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CMVmummydontknow/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:42 AM
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Question For Womenmummydontknow/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:34 PM
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What's weird about it? I actually thing it's better to get the dealbreakers out of the way early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:53 PM
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The height fetishization is crazy normalized. Just the way that certain women say "he's tall" to their friends or family members to describe someone's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:36 AM
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This makes sense at first glance, especially if you are only trying to build a romantic relationship. It completely overlooks the revenge fantasy/ just being unattached. If you decide to abandon the romance and put on a lens of "my options are abusers so might as well abuse them/ use them". It becomes a different picture. And I would say it's a perk to have the ability to make use of abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 03:41 PM
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Pickmes are only pickmes for the right man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 11:44 PM
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Your sister being accompanied by your parents is because of these creepy experiences. Your parents want to protect your sister from it. Not all parents are as capable and willing to do what your parents did, especially if they don't believe in a chaperone system.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 02:18 PM
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or are only virgins in the most technical sense of the word probably contribute. Wild 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:37 PM
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You miss all the shots you never take. That's pretty much what it boils down to, in my experience, even the women that would say they were not available or whatever would get into "relationships" and do things with bolder men. When a guy realizes how attractive confidence is, some get a little carried away and become very reckless with it, arrogant even. Especially if the guy grew up with a culture that isn't very serious about extra/pre-marital affairs, it doesn't register as some serious barri…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:53 PM
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Tbf I talk with my guy friends a lot, as a man, and I don't even know if they have a middle name lol. I've got a number of female friends and I absolutely have strong feelings for at least one of them and I've entertained the idea of what being with the others would be like Yep, this is just how men think. We can't control how other men think, but at the very least which non cuck would want his wife regularly hanging out with a guy that entertained the idea of being with her? My wife aint no man…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:24 PM
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I don't buy this. I'm not calling you a liar, but I don't believe that both of your friends just happened to feel nothing for one another and then one day poof. I think that at least one had some feelings but didn't want to be "weird" about it because they genuinely did enjoy the friendship, so they did the whole friend thing while casually dropping hints here and there until one day they decided to have the talk/ confession. That's been my experience with the whole friends trope. Because I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:16 PM
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Yep this is it. The friends first approach only works as in having a bigger social circle where a woman friend would be down to introduce you to one of her friends whom you could develop something without cold approaching. That's literally it, everything else is a fail pretty much. How much self worth should you lack to just sit around while your crush gets railed left and right until she "realizes" you are what she wanted all along? Always be the first and best option, that's the only way you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:08 PM
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I agree that the people asking how to attract women usually lack the attractive attribute. The advice on how to attract women, should always revolve around how to be attractive. Thankfully, for most guys, it is predictable what would help them the most: get good physique, good hygiene and good money. It is not up for debate that those three things are major factors of attractiveness, so major I'd even call them step 0, even though if someone was born with bad genes or into poverty might not have…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:04 PM
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I disagree with your reasoning. We can look at sports, like boxing or whatever. You can have a good strategy, but it might be completely useless if the person using the strategy isn't strong enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:20 PM
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This is ridiculous, when I go out I know I come across hundreds of people that I don't notice, but I don't consider them subhuman, they're just people I don't wanna interact with. Do you literally interact and remember every human you come across and everyone else you ignore is subhuman to you? Yes being attractive, surprise surprise, attracts women, it's literally what attraction means. Ngl everyone should just accept that looks matter, to everyone, it's how humans work. It is very obvious with…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:17 PM
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I doubt powerful men would be enthused or unbothered if their woman decided to sleep with a man they considered inferior to them. It's not inherently about intimidation or another man being better, it's literally just territorial/ possessiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:26 PM
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We are way too far to reach common ground. I consider slacktivism to be a form of political apathy. Whatever "slacktivism" means, if you're trying to say you want the movement to escalate and be bigger, we know it's not happening through more censorship, because we've seen what decades of silencing looks like. I'm fine with political apathy, the majority of the population is too stupid to be involved in politics; No thanks. Most people aren't too stupid to wrap their head around how everyone sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:44 AM
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Well for one, political apathy and polarisation has only increased post social media. The Palestine movement is bigger than ever despite 7 decades of state propaganda purely thanks to social media. Secondly, the added effect of having a non-controlled avenue for information, does not compensate for the increased loneliness, suicidality, isolation, mental drain, and social ineptitude. Your perspective seems narrow. Teaching children the resilience to not be so reliant on virtual validation that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:30 PM
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Sure social media can be manipulated to spread state propaganda. How does that detract from social media being a vital medium to providing an alternative to the most politically active age group? It's not old people organizing those student protests. Our major problems can be traced back to political apathy and banning alternatives to state propaganda is pretty much the worst thing you could do. No amount of "protecting" kids is going to outweigh the harms of the political apathy that would be i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:07 PM
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State sponsored propaganda is salivating at both your suggestions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:21 PM
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That's the prestigious part, they have ample opportunity to cheat. That concept is pretty much totally alien to anyone complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:11 PM
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I'm having some serious deja vu right now, did you copy paste your comment or something because it feels like I've read you saying the exact same thing a while ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:04 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:10 PM
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Dating apps are so rigged I swear, or maybe I'm bad at pics idk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 12:26 AM
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"Superficial" traits fall under the umbrella of "personality". Money, muscles, charisma All of them say things about your personality and what kind of person you are/ capable of being. Simply not being an asshole does not make you ambitious or protective, you're just an NPC who may be pleasant to have a chat with if I run into you some day, but that's pretty much it. Nothing panty-dropping about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:47 PM
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Honestly W username.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:24 PM
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I think both are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:27 PM
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It's intuitive in my case. Though there are subreddits like datingOrSiblings that seem to have a similar idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:32 PM
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It depends on the meaning of "invalid". No one should be forcing you into a relationship, so there isn't an invalid reason from that perspective. However if we're using invalid to mean ridiculous and needlessly specific, then sure, you may end up making your criteria so stringent that you wouldn't ever run into someone that fits your perfect mould of a partner, so it would be invalid regarding your goals. That being said, I absolutely agree that you should only date people that want you. You sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:53 PM
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Get a room you two!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:32 PM
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Standing in front of the mirror together and seeing if you guys fit one another aesthetically. I may be vain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:30 PM
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Does anyone else do a mirror test to see if you and your partner are each other's looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:13 PM
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Pretty sure I'm the father because I had a wet dream last night for the first time in forever. We should have a shotgun marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:09 PM
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Why do women with low self esteem, or in abusive relationships choose to be with such awful partners? It's pretty much the same thing, I think. I wouldn't really know, I've been single a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:20 AM
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and enroll so they can die for isreal. This should be considered abuse no matter anyone'a age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:17 PM
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It is extremely hard or nearly impossible to override human instinct. The qualities that people have always found attractive are going to remain that way till the end of time. Security is a huge one for both men and women. Men want a partner that makes them feel secure in belonging to him only. Women want a partner that makes them feel secure from suffering, i.e. starvation/ rape. I pulled that out of my ass, but it seems to make sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:27 PM
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The backward countries tend to also have other things in common such as being colonized/ bombed/ sanctioned by the hegemonic empire. But I'm sure it's a lack of women in corporations that's the real culprit here...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 10:11 AM
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Your first paragraph goes beyond a dependent and into malicious intent. Dependents aren't a monolith of completely disabled people, you can teach them things, you can even teach a lot of disabled people how to call 911, even little children. It's not binary where you either take on all responsibilities or absolutely nothing. I didn't say it was ideal for everyone, I said it was better than sexlessness, which it is, some people might be capable of having fulfilling sex lives with prostitutes, I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:52 PM
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Being around a woman that you can't trust to be an adult is a bigger minus to you than staying alone is. It really isn't. Sexlessness is a muccchhh bigger minus than handholding an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:49 PM
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I suggest stepping out of the echo chamber. Equality is an extremely novel concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:46 PM
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Moral flaws definitely influence attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 12:54 PM
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While I agree with your overall point. I want to nitpick on the It’s not just about “ok I can pull hotter di ‘Bye!’” That 6? Am I attracted to her? Those two points are intertwined. If you think your league is higher depending on who you can pull, you are less likely to be attracted/ want to settle for someone you deem beneathe your league. People don't exist in a vacuum, and those leagues play an influential role in who we find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:59 PM
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Begone ziobot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:00 PM
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I am curious how my activity would be classified. Could you please use your RP detector on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:04 AM
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Respect is a two way street. Sure it is. But that doesn't mean it's an all or nothing. It's why people have red lines that they won't compromise on, and other things that are a bit more flexible. If your red line runs into someone else's red line, then you're just incompatible. How does that mean that "respect" is therefore a deflection?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 06:16 PM
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Doesn't respect encompass sensitive subjects? It's literally catering to other people's sensitivities. Your jihad against these "liars" seems superfluous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:59 PM
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I agree with the points you are making, however I do see very often people saying that these men are being controlling and unreasonable. Very rarely do I see people saying that it is okay for men to feel insecure. It is understandable why someone insecure would want to distance themselves from being labelled unreasonable and a red flag. It seems like you're saying that it is more than fine for people to deviate from the normal in what they tolerate in a relationship. What men have a strong react…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 03:03 PM
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If you french fry when you should pizza, you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:05 PM
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Insecurity is the result of low self-esteem and a negative inner voice about yourself. The most expressed levels of insecure behavior would be called "normal" My only issue with this is that what most people feel at a given time is superfluous and changes throughout time and space yet people are trying to ascribe what a healthy relationship requires based on this concept of insecurity. I wouldn't feel comfortable telling someone they have low self esteem and that they need to work on it based on…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:55 AM
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Glad to help :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:09 PM
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For the curious, this is called "Affirming the consequent" which is a popular fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:51 PM
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What's a native born French? Is it a second generation immigrant?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 06:49 PM
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not secure in your own view of your value as being high enough to secure your partner to your side. Ok so where do we draw the line for "secured to your side" Some draw that line at being blind to other men, while others draw the line at leaving them for their poly partners. Where is the ideal point in between those two extremes? Is it always up to the individual, making third parties' opinions of insecurity irrelevant? Is there an objective point? A societal point where we can say yes that pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:21 PM
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Wild times we live in, where you either gotta be a cuck or "insecure" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 05:14 PM
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I agree with you that the idea of cheating should be repulsive. I also believe that they should avoid situations that might lead to them being less repulsed at the idea of cheating. I believe that human sexuality and emotions fluctuate for all sorts of reasons, and that exercising preemptive caution is one of the best ways to ensure that cheating remains off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:08 AM
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You're drawing a false dichotomy between "form fitting clothes" and "long dresses". I'm pointing out that not only is there something in between but also it's what most men are familiar with. Whereas your comment is saying women just don't have a choice but to wear tight clothes and men can't empathize because they don't wear long dresses... It's just a false dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:52 PM
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The comment is painting men as having no clue what working out in non form fitting clothes is like, I pointed out how wrong that statement was.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 10:49 PM
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It is worth considering what purposely wearing revealing clothes does and doesn't do. It doesn't matter whether you "go all the way" or not. Allowing people to see your body in such a vulnerable way is similar to allowing people to touch your body or being okay with any other behaviour that some may consider inappropriate. Some people prefer their partners to be proactive about this issue instead of just shrugging blame away as "oh they're just pervs".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:57 PM
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(idk if these men have tried working out in a high collar, long sleeved ankle length dress, but I guarantee its hard and way more dangerous while using machines). Baggy gym clothes exist... men tend to wear them all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 09:50 PM
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Sure and that's smart, what I'm saying is there's a lot of potential left on the table if you don't probe the spoiling part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:22 AM
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1
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:20 AM
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Wait there are 4 6s now? Why not go all the way to 6 6s?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:30 AM
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It's different when others do it. My own savings are my own doings, someone having their own savings does not feel the same as being spoiled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:29 AM
