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DISCUSSIONIllTill3859/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:45 PM
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Happened to me twice. Never again! I have to see the peen in 30 days. I am no longer entertaining micropenises.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:49 PM
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Size matters. Length and girth matter. I am saying this as someone who has had the misfortune of dating 3 men with less than 3 inches. And no, they were not good at oral either. Women need to be educated about micropenises. Dick size matters to me and that is why I have to see his dick within 30 days of dating. I will no longer stick around for thumb sized dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 08:15 AM
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This happened to me as well. When he was done he had the audacity to state, “ I dont know you, I just got to know you recently.” So you don’t know me but you know me well enough to rape me without a condom? Idiot. I don’t drink in the company of men ever since that day. Matter of fact, I only drink with 2 female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:51 AM
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Nope. That was too hard for him as well. He became Mr “I don’t know what to say to you” , “if you need anything let me know” and “you should have told me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:58 PM
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32 , independent, financially stable and unmarried. I date with purpose. By month 3 I should be meeting extended family members. By month 6 we should be talking about marriage. I don’t initiate these convos by the way. 1 yr tops before I walk away. Need to be engaged at least 6 months and no moving in together. I am mot a forever girlfriend, I will not get a shut up ring. It has been drilled into me by my father, my pastor, the men I look up in my life that it does not take a man who has his act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:56 AM
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This is the other side of 50/50 they never talk about. He has more money to spend on things such as porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:43 AM
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Selfish men and men devoid of empathy refuse to do things that only bring pleasure to a woman. He sees flowers as a waste of money and he does not like it so why should he buy you some? I had a similar encounter with a man who first displayed some HV traits but turned out to be ZVM. I told him on the first date my love language was receiving gifts and we even read the book together during the first month of dating. The flowers never came. Then he tried to change me and tell me, “your love langua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:38 AM
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I meant academia assuming they come from some family money. Given her situation, most men she encounters will be worth less than her. Someone with a career, and a bit of money would be better than this leeching scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:07 PM
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Retroverted uterus here. On oral BC because of fibroids. Celibate. Even when I was sexually active I insisted on condoms. I only got on bc after year 3 of celibacy when I discovered I had fibroids. I am on year 7 of celibacy now. I date but I never tell men about birth control or fibroids. Back then my point was why should I take a pill at the same time everyday for 20 mins of sex twice a week? Unless we are having sex everyday at the same time, in the same positions for the same duration, then …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:45 PM
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Being unequally yoked financially is my worst nightmare. She needs to divorce him and find a man who makes at least 100k.l a year with a positive net worth. Not this scrote. Not someone who makes 50-150k depending on how hard he works. Someone in academia who has a social standing. She may not meet a man as rich as her but an MBA or PhD will do. And she better get a tamper proof BC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:04 PM
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This is fake. Someone is trolling. A woman would not have a man’s baby. The women I know in such situations had an abortion and walked away. No woman is having a scrote’s baby then paying 125% of child support. I call BS on this story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:08 PM
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I got that message too. I ignored him. I like an adult sized penis on an adult sized man. No excuses. I don’t like men with baby sized penises. That’s my preference. Oh, I also got reported to Reddit cares whatever that means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:14 AM
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I have encountered this as well. They are respectful, willing to take it slow, and focus on building an emotional connection. That is how I ended up giving charity sex to one guy with a micropenis. My rule has been insisting on taking a shower with a guy within 30 days of being his gf, but I prefer the heavy make out session idea. I don’t know why I never thought of that, but then, these guys were willing to take it slow and were not keen on making out. Let’s take things slow and build an emotio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:20 AM
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Micro as in less than 3 inches long. First one: 5’10” muscular dude. Had a penis the size of a baby carrot Second one: 6 ft. In shape guy. Penis about the size of my finger Third one: 6ft+ , brolic, size 12 shoe, muscular, 6packs and all, when flaccid penis reverted back into his body and dude’s penis looked like an asshole or a pouted mouth, when fully erect, size of my thumb. Look up hidden micropenis for medical insight. These man did not push boundaries. Took me out on dates and paid. They w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:00 AM
