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Remember this when you see folks on here trying to insinuate that conservatives have men's back in light of the anti male left. The left is more explicit, yes. But the right wants to fuck us over just as bad.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 07:41 PM
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I'm ashamed of what Jordan Peterson has become. His early stuff was very intentionally even handed. It was awesome because he was able to provide such a good counter to feminist dogma and, in a way where they couldn't slander him into silence. Those days, he was explicitly and vociferously against ideologues. Nowadays, he's become just that: a super right-wing ideologue. His earlier self would be disgusted with who he's become today.
/r/MensRights25/10/23 08:34 PM
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This person seriously needs to unlearn their feminism. They're correct in noticing the problem but their diagnosis of the issues are bogus and still from a standpoint of female essentialism.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 12:54 PM
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Saving this to use to hit other feminists with when they lie and say most feminists are for gender equality/not advocating against men's rights.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 05:54 PM
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Because they don't mean abusers are trash. They mean men are trash.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 05:12 PM
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Yeah same as guys pretty much.
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:21 AM
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What's disheartening is that women seem to be so bad at empathizing with men, and Feminist being so ideologically opposed, that some need to fucking transition in order to consider men's experience in life.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 07:29 PM
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Comes to discussion forum, refuses to continue discussion because differing opinions and facts that challenge their worldview hurt their little fi fi's. Lol you're a joke.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 01:37 AM
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It's a troll.
/r/MensRights10/12/21 03:06 PM
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I completely understand that. And I completely agree. But there's a time to vent and there's a time for diplomacy. I felt that that was a real opportunity to change that person's mind. Maybe not all at once, but to plant that initial seed that 'maybe feminism hasn't told me the whole story'. But going about it like that will just shut them down. Which is what happened. I get the anger, I do. And it's more than justified. But it ain't the solution.
/r/MensRights13/10/21 01:38 PM
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Well clearly you're too lazy to read my reply. Because it was pretty much the opposite of that. At this point o really don't give a shit about what you think or do. Peace fuckface.
/r/MensRights09/10/21 10:30 PM
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Dude you're so hostile. For what? Calm down, damn. Check my fuckin comment history, I am NO feminist apologist. Or white knight. The reason I criticized you as I did is because you're using shitty and aggressive debate tactics! That's no way to change a mind, or win a debate in the grander scheme. And I genuinely thought this person had a chance to have their mind changed. For example, how many feminists would actually even acknowledge that misandry is a thing, let alone use the term to describe…
/r/MensRights09/10/21 02:03 PM
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If we adopt all the things about the movement that we despise, then we become no better. All the reasons not to be feminist would apply to MRAs and what's worse is we become all the things feminists believe and say about us. The point of the MRM is to be better, so let's be better and not engage in the behavior that set us against feminism. And if you think that's a lot harder, you'd be right. But that's how you become better, by taking the more difficult route.
/r/MensRights09/10/21 12:27 AM
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Don’t forget to mention that that line of thought goes both ways, and that should men ever be fed up in large enough numbers, there is little feminists or women in general could do to stop us. What specifically do you mean when you say this then?
/r/MensRights09/10/21 12:23 AM
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I think that the feminist ideology itself is a major source of the hateful rhetoric that many feminists tens to engage in. I would also like to address that the hateful rhetoric that you disavow is present in all levels of feminism by that I mean from senators, boards of directors, consultants for the CDC to bloggers to your neighbor two doors down. They all do it. A lot. One major reason is because while not all feminist theory and doctrine is outright hateful, (although plenty is) just about A…
/r/MensRights08/10/21 08:33 PM
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Dude chill out. We have a feminist or feminist leaning person here Willing to have an honest and respectful exchange of ideas. How often does that happen. This person is a guest (I'm assuming) there's no reason to be hostile and rude just because they disagree with you. C'mon man.
/r/MensRights08/10/21 08:14 PM
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I'm glad to hear that feminism has improved your life. At least the positive effect is there. Because feminism and feminists have had a demonstrably negative effect on mine. For example when my mother was leaving her toxic boyfriend when I was about 13. She left him suddenly and he was crazy, so she decided to go to a women's shelter. They did not want me there. They told my mom several times that she could stay, but she's have to find other arrangements for me as I was a "young man". This was d…
/r/MensRights08/10/21 07:57 PM
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Same old lip service they've been giving for years. Decades. And yet they do nothing meaningful to actually improve men's situation and instead invest that time and resources into suppressing the discussion surrounding men's issues. It's about maintaining the dominant place in the narrative.
/r/MensRights08/10/21 06:57 PM
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Ok I see. That's even worse news then, because this data suggests a negative feedback loop. Which is a worst case scenario of sorts.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 07:46 PM
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Singe motherhood rate in the black community was less than 5% in the 1950's. Today it's over 80%. Radical feminism has already destroyed the black community. And the fact that you don't see this on the news every day is an example of the political power of organized radical feminism. Well that has a lot more to do with the prison industrial complex than feminism. But feminism has had an extremely toxic and destructive effect of the black community. Honestly every community. The phrase "feminism …
/r/MensRights15/09/21 02:24 PM
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One of them said like an iphone vs a toaster but who invented, engineered and designed both.... And the chair you're sitting on, and the house you're sitting in, and the road you're driving on, and the building you're driving to, and the organization you're working for, etc, etc.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 06:16 PM
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Idk why this is down voted. It's true.
/r/seduction30/06/21 10:53 AM
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See people like this provide a serious argument to banning abortions. I say that and I'm pro choice.
/r/MensRights07/10/20 05:51 AM
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Well I am and I'm not. The issue for me is the transition from an apolitical sub to a right leaning sub. I understand what has caused the lean to the right as a majority of people who oppose men's right's are on the left. However allowing these issues to become politicized will ensure they're never solved. As well as slowly alienating potential future allies and or the opportunity to change people's minds. Look at Cassie Jaye or Laci Green. That's my point.
/r/MensRights07/07/20 02:43 AM
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You know what, I gotta give you that. At the end of the day this is reddit and we're all kinda dicks here. Is what it is I suppose.
/r/MensRights07/07/20 02:39 AM
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Central to what? The conservative overweight of this sub is obvious. It used to be explicitly apolitical. It should return to that.
/r/MensRights07/07/20 02:19 AM
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The downvotes I've received for pointing out the obvious conservative overweight in this sub begs to differ.
/r/MensRights07/07/20 02:18 AM
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Nope, that's not what I said. I expressed issue with the fact that a sub that was at one point expressly apolitical has now become a predominantly right wing sub. that's the issue. And it's a shame cuz this was an awesome place at one point. Now it's on its way to become the next T_D.
/r/MensRights07/07/20 02:16 AM
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Take another look now, a day later. Case and point.
/r/MensRights07/07/20 02:12 AM
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I just replied to another person who did the same thing as you: You didn't actually read the damn comment. I was calling back to a time in this sub where the left/right aspect of things was largely irrelevant. All that other shit you're talking about? Has nothing to to with what my comment was about. I was under the impression this sub was to be a bastion for critical thinking. Do better man.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 05:29 AM
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where left/right wasn't really relevant. Try reading next time man.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 05:26 AM
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Well one: it's been an hour so.. give it time. And two: hey maybe it means there's hope for the sub. Still I've seen a trend here that concerns me. I'd hate for this sub to become a refugee camp for those from The Donald
/r/MensRights06/07/20 05:06 AM
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There have been active efforts by not only the government but other Americans to damage the culture and lives of black Americans. Take for example the crack epidemic of the 80's. This was actually as a result of Regan's Iran/contra scandal. The CIA flooded the inner cities and other black neighborhoods with crack in order to fund the toppling of the Nicaraguan govt. STILL affected by this. This is just one example. Here's another: it is widely known that the FBI infiltrated the black panther mov…
/r/MensRights06/07/20 03:37 AM
