| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | You can't earn a person’s affection through performing unrequested actions and then getting upset when they don’t give you what you want.Do you need any favors? | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Dating post mortems. Have you ever asked a girl what went wrong?THANKS! This rings so true to me. I really agree with what youre saying. I think I will try to tie up some loose ends | /r/seduction | 04/11/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | How to recover the situation if you think you said/texted something you shouldnt have?copy that. Good luck lads and lasses. | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 04:56 AM |
| 3 | How to recover the situation if you think you said/texted something you shouldnt have?Thats what I was thinking. Thanks bro. I wonder what female readers of this sub have to say on the matter? | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 02:51 AM |
| 5 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!probably just a mindfulness meditation. Observing your own thoughts without judgement | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!I know what youre getting at, and yeah I think self worth and confidence are just the other side of the coin? | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!You dont? lol I mean, it used to be a lot worse for me. I used to drink a little to calm my nerves. Im a lot better about it these days. But yeah, dates can certainly be anxiety provoking. As are tests and job interviews | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Meditating before AND after going out = game changer!!This is a great write up and I understand the concepts. I dont usually have that kind of time though... | /r/seduction | 18/10/20 03:35 AM |
| -12 | Question about usa womans behaviour(did i red pilled myself against them?)I dont consider myself red pilled. I joined this sub on a whim, but I know what you mean about princesses. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/20 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Help! I need a one-itis intervention... on myselfI dont remember. Well, I was just browsing instagram and looking at IG accounts from various other countries, not looking to talk to anybody. this girl just jumped out at me. I was really grabbed by her artistic and poetic style. she captions all her photography with original poetry. Not that many followers. Nearly no other dudes We share poetry and photography with each other all the time. She loves it when i read to her. The firts thing I ever said to her was "Im going to marry you!" And she s… | /r/seduction | 24/09/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | My no-tomfoolery flowchart for day-game openingThanks for this! This is really cool | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Rejection.Its safe, and comforting to assume there could be many reasons she said no. Who knows. She could be lesbian or going through a lot. | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | I need encouragement to keep using apps. I run out of will to swipeDamn. TRuth | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | I need encouragement to keep using apps. I run out of will to swipeThanks. This is some good advice | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 04:55 PM |
| 1 | I(22F) can banter and chat with guys I don’t like but not with a crushI do the same thing. I think the trick is to imagine you don't like tham | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 04:19 AM |
| 1 | How to handle various rejections like a gentleman?Im sorry, bro. I actually dont blame you. I understand the unmarried bachelors and single uncles, etc. I dont know whats come over me thjough. I dont masterbate anymore. I gave up on even that. I'm an involunbtary no fapper. An INfap | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 09:47 AM |
| 1 | How to handle various rejections like a gentleman?Its TRUE. I suffered for many years thinking all girls and women were perfect angels and I was unworthy. Yeah, it was unhealthy and I had to learn several times over that it was FALSE. | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 09:45 AM |
| 1 | How to handle various rejections like a gentleman?Yeah, this! Maybe this would feel better | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 09:44 AM |
| 1 | How to handle various rejections like a gentleman?Yeah, thats what I did, thankfully. | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How to handle various rejections like a gentleman?Thanks man. What I needed to hear | /r/seduction | 07/06/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Do NOT waste time getting girls on social mediaI made a genuine connection with a girl in a dif country. But we both know there is no point getting invested in something that is not going to happen. Its sad. | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 08:12 AM |
| 3 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.I am struggling with all this, too. Finding a partner seems a lot like finding a job. We have to polish ourselves up and even bend the truth a little to stand out. And it doesnt feel right to me. I think I know that I will have a greater satisfaction in life if I go through the trouble for the optional goal of finding a partner I genuinely am attracted to. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Can you actually "win someone over"? Literal seduction?Are you telling me the movies lied to me? | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | "I'm tired of being the quiet person that seems to have no personality."Real talk. Thanks, I needed to read this | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Can you actually "win someone over"? Literal seduction?Damn. Thanks for the advice. Where do I start? Do you remember the names of any specific Canadian Keys to VIP show? I would really like to see somebody pull that off. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Can you actually "win someone over"? Literal seduction?I'm doing okay. I know I could improve. I have battled depression and lack of confidence with some social stuff. I just think too much. I am on track to an education and career. I'm healthy. But I'm lonely. I can be engaged in my stuff all day, but at the end of the day, the loneliness is always there waiting. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best.This is all very true, and I remember what it felt like to have the reigns. You two already had something going on though | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Can you actually "win someone over"? Literal seduction?Thanks fro the reply. This advice seems more suitable for someone trying to win somebody back maybe? I've been there! That sucks, too. I was pretty young. Its amazing how warped and fixated the mind can be once the diabolic magic has been let out of the bag. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Can you actually "win someone over"? Literal seduction?Hmm. I think I have a twisted idea of what positive attention is supposed to feel like. I think I try to "mind read" too much. Maybe I just need to start being more overt and direct? | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Can you actually "win someone over"? Literal seduction?This is really insightful. I appreciate it. Bummer. Its common for people, like myself, misread people, who may even be attracted to you. I think thats the rational I use when "not giving up". This is a very difficult thing. Any thought on that? | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | How do you start tinder conversationsThat is a very good point! | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you start tinder conversationsWhat are the benefits of apps like whatsapp and snapchat? I dont have either of those and they seem like a pain in the butt compared to regular old texting. I'm probably missing out, I know., What are some reasons to get either app? | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Flirting isn't getting someone to like you, it's finding out if someone likes you.Could somebody restate OPs message? I really wanted to read it! | /r/seduction | 28/04/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Flirting isn't getting someone to like you, it's finding out if someone likes you.the OP deleted. I remember I liked what they said, too. What is your experience? What helpful advice did you receive? | /r/seduction | 28/04/20 04:48 PM |
