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| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?It’s not my fault you’re arguing a stance you can’t actually prove 😬 And again - why is it women’s fault if men are hitting on women “below” their league. Like, what do you actually want them to do about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Let’s see them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Not. What evidence do you have to the contrary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?I believe men hit on women they want to sleep with/date. Why is it women’s fault if males hit on women supposedly so much less attractive than them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winYes and it’s you bc you’re the one pulling stats out your ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winThe “majority” lmao go outside | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Didn’t get to the second sentence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?You literally don’t know what I look like. And what would be the point in telling you what I rank myself when your obvious response would be “AKSHULLY all females think they’re hotter than they are” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winIs there a reason you refer to women as females but men as men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Again - attraction to looks when considering a relationship is like flour in a cake. You need other components but you can’t make a cake without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 06:59 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?What’s a giga stacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Can I ask why that’s relevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Getting an ectopic pregnancy aborted is the same as the autonomy to get shitfaced and beat your wife and kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?I mean I literally don’t have the time to go through every single right men have stripped women of historically and still today. In Afghanistan today women are being forced to leave schools and quit their jobs. Reproductive rights are still being debated in the US and there a states where a woman can die from an ectopic pregnancy or be forced to carried a stillborn to term because of the laws. You’re harping on about alcohol being briefly illegal for everyone. And since when was drinking alcohol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt adds to my statement that the majority don’t, unless there’s a financial incentive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Lol men got sad they could no longer get drunk and beat their wives and kids. Talk about the trash taking itself out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?“The background to this is that much drinking went on in male-only gathering places in 1874, and working-class men too often went straight from the factory gates to the saloon on pay-days, and drank away much of the money that their families needed to survive. Much wife-beating and abusive parenting was done when husbands were drunk. Even many well-off middle-class and upper-class wives (who were not victims of spousal abuse, and whose economic situation was not threatened by their husbands' dri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah you’re still ignoring the fact the average age gap is only a couple years. Given that I’m the same age as my boyfriend I think I’ll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, doesn’t change the fact the average age gap is only 3-4 years so if you’re single in your 40s, your dating pool is women in their 40s, maybe mid-late 30s. And I’m saying this as a woman who’s 23. I have 0 interest in a guy more than 7-8 years older than me. They’re simply not attractive to me and we would have very little in common. If I was a different type of person and the older guy in question had a ton of money? Sure, maybe, but that’s not the average old guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlenty of men here seem to be trying 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?How come | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk where did this delusion come from that when you hit your 40s you’ll have a swarm of women in their 20s begging to date you? Unless you’re extremely rich and/or handsome, you’ll be in the same boat as single women in their 40s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Eh it’s just a thought experiment, it’s whatever. Probably easier to say it’s your mind in a heterosexual woman’s body | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSure - but with uglier guys who are insecure, if they start dating a girl out their league they often become neurotic and controlling, even trying to make her less attractive, encouraging her to gain weight, wear less makeup or more frumpy clothes. Or they try to wear down your self esteem so you don’t get any funny ideas about leaving. I agree with your second statement. But my issue is with the automatic assumption that if you give an ugly guy a chance he’ll treat you well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAverage to ugly men are just as capable of treating women badly and have more incentive to as well. Telling women to drop their physical standards and they’ll find a nice guy is bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:17 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Ugh put this in a billboard plssss I swear every woman I know has been scarred by the time she gave an ugly guy a chance 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 02:16 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?I’m already in a LTR and me being slim and toned puts me in the top maybe 50% I’d guess. But I work out because I want to be healthy and live a long life where I’m fully mobile. I have family members who are obese and their lives would be far less painful and restrictive if they weren’t. I also find it a great stress relief and amazing for my mental health. That’s more important to me than finding a husband. As for body count, just down to personal preference. I’ve been called “demisexual” befor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?How exactly are women depriving men of rights? Women experience a 33% loss in income post divorce compared to men’s sole 18%. Men are also much more likely to remarry after divorce and usually do so much sooner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:38 PM |
| 25 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?It’s interesting how their answers are very much influenced by simply how they wish women would date them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?No I’m saying it’s vice versa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?I’d advise you to do some research on the environmental point. And yeah, big up my ancestors but that was their choice and this is mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Depends on which country. A lot of countries people have sex selective abortions which skews the numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?That’s fine but I think there are other incentives for staying fit and being selective with who you sleep with. I’m low body count and workout a lot (I’m 5,6 and 125lbs) but not to appeal to men, it’s just how I’m wired. Isn’t this subreddit largely just men crying about women’s preferences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Cater yourself how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:22 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Men die in the wars…instigated by other men. The draft ended in the 70s so miss me with that Men commit the vast majority of violent and sexual crimes They die in jobs that they signed up for Women are on more welfare because of deadbeat dads who can’t/won’t look after their kids How do they pay more taxes ..? Idk how it works in the US but in the UK you purely pay taxes based on your income. So if they pay more taxes it’s because they make more money. Most of the dangerous/dirty jobs are being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?I’m not afraid I just simply don’t want it. I’ve also witnessed women who’ve divorced their husbands as previous SAHMs being massively screwed over financially as it’s incredibly upsetting to see. It’s not fear - just risk mitigation. And my broad assumption is based off endless stats about todays cost of living. In my country, food inflation is at 19% and inflation is at 6%. Im fortunate enough to have a good job and even I have to be wary of my money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:18 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?In 2021, the population sex ratio in the U.S. was 98 males per 100 females. By 2050, it is expected to be 99. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2022/08/31/global-population-skews-male-but-un-projects-parity-between-sexes-by-2050/ And in the UK the population is 51% female and 49% male. Not sure where you’ve seen a gender divide of 55/45 unless that’s specific to your country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?the environment is a shit show, it’s going to get bad in our lifetimes and far worse for future generations it’s far less affordable to have children than it was for our parents generation I just… don’t want to? I like kids, I’m good with them but I have no desire to solely dedicated the rest of my life to raising them. It would be cruel to bring children into the world if they’re not 100% wanted. a lot of parents are deeply unhappy, you just don’t hear about it. like I said, I used to be an au … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:12 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?If most women are single aren’t most men also single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Your exes didn’t prioritise getting into a relationship with a decent person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Being child free/not wanting to marry a bible basher doesn’t mean someone’s only other option is to be a slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:04 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Good for you (genuinely) but not everyone can or wants to opt to the suburbs or lives in your country. And again, it’s a big gamble to be financially dependent on your husband. It can either work out great or torpedo your entire life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?More and more women are opting to be child free I’d rather be a “ran through whore” than stuck in a miserable marriage with a bible basher who only sees me as an incubator 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Where’s the joy in that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Not sure how fun those types of men would be to marry lol. Five minutes of missionary in the dark doesn’t quite cut it for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:50 AM |
| 9 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?I think it depends where you live. A lot of cities have zero sense of community so you’d be very isolated with a baby unless you lived near family. Again though, most women can’t be pure homemakers even if they wanted because of how dire the economy is. I also think it’s a huge gamble to entirely financially dependent on your husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Maybe men just have an absurdly high sex drive. Sounds inconvenient to be that down bad all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:43 AM |
| 12 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?To have a family on a single income means the father is typically making very good money. I’d be bored out of my mind, I used to be an au pair and kids aren’t really great conversation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Would you not want to be with someone above average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:39 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?If that would make you happy then fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:36 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?I’m not saying women have a sex drive as high as mens, I think I made that fairly clear. I’m just questioning your rationale behind saying women have an “absurdly low” sex drive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:35 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?How would it fall apart exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:33 AM |
| 13 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Marrying in your early 20s makes you far more susceptible to getting divorced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:31 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?And I met my bf through university friends when I was 21. But I didn’t go out of my way to find someone who was guaranteed to be successful so I could hitch myself on their coattails like you’re suggesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:08 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?While women on average have a lower sex drive than men I don’t think it’s “absurdly low” for the majority of women. We’re wired to be choosier as we face the consequences of sex (pregnancy) but I’m not sure where you’ve read we’re all practically asexual. If you go on deadbedroom subreddits you’ll find many women struggling with wanting sex more than their husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:06 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?It’s like flour in a cake - you need more than just flour to make a cake but you also can’t make the cake without flour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:04 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Went over your head huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:03 AM |
| 15 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?There’s a lot of anecdotes of women who’ve “built” with men only to be thrown to the curb once they’re successful and replaced. A lot of people from top universities also come from a lot of money. I didn’t go to a Harvard equivalent but a top 10 uni in my country and I knew a lot of people who wouldn’t date someone who didn’t go to a university on the same level. If you come from money which a lot do, status is a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:02 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Yeah but if someone it’s unattractive/ugly to you, “giving them a chance” is just leading them on and it’s kinder to just politely reject them from the get go. That’s how I’d want to be treated if I took an interest in a guy that didn’t find me attractive 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Do they not..? Most people can see someone and right away know if they’re you’re type (if you have one) and whether or not you find them attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 10:02 AM |
| 17 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Ding ding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:57 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?I’m guessing he means he wouldn’t turn guys down if there wasn’t that initial attraction - which most men and women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:56 AM |
| 1 | High school and university are the best times in life to meet the opposite sexMet my bf who I now live with through university friends so yeah you maybe right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:50 AM |
| 10 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?If you were an attractive or even just average women I don’t think you’d have the time or capacity to get to know everyone single guy that takes an interest in you. Also, I think it’s logical to say that attraction is important when looking for a relationship, it just doesn’t necessarily mean having crazy standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:41 AM |
| 18 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?I respect that lol, but a lot of guys here seem to think even attractive women morph into gargoyles the day we turn 25 (maybe 30 if we’re lucky) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:25 AM |
| 11 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?Do you have an issue with women doing this very thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:25 AM |
| 12 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?So you would also participate in hypergamy? Also - Harvard/Yale students typically only end up marrying women with a similar level of education and success as them. In the UK equivalent those types tend to look down their nose at people who haven’t attended those schools. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:24 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?I rate your honesty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 09:04 AM |
| 3 | I want to know women's opinions on 2 hypothetical menIt’s simply a cultural thing. A lot of cultures it’s normal to live with your parents until you’re married. It’s more common in the west to move out for college and basically stay out. I moved out the month I turned 18, the longest I’ve lived at home since then is 2 months after graduating when I needed to save money for a flat deposit (I was WFH and paying for food shops/bills). I don’t see anything wrong with living at home at 30, it just wouldn’t be compatible with me and my life, whatever th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeIt’s so funny how they don’t understand this until they get aggressively hit on by a gay guy. Nice, now you’ve got a tiny taste of what we’ve been dealing with since before we hit puberty - not so fun is it! Also, we always hear about how most men would fuck just about anything with a pulse. So for someone to find you fuckable really isn’t complimentary in the slightest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 08:45 AM |
| 5 | High school and university are the best times in life to meet the opposite sexI wish more guys realised this. Vast majority of women would date an average or even below average looking guy who’s funny and can hold a good conversation over a hot guy who’s dull. I know guys who are tall and decent looking but so unpleasant and boring that they don’t get into relationships, or at most they’ll have a fling here or there and then the girl dips once she realises there’s nothing underneath the pretty packaging. I can’t imagine being with someone who doesn’t make me laugh or have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 08:11 AM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.Are you sure this subreddit is conducive for your well-being? You might benefit more from talking to people in your life about the suicidal thoughts. Take care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:52 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.It’s normal to crave intimacy and affection, it’s what most of us are wired to do. I’m not going to gaslight you because I can see how it would be hard in your shoes. But it’s not an indicator of your worth and nothing you need to be ashamed of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:18 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.Why exactly does it bother you so much? And no I probably wouldnt have believed him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach?I mean yeah if the attraction isn’t mutual then call it a day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:50 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.I knew a guy at uni who was upfront about being a virgin and we respected him a lot more than the guys who were clearly lying/exaggerating about their sexual past. Nobody cared he was a virgin and in a few months he got a gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:49 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.I think 3-4 times in my life a guy I didn’t sleep with claimed to other people he slept with me, and those are just the ones I’m aware of. They were guys I was either friends with (obviously not anymore) one of them I went on one very uneventful date with and one I just kissed at a bar. I know a few other women this has happened to as well. My ex claimed to have a body count of 30 when he was 20 and thought every waitress we ever had was flirting with him (not a single one was) Some guys bullshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.A fact without empirical evidence is literally just an opinion sweetheart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.You’re the definition of “source: trust me bro” 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Hey how’s it going with that source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.“We’re all slaves to our biological urges” aren’t we all wired to have children? Basically the whole premise of wanting to sleep with multiple women is to have as much genetic offspring as possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Plenty of women seem to be doing fine in relationships without your coaching lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.And the rise of people who don’t want children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Do you have a source for this fact? When you said “women should accept this and date men” like… they’re under no obligation to accept this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Again, it’s not a fact as it’s just you speaking on the behalf of all heterosexual men. And if women choose not to accept this “fact” and not date men… not much to be done about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.you say “women shouldn’t date men if they can’t accept this fact about them” but then 90% of this sub is men getting mad about women not dating them. kinda seems to be damned if you do and damned if you don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.I mean, I just don’t really believe that all men want a harem. I’d mention the men in my own life but you’d say they were lying but I’ve seen other men here they don’t care about being able to sleep with a myriad of women they just want the love of one woman. If that’s what you want that’s fine, but you don’t speak for all heterosexual men. We’re not all slaves to our biological urges otherwise gay and asexual people wouldn’t exist as well as people who have no interest in having children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Check my edit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Just that you grouped all men as hive mind and then said women shouldn’t do that very thing in the same post lol. If that’s how you feel, I can’t change that but we can agree to disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.“All men on earth would rather have a harem of women” “Stop seeing men as all together” ?? Even so, I think after time there would be resentment that your partner is only your partner because you couldn’t find anyone else. I think the beauty in monogamous relationships is the fact you choose that person because you couldn’t imagine yourself with anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 09:02 AM |
| 7 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Like I said, I’m just speaking from experience. I’m not a model but I’m not busted either. I don’t really believe in objective beauty but I work out a lot, and I get approached by guys a lot. In the past I’ve dated guys less attractive than me because we initially got on well and I figured that was more important than superficial looks. I always found eventually they’d start making digs at me to knock down my self esteem and generally just treating me badly. My bf of 3 years who I now live with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:39 AM |
| 8 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Ding ding Or they get with fuckboys because they know what they’re getting themselves into and it’s predictable. It’s like watching a movie you’ve already seen - you’re less likely to get hurt if you already know the outcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:24 AM |
| 13 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Why do you assume less attractive guys will automatically treat a woman better? My experience has been quite the opposite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceDo you have a source for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceHe was a boxer who then got kicked out of the club he boxed for 🤷🏼♀️ he also hid this from me so I didn’t know until I heard through the grapevine after we broke up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experiencePeople change. I’d assume those men weren’t slobs when they initially got married. My ex gained 10kg in 6 months and idk if it was the weight gain or he showered less but he always smelled musty to me and that put me off sleeping with him. Was I supposed to magically know what he’d be like in the future when I started dating him..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceReallllly cherry picked there didn’t you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceWhat do you think the actual number is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceSo in every hetero relationship if there’s little/no intimacy - it’s always the woman’s fault. Got it. Clearly you’ve missed the post of men who have horrible hygiene even after being coaxed to make friends with toothpaste and clean their dick properly. Or he’ll do 0 foreplay but still expect his dick sucked. Or he does nothing around the house and leaves all the house chores/child rearing to her so she’s simply too knackered to give him the ride of his life every night. And no I’m not always bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experience? I’m talking about men who deadbedroom their wives who want to have sex with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceIf you go on the dead bedroom sub you’ll see plenty of women who are also being deadbedroomed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceDead bedrooms are usually a symptom of bigger issues in a relationship/marriage, not just about attraction. After X many years when you’re older, less good looking and you have that familiarity - you’re not going to have that same honeymoon passion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youYou realise that a woman can find someone attractive but not want to jump in bed with them immediately? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?It exploits the performers: Look into ‘girls do porn’ - they lured girls in making them think it was a modelling gig and would then drug and rape the girls and film it. So much porn involves women being coerced/trafficked. It is extremely common for performers to thrown curveballs mid shoot and told to either do it or perform (eg. they didn’t want to do anal and then they’re suddenly told to do it or not get paid for the work they’ve done that day) A lot of performers are given a hard time if th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I agree. Anything can be over consumed and become detrimental if you don’t have healthy coping mechanisms in place to mitigate it. By some of these peoples logic we should all live like puritans due to some people who can’t or won’t control themselves. No alcohol, drugs, nicotine, junk food, gaming, painkillers… list goes on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?A scam implies you paid for something you didn’t get. How is that applicable here? You pay for content, you get content | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Where are you from that it’s normal for a 31 year old to date a high schooler..? I know it happens but it’s not normal or okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I think the issue is believing a girlfriend will solve all of your mental and emotional problems. Having a partner is a great addition to your life but it doesn’t protect you from ever feeling a negative emotion again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I guess my point is - not all consumption of porn is inherently negative. I guess it was a poor comparison because the best amount of smoking you can do is none, whereas I don’t think watching porn now and then has any negative impact, otherwise nearly 90% of men would be in a bad way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Given how many women in porn are being trafficked - yes. “Girls do porn” was proven to be trafficking women by making them think they were doing an innocent clothes modelling gig, and then giving them a ton of drugs and beating them until they shot enough scenes. There’s also a lot of cases where pornstars boundaries are pushed (a producer will say a scene only involved XYZ, and then demand on the spot she does something else or she doesn’t get paid) as well as a lot of producers getting shitty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?It helped me a lot actually but each to their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?What’s your issue with that statement, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Ohhh right, got you. I get these women are good at providing “the girlfriend experience” but end of the day… that’s what you’re paying for. If they’re that convincing, then they’re clearly worth the money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I’d wager a guess that they’re just on about viewing women as humans the same way we view men rather than sex objects | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?What does equal mean to you in this context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I agree that porn should be better regulated in terms of the age of those who can access it. It installs a lot of negative perceptions around sex in children from a very young age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:20 PM |
| – | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?And that’s relevant how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:19 PM |
| 6 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Also - so much of porn is free, it’s bizarre to me why you’d pay for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?That’s fair. I know I couldn’t do OF in a million years even if I could make a killing. So I don’t do it or engage with that content. I don’t condemn the people who do make it, either. I guess that’s where I’m wondering what I’m missing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I can see that. A lot of things are used to fill a void caused by loneliness - food, alcohol, drugs, nicotine, gaming… you name it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?You can blow all your money on just about anything, it doesn’t make it exploitative. That’s a choice you make for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:55 PM |
| 9 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I used to work with a girl who did OF and she told me how common it was for men to haggle over prices or even ask for freebies 🙃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:54 PM |
