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| 3 | Should I end a great relationship if the attraction isn’t there? If so, how should I go about this?I told my girlfriend this once, not that I wasn't attracted to her, but that I was disappointed at her lack of effort to look good and feminine on a daily basis, and that it was causing me to lose attraction. Told her how there's a million girls out there who look objectively a lot worse than her but at least they make themselves pretty and it counts. She broke the fuck down really bad and in the next weeks she legit bought thousands worth of make up and clothes and dyson airbrush thing and shit… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 09:50 AM |
| 0 | What’s the most practical way to get a girlfriend?This turd deserves a ban alrdy | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Not texting me when she’s out with friendsLol what the fuck. You expect a girl you've had sex with twice to just constantly text you while she's celebrating? You need to chill and reconsider your priorities. That's just not how it works | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 09:26 AM |
| 3 | You can beat women by playing their gameYou don't even need to actually have options. She just needs to believe that you CAN have them. If I turn my girlfriend down I can see her mind instantly fire up on all cylinders, and immediately she starts with the questions "since when are you not in the mood?", "Are you mad at me?", "Babe, what's going on????". That's like, after 1 min of denial. And then she always half jokingly asks "who is it huh?". Shit is funny | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/19 07:56 AM |
| 1 | My first time attempting game on a night out, after a month of lurking TRP! Thoughts?It's honestly not worth it if you're not feeling it. I have never had good sex with a girl I just met in an uncomfortable setting. Always was distracted, felt nothing and ended up going soft. I need private space for a random hookup or at least properly isolated | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/19 07:27 AM |
| 1 | LTR almost always has sex with me, but doesn't seem excited by it.I mean she's never been interested in it from the get go. She's not a horny kinky girl. But we have sex regularly for 2,5 years, about 3-5 times per week without fail so there's nothing worrying. It's just that it's a bit boring and I miss the "hoe" type | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 03:17 PM |
| -4 | LTR almost always has sex with me, but doesn't seem excited by it.Honestly I don't, because I don't know if I even care anymore. I could probably do all sorts of things to make her chase because I do have her wrapped around my fingers, but I don't feel like playing games. I'm focused on things that aren't sexy right now, but it's what I need to do | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 06:52 AM |
| 3 | LTR almost always has sex with me, but doesn't seem excited by it.Except I am not. I am only boring because there is a lack of enthusiasm from her part. We have done all these things you mentioned. But on a day to day basis, she's simply not interested in having more than basic sex. It just doesn't do anything for her. Sure sometimes we fuck in the woods, hell we even fucked in public, but I'm talking on a day to day basis. I guess it's normal after a while, it's been 2.5 years and we live together. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 06:42 AM |
| 5 | "Ok" and my Unicorn was gone.I think it was more about his desire for more and something else, and overcoming his fear of taking the final decision. Sometimes I go through this too but then I think about what I win and what I lose, and with my type of LTR I honestly believe I'm happier with her than without. Although like everything, you want to have your cake and eat it too, but it's not always possible. Not all girls are willing to let their guy fuck other women and stay. Or in my LTR case she would probably stay but it'd… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/19 03:27 PM |
| 4 | About to meet stranger for extra rough type stuff. How to stay safe as best as possible?Ok so I went. I didn't record it on video, but I left my phone on audio record which provides ample proof. It was beyond my expectations. It's weird to be offered total submission by someone you literally just laid your eyes on. Was extremely hot. Within 5 minutes I had my dick buried in her asshole, my hand in her mouth and the other one grabbing her pussy. Will do again. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 09:17 AM |
| 1 | For those of you who have made a sizeable physical transformation, what was your attention like from females before and after you got into shape?Got me from incel to getting checked out all the time. Granted if u saw my before picture you'd understand why I was an incel lol. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Date: what to do with a professional 34 year old womanI think bowling is kinda boring. People suggest that shit but honestly it's highly repetitive and turn based, and it doesn't really provide much emotional spike. It's not because some nerds write it down that it's actually a good idea. At least mini golfs bars have some kind of atmosphere going on with music and shit, and the challenge changes with every hole, plus more kino and ways to have fun | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How many partners have you had and what is your mentality like?It's not an arbitrary criterion. It has a very direct correlation to your success with women and your SMV. And it also changes the way you behave around women due to exposure and positive reinforcement. That's facts. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 04:07 PM |
| 3 | How many partners have you had and what is your mentality like?I tried to write a post a handful of times and then gave up. I do think my experience is valuable as I have actually turned my life around, it was a real process. It's just that half-way through writing the post, I always think to myself that no one actually cares and if anything, my target audience aka incels are some of the most dense people on the planet. I'm gonna think about it | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Are some of you guys still finding success with Tinder? I am shocked.Yeah, makes sense. It's just that I expected to get matches easily, based on my real life experience. I guess the competition on Tinder is fierce and a profile put together in 30s just doesn't hold up | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle overwhelming self critical thinking due to regrets/sorrow haunting the mind?Well, I've been there. The whole nine yards, the failure, the lies, the inceldom till mid 20's. The feeling of despair that I'm already fucked for ever and that the mountain in front of me is insurmountable. That prompted thoughts of suicide yadda yadda. Well guess what, I'm doing great now years later. I could give you a ton of advice and shit, but the number one advice I would give you in your situation is to LEAVE. Listen, you can not grow in an environment that is toxic to you. Worse, you ar… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 12:54 PM |