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The dude with the 1 mil is also capable of spoiling women...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:27 AM
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Likely
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:24 AM
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It didn't materialize, he wasn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:58 AM
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I call it buying the dip.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:51 AM
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It's about being made to feel secured/taken care of. Knowing that someone just has money in the bank doesn't trigger that feeling, being spoiled does signal that you're being taken care of. Besides, money is worthless, it's the things you can buy with money that make them worth anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:50 AM
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Is it Chad to lose virginity in foursome?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:48 AM
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I disagree, those pre-marital sex stuff is mainly because the state doesn't want to be on the hook for single mothers and dealing with STIs because men will have sex with anything. That being said, I am strongly considering poly if I can manage to attract two women. Three incomes (even part time) would be a huge life changer considering the inflation that's staring us down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:28 PM
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I agree with you except on one part: Cheating just doesn’t happen unless the cheater is looking outside the relationship. People aren't robots who can follow a certain algorithm and live perfectly, we have emotions that can be influenced. Even if the cheater is not actively looking, they can come across tempting situations for whatever reason, and to help avoid that, they should be proactive about preventing those situations in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:43 AM
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the only responsibility people have is to their own best interests. Suck that I gotta share this life with people that have this mentality 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 10:35 AM
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Cracks in the foundation doesn't mean you get to come in with a wrecking ball lol. This isn't israel where you can justify abhorrent behaviour by saying "if i don't, someone else will" Both the cheater and the side piece share in the blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:36 AM
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Seeking validation is a human instinct. It's why social media is such an addiction. And video games, ooohhhh boy, the amount of people that are awfully down bad and on videogames mainly to farm attention from other people is insane. Whether it be romantic, sexual or even rude/toxic. All of them are seeking validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:24 PM
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Yes hello ladies, my dms are open.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:42 PM
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I prefer to recycle my plates
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:45 PM
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I'm poly due to economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:33 PM
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Oh I thought you were getting ready to be the Stacy at the retirement homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:42 PM
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Listing off the "mistakes" those victims did. I'm saying there's not much to learn about how to not be murdered from those truecrime stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:05 PM
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I shall use my God given free-will to ridicule your proposition. You silly willy!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:58 PM
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What's Grannymaxxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:57 PM
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Omg yes Obama is my favourite war criminal! He made history by being the first black president, so that makes his war crimes totally cool now right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:54 PM
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Don't go to school, don't get involved romantically with someone, don't reject someone hitting on you, don't be a "beautiful soul with a bright future". I don't think there's lessons to learn from that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:51 PM
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I don't usually like it, and prefer to keep it for jobs, but sometimes, some of your friends are behind. Like you can stop playing video games and workout, have some real experiences while your friends still want to stay inside and play video games all day. That is a valid instance where you can say you outgrew the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:49 PM
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I think you're both saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:21 PM
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Spiritual girls step up your game pls
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:20 PM
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That's unfair to use the last girls as a benchmark without knowing if they would call the brunette a 10 as well, or if they'd pick favourites between the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:57 PM
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It's not just men, we live in a hedonistic culture where everyone is a slave to their impulses, even religious people with strong values can sometimes fall short. Generally, men just aren't incentivized to suppress their sexual impulses, they gain nothing from looking away from an attractive woman. I'm not saying they can't, because they absolutely can and it definitely gets used to deflect responsibility, but they just aren't incentivized to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:15 AM
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I don't think men and women can be platonic friends. And I'm saying that as a man who's got a grip on his sex drive. Most men simply let their instincts run wild and easily sexualize women. Besides, what can a woman do platonically that a man cannot? If I'm fulfilled in my platonic relationships, but not my romantic ones, I would naturally be inclined to finding someone to meet those needs for me, instead of just more platonic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:42 PM
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As long as it's for a good cause🍉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:47 AM
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Do you wanna be friends until I work up the courage to ask you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:04 PM
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I think there's room for nuance in that take. You can for example complain that it's ridiculous to only want someone 6'0 tall, while saying you should vet their character better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:28 PM
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It's only nonsense if you ignore the fact that America sponsors it wholesale, alongside other western countries and vetoes any resolution to end the genocide. Perhaps America, Canada, France and Germany are all fringe members that do not represent NATO at all? As for the red sea, any shipment that supports genocide is not a civilian shipment. The bombings are a fraction of it, you should know better by now that "terrorist" is simply the modern day colonial equivalent of "savages and barbarians" …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:21 PM
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Directly in Palestine through their middle eastern state dubbed the "Jewish state". They're also bombing Yemen whom they are starving with their sanctions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:55 PM
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Triggering your survival instinct is what causes the arousal. Which is what happens on a shaky bridge and why people report higher levels of arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:35 PM
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Sure, I'll let my friends who enjoy risky sex know that they don't actually feel aroused when fearing for their life. Would you like to also debunk the study that more people reported developing feelings when their first date was on a risky bridge as opposed to a stable place? Shared experiences of vulnerability are strongly correlated with higher arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:59 PM
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If they can land the hot guy, then they aren't being delusional. However, I do agree that it would lower the value of resources and guys would have to bring other than resources. The simps just cull the dudes that have nothing to offer beyond some resources, and even then, the simps are temporary and not reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:15 PM
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yeah but terrorists arent lawful combatants According to who? "Terrorist" is just a scary word that gets thrown around to justify western expansionism. Look at Palestine and please point me towards these so called "lawful combatants". And I thought it was being referred to as a "war", at least that's what western propaganda keeps calling it, when they're just starving and burning civilians. NATO lacks any shred of morality, don't bank on them treating you well just because you choose to go your …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:27 PM
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Simps are not the problem. You can get yourself a bunch of simps right now, maybe even a sugar daddy, but because you're not attracted to them, it means jack shit to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:11 PM
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because they're going to be more concerned with basic survival. Shared trauma makes for some steamy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:07 PM
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You're disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:18 AM
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Watch the news. Which news? You mean western propaganda that refers to a brutally murdered child as "young lady" to dehumanize her while calling Israeli soldiers "little girls"? That's why you're falling into the trap of only blaming non-westerners. The western empire has also been stirring up the shit. Do you know how many Palestinians the western empire murdered prior to Hamas fighting back? Exactly. China's been busy with their uyghurs genocide. I think they're all bad, I don't have blind loy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:16 AM
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Everyone justifies war with some boogeyman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:11 AM
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There is a bit of nuance to it. Supply and demand affect the human psyche. I'm not saying that you can supply your way into one extreme or the other, but you can definitely raise and lower your standards simply based on what's available to you. Thus you should examine your surroundings and see whether your environment is leading you to either an inflated or deflated sense of self and adjust accordingly. For example, dating apps, for average people. They simultaneously inflate a woman's sense of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:51 AM
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Woah be careful to not fall into the black and white trap of seeing the west as inherently good and non west as inherently bad. They're all bad actors working together to bend us over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:36 AM
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How did this joke even come about? Did you see someone else say it and you adopted it? Did you make it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:29 AM
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NATO is literally committing a genocide right now in the name of "fighting terrorism" in the middle east and has been committing innumerable attrocities. Why on earth would you think they're going to provide a cushy lifestyle to fucking conscripted soldiers???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:25 AM
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Things look a bit different when you're desperate, especially with the heightened caveman brain that happens during war. Rapes are so common that they get dubbed a "war tactic".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:22 AM
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You'd be surprised what people have eaten to survive in wartime. Like they're doing in Palestine right now, eating pigeon and camel food, because of the ongoing western genocide.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:19 AM
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Because this thread encapsulates the essence of this website. Shitposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:04 AM
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I hate men too, I'd want my wife to hate them aswell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:02 AM
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The biggest misconception in your argument is that women that may be good partners don't get taken advantage of by these assholes, contrary to the popular opinion here that women don't actually prefer assholes they just get tricked into getting in those relationships. It would be understandable for someone getting jealous that someone else got with their crush through unethical means. And even if they had some mental illness, not all mentally ill people are terrible partners, depending on how se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:06 PM
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3 income household is better than 2 income, and with this economy, we might need to switch to a dual couple income household 😂 Im only half joking, like seriously wtf bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:34 AM
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Are you asking for a list of what it takes to maintain healthy relationships? I'm sure you could benefit more from books/ experts on the topic. The point I'm making is that people don't want to compromise, they want to live a life of hedonism where they get to do whatever they want without worrying about potential consequences of their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:32 PM
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Cuckolding. There are nsfw subs if you search the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:41 PM
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It's just people wanting to have their cake and eat it. People will be people. Men want all the good parts of a relationship without the responsibilities that it requires to maintain. I'm pretty sure women do as well, prolly why hotwifing is on the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:06 PM
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Perhaps it was the lack of doing something that turned her off, oh well, consumerist culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:36 PM
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It literally just depends on how hot she is. At least at first. If you keep doing it after you find out you want nothing to do with one another then it turns to harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:34 PM
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All of them are. It's what living in a consumerist culture gets you. On a different note, the celebrity worship is crazy wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:31 PM
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Not quite, it's closer to them having a one sided relationship where they overthink everything and feel that they are doing a favour by being respectful of other people's feelings and limiting themselves while the "bad boys" shot their shots and scored some so they feel slighted for being overlooked in favor of someone that is clearly worse because he doesn't consider others' feelings. That's the cope I used to tell myself because I avoided approaching out of low self esteem. But it is how niceg…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:25 PM
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Hit him with the Surprise Pregnancy!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:14 PM
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Going through r/breakups and seeing people saying they're absolutely happy and grateful for their current healthy loving relationships but still not over their shitty ex is extremely jarring.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:40 PM
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Thanks Chadly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:51 PM
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The thing is, it is already the case. Women aren't going to be more attracted to you because of a decrease in less desirable men. I'll give you an example, start making dating ads that are open to both men and women, no standards, then see how futile this illusion of choice is. It doesn't matter if a bunch of thirsty ugly dudes want you, you might even start getting annoyed by the third notification that pops from them. When you get a notification from someone you want, whether you're being inun…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:30 PM
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If they were in the dating pool, they wouldn't resort to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:10 PM
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Not all rapists are incels. Plenty of popular rapists. Presidents are part time rapists and full time war criminals. As for fucking other dudes, just look at the r4r subs, the horny ones will literally fuck anything. Like it's already here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:09 PM
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Palestine W woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:16 PM
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Wait there's another way of interpreting? I still don't see what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:14 PM
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Those ones only demonstrate guys will fuck anything, it's got nothing to do with attraction lol. Guys will even fuck another dude if a woman isn't present.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:42 PM
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anecdata 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:46 PM
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Bold of you to assume I don't dress up as a superhero.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:15 PM
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Where do you get your information from? Orientalists🤢 have been fetishizing covered women since before the Americas were discovered. The dudes that produce fetish porn also don't strike me as ones that value modesty much. A common trope I hear among the brown dudes that don't adhere to Islamic modesty is that the women who dress revealing are openly inviting attention while the covered women are more of an ick. That should cover your first point. As for your point with marriage, how does holding…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:18 PM
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How did we get those takeaways?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:57 PM
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I don't have that, not all the time at least, though I chase my cat and run away from him so I relate to that bit. The rope tie thinggy in my sweat pants has always done me solid, I can't even take off my own pants unless I untie it. Perhaps it's because I tie it around my bones which makes it harder to slip than if I stored fat near my hips like most women. That seems like a plausible explanation. Leggings material always made me itchy 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:55 PM
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Nah this is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:41 PM