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I like this strategy. I will start employing it. No more surprises. Also, that way you can also tell if he is a grower or a show-er.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:46 PM
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This is what I am going to start doing. I don’t want to be disappointed anymore. The smallest guy I met was 6’4” 200lbs brolic dude , washboard abs, b cut, size 12 shoe, deep voice. Nothing about him prepared me for what he had: an inverted micropenis. When flaccid his penis looked like an asshole, it crawled back into his body. When erect, he was the size of my thumb. I did the slow fade because there was no way that could ever satisfy me. Google: hidden penis or “buried penis” for medical pict…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:42 PM
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That guy must have been porn sick. I encountered one who did it want any foreplay and while he wasn’t big, his peen was short and had girth. He too wanted me dry because it was “tighter”. No way he was going to penetrate me without foreplay. Once they are used to porn and death grip, no woman’s vagina is a match. And then they try to push for anal, because that hole is “tighter.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:28 PM
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I am on birth control for other health reasons and I never tell men I am on It. Get tested together, Wrap it up or get going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:38 PM
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I am not ashamed and will not make excuses for a small penis. I find small penises repulsive. They remind me of toddlers and prepubescent boys. I am not a pedophile. Adult body parts for adult sized men please. In my experience those men with very small penises were quite insecure, terrible in bed and did not know how to use their hands or tongue. Makes for a terrible experience. Waste of time actually. Sorry, not sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:28 PM
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Sorry not sorry. I prefer my men to rock at least 5.5 with girth. I have encountered 3 micropenises. Three. I though that stuff was rare. All presented themselves as gentleman willing to wait until I saw what they were working with. Slept with one, his penis was 2.3 inches, the size of my thumb. I did not feel anything and he was my second bf. I couldn’t tell whether he was in or not. I did not sleep with the other two men for obvious reasons but part of my 60 day vetting process is to see, touc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:16 PM
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Dear scrote, Just because you didn’t do anything wrong does not mean you did anything right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:59 PM
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Not surprised. NVM gave me a cold then disappeared because he “didn’t want to catch any cooties”. 5 days later he resurfaced when he thinks I am better so I can “hang out and go on a date with him.” I dumped him because that gave me a prelude to the future. I am sorry for this woman, but in most cases, the warning signs were there from the get go. We just chose not to see them. I hope she is surrounded by a tried of women and she fight Ca and wins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:03 PM
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This is one of the main reasons I am single. I do well for myself and seem to only meet men who are hell bound on making my life harder, not easier. I make good money. I don’t have money problems. Why should I entertain a man (with the same career as me) with money problems? How does that benefit me? I would rather stay single. Be equally yoked. A Financially stable woman deserves financially stable man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:11 AM
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My love language is receiving well though out anytime gifts. I make that clear in the first date. I am not waiting for a holiday for a man to gift me something. I have had a bad day at work, that is your chance to buy me flowers. I have my period, it’s time to buy me some good quality wine and some chocolate and cheese. My feet are hurting and I need new work shoes, time for you to step up. My neck is tense, give me a massage and book a professional one at the end of the week. It’s simple. My fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:05 PM
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True. The last guy I dated had Aspegers. He was also narcissisticly inclined and High functioning autistic. Not sure if he didn’t know it or tried to hide it. He was just clueless and life and everything. Selfish to the core. Made 6 figures working in IT. Do not recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:55 AM
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At my practice We give the depo shot to men to reduce sexual aggression aka lower libido. ETA 2 of the guys ended up with DVTs in the lower legs due to the depo shot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:28 AM
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I have met these kind of men and it’s easy to recognize them if you are dating with eyes wide open. For one, they are so quick to come to your house. Either before the first date or on the first date and they already have an overnight bag packed. And when you ask what they do for a living they tell you a bunch of sht that doesn’t make sense. Manager, personal trainer, starting a business. Or my fav : engineer. I have dated engineers before and they introduce themselves as, “hi, I’m Matt. I am an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:58 PM
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I don’t recommend this. Men have fragile egos and this could turn violent real quick. Better to keep quiet and not say anything. I simply say excuse me, I need to go pee, then I get up and wash and I am done. You don’t have to fake moan but booing will put your life in danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:44 PM