| 1 | OLTR Had a dreamLiterally ignore. Sometimes my girl is upset because she had a dream where I cheated on her and she can't shake the feeling when she wakes up. She feels anxious and sad. I just ignore it, proceed as normal or even tease her a bit and she goes back to normal. It's like when a kid falls but it doesn't hurt. If you start panicking and anxiously ask him if he's okay, the kid'll start crying and get scared. If you just tell the kid "oh you're fine, it's nothing, come on get up", the kid will pause an… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Should you tell your gf you cheated for the sake of being honest?It all depends. You can not say that the relationship is over. It's all contextual. I've cheated on my girlfriend, but our relationship was in a weak state when it happened. We met abroad and didn't know if we would pursue it. And she had done something that made me not trust her at the time. We were together for 5 months, and I cheated 4 times in about a month, with 3 chicks. I feel guilty about it. I frequently think about telling her. She has no idea. I went as far as telling her I flirted wi… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Tired of Sex Denials with LTRYou're missing the point. You guys don't live together, and you're having sex about twice a week. A lot of women have a refractory period, they want a day or a couple days between sex. If you were living together then I'd agree that twice a week is too low and I'd be asking for more. But you are not. And that doesn't mean that everytime you see each others it's sessions of sex and again and again, it doesn't work like that. I'll tell you it's fucking rare for a LIVE IN LTR to have sex more than … | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 11:49 AM |
| 1 | "I can take a lot of pain."If you can rise up to the task and take her like she deserves to be, you may have found a nice sub slut. Great addition to anyone's life. I turned my gf into a sub slut in the bedroom and it's the best sex ever | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 06:23 AM |
| -1 | Girlfriend away for a week at a seminar, not sure what to think of all this.What is this high school? She's doing an apprenticeship. Half school, half work. Youre in the wrong section anyway No I'm not, thanks for introducing yourself as an idiot. So youre essentially saying youre a young jealous insecure over protective guy who doesnt like the idea of trusting his girlfriend out enjoying herself. Ad hominem straight away. Nothing over protective in my behaviour. Shows that you either A) didn't read, or B) is just out here to be insulting, which is a common occurence on… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 06:26 PM |
| 3 | LTR might be a drama magnet at her job.Reminds me of my sister. In her case that's because she has a huge ego and she thinks everything revolves around her. So it becomes another way to talk about herself and her life. It's like everyone should care about what's going on between her and X coworker | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Before I met started dating my LTR she was a whore and a plate to local guys I knew.Dude honestly it's a case by case scenario. Some girls who are even massive, massive sluts outside of a relationship make good girlfriends if they're with the right guy. What's happening to you is that you simply are aware of her sexual history. Most guys who meet a new girl have to trust her words but don't actually have a fucking clue about that vacation she went on 3 years before and got a train ran on her. Also your girl sleeping with a couple of your mates doesn't make her a whore. What mak… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How long would it take to build a decent physique (something that would make you look better than like 60-70 percent of guys out there)Oh yeah for sure it's not equal for everyone, but regardless, in a year with good diet you'll get great results | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 10:28 PM |
| 9 | How long would it take to build a decent physique (something that would make you look better than like 60-70 percent of guys out there)It's not controversial. One year of regular training AND a controlled diet will absolutely put you in the 10%. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 02:59 PM |
| -3 | How do I get better at sex for myself and for my girlfriend?Honestly, I'm gonna get downvoted for this, I don't put condoms with a LTR. Stick your dick in raw pussy you'll never go soft again. I mean, it's supposed to be just you and her, and if she's not 5 days before and after ovulating, there is ZERO chance to get her pregnant. I mean even if she was, pulling out BEFORE you fucking cum is a legit method. You should really inform yourself and read how are babies conceived. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | What are clear signs your girlfriend has lost attraction/interest, and what is just being paranoid?I mean it's a temporary thing. We were living together, and I'm moving back in early February. I think I'll try to put on my best self for the weekend where I'll visit, hopefully find that spark again. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 03:38 PM |
| 7 | How do I get better at sex for myself and for my girlfriend?Well, practice makes perfect. I was kind of in the same boat as that I started having sex really late in my life and my first experiences I had ED. Sex isn't hard, but you gotta get your mind in the right place. To achieve that, you should keep sex SIMPLE for now. If you try too much new shit at once, you will fail again and it will destroy your mental, which will destroy your dick. So try to have good basic simple sex, and get comfortable with it. What are the requirements for good, simple sex?… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?She has no idea. Although she noticed a couple times something was wrong but she forgot about the first time and the second time she asked me to explain myself and I told her that the girl was making moves on me but I didn't do shit. It was all one night stands, all of them happened while partying with my Chad friends. Basically I know 3 guys who are obsessed with girls and are very good at getting them and making things get out of control. I get laid every time I go out with them, because we al… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Did this girl cold approach me last night?It was. If you're getting attention now, you'll get it again. Back in my incel days I legit let a hot babe escape when she made not one but three obvious comments about sleeping in my bed, visiting my "sex cave", and telling me even my elbow is sexy af. It's a learning curve, you're getting attention, you'll be fine | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Couldnt fit my dI had this problem the first couple times. Thought it was because of my above average dick. Yeah, it wasn't. You just didn't prepare the girl. Kissing is not enougj, especially one hour of kissing, it's too long and she'll lose the heat eventually. You need to touch her clit, put saliva down there, slip a finger to start opening her, etc etc. Trust me your dick fits even in the tiniest girls. She probably realized you were a noob and she didn't want your bad dick anymore. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Feeling super annoyed and bitter after trying Tinder for about 3 weeks.Shut up lmao | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | LTR trying to make me jealous with a nice guy?Doesn't necessarily mean anything. Sometimes my girl will say to me "oh he is a cutie", talking about a guy who's very sweet or very nice, and in her language it means that she thinks of him as nice and sweet and likes his behaviour. That's totally okay. Nowadays I dno how interaction s go with younger ppl but they seem to use the word love very lightly and they use millions of heart Emojis | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?I mean yeah they rate on the absolute scale on lookism which means 8 and above is reserved to male models, so their rates are usually low. Honestly IOI's are very dependent on exposure though. Like the average man doesn't really put himself in any situation s where he is susceptible to receive IOI unless he's remarkably beautiful or stands out. That doesn't mean that you couldn't thrive in the right setting. That's pretty much my casw except I do get some IOI here and there, mainly in public tra… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?I think I'm slightly below average, but I got a halo effect due to good body, decent facial hair, good skin tone and perfect teeth, and nice eyes/eyelashes. Like honestly my nose and my chin are shit tier, I have no chin, and a long nose with a bulbous tip AND a little bifid nasal tip. Like from some angles my nose looks ridiculous. Trust me I know all about the blackpill, facial attractiveness, true ratings etc. I posted on lookism a long time ago, I was rated 4 to 5, with potential for rhinopl… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?Ass in question https://imgur.com/a/thtOd6P She's got that tiny waist to fat ass ratio, no cellulitis, great legs, and nice b cup tits with ghost nipples. From the face she looks like Diane Kruger and Margot Robbie mixed. Also has perfect skin all around | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?Not sharing a pic of my face on here sorry. I look arabic although I'm indian mixed, with a nice smile and just about decent eyes. I have a weak lower third with a weak chin from profile but my face looks pretty structured from the front with wide cheekbones and a strong trained masseter. Here's what my body looks like unflexed and without a pump. Actually put on an extra 5 lbs since but I cba getting a pic. https://imgur.com/a/LphCHft | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 11:31 AM |
