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I kick my feet and giggle at the unhinged revenge fantasies made up and shared because of an obsession with sex. Living a whole life for just some pussy is the most hilarious thing I've ever seen in my life. Lol ah if you're just here to point and laugh then I'll leave you to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:21 AM
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This entire sub is men crying about how women are so mean. It's weird, I go into women forums and will read women whining and crying about men but I usually have some sort empathy or compassion. Then there's folks like yourself who apparently see men whining and crying and just get exasperated. Like, I don't think you need to take it personally do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:06 AM
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Yeah you can. This post comes across as autistic IMO. I mean, autistic people are pretty good at identifying other autistics. Really swinging for the fences aren't we?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:40 AM
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Social skills is a euphemism for being superficially charming. OP just making up his own version of facts and asking yeah, why AREN'T we all living according to his own made up rules. People love calling it "social skills" because it makes it sound like the man is lacking some important quality and is also a stupid piece of shit. Invariably people with poor social skills often find themselves either resenting people who DO have social skills, devaluing the importance of social skills or straight…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:38 AM
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Peter Zeihan covers how fertility is dead worldwide there won’t be any immigrants left to come. May I interest you in some cheap robot workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:32 PM
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Love is often fleeting. Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 04:40 AM
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No OP you did stupid things that you know were stupid and instead of taking responsibility for your actions you've decided to blame a whole gender because you're blindsided that the married woman who seduced you didn't protect your from her husband. C'mon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 09:56 AM
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I'm telling it does take skill and effort for women to have sex though. Like literally. Especially if you want GOOD sex that won't leave your murdered or raped. It also takes skill to have the thick skin to not constantly have ones boundaries pushed and/or called a slut. None of this is easy. I didn't say it didn't take skill or effort. It's a fact that one group is going to have an easier or harder time learning how to get laid than the other group. In general, it is way easier for women to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 08:14 PM
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It wasn't until I got skinny and left high school/lookmaxxed that I got any at all. I worked hard to be able to be a slut dammit! You worked hard to get healthy and fit...that's a goal and prize in it's own right unrelated to being a slut. Why does it mean she lacks principle? You're nitpicking and resenting people's prejudices regarding basic human behavior. People usually, in general, do not have a high opinion of folks who think they are empowered and entitled merit for easily fulfilling a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:52 PM
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That's what I thought. Zero proof. Just 100% projection of your personal insecurities and feelings of inadequacy. You don't need to make things up to get mad dude. There's plenty of real things that are worthy of your attention and concern!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:27 PM
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Shhh if you stop talking you can hear the wind rustling your jimmies. But in all seriousness lol you do realize that the movie isn't...real, right? That Jenny isn't a real person and that you're making assumptions about a fictional character in a fictional universe without anything to back up your assumptions? Like you say she spread aids like it's a fact. Who did she spread AIDS to? Who did she kill? Where in the movie did Forest say he was abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:51 PM
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...because a fictional woman named Jenny gets a pass for leading on a good trusting guy of an IQ of 75 after being raped by her dad then this means that we have to give the golden state killer a pass too? y'all are whacko lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 06:25 AM
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When a bedroom is dead, it's just dead. No amount of cleaning will make a woman want to fuck you if she already doesn't. Hey OP can you please provide data that supports your argument? I LOVE how you're out in the comments poo-pooing things for being "pop science crap" when your post reads like the venting of a sad, bitter recently divorced husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:47 AM
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Why do guys here act like a women feeling uncomfortable or finding a dude creepy is some unforgivable crime? Well in the case of Karen's calling the cops, there are times where there are racial or class aspects to women's discomfort whereby average guys are at risk of being treated like criminals based upon prejudices. In general though I think it's because most men feel they are expected and asked to judge women on an individual/case by case basis. Each woman is their own person and should not …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:26 AM
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Really? As a guy, the biggest compliment I can get is that I can get laid by a lot of women? Just because your life revolves around your penis OP doesn't mean the world works that way for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:24 PM
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Lmao this is truly brilliant advice. “You have problems? Move on!” Just, genius insight there sherlock. Pretty good example of how the genders get wildly different feedback and sympathy when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:47 AM
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Now I know a lot of you aren’t even interested in being promiscuous on this sub, but for those of you who are and are trying, it’s all about being kind and getting to know her as a PERSON and not a sex toy. Thank you OP for demonstrating, perfectly, how out of touch the two genders are with each other's position. All of those men who texted promiscuously, did so because they found a woman somewhere who will respond in kind. They are filtering YOU out, and you not only notice but found it rude...…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:54 PM
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Opening up about a frustration that she can't identify with will get him called a man baby or a whiner and will turn her off. A gal on a date once asked me how I was doing, and I riskily opened up to her. She then hit me with the "wow do you realize you talk a lot?" lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:15 PM
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*less discriminating, less selective, less judgmental, less picky, more oblivious, less objective, more obtuse, etc testosterone make brain go durrrrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:37 AM
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It's called plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:37 PM
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Uh OP is saying that generational politics IS class politics, aka economics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:12 PM
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He hurt himself in confusion!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:11 PM
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Women aren’t dumb. What? Intelligence has nothing to do with anything here. A potato is a potato. A potato is NOT a potato in different parts of the world. In some places they know how to make a lot of potato-specific food. A potato will be treated and viewed differently. In other areas people don't like eating potato. Men and women are different in different parts of the world, and different cultures mold people differently causing significant diversity in lifestyles and values. If you don't kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:01 AM
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it's because it strokes the egos of those who think they are uniquely gifted at warming and opening/fixing the character. men do it kind of as well with the whole manic pixie girl trope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:37 AM
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Tldr but relationship maintenance is usually a woman thing, annoyingly Guess you didn't read the post because this doesn't contradict what OP says, in fact, in some ways it actually supports what OP is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 06:49 PM
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What are you talking about OP? You're reading shitty ass men online brag about treating women like shit and being successful. Men here on PPD complain about being single because they're nice and not assholes--and the assholes get rewarded by women...even though those assholes are the ones treating them like shit and bragging about it online. Then you come on here and say that assholes online and IRL make you reluctant to date (except, you're dating a good guy who's not an asshole?) and you justi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:10 PM
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I think you (and all of us, by the way) are way way way more influenced by porn than you realize. And sure maybe the gals fall into that romance traps, but uh, so guys as well. Most of my guy friends, even the ones who are married, still operate on delusional concepts around love and romance derived from unrealistic media and stories told to us. Honestly, I don't bother or waste time blaming or complaining about either genders for being exploited in such an area like love and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:25 AM
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Nowhere did I imply that women are a monolith Uh yeah you did or were you talking about the struggles that gay men have in dating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:11 AM
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Exactly. Pivot to talking numbers dude. Glad you can hear me. Hope it sinks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:27 AM
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Take it away and find out. I just can't get over the hilarity of your argument hahahahaha America's social welfare programs are threadbare nonexistent, not that you would know or care as a Canadian, but even if you were an American I just can't believe the hilarity of actually believing that social welfare programs are the reason woman can demand high standards in men. Like, are the women in your life that stupid and helpless that you genuinely think that about them? Bummer for them, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:20 AM
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But take away welfare, subsidized housing, Medicare, SNAP, etc, well by damn it's like magic Beta buck's just grew 3 inches in attractiveness (when compared to living on the street). lol as a guy what the fuck are you going on about. Do you really think that women are only this way hahahaha because the government has the shittiest ass of most developed nations shitty shit welfare programs? like hahahahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:58 AM
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So relationships between younger women and older men that aren’t rich don’t exist? Genuinely curious. In your opinion, of all those types of relationships, what percentage do you think are based on the younger woman not giving two shits about the resources/power/money of the older man? In your estimate what percentage of young women who are dating older men, are doing so purely because they physically and emotionally prefer an older man? Like, money or power and influence don't factor in at all.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:47 PM
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Those are soft preferences. Lol oh you sweet, sweet summer child. Shortness is an unforgiveable sin for many women. If that sounds weird, imagine how weird it feels to experience that in oh so many ways, words and forms your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:59 PM
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Why are the things that men provide treated as a collective offering whereas women's offerings are trivialized into individualistic piecemeals? Are women not a collective that is ensuring, you know, the continuation of the species? Are women not a collective that overwhelming fills and fulfills the need for caring, nurturing, healing and developing human beings (nurses, teachers, child care and nursing homes)? Why is the contribution of women not a collective contribution like mens' OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:26 PM
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I’m not talking about ALL homeless men, but there is a large portion of homeless men that are just god awful people and when you’re around them you can’t help but think, “ah, that’s why you’re homeless”. How long have you worked at a shelter? Cuz if it was long you would know that homelessness destroys a person's body and mental well being. You can take a health person and put them on a street and some people will break and become absolutely trash of the earth in order to justify what they see a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 09:10 PM
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This is a hilarious comment because it's not satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 12:53 AM
