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| 2 | Self improvement experts here please! for helpWhat you doing is not really want this. But if you want to be like one of us stop giving excuses not even for game. But for anything in life. Its very simple if you have confidence rest will come neutrally, with practice and with good guidance. Stop thinking too much. Set a goal that you going to approach 10 girls this week and after 30-40 approach you will see the difference. If there is any doubts and question feel free to PM me. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 04:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 2 approaches but no numbersI can answer quick questions only. I do online coaching every day and you can buy if you would like to get better fast. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 04:43 PM |
| 1 | A very bro-sciency hypothesis about evolutionary psychologyI am not saying that he is right but it good to choose right target to get laid very fast. If you know that she is alone it's very easy to get laid. So choosing a girl who is not with man or with someone who is weaker than you is a advantage for you. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 02:27 PM |
| -3 | Tinder 1st Date?You doing good. Do not play game on phone. Its also wise not to discuss your life our the phone becoz what you guys going to talk on your date. I have 4 year experience in coaching and field and this is the 1st time i came across a guy who is playing good. You don't have to confirm abt the date. Becoz it will make her think that you have doubts abt it. You are going good. Go quite over texts unless she texts first. If there is any question or doubts feel free to PM me. Philosopher. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 02:10 PM |
| -2 | [FR] 2 approaches but no numbersdo not ask no permission Don't Ask if you can sit with her or not, you need little more confidence and have to play more direct game. You don't need permission. Be a leader. 2nd, when you approach a girl directly you should generate more energy in the environment. Make her think that she really want to give her no to you. Your approach are very cold. Try to connect with them emotionally. Create sexual environment. You should use some neg also. Something like "your hair as same as my cat but she … | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 01:52 PM |
| 2 | [Advice]Almost had sex with my band´s singer, now what?Be as normal as you everyday don't have to change anything. You should use some kino and try to create sexually environment. If there is any question or doubts feel free to PM me. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Best books on pickup/seduction/psychology?This is My Bookshelf:- The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature / Matt Ridley . Peoplewatching / Desmond Morris. For Practice:- Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion / Robert Cialdini. The Relationship Cure / John Gottman. Social Intelligence: The New Science of Human Relationships / Daniel Goleman. Primal Leadership: Learning to Lead with Emotional Intelligence / Daniel Goleman, Richard E. Boyatzis, and Annie McKee. Mental Health:- Writing to Heal/ James Pennebaker. Making a Good … | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Best books on pickup/seduction/psychology?They are really good and i think you don't know how to use it!! | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 10:24 AM |
| 1 | How to approach girls.Approaching girls is not a big deal, you can create such a environment where girls not going to reject you. It can be a short term way and long term. Approaching is not big deal at all. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Best books on pickup/seduction/psychology?48 law of power and The Art of Seduction from Robert Greene. I suggest you to not to download the PDF but buy the hard copy. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Is this common?She danced with you, gave you the kiss! It doesn't matter if she has it or not mate. You should have asked her mobile no. atleast. You did something wrong i am sure. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Best books on pickup/seduction/psychology?http://www.confidentup.com/ there is lots of article and advanced guide on this site with info-graphic. Should follow this site. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 09:04 AM |
| -1 | Advanced Guide How to Pick Up Girls at a ClubIts not about the money mate. It's all about the behavior and status. Status matters a lot and everyone like the leader(DJ, VIP) so using that profile is a really great way to pick up girls. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 08:55 AM |
| 1 | How to escalateyou have to create a sexual environment so she will be ready and can understand what you want. Use kino and tree sec eye rule. If you didn't create sexual environment you will be in "FriendZone" Bro. If there is any question or doubts feel free to PM me. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 01:46 PM |
| 3 | One of the best reads I had on attraction (The Comprehensive Guide to Attraction)Thanks for sharing mate!! | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 11:44 AM |
| 1 | One of the best reads I had on attraction (The Comprehensive Guide to Attraction)Copied From the attraction forums. | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 07:27 AM |
| 1 | I thought I fucked up.Bro i think you are not aware with the language of game it's not the bad word. I was shocked that what you replied to me becoz what i was trying to help you. Instead of thank you i get very angry and msg. But its okk. We cool? | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 02:19 AM |
| -5 | I thought I fucked up.Mate sorry if i hurtz your feelings i was just trying to help you. Didn't mean to hurt your feelings. You post here and ask for the opinion. so i just write what i think will be good for you. If you think that its not good then you wise enough to not to apply that. Its just i have 4 yrs experience in the field and dating coach. So just trying to help bro. Never mind. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 04:27 PM |
| 4 | I am pretty much completely invisible/disgusting to women. How to fix that?You have to change the way you think about yourself. No body cares about you, everybody care about about himself/herself, how they look howz everybody thinking about their clothes like you thinks. So change the way you think about yourself. If you not giving value to yourself then how can any girl can give you. If there is any doubt or question feel free to PM me. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 04:15 PM |
| 2 | First cyber one night stand?Thanks Mate. | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 12:03 PM |