| 33 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?Absolutely. I mean not incel to Chad, I have a couple Chads as friends and honestly I don't compare. But I went from incel to a good spot in 2,5 years. Was a virgin till late 25 lol. Now I have a 16 n count eventhough I've been in a LTR for 1,5 years, and "only" cheated 4 times. So went from real incel to 11 girls in one year more or less. It feels really weird honestly, because I remember thinking that I would never have sex, and never find a girl, about suicide and all that shit. Used to feel … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 09:03 PM |
| 6 | If prostituition became legal in the future, do you think we would see more men preferring to pay for sex instead of playing these "games" with women just to sleep with them?I mean yeah if you're extremely rich it's probably different because at this point you can have the girl over for a week end or a week and it's a different vibe. But if you're just a one time client, she'll give you the illusion but not more. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | LTR at office christmas partyBro, girls get horny when they are tipsy. All that happened is that the party was a bit boring to her but there was alcohol and she got tipsy and wanted to come home and get railed. Happens to my girlfriend often, she'll go out with her girlfriends for a drink and come home super early while the others go to a bar or something because she's feeling frisky and she doesn't really like bars and clubs. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 03:13 PM |
| 2 | LTR at office christmas partyThis man. Having a cold in winter and staying home is basically beta maxxing. After this call your girl is most likely gonna dump you. I'll give it a week. As we speak she's rolling in her co-workers' cum like it's snow. It's all over. F | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 03:10 PM |
| 11 | If prostituition became legal in the future, do you think we would see more men preferring to pay for sex instead of playing these "games" with women just to sleep with them?Bruh I banged a high end hooker, sure she was mega hot and it wasn't mechanical and we chatted naked in bed and it was like a fun hookup. But that's nowhere near the best sex you will ever have. Not even close, it's good sex at best, and it costs 400$ per hour | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 03:03 PM |
| 4 | If prostituition became legal in the future, do you think we would see more men preferring to pay for sex instead of playing these "games" with women just to sleep with them?Hahahaha are you aware that prostitution in legal in many countries already? For having lived half my adult life in a country where it's illegal and the other half in countries where it's legal, it's the exact same thing. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | My Beta behaviour was starting to ruin my relationship. Girlfriend gave me plenty of warnings. I decided to remove myself from the situation for now, thoughts?She is like any other in that aspect, it's just part of being a woman, it's an evolutionary trait. However she is not my first lay at all and not my first relationship either. I am very aware of what a normal relationship is like, what most girls provide to their boyfriend and it's the reason why I said she was the "unicorn" type. I don't believe in unicorns but I know a good girl when I find one, and she's proved it plenty. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 01:17 PM |
| 1 | My Beta behaviour was starting to ruin my relationship. Girlfriend gave me plenty of warnings. I decided to remove myself from the situation for now, thoughts?As I wrote in a comment above, I decided to take a change in career path in 2015 and travelled around the world until april 2018. I blew all my savings on it but it was the experience of a lifetime and I don't regret it one bit, because I might not get the chance to do it again, so better do it while I'm young. Edit: And I did not move for "pussy". I visited 53 countries in my life and I have made it a life goal to live different lives in different places. I saw an opportunity to start over some… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | My Beta behaviour was starting to ruin my relationship. Girlfriend gave me plenty of warnings. I decided to remove myself from the situation for now, thoughts?I don't trust her words, I trust 600 days of observation and living together. My girlfriend has never done a single weird thing in the whole time we have been together. Not a single weird contact popping up, a weird look at someone, no disrespect, no lie, no not texting or not knowing where she is. No getting drunk and partying with her friends in clubs etc. I mean at some point, either you're going to be paranoid or you have to trust the other person. You can't be together 24/7 anyway, and what… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | My Beta behaviour was starting to ruin my relationship. Girlfriend gave me plenty of warnings. I decided to remove myself from the situation for now, thoughts?You guys are a funny bunch. Long distance orbiter lmfao. Fucked this girl hundreds of times, in ways and places you have never fucked. She's a solid 8, and very high chance that she's hotter than any girl you have ever fucked let alone LTR. I went on a 5 months long road trip and moto trip with her, while you take your date to Mc Donald's. I'm such an orbiter that she dropped 500$ on my birthday as a 22 yr old girl without income. I got her 60$ shoes. Anyway, I don't mind advice, but stay in you… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 07:26 AM |
| 6 | My Beta behaviour was starting to ruin my relationship. Girlfriend gave me plenty of warnings. I decided to remove myself from the situation for now, thoughts?It seems like that but honestly even if she eventually went out of the picture, what I'm doing here is worth it. I've been accepted at a very good school that will give me a great career, and the only requirement is that I get to C1 level before July 2019 which I'm on track for. I also had nothing attractive for me at home, all my friends live abroad or far, and I had been travelling since 2015 so I have very few ties left anywhere. I would never have moved if I didn't get accepted in the school… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 12:59 PM |
| 4 | The quality of sex you get from a woman is based on her chasing your validation.Agree, usually looks like a warzone after we're done, it's almost always the best sex. Only issue is that you can't go very long cause the dried blood makes it rough pretty quick. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Did I have an absolutely terrible sex experience, or is something wrong with me?Don't sweat it, it's not what sex is like. You just went somewhere to lose your V card with some random girl you had no connection with and wasn't even close to the pornstars you usually fap to. You were stoned, you got into a bunch of new stimuli, so you couldn't focus on the experience at all. Like there are too many factors at play here. When you actually get sexual experience, and then you find a girl you're attracted to, and there's the whole chase, the anticipation of the sex to come etc, … | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 07:16 PM |