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The down voting of this comment is the reason I've distanced myself from this sub and the movement in general. Over the years I've watched this sub slowly turning into a predominantly right wing political leaning Sub. Whereas before left/right wasn't really relevant. It's a shame really.
/r/MensRights06/07/20 03:12 AM
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Hey you're entitled to your opinion man. I started practicing stuff from this sub years ago (inner game is most important) and started consistently getting girls not long after. I've since been in a relationship with an amazing girl for the last 2 years. Worked for me. Seems you're still having some difficulty, sorry to hear that.
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:06 PM
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Well, they disproportionately target black men.
/r/MensRights01/06/20 04:32 AM
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Yeah during the last debate he said something to the effect of of "when you leave men together alone for to long we kind of become morons" I was slightly disappointed. But that pales in comparison to hyper feminist Bernie who I wouldn't be surprised if he was complicit or even active in rolling back the rights of men even further. I highly doubt Yang would participate in misandric legislation as by the numbers it makes no fuckin sense by the numbers (and he's a numbers guy), is counterproductive…
/r/MensRights28/12/19 07:29 PM
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Come on down to Yang for president, we'd be happy to have you.
/r/MensRights28/12/19 02:16 PM
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This is the type of chick that will get you #metoo'd. You made the right choice, be proud of yourself.
/r/seduction25/09/19 01:26 AM
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What are fundies?
/r/MensRights19/06/19 11:10 AM
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Next.
/r/seduction03/05/19 12:34 PM
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Unfortunately whilst people do like to cry racism with the whole Black vs. White men thing. They don't tend to know or want others to know the facts. Blacks make up 13% of the population in the US, yet account for almost 50% of all murders. while the other 50% is accounted for by ALL other races. The thing about that statistic is that the people citing it tend to be pretty ignorant (willfully or otherwise) of the surrounding factors that contribute to it. Black people have made up the majority o…
/r/MensRights08/04/18 04:24 PM
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What's the disparity between white and black men's sentencing?
/r/MensRights08/04/18 01:36 AM
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This doesn't belong here.
/r/seduction22/02/18 06:44 PM
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Yeah kinda. Unfortunately anything that Trump says or does has the affect of becoming extremely politicized, whether you agree with him or not no one can argue that. That's bad for these issues that should be a-political. The fact that most gender issues are viewed on a political spectrum is actually a failing of both movements and there should be an effort made to correct that. In other words: Due process for men accused of sexual harassment should NOT be an issue with any political affiliation…
/r/MensRights15/02/18 05:57 PM
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Trump is most definitely not the spokesman we want for this issue... Or men's rights in general really.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 06:47 PM
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Fffffffuuuuuuucking thank you. I've realized I've been coming here less and less mainly because there's been quite a lot of activity lately that is straight up T_D and Richard spencer like. It's like the alt right is legit taking over this sub at times. That's a fucking problem.
/r/MensRights02/12/17 01:11 AM
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uhh no... I'm saying that the focus should be men and boys not x race of men or x race of boys. Anything beyond the gender aspect should be secondary. That's what I'm saying.
/r/MensRights29/08/17 11:11 PM
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yeah there's been a serious shift in this sub over the past year or so that's making it look (in my opinion) more like what many feminists say it does.
/r/MensRights29/08/17 01:18 AM
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Exactly man, fuck the distinctions we're men's rights activists. A problem that affects men is a mens issue. Period. Also for the record: Black guy here.
/r/MensRights29/08/17 01:12 AM
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Since when was this sub or movement about race? In fact, I remember having discussions on here and even seeing noted mra's such as karen straughn mentioning that race isn't a major focus of the movement. It's supposed to be just men and boys right?
/r/MensRights29/08/17 12:29 AM
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That's very true. Black men's rights are men's rights. I don't understand where everyone's getting the sexism from though. I said saying "men can stop rape" is sexist and black men can stop rape is both sexist AND racist. In the same way that saying '"White men can stop rape" is sexist and racist. I'm about to check my original comment for a typo cuz this is really confusing me here.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 07:29 AM
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As I've said before, you're making a lot of grandiose assumptions about my political opinions and associations. Like seriously. The contrast between what I'm saying and the opinions I hold and what you're assuming is so stark it's actually hilarious. Like seriously. That being said, the more you talk the more you sound like Richard Spencer's impressionable little brother. Why not go back to the donald or charlottesville? Edit: Dude, I looked at your post history. It was entertaining to say the l…
/r/MensRights14/08/17 06:50 AM
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I put effort into setting the record straight. It's principle, I ain't doing it for you dude.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 05:41 AM
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But telling white men to go extinct is fine eh? Sod off. You're the racist sexist here if this post bothers you but the stream of feminist garbage for the last 15 years didn't. And when exactly did I say that? You're just looking for something to be mad about. Check my damn comment history, I thought this was reddit? As for the "racism"... The statistics for the second and third one check out (#2 -> The color of Crime, 2016. #3 fbi.gov annual crime report, homicides). If it's verifiable, it's no…
/r/MensRights14/08/17 05:40 AM
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Ok first off: who's shaking? I don't give a fuck who you are, what the fuck you look like or what guns you do or don't have. I disagreed with an idea you presented as I understood it. Either defend your ideas or get the fuck out. I'm not some post modernist, I give a shit about discourse. Nobody tried to shame you. I called you out like a fucking man (I.E "face to face") about something you said and I had the expectation that you would respond in kind. Looks like I was wrong considering we have …
/r/MensRights14/08/17 05:10 AM
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If that was op's point it wasn't immediately clear to me, however that could be my own fault. However that's not the only issue. OP's vague mention of "A grain of truth" raises a some serious eyebrows. I would very much like to hear about what truth is contained in the KKK poster. I will be linking u/CynixCS directly so he's fully aware of my calling him out.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 02:54 AM
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Also this is why people associate this sub and this movement with the alt-right, kkk, racists in general. You're the problem. Leave.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 01:39 AM
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Feminists telling men not to rape is sexist. Telling black men not to rape is both sexist AND racist. Something tells me you're not too concerned with the latter though... Back so soon from Charlottesville?
/r/MensRights14/08/17 01:37 AM
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It's one reason I come here very sparsely now. The racist T_D types here are the epitome of what feminism and the rest are trying to associate this movement with. So thanks for that.
/r/MensRights18/07/17 11:45 PM
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Liked this video, then I saw the breitbart article.
/r/MensRights24/06/17 07:31 PM
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Do the people who have more sensible opinions and yet remain silent in the face of bigotry and behavior such as this matter? I would say they don't. This is a major issue a I have with NAFALT. Of course they're are good feminists, there are good people and bad people everywhere, in every sphere. However as long as they remain silent and invisible, they're irrelevant.
/r/MensRights16/06/17 10:56 PM
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Love how little activity there is on this thread, I like to believe that's an indication that it's being done. On another note: omw to the club now, woop!
/r/seduction11/06/17 04:21 AM
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Anybody know where I can find the video?
/r/MensRights01/05/17 12:53 AM
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Hahaha love this.
/r/seduction09/04/17 01:29 AM
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Holy shit. It's starting. The debates and discussions between Feminists and MRAs in public space is starting. Strap in folks, shit's gonna get weird. I jest but in all seriousness. this is amazing. I know that debates and such between MRAs and Feminists have been happening in public spaces for a while now, but look... fuckin Paul Elam and Erin pizzey are right there! Debating! Now, it's REALLY starting. Shit's about to get real.
/r/MensRights17/03/17 11:24 AM
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Uh can we not have posts just insulting feminists? I'm all for critiques and making arguments, but there's nothing productive about insulting someone. especially something that can be so easily construed as sexist. Also, so called MRAs on this sub: How about you speak out against bullshit like this huh? Considering it makes us all look bad, hmm?
/r/MensRights16/02/17 04:58 AM
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Dude, chill out. Your post wasn't productive at all to the conversation of men's rights. Hell it wasn't even productive to the conversation of anti feminism. I called you on it. Now I'm done with this whole thing, you can choose to continue to be mad or not. The ball's in your court.
/r/MensRights01/02/17 04:50 PM
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Where's the Irony? You seem to have a contention about this being a strawman argument. On what basis is this NOT one? On another note, how is this in any way productive to advancing or advocating for men's rights? All I see is a hypothetical "conversation" post where a "feminist" embodies the quintessence of feminist stereotypes. Stellar advocacy work dude. Now about that injection....
