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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:10 PM
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Question For WomenVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:23 PM
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BASEDVehementlyDrawn/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 04:31 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:56 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:48 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:54 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 09:39 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:38 PM
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CMVVehementlyDrawn/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:15 PM
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So you basically said nothing pertaining to the post & also just tried to shame men? Take the cuckpill
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:19 PM
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You see from my previous post, it doesn't matter what men put. If they express their standards in any shape or form or wording, it is met with female vitriol and shaming. Even if women don't hate the men they reject, they still treat them with contempt. That is ultimately why when a man says he's unattracted to a certain woman, no matter what, he hates her in the eyes of women.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:06 PM
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And you got a thousand people telling you both you're morons and unwilling to engage in debate / straw man / bad faith
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:02 PM
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When men do it, they're incels. When women do it, it's normal.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:01 PM
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Lilith is a well known meme on PPD so you being exactly like her isn't exactly something to be proud of
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 05:58 PM
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Exactly.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 05:04 PM
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Ok Lillith
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 03:27 PM
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I wouldn't want to be a kind partner, because that's what kills women's attraction unfortunately. Men have two choices, be a kind partner who gets 0 pussy and respect, or be a stoic man who has conviction in his beliefs, doesn't take her bullshit and gets laid whenever he wants.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 01:47 PM
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If all you do is lump men into 1 category, explain how you don't hate men?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 01:44 PM
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A lot of men here seem like they would be very angry, bitter, and spiteful in a relationship. They seem like they would be verbally or emotionally abusive Lol "I don't hate men" accuse their wife/ girlfriend of cheating or constantly be worried about fairness This is why men go for low bodycount women
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 12:04 PM
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but overall no woman looks at him with genuine attraction just because he is a good feminist ally or something of that nature. The white knights are quaking right now
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:53 AM
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And the best part, none of this exists outside of the internet (except maybe passport bros)
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:51 AM
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I think this works the other way too though. Like my mom has a really strong manly jaw for a woman and I inherited that.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 11:33 PM
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I've been called incel on here and PPD countless times, I literally have a roster rn "Incel" now just means you disagreed with a woman one time.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:31 PM
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bodycount determines this 100% If she's low bodycount I'd wait pretty long. Probably 2-3 months. If she's high bodycount, I'm not waiting and I'm not committing either way so it doesn't matter.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:23 PM
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I never did either of those things lmao
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 06:58 PM
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You keep saying I dislike women but haven't said how or why? I have standards, and that seems to bother you but you still have never explained how it makes me hate women.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 05:39 PM
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You said "I observed"
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 05:31 PM
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Bro. You're trying to tell me all men are the same yet somehow I'm the one who dislikes women? Get a grip on reality.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 04:02 PM
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I don't even watch porn or have a sex addiction, this is so easily dismantled that it's not worth bothering to. I want you to stew in your misandry
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 02:10 PM
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I don't care to prove why it's wrong. I'd rather just point at laugh when the misandrists expose themselves.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 01:11 PM
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Because you're a misandrist and don't want there to be any nuance, you just want to paint all men as 1 of 2 things
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 12:51 PM
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Lmao I knew you were just a misandrist in disguise
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 12:28 PM
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lmfao this post is dumb af. If you don't think Floyd gets laid you're delusional
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 12:19 PM
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balls are love, balls are life
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 01:10 AM
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No because I am an expert fencesitter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 01:09 AM
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I'm sure some of them do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:42 PM
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Wouldn't a harem need to know about each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:49 PM
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Right, cold approaching is shit tier. A social circle is probably the easiest way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:10 PM
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I mean all men have it, some just try to lie to themselves and say they don't care as like a c*pe for a ran through gf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:45 PM
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Are you OK with your girlfriend also sleeping casually with other men? No. I mean currently I just have a rotation of situationships who don't know about each other. Essentially I would just want them to be exclusive to me, and nothing else changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:35 PM
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RP can be used by any dude. I guess the goal is to improve your place in the marketplace. Like a beta dude will gladly take a LTR/marriage since it's an improvement from nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:27 PM
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Wait I don't understand, how did he treat her like shit for 40 years but she was also trying to branch swing the entire time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:33 PM
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If you take a look at men's complaints about dating it always falls into the same categories: They don't feel wanted/desired They don't feel needed Providing satiates the feeling of being needed. That's why when women blurt "I don't need no man", men are like "ok the feeling is mutual". Men don't want to be with a woman who doesn't need him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:44 PM
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q4all: Do any of your parents display toxic RP traits? Like for instance my mom won't stay with a guy for more than 2 years. She always gets bored of them. She says the whole "I love you but I'm not 'in love' with you"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:39 PM
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No shit though, nobody is going to ask you or bring it up if they don't care to pursue anything further.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:32 PM
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You already missed that boat unless you're 23 or younger. It'll be a blink of your eyes before you're on r/datingoverthirty then r/datingoverforty
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:00 PM
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I agree, but I don't think we're allowed to talk about race here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:59 AM
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I'd say that happens like 1/3 of the time or less. I generally do ask but a lot of the time they'll avoid the question or lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:26 AM
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I don't actively pursue his content, but I can only count 1 time where I actually disagreed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:09 AM
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I'd prefer a relationship but not willing to sacrifice my standards or access to casual sex. I almost wonder if I'm better off just doing poly or like demanding a situationship/multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:07 AM
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you and I both know they won't reveal their past with me until we've had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:04 AM
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I'll entertain this brain exercise. If women only date up, then how will men date women unless they date down?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:50 PM
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single, not unmarried lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:22 PM
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why would your doctor care about your relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:22 PM
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I only go for like 20% of girls and I still do alright
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:21 PM
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You're saying your doctor never said anything like that? Sounds like malpractice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:30 PM
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Lol my mom gets told she needs to "fix her diet" all of the time, that's how doctors tell you you're starting to get overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:26 PM
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you're saying the gym rats get fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:25 PM
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Sure, if you'll concede that being in a relationship from 24-44 in your prime dating years as a woman is better than being in a relationship at 45+, not only in quality of relationship but quantity years spent with someone you care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:24 PM
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I'd love those filters. I mean realistically I'm just swiping fat girls / small titty girls anyways so this filter would just give me more actual options.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:22 PM
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Ok that doesn't change the point, 0-1 is the best odds of success and that's generally what traditional marriage used to require; a virgin bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:19 PM
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40-45% of women expected to be single by 2030 has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:18 PM
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How do you propose we do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:18 PM
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u right, i should be going for gym rats who won't blow up after 30
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:17 PM
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idk why nobody has told you but you can ask your dr lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:17 PM
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IFS study shows 0 and 1 partners being the lowest risk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:54 PM
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Only on PPD will you hear someone say 29.5 BMI is 'not fat' 30 BMI is clinically obese btw
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:52 PM
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Bro I'm just saying you're a smidge away from clinically obese so "I'm not fat" is kinda c*pe?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:49 PM
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got stats on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:48 PM
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I mean sure they can find a partner after 45 years old. But we all know women's options drastically go down as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:43 PM
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homie you're at 29.5 BMI and 30 is considered 'obese'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:42 PM
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watch as they become self-aware and realize they're arguing against their own logical fallacies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:41 PM
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Why not just continue vying for whatever you want and let all this poor unfortunate single women just exist outside of your radar? They generally are invisible to me, I'm just posting this for shits n gigs. But yes, I do believe this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:38 PM
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5'4 and 170 is at 29.2 BMI which is so close to 'obese' that the classification is arbitrary. Also I'm gonna need a link to 4-9 being lower risk of divorce, all studies I've seen don't agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:37 PM
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You clearly didn't read it because it says 25-44
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:19 PM
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They'll be single and lonely just like they wanted! yay!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:18 PM
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45% of women expected to be single by 2030
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:15 PM
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Exactly, so the number of people who are exactly at 2 include religious women who've been married and divorced at a much higher rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:14 PM
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dating aged women, so 18-40
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:12 PM
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It's closer to 40-45% of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:05 PM
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Men don't have to carry children though, so their fatness doesn't impact the health of their child. Also 5'4 at 170 is higher BMI than men at 5'9 and 197
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:44 PM
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I gave the reasons why, which are supported by data that everyone here knows. Sorry, dating is ruthless in 2023
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:41 PM
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Sorry not most* Just 45%. Slightly under half
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:39 PM
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My post uses actual averages & data while yours could possibly just be a larp and completely anecdotal anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:38 PM
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The women with bodycounts of 1-2 are most likely religious as well, could just be their 2nd marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:38 PM
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you heard me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:36 PM
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something something joe byron
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:33 PM
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women with a bodycount of 0 have the highest chance of success
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:32 PM
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Well not everyone gets in a relationship so obviously a lot of people will just have to be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:31 PM
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weird huh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:31 PM
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anecdotes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:30 PM
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"I can slut around and still be monogamous one day!" - some ppd woman and now me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:24 PM
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Women peak at around 25, men at 30. That actually aligns with your 'global 4.2 year marriage age gap'. Sorry just spittin facts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:23 PM
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oxymoron sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:22 PM
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Sure they're thin, but usually ran through. So I'm just being very casual with them until I find the right one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:21 PM
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Because you wouldn't fuck her if you were bi or lesbian or give her a 7/10 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:34 PM
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cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:32 PM
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Good thing you're not fucking women and I am, so your rating means jack shit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:12 PM
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negative 5
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:11 PM
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That's pure unfiltered delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:10 PM
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my brother in christ she is a straight up 2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:06 PM
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There's no skinny girls on ppd lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:06 PM
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I don't think they're actually attracted or have varied taste, they're just so exhausted from having 0 pussy that their standards are in the gutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/145l8th/do\_men\_like\_plus\_size\_women/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:00 PM
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I'm definitely more shallow than most men because I'm allowed to be picky. Look at the "are men attracted to plus size women" thread and see the sad state of men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:59 PM
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Women: I'm gonna post the most unattractive women I can find and see if men say they're attracted to them And what's even sadder is like half of the men said yes. Imagine the reverse, posting a short bald indian janitor and asking women if he's unattractive. Women would be completely unapologetic about it. Simps ruin dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:51 PM
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bruh the one girl is like a B cup while 35-40 BMI, you're capping
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:42 PM
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women: but 80/20 isn't real and women aren't hypergamous!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:31 PM
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Yep because the shit being said accurately reflects them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:28 PM
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For all the centuries of women gaslighting and saying that they're the less shallow gender, when in fact they are the more shallow gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:59 PM
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I can say men shouldn't procreate with ugly women but then we'd go extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:55 PM
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It's a valid concern of women's just like men's valid concern of high bodycount women. I don't think it's cheating but it's not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:20 PM
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Where did I say that? Women have sex with me sober or not sober, it doesn't matter. Obviously people who are drunk tend to have more sex, this isn't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:16 PM
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When she whined about her coworkers hating her a few weeks back I was not in any way surprised. sweet justice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:15 PM
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Being hyper focused on how many drinks you're having to be an appropriate amount of alcohol before it's dicey is counter-productive to chill party lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:59 AM
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Because 2 people drinking and having sex isn't shady and the rhetorical situation you propose basically never happens
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:47 AM
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You usurp the father like Zeus did to Chronos and take his throne
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:26 AM
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I don't really watch porn or anime but ok lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:24 AM
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They're small boobs for how big they are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:19 AM
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No. The women in your link have very unlucky body types, like big bellies and small boobs. Generally bigger girls can be somewhat redeemed with big titties and better WHR but these girls are just SOL. edit: lol at getting downvoted for answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:18 AM
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lmao nope
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:52 PM
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It's about as rare as a 6/6/6 chad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:29 PM
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Still haven't found her yet, but I'm young. I got time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:49 PM
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For who? Someone else maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:46 PM
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fit feminine and friendly (and low bodycount) so yea pretty much a unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 08:41 PM
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Man looking for a relationship Woman obliges him and has sex, in the hopes of a relationship Man doesn't want to pursue further, ghosts or just tells her he's not interested Women will say it's not casual, men will say it's casual in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:38 PM
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Go for it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:19 PM
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Women want monogamy from men who could be polygamous, and want polygamy from men who can't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:11 PM
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Monster lmao Who do you think women want to fuck, me or the virgin guy Maybe you need to fix up your priorities. Watch what they do and not what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:09 PM
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I don't have any skeletons because I'm not ashamed of myself like some people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:59 PM
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Dude you argue in bad faith & troll but for some reason the mods allow it. No male on here gets the same leeway you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:54 PM
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It's probably a good strategy. If you ask any blue piller how to get laid, they'll tell you to go to parties and do drugs and lower your inhibitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:46 PM
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If she's passed out then she literally can't consent because she's unconscious so obviously that's grape. But here is to moving goalposts because the OP said "does the deed while super drunk" not actually KO'd.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:52 PM
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Alcohol is a truth serum. Meaning if you're fucking someone while drunk, you still would've fucked them sober. All it did was lower your inhibition to take that plunge. People (especially women) love to use alcohol as a tool to enact their non-accountability. In 99.999999% of cases, both man and woman are going to be drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:46 PM
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I doubt it, you're FDS in the making
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:43 PM
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because their husbands/bfs/lovers have died I'm not that old yet. But I had one woman who I flirted with heavily at a job a few years ago message me kinda recently, she had a boyfriend all while we worked together and honestly she struck me as the type who would cheat, even back then. She messaged me recently to talk but it was thinly veiled as an attempt to hook up; I guess her and her boyfriend aren't doing hot and rather than break up, she's just looking for dick on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:39 PM
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Having sex with a girl while you're both drunk isn't grape. Yall just keep pushing the definition further and further into obscurity. Alcohol is a truth serum. Posts like these make me wonder if any of you have ever actually been in public, drinking, partying, or really out from underneath a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:34 PM
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remindme! in 5 years when you're an adult and this just describes you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:30 PM
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All women are Dee Dee. They are but a leaf in the wind, getting wafted around helplessly through their entire lives. A perpetual victim to their environment. Then come on Reddit and have some fucking opinions lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:14 PM
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If you stretch the definition to make it "anything I personally don't like" then it makes the word have less meaning. That's why these teenage Twitter rants are nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:07 PM
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What women think abuse is: "He deadnamed someone in a white, liberal majority country"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:38 PM
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Unfortunately most women are liberal, especially in America so men don't really get to have an opinion about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:22 PM
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Is it ever about anything but hating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:20 PM
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I think I'm pretty squarely in the middle as a moderate, but I end up dating liberal women (because it does seem like that's all there is). My perspective: Liberalism hates masculinity. Essentially they've created this narrative that gender roles are bad yet I see TONS of liberal women who want me to pay for the date, open the door for them, be masculine in tone, etc. You are giving mixed messages to men. I acknowledge that liberal men are probably more beta on average. I mean you can't go "it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:14 PM
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Nope just 5'11 - 6' and I'm 25
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:27 AM
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Just conveniently the max age that men would be around young women in school and college
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:20 AM
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"Young women don't want age gap relationships. Well they do. Actually they prefer if a guy is like 3-4 years older BUT THATS IT" Women defeating their own CMV in the post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 02:15 AM
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I'm assuming thin if you have the balls to post a pic. No I would never go on the servers tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:35 AM
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How on earth can you believe that a desperate desire to fuck almost anything means men don’t ever cheat? Because obviously if men are such lizard brains then you'd be worried about your boyfriend doing the same, but you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:32 PM
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What's purge?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:16 PM
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we already know about you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:20 PM
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The same advice as redpill, they just don't think it's redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:48 PM
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Ok this is me guessing who's fat here: Original Post Everyone who asked "guess me" is probably thin, everyone who reacted negatively or sarcastically is probably fat. Thanks for the self reports lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:43 PM
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You know how you can like tell when someone is fat just from their voice? I can tell which of yall are fat from the way you type
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:48 PM
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I suspect under 5% of all relationships are initiated by women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:17 PM
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Because they know dating women is a fucking racket
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:29 PM
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I did report it and you guys deem it acceptable. So I guess trolling is allowed here (for women).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 03:01 PM
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Maybe she should clean up lmao She should break up with him so he can find a pussy that doesn't stink
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:59 PM
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It's only tolerated for women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:55 PM
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Well she has troll posts up right now that are completely bad faith and not engaging in debate, that I guess are allowed to stay up...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:54 PM
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So do you agree that male sexuality causes less cheating? Then also if you agree that male sexuality causes less cheating overall, it would be in men's benefit for this hypothetical scenario where women have men's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:53 PM
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You didn't answer my question though. This should be reportable for trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:38 PM
