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Elon (and Trump) are outliers when it comes to billionaires. A lot of them influence from the shadows and mostly focus on their business. Elon doesn't just want to be rich, he wants to be popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:42 AM
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Different situations. The women actually thought those types of guys were superior, not shitty. It's not an act of desperation, they actively seek those guys for LTR's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:38 PM
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Nah, not taking responsibility for your choices is the problem. For example, I grew up in a shitty neighborhood and saw women, including my own sister, go for flashy, arrogant, wannabe thug guys. And somehow they acted shocked when the guys were awful to them. If you intentionally eat from the trash, its on you if you get food poisioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:18 PM
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Btw, how this got relation to "men don't whine" statement. Men are generally more receptive to statements telling them to choose better partners. boyzz will be boyzz. Nah, telling women to choose better means that we don't want them to settle for medicore assholes. The hostile response women have to choose better is more aligned with "boyzz will be boyzz." Its like they have given up and resigned themselves to sifting through garbage. Sad to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:04 PM
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Call out for what exactly? In these hypothetical situations the guys are telling other guys to avoid red flags. There's nothing to call out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:47 PM
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Not really. Men tell each other to choose better all the time. "Don't stick your dick in crazy". "Don't go for golddiggers". "She for the streets". Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:37 PM
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Men here get told to choose better all the time. We just don't whine about it as much. I'm pretty sure Lillith has made entire posts about men choosing better and plenty of women here backed her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:19 PM
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Uh, I'm pretty sure the men here say that women date assholes all the time but its the women that deny it. And whats the point of tearing him down? He is giving women those what they want. If they wanted healthier relationships they would vet differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:02 PM
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Your ridiculous viewpoints creates more incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:07 PM
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Its's because Trump purely cares about enriching himself or making himself look powerful, even if its in a superficial way. And even in those ventures he is limited by his laziness and incompetence. But the government hasn’t held up their half of the bargain: That's why their strategy is to blame everything on the Democrats. And its working surprising well on young people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:14 PM
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Women definitely obsess over men the same way, just a much smaller percentage of them. It was absolutely mind boggling how much female attention my older brother got when I was growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:00 PM
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Trying to please people who hate you no matter what because you are a man is far more self destructive. I'm doing much better now that I have decentered women and focused on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:55 AM
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Maybe they resorted to using asshole tactics because they had more success that way. Chicken or egg scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:17 AM
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Honestly this study you posted ccorroborates what a lot of men here say all the time; women like assholes. The men that used coercive tactics had a 70% success rate. So from an outside perspective it looks like the assholes are getting whatever they want from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:58 AM
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So yes they did choose abusers, you just listed why. Whether the choice is intentional or not isn't important. They still have a responsibility to themselves (and children if they are involved).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 01:00 AM
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Feminism has already lessesned in popularity in the USA in at least. These days its mostly a vocal minority thats used by conservatives to push men to the right. When your ideology treats men like monsters for being born with a penis its much easiser to convince them to vote against your causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:53 AM
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From my point of view, a bunch of lonely bitter men elected Donald Trump, Massive chunk of Trump voters were married white men and women, not incels. I'm a black man and we sure as hell didn't put him in office. Its not men, its white people. Both times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:39 PM
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Nah, most abusive guys are not 200 IQ manipulators. I had stay at a battered women's shelter when I was younger cuz of my abusive dad, and even the counselors there were frustrated at how often women hooked up with obvious assholes. My own father is a great example. He has 2 ex partners who broke up with him due to abuse, his own family didn't deal with him because he was a psycho, and was reported to CPS for having his kids (me) do so much labor that we could barely function at school. And that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:30 PM
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Ok I have a different viewpoint on this. Women should be paid based on how much money they bring in from tickets, merch, etc. Skill level is irrelevant. If women want women's sports to succeed they need to actually support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:03 AM
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Dude, I'm blackpilled. Most women are naturally neurotic messes and mask on their own. I had one female co worker who would only talk about video games when we were alone on shift.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:55 PM
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I've known and worked with plenty of them. The DM for my IRL DnD game was a woman, and that was before it became trendy. One thing you gotta realize that a lot of women pretend to not be nerdy in order to fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:33 PM
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Dude there are definitely nerdy women out there, they are just rare. And they tend to hate the performative nerdy girls more than anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:26 PM
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Well, yeah. People come up with all kinds of stupid beliefs based on "what we all already know and witness on a daily basis." Like maggots spawing from raw meat or low tempatures solely causing the flu. Or just blaming everything on the machinations of vague religious entities. Evidence is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:56 PM
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My older brother was an abuser, and he was pretty open about it. His circle of close friends were abusers too. Yet they were very popular with women from all walks of life despite them openly being shitty. He did clean up his act for a about 2 years when he got married, but his wife cheated on him when he was deployed to Afghanistan. That made him even more abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:23 PM
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Plenty. There's even a common trope where the male is so dense that he doesn't even realize that several girls want to date him, so romantic stuff rarely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:15 PM
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Except what they are doing to games doesn't actually appeal to female gamers at all. Women generally like good looking characters, just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:10 PM
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OMG man!!! Don't you understand that her body is a perpetual motion machine?! Idiot. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:45 PM
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this sub is a pity party How? Blackpillers get attacked by everyone here and mods ban them for discussion. Its actively hostile. The rest of your post is so reductive. “You’re not an emotionless, mindless robot, learn to vet and choose partners who you’d like to be with.” Yeah we aren't robots. We have depression, autism and loads of other issues that you aren't qualified to deal with. If your cookie cutter advice keeps getting rejected, stop being arrogant and leave it to professsionals. And I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 01:59 PM
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Yeah instead of uplifting men, he lurks here and punches down. It's a shame really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:22 AM
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The "beef" was just Mike being triggered over science based lifters. Bringing that up just makes him look even more childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:20 AM
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What do you mean act tough? Jeff walked up to him to talk with his hands behind his back and Mike poked him in throat for no good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:12 AM
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Please consider, have you ever seen someone who actually got violent attacked do the same shit that put them into that same situation? I have not, and logic say they won't so just do it again and again, That person was my mom due to religious brainwashing, and my youngest sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 06:06 AM
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You can see women complaining about stuff like that all the time one reddit. Anyway I personally saw a lot of stuff like that growing up because my older brother was the offender. He would treat women like absolute garbage and they would still flock to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:06 PM
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Damn bro we almost had the same experience. My older brother was also an abusive Chad, but he even went as far as beating a girl so hard that she lost teeth. Still had women lining up for him. My dad was an evil POS but was able to get remarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:26 AM
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Well yeah, I would think less of those women who date openly abusive men. I'm pretty sure you would think less of men who are buddies with an openly abusive guy as well. Same concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:17 AM
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Yall are overcomplicating this. People are self describing as incels because mass and social media made the term popular. Incel used to have a specific meaning (unattractive due to immutable traits), but the mainstream has overused and twisted the meaning so much that people just use as a generic term for "loser" now. People are just parroting shit they hear online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:38 AM
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If you pay, you can't complain. This has to be one of the dumbest statements. It's the opposite, paying means you are entitled to complain. For example if you were served rotten food at a restaurant, do you just quietly accept it because you paid for it? No, you go demand a refund or a new meal. Porn Producers are just like any other business and aren't immune to criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 10:07 PM
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Men who hate women or regard them as lesser can wallow in the “loneliness epidemic” until death. Women have zero interest in such men. My Chad older brother and his friend group are some of most misogynist mfs in existence. Yet they have no shortage of female interest because they are charismatic and good looking. You can trot out this Just World Fallacy nonsense all you want, but it doesn't hold up in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:57 AM
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I totallly believe it. I grew up with a Chad older brother and women went absolutely insane over him. He ran away from home in high school and had several mid 20's smokeshow sugar mama's paying for everything he needed. His friends were legitmately scared to bring their girlfriends around him. And honestly, he barely even tried. Most of the time he was telling girls to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:22 AM
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Don't bother experiencing real life to contrast with the angry gospel Ok let me address this first? Who are you to decide what's real life? It kinda mirrors statements like "You aren't a real man unless you had sex." And its those statements that fuels incels' desperation in the first place. So OP lays out a specific condition for not befriending women: having negative thoughts about them. It would be like telling a depressed person to not drink alcohol. It doesn't mean never drink alcohol, reso…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 10:32 PM
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Oh please, women dehumanize and degrade men all the time, its just so normalized that no one cares. Women should grow a thicker skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:19 AM
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Ofc males filter, but we also don't claim to not care about looks. Its the lies and hypocrisy thats annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:55 AM
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You are twisting OP. He never said not to befriend women. Its just silly when women here claim that incels are that way because they don't interact with women, when its the opposite. A lot of incels have female friends and it allows them to see the stark difference in treatment they get compared to attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:49 AM
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OP didnt say that it gave him negative feelings, he said it would cause someone with an already poor view of women to become an incel. Honestly I sorta agree. I have female friends and they have mentioned things like filtering for 6ft and up, white men only, etc. My favorite was when one of them said they don't prefer overly muscled guys because they live in the gym. I showed her a pic of Chris Bumstead and she said he was a good example of someone who had a decent amount of muscle but not too m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:41 AM
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Apex fallacy strikes again. More men occupy top positions than women, but men also vastly outnumber women when it comes to things like homelessness, sucides, being victims of crime, etc. You are far more likely to be in prison or eating out of the trash as a man. And who gives a crap what gender the CEO's are anyway, its not like they actually do anything for their gender. They are mostly selfish, greedy pricks. Elon isn't cutting me a check just for being a man. Gender flip the ultra wealthy an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:47 AM
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No, I actually wanted women to do 4B. I'm not having sex so not like anything would change for me anyway. But current feminists are weak and pathetic. They talk a big game online but fold IRL. I know several feminist, Anti Trumper women who make an exception for their MAGA boyfriends because he's "sweet". What a fucking joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:43 AM
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But you don’t want to, do you. Because you want to be Chad. And thats why its pointless. Anytime a guy tries to criticize someone who is more sexually successful they are accused of being jealous. Here's what you need to get: Women fuck those guys because they like those guys. No amount of shaming from unattractive guys will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:07 AM
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Jack Black like most fat guys in media is loved as a comedic guy. Fat guys and short guys (ie Kevin Hart) being protrayed as someone to be laughed at is not a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 08:43 AM
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Yeah, a big one for me is the claim that women don't want to date criminals. I grew up in the hood, and there they definitely did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:43 PM
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And I did go to the pdf No, you are just proving that you are too lazy to read the study you linked to me or you can't read it correctly. 0.3% is the standard error for 40 - 44 men. 1.2% is the actual percentage. And I even, for arguments sake, said even IF it were the numbers you claim, it’s still a 88-98.8 percent success rate. That success rate goes down dramatically depending on the age of the person you are addressing. For example, if the person is over 17 the success rate is cut in half, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:23 PM
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You didn't cite the study, you are just doubling down on lies. In the article you posted, there is a link to the pdf of the actual study. Go to page 18. You will see that the 0.3% is wrong for men. But you prolly won't cuz you are too up your own ass to admit you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:11 PM
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You can't claim to be better than the manipulative pills if you lie about studies along with them. And also using shaming tactics like calling them cowards like wtf dude get out of here with that ablelist crap. Some people are born with stuff like ceberal palsy and autism; for them giving up is not cowardice its being real about their situation and focusing on things they can reasonably do. As much crap as you talk about redpill grifters your rhetoric is just as awful sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:42 PM
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Except thats a lie. Its 1.2% for men 40-44 according to the actual study. And its 11% for men 15 - 44. The article is off. And the percentages will be different depending on the age of the person you are talking to. According to the study, a little over half of men have had sex at 17. That means for guys over the age of 17, the percentages for sexlessness for effectively doubled. It will only get worse as you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:04 PM
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The real answer is to move on and find another woman rather than wasting time on someone who doesn't find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:02 PM
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That's actually a decently high chance of being forever alone. 1 in 333. In USA alone that would be at least a few hundred thousand incels. And that's just the no sex ever guys. It doesn't include the dudes who struggle immensely or just use escorts. If anything the link you posted makes the problem seem worse than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:35 AM
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People are fucking idiots. For some reason they want entertainment out of politics, rather than compentency.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:41 AM
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Kind of proving my point there by “what about men”! Proving what point? I still wanna know why you are dismissive when men are victims of other men. I have had teachers say similar stuff about my autistic nephew when he gets bullied. So please explain it. As for your second claim… as I said it’s a tiny percentage of false claims. And I can certainly site many more cases where “some men” get let off even when the claims are proven in court. Well I'm part of that tiny percentage you mentioned. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:40 AM
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Yes men can be victims too. But the perp in the majority of all cases is a man! Why does it matter if the perp is a man? That doesn't make them any less of a victim. Would you be dismissive of cases where women assault other women? But even when true, it doesn’t seem to affect their ability to get work, run companies, star in movies, become a President!! They get away with that because of the wealth and fame, not because they are specifically men. You average Joe doesn't have the Supreme Court i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:50 AM
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We already have plenty of porn, adding more "normal" women to the mix just makes it worse. For example, men like basketball, that doesn't mean we want to see "normal" play. We want to see talent and people who can put on a good show. As an actual OF user, most of the normal women joining make trash tier content. Bad angles, terrible lighting, awkward posing. If they even post content at all. A lot of them promise to post stuff then dip. Trying to find decent stuff is a crapshoot now. I've mostly…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:04 AM
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People have different preferences. I have little interest in Sophie. Also the 2 of the women had full time jobs and weren't interested in making money from selling content anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:30 PM
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Nah, the 3 I talk to are pretty hot. Mostly met them thru Twitch. One of them even made an OF and shut it down because it felt too businesslike.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:10 PM
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Nobody needs to watch how women play video games, it’s just a way for them to get turned on and feel like women care about their existence. So would you apply this to male streamers as well? They actually make more money than women from streaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:50 PM
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Yes, the natural exhibitionist girls, I talk to a few of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:46 PM
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Go talk to some actual OF creators before doing it. They have sub here I think. And go check out the free pages on OF. You are pretty much doomed to failure without any knowledge. Promoting can be very difficult if you don't already have a large following before starting the OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:41 PM
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Because deep down they don't want to, they just think its an easy way to get money. I've met several girls like that online and actually convinced a few not to make an OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:25 PM
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I’ve even seen some men stating that they prey on or use “vulnerable men”. Meanwhile, pornstars are not regarded in the same manner. There is no distinction, those men are just as disgusted by escorts, strippers, camgirls, etc. OF is just more accessible. The only things I can think of are that: the OF models are not having sex with men in their videos/pictures and men don’t like that. That's not even true. Women have sex with men all the time on OF. Why even make this topic when you don't know …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:09 PM
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The little side tangent we went off on had nothing to do with the OP though, I don't even care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:55 PM
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I never commented on feminists though. You seem confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:19 PM
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They are simply going to exit the gene pool and leave the door open for more competent men, same as a male in any species that goes too long or cannot improve itself to find a mate. In that case, isn't it entirely justified for the unchosen guys to change laws in order to improve their chances (ie Taliban). After all, if the competent guys can't stop them, maybe that means they were too weak to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:52 PM
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If you think no men are calling out Trump, then you are just as delusional as him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:29 PM
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Millions of men didn't didn't vote him. Millions of women did vote for him. In fact, a majority of white women voted Trump in, twice. Why are you putting this all on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:38 AM
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I think the first point is to teach young men that dating and actively getting women’s attention isn’t necessary, That's never gonna happen. Making fun of men who can't get any women is one of the most common and mainstream insults. Maybe men wouldn't tie their identity to getting sex if "no sex = societial reject" wasn't ingrained in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:37 AM
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I've seen a lot of sugar dating/green card marriages in military contracting circles and they mostly treat the girls like crap, too. I'm definitely not rich, but I think my sugar dating experience has been ok just because I'm not an asshole. I still chat with 2 girls and they send me stuff even though I don't pay them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:35 AM
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Nah, its easiser to pull off than you think. There actually arent that many decent guys are who are willing to sugar date. A lot sugar babies have ran into guys who are abusive or scammers so they will try their best to keep guys like me who are decent. Only the super attractive sugar babies can monkey branch to richer guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:22 PM
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As much as you complain about shallow men, I find it funny and little sad that you are jumping thru hoops to become asthetically pleasing to them. I guess you will be complaining later when they trade you in for a new model.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:28 AM
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Assuming all this is true (it's not), what's the point of all this incelish whining. Go self improve. If you aren't meeting men's standards its your fault and you should step up. Go get all those silly procedures if you think they will help. Meanwhile, in the real world normal women are thriving and have no issues attracting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:07 AM
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All the things you listed all have the ideology that "men are good, sweet, and nice humans" Nonsense. One of the things thats commonly said is that women will date terrible, abusive men if they are good looking, rich, celeb, etc. A good example is the chadfishing experiments where literal pedo Nazi's were getting pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:17 AM
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Russia is just gonna arm up and invade again. Any peace deal with Russia aint worth shit. It's better to try and starve them of resources while you can. You know things aren't going super well for Russia either when they are resorting to hiring North Korean mercs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:15 PM
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The dudes who make enough money to travel internationally at length absolutely make enough to support the women who are addicts, prostitutes, and otherwise broke and hurting for money. Visit any trailer park or poor neighborhood. You are completely underestimating how entitled some of those broke girls can be. When I was in high school I worked at McDonald's with some women who were slightly older. I joined the Army and vistied back the same McDonalds about 11 years later, now with a $100k+ cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:04 PM
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Honestly this sounds like a doomer incel rant. You should become successful for yourself, not to find a partner. Relationships will always be a gamble; people can leave you at any time for any resason. This just reeks of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:54 PM
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The only dudes that demonise promiscuous women are dudes that aren't getting any pussy. This isn't remotely true and you know it. Religious and conservative people (men and women) slut shame all the time even if they do have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:15 PM
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I never had sex as a teen nor did any of my friends. How do we know kids will have sex despite circumstances? Teen pregnancies were still high in areas with abstinence only education.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:06 PM
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No, liberals know that teens are gonna have sex no matter what you do so you might as well encourage them to do it safely.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:34 PM
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Nah I'm fine. I used to give out money for nothing but now I only give to peopele who are putting in effort, men and women. I make good money and I'm not doing much with it, so why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:35 PM
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I actually don't give her money. The I only agreed to give her money if she put effort into monetizing her stream, which she didn't do. Her relationship status is even worse than you think; she is pining after a guy who cheated and left her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:27 PM
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Not RP, I'm actually one of the guys who gives out money and knows a lot of other guys who give money to women. But it’s always frustrating when I see men claim how “easy” it is for women to just get out of any financial situation. Idk, if that were the case I feel like there wouldn’t be homeless women. A lot of women are in bad financial situations because of their own stupidity, not because men aren't williing to help. For example, I currently know a girl who is struggliing to pay bills and bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:15 AM
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Nope it always starts with women, since ya know men can't have babies. And women share a part of the blame if they go after blatantly dogshit men in the first place. My own mom married my dad even after being warned by his ex wife that he was an abusive monster. My sister constantly chased after deadbeats and ended up a single mother with 2 kids. Women constantly chased after my Chad older brother even though he was openly an abusive piece of shit. And I have countless other examples I have seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:59 PM
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Yes it does states have already seen to it . There’s not a chance of a federal ban . The hyperbole is ridiculous. https://np.reddit.com/r/law/comments/1icsj1m/the_federal_abortion_ban_bill_is_here_hr722_119th/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:24 PM
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Why does the "redpill" frame it as a failing of women to be attracted to good looking guys Redpill (and Blackpill) doesn't frame being attracted to good looking people as a failing. People lying and saying they dont care about looks is a moral failing. Excusing terrible behavior because of good looks is a moral failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:11 PM
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She's fat and annoying, and her groupies are liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:42 AM
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Libertarians would prefer government stay out of our lives. Ok, so why would they support a court decision that gives goverments more control?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:00 AM
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Bruh, repealing Roe v. Wade doesn't leave it up to the states, a federal ban can still be passed with enough votes. Anyway, leaving Roe v. Wade in place left the decision to the individual, and actual Libertarians champion individual rights rather than having any government intervention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:45 AM
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Yes, so now you get why redpillers say don't stick around when theres not intimacy. Its the bluepillers here who keep pushing the friends first/build attraction approach, which is manipulative according to you. If she ain't into you in the beginning, find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:04 PM
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No, leading men on and using them for favors without any intimacy is manipulative. Its funny how women chide men for not being able to get hints and non verbal communication, but they act like they are clueless when men give very clear signs that want to date. Or even worse, they say you are not a good friend if you aren't doing favors. I had to tell some women off for trying that tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:22 PM
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Uh, men want sexual intimacy early on to avoid falling into the friendzone. It doesn't necessarily have to be intercourse. You are intentionally being hyperbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:57 PM
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You are extremely fortunate. Not everyone has the luxury of picking nice people to surround themselves with. My last job was full of racist pricks, but I just couldn't quit and be homeless because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:17 PM
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My friend has guys do that for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:32 AM
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No like nerd, anime/gamer playboys I know who completely drop those hobbies around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 06:42 PM
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Some of the biggest players I know act completely different around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:32 PM
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Yeah I think nonsense standards are a big problem. One example is my friend who intentionally goes for adventurous, outdoors men while she is a homebody, then gets mad when they don't want to sit inside and watch youtube with her all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:27 PM
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Irresponsibly high. Its all contextual. One example from my female friend, she recently got a positive chlamidya test and she said it could have been from 8 different guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:31 AM
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A porn addict would be more preferable than someone with a really high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:03 PM
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Wanting low N-count doesn't necessarily mean you want a virgin sexual prude. I would be totally fine with a pornstar who did solo stuff or only fucked her bf for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:41 PM
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Well they see intersex as a type of defect or mutation rather than something thats supposed to happen. The are babies that have been born with 6 fingers before but no one says that humans have 6 fingers. Similar situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:02 AM
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Ok lets reframe it. Do you have any standards for potential partners at all, other than not being an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:53 AM
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So all you are bascially telling guys to do is be an orbiter. That doesn't work for the vast majority of men, they have to make to moves. Again, just saying be a decent person is useless advice for dating. It prolly works for women cuz they usually don't have to approach, but not for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:25 AM
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You can go read some of previous threads on this if you want but heres the gist: Being nice is a neutral baseline trait, not a positive one when it comes to attraction. You aren't truly nice unless you have ZERO expectations for doing nice things. So if a guy were to use "don't be a douche" as dating adivce, he isn't really a nice person because he is doing it to attract women. According to PPD women logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:44 AM
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That's not dating advice, thats just being nice. PPD women have made it abundantly clear that being nice means jackshit and you should expect nothing from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:59 AM
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Yes, the history of warfare shows that men are far more likely to be killed. Under the 20 women raped headline you will see 100 men executed in the fine print, but I doubt you care to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:55 PM
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not having porn might encourage them to at least try to get a real woman. Why does it matter if they try to get a real woman or not? They should be able to do as they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:11 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/bizarrelife/comments/1hhd5rb/daughter_demands_2m_from_parents_for_ruining_her/ She said her 2nd husband divorced her after regaining eyesight. I feel horrible for laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:02 AM
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It was mostly white men and women and religious fundies who voted him in, not men in general. Black men pretty much always swing hard for democrats for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:12 PM
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Women on here still say that sexually successful men can have an "incel mindset" though, which should be impossible if personality is top priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:55 AM
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You have the freedom to not cum inside of women. Stop being a whiny bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:38 PM
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Time has already told. Trump has been in media for decades and has consistently been a boastful, grandstanding attention seeker. I don't know why folks think he will suddenly start advocating for the common man as he as pushing 70; he has already shown his stripes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:32 PM
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He isn't going to do anything about it, because he doesn't care. He is just a vindictive attention seeker. Rightwing media loves promoting "wokeness" because its lucrative ragebait for guys like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:19 PM
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I don't mind broke, but being directionless and lacking ambition are dealbreakers. I'm willing to spend money on someone who is doing something interesting, even if it brings in zero income.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:34 AM
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Yes, I don't see it as any different from wanting someone to quit smoking, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:22 AM
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Millions of women voted their own rights away. And millions of men voted against it. Its not a gender war, its an ideological one between progressives and conservatives. And progressives always shoot themselves in the foot by demonizing men. Attack the ideology, not the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:44 AM
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I criticize because I care. Being fat is bad for your health. The true haters are the ones who support people eating their way to an early grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:29 AM
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Nah, you just think even the slightest bit of criticism is hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:28 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1gadweo/awalt_is_just_code_for_i_associate_with_shitty/ Your own submission. In a similar vein, if a woman decides to constantly associate with toxic men its their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:00 PM
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It says more about the women who are fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 07:00 PM
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It's easy to find examples of the bad ones. When someone is bad, people talk about it. Yes and that makes it even worse. Every local girl knew the stories about him beating crap out of women but they still excused it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:25 PM
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Dominant, but they don't have to be a bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:13 AM
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You can literally go to certain websites and see tons of smartphone footage with bullies beating the tar out of other kids. Its great that you didn't experience bullying but other kids aren't so lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:59 AM
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As for Chad being a bad person, that is cope by undesirable men Chad isn't necessarily bad, but he can get away with it. I saw it happen with my older brother growing up. He would treat women like absolute dogshit and they would always forgive him. A more famous example is Chris Brown, somehow he still has tons of female fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:51 AM
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I think that version is Gigachad now. Chad is just an attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:47 AM
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That says something bad about this sub when repeating whats said here sounds so stupid and cartoony Yep, a lot of your posts have stupid and cartoony caricatures of men. Maybe you should stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:43 PM
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Ok now that I read the post its even worse. You just made up a shitty caricature of a guy as your evidence. People read the body of your post and they are ignoring is because its terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:28 PM
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The title is part of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:18 PM
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The fact that you think Blackpill is a subset of incels means the article was an utter failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:48 PM
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From your own freaking article that you posted: Blackpill: A nihilistic worldview adopted by the incel community. A “Blackpilled” male believes that no matter what he does to improve himself, he will never find a romantic and/or sexual partner and is doomed to a life of unhappiness and rejection. Edit: Anway the article is kinda shit and missing a lot of important details. For example, why isn't betabuxx in the glossary?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:32 PM
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Holy crap, this is the first Lillith post I ... almost completely agree with. Keep in mind, there is no problem calling someone an incel if theyre acting like a bitter sexist virgin…..but you have to show that theyre acting like a bitter sexist virgin. Self hating and defeatist are better unique descriptors for incels. Sure, incels can be bitter sexists, but there are plenty of sex-having guys fit that description too. Incel = misogynist is how dudes like Elon Musk ended up getting called an inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:49 AM
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Most of the girls I'm friendly with are porn and videogame junkies like me. And that's that kind of person I would want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:56 AM
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Nah I'm going to continue watching porn. Women with your views should move places where they have tight restrictions on porn, like Afghanistan. I'm sure its a paradise for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:17 AM
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Nah you got it wrong. The bluepill assertion that we are struggling because we are misogynistic super villians is way gloomier than reality: we are ugly and/or boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:34 PM
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Giving up on dating improved my mental health, so I'm hoping it can help other guys who are drowning in the sea of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:24 PM
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The fact that she didn't foresee that he wouldn't have time, doesn't make it unrealistic. The guy said he had 80+ hour workweeks before they even went their first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:48 AM
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She obtained what she wanted, No, she didn't obtain what she wanted, which is why she complained and broke up with the guy. Did you even read my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:49 AM
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No she wanted an extremely busy guy with plenty of free time, which doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:28 AM
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Unrealistic standards doesn't necessarily mean high standards. I know some women who went for aggressive thug guys because they thought they would be protectors. It usually ended up with them being abused by the "protector" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:56 AM
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Nah, I actually mean the standards make no sense. For example, I have a female friend who wants a hard charging, high earning, mid 20's businessman. She found one and drove him away because she constantly complained that he had no free time. Like you self selected for a guy that works long hours, what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:35 AM
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It doesn't matter. He would just blame it on the democrats and his followers would buy it. That's been his winning strategy so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:39 AM
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I just voted for him because women and normie society have not treated me well Dude you should vote for your own self interests, not just out of spite. I get the whole society not treating you well thing, it happened to me too. But the specific segment that was the worst for me was the religious fundies. That's why Republicans will never get my vote; they always try to give those idiots more power.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:38 AM
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The man's business there is just as likely to be stalking you than it is that he just lives there. This isn't a commentary on men at all this is just.. People usually don't have business in the woods??? People explore nature all the time for fun. I've met tons of people while hiking or in the woods. And we just said and hello, maybe had a bit of small talk, and went about our way. Do you paranoid guys even leave your houses, jeez.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:28 AM
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What exactly is “RP” stuff. Well the stuff I'm dissapointed that works is the hypermasculine posturing. Not showing any vulnerabilites, aggressiveness, dominance. Its all a sad show. The one thing I wholeheartedly agree with is the attraction is non negotiable concept. Don't waste time trying to charm women who aren't feeling you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:32 PM
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It works. My older brother, the most sexually successful person I know, constantly does RP stuff. However it doesn't work for guys who are unextremely attractive or have autism. There's also guys who find thats its too much effort or morally reprehensible. I personally think Redpill is stupid because it works. If TRP actually worked the influencers would be the richest men on earth. That doesnt hold up at all. Vaccines work for eliminating disease. We still have a lot of braindead idiots railing…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:52 PM
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I guess you missed the part where he lost the genetic lottery. They don't go half for guys like that. I also lost the genetic lottery, and wasted thousands trying to go for a traditional relationship with zero success. I would have had a much easier time with hookers or sugar dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:46 AM
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I made about 150k a year as a military contractor and I had 2 issues. First, I had very little time to date since I was either at work or doing work related stuff at home. 2nd, I'm ugly and short and didn't get traction on dating apps. 3rd, I'm not a flashy person so I looked broke. For example, a McDonalds workers I chatted with said I was undateable because I drove a Kia Forte. Some of my coworkers suggested getting a wife from the Phillipines but I wasn't interested in doing that. There were …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:27 AM
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No you just need to listen. It's been said again and again that women overlook the red flags in attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:49 AM
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It is kinda ignorant. There's no POC accent in USA, its mostly region based. A POC growing in rural Mississippi will have a thick southern drawl, and one growing up in Cali will sound like a valley girl. 1st and 2nd generation immigrants will usually have strong accents from their native countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:28 PM
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The arguement is that the men experiencing the epidemic won't be affected by 4B because women already hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:09 AM
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Men chase whoever seems available. A woman can use a dating app to easily solve that issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:23 PM
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Gold digging doesnt just happen to wealthy guys. It can happen to any guy with a stable income. For example, predatory women is very common with military guys. My own brother got screwed over by a money grubbing woman while he was deployed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:50 PM
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Unatttractive women can have sex if they want, guys are jus that desperate. The sexless women are the ones who dont talk, don't go out, and don't use apps. I know quite a few physically attractive women who don't have sex just because they are anxious homebodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 09:09 PM
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You have to realize that you are a bit of a unicorn. Even the women on subs like foreveralonewomen had ex-bfs and semi active dating lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:20 AM