/r/MensRights01/02/17 01:37 AM
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This is totally a strawman. No ifs ands or butts about it. We should be better than this.
/r/MensRights31/01/17 10:56 PM
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Can I have a link to that study please? I need it for my archive.
/r/MensRights29/09/16 04:14 PM
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First of all I did't accuse you of anything. In fact I said don't fall into the delusion... It was a *challenge, a probing statement, not an accusation. If I were going to accuse you of something, I'd do it in the plainest of terms. Secondly, That challenge was because of a pattern I've seen all too much on reddit and it was exactly how I described it: people here are in the very least pretty ignorant on the subject of race and all to vocal with their opinions in that ignorance . Searching throu…
/r/MensRights28/04/16 06:36 PM
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Of course there's fault within the scope of the individual. Any person who commits a crime made their choice (unless they were coerced or something) however what we're talking about are not individuals, we're talking about demographics in a general sense. In this instance specifically talking about explaining driving forces behind the phenomenon of why black people commit more crimes. Which over a hundred years of poverty and generations of joblessness and social stigma will literally do that do…
/r/MensRights28/04/16 04:14 PM
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And that's relevant how? Just because frame the issue differently than you would doesn't invalidate the fact that black men are in fact men, are in fact affected by mass incarceration and in fact bear the absolute brunt of it
/r/MensRights28/04/16 04:03 PM
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To be fair, men commit far more violent crime than women, and [black men (as a group) commit roughly 3 times the national average rate of violent crime Yeah and let's not pretend there aren't sociological factors as a major driving force behind this phenomenon. Black people occupy the lowest socioeconomic bracket in the US and have for literally a century plus. Additionally, black men have a unemployment rate of nearly 3 times that of white men. Another status quo that has been the case for gene…
/r/MensRights28/04/16 03:52 PM
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And overwhelmingly men, black men at that.
/r/MensRights28/04/16 05:13 AM
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I just wanted to point out, we as MRAs don't/shouldn't want a reversal of the sentencing gap, we want it gone. We want parity and equality.
/r/MensRights01/04/16 03:40 AM
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I wonder when this sub became stormfront?
/r/MensRights24/12/15 08:24 AM
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"But those aren't really feminists!" Jeez there are so many fake ones then...
/r/MensRights04/12/15 02:12 PM
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And what "perfectly valid reasons" might those be? Also, are they so valid that they supersede the many many men, boys and women that have been victimized by the Duluth model, child support, alimony, etc systems? If they are that valid, why haven't I heard about them? Edit: they're not.
/r/MensRights16/07/15 05:01 AM
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/r/MensRights12/06/15 06:09 AM
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The fetus is little more than a cluster of cells when a majority of abourtions are preformed. It takes more than a few weeks in the gestation period for a fetus to become sentient. By the time it has, the window for legal abortion has been missed and it won't be done.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 04:51 AM
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True. However, during that stage of it's "life" It's about as sentient as a tree. Actually, in terms of being alive, less so.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 04:22 AM
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I fell it is at least along the lines of infanticide because the motivations are very similar.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 06:55 PM
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You're correct. It could be debated, as silly as it would be.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 06:54 PM
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Well, abortion in and of itself isn't inherently wrong. It doesn't cary nearly the same weight.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 05:44 AM
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True, I guess it's for lack of a better word. But it's still pretty fucked up.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 01:45 AM
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This is actually infanticide. Like, textbook infanticide. I just wanted to point that out.
/r/MensRights10/02/15 01:18 AM
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I think anyone who makes an accusation that is proven to be false should get the amount of time the accused would have (or had) been sentenced to. That should be an exellent deterrent.
/r/MensRights30/12/14 02:11 AM
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I haven't seen that one. Do you have a link to the interview?
/r/MensRights22/12/14 07:05 AM
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Great, thank you sir.
/r/MensRights13/12/14 02:10 AM
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Can I have what you found?
/r/MensRights13/12/14 12:01 AM
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Sorry for the delay, I was out. I agree, with a good many things you've said here. I concur that agreeing to disagree is a sound option, as we both seem to be pretty stubborn. P.S> I appreciate your candor with me. Hope I'm not coming across as angry... No problem, I hold nothing against you for having an opinion different than my own.
/r/MensRights16/08/14 04:37 AM
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Ok first of all I really have to put something out there: Get Sharpton out of your head! He's nothing but a goddamn gas-lighter and has no interest in solving any actual racial issues. Only to sensationalize issues and possible line his own pockets and the pockets of the NAACP. That organization is only out for the money. No one who tells you that is worth listening to, because all it does it make you feel insane. That's the system working on you, but what I find most interesting is how Bill Rei…
/r/MensRights15/08/14 05:05 PM
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Ok, I haven't trolled you yet -- but also, you tell me, since your family members are reading radical Afrocentrist materials like the Isis Papers, what your view on racism and hypocrisy within the black community is. In exchange, I'll check out your links, and return with an opinion. I'm gonna preface this by saying I hope you're not one of those bill o'reily types who thinks racism is non existent in this country, also my saying no trolling was assuring you that I wasn't trolling you with my re…
/r/MensRights15/08/14 05:42 AM
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Well no shit, but you don't get to jump on the man you "feel on edge" from, beat his face in blah blah You know what? I'll give you that. He shouldn't have attacked (provided it was unprovoked). However, I never said he was a saint, you said I said that. Your bad. That being said: The case is done, it pretty much over and there's not shit anyone can do about it. So why don't we take a look at the after effects shall we? http://www.cnn.com/2014/02/16/justice/florida-loud-music-trial/ http://archi…
/r/MensRights15/08/14 04:15 AM
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The way you talk it sounds like you believe this I believe that regardless of trayvon martin's character, if Zimmerman hadn't followed him there would have been no incident.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 03:12 AM
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Annnnnd, he was attacked because he followed a kid who was in a neighborhood where he felt he didn't belong. He called the cops and they told him not to engage or follow him. He did anyway. In the dead of night. I don't know about you but I would be put pretty on edge by some random dude following me persistently at night. Who's the real flim-flam man, Mister Sharpton? That would be you Mr. Red dragon
/r/MensRights15/08/14 03:06 AM
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Yup I did. He killed a kid Don't give me that flim flam the zim zam crap.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 02:14 AM
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Of course the media lies. I rarely believe anything that comes on the news, in fact I usually get news from here and cross reference the stories with google. That being said just look at what's happening now. There have been two police killings of black males within a matter of days in this country. Propaganda can only go so far (at least for people who question things at least a little). It's all bullshit but the truth isn't that hard to find if you look. And I have.
/r/MensRights15/08/14 02:05 AM
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Oh, very true. Thank you, you just added to my cites folder. lol
/r/MensRights14/08/14 07:22 PM
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That's true and it's just as wrong, however, don't delude yourself into thinking that it happens on the same level or the same amount. There's definitely a primary target for racial violence and by extension police violence. Those people are black people. In fact since George Zimmerman murdered Trayvon Martin (the case in which your cited article very gracefully references) , there has been a high incidence of black men being shot by unproviked white men in florida. http://www.nydailynews.com/ne…
/r/MensRights14/08/14 07:20 PM
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Yet black males are being herded into prisons at an alarming rate. Black males are roughly seven times more likely to go to prison than white males. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Racial_inequality_in_the_American_criminal_justice_system Black people are and have had unemployment rates at at least twice that of whites for decades. Which is the major contributor to the prison rates. (No jobs, more crime. That's basic sociology/criminology) http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2013/08/21/through-goo…
/r/MensRights14/08/14 06:37 PM
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I was referring to this context specifically. The instance of police violence against males has always been much higher for black males. This is an indisputable fact.
/r/MensRights14/08/14 06:09 PM
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Ohh man! My mom and sister are reading the Isis papers right now (I'll be taking it when they're done.) Have you heard of Dr. Umar Johnson? If not you should look him up and also check out a documentary featuring him called "Hidden colors" 1-2
/r/MensRights14/08/14 05:35 AM
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At the expense of minorities of course. Sounds good to me./s
/r/MensRights14/08/14 05:30 AM
1