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Yes the schooling is bloated af. Needs more social cohesion exercises because that will be infinitely more valuable than whatever information they memorize and throw away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:22 PM
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Glory holes revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:20 PM
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Google glass looked too stupid, almost half assed. At least the Apple thing makes you look entirely immersed. Both need improvements, but the vision looks more premium, the google glass made you look like you were in a hospital with wires over your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:18 PM
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What is there to call out men for that they deny? Like I'm pretty sure everyone agrees dudes in tight shirts are trying to flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:13 PM
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Maybe I'm an exception, but I've never had trouble playing with children and puppies in baggy clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:08 PM
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We've seen what the modest clothing culture looks like and the type of weak dudes that society cultivates, no thanks. As if "Incls" were borne out of a modestly clothed culture. You can make your point without the need for outlandish claims like this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:05 PM
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I just think it's the liberal values that lead to cuckoldry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:33 PM
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😭😭😭 i underatand what you're saying even tho it's eisiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:15 AM
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Marry is a heavy word, like do I at least know their values religion etc...?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:13 AM
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A MONGOLIAN TOWN PILLAGE??? I CANT BRO IS WILD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:57 PM
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Religion is a huge umbrella term. It is common for abusers to move with impunity everywhere. Especially at the geopolitical level, see israel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:56 PM
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Thanks bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:51 PM
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I used to agree with the truerateme dudes and average people were pretty cute according to them. But when I go out, I'm only attracted to like 5% of the women I see... Single life it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:35 PM
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Im vain and flirt with my reflection sooo... perhaps there are equally vain women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:52 PM
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It would depend on if "average-ish" passes the attractiveness threshold. Do you have a pic if average-ish? If she doesn't pass, then a relationship of convenience with number 1, but I'd probably rather be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:44 PM
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The latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:35 PM
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Bro I'm curious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:55 PM
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I went to my friend's birthday party and there was this cute girl that seemed to hang in my vicinity a bit. The day after, my friend and I talked and she mentioned how so many guys were asking to hook them up with that girl, and then she asked what I thought about her... Is this how women give hints?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:29 PM
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You pretty much just repeated what you said but with one word, it doesn't answer my question. Anyway here are some diversions off the top of my head. You can literally just not want it. You can also want your partner to not be harassed or surrounded with that attention. Even if we grant your "reduce chances" reason: You understand your partner is human and mistakes happen. Random attention may lead to inflated sense of ego and even cause some friction, because again your partner is human. Nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:25 PM
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Trad cucks seem to want sexual purity and a woman who is a virgin but (somehow) has the skill set of a professional whore? I have never heard a single person say they want this, I only hear of people complaining that they hear this like tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:26 AM
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Thank you for elaborating, how did you determine those scenarios and decide they apply to a random person that doesn't want their partner hit on?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 07:55 PM
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Could you please walk me through your thought process? How do you get from "not wanting your partner to be hit on", to "therefore they'd be better off with someone else"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:07 PM
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Nah, I still wouldn't like men attempting instead of respecting an established relationship. It's the selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:41 PM
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Either wrong link or post deleted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:11 AM
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Normal according to this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:59 PM
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What are you expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:47 PM
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That's where you're wrong! You can always rewire your brain using the magic of porn. Do it gradually and consistent enough, you'll end up into all sorts of things/people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:45 PM
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there is always another man This is why I don't like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:14 PM
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Therapy? No. Trauma on the other hand....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:13 PM
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Just apply it to men. Whether a man only dates tall big women to feel small and protected. Or whether a man only dates short small women to feel big and protecting. Sounds pretty fetishy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:04 PM
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Source: the israeli government.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:32 PM
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I'm sorry I don't know why I was arguing. More and more men are doing skin care, and even middle eastern men at the inception of Islam used a form of eyeliner called Kohl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:16 AM
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Technically it is true, but practically irrelevant. Male actors wear makeup. Makeup falls under diminishing returns on investment. Women are way more attracted to wealth, power and status than to a man with no blemishes. Besides, women might perceive use of makeup to signal insecurity in which case it might hurt a man's chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:43 AM
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EXCUSE ME WHAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:09 AM
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What is your ideal but realistic scenario of a guy approaching you at a bookstore? How do you envision it going down from the guy's perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:14 AM
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Not quite, it's more about whether the person is receptive or not. Talking to strangers is a neutral ticking time bomb, you have a very short window to assess whether the person you're talking to is receptive to you talking with them or not. Attractive people are simply more likely to have people be receptive to their approaches and because of that, they tend to operate from an abundance mindset and have no problem immediately leaving if they feel the other person is not receptive. You can talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:11 AM
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Everyone needs to run.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:54 AM
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Lol, survival mode would activate as soon as safety stops being taken for granted. Isn't that what a bunch of men keep saying about women going for toxic guys because of the ups and downs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 07:47 PM
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40 is quite a specific number, why did you choose that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:46 AM
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As a middle schooler that hated on justin bieber it was because it was trendy/controversial to hate on him. Then it died down until he recently shared a pic of demolished Gaza captioning it with something like "pray for israel". Also as a victim of bullying, I can confirm I am attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:40 PM
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That's a very strong point. I think a good start would be to make each relationship significant, i.e. marriage only, that would put a huge limitation on treating people as disposable, we might not even need to manually limit the pools, but the government collecting information isn't a barrier, they already have quite a bit, and since most people pair up with people of similar socioeconomic standing, a government dating profile could use that as a guideline, but I'm not even sure if we would need…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:43 AM
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I wanna debate ngl, did you change your mind? Do you see weaknesses in what I propose, maybe I said something false about your solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:16 AM
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Listen bro, house chores are really something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:12 AM
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Sure and I'm saying that eventually, it will feel like empty platitudes, it will wear off quickly and people will always have that void, it's barely a bandage. Heck fake flirting from real women is already underwhelming once you start noticing the patterns, let alone AI flirting. You're also not taking into account what kind of individuals you're funneling society towards by enabling this level of escapism. We see it with pornography. No one said anything about forcing anyone and starfish sex. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:53 AM
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Travelling and better yet attaining citizenship. From the immigrants side it is something extreme reserved for the best. From the American side, you gotta have a beyond minimum wage lifestyle and also the self awareness to save enough to explore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:26 AM
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Yes, that would be the western empire, not only is it eating itself from the inside out, but it's starting to show its vulnerabilities on the outside like begging China for help against Yemen due to the economic losses of the Palestinian genocide America supports. This change is simply part of the cycle, promiscuous civilizations tend to crumble relatively quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:23 AM
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Neither. The people capable of pulling off such a feat are under no illusion of how the world is. Immigrants know that the western empire has a better economy because it ravaged their country for natural resources and they simply want a piece of that pie instead of the constant American sponsored terror activities. Americans want to get out because they see the other countries as much cheaper where a year's worth of american savings could sustain them a decade, again thanks to the pillaging of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:06 AM
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In what way do you envision AI helping with loneliness and anger? Cuz ill tell you right now, I can already tell chat GPT generated text and feel its emptiness, I don't think it'll be that much different from pornography. I believe curtailing freedoms would be the best solution to pressure people into matching with who's available and hugely emphasizing marriage. Sure it's not a perfect solution but I genuinely don't think there's a better one out there. The freedom that we already have leaves p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:59 PM
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Thank God for Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:52 PM
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You haven't met a cool guy that enjoys your company yet wouldn't have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:43 PM
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Perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:40 PM
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When you share a burden, it's no longer your burden, it's our burden to each do our part to deal with it. How that manifests itself is going to vary for each burden, but the idea of "you are on your own" is not something that should ever come out of a partner. No one can fix your problems, what a partner can do however is reassure you and support you while you deal with the problem, perhaps alleviate you from other responsibilities. Showing you empathy that they understand what you're going thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:26 PM
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"Share your burdens, but if you don't fix it on your own, that's an ick" It seems that sharing the burden only puts you on a ticking time bomb adding needless pressure to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:40 PM
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Israelis, nazis, pedophiles, rapists I hate all of the above for the horrendous atrocities they're responsible for. I am very positive that I've never loved them. You're saying you don't hate them? Maybe we understand different things with the word hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:30 AM
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Any ex[community], vent about your lived experiences and move on, identify yourself with your new beliefs, don't make it your identity that you are ex[whatever]. The catharsis of bonding with someone over what you don't believe in is very shortlived and probably insignificant to the validation you would get from someone that shares your current beliefs. If you want to deconstruct a certain idea, then go ahead and do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:28 AM
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I've got a huge bias about this because of people that identify themselves as ex[religion] are a pet peeve of mine so that's the angle I'm coming from. There absolutely is something wrong with ranting about things you changed your mind on. You might make an off comment one day to yourself regarding how you used to believe this stuff, but to build a comunity around it, when you supposedly believe in something else is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:31 AM
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Perfect example of dehumanization right here. Under international law, Israel does not have the right to defend itself from the people it occupies. It's like saying a rapist defending himself from his victim fighting back, it's a ridiculous sentiment. The only reason you can make that statement is because of your dehumanization of the Palestinians. While Israel is busy setting world records in murdering civilians, people that dehumanize Palestinians get to label it as "self defense" to justify t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:39 PM
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Sure I'm not denying that at all, I'm only talking about women compartmentalizing men as only good for sex and consciously not commit to them. The closest would be cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:50 PM
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Oh rivalry sounds fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:57 PM
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But I mean they'd love to be in relationships with those men, but just can't. It's not similar to the male sex zone which they might fuck a woman but consciously never commit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:55 PM
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Women really do that? I envisioned it as a Jada Smith situation. Where she will thirst for one, but can't secure him so she settles with hubby material and may get some on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:46 PM
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Maybe not verbatim, but dehumanization is extremely prevalent, it's why the US can fund the Palestinian genocide and yet the americans that can't even afford basic necessities seem to be complacent with that type of tax spending.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:42 PM
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What would you hatefuck someone for? I can't imagine something so strong that I'd hate someone for it yet be open to fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:39 PM
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And so was every other war criminal, yet you wouldn't use their names in the same way the OC did for Obama calling him a good positive example. Americans idolize war criminals and that is something we should start working on changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:26 AM
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No im just here for the entertainment, it would be even better if you recorded it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:27 AM
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Walk us through this fight please.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 12:15 AM
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Khabib. He is strong and humble about it. He knows he can beat up anyone in the room and will calmly put assholes in their place with three words. "Brother, I smash."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:40 PM
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Americans have a terrible problem of idolizing war criminals. Yall gotta get your shit together and stop rooting for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:35 PM
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When people use the "insecure" excuse for friends or anything a partner is uncomfortable with, a common retort I made is that this "insecure" excuse equally applies to having sex with others. And people would say it's different or a fallacious slippery slope. I was simply pointing at the validation. That's what my comment was referring to. If you want to talk about opposite sex friendships, then as a man, who has had experience with countless men, I can tell you with certainty that men will fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:05 AM
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It should be made clear on the first date, if you are planning on seeing other people, let them know and let them make the decision of whether they want to play second place with their romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:51 PM
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If you are not informing them, it's cheating. That's the problem, the ones that hide it are the most dangerous ones. The honest ones would be considerate enough to let you know upfront whether they're casual or poly. How do we deal with those red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:42 PM
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LGBT people have been appearing in movies for a while and only recently garnered societal acceptance, but then again Stifler's mom, so I guess we're not far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:31 PM