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If what you say is true, then unattractive women would be abstaining from sex en masse. But we know thats not going to happen, cuz deep down they enjoy the validation on some level.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:13 AM
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I didn't make the orignal statement, I just thought your question about it was amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:12 AM
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Well looks like you did understand after all. And btw I don't agree with it. I liken it more to an employer caring about job history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:58 AM
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I love how PPD women boast of their superior communication skills and then pretend they can't understand a grade school level analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:43 AM
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For many of these men, this experience feels therapeutic. It’s the first time they feel truly desired You answered you own questtion there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:49 PM
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I just think people place too much importance on a communication method that's extremely vague and unreliable. Non verbal communication is fine as long as is structured, like sign language.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 12:40 AM
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You are full of shit, most porn on the internet these days is solo masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:39 PM
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I meant before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:31 PM
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Maybe it wouldn't get to the point of needing a divorce if some women weren't such passive wallflowers when it comes to communication. Address the issue directly. If it persists, breakup. If you are afraid of addressing the issue directly becasue you think he will get mad, breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:12 PM
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Porn often features attractive men having sex with multiple women in the most demeaning and disrespectful ways, leading him to believe that this is what attracts women. In these videos, women seem to tolerate degrading behavior simply because the man is good-looking, reinforcing a harmful message. Telling men to respect women as equals is important, but many will go home, turn on porn, and watch women being belittled and treated terribly. You don't have to watch porn to see that type of scenario…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:54 PM
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Humans, like many other animals, have developed non-verbal communication over our evolution. Some people struggle with this, and instead of banishing them or labelling them as village idiots, we are now trying to change how we think about different ways of communication and adjusting our society so more people can thrive. Humans, unlike pretty much every other animal, have developed advanced speaking, writing, and non-verbal signing capabilities that are far superior to simple non-verbal communi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:02 PM
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I use OF, but I'm against the way its pushed to women at large as an easy way to make money. So many women who have no business making sexual content end up there or on similar sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:18 PM
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Well this sorta happened to me online. On Discord (a chatting app), a random extremely attractive woman from a Twitch stream chat messaged me saying she had a cool pet turtle to show me. She sent a few pics of her turtle and it looked legit, so I agreed to do a video call with her to see the turtle live. Except when the call started she was fingering her butthole. We ended up doing a few more calls and even agreed to meet up but she stopped responding after that. I guess she was just bored. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:02 AM
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About 5'7. Honestly I lucked out cuz my dad was 5'1 and my mom 5'3, but all the other negatives weighed me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:55 PM
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Yep, I'm autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:51 PM
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Wow is it really that surprising? I'm 35 and I haven't even done handholding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:12 PM
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I gave up on pursuing and the endless self improvement hamster wheel about 4 years ago. What is it about them that makes them unwanted? Ugly, short, boring, autistic Why did they become that way? I was pretty born with these traits and never got along well with other people, especially women. And, most importantly, what happened to them after they "gave up." I'm doing a lot better I think. Before I was overworking myself trying to reach some impossible standard and ended up burning out and LDAR.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:09 PM
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Y’all may think there’s some female gang out to get men but it’s important to note that this happened in the military where the exact opposite is true. Funnily enough, there was literally a female gang who targeted unattractive or "weird" men in the unit. A new female soldier snitched on them and fowarded the group chat to command. They alll just got negative counselings though, basically a slap on the wrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:46 PM
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Given my comment history, huh. Do you have any examples of my problematic comments? I don't mind if you call them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:24 PM
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Nope they were both dropped, but the second charge lead to me getting dropped from a promotion class. Any investigation gives you a flag where you can't get any favorable action, like awards or classes for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:25 AM
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I've lived most of my life with women assuming I'm a creep just for...existing. If more women want to jump on the bandwagon its fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:51 PM
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Nah there are a lot of women who are actively hostile towards unattractive men, that's what we are trying to avoid. When I was in the military I got 2 false sexual harassment charges and several rumors were spread about me creeping on women. But I didn't approach a single woman the entire time I was in and kept to myself. Imagine what would have happened if I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:35 PM
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A lot of people in this thread surprisingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 06:15 PM
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See that isn't how the internet works. We take these words at face value, as the shield of anonymity means the veil has dropped. The thoughts expressed in an anonymous forum are as honest and naked as any thoughts can be. Most people wouldn't dream of saying what they write here in mixed company, would they? Taking things at face value on the internet is one of the worst things you can do. Most of the really extreme positions made here by men and women are just rage bait. And that holds true acr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:51 PM
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That may be true, but what do you expect readers here to learn about the men who post? What can any of us know beyond what they write here? Any astute reader here would recognize that they are only seeing a small slice of someone from the comments. And the rules prevent guys from even talking about issues here. I was temp banned from talking about my real life experiences under the "woe is me/blackpill" rule. Also this is is a debate sub so its going to trend towards negativity. From men and wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:42 PM
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Wow. That's a stretch, nearly every man here on the spectrum is in search of his own satisfaction and reveals an honest and misanthropic hatred of everyone else who isn't him. Oh god this is rich coming from people who come here to punch down on mentally handicapped dudes. Anyway its completely incorrect. Most times those guys hate themselves more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:28 PM
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This is because decent social skills are a basic requirement for the vast majority of women, despite what some of the "only looks matter" pathological liars will say on this sub. Even the "only looks matter" guys say that dark triad personality traits are more attractive, so its not like they completely discount it. That's why telling men to "improve their social skills" is very commonly good dating advice, though if it's too vague it might not be helpful (as it's not specific enough to know wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:56 PM
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Two comically false sexual harrassment charges. They did lead to repercussions at work before they were dropped though. When I was in the military, a group of female soldiers, including NCO's, secretly conspired against the weird (unattractive) guys. They spread false rumors, told new female soldiers to avoid us, tried to get us on the worst details/shifts, etc. Some one snitched on the group, but they really didn't get in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:35 AM
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I come from a poor background, and I know plenty of folks raising kids on low incomes. A lot of the expenses your are prolly thinking about are covered by government programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:44 PM
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It does not cost $26,000 to raise one kid. Even if you live in a high cost of living area. The tax credit isnt supposed to cover all your expenses anyway. Having kids also increased the threshold for getting food stamps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:05 PM
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You already get tax credits for having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:46 PM
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Moral objectivity is just some philosophical concept; in real life its rarely applicable because no one will have all the pertinent information to objectively make a moral determination. I lost friends and potential romantic prospects over joining the Army. They didn't wait to hear about my entire career; they made a snap judgement based on limited information. My Russian friend is called Putin's little whore on social media and her streaming platform and lost a lot of followers and subs. She on…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:50 PM
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There are things that change between societies and people, and are up for debate, but there is a moral foundation that is objective. Those changes are what important. Everyone views actions differently. And "getting laid" isn't some univeral win the way it might be for desperate weirdos like you. There are many cases where normal people would not want to get laid. Bruh, you used the wording "success with women" and "success in relationships" in your original post. On a sub that primarily discuss…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:06 AM
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No it's not. Morals are not relative, and them being relative would make JWF apply even less. So you believe humanity as a whole has the same morals? I'm sorry but thats an absolutely braindead take. Maybe you should look at an abortion debate, thats a good place to start. Not making that assumption, I'm talking about what you'd say to a guy who is aweful to women. That assumpttion is often made on this sub though, using stawmen or flimsy evidence. Also that assumption isn't JWF. By your own def…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:25 PM
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person 1: I think if you improve your social skills, especially game and charisma, your success with relationships will improve I have never seen anyone on this sub say JWF in this case. Any examples? person 1: I think when people behave immorally, it often can hurt them in the end This is JWF. Morals are relative. What's good to one person may be horrible to another. For example, the Taliban thinks forcing women to be subservient is the "moral" thing to do. person 1: you'll have more success wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 04:34 PM
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Passing on my genetics would be unimaginably cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:48 AM
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I don't think women in general will regret sexual liberation, but a lot of feminists already blame the nebulous patriarchy and male grooming for decisions that sexually liberated women make. As if the women making those decisions don't have minds of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:36 PM
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Emma Hernan Not mid, but definitely not my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:46 PM
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Oh she has zero interest in me. If you check my 2nd post on reddit, its actually about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:45 AM
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Honestly, the women I talk to do care a lot about personality. It's just utterly pointless if you are below their look threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 06:01 AM
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Although, no nudes for me. Yeah I just got lucky in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:20 AM
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Its only because they are exhibitionists. One is a free love tantra chick who literally fucks random dudes and women at her sex cult meetings. The other like teasing men. She likes to wear really sheer and exposing clothing, and will sometimes flash in public for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:19 AM
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Being friends with women hasn't helped me get a gf and actually solidified my blackpill beliefs, but at a least the freaky exhibitionist ones always send nudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:57 AM
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Yeah, but “nice guy” doesn’t literally mean someone who’s nice. Ok then, that circles around to the first point I made. If "nice guy" doesn't mean "guy who is nice" then use your expansive vocaubulary to say what you actually mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:07 PM
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Yes, because if they knew what the exact problem was they prolly wouldn't be asking for advice in the first place. The advice giver is like a car mechanic. The driver is most likely say something like "my car won't start" and its the mechanics job to investigate and see what the real problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:38 AM
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Holy crap dude. I'm autistic and grew up hating to communicate with people. I was non confrontational because I found people annoying and I hated arguing. I was actively rude and inconsiderate to people because I wanted them out of my face. Nothing to do with being nice or people pleasing. I'm not arguing semantics, you are just pretty narrowminded when it comes to this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:51 AM
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If someone doesn’t pay attention to the specific meaning of something that’s kind of their fault. It's also on the speaker if they use something that can be easily misinterpreted. Calling someone a "nice guy" can be literal or idiomatic whereas calling someone a "doormat" is pretty much always going to be an idiom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:45 AM
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Thats incorrect. There are plenty of ways to be a doormat or pushover without being nice. For example, I was a doormat because I was non confrontational and unmotivated, not because I was a people pleaser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:28 AM
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Ok, then why don't people just say "Don't be a doormat." or "Don't be a pushover"? It's not good advice if it can be easily misinterpreted. For example, a doctor tells someone to avoid healthy foods on a visit. On the next visit, the patient gained a lot of weight. The doctor then says he didn't mean avoid healthy foods, he meant avoid healthy marketed foods since its a gimmick to charge more for them. Pretty much everyone would say the doctor gave shit advice. Just be straightforward as possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:53 AM
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I know plenty of retired, white military contractors with young wives from there, so maybe theres some truth to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:40 AM
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Certain types of men need to understand that there are tradeoffs. There are no trade offs. The Danny Devito looking guy is always gonna be using money to attract women. And if he travels to shop around, he can find what he wants for a cheaper price.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:36 AM
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The women in the home country are just as likely to be gold diggers. The unattractive passport bro is gonna have to lead with money wherever he is, so he might as well travel where its cheaper. Pointless post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:27 AM
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I don't associate with those guys. Single moms are the ones fucking them. Unless you catch me going around giving shitty dudes congratulatory blowjobs, I would say the women how are fucking them are more responsible for reinforcing their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:49 PM
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Cool, so that has absolutely nothing to do with what I’m talking about. Yeah I know you posted under automod, but the main post is still about dating single moms. Not in this subReddit. Theyre quite fine blaming women for a man’s actions. Well you are responsible for willingly associating with those guys. Would you be ok with dating a guy if you saw he hung out with misogynist and abusive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:38 PM
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Cool, so that that has nothing to do with actually dating single moms. Second, pretty much everyone hates deadbeat dads. That's why they commonly are called "deadbeat dads" and not "awesome absentees". The comparatively low amount of vitriol directed towards single moms is due to the fact that they chose such shitty guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:51 PM
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The hate single moms get is really from misogynists who aspire to be future deadbeats and never hold deadbeats accountable for their irresponsible creampies. How exactly do you think guys supposed hold deadbeat guys responsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:25 PM
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Women lose SOME sexual value as they age, they don't become valueless. The best thing you can do to not lose value is stay in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:04 AM
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Article II, Section 4: The President, Vice President and all civil Officers of the United States, shall be removed from Office on Impeachment for, and Conviction of, Treason, Bribery, or other high Crimes and Misdemeanors. "fit to run" is not on the list. They literally can't impeach him for that. If he is incapable of performing the duties, then VP Kamala takes over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:45 AM
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My dad was an evil, abusive, shitstain who died a few years ago. I didnt communicate with him for about 15 years. Mom told me this after divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:03 AM
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However , most incels or incel adjacent sexless men do not see this scenario. They see a man who may be picked sooner than him , or more consistently over time than him for a myriad of reasons , and lament that all those men are exactly like what you described here. Absolute nonsense. Incels usually cite known shitbags like Chris Brown who still have female fans. I can personally name dozens of women who went after men with glaring red flags, mostly because my older brother was the shitbag in mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:54 PM
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Yes, and I'm talking about situations where they don't. Even listed several examples in my previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:30 PM
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Yes, but they don't necessarily have to be physically attracted to that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:18 PM
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Gold digger is just one example. My mom that I mentioned would be an example of a competence digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:02 PM
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Looks only matter for attraction, not relationships. Women and men will sometimes enter relationships with people they are not attracted to just to extract resources (ie gold diggers). My own mom admitted that she got with my dad for stability. I know plenty of old, gross, military contractors with young wives trying to get US citizenship. My older faked relationships with women to use their house, car, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:43 PM
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My older brother had a lot of these women orbiting him. He knew I was sexless, so he evn offered to let me fuck one of them for completing Army Basic Training (I declined).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:30 PM
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None. I would rather stay single than have a government assigned partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:05 PM
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Well she was ok with him breaking up, but she was offended that he didn't want to be friends afterwards. And she was kinda jealous that he found a new hot gf so quickly (tall, Russian dance/yoga instructor).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:34 PM
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That does apply to black pillers, but those people have given up. Doesn't even to apply to blackpillers really. I say that social skills and other stuff only matter if you are good looking enough to get your foot in the door. Even if you were to finesse your way into a relationship using other attributes it will leave it on a shaky foundation. For example, a close female friend was dating , in her own words, an amazing guy. He was an amazing flow artist and dancer, particularly with contact jugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:00 PM
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I'm already friends with 2 IRL Anna's, so I guess I would pick her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:58 PM
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My point is that most times an outsider can only put a band aid on a gaping wound unless the woman herself decides to extricate. You seem to think differently, but a lot women on here portray abuse victims as completely helpless with no agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:41 PM
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Oh yeah I understand. I was greatly affected by "unreasonable" women IRL and toxic online discourse, almost led to self delete. Then I learned to stop giving af about what they say. It's just bullying and punching down.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:32 PM
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My man, for the sake of your own mental health, you need to stop caring what women think in regards to your morality. For the most part its attractive = good, unattractive = evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:17 PM
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If I see a stranger behaves like an asshole, I‘d call them out on Assholes don't care about call out if their tactics are working. call the police if they are actively harming someone. You are really overestimating what the police will do. Most times if the woman herself doesn't report the abuse, the police will do jack shit. My neighbors called the police when my dad was abusing my mom. Mom said everything was fine, police left. When we escaped to the battered women's shelter a lot of women the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:00 PM
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Legally, there's not a lot we can do to hold them accountable. If we call them out on the behavior they won't listen because it works for them. Even for the illegal stuff like abuse, a lot of times that needs the victim to report it. Even if we could somehow wave a magic wand and make every guy a kind person, women would just gravitate towards the same attractive guys anyway. Nothing would change for struggling guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:40 PM
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I did mine as an experiment, and it went the the way I thought it would. Women here almost universally rejected the guy who is extremely popular with women IRL and chose the IRL incel for the most part. PPD women confuse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:02 PM
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Melissa, by a longshot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:57 PM
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Prolly because we have seen it IRL. My older brother has had women claim he was the baby daddy a few times. My sister attempted on a guy but one of her friends tipped him off and he dumped her mid pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:55 PM
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We were talking about shaming tactics, so I'm not going to waste my time researching something unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:49 PM
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Well, I think the main problem with the fat shaming in SK is that its done because of looks rather than health concerns. For example, the nurse that shamed me in SK did it because I had a large butt, something that I genetically have due to my African descent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:17 PM
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I'm pretty sure Reddit men say 99% of women have no issue getting attention and the ones that claim to get no attention have their standards in the stratosphere. Try looking up the Pig Experiment; even a woman who was photoshopped to look as disgusting as possible got plenty of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:35 AM
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I don't know where you are from, but fat shaming in USA is practically non existent compared to South Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:26 AM
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I'll be the first to tell you its toxic. I was called fat when I was stationed there in the military, even though I was fit enough to run a half marathon in a decent time. I was just countering OP's assertion that hate comments don't make people less obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:55 AM
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We have high rates of death from obesity. Also the suicide rate in South Korea is more closely linked to the hypercompetitive schooling and job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 02:08 AM
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Asian countries like South Korea shame people to hell and back over weight and it works. Not the most polite thing to do I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:59 AM
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Yes they are in competition. That's why they let other women make bad decisions so they can get ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:26 PM
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Maybe if a major war happens that removes a lot of men. I got a peek into the Russian dating scene from a friend and ogre tier men are cleaning up because there are less men there overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:59 AM
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Its called tampon because we are discarded after use. I had a female "friend" like this. I didn't exist to her unless she was unhappy, or needed a favor. Otherwise she ignored my messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:43 AM
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No thats what tradcons are asking for. Get your facts straight. I'm a blackpiller and think that Russia is a depressing shithole.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:51 PM
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It doesn't matter if you think its nonsense, all that matter is that those groups have different beliefs. Let's try a different example. Group A believes 1+1=7. Group B believes 1+1=H. Group C believes 1+1=undefined. All nonsense answers, but they are different. Thats all you need to distinguish the groups. You are so blinded by your hate of those groups that you are making yourself look ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:31 PM
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I think the main issue is that people find the most extreme positions to represent the pills in order to make them look as insane as possible. That would be like using Westboro Baptist or the KKK to represents Christians, even though they are an extremely tiny minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:22 PM
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I'm not saying they have no socials skills, Im saying they can get away with utilizing no socials skills and still get laid. Funnily enough, my nephew might fall into this category. He is mid functioning autistic, mostly walks around with his head buried in a phone game, and answers people in shrugs and grunts. Yet he still has women aggressively pursue him because he is extremely tall and good looking. My older brother definitely falls into this category because I have seen him smash women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:04 PM
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Hmm I sorta agree with that. Looks is always the first bar that the needs to be met. Then social skills and other stuff matters. Trying to date someone who is physically unattracted to you has a high likelihood of ending poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:49 PM
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When I say bluepill, Im specifically referring to reddit bluepillers who act in opposition to redpill, blackpill, MGTOW, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:40 PM
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Jeez, even blackpill doesn't say that. Only the top ~0.1% percent of men or less can get away with no social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:50 AM
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Eh, personality is a factor but only after you meet the looks threshold. If someone thinks you look disgusting, nothing will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:37 AM
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Not abritrarily. You can easily find studies showing that disabled people have significantly less relationships and are more likely to have abusive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:29 AM
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Dating is easier than practically anything. Nah, your standards for dating are just comparatively low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:08 AM
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There's plenty of old, fat, blind, disfigured, mentally disabled, and homeless men who never find partners but I guess you ignore them because it doesnt fit your narrative. People get lucky, outliers exist. I also know similar folks who are in relationships but I'm not going to pretend like its the norm. Also, most of those guys I know are getting abused. One of my cousins intentionally dated several "slow" men at once to take all their money and instantly broke up with them if they asked for se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:54 AM
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Both math and guitar have a higher barrier to entry and hence all interactions tend to be more positive. Ofc a woman would think math and guitar have a higher barrier to entry than dating, you dont have to do shit. Now take something like competitive gaming. If you suck at an online game, you are going to be called some very bad things that are several orders of magnitude worse than anything a blue piller might come up with. Its fine to be shit on competitive gaming. Other than those terrible pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:35 AM
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The problem is that bluepill puts negative qualities on men who are struggling with women by default. Like being unattractive to women automatically means you are an awful person. Do bluepillers do that with other skills? A person struggling with math, misogynist. Bad at guitar? Actual Nazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:47 AM
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Bluepill is waaay more effective at being a doomer cult for men who aren't naturally gifted at picking up women. Any complaint or mention of a struggle is written off as the guy being a lazy, evil, misogynistic POS. And it stings even more when you take their advice to go "touch grass", and see tons of objectively awful men doing just fine with women. I personally had to restore myself from the recycle bin because of that mindset. While I don't really agree with redpill, I would say one good thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:33 AM
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Would that mean that everyone who uses the word incel as an insult has no self respect to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 10:09 PM
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There are restrictions on sperm bank donations because women want "good breeding material".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:01 PM
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With apps, dating 20 women is not that difficult for a good looking guy. Could prolly hit that number in less than a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:59 AM
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Women don't mask better. Men are judged more harshly for offputting behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:07 PM
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Nah, plenty of other guys tried to copy my brother's behavior and it didn't work. Cuz they didnt have the looks or charisma to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:19 AM
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Nope, didnt say that, try reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:15 AM
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Nah I don't think so. She was publicly on his rotation a few years later but apparently it started when he was 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:11 PM
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You would be surprised at how many crimes don't get reported. One of my middle school coaches was known to fondle students and never got in trouble for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:03 PM
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When he was 16 he had already been with a few 30+ women, including my own elementary teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:45 AM
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Growing up with an attractive older brother made me see first hand how women overlooked negative traits for Chad. He would treat them like absolute dogshit and they would keep coming back. And it wasn't just young women, he had plenty of older women going after him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:40 AM
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Ok then, so women shouldn't care about n-count shaming and this entire post is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:39 PM
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If every woman alive abided by the men's standard of having 0 BC, 3 max, then nearly every man would be getting NO sex, period. A man having a zero/low body is a negative for most women so its on them. They constantly shame sexless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:27 PM
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The point is: it doesn't matter how many information you get of a person. They could always change, pretend or otherwise represent themselves. Nothing is objectively right or wrong and no matter what you choose - people will always turn around and go "ha! I could've told you he was bad, based on that one specific detail and completely ignoring all the other elements of their personality!" This has to be the most absolute braindead take I've seen here. I guess you would be down to date serials ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 04:38 PM
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Ok, I'm a blackpilled guy and even I think this is ridiculous. If you really think those actresses are mid or that Kristen Dunst is a 4, you spend way too much time on social media looking at models
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:44 PM
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The details were very sparse on these hypotheticals. The only one who was an absolute no was the cheating guy and maybe the sugar daddy, but all the other guys could potentially be fine. In the hypothetical posts I made last month I based them on real people I knew and gave more details.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:29 PM
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I personally have gotten false sexual harrasment charges in the military. They were laughably false and dropped quickly (within 2 months for both), but the investigations prevented any favorable actions while they were ongoing, like special classes, promotions, awards, etc. It was so bad that one of my chief set me up with a good contracting job when I got out, cuz she felt I had been screwed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:36 PM
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Exactly. In fact, if this post was made by a man it would have been deleted long ago for being incel/woe is me content. They literally don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:55 PM
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The guys can sense her misandry and entitlement. She needs to work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:48 PM
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I was waaaay more miserable when I was bluepilled. I'm gonna copy paste another comment I made before: A lot of redditors and other people on social media like to assign very nefarious qualities to virgin men. Stuff like misogynist, rapist, pedophile, etc. Made me very depressed, suicidal even. Blackpill cuts through the bullshit and says you are a permavirgin cuz you are ugly. I'm fine with being ugly. Almost instantly my mental health improved and I was able to talk to women with more confiden…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:46 AM
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For example, a lot of women thought Drake was a good rapper because they found him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:27 AM
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You are misunderstanding. A guy can be attractive and not a fuccboi. The difference is that fuccbois do things to maximize their chances with women, while the normal guys are more balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:55 AM
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Women don't need to date unattrative men for commitment. Just dont go after the top fuccboi and expect him to settle down with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:12 AM
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Yeah, its social media fueling the paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:45 PM
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Not exactly. I think the new age feminists pushing the "all men bad" narrative is fueling this, but they don't realize that its harming women. It would work if women could completely divorce themselves from men somehow, but that's pretty much impossible. A lot of women end up thinking men are all equally bad. Like, if they want a relationship, they have to accept being treated like crap or not have one at all. Which leads to them staying with awful guys because apparently thats the best they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:43 PM
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The "Would you rather be alone with a bear or man" crap really supports that the Nice Guy meme is a product of women's paranoia more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:28 PM
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My brother is so absurdly talented and has such high status that he just lets women approach him for the most part. Almost like a small time celeb. Sure, he is extremely good looking (comparable to prime Usher Raymond), but I think his ability to entertain is what pushed him over the top. For example, he has successful songs on Spotify, has done well received stand up comedy shows, has tons of followers on Instagram from his art, music, and fashion. He is also an abusive piece of shit, but the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:10 PM
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Dang I should have made one of these for my older brother. Going off your responses he is fairly different from the guy you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 11:51 AM
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Democrats specialize in giving people free stuff by the govt, which costs money. And Republicans give out free stuff too, just to rich folks. Both parties burn through money just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 03:31 PM
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It must be great to be an abuser these days. You can treat your gf like shit and she will take her frustrations out on random internet virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:20 PM
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"Airplane seats are so uncomfortable when you are 6'5" "Yacht maintenance is a pain in the ass" Both valid complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 04:18 AM
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This is how the sub operates though, they go find the most extreme positions to argue against. I made this post to demonstrate how silly that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:40 PM
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Here's what I believe from Blackpill: looks are the primary driver of attraction, pretty privilege, halo effect, and attractiveness is divorced from morality. Any of that sound insane to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:18 PM
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But saying it to a bunch of men with obvious body image issues is OK I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:06 PM
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Extremists within RP and BP tend to have mental issues. The RP and BP core beliefs are fairly rational though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:59 PM
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Partly made up, I heard this from an IRL anorexic friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:35 PM
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The difference is saddening. My anorexic friend assualted a doctor who refused to prescribe her diet pills and threatened to kill her mom for taking away her laxatives. But I never once thought of her as some monster who couldn't be helped. But people here are quick to throw guys into the irredeemable category.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:34 PM
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The analogy doesn't make sense to you because you dont see redpill and blackpill men as people. I actually had an anorexic friend and the reason she starved is she wanted to be a child. Because it was the last time she felt happy. Age regression. She also idolized the relationship in the book "Lolita", hence the "men are attracted to 5%" comment. Back in my dark mental breakdown blackpill days, I aslo wanted to be child because it was the last time I was happy. Except instead of starving myself,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:21 PM
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Well yeah. There were a lot of people in the other post saying that those men wanted to be miserable, which is the biggest load of BS ever. They just think happiness is out of reach due to their body image issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:28 PM
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She was institutionalized a few times. The first time her mindset got worse because it was too strict and she was surrounded by girls who were even skinnier than her and got jealous. The last time was was like a group therapy daycare and she was allowed to go home at night. That seemed to go a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:54 AM
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Imma be honest, I heard this from my IRL anorexic friend. She did frequent pro ana forums and instagram pages tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:38 AM
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Nope, the periods stop. I had an anorexic friend who celebrated when that happened to her. That was pretty disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:31 AM
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Whereas the penis thread you're referencing is full of people agreeing with the idea that women need monster schlongs to enjoy sex. Nah I didnt see that. What I saw is people saying that small penises are frequently shamed so that's what leads to that kind of mindset. Also people pointed to a few studies saying that women enjoyed slightly larger than average penises. Not monster dongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 11:30 AM
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Ok, heres how they actually look IRL. 1 is 6'2 Usher Raymond, complete with the physique. He is an instagram star and barber so his grooming and fashion is impeccable. Always ready for the camera. 2 is 6'5 and looks like slim faced Biggie Smalls. You can see it if you look up younger photos of him. Built like a retired linebacker, dresses like a typical rural trucker. 3 is 5'9 Hannibal Burress / Forest Whitaker blend complete with the glasses and lazy eye. Typically dresses in tech guy business …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:35 PM
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Well, I wanted him to have a chance, but its seems like he is the least picked here regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:12 PM
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He has raps songs where he brags about all the girls he had sex with. He talks about all the girls he has on social media. He does OF, he is literally a pornstar. Trust me, everyone knows about his manwhore status because he revels in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:06 PM
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Yep, now I only make 6k a month. I kinda had a mental breakdown and had to end up selling it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:23 PM
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He's my older brother but we really don't get along.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:39 PM
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As if he would ever pay for sex. He had sugar mommas even back when he was in highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:30 PM
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Nah. Not too long ago I ran across a 31 yo single mom on Twitch claiming men were intimidated cuz she articulated well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:04 PM
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These are all based on people I know really well IRL, 2 of my older brothers and me. If you check my comment history, I mentioned my Chad older brother (#1) quite a bit. None of this is outlandish, all real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:43 PM
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2 didnt hide his escort use. He posted his regrets about it openly on instagram, thats the only reason I knew. I also didn't list all the red flags here, just the ones that would be obvious or easy to find out. I could have listed waaaaaaaay more, especially for #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:39 PM
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Oh yes, he is probably more awful than you are imagining. But he legitimately has maxed out stats as a person. Great at art, great at singing, disarmingly funny, professional tier dancing skills, damn near photographic memory, etc. And he uses all that talent to be a giant piece of shit. It's infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:27 PM
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I wanted opinions from the "I'd take the Grizzly Bear over the random man" crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:07 PM
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Eh #1 is like mini celeb, all of his dirty secrets and downsides are out there and well known. I actually omitted his physical abuse to make him more palatable here. For example, one of the better known stories is of him punching the teeth out of a girl who gave him a bad blowjob. Women don't seem to care tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:03 PM
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Choice 1 is my brother with a different dad. Choice 2 is my brother with a different mother. Choice 3 is basically me from a few years ago, I make signifcantly less money now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:53 PM
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No, this kind of stuff gives me insight into how red flags are ignored. Thanks for the input.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:51 PM
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That guy is based on one of my older brothers from about 6 years ago. Now he is married, and his wife's family lives on the land does some farm shit while he is still trucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:35 PM
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Ok to make it simple: A lot of redditors and other people on social media like to assign very nefarious qualities to virgin men. Stuff like misogynist, rapist, pedophile, etc. Made me very depressed, suicidal even. Blackpill cuts through the bullshit and says you are a permavirgin cuz you are ugly. I'm fine with being ugly. Almost instantly my mental health improved and I was able to talk to women with more confidence. The End.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:27 PM
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No, this was intended to be "who is the best of the undesirables", at least for PPD women. I'm still surprised that almost no one has picked Choice 1. The IRL guy he is based on pretty much dominates in the dating arena. I even cut out the fact that he is a well known physical abuser to make him more palatable here, but I guess that didn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:10 PM
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No, its interesting to me that no one has picked #1, even though he is the most popular IRL by a massive margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:48 PM
0

Shhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:31 PM
2

What was the dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:30 PM
2

I specifically wanted to get PPD women's take. Ofc choice 1 would sweep an IRL competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:22 PM
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Your answer is in question itself, with n-count of 200, women prefer the choice 1 PPD women are built different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:12 PM
2

The bear is always ready for your warm, tender flesh embrace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:41 AM
1

Choice 3 is based on me from a few years ago, so thanks I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:33 AM
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So you think they are all equally undateable? Remember this is just a ranking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 11:19 AM
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It was intended to be a "Who is the best out of the undesirables" post. I want to make a version for women too but I'm having trouble coming up with men that would work for the post. Like the women in this post, I also want the men to be based on real people that I'm familiar with so they just can't claim I'm doing BS hypotheticals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:41 AM
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For me, the bluepill is when people apply the Just World Fallacy to dating and relationships. Hardworking, good people succeed and lazy, awful people don't. The world doesn't work that way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:44 AM
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No one arguing from the blue pill is saying anything is a guarantee to get any one laid. But it does set a foundation for an actual healthy loving relationship IF that presents itself. Nah, I actually have better relations with women now that I'm blackpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:39 AM
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It wasnt really a choice, it was a ranking. If you find them all equally unappealling thats valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:50 PM
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Not sure. I want to make a version of this prompt for women but I gotta get the right guys. I want to all be based on people I know IRL. My brother is gonna be one of the guys, thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:43 PM
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How is 3 a confirmed cheater? Just to make it clear, her husband cheated on her with hookers while deployed. Since engaging in human trafficking while deployed is super illlegal, he was sent to prison by a military court martial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:33 PM
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Dang bro, choice 2 is based on my sister and you got it right. She was alpha widowed by an NFL draftee who got her pregnant, although he was kicked out of training camp due to drug usage and had to play football in Europe. Edit Honestly I don't remember if he was a draftee or free agent. Don't really follow sports. I just remember that he was slated to go to the NY Jets and fucked it up by failing consecutive drug tests. Man he was a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:37 PM
3

Thanks for the write up, this is the kind of stuff I wanted to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:12 PM
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I don't believe that a porn star and her co-star would break up for this reason. This is what they might tell the public in order not to admit to darker and shadier stuff. The ex bf is still a mod in her Twitch stream so its not like they hate each other. From what I gather, it seems like their relationship was 99% sex so thats why the separation was easy. Do you know her husband personally? Because otherwise all what you have is her side of the story. I didn't hear about the husband's crimes fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:04 PM
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But I perfectly understand that 1 and 3 are entirely fictional. Nope, based on IRL people I know. Choice 1 is a Twitch streamer that I'm subbed to. Choice 2 is my sister, except with no kids. Choice 3 is a former coworker, except I bumped her age down a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:47 PM
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I'm not redpilled. Money issues is statistically one of the leading causes of breakups, not sure why you trying to downplay that. Also, do you not think that whether your partner wants to have kids or not is important?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:41 PM
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Pornstar couples are not uncommon. This prompt is actually based on one I know IRL. She switched to Youtubing and Twitch streaming, but you can easily find vids of her getting railed by her BF or one of her toys. This post made me think about a lot of things. Like what would I actually commit to. And what does commitment actually mean. And what type of woman would I actually put effort into. Nice, that was the intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:32 PM
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Army computer networking warrant officer. All 3 women are based on women I know IRL btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:25 PM
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So you think they are all equally bad? Just asking for a ranking, not which one you have to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:19 PM
1

Would you consider yourself a low tier/average men? Right now, yeah. Purely because I'm overweight. Do you believe men should complain about not having relationships if you have this opinion? My opinion is that people should be able to voice their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:16 PM
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Fuck no, thats makes her worse. Ideally, the woman should have a few, carefully selected and vetted, attractive partners. Dating low tier men, especially a lot of low tier men, just shows that she has poor judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:33 PM
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2nd one of course. In fact don't even understand whats supposed to be wrong with the 2nd one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:29 PM
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Yes is he is hood but you are underestimating how many "stable" women are into that, especially if the guy is really attractive. Now having a relationship with them is a different story but he could have sex with them no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:45 AM
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I'm considered threatening because I'm unattractive, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:12 AM
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Well, I've seen something similar happen on streaming sites like Twitch. Women who are moderately attractive get really salty when they have to put in effort to get donations. Just having a pretty face/body won't cut it (unless you are a legit 9+), you have to be entertaining. They call men broke losers and such when they don't get donos or face criticism. The women who humble themselves and and focus on improving are the ones who actually succeed, most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:13 PM
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Haven't had any male friends behave that way, but I have had to cut contact with some male family members for that reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:51 PM
8