Woah, woah. This is most definitely a racial issue. How could you even think that race isn't playing a major role in situations like this? Seriously, to deny that this is mostly a racial issue would to completely deny the continued pattern of police violence against black people (specifically black males) since well before the civil rights movement. You would be absolutely, dead wrong to ignore this pattern. Like, Bill O'rielly level delusion.
/r/MensRights14/08/14 05:26 AM
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Good on them for working on fixing this problem. From what the video showed it did seem pretty bad.
/r/MensRights06/07/14 05:52 AM
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"If the pizza deliveryman comes to your house, remember not to falsely accuse him of rape." - shitty logic
/r/MensRights06/07/14 03:19 AM
3

go scream in a German Shepard's face Wow holy shit I would never do that. The idea is terrifying.
/r/MensRights29/06/14 11:41 PM
1

Really? I did not know that. I'm definitely gonna read more about that.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 02:39 AM
1

OK I can get behind that. I'll keep that in mind from now on.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 02:38 AM
1

Drastically unfamiliar I've been here for a while. Almost 2 years. Lately I've been noticing the incidence of people seemingly targeting black people increasing. Not saying its happening a lot, nor am I saying its systemic. However I am saying its been an increasing issue and I want to initiate discussion to figure out something that can be done about it that doesn't conflict with our ideals (no censorship etc).
/r/MensRights25/06/14 07:57 PM
1

Besides the social elite. there are people that are (openly?) anti poor? Wow... I have never encountered that.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 07:11 PM
1

I prefer to address the comment and the commenter and initiate a discussion. I also wouldn't want the comment to be deleted because then they wouldn't have to own up to their comment from then on.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 07:09 PM
1

Well that's actually an issue I have although it's not actually related to this post. The correlation between black people and affirmative action is an issue for me. Mainly because A) Affirmative action and black people are practically synonymous and B) It's actually women who are the primary beneficiaries of affirmative action. More specifically white women. In other words my main issue is that black people seem to be taking the flak for affirmative action and women are getting the majority of …
/r/MensRights25/06/14 07:07 PM
1

I do. Also, this is not complaining, I wouldn't bother to waste my time complaining on the internet. I'm initiating a discussion. Instead of complaining about somebody 'complaining', why don't you offer up a viewpoint. Be constructive instead of critical.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 06:59 PM
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I have been. Every time. My intention now is to start up a discussion as a group. I don't see what's wrong with that.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 06:47 PM
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Uhh. I'm just gonna point out that almost all lynchings were done on a 'street justice' basis, without any type of trial or evidence or anything like that. So I'm not really that inclined to buy into your source too much. Considering all you needed to get lynched as a black man was an accusation of anything. Additionally I would suggest you read about Tuskegee and their experiments on black people with syphilis, so there's another reason I'm not inclined to believe their stats. Kinda like anythi…
/r/MensRights25/06/14 02:20 PM
1