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Time to find a woman like your wife, I need a bit of building up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:06 PM
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I definitely fall into the hair splitting group as I see it like: "see cleavage and be served food by hot girls for money!" They're both directly using boobs for revenue, especially in the case of tips. They're distinct, but under the same umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:48 PM
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I agree that sexual marketing is rampant, but not all marketing is sexual in nature, some car ads don't feature people, so that label seems inaccurate. I would count those ads, at least the sexual section, as a form of sex work. I see sex work as a broad term to refer to leveraging your sex appeal, I am trying to understand the distinction that you're making between overall leveraging sex appeal and just using sex. Ofc we can agree to disagree, but we're both on PPD lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:23 PM
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What would you label monetizing sex appeal as?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:06 PM
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having sex with men or women because i am good at emotional regulation, i am confident and secure in my position as her partner There we go ladies and gentlemen, the "slippery slope" of "you're just insecure, she can have guy friends and go out to clubs".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:50 PM
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Is it not sex work to monetize sex? It's the same as sexually suggestive twitch streamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:46 PM
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Do women like you actually exist? Especially mid 20s and older?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:36 PM
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When I said average I meant the common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:22 AM
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Not quite, you're missing an implicit assumption which is that the average woman is better looking than the average man which would make it seem like women on average can get away with more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:47 PM
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This sounds nice in theory, a woman that can leave at anytime but doesn't. However, in the real world, especially with dating apps, it makes it so that partners are seen as disposable, so whenever a relationship goes through a patch of inconvenience, our consumerist partner's first decision would be to sabotage if not altogether drop the relationship. I think these are two extremes of the same coin of making it so easy to leave that the partner is replaceable, and making it so hard to leave that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:32 PM
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That falls under genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:23 PM
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It is a breeze if you have wealth, power, status, genetics and compassion, it's just that amassing those things is tricky and sometimes impossible. Which man that has those things is struggling attracting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:14 PM
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Both of you are correct, they don't want to be caught by someone that needs to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:44 PM
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People get into relationships to fulfill things they don't have, and if physical protection is what she desires, then that's what she'll prioritize. A violent strong man is more phsyically capable than a nice weak man. Same thing applies to financial and mental protection. Physical ability is an exception because for the vast majority of human existence, physical power has been the ultimate arbiter of who gets the last say, and that is simply engrained in us as a species. Even men understand thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:24 PM
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It kinda already is normalized, the more it spreads, the more men need to find leverage for relationships. Im not looking forward to the scenarios of when only a small minority of elite men are in satisfying relationships while everyone else has to pretend like they're happy with the status quo. Look at destiny's cuckoldey for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:56 PM
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The problem with being passive and only finding someone with similar values is that humans are impressionable, especially children. The more passive you are, the harder it becomes for you and your children to find partners that share your values because other values get pushed more aggressively.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:50 AM
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3 goats for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:43 AM
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Remember when youtube videos used to be just random gameplay with minimal editing? Well now the competition for attention is extremely fierce, good/ rational behavior is mediocre of an offer to grab people's attention. She could have just said "I used a bathroom properly at a party" but she's an influencer, getting attention is literally her job and it was so successful that even strangers on reddit are discussing her wild behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:40 AM
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Im starting to give up on the romanticized ideal of relationships and follow in the footsteps of the bulk of human marriages, which were marriages of convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:06 AM
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Pffft look at this silly goose, implying that people in extreme power such as billionaires and presidents and royalty have access to information. We all know they're totally clueless and oblivious to any and everything bad. Those "philanthropists" can do no bad ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:00 AM
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How many bad experiences should you tolerate before making sweeping judgements?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:40 AM
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Get trusted men(family ideally) to do your vetting for you, have relationships that are publically recognized in your community. These two criteria ought filter a huge amount of crappy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:10 PM
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You don't need to complicate dick sucking to say that pleasing women isn't hard, that is just unnecessary, plus you been sucking lollipops and popsicles your whole life, theres lots of experience there. What's the equivalent for pleasing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:19 AM
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The guys who go to mixed events not reeking of desperation and horniness do fine. Let's be honest, this doesn't even matter, if you are a desperately horny hot dude, you'll do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:21 AM
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I am confused by your first sentence. What are you negating? That the way you're using "friend" is not interchangeable with "someone you care about"? I am very confused by your analogy because it sounds like you're saying it just based on feelings, which I already said in the post. Like I said, feeling special doesn't make it special. Do you believe the cake is a lie? (Portal reference) Anyway, cakes really do exist even if they are just a combination of ingredients, the same can be said of roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:20 PM
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I disagree with your end goal, ingredients will not always fill the same hole that a final product might. Eating a baked cake is not the same as eating those ingredients separately, and no matter how much cake ingredients you eat, nothing will even come close to eating a cake. In that way, sex + friendship could never fill the hole that romance does, no matter how many friends you make and how many toys you buy. (Not to mention, toys do not even compare to real sex.) Another point, If your defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:10 PM
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You just reworded your initial question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:41 PM
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It's not. Nor is it disrespectful. That's just a weird question. You can respectfully convey your boundaries, but stating them is neither respectful nor disrespectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:47 PM
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I pointed out the example you used does a poor job of highlighting the point you are trying to make because it is an overall better deal regardless of the status. I even agreed with your point, yet for some reason you opted to acting condescindingly to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:08 PM
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Even if a plumber worked the same hours, you're factoring in commute, and the nasty labour. Youtubers don't have either. They generally enjoy their job, and it's usually them living their life but in a more exaggerated manner. My point is that it's an overall better deal even without the status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:33 PM
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I agree with you that status is considered attractive. I was only saying that a youtuber making 70k vs a plumber making 100k isn't that good of an example of a status because the youtuber job has better perks than a plumber even if you disregard the status.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:25 PM
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The youtuber making 70k has an extremely flexible schedule and probably enjoys his work a lot more than the plumber. Not to mention there is no commute. I just disagree with your example, but overall I agree with your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:22 AM
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I can't believe I chose video games over this life: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/s/pnTbKjQEQM
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:47 PM
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You're acting as if it's only abusive men that like good women. The fact of the matter is most humans, yes men and women included, will take advantage and take the things they have for granted. It doesn't mean that you should entirely abandon the concept of vulnerability. It means you should have a more stringent criteria for who you are vulnerable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:29 PM
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Hate is a strong word, and it isn't necessarily the workers themselves. I dislike the premise of exploiting sexuality, I think it is predatory and greatly diminishes the significance of sexuality. Sex workers play a vital role in that cycle, and they are used as pawns to further influence young girls into such a lifestyle. I'm not pretending like I care about random people, rather I am expressing concern that normalizing a certain thing within a society would affect the people closer to me, thus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:12 AM
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Ofcourse it is a reward, in the same way that attention is a reward for trolls. It doesn't need to be gift wrapped, it just needs to be desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:37 PM
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I think this line of thought is common among anyone who wants a low n, and does not want to come off as a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:31 AM
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You gotta build a society that values shame in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:09 PM
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Can I drink from your pool on Mars?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:34 PM
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Im reading it with an australian accent 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:25 PM
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The dating pool has pee in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:22 PM
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People tend to like attractive people and would want to be friends with them more than less attractive people. The issue here is that an attractive woman would most likely be sexualized by men and that attraction would override the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:48 PM
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For the people struggling with attracting partners, they're not asking for help in how to be good in bed, they want to know how to even get someone in bed in the first place, that may be why sex advice is not shared. But I am pretty sure if someone was to ask what they need to prepare or keep in mind for their first time, then people would share some of that crucial information that would help them avoid the most common pitfalls and try to improve the experience. I would also like to say that pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:47 PM
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If bad sex is so easy to overcome and knowledge about what makes sex great is so readily available outside of actually having sex with different people, why do you think those are still the common complaints, when men struggle to get sex and the quality of sex they provide is severly limiting? For similar reasons that myths are widespread, like how people believed that marijuana was a miracle drug, or that vaping isn't really bad, that using condoms means the sex is safe, etc... a huge amount of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:32 PM
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I agree, the point I was making in the OP is that it is not unreasonable to expect good sex out of someone that has not slept around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:27 PM
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Sure, you can also read about those practices and ask to try, or if you're the other person, do them spontaneously and see if your partner likes it. I don't see why it's a big deal at all. We have vast access to information online, I feel it does a pretty good job of bridging the ignorance gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:46 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:30 PM
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The body comfort is more of a therapy/ psychology thing, and knowing better what you like and don't like has a minor effect because you're going to be adapting anyway to this new person's touch, and you're going to be exploring different sensations together, it's not like you can give them a list and they'll just hit the tight spots, it's a very individual thing, and if you're exploring anyway, then the experience can only, at best, speed up the exploration phase but not by a relevant margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:29 PM
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Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:26 PM
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I am speaking from rational deduction, trying to not let my anecdotes affect my reasoning. The most common complaints I hear are, it was painful, there was no passion, it was quick, it was boring. These do not seem too hard to overcome in my view. I don't disagree if we're talking about two virgins who have literally never heard of sex. But that is very unlikely in our information age. You can be pretty well read on sex even as a virgin which would cover the usual pitfalls, safety precautions an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:25 PM
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Congrats on being promoted to WOMAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:15 PM
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If I punch you in the face will you be able to tell if you enjoy it or not without comparing it to other times you got hit in the face?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 05:01 AM
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I completely agree that there needs to be a level of psychological comfort to enjoy the sexual experience and I have no problem saying that most monogamous low N couples may never experience "gourmet sex". As for the 70% statistic, I don't know if it really means that 70% of the men are too selfish or ignorant, it may be the case that vaginal penetration doesn't do much for them, but I cannot speak on behalf of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:59 AM
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Yes there is. -A man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:17 PM
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I agree that it is a skill that gets better with experience and teaching. But I am not talking about outliers, I am instead saying it is reasonable to expect low N, and good sex. I just think that experience with different people has a miniscule effect on how good your sex is going to be in a given relationship. It's not like martial arts where you're trying to throw combos that you've practiced over and over, rather it's always going to be an exploration because the aim is for it to feel good. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 10:15 PM
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I'm not only arguing for the possibility, I am saying it is plausible and makes sense to not feel shame about your body, or at least not in the low self esteem kind, and being open to exploring, without lumping in every disinihibition. I think you can separate them, especially if you want to say that people who slept around are capable of maintaining a monogamous relationship where they ought to have an inhibition for sleeping with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:57 PM
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Fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:47 PM
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You could have all of that and also want sex with one partner. I don't see what about those things would make it so that sleeping around is inevitable or what the overwhelming majority wants such that it becomes ridiculous to expect good sex with low N.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:46 PM
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I agree with your insight miss Therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:57 PM
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What did you mean by sexual disinhibition being a trait that leads to good sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:55 PM
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Sex is not as complicated as martial arts, you know if something is good or not simply if you enjoy it. Thay's literally all that's needed, don't be a selfish asshole until you understand each other's body better and then you can be more aggressive in bed. That's literally it, you can read and listen to other people's experiences for suggestions if you are struggling with creativity for exploring. I think you are overestimating how many mistakes will happen, and how great of an effect they'd hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:50 PM
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How does one get in touch with their sexuality? What does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:20 PM
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That's a fair point, someone that is adventurous may be more likely to also want different partners. My contention with that, is that the adventurous in bed, also maintain some inhibitions about sex, for example, whores can get into monogamous relationships and have an inhibition about cheating. It is not a binary thing where you either have 0 inhibitions or 0 adventurous. So the idea that being adventurous immediately leads to having no inhibitions is faulty. I don't see a barrier for enjoying …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:16 PM