| 2 | If you could work remotely and live anywhere in the world, where would you live and why?The Recipe. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 07:42 PM |
| 2 | If you could work remotely and live anywhere in the world, where would you live and why?Spanish girls are so beautiful. In Granada, I have never seen so many beautiful young girls at once. Just groups of babes | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 07:42 PM |
| 7 | If you could work remotely and live anywhere in the world, where would you live and why?It's not the same dollar mate.. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 07:40 PM |
| 2 | If you could work remotely and live anywhere in the world, where would you live and why?Been in Byron Bay, it's really nice but I honestly got tired of the people. Everyone there is acting like they're mystical beings and super deep when they're actually extremely narcissistic and quite shallow. It's like let's be hippie to post it on instagram. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | If you could work remotely and live anywhere in the world, where would you live and why?Disagree. I have been all over SEA for almost a year, and for me white, latinas, and arabic women are far, far more beautiful. Plus SEA women have no idea how to wear make up. They're easy but not very attractive. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | If you could work remotely and live anywhere in the world, where would you live and why?Women are ugly over there though. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 07:34 PM |
| 1 | where's the difference between a healthy gut feeling and straight up paranoia?I think eventually you'll get past it. After I swallowed the pill I was single for a while and it seemed fine. Then I got into an LTR and I became paranoid and anxious af. I would replay scenes at night and overthink every little thing she did. And I would always has this sinking feeling. Her going to work made me feel bad. Now it's been a year and I don't give a shit anymore. I'm only observing what's there to observe and I don't fantasize adultery for no reason. Even when she goes out for drin… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Temporary Long Distance (6 weeks)Hey don't sweat it. Dudes here going to tell you that she's a whore and you're a cuck, but in real life these things happen, people work, people have friends etc. Your girl will definitely want to go out with the people she met. There is nothing you can do about it. You shouldn't even be upset about it, you would want to do the same. There's a good chance she won't cheat if you have a strong presence in her mind and there's a chance she will. You will never control that and you'll probably never… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | How do I create a large social circle where I am the leader?I can tell that you're really into the Incel/Chad dynamic. I can also tell that your hobby of orthodontics is just you watching videos on youtube and reading a bit about it. That's not a hobby. There's a huge potential of this whole post being bullshit. With that body and money, 3 lays means that you're either lying, or a complete creep. All you need to do to get laid if what you say is true, is to make some friends and go to some festivals. You could be at 10% success rate. I'm a former incel b… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 01:53 PM |
| -6 | Broke up with LTR of 2 years... BUT..Stfu you're a lowlife virgin who only comments retarded negative stuff without anything to back it up. You probably never dated anyone, and you reek of anger phase | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Confessions of a guy that has ruined his mental game with Hookers, Steroids, Videogames, Drugs, Porn and in general taking the easy way out.Honestly when I get to this point, if they're clean, not hideous and have a pulse, I'll pound it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/18 09:53 PM |
| 7 | Confessions of a guy that has ruined his mental game with Hookers, Steroids, Videogames, Drugs, Porn and in general taking the easy way out.What I meant is this guy said being "hypersexual" after 2 weeks of no fap is not a sign of balance. I'm sorry but when you're an active young man, after 2 weeks without any action you become very easily aroused, and that's natural. That's not being hypersexual,and that's not a symptom of something being wrong. I think it's actually healthy. So saying hypersexuality is "proof" that something is not right, is bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/18 05:32 PM |
| -5 | Confessions of a guy that has ruined his mental game with Hookers, Steroids, Videogames, Drugs, Porn and in general taking the easy way out.Got that proof out of your ass? It's the same for me, I need a couple weeks to reset. After that I find everything really stimulating, text, imagination, just a girl with a bit of skin showing etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | She doesnt do any work in bedTeach her, lead her, ask for specific things. Move her around, show her videos, whatever. I trained my girlfriend from a very vanilla and boring lay to my best fuck. It took me months, and I did all the work. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 09:59 PM |
| 11 | Friends sister (HB9) is dating a 6/10 (at best) betaAlpha widowed at 18, come again. Especially if her ex was this young as well, he wasn't even a man yet, let alone an alpha. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Examples of high SMV girlsYeah lol, everything is rated at least 1 point too high. The 7 row even has some 5s in it. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 07:26 PM |
| 9 | Why do I feel like nofap fucked me up?NoFap is bullshit, going for weeks/months without a release, if you're not getting laid? Nope. I found what worked best for me, was to masturbate once a week to clear the pipes. After 2 weeks my semen literally gets yellow, it's just not healthy. But not fapping often is great, I have much more energy and motivation when I abstain. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | After my GF got annoyed at me, she been acting distant. How to handle?You dun goofed. Frankly the only thing you can do is let her come around, then have a quick talk about it like adults and forget about it. Nothing you can say right now will change the fact that she's pissed off and reasonably so. Give it a couple more days, invite her over. Get her at ease, give her some comfort, if she warms up, fuck her real good, aftercare, done. Never talk about it again | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?I've never said blowie in real life, ever. Just a random shortcut I took | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 10:15 PM |
