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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:10 PM
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Question For WomenVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:23 PM
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BASEDVehementlyDrawn/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 04:31 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:56 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:48 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:54 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:39 PM
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Blackpill DiscussionVehementlyDrawn/r/AllPillDebate02/04/23 11:58 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:38 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:15 PM
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Question For WomenVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:53 PM
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So you basically said nothing pertaining to the post & also just tried to shame men? Take the cuckpill
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:19 PM
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You see from my previous post, it doesn't matter what men put. If they express their standards in any shape or form or wording, it is met with female vitriol and shaming. Even if women don't hate the men they reject, they still treat them with contempt. That is ultimately why when a man says he's unattracted to a certain woman, no matter what, he hates her in the eyes of women.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:06 PM
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And you got a thousand people telling you both you're morons and unwilling to engage in debate / straw man / bad faith
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:02 PM
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When men do it, they're incels. When women do it, it's normal.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:01 PM
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Lilith is a well known meme on PPD so you being exactly like her isn't exactly something to be proud of
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 05:58 PM
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Exactly.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 05:04 PM
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Ok Lillith
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 03:27 PM
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I wouldn't want to be a kind partner, because that's what kills women's attraction unfortunately. Men have two choices, be a kind partner who gets 0 pussy and respect, or be a stoic man who has conviction in his beliefs, doesn't take her bullshit and gets laid whenever he wants.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 01:47 PM
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If all you do is lump men into 1 category, explain how you don't hate men?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 01:44 PM
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A lot of men here seem like they would be very angry, bitter, and spiteful in a relationship. They seem like they would be verbally or emotionally abusive Lol "I don't hate men" accuse their wife/ girlfriend of cheating or constantly be worried about fairness This is why men go for low bodycount women
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 12:04 PM
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but overall no woman looks at him with genuine attraction just because he is a good feminist ally or something of that nature. The white knights are quaking right now
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:53 AM
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And the best part, none of this exists outside of the internet (except maybe passport bros)
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:51 AM
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I think this works the other way too though. Like my mom has a really strong manly jaw for a woman and I inherited that.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 11:33 PM
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I've been called incel on here and PPD countless times, I literally have a roster rn "Incel" now just means you disagreed with a woman one time.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:31 PM
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bodycount determines this 100% If she's low bodycount I'd wait pretty long. Probably 2-3 months. If she's high bodycount, I'm not waiting and I'm not committing either way so it doesn't matter.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:23 PM
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Bro. You're trying to tell me all men are the same yet somehow I'm the one who dislikes women? Get a grip on reality.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 04:02 PM
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I don't even watch porn or have a sex addiction, this is so easily dismantled that it's not worth bothering to. I want you to stew in your misandry
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 02:10 PM
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I don't care to prove why it's wrong. I'd rather just point at laugh when the misandrists expose themselves.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 01:11 PM
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Because you're a misandrist and don't want there to be any nuance, you just want to paint all men as 1 of 2 things
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 12:51 PM
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Lmao I knew you were just a misandrist in disguise
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 12:28 PM
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lmfao this post is dumb af. If you don't think Floyd gets laid you're delusional
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 12:19 PM
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Wouldn't a harem need to know about each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:49 PM
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Are you OK with your girlfriend also sleeping casually with other men? No. I mean currently I just have a rotation of situationships who don't know about each other. Essentially I would just want them to be exclusive to me, and nothing else changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:35 PM
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RP can be used by any dude. I guess the goal is to improve your place in the marketplace. Like a beta dude will gladly take a LTR/marriage since it's an improvement from nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:27 PM
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Wait I don't understand, how did he treat her like shit for 40 years but she was also trying to branch swing the entire time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:33 PM
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If you take a look at men's complaints about dating it always falls into the same categories: They don't feel wanted/desired They don't feel needed Providing satiates the feeling of being needed. That's why when women blurt "I don't need no man", men are like "ok the feeling is mutual". Men don't want to be with a woman who doesn't need him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:44 PM
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q4all: Do any of your parents display toxic RP traits? Like for instance my mom won't stay with a guy for more than 2 years. She always gets bored of them. She says the whole "I love you but I'm not 'in love' with you"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:39 PM
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You already missed that boat unless you're 23 or younger. It'll be a blink of your eyes before you're on r/datingoverthirty then r/datingoverforty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:00 PM
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I agree, but I don't think we're allowed to talk about race here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:59 AM
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I don't actively pursue his content, but I can only count 1 time where I actually disagreed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:09 AM
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I'd prefer a relationship but not willing to sacrifice my standards or access to casual sex. I almost wonder if I'm better off just doing poly or like demanding a situationship/multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:07 AM
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I'll entertain this brain exercise. If women only date up, then how will men date women unless they date down?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:50 PM
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Sure, if you'll concede that being in a relationship from 24-44 in your prime dating years as a woman is better than being in a relationship at 45+, not only in quality of relationship but quantity years spent with someone you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:24 PM
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Ok that doesn't change the point, 0-1 is the best odds of success and that's generally what traditional marriage used to require; a virgin bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:19 PM
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40-45% of women expected to be single by 2030 has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:18 PM
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How do you propose we do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:18 PM
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IFS study shows 0 and 1 partners being the lowest risk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:54 PM
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Bro I'm just saying you're a smidge away from clinically obese so "I'm not fat" is kinda c*pe?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:49 PM
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got stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:48 PM
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I mean sure they can find a partner after 45 years old. But we all know women's options drastically go down as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:43 PM
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homie you're at 29.5 BMI and 30 is considered 'obese'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:42 PM
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watch as they become self-aware and realize they're arguing against their own logical fallacies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:41 PM
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Why not just continue vying for whatever you want and let all this poor unfortunate single women just exist outside of your radar? They generally are invisible to me, I'm just posting this for shits n gigs. But yes, I do believe this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:38 PM
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5'4 and 170 is at 29.2 BMI which is so close to 'obese' that the classification is arbitrary. Also I'm gonna need a link to 4-9 being lower risk of divorce, all studies I've seen don't agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:37 PM
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You clearly didn't read it because it says 25-44
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:19 PM
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They'll be single and lonely just like they wanted! yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:18 PM
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45% of women expected to be single by 2030
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:15 PM
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Exactly, so the number of people who are exactly at 2 include religious women who've been married and divorced at a much higher rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:14 PM
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dating aged women, so 18-40
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:12 PM
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It's closer to 40-45% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:05 PM
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Men don't have to carry children though, so their fatness doesn't impact the health of their child. Also 5'4 at 170 is higher BMI than men at 5'9 and 197
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:44 PM
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I gave the reasons why, which are supported by data that everyone here knows. Sorry, dating is ruthless in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:41 PM
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Sorry not most* Just 45%. Slightly under half
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:39 PM
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My post uses actual averages & data while yours could possibly just be a larp and completely anecdotal anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:38 PM
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The women with bodycounts of 1-2 are most likely religious as well, could just be their 2nd marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:38 PM
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you heard me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:36 PM
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something something joe byron
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:33 PM
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women with a bodycount of 0 have the highest chance of success
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:32 PM
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Well not everyone gets in a relationship so obviously a lot of people will just have to be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:31 PM
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weird huh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:31 PM
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anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:30 PM
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"I can slut around and still be monogamous one day!" - some ppd woman and now me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:24 PM
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Women peak at around 25, men at 30. That actually aligns with your 'global 4.2 year marriage age gap'. Sorry just spittin facts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:23 PM
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oxymoron sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:22 PM
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Sure they're thin, but usually ran through. So I'm just being very casual with them until I find the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:21 PM
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cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:32 PM
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Good thing you're not fucking women and I am, so your rating means jack shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:12 PM
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negative 5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:11 PM
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That's pure unfiltered delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:10 PM
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my brother in christ she is a straight up 2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:06 PM
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There's no skinny girls on ppd lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:06 PM
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I don't think they're actually attracted or have varied taste, they're just so exhausted from having 0 pussy that their standards are in the gutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/145l8th/do\_men\_like\_plus\_size\_women/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:00 PM
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I'm definitely more shallow than most men because I'm allowed to be picky. Look at the "are men attracted to plus size women" thread and see the sad state of men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:59 PM
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Women: I'm gonna post the most unattractive women I can find and see if men say they're attracted to them And what's even sadder is like half of the men said yes. Imagine the reverse, posting a short bald indian janitor and asking women if he's unattractive. Women would be completely unapologetic about it. Simps ruin dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:51 PM
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bruh the one girl is like a B cup while 35-40 BMI, you're capping
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:42 PM
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women: but 80/20 isn't real and women aren't hypergamous!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:31 PM
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Yep because the shit being said accurately reflects them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:28 PM
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For all the centuries of women gaslighting and saying that they're the less shallow gender, when in fact they are the more shallow gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:59 PM
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I can say men shouldn't procreate with ugly women but then we'd go extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:55 PM
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It's a valid concern of women's just like men's valid concern of high bodycount women. I don't think it's cheating but it's not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:20 PM
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You usurp the father like Zeus did to Chronos and take his throne
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:26 AM
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I don't really watch porn or anime but ok lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:24 AM
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They're small boobs for how big they are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:19 AM
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No. The women in your link have very unlucky body types, like big bellies and small boobs. Generally bigger girls can be somewhat redeemed with big titties and better WHR but these girls are just SOL. edit: lol at getting downvoted for answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:18 AM
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lmao nope
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:52 PM
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It's about as rare as a 6/6/6 chad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:29 PM
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Still haven't found her yet, but I'm young. I got time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:49 PM
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For who? Someone else maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:46 PM
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fit feminine and friendly (and low bodycount) so yea pretty much a unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:41 PM
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Man looking for a relationship Woman obliges him and has sex, in the hopes of a relationship Man doesn't want to pursue further, ghosts or just tells her he's not interested Women will say it's not casual, men will say it's casual in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:38 PM
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Women want monogamy from men who could be polygamous, and want polygamy from men who can't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:11 PM
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I think I'm pretty squarely in the middle as a moderate, but I end up dating liberal women (because it does seem like that's all there is). My perspective: Liberalism hates masculinity. Essentially they've created this narrative that gender roles are bad yet I see TONS of liberal women who want me to pay for the date, open the door for them, be masculine in tone, etc. You are giving mixed messages to men. I acknowledge that liberal men are probably more beta on average. I mean you can't go "it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:14 PM
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Nope just 5'11 - 6' and I'm 25
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:27 AM
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The same advice as redpill, they just don't think it's redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:48 PM
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Ok this is me guessing who's fat here: Original Post Everyone who asked "guess me" is probably thin, everyone who reacted negatively or sarcastically is probably fat. Thanks for the self reports lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:43 PM
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You know how you can like tell when someone is fat just from their voice? I can tell which of yall are fat from the way you type
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:48 PM
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I suspect under 5% of all relationships are initiated by women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:17 PM
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You didn't answer my question though. This should be reportable for trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:38 PM
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Do you think men and women are the same then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:10 PM
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Cuz most "redpillers" are just blackpillers in disguise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:37 AM
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I've had girls tell me that they considered ghosting/unmatching me because they felt I was too attractive for them. Just normal low self-esteem woman things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:18 AM
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Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:43 AM
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it gets easier relative to women, who hit 30 and it's basically over. They either gotta date 10 years older or be celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:58 PM
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Lmao pre-selection bruh, women would all just swipe the same guys anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:23 PM
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I mean I don't go overseas but I'm just saying it's a pretty obvious reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:19 PM
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Most men don't get to pick, they get chosen. Idk why this is so hard to grasp for yall. Men only get to pick when they're attractive & thus have options and choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:04 PM
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Women typically say "Your league is who you can attract" as a gotcha for men who have to punch down on OLD. Everyone knows men have to punch down on OLD but women want to act like because there's a 2:1 ratio that they somehow magically got hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:41 PM
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Both, it's off-putting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:40 PM
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Fuck? Yes. Spend quality time? Probably not. They wouldn't be seen in public with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:46 PM
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Yes she used the word "hate" to make it extremist when she knows that hate isn't the correct word.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:42 PM
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Usually people are more coy about that until they've established some dependency
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:40 PM
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Hello women A man not wanting to commit to you doesn't mean he hates you. Do you hate all men that you don't want to have sex with? Get a grip, jesus H
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:37 PM
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I'm quoting exactly what a woman said. "Hate"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:35 PM
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Barely tolerate = hate? That's a leap
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:35 PM
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I gave her a shot, I really did
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:34 PM
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Men not wanting to commit to a woman doesn't mean they hate them. Do you hate every man you don't want to fuck? Seems toxic ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:34 PM
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I literally copied a woman saying men hate them, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:33 PM
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For people who've been in a toxic relationship, I guess. I'm talking about a new relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:32 PM
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I think men used to care about paternity uncertainty and that's like the biological explanation, but now that everyone uses condoms and birth control; there's still a disgust of hypergamy. Hypergamy is very cuckold-like. Women don't want to fuck a guy and then downgrade after, aka "settle". Men have no issue with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:32 PM
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It’s not a flex to hate the women you sleep with. This is just an obnoxious bias to shame fuckboy behavior. Nobody fucks people they hate. This is now how human dynamics work. Two people need to at least like each other and maybe have things in common before they fuck. Now the man may or may not commit to her from certain behaviors that set off red flags, but that doesn't mean he hates her. It's women's job to prove themselves to men if they want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:21 PM
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I prefer getting high pressure blasted in a sanitizing chamber, takes 5 seconds and kills 99% of germs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:16 PM
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Ok nevermind, 31 year old chick icked me. I'm sticking to young girls moving forward. These older women are too jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:14 PM
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Women love to use BMI in their arguments but never bodyfat percentages where women are way more unlikely to fall in unhealthy ranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:12 PM
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Bruh I really don't care for pity parties. The point is women find these things attractive in men, so if you want an attractive woman then do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:07 PM
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No, it's because men care about bodycounts precisely because of hypergamy. If women were fucking like men, I don't think men would have a problem with high bodycounts. And surely men would not have an issue with getting pump n dumped, because most men don't care about a relationship title. It's precisely because women demand monogamy that men want low bodycounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:03 PM
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It's just not even something I can comprehend. If a woman had male sexuality, then they'd be ok with fucking down which goes directly against hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:44 AM
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Not fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:41 AM
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It could be that men genuinely like their women but women just see their men as trophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:09 AM
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The only options she gave were white countries. It just looks like color discrimination as a guise for shaming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:47 AM
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women don't listen to what men find valuable until it's too late (or just never)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:27 AM
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No she's male brained and listens to male advice; which is what women call a pickme but I call it optimizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:23 AM
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Nah no dude is going to be ok with punching that far down
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:58 AM
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He could wait for a 6 but it probably won't ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:09 AM
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I'm assuming he'd commit to a 6 but the 6s are flaky on OLD. He won't commit to a 4/5 but those are the only ones giving him attention. It's the same story of every man who's dated irl and on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:47 PM
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On OLD, men have to punch down an extra point or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:36 PM
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Europe, Italy, or France So white people, white people, or white people? This post is sus on the racism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:53 PM
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I said poison, not wine. Actual poison
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:49 PM
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I think you're hinting at society having a blind spot in detecting creepiness in men versus women. Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:48 PM
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All relationships are formed this way, whether it's overt or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:07 PM
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Well when most women say nerd they mean chiseled jaw fit, thin guy who just so happens to wear glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:06 PM
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Nerds are meta right now though, jokes on you. I'm getting tons of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:01 PM
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This is like a more complicated explanation for simping
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:59 PM
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I only engage in casual sex as part of my vetting process. Women are much more honest after you've had sex and they have no more leverage left. If women were forthcoming about their bodycounts and sexual past and other shit prior to sex, I wouldn't need to do this. Women gatekeep sex / men gatekeep relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:49 PM
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If you don't gatekeep sex, then surely you are giving sex out to every Joe Schmoe who hits on you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:48 PM
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It's one sided for a few reasons; I want sex and women gatekeep sex. This dynamic shifts once I get sex though, and she wants a relationship. This is just how dating is and has always been. If you don't want traditional dating, go for some ambiguous boy/girl who doesn't uphold gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:46 PM
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I disagree, I think if women were male brained, men would be all over them. For example Pearlythings, who is definitely very average looking has a metric shit-ton of simps
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:45 PM
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You have to show value as a man in order to attract women. I mean I shouldn't need to explain this to people, it should just be common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:56 PM
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Those guys have to do literally everything I said above to get a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:03 PM
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redpill is about self-improvement to get women, not crying about the state of dating and going mgtow. So... yea
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:56 PM
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redpill turns you mgtow? I don't think you're doing it right buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:37 PM
