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I love this 🙌 wise words man thank you
/r/seduction06/07/20 01:28 AM
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Heck naw
/r/seduction16/04/19 04:50 PM
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This is awesome op . Thank you for sharing.
/r/seduction16/03/19 10:11 PM
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That was funny/entertaining, also my bad i thought you were a spam bot at first. Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:35 AM
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Oh word bro I thought you were just spamming. Thanks I’ll check it out in a minute.
/r/seduction13/03/19 12:41 AM
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Did you read my post though
/r/seduction12/03/19 11:39 PM
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Dude you’re 18. You don’t realize how young that is or how much time you have to grow and develop as a man, and believe me you will if you put in the time and conscious effort. Also, you’re doing great so far, college is the perfect place for social circle game. Just keep being awesome and meet more girls.
/r/seduction23/09/18 03:46 PM
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I actually feel you on on this, not getting results and whatnot for a long period of time you’re just like “meh, I’ll try again later.” I’m on a cold approach break right now vs daygame everyday months ago. Just working on myself and my internal battles has helped a lot, reading the books I wanted to read, going to the gym etc. it feels like I don’t even I have time for a chick. What I’m saying is I’m on my purpose right now, I’m a man on a mission and that’s my true masculine core. Try taking a…
/r/seduction17/09/18 10:39 PM
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Haha I couldn’t help but literally laugh out loud as I read this. Feel like a proud father/brother. Good job man. Motivating too.
/r/seduction17/09/18 10:27 PM
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This is great. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction17/09/18 02:03 PM
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I’m trying to see if these types of allergy tests are valid, I desperately want one cause I’ve had eczema my whole life. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/society/2015/jun/04/bogus-allergy-tests-causing-real-harm-say-experts
/r/seduction12/09/18 08:07 PM
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Alright now how to move out guide
/r/seduction12/09/18 07:52 PM
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Powerful. Is there a good dick guide out there?
/r/seduction12/09/18 06:38 PM
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Why don’t you want her to come over? It doesn’t really matter if it’s rented. Unless you think it does. You could suggest something that would bring you to her place. “You should show me that cool thing you were talking about in your room.” And invite her to kick you out anytime. My question is as a 25 yr old how tf do you rent a room at your age (I’m still with parents, yeah beat that) and how is a girl you’re dating who’s possibly your age owning a home? Lol
/r/seduction12/09/18 06:01 PM
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Me and my football team ran a train on her after every game. That wouldn’t get to you? I don’t know why but if I had that info I would just look at a girl differently, in the same vein I’d be totally fine banging a softball team of chicks. Why is this lol
/r/seduction12/09/18 05:31 PM
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Tell her what dude? You are not the flirtatious friend, but now the flirtatious lover. You need to make a move and at least get a kiss to stave off from the friend zone. Her putting him off to chill with you is a very good sign. Don't wait until something eventually happens, but keep hanging out with her, have fun, and escalate.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:43 PM
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awesome example. Act like it’s not a big deal, have fun with her and her friend.
/r/seduction07/09/18 10:41 PM
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Do you believe you are enough and deserving of love? I ask because I used to subconsciously reject women that were attracted to me and then be super sad they were out of my life.
/r/seduction07/09/18 02:40 AM
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Dude this is a good thing. Next time they go for the cheek kiss, pull them in with a face kiss.
/r/seduction05/09/18 03:57 PM
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Move everything to real life, face to face convos etc. I don’t believe there is room for true intimacy and connection through the exchange of texts, also I’m one of those people that give one word replies and whatnot cause I’m genuinely busy. If it’s a friend I haven’t talked to in a while I’ll use Facebook messenger to catch up and that’s it
/r/seduction05/09/18 03:54 PM
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You’re overthinking. What’re you gonna do, get smile surgery or some shit? Either smile less (lol) or embrace your smile. Stop worrying about something so minuscule.
/r/seduction05/09/18 03:47 PM
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You’re gonna see her again so ask her out in person and set a definite date? It depends, did you even have a conversation with her or was it just the number?
/r/seduction05/09/18 03:45 PM
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I find it so fascinating that sales and seduction are so related to each other. Which area of sales are you in? Also, I used to go in with the frame of "Buy my product! It's the best choice you'll make!" now I'm more on the spectrum of refining my product (my self love and self worth) and leaving it on "take it or leave it."