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Do you think men and women are the same then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:10 PM
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Ok so how can you say that you have no fear of male sexuality, no fear of men cheating due to all women being potential partners, yet it's somehow worse? Seems contradictory to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:14 PM
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Aren't you like 12
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:31 AM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:20 AM
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Lmao like I'd be interested in the fatties here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:14 AM
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I'm starting to disqualify women who can't spell. Are my standards becoming too high?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:42 AM
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Half of the women on here are already AI so I probably won't notice anything different. Basically just a series of pre-programmed responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:40 AM
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Cuz most "redpillers" are just blackpillers in disguise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:37 AM
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Right, feminism had told women that they should behave like men and there be no consequences. You can't really shatter their entire world view that they've been following as gospel in a single post on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:36 AM
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I've had girls tell me that they considered ghosting/unmatching me because they felt I was too attractive for them. Just normal low self-esteem woman things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:18 AM
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Are women in constant fear of every single woman being an affair partner with their man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:17 AM
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Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:43 AM
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Sure but I wouldn't want to be living a life with no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:53 PM
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What kind of life would that be? Sounds shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:06 PM
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For men your league is who you can get for sex, for women it's who you can get for a relationship; since this is what both genders want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:33 PM
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The simping honestly makes me sick. I'm 100% confident this has never led to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:00 PM
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it gets easier relative to women, who hit 30 and it's basically over. They either gotta date 10 years older or be celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:58 PM
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lmao bruh are you gonna tell me that men don't care about bodycount now too? Who's delusional here?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:54 PM
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my reward is getting that nut
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:53 PM
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That's literally just c*ping for shit dating behavior. Look I calls it how I sees it, don't get mad at the messenger. Men don't like it when women try to act like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:56 PM
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Lmao pre-selection bruh, women would all just swipe the same guys anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:23 PM
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Yes men who women want and men who women don't want. Why even ask
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:46 PM
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It's awkward to withdraw consent in the moment, especially as a man. And tbh I'd rather just fuck and move on anyways, I did my part to be attractive to her and this is my reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:20 PM
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I mean I don't go overseas but I'm just saying it's a pretty obvious reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 06:19 PM
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I've done that before and the girl freaked out crying saying I thought she was ugly. She made a huge scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:48 PM
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Or you could just admit that women use deceptive things to try to improve their SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:33 PM
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not attractive enough Easy, women use all sorts of shit to cover up, makeup, clothes that conceal. Maybe she had bad hygiene when naked. And I personally would never date a single mom so that's ruled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:21 PM
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Explain how it's wrong? What if you didn't make up your mind until after sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:12 PM
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Most men don't get to pick, they get chosen. Idk why this is so hard to grasp for yall. Men only get to pick when they're attractive & thus have options and choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:04 PM
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Yea, I've definitely met some 20s women who were jaded. But this is the only woman I've hooked up with past 30 and she was like a minefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:30 PM
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Women typically say "Your league is who you can attract" as a gotcha for men who have to punch down on OLD. Everyone knows men have to punch down on OLD but women want to act like because there's a 2:1 ratio that they somehow magically got hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:41 PM
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Both, it's off-putting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:40 PM
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Are women in constant fear of every single woman alive stealing their man? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:39 PM
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Being with a woman who is happy “settling” makes lots of men angry They're angry because the woman sees it as settling, when in reality that's her league. This is what hypergamy does to women, they're so consumed by it that nothing else matters. Some women's entire lives are dictated by their hypergamous nature. Think about it. The women who fiend after some high value men and then end up cat ladies, their entire life predicted by hypergamy. Women who cheat, monkey branch and serial monogamy whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:49 PM
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Fuck? Yes. Spend quality time? Probably not. They wouldn't be seen in public with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:46 PM
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Yes she used the word "hate" to make it extremist when she knows that hate isn't the correct word.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:42 PM
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Usually people are more coy about that until they've established some dependency
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:40 PM
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Hello women A man not wanting to commit to you doesn't mean he hates you. Do you hate all men that you don't want to have sex with? Get a grip, jesus H
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:37 PM
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I'm quoting exactly what a woman said. "Hate"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:35 PM
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Barely tolerate = hate? That's a leap
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:35 PM
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I gave her a shot, I really did
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:34 PM
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Men not wanting to commit to a woman doesn't mean they hate them. Do you hate every man you don't want to fuck? Seems toxic ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:34 PM
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I literally copied a woman saying men hate them, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:33 PM
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For people who've been in a toxic relationship, I guess. I'm talking about a new relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:32 PM
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I think men used to care about paternity uncertainty and that's like the biological explanation, but now that everyone uses condoms and birth control; there's still a disgust of hypergamy. Hypergamy is very cuckold-like. Women don't want to fuck a guy and then downgrade after, aka "settle". Men have no issue with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:32 PM
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It’s not a flex to hate the women you sleep with. This is just an obnoxious bias to shame fuckboy behavior. Nobody fucks people they hate. This is now how human dynamics work. Two people need to at least like each other and maybe have things in common before they fuck. Now the man may or may not commit to her from certain behaviors that set off red flags, but that doesn't mean he hates her. It's women's job to prove themselves to men if they want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:21 PM
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I prefer getting high pressure blasted in a sanitizing chamber, takes 5 seconds and kills 99% of germs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:16 PM
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Ok nevermind, 31 year old chick icked me. I'm sticking to young girls moving forward. These older women are too jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:14 PM
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Women love to use BMI in their arguments but never bodyfat percentages where women are way more unlikely to fall in unhealthy ranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:12 PM
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Most men who have options don't want exclusivity and they're waiting for a woman to impress them, like me. This shit does not impress me, so I look at it she's vetting herself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:10 PM
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Bruh I really don't care for pity parties. The point is women find these things attractive in men, so if you want an attractive woman then do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:07 PM
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No, it's because men care about bodycounts precisely because of hypergamy. If women were fucking like men, I don't think men would have a problem with high bodycounts. And surely men would not have an issue with getting pump n dumped, because most men don't care about a relationship title. It's precisely because women demand monogamy that men want low bodycounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:03 PM
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It's just not even something I can comprehend. If a woman had male sexuality, then they'd be ok with fucking down which goes directly against hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:44 AM
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Not fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:41 AM
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It could be that men genuinely like their women but women just see their men as trophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:09 AM
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The only options she gave were white countries. It just looks like color discrimination as a guise for shaming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:47 AM
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You honestly think most men are ok with women fucking around while they're dating them? And then call me delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:36 AM
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Men are salty about it cuz he would probably pick up 6s irl but OLD is skewed so heavily towards women that it ends up like this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:31 AM
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women don't listen to what men find valuable until it's too late (or just never)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:27 AM
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No she's male brained and listens to male advice; which is what women call a pickme but I call it optimizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:23 AM
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a full point is pretty steep. I would never do it. Especially considering women age like milk, it's only going to go downhill from there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:22 AM
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a full point is pretty steep imo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:21 AM
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Nah no dude is going to be ok with punching that far down
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:58 AM
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He could wait for a 6 but it probably won't ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:09 AM
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I'm assuming he'd commit to a 6 but the 6s are flaky on OLD. He won't commit to a 4/5 but those are the only ones giving him attention. It's the same story of every man who's dated irl and on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:47 PM
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Well me personally, I don't take women on dates until I've talked to them for at least a week. If they're fucking another guy while seeking attention from me, that's just a huge ick. Attention seeking behavior like that is just gross and disrespectful. Like I said, I don't demand women do anything differently. I'm not telling anyone to stop being a whore or stop seeing multiple men at a time or anything. All I'm saying is that it gives me the ick and I would never commit to someone like that. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:42 PM
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On OLD, men have to punch down an extra point or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:36 PM
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Are you asking facetiously or do you really not know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:35 PM
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Why did she have to choose me? You're going in circles. If she didn't choose, then she'd just be fucking any dude with a pulse or any dude that said hi to her or any dude that hit on her. Obviously she gatekeeps who she fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:32 PM
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Achieving intimacy is proving value though... she also had to choose you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:54 PM
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Europe, Italy, or France So white people, white people, or white people? This post is sus on the racism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:53 PM
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My wife didn't gatekeep sex from me and I didn't gatekeep a relationship from her. So your wife was just open legs with every man that hit on her? Cmon bro, you aren't some exception to this rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:51 PM
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I said poison, not wine. Actual poison
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:49 PM
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I think you're hinting at society having a blind spot in detecting creepiness in men versus women. Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:48 PM
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All relationships are formed this way, whether it's overt or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:07 PM
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Well when most women say nerd they mean chiseled jaw fit, thin guy who just so happens to wear glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:06 PM
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Nerds are meta right now though, jokes on you. I'm getting tons of pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:01 PM
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This is like a more complicated explanation for simping
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:59 PM
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Women gatekeep sex, so it's not my job to tell her who to fuck and who to not fuck. Men gatekeep relationships, so if she wants my commitment, she better not be a slut. It's pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:56 PM
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I only engage in casual sex as part of my vetting process. Women are much more honest after you've had sex and they have no more leverage left. If women were forthcoming about their bodycounts and sexual past and other shit prior to sex, I wouldn't need to do this. Women gatekeep sex / men gatekeep relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:49 PM
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If you don't gatekeep sex, then surely you are giving sex out to every Joe Schmoe who hits on you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:48 PM
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It's one sided for a few reasons; I want sex and women gatekeep sex. This dynamic shifts once I get sex though, and she wants a relationship. This is just how dating is and has always been. If you don't want traditional dating, go for some ambiguous boy/girl who doesn't uphold gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:46 PM
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I disagree, I think if women were male brained, men would be all over them. For example Pearlythings, who is definitely very average looking has a metric shit-ton of simps
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:45 PM
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You have to show value as a man in order to attract women. I mean I shouldn't need to explain this to people, it should just be common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:56 PM
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Those guys have to do literally everything I said above to get a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:03 PM
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redpill is about self-improvement to get women, not crying about the state of dating and going mgtow. So... yea
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:56 PM
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redpill turns you mgtow? I don't think you're doing it right buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:37 PM
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Does mean equal creepy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:12 PM
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I've seen Chadfishing but I haven't seen what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:10 PM
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I see, so she actually has to borderline SA someone before it's creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:09 PM
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Was this a lesbian relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:04 PM
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This is a very noticeable minority of average looking women with extremely low self esteem. And they're all here on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:49 PM
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I generally agree, but this is a spectrum. Most women have had what men would consider a pump n dump, aka a guy out of their league fucks them and dips while the girl was looking for more. Some women have this happen once, and learn their lesson and stop. Some women do this endlessly and rack up huge bodycounts. And there are a very small chunk of women who legit can have casual sex and aren't looking for relationships who just get huge bodycounts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:33 PM
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It's only hypocritical if you believe men and women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:30 PM
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That's why I always plate until I get honesty from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:58 PM
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I agree but then if you're arguing that it's ok in the meantime; you're acknowledging that it's still bad and if it's only done in a small amount it won't hurt you "that much". A good analogy would be drinking poison. "Well, if you only drink a small amount it won't hurt you that bad" but it doesn't net gain you anything, only net negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:57 PM
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I already held up my standards for women, if I got a date & then sex. Now it's their turn to impress me. This is how relationships work my dude, once you open your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:54 PM
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It's not hypocritical because men gatekeep relationships. If women want my commitment then they have to prove themselves to be better than the crowd. This is why abundance is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:29 PM
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No, most men jerk off to porn but you are arguing that men should never chase women and only jerk off to porn, which is exactly the "hermit" I was describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:28 PM
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All women have wider access to sex than me. That doesn't make her special.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:25 PM
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Why do women always want to act like men don't gatekeep relationships and women don't gatekeep sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:25 PM
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Just as women don't owe men sex, men don't owe their productivity, labor, protection or sacrifice to society to pay for single moms. But that's the point. You can't expect sex when you don't provide anything. If you want to subvert your expectations and just live as a hermit jerking off, go for it. I wouldn't nudge any man I actually was friends with in that direction though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:13 PM
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Sure I guess but women use that shit as one big c*pe. That the guy just "isn't the one" because he didn't accept any shit behavior she did. Women love 0 accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:10 PM
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Because it's disrespectful to fuck a guy and then go on a date with me the next day. I don't care if I didn't verbally announce this to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:08 PM
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Anything when not done in moderation is harmful, that's why I said that. You and the OP are talking about 2 different people, one guy who uses porn occasionally and one guy who completely relies on porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:06 PM
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Sure, if she was the one I would drop all the other girls I was talking to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:04 PM
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I'm not demanding anything. That's the key. If she doesn't do this on her own then she's not getting any respect from me and she's permanently plated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:03 PM
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By cooties, do you mean HIV?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:50 PM
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Porn is a crutch. Typically men do masculine things in an effort to attract a woman, they: Get jobs Work out Eat healthy Take initiative Porn cuts right to the reward (ejaculation) without needing any of the former. It doesn't teach men how to be successful in life, and when not done in moderation will actively harm them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:49 PM
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She said its ok because we were not bf/gf officially yet. It might not be cheating, but it's ok if you are uncomfortable with it. Next time you start dating someone and progress to the second date, maybe ask if you could focus on each other for the time being and date exclusively. I know a lot of women (me included) are fine with that. This is stupid. If a woman doesn't do this on her own without me needing to tell her to stop fucking other dudes, then sorry, she just isn't the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:43 PM
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Sorry bro, she's for the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:19 PM
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I'm not looking directly for casual sex but if it happens, I'm not going to turn it down. I do want a relationship at some point but I'm also picky on who I commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:11 PM
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It's true, I've done this. Although it was a mix of too thirsty and too forward that ultimately turned me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:08 PM
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I would advise her to make men wait, because it will weed out guys who feel lukewarm about her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:06 PM
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Alright PPD you convinced me, the ultimate test of how Chadly I am: I will just put "looking for a big titty waifu" on my Tinder bio and see if I still get matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:03 PM
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link please
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:02 PM
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therefore lack empathy for "some loser" that has to pay for sex? I never said "some loser", you did. That's lacking empathy. I do feel bad for men who have to resort to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:01 PM
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You can have self respect and swipe right on girls that gross you out lmao I swipe left on like 20% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:57 AM
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Lol the stats show that over 5% of women 18+ are literally virgins, so just in America there's a 10s of millions of virgins alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 01:34 AM
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cmon man, you and I both know that the percentage of people who used that was under 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:25 AM
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Yes women love to bring up how it was 50 years ago but avoid talking about right now in the present, where you have to be a 6'3 chiseled Adonis on PEDs to get into a movie as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:06 AM
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It's not depressing at all. That bitch should be taking care of her kid, not going to applebee's and sucking dick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:55 PM
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By extreme male sexuality do you just mean polygyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:54 PM
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modern moral sensibilities aka feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:50 PM
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I met a lil hottie off Tinder but she's 31 Am I still allowed to talk shit about "The wall" on PPD? I just want to know if I'll get a foul called on the play
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:48 PM
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OLD wasn't even a thing in 2002
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:46 PM
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He is a victim of non-abundance. F's in the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:44 PM
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Me personally? I know to hide it, but that's the point. I wouldn't be outright and say I want a big titty waifu.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:09 PM
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What if they said they want a big titty waifu who is smart and loyal and funny? I don't think it makes it any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:53 PM
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Even if she asked you what your preferences are, it still would get a negative reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:52 PM
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Bodyfat graph This is a graph of just a general population (not accounting for relationship status, since nobody would ever test that) and you can still eyeball here that women trend higher than the acceptable range; which is the black line, while men tend to trend lower. https://academic.oup.com/ajcn/article/95/3/594/4578297
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:47 PM
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I don't know how you'd filter people in relationships to do this as research; this would be like the bane of women. But yes, look at 30-35 year old couples and tell me the women aren't in unacceptable BF ranges compared to their partners. This isn't about men being required higher standards to be considered attractive because that's way off the point the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:31 PM
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Like my friends care a lot less than I do. They'll date any woman from 5' - 6' and have no issues. That's what I meant. I don't think women being taller makes them more masculine, I just am not attracted to tall women. She can still be tall and feminine and I would still be unattracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:23 PM
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If having hot women as their models didn't work to sell product, they wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:21 PM
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I know this. I'm saying women fall outside of the 'healthy range' way more often than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:20 PM
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I don't think in general men care too much about height but me personally, I don't find tall women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:18 PM
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I've seen it before too, on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:17 PM
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Weight train? You can't be serious. These women don't even get on the tread. I would assume most women over 25 bmi are overweight but I'd rather go off bodyfat percentages, since it's more accurate indicator of health.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:13 PM
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Women have so little empathy for men that they can still insult men who've committed suicide. What a dystopia
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:08 PM
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Bruh if a woman weighs more than her man, she's fat. Men are like 30% taller and more muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:06 PM
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There it is, just making sure to get straight to the misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:05 PM
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Not really since the threshold/requirements for dating as a man are significantly higher than women's. Half of my buddies are slim guys with fat girlfriends. Plus women are more prone to letting themselves go after getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:02 PM
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If a gay man wrote "looking for a big cock to fit my wide as" he'd get 0 responses. Lmao this is a goofy ass argument because I know for a fact that gay men do this and it there's no issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:00 PM
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bruh most men get some fat slob of a gf, and have to accept what they can get. Let's be honest here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:58 PM
