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| 3 | Asking for social media vs numberI've never had social media and only taken numbers. Hundreds of them at that. At the beginning if a girl asked for socials I'd walk away and say that's for kids or I don't have none of that fake stuff have a good day. And leave. Towards the end I was pushy for numbers about half the time. Looking back. Social vs numbers is night and day. The amount of flakes on socials is 10x more than a number. And numbers hardly mean much. Any guy can get socials. Even if they're not approaching. How do you ev… | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Good Books to readMike mehlman. All the bullshit of game ideologies should be tossed away forever. And start approaching realistically for what it really is | /r/seduction | 13/07/25 01:28 PM |
| 1 | What's your WORST cold approaching experience?A little over 700 recorded and documented on everything that matters. I've approached many 100s before in the past. I got to a point of having seen success. I genuinely wanted to know how does is it look statistically? Given that I was experienced... Let me tone it down to do the average bare minimum and pretend to approach like a total beginner. What are the chances like? 1% my friends Couldve push to 1000 as planned. But what would've been the point to act like a beginner throughout it till th… | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What's your WORST cold approaching experience?Its a waste of time because cold approach is a 1% success in terms of just getting a date for the above average guy starting his first several hundreds approaches. The 1% success may vary with several factors involved but it only changes decimaly when all is said and done. Its always definitely lower than 2%. Very much closer to 1%. Its why its a waste of time. For said individual. Its usually somewhere along the lines of 63 approaches per date. 71 approaches per date. As high as 85 approaches t… | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Advice for cold approaching women as a single man?First. Style Its important to look really nice. You dont need to go all out. But you definitely can't go out wearing whatever. Or even looking decent. You gotta look good! Almost treat it as if you're going on a dating show Secondly. What to say A generic copy and paste opener works well. But there are some situations where it simply wont have much effect. So be very aware of this! The idea of the opener is to get their full attention. And you should carry it with enough conviction to get them t… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesThat's a vague question and doesn't provide a lot of conversational value. Based on the limited context I have, I would have said - "Hmm, okay so you are just an ordinary girl living an ordinary life, so that's why I had to come up to you as I wanted to make it a bit less ordinary (smirk)" Let me unpack and debunk this. By your own standards hows that adding value? When youre just repeating what she said? In what way is that furthering the conversion? I don't agree with genuine connection becaus… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesI did something exactly similar. Currently been on hold for a while. I had 500 approaches and kept track of everything!! I'm just laughing so hard at the comments because your statistics are very similar to mine. These people expect cold approach to be some god-like cheat hack because of all these Youtube pick up marketers telling them if it's not, they're doing something wrong. It's why you have so much unfathomable experts in the comments from people who have never approached I had 503 approac… | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Going for the kiss if not going to lead to anywhere?Girl: So im not free to meet anytime soon unless its before work! About 1 hr before my shift! :) Guy: yaaaaaa, that works. "Im also busy." Ahahaha sounds like a fun date 🤣😆 | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 50 cold approaches"Forming a connection gives you better chances" LMFAOOOO Insecurity pedastaling a girl to try to score by regulating your behavior in hopes of retaining her ahahahahahah Comes from a guy with no abundance. Go ahead and make your connection with a random girl on the street. Im sure the chemistry is there its just yet to reveal itself ahahahahah Cant even justify any of your dumb logic. Cuz its just plain stupid | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:04 PM |
| -5 | Going for the kiss if not going to lead to anywhere?That's a pointless date then. I don't see a guy catering to such a date because "hes also busy." It more so a date conveniencing the dumb girl who doesn't care to make time for a guy. Id drop this pedestal date That's not a date | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 50 cold approachesNot stupid when ive formed "connections" with ~500 girls and got about 5 dates How you act/present yourself doesn’t change the number of girls who will be interested in you; it merely changes which girls will be interested in you ** if you’re an introvert as fuck and carry a lot of emotional baggage, you’re still a select for a subset of girls. They exist. And they aren't outnumbered by any other type of girls "Forming a connection gives a better chance" 😆🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 50 cold approachesWhat date!?? If youre referring to actual dating there is no such thing in cold approaching U approaching a complete stranger based on looks are going to have absolutely nothing in common. Whats there to connect about!?? Seriously, its somewhat psychotic to think youre gonna magically make a connection happen in 5 minutes witha complete stranger on the grocery isle Nearly all dates off cold approach are always going to be superficial. Theyre after all started on such premise You have no clue lik… | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 50 cold approachesApproach the ones you like | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I go about approaching a girl?As a beginner if youre cold approaching. Drive to the city. Google map stores to hit on girls. Make a route. Copy & paste a script template to approach girls with ~1minute conversation. Within 50-150 youre guaranteed a date. On average youll need 100 approaches till date [40% chance could happen before 100. 40% chance could happen after 100]. Text them 15 minutes later. "Nice meeting you, bob. 50% numbers you get will reply(+1hr, fake number). Ur welcome | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 50 cold approachesNope. Ive stated many times that you need 100s upon 100s of approaches to get dates consistently Everything OP posted ive mentioned before what was going to happen. Ive also said i get dates within 30 seconds or so of conversation. And i dont have problems getting dates Girls are 110% gonna flake. Its expected. Ive had MANY dates within -20 approaches. And other dates as high as 200 approaches Its a numbers game. These things fluctuate. Doesnt matter what you say, who you are, what you do. That'… | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 12:03 AM |
| -1 | Stats on 50 cold approachesWho told you instadates are for retention!?? Everyone knows instadates are for getting laid lmao Furthermore. Whether you instadate a girl or not, the chances of her seeing you again are the same as if youd just gone out on a day2 date. Most dont see you again regardless. Thats just beginner basics The fact that youre actually instadating girls towards the end result of them seeing you again is very high insecurity and shows how scarcely youre able to get dates My guy, cold approachers arent goi… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 11:32 PM |
| 7 | Stats on 50 cold approachesThats not true. Building a connection with a girl has proven to be nothing but a waste of time. The majority of girls ive gone out on dates ive had nothing in common. The conversation on approach was unsmooth and very robotic. A lot of other girls agreeing to meet up were also shy, nervous, didnt say much Trying to build a connection in hopes of getting a date is just neediness and comes from a place without a man having abundance. So you play it safe to try to score. Its already been debunked m… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 10:08 PM |
| 6 | Stats on 50 cold approachesAnd like ive said before in my comments numerous times. Beginners will get about 15 numbers per 100 approaches. About 7 numbers per 50 with a 50% response rate And out of even 15 numbers youre still not guaranteed a date. Dont be at all surprised if you need +100 approaches till date. Although its not rare -It is uncommon & it does happen... We can even break it down logically. If you were to approach 50 more. More than likely youd get about 6 more numbers. From those youre left with 3 REAL numb… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I have no issue getting some girls number during cold approach, but it never goes anywhereThat's common. If they forget your name its a flake/fake number | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl at the gym next day she found and added me on instagram, next move?It can be anything. Direct, indirect. Obseverational, situational, irrelevancy. Only thing that matters is you lead the conversation all the way to asking them out. Its a numbers game | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 09:45 PM |
| 23 | Approached a girl at the gym next day she found and added me on instagram, next move?It means nothing. Ive approached girls at Walmart and after my opener they were impressed and gave their numbers to me immediately. And they joked where we gonna meet up? Ive had similar other stories to these. Most of these mean shit The only thing certain is when they're physically standing in front of you at x meet up place. Ask them out | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Can't figure out if she's intrested or notFrom the title: No. Move on | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Daygame FR / 24 April 2022These are just weird man. Stop the cringe. Go on and approach but stop analyzing and posting it on creepy reddit. Don't even know whats this purpose for doing it?? | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Scored a number on the bus. When should I call her?The best gamers are always given defamation Paul janka on dr phil show: narcissist Homelessjoe on dr phil show: loser frat boy Mehlman: lunatic Sumbag, player, masochist etc titles are all of successful guys with girls Mehlman is no different than me going up to girls giving a compliment. 40 seconds interaction. Gtg, lets meet up sometime Pretty sure I'm also not making girls "feel safe" at the grocery, campus, gyms, clothing stores, department stores, book stores, gas stations, parks, malls spa… | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Should I interpret this as a sign of interest or not?When you text a girl it should be to set up meet up plans. Stop the games. Ppl are busy Ask her out to something and if shes free. If shes busy or some other excuse. Give it about 2 weeks or more to ask again. Delete her if she wont meet up. Dont be a text buddy | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 14 | What are you supposed to do if you just dont have any women interested in you?A lot of girls arent going to be interested in you. If youre like everyone else you wont get the majority Have style Go to gym Be social Condifence builds within months and years. Thats attractive. And even then youll still get rejected by many. Dont sweat it | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 08:59 PM |
| 12 | Does a girl expect you to become angry when she rejects you?It means you make a move if: shes been in your bubble making eye contact touching you trying to flirt with you If neither you can still make a move to test the waters. Cuz some girls are shy or intimidated by you. Any light touching will do. Proceed based on her reaction(give her some time to adjust). And work up the steps(mix in with conversation) 1)Touch/Caress 2)Kiss/Sex: 1st base, 2nd base, 3rd base, home run | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Scored a number on the bus. When should I call her?A quick 30 second read on a pro daygamers phone & summary about numbers to dates: https://mikemehlman.net/2020/04/12/how-to-be-non-needy-through-text/https://mikemehlman.net/2020/04/12/how-to-be-non-needy-through-text/ | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Scored a number on the bus. When should I call her?1 number? thats cute. You actually need a lot of numbers for any to transistion into dates. I get numbers like candy approaching +70 a week(+15 numbers). I dont romanticize them because most are meaningless. Id be a fucking rockstar drowning in kitty every week if i could get 1/3 out of all my numbers to meet Call or text is all the same. Flake rate is always extremely high my boi | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl is shy towards me?Yup. Girls are rarely single because they take who they can in the moment. Whenever they have a better guy lined up they leave them. And so on Ever wondered why a lot of guys on here struggle to find single girls in their daily life? That's the reason ☝ because that's the game If a girls availability wasnt so scarce then no guy on here would complain so much why they can't get a gf Ur just dumb bro if you haven't realized that | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Girl is shy towards me?You like her & she's single? Ask her out IMMEDIATELY. Whenever a girls young and single they literally say yes to any first guy | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | best PUA masters🤮🤮🤮 | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 32 | Does a girl expect you to become angry when she rejects you?Most guys are soo uncalibrated and will then flip the fuck out if they get shut down once. Is what shes referring to Its guys who escalate quickly but have the patience to get shut down several times who will hook up with the girl. Theyre typically the "nice guy..." On the surface | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 02:45 PM |
| 28 | which advice changed youre whole gameIts a numbers game. Rejection is the prerequisite for positive outcome Get rejected 99 times, get 1 date out of it. And dont whine about it. Its reality. Nothing you say or do will change that Also... mike mehlman | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | What´s the best strategy to get laid the first date?Its a numbers game. Most girls arent going to go back with you no matter what. Only 1/4 of girls are going to go back to yours from dates. At best it can be 1/3 Once at your place you have to be maximally forward and persistant. As if youre never going to see them again. From cold approach you hardly see them again regardless. You should be able to hook up with the majority who go back to yours | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 12:49 PM |
| 122 | Hot waitress.Pretty sure you past 5 or so hot girls this week while out doing errands. If you can't hit on those you got no right hitting on service wokers paid to be nice to you. Where they can't run away from you This has been answered too many times already | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 12:43 AM |
| 3 | How did you beat approach anxiety?Look at my comments history. The success for ANY beginner/intermediate is very low | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Good first date and she seems interested, should I shoot for the second immediately?When in doubt. 1 date per week is the rule | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 01:26 AM |
| 10 | How did you beat approach anxiety?Almost at 2000 approaches here. It never truly goes away. It just becomes tolerable. Being comfortable with the uncomfortable | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 01:14 AM |
| 10 | [UPDATE] Cold approaching is really insaneAs a cold approacher who does this full time. This post is sending the wrong message Cold approach is always going to be a low roi For a girl that agrees to meet up. There are dozens that are going to flake on you. I've had several dates within 10 approaches(2 numbers). And other dates as high as +200 approaches(30 ish numbers) Youre also only then hooking with a third/quarter of girls you go on a date with at best. That adds up to A LOT of dates if you just wanna have casual sex Also judging by… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girls number?Youre doing good. Its all a numbers game. Its not about what you say. Just as long youre putting some effort. A beginner is expected to get about 15 numbers per 100 approaches. 50% reply Your number problem is fixed. Ur welcome | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is really insaneIm doing an experiment to soon be released on reddit. With a lot of evidence and proof on: Beginner guy road to 10 dates strictly cold approaching. With statistics. I might push it to 15 dates just so its more solid info Currently with 6 total dates and about 500 approaches i believe. Currently on break The dates that im referring to are actual dates. Where the girls actually like you and for the most part will kiss you etc... Theres a lot to explain on it. But its very simple. Its just copy&pas… | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is really insaneGetting many numbers is the easy part if you follow the formula of approaching dozens upon dozens Getting dates consistently is the formula of 100s upon 100s of approaches. A beginner guy having a small number of dates has a few hundreds approaches under his belt | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How do I(18M) approach American girls on a school trip to Germany?They're likely underaged. Don't! There's seriously so many girls walking around in Germany you can approach. Go do that | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 01:24 AM |
| 7 | Should I be friends with a girl with boyfriend?Reality is the majority of girls aren't going to be single. And the ones that are, are mostly because hardly anyone wants to date them A lot of girls jump into relationships within the first guy that gets there. Therefore girls now a days only will break up their relationship if its to upgrade to a better guy. Happens all the time. Its way more of an occurence than encountering a single attractive girl | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Five flakes in one weekYoure funny. Ive had a record of 27 numbers flake(+200 approaches) all from cold approach. And some dates happening as low as 2 numbers(-12 approaches). So any date can happen inbetween is how i now look at it Its a numbers game. No sense complaining. You need a tonne of numbers. Once you accept that you'll be able to have a consistent dating life *Im currently at 22 flakey numbers after having triple back to back dates within 10 or so numbers. Maybe I'll break my flakey high number record... an… | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | I did it! I had my first date and it went well!!Its all experience my friend. Sometimes youll have bad dates and good dates. It normal. But always try to enjoy yourself | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 07:28 PM |
