Messaging or wait until face to face?

DaygameCode · 2024-04-19T18:29:36+00:00

Don’t warm up the food until you can eat it straight away. Meaning don’t flirt unless you can already seeing them now, and not months from now. You are only gonna get friendzoned if you keep texting and texting their women. They will see you as a text buddy. Texting is not a good place to flirt in a situation like this because you don’t know them in person, the mood will not go all the way till the start of your university and you will anyways have to start things from scratch face to face. You will only be risking making yourself too easy, and potentially getting written proof by women that you are going over board. Never leave traces of your flirting. Always do things face to face

BW2Dat · 2024-04-19T20:52:54+00:00

Face to face always

norwegiandoggo · 2024-04-19T20:54:11+00:00

You should always assume women talk to each other. "Hey girl, did John also flirt with you via text?" "Yes omg!! Let's ask Jessica." "Jessica, did John also try to hit on you?" "Yasss he did. So desperate"

See how that goes? Your Social reputation is ruined. Better to wait until you meet them in person in my view. But more importantly than this: pick one girl at a time to hit on. Preferably someone that seems to be interested. At a place like college or university, social status is everything. Be careful to protect it. If you hit on several women i quick succession you will get a bad reputation

AccomplishedPie2426 · 2024-04-19T22:18:27+00:00

Like the previous guy said, make sure they are actually down to meetup before you start rizzing on text

Important_Tip_6181 · 2024-04-19T22:23:18+00:00

If they don't find you attractive in the first place it's kind of futile. You have to approach them as a friend, and if they find you attractive, they will let their imagination do the rest of the work for you. Successful seductions rarely start off with a strategic device or maneuver, aka overt flirting in the early stages. Again, they have to find you attractive, or you'll just be put in the friend zone. Avoid texting in general because it makes you look like you're bored and have nothing better to do when you're not at school face to face. You should only text them if you feel like they can be seduced. Do most of your relationship building in person. Mystery will build over the few months before school if you only text occasionally to be polite, but I suggest avoiding directly messaging them and let them only see you in the group chat. I have to emphasize that you don't want to be the guy who texts the most in the group chat, because that will make you look needy and desperate for attention.

Title	Messaging or wait until face to face?
Author	Klutzy_While_1317
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	April 19, 2024 6:21 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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