to deal with, stays thin (many don't even mind that). The criteria is just turn up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:21 PM
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There's some hard advocates of the trad con narrative who are women. I find them a bit scary because they have a very limited understanding of people. I realise now how red pillers sound to the mass public today
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:17 PM
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disagree. I've been in London for the most part of 17 years and can count my matches on dating apps. I think it's actually easier in rural areas because you're a big fish in a small pond
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 01:15 PM
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Is that a threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:52 PM
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That's unfortunate and difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:04 PM
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What stopped her from doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:56 PM
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I don't know why there's jealousy about other men. He can't impregnate them. Possible loss of emotional and resource investment I guess but I'm sure there's better theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:19 PM
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There are countless ways to dry her up. The common ones are being a creep or being boring. However if you have a woman you can't get rid of, simply whine about your problems to her, how helpless you are and cannot deal with them. I guarantee she will disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:13 PM
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"I'm busy, I have to make money to support my old ill parents and take care of them, and financially support my young cousins who's parents died in an accident"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:50 PM
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man, can i start a fundraiser for my bad choices as an adult in a free educated egalitarian country? https://www.gofundme.com/f/75c8gg-help-the-victims-of-the-tinder-swindler i love me some of that dosh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:17 PM
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and thats why she mentally damages the children through emotional incest?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:10 PM
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So their husbands died and they're on dating sites? Doubt. It doesn't say teenagers want men their grandpa's age, way to miss the point. I'm not flexing, I simply state what is. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24132774/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25813610/ https://youtu.be/y7d67DbTW9E?t=108 Thats right, chances are this applies to all the males in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:07 PM
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I wonder what age females peak in desirability? hehe study source this graph is looking much more plausible now isnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:24 PM
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Theres lots of signs tbh, you'd have to read TRP, have life experience and observe others. She has a mating strategy which she is unaware of but the pattern always plays out similarly when you remove institutions such as parental involvement, courtship, religion and culture. A few signs of alpha imprint: she names son after him, she reminisces about him with her friends in secret, hes the one that got away, she has irrational indignation towards alpha type men even though they were the ones she …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:52 PM
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Not much most guys can do to powerful men on the other side of the world. Not any pill, just aware and realistic. The daughter will be stopped for her own wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 07:00 PM
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You use force obviously. This is what we call tough love. Empathic concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:57 PM
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Doesn't matter what age she is.. if she wants to get on the plane of some random mossad agent she met on tinder I'll be like no you ain't. Love is real but blinds you. All the tinder swindler women were old enough and in free countries. Yet the public is paying their gofundme for bad decisions. https://www.gofundme.com/f/75c8gg-help-the-victims-of-the-tinder-swindler So please your arguments void. The father, uncle, grandad, brother are smart enough and not trying to sleep with her. They have en…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:54 PM
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Why couldn't you make it about an 18 or 19 year old? Oh the Tates? Yeh if you are saying 16/17 then it's an interesting question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:47 PM
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He is a child and adolescent psychiatrist
/r/MensRights23/01/23 10:24 PM
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More choices. Usually in countries with more rights, money and less social consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:38 PM
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No one knows. Can you choose one, or two?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:16 PM
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AWALT. Some are just able to get away with it. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 09:14 PM
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yeh for sure research it. as far as i know SSRIs are the safest antidepressants and usually prescribed first. even your GP/doctor can prescribe them directly, ask them about paroxetine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:12 PM
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we live in a free economy (i hope) if there is a desire for something, people will make it. i dont know what your point is. the lazy guy who just wants to repeat catchphrases will do just that and ignore the tons of helpful content on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:54 PM
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apparently we're not allowed to talk about this because it counts as incl meme or content. but yeh with most SSRIs a common side effect is lower libido and difficulty orgasming.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:52 PM
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thats just rage bait and catchy advertisement to make people click. it can involve reactions to tiktok videos or other content. the real red pill is underground and always has been. now if you really want to learn, stop being intelectually lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:48 PM
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the end of men?! wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:32 PM
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It's 6 min lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:44 PM
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difference between healthy narcissism, traits and NPD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:11 PM
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always remember, you can never trust her lads
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:02 PM
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Mr Dependable is usually boring, stable, secure and not a consideration until the woman is near or has hit the wall (i'm not as attractive as i used to be a decade ago, dont have as much choice of the best guy). He is the completion of her mating strategy, regardless if she wants kids or not. The good thing is there are plenty of guys who are fine working on their stuff and being there at that stage because she said "if we're both single at 35 i'll marry you!! ok bestie?!". Women will usually sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:07 AM
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If she uses the nickname Lilith.. run.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:26 PM
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Already done. I won and destroyed all of ppd. Zero counters lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:15 PM
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Women talk face to face. Men talk shoulder to shoulder. As a man you will not befriend other men except when you're doing something together. Either to solve a problem or a common goal. Fishing, making money, gym partners, fixing a car. The deep conversation will only happen as an afterthought to the task at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:38 PM
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Hormones contribute to self consciousness
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:15 PM
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Never again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:22 PM
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Nah I suck at pretending to be a woman. And I don't personal think red pilled women exist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:21 PM
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No. Edited it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 12:13 PM
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The Tate thing got old. Gimme suggestions for what to LARP as next to get maximum rage comments from ppd women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:33 AM
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Shall I bring up the stats on how much more likely it is to be molested, abused or killed by a step parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:47 PM
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if you lost the moustache 4/10. Once I trust some people more here I'll show them my 4/10 face too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:20 PM
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With white parents who have generational wealth due to easier times thanks to imperialism.. it's unlikely. They'll probably be left a house and savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:08 PM
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As a man the only thing you owe society is to not be a parasite (whether it's off the government or your family).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:53 PM
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Their cousins, uncles, aunts should adopt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:50 PM
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It's intellectually lazy and removes any discussion by putting people into binary boxes of shitty and not shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:48 PM
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30 year age gap is ideal https://www.theguardian.com/science/2023/jan/21/over-the-moon-buzz-aldrin-marries-long-time-love-on-his-93rd-birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:42 PM
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I don't trust their definition of child abuse and neglect. But anyway most isn't done on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:09 PM
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Rarely on purpose. Please
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:02 PM
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Wrong. And I find the "shitty people will be shitty" argument funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:00 PM
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Adoption doesn't work. It has to be your own genetics. Man and virgin woman. Marriage is an institution for your children. https://nypost.com/2023/01/20/couple-pimped-their-adopted-sons-out-to-pedophile-ring-report/ If you don't want kids then this doesn't apply. Enjoy your swingers parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:44 PM
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Some people can get obsessive about a topic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:07 PM
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That's a shame. But there are still alot of psychological benefits I've seen in short guys who stay fit, aesthetically pleasing, perhaps even know how to fight. It benefits them in other ways than directly being eye candy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:37 PM
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Ma'am id like one sex with a side of fries
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:11 PM
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It's not your personality or character. It's how well you can make people do what you want without them realising it. In a group setting but especially one to one with a woman of any age. Mastering her emotions. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adroitness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:05 PM
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the blank slate, social constructionism, emotionalism, equalism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 11:11 AM
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imagine being on a debate forum without knowing what you're debating against. especially when its so easily available online for free as a pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:37 AM
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CMV: only the women who are on the autism spectrum can understand and emotionally accept harsh unfair TRP truths. An example is torshaa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:15 AM
