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WHOLESOME CONTENTImaginsanion/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:20 AM
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DISCUSSIONImaginsanion/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:34 PM
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LEVEL UPImaginsanion/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:28 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTImaginsanion/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:03 AM
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DISCUSSIONImaginsanion/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:28 PM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSImaginsanion/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:37 AM
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Think about certain phrases that are commonly used and high fived. "Destroy her pussy" "till she can't walk". Thats all i got atm. Can anyone think of more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:55 AM
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"When the first man, Adam, saw that he was alone, God made for him a woman like himself, from the earth.God called her name Lilith, and brought her to Adam. They immediately began to quarrel. Adam said: “You lie beneath me.” And Lilith said: “You lie beneath me! We are both equal, for both of us are from the earth.” And they would not listen to one another."- https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.myjewishlearning.com/article/lilith-lady-flying-in-darkness/amp/ So lilith grew wings and flew away and g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:37 AM
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I do thank you. And you will too. I just want you to work on loving yourself and letting friendships develop naturally which takes time. And dont let someone convince you into doing stuff you arent comfortable doing either. If they dont respect your boundaries they arent a true friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:43 PM
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Been there. And not one thought was even made for my wellbeing. He knew it was eating me away. But instead of not hurting me, using lube/foreplay as the dr ordered, he pushed me around and literally blamed the wind for blowing me over. Turns out he wasnt the one worth it or good enough for little miss fucking perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:53 AM
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Totally the same as our block and delete or venting in a safe space. Us wahmen need to be put in our places. Oh wait...one already picked me up by my feet and shook me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:39 AM
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Yup. B...but....apples and oranges are both fruits so theyre the same thing n where have all the nuts gone??? They got spit into a pool of rotten semen so shallow few cant not never understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:34 AM
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Violent pornography by system of a down. "It's a violent pornography, choking chicks and sodomy. The kind of shit you see of the tv. Can you say brainwashiiiiing....brainwah shing. Turn off the tv." Love that song so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:28 AM
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No. You have value. You do not need to be surrounded by people or even want to be surrounded by people. We are lucky if we can count our TRUE friends on one hand. That was very inconsiderate of him. You didn't ruin the party. He ruined your night by not being supportive. Dont let him ruin more by allowing yourself to feel worthless. I want you to look in the mirror. Look into your eyes and say, "I am capable. I am worthy. I love you." Edit: i havnt been to too many parties. I can think of 2. At …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:03 AM
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What are you talking about. Of course its cuz of chad and your hypergamous nature. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:50 AM
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They will never understand because they dont care to. If you try to explain it to them, they attack. Thats fine with me. The people who read our exchanges will either agree with them because of their own issues, or realize they're imbeciles. And maybe some woman out there who needs fds will find it because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:42 AM
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Right. I understand that what problems they knew about us having, would be extremely difficult for any parent to deal with and there is nothing they could have done better with the hands they were dealt. I would never harm them on purpose. It was a very complicated situation. My brother committed suicide and i drove him to it. I cant fix any of that. The only thing that matters are the consequences. I didn't harm him on purpose either but hes dead because of me. I had problems for years but was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:53 AM
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But i dont. I rejected everything my parents tried to do for me in my best interest growing up. Yes they made mistakes theyre human. But everything they did was what they believed was in our best interest even if i didnt understand at the time. I caused them so much pain and theres absolutely no way to fix it. I destroyed the only people who will ever love me unconditionally. They are divorced because of me. My dad lost his son because of me. My mom is alone and continually mentally unstable bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:57 PM
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Thats terrible. Im sorry for her. And for you having to grow up like that. My mother isn't perfect. No one is. But she tried her hardest to do right by us as she saw the world. She tried to protect us but in the process our growth was stunted. It takes a village to raise a child. Not a martry mother, a caring but absent father, and a high control low critical thinking religion that separates you from reality in more ways than one. And in spite of all my mothers sacrifice for what she believed wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:05 PM
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I spent so much time massaging a man who couldnt even give me foreplay. Now i massage myself. Mainly feet and hands. But after a long day of work its very relaxing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:11 PM
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This one dude didnt even start slow. At first it was stfu b!!!$. Which turned into biting me to the point of bruising before i could finish a sentence to shut me up. I said he could bite me in bed. I meant sex. He didnt care. I was literally a sex doll to him. Wasnt allowed basic human dignity. If he doesnt care about what you want to say, or how you feel, he doesnt care about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:01 AM