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I think the knowledge you gain from casual hookups is negligible, especially given our vast access to information. You can practice a move on a 100 people, you will still need to adapt it to your partner, which is something that you're going to be doing anyway if you just read about this move in a book. Granted you may be able to adapt faster, I don't think it's going to be that much faster. That is ofcourse if they even enjoy it in the first place. The point I am making is that wanting a low N …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:08 PM
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The imagery of fucking your way out of a paper bag 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:00 PM
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I think focusing the word whore is a red herring, you could replace it with slut/ promiscuous/ sleeps around/ high N, whatever. The point I am making is that wanting a virgin/ low N partner is not mutually exclusive with wanting good enjoyable sex from that partner. Sleeping around is not a necessary component to being good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:59 PM
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I would agree that someone that's got a broader range of experience could use that as a stepping stone to explore someone's body, however, our vast access to information online, combined with just being good at body language, renders that advantage miniscule in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:46 PM
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Not really, I can tell whether I am enjoying a sensation or not without comparing it to someone else doing the same thing. I would say the better measurement would be whether I want more of it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:17 PM
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Not to put words in his mouth, but I believe he's referring to her saying "being in touch with her sexuality".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:15 PM
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Well I was addressing the being good at sex part because I do see people saying that those women who are low N would be boring at sex. With that aside, I would also disagree with the premise you are putting forth. Women who love sex, have sex. I take issue with the way you are using this idea to leap into High N. You cannot disregard women in monogamous relationships who enjoy having frequent sex with their partner. Women who do not participate in hookup culture can also really enjoy sex and all…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:14 PM
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Would you be okay with your daughter turning out promiscuous? Maybe they don't hate the promiscuous woman, but for a lot of men, raising a promiscuous daughter is equivalent to failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:53 AM
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How did you get conditioned into hating men? What's pavlovian trigger?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:55 PM
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Tbf your post pretty much is a cmv. CMV posts are what drive engagements on reddit and for humans in general. No one is really interested in reasonable discussion because it gets boring fast, we need some controversy and that is best expressed with short-sighted one-liners such as CMV. Basically twitter. This is the era we're living in right now, intellectual fights are basically entertainment and it's all about charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:30 PM
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Yep this covers it pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:26 PM
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Anecdotal. Though I suppose I could compile the data into hard numbers, it feels like a waste of time because I can count on one hand those women, while the others I'd see basically every day. Let me know if you find out where to find dominant women that are monogamous and happy with a passive partner that is perhaps average in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:17 PM
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That kink doesn't counter the point at all. Several of those dominant women want a dominant man that is their bitch, other dominant women want to be non-monogamous. Very often female led relationships involve some type of cuckoldry. Ironically with a dominant man. Heck a lot of "dominant" women online are dominant because they want to make money out of it, but are actually quite submissive. Very often they use "what do you being to the table, or make yourself useful to me". The amount of monogam…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:49 PM
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Please provide evidence of such. I will accept anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:07 PM
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I mean you're not wrong lol. Everyone wants to feel right and justified, and what better way to seek that validation without any risk than a semi anonymous online forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:08 PM
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I might fall for her harder. Do you know how hard it is to find someone that values privacy these days? Someone running sophisticated background checks would also know how to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:11 PM
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At first I sympathized with the victim of revenge porn, but now I am starting to think that dating and trusting a POS is a red flag itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:07 PM
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That's just complicating things for no reason. It can be an alternate phone number, or even encrypted information (unlikely because companies are terrible with consumer protection). Looking for the nude itself is the easiest way of confirming whether there is a nude out there not. Now ofcourse, we have deepfakes that can work using only a face pic, and revenge porn, so I am not sure how effective it is anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:05 PM
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No one turns me on more than my own reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:27 PM
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Charisma, eliciting desire from women with his words.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:26 PM
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What do you mean here? Are we assuming that both the man and woman are being honest? Are you asking who is more likely to be dishonest between men and women in a relationship? It's very situational, and I would say desperate people would tend to be more dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:25 PM
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Yes, I felt bad most of the time cuz I did not want it to last because deep down I felt I could find someone with that "spark". Maybe we were in the same league and I was just insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:22 PM
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If a man "knows what to say" or has rizz it's because he practiced that shit. The hard part is figuring out whether he practiced on the homies or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:18 PM
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The other person is using insatiable appetite as a personal trait, while you are using it to describe a feeling towards someone specific. If you have a personal trait of insatiable appetite, then it will lead to you lowering your standards until you can satiate your appetite, even if it means fucking other men like it happens in jails. If you can just ignore it because you're not attracted to anyone, then it is not insatiable, by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:05 AM
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You can greatly improve your personality by improving your looks. People will be more receptive and will reciprocate better, so you get to actually work on your personality through experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:54 AM
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I could have sworn I read 27 somewhere, I guess that was a different comment thread. My main point still stands however. If her character judgement is so poor that she gets duped into having a high body count, then that is also undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:13 PM
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Idk why anyone denies it. The idea of my SO being with someone else is repulsive at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:01 PM
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Gullible to be used for sex 27 times, but it's a stretch to suggest she might also be gullible to getting used while in a relationship? That stretch? It seems within healthy range.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:59 PM
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Debatable. If she is that gullible, she could also be tricked into cheating or getting too close to it, and even if she remained monogamous, her poor character judgement may make her a liability unless I or a trusted family member vets for her all the time. I know that it is a meme that men only value looks, but I kinda want a partner with solid judgement. Though I suppose poor character judgement wouldn't be much of an issue if we have minimal social contact with very strict boundaries. But tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:23 AM
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It's because you're a crazy kangaroo lady 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:17 AM
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I would prefer her to be less gullible and able to sus out those men with bad intentions. So it still is a red flag. And if she can't change how gullible she is, then she needs stricter boundaries. "He's just a friend" energy. And those never end well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:35 AM
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Yeah, I'd always get confused when people would justify young adults not being ready for committed relationships because they wanted to have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:18 PM
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I used to think having fun in your 20s and being wild just meant going on adventures like exploring the world. But apparently to a significant portion of people, it just means hooking up/ drugs and parties/clubs...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:41 PM
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It's just lowering your standards so much that you go for non-women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:35 PM
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Stds are diseases that are a bit harder to transmit than say a cold for example. Some require bodily fluid mixing, others require skin on skin. Some viruses shed around the genitals and/ or mouth, so they are more likely to transmit in such ways. There are some viruses like HPV that can be transmitted with shared tools, like towels etc... And they are scary because we don't yet have a cure for them so they signal pretty much either a death sentence, or ongoing medication which understandably, pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:25 AM
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I hate this mentality of arguing "just because I have a penis" "I am literally just a woman with a dangly thing in between my legs" No you are not. You know damn well that men and women are very different. Grow up different, develop different and behave different. No one wants to be harrassed or get on a train with a bunch of abusers, however, You as a man are already much less of a target for those abusers since they are interested in women mostly. Secondly, you as a man, have a much better cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:28 AM
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Today is your lucky day You get to learn a new word: Nostalgia
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:12 PM
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To all those who complained about disney brainwashing you, I have a lyric to say that it was always in your face. From Victorious, "Take a Hint" song. "Why am I always hit-on By the boys I never like" You have to be attractive to hit on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:31 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:08 PM
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Delusional is too much considering I still remember people spreading the advice of "approaching attractive women because they rarely get approached since everyone is so intimidated by their beauty".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:27 PM
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Women refusing to mute trolls online and expecting me to "protect" by arguing with every online troll are such a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:30 PM
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When men play sports, are they doing so for the express purpose of attracting women It depends, is it a completely secluded match or are there women around? That competitiveness element will not hesitate to prioritize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:43 AM
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Simp reversal therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:34 AM
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You pointed out unrelated scenarios. What if we focus on one topic? Looking for a relationship/ intimacy. Could you give an example of a reason? There isn't much I can do with "for many different reasons".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:23 AM
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And this is problematic for the man when there is another guy that evokes more arousal out of her such that she makes it easier for him, thus investing less. Investing more in a woman than someone prior is an implicit acknowledgement that there are guys out there whom she would much rather be with than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:08 AM
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No I don't. How does this relate to my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:56 AM
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That sounds realistic and ideal ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:59 AM
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Before we unpack why you think it's crazy, I'd like to know why do women treat them differently in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:16 PM
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Means it's a significant issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:13 PM
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All toilets walk like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:52 PM
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Minority so big that basically every woman has experienced it, sometimes several times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:18 PM
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Following up on a woman is a terrible idea. She's either not interested, or setting the tone for a tiresome relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:45 AM
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Reminder to my fellow autists/men. Women do not "forget" about someone they are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:31 AM
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People are attractive on different levels. Besides, women should be equally capable of loving their options the same way men say they love the type of woman they can get instead of pining for the best. Fucking a man outside of her league is only going to make it harder to appreciate less attractive men because it exacerbates the feeling of settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:41 PM
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but I have to admit that actual rejection and "try again" do feel different and most guys successfully separate the two I'm not like the other guys 👉👈
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:13 PM
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The average male League of Legends player who has never touched a women is not seen as cute or desirable just because he hasn't been involved in sexual activity. He's always just gross because everyone assumes he has gross sexual desires. As a male, the LoL players that I know were definitely into some fucked up shit, but so were the women tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:06 PM
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I would put her at a solid 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:41 AM
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What would you rate her? https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/163k8ux/18f/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:40 AM
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Yes, you should not trust strange men. I don't trust strange men with myself, let alone the women I know and it has nothing to do with age, though it can be a factor. The whole of beauty industry is built on the idea that youth is desirable. Both men AND women participate in that culture. Men are more prone to this attraction simply because they don't require women to protect and provide, so they are biologically incentivized to start reproducing earlier. Women on the other hand are biologically…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:26 PM
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It depends on what you mean by super tired. Unless I literally cannot move, I can go through the motions because pleasing is pleasant. No point in considering it unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:07 PM
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Fashion falls under rule 2. In order to avoid being unattractive, you dress well. But it definitely comes after rule 1, which says, be attractive. Think of it as keeping certain doors open instead of thinking it will open new doors for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:47 AM
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Clear communication is hot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:51 AM
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There are not lustful dudes in an office building? The subway? Bingo :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:04 AM
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there's no future in which that happens,
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:59 PM
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It's about being surrounded by lustful dudes. Whether they are confident enough to approach or not only adds to the disgust of the environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:42 PM
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You are over thinking my dude. It's not like there is some secret harem of women that you don't know the key to. It's more that attractive dudes will give terrible advice because it's not the place that got them the woman, it was because they were attractive. And when you are attractive, it becomes way easier to be "at the right place at the right time".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:39 PM
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Logically speaking Put that to the side. We're talking feelings. He will let you know if it is something out of his capabilities, don't make that choice for him, let him feel important by consulting him, the only exception I can see are emergencies. Why does the perception change if it’s a crush, wouldn’t they be happy to have an interaction with the person they’re attracted to? Perhaps if they were desperate simps. The perception is that way because the intentions are to form a relationship wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:46 AM
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It depends on how he sees the person asking for help. If it's someone he has a crush on, then it feels like being used. If it's otherwise, then it feels like being reliable. On the same note, in a relationship, asking another man's help instead of him is akin to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:28 AM