| 0 | When should I try and lose my virginity to an escort again?Have sex because you want to have sex with escorts. And not because you want to lose your virginity. Youre accomplishing nothing this way | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do some girls reject in a super rude way?Not at regular places. Its rare, almost non existent. I bet everything im the only one that approaches in my state regulary within local areas When i hear girls say they get hollered at i laugh. I then ask them what the guys say exactly. They answer with a generic bird call followed by whats your number. Thats not an approach. And i doubt any of that actually happened | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do some girls reject in a super rude way?Depends where the girl is at. Bar? Yes. Clothing store? NO | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 02:44 PM |
| 296 | Are you better off not sharing your success with guy friends?Get better friends | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 02:23 PM |
| -1 | How can i make girls pay or at least split the expenses?You're already more advance than 99.99% of people here to ask player advice These guys are still in the PUA phase. Thinking about getting girls to laugh and trying to connect with them. And "what's appropriate." Or "situational reads." Garbage beta stuff that doesn't work | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 02:15 PM |
| 11 | Why do some girls reject in a super rude way?Some girls have issues. They are of the minority. Its not your job to figure out why. Don't take it personal and keep it moving | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | How to open?Say literally anything. But nothing too serious. Don't act gamey cuz itll come off as wierd. Keep it casual | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:42 PM |
| -1 | Do you bring up sex before having it with a new partner?You a h03 | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you bring up sex before having it with a new partner?Wth. Absolutely not. Sex talk is only during intercoarse and after | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:37 PM |
| 0 | How to socialize when you work second shift (1pm-9:30pm)?Approaching only works when you treat it as a full time job. Even treating it as a part time job won't get you too far. You have to pick and choose. Don't multi task | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:28 PM |
| 0 | Really want to get better at eye contact without coming off creepy.I cold approach full time and it is creepy. There's no way around it. It's not for the faint of heart Even when im on break from gaming(relationship) girls will stare at me from time to time. And they look creepy with their eye contact. And im like, "oh god, good thing i dont stare and go straight in for the approach and catch them off guard." Staring is pretty wierd Google: While eye contact sends the message that you are confident, relaxed and interested in another person, staring is considere… | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | is it a good idea to give a man you aren’t officially dating small gifts?Be yourself. If that's you its cool you're unique in that way | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How to Unlearn PUA bulls*t?100s failures is the prerequisite to postive outcome. So its not failing when its simply a process If you think its failing. Thats where you are gonna fail. Youll just reflect on whats going wrong. Youll keep yourself in a slump. When in actuality, those are the rules of the game. Understand that and itll carry you onwards to success | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How to Unlearn PUA bulls*t?*Fluctuation plays a big part But in the macro it all balances out. If you look at the short term you wont be able to understand. And youll just lose sanity trying to figure it out Given from the above. Theres also *number droughts/date droughts about 20% of the time. Which i found very interesting There will be times youll go 20-40 approaches w/o a single number. And +100s approaxhes dateless. But its predictable once you understand it. Its almost comical And like i said. Given from what i know… | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | What is the rejection rate for a good-looking guy doing cold approach?Yes. And paul janka said many times to beginners its a huge numbers game. For starters; you have to approach in the 100s to get dates consistently These whole percentages isnt for the beginner/intermediates to try to understand. Percentages are for the advance and proffesionals | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach at a nightclubAaron sleazy was the master of club game. He understood it was a numbers game and played it well. Every night he would get laid with minimal effort. His books are up on kindle Hes completely against pua | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | does strong silent type + masculine body language works?When theyre not initially interested. You can coerce them into dating you. Thats what most guys do. Theyll keep talking to the same girl until she finally gets invested over time. To some guys its a process. But not many succeed. Just a few. And those few guys have been doing that with multiple girls throughout their life just to get one Almost as equally successful as if they should've just stayed quiet and let the girls come to them. Instead of batting every ball Girls will come and talk to yo… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | what could be a good next step in this situation?Dunno why you never asked her out to begin with. All of what you described youre just her text buddy | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | does strong silent type + masculine body language works?It only works on girls that are interested in you. But if you keep playing hard to get they'll move on You can be quiet and still get girls. Its probably the best way to go on about it instead of forcing conversations with countless hott girls that aren't into you. Nor your type | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:35 PM |
| 0 | How to Unlearn PUA bulls*t?If youre into PUA nerd shit than it does. I live in the real world and approach full time. Not once have i approach girls with PUA stuff I don't ever see any of these PUAs go on dates or show any proof. And im sorry you been lied to bud. That's just the hard truth whether you like it or not | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 11:43 AM |
| 0 | How to Unlearn PUA bulls*t?What you say or what you do doesnt matter | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 03:12 AM |
| 2 | How to make the conversation sexual?I used to be like you too. It took years for me to learn that you shouldn't force these things. Like select for likes I now don't talk to hot girls simply because they're hot. I see their archetype or if i genuinely think they're my type ill do two things *Ill stay quiet. They'll notice it too and talk to me first *I'll talk to them. They'll be extremely receptive and curious Most of the time. Your intuition is right | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | How to Unlearn PUA bulls*t?What ive told my younger brother whos anti social and if he was ever curious about game *Its 110% a numbers game *What you say. What you do, doesnt matter *It takes dozens upon dozens of approaches to get numbers consistently *And it takes 100s of approaches to get dates consistently Its all a beginner should know. Follow those rules and you won't ever fail All this backed up by statistics as well. Have almost 100 numbers documented all from cold approach I can literally go to any gym and just h… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 02:15 AM |
| 0 | What is the rejection rate for a good-looking guy doing cold approach?It's cold approach. It's in the name. The roi is always going to be minimal. Most guys will either be average or above average. However, the difference in the two will actually be miniscule Ive said it many times *It takes dozens upon dozens of approaches to get numbers consistently *And it takes 100s of approaches to get a consistent dating life from it I approached at the beginner phase and got just over a dozen dates. I then recently decided to run in experiment of NEW beginner statistics and… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:45 AM |
| -2 | What is the rejection rate for a good-looking guy doing cold approach?10% success can be anything. People who have no idea what they're talking about say exact stuff like this 10% of what?? Of Numbers? Approaches? 10 numbers? 20 numbers?? 50 numbers? 50 approaches?? 100 approaches?? That literally could be anything. See how this logic doesnt work | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | How to make the conversation sexual?Is just weird man I'm generally a nice guy. And many people have even said i was a sweet nice guy. And its how i am that girls comfortable talk openly about sex and hook ups with me. Some have even showed me pics/ videos of them provocative in their phones You have a misunderstanding on what you think you need to do to be sexual. Imo giving aggressive compliments is just creepy and can be harassment And on that topic. Girls that I've only met within an hour have told me many times how this guy w… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Strategy for making things more physical after a coffee date?First identify what youre looking for. If its sex. You have to be sex focused and not date focused! FORGET THE DATE The main way is decide on a date spot close to your place for sex I didnt have a place when i was pulling girls from dates. Id have a secret spot behind by this smoothie place. And once she met up... Immediately: Get physical, hug/spin her around/hold her hand Withing 5 minutes, go straight to the car and into the spot. If she refuses. Meet in the middle(sit outside). After you qui… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Need advice quickYou shouldve been making plans close to a spot of where you can fuck her Or have your date plans set up for sex. You should be sex focused. Not date focused This shouldve been planned out hours ago my dude. Guys that get sex regularly have a game plan theyve already used | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | stood upPUA stuff: *Its because your game was too weak *You can't change the time and give her a few how notice *You didnt follow up with sick text game clearly *She wasn't invested enough | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Left me on delivered for days, is it still salvageable ?Just read the title. NO Double texting works 1/200 times. Unless you got ways to get those type of contacts. And the time & patience to text all of em to get 1 girl... go for it | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | First approach during daytimeKeep doin this and you'll soon find out that "girls looking" at you doesn't mean anything. That's a perfect example how she just brushed you off. Given that youre friend also noticed that she was indeed looking at you Means nothing most of the time. Its a numbers game | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone go out by themselves to try to meet girls?A percent can mean anything!! E.g 10% of what, of 10? Of 40? Of 100? Not the way anyone should put it For beginners: Its 15 numbers per 100 approaches 50% reply(within an hr, any longer its fake) Dates; still unknown; im close to finding this out though. Its more than 50 approaches for sure. Seems closer to 100 On dates; the majority are okay with kissing. A few 2nd bases and 3rd bases all from within a car only ofc Anyone else telling you other numbers are lying. They dont approach *Fluctuation… | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone go out by themselves to try to meet girls?Numbers are easy but success only happens within 100s of approaches. Don't know you what you mean by hit | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:44 AM |
| 1 | What can I do if I simply don't attract any women/am not attractive enough physically?100 approaches 15 numbers. 50% real 7 numbers, a lot flake You will probably get a date off that. But may it be possible they all flake!? Yep... youre now over 100 approaches dateless | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:40 AM |
| 4 | What can I do if I simply don't attract any women/am not attractive enough physically?Well approaching girls is tough. And only like 1% of guys take on that challenge. And even if you were to approach. The success for that is always minimal. You would need about 100 or so approaches to date. And then after, most will cut you off Those are real expectations for average and above average guys starting | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:37 AM |
| 7 | What can I do if I simply don't attract any women/am not attractive enough physically?Youre an above average guy. You clearly lack a lot of confidence to think otherwise. And you need to build that up and start putting yourself out there. Dont wait for girls to come to you | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:29 AM |
| -2 | Approaching women at the gym?Approaching girls hardly ever works. A date will happen within 100 approaches if youre just starting. And most of them cut you off after But go for it. It takes dozens upon dozens of approaches to get numbers consistently. Try it. Youll then see that im right about everything. Just giving you real expectations | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | would you add anything to my tactic?It's just insecurity | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 09:34 PM |
| 9 | Does anyone go out by themselves to try to meet girls?Yes. I cold approach full time everywhere and anywhere. Im on break currently | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask this guy if he wants to hook up without being super direct??A feminist movement to instil fear and manipulate men. & you eat it up. You let feminists decide for you what's right... nice my dude I don't need to give elaborate reasons why. Use your common sense | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:19 PM |
| 10 | Is this girl worth going after?Yes. In many occasions it takes weeks for a girl to fully be interested. Where the guy coerced her the whole time. I know of dozens of couples where the girl initially wasnt interested at first. And the guy just being patient with her wins her over Not my type of relationship but i know guys do that. And it works | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 01:05 AM |
| 29 | Is this girl worth going after?You have to be patient with girls. They dont automatically get attracted like us guys. It takes time for them. I do know this though. Whenever a girl sees you a 2nd time for a date. She likes you! And wont ever cut you off after. Very rare if she does | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | How do I ask this guy if he wants to hook up without being super direct??My advice to guys is to always be maximally forward and to not wait on anything. You should be sex focused when meeting girls if that's what you're really looking for. Within 10 minutes of meeting her you should already be making out and groping her. Fingering her next. You never ask a girl, you just do it! Her reaction is your permission!!!! But this advice always gets flagged down because guys are too inexperienced to understand what girls want. And that its rapey advice | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:50 AM |
| -6 | what if a girl refuses to come home with you?Last time i gave advice that works on this it just gets flagged down and then deleted cuz guys are too beta to believe it works. You pretty much have to be extremely persistent. Same with having sex with them | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:40 AM |
| 4 | How do I ask this guy if he wants to hook up without being super direct??The guy is dumb as rocks | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Cannot get hook ups. Have to resort to this.All beta guys would agree with you. You guys aren't use to seeing what a real alpha guy does. Any big player knows that you have to be extremely persistent with girls Many times girls have said to me that they're not used to guys like me. Every guy is a pussy. Referring to you guys. So no offense taken | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Don't make the same approach every time: Experiment !Getting laid requires a different game plan. Its a different subject. Approaching just gets you the dates. Anyone with +1000 approaches would know that. Thats like having tinder and saying you weren't able to get laid | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 12:28 PM |