/r/seduction02/09/18 07:13 PM
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Yo OP disregard what these other dudes are saying. I don’t see how anyone can just look over this post and cherry pick what they didn’t like about it or how they don’t like you as a person - they didn’t receive your message correctly but fuck it your message will reach the right people. It was crucial for me to figure out what a man really is. What you’re talking about is the masculine soul and core of a true man -when you’re in that element none of the bullshit matters. Supreme belief and certa…
/r/seduction28/08/18 10:59 PM
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Good fucking job dude. You did great. Don’t you dare kick yourself, but next time use it as an opportunity to set up a date. “So when are you free to get some Starbucks with me?” Just a suggestion. Keep stepping into that frame man.
/r/seduction28/08/18 10:37 PM
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I bet 99% of people on this subreddit knows that feeling. You’re scared of failure and rejection, what else is new to the human race who crave nothing but comfort and predictability in their lives? It’s easier not to do it. I cringe if someone approaches half heartedly (I’ve been there) or goes do the point of following a chick long after she has rejected him. Other than that I as the observer have respect for someone that does it, not judgement. Just do it man, or live the rest of your life acc…
/r/seduction28/08/18 10:30 PM
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I’m more than happy you’re changing for the better my friend. Quitting porn and getting better is always the way to go..excited to hear more from you in the near future.
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:05 AM
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This lesson is pretty timeless. Unfortunately many will have to go through it to find out these truths. But as long as they find the truth..
/r/seduction20/08/18 10:14 PM
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I came in thinking you were gonna say give up along the lines of seeking validation and fulfillment outside of yourself, for which I’d whole heartedly agree. But your post is half cope half cool. Don’t make girls the center of your life, sweet thats very cool but don’t act like you wouldn’t want a hot/sexy/smart woman in your life! They’re out there.
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:51 PM
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For the past few months I've been hitting daygame hard. Like real hard. Grinding out at the mall for hours, getting seemingly good numbers, having them flake etc. With one success at a day 2. It's great. I've approached women I never thought I could've, I've gained a lot more respect for myself and all that good stuff. And I've reached that point where I'm like "ehh" when a wing invites me out. Cause I just don't give a fuk rn, women are not my priority and though I started daygaming seriously o…
/r/seduction12/06/18 05:08 AM
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From a 24 y/o bro, thanks for sharing. Seriously.
/r/seduction12/06/18 04:49 AM
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The same thing that works for Todd is not gonna work for you. You're not Todd. What if the women you're approaching are actually seeing through the facade you're putting out? I guarantee they smell it. Kudos for having balls. Now as cliche as it sounds, you do have to develop your inner game. Check out James Marshall and TNL, who preaches that every approach you do is the only approach. Be present in that moment and genuine. Good luck man.
/r/seduction12/06/18 04:41 AM
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I'm the opposite right now. Nightgame is so much damn stimulus for me, daygame is my zone. I can get numbers but have yet to get a real day 2 (been at it since march) Find some dudes better than you that can give you brutal honest feedback.
/r/seduction17/05/18 06:37 AM
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Good stuff. And if you don't reward her, you lose her.
/r/seduction09/05/18 03:28 PM
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A big part of life and growing up is letting go of the bullshit that stopped you in the past. Strip the layers and the masks you're wearing, be willing to explore what new parts of yourself there are. You think it's a big deal to be a 21 year old virgin? lol. It's not. Take the pressure of yourself to live up to a certain societal standard. But put pressure on yourself to make the changes needed to live the life you want to live. Stop being ashamed of yourself and your experience and your sexual…
/r/seduction09/05/18 03:22 PM
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"Why not?" -smirk- or anything more direct and honest. Get some new friends.
/r/seduction09/05/18 03:07 PM
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I agree man. Live guilt free. You know what's right from wrong. And yeah #4 really is important. If I had lived my truth, I would've left my job months ago instead of waiting longer. I would've approached this girl I had felt a strong instinctual attraction for. I would've said no to events and things I didn't want to do but ended up going to or doing anyways, wasting time cause my friends were going. #4 encompasses everything. Stay true to yourself and you will save yourself a lot of unhappines…
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:45 PM
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Yep just set up the date. Good luck man.
/r/seduction06/05/18 11:40 PM
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I know it's scary. You know what's scarier? Being on your death bed wishing you went for it 50 years ago. "Ah gee, I wonder where she is now." I want to reach into my computer screen and grab you by the collar to shake some sense into you. This is your only fucking chance. Suggest that you hang out sometime soon, and get the number. edit: also forget about the age difference and cultural shit, doesn't matter. Now, are you a guywhohasballs or a guywhohasvag?