| 18 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Exactly - it’s a service in exchange for money. I’ve paid a therapist to hear me talk about some very personal matters but I’ve never been under the impression she genuinely cared beyond a human generally hoping another human is okay. I was paying her to help me work through some stuff, that’s what she did. It’s not her fault I went through the things that landed me in her office or that I needed professional help for a bit to sort out my head. She provided a service there’s a demand for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Yeah, exploitation/scams come in many forms for people who aren’t equipped to recognise them. Idk if a realistic solution is to simply eliminate everything that could result in someone overspending. Tbh, I wasn’t even thinking about men who spend a ton of money on sex workers. Isn’t OF like $10 a month? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:44 PM |
| 20 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Why would you think a girl you’re paying to talk to actually cares about you? Like that kind of seems like a no brainer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:38 PM |
| 9 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I definitely see how exploitative sex work is towards the workers - but a lot of men here seem to think it exploits the consumers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | “Women” are bad at marriage.People have sex out of mutual attraction - not to play some long game to secure marriage. After all, how many women have sex with men that don’t commit to them? Women also crave sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:02 AM |
| – | “Women” are bad at marriage.Yeah you talk about women getting married bc they think sex won’t be “required” of them. A. Women are constantly being told that if they don’t sleep with their husband enough he’ll find someone who will B. The word “required” implies she was doing it out of duty/wanting to keep him around beforehand, but now she’s married she’s off the hook. Which presents women as not enjoying sex with men which isn’t the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | “Women” are bad at marriage.Apologies your wife ghosted you. Can’t imagine why she’d do such a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | “Women” are bad at marriage.Once again but coherent this time please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:41 AM |
| 1 | “Women” are bad at marriage.You mean people who have the best relationships are those with no friends ..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | CMV: It’s not misogynistic or controlling for men to expect/ask the women they date or marry to not dress like they are still singleI’d hope I act differently in my 40s than I do at 21? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?A lot of guys care if you’re too tall though. I have tall friends (5’10 and up) who’ve struggled with dating. Not because they only want to date guys taller but because a lot of guys around their height want a short girl. I’m 5’5 and 1/2 and have been told I’m “too tall” for someone 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?A lot of you need to learn about the matching hypothesis. The majority of the time, people end up with someone the same level of attractiveness as them. There are outliers like with anything, but they’re exceptions to the rule. If you seriously think all these uggo women are landing handsome men clearly out their league, you clearly don’t go outside enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:34 AM |
| 2 | “Women” are bad at marriage.A fact you don’t like isn’t a lie pal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 10:48 PM |
| 4 | “Women” are bad at marriage.Stop blaming women for the high divorce rate would be a start | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 6 | “Women” are bad at marriage.You realise women enjoy sex… right? We’re not trying to squirm away from it at every possible moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?I assumed you cared about both. Again, depends on the individual. When I was single I never gave the time of day to a guy unless he showed consistent, keen interest and made it clear he wanted to pursue a relationship. If not, fair enough to him but I kept it moving. Withholding commitment and using shit tests to gauge how a woman feels about you is not conducive to a healthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?Short of mind reading there’s no way to know if someone’s with you for both fun and commitment. If you know yourself and that you’re able to give both, you just trust that your partner has the sense to recognise and appreciate those things. Withholding commitment usually results in the person finding someone else who won’t. Most wouldn’t don’t want to be strung along in order to soothe someone’s insecurities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 04:01 PM |
| 2 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?If your hard rule is that a woman can only be a virgin and even one previous partner is too many - the average age a woman loses her virginity is 17 so is that the pool you plan to be dating in? Neediness and jealousy are not good things in a relationship… I love being around my bf but we can also do things separately with our friends without one of us having a meltdown over it. Fun and commitment aren’t mutually exclusive things. I have lots of fun in my LTR - in fact, a lot more than I did wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 03:06 PM |
| 3 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?There’s a middle ground. You can be not a virgin but that doesn’t mean you’ve had an endless string of ONS with “Chads”. The average body count for women is 7. I think men here vastly overestimate how many women are having regular hookups with new men all the time. Some do, but they’re far from the majority. Teaching someone who’s never been in a relationship how it goes would involve dealing with a lot of neediness, jealousy and poor communication most people have with their first relationship.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 02:32 PM |
| 5 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?Guess it depends on the individual. Guys in my circle don’t want virgins or someone who’s never been in a relationship because they typically lack experience/maturity which isn’t ideal for a LTR. Most people’s first relationship is a bit of a disaster that they then grow and learn from. It’s effort having to teach someone how sex and relationships go. At 17/18 I was “young” and “pure” but completely not in the right headspace or maturity to have a LTR. Also, being good in bed usually comes with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Will MARRIAGE Save the WEST? @The_Crucible (Trad Con VS Divorce Lawyer)Which laws need fixing in order to be equal? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?You can be a decent person without being taken advantage of/abused … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 12:58 PM |
| 3 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?The latter person isn’t necessarily being “fake.” I know people pleasers and it usually comes from a place of poor self esteem and thinking they’ll only be valued/accepted by giving people whatever they want at their own expense. Or if they grew up in a high conflict household where they had to be the peacemaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Do women not mind past relationship baggage in man, compared to vice versa?Depends how the guy deals with it. My bf had a rough long term relationship before me he carried some baggage with (paranoia/trust issues) When it caused problems with us, I set an ultimatum that we could only continue being together if he saw a therapist to unpack the issues he had with his ex. He got a therapist, and things have been smooth sailing with us since. Had he been unwilling to get help/expected me to be his therapist, I would have ended it there and then. Something about bleeding on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?I don’t even remember the surname of the guy who took my virginity. The person who “made their mark” is my current partner who I now I live with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:04 AM |
| 3 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?Depends what you mean by “nice”. Women who are nice but are people pleasers who struggle to assert themselves and set boundaries usually end up with people who take advantage of that. You can be nice while having a backbone and not being afraid to cut off people who try to use you, but you won’t be perceived as “nice” by quite so many people. Again though, being “nice” doesn’t entitle you to sex or a relationship it’s literally just the baseline of being a pleasant, functioning human - goes for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:00 AM |
| 0 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?You’ve asked me this twice now.. I’m 5,6- slightly above average height. Are you an angry short dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Lol you really dug into that sub to find a post from nearly a year ago Not really - you never addressed my point that you’re here making absolutist statements about domestic violence when you know nothing about it. The best response you got is because you’ll never find a gf, you don’t need to know this stuff? And nope, I’m 5,6 and my bf is 5,10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?I mean, decent parents should teach that you should be good/respectful to anyone regardless of gender? It’s hilarious that men here are genuinely mad that mummy told them how handsome they are and that they would have ladies fighting over them when they grew up and it turns out they were wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?I’ve looked on the 2x sub and nowhere does it say anything about women only wanting 6ft* guys… where are you pulling this from That was such a lame rebuttal are you 15 dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Aren’t 40% of men currently in a relationship? And out of the 60% that aren’t that doesn’t mean they’ll never be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Maybe you should be more informed of the facts about domestic abuse/violence if you’re going to hold such absolutist views on it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?How is the onus majorly on the person being abused? Also you realise in instances of physical abuse, women are far more likely to be hurt/murdered after leaving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Yeah that doesn’t make anyone exempt from being abusive/nasty to their partner. The onus is on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?That’s just women you know. I believe that men can absolutely be abused and mistreated and it’s a shame how much more stigma is attached and less help/support available. The fault isn’t with the victim, it’s with the person who has decided to be shitty to their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?You gna keep that energy for men who are abused/mistreated by women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:08 PM |
| -3 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?Who’s lying to children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Yeah, they’re whingeing because they’re not happy about it meaning they see it as bad treatment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?It’s really that hard for you to believe women generally aren’t into men who view them as objects with mileage and a shelf life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Body type preferences are more diverse though. It literally depends on what the guys type is, some men love curves, some prefer a slim, toned body. That said, I think most guys vastly overestimate how big they need to be to satisfy a woman. For most women anything over 7’ is uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?I’m don’t read that sub very often so I’ll take your word for it ig. People always debate over the semantics of RP ideologies/views of women anyway Every woman I know would be grossed out by a guy insisting on knowing her body count because it’s indicative of a set of views he holds about women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Not every guy who treats women poorly is necessarily red pill. Wym with the second statement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Idk, I think there’s been a big pushback on social media for girls to be aware of red flags and generally making fun of RP guys. Idk any woman who’d ever knowingly date a RP guy or just a guy who views/treats women the way a RP one does. One time a guy I was dating asked about my body count and would nottt let up so I dumped him. I’d only slept with one other person but the fact he had such a bee in his bonnet about it told me we were not going to workout | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Oh I don’t take anything here seriously I just find it amusing to observe and chime in occasionally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Meh I have a long commute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?And thank god for that. I’ve known a couple “red pill” guys but they stopped getting inviting places because they kept freaking girls out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?I mean, it worked out for me 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Most people wait until marriage for religious/traditional reasons which is also the reason they’re less likely to divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Do you have a source for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Where did I whine about men wanting a virgin? I explicitly said you’re free to have as many preferences as you like - I’m talking about the outcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:15 AM |
| 0 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?In my experience - it’s only been super religious guys who want to wait until marriage who have a hang up about virgins. Generally, guys who aren’t virgins and are 21+ don’t really have a hangup about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Fomo/grass is greener I’m glad I slept with a couple people and dated around before my current bf. I know what sex/relationships with others is like and that what I have now is the best for me. If I didn’t have anything to compare it to, how would I know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:36 PM |
| -2 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Bringing in height is a false equivalency but there are reasons for wanting a tall guy. Being tall is also more of a masculine trait, whereas virginity isn’t. It just means you haven’t had sex, it isn’t exclusive to either gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:36 PM |
| 9 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Exactly, we are all entitled to whatever preferences we like, hypocritical or not. Just don’t be shocked when it doesn’t work out for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Because the OP is a discussion about the topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:20 PM |
| 6 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Virginity isn’t exclusive to either gender, though. It’s not an inherently masculine or feminine trait it just means you haven’t had sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:19 PM |
| 42 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?You keep defending the semantics of the word “hypocrisy” so I’ll just say this: it’s a double standard. You’re expecting something of someone you yourself do not have and virginity is something that isn’t exclusive to either gender. So it’s not the same as me wanting a guy with a big dick when I myself don’t have one before anyone pipes in with a dumb false equivalency. No preference in and of itself is “wrong” but don’t expect it to be received well in the real world. A woman who’s a virgin for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:06 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?It’s a newborn baby - it can’t really determine how worthless its life is. There are a lot more pragmatic reasons to choose the mothers life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:40 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?It’s still a false equivalency as you’re on about a scenario that will never happen to you, whereas all women who want children have to consider this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 09:22 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Yep, easy to say “well I’d rather let a baby be saved in a burning building before me!” When you know full well you’ll never be in that position. Whereas a dangerous childbirth is something most women have to consider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 09:21 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Yep you literally are. By not even thinking about them you’ve deemed them not worth living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Yeah that’s not really relevant since I assume you’re more capable than a baby at leaving a burning fire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Just saw your edit. When you say “child” what do you mean exactly, what context etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Maths wise how would you have a baby with a woman you’ve known half a year, even if she got pregnant the first night you met? In the OP I’m talking about your wife, therefore your parents in laws. Plus, your parents couldn’t grieve a grandchild that never really existed. They could be upset for you but it’s not the same as losing a child they’ve raised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceAre u ok | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/09/23 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?I’m aware it’s a hypothetical - just found it interesting. I think it’s a good question to ask your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:01 AM |
| 7 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Maybe let your partner know your stance on this before she gets pregnant/married to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:54 AM |
| 4 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?I guess I can only talk about it from mine and my bfs perspective in a utilitarian way. If I died - I’d have a lot of family and friends grieving as well as my bf. My parents would lose a daughter who they’ve known and loved for 23 years. My bf would have to move as he couldn’t afford the rent by himself so he’d be dealing with: grief, single parent of a newborn, rapidly moving home and finding somewhere else to live with half the budget. I help my parents out financially so that would also go. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:52 AM |
| 5 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?No, but if you’re a man you’ll never have to go through childbirth and the risks it poses. Therefore it’s far easier for you to announce you’d be fine dying in childbirth therefore women should be too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?You can still have a strong bond to someone who’s not your wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:25 AM |
| 4 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?That doesn’t override the woman’s life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:23 AM |
| 4 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?The child would be a newborn bc it’s in childbirth..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:23 AM |
| 5 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?I think it’s easier to say that when you’d never be in a position where it would come down to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBc it only works if you’re not already pregnant or ovulating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShhhhhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread? I didn’t say either of those things but pop off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt just prevents ovulation, it pushes back your fertile window as you can only get pregnant while ovulating. It doesn’t work if you’re currently ovulating or already pregnant however :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot the wording I’d use but technically not wrong ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEnlighten me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Women with a lot of male friends are a instant 'red flag'Unacceptable really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo men here actually understand what Plan B does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:57 PM |
| 37 | Women with a lot of male friends are a instant 'red flag'Can no longer hang out with ur mates past 11pm otherwise it’s gay spread the word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?I don’t think they’re seeking a congratulations, they’re just living their life. I was a “beginner mode” hoe, I made out with a ton of people and dated a lot but never slept with anyone I wasn’t in a relationship with. Honestly, I was just having fun and I have no regrets about it. Nobody got hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:13 AM |
| 1 | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?Most of the girls I went to school with including myself weren’t catholic. We joke that nothing puts you off religion as much as catholic school will. We were never taught about the “loopholes” or any of the weird stuff. Just that you have to wait until marriage or else god will get mad at you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:10 AM |
| – | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?You’re taking the phrase a bit literally it just means a period of time where you’re having casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:27 PM |
| 69 | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?I never had a hoe phase but I know a few who did inc girls I went to my very catholic school with that constantly beat purity culture into us. Once we left school some girls slept around a ton. I’m guessing this was some kind of reaction to being so repressed and told our value was in our so called “purity”. Other than that, some people just want to experience a variety of different kinds of sex with different people so they can get to know what they like. Or just for the thrills. I don’t think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:14 PM |
| – | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Physical abilities differences make us unequal. And we don’t require special protection from men who don’t grope/harass women. The root of the problem is men who do this. Without them, there is no need to defend ourselves or have separate train carriages for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 10:57 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI believe the testimonies were all around 20 years when he was at the peak of him fame, so no. But physical evidence isn’t always useful, it shows whether or not sex happened but not if it was non- consensual. Even bruises/injuries can be defended as just rough sex. Hence why the conviction rate is so low. Unless there are witnesses it basically comes down to he said she said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 06:25 AM |
| – | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Ok, so with your example should women just not use public transport all together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 10:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDid Danny Masterson get a fair sentence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Because atm a lot more women are harassed than men - how is that equal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the pastWhat if it’s something they tried with the other person, didn’t enjoy it, and therefore have no interest in doing again? Like, not everything is a personal attack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Yep and the equal outcome is fewer people being harassed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?A women’s only carriage on the end of a unisex train is not a private bus. You said you’ve been groped by both men and women and therefore require a private bus. That’s called a car. Or just hire your own private bus if you like, nobodys stopping you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?You’re confusing equality with equity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Most normal men don’t object to measures taken for women’s safety 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Completely false equivalency. Besides, the majority of crimes committed by black people is on other black people so apples to oranges again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?That’s because the issue of harassment of women is not equal. Not saying it never happens to men but not nearly at a comparable rate. Therefore an “equal” solution wouldn’t be beneficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I don’t think this is really an issue in Japan and is really not as common as it’s made out to be in western countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:27 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?What does the issue have to do with equality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Again with the deflecting and false equivalency. Can any of you here stick to the actual topic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 04:00 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?No, address the actual point I made instead of deflecting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:59 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Have you looked into the conviction rates for SA/rape? Even when physical evidence is given there’s a tiny chance of even an arrest happening, never mind actual consequences. Women have undergone rape kits before and been told despite evidence of sex taking place there wasn’t “enough damage” done to prove rape. you’ll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?If you’re going down the racial segregation path there’s a black guy here who’s already commented why that equivalency is bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Men’s only gyms do exist and I’m not bothered by them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Yeah you’re ignoring the fact that bodily harm and murder is still illegal even if it’s self defense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?But the whole reason women get the female only room is because it’s a public area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?You didn’t even begin to address the actual point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Typically it’s not wise to carry weapons because you could be overpowered and have those weapons used against you, as well as the legal ramifications of performing surprise bottom surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:10 PM |
| 29 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Gun ownership is much more regulated in Switzerland and requires vetting - “People who've been convicted of a crime or have an alcohol or drug addiction aren't allowed to buy guns in Switzerland. The law also states that anyone who "expresses a violent or dangerous attitude" won't be permitted to own a gun. Gun owners who want to carry their weapon for "defensive purposes" also have to prove they can properly load, unload, and shoot their weapon and must pass a test to get a license.” Switzerlan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:09 PM |
| 14 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?It’s so disturbing how common it seems to be, and almost always at teenagers/children. Sorry you went through that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Men’s feelings are more important than women’s safety ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:53 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?It’s more about preventing harassment than violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?You’re comparing a public gym where there are plenty of other gyms you can pick from versus someone’s home that they own (well as much as you “own” while renting) it’s a false equivalency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:45 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I see your point that it’s unfair that innocent men get penalised for the consequences bought about by men who harass/assault women and I sympathise. Despite the charming gentlemen calling me a man hater I have a lot of men in my life I love and know would never harm women and I’m well aware most men wouldn’t either. However, some men do. And most women have experienced it. But to blame women for things like women only spaces, women being wary around them is ridiculous. They’re not seeing the fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?They’re called cars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:27 PM |
| 30 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I’ve dated women before and have never dealt with a woman who couldn’t take no for an answer or kept pursuing me after I made it clear I wasn’t interested. I know it happens to other women/men but just anecdotally it’s only ever been men I’ve had those issues with. Also if it ever did happen to me from a woman, I’m physically much more likely to be able to defend myself. I don’t think it’s a good thing because “men bad” but statistically, women are much more likely to be harassed by men on publi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I’d just rent somewhere else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:59 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?In Japan more women die by homicide than men. So actually, it is appropriate in their case. Is it still offensive? Your tax tantrum is so ridiculous I can’t entertain it. Have fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Enjoy visits from the IRS then ig? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:49 PM |
| 21 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?funnily enough Japan has very strict gun laws and one of the lowest gun related death rate in the world lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:45 PM |
| 11 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Idk where you’re based but there’s plenty of male only gyms in my city Women aren’t getting two gyms for the price of one, the women’s only area is just an additional room with a couple machines/weights. If women aren’t comfortable working out around men, let’s say for religious reasons, why begrudge them of that? I don’t really care either way so I mainly use communal space. Take it up with the gym, not the women who use the extra room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:15 PM |