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Does mean equal creepy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:12 PM
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I've seen Chadfishing but I haven't seen what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:10 PM
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I see, so she actually has to borderline SA someone before it's creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:09 PM
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Was this a lesbian relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:04 PM
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This is a very noticeable minority of average looking women with extremely low self esteem. And they're all here on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:49 PM
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I generally agree, but this is a spectrum. Most women have had what men would consider a pump n dump, aka a guy out of their league fucks them and dips while the girl was looking for more. Some women have this happen once, and learn their lesson and stop. Some women do this endlessly and rack up huge bodycounts. And there are a very small chunk of women who legit can have casual sex and aren't looking for relationships who just get huge bodycounts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:33 PM
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I agree but then if you're arguing that it's ok in the meantime; you're acknowledging that it's still bad and if it's only done in a small amount it won't hurt you "that much". A good analogy would be drinking poison. "Well, if you only drink a small amount it won't hurt you that bad" but it doesn't net gain you anything, only net negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:57 PM
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No, most men jerk off to porn but you are arguing that men should never chase women and only jerk off to porn, which is exactly the "hermit" I was describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:28 PM
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Just as women don't owe men sex, men don't owe their productivity, labor, protection or sacrifice to society to pay for single moms. But that's the point. You can't expect sex when you don't provide anything. If you want to subvert your expectations and just live as a hermit jerking off, go for it. I wouldn't nudge any man I actually was friends with in that direction though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:13 PM
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Anything when not done in moderation is harmful, that's why I said that. You and the OP are talking about 2 different people, one guy who uses porn occasionally and one guy who completely relies on porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:06 PM
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Porn is a crutch. Typically men do masculine things in an effort to attract a woman, they: Get jobs Work out Eat healthy Take initiative Porn cuts right to the reward (ejaculation) without needing any of the former. It doesn't teach men how to be successful in life, and when not done in moderation will actively harm them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:49 PM
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I'm not looking directly for casual sex but if it happens, I'm not going to turn it down. I do want a relationship at some point but I'm also picky on who I commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:11 PM
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It's true, I've done this. Although it was a mix of too thirsty and too forward that ultimately turned me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:08 PM
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I would advise her to make men wait, because it will weed out guys who feel lukewarm about her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:06 PM
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link please
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:02 PM
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therefore lack empathy for "some loser" that has to pay for sex? I never said "some loser", you did. That's lacking empathy. I do feel bad for men who have to resort to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:01 PM
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You can have self respect and swipe right on girls that gross you out lmao I swipe left on like 20% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:57 AM
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Lol the stats show that over 5% of women 18+ are literally virgins, so just in America there's a 10s of millions of virgins alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:34 AM
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Yes women love to bring up how it was 50 years ago but avoid talking about right now in the present, where you have to be a 6'3 chiseled Adonis on PEDs to get into a movie as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:06 AM
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By extreme male sexuality do you just mean polygyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:54 PM
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modern moral sensibilities aka feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:50 PM
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Me personally? I know to hide it, but that's the point. I wouldn't be outright and say I want a big titty waifu.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:09 PM
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What if they said they want a big titty waifu who is smart and loyal and funny? I don't think it makes it any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:53 PM
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Even if she asked you what your preferences are, it still would get a negative reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:52 PM
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Like my friends care a lot less than I do. They'll date any woman from 5' - 6' and have no issues. That's what I meant. I don't think women being taller makes them more masculine, I just am not attracted to tall women. She can still be tall and feminine and I would still be unattracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:23 PM
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If having hot women as their models didn't work to sell product, they wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:21 PM
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I don't think in general men care too much about height but me personally, I don't find tall women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:18 PM
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There it is, just making sure to get straight to the misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:05 PM
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If a gay man wrote "looking for a big cock to fit my wide as" he'd get 0 responses. Lmao this is a goofy ass argument because I know for a fact that gay men do this and it there's no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:00 PM
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Link me a chadfish with the bio I stated and I want to see how it does
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:55 PM
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But once you're in bed with her, almost every woman wants you to say you love her tits. Ok, now we can just be honest and overt about it. Ok let me give an example like this. If she asks you what you're looking for in women and you say "I prefer big boobs", even if she likes you, it will disgust her on some level. Maybe if she likes you enough she can overlook it, but either way it's never a positive. Women know they're in a seller's market, especially on apps. The amount of guys swiping left be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:54 PM
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How is wanting a big titty waifu unpleasant exactly? Can you explain that to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:51 PM
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Literally the only reason I would never use a sex worker is because I don't need to. It has 0 to do with the personal connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:50 PM
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Victoria's Secret isn't "body positivity", it's sexualizing/objectifying Victoria's Secret sells women's products to women, so who is sexualizing/objectifying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:48 PM
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Most women are disinterested to disgusted by the sexuality of men they aren’t interested in. This only applies if the guy is also interested in her. If he's not interested in her, he's a pedo/predator/insecure/whatever other keywords women like to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:45 PM
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It doesn't even need to be in your bio. If you dropped this during a 1st-3rd date, it would probably result in negative feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:44 PM
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Because they aren't deluding themselves into believing that all bodies are equal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:43 PM
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Yes, male preferences are creepy. Are you oblivious to how accurately my original post is depicting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:42 PM
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You're proving my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:46 PM
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Yes, there is an objectifying quality to this that will ick people, but I do think it goes deeper than that. People don't like to be calculated as numbers, not in 1 or 2 traits but any traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:44 PM
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Someone just posted Dua Lipa's new boyfriend recently who's in his 40s and he was getting shamed on reddit. High status celeb guy (I forgot his name) They will shame him if they can't have him, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:43 PM
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That doesn't stop me from getting the ick from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:41 PM
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You don't reveal them because you know it will ick men, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:09 PM
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Since body positivity does not apply to men, it's essentially just another form of shaming men's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:57 PM
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No they aren't lmfao Women are extremely quick to throw out the word "predator" even for high status men that would gladly be in a relationship with. Why do you think Leonardo catches so much heat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:56 PM
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Because it's objectifying and dehumanizing, reduces men to a measurement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:55 PM
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That's the point, there's an innate disgust about it. That's why people have to hide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:47 PM
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Maybe you individually, but the entire body positivity movement; aka fat women should get victoria's secret deals is not my imagination. And you never hear about body positivity for men, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:27 PM
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The odds of finding a whopper and an acorn requires pretty big bodycount, as most men tend to fall within the same size range. So point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:10 PM
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That would require at least 2 bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:01 PM
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Even worse Bye felicia
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:46 PM
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Sure but I would assume to develop a preference you'd have to try a wide variation of sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:45 PM
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If you've had enough partners to develop an actual dick size preference, then congrats, you've given me the ick (and most men). Sorry not sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:24 PM
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holy shit this makes me uncomfy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:14 PM
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Right. America claims it's socialist capitalist but heavy emphasis on the capitalist part, where a lot of European countries have actual socialist things that benefit average people.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 03:18 PM
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The secret is that it's not just internet women, bro. The internet is just what you get when people are unfiltered via anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:14 PM
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Yea those countries also don't have unadulterated capitalism, and a probably didn't even get solid internet access until recently.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 02:12 PM
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This is just cap. There isn't a country with more entitled, woke people than the US. That country may be in the early stages of 4th wave feminism but it's not even close.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 01:24 PM
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Yes, give them 20 years and they will be in advanced stages of feminism like the US is
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 01:23 PM
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Yes that's why a lot of Europe is included when people talk about "the West", these countries are in the beginning stages of what the US is in now
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 08:51 AM
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It's all due to feminism bruv. When women have too much power, this is what happens. And ironically, women can only have this much power when men hand it to them.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 07:01 AM
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I'm not even denying dickpill, I'm saying this post specifically doesn't have any evidence of dickpill lol
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 09:22 PM
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Maybe if he specifically said that the other dude's dick was bigger, but he didn't and you're just assuming.
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 05:25 PM
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Where's the dickpill, he didn't even say anything about the size
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 04:46 AM
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I wouldn't get any because I'm already attractive, it would be like min/maxxing at this point and I don't have the money or want for that
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 03:40 AM
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Women: "Why can't I be a slut, men are so insecure" Do you want the men or not? If you don't want them, then why would you care if they're insecure? Unless we're onto something here and you know that most men care.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:08 AM
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My standards are high because I have tons of options. Low bodycount / no casual sex is my number 1 Nurturing Submissive Same sense of humor as me Non-religious or at least not a fanatic No children College educated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:00 AM
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Active makes sure that she doesn't become fat in her 30-40s. Any woman who says "I don't need to exercise" is probably looking ok in her 20s and ends up like all the other women who smash into the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:55 AM
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I have sympathy for incls. I have even tried to help a few of them out with varying success. A lot of their struggles come from being beaten down their entire lives, a perpetual negative feedback loop. I don't believe there are that many "true" incls. Most of them actually just need slight adjustments and self-improvement and they can get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:53 AM
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This is socially acceptable misandry. Imagine if a man said the reverse of this, how he would be lit on fire and destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:51 AM
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There is no Stacy hot enough to make me tolerate bad behavior. I have too many options to deal with that shit, I'll surely find a better woman down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:50 AM
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There isn't anything because men are generally honest and forthcoming
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:48 AM
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The dude is settling cuz he's getting a woman who isn't as good looking as his exes, and she's also lower value aka single mom with multiple baby daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:47 AM
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Is this a self report? There are billions of women below 20 bodycount lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:46 AM
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Complete cap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:45 AM
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If a man wants to have sex with a hot uneducated woman (career waitress/hairdresser/barista) no one seems to care - barring a huge age gap. Meanwhile, if a woman wants a short term fling with a hot guy who can bench press 3x his IQ all of sudden it becomes a problem. If men are insecure, then why do you care if they don't want to date you when you have a high bodycount? Seems like you're complaining about the guys you don't want? Unless....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:45 AM
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I'm about to give you the entire life cycle of PPD in shorthand Women ask why men don't want to commit to high bodycount women Men say because women won't stay committed long term Women ask for studies and research on this Men give studies and research that women don't ever click to open Women say "why r u so unscientific!!" The end. This is every argument that's ever been had on PPD. You're welcome, thanks for stopping by
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:51 AM
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Any standard a man has is shamed: Want a low bodycount woman? You're insecure Want a young woman? You're a pedo Want a thin woman? You're fatphobic The only standards men are allowed to have are the ones that women have for men; like wanting someone with an education or a career
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:42 PM
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because feminism is what most women innately believe, the same way redpill is for men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:41 PM
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Yep? See how feminism isn't any different from redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:36 PM
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Women don't want to build a man's confidence. They want a man who's already impenetrable from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:09 PM
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Tate is the inevitable result of the pendulum swinging too far to the left All of the cancel culture propaganda Feminism being pushed everywhere including businesses and movies now. This includes movies where all male characters are dopes while women get to be badasses. Bonus points if the male characters are white. Lib-Left not having a solution for the sexlessness epidemic and in general just alienating men. The left has no answers for men. They have no role models or heroes to look up to for …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:30 PM
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Women will do anything to undermine men's standards, preferences, boundaries in order to bolster their own. Once you realize this, then you can stop giving af what they want and play the dating game for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:47 AM
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get tired of searching for “the love of our life” sad story but that's the consequences of 'sexual empowerment'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:18 PM
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why 15 years older than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:16 PM
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Sort of. But is it wrong for an oppressed group of people to fight against being oppressed? I always hear this get thrown around but in America, women make more money, have higher college graduation rates, lower suicide rates and homelessness rates, better mental health. How exactly are they oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:39 PM
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In fact much of society has already done that No? Feminists have been fighting against men's standards much to the chagrin of men. There's obviously a gender war brewing right now, and at the epicenter is feminism vs redpill. Women think shaming men into having no standards = men accepting their high bodycounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:54 PM
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Because the "lower your standards" comment wouldn't need to be said if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:28 PM
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It says even the female chief was valued for her virginity in this essentially poly culture lol Since cultures have shifted recently into more global cultures, it has shown that most cultures seem to value the same things. Women valuing height in men is not specific to America, women across the globe do this. In the same way that men value purity across the globe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:26 PM
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Do you have any scientific backing on this or is this just some new weird form of misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:24 PM
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Can any of you read? This hypothetical girl wouldn't need to lower her standards if she were as hot as she thinks she is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:33 PM
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Name one single culture that values female promiscuity. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:32 PM
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Americans as a whole have gotten fatter but then you're moving what is considered average if everyone gets fatter as a whole. Globally, men haven't gotten uglier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:31 PM
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Yes, I just said the consequence of her sleeping around is that she's dissatisfied with the men who will commit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:29 PM
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The 3 celebs you mentioned all work out my dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:28 PM
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I can give an apt real life example: a feminist woman tries to 'defy' bodycount double standards by sleeping around in her 20s and then ends up dissatisfied with her male options in her 30s. It's so common of a theme at this point it should be a meme format.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:14 PM
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Which means that attractive women are dating and marrying attractive men, no matter how much some resident PPD incels want this to be fake news. I mean, you said it yourself: That's not my argument. My argument is that the so-called attractive women aren't that attractive if they need to lower their standards and that most women think their looksmatch = lowering their standards. It's honestly kind of ironic, especially considering that recent tiktok about women who wouldn't date their genderbent…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:10 PM
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If you think those people don't exercise then you're just delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:08 PM
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bruv women are just as bad, this isn't specifically a male change
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:06 PM
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can usually find a man if they lower their standards a bit She wouldn't need to lower her standards if she were actually hot. This is the crux of your guys' entire argument because women are completely clueless/delusional about their own SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:33 AM
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Because women think all women are hot; they're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:27 AM
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There's consequences for trying to ditch them too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:10 AM
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can usually find a man if they lower their standards a bit You already said it yourself. The revenge fantasy isn't that they're cat-ladies, it's much worse. They're doomed to marry their looksmatch (how horrible!) and be miserable with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:53 AM
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What if I don't want to ditch double standards? What if they're there for a reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:51 AM
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Evolution doesn't work that way. There's no species that devolves over the course of 1 single generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:46 AM
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I don't believe that men changed or devolved in the last 40 years since the advent of the internet. Is it really that hard to grasp that people's perceptions of each other change more easily than their physical body actually devolving?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:51 AM
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I think of it globally tbh, as yea the average in America is definitely skewed by how fat everyone is. What I personally consider a 5 is still better looking than the average woman in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:46 AM
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This but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:44 AM
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Men's value doesn't increase from getting sex. Their value has to already be there in order to get the sex, it's the opposite. Women don't need any value to get sex. Literally any woman on the planet can walk into the middle of a street and yell "who wants to fuck me" and will get some takers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:42 AM
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There's no such thing as natural value. It sounds like you just want to justify being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:40 AM
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I'ma start calling fat women "high gravity"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:53 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:49 AM
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Are you actually bluepill or is this ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:09 AM
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Oh man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:07 AM
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If you don't ever fully commit then you never have to worry about being dumped or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:06 AM
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For real. You all have seen 40+ single childless women irl right? They don't strike me as a happy bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:03 AM
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Have I ever gone for a girl I otherwise would not be attracted to due to her personality? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:00 AM
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You do need a certain amount of "tingles" or else the relationship is doomed imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:55 AM
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Only because they're older and can't afford having obnoxious standards. I mean I guess these women can hit the wall one day and become a PPD woman at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:31 PM
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Hang on, you said casual sex in the OP and now you're saying relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:26 PM
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They don't. I'm quite a bit above average looking for a guy and I've looked at some of the Tinder accounts of the women I match with. They get hundreds of matches and DMs per day. They literally can pick exactly the guy they want, it's kind of disgusting. 100 matches for me would take at least a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:19 PM
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For a casual dalliance yeah whatever - as long as you infer that they’re probably not going to murder or violate you and there will be no foreseeable life ruining repercussions then that’s really all the logic one needs to go ahead and do the devils deed. My man, it's just sex. It's not that big of a thing. If I'm not having a baby or catching an STD then it's just fun for me. Not everything in life needs to be treated like you're a Catholic nun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:16 PM
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There aren't really any celebs who are 'average' looking. I'm not saying that a woman who is a 5 can't struggle; but generally the women who resort to coming to dating subreddits like r/datingoverthirty and r/datingoverforty are generally vastly over rating their own SMV. People who date their looksmatch never struggle or seem to complain about it. On top of that, women have easily 10x the options that men have, so the same "if you're struggling you're just unattractive" that women tell men, app…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:08 PM
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Of course women don't have a hard time getting commitment eventually. That's minimizing the years of getting played by the guys she actually wants until she settles for some chump. I thought women on here argued with nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:29 PM
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I'd be open to it, but typically the dudes looking for you to fuck their wives; the women are atrocious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:27 PM
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I disagree on the notion that a mid woman is mid, if she's struggling then she is firmly below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:26 PM
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No, incels have 0 standards and still usually don't find a woman. The men like myself who have options are the only ones afforded to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:54 PM
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eurocentric doesn't just mean white though. It means european facial features, european body types, etc
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 07:53 PM
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Lmao that's a straw man and you know it. Most men on here are incels and don't even get to choose who they date, they get chosen or they live entirely celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:37 PM
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Men saying they have a preference for younger women is not shaming older women. Idk why yall get so butthurt about men having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:15 PM
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I can't even believe women defend age gap relationships when it's convenient and shame it when it's not. Any normal man dating a woman 17 years younger than him would be shamed into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:08 PM
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Being strongly attracted to certain features common in certain races isn't racist. These are born out of racism. For example eurocentric features being the most popular is due to systemic racism.
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 12:22 PM
3