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:30 PM
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I was dumb as fuk at 18. I'm 24 now. I thought I knew what I was doing back then, now I'm like wtf is life. So yeah, you may have it all figured out or you may not and that's ok. But here's a couple things to keep in mind: Stay on top of your health, never ever take it for granted that you have a body that works. If you don't like your job, quit it. Months ago I felt stuck in a job where I knew I should've left earlier. I felt committed to my boss and other co-workers but I could've gotten furth…
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:19 PM
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Hell yeah, I definitely see where I've been trying to make up for the lack in certain areas of my life in my convos. For example I'm 24 and still at home, I usually tell people that and then say "but I'm trying to move out." Need to be good with where I'm at.
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:57 PM
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I have no argument against that, being miserable and broken hearted made me take massive action. But I mean in a spiritual sense, we are valuable already. But that doesn't mean we can't strive to be greater than we already are
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:53 PM
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I think there's a time and place to be indirect such as work or the classroom, but I suggested it to you because it's so much easier to justify going up to a stranger. Direct honest game is where it's at imo. If you can genuinely express to a woman you're interested in her, and if it's truly genuine, attraction is enhanced. But to answer your uncertainty, alot of guys go indirect to direct. "Hey do you know where ______ is? Oh thanks, but yeah anyways I already knew that, I just thought you were…
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:36 AM
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I think we also need to understand that we are already valuable. It is our divine right to be happy, that's our normal "state." We are valuable because we exist, with a billion to one chance of being born or whatever, it is us. This of course doesn't mean we'll get by, by doing nothing. But it's a good place to start assessing your value.
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:27 AM
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Reading this post makes me want to get into sales so bad. Anyway, pickup or whatever you want to call meeting women will have a very real correlation to sales. Objections and closing. Obviously you need to learn how to open first. But let me tell you about me, I'm also a former porn addict, 4-5 months clean now, stopped counting, I was addicted for years since like age 13 (I'm 24 now). So good job man, porn will only make you more anxious. Now next time you see a hot chick, ask her something ind…
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:16 AM
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She may have called you cute, but that wasn't an invite to follow her and her friends into the club. Y'all didn't even have a conversation, you didn't even flirt with her. It's weird dude. Don't follow chicks into the club, you're supposed to lead them. It was very uncalibrated to creepily walk behind chicks you barely said a word to. They were going on with their night. You interfered with your game, the bouncer was a douche but you could've handled it better. Find some friends you can do this …
/r/seduction01/05/18 06:41 AM
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Self fulfilling prophecy
/r/seduction01/05/18 06:24 AM
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If you think he messed with your “karma” like you said, or if you even believe in karma, then you can rest assured that he’ll get what’s coming to him. Bottom line is, fighting a bouncer is not going to increase your game and get you laid. Please find some wings in your city that’ll help you out with talking to chicks, ppl observing you can be immensely valuable. From what I’ve read it seemed socially uncalibrated, maybe even weird to follow those chicks into the club. Did they invite you? Did y…
/r/seduction01/05/18 06:20 AM
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Has anyone here ever tried “why do you deserve a drink?”
/r/seduction01/05/18 05:51 AM
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Tell her what you think, "Hey you seem like a chill person" or "Hey you have a good vibe about you, lets hangout sometime." then get the number.
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:15 PM
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Alright so I didn't read any previous answers but here's my experience: Chicks want sex too. If you ever feel ashamed of your own sexuality and desires, she will feel that. I was once dating a chick for a couple months that was sexy and let me play with her cat. But whenever I thought about sex with her, I thought "Fk. Can't do it. She'd wanna be in a relationship." I basically assumed that she would want one and therefore would not take further sexual escalation. Huge mistake. Huge assumption o…
/r/seduction25/04/18 08:09 PM
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This has happened to me many times, that's why when you discover "game" you can't go back. How long can one fool himself into not meeting the girl he wanted to? At least you're in the know, and you know you can make an impact next time. Many are not open to the idea.
/r/seduction25/04/18 07:50 PM
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I wish I could give you a hug. proud of you.
/r/seduction25/04/18 02:18 AM
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I never thought about it like this. Sent a big block of text earlier, I'll do this next time, thanks op.
/r/seduction25/04/18 02:16 AM
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You can set it up right now while you’re still on her mind.
/r/seduction21/04/18 11:17 PM
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I think you should've set up a date or time to see her next, if thats what you wanted. Try getting her to hangout. Also what kind of companies do you work for?
/r/seduction21/04/18 08:31 PM
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If not for the chase then what do you do it for?
/r/seduction19/04/18 05:01 PM
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Thanks man. This pain from the the girl that ghosted has actually helped.