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Link me a chadfish with the bio I stated and I want to see how it does
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:55 PM
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But once you're in bed with her, almost every woman wants you to say you love her tits. Ok, now we can just be honest and overt about it. Ok let me give an example like this. If she asks you what you're looking for in women and you say "I prefer big boobs", even if she likes you, it will disgust her on some level. Maybe if she likes you enough she can overlook it, but either way it's never a positive. Women know they're in a seller's market, especially on apps. The amount of guys swiping left be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:54 PM
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How is wanting a big titty waifu unpleasant exactly? Can you explain that to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:51 PM
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Literally the only reason I would never use a sex worker is because I don't need to. It has 0 to do with the personal connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:50 PM
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Victoria's Secret isn't "body positivity", it's sexualizing/objectifying Victoria's Secret sells women's products to women, so who is sexualizing/objectifying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:48 PM
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Most women are disinterested to disgusted by the sexuality of men they aren’t interested in. This only applies if the guy is also interested in her. If he's not interested in her, he's a pedo/predator/insecure/whatever other keywords women like to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:45 PM
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It doesn't even need to be in your bio. If you dropped this during a 1st-3rd date, it would probably result in negative feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:44 PM
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Because they aren't deluding themselves into believing that all bodies are equal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:43 PM
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Yes, male preferences are creepy. Are you oblivious to how accurately my original post is depicting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:42 PM
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You're proving my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:46 PM
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Yes, there is an objectifying quality to this that will ick people, but I do think it goes deeper than that. People don't like to be calculated as numbers, not in 1 or 2 traits but any traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:44 PM
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Someone just posted Dua Lipa's new boyfriend recently who's in his 40s and he was getting shamed on reddit. High status celeb guy (I forgot his name) They will shame him if they can't have him, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:43 PM
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That doesn't stop me from getting the ick from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:41 PM
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You don't reveal them because you know it will ick men, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:09 PM
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Since body positivity does not apply to men, it's essentially just another form of shaming men's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:57 PM
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No they aren't lmfao Women are extremely quick to throw out the word "predator" even for high status men that would gladly be in a relationship with. Why do you think Leonardo catches so much heat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:56 PM
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Because it's objectifying and dehumanizing, reduces men to a measurement.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:55 PM
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That's the point, there's an innate disgust about it. That's why people have to hide them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:47 PM
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Maybe you individually, but the entire body positivity movement; aka fat women should get victoria's secret deals is not my imagination. And you never hear about body positivity for men, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:27 PM
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The odds of finding a whopper and an acorn requires pretty big bodycount, as most men tend to fall within the same size range. So point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:10 PM
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That would require at least 2 bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:01 PM
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Even worse Bye felicia
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:46 PM
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Sure but I would assume to develop a preference you'd have to try a wide variation of sizes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:45 PM
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If you've had enough partners to develop an actual dick size preference, then congrats, you've given me the ick (and most men). Sorry not sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:24 PM
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holy shit this makes me uncomfy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:14 PM
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Right. America claims it's socialist capitalist but heavy emphasis on the capitalist part, where a lot of European countries have actual socialist things that benefit average people.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 03:18 PM
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The secret is that it's not just internet women, bro. The internet is just what you get when people are unfiltered via anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:14 PM
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Yea those countries also don't have unadulterated capitalism, and a probably didn't even get solid internet access until recently.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 02:12 PM
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This is just cap. There isn't a country with more entitled, woke people than the US. That country may be in the early stages of 4th wave feminism but it's not even close.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 01:24 PM
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Yes, give them 20 years and they will be in advanced stages of feminism like the US is
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 01:23 PM
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Yes that's why a lot of Europe is included when people talk about "the West", these countries are in the beginning stages of what the US is in now
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 08:51 AM
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It's all due to feminism bruv. When women have too much power, this is what happens. And ironically, women can only have this much power when men hand it to them.
/r/AllPillDebate05/06/23 07:01 AM
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I'm not even denying dickpill, I'm saying this post specifically doesn't have any evidence of dickpill lol
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 09:22 PM
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Maybe if he specifically said that the other dude's dick was bigger, but he didn't and you're just assuming.
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 05:25 PM
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Where's the dickpill, he didn't even say anything about the size
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 04:46 AM
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I wouldn't get any because I'm already attractive, it would be like min/maxxing at this point and I don't have the money or want for that
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 03:40 AM
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Women: "Why can't I be a slut, men are so insecure" Do you want the men or not? If you don't want them, then why would you care if they're insecure? Unless we're onto something here and you know that most men care.....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:08 AM
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Because those are women's standards, not men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:05 AM
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Yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:02 AM
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Every man on the planet would rather be the "casual sex guy" vs "the relationship material" guy. We need to stop the cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:01 AM
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My standards are high because I have tons of options. Low bodycount / no casual sex is my number 1 Nurturing Submissive Same sense of humor as me Non-religious or at least not a fanatic No children College educated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:00 AM
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Active makes sure that she doesn't become fat in her 30-40s. Any woman who says "I don't need to exercise" is probably looking ok in her 20s and ends up like all the other women who smash into the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:55 AM
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I have sympathy for incls. I have even tried to help a few of them out with varying success. A lot of their struggles come from being beaten down their entire lives, a perpetual negative feedback loop. I don't believe there are that many "true" incls. Most of them actually just need slight adjustments and self-improvement and they can get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:53 AM
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This is socially acceptable misandry. Imagine if a man said the reverse of this, how he would be lit on fire and destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:51 AM
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There is no Stacy hot enough to make me tolerate bad behavior. I have too many options to deal with that shit, I'll surely find a better woman down the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:50 AM
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There isn't anything because men are generally honest and forthcoming
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:48 AM
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Only gay men will pay for thirst traps
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:48 AM
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The dude is settling cuz he's getting a woman who isn't as good looking as his exes, and she's also lower value aka single mom with multiple baby daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:47 AM
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Is this a self report? There are billions of women below 20 bodycount lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:46 AM
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Complete cap
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:45 AM
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If a man wants to have sex with a hot uneducated woman (career waitress/hairdresser/barista) no one seems to care - barring a huge age gap. Meanwhile, if a woman wants a short term fling with a hot guy who can bench press 3x his IQ all of sudden it becomes a problem. If men are insecure, then why do you care if they don't want to date you when you have a high bodycount? Seems like you're complaining about the guys you don't want? Unless....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:45 AM
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I'm about to give you the entire life cycle of PPD in shorthand Women ask why men don't want to commit to high bodycount women Men say because women won't stay committed long term Women ask for studies and research on this Men give studies and research that women don't ever click to open Women say "why r u so unscientific!!" The end. This is every argument that's ever been had on PPD. You're welcome, thanks for stopping by
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:51 AM
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Any standard a man has is shamed: Want a low bodycount woman? You're insecure Want a young woman? You're a pedo Want a thin woman? You're fatphobic The only standards men are allowed to have are the ones that women have for men; like wanting someone with an education or a career
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:42 PM
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because feminism is what most women innately believe, the same way redpill is for men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:41 PM
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Yep? See how feminism isn't any different from redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:36 PM
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Yep. The left says "If you aren't as left as me, you're right". It's a circle jerk of who can be the most progressive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:12 PM
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Centuries? Most feminists are in their 20s and haven't had a single hardship in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:58 PM
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Cancel culture is modern witch burning
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:20 PM
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What? I'm saying that white male characters are specifically used as punching bags in movies in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:40 PM
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Hopefully you're fighting for Johnny Depp after his career was ended by Amber Heard even though he was innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:39 PM
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Women don't want to build a man's confidence. They want a man who's already impenetrable from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:09 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:08 PM
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He at least has answers and isn't shitting on men. Whelp, might as well join the rapist/sex trafficker. He seems reasonable. Also this is pretty classic witch burning that the left loves to do. He's not even convicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:07 PM
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Tate is the inevitable result of the pendulum swinging too far to the left All of the cancel culture propaganda Feminism being pushed everywhere including businesses and movies now. This includes movies where all male characters are dopes while women get to be badasses. Bonus points if the male characters are white. Lib-Left not having a solution for the sexlessness epidemic and in general just alienating men. The left has no answers for men. They have no role models or heroes to look up to for …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:30 PM
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Women will do anything to undermine men's standards, preferences, boundaries in order to bolster their own. Once you realize this, then you can stop giving af what they want and play the dating game for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:47 AM
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Oh, you said they were oppressed. So I was assuming you meant they're currently oppressed. Good to know you don't think they're oppressed in 2023 though, phew. Oh and here: Women outearn men in most major cities
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:12 PM
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not all wealthy people have good relationships"? This Just like all criminals aren't poor people. Rich people commit crime too, they just get away with it. This is how America is. Rich people also cheat, they're just more sneaky about it. More meticulous and efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:11 PM
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I think it's amusing that you assume I'm not also UMC, but maybe it's because I haven't been randomly snooty to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:45 PM
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Most entertainers are nepo children. I don't think you understand how this works. Besides, it's in women's best interest to nab a high earning man, and for that man to have side women that she doesn't know about (which does happen with very wealthy people all of the time). So the "successful relationships" you're talking about are only surface level.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:20 PM
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this is some bootlicker shit People with wealth have no less flaws than people without money. They just get away with their flaws more
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:56 PM
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I read that people tend to agree more on who's unattractive, but for people who are attractive they have more stand-out features. So people who are widely considered unattractive tend to be plain looking. People who are attractive have a wider range of other's who perceive them as attractive or unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:19 PM
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there's a lot of ugly ppd women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:17 PM
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People who are middle class or upper middle class have no faults and are holy saints. This is my impression of you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:13 PM
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get tired of searching for “the love of our life” sad story but that's the consequences of 'sexual empowerment'
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:18 PM
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why 15 years older than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:16 PM
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Sort of. But is it wrong for an oppressed group of people to fight against being oppressed? I always hear this get thrown around but in America, women make more money, have higher college graduation rates, lower suicide rates and homelessness rates, better mental health. How exactly are they oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:39 PM
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yea that's what I figured
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:23 PM
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In fact much of society has already done that No? Feminists have been fighting against men's standards much to the chagrin of men. There's obviously a gender war brewing right now, and at the epicenter is feminism vs redpill. Women think shaming men into having no standards = men accepting their high bodycounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:54 PM
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I think you just need to raise your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:44 PM
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No clue, but they should upgrade to a newer model.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:31 PM
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I'm objective about it. The men are still fit, have good hair, are tall, etc. The women look like whatever container you poured them out of. I'm mostly just annoyed that male beauty standards need to be maintained into men's 30s and 40s while women just become sloths as soon as they lock a guy down. It's probably the main reason why I won't ever commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:29 PM
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Because the "lower your standards" comment wouldn't need to be said if that were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:28 PM
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It says even the female chief was valued for her virginity in this essentially poly culture lol Since cultures have shifted recently into more global cultures, it has shown that most cultures seem to value the same things. Women valuing height in men is not specific to America, women across the globe do this. In the same way that men value purity across the globe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:26 PM
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Do you have any scientific backing on this or is this just some new weird form of misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:24 PM
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Can any of you read? This hypothetical girl wouldn't need to lower her standards if she were as hot as she thinks she is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:33 PM
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Name one single culture that values female promiscuity. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:32 PM
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Americans as a whole have gotten fatter but then you're moving what is considered average if everyone gets fatter as a whole. Globally, men haven't gotten uglier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:31 PM
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Yes, I just said the consequence of her sleeping around is that she's dissatisfied with the men who will commit to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:29 PM
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The 3 celebs you mentioned all work out my dude...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:28 PM
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Any woman who says the wall doesn't exist hasn't seen the average 30 year old couple or is just in complete denial about it. The man is better looking than the woman like 95% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:17 PM
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I can give an apt real life example: a feminist woman tries to 'defy' bodycount double standards by sleeping around in her 20s and then ends up dissatisfied with her male options in her 30s. It's so common of a theme at this point it should be a meme format.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:14 PM
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Which means that attractive women are dating and marrying attractive men, no matter how much some resident PPD incels want this to be fake news. I mean, you said it yourself: That's not my argument. My argument is that the so-called attractive women aren't that attractive if they need to lower their standards and that most women think their looksmatch = lowering their standards. It's honestly kind of ironic, especially considering that recent tiktok about women who wouldn't date their genderbent…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:10 PM
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If you think those people don't exercise then you're just delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:08 PM
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bruv women are just as bad, this isn't specifically a male change
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:06 PM
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can usually find a man if they lower their standards a bit She wouldn't need to lower her standards if she were actually hot. This is the crux of your guys' entire argument because women are completely clueless/delusional about their own SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:33 AM
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Because women think all women are hot; they're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:27 AM
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There's consequences for trying to ditch them too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:10 AM
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can usually find a man if they lower their standards a bit You already said it yourself. The revenge fantasy isn't that they're cat-ladies, it's much worse. They're doomed to marry their looksmatch (how horrible!) and be miserable with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:53 AM
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What if I don't want to ditch double standards? What if they're there for a reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:51 AM
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Evolution doesn't work that way. There's no species that devolves over the course of 1 single generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:46 AM
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I don't believe that men changed or devolved in the last 40 years since the advent of the internet. Is it really that hard to grasp that people's perceptions of each other change more easily than their physical body actually devolving?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:51 AM
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I think of it globally tbh, as yea the average in America is definitely skewed by how fat everyone is. What I personally consider a 5 is still better looking than the average woman in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:46 AM
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This but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:44 AM
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Men's value doesn't increase from getting sex. Their value has to already be there in order to get the sex, it's the opposite. Women don't need any value to get sex. Literally any woman on the planet can walk into the middle of a street and yell "who wants to fuck me" and will get some takers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:42 AM
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There's no such thing as natural value. It sounds like you just want to justify being lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:40 AM
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I'ma start calling fat women "high gravity"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:53 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:49 AM
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Are you actually bluepill or is this ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:09 AM
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Oh man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:07 AM
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If you don't ever fully commit then you never have to worry about being dumped or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:06 AM
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For real. You all have seen 40+ single childless women irl right? They don't strike me as a happy bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:03 AM
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Have I ever gone for a girl I otherwise would not be attracted to due to her personality? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:00 AM
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You do need a certain amount of "tingles" or else the relationship is doomed imo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:55 AM
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Only because they're older and can't afford having obnoxious standards. I mean I guess these women can hit the wall one day and become a PPD woman at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:31 PM
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Hang on, you said casual sex in the OP and now you're saying relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:26 PM
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They don't. I'm quite a bit above average looking for a guy and I've looked at some of the Tinder accounts of the women I match with. They get hundreds of matches and DMs per day. They literally can pick exactly the guy they want, it's kind of disgusting. 100 matches for me would take at least a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:19 PM
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For a casual dalliance yeah whatever - as long as you infer that they’re probably not going to murder or violate you and there will be no foreseeable life ruining repercussions then that’s really all the logic one needs to go ahead and do the devils deed. My man, it's just sex. It's not that big of a thing. If I'm not having a baby or catching an STD then it's just fun for me. Not everything in life needs to be treated like you're a Catholic nun.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:16 PM
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There aren't really any celebs who are 'average' looking. I'm not saying that a woman who is a 5 can't struggle; but generally the women who resort to coming to dating subreddits like r/datingoverthirty and r/datingoverforty are generally vastly over rating their own SMV. People who date their looksmatch never struggle or seem to complain about it. On top of that, women have easily 10x the options that men have, so the same "if you're struggling you're just unattractive" that women tell men, app…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:08 PM
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Of course women don't have a hard time getting commitment eventually. That's minimizing the years of getting played by the guys she actually wants until she settles for some chump. I thought women on here argued with nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:29 PM
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I'd be open to it, but typically the dudes looking for you to fuck their wives; the women are atrocious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:27 PM
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I disagree on the notion that a mid woman is mid, if she's struggling then she is firmly below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:26 PM
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No, incels have 0 standards and still usually don't find a woman. The men like myself who have options are the only ones afforded to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:54 PM
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eurocentric doesn't just mean white though. It means european facial features, european body types, etc
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 07:53 PM
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You spend 8 hours per day hanging around them and being flirty, eventually they want to hang out outside of work
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:52 PM
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The best part about abundance is that women seem to like it more when they know you'll just boot their ass if they fuck up. They enjoy knowing they're on a tight-rope with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:40 PM
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Lmao that's a straw man and you know it. Most men on here are incels and don't even get to choose who they date, they get chosen or they live entirely celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:37 PM
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There is no BP hero for men. Feminism's response to men is "You're a man? Fuck you and fuck the patriarchy". Of course they're going to go towards the Redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:18 PM
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Men saying they have a preference for younger women is not shaming older women. Idk why yall get so butthurt about men having preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:15 PM
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I can't even believe women defend age gap relationships when it's convenient and shame it when it's not. Any normal man dating a woman 17 years younger than him would be shamed into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:08 PM
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Women are wonderful in full effect here. Do you think men are relationship material just because they work and are nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:06 PM
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What percentage of women do you actually think are good relationship material? Be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:40 PM
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I think it's massively underdiagnosed, especially for millenials and older
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:31 PM
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They're single because they don't want to commit to the modern trash woman? Seems like a pretty big cop out. We both know women won't fuck men they wouldn't consider for a relationship. So the disconnect here would be the man not wanting to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:26 PM
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Being strongly attracted to certain features common in certain races isn't racist. These are born out of racism. For example eurocentric features being the most popular is due to systemic racism.
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 12:22 PM
3