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I'm whatever pill focuses on social skills and charisma. Always have been.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:53 PM
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No clue but the Whatifalthist video does address some of the things he has said, there is genius in the madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:46 PM
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I miss hardtruths posts :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:35 PM
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Who do you think is the most sensible user here of the opposite gender? My vote goes to cimzim
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:14 PM
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I've been 6ft since my teens and all it's done is prevent some confrontation and altercations with troublesome dudes. It hasn't done anything else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:05 PM
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Fuck men am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:00 PM
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None of the male friends I had were comfortable with hugging properly, even after drinks. Some didn't like touching or standing facing each other on the dancefloor or sitting together facing each other. Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:55 PM
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What do people even talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:32 PM
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How many of you are introverted/asocial (here I mean dislike talking face to face most of the time) and wish you were the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:09 PM
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I see it more as essential. like who even looks better with fat on their face? Its good advice to give anyone but it's not the be all end all, there's more to do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:57 PM
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Can she feel no spark for a guy but after many dates or spending time together like at work because they have to.. develop sexual attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:25 PM
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Only certain kinds of smart are attractive. The rest are detrimental
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:19 PM
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It's ok I don't bother with bots I ask real femoids. That's how I got all these slap marks on my face
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:15 PM
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Nope sex bots are one time purchases and they're virgins. So all good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:13 PM
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the best question to ask a female you just met: "how many phalluses have entered into your system?" Works every time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:51 PM
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theres multiple ways to be valuable as a guy. you can get ideas from people you've never met. blindly following anyone for anything is a recipe for disaster and no its not that subjective, there are clear patterns in what is valuable to biological humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:01 PM
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https://youtu.be/KFl8OavjiPU There solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 08:26 PM
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Not what I was going for. But in terms of South East Asian like Filipino or Thai, it's more acceptable for them to marry a white guy. As opposed to an Indian or Pakistani woman here in the UK
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:06 PM
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What qualities in someone make you admire them? Like they stand out to you among the masses of average people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:03 PM
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Q4M Did you see your dad as your hero growing up? (Upto teens) if not then who? someone else you knew personally? Celebrities? Businessmen? the writers of your favourite books or fictional characters? Historical figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:37 PM
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Or Samaritans helpline
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:35 PM
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Another man doing the same sees you and gives you the upward or downward nod of solidarity. We all have to put in effort, some much more than others. In order to just be accepted and not have a trash life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:35 PM
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I don't know why they lump them all together. They fundamentally believe different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:01 PM
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Followed by not behaving weird or creepy. Be fun, interesting, secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:00 PM
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Lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:58 PM
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It's not the money, it's the life skills and ambition behind it that are attractive. And the lifestyle he has
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:50 AM
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They will never care. If your own parents only care that you give them grandchildren then why do you think strangers will be concerned if you experienced sex, intimacy, relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:47 AM
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No everythings fine. People are just entitled and lazy. Sometimes they're unlucky but over time everyone gets what they deserve right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:39 AM
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I'm not sure, it sounds like a shitty unattentive father was a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:36 AM
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Evolutionary biology and psychology reveals unflattering truths about both men and women. Deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:31 AM
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As an addon this has repeatedly been a problem in the south Asian community living abroad for decades now. The women who move or grew up here slowly had more egalitarian and western ideals yet they still retain some culture and religion. When it comes time to marry whether it's 20s 30s they find that their equivalent "high value" men with degrees and good jobs and a house and car, either date and marry the local women, or they try find someone more accomodating to them from back home. These wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:48 AM
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First of all the actual group of guys you're talking about are those stuck in the anger phase. They may be red pill aware but have chosen a victim path. You may call this group self identified incels, doomers, the determinists and nihilists in the black pill. Anyway that is just semantics, I understand you in spirit. They usually come from a coddled, spoilt, comfortable lifestyle throughout from when they were born. Whether it was their mom (usually) or dad or someone else facilitating that. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:35 AM
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It won't be. There's no council putting policies with men's best interests in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:56 AM
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6 chad exes, 6 big macs in a session, 6 children from different dads, 6 figure debt, 6 days a year of interest in sex, 6 days a week of clubbing in cancun with her girls, 6 different social media apps with her best photos up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:46 PM
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Hedonic treadmill. We all need a reminder sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:12 PM
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"my life sucks because I can't get sex with my looksmatch" Meanwhile people are grateful just to be alive (warning ⚠️ don't open if you are sensitive) https://youtu.be/ST9vj2PAScY Btw he's had girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:01 PM
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As an add on, old but quite entertaining https://www.theguardian.com/world/2006/nov/12/italy.barbaramcmahon
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:47 PM
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Never was bothered by misandrists. It's likely the men in their lives only put up with them for reasons other than their character.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:43 PM
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Thoughts? https://gulfnews.com/world/mena/three-brothers-divorce-their-wives-at-the-same-time-in-algeria-1.85882380 bear in mind this is in a country where the men probably work, and the women do the housework and the women move in with the guy and his parents. I wonder what unspoken social contracts we had but now there's no rules
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:41 PM
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Nah it's hard to suspend my disbelief
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:39 PM
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The hero we don't deserve https://www.huffpost.com/entry/what-its-like-to-be-a-sex-surrogate_n_5b3e8b5be4b07b827cbebde2
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:52 AM
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There was no way to prevent it anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 11:13 AM
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Always happy to help. Btw women should stop being delusional that chad will give them a chance 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:29 AM
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Guys who watched sports back in the day tended to play it too, be generally fit, have other manly friends and since there's only so many big matches in a week they wouldn't spend all their time indoors. Basically they were more well rounded. I guess most people don't like drunk sports hooligans but they still have some masculinity, assertiveness and extroversion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:20 AM
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Genuine desire
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:25 AM
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Maybe a good looking gf at every stage in his life? So one in high school. One at university. And then one when he enters the work force. So by his 30s he's possibly had 1-4 deep long term relationships with quality women. Where neither do one night stands, fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:21 AM
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Rejection is the only scenario that forces most people to adapt, change or improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:18 AM
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Some theories are that its nothing to do with women. It's money laundering using casinos or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:11 AM
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Random psa - if you have to sit a lot for your job, make sure you do some exercise to work your lower back muscles. Don't get a slipped disc and sciatica. It's a real bich
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:56 AM
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Because it was never about masturbating using a stranger's body. It was about being desired and wanted, ideally by a good looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:38 AM
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Betas couldn't be bothered to go to the gym. You think they'll go to the uprising meeting?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:34 AM
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looks like you can't handle some hard truths. pft
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:59 AM
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right on schedule as always. yeh you cant shame a guy into being more moral. being self interested is amoral
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:49 PM
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we're human at the end of the day. we will look around and think we're missing out if we see others looking happy in something we don't have. let me ask you a different question, what are you afraid will happen if you get in your ideal realistic relationships and having regular sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:04 PM
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I think that's reasonable, out of the cosy education system and a few years in full time employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:26 PM
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when exactly would you see a daughter able to make her own decisions to date a 30+ man? without threats of judicial punishment..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:18 PM
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sure i'm assuming the justice system will deliver. otherwise you have to take it in your own hands. But thats aside from the point, do you see how its a completely different scenario? The one I described is far more comparable, or an experienced scummy salesman preying on uneducated folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:58 PM
