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| 156 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childless | Discussion | Implentofhell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 08:35 PM |
| 40 | Tinder overseas is the Twilight Zone for men | CMV | Implentofhell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 05:30 AM |
| 31 | Why the rate of single men looking for dates in the US has decreased | Social Issues | Implentofhell | /r/MensRights | 26/02/23 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Are dating apps matches even legit overseas? | Discussion | Implentofhell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:24 AM |
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| 46 | A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partnersAs well they should as it's only natural. It's a curse that men are attracted to women when they can't reporicate those desires. These men would be better off being asexual and never wanting women in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 12:04 AM |
| 22 | A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partners"(people don't respect your opinions, you're encouraged to submit and be polite all the time, can't walk alone at night, probably won't earn as much money, always getting aggressively flirted with, etc." Are all way worse for men. Nobody actually cares what men say nor feel, you are encouraged to provide at all costs and be disposable like war all the time, men are more victims of violent crime, so are the ones that cant walk at night, women are graduating more then men and starting to out earn … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 12:00 AM |
| 3 | "Neurodivergence" has become a trendy excuse for dating strugglesThey call themselves neurodivergent either because they have a condition like autism or likely because they believe they fit the definition of "differing in mental or neurological function from what is considered typical or normal." When you're an outcast and treated as weird from the standard norm then it makes sense why you would use the word "neurodivergent." Nobody gives a fuck about your social skills rant either. It's corny and condescending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 03:15 PM |
| 8 | "Neurodivergence" has become a trendy excuse for dating strugglesYou're asking a woman why she didn't ask him out? Really. This is what they do, infantilize and avoid responsibility. Of course it's his fault he didn't ask me out or kiss me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 03:07 PM |
| 32 | What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps?What if most women just cant pick a man that isn't a tall, bad boy, good looking Chad and preferable white? How bout this op why don't you try being an average male on tinder and post your findings here? That will answer your question. Get your professional photos or whatever bullshit you think that will work then come back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 03:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: As a society there's almost nothing we can do to help lonely menUntil it's too late and the chickens come home to roost. But yes women must affected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 02:53 PM |
| 5 | CMV: As a society there's almost nothing we can do to help lonely menTheir is a distinction between loneliness with friends or in this case male friends and intimacy with girls. Only a women would say something like this because they don't know what it's like to be chronically rejected and undesirable by the opposite sex. Both are problems but the latter is directly correlated with women that reject these men and far more dire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 02:48 PM |
| 37 | CMV: As a society there's almost nothing we can do to help lonely menIf women were lonely and sexless like men we all know society would do everything in their power to fix the problem. It's all part of the plan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 02:38 PM |
| 0 | Why is Dating Supposed to be a Meritocracy?Because that would be fucking ideal. Back in the day when monogamy, arranged marriages, and your pool was limited to the area you confided in this was not an issue, but now the struggle of the domain has extended to dating. Capitalism is now in the sexual market creating a sexual underclass. So just like how the 1% owns half the worlds wealth, then more men will have exclusive access to most women in spite of all other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 11:40 AM |
| 1 | What exactly do men refer to when they say they have to put in “hard work” to sleep with a woman?Yeah it is. Women don't approach and neither do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 11:28 AM |
| 28 | Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them.Young women literally ignore the vast majority of men and in particular good "gentleman", yet still cry that no good men are available or blame men. The ones that don't approach you willy nilly are more likely to be good but that thought never even registered in your brains because you have no idea what's like to be on the otherside of having to prove yourself. You walk by them every day in school, work, and whatever but you never bother to get to know them, because you're not even remotely attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 11:18 AM |
| 4 | "Neurodivergence" has become a trendy excuse for dating strugglesWomen don't have real problems in dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 11:06 AM |
| 0 | It's Illogical For Men on this Sub to Blame WomenGeneralizations are not illogical if their is numerous evidence of it being true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 12:55 PM |
| 2 | It's Illogical For Men on this Sub to Blame WomenOh their is something wrong with you. You're not "Chad". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 12:44 PM |
| 15 | Men, do you think bro-comedies gave you unrealistic expectations about women and sex?It gives the impression that sex will be readily available for people in college but in reality thats only available for "Chad" and some neurotypical normies if youre lucky. Blue mountain State is another popular one we're the athletes sleep around and party while the nerds get nothing. The vast majority will be rejected and treated as genetic trash by females left to starve. Even to get a modicum of what "Chad" gets or his leftovers you'll have to struggle tooth and nail like your life depends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 12:36 PM |
| 1 | It’s important to party/date/socialize in high school. Those people are more successful than the nerds who studied all 4 years.The premise of this is dumb when the stereotype is that nerds can't party date socialize with the cool kids in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 12:05 PM |
| 3 | What's going on with the pill subs?The first part is correct the second part isn't. Your looks can be changed as long as your genetics allow it. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/23 11:10 AM |
| 3 | If a man does not have the Hero Instinct, then what?You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself the villain. I'm livid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Why not many women-only communities?It's not a mistake. Nobody cares about men. It's all part of the plan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 10:45 PM |
| -2 | Why not many women-only communities?That sounds like Equality amirite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 10:37 PM |
| – | Why not many women-only communities?Women good men bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Predictions on future AI companions relations in the next 10 yearsI predict pain and suffering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:57 PM |
| 5 | men need to stop projecting and understand/accept that women’s sexuality will never be the same as theirsYour opinion means absolutely nothing. Literally google okcupid racial preferences and you'll find out what women really think of certain races physically. To nobodies surprise you'll find men are more fair still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:23 PM |
| 8 | Online dating is broken because men have to REALLY stand out because women think all men are serial killers.Online dating is broken in wealthy expensive western countries but if you try online dating else where you'll be surprised that its probably not broken for you. | /r/MensRights | 21/10/23 03:22 PM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearYou wouldn't last a week in a man's life. I would pay so much to watch you writhe and suffer in agony like men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:56 AM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearWhich is exactly why women should never bitch and argue about anything here. Everything they say is absolutely worthless because they never actually have to suffer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Most men who hate women online don't really hate them in real lifeTrue but I mean we're also pretty much powerless for the most part too. What's the point of showing disdain or hatred of everybody is against for it in that climate or you're gonna go to jail if you take it far? If it was just up to me let's just say I would redefine what you call hate irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:17 AM |