Damn, as a hardcore atheist and an MRA, I gotta say: I like this guy. He seems like a pretty decent dude.
/r/MensRights24/06/14 12:09 PM
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Although I've always thought the idea of selective breeding could be beneficial, I am vehemently opposed to the practice because I'm am about 97% sure that it would be used for eugenics/genocidal purposes. Like exterminating black people for example. They're (we're) already herded into prisons by the millions, so it would be a rather small step from this to that.
/r/MensRights22/06/14 09:22 PM
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I'll help you out with that. First hand rape experience (reddit): http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1ml17x/i_dont_know_where_to_post_this_so_im_posting_here/ News story of a Toronto man who was gang raped by 4 women: http://ww2.nationalpost.com/m/wp/blog.html?b=news.nationalpost.com/2013/04/07/four-women-wanted-in-alleged-sex-assault-of-19-year-old-man-in-downtown-toronto Another first hand story of a man raped (reddit): http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1olv2h/im_a_manand_i_was_rap…
/r/MensRights22/06/14 05:34 AM
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I agree. I think that they could introduce a broad program that helps all young men and boys and within that have smaller sections that the specific subgroups with their respective issues.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 02:03 PM
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blacks are allowed to take pride in their race. Ha, when? I definitely don't hear very many black people taking overt pride in their race and when They do they are thought of as militant, Afrocentric, and threatening or at least the times I've seen it. they can play the race card. Yeah and how well does that work? Not excusing their actions but those workers still got fired and they got fired for not being good employees and they know it. Fuck em. That being said, I can tell you that a lot of bl…
/r/MensRights19/06/14 01:56 PM
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Thank you. Lets not forget that there is some pretty serious racial discrimination going on in this country still. Lots of people seem to think that since black people aren't getting lynched by cops (which typically included being burned alive. A lot a people don't know that) and shot with fire hoses that all racism has ended. (not saying it's anyone here but damn have I heard it said before) Granted it's not quite as bad as it was, it definitely rears its ugly head more than you might expect. S…
/r/MensRights19/06/14 01:10 PM
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If you were being sarcastic, that's what the /s is for. So I can understand his offense to your statement considering you didn't make it clear you didn't actually mean what you said.
/r/MensRights19/06/14 01:01 PM
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That's not what I'm saying. Of course black people and other races benefit from affirmative action. My point was that whenever I hear someone complain about affirmative action its typically implied (or expressly stated) in a way that it's aimed at black people and people talk about how unfair it is. That's why I bring up the fact that black people don't even get the primary benefits of affirmative action. So really my issue is that we get all the blame and the negative connotations that come wit…
/r/MensRights12/06/14 06:15 AM
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OK this is what pisses me off when you guys talk about affirmative action you do realize the primary beneficiaries of affirmative action are white women right? I think specifically middle aged white women. I could maybe understand the backlash if black people and other ethnicities actually benefited from affirmative action, but that's not the case. Ethnic people got the shaft from feminism too don't ya know? I consider myself an MRA as well but as a black man it pisses me off when you guys go on…
/r/MensRights12/06/14 05:22 AM
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Well like I said before, I disagree with the idea of giving handouts, I would prefer a system in place that assists disadvantaged people but at the same time encourages them to strive to be the best at whatever it is that they decide to do. Additionally, While I agree that race shouldn't be used as a proxy for disadvantaged people to a point, Black people are extremely disadvantaged in many ways: Educationally, economically, socially, etc. For instance: Black men make up about 5-9% of the Americ…
/r/MensRights16/05/14 05:55 PM
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That is true, I agree. If affirmative action were relegated to all disadvantaged people it would be a lot better, however, I still feel that getting handouts only really serves to handicap most people.
/r/MensRights15/05/14 02:04 AM
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Actually I think a bit of it's both reasons. (I'm black myself) I'll admit that I don't like the idea of affirmative action, (especially because the primary beneficiaries are middle aged white women) I don't like the idea of getting hand outs because they don't encourage people to become better or try to become the best. It's a handicap. That being said, there is most definitely a heavy institutional bias against black people in the workforce. I remember a study being done that showed that a bla…
/r/MensRights15/05/14 12:59 AM
1

Good job!
/r/MensRights14/05/14 12:49 AM
1

Wait... Do you guys actually not care about the Jay Z/ Solange incident?
/r/MensRights14/05/14 12:43 AM
1

Wow! That escalated VERY quickly!
/r/MensRights12/05/14 03:30 AM
1

That's. Fucking. Hilarious.
/r/MensRights11/05/14 03:16 PM
1

I see a lot of relationships fall apart because we aren't following the Biblical principle of women submitting to their husbands, and husbands sacrificing for their wives.< I disagree. I think that there should be a mutual give and take between both parties in marriage. I strongly disagree with the notion that any one party should submit and the other sacrifice.
/r/MensRights04/05/14 01:16 AM
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Honestly, that made me laugh a little bit. I don't think that we as MRAs should become super hypersensitive to jokes and humor. (of course there are many exceptions) Especially light-hearted humor such as this. We have much much bigger fish to fry. That being said definitely speak out against actually hateful and damaging jokes, fuck that stuff.
/r/MensRights03/05/14 08:13 PM
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I messaged the mods regarding the deletion of the post. I encourage you all to do the same. The message: Why did you remove the post about the man who was raped? I read the comments and he claims he did not remove it himself. Did you guys remove it? If so why? Additionally I STRONGLY feel that you guys should restore the post immediately. The r/ sex community doesn't seem to have any issues with the post, as it has +1600 upvotes. Please think about how wrong and unfair this is. Edit 1: forgot ti…
/r/MensRights27/04/14 08:40 PM
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That is so hilarious! Boy do I love irony.
/r/MensRights26/04/14 06:41 PM
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Here's a pretty good article. http://www.saveservices.org/2012/02/cdc-study-more-men-than-women-victims-of-partner-abuse/ I find things like this rather sad actually.
/r/MensRights25/04/14 04:34 PM
1

