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| – | Q4M: how would you go about dating if you were a women?What’s a giga stacy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:30 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.Are you sure this subreddit is conducive for your well-being? You might benefit more from talking to people in your life about the suicidal thoughts. Take care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:52 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.It’s normal to crave intimacy and affection, it’s what most of us are wired to do. I’m not going to gaslight you because I can see how it would be hard in your shoes. But it’s not an indicator of your worth and nothing you need to be ashamed of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:18 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.Why exactly does it bother you so much? And no I probably wouldnt have believed him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:04 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.I knew a guy at uni who was upfront about being a virgin and we respected him a lot more than the guys who were clearly lying/exaggerating about their sexual past. Nobody cared he was a virgin and in a few months he got a gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:49 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.I think 3-4 times in my life a guy I didn’t sleep with claimed to other people he slept with me, and those are just the ones I’m aware of. They were guys I was either friends with (obviously not anymore) one of them I went on one very uneventful date with and one I just kissed at a bar. I know a few other women this has happened to as well. My ex claimed to have a body count of 30 when he was 20 and thought every waitress we ever had was flirting with him (not a single one was) Some guys bullshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youYou realise that a woman can find someone attractive but not want to jump in bed with them immediately? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?It exploits the performers: Look into ‘girls do porn’ - they lured girls in making them think it was a modelling gig and would then drug and rape the girls and film it. So much porn involves women being coerced/trafficked. It is extremely common for performers to thrown curveballs mid shoot and told to either do it or perform (eg. they didn’t want to do anal and then they’re suddenly told to do it or not get paid for the work they’ve done that day) A lot of performers are given a hard time if th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I agree. Anything can be over consumed and become detrimental if you don’t have healthy coping mechanisms in place to mitigate it. By some of these peoples logic we should all live like puritans due to some people who can’t or won’t control themselves. No alcohol, drugs, nicotine, junk food, gaming, painkillers… list goes on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?A scam implies you paid for something you didn’t get. How is that applicable here? You pay for content, you get content | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Where are you from that it’s normal for a 31 year old to date a high schooler..? I know it happens but it’s not normal or okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I think the issue is believing a girlfriend will solve all of your mental and emotional problems. Having a partner is a great addition to your life but it doesn’t protect you from ever feeling a negative emotion again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I guess my point is - not all consumption of porn is inherently negative. I guess it was a poor comparison because the best amount of smoking you can do is none, whereas I don’t think watching porn now and then has any negative impact, otherwise nearly 90% of men would be in a bad way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Given how many women in porn are being trafficked - yes. “Girls do porn” was proven to be trafficking women by making them think they were doing an innocent clothes modelling gig, and then giving them a ton of drugs and beating them until they shot enough scenes. There’s also a lot of cases where pornstars boundaries are pushed (a producer will say a scene only involved XYZ, and then demand on the spot she does something else or she doesn’t get paid) as well as a lot of producers getting shitty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?It helped me a lot actually but each to their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?What’s your issue with that statement, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Ohhh right, got you. I get these women are good at providing “the girlfriend experience” but end of the day… that’s what you’re paying for. If they’re that convincing, then they’re clearly worth the money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I’d wager a guess that they’re just on about viewing women as humans the same way we view men rather than sex objects | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?What does equal mean to you in this context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I agree that porn should be better regulated in terms of the age of those who can access it. It installs a lot of negative perceptions around sex in children from a very young age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:20 PM |
| – | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?And that’s relevant how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:19 PM |
| 6 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Also - so much of porn is free, it’s bizarre to me why you’d pay for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?That’s fair. I know I couldn’t do OF in a million years even if I could make a killing. So I don’t do it or engage with that content. I don’t condemn the people who do make it, either. I guess that’s where I’m wondering what I’m missing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I can see that. A lot of things are used to fill a void caused by loneliness - food, alcohol, drugs, nicotine, gaming… you name it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:57 PM |
| 5 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?You can blow all your money on just about anything, it doesn’t make it exploitative. That’s a choice you make for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:55 PM |
| 9 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I used to work with a girl who did OF and she told me how common it was for men to haggle over prices or even ask for freebies 🙃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:54 PM |
| 18 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Exactly - it’s a service in exchange for money. I’ve paid a therapist to hear me talk about some very personal matters but I’ve never been under the impression she genuinely cared beyond a human generally hoping another human is okay. I was paying her to help me work through some stuff, that’s what she did. It’s not her fault I went through the things that landed me in her office or that I needed professional help for a bit to sort out my head. She provided a service there’s a demand for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Yeah, exploitation/scams come in many forms for people who aren’t equipped to recognise them. Idk if a realistic solution is to simply eliminate everything that could result in someone overspending. Tbh, I wasn’t even thinking about men who spend a ton of money on sex workers. Isn’t OF like $10 a month? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:44 PM |
| 20 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?Why would you think a girl you’re paying to talk to actually cares about you? Like that kind of seems like a no brainer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:38 PM |
| 9 | Why are sex workers seen as exploitative?I definitely see how exploitative sex work is towards the workers - but a lot of men here seem to think it exploits the consumers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:27 PM |
| – | “Women” are bad at marriage.Yeah you talk about women getting married bc they think sex won’t be “required” of them. A. Women are constantly being told that if they don’t sleep with their husband enough he’ll find someone who will B. The word “required” implies she was doing it out of duty/wanting to keep him around beforehand, but now she’s married she’s off the hook. Which presents women as not enjoying sex with men which isn’t the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"?A lot of guys care if you’re too tall though. I have tall friends (5’10 and up) who’ve struggled with dating. Not because they only want to date guys taller but because a lot of guys around their height want a short girl. I’m 5’5 and 1/2 and have been told I’m “too tall” for someone 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:36 AM |
| 2 | “Women” are bad at marriage.A fact you don’t like isn’t a lie pal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 10:48 PM |
| 4 | “Women” are bad at marriage.Stop blaming women for the high divorce rate would be a start | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 6 | “Women” are bad at marriage.You realise women enjoy sex… right? We’re not trying to squirm away from it at every possible moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?Short of mind reading there’s no way to know if someone’s with you for both fun and commitment. If you know yourself and that you’re able to give both, you just trust that your partner has the sense to recognise and appreciate those things. Withholding commitment usually results in the person finding someone else who won’t. Most wouldn’t don’t want to be strung along in order to soothe someone’s insecurities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 04:01 PM |
| 2 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?If your hard rule is that a woman can only be a virgin and even one previous partner is too many - the average age a woman loses her virginity is 17 so is that the pool you plan to be dating in? Neediness and jealousy are not good things in a relationship… I love being around my bf but we can also do things separately with our friends without one of us having a meltdown over it. Fun and commitment aren’t mutually exclusive things. I have lots of fun in my LTR - in fact, a lot more than I did wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 03:06 PM |
| 3 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?There’s a middle ground. You can be not a virgin but that doesn’t mean you’ve had an endless string of ONS with “Chads”. The average body count for women is 7. I think men here vastly overestimate how many women are having regular hookups with new men all the time. Some do, but they’re far from the majority. Teaching someone who’s never been in a relationship how it goes would involve dealing with a lot of neediness, jealousy and poor communication most people have with their first relationship.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 02:32 PM |
| 5 | What does your “ideal” dating life look like?Guess it depends on the individual. Guys in my circle don’t want virgins or someone who’s never been in a relationship because they typically lack experience/maturity which isn’t ideal for a LTR. Most people’s first relationship is a bit of a disaster that they then grow and learn from. It’s effort having to teach someone how sex and relationships go. At 17/18 I was “young” and “pure” but completely not in the right headspace or maturity to have a LTR. Also, being good in bed usually comes with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?You can be a decent person without being taken advantage of/abused … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 12:58 PM |
| 3 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?The latter person isn’t necessarily being “fake.” I know people pleasers and it usually comes from a place of poor self esteem and thinking they’ll only be valued/accepted by giving people whatever they want at their own expense. Or if they grew up in a high conflict household where they had to be the peacemaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Do women not mind past relationship baggage in man, compared to vice versa?Depends how the guy deals with it. My bf had a rough long term relationship before me he carried some baggage with (paranoia/trust issues) When it caused problems with us, I set an ultimatum that we could only continue being together if he saw a therapist to unpack the issues he had with his ex. He got a therapist, and things have been smooth sailing with us since. Had he been unwilling to get help/expected me to be his therapist, I would have ended it there and then. Something about bleeding on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?I don’t even remember the surname of the guy who took my virginity. The person who “made their mark” is my current partner who I now I live with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:04 AM |
| 3 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?Depends what you mean by “nice”. Women who are nice but are people pleasers who struggle to assert themselves and set boundaries usually end up with people who take advantage of that. You can be nice while having a backbone and not being afraid to cut off people who try to use you, but you won’t be perceived as “nice” by quite so many people. Again though, being “nice” doesn’t entitle you to sex or a relationship it’s literally just the baseline of being a pleasant, functioning human - goes for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 11:00 AM |
| 0 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?You’ve asked me this twice now.. I’m 5,6- slightly above average height. Are you an angry short dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?I mean, decent parents should teach that you should be good/respectful to anyone regardless of gender? It’s hilarious that men here are genuinely mad that mummy told them how handsome they are and that they would have ladies fighting over them when they grew up and it turns out they were wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 06:51 PM |
| -3 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?Who’s lying to children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Body type preferences are more diverse though. It literally depends on what the guys type is, some men love curves, some prefer a slim, toned body. That said, I think most guys vastly overestimate how big they need to be to satisfy a woman. For most women anything over 7’ is uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?I’m don’t read that sub very often so I’ll take your word for it ig. People always debate over the semantics of RP ideologies/views of women anyway Every woman I know would be grossed out by a guy insisting on knowing her body count because it’s indicative of a set of views he holds about women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Not every guy who treats women poorly is necessarily red pill. Wym with the second statement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Idk, I think there’s been a big pushback on social media for girls to be aware of red flags and generally making fun of RP guys. Idk any woman who’d ever knowingly date a RP guy or just a guy who views/treats women the way a RP one does. One time a guy I was dating asked about my body count and would nottt let up so I dumped him. I’d only slept with one other person but the fact he had such a bee in his bonnet about it told me we were not going to workout | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Meh I have a long commute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?And thank god for that. I’ve known a couple “red pill” guys but they stopped getting inviting places because they kept freaking girls out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?I mean, it worked out for me 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Most people wait until marriage for religious/traditional reasons which is also the reason they’re less likely to divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Do you have a source for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Where did I whine about men wanting a virgin? I explicitly said you’re free to have as many preferences as you like - I’m talking about the outcome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:15 AM |
| 0 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?In my experience - it’s only been super religious guys who want to wait until marriage who have a hang up about virgins. Generally, guys who aren’t virgins and are 21+ don’t really have a hangup about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Fomo/grass is greener I’m glad I slept with a couple people and dated around before my current bf. I know what sex/relationships with others is like and that what I have now is the best for me. If I didn’t have anything to compare it to, how would I know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:36 PM |
| -2 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Bringing in height is a false equivalency but there are reasons for wanting a tall guy. Being tall is also more of a masculine trait, whereas virginity isn’t. It just means you haven’t had sex, it isn’t exclusive to either gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:36 PM |
| 9 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Exactly, we are all entitled to whatever preferences we like, hypocritical or not. Just don’t be shocked when it doesn’t work out for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Because the OP is a discussion about the topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:20 PM |
| 6 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?Virginity isn’t exclusive to either gender, though. It’s not an inherently masculine or feminine trait it just means you haven’t had sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:19 PM |
