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Honestly I think the Me too thing is big. It means girls don't want to be approached unless it's by a guy she wants. They also won't do any approaching. And since approaching a girl or being flirty is so risky for a guy now, a lot of guys don't even try
/r/seduction27/05/26 11:14 PM
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I don't think I can give you a proper answer. Maybe it's that wealth inequality means a lot less guys are suitable comparing to before. Maybe it is because girls have unreasonable expectations due to social media. Maybe it is because men are worse than before, maybe due to how society raises them, or maybe due to new technologies that allow cheap porn and dopamine. It could be a mix of all of them, it could be some civilisational cycle, I really don't think there's a proper answer.
/r/seduction27/05/26 10:36 PM
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I mean genZ is having less sex than other generations at the same age, so there IS something going on
/r/seduction27/05/26 10:23 PM
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Bring me with you and you'll stand out for sure
/r/seduction15/04/26 06:53 PM
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Yeah I guess that's what it all boils down to. Just work on yourself and then keep working on yourself and maybe one day it might happen
/r/seduction14/04/26 12:23 PM
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It might depend on other things I guess. I'm 26 now and I'm still with the same issues as when I was a teenager
/r/seduction14/04/26 11:51 AM
13

How can someone change that?
/r/seduction14/04/26 11:16 AM
2

And how do I get confidence?
/r/seduction19/03/26 07:20 AM
1

Authenticity only works when the authentic you isn't a loser
/r/seduction18/03/26 10:44 PM
4

What if I have no masculine traits?
/r/seduction18/03/26 10:40 PM
1

"Hey, I just wanna say I really like your style". "You from around here?"
/r/seduction06/12/25 03:24 PM
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Mohawk obviously
/r/seduction06/12/25 01:08 AM
1

Thank you. This means a lot. I don't know if any of the things I said will work, but I know the only way things can get better is by taking a step and hoping some day it pays off
/r/seduction28/07/25 06:41 PM
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I have no clue. as I am charmless and not even good looking. My advice would be for you to join theater, dancing classes or martial arts, and hope anything there can change you. The idea of martial arts is that if you get good enough to think you'd be ok in a fight, you'd develop some confidence. The idea of dancing is what might sound like a basic gesture that you learned in classes to you, is a huge thing for her because she doesn't have a reference. The idea of theater is that will help you d…
/r/seduction28/07/25 05:47 PM
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Only dudes here I'm afraid
/r/seduction14/07/25 03:09 PM
9

Because it's about power dynamics. You're revealing the other person they have power over you. They are put on a pedestal and they start seeing you as below them. They want a man that's better than they think they are
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:36 AM
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What happened to you sucks. But honestly I kinda pity the girl more. Imagine being so fucked up you would do all this to a guy you didn't have strong feelings with just because you weren't getting what you wanted from the guy you did. And to what end? In the end she still didn't get what she wanted. This is not your fault, it's hers
/r/seduction14/06/25 10:03 PM
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"well I don't mean to brag, but I like to put the milk in before the cereal" "Well some times I cross the road without looking both ways, if that's too much for you I understand"
/r/seduction14/06/25 08:44 PM
2

My issue isn't approaching. My issue is being too boring
/r/seduction30/03/25 06:15 PM
2

Win every time? I wish I could win once!
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:12 PM
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Yeah I'm the lack of self worth one. How do I fix it
/r/seduction15/01/25 02:12 AM
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What do you think is more important?
/r/seduction13/01/25 02:34 AM
3

It doesn't work like that for me and other people, if I'm quiet and alone I'm staying like that, so my only choice is to talk to others. But why it works? In a relationship the one with the most power is the one who needs the other the least. You've shown that you want them less than they want you so it means you've got power over them.
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:06 AM
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How do I flirt? The concept is very alien to me
/r/seduction21/09/24 02:01 PM
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How do I flirt? The concept is very alien to me
/r/seduction21/09/24 02:01 PM
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Because I'm not extroverted, hot and confident. Every time I approach, even if it lasts some time, it always ends up in this scenario where the women find me ok as a person, but not someone they're interested in. And honestly this shit got me so tired I don't even want to talk to them anymore
/r/seduction04/08/24 09:31 PM
1