/r/seduction19/04/18 12:52 AM
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I know that feel too, you think if you say the right thing or try to trigger some sort of emotion it would bring her back running to you but chasing her will only push her away. Yeah I invest more in the girls I actually like to, nothing wrong with that I guess but you gotta balance it out
/r/seduction18/04/18 06:09 PM
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Hey man believe me when I say I feel your pain. Chick ghosted me after 3 months of dating, it was all of a sudden too. The best thing you can do is move on and date other chicks, which would offset the neediness you once felt and help you have a sense of abundance. Which COULD attract her back but you need to treat it like it's done for good. It's been nearly 3 months since I got ghosted and I cut her off social media and whatnot, and I was literally thinking about her as I always do, but this c…
/r/seduction18/04/18 05:49 PM
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Yeah I guess it is huh? This situation is small and won't even matter when I'm 42. Thanks bro.
/r/seduction04/04/18 01:54 AM
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I'm 24. That's kinda old but I guess my relationship/dating skills need maturing lol. She's 19 btw. She was actually super interested and the one chasing at first, but the tables have turned.
/r/seduction04/04/18 01:36 AM
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I don't even entertain the thought of getting back together if the relationship was serious. We were two different people then, two different people now. Would it possible? sure. Likely? Nah.
/r/seduction04/04/18 01:32 AM
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Opposite for me, I suck at the high energy nightgame stuff. Daygame I'm getting better at and I feel like I'm in my zone.
/r/seduction01/04/18 05:35 PM
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+1. Waste of time and I’d rather have less contact with her than create an excuse to contact her (streaks) but to each his own.
/r/seduction31/03/18 03:22 AM
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I'm up for this. Also, maybe we can do a google hangout with numerous dudes from here? Just a thought
/r/seduction18/03/18 05:38 PM
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I've dated a girl that says I wasn't even her type. edit: And it was true, all her past bfs were a certain race. We dated for 1.5 years. Not saying every girl is like this, but from what I've learned attraction breaks all so-called barriers.
/r/seduction18/03/18 12:02 AM
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Maybe she wasn't interested?
/r/seduction17/03/18 11:55 PM
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Maybe she just has it in her head that "Guys always pay. Always." not saying it's right, but if she's stuck on that belief then you're stuck buying everything my friend. But you're getting laid :)
/r/seduction17/03/18 11:52 PM
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Too late ;)
/r/seduction17/03/18 11:41 PM
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Hey you're welcome. I think you should tell yourself that every time you do something outside your comfort zone. Though it would be great to have that one supporter tell it to your face everytime, just to remind you. lol
/r/seduction17/03/18 11:35 PM
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Mrbuttholepoopy, congratulations. You're the f-cking man. You've already won by doing that. Forget about the so-called competition, you had the balls to walk up to her and approach, doesn't matter if you flaked the first few times because you did it anyways. That's all I have for you, you've made Seddit proud and your future offspring will thank you. IDK your next steps, good luck.
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:17 AM
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Gonna go against the grain here but don't take it at face value. She could just be saying that because you mentioned it and doesn't want to seem like "that girl." Either way if you really want to pursue this then assume attraction and you'll know if those "mixed messages" even matter. It's a good sign btw.
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:10 AM
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So what're you looking for? Something serious?
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:39 AM
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What IF she's just saying that because she's been conditioned to be ashamed of wanting sex? Wouldn't seducing her be the respectful thing to do? edit: Also, just want to add that I seriously f'ed up by assuming the chick I was dating wanted a relationship, and in my mind I had made up that I can't go through with sex if she's gonna want something serious. So I didn't smash, and she cut me off. Could've been different.
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:34 AM
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Man that is awesome. I'm happy for you, thank you for the inspiration. I remember approaching this certain girl, drop dead gorgeous without even trying to be, I was nervous af but I made her laugh and she seemed interested, but my success barrier was up so I was like "bye" and left it at that. Never felt more high in my life.
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:32 AM
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I'm just glad a have a dick sometimes. This source of power no matter how physically tiny has the potential to create life.
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:29 AM
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I think I am. I actually feel bad if certain ppl don't check my stuff out. That's just plain unhealthy. I've been logged off all social media for 2 weeks, it's gonna stay that way until I think it would be advantage in expanding my business. Thanks!
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:09 AM
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So you mean stop using social media?
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:48 PM
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I can see that. I think it'd probably help to post interesting things and curate your profile to the point of optimizing reactions/dms, but my profile definitely doesn't fit that right now so maybe it'd help to do more interesting things first then come back and post later.