| 42 | Am I wrong in saying that if a person has a requirement or preference that he wants a virgin partner but he himself is not a virgin that is not hypocritical?You keep defending the semantics of the word “hypocrisy” so I’ll just say this: it’s a double standard. You’re expecting something of someone you yourself do not have and virginity is something that isn’t exclusive to either gender. So it’s not the same as me wanting a guy with a big dick when I myself don’t have one before anyone pipes in with a dumb false equivalency. No preference in and of itself is “wrong” but don’t expect it to be received well in the real world. A woman who’s a virgin for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:06 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?It’s a newborn baby - it can’t really determine how worthless its life is. There are a lot more pragmatic reasons to choose the mothers life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:40 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?It’s still a false equivalency as you’re on about a scenario that will never happen to you, whereas all women who want children have to consider this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 09:22 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Yep, easy to say “well I’d rather let a baby be saved in a burning building before me!” When you know full well you’ll never be in that position. Whereas a dangerous childbirth is something most women have to consider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 09:21 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Yep you literally are. By not even thinking about them you’ve deemed them not worth living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Yeah that’s not really relevant since I assume you’re more capable than a baby at leaving a burning fire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Just saw your edit. When you say “child” what do you mean exactly, what context etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Maths wise how would you have a baby with a woman you’ve known half a year, even if she got pregnant the first night you met? In the OP I’m talking about your wife, therefore your parents in laws. Plus, your parents couldn’t grieve a grandchild that never really existed. They could be upset for you but it’s not the same as losing a child they’ve raised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?I’m aware it’s a hypothetical - just found it interesting. I think it’s a good question to ask your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:01 AM |
| 7 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Maybe let your partner know your stance on this before she gets pregnant/married to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:54 AM |
| 4 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?I guess I can only talk about it from mine and my bfs perspective in a utilitarian way. If I died - I’d have a lot of family and friends grieving as well as my bf. My parents would lose a daughter who they’ve known and loved for 23 years. My bf would have to move as he couldn’t afford the rent by himself so he’d be dealing with: grief, single parent of a newborn, rapidly moving home and finding somewhere else to live with half the budget. I help my parents out financially so that would also go. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:52 AM |
| 5 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?No, but if you’re a man you’ll never have to go through childbirth and the risks it poses. Therefore it’s far easier for you to announce you’d be fine dying in childbirth therefore women should be too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?You can still have a strong bond to someone who’s not your wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:25 AM |
| 4 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?That doesn’t override the woman’s life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:23 AM |
| 4 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?The child would be a newborn bc it’s in childbirth..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:23 AM |
| 5 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?I think it’s easier to say that when you’d never be in a position where it would come down to that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:22 AM |
| 5 | Women with a lot of male friends are a instant 'red flag'Unacceptable really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:06 PM |
| 37 | Women with a lot of male friends are a instant 'red flag'Can no longer hang out with ur mates past 11pm otherwise it’s gay spread the word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:57 PM |
| – | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?You’re taking the phrase a bit literally it just means a period of time where you’re having casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:27 PM |
| 69 | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?I never had a hoe phase but I know a few who did inc girls I went to my very catholic school with that constantly beat purity culture into us. Once we left school some girls slept around a ton. I’m guessing this was some kind of reaction to being so repressed and told our value was in our so called “purity”. Other than that, some people just want to experience a variety of different kinds of sex with different people so they can get to know what they like. Or just for the thrills. I don’t think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:14 PM |
| – | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Physical abilities differences make us unequal. And we don’t require special protection from men who don’t grope/harass women. The root of the problem is men who do this. Without them, there is no need to defend ourselves or have separate train carriages for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 10:57 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI believe the testimonies were all around 20 years when he was at the peak of him fame, so no. But physical evidence isn’t always useful, it shows whether or not sex happened but not if it was non- consensual. Even bruises/injuries can be defended as just rough sex. Hence why the conviction rate is so low. Unless there are witnesses it basically comes down to he said she said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 06:25 AM |
| – | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Ok, so with your example should women just not use public transport all together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 10:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDid Danny Masterson get a fair sentence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Because atm a lot more women are harassed than men - how is that equal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Yep and the equal outcome is fewer people being harassed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?A women’s only carriage on the end of a unisex train is not a private bus. You said you’ve been groped by both men and women and therefore require a private bus. That’s called a car. Or just hire your own private bus if you like, nobodys stopping you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?You’re confusing equality with equity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Most normal men don’t object to measures taken for women’s safety 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Completely false equivalency. Besides, the majority of crimes committed by black people is on other black people so apples to oranges again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?That’s because the issue of harassment of women is not equal. Not saying it never happens to men but not nearly at a comparable rate. Therefore an “equal” solution wouldn’t be beneficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I don’t think this is really an issue in Japan and is really not as common as it’s made out to be in western countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:27 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?What does the issue have to do with equality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:57 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?No, address the actual point I made instead of deflecting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:59 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Have you looked into the conviction rates for SA/rape? Even when physical evidence is given there’s a tiny chance of even an arrest happening, never mind actual consequences. Women have undergone rape kits before and been told despite evidence of sex taking place there wasn’t “enough damage” done to prove rape. you’ll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Yeah you’re ignoring the fact that bodily harm and murder is still illegal even if it’s self defense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?You didn’t even begin to address the actual point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Typically it’s not wise to carry weapons because you could be overpowered and have those weapons used against you, as well as the legal ramifications of performing surprise bottom surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:10 PM |
| 29 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Gun ownership is much more regulated in Switzerland and requires vetting - “People who've been convicted of a crime or have an alcohol or drug addiction aren't allowed to buy guns in Switzerland. The law also states that anyone who "expresses a violent or dangerous attitude" won't be permitted to own a gun. Gun owners who want to carry their weapon for "defensive purposes" also have to prove they can properly load, unload, and shoot their weapon and must pass a test to get a license.” Switzerlan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:09 PM |
| 14 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?It’s so disturbing how common it seems to be, and almost always at teenagers/children. Sorry you went through that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Men’s feelings are more important than women’s safety ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:53 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?It’s more about preventing harassment than violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:45 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I see your point that it’s unfair that innocent men get penalised for the consequences bought about by men who harass/assault women and I sympathise. Despite the charming gentlemen calling me a man hater I have a lot of men in my life I love and know would never harm women and I’m well aware most men wouldn’t either. However, some men do. And most women have experienced it. But to blame women for things like women only spaces, women being wary around them is ridiculous. They’re not seeing the fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?They’re called cars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:27 PM |
| 30 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I’ve dated women before and have never dealt with a woman who couldn’t take no for an answer or kept pursuing me after I made it clear I wasn’t interested. I know it happens to other women/men but just anecdotally it’s only ever been men I’ve had those issues with. Also if it ever did happen to me from a woman, I’m physically much more likely to be able to defend myself. I don’t think it’s a good thing because “men bad” but statistically, women are much more likely to be harassed by men on publi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I’d just rent somewhere else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:59 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?In Japan more women die by homicide than men. So actually, it is appropriate in their case. Is it still offensive? Your tax tantrum is so ridiculous I can’t entertain it. Have fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Enjoy visits from the IRS then ig? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:49 PM |
| 21 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?funnily enough Japan has very strict gun laws and one of the lowest gun related death rate in the world lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:45 PM |
| 11 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Idk where you’re based but there’s plenty of male only gyms in my city Women aren’t getting two gyms for the price of one, the women’s only area is just an additional room with a couple machines/weights. If women aren’t comfortable working out around men, let’s say for religious reasons, why begrudge them of that? I don’t really care either way so I mainly use communal space. Take it up with the gym, not the women who use the extra room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:15 PM |
| 13 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?If you want male only spaces - most gyms already come pretty close to that, there isn’t really a need for an additional male only space. There are strictly male only gyms if that’s what you’re after, idk what’s stopping you from going there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:09 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Every gym I’ve ever been to is already like 80-90% men in the communal parts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:02 PM |
| 11 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?My gym has that for free. Why exactly does it bother you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:59 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Lol, can you accept the average man has a physical advantage when it comes to self defence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:34 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Eh I’d be fine with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:33 PM |
| 11 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?You said it was ineffective - I’m pointing out its efficacy. You’re less likely to be harassed by a man on public transport on a woman only carriage. It’s relatively straightforward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:33 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Who’s beating him up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:31 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Again with the false equivalencies 🥱 you realise these trains exist because of men harrassing women on public transport? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:26 PM |
| 52 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?They don’t seem to understand that if harassment wasn’t such a big issue on public transport - women only carriages wouldn’t exist in the first place. Get mad at the men who caused this, not the women who just want to get about without being leered at. I’ve been groped on public transport and have two friends who had guys jerk off in front of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:24 PM |
| 14 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?In the video, the only one having a hissy fit was the man. Funny you talk about “man hating feminists” while quite clearly hating women, pot kettle no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:23 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Men can still use public transport, just not those particular carriages. There’s plenty of space for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:21 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Source? Also, completely irrelevant to the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:19 PM |
| 13 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Are you saying that harassment has never happened..? God you sound ignorant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:18 PM |
| 13 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Its purpose is to protect women from harassment by men. I assume if he’d stayed in the train any longer a member of staff would have walked him off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:16 PM |
| 17 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Protection from harassment is a privilege? They were in the train car minding their business. It was the man that barged on with his camera. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:14 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I’m asking how the word applies in this context. There’s a whole world outside of America. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:14 PM |
| 19 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Do you not see the difference between public transport and a workplace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:13 PM |
| 21 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?I assume it’s because women are harassed a lot more frequently on public transport, that’s why it’s for women. Supply and demand n all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you find women only transport offensive?Alien? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersA man would be fine doing significantly more housework/childcare than his partner who he also outearns? Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Are women more lenient with weight compared to men?Most of the time if a girl gets a boyfriend, as long as the guy is nice her friends will be all for it. My friends have dated some absolute trogs but I’d never say a word. After all, I’m not the one who has to fuck them and if my friends are happy that’s all I care about. Guys however are much more likely to comment on who their friends date and give them shit if the girl has any vulnerabilities. Sadly, overweight women are subjected to so much cruelty and ridicule- usually by men. I wish more p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersThe average age gap in relationships is 2-3 years. You’re acting like women who are single at 30 wither away never destined to die alone. If I were 30 and single I’d most likely meet someone a few years older. I wouldn’t care about their salary as long as they were financially independent (I’m not paying their bills lmao), and wouldn’t bitch about me earning more of that were the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:17 AM |
| 4 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careers“Moreover, wives who earn more often end up doing more of the household chores, not less. Data from the American Time Use Survey, covering the years 2003 to 2011, showed that while husbands spent an average of 20.8 hours a week on non-market work and childcare, wives spent 33.5 hours on those activities. One explanation for this, the researchers suggest, is that a wife making more money is doing more chores to assuage her husband’s unease. But serving as both the primary breadwinner and the prim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 12:25 AM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersWhy does a man have to be 4x as successful and what does that even look like? 4x the salary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI think certain guys would strongly prefer a woman who earns a good bit less because it would give him more leverage. They figure a woman is less likely to stand up for herself in a home where he pays all the bills. She’s also less likely to walk if she can’t rent by herself 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:12 PM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersHow many successful men do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:31 PM |
| 9 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersThe average salary in my country is around £28k, they’re making several times that, so I’d say “average Joe” is an underestimation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI have a bf, male friends, brothers and all my coworkers are men but sure 👌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:26 PM |
