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| 45 | Can someone post a screenshot of texts to show how you make progress? | Incaahhh | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 02:26 AM | |
| 3 | Should mental or physical self-improvement be done first? And what is the journey one takes? | Incaahhh | /r/askTRP | 09/05/14 05:05 AM | |
| 2 | How do you flirt with a girl studying in the library (Urgent) | Incaahhh | /r/seduction | 03/02/15 07:37 PM |
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| 1 | Hung out with a girl, she ghosted me for a week and I deleted her on Snapchat. She just messaged me, was this the right way to respond?You essentially cockblocked yourself OP. Maybe if you didnt remove her from Snapchat she wouldnt have even messaged you. But she did give you a chance to bang her | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Saw something suspicious on LTR’s phone... how to proceed?You already lost frame by jumping to a conclusion so fast. Do you think your girl is capable of cheating, and using pan b on top of that? If so why are you with her. Either way, if its on your mind ask her about it | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | New plate hmu drunk af and it was incredibly akwardIf you werent in the mood for fucking her then theres no issue. No one obligates us to do anything we dont want in TRP | /r/askTRP | 31/07/19 06:22 PM |
| 2 | LTR cheated. Need advice.Be thankful you are no longer with her. I know youre hurting OP, but keep asking yourself, "what kind of person and I hurting over?" a POS thats who. And whats the point of that? | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 12:09 AM |
| 2 | How do women help men succeed?Women should not be the factor between you succeeding or failing. They can either help you get there or be an obstacle but ultimately your success depends on you. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with ltr of 5months, what did I do wrong?Be glad you had the drive to do it, a lot of guys stay in that kind of situations like cucks | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 04:01 AM |
| -1 | Asian Men in White CountriesCut the bluepill shit, all im gonna say | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Asian Men in White CountriesSo you want to bring life into the world just because they're cute? Your dad probably said the same thing | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Asian Men in White CountriesWhy do you want Asian kids OP? When it seems like finding any woman is an obstacle | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | 35 year old virginWhat's the most surprising to me is that you have a preference for what kind of girl you want. My advice is to focus more on yourself than who you want to be with. No porn, start exercising, keep busy with shit that matters. Getting laid should not be the goal, but the spoils of self-improvement | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What happens when you give your girlfriend a second chance after she breaks certain boundaries?She'll lose respect for you deep down. She can say she loves you all she wants, it's just her idea of love she's projecting. Up to you ultimately, dont be a scrub | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Probably found my main issue with womenYou're clearly not giving yourself the upper hand so stop behaving like that. Work on how to keep a conversation going or just be genuine with what you want at the time | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Do you people feel that (alot of) American woman are very entitled or have some sort of daddy/mental health issues?IMO yes. Even though there are a lot of humble ones, thats due to it being a numbers game. It comes with the the fact of living in America, perceived as superior | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Getting self-concious about approaching girls in collegein terms of approaching the girls. Dont be overly excited / make sense in the way you act + speak | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Getting self-concious about approaching girls in collegeThings I tell myself when I'm feeling this way OP, 1) If people are gonna talk shit about a guy getting "rejected" then fuck them they do not deserve to be though of. These people are also known as assholes 2) Im not gonna meet any girls by avoiding them 3) Approaching/closing/interacting with girls is for my own benefit, 4) Keep a level headed approach at all times | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?I'll give him a listen, thank you! | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | What does Patrice O'Neal mean when he says "women aren't selling what we are buying"?I'm sure he's a good guy but who cares what this random soundbite means | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 01:44 PM |
| 2 | “There’s just something about him”"Im feeling slutty here is my veil" | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I turn a conversation sexual if I've never had sex?Incorrect | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Getting over 4 year LTR? Feel I left betaI just want to point out that the main reason this behavior is not TRP is because OP is basically fucking himself over. I'm not saying his girl was perfect, but TRP is about self-improvement and making our lives better. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How do I turn a conversation sexual if I've never had sex?The thing about being sexual is that is has to come off naturally. If you out of nowhere make stuff sexual then: A) The girl will think youre weird B) The only girls who are receptive to this are thots (to each their own) Physical contact can heat things up more than a conversation anyway so try to be better at reading her and casual conversations | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Getting over 4 year LTR? Feel I left betaThink about the real reasons you want to be with her, are these qualities only exclusive to her? You should apologize for sure explain yourself. Like I said before, if you dont work on yourself you'll be in this scenario again with her or someone else | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 04:35 PM |