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i never understood why people compare it to paedophilia. if someone was trying anything with my daughter who didn't even yet understand sexuality i'd make sure they spend their life in jail. when you're talking about an adult woman who understands sexuality, what relationships are. its a different discussion about someone using you and giving back less, more akin to an exploitative employer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:45 PM
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I think most normal people know you should be assertive and not too nice. This book is recommended everywhere and had no controversy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:31 PM
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Give me some Soft Truths
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:03 PM
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Can't say I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:33 PM
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oh dear, what have i started real talk though , when i said ugly i meant just ugly. I dont think any woman has this dichotomy unless she lives in a rural village in the middle of nowhere. Out of a choice i think she will pick the most well rounded, but prioritize the social side ie. good with people, good with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:26 PM
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If you had to recommend introductory red pill book to someone today what would it be? Unplugged alpha by rich cooper? Rational male 1 and 2?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:29 PM
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hope you can find way to channel that energy - so it benefits future you. no other decent option tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:19 PM
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i dont think any masculine figure can be popular, if he is masculine in the conventional definition it would mean he is polarizing and idgaf attitude. in a movie its fine because you can dislike han solo. but in real life he will not be as popular except in his niche. pro social alphas (like captain america) in my opinion are actually quite rare. and they are never good marketers or salesmen, never tweeting all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:14 PM
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theres no solution. just acceptance, indifference and no expectations from men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:11 PM
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can we have an agreed upon definition of modern woman? I know youtubers love using it as a title for the algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:58 AM
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jokes aside.. I love batman the most! and generally went through a phase of watching alot of superhero media. I recommend Batman Year One and Dark Knight Returns 2 parter to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:57 AM
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Could you be more specific where in Asia?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:47 AM
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Was the conception of red pill to counter the changing culture during 60s-now in the Anglosphere? It seems like there isn't a need for red pill in the rest of the world. They naturally understood it from parents and traditional culture. (Ignoring PUA here because that was to take advantage of deregulated dating. No courtship, no parent involvement, free for all)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:37 AM
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clears throat and puts on best Attenborough voice And here in the wild we see a prime example of mate guarding. The males are constantly in competition and asserting dominance to scare off the others while using the least force and confrontation as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:18 AM
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Tell me any other public figure that encapsulates conventional masculinity as their character Btw I do agree that the role models boys have should be people they personally know. Dads, uncles stepdad, grandads, older brothers, coaches, mentors at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:44 AM
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They don't care about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:37 AM
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There are challenges in being with someone from a different culture. However I would say in the last 100 or so years we've had more mixed race children. The world is globalised and people are finding love everywhere. It's pretty cool if you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:33 AM
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All this sounds like alot of hassle. Wouldn't it just be easier to try some apps or websites where people look for non monogamous arrangements
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:30 AM
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Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:22 AM
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Are you saying red pill attracts men on the spectrum? 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:21 AM
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Personal value is different from what they can get when single and dating. I will add a caveat that many men and women are choosing not to have kids so their criteria is very different from this conventional model you posed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:12 AM
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It's always been imbalanced. It just seemed like it wasn't because women had very little socioeconomic mobility in life and freedom to choose whatever life path they want. Embrace the scene
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:04 AM
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You realize you're advocating for women to objectify themselves and have sex with men they don't really want. Even without any moral judgement it doesn't sound healthy for people in the long term :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:02 AM
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I ask them question in real life and here for entertainment bro, not necessarily for education. Try to just enjoy the company of female friends, they can provide something male friends generally can not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:45 AM
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Basically any dating or relationships book that is popular and rated highly by women. Usualy it will be included in a social skills and people book. Check Amazon and goodreads. Some subs like exredpill have resources too. If the women are not calling it misogynist or something bad in the comments chance are the blue pill mainstream approve it as a resource for men (besides generally going out and being social). Alot of them are also not instruction manuals, they are novels to show a character th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:38 AM
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This still happens in polygynous societies in Africa.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:20 PM
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If they're white yeh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:18 PM
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I understand that, and having a woman by your side who acknowledges your efforts is a great mirror back. We all need some outside feedback or we'd be delusional in our heads I have something maybe it will help you have a different perspective, starts at 30sec https://youtu.be/kX2EJSwOCug Acknowledge you want appreciation from a woman but don't ever let it be the condition on your happiness and contentment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:52 PM
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I would see appreciation as a bonus. If you can accomplish things and feel good in yourself, it's far far more reliable. Do your parents, family or friends appreciate you for being in their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:37 PM
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How important is it to you that you are loved?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:24 PM
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The violent incels all showed symptoms of covert narcissism and ASPD. They would have committed crimes regardless whether they got women or find some other reason. The majority of men who have little success with women are quiet about it, some are on forums venting into the void. There will be no uprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:17 PM
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No wife, some money. Maximum freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:13 PM
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I didn't make the rules. I just observe and point out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:10 PM
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There's this video I forgot where but the guy was like "the connection is the prize"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:50 PM
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Be better than all the other options she has who are willing to be monogamous. That's it really, it depends on what she's looking for and prioritizes but she will share.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:26 PM
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Before even finishing the post I knew it was you who wrote it. Keep it up buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:18 PM
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#BringBackPolls 🥺 so we can see know more about silent ppd users who dont post/comment and maybe vote sometimes. See how many male/female blue/purple/red pillers we have, what positions non pillers hold. I suspect the greatest demographic currently is older married red pill men and purple pilled women who are in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:37 AM
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as an interesting add-on to that. % of adults living with parents https://landgeistdotcom.files.wordpress.com/2022/05/europe-young-adults-living-with-parents.png?w=1200 average age of young people leaving home https://preview.redd.it/hw7kksypmju91.png?auto=webp&s=9cb46f64fddf3fd578bf4b343ad62f918252013c if anyone has stats on North america, Oceania then go ahead :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:31 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/10bhzjf/meirl/ Livin the dream'
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:12 AM
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Most women are against cheating for everyone as far as I know. The "he must have not been doing enough" ones are few. The biggest advocates of animal rights are mostly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:34 AM
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No just immoral things women advocate for or do often but don't address.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:21 AM
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But that's such an awful thing to do! What if someone did it to your sister or daughter!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:10 AM
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The Germans have some wonderful words that English will never come close to. Other languages too https://www.fluentin3months.com/badass-german-words/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:59 AM
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Voice messages? Go straight to asking on a date in a public place?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:54 AM
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Idk probably late 1800s. New fangled invention called women's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:40 AM
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Women are trustworthy always. You having thoughts of testing means you're the bad guy. Men are untrustworthy until they go through all the shit tests and social background checks. Even then a decade later if you smell women's perfume on him, he's upto something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:39 AM
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The reward is the goodness itself?! And the fuzzy feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:33 AM
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My wife's boyfriend Darren lost feelings first and stopped railing her while I played video games. It was the catalyst for our breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:31 AM
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Thanks for the brand idea for his new snack bar
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:29 AM
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Q4m Alot of the points by women here seem to emphasize on moral, fair actions and lead to a utopian society. What is something these women overlook? Or are they truly the most decent humans who ever lived. Come on I need some rebuttals and displays of hypocrisy. I'm starting to fear they may be right, historically societies that gave women more rights prospered more, the prime examples being Germanic peoples, Catholic Europe, then the Protestant Anglosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:27 AM
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Wemen aren't a reward for your hard work!! We're people!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:22 AM