| 4 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersDo you have a source for the first part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI can get behind that. Educated doesn’t necessarily mean someone’s smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersDepends how you define high value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:18 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI guess I was talking about a context that’s applicable to more people. There’s only a few thousand billionaires in the entire world so it seems ridiculous to even consider them in the equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersIt’s multiple examples having grown up and now working in an environment with a lot of wealthy, successful people. I’m not debating who cares more - all I’m saying is that actual successful men desire a similarly successful woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:13 PM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersMost of my post is talking about my experiences around HVM - anecdotal yes but you can’t deny the pattern. The logic behind it checks out. How faithful those men are is a different topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 08:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI’m just going off my own experiences around a lot of successful/“high value men”. The logic behind it checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 08:09 PM |
| 6 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersIf I were single and dating and a guy dismissed my degree/job, I’d assume he was uncomfortable with a woman better educated and out earning him. Which is fine, but like, that’s his problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:59 PM |
| 5 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI don’t think they care as much as non successful men. They seem to love speaking on the behalf of successful men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersWhat’s not to like about 2 sizeable incomes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:42 PM |
| 17 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersI mean, my bf brags about my job to other people 🤷🏼♀️ whenever I’ve met new coworkers of his they already know what I do/where I work as he’s told them lol. A wife who’s a doctor is more a status symbol than a wife who’s a bartender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 15 | Discussion: Are women more lenient with weight compared to men?Generally speaking we’re all wired to be attracted to healthy, fit bodies as our monkey brains see them as the best contenders for healthy offspring. In my experience, men care more. I’ve seen more couples with a slim girl and overweight man than vice versa but that’s just anecdotal. I think men would also care more about what their friends would say about them dating a fat girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:34 PM |
| 15 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersWell, my CMV specified ‘care about’. No career is sexually attractive by itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:32 PM |
| 18 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersIn LTRs/marriage you look beyond what’s attractive. Good listening and communication skills, empathy and level-headedness don’t get me hot and bothered but they’re traits I require in someone I’m in a relationship with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:25 PM |
| 13 | [Updated] *Some* lonely men can benefit greatly from seeing escorts.Might not be my place here as I’m a woman but I don’t see anything wrong with escorts/prostitutes. It makes sense. When I need a haircut, I go to my hairdresser who I pay for her time and skills. I wouldn’t wonder around trying to find someone who’ll do it the way I want for free. A bad metaphor but hope it gets my sentiment across. They’re a service, they’re good at what they do and professional. They may even be beneficial for a lot of men. I’m very much in favour of sex work being legalised a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersDo all men think the same way then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersRed pillers love to say that anytime a woman makes a sweeping statement about men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersWhat happened to not all men being a monolith? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersApart from the majority of red pillers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?For real. My mum said she was her hottest at her 30s and going off pictures I believe her. Ages 18-20, at my supposed “peak”, I was at uni so just followed trends and didn’t analyse what looked good for my features. I can now actually afford proper haircuts/dye, better quality skincare, clothes etc I was thin but didn’t weight train, I now have an ass and abs and am so much stronger and fitter. Im hotter and I have several years of improvement ahead of me - what’s not to like! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 03:38 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?Lmao 30 is an “old woman” to you? It’s hilarious men think we just whither away into our crypts the minute we turn 30. And before you come for me, I’m in my early 20s. I’m less anxious and risk averse now than a few years ago. I’m way more self assured, confident and open to new stuff now. If anything, I’m excited for my 30s, 40s etc where I’ll give even fewer fucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingTrue. My mum has given me great advice over the years and if I’d listened to her sooner I would have saved both of us a lot of headache ahaha. My parents have the kind of marriage I aspire to have, so I figure she probably knows something. But when you’re an idiot teenager you sadly don’t realise that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:29 AM |
| 2 | What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce…Exactly. They’d only been dating for a year when they got engaged, I never understood the hurry but hey ho it’s not like they had to save up. I would never get married before 25 and definitely no kids before 30. I’d rather be single than a divorced mum in my late 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleThat’s like 99% of this sub ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:17 AM |
| 44 | Young, attractive women don't completely hate the attention they get. If they hated it there wouldn't be a billion dollar industry focusing on making them look as young as possibleI don’t mind being hit on or asked out and I won’t deny it perks up my mood when it happens, I’m in a LTR so it’s always a no but even so. Who doesn’t love a bit of external validation? What I do hate is being intimidated by men hitting on me, being shouted at from cars, I’ve been followed, groped, had a guy stroke my hair on the bus, been insulted when I turn them down. Those guys want me to be scared of them because if they can’t get my validation, my fear of them is a consolation prize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 09:49 PM |
| 2 | What does "putting a woman in her place mean?"Have you actually been in a relationship with a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.Ok. What do you propose for her to do about a dude that isn’t interested in giving her any foreplay, doing anything she likes etc. apart from not sleeping with him again? She can tell him ofc but I’m guessing you wouldn’t much enjoy sleeping with someone who only did anything for you after you asked them, and clearly didn’t actually care if you enjoy yourself or not. Some guys are just plain selfish in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Well, a lot of red pillers seem to interpret it differently. It goes from being about self improvement to believing all women are liars and cheats who’ll never give you the time of day unless you’re a 6ft millionaire. I don’t think the latter is productive or helpful to anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 02:54 PM |
| 7 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessThat’s where the joy of contraception comes in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:24 AM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I’m saying it’s a false equivalency. It’s fine to have a height preference but shaming men for their height is obviously not okay. Similarly, it’s fine to want a woman with a certain sexual history but not okay to insult women because of their sexual history. Most of the time slut shaming comes from assumptions about a woman’s history as well. You’re reaching so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:02 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Free from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 04:46 PM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Maybe I should have been clearer - I’m not saying slut shaming has only recently come about, I’m saying it’s much more common to see it online than it was a few years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 03:04 PM |
| 3 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I guess that’s the issue with the terminology. They’re presenting their opinions as objective truth when many of them have little/no experience with sex and relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 11:18 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?How old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 10:07 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?You don’t believe that telling yourself and believing you’ll be single forever won’t have an impact on how your dating life pans out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:21 AM |
| – | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?You don’t believe in self fulfilling prophecies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:11 AM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?It’s interesting how the metaphors you use for women are hunting animals and buying something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 06:36 AM |
| 2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Again, why do you assume male suicides have anything to do with their dating lives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 10:55 PM |
| 2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Why do you assume every girls ex was betrayed by her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 10:25 PM |
| 2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Honestly I just couldn’t be arsed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 09:06 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Yeah, sounds like their exes weren’t a great fit and they’re now much happier with their current partner. That’s kinda just life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?the video I was referencing was a girl wearing a crop top and jeans but go off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Because it was on Instagram and I could see the usernames and profiles of the commenters, all of whom were men. I can’t assume their beliefs of course, but it’s a certain kind of man who decides to insult a woman for posting a video in a crop top 🤷🏼♀️ shit like “fatherless behaviour” “y’all sexualise yourselves” etc etc OOTDs* = outfit of the day (my bad initial typo) My bf ticks off all those traits and we’ve been together a few years now. Having those traits won’t be the reason women don’t go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:20 PM |
| 3 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?That’s what I’m seeing. It’s a vicious cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:12 PM |
| 3 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I think everyone should think for themselves and not blindly follow whatever ideology finds it’s way to your FYP. You should absolutely cherry pick different ideas and form your own values. Take what you need and leave the rest. I’m an atheist, but I still appreciate some sentiments of Christianity and Judaism. Thing is, my opinions don’t contradict eachother, the issue is when “cherry picking” turns hypocritical and self contradictory. Also, please learn what gaslighting is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?What do you mean by making things harder for women to get what they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 06:01 PM |
| 3 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Why do you assume that a woman who makes you wait must have jumped into bed with another guy? My bf and I waited a while but so did my ex. He wasn’t that vexed about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:58 PM |
| 4 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I’m a feminist in that I believe in fair economic, political and social rights for both genders. In terms of third wave feminism I’m a bit more sceptical in places. I just live my life according to my own values and seems to be going well so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Re outfit videos - I’m literally on about regular girls doing “fit checks” or “OODS”. One girl was in jeans and a crop top and her comments were filled with men insulting her. It’s much easier to convince someone to dislike you than to convince someone to date you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:55 PM |
| 2 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Which changes in behaviour patterns do you expect to see? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:38 PM |
| 6 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?I clarified that slut shaming has been around longgg before TRP ever was 🙄 5 years ago, it was rare to see slut shaming comments on a women’s social media and now they are everywhere. A lot of “alpha” content is centred around calling women who aren’t virgins derogatory names which has also gained a ton of traction over the last couple years. If you want to miss the point and be pedantic about the etymology of TRP, be my guest. And if you’re going to be condescending, at least use the correct *y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?Nobody who is intellectually capable can be tricked into committing to someone just because they held out a couple extra dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:16 PM |
| 4 | What is the goal in consuming RP dating content?How does this tangible proof improve your life? Like day to day, tangible improvements? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFellas is it gay if a woman enjoys having sex with you?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe’s 31, let’s say she’s been dating since 18 so for 13 years. Even if she only slept with two guys a year, that’s 26 people. She’s a model and had no shortage of options when she was single, I don’t see why it’s a bad thing she explored those options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think Logan’s got lawyers to send a cease and desist lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, Logan clearly felt it wasn’t a big deal. Especially as I doubt his past is any better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou can usually tell people who need therapy too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAll the pictures that have been released were already on public domain. She also speaks very openly about sex, she really wasn’t pretending to be some blushing virgin with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t get why they drag their opponents partners into it? Like when Jake Paul started coming for Tommy Fury’s gf and unborn baby, grim. Photoshopped DMs to make it look like she’d hit him up in the past 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel bad for Nina because she didn’t sign up for this shit, but that doesn’t take away from the fact Logan is a piece of shit and probably a sociopath. I don’t know anything about the other guy and I don’t care. I’d bet money that the engagement will get called off as Logan probably won’t be able to take the heat. Also my bf got me to try Prime once and it tastes of battery acid how tf is it popular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree there’s an increase I’m just postulating why. I think part of it is that we’re identifying mental illness where 50 years ago people would have brushed over it, or put it down to wild female hormones. I also think a lot of women with ADHD/ASD are often misdiagnosed with anxiety or depression. I’m one of them, my adhd meds have helped my anxiety far more than anxiety meds ever did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYep, that’s why I don’t have tiktok or Twitter, I think they’re the worst culprits. With Instagram you have a lot more control over what content you see. I just follow my friends and few gym content pages and that’s it, so it doesn’t have a negative impact on me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor the sake of the people he financially crippled, yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGuarantee he’s slept with far more people than her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIdk if it’s the culture or just more awareness around mental illness and being able to identify it, probably both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthey’re due to fight in a few weeks anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy? If they’re engaged I assume he already knew her history and was cool with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:25 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou parrot this narrative and then blame women’s lack of empathy that the suicide rate for men is so high. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPeople go to therapy to deal with those that don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4M: what would you do in Logan Pauls shoes if someone was publicly attacking your partner for her past. I wonder if they’ll still be getting married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Your S.O. sex drive is largely dependent on your physical attractivenessThis post is literally attributing sex drive with SOs attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ for everyone: What consequences do you think Rubiales should face for forcibly kissing Jenni Hermoso? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:33 AM |