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The issue is that these men refuse to admit this is a result of insecurity when it is often so obvious that it is hilarious The issue here is that the term "insecurity" often gets used to invalidate how they feel and to label them as unattractive and even abusive due to being insecure. If insecurities were normalized for men instead of being treated as an indication that there is something wrong, then that wouldn't happen, but instead insecurities are used to shame men into being okay with thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:33 AM
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Ofcourse I am, now please incriminate yourself ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:03 PM
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Talk about the most exciting ones then!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:28 PM
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How would you take advantage of your youth before you get old?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:54 PM
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I am open to further suggestions!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:37 PM
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I might be mildly on the spectrum so might as well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:59 AM
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W af and smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:53 AM
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Looks, Companionship and Delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:20 AM
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Can you elaborate more? Perhaps you misunderstood my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:38 AM
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Would you love me if I was a 4 inch worm?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:50 PM
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Fair, I guess I lie to myself since I am not actually in prison, but in a virtual world most of the time, which replaces those experiences with the convenience of doing it at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:46 PM
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It is very stupid ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:44 PM
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I guess people can get fed up with their SO?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:42 PM
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I wanted to make it about me because I am narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:35 PM
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I like this perspective a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:34 PM
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Sigh, I guess I have to sift through more Valorant players...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:33 PM
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LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:31 PM
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What new activity would you recommend others try?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:30 PM
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Fair. How to find a fellow introvert?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:29 PM
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Share ahead! I am looking for all sorts of experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:28 PM
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This thread is about elaborating on why going out is important for women. No one is discussing the post that I did not share because I posted the specific question that I wanted answers to. But go ahead and protect us from the fake news.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:26 PM
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Yes it's a stupid question, and men are susceptible to asking those stupid question as opposed to would you love me if I was a worm. I'm not trying to rationalize anything here, just going off what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:21 PM
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What a beautiful prince thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:16 PM
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Elaborate please. Why do you like to think theyre genderless, what answers?? What sleeves???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:15 PM
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I think men can and have asked such questions, like: Someone else replied with asking about her sexual history, or if she'd like his dick to be bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:14 PM
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Those are really good!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:10 PM
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Can you list some of your favourite things to do outside? Or most exciting ones you'd like to try?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:08 PM
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Sounds ideal ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:07 PM
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I get that meeting in public is a necessary "evil". I was speaking in terms of maintaining a relationship trying to understand the other side of why is it so important to be outgoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:06 PM
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I think that's part of it for me, I really dislike being seen in public, let alone dressing up myself and my partner in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:03 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/u9OgMu5wT2
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:00 PM
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I think she wants a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:53 PM
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What's the male equivalent of getting upset about answers to "Am I getting fat" or "would you love me if I was a worm" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:51 PM
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Rip, I am so clumsy that I decided to go with a funny looking plastic laptop. Yes I have dropped it several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:23 AM
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So we're moving away from STDs are easily tested for, to "condoms exist"? Fact of the matter is, infections are positively correlated to the amount of partners someone has, and you do not know when a dormant STI becomes detectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:26 PM
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As long as we don't have to worry about STDs being in the picture, (which are easily tested for) Not really. Common viruses don't even get tested for, and when they do, there's a good chance for false positives/negatives. Also some infections take a while to develop or trigger and show up on a test. Who is waiting a year+ to engage in sexual activity with someone they're talking to lol. The STD thing gets amplified the more promiscuous they have been. Ain't no way someone is gonna be waiting a y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:08 PM
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Saying that my position is "that men don't objectify the people in porn" is a strawman. I'll be more explicit with my argument. Parasocial relationships are one-sided relationships, where one person extends emotional energy, interest and time, and the other party, the persona, is completely unaware of the other's existence. Time is spent watching porn, sometimes even money is spent, there is definitely enough interest to jack off, and some, even get attached such that she becomes their favourite…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:16 PM
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Do you only half read before building a straw man? or stand ins for an ideal partner's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:22 PM
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Most men don't give a fuck about the people in it? Is that why certain actresses are more popular than others? Is that why certain body shapes are more popular? Because men don't give a fuck? They absolutely do give a fuck about the people in it. The women are either their favourite pornstars, or stand ins for an ideal partner's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:15 PM
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This is where parasocial relationships come into play. Instead of being the one that gives pleasure, you are watching like a cuck. Whether it be following a specific actress or just using them as fap fodder for ideal woman/body. You're cucking yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:50 PM
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Well, those are not the guys that you want to go after for a relationship... And you don't have to be desperate to be relationship oriented.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:01 PM
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Get me some makeup that won't have negative side effects and I'll swim in it! I know I look good with eye liner, perhaps too intense, the only problem is that it's bad for the eyes, and the skin around the eyes is very fragile and sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:55 PM
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It's not women, it's people in general. It's even more pronounced in online forums like reddit. Don't believe me? Go to that debate religion sub and see if you can count on one hand the amount of times people admit they are wrong to someone of the opposite view.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:52 PM
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I felt awful about eating so much when I tried to gain weight. It became a full time job on its own to just buy, prepare and eat food idk how people do it. Perhaps it's the fast food making people fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:50 PM
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I want to be a whore, but I also want my first time to be special and intimate. I made it this far as a virgin, might as well go all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:47 PM
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some things can be hard on me hard on me hard on swer I'm sorry the pun wrote itself 😂 and I hope that you find relief of your chronic pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:23 PM
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You're a disabled dominatrix? How much info are you willing to share about your situation, because I am curious about all of this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:43 PM
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It's not just the other person, it's everyone involved in between. Make sure it's encrypted in some form, use an app that prioritizes privacy. Or even better just have your own private server that you send encrypted nudes to each other on. But then again, with the advent of deepfakes, we can all use the excuse of "fake news", unless the pic shows some identifying hidden information like a tattoo/ scar/ discoloration.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:35 PM
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What's a swer?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:17 PM
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Not that I disagree, but I am curious what angle you would take.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:59 AM
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I'm not sure which one is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:57 AM
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Why would you ever fall in a ground squirrel hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:56 AM
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I uninstalled discord, but you provide a compelling argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:55 AM
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You're setting the bar really low at greater than 0. It depends on whom it is coming from. If it is their crush, then absolutely. A lot of women have a degradation kink, and having their kink fulfilled by their crush obviously turns them on. Even if there isn't really an established dynamic of consent etc... horny people tend to be terrible judges of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:35 AM
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What is the right thing to do if a group of goons catcall your woman while you're walking down the street? How do you get out of that situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:30 AM
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It isn't just the misogyny, blasting music for everyone else to hear is an asshole move. Keep your music taste to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:17 AM
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I am seeing quite a few mention physical attraction tbh. I guess we can agree to disagree because I don't feel like counting 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:32 PM
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I get it. Something similar happened to me, but not as bad. It was back before reddit banned the use of apis that get deleted posts. Keep up the opsec
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:16 PM
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Btw I am curious why do you delete your comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:07 PM
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No doubt. However look at the general responses. They are more explicit about the important stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:06 PM
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I don't know about every single comprehensive thing, but they seem to not leave out important details on average. https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/81bmM6Vk8z
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:39 PM
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Make men and women great again!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:11 PM
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Tbh, it goes back to the OP of women being less explicit about what they want. A woman complaining "Why can't I find a guy that treats me well", is not ONLY looking to be treated well, but that it is implied as: "Why can't I find a guy (who checks off all of my requirements) that treats me right". Whereas men, usually are more explicit about what they're after. It's easy to see how one would interpret women at face value when combined with how men usually communicate, along the common narrative …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:08 PM
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It isn't abhorrent to believe women when they say they are not that shallow, nor is it comparable to learning racism from racists. You keep saying they should use critical thinking, and appealing to watch what they do, as if I disagreed with that. What I am saying is that it is extremely easy and appealing to ANY human to put that aside in favor of believing the fairy tale that they don't have to be hot. I just don't see why it has to be a big deal for someone to hold onto those notions, instead…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:28 PM
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OP, a crucial mistake you made is not defining the key term in your argument which is "Attractive". You should present your definition or at least the one you think men meant, and have everyone else measure against that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:17 AM
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I hope you're trolling because that sounds like hella projection mixed with jealousy. Edit: nvm read your flair lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:15 AM
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The colloquial term is mommy bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:13 AM
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It sounds like you're both using the word attractive differently, try to define it for one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:11 AM
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Probably cuz you're with family lol. Btw what's your flair about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:08 PM
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Stupid people doing... Sure, my point remains. Why would I not judge a person’s characters based on their actions? Because we are all flawed. You are unlikely to make accurate character assessments off an action, or a belief held. People are capable of both making mistakes, and also changing. But if you write it off as a character trait, you shut that door completely. It will only contribute to echo chambers. Thinking one gender can do one thing but the other gender can't (and its not based on c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:58 PM
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So very much lol The angle I am taking is men valuing status in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:40 PM
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People dig their heels into their beliefs further when they feel attacked. If you do believe there is no hope for a certain someone, then sure it is irrelevant whether they dig their heels in. But I believe that most of the time, we can separate the action from the person, and this is one of those times. I'm not saying that none of the guys are sexist etc... I am saying there isn't a necessary link between this behaviour and sexism. It can be plausibly explained otherwise. I don't see how it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:02 PM
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Does anyone still know how to spell multi-syllable words? At this point I type whatever is close enough and let my phone auto-correct it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:36 PM
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Hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:22 PM
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"Women are not that shallow" is not a simplification of "women value looks". I agree there are instances where one ought to grow up and understand intricacies of what they were taught, but in this case it does not seem to apply. It definitely looks more like contradicting rather than expanding and gaining a more complex understanding. People can behave in entitled and narcissistic ways, but to make it into a character trait of theirs is only useful if you want to cancel them and act as if they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:20 PM
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I don't know who that is, and you're making it sound like I should keep it that way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:01 PM
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Boobs save lives!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:01 PM
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📝 Never have baby at any cost 📝
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:00 PM
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I theorize it's bot about watching another guy, but getting reactions from the woman. Men just are better at fucking for a quickie for the viewer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:55 PM
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I like boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:54 PM
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I am all in favor of more men becoming femboys by watching only lesbian porn and trying to relate to women/ femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:53 PM
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Tbh, I sometimes listen to old stuff. Just because a music is from a different generation doesn't mean it's irrelevant or bad. For example it could be about an ongoing occupation of a country that hasn't ended so modern people can relate to how the people felt half a century ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:50 PM
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Yeah, they don't completely dislike the man, he's got some redeeming qualities, they just don't wanna fuck him. Which is a very unfortunate situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:47 PM
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The secret to NoFap is to draw some hard lines. If you're just fucking any willing woman, your nofap is worthless. But if you choose to make nutting a special occasion for special women, then you can use the free time you have from removing those distractions to get closer to your goals