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Replace the word bisexual with any racial minorities and maybe you’ll hear how tone deaf you sound. I am shocked when straight and queer allies repeatedly lie and act hypocritically. I don’t know why you’re dismissing this legitimate complaint and experience. Racism is shocking and offensive, even when it comes from fascists and klan members. It’s even more so when it comes from allies who claim to be antiracist. I’m not pretending that people can’t lie or straights aren’t homophobic lol. Doesn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:41 AM
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That’s not shocking. No, you're wrong, it's still pretty shocking. Thanks for the uselessly dismissive input though. It's especially shocking when people present themselves as tolerant, queer friendly, woke feminist who are fighting the patriarchy and go on rants about toxic masculinity...cis or gay, but then will ask you if you're actually secretly gay and don't worry you can trust them, and say things like "I could never date a guy who's been with another dude, but you're really cool" or "You …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 01:52 AM
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Bi guy here. Why is that hard for you? You know your friend’s situation is rare. Lol. The number of ladies that have said homophobic and just straight up patriarchal bullshit after finding out I’m bisexual would make you uneasy. Hell, my lesbian friends said fucked up shit and got all defensive when I pointed it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 10:57 PM
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The solution is obvious. Kill capitalism, get laid. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:15 PM
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strong bone structures What does this mean? Does this mean you're looking for a tank instead of dps or support? What the hell does good bone structure mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 05:45 PM
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But young enough that i dont have to gaf about butthurt people apparently so young that you confuse condescension for helpfulness
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:08 PM
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You're old enough to know better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:29 PM
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A wild and unnecessarily condescending comment appears!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:06 AM
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Modern western women, but ESPECIALLY American women, have zero responsibility, accountability, care in the world about anything. This is why if a man is young & can get one, I recommend just trying to lock down & marry a girl 18 - 22 in her prime college years if you can... avoid the disaster out there. Mega cringe If the women is not intelligent she will just tell you, but if she is... well, it will be easy to read exactly what type of person she is when she answers from the shock. Her answer &…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:56 AM
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They absolutely see you that way. Not expressing clear verbal interest does not mean absence of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:41 AM
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I’m not a conventionally attractive man. Im also bi im a little more aware. My friendliness to women has been misinterpreted as romantic interest so often that Im now very careful and intentionally open with women I seek to be friendly with. Ive noticed overwhelmingly that as straight guys get older they will not go out of their way to just be friends with a woman unless for specific reasons (work wife/friend) or hobbies. But even then… Yeah if guys go out of their way to spend time with you lol…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 02:39 AM
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Don’t care. Lmaooo. I said what I said. Full stop lol. you're making it too easy bubs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:29 AM
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Did you take in the ass? Or were you the top? Gotta try all positions and cross them off otherwise you still might be bi or pan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:28 AM
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Lmao this guy. Straight guys aren't actually straight until they've had sex with a woman--until then, they could be trans or asexual even if they've been fantasizing or jerking off to women all their lives. Super smart logic there Sherlock. Airtight. lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:27 AM
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Thats what I thought lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:55 PM
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Should be pretty easy to find some documentation online then yea?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:53 PM
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Fascinating! Do you have some reading material/web link on that? I’d love to learn more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:50 PM
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Because then you would be handing over children to strangers. What? This happens all the time in war. Durih WW2 this was common for both axis and ally forces with kids being sent off into the country with strangers in the UK and germany
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:45 PM
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Im not worrying about shit. Im just pointing out dynamics as i see them from where Im standing. And sure, people can always choose to theoretically resist their biological imperatives and drives. We can blame the suckers for being suckers, as you suggest, and laugh at them when they say it sucks. Or we could, who knows, empathize. Or you know, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 04:12 AM
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Hey im a bisexual guy so i know firsthand how fickle women play with men and then pretend and gaslight message as a group that its an equal playing field without huge emotional/attention power differentials in the dating world between the average man and woman. I mean, it makes sense to me because women have to filter out insane men who can get violent, but the act of pretending like things are the same is just so fucking transparent in the age of the internet. Its not so dissimilar to the ignor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:32 AM
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I mean, technically, the rich kid isn't wrong. If you're poor you SHOULD hustle to do well in life, it's just that no matter how much they hustle, that 6 figure job isn't going to magically fall into their laps without daddy's help. By the same token, yes, sure, mindset is what truly matters in life. But it's the privileged person who condescendingly (mockingly?) simplifies things to "mindset" with no appreciation for how difficult it is to be poor. Why should anyone listen to you when you can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:55 PM
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Your reaction reminds me of kids of rich parents who tell their poor friends that they just need to hustle a bit more to land the same six figure job they got straight outta college
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:48 PM
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basically, agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:18 AM
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I meant in a more general sense with someone who leads, doesn't outsource their feelings for validation in thought they choose, is independent, proactive instead of reactive, dependable, etc. Those are all signs of strength in different ways. A person in control Oh yes, then I would agree with you. Felt like "proactive" could be a characteristic easily seen and wielded by femininity. But I'd agree that what you described would be identified as "masculine". Still think it fits with the "provider"…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:38 PM
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And that "masculine culture" I think mainly stems from the patriarchy and oppression of women, these traditional values from back then are the result of this oppression Sure. I'm not validating it...I'm just pointing out how it is. masculine is anyone who is proactive in their life. This is hardly what most people think of when think of masculinity. When people are asked, "think of a masculine trait" they don't go, "Oh, someone who is super proactive".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:19 PM
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So basically sex is power Attention is power and sex is an ultimate form of attention. men are jealous it's being taken away from them, or something? lol Masculine culture is heirarchical and male identity and male worth, for better or for worse (worse, imo) seems to be directly tied to the ability to acquire resources--material and social resources, material and social power. Women view a man who is highly desired by other women, as worthy of their attention. Similarly, a man who is desired by …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:49 PM
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Yes, and while we’re making super helpful suggestions. Anxious people should just relax. And if depressed people would just forget their sadness, they’d be a lot happier! It is so easy. I don’t understand why lonely people are so uptight about being alone—they should just try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:53 PM
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Wild people are wild because they like being wild. Same for tame people. A little reductionist dont you think? I don’t think this is the case at all. I know men who wanted to settle down and didn’t know how to do it on their own, same goes for shy or timid introverts needing help with getting out and about a bit. People like who they are, sometimes, but more often people feel STUCK as who they are. If you like who you are, you’re not going to want to change it for anyone. Maybe that’s you and so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:49 AM
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This comment cancels itself it out. If a PhD isn’t that credible why would any of us bother to listen to you discrediting them with a vague and low effort hand wave?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:19 AM
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Excellent comment and I appreciate both the sentiment and content of this post. Thanks OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 02:16 AM
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I read somewhere that ~87% of statistics are made up on the spot. The remaining 13% are either exaggerated or misused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 05:47 AM
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I mean you are extrapolating from a very narrow band/niche space about all men. To offer a counter point, Im a guy and I have a female best friend (and two close male friends) who is married and we’ve never been romantically or otherwise interested in each other. I have two other close female friends and a close relationship with my sister, mom, godmother and aunts. I had a healthy friendship with my current SO before we dated and I definitely do not put women on an x-axis in terms of fuckabilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:22 AM
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What stats are you looking at? The one I found said that 50% of folks between the age of 65-80 who have a romantic partner have an active sex life. That’s uh, not that much of a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:57 AM
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Guy here. My ex wanted me to fist them. I would never had thought of even suggesting the idea and tbh was a bit turned off at the suggestion. Most of the extreme sex stuff I’ve done have either been at the invitation, request…or ive copied what I saw I heard someone else do (online or irl) and my lady partner wildly appreciated it. I’m a bisexual guy. Women are into crazy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:56 AM
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As a woman, I generally put men in 3 categories: objectively attractive, neutral, and unattractive. fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:18 AM
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Well there's your problem. You think dogs are inferior to humans when it's obvious that they are the superior species on a number of levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 08:41 PM
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Wanting attention and liking attention, even wanting sexual attention is neither unique to women nor is it wrong. How the hell did you extrapolate yourself into the insane position that “we wouldn’t be interested in you at all and would just go about our business. Facts.”? Holy shit bro speak for yourself actually just go ahead and keep your mouth shut because you’re getting diarrhea every where. I understand you got rejected and now you need to lash out at women. It’s very brave of you but I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:05 AM
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No no it's 87% of NUMBERS that are made up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 03:08 AM
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Like I've said I'm a woman and I don't know a woman that has ever scorned a guy for showing emotion. As a bisexual guy, let me tell you. Straight women are prejudiced and discriminatory AF when it comes to showing any sort of comfortability with my emotions, sensitivities and feminine side.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:49 PM
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A TV trope, sure, because that’s popular with the audience AF. In real ugly men who are with hot women, usually are rich/successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:07 AM
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Is this a roleplay account?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 06:24 AM