| 13 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?If you want male only spaces - most gyms already come pretty close to that, there isn’t really a need for an additional male only space. There are strictly male only gyms if that’s what you’re after, idk what’s stopping you from going there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:09 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Every gym I’ve ever been to is already like 80-90% men in the communal parts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:02 PM |
| 11 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?My gym has that for free. Why exactly does it bother you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:59 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Lol, can you accept the average man has a physical advantage when it comes to self defence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:34 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Eh I’d be fine with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:33 PM |
| 11 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?You said it was ineffective - I’m pointing out its efficacy. You’re less likely to be harassed by a man on public transport on a woman only carriage. It’s relatively straightforward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:33 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Who’s beating him up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:31 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Again with the false equivalencies 🥱 you realise these trains exist because of men harrassing women on public transport? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:26 PM |
| 52 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?They don’t seem to understand that if harassment wasn’t such a big issue on public transport - women only carriages wouldn’t exist in the first place. Get mad at the men who caused this, not the women who just want to get about without being leered at. I’ve been groped on public transport and have two friends who had guys jerk off in front of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:24 PM |
| 14 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?In the video, the only one having a hissy fit was the man. Funny you talk about “man hating feminists” while quite clearly hating women, pot kettle no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:23 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Men can still use public transport, just not those particular carriages. There’s plenty of space for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:21 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Source? Also, completely irrelevant to the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:19 PM |
| 13 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Are you saying that harassment has never happened..? God you sound ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:18 PM |
| 13 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Its purpose is to protect women from harassment by men. I assume if he’d stayed in the train any longer a member of staff would have walked him off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:16 PM |
| 17 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Protection from harassment is a privilege? They were in the train car minding their business. It was the man that barged on with his camera. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:14 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I’m asking how the word applies in this context. There’s a whole world outside of America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:14 PM |
| 19 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Do you not see the difference between public transport and a workplace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:13 PM |
| 21 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I assume it’s because women are harassed a lot more frequently on public transport, that’s why it’s for women. Supply and demand n all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Alien? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersA man would be fine doing significantly more housework/childcare than his partner who he also outearns? Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 12:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersDon’t think I have. The topic is pretty prevalent among pill discussions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Are women more lenient with weight compared to men?I’m not sure if they’re really “rejecting” them when those women wouldn’t go near them with a 10ft pole in the first place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Are women more lenient with weight compared to men?Most of the time if a girl gets a boyfriend, as long as the guy is nice her friends will be all for it. My friends have dated some absolute trogs but I’d never say a word. After all, I’m not the one who has to fuck them and if my friends are happy that’s all I care about. Guys however are much more likely to comment on who their friends date and give them shit if the girl has any vulnerabilities. Sadly, overweight women are subjected to so much cruelty and ridicule- usually by men. I wish more p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:05 AM |
| – | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersYou’re getting confused. My OP never stated that men don’t care about youth and looks. That’s obviously a big factor. All I said was: my experience growing up around wealthy/successful people and now working with them has shown me that successful men are more prone to dating similarly successful women. The pattern suggests that they do care about careers in women they commit to. A lot of men here can’t seem to look past what they find attractive and no doy there’s nothing inherently sexy about a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersThe average age gap in relationships is 2-3 years. You’re acting like women who are single at 30 wither away never destined to die alone. If I were 30 and single I’d most likely meet someone a few years older. I wouldn’t care about their salary as long as they were financially independent (I’m not paying their bills lmao), and wouldn’t bitch about me earning more of that were the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:17 AM |
| – | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersYou’re missing the point. It’s not necessarily about my partner expecting dividends from my job but as someone who cares about me, he wants to see me do well and is happy when that happens, and vice versa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:13 AM |
| 4 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careers“Moreover, wives who earn more often end up doing more of the household chores, not less. Data from the American Time Use Survey, covering the years 2003 to 2011, showed that while husbands spent an average of 20.8 hours a week on non-market work and childcare, wives spent 33.5 hours on those activities. One explanation for this, the researchers suggest, is that a wife making more money is doing more chores to assuage her husband’s unease. But serving as both the primary breadwinner and the prim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 12:25 AM |
| – | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersCareers arent supposed to be sexually gratifying for your partner wtf are you saying ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 12:21 AM |
| – | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI agree careers aren’t a replacement for being a good person, have strong values but that doesn’t mean a good career does nothing for you - that’s a stretch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:59 PM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersWhy does a man have to be 4x as successful and what does that even look like? 4x the salary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI think certain guys would strongly prefer a woman who earns a good bit less because it would give him more leverage. They figure a woman is less likely to stand up for herself in a home where he pays all the bills. She’s also less likely to walk if she can’t rent by herself 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersTrue, from what I’ve seen new money and old money behave very differently. You’d think new money would be more gracious and down to earth, but that’s not what I’ve seen. Generally, old money people care about sustaining their wealth and a part of that includes marrying someone in a similar socioeconomic class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersHow many successful men do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:31 PM |
| – | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersBest of luck with the penis enlargement endeavour :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:31 PM |
| 9 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersThe average salary in my country is around £28k, they’re making several times that, so I’d say “average Joe” is an underestimation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI have a bf, male friends, brothers and all my coworkers are men but sure 👌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:26 PM |
| 4 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersDo you have a source for the first part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI can get behind that. Educated doesn’t necessarily mean someone’s smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersDepends how you define high value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI guess I was talking about a context that’s applicable to more people. There’s only a few thousand billionaires in the entire world so it seems ridiculous to even consider them in the equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersIt’s multiple examples having grown up and now working in an environment with a lot of wealthy, successful people. I’m not debating who cares more - all I’m saying is that actual successful men desire a similarly successful woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:13 PM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersMost of my post is talking about my experiences around HVM - anecdotal yes but you can’t deny the pattern. The logic behind it checks out. How faithful those men are is a different topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 08:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI’m just going off my own experiences around a lot of successful/“high value men”. The logic behind it checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 08:09 PM |
| 6 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersIf I were single and dating and a guy dismissed my degree/job, I’d assume he was uncomfortable with a woman better educated and out earning him. Which is fine, but like, that’s his problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:59 PM |
| 5 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI don’t think they care as much as non successful men. They seem to love speaking on the behalf of successful men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersWhat’s not to like about 2 sizeable incomes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:42 PM |
| 17 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI mean, my bf brags about my job to other people 🤷🏼♀️ whenever I’ve met new coworkers of his they already know what I do/where I work as he’s told them lol. A wife who’s a doctor is more a status symbol than a wife who’s a bartender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 15 | Discussion: Are women more lenient with weight compared to men?Generally speaking we’re all wired to be attracted to healthy, fit bodies as our monkey brains see them as the best contenders for healthy offspring. In my experience, men care more. I’ve seen more couples with a slim girl and overweight man than vice versa but that’s just anecdotal. I think men would also care more about what their friends would say about them dating a fat girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:34 PM |
| 15 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersWell, my CMV specified ‘care about’. No career is sexually attractive by itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:32 PM |
| 18 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersIn LTRs/marriage you look beyond what’s attractive. Good listening and communication skills, empathy and level-headedness don’t get me hot and bothered but they’re traits I require in someone I’m in a relationship with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:25 PM |
| 13 | [Updated] *Some* lonely men can benefit greatly from seeing escorts.Might not be my place here as I’m a woman but I don’t see anything wrong with escorts/prostitutes. It makes sense. When I need a haircut, I go to my hairdresser who I pay for her time and skills. I wouldn’t wonder around trying to find someone who’ll do it the way I want for free. A bad metaphor but hope it gets my sentiment across. They’re a service, they’re good at what they do and professional. They may even be beneficial for a lot of men. I’m very much in favour of sex work being legalised a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersDo all men think the same way then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersRed pillers love to say that anytime a woman makes a sweeping statement about men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersWhat happened to not all men being a monolith? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersApart from the majority of red pillers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?For real. My mum said she was her hottest at her 30s and going off pictures I believe her. Ages 18-20, at my supposed “peak”, I was at uni so just followed trends and didn’t analyse what looked good for my features. I can now actually afford proper haircuts/dye, better quality skincare, clothes etc I was thin but didn’t weight train, I now have an ass and abs and am so much stronger and fitter. Im hotter and I have several years of improvement ahead of me - what’s not to like! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?Lmao 30 is an “old woman” to you? It’s hilarious men think we just whither away into our crypts the minute we turn 30. And before you come for me, I’m in my early 20s. I’m less anxious and risk averse now than a few years ago. I’m way more self assured, confident and open to new stuff now. If anything, I’m excited for my 30s, 40s etc where I’ll give even fewer fucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe guy is delulu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, tell that to the men who say they don’t care about a woman’s intelligence 🤷🏼♀️ I know this kid who has pretty severe autism, he regularly threw tantrums and now posts pictures of him in a furry costume and wearing dog collars. Both his parents are Oxford educated and super successful, had him in their early 30s, he had a very privileged upbringing, there was no way to foresee how he turned out. (He is now a ‘they’). You can’t guarantee how your kids will turn out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome clever kids can be neurodivergent or have other behavioural issues and very challenging to raise. If you only want kids on the conditions that they’re smart, physically able and neurotypical, don’t have them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSame can be said for children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’ve been ridiculous this entire time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you have any idea the amount of drama you’d have to deal with having 3 baby mamas versus just the one? And then dealing with the boyfriends of the BMs and if they’re a good influence on your children , the kids themselves growing up in a single parent household etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep. I enjoy my free time and expendable income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol you’re delusional. Either way you’re paying child support for 4 kids. Have fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t have kids so I’m peachy thanks :) Yeah, cos most of the time they don’t ask for custody. Also, baby mamas implied you weren’t married in the first place so idk why you bought that up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you’re referring to a sister wife situation - sure. But more babies generally just means more mouths to feed and more hours of sleep lost. If it’s a baby mama situation then you’re just having a bunch of single parent children which as we know, are at a much bigger disadvantage in life. Also, why would a baby mama have any interest in raising kids that aren’t hers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWould you not take care of your own kids ..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho is more likely to be unfaithful - the man with a huge, female dominated fan base who has been touring and working consistently the last few years. Also known for drinking on stage and having DJ sets, so he is a “partier” in the literal sense. Or the woman who had two kids back to back, and was struggling with an eating disorder badly enough she hired a live in therapist? Since she’s been married she’s only ever been seen partying with Joe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes I’m sure that happens a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe got married at 23. Had two children almost back to back a year later. Lived in the US despite talking in interviews how much she missed the UK and wanted her daughters educated there and was trying to “convince” Joe to move there. She takes her first job since having children in the UK. Next thing we know they’re divorced and his PR team are attributing it to her partying and giving Joe a standing ovation for “babysitting” his own children. With the help of a nanny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnless you’re fundamentally just a nasty person then you’re right. Normal, well adjusted people in their 30s tell me they are far more confident and self assured than they were in their 20s. I’m in my early 20s and I can’t wait to get older and stop worrying about stupid shit lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhere did I villianise him? I said he wanted what he wanted and she went along with it because she was in love and didn’t realise how it would impact her until a few years later. However, it is telling that his PR team is trying to portray her as deadbeat mum and party girl. Regardless of what went on, her daughters will read that one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell if they’re insufferable in their 30s they probably would have been insufferable in their 20s too. Age isn’t the issue, you’ve just met unpleasant people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSpend it on myself darlin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is pure speculation but I’d guess Sophie was madly in love and swept away (she used to be a Jonas Bros fan) so got married very young, even though they’d only been dating a year. He wanted her barefoot and pregnant asap and she was willing to go along with it. Then around the 7 year mark (aka 7 year itch) she realised she’d spent her entire 20s living her life for him, not herself. She’d moved away from her friends and family across the pond to be with him. I can imagine a lot of resentment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey’re expensive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow exactly? She had two children back to back, didn’t work during that time and has even said she’s much more of a homebody and introvert than Joe. Also, she’s only 27, most 27 year olds still party and have a social life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJoe’s PR team is doing the absolute most and it’s backfiring horribly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEh, I’m not harping on them exactly, they’re just an example. I’m just pointing out that a lot of men here have the fantasy of finding a woman in her early 20s and making her a tradwife, when a lot of them don’t want that. Those who do are typically quite religious/conservative, so don’t expect her to be putting out on the first date. Or date the 22 year old and don’t complain when she’s out doing molly with her friends, your pick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was a GOT fan so I’ve known about her a while. She always struck me as a really fun, charming girl who liked to party (obviously idk her in person and since GOT ended I haven’t kept up with her) I was always very surprised she got married and had children so young. She aged so much with him. Also, he’s known for drinking on stage and being a DJ so fair to say he’s no stranger to partying either. But it’s only an issue if a woman over the age of 22 is doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingTrue. My mum has given me great advice over the years and if I’d listened to her sooner I would have saved both of us a lot of headache ahaha. My parents have the kind of marriage I aspire to have, so I figure she probably knows something. But when you’re an idiot teenager you sadly don’t realise that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMaybe pick better women so you don’t have more than one baby mama. At least just wrap it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCMV: Men shouldn’t date women in their early 20s and get mad when they act like a woman in their early 20s. Imo this is a big part of why Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner split. (They were 20 and 27 when they started dating, he attributes their divorce to her partying) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:26 AM |
| 2 | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…Exactly. They’d only been dating for a year when they got engaged, I never understood the hurry but hey ho it’s not like they had to save up. I would never get married before 25 and definitely no kids before 30. I’d rather be single than a divorced mum in my late 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleHuh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleI am sceptical of women who claim they haaaate getting hit on (when it’s done with good, non intimidating intentions). Unless they have severe social anxiety and sudden interactions with strangers really put them on edge, ok fine, not going to tell anyone how they should feel. But ultimately most humans like to be told we’re nice to look at, no use being a proud martyr about it, it’s all good ahaha. I appreciate someone here actually understanding where I’m coming from instead of “yOu WoUlDnT mI… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 08:17 AM |
| 3 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleThat’s like 99% of this sub ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:17 AM |
| – | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possiblelmao okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 05:48 AM |
| 44 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleI don’t mind being hit on or asked out and I won’t deny it perks up my mood when it happens, I’m in a LTR so it’s always a no but even so. Who doesn’t love a bit of external validation? What I do hate is being intimidated by men hitting on me, being shouted at from cars, I’ve been followed, groped, had a guy stroke my hair on the bus, been insulted when I turn them down. Those guys want me to be scared of them because if they can’t get my validation, my fear of them is a consolation prize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI already have, so what’s the point in that question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep, I have two brothers who leaned on us heavily when they were going through stuff in their adult years. We all grew closer as a result and they’re doing great now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI grew up in a small town and moved to a big city for university/work and I come home every few weeks for my parents. Every time we go out we’ll bump into several people we know, when my neighbour died we helped organise the funeral, there are downsides like everyone knowing everyone’s business but still. Living in a city is nothing like this. Re your last paragraph, I’m sorry you felt you didn’t have the support of your family and partner during rough times. Not much I can say to that if that’s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 02:31 PM |
| 2 | What does "putting a woman in her place mean?"Have you actually been in a relationship with a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSure but there’s a line between that and saying that if a woman doesn’t have a wild orgasm within five minutes she’s defective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think society’s changed to become a lot more individualist and far less about community. Living in a capital city is very transient, most people have never talked to their neighbours and people move around a lot more so I think loneliness is much bigger issue than it was, but it seems to be especially apparent in men. Re what you say about sexlessness - I think that could be because a lot of men rely on their partners for their emotional well-being. Most men I know don’t talk to their friends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDon’t men struggle with loneliness and lack of long term friendships far more than women do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCongrats man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s with the recent influx of posts/comments of men saying that if a woman doesn’t enjoy sex with them, she must be the problem 😭 I pray for y’all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.Like I said, you can communicate what you want but if it’s evident that the person you’re sleeping with doesn’t actually care about your pleasure, not much to be done about that apart from deleting their number on your way out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:03 AM |
| – | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.I’ve been lucky that the guys I’ve slept with all seemed keen to show me a good time and I think because we were already in a relationship before we slept together. They already liked me, so wanted me to like them back I guess. However, I hear stories from my friends and some of y’all don’t pull your weight 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.Ok. What do you propose for her to do about a dude that isn’t interested in giving her any foreplay, doing anything she likes etc. apart from not sleeping with him again? She can tell him ofc but I’m guessing you wouldn’t much enjoy sleeping with someone who only did anything for you after you asked them, and clearly didn’t actually care if you enjoy yourself or not. Some guys are just plain selfish in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4M aged 25 or over: Would you rather date an 18 year old or a 28 year old? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I don’t have tiktok or Twitter so that probably helps. And I don’t agree with women who expect men to shoulder the entire financial burden apart from if she’s recently had children and they both agree with her being a SAHM as she’s saving him thousands in childcare costs by giving up her job and a lot of her financial independence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?No I haven’t. Also didn’t compare it to the civil rights movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Well, women have never put together a movement as widespread as the RP about how to get sex from men, insulting men for an array of reasons, claiming victimhood in a world that’s very much weighed in their favour. There’s equivalent terms for women like gold diggers and man eaters I suppose but that’s only an element of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?No. I’m saying anyone who approaches dating and relationships only wanting to extract the best outcome for themselves at the expense of the other person is selfish and ensuring they’ll likely never find lasting love. Therefore, I don’t agree with any ideology that encourages it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?RP seems to incentivise men to view relationships in a very transactional way, which imo is a great way to ensure you’ll never find lasting, happy love. But like you say, that’s their prerogative. I have no plans to stop them. More women are wising up to RP manipulation tactics and are avoiding them earlier in the game, which in turn leads to even more anger and resentment from the men who want love but go about it entirely wrong and they lack the self awareness to know why. My bf is good lookin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 03:24 PM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Because the latter form of thinking hurts the men that believe it and the women they come across | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Well, a lot of red pillers seem to interpret it differently. It goes from being about self improvement to believing all women are liars and cheats who’ll never give you the time of day unless you’re a 6ft millionaire. I don’t think the latter is productive or helpful to anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 02:54 PM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?philosophy is designed to discuss different ideologies and ways of living, purpose etc. It’s whole essence is basically that there is no objective truth, but our perception is reality and we get to determine what our perception is (if you go by Plato’s interpretation) Red Pill frames itself as being objective truth (it’s namesake alone) that’s why I don’t consider it philosophy. You could call it an ideology I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 02:47 PM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I’m not into RP, I personally wish interactions between humans came from a place of kindness and not so transactional and bitter, but I know that makes me an idealist. Thankfully I have people around me that are wired the same, so it works for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 01:57 PM |