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They will treat you like shit if you exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:51 AM
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I noticed this too. It sucks. I cant remember the details but a dude was stripped naked and made to run attached to someones horse with his flaccid willy bouncing about. They may or may not have shown the flaccid penis of a really old fat guy too. Shame. Shame. Shame. Neither of these situations were meant to be sexually appealing. Shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:32 PM
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Forcing me to slow dance with him under the moonlight while he sang. I tried saying no, telling him in different ways i didnt want to, and even tried pulling away. I gave up fairly quickly and let him just sway my practically limp body around against my will. So romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:39 AM
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Thats a more balanced way of thinking. For me personally at this point im so sick of "communicating" trying to get some dude to hear me when they have all refused. They're not stupid, they just dont seem to care. I understand wanting them to consider us...and i suppose if you have the energy for it putting the information out there isnt a bad thing...i just personally dont... I dont want to try with them anymore. Ive come to accept that instead of "communicating" with the intention of getting me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:46 AM
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If my ex didnt care about transferring poo from my b to my v or m even after explaining to him why i didnt want to do certain things (own damn fault for giving in) i find it hard to believe the kind of dude that tends to lurk here would. Its nice to think they would...just doubtful. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:55 AM
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What if...they never had respect for us in the first place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:58 AM
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I always felt like something about me attracted horrible men or i brought it out in them. Starting to realize its not me, its most of them, and social condotioning is exacerbating it; many other women experience the similar things and social conditioning is exacerbated it. Im only at fault for letting them treat me badly. For allowing myself to get used to it for the sake of the fairytale "the one" in spite of all evidence proving otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:15 PM
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Those who can't tell the difference between voluntary celibacy, involuntary celibacy, and setting standards for protection and call us incels. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:50 AM
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Note she said "you who have INCURRED abuse". 😐 I dont believe her thinking is healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:51 PM
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And yet society has convinced women we are unclean unless out bodies are unnaturally hairless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:08 PM
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Because mUh pEniS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:30 PM
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I have had to deal with men on occasion at work and i just avoid looking at them as much as possible and deadpan myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:09 AM
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Definately. I have officially sworn off men for the rest of my life but i still come back here for the strong positive women. I need that in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:20 PM
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I am a vacuum to them. They are now nothing to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:01 PM
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Go ahead. Generalize the entire sex until youre proven wrong. Not doing it is far more dangerous to you. They dont even care about your rights, boundaries, and more often than not they dont even see you as a human being; why should you be concerned about protecting yourself. They do not deserve an ounce of empathy, compassion, or "communication" just for the heck of it. They will use it all against you and lie, manipulate, gaslight you, and call you crazy for it. Go ahead. Protect yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:47 PM
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My father wasnt abusive but he wasnt around much. I let men treat me like im not worth the air they breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:34 PM
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Lol no he was saying he loved me. Uh uh. No boy. If he felt something towards me it wasnt love. Edit. Maybe the hate he felt towards himself projected onto me... Or maybe apathy...didnt care about my wellbeing over getting what he wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 01:13 PM
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😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:04 AM
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Wow... 😢 When i expressed disbelief when the last one told me he loved me the day i met him he said "if people can hate for no reason why cant i love for no reason"...later on i literally felt like he hated me for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 06:14 AM
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I wish i understood and internalized this 14 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:15 AM
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Graphic warning Im more traumatised by the "normal" sex ive had with men who didnt believe in foreplay or lube (hours, sometimes multiple times a day, while triangulating me to make me feel like my performance was the problem, refusing to change even when my orifices bled and drs told me to use lube...oh okay yeah i bought that lube for you to masturbate with thanks) than i was from being flogged to the point of bleeding... Something is seriously wrong with the majority of men ive been with. Edi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:56 AM
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If i go into early menopause it might help a bit. Ill lose my curves, pheremones, etc...and my desire would be gone as well. Ive thought of genital mutilation these past few days. Not seriously lol just thoughts. I feel like in those other countries its the men deciding to do it so that their women dont enjoy sex and wont cheat on them. 🙄 In my case it would be my choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:53 PM