| 5 | First cyber one night stand?Stop talking to her too much and ask for the date this is the perfect timing. But if you doing (talking, sexting, and exchanging nudes) it for long time everything will became boring and she will start ignoring you. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Lessons learned"I have learned and grown a ton in these past few months, though. I realize how important it is to just go for it. Getting the answer you don't want to hear is better than not getting an answer and having that decision not to act tear you apart. " Proud of you mate. (Y) | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 08:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Day 2, didn't go so wellEnjoy !! If there is any doubts or question PM me. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Stop gaming and just focus on yourself? Good or bad idea?It's depend on what you want from your life. Everyone have its own definition of success. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 07:40 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce older women (45+)?All you have to create your value in their mind. All you have to do is play with confidence. Be friend with the the target's friend. Make them believe that she is secure with you. Create sexual environment. If there is any doubts PM me. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 07:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Field report, need pointersBe in Starbucks waiting for a friend, phone in hand. HB8 walks in, nice legs. As she stands at register, waiting for drink, for some reason i didn't give a fuck. She looked at me. I walked towards her, looked her in the eye, EYED her up and down in a VERY obvious way, she STARED at me, wideyed like I was about to mug her. But after that everything was so cold. But you will improve it if you approach girls continually. You should have asked for phone no. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 07:13 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Day 2, didn't go so wellYou doing great that approaching girls which will improve your game for sure. Start learning from your mistake. When you approaches girls make sure you emotionally connected to them. For example something like hi i like your hair they are as same as my cat but she is dead now. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 07:07 AM |
| -14 | I thought I fucked up.You investing in her too much mate !! | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 06:55 AM |
| 1 | I met a girl on Monday. I want to have sex with her on Saturday (Five days after).Stop sending msg to her it will not going to help you. It will became boring. But if you can create a sexual environment with her then its good. | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Go talk to an old personThanks Mate !! | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 03:01 AM |
| -1 | Go talk to an old personYes!! May be that's how it can help. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 04:09 PM |
| -7 | Go talk to an old personIt can be good for stater. But i don't think it can do any great in the game. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How To Turn On a Woman Super FastIts not the article mate. I am good with game when i am in game. But i am writing articles, its not my thing i am struggling with my writing skillls. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Should I just take a break from pickup, do self development for now?You dont have to send them continuously msg if you want to get through stop being needy and send 5-6 msg only and not even everyday. Make them feel that your life is so interesting and you have lots of stuff to do and you busy guy. Be mysterious. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 03:41 PM |
| -9 | Go talk to an old personMate it can help you to get some confidence but it's not going to help you with girls. When you talk to old person you don't want anything from them but when you go to girls, they know that you want pussy and then everything change. philosopher | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | If women love rich men, then I suggest we shutdown this subreddit and all work towards being rich.They dont love rich men. Its the confidence they have and girls feel secure with them. They are (Rich peoples) socially active most of the time. So its not the money but the other things which even homeless guy can have and get the girls. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 03:23 PM |
| 1 | The Insider Guide Of How To Attract Girls In Collegethanks for the feedback. I am working on user experience also. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 11:40 AM |
| 3 | HELP: I have a short time to improve my conversation skills.It doesn't matter what you talking about as long as you are confident. It will be great and also escape you from friendzone if you create sexual environment. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Bartender into me?I am Sure if you are regular customer then she will give you the no. Enjoy !! Philosopher | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Should I just take a break from pickup, do self development for now?Stop spending money until you get some money in your pocket, go for online dating or facebook so you can still be in the game on the mean time learn from others. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Bartender into me?Mate ask her for the no. | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Need your help.Stop being needy 1st there is lots of girls out there. You can get as many as you want. What if i tell you that approach atleast 10 girl this week and you will get one of them for sure!! About her, let her invest in you. Stop giving her " Satisfaction ". Be busy with your own stuff and let her think that you don't care about her, you can get lots of girls, but what see did to you she lost you and that is very big loss for her. Be mysterious and be passionate. Do what you like girls love passiona… | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:36 PM |
| 2 | How To Turn On a Woman Super FastGuys if you are not agree with this article then read it 1st and then have the conversation you don't have to use abusive language. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:17 PM |
| 1 | AA Problem processBe player (y) | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:14 PM |
| -1 | I'm autistic, which means I can't read body language second nature. When I approach a girl and begin the process, what are some body language signs that I should look for, good and bad?Mate srry if you didn't like my answer but i'm sure you will help him. Thanks Philosopher | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 10:33 AM |
| 1 | AA Problem processThat was good you connected with her emotionally "I almost got hit". If you approach some one make sure you connected to her emotionally. Gud Job Mate. Let me know about the no. it is fake or not. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 06:29 AM |
| -2 | I'm autistic, which means I can't read body language second nature. When I approach a girl and begin the process, what are some body language signs that I should look for, good and bad?After a while it will come naturally. All you have to do is fix your goal like "i am going to approaches 20 girls this week". Don't stop if you fail. That's what make you different from others don't stop until you get, what you want. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Should I keep an online presence with women I want to date in the near future?The thing about texting (Mobile or FB) it will get boring after a while. So texting is all about keep in update like where you meeting her, Like i am going to Sam party come over will be great fun. But if you can create sexually environment then it will be something better then just talking every min. Keep your text short and flirty... I suggest you to not to text her too much. If there is any question or doubt feel free to PM. Philosopher | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 06:09 AM |
| 5 | How To Deal With Panic Attacks Around Pretty GirlsLol I think this will improve with practice time and consistency man. If you want to train your thoughts by repeating.. " I am cool, calm, and collective when speaking with women" - 100,000x over the next month feel free. It will help. Thoughts become words, words become actions, actions become habits, habits become character, and character becomes destiny. However, if you just keep on getting out there, you will see this problem fade away slowly, but surely. | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Improved my game using a game, surprisingly.Yes you can increase your confidence through more practice. 10 approaches everyday!! | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 10:07 AM |
| -1 | First date! Ever...I can smell lack of confidence here. You should read the basic.. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 09:47 AM |
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