Well, at least there's something I can respect about feminist action and advocacy. Edit: grammar
/r/MensRights23/04/14 02:56 PM
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Can you link me to any quotes of feminists saying that? I really wanna add that to my anti-feminist folder.
/r/MensRights23/04/14 02:53 PM
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While I could agree that "nature didn't intend things to be equal" why is it that we are so ready and willing to give (or in this case leave) men with the shit end of the stick? Yes the scenario is an ugly one with tough choices but men are extremely disadvantaged in regards to reproductive rights. I think financial abortions are fair enough, compared to the rights and options that women have facing the same circumstances (that being conception). If a man had the option to financially abort, not…
/r/MensRights23/04/14 02:34 PM
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Radical Feminists
/r/MensRights31/01/14 11:38 PM
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Make a similar poster but with sentencing for the same/similar crimes with an "add a vagina" banner at the top.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 08:48 PM
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It's funny because feminists and feminist theory do quite a bit of womansplaining in the respect that all of feminist theory says men experience A and B, while not experiencing X and Y so there for men are privileged. while being willfully ignorant of the actual lived experiences of men.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 03:25 AM
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I put my money on feminists trying to get the definition of equality changed as well, to suit their interests.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 11:31 PM
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Yeah sorry to break it to you, but feminism = bigoty/misandry. Plain and simple. There's really no way around it. Now don't get me wrong I don't think that every single feminist is a bigot. Of course not, on a sheer statistical level that's an impossibility, but, on the other hand when someone identifies as a feminist I'm typically assume that they are a bigot just because, as you just experienced, that is the norm. I'm sorry this happened to you, I really am, but because you aren't a bigot, you…
/r/MensRights26/10/13 06:33 PM
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Here's an informative video on the wage gap. It's been debunked by several different people/institutions. Hopefully this video will help clear any misconceptions you have on the subject. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EwogDPh-Sow
/r/MensRights25/10/13 01:31 PM
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Look, I see where the misunderstanding is. So before this situation gets out of hand let me try to explain how we see it. 1) Feminists say that patriarchy is (largely) oppresses women. Patriarchy is the theory that states that men (are or should be) unilaterally in charge. Since the theory says that the men are in charge and benefiting from the patriarchy, Either way you look at it the theory asserts that men are the oppressors of women as a result from benefiting from the patriarchy. On this si…
/r/MensRights21/10/13 06:32 PM
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Message sent. Lets hope I don't get banned for this.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 01:39 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 01:24 AM
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How do I contact the admins?
/r/MensRights24/09/13 01:12 AM
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Fair enough. I apologize. But how do we go about fixing this, for good. I'm all for having a conversation with an admin or two.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 01:07 AM
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I think that we need to figure out exactly why he was banned right now because I personally have a huge issue with that. Fix it.
/r/MensRights24/09/13 12:52 AM
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I don't understand what it's supposed to mean. Edit: First!
/r/MensRights13/09/13 04:04 PM
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I said, the laws don't work perfectly, but I would rather work on the shitty laws that exist in an attempt to to make them work better than get rid of them completely and say whatever happens, happens and let society fix it. When has that ever worked anyway? But we weren't talking so much about how well the current laws work, it was whether or not getting rid or them would be a fair, non-detrimental solution to the problem. Which it won't be.
/r/MensRights12/09/13 04:47 PM
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Like I said I see where you're coming from but just taking the only (albeit sub par) laws that protect against racism away, especially before society is ready definitely won't make things better. It's gonna have the opposite effect. And quite frankly, I face enough issues with discrimination based on my race already, excuse me for not wanting to add anymore.
/r/MensRights12/09/13 01:54 PM
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proof The laws in question. I could cite it but at 11:30 at night that's kind of a gruelling task atm. I am however willing to do it later. no what? do you actually mean to tell me that you don't believe that when people are by themselves or with close friends that they're "true colors" don't come out? That actually made me laugh out loud. And I'm not really in a position to say who voted for which candidate but I will say that it was a pretty close vote. Both times. At least at first. Also you'…
/r/MensRights12/09/13 03:40 AM
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That is true. But the illegality of discrimination is (I feel) one of the major things stopping that from happening. The world isn't free and clear of racists, far from it. As of right now businesses don't discriminate because they can't. Yes, there is a social stigma against racial discrimination but that's not as nearly as strong a motivator as you seem to think. Behind closed doors (sometimes not even) and when in the company of associates that share views are when people's true colors come o…
/r/MensRights12/09/13 01:21 AM
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well, yes actually. Or more specifically it'll give them a place to fraternize. A safe space of sorts. and now you have a big building filled with angry racists. But here's some food for thought: What happens if that business doesn't crash and burn because of it's exclusivity? What if it thrives? What happens to the surrounding businesses that now will have a potential increase in clientele? what happens to the neighborhood that now has a sudden increase in racist people? Would you visit that re…
/r/MensRights11/09/13 10:15 PM
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See, here's the thing: I understand where you guys are coming from with the whole freedom thing and I agree....in theory. But the issue is that that theory will only work the way you expect if society and social perceptions have changed much since segregation and racism was acceptable. But i'm gonna lay some reality on ya: It hasn't. Not by much anyway. There's a saying I use a lot: The civil right's movement didn't really end racism, it just switched the racist laws for social norms, and pushed…
/r/MensRights11/09/13 07:44 PM
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You don't think you know anyone who wouldn't eat there. As a black man if you saw just how many people are actually quite racist but just hide it (sometimes well, sometimes not so well) you would be quite surprised, i'm sure. I live in a liberal state and i have experienced a surprising amount of racism in my time. If discrimination (especially against ethnicities) became legal, then it's only a short amount of time before it will become acceptable.......again I don't know about you but that's n…
/r/MensRights11/09/13 07:34 PM
3

"Big Purp"
/r/MensRights09/09/13 05:02 PM
2

Feminism. Plain and simple.
/r/MensRights29/08/13 02:25 AM
2

Could I have a link to the original thread?
/r/MensRights26/08/13 07:00 PM
1

Yes Exactly, privilege is a question of semantics Men and women both are privileged some and disadvantaged some. (although when you look at things like institutional privilege again the scale tips) and I would definitely call the perks women get for being women advantages, because that's what they are. Plain and simple. And yes I will agree that people being more inclined to take what you say seriously is a big perk, of course, but having people take your emotions/feelings seriously in a pretty …
/r/MensRights17/08/13 02:09 PM
2

But here's the thing: a man and woman standing on equal footing with BOTH have privileges that the other does not. One big issue I take with that stance is that it de-legitimizes female privilege and it's existence which is unfair. For example: a male privilege is that people are more likely to take things he says more seriously. Threats, propositions, commands/suggestions etc. In that same respect a female privilege is that people are more likely to take her feelings more seriously. Fear, anger…
/r/MensRights17/08/13 06:15 AM
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The feminists that make decisions (draft laws, decide the definition(s) of rape, accept people into colleges, decide which type of domestic violence shelters get gov't funding, lobby congress, senators, governors, supreme court justices, etc, etc) hate men. Therefore the movement, (since they essentially control it) hates men. Therefore Feminism hates men.
/r/MensRights17/08/13 06:04 AM
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When you say male privilege, do you mean universal male privilege? (no matter what men are ore privileged or better off than women) and if so why? I would say honestly that men and women are at least as privileged comparatively, and when taking into account institutional privilege well let's say the scale tips a bit. But if you do believe in universal male privilege, why? What makes you believe this? Also for the sake of relevance as an AA MRA, I believe intersectionaliy theory (although it cont…
/r/MensRights17/08/13 05:56 AM
2