Mila is quite a bit more attractive
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 12:13 PM
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Racial preferences are inherently racist. If you are excluding certain races, that's racist. If you are selecting only 1 race, that's excluding all other races, which is racist.
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 12:09 PM
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Do you want to bully them because they're ugly or because they're dorks? Are they dorks because they're ugly, have you ever considered this? Either way this is kinda cringe to read. Most women find me attractive too and I don't give af what less attractive people do.
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 12:03 PM
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I'd just pursue both (that's what I'm currently doing). If I do eventually become exclusive with 1 girl, then I'll drop the rest. If she doesn't respond within 24 hours, I assume it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:47 AM
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George Clooney married a woman in her 30s Clooney is over 60, wtf does this even prove The only people who seem to DEMAND submissive tradwifes are fake high value men who are not respected by polite society, like that Jonathan guy or Andrew Tate. Tradwives don't even exist anymore in 2023, most average people require dual incomes and so both people have to work and it forces egalitarianism. That doesn't mean that men still don't want submissive, feminine women just like women want dominant, masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:44 AM
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The women here just reinforce RP stereotypes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:42 PM
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If I were 60, I wouldn't bank on a 21 year old being loyal either. It's more to do with the woman than the man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:34 PM
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I don't think it does. Men factor the total value of a woman, if she were actually smart, loyal, hot, AND 18 then he would go for it. The issue is that she may be missing a few of those. Jeff Bezos isn't banking on a 21 year old being loyal to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:44 PM
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Just because men value youth doesn't mean that they will always choose it. I'm 25 and think 18 year olds are the hottest but I wouldn't ever date one because they're stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:02 PM
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There is no planet where Lena Dunham was ever a 5, even when she was she was on Girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:28 PM
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She's still younger than him and a lot better looking than his ex-wife (and him). He's damn near 60 and if he doesn't date a 21 year old then that confirms redpill is fake???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:59 PM
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but I can't stop cumming in all these ugly wahmen
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:42 PM
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I said you're a psychopath, not that you had a grammar mistake? You're a fucking ape with a keyboard
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:36 PM
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They're getting with me
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:12 PM
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My dude take your anti-psychotics, this post isn't even coherent.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:11 PM
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stop posting this stupid shit
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:10 PM
2