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I mean I think you are promoting a highly problematic perspective. I definitely think women should be able to complain about the behavior of men they aren’t dating. You’re saying that they should just focus on the men who meet their values. The actions and behavior of people we aren’t interested in definitely still affect me, my relationships and the people that are close to me. Your highly individualistic every person for themselves approach is part of what’s creating such a toxic dating enviro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:19 PM
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So the summary of your contribution so far is that your unique experience is very common and even if it isn’t, people should just refrain from “complaining”? “Yes I know most men are assholes but that’s not me or my experience with my guy friends. You are probably just dating the wrong guys so either change or stop complaining.” Very helpful!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 04:50 PM
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Uh yes I completely agree with you that religion is a choice. You seem reluctant to believe that your experience is not the norm. Do you really believe that most or even a large minority of American women initiate dates offer to pay for their meals? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 01:50 PM
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All my friends are like that. You and your friends are outliers. I run in extremely egalitarian circles and while I see dynamics like what you describe, it’s still not the norm and those circles are light years ahead of the dating circles experience by most Americans (re: religious, lower class).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 02:29 AM
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Indeed. How dare OP tell others to communicate more and manipulate others less. Only people who naturally know their own sexuality at a young age are allowed to tell people not to be assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:51 AM
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I mean I think your standards are reasonable and fair, but you're going to be selecting out a LOT of people. Like I'm in a lot of religious circles and you'll definitely find men in those networks who fit your criteria, but they're religious so...not sure if that's something you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:00 AM
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My best guy friend was repeatedly sexually assaulted over the course of year by an adult woman while in grade school. A common kid friend of ours once confessed to us while crying that he’d been graphically held down and sexually molested repeatedly by three neighborhood girls and it had fucked him up—it happened two times. My roommate in college had been groped many times and he told me once that his mom had done sexual things with him (???). They were swingers and ended up getting divorced his…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:28 AM
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most single, straight guys I know Dunno what to tell you man I think your straight guys are far from average.. and what do you mean by “clean, healthy lifestyle”? You’re right about there being gay guys who don’t put any effort into losing weight, very much so. Lol but I’d bet $100 those overweight gays guys KNOW more the kind of effort they COULD put into themselves, they’re just lazy and know they can get away with not doing it. I mean for every lazy overweight gay guy there’s several straight…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 09:23 PM
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So why aren't straight men putting in as much effort into their looks as gay guys? Pretty sure it's because of unspoken rules/cues in masculine culture that describe any sort of effort into appearance as being effeminate. RP men will obsess over going to the gym but you don't hear them talk about skin care and tailored clothes (ok, sometimes maybe they'll talk about the importance of well-fitting clothes)...but I'm pretty sure the myopic focus on muscles is because it's "not masculine" to talk a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:21 PM
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But gay men are still more attractive. Yeah just to chime in as another bi dude, gay men absolutely (in general) take better care/spend more effort on their body/attraction. lol Like gay guys who are overweight will definitely put in more effort than straight guys who are overweight. It's not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:06 PM
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Exactly 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:46 PM
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It truly is curious how much a nobody can get underneath your skin huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:39 PM
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You don’t think it’s weird to post worthless comments on forms?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:07 AM
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But all women seem to be competing to uphold certain standards of female attraction/beauty, regardless of whether men are a part of the equation. So how can it be equally both genders “fault” when there are far less men involved (albeit powerful) in creating and enforcing these standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:50 PM
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Because sunshine you’re adorable just sitting there, so satisfied with yourself. It’s endearing! You don’t find yourself smart and endearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:37 PM
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This comment is worthless except that it made you feel nice and smart for a few seconds. You had an opportunity to explain your perspective and instead you just took your toys and went home. Cute 😗
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:33 PM
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Lesbians do exist. Uh goes to show how much you know? Lesbians can and do have some super high/extreme femme standards. Yes they are some of the most accepting and considerate imho when dating, but they can and are also vicious in their critical assessment of attraction in other ladies lol like far more extreme than straight men, probably because men are actually pretty non observant when it comes to dress/makeup/hours needed for prep.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:28 PM
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Lol OP those are not signs of true love. Figures since you sound a little immature yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 11:16 PM
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Why would you say that out loud? I mean yeah good question. I know a lot of women who have said that either about their SO to their friends, or when their man is not around, and I see women say it repeatedly online. It is rare to hear men say to their friends or even online “yeah my wife isn’t a 10 but she’s attractive enough” lmao. That’s what OP is getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:51 PM
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“Hey babe, you’re not the most beautiful woman in the world but you’re definitely super attractive.” Yeah that’s going to go over real well with the wife/girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:32 PM
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This is untrue. Men are disposable as a sex, just based on out ability to father many children People's inherent worth does not rise and fall on their capacity to reproduce. There have been millions of humans who have lived incredibly lives that have made life better for others and allowed others to live, and they did it all without having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:03 AM
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Aren't most redpillers sluts/wanna be sluts? Indeed, which actually kind of proves his point to a degree. sexuality is used to validate, keep score, self-medicate, or distract sounds like redpillers tbh and a lot of their advice sounds similar to what OP is criticizing, behavior that is: manipulative, narcissistic, dishonest, fickle and secretive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 05:30 AM
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This is objectively bullshit. How do I know? Because I’m an adult male who belongs to a boxing gym and I absolutely know many women who are stronger than me. What a bunch of baloney lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:03 PM
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Women aren’t killing you guys. So ya, a male curfew would work I highly, highly doubt you want to go down that road. Because the second something like that would be introduced, you're going to have some racist asshole start involving race and begin suggesting that because xyz crime is disproportionately committed by xyz race, that we need to introduce specific laws to target said demographics. Blanket policies that are inherently discriminatory, like the one you're suggesting, can and do lead to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 12:43 AM
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leave it to men to take care of their own community Uh, the genders are responsible for their gender? Are you saying it’s appropriate for men to start holding you responsible for the actions of all women as long as they’ve given a couple ladies the benefit of the doubt a couple times first? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 04:38 AM
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Well explained
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 05:03 PM
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“We’re not beautiful, we’re handsome” Speak for yourself sunshine. I am beautiful. I am gorgeous. I am sight to behold. Imho ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 07:58 PM
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What entitlement? I had many men coming to me. Yeah, it shows. Even when I was not interested, I never made fun of them Yet you just made fun of guys who were "creeping" because you saw them coming from "miles away". Because these guys didn't approach you in a way that surprised you, they must be creepy. I have no idea why you pretended to act surprised lol. Maybe they're not creepy but just tired of being rejected and unsure if they even have a shot. The entitlement is that you believe a whole …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 09:07 PM
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Guys, come to us - we don't bite. There is no reason for waiting an hour before coming to a girl. What's the worst that could happen? You will hear 'no' and that's it. The entitlement and cluelessness in this comment is pure gold. Just wow, so delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:35 PM
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Society. Female gender roles So because there are people out there raising their little girls to be good and complaint per their idea of gender roles, every one else in society is now complicit and responsible for their parenting? I know plenty of women who were explicitly not raised to be "good and compliant", perhaps you don't feel they are part of society though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 11:10 PM
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No, we raise girls that they should be good and compliant and do what they can to please others. Who is this "we"? I have zero say in how my friends raise their kids, let alone the rest of the fucking culture or country. Who is this "we" that raises exclusively girls to be good and complaint?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:59 PM
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Why don't you drink some cum then tell me how much more of it you fancy having. Have your partner incorporate a significant amount of pineapple into their diet and make sure they drink lots of water. Problemo solved. Edit: Jokes people >.< jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:53 PM
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What's the number for men? Guy here, from my guy friends who have a high n-count...they struggle massively with staying faithful to their partners even when they really, really want to. I know three dudes who are in the 10-20+ range, one of them has cheated on every single gf for the last few and the other two were keeping it on the DL until they caught and were divorced by their wives (after being given several tries). Purely anecdotal but personally if someone has a high-n count my experience …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:52 PM
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Also jobs are where you work and get paid for money. Jobs are usually regulated by labor union laws regarding work hours and injuries. Also with most jobs you have to abide by a dress code and policies regarding appropriate language. I could continue pointing out ways that a job interview and approaching women are different. If anyone requires extra clarification please let me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 05:53 PM
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OP sounds entitled AF. This place is great. Sure, there are a lot of turd comments and threads, but occasionally there are incredibly insightful things shared and argued. “Makes this place better for me because it sucks.” -OP Nobody owes you anything and you’re part of the problem you’re whining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 09:57 AM
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Yea, testosterone’s ability to increase and magnify aggression certainly doesn’t help either :/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 08:21 PM
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LMAO men get angry in public and on the internet all the time and barely anyone writes them off as just being emotional. That's because anger is the main (only?) emotion they are permitted to express. Anger is coded as a masculine emotion by society so men are much more likely given a pass. I don't agree with this, I think it's toxic af but it is my observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 07:48 PM
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I dunno man it sounds like you do care about his physique. Are you his coach?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:28 PM