You can do the same thing 100 times and have it not work. Books can definitely explain or make you think of things you haven't before
/r/seduction11/07/24 09:08 PM
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Doesn't matter. I just need to make money rn. I will think about girls whenever I'm not thinking on how to cover rent
/r/seduction28/06/24 03:29 PM
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Well, you had a life before you get a woman, and you will still have a life after you get one. You won't be a changed super productive man just because you get a girl. So the best you can do is become what you want to be without her.
/r/seduction12/06/24 02:12 PM
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Seems like there is some chicken and egg scenario here. Man is sad because he gets no girls, and he gets no girls because he is sad. There's really just one solution here, just try to somehow become happy without women in your life.
/r/seduction12/06/24 02:04 PM
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One thing having preferences but still wanting a place for everyone. Another thing is the completely selfish disregard for anyone not immediately useful. I may see other dudes as competition, but I don't wish for them to stop existing
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:49 AM
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I don't want to. But when they start acting like they want the common man to stop existing, I do.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 01:39 AM
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Eh. I have strong hair genetics and I'm still getting nothing, so as far as I'm concerned it's not the everything
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 11:17 PM
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Well, one of the rules of power was to make something hard look effortless. It shows competence. However, I disagree with the whole idea of this post. People will find big muscles impressive regardless of gym or steroids. And besides, even if you aren't a genetic freak. Grinding on the gym or having a hobby will still leave you better than doing none of these things. Don't let the prodigies discourage you. You may not do some of the things they do, but you can still carve out your own path and m…
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 10:24 PM
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I think there used to be a time when if a girl didn't like you, you were seen as a bottom class loser. Nowadays, that's the normal human experiences. Seriously, don't beat yourself up over it. You might have to talk to 50 girls before you find one that's actually into you. You're not undateable, it's just how it is now
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 10:41 PM
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If you don't ask, you get a no If you do ask, you will still get a no, but you might get a yes, and you don't have to regret it afterwards. I'd say it's worth it just to get you to move on to the next one
/r/seduction13/09/23 04:57 PM
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Doing everything wrong here. No social life, lots of issues, I speak to people now as if I'm speaking to Google and it just keeps getting worse. I wonder how I'm ever going out of this rut
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:47 AM
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This is the kind of shit that made me stop being the nice guy
/r/TheRedPill07/02/21 04:35 PM
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Some guys can't understand the iois, and if I only approached girls who show me iois I'd never approach. Approach and spit game until it works
/r/seduction26/12/20 07:12 PM
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It's funny how she's alright being slutty. Until it's with you.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:08 PM
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Some questions. Do you interrupt your conversation with a person to talk to other people? Do you go out of your way to talk to people? Or only those near you. Is there a point in talking to people you want to know or out of your age group
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:53 AM
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As someone who never had a girlfriend, rejected is what I expect the standard answer to be. Perhaps one day, after all the planets align, I'll get a yes. What I mean is, if all you expect is rejection, and you go there and she rejects you, nothing really changed right?
/r/seduction21/07/20 09:24 PM
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So how do I start How does it work during quarantine?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:27 AM
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Yeah I know the situation right now is pretty bad, but there's still people making friends and getting pussy, so there shouldn't be a reason for me to just stay in place and not grow in any way
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:24 AM
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I'm not in university right now, I'm at summer break. As for frats, we don't have that here... We do have some sports clubs
/r/askTRP17/07/20 11:50 PM
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Even if it is the fault of the woman for thinking like this, it's still the fault of the man for not having that in consideration i think cold approaching is fine, but she expected something else
/r/seduction26/06/20 10:21 AM
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Alright, I know he has a bunch of good videos, it's not game strictly speaking, but it's very useful overall
/r/seduction24/03/20 11:48 PM
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The purpose of this post is not to say "don't think about women, focus on yourself", it's "keep your boundaries, and don't let women push you around, not for sex, or promise of sex, or hope of sex". I almost mistunderstood it
/r/seduction24/03/20 05:02 PM
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It makes me want to become a Chad and fuck her till I'm done, then go to the next
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:31 PM
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Wow nihilism at this time of the day? My advice would be that you are good enough to approach that women, and it's fun to do that. And she finds it fun too. But also to sorround yourself better
/r/seduction10/03/20 06:48 PM
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Not one in the US
/r/seduction26/01/20 06:45 PM
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In the places I went to the bars are there to sell the drinks, but the actual people are outside and you can talk in that environment. Figure out the environment of the place you go to
/r/seduction15/01/20 09:04 PM
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Before I did this, I was thinking on "what kind of loser would go out alone?". After I tried it, I feel like going out with a group is overrated. But why don't you give it a try, if it doesn't work you don't do it again
/r/seduction13/01/20 01:47 PM
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They're the ones who need help here the most. It's like complaining the hospital is full of sick people
/r/seduction13/01/20 12:36 PM
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There's a person above who said concerts are even better than bars. Absolutely go, don't even think twice. You'll see that being alone will bring you more varied opportunities than being in a group. I know going alone sounds intimidating at first but it's extremely rewarding
/r/seduction13/01/20 12:15 AM
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You can go to a bar and not drink. It's simply a great setting to meet new people, that's what you tell people, and they will not disagree. Hell, my roommate told me his mom never drank. She would go out with her friends at night but she'd order juice. You can do the same
/r/seduction12/01/20 09:53 PM
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Very rarely I find girls who aren't accompanied by anyone. I think the best sets would be groups of girls and groups with more girls than guys But don't let that stop you, you can do it anyway
/r/seduction12/01/20 09:48 PM
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I've heard from a lot of people that I'm not ugly. But I'm not carried by looks either. My biggest setbacks would be in the realm of inexperience and lacking the belief that I could get a girl
/r/seduction12/01/20 09:03 PM
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I'm from Portugal But that shouldn't matter much. Girls are still girls
/r/seduction12/01/20 08:32 PM
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If you're still thinking about it, don't. In my experience, going out alone feels so much more liberating, and the experiences you can catch yourself in are so much more diverse. But be careful because the lows can be super low if you let yourself alone. I know that approaching is hard af. Could have done many more than the ones I did, and I want to correct that next time I go out. Here's some tips: Think of the sense of accomplishment you'll feel by approaching, and it doesn't matter if it's ba…
/r/seduction12/01/20 06:07 PM
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Girls don't lie. Look at her body language
/r/TheRedPill12/01/20 10:17 AM
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You mean you actually expect to get the girl? Honestly, I expect the rejection. If getting someone was easy I'd have gotten by now.
/r/seduction10/01/20 08:21 PM
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I'll add myself to the line
/r/seduction30/12/19 11:21 AM
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Just be lazy
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:28 PM
1