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I watched this live last year. So many gems 💎. The last live event I attended before the pandemic hit. I love that both women are fearlessly independent and call the shots in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:06 AM
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Trust but verify. When I was sexually active, I did that. 4 forms of BC: condom, birth control pill, period calendar and abstinence during ovulation week. I do not play. I checked the condom during sex, during change of position and afterwards. The ones who get mad are the ones you need to walk away from because they will gladly yank the condom while behind you. The few men that understood my concerns for safety were the ones I dated and slept with (one at a time). It’s sad women have to do this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:33 AM
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The wife is pretty but has been broken down due to being with Derrick Jaxn for over 14 years. She cannot recognize herself and she seems brainwashed by the church. She is going to need serious individual therapy when she breaks free for the narcissist sociopath. I never liked DJ in the first place. He is Future dressed in Russel Wilson’s clothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:02 PM
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I have been doing this for years and let me tell you, it works. When he attempts to contact you or when you miss him, read that list and you are back to reality. I will never take back my exes thanks to this concept.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:56 PM
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I recently adopted this strategy as well because I realized drinking made me overlook the red flags. I don’t drink with a man I am not married to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:28 PM
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A man has to do the work in order to woo me. Men that don’t plan dates are showing you who they are. Lazy, lack of initiative, boring, cheap, inability to think outside the box, inability to lead among others. No need to argue with them just ignore, delete, and block. Dates must be planned at least 48 hrs ahead of time (72 or more hours even better), paid for by the one pursuing you, paired up (meaning no bbq gatherings or family events) and in public. I have saved myself from a lot of trouble b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:54 AM
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This sounds fake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:21 AM
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This is fake. If I got pregnant and I didn’t want the baby, I know what I would do. My body, my choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:20 AM
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I am happy for you. Sending more blessings your way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:52 AM
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And ladies this is why we don’t entertain house dates so we can weed out men like him. At the first suggestion of a house date she should have shut that sht down. A man suggesting a house date is showing you who he is. He is cheap stingy, and broke. He is not interested in spending time, energy, and money to woo you. He is interested in lowering your defenses and getting you to sleep with him early. Say no to house dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:37 PM
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I employ the same strategy. It has kept me single and stress free for years. Most men don’t pass the test. Which is why like you said, test on a minor illness. The last guy I dated gave me a cold, then refused to come take care of me because he did not want to catch any cooties. Deleted and blocked. And he was confused as to why the relationship ended. Oprah shrug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:55 PM
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She’s beautiful. I am loving the entire look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:12 PM
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I have never paid on a date. Never. You ask me out, you pay. In fact I leave my wallet in my car. I have a backup credit card inside my phone case just in case a man decides to play games. But I know what I bring to the table, and I am not going to sit across from a man while he gets my time, energy, and attention only for me to pay half. I had a bf who asked me to pay for dinner “since it is my birthday” despite me buying him gifts. I still didn’t pay because, “I left my wallet at home.”I never…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 07:59 PM
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If a man tells me he is an engineer I walk away. Too many many have lied. Work in construction or IT calling themselves engineers. When I ask “what school of engineering did you attend?” They fold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:34 PM
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I love this. I am going to print and frame it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:41 AM
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The poor grammar is a red flag for me. Also, dude is lacking conversational skills. Do not waste anymore time with this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:07 PM
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I love flowers. It’s part of my test when dating these men. Most men are selfish and cannot be bothered to do anything that only pleases a woman. When I am single, I buy myself flowers. If I find myself buying flowers when I am in a relationship, that relationship is long gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:01 PM