| 24 | Getting over 4 year LTR? Feel I left betaYou really fucked this up man. It sounds like you have mental / personality issues you should be focusing on. TBH if she was my friend / family member I'd tell her it's for the best to move on. Also, not apologizing for cheating isn't "alpha" it's just being a dick and I think A LOT of people on this sub don't know the difference. If you truly love her fix yourself first or else you'll be in this scenario again | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Girl cries after sex, says she's afraid I won't want to see her againIt means she's been ghosted before / fearing you will do the same (she literally told you what it meant). Do you see her as a friend, plate, ltr material? | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | [Update] Ex-boyfriend of girl I am seeing vandalized her room when she was spending the weekend at my place.good man. recognize and move on | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Why are many of you strongly against ‘leading her on’?Personally im against that stuff too. You shouldnt have to rely on a girl having false hope for her to be more submissive and a better plate, thats the whole point of TRP. It should be up to you to have her that way | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 08:19 PM |
| 3 | What should i aim to get my lifts to minimum by the time i’m 18?Having great technique, grip, and form is the best thing you can do for yourself at 16. Stretch a lot, have a good variety of exercises and motions so you don't plateau. Eat right I would avoid overly excessive squatting weight. We're all different so just try to focus on increasing by 10% every 3 weeks. You might find that you can go 15-20%+ on some areas, so be fluid. But do not overexert yourself, youre still growing and you have plenty of time to reach your goals just keep going at it. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Ex-boyfriend of girl I am seeing vandalized her room when she was spending the weekend at my place.Seems like she doesnt even want help with that bs excuse. No rational person would not file a police report. Seems like a lot of drama waiting to happen | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Whats the point of womenCool. More for me too | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 02:38 PM |
| 1 | She's coming at 5. 9 hours to make a shift.You are really overthinking this and come off like you're sensitive and have low-self esteem. So I would focus on that first before trying to "analyze" your girlfriend Funny how when guys complain about their girls on this sub they're just venting as if they were the female ... | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Am I an asshole for being disappointed in my gf’s v-day giftYou wanted nothing and got nothing | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Kicked a girl out after she disrespected me, did I handle it right?I understand the principle but you mightve taken it too far. Who gives a shit what she has to say? Maybe she's just bs'ing since you guys are just talking (on your bed). If you really had a problem with what she said you couldve agreed and amplify or just ignore it then prove her wrong later on. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Starting college at 22?Who gives a fuck if people think it's too old. Are you doing it for them or yourself? Damn | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it a covert contract if I expect my LTR to keep her word when she says things like “ I owe you a blowjob “ every time I go out of my way to help with her with something ?Take initiative if you want a bj Also, don't be so easily "annoyed" by her saying shit like that women love to talk (ie dont let her make you lose frame). Plenty of reasonable things to be actually upset about. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Is it a covert contract if I expect my LTR to keep her word when she says things like “ I owe you a blowjob “ every time I go out of my way to help with her with something ?This approach is just straight up wrong | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 05:21 PM |
| 15 | Dating a girl while not speaking the same language?Interesting challenge. Good exercise for body language and establishing frame non-verbally | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Should my girlfriends sexual past bother me?Be your own person man. Get out there and do shit. Find hobbies, start working out, get ahead in your schoolwork. Best way to move on is to become a better version of you. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Should my girlfriends sexual past bother me?I dont think its bad that it affected you. But you have to move on | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Should my girlfriends sexual past bother me?Does that even matter? You know now | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 12:56 PM |