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Honestly OP your logic is hilarious. Also you’re wrong. Men absolutely are expected to ask women out. You can reframe it as courtesy or manners (whatever that means? Those are still expectations.) the fact of the matter is is that men have been expected to approach women throughout history in most cultures and your post basically equates to saying “I don’t trust a man who won’t pay for my food when he asks me out but I realize that’s pretty selfish of me so I’m going to disguise my logic with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 01:14 PM
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Enough said. Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 11:56 PM
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But PREVIOUS sex and attraction? Someone who gets upset that someone may have been a little more sexually lenient BEFORE and has since changed their personal standards is going to be a lonely person in their life. There are plenty of a car buyers out there and contexts matter or don't matter to different people. I'm a bisexual dude. I can't tell you how many straight women have turned their noses at me or suddenly lost attraction to me when they learn I've been with other guys. My current girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:29 PM
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My eyes hurt from eye rolling. It’s a metaphor. Lighten up sparky you are reacting way too personally to this stuff. Sex absolutely does not define a persons worth but we let’s not be idiots. When we’re talking about marriage, whether your a man or woman looking to “buy a car”, sex and attraction are critical variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:19 PM
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Totally. Different people have different limits though. I know people who can’t have one beer before feeling the affects and some others who became addicted after a couple of binges. Then there are friends who can stop and start drinking whenever they want and may abuse drinking but aren’t addicted. And it has still had poor consequences for their health. Everything in moderation, awareness and context. But let’s respect the power or the behaviors we’re engaging
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:16 PM
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I mean yeah maybe the dealership changed the odometer to read zero. But then one day as you’re driving on the highway the odometer jumps ahead several thousand miles. You go back to confront the dealer and they shrug their shoulders. The car starts having problems not long after you buy the vehicle and when you take it to the shop you discover there’s way, way more mileage than you thought and you start wondering if it’s better to cut your losses and use Uber for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:53 PM
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Also I’d argue my car analogy works both ways, men and women. Straight and Gay guys are not immune to the same mental and physical risks of promiscuous sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:44 PM
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Since when does the amount of previous sex a person has had somehow SLOW THEM DOWN and make their body less valuable? I work with and have very good male friends who are sex addicts. One of them is very attractive. Another has a big dick. They will tell you that their casual approach to sex has fucked them up, deeply and profoundly in a way that has life long ramifications (their words). I’ve seen them throw away a lot good things in their life, multiple times, to get laid with some random perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:41 PM
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The dealership swears it’s in the same condition but when you get in the car the odometer shows that Trump Jr has driven it to Vegas, Canada and back and then some. You don’t see any dings or dents but you’re not going to pay sticker price for a vehicle that has 25,000 miles already on it. The dealership berates you for trying to negotiate a cheaper price before finally telling you to go to another dealership because “clearly you don’t know a quality car when it’s right in front of you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 03:29 PM
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uh correct, I haven't said anything baseless or audacious in this thread. Feel free to quote me where I have
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 08:44 PM
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never said I did, just pointed out your baseless audacity :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 08:25 PM
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Lol claiming to know men better than men know themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:29 PM
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You’re assuming that because a woman approaches a man they will automatically have sex...hence your “pump and dump” assumption. That is a false assumption. Approaching men does not mean automatically that they will have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:34 PM
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Approaching does not equate sex
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:29 PM
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This comment is the most BDE comment on this page
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 02:43 AM
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There are millions of women who grew up around brothers and know exactly “how men be” lol and having a sister is not rare
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:50 AM
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this post, right here. Hard to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 06:11 PM
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Everyone is a winner. Agreed, as long as we stop projecting our personal experiences unto the whole world I think we all can win.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:53 PM
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It sounds like you're just immature and because you keep attracting immature women you think that everyone must be immature. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:35 PM
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And here I was thinking you'd be able to keep up. Next time I'll try to dumb myself down a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:37 PM
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I mean, I don't think you're really the expert on what your argument actually is...You're biased so you can't really know what you're really saying. It's best to let the rest of us, who have to suffer your commentary and interact with you all day long, to tell you what your argument is or isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:34 PM
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Exactly, so you should shut your mouth lest you succumb to your own argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:32 PM
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To whole human body*. You can't compare what men masturbate to what they consider as "standards". I thought I wouldn't have to be clearer than I was being. A man can have sex with a woman and be exclusively turned on by the shape of her eyebrows. The woman obviously is probably not going to enjoy this objectification, unless of course they are also objectifying the man and he's a high enough of status. Generally what men masturbate to, they will fuck given the right circumstances. Women can use …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:37 AM
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It's not a good proxy for sexual attraction to whole humans. What? People don't need to be attracted to the whole person in order for them to be sexually attracted to them. I'd say most people aren't actually. Men masturbate full stop. They also masturbate to visuals and sometimes fixate on certain body parts. Men masturbate to just about everything else a woman has, everything a woman is, and every kind of women that there are. There are definitely hierarchies of what is more desirable in women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 08:15 AM
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This is what happens when you think NSFW subs/porn are a good proxy for reality. I mean, they are definitely a piece of evidence in favor of OPs argument. Except, as a man, I really can't say that men have a harder time--that's so relative and gross/inaccurate generalizing. Some women/men are going to have an easier time because they are born rich--others are going to have an easier time because they're naturally athletic/smart. etc. So many caveats. The conclusion of OPs argument is bullshit, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:55 AM
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But im not talking about you im talking about women. Do you not understand you can be the 1% and the other 99% majority can be completely opposite? Ah yes, the man is here to tell the woman that her experience is not reflective of women. Well, I'm a man, buddy and I've fucked plenty of women and I'd definitely say that sexual attraction is a psychological thing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:49 AM
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Said, get over needing female validation. This is quite literally a fundamental base, biological instinct for the overwhelming majority of straight men in history.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:03 PM
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Even though in this case its individuals misusing tools, the tools do act as a catalyst to encourage more of certain kinds of unhealthy behaviour. Precisely. Unfortunately I feel that it is more worth our while to help people understand the affects of technology and promote wise choices, than it is to try and get rid of the tools. These tools I feel like are unfortunately here to stay until something bigger comes along and gobbles it up/internalizes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:46 AM
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you simp you're adorable lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 02:01 AM
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unrealistic So as long as they don't discriminate height, penis size and skin color, they aren't guilty of shame or manipulation? I agree with you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 06:31 AM
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My sympathy for anyone who is having dating struggles immediately goes away the moment they take their anecdotes and try to apply it to half the population I mean, they aren't entitled to you or my sympathy either. I don't disagree with anything you wrote, except that perhaps it IS a bigger "problem" than it appears...and by saying that, I don't mean women are the problem, I mean the compounding factors that are contributing to this increased difficulty for men to find partners. Western culture …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:40 AM
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I'm a create an alternative world-reality situation. Let's say you and several close girlfriends of yours are dating some strong, handsome, smart high value men. Each of the men are fully committed and in love with their partners and each of them are happy and content...that is until some of the guys begin to be hit on at work by attractive, powerful, feminine, high value women at their jobs. Some of the other guys hear that there's new phone app out and rumour is that it's filled with mostly hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:01 AM
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Girls are always shamed for having physical standards, they either say it openly and accept to be bashed by men or she lie about it to avoid being assaulted by the guy she rejected because she’s not physically attracted to him. Serious question. So when adult women complain about men preferring unrealistic standards of beauty, you're saying that these women are guilty of shaming men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:28 PM
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Pretty much every single non-religious western woman (not a bad thing BTW). It's actually quite lower than that I believe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 11:05 PM
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Your post history shows you are a retard, so I'm probably right. You have high T levels, you make "good money" and you enjoy other people fucking your wife...yet you're so insecure that when other people laugh at your ideas you feel the need to call them retarded. Fucking sad bro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 10:08 PM
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Yes, stimulants used to treat ADD will cause ED. Depression and anxiety meds as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 10:04 PM
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The way to diffuse these things is to dis-empower the word. Own it, don't act like its a magic spell once spoken. Oh man, the random stranger on the internet has figured out the solution. Praise be. So while a huge segment of white America gets a hard on from talking about diversity and how not-racist they are, they are in fact just as racist as some guy online shouting nigger. fucking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 03:03 AM
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...same, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 11:42 PM
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Who exactly are these guys that are both SO attractive and SO obviously undateable, that apparently all the women are dating? I had a friend who started dating an obvious late 30s fuckboi with a big dick. She ranted and raved profusely about his giant dick for ...4 months? 6 months? Turned out he was a literal diagnosed sociopath who was secretly engaged and violently threatened her when she found out and understandably threatened to tell the future wife. No lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:50 AM
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Fucking lol. Zero awareness OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:49 AM