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He didn’t do anything for her birthday, Christmas, and Now Valentine. I would just walk away. This man does not give AF, at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:53 PM
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You nailed it. I dated a guy and CoMmUnIcAtEd that my love language was gifts. Fast forward Christmas time this man starts talking about, “I don’t celebrate Christmas. It is a pagan, man made holiday.” But you celebrate Halloween and all other holidays smh. I asked him, “well, what do you celebrate then?” He replied, “only my birthday.” And that is why he is still single. That is why no one shows up for his birthday. You cannot chose to receive only but fail to give. These LVM just want to take …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:30 AM
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Just a heads up, in the online dating world, plenty of fish is consider the bottom of the barrel. Plenty of fuckboys, weirdos, cheap men, and STD infected men. You would be better off paying for a site, that will help weed out at 75% of the weirdos, but you would still need to vet because the other 25% have enough money to spend on dating sites. Proceed with caution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:54 AM
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I block for my mental health. I refuse to give a scrote any more of my mental and emotional energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:22 PM
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I just messaged you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:55 PM
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Classic narcissist tactic. They over share because they have no boundaries and lack social skills. Him opening up too soon is three tests in one. 1. To see if you will be emotional dumping ground. 2. To see if you are willing to solve his problems for him. 3. A pity party. Narcissists prey on your emotions and want you to feel sorry for them. To them they think that’s love. It’s pure manipulation and a classic narcissist trait. Block him on all fronts, he will try to Hoover over you in the next …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:54 AM
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This is so true. I know what I bring to the table. My time is valuable. If a man does not ask me to be his girlfriend after 30 days, I am out. I lose interest just like that. To me it means he does not see my value and is indecisive like you stated. All my good relationships started with men asking me to be their girlfriend within the first 30 days. The worst relationships were the ones were a man took 2-3 months to ask me to be his gf. They were never really invested in the relationship and ove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:19 AM
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Yes they exist but I only date men I am attracted to. I am done with charity dating. I have worked so hard to become the person I am. Not wasting my time anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:43 PM
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I unsubscribed from all other subs. One had a person talking about their goal is to brush their teeth once a week. Once a week 😳 Another was talking about they don’t mind having condomless sex with a partner with HSV-2. Wtf. I knew then the standards were in the sewer. Another sub talks about giving socially awkward men a chance. Been there, done that. Not again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:25 PM
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It will never get better. Next he will be telling you he has a special condition in which he can only come via anal. Leave and don’t look back. Tell him he is terrible in bed. I had an encounter with a man like that, jack hammering all over the place. He was boyfriend 3 and sex was terrible. The worst I ever had. I told him he was terrible and dumped him via text. I ask these men to give me a shoulder rub or rub my feet. If the massage is mechanical, I already know the sex will be mechanical. If…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:19 AM
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Omg , having flashbacks. I had a similar encounter 5 years ago. Dude pushed for sex, and when we did the deed he was very rough and fast. I didn’t even know about jack hammering and the death grip. I ended up with vaginal tears and an infection. I told him the sex was bad. He never changed. Walk away. These men never change. He watches too much porn and you will never be good enough for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:16 PM
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These men have the audacity 😳 Universe be some self esteem and standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:57 PM
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The best one so far 😂😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:54 PM
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The faux HVM I was with, whom I told my love language was gifts on the first date got comfortable enough to tell me (once he got me where he thought I wouldn’t leave) “I don’t celebrate man made holidays” well I asked him what he celebrated then. He replied, “I only celebrate my birthday.” I told him “you do know that my love language is gifts, right?” He was silent. And that is why his selfish 2.2 inch micro peen is single at 40 and has no friends. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:51 PM
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The accuracy! Dropped faux HVM, started grad school, got into the honor society. My money is good. My investments are paying off, my skin is glowing and I am minding my own business and drinking water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:44 PM
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The accuracy! Dropped faux HVM, started grad school, got into the honor society. My money is good. My investments are paying off, my skin is glowing and I am minding my own business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:43 PM