| 2 | I’m angry20 a week gets you experience. +50 a week gets you results •It takes dozens upon dozens of approaches to get numbers consistently •It takes hundreds upon hundreds of approaches to get dates consistenty You have unrealistic expectations. You been lied to by guys who dont approach. And even in all your comments youre still being lied Nothings wrong with your game. People here have NEVER approached!!! Otherwise they wouldnt say 50-70 is terrible with no results. Its actually normal. Real gamers kno… | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls look at me ?You'd be surprise how a lot of the times it doesnt mean anything. The proof was there when you approached someone giving you "warm signals." If youre not convinced go approach some more of those Dont read too much into signals or stares | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Starting pick up at 25 - is it late?That's a good age. Guys are at their prime in the market when theyre in their 30s! When they fully devolope like men and look it. The experience of gaming prior those years also helps massively Though nothing really bad happens when you approach you should try to be under the radar. If youre seen spamming or stalking(approach anxiety) it takes one loser to report you as loitering, soliciting, or harassment. Although its rare, it can happen Even if you try to be under the radar anything can happe… | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Is there any book, tutorial post or YouTube channel to learn how to text girls in flirty wayTexting girls should be strictly to setting up dates. Not being a text buddy. All the tricks in the world won't make a girl suddenly interested in you She gave you her number. You already qualified. No further action needs to be taken. Ask her out | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | where do you guys meet girlsGrocery: play the script Or pander to sorrounds after youve said your intentions Popular places single girls are at in grocery: drinks/snacks isle Boxed dinners/canned dinners isle Vegetable/salads/tomatoes produce isle (gym girls) Frozen dinner isles You can already prepare on what to say knowing this already. Single girls shop fast(pro tip giveaway). So you gotta be quick | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | where do you guys meet girlsAs a beginner i started with a script. And whenever i get lazy ill still use it to this day. Doesnt matter what you say. What matters is that you keep the conversation going and play the numbers. Keep it very light and short(60seconds) Just a brief generic copy&paste that practically works almost everywhere: Hello, your cute. [Introductions] Do you go to the gym? Talk about gym. Workouts. Healthy lifestyle/ dieting. Junk food/restaruants. Favorite dishes. Cooking experiences Talk about the weath… | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 07:59 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE... On the cringy-ass note I left for my cougar neighborHanding them your name and number as a way of putting it in their court Maybe like 1/200 Things wrong with this Its tacky giving out a business card; do you have a business? You need a lot of cards! Youre information is gonna be everywhere. Why are you giving personal information to everyone who havent even agreed to anything 🤦 Girls can be malicious and have some guy text you and harass you make funny of you | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How can you build a line between you and the girl in the case of approaching a girl?Majority of the girls that agree to meet up w me didnt talk back. The ones that did rarely met up. Youre mistaking interest within conversation | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Where should I have sex with this girl?Then no one should be there. Easy clap | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Where should I have sex with this girl?At that age i was doing it at parks late evenings(clears out). Just quickies. Is all you can get | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 06:46 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE... On the cringy-ass note I left for my cougar neighborDo you seriously apologize everytime a girl says no? Wow my guy. Own it and move on. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | I asked her out but she didn’t give me a straight answer. Should I still pursue?No. Once the invitation has been made. Leave it at that. Dont text over it. It needs to be the last text she has. It emphasizes that shes a flake. And that the invitation is there if she wants it! Girls who dont respond to plans arent interested. Theyll happily talk about other stuff so much as long as date plans arent discussed. Or theyll even change subjects. Just all validating for attention. Make excuses, school, work, family events... I know all their tricks. Shes a flake | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Help with cold approachAs a beginner i recommend. Build a script. +1 minute is more than enough. It can be generic or something personal. It does not matter! Nor should you ever try to impress!! You approaching is the impressive part Heres something out of MY personality(Gym & Mexican): Hello. I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi. Whats your name? [Introduction] Do you go to the gym? How many times a week? Lifting or cardio? Meal prepping? NO?; Well you look good. Special diet? Watch what you eat? Portion cont… | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 06:20 PM |
| -1 | Cannot get hook ups. Have to resort to this.Its the truth. Id personally introduce you to my sister. Youre a safe guy who wouldnt do anything Funny how you judge OP and call him shallow. And when someone returns the favor calls you beta you flip out 🥱 Hypocrisy at its finest | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 05:58 PM |
| 21 | UPDATE... On the cringy-ass note I left for my cougar neighborDont apologize. If asked; You thought she was cute and thats the first thing that came to mind. Say that its worked before and give some bullshit story. And that you never know. Don't ever apologize for being a man. Imagine apologizing everytime a girl says no | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Frustrated and thinking about giving upGuys close to your age wouldn't even fathom how to talk to girls anywhere outside their social circle. Yet alone getting dates from it You're still way too young. Youre doing amazing getting in that experience. You have to give yourself time to develop over the years. That helps a lot The problem really is you have unrealistic expectations. 1 out 15 is within the actual range. Majority of girls are going to flake and give excuses. Once you understand this and that its truly a numbers game youll … | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 05:38 PM |
| 28 | UPDATE... On the cringy-ass note I left for my cougar neighborNah dont apologize. You can just smile and nod at most. Apologizing would be being very persistent in still trying to get at her. And then following thru with rapport(advance game) Business card game never works | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 05:21 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE... On the cringy-ass note I left for my cougar neighborGood job bro | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Cannot get hook ups. Have to resort to this.You're entitled to your opinion. As i am mine. But you sound like a beta white knight. Typical buy them dinner, get them flowers and ask for consent Hell id agree to go on a date with you and im a dude. If youre just gonna get me all that free shit. And each go to thier own place at the end of the day. Thanks | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Cannot get hook ups. Have to resort to this.Ya that's one way to do it. You can also do online if you look that good... most aren't there to date anyways when they do meet up. So you can just go along with it as a date to then hook up Im sure your problem is in the bedroom. Youre not being persistent enough or maximally forward. You gotta be able to burn down -not only the bridge. But the whole damn city to get what you want! The best of the best have said you should be hooking up with the majority of girls who go back to yours. At the ve… | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | where do you guys meet girlsSome people dont find the need to move just for girls. And im not disagreeing. But i easily approach 70 girls on a given week with this So i can see why you think different. Im probably the only pick up guy ever that runs grocery game and is successful with it | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Hinge date went cold after sexYou played it well. It's up to the girl now | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 12:22 PM |
| 2 | where do you guys meet girlsUse google maps. And make a route. For the most part people are generally found at stores •grocery •department stores •clothing stores •book stores •sporting stores •gym •parking lots •gas stations •parks •coffee shops •malls •bars •university People arent hardly found anywhere else. You gotta think like them. Pretty much same places someone would find you. Where do you normaly go on day to day life? There's your answer | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Don't make the same approach every time: Experiment !No my good sir. If anything its the opposite. When i first started i believed that junk and it got me no where. Rookies are better off scripting their conversations and playing the numbers. Although it's always the same material, to each girl is going to sound unique and different. Use it and roll with it | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:56 AM |
| 5 | Don't make the same approach every time: Experiment !Ive used the same approach and gotten rejected +30 times. The next day every other girl gave her number away with the same approach Real gamers know that success fluctuates. It's never about what you say or do. After keeping statistics in the 100s(700 approaches), i strongly disagree | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Should I text herDon't be clingy. Give her space. Because she didn't text you one day its the end of the world? You guys are texting way too much imo | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Would this be an effective Push/Pull?Im saying text whatever you want. Do whatever youd like. But get completely off the pick up shit and stop imitating. Then if its truly in your character to say witty tacky stuff then say what's on your mind. But If your not consistent in the way you text, to irl... stop with the games | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Rejection: Be Glad, Not MadRejection is the prerequisite to positive results. And never to be taken personal. Majority of the time its not | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Would this be an effective Push/Pull?No. Enough with the tricks. This PUA bullshit has to stop. Its a plague. And was created to take advantage of the very low self esteem dating guys life Shit like that needs to be banned through the whole internet | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | You need 2 to 3 really good scripts and thats itBeginners should start with script dialogue and play the numbers as how I've always advised Once your anxiety drops and you start seeing consistent success you can lose the training wheels and de regulate and just wing it. The purpose of this is that in time hitting on girls will be as easy in thinking as asking for the time | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Neighbor suddenly seems into meIts an easy clap | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 07:25 PM |
| 2 | I'm looking to pick up girls at the gymApproach them however feels right to you is the best way. Its natural. If you don't care much for building a rep and being known as "that guy" 110% go for it. The gym can provide some results. I suggest to hit on girls you find attractive everywhere if you want guaranteed success Gym alone can be a small funnel. Give yourself more options. And don't limit your success | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | how do i stop sending cringe things but not think 2hrs of a response eitherYa that's all bad. But you know what, there's tons of room for improvement here lol | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 04:18 PM |
| 11 | they won't stop talking to me.They're both win situations. Pick any | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Going with a buddy to approach girls at the park today. any advice?It's really all a numbers game. But if you just wanna enjoy yourself in front of your friend. Just seek luke warm girls and go in depth in conversation. Theres hardly much girls at the park so you may aswell stay in set for as long as you can. Itll be all just for fun though Because like i said. Its truly a numbers game. If you dont play by those rules you won't see any success •It takes dozens upon dozens of approaches to get numbers consistently •It takes hundreds upon hundreds of approaches t… | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 04:02 PM |
| 0 | how likely is it that a girl will take you back to her place form the barVery unlikely. Like 1 out of 50 girls who are dtf. And finding 1 that's dtf on a single night is uncommon Just do them in your car. Or go to a quick secret spot. Edit: If you dont have a car and are old enough to enter a bar... i think you need to reevaluate your life instead of trying to pick up chicks | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Ive never had such a difficult time trying to read someoneYou can't ever read girls. That's your mistake. Its actually a rookie mistake. You're an amateur and that's okay. How you know a girl is interested is by asking her to a date. That's it When a girl laughs at my jokes and pushes my arm. I dont fan girl about it. It doesn't mean anything to me. Because things like that don't ever guarantee anything. And I'm more of a guarantee guy. If it's not guaranteed... it's not worth my thoughts. That's the truth | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Why can I never keep her interestedYoure probably putting too much pressure on her for something more serious. Just be casual and be yourself. Just because a girl agreed to go on a date with you it does not guarantee anything. Be non needy knowing this. It can take a couple dates to get one that's interested. It's normal | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Bar girl seductionShe's used to so many guys hitting on her because thats what novice guys do. Take advantage of a working girls service and try to turn it into a pick up If you guys cant pick up a regular bar girl dunno what makes you think picking up a girl who gets hit on all the time will be better | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Why am I still gripped with social anxiety?Social anxiety is an easy fix. You just need A TONNE of exposure therapy and to be VERY patient with it. You'll overcome it | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Number Flake?Numbers always flake. The probability of it is always high. Next time dont explain and introduce yourself. Sometimes girls just want further proof of a story to laugh it off with some friends. Or even be malicious with that information. Instead. Just text, is this sarah? | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 11:58 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate from making out in a club to going back with her?Lead | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you show a guy that you like him?So many stories of girls leaving their closets girl friends over a guy. Its actually very common. They communication is fine, it's them not choosing to make eye contact. And you can just sense no interest | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:39 AM |
| 5 | having sex with escort can help you to up your game ?Look at videos of tijuana mexico on youtube. $20 or so... In columbia they're even better and much cheaper than that. Las Vegas strippers are a joke to Mexicos tijuana | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Breaking up with kisses and hugsGive her space. You want her to heal with or without you. Because it sounds serious | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 10:08 PM |
| 11 | having sex with escort can help you to up your game ?It wont help you with game. But itll make you non needy. And to not care for girls. I would say the majority of escorts are amongst the hottest girls you'll ever see. Pornhub looking girls | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Approaching cashier girlsIts not bad to hit on them. But mentioning it on reddit people get the wrong idea. Well the simps and betas to specify! They use a girls hospitality and take advantage of it and bother them asking them out. When in reality, they wouldnt even dare ask for not even the time to any attractive girl not working. So if theyre not gonna be consistent then dont be taking advantage of such girls on that sole reason. However, If youre a guy thats hits on every attractive girl that moves... then you are ju… | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | How to open up a conversation and ask for a date?Ask out in text to hang out. Make it low key with no pressure. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 07:53 PM |
| 2 | What’s your view on a partner having casual sex?Men are most attractive in their 30s! When they fully develop and look like men. Girls in their mid 20s and below | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate a silence that is beginning to get sexual tension?It all goes back to how you met them. If you were direct. Threw a bit of sexuality and they decided to meet you. They know what they signed up for. So the success is high. Because you weeded them out beforehand And if you didnt happen to filter them out. You can still do that exact move on the date. Recommend it all the way. Just dont be surprised if a girl jumps | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 07:46 PM |
| 2 | What’s your view on a partner having casual sex?Yea, youll find yours for sure. But the majority of girls aren't gonna be what you're looking for | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What’s your view on a partner having casual sex?If she gives out blowjobs in casual hook ups. Sucking. Slobbering. Choking. Is that not the same as getting peeepee whipped? It is | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 01:29 PM |
| -3 | What’s your view on a partner having casual sex?Its the norm for a guy to be accepted as having an absurdly high body count and a females not nearly close to as high. So for me personally, take care of that first. And it goes without saying to your future partner that she already assumes correctly what's true about you It hardly make a difference to girls if you did or didnt in the past. So use that jail free card. Then it also won't affect how you see what your future partner did. Since the majority of girls try not to go overboard affecting… | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 01:00 PM |
| 3 | how to stick it to someone who gives you the silent treatment"Hey stop ignoring me motherf%*er! Hows your weekend?" | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate a silence that is beginning to get sexual tension?On all my dates when i was younger. Id have about a 15 minute conversion. And then have a bit of silence and lean over and make out with them. After my move there was to be no more talking I never believed in sexual tension. Or cared for it. I just did what i wanted and for the most part got what i wanted These people that talk about sexual tension are the same ones that try being flirty to get to that point and it's just not smooth and awkward. And forced | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you show a guy that you like him?I talk to girls a lot. And only the ones that like me make strong eye contact. Similarly, the ones i don't like i don't look them in the eye | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 11:45 AM |