| -1 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?She told me what she doesn't want me to do to her, your logic is flawed here. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?You know, at some point that advice becomes really hard to apply. I don't text her that much anyway, but my girl texts me about her daily stuff constantly. She'lls text me at 11 am, then at 1 pm, then at 4 pm, then at 10pm again. I can't just pretend to ignore everything, I have to text back, we use whatsapp, with read notifications and all. I whatsapp with all my friends, parents etc, so if she sees me online and I ignore her completely, it defeats the point. I just make sure I stay interesting… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?That's where you're wrong. 1.She's no too young to LTR. I'd rather have a LTR who's young and fit and has the requirements for an LTR than try my luck with an alpha widowed or heavily damaged older girl who will also be less fit. My girl sees my as a god, I taught her how to live properly, I'm definitely the alpha of her life, and she treats me very very well. Believe me, her n-count is most likely true. I don't know what you believe, but girls with lower n-counts at this age are VERY RARE, espe… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?I'm 27, she's 21,5. She's had 10 partners, two teenage "long term" bfs, 1 guy who "used her for sex", and then she admitted to trying to ride the CC to see what's out there and had 6 guys in 4 months, 5 ONS and 1 guy she dated a bit then dropped. I know for a fact that she had 3 guys in two months before me, so it seems to match. She said she didn't want anything serious when we met, I said fine, and in the end she never slept with anyone else and she caught feelings. It's all from her mouth ofc… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?Right. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?Yeah I'm dumb. To be honest she lets me do all kinds of stuff and more than I ever thought she would be open to try. I just brought up the ripped jeans fantasy and she said she was gonna wear only the jeans she doesn't like anymore from now on so that whenever I feel like acting on it, it can feel spontaneous. Basically gonna rip her jeans around the ass and pussy and gonna demolish her. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?Haha, I saw that she was interested in my asshole. Eventually I asked her if she wanted to try licking it, and she was like "I don't mind, only if you want me to". She wouldn't say that she really wanted to, pretended that it was my idea. She was really shy about it at first, then I told her to get in there and go for real. To be honest I enjoy it but I would need another girl sucking me or fucking me at the same time. It kind of tickles too | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?Point taken. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?You would lose all your money. My girlfriend didn't even like sex from behind when I met her. She had never tasted cum, she said it looked disgusting. She had never had unprotected sex, and she had "rough sex", only once. I asked her what she meant by rough, she said it was fast and hard, and he pulled her hair and held her arms. I know for a fact that this is true because she was actually dating a guy I knew, and I got from his own mouth that the sex was boring, that she was often refusing dogg… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend said sex with me has a lot do to with love for her. Am I reading into it too much?Guys like you are a meme at this point. Yes I have a girlfriend, and yes we text. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Normal to skip anger phase?I'm in the same boat. I was at rock bottom when I found TRP so what would I be angry about? Being still an incel but knowing it's mostly because I'm a loser? I knew that already. Now that I'm in a relationship, I am much more sensitive about AWALT and hypergamy because I know it applies to my girlfriend too and it pisses me off. Wish I could be in peace | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 06:09 PM |
| 13 | Be the hero in your own story, not the cuck waiting at homeThe thing is, if we assume AWALT to be true, this is a reality that we have to accept. The only other option is to not play the game and never get into a LTR. The thing is that for people like me at least, I find something in LTRs that I simply can not overlook. The intimacy, the complicity. Casual relationships can not bring those pn the same level, and also I'm not able to have these in sufficient abundance to feel satisfied, simply because I'm not a womanizer. I wish I could bang an interesti… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on living 2 hours away from my girlfriend?The thing though is that my girlfriend is studying to be a nurse, but it takes place in highschool. It's not like college at all, there is ONE class of 27 people, 7 guys and 20 girls. I already have seen 5 of the guys from pictures, they're no match for me. Plus honestly I'm a sex god with a big dick, it's gonna be tough for a dude to match me there. And she still lives with her parents, in a catholic household. All her family knows me, all her friends know me, and she's chatted with the girls f… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 08:52 AM |
| 2 | What's your take on living 2 hours away from my girlfriend?That's the option I'm considering. She's LTR material, but going through this may just deteriorate the relationship. Could be worth it to end it and try again maybe when the time is right. Or not. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on living 2 hours away from my girlfriend?You're wrong because you assume that the core of red pill has anything to do with whatever you've set as your definition of it. The redpill also applies to marriage, should they not live together then? If you can't respect that everyone has a different view of relationships and what they want from them, you'll never be able to give relevant advice. The red pill simply gives you guidelines on how to make the most of your relationships the way you desire. TRP is a tool, not the product. For me, sh… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | What's your take on living 2 hours away from my girlfriend?It's for 1,5 years. We could actually reduce the distance to 1h, if we both decide to move 30 mins closer to each other, which could work. And I will have 6 months of internship where I mostly decide where I go, so I'd probably do a good bit of it in her town. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I keep hitting it off with women that have boyfriends, i do not know why. Help!Same here, I attribute it to the fact that I am very fun to be around in the beginning of a relationship, because I'm well traveled, well spoken and funny/witty. So you get this kind of halo effect of novelty that she hasn't had in a long time in her relationship. You could be the same | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 10:19 AM |
| 9 | Suspect my plate fucked my roommateShe very likely slept with him. Her bringing up the topic of your roommate and her friend hooking up straight away was an attempt from her to test the waters and see if she could relax after that because it was in her head. When you brought up the shoe thing, since you didn't explicitly accuse her of being there the last time, she tried to play it off cool but her body betrayed her. It's almost always a very telling sign. Plus her being more talkative and animated was just her trying to give her… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 10:14 AM |
| 9 | Fucking A Girl Within Hours Of Meeting HerI have to agree, don't know if it's the kind of girls I met, but since I've stopped being an awkward inexperienced fuck, after I kiss a girl I pretty much always fuck her. The only exceptions are dancefloor makeouts, which I don't really get that much anyway | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/18 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Just recently I got access to my GF's phoneOh wait what? You keep contradicting yourself. Earlier you said she sebt those messages before you two were together. Now you said she sent them after. If she sent any of those messqges AFTER, she's a huge slut and you need to hard next. If it was before, it's just a girl living her single life | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 06:56 AM |
| 2 | I hate that TRP is the truth, but it is.Might not be over, it happened to me in my current LTR and I used TRP to fix it and it totally worked. Girlfriend went from cold, distant and easily irritated, always "tired" and "just in a bad mood", to being so needy and clingy that I have to tell her to chill with the affection and the attention demanding. Hell she never wanted sex more often than twice a week. She's actually so into me now that she feels physically indisposed when she feels like I'm not satisfied with something. She cried a … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 02:30 AM |