I am not interested in tall women. If she's like 5'6 or taller I wouldn't pursue.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:22 PM
2

Ah yes, more proof that feminism just = hypergamy on steroids Who would've thought that feminist women would come full circle and just share 1 man like in the 1100s
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:19 PM
1

absolutely disgusting lol
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:15 PM
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For what reason? So I can brag to incels about how much sex I get like you?
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:12 PM
1

Each individual time I had sex? How would I track that and why would I track that?
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 11:58 AM
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Women don't like being brought back to planet earth, more news at 10
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 11:55 AM
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Your friend sounds like a femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:45 PM
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There's a power dynamic in women being hypergamous even when they claim they want equality. Why would a woman making 6 figs need to have a man who makes more than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:03 PM
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I'm just saying that the reverse aka egalitarianism isn't ever favoring the man. If women want to be provided for and not have to work, there's some sacrifices they have to make, including their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:55 PM
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I find it demeaning to be required to make more money than a feminist woman who claims she wants equality and egalitarianism; but most men don't get to afford to have dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:52 PM
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She was a 3 before weight gain and a 2 now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:47 PM
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even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:46 PM
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She would just ask me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:45 PM
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I want to be the sole provider and for my wife to do all of the household stuff and child rearing. I currently make enough money to support that (although it won't be lavish), and I don't expect her to do 100% of the chores but I do expect her to do most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:42 PM
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bruv, I think this post perfectly demonstrates how delusional women are about what a 5 is. Seth Rogen could be considered above average looking for his age in a lot of photos and Lena Dunham is an actual 2/10 gremlin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:42 PM
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I can tell when a woman's 30 and surely most other men can?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:01 PM
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It's just women older than 30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:43 AM
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Nobody uses truerateme as their scale irl. I mean you can even look at it and just to be considered 6, you need to be top 20% already. Most people consider top 20% chad territory irl. Besides, half of the dudes listed at 5 are objectively better looking than the average man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:38 AM
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a 5/10 guy on a dating app doesn't get jack shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:43 AM
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Obviously the one with the LTR? I look at he woman with 4 short term relationships like she got pre-disqualified by 4 other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:07 AM
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Why would everything burn?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:42 PM
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Honestly you're right u/Last_Rule_2536, but I would raise that to a 7. I wouldn't look twice at a girl who wasn't at least a 7. But here's the thing, I can. The only time people throw a hissy fit is when they're punching out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:31 PM
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I can't see why you'd have a roster of men if you're trying to get commitment from them, seems counter-productive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:51 PM
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5'11 but I just tell women I'm 6'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:49 PM
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I have before lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:45 PM
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I take them out a bunch usually in the beginning until we get a bit familiar and then eventually move into the just hang out & have sex phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:43 PM
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I will never understand women who have casual sex with the expectation of getting into a relationship I always thought it happened this way for every dude until I came here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:42 PM
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Gross tbh but generally they are pretty loyal because they do actually want commitment from me. That's how these situationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:39 PM
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Yes Malibu Ken was dope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:38 PM
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If they are then I'll deplate and ghost them. I guess they could just do it without telling me and I'd never know but occasionally they slip and let me know and I remove them from the roster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:37 PM
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No. I don't need to tell them directly, they know we aren't exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:36 PM
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Well they don't ever stick around permanently. They all eventually realize they aren't getting full boyfriend treatment and stop, some of them last for months and some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:35 PM
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They're all 7s+, I wouldn't even waste my time with a girl below a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:32 PM
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Nah I know it's obscure and women don't like to think so I'll let them listen to their stupid shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:31 PM
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How often are you having sex? I see each of them about once per week, so generally 3 per week. If you met someone you did like enough to commit to, what do you think they’d think about your current situation? They'd probably not like it I would assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:30 PM
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Why? What? Because I can. Because I don't want to commit to them. There's plenty of reasons. Do you fuck them at the same time or separately? I wish lol, but no Why won’t you ever commit to them? They don't wow me. I am holding out for the one. Has there been any women you would like to commit to? I have had girlfriends before, yes. Do you talk about anything? If yes, about what? Of course we talk? The same shit all women want to talk about. Crystals and shoes and star signs and shit. Do you sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:27 PM
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Do they know? They don't directly know but they know we aren't exclusive Also what happened to the fourth girl? She wanted full bf/gf commitment and I denied it and she cut me off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:18 PM
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I'm fucking 3 different girls that I won't ever commit to - AMA Edit: it was 4 but I lost a plate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:14 PM
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They run the gamut. What I have noticed is that the worst type of condescending personality type: think like Drew Afualo or this girl. They always act smug in spite of being so unattractive which just makes them more unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:10 PM
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Oh. Then gl with that "chad" long term
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:05 PM
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The bar for what's Chad and Stacy must be really fucking low if half of you claim to be it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:01 PM
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It has only been replaced with the whole "cucked white man" or beta provider propaganda. The cucked white man thing is mostly in commercials and hasn't hit actual movies quite yet but give feminism a few more years. They're working on making cucking a regular thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:00 PM
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Shaming anyone's lifestyle is cringe, including trying to shame passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:39 PM
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I don't think it's any secret that dudes who work labor jobs are more attractive than the general population
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:50 PM
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Going on a date with someone just for the food with no romantic interest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:48 PM
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Yes, not the sugar baby but women have told me in the talking phase that they're height or size queens A woman telling me she's only with a guy for his money is the same thing as a sugar baby to me, and thoroughly gives me the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:45 PM
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All of the fucking time lol If she's ever cheated in her past If she's got a high bodycount Pretty much any standard female manipulative behavior like foodie calls, monkey branching Honing too hard onto 1 specific male trait and objectifying men such as: being a size queen, or being a sugar baby, or a height queen So I mean I get it when people say men & women are disgusted by each other's sexuality on a base level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:05 PM
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False. All of the most stereotypically attractive men: Hemsworth, Cavill, Brad Pitt when he was younger are/were on steroids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:01 PM
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Just like women's ideal of men who are on steroids vs natty. Steroids literally shorten men's life span but we still got every Marvel hunk on TV blasting them so you'll go watch their movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:53 PM
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The reality is that 20% of women are actually attractive, same as men. However women believe that it's in the realm of 80% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:42 PM
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Ok the OP is asking why dating has changed for the worse and I gave my answer? Nobody is making you type here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:40 PM
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well I'm not personally bitter about it, I just think it's annoying that women still try to pretend their attraction cues are somehow better than men's
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:28 AM
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I literally just said even women who don't claim feminism believe some feminist rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:27 AM
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The bitterness is because women always say they are this attraction should operate morally not physically and they aren't Women always want to act like their attraction cues are more multifaceted than men's
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:54 PM
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I suppose they're less angry about it but more bitter that looks matter to the extent that they do. Like women always try to portray themselves as if they're 50% looks 50% personality but the reality is like 90% looks 10% personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:11 PM
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Yep, so imagine dating as a guy how many batshit women we have to sift through to find someone who's ideals match the actual definition and not just some 1 sided nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:07 PM
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Example: feminist women still want men to pay for meals / provide / uphold masculine ideals while they don't uphold any traditional feminine things like having a low bodycount, looking traditionally feminine (no makeup, no shaving, tats and piercings). Some (not all) women who want non-egalitarian arrangements still want equal distribution of chores/child-rearing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:53 PM
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Worse because now I have to date feminists. Even a lot of women who want trad relationships have permeated feminist brainwashing, which leads me to believe feminism really is just a female supremacy movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:48 PM
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I am not easy, I am a lot pickier than most men and yet still have a high bodycount & women say I'm easy. The reality is I've turned down plenty of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:44 PM
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Lmao every time a guy tells me he "opened up" to a girl and she immediately went cold with him (including myself) yet somehow women want men to be more vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:00 PM
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high dex so she can be good at knitting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:28 PM
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Max weight: 140 lbs Max height: 5'3 Str: 20 Int: 3 Chr: 15 I will not date any woman who falls outside of this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:38 PM
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How do you rate your looks out of 10, and what about the women you get overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:31 PM
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The infantilization of these kids is due to older adults. Older women shaming men for dating younger, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:09 PM
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Probably not but there are a lot of women who are FDS-lite even if they don't follow FDS directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:52 PM
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you get a golden egg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:39 PM
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Yea that's what I figured
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:39 PM
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ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:09 PM
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Follow-up Q4W: What percentage of women are HVW?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:37 PM
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I don't believe 97% of men opened with "hey slut" or even that the 3 guys she did choose were chosen solely based on their intro message.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:30 PM
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Q4W: What percentage of women that you know personally would you qualify as a LVW?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:42 PM
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so low that only 97% of men can't cross it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:17 PM
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So what you're saying is you want only 3% of men or less since you said "hundreds of DMs", but it's not hard for men to find casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:33 PM
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All it takes to see the shift is date a woman irl, and date a woman from OLD. Any single dude on the planet will have to shoot 1-2 points down in looks on OLD compared to the women he will get irl. Now apply this on a massive scale and women actually think they've shifted 1-2 points.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:03 PM
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Men being initiators doesn't over value women. Simping overvalues women. Men who fuck way down overvalue women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:43 PM
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Just a reminder that the fat misandrists are always watching, waiting to click the report button
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:27 PM
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It's all infantilization of young adults because kids are still living at home into their mid-20s nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:25 PM
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Women don't like to realize/admit that they don't offer much besides sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:23 PM
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Well personally, I learned from the Chads she dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:39 PM
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Ain't it the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:07 PM
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I'm glad that I'm living in their head rent free
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:59 PM
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Uh oh I'm being targetted by creepy fat misandrists. What ever shall I do?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:52 PM
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Trick question because I probably won't ever marry. But yes I could be in a relationship with a woman who is dumb, especially if she met all my other criteria. Intelligence is probably one of the last things on my priority list.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:58 PM
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All of my plates are about my looksmatch I'd say. One of them is probably hotter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:57 PM
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What do you qualify sex if it's before commitment? Even if your intention is to be exclusive at some point, it's still technically "casual" because you aren't exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:54 PM
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Lmao every boy is told "only personality matters" growing up. Even my mom pushed this narrative (which is ironic because my mom is a chad chaser)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:51 PM
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And women aren't chaste virgins til marriage anymore, so we both aren't getting what we want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:50 PM
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Nah, one girl isn't going to give me the same amount of sex as my current rotation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:49 PM
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because you harp on fuckboys but never say anything bad about high bodycount women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:33 AM
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What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:29 AM
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Lmao what's the difference between a fuckboy and a high bodycount woman? Except you being biased against one and the other seems to be totally acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:24 AM
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I think women who are okay with casual sex typically remain okay with casual sex, and keep having it until they find an LTR. So a reformed hoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:21 AM
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If she's a reformed hoe then she will make you wait and think you simply weren't sexually compatible. I just ghost these
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:20 AM
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Nah, just act sex positive & then she'll tell you everything. It's easy as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:18 AM
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how many women are really becoming “reformed hoes?” 100% of the hoes Have you ever seen an actual woman who legit never wants a relationship for her entire life? This is a female fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:35 AM
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Except for all the women who claim they're "reformed" and "done with their hoe phase"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:03 AM
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Jokes on you, if they've had any casual sex with anyone, I'm pumping & dumping and not committing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:00 AM
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All you need to do to see that 2023 dating is fucked is step outside for 1 day and open your eyes. You need to be intentionally ignorant to not notice anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:54 PM
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Yes. That's the most literal definition of objectification you can get. You aren't putting work into your appearance to look 'different' from what other people want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:51 PM
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misandry is minimizing actual daily man hate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:05 PM
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"wanting to look good" is objectifying yourself lol You're literally conforming to what you think other people are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:50 PM
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Bro the entire reason people are bitching about dating in 2023 is because people are delusional about their SMV and women are getting pump & dumped en masse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:43 PM
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I hope he gets put away too, otherwise if he gets out with no charges, redpill will grow 100 fold. It will give him legitimacy to everything he's been saying if he gets out clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:04 PM
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I don't think there is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:59 PM
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They don’t actually think they’re 10s by conventional beauty standards. I don't care what their reasoning is, you see it all of the time. A lot of time I don't think they're trying to 'stick it to men' but they actually believe they're 10s. And it reflects in their dating choices (only going for Chads who pump and dump them)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:45 PM
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The issue with this is that women actually believe the extremely bleak truths they tell men. Like when a dude is truly unfuckable, short, unattractive, broke, etc: they still believe there is some woman out there who will fuck him and love him one day. Not them, but some other woman. Yes on a micro level they aren't interested but they're hoping that on a macro level since there's billions of women that one of them would like this guy but the issue is that they don't. Women don't want to believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:18 PM
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Women who post bikini pics on IG are the women I want to avoid for LTR. I don't want to be with anyone who needs validation & attention from random anonymous men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:11 PM
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I mean even from RP that I've seen, they don't say AWALT is all encompassing. Like there's always some women who don't fall under every trope, it just means the vast majority. Like 90+ percent of women. There's always unicorns. The issue with debating here is that every woman here thinks she's the unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:03 PM
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Well I'm 25 and have been with an endless supply of 20 year olds since I started my 'dating career'. It's actually gotten to the point where my friend's girlfriends have half-jokingly called me Leonardo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:01 PM
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Lmao no I'm an asshole, why do you think women love me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:58 AM
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I honestly think women are far more clueless on this than men. You'll never see a man who's a 4 say he's a 10. You see that shit with women all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:44 PM
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So you agree with the OP then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:48 PM
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There's no 'study' for it if that's what you're asking. If women were completely forthcoming about their sexual strategy then they'd ick every man they came across; they typically learn this at a pretty young age and tailor how they talk to men because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:27 PM
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Same, I've only disagreed with him on a few things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:26 PM
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I think after a certain amount of time together, there are topics/discussions that will place you (as the guy) firmly in the RP category and you wouldn't be able to hide it. Of course, this is well past the sex stage with a woman. I also do believe a lot of men are sort of fed the notion that "Tate is evil" by mainstream feminism but if they actually listened to him, they'd be 100% on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:44 PM
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It's not a lie, it's just not the entire truth. Women do this all of the time to avoid icking 100% of the men interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:42 PM
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No. I don't ask women to quit tiktok or crystals or other stupid shit they do with their friends. Gaming is the best quality time I get with my boys. Plus I already get plenty of sex so idc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:41 PM
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Usually I hold up a cross and start chanting prayers, usually the ugly people will wither away. Lol nvm usually I just flirt back for funsies but I don't pursue anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:22 PM
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Of course, no woman has ever done anything bad on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:23 PM
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The ones listed for women seem dark & sad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:52 PM
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Happy mother's day to all the mommy milkers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:43 PM
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Yea the requirement is that women need to approach you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:13 PM
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Lol the ones for women you listed are way fucking worse imo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:05 PM
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All the women I’m able to meet are women in bars/clubs and they are low hanging fruit. As soon as you have standards as a man your dating pool plummets by at least 75%. I wish I wasn’t repulsed by n-count Yep, that's why women don't want men to have standards. They want to have every single man as a possible option, regardless of their own behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:03 PM
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Don't complain about "men being afraid to commit" then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:00 PM
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This is an awalt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:59 PM
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It's just true. I mean even here, everyone thinks they're Chad/Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:57 PM
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Which fat women absolutely do. They don't take no for an answer, get your personal information from coworkers/friends, and call you gay if you reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:55 PM
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I don't think it can be done, because men and women are innately disgusted by each other's sexualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:49 AM
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Reason is he's not worth anything better so he can't deploy his hypergamy? ​ Everyone knows that guy or girl who was in a long LTR and then left and immediately got married or such. In women it was dubbed hypergamy, we pretend men dont do this too because.... Idk. Isn't that "deploying his hypergamy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:35 PM
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Honestly my hard limit is 10 and I think I'm pretty lenient compared to a lot of men. What I notice is that guys who are actual virgins will have a hard limit of 0, the thing is those guys are plentiful but they just get no opinions because they don't get picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:15 PM
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I know right, it's almost like women gotta have 20 bodies before they're allowed to post on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:39 PM
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I fit all the criteria, but I'm looking for a low bodycount queen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:31 PM
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Like building a life with someone seems cool but I'm hesitant since most people get divorced and it's usually the women initiating it; so it's like why waste 10+ years of my life for nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:03 PM
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Still not really sold on marriage so yea Idk if I ever will. It seems cool in theory
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:39 PM
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I think it's a mix of both. Women are more entitled than ever and also have more obnoxious standards than ever due to hive-minding on tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:08 PM
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Maybe you're a misandrist so everything bad that ever happens falls directly on men. Women have based their entire lives on tiktok, lost their jobs from it (which could've gotten them evicted), cancel and bully random people for their own enjoyment, enforce stereotypes just for some trend (aka racism/sexism/homophobia/transphobia). Yea I'd say it's far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:29 PM
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I'd argue tiktok is worse for the female brain than video games is for men, so it's overall worse. Do not marry women who use tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:09 PM
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The female equivalent is women who go on tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:44 PM
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there are never gonna be a vocal minority of women who declare their love for small to average dicks, for short men, for submissive behavior. They wont even be nuetral about economic success. The will profess their love for height above 6ft, and big dicks. The average man will find that he is not desireable becasue he has no representation in what women find desirable. ( Lets compare that with say small titted women, there is an entire subreddit where men profess their love for small tits, and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:40 PM
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I have no issue with it, but I think the woman's hypergamous nature would make her bothered by it so much that the relationship would end up failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:37 PM
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Keeping her around to have sex is what makes women so angry. Of course it does, women believe their sex entitles them to things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:35 PM
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Maybe if women self improved, men would see more on the horizon. Just thought, consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:34 PM
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Liberal Minded with Conservative values. ugh... these types of women are the worst because although they are fun and addictive in the short term they are quick to pull that "you need to be a traditional man" bullshit the instant she things your time and your attention belongs to her. What is this phenomenon? I've seen it too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:30 PM
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A lot of times it does end in a break up, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:28 PM
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what's that gotta do with being forever girlfriends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:25 PM
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Men are more overweight by BMI which doesn't account for bodyfat. Women are overweight by bodyfat percentage almost 2x as often as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:19 PM
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All I'm seeing here is that it's "man bad" for women being shit partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:16 PM
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Obviously women know this? Like obviously women know that they hold leverage by not giving a man sex and yet they do it anyways because they know that Chad will leave if they don't. They're afraid that some other girl will scoop up that Chad if she doesn't get to him first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:50 PM
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Any exercise really, but the fact is only about 10% of people exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:37 PM
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It's funny how you think that you're entitled to men's affection & if he no longer is interested in marrying you, then that is somehow legal r*pe. You're entitled to his intention as well as marriage for your sex. I think you probably shouldn't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:36 PM
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Yep same, except my girl lied about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:55 PM
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These are all valid as well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:12 PM
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And your dick clearly has low standards if that's the case. What kind of pathetic man keeps a woman around that he can't stand just so he has some place to park his dick every once in awhile? This is man-bad misandry my dude. No way around it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:49 PM
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No, what you see is “why stay with her then?” That's literally blaming the man for her being a bad partner...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:26 PM
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How long have you been here and you still won't accept that men will not turn down easy access to sex...?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:09 PM
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Women will only approach if: They think you won't They think you'll get away if they don't All of the other standard hypergamy things (you're more competent than her, funny, attractive, etc) You need all of these and then a woman may work up the courage to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:49 PM
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All of them make her a bad partner lol, but I guess in a woman's eyes gaining 100 lbs is totally acceptable (for the woman)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:38 PM
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Well tbf I don't really care if you stay single or not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:31 PM
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Nothing ever happens
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:26 PM
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They'd never tell you if they thought this irl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:25 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:25 PM
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I like how the woman being a poor partner is the man's fault in your eyes. Can women ever be bad? Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:22 PM
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I don't know any couples like this beyond movie troupes. But I hope these women leave because these men smell musty. You don't know a single situationship? Really? Good faith here Isn't the line "marriage is bad for men"? This seems to conflict with that. Make up your damn minds. It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:17 PM
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Actually yep, I didn't think of that one but a man not having as much sex as he expected would probably deter them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:14 PM
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Too bad they'd let you simmer in silence and you'd never know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:13 PM
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He could be hoping that she'll change or maybe start looking after herself (I know, basically a 1% chance right)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:11 PM
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Yea this is fair too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:09 PM
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What makes a woman deserving?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:07 PM
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desperate in which way? That they can't find another man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:03 PM
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A fat woman knows she's fat. This is the argument many people here are making, that everyone can see she's fat. You might say that knowing she's fat is different than knowing she's LVW, but I would say being fat isn't directly equivalent to that in the first place. Associated, yes. People generally find it less attractive than being fit. But it's only one factor in the equation (unless we're talking super morbidly obese). I've dated 2 fat women. Neither of them were remotely struggling with dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:39 PM
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6'5 6-7/10 Face guy lmao he doesn't disappoint. This dude literally puts this in every single post he makes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:32 PM
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Promiscuous men still by and large want non-promiscuous women though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:33 AM
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Similar but not exactly the same. This means there ARE other factors to consider, which could lead a man to choose woman B over woman A. Welp, you solved all of PPD. There is no discussion of anything since there can be the most miniscule amount of nuance in anything. So, you would pick a woman who JUST slept with 2 men in one week over a woman who was only with 1 man for the last 5 years? If the concern over body count is that the woman is impulsive, doesn't have self-control, is more likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:27 AM
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No point. I'm usually pretty direct and open about my bodycount with women, so they typically offer me theirs willingly. It also helps that I come off as sex-positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:24 AM
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You assume attractiveness and body count are the only factors for making a choice in long-term partnership as these are the only pieces of information presented to support your conclusion. The reality is that there are a multitude of other criteria for what defines a successful relationship. I acknowledged that it's not the only factors but for the sake of the CMV, we are assuming the 2 hypothetical women are similar. The context of how both women got their sexual history also matters. If woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:10 AM
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causing them harm because they don’t fit them Me not wanting to commit to some promiscuous woman is not "causing her harm", yall need to get a grip on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:00 AM
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weird
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:33 AM
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Q4W - Have you ever considered that you're possibly not that amazing of a potential partner and your personality might not be that great? Or does this just apply to all women unanimously
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:50 PM
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Which is often said here, in so many words
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:48 PM
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penetrative sex, so yes. Any penis going into any orifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:32 PM
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Yea then that just makes me feel no remorse when dudes lie to manipulate her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:47 PM
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introduce me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:45 PM
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What...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:31 PM
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If a woman told me unprompted that there is no benefit to choosing a poor man if you have options, and wrote a whole post comparing one guy that made 50k vs one that made 500k, I'd think she was being a complete diva. They just do it in real life and don't say anything about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:30 PM
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You can do what you want but why would you commit to the hoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:29 PM
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I'm finding out before commitment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:28 PM
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lmao no. Any woman can go down the street and say "who wants to fuck" and have 30 takers. Having a high bodycount as a woman does not prove any sort of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:22 PM
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How is this relevant in any form?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:21 PM
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I've already posted them in here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:14 PM
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lol yep
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:10 PM
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paying doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:07 PM
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Yes because I generally attract women who are pretty close to my looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:03 PM
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Everybody's a chad on here. I'm a chad too lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:51 PM
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All women have options though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:47 PM
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double digits?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:46 PM
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and are you high bodycount now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:01 PM
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This is for men who would commit though, you seem to be excluding yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:00 PM
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Anything in double digits is no longer wifable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:58 PM
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Man on PPD says anything about women Woman on PPD: "LOL U DONT GET SEX" yall are cringe, is this all u got?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:58 PM
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They can easily fuck the promiscuous women and commit to the wholesome women... The promiscuous women won't mind just adding another +1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:54 PM
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Are you committing though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:48 PM
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It does, it equates to lower odds of infidelity, higher marital happiness and lower divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:47 PM
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So why would she stay with you in that case? They often do monkey branch though so I'm not sure what your point is. Every stat points to marital dissatisfaction with higher bodycount so all of this fantasy BS about low bodycount women "needing craving to experience more" is just that, femcel fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:44 PM
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What does that have to do with the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:43 PM
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Yes, literally what you're posting is "If you don't agree with me then women don't have sex with you" Again, cringe af. This is equivalent of me saying you don't agree with me so you're probably a fat slutty girl irl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:42 PM
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I have never cheated and never will You don't know that because you can't predict the future. The fact is, having a higher bodycount makes you more likely. I can't account for a woman's future behavior but I can account for who I decide to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:40 PM
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Who's lying to women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:38 PM
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Hypocritical because the theoretical guy has options?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:36 PM
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I think this is what women tell themselves to over-compensate for a high bodycount. Anecdotally, the high bodycount women I've been with have been bad lays.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:34 PM
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"If you aren't having sex 16 hours per day then you're an incel" this is a new tier of cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:32 PM
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Please, women are the beneficiaries of divorce. They're legit incentivized to divorce men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:30 PM
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But my god have you never loved anyone ever.? It blows my mind almost DAILY how many men on this sub completely remove all human emotion and connection from relationship discussions and try to treat it like a math equation. This is how women treat men, yall made me this way lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:06 PM
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Yea but that's a different discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:04 PM
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Yes... because divorce is life ruining for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:59 PM
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"Any man who disagrees with me must be an incel" lmao cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:54 PM
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But often they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:51 PM
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I have options and I'm not going to settle. Sure, I guess if women A & B are clones except for body count then I'd pick A. High number of sexual partners is correlated with infidelity, whether we like it or not. ​ Yep that's the entire post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:50 PM
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Do you also think a man with options should only choose older, more educated women his own age? He should for the highest odds of successful marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:48 PM
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Where is that guy now? Happy with his new girlfriend. Or you think that because he has a high body count all of his relationship are doomed to fail? Because the point of the post is that high bodycount people can't stay together so you told me an anecdote of people who didn't stay together...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:46 PM
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LVW always feel like they're "missing out" while married
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:45 PM
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https://spark.bethel.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1005&context=psychology-students#:\~:text=Adults%20who%20are%20more%20promiscuous,their%20partner%2C%20and%20shorter%20marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:43 PM
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I got 4 girls on rotation right now but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:42 PM
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She said she was low at one point and is now high... which again, just proves my point. All promiscuous women have to start at 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:41 PM
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One was a former model and he had sex with +600 women Why do women always feel like this is some sort of gotcha? Where are these dudes now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:39 PM
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Sure then it wouldn't be a big deal. It 100% effects the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:38 PM
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Higher bodycount is higher dead bedroom risk as marriage dissatisfaction is directly correlated with higher bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:37 PM
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They wouldn't have higher marriage dissatisfaction then, but the stats show they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:36 PM
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Because the stats show that once you reach a bodycount of 5, your chance of divorce skyrockets (for both men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:16 PM
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If a woman has options, and all thing being equal , why shouldn’t she pick the man who is 2 inches taller, or makes 5k more? They usually do pick the guy who's 2 inches taller lol The only difference is that women can't guarantee what guy will commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:10 PM
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I never said that lmao I said high bodycount women always like to be over the top. They think that flailing around more = being better at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:09 PM
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I would say yes, because there is no gaslighting involved. If you're a LVM, then that's it. You know you're a LVM. A LVW does not know she's a LVW because she's always being gaslit by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:06 PM
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Also I’m curious if this situation was flipped - do you think women should only go for men that have a small body count like woman A? Depends, do they value male experience? Or do they value long term commitment and marriage longevity?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:04 PM
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She also knows what's out there and has no delusions about Mr perfect I believe this is the opposite. High bodycount women tend to make an amalgamation of all of the men they've ever been with and want all of those things in 1 man. They're the most delusional of any kind of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:03 PM
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No. All women have to do is be enthusiastic, the whole "sexual skill" thing is a cop-out. Most of the best sex I've ever had was not with high bodycount women contrary to them thinking they're all pornstars.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:02 PM
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Sure. But the hypothetical is that the 2 women are similar looks/demeanor/etc. If the stats showed that high bodycount women divorced less, then it would be a benefit to marry them but unfortunately they divorce at higher rates, and have higher marriage dissatisfaction rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:59 PM
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had a low body count Are you implying that it's no longer low? Doesn't that prove my point more? If you're just a serial monogamist you will end up high bodycount at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:57 PM
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That's the entire point. Why would I commit the rest of my life if it didn't benefit me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:40 PM
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Better at laying there? Surely there's a lot of skill required in opening your legs and being told what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:39 PM
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Yea and most women get pump & dumped and don't get commitment from the guy they want.
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 04:38 PM
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Lmao They're broken up, what a shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:35 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:32 PM
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Sure I agree, but in my hypothetical we're talking about 2 women on a similar level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:29 PM
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A man with low/no options wouldn't risk scaring you off by asking your bodycount, which you confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:28 PM
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On another note i dont think any man or woman who picks you based on what benefits they get from you is a good partner but thats just me, im calling out both sides of the coin. Most women won't even consider you unless you can provide for them, prove your competence, have good genetics (being attractive/tall), they just maybe won't outwardly admit it. So yes, they are directly looking for a partner that benefits them the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:22 PM
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Ideally you would both be virgins, but we don’t live in an ideal world. I disagree, since women typically want a man who can lead in the bedroom which requires experience. If a man has options and has a virgin who is interested in him, then of course he would take that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:21 PM
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Overweight women is harder, and I'll explain why. A broke man will get rejected on the front end. Women won't even associate with him. HOWEVER men can make up for being broke in other ways, being funny, fit, hot, tall, maybe they're in college so they're working towards making money, whatever. It's not a death sentence. For a fat woman, they will get fucked, pumped and dumped, toyed with emotionally and not taken seriously. This is why it's way worse for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:53 PM
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it's pickme behavior to trash other women who have higher smv lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 02:27 PM
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Most women are into me so I would say yea, it's just hard to find the right one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:13 PM
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Probably because western feminism hasn't tainted their culture yet.
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 11:55 AM
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I literally have a rotation right now lmao Anyone who says this shit isn't real is just delusional
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 11:52 AM
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Sofia Gomez
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:28 AM
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It all depends on her past. If she's low bodycount and has a 3 month rule with every guy, then this is cool. If she's high bodycount and gave up sex on the 1st date with a bunch of other guys and expects me to wait, fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:13 AM
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Men don't promote hookup culture but they aren't going to turn down easy access to sex. This is an example of things happening on a micro level that people don't care about but does effect the dating market on a macro level. I am able to participate in hookup culture and I still think it's shit. All it does is make it harder for me as a man to find a woman who isn't high bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:11 AM
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Why be the dumpy housewife Feminism doesn't get women in the gym, what kind of delusional take is this? There is nothing making dumpy women dumpy except for their own apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:10 AM
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Women control access to sex. If women weren't giving sex away before commitment, there would not be a hookup culture. But yes, women will justify anything for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:54 AM
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The hotter the woman is, the more she demands. Like a 4/10 is ok with a dude making 40k per year. But Stacy isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:08 PM
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What can I say, less men have standards than I thought if more than 50% (as you claim) didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:01 PM
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Whether you want it to happen or not, your money matters. Like even if a woman is RP aligned or not, she cares about your money. So there is no way to avoid the BB aspect of relationships. I guess you could lie and say you're flat broke and drive a padiddle but in reality what would happen is you'd pre-disqualify yourself from higher value women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:52 PM
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Generally no. I've had female friends, but it seems to always cross that platonic line at some point so I've sort of avoided it lately. Mostly my female friends consist of my friends girlfriends right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:50 PM
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You don't have to hide it but I'm sure if you outright said it to every dude you dated, 9/10 would ghost you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:47 PM
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I don't think he is, because he doesn't want some random becky. But if he wanted to destroy a marriage he could do it easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:06 PM
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How else am I supposed to get my dick sucked???? What's your plan homie?? Take her behind the 7-11 dumpster?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:49 PM
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That's the same thing. Either way, most women will throw away an entire LTR just to have a shot at locking down this hypothetical giga chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:45 PM
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Of course she does, she's been coming to my house like twice a week for the last 3 weeks now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:23 PM
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Meaning it dictates their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:57 PM
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Yes lmao, men are realistic and know they can't lock down a super famous giga stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:56 PM
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I'll give her 1 more month then I will ask the "what are we" question, then ghost right after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:56 PM
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Yea I would say over 50% would leave their LTR if for example Henry Cavill just DM'd them and said he wanted to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:27 PM
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Honestly I don't think I will fuck her. There isn't really a rush to anyways, since she's sucking my dick pretty much every time I see her. So I'm not worried about pregnancy or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:18 PM
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I think most women are so consumed by hypergamy that they would indeed just leave if some man with a lot of status came in and swooped her up. That doesn't necessarily mean all of them will, but that you just have to find the right woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:04 PM
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Why would I need to jerk off to it when she comes over to jerk me off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:00 PM
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I think it's crazy how far a girl who is "into domming men" will bend. Or the entire domming thing is just an act
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:49 PM
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Tinder Misandrist pt 3 The worse I treat this woman, the more she wants me. I mostly just did this as sort of a social experiment but this girl is literally crazy about me rn. I've even told her that she isn't worthy of getting fucked by me and should be grateful she gets to suck my dick... and she loves it. This has gone into weird bdsm territory that I have not done before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:43 PM
1