Being used as a tool/resource by women doesn't cure lonlieness, it makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:47 PM
1

Wtf are you saying yikes about? Is your only source of entertainment comedy? I just watched BBC nature documentary. Very entertaining, did not laugh once. I have a female friend who does fire fan dancing. Very entertaining to watch, but not humorous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 03:25 PM
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No laughter? How boring and lifeless. There are countless ways to be entertained besides humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:50 PM
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Outside of this reddit bubble, most people IRL will readily admit that attraction is mostly about looks. Its not blackpill, its common sensse. Its funny how deluded some folks on here are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:40 PM
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I would say those guys are rarer than 1%, but you have to remember that knowing them is easier becuase they tend popular and stand out. For example, the local top fuckboy at my current location is about 6' 7". Everyone knows him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:25 PM
5

You remind me of a guy, that I, once knew He rated Katy Perry's looks, at best, a 2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 06:08 AM
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All of the above. He just seemed to get what he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:59 AM
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The sad part is that the women did not care about the abuse. I remember warning an older, but very good looking woman about how he beats the shit out of women. And her response was "the young girls don't know how to handle him." Ofc she got beat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:12 AM
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My older brother looked like Usher Raymond (celeb singer). He was overwhelmingly popular with women, despite him being an abusive asshole. Women would frequently have fights over him and send him gifts. Pretty much every woman he abused declined to file a police report on him. His other guy friends were legitimately scared to bring their girlfriends around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:03 AM
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lol “touch grass” says the guy who thinks ruminating about how terrible women are online isn’t one of the glaring red flags holding himself back from the relationship he so desperately craves. Never said that women are terrible so you can scoot off with that. If you spoke to women, you’d know they aren’t all a hive mind just out to demean and belittle men they aren’t attracted to and most guys are out here doing just fine. Sure, but most women I talk to IRL will freely admit that they are primar…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:33 AM
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It only appears to come out of left field because you have such narrow minded views. It wasn't intended to be a gotcha. If you go "touch grass" as the folks on here like to say, its easy to find misogynists with partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:17 AM
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Hmm I guess domestic abuse doesn't exist in your delusional world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:12 AM
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The issue is they constantly have to commentate on the race, tell you how awful some of the players are, brainwash men who would otherwise have a happy and healthy future into believing that not having success at 20 and not being some 10/10 super fit Adonis is why they will always have horrible and unfulfilling lives. The internet content works only because the women they deal with IRL and especially online reinforce those points. And the sick part is, they could have had all that without the ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:07 AM
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No-one likes Simon Cowel. You prolly didn't like Simon Cowel, but audiences loved him back in the height of American Idol. So much so that similar shows often put in a rude judge to copy off him. Gordon Ramsey's popularity comes mainly from the fact he's one of fhe best chefs in the world. He's not just a famous bully. I used tk think he was a psycho, but he generally only screams at people if they're doing something dangerous. Let's get real, in USA Gordon is mostly known for being the screamin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:36 AM
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Incels as a group don't really have goals. They are united more by self hatred and nihilism rather than taking action. It's more similar to something like an anorexia group.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:38 AM
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The default response when you don't actually have a rebuttal. I have numerous examples from "going outside", I chose those guys because they are easily recognizable. Here's some guys I personally know who are fairly popular: My own dad, who is well known for abusing his wife and kids, and harassing his employees. My older brother, who is disgustingly popular despite being well known as an aggressive, abusive asshole. He is very talented though, so that's why people overlook it. My former hardcor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 06:14 AM
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Men have to be excellent negotiators, and only use bravado or violence in response to it when there's no other choice between that and losing status. No one likes a bully. Yall must being living an alternate reality. People love bullies. Just look at how popular bully personalities like Simon Cowell and Gordon Ramsay were. There are tons of popular social personalities like Low Tier God whose entire schtick is being a bully. USA recently elected a schoolyard bully as president (with a majority o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:40 AM
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Exactly, I remember when 2xchrom had a highly upvoted post praising Will Smith for hitting Chris Rock. It was very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:02 PM
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Nvm, I'm getting fucked by Rocket Devastators
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:19 AM
4

Me, thats why my N-count is zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:14 PM
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The bluepill people here constantly say that virgin men don't get bullied so it shouldn't be a problem right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 03:30 PM
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People get into relationships with people they are not really attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:41 AM
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Ok, why is "men do it too" always the response? I think anyone who overlooks red flags is an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:47 PM
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It's the hypocrisy for me. They make different rules for Chad. I've seen feminist boss babes defending Chris Brown types just because he's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 03:47 PM
2

Uh, no. Normal guys talk about n-count all the time, they just don't specifcally use the word n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:55 PM
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I seen what actual interest looks when women talk to attractive guys. That's why I'm sure almost no women have been interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:59 PM
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Lives in her mom's basement? Not a problem. If you are single, staying with your parents can be a good financial decison. Plays video games all day? I like games so I don't care that much. She should stream the games on twitch to make money. Struggling with debt? Not my debt, not my problem. Basically I'm ok with dating a broke girl as long as she is low maintainence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:31 PM
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Oh please, women worship those plastic girls far more than men do. Who do you think are watching their tv shows and buying their crappy skincare products.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:47 AM
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On here they also say that being a weak willed doormat and doing things without expecting repricocity is horrible and in the same breath say that expecting something for being nice is also horrible. Unattractive guys really can't win.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:59 PM
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If you’re a misogynist you must have a redeeming quality or else it’s unacceptable just like any other bad opinion like racism. No one will like you as a person but you will be tolerated. If a man doesn’t have that redeeming quality his misogynistic views will be deemed unacceptable. Honestly this section just reads like a blackpill screed. Chad gets to play by a different set of rules. Women will ignore his negative attributes because he is hot. Why shouldn’t we tell those men to fix that even …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:46 PM
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Misogyny should be unacceptable, but in the real world its not. Misogynists don't seem have an issue getting into relationships, and one of the bigliest misogynists became president of USA with 55% of the white female vote. Male feminists are ridiculed and attacked by pretty much everyone, including female feminists. Even here, the constant vitriol directed towards nice guys makes me shake my head. Ofc they are going to logically come to the conclusion to treat women like shit instead. Modern fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:46 PM
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Just like you have difficulty understanding metaphors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:16 AM
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What is this "debate misogynists" forum? Never heard of it. More gibberish. Perhaps you need a checkup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:32 PM
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Are you ok? You seem to be spouting gibberish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:42 PM
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I know I'm late to the party but this type of reasoning is so odd to me. It would be like telling a guy who is struggling to find a job to not write his resume with crayon. Then being astonished when he tells you to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:28 PM
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Blackpill is not just about physical attractiveness, its about static genetic features in general. So it can include things like mental disorders and race. How is it not guaranteed to work to build muscle and lose fat? If you fail to get fit, you are just a lazy slob. It's fine to be a lazy slob, but why would one be praised for that? I think you are misunderstanding here. I'm saying that nothing is guaranteed to work for DATING, not simple stuff like weight loss and bodybuilding. Btw, I was in …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:23 PM
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Wow, I don't wanna get hit for not responding to comments but this is a perfect rebuttal. Can't improve on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:04 PM
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Tell me...if you're not being the best thing for yourself should any woman trust you would be the best for her? Almost no guy had to be at his best to find a partner. It's easy to criticize struggling guys when you set a nearly impossible standard for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:01 PM
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We do challenge them, but if they get sex despite being shitty they aren't going to care about what we say. If they are still getting positive attention from women then, in their mind, they are doing something, right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:28 PM
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The fantasy is having the option of being able to choose from several attractive women, not being in a polygamous relationship for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:49 PM
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Average or useless male protaganists in those stories are usually derided. Most guys want them to be a hardworking, charismatic, badass. Also, the vast majority of those fandoms want the main guy to just hook up with their 1 favorite girl. The harem is there to give the fandom choices and pad the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:42 PM
2

Haha me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:07 PM
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This has to be one of the dumbest comments I've read here. Only tiny minority of people made the "school shooter" comments and they were usually giant assholes overall. One of those guys was my former co-worker who wanted to gun down border crossers with .50 cals and constantly said we should pass laws to murder protesters (except the Jan 6th ones). They are ones who should grow up and become better, not me. Did you get a breast reduction to make your bullies more comfortable? I'm pretty sure yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 04:58 PM
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Ok Imma be real here. Do you think that people magically stop being assholes when they turn 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:21 PM
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Didn't stop when I was an adult, good for you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:15 PM
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People called me a school and workplace shooter just for being ugly and quiet before the term incel existed. So no it doesn't matter if people call themselves incels or not, bullies gonna bully. When incel goes out of style, a new deragatory term will pop up to take its place, just how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:56 AM
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Women like men who are able to get high bodycounts. Men are shamed for low bodycounts. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:09 PM
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It was just a joke, and you can't even open N-count discussions here anymore cuz it triggers the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:52 PM
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You should relay this to the "n-count doesn't matter" folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:40 PM
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Ah I think I misread your comment a bit. That's what happens why you try to hurry and reply before commuting to work. I agree that people these days only know of incels from caricatures and strawmen rather than actual expericence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:35 PM
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So did it ever occur to you that a lot of incels might not even be affiliated with the big sub? It was banned years ago, and since then the scope of the word incel has been greatly expanded. I think the disconnect is that you think incel is an ideology when most incels think of it as a condition. You can be the most liberal person ever, but as long as you are sexless and unattractive you will be an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:37 PM
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Performative wokeness is not going to get you laid Yes, you can get girls (or people with vaginas who have a new gender every week and like to weaponize it) by being a crusader for whatever cause is popular right now I'm a libertarian, always have been, secretly posted about it on reddit when I was married to a person who was a trendy communist. So, according to you, performative wokeness does get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:55 PM
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Nah, its the complete opposite. Those lonely guys can be manipulated like putty by women. That's why they constantly harp against simping, they know how weak they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:40 PM
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We do get hit up by those abusive women, but they are more likely to friendzone and use us for resources. Then drop us at the slightest bit of protest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:30 PM
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So you would send your kids on the city bus to school No, it would most likely be the designated school bus. Or some type of carpooling arrangement with another parent. In the situation you presented, there's no the man could pick the kids up after school anyway, unless he is allowed to leave work to do it every weekday. and not use any closets but laundry baskets Not sure what you mean by this, but I use laundry baskets. I don't have any kids, but I had to take care of 2 grade school cousins fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:00 PM
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Sure, I would actually like spending time with my kids. And homemaking isn't as nearly as hard as you are making it out to be. The kids would most likely be taking public transportation to school, you can literally get grocery delivered to your door, and laundry is trivial these days with automatic machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:47 PM
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Hard work and being a good person is worthless, all that matters is winning to most people here. If you don't win, you will be characterized as lazy and evil, no matter what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:53 PM
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Because woman reward them with sex. A female friend recently hit me up about terrible date she went on. The guy dressed like a hobo, shouted over her talking the entire date, and thought it was funny to blow cigarette smoke in her face and pinch her even though she repeatedly told him to stop. But she still brought him home and had sex with him because he pet a stray cat. Lo and behold, he cheated on her less than 2 weeks later and he was added to the long list of abusive ex boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:38 PM
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Even the most low value women will have several guys who would date her, so preselection doesn't mean crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:06 PM
2

The goal of bodybuilding is to get bigger and stronger so in that context its a good result.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:09 PM
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If you lift you consistently you will absolutely get bigger and stronger. You are likely comparing those twig guys to pro bodybuilders rather than comparing them to their previous selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:59 PM
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They are determined to frame men as being bad in every situtation, so objective reality tends to fly out the window. If you were to ask them about those countries outside the context of passport bros, their opinions would likely be very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:26 PM
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And thus proving you have no real opinions of your own, just following the herd instead of judging people on an objective basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:10 PM
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Oh please, every unsuccessful guy here is labeled an entitled lazy bum regardless of the work they put in. You can put in a ton of efffort and still fail. Relationships aren't like bodybuilding or weight loss, where effort guarantees good results.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:39 AM
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No one here, including you, cares about the effort people put in. Only the results. If you succeed, you are hardworking dedicated person and if you don't succeed you are a lazy bum, regardless of how much effort you put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:22 AM
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You could just not have casual sex with random guys so you wouldn't have to put on the facade in the first place, but I guess that would be too difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:55 AM
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If you actually haven't seen women who are desperate for a relationship either you have been living under a rock or are straight up lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:32 PM
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That is completly untrue, there are plenty of successful natural, plus size strippers and OF/cam models that I personally know. Also theres this comment in this very thread from a dancer. https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/18nt2o2/if_muscles_dont_matter_for_women_why_are/kect01t/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:55 PM
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getting through the door = baseline physical attraction. I had a friend straight up tell me that's its so frustrating that I'm not sexy. Stuck in the friendzone because of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:11 AM
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Even without going there, I have had plenty of girls trying to sell me their OF on here, dating apps, and a few times IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:05 PM
3

Everyone, all ages, is influenced by fictional media. Even you Lillith.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:52 PM
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Ok, you think I'm the spawn of Satan. Whatever. Let's do a little thought experiment then. What would you do if you found out that one of your IRL besties was dating me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:01 PM
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Yeah I believe so. Recently I had to console a friend who did a reading before a job interview and was convinced it would fail. In reality she was just nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:26 AM
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It's both. I call out hobbies when they are problematic. Like with astrology, I've known women who accused their partners of cheating based on readings. Makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:53 AM
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Don't know about him, but I absolutely do. Religion - lets hate people because they don't believe in the space wizard. Holistic medicine - should be used in addition to proper medical care, but many try to replace it altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:41 AM
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Hobbies can be dumb. For example, my uncle's hobby is gambling and he is often behind on bills and and borrowing money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:33 AM
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Because sometimes objectively dumb things have to be called out. Nothing to do with gender. Would you be silent if you were dating a flat earther?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:10 AM
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You are only reinforcing my point. If you think men are such terrible monsters who refuse to hold each other accountable, then you either need to learn how to vet men yourself or not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:02 AM
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Nobody can wave a magic wand and make all the bad people go away, so you have to be able to vet. There's no way around it. If you expecting them to just get better then you may as well not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:50 AM
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Plenty of people in my town go the the casino just for food and drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:47 PM
2

Yes, I'm much happier chilling and playing video games than I was during my endless self improvement phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:14 AM
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Before the term incel even existed, virgins and struggling men were shat on. Nothing has changed, nothing will ever change.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:02 AM
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Very few men do that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:16 PM
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Easy answer for me. My own brother was the definition of an good looking, abusive deadbeat and he ran thru women like the Flash. And I've seen plenty of other guys just like him. So the answer is that I don't personally know tons of dysfunctional women, but I know shitty, abusive guys who somehow attract tons of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:04 PM
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Your examples are kinda silly tbh. This is a debate sub. Expect to have all your views challenged, regardless of your expertise. Here's my IRL example. There was a female truck/generator mechanic in my Army unit who was excellent at her job. However, several guys would hover over her while she was fixing stuff and give the most banal advice or question her methods. It got to the point where the motorpool chief threatened to punish anyone who bothered her. I think mansplaining really does happen …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:43 PM
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Ofc the women are manipulative, but redpillers think they can see through those tactics with their knowledge, and that bluepilled guys fall under the mentally challenged category.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:17 PM
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Why is doing this considered to be monstrous to you? Not like women are entitled to relationships just for having sex. And once you give up the ruse its just a simple breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:46 AM
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Most redpillers would agree with this, and there's an entire subreddit making fun of guys who expect a relationship for being nice. Not really a hot take.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:37 AM
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Not comparable. A massage palor has prices listed that you are expected to pay for their services. The comparison you are trying to make is more akin to prostitution rather than consentual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:28 AM
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That line of reasoning no fucking sense. Things are going incredibly well for western women right now. Can you just admit that most women go for performatively "strong". That would explain how a giant misogynist like Trump got most of the white women votes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:48 AM
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You are fundamentally misunderstanding the "choose better" statement. You always have the agency to choose being single instead of with a shitty partner. It's the desperation to just be in a relationship, no matter the cost, that drives a lot of the crappy decisions. And it applies to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:05 AM
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I'm not expecting women to help at all. I just call out some of their duplicitous behaviors but I'm well aware that they are unlikely to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 10:18 AM
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I have put myself in women's shoes. I can safely that I would never date a guy who was locally famous for knocking a girl's teeth out for giving him a bad blowjob. But that's exactly what I saw many girls do when it came to my older brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:59 AM
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No men aren't lying, the post is just making incorrect statements. Plain Janes get less attention for sure, but saying they get no attention is completely false. And using your porn example, sure the highest paid women are plastic but you can literally find successful 60 yo grannies as well. A club promoter in Atlanta told me that one of the most hype nights at his club was BBW night.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:44 PM
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Terrible parents who overfeed kids and teach them bad habits. I knew a 11yo who was pushing 200lbs, he finally managed to get his weight under control when he was in college. Pregnancy, at least temporarily. Rare disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:30 AM
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I'm an incel and the only jargon I use IRL is Gigachad/Chad, but that has become more normalized with memes. The army and gaming/anime communities I'm part of have way more jargon anyway, and rarely bring it up outside those communities either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:20 AM
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By all means, stay cautious. It's more annoying when women throw caution to the wind for attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:26 AM
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HVM don't care about what LVM say, so its impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:56 PM
2