| 1 | The 5 stages of becoming a redpill AlphaTo be honest dude, I feel like this is hamstering. I think that way because it happens to me, but I realized it's only because of lack of exposure. I'm still in a LTR right now but I fuck around. I felt sometimes that I don't really see the point in casual sex, but that only happens when there isn't much stimulation around. When my girlfriend isn't here and I don't fap for a few days, the moment I spent a few hours around hot young girls partying or doing whatever, I get incredibly horny. I can'… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Look too much like a fuckboy?Should trust me more than the bazilion of guys who come here and post like they're the epitome of today's masculinity. Real successful men don't browse TRP. At least I am honest on what I am and my progress. And I can assure you that I do better than the vast majority here now, I just don't bother posting. And my girlfriend is an actual hottie, not a hb5 boosted to a "solid 8" because no one admits failure on TRP. And I count guys who slept with hundreds of women as my friends, I know what advic… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 03:27 PM |
| 8 | How to Pick Up Women; as in, How to Lift Them Up, during the actIs this satire or TRP has become this pathetic? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 08:56 AM |
| -2 | Look too much like a fuckboy?You can be that without being a fuck boy. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 08:48 AM |
| -5 | Look too much like a fuckboy?Being called a fuckboy is a good thing, being one isn't. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 08:26 AM |
| 45 | Get Your Fucking City On Lock, The Benefits Are Endless.His advice is sound, doesn't mean that he has the will power to use it for himself. Learn to take good advice when you see it. I was incel for the longest time and trust me, I had very good advice to give simply because I am socially and emotionally smart and read a lot. I was still an incel though. Anyway, if your adventure is satisfying you right now, enjoy it, but I think it should remain a short, fun venture. Not much real value to be gained there. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 08:09 AM |
| 2 | I asked my friends (girls): dadbod or aesthetic?I know three guys who don't lift becausz they're already very sure of themselves. Two of them are facially attractive, the third one isn't, but all three of them have layed 100 to 200 women. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | What is your skincare regiment?I went through an 8 months mid-low dosage cycle of accutane. I prefered the longer cycle and mild side effects from low dosage. Truth is, I barely noticed I was taking accutane. Jusy had to put some lip balm, that's IT. Had acne for 26 years. After accutane I got one small pimple in the last six months, and people complimentmy skin... | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Mentioning your girlfriend, yes or no?I'm not in college, and I'm not on a campus, so what the hell are you talking about? | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 05:49 AM |
| -1 | Mentioning your girlfriend, yes or no?Yeah I take my precautions, otherwise it's just dumb | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | How is being free supposed to feel like?I've been through all that shit being a former late life incel. You only resent women when you're not getting any. I love women when they're slutty and they flirt and there's this little game between you. It only sucks when it never happens to you. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 03:46 AM |
| 2 | I repeatedly cheat on my gf, but I can't tolerate any of her smaller mistakes. Is this hypocrisy?That shit gets old. Not all women straight up sleep with a dude after they meet during the day. She could have chosen to not tell me anything tbh, I was never aware of it, I doubt there was more to it, especially since she was staying at my friends' place during that time. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 03:25 AM |
| -1 | I repeatedly cheat on my gf, but I can't tolerate any of her smaller mistakes. Is this hypocrisy?To be honest I thought about it more, and I don't care if I'm being a hypocrite. I can have the relationship I want to have. If she cheats behind my back and I never even suspect it, it then wouldn't affect me. She doesn't have a fucking clue about what I do and that's why I do it. Because it doesn't hurt her. And if I get mad when I learn she did something, it's right. Because she would too, and I'll never be 100% sure | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Should I ever act like I crave her affection?Yeah, that's what I do. I was just frustrated because it's not what I truly feel like, but I guess it's not that kind of relationship. I'll just play my part right. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Should I ever act like I crave her affection?I'm obviously fucking her | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Should I ever act like I crave her affection?Yes obviously I should've clarified. We've been fucking for 2 months and she's been exclusive from the get go. We're in a relationship although we've never really had "the talk". She tried to play no strings attached but she wanted me to be exclusive after I slept with another chick because she cared too much. I agreed to it because I care as well and seeing her hurt made me feel bad. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 08:27 PM |
| 3 | There is literally nothing worse than being a late in life male virgin...You have no choice but to focus on the present and make the most of it. Look at my username. I used to be a 26 yr old virgin, like you. Now my girl is a 20yr old hb8 with a pornstar ass and I fuck her every day. Yesterday she pissed me off so I went out and anal fucked an acquaintance of her who escorts sometimes and gets paid 500$ an hour for it. I only came back this morning and she apologized then sucked my dick, and then I fucked her through the bed frame. Then she ordered ubereats for the b… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 09:30 AM |
| 3 | What's the deal with Tinder? Should I even go on it?Matching is easy. Getting a conversation going is much harder. I get 5-6 matches a day. Rarely ever get much replies, but I've stopped trying. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 11:09 PM |
| 2 | [Method] I have trying out this NLP method called the 'greatest hits' to raise self-esteem and confidence for the past 23 days , and it fucking works. This is how you do it.Exactly. I got a lot of self esteem boost lately from personal achievements. But a single interaction with a girl, which admittedly was pretty brutal, has hit me pretty hard. If all my recent boost in self esteem was based on the validation of others, I'd be shattered right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/17 08:54 AM |
| 1 | What is it when a girl always acts tired/cute around you?I didn't discuss RP. I based my answers on stuff that RP taught me. Like I told her that she wasn't a child and taking responsibility for her shortcomings was the only way to go forward. That shifting the blame onto her manager or whatever was dishonest. The only part where I might have slipped some real RP is when I said that blaming everyone but herself is what women typically do but that I wasn't gonna sugarcoat it for her. I didn't come off as a dick at all, I was actually trying to help her… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 06:41 AM |