| 7 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessThat’s where the joy of contraception comes in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:24 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I’m not speaking for others, I’m speaking for myself. My bf and I have similar histories and it works for us, we’ve both acknowledged it wouldn’t be ideal if either of us had a super wild past. It wouldn’t be a dealbreaker but it’s just ideal this way. I wouldn’t begrudge anyone for wanting the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:10 AM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I’m saying it’s a false equivalency. It’s fine to have a height preference but shaming men for their height is obviously not okay. Similarly, it’s fine to want a woman with a certain sexual history but not okay to insult women because of their sexual history. Most of the time slut shaming comes from assumptions about a woman’s history as well. You’re reaching so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:02 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I’m in a LTR so slut shaming isn’t really something I’ve experienced nor is it “my issue”. I just don’t think there’s any issue with any amount of sex as long as it’s consensual and safe. Men who spend their time slut shaming are very bitter, lonely men with evidently too much time on their hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:52 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I’m saying I have observed an increase in misogynistic and slut shaming comments from men on social media. That isn’t something that can really be denied. Some claim RP isn’t misogyny, it’s your discretion how you interpret it I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:48 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Philosophy is a bit of a reach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 07:42 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Free from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 04:46 PM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Maybe I should have been clearer - I’m not saying slut shaming has only recently come about, I’m saying it’s much more common to see it online than it was a few years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 03:04 PM |
| 3 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I guess that’s the issue with the terminology. They’re presenting their opinions as objective truth when many of them have little/no experience with sex and relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 11:18 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 10:07 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?You don’t believe that telling yourself and believing you’ll be single forever won’t have an impact on how your dating life pans out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:21 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?You don’t believe in self fulfilling prophecies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:11 AM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Cry me a river | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 06:39 AM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?It’s interesting how the metaphors you use for women are hunting animals and buying something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 06:36 AM |
| 2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Again, why do you assume male suicides have anything to do with their dating lives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 10:55 PM |
| 2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Why do you assume every girls ex was betrayed by her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 10:25 PM |
| 2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Honestly I just couldn’t be arsed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 09:06 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Yeah, sounds like their exes weren’t a great fit and they’re now much happier with their current partner. That’s kinda just life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?the video I was referencing was a girl wearing a crop top and jeans but go off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Because it was on Instagram and I could see the usernames and profiles of the commenters, all of whom were men. I can’t assume their beliefs of course, but it’s a certain kind of man who decides to insult a woman for posting a video in a crop top 🤷🏼♀️ shit like “fatherless behaviour” “y’all sexualise yourselves” etc etc OOTDs* = outfit of the day (my bad initial typo) My bf ticks off all those traits and we’ve been together a few years now. Having those traits won’t be the reason women don’t go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:20 PM |
| 3 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?That’s what I’m seeing. It’s a vicious cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:12 PM |
| 3 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I think everyone should think for themselves and not blindly follow whatever ideology finds it’s way to your FYP. You should absolutely cherry pick different ideas and form your own values. Take what you need and leave the rest. I’m an atheist, but I still appreciate some sentiments of Christianity and Judaism. Thing is, my opinions don’t contradict eachother, the issue is when “cherry picking” turns hypocritical and self contradictory. Also, please learn what gaslighting is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?What do you mean by making things harder for women to get what they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 06:01 PM |
| 3 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Why do you assume that a woman who makes you wait must have jumped into bed with another guy? My bf and I waited a while but so did my ex. He wasn’t that vexed about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:58 PM |
| 4 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I’m a feminist in that I believe in fair economic, political and social rights for both genders. In terms of third wave feminism I’m a bit more sceptical in places. I just live my life according to my own values and seems to be going well so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Re outfit videos - I’m literally on about regular girls doing “fit checks” or “OODS”. One girl was in jeans and a crop top and her comments were filled with men insulting her. It’s much easier to convince someone to dislike you than to convince someone to date you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:55 PM |
| 2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Which changes in behaviour patterns do you expect to see? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:38 PM |
| 6 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I clarified that slut shaming has been around longgg before TRP ever was 🙄 5 years ago, it was rare to see slut shaming comments on a women’s social media and now they are everywhere. A lot of “alpha” content is centred around calling women who aren’t virgins derogatory names which has also gained a ton of traction over the last couple years. If you want to miss the point and be pedantic about the etymology of TRP, be my guest. And if you’re going to be condescending, at least use the correct *y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Nobody who is intellectually capable can be tricked into committing to someone just because they held out a couple extra dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:16 PM |
| 4 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?How does this tangible proof improve your life? Like day to day, tangible improvements? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFellas is it gay if a woman enjoys having sex with you?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe’s 31, let’s say she’s been dating since 18 so for 13 years. Even if she only slept with two guys a year, that’s 26 people. She’s a model and had no shortage of options when she was single, I don’t see why it’s a bad thing she explored those options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think Logan’s got lawyers to send a cease and desist lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, Logan clearly felt it wasn’t a big deal. Especially as I doubt his past is any better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou can usually tell people who need therapy too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAll the pictures that have been released were already on public domain. She also speaks very openly about sex, she really wasn’t pretending to be some blushing virgin with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t get why they drag their opponents partners into it? Like when Jake Paul started coming for Tommy Fury’s gf and unborn baby, grim. Photoshopped DMs to make it look like she’d hit him up in the past 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel bad for Nina because she didn’t sign up for this shit, but that doesn’t take away from the fact Logan is a piece of shit and probably a sociopath. I don’t know anything about the other guy and I don’t care. I’d bet money that the engagement will get called off as Logan probably won’t be able to take the heat. Also my bf got me to try Prime once and it tastes of battery acid how tf is it popular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree there’s an increase I’m just postulating why. I think part of it is that we’re identifying mental illness where 50 years ago people would have brushed over it, or put it down to wild female hormones. I also think a lot of women with ADHD/ASD are often misdiagnosed with anxiety or depression. I’m one of them, my adhd meds have helped my anxiety far more than anxiety meds ever did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep, that’s why I don’t have tiktok or Twitter, I think they’re the worst culprits. With Instagram you have a lot more control over what content you see. I just follow my friends and few gym content pages and that’s it, so it doesn’t have a negative impact on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor the sake of the people he financially crippled, yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGuarantee he’s slept with far more people than her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIdk if it’s the culture or just more awareness around mental illness and being able to identify it, probably both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthey’re due to fight in a few weeks anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy? If they’re engaged I assume he already knew her history and was cool with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:25 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou parrot this narrative and then blame women’s lack of empathy that the suicide rate for men is so high. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPeople go to therapy to deal with those that don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4M: what would you do in Logan Pauls shoes if someone was publicly attacking your partner for her past. I wonder if they’ll still be getting married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Your S.O. sex drive is largely dependent on your physical attractivenessThis post is literally attributing sex drive with SOs attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe explicitly said she did not give consent… what part of that are you struggling with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 12:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m from a European country and have lived in others for months at a time. I am familiar with their culture. Kissing on the cheek, being very expressive is normal. Kissing on the lips is reserved for your partner, family and maybe friends. I’m tired of people who’ve never experienced the culture using it as a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 12:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLike I said, in no other workplace would it be acceptable to grab someone and kiss them on the lips. So firing him is a reasonable, fair outcome. I wouldn’t grab a coworker and kiss them and expect to still have a job after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 12:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNobody is saying it’s a horrific, awful thing that happened by an evil abusive man, drop the drama and the strawman. Somehow I can’t imagine he would kiss a male football player out of excitement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 12:30 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy do you think that’s great? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 12:10 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow do you know it left no negative effect on that woman? She’s spoken out since and said there was no consent. You can even see that he grabbed her head with both hands so she couldn’t push him off easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 12:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHopefully the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA non consensual kiss does fall under the scope of sexual assault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:27 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat doesn’t mean she can’t have an issue with a man grabbing her head and forcibly kissing her. A lot of people would take an issue with that. If a man did that at my job he’d be fired, what makes him special? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:17 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, that’s your prerogative. Doesn’t mean she has to do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:04 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m from a European country and have spent a few months in others. Kissing on the cheek is very normal, kissing on the lips forcibly without consent is not. Regardless of what they look like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:03 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:49 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe’s president of the Spanish football federation I believe, she’s part of the team that won the game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaikusbot delete | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ for everyone: What consequences do you think Rubiales should face for forcibly kissing Jenni Hermoso? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep, that’s how debating works. If it was always as simple as “here’s proof of my opinion” and “you must be correct” a lot of lawyers and politicians would be rendered useless. To reiterate, gaslighting is manipulating someone into questioning their own sanity and reasoning ability. In relationships, it’s a form of mental and emotional abuse to make someone think they’re crazy so that they won’t confront or challenge you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnless the “obvious fact” is something that can be empirically proven, it is simply an opinion that somebody is allowed to disagree with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI beg you all to actually learn the meaning of the word “gaslight” before putting it in every other sentence. That will be all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPoint being - there are ways to protect yourself without a boyfriend and whenever men claim women need them “for protection” I just find that claim funny. Especially the majority of attacks and assaults on women happen to them by men they already know and/or are in a relationship with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadValid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re responsible for protecting yourself. I used to live in a crappy flat with a guy who once stormed into my room in the middle of the night and regularly did drugs. Told the police, they didn’t care and wouldn’t investigate without a warrant. I bought a door stopper and bought a safe for my belongings. I then moved out. It’s all doable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe person responsible is the person breaking in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread😂 this was actually pretty funny, good for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread? I am a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m sorry to hear about your sister but my point stands that it is not a common occurrence. I’ve lived in multiple cities with high crime rates and not in cushy suburban areas either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou literally responded to my comment which was a CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s so funny to me. Where do they live that women are at risk of getting kidnapped every waking moment they’re outside the house lol. Besides, most of the men who say this stuff couldn’t fight their way out of a paper bag, stop acting like you’d be any help if I did get attacked with you 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat a small world you live in, anyone who hasn’t experienced exactly what you have must be lying 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen like what, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadStill not addressed my actual CMV comment, so how about you answer me first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo because I disagree with RPs perception of women or let’s be generous and say I haven’t experienced what they supposedly have - that means I don’t socialise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, what do men bring to the table? “Protection” from who? Other men lol “Financial stability” more and more women are graduating college and out earning men these days so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, it’s a weird RP rage fantasy they project as reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCMV: men who say “women bring nothing to the table” simply hate women and love men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAh I see. Well, hope she’s happier now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat context do you watch people in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThrough IVF or sleeping with a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4M: what are y’all’s hobbies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?A tiny minority of men rule the world - doesn’t mean the average Joe innately has the responsibility of teaching the truth to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Why is this your job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Most meaningful coaching doesn’t come from relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Clarify? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I didn’t really understand the whole idea around if a man has more opportunities to cheat that let’s him off the hook and therefore women should just expect that it comes with the territory. Most women have regular opportunities to cheat, but the whole point is that you have the loyalty and integrity not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?When women say “men ain’t shit” they’re typically referring to the ones who cheat, lie, or mistreat them. That’s nothing to do with their education or job status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Well, aren’t most men pushing to split the bill these days? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?In a world where more young women are getting a higher education and joining the workforce, im not sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I’m not talking about introducing a girl to one of your hobbies, but seeking out someone less experienced and naive in order to “coach” them through life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?When I talk about coaching though I mean taking advice from someone you’re not in a relationship with. An accountant is going to be able to tell me more about taxes than my bf who works in tech, but I’m not opposed to asking my bf for help if there’s code im stuck on (I’m in finance, some elements involve programming which im weaker at) and then I’ve also taught him what I know about finance. I don’t think it’s about being perfectly aligned but having that synergy where you both build on eachoth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:55 PM |
| 7 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Would you not feel validated by having a woman not ‘need’ you but choose to be with you regardless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I don’t mean people just innately knowing how to do those things but having the ability to learn how, there’s nothing wrong with asking for advice from people who are qualified/experienced to help. In an ideal world, yes you’re right, but once you realise how common financial abuse is and how devastating it can be - that’s why I wouldn’t suggest anyone ever not bothering to learn about these things and letting someone else take the reins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I don’t know of any adults/anyone out of college who doesn’t know those things? I think letting your partner be a “coach” to you and never questioning their judgement can make you very vulnerable. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?ESPECIALLY if it involves lifting something heavy 🤩 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 5 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?In what context would a woman need the leadership of her partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Most women are happy to do it for a good husband and father | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Just fyi - no woman wants to be fucked for two hours straight unless their pussy is made of concrete | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:59 PM |
| 18 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Potentially. In a less pessimistic view I think a lot of men get a kick out of feeling useful, there’s been a couple times I’ve got a guy to warm to me by pretending I need his help with something, works like a charm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?You’re confusing simply introducing something to someone like a hobby and then coaching someone through life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:00 PM |
| 7 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?That’s a kink thing, not everyone who calls their partner actually wants a parent child dynamic in their relationship or to literally sleep with a father figure. Also, it’s really not as common as you think, porn has definitely normalised that for a lot of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:56 PM |
| 12 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I guess it gives them a feeling of superiority? Like they’re smarter and more accomplished. But that’s a weird lens to view your partner through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe’s the epitome of projected self hatred | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEugh that’s almost sad enough to make me feel sorry for her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIdk what that means and I’m not sure I want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHas Pearl ever talked about her n count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | in which direction do you think your marriage or relationship will go if we went into another lockdown ?We’d be fine. He’s remote and I’m hybrid, we have a two bedroom home so we can each take our space when we need it. It would suck if gyms closed as we like working out together but we’d probably go on runs instead or something. We love being around eachother but we both enjoy our alone time too, so neither of us get butthurt if the other needs time to themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI get the feeling she ignored/teased for being tall and plain when she was younger and this is her bizarre “kill the cheerleader” fantasy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhenever her content pops up I’ll peek at the comments and they all seem to be praising her and agreeing with her even if she’s saying stuff about revoking women’s right to vote. Idk if she controls her comments but it’s alarming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s the consensus on justpearlythings from men in this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetical scenario: You have to make the first move. Namely, verbal move (or an explicitly romantic physical move). How/what would you do?I telepathically tell him to shoot his shot with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 06:13 PM |
| – | What should be the average body count for the guy to be considered attractive?People who care about that much body counts are either under the age of 22 and/or chronically online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:41 PM |
| – | What should be the average body count for the guy to be considered attractive?You posed this as a question but you seem set in challenging all the answers you’ve been given. The fact is, caring so much about body count and having a “preferred” range is something people rarely do after college unless they’re chronically online. Majority of women simply don’t care as long as you’ve been given a recent clean bill of health and you don’t have a history of mistreating the women you’ve slept with (or any woman ideally) One thing I couldn’t put up with is a guy with a fixation o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol link doesn’t work for me, what’s the tldr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCMV: men are more emotionally dependent on women in relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:30 PM |
| – | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?A lot of women start BC in their teens… I started at 15 to regulate my painful and irregular periods. Doubt I’ll be near menopause by 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Me asking a question doesn’t mean I lead the relationship. He’s not afraid to say no to me. Luckily neither of us turn every conversation into a dick swinging contest. I wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone I couldn’t have difficult conversations with in an honest and calm manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Well that’s just a matter of semantics. My partner and I agreed that if we A) decide for certain we don’t want kids or B) we have kids and don’t want more, he’ll get a vasectomy. It was a very chill conversation. I just asked what he felt about it, he gave me his answer. It would be very unusual for anyone to demand anything of the other, be it a vasectomy, tubal ligation, birth control/no birth control. The conversation should always be respectful and considerate of the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Nobody is talking about forcibly castrating you, relax. She can still ask and raise it as a potential | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Explain how it’s a human right ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?What’s your aversion to marrying a woman who’s been on contraceptives? Btw not every woman who takes contraceptives does so for birth control reasons, and a lot of women have irregular cycles which make it harder to track fertile days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?“Disable” 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Sure, but the conversation is about long term measures of birth control that don’t involve the woman, since she’s taken the brunt of birth control for however many years plus carried and birthed your children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:39 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Fertility isn’t a right… men who are born with a very low sperm count don’t somehow have less rights | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?People rarely actually get divorced for trivial reasons. It may seem trivial from the outside but underneath it are years of unhappiness and issues. But unless there is abuse or cheating, it falls under the scope of “no fault” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Are you in the same league as Al Pacino? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Literally how, if you’re not born you’re none the wiser 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Well, yeah. In a marriage I think all reproductive choices should be willingly agreed upon by both parties, im not talking about bodily autonomy here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Pull out method isn’t known to be the most reliable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Doesn’t mean they don’t have side effects. I’ve known women who’ve had painful, heavy bleeding for months after their IUD until they were able to get it removed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?An IUD still contains hormones fyi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 08:27 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?I see your point but if you were in a happy marriage, it seems strange to refuse a vasectomy on that premise alone. FYI, non hormonal IUDs are a very painful procedure that can cause heavy bleeding for months after. A friend of mine actually had to have hers removed it was causing so much pain and she was constantly faint from the bleeding. They’re by no means always an easier alternative to vasectomies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?We can put a man on the moon but can’t figure out birth control for women that doesn’t make us fat and sad 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:21 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Why wouldn’t you get a vasectomy? It’s much less invasive surgery than getting your tubes tied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Eh, I’ve heard this. I’ve tried various types of birth control, been on and off it, but it’s never impacted how I feel about my bf and my attraction to him. I’ve never heard of a woman going off her partner because she stopped birth control. Birth control makes a lot of women more volatile, so you may be more prone to fights while she’s on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:11 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?The age range for menopause is 45-55, I’ve known women who’ve had it even later. You could be ‘waiting it out’ for many years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?How come you wouldn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:01 PM |
| 19 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?I mean you’re out here trying to define cheating as well… so if a woman gets her tubes tied, do you think her husband should allow her to sleep with who she wants in return? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:49 PM |
| 20 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Cheating is cheating regardless of if you get the other woman pregnant tf 😂 with that same logic a girl can cheat on you but it’s not cheating because she takes birth control and he wore a condom, so it doesn’t matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?What if you have the vasectomy and down the line you want to leave her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:35 PM |
