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| 8 | How do I flirt with a shy nerdy guy and actually turn him on?Stand in front of him and hold his hands lightly, look him deep into the eyes, and position yourself for a kiss | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 03:49 AM |
| 5 | 10/10 Girl At BarCrazy work. She's just chatting it up with people she's seen before. Didn't have to be noted whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:18 AM |
| 2 | My first post here - 24 yo loserSometimes it helps to find gratitude in even the intrusive thoughts and anxieties. Take note of how you're feeling, tell yourself it's normal to feel this way, it sucks and that's just life, and try to find appreciation in what's around you. The cool air, the vibe of the restaurant or club you're in, the taste of your drink; there are plenty of things to look at to process the anxiety you're feeling. Don't shove it away, just be aware of it, smile at it, and use that as motivation to enjoy what'… | /r/seduction | 08/09/25 04:53 AM |
| 5 | My first post here - 24 yo loserLive in the moment, not the outcome. People can tell when you are trying to get something from them. So, try to remain rooted in the present moment as much as possible, otherwise you are going to be stuck in your head trying to say the right thing. Spend time with people who you aren't sexually attracted to, whether it's friends or family often, so that you can remind yourself that you don't have to perform all the time. | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Girl flaked the first time — now she’s back. How do you play it?She only wants you when you're convenient. Judging by your comments, you're not looking for anything serious. So, make the relationship as convenient as possible, go get dinner close to her house, go to her house, smash, and repeat. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Which is better? Masking or be my unhinged selfWhatever is spontaneous is good, but if your spontaneity feels try hard, then you're not being spontaneous, you're being quirky to get a reaction. If it feels natural without self-consciousness, you're on the right track. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 09:12 PM |
| 6 | Really angry on myselfAt least you thought about doing it, rather than not at all. Don't shame yourself so harshly. Think about what someone you care about would tell you. They would say, "Hey it's alright, you got it next time!" And run with that. | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 06:21 PM |
| 29 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.If he is handsome and has a nice profile then yes it's totally possible | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a doctor ?Ask for a colonoscopy, then she'll peg you | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | A lot of you are not nice (guy) and kindThank you DenialWatson | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 12:39 AM |
| 16 | Hard to cum second time.Ma'am this is a Wendys It's the same for guys btw | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 07:48 AM |
| 1 | When does showing intent/leading become chasing?When you are more focused on the girl than having fun | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Older waitress flirted with me at a salsa club, gave me her number, but our 'date' felt like I was just a ride for her — what happened?Wtf | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 12:56 AM |
| -2 | Lose weight guysLots of women like chubby guys, probably not the majority though | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Did you ever cold approach at business place like hospital?Lmfao | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Help A High School Guy Make A Come BackNext time just find clever ways to joke about their backhanded comments. They're just shit testing you to see how you react. If you bumble and stutter and take everything seriously, of course things are going to be awkward. Just laugh at their remarks and play it off as though you're just a cool guy. Embrace your vitiligo and try to dress in ways that actually highlight your condition and make you look unique. Confidence is key in this situation. They'll be most attracted to you once they realiz… | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Can’t stop thinking about negative interactionAdding a second comment: This would be fine for a girl to ask a guy for help, but a guy asking a girl for help is a really bad look due to gender roles. A guy would probably love to do the work for free for a pretty girl, but a pretty girl doing the work for a guy is just really bad. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Can’t stop thinking about negative interactionIt would have made more sense if you knew her beforehand, for example as a friend or at least a classmate she talked to. But right after learning her name and asking her to do this is really blind on your part. But even then, obligating work to another person is a huge no, even if you've built rapport. In no circumstance should you ever ask someone to do your work again. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Can’t stop thinking about negative interactionBro that is so awkward man, so you didn't even know her name in your first interaction with her and you asked her to do an assignment for you?? I can see why she ignored you. Paying her for her services communicates that you were just using her, even if your intent was to build a connection. It also communicates to her that you're lazy and you pay people to do work for you. I'm sure you learned your lesson already that this was a terrible idea because students are already busy with their own wor… | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Can’t stop thinking about negative interactionOhh I see, well could you give a play by play of how the conversation went before she ignored you the next time you saw her? | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Can’t stop thinking about negative interactionImo, texting is one of the worst ways to communicate with someone that you find attractive. It lets them know that you went out of your way just to message them which they might find uncomfortable and obligatory. It positions you as a chaser because you could have just spoken to her about this in person. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Messaging or wait until face to face?If they don't find you attractive in the first place it's kind of futile. You have to approach them as a friend, and if they find you attractive, they will let their imagination do the rest of the work for you. Successful seductions rarely start off with a strategic device or maneuver, aka overt flirting in the early stages. Again, they have to find you attractive, or you'll just be put in the friend zone. Avoid texting in general because it makes you look like you're bored and have nothing bett… | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Can’t stop thinking about negative interactionSounds like you showed your cards and intentions too soon without letting the seductive process unfold naturally, which lead her to ignoring you | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 10:19 PM |