/r/seduction13/03/18 11:48 PM
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At 23 I felt really stuck too. Worked at a job I hated, I had no direction and was just going through the motion. Fucking sucked. I let it seep into my physiology, my body language, my tonality. My expression was just "Hi, I hate my life and don't know what I'm doing." Now that I'm no longer at that job, I'm 10x happier. It took me a while to figure out I probably let it affect my relationship at the time and led the girl to cutting me out of her life. You live and learn right? Stay true to your…
/r/seduction13/03/18 07:27 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gH0UuVNWap8 After watching this video it took me back to my childhood. I remember my dad refusing to give me a hug when I was like 11-12. I just wanted some affection. And it clicked, I've been feeling unworthy and self sabotaging my relationships because of this and not being aligned with my purpose. Working at a dead end job didn't help when I was seeing this chick that was super successful, made me insecure and jealous even. Poisonous. I feel you my friend, in …
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:59 AM
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I've had a good experience with RSD, took what I found useful and discarded the rest. As how it should be with everything and everyone you learn from. I'm not watching their videos anymore though, too much fluff and talking. What RSD really lacks though, is relationships and the management of these relationships. It's cool to meet and hook up, but then what do when you meet someone you genuinely like and you fuk it up cause you just got to bases 1 and 2, meeting and dating. It's still a nice int…
/r/seduction28/02/18 04:54 AM
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You're overthinking this. Everytime you fail a shit test will be due to overthinking. That trade-off you tried to do was kind of understandable. Ask yourself, why did you ask that and where is it coming from? If I had to guess it'd be from a defensive position, you suggested y'all trade bags so that you could keep yourself from being "used" or "shit-tested," completely understandable. But do you believe a better scenario would be: Girl: "Hey can you carry my bag upstairs?" Answer: "How about I c…
/r/seduction06/06/17 04:01 AM
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If it makes you feel better it might've been best you avoided that approach. Unless you were going for a friendly + cool type of vibe instead of direct, since you will most likely see this girl at this particular gym alot after all. Know the feeling though, let it burn :)
/r/seduction06/06/17 03:19 AM
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Aaaaand you're well on your way to becoming awesome. Or to realizing what you already are. Cliche but when you seek to understand first rather than seek to be understood, people are drawn to you, I don't know why that is. All I know is if it comes from a genuine place, you feel better despite life's bs. You've triggered something in me, g'day sir and best wishes.
/r/seduction06/06/17 03:15 AM
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19 eh? master? I'm skeptical as fuck, with all due respect.
/r/seduction06/06/17 03:12 AM
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This makes me want to be a photographer, lol. Being a cook isn't that great for meeting girls, but hey that's what cold approach is for amirite? Also, escalate! good luck!
/r/seduction24/05/17 09:36 PM
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Hey it's my pleasure, feel free to pm me if you ever need anything. I'm really glad I can share my insight and help a bro out.
/r/seduction24/05/17 09:04 PM
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In time you will find that you are a mix of all things mentioned in RG's TAOS. And that it is not a manual but more of a peek into the human psyche. 48 Laws of Power is a cool book, but it will fuck you up if you take it as absolute gospel. The 50th Law by Robert Greene and 50 Cent is by far one of Robert Greene's best works. Now here's my take on your post: You have been through some things, as all humans have, as all redditors have, as everyone who has ever taken a breath of oxygen has have. A…
/r/seduction23/05/17 08:42 PM
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Bro...I know how you feel right now. Seomdays I wish I got HER contact info, even if she is a continent away (Spain, I'm in TX) but somehow I managed to rationalize saying goodbye, have a nice day and walking off with a smile on my face. It was cool what I did sure, but not as awesome as it would've been if I could still be in touch with her. I'm sorry if this is making you regret not getting the info or something, but it's my personal experience. You've just reminded me, train the brain not to …
/r/seduction22/05/17 05:18 AM
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Just wanted to add to these great answers above/below me, we were all there once. :)
/r/seduction22/05/17 05:11 AM
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I'm real excited. At 23 I feel old and I've been single for a while, need to get back into the game. My plans are to hit up the malls more, sometimes alone sometimes with wings, and just go all out more. I've been having a productive 2017, this summer is gonna be GREAT. Good luck man! :)
/r/seduction22/05/17 05:10 AM
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Next time you know. Believe, I was really hurting when I didn't ask for a number after a chemistry-attraction filled interaction with a beautiful bartender. Like WTF brain, help me out.
/r/seduction21/05/17 04:47 AM
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OP with the ASSISTS! I think this situation is a good time for you to learn how to be better. I'm sure it sucks your friend is kinda stealing these girls, but to be fair it just means you have more potential to grow 10x better. Sure, it'd be nice for him to throw some girls your way but his game sucks too much to "pass the ball". He's the ballhog of game, you're the point guard and point guards always gotta give up some open shots for the team to score. In the end, when it's clutch time, it's yo…
/r/seduction21/05/17 04:41 AM
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