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Sorry if this is personal but just for perspective, why did you leave her if things were great originally? And why haven’t you reached out since then if all the other dates aren’t as great? Appreciate you sharing!
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/25 02:30 AM
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Understandable, I think hes also dated a lot and doesn't have any issues finding a new option but I was more curious if you formed an emotional connection with someone and ended it prematurely. Very niche situation and I could just be delusional, who knows. Genuinely was just curious and appreciate your perspective :)
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 07:28 PM
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Can I ask why if your connection with her was significant? What made you even reconsider for a second? Appreciate any insight!
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 07:14 PM
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Totally hear what you're saying and maybe this is me being in denial but he kept telling me I was the first post divorce he traveled with, first person post divorce he opened up to at this capacity, and I just can't help but think it was significant. But he did use your wording that if we continued this that down the line this would have just caused us both even more anxiety, which makes me think that I'm not "the one"... I think that during our time together I wasn't considerate enough about hi…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 06:41 PM
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Hi OP u/DivorcedConfused I know that this post was four years ago but by any chance could you give me any insight on my post? https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1n6o94a/divorced_folks_what_made_you_ready_to_commit/ It sounds like my ex can relate to what you're saying, that he really liked me but is scared of commitment...He said he hasn't opened up or traveled with anyone since his ex wife, and I feel like what we have was special. Even when ending things, he said that he didn't want…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 06:03 PM
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He mentioned the same thing, his previous relationships before me lasted only a few dates...My relationship with him was three months...He vocalized the fear of commitment but he said he's gone further with me than any other previous 'situationships' (we became exclusive even though it was just for two weeks) I just can't help but believe that he will regret leaving but you're right he also vocalized to me that his divorce really scarred him and that he's not happy with himself yet... Can I ask,…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 05:49 PM
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Hi u/Sam_N_Emmy thank you so much for taking the time to respond and for sharing your story. My ex used the same phrasing, that his ex wife destroyed his "sense of self" before they separated. Out of curiosity, if you don't mind sharing, were you dating other women before you met your current partner? Did you ever say that you weren't ready for a commitment and regretted it because you realized you acted out of fear but you actually really liked the individual? I don't want to speak for my ex bu…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/25 05:16 PM
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