| 21 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?It would kinda suck for the kid for your dad to die before you even hit puberty and to have siblings who are an actual appropriate age to be your parents. It would be a lonely upbringing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Ahaha, I’ve just heard about a lot of men being strangely protective over their fertility despite not wanting any/more children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:28 PM |
| 18 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Yeah, I’m not sure how many women are trying to trick men into vasectomies just to divorce them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:26 PM |
| 13 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Why is that? Im just curious, a vasectomy is there to prevent pregnancy, it arguably has very little to do with divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:24 PM |
| 15 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?If you already have kids, why would you want more with someone else. Why even stay married if you plan on having kids with someone else down the line..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:23 PM |
| 14 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Birth control actually lowers libido a lot of the time, so your sex life would likely improve if she was off it and also not having to worry about pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:22 PM |
| 19 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Plus birth control messes with your libido a lot. I know a lot of women who had a huge dip in libido after going on birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:22 PM |
| 20 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Can’t tell if this is satire or not given this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:21 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:20 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Yeah ofc, I dont think the issue extends to bodily autonomy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:20 PM |
| 23 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Tubal ligation is a much more invasive surgery than a vasectomy. Plus, after X many years of birth control and birthing your children, some could say she was due for a break | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: If you’re not Chad, why should you be treated the same way as Chad?Yeah, plenty do. Women have needs as well and if the guys hot and up for it, why not? Even in the early dating stages, most people have sex before they start saying I love you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.As a a general rule, how about we don’t take pictures of any kids that we’re not related to/close to 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.Look at it from an outsiders view: A man ‘choosing violence’ gaslighting and attempting to humiliate a mother for asking him to delete a picture he took of her six year old daughter. You’re not winning that one. I assume OP just left the place without making a scene, and that was the correct response. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 10:23 AM |
| – | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.Clearly they prioritise their daughters safety over a few dollars from a beer 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.That they own | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 06:59 AM |
| – | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.From the sounds of it, they’d rather he just got a beer elsewhere so he’d be wasting his breath | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.I said they don’t know him well, not that he’s a stranger | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.Don’t get emotional sweetie 😘 | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 12:25 AM |
| – | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.If a woman I didn’t know well started taking pictures of my kids, I’d ask her to delete them. https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/childsexualabuseinenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2019#:~:text=The%20majority%20of%20perpetrators%20of,females%20only%20(Table%2013). The vast majority of SA to children is done by men. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 12:06 AM |
| – | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.I’m not the kids mum, chill out. Doesn’t matter how you feel about the word, not okay to talk to a six year old like that. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/23 12:01 AM |
| – | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.Have you ever been around a kid before..? That would have made the girl cry and now you’d have to explain yourself about why a girl whose mother is wary of you is now crying. Also, really disgusting to use that language around a 6 year old. Do better. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 11:56 PM |
| – | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.I don’t think you’d be the one who’d come out looking good in that scenario | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 11:54 PM |
| – | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.How were the parents supposed to know that? | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 11:53 PM |
| – | Shamed because I picked up a 6 year old girl.Think about it this way - you’d rather be wrong and look daft/paranoid to a stranger, than be wrong and have your child get hurt or worse. I’m sorry that happened to you regardless. Taking a selfie with a kid you don’t know is crossing a line for a lot of people. And yes, you’ll get judged more harshly for doing it as a man. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsYeah, I’m not gna argue with someone who can’t grasp basic science. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsMy point still stands that foster homes are massively overpopulated and to flippantly say that a child being adopted into a family is a guarantee when it isn’t. Also look into how much abuse adopted children are vulnerable to from foster home and families. And it’s not “killing kids” get a grip | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 04:33 PM |
| – | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsThat doesn’t take away from the point that a woman shouldn’t be forced to carry a child to term if she doesn’t want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 04:17 PM |
| – | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsThe number of children being adopted has decreased since previous years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing?I’m not on about occasionally leaving your socks scattered. I’m on about someone whose behaviour and character consistently demonstrates he does not care about contributing to their home or their children’s lives. My friend left her ex because she “communicated” many, many times that she was tired of having to do everything in their home and it never made a difference. He didn’t care until she broke up with him and by then it was far too late. This happens all the time and men still haven’t twig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 12:26 PM |
| – | Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing?Im not against communication, quite the opposite. But when it comes to things like pulling your weight in the home and being a father to your kid - if those things don’t come naturally to a man, his response to her “communication” will most likely be him accusing her of nagging, being demanding etc. because it’s not that he’s unable, he just doesn’t want to. I’ve never had to tell my bf to clean up after himself because he was raised properly and sees me as his partner, not his maid or his mothe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 11:41 AM |
| – | Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing?It’s not her job to parent her husband and teach him basic consideration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:57 AM |
| – | Would you use male birth control?Conveniently didn’t address any of the points I made and turned yours into a strawman 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 10:37 AM |
| – | Would you use male birth control?If they want to avoid pregnancy, then yes they do. And before you say “abstain” well whenever women do abstain, men cry about it. Men attribute women not having sex with them enough as to why they cheat/leave. So that’s not a great option either. Condoms are an option I suppose but a lot of men get difficult about having to wear one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 09:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsWell, whenever women do abstain from sex, men come here to cry about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 08:34 AM |
| – | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsYou realise that babies eventually turn into older kids? Besides, doesn’t mean women should have their reproductive rights taken away to make things “fair”. You’re also completely wrong saying women can opt out of pregnancy any time. Even in the UK the abortion cut off is 23 weeks. You can only get an abortion after that if the pregnancy is an imminent risk to the mother, or the child is a stillborn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing?Funny you say this - recently met a man who got divorced because he spent all his time working and never around his children or wife. Fyi, his wife worked full time in finance. He barely knows his children, he’s good friends with his ex wife but he’s single now. He said he wish he appreciated what he has and did more as a dad than just bring money in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 07:55 AM |
| – | Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing?Raising children and taking care of a home is a job. Would you rather your children be raised by their mother or by a random nanny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 07:51 AM |
| – | CMV: Men should support abortion restrictions. It's the only hope for "financial abortions" to become reality, and thus truly equal reproductive rightsNearly 400,000 children are in the foster care system in the US alone 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing?This was my parents situation, my mum was a SAHM of three small kids (had other jobs/freelanced once we got older) and my dad worked full time and travelled a lot too as he was in the military. My mum did the lions share of raising us and housework, but my dad paid for a nanny and a cleaner to take things off her plate and give her time off to decompress, see friends etc. When my dad did get home early enough, he’d give us baths and read to us in bed. He did his best to be a present father and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Would you use male birth control?Is there proof of feminists preventing research into male birth control? Seems very counterintuitive given that most women I know have had an awful time with a form of birth control and would love to let it be the man’s responsibility for once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 07:35 AM |
| – | Would you use male birth control?That’s what women have to do in order to have sex without pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 07:34 AM |
| 1 | How are women still denying how fucked dating is right now for men, even with abundant evidence?If you’re seeing that many, maybe the issue is t them | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/08/23 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menI don’t live in the US so I guess different sample groups lol. I don’t think I’ve ever met a couple where I’ve thought “he could do better” but a lottt vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:06 PM |
| – | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menWhere are you seeing couples where the guy is much more attractive? I’m in a capital city and only see the opposite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:00 PM |
| – | How are women still denying how fucked dating is right now for men, even with abundant evidence?Why do you think this? | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/08/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menIf OP did experience that he probably would have mentioned it, so why would I assume that? I’m not saying every guy who wants to have a pizza with his gf is conspiring to make her fat to soothe his insecurities, just that in some cases men do the same thing this imaginary woman in OP does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 06:44 PM |
| – | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menBecause I have the context when it comes to my ex. OPs situation is purely hypothetical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 06:35 PM |
| – | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menI can’t be arsed explaining my experiences to you. I know why he did what he did, you know barely a fraction of what actually went on. So why doesn’t that same energy apply when it’s a woman? Maybe the woman in OP just prefers her guy on a bulk, wants to have a pizza with him, spend more time with him instead of him going to the gym etc. doesn’t mean she’s insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 06:28 PM |
| – | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menThat is a complete false equivalency. I don’t say/do anything to deter my bf from being on a cut, his body his choice, he knows I love him the same either way. I have never made snide comments, tried to throw him off his diet/stop him working out, or try to dictate what he wears. Your arm must be tired from that massive reach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:30 PM |
| – | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive men“I just think you look better without makeup” boy shut your lying mouth 😂 Btw I was exaggerating about leaving for someone else, I met my current bf a few months later. I left my ex for a myriad of reasons but that was one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menUnless she’s objectively ugly, it’s very unlikely you’ll have a girlfriend that only you find attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menHow many mens chests have you laid on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menI guess I mean a guy who’s between 15-20% body fat than 10% or less if that helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Men do care about a women's careerNot being able to afford 50/50 doesn’t mean having no money whatsoever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:44 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot talking about those women. Those videos get blasted all over social media but the majority of gyms most girls just go in there to workout like everyone else in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh yeah some are joking and that’s fine but it’s pretty clear when they’re not kidding when they start chatting some nonsense about equality 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:27 AM |
| – | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menMen usually do this because they’re scared their gf will leave them for someone “better”. My ex did this to me for that reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menPlenty of insecure men are in relationships and jobs, almost every girl I know has dated one 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:05 AM |
| – | Men do care about a women's careerYou specified for a LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:04 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot really the same as undermining someone’s achievement because someone else with 30x more testosterone, 6’ taller and 30kg heavier can do a lot more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:04 AM |
| – | Men do care about a women's career‘Men are more concerned that she can support herself’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:52 AM |
| – | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menIt’s being held against this in this very post lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve been weight training for about 4 years, got more into benching/upper body around 2 years ago (a lot of time off in between from travelling, moving, recovering from surgery). It was only one rep with my bf spotting as I was terrified ahaha but I did it! Maybe I’m just lucky but gym guys irl are usually so sweet. I’ve had a guy who looked like he could lift a car give me a high five after I hit a deadlift PB. I agree, the trolls online probably don’t lift at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:49 AM |
| – | Women are often insecure when dating physically attractive menTbh, a lot of girls genuinely prefer a guy who has a bit of cushioning. Lying on my bfs chest when he’s on a cut legit feels like trying to cuddle a rock, I much prefer him on a bulk. I’m not insecure and trying to trick him into being fat as I’m also an avid gym goer. I don’t think this is restricted to women though. My ex was very insecure and was always trying to feed me junk food, stop me from going to the gym, say his ‘favourite’ clothes on me were large shapeless t shirts and got in a shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:43 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree. I once told a guy friend that my PB bench was 40kg, he said that’s ‘impressive for a woman’ and then backtracked worried that he’d offended me. I told him he hadn’t, I was really proud I’d done that. 40kg is a lot for me and but it isn’t for most male gym goers, and that’s fine because I’m not comparing myself to them. Men who brag about being able to outlift a woman are the epitome of 👌🏼 energy. Luckily all the men in my life are cool and don’t feel the need to compare their own PBs to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:37 AM |
| – | Men do care about a women's careerThe threshold for being able to “support yourself” is becoming increasingly higher and does require a career. Besides, when you’re saving for travels, children, a down payment for a house, do you want that pressure to be solely on you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:31 AM |
| – | Men do care about a women's careerYou’ll care when you’re moving in together and she can’t afford to go 50/50 with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:29 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy do gym girls receive so much more hate online than men? This isn’t even to do with what they wear - it will be a normal video of a girl hitting a bench PB let’s say, and somany men in the comments will be chiming in with “that’s my warmup/I could do that when I was 14”. Like… yeah no shit you can lift more than a girl who’s likely much smaller than you. It would be a bit concerning if you couldn’t. It would be like me bragging I can lift more than a 12 year old. Just seems like a very weak f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:23 AM |
| 1 | The single biggest mistake women make in online-dating is filtering by male heightDisagreeing isn’t gaslighting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 04:17 PM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Well, they still do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 04:06 PM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Take up the semantics with them, they’re the ones who claim they’re red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t think anyone would dispute that sleeping with other people is cheating no matter why she’s doing it, unless you’re not actually in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 06:47 AM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Like I’ve had to keep saying - they call themselves red pill, this is nothing to do with my own interpretation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat is cheating to you? To me, it’s simply doing anything you would have an issue with your partner doing. I think this is a pretty fair metric. I wouldn’t be ok with my bf grinding on girls in clubs so I don’t do that myself even though some people wouldn’t necessarily consider that “cheating”. Cheating can come in so many forms, emotional/physical I think this is a pretty easy way to boil it down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe US military draft ended in 1973. Men stopped being “cannon fodder” fifty years ago therefore your entire argument about men having more responsibility about voting outcomes is ridiculous. As for reproductive rights - those policies should be determined by women. If men don’t like it, they better be vigilant about wearing a condom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Perhaps men should stick around and raise the children they bought into the world then, instead of leaving them to be raised by another man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:52 PM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?“I’m getting less sex” “Women are evil and shitty people” Definitely bucking the lonely and angry stereotype | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 12:50 PM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Because they said they are RP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNope - it just reminded me of the JPT debate I heard about the other day so I was intrigued | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 11:38 AM |
| 1 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?The guys distanced themselves because of how they talked about women as it grossed them out. They’re both heavily into drugs, so it’s not that they cleaned up their act/routine and have less free time now. Re- how he acted: the guy I know better went to a concert with his ex and some friends that was a 4 hour drive away. The next morning when it was time to go home, he refused to let her in the car because of a dumb argument they had (he was on a coke comedown and in a foul mood). The guys in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m not aware of Christianity having an aversion to women being able to vote? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m referring to justpearlythings and her recent appearance on the morning show? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn lieu of recent online discourse - how many men here are actually against women having the right to vote and why? Furthermore if you did want to see a world where woman can’t vote, it’s only fair women are exempt from paying taxes if they don’t get any say in how the taxes are used, which would have a severe impact on the economy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:27 AM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Oh you’re against women having the right to vote? Also, your comment perfectly proved my point about many RP men being bitter and angry, so thank you for that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:24 AM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Um yeah people should prioritise their children… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:24 AM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?a good start would be to not refer to women like they’re a video game upgrade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:22 AM |
| 3 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?With the one guy I know better, he was in a LTR but treated her like crap so she left him and that’s when he got into RP as he was angry she left him. Years later he hasn’t left. Don’t know the other guy as well, he’s known for embellishing the truth so it’s harder to say, but he’s had a few ONS so no neither have ever been incels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 08:18 AM |
| 1 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?But what do you want to do with this understanding - get into a relationship with a specific type of woman? Well yeah, but people don’t typically go to the hospital unless there’s something wrong with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 07:49 AM |
| 1 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?They call themselves RP🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 06:56 AM |
| 6 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Which losses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 09:07 PM |
| 3 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?What do you hope to gain from TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 09:01 PM |
| 6 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Oh ok, sounds like you went down the MGTOW route then? What about those who still eventually want to find a partner despite their RP beliefs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:59 PM |
| 7 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Can you describe something tangible? Something how it changes your day to day living | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot necessarily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow on earth do you not know where it is..? Can I guess you’re american | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread“1st ex wife”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNeurotic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEven if she didn’t do anything with other guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTbh even an average woman doesn’t have a hard time getting who she wants on a dating app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s the result | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhttps://www.cnbc.com/amp/2023/04/20/more-women-are-out-earning-their-husbands-in-the-us.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBesides, all the open relationships I’ve ever seen irl the guy has initiated it and is then the one crying and throwing up because the girl is seeing a different dude every night and he’s struggling to get a message back on hinge, they’re the architects of their own misery 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn that same vein most men are supported in some form by their partners if we’re looking at non financial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4M: how would you react to your gf telling you she’s been invited to a trip to Ibiza with a group of girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost women aren’t financially supported by their partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner?Yeah that’s why I was confused by Odd_Green saying that a guy would need to make 100k to cover his own bills. In London (so bear in mind exchange rates) you can live fine on 30k. You won’t save any money and you can’t spoil yourself, but you can pay rent, bills, essentials etc, especially if you’re splitting one bed rent. My bf and I both make around $63k and get by fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner?Which city do you live in ahahaha, i live in a major city and you definitely don’t need 100k to pay bills? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Is the gender war mostly zero sum?What do you think needs to be done? I’m all for better resources for men’s mental health and encouraging more men to reach out, and for male victims of DV to get the support they deserve. Don’t get that twisted. The issue is when people put the onus on women to eradicate mens problems, saying that men are in bad shape because “hYpErGaMy”. The stigma around expressing yourself and being vulnerable comes far more from men than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:23 PM |
| 8 | Is the gender war mostly zero sum?Most women don’t want to be victims, we don’t see it as a privilege to point out injustices. I’d much rather live in a world where all women had social, economic, political and reproductive rights with nobody trying to take them away and little girls weren’t mutilated and forced to marry old men. As a western woman I know I live a very charmed life compared to them. Struggles with dating exist among both genders, the issue is when people turn it into the victim olympics. The struggles are differ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:55 PM |
| 14 | Is the gender war mostly zero sum?People who spend too much time online engaging with pill content/misogynist/misandrist content are essentially cutting of their nose to spite their face. The gender war online is largely perpetuated by grifters who just want men to resent women and buy their course on how to become an alpha and sleep with lots of women. If you look beyond the west the gender war is very much against women, eg. FGM, honour killings, child brides, Afghanistan recently forcing women to quit their jobs, women in Ira… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesI’m sure you’ll have many happy, healthy relationships with that mindset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 08:56 PM |
| – | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesIm not suggesting anyone lie about their body count, just that the only way to actually know what it is, is to ask. And if you’re going to have a weird complex about it, good luck. It’s interesting how none of the guys that come here crying about body counts don’t have any relationships or prior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesDid you miss the bit where I said it’s because I’ve only slept with people I’ve been in long term relationships with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Being bisexual and embracing redpill is very difficult once you experience what women doIt’s both. Women want to sleep with someone they find attractive and enjoy being around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 10:38 PM |
| – | Being bisexual and embracing redpill is very difficult once you experience what women doThe vast majority of women enjoy sex. Being a virgin isn’t moral or immoral, it’s a neutral thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Does having a 'hoe phase' come from a place of pain?Why do you believe this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 10:30 PM |
| – | Being bisexual and embracing redpill is very difficult once you experience what women doThe last sentence makes everything make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Being bisexual and embracing redpill is very difficult once you experience what women doPlenty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesIt’s almost like women are just as multi faceted and nuanced as men! I’m calmer now but I used to party a lot, take drugs, I have a tattoo and pierced nipples, albeit always kept a natural hair colour, and my body count is 3 because I’ve always been in monogamous long term relationships. No reason why it’s 3, I just slept with the people I wanted to sleep with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesSounds like you’re in for a great time then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:33 PM |
| 6 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesHow’s your dating life bud? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesGrim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 08:24 AM |