| 3 | Should my girlfriends sexual past bother me?She hid it from you and you dont know how to react? Seriously come on man you sound like a cuck | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | FWB keeps wanting to go on “dates”First you gotta decide if you really want it. Dont half ass shit like this. If you do, I would take her up on the offer of going out. Don't let her choose the details (time, place,activity etc.) unless she insists on something. Once the details are set just go and have a good time. Are you good at conversations? | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | FWB keeps wanting to go on “dates”Maybe she just gets bored of only fucking? We all wanna go out and do stuff it's not that big of a deal. Also, Wouldn’t mind an LTR just feel I shouldn’t be the one to initiate it as it will show lack of abundance Is not holding frame. If you want it go for it. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Hard nexted her - did I do the right thing?When you are thinking about nexting someone ask yourself: Why would I not do it? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 05:13 AM |
| 11 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?Stay busy and look for "productive" hobbies like buying stock or working out. Shit that you like and benefits you. Im stuck right now in limbo - I work full time and go to school. So im always busy but never fulfilled by what keeps me busy. This caused me to smoke weed everyday for about 3 years just to "keep things interesting" when in reality it was just a dopamine fix since nothing else I do brings me satisfaction. It's a bitch to get over. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Falling for a plateDont put the pussy on a pedestal. She's obviously into you. Do you know what kind of girl you want to be in a relationship with? What kind of girl is your plate? The heart wants what the hear wants, dont let your dick make decisions! | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Fucked up with a potential plate, assess the damage?Damn, you hit the self-destruct button in terms of frame. The thing about trp is that the main concern is self-improvement, not pussy. This is generally because taking care of yourself first can attract a lot of pussy, but it doesn't work the other way around. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 09:22 PM |
| 0 | LTR wants to vacation with single friendYou seem unsure, not good. Would you really make your kids meet someone new and then divide their time with you? What's so wrong with her going with a friend? Think she's gonna get fucked by 10 Chads? If so what makes you think that? Come on man, i think spending time with your kids is more important than tending to your insecurities. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 08:39 PM |
| 7 | HB9 approaches me, ask for my snap then unfriends me.Only thing I can think of is that it was kind of basic line "If I don't like the show, buy me a drink" ? But really, it doesn't matter. Get back out there and game the next girl | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Was this rude of me?This should be higher. Sometimes you have to think about what sort of reaction you are trying to illicit. His comment helped no one | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Paying For Sex Your TakePersonally I dont see it as an issue as long as its safe sex. Fucking random girls raw is about the least trp thing I can think of. But yeah its really fucked on many levels doing it while in a relationship | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 09:51 PM |
| 0 | I'm a a depressed stereotypical nerd with no positive attributes to make up for it.Lift. Even if you start at zero pounds, lift. Also you have identify moments of self-pity, I see some already in your post. Ask yourself what are your needs and wants in life right now. For example, you want to play video games, but do you need to? The answer might very well be "yes" but then you have to ask yourself why that's the case. Same with dating, sure everyone wants to get laid but do you need to? In your specific case I would say that is a yes as well. Identifying issues is the easy pa… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Oral but no sex?You might have found a girl with some self respect | /r/askTRP | 03/11/18 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Got a HPV infection - LTR not loyal?Well she's your girl, you would know her better than anyone on the internet. Meaning it's up to your own judgment, do you have good judgement? How much does your girl value you? I would apply some dread just cause it's almost a never bad time to do so. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Got a HPV infection - LTR not loyal?There's some good knowledge in this thread about hpv and symptoms, OP. Seems like the real question is can you trust your girl? That has to be up to you, there will always be dudes calling girls whores no matter what. Just gotta be truly honest with yourself, is your girl capable of cheating? Your next move depends on this answer. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | ChoiceNot only is it immoral (which should be enough) it's also illegal, which is significant. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | ChoiceHey guys. Let's not get 18 year old's drunk. Thanks. Yes, even if we're 17. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 10:29 PM |
| 3 | LTR liking every single picture of a guy on instagramNo need to get defensive lol | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 05:31 PM |