| -3 | What is it when a girl always acts tired/cute around you?It mimicks a child basically. Anyway, we had a discussion and I used RP truths to show her that she was hamstering and trying to deny responsibility for her actions on smth work related. She ended up crying and crying and then I kissed her. Then roommate came in and it was super awkward lol. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/17 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?I was disappointed but I still think it's awesome. I really like the intimacy of it and I like to dominate. It's more that I am repulsed by girls attitude rn. I find them entitled, boring and superficial. Not all of them are like that, of course, but I cba finding out rn. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?Yeah, I don't really enjoy talking to girls at the moment unless they're my friends. Like I don't give a fuck about their life and they're way less entertqining than guys. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Telling a girl she's cute - Rejection Therapy Week 6 - Weekly Challenge #59Good on you buddy, but holy shit do people seem cold in Sweden! Here in south america or even in Australia, even hot women will give an enthusiastic answer to a question. | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?Yeah I think it has a lot of truth. I just see them in a pretty negative light at the moment. It probably is amplified by context, because in youth hostels, RP teachings come to life and are really easy to witness. I don't hate them or anything, I just can't be bothered. I might try the super direct route, get what I want or get out. Physically I was jetlagged until yesterday. Probably played a part. I'll try to snap out of it, maybe going out at night will do the trick | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?No I come here for legit advice that makes sense and isn't just trying to dismiss while appearing alpha. Check out kranoss' answer. That's the kind of answer I was looking for and I think it might be just that. I probably read too much RP that I view women in a negative light at the moment and feel like they're not deserving on my efforts. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?No. I absolutely love idiots wasting my time. Wasting your own time buddy. At least I don't try to be a poser on the internet. As if you could, even if you wanted to. Well, it's easy to appear better than others when all you do is brag and pretend. I don't come here to thump on my chest and talk about my success, because I don't need that kind of validation, unlike you. I come here to show my failures and try to improve on them with the help of fellow minded men. You're here to pose, you're prol… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?Actually it's 3 times in 13 days. Which is totally fine and unrelated, I've fapped more in the past. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?I want to know what people think about that, if they had similar experiences etc. Apprently you expect people to follow whatever "advice" you give as gospel, and get mad if they answer back. You sound like a little bitch. At least I don't try to be a poser on the internet. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?Yeah but you actually wanted to do it | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?Fapped 3 times in 11 days, quickies, no porn. Doubt it | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?Problem is it'll feel unnatural. I legit don't want to talk to them. There's a scandinavian blonde who's totally my type, but when I realize what it's gonna be talking to her I'm totally not in the mood. It might be because they're so much younger than I am, like 10 years difference and I honestly dob't give a fuck about what they have to say or who they are. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?No otherwise I wouldn't make a submission here. I've gotten over that kind of shit a while ago. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | How to have a conversation with a womanPersonally really appreciate your posts Woujo. You're one of the rare posters who's not trying to brag or dismiss people to appear "alpha". I'd say some people are too emotionally retarded to grasp all your points and think "uh this is some bullshit, just fuck the ho, downvote". | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/17 09:30 PM |
| 5 | After a year of continuous browsing of /r/ForeverAlone and /r/incels, I have decided to change myself. I'm really hoping that you guys will help me in the transition.Hey bro, former Incel here. I was incel for 27 years. Let me tell you something, the no 1 reason for inceldom is mental prison and self limiting beliefs. You are your own worst enemy. Plenty of girls out there are less critical of you than you are when you think the highest of yourself. My advice is to take baby steps. If you're like I was, your frame and confidence right now are very very fragile. Going too hard too early would just burn you out emotionally and you might just give up due to lac… | /r/seduction | 13/05/17 06:51 PM |
| 13 | Am I missing out by not being on Instagram?Girls will give 0 fucks whether you have instagram or not if you give them the tingles IRL | /r/seduction | 13/05/17 06:34 PM |
| 8 | Why do women like lame orbiters so much?Validation, entertainment, feeling of importance. I'm in a youth hostel rn, eating, and there are these 3 hot british girls. They've been drinking with a bunch of dudes for like 1h30 now. They laugh, they have a good time, they're the center of the attention. Then this super alpha Irish dude came in, instantly went aggressive on the hottest one, sat right beside her and put her arm around her while making loud banter (he's drunk). She's been all about him for 10 minutes now. He insta cucked all … | /r/askTRP | 12/05/17 12:35 PM |
| 7 | How do you get over being alone?An escort to cope with loneliness? Are you trolling? Nothing worse he could do, sex and company are two different things. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 05:12 AM |
| 1 | How tough is it for a guy to go from being a 25 year old virgin to being a slayer?I'm not a slayer, but that's also because I don't feel like plowing tons of women. But I went from 27 yr old kissless virgin to doing well, and I've had 10 partners now, in 2 years. Without even trying, just recognizing the opportunity and not avoiding it. And maybe twice more makeouts / girls I didn't want to sleep with. For me, travelling unlocked it. Since then,I realized I could have been doing this since I was a teen. I just thought I had problems I don't actually have. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Any colognes you guys recommend?Word, I've had hordes of women go nuts over it. I have the intense version. They were even commenting on how disappointed they were when I didn't wear it. L'eau d'Issey Intense by Issey Miyake | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Repost r/sex analysis: do women NOT prefer seeing good abs when giving a BJ? Why?Here's a simpler view. If you have abs, some women will go crazy just for that. Some won't care and very, very few will be repulsed. Source: happened to me, more than once. If you don't, no woman will ever go crazy over your undefined stomach, some won't care and some won't like it. Conclusion : abs>no abs. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | If a girl blasts me with a barrage of shit-tests, I know I'm getting laid. Also, being corny is good + FRAcademic intelligence is one thing, I think for being funny it's more about emotional and social dynamics intelligence | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/17 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Why its not worth being friends with women (As many of you already know)It all depends on how they perceive you. I have a group of friends where I am the youngest and it is 70% females. We all have different personalities, and I clearly identified that to them I'm the guy they can be the most at ease with, the confident, and the guy who's always a good time. But not in a beta way, since they introduce me to their other female friends, they invite me first to all the parties they throw, they always contact me and not the other way, and they're always really, really n… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/17 07:04 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] My First Birthday Post-TRP / Why I Don't Believe in Having Female FriendsThe only part I don't get is "Why I don't believe in having female friends." I didn't see you mention anything about female friends. You talked about a girl you orbited, that's a very different thing. I am leaving to South America in two days, and I went to Paris saturday to stay with my cousin a few days before the flight. I told this female friend of mine I would be in Paris and we should see each others. Well you know what? She invited me over saturday night, and she had organized a surprise … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/17 06:46 PM |