In the past, people with bitter, hateful views didn’t have forums where they could connect with other people who have bitter, hateful views. Yeah they did. It's called church, or whatever the equivalent is in other religions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:52 AM
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Unattractive losers existed before the incels subreddit. I think people here really overestimate the influence that those subs had.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:25 PM
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Yes but the people who call themselves incels think of it as a condition, not a evil woman hating mindset. Like you can be the most kindest, feminist guy ever but as long as you are too genetically inferior to be attractive to women you are an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:11 AM
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They are just lying. The word incel only works as an insult because of the negative stigma associated with being a virgin in the first place, similar to the small dick energy phrase. And they are just reinforcing that stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:01 AM
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So what you are saying is that women have no excuse when they have sex with objectively awful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:42 AM
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I bet scammers absolutely love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:15 AM
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Sure thats part of it, never said the societal pressure was a good thing. People should be able to make their own decisions, even if they are bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 11:12 PM
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Women have always preferred tall attractive guys. https://faroutmagazine.co.uk/marlon-brando-hated-a-streetcar-named-desire/ Here's an article about how Marlon Brando hated an attractive, yet morally repugnant guy he potrayed in a 1951 movie became a sex symbol. The only thing that was holding women back was societal pressure for stable relationships, but that has dissapated now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:53 PM
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The standards were raised for physical attractiveness and lowered for morality. Thats the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:27 AM
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Nope, maybe you shouldn't be in a debate forum if differering views bother you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:20 PM
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But screaming “Waaaahhhhh. It’s all men’s fault”. is ok? Anyway, I don't care about being a supposed "ally" of women. I grew up in an extremely abusive household and its my personal mission to intervene and stop abuse anywhere I see it. Sure, decades of failures may have worn me down but I have had a few wins here and there. And I'm going to keep working on that mission whether you "dismiss" me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:55 PM
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If you apply that quote to the way that women approach the problem of male isolation and lonliness you will see why its insulting to expect those guys to be toxic fuckboy rehabilitators.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:10 PM
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So you’re saying if a guy’s getting laid but is a trash talking AH who degrades women in front of you, it’s not worth your time to say that’s not cool? May not change his attitude, but it certainly would say something about you. Yes, I've tried doing this with my own brother and other guys like them. And it doesnt work because they were elevated to the top of social order due to all the women they fucked. They didn't care about anything I said. Call me whatever, but seeing women constantly go fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:33 PM
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Don’t condone “locker room talk”. Sexist misogyny flourishes when other men find it funny and don’t speak out against it. If the guys are getting laid despite being misogynistic, all the chastisting in the world isn't going to do crap. Realize “the bro code” of things like covering for someone cheating or being abusive is wrong. It’s cowardly. You don’t want to be honorable because a man won’t like you? Weak & pathetic. I've never heard of this being part of the "bro code". I've tried to get my …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:05 PM
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Women attempt more often and its not just over tragic events. I personally know a girl who attempted several times because of a breakup and anorexia.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:51 PM
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Majority of white women voted Trump into office as well. Race, age, and location were bigger factors in that election rather than gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:40 AM
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You are a shining example of what I was talking about. This kind of nonsense causes people to tie their self worth to their ability to get in a relationship. It makes no sense because objectively awful scumbags get in relationships all the time; your ability to do so has no bearing on your value as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:48 PM
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You are literally just stating the blackpill. Guys would prolly move on if people would just be honest but they are bombarded with messages like "there's someone for everyone", and "virgins are loser misogynists", so it makes them think that something is fundamentally wrong with them if they can't get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:43 PM
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I'm not redpilled really and still a virgin, but I found that telling women that I have relationships with other girls helps. For example a girl who friendzoned me for 2 years sent me nudes once I mentioned I was busy talking to another girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:25 PM
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Yes, and top NBA players miss shots as well. Doesn't mean that they are on the same level as other folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:08 PM
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A guy who can easily attract lots of women with looks, status, and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:47 AM
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I love fat asses, what you on about man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:42 PM
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It would be great if things worked out that way. But in reality, women lie about their n-counts and try to date men who would normally reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:18 PM
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Haha why so aggressive. I'm just asking a question. 100+ : Likes sex, sex outside of marriage/relationship is ok, probably very extroverted, high libido/wants to have sex often, has mostly had casual sex, more sexually adventurous 1: no casual sex, less sexually adventurous 0: probably introverted, lower libido, probably sexuallly conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:47 PM
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Most of my bullies got weirded out and gave up when I agreed with them. One of the few benefits of being blackpilled at an early age I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:06 PM
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I've been falsely accused twice while I was in the Army, by women I barely had any interactions with. Besides direct accusations, people have generally called me a pervert or child molester because I look odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:48 PM
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I guess its similar to the women who cry about men who pump and dump. They should have known they are only wanted for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:42 PM
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Yes I would have much preferred that over being called a mass murderer and sexual deviant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:33 PM
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To the people who say that n-count doesnt matter: Do you think that n-count indicates anything about the person? Imagine 3 average people who have a n-count of 0, 1, and 100+. What, if anything, does that indicate to you about that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:23 PM
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thats because they are usually borderline anorexic, the high fashion ones for the most part. If they were at a healthy bmi they would look better.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 01:02 PM
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Yeah sure, its just the "everyone deserves 2nd chances" and "dont worry about the past" BS fucks up folks judgement and they end up going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:03 PM
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No its because they give abusers 2nd chances. They leave and go back. Or people will hook up with people who have abused others thinking it will be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:59 PM
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Sure, this mentality is how people end up stuck in abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:42 PM
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You could be a convicted felon and I wouldn't really care much so long as you're not a piece of shit person now and into the future. This is dumbest thing ever. My own mom followed this philosophy and continuously dated guys who reformed their bad ways and went to church. And lo and behold, all of them were terrible and abusive because people don't change that easily. Sure, there's a small chance they may have completely turned a new leaf but is better not to risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:10 PM
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Inability to take criticism. By far the biggest one. I could potentially put up with the others but not this one. Acting dumb. Religious. Follows stupid health trends. Delusional about their fitness/appearance. Addicted to social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:55 AM
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Captain Marvel and Black Panther, the 2 singularities of wokeness according to conservative media, both made over 1 billion. Just because you personally dislike "woke" stuff it doesn't mean that everyone else does. The MCU movies are doing worse for several other reasons, like loss of hype after Endgame, losing 2 of their leading actors, series fatigue, worse scriptwriting, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:18 AM
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Barbie made a shit ton of money though. The new MCU movies aren't failing because wokeness, they are failing because they are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:05 AM
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No, I just listed a situation I've personally seen where the guys are definitely at fault. She shamelessly displayed all her red flags and they still impregnated her. If your dad did something similar, yes I think he's an idiot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:45 PM
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I don't necessarily agree with all of the OP, but I will say that the guys who decided to impregnate my drug addicted prostitute cousin and had to raise the children on their own are idiots. Too many men do stuff like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:23 PM
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She chose to have a baby with that guy tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:16 PM
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There are cases where the woman was blindsided but a lot times the woman should have known better. I know way too many chronically under/unemployed losers with several baby mommas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:59 PM
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Wow so it is just looks then since guys are assumed to have the same shitty morals. Pretty blackpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:03 PM
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Again there is no "hive". It's the women who should stop sleeping with the problem men. They are getting exactly what they want while being toxic assholes, so they have zero incentive to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:21 AM
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👏🏻 Take 👏🏻responsibility 👏🏻for 👏🏻your 👏🏻own 👏🏻gender. This makes absolutely no sense. Men aren't a hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:21 PM
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I also think it’s important to note that since physical fitness is a job requirement, young men in the military often look better than the average man Looks also have a steady job with the possibility of advancement which makes them a more attractive partner. Money or women who have a uniform fetish Status Personality is a freaking meme.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 10:30 PM
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Yeah the guys I was in the Army with were misogynistic and still got laid.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 02:19 PM
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Just like the word incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:40 PM
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Men are still treated like the problem even when stuff is done to them. But I really don't have an issue with that because if things are constantly being done to you are most likely part of the problem because you aren't doing enough to stop it. What I do have an issue with is women's tendency to protray themselves as helpless, hapless victims when it comes to men. I've seen so many women, including my own mom, just give up in the face of abuse due to this pervasive mindset. If you are aren't do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:04 PM
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Make sure you apply this same logic to women who are harrassed and manipulated. I'm sure it will go over well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:14 PM
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If you wanna go that route there are people who eat literal shit. Anyway, I meant in a general sense that people will do things that are harmful as long as they can rationalize some kind of benefit. Their rationalization may not make sense to you, which is why you see it as eating complete shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:09 AM
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People do not usually voluntarily choose to eat shit, That's completely untrue, why do you think so many people are obese these days. Or use harmful stuff like cigarettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:15 PM
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Cuz maybe those men don't want to be abusive to women? For example, my own brother who can get women easily told me to treat them like shit, but I would rather be alone than do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:11 PM
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Nope they have automated machines for it now.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 03:00 AM
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Ok cool men's fault. Still doesn't conflict with his statement. Do you think that it being "men's fault" changes anything?
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 03:00 AM
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Its extremely common in military circles, since we end up traveling overseas for work pretty often. Its so common that the military legal and security guys gave us a briefing on it during in-processing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:14 AM
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Sure, a lot of the contractors I know own property in foreign spots and plan on retiring there.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:49 PM
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It's easy if you travel for work. A lot of the passport bros are I know are active military or contractors. I'm doing international contracting right now.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:46 PM
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You kinda got it wrong. The beta part is coming in after she had fun in her prime years, so to speak. Providing for girl a who hasn't been used up is exactly what conservative passport bros are looking for.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:21 PM
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Most abusive men arent master manipulators. Women just put up with their bullshit for some reason.
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 05:08 AM
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Chadfish aint necessary. If you "touch grass" like they constantly suggest, you will easily see that women will overlook the most heinous shit because of looks. For example I have a nephew who has been to jail several times, is chronically unemployed, a has a well known history of physically abusing women. Still has plenty of women chasing after him because he's "cute".
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 03:32 AM
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Tinder's TOS does not allow hate speech, so its fine if they report you. Stop using Tinder and go pick up women at a Trump rallly or one of those hardcore conservative forums.
/r/AllPillDebate28/07/23 12:14 PM
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you would prolly just have to go to a foreign country to get it cheaper, at least you would have options
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 07:44 PM
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Yeah the world and people are really friggin unkind sometimes. But we don’t have to be unkind yknow? The problem here is the assumption that we are being unkind in the first place. Sounds like you are just projecting.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 02:41 PM
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Neurodivergence does not mean you aren’t expected to be responsible for your actions. Neurodivergence means you should receive some extra grace/understanding when you fuck up as a result of it, but it really isn’t an excuse for shitty behaviour. WHY do you guys always frame it like we are being the shitty ones? Most of the time I'm minding my own business and people give me shit. Am I supposed to apoligize to bullies? Or the women who filed completely false sexual harrasment charges against me (…
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 12:48 PM
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Its condescending cuz you guys list basic shit that everyone has done, or use extreme outliers to make a point. Yes, Danny Devito's exist but you know damn well that your typical short ugly guy will never have that level of success.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:40 PM
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Any good salesman would also you tell you how important appearance is. I've even known salesmen who wore lifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:34 PM
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The internet already collectively takes a dump on those men, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:45 AM
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Eh, I just got a hot FWB and I'm blackpilled and lazy af now. Women didn't give me the time of day when I was hardworking and on the grind.
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 04:07 PM
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It's not demonization of women. The vast majority of women I know IRL will readily admit they choose mostly based on looks and I don't give a shit. They can have their preferences. What I have an issue with are the people who tie personality to morality when it come to dating. People with bad personalities for dating aren't necessarily bad from a moral standpoint, but a lot of people here and elsewhere online have a hard time believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:10 PM
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So did you find that guy attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 11:43 AM
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THere are plenty of commenters here saying men should not cold approach at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:46 AM
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The OP was referrering to their fanbase, not just some random dude you found. If you actually talked to online sexworkers you would know that most of the guys they interact with are just huge simps.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 06:14 PM
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I do, dont spend a ton of money on it though. Think its fun.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 01:25 PM
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What are you talking about? The vast majority of those dudes are fairly polite.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 01:20 PM
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The baggage comes from having a high n-count, not just from losing your virginity early. As long as you don't have a full blown hoe phase its fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:06 AM
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They aren't ignoring it, its just outside the scope of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:02 AM
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You are basing your understanding of gold digging off a dumb ass show. If you actually did some research you will see that your view is very limited. I have personally been propositioned by a sugar baby for 2k a month and a place to stay. It's all relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:43 PM
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Military
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:40 PM
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I got bullied more in my workplace than in school, it never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:51 AM
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Most people typically have more mobility than a nursing home patient, so proximity doesnt matter as much. Anecdotaly, I've seen that women still tend to go for the most physically attractive guys even in a low mobility situation, like the Army deployments and exercises I've been on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:40 AM
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That's easy to explain, proximity. It's not like a nursing home patient can go and hit the club regularly. My mom works in a nursing home; the guys are still handsy with and try to proposition the younger female workers, and she said the female patients still catcall younger guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:42 PM
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Nothing. She shouldn't have sex with guys she doesn't want to have sex with.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 03:06 AM
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Bravo, honestly one of the best descriptions of Blackpill that I've seen in a while.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 03:01 AM
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I know plenty of guys who committed SA, including my brother and dad. They still got women though, despite me and other people warning them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:56 AM
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Nope, didn't learn them in kindergarten. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:24 AM
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Nope the military is not bluepilled. Its full of misogynistic assholes who got laid all the time. It made me realize that I'm just a mediocre dude. Not a raging, misogynisitic, potential active shooter. Just mediocre. And I'm fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:11 AM
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You were forced to exercise and go outdoors. Had several social events you had to go, along with others that were greatly suggested. Got inspected on hygeine and grooming (something that everyone says we don't do). Got classes on public speaking. Helped in other areas, but not with attracting women. I actually got blackpilled more since I saw firsthand that all the baseline bluepill advice is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:38 AM
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Sounds suspiciously like the Army. Didn't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:39 PM
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In my opinion i feel like the blue pill is better for addressing anxiety and depression (many men with aspergers are prone to it). Pushing that the hardships that you go through is a result of you secretly being a misogynist/pedophile/rapist/serial killer/hamburglar/racist and that you need more self improvement does not help with depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:30 PM
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What you mean? I was born this way. My first word was foid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:25 PM
1

Virgin men were treated like shit before "incels" even existed. "Good incels" don't usally hang out on the extremist forums and aren't in a positions to do any modding. And even if they did, no one would care. They would just find more extremists to cherrypick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:02 PM
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Jeez, theres also news, crimes stats on domestic abuse, and other personal experiences to show that having sex doesn't mean you are good person. Women often imagine struggling men as monsters in order to validate their shallowness. That's the true source of resentment. I'm an ugly, boring, autist; I'm not a freaking criminal.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 02:32 AM
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The women themselves go on and on about the fucked stuff that their partners do to them. No need to imagine.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:16 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/13ts591/what_is_the_benefit_of_dating_unlucky_nice_guys/ This post you made is a good example.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:12 PM
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You prolly get those comments because of the sweeping generalizations you make about men.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:20 PM
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So can you link an actual example of this happening, rather than the hyperbole in your post?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:33 PM
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Never been in a romantic relationship but the few women I'm friends with say I'm pretty nice. I actually got reprimanded when I was a Army squad leader because I was too nice to my subordinates (which included women), even though the squad performance was great. Take that as you will.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:20 AM
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Just break up. I don't know why women coddle dudes like this when they have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:42 AM
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Oh please, I can't even talk about my own lived experiences here cuz it will be brand as inc3l content.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:15 PM
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there is a very lucrative market for it. You think the boy band and the chads they put in movies and shows are to appeal to men? Have you seen how hard women simp for the leads of Supernatural, or other good looking celeb men? Shows like the Bachelor fall under that umbrella too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:28 PM
1

That doesn't prove anything. Women can easily get attention from men for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:35 PM
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The women themselves in the thread said there was a huge decline. It was Q4W thread. Also, I'm defining "interest" as interest from men that they actually want (ie men with options).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:25 PM
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The wall itself is more revenge porn than reality Not really. I recently made post here about "invisible women" and the women here noted the sharp decline interest as they got older. That's all the wall is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:07 PM
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Certain women get salty in there and report a lot.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 07:26 PM
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I never doubted their existence, I wanted to know who and where they are, as stated in the title of my post. Imagine if you asked a supermarket attendent "Hey, I didnt see X product when I looked around. Do you guys have it and can you tell me where to find it" and their reply is "It exists." Your answer is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:21 PM
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That's why its a question for women. You also prolly missed where I mentioned that even the legitimately awful in every way women I have met still have no issues getting attention or partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:56 PM
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Sure, doing extreme things for short while won't kill you, but she said her diet needs to be 1k with hours of exercise to maintain below a size 16. Thats a cutting diet, not one you can maintain without being malnourished.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:44 PM
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I've seen the "signals" that women put out...to other dudes. I've never gotten them. If interested women are out there blinking love messages in Morse code sure I prolly missed it, guess I gotta up my game.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:12 PM
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Most homeless women I've know have slept in cars, often with their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:07 PM
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I still like to point out the lies because its the type of stuff that led to my friend starving herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:58 PM
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Thats also a lie. 1000 calories with HOURS of exercise would lead to certain death for an adult. The anoxeric girl I talk to ate 600 cals with no activity and was passing out from malnutrion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:45 PM
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A bit of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:35 PM
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So the guy has to be a freaking mindreader?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:03 PM
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No, but the older and homeless women I knew still had men going for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:54 PM
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All of my female classmates, coworkers, and acquaintances either had partners or not many issues attracting people. Sure, there were some girls who got a lot less attention but not zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:31 PM
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All of my female classmates, coworkers, and acquaintances either had partners or not many issues attracting people. Sure, there were some girls who got a lot less attention but not zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:29 PM
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Holy shit leave this sub and never come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:13 AM
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So while I think your point is somewhat truthful, it’s a very far stretch from reality that you paint all women have. I never tried to paint any reality. I already knew that my evidence was anecdotal. Theoretically these women exist, so why haven't I encountered them IRL. That's all I wanted to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:04 AM
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No where in my post did I claim that they don't exist, I have just never seen IRL. I wanted personal perspectives from women who have seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:21 AM
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No where in my post did I claim that they don't exist, I have just never seen IRL. I wanted personal perspectives from women who have seen it. Now can you stop flipping out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:18 AM
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In this context, I'm counting pure sexual attention as valid. Some say they don't even get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:10 AM
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Nah, my mom's friend group of older women were absolutely slaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:50 AM
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Yes, they claim that there are women who get no attention. That's why I found it odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:43 AM
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Yeah, but an unattractive woman who put herself out there will get way more attention than an unattractive. What I'm looking for is women who put themselves out and still get little to no attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:34 AM
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Yeah I guess I should have put single women in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:27 AM
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No way of know what exactly? I'm personally a guy who gets close to zero attention and I have observed guys over several years who are pretty much the same way. Have never seen any woman IRL with this issue. Not denying their existence, I just have never seen it. That why I posed the question to women since they may have a different perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:12 AM
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Yeah, I've seen that. But I have also seen men who get no attention, IRL. Have never seen that with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:59 AM
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But the bottom percentage of women still get likes. They are not "invisible". Meanwhile the guys on the bottom get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:12 AM
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Girls with the extreme plastic bimbo look, like Nicki Minaj.
/r/AllPillDebate20/05/23 09:05 AM
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Shes fat, but not that fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:22 PM
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(Just going to include that yes there were a couple of men that I did not find physically attractive. We all have our preferences, right?) I most likely fall into this category so all the kindness in the world is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:24 PM
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It prolly refers to the amount of women willing to have sex or sexualize themselves for money or favors.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 02:14 PM
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ok, but the decline of hookup culture is not due to a tiny minority of sexless dudes
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 01:40 PM
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You are doing exactly what I was talking about in my last point. Stuff that other dudes are saying is being attributed to incels. So it really doesn't matter what we say or don't say, gonna get blamed for it anyway. If a woman is having a ton of breakups, its usually a sign that something is off with her anyway. putting this much importance in virginity combined with weird american culture makes them chad only sure, those high n-count women are just clamoring for an inexperienced, ugly dude as l…
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 01:28 PM
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Uhm, throwing away women when they get older is not incel talk. You are prolly thinking of the wall, which is that older women have less options for dating. Good, I despise hook up culture. Pretty much everything on reddit pales in comparison to the shit I've seen women do and say IRL. I just laugh at the stuff on here. Another thing I didn't mention is that the word "incel" has lost all meaning. The internet has turned it into a catch all for pretty much all the bad shit that guys say and do. A…
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 12:08 PM
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The age gap stuff has nothing to do with incel space talk, its just weird women clamoring for another way to be a vitcim. Even smaller age gaps are being called out now. Ncount: Again, not incel space shit, thats just American culture. Even some of the schools were teaching abstinence until marriage. bitter stuff: yeah whatever, deal with it So what tho. If we act like "good boys" things arent going to get better. Women are still going to date who they are attracted to, which is not us.
/r/AllPillDebate18/05/23 09:46 AM
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Oh geez here comes the queen of non sequiturs. No one was talking about "dumb ratchet bitches". In fact, I was thinking of my own mom, who had a high standard for income and being a hard worker, but not much else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:28 PM
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Yes cuz single mothers still have high standards, just for the wrong attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:30 PM
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It's not just social skills, women make it very easy for guys who are atttractive. My mid functioning autistic 15 yo nephew has gotten more sexual attention from women during a single Walmart trip than I have my entire life. He walks around hunched over playing Roblox and other games all day but he just happens to be 6'5 with a very good frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:19 AM
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Nah its still bad advice and even you are off base. You can be jacked without have giant veiny muscles. The look you are talking about comes from being jacked + extremely low bodyfat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:35 AM
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Those girls can do some of that SELF improvement that guys are constantly told to do on here and lose the weight on their own. Or they can date a guy who is into fat chicks, theres tons of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:37 AM
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Not arrested, but I've been accused of sexual harrassment by female coworkers in the military. The charges were dropped in both cases, but I was flagged during the investigations and couldn't get promoted or go classes. Oh, and I didnt approach the women at all. They fabricated stories about me stalking and fondling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:50 PM
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You are crossing the line of manliness straight into idiocy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:11 AM
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Not really complicated. The easiest way is to structure it based on your lived experiences. If your only experience is 2nd hand sure it will be hard to understand.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:53 AM
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That has nothing to do with genetics. Superficial glowups are already factored in. A nice haircut and muscles won't make someone taller or cure autism.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:49 AM
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Looks > all other traits. Pretty much the opposite of the personality meme crap. Everything else is up for debate.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 11:40 AM
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Well I guess he will have to fake it then. The alternative is finding a unicorn who is attracted to less confident guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:34 PM
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Honestly this reads like an advert for Redpill/PUA. If he had never dropped frame he prolly would have been fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:11 PM
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Its not 90% of people though, just people who are uncertain about their looks enough to ask for a rating. People on the extremely high and low ends of the scale pretty much know where they stand. For example, I would never ask for a rating there cuz I know I'm ugly af.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:59 AM
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Yeah, I find it funny when people criticize the sub saying that most posters get around a 5. Most people are average, who would have thunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:41 PM
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/r/truerateme The scale there actually goes from 2 to 9 since they claim that 1 and 10 are not attainable. Tries to do objective FACE ratings rather than feel good bs that other subs do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:29 AM
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At least you know the person who matches with you is likely actually interested in you and has read your profile. Men mass swipe indiscriminately and then go back and see if they care about their matches, rather than filtering from the jump. Not even remotely true, the majority of matches I got were bots, women trying to get me to follow their social media, or porn sellers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:48 AM
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Oh, I'm not saying it doesn't happen regularly, just there's a lot of pushback against that sort of thing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:30 PM
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The pushback on drunk hookups happens a lot in college and certain work environments. For example, when I was in the Army we were constantly told that drunk people can't consent. You prolly don't see it because you are older.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:49 AM
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Abusive basically
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:05 PM
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As long as shitty men keep getting laid, complaints from other dudes will be meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:43 PM
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Growing up with a chad older brother and seeing the nonsense he got away with.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 12:07 PM
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As an ugly guy, I think women should go for whoever they attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:36 AM
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It's negging to make sluts feel low value for some. Other guys geniunely think its disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:52 PM
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I mostly browse reddit at work, so I'm making money while I'm doing it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:01 PM
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Oooor you could just do stuff you like instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:40 AM
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As a guy who was a souless worker drone for 30 years, I advocate the opposite. Spend less grinding and self improvement, go chase girls and have fun. Strong, capable people don't bother with these frivolous things. They can't afford to. The jobs they do aren't easy and require you to be constantly at the top of your game. If you mess up, people die. Capable people focus their energy on constantly learning new things and trying to become a better person. They can channel their energy into somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:17 AM
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he didnt really think of women as people. he actually got better for like 2 years when he first joined the military. Then his wife screwed him over when he was deployed (cheating, selling personal stuff he had in storage, etc) he became a complete monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:19 AM
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Its not just "Nice Guys" doing that. My chad older brother took pleasure in bullying women. He was very open about it, no Jekyll and Hyde.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:31 AM
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I can't really answer your question, but just feel comfort in the fact that those bullies will never get laid because of their terrible personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:04 AM
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Thats not what people are referring to when they say female privilege. One good example is women getting lighter sentences for the same crimes.
/r/AllPillDebate25/03/23 07:28 PM
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No, the implication is that guys just pretended she was funny because she was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:27 PM
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I like twitch streamers. I mostly watch gaming content, been on a Dragon Age binge this past month.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:41 PM
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Yeah, I always try to help small streamers. Also it's interesting to see the strategies they use to draw in viewers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:34 PM
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Its amusing to see hot women with zero personality fail on Twitch cuz they have to compete with all the other Stacies. One I was chatting with said she was depressed cuz guys IRL always said she was funny. Nope, you just have big tits. Gotta realize it at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:43 PM
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None of the pills are inherently political. People take the information from the pills and come up with their opinions based on it. A far right guy might advocate for controlling women, whereas a far left guy might just want AI girlfriends instead. ****Edit: I'm a moderate left blackpilled guy btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:45 PM
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how being an ethnic is a disadvantage bringing up east asian/indian men's undesirability So you already answered your own question.
/r/AllPillDebate23/03/23 11:10 AM
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Really? Do you filter popular somehow or use a locale other than United States? Tbh I really don't care about the TwoX posts other than the one a while ago that blamed an unsolved murder case on a "katana wielding incel" with absolutely no evidence. I thought it was a satire post but was flabbghasted when they were serious about that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:16 PM
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You don't really have to go searching for it. TwoX (and the kooky cousin Witches vs Patriachy) posts appear high up on popular all the time and I think its a default sub or at least used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:43 PM
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Funny think about blackpill is that quite a few really good looking people or folks with significant glow ups follow it as well. They just aren't doomers for the most part cuz they can still get laid easily.
/r/AllPillDebate22/03/23 07:52 AM
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Well I would expect to not be shamed for being a virgin but thats never gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:38 AM
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As a virgin guy who also has no problem with porn stars, let guys have their preferences. I think judging people on their body count and line of work is perfectly fine since its their behavior rather than something genetic like height.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:26 AM
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Women can't "muh self improve" to the point where she'll be able to deadlift as much as a man How does the amount you can deadlift help with anything other than winning powerlifting competitions? Anyway, you don't need to lift super heavy for hypertrophy, which is what people do to look good. or not have to deal with a period or whatever. Plenty of medications and procedures to stop or reduce the severity of periods. Lose enough weight and periods will stop as well. Anyway, most of this stuff yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:07 AM
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31 yo, single, never struggled with dating cuz I've never been on one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:10 AM
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You really love your canned responses. If you looked thru my post history, I always say I'm an incel because I'm autistic, boring, and ugly. I blame women for going after known abusers and assholes like my older brother.
/r/AllPillDebate19/03/23 06:51 AM
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Damn man I should do caveman grunts at women and tell them to go away like my nephew does. You are totallly right. Thanks for the advice.
/r/AllPillDebate19/03/23 05:38 AM
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My own 15 yo nephew, who is a mid functioning autist, gets approached by girls (and grown fucking women) a lot cuz he is 6'4 with decent looks. He straight up ignores them cuz all he wants do is play videogames but they still give him a chance and try to chat him up. "Slaying" is an exaggeration maybe, but I would at least have a decent shot if I had his looks.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 04:40 AM
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Plenty of women found Usher to be physically attractive. And he was just an all around awful person, the embodiment of dark triad. Honestly I think was carried by status. He was well known for his criminal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:28 AM
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I didnt have to hear stories, I saw it in person growing up. He basically treated women like trash.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 04:14 AM
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I don't think he is lying, just leaving out key information about his dating experience. My Chad older brother with an n-count in the hundreds is single right now as well, but only cuz he wants to be. Maybe his PHD studies left him with little time to date. Are women showing any interest at all? Who knows, he gave us little to go on.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 02:03 AM
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So what is your actual dating experience like? You only mentioned that you are single.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 01:44 AM
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I'm not a mod, but maybe you shouldn't post anything if this is the best troll post you can come up with.
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 12:33 PM
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Its completely off topic, thats the problem. There are plenty of other subs to discuss this, like the one you crossposted it from.
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 10:47 AM
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No such thing. You may be thinking of the theories that lighter skinned people are considered more attractive. The stuff you posted has nothing to do with that though. Why can't you just comment on it it where it was originally posted?
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 09:28 AM
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What does this have to do with pills?
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 08:34 AM
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Staying single is also a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:26 AM
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Unattractive women get to talk about their issues in the open. You can find plenty of threads about it in TwoXChrom and other large subs. However, when unattractive men talk about issues they get branded as incels and have to go less populated forums to have discussions. Places like here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:38 PM
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My own older brother is a "Chris Brown" so to speak. He looks like Usher, can sing, rap, do art, sports and dance pretty well. He has tons of women clamoring for him despite the fact that he is openly abusive. Even his victims either excuse his crimes or try to get back with him. Some examples of stuff he did include: beatings (one so bad that she lost teeth), egregious cheating (he would intentionally cheat in ways to be especially harmful, like with their best friend or on their birthday), ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:16 AM
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Its never going away. Plus there are tons of copycat sites already up and poised to take over if OF somehow shuts down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:28 AM
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Men would be better looking in an absolute sense but won't be more attractive to women as a whole. The higher the ceiling, the higher the bar will be raised.
/r/AllPillDebate06/03/23 07:02 PM
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A lot of women actually like men and aren't bitter FDSer's.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 12:41 PM
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Eh, Im just basing it off my build when I was 5'7 and 150lbs. I had a pretty slim runners build. I couldn't imagine being 5 inches taller at the same weight.
/r/AllPillDebate04/03/23 09:47 AM
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This is just pure politics has nothing to do with pill or dating. Why is this still up?
/r/AllPillDebate04/03/23 07:35 AM
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You should prolly bulk up a bit, 145 is a really low weight for that height.
/r/AllPillDebate04/03/23 07:29 AM
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One of my previous coworkers constantly went on about how women were stupid and didn't deserve any rights. Had no issues getting with women. I don't know what kinda bubble you living in, but here in the real world openly horrible mean get laid all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:05 AM
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Being ugly and boring, that's the only real factors in play.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:44 AM
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Guys who hate women still get laid as long as they are attractive. Most incels are hopeless orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:38 AM
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Oh please, the Republicans want that too, why do you think they are outlawing abortions and birth control.
/r/AllPillDebate02/03/23 05:13 PM
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So you are just using anecdotal evidence. Go to any porn site and you will see that the trans/femboy views and content are microscopically small compare to cis porn. Seem like the femboy craze that you are seeing is the result of how you pick your friends.
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 04:24 PM
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Yes. I guess you weren't around when people were shitposting 2 girls 1 cup. Didn't mean that everyone suddenly develped a scat fetish.
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 04:10 PM
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So you are absolutely are taking the jokes seriously.
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 02:46 PM
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You may be taking the jokes about femboys seriously.
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 02:29 PM
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As a blackpiller, I actually want women to follow through on the dating and sex strike threats. Not like it affects me. But of course the modern feminist movement has no teeth and women will continue to date toxic men as long as they are attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 01:59 PM
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Meeks looks is an outlier, but the treatment that exceptionally good looking men get isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:16 PM
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Yeah this is true going by the amount of women on reddit posting about their incompetent bf's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:14 PM
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Yes, just play the synonym game to avoid saying you only notice attractive guys. Its not even a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:30 AM
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But to claim you’re involuntarily celibate when rejecting people Rejecting who exactly? I know this might seem strange to you, but some guys get ZERO sexual attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:07 PM
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Obviously reddit is an echo chamber but when the in-your-face rhetoric is women > 30 have no sexual value, single mothers are unworthy of love or relationships, anyone with a BMI >22 is a landwhale, That stuff isn't exclusively incel points though, I hear this type of stuff from normie guys all the time. For example, at my old job most of my male coworkers (who were all in relationships, I was the only "incel"), openly talked about banging younger women on work trips cuz their wives were disgust…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:17 PM
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One of the most readily observable traits of men who hate women as a whole, as well as men who defend them no matter the circumstance, is that these guys are never successful with women. I can't think of a single counter-example. Some of the most misogynistic clowns I know are married with kids. You guys have some weird just world fanstasy where bad men don't succeed, but unfortunately they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:54 PM
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Religious, hetero, white UMC man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:28 PM
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No I don't think so. Intent will still have be determined for the false rape charges. There will have to be evidence that the person intentionally made the false charges, not just a lack of evidence for rape conviction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:24 PM
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Also since you brought it up, I really don't think incel/femcel problem needs to be addressed. Its not nearly as big of an issue as the media would have you believe. A small percentage of people are just gonna be unattractive dullards, and I dont think anything can change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:23 PM
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Full legalization of prostitution with normal employment benefits. No marriage rules, except for no underaged people. Polygamy, same-sex, waifu pillow, etc. all allowed. Small tax incentive will be given for raising children. Unrestricted abortions. Bio fathers must support child or pay child support. Attempts to weasel out of it will result in sterilization. Mothers who lie about paternity will be sterilize and prosecuted. False rape charges will carry the same sentence as the rape charge itsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:13 PM
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There's no winning here. If you self improve for yourself and it doesn't work people will tell you do to hobbies to meet women like dance classes. If you do hobbies to meet women and it doesnt work people here will claim thats the wrong way to do things. Just be attractive, thats the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:52 PM
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Stupid sub, very easy to get banned there if you don't toe the line. Very dismissive of lived experiences. I got banned there for simply talking about experiences I had with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:47 PM
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Exactly, PPD women act like all the abusive dudes in relationships are 200 IQ master manipulators, when most abusive guys I see have more obvious red flags than a Soviet military parade.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:31 AM
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Sure, but asking for what you paid for does not equate to making misogynistic comments. Exactly, they were asking for what they paid for, not making misogynistic comments. Most of her paying subs were huge simps and were polite about it. They didn't get mad until she called them entitled misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:16 PM
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How was that particular dude a sex pest though? He was across the gym and looked in her general direction a few times. Then politely offered to help her put on the weights, didnt press the issue when she said no and immediately left her area. And receiving help is pretty common in a public gym, even as a man I have had guys try to help with a spot or help me put away weights after a hard set. How tf does she even function in public if she is that paranoid about benign guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:56 PM
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She had content schedule included with her sub, but didnt follow (big one was weekly livestream being canceled every week). And unsubbing doesn't give you a refund so I don't see a problem with them demanding what they paid for. It's standard protocol that any business should expect. They shouldn't be coddled when they are blatantly scamming customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:48 PM
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She chose to be bothered by nothing. And you notice she edited out the part where he was actaully doing his exercises. Even with her editing of only his so called "creepy" moments he comes off as barely interested in her. He never actually hit on her on anything, she was just having a deranged fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:34 PM
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She is the one who advertised herself as sex worker and accepted compensation do to sex acts. No other business would be able to get away with calling customers entitled for expecting services they paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:23 PM
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Another overly commercialized holiday pushed to get those profits. Big whoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 05:13 PM
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i think BP stands for bluepill in the prompt, really need some better acronyms
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:27 PM
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Well just an anecdote but I've literally been subbed to an OF where the model went off about the how the guys with PAID subs are entitled misogynists for expecting her to post regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:50 PM
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Guys glancing in their general direction, oh the horror. The guy was prolly just waiting for the squat rack.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:43 PM
3