| 2 | How do you show a guy that you like him?Hello bob. How was your weekend? MAKE EYE CONTACT everytime you talk. As much as possible!! | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | fr - first # in a whileGood job girl. Opening indirectly like a natural and getting that digit and date. What a pro. Simple and so basic. Who would've thought(sarcasm | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to message them back with something more unique than “Hey What’s up?” Their first message is pretty bland and not much to work with in their profileTexting is to ask them out. Never to conversate. Those are the same responses i convert into dates. Dont see a problem | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | When she is completely different in person?You haven't asked her out???? I think you're the one playing | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Texting adviceFollow it up... we should meet for coffee etc... | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:13 AM |
| 4 | Where is the best place to approach women?Think like most people. Where do you typically find a lot of people!?? Pretty much stores. There are certain stores over others. Use your head my man | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | how did I do?So can i kiss you tehehe. Dude youre not in middle school | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:08 AM |
| 2 | I Keep Turning Every Girl Off I ApproachIf you gotta drive to meet people and practice then do it! No one knows you there either so that's a huge plus. Talk to anyone and everyone you find attractive. Dont be too picky. But also dont lower your standards -grocery stores -department stores -book stores -clothing stores -mall(its hardcore there, rejection is straight up) -parks -gas stations -university campus(dont spam too much) -gyms(theres cheap ones that have chains of the same gyms. Your membership will be good for any of them. Loo… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 09:02 PM |
| -2 | If she ever ignored your message or always replies late, get the out of there and move on!That's just one exception mate! And a girl you already were talking to before. That's not a typical scenario for anyone. OPs post point stands! If a girl doesnt respond with no more than an hour. Shes not interested. Delete her | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 08:36 PM |
| 4 | How do i learn to not be boring when i can't do a lot of approaches?Youre already at the biggest mistake in cold approaching. Conversating longer doesnt build a girls interest in you. It just entertains them. And it wastes your time | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Vibing to get ghosted less after daygame infieldI get dates within 10 numbers or less. And conversating for 30 seconds! I also have friends who all do the same. We're average and above average looking If we were to conversate with the girls more. We would just bore them and bore ourselves to be honest. No such thing as vibing | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] [29M] Approaching on college campuses Jan-MarWell im not gonna argue further. I already know how it works. I have about 700 approaches documented and kept statistics of this experiment i just started(ill finish at 1,500). I also help friends, in return they give me their few beginner statistics. So i have few 100s kept track from them also. And the results are almost identical! The testing was a success It was meant to be shared on here upon completion. But there's so much guy embellishment on here that i just don't know if i should give o… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 08:21 PM |
| 2 | I Keep Turning Every Girl Off I ApproachYes. Use it as training wheels. It helps getting into the field to practice and getting that real experience thatll help you develop. Try to make littles notes as you go on what you could do better also: I spoke to soft. Need to fix my vocals. Was stumbling on words.. My distance to hers was too far etc It does take several numbers to get a date, 5-20. 50% of numbers will reply guaranteed Wait about 20 minutes after you get a number... "nice meeting u, bob. Thats it!! Dont try to talk to them. (… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I Keep Turning Every Girl Off I ApproachEASY TEMPLATE EXAMPLE: Hey, i thought you were cute and wanted to meet you. Whats your name? You look good. Do you go to the gym? How many times a week? You do weights or cardio? Well,,, are you on a special diet or just naturally look that good? Nice, i need to stop eating so much junk. But my favorite resteraunt is, So how you liking this winter? What activities you do? How long you been doing that for. Whats your favorite time of the year? Ok, howcome? So hows your day been? Well i gtg but do… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 04:58 PM |
| 2 | I Keep Turning Every Girl Off I ApproachYour Situation: why are you talking to them for that long??? Are you trying to pull? Do you have logistics down for it?? If youre just collecting numbers, that's way too much conversation. I get numbers in less than 1 minute and go on my way What you say doesn't matter. As long as youre being you and can back it up with confidence. Trying to impress girls with gimmicks is needy behavior. Just go up and deregulate. Most are going to reject you no matter what you say or do. So again, be yourself. … | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 04:47 PM |
| 8 | how to attract girls if you don't use social media?Its obviously that girls problem. Whenever i tell girls the exact same thing they agree its a waste when they're actively online The girl wasn't ever interested in you. Especially asserting her stance and putting you down which you took it and made you look beta. Also goes to show that just because a girl goes on a date its not guaranteed shes yours It was like saying, ew you don't have an iphone. What kind of guy are you. I don't think we should talk. You let them get away with that | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Two Lays; Same DayI always try to hook up with them in the first date. I make it the sole intention in meeting. And I'm maximally persistent. That if a girl really doesn't want to she can leave. Until then keep pushing And yes. Have sex with both. Things aren't ever a for sure thing. Strike when the iron is hot before you potentially lose your chance. It's not like youre going to have sex with both all the time. It's just for that one time | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Bad cold apporach experience in universityIts best for beginners to be direct. Guage her reaction. Introduce each other. Then start the conversation. Its a big numbers game if you ever want to see success out of it. So all you need to worry is that you go in direct, have a quick conversation, and ask everyone one of them out. So its wired in your mentality that youre out with a purpose. And it also will teach you social cues and predict a girls interest in the long run by guaging their behaviour | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] [29M] Approaching on college campuses Jan-MarI know exactly what youre referring to by contacts. Its why i never stated phone numbers! Guys will say that to try to then justify their stories. Ive seen it all Post pandemic doesnt mean anything. I was still approaching before, in between, and then after... guess what!??? It never changed anything. So thats another lie Any guys who have preiviously approached and then tried to approach in pandemic would have realized that. The only explanation is that you barely started gaming to believe othe… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 12:51 PM |
| 2 | What to say now?If youre just looking to meet new people. Say whatever you want. There is no failure since all youre doing is chatting However. If youre looking to get numbers. Dates. Girlfriends. No amount of conversation skills matters to change a girls level of interest. Although thats not entirely true, thinking your conversation matters is just bad tactics. And you should re frame from ever thinking that way. It sets unrealsitic expectations and its toxic to your mental health | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 11:35 PM |
| 5 | To much anxiety while going out solo.Youre new to an environment that youve never been to. Give yourself tome to adjust. Keep going. You dont even have to talk to anyone. Just be there | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Height insecurity in college+5'7 isnt a problem. Height is only a problem if youre considered short even by female physiques. Thats when its a problem | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 11:24 PM |
| 27 | Height insecurity in collegeIts all in your head. Im 6ft and tower every couple for the majority of the time anywhere im at. And theyre with some amazing looking girls. No one cares about height. Its just a plus like with girls having big breasts | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 11:18 PM |
| 0 | [FIELD REPORT] [29M] Approaching on college campuses Jan-Mar22 approaches and 18 contacts? Dont know what you're on but even the best of the best gamers don't do that well ever. Not only is it quite impossible but its illogical that nearly all didnt have boyfriends or did and they still gave out their information... its just commom sense how badly this is innacurate and just false The best of the best have always said its never about what you say. Or your conversation skills. Your post contradicts a lot Just hypothetically giving that its all true. No gu… | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 10:49 PM |
| 2 | push too hard?The invitation was made... you don't have a response. She's not interested I double texted so many numbers like that just to see what would happen.. about 100 numbers and not once has it ever worked. I'm not exaggerating All my dates happened in about 5 minutes replies. Me: Hey how are you? Her: Doing good. And you? (7 minute reply) Me: Im ok thanks. So I got a free day tomorrow if you want to meet up for smoothie? (2 minute reply) Her: Ok. What time were you thinking?(5 minute reply) Me: Lets m… | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Can I get this W? If yes, how?Yes. Message her. Its more low key chill if you ask there. In person youll just build tension and she'll be put in those awkward situations. Absolutely no need for that since you guys are past that phase | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Can I get this W? If yes, how?Ya have her number? Text her to hang out. Don't talk to her | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 12:26 PM |
| 4 | [LESSON] If you get a girl's number and she doesn't respond to the first text you have a 1-2% chance she'll meet up with you - so move on!Yea don't double text. Move on. Its about 1 out of 100. And sometimes it can be more. Not worth double texting all those numbers | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 12:20 PM |
| 2 | what would you do?Precisely | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 03:53 AM |
| 2 | what would you do?Imagine breaking it off with your ideal girl because of a hickey. Thats ridiculous. Hes not into you like that..its why youre chasing and hes like, meh | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 03:09 AM |
| 3 | I have no issue getting some girls number during cold approach, but it never goes anywhereA guy can accept his looks max might be average. He went to the gym. Got style. But is still average... okay, cool. Thats fine Now are there girls who arent gonna like him because hes not +6ft tall blue eyes!??? Yes... and thats fine, he doesnt give shit Thats confidence. To continue gaming. And its a highly attractive quality to have that mindset and apply it. Cold approach is a huge numbers game anyways. So it matters least They accept rejection and see it as a positive. You CANT get a date wi… | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:56 AM |
| 8 | I have no issue getting some girls number during cold approach, but it never goes anywhereNope. You can be boring. Nervous. Shy. And as long as you fix yourself up. It wont matter how you approach. Guys who actually get girls know this. Its a numbers game. Girls flaking is 110% part of it. Only guys that actually get girls understand this I get flaked on A TONNE. And i also get REJECTED an insane amount... but i can say i get more dates than nearly most guys Anyone preaching low rejection rate and to do better have never cold approached successfully | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:50 AM |
| 6 | I have no issue getting some girls number during cold approach, but it never goes anywhereHalf the numbers you get from cold approach will reply. However a lot arent interested in meeting. You need several to reply to get one thats interested. And when she finally does meet, its likely you wont see her again. Thats cold approach for you Get use to flakey girls. And needing several numbers to a date. Youre actually doing good. Youre expectations are far from reality. And thats were you gone wrong Also. When you get their number wait about 20 minutes or so and text, "nice meeting you, … | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:41 AM |
| 7 | How to be flirty with girls you’ve barely met?Service girls should be off limits. How about strike up conversation with girls you see at departments stores, clothing stores, thrift stores... i guarantee its not gonna be anything close to your starbucks conversations!! Those girls are paid to talk to you. The other one aren't. And be ready to be blown away how girls really aren't interested one bit when its not their job | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:37 AM |
| 0 | What do I do?Bath and body shop gift package | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 02:33 AM |
| 20 | Where do you guys go with girls you just want to hook up with?Doesn't matter how long you've known her. If she meets you your chances are the same. It's very uncommon for her to agree to chill at her place. Pick a private place beforehand. Ideally close to the meet up place. And have sex with her there. The longer you have your date the less of a chance you'll have sex. Meet up for something very light and immediately stick to the plan. -20 minute date, pull I remember grabbing smoothies and having sex countless times at this park where it was dead at cert… | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | My friends were telling me about how this one girl won a drinking contest. The girl looked at me and asked “are you proud of me?” Why would she ask me this if she doesn’t even know me?We answered this already. She likes you | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 01:03 AM |
| 37 | want to get laid in europe as a touristTinder all the way. I'm assuming you're visiting a very popular place. Download the app as well as the other dating apps. They're flooded with thousands of girls if youre visiting a huge city I recommend. Killyourinnerloser.com NSFW check out his pictures, his guide on online apps to get laid | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 01:00 AM |
| 5 | What’s the youngest you’ll hook up/FWB with?18-45 ill do. Im 28. And had them in that spectrum | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Best way to avoid seeming a creep while cold approachingApproaching girls is creepy in general. And its just basic fundamentals about it. I agree that it helps if youre direct but ultimately it doesnt matter what you say. All that matters is that you approach. Youre going to to have to ask for her number anyways so it makes no difference how you go about it. Either way you still have to provide conversation. And thats why it doesnt matter And out of 100 girls. You can expect to get 15 numbers. And half of them will reply. [This is from an experiment … | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | My friends were telling me about how this one girl won a drinking contest. The girl looked at me and asked “are you proud of me?” Why would she ask me this if she doesn’t even know me?A little a bit of her qualifying herself over to you. But its also just conversation | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Approach problemsDont be hard on yourself. Approaching is serious hardcore stuff. And its not for the faint of the heart. That ones that do approach, the majority will do about a dozen or so sets and ultimately give up When approaching girls the rule is you should expect a tonne to reject you. In a way its almost rare you see actual success. So dont be hard on yourself Saying hello at the beginner level is the success. Then its getting numbers. Then its getting real numbers. Then its collecting enough numbers fo… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Is texting and having a online presence actually important in datingIm the same way. Although having socials does maximize your dating life. Its not necessary. Phone and text is all you need | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Best way to proceed?Sounds good to me man. Go with that. Take that shot | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:52 AM |
| 2 | how should i proceedA lot of times is best to not be reactive when theyre throwing themselves at you. It builds trust and comfort that they can say whatever they want and youre just chill about it Sometimes guys make the mistake and bite making an offer. Then the girl just laughs it off and loses interest right then and there Sex doesnt happen with a girl based on what she says. It happens when she subsconciously isnt thinking about it and shes at your place. The fact that you know shes been flirty before is all yo… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:50 AM |
| 0 | Give me some fun question to help with building connectionYou build connection based on your personality and what you have in common. No one just talks about random stuff and hope it makes them get connected. Either shes your type or shes not. That where connection is. Majority of the time its on the pre selection phase. Where you both chose each other before saying a word | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:37 AM |