| 8 | LTR liking every single picture of a guy on instagramCurious, how do you meet a plate who lives in a hotel? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Deleted girl off Snapchat and now she texted me thisWhat notion are you trying to convey here? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Deleted girl off Snapchat and now she texted me thisWhat kind of notion are you trying to convey with this? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Deleted girl off Snapchat and now she texted me thisWhat kind of notion are you trying to convey with this? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Deleted girl off Snapchat and now she texted me thisYou deleted her on Snapchat why would you text her?? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Deleted girl off Snapchat and now she texted me thisYou deleted her on Snapchat why would you text her?? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Deleted girl off Snapchat and now she texted me thisYou deleted her on Snapchat why would you text her?? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Cock carousel?This data that you found .. what were the parameters? Age, location, etc. Was the info self-reported? I'd say the average is ~15 but it's just from my experience | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Having sex with a female friend?OP. This is an ideal situation. Do. Not. Overthink. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 07:51 PM |
| 2 | girl: when you're this awesome, nobody needs to gas you up. I'm sorry i know you can't relate loooolI'd just ignore it and stick to whatever the reason for you texting her is | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Does lifting make you any more attractive?No. But the increase muscle mass, confidence, and the mental health benefits will | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriend says ex wants to get back with her.Sounds like a harmless joke. Do you take your gf for being a hoe? If yes, why do you think that. If no, move on and focus on important things (ie not this insignificant shit test) | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 05:06 PM |
| 15 | How do you greet women?No handshake, no kiss (unless rapport has been established and you want to convey intentions) Hug almost all the time, then follow-up with a greeting If no hug plausible, just do the greeting | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Plate broke and it made me realize somethingIt's cause we rely on our higher smv to carry us through. I have this problem too. Seems like we forget frame is a significant aspect of smv | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Ltr lying?What is the question here? She lied | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 12:27 AM |
| 3 | She's pregnant, fuck my lifeIt's clear you want out of the relationship. Is there a question to this post? I think if youre posting this on this sub you want the "trp solution"?. If youre not bailing on the child you gotta be there for at least 2 years. You have to take care of her (especially if she's crazy) because she is having your kid. After that just get out of there and apply for custody. If this sounds good to you, you need to tell her this. So that you do not get trapped into a deeper relationship or even more kid… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 09:48 PM |
| 8 | She's pregnant, fuck my lifeYeah running away from your problems is not trp ... You're fairly sure it's yours and you want really really want to bail ... damn. Some problems are too far gone, especially for this sub | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Thot or not?Fuck it man I say not. She's single and hot who gives a fuck what she does. The main issue personally is whether she had protected sex or not. If she's out here getting fucked raw that's a huge red flag. It's a slippery slope though as we ultimately cannot say for sure how it went. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 08:58 PM |
| 2 | It's been months and i'm still not over my ex, help?Word. Good luck PM me for anything | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 10:08 PM |
| 2 | It's been months and i'm still not over my ex, help?You probably need professional help if it is affecting you physically. And also, do not "bury" your feelings / emotions. You have to face reality head on and accept the past. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Feedback on this date?Tinder is very hit or miss. Maybe work on your text game / in-person behavior? Idk you live and learn, don't look too hard into it bro keep getting yourself out there | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 08:47 PM |
| 3 | "i'm usually not like this"Part of me enjoys when prospective partners say this. It means they want to put on this facade for you OR that you are challenging their modesty. I would just nod / acknowledge it lightly and carry on with the conversation. They just want you to hear them out, it's not really them saying "we aren't fucking today" | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 08:02 PM |
| 6 | It's been months and i'm still not over my ex, help?Everyone's struggles are unique. Some take more time than others, I feel for you brother. It sucks but you have to power through the hard times to come out stronger. Stop pondering about the past, keep up with hobbies, exercise, explore your career path, and begin pondering about the future. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 07:59 PM |
| 5 | When can allow myself to get pussy?Just get out there, cast your net wide but have standards. Go on dates, invite girls over etc. Sex should not put pressure on you because it should be expected (if you want it) if you pick the right girl and act the right way. Studying trp will help you get the right girl and act the right way. Keep in mind only chumps put (sex with) other people above themselves and their goals | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Fucked a 7 last night - Here’s how it happenedHmm did you iso when this came up? Genius move haha right in the feminism | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Fucked a 7 last night - Here’s how it happenedDid she care when you said no to a date? I must admit I would've thought about if she's a 7+ but that's just me. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 02:56 PM |