| – | Most men who hate women online don't really hate them in real lifeI mean typically speaking if she has sex before marriage she's a whore. Mask the hate? Lol. People just walk by each other and stay to themselves looking at their phone. It doesn't matter if they hate or not because it's not like women or attention to men anyways unless it's Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Communication between the sexes about the dating market won't be effective until women trust that most men don't want society to go back to oppressing female sexuality.They shouldn't and to be frank nobody does. The world is ran by elites. Women would of never saw the light of day like this otherwise unless a man supported it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenYeah and yet here incels are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Women pretend to dislike men more than they do, Men pretend to like women more than they doWomen have everything easy and easier. What we call misogyny today is what real men have said is reality and truth for centuries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:26 PM |
| 0 | Women pretend to dislike men more than they do, Men pretend to like women more than they doWho in their right mind would like them as people besides gay dudes and females? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:24 PM |
| 0 | Women pretend to dislike men more than they do, Men pretend to like women more than they doWomen don't like men. Only like what they provide and especially if it's Chad because he provides superior genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Women pretend to dislike men more than they do, Men pretend to like women more than they do"misogyny" anything and everything that criticizes women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:21 PM |
| 1 | The only men who truly benefit from modern dating culture are the tip top percentile of menTime to give up. Their is no hope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Take men hostage and no one cares. Take women hostage and the world goes nuts.Username checks out | /r/MensRights | 11/10/23 09:28 PM |
| 7 | Take men hostage and no one cares. Take women hostage and the world goes nuts."You know what I've noticed? Nobody panics when things go "according to plan." Even if the plan is horrifying! If, tomorrow, I tell the press that, like, a gang banger will get shot, or a truckload of soldiers will be blown up, nobody panics, because it's all "part of the plan". But when I say that one little old mayor will die, well then everyone loses their minds" | /r/MensRights | 11/10/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | To the Guys who think Girls only want Hot GuysWe don't think, we know. Their is a reason most men are single and many are sexless. We are not wanted, desired, nor appreciated but that must be a foreign concept coming from the opposite sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:40 PM |
| 1 | To the Guys who think Girls only want Hot GuysPathetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:38 PM |
| 6 | Is being a short man in today’s world really that bad? Thoughts?Being a man in today'd world is really bad let alone a short one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Can't even blame em.Yeah don't hold women accountable. Women are wonderful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Can't even blame em.Women absolutely choose because they have more options, put zero effort practically in initiating, and require consent. Choosing to deny this is laughable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesEspecially men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Blue Pillers/the mainstream seem to blame every relationship problem on the man and they have a hard time admitting that women are even slightly responsible for anythingSad but true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers/the mainstream seem to blame every relationship problem on the man and they have a hard time admitting that women are even slightly responsible for anythingThey expect us to take it like good little boys and not werewolf! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pillers/the mainstream seem to blame every relationship problem on the man and they have a hard time admitting that women are even slightly responsible for anythingWow shocking. In other news the sky is blue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:58 PM |
| 5 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicLol the only weird expectations are the women who demand more and more yet offer less and less | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicSure buddy lol regardless of whatever you said It's well documented and proven. Denying it is about as intelligent as saying the earth is flat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicAnd I can go outside and see a bunch of lonely men too but considering you're a woman you obviously don't see them ironically. Just like how because their is a middle class or suburbs and above doesn't mean most Americans arent living pay check to pay check and are poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished placeYou can be bitter and accept that's it hopeless. Complaining about it doesn't mean you haven't accepted it either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:50 PM |
| 0 | Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished placeWhat? Women don't love men at all. They only love what they provide and that doesn't involve most men anymore.Most people end up with someone is complete bullshit in today's age and you know it. Those days are long gone buddy and no the marriage rate indicate that lmao, you can just disregard that for and say some platitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:49 PM |
| 23 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesBeing a male at this point is a huge problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicThis is pretty pathetic even for this subreddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:48 PM |
| 4 | 45% of young men aged 18-25 have never approached a woman romantically; study.Current priority how? The only priority I see is either exploiting men or vilifying them | /r/MensRights | 09/10/23 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Men don't hate promiscuous womenYou sure about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:46 PM |
| 5 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanYeah just learn to use some social skills. If you're poor just learn to get rich. If you're depressed just learn to be happy. It's that simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanwishful thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | An advanced virtual reality like "the Matrix" could solve dating and loneliness issuesWishful thinking. Hate to break it to you but men don't get a choice but women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 09:17 AM |
| 1 | An advanced virtual reality like "the Matrix" could solve dating and loneliness issuesYeah I know who does. They're called women and they are chronically online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 09:16 AM |
| 2 | An advanced virtual reality like "the Matrix" could solve dating and loneliness issuesProblem solved. Why didn't anyone think of that?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 09:13 AM |
| 6 | Are straight women really qualified to give advice on how to date straight women?Nope. Women have no answers because they have no real problems. None of them have suffered like men do and had to overcome adversity. They have no qualifications. No matter what advice they say they live life on easy mode and men live it on hard mode. You want a solution on women then ask men. Why would you take advice from people who never had to work for the opposite gender? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 09:05 AM |
| 2 | If you were guaranteed a partner and didn't have to do any work would you take it? *obviously there are conditions*So you mean women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 08:54 AM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeLiterally every women here should try to get a tinder date as man here with average looks and then have the audacity to come here to complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:55 AM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeYeah except men don't get any attention, affirmation, and have to approach 😂. That's privilege. Women don't work at all for a man's attention except putting on makeup and sexualizing herself, feeling entitled but yet wanna come here and complain about all the unwanted attention. You can't have to both ways. Would you rather get absolutely nothing and ignored on a daily basis or attention without doing a damn thing to earn it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:20 AM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeYeah invisible to men out of her league. You think unattractive men are passing on unattractive women? Nope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:16 AM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeYeah sure. Open up tinder and let's compare. Let's see who has actual problems. I don't care if they wanna fuck your or not their is plenty of lonely decent men you ignore and plenty that go after the pieces of shit jock bad boy type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Women do use dating apps, but they stop using them quicker than men because they work for themYes women have it so hard. Meanwhile most goodbmen can't get even one match to respond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Women do use dating apps, but they stop using them quicker than men because they work for themGo outside and approach is not a solution when their is nowhere to approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:47 PM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeYeah no man is gonna care when you refuse to acknowledge mens problem and treat them invisible. Yeah might as well have empathy for rich people too then but men still have it ten times worse despite you being an object. FYI men are treated as objects too and in a more harsh way as nobody cares if you live or die because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Guys can meet women pretty much anywhere.What we mean by "meet" women is being able to approach, talk, date, and have sex with that want to reciprocate interest. Not find women anywhere and anyhow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:36 PM |