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I agree that everything is a proximal goal towards survival and reproduction Maslow's pyramid revised https://cdn2.psychologytoday.com/assets/styles/manual_crop_1_91_1_1528x800/public/blogs/34021/2010/05/42921-27499.jpg?itok=-dMuPcvs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:17 PM
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I assume your wife had no possible means to explore beyond her social group, town, city. All the guys she saw who made it were taken or too old. She was getting older and had to make a bet on a guy with potential using her best judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:52 PM
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I just see it like an employer. They don't care about your personal circumstances. Just have the relevant experience or next.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:18 PM
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For sure. He should just "get it" magically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:14 PM
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A person from the country chad gets internet and is excited to Google what the world thinks about his people. First thing is a Reddit thread called "I hate chad so much!!! Chad took everything from me". The poor guy gets confused
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 11:03 AM
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Too bad, shoulda not had them in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:56 AM
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I'm starting a stags rights movement. This injustice cannot continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:54 AM
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Some flavour. Gotta self amuse too while educating low T men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:31 AM
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And that's okay. TRP uses evolutionary psychology to explain the possible reasons why, such as war brides, prioritizing infants and children (and pets as proxy). No need to get angry, upset or gleeful. It just is. Now use it to live the best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:28 AM
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Common enough. The female calls all the shots at home and when they're in public you can tell who's in charge when he looks to mommy for approval and is terrified.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:26 AM
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Agent of the matrix. The system actually is against men, to be more perfect is to be like a woman. APA declares traditional masculinity marked by stoicism, competitiveness, dominance and aggression is harmful. Imagine knowing that men and women's brains process emotions differently. Look it's okay you don't care about men but stop lying about life saving information.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:24 AM
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Women preferred if you naturally did those things because you like to without trying or being taught by other men. Their worst fear is being impregnated (or it's proxies) by bad genes who didn't grasp it fast and needed TRP or PUA to learn things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:12 AM
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Even the fact they do that is a surprise. It's not like they care about men, they just see they can make some money out of this. Helping men is more of an afterthought and an intrinsic reward, feeling purposeful. I don't think anyone really cares except the guy getting screwed over by current gender rules and inhibiting his masculinity living a life of quiet desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:10 AM
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Faulty mutations that were meant to serve the greater society rather than pass on their genes. Either through war or community work. Sometimes through eccentric personalities, you need all kinds to make society work. The autistic nerd who is good with computers, the bipolar artist, the charming scummy salesman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:08 AM
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Most people still won't improve themselves beyond necessity. Most guys already know what they have to do to improve their life and be more fulfilled. It's not some hidden esoteric meaning waiting to be found. Don't worry about information being more widely available.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:05 AM
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Male and female brains process emotions differently, they communicate differently, they emote differently. Of course men feel emotions. And just because some youtuber makes a reaction video to a tiktok saying how awful women are doesn't mean it's Red Pill. If you opened any actual red pill book you'd see it's simply about not having unrealistic fantasies about women and screwing up your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:02 AM
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Better make more money than sacrifice your self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:56 AM
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You've never read a Red Pill book in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:56 AM
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In Europe they give all kinds of free stuff to couples who have kids. So in that regard it's already happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:53 AM
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I thought you were a troll, turns out you're serious. Yes women want to be lead and directed by a man they admire, the centre of their world. Usually he will have more resources and autonomy than her so there is a risk of misuse of power. Parents control their children, Landlords control their tenants, managers control their employees, lawmakers control citizens. The world is heirarchal. Women advocate for looksmatch or assortative mating because it usually benefits them as the guy comes with va…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:51 AM
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Your first point relates to the Loyalty/Betrayal moral foundation. Females lack loyalty because we evolved during a time where other tribes would raid and take your wife. She had to adjust to her new husband. Don't expect loyalty from females, once you have kids she's only keeping you around because you're a net benefit to the kids' lives, and her life, her social status. Your second point I assume you're saying she's planning a trip without you with the girls. Yeh that means she is hoping to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:46 AM
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Exactly these women are all in denial lol. As if all women love soft romantic sexy time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:34 AM
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Certain women have enjoy this. How do I know? There are literally hidden subreddits with rape kinks, sub dom, choking, all that crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:33 AM
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Never debate or argue with a woman. You'll never win because they don't live in objective reality. Their goal is to reach an acceptable emotional state. Being happy is more important than being right. Unfair realities like their brain structures being different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:22 AM
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Cannot respect a man who behaves scared and hesitant around his woman. What she gonna do? Stop giving you her body? Take away your kids? Who cares. Have more kids with another one. Stop walking on eggshells pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:18 AM
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Not angry at anyone. Not women because they're following their evolved imperative Not at men because they're looking out for themselves Not at parents because they did what they knew and weren't purposely sabotaging. Not at society because the rules are created over time to benefit as many people as possible. There's always downsides. Not at evolution because it just is. A battle of immortality between single celled and multicell organisms Not at God because I'm powerless anyway if he's a sadist…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:51 PM
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Let's be honest, unless the guy is completely out of touch with reality, he isn't going to advertise or hint at his violent plans. It's usually just to get emotional reactions and narcissistic supply. He knows no man or woman will DM him and be like "damn yeh sex slaves! They shouldn't be allowed to vote!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:27 PM
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Women have a biological need for indignation. If she has the perfect life, she will create the drama. One of the many forms is mocking incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:24 PM
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Content creator, model, streamer, nurse, make up artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:17 AM
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k count. How many men's DNA has been absorbed through her mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:09 AM
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No they still want Sexual variety due to the Coolidge effect. Spread their seed into every corner of the world so their genes live on immortal with all the possible mixes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:55 AM
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Nothing to worry about. No problems. No causes for concern. Continue your day as usual. Everyone is struggling, men aren't uniquely struggling with anything especially dating, sex and relationships. Incels are a small minority with no possible legitimate grievances. Women individually don't need to change anything for men collectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 07:54 AM
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Fat is only attractive in very poor societies. "She wanted me to have fat thighs and arms because I would attract men and could have children. My mother would even use a comb to sweep my arms for the silvery stretch marks to show"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:33 AM
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not all truths need to be advertised, or society would fall apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:14 AM
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Most men ideally would come home to a loving sweet wife cooking the best meal while nurturing their kids, and knows him better than anyone .. at the same time.. as occasionally fucking a secretary half their age of a different race exploring taboo kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:08 AM
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For white passing, average and above looking women yeh. The rest meh they're always resentful they couldn't be the above and have the best experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:05 AM
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You shortlist to 2 or 3 places. If she's still being a child then you just pick one and deal with whining and consequences like an adult who took a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:03 AM
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Then that's where we disagree. I dont see masturbation or sexual content as a healthy long term alternative. I can say men need sex and still say women should do it with who they genuinely desire and are not obligated to because of society or religion. Nature is imperfect, unfair and unbalanced all the time. Usually these women will trade or use sex as a currency to get other things from these men. So it's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:02 AM
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never date anyone at work (career). explained https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EX1J7JX66aY
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:42 AM
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The woke mob is never satisfied until you say exactly what they want to hear. Top G is one of the handful of people on earth who says what he thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:05 AM
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Me, his homie. I get his best side, we spoon each other when the women aren't around. He whispers his greatest fears and insecurities in my ear and sighs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:08 PM
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Not really. All women are users, in fact all people are. There's no such thing as true altruism and all love is conditional, therefore all relationships are transactional. Both women you stated are the same, the first just gets intrinsic reward from doing those things, plus her good efforts are still reciprocated and rewarded eventually. You don't think the first woman will want a man strong in essential areas just like the second? You will meet women with better attitudes, habits and life goals…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:03 PM
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Is this the sub owner again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:07 PM