Mila is quite a bit more attractive
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 12:13 PM
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Racial preferences are inherently racist. If you are excluding certain races, that's racist. If you are selecting only 1 race, that's excluding all other races, which is racist.
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 12:09 PM
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Do you want to bully them because they're ugly or because they're dorks? Are they dorks because they're ugly, have you ever considered this? Either way this is kinda cringe to read. Most women find me attractive too and I don't give af what less attractive people do.
/r/AllPillDebate24/05/23 12:03 PM
2

No dude with any sense would ever ask about your hoe phase or bring up any RP points during a date. They'd wait until after you've had sex, so that the woman has no more leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:50 AM
1

by 'friend face' do you mean like feminine facial features?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:49 AM
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I'd just pursue both (that's what I'm currently doing). If I do eventually become exclusive with 1 girl, then I'll drop the rest. If she doesn't respond within 24 hours, I assume it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:47 AM
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George Clooney married a woman in her 30s Clooney is over 60, wtf does this even prove The only people who seem to DEMAND submissive tradwifes are fake high value men who are not respected by polite society, like that Jonathan guy or Andrew Tate. Tradwives don't even exist anymore in 2023, most average people require dual incomes and so both people have to work and it forces egalitarianism. That doesn't mean that men still don't want submissive, feminine women just like women want dominant, masc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 11:44 AM
2

Having a roster isn't treating someone like I'm doing them a favor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 02:05 AM
2

You still haven't given me a reason why a roster = treating her bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:36 AM
2

I have a roster because I can and because my commitment comes at a higher opportunity cost. Not all men can have a roster.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:55 AM
3

Because she's saying she traditionally only dates taller men so she's treating me dating her like she's doing me a favor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:48 AM
2

That's the vetting process my dude. It's not inherently treating them bad just because I have a roster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:58 PM
11

The women here just reinforce RP stereotypes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:42 PM
1

she's like a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:20 PM
1

Lmfao I don't need pussy that bad bruv, I'll get on Tinder and find a new chick literally tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:14 PM
3

Can you explain how having a roster = treating a girl bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:13 PM
1

If I were 60, I wouldn't bank on a 21 year old being loyal either. It's more to do with the woman than the man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:34 PM
1

Not treating her well because I have a roster?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:31 PM
2

e·mas·cu·late make (someone or something) weaker or less effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:54 PM
1

Yea that's what I figured. She's dread gaming me. It won't work. I'm already moving on to the next girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:47 PM
2

I've fucked coworkers but not like AT work if that's what you're asking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:46 PM
1

I don't think it does. Men factor the total value of a woman, if she were actually smart, loyal, hot, AND 18 then he would go for it. The issue is that she may be missing a few of those. Jeff Bezos isn't banking on a 21 year old being loyal to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:44 PM
1

Well I did already hit it and I'm just going to ghost... so how is that ironic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:41 PM
2

bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:40 PM
2

Yep, I think it's like a "I can say anything without a filter with you" kinda thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:40 PM
1

I know I am lol The annoying part is she's like barely 5 foot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:38 PM
3

Maybe that's why so many women get pump & dumped, because they think this is a totally acceptable thing to say to their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:17 PM
4

What is the end goal of saying this to me, besides emasculating me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:13 PM
2

Why do women feel the need to emasculate men? Is it because they want to knock them down a peg? Is this why pegging is called pegging, because women want to emasculate masculine men? I had a girl I was into tell me that she's glad she gave me a shot because I'm shorter than the guys she normally dates. I'm 5'11. It's almost as though they do it subconsciously. Like it's not some evil plan to neg men but just that they're too dumb to not filter everything they say. If I had any sense I would've s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:05 PM
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Just because men value youth doesn't mean that they will always choose it. I'm 25 and think 18 year olds are the hottest but I wouldn't ever date one because they're stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:02 PM
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There is no planet where Lena Dunham was ever a 5, even when she was she was on Girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:28 PM
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I'm into giving tips that make the total bill an even amount of money. Bonus if it's rounded to a $20.00 or a $40.00
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:27 PM
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She's still younger than him and a lot better looking than his ex-wife (and him). He's damn near 60 and if he doesn't date a 21 year old then that confirms redpill is fake???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:59 PM
1

but I can't stop cumming in all these ugly wahmen
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:42 PM
-1

I said you're a psychopath, not that you had a grammar mistake? You're a fucking ape with a keyboard
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:36 PM
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They're getting with me
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:12 PM
-1

My dude take your anti-psychotics, this post isn't even coherent.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:11 PM
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stop posting this stupid shit
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 06:10 PM
2

I am not interested in tall women. If she's like 5'6 or taller I wouldn't pursue.
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:22 PM
2

Ah yes, more proof that feminism just = hypergamy on steroids Who would've thought that feminist women would come full circle and just share 1 man like in the 1100s
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:19 PM
1

absolutely disgusting lol
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:15 PM
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For what reason? So I can brag to incels about how much sex I get like you?
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 12:12 PM
1

Each individual time I had sex? How would I track that and why would I track that?
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 11:58 AM
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Women don't like being brought back to planet earth, more news at 10
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 11:55 AM
1

Buy my PUA book
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:22 PM
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It’s not how it was 100 years ago where a woman’s option would be to either stay with her abusive husband, or leave and have no means of making her own money, can’t even own a credit card and would have a very difficult time getting remarried due to stigma and would be shunned by friends and family. Your only 3 options were abuse. You seem to have left out the happily married woman option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:21 PM
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Ah yes the classic women were always tortured and abused by every man on the planet argument, prior to 1960 there was never a single happy woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:59 PM
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I’m saying nobody needs romantic relationships at all Well I disagree. Intimacy and sex are needed to function as a healthy human. If I wasn't getting these, I wouldn't want to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:53 PM
1

Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:50 PM
1

bruh I told you already lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:48 PM
1

"I don't need no man" is exactly the attitude American women have and why men are looking for women outside of America lol So you can be like "I don't mean it from a feminist angle" but you do mean it from a feminist angle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:47 PM
1

I think she's right exactly at a 5. But u/armpitpics says she's above average
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:20 PM
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I'm proof that women don't give af about bodycount lol Women pretty regularly say I give off fuckboy vibes and they still have sex with me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:17 PM
1

21
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:15 PM
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Most of the women here are pretty predictable, they over rate women and under rate men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:55 PM
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Your friend sounds like a femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:45 PM
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Would you seriously be cool dating a woman who made 3x what you do? Yes I have 0 issue with it. I'd even be a SAHD if she made that much and that way the kid could still get their own parent instead of a babysitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:42 PM
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ofc you do because women over rate women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:34 PM
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I wouldn't want a woman who felt like she don't 'need no man' so we're mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:14 PM
1

Someone like this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:13 PM
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Not quite, because women tend to not have that as a major standard of theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:04 PM
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There's a power dynamic in women being hypergamous even when they claim they want equality. Why would a woman making 6 figs need to have a man who makes more than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:03 PM
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I'm just saying that the reverse aka egalitarianism isn't ever favoring the man. If women want to be provided for and not have to work, there's some sacrifices they have to make, including their ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:55 PM
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I find it demeaning to be required to make more money than a feminist woman who claims she wants equality and egalitarianism; but most men don't get to afford to have dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:52 PM
1

She still wasn't a 5 before either
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:50 PM
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I don't get no attention lol Women: "All men on PPD are incels"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:50 PM
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She was a 3 before weight gain and a 2 now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:47 PM
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even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:46 PM
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Yea but all women have abundance, so it's nothing special
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:46 PM
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She would just ask me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 03:45 PM
1

harsh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:43 PM
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I want to be the sole provider and for my wife to do all of the household stuff and child rearing. I currently make enough money to support that (although it won't be lavish), and I don't expect her to do 100% of the chores but I do expect her to do most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:42 PM
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Either way, a 3 vs a dude who's at least a 5-6 is a pretty big gap
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:15 PM
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If that's average then I feel bad for you son
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:04 PM
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I think Lena Dunham and and Seth Rogen are a pretty good example of average. People like them share seat with us in public transit, visit the same restaurants we eat at and stand in front of us at the supermarket line and we go home without noticing them. Neither of them is either pretty enough of ugly enough to be remembered and this type is the majority. The so-called Beckies are already in the top 20% whereas Stacies almost exclusively exist on Instagram and movie theaters after a good makeup…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:44 PM
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bruv, I think this post perfectly demonstrates how delusional women are about what a 5 is. Seth Rogen could be considered above average looking for his age in a lot of photos and Lena Dunham is an actual 2/10 gremlin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:42 PM
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I can tell when a woman's 30 and surely most other men can?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:01 PM
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It's just women older than 30 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:43 AM
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Exactly, if a guy asks you then you would just stop talking to him, so tell me how is a man supposed to find out before having sex with a girl? Do you not see how you're creating this problem for yourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:40 AM
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Nobody uses truerateme as their scale irl. I mean you can even look at it and just to be considered 6, you need to be top 20% already. Most people consider top 20% chad territory irl. Besides, half of the dudes listed at 5 are objectively better looking than the average man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:38 AM
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Do you tell your partner your bodycount? How about during the talking phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:44 AM
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a 5/10 guy on a dating app doesn't get jack shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:43 AM
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Obviously the one with the LTR? I look at he woman with 4 short term relationships like she got pre-disqualified by 4 other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:07 AM
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Like I said, women's default is lying. If they were open about this then I wouldn't need to be manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:33 AM
1