| 7 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesI already know what you’re going to say because every other man whinges about it - she has a lot of guy friends, travels a lot, likes to party, has promiscuous friends, worked/works at a bar or club etc. It’s funny because I fit a lot of the “signs” of a promiscuous person yet I’ve slept with less than a handful of people. What a dull, judgemental life you must live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 08:20 AM |
| 14 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesI explicitly said you’re free to prefer whatever, I just never felt the need to judge people’s sex lives where nobody’s getting hurt. And this is coming from someone in a LTR with a low body count. I don’t have a dog in the fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:06 AM |
| – | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesDo enlighten me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesIt’s wishful thinking, state sanctioned marriages are never going to be implemented in the west and rightfully so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:05 AM |
| 12 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesState sanctioned? You trying to bring back Lebensborn e.V or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:00 AM |
| – | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesPlease educate yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:56 PM |
| 19 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesVaginas are designed to push out babies - do you think they stay 10cm dilated for the rest of a woman’s life? I promise you your wee peckers don’t make a dent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:52 PM |
| 13 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesThe men here complain about starfishes but they also get upset if a girl is too good in bed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:06 PM |
| – | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesMost of those consequences can be mitigated through birth control, condoms and regular STI screening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:03 PM |
| – | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesWhich “character traits”, I’m curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:03 PM |
| 18 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesYeah, but as long as she hasn’t slept with anyone he knows, she can easily lie about it and he’ll be none the wiser 🤷🏼♀️ if she’s been safe, regularly screened for STIs and hasn’t been a cheater/homewrecker, its not that deep. That said, you’re free to prefer whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 10:58 PM |
| 63 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesLouder for those in the back pls, it’s wild that people still think this in 2023… Or that if you sleep with 20 men, your vagina is somehow “looser” than that of a woman who’s slept with 1 man but 100s of times. Those men tell on themselves for having 0 understanding of female anatomy 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 10:31 PM |
| 20 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesSome women lose their hymen as children if they play a sport and some will still have a hymen even after having sex, so let’s get that out the way. Vaginas don’t magically get looser every time a new penis comes along. The fact some men still believe this shows how poor sex education is. https://health.osu.edu/health/sexual-health/myths-and-facts-about-hymen The born again concept is ridiculous to me, but not my monkey not my circus, so I let them get on with it. Vast majority of people aren’t a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo is being an asshole to people sadly. I make an effort to be neither and luckily my bf does too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf by ‘woke’ you mean not racist, sexist or homophobic then yeah that is a requirement for someone to qualify for a relationship. Especially as I’m bisexual and my brother is gay, someone who had an issue with that would be written off instantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLike I said, we’re already untraditional. May as well cherry pick values that make us both happy. If nobody feels short changed, what’s the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCheck my edit So if I took his name, guess that means I could quit my job and have him be the sole breadwinner, like a traditional marriage entails? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, neither of us are keeping our names, so it’s even in that sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy would I stress about a hypothetical that isn’t going to happen in my relationship? Like I said, it’s his prerogative, we happen to be compatible in our values so everyone’s happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe proposed coming up with a new surname for both of us so we’ll do that as we both like the idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot really. My bf is fine with me not taking his name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe issue isn’t me not understanding what you’re trying to convey, I just don’t agree with it and think it’s a stretch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow exactly is it an embarrassment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s a false equivalency so I’m not entertaining that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m just curious about why it’s so important that she take your name, and that by not doing so she’s a bad person who isn’t “doing her part?”. You swerved this earlier but im asking directly and specifically about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNothing wrong with bucking a trend. Why does your family legacy take precedence over hers? Especially if she’s the one carrying and birthing the kids, as well as likely doing most of the child rearing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat if she’s proud of her family name and legacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCheck my edit I think it would be bizarre to propose to someone and then say “btw can you transfer me 2k for that ring please” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat compromise would you want if she wanted to keep her surname, assuming at this point you’ve already bought a ring and proposed? Get her to pay you half of the cost of the ring? Or would you just end the engagement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow is her being a taker and a user reflected in her simply not taking your surname? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | There's no point for a man to get married in a western societyHe gets a wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgreed. My bf and I have talked about picking a new surname together as we both have bleugh surnames and they’ve be awful double barrelled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue, but I guess the issue has other implications like whose surname would future children have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt wouldn’t stop you from keeping your surname? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4M: If you were engaged and found out your fiancé wasn’t going to take your name - would you call off the wedding? (No point in replying if you’re going to say “I’m never getting married anyway”) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth it for average guys to get good at bedroom maxxing?Ok well I just did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 03:09 PM |
| – | Is it worth it for average guys to get good at bedroom maxxing?Even including foreplay, an hour is long | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep, you’re making a strawman out of what’s considered bad behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCMV: Women don’t starfish when they’re actually enjoying themselves and into it. It means she’s somewhat tolerating you at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:56 AM |
| – | Is it worth it for average guys to get good at bedroom maxxing?Idk a single woman who wants to have sex for an hour straight. Most are over it by 20. If the guys hung you’re just going to get sore after that point anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 09:54 AM |
| – | Is it worth it for average guys to get good at bedroom maxxing?9 inches would just be painful and wouldn’t even be a good time for the woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCheating, being disrespectful, not pulling their weight etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs it true that guys who preach “I want peace” really mean that they want a doormat who won’t ever call them out on their bad behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Are women hypergamous because of procreation or do they procreate due to hypergamy?Meh I don’t think there’s any shame in stating that you want to be with someone of a certain economic status. It’s not a guarantee you’ll find that person but let people have their preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 04:41 PM |
| – | Are women hypergamous because of procreation or do they procreate due to hypergamy?Shorter answer: people like nice things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Are women hypergamous because of procreation or do they procreate due to hypergamy?As someone who fits the criteria: the answer is I don’t want to deal with a guy who’s super insecure. My bf and I are both in good careers and don’t want children. I wouldn’t care about a guy earning less than me, but let’s be real going into a relationship with someone if I’m earning 3x what they do is going to be tricky. I just don’t want that hassle, and I like being with someone who understands the stress/pressure of being in a demanding career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 04:33 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?Wym the wrong exercises developing the wrong muscles ..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:13 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?Which is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:12 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?Idk, I’ve seen a lot of relationships end after 5/6 years if the guy hasn’t proposed and doesn’t want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:43 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?Married men typically have longer life expectancies and income | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:40 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?I think the purpose of marriage is to build a life with someone you’re in love with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:28 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?Revenge for what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:26 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?What’s a ‘Stacey’ to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:21 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?How come you wouldn’t get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythThat’s an assumption though, I’ve known guys who are very good looking, tall etc who don’t sleep around or have been with the same girlfriend since school/university | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: This Medium Article from a middle-aged female author asking 'Where are all the good men' perfectly explains men's dating complaintsHow do you enjoy being constantly bitter and miserable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythI literally am one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 11:55 AM |
| 1 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythI think it’s fine to want a low n woman as long as you have the same values and apply them to yourself. I have a low n and would only want someone with the same values as me around sex. Totally fine if they don’t, they’re just not a good fit for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 09:46 AM |
| – | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythWell that’s the thing, being a dog who’ll sleep with anything with a pulse just because he can isn’t attractive to most women. It’s the same as a woman who sleeps with anyone just because she can. Also not that attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 09:22 AM |
| – | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythWomen don’t sleep with guys because of their body count, I’ve never known someone to ask before sleeping with a guy (or after cos who cares) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to track data in your relationship?It’s wrong because whatever you plan to do with the data, this is the definition of keeping score. Which is the fastest way to make a relationship miserable and cause resentment. I don’t believe you’d go to these lengths to capture data “just because”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 08:42 AM |
| – | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythWomen don’t like high n count guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 08:38 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t listen to it but why? Seems harmless unless she’s a mega stan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre there genres of music that would be a red flag for girls to be into? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have ADHD too, I take medication for it which helps me manage it a lot. Also used to be medicated for anxiety/depression. Look up “locus of control”. People with an external locus of control are more susceptible to depression because they feel their life is out of their hands. Once you identify the ways you can improve your life, things start looking up. There’s always something you can do. Coming from someone who’s been diagnosed with mental illnesses and still managed to get on a good path 👌… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCouldn’t you have those same benefits by getting a better job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow would tax cuts actually prevent suicide rates in single men, please walk me through your through process | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou see this in reverse all the time on PPD… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGuys who think 18 year olds are the most attractive, if it were legal/acceptable to date younger, would you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy can’t the Chads just provide for their children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 09:14 AM |
| – | A guy spending a lot of money is a red flag.Where are you actually finding all these blue haired unemployed women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah that’s fine if there becomes an obvious imbalance in the relationship but I’m on about little things. In an ideal relationship you’re always going above and beyond for your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell that’s my question. Girls ostensibly have far more opportunities to cheat, whereas men typically have to create those opportunities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think marriages only thrive when you work together as a team instead of nickel and diming eachother. It would be fair if someone said “I make more but I don’t like housework so I’ll pay for a cleaner”. But if you’re constantly keeping score of who did the dishes last, who earns what, it’s going to be an unhappy time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you believe that men are only as faithful as their options? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 11:27 AM |
| 1 | I genuinely think dating for women is dangerous... but dont understand why women risk sleeping with men, why?My bf is very anti porn and so I’ve never had those kinds of experiences. It’s mainly guys who are addicted to porn that have that mindset toward sex and it’s a real issue. But to answer “why women risk sleeping with men” you can mitigate the risk by getting to know them first. It’s not always a guarantee but it helps. I didn’t know my bfs stance on porn when I first slept with him as we’d never talked about it, but I knew him well enough to know he cared about me and was a kind person, so sex w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Asking your partner not to dress provocately in a serious relationship is not toxic.Well yeah, my bf wears what he wants and I don’t think twice about it. He’s got a great body and he’s proud of it, why shouldn’t he show off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.What kind of boyfriend is he? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?I think a lot of women don’t realise how detrimental it is to your self esteem and mental health to constantly have a guy around for validation. It sounds nice but it makes you needy and fragile. I like the metaphor of a cold blooded animal depending on its environment for its survival versus a warm blooded animal who can regulate its own temperature, always needing external validation makes you a cold blooded animal. Messy metaphor Ik but I’m sure you get the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:52 PM |
| – | You can choose who you're attracted toOh no I agree with you, OP is ridiculous and a major c word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?For long term relationships/marriage, a sensible guy is going to look beyond simply beauty and youth. A 21 year old Instagram model who smashes Coke every weekend is not someone you see being the future mother of your kids. Also, when you commit to someone you do so with the knowledge they won’t look this way forever, there are other traits that go into building a life together. Honestly, some women can be fully single but it requires effort as it’s too easy to get bored and start responding to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:33 PM |
| 2 | You can choose who you're attracted toApparently with a little insight and willpower, you can | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:10 PM |
| 7 | You can choose who you're attracted toAh this must be why conversion therapy was such a roaring success! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?You’re focusing more on standards around looks when she’s more talking about standards around values and being treated. Women haven’t magically only started finding the top men attractive, we’re just becoming less tolerant of poor behaviour. However, the catch is that a lot of women forgive crappy behaviour if the guy is super attractive. Same way a lot of guys will endure a woman being a nightmare if she’s good looking. That’s not really a gendered thing so much as pretty privilege. I know girl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What are “boundaries” to you?Imo it wasn’t abusive, but he did give an ultimatum and he went about it badly, as well was shaming her for her job when he knew what she did from the start. But social media likes to blow everything into extremes, there has to be a victim and a villain when all it really was were two neurotic people who weren’t right for eachother and eventually broke up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | What are “boundaries” to you?Depends what you want from life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | What are “boundaries” to you?Not all women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 07:01 AM |
| 1 | What are “boundaries” to you?I wouldn’t be naive enough to date a guy who smoked weed everyday and then 6 months later be surprised he had 0 ambition… this is what early stages of getting to know someone are for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 07:01 AM |
| 1 | What are “boundaries” to you?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 06:49 AM |
| – | CMV: The next logical step for our gynocentric society is to say that a man asking his girlfriend/wife to not fuck other men while in a relationship will be considered "controlling"That’s what the early stages are for. If you don’t want to date a girl that parties, you can gauge that pretty quickly and then filter them out. Also seeing how someone reacts to certain stuff. And yeah, having honest conversations about what you’re both okay with. Strong, healthy relationships are work and require maturity and communication. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:58 PM |
| – | CMV: The next logical step for our gynocentric society is to say that a man asking his girlfriend/wife to not fuck other men while in a relationship will be considered "controlling"I mean without specifying what kind of boundaries you’re on about I can’t really comment. Is the boundary “I’d rather your mother didn’t show up to our home unannounced” or “you have to share your location with me at all times and you can’t see your friends anymore” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:51 PM |
| – | CMV: The next logical step for our gynocentric society is to say that a man asking his girlfriend/wife to not fuck other men while in a relationship will be considered "controlling"Communicating boundaries and then leaving if your SO doesn’t agree with them/respect them is different to demanding that they follow the boundaries which are really just demands for radical changes in their behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:48 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?The only person it has to be acceptable to is your partner. Why do you think it’s reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:32 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?Eh, it’s more about why you have an issue with male friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:15 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?From what I remember of the texts, she tried to compromise with him to keep him happy by deleting some pictures and he kept moving the goal posts, responding with “it’s a good start, but you don’t seem to get it and it’s not my job to teach you” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:58 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?He berated her for her modelling job, making shitty comments about her lack of fulfilment in life because of it. I wouldn’t say abusive, but definitely asshole behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:31 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?How exactly was he sold a lie? He slid into her DMs into a bikini pic of her surfing, and then wanted her to take down all pictures of her in a bikini | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:25 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?In the case of cheating, I wouldn’t consider it “controlling” because if you love and care about someone, you yourself wouldn’t want to cheat Actually hilarious this is being downvoted 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:19 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?The ambiguity lies in what boundaries are deemed reasonable or not, which is why the Jonah Hill situation blew up online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:17 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?I don’t think anyone’s saying it’s abuse to break up with someone, other than that I agree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:02 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?Isolating a person from their friends is considered a form of controlling behaviour according to CPS, which is what he was trying to do. He said she couldn’t see her male friends, or even her female friends that he didn’t like. He also berated her for her lifestyle and the fact she’s a model, despite knowing very well the whole time what her job is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | What are “boundaries” to you?Agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:43 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?It’s hard to respond without specifying what these boundaries are but generally yeah, I agree. I just think some people misuse the word boundary as an to be controlling through therapy speak. I have the same issue with people who think “gaslight” means having a different opinion to you and arguing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:40 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?Ah I didn’t hear about that. But ngl, it’s not like mothers with newborns are lacking stress in their lives ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:37 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?I’ve been with my guy 3 years and he hasn’t yelled at me once but I see your point, people do change. He knows my stance on it and that if he did switch up, I’d leave. The points you make about wanting a hot girl, rich guy etc mainly come down to naivety/lack of experience rather than being a bad person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:24 PM |
| – | CMV: The next logical step for our gynocentric society is to say that a man asking his girlfriend/wife to not fuck other men while in a relationship will be considered "controlling"Boundaries aren’t constraints you put on other peoples actions aka “you can’t wear that, you can’t go there”. It’s parameters you implement for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd “old” to you is 25 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 06:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean yeah the future is bleak but that isn’t because women are succeeding in their careers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe specified “these women” aka models in their early 20s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCan you elaborate on this? No better how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t get to have male spacesOof you’re really upset about this pool night huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 10:42 AM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesIn your case your issue is having friends that don’t set boundaries with their girlfriends. I have 0 interest in crashing my boyfriends guys night and he has no interest in intruding my time with my friends unless we’re all hanging out with our mutual friends. Tell your friends to grow a backbone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:56 AM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacessorry, can’t entertain someone who’s being emotional and talking from their feelings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 09:58 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesThere are endless groups and sport teams you can join that are mainly men. If you seriously can’t tolerate having any women around you unless it’s in a romantic/sexual context, the problem is you. Well adjusted happy people with decent social lives have friends who are men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 09:44 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesThey’re not understanding that if there was an actual demand for male only spaces, there would be a demand. They’re talking about men getting together to talk about their issues, do their hobbies etc… yeah that’s what friends are for. Their issue isn’t lack of male spaces, it’s lack of friendships that they’re trying to blame us for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 09:34 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesIf there was an actual demand for male only spaces, there would be more of them. If you just want to hang out with guys, go hang out with your guy friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:50 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesdo some research and come up with a better rebuttal than “it’s probably an exaggeration” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:46 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesYou realise you can just go hang out with your pals and not invite any women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:45 PM |
| 9 | Men don’t get to have male spacesMy gym has a female only section, I use it bc I find women in the gym are a lot more considerate. They don’t monopolise 10 dumbbells, spend 45 minutes on one machine and they actually wipe down the machines after they’re done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:42 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spaceswe can’t even have bathrooms to ourselves anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipWhat needs clarifying for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:56 PM |
| – | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Again - would you be willing to share/explore stuff she likes to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 08:23 PM |
| – | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Why is it important she have the same hobbies/interests as you? Would you also be willing to share/explore stuff she likes to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Who is more likely to be the hornier person in a monogamous relationship where sex is great?Women typically have a “responsive” sex drive versus men’s “spontaneous” sex drive. So while men typically have the higher sex drive, if the sex is good, consistent and the guy knows what she “responds” to, it can be pretty equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfI’m not doubting your ability to judge people, sounds like you have down to a science. Bizarre that you know your mother was promiscuous or that you bring it up like it adds anything to the conversation. I’m just making the point that abusive/manipulative men require more than 30 minutes to gauge, so it’s stupid to say that’s all women need to find out if he’s worth pursuing. If she’s an asshole, then she’s not worth your time, that’s a moot point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfWe’re talking about providing in the context of dating and SMV. So it does mean providing for women Again with the snide comments 😂 I’m in a happy LTR, I don’t struggle with being able to assess someone’s judge of character. But it’s very naive to think you can actually get to know someone’s true colours in 30 minutes or less. Abusive/manipulative people are typically very charming and know how to work people. It takes a lot more than that to figure out their true intentions and values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfNope, in a LTR with someone wonderful. Sorry I struck a nerve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfAccording to RP theories - a man’s value comes from his ability to provide so 🤷🏼♀️ Genuine question and not trying to be snarky, how much dating experience do you actually have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:08 PM |
| – | Women shouldn't have to pay halfThat statement tells me you have little/no experience in dating and relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:53 PM |