| 5 | How To Lift When Cutting?Less reps higher weight | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else think they wasted their 20s?I'm 24 right now. Guess what? I'm not in a rush to do anything atm. Will life be over when I'm 30? No. Do I have to get married before a certain age? No. I know how to take care of myself physically, I'm still learning the physiological aspect. Stop reminiscing about the past when the present in your face. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | This girl that I know likes me might have plans with a beta orbiterWhy do you care | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend's behavior while out of townReally weird that a guy she is trying to avoid, who according to her wants to start shit and she yelled at ... is with her in Mexico | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Rejected 3 times in one night, bird shat on my leg and cracked my phone.Tf do you mean whatre you gonna do? Just do what you were gonna do already | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | To reply, or not to reply?You had frame and talked way too much. Now you have no frame Next | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Flirted with sexy gym chickNot sure this is flirting | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 07:00 PM |
| 0 | Why do some women claim that 'most guys aren't attractive to them'?I think you're looking too far into this. Just take it for face value. Some women aren't attracted to most guys. Some are. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 07:13 PM |
| 10 | What is the RP community's view on nofap?I agree that over-masturbating is bad and in turn would be down to abstain from it completely | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 06:27 PM |
| 39 | Girlfriend going for drinks with new colleagues.Really happy about the progress this sub has made. Seems like just 5 months ago everyone would've said "She's actually getting railed by Chad bro, soft next" | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | a girl I had fun with last evening shit tests me as fuck, and cant decide?Ask yourself why you're still talking to her | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | a girl I had fun with last evening shit tests me as fuck, and cant decide?Oh there's more? Regret isn't a great approach for strong frame. Don't think you need to say thanks for a compliment. I'd just leave it on read. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | a girl I had fun with last evening shit tests me as fuck, and cant decide?IMO talking abut one's feelings isn't automatically a beta move. You did it correctly here, you were genuine about your intentions, not to mention you implied that you have standards. It was about you, not her. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | a girl I had fun with last evening shit tests me as fuck, and cant decide?If you really are not interested in her you played it very nicely. If you do decide you still want to bone her you're only option is to let her message you again, to maintain frame. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Broke up with a gf of 2 months because she went for a walk with another guy, whom she has known for 4-6 weeks only. Did I do the right thing?This weak mentality is a frame-killer. Not to mention if you know you're the shit you wouldn't have a hoe for a gf in the first place | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 02:30 PM |
| 2 | I'm trapped in a foreign country with an abusive wife and my children are suffering the mostWell yeah, when I said flea I meant with your kids as that's what you said you were thinking of doing in your post. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm trapped in a foreign country with an abusive wife and my children are suffering the mostIt blows my mind that you were still tapping that after she gave birth. Seems like you have no choice but to flee. Do it before your life flashes before your eyes, a lot of your existence has already been wasted. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is prostitution still illegal?Cause it's generally tax-free and no one wants to legitimize it cause "muh morals" | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 05:34 PM |
| 3 | I just had sex and received a blowjob for the first time at 28 years old and i realise..I too had this sort of revelation when I lost my virginity. Are there more rewarding things in life than sex? Depends on the person. Personally I say yes, but if I had to choose between living without sex or dying, RIP me | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Running my mouthIMO body language can send deliberate and favorable messages to the girls around you. For example, standing tall, talking with hands, walking with purpose will get potential plates to size you up. You're demeanor must translate when speaking though. Basically, when you don't have anything to say, let your bodies do the talking. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Lost GF to Hypergamy, took a massive blow to my ego/frameJust let it go | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?Never know, he might just want to avoid shit escalating | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Girl with BF i'm interested in has told her BF, and now he would like a word with me. What should I expect?Seems like you gotta be a man and take responsibility for being a dumbass. Doesn't mean you need to get physical if you can avoid it. Do you have any combat knowledge? | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain this?I think the simple answer here is that you simply have a good girl. These occasional frame breaks will not fuck anything up unless they are severely unreasonable. TRP-wise breaking frame with a plate is different from breaking frame with an ltr. Gf's will appreciate opening up emotionally / speaking your mind more than some girl who only wants to fuck you / you to be a man. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Girl is obsessed with her new 'gay' friend that I see every day. Are they fucking?Bruh cmon | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Sexting before first meetupSiren's are mythological creatures ... basically an attention whore | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Should I double text her?I wonder how the message isn't delivered? Maybe she's somewhere with no service? Either way just wait brah | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Girl I'm seeing went to an event with another dude whilst I'm on vacationShe's not your gf right? You sound very whiny my friend. Invite her out and if she can't, next her. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 09:34 PM |
| 8 | Marry for money? Machiavelli approachCause she's with you | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Lost, angry, going crazy.That's what I'm saying. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Lost, angry, going crazy.DNA test Lawyer up (if the kid is your she needs to be away from that woman she sounds crazy af) TBH you gotta realistically think about your faults too. You haven't said one negative thing about yourself in all this which seems misleading | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Upset with accusative girlShe's fucking with you. Attempt to reschedule. If it doesn't work,Next | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up?Sure thing Btw dont think "hopefully it'll work out" you gotta be sure and deliberate about your actions. IMO expectations ruin the experience just try to have a good time for you. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up?Well if she made it seem like that then it is what it is. I wouldn't worry so much about if you messed up or not just play it cool. Some girls will respect / be attracted to you more if you don't try something in the first meeting (dates are another story). I'd say you're in a good spot. If you know she could be into definitely try something next time. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up?You're probably ok. Are you sure she left cause you didn't try a move? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Plates breaking and I feel like shitGet over the oneitits. It's not your turn and it probably won't be for a while (unless she's a whore, in which case do you still really want her?) Nowhere in TRP does it say that spinning plates is the only approach to having a love life. Get out there and find a good girl, but keep your frame. This post screams dread and vulnerability, I know you're going through a hard time though. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 01:27 PM |
| 3 | "When" or "If"Both are pretty bad. You don't have to say anything really as the convo is over | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel really burnt out from sex?I mean it's the only reason I'm doing it lol give it a go | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel really burnt out from sex?I've gone nofap because I used to masturbate too much. Doesn't mean no sex either, basically just not jizzing every chance you get. As it takes your mojo away | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Ex Bf's birthday partyYeah gotta let her go | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 03:12 PM |
| 3 | She started to cry?There's something not right with her ... You can most likely get it in, but post-fuck game will be very unpredictable. Personally I like gambling so I'd go for it | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Girl left because I wouldn't console her/apologize to her, did I do this right?So cringy when people think TRP is basically being a dick. That sort of response doesn't help you at all, let alone her. Terrible play | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.Yeah no | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 04:03 PM |
| 2 | LTR makes disrespectful jokes in public.A&A If she reacts negatively to that, next | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Did I do something wrong?Keep up the TRP but be smoother with it or just game someone else. The friendzone is hard to get out of | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when, right as I am walking past a girl she rolls her hand through her hair and tucks it behind her ears?Doesn't mean much at all | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:49 PM |
| 68 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.RP is semi-based on the concept of AWALT. Obviously there will be some outliers. Seems like you got one, grats. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Would you consider cohabitation a deal breaker in an LTR?I'd say it's just insecurity not necessarily your religious background. It is pretty common depending on how old y'all are. IMO if you want a LTR with her you have to let go of shit like that cause it's in the past. What kind of girl she is matters way more | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Smoking calms the nerves ?Personally, cigs do calm me down although a little. However, weed calms me down wayyy more. I occasionally get to a 6 or 7 before some sex just cause it helps with stamina, blood flow, concentration, size | /r/askTRP | 17/04/18 10:16 PM |