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And me being attracted to men and them being attracted to me is the most risky thing to my health and wellbeing...literally on every level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:41 PM
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Thanks! 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:09 PM
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You are right. I have recently become a passive observer of the inevitabilities and possibilities inside of me and outside of me, not a passenger on a rollercoaster, fighting things out of my control, or cursing "god". I exist and accept. Im free. Whatever he wants to do, is on him, and im going to stay judgment free of everything within, and outside as much as i can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:53 PM
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You're probably right. Its my own fault for ignoring the warning signs when i should have known better. But its for the best. He will be the last man i allow to destroy me for his "sake".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:47 PM
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Haha. One tried to ease my anxiety by telling me hes only a human. Im like dude, i know this. Theyre all monsters. Liars. Users. Slaves to their dicks. And they seem to forget im human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:31 PM
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Yeah logically i know. If im really upset though i just feel strongly about getting rid of them so i no longer desire to be used by shitstains. And if i go into early menopause i might be less attractive to them too. I tried to get tubal ligation 10ish years ago and the dr said no. 🙄 maybe now itll be different since im older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:58 AM
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A few people have thought id enjoy getting slapped in the face. I could take it or leave it. Meh, depends on the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:05 AM
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Aw thats sweet. I just want to get my tubes tied or my ovaries removed so i dont have to worry about some idiot scrote ripping out my iud to TRY to impregnate me. Is it weird that i was literally thinking this earlier today? The bar is not in hell anymore for me. I was. Now, for me, there is no bar. And i couldnt be happier. Im free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:46 AM
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Yeah unlock his 3-5 orgasms a day to my 0 in 2 months. Where's the deadlock!? Oh there it is! Get it! And then he negs my performance and i start to starfish because of the friction burns cuz he refuses dr ordered lube. Oh wait, theres a back door! When theyre so focused on themselves that they act like a woman starfishing is such an inconvenience for them and is left speechless when someone says "maybe she wasnt enjoying it", and act shocked when you dont orgasm at least a few times from having…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:27 AM
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👍😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:18 AM
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Feel this so much. I put mens itty bitty feelings against my own wellbeing far too often....and i may not have been the only one to suffer for it. I was socialized to be a caretaker...but not of myself...and when you have nothing left to give... Ive felt this and known it on some level for a long time...tried to implement it, and failed. Over and over again. Until now. I am at a crossroads. Keep doing what i have been; results being take a step forward and 2 back...sometimes a leap or 2, and it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 02:10 AM
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You are giving me the strength to respect myself at this very moment. We are in this together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:53 PM
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Wow. I had no idea...stay strong sister. We are all here for you any time you need us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:27 AM
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Take note of the post that explained how zoonotic diseases spread through means other than sex. But then still... Pony the orangutan. Her story is heart wrenching and nsfl. Be warned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:43 AM
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He made sure to say he didn't suffer in his marraige due to not indulging his kinks. Thank god. Thank god HE didn't have to suffer. /s Oh. And him talking about wanting to eat her? And how its so scary for him? Does anyone have a teeny violin? Not for the woman. He needs it so much more. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:07 AM
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Omg the sims lol. I made a file with characters to represent me, a handful of my exes, and the "dream girl". It was slightly entertaining to watch them all hit on her and fight with each other while my sim lay in bed daydreaming, oblivious to it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:31 AM
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Okay that makes me feel a bit better and will be more willing in the future. Thank you so much for the information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:10 PM
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Thank you very much. I'll definitely look into it in my state. Another concern of mine is that even if something comes out of it, foster homes have the potential to be bad as well...i worry it would be worse for them away from their parents... Edit: for example if at home they experience enough neglect to be taken away but at a new home or orphanage or something they experience neglect, sexual abuse, and physical abuse...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:51 PM
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The most ANYONE can do is better than what we know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:22 PM
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Would they tell them what the report was made for? If its cuz of matted hair they would probably easily figure out it was me if the child is isolated especially... Edit: can i make a report for neglect without giving a reason?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 08:16 PM
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Oh my goodness. That hurts to read. That hairdresser was atrocious. That is disgusting. A 7 year old child should not even have that responsibility but to punish and blame her for being normal for her age is beyond words to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:09 PM