| 2 | how should i proceedLooks like shes all yours. Keep playing cool and subtly get at her. Get her socials and finish it there. Or nonchalant talk about something and that she should join you... dont go into specifics unless she bites. And dont over push unless you feel as if you have to and because you want to. That should be last resort because by then its kind of already a loss | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Best way to proceed?Its really not how you ask her out but that you actually do it Who cares if you get rejected dawg, shes a 10 and worth it. To at least have her know you appreciate her beauty and you have to let her know by asking her out! The success is asking her out. Ill take that as a win if shes really a 10. Ill take just that | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Confirmation bias is a bitch, keeps fucking me up...You need to allow yourself to mature more. Hit the gym. Stop being so obsessed over it. I get that it feels important in your life right now. But you still maybe need to time to develop. Your time will come. Although you posted as if other guys are doing better... The reality is theyre really not. No guy does well with girls on the daily unless hes chad. The majority of guys dont get much action. And the ones that try too hard may get somewhere, but its not the type of results they really wanted | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Best way to proceed?Its not always gonna go as planned. So do your best to ask her out. Really, thats all that matters. Ive had awkward conversations. Stuttered conversation. Total wreck with anxiety. And still had dates from them | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Would it be creepy/weird to message this kinda random girl on IG?The chances of you getting anything out of it are very unlikely. Ive cold approached hundreds of girls. ALL "good conversations" rarely convert to anything. Just telling you your odds | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Best way to proceed?Clearly go for it. If i genuinely wanted to get with a girl that bad. 110% wouldve done it a.s.a.p! Ive had girls that were way hott. And i went with it with no regrets. The second best thing out of it is just needing to know from her if i have a chance. Do it! | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:56 AM |
| 5 | Girl taking too long to respond - into me or no?Ya. Shes a waste of time | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it too late to approach?Its never too late. Your window of opportunity can close and she wont be available. Then itll be too late. Dont know why you posted this as a problem. Its actually very common... where a guy will take ages to finally ask her out | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Best way to proceed?Not to discourage you. But i was reading your conversation down with the other guy. And based on what you said how you and her get along it doesn't look like she likes you as you posted. How you guys dont really communicate?? You made it seem(on the original post) like you guys were pretty good friends already. But then you mentioned youre not even in first name basis!?? So if i have to make sense of it again. Shes not into you. Gym receptionists can often times be creepy, stare and smile. Its t… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:34 AM |
| -12 | thanks rseductionNo one said anything bad. All that was said was calm down. And here you are with profanity and clearly angry cuz one guy didnt think girls are are worth analyzing them as life and death opportunities. Especially getting defensive. You guys are out rageous. Im glad this discussion is public | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Best way to proceed?Yeah older woman are 2x more likely to have sex with you. Ask her out | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Best way to proceed?Im not a socials guy either. But in these situations its where it thrives. Youre just gonna have to ask her out old skool if it really means that much to you | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 12:49 AM |
| 15 | Girl taking too long to respond - into me or no?Shes not interested. A lot of the signs are bad here. Youre just one of her other guy friends who has her number. To her, it means nothing. Some girls pass that out like candy. And this girl is one of those Its easy to tell if a girl is interested. Example. You wouldnt have to text her anything about the party. She'd be texing you if you were coming. She'd be making it her sole purpose to have you see her at the party. And lastly, girls are never busy. Its just an excuse. School is an excuse. Wo… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 10 | Best way to proceed?Keep doing what youre doing. From what you described theres a connection and she enjoys your company. In my opinion, the best way is dont ask her out just yet. Not that its bad if you were to be direct in asking her out and get shut down(no problem). But i think its best to just keep being friends and move on to her socials. Then chat from time to time there... if done right, the opportunity will present itself there to where you dont really have to ask her out If she turns down your socials. It… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 12:37 AM |
| 3 | How do I get more woman friends?Youre suppose to be yourself. Them making a random sexual joke shows how both their personalities are. Like select like I have several female friends and we all mostly talk about current events. Now, is that how you talk to girls to make friends? No. Make your own friends based on you. It's never forced | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | TextingIts literally as easy as being yourself to a girl. Make quick boring conversation and asking her to hang out sometime. Getting the number. And within 5 text sent you get a date Anything more, the girl is not interested. No such thing as text game or anything else that you can do will change that | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:51 PM |
| -28 | thanks rseductionLast i checked it was a dating forum not a suicide hotline over girls. Ill re state my comment. Calm down | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | TextingAnd this is everything that's what's wrong with the pick up community. Text game. Levels | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:37 PM |
| -29 | thanks rseductionImagine seriously talking about girls as if "theyre to die for" on a casual reading forum | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:34 PM |
| 0 | A lot of girls just really busy with university, job etc?The majority don't go out looking for it per se. They multi task. Theyre always keeping their options open(its why you see them fiddle on their phone. Or have those one-three guys they're usually talking with). And when they want it. Theyll see which option is available first responder. More than half the time, the guy decides it for them. Then sex "just happened" in their mind The girls that are actively sexual are on tinder. Or are very flirty with guys they meet. Those are the girls in which … | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:24 PM |
| -43 | thanks rseductionDude girls arent everything. Calm down a bit | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How to flirt/hookup with very sexy girls?Taking about "game" just shows you're a novice. That stuff doesn't work with very sexy girls. They like authentic guys who are confident being themselves. Not some guy running pua logic | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Is Man to Woman talk really necessary?All true | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Should I ever flirt at work?If it was any whatever job, yes! 110% flirt! But not a job you worked to get there | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Field report: I think I did pretty good, just want to know what you guys thinkYou live and you learn bro. We all start somewhere. Goodluck | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Nervous around her?It's okay to be nervous if youre inexperienced. It's natural. Embrace it and get more experience. The rest will take care of itself in time | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Field report: I think I did pretty good, just want to know what you guys thinkThat should be fine. Just in the future its best to sort these things beforehand. So that way you just text confirm Its why meeting up within 72 hrs also gets rid of any needingness to text them further more. It has many advantageous And on your last point its all in your head. But you shouldnt text if its feeling forced | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Need some help escalatingMeet up for a night smoothie. Park somewhere private. Do it in the car. Find a spot beforehand. Done this numerous times with many girlfriends when i didnt have a place. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Field report: I think I did pretty good, just want to know what you guys thinkThats what i literally tell guys on here that there is no such thing as text game. You can get a girl to meet up with you as easy in less than 5 messages. If that didnt work... shes not interested. Nor will she change her mind after any text game The next step is to text confirm on that day if its still on at x location. So you dont get ghosted and look like a fool. It can happen Another thing. Planning too ahead can work against you. I always advise to make your dates within 72hrs. Anything els… | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Is she interested?I think your chances seem okay. But nothings ever for sure until you ask her out and she says yes | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | No reply for a day. Supposed to be on a date in a couple of days. Do I text again or just leave it?Texting should be for meet up plans only. Nothing else. If youre having the slightest doubts about her in text its already a loss. I dont think i ever worked on a girl thru text and finally had it come thru. Nope! All of my dates have been instant when setting up thru text. Anything else is just waisting your time | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 01:56 AM |
| 2 | is it a normal for girls to say sexual things to you?The purpose of all that is to mess with you and get a laugh based on your reaction. Doesn't necessarily mean sex. But it's something positive towards that direction | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:25 AM |
| 2 | “I like your jacket…”Service personal are paid to be nice to you. Starbucks barrista are known to give out compliments. It's rare if they don't. And your gift offer was weird dude | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Getting a fwbYou shouldve had her over a long time ago. Chilled and had sex. Don't be surprised if you missed that opportunity by now | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:16 AM |
| 6 | Afraid of coming off as creepyApproaches girls is creepy. And guys who actually get girls know that its part of the process. So accept it When i was approaching dozens of girls thru the week i creeped out most of them. But in the end it got me numbers | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Should I call her?Double texting means shes not interested. If she didnt respond the first time(within less than an hour) its over. Instant delete Out of 100 numbers ive gathered; from double texting i got 1 date. The fact that i had to DBL text all the other numbers was consuming and mentally stressful. I just wanted to be assured if dbl txt was a waste. It is | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | NervousThat right there is already a win bro. Just have fun | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Just got rejected on our second 'date'Give her space. Dont pursue. You can communicate here and there but you have to remember in a way she shot you down. Its unacceptable and you should mentally set some boundaries now. That you kinda dont play these games | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask her out over text?Either way of asking her out is fine. Just keep it lowkey and dont specifically make it seem like a date. Your chances are at its best when it's just a hang out type meet up. It conveys no pressure non chalant vibes | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 10:20 PM |
| 2 | NervousComposure only comes with experience. But in your case just do your best to hang in there. That's more than enough | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 10:16 PM |
| 6 | Why aren’t girls taking me serious?Its obvious theyre just condescending you. This type of statement they made would only happen if you were sharing sad stories about your dating life... No girl responds with "youll find someone" unless its out of sympathy | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | I’ve lost it.Youre assuming interest in conversation is interest in you. In most cases its completely untrue. Youre just stressing yourself and youre trying to have a one shoe fits all mindset over selling yourself. Its an unnattractive trait showing neediness and insecurity As if w/o exciting conversation anyone's nothing?? Fix your mindset. And all those problems end there | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How to make the most of my time and meet new women?Important thing to know is nearly all girls are going to reject you. This is helpful because they're realistic expectations. So no matter who you interact with at any place any time your chances are always abysmal! And theres really not a lot you can do about it. Thats just how it is. Unless youre at in an enviroment as a regular where its about 50/50 guy to girl ratio you aint gonna have much chances. Or if you decide to pick up girls, thats also a full time job of commitment if you wanna see a… | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 08:41 PM |
| 34 | Women that wear super revealing clothes in public. What does that mean?They're out to compete with other girls. Our attention is secondary to get to that | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | What’s been a gold mine for you guys to fire off some approaches during the day?Having a schedule and a plan to see how many girls im going to talk to and then seeing how much possible could i be more effective and efficient | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Difficulty Cold Approaching…Cold approaching is a tough journey. You have to have patience with it and really push yourself at times. But always remember never to discourage yourself for it. Never take it personal or be too into your thoughts! It takes a lot of time to condition to it. Only with consistency do you really improve. Rejection will be your best friend | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Girl brought up a book about sexSeems like you have a good chance with her at sex. You just gotta get at her right mood and be at the right place. Don't know your intentions with her... But whenever a girl brings up sex, it's a very positive sign. Just understand that girls fickle a lot with their emotions. What she felt yesterday might be opposite the next day | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 03:33 AM |
| 0 | How many of you guys are successful inviting a girl over to your place on a first date?Legit players on the first date make it their sole purpose to having the girl over for sex. They advise to focus on that and not how the dates going. The longer the date goes on the less of a chance theyll come back to your place. The best tip they give if done properly is a girl should be at your place within 15 minutes or so from the date. And then to be maximally forward and be very persisitent with sex. Unless the girl doesnt walk away you musnt give up! A realistic expectation(learning) to … | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 03:25 AM |
| 3 | How to get more hook ups at college?1Friend, 2familiarity, 3chill. Lets hang out. Come over. Watch a movie. Lets get a coffee. Come chill. Whatre you up to later. Text- wyd? Be their friend with at least slight connectivity. Low key get them at your place. Sex I work with a tonne of 18-24 year olds. And just by bieng a bit friendly and being myself. They consider me a good friend. Its not that hard to bang the majority of them if i wanted to if i ask them to low key chill | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 08:57 PM |
| 4 | Is it possible to just not be meant for girls or be successful with them no matter how hard u try or how hard u try to improve etc?Sounds like youre forcing it. And thats never good. Sure you might get some results but its not what you might expect. Like select for likes. Dont force these things | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | She is flirty with me in person but takes ages to answer onlineFrom the info. Shes flirty because thats her personality and in person shes just in a situation where she has to talk to you or be bored. Its why youre not worth her time outiside of in person for her to respond | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Taking my number instead when I ask for theirsShes not interested. And it actually should be taken as an insult. If you must insist on retaining the alpha frame... just say, well i approached you so it makes sense if i got your number... here, put it down. Doesnt mean shell be interested after tho | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Stamina Question: How long can you run on the treadmill?A comfortable speed? Little less than 3 hrs | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 01:44 PM |
| 2 | let's be real, 90% of the time it's about looks.Yes. And you dont have to have looks to have a good social circle. You can be below average, but have the confidence to do things that most guys wouldnt. Build a social circle. Put themselves out there online etc... Its showing confidence A guy with no confidence wont try to put up a profile. And is unable to put himself out there. So its confidence | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Current goal: Get laid with an HB9-10, how can i go about it?Its just unlikely that a really hot girl will say yes to a beginner. It can happen! But very unlikely And 100 approaches is about accurate for a beginner. I dont know the exact number. But i do know for the most part its not anything less than 100 on average. Success with approaching fluctuates! Its important to keep that in mind because that is the nature of the game Many will even agree that its "random." And they cant give you a number! But thats actually not the accurate term and is misleadi… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Current goal: Get laid with an HB9-10, how can i go about it?By 90% i meant girls that youre interested in. That for the most part you see a girl you like and talk to her. 90% of the time! If youre just trying to hook up. You do need to go for pulls only. Unless the girl is too busy, then you take number. You can pull in a car, a dark alley, a secret spot in the park etc.. And i guess every country is different on how girls go up to guys. So i cant say But one thing is you shouldnt be waiting for permission(ioi) to talk to a girl. A lot of the times a gir… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | How to approach Milfs the right way?Hahaha the "worst advice." First off. No girl likes to be reminded of their age. Yet alone told theyre not good enough by a complete stranger who isnt nobody. Thats just rude. You hardly getting any where in society by being disrespectful The line, "if you were younger id definitely give you a shot." The typical push pull tactics of the obnoxious PUA community regurgitated once again. And "youre only validating her." Its 2022 and ppl still follow this advice | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Current goal: Get laid with an HB9-10, how can i go about it?I dont get what any of the above stated comes off as easy. You make it seem likes its normal A lot of guys sweat and even hyper ventilate just thinking about saying hi to a girl at a place no one wouldnt. Yet alone asking them out! So it requires exposure therapy. Because nearly all guys arent able to do it. Especially on a day to day basis And whenever they do conversate. Theyre ego is still too fragile to even ask for the number. Often times theyre mostly in their head analyzing everything and… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 04:03 PM |