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I mean, why would they?, and aren't they your friends? Males, after childhood, try their damn hardest to make informed and useful decisions. My point is that my straight and queer female friends treat me differently after I came out, compared to my straight male friends--who are often stereotyped to be homophobic in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 12:03 AM
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I don’t mean that in a negative but you aren’t bi. I'm a bi guy and I've had women tell me the same thing because I come off as straight and I've been with way more women than with men. To be fair, I'm not 50-50 in my attraction. I'm like 70/30 for women/men. I prefer women's feminine aspects a little more than I do the average queer guy's capacity...however my experience resonates with OP in that men are WAY hella more easy to date/hang out with/enjoy/tolerate. I know it's because women do have…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:17 AM
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Bi dude here. I get slightly better treatment by my queer lady friends than my straight lady friends. When I come out to my straight lady friends, half tend to think I'm secretly gay, a quarter sort of phase themselves out of my life and another quarter will treat me normally. My queer lady friends are more tolerant but still spew bi-phobic shit every now and then...I don't really confront them on it though. One time I had one lesbian friend of mine assure me that she "didn't think less of me as…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:01 AM
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Gotta say, as a bi guy, I've hated most of what you've written in this thread. Ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:54 AM
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The more likely case is that she got fucked around by that ex in some way and lost her confidence. Whether she's pining after Chad or nursing her wounds, the end result is very much the same. In my opinion I've know several ladies I can count on both hands who fall into either the (1) pining category or the (2) nursing wounds category. I think your last paragraph is on to something...The Red Pill is very clear that Chad is only interested in fucking and dumping women--the whole ideology is based…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:40 AM
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Probably, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:33 AM
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Men complain about the lack of empathy they get from women, but its not like they themselves are empathetic angels. Ugly women are treated better than ugly men, in general, by both other men and other women. You say (rightly and justifiably I may add) that women don't want to be treated as cum rags...which is fair. Nobody wants to drink a cup of water from a river that may be polluted. However most ugly men aren't and can't find someone to have sex with, full stop. So they look at your polluted …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:10 AM
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I've noticed that rp men don't seem to think that women can be genuinely horny. You seriously think that they're wanting to lock down every sexy guy they see? They can't just want to have fun? Not a rp, but I think they'd say that you're totally entitled to have your fun but you aren't entitled to them not being willing to be the person you inevitably settle for--since statistically, not everyone woman is gonna be able to marry said HVM. As a non-rp purple person, I think women should be able to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 12:45 AM
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No, like I know MANY straight cis traditional/conservative dudes who think that all lesbians just have had poor experiences with guys and they'll eventually end up with man. It's a homophobic AF mentality but it exists
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 10:32 PM
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Meh I've only witnessed this supposed aversion online, I'm a bi dude and have been through MANY circles that were heavily dominated by trad con men. I've never encountered a trad con man who wasn't ok with bi women--tbh they're usually super homophobic and don't think "lesbians" are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:38 PM
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You could say that about any group of people men ain’t special well not any group, but lots of groups and while I agree men aren't special, my point still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:05 PM
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I mean the scenario is that all men just stop working, so those jobs will have to be filled by women despite our apparent reluctance. Totally. I mean, if we're going with the scenario and taking it at face value however--it would not be that easy. Take nursing or teaching for example. If all women teacher decided to go on strike tomorrow, do you think we could just summon out of thin air several million men to replace them? Hell no. You'd have to teach, train and organize them. No difference for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:38 AM
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Nah it happened across the board. ESP here in the uk. The USA and UK didn't have armies sweep through the cities. Remove men from the equation (aka, kill the existing male population) you get the Nanjing Massacre, the rape of Berlin and the horrors of Soviet occupation of Poland. It’s nice to have you here but your not providing any special service to woman. I mean, women ARE capable of doing jobs that men do...I honestly don't know if they just aren't interested or if they think it's beneath th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 08:29 PM
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As if women don't work. Tell me what would happen if all the nurses stopped going to work? Women fulfill critical roles for society as well but that's besides the point. If men, who derive their happiness and self-worth from women, en masse feel like they are going to be permanently shut off from that possibility, will have no incentive to contribute to society in the way that allows it to keep functioning. Women, do not derive their self-worth from having sex with men, so they're not going to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:39 PM
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And society can function just fine without men just look in ww2 when they all went to war. The country functioned fine and woman filled those roles. In America, yeah. The women in france, russia, germany, poland and spain suffered immensely during WW2.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:34 PM
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You work to get money. Money is your reward for work. Not pussy. You don't get sex just because you have a job Men by and large don't give two shits about money unless it gives them access to happiness & self-worth. Straight men overwhelmingly, hands down equate/associate happiness and self-worth with getting laid. It's stupid and shallow and the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 07:27 PM
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I know that's why I was laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 10:31 PM
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I get that sure but anecdotal experiences aren't justification for sweeping stereotypes. I know it happens, I just think that people don't really give recognition or attention to bi guys who come out and ...never change from being bi lol. So the anomaly "transitioning" bi tends to be news that grabs attention/spreads thru gossip/is remembered. Sucks to be affected by people's poor choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:58 PM
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straight AND gay people don’t like dating bi people because Uh no, not really. Those two reasons you provided in my experience only apply to women's insecurities. My lesbian friends are way more insecure about dating bi women and straight women are also insecure about dating bi guy. But gay dudes don't give a fuck and I've never met a straight guy who had a problem dating a bi gal--a bunch who have fetishized them sure, but never had a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:52 PM
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Not being willing to trust a person just because their bi is pretty prejudiced. It's not that different from the guy who gets cheated on once and then thinks all women are xyz, or the lady who is treated like trash by a fuckboi and then turns around and thinks all men are xyz. It's immature but nobody challenges it so bi guys like myself are just automatically written off. I am extremely loyal, never cheated and don't flirt with other people but there are huge double standards when it comes to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:17 PM
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lmao sorry but this exchange has me laughing. As a bi dude I've vocalized this MANY times and ladies always get uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 06:14 PM
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Confirmation bias, it's a thing. If you don't believe me, I have several bridges I'd love to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:03 AM
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I agree with you? I'm saying the Internet is hundreds of times more powerful than the printing press so we will experience compounding change ourselves that far exceeds the change caused by the printing press...which was a fucking lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:51 AM
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How familiar are you with your history? The printing press revolutionized Europe over a hundred years, and yet it only directly benefited a small segment of affluent, literate men--a small portion of the population. The internet is like the printing press, on steroids, ketamine, meth and cocaine, but it's directly benefiting and connecting everyone in the globe by computer, phone and business, whether they like it or not...in the course of a couple decades. We haven't seen shit yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:24 AM
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The majority of men have, in fact, had at least some positive romantic interaction (if not relationship). My only issue with your OP was how much the incel count is exaggerated. Yes, you're correct in that the majority of men if not all men have had positive romantic AND non-romantic interaction. However, what you're not getting and I completely agree with (I'm a bisexual dude so I actually see a lot and have a LOT of girlfriends who are just friends and get a lot of girl talk. It's brutal to se…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:53 AM
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Ive been turned down for guys that were objectively less knowledgeable than me in many topics. just because you're "knowledgeable" does not make you interesting or stimulating. Actually a LOT of smart people I know lack the humility and awareness to make use of their knowledge in a way that attracts people. Your response here too kind of indicates the problem. You think you're smart and that it makes your personality attractive. It does not. You should educate yourself by studying comedians, rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:56 AM
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So they don't do it to impress random men that they have yet to meet but they expect to be out there? Men who are strangers perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 07:39 AM
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lol your comments are adorably self-deprecating. You do see that women, in general, in society and culture, are more affectionate with each other than men yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:21 AM
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Depressingly fucking accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:18 AM
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Yes, that's correct. I see you can read. People who feel the need to use put downs to preface their arguments always smacks of major insecurities to me. "Like, I could demonstrate or persuade you that you are wrong but instead I'm going to use this as an opportunity to try and make you feel small." Big reader man over here! Good thing all of us on the internet know!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 08:17 AM
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So you think the actual average guy - by who you mean someone who doesn't get laid - is going to be better at sex than someone who regularly does? You're putting words in my mouth. I didn't say that. I just pointed out that what she was specifically was saying, was false. Her conclusion may be true, but her methodology is erroneous--is essentially what I'm saying. She may feel like she owes the average guy a chance--and that she's given those guys a chance and it's not been that great. I'm just …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 07:10 AM
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I mostly hook up with very average guys. False. Those aren't "average guys" ...most guys don't get laid and aren't involved in the hookup culture. That's what you OP don't seem to understand. You seem to think you're hooking up with the average dude when the reality is that your're dating the "average guy" of the SMALL demographics of men who are confident enough to go out looking for a random hookup--AKA not the average guy of SOCIETY of which you claim to be such an expert on. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 04:39 AM
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Well, well. It’s a common sight to see men here claim that women make everything about themselves. But why, right here, in the post about women, with no mention of men, with a topic and argument that is 100% independent of what men think or feel, are 80% of the comments just men griping about how hard it is for them to get casual sex? lmfao for reals. +1 for OP, this thread has been great and very entertaining thank you OP
