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Have you ever read any Margaret Atwood?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:27 PM
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Oh god. Bloody hell
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:26 PM
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I think my man and i value the same things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:06 PM
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Alimony is meant to compensate for years lost in the workforce, years that could have been used to develop a career that would have good salary. Instead the recipient has been the homemaker, support and often had the children and been the main caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:23 PM
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Why has the woman in this context not got another job in those 3 months? When I was made redundant I had another job within 3 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:32 AM
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No it isn't. For either sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:16 PM
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Yes it does. Quite clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:18 AM
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What is the point in starting a relationship ship with someone when you are not the type of person they want? I stated mine to my husband on the first date and he did to me. Luckily we met each other's requirements and fancied each other!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:27 AM
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Ignorant? Pocahontas? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 11:39 AM
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You can be that and safe, reliable and caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:46 PM
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Who does this? Pretty much all the couples I know have outside interests and hobbies. My husband goes with several (also married) blokes for a burger and a pint every Thursday. I go to Yoga every Sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 11:01 AM
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That's it? So he doesn't know her at all. Has he asked her out at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:26 PM
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What has the relationship been in the mean time? Chats? Debates?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:11 PM
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I like baking. My husband is the superior cook (and he works from home) so he does the majority whilst I manage finances, laundry and ironing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:44 PM
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You assume correct. I would be bored to the point of homicide. I like my career. I also love learning. I do not like housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:41 PM
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Up until engagement we split proportionally and then all money in one pot with a shared, agreed budget The idea of staying home fills me with horror
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:36 PM
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He's the most attractive man i have ever met. Not dated. Not just me who thinks so, pretty much everyone comments on it. He has six sisters who are all very beautiful as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:30 PM
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I'm married to the most handsome man I've ever met. He's a wonderful partner. I don't think there is a correlation between looks and how good a partner they are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:16 PM
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What photos? We didn’t photograph our proposal. Who does that? We were too busy being in love and happy to think about photos
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:13 AM
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To feel my best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:54 AM
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So they don’t need to care about what each person cares for? Sounds like an awesome (!) start to a marriage!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:54 AM
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If he loves her then why is he proposing in the dirt?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:49 AM
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Agreed. Myself for instance would have detested anythjng public or over the top. So my husband’s proposal was private and intimate, at the end of a private dinner whilst on holiday in the South of France. He knew I’d want look dressed up for the proposal so he chose wonderfully. And now it is a memory I will treasure for ever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:49 AM
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Well it's divorced (my dad, loved each other but couldnt live together), dead and still married. Can't really judge her for any of them really!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:17 PM
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It can do. Depends on the person. My dad is short and he's never had problems. All three of my mums husbands have been shorter than her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:51 AM
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I've pretty much always liked clever, broad men who are kind and assertive. And that's who I married
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:58 PM
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Why is the Dad giving his and his wives money to a fully capable adult? Why wouldn't they be saving it for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:14 AM
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Why is working for some being a 'corporate slave'? My husband is a scientist and has a boss, does that make him a slave? Most of my female friends are either in vocation or working in careers that stimulate them and that they have passion for. I WANT to work. Staying at home would be my idea of hell. As it would be for many women. Your dream is not everyone's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:54 AM
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The person you are responding to clearly said that they are doing 50/50 on the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:45 AM
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I'll give you lifting VERY HEAVY things but your other things are rubbish. Women are perfectly capable of leadership and many (like some men) thrive in leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:43 AM
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Why are working women 'corporate slaves'? I run my own company. I do my share of our housework but so does my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:42 AM
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That just sounds like you have a bad husband. My husband does his fair share (and often more) of homemaking. As do all the men in my family and social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:22 AM
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Also - your last point, what things are women incapable of that men can do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:20 AM
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Feminism is about choice and freedom. I like having the freedom to choose to work, have a career, choose my own husband, choose my own path. Women who don't have this freedom can end up trapped and in abusive situations. Why shouldn't we have the freedom to choose the path we take in life? Also, women have always worked but with feminism we earn a fair salary and can pursue ALL careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:16 AM
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Or they find large women attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:37 PM
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I know quite a few exercise blokes who like large women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:34 PM
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Very few people who are in love would be ok with this. I certainly would not be and nor would my husband. We belong to each other and that is at the exclusion of every one else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:37 PM