| 0 | As a woman why should I get married?😂 Yeah you can all be future contestants on the golden bachelor too lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:25 AM |
| 3 | As a woman why should I get married?How did you get she wants to date average men from this? So their is no point in suggesting that. If she wants to be a spinster like the old days then we can't stop her. What's that word you guys like to use? Oh yeah it's responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:22 AM |
| 2 | As a woman why should I get married?Sad but true. American women have stifiled progress with their feminism and misandry. Good news is I have roots in countries where real women still exist and I can even arrange such a affair through my family but I need to get my money in order. I feel bad for the men that are trapped here in the west with no way out or knowledge of getting out let alone knowing women are better overseas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:15 AM |
| 3 | As a woman why should I get married?She awakened her animus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:07 AM |
| -8 | As a woman why should I get married?If it only it was so simple. Men were supposed to provide and protect while women tended to the babies, cooking for hubby, cleaning, nurturing from a long day of work. Now they get the roles all fucked up for feminine superiority and look what we got to show for it? God deliver us from evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:04 AM |
| -2 | As a woman why should I get married?She probably has the biological urge to "submit" to a man but society taught her how to be a boss babe. Sad isn't it. Men are growing up today not being fathers and women aren't growing up to be mothers. An epic collapse of the nuclear family that will have dire consequences... you hate to see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:55 AM |
| 2 | As a woman why should I get married?Yeah I always find it funny when people come to post about in lonely male videos or sexlessness with how "their is a difference between being alone and lonely!" Like nobody said otherwise or asked? If you didn't feel so lonely or some type of way why do you keep coming to videos about lonelienss to reaffirm that you don't feel lonely or need women. It reminds me of the same projection with women who bring up entitled with every breath as a rebuttal and dismissal to men not getting something that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:51 AM |
| 2 | As a woman why should I get married?This is a conversation you and your mother need to have if she isn't as toxic as you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:44 AM |
| – | I feel a large part of the problem with dating is extroverts and a lack of social unity and connection.None of what you said matters and society doesn't care about anything but profit. Men have no choice and women get to choose their is a difference . Their aren't these places and opportunities to begin with single women waiting for men to approach them. Everything is atomized and third places are dead so it's pretty irrelevant. Women expect a new car and someone to drive them in it while they bring nothing to the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:32 AM |
| 27 | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?The idea that dating is impossible or alien doesn't just come out of thin air nor does the anger or bitterness against women from being rejected. It often takes years of frustration, hardship, humiliation and pain to gestate for that to register. However one incident is all it takes considering men are apparently typically required to claw tooth and nail to compete for women, while women do absolutely nothing and be entitled to everything a man does for them. Rejection is painful enough to never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:33 AM |
| 1 | I feel a large part of the problem with dating is extroverts and a lack of social unity and connection.Doesn't explain why reclusiveness exists then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:28 AM |
| 1 | The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people"Yeah want to have sex with top 20% LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenWhat makes you so positive that you know? At least black pillers bring up science and data to support their claims, everyone else just talks out of their ass or anecdotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to women"So slightly different take, but I remember reading that women like men around the same intelligence as themselves but if the gap gets too high or low they are turned off." Well that would explain why most girls don't like me and are turned off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenIncorrect, and their is nothing fun about talking to women. They have nothing interesting to say 99% of the time and expect you do all the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 01:14 AM |
| 15 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenYeah their is a reason that the guys who get pussy are portrayed as dumb jocks in shows or movies. If you're actually good with girls you're most likely kinda dumb and I see that with every dumb comment posted on this subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Best way to bag as a guy? Have a lot of friends/friend groupsThese people talk like you can just conjure up these social opportunities and friends from the void, then magically the women will be there waiting for you to date or hook up with. They never experienced chronic rejection, loneliness, and immeasurable disappointment that forces people into isolation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:31 PM |
| 7 | Best way to bag as a guy? Have a lot of friends/friend groupsThis is what 99% of people who post advice on relationship boils down to. They think just because it worked out for me and I tried that it must work for others instead of realizing they got lucky and acknowledging other mitigating factors. They are intelluctally incapable of seeing anything other than their own perspective, bias, and ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Best way to bag as a guy? Have a lot of friends/friend groupsPretty rich coming from a woman undoubtedly hasn't struggled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?Cause women are racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?Uh huh nice projection. The people who are most dangerous to the women and society typically are already attractive enough to find a women ironically, but that doesn't fit your victim blaming narrative now does it. Most women don't find most men sexually attractive so no their isn't anything wrong with them. Men have no choice while women have all the choice, so men have to pay and take what they can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 06:11 PM |
| 5 | I really doubt the "male loneliness epidemic" is such a big dealThey won't learn till it's too late | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 02:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV online dating for most men is a complete waste of timeSo will approaching women in public and getting rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 02:13 AM |
| 0 | Men's complaints about the state of dating all come down to this one inconvenient truth...He somehow cant understand how the privilege, revolution and advantages of women over men have taken most men out of the market by force regardless lol. Yeah they don't need men anymore and can take care of themselves after the fact that men provided literally everything for them to do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Men's complaints about the state of dating all come down to this one inconvenient truth...Dfference is women don't date out of choice. Men have no choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Men's complaints about the state of dating all come down to this one inconvenient truth...Their are options and we're it's just society just doesn't care to implement them. It's not just harder it's also absurd. It's not a surprise men are struggling and birth rate is going down. Complaining does help when it influences change but if nobody is listening and cares what do you expect. If you want a world were woman aren't mothers and men aren't fathers then this is the end game to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:08 PM |
| 4 | Men's complaints about the state of dating all come down to this one inconvenient truth...I'm not responsible for who women choose to be with and attracted too. It's their fault that men are single in this context because they get to choose who gets laid. If you really wanna go this nature route and who "deserves sex" like a eugenist which I bet on everything you don't then men would start raping women then as a reproductive strategy. You say ugly short broke dudes get laid but then say some really dumb shit that contradicts itself after? Pick one. Who deserves it? Infact let's take … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Men's complaints about the state of dating all come down to this one inconvenient truth...Yeah because no man puts work on himself that is single. If your solution to a systemic problem is pull yourself up by the bootstraps then don't be surprised that men become victimized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:32 PM |