33 yo turbo virgin here, basically free money for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:15 AM
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She's pretty enough, but I'm betting she pulled that off mostly due to her charm. I've seen so many 10/10 women fail on streaming platforms cuz they have the personality of a rock, while average looking girls succeed cuz they can hold a convo and engage properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:02 AM
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Life doesn't work the way you described it. And the reason is because you haven't lived life. You are just assuming based on a set of beliefs that has been cast on to you from whatever you read and internalised. I'm 33 dude. Everything I say is based off my actual lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:55 AM
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As a man interested in women, we're really lucky that women aren't as visually driven as men are. You have a lot of space to play around as a man - you can work on your personality, reliability, financial competence, interest and so on Women are probably more visually driven, just to the top tiers of men. Men have a much lower threshold for looks. And being judged on more things just means theres more ways to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:17 AM
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Not even remotely true. RP ideas are really popular in black communities, even tho its not called RP. Just listen to rap music, they spout RP crap all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:36 AM
1

Ten years ago, it would have been impossible to imagine the US President brainwashing a massive cult to hang Congress. Yeah, and that cult was full of Qanon weirdos, not redpillers and blackpillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:17 AM
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Hmm it might be the difference in branches. You might be in combat arms but I was in signal (weird nerd branch). I saw a lot sketchy looking relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:13 AM
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Climate change denial Pushed by big oil. abortion bounties on women and girls Tactic used to get the religious voters. sabotaging public education Billionaires pushing for private school vouchers so they can make more money. affordable healthcare. Medical insurance lobbyists aren't going to let that happen in USA. None of those points have anything to do with redpill or blackpill. You are just grasping for straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:08 AM
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You must be really young OP. What you are seeing is just old school misogyny, "traditional" values and religious conservatism. Red pill didn't invent misogyny. Politicians have been using tactics like these for centuries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:00 AM
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I've seen plenty of older vets and contractors with really young foreign wives. A lot of soldiers try to get certain assignments for sex tourism purposes as well. And, very importantly, most of those relationships don’t tend to be predatory in nature: the ladies tend to be age appropriate in comparison to the gent in question. The amount of training and briefings we get warning against that stuff implies that it does happen regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:23 AM
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Its pretty common in US military circles since we often get stationed in developing countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:27 PM
5

Nah he is talking about hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:18 AM
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I'm not red pilled, but my older chad brother was redpilled because he saw firsthand how women acted around an attractive man. He treated them like dirt but they didn't care. He was advising me to do a lot redpill stuff (before the term was even coined on the net, early 2000's), but I didn't listen to him because he was objectively an awful dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:11 PM
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I was in great shape in the military, didn't really do much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:46 PM
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Well, I think my mid functioning nephew has a chance. He is 6'2 at 14 yo and has a good frame. Just need to get him to cut down on the sweets and hit the gym a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:52 AM
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tbh they likely sense that you had a weird, off-putting vibe and i believe that’s born directly out of the belief that you’re hated cause you’re ugly and boring Women treated me like crap when I was younger and positive. Women treated me like crap when I was younger and positive. Women treated me like crap when I was younger and positive. Women treated me like crap when I was younger and positive. Women treated me like crap when I was younger and positive. Wanted to make sure you actually read i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:57 PM
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I'm blackpill, but even when I was younger and more positive about things women still treated me like crap. You seem to think blackpill is about bitterness and hatred but its not. I actually get along better with women now. Bluepill would have you believe that women don't like you because they sense you are a rapist/misogynist/pedophile/etc., which was really damaging to my psyche and almost cause me to commit sue aside. Things got better once I realized the truth, women hate me cuz I'm ugly, au…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:42 PM
1

The only advances I turned down were from non starters. A crackhead with STD's and a suicidal 19 yo ( I was 31 at the time). Still think I count as incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:55 PM
1

Well I also instinctively cover my ugly mug in photos
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:05 PM
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The incels meetup is faked, just some random social group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:56 AM
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she would be a 9/10 on a military base.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:48 AM
2

I've never asked a girl out but I've had a few publically "reject" me for benign approaches like: asking for the homework assignment, asking where to buy a specific piece of merch she had while at an anime convention, handing out maintenance forms at work, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:59 PM
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Nope, because the vast majority of incels are just boring, defeatist, losers. This is coming from an incel. You can go on believing that we are all evil Eliott Rodger/Chris Chan clones if that makes you happy, don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:19 AM
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Is this supposed to be a joke? Incels breathe air just like Hitler too, obv they are genocidal maniacs haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:49 PM
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And incels commonly have that mindset too, and would blame your mother more than your father and brother. The cherry picked incels on fringe forums, sure. Because they’re not outliers. People commonly find those incels. Its the internet, you can easily find whatever you WANT to find. If you specifically search for the most extreme incels to satisfy your bias you can easily find it. Doesn't mean that it represents reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:30 PM
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My own non incel father raped my sister and my chad brother beat a hookup so bad that she lost teeth. There are plenty of other horrific crimes committed by non incels. I don't know why yall keep pushing those few outliers as some kind of definitive evidence that all incels are psychos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:56 PM
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Not saying its ok, I'm saying that it happens. My own dad and chad older brother were extremely abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:42 PM
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Because theyre not the socially inept types. Eh, looks like you get what I'm saying, just too obstinate to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:47 PM
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And people’s own experiences. I even gave you THREE LINKS of people talking about the incels in their lives. Oh my golly 3 links. You can find countless examples of non-incels doing messed up things too. What does that prove? People in general can be bad, incels and non incels alike. Also there are decent people and decent incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:51 PM
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My own sister has done worse things than Amber Heard. So why is it when people deep dive into the lives of incels, its never “Oh theyre normal people who act normal”? Because people don't deep dive into the average person's lives in general, only the outliers. And the vast, vast, vast majority of "abnormal" people are not incels. I would hazard to say that incels aren't any more dangerous than your average person, the media just loves to hype them up. Maybe the incels who use those weird fringe …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 07:14 PM
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I use them as examples because it’s not just us listening to them insist that theyre little victims. People know enough about their lives to analyze what the problems are, problems that the men themselves ignored. You don't see the disconnect here? For men you are using the most extreme outliers that you only read about in the news whereas for women you are using someonone you know. You can..actually talk to incels you know, if you wanted an informed opinion. You are talking to one right now. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:41 PM
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You can go find me an example of incels, whose lives we can deep dive and analyze into, that have no problems in their lives other than being ugly/short and women are just being bitches. I will be waiting for that. I doubt you can find me that, but surprise me. There are plenty of guys like that, I'm one of them. You have made the mistake of only paying attention to loudest idiots. It would be like basing your opinion of all Christians off the KKK. Most incels are just extremely unattractive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:27 PM
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33 yo male, ncount 0
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:33 PM
1

Additionally, if a man is an older virgin he is 100% a misogynistic asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:23 PM
2

I'll be happy when trashy deadbeat guys don't end up with multiple baby mommas.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 11:47 AM
1

How is "just choose better" bs? It's the only option you have. Expecting men to police themselves or collectively level up is a pipe dream. You have to rely on your own instincts and wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:25 AM
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Expecting commitment for sex is pretty much nicegirls behavior in my opinion. Its a mutual action; those guys don't owe them anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:45 PM
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There is a right answer. Have sex for the sake of having sex rather than using it to negotiate a relationship. There are no commitment guarantees whether you have it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:42 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zoyrkr/dont_expect_women_to_care_about_mens_sexual_needs/j0qwcfv/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:38 PM
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Well because sex for women is easy. It would be the same as chastising a dude for watching porn all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:57 PM
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I don't care what women do, I'm just stating facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:47 PM
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"If you are treating dates like something you reluctantly give to women rather than something you mutually enjoy, just stop going on them." I think a better example would be a guy who pays for dates and complains about it. Most people on here would tell him to just do cheap/free dates or make sure the other person pays their way. Just like the guy who is paying, the girl is having sex in order to obtain something but you aren't really entitled to anything. If the sex itself isn't the reward, don…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:42 PM
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Yeah it exist mostly for women cuz its easier for them to have a ton of sex. There are guys like that but they are much rarer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:30 PM
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That's not what I was responding to. There are plenty of women who are fine with the pump and dump situation and don't see it as dehumanizing. Since you see it as dehumanizing, don't do it. Use it as a way to filter the guys you don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:29 PM
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So you are mad that woman who sleeps around is treated like...a woman who sleeps around. The easy answer is to not do it. If they shame of being thought of as a hoe outweighs your enjoyment of sex then just stop. There are plenty of shameless girls out there who enjoy playing the field. Doesn't seem like you are one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:57 PM
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Yeah I have met people with social anxiety and the point still stands. Better looking people are given a lot more social leniency.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:09 PM
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Just stop complaining to men about the choices you have made. If you get all your meals from McDonalds expect to get fat. If you get all your dates from McFuccboi's expect to get pumped and dumped. Ok on to the statement. If you are treating sex like something that you reluctantly give to men rather than something you mutually enjoy, just stop having it and get some toys or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:05 PM
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Looks are much easier to showcase than personality, also people with better looks are perceived to have better personalities. You will get much better returns from fixing your physical appearance. You should talk to people who have had significant glowups and the world of difference it made for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:50 PM
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I'm sure you already heard this in other comments, but a lot of the guys already have adequate personalities. Using myself as an example, I have had a few online women try to flirt with me until they saw what I looked like. You just get friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:41 PM
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Nothing else matters for attraction until you meet the looks threshold, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:20 PM
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Approaching is ususally recommended for women who complain about sub standard guys approaching. At some point they have to realize that they aren't attractive enough for they guys they want to voluntarily approach so they need to put in extra legwork. However, men also have some unexpected privileges in current times: - Unlimited access to porn. People want more out of relationships than just sex. And I wouldn't consider having to move to another country to date as a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:54 PM
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Black, autistic, and 5'7 here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:53 AM
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Redpill is apolitcal. Hell im Blackpill and a liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 11:30 AM
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Can't say I really care. I've never done anything like that in life and still get called a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 11:41 PM
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Untrue, a lot of men just become lying, manipulative snakes to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 09:02 PM
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I personally dislike hookup culture and casual sex. I would be more open to marrying someone who is asexual than someone with an extremely high n count. Don't want kids anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:18 AM
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Most likely not. Still indicates a disparity in values or a lack of self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:09 AM
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Milana Vayntrub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:40 AM
2

Absolutely would rather have ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:56 AM
0

Absolutely, seen it IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:58 AM
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Men are saying they want relationships, they just get ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:11 PM
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Being shallow was the least of Eliott Rodgers problems. Anyway you are making a lot of assumptions about the childhood friend. You don't if he was shallow or not, or if he actually ended up in a relationship. From my firsthand experience as a 33 yo "uncle", approaching women in a friendly manner just means you will be friends. That's it. There's no such thing as a natural progession into a romantic relationship, at least not for unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:09 PM
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Yeah, it doesnt mean that its easy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:52 PM
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Nah, she is saying that just wanting sex instead of a relationship is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:22 PM
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Exactly, an attractive guy could be shallow af and have no issues with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:10 PM
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Your entire premise is wrong. If doesn't matter if an average to below average looking is shallow or not, he is still gonna struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 07:04 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/yymyi0/i_know_speculation_isnt_helpful_but_will_anyone/ Stiff competition I know, but this has to be the worst TwoX post I've seen. Absolutely no info on the murders, but speculates an "incel with a katana" did it. As if non-incel folks don't murder each other all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:39 AM
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I'm not trying to prove that its rampant. You said guys shouldn't complain about it because they will never experience the situation. But in my case and with many other guys I've seen they have had to deal with promiscious girls often. Also I think you are missing a key element. Even if the amount high Ncount girls are low (don't think there are), they will affect a disproportionate amount of guys because they get around, so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:57 AM
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The insecurity comes from worrying about the topic that you personally have not gone through and likely will never go through overall, it doesn’t apply to you at all. I'm an incel and only 3 women have shown interest in my life. One was a high Ncount crackhead, another was a high Ncount girl who wanted open relationship because she cant get enough dick (yes she actually said that), and the last one was a tramautized, anorexic, virgin 18 yo girl that I turned down. There’s a weird thread here tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 08:59 PM
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It would be like me worried about quicksand every day all day - for what? Well you are missing a part of it. What if there were a bunch of quicksand advocates saying that you are a misogynist if you dont go swimming in it? They are responding to societal pressures, it not just a one sided convo. Women are “defensive” because were tired of hearing from insecure men who are unsure about their own sexuality. I don't like casual sex and I would prefer a woman who doesn't engage in it. That's it. Not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 07:36 PM
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Having a preference isn't shaming. It's the women who are weirdly defensive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:58 PM
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Again with the infantalizing women. Having a high N count means they made a deliberate CHOICE to have lot of partners. It can indicate a lot about their values and personality. There's absolutely nothing wrong with judging people based on decisions they have made.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:41 PM
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Yeah, he's still a whiny git. No one is immune to criticism. Imagine being the richest person in the world and complaining about taxes when your companies are heavily subsidized and benefit greatly from publicly funded infrastructure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:34 AM
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Putting dating aside, there's a lot of people I could help with that amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:25 AM
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I would go full Quasimodo for his net worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:19 AM
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Well the second is spending a lot of money too. He doesn't work full time just so he can go and visit these girls. He also pays for plane tickets and hotels. Yeah, but he is spending money on pretty much guaranteed results now. What's the point in dating "normally" if all it leads to is frustration?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:52 PM
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The only one that seems to have issues is the first guy. The other 2 are just living their lives the way they want to. Its not a redpill revenge fantasy, they just aren't wasting time and money chasing after women with bloated standards. Some guys just wanna relax with women instead of being under so much scrutiny that it feels like a panel interview. I see no reason for them to go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:27 PM
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Ok, so instead of being liars they are idiots now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:26 PM
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Yeah you are taking crazy pills because I didn't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:44 PM
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404: Page does not exist.
/r/AllPillDebate11/11/22 12:15 PM
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One of my problems with women is they push the blame for systemic issues on to individual men. Like when men say that violence rates against them are higher women dismiss it by saying its from other men. Why does gender even matter that case? An average individual guy doesn't more influence over other men than a woman has. It would be like dismissing lesbian couple violence because its woman on woman. This leads into my second grievance; women thinking that being told to "choose better" is victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:09 PM
1