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13 Haven't had a gf by 13? What are you doing. Loser. But ya most will say why couldn't you at least go through one during your school or university years. University on average ends at 21, latest 25 if you went through med school or PhD. This is largely an American way of looking at this though since North America lacks "third places" ie. Places you can just walk to and hang out with friends, that aren't your home, education or work. Universities are like mini towns especially if you live there…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:20 PM
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And we've gone full circle. Soon they'll have separate sections for males and females like in the middle east.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:25 AM
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The reason why you're disingenuous is that you approach this issue with an idealistic perspective. You want it to be true that men don't need sex to have a complete human experience. You want men to have no legitimate reason to speak a word. I'm not interested in complainers either, I just look at "what is" whether it serves my moral ideals or not. Not once did I mention women should do a certain thing. Saying should would imply a judgement or prescription. https://www.mangobaaz.com/straight-pak…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:10 AM
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Share your secrets with the class. Maybe write a book, it'll sell like hot cakes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:21 AM
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I just said need as in you won't die without it. So I didn't say air, food, water. Read it again And no there's nothing to guilt women for, it's simply biological fact. I'm all for genuine desire :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:08 AM
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asexuals are lucky. nothing has got me into more trouble than my pp. giving women ammo by behaving pervy or trying to act tough to impress. fuck you little guy. furiously punches
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:43 AM
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Completely agree. White passing guys should explore all their options be it in south east Asia, eastern Europe or latin America. If it works, it works man. I'm aware this is due to the perception of higher socioeconomic status and European cultural supremacy for the past few centuries. But like on an individual level, no man would pick the worse option, he's looking out for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:56 AM
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No. You don't have to worry about that. Plenty of cheap sedations in the west (including Japan) Only happens in poor countries now, African warlords recruit young men, sometimes with hopes of resources, status, power and other times with rewards in the afterlife. When you have nothing much to lose it ain't such a bad option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:51 AM
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have dating and relationship issues > find red pill online > look on reddit for it and find this sub > pose a personal issue that is disguised as a CMV debate > see some upvoted and comments that validate how hard it is for you and your kind
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:54 AM
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When you have a good listener. Pay a counsellor. However I know people who simply vent about the same issue and neither improve their condition or accept things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:14 AM
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Pretty much guaranteed. But it's a double edged sword, it attracts abusers and masculine leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:11 AM
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if you're on ppd to vent or get sympathy for not having sex or a lover.. trust me they don't care, you're their entertainment. No one cares about your struggles beyond childhood. What you gonna do now? Accept it's hard and work at it so future-you isn't miserable? Or just keep wishing reality was different?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:04 AM
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Damn you really need to leave your little bubble. There's a world out there where men aren't celibate due to God 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:54 AM
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Females don't need sex. Males need sex (or some temporary alternative) as much as you need your bed, clothes, electricity, security, internet, comfortable temperature, basically anything you won't die without but leads to a fulfilling healthy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:32 AM
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Chris brown is average looking, though has hunter eyes in some pics. But let's be honest it's his status and money. I don't think we're allowed to discuss this besides purge week anyway, I'll just leave it at: non-white attractive men/women have eurocentric features. Like Idris Elba. K-pop stars. Zayn Malik. The list goes on. Anyway the height and body build is important too. Voice and hygiene. What would you rate your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:53 PM
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Imagine all these years ppd has been up there's lurkers who have observed but never commented or posted. If you, phantom are reading this. Upvote to let me know you're here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:48 PM
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Don't be silly, women don't need sex like we men do. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:41 PM
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I know but it does come into context when having these attractiveness ratings. For example a south asian living in the US Vs in South asia
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:39 PM
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This would be better if you made it just face. And specific to a race. Wheat waffles has some good content on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:35 PM
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Except he's an asshole too. It's just he needs to keep her around for his needs like sex and kids. "Yes dear, you're right, don't worry what the mean men on ppd are saying. Now go make me a sammich"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:33 PM
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Their ideas are based in fact. I don't agree with their prescription (hopeless nihilism, complaining for attention or unnecessary violence) but their observations are correct. Go read scientific blackpill or are you too after to see data? "Social structures"? Come on. Another blank slate and social constructionism believer. No dude masculinity turned out the way it did because we are in built this way. Also refer to my comment here https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10856uh/daily…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:50 PM
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It is misleading and most sales brands use misleading statistics. However the point still stands on average a woman who's reached 30 will find it much harder to conceive and the baby will have higher chances of health and issues. 20s is the best time to have a kid for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:37 PM
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But it is a math problem. Of probabilities, being in the right place at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:38 PM
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We will have an army soon. Be afraid peon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:51 AM
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Who cares who came up with the word or uses it? Most incels are normal humans, not some criminals. Stop making them an outgroup. There's nothing wrong with the word. Toxic masculinity doesn't exist, this is some psychotic idea. There simply is masculinity, it has good and bad contexts. The same masculinity that makes those guys on jackass do stupid shit is the same thing that makes firemen run into buildings, same thing that young Ukrainian men use. Bullying is simply men's way of strengthening …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:33 AM
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Yep. Men are in constant competition with everyone. Especially other men. This includes looking the best because we want higher status, more resources, more freedom, less problems and of course better women. It's a zero sum game. Expect backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:25 AM
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Guys is there like a beautiful pretty woman type and then there's a hot sexy woman type. Ones like a pretty innocent trophy who raises your children and the other you want to unleash kinks on. Besides her curvy body, what about her face makes her the former or latter? Big lips? I think it's to do with simple features Vs something is a bit more extreme (unconventional beauty) for example a big nose. Maybe this is all bs and it's just the personality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:55 AM
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Doesn't have to be every woman or man. Just enough. There's few universal rules when it comes to human nature and behaviour anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:32 AM
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Do you believe in the blank slate and social constructionism? What if I told you attraction is not a choice and it's influenced by genetic programming that has been fine-tuned for hundreds of thousands of years? Which means there is an objective measure, we just don't have it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:21 AM
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Correct, scientists have not yet developed an objective measure for it. However using online dating data it is very easy to extrapolate the perfect looking woman or man which will get a high rating from most people. I won't comment on what her race will obviously be and won't be ;) All proxies for fitness, survival and reproduction value.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:04 AM
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I assume this will be changed to a CMV as usual so I'll give you an article that helps your case https://thepowermoves.com/types-of-seducers/ I never understood the Robert greene archetypes. I suspect the K-pop, feminine and sensitive types are the most questionable in these types of discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:08 AM
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Oh so deep inside they know the facts but are saying what women wanna hear? Like keeping children or pets happy pat pat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:06 AM
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Yeh that's what I mean. The fact they don't care 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:59 AM
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She wants someone that looks like her dad or the complete opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:54 AM
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Askreddit front page is n count. You happy now Peacesquad?! So many brainwashed men.. their mothers, grandmas, aunts, sisters, friends, gfs, wife really indoctrinated them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:56 AM
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If you are critical of the red pill or evolutionary psychology without providing substantial evidence then you specifically are preventing men from learning about it and are the cause of suffering and suicides. slowly golf claps
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:38 AM
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Abortion is a failsafe for females making bad reproductive choices. Eugenics and sexual selection at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:08 AM
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You can remove the pill analogy if you want. Men teaching men about female nature is like teaching slaves to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:03 AM
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Yep people try to find evidence for what they already believe. Still fact though, stop crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:59 AM
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Science and facts are dumb? https://images.ctfassets.net/iqo3fk8od6t9/r5D47o3UIdFqpB68U3Lk3/a7e56fff4db3d8be6ac569716c43e16d/Female_fertility.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:27 AM
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becoming red pill aware is the most important thing for any male in the western world. it will save his life and prevent alot of misery
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:21 AM
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r/transtimelines sort by top posts of all time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:56 AM
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thoughts on this 10 min vid about happiness and discontent? https://youtu.be/kX2EJSwOCug?t=31
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:32 AM
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who cares what they think? do what you want. stop asking for permission, especially from females. nice username lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:23 AM
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Potential to yes, but most don't try to push their boundaries, or at least maintain what they have. The ones that do - stand out to us. Females on the other hand don't have this option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:19 AM