| 6 | Men's complaints about the state of dating all come down to this one inconvenient truth...And yet here you are complaining and bitching | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are men telling women to look past potential partners looks?I think they call that equality last I checked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Why are men telling women to look past potential partners looks?Exactly. Which is why men have to leave the west | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:07 PM |
| 10 | Why are men telling women to look past potential partners looks?Long way of saying hypergamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Why are men telling women to look past potential partners looks?Uh huh and yet It just so happens women date and are attracted to assholes. Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Why are men telling women to look past potential partners looks?I mean if we were to just accept nature the world would be a pretty awful place don't you think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:04 PM |
| -4 | Is the vitriol against promiscuous women a tactic to convince women to not sleep around?Are you serious? I mean would you be ok if your mother and daughter were sleeping with multiple men daily? There are good reasons this type of behavior historically was shamed and condemned but you people call instead just call it misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Dating today is difficult because we prioritize Physical/Sexual Attraction (rightfully so)And it was affordable. You could raise a kid within reason but nowadays it's becoming impossible. It's almost like someone had a plan to destroy men in every possible way across the board. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Men over-estimate their attractiveness?It doesn't matter what you think of yourself because other people have to find you attractive and worthy in this context for them to want you. The way women treat me I know I'm a zero. Nobody cares about me or loves me. I'm worthless in their eyes and in turn am worthless myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Men over-estimate their attractiveness?If the only way men can be attractive or worthy to women is to essentially have the body of a Greek god then all hope is lost for this world. It's an unreasonable standard and criteria to expect from men nor do most women meet this criteria either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 03:13 PM |
| 0 | Women aren't attracted to confidence, they hate confidence in men they don't find attractiveThere's a fine line between confidence and harassment or unwanted attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to confidence, they hate confidence in men they don't find attractiveDomestic violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:43 AM |
| 8 | Women aren't attracted to confidence, they hate confidence in men they don't find attractiveIt's true for practically 80 percent of men and virtually almost no woman. Pretty big disparity and inequality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Do male sex workers, male escorts, actually exist for women? are there women in the world that actually pay for sex?Females are always "volcels" because they have a ludicrous amount of options. If a woman doesn't like her options it's actually because her standards are too high and refuses to date her looks match. Any woman that denies this should be forced to reveal a tinder account. For men this is simply not the case. An average or even slightly above average man can be forced to dating down to have sex which is completely and utterly more demoralizing. Forced into something that they aren't even remotely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:31 AM |
| 0 | Do male sex workers, male escorts, actually exist for women? are there women in the world that actually pay for sex?Females can't be incels by definition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examplesAdam22 is that you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 05:26 AM |
| 0 | [Updated] *Some* lonely men can benefit greatly from seeing escorts.I agree. After all a real relationship with women nowadays is just a glorified escort seeing how everyone is promiscuous and not getting married. Also seeing how women also don't care about the emotional well being of a man and what not what's left to care about? Take advantage before youre taken advantage of is exactly what you should be doing. Every man that uses only fans gets taken advantage of instead of the country legalizing prostitution that is much more fruitful. It's all about getting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 07:15 PM |
| 2 | [Updated] *Some* lonely men can benefit greatly from seeing escorts.Attractive is a bit of a stretch unless we aren't looking at the same page. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | "Alpha fucks, beta bucks" is now an obsolete strategy, which makes dating even harder for menNo because women make men feel emasculated when they make less. Nice deflection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.So In other words women are bottomfeeders? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | The women telling you to not approach don't care about your successAnd approaching women thinking things will be different isn't counterproductive and holding on to hope? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 06:30 PM |
| 2 | The women telling you to not approach don't care about your successYou people just love to eat up optimism no matter how impractical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 06:29 PM |
| 24 | Women (most of the time) are REPULSED by inexperienced men.Being a man alone is destined for a bad time these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Women (most of the time) are REPULSED by inexperienced men.And yet there's millions of inexperienced men single that you almost certainly ignore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 09:41 PM |
| 3 | I hear others say that relationships where the women pursued or initiated are set to fail, but why do so many marriages which are often initiated by men fail? does which gender initiate really determine the outcome then?LOL. It obviously works if you don't go for something above your looks match or aka "Chad." So women don't like average men is all I'm getting for this contrary to what some hypocrites would say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 09:40 PM |
| 7 | I hear others say that relationships where the women pursued or initiated are set to fail, but why do so many marriages which are often initiated by men fail? does which gender initiate really determine the outcome then?Would you have invited him to your house for a weekend? Nope. So what the fuck are you talking about initiation. You did absolutely nothing but kiss him😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingTheir is. Listening to input from younger women on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingAsking people who have never had the exact problem with relationships, you know probably like you is a bad idea. They would never understand the plight or hardships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | "A lot of men are not desirable." Do you agree or disagree? Why or why not?Turns out it's much easier to "impress" women overseas than the west | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't it be better for everyone if women initiated and made the first move?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Wouldn't it be better for everyone if women initiated and made the first move?In other news women only like Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it be so much safer for women if they started hitting on men?Chad only | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex?You're pretty delusional with your anecdotal evidence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex?Some of it is a result of technology and third spaces dying. Getting harder to expect men to approach with women glued to their cell phones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 06:39 PM |
| 2 | How successful must a man be to have the same options as an average womanGo to the suburbs, gated communities, a mansion. People are having great success with money every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 02:12 AM |
| 3 | If you’re too scared to talk to women, that’s natural selection at workNot even necessarily approach because they don't, but show any signs of interest. The ones that show initial interest in you first not the other way around. I've had this happen to me in some numerous occasions but Ive been asocial and couldn't act upon it to my frustration later after the fact. But these chance encounters are fickle and once in a blue moon than consistent. It's hard to act upon it when the rest of the time I might as well not exist and have to carry that weight of feeling undes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 08:21 PM |
| 5 | People who say real life is better than dating apps. Can you prove how ?Looks transfer through the Internet really well and irl dude lol. This idea you can talk your way into girls and just say the magic words is laughable without having requisite looks. And nobody is gonna be able to prove it otherwise because its simply not true. Their is not sufficient evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:28 AM |