| – | Women shouldn't have to pay halfSo instead of ageing should all women just die at 30 then ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that.I guess with OLD, but like I said if a guy isn’t into slim girls then he’s clearly not the one for you, so there’s nothing be wary about. There’s also more factors to attraction that just body types. I’ve read somewhere that when men want to date/start a relationship they prioritise a woman’s face, but for a hookup/ONS it’s more about the body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that.If a guy is truly into you, you won’t be competing with anyone :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Are woman generally more needy than men?It’s kind of a how long is a piece of string question but your answer is spot on. Women tend to have a wider support network for their emotional needs, so they’re less likely to funnel them all onto their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:45 PM |
| – | Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that.Why are you wary? Both thick and slim women can be gorgeous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:41 PM |
| – | Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that.This is interesting - im a smaller woman who works out a lot and I don’t think thick girls ever cut into my options. Guys who are into thick girls will be into them regardless of whatever the trends are. Recently the pendulum has swung the other way and being super skinny is back in style, but it hasn’t changed anything. A guy who isn’t into your body type was never an ‘option’ for you in the first place. I think being smaller is an advantage in dating personally, it also means you’re more likel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipI actually agree that typically it’s the other way round (women wanting more than sex, guy being ambiguous) I was mentioning my own experience. I had a very emotionally unavailable patch a few years ago 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 09:32 AM |
| – | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipFuckboys generally refer to men who make a woman think that a relationship is just around the corner so he can have sex with her, and then never commits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Questions regarding the male gazeLookings fine, I probably won’t even notice so idc, and you can approach someone without leering at them first More than a few seconds I’d say, it’s also the intensity/expressions of the staring which makes it creepy or not I don’t care how attractive the guy is, I’m just as uncomfortable either way Doesn’t make a difference either way now that I’m an adult, but when I was under 18 it was significantly creepier when older men did it. Even now I look young for my age and people always assume I’m … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Questions regarding the male gazeIf a man’s going to catcall me he’ll do it regardless of if im in a short dress or covered head to toe, so I wear what the fuck I want. What helps me is having a “resting bitch face”. If a guy stares at me, I’ll stare back and 9/10 times they drop their eyes. Im always polite but I’ll make it very clear I don’t want to chat and if they get arsey, I ignore them until they feel awkward and eventually leave me alone. Ofc you have to be careful if you run across one of the really nasty ones, but thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 10:07 AM |
| – | Questions regarding the male gazeThe other day this guy walked past me, fully mouth breathing staring at my tits (I was in a t shirt) he kept doing this even as he got right past me so I eventually snapped “can I help you?” And he immediately stared at the pavement and scuttled off. He lives near my street so I see him around, it wasn’t the first time he’d leered at me either, when I last saw him he gave me a wide berth 😂 it’s funny how pathetic these men get the second you show a tiny bit of resistance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Questions regarding the male gazeNobody has said that the majority of men leer at young girls. We’re saying that the majority of young girls have experienced unwanted and inappropriate attention from older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Questions regarding the male gazeIt’s still creepy when it happens even when you’re an adult. I see attractive people all the time, I don’t leer at them, it’s not that difficult. Those men do it with the intention to make you uncomfortable and get you to notice them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Questions regarding the male gazeGotta love it when a man with 0 knowledge or experience on the matter chimes in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:52 AM |
| 1 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI’d be perfectly comfortable saying it to your face but if saying that gives you a boost, I won’t ruin your bliss. Are you fr, men have 30 times more testosterone than women it’s far easier to put on muscle 😂 plus the average mans BMR is far higher, meaning you can eat a lot more before putting on fat. You need to do some market research on feminine products and cosmetics and look into the “pink tax” before implying that the men and women put the same financial investment towards their appearanc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menIf she doesn’t find you that appealing, the sex isn’t going to be that “wild and crazy” but whatever you need to tell yourself! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menYeah, doesn’t mean she’s going to get attached to the guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:49 PM |
| – | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menWell, if women “fuck up” and men “fuck down”, maybe she only slept with you because of lack of other options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:15 PM |
| – | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menThis seems like a reach, but okay ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 02:13 PM |
| – | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menSurely that also applies to men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 02:03 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Speak for yourself, I don’t lose myself in a relationship and neither do many women I know. How sad to wrap your entire life and energy around your partner to the point that you improving yourself means you’re about to leave him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 01:05 PM |
| – | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menIs it false that men would rather sleep with someone they find attractive, and a pretty girl will have more options than a gross one..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:56 PM |
| – | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menDon’t promiscuous women generally have to be attractive too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:32 AM |
| – | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipI hate the terminology ‘Chad’ but I don’t think this is true. I wouldn’t want a relationship with a guy that’s slept with half the town just because he could. Being in a LTR with someone doesn’t mean they’ll be good in a relationship or won’t mistreat you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:30 AM |
| 34 | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipI was about to say - I’ve experienced guys struggling to keep things casual and getting hurt/confused when I don’t want to make things serious. I always very clearly communicated this and never led anyone on, I assume they thought I was bluffing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:28 AM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?I’m just making the point that no woman in her right mind is going to self improve under the delusion it will make a guy commit 🙄 if a guy doesn’t want her, that isn’t going to change by losing a few pounds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:28 AM |
| 1 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:11 AM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Eh, if a guy doesn’t want to commit to you, I don’t think getting highlights and starting Pilates will change that. In my case, I just started because I genuinely love weight lifting and still do it years later. I know this will get met with bad responses but I genuinely did it for myself. Not my ex, current bf or any suitors in between | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:08 AM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?True, genetics plays a big factor and a lot more work goes into looking “toned” than they realise. The other day they put up pictures of “curvy” women - one of them was Kylie Jenner who’s had her boobs done and a ton of lipo 😂 like sure she’s curvy but that’s not what the typical curvy woman resembles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:40 AM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 10:43 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?The objective truth is different to how you see it as you’re twisting it to fit your red pill narrative when it doesn’t. I never cared that my ex wasn’t in great shape, and that didn’t change when I got fitter. Again, I didn’t start training because he was an ass. Those are two separate facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:32 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?You’re convoluting different things. I didn’t get fit with the intention to “level up”. I just found a new hobby I enjoyed. I dumped my ex for reasons that had nothing to do with either of our appearances. He was abusive emotionally and physically. He called me 300x a day from a withheld phone number after I ended it and would follow me home from my job - to give you a sense of what he was like. I was then single for a while as I needed to get my head straight, and then I met my current bf. When… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:12 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?My bf is a gym rat who’s ripped so not really something I have to imagine. It doesn’t bother me, and I definitely enjoy the results | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Sad perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 07:44 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?I think everyone should be in pursuit of improving yourselves, whether it’s career, health, appearance etc. If your partner is doing well and “glowing up” I think a well adjusted secure person is proud of them and sees it as motivation. But you should never think that you’re in “competition” with your partner. FYI my other friends giving me actual correct advice were women. We initially went weight training together but he made it a miserable time by being condescending and plain annoying. I’m f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 07:36 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Tbh that’s why I love weight training, you can build curves but also tighten up your torso and everywhere else. Weight and BMI become a bit redundant once you have a good bit of muscle though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:27 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Lol why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:12 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?I love how informed you feel about a relationship you have 0 knowledge of. I dropped him bc he was unhinged, not because I started a hobby 😂 Been with my current bf for 3 years, met during lockdown when I hadn’t worked out in ages and got a bit bleugh. I’m now 20lbs lighter and in much better shape and I have no plan to leave him, and he’s happy seeing me much more confident and secure in my skin and we work out together, it’s great 👌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:08 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Oh I’m not in this situation, my current bf and I have been together for 3 years now and all good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Dw, those ones found the post eventually 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Love chub is very real, but if you’re both health minded you can mitigate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Could be like 140 to 120lbs, both normal weights for a 5,5 woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:49 PM |
| 4 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?You can be in a couple with separate goals and hobbies, having some independence is a good thing in relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:47 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?The risks of self improvement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:44 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Great response Also I think if you knew more about my ex you’d understand it was definitely malice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:36 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?So you’d end the relationship even with 0 signs she was looking for someone better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Oh rest assured he was actually tapped in the head and was giving terrible advice. I had a friend in powerlifting that helped me start out with form who was horrified at the advice he’d been giving. Also, he really wasn’t in great shape so not sure why I ever took advice from him in the first place. Yeah that seems like a normal response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Understandably, it’s already hard enough to lose weight 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:53 PM |
| 4 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Even when she’s been “thicker” she’s always been very slim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:51 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Ofc, the vast majority of men who are normal are impartial either way to your weight as long as you’re happy and healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?How much is that exactly? A lot of guys just like thicker women, it might not be anything I’m on about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Does marriage benefit women?It’s absolutely about control. That’s why there’s so much rhetoric trying to put down women with an education and careers and blaming the failing economy on us joining the workforce. Essentially, women have upped their game in the last 50 years because we now have the freedom to. Men haven’t. They love to quote articles about women out earning men as a reason for more divorce but fail to read this articles where they say it’s because while the roles have shifted financially, they haven’t shifted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 07:51 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow do you go about vetting exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPretty narrow parameter then aye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s an interesting take, never thought of it like that before Although I think that’s a generalisation. I know girls from troubled backgrounds with low body counts and girls with two great parents with much higher ones. There are some girls who can divorce emotions from sex but it is less common than it is for men. I don’t think that changes the parameters of what a “high” body count for either gender is however. Sex is sex ultimately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s actually considered a “high” body count for men and women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:49 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs this an ad for tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:48 PM |
| 11 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guySexual attraction doesn’t mean wanting to jump your bones then and there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:46 PM |
| 13 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guyIt also depends where you are. If you’re somewhere public, a lot of people aren’t going to want to be tongue snogging with a bunch of onlookers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:44 PM |
| 13 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guyWe were 21 Why are you so adamantly against the possibility that some women just don’t like tongue kissing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:38 PM |
| 19 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guySome people, myself included, just don’t like tongue kissing. Also, girls get anxious about these things too. My first kiss with my bf was an awkward peck because we were both too nervous to properly go for it (and we were in public during the daytime) Some of y’all need to chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Does marriage benefit women?I wasn’t directly addressing you. I maintain my point that if someone doesn’t want to marry, make it clear, don’t propose and then get resentful because “sOcIeTaL pReSsUrE”. Come on now, get a grip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Does marriage benefit women?Grow a spine and don’t propose if you don’t want to. If you and your gf want different things, it’s a big incompatibility and she’s not the person for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Does marriage benefit women?Personal accountability is a wonderful thing. Grow a spine and don’t get pressured into proposing if you don’t want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Does marriage benefit women?I’m around happily married couples. I tend not to interrogate them on their sex lives and chore division though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:27 PM |
| – | Does marriage benefit women?He said doing enough to make her happy. I assume that would include contributing to the house and being good in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Does marriage benefit women?Then why do men propose? Nobody’s forcing him to. If she’s pushing for a ring and he doesn’t want to do it, he should end the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Does marriage benefit women?Men are typically the ones proposing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Does marriage benefit women?A good marriage is great, a bad marriage is shit. This is a ‘how long is a piece of string’ question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:20 PM |
| 15 | Does marriage benefit women?I mean, the idea is to join lives with the person you love but these days marriage isn’t really essential for that if you already live together. When you marry someone, presumably you enjoy living with them and you have good sex with that person so that’s a benefit. You don’t have to marry (and shouldn’t marry) a man that doesn’t pull his weight in the house or the bedroom. It’s that straightforward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:18 PM |
| – | Does marriage benefit women?How did you come to that conclusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Which asshole behaviors and traits are actually widely considered attractive?I don’t want a doormat, I want a guy that treats me with the same kindness and respect I treat him with. Teasing is fine when it’s done with good humour and not actual belittling. You can be honest and call someone out without being an asshole. People who preach about “brutal honesty” are far more focused on the “brutal” than the “honesty”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 03:35 PM |
| – | Which asshole behaviors and traits are actually widely considered attractive?Any girl with a semi-decent self esteem would drop a guy like this like a hot stone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Which asshole behaviors and traits are actually widely considered attractive?You can be confident, brave and brash without being an asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Is a cuckold secure in his masculinity?It’s a fetish/kink, I don’t think it has much to do with masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Which asshole behaviors and traits are actually widely considered attractive?None. The one time I dated an asshole the reason I stayed (aside from being young and not knowing my self worth) was that after a period of him being an asshole he’d then play boyfriend of the year. Super loving, buying gifts, showering me with compliments. One time he yelled at me on the way to a date and once we got there, he then ordered the most expensive wine, announced dinner was on him and to order whatever I wanted. I just ordered a starter as I was still too upset to eat and he ended up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Because if a man is used to his mum picking up after him well into his 20s, that’s very likely going to have an impact on his values | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Clearly no idea what equality means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Let's swap the sexes in the debate over going out to nightclubs/bars alone if you're taken.I go clubbing to drink with my friends and scream pop songs in their face and then inhale a kebab on the walk home | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Let's swap the sexes in the debate over going out to nightclubs/bars alone if you're taken.Yeah it’s obviously a hypothetical hyperbole since it’s not even legal to be in public topless as a woman and no woman in her right mind would go to a bar alone, much less if she had a bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Let's swap the sexes in the debate over going out to nightclubs/bars alone if you're taken.Yeah it’s obviously a hypothetical hyperbole since it’s not even legal to be in public topless as a woman and no woman in her right mind would go to a bar alone, much less if she had a bf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:42 PM |
| 3 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingDon’t date then if it bothers you that much It’s like if I were complaining about how women typically spend a lot more time getting ready for a date than men. Makeup and all the other products involved aren’t cheap. I’m not about to ask a guy to go halves on my mascara. If the disparity bothered me that much I just wouldn’t date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:02 PM |
| 3 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingMen spending money while dating doesn’t mean he’s dating gold diggers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI’m anti-guns but where I live I can’t even carry pepper spray which is some bs, a manual weapon like a knife a man could probably use against me and it’s illegal to carry anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 06:03 PM |
| 3 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThat doesn’t answer my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingNot through lack of trying 🙃 Tren cycle incoming any day now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Let's swap the sexes in the debate over going out to nightclubs/bars alone if you're taken.Idk any woman that goes to a bar/club alone, and especially not topless as it’s illegal but okay. My bf is very attractive, he’s a gym rat and he has girls hitting on him. If I couldnt handle that, I’d date an ugly guy. He goes out to bars/clubs with his friends now and the, it doesn’t bother me and vice versa. I go out a bit more than he does, I’ll show him my outfit, he’ll hype me up, I go and have a great night and have never given him a reason to be suspicious, so he isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingIt’s not a ‘small portion of human behaviour’ when every woman I know has been sexually assaulted, groped or abused. This isn’t to say that all men do this and I’m so sick of having to clarify that to avoid offending anyone. But women are typically cautious due to their own experience they’ve already had. Not because of the media or whatever else you’re claiming is the reason. 98% of sexual assaults are perpetrated by men - https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/arti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?not all men!!! don’t paint us all with the same brush it’s so unfair!! but yeah anyway ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS FYI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?If he likes her, what’s the issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?No, but it does tell me he’s never experienced living as an adult and cleaning up after himself, and maintaining a good standard of cleanliness at home by himself. I’ve met too many guys in their 20s who don’t know how to do their laundry or cook because mummy always did it for them. And they rarely plan on learning once they move in with a girlfriend. Someone asked me how I’d hedge the risk of being with someone who’d expect his partner to be his maid while also splitting bills 50/50, that’s pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:37 PM |
| 3 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI deleted tiktok years ago so I guess im behind on this. I’m all for SAHMs because I believe in women doing what they want, and if that’s what they want, more power to them. Its a risky move financially, but not my monkey not my circus. A “pick me” is a girl that puts down other girls in order to appeal to men. Eg. a girl that brags about having a low body count and calls other girls sluts. That‘a very different to a girl that simply supports men or talks about their issues. However, I do see th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 11:22 AM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThere’s nothing to be gained by painting all men with the same brush. Apart from a handful of crazies on social media, women don’t think that all men are bad or criminals. I have a wonderful bf, great dad and brothers, guy friends. I get on with men irl great and trust plenty of them. But if I’m walking home alone at night and I see a man walking toward me, I’ll cross the road or call someone. If that offends him, that’s too bad. My bf is a big guy and has girls doing this to him all the time, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:21 AM |
| 8 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI’ve never seen a woman attack another woman for saying positive about a man so I guess we’re at an impasse on that. Men love to call other men “beta” and “simp” for showing a woman basic decency and god forbid, treating your partner like she’s someone you love. It’s also a complete strawman away from my actual point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:03 AM |
| 13 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingBeing assaulted or abused and being stiffed for money you willingly gave someone are very different things. But here’s the thing - most women don’t have an issue with you saying that. I know perfectly well I’m not a gold digger, so I take no offence to you saying that. But why do men get so offended when women talk about their own negative experiences and fears? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 09:15 AM |
| 0 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI guess a better analogy is poison, something that could actually hurt or kill you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:57 AM |
| 0 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingNo, you should be cautious entering any relationship for any signs of toxic/abusive behaviour, that’s fine. Misogyny is more “well her body count is 3x what she claims, she’s lying about XYZ and if we ever marry she’ll take half of what I have”. I’m 5,5 + 120lbs, if a guy wants to hurt me I can’t do much to prevent it. Both my bf and I had abusive exes and he even says while the stigma was harder for him (which I agree with), he was able to hold down her arms and restrain her when she did get ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:54 AM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingFair enough, I understand now. I think porn is especially dangerous for young/inexperienced men who then think that’s what sex should look like. My family friend works at a school where a 15 year old was raped by a classmate, when they talked to him he said he thought it was ‘normal for girls to cry’ during sex 😶I didn’t even know there was porn showcasing crying girls, that’s fucking disturbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:48 AM |
| 31 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThank you for doing something about your coworker. A lot of people would have stuck their head in the sand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:47 PM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThe statistics on domestic violence and sexual assault are what make women perceive men as dangerous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:37 PM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingCan you elaborate on this? I’m a het woman but don’t think I’ve ever thought this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:36 PM |
| 4 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingIf someone gave you a box of chocolates and told you a couple of them were shit, how keen would you be to dig in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:36 PM |
| 7 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThe issue can be addressed by men not harming women anymore? I make zero apologies for being cautious and keeping myself safe. I’d rather be “rude” than be polite and get hurt. It’s only ever chronically online men that have an issue with this, every man I know irl understands this and doesn’t mind. And no, it’s not an exaggeration. I’ve been followed home by 3 men from my old job at a bar, had to go into a hotel waiting room and call my boyfriend to get me and walk me home as they were stood ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?It’s certainly not you the way you’re getting so heated over this, sweetheart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?In the early dating phases you can get a feel for what a guys values are. For example I’d never date a guy that has never lived away from home, even university doesn’t really count as almost everyone lives like animals in their accommodation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Food from the shops to cook a meal for someone isn’t free, and shows more care and consideration than simply paying for a meal someone else prepared and bought to you. If you’re going to nickel and dime over every last coin, just don’t date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:58 PM |
| – | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Why are you so angry assuming that this hypothetical woman would wriggle her way out of paying for dates or would only pay for coffee dates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?My mistake, I assumed college was for getting a degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?If he’s asked her out on a date, she’s already made a good impression | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Not what she said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?If it’s a first date it’s really not their business what the other person is up to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:53 PM |