Saw the "1 in 6" 'stat' quoted and I stopped reading.
/r/MensRights08/08/13 07:48 PM
1

Unfortunately, any movement championing one gender seems doomed to devolve into victim politics and demonization of the other sex. Made me lol, hard.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 03:08 PM
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hahahaha thanks I actually didn't even know it was my cake day until i saw the little icon, was quite shocked.
/r/MensRights30/07/13 10:06 PM
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Do you truly believe that men are oppressed anywhere? I personally avoid the term 'oppression' when it comes to gender politics because I feel the term is used too loosely and is watered down from it's actual meaning/connotation. For example the 'oppression' that men and women faced in say the 1830s when the social structure forced men and women firmly into their gender roles, (although it was very restrictive and abysmal) pales in comparison to how black people were treated at the same time (ly…
/r/MensRights30/07/13 09:12 PM
3

Damn. Now THAT'S a political cartoon!
/r/MensRights25/07/13 01:03 AM
1

Every time I read something like this, it makes me want to go to the nearest podium and speak out publicly against feminism.
/r/MensRights08/07/13 08:22 PM
1

Dude. This person is not like the usual trolls that come here just to start trouble. Try to calm down and read what He/she is saying. Attacking people like this is only going to turn people who are curious like her/him away, and as a growing movement, that's the last thing we need. Lets try to level out and be rational here. Edit: at Grim765
/r/MensRights08/07/13 04:50 AM
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I have a question. I was recently banned from ask feminists for doing something very similar to this with the exception that I provided a link to the sub. My question is: what is the difference between this and providing a link to the thread?
/r/MensRights28/06/13 08:58 PM
1

I also humbly apologize to all those whom I may have offended with my recent posting. It wont happen again.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 08:55 PM
1

Wow, I didn't know that doing something like this was so taboo! Well, ill take this as a learning experience.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 08:54 PM
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Also I apologize to you all. I wasn't aware that this would be such an offensive thing to do. I will take the post down if necessary.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 05:52 PM
1

I guess my intentions are being misconstrued here. I was looking for input on the subject. From both MRs and Feminists. I guess that is too outlandish of a concept.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 05:41 PM
1

I was never there with the intention of recruiting. Not at all. I merely wanted to see is average feminist's views on the MHRM, and if they had changed at all either for better or worse. The outcome however, was different than I wanted. Unfortunately.
/r/MensRights28/06/13 05:37 PM
1

yes as a matter of fact they do, it certainly is a mind boggling thing to hear but it is true. if you consider being forced to penetrate someone as rape (which you should) them men and women commit rape at around equal levels, with women actually being ahead by a small percentage, if memory serves. if you would like a source, in my first comment I left a link to some information regarding that.
/r/MensRights23/06/13 11:27 PM
1

No, I do agree that being cat called happens primarily to women but that was not the focus of my point. you spoke of fear of 'just being groped' that was where my questioning of the assumption of male perpetration stemmed from. also you have yet to address many of the questions from my other two posts. But speaking of being cat called, i understand that it must be extremely uncomfortable being cat called when walking down the street but, if i had to choose between that or having a significantly …
/r/MensRights23/06/13 05:45 AM
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I can walk down the street and never think about what im wearing or if some guy is gonna come grope me First, I have to ask why do you assume that the perpetrator of the alleged violence would be male? and although you may feel safer relative to that of your female friends (of whose experiences im assuming your relating to) but actually studies have shown that men are more likely to be victims of violent crimes (of which sexual assault and rape are included) http://www.bjs.gov/glance_redirect.cf…
/r/MensRights23/06/13 03:29 AM
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I have a question for you. What about your rights? What about how you and others like you are discriminated against because of your gender? What about the fact the the ideology you subscribe to doesn't give a flying fuck about your issues in today's society?(by your own admission, mind you.) How does that make you feel? I understand that we should all advocate for human rights and i am not saying that you shouldn't be a feminist because your a man. not at all. I'm saying you should think about w…
/r/MensRights22/06/13 06:51 PM
0

Well like they say the proof is in the pudding, I just posted a like to this in the feminism subreddit. I just wanted to see what happens and, what they do.
/r/MensRights18/06/13 10:25 PM
3

aaaaaand to your left, a White Knight in its natural habitat.....
/r/MensRights10/06/13 05:18 AM
0

When I originally saw this post of Facebook, my initial notion was to un-sub from that particular group and let them say/ believe whatever they wanted. It would have been much easier to do and with alot less repercussions on my part. But that's not why I'm an MRA. I decided that i had to say something about it, not because i was angered by the comment (personally i don't give a shit about someone else's worldview. no matter how idiotic i find it to be.) I did it because as an MRA it was my job t…
/r/MensRights26/05/13 07:53 PM
3

Hmm. I can agree with that, that is definitely something i will consider in the future.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 05:08 AM
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I agree. My contention was not that i solely have the power to dictate what is associated with the movement but, more so that i will use my influence as an MRA to disallow the bigotry seated within his comment from being associated with the movement as a whole, by calling him out on it. If my comment does not adequately reflect this, I apologize.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 05:05 AM
1

yes. but i also believe that our men's movement is the right one, in every sense of the word. we actually advocate for gender equality. although there are always some bad apples in every bunch and those people tend to be the most vocal at times, we still are trying against all odds to achieve real equality for both genders.
/r/MensRights17/04/13 08:30 PM
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yea I would sat that situation is a pretty slippery slope as to whether the intentions were malicious or not imo.
/r/MensRights05/04/13 05:48 AM
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please (and I say this as an MRA) take your misogyny elsewhere. you are doing nothing to help this movement combat bigotry by adding your own.
/r/MensRights05/04/13 05:11 AM
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"women are disadvantaged some and privileged some. men are disadvantaged some and privileged some" the "entire" reason I joined the movement. thank you, too bad I only have one upvote.
/r/MensRights05/04/13 04:57 AM
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Although I see the benevolence in the way the system works there I also find something extremely sinister about it. More specifically the part where you said "only when you speak out against [feminism] does it become a thorn on your side" hmm.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 05:55 PM
1

While I was reading the minute I saw the phrase "benevolent sexism", I stopped reading immediately.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 03:55 PM
0