| 4 | People who say real life is better than dating apps. Can you prove how ?More willing to friend zone you. You're just another dude that approached her that she rejected while she gets whatever she wants. Her matches don't go away, her dms don't go away, her social circle doesn't go away, her sea of options are vast on her relationships. Nobody gives a flying fuck about your charisma or humor unless you're good looking enough for her date. Yeah more forgiving if you got paper and status that is, not because of your pompous egotistical "personality". More forgiving whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:20 AM |
| 1 | People who say real life is better than dating apps. Can you prove how ?They can't because their full of fucking shit like always | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Men are far more accepting of neurodivergence than women when it comes to datingOnly winning move is not to play | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:41 AM |
| – | “Women don’t like nice guys” because they’re is a difference between being nice & being kindOr it just so happens they are attracted to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:35 PM |
| – | “Women don’t like nice guys” because they’re is a difference between being nice & being kindJust world fallacy at its finest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:34 PM |
| – | “Women don’t like nice guys” because they’re is a difference between being nice & being kindNo they don't in any capacity. Women are attracted to the bad boy asshole men on the dark traid in terms of personality. Being on the dark traid is enough to be attractive to them while being "nice" or a gentlemen isn't. Being a good person, intelligent, respectful, and kind infact makes you less attractive or masculine to them because that's not what they are attracted to in their nature. It's better to be more like a "brute" or a "barbarian" then be an actual good respectful human being with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:25 PM |
| – | “Women don’t like nice guys” because they’re is a difference between being nice & being kindNice Survivorship bias. Nobody is gonna believe your anecdote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Why Don't Passport Bro's ever ask Guy's living in PPB Paradise for advice?If your country is the United States of America I definitely feel sorry for you then. Understandable why you wouldn't want to leave but if you can escape and are miserable here you should. The country that I originate from would have me not having no problems getting women. And I'm saying that confidently based on my observations as someone who hasn't had sex or a girlfriend in the USA that is otherwise "blackpilled." My parents would have no issue with introducing me to women in this country ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:57 AM |
| 11 | Men should choose better womenSounds an awful like how women look at men that aren't Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Men should choose better womenThere's a difference in that men actually have to put in effort to get the opposite sex. Men get what they can and women get what they want. Men have to put in more effort that is reasonable today and women don't do jack shit for attraction. They literally can sit on their ass and demand high standards because it's that easy for them in life. That's where your confusion lies. If women had to compete for men the same way men do for women they would be both desperate and "hate" men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:43 PM |
| 8 | Where do above average but not hot men fall in terms of dating?Delusional. Yeah just get good at getting rejected a 1000 times over, a real genius plan with no significant damage to your self worth. Effort is one thing, insurmountable is another. And before you bother answering yes give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: could you use very good friendships and a vibrant social life to replace the need for sex ?Their is no point and it's honestly just unhinged. Most women in this context especially don't know what it's like to actually suffer or experience any genuine loneliness, so it's really irrelevant what he's asking. Might as well ask a rich person if money doesn't buy happiness why don't they give up their luxuries? Not go without sex, not go without an abundance of options, not go without nothing but the precious men they want that's in the top percentage or higher percentile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness is not the problem for Men, but lack of romantic love and sexThe fact he can't even correlate how loneliness and lack of romantic love or sex is the same thing already dismantles his argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Regarding "Confidence", Personality, and Physical AttractivenessCause men bad women good. Quality men= Chad I'm guessing otherwise all those hardworking men that keep society running aren't quality then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Regarding "Confidence", Personality, and Physical AttractivenessNice try. Average women don't want average men clearly so what's your point anyways and this has already been established. Yes most men aren't trying to be Chad because it's an impossible standard to meet for most men. Most men that have girlfriends or sex didn't have to self improve at least in the same respects the undesirable or rejected do, so that's laughable. It just happened organically and the naivety here though is profound I must add. It's time people admit that society at large is to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 05:19 AM |
| – | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manWomen have complete dominance over men in the dating marketing. Their is no tbf. Average men and above average wilt before their options and privilege. Only literally the 10% supercede them and it's it not like they can't get something good they just can't have the luxury. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 04:58 AM |
| – | Bluepill is mostly right on relationships, Redpill is mostly right on dating and meeting new peopleThat's exactly what women want. Being nice and kind doesn't attract them nor a gentleman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partnersYou're probably also perpetualally single feminist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Telling people to get a better personality in order to date is pointlessWhat interests? Learning how to dance? Rock climbing? Corny. Yeah terrible personalities like those on dark triad which just so happens to be what women are attracted to hmm interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Telling people to get a better personality in order to date is pointlessOr maybe women just are suck at selecting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.Exactly why I think the idea self fulfilling prophecies are nonsense. These people treat the symptoms not the cause. It's not that someone refuses to think their situation is hopeless that they can't find a girlfriend but it's the reasons why they believe it's hopeless is the problem. And these reasons are more than often true and valid. They are constantly reinforced through years of trauma until it becomes nothing but reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Hey, men: You should stop expressing how hard it's to be single.Sticky this post. Best thing I've seen written here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 03:54 AM |
| – | What do you think of hypergamy?If their is any justice to be had in this world I hope so. I don't see their dominance slowing down any time soon. Men are too weakened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:13 AM |
| 5 | What do you think of hypergamy?It's also advantageous for the rich to get richer at the expense of the poor now isn't it. Fuck that shit. Their standards are too god damn high for that shit to make sense and with the cost of living, inflation and them out pacing young men financially or in the education systemit's unacceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:04 AM |
| 4 | What do you think of hypergamy?Is toxic feminity. Only Chad actually does that shit and as you know most men aren't Chad. All women are hypergamous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Dating is now framed as a “market place”. What if my value is not something that can be shown but experienced?No where to meet buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Social isolation and male datingSounds like grounds for suicide to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:26 AM |
| 6 | Is there even any point in moving out nowadays? Early 30's maleIt's weird how men are only valued for what they provide? | /r/MensRights | 22/08/23 06:23 AM |
| 4 | Social isolation and male datingYou should blame women , as they are part of the fucking problem. What reason do they have to approach? Not be lonely? Find a partner? Hate the player and the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:06 AM |
| 11 | Social isolation and male datingYeah just be happy on your own, nevermind humans are social creatures. You know its ironic people that say this not only typically have girlfriends and friends like you do and have zero idea what being alone actually is, but to make even it worse they also come into the internet spouting this stuff in search of community or attention in which what does even being happy on your own even mean then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Women are more logical with relationships, men are more emotionaln don’t care how insecure/depressed men are, they don’t care if incels shoot up schools out of sexual frustration or if men kill themselves. They’re not trying to validate men or alleviate their suffering. Women vary in how much they care about sex and you would be surprised how common it is for them to care very little for it lo Oh trust me they care if they get killed when the victim is a female just not when its a male. Thats why women dont register for the draft and men are forced into being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 12:35 AM |