Why would everything burn?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:42 PM
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The only way to get any truth with women about this stuff is to be sex-positive (or fake it) and also have already had sex with them aka being in. Even then, they still may withhold information or give half-truths. The fact is that lying by omission on this for women is default.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:38 PM
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Maybe in your 20s you could pull this off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:36 PM
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Honestly you're right u/Last_Rule_2536, but I would raise that to a 7. I wouldn't look twice at a girl who wasn't at least a 7. But here's the thing, I can. The only time people throw a hissy fit is when they're punching out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:31 PM
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Women are never open about their sexual past even though they know it could make or break their relationship with men. This is lying by omission. Almost every single woman does it and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:26 PM
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lying by omission. That's dating lmao Everyone lies by omission
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:17 PM
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But you say that because of their n count you have already classified them as unworthy of a relationship. Therefore you are intentionally stringing them along. Not always, but that's the most common reason I won't commit Ok so you think it’s alpha to be like “I don’t want a relationship with you let’s have sex. But then instead of being straightforward, it’s alpha to lie and pretend there’s one down the road like a carrot? I don't think 'alpha' is a behavior you consciously do. If you're asking …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:10 PM
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So you're stringing 3 women along? I call it having fun, you call it stringing along Would you tell them to "pick better men?" I don't give women dating advice though Do you see how you contribute to your own obstacles? No. I don't see how this is an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:04 PM
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Honestly I don't think it's that hard in 2023. There's so much self-improvement stuff, and so few people actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 11:02 PM
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There isn't anything specific? Just be hot and women will do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:07 PM
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Yep pretty much. I am looking for fun 1st and foremost and then if the right one falls in my lap, I will commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:06 PM
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Nice guys don't win in life bud
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:19 PM
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They drop little hints about being bf/gf or say shit like "so when am I moving in?" or try to push boundaries basically. Like one girl showed up at my house uninvited one time like she just lived there. Acted as if it was no big deal. Shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:18 PM
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Well the more girls there are, the less attention each of them gets right? So it's always kind of a balance on that end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:14 PM
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Of course not, then they'd most likely cut me off. All of them are sticking around on that slim opportunity to lock me down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:09 PM
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It's like boyfriend-lite. I only see them max once per week and I'm not always taking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:07 PM
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Isn't this pretty much just the average modern dating situation? I think it is but a lot of women have tunnel vision or blinders on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:05 PM
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If they really want commitment and loyalty, why intentionally string them along? I don't think I'm stringing anyone along. I am fairly transparent with the girls and also I am actually looking for something long term eventually. Do you think it’s alpha to be the man in a situationship? It's the reverse, I only get the situationship because I'm alpha Are you aware that there are women who are happy to just be “f**k buddies” and have a purely sexual dynamic? Yes but these women are extremely rare.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:02 PM
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Yes, especially when I had 4 girls it was honestly a bit too much and I'm considering that 4 is too many to juggle. 3 is also a lot but it's do-able. The hardest part is remembering which girl is into which stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:59 PM
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How long does that last? The taking out phase? Generally 3-5 dates. Even my current roster I still take them out every now and again, we still go do fun stuff when I have time. What makes you think they are loyal and want commitment? Women let you know when they want commitment lol, they are not very subtle about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:57 PM
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Probably because she's fat and they don't wanna be great for her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:52 PM
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I can't see why you'd have a roster of men if you're trying to get commitment from them, seems counter-productive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:51 PM
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5'11 but I just tell women I'm 6'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:49 PM
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I have before lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:45 PM
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I take them out a bunch usually in the beginning until we get a bit familiar and then eventually move into the just hang out & have sex phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:43 PM
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I will never understand women who have casual sex with the expectation of getting into a relationship I always thought it happened this way for every dude until I came here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:42 PM
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Gross tbh but generally they are pretty loyal because they do actually want commitment from me. That's how these situationships work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:39 PM
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Yes Malibu Ken was dope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:38 PM
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If they are then I'll deplate and ghost them. I guess they could just do it without telling me and I'd never know but occasionally they slip and let me know and I remove them from the roster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:37 PM
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No. I don't need to tell them directly, they know we aren't exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:36 PM
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Well they don't ever stick around permanently. They all eventually realize they aren't getting full boyfriend treatment and stop, some of them last for months and some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:35 PM
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They're all 7s+, I wouldn't even waste my time with a girl below a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:32 PM
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Nah I know it's obscure and women don't like to think so I'll let them listen to their stupid shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:31 PM
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How often are you having sex? I see each of them about once per week, so generally 3 per week. If you met someone you did like enough to commit to, what do you think they’d think about your current situation? They'd probably not like it I would assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:30 PM
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Why? What? Because I can. Because I don't want to commit to them. There's plenty of reasons. Do you fuck them at the same time or separately? I wish lol, but no Why won’t you ever commit to them? They don't wow me. I am holding out for the one. Has there been any women you would like to commit to? I have had girlfriends before, yes. Do you talk about anything? If yes, about what? Of course we talk? The same shit all women want to talk about. Crystals and shoes and star signs and shit. Do you sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:27 PM
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Do they know? They don't directly know but they know we aren't exclusive Also what happened to the fourth girl? She wanted full bf/gf commitment and I denied it and she cut me off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:18 PM
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I'm fucking 3 different girls that I won't ever commit to - AMA Edit: it was 4 but I lost a plate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:14 PM
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They run the gamut. What I have noticed is that the worst type of condescending personality type: think like Drew Afualo or this girl. They always act smug in spite of being so unattractive which just makes them more unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:10 PM
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Oh. Then gl with that "chad" long term
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:05 PM
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The bar for what's Chad and Stacy must be really fucking low if half of you claim to be it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:01 PM
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It has only been replaced with the whole "cucked white man" or beta provider propaganda. The cucked white man thing is mostly in commercials and hasn't hit actual movies quite yet but give feminism a few more years. They're working on making cucking a regular thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:00 PM
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Shaming anyone's lifestyle is cringe, including trying to shame passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:39 PM
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You're saying they aren't defining their life by how men evaluate them yet they're all whining and moaning about how men evaluate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:35 PM
1

in reality we’re in our prime. in our prime though lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:17 PM
1

They're literally here complaining that men aren't interested in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:27 PM
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Same here, more like I aged out of being attractive at 21 and it was a radicalizing, eye-opening experience. I’m glad it happened. The freedom of not giving a fuck what men think about you is great. Sometimes I feel bad for my friends in their later 20s who haven’t had this realization yet. This thread is a treasure trove of femcel content ​ came here to say something similar. people don't gawk at me, and if they do I don't notice and wouldn't particularly like it. the general attitude in societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:19 PM
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holy shit this is like a treasure trove of femcel content
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:10 PM
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Accountability is like the bane of women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:00 AM
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I don't think it's any secret that dudes who work labor jobs are more attractive than the general population
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:50 PM
1

Going on a date with someone just for the food with no romantic interest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:48 PM
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Yes, not the sugar baby but women have told me in the talking phase that they're height or size queens A woman telling me she's only with a guy for his money is the same thing as a sugar baby to me, and thoroughly gives me the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:45 PM
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All of the fucking time lol If she's ever cheated in her past If she's got a high bodycount Pretty much any standard female manipulative behavior like foodie calls, monkey branching Honing too hard onto 1 specific male trait and objectifying men such as: being a size queen, or being a sugar baby, or a height queen So I mean I get it when people say men & women are disgusted by each other's sexuality on a base level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:05 PM
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False. All of the most stereotypically attractive men: Hemsworth, Cavill, Brad Pitt when he was younger are/were on steroids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:01 PM
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Just like women's ideal of men who are on steroids vs natty. Steroids literally shorten men's life span but we still got every Marvel hunk on TV blasting them so you'll go watch their movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:53 PM
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The reality is that 20% of women are actually attractive, same as men. However women believe that it's in the realm of 80% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:42 PM
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Ok the OP is asking why dating has changed for the worse and I gave my answer? Nobody is making you type here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:40 PM
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well I'm not personally bitter about it, I just think it's annoying that women still try to pretend their attraction cues are somehow better than men's
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:28 AM
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I literally just said even women who don't claim feminism believe some feminist rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:27 AM
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The bitterness is because women always say they are this attraction should operate morally not physically and they aren't Women always want to act like their attraction cues are more multifaceted than men's
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:54 PM
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I suppose they're less angry about it but more bitter that looks matter to the extent that they do. Like women always try to portray themselves as if they're 50% looks 50% personality but the reality is like 90% looks 10% personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:11 PM
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Yep, so imagine dating as a guy how many batshit women we have to sift through to find someone who's ideals match the actual definition and not just some 1 sided nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:07 PM
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Example: feminist women still want men to pay for meals / provide / uphold masculine ideals while they don't uphold any traditional feminine things like having a low bodycount, looking traditionally feminine (no makeup, no shaving, tats and piercings). Some (not all) women who want non-egalitarian arrangements still want equal distribution of chores/child-rearing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:53 PM
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Worse because now I have to date feminists. Even a lot of women who want trad relationships have permeated feminist brainwashing, which leads me to believe feminism really is just a female supremacy movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:48 PM
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I am not easy, I am a lot pickier than most men and yet still have a high bodycount & women say I'm easy. The reality is I've turned down plenty of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:44 PM
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Lmao every time a guy tells me he "opened up" to a girl and she immediately went cold with him (including myself) yet somehow women want men to be more vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:00 PM
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high dex so she can be good at knitting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:28 PM
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Max weight: 140 lbs Max height: 5'3 Str: 20 Int: 3 Chr: 15 I will not date any woman who falls outside of this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:38 PM
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How do you rate your looks out of 10, and what about the women you get overseas?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:31 PM
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Go read the thread lol Most women are open to 5-10 year gaps and there were a couple of girls ok with over 15. But women unanimously seemed to not want men younger. I only saw a few ok with younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:25 PM
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The infantilization of these kids is due to older adults. Older women shaming men for dating younger, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:09 PM
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If they are refusing to date younger then their only other option is to date older...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:07 PM
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Oh so men's sexual strategy is shamed and women's is not. Got it. Just making sure yall were being honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:24 PM
1

True. Under newer relationships where sex happens but pre-commitment, I would say this still applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:14 PM
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If women prefer older, then how can you shame men for preferring younger? It's a dumb double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:08 PM
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Notice how pretty much all women refused to date men younger than them in the "your age range thread". When you personally enforce women dating older men, then you can't really say shit about age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:05 PM
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Women just like having random surgeries, what are you gonna do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:04 PM
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It's sort of a double edged sword here. If she's not exclusive to me then there's a 0 chance I would be serious with her. So I mean she can do what she wants but that's the consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:00 PM
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Probably not but there are a lot of women who are FDS-lite even if they don't follow FDS directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:52 PM
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you get a golden egg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:39 PM
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Yea that's what I figured
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:39 PM
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ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:09 PM
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Follow-up Q4W: What percentage of women are HVW?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:37 PM
1

Surely you have acquaintances though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:31 PM
1

That's up to your own interpretation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:30 PM
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I don't know if they think women are angelic unicorns They do. No woman can ever be bad or low value in the eyes of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:34 PM
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Is that the only women who can be LVW then? Also, wouldn't that make like 75% of women in America LVW just based on weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:31 PM
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of course you would
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:31 PM
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I don't believe 97% of men opened with "hey slut" or even that the 3 guys she did choose were chosen solely based on their intro message.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:30 PM
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Q4W: What percentage of women that you know personally would you qualify as a LVW?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:42 PM
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so low that only 97% of men can't cross it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:17 PM
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I thought I dress fairly casual but like on the more "put together / clean" end of casual so people may view it as preppy. I don't see anything for men on Kibbe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:14 PM
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I honestly never gave it much thought but I may give off preppy vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:37 PM
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So what you're saying is you want only 3% of men or less since you said "hundreds of DMs", but it's not hard for men to find casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:33 PM
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Who should wear pink then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:29 PM
1

So you're saying we should assume women are pathologically evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:29 PM
2

When I wear pink people think it's douchey
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:21 PM
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He probably got icked cuz she gave it up on the 1st date. Either that or she was just punching up too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:19 PM
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Your dream partner is out there, he just wouldn't be interested
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:09 PM
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I think most women are too dumb to be pathologically evil
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:01 PM
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wants a relationship btw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:01 PM
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Yea because what qualifies as "misogyny" to you is tame. Meanwhile blatant man hate is rampant and allowed. A lot of misogyny not only gets a PPD ban but reddit bans while misandry just stays up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:26 PM
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Misandry is allowed but misogyny is banned. Women literally have to talk about killing men before the post gets removed. Anything else is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:09 PM
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All it takes to see the shift is date a woman irl, and date a woman from OLD. Any single dude on the planet will have to shoot 1-2 points down in looks on OLD compared to the women he will get irl. Now apply this on a massive scale and women actually think they've shifted 1-2 points.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:03 PM
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Men being initiators doesn't over value women. Simping overvalues women. Men who fuck way down overvalue women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:43 PM
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We aren't even gonna make it past a type 1 civilization on the Kardashev scale all because bitches be trippin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:39 PM
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In this context, their fatness has a direct correlation with their misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:02 PM
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misandrists*?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:48 PM
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Just a reminder that the fat misandrists are always watching, waiting to click the report button
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:27 PM
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It's all infantilization of young adults because kids are still living at home into their mid-20s nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:25 PM
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Women don't like to realize/admit that they don't offer much besides sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:23 PM
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Because every woman has a perfect personality and no woman could ever be bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:19 PM
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There's also billions of women so I'll eventually find it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:50 PM
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I don't need a virgin though, all I said was women having casual sex gives me the ick. I'm fine if they had previous boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:10 PM
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Well personally, I learned from the Chads she dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:39 PM
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I'll have to get married 1st to get divorced and that ain't happening
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:07 PM
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Ain't it the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:07 PM
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I'm glad that I'm living in their head rent free
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:59 PM
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Uh oh I'm being targetted by creepy fat misandrists. What ever shall I do?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:52 PM
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Kids are cool if I'm staying with the women who is having them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:45 PM
1