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Brother stop requiring people to believe your lived experience and validate it. I know its a human need to get social feedback and connect Free yourself of the for women to acknowledge facts, and for that matter most men to acknowledge what you believe to be true. If every now and then it happens, great. Of course i'm not saying have literally no one to discuss honest experiences and viewpoints with, ideally you will find a couple good male friends in your life at some point. But you really shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:11 AM
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Top G is one of God's favourites. Millions of men pray for him and are ready to support him if he so commands. Tell me one excuse for a man who says what he truly believes without fear, there are none except Andrew and Tristan Tate. All pacified docile neutered cowards. You named all these manosphere content creators yet you still think they try to blame women. No they are free sources of information to help men of all ages make better decision for whatever kind of life they want to live. A big …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:07 AM
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its ok we can handle it. throw your worst at us. The goal of women is to reach an emotional state that is acceptable to them. This can involve distorting the very fabric of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:49 AM
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Blue pill can be equivalent to the status quo or a slave who isn't taught to read. They don't know what they don't know. There is no one set of worldviews encompassing the blue pill but rather a collection of various ones that is considered wrong or too extreme by the red pill praxeology
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:17 AM
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Ima fry some chicken nuggiez and there ain't gonna be none for blue pillers 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:38 AM
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Ya it's called Madonna whore complex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:33 AM
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Eh attraction is one thing. Actually being poly or non exclusive is different. It might also be a cope for an average dude who ends up with a woman who Is known for a huge past. The only way to deal with is accept it's normal and that you like the reality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:13 AM
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The only way to cope with your woman interested in other men is to eroticise your innate disgust. Turn your protective jealousy into pleasure. Similar to how we laugh during uncomfortable situations because our brain doesn't know how else to respond to the absurdity. Destiny and Melina. Geoffrey Miller and Diana Fleischman. As well as the countless white couples where the man watches and records his wife get fucked by a black guy for example. Swingers parties too, with bulls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:43 AM
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You can make a throwaway discord yeh with no info about you. The mods cannot see anything as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:01 AM
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Status wins again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:54 AM
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Don't you itch, sneeze or dream of when someone's talking or thinking about you? Scientifically proven of course
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:53 AM
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Imagination can be more enticing than the real thing. Hot girl texts are polite and they seem secure? What exactly is it? Also I agree, tongue out = fun person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:51 AM
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It's inevitable. You spend enough time around the same people, you'll talk about them with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:37 AM
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The best part is even when there is literally nothing, not even petty. It's so easy to start some
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:29 AM
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There's clearly a few BNOS (Big Names On Sub) who we love to talk about behind their back. Hehe some people just stand out huh. Being popular comes with it's disadvantages tho I suppose. Don't be shy, my chat and discord dms are always open to the latest juicy gossip. Spill the tea sis
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:23 AM
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Female women made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:21 AM
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Mods are prob gonna remove this, we ain't allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:20 AM
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Your personal life must be very fascinating if so many care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:09 AM
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Ok buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:02 AM
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I'm suspicious of location based online communities too. Look get in the mind of someone who would join them, why are they using this option instead of real life local ones? If they are into independent cinemas and old films and that's why they are in the discord for it then that makes sense. Then yes go meetup at the theatre with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:01 AM
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Rich bratty girl. Ahh the standards thing is starting to make sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:59 AM
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People on the internet are usually dodgy or weird in some way .. unless.. You meet them through an activity that they can only do through that online group in their area. No exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:56 AM
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Maybe you should break down the adult female obesity by age and ethnicity. Also move out of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:54 AM
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women are disinterested because they see no value added to their life from spending any time with the men available to her. And when I say value I'm not just talking about finances
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:59 AM
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Depends on your definition of love. If we agree true altruism and unconditional love doesn't exist. The purest expressions are probably a mother and father's love for their baby, their child. Followed by two friends who grew up together from childhood and have a bond till the day they die (very rare now since we move around alot)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:32 AM
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No one cares about your past sex life if you don't plan to have children. Go be a serial monogamist living a soap opera, go be a poly swinger and do the wildest things on your bucket list. But if you want kids, you actively sabotage your future relationship and thus jeopardise your children's mental development needing both present parents. Stay a virgin :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:24 AM
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No I think when they finally get in a relationship they can develop each others sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:09 PM
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They can't turn her into their fun wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:30 PM
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I didn't talk about redpill here. And yes they say a woman who makes you wait isn't worth it. Because it's talking about genuine desire, she's willing to break her religious rules , hell change her religion for you. Anyway if you want to have kids and see them raised by both healthy parents. The data is on your side. Don't worry about about what random people say, they're unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:19 PM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:17 PM
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Sigh.. there's no winning with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:05 PM
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I don't know that many people.. yet I personally know from the top of my head at least 5 decent virgin guys in their 20s, 30s. Most with good jobs. And a whole bunch who have only had one relationship and possible sexual partner. I don't know what you're talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:03 PM
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https://www.fatherhood.org/hubfs/Images/Social%20Media/Suggested%20Images/nationalfatherhoodinitiativefatherabsencecrisis-3.png
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:53 AM
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Interesting. I would have to research more to disprove this .. setup you've proposed. Let's for the sake of argument assume both equally care about infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:52 AM
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Well yeh it's none of my business if you or women fail to make it work long term because of your previous partners. Serial monogamy sure why not. I just wanted to make the point that if they have a kid, cheating will undoubtedly make one side unhappy, cause Mrs doubtfire arrangements, and inevitably the next generation will either be missing a father figure or mother figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:41 AM
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I mean it's common sense.. you can confirm the mother and not the father. Until recently with dna tests. But for hundreds of thousands of years we couldnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:36 AM
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Then they should have been in a long term relationship. And it's also very important why it didn't work out, how much accountability they take for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:29 AM
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interesting. men being insecure seems to come up often these days
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:11 AM
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Unless it's forced. The women are choosing to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:04 AM
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Read my answers to the other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:04 AM
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Address the data. I could literally be anyone and it wouldn't change the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:03 AM
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There's no moral judgements or value as people. This is about rate of infidelity. And the trickle down effects it will have on when they are parents. Single mothers. Fatherless teenage girls are 7x more likely to get pregnant. This post has nothing to do with shame
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:03 AM
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That's a fair point. Greater choice leads to greater discontent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:00 AM
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Because it matters far more to men. Due to biology, knowing the kid is his. Yes some of the studies apply to men as well. I'm not promoting male promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:00 AM
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I'm trying to find the papers. Some are behind university paywalls. And yeh recent studies are better I agree but do you really think academia would want research on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:59 AM
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There's no guarantees in life. Everything is a risk. But you want to take someone who's risk of cheating goes up by 13% with each partner? I assume you don't want kids because it'll be too late to change your mind then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:58 AM
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Sure. So we agree everyone should be 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:54 AM
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The women would still be active. One "player" who knows what he's doing can do the rounds with many women continuously and move to a new place. Way to miss the point of the post. Men are not the ones allowing all this premarital sex to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:48 AM
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Correct. Some of them do specify women only, and previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:46 AM
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Yes and? We're talking about women's promiscuity and partner number as relates to infidelity. Don't change the topic. Also we can talk about cheating implications on their relationship and thus effects on children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:33 AM
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thats not what all these studies are saying. do you have any evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:27 AM
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Yeh. and?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:26 AM