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:42 PM
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Best I can do is 3.50
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:37 PM
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I sooo want to make a post about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:37 PM
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feet Pics or it didn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:20 PM
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You just have to be told that "love comes/ happily ever after, you're a good guy, some day a girl will love you for who you are, and girls are not that shallow" a couple of times during your most impressionable years. It becomes easy to see how someone would want to believe that easy life is how the real world is and would ignore the discrepancy they see whether it be in them only wanting women that look good, or seeing the women flock to the good looking/ charismatic guys. And sure I guess we c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:17 PM
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The sand beneath the gladiators is Sacred ground watered with the tears of blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:57 PM
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If women did that I'd be able to live an easy life of being a trophy husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:55 PM
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It's not about taking pride, rather people in this generation seem to be extremely afraid of commitment and run away when they sense something stable forming. So instead of wasting energy over and over trying to build something stable, just go for what works. Note, I do not advocate lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:50 PM
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Sure he gave healthy and non healthy expressions of the traits he outlined above.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:44 PM
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"Healthy" women seem to be in the minority. Such a small minority that I cannot say with confidence I have run into a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:55 PM
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I don't buy this narrative anymore. The status quo is "unhealthy and damaged" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:37 PM
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I think that's a positive. Just get hate fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:35 PM
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Are we talking relationship or sex? Cuz one is going to be a pain to deal with, but the latter makes it fun because of the reputation my star sign has.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:35 PM
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Yes, he even put it in quotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:31 PM
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Mfw that's my type
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:35 AM
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OP isn't appealing to the concept of alpha male, he just used that term to label the above traits. He could have used any other word, and it wouldn't matter because he defined what he meant in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:33 AM
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Gst off the pills old man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:26 AM
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So what about the women that say they need to interact/ build a connection with someone otherwise they won't find them attractive. Apparently a man has to be charming to be considered attractive, but according to you, attraction already has to be there. And if he tries to build that attraction it is considered harassment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:06 PM
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You aren't looking for the same thing. He wants sex and nothing else, while you're seeking validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:46 PM
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Sabotage what? Other people's attraction to her? If she isn't already doing that on her own, then we're not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:42 PM
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Bro is reading the playbook out loud lol. At this point, I am convinced the people that are "too busy" to send a text update are just telling you that you are a low priority to them. Only exception is surgeons working on those day long operations, but let's face it, no one reading this is going to end up with a surgeon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:31 AM
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I am glad the people that call them parasites are averse to giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:01 PM
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Elaborate please
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:42 AM
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If only it didn't fuck up your eyes and the skin around it, I would use it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:32 AM
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For those who care about a sexual past, what would signal to you that a person has changed to the point their past is no longer relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:31 AM
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On the bright side, you can't have your nudes leaked because this technology will cast doubt on their validity. It reminds me of when social media apps have "trends" like "share a pic of when you were a baby!!" Not realizing those pics are being used to train all sorts of algorithms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:21 AM
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Exactly, it's not that they find them unattractive, they're just afraid of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:17 AM
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Rape was still illegal, yet they were tempted less to rape according to the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:48 PM
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1 am thought that I might make a post about. Men are attracted to status and power in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:12 AM
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I'm adding that to my list of reasons why eating out is a no go for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:08 AM
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SHE DRESSES THAT WAY FOR HERSELF! Smh men making everything about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:45 AM
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W Islam pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:20 AM
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How could they? Aren't men and women equal thus bringing the same things to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:10 AM
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Sure, attraction is something you feel. I am talking about good looking men. Is "good looking" not a trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:29 AM
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I never considered implied traits. How do you know which traits should be implied and which ones ought be stated explicitly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:53 AM
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I tried being racist but typo'd sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:47 AM
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There is no nutritional purpose to blue whale jizz. Not with that attitude!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:12 AM
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Are HVMs NOT good looking in your worldview?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:07 AM
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Female is a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:05 AM
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It's too empty, it's just tiresome to objectify people and use their body. I want a strong connection, and I can only handle that much attention with a very limited number of people. The downside is it is hard to find someone that doesn't run away from something serious and intense, they want to be reeled in slowly building up something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:30 PM
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I don't disagree, I am all for discussions and getting on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:59 PM
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I don't believe that people should leave right away at the first sign of discomfort. However, expressing your concerns and laying out the consequences, whether it be you leaving, or feeling hurt by their actions could all fit under the umbrella of manipulation. It isn't malicious manipulation, however you are appealing to their guilt/ empathy/ wanting you to get them to change their behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:57 PM
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The bad cop is a bedroom exclusive :P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:37 PM
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Those are two different boundaries. One you're not comfortable with them having other friends, while the other you're not comfortable with them neglecting your friendship in favor of others. However in both cases, you are controlling their behaviour by telling them you will leave in the case of X. You are not forcing them to act in any way in either scenario, but you are giving the ultimatum of either they fit your standards or you leave. Whether your standards are reasonable is a separate discu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:33 PM
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I believe you when you say that. What I am saying saying is boundaries control the behaviour of others within your circle. Whether they are fair or not is a different discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:26 PM
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I agree that knowing how to communicate is paramount but you literally did change his behaviour. You gave him an ultimatum between changing his behaviour or losing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:15 PM
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Boundaries are for controlling others. It is definitely a form of manipulation telling people what they can and can't do to keep you around. Sure the main purpose is protecting yourself, but you're doing that by expressing to people what behaviors you're okay with, and making them choose between your company and that behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:35 PM
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No it's not all people. There are plenty of people that get into LTRs from a young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:23 PM
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Dressing to impress society goes back to peacocking/ building status to attract a mate. If I don't have "potentially impressing women" on my mind, I'm going out in sweatpants lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:20 PM
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More than one thing can be true at a time. The (lack of) clothes definitely grabs the men's attention. I have yet to meet a straight man that dresses to impress other men when women are totally out of the picture. Most are happy laying back and relaxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:56 AM
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Get some core values, draw red lines around them, and be ready to warn others if they get close to your red lines. You also have to live in-line with your values because otherwise you will come off as fake and insecure. Forget what you were taught about ignoring bullies. State your boundaries and take action. Building an intimidating physique does a lot of the talking for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:25 PM
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Oh no, he broke the sacred rule of feminism!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:15 PM
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No. Source: I am a very judgy man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:14 PM
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Men dress well not because they want to flex their status, but to attract women in a similar way to peacocking. So they assume that women also dress in way to attract mates. Which tbh isn't very far from the truth given the testimony of women here complaining that men go for the party girls instead of the modestly dressed and shy ones. So just discuss it early on because yes it is subjective, different men are okay with different levels of attention women get from men. Some men are just not okay…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:13 PM
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Back when? People aren't really different from back then. Like the riots for example, a very recent event where men had to protect their neighborhoods from the riots, and the neighborhoods that didn't have that protection were ravaged because the police decided to leave the area instead. We are still the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:22 PM
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1- You can't have two leaders. Have you ever tried to play a team based video game with two or more players giving contradicting plans? Yeah that team would get stomped on. 2- Men have historically demonstrated the competency to lead. And I have anecdotes of women being more susceptible to analysis paralysis. 3- Yes, similar to number 1. With the caveat that if you keep seeing your partner making bad decisions then find yourself a competent man. 4- Yes it does put them at the complete mercy of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:16 PM
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The core aspect of the CC, is fucking around with hot dudes then finding someone to settle for after failing to lock down the hotter dudes or realizing they were abusive. I don't see how doing it with a few guys per year is supposed to negate that or labeling it as "being young and having fun" is supposed to make it less repulsive. Being wary of the women that had a "hoe phase", or "hot girl summer" isn't overblown or overreacting. Feel free to tell the women to also be wary of dudes that had a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:39 PM
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Poverty be like that. Only time for work, no time for cooking or exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:58 PM
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Obviously. The purpose of hookups is attraction, while LTRs have other things to balance the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:20 PM
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STIs are much worse among gay men so I'll stick with women. Besides, the cute men suffer from the same problems women do with a hyper inflated ego from all the attention they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:35 PM
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I don't get the point you're trying to make. It sounds like: "Young women promiscuity is a myth because young men are also promiscuous or try to be."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:32 PM
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Feminism is just a phase. You can't override biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:32 PM
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Labeling promiscuity as "being young and having fun" doesn't change what it is. You're just putting a bow tie on it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:14 PM
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Sure each woman is different, but if you want to attract women, i.e. have options, then you can count on the following traits: Height, Charisma, Beauty and Wealth. Sure there may be some individual woman out there that doesn't care about one or more of the above, but it is absolutely not false to conclude that these traits will commonly land you attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:26 PM
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r/sinkpissers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:33 PM
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Yep if you are average you're fucked in terms of cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:58 PM
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And I find it rational that a social species that survived by procreating has incredibly strong inclinations to find a partner to mate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:12 PM
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Is that how often you initiate or when you are simply open to having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:37 PM
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I haven't seen women praise lizzo nor get mad at being compared to her but it is a meme i see often and got me wondering, Is there a male equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:49 AM
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Sure, you can also survive living on the streets. How is that supposed to contradict that not being in a relationship makes life harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:58 PM
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Sure, depending on my battery level. Other than using battery/ data, there is no downsides to the location sharing. This is my partner we're talking about, not some stalker that I don't trust. Now if she doesn't trust me knowing her location, there is an issue in our relationship. Like we're not playing hide and seek, or in a war with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:45 PM
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It's a mix of brainwashing with wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:32 PM
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I think it's closer to treating the relationship like a crucial missing piece or a need. Similar to any other need, whether food or shelter, having it is not going to fix all of your problems, but not having it makes life a hell of a lot harder to get through.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 06:26 PM
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If they're pursuing a committed relationship with someone they know is incompatible, then they're just being horny/ desperate. People should get with others that share their values. The problem is, and especially for men, they cannot compete to have the ideal standards they desire. Men inherently despise the idea of other men even being around their women. (Even cucks get off on the frustration and humiliation it causes). The problem arises when you curate a society that encourages such behaviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:11 PM
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Why is that unrealistic? Why can't a sexual wild side be built with only one person? I don't get why this is a common talking point as if everyone accepts that the only way of being good at sex is by having multiple partners. Sure the first time she may not be the most confident in her skills, but it ain't going to take too long before she gets comfortable in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:02 PM
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Do you have a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:58 AM
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Even if he was excited about her in a simpish way, he's only sticking around till the excitement fades. It's all about moral character. The problem is, the good looking and good character people tend to get into stable relationships early on so they are totally off the market. Everyone else is walking with hella baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:52 AM
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Yes absolutely, get your mind in the "Do Something" mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:49 PM