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I know. I thought about that. Is it really going to accomplish anything though? On one hand, the mother was very skilled at deflecting, and i didn't see bruising or any other signs so even if they did send someone, i feel like it would be hard for them to find evidence... On the other, the name the mother gave me was different but similar to the name we had in our system...so im not even sure we have the right information... With the other girl i had, the mother seemed very receptive and sad abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:04 PM
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I was definitely trying to. 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 04:53 PM
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Exactly. Im so sorry he did that. He must have been either so wrapped up in himself or he truly didnt care and purposefully ignored it. I make an effort to tune into my client especially when brushing tangles out. And when it's a young girl i make extra effort to teach them to speak up and that their comfort matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 04:38 PM
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I hope so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 04:34 PM
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Awww thank you. They came in 15 min before i was supposed to leave and the mom said theyd made an appointment which they hadnt. The mom was rude and manipulative. I took her thinking a trim won't take me long. I could have done it in 20 minutes had it not been so bad. Didn't realize how bad it was till she sat down and i took a look. I wasnt going to rush through at the expense of this girl's comfort though. With cleanup, i got out 45 minutes late. But it was worth it for her sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 04:33 PM
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No. I've worried about this kind of stuff before...this is the 3rd time ive had a young girl with almost matted tangled hair. I did have one return and the next time her hair was a lot better, her mom listened, bit it wasmt nearly as bad as the other 2 to begin with. And i did the whole gentle thing with all of them. The other 2 mothers say its the childs responsibility to brush their hair...this one said she brushed her hair that morning...and when i started she admitted she must not have. This…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:22 PM
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You just gave me an idea! Join the big sister program
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:44 PM
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Self care is so important. Yesterday i added a massage into my self care. It was well worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:26 PM
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When they gave me my discharge sheet i couldn't stop laughing the whole way out. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:40 PM
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Lmao that does not sound pleasant. My first one i tried for hours and ended up in the er. My insurance got billed for "foreign object lodged in vagina". Flex cup is so easy. You literally pull on the loop and that breaks the suction for you. You CANNOT mess it up lol no need for pliers nor doctors. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 01:38 AM
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I had that problem...till i found the flex cup! ...i sound like an advertisement lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 10:08 PM
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Oh yes, audacity. How could i forget? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:34 PM
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If anything, its implying dick is the only thing MEN have to offer...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:58 PM
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You are absolutely right. They lack empathy/sympathy to the point where they don't get that our arousal works differently than theirs or they just don't care. And then they take it as a blow to their ego. Their fragile, oh so logical ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:21 PM
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My brother liked to scare people with his driving. When i stopped giving a reaction it wasnt fun for him anymore. Wonder why i put up with so much shit from men and kindly ask for more. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:45 AM
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This literally happened to me in the past couple weeks. 10 years ago i would have tried reassuring and soothing him. Now, i said "thank you for your honesty".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:47 PM
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The grass is greener on the other side when you dont water the side youre on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 12:24 AM
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This is amazing. My porn sick ex who could never look at me during sex or give me foreplay because "then muh peen will go soft" and treated me like a fleshlight till i bled and raped me the only time i said no wanted to be a comic book artist. I was 93 lbs because i felt like i could never compare. I digress. He rarely even drew anything original, as he was used to copying famous artists. He took me to a comic con to "show off" "his artwork" to people there hoping to get his name out there. Lmao…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:42 PM
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Men have a hive mind. (Joke since some claim women do)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:48 PM
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I suggested a picnic when he asked me to the park. He insinuated i was a slut. I got a piece of gum and the honor of his social cue ignoring inability to undo my pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:24 AM
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Wow lol. Real nice. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:03 PM
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Ikr lol i never met anyone like him before. He treated me with more respect than any other guy has before
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:02 PM
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Im sorry. It sucks. Im glad you have the strength and wisdom to leave immediately. I didn't. After the last one that didnt care that i bled and i broke up i looked into oopherectomies. I wanted to take away the desire to be loved by a man. Edit: im so tired of being used as a fleshlight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:03 PM
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Yup. Nope. I got taken to buffalo wild wings once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:48 PM