| 0 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?A tiny minority of men rule the world - doesn’t mean the average Joe innately has the responsibility of teaching the truth to women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Why is this your job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Most meaningful coaching doesn’t come from relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Clarify? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I didn’t really understand the whole idea around if a man has more opportunities to cheat that let’s him off the hook and therefore women should just expect that it comes with the territory. Most women have regular opportunities to cheat, but the whole point is that you have the loyalty and integrity not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?When women say “men ain’t shit” they’re typically referring to the ones who cheat, lie, or mistreat them. That’s nothing to do with their education or job status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Well, aren’t most men pushing to split the bill these days? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?In a world where more young women are getting a higher education and joining the workforce, im not sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I’m not talking about introducing a girl to one of your hobbies, but seeking out someone less experienced and naive in order to “coach” them through life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?When I talk about coaching though I mean taking advice from someone you’re not in a relationship with. An accountant is going to be able to tell me more about taxes than my bf who works in tech, but I’m not opposed to asking my bf for help if there’s code im stuck on (I’m in finance, some elements involve programming which im weaker at) and then I’ve also taught him what I know about finance. I don’t think it’s about being perfectly aligned but having that synergy where you both build on eachoth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:55 PM |
| 7 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Would you not feel validated by having a woman not ‘need’ you but choose to be with you regardless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I don’t mean people just innately knowing how to do those things but having the ability to learn how, there’s nothing wrong with asking for advice from people who are qualified/experienced to help. In an ideal world, yes you’re right, but once you realise how common financial abuse is and how devastating it can be - that’s why I wouldn’t suggest anyone ever not bothering to learn about these things and letting someone else take the reins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I don’t know of any adults/anyone out of college who doesn’t know those things? I think letting your partner be a “coach” to you and never questioning their judgement can make you very vulnerable. I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?ESPECIALLY if it involves lifting something heavy 🤩 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:06 PM |
| 5 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?In what context would a woman need the leadership of her partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Most women are happy to do it for a good husband and father | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Just fyi - no woman wants to be fucked for two hours straight unless their pussy is made of concrete | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:59 PM |
| 18 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Potentially. In a less pessimistic view I think a lot of men get a kick out of feeling useful, there’s been a couple times I’ve got a guy to warm to me by pretending I need his help with something, works like a charm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:09 PM |
| 7 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?That’s a kink thing, not everyone who calls their partner actually wants a parent child dynamic in their relationship or to literally sleep with a father figure. Also, it’s really not as common as you think, porn has definitely normalised that for a lot of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:56 PM |
| 12 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I guess it gives them a feeling of superiority? Like they’re smarter and more accomplished. But that’s a weird lens to view your partner through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:11 PM |
| – | What should be the average body count for the guy to be considered attractive?People who care about that much body counts are either under the age of 22 and/or chronically online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:41 PM |
| – | What should be the average body count for the guy to be considered attractive?You posed this as a question but you seem set in challenging all the answers you’ve been given. The fact is, caring so much about body count and having a “preferred” range is something people rarely do after college unless they’re chronically online. Majority of women simply don’t care as long as you’ve been given a recent clean bill of health and you don’t have a history of mistreating the women you’ve slept with (or any woman ideally) One thing I couldn’t put up with is a guy with a fixation o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:37 PM |
| – | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?A lot of women start BC in their teens… I started at 15 to regulate my painful and irregular periods. Doubt I’ll be near menopause by 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Me asking a question doesn’t mean I lead the relationship. He’s not afraid to say no to me. Luckily neither of us turn every conversation into a dick swinging contest. I wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone I couldn’t have difficult conversations with in an honest and calm manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Well that’s just a matter of semantics. My partner and I agreed that if we A) decide for certain we don’t want kids or B) we have kids and don’t want more, he’ll get a vasectomy. It was a very chill conversation. I just asked what he felt about it, he gave me his answer. It would be very unusual for anyone to demand anything of the other, be it a vasectomy, tubal ligation, birth control/no birth control. The conversation should always be respectful and considerate of the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Nobody is talking about forcibly castrating you, relax. She can still ask and raise it as a potential | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Explain how it’s a human right ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?What’s your aversion to marrying a woman who’s been on contraceptives? Btw not every woman who takes contraceptives does so for birth control reasons, and a lot of women have irregular cycles which make it harder to track fertile days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?“Disable” 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Sure, but the conversation is about long term measures of birth control that don’t involve the woman, since she’s taken the brunt of birth control for however many years plus carried and birthed your children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:39 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Fertility isn’t a right… men who are born with a very low sperm count don’t somehow have less rights | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?People rarely actually get divorced for trivial reasons. It may seem trivial from the outside but underneath it are years of unhappiness and issues. But unless there is abuse or cheating, it falls under the scope of “no fault” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Are you in the same league as Al Pacino? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Literally how, if you’re not born you’re none the wiser 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Well, yeah. In a marriage I think all reproductive choices should be willingly agreed upon by both parties, im not talking about bodily autonomy here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Pull out method isn’t known to be the most reliable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Doesn’t mean they don’t have side effects. I’ve known women who’ve had painful, heavy bleeding for months after their IUD until they were able to get it removed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?An IUD still contains hormones fyi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 08:27 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?I see your point but if you were in a happy marriage, it seems strange to refuse a vasectomy on that premise alone. FYI, non hormonal IUDs are a very painful procedure that can cause heavy bleeding for months after. A friend of mine actually had to have hers removed it was causing so much pain and she was constantly faint from the bleeding. They’re by no means always an easier alternative to vasectomies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:29 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?We can put a man on the moon but can’t figure out birth control for women that doesn’t make us fat and sad 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:21 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Why wouldn’t you get a vasectomy? It’s much less invasive surgery than getting your tubes tied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Eh, I’ve heard this. I’ve tried various types of birth control, been on and off it, but it’s never impacted how I feel about my bf and my attraction to him. I’ve never heard of a woman going off her partner because she stopped birth control. Birth control makes a lot of women more volatile, so you may be more prone to fights while she’s on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:11 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?The age range for menopause is 45-55, I’ve known women who’ve had it even later. You could be ‘waiting it out’ for many years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:02 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?How come you wouldn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 10:01 PM |
| 19 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?I mean you’re out here trying to define cheating as well… so if a woman gets her tubes tied, do you think her husband should allow her to sleep with who she wants in return? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:49 PM |
| 20 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Cheating is cheating regardless of if you get the other woman pregnant tf 😂 with that same logic a girl can cheat on you but it’s not cheating because she takes birth control and he wore a condom, so it doesn’t matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?What if you have the vasectomy and down the line you want to leave her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:35 PM |
| 21 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?It would kinda suck for the kid for your dad to die before you even hit puberty and to have siblings who are an actual appropriate age to be your parents. It would be a lonely upbringing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Ahaha, I’ve just heard about a lot of men being strangely protective over their fertility despite not wanting any/more children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:28 PM |
| 18 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Yeah, I’m not sure how many women are trying to trick men into vasectomies just to divorce them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:26 PM |
| 13 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Why is that? Im just curious, a vasectomy is there to prevent pregnancy, it arguably has very little to do with divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:24 PM |
| 15 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?If you already have kids, why would you want more with someone else. Why even stay married if you plan on having kids with someone else down the line..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:23 PM |
| 14 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Birth control actually lowers libido a lot of the time, so your sex life would likely improve if she was off it and also not having to worry about pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:22 PM |
| 19 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Plus birth control messes with your libido a lot. I know a lot of women who had a huge dip in libido after going on birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:22 PM |
| 20 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Can’t tell if this is satire or not given this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:21 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:20 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Yeah ofc, I dont think the issue extends to bodily autonomy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:20 PM |
| 23 | Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you?Tubal ligation is a much more invasive surgery than a vasectomy. Plus, after X many years of birth control and birthing your children, some could say she was due for a break | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 09:19 PM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Like I’ve had to keep saying - they call themselves red pill, this is nothing to do with my own interpretation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 06:25 AM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?“I’m getting less sex” “Women are evil and shitty people” Definitely bucking the lonely and angry stereotype | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 12:50 PM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Because they said they are RP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 12:37 PM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Oh you’re against women having the right to vote? Also, your comment perfectly proved my point about many RP men being bitter and angry, so thank you for that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:24 AM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Um yeah people should prioritise their children… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:24 AM |
| – | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?a good start would be to not refer to women like they’re a video game upgrade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 09:22 AM |
| 3 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?With the one guy I know better, he was in a LTR but treated her like crap so she left him and that’s when he got into RP as he was angry she left him. Years later he hasn’t left. Don’t know the other guy as well, he’s known for embellishing the truth so it’s harder to say, but he’s had a few ONS so no neither have ever been incels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 08:18 AM |
| 6 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Which losses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 09:07 PM |
| 3 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?What do you hope to gain from TRP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 09:01 PM |
| 6 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Oh ok, sounds like you went down the MGTOW route then? What about those who still eventually want to find a partner despite their RP beliefs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:59 PM |
| 7 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Can you describe something tangible? Something how it changes your day to day living | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner?Yeah that’s why I was confused by Odd_Green saying that a guy would need to make 100k to cover his own bills. In London (so bear in mind exchange rates) you can live fine on 30k. You won’t save any money and you can’t spoil yourself, but you can pay rent, bills, essentials etc, especially if you’re splitting one bed rent. My bf and I both make around $63k and get by fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Women how much does a man need to make to be your partner?Which city do you live in ahahaha, i live in a major city and you definitely don’t need 100k to pay bills? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:38 PM |
| 8 | Is the gender war mostly zero sum?Most women don’t want to be victims, we don’t see it as a privilege to point out injustices. I’d much rather live in a world where all women had social, economic, political and reproductive rights with nobody trying to take them away and little girls weren’t mutilated and forced to marry old men. As a western woman I know I live a very charmed life compared to them. Struggles with dating exist among both genders, the issue is when people turn it into the victim olympics. The struggles are differ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:55 PM |
| 14 | Is the gender war mostly zero sum?People who spend too much time online engaging with pill content/misogynist/misandrist content are essentially cutting of their nose to spite their face. The gender war online is largely perpetuated by grifters who just want men to resent women and buy their course on how to become an alpha and sleep with lots of women. If you look beyond the west the gender war is very much against women, eg. FGM, honour killings, child brides, Afghanistan recently forcing women to quit their jobs, women in Ira… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:14 PM |
| – | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesIm not suggesting anyone lie about their body count, just that the only way to actually know what it is, is to ask. And if you’re going to have a weird complex about it, good luck. It’s interesting how none of the guys that come here crying about body counts don’t have any relationships or prior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesIt’s almost like women are just as multi faceted and nuanced as men! I’m calmer now but I used to party a lot, take drugs, I have a tattoo and pierced nipples, albeit always kept a natural hair colour, and my body count is 3 because I’ve always been in monogamous long term relationships. No reason why it’s 3, I just slept with the people I wanted to sleep with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:35 PM |
| 6 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesHow’s your dating life bud? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 09:17 AM |
| 7 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesI already know what you’re going to say because every other man whinges about it - she has a lot of guy friends, travels a lot, likes to party, has promiscuous friends, worked/works at a bar or club etc. It’s funny because I fit a lot of the “signs” of a promiscuous person yet I’ve slept with less than a handful of people. What a dull, judgemental life you must live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 08:20 AM |
| 14 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesI explicitly said you’re free to prefer whatever, I just never felt the need to judge people’s sex lives where nobody’s getting hurt. And this is coming from someone in a LTR with a low body count. I don’t have a dog in the fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:13 AM |
| – | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesDo enlighten me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesIt’s wishful thinking, state sanctioned marriages are never going to be implemented in the west and rightfully so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:05 AM |
| 12 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesState sanctioned? You trying to bring back Lebensborn e.V or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:00 AM |
| – | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesPlease educate yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:56 PM |
| 19 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesVaginas are designed to push out babies - do you think they stay 10cm dilated for the rest of a woman’s life? I promise you your wee peckers don’t make a dent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:52 PM |
| 13 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesThe men here complain about starfishes but they also get upset if a girl is too good in bed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:06 PM |
| – | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesMost of those consequences can be mitigated through birth control, condoms and regular STI screening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:03 PM |
| – | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesWhich “character traits”, I’m curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 11:03 PM |
| 18 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesYeah, but as long as she hasn’t slept with anyone he knows, she can easily lie about it and he’ll be none the wiser 🤷🏼♀️ if she’s been safe, regularly screened for STIs and hasn’t been a cheater/homewrecker, its not that deep. That said, you’re free to prefer whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 10:58 PM |
| 63 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesLouder for those in the back pls, it’s wild that people still think this in 2023… Or that if you sleep with 20 men, your vagina is somehow “looser” than that of a woman who’s slept with 1 man but 100s of times. Those men tell on themselves for having 0 understanding of female anatomy 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 10:31 PM |
| 20 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesSome women lose their hymen as children if they play a sport and some will still have a hymen even after having sex, so let’s get that out the way. Vaginas don’t magically get looser every time a new penis comes along. The fact some men still believe this shows how poor sex education is. https://health.osu.edu/health/sexual-health/myths-and-facts-about-hymen The born again concept is ridiculous to me, but not my monkey not my circus, so I let them get on with it. Vast majority of people aren’t a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 10:04 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?Wym the wrong exercises developing the wrong muscles ..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:13 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?Idk, I’ve seen a lot of relationships end after 5/6 years if the guy hasn’t proposed and doesn’t want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:43 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?Married men typically have longer life expectancies and income | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:40 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?I think the purpose of marriage is to build a life with someone you’re in love with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:28 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?What’s a ‘Stacey’ to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:21 PM |
| – | Q4M: how would you treat women if you were your ideal self?How come you wouldn’t get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 03:20 PM |
| – | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythWell that’s the thing, being a dog who’ll sleep with anything with a pulse just because he can isn’t attractive to most women. It’s the same as a woman who sleeps with anyone just because she can. Also not that attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 09:22 AM |
| – | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythWomen don’t sleep with guys because of their body count, I’ve never known someone to ask before sleeping with a guy (or after cos who cares) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 09:07 AM |
| – | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythWomen don’t like high n count guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 08:38 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t listen to it but why? Seems harmless unless she’s a mega stan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre there genres of music that would be a red flag for girls to be into? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:11 PM |
| – | A guy spending a lot of money is a red flag.Where are you actually finding all these blue haired unemployed women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?I think a lot of women don’t realise how detrimental it is to your self esteem and mental health to constantly have a guy around for validation. It sounds nice but it makes you needy and fragile. I like the metaphor of a cold blooded animal depending on its environment for its survival versus a warm blooded animal who can regulate its own temperature, always needing external validation makes you a cold blooded animal. Messy metaphor Ik but I’m sure you get the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:52 PM |
| – | You can choose who you're attracted toOh no I agree with you, OP is ridiculous and a major c word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?For long term relationships/marriage, a sensible guy is going to look beyond simply beauty and youth. A 21 year old Instagram model who smashes Coke every weekend is not someone you see being the future mother of your kids. Also, when you commit to someone you do so with the knowledge they won’t look this way forever, there are other traits that go into building a life together. Honestly, some women can be fully single but it requires effort as it’s too easy to get bored and start responding to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:33 PM |
| 2 | You can choose who you're attracted toApparently with a little insight and willpower, you can | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:10 PM |
| 7 | You can choose who you're attracted toAh this must be why conversion therapy was such a roaring success! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Discussion : Will modern life get so comfortable for women that literally most choose to stay single?You’re focusing more on standards around looks when she’s more talking about standards around values and being treated. Women haven’t magically only started finding the top men attractive, we’re just becoming less tolerant of poor behaviour. However, the catch is that a lot of women forgive crappy behaviour if the guy is super attractive. Same way a lot of guys will endure a woman being a nightmare if she’s good looking. That’s not really a gendered thing so much as pretty privilege. I know girl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:07 PM |
| – | CMV: The next logical step for our gynocentric society is to say that a man asking his girlfriend/wife to not fuck other men while in a relationship will be considered "controlling"That’s what the early stages are for. If you don’t want to date a girl that parties, you can gauge that pretty quickly and then filter them out. Also seeing how someone reacts to certain stuff. And yeah, having honest conversations about what you’re both okay with. Strong, healthy relationships are work and require maturity and communication. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:58 PM |
| – | CMV: The next logical step for our gynocentric society is to say that a man asking his girlfriend/wife to not fuck other men while in a relationship will be considered "controlling"I mean without specifying what kind of boundaries you’re on about I can’t really comment. Is the boundary “I’d rather your mother didn’t show up to our home unannounced” or “you have to share your location with me at all times and you can’t see your friends anymore” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:51 PM |
| – | CMV: The next logical step for our gynocentric society is to say that a man asking his girlfriend/wife to not fuck other men while in a relationship will be considered "controlling"Communicating boundaries and then leaving if your SO doesn’t agree with them/respect them is different to demanding that they follow the boundaries which are really just demands for radical changes in their behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:48 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?The only person it has to be acceptable to is your partner. Why do you think it’s reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:32 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?Eh, it’s more about why you have an issue with male friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:15 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?From what I remember of the texts, she tried to compromise with him to keep him happy by deleting some pictures and he kept moving the goal posts, responding with “it’s a good start, but you don’t seem to get it and it’s not my job to teach you” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:58 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?He berated her for her modelling job, making shitty comments about her lack of fulfilment in life because of it. I wouldn’t say abusive, but definitely asshole behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:31 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?How exactly was he sold a lie? He slid into her DMs into a bikini pic of her surfing, and then wanted her to take down all pictures of her in a bikini | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:25 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?In the case of cheating, I wouldn’t consider it “controlling” because if you love and care about someone, you yourself wouldn’t want to cheat Actually hilarious this is being downvoted 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:19 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?The ambiguity lies in what boundaries are deemed reasonable or not, which is why the Jonah Hill situation blew up online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:17 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?I don’t think anyone’s saying it’s abuse to break up with someone, other than that I agree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:02 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?Isolating a person from their friends is considered a form of controlling behaviour according to CPS, which is what he was trying to do. He said she couldn’t see her male friends, or even her female friends that he didn’t like. He also berated her for her lifestyle and the fact she’s a model, despite knowing very well the whole time what her job is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:50 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?It’s hard to respond without specifying what these boundaries are but generally yeah, I agree. I just think some people misuse the word boundary as an to be controlling through therapy speak. I have the same issue with people who think “gaslight” means having a different opinion to you and arguing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:40 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?Ah I didn’t hear about that. But ngl, it’s not like mothers with newborns are lacking stress in their lives ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:37 PM |
| – | What are “boundaries” to you?I’ve been with my guy 3 years and he hasn’t yelled at me once but I see your point, people do change. He knows my stance on it and that if he did switch up, I’d leave. The points you make about wanting a hot girl, rich guy etc mainly come down to naivety/lack of experience rather than being a bad person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:24 PM |
| – | CMV: The next logical step for our gynocentric society is to say that a man asking his girlfriend/wife to not fuck other men while in a relationship will be considered "controlling"Boundaries aren’t constraints you put on other peoples actions aka “you can’t wear that, you can’t go there”. It’s parameters you implement for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 06:50 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesIn your case your issue is having friends that don’t set boundaries with their girlfriends. I have 0 interest in crashing my boyfriends guys night and he has no interest in intruding my time with my friends unless we’re all hanging out with our mutual friends. Tell your friends to grow a backbone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:56 AM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacessorry, can’t entertain someone who’s being emotional and talking from their feelings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 09:58 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesThere are endless groups and sport teams you can join that are mainly men. If you seriously can’t tolerate having any women around you unless it’s in a romantic/sexual context, the problem is you. Well adjusted happy people with decent social lives have friends who are men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 09:44 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesThey’re not understanding that if there was an actual demand for male only spaces, there would be a demand. They’re talking about men getting together to talk about their issues, do their hobbies etc… yeah that’s what friends are for. Their issue isn’t lack of male spaces, it’s lack of friendships that they’re trying to blame us for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 09:34 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesIf there was an actual demand for male only spaces, there would be more of them. If you just want to hang out with guys, go hang out with your guy friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:50 PM |
| – | Men don’t get to have male spacesYou realise you can just go hang out with your pals and not invite any women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:45 PM |
| 9 | Men don’t get to have male spacesMy gym has a female only section, I use it bc I find women in the gym are a lot more considerate. They don’t monopolise 10 dumbbells, spend 45 minutes on one machine and they actually wipe down the machines after they’re done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 08:42 PM |
| – | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Again - would you be willing to share/explore stuff she likes to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 08:23 PM |
| – | How important is fitness in finding your ideal partner?Why is it important she have the same hobbies/interests as you? Would you also be willing to share/explore stuff she likes to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 08:07 PM |
| – | Women shouldn't have to pay halfThat statement tells me you have little/no experience in dating and relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:53 PM |
| – | Women shouldn't have to pay halfSo instead of ageing should all women just die at 30 then ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 06:49 PM |
| – | Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that.Why are you wary? Both thick and slim women can be gorgeous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:41 PM |
| – | Most discussions of overweight women are disingenuous because they reference women with desirable pear shaped bodies, but the vast majority of overweight women do not look like that.This is interesting - im a smaller woman who works out a lot and I don’t think thick girls ever cut into my options. Guys who are into thick girls will be into them regardless of whatever the trends are. Recently the pendulum has swung the other way and being super skinny is back in style, but it hasn’t changed anything. A guy who isn’t into your body type was never an ‘option’ for you in the first place. I think being smaller is an advantage in dating personally, it also means you’re more likel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:38 PM |
| – | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipFuckboys generally refer to men who make a woman think that a relationship is just around the corner so he can have sex with her, and then never commits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 06:11 PM |
| – | Questions regarding the male gazeThe other day this guy walked past me, fully mouth breathing staring at my tits (I was in a t shirt) he kept doing this even as he got right past me so I eventually snapped “can I help you?” And he immediately stared at the pavement and scuttled off. He lives near my street so I see him around, it wasn’t the first time he’d leered at me either, when I last saw him he gave me a wide berth 😂 it’s funny how pathetic these men get the second you show a tiny bit of resistance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Questions regarding the male gazeNobody has said that the majority of men leer at young girls. We’re saying that the majority of young girls have experienced unwanted and inappropriate attention from older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Questions regarding the male gazeIt’s still creepy when it happens even when you’re an adult. I see attractive people all the time, I don’t leer at them, it’s not that difficult. Those men do it with the intention to make you uncomfortable and get you to notice them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 07:56 AM |
| – | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menWell, if women “fuck up” and men “fuck down”, maybe she only slept with you because of lack of other options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:15 PM |
| – | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menThis seems like a reach, but okay ahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 02:13 PM |
| – | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menSurely that also applies to men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 02:03 PM |
| – | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menIs it false that men would rather sleep with someone they find attractive, and a pretty girl will have more options than a gross one..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:56 PM |
| – | Men always talk about promiscuous women, and how it affects the women(wich is true) BUT it's the same for menDon’t promiscuous women generally have to be attractive too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:32 AM |
| – | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipI hate the terminology ‘Chad’ but I don’t think this is true. I wouldn’t want a relationship with a guy that’s slept with half the town just because he could. Being in a LTR with someone doesn’t mean they’ll be good in a relationship or won’t mistreat you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:30 AM |
| 34 | CMV: Women must feel like they are going crazy when most men are willing to sleep with them, but only a handful would be interested in a committed relationshipI was about to say - I’ve experienced guys struggling to keep things casual and getting hurt/confused when I don’t want to make things serious. I always very clearly communicated this and never led anyone on, I assume they thought I was bluffing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:28 AM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?True, genetics plays a big factor and a lot more work goes into looking “toned” than they realise. The other day they put up pictures of “curvy” women - one of them was Kylie Jenner who’s had her boobs done and a ton of lipo 😂 like sure she’s curvy but that’s not what the typical curvy woman resembles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 06:40 AM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?The objective truth is different to how you see it as you’re twisting it to fit your red pill narrative when it doesn’t. I never cared that my ex wasn’t in great shape, and that didn’t change when I got fitter. Again, I didn’t start training because he was an ass. Those are two separate facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:32 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?You’re convoluting different things. I didn’t get fit with the intention to “level up”. I just found a new hobby I enjoyed. I dumped my ex for reasons that had nothing to do with either of our appearances. He was abusive emotionally and physically. He called me 300x a day from a withheld phone number after I ended it and would follow me home from my job - to give you a sense of what he was like. I was then single for a while as I needed to get my head straight, and then I met my current bf. When… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 08:12 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?My bf is a gym rat who’s ripped so not really something I have to imagine. It doesn’t bother me, and I definitely enjoy the results | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 07:53 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?I think everyone should be in pursuit of improving yourselves, whether it’s career, health, appearance etc. If your partner is doing well and “glowing up” I think a well adjusted secure person is proud of them and sees it as motivation. But you should never think that you’re in “competition” with your partner. FYI my other friends giving me actual correct advice were women. We initially went weight training together but he made it a miserable time by being condescending and plain annoying. I’m f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 07:36 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Tbh that’s why I love weight training, you can build curves but also tighten up your torso and everywhere else. Weight and BMI become a bit redundant once you have a good bit of muscle though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:27 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Oh I’m not in this situation, my current bf and I have been together for 3 years now and all good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 06:00 PM |
| 4 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?You can be in a couple with separate goals and hobbies, having some independence is a good thing in relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 05:47 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?The risks of self improvement? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:44 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Great response Also I think if you knew more about my ex you’d understand it was definitely malice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:36 PM |
| – | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?So you’d end the relationship even with 0 signs she was looking for someone better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:30 PM |
| 4 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Even when she’s been “thicker” she’s always been very slim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:51 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Ofc, the vast majority of men who are normal are impartial either way to your weight as long as you’re happy and healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?How much is that exactly? A lot of guys just like thicker women, it might not be anything I’m on about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow do you go about vetting exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 11:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPretty narrow parameter then aye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s an interesting take, never thought of it like that before Although I think that’s a generalisation. I know girls from troubled backgrounds with low body counts and girls with two great parents with much higher ones. There are some girls who can divorce emotions from sex but it is less common than it is for men. I don’t think that changes the parameters of what a “high” body count for either gender is however. Sex is sex ultimately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s actually considered a “high” body count for men and women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:49 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs this an ad for tinder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:48 PM |
| 11 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guySexual attraction doesn’t mean wanting to jump your bones then and there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:46 PM |
| 13 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guyIt also depends where you are. If you’re somewhere public, a lot of people aren’t going to want to be tongue snogging with a bunch of onlookers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:44 PM |
| 13 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guyWe were 21 Why are you so adamantly against the possibility that some women just don’t like tongue kissing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:38 PM |
| 19 | If a woman doesn't kiss passionately on the first kiss, she's just not into a guySome people, myself included, just don’t like tongue kissing. Also, girls get anxious about these things too. My first kiss with my bf was an awkward peck because we were both too nervous to properly go for it (and we were in public during the daytime) Some of y’all need to chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:29 PM |
| 6 | Does marriage benefit women?Grow a spine and don’t propose if you don’t want to. If you and your gf want different things, it’s a big incompatibility and she’s not the person for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Does marriage benefit women?Personal accountability is a wonderful thing. Grow a spine and don’t get pressured into proposing if you don’t want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:28 PM |
| – | Does marriage benefit women?He said doing enough to make her happy. I assume that would include contributing to the house and being good in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Does marriage benefit women?Then why do men propose? Nobody’s forcing him to. If she’s pushing for a ring and he doesn’t want to do it, he should end the relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:24 PM |
| 15 | Does marriage benefit women?I mean, the idea is to join lives with the person you love but these days marriage isn’t really essential for that if you already live together. When you marry someone, presumably you enjoy living with them and you have good sex with that person so that’s a benefit. You don’t have to marry (and shouldn’t marry) a man that doesn’t pull his weight in the house or the bedroom. It’s that straightforward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:18 PM |
| – | Does marriage benefit women?How did you come to that conclusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Because if a man is used to his mum picking up after him well into his 20s, that’s very likely going to have an impact on his values | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Clearly no idea what equality means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 11:46 AM |
| 3 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingDon’t date then if it bothers you that much It’s like if I were complaining about how women typically spend a lot more time getting ready for a date than men. Makeup and all the other products involved aren’t cheap. I’m not about to ask a guy to go halves on my mascara. If the disparity bothered me that much I just wouldn’t date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:02 PM |
| 3 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingMen spending money while dating doesn’t mean he’s dating gold diggers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI’m anti-guns but where I live I can’t even carry pepper spray which is some bs, a manual weapon like a knife a man could probably use against me and it’s illegal to carry anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 06:03 PM |
| 3 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThat doesn’t answer my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 05:57 PM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingNot through lack of trying 🙃 Tren cycle incoming any day now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Let's swap the sexes in the debate over going out to nightclubs/bars alone if you're taken.Idk any woman that goes to a bar/club alone, and especially not topless as it’s illegal but okay. My bf is very attractive, he’s a gym rat and he has girls hitting on him. If I couldnt handle that, I’d date an ugly guy. He goes out to bars/clubs with his friends now and the, it doesn’t bother me and vice versa. I go out a bit more than he does, I’ll show him my outfit, he’ll hype me up, I go and have a great night and have never given him a reason to be suspicious, so he isn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:24 PM |
| 1 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingIt’s not a ‘small portion of human behaviour’ when every woman I know has been sexually assaulted, groped or abused. This isn’t to say that all men do this and I’m so sick of having to clarify that to avoid offending anyone. But women are typically cautious due to their own experience they’ve already had. Not because of the media or whatever else you’re claiming is the reason. 98% of sexual assaults are perpetrated by men - https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/arti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?not all men!!! don’t paint us all with the same brush it’s so unfair!! but yeah anyway ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS FYI | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?No, but it does tell me he’s never experienced living as an adult and cleaning up after himself, and maintaining a good standard of cleanliness at home by himself. I’ve met too many guys in their 20s who don’t know how to do their laundry or cook because mummy always did it for them. And they rarely plan on learning once they move in with a girlfriend. Someone asked me how I’d hedge the risk of being with someone who’d expect his partner to be his maid while also splitting bills 50/50, that’s pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 12:37 PM |
| 3 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI deleted tiktok years ago so I guess im behind on this. I’m all for SAHMs because I believe in women doing what they want, and if that’s what they want, more power to them. Its a risky move financially, but not my monkey not my circus. A “pick me” is a girl that puts down other girls in order to appeal to men. Eg. a girl that brags about having a low body count and calls other girls sluts. That‘a very different to a girl that simply supports men or talks about their issues. However, I do see th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 11:22 AM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThere’s nothing to be gained by painting all men with the same brush. Apart from a handful of crazies on social media, women don’t think that all men are bad or criminals. I have a wonderful bf, great dad and brothers, guy friends. I get on with men irl great and trust plenty of them. But if I’m walking home alone at night and I see a man walking toward me, I’ll cross the road or call someone. If that offends him, that’s too bad. My bf is a big guy and has girls doing this to him all the time, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:21 AM |
| 8 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI’ve never seen a woman attack another woman for saying positive about a man so I guess we’re at an impasse on that. Men love to call other men “beta” and “simp” for showing a woman basic decency and god forbid, treating your partner like she’s someone you love. It’s also a complete strawman away from my actual point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:03 AM |
| 13 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingBeing assaulted or abused and being stiffed for money you willingly gave someone are very different things. But here’s the thing - most women don’t have an issue with you saying that. I know perfectly well I’m not a gold digger, so I take no offence to you saying that. But why do men get so offended when women talk about their own negative experiences and fears? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 09:15 AM |
| 0 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingI guess a better analogy is poison, something that could actually hurt or kill you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:57 AM |
| 0 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingNo, you should be cautious entering any relationship for any signs of toxic/abusive behaviour, that’s fine. Misogyny is more “well her body count is 3x what she claims, she’s lying about XYZ and if we ever marry she’ll take half of what I have”. I’m 5,5 + 120lbs, if a guy wants to hurt me I can’t do much to prevent it. Both my bf and I had abusive exes and he even says while the stigma was harder for him (which I agree with), he was able to hold down her arms and restrain her when she did get ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:54 AM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingFair enough, I understand now. I think porn is especially dangerous for young/inexperienced men who then think that’s what sex should look like. My family friend works at a school where a 15 year old was raped by a classmate, when they talked to him he said he thought it was ‘normal for girls to cry’ during sex 😶I didn’t even know there was porn showcasing crying girls, that’s fucking disturbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 07:48 AM |
| 31 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThank you for doing something about your coworker. A lot of people would have stuck their head in the sand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:47 PM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThe statistics on domestic violence and sexual assault are what make women perceive men as dangerous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:37 PM |
| 2 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingCan you elaborate on this? I’m a het woman but don’t think I’ve ever thought this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:36 PM |
| 4 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingIf someone gave you a box of chocolates and told you a couple of them were shit, how keen would you be to dig in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:36 PM |
| 7 | the impact of women’s fear/distrust of men in datingThe issue can be addressed by men not harming women anymore? I make zero apologies for being cautious and keeping myself safe. I’d rather be “rude” than be polite and get hurt. It’s only ever chronically online men that have an issue with this, every man I know irl understands this and doesn’t mind. And no, it’s not an exaggeration. I’ve been followed home by 3 men from my old job at a bar, had to go into a hotel waiting room and call my boyfriend to get me and walk me home as they were stood ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?In the early dating phases you can get a feel for what a guys values are. For example I’d never date a guy that has never lived away from home, even university doesn’t really count as almost everyone lives like animals in their accommodation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Food from the shops to cook a meal for someone isn’t free, and shows more care and consideration than simply paying for a meal someone else prepared and bought to you. If you’re going to nickel and dime over every last coin, just don’t date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?If he’s asked her out on a date, she’s already made a good impression | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:56 PM |
| 7 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?No woman has ever fucked a man because he split the bill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Don’t date those kind of women then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Correlation doesn’t always mean causation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?If he pays after she offers to split, that’s on him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 04:44 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sDidn’t say that once you’re 25 you’re fully developed and you magically reach peak intelligence. I’ve known people in their 50s with less maturity and self awareness than someone in their early 20s. You’re being pedantic for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 03:19 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sI think most people will agree people who are 25+ are typically a lot more grounded and mature than people 18-22. There’s also a lot of research that backs it, not just “some guy who said it” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:51 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sNeither of us want children, but thanks for the concern! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:40 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sA 30 year old is only 3 years older than 27, that’s hardly a big deal. Especially as they’re both over 25 so both their brains are fully formed. Imo age gaps aren’t a big deal until one is feasibly old enough to be the parent of the other then it’s like ehhhh, but at the same time not my monkey not my circus idc either way if everyone’s happy and being treated well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:30 PM |