| -1 | Girl tells me she is sad. How should i react to this to not lose frame etc?Very insecure way to think and go about things | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Me trying to gameIMO that girlfriend comment is too cliche and will turn most girls off. There is no perfect answer, OP went the correct way though | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 05:55 PM |
| 2 | What to do. advice ?Totally, and I'm sure she feels the same way about you | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Messy situation with LTR of 5 years - I've become extremely beta, she broke up and had a brief rebound, now that I'm improving in every way I can, she begs me to let her come back. I have mixed feelingsIf you need validation from having sex with other girls start reading up on the sidebar. Having plates isn't about you needing them, it's them needing you. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:13 PM |
| 2 | What to do. advice ?Good luck bro. IMO having all kinds of girls to mess around with is great and all that, but personally it gets redundant after a certain point. There's nothing like having a smart, sexy, faithful girl that is crazy about you. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 01:08 PM |
| 1 | What to do. advice ?Then if you're ok with not having plates I say go for it. TRP is about doing what pleases YOU | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 09:43 PM |
| 1 | What to do. advice ?It all boils down to - Do you want to be exclusive with girl 2? Of course you could still choose her and fuck around behind her back but whats the point of that | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 08:04 PM |
| 2 | I'm a obese, shy male. Need some help.Indeed. OP if you're reading this just know we want you to realize what you want for yourself. There is a lot of tough love in this sub, but nothings impossible bro. Let's get fucking to it. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 05:55 PM |
| 14 | I'm a obese, shy male. Need some help.The obvious answer is lose the weight. However IMO having a healthy body doesn't mean jack shit without a healthy mind. If you watch porn, stop. If you think everyone is out to get you, stop. Read novels, do not care what others think, improve yourself for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What are women's values?You should probably ask women | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | what is the redpills opinion on alcohol ?Don't be childish with it | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do I hold frame here.First, you got to tell her how you're feeling at the moment she is your ltr isn't she? Second, focusing on losing her should not be a priority. You've got a lot more important things to focus on. TBH depending on how old your car is you might be better off selling it for scrap then buying a shitty car on the cheap with financing. All in all, the absolute worst thing you can do is freeze, feel sorry for yourself, and do nothing at all. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Threatened breakup w ltrWell if there wasn't enough milk for the both of us I would've said so. If she's mature and recognizes you wear the pants she'll be cool with it. If she persists I'd tease her a bit and put my foot down and say that it's just milk and she'll be ok without it for one day. After that it's up to her if she's going to hold a grudge over milk. Basically, ignoring her is not cool here. In texts it works because you could be legit busy doing something else but in person it just comes off as being a dic… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 05:14 PM |
| 8 | Threatened breakup w ltrI poured the rest of the milk at which point she demands I save her some. I didn’t reply as I don’t fuck with demands. Then she began to repeatedly ask if I saved her some. I’m still ignoring her Really bad move | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?Sounds like you got oneitis soon. Your in-person game seemed on point though, you did everything right. However, you should've let her text you first since this kinda situation called for her to keep wanting more of you. Texting later that next might or during the week wouldn't have been terrible, you just did it too soon imo | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Am I seen as her rock by doing this or her emotional tampon ?No, if you insist on comforting / decide when to do it as oppose to her deciding that's when it's too much. But if she's going to you for something legitimately upsetting her you're good. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 10:38 PM |
| 2 | How does a RP man think through out his day?Yes but learning something is different than asking people for the answers. There are some good answers on this thread, trp is supposed to make those answers the destination of a journey. Like I said though, its not a bad question you proposed. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 10:36 PM |