I must say I love your point here. I say this because you are seeking equity for women in this circumstance at any cost which doesn't have to be a bad thing, but your willing to do it at the expense of men which I find to be abhorrent. But this is reflective of the feminist movement itself (I am assuming you have some affiliation with it) so I can't say your completey at fault. But I did feel I had to point at your willful ignorance in regards to men's human rights on the subject. That is what I…
/r/MensRights23/03/13 03:55 PM
8

This is a shining example of women refusing to give up their privilege.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 10:30 PM
2

I agree
/r/MensRights19/03/13 08:55 PM
0

The first one. I just think that since we have a big problem with people coming into this sub and taking things we say out of context to smear us, we shouldn't make their jobs easier. That's really where my issue stems from.
/r/MensRights16/03/13 01:08 AM
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I just wanna say I'm more than a little uncomfortable with the language in the title of your post.
/r/MensRights15/03/13 06:12 AM
6

Well you could start by talking about your complete lack of reproductive rights as a man. The fact that when it comes to.having a child (whether you you want it or even if its yours or not you have to pay for it for the next 21 years) as well as the fact that society as a whole not only doesn't really care about your well being outside of your productive/usefulness but in many situations actually benefits from your suffering. Talk about systemic gendered violence.
/r/MensRights13/03/13 04:07 PM
1

I think its pretty obvious that she just wanted someone to tell her it was rape so she could feel like a victim/get back at her boyfriend, just based on what sub she posted it on.
/r/MensRights11/03/13 05:12 PM
1

I also saw that thread today. admittedly i was rather exited to see something (at least a little) pro men's rights. but after reading the description i was highly disappointed. "The truth is that this issue is derived from a patriarchal way of thinking. Basically, women are seen as child bearers, and as the sex which makes less money, so judge are more likely to award them money and parental duties. Advocating for Men's Rights is not the correct way to fight this. Feminism is." this statement al…
/r/MensRights05/03/13 09:16 PM
2

Feminists are really running out of things to complain about.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 01:21 AM
1

Surprisingly I live in the northern united states. It's supposed to be the more "progressive" and liberal part but you'll find some people that don't fit that description at all pretty easily unfortunately.
/r/MensRights02/03/13 06:36 PM
2

Well they can't just come in and say no to what we advocate for but our being receptive to opinions and criticism other than our own is what separates us from them. And its really one of the main things that stops us from becoming just like them.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 11:53 PM
1

Oh no I completely agree. And for the record I never pushed through the mere idea of it made me extremely uncomfortable. And of course its true that this way of thinking can't be used to describe all women, but unfortunately a lot of women do exibit this behavior and its a huge issue.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 12:38 AM
3

Let's not forget the fact that lots of women purposefully mis-communicate their feelings when it comes to sex. I have had girlfriends that have said "no" and neglected sex and then when I immediately stop they ask "why are you stopping" they say no and think yes and expect you to read their minds and "push through" they're lack of willingness. I actually have a HUGE problem with this way of thinking and it is actually a massive turnoff for me. (As well as being extremely frustrating) But its is …
/r/MensRights27/02/13 04:08 PM
7

Something needs to be done about this. Now. We can't sit idly by and watch things like this become more and more prevalent in society. We need to stop it as it begins. What the Hell else are we fighting for!
/r/MensRights22/02/13 04:19 PM
14

This is extremely offensive both as an MRA and as a black man.
/r/MensRights21/02/13 03:33 PM
3

Usually I am against 4chan post because of its connotation but those points are pretty valid. TL,DR I agree.
/r/MensRights08/02/13 05:53 PM
2

I would say that the issue with this site would be that if the genders were reversed feminists would rage about this site blatantly objectifying women. But since its men (and since unlike some feminists we are (mostly) rational and let insignificant things go) its not really a big deal. That's just my two cents.
/r/MensRights23/01/13 10:12 PM
2

Wow. Thanks guys I had actually wondered about that for a while and had been afraid to ask (cuz I've only seen the term coined on r/feminism) but really thanks guys.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 03:45 PM
2

Wow dude (shawnGH) you kinda need to die.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 04:21 AM
1

Could someone explain what cis gendered means anyway I have no idea (I don't mean to derail)
/r/MensRights21/01/13 03:40 AM
-1

Can we upvote the shit out of jaheenan77's comment cuz that was just beautiful.
/r/MensRights20/01/13 04:47 PM
2

I would have to disagree with the supposed gender neutrality of these posters. I would agree with you (and the posters) if they were actually gender neutral. If you take a look at how certain parts of the posters are worded and also given the track record of other anti rape posters made in the same way ex. Teach men not to rape, only men can stop rape (most of them are a lot more blatant in their sexism) its pretty easy to infer (because in reality believe it or not that's the point) that men an…
/r/MensRights20/01/13 06:54 AM
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Dude......not ok. In the very least not on this sub. -__-
/r/MensRights19/01/13 06:13 PM
1

what the fuck this has nothing to do with MR at all.
/r/MensRights15/01/13 01:30 AM
2

It's actually doing the opposite. It's using very vague wording thats targeted to cause a subconscious association as to male = rapist/female = victim
/r/MensRights14/01/13 08:07 PM
1

I'm glad that you feel this way and are open minded enough to see issues from another viewpoint. But I do have a few issues with the wording behind what you posted. You described the discrinations that men face as "minor" as well wording one if your points as "even though men have it easier" since I gather that you are a level headed,intelligent and open minded person I would strongly suggest that you really look and study in depth the discrinations men face in society today and really think abo…
/r/MensRights10/01/13 11:06 PM
2

I did not say a common ground has been reached. I merely stated that now for the first time ever i feel that it is possible for a common ground to be reached.
/r/MensRights26/12/12 01:08 AM
12

Exactly my issue. I posted this to shed some light on the fact that Feminists and MRAs don't have to be at constant war with each other and that's the first comment from the feminists. (sigh) just as it seemed my faith in the movement (feminism) could be restored........
/r/MensRights26/12/12 12:40 AM
2

Edit: they also want information from multiple scholarly sources.
/r/MensRights26/11/12 01:55 AM
1

they probably threatened ti fire him if he went forward with the prosecution
/r/MensRights13/10/12 08:12 PM
31

honestly i don't know and that's a huge part of the problem because there is no accountability for her and other women for false rape accusations, no consequences for ACTIVELY trying to destroy an innocent man's life
/r/MensRights03/09/12 03:55 PM
21

I agree with that SOO strongly
/r/MensRights03/09/12 03:37 PM
4

Thats very true. Actually for quite a while i was a feminist (i am a male) because i have all sisters and as a result i witnessed some of the plight of females first hand. But because of the feminist movement as a whole becoming increasingly more anti male on a mainstream basis as well as the direction of the movement it self (along with many other things) i have joined the MRM. (by the way up until recently i didnt even know existed most likely as a indirect or direct result of the feminist mov…
/r/MensRights19/08/12 05:43 AM
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