| 0 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Once I’m in an actual relationship with someone it’s different. I’ve picked up the bill for my bf before and I buy him treats or if I see something I think he’ll like. If it’s a tight month, I’ll cook him his favourite meals, I’m good with a sewing machine and I’ve fixed/altered many things for him. Generosity isn’t just about money. But if someone who makes plenty of money insists on nickel and diming you on a first date over £5, you can safely assume he’s probably not generous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:13 PM |
| – | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sWym it’s not worth talking about? I’m 23 and if I were single I could see myself dating a 30 year old max, mid thirties would be too old for me. My bf is the same age as me though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?If he wants a family and a model where she’d be maintaining the home and doing the bulk of the childcare, that’s his role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:03 PM |
| 0 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?I like that you explicitly ignored the part where I said I don’t have an issue splitting the bill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?Yeah I was the same when I dated. If I liked the guy and things were going well I’d let him pay and assume at some point I’d cover him. If I didn’t, I’d really push to split so we could share the L. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:35 PM |
| -2 | Would you lose interest if a man didn't pay on the first date?My friend was on a date at a bar, she’s 24, he’s in his 30s working at a big 4 consultancy. She doesn’t drink, so she had a couple lemonades (like £2 each) while he got alcoholic drinks. The bill came and he insisted on divvying up the bill, his portion was a lot more but the fact he was obsessing over the receipt like “okay so I’ll pay X, you pay Y, but split the service charge” really put her off. She dropped him after that as she didn’t want to deal with someone so cheap he couldn’t shell out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever had a close, heterosexual male platonic friend before ? If so, how was it ?Yeah, we’ve been friends since the start of uni (I’m 23 now) as we met through climbing, he’s great - never made a move on me or anything. We don’t talk a ton as we’re busy and live in different cities but when we do meet up it’s always a great time. I had another male friend I was very close to, we actually lived together with another friend but it ended in disaster. He expressed having feelings several months before, I didn’t feel the same and so gave him some space for a bit, at this point we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 07:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women need to follow the example that you can wait longer now to settle than ever as to avoid failed relationships with men they don’t loveCan you elaborate on “gym and exercise being a bigger part of our lives than ever” when the statistics on obesity are at their highest and social media is filled with movements that are anti weight loss and exercise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 07:42 PM |
| 7 | doesn't the jonah hill situation and his delusional "expectations" give validity to the redpill argment to avoid promiscuous womenYou need a job or some kind of hobby man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 12:55 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?It’s very naive to assume that every woman in a STEM conveniently has a man in her life that has more knowledge of her career than she does and managed to pass the interviews and testing for the jobs on her behalf. And again, confidentiality thing. I’m in finance and even if my bf knew anything about it, I can’t let him near my work as it would be a confidentiality violation and I’d lose my job. I imagine it’s the same in a lot of careers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 11:11 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?I’ve not known anyone who relied on their bfs to do their jobs, for confidentiality reasons especially. But also that you wouldn’t get into those jobs unless you’d proven you were competent at the skills already? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:54 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Can you clarify “keeping herself up”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:42 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Eh, if they’re real, then a biological women. I don’t really agree with most gender politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:58 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Can you explain the edit ahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:38 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Why wouldn’t you want an overall higher income for the family? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 03:45 PM |
| – | What are mens opinions on gym girls?They forget that a ton men who don’t fit that insane standard do perfectly fine in dating because shocker, they have other qualities going for them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:46 PM |
| 5 | Woman get's the ick because she was treated like a friend. A common issue in male/female relationships?This isn’t even friend treatment though. I’m a woman and I would have let the uber take my friend to her house so she wouldn’t have to walk home alone late, it’s basic human decency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:45 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Both are true, I was just thinking more white collar, higher earning jobs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:32 PM |
| – | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Talk about projection, men here judge men under 6ft, 6 figures etc far more than women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 01:31 PM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?I think that’s inevitable from time to time with almost anyone that works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:52 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?I mean, my bf literally couldn’t afford the rent on his own and we both have good jobs so I think it would matter to him if I just stopped working or switched to a much lower paid job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:19 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?But a lot of men also don’t want a woman who’d expect him to pay more than 50% toward the relationship, especially in this economy, so I think men care more than they let on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:08 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Sorry I didn’t list every male dominated role there is? Although white collar is more applicable to the question when you factor in the financial aspect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:52 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?Oh right, and yes great point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:44 AM |
| – | Would a woman working in a male dominated industry be a deal breaker?How would she compromise your career? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 09:42 AM |
| 0 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldThat’s partly because gyms, especially the weight section are super intimidating for women. I only started going a few years ago because my ex went with me, before then I’d just go on the treadmill and skrrt straight back home. Now I’ve been doing it for ages and it doesn’t bother me when I’m the only woman in the weight section of my gym, which I often am. But yeah I know a lot of women that don’t go because they’d feel judged/intimidated by the guys there which is a shame because I’ve always h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 07:52 AM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Can’t really simplify it much more, try using a little logic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:30 PM |
| – | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Well that’s what not the topic is. Revealing clothing is hardly exclusive to gym girls. Don’t get emotional sweetie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Well we’re talking about gym girls so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:18 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Isn’t being in good shape and taking care of your health a high value trait? If not, then date a fat girl ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:03 PM |
| -1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Wym “all your bits showing”. I agree the shorts that have your ass literally hanging out are unnecessary, but most girls wear leggings/sports bra and all the ‘bits’ are covered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:03 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?What makes you say that? They’re literally maintaining themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 09:00 PM |
| 7 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?There seems to be a lot of disagreement on where the line is between knowing you’re hot and acting like an entitled asshole. Obviously plenty of entitled assholes exists and I’m not advocating for those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?I wouldn’t care. I go to the gym to workout, not assess what other people are wearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 07:02 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?My point is it’s likely to be a similar scenario for whichever poor girl you set your sights on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 06:12 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Female only gyms are more expensive and way further away that mixed gyms. My gym is a 10 minute walk, the nearest female only gym would take nearly an hour to get to and costs four times my current gym membership, no exaggeration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:24 PM |
| 11 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?What’s that got to do with going to the gym? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 05:21 PM |
| 2 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?It’s not necessarily about being in great shape but having compatible lifestyles imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:45 PM |
| 14 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Exactly, which make up a tiny percentage of actual “gym girls”. I go 4-5 times a week and never post about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:44 PM |
| 3 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?In my experience, most gym girls would be more drawn to someone who’s also active/gym rat. And no it’s not an ego thing, I’m in one of those relationships and the gym takes up 8-10 hours of both our weeks and we watch what we eat. This makes us pretty unpleasant to date for those who aren’t about that life, it’s just a compatibility matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:43 PM |
| 8 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Ill continue to wear my t shirt and shorts or a sports bra and leggings and you can continue to cry about it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 03:14 PM |
| -1 | Lauren Sanchez proves that having strong , amoral girl-game is more effective at getting a HVM than being demure and submissiveOk so basic emotional intelligence and things every competent adult has. I have all of those things as well, I don’t pat myself on the back over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 03:03 PM |
| 4 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Who came up with that definition? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 03:01 PM |
| 7 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?This ^ If you want a girl who doesn’t know she’s hot, just date a girl that’s ugly. But most of those don’t want to do that either so 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:58 PM |
| 4 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Lol what? I’m a ‘gym girl’ and don’t look down on non millionaires under 6’2, neither does any other gym girl I know. We just here trying to get yoked can you chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:56 PM |
| 8 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?She’s literally just going to the gym to work out, weight training is especially important for women maintaining their bone density | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:53 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Y’all shoot eachother instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:52 PM |
| 5 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?Lmao what do you want them to wear to the gym then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:51 PM |
| 7 | Jonah hills situation shows the hypocrisy of society, 'communication' only matters when it benefits one partHer job is a surfing instructor and one of his “boundaries” was that she couldn’t surf with men. How is that cheating or trying to corner him into an open relationship? It’s a sport and her job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Lauren Sanchez proves that having strong , amoral girl-game is more effective at getting a HVM than being demure and submissiveWhat would you bring to the table for a wholesome, solid girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 02:03 PM |
| -1 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionRight so those 14 women weren’t attacked because you say so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionhttps://www.mic.com/articles/135394/14-women-were-brutally-attacked-for-rejecting-men-why-arent-we-talking-about-it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itYou’re convoluting waiting to have sex with being entitled. It shows boundaries and self respect, which is only a bad thing for those who benefit from people have none. Why is it a bad thing for me to value myself and expect a man to respect and value me as well? Again, women don’t really care how man interpret their decision not to sleep with them. It’s fine to say “I don’t want to date XYZ” the issue is when you spew vitriol about whatever it is you don’t want to date. Plenty of men argue why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityMen are far more concerned about women’s sex lives than vice versa. So that’s fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWhy do you care why she’s waiting to have sex? You don’t really get a say in when or why a woman sleeps with someone. Every rational personal agrees you’re free to walk for whatever reason you like. Its interesting bc the same guys who complain women don’t sleep with him are often the same who’ll rip apart any woman with a body count over 5. Pick a battle, because “she can’t sleep with anyone else or have a history of casual sex but has to be willing to sleep with me straightaway or I walk!!” Gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:49 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo idea ahaha, not really something you can get away with lying about long term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsI’m not his ex lol chill You’re so averse to the idea men can do any wrong you’re defending someone who is openly talking about how shitty he was to his ex. And you wonder why women don’t like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsWe love victim blaming ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLet’s say 2x on average at least? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 07:01 PM |
| 0 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsHe literally admitted to acting like he was superior to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:51 PM |
| -1 | Casual sex is easy for men not because of standards, but because men are sexually stimulated purely by looks, and for women its a complex mix of thingsNobody’s denying that women care about looks, but most men here will agree that looks are a far bigger factor for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:49 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOut of interest what percentage of men vs women go to the gym? Someone’s claimed that only 2% of men go to the gym but I can’t really find reputable stats on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Is the Nice Guy misunderstood or am I projecting?Vast majority of self proclaimed nice guys aren’t all that nice. The actual nice men I know never refer to themselves as one, they just act like one. The ‘nice guy’ trope refers to men who think that acting like a normal, decent human makes them entitled to sex, and then they get nasty when they don’t get it. Actually being nice doesn’t have an ulterior motive. Sounds like you just had bad luck with women, it wasn’t because you were nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:44 PM |
| 10 | Women are entitled to make men wait for sex, but men are entitled to rule her out because of itWhy would I sleep with someone who’s given no indication he cares about anything other than sleeping with me? Sorry for having self respect ig. Btw you’re well within your right to ditch someone for not sleeping with you, like others said the main objective of women who wait is to weed out men who only want sex. You’re doing her a favour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?Where did I say it wasn’t? I’m just making the point about why imprisoning mothers for not getting jobs is ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Should a man be required to support an ex-wife for the rest of his life?If there are young children and she’s a single mother it could be difficult for her to have a job. Also, if she’s been out of the job market for over a decade it’s going to be much harder for her to simply land a job and therefore extremely unfair and cruel to have jail time as a consequence of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 10:52 PM |
| 9 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsSounds like she had some self esteem issues, possibly exacerbated by dating someone who acted superior to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:43 PM |
| -1 | Men shouldn't show their emotions to womenIt depends what you mean exactly by showing emotion. My ex’s way of “expressing himself” was by shouting, throwing things, crying and threatening to unalive himself because of me. Anger is very much an emotion and I don’t understand why it’s not recognised as such. And then said I was a typical woman not accepting that men have emotions when I ended it. My current bf has cried in front of me multiple times and it didn’t make me feel any differently because I’m not a sociopath, if anything it mad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsFor the last time, equal doesn’t mean the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 01:00 PM |