When you posting your pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:45 PM
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7 years is recent relative to 45 lol but nj creeping my post history, creeper
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:22 PM
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That seems worse though I'd rather just stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:21 PM
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relative to him I'm recent, he graduated almost 45 years ago...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:20 PM
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They aren't incapable of loyalty, it's just why should I give it to the average ran through woman? She can't show restraint so why would I commit to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:42 PM
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I'm not going to turn down free sex lol But my commitment comes at a higher cost
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:40 PM
1

But you're divorced though bro... how is this a win?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:40 PM
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I hope you have, you're like 60. I just finished high school recently... so....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:03 PM
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It gives me the ick, I don't want to commit to it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:02 PM
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Just by nature of american women frothing at the concept of not being feminine makes them unfeminine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:01 PM
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He's in middleschool or high school lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:00 PM
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Trick question because I probably won't ever marry. But yes I could be in a relationship with a woman who is dumb, especially if she met all my other criteria. Intelligence is probably one of the last things on my priority list.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:58 PM
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All of my plates are about my looksmatch I'd say. One of them is probably hotter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:57 PM
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What do you qualify sex if it's before commitment? Even if your intention is to be exclusive at some point, it's still technically "casual" because you aren't exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:54 PM
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Lmao every boy is told "only personality matters" growing up. Even my mom pushed this narrative (which is ironic because my mom is a chad chaser)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:51 PM
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And women aren't chaste virgins til marriage anymore, so we both aren't getting what we want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:50 PM
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Nah, one girl isn't going to give me the same amount of sex as my current rotation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:49 PM
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I'm atheist so I don't want a religious girl. I think it's kinda sad that for women, liberal just = ran through
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:44 PM
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Because it's subverting men's sexual nature to spread their seed. And we all know women are only interested in the top 20% of men who are able to pull that off anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:44 PM
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I'm not talking about STDs or any of that shit. I'm talking about women refusing sex before commitment. It never happens. Have you done it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:42 PM
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Simple, refusing sex until they get the title of "girlfriend"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:31 PM
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I think it's overblown by women saying that women do this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:27 PM
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No woman has ever demanded commitment from me before sex, I think this is either a myth or it just happens so rarely that women here are like recluses or religious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:16 PM
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It's pretty common to see "No fuckboys" on dating profiles, which just translates to "I've been pump & dumped before and now I'm making men wait"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:30 AM
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No. Women leverage sex to try to get a relationship & then if it doesn't happen they go "oh it was just casual sex and we mutually stopped talking to each other". Get real dude, nobody gets into a relationship before sex in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:29 AM
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Because as much as women want to pretend they're ok with "just casual sex", they aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:06 AM
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2nd kind is the more common one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:05 AM
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because you harp on fuckboys but never say anything bad about high bodycount women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:33 AM
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What's the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:29 AM
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Lmao what's the difference between a fuckboy and a high bodycount woman? Except you being biased against one and the other seems to be totally acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:24 AM
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I think women who are okay with casual sex typically remain okay with casual sex, and keep having it until they find an LTR. So a reformed hoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:21 AM
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If she's a reformed hoe then she will make you wait and think you simply weren't sexually compatible. I just ghost these
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:20 AM
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Nah, just act sex positive & then she'll tell you everything. It's easy as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:18 AM
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how many women are really becoming “reformed hoes?” 100% of the hoes Have you ever seen an actual woman who legit never wants a relationship for her entire life? This is a female fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:35 AM
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Except for all the women who claim they're "reformed" and "done with their hoe phase"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:03 AM
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Jokes on you, if they've had any casual sex with anyone, I'm pumping & dumping and not committing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:00 AM
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All you need to do to see that 2023 dating is fucked is step outside for 1 day and open your eyes. You need to be intentionally ignorant to not notice anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:54 PM
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Yes. That's the most literal definition of objectification you can get. You aren't putting work into your appearance to look 'different' from what other people want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:51 PM
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misandry is minimizing actual daily man hate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:05 PM
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"wanting to look good" is objectifying yourself lol You're literally conforming to what you think other people are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:50 PM
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Bro the entire reason people are bitching about dating in 2023 is because people are delusional about their SMV and women are getting pump & dumped en masse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:43 PM
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Bro what do you think she's doing? She's getting him coffee and organizing his schedule
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 03:05 PM
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Christian Bale married his assistant lmao Men aren't hypergamous like women. Beyonce is going to only go for someone like Jay Z, meanwhile Jay Z will fuck regular women on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:53 PM
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Bro Arnold Schwarzenegger fucked his maid. Tiger Woods is fucking homeless women. Men don't give a SHIT about your job
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:38 PM
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Most men don't give a shit what you do for a job. They only care if they don't make enough to support you but that's just due to American economy forcing dual incomes in most places. A wealthy man would date a McDonald's employee if she's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:34 PM
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Idgaf about women wanting me all to themselves. What about what I want? When women realize the world doesn't revolve around them, they might finally get to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:13 PM
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Oh look another fat woman c*ping post "I gained 200 lbs and men started hitting on me" Fuck even the "I got 5 on it" was making me cringe. This entire thing is just so much cringe I'm in fucking outer space right now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:10 PM
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Lmao bro anyone who disagrees with women on here is an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:07 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:04 PM
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I hope he gets put away too, otherwise if he gets out with no charges, redpill will grow 100 fold. It will give him legitimacy to everything he's been saying if he gets out clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:04 PM
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And your comment implies that doing things to be attractive to women, like getting a decent career and grooming oneself and going to the gym are walking “through fire and brimstone”. What do women do to be attractive? They put on makeup for 15 minutes. I lift, I need a good job & education, I need to dress well and be groomed, I have to literally be better than 90% of other men. That's not even talking about being born genetically better either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:02 PM
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I don't think there is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:59 PM
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I'm fine with being shared, I don't need to 'spit them out'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:58 PM
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Explain how this is "hurting" women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:02 PM
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Correlation is not causation, women love to drop this. Of course extreme over indulgence in gaming will lead to dating problems. Anything without moderation leads to life problems. But that also doesn't mean men can't game and do it responsibly and still have a girlfriend and be happy. Most of the dudes who are socially crippled incels would still be socially crippled incels if they quit gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:48 PM
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They don’t actually think they’re 10s by conventional beauty standards. I don't care what their reasoning is, you see it all of the time. A lot of time I don't think they're trying to 'stick it to men' but they actually believe they're 10s. And it reflects in their dating choices (only going for Chads who pump and dump them)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:45 PM
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The issue with this is that women actually believe the extremely bleak truths they tell men. Like when a dude is truly unfuckable, short, unattractive, broke, etc: they still believe there is some woman out there who will fuck him and love him one day. Not them, but some other woman. Yes on a micro level they aren't interested but they're hoping that on a macro level since there's billions of women that one of them would like this guy but the issue is that they don't. Women don't want to believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:18 PM
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Women who post bikini pics on IG are the women I want to avoid for LTR. I don't want to be with anyone who needs validation & attention from random anonymous men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:11 PM
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Oh since women are candy now, that's a good analogy. Why would I walk through fire and brimstone, climb mountains to get to the candy store and just have 1 piece of candy? If I've built myself up to be attractive to so many women, I'm taking the entire candy store. Yall made the sexual economy this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:07 PM
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I mean even from RP that I've seen, they don't say AWALT is all encompassing. Like there's always some women who don't fall under every trope, it just means the vast majority. Like 90+ percent of women. There's always unicorns. The issue with debating here is that every woman here thinks she's the unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:03 PM
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Well I'm 25 and have been with an endless supply of 20 year olds since I started my 'dating career'. It's actually gotten to the point where my friend's girlfriends have half-jokingly called me Leonardo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:01 PM
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Lmao no I'm an asshole, why do you think women love me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:58 AM
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Of all of the women I've ever dated? I'd say at least 30% of them were this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:05 AM
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I honestly think women are far more clueless on this than men. You'll never see a man who's a 4 say he's a 10. You see that shit with women all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:44 PM
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How often? It only needs to happen once
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:59 PM
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So you agree with the OP then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:48 PM
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There's no 'study' for it if that's what you're asking. If women were completely forthcoming about their sexual strategy then they'd ick every man they came across; they typically learn this at a pretty young age and tailor how they talk to men because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:27 PM
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Same, I've only disagreed with him on a few things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:26 PM
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I don't have an issue with travelling. I have an issue with women viewing me as an ATM machine where they deposit blowjobs to withdraw money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:25 PM
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Men "I'm not really looking for a relationship right now" = "You meet my criteria for sex, but not for a public facing relationship" "I dunno - Lets just meetup and vibe" = "I don't actually want to put in the effort to make real plans, but I'm open to having sex if you are." "I like a girl who lives an active lifestyle" = "For chrissakes - no fatties!" Women "Casually looking for something serious" = "I'm running out of time but I don't want to seem desperate" "I'm like weirdly attracted to int…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:46 PM
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I think after a certain amount of time together, there are topics/discussions that will place you (as the guy) firmly in the RP category and you wouldn't be able to hide it. Of course, this is well past the sex stage with a woman. I also do believe a lot of men are sort of fed the notion that "Tate is evil" by mainstream feminism but if they actually listened to him, they'd be 100% on board.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:44 PM
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It's not a lie, it's just not the entire truth. Women do this all of the time to avoid icking 100% of the men interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:42 PM
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No. I don't ask women to quit tiktok or crystals or other stupid shit they do with their friends. Gaming is the best quality time I get with my boys. Plus I already get plenty of sex so idc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:41 PM
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Usually I hold up a cross and start chanting prayers, usually the ugly people will wither away. Lol nvm usually I just flirt back for funsies but I don't pursue anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:22 PM
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Of course, no woman has ever done anything bad on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:23 PM
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The ones listed for women seem dark & sad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:52 PM
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Happy mother's day to all the mommy milkers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:43 PM
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I think it’s weird and gross that promiscuous men claim to woman women like me huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:38 PM
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Yea the requirement is that women need to approach you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:13 PM
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And yet you’re here bragging about it on a train-wreck subreddit to a mediocre looking low-n post-wall woman you’d never have looked at in real life, lol. I’m not convinced. Pot meet kettle, you're here arguing with me too If it’s so easy to find a low-n woman to commit to you, then I don’t understand why you’re being so defensive here. You’d already be married, if it were as easy for you as you claim. I'm 25 bro, I'm not marrying until I spent at least a few years with a girl. Low standards and…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:11 PM
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Lol the ones for women you listed are way fucking worse imo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:05 PM
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All the women I’m able to meet are women in bars/clubs and they are low hanging fruit. As soon as you have standards as a man your dating pool plummets by at least 75%. I wish I wasn’t repulsed by n-count Yep, that's why women don't want men to have standards. They want to have every single man as a possible option, regardless of their own behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:03 PM
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Don't complain about "men being afraid to commit" then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:00 PM
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This is an awalt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:59 PM
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It's just true. I mean even here, everyone thinks they're Chad/Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:57 PM
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Which fat women absolutely do. They don't take no for an answer, get your personal information from coworkers/friends, and call you gay if you reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:55 PM
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Lol I have much more fierce competition for my attention. 80% of women only go for top the 20% of men. How do you think I got a high bodycount when 1/3 of men are virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:41 PM
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I'm confident I'll find my low bodycount queen one day, then I'll get back to you on here and let you know k?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:03 AM
1

I don't think it can be done, because men and women are innately disgusted by each other's sexualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 12:49 AM
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single meaning legally not married lol "Pretty much all women" and 45% of them being unable to get married is quite a big gap. Would you like to rephrase?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:44 PM
1