No, they exaggerate looks because they want it to be true. They don't want to accept that they're just a 5/10 chasing an impossible 8/10 Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:18 PM
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lmao what?? Most onlyfans girls make 100-200 per month because they're average. Only like the top 1% of creators actually make money because the market is so oversaturated with average women. In fact, I saw a podcast with two sex workers who were legit 2/10s and said they get roughly 20 clients per week. Like you can be in the bottom 1% of attractiveness as a woman and still some man will pay to fuck you and leave. It doesn't prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:40 PM
2

Yea so has everyone here. 90% of the people here are chads/stacies too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:50 PM
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their* You think you can have a LTR and it won't come up 1 time that you had an OnlyFans or were a sugar baby? Kinda short-sighted tbh. Anyways point still stands, you want to start a relationship on a lie, manipulate men, and somehow think that men will be stupid enough to not pick up on this (especially a high value one)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:48 PM
4

And you wonder why men feel expendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:13 PM
7

That's probably my #1 ick tbh, I wouldn't ever commit to a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:03 PM
6

I don't follow any females lmao
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 12:02 PM
2

self-awareness: 100
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 12:01 PM
3

Gets laid 1 time > I'm a guy with fairly easy access to casual sex Lmao what bro You got laid and spilled your guts to her and she got the ick most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:55 AM
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Both are friendzone, but I'd say B is probably closer because the guy is sticking around. But there are situations where A sticks around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:53 AM
1

Probably 21-24ish
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:50 AM
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None of these, there's plenty of women who are hot who don't look for ways to manipulate men or manipulate the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:48 AM
1

I mean the western world is all pretty fat relative to the planet... Probably the biggest reason men are doing the passport thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:40 AM
3

Congrats you're accepting redpill/blackpill
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:09 PM
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studies shows that women are less hypergamous than previous generations of women. A higher percentage of women make more money than men now, and less overall marriages is the direct result of this, yet somehow this makes hypergamy not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:02 PM
1

The "average" is taken into account globally. So american women lowering their value relative to the planet doesn't make fat women 'average' or 'above average'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:13 PM
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A- 4 B- 4 C- 2 ​ All three of these women are below average looking. Look, I get that american women are becoming fatter but that doesn't change what a 5 is. If you're in a room with 9 other women, and they all gain 50 lbs, that doesn't bring you from a 5 to a 6. It's just not how physical attraction works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:11 PM
0

Well personally, when I lost my virginity I was walking around like I was a king and women can pick up on that.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 03:53 PM
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Any woman who actually abides by male RP would probably never share that on a profile, so yea I would assume it's a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:31 PM
2

I would not enter any marriage in 2023 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:30 PM
1

Because the women there aren't seen as typically Asian phenotypes
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 11:38 AM
1

A white 5 in asia is like a 6-7. It's simple
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 11:36 AM
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I've never heard anyone say ascension in my life. Anecdotally, once a lot of men lose their virginity, they also gain confidence which in turn generates more pussy.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 11:34 AM
1

puri you're the only woman who types "bbc and bleachmaxxed"
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 11:15 AM
2

puri just stfu
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 12:31 AM
1

Some woman on PPD: Old women have no issues getting married. I know old, fat, high bodycount women who have 0 issues getting married. Same woman: My husband would rather jerk off to porn than fuck me You can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:09 PM
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That's all they talk about lmao. Their lives are literally following celebs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:34 PM
1

Aw man you forgot to put that you're 6'5 and ripped
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:32 PM
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I think a lot of women are just salty that not every single woman is a special little snowflake, it hits them hard that most people are just average and the realization that they might also just be average is similar to redpill rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:30 PM
1

That Leonardo is a pedophile / gay / a predator because he dumps women by 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:27 PM
1

Anything involving shaming men. Basically a male version of a pickme.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:14 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:44 PM
2

Parroting libleft feminist talking points doesn't make a man attractive. I've seen this happen too often, men think that if they act like Hasan that they'll start magically getting pussy. If women are attracted to you, they'll sway their own political leanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:04 PM
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Parroting libleft feminism also isn't what makes a man attractive though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:58 AM
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Gender equality doesn't exist because women want everything that benefits them and nothing that doesn't benefit them; like working labor jobs or long hours one sided dating game mental health issues, suicide rates, homelessness But they'll fight for equal pay, you'll never hear them fight against male homelessness or suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:47 AM
1

average female ppder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:17 AM
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Tinder misandrist is still talking to me after the stunt I pulled lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:04 AM
2

I've thought about it, but I'm concerned the only client-base would be very old women / gay men. I think I have the look for it, and also I'm a giver. I can get hard even if I'm unattracted to the woman as well, so I feel like I was kinda built for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:19 AM
1

Sure but in an increasingly terminally online culture, don't you agree status means less and less?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:51 PM
1

What do you even mean by status then? Just having the girlfriend title?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:49 PM
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Most men don't care about status though. Like if men cared about status, we'd be seeing a lot more men looking for sugar mommas and it just ain't happening on the same level as the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:59 PM
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I'm not mad at anyone. This is just the fact of dating but women always want to act like 80/20 isn't real. I'm on the beneficiary side of 80/20, so why would I be mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:45 PM
0

I've seen it pan out badly for men too often
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:42 PM
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Yea this is another common sense thing that bluepill seems to virtue signal about
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:24 PM
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Pretty much any common sense shit that RP says is denied by bluepill mouthbreathers. I literally just made a post about mate-guarding and at least 10 women came in there saying they want a man who does nothing when a guy is incessantly hitting on her. It's just a straight up lie. As a man who touches grass, a little bit of benevolent sexism is very attractive to women. Along the same vein, defending a woman is attractive. I've had women on here tell me that in the case of a break & enter and r*p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:11 PM
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You "replaced" every dude you've ever been with so how is your opinion relevant anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:03 PM
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Yes that's still mate-guarding. Idk why everyone assumes I'm picking Bruce Lee style bar fights
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:59 AM
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Even if she can handle it herself, if you sit there and do nothing, it's a turn off. I've seen it too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:55 AM
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Maybe he doesn't feel like you're worth defending keyword being exes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:54 AM
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I'm definitely above average looking but I wouldn't say model tier (which is what I would consider an 8). I have an "attractive guy next door" look which I find attracts more women due to them thinking I'm more attainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:55 AM
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Insecurity exists in every human heart That's why the term gets thrown around way too often
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:52 AM
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This is a theory for another time but I think high SMV can correlate with certain toxic dating behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:45 AM
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If she reciprocates then I'm dipping, it's already over. This could look like something small and non-confrontational; a guy tries to flirt with your girl and you lean in and make out with her. It's non-violent and non-confrontational.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:41 AM
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Nobody said anything about violence though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:34 AM
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The woman doesn't even have to show interest or flirt back or even be open to getting flirted with; still the display of territory as a man is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:33 AM
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I don't think it's for a fear of losing them; it's more to display territorialism. If a woman didn't think you were territorial of her, it would be a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:25 AM
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This is borderline cuckoldry. If you are titillated by the thought of your spouse being hit on, I would say this is an issue. Jealousy is the correct response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:23 AM
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How would you feel if your man flirted with another woman in your vicinity then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:52 AM
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Mate-guarding is the scientific term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:51 AM
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Not often, but I've seen it enough and I've also seen the situation where the dude doesn't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:37 AM
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It's less about trust and more like "Is he just going to watch this guy hit on me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:15 AM
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So he can pretend he's the Dalai Lama and talk condescendingly to us peasants?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:54 AM
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Do you feel like you're an enlightened human now? Are you better than normal humans because of this? Have you transcended?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:49 AM
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Ok so he mate-guarded...?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:48 AM
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And do all humans find the same things unattractive? from what I have seen that's not the case Do you find it unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:47 AM
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I agree, taken to the extreme, jealousy isn't attractive but we're talking about just mate-guarding being hit on and not psychopathic behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:44 AM
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There are other ways to show you care but they aren't the point of this post. If you actively don't react to your spouse getting hit on, it's unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:36 AM
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I just don't see how you could go through your life never getting hit on as a woman so it seems like a ridiculous rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:20 AM
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because it's unhealthy to never get jealous, it means you don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:14 AM
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All women want is commitment from high value men, that's also why their shaming tactics include trying to claim random men are low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:36 PM
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Yep, a woman would probably get disinterested first if this happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:35 PM
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a female involuntarily celibate (which is kind of impossible but more akin to a woman who can't get into a relationship with the guy she wants)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:53 PM
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I've already been down that road, the truth always comes out eventually. I've had women lie about bodycounts to secure a relationship. The best thing I can do as a man is to do everything I can to get honesty out of a woman but sometimes they just be lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 09:51 PM
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What dude is making a woman wait though, honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:46 PM
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Me personally? I'd always find out before I commit to the title of "boyfriend"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:44 PM
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So hot men "control" the market but also women won't even look at anyone below a 7. Yes, and apparently you can't read. Pre-OLD, men who were 7+ weren't just randomly getting with 4-5s. Also, these women are young so they don't understand that they're just getting pump & dumped. This is also combined with feminist rhetoric aka "you go girl, go have casual sex it's empowering!" This makes the shitstorm that is dating in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:43 PM
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The women who get with men out of their league don't want to all of a sudden start dating men in their league. Why would she want to downgrade to a 5 if 7s have been fucking her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:40 PM
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Yes, women will get sexual attention from men above their league who won't commit to them. This isn't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:33 PM
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trust me, 1 is way better than the average these days
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:30 PM
1