Why are you even bringing up sex and stuff when I clearly said platonic relationships. I have never flirted or romantically approached anyone, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:19 PM
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Yeah man that whole platonic relationship stuff never worked out for me, except for women waaaaay older. It always turned into "give me alll your time, money, and resources or I won't talk to you".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:29 PM
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Kim Kardashian. Kylie Jenner. Etc Etc. These are the most popular women for a reason. See unedited pictures of them, or more interestingly, pictures before their list of surgeries, Bad examples, Kim and Kylie looked great before their sugeries, you are just hatin. I think a good example is a streamer named KiaraKitty, she looked straight up gonk before cosmetic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:22 AM
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I don't get what your example is supposed to prove. If the those Vatican guards started shooting do you think that a guy can just swat the bullets away with his hands like a Bollywood action hero? No, he's gonna die as well. Sure men are a good bit stronger than women, but human beings in general are pretty fragile can be taken out easily with an attack. Men are often the targets of violence and take precautions as well. As I was walking by and they were watching me, I realized it was a very goo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:12 AM
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Oh yes, being masculine, another societal expectation foisted upon men. I do what I want with no regards to how its labeled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:56 PM
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If you care about society and community that much then maybe you should address the folks excluding people from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:51 PM
4

Eh, I'm one of those "enjoy the decline" folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:47 PM
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Y’all were on your way to happy-land and then you (no, not all, but a heck of a lot): You are glossing over this point. Most men have to put in a frustrating amount of time, effort, and money to get casual sex. They were no where near happy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:53 PM
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Screw "duty to the community". Every time a guy has a complaint about something it always gets dismissed as being entitled or no one owes you anything. You are are your own and that's how its always going to be. And I'm fine with that, just don't expect me to care about any of your concerns. I fend for myself and do what I want; others should do the same. There is no community.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:19 PM
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The RP is also diverting men away from commitment and family. That’s where it becomes toxic.. especially because they are so focused on sex, they aren’t seeing that they are lying to women that aren’t toxic and just want commitment. I'm not even RP and I think this is silly. Why is it always on the men to be the "moral" ones while woman can sleep around as much as they want. Those women who want commitment should find men who want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:33 PM
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Nah, men should have standards, even if it creates more single guys. Shouldn't encourage undesirable behavior from women by continuing to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:37 AM
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Ok then, it teaches them not to make bad choices. Make sure the relationship is reciprocal, not just a one way drain of resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:34 AM
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Who cares if its not the norm. Even if it only has like a 10% chance of happening that's enough to educate yourself and prepare. Would you go to TwoXChrom and tell them not to take precautions against SA because its not the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 09:54 AM
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He didn't assign any blame. If the dad had some redpill knowledge (or black or MGTOW), he wouldn't have been stuck in that trap for so long. And its funny now that you are, correctly, saying that its the man's fault but when women choose deadbeats its the men that need to step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:17 AM
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You criticize women who choose attractive men with options over you, and lambast men who treat these women as disposable and call them brutes for pumping and dumping. I don't care if women chase tingles, they should date whoever they are attracted to. What bothers me is when they apply their bad experiences to all men and expect all men to step up and fix things. No, those are the guys you personally chose and vetted, you fix it yourself or choose better. I'm not responsible for fixing or polici…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:39 PM
2

Top men date multiple women at the same time, its not monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:06 AM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/world-60867042.amp Late reply I know, but this is the kind of stuff I was talking about. UN may be hesitant to call this trafficking because Qatar is an "ally".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 02:40 PM
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Bullcrap, the only way an autistic person will have a decent chance is masking. Unless they are 8/10+ in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:23 AM
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Social skills and confidence can be learned and improved by most people, we just need to try and some folks need extra help. I still thing you are misunderstanding the autistic experience. We do try to improve our skills but sometimes its just not enough. For example, I started off as nonverbal, basically caveman speaking, couldn't look at people, lack of proper facial expression, overstimulated very easily, etc. I improved my social skills immensely, enough to hold down a in person customer ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:22 AM
3

Yeah, you did make false statements. And resorted to childish insults when called out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:39 PM
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I don't wanna have sex with prostitutes and it costs too much money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:29 PM
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Yeah, attractive guys get approached all the time. I grew up with a Gigachad older brother. He was treated like a minor celeb, and picked up girls with pretty much zero effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 02:19 PM
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Your comment is an example of why men standing up to the mistreatment of women won't work for dating. I'm taking USA an example. Sure the feminist movement was strong, but it would have failed completely if there wasn't a large portion of men who took up the cause with them. Men who champion women's rights are just footnotes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:44 AM
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It wasn't the porn, you just weren't very attractive to him. If having sex with you is a chore, he will go the easy route.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:05 AM
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I'm sure he still got laid though. I don't know about your situation at work, but I've personally witnessed girls at work and school collectively claiming that a guy is such an asshole, while fucking him on the downlow. A lot of times they were mad because the guy pumped and dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:44 AM
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At some point you just get tired. Telling women to be accountable is like telling Michael Myers that stabbing people is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:59 AM
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No, but the main argument against it in the thread is trafficking, which I said should still be illegal in my prompt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:57 PM
3

uh, you don't, unless you pay for it
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/22 04:41 PM
1

So in your in your mind the guys that want women to stop dating abusive men are more abusive than the abusive men themselves. WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:10 AM
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It can be kinda relieving. People try to tell you that you are sexless just because you are an awful person, and the blackpill refutes that. You can be one of the nicest and caring people around but if you don't have the looks you are going to struggle immensely.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/22 04:48 AM
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Why is race or gender identity even relevant. The pills represent different "realities" for people, thats what they are referencing.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 12:19 AM
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Blackpill boiled down is that attraction is primarily based on looks, and if you don't meet someones looks requirement or threshold you are screwed. Not sure what those guys were talking about.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/22 12:01 AM
2

Tbh I don't think so. I'm an incel and I never had the desire to visit a prositute, even though I have he money and the means to do it legally. Want something thats non-transactional, but thats not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:57 PM
2

Yeah, I want to escorts to have legal rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:06 PM
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Hmm I wonder if the reporting rate increased with the amount of sex tourism happening and ramped up enforcement. Well going off that I don't think decriminalizing will necessarily result in an explosion of prostitution like some people here think. I want those who are being exploited to have better access to help, and they seem to have programs in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:35 PM
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I'm ok with it being regulated to prevent organized crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:17 PM
1

No I want to know, its a CMV after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:27 PM
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The pimps should be prosecuted if they are using unethical methods to obtain or manage the workers. The johns should be if they knowingly solicit trafficked, underaged, etc. workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:00 PM
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Capitalism is acting upon sex work when its criminalized as well. They just have no legal protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:53 PM
0

Even if it was close to 100% I still think prositution itself should not be criminalized. If they were forced into it why should the government punish them on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:51 PM
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Yes, I know they are coerced and entrapped. I still want that to be illegal. My point is that criminalizing prostitution puts them in an even more vulnerable position, making them easier to control. You guys can't seem to separate prostitution from other crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:45 PM
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No the same the same arguments can't be made about slavery since that implies coercion and entrapment, which I believe should be illegal. Prostitution is just a CONSENTUAL sexual act for money. I think decriminalizing it will make it easier for rape victims to get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:25 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean. Decriminalizing just means they can't the prostitute or the john can't be prosecuted over it. Other than that they get the same rights and protections everyone else gets. It's not like I'm suggesting they get a special protected status or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:54 PM
1

Actually I would never use a prostitute, I've had opportunities to get legal ones in my travels.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:47 PM
5

The law wouldn't favor prostitutes at that point, it would just be neutral, same as people having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:19 PM
0

Yep, incel, 33 yo and nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:14 PM
1

Yeah I was prolly wrong for gendering the post since it applies to male prostitutes as well. So I guess its not misogyny, anti-freedom maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:57 PM
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Hahaahahahaha, I freaking lived in a battered women's shelter for 2 years and stayed in the New Orleans projects where crime was rampant. Let me ask you this, does criminalizing prostitution actually help any of those victims? It just pushes them to the fringes of society where they are more vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:44 PM
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Ah he washed the disciple's feet but he did defend the prostitute. Yeah its been a while since Sunday school, maybe about 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:31 PM
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Most rapes go unreported because of safety concerns or knowing nothing or next to nothing will be done So that sounds like a problem with the investigators / police and really has nothing to do with prostitution. prostitutes making reports is going to be even riskier as it's tied to their jobs and they're usually in very vulnerable groups anyway. Maybe they wouldn't be in those vulnerable positions if they weren't pushed to the fringes of society by laws and rigid moralists. Look, any other job …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:04 PM
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I'm not a feminist, I'm a blackpilled dude. I just don't see any reason to criminalize transactional sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:42 PM
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I've never used a prostitute, but I've personally been scammed quite a bit on Onlyfans and similar sites. Still want it to stay legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:30 PM
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That's not completely true. There are plenty of first hand reports from prostitutes having clients who are just lonely and want to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:28 PM
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Sorry, I realized I should not have gendered the post but I was sort of responding to a previous post on man - woman prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:21 PM
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Hmm, interesting. All the training I took in the US military said that forced labor was the highest. Even the UN report you linked said that forced labor is vastly underreported. I'm guessing the FBI and CIA have different ways of interpreting the data. Be aware that the UN may not categorize the forced labor in certain situations like Qatar and Kuwaiti foriegn nationals because of the diplomatic implications.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:18 PM
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Ok, its still not a reason to criminalize it. I'm pretty sure there are some there are some kids being ridiculed for having gay or trans parents too. Hell, I'm an atheist but that Jesus character was pretty cool for washing the prostitute's feet. If only people took that lesson to heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:09 PM
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The transactional sex guy and the casual sex guy can both wear masks. Its not much difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:57 AM
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You can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:56 AM
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Look, if a dude wants to screw up an LTR by visiting a prostitute, its on him for not having self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:51 AM
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How is it any more dangerous than casual sex? Do you want to outlaw that too? Girl and guy meet in a club, there is some sort of attraction and then the girl has sex with him for free. He could still be a dangerous predator. The woman still has to vet him properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:41 AM
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Exactly, I simply want prostitutes to have a better life and not be excluded from society. Hell, they should be able to unionize and stuff to push back at the awful pimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:36 AM
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Forced or coerced labor in general is wrong, but the act of prostitution itself should be legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:31 AM
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They are not putting themselves up for sale, just the sexual act. Equating it to something like slavery makes no sense. It's no different from someone using their body for any other job, like a massage therapist for instance. No one is actually getting hurt or wronged in a legitimate transaction, you just want to legislate based on your rigid morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:22 AM
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How is it misogynistic if they are making the decision? I'm not talking about trafficked victims here. And what would that hypothetical rehab entail? No transactional sex at all? Would having a one night stand with a guy who paid for dinner fall under that? Sounds ridiculous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:10 AM
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I got my first RedditCares report from someone here, I feel honored.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:44 AM
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I stopped wanting a relationship once I figured out I just like spoiling cute women. Don't need a girlfriend to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:06 AM
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Yeah man that's pretty much an outlier. I'm an 33 yo, short, malformed, autistic guy. I wouldn't go tell other dudes like me to "go touch grass" if I somehow lucked my way into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:44 AM
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Can't load the site. Anyway, my point is that prostitution and trafficking are 2 different things. Most people are actually trafficked to do manual labor. You can be for legal prostitution and still be against trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:01 AM
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No, the top guys who get picked might stay on and hook up with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:34 AM
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Ok, but that little stat you rattled off doesn't necessarily mean they were coerced either. People complain about their jobs all the time and think about moving up. Doesn't mean they were trafficked too. You seem to be mixing up your personal beliefs in this. Some women are fine with banging random dudes for money, I've met them. And like I said earlier, keeping it illegal only makes the coercion easier. You seem to focused on punishing the johns than helping the actual victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:42 AM
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That doesn't necessarily mean that they are being trafficked. I'm sure if you surveyed most workers they would either want a better job or want to retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:38 AM
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Nah it wasn't just a joke, he brought up specific guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:34 AM
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So now you are only thinking of the worse case scenario, which is trafficking. Did it ever occur to you a lot of women do escort services willingly? Besides, keeping prostitution illegal doesn't really stop trafficking. The threat of legal action just gives their oppressors another tool to keep them silent. Trafficking will still be illegal even if prostitution is legalized so its a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:32 PM
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Jeez you are dramatic. It's not charity, it's a paid service. Its not much different from having casual sex, except they are just paying for consent. I think its you who are treating women like a sub-class for thinking that they can't make their own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 08:47 AM
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Nope. She's not a big streamer so there's not much to do and she doesn't stream very often. Mostly just banning the few idiots who call her fat or whatever. She has helped me out with a few things so its all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:17 PM
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You are partially right. I met her during a very shit phase of my life and I was throwing all my money away because you don't need it when you are dead. Here's a comment I made about it before: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wu3you/why_dont_more_people_use_dating_agencies/il9qetg/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:56 PM
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Yeah, I know. I streamed for a bit as well. I was lot easier for me since I played old school games that I knew a lot about, but I would suck at pure Just Chatting. Very attractive women can get away without doing much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:50 PM
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She asked me to, and at the time I was unemployed. I'm technically still a mod right now but I rarely do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:47 PM
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Yeah a lot of them play video games but the girl I mod for does mostly chatting, and a bit of singing and fashion. If someone tells you that you need to do lewd stuff to be popular as a streamer don't believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:47 AM
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Uh, wait a sec she is obsessed with Disney princesses too. Do you happen to be a streamer who also likes fairies?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:22 AM
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I used to think being amazingly beautiful would mean rich men would stop you on the street and propose, but I realized the world doesn’t really work that way Oh jeez its not thaaaat easy. Try wearing something cute on Twitch, guys will throw money at you. The girl I mod for got thousands that way, and all she does is complain about how depressed she is on stream.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:15 AM
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Most women who make even a miniscule effort to put themselves out there will get noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:11 AM
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I have a good handle on a lot of women's body count without even asking. A lot of women talk about past relationships or hookups, even if its just offhand mentions. You can judge by their attitude to casual sex and their friend group. Lastly there's gossip. One notable time I remember is her own dad ratting her out by saying that she brought different guys by all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:06 AM
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I grew up seeing women of all ages share my brother. Seen it happen with other very attractive men. Not RP or BP ideology, just personal observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:04 PM
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Know a girl who lied about her age and made accounts on dating sites when she was 15. Now she hates men because they tried to groom her, even though the vast majority of guys called it off when they suspected she was too young.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:47 AM
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I understand that its negative, I just don't give a crap about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:39 AM
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Are you talking about the "never had sex", incels or just raging misogynists? Cause some of the biggest misogynists I've seen were manwhores.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:36 AM
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I have posted stuff for fun on OF before, but if I was better looking I definitely would go all in. I don't mind girls getting money on OF, I just hate the scammers. OF has opened the floodgates to a lot of people who are too lazy or unwilling to do quality adult content.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/22 08:36 AM
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This isn't just a man thing. As an autistic guy, men and women have gotten angry at me for social crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:05 PM
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Even if I though it was right, that doesn’t change the fact that women’s safety is more important than men’s feelings. But "men's feelings", particularly the aggressive ones, are the reason that you feel unsafe in the first place right? Just be careful not to provoke aggression with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:56 PM
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Something I find odd about the debates here is amount of ridiculous stuff that gets attributed to incels/blackpill for no good reason. For example, women here say that caring about n-count or wanting a virgin is an incel thing, but I've seen so many "normal" guys who want that, even Chads. It's gotten to the point where I dismiss comments that attribute a view to incels becuase its primarly used as a lazy way to discredit a view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:44 PM
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Ok I'm gonna use my own Chad brother as an example. He had girls leave him all the time but he didn't care because there were several other girls waiting on the sidelines. In fact, sometimes he would intentionally treat some girls like crap so they would initiate a breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:43 AM
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Nope, completely wrong. You are just conflating them together because of the names. Blackpill isn't a phase of redpill, its a separate thing. It has nothing to do with rage either, its just belief that immutable factors like height and being neurotypical are key in dating. Now some guys may get angry because of that, but personally once I realized how it works I just stopped caring about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:36 AM
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Well it seems like you are combining age and low n count together when they are pursued for different reasons. For age, the most common reasons I see here is looks and to a lesser extent fertility. For n-count, other than religious folks, the most common reason I see her is baggage. They just want a clean slate; no vindictive exes, kids, miscarriages, comparisons, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:59 PM
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Does it really matter what I say here? This has to be the most common topic on PPD. Men have given their reasons time and time again but it just gets dismissed and they get called predators. I'm sure it won't be any different this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:34 PM
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Ok, so your coworkers are just shitty people, nothing wrong with the statement itself. Anyway, on body count I'm actually privy to a relationship that's on the cusp of failing because of that issue. The guy is 33 yo, low n-count and the woman is 22, extremely high n-count. She thinks of sex as nothing and wants to be polyamorous and she is lying to her bf about being monagamous now. N-count can indicate a difference in values, its not all about being predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:17 PM
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I've even had friends at work or other places say things like "once I get a girlfriend man, that's it, I'm going off the radar and living the quiet life," and all it makes me think is that he's planning to move her away from her friends and family and then abuse and extort her youth and fertility. Jeez dude, you made up an evil scenario in your mind and ran with it. Maybe you are just projecting your own aspirations onto them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:59 PM
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I'm speaking from experience with this. I've been the useful idiot for many years. Pretty much led nowhere, since I'm unattractive. And that princess on the white horse thing does happen for attractive guys. My brother was a couch surfing alcoholic for years but girls were lining up to take care of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:13 AM
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No I think you misunderstood me. I'm saying that being useful doesn't make you attractive. If you aren't good looking or very charismatic along with it people just see you as an resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:42 AM
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As an unattractive guy, becoming useful and having a varied skill base just brings in peope who want to use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:02 AM
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Yeah, thats why using incels as an example of men who overrate themselves doesn't make any sense. Most of them won't shut up about how "ugly" they are due to being short, bad frame, balding, etc. A lot of them do have body dysmorphia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:59 PM
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Agreed, saw plenty of guys touching up their makeup while I was stationed in Korea. They also had ads for plastic surgery specifically for men. Its very normalized there.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/22 07:59 AM
1

I have never met a living, breathing woman IRL who was a femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:35 AM
2

Hmm, I can dm a pic if anyone is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:05 AM
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Wow just described me to a tee. I mostly stay at home and watch po--twitch streams and I do the bare minimum at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:10 PM
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We never, however, hear from people who actually gave up or quit long ago. The guys who really did go their way instead of just continuing to whinge. You hear from them all the time. People just choose to focus on the loudest incels. I'd wager most of the have given up just like me. Look for the guys who say stuff like they are going to just focus on copes or LDAR (Lie down and rot). I gave up about 4 years ago. I'm just an unattractive dude; never blamed women for that. My main problems with so…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:36 PM
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I wouldn't call wasting money on useless stuff a great influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:28 PM
1

I didnt even read OP tbh, I just saw your comment. Yeah, making enough money on OF to be your sole source of income is difficult but I still think you are overestimating the amount of work it takes to make a few hundred bucks a month. The hardest part is being shameless, something you aren't willing to do. As a guy who uses OF quite a bit, I've seen a lot of girls leave so much money on the table due to shyness and zero effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:09 AM
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I see this info getting trotted out a lot but its misleading. First off, most OF creators don't really try. Some dip their toes in and decide it not for them and some others are just lazy. Whatever the reason, a lot of OF creators don't or rarely post content and that brings down the average. Second, a lot of women accept payment thru other means so OF can't take 20% and they get their money sooner. Things like paypal and cashapp are commonly used.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:11 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOyebcrVWb4
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:33 AM
1

Women opinions do matter, just not the spoken ones. Look at what men they actually go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:54 PM
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People roasting Amy Schumer's looks has more to do with her personality. A lot of guys see her unlikeable. For example, a lot of guys were ragging on Brie Larson's looks because of some feminist stuff she said, even though she is objectively attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:44 PM
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Yeah, and they wonder why dudes get pushed to redpill and blackpill when this is "advice" they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:28 AM
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What are you talking about? This guy somehow met your standards because you are dating him. Its not the manosphere's fault that you didn't vet properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:57 AM
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Oh the problems will just magically fix themselves strategy, very bold. This is more like the incel speedrun strat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:51 PM
1

No, I meant the actively abusive comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 07:28 PM
4

please tell me you are joking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:16 AM
2