| 10 | let's be real, 90% of the time it's about looks.No. Its confidence. Thats not to misunderstand that its okay to not fix yourself up and look like a slob. But there are many guys who are below average with very attractive fit girls. Go out in the world and see those couples for yourself. The proof is everywhere | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Current goal: Get laid with an HB9-10, how can i go about it?Reduce your approach anxiety. To where you can hit on 90% of girls you see. You need exposure in the field practicing this Always be closing. Regardless if they seem uninterested. Get in the habit approaching her for the number You cant get dates if you fundamental havent learnt to get numbers You have to be aware you need a lot of numbers to get a date. Flakes are the name of the game. Expect it and plow thru it Once at a date youll realistically hook up with 1/4th of the girls who meet up. Ass… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Current goal: Get laid with an HB9-10, how can i go about it?I like the enthusiasm. But your expectations are unrealistic. Its very unlikely for a beginner to get with a 9/10. Almost never happens. Its also unlikely for a beginner to even get a date within his first 100 approaches with any girl due to a lot of beginner mistakes. Not asking for number. Not following up. Mis reading the situation etc... | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 03:02 PM |
| -2 | Do girls prefer dating apps or meeting in a bar?Dating apps. They love attention. And the ego boost. And if youre lucky. 1/50 guys. They might give you a chance to pay for thier dinner. And then after theyll maybe think about letting you in as a friend. Or cut you after Its why girls prefer online. That is the question ur asking | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Some guards will kick you out for "complaints." "Loitering." Its why whenever you do game. You want to avoid making scenes where you can be caught by people who work there. And you dont want to create any type of attention. You gotta be low key and under the radar. Otherwise you risk a warning | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 02:33 PM |
| 5 | How to approach Milfs the right way?No. He should approach any girl he finds attractive. Thats how approaching works. We all have different likes and interests. In this case its milfs. He should approach each and every one of them. Unless youre a mind reader, thats the only way to find out which ones are approachable. You cant ever judge a book by its cover You also always need to be direct and clear with your intentions when approaching girls! And not pandering to sorroundings!! ESPECIALLY with milfs who are mature and require mo… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 02:25 PM |
| 2 | How to approach Milfs the right way?First of all get the idea out that theres a right way. No such thing exist. You can practically say whatever you want!! Secondly. Most girls arent going to be interested. Has nothing to do if theyre milfs or not. Dont make this a categorical error Whenever a milf says "youre young." It can mean one of two things. Depending on her tone(Use your best judgment): 1. Shes disqualifying you. Shes not interested! 2. Shes letting you know shes much older than you think(as to get approval if youre okay w… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Me (male) gfinally got a one-on-one lunch with a girl I've been interested in.*Coax. Mb | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 02:43 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Whats very important for you to understand is. It can take several dozens of approaches just to get a date. Other times it can easily be well over 100 approaches until the next date. I remember once i had over 200 approaches and no date when i was getting inn my first few dates This stuff fluctuates. And although i cant give you exact number of approaches to numbers to dates etc... i can say, you need about 100 approaches, give or take per date To put it in perspective. If you want 10 dates? You… | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hes just mad cuz it aint working out for him. Idk what he expects from cold approach lol.. its always going to be innefficient compared to online or any other way. Dont know why he acts all surprised Prolly some PUA guru gave him false expectations | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ive apporached and gotten dates from 2 numbers ALL THE WAY to 34 numbers(personal record)!! :) 5 numbers is nothing lol. I get that in one day of approaching. Doesnt mean anything | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Always be prepared. You never know | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Me (male) gfinally got a one-on-one lunch with a girl I've been interested in.If you ever have to coax a girl to meet you shes not really interested in you. Your answer is really right there | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Contrary to Popular Opinion : Can i buy you a drink still works?Lmao. No way haha. That's funny asf | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | [Field Report] 09.02.22Goes back to your intention. If you really want to approach at the uni and not be known as that guy hitting on every girl. Then this is fine. Go indirect or pander with your sorroundings. Instead of direct & asking for number to meet up, ask for socials! "Hey, thats a nice backpack. What anime is that?" Conversate. Conversate. "So what class you headed to?" "Cool. Do you have snapchat?" Quick short friendly conversations. Simple. Ask for snap/whatsapp/insta Dont ask them out. Dont tell them why.… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 04:26 PM |
| 3 | [Field Report] 09.02.22Youre making the number one mistake. Misinterpretting her being nice to actually being interested or available... Off, an indirect opener "Hey, were you at this "so & so" party last week?? Ramble on. Ramble on. Girl smiles. Girl laughs. Girl asks questions. Ramble on. Ok, cool. Well we should hang out sometime!? Girl: Oh, ummm. I actually have a boyfriend. But thanks for the 10 minute conversation | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:57 PM |
| 3 | [Field Report] 09.02.22Thats an okay opener. I used to use it when i was a nervous beginner. Its a decent opener, but it wastes a lot of time A lot of the time with that opener or any indirect opener, you can get stuck in conversation with a girl who really isnt interested. Theyre just being nice and have no reason to put their guard up. They dont see you as a threat to their relationship statues As far as getting out there and just having conversation witha cute girl at the library. You did excellent. A lot of the ti… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Asking a cashier outAll cashiers do that. Anyone working servicing do that. I dont approach because it proves youre not a real man. Its taking advantage of a situation that you wouldnt otherwise dare, had she not been servicing you. Just to feel big about yourself. The "confidence" that comes from wanting that approach stems from taking advantage Now, i approach waitresses that are "nice to me." Much because i know they like me. Us hispanic we have a clear as day intuition when someone is hitting on us. And we also… | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:16 PM |
| 3 | QuestionWelcome to the world of IOIs. Where what you been told, "if they stare," they like you. Completely wrong. A LOT of IOIs dont go anywhere. Just because she looked at you... keep it moving player | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Contrary to Popular Opinion : Can i buy you a drink still works?You shouldn't be buying anyone a drink. Especially for a girl who hasnt initially shown any interest. Youll be wasting your money on girls only being friendly because of the drink Sure. Anything works. But in the case its at the expense of your time and money | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | A girl asked me out on a date but the plan got cancelled, how to set it up again?Naive bro. Who isn't close with their family members? Girls use that excuse all time. Its just sad and pathetic Until she physically meets you at agreed location. All of it, is meaningless words | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 01:56 PM |
| 0 | What do you usually say to a girl at the end of the date when you part way?Hasta la vista baby If shes interested she'll be back for more. Dont say anything you wouldn't normally say to have things go in your favour. Often times you just look ridiculous breaking out of your character. And its just needy | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Its all insecurity. Which is in your head. I personally think its very strange to think someone actually thinks this is a problem No different than some guy saying. I have a very small nose, "help with dating!!" | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | A girl asked me out on a date but the plan got cancelled, how to set it up again?Nah she lying. Why is it everytime when a girl cant make it to a meet up her "brother got an a car accident!" "And has to go to the hospital" hahah This is of the popular top 3 excuses these flakey girl have. It looks like shes just another texting time waster Had similar girls like this. "I wish i could make it" Sister/Brother in accident, gotta go to ER now" LOL You also cant ever trust what a girl says! Until shes physically right in front of you at agreed X location. It does not count anythi… | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]In my opinion, you talked way too long. I conversate 1/10th of what you had going on. And i still get the number. And i still convert. I also never have this problem of "what did i do wrong" Simply because its a numbers game. No matter how your interaction went, you need x amount of numbers to get some to convert. Sometimes its been for me just 3 numbers. Other times its been 33(my longest) numbers to a meet up! I always get dates to happen because i always keep going. And i dont complain that i… | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Is there something wrong with cold approaching?Im that pua guy that just says hi to any girl at anytime and place. Matters least to me if shes has headphones, staring at her phone or laptop. All girls are approachable! Its whether you give a shit about what people think is the underlining problem. "Thats sooo creepy" "Dude shes in the middle of something" Yup dont care 🥱. Do it to enough girls, several will contact exchange. Dont see a problem. Much because ive been doing it so much, nothing literally fazes me anymore | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thats not cold approach. That's just simping and stalking. Its bad for your health. Fix yourself Go to a clothing store. Even a pets store, and actually do a cold approach with a cute girl. Non of this stalking on social media | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]By style i had meant like hairstyle. Facial style. Whatever suits you Seems you got the gym part already. It does take a year or two to actually make a difference Allowing yourself to mature in years time also increases your looks naturally. A guy really is at his prime whens hes fully matured. Girls are in their prime early 20s to late 20s. They start losing their value after. Guy is his most attractive late 20s late 30s Sounds to me like youre average. Everything checks out great. But your age… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:06 PM |
| 3 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?Ive talked to girls on busy shopping centre streets with ear phones on. Got in front of them. Shook a peace hand sign to their face✌, and they stop. They take one ear phone off and tell me, "whats up?" I do no talking to make this happen. My hand gesture does. Then i say, "Just thought you looked nice. Whats your name?" Girl then takes the compliment and offers her hand to me 🤝 I am pretty audacious and bold. Much because i know, just throw peace signs to their face and gauge their reaction. Sev… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Im saying that in most cases a creepy guy makes a creepy remark to a girl. And girls assume, that every guy approaches girls like that You being 24. You can improve your looks. Get style, hit the gym, improve fashion. You can become above average in due time Then, as long as you dont say creepy shit to girls. You have a chance with the majority of them | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | No reply the next day 🥶Its my actual phone. Screenshots of text conversations. I reject girls with social media. I tell em its for kids, have a good day. Phone number or nothing | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]All I'm saying is. Its all exaggerated. Like guys with thier junk size. Girls lie about this stuff If you ask them in specific one or two times. They wont come up with anything to say. Or will give details of crude and obscene remarks. That is considered harassment and no where near proper approach | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Its just girls lying. Embellishing their value. Just because some ugly over aged creepy guy said, you smell good... Suddenly now becomes, all guys hit on them | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 09:33 PM |
| 9 | I FINALLY did my first approach! I feel like I am flying, lol :DGood for you. Saying hi is the success. Seeing how youre a beginner, you may not know this. But girls flake a lot. And you need A TONNE of numbers to get a meet up. Regardless how you text I always text short and to the point for meeting. I'm not interested in being a text buddy. And a lot of flakes love doing that. Its better to weed them out and not waste your time. Keep it simple and straight forward 15 min after the exchange. , Nice meeting you, name Next day. , Hey how are you? Girl respond… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Almost everything you wrote is not true. Girls dont get hit on dozens of times running errands. Guys will just stare and stay silent. Dont know who is telling you different but its not true Lastly, a lot of girls aren't interested in what youre selling. Nor looking. So its gonna be mostly blow outs. The few ones that like it & enjoy it are gonna be the ones that exchange | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 09:03 PM |
| 2 | What to do after eye contactIts not that they despise it. Has nothing to do with it. All im saying is your odds are very low regardless where you talk to them. Clothing store. Park. Near campus. Grocery Youll get rejected equally as much at the gym as at the mall Its makes more sense to me to just chill at the mall and spot out 10 or so girls dressed in gym outfits than to burn yourself at the gym with regulars If you can muster the rejection and live with it. Talk to girls wherever you'd like. Just giving you real expecta… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I not give up hope after each rejection?You should be picky! And you should always follow your instincts! You aint about to walk and talk with a girl who you said was cute at full stop right in front of her walk path. And she said thank you, then deciding to walk around you | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 08:35 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Its seems all normal to me. Youre over thinking. Do keep in mind that girls will suddenly out of no where just move on. Just something to be aware of You hanged out with her. Had sex with. You guys got along. Let her enjoy her weekend Dont be that guy thats obsessed with needing to have her over a.s.a.p as to prove something | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 4 | What to do after eye contactGoing direct isnt the reason youll get rejected. Most girls just arent interested or not looking for anything. Going direct just reveals the female state theyre currently in Going indirect hides this!! Theyll be more than happy to talk to you! But if that indirect then turns to asking them out, itll face the same reprecussions as if you wouldve just been direct I personally dont advise to hit on girls at the gym you go. Just be social, and forget asking them out. Dont shit where you eat | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | No reply the next day 🥶Yes volume is number one! Building meaningful interactions and saying the right words etc... Is just all pua nonsense. You cant make a girl attracted to you if she already isnt within the first 5 seconds. No words here can save you. Keep that up and it's gonna get you no where My 30 second conversations: "Hey I thought u were cute and wanted to say hi" "Whats your name?" "Do you go to the gym?" (I don't even go to the gym 😆) "Hows your day been so far?" Cool, its the perfect time to be shopping.… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 07:27 PM |
| 4 | What to do after eye contactWell thats good bro. I feel at the gym. "Gym game" should be getting to know everyone whos a regular goer at the venue and just having little friendly conversations. You can guage a girls reaction that way. And its a good way to just build confidence without even asking anyone out. You dont have ask them out But, im just saying if you were to ask them out. Most are going to reject you. And when a girls seems receptive on the outside, you cant judge a book by its cover. A lot of the times theyre … | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 06:53 PM |