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Real men ( as in those confident in their masculinity) do like receiving flowers and massages. And men don't want an anti-virus subscription any more than the women do! My latest thoughtful gift for my husband was taking him to a wine and cheese tasting, he loved it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:10 AM
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As a married woman without kids - they are. I am interrogated on a weekly basis about why I don't want or have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:50 AM
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Everything is ours, all in shared accounts and we operate on a strict (albeit) generous budget
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:12 PM
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Why is the woman at the law firm average? Also, proof for your statement? Very few want a partner who isn't intellectually stimulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:29 PM
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My husband would disagree. As would my dad. And my grandad. And all of my 6 sisters in laws partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:17 PM
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Is that what you deem as the only type of ambition or success?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:48 PM
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I wouldn't date anyone with such a lack of direction or ambition
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:26 PM
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Hard agree. You need to KNOW the person you are marrying. My husband and i were together 5 years before marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:25 PM
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Because it isn't just your wealth, it is shared wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:30 PM
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Where? Where are these women who work part time? I don't know any single woman who works part time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:55 PM
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Both partners money becomes ‘our money’ (except premarital money and property).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:05 AM
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On 3 - engagement rings were not invented by De Beers. The ‘three months’ thing was but engagement and betrothal rings existed long before that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:55 AM
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My engagement ring is a family heirloom, the meaning means more than the cost
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:53 AM
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I know several older women who are either divorced or widowed. They are not short of male companions, if they wanted to remarry it would be very easy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:32 AM
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You are not giving away your wealth, your are splitting your SHARED wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:28 AM
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No it is the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:27 AM
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Men become healthier and wealthier because of being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:16 AM
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That's how I live my life - what would they do? And do the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:38 AM
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Lol I know right. My parents are not the people I would take relationship advice from ( or any other advice tbh)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:35 AM
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All of them although context for number one would be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:06 PM
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16 and 13 year olds are in such different life stages that it is highly inappropriate for them to date. Never mind that 13 year olds should not be dating. Age of consent is simply ths legality. It's 16 in my country but any 20 year old dating a 16 year old will be severely side eyed and judged. Anyone who is a 'proper adult' (over 25) can date who they like but a 19 year old kid dating a 40 year old is going to be looked at as creepy. The 19 year old is in such a different life stage and they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:19 PM
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Older with a degree haveca higher success rate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:19 PM
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For most couples a prenuptial is pointless as most couples build from nothing together so everything is shared
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:10 PM
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Oh those stats are interesting, the stat for failure of first and only marriages TOTAL is 40% or just under.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:08 PM
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Me too! Nor Brad Pitt. I don't like pretty men or round faced men attractive. Noone (except my husband) believes me!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:16 AM
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I fully agree with the title. My husband is a genuinely good and kind man but he also has a spine of steel. You can be kind AND be assertive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 08:02 AM
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Childless is for people who want kids but have either not had them yet or cannot. Childfree is for people who have chosen to not be parents And this is great for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:31 AM
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There is a difference between childfree and childless
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:02 AM
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Not watching the link, i detest toktok I found this. I was repeatedly told that I was attractive and pretty but that they could not have a relationship with someone smarter or as smart as them. It's a sign of insecurity The right man, the self confidant and assured man, will not have an issue with this. My husband adores that i am a clever woman, it's one of his favourite things about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:54 PM
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I met my husband through tennis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:15 PM
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I'm a married woman and most of my friends are men. As the only woman in a family of blokes (except wives) it has always been pretty normal to be friends with men. My best friend ( aside my husband) is also a man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:02 AM
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On a more serious note, I was trying to be helpful. You should do more reading and studying of the period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:55 PM
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Oh no - do you think? I'd better let my lecturers at York and Oxford know, they'll be heartbroken that the person misunderstanding literary periods on the internet thinks that my education has been such a waste of time. Oh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:43 PM
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I am a scholar of this period ( as well as the Renaissance period). I've been studying it for over a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:24 PM
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You need to do more reading on the period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:20 PM
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This is due to people taking relationships more seriously, not due to disillusionment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:56 PM
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People have always fallen in love and will always do so. Whether it is permitted by society or considered fashionable (as it was in the Romantic Period) is another question. You have also misunderstood the period you are reading about, 'Romantic' was not in reference to relationships or the modern concept of romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:55 PM