| 8 | Men struggle because they treat women as equalsHow comes she’s an ex then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:22 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPlenty of people seem to manage it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWho on earth will volunteer to do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRegardless of expectations - I’m just saying the average man and woman are compatible. Whether or not they choose to go for eachother is a separate kettle of fish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 11:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSad to live that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSounds like they’re compatible with average men, what’s the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow do you mean you’re generally judgemental of women’s sexual history? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHas anyone ever had a date paid for by a woman or had a woman offer to pay for the date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 10:55 PM |
| 25 | There's a lot of stay at home wife/mom relationships, they just occur under the disguise of the woman having a fun job like a yoga/fitness instructor or running a shop.The former. I work in finance and have worked around plenty of full time working mothers with kids making very healthy salaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 08:04 PM |
| 8 | There's a lot of stay at home wife/mom relationships, they just occur under the disguise of the woman having a fun job like a yoga/fitness instructor or running a shop.How does that change the number of women married to upper class men running fitness studios..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?I’m not advocating for giving up on yourself. I’m just advocating for having less judgement for post pregnancy bodies. Men shouldn’t have children if they can’t accept that their wife’s body may not look the exact same after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?For the most part I agree, I just think it’s also good to consider other nuances. People’s bodies and circumstances are different. For example, if you’re a single mother who has to work straight after giving birth to make ends meet, meal prep and hitting the gym isn’t going to be a priority. If you have a traumatic birth and you’re on bed rest for weeks, again also harder to lose weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 03:01 PM |
| 6 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?Can I ask how old you were when you were pregnant? I’m not saying it’s impossible, genetics play a huge role. For example, I don’t have any stretch marks and my mum has 0 stretch marks after 3 pregnancies. But I’m not going to start saying to women that stretch marks are avoidable. Because that’s just my body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?It be like that sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 02:03 PM |
| 11 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?girl who’s been complaining about 5kg? I almost put on that much weight just during my PMS week and then it drops off after my period 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Mid guys getting very attractive women at church?That’s why communication is the biggest factor in maintaining relationships. If there’s something she’s particularly into, she should express it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 12:11 PM |
| 5 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?How would you go about “constantly convincing her” without making her feel like shit and resenting you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:28 AM |
| 10 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?Most women have a hard time losing all the pregnancy weight. Pregnancy and childbirth permanently alters your body down to its bone structure. Especially if she had a traumatic childbirth and needs to recover, you can’t expect her to be hitting the gym a week later. Also, if she has a C-Section, that cuts through the abdominal wall which ruins core strength so tightening up that area is very difficult. Plus, breast feeding etc makes a lot of women boobs saggier/asymmetric. Maybe don’t have kids … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:26 AM |
| – | What usually happens when you directly ask your partner what his needs are?We just talk to each-other… I know people cringe at love languages but I like them, he’s more about words of affirmation whereas I’m quality time/acts of service (tbh he does all 5 pretty well). I know what means the most to him is being complimented, telling him how much I love him etc. It’s never come naturally to me as I didn’t grow up in a very vocal family, it means a lot to him so I just did it anyway and now I’m happy doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Mid guys getting very attractive women at church?If they’re together and happy with eachother doesn’t sound like it’s that bad. Past is the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:09 AM |
| 4 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?What about if she had your kid and her body looked different after (which it will) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:06 AM |
| 5 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?This is veering off the topic. I think she’s just saying her love is unconditional in the sense it’s not hinged on superficial things like hairline, weight, bank account etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:04 AM |
| 5 | Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs?Maybe it would be better to use her health as a motivator? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:02 AM |
| – | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleMaybe let individuals decide who or what they’re into | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:48 AM |
| – | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleThank you ^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:40 AM |
| – | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleThis is just people who don’t weight train and how hard it is to gain muscle. To be a girl with abs, nice ass and toned arms/legs can be really difficult if you’re not genetically blessed. I’m naturally built like a ruler and it took a year of heavy weight training and force feeding myself protein to get an ass. Bear in mind we naturally hold way more fat than men and have lower metabolisms and testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:39 AM |
| 22 | Women, what do you think of men who have never had a girlfriend?Not much really. Most of dating comes down to luck which is out of our control. I know great people in their mid-late 20s who’ve never been in a relationship and there’s nothing wrong with them they’ve just had poor luck romance wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 08:31 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4M: How do you treat pregnant women/women with small children when you’re out and about? I’ve always given my seat up for pregnant women when I’m on public transport. Or if I see one with small kids I’ll just stand/move seats so they can sit together. It’s no bother for me and they always seem really sweet and grateful. Family members of mine who’ve been pregnant say that it’s typically more often women who’ll do these gestures for them which I found interesting. I saw this TikTok of someone sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeI worry about the reading comprehension level in this sub. I’m not denying that women have more options when it comes to casual sex, I’m saying it is not a privilege in the way men view casual sex as a privilege due to the above reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeYou’re convoluting two things that aren’t connected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeWhy put yourself through that risk for someone you don’t find attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 09:59 AM |
| 6 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeWomen I’ve known who had multiple ONS do it for the validation, not the actual quality of the sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeLike I said, abortion is not freely available everywhere. Even in states where it is legal, it’s expensive, and not all women have the means to afford it. Luckily I live in a country where they’re free because I cannot fathom why abortions cost money forcing women to need child support down the line. I’m a fairly small build but I weight train 4-5x a week, I’m still going to be weaker than an average guy who’s never worked out a day in his life. A lot of girls are into the scrawny Timothee Chala… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeI can discuss something without having any emotional investment in the matter, sorry if you can’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeThis isn’t about me, I’m in a LTR I’m doing just fine 👌🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeThat’s your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeMy brother is gay and says he gets the most attention from ‘straight’ married men on those apps 😅 it does sound rough out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:45 AM |
| 3 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeIf anything, gay men are the most privileged in this respect. They literally have an app to show them the nearest people to them willing to hookup there and then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeA lot of casual sex for women is about validation, which I’ve never understood as most guys will fuck just about anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegePhysical coercion/threat is what I’m referring to so… yeah I’m speaking as a woman who’s had sex with both men and women and has a lot of female friends who agree with my statement. Which is a lot more than what most men on this subreddit can say for themselves. Only a small minority of women are constantly having sex with someone new and regularly having ONS/flings. It’s why so many women will drag out a situationship or recycle exes, because familiarity is safer for them. I don’t agree with do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:36 AM |
| 0 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeHow is it irrelevant? My bf is a top 10% guy so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeRight back at you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you know what it is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4M: What are your thoughts/opinions on stealthing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 10:58 PM |
| 6 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeMaybe I should have been clearer. I’m not disputing that women have more access to casual sex. My issue is referring to this as a “privilege” because like I prefaced - women aren’t men with vaginas. Casual sex is seen as a privilege for men but it’s not as much of a privilege for women due to all the risks/downsides that come with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeare you in a relationship atm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeI think two things can be true at once | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeIt is common, just because you’ve never known it to happen in real life doesn’t change that. The men I’ve known to do it have been perfectly nice men, lots of friends, super friendly and charming, there was no reason to suspect them of it. I mean in my case, I’d been with the guy for a year already and that was the first time he’d done it. Besides, how many women are you actually close enough to they would even tell you about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeKind of a crab in a bucket mentality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeNever said that. The women who do have casual sex choose to overlook these risks and that’s their prerogative but it doesn’t mean they aren’t there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeIt’s easier to be more dangerous and sexually motivated when you don’t have the ramifications women do. Honestly, if none of these factors existed, I probably would have had a blast being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeThis isn’t about the frequency of women having casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:47 PM |
| 6 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeStrangely accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Women’s easy access to casual sex is not a privilegeYou realise that would mean hetero men would also stop having casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadApproaching a drunk girl alone late at night who’s waiting for an Uber and trying to hit on her and then getting shitty when she says no is just harassment, there’s no blurred line there. And catcalling is more than just annoying, myself and other women have experienced it since early/mid teens and it’s more intimidating than anything else. We don’t know if it’s just a passing comment, or if he’s going to follow us and keep demanding our attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:09 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaving sex isn’t essential to survival or like in your other example, keeping your job and/or earning a commission. You don’t have to approach women, that’s your prerogative. Whereas women don’t get a choice in whether or not we get catcalled. I feel like you’re also blurring the lines between being approached and being catcalled/harassed. They are very different things. So if you’re going to make the choice to approach women, accept the fact it may not go the way you want it to rather than lash… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:50 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy point is - men put themselves in the position to get rejected by approaching women, there’s no promised outcome in their favour and they need to make peace with that before approaching, rather than throwing their toys out the pram. Whereas get catcalled just when they’re trying to get somewhere, it’s unavoidable. Im not diminishing mens issues, it’s just an inappropriate comparison to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:00 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you have to draw confidence from demeaning someone else - that’s not confidence it’s just delusion and being an asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 07:58 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t really agree with the analogy because in when it’s a man catcalling a woman, that’s intimidating and demeaning for women who are just trying to get about. Being rejected/ignored is just… life. Nobody forced them to DM girls or cold approach them, that’s on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 12:18 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadVery quick of him managing to do it in front of me in .5 seconds without me realising | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 12:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen a man acts shitty after being rejected it just affirms the idea to the woman that she made the right call rejecting him, I’m not sure how that benefits him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow does that work if they didn’t hit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:58 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou realise if you get into a relationship and it doesn’t work out or go well, you can just leave? You’re not marrying the girl or having a kid with her, don’t deep it. However, you’ve not really mentioned anything you like about her other than the fact she’s super into you. What do you like about her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:34 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMm valid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:27 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:13 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s stopping you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:13 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel like there’s entitled and then there’s this strange throwing your toys out the pram tantrum that I’m seeing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy do guys do this when they get ignored/rejected? My IG is private so i got a DM request a few days ago of a guy I have mutuals with just “cute asf, can I take you out on a date sometime”. I didn’t get the notification and I don’t really check my requests so I just didn’t see it. He just DMd me again with “stuck up b*tch” which took me aback like.. dude I didn’t even see your DM and if you’d done your due diligence you’d know why I wouldn’t say yes anyway 🤡 (I’m in a 3 year relationship) Why d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:01 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot of manosphere podcasters just not living upto what they say.Literally any fresh & fit podcast | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:27 AM |
| 1 | I see a lot of manosphere podcasters just not living upto what they say.This is some good introspection, I think it’s perfectly fair to use critical thinking and take what you need from something like RP and leave the rest. They don’t care about their viewers and give horrible advice. If you treat women the way they tell you to, most of them will see straight through it and not give you the time of day. Women don’t like men who have zero respect or consideration for them, surprisingly. Empowerment doesn’t have to entail tearing someone else down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:20 AM |
| 1 | "Men only think about one thing" is projection from womenMy dad never really told me what an ideal partner looks like he just modelled it for me. Honestly I was spoiled growing up with a dad who even now won’t let me pay a bill at a restaurant unless I give my card to the waiter behind his back. He’s always opened doors and car doors for me, carried my bags, helped me move into my university 300 miles away, I’ve never seen him raise his voice or be nasty to anyone, this is the standard I have for romantic partners (apart from the paying the bills bit,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:17 AM |
| 1 | "Men only think about one thing" is projection from womenI used to work in a team of exclusively men. Whenever we were out and about they would ogle almost every girl that walked past and comment on her body. Despite most of them having girlfriends they would always talk about past flings/experiences with girls and even show me their Instagram. Plus multiple guy friends I have who openly admit they’re horny all the time. If you don’t want us to think this stop telling us this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:08 AM |
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