| 8 | What to do after eye contactFully agree. They are time wasters. Do a basic approach. "Hows it goin?" "You caught me looking so i thought id say hello." "Whats your name" Guarantee you its gonna be a rejection on the number. Really simple, can be done today. Report back. And i told u so | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | No reply the next day 🥶Thats the popular PUA teachings. "You gotta connect with her." "Make her feel special." "Get to know her personality" "Banter, banter, banter" "Subtle flirtation, push pull" "Arouse with your eyes & body language" lol its all garbage A girls interest is decided in the first 5 seconds. My conversation are 20 seconds with a 60% response rate. Now you can refuse to believe that its actually that simple!! And refuse to believe that a girls actual interest is within 5 seconds. No amount of flirting, … | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What kind of volume and time investment do you need to get any results?Yes! Around 300 ish i actually did get laid when i first started cold approaching years ago! I remember it like it was yesterday! It was my 3rd date. With a girl who actually really liked me, but made me wait for sex until our fourth date!! Before i had 2 other dates. But were a waste of my time, not taking me serious. But at the time i enjoyed them! So ya i would agree. It took me about 100(50-150) approaches to get each date. And i would say i got lucky getting laid on my third date as a begin… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 01:56 AM |
| 2 | What kind of volume and time investment do you need to get any results?Yes sir. I been tracking mine after i was able to get over a dozen cold approaches dates... Just because i was curious. I asked myself, how many approaches to numbers to dates does it take etc I know im past the beginner phase by now. But what if i acted like i was a beginner during all approaches from here on in, just relaxed. Documenting everything until 10 dates or so happen! Lets find out!! Im close to about 100 numbers now. And 10 dates haven't happened yet. So this "10 for 1" is just a myt… | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | What kind of volume and time investment do you need to get any results?Those stats aren't accurate. I had a beginner phase with several buddies. Our numbers weren't 10 a date. More like around 15 as average. With fluctuation 6 numbers date. 17 numbers next date. 9 numbers date. 24 numbers date. 4 numbers date. 17 numbers date. 14 numbers date 10 for number. 10 for date. The common misconception cookie cutter way to say to all beginners. But its far from true. There are beginners getting coached and get a little over 10 numbers, still no date. Its all on youtube | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Any PUA seminars in Atlanta that anyone would recommend?When people say "improving themselves" before they try to hit on girls... literally thats what they mean. Start a business/go to the gym Seriously. What else do these people mean by "go improve yourself." Its obviously that | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Any PUA seminars in Atlanta that anyone would recommend?Well nah man. You dont go to years of school to get a career to make yourself have a better chance with a fitness booty girl picking up wonder bread at the grocery isle You also dont go to years of body self development and training to feel equal or above quality, to finally say hi to that same girl picking up bread Thats just rock bottom of a guys self esteem | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Today's approach reportWe all start somewhere bro. I was there too. And good luck | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Today's approach reportIve had just over 1000 approaches and i still get nervous at times. By the end of the day ill say, "Wow that was hella tough, proud that i survived it and put in that mileage" "Almost didnt think i was gonna make it" Ive had tough days where im just down in the dumps and go home. Mission failed. Try again next time, and dont be hard on yourself. Just make a comeback next time Well it really is a numbers game. You cant get em all. In fact you wont get most of them. Majority are gonna reject you I… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | How to close on a cold approach?Im here cuz its nice to read about stuff. And if i can help i give my 2 cents worth of experience I get dates 0-3 every weekend. When im actively pursuing!! I have life phases. Girls dont revolve around it! I work, spend time with family or friends, i have hobbies, go shopping, find new places to eat, cruise around, go out running, spend time with my friends dogs, watch sports, play a bit of video games, help friends out with side projects! Etc I do A LOT of stuff. Girls arent a priority in my l… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How to close on a cold approach?No ma'am! Because the girl gave a number to a guy she shouldnt have, while being in a relationship or married. That is UNACCEPTABLE just for a laugh in girl/guy relationship! The partner will be fuming, at their partner! Its the other way around... because thats where that draws the line Its not that youre in fear of being laughed at. Its that you dont know who youre sharing your personal information with Girl to guy is different! The girl decides if the guy is worth her information. When a guy … | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Today's approach reportI see no problem with your approaches. Its your volume of approach that is I need 4/6 rejections just to get 1 number. That wont happen after i get rejected. However, i almost always need 2 numbers to get one that replies. So thats 8/12 girls rejecting me per LEGIT number In summary. I need 10 girls to reject me per every LEGIT number. I can get up to 40 or so approaches in my city in a afternoon. Which will give me 4 LEGIT numbers for the day. I can do this next day and so on. Until i get enoug… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How to close on a cold approach?It does more damage that she has your information and shares it. It does happen. Some girls are out there with guys like that and will do that to you Its a guys job to go up to a girl. Compliment her. Introduce yourself. Have brief conversation with her. Ask her out. Grab her number. Even tell her youre gonna call her, if youd like Girls job is to say yes or no. If yes, its the guys job to plan the date and set the time of date. 50/50 is as much permissable to be in agreement of that. Usually gi… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | How to close on a cold approach?Its called the "business card game." Which is of the worst ways to do. 110% no response rate Hand out your business card to +15 girls this week. Guarantee you, no one will message you. Theyll probably just keep it to laugh, or will share it on their stories. You could also get a text from her boyfriend. With the purpose of them messing with you. And the guy feeling to AMOG this guy who handed out his paper to his girl | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 06:12 PM |
| 0 | How to close on a cold approach?Dont have this problem. All my numbers i get from cold approach are 30 seconds. With no conversation game. I then ask to have a drink sometime later in the week with them. 60% response rate. I get 10 or so numbers on a lazy week You have PUA problems. Teachings that ive always been against. Just gonna say, good luck with finding answers to those amazing closers. Last time i number closed amazingly was in the 5th grade | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Any PUA seminars in Atlanta that anyone would recommend?A TONNE of guys who went to college. Have great careers struggle with women. A TONNE of guys whove been going to the gym for years also struggle with women Those are just excuses not to take action. Things arent handed down to you. You have to WORK for it. Girls are no exception Its also needy. And reality of your self worth to have to think you need to qualify yourself over to any girl by having a career or looking muscular 5% body fat Its fine to work on yourself. But don't connect that with g… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 05:28 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Lots of cleavage shown. Perfumed and make up. Invading my bubble from time to time | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Today's approach reportI hit on +-70 girls a week. I just make the time and sarge. So i make the most of two free afternoons 35 girls gets me 5/7 numbers. Then other times theres a number drought... 35 girls gets me 0/2 numbers. These number droughts happen 15% of the time. So its funny, when i can predict a day of straight up rejections before they happen. Then it resets, 35 5/7 numbers | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Today's approach reportI go in with the intention of saying the same thing that ive said over 100s of times. If it aint broke dont fix it. I copy & paste my conversations. If im unable to wing it i fall back on my same ol' script. Usually 70% of the time. Im a lazy gamer. But it works "Hey, how are you? I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi" "Whats your name? Im, name. Nice to meet you" "Do you go to the gym?" i stay on this topic for a good minute. Theres a lot to talk about with this topic for me!! I can ramb… | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Today's approach reportI gamed today 35 girls. 6 numbers. 3 replied 1) Blonde 35 y/o fitness junkie. Doesnt miss squat day. Firm booty gains showing off in her leggings 2) Venezuelan 30 y/o shopping with her "partner"(female) 7 looks wise. Talked about plans to hang out with her sometime. And her partner is welcomed to " to cum" 3) blonde college girl 22 y/o, bubbly 4)blonde college girl 20 y/o was in a hurry 5) Latina 27 y/o stunning look wise. 9 rated. Tiny girl, and just above average body type. Was in at victoria … | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Slapped by some dude lolToo funny my guy. Cant make this shit up lmao. Just move on bro. Girls arent worth fighting for. Unless you just want to straight up whoop his ass for your own reasons... then thats fine too | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 02:23 PM |
| -6 | Simp NationMaybe colombian girls are ugly. You cant simp for them if theyre ugly lol. Here in the US the simps either below average or average in looks. So it makes sense in their mind to pedastool a white girls beauty. Especially when these exact girls make it their job now. To cater and treat these guys nicely also generates them views etc... | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 02:19 PM |
| 0 | Push pull techniqueYa stay away from pua cringe that wont get you anywhere. Heres a book Debunking The Seduction Community The Exposition of a Sham Industry and a Primer on Seducing Women by Aaron Sleazy "Push pull" "text game" all garbage | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Am I making this harder than it has to be?Too many things wrong with this post. It doesnt matter what you say. The majority of girls are going to reject you. How quickly they do it, do i then agree it matters what you say! Which in turn is actually just needy behaviour. Finding the right words to say as to qualify yourself over to the girl is what thats doing Theres nothing more attractive a guy can say to a girl(that she finds him cute) is, "hey, youre cute. I wanted to say hi." Whats your name?" Girl: Happy/blushes/excites her A girls… | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Girls tell me I should text them more instead of only to set up a date. Advice?Its annoying. But it is legit for the most part. Majority of girls after a date will ghost you after. And a lot of the times wont even respond to a simple "hello" A girl wouldnt have any interest in you if she hasnt ghost you yet after the date! | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 2 | In online dating, is it wrong to go for a woman even if she only wants a relationship?Girls live in the moment. Whatever they wrote in their info may very well not feel the same way about it the next day. A lot of girls really dont take that inquire really serious. They just fill it in Some girls even put "looking for marriage." They still end up going on many dates. Who knows if they ever get married. Most likely not. Youre taking that too serious | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | First approach! How did I do?Saying "hi" is the success. You did amazing there! But your conversation was just simping | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 04:26 AM |
| 9 | I slept with 2 cute Russian girls in 3 daysIts that same guy again. Hes been known to lie on here. And mods have removed a few of his posts for not following guidlines before. Hes really just promoting his channel 70 approaches is what i do in a week easily. When i can make the time for it. And theres guys who do about +100 approaches and only sporadically get laid This post "if real." Is just subjective. And i can attest from experience, it was all by chance. So it doesnt do any of you any good. But like i stated, likely hes just lying … | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 12:15 AM |
| 5 | Day game problemsYoure scared of rejection. Plain and simple. Even with choosing signals. You'll still get rejected. It's unavoidable | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Field Report 1You can flirt all you want. But if the girl isnt into you, she wont reciprocate or will allow your advances past conversation You cant make someone be attracted to you. Its either there from the start or not Youre probably going to disagree since you seem to be of the "PUA Community." But all youre doing is entertaining girls with conversation who arent even attracted to you or care for you. Its feeding a girls ego and conveniencing her in return for her not to reject you harshly Just neediness … | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Field Report 1Majority of girls are going to reject you. Being a "conversationist" just means youre trying to avoid straight up rejection. Which makes you insecure Had it been me. I wouldve ended that night with a few numbers!! Why!?? Because after i get rejected in seconds with those 3 girls you talked to, i wouldve repeated more 10 second rejections with +10 girls. And gotten some numbers out of it Its effecient because "conversation" is just time wasting. Its really only a facade that shows your insecure a… | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Setting your own low-value trapPost is needy with insecurities. People can talk to whoever they want as the night goes on. Just because someone got to them first does not mean they owe them anything! | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety is back in full forceYou cant ever be hard on yourself. Cold approach is tough business. With only about 1% of guys in the world doing this. Theres a reason for it. Its hardcore stuff. Give yourself credit for even trying. Dont ever blame yourself As far as your weekly goal. Itll be HUGE in terms of your improvement if youre consistent with it. But since youre a beginner, taking baby steps is the second best way to go about it. Find easy sets that you feel comfortable doing. Usually its finding a girl all by herself… | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How did you miss up an obvious threesome. At the very least that night you couldve hooked up with one | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I work in sales, and I’ve done door-to-door campaigns. What should I be aware of in cold approaching?Seems like you know the fundamentals already. Just gotta put it into action | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | FWB[20F] and I[19M] agreed to go on a break. What now?Shes not interested as much anymore. Just maybe tolerates it cuz you guys have to see each other. A girl thats really interested in you wont leave you alone Whatever you guys had died | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | When I'm going out, I have no idea how to start and hold a conversation with a random chickDont have that problem. All my approaches are 20 seconds of conversation. I have only longer conversations on girls i get on dates with I refuse to give any other girl any time. Its not needed. Its unecessary. Its even neediness. To try to entertain a girl thru conversation cuz youre not good enough with 1 minute of talking or less to grab her number Thats the problem with the typical PUA community. You gotta be a huge conversationlist for you to have any success | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 11:22 AM |
| 4 | She seems interested but, I think there's a red flag (23m) (25f)She defintely a 304 | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 4 | She told me "if I accept for a last drink at your place, you will fuck me""You already thinking about sex, why you naughty?" "Lets just chill at mine and drink. I want to relax" If by any chance its her finding out you want sex, she'll leave immediately. Better to dismiss it. Change subject. Lead her to your place Rarely is a girl that straight forward. So be cautious in setting her alarm off | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Just say hiYou dont have to know any game. Or have much experience in the field to know that 50% success for dates is far from the truth! Several times theres many blow outs I dont think even any of the "marketting pua's scamming for money" dare teach 50% date success is possible Edit: his previous comments( a week ago) is him complaining he can barely get numbers. And that the girls flake lmaooooo 50%... guys clearly lying. How sad | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 09:31 PM |
| -2 | Passing the 💩testThats the confusion with these tests. You both are in contradiction!!! Its why you dont go down this rabbit hole of "shit tests." Doesnt exist. Its nonsense garabage | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 09:24 PM |
| 3 | What kind of girl is she and what are her intentions?"Meeting up" means nothing until shes physically next to you at x planned location! She lost interest. Never was interested. Is exploring her options. Having fun. Enjoying the dating life. Youre out | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 06:47 PM |