Republican Hates video games Social media overuse, especially Tiktok Into any of the alternative/homoepathic medicine bs moderate to heavy drug user religious zealot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:28 AM
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Well, what I want to say is that your type of advice is how men end up in the RP/PUA crap in the first place. Taking a passive approach to dating just doesn't work for a lot of guys. Sure, you don't get "rejected", but you also don't get in a relationship either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:18 PM
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Why make the distinction though? The push to just talk to women like normal people just doesn't work for some guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:33 PM
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That's basically what I do as a blackpiller though. I realized that women only want certain types of guys early on so I have never asked a woman out. Plenty of women have "rejected" me though cuz they assume that every guy that talks to them wants to smash.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:01 PM
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I think tests would work if women did them correctly. I knew this girl who intentionally stayed out very late and was disappointed when her bf didn't blow up her phone. Just a single text asking if she was ok. She took it as him not being passionate about her, but I think its a sign of trust. This goes back to what a lot of people say here, some women have a skewed idea of what a healthy relationship looks like in the first place so until they fix that its never going to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:38 AM
1

Yeah, but its about mitigating risk. Being "boring" is just one part of it. Plenty of other good additional guidelines are laid out in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:25 PM
1

I remember when TwoXchrom was celebrating the Will Smith slap. Such a sad sight to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:24 PM
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Yes, I think you get it. What I'm referring to, and what I think the most of the other guys are as well, are women who go after archetypes rather than person. For example, growing up as a black guy there were so many women who just wanted a thug and not "lame" guys. Also had another friend who dating this guy specifically cuz he had a alt rock album. Took her a few months to realize that they were completely imcompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:26 AM
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In this context, boring means stable. Not too flashy, decent job, no ideological or behavioral extremes. They can still be physically attractive and have a decent personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:02 AM
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I bet so many of y'all are going to realize that you have to use some sort of tests too. You know those shit tests you make fun of women for using? And you're gonna realize that you have to be less open and carefree as well, and more guarded. No, the shit tests and vigilance would be fine if all of it didn't fly out the window for good looking guys. Anyway, like other folks said I would look for a boring drama free guy. Would use direct communication rather than the indirect hint crap that a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:36 AM
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How is any of that advice given villianous? It's literally the same crap said by the women here, being nice is a baseline and doesn't create attraction. There is also a whole a sub devoted to making fun of guys who try to attract women by being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:13 PM
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Not really, at the very least he will save money and time even if he isn't successful at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:19 PM
4

This has to be a troll right? Everyone after Amy Schumer in your average list is ridiculously hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:54 PM
2

I'm a guy. Huge Jackedman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:47 PM
9

Highly attractive: Milana Vayntrub, Hugh Jackman Average: Mindy Kaling, Adam Sandler
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:28 AM
2

You don't have to be rich to be exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:23 PM
7

It's funny you used the car analogy, I have a story for that. After I rolled into a 6 figure contracting job post military, I visited the McDonald's I worked at in highschool. One of the women who had been working there 10+ years with no with no promotion suddenly wanted to catch up, even though we barely exchanged words when I was working there in high school. I filled her in on what I was doing, and she seemed into the conversation until I mentioned I had bought a new Kia Forte. She just kinda…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:34 PM
6

Well a lot of women think being a 33 yo virgin is a problem, so yeah its a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:20 AM
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I'm a virgin and I feel like there will be a huge experience gap. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:41 PM
2

Why are you assuming that is a incel/neckbeard shouting this? Top rappers have been saying "can't turn a ho into a housewife" or something similar for decades. It's a pretty common stance for men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:57 AM
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Or maybe they just think sexwork is immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:45 AM
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Yeah, having preferences is ok and open communication is good. I really don't see the point of this post. I've known guys who would get with strippers and camgirls then bitch at them about it. Why go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:29 AM
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I personally have nothing against decent OF girls, but why is it a problem for guys to have an opinion on them? Do you think this same sentiment applies to the droves of women on here who say they won't date a guy who buys porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 07:00 AM
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No, I said that good looks is what primarily causes them to overlook bad behavior. I remember a girl talking about a first date she had with a really hot dude. He constantly talked over her, lobbed insults, flirted with other women, and constantly called her by a unflattering nickname he made up. Ofc she still had sex with him that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:25 AM
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I dont think the hotness of the women is a factor. All the legit 9/10+ women I've talked to were insecure af and had tons of toxic relationships or abusive relationships. I think age and emotional maturity is a much bigger factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:00 AM
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The men who get laid with them (most people on this sub) then come on here bragging about how they were extremely emotionally unavailable and ran “game” on some woman when she’s at max a 6 but his horny self made him think he achieved something incredible. Most of the time I see guys referring to the "average" woman so a 6 falls in line with that. Also I don't think women go for openly misogynistic men, its just they will overlook misogyny and other toxic traits if he is good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:36 AM
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I wish more people understood this. 33 yo autistic virgin here, grew up super liberal, I was really politically active and into volunteering and community service when I was younger. Now, I just really don't care. I'm not conservative by any metric, but trying to drum up motivation for any altruistic stuff is damn near impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 01:28 AM
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Yeah totallly agree with this one. I've seen so many women chase after deadbeat, raging assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:37 AM
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Emojis, short voice messages
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 11:24 AM
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Being funny makes an already attractive guy more attractive. I've amused girls over text and all interest dried up when they saw what I looked like.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 09:09 AM
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No it makes perfect sense. Social conventions that come easily or naturally to neurotypical people are skilled based tasks for a lot of autistic people. Its not just eye contact, its spacing, speaking cadence, inflection, and whole bunch of other crap thrown together. When I see people easily having a normal casual conversation it's like pure fucking magic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:44 AM
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Its literally beyond our abilities to fix in most cases. Lets use singing as an analogy. You can know exactly how a song is supposed to sound, but you just can't make yourself belt out notes like Adele cuz you want to. No matter how much you grind at it, some things are just beyond your grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 12:55 AM
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I got the worst features from both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:51 AM
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I look like a combo of Forest Whitaker and Hanibal Burress.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:20 AM
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No, its like telling a poor person to stop working at an unpaid internship for a company that will never hire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:10 AM
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Pretty much any dating app will be flooded by NT dudes looking for a easy target.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:09 AM
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I'm talking specifically about mid to high functioning autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:07 AM
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I'm not denying differences, I'm saying that I know that my behaviors are not conventionally "fine". I know what "right" looks like, I just can't emulate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:18 AM
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I find it odd that you think autistic people view the world differently in general. I know behaviors are off, but its not like I can really correct it easily. It would be like if all "normal" people walked on their hands. Sure, you could try to walk on your hands but you would likely be terrible at it, and you would get tired very quickly. More than likely you would just continue walking on your feet and deal with the hardships that come along with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:59 AM
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You do know that alcohol/porn/drug addiction is rampant in the military right? I think you have drank too much of the military propaganda kool aid. It's really not that glorious or special.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:38 AM
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Dumb fucking idea, seriously. If you have mental issues the military will just make them worse. I spent 8 years in the Army and I'm a 33 yo incel. Didn't help a single bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:29 AM
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I think this is why so many incels etc argue that women like douchebags etc. it’s an autistic analysis of their behavior, they don’t see this back and forth and playing with boundaries. I think you got this a bit wrong. Incels are often told that they are being rejected because they are terrible to women. Yet, as the OP explained, rejection happens to autistic guys without any overt action being taken. Women at work have spread stories that I'm a sexual predator based on nothing but that fact th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:16 AM
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There are a lot less women in that position so it doesnt really help. I personally have never met a woman who couldnt get a bf, no matter her looks. I'm sure they exist, but so few in number that its a drop in the bucket compared to the men in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:18 AM
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Nah I don't think this little exercise of yours works since, unlike women, most men have to approach. I really can't get mad at a guy for shooting his shot in pretty much any casual setting, as long as its not overly aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:40 PM
2

Custom stuff sometimes. So you have a full sized doll?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:26 PM
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I like try on hauls, cooking, and singing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:13 PM
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Why are you equating completely different things? You can't increase height or penis size with a healthy diet and exercise. You can lose weight that way though. Stop treating fatness like a genetic condition. And before you bring it up, the miniscule fraction of people who have weight gaining conditions are the exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:22 AM
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All just baseless conjecture. You don't really know anything about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:43 PM
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Ok, misogyny doesn't automatically equal incel. And the shooters pretty much loathed society and themselves in general, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:38 PM
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Contributing to society doesnt make you desirable. You have to be "exciting". I would get more play dealing drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:51 PM
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Incels that do mass shootings are really extremely rare, the media just loves to hype up when it happens. Most of the mass shootings are done by sex havers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:47 PM
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I love how you are tying productivity and happiness together. There so many deadbeats out there having the time of their lives contributing nothing to society but crime and single moms. Meanwhile, I have worked and paid taxes for decades, volunteer, did 8 years in the military, biggest crime was a parking ticket. On paper, I'm a productive person but it did fuck all for my well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:44 PM
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Ok why should they care about society if it labels them undesirables? Sexless guys should only do what's necessary for their survival and enjoyment. The only thing you get for working hard is more work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:11 PM
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Women only interacted with me for money/resources anyway. At least with the egirls I get something out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:00 PM
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What do you mean? Do you think its ridiculous? At 30 yo I was even willing to accept a Russian Visa girl, but it didn't pan out. I realized that chasing women was fueling my depression and I stopped. 33 yo now and I'm doing a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:18 PM
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I've already accepted that I'm not gonna have a family. Autistic and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:39 PM
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A few years ago, maybe. Now I really don't give a crap about relationships. I do my rounds with the egirls on Twitch/OF and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:33 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:30 PM
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Yeah, as in a granny who does it for her family. I didn't know there were businesses that do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:20 PM
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33 yo virgin here. Where do you see yourself in ten years?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:16 PM
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Never heard of such a thing for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:07 PM
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Going off my Twitch modding experience, guys are more than capable of developing unhinged parasocial relationships without paying a single penny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:05 PM
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Tbh I feel kinda scummy watching free porn now. I didn't think this way when I was a horny teen, but now that I've been supporting myself for years it just doesn't feel right to not compensate people for their services.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:52 PM
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honestly i wouldn’t even be with someone who follows women that don’t follow him back on social media. kind of embarrassing if you ask me You know guys can follow women social media for purposes other than dating and hooking up. I follow guys sometimes cuz they post cool stuff, why can't it be the same for women. I think you have a very narrow view on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:47 PM
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According to the comments, a lot of women are concerned about it, so its not just me being weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 04:42 PM
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But at the same time they are ok with them watching the woman's content for free. That's what I don't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:55 PM
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The sexual history post just confirms a suspicion I had. It's that a lot of women are ok with their partner watching porn but paying for it is a dealbreaker (just porn, not escorts). Seems like a pretty anti sexworker stance to me, they should be paid for the time and effort they put into making content.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:46 PM
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Yep, I've heard so many stories about ex bf's or hookups from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:39 PM
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I find it odd that you see the guys who want to fairly compsensate sex workers as worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:43 AM
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I really don't get the "woman as a commodity" thing. Do you mean sexual acts as a commodity is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:37 AM
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Look, I know from a BJ vid that got circulated that he is really fucking large, I'm not sure if 10 in but freaking huge. And plenty of women say they enjoy screwing him. Take from it what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:17 AM
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Well he found women who did. Guess its a lot easier when you have so many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:14 AM
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Im just stating what I have observed. And its a debate sub, why would you post here and complain about having your views challenged.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:11 AM
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Yeah he has mentioned discarding girls before because in his own words "they can't take dick".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:09 AM
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yeah sure, it makes a guy who is already physically attractive to a woman even more attractive, but it does almost nothing for a guy who doesnt make the physical cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:00 AM
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Well men seem to be more honest about their shallowness while more women seem to claim that looks really don't matter. And I think its for women's benefit for them to be more honest with themselves. Like with my brother, a lot of women he dated tried to say he was such a caring and nice guy when he was the exact opposite. If they were more honest and admitted they were with him for looks and 10in cock (a few were honest) they could establish better boundaries I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:42 AM
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The problem with that is that good looking guys with horrible personalities never had issues. My brother was one of them. He abandoned a girl he brought over for christmas dinner to go cheat with another one. She was ugly crying for hours, saying she would never forgive him. Ofc they were fucking the next month.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:27 AM
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Yeah they are prolly saying they want intelligent men but they are leaving out the fine print "who are good looking".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 09:21 AM
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Welll what is your definition of landwhale territory?
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 09:07 AM
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You really arent getting the point. The other countries just don't care about fighting as much. A genetically gifted burly guy in USA is gonna veer towards football or basketball cuz thats where the money and popularity is. Fighting had its heyday in USA but it died down. Every region and culture has different activities that the masculine guys veer to, regardless of the influence of the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:10 AM
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Yeah so they probably have a longstanding culture of wrestling and combat sports. You could literally do the same thing with just about any country. Why is Canada so good at hockey? IS IT BECAUSE OF THE PATRIARCHY?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:50 AM
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I mean there's Africans out there who still chase down wild animals, that seems pretty hardcore to me. But they are more associated with running rather than fighting. I still think it comes to down to culture and opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:35 AM
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Sport fighting is just more popular in those countries. For example more kids in USA are pushed to play football, another really physical sport and they dominate. Its just cultural differences. Certain countries just gravitate to certain sports, I don't think patriarchy has that much to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:14 AM
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But why is their inability to approach described as "bitching and whining". People have all kinds of legit mental hangups, like phobias, social anxienty and shit. But when guys try to be emotionally vunerable you resort to insults. Hell, just saying go get therapy would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:00 AM
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How people perceive your personality is still tied to looks and status though. And a lot of it is groupthink. I'm actually on friendly terms with a few women in private, but in public they act like they don't know me cuz I'm not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:46 PM
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Honestly I understand when guys get mad at the meme advice that gets thrown around like basic hygiene, haircut, and "lower your standards". Or the ubiquitous " I know a 5'4 balding autisitic guy who has no problems". Even if it is true, you know that is a very rare edge case and not at all representative of the vast majority of guys like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:16 PM
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Why are you assuming that the guys are putting in minimal effort? You can put in as much effort as you can muster and still fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:00 PM
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Nah the personality trope gets pushed on pretty much every unsuccessful guy, at least initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 10:58 PM
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For single women, most of the time its by choice. They just play the hookup game whenever they feel like it. For a lot of single men its not by choice, its because they are lower value than their peers. Being isolated leads to more risky and self destructive behaviors. The suicide rate is already much higher for males and it skews towards unmarried men, to give one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:03 PM
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I wouldn't want a career focused woman because I'm not career focused. I make decent money but I don't give a crap about career progression. In fact, I intentionally underperform so I don't get recommended for positions I don't want. I wouldn't mind if she made more than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:21 PM
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"No incl content"
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 01:07 PM
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From wikipedia: Parasocial interaction (PSI) refers to a kind of psychological relationship experienced by an audience in their mediated encounters with performers in the mass media, particularly on television and on online platforms.[1][2][3][4] Viewers or listeners come to consider media personalities as friends, despite having no or limited interactions with them. PSI is described as an illusionary experience, such that media audiences interact with personas (e.g., talk show hosts, celebritie…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:28 PM
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They get it from their parents, who like you assume Twitch is just a gaming site, because thats how they try to present it. You can also get a bit free currency just by watching ads. I've been offered NSFW links and discords without donating though. There are free OFs and other teaser content they use to draw you into the paid stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:25 PM
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Parasocial relationships isnt really pill language, its been going on since famous people existed really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:02 PM
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All of those things are happening though. Have you been on Twitch lately? A lot of the women are doing blatant sexual content and giving out links to their "exclusive content". One streamer I know has a twitch sub wheel where one of the prizes is a free sub to her OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:59 PM
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I dont care about hobbies as long as they are real. I've seen a lot of women fake hobbies to be in close proximity with certain men. One of the Dungeons and Dragons groups had 2 girls like that and it really derailed things.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 07:57 AM
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That's exactly whats happening. Looks aside, a charismatic Nazi would get more play than a nice autisitic guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:37 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/Damnthatsinteresting/comments/wmc91x/marriage_advice_for_young_ladies_from_a/ What do you guys think of this old timey advice for women? To me it seems like women go for the men in rule #2 these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:50 PM
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check out @kayracreets, she posts a lot of content thats not paywalled also @sabrinanichole, shes a former playboy model, lots of good pics and vid previews for free
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:29 PM
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Tbh I think its damn near impossible. As an autistic guy, the "looks don't matter" mantra would mean things are even harder for me. I'm not sure why people push it as an anti-blackpill message. If if comes down to it I could get plastic surgery, wear heightening shoes, etc. Can't get a brain transplant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:49 PM
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My general idea of the blackpill is that, barring extraordinary circumstances, nothing else matters unless you meet the looks threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:39 PM
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Nonsense. I actually sorta believed that until I talked to more women. Sure women are attracted to things besides looks but saying it doesn't matter is bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:57 PM
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Kinda true but you still gotta meet the looks threshold to even have a convo. And more evidence that autisitic dudes are completely screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:29 AM
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There are some decent free OF's out there, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:17 AM
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I think my last comment on incelexit was saying that a guy who had girlfriends in highschool is not an incel. Some there guy made a post saying that he had trouble with his highschool relationships because of his toxic mindset and detailed how he overcame that mindset during colllege. The incelexit mods were all like "see inkwells, you can drop the toxic attitude and things will get better". I on the other hand noted that the guy is not even an incel on the account of him having several girlfrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:53 AM
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Nah they would prolly get banned there. I got permabanned from there and incelexit and I'm not even sure why. I don't say anything extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:33 AM
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Value of college is going down because so many people are getting degrees now, thats it.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 05:58 AM
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Trying de escalate a fight between female soldiers. One of the girls, an NCO, turned on me and I had to physically restrain her. She twisted it as inappropriate touching and it became a mess. It was a fucking stupid accusation but Army regs meant it had to have a full investigation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:58 PM
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Nope accusations can still screw up things. I got accused of sexual harrassment in the military and when you are under investigation no favorable actions can happen to you. That means no awards, classes, special assignments, etc. Eventually they saw that the claim was completely unfounded but missed the opportunity to get a special assignment to Djibouti, something I was practically a shoe in for before the investigation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:15 AM
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Funny you mention it being dangerous to leave. My dad chased after us when my mom was leaving, shooting at the car with a magnum. It wouldn't have been out of place in a major action film. The only reason he stopped is we were heading to a state crossing with a ton of police on duty. The best thing is to exit abusive relationships as soon as possible. The are plenty of non profits who help with that sort of thing. They got my mom a house and a job after she left.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:32 PM
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It's not victim blaming, its just taking proper precaution. This post reads more like admitting defeat. There are ways you can spot abusers. They aren't all 200iq manipulative puppetmasters, you just gotta know what to look for. There is no right time for a woman to leave, its either too soon and you should just give him a chance or too late and you should’ve picked better. Leave immediatlely, there you go. Why are we blaming women for unknowingly being exposed to abusers and rapists and not sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:45 AM
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No freaking way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:46 PM
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I feel like this is going to be removed for low effort posting. Try writing it up normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:16 AM
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Yes I use OF (and other sites) quite often, posted pics of myself and helped other women manage their OF accounts. It really doesnt take a lot of effort or exposure to make a few hundred. One of the girls I knew legit cleaned her house in booty shorts and made a good bit of change that way. Another one streamed her daily yoga routine; guys tipped to pick the outfit. They didn't make enough to live off for sure, but a few hundred a month for damn near zero additional effort is pretty good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:24 PM
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Most girls just use the expensive cell phone that they already have as a cam. Really no investment required.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:36 AM
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Fully support the assisted suicide option. So many low value men are called entitled for wanting anything out of life. So let them end it painlessly. A lot of the violent ones are committing suicide by cop anyway, I bet a lot of them would take the painless option if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:40 AM
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Just the sheer amount of weirdos and groomers some women have to deal with. And as for the solution, women need to get more aggressive. Stop excusing or letting abusive behaviors slide. Being passive only emboldens those dudes. Now before you yell "victim blaming", I was in an abusive household, had to stay in a women's shelter for a good while and listened to their stories. The counselors there pretty much said the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:54 AM
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I really don't get this comment. Its not like ugly guys get a support check in the mail. There are better support systems for struggling women. Struggling guys get dropped off a cliff metaphorically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:39 AM
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Wait you can't say that, it's obviously because I was misogynistic and refused to self improve. /s Anyway, for a lot of unattractive guys that's the basic reaction non-neutral reaction they get from women. No wonder they develop viewpoints like OP's.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:23 AM
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Its not simply a hindrance for men though. Being ugly as woman is just being ugly. You are unattractive, thats it. But for some reason being unattractive as a man gets coupled with a bunch of other negative bs, like being a sexual predator and stuff. And it only can be overcome with a substantial amount of social proof. For example, when I was stationed overseas in the military, I ran a successful Children's Miracle Network fundraising drive that was featured on the base facebook page. A female …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:05 AM
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Good write up man. I'm 33 yo and my 10 yo nephew has more dating experience than I do. The notion that I could manipulate a younger woman with my experience is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:10 AM
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That opinion is from people who really don't understand what its like to get nearly zero positive attention from opposite sex. As an representative ugly, pretty much all the positive attention I have gotten is from much older women or 8/10+ women. Less attractive women my age seem to be a lot colder for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:14 AM
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Guys are saying that. It's women here who keep saying that they know a short, bald dude with a good personality who gets laid left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:09 AM
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I haven't look at her in a while but it looks like she got a boob job recently. She was super popular before she had it though. https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/Gf04hPfE14edVGnOh-09HI7CiSfz3lhsgBuUK9O-NOPrBpQJtCIqkuX66Cywu0JCUBeh_lzIlTlTSsD5oSnnBsvs=w600 Thats a pre boob job pic I believe. Anyway there are plenty of other popular petite girls. Also popular muscle girls, check out leanbeefpatty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:42 PM
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Belle Delphine, one of the most popular, is not packing much in the chest area so thats a ducking lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:25 AM
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If you mean not fat, then yeah, otherwise they are pretty different. **Edit there are a lot of popular chubby girls too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:20 AM
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Thats completely untrue, even if you are going off social media trends the most popular girls are all over the place frame wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:15 AM
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This post was made by the "guys should date fat girls" poster so thats prolly true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:12 AM
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