| 4 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menIt is a performance. You're peacocking to women cause apparently by nature they are entitled to picking male partners while simultaneously doing absolutely nothing to earn my attention. The only women I have any respect for in this world is the ones who have gone out of their way to show clear and direct interest. Only women worthwhile are going to be the ones that pick you first or show interest first not the other way around. You don't do this stupid little performance for them then you're the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menNope they don't like quiet men. They like loud bodascious assholes with a shrivel of intelligence and inhibition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menLol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 07:24 PM |
| 5 | Stop giving them attentionIf you want men to stop giving attention in the way you imply then you would have to bring back religion, chastity, monogamy and demonize promiscuity or sexuality. That's the only way. If you leave these people to their own devices they will fold no matter what. I'm not so different as I watch porn and masturbate to Instagram models or so on. That can still be considered attention but that's my only sexual relief admist my frustration so what choice do I have The desire for sex is as strong as a… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Are women who are single are involuntarily celibate like men? Because many people points out these when talking about 1/3rd of young men being virgin involuntarily.It's impossible and I know you have zero percent chance of proving it. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/23 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Are women who are single are involuntarily celibate like men? Because many people points out these when talking about 1/3rd of young men being virgin involuntarily.No it's literally impossible. Their is no anomaly. An anomaly would be me getting a really hot girlfriend with love at first sight without putting any fucking effort in the world to meet her, court and provide. That's an anomaly. That's me winning the fucking lotto. A woman can be the most ugly deformed human on planet earth and still have an easier time finding someone to have sex with than me. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/23 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Are women who are single are involuntarily celibate like men? Because many people points out these when talking about 1/3rd of young men being virgin involuntarily.Even -10/10 can't get more | /r/MensRights | 02/07/23 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Are women who are single are involuntarily celibate like men? Because many people points out these when talking about 1/3rd of young men being virgin involuntarily.Wrong. Don't believe me try it with tinder. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/23 07:41 AM |
| 10 | I just realized the difference between losers and victimsNeither is true for women but mostly true for men. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/23 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Boys and men experience more social isolation than girls and women, study findsIt honestly doesn't matter when you didn't have much of a choice to begin with. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/23 04:07 PM |
| 7 | IsItBullshit: Men don't care about other menYes I agree overall that men don't really care about men atleast in a practical sense. Most men aren't inclined or are capable of helping out men holistically in this individualistic society. Communities are non existent and people are atomized leaving them alienated to fend for themselves at the expense of others. Their are men out there that care certainly more than women ever will be capable of, but more so from a distance or cant reach you like the internet. Their are also men that uphold th… | /r/MensRights | 22/04/23 05:29 AM |
| -5 | NBC reports “gunMAN” instead of gunperson after school shooting of preschoolers was done by a female shooter. NBC thinks it’s okay to assume gender when it comes to males and shootings.Yeah because nothing screams hypocrisy of mens issues like saying something stupid like basement dweller living with parents vibes. You're not even self aware and yet this post got upvotes by bridgaders or worse . Yeah little too extreme? Go see what radical feminism is actually like on Reddit that is deemed as non-misnandry then come talk. That's extreme. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Men using artificial intelligence to simulate "dating" is actually very sad and it's a symptom of a social disease.Solution is to go overseas | /r/MensRights | 27/03/23 08:29 PM |
| 3 | In all seriousness, Men what do you want from women in regards to solving the modern dating problems ?Have sex with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 11:08 PM |
| 17 | All of the men whining about how "women don't like average guys" are well below "average" and are projecting their experience onto the rest of society by, often incorrectly, using data pulled from dating apps."More than 60 percent of young men are single, nearly twice the rate of unattached young women, signaling a larger breakdown in the social, romantic and sexual life of the American male. Men in their 20s are more likely than women in their 20s to be romantically uninvolved, sexually dormant, friendless and lonely. They stand at the vanguard of an epidemic of declining marriage, sexuality and relationships that afflicts all of young America. “We’re in a crisis of connection,” said Niobe Way, a ps… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Do average women really have it easier and better?Doesn't even remotely resemble if you get asked out occasionally and can get flooded with messages the moment you open an account. The minute she put in any actual effort her problems go away. A man will struggle for years no matter how hard he trys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Do average women really have it easier and better?Lol. You don't work for Jack shit. Even when you say you work for attention you still say easy to approach and not approach men which shows your female entitlement of doing nothing. You still expect men to do all the work while you passively do nothing in the process. If this person opened a tinder account, bumble account, hinge account all her problems would be practically solved, and if she asked out her guy friends you known the one she subconsciously friendzones someone would date her most l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 02:17 PM |
| 8 | The “modern woman” is changing, and the “modern man” needs to adapt to the changeYeah we do have to be better. Better than this country and go overseas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 03:45 AM |
| – | When does it make sense to just give up?When it becomes too difficult and feels practically impossible. Relationships are supposed to be organic and if it's not its because their is something inherently wrong with your environment, circumstances, and opportunities. You shouldn't have to become this self actualized chad or alpha to find a looks match or a decent partner atleast. I've gotten choosing signals before, I've had opportunities, , and I failed to meet any milestones. I have a girl in my class currently that I wish I could tal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 08:39 AM |
| 2 | What is really a "10" to men objectively speaking?It's fairly subjective from 8-10. It comes down to preferences then. I prefer latinas but others might be indifferent to them so an 8 to them could be a 9-10 to me. A woman could be a 7 to them and like a 9 to me if they don't prefer that race but are being reasonable. But it's generally more objective I say at 7-1. I say one because it's impossible for a woman to be a zero as their is always some desperate man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 12:32 AM |
| 3 | I hate to say it but a lot of the ideas you have about finding partners and relationships is the result of being chronically onlineYeah it's just that easy. Just go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 04:54 PM |
| 18 | I hate to say it but a lot of the ideas you have about finding partners and relationships is the result of being chronically onlineFunny how your ideas of being chronically online ultimately come from online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 06:44 AM |
| 2 | PsychologyToday writes a ridiculous article about how unwanted sexual inexperience causes hatred or violence against women, uses a heavily flawed study with flawed methodology."In a way, it is not surprising that the inability to meet the need for romantic love and belonging can cause overwhelming anxiety, depression, self-pity, and anger, since love is a fundamental human need. But a grave cause for concern is that some individuals react in extreme ways—with sexual or physical aggression—to not having their love needs met." Translation the grave cause for concern is that women are most affected and are getting attacked by a few outliers in mass shootings, violence, o… | /r/MensRights | 23/03/23 04:55 PM |
| 6 | The primary cause of singleness among men is simple yet overlooked.Pretty rich coming from a woman who doesn't have to put any effort whatsoever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if many of the guys that cannot date are actually enjoying the sufferingTheir is no comfort in believing free will doesn't exist and life is pre determined. It's just the truth and uncomfortable. It's depressing to look at life without rose colored glasses, especially when humans are programmed to think otherwise. Comfort is believing in the majority, that their is hope,telling yourself sweet little lies,being optimistic, believing your actions actually effect the outcome, being complacent against suffering. Believing that you have a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:48 PM |