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:26 AM
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But by 25 I would not advise a woman to date "potential." That potential should have already come to fruition at least a little bit by then. lmao how old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 11:39 PM
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Your post was hilarious. Philosophically musing the importance of the continuation of the species by exploring a fictional world where horrific widespread rape of women would be necessary. Just at thought. Obviously consent is important. Conclusion: Teaching people what is wrong is important. Just an all around very enlightening post. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 05:03 AM
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Not merely unkind or unethical, but more like as if they were all saying "as we know, the best known trait of a tortoise is its beautiful singing voice." Just a comment that this is a hysterical analogy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:19 AM
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He fucked whoever he wanted whenever he wanted to and could, and also only had wives for public image. Because of fucking money, not charm lmao. Take that guy's checkbook away and he's as seductive as a plastic bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 07:17 AM
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I keep asking dudes what they’re doing personally and so far I’m pulling up nada. Wait...so your whole post is based upon the couple of times you asked (supposedly male) questions of internet strangers? Yet even more proof that your whole argument is nonsense. Are you doing something to aid the plights of men? I believe the whole premise of your post is false. I don't believe that men as a whole are either complaining or waiting for women, specifically, to make their lives better and I don't bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/19 05:24 AM
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How is it not passive to sit back and wait for someone else to solve your problems for you? What evidence do you have that all of these men are just "sitting back and waiting for someone else"? All you have is proof that people online are vocal but being vocal and doing something are not mutually exclusive. In fact it's usually the opposite--people who are doing something about the issues in their own life usually are annoyingly vocal about their pet passions/rage online. People complaining onli…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:02 PM
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This isn't about politics at all. Then I think OP you don't understand what politics is if you think you think it's not about politics. I'm asking why men of today are more passive and less proactive You provided no proof for their being more passive and less proactive, you just provided anecdotal evidence that there seem to be vocal people online and that somehow translates into passivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:35 PM
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Yep. You're spot on OP. Thank you for the insightful economic analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:25 AM
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More men are eschewing sex because the porn actress or the Instagram girl looks better than the women IRL. Horseshite. IF men are eschewing sex in any sort of collective way (yeah, I'm going to need some data to back that up) then it's because it's not easily accessible. But no guy I know is like "nah I won't sleep with that girl because she's not as hot as [porn actress/celebrity/IG account]. Sure maybe a guy here and there...but en masse? LOL nah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 01:07 AM
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basically this, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 07:07 PM
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Tbf our justice system does seem that asinine and backwards at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 06:28 PM
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You're nit picking word usage in order to not deal with the ideas. It's fascinating how behavior, even in forums, can at times speak louder than the words said/not said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/19 06:05 AM
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I see we have come to an impasse, well played
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 05:11 PM
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Wow you really added to the conversation. Pat yourself on the back for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/19 06:00 AM
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Correct. People can be unaware of their own feelings and "discover" that oh they are feeling [sad] or [angry] or [happy]. Crazy world I know but people are different than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 04:36 AM
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realization, it's just an emotion Sorta weird thing to say. Emotions can be realizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 12:47 AM
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it’s just a waste of time because women can’t see anything from a reality-based perspective; only an emotional-based one. Yeesh who hurt you? But seriously if that's your perspective on women then fyi buddy you're working with made up facts. Source: I am a man and I know plenty of guys who get irrationally emotional over video games. I've known plenty of women who are better at logical reasoning in math and code than other smart dudes in the same upper division classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 05:13 AM
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They are hardly similar. They are similar in that both are stuck in unhealthy cycles of denial and insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 04:52 PM
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You can't be in love with someone who has never given you anything to go on other than facebook likes, lets be real here. lol it is absolutely possible for random people to be delusionally in love over some random person. No wonder you're having trouble!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:39 AM
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This is fun for both of us Literally your post is about how this isn't so fun for you...and now you're backtracking. I mean, I'm not surprised. I've read 'nice guy' posts that sound very similar to yours...the second people start pointing out things that might be contributing factors, the narrative suddenly changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:38 AM
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For whatever reason this comment made me bark with laughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 05:16 AM
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You just want to be represented well with out the burden of being questioned. Honestly you care way more about how I feel about my own self-representation than I do, so I'm not sure what you're trying to get at. You're not engaging with my original words so...yeah, whatever your end goal is, I hope you get there!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 11:27 PM
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Your response is too scripted and tightly worded to actually be sincere. Who gives a fuck about my sincerity, what I said is true. I mean, saying that feminism is responsible for all of your rules I think is a stretch, but I'll admit that its easy to find evidence to support what you said concerning those first 5. The last rule, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 08:43 PM
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They're afraid of themselves. Winner winner chicken dinner. Men are a mess of insecurity that they'll go to incredible, almost paradoxical lengths just to avoid this truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 08:28 PM
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Maybe men should get together and stop violently attacking and raping each other. It's almost like men should arm and organize themselves into groups that protect and police their communities. Maybe they should wear uniforms as well...and we should probably have some men who are in charge or reviewing evidence so that only guilt men are punished/separated from society. Then there's the problem of where those offending men should be put...maybe in a big house that's always locked-down? I'm not su…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 08:22 PM
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Trump's tax cut after he won offset Illinois's last state income tax hike for me and put that income back in my wallet. MAGA Pretty easy to brainwash you if that's all it took for you to be convinced that Republicans care about the middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 08:10 PM
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I gave him permission to answer for me. Why are you trying to speak up on my behalf?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 08:03 PM
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Rule 6: Most of the media messaging about men is negative the only rule of yours here I really disagree with...many many many movies, tv shows and especially games still have male protagonist(s). it's definitely changing but you can't say "most of the media", that would be intellectually disingenous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 07:56 PM
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Workers have been disposable since forever. Read some labor movement history. Recessions aren't anything new either. Workers are becoming more disposable than ever. Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:18 PM
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You are so great and cool for being able to find my autism levels from a Reddit post. Updoot for making autism sound not so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:14 PM
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he is exactly who he'd be in jail and this Chad is the romantic equivalent of the gang member. He probably won't actually steal your girl, she almost certainly won't cheat with that guy at all least of all with her boyfriend there, but he's clearly the bigger more desirable dog, there's nothing to be done about it and it really sucks. He's feeling insecure about a credible threat, not a made up one. excellent write up. A lot of people don't get this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 12:14 AM
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Wow people like you actually exist. "I don't have that problem so I can't understand why other people experience difficulty in their lives...it's probably their own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 07:22 PM
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Just be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 07:21 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 07:19 PM
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You've had multiple folks give you examples demonstrating PUAs do actually mention and talk about comfort. It's not something that's talked a LOT about because PUA/TRP also says, that if you are work on increasing your self worth (go to the gym, get a good job, have good hobbies) that your natural confidence and attractiveness will take care of the whole "comfort and safety" thing. Women don't feel comfortable around ugly men. But an attractive, successful guy who knows what who he, what he can …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 11:59 PM
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jordan peterson speaks very highly of the jester. unsurprising as jordan peterson isn't very funny and likely has no chill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:42 PM
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odd choice. let me guess, was it supposed to be a “joke”? lolllll This is why we should teach humor in school
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 05:34 PM
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who reads fiction is doing it as a form of entertainment The controversy is this assumption. Not everyone reads fiction for entertainment. And "entertainment" also doesn't automatically equate to "escapism". There are millions of people who read books for hundreds of different reasons relating to enjoyment, or for work, or for education, or for research etc. I read to learn, to challenge my own ideas about people and the world and to expand my personality. I've read fiction books about normal ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:50 PM
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Nobody who boasts about having a fulfilled real life, and they were using fiction to fantasize about a more exciting/more dramatic/more whatever life. lmao OP doesn't read so he thinks that everyone who does must be compensating. Ah that is good, just a new level of LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 06:36 PM
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That would be torture I feel like this comment should be narrated by Sir David Attenborough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 07:14 PM
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in prehistoric society human beings lived in tribes and fucked like bonobos You got any source for this particular fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:05 PM
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All got married at 20 just so they could fuck with a clear conscience. I have no data on whether those marriages stood the test of time. The divorce rates are pretty much what you'd expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:25 AM
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If I wanted someone to boss me around at home, I'd have stayed at my parents' house. Leadership is not about "bossiness" at all. I personally prefer and am currently in a relationship where we take turns leading each other...but you can't have two people lead at the same time. It's like ballroom dancing, you can't have two follows or two leads dancing with each other. That's the dynamic of relationships--whether it's friendships, Fuck buddies or life partners. What RP guys say and what I have pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:24 PM