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This one scrote didnt even want to be seen in public with me...but i was good enough to fuck 5 times a day with no lube or foreplay till i bled and gaslight me by saying the burning when i pee must be a uti...not the pee going over the microtears on the back where i always get them when im in love with a selfish piece of shit. I learned this from 2 different doctors. I have never had a uti. Ever. It wasnt in my head. I had blood on the toilet paper. And they still dont give a shit. Goddamn i wis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:35 PM
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Minimum?!!! Ive never had a guy take me out for a dinner that costed $60. My only valentines dinner was at a fancy restaurant and I payed. Over $100. And it was his exes favorite restaurant. Hindsight. 😤 Wait wait...one guy took me to the opera. He was the best guy i ever met...he turned out to be asexual. I still wish to this day it worked out with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 09:25 PM
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Its all about muh peen lol. These scrotes want 2 women servicing them when they dont even bother to care for the 1 they have! 😑😤😖 That would be great! If you remember, send me a picture please id love to see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:49 AM
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Im sorry. Cancer sucks... And they only like the fantasy version if its all about muh peen. They hate the reality because real lesbians want nothing to do with their peens 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:12 AM
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I didnt see it that way lol. Maybe. Most ive gotten from men is manipulation, pain, and oppression. Ive been trying to make deeper connections with women around me yet im still concerned they might hurt me in different ways. Im sorry. From an outsiders perspective it appears as a symbol of support not accounting for your inner world. Im sorry you guys had to go through that. Hope shes okay now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:58 AM
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Im glad i could make you laugh 😁 im not even that masculine LOL im just ballsy and love the style. But i guess i can see how many people can think that. First time i had to shave my whole head cuz i made it crooked! Yeah. Ballsy. Thats sweet that you did that with her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:19 AM
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If we dated him we'd be setting ourselves up for failure. His words. His logic. Too bad we're too shallow to let him benefit from our mistakes...wish he could mull over that one carefully. Somehow i think hes not deep enough to get it... 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:40 AM
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I used to have a 10 inch mohawk when i lived downtown in a big city. A real one with the sides shaved. I passed what i assumed to be a homeless guy fairly often and we smiled and waved. He always called me lady liberty. Till he slipped and called me lady lesbian. 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:25 AM
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One of the ways porn affects the brain is by certain chemicals it releases such as dopamine upon orgasm. Meaning they get the "reward" neurotransmitter and gives them a false sense of accomplishment and successfulness. The more he masturbates to porn, the more entitled, and the more he tricks himself into thinking hes better than he actually is (separate from actual self esteem). Fun combination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:22 PM
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Ive been noticing as i set boundaries, they dont stick around...they aren't crazy boundaries either...like i want to meet them at a public place...im not ready to go to their house after meeting them twice, once, or never...i try telling myself im weeding out the wrong guys...but it still kinda stings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 10:13 PM
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Literally today a guy ended things with me by saying i deserve better than him. Yesterday he was talking about wanting a future with me. Im so confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:53 PM
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A long time ago In a place not so far away Was a girl and her friend tending bees every day. They cared for the creatures And the honey they took. The friends would take heart in the sweetness they spoke. Through kindness and care, she gave her honey away. She wasnt a fan of honey anyway. She goes on her way. Life flows that way. The girl met a guy As often it goes. She gives him her honey, the way the wind blows. They cared for each other They shared a home. They would take heart in the sweetne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:20 AM
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To the one who hurt my self esteem to the point of 93 lbs, and then blamed my being skinny for his abuse, i hope you never have children and your disease dies with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:29 AM
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Im tired of the LIES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:55 PM
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Profound message of social conditioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:52 PM
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"Don't try to tell me what a girl wants. Shut up and give it to me." That is PERFECT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 03:50 PM
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Wow. Absolutely LOVE THIS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 11:01 AM
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I was at work one day and this song came on. Next up came "before he cheats". I was like "and this is the woman's response". It was one of those rare, perfect moments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:39 AM
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Its just hypocritical. Someone says something that doesnt completely support their kinks, its frowned upon. But someone doesnt have kinks? THEN its okay to say something...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:38 PM
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Um...vanilla shaming?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 11:04 AM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:07 AM
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Literally i had a guy ask if he could do something he saw, i said yes, and he put his fingers as if he was trying to find my gspot and tried to lift me into the air by my pussy. It did NOT feel good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:05 AM
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Oh and the jackhammering with the fingers 😭 Or when they basically try to gouge your gspot out or actually lift you up by it 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:13 PM
22