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This is a debate sub. CMVs are the bread and butter. So either talk about those studies and possible limitations. Or being studies that disprove them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:19 AM
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Infidelity isn't important to people? Are we living on the same planet? Isn't it the biggest cause of arguments and divorce besides money?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:02 AM
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This is not about me. Address the data points and change my view.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:01 AM
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My sister is gen Z, she's still waiting till marriage but the cultural and religious programming helped alot with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:43 AM
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Yeh if someone doesn't want to have children then to be honest I couldn't care less if they find a long term monogamous partner. Go casually date. Its only frustrating because kids need both their mother and father to grow healthy mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:41 AM
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Yeh no that's impossible for most of us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:58 AM
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I will have nightmares now because of this. Let me share my suffering with you https://www.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/1067zr6/rods_life_was_turned_upside_down_when_he_met/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:56 AM
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Zero is the only acceptable number. She must have only hugged her dad. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:56 AM
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🪰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:43 AM
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take it up with evolution, or god.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:36 AM
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unless this person is willing to commit suicide and potentially face a mistake of an irreversible decision because an afterlife exists.. they should really be working on making the rest of their ~80 year life as less miserable as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:35 AM
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I'm saying look from it from all those. Don't look for challenging women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:26 AM
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Of course my queen. All is taken care of
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:16 AM
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You look for stimulation from the woman? Not your job, business, hobby, friends, ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:11 AM
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Western women baffled https://twitter.com/MichaelCoudrey/status/1610158239311609858?t=J5-FULH5asRKaajyVy2HHw&s=19
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:20 AM
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Leagues, looksmatch. right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:10 AM
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"Yeah it's definitely sad to see people unable to get the affection they need but also... I'm willing to bet he rejects ugly fat women lol" Don't lie. Hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 01:04 AM
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Then it's not a looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:47 AM
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let me know if it works. effectiveness and pragmatism baby!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:32 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/105hh6d/comment/j3ehrdj/ tell me what voodoo magic these women cast on their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:30 AM
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doesnt matter, still banged. Same with weinstein and his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:29 AM
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Females on ppd "people deserve their looksmatch" Their looksmatch makes a move and gets rejected "women can set whatever standards they wish!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:27 AM
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https://a57.foxnews.com/static.foxnews.com/foxnews.com/content/uploads/2018/09/918/516/69622ade-salman-rushdie-padma.jpg?ve=1&tl=1 black pillers in shambles
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:15 AM
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Yep and be fun on the date so she comes back for more regardless of cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:07 AM
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All Women can have standards. No men are allowed standards. Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:43 PM
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This just reeks of something red/blackpillers want to be true so they can worship virgin women. Or maybe.. hear me out maybe. they dont fund research on this stuff because the feminists and guys who just want casual fun dont want microchimerism to be true. Aha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:20 PM
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Thats disgusting. Any self respecting man would not want another man's DNA in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:13 PM
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Ya previous partners literally change her genetics and babies with future husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:03 PM
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MicroChimerism is not pseudo-science https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2014/10/141001090238.htm https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4282758/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23049819/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:55 PM
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Top G you have the prayers and support of millions of young strong men. We are ready to fight the matrix at your command. We will storm capitol Auid Prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:27 PM
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On your boss's desk?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:59 PM
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42s clip https://twitter.com/i/status/1611511253759033344 Thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:52 PM
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Why compare it? They are not the same. You can have a problem with it, find a new term for it. stop comparing it to paedophilia which is considered the worst crime today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:30 PM
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Dating someone a decade or more younger who happens to be 18-24 is nowhere near as evil or bad as molesting children, stop conflating the two. Adults (even older adolescents) are well aware of what they do and what happens to them. They usually aren't scared to tell anyone about it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:19 PM
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Men don't care how interesting she is, with stories and experiences. They care more so how interested and enthusiastic she is. About trying new stuff. And maybe even the guy's hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 09:30 AM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/274257830\_Heterosexual\_Men%27s\_Ratings\_of\_Sexual\_Attractiveness\_of\_Adolescent\_Girls\_A\_Cross-Cultural\_Analysis](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/274257830_Heterosexual_Men%27s_Ratings_of_Sexual_Attractiveness_of_Adolescent_Girls_A_Cross-Cultural_Analysis) "Together, these data suggest a conflict between the actual perceptions of attractiveness and those that could be legitimately expressed. Thus, there appears to be a conflict between evo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:22 AM
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look at the graphs. it is the MOST normal thing a human can do besides eating drinking shitting. a hot feminine 20 year old walks into the room and all the heads turn. men of all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:10 AM
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thats just a product of british culture, university, loans and infantalising both young men and women into their mid 20s. Trust me they are well aware of what they're doing. People choose to stay immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:08 AM
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they're usually attractive. their personalities just tend to be shite
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:02 AM
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comparing literal pedos and child abusers to normal adults dating and having a good time lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:57 AM
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imagine comparing 18-22 women to literal pre-pubescent children. do you know what an actual nonce is? also its not just about looks, your cousins in their 30s are most likely not wife or gf material.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:52 AM
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look at this and decide yourself https://i.insider.com/54455482ecad04a7637efb7a?width=1000&format=jpeg&auto=webp https://i.insider.com/54455482eab8ea361710fecc?width=1000&format=jpeg&auto=webp https://thesocietypages.org/socimages/files/2010/02/2.png https://thesocietypages.org/socimages/files/2010/02/3.png https://cdn.theatlantic.com/thumbor/wllbMmFsWVwE7CmCmfC-sQynQ7o=/672x718/media/img/posts/2018/08/Screen_Shot_2018_08_09_at_2.52.05_PM/original.png the above is scientific data, go find the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:48 AM
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You can be addicted to having sex with one woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:18 PM
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This is surprisingly accurate. Men who arent the immediate family or her man (sometimes ex) are simply tools treated with suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:17 PM
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She sensed the pheromones from far away and has already moved to another city
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:56 PM
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18-24 year old brain is the most malleable. She is like play-dough that can be moulded around a successful busy man's life. A lovely accessory and possible mother to his children to continue his winner genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:41 PM
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Worst insults to say to a woman: "You're so ugly, disgusting, who could ever love you or want you" To a man: "you're a failure in life, no one respects you, worthless trash waste of oxygen"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:15 PM
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I mean it's a studied effect 😂 I don't think it's just me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 05:41 PM
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I was playing devils advocate. There's alot of blank slate, social constructionists on this sub who think men and women's brains are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:33 PM
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You do!! We're the same. It's just societal conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:02 PM
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I thought the guy I responded to answered and I was excited to ask if he's willing to do it for the rest of his life. Then I noticed it's you... And laughed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:54 PM
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Absurd questions deserve no response
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:47 PM
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Everyday with the same woman? Dude I can barely finish to the same girl in a video unless it's been a week. Same when I was younger and fantasizing about women around me. There was a rotation. Coolidge effect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:45 PM
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You haven't explained the discrepancy in numbers. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:43 PM
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Oh they do, and much more. It's just that they still make good husbands and fathers despite it. Only the 4 things I listed matter, absolutely nothing else, across all cultures for all of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:17 PM
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In your dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:11 PM
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It's rare that the guy intentionally planning to get her pregnant and then leave. Unfortunate but even there she has some blame for leading to that situation. The rest are her, she has plenty of rights and options in the west once the sperm leaves the man's body. Dare I say it's all her fault for sabotaging the child's mental development which requires a mandatory father. Sad that such stupidity isn't bred out of the gene pool but encouraged
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:24 PM
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As long as you don't need any man or woman's permission to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:08 PM