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I feel personally attacked. But dam that hit close.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:49 AM
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You're wrong. He's fooled himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 09:47 AM
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Taller men also also die younger! Bonus!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 05:18 AM
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But if they aren’t regularly taking part in the marketplace of who is getting laid, then they don’t matter as much in defining sexual mores and shaping how men understand female sexuality. Damn I hadn't ever heard of this comment. Gonna have to think on that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 10:09 PM
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That's exactly what you said about the Trump supporters/campaign. You blocked them, shunned their movements & then called then stupid. lol not sure if this metaphor holds. Just...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 09:20 PM
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^ Behold, here speaks a person of wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:00 AM
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Most police officers are men. The people who pick up trash, keep and maintain the eletrical grid and deliver goods via truck, train and ship--are overwhelmingly men. 70% of doctors are male and worldwide only EIGHT (8%) of all farmers, are fmale. If women drop out of the workforce, absolutely the world would grind to a halt. If men drop out of the workforce, bad shit would also most definitely happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:50 PM
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It's the internet, I'm surprised you're surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 10:24 PM
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All I have to say to that is meh. My unhelpful behavior has been called out so now I will pretend I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 10:04 PM
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...yeah. Works against your argument even more so?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:50 AM
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Men don’t know what they want Can't tell if trolling...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:20 AM
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So men tend to beta bux women very frequently. OP if you want to make a good argument, you should change "doctor" to a job...y'know, that most men have. Most men are not doctors. Most men are not highly paid professionals. The median pay for men in their 40s is less than $60k. I'm not a redpiller but you're actually arguing on behalf of the TRP. Redpillers will argue that dating women see only the top 10% of guys as being "eligible" and use that mindset to scare/infuriate men into treating whome…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:14 AM
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Again, I'm not talking about lying generally. I'm talking about specifically prettying up wrongfully indulging in this base desire as anything other than wrongfully indulging in this base desire. From power trips in the workplace, to bullying or abusive personalities, to anyone with addictions (like...the majority of americans when you consider the number people who are obese, or overindulge in drink or drugs) or unhealthy behavioral obsessions are all forms of personal indulgence. Many, many, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 06:41 AM
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It defies the nature of truth What on earth...or who raised you to believe that humans--men or women--will act only in accordance to truth? Dude how old are you. Anything beyond that is just self aggrandizing ego masturbation. Welcome to human psychology. People will use any rationale or irrational to justify their shitty behavior. If you think only women do this, then you are sheltered and naive. Edit: I don't mean to be condescending but you're out here publicly overreacting about things that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 06:26 AM
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My contention was that men would not stoop to using emotional nonsense to justify this behavior, but at least one person in this thread said they know of a man who justified cheating with "I felt unloved". That is also disgusting. lmao OP you are a trip. You're getting awfully emotional about other people's reasons for cheating. What's it to you how people justify their shitty behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 06:21 AM
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Awesomely educational analogy. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 08:24 AM
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There are ways to do these things and most people don't know them. There are few places you can go to find good information on how to try, either. lol the reason information is so hard to find is because it is extremely difficult and "success" stories usually last only for a certain period of time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:52 PM
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increasing frequency of negotiated open relationships monogamy is not natural to lots of people Personally, I know this is anecdotal, but I HAVE been seeing a lot more people try the whole "open up the relationship" shindig. Literally in every case someone has been hurt and holy shit are people's personal stories a total shit show. Sucks. A lot of friends have been hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:31 PM
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Azn girls drunk Texas Roadhouse post was less shitty than this. What quality post is this you're referencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/18 11:27 PM
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I thought feminists want women to never get married and have trains run through them? Are you selling strawmen? I'd like to buy twenty for my farm please. To scare the crows away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 05:15 AM
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Life experience and hard data *nods wisely I imagine you've got a google drive just brimming with excel spreadsheets containing all the data points of your observations of hundreds of women and heterosexual relationships gathered over the years. Yes, I'm convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 06:54 PM
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Weird flex but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 10:34 PM
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I was curious about why gay fanfic was so prevalent since I personally find it repulsive. About 20% of women like the thought of two men together. Where's that hyperlink yo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 06:47 AM
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Metro men turn me off. Not uncommon. I'm not metro and there are many many gay men who aren't metro either. They look and act like straight guys, except they're emotionally self-aware, emotionally available and they like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 06:46 AM
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It repulses some women, like maybe 10%. The other 90% disagree with you. See? I can also make numbers up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 06:57 PM
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But let's be real tho they are likely a minority. Let's REALLY be real though, how many honest conversations have you had with women about the intersection of their sexuality with male homosexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 06:55 PM
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By doing the penetration not being the one being penetrated PAX ROMANA
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 06:09 AM
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theres peacocking and being expressive and theres actually engagign in homosexuality. women are viscerally repusled by male homosexuality in terms of attraction. this is just reality lmao Bi guy here. Women are NOT repulsed by homosexuality, lmao where'd you get that idea? I know LOTS of women who masturbate to male on male porn. Women are absolutely NOT turned off by the reality of me being attracted to other men. I shit you not 100% of the time it makes me more interesting, more mature and it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 06:08 AM
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You're an electrical engineer. Use some of that money you have to hire a trainer. I'm 5'2, my ass is broke, I walk with a limp and I've been doing boxing for years. I have a super hot gf. You have shitty excuses lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 06:33 PM
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TIL all men are straight and subconsciously live only to increase their abstract sexual value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:23 PM
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Its far better to be fit than to be overweight for example. Better than...what exactly? It depends on your goal. If you're talking about health, obviously yes. If we're talking about attraction...probably yeah, but not necessarily. If we're talking about Sumo wrestling, then no being fit is not better than being overweight--you must be both and it's not a dichotomy. You're using words and definitions with huge assumptions that everyone shares your values and goals. We don't. We don't share your …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 03:24 AM
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Certain decisions are better than other. Sure, but better for...what exactly? Being alive? Making money? Enjoyment? Personal definitions of success? Social standing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 01:23 AM
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What a strange assumption. Look, I don't like post-modernity. I myself am pretty religious and don't believe in the relativity of truth. But I'm not an idiot. We are currently in throes of multiple international cultural shifts. The election of Trump, the rejection of the political status-quote with Hillary, to Brexit to the Arab Spring to politics in the Philipines, India and the Brazilian election. From memes to fake news, to exposed political theater and corruption everywhere we are seeing pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 09:06 PM
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The relativity of truth. And the idea of "truth as narrative" has become extremely commonplace not just in America, but around the world. People have tasted the freedom of creating their own roles and with that the cat is out of the bag. Getting people to revert backwards would be received as tantamount to wholesale denial of most people's lived experiences (especially in light of the increasing collapse of of trust in modern institutions and ideals).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 08:51 PM
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they were guaranteed an identity. Post-modernity means we aren't ever going backwards in that area. You can adopt rigid marital roles and identities for your self and you definitely can find a partner who will share said ideals. But what you're wanting to do is for EVERYONE to revert backwards because some people are shitty at talking to each other. It's much easier for people to learn how to become better negotiators. In the olden days if you, personally as an individual didn't measure up to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 08:52 AM
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Meh it's actually pretty chill tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 10:03 PM
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New? Nah, more prevalent and common--absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 09:30 AM
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I'm not gleeful nor but these sort of things ARE consequences of a cultural shift that's happening. To say it's the influence of the internet is too simplistic, but it's a good catchall that covers everything from younger generational exposure to sex/sex education to dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 07:14 AM
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There’s a very real possibility he wasn’t necessarily planning on things being casual and ending with ghosting, maybe he would have been open to seeing her again if she hadn’t told him she lets dudes fuck her however they want without asking first and teased him for saying that made him uncomfortable. Say that again. Yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 07:11 AM
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If anything this story is a win for the consent-is-sexy team. Exactly. I don't see why anyone is getting upset about this story. Yeah the author who wrote the article is dumb, but otherwise consent looks better than over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 07:09 AM
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Whole lot of words when you could just say sexytime. Too uptight for slang? lol who calls out people on the internet for madeup slang lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 07:08 AM
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bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 07:06 AM
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So...troll then. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 12:10 AM
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Are you a troll? Explain how it's possible for someone to have sex 4-5 times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 06:15 PM
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What? But he gave you permission to speak on behalf of half of the world's population and you just throw that opportunity away!?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 07:02 AM
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Men who care to a fault: I'm not joking at all, but your subsequent list sounds like most American men. The average dude is religious, more likely to be conservative, and most American men haven't had more than 2-3 sexual partners (altho Louisiana is a huge outlier with something like 15 for men? lmao).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 06:56 AM