| 5 | How should I go about asking consent without ruining the vibe?Asking consent for kiss or sex kills the vibe. Plus its super creepy and weird asking For complete dummies: How to kiss. Move in slightly close to her. Compliment a physical feature. Wait for her response. Then, lean over and kiss If shes not for it, she'll evade. Followed by, a reasoned lecture Or. When theres a pause of silence. A break in conversation. Ran out of stuff to say. Lean over and kiss Pauses in conversation are good. Its not a negative thing. Its a chill comfort positive vibe | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 05:57 PM |
| 5 | How should I ask out a woman if she ignored my message?Drunk text or not. Shes not interested. Move on. Just act casual. Its whatever. Water under the bridge | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | So should I take it as an annoyed expression?Hahahaha beta bucks xD | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Converting a “Yes” into an actual dateSo FALSE. I go to into stores looking for girls. And say the WORST random conversations you could ever imagine a guy could say If you were to hear the shit id say. Youd be, what the fuck am i actually hearing from a guy who clearly has no game!! And thats an over statement... "from a guy who has no basic conversation skills" is more accurate!!! Yet 1/2 girls will say yes to meet up with me and give me their number and text reply. Other days its 1/10. And some days its 1/30!! What DOESNT change i… | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Choosing Signals/IOIsChoosing signals/iois = permission from girl to allow the guy to speak to her Beta | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on this text?In my opinion it was a pretty lame beta text. Just say "cool." "Ok, awesome." "Alright, sounds good." Perfect!! Amazing!! Fantastic!! Avoid shit like this also | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Converting a “Yes” into an actual dateIts not that different from me cold approaching random girls on the streets. Literally had all those scenarios many times Every number i get is becaused she "agreed" to meet me for a drink that week. When they respond its mostly flakes/ghosts after the meet up plans. Thats the process. You gotta accept it. Cuz it wont change So it might look like youre having no luck. But thats not the case. You just havent learned thats the process You just gotta keep networking till one finally meets up. And i… | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Should I give her a hearing she deserves?Hey good for you. Moving on is always refreshing. Wish you the best bro! | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Girl seems to be into me but I’m not sureIn that case. Just enjoy the ride if she's peaked your interest. I see no problem | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl seems to be into me but I’m not sureGirls that age are pretty slow in the head. Since you see her all the time. No need to text her. Just talk to her at work. Just cool it. If she asks why you don't text her. Say that you're busy with other stuff. And aren't usually on your phone. And let's meet up this wknd etc... She might be just wanting a text buddy. And when you ask her out, she dismisses it. Signs of a flake In the end it's not how she acts with you. It comes down to commitment. So don't be fooled | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:24 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]My idea is be who you are. Don't change for girls. And don't ever think you're the problem. Alike will always select for like | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Did my first approaches today ever in Delhi. Didn't turn out to be goodYou did great. That's all normal. It's part of the process. You can't get a date without getting rejected a tons of times. When I was starting I had to talk to 50 girls to get 1 date. I had several numbers. But it didn't matter since only 1 meets me out of 50 girls I talk to | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:15 PM |
| 21 | [deleted by user]I've approached many girls. And hovering is the worst thing a guy can do. It happens because a guy doesnt know any better or is extremely nervous. Either way, it's bad 👎 | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Thinking about having sex with my teacher.Fuck yeah!! Why wait? Do it now lol. If she's down... you could be hitting that for awhile. Until she leaves 👍 Be like. So what's it like living abroad? Is it true I'd be legal to drink? What do you like to drink? (; | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:04 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]That can be one of the very few exception now that you've explained You can't just go around telling a girl, "I love you, let's elope" and be dead serious. Can't really be telling that to anyone Or, "I know it's been a week. But I'm in love. Never met anyone like you etc..." lmao. Then yes. I'd agree with that type of "strong" lmao | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 06:58 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Nope when a girl comes off too strong. Its what you call, hooking up. Which guys love!! Or ONS. Guys almost never turn these girls away. It's also some what rare for a girl to even "come off strong." And if she does... very likely this girl has "been around." And is just a very flirtatious girl You're afraid of coming on "too strong" cuz you think it makes you seem desperate. In reality, you've changed your behavior to what you perceived a girl will accept you for In turn: this is real desperati… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No such thing as comming off too strong. She wasn't into you | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Got a phone number from a girl last week but I think she ghosted me. I'm not sure to know whyIts takes guts man. Congrats If you want to know. Seeing how youre a beginner. You need on average 12 numbers just to get a date! But important to know it fluctuates! So it can either be 1-3 numbers. Or about 20 numbers or less Just telling you the truth | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Got a phone number from a girl last week but I think she ghosted me. I'm not sure to know whyI've had almost about 100 numbers now recorded doing this. I should be charging you for this information (: -school or work, are poor excuses. The girl could at least try better -family emergency, is no such thing -girls will go on text rampage to avoid you getting to the point in asking them out -once invite has been sent, girl will try to change subjects -once invite has been sent, girl won't reply Any of these. It's over | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Got a phone number from a girl last week but I think she ghosted me. I'm not sure to know whyNope. It's never worked for me or anyone I personally know. Once the invitation is texted and you get no response. It's over. I've test texted this so many times. To see if it's true, it's not Girls will even sometimes change subjects when you ask them out. Thats another common girl trick Block them Another trick is using work or school as an excuse. Now I just laugh at that, cuz I know first hand from dozens of numbers that's its bull The last excuse. Is, "family emergency" I know all the trick… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the streetNothing you did was wrong. It goes to prove that talking to a girl for long periods of time while connecting with her will still flake. Talk to another for 1 minute. You'll be surprised she'll happily reply. She only talked with you because it was out of her convenience. It's not like she can be rude and walk away. She had no choice. She's waiting for her friend. Who could've well been a boyfriend But good on you. Minimize your conversations next time. So you don't waste your time. And it's cool… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 03:09 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]All these are wrong. Giving a girl a compliment is the most attractive thing a guy(that a girl finds cute) can say. Spam approach. Most girls arent going to be into you. Expect a lot of rejection. Nothing that you will say or do, will change that you cant get all of them. Nor will get most of them A number can happen on your 1st approach. Followed by a 2nd number on your 2nd approach. The next day you cant get not 1 number out of 20 approaches. It happens! And its not even that uncommon. When yo… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Got a phone number from a girl last week but I think she ghosted me. I'm not sure to know whyHe texted her plans and she saw the message and refused to reply. BUT when he talked about other stuff that had nothing to do with meeting up, she has no problem texting back!! Youre just advocating for the same thing to happen. This is called being a text buddy So of coarse she'll probably reply. As long as its not asking her out, she'll respond to anything. And the second you do ask her out again, she'll ghost ahahaha Flake girls LOVE texting and no committment | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Got a phone number from a girl last week but I think she ghosted me. I'm not sure to know whyYes its over. Ive doubled texted about 50 numbers like yours to see if it was salvageable. Not once did it ever work!! So dont double text! If you were planning on it Once the invitation is made. Leave that as your last text in her phone. Trust me, she saw it!! And if she hadnt for some weird reason... you want that to be kept in her phone as your last message! So dont text over it Girls flake all the time!! Ive had dates just off getting 2 numbers. And times where i had to get over 20 number fo… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 2 | 25 - is it too late for me?I experimented cold approaching in my early 20s for fun and took a long time off. I got back to it and approached seriously in my late 20s. The best age to be at cold approaching is anywhere in the 30s with A TONNE of experience. Its when youre at your best!! Approach in your 40s is okay too | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What it took for me to finally start doing cold approach.Good on you | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Getting numbers but still no datesMost beginners need about 60 approaches to date(which will usually get you 10 numbers or less... about 50% will reply... youre left with 3/6 solid numbers) This 60 approach per date number will actually be your "average sum." A date can THEN technically be at 20 approaches or well over 100 approaches needed for a date! These things balance out!! With highs and lows. It wouldnt be all too correct to say its random either. It fluctuates around your "average sum" (: This is accurate as any guy can … | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys try to get her number or snap/insta?Its why youre an amateur. IF YOU ASK A GIRL THIS, UR JUST GONNA GET THE SHITTIER END OF THE DEAL. Its like youre wanting to fail on purpose smh | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How to approach random girls.Nah. Most attractive a male can say to a female is a compliment. It's bold, assertive, and you get straight to the point. It reeks of confidence which girls love | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How to approach random girls.You're going to have to talk to A TONNE A of girls for this to even work. Going for "situational openers" isn't efficient. Because then you'll have to do that for EVERY GIRL. Just copy & paste, "Hey ur cute, what's your name?" Copy & paste your interactions also if you're too much of a beginner Out of 100 girls. You should get a date! Possibly as much as 2 dates as it being just 1 also(1.5) (: | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys try to get her number or snap/insta?Easier to make a fake social media and get away with it than a number | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 01:44 AM |
| 6 | Do you guys try to get her number or snap/insta?Numbers are more solid than social media contacts. Snap/insta youre just a fan | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Am I beginner or intermediateShes right tho. How many dates out of this?? Just a few flake numbers from entertaining the group and having them laugh at you Talk back when you get at least 1 date(and as if thats an accomplishment also) | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Am I beginner or intermediateYou go around doing pua routines and have no dates to show for it. Youre worse than a beginner. Someone who has absolute "no game" but can manage 1 date a month is miles ahead of you Numbers are garbage if you cant get a date out of it. Whoop dee do 3/5 numbers that went no where. God mode pua for you. Write a book | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Getting numbers but still no datesGoing up to girls you find attractive and grabbing the number for dates isnt needy. Tf!? Without talking to girls, you cant get numbers. Without getting the number, you cant get the date "Start showing up as man" tf does that even mean 🤣 As if "showing up as a man" girls are magically gonna jump in your bed. Or randomly write their number down for you at first glance 🤣🤣 You gotta make stuff happen. Things dont happen for no reason. FURTHERMORE it requires a game plan. And execution!! Sittin at h… | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Getting numbers but still no datesIts part of the process. Sometimes it can take as much as 1 number. Other times you need well over a dozen numbers. Its random. So just be yourself. Because the game doesnt care who you, what you say, or how you act. The process will always be the same You cant get em all. Truthfully, you wont get the majority of them. You need to learn rejection and embrace it. You just gotta keep going. Itll eventually happen | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What, exactly, is a double texting?Nice meeting you, Bob Her: no reply Not interested. Don't double text. Move on I got a free day tomorrow. Let's meet up for x? Her: No reply The invitation is there on her phone. Don't double text. Leave your invitation there. And move on | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Guys, what is your success rate of cold approach?Well okay. You also have to keep in mind that he's a beginner. So what good do your numbers do? It's irrelevant to him. So that doesn't really help I've been thru the beginner phase and recorded it. It's why I told him... out of 100 girls,15 will give their number. Half of them will respond. From 7/8 numbers; 1 date will happen. Possibly two Those are beginner stats for cold approach. They're logical as well. So it all checks out | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Small issue with planning first date.Just don't text her. It's boring bro. If you really like her... Why would you want a text relationship?? If you like her and are happy to see her, you would much rather talk to her face to face. Close up. Maybe intimately. And a lot of times it's cool if all that happens at work I can see where you're coming from. But I don't get how it's that problematic to just be cool and vibe with her at work. If she likes you!! The place and time in the whole world wouldn't matter. She'll still fall for you… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:32 PM |
| 3 | How can I be more confident and comfortable with myself.You need to start embracing rejection. Not everyone is going to be into you. Accept it. Genuine confident guys don't fake their conversations. Or put any more effort than they normally would. They attract girls who are happy to pick them for who they are If a girl seems interested and shortly later moves on. She was never really into you. The ones truly interested will stay. That's who you want. Don't see how rejection in your case would be a bad thing | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Small issue with planning first date.By reading this it all sounds needy. Like you're desperate to take this girl out. And just want it to happen already. When you see her regularly at work I don't know your situation, but as I read. It seems forced and there's no real connection since you're going for a bland coffee date When two people with real chemistry meet. It's always a first date of something in particular to both of them that they're passionate about. Idk bro. This seems all forced. Sorry | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:18 PM |
| 4 | "You look familiar" openerIt's the club. You shouldnt be talking. Don't know how you even can. Or occurs to you that's what you do at clubs. You don't talk. You dance. Get physical. Escalate. Have fun. Get in there with all the girls. Out of 50s, one of the girls is gonna bite Focusing on one girl is just needy behavior. Girls will want your attention one minute. Then next, youre long forgotten | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Guys, what is your success rate of cold approach?And youre definitely lying lmao... 25% of what?? 10 approaches? 20 approaches? 100 approaches? Kid. If you really knew what you were talking about you wouldn't give such a vague number. 25% in your statements makes zero sense Your other percentages also need be elaborated out of what. 2-4% could be anything ahahaha | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Flaky numbersThere's nothing you can do about it. Thats the name of the game. Not what you say. Not what you do. It won't change. So don't take it personally. For every date expect to need 10 total numbers about. You want 2 dates?? You need about 20 numbers! Give or take!! Also. When you get these dates... Most of them won't see you after(I'm serious). That's cold approach for you Girls flake with numbers. They'll flake after your fantastic date as well Once you know the flake game. You can actually estimate… | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Contacts. Haircut. Drop down body fat. Better facial features | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 3 | How can I get “in state” faster?Do whatever it takes to get those baby steps in. After awhile it'll get somewhat better. I've done it over 1000 times and it's still tough for me. This stuff ain't easy so don't ever be too hard on yourself | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 04:32 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop giving off a friendly vibe on a date?Not a friendly vibe if she told you she doesn't want to rush it. You've communicated it perfectly. And that was her response The only thing that you could've done different is the art of persuasion. Or manipulating. Which I'm against | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 04:26 AM |
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