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CMV Exclusively having same sex friends is a non-issue if you believe men and women are equal. Because for you to "miss out" on something it means that it is different than what you have. But if men and women were equal then in theory, it shouldn't make a difference whether you have 50 same-sex friends or mixed-sex friends. The other side is accepting that men and women bring different things to the table, and have significant differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:13 PM
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Huh so we really are just like other animals. Like lions killing cubs of a different male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 07:42 PM
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Could you give an example of such comforting platitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:59 AM
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That seems fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:33 PM
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Thank you, can you elaborate more? Especially the latter two things you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:31 PM
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Could you explain what vulnerability is supposed to look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:18 PM
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I thought they were asking to lower the floor
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:54 PM
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You're addressing things I did not mention, and ignoring things I did mention like the individual being responsible for where they choose to go for fun, like the all girls club example. But that's beside the main point I was making. What I did was point out the dissimilarity between the average male and female experience at a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:46 PM
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Even if he did trust her to reject other dudes, she would still be in a room with a bunch of dudes thristing over her, whereas if she trusts him to not hit on other girls, he'd be pretty much invisible. If she was perhaps going to an all girls club, then it may be similar. But as long as one is being thirsted over while the other is invisible, it cannot be said to be a similar situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:19 PM
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I don't disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:47 PM
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Yep, even if pitty sex/relationships exist, they would be worthless I'd imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:56 PM
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Although this applies to people in general, Men are lazy and they let themselves believe the fantasy that they will be loved for who they are instead of accepting the reality around them that they really need to be special. You're not a victim, you knew deep down how the world works, you just wanted to take the easy way out and blame someone else even though you never truly believed their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:36 PM
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I agree with you bro, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I've seen it too. If you sit back and do nothing, they interpret that either as not caring or weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:13 AM
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hearing your partner be verbal and experience pleasure from something you’re doing is INTOXICATING i just love love love to please and know that i’m the one having that effect on him. good sex is just enthusiasm with a person i deeply trust. you both get off on pleasing each other, so you’re open to trying new things enjoying the foreplay as part of the experience and not just a chore. flirting throughout the day to maintain a constant air of attraction. a great date is the best foreplay, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:47 PM
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There is no threshold. Guys can figure out early on if they want to commit to you or not. If yall are not trying to figure out the compatibilities with your core values, then it's not a serious relationship, you're just convenient to have around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:46 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:43 AM
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Psychologist videos on ig and tiktok and all their comments of girls relating, the post that someone shared on this sub today about a woman being in the wrong. Those are two examples I've seen recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:42 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:41 AM
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Acting childish is my cope to avoid responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:37 AM
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Everytime I see someone being called out for paying for twitter, their goto response is to clap back saying they're not broke effectively making it a different kind of status symbol. But I still see it as a wannabe status symbol given the similarities with the original checkmark. Also the benefits sound lackluster perhaps other than having your tweets be seen by more people which yes can definitely help with brand building.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:35 AM
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Because abstinence from silly actions is good. Especially considering the blue checkmark used to mean something about status, now it means this is a paying user. Effectively paying to tell people you paid for twitter or pretend like you have status, piggy backing off the OG checkmark. That being said, I don't care enough to voice my opinions to the users, I silently judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:21 AM
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Just more evidence that I should ignore any societal message and only listen to my gut. Like how very recently people were being gaslit into thinking that women didn't go for "bad boys" and that they were just confident men or they were misled. But now I'm seeing a lot of "she's used to chaos due to past trauma (whether players or upbringing) and that's why she self sabotages".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:18 AM
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Having standards is actually very attractive, and women that don't have the standard of commitment for men they sleep with are not attractive for commitment. But just because she has standards for who she sleeps with doesn't necessarily mean she has to be annoying and difficult as a PARTNER. Men like the validation that comes with being trusted, so vet hard and then trust hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:08 PM
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I remember when women said something to deflect an accusation of monkey branching "we're only texting one man, and replying to many men" You happened to be one of the many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:22 PM
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They're only interested in women as notches and forbidden fruit. Either that or they don't believe her because of how sexual their society is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:58 PM
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I heard that women don't like muscles so I have no women respecting muscle in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:53 PM
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Yep, being generous in a selfish society is foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:39 PM
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Yep, don't be the "bigger" guy, be the guy that got what he wanted. The guy that can provide that reassurance and security. Would you rather get what you want and have some people judge you, or would you rather not get what you wanted and still be judged as incompetent?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:29 PM
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Yeah I never understood the "I wanna be challenged" crowd, join a debate club, not a date lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:56 PM
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I would like to return my adult ticket, here's my receipt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 08:51 PM
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90% of the ones I've talked to have made me laugh at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:05 PM
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Honestly I'd be down for vanilla sex as long as she shows interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:35 AM
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It's mostly venting, sometimes poking holes in other people's comments. Nothing personal so no depprassion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:57 AM
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Before you send that message, think of how it'll look like in a screenshot. Can't trust people to have integrity these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:50 PM
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Sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:48 PM
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5'9 and shorter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:11 PM
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Im going to list what I find most important That is fair, Do you think that looks and sex aren't up there? Because from my experience it seems that they are pre-requisites to any/most relationships whether romantic or casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:22 PM
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Why do you think being sexy/ desired isn't clearly baked into the question of what do women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:00 PM
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Please do enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:41 PM
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As if there aren't dna databases already. Heck people volunteered their dna's to the ancestry kits and what have you, let alone the dna that wasn't volunteered. If the data is there, might as well make some use out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:38 PM
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I disagree, with AI technology, video evidence will be worthless, there's going to be deepfakes of everyone. When videos lose their credibility, it would become trivial to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:51 PM
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I often see people saying that a virgin must fuck like a pornstar, but I haven't seen the men that espouse those beliefs, at most what I see is that they want their partner to be passionate, which seems fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:29 AM
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The west doesn't tend to wait until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:02 PM
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I watch true crime to learn how to seduce women even if I was a literal murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:09 PM
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I want to be their pillow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:58 PM
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Guys will fuck inanimate objects lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:11 AM
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Values are pretty hard to change. To have a hoe phase, you gotta have certain values about sex. It's not impossible, just a bad bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 04:14 PM
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Mechanically 😂😂😂 My preference for women closer to my height stems from respect. Shorter women are more like pets. I would pet a shorter woman, but taller women respect
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:39 AM
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I love that both your names start with OK Did you reply to your alt?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 09:13 PM
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To women: Dad bod = Daddy To men: Dad bod = An exhausted father that can't find time for fitness. It honestly makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:06 PM
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Your wording made me realize that we as a society decided to put "ball players" on a pedestal. Fucking "ball players" is a status symbol 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:26 AM
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What's weird about it? Lil bro does it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:34 AM
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Men enjoy being desired, especially if it's something they have gotten little of. The other stuff doesn't signal this desire anywhere near the level that sexual arousal does. Basically, sexual arousal = you want him. Other desire = what he can do for you. One is re-assuring, while the other can be done by someone you tolerate. Another way to put it. One is "hot" the other is "nice". And we all know that nice is not enough on its own, but hot can go pretty far, especially if they're insecure abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:34 AM
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Yeah I'm going through that phase with clothes now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 12:00 AM
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Love it when women call me creepy for cyberstalking, But brag about being good at doing "research" on people...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:59 PM
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That's Amazon's way of doing things for ya. Bleed the competition dry even if it requires crazy feats like 1 or even same day deliveries. How can anyone compete with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:58 PM
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When I stand in front of the mirror with someone, I feel weirded out if they don't match me, so I guess I will only feel comfortable with someone that looks similar to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:06 PM
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Yes. Own up to it. You wanna fuck multiple women? Then provide for multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:03 PM
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Even camera footage can be doctored very well, so that's going out the window in terms of evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:52 PM
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How do you know they don't care rather than coping because they don't have the option of getting with someone that hadn't slept around? Barring cucks, no one likes to hear of the past experiences, the opposite in fact, people get bothered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:49 PM
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I'm right you're wrong. That simple. Chasing the validation of being justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:38 PM
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I think it's the confidence, there's a girl I follow on ig, she isn't my type, but she's a doctor, and the confidence and being a doctor boosted her out of the maybe into attractive enough. Yes a whole ass doctor, which is one of the best careers was enough only for a marginal boost. So yes it does boost but not by much. And it can be a negative if the work is unattractive (includes men) or if it takes precedence over the relationship. However, men that need a partner that works to pay the bills…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:53 PM
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While I agree with the sentiment of the saying when it comes to friends, when it is about dating I agree with you. It's a "neutral" rule that disproportionately affects a certain population, which makes it basically discriminatory without explicitly saying it is. It's like making it illegal to be homeless, sure it's equally illegal for everyone to be homeless, but it disproportionately affects poor people, and they would get persecuted more for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:44 PM
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Even if you seriously think the paedophile is just as likely to act on their urges the potential risk they pose is so much greater that you just can't risk it. But you can risk cheating/ raping an adult? I'm not trying to risk neither child nor adult. Wanting to have sex with another adult when you shouldn't is normal We can easily tweak this to say "wanting to have sex with someone you shouldn't, is normal". and people get over it constantly. But you don't believe this when it comes to adults h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 12:04 PM
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Nothing potentially dangerous or immoral about having that thought? Isn't the objective to maintain the original relationship? Wanting someone in a relationship and hanging with them, seems to run counter to our objective of maintaining the original relationship, same thing with maintaining the health of the child. Normal people can and do move on from unreciprocated romantic feelings. Sure, apply this to the pedophile who "moved on" from your child's unreciprocated romantic feelings and still w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:44 AM
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Im not contesting your overall point, just the categorization of it as "extreme end" when it seems to be equally valid logic for friends and for lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 11:03 PM
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Why are you putting the open relationship people on the extreme end? The same logic applies whether it be co-workers/friends/fwb/lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:39 PM
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Anyone calling someone insecure for not being okay with opposite sex friends is simply a coomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:34 PM
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I didn't say there was literally nothing for women, but I wouldn't count the current resources available as much of a safety net. It can be much better. I didn't say that men can't be abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:05 AM
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Feminism is a necessity in liberal world. Since they don't have a societal safety net, and people are generally encouraged to be selfish. They need to be self-sufficient, because what if something were to happen to her man, or if she ends up with an abuser. Security is pretty much the biggest talking point they have, and feminism won't go away without a radical change of worldviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:35 AM
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When girls say they like dadbods, they mean someone they can call daddy, not fat dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:07 AM
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To be fair "debates" on reddit tend to simply be people shouting past each other. This applies to debates in general, but it's more pronounced online where it's easier to de-humanize the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 05:48 AM
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I'm struggling with the part that you're taking for granted. My socialization has been so far limited to being forced to interact with people like school/ project/ lab partners. I don't get the whole just walking up to people who are in a conversation and joining in? Finding someone chilling in a corner by themselves? It's those first steps that I get stuck on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:04 AM
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I like that. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:56 AM
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How do you socialize? I plan on going to a munch soon and I have't the faintest clue of how or what I would do there to meet and talk to the people there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:05 AM
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WHERE? How? Where did you find your man? Where do you people hang out? But on a more serious note, I feel like I'm leaning into all of what you described and I am curious for ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:42 PM
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