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Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 06:50 AM
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A video from Sky News seriously discussing Why Office Air Conditioner is Sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:33 AM
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strong men would bully women as well. Not all bullies are strong, and a minority of strong men are bullies. Not all strong men are bullies. I'm a man who is strong and spends time with strong men...you're deeply confused about your own gender. I'm guessing it's either because 1) you're a weak guy who's been bullied and as a result have come to believe that that's the way the world works or 2) you're a strong guy who often bullies people because/slash or you mistakenly conflate strength with domi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 10:13 PM
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Seeing a therapist in order to manage, improve and exercise your capacity for emotional regulation, improving your self understanding/self-identity and ability to navigate relationships in life is LOL not comparable to seeing a prostitute. It's comparable to seeing a physical therapist or a gym trainer in order to improver your own health/metabolism/discipline. I can see why you'd be confused though, you sound like someone who could benefit from getting more in touch with their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 08:15 PM
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I have been on both sides of the equation so I can state emphatically that guys ignored me when I was plain. ALL guys? Or just the attention of the guys you wanted to attract?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 04:16 AM
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I feel like your post is a blatant violation of the sub's posing guidelines, specifically: (8) Posts should be in good faith. If this sub is like a living room then you're like that attention starved person who walks over and takes a crap on the desk and then starts walking around the room complaining about the smell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 05:03 AM
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lmao, I'm going to pass Go, collect $200 and then I'd like to double down on my previous comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 03:27 PM
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"You know that what you write doesn't matter, right?" And yet here you are. This comment felt like it belongs in iamverysmart
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 03:06 PM
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You should change your comment then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 09:59 PM
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So are women Man here...all women are purposefully manipulative and deceitful? Straight up lmao This is why people avoid TRPs, because of responses like this. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 10:07 AM
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They want to feel desired. They don't want to be used. Not unlike men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 06:15 AM
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Lots of men also see relationships as a conquest, and that's the really fucked up bit. Citation needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 04:26 AM
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Most men thought it would lead to greater access to casual sex when in fact it has led to the decline of sex for them. Citation needed. Men have basically stopped improving since the 1970's. TIL men's worth and value revolves around their earnings. Dude you are all over the place with your assumptions, claims and arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 04:22 AM
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A good chunk of the BP men appear to be "naturals" who find the concept of TRP absurd because they've never needed game. And as BPers, they tend to have more favorable views of women. As a natural BP male...I may reluctantly concede you're on to something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/17 08:54 AM
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As someone who's educated in science, I have thought it through more than you have. Oh man. Have you been to this really cool sub I think you would feel right at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 11:50 PM
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It seems to be a standard trope on US sitcom series and commercials. The bumbling fool of a man child, and the reasonable adult woman who have to scold him. Yeah, it's a TV trope but American men don't pine away thinking that one day they too can be bumbling idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/17 02:40 AM
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See this? I'm holding the world's smallest violin. You know what song it's playing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 10:55 PM
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lmfao -grad student who's written hundreds of papers l.m.f.a.o.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 09:11 AM
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To extrapolate this into cultish quasi-religious dogma or ideology is quite the leap. I would go so far as to say it would require more faith to believe what you do about TRP than it would to align your behavior with trust in the TRP theories, especially since TRP theories methodically duplicate predictable results, like a finely tuned social science experiment. I just want to point out something. I'm going to repeat what you said, but replace "TRP/TRP theories" with Christianity/Christian theol…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 07:11 PM
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maybe the women you talk to do, have you ever considered that? I absolutely 100% think that most women 18-24 years old generally have an inflated ego, but I would say that so do most men 18-24 year old men. I think 18-24 year old women, compared to their male peers, receive a barrage of validation. On the other hand I think 18-24 men, compared to their female peers, find that society in general is much more, unfairly, accessible to them (privilege). just my two cents.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 09:46 AM
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I mean, you and yours husband's experience isn't invalid, but you got to admit that it's not the norm for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 09:39 AM
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Sure, but he's letting himself be seized by the situation, which is not taking self ownership. Why do people give a shit about how other people "own" their emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 09:13 AM
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It's a ven diagram brah. Are you seriously not catching on to this? This is basic logic 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 07:17 AM
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"this does not mesh with my understanding of the world" I was thinking more along the lines of, "Oh shit, this messes with my understanding of the world and they've clearly put a lot of thought into it. Emergency measures!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 04:37 AM
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lol yeah...we both know that what he was really saying was "I don't bother talking to people who I disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 04:29 AM
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so I generally don't bother with the whole made-up-not-backed-up definitions and unquantifiables. You don't bother with life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 04:21 AM
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I mean, if you quote the parts where he argues in favor of slavery, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 05:38 AM
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So it appears.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 07:53 PM
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I know multiple men who have either had people question them or even had police called on them for being 'suspicious' or whatever while hanging out in a park or whatever where a child/children were around. I'm sure it exists. I'm just saying I've literally only heard of anecdotal stories on reddit. I've had and started lots of conversations with people in real life to see how common this is--I have not had any. Yet people on reddit act like it's a well documented, well researched phenomena when …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 07:14 PM
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Btw the economic system is structured this way because women wanted to enter the work force so actually women are directly related to how society is currently structured. ...are you lol blaming problems in our economy on women WANTING to work? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 06:14 AM
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As a man, I can't be alone around children because they will assume I am a pedophile. As a man who works with children for my job, I literally have never encountered this attitude. I've read about it on reddit a lot, but have never encountered, heard about it from other men or seen it in person or read about it anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 06:09 AM
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...brilliant. And makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 08:53 AM
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On a completely separate note, was Zion actually part of the Matrix??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 08:19 AM
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"No. Stop. I'm right." -Michael Scott
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 08:18 AM
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It's a zero-sum game. You may only have sympathy for one group of people at a time. No one else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 07:43 AM
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Because raising kids on your own is fucking difficult and encouragement helps them. It's not my place to go around in society rubbing it in people's faces that they are responsible for their own difficulties. People know that and if they don't they're not going to suddenly "get it" because I said something...it's my place to go around making it easier for people to handle their shit. The more people who can handle their shit, the better society is. Encouraging words cost me nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 05:08 AM
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Single dads are treated like paedos here. Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 05:06 AM
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gracias dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:39 AM
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Marcus Aurelius does say that the quality of your thoughts determine your happiness (poor translation of "eudaimomia"--happiness is a weak translation; a better translation of this term is "the state of having a good indwelling spirit, a good genius”). That is some sick knowledge drop. Where can I read more of our man Aurelius?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 04:41 AM
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you don't have the right to prevent others from offending you Sure I do. And you have the right to resist. Let the best man win.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/15 07:14 AM
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I have the right to feel however I gorram please thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 10:17 PM
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Point is, you don't get to ask that question and expect an answer. Yes, we do. It's called being a member of the human race. We are not islands unto ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/15 01:19 AM
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Alpha male here, I'd call myself a hardcore feminist. Sup brah?
/r/seduction06/06/12 06:28 AM
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You have been unbanned.
/r/MensRights17/11/10 12:45 AM
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I'm sure you are aware of the slippery slope fallacy, but this isn't that. Your whole argument is based off of a slippery slope that banning certain people will inevitably lead to banning everyone else. Slippery slopes are usually logical fallacy's without evidence...which you claimed to provide with your adaptation of Martin Niemöller's "First they came for the socialist" etc. Unfortunately your evidence falls flat because that's not how it went. The mods who have advocated for banning trolls/m…
/r/MensRights16/11/10 11:55 PM
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The environment that let them seize power and abuse it is the real issue I don't disagree with this. A lot of it also has to do with personality types. People are often angry from other reasons due to RL and come into /r/A sub with the patience of someone whose hung out on coke. I don't know you and don't really respect that you seemed to have sat this whole thing out though. You could have intervened. That's fair. One of my reasons for staying though is specifically to try and keep certain mods…
/r/MensRights16/11/10 10:28 PM
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Ok well QC left a while ago. Zhouligong stepped down and, I think if you'll look at their history, has demonstrated over and over again that they prefer logical and rational replies to banning (and...since becoming a mod has done very little). I can't say anything about thepinkmask because I don't know her really except again I haven't seen her do much. As for Enkiam well, I just won't say anything.
/r/MensRights16/11/10 07:57 PM
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The rest are just thugs Care to explain how I've been a thug? Or is unsubstantiated hyperbole the best tool you carry around?
/r/MensRights16/11/10 07:38 PM
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