| 3 | How common is it for a date to happen if you already have known the girl for a few months?Thanks, bro! I really appreciate your input. One think I need to work on is diversifying and increasing my option. I sometimes put all my eggs in one or two baskets. I think I might have high standards and could really try other things. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 04:14 AM |
| 3 | How common is it for a date to happen if you already have known the girl for a few months?Thanks, man. I've just been second-guessing myself. Thinking I'm crazy for trying. I have this weird idea that its rude and ridiculous for me to try. (at least with girls i their 20s. Thats bullshit. You only live once. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How is this for a sh*t test: "Arent you too old?"Thanks. Yeah, finding a way to turn it around on them. Like "are you mature enough for me?" | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How is this for a sh*t test: "Arent you too old?"Thanks. I agree with that. I'm trying to come up with some good responses. I think you are on the right track with that one. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 12:25 AM |
| 2 | How common is it for a date to happen if you already have known the girl for a few months?Welp. I think that settles it. Fu*kin-A.I'm wondering if I should just throw caution to the winds and just take the shot. I am in the nothing to lose category. | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 12:23 AM |
| 2 | How common is it for a date to happen if you already have known the girl for a few months?This is such a relief for me to hear. Sometimes I think I'm crazy. Next question: What are some signs she might be open to it? in other words, am I about to ruin a friendship by asking such a thing? | /r/seduction | 22/04/20 05:51 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid "rapid interrogation mode" when I am chatting up a new girl"No, no... where do you live? What's your address?" Really?? That works and doesnt freak people out? | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid "rapid interrogation mode" when I am chatting up a new girlHow about strangers or acquaintances at school? | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid "rapid interrogation mode" when I am chatting up a new girlThanks | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 08:00 PM |
| 5 | How to avoid "rapid interrogation mode" when I am chatting up a new girlThats a real challenge. I just gotta brave the silence and just keep eye contact and smile, right? | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid "rapid interrogation mode" when I am chatting up a new girlI certainly need to work on that. | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 11:36 PM |
| 0 | How to avoid "rapid interrogation mode" when I am chatting up a new girlWhy do you think this works? Is it because they feel challenged a little and want to set you straight? | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 11:01 PM |
| 4 | How to avoid "rapid interrogation mode" when I am chatting up a new girlThanks for the tip. I know being too agreeable is a turn off, too. Could you expand on that? Any other tips? Thanks man | /r/seduction | 25/02/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What is she doing and how do I proceed?Well, I said I would let you guys know what happened. The next time I saw her she avoided eye contact. She blew right past me at the door. She sometimes leaves quickly but I sensed the opposite of attraction. I never hear from her. I senther a message saying sorry if I had offended her with an innocentjoke I had made. I tried to lighten the message by telling her about a new show that I saw and think she would like. the only thing she said to all that was "thanks" No mention whether or not my jo… | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | What is she doing and how do I proceed?What message? lol | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 06:57 AM |
| 1 | What is she doing and how do I proceed?Wow. Thanks! This is on point | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 06:56 AM |
| 1 | What is she doing and how do I proceed?Thanks for the response. I will certainly keep you posted. If she continues to stonewall me, what do you think her reasoning is? And... do you have any seduction tips for this situation? | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Possibly failed date: help me postmortem the experienceThanks, its that kind of things I havent learned yet. Any more tricks for early dating? | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Possibly failed date: help me postmortem the experienceThank! That makes a lot of sense. I think you hit the nail on the head. I guess I just assumed she wouldnt want to go that fast either. Now I wonder if she was low key expecting or hoping for escalation like that. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Possibly failed date: help me postmortem the experiencedisplay higher value I think I know what you mean, but could you give me an example? I think I could do that with some practice | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Possibly failed date: help me postmortem the experienceShould I have expected a kiss? I dont think it is a total loss. I think we might go on another date. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Possibly failed date: help me postmortem the experienceThanks, I plan to not message her until I invite her to an open mic at the end of next week. I think that will be just what the doctor ordered. Do you have any tips on how to not be so serious? lol | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | When A Woman FLAKES: Golden Opportunity To Build ATTRACTIONI'll just send her blank texts and voicemails filled with silence. No, really though, this is good advice. I'm curious, what do the women who have read this post think? | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Just got out of the Friend Zone. Knew I would get rejected. Actually feels strangely good.You don't have to get jealous and bitter if she friendzones you, or throw your heart at her feet and "clear the air". It shows a lack of understanding and empathy. What IS the proper response? | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | The best way to kill your chances with a girl is becoming overly excited about it too quickly. Learn to tame your excitement and stay level-headed. Never psyche yourself out too much too early on.Me too wtf | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How transparent does one need to be from square one?Thanks. I certainly know the pains of "what if"... I ask this because I certainly have female friends. Some I have known for a while and a couple I met recently. I'm just trying to decide if I could/should attempt to date her, and when the cut-off point is. | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Just started talking to a classmate. How can I help spark an interest in her?Great tips! | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Where do you get dates?Metoo or not, I always stick to the old adage: dont shit where you eat/sleep. | /r/seduction | 13/07/19 05:07 PM |
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