Rule I heard is "If you feel like kissing her, you should've 5 minutes ago" Just say "close your eyes", if she resists say "trust me, it's nothing wrong" if she keeps resisting then it's not time yet if she closes her eyes, grab her face and kiss her Don't do it quickly, you must make her understand what you're trying to do and give her the choice of rejecting you
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:25 PM
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Black guys are so fucking natural at this I never met one black guy who struggled with game It's a blessing
/r/seduction02/09/19 10:41 PM
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Just open with "Hey, you look interesting and I wanted to meet you" After that, make observations about her. "You look like a Harry Potter fan, with those glasses", "I like your long hair, long hair on girls makes them look sexy and elegant", "you have a lovely smile"
/r/seduction14/07/19 01:39 PM
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Dark souls isn't that hard There's a lot of tools at your disposal and you can make do with anything that isn't a broken blade The biggest problem is adapting to it. It was the controls that made it hard. When I kept failing in demons souls I wasn't made that the game was hard, I wanted to practice the controls more, get some muscle memory in. So it is like seduction. You have a lot of ways to do it but you'll only see them after you push through the first ones
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:12 AM
1

While looks are definitely important, there's much more to it than that With men, attraction is 80% looks and 20% personality. With women it's the opposite. That means you have 80% you can change for the better, and of those 80%, how much of it are you using in your favor? You may not have had the best start, but there's enough you can do to make up for it
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:06 AM
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