Q4PPD: When was the last time your mom hugged you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:28 PM
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Oh hey its the guy who says he's 6'5 and ripped in every post. In a 3rd post where he says he's 6'5 and ripped. Aside from the 4 paragraphs of verbal masturbation, I will disagree. There is no reason to commit to 1 woman if a million women want you. That's what I'm doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:22 PM
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If she's low bodycount / a virgin, I will wait pretty long. Like probably no time limit tbh. If she's got 10 bodies already and telling me to wait, lmfao yea right. Bye felicia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:17 PM
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Women have 0 clue of their own SMV, since desperate men match them and gas them up. Men face actual rejection/acceptance daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:15 PM
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Women don't control the dating market. Top men control the dating market. I am like a 7 and I get infinitely more female attention than him. Women are not interested in a man unless he is a 7 at minimum, and that includes all women, not just "hotties" as the OP suggests. 40 years ago pre online dating, a 5 would pair off with a 5 from her local area and that would be the end of the story. In 2023, a 5 has been pump and dumped by 10 guys who were 7+ before she realizes that she can't lock them do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:11 PM
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The market for women is determined by who gives them commitment, since that's what they generally want. When you have men pump & dumping women en masse, you have what people like to call a 'hookup culture'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:56 AM
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He's a 5 and going for 4s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:31 AM
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Everyone knows women punch way the fuck up on dating apps bro, it's just gotten to absurd levels in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:30 AM
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I'm gonna guess late 20s but not 30 yet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:29 AM
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easy peasy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:29 AM
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I'ma say 24
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:27 PM
2

Yea but it's rare
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:40 PM
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Women place so much self-worth on their desirability to men that you can accurately guess women's age on PPD to within 5 years The more bitter she is, the older she is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:10 PM
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2 issues here: Just because you don't use a dating app doesn't mean that online dating doesn't effect the market. Men are still competing with other men from online dating / instagram / whatever even if they're hitting on women in real life. The women who are 5+ will straight up not match with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:01 PM
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The premise is just wrong. I've gotten on my friend's Tinder accounts and tried to chat up women. The women are a full SMV point lower than my friends and they still can't get these women to go on a date with them (they either flake, or ghost, or whatever). My friend is exactly a 5 and he's matching with below average women. The issue is that women have no clue what their SMV is until they've been pump & dumped 10 times (and then some of them just rationalize it anyways)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:49 PM
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Bruh you made a long ass post about how men don't want to fuck their wives and would rather watch porn, so what is it? Pick your c-word- either men want women or they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:35 PM
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Also, most redpill men don't get laid femcel revenge fantasy I get plenty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:29 PM
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Regular guys Therefore, it is in a woman's best interest to APPEAR as though she is virtuous, modest, demur, and chaste - If she wants you to stick around. So if she gives a damn about your opinion she'll likely want you to perceive her as NOT being "for the streets". This extends to single mothers as well. So women are acknowledging that even APPEARING promiscuous will turn men off? ​ High SMV men If the man's SMV is too much higher than ours, we know he has options and the window of opportunit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:06 PM
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9 “serious” relationships since I was 18 ​ I am a man. (22) ​ The math ain't mathin Unless you consider a 3 month relationship "serious"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:51 AM
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The biggest PPD fallacy is that somehow men who just agree with everything women say equates to a 'better personality', and that RP men just had 'bad personalities'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:53 PM
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They're getting like 1/100 matches and then that girl flakes on them. So no actual dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:52 PM
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It doesn't matter at all. If you aren't at least a 7 then good fucking luck. I get tons of likes & matches on my account. My average looking friends get nothing. I get on their account and try to spit game, still nothing. They get ghosted, flakey dates, anything. And I'm not even trying to match hotties on their accounts, I'm matching with frankly below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:13 PM
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Because bluepill sells the dream that personality matters but it matters basically 0%. Also it's fairly objectifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:56 PM
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I guess once that veil has been lifted that you were "picked" due to factors besides being good looking & tall, it feels less meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:52 PM
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If she's got bad spelling and grammar, she ain't wifey
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:48 PM
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Not everyone on here is ugly. Just most of yalls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:47 PM
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Lmao I wouldn't ever spend money on a dating app. I get plenty of attention from the limited number of swipes I get. But that doesn't change the fact of how dating being commodified makes men feel like meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:44 PM
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Women always say this, but OLD bleeds into all dating. Women are window shopping you in real life and comparing you to the guys they get on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:38 PM
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Worst sex I ever had was with this girl who had ugly duckling syndrome (aka she grew up ugly and lost a bunch of weight and started taking care of her skin and makeup). The ego hit her way too fast. Honestly, when I was around 18-19, I just fucked anyone and anything so I was not deterred by how much she annoyed me. She kept bragging about how much sex she gets now and how hot guys find her, and when we had sex - she kept doing the fake pornstar moans. I actually never came and started to go sof…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:36 PM
5

Soon we can all be amorphous genderless entities like feminism wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:31 PM
5

Oh then yea, pretty much most women on here use the same shaming tactics of male preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:30 PM
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There are no reliable shaming tactics. Shaming other people's preferences just makes you look like you don't meet people's preferences and are mad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:26 PM
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Fallacy - OLD effects all dating just from existing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:41 PM
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Romance is no longer a thing in 2023. As a man, you're a tagged animal being window shopped on a dating app like a dog in a pet store. Hopefully you're tall enough and good looking enough to get picked. If you're average looking, your options are the high bodycount women who are still obsessed with their ex. Shit's pretty bleak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:22 PM
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She's already double digits probably in her 20s, gl on finding the HVM at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:13 PM
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Not sure what the point of this is. Basically any preference a man has is shamed. Want a younger woman? You're a pedo Want a low bodycount woman? You're insecure Want a non-fat woman? You're not a real man Want a submissive woman? You just want a mommy bangmaid
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:05 PM
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I have yet to find a low n woman who acted prude, do they exist? I'm still searching, I'll let you know when I find this unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:14 PM
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If it takes 20 bodies to figure it out, then no. She isn't aware of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:58 PM
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It's part of their past
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:30 PM
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"Men will be manipulative to get sex" Yet again, another reason to avoid high bodycount women. Basically they lack the self-awareness to tell if a guy is actually interested in them or not. Either lacking self-awareness or just underdeveloped emotionally. Tack it on to the list of the million reasons to never date high bodycount women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:15 PM
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Damn a year ago you dropped a stat? Impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:09 PM
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Correct. They obviously care about your past as well, but just don't like to be held to any standards. They surely wouldn't be ok with a man who - Had sex with prostitutes Had sex with other men Didn't finish education (even if you're currently doing it) Or like you said, was a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:07 PM
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RP men aren't even committing so you don't have to worry about it. They are spreading the message that marriage is an L for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:04 PM
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Same. Redpill hasn't impacted my life in any way at all. The only thing it's done is reaffirm all of the tropes & behaviors that women do. Millions of other men all telling me the exact same stories I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:59 PM
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When have you dropped a stat? Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:57 PM
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I agree 100% u/MxMaster9907, and I couldn't have articulated it any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:56 PM
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Bro, anyone who has sex knows that most women aren't just "out there looking for casual sex". They're looking for relationships and leveraging sex to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:42 PM
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Women never exercise, have 2x levels of obesity and higher unacceptable ranges of bodyfat. Most women go off of BMI which doesn't account for muscle mass, which is an incorrect gauge of healthiness. Women are fat af. They're literally pushing body positivity so that fat women can be accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:38 PM
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They aren't. Look at any bodyfat % study and women are like twice as likely to be categorized as obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:54 AM
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No fat woman has ever hit on a man in the history of time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:20 AM
1

I would say overall it has a negative impact, but so does any addiction when done without moderation. I can game for a short amount of time and just relax and it doesn't impact my day much. But I have buddies who game so hard they forget to shower. There's a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:14 AM
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It's not that they resent all men, they resent their partner because he isn't as good as what she had before. It's entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:11 AM
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So she became the incel she swore to defeat lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:37 AM
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I think some girls might get resentful if they didn't actually want casual sex, but pressured into it hoping for a relationship This is most high bodycount women. A lot of the women who put on a face like they "just wanted casual sex" are this, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:35 PM
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Are average women Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton? Surely you can make your argument coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:56 PM
1

Wow my anecdotes go completely opposite of that. The high bodycount women I know resent the men they "settled" for after 5+ years and live miserably together. This just seems like a lot of rationalizing promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:52 PM
15

There's circular reasoning here. Men could say "Where's the incentive for a man to work hard and make a lot of money if they're just going to end up with an average woman with a high bodycount?" See how the reverse looks? That's what you sound like. You don't have to be a high value woman, but then you can't expect a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:48 PM
3

Very obviously A
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:51 AM
10

Because foreign men don't want to marry western women either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:47 AM
1

Not quite an equivalent, as sexual orientation is not blocking women from being attracted to men, just their obnoxious standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:36 AM
1

It would just reverse the dynamic that we have today
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:33 PM
5

The trick to figure this out is a simple formula, let me explain it to you: If it's a boundary/preference/standard that a man sets, it's simply insecurity. If it originates from a woman, then it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:25 PM
38

The honest truth women don't want to hear: Forever girlfriend means she probably gave off some orange flag that scared him away from being fully committal. Maybe not a full red flag to warrant breaking up, just enough to make him hesitate on pulling the marriage trigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:58 PM
5

When women get cheated on, it's men's fault. when men get cheated on, it's men's fault. Spot the misandrist rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:19 PM
5

Humility, altruism, good tipper
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:15 PM
18

I thought women hated evo-psych; it's in my biology to avoid promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:24 AM
6

For sure most women, but that seems to be a pretty strict definition of a hoe phase tbh. With that definition, I'd say 80% or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 12:36 AM
2

But is ONS and FWB same as romantic rejection idk I guess there's an overlap. It is, because it's implying they're not good enough for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:52 PM
3

Rejection typically looks like situationships, FWB or ONS. Men being non-committal is how we reject women. But a dude like Michael B. Jordan wouldn't even put his dick near a lot of those women, good on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:48 PM
76

Dear lord the state of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:47 PM
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One thing that bothers me about current movies is how formulaic it's gotten. Everyone is pandering. The current movie meta is "Hero with a dog". This new fucking movie Sisu is copying the exact formula of John Wick and just having a male gun-fu character who has a dog sidekick who he protects with his life. I'm so tired of these movie makers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:04 PM
1

Women don't like pick-mes, because they actually listen to men and cater to them. Imagine caring about what the opposite gender is interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:55 PM
1

Well there is no practical solution besides treating them as children, there is nothing you can physically enforce so that's pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:18 PM
1

Ok? That's the entire point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:15 PM
1

They want no accountability, they want to be treated like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:10 PM
0

Do we, men, just treat them differently, or are you proposing the state limiting women's rights and freedoms? If we can acknowledge that when given the freedom of choice, that they make poor decisions and want no responsibility for those decisions: maybe they need to be protected from themselves. Like a kid prone to bumping their head, you put a helmet on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:49 PM
5

LMAO a woman who cares about what her partner thinks? Good fucking luck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:44 PM
1

I'm debating, not silencing people. That's women's job
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:42 PM
1

The same women saying "high/low value" are pointless are the women who are super quick to rate a guy as unattractive or a 5. That's why idgaf what women say on this topic, they're gaslighting if they say they don't rank people's value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:47 PM
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emotionally, & physically viable men in society is declining. This is just not true. It's feminist propaganda because every female 5 thinks she deserves a male 8. The economy also effects everyone, but only men seem to be "not economically viable"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:28 PM
0

It's just not true. I consider myself a 7 and I get approached a few times per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:05 PM
0

6/10 guys do get approached, they might be below average girls, but they get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:56 PM
3

Oh yea. I just thought what you meant she does for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:51 PM
2

And by Lewd content I mean like panties and bra only content and whatnot. No full nude content. It's certainly better than nudity or sex acts, but again, not really sure how women would make enough money doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:52 PM
3

Being approached EVER. Like in high school, college, in public, in DMs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:30 PM
4

I mean she's kinda boring? She works a lot, like 50+ hours and then when she's home, she just tends to her garden & house outside. She doesn't have much screen-time and really only has like 2 close friends, who she'll hang out with a few times per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:52 PM
10

You basically just described my mom (minus the no children part)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:15 PM
3

No, women are more single now than ever and projected at higher rates of singledom in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:54 AM
1

Would any of you guys date a woman who does onlyfans even if she isn't fully exposing herself on there and just doing lewd content. What does this mean, just bikini photos? How would she make any money? What do men think of woman like this and why? All sex workers to me are people who want cheap and easy money, so they sell their dignity. Plain and simple. do men think a woman in the sex work industry, Onlyfans, or an Ex pornstar would make a good girlfriend, wife, or partner? It's possible she …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:47 AM
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Why do you feel the need to tell us your self rating and height in every post (especially ironic when you say men can't self-rate) I think that men typically understand their own SMV better than women. A good indicator of attractiveness is how often women approach you. Just being approached ever in general puts a man around a 6. If you're approached often, then you're possibly higher. If you're never approached, you're a 5 or under. All women get approached basically so they have a hard time dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 11:43 AM
2

No purpose other than the social experiment from PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:27 PM
2

Have you ever told your bf? You should tell him and see how he reacts. I'm not saying that it can't be possible to be physically better while smaller/shorter but most guys would rather not swim against the current on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:00 PM
1

Heartbreak and alpha widowing are similar. For me the key differences are timing & physical aspects. Timing: Every woman remembers how she lost her virginity. This is regardless of if the sex was good or bad, it's just memorable because of the novelty. Some women will hold onto ideas of their "first love" for a long time even if the guy wasn't that great, only because he was first. Physical: If for example a woman dates a 6'7 dude with a big dick for years, then sudden shift to a 5'10 guy with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:36 PM
0

Yes, because I'm cute and I'll get what I want or I'll just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:11 PM
1

Let's be honest, only around 10% of people in the US exercise and of that 10% it's mostly men. So women keep talking about this unicorn who looks young in her 30s and try to make it the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:05 PM
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Your name is true, you really are just full of cword. Notice how the age keeps getting lower? Before it was 30, now it's 28. Next you'll say "maybe a 26 year old can still be hot"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:04 PM
1

Yes they do. How many studies do you have to read where men of all ages find the same age women as most attractive before it gets through your head? It's always 18-22
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:01 PM
1

Have you considered the pre-frontal cortex nonsense that women spew is directly to oppose men having youth preferences? How are "most men pedophilic" if it's again, most men. Let's try using your critical thinking here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:59 PM
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Men can, but they need to be high value. And basically the result is women giving you sex on the hope that you'll commit. Or money. Or maybe let you stay in their house rent free.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:51 AM
1

Well men can have standards, they just can't say that they have any standards on PPD, or anywhere on the internet, or irl for that matter else they get shamed to oblivion. Men have to keep their standards silent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:24 AM
1

You'll learn on PPD u/CombinationUsed7938, that men are not allowed to have any standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:23 AM
1

Yes cuz your SMV is determined by men, not you. Lizzo can say she's a 10/10 all day and it doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:34 AM
1

My net worth has risen, I am better skilled, and I am happily married. All things men don't care about; got it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:36 AM
5

Are you implying your husband would rather watch porn? I'm 100% confident that the hottest woman on the planet's husband still watches porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:33 AM
2

All women have abundance lol that ain't special
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:59 PM
1

Just another "Men are giving me the cheat sheet but I'm still gonna guess on the test" moment. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12orbz5/we_dont_talk_enough_about_the_settle_down_woman/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:27 PM
5

I've dumped hot girls because they're obnoxious. It's kind of like a past time of mine. Men with abundance don't give af how hot you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:26 PM
5

It's more about the ego of the girl; Myself and most men would rather take a humble 7 over a bratty 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:24 PM
2

Not everyone is Chad and Stacy, that's life dude. That's what AF/BB is and that's exactly what this post is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:22 PM
3