| 8 | Passport Bros prove that Women’s Hypergamy isn’t the issue but the fact that some men can’t do the same."Easy" Lmao. Go look at the pew research, marriage divorce rates in America, cost of living, men dropping out of society, men staying home with parents, most americans living paycheck to paycheck, rise in loneliness and depression. Also fyi I know it's hard to believe in a world of hypergamous, entitled, radical feminism that even ordinary good men can't find their looks match or a suitable partner. If these men don't have any ounce of masculinity, then the women in America aren't even real wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:40 PM |
| 6 | Passport Bros prove that Women’s Hypergamy isn’t the issue but the fact that some men can’t do the same.No we have a problem with having increasingly shitter options or no options at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Change my View : Location is a very Big factor, in terms off sexual success, there are Playboys in a certain region who would be incels if they moved to a "harder" region.Lol no they are definitely chads. A handsome white tall blonde with blue eyes is liked everywhere in the world including by you. Get real for a second. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Change my View : Location is a very Big factor, in terms off sexual success, there are Playboys in a certain region who would be incels if they moved to a "harder" region.Yeah and everywhere isn't a feminist western society where men are looked down upon in every facet. Men will find it easier if women are cooperative and don't have thousands of options better than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 12:24 AM |
| 5 | Change my View : Location is a very Big factor, in terms off sexual success, there are Playboys in a certain region who would be incels if they moved to a "harder" region.Yeah because approaching women a hundred times and getting rejected is being social. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 12:19 AM |
| 3 | straight men uglify themselves a lot on the dating market, and should stopLol. All this shit could be resolved if you just posed as a man and compared to your own. You wouldn't even pick yourself if you were a male version of yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | straight men uglify themselves a lot on the dating market, and should stopYeah because your anecdotal evidence just happens to be everyone's reality. Please share your wisdom and ignore statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 10:56 PM |
| 3 | straight men uglify themselves a lot on the dating market, and should stopExactly every woman on here should do it with intellectually honest, so reality can slap them in the face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 10:51 PM |
| 7 | straight men uglify themselves a lot on the dating market, and should stopLol "personality". Your personality is your face buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 10:49 PM |
| 3 | straight men uglify themselves a lot on the dating market, and should stopYeah almost like life is pre determined and effort doesn't matter. Who would of thought | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 10:46 PM |
| 75 | Millions of men have dropped out of the workforce, leaving companies struggling to fill jobs: It's "a matter of our national identity"The privilege to survive and enjoy breads&circuses. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/23 07:46 AM |
| 1 | The top 20% of young men are having 84% of the sexIn other news the sky is blue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | RP men don’t like women, they’re just attracted to themThere's no real reason to like the opposite sex if you're not attracted to them. We don't share the same values, hobbies, interests, etc. What use is a woman to me if I can't satisfy my sexual gratification in a practical sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 09:37 PM |
| 14 | Do you think the system is bound to collapse?Everything that has a beginning has an end. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/23 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Men blamed for being sexless. Again.It's getting harder and harder for me to try at all | /r/MensRights | 28/02/23 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?It means women will date for money and stability with subpar looks in their eyes if they're not being foolish, otherwise they re gonna just to fuck around literally till they find out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:45 AM |
| -5 | Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of?You mean the pos boys that girls are attracted to but apparently fail to sense their "nice guy" act while simultaneously ignoring good men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Fewer women on apps because treated badly?Average men don't but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?Delusional. Maybe half of those men are capable of that at best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Has dating really got worse, or is it always been the same?63% single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:49 PM |
| 5 | Theory: dating apps have irrepairably damaged Collective Unconcious Sexual Selection (CUSS) health.We are unattached cause we have no tucking choice but to be alone. Yeah exactly 80% of men are low value while women do jack shit and have to work for nothing. Not a recipe for a functional society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:06 PM |
| 9 | Seen repeated claims “there are more attractive women then men.”Doesn't mean jack shit. Still have to prove yourself like a good little lap dog while others can wear a shitty little white tee and jeans get girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:28 AM |
| -6 | "Women on the internet aren't real women"Women have less an excuse because they actually don't have a problem finding mates. There's zero reason for a woman to be on here when they can literally go get a boyfriend today if they weren't so choosy. Men actually have to suffer for years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Why Dating Is Easier For Some People And Harder For Others According To ChatGPTChatgpt Why women have dating easier "It is not accurate to make a blanket statement that women have dating easier. Both men and women can face challenges when it comes to dating, and experiences vary greatly depending on various factors such as personal preferences, cultural and social norms, personality traits, and individual circumstances." False. It is accurate and women have it much easier. "That being said, it is worth noting that traditional gender roles and stereotypes can create certain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 10:41 AM |
| – | 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age groupAmerica isn't gonna last more than 200 years at this rate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 06:46 PM |
| – | 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age groupWhat happens when you abandon men and treat them like trash? You get what you fucking deserve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Men's reactions to rejection is one of the things that keep them from dating successhttps://youtu.be/gFmFOmprTt0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:22 AM |
| 1 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?Nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Men are judged for "getting" women. Women don't "get" men.No they mean looks don't matter because you can overcome your looks by being a good little boy inside and be confident. You're dead wrong. Looks are the only that truly matters when it comes to casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 08:32 PM |
| 6 | It's exhausting to make female friendsEasily? In a social media age get real. Walk outside and truly examine the invisible men you ignore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Tinder overseas is the Twilight Zone for menYeah I got a lot of really good matches in Colombia and Thailand but nowhere else I have been able to replicate success yet or tried. Its both odd and depressing because their is no way I can trust the sincerity of it but I cannot summarily dismiss it as a place I can have partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 07:13 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Claims that single women are so much happier and satisfied than single men need to be taken with a grain a salt because the main women propagating this are either taken, conventionally attractive, or misandrist.Except women aren't practically ugly and alone like men. They always have a legitimate option or options. Men have literally nothing and are nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 07:10 AM |
| 10 | Men are judged for "getting" women. Women don't "get" men.All women have to do is try and not pick a bad partner. They're the ones that select men and reject worthless men like me apparently. It's an million times easier for women to get relationships or sex while men including me having to struggle tooth and nail for women. The amount of effort it tastes to accommodate women and be attractive to them for those that are struggling is ludicrous. Its hard work and it's not game or thrill for me, it's just pure pain for a chance at glory or grace. And tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 07:05 AM |