If i show anxiety over something (serious) im asked about my meds 😭 I spoke to my therapist about this issue and she completely understood my anxiety. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 01:18 PM
14

Not just a right to it. A right to jam it in without warning, lube, or prep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:40 PM
6

Im surthrived he could ever even type "women are superior to men" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:44 PM
17

I had an ex grab my feet, flip me upside down in the air and shake me in front of his 2 siblings (8 and 10 maybe) for treating him like "one of the guys" and beating him at a game. He also broke my guitar hero controller.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:26 PM
3

Honestly, im scared to get married...it would make it that much harder to leave if i need to...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:01 PM
4

Mines pretty short. But they still can feel it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:48 PM
9

Ya know what? Let me put some sandpaper up there. Give em a little taste of their own medicine. That enough friction??? Selfish losers wouldnt last a second. Lets see them condition themselves to feel pain as an indicator of their worth and get satisfaction that their suffering is at least pleasing their partner. Wait. Theyre too selfish for that. Almost forgot they dont give a crap about their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:06 PM
8

Im seeing a new therapist soon and will definitely talk to her about this stuff, thanks. Im getting better at vetting thanks to this sub, and when they dont get what they want for the price of a piece of gum, its helping me see who they really are before i get too attached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:01 AM
3

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:59 AM
6

I will thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:58 AM
43

This has happened with multiple guys. And even different drs. One came 3-5 times a day with me and still made me feel like im not doing good enough when im literally bleeding out of every orifice, and they cant follow drs orders. Until now, i let them. Im in the habit of not showing my pain during sex. It didnt matter when i did. This sub has shown me im not alone, and i deserve so much better. Im so glad to have found a community of strong independent women that focuses on empowering ourselves.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:34 AM
97

Me too. Im absolutely sick of it. Im here. Im literally bleeding out of my vagina (and sometimes other places) trying to make your worthless ass happy, only to be refused lube and foreplay and compared to, or hear another womans name in bed. Im here. Im bleeding because you couldnt care less about me or even enough to get past your ego and rectify the situation with lube. No not lotion. This lube i bought my dr told me to use because she took one look at my lady parts and could see what im letti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:21 AM
2

Ironic how he says they aren't ruined yet and doesn't seem to realize his attempts at "molding" them is what will most likely "ruin" them. Not realizing he's part of that sick world he speaks about who cares more about his peen getting what he thinks it deserves than another human being being valued and treated like they actually deserve for more than what he can get out of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:04 PM
2

Love how they blame every girl around him for his actions. How it's easier for people to empathize with the guy in spite of what he did and throw women under the bus for what they didn't do; ill never know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:59 PM
3

💜😅 why are so many guys like this???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:21 AM
2

😂 This sub has taught me so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 02:12 AM
11

Roflmao whaaaaat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:48 PM
23

I had a guy who jerked off to wolves hunting and tearing apart their prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:09 PM
6

Its so difficult to meet guys in other ways...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:15 PM
21

What?!!!!? 40%?!?!?! Omg that's ridiculous!!!! How the heck am i supposed to trust someone or find out if I'm the sidechick????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:48 PM
14

The "best years" of my youth were some of the worst years of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:43 PM
5

Lol. Ima keep gettin up and goin up. 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:57 PM
10

Guys rarely approach me 😐 i must be ugly or something 😞 Cant do this if no one tries. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:41 PM
1

I wish i had this mindset back then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:16 AM
15

"Once upon a time there was a wicked witch and her name was Lilith Eve Hagar Jezebel Delilah Pandora Jahi Tamar and there was a wicked witch and she was also called goddess and her name was Kali Fatima Artemis Hera Isis Mary Ishtar and there was a wicked witch and she was also called queen and her name was Bathsheba Vashti Cleopatra Helen Salome Elizabeth Clytemnestra Medea and there was a wicked witch and she was also called witch and her name was Joan Circe Morgan le Fay Tiamat Maria Leonza Me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:08 PM
4

I think therefore i am... As the machines evolve...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:52 PM
4

That's fascinating... Did we create "computers" or did "computers" create us...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:00 PM
24

As humans, we have the capacity for introspection, sympathy/empathy, deeper thinking, etc. We can do better. But the vast majority does not. Whether consciously or subconsciously, people choose not to take a look outside their own bubbles because it's easier that way. And for many, they have too much stock in who they've been their whole lives to flirt with the thought that they might be wrong, or at the least, closed minded or egocentric. This goes beyond women's rights too. It can affect any a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:29 PM
39

Its simply animalistic. If you look at the sex lives of many animals, for example, cats, sex is painful for the female. But she still has the biological desire for it. Now humans are not simple. We are animals but we are more complex than other animals. We have the capacity to think about things in ways other animals cant. Porn is often used as a justification of baser instincts without regard for HUMANITY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:36 PM
3

"I'm a constitutional lawyer Tom" 😂❤😂❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:25 PM
4

Ugh. The guy who pushed me around and blamed my falling on me being too skinny. And would yell at me and call me names while i lay there crying. Who would throw an entire table because i came home from work and kissed him on the forehead when he was in bed. Telling me i was being aggressive when i finally spoke up for myself in a stern voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:23 PM
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