| 0 | How to look confident without being boisterous?? Did I say something wrong? | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 08:28 AM |
| 1 | How to look confident without being boisterous?Confidence is being comfortable with yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 07:11 AM |
| 0 | Having the desire to ask for advice on picking up girls means you feel worthless.Being discouraged when rejected is a natural and healthy response. It does not make you worthless. Dwelling on it, however, will make you feel worthless. You just gotta pick yourself up and keep doing it till you're satisfied. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Need a lil adviceThe fact that she has a workout partner and is huggy with him might indicate that she is already interested in someone else then. Not really looking good for you at the moment to be honest. However, she is still texting you, so that indicates at least some interest, so I wouldn't give up just yet. I'd recommend to casually sprinkle in how you love going to the gym during your voice calls, to which she might reply "me too!", or you could ask "do you go to the gym?" which would give you the opport… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Need a lil adviceI'd say to lay off the pressure and try getting to know her via text, phone calls, and video chats first since she is busy. Schedule any of these so it shows that you're considerate of her busy schedule. When you're chatting with her, make it low pressure, don't try to convince her to go out more than one or two times to show that you consider her feelings. As you get to know her through these calls, I'd say she might be more comfortable in creating plans in the long run. If your recent text was… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Dry spell, unsure why I'm self sabotaging, 25Were you fulfilled by your relationships from 17-21? Or do you have a guilty conscience that you'd like to fix? Like you, my dad was also abusive, so now I seek short term relationships as an escape, because I wouldn't feel comfortable with something sincere due to trust issues. I know this is something I need to work on, but at the same time it's comfortable having no commitment to hookups. I haven't had sex in 4 years and I'm late twenties now, but I still desire hookups and fwbs more than com… | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it over for me?Da fuck? | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Anyone actively daygaming?Yes I play video games all day /s | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:46 PM |
| 0 | How do hookups happen in college?The number approach isn't effective if you're not rizzing them up through text. Conversely if all you're asking for is numbers, you've already shown lots of your interest without any real follow up or conversational foreplay. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Throw yourself in imperfectlyShe texted you at 11:11. Coincidence? I think not! | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 02:48 AM |
| 2 | How can I tell who I can attract?The picture of the woman you provided is a 404, so we don't know what your type is. You're a very attractive dude though, so I'd say that confidence will carry the day for you with plenty of different women. Looks aren't everything. Personality and the way you make them feel are far more important. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 08:20 PM |
| 5 | How do I get rid of my “Smart” lookBe yourself is bad advice. Clearly you are discontent with it. It's okay to change yourself to be someone that you admire from an outside perspective. You say you like streetwear and other styles, so embrace that. We are all characters in this game called life. We are fluid. We can change ourselves to be whoever we want to be. The attraction you get from others should not come from their approval, but from your own self approval. Love yourself, but don't think that "you" are "you". We are ever c… | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 07:58 AM |
| 7 | How can i express the idea that i don't settle"I'm looking for something casual" "I'm not ready to settle down just yet" "I'm just going with the flow right now" "I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment" "Are you open to the idea of being friends with benefits?" | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Can I still attract many women if I have small bones?Small... bones... | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl seams to ignore my massages and call after got her number.. what can i tell her when i meet her in personI'm thinking you probably showed your cards too early instead of continuing to develop the low commitment hi and bye that you used to have | /r/seduction | 22/03/24 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Guys I really need your helpSuch a strange question. It's going to be nearly impossible to convince them even if you straight up tell them that you don't want them there. You'll end up creating bad blood in that case. I suggest you stop being judgemental of your classmates. If they're really that bad, then simply ignore and don't associate with them in ugt. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Would the gym help (19M)?😭😭😭 | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Would the gym help (19M)?😭😭😭 Please just go to the glowup or whatever subreddit it is, you'll see how ugly people were before they put in the work to improve themselves | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Would the gym help (19M)?Your dad literally got laid and made you | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Would the gym help (19M)?You got this bro. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:32 AM |
| 4 | Would the gym help (19M)?Confirmation bias. Stop looking up evidence to support your negative opinions, you'll always find an answer. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Would the gym help (19M)??? Look up jacked 5'9" (insert your race here) on Google n you'll feel better bro, trust. And no it's not genetics, it's hard work and consistency | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:30 AM |
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