damnnn you're the one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:38 PM
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Reason is he's not worth anything better so he can't deploy his hypergamy? ​ Everyone knows that guy or girl who was in a long LTR and then left and immediately got married or such. In women it was dubbed hypergamy, we pretend men dont do this too because.... Idk. Isn't that "deploying his hypergamy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:35 PM
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https://www.cnn.com/2019/08/29/economy/single-women-economy/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:34 PM
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Ey if she wants a hot guy then that's what compromise she has to make as well. I'm compromising for a less hot woman just to get a low bodycount one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 07:17 PM
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Honestly my hard limit is 10 and I think I'm pretty lenient compared to a lot of men. What I notice is that guys who are actual virgins will have a hard limit of 0, the thing is those guys are plentiful but they just get no opinions because they don't get picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:15 PM
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Their opinions and personalities congeal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:43 PM
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Yea and every woman claims a 5 is a 7 All of my exes are significantly better looking than her and I still wouldn't consider them "stunning models" like you claim
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:35 PM
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I'm legit better looking than her, I have higher SMV than her so she would be hypergamous to try to date me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:25 PM
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I know right, it's almost like women gotta have 20 bodies before they're allowed to post on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:39 PM
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She's average as fuck. I'm not an unattractive nerd and I wouldn't even look twice at this woman. Women as expected, over rate their SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:36 PM
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I fit all the criteria, but I'm looking for a low bodycount queen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:31 PM
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Lmao no, the only men you care about maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:30 PM
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She's a 5 because I walk outside and see 50% of women around me look equally as attractive as her or better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:03 PM
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Like building a life with someone seems cool but I'm hesitant since most people get divorced and it's usually the women initiating it; so it's like why waste 10+ years of my life for nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:03 PM
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Still not really sold on marriage so yea Idk if I ever will. It seems cool in theory
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:39 PM
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I think it's a mix of both. Women are more entitled than ever and also have more obnoxious standards than ever due to hive-minding on tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:08 PM
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You’re as likely to commit to a low body count woman as an “experienced” woman is to commit to you. Nah I'd commit to a low bodycount woman for sure. That's what I'm holding out for specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 02:01 PM
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But I will commit to the low bodycount girl :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:31 PM
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Maybe you're a misandrist so everything bad that ever happens falls directly on men. Women have based their entire lives on tiktok, lost their jobs from it (which could've gotten them evicted), cancel and bully random people for their own enjoyment, enforce stereotypes just for some trend (aka racism/sexism/homophobia/transphobia). Yea I'd say it's far worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:29 PM
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link it cuz women here tend to way over evaluate their own SMV and the SMV of other women Edit: Actually nvm I found it, she absolutely is just a 5 as I expected lmao. Women honestly believe a 5 wearing a ton of makeup makes her a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:19 PM
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I don't need a virgin though lol I just don't want a town bike
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:10 PM
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I'd argue tiktok is worse for the female brain than video games is for men, so it's overall worse. Do not marry women who use tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 01:09 PM
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The female equivalent is women who go on tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:44 PM
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there are never gonna be a vocal minority of women who declare their love for small to average dicks, for short men, for submissive behavior. They wont even be nuetral about economic success. The will profess their love for height above 6ft, and big dicks. The average man will find that he is not desireable becasue he has no representation in what women find desirable. ( Lets compare that with say small titted women, there is an entire subreddit where men profess their love for small tits, and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:40 PM
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I have no issue with it, but I think the woman's hypergamous nature would make her bothered by it so much that the relationship would end up failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:37 PM
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Keeping her around to have sex is what makes women so angry. Of course it does, women believe their sex entitles them to things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:35 PM
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Maybe if women self improved, men would see more on the horizon. Just thought, consider it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:34 PM
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Liberal Minded with Conservative values. ugh... these types of women are the worst because although they are fun and addictive in the short term they are quick to pull that "you need to be a traditional man" bullshit the instant she things your time and your attention belongs to her. What is this phenomenon? I've seen it too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:30 PM
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A lot of times it does end in a break up, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:28 PM
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what's that gotta do with being forever girlfriends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:25 PM
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They aren't?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:24 PM
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Men are more overweight by BMI which doesn't account for bodyfat. Women are overweight by bodyfat percentage almost 2x as often as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:19 PM
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All I'm seeing here is that it's "man bad" for women being shit partners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:16 PM
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And you’re still ignoring that age gaps are strongly correlated with a higher risk of divorce. Age gaps over what, 10 years? I'm 25 dude lol If I date a 20 year old, it's not that big of a gap
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:15 PM
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This is literally completely false. 45% of women are actually expected to be single by 2030.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 12:13 PM
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Obviously women know this? Like obviously women know that they hold leverage by not giving a man sex and yet they do it anyways because they know that Chad will leave if they don't. They're afraid that some other girl will scoop up that Chad if she doesn't get to him first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:50 PM
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Any exercise really, but the fact is only about 10% of people exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:37 PM
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It's funny how you think that you're entitled to men's affection & if he no longer is interested in marrying you, then that is somehow legal r*pe. You're entitled to his intention as well as marriage for your sex. I think you probably shouldn't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:36 PM
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Yep same, except my girl lied about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:55 PM
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These are all valid as well
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:12 PM
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And your dick clearly has low standards if that's the case. What kind of pathetic man keeps a woman around that he can't stand just so he has some place to park his dick every once in awhile? This is man-bad misandry my dude. No way around it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:49 PM
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No, what you see is “why stay with her then?” That's literally blaming the man for her being a bad partner...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:26 PM
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How long have you been here and you still won't accept that men will not turn down easy access to sex...?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:09 PM
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Women will only approach if: They think you won't They think you'll get away if they don't All of the other standard hypergamy things (you're more competent than her, funny, attractive, etc) You need all of these and then a woman may work up the courage to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:49 PM
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All of them make her a bad partner lol, but I guess in a woman's eyes gaining 100 lbs is totally acceptable (for the woman)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:38 PM
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Well tbf I don't really care if you stay single or not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:31 PM
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Nothing ever happens
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:26 PM
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They'd never tell you if they thought this irl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:25 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:25 PM
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I like how the woman being a poor partner is the man's fault in your eyes. Can women ever be bad? Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:22 PM
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I don't know any couples like this beyond movie troupes. But I hope these women leave because these men smell musty. You don't know a single situationship? Really? Good faith here Isn't the line "marriage is bad for men"? This seems to conflict with that. Make up your damn minds. It is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:17 PM
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Actually yep, I didn't think of that one but a man not having as much sex as he expected would probably deter them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:14 PM
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Too bad they'd let you simmer in silence and you'd never know
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:13 PM
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He could be hoping that she'll change or maybe start looking after herself (I know, basically a 1% chance right)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:11 PM
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I want my woman attached if I'm going to commit to monogamy for her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:10 PM
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Yea this is fair too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:09 PM
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What makes a woman deserving?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:07 PM
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desperate in which way? That they can't find another man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:03 PM
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Do you really think the kind of woman who would happily dozens of men is likely to be a chaste loyal wife as long as you’re simply the first to fuck her? Yes...?? There's always a special place in a woman's heart from her 1st partner. This isn't even something you can argue. Maybe divorce risk isn’t actually all that important to you, and it’s actually about something else entirely? Because again, a young age at marriage is correlated with an enhanced divorce rate. Well I wouldn't just find a yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:59 PM
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Lmao bro what planet do you live on. Every hot, successful guy I know has 50+ bodycount and rotating women. They might settle down as they approach 40???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:41 PM
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A fat woman knows she's fat. This is the argument many people here are making, that everyone can see she's fat. You might say that knowing she's fat is different than knowing she's LVW, but I would say being fat isn't directly equivalent to that in the first place. Associated, yes. People generally find it less attractive than being fit. But it's only one factor in the equation (unless we're talking super morbidly obese). I've dated 2 fat women. Neither of them were remotely struggling with dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:39 PM
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6'5 6-7/10 Face guy lmao he doesn't disappoint. This dude literally puts this in every single post he makes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:32 PM
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You said yes, no...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:29 PM
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They could just have low n from being young lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:27 PM
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It's both. Firstly, why would I struggle and fight and claw my way through being successful in life to get to a candy store and then have only 1 piece of candy? If I have to abide by monogamy rules when I easily could just have a ton of rotating women right now, then this is what my demand is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:26 PM
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So you don't exercise or count calories and somehow you're above average looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:18 PM
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No sex for u either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:34 PM
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Q4 American Women: Do you believe you're above average looking? AKA better than a 5/10 Follow-up Q: Do you even exercise or count calories?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:10 PM
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If it's any consolation, most of the people here (men and women) are completely delusional. Everyone thinks they're Stacy & Chad when most likely they're just 5s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:08 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:06 PM
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Because if you don't abide by monogamy then why would you care about bodycount? The entire reason to care about bodycount is because you're committing to 1 single woman for the rest of your life. If I get side women for the rest of my life then I wouldn't give a fuck either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:55 AM
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Me not wanting to commit to someone is not an insult. Is it insulting a man because he's too short for you to date? Use some logic here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:53 AM
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Not you.. smh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:52 AM
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It doesn't matter what you say about them apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:49 AM
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It's just a known fact that athletes have wives and also side-women. I mean you gotta live under a rock to believe any of these guys are faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:48 AM
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All good to not want to commit, not okay in the slightest to insult and strip value from people you’re not committing to. I literally didn't insult anyone, again here you go claiming victimhood of shit nobody did
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:46 AM
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Man on PPD: "I don't want to commit to a promiscuous woman" Woman on PPD: "Why are you insulting promiscuous women? Why are you hurting them? You're literally murdering her. You're genociding all promisucous women, you're literally Hitler"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:44 AM
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No sex for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:40 AM
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Low-n women who are low-n because of their values usually want a man with similar values. All my low-n friends picked low-n men. This just isn't true. Women generally choose the best of their own options. They actually take very little weight into the guy's bodycount. We can share anecdotes all day because I've seen this firsthand way too much. You can still choose not to be a slut for the benefit of your own marriage, the same way you’re telling women to keep their own legs together for the ben…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:40 AM
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It's hilarious that you think they are monogamous lol I bet you can't even name 5 male athletes who haven't cheated on their wives. Go for it right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:36 AM
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Wow weird everyone on PPD thinks they're Chad & Stacy. I'm pretty confident I got laid more than your boyfriend ever did, so your point is moot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:34 AM
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Promiscuous men still by and large want non-promiscuous women though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:33 AM
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Like I said, no man lacking options would just outwardly scare you off by declaring his stance on bodycount. They'd most likely vet you in silence or ghost you if they weren't ok with it. I actually have options and don't give a fuck. I'll straight up tell a woman that her bodycount is an ick and I'm no longer interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:31 AM
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Or I've met so many that they just congeal together in a very specific pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:29 AM
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Similar but not exactly the same. This means there ARE other factors to consider, which could lead a man to choose woman B over woman A. Welp, you solved all of PPD. There is no discussion of anything since there can be the most miniscule amount of nuance in anything. So, you would pick a woman who JUST slept with 2 men in one week over a woman who was only with 1 man for the last 5 years? If the concern over body count is that the woman is impulsive, doesn't have self-control, is more likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:27 AM
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No point. I'm usually pretty direct and open about my bodycount with women, so they typically offer me theirs willingly. It also helps that I come off as sex-positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:24 AM
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Anyone who disagrees with anything I say doesn't get sex. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:13 AM
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You assume attractiveness and body count are the only factors for making a choice in long-term partnership as these are the only pieces of information presented to support your conclusion. The reality is that there are a multitude of other criteria for what defines a successful relationship. I acknowledged that it's not the only factors but for the sake of the CMV, we are assuming the 2 hypothetical women are similar. The context of how both women got their sexual history also matters. If woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:10 AM
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causing them harm because they don’t fit them Me not wanting to commit to some promiscuous woman is not "causing her harm", yall need to get a grip on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:00 AM
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Everyone has standards and requirements whether they say them out loud or not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:34 AM
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weird
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:33 AM
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Because they aren't monogamous so they don't apply to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:33 AM
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Yes, I already have done this plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:32 AM
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It's because it's icky and gross. My women is only supposed to fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:55 PM
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Q4W - Have you ever considered that you're possibly not that amazing of a potential partner and your personality might not be that great? Or does this just apply to all women unanimously
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:50 PM
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Which is often said here, in so many words
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:48 PM
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You're just talking about men who literally don't even play by the rules of monogamy as your example of "high value men who commit"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:44 PM
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Professional sports stars and A list celebs just have side women lol, this isn't the gotcha you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:34 PM
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penetrative sex, so yes. Any penis going into any orifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:32 PM
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because the sex worker doesn't want to have sex with you, they're doing it for the money specifically, not the enjoyment of the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:02 PM
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Most men are less attractive than me so this is just copout lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:48 PM
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Yea then that just makes me feel no remorse when dudes lie to manipulate her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:47 PM
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introduce me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:45 PM
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What...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:31 PM
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If a woman told me unprompted that there is no benefit to choosing a poor man if you have options, and wrote a whole post comparing one guy that made 50k vs one that made 500k, I'd think she was being a complete diva. They just do it in real life and don't say anything about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:30 PM
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You can do what you want but why would you commit to the hoe?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:29 PM
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I'm finding out before commitment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:28 PM
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lmao no. Any woman can go down the street and say "who wants to fuck" and have 30 takers. Having a high bodycount as a woman does not prove any sort of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:22 PM
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How is this relevant in any form?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:21 PM
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I've already posted them in here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:14 PM
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lol yep
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:10 PM
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paying doesn't count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:07 PM
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Yes because I generally attract women who are pretty close to my looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:03 PM
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Everybody's a chad on here. I'm a chad too lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:51 PM
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All women have options though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:47 PM
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double digits?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:46 PM
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Ok, at least you’re consistent… although for the highest odds of successful marriage, they should also keep their own n-counts low as well. I certainly cared about the man’s n-count as a measure of his values for marriage. That's also correct, but with the caveat that women typically choose for more experienced men so they often choose against their own best interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:44 PM
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and are you high bodycount now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:01 PM
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This is for men who would commit though, you seem to be excluding yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:00 PM
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Anything in double digits is no longer wifable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:58 PM
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Man on PPD says anything about women Woman on PPD: "LOL U DONT GET SEX" yall are cringe, is this all u got?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:58 PM
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They can easily fuck the promiscuous women and commit to the wholesome women... The promiscuous women won't mind just adding another +1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:54 PM
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Are you committing though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:48 PM
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It does, it equates to lower odds of infidelity, higher marital happiness and lower divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:47 PM
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So why would she stay with you in that case? They often do monkey branch though so I'm not sure what your point is. Every stat points to marital dissatisfaction with higher bodycount so all of this fantasy BS about low bodycount women "needing craving to experience more" is just that, femcel fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:44 PM
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What does that have to do with the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:43 PM
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Yes, literally what you're posting is "If you don't agree with me then women don't have sex with you" Again, cringe af. This is equivalent of me saying you don't agree with me so you're probably a fat slutty girl irl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:42 PM
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I have never cheated and never will You don't know that because you can't predict the future. The fact is, having a higher bodycount makes you more likely. I can't account for a woman's future behavior but I can account for who I decide to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:40 PM
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Who's lying to women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:38 PM
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Hypocritical because the theoretical guy has options?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:36 PM
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I think this is what women tell themselves to over-compensate for a high bodycount. Anecdotally, the high bodycount women I've been with have been bad lays.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:34 PM
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"If you aren't having sex 16 hours per day then you're an incel" this is a new tier of cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:32 PM
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Please, women are the beneficiaries of divorce. They're legit incentivized to divorce men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:30 PM
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But my god have you never loved anyone ever.? It blows my mind almost DAILY how many men on this sub completely remove all human emotion and connection from relationship discussions and try to treat it like a math equation. This is how women treat men, yall made me this way lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:06 PM
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Yea but that's a different discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:04 PM
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Yes... because divorce is life ruining for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:59 PM
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"Any man who disagrees with me must be an incel" lmao cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:54 PM
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But often they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:51 PM
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I have options and I'm not going to settle. Sure, I guess if women A & B are clones except for body count then I'd pick A. High number of sexual partners is correlated with infidelity, whether we like it or not. ​ Yep that's the entire post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:50 PM
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Do you also think a man with options should only choose older, more educated women his own age? He should for the highest odds of successful marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:48 PM
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Where is that guy now? Happy with his new girlfriend. Or you think that because he has a high body count all of his relationship are doomed to fail? Because the point of the post is that high bodycount people can't stay together so you told me an anecdote of people who didn't stay together...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:46 PM
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LVW always feel like they're "missing out" while married
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:45 PM
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https://spark.bethel.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1005&context=psychology-students#:\~:text=Adults%20who%20are%20more%20promiscuous,their%20partner%2C%20and%20shorter%20marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:43 PM
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I got 4 girls on rotation right now but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:42 PM
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She said she was low at one point and is now high... which again, just proves my point. All promiscuous women have to start at 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:41 PM
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One was a former model and he had sex with +600 women Why do women always feel like this is some sort of gotcha? Where are these dudes now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:39 PM
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Sure then it wouldn't be a big deal. It 100% effects the decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:38 PM
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Higher bodycount is higher dead bedroom risk as marriage dissatisfaction is directly correlated with higher bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:37 PM
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They wouldn't have higher marriage dissatisfaction then, but the stats show they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:36 PM
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Because the stats show that once you reach a bodycount of 5, your chance of divorce skyrockets (for both men and women).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:16 PM
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If a woman has options, and all thing being equal , why shouldn’t she pick the man who is 2 inches taller, or makes 5k more? They usually do pick the guy who's 2 inches taller lol The only difference is that women can't guarantee what guy will commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:10 PM
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I never said that lmao I said high bodycount women always like to be over the top. They think that flailing around more = being better at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:09 PM
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I would say yes, because there is no gaslighting involved. If you're a LVM, then that's it. You know you're a LVM. A LVW does not know she's a LVW because she's always being gaslit by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:06 PM
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Also I’m curious if this situation was flipped - do you think women should only go for men that have a small body count like woman A? Depends, do they value male experience? Or do they value long term commitment and marriage longevity?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:04 PM
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She also knows what's out there and has no delusions about Mr perfect I believe this is the opposite. High bodycount women tend to make an amalgamation of all of the men they've ever been with and want all of those things in 1 man. They're the most delusional of any kind of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:03 PM
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No. All women have to do is be enthusiastic, the whole "sexual skill" thing is a cop-out. Most of the best sex I've ever had was not with high bodycount women contrary to them thinking they're all pornstars.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:02 PM
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Sure. But the hypothetical is that the 2 women are similar looks/demeanor/etc. If the stats showed that high bodycount women divorced less, then it would be a benefit to marry them but unfortunately they divorce at higher rates, and have higher marriage dissatisfaction rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:59 PM
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had a low body count Are you implying that it's no longer low? Doesn't that prove my point more? If you're just a serial monogamist you will end up high bodycount at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:57 PM
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That's the entire point. Why would I commit the rest of my life if it didn't benefit me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:40 PM
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Better at laying there? Surely there's a lot of skill required in opening your legs and being told what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:39 PM
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Yea and most women get pump & dumped and don't get commitment from the guy they want.
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 04:38 PM
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Lmao They're broken up, what a shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:35 PM
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Yea I guess science is misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:33 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:32 PM
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Sure I agree, but in my hypothetical we're talking about 2 women on a similar level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:29 PM
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A man with low/no options wouldn't risk scaring you off by asking your bodycount, which you confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:28 PM
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On another note i dont think any man or woman who picks you based on what benefits they get from you is a good partner but thats just me, im calling out both sides of the coin. Most women won't even consider you unless you can provide for them, prove your competence, have good genetics (being attractive/tall), they just maybe won't outwardly admit it. So yes, they are directly looking for a partner that benefits them the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:22 PM
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Ideally you would both be virgins, but we don’t live in an ideal world. I disagree, since women typically want a man who can lead in the bedroom which requires experience. If a man has options and has a virgin who is interested in him, then of course he would take that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:21 PM
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Bitches don't have big bones, they're just fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:18 PM
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Overweight women is harder, and I'll explain why. A broke man will get rejected on the front end. Women won't even associate with him. HOWEVER men can make up for being broke in other ways, being funny, fit, hot, tall, maybe they're in college so they're working towards making money, whatever. It's not a death sentence. For a fat woman, they will get fucked, pumped and dumped, toyed with emotionally and not taken seriously. This is why it's way worse for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:53 PM
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I mean I got what I wanted out of her. Moving on to better looking & higher value women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:42 PM
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Nah I don't want to reveal it was a facade the entire time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:28 PM
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it's pickme behavior to trash other women who have higher smv lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 02:27 PM
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Bruh what??? There's 0 shot I would give a girl like this a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:26 PM
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Most women are into me so I would say yea, it's just hard to find the right one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 12:13 PM
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Probably because western feminism hasn't tainted their culture yet.
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 11:55 AM
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I literally have a rotation right now lmao Anyone who says this shit isn't real is just delusional
/r/AllPillDebate11/05/23 11:52 AM
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I'd say she's about a 5 or a 6, fairly average looking. I'm confident that I'm the best looking dude she's ever gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:14 AM
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Ever heard of camouflaging? Women are especially good at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:12 AM
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No, it just means they can temporarily mask child-like behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:10 AM
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There are plenty of women who are great in a professional setting and act like children in their personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:30 AM
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Sofia Gomez
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:28 AM
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Tinder Misandrist pt 4 Ok so on Tuesday she actually brought up the "What are we?" question when we were hanging out. So it didn't go quite as I had planned but we ended up having a long talk about what we were looking for in dating, yadda yadda. I told her I wasn't looking for anything serious and she pressed me a little bit harder saying that my Tinder profile says I'm "looking for a relationship". (which isn't a lie) And I'm ngl she caught me off guard by that a bit. I ended up telling her I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:24 AM
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It all depends on her past. If she's low bodycount and has a 3 month rule with every guy, then this is cool. If she's high bodycount and gave up sex on the 1st date with a bunch of other guys and expects me to wait, fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:13 AM
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Men don't promote hookup culture but they aren't going to turn down easy access to sex. This is an example of things happening on a micro level that people don't care about but does effect the dating market on a macro level. I am able to participate in hookup culture and I still think it's shit. All it does is make it harder for me as a man to find a woman who isn't high bodycount.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:11 AM
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Why be the dumpy housewife Feminism doesn't get women in the gym, what kind of delusional take is this? There is nothing making dumpy women dumpy except for their own apathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:10 AM
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Women control access to sex. If women weren't giving sex away before commitment, there would not be a hookup culture. But yes, women will justify anything for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:54 AM
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Like I said, it’s a whole spectrum of men. In my opinion, HVM don’t care about it. Men aren't HVM because they abide by your preference for them to not have a bodycount standard. The woman I choose will be a reflection of me. That's why I won't be choosing someone who the entire city ran through, someone easy. Someone who doesn't worry about cheating/leaving aka a man who enables female mating strategy is also not a HVM. In reality, a HVM doesn't give you any autonomy. This is the reality of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:03 AM
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You keep saying that, but it’s just blatantly false. There are men who actively prefer women with maximal n counts because they think it’s hot, or they associate it with more experienced partners and better sex. Lmao bro no. This is called a cuck. There are men who are just apathetic about it— There are a lot of men who'd rather hold their ears and go "lalalala" which is honestly kind of a cringe mindset. Basically they'd be disgusted if they knew, so they'd rather stay ignorant to the knowledge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:01 AM
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You aren't going to get one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:57 AM
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Sure there's variance in what men find acceptable, but the constant among all men is nobody wants a slut. So that's where you can find variance because men qualify what a slut is at different bodycounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:00 AM
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Every dude has the same experience, history is a good teacher. I've been with a lot of women, and I've even tried to take the hoe seriously; it was a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:48 PM
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I can't make you attracted to short men the same way you can't make me unattracted to high bodycount women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:39 PM
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m 20 3x per week
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:38 PM
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Yea that's what women want but unfortunately you can't erase biological ick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:27 PM
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Oh ok just so we're clear you are claiming female superiority without shame right here, right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:10 PM
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It's completely the opposite, they think lowly of the other men she's had sex with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:09 PM
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The hotter the woman is, the more she demands. Like a 4/10 is ok with a dude making 40k per year. But Stacy isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:08 PM
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The difference is women can actually fuck chads, most men have 0 chance to fuck the pornstars they're jerking off to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:05 PM
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Idk that's why I asked. Men have usually seen soft weiners but not hard and that's why I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:01 PM
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What can I say, less men have standards than I thought if more than 50% (as you claim) didn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:01 PM
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So therefor they are morally superior
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:56 PM
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Whether you want it to happen or not, your money matters. Like even if a woman is RP aligned or not, she cares about your money. So there is no way to avoid the BB aspect of relationships. I guess you could lie and say you're flat broke and drive a padiddle but in reality what would happen is you'd pre-disqualify yourself from higher value women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:52 PM
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Generally no. I've had female friends, but it seems to always cross that platonic line at some point so I've sort of avoided it lately. Mostly my female friends consist of my friends girlfriends right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:50 PM
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I just think it's weird that men don't ever see hard weiners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:48 PM
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You don't have to hide it but I'm sure if you outright said it to every dude you dated, 9/10 would ghost you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:47 PM
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Right but men and women cheat for different reasons. Women cheat to monkey branch, men cheat for variety. When men cheat, the affair partner doesn't even need to be more attractive than the spouse. In fact, they don't need to be attractive at all. Women generally won't consider cheating unless the affair partner is an upgrade aka hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:46 PM
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I don't think he is, because he doesn't want some random becky. But if he wanted to destroy a marriage he could do it easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:06 PM
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Your penii number must be really high
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:05 PM
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Ok how did that 1 happen?!? You have to explain now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:05 PM
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lol someone just got modded for posting Limp Bizkit lyrics. Bless your hearts PPD mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:04 PM
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Q4(straight) Men: How many erect penii have you seen in your entire life (not including porn or your own)?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:50 PM
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How else am I supposed to get my dick sucked???? What's your plan homie?? Take her behind the 7-11 dumpster?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:49 PM
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That's the same thing. Either way, most women will throw away an entire LTR just to have a shot at locking down this hypothetical giga chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:45 PM
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Of course she does, she's been coming to my house like twice a week for the last 3 weeks now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:23 PM
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Meaning it dictates their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:57 PM
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Yes lmao, men are realistic and know they can't lock down a super famous giga stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:56 PM
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I'll give her 1 more month then I will ask the "what are we" question, then ghost right after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:56 PM
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Yea I would say over 50% would leave their LTR if for example Henry Cavill just DM'd them and said he wanted to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:27 PM
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Honestly I don't think I will fuck her. There isn't really a rush to anyways, since she's sucking my dick pretty much every time I see her. So I'm not worried about pregnancy or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:18 PM
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I think most women are so consumed by hypergamy that they would indeed just leave if some man with a lot of status came in and swooped her up. That doesn't necessarily mean all of them will, but that you just have to find the right woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:04 PM
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Why would I need to jerk off to it when she comes over to jerk me off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:00 PM
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I think it's crazy how far a girl who is "into domming men" will bend. Or the entire domming thing is just an act
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:49 PM
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Tinder Misandrist pt 3 The worse I treat this woman, the more she wants me. I mostly just did this as sort of a social experiment but this girl is literally crazy about me rn. I've even told her that she isn't worthy of getting fucked by me and should be grateful she gets to suck my dick... and she loves it. This has gone into weird bdsm territory that I have not done before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:43 PM
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No, they exaggerate looks because they want it to be true. They don't want to accept that they're just a 5/10 chasing an impossible 8/10 Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:18 PM
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The only guys who dismiss RP are shamed into trying to change their nature, and would just have been beta men anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:20 PM
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Who are they to dictate that guys give a shit about that? Guys who like getting sex aka most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:55 PM
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No but then they wouldn't care about marriage anyways. I'm talking about men who are vying for relationships/marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:52 PM
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They're non-committal because there's no benefit for men to commit. Women still give up sex without commitment in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:50 PM
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I get 20 a month from my rotation, cmon bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:41 PM
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Show me the study of those same couples before they got married lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:41 PM
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lmao what?? Most onlyfans girls make 100-200 per month because they're average. Only like the top 1% of creators actually make money because the market is so oversaturated with average women. In fact, I saw a podcast with two sex workers who were legit 2/10s and said they get roughly 20 clients per week. Like you can be in the bottom 1% of attractiveness as a woman and still some man will pay to fuck you and leave. It doesn't prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:40 PM
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Getting married is inherently simp behavior. That's why married women fuck their husbands less, because they view them as lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:56 PM
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RP says to never get married lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:53 PM
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Yea so has everyone here. 90% of the people here are chads/stacies too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:50 PM
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their* You think you can have a LTR and it won't come up 1 time that you had an OnlyFans or were a sugar baby? Kinda short-sighted tbh. Anyways point still stands, you want to start a relationship on a lie, manipulate men, and somehow think that men will be stupid enough to not pick up on this (especially a high value one)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:48 PM
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And you wonder why men feel expendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:13 PM
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That's probably my #1 ick tbh, I wouldn't ever commit to a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:03 PM
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I don't follow any females lmao
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 12:02 PM
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self-awareness: 100
/r/AllPillDebate03/05/23 12:01 PM
2