What benefits does the good girl get They get commitment lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:03 PM
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Getting no female attention is worse. There's a lot of touch-starved men, and they're also sitting on the edge of madness from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:01 PM
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The "settle down" girl is what women want. They want to be the wife and get commitment from men. Betabux typically means there's no attraction so men don't want this. That's the difference here. I find it kinda sad that men are telling you what they want in order for them to commit and women are still like "MEHHHHHHHHHHH I DON'T LIKE IT" Cute is “better because she’ll take care of me”, she’s more attainable than a hot woman, she has less competition, she’s “less out there”, and she will expect l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:52 PM
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I mean, you can maintain, but you won't ever be as hot or hotter than an early 20 year old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:50 PM
0

Why do fat women use shaming language like "fatphobic" on people with normal healthy weight, but claim to be not fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:58 PM
1

oh an honest answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:53 PM
1

its great until he expressing emotion from something like his mom dying, then you have pity sex with him every 6 months
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:22 PM
1

How does it feel as a woman to finally fully develop your pre-frontal cortex and then start declining in value? I imagine it's sort of like an AI becoming self-aware
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:03 PM
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Nah bro. I am just above average attractiveness, not even a chad and women have cheated on their LT boyfriends with me. It's very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:02 PM
0

As far as I know, RP tells men to never get married. So how is it pressuring women to get married young?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:24 PM
2

I am red pill ​ I feel like reaching out in a week just asking what’s up are we cool No you're not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:57 AM
0

Yea take the redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:26 AM
5

Yep, it means she was seeing multiple other dudes and you didn't get picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:22 AM
1

Doubt it. You're a random fat internet misandrist
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 11:17 AM
3

Nope, because women all want the same dude and are starting to acknowledge this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:51 AM
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No, I literally do not care if she's tatted or pierced as long as she meets my other requirements and is fit/feminine/friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:49 AM
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Yes, I would do a long term relationship for a low bodycount girl, I just haven't found many.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:08 AM
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Men who care about body n-count aren't supposed to be looking for long term? Huh? Or you guys are dead seriously looking for a virgin/2 partners girl to fuck up for a couple months? If/when I find her and she meets all my other criteria, I'm going to be ok with being her boyfriend. But I will absolutely fuck around until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:52 AM
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Because me being in a relationship = less pussy and less variety of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:50 AM
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She has different political views Not an issue. I dislike how divisive America is. She's emotionally immature Lmao AWALT on this one Drowning in debt and terrible with money Also not a big deal? If she's terrible with money, then we just keep finances separate. Awful taste in music, fashion, food, in your opinion Who fucking cares No sense of humor, boring personality, can't hold a conversation This is the only one that actually matters of the ones you said. Yea I probably wouldn't date a girl w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:49 AM
1

Yep, so you can choose to not have sex with a guy until you have commitment but that ain't happenin
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:56 PM
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I was 20 and she was 17 lol, sorry I wasn't born in the 1920s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:57 PM
9

wow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:52 PM
2

Well this is just not painting the entire picture. Obviously the women who don't know what men want and have no value aren't getting the men they actually want. Sure, dating is easier for them. But lets not act like female 5s are marrying Chads. The ones who actually have high SMV and non-jaded, submissive, low bodycount, etc. Those are the ones who manifest their outcomes.
/r/AllPillDebate15/04/23 02:15 PM
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Most males fall in 3 brackets I already disagree with this premise I will not run the point that i believe that conservative Man are at average better dating partners (they go to the gym, make more money, mentally stronger etc) this isnt the point of this post. But it is the point of this post: You literally said "I am gonna be absolute honest, i see liberal dudes in someway as "beneath" conservative Men, because they are in most cases" - physically weak I would say generally, this is true. Typi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:45 PM
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I remember a few years ago, I worked with this girl who was too young for me. Well, too young to be legal, and I also felt like she was immature. She always bragged to me about her 'older boyfriend' who was my age. She never told me anything about him, except that he was white and older than her. She viewed him basically as a trophy. One day, she randomly texts me that she broke up with him. And I knew she liked me because she flirted with me all of the time. I don't know if she broke up with he…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:28 PM
1

It's simple; men care about it more. On men's dating requirements, most men have low bodycount as the number 1 or 2 thing they're looking for. If women put it at the top of their laundry list of requirements for a boyfriend, men would probably think twice about fucking around. But they don't. Bodycount sits firmly behind height, dick size, money, looks, personality, sense of humor, ambition, and 30 other things (for women)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:06 PM
1

I don't like how women often feel entitled to relationships and commitment. Women often accuse male sexual partners who don't want to commit of "using them for their bodies" and "leading them on". While men do sometimes lie to get laid, I think often times the guy only said a relationship was a possibility, or he never said anything on the subject. If he doesn't bring up the subject of relationships and you expect a relationship, and shame him for not wanting one, that is textbook entitlement. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 12:05 PM
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All I want is a big tiddy goth gf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:00 AM
2

The only way to stop is to stop complaining about it and accept it. Men and women are different. Misandrists are bitter and lonely and will continue to ward off men, and spread filth on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:51 PM
3

The secret is "Women are wonderful". Anything that paints women in a bad light will be denied and gaslit by all women.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 12:15 PM
1

Nah I'm not any cel. I actually genuinely like arguing and get plenty of sex.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 12:13 PM
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Lmao no. I've rejected women who act too masculine. I've rejected women who were too forward with sex. I've rejected women who were too young for me. I've never rejected a woman for being too nice, that's wifey material.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 11:59 AM
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All women who want to date should get on the treadmill so they're not fat, and men are reasonable to demand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:50 AM
2

I mean, you felt the need to bring him up...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:47 AM
3

What does he think about his mom posting on ppd trying to defend her husband from invisible people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:45 PM
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What part of 40% of women are breadwinners in relationships? It's nearly half but men still pay all of the alimony. This is why men want trad relationships, because they don't benefit from 50/50. Maybe if there was 50/50 alimony and child custody and other shit, men would be more apt to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:43 PM
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The men who are ok with their women having high bodycounts are cuck-aligning if they aren't 100% exactly cucks. I mean goodluck finding a dude who is masculine & also cuck-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:00 PM
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Yep & men stand to lose more from a divorce. Even when women are breadwinners in something near 40% of all family homes, men pay 97% of alimony payments. So, even when women have jobs and egalitarian lifestyles (which results in higher divorce rates ALSO) what is the point in a man choosing that? Women's money is women's money but men's money is also women's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:55 PM
0

good debate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:52 PM
-3

You can either accept RP rhetoric or just look for a beta male.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:22 PM
6

Do you expect that she’s going to go get a job at 50 with no work experience? Here's your issue. You're already going into marriage with the mindset that you're going to divorce. What an enticing prospect for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:20 PM
5

Madonna/Whore is just giving a term for shaming men's preferences lmao Most men would rather marry the Madonna and also fuck the Madonna.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:46 PM
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Because most of the stuff said here in anonymity is only half-truths. People tend to over-evaluate their own SMV (seen with all of the random people here who think they're chads/stacies) and under-evaluate others (seen by all of the people trying to shit on other's relationships) This is what keeps me sane, most of these people are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:16 PM
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It is a zero-sum game for 80% of men. Basically as a man, you have to reach a threshold of attractiveness and still take a gamble marrying a woman that she won't fuck you over or deadbedroom or cheat on you. Why do you think less and less men are getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 05:14 PM
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So the entire post is 1 anecdote?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:42 PM
5

They are talking about their fantasy dude lmao This is different from going on Tinder and writing a list of 'requirements to date me' My fantasy woman also probably doesn't exist
/r/AllPillDebate13/04/23 12:02 PM
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Yep, this is basically the result of OLD and hookup culture; a bunch of alpha widowed women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:17 AM
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If a woman weren't 100% eager in dating then I would slowly lose contact with her. I'm not playing that game of "who can be less interested". I understand that you can be taken advantage of by being vulnerable but you also can't find a man without being vulnerable in the 1st place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:04 AM
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lmao do you read what you type ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:43 PM
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Men actually agree on what a 10 is fairly commonly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:43 PM
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I agree, simps need to be stopped
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:25 PM
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Cuz they keep trying to tell me Lizzo is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:20 PM
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Your daily reminder that a straight woman's rating of other women means literally nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:58 PM
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Women want men to just be compliant and pretty, while we gotta accept Lizzo lmaooooooooooooo Yea I remember that Lizzo bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:57 PM
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The ironic part is that these same women will be so quick to rate a dude a 5 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:46 PM
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anything above a 5 is above average, people are just narcissists and can't accept someone is better looking than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:26 PM
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Oh whaddya know a male boundary that women have a problem with. This is new and original.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:19 PM
4

Sure but you know your actual SMV. And rather than compete with other women, you'd rather dismantle how men view female attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:16 PM
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The reason women don't like male rating systems 1-10 is because they don't like to know their SMV and they want to believe in some fairy tale where their man thinks they're a 10. This is why dudes are always gassing women up and telling them they're 10s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:11 PM
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It just means your friend is a cynic and rates people hard for no reason while still accepting the same ranking order. The reason women don't like male rating systems 1-10 is because they don't like to know their SMV and they want to believe in some fairy tale where their man thinks they're a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:10 PM
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Wow imagine a man having boundaries and expectations. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:01 PM
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Also false, people aggregate and rank across their competition. 4 women walk into a room and all 4 of them know not only who is the best looking, but how they rank 1-4.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:58 PM
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Does power just = value? Would you argue that women are not attracted to power?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:55 PM
4

Your argument doesn’t make sense. If women only wanted better than their looksmatch only AF would ever get girls. False. Even a 5 woman going for a 6 man would not qualify that man as "AF".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:54 PM
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Sure. It's also assuming that men's preferences are invalid when women's are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:51 PM
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I don't give af, I'm still going to date younger than me. Peter Pan 4 life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:21 PM
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The issue is the women think they're somehow better than their looksmatch (which is that only dude who will commit to them). Imagine having contempt for your genderbent equal. If they don't outright think they're better than their looksmatch, they somehow feel like they're 'settling' for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:19 PM
1

aka the human race's birthdate dropping because 'people want to be picky'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:47 PM
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Lemme translate this for you "men can't suffer but women can"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:23 PM
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Men dating younger women is predatory But the young women dating older men for money isn't Learn to spot modern day misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:19 PM
1

This is just a "needs of a few outweigh the needs of the many" mentality. The insane level of vanity required to make an intelligent species collapse is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:15 PM
2

lmao you're trolling. I should've known better from the new acc
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 02:35 AM
3

Lmao no. 7 inchers are literally like 95th percentile. This is cap.
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 02:13 AM
2

Lmao dude I am around that size and most women say I'm the biggest they've seen; so either girl inches or you guys are like 50+ bodycount. Also, another reason men go for lower bodycounts too. Add it to the list.
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 01:10 AM
6

Weird cuz that doesn't help. If a woman told me she was with a guy with a bigger dick, I'd instantly get the ick and drop her. And I'm above average, I still wouldn't even consider her. So the dudes who are below average or average and you go "it's a treat" is obnoxious tbh
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 12:19 AM
8

As a girl who enjoy getting dicked down every now, most men need to understand that a big dick is like a treat. "I'm helping" meme
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 12:16 AM
0

He never said the age of the girl, lmao. As I figured, you probably never even watched the video.
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 09:17 PM
1

No, you didn't watch it then. He specifically said they were together for 6 years and then said Vivian was 21. He mentions her age when he talks about pairing girls with her. He said he was 21
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 04:11 PM
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By getting pussy lmao
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 11:54 AM
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Tristan bragging about taking the virginities of a 17 year old girl 1:08:00 https://www.youtube.com/live/qTLkbHu\_LRo?feature=share It's legal there lol Andrew admitting that hes been in a relationship with Vivian for 6 years and that she was 21 when this was filmed. https://youtu.be/bFNzGBRUUlE I watched the entire video and there was no mention of age anywhere. The Fresh and Fit guest who bragged about rape https://youtu.be/B6KrqZmQxcI Yea idk about this one, seems like they were in shock a bi…
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 11:52 AM
1

I don't watch any of them so I'd need context; typically feminist fanatics like to make wild accusations with no context about RP creators.
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 02:52 AM
3

Racists, pedos, fucking Andrew Tate, sex trafficers, holy shit These are among non-RP creators too, the RP ones just have everything they say and do put under a microscope.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 09:10 PM
5

I disagree https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4330791/ Just having testosterone has massive effects on the brain.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 09:03 PM
1

qualities or attributes regarded as characteristic of men or boys.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:58 PM
7

Men are expendable. Women couldn't give less of a fuck.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:57 PM
3

My most blackpilling experience was just getting on OLD. My friends (who I always considered average looking) can't get girls on there. I always thought I was above average looking and when I got on Tinder, it was like a buffet for me. I even tried to talk to girls on their accounts but it was futile, women care so heavily about appearance that all of the "personality matters" shit is just nonsense.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:56 PM
1

This is less about chadsexuality and more about women being delusional of their own SMV and other women's SMV. I think this is in part due to feminism and female superiority rhetoric that has been plaguing America for the last few decades. A straight woman rating other women's appearance means literally 0.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:53 PM
1

Fuck no
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:51 PM
1

There is such a thing as masculinity and femininity. You change my view.
/r/AllPillDebate10/04/23 08:50 PM
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The issue is that every 3-4 in America thinks she's a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:31 PM
1

I message hot 35+ women too, but I'm not committing to that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:30 PM
1

Pretty much every study shows men of all ages find women 21-22 as the most attractive. So saying a 23 year old woman banging an underage kid doesn't prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:16 PM
2

Those women are always like 23-30 lmao Is that an 'older' woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:11 PM
3

Read his book Happy Endings, he talks all about his lack of success with women. He's brutally honest and that's one of the reasons I like him. I went and saw one of his shows when Tinder started getting popular and he did a joke about how he got 0 matches on there in an entire year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:11 PM
2

They don't lmao It's like .1% occurrence where the opposite happens pretty often
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:09 PM
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Let's define "do better"? Some dude who pump & dumps you? Or the guy who actually is willing to marry you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:34 PM
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Is there a fate worse than being unattracted to your looksmatch? Poor wahmen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:28 PM
3

Is this post a joke? No sane man would pass on sex for life unless he was castrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:40 AM
1

From memory, average guys get anywhere from 1-2% match rates, so anything above that is above average. My match rates were usually around 15% Keep in mind that OLD for men is a pareto distribution, where the most attractive men are getting exponentially more matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:38 AM
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Exactly. What is the benefit of being boyfriend guy? You already got the pussy as the other guy with none of the responsibilities of the boyfriend. The "reward" you get for being the boyfriend guy is that now you don't get to fuck any more women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:36 AM
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The funniest guy on the planet doesn't create attraction though. Jim Norton was one of my favorite comedians growing up, and Patrice O Neal used to say that Jim "looks like whatever container you pour him out of". I listened to him talk about how dating was damn near impossible for him for years. Keep in mind he's a multi millionaire, famous, and hilarious. It just didn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:34 AM
1

Sure, you can have preferences, based on your desirability in the dating market, but it seems odd to spend mental energy on something you can't really prove. Yes and I have tons of women vying for a relationship from me. That's why I won't settle for some ran through woman. I will find out the answer and if I don't like the answer / she refuses then I move on to the next girl. This is the great thing about abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:54 PM
2

Are you high school aged?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:49 PM
4

Tell him you have a high bodycount and he will for sure stop trying to marry you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:42 PM
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Women are promiscuous with men that are physically out of their league and then hamster after the fact that it was just a casual mutual thing. When they in-fact would be ok with relationships with these men, or possibly used sex as a means to seal a relationship and it didn't work. Then after attempting this a few times (or a lot in some women's case), they finally realize they can only lockdown someone of similar market value as them and feel like they're "settling" for a guy on their level. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:33 PM
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Even as an above-average looking man, I still feel like men are viewed as disposable. The only value someone like me can bring is being sexually attractive to women who are growing ever-strict requirements for what's considered sexually attractive. Dating women feels bleak. Why would I want to commit to something so cold? And we haven't even reached the bottom 80% of men, who are just completely and utterly hated and treated with contempt. Men are only valued for either what they can provide via…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:42 PM
1