| 8 | Men are judged for "getting" women. Women don't "get" men.I mean who disagrees with this premise. Thought this was common sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.I agree with her. It's not practical for most men to get casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 06:05 AM |
| -1 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.*Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 06:03 AM |
| 4 | Tinder overseas is the Twilight Zone for menThailand and caratenga | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.it's not practical but it is possible. Expecting most men to put in what is an inordinate herculean effort to attract women that is seemingly unnatural to them with no tangible evidence of guaranteed success is insane. It would be like saying america could be not obese and mostly skinny if they just went to the gym trying so very hard, while ignoring all the reasons in the culture, environment, food that leads to that being practically impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY.That's a convenient way of saying everything is your fault and has nothing to do with luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Tinder overseas is the Twilight Zone for menYeah the countries I did try were in the highest concentration of black people in the world which i also happen to find have the most attractive women in the world anyways. I've done Thailand before but i think that's the "easiest" to get matches and got so many which I also thought was a red flag. I consider South America to be legit because I wasn't getting matches on the most attractive women their and it varied with the exact location I was in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Tinder overseas is the Twilight Zone for menYeah my mom watches that show lol on tlc. I wouldn't bring them back as that is what all the passports bros recommend. I would have to get a remote job so I can maximize my dollar and live in a different country which sounds difficult, but it could be worth the risk or effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Tinder overseas is the Twilight Zone for menYeah that sounds like good advice. I've only experimented with the popular South American countries because I find them to have the most attractive women on earth. They also have a higher concentration of black people than in the states which helps because I know black women are the most likely to be attracted to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 08:26 AM |
| 6 | Tinder overseas is the Twilight Zone for menI mean it sounds like I'm humble bragging or flexing but I'm really being honest. it never seemed to help that I have these strengths and I don't really consider them strengths until people point them out to me. I still feel inferior to women but I recognize that I'm not a complete genetic failure. Im also black which lowers my smv being average looking at best. Had I been white I probably wouldn't even be having this conversation but I could just be making excuses. Even my downstairs is above a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:36 AM |
| 7 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race."The world has experience many tragedies, but to my mind the greatest tragedy of all is the present economic condition wherein women strive against men, and in many cases actually succeed in usurping their places in the professions and in industry. This growing tendency of women to overshadow the masculine is a sign of a deteriorating civilization. Perhaps the male in society is useless. I am frank to admit that I don't know. If women are beginning to feel this way about it - and there is striki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:27 AM |
| 8 | Tinder overseas is the Twilight Zone for menYeah that's great and I hope it's true. I hear all the horror stories about it being dangerous but yeah I won't know till I get my shit together then move. Their is a way to do it for free through tinder on browser by downloading a GPS emulator then change location. You can also use Google voice to make another phone number as well because I did two accounts with a guy that I know is more attractive than me then myself. I got like 20 likes with 8 matches then this guy has 42 likes with more over… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 07:01 AM |
| 6 | Tinder overseas is the Twilight Zone for menYeah women might as well be a completely different species from my experience with tinder. I mean I would still have to go about making it happen and avoid danger but it doesn't seem impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Tinder overseas is the Twilight Zone for menI used a location changer. I wish I could go their now to know the truth lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 06:43 AM |
| 3 | The Floor matters more than the ceiling when it comes to your attractiveness to women"People who say game doesn't exist are out of their minds. Game is pretty much just filtering your sexual desire towards a woman through your personality. I can get women to come over to my apartment consistently but if my dick isn't hard and I don't seem excited to fuck them, they will not be turned on." You can't be serious. Is your whole argument on game is that you cant get aroused around a girl and arouse one, despite you being girls to your apartment for seemingly no reason other than your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Looks determine your league, personality determines your successAnecdotal evidence like this means nothing. No one in their right mind believes average men are simply dating good looking women above their league as your post implies. And even it was the case which it obviously isn't survivorship bias is a real thing and so is being rich or having status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 10:21 AM |
| 0 | How are men supposed to meet women these days?Ironically somehow you don't see how this becomes creepy and rapey | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 11:24 PM |
| 7 | A study of the ok cupid graphs and how they're more damming than initially discussedYou'll say all this and still somehow come to the conclusion that personality actually matters in real life when in infact your looks is still the only thing that truly does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:05 AM |
| 2 | What do men actually find attractive in a woman's personality?Neither sex cares about Intelligence other than "emotional intelligence". An intellectual would like an intelligent women most likely but it's not going to be the thing that attracts men the most. You can be Freudian about it and say the qualities that make a mother or father are traits women or men desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 09:04 PM |
| 6 | Mental health issues for men are far more isolating than for women. Men have a reason they don’t talk about it.Most men don't really care including probably you. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/23 07:37 AM |
| 3 | The Real Dog PillYou do imply a good point. Women love dogs more than they could ever a man mostly for that nurturing baby mother thing I suppose. Men love dogs but not as much as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 07:09 AM |
| 0 | If you’re a man that has a negative view on women, you need to read this. Immediately.That's one of passport bros main tenets isn't it? If you could afford it then go to a country like Thailand, Brazil, and Colombia and you will have an better experience because women aren't radicalized by feminism and a lot less cold to men because of the American culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 02:39 AM |
| 1 | The less physically attractive a man is, the better they have to beIf that's the case then capitalism is inhumane and is dominated by the psychopaths, narcissists, and sociopaths of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 03:32 AM |
| 16 | Men dropping out of society is detrimental to our causeRome wasn't built in one day but it did fall one day after the breads and circuses no longer sufficed. I disagree the more men that drop out the better as it would create too many problems for the people in power to ignore or disregard. I have to imagine the "elite" don't forsee this being an issue anyways so it's not likely to happen atleast in a revolutionary way. The problem with the cause is their is no actual political movement or threat to them other than I guess technically incels. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Porn demographics are shifting so much that it's no longer strictly a men's issue. How will the media find a way to blame men for it?I mean amateur porn probably isn't even a real representation technically either cause it blurs the line because it's actually real. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/23 09:32 PM |
| 11 | Questions about the apparent success of bad menFunny meanwhile how actual good providers and protectors are being rejected for chads or men with toxic traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Questions about the apparent success of bad menNice gymnastics. Old age come from an old time when women didn't sleep around for chad. Overwhelming majority of men are dating and laid is also complete utter bullshit in this new modern era. I also don't give much credence to those data's and surveys that you failed to bring up because its probably skewed since you can only interview or collect data from a handful of people. How on earth could you possibly know how many people have sex accurately? Secondly their is no real success to begin wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 09:00 PM |
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