proof of the hive mind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:57 AM
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Gets laid 1 time > I'm a guy with fairly easy access to casual sex Lmao what bro You got laid and spilled your guts to her and she got the ick most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:55 AM
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Both are friendzone, but I'd say B is probably closer because the guy is sticking around. But there are situations where A sticks around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:53 AM
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Probably 21-24ish
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:50 AM
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None of these, there's plenty of women who are hot who don't look for ways to manipulate men or manipulate the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:48 AM
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I mean the western world is all pretty fat relative to the planet... Probably the biggest reason men are doing the passport thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 12:40 AM
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Some women just be having loose giners, it's life. Not everyone has a tight one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:57 PM
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Just your regular everyday casual misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:35 PM
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Because they think (or hope) any man with opinions that counter feminism can't possibly get laid. I usually keep 3 or 4 women on my roster lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:29 PM
3

Congrats you're accepting redpill/blackpill
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 10:09 PM
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what's a philtrum? Is that as elusive as the clit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:07 PM
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studies shows that women are less hypergamous than previous generations of women. A higher percentage of women make more money than men now, and less overall marriages is the direct result of this, yet somehow this makes hypergamy not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:02 PM
1

a nude photoshoot that only her and the photographer sees is hardly 'slutty'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 10:00 PM
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If the photographer is a woman, then who tf cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 09:55 PM
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r u ok
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:15 PM
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uh huh this is coming from "Lizzo is a 10/10" so I'm taking this with an ocean of salt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:14 PM
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The "average" is taken into account globally. So american women lowering their value relative to the planet doesn't make fat women 'average' or 'above average'
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 08:13 PM
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Oh it sure as hell does for all these women who don't exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:36 PM
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busted (adjective) A way to describe a very ugly female, who can barely be described as female. A "busted" female is not even considered for Mercy Sex simply because they are so ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:35 PM
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And their gfs are gremlins
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:32 PM
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Yes the women are always busted by 30
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:29 PM
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Just take a look at the SMV gap between your average 30-35 year old couple and tell me the wall doesn't exist lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:14 PM
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A- 4 B- 4 C- 2 ​ All three of these women are below average looking. Look, I get that american women are becoming fatter but that doesn't change what a 5 is. If you're in a room with 9 other women, and they all gain 50 lbs, that doesn't bring you from a 5 to a 6. It's just not how physical attraction works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:11 PM
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Well personally, when I lost my virginity I was walking around like I was a king and women can pick up on that.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 03:53 PM
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Any woman who actually abides by male RP would probably never share that on a profile, so yea I would assume it's a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:31 PM
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I would not enter any marriage in 2023 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:30 PM
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Because the women there aren't seen as typically Asian phenotypes
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 11:38 AM
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A white 5 in asia is like a 6-7. It's simple
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 11:36 AM
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I've never heard anyone say ascension in my life. Anecdotally, once a lot of men lose their virginity, they also gain confidence which in turn generates more pussy.
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 11:34 AM
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puri you're the only woman who types "bbc and bleachmaxxed"
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 11:15 AM
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puri just stfu
/r/AllPillDebate02/05/23 12:31 AM
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Some woman on PPD: Old women have no issues getting married. I know old, fat, high bodycount women who have 0 issues getting married. Same woman: My husband would rather jerk off to porn than fuck me You can't make this shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:09 PM
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That's all they talk about lmao. Their lives are literally following celebs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:34 PM
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Aw man you forgot to put that you're 6'5 and ripped
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:32 PM
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I think a lot of women are just salty that not every single woman is a special little snowflake, it hits them hard that most people are just average and the realization that they might also just be average is similar to redpill rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:30 PM
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That Leonardo is a pedophile / gay / a predator because he dumps women by 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:27 PM
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