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Farting in my presence is a dealbreaker. I had an ex who let out a loud smelly fart in front of me. He didn’t excuse himself or say sorry. Instead he justified it saying “there is more air outside than inside, why should I hold it in?” I asked him to leave my place right then and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:13 AM
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I have a google voice number reserved for situations such as these. The block list is a mile long. See how he couldn’t even handle rejection via text? Imagine if Hannah had rejected her in person?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:29 AM
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Preach! I am not walking into poverty with my eyes wide open. I will not be blindsided either, because I ruthlessly vet. Just ignored a man my friend tried to set me up because the only thing he can offer me is a lifetime of poverty and I am not interested in that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:43 PM
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If I am unsure about a guy, I feign a cold. Men are selfish. They won’t come nurse you to health so that gives me 2-3 days to clear my head. Or I go on a last minute cabin trip with friends. There is no WiFi in the middle of the woods. Bam, 3-4 days to clear your head. I am strategic by nature, so I will delete and block him on all platforms, then send a breakup text. It’s usually along the lines, “it was nice knowing you, but we are fundamentally incompatible. I am breaking up with you. This is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:59 PM
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This is why I always insist on getting a 10 panel blood test with partners. Of course they chicken out or make excuses so I dump them. Men lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 02:38 AM
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Some ugly ass pajamas from Amazon after I told him not to buy me clothes. I have enough. I have 4 sets of pajamas and clearly did not need another one. I dumped him shortly afterwards. He wasn’t a good listener and my love language is gifts. I don’t play about that. Either meet my needs or go somewhere else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:22 PM
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Sorry, not sorry. Crying in my presence is a deal breaker. That is reserved for his brothers, his family or his wife. I have dumped two narcissistically inclined men for crying. One cried on Christmas because he was all alone. And you know how narcissists cannot stand being alone. He was talking about how he wanted us to be a family and me being a step mother to his daughter. It was too soon for any of that. I know if I called a man crying he would be like WTF and dump me. So I dumped him. No re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:10 AM
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I got those messages preCovid as well. I even met one at a function , we interacted well and he asked me out on a date..date was okay, but then I realized he had messaged me on meetup before he met me. Instant loss of interest. I deleted and blocked him and never spoke with him again. It’s very low effort. No way I can take a man seriously who messages me on meetup. Meetup is a social app not a dating app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:25 AM
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100% agree. My mother passed when I was 12. That’s when we ceased being a family. I am the only girl in a family of 4 with a narcissistic father. It’s true, the woman holds the family together. For some reason growing up, I never had any inclination to be a wife or mother. I saw a lot growing up that put me off for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:47 PM
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Such a lovely ring on a pretty well manicured hand. I am learning to love myself too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:03 PM
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I have seen two in person. I seem to attract them. The men seem nice and want to take it slow, and when time comes around, you realize why they wanted to take things slow. They wanted you to be emotionally invested before unleashing that dealbreaker. First one was the size of a baby carrot, no lie. Second was the size of an adult thumb, but he was a “grower” so when he was flaccid it shrunk back into his body. It looked like a belly button when flaccid, and like a Greek god statue when erect. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:17 AM
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He has nothing to offer that woman with that micropenis of his
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:13 PM
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Good riddance. I dumped a man who would not buy me flowers because he felt I did not deserve them. Now I buy myself flowers anytime and I kicked him to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:02 PM
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I found out a guy I was dating had a micropenis 2 months in no always thought he was a nice guy for leaving the toilet seat down. Turns out he could only pee sitting down. It was the size of my thumb, and shrunk back into his body when flaccid. When he was erect he was a good 2.5 inches. I dumped him the following day. I knew he would never please me. Oh, he had the audacity to have the worst attitude ever. Like dude, you have a micro penis,can’t eat the box, you cannot afford to have any other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:59 PM
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I don’t bother arguing or negotiating safe sex. You’re either wrapping up or goodbye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:47 PM
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It took me a long time to understand and implement this. But I refuse to be used as emotional dumping ground by any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:23 PM
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