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So do I but the app adjusts over the months and now the app is accurate within two days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:03 PM
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The app also helps as he now understands when and why I am more tetchy than normal. The price isn't an issue as we share finances but it is nice that he takes the time to buy them for me and makes me feel cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:53 PM
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My husband and I both have an app that warns him when my period is about to start. He buys me decent chocolate, tampons and brings me cups of tea. Ge also educated himself about periods and the parts of the cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:49 PM
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If we had a child then my husband is free to have a paternity test. But it would come with a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:47 AM
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I personally do not lust without an emotional connection. I can admire people but I do not actively fancy them. I just for my husband all the time and that is certainly rolled up with warm feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:03 PM
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It's 38%. And it is low. It means the majority of marriages are successful First and only means the only marriage that lasts until death as 2nd marriages and onwards are more likely to fail and therefore would skew the statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:19 PM
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Divorce rates for first and only marriages are not high
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:28 PM
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It's not superficial to want a partner you find sexually attractive - it is incredibly sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:27 PM
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Again, a lack of understanding of nuance. There is a huge gap between being in an equal and complimentary relationship and being a submissive partner. From a married lady of 15 years in a very happy, equal and complimentary relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:47 PM
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There are 11 different definitions for partner in the OED and all of them assume equalness. You being unable to identify nuance is another matter entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:36 PM
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A partner, as in an equal. Submissive means unequal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:15 PM
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Well it would be obvious by the dynamics. All the couples in my extended family, in laws and friends are partners, none of the women are being 'led' and all would have something to say if their husband tried to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:48 AM
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You are the one saying they are very common. If so then we all should know at least one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:44 AM
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Is it? Where are these men? I haven't met a single one in real life. Men, like women, want a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:29 AM
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That statistics disagree, the majority of first marriages are for life. Just for clarity - in a year I will have lived with my husband longer than I lived with my parents. He is the greatest support and has helped me grow into the woman I am today, far more than the rather immature parents who are both stuck at the emotional age of 12. I have not spoken to one of my parents for a decade and I never will again. Blood is not 'permanent' at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:27 AM
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When you marry your spouse becomes your immediate family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:19 AM
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Because marriage is not a temporary state, the point is that it is permanent. I love my Dad but my entire world revolves around my husband. There is no comparison between the two. Loving a spouse, choosing a spouse over every one else and building a life together creates the very deepest bond. Also you are creating a self-fulfilling event here - if you choose your birth family over your spouse then you will never have a true partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:22 PM
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Yes but you can be permanently estranged. It still doesn't stop your spouse being your closest relation. 'Bound by blood' is a made up thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:16 PM
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My bond with my husband is far, far stronger than that of any of my blood family
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:04 PM
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By definition. Your spouse IS your immediate family. By marriage they become your closest relationship. IF you then divorce (60% of first marriages do not) then yes they become your former family
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:03 PM
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It's not a matter of debate, your spouse is your immediate family.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:45 PM
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What was "male orientated" about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:21 AM
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I did not ask a question at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:13 AM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:12 AM
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I'm the she in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:11 AM
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In the scenario I mentioned i had already said no 6 times
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:11 AM
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15 years in a relationship- every single yes has been enthusiastic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:26 AM
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If you badger me 7 times and then I say ' oh alright then' then that is not consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:25 AM
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I would be very, very, very surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:12 PM
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I have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:53 PM
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Personally I need the emotional bond first and then the physical desire comes from that. It doesn't mean I don't want the physical intimacy but that I need the emotional one first
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:05 PM
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Apparently my husband and I have the unattainable then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:56 AM
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Er not in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:52 PM
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I'd have sex any day with my husband over any 'alone time'. It's not about the orgasm - it's about connecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:36 PM
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They are. They are both aristocracy. Edit - I studied The Fairytale as a part of my Masters and Cinderella was one of the ones we looked at indepth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:02 AM
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The Prince and Cinderella are the same class.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:57 AM
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I think we all need to reread Cinderella. Cinderella is a Lady who marries a prince, they are the same social class. The fact her stepmother mistreats her does not change her upbringing or class
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:55 AM
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This a false statistic as it is for all marriages. The rare of failure for first marriages is 38%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:08 AM
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