| 6 | How does a RP man think through out his day?imo its casue your almost asking this sub how you should think. It's a good question though, just very direct | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Is my hobby gay?Not gonna lie, it's not my style but if anyone's gonna harass you or call you "gay" over doing something you like then fuck them. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Developing oneitis, how to handle this?TRP isn't about fucking random girls. It's focus is on maintaining frame and self-value. There is nothing wrong with having strong feelings for her, at the right time. How long have you been dating? Are her red flags really no big deal? However, there is a difference in being in a loving relationship and having oneitis. The whole point of having an SO is that you are only fucking them. So if you don't see yourself being capable of this, you indeed have oneitis. Men are not needy, if you need som… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Help with textingNot the worst opening. Good banter, probably went on for longer than it should have. Personally, I just compliment the girl and after some small talk propose we go out. If she says yes, I hit her back with some details | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Help with textingShe's either bored or giving you second chances | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 09:21 PM |
| 0 | LTR oraganising a canoeing trip abroad. Didn't invited me. Help with frame and confront, please.IMO it's just a canoe trip, nothing to dump her over or get upset about. She didn't invite you, boo hoo. Do you think she's the cheating type? She definitely is showing you a lack of respect, but that can be fixed. But, if she's a cheater there is not point in trying to salvage anything. Is this kind of behavior new for her? If it is not then follow "nastynickdr"'s advice. Do you not have other girls you can talk to? If no, go get some. If you do, see what you can do with them. Just because it's… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 09:19 PM |
| 2 | cute cashierThis. Do not overthink anything, OP | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Do girls make out with other girls for attention or because they like it?This is such a cringy question .. both, but mostly the latter | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Tinder date broke down when I asked for separate checksHow are you two getting along now? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Girl rejects me then comes backshit dude, don't think too hard about it. If you're just trying to smah, then definitely start communication back. But that doesn't mean get all anxious and over-excited, keep the same tone you had before. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Breaking up with 3 yo LTRShe'll most likely want to hookup if y'all are on good terms. You can easily put this in your frame a have a fwb situation if your emotions can handle it. I personally had the same thing going on about a month ago, but I showed too many emotions and it become something the girl didn't want anymore | /r/askTRP | 19/11/17 04:20 PM |
| 1 | A girl busted my game.Shouldn't have said it was weird etc. We all know it's not a bad thing, no need to choose to be dismissive over candid. Well, now she knows you want to fuck (as if she didn't know that already) I'd say to wait for her to text and let's see what she says. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls love being second place?So, do it implicitly? | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 09:06 PM |
| 6 | Ex sent me pics of her making out with another guy. Funny thing is I'm with one of my new plates. Would it be beta to send her a picture of me getting my dick sucked without my face in it?Why would OP care what she thinks in the first place? | /r/askTRP | 29/05/16 05:43 AM |
| -6 | When does "joking" become "shit-testing", and when does "shit-testing" become deliberate disrespect?must be great to know what the hell SMV means | /r/askTRP | 12/08/15 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Ex-gf of roommate cuckolding in our apartmentWhy is a girl that isn't on a lease being allowed to independently rent out a room? You guys need to get your shit together | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Seems like these hoes will never be loyal... Existential angst from a flirtatious married womanI get what you're saying seems crazy huh? But it reflects the woman, not him. Unfortunately, but statistically speaking it could happen to all of us, although there are ways to avoid it | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How to get invited to parties?Hey bro, is it cool if I bring some bitches along? | /r/askTRP | 01/11/14 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Had sex with a girl, she won't text me? Kinda want to see her again :(How did you meet her? How did the physicality start? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/14 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Should mental or physical self-improvement be done first? And what is the journey one takes?I know for the physical I just look for a workout and begin there, but what about the mental side? | /r/askTRP | 09/05/14 05:32 AM |
| -2 | The Fear of Rejection. It can be brokentl;dr | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl with bf showing interest?Apologies! I'll delete this and re-post. Thanks | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Girl with bf showing interest?Would a kiss on the cheek count? If she cheated for you, she will cheat on you. So true | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Can someone post a screenshot of texts to show how you make progress?Oh well now I get it. Adjust for your target. Nice | /r/seduction | 17/02/13 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Can someone post a screenshot of texts to show how you make progress?I like a man who takes control. Timid people irritate me. 1) I dont like it when its too easy. How old is she? 2) I should be more agressive Tanks | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 11:19 PM |
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