| 7 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?No woman has ever fucked a man because he split the bill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:47 PM |
| – | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?She probably just hasn’t met who she wants to marry yet, doesn’t make her less of a girly-girl who wants to be a traditional wife one day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Don’t date those kind of women then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Correlation doesn’t always mean causation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:49 PM |
| – | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?If he makes more money, what’s the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?If he pays after she offers to split, that’s on him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’s25 is when studies show that your brain is fully matured. Not that you’re smarter after 25 or that you magically stop developing after that. I thought that was common knowledge and didn’t need clarifying, my bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 03:30 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sDidn’t say that once you’re 25 you’re fully developed and you magically reach peak intelligence. I’ve known people in their 50s with less maturity and self awareness than someone in their early 20s. You’re being pedantic for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 03:19 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sI think most people will agree people who are 25+ are typically a lot more grounded and mature than people 18-22. There’s also a lot of research that backs it, not just “some guy who said it” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis was deleted from ask men so I’ll try here lol QFM: Are there any gifts you’d really like to receive from a gf? My bf is taking an exam next week he’s been stressed over for months and I want to get him a lil gift as a congrats but stumped on what to get him. He’s 23, a gym rat but already has everything he needs for the gym and every supplement under the sun. He’s also a big tech nerd so I’d like to get him something related to that. He makes more than I do so usually I treat him by cooking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:42 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sNeither of us want children, but thanks for the concern! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:40 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sA 30 year old is only 3 years older than 27, that’s hardly a big deal. Especially as they’re both over 25 so both their brains are fully formed. Imo age gaps aren’t a big deal until one is feasibly old enough to be the parent of the other then it’s like ehhhh, but at the same time not my monkey not my circus idc either way if everyone’s happy and being treated well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Once I’m in an actual relationship with someone it’s different. I’ve picked up the bill for my bf before and I buy him treats or if I see something I think he’ll like. If it’s a tight month, I’ll cook him his favourite meals, I’m good with a sewing machine and I’ve fixed/altered many things for him. Generosity isn’t just about money. But if someone who makes plenty of money insists on nickel and diming you on a first date over £5, you can safely assume he’s probably not generous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:13 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sWym it’s not worth talking about? I’m 23 and if I were single I could see myself dating a 30 year old max, mid thirties would be too old for me. My bf is the same age as me though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?If he wants a family and a model where she’d be maintaining the home and doing the bulk of the childcare, that’s his role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair play, happy gains | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:02 PM |
| 0 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?I like that you explicitly ignored the part where I said I don’t have an issue splitting the bill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTren sounds scary, hope you’re okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAka how do you get your dick up for someone you don’t find attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadhow do you get in the mood with a girl you don’t find attractive? I feel like if I tried to sleep with someone I wasn’t attracted to I’d be dryer than the Sahara | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaha never heard that word before. My guy friend has said he’s cautious of girls that don’t have any body pics on their profile and it’s just selfies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRatings are subjective so it’s fine. That’s fair, I was thinking some guys would sleep with what they see as a 2-3/10 just for the sake of breaking the dry spell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s a “you’ll do” in your eyes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Yeah I was the same when I dated. If I liked the guy and things were going well I’d let him pay and assume at some point I’d cover him. If I didn’t, I’d really push to split so we could share the L. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI see that, and ofc casual sex doesn’t always mean no attraction, but I’ve heard some guys irl say they’ll sleep with a girl they don’t find attractive just… because she’s there? I’ve never understood that. Being ‘Demisexual’ I can’t even sleep with someone I don’t have a connection with so it’s wild to sleep with someone you have no connection with + no attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:30 PM |
| -2 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?My friend was on a date at a bar, she’s 24, he’s in his 30s working at a big 4 consultancy. She doesn’t drink, so she had a couple lemonades (like £2 each) while he got alcoholic drinks. The bill came and he insisted on divvying up the bill, his portion was a lot more but the fact he was obsessing over the receipt like “okay so I’ll pay X, you pay Y, but split the service charge” really put her off. She dropped him after that as she didn’t want to deal with someone so cheap he couldn’t shell out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs it really true that men sleep with women they don’t find attractive just for the sake of it? I can’t really get my head around sleeping with someone you find attractive because that’s sort of the whole point, isn’t it? Like what do you get out of it otherwise? Makes me glad I never engaged in casual sex/ONS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:22 PM |
| 1 | doesn't the jonah hill situation and his delusional "expectations" give validity to the redpill argment to avoid promiscuous womenSure does buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 09:04 AM |
| 1 | doesn't the jonah hill situation and his delusional "expectations" give validity to the redpill argment to avoid promiscuous womenWhat kind of analogy is that lol, normal people don’t treat sex like currency you realise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:48 AM |
| 1 | doesn't the jonah hill situation and his delusional "expectations" give validity to the redpill argment to avoid promiscuous womenEnd result of sex is the still fit both genders regardless of how much “RiZz” was required to get there. What’s your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever had a close, heterosexual male platonic friend before ? If so, how was it ?Yeah, we’ve been friends since the start of uni (I’m 23 now) as we met through climbing, he’s great - never made a move on me or anything. We don’t talk a ton as we’re busy and live in different cities but when we do meet up it’s always a great time. I had another male friend I was very close to, we actually lived together with another friend but it ended in disaster. He expressed having feelings several months before, I didn’t feel the same and so gave him some space for a bit, at this point we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 07:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women need to follow the example that you can wait longer now to settle than ever as to avoid failed relationships with men they don’t loveCan you elaborate on “gym and exercise being a bigger part of our lives than ever” when the statistics on obesity are at their highest and social media is filled with movements that are anti weight loss and exercise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 07:42 PM |
| 7 | doesn't the jonah hill situation and his delusional "expectations" give validity to the redpill argment to avoid promiscuous womenYou need a job or some kind of hobby man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 12:55 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?It’s very naive to assume that every woman in a STEM conveniently has a man in her life that has more knowledge of her career than she does and managed to pass the interviews and testing for the jobs on her behalf. And again, confidentiality thing. I’m in finance and even if my bf knew anything about it, I can’t let him near my work as it would be a confidentiality violation and I’d lose my job. I imagine it’s the same in a lot of careers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 11:11 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?I’ve not known anyone who relied on their bfs to do their jobs, for confidentiality reasons especially. But also that you wouldn’t get into those jobs unless you’d proven you were competent at the skills already? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:54 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Can you clarify “keeping herself up”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:42 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Eh, if they’re real, then a biological women. I don’t really agree with most gender politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:58 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Can you explain the edit ahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:38 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Why wouldn’t you want an overall higher income for the family? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 03:45 PM |
| – | What are mens opinions on gym girls?They forget that a ton men who don’t fit that insane standard do perfectly fine in dating because shocker, they have other qualities going for them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:46 PM |
| 5 | Woman get's the ick because she was treated like a friend. A common issue in male/female relationships?This isn’t even friend treatment though. I’m a woman and I would have let the uber take my friend to her house so she wouldn’t have to walk home alone late, it’s basic human decency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:45 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Both are true, I was just thinking more white collar, higher earning jobs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:32 PM |
| – | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Talk about projection, men here judge men under 6ft, 6 figures etc far more than women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:31 PM |
| 1 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldYeah I agree with that, that’s why I’m very comfortable in the gym now. It’s what I tell the women that feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 12:34 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?I think that’s inevitable from time to time with almost anyone that works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:52 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?I mean, my bf literally couldn’t afford the rent on his own and we both have good jobs so I think it would matter to him if I just stopped working or switched to a much lower paid job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:19 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?But a lot of men also don’t want a woman who’d expect him to pay more than 50% toward the relationship, especially in this economy, so I think men care more than they let on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:08 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Sorry I didn’t list every male dominated role there is? Although white collar is more applicable to the question when you factor in the financial aspect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:52 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Oh right, and yes great point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:44 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?How would she compromise your career? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:42 AM |
| 0 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldThat’s partly because gyms, especially the weight section are super intimidating for women. I only started going a few years ago because my ex went with me, before then I’d just go on the treadmill and skrrt straight back home. Now I’ve been doing it for ages and it doesn’t bother me when I’m the only woman in the weight section of my gym, which I often am. But yeah I know a lot of women that don’t go because they’d feel judged/intimidated by the guys there which is a shame because I’ve always h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere’s literally posts going around saying that if women were eradicated, society would be fine apart from reproduction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itOkay, so if you filter out both, who exactly does that leave you with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Jonah hills situation shows the hypocrisy of society, 'communication' only matters when it benefits one partBecause you said his boundaries were to prevent him from being cheated on/in an open relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:57 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Can’t really simplify it much more, try using a little logic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Revealing clothing isn’t exclusive to gym girls. Honestly, majority of girls I see in super provocative clothes aren’t in the best shape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:23 PM |
| – | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Well that’s what not the topic is. Revealing clothing is hardly exclusive to gym girls. Don’t get emotional sweetie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Well we’re talking about gym girls so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:18 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Isn’t being in good shape and taking care of your health a high value trait? If not, then date a fat girl ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:03 PM |
| -1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Wym “all your bits showing”. I agree the shorts that have your ass literally hanging out are unnecessary, but most girls wear leggings/sports bra and all the ‘bits’ are covered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:03 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?What makes you say that? They’re literally maintaining themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:00 PM |
| 7 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?There seems to be a lot of disagreement on where the line is between knowing you’re hot and acting like an entitled asshole. Obviously plenty of entitled assholes exists and I’m not advocating for those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?I wouldn’t care. I go to the gym to workout, not assess what other people are wearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 07:02 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?My point is it’s likely to be a similar scenario for whichever poor girl you set your sights on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 06:12 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Female only gyms are more expensive and way further away that mixed gyms. My gym is a 10 minute walk, the nearest female only gym would take nearly an hour to get to and costs four times my current gym membership, no exaggeration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:24 PM |
| 11 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?What’s that got to do with going to the gym? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:21 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?It’s not necessarily about being in great shape but having compatible lifestyles imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:45 PM |
| 14 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Exactly, which make up a tiny percentage of actual “gym girls”. I go 4-5 times a week and never post about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:44 PM |
| 3 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?In my experience, most gym girls would be more drawn to someone who’s also active/gym rat. And no it’s not an ego thing, I’m in one of those relationships and the gym takes up 8-10 hours of both our weeks and we watch what we eat. This makes us pretty unpleasant to date for those who aren’t about that life, it’s just a compatibility matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:43 PM |
| 8 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Ill continue to wear my t shirt and shorts or a sports bra and leggings and you can continue to cry about it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 03:14 PM |
| -1 | Lauren Sanchez proves that having strong , amoral girl-game is more effective at getting a HVM than being demure and submissiveOk so basic emotional intelligence and things every competent adult has. I have all of those things as well, I don’t pat myself on the back over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 03:03 PM |
| 4 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Who came up with that definition? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 03:01 PM |
| 7 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?This ^ If you want a girl who doesn’t know she’s hot, just date a girl that’s ugly. But most of those don’t want to do that either so 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:58 PM |
| 4 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Lol what? I’m a ‘gym girl’ and don’t look down on non millionaires under 6’2, neither does any other gym girl I know. We just here trying to get yoked can you chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:56 PM |
| 8 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?She’s literally just going to the gym to work out, weight training is especially important for women maintaining their bone density | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Y’all shoot eachother instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:52 PM |
| 5 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Lmao what do you want them to wear to the gym then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:51 PM |
| – | What are mens opinions on gym girls?They’re both talking about their experiences at the gym, both are valid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:18 PM |
| 7 | Jonah hills situation shows the hypocrisy of society, 'communication' only matters when it benefits one partHer job is a surfing instructor and one of his “boundaries” was that she couldn’t surf with men. How is that cheating or trying to corner him into an open relationship? It’s a sport and her job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Lauren Sanchez proves that having strong , amoral girl-game is more effective at getting a HVM than being demure and submissiveWhat would you bring to the table for a wholesome, solid girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:03 PM |
| – | What are mens opinions on gym girls?And vice versa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itIf you’ll only accept a girl who’ll sleep with you on the first date, don’t get upset when you find out you’re not the only one My bf even now says he’d glad we waited a bit before sleeping together the first time (2/3 months) as we knew eachother well by that point so we had that trust and connection which you don’t get by sleeping with someone you hardly know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow many people here don’t plan on having children? There seems to be more backlash for women who don’t want children than there is for men who don’t want children. I think whatever your choice is is great for you, nobody should feel shamed for that choice but I don’t get why the shaming is mainly reserved for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 12:00 AM |
| -1 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionRight so those 14 women weren’t attacked because you say so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionhttps://www.mic.com/articles/135394/14-women-were-brutally-attacked-for-rejecting-men-why-arent-we-talking-about-it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionhttps://www.mic.com/articles/135394/14-women-were-brutally-attacked-for-rejecting-men-why-arent-we-talking-about-it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionhttps://amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2022/aug/23/man-murdered-teenager-wales-lily-sullivan-lewis-haines https://www.madamasr.com/en/2022/09/05/news/society/another-young-woman-murdered-after-rejecting-perpetrators-romantic-advances/ https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna55413 https://www.mic.com/articles/135394/14-women-were-brutally-attacked-for-rejecting-men-why-arent-we-talking-about-it Like the saying goes “men are scared women will laugh at them, women are scared men will kill them” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itYou’re convoluting waiting to have sex with being entitled. It shows boundaries and self respect, which is only a bad thing for those who benefit from people have none. Why is it a bad thing for me to value myself and expect a man to respect and value me as well? Again, women don’t really care how man interpret their decision not to sleep with them. It’s fine to say “I don’t want to date XYZ” the issue is when you spew vitriol about whatever it is you don’t want to date. Plenty of men argue why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityMen are far more concerned about women’s sex lives than vice versa. So that’s fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 09:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry.You can get around this issue by simply not hiring a prostitute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs there an overlap of men who have an issue with women having a body count over 10 and also having an issue if a woman doesn’t sleep with him within the first two weeks of dating? Strikes me as quite naive to think that a woman should never engage in casual sex, unless it’s with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWhy do you care why she’s waiting to have sex? You don’t really get a say in when or why a woman sleeps with someone. Every rational personal agrees you’re free to walk for whatever reason you like. Its interesting bc the same guys who complain women don’t sleep with him are often the same who’ll rip apart any woman with a body count over 5. Pick a battle, because “she can’t sleep with anyone else or have a history of casual sex but has to be willing to sleep with me straightaway or I walk!!” Gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itI do agree actually, but I think most women would rather figure that out by not having sex with him than by having sex with him. In my case I always waited because I need to be comfortable around someone, I didn’t really buy into the game, but when guys got weird and pushy about it I’d cut them off then and there. I’d explain once why I like to wait and if they didn’t like it they were free to walk, but not free to push me on the matter. I’m in a LTR now so clearly did something right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:45 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo idea ahaha, not really something you can get away with lying about long term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsYou seem sad You should control your emotions a little better, not very RP alpha male of you babe ☀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsI’m not his ex lol chill You’re so averse to the idea men can do any wrong you’re defending someone who is openly talking about how shitty he was to his ex. And you wonder why women don’t like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsWe love victim blaming ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLet’s say 2x on average at least? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:01 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsHe literally admitted to acting like he was superior to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:51 PM |
| -1 | Casual sex is easy for men not because of standards, but because men are sexually stimulated purely by looks, and for women its a complex mix of thingsNobody’s denying that women care about looks, but most men here will agree that looks are a far bigger factor for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:49 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOut of interest what percentage of men vs women go to the gym? Someone’s claimed that only 2% of men go to the gym but I can’t really find reputable stats on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Is the Nice Guy misunderstood or am I projecting?Vast majority of self proclaimed nice guys aren’t all that nice. The actual nice men I know never refer to themselves as one, they just act like one. The ‘nice guy’ trope refers to men who think that acting like a normal, decent human makes them entitled to sex, and then they get nasty when they don’t get it. Actually being nice doesn’t have an ulterior motive. Sounds like you just had bad luck with women, it wasn’t because you were nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:44 PM |
| 10 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWhy would I sleep with someone who’s given no indication he cares about anything other than sleeping with me? Sorry for having self respect ig. Btw you’re well within your right to ditch someone for not sleeping with you, like others said the main objective of women who wait is to weed out men who only want sex. You’re doing her a favour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?Where did I say it wasn’t? I’m just making the point about why imprisoning mothers for not getting jobs is ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?If there are young children and she’s a single mother it could be difficult for her to have a job. Also, if she’s been out of the job market for over a decade it’s going to be much harder for her to simply land a job and therefore extremely unfair and cruel to have jail time as a consequence of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 10:52 PM |
| 9 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsSounds like she had some self esteem issues, possibly exacerbated by dating someone who acted superior to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:43 PM |
| -1 | Men shouldn't show their emotions to womenHow convenient you know more about me and my life than I do myself! You realise “truth” is different to “agreeing with everything I say” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:41 PM |
| -1 | Men shouldn't show their emotions to womenIt depends what you mean exactly by showing emotion. My ex’s way of “expressing himself” was by shouting, throwing things, crying and threatening to unalive himself because of me. Anger is very much an emotion and I don’t understand why it’s not recognised as such. And then said I was a typical woman not accepting that men have emotions when I ended it. My current bf has cried in front of me multiple times and it didn’t make me feel any differently because I’m not a sociopath, if anything it mad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:11 PM |
| -5 | Men shouldn't show their emotions to womenIt depends what you mean exactly by showing emotion. My ex’s way of “expressing himself” was by shouting at me, throwing things and punching walls and crying and threatening to unalive himself because of me. Anger is very much an emotion and I don’t understand why it’s not recognised as such. And then said I was a typical woman not accepting that men have emotions. My current bf has cried in front of me multiple times and it didn’t make me feel any differently because I’m not a sociopath, if any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsFor the last time, equal doesn’t mean the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Self Improvment Mega Thread WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICHow is hypergamy present in standard/typical modern relationships outside of income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:23 AM |
| 8 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsHow comes she’s an ex then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:22 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow many ppl have you slept with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlenty of people seem to manage it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat is “promiscuous” exactly to you? Regardless of how many people you’ve slept with it’s gross to mention it in front of your current partner, poor taste on her part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:03 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho on earth will volunteer to do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSame ^ when I was single I really disliked guys insisting on paying for dates and then expecting me to go home with them after like £20 worth of drinks is some kind of entry fee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRegardless of expectations - I’m just saying the average man and woman are compatible. Whether or not they choose to go for eachother is a separate kettle of fish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSad to live that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSounds like they’re compatible with average men, what’s the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow do you mean you’re generally judgemental of women’s sexual history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:56 PM |
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