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There's no such thing as balance in men's lives. More so stages. It's all sacrifice. What are you willing to sacrifice?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:01 PM
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Don't raise another man's child. Don't be retroactively cucked. Don't reward mistakes by enabling them. I'm looking at you gofundme for the tinder swindler women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:59 PM
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Your basic premise is men are supposed to slowly become more selfless as they grow out of selfish cocky adolescence. Spending more time doing productive things that benefit their immediate family, wife, kids, community. Pro-social men are rewarded with status. I completely reject this notion, will the world be a worse place if more people were like me? Yes but idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:54 PM
0

Wait till after school or university ends. They'll cringe at their pretty boy crushes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:58 AM
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Feminism is a supremacy movement. Its a mind pathogen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:56 AM
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Life experience, taking risks, observing other people's mistakes, reading, podcasts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:28 AM
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I have not dated men so it's harder for me to tell. But I suppose I would be cautious if my sister or daughter were seeing someone who 1) has no job or business, or has one that involves vice. 2) Isn't consistent with his story ie. A pathological liar 3) doesn't protect her in any escalation 4) lacks masculine loyalty and respect with me, and by default with her. That's pretty much it. I literally do not care about anything else, maybe personally bad hygiene. The rest you read online or in popul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:46 AM
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Yes but I suspect you already have your own
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:24 AM
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bwahahaha its over for tatecels still could be fake tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:28 PM
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They should read Rich Cooper's list of red flags. Mandatory for all men in the west. Daddy Issues, Feminist, Unhappy and Unlucky, Competes with you, Keeps past men around, Bad with Money, Violent, Extreme Jealousy, Partying, Heavy Tattoos and piercings, High N count, Single mothers, Validation seeking, Sugar Baby, Pathological Liar, Baby Rabies, Hissy fits, Lies about Birth control, Drama queen, Addict
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 11:18 PM
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Boys raised In a single mother household have disproportionately higher crime rates and mental health issues. 73% of adolescent murderers grew up without a father. 85% of adolescents with behavioural issues originate from fatherless homes while 85% of youths in prison grew up in fatherless homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:59 PM
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For sure. But the ones that are survivors and not completely hiding in their room will have qualities which are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:52 PM
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Pretty sure most men will pick 40 or 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:48 AM
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Two types of men to never trust as friends. 1) Those who are broke and will cheat you out of your money. 2) Those who can't get laid (and are discontent with it) or all they think about is next piece of ass. These are the ones who will betray you with a mutual girl friend. I guess you can add clout chasing however I would argue that simply is a proxy to get the above two.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:39 AM
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It's not. Check it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:53 AM
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By the way, I don't see your pic on your profile. You mean on your Instagram profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:28 AM
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Sounds good man. Seems like you have a really nice personality / character
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:14 AM
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Holy crap that looks exactly like me... And what I say Are you sure you don't have telepathic powers?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:11 PM
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In most other cultures by default there are institutions and family networks to help you find a spouse. This is not the case in individualist, nuclear family focused, protestant USA, UK and a few other places. Especially once people stop going to church. Once you leave the education system, you are likely going to work with a small number of people, usually the same gender of various ages. Spending most of your time there and unlikely by default to form connections in any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:55 PM
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Yeh but neither this reality nor the failure of people to acknowledge it bothers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:51 PM
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But don't you think the ideals and values of the West have been exported to the whole world now? So even if white people aren't having babies and in a century will be a rare sight.. The Africans, Indians, Muslims, Chinese that move to the west will decide the future value system
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:00 PM
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But the alternative is what? Enforced monogamy using religion and culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:53 PM
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Looks aren't everything but they are an important consideration for most women. Not all though, some will fall in love with an ogre if he offers all the other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:37 PM
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Hypergamy is a theory. Beyond evolutionary psychologists there isn't much you can use to prove it. But what I said is usually how people date and end up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:20 PM
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It's perceived. It's impossible to measure how much her looks+personality are equal to his status, skills, character, personality, lifestyle. I only said one point up because the easiest example is the workplace where they usually want their superior. Nurses want doctors etc. I think everyone kind of knows their place in time. Whether they admit it or not is different, "I'm a 10". Hoping to possibly get lucky with a good catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:56 PM
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But this is what pisses off some men. The fact other men get away with those short term relationships with women in their perceived prime. Which makes her mentally less attractive for getting in a long term with later.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:53 PM
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Young sheltered women don't know. But some exposure technology, the workplace and the wider world quickly changes this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:43 PM
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I would rephrase -get- with -keep- / stay with. I would argue with some knowledge of how to work people and present a fake persona both men and women can get with someone far above their value. Maximum for maybe 6 months? For an average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:42 PM
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The government is perceived as more fair than one man who could be abusive behind closed doors. As well as being open to criticism and reforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:39 PM
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I think your version of hypergamy is too extreme. I would say they want some one point or stage up on the socioeconomic scale, looks, personality, skills. I really don't think they think of someone so far above their reach. Especially as they become an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:27 PM
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But it makes sense that the government does that. Beside children (who are unlocked potential) Adult Women have innate value in their beauty, sexuality, fertility and being able to raise young children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:21 PM
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Why's that? Im saying it doesn't stay that way for long. It is a temporary mass hysteria. Eventually the free market balances itself out both locally and globally. The latter takes much longer however
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:18 PM
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There are alot of reasons, it would be difficult to list them all. But you're right about necessity and what makes life easier. I can't imagine being settled for is a nice feeling. You want to be their first choice among others , at least at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:16 PM
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The goal of women is not the pursuit of objective truth about reality nor is it to share it with the world. What they aim for is to reach a desired emotional state whether it's safe, happy, excited. Their internal world is the most important to regulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:15 AM
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You need to live in objective reality to improve the human condition. Otherwise we'd still be in caves competing with other humanlike species and other animals. Dying early due to disease. When I say things I say it as a contrast to people related stuff, or subjective things like music taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:37 PM
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It's happened to me many times. Usually about 'things' rather than something ambiguous or subjective. I based it on the world built around you. We require interaction with 'things' and high testosterone men in general are good at that. Inventing and maintaining your roads, your houses, your plumbing, your water supply, vehicles, lights, fuel usage, the internet, medicine, structure, law, heirarchy. Some men put it in place. Yes women have joined but they follow, they generally do not innovate or…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:28 PM
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Unfortunately it doesn't work like that. Some men are simply lucky with parents, growing up in the right place at the right time. Genetics (not just in looks) but personality since 50% is determined by it. But yes aside from that men can build up various traits in themselves that will be deemed attractive. They nearly all require consistent effort and time. If it provides value to people's needs and is rarer. It's more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:31 PM
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I'd generally advise you not to debate people, unless it's public and you're presenting information for the audience to change their mind. But yeh never argue with women, you will always lose. If you argue with a dude and let's say he finds out later you were right, he might even own up to it and value your input more next time. This is because as a general rule men pursue objective reality. Which has its downsides since everything isn't binary or measurable, or static. Women in general pursue a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:20 PM
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And I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:18 PM
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No you only need some food and water to survive. You don't need your bed, clothes, home (we'll find you a prison cell or cardboard box to sleep in), you don't need your possessions, phone, internet. See where I'm going? Sex is a normal part of a healthy life for mental wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:08 PM
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Technically you only need some food and water to survive. You don't need your phone, bed, roof, clothes, toothbrush, possessions. Destroying you in arguments is so easy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:04 PM
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Where is this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:52 AM
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No hate but there are so many other important categories you forgot to ask their standard on. Also there are deal breakers which are kinda more important. It's like passing levels to seem normal I don't blame ya tho, the ones you asked are more objective and binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:32 AM
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🥺 I don't care about anything as long as he loves me, respects me, is loyal 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:28 AM
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I guess that combo is hard to find in your city? Has own place but fat .. or fit but has roommates?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:24 AM
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