Why would a chad stay in the west? He still has those same worse options too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:08 PM
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Chads are rare & women will bend on age to still get a Chad. Men will not do the same. Idk why women are so delusional about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:36 PM
2

Why not strawman? OF girls make money off of exploiting lonely men. Sometimes they feign like they're single too and that they might have a chance, dangling a carrot for extra money. Tell me, why would any high value man want someone that conniving?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:34 PM
2

I'm not even THAT successful but women still latch onto me. Women want to come along for a ride, they don't care about my struggle to get here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:47 PM
1

How does changing the wording make it different?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:45 PM
1

I knew some random OF girl would get offended by this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:16 PM
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Any job where you profit off of someone else's suffering is scummy, there's no point trying to argue this. OF girls are scumbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:23 AM
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Making money off of men's desperation and loneliness regardless of being shady & finessing men is still scummy imo. There's no situation where doing OF would be considered a plus in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:29 PM
3

I think you can have all of these while still being left-leaning. Left leaning doesn't just mean 'cater to women's feelings'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:54 PM
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LMFAO absolutely not. Why would I, when a low bodycount woman who hasn't finessed men is around the corner?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:53 PM
2

They literally all said tall, strong jawline, rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:50 PM
1

Huh? You don't look like Sophia Gomez but we still gotta date you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:32 PM
1

When women opt of sex with their spouse longterm and the couple ends up with a dead bedroom, it’s because she isn’t attracted to her husband anymore either intellectually, emotionally, or physically. Even when she says “it’s not you, it’s me” it’s definitely “you”. Never let a woman tell you otherwise, because she’s probably lying. So even when it's the woman's fault, it's really the man's fault. Jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:31 PM
1

I don't really like Tate. I actually like Brian from the Whatever podcast, he's more reasonable, respectful, and actually debates in good faith. He's one of the better RP content creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:35 PM
1

If you’re position is that marriage as an institution in our society is something to be salvaged and is imperative, I disagree. I don't. Frankly, I've always seen marriage as a way to stifle men's sexuality. Everyone knows if given the choice, men would be polyamorous. Most women don’t need men to protect her, her children, or provide necessities for living. Women want safe men of equal emotional and intellectual intelligence to engage in a committed partnership with in life and a life companion…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:04 PM
1

It does not matter; men are predisposed biologically to avoid cucking. If a woman even hinted to her man that he was a 2nd choice, whether in a roundabout way or saying "settled" or "compromised", he would most likely get the ick and be disinterested. I know I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:03 PM
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It was not a great experience for me. I have several very close girlfriends who have been married now for over a decade and have children, and marriage has not been a great time for them, eitherZ All have higher levels of education and are professionals. Sounds like having an education and a job isn't saving their marriages either, so how do you come to the conclusion that all women should do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:01 AM
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How would you describe the personality traits of a woman who calls herself a boss baby? Aggressive, argumentative, masculine, abrasive, combative. Have any guys come across this type of woman and did you find her attitude attractive? There's plenty of them. Half of the women in America try to emulate some sort of 'boss babe'. It is very unattractive. If you did not find her attractive, what's up because you were intimidated perhaps? It's literally just not ideal, it's annoying. I want you to int…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:42 AM
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I don't care if they're gay or trans. Realistically it's a tiny percentage of the human population, so it most likely won't happen anyways. Gender dysphoria is like rarer than 1/10000 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:38 AM
2

Nah this is just cap. Or a woman's hopes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 10:37 AM
2

So you're a straight woman telling men what we find attractive? Got it. Just making sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:37 AM
4

Are you even bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:30 AM
4

She's a straight up 2/10. Only a woman would say she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:13 AM
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lmao Lizzo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:10 AM
3

I would say for men, yes. When a man has tons of pussy thrown at him, it is hard to deny their nature and just be monogamous. For women, I am not so sure though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:06 AM
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Yep. If a woman has a high bodycount, you can safely assume she is getting with men out of her league. No dude wants to commit to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:12 PM
2

Sofia Gomez
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:10 PM
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When has not knowing someone's past ever come to bite you later? It hasn't because I'm hyper aware of this stuff What would you have done differently? Obviously the high bodycount women, I wouldn't have even given a chance What determines if past actions are a red flag or not? Previous cheating, previous promiscuity, previous objectification of men, previous poor treatment of men are all red flags. If she has of these, I would not take a her seriously. Is it worse to possibly risk missing out on…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:10 PM
1

I am pro-choice my dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:06 PM
2

Weird, pretty much all women said the exact same thing; but 80/20 isn't real guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:05 PM
1

Doesn't matter, OLD affects the dating market whether you use it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 11:04 PM
3

Because women feel entitled to relationships after "giving" sex to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:45 PM
1

Your bodycount goes up by 1 every time you try to lower it. It's science.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:59 AM
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Probably. I mean if they still had all of the other traumas that come with high bodycount women, I would most likely pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 11:58 AM
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Because they think the grass is always greener with some other guy, then get bored of that one, in a cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 03:11 AM
1

Yea your mom's favorite way to get railed
/r/AllPillDebate05/04/23 03:08 AM
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No, but then don't come crying when men are mean to fat/old/slutty women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:29 AM
3

"Be someone's girlfriend one-day" HAHAHAHA I don't even want that. Oh ok then you got nothing to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:57 AM
1

Cuz you might be someone's gf one day and he won't ever know lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:29 AM
1

Well it made me puke
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:04 AM
1

You just don't like your gf according to your other post.. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 12:25 AM
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No. I have not yet found a woman worthy of the wife title (or even the longterm gf title). Sure, I have found some women that have been enjoyable company. But my standards are really high and they typically show some sort of behavior that sets off my "do not marry" radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:24 PM
0

Is it standards if every man has to reach the same criteria to be considered attractive, or is it a hive mind? What about if their standards are fed to them via tiktok? What about if the only reason they want a man is to show him off to their girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:00 PM
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People love people who are extraordinary to them. why would you love someone if they weren’t special to you? You are only able to be "extraordinary" if you meet her 50 criteria first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:56 PM
0

I can't see how a woman can love a man if the requirements for her love =being above average in every metric. Men are numbers to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:17 PM
0

Are you married? In a relationship? I've slept with mostly high bodycount bad marriage material women. Because there aren't many girls who aren't run through, it's the nature of living in America. And no, I don't mean their pussies are ruined. Their brains are ruined. They're always damaged on some level, either alpha widowed, can't pair bond, some sort of childhood trauma that they'll never get over, or a victim complex. These girls are always bottom of the barrel. A. Much better lovers B. Much…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:34 PM
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Let me fix that title for you; Men gatekeep pleasure & ecstasy from other men. You are allowed to fuck whoever you want. I personally wouldn't want a woman who's been ran through but maybe you'll find some dude who's ok with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:22 PM
1

huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:38 PM
3

No, it's 100% real. I am just in the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 04:36 PM
1

They're only bluepilled cucks if they marry high bodycount, old, fat women. Otherwise, I assume they're just redpill faking bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:35 PM
0

Love is a fictional creation
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:33 PM
3

Why would I be upset about it? I'm on the receiving end of all of this pussy. I'm just stating facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:32 PM
1

Go live happily then, unmarried, childless, with a gf who is younger and hotter than you The American Dream
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:31 PM
1

But why get married at all? If the narrative is that most guys who get married do so not because they want to, but because they don’t have the option of reasily available casual sex…then why do the guys who do have abundance even bother with marriage? That's what I'm asking you? This is my CMV. There are very few Leos. Why did Chris Hemsworth get married? George Clooney? Etc. You honestly believe those dudes don't have side women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:30 PM
1

It's a copout to want them your entire life and then hit 50 and go "oopsies, no man came along, darn it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:43 AM
0

Right. That's why men separate women into wife material & non-serious fuckzone categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:33 AM
1

The concept that a man needs marriage to get regular sex is the matriarchy, and completely still an L.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:21 AM
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Women are lemmings. They literally watch tiktok and the man they want is decided for them. They act like they have autonomy but they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:18 AM
1

Now spread the gospel to younger men and tell them to never marry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:16 AM
1

50% of women don't deserve men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:15 AM
1

I don't want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:15 AM
1

Yay I'm finally hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:14 AM
1

Lifting, running, finmin, skin care, the same shit that keeps me looking good.
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 11:13 AM
1

It's literally just a copout for old ladies to feel better about hitting 40-50 and still not having kids when they wanted them their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:12 AM
1

Yea bro women are just waiting til they're 44 to get married. Right uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:09 AM
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There are rich and famous men who choose to get married even if they have the ability to fuck a new woman every week. So some must see the value in it. They just continue fucking a new woman every week while married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:08 AM
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It doesn't impact me much that women have the illusion of choice and thus can't make a decision, most of them ruin their own lives over this. The only thing that impacts me is that I have to filter more ran through women when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:07 AM
2

There's still sex happening between men and women, everyone knows men gatekeep relationships and women gatekeep sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 11:05 AM
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Top 20% doesn't automatically assume money though. It's everything, height, money, looks, game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:04 AM
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It doesn't mix well with the other stat over 80% of women want kids, but you figure that one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:03 AM
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They do, and they're generally betabux or deadbedroom relationships. Women's hypergamy has only been out of control since the inception of online dating, so we are just now seeing how it manifests (less relationships, less marriages, less kids) at a sharp decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:02 AM
22

Idk if you understand how percentages work across a population. If one guy enters the top 20%, another guy leaves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:00 AM
13

Don't you just love when women take 0 accountability? Even when men say they don't want them its "Good he didnt meet my standards anyways" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:59 AM
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Having past partners doesn’t mean we compare… This is pure unadulterated cap. To me it’s just fascinating how people vary. You literally prove you're comparing in the next line.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:58 AM
1

She'll appreciate his dick more at least
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:56 AM
1

Yes...?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:56 AM
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The social consequence is 50% of women projected to be single by 2030. Obviously men do not like the situation and are not committing. I only hope more men start doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:30 AM
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I don't see the problem with this. Feminism means you all have freedom of choice and you all choose top 20% men. This isn't what you wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:07 AM
1

97% of all alimony payments go to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:06 AM
1

Because otherwise top men would just get all of the women via polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:05 AM
-1

They're both important
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 01:04 AM
1

Where did I deny it? You must be a damn moron.
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 12:18 AM
2

Because they don't believe they're ugly or mid
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 12:06 AM
-1

Skill with penetrative sex is a fallacy. There's no special thrusting motion or rhythm that can make up for you not being able to reach the cervix or put pressure on the walls of the vagina because of lack of girth. False. Having the cervix touched doesn't hurt most women, the fact that women only talk about it hurting in when there's a debate about size mattering and not in any other context is proof of this. Also false, most women do not like their cervix rammed. Gently touching it is ok. The …
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 12:04 AM
0

Yea I'll fuck the old biddies in the retirement home
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:24 PM
1

Realistically it's probably less than 20% of men because being 6' alone is already 85th percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:53 PM
1

approx 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:52 PM
4

Men want variety, it's not about who the single hottest girl is (like how women think)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:50 PM
1

Marriage is a crapshoot even for top 20% men. I have Chad friends who got divorce-fucked by women, it's all random luck of the draw. But they or I could easily get a new woman every weekend or every other weekend off an app or at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:27 PM
0

you're a moron.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:23 PM
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Because they're desperate and can't afford to have standards, the way women like it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:06 PM
1

What will be interesting is seeing just how quickly marriages drop off once woman start out earning money and they start to disproportionately lose-rather than gain-assets in divorce. You see the game is rigged. 40% of women are breadwinners in America but only 3% of men receive alimoney payments.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:03 PM
1

for real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:01 PM
1

That's when I get my T checked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:59 PM
1

Hell yea brother
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:56 PM
1

There's 80/20 which is pretty true, most women want a top 20% guy which you could assume 1/5 men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:54 PM
-1

Mostly women, coming to rub it in incels faces (which is hilariously pathetic). There's a small handful of married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:28 PM
0

Ok so the only argument women have is that most men don't have options so they're forced to get married if they want consistent sex. It's literally a threat. What about guys who don't care? What about guys who have abundance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:17 PM
2

Honestly based on the marriages I’ve seen, the men need their wives more than their wives need them Lmao self-awareness = 0. I literally make a point about how women are unappreciative and you come in proving it. This entire paragraph is just threats and shaming language. Surely that's what will get men to stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:13 PM
0

Right, so the same "novelty" things this man is doing would get better results with a newer partner. That's kinda the point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:11 PM
3

Uh huh. The women here are constantly like "All men are disgusting pigs", "I only date 6/6/6 chads", "Men are evil and violent" like of course they're creating incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:08 PM
0

Do you have a source for this claim? Also does this apply to men in relationships or strictly married?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:06 PM
0

I'm warning them not to do it. There's barely any married men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:04 PM
0

The only men women care about are the ones who get sex, and those are the only men vying for marriage anyways, or have anything to lose by being tied down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:03 PM
1

Then I might consider marrying a 30 year old when I'm 40
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:02 PM
0

See the difference is old women are plenty. Chads are rare, so women will bend on age a bit to nab a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:01 PM
0

I mean; women hit the wall much quicker than men. So you are banking on the man decaying at an equal rate to you? Is that the only thing tying him to you? Seems pretty flimsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:24 PM
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If you don't want to get married fine. I don't understand these threads where you bash men who get married. What threads? I have 5 total threads, ever. I'm not bashing anyone, I said getting married as a man is an L.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:22 PM
3

Women all want the same men, this isn't exactly news in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:20 PM
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Where did I say 50? I'm in my early-mid 20s. I could do this easily for 10-15 more years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:19 PM
-1

So marriage is only good for sexless men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:18 PM
2

Typo- I meant woman. I guess men can just keep repeating that forever though, cycle a new woman every few years like Leonardo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:15 PM
7

My thread is that marriage is an L for men and you decide to insult men. Good job! Very self-aware!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:13 PM
1

So marriage is socialism of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:12 PM
4

That's sad af
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:40 PM
1

Ah the classic "men should get married because it's their only option" argument. What if the man has tons of options?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:39 PM
1

when she could just keep hooking up with younger, better looking guys who would wine and dine her Cuz those men don't want her lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:38 PM
2

The men who get chosen to be married are the same top 20% of men who can pull younger women anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:37 PM
3

Except I lose time, sex I could've been having, and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:36 PM
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If younger, better looking women who will suck dick were so easy for men to get they could just find a new one any time they wanted, I get this right now my dude. Any dude who's getting interest from women will get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:35 PM
0

You don't have to take care of anyone if no men are getting married, you can have your catfood and be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:33 PM
3

There's much more money coming out of my wallet from marrying a woman, what are you talking about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:32 PM
1

Marry the poor saps who still think marriage is a good deal for men in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:06 PM
0

Ok now why would a man puts all of this work in for a fat old wife, when a younger, better woman would be more eager and respond better?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:03 PM
-8

Fair point but how can you predict that your partner will maintain after 20 years of marriage? You are still essentially taking a gamble, whereas a new fresh pussy every week/month is guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:59 PM
6

Do you think you're invincible? Yes. To quote the women here, I'd rather be single than unappreciated by my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:58 PM
3

If those guys are that undesirable, then they're at an even bigger risk of deadbedroom, divorce, cheating, and overall marital dissatisfaction. Which makes marriage an even bigger L.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:31 PM
6

So we can have fucked hordes of women until that happens and be happier than some sap stuck with a fat miserable wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:29 PM
1

Right, so you mean the same 20% of men who are actually participating in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:27 PM
6

It's not just sex, these women appreciate their husbands less on every level
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:08 PM
7

Even if they're not getting a 20 year old when they're 40, they can still get a younger and more eager woman due to NRE.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:01 PM
0

You can't argue vs facts bro
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 02:57 PM
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