| 1 | 9.5/10 here's how I rejected her.Sounds like some Bret Easton Ellis shit. Funny read. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I get an escort to get rid of my v-card?Didn't make any difference for me. I was 27, and she was a hot girl, not even an escort. What made a difference was getting a girlfriend. THAT is life changing | /r/askTRP | 05/05/17 07:45 PM |
| 4 | "I believe I am weak"Honestly this stuff works. Last year I've tried out all sorts of drugs that I never had tried before and it did give me a different outlook on how I should feel about myself and others. I used to always doubt my worth and feared revealing my true self to others. Thanks to these drugs I realized that it's ok to open up and that it was what I was missing in my life to be happy. I had been unhappy because I always kept the door closed. When I opened it, I only got more love than I previously did, w… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Should I hire a hooker to lose my virginity?Do it. But only to get an idea of how sex works mechanically. For anything else it's useless trust me. It's hard to believe when you're a virgin, but having sex for the first time doesn't feel special and doesn't change a thing. I had sex with an escort a couple months ago to give it a try. Wasn't my first though. I can't remember a damn thing, waste of money. The same day I already forgot about the experience. Sex isn't fulfilling in itself. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 10:02 AM |
| 1 | I get nervous when I feel attractive, how to overcome?I guess as someone else said, I also feel some kind of pressure that I should be opening those girls. BAnd that I'm a bitch if I don't, when to be honest, I don't want to. For example saturday I went to some kind of springbreak party on the beach, and obviously there were tons of girls. I spent most of the time playing sports and using the free kayaks and stand-up paddles they rented for us than interacting with girls. But all everyone ever asked for was "did you hook up with anyone?". When I wo… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/17 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Is HB8 in my class, giving me mixed signals or is she my oneitis? Need another perspective, not sure what to do..I'll add that a girl hitting you up and asking about you etc can also mean no mire than friendship. Had this last year. A girl friendzoned me, I quickly realized it and stopped chasing. She kept calling me on the phone, social media, she even came a long way over to meet me on a weekend. At no point she wanted anything. We just got along very well and both liked each other's company. That's it. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Met very hot/fit girl through old mutual, hit it off, then this..I've had this happen. This is just a typical type of girl that is super annoying and likes to make drama to make her life more interesting. Thinks she is sooo busy and her life is sooo hectic, but she really wants to meet. Until the next random event blablabla. Gets old real quick. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 08:37 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate to sex when you don't have a place?There are always ways for the willing. Last year I was in a hostel, I just took the matress from my bunk bed, put a couple towels on the floor and put the mattress on the floor of the bathroom. Fucked there a few times. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/17 09:04 AM |
| 1 | quitting video games for good help?I was a total addict, no life,whatever. I found out the only way to stop and also not think about it was to remove my pc. I got a Macbook air instead. Gaming isn't enjoyable on it so I just don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/17 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Question about an IOI.if you could read, she's in my group of friends. So I do talk to her | /r/askTRP | 15/04/17 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Question about an IOI.Okay, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/17 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Question about an IOI.Dude I asked a fucking question. You can answer with some decency instead of trying to be an internet little brat. I swear a lot of people who come to this sub legit think they're badasses because they're subscribed to trp. It doesn't work like that buddy. Most of the people that act liek you are little bitches in the real world. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/17 06:10 PM |
| -2 | Question about an IOI.No, it lasted several minutes. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/17 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Question about an IOI.No, I mean I was kinda making some caressing motions, hence the slightly suggestive. And obviously, if she just looked at it, woulmdn't even cross my mind. But I'm talking about 10 mins of regular staring. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/17 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Stop blaming your ethnicity, it's not the problem.That's actually not true, at all. Some of the coolest and hottest women I've met were dating alpha ethnic/mixed race guys. Chads, but still ethnic. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Stop blaming your ethnicity, it's not the problem.Well, to me a woman who instantly dismisses a guy based on his ethnicity is indeed extremely superficial. I get that you're trying to say that all women are superficial, but there is a large portion of them that won't discriminate to that extent. Thus me saying extremely superficial. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Stop blaming your ethnicity, it's not the problem.I'm talking about reality here, if you can't process it, too bad. Trust me if he was a 5'8 115 lbs white guy, he'd actually be worse off than being asian with that frame. Which is something I talk about. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 02:59 PM |
| 9 | Stop blaming your ethnicity, it's not the problem.I don't give a fuck about a girl's race as long as I find her attractive. In fact I find arabic girls to be very very attractive. They usually have a mix of soft and dark features with all the curves you need. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Stop blaming your ethnicity, it's not the problem.Oh sorry you wanted my friend to be short, skinny, asian, ugly and badly dressed. Let's be realistic here. He's still a total manlet with a moderately attractive face and a good sense of style. Point is that he doesn't sees himself as an ethnic manlet, which he objectively is. He seems himself as a smooth operator that is a chick magnet. And he does well with that mindset | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Stop blaming your ethnicity, it's not the problem.Well I still think it's relevant. He has a brother whi's rather ugly and obviously he has less success. But he is also totally introverted. My friend has a rather attractive face, but he's not a model looking guy or anything. And as I said he's so small and skinny most girls are bigger than him. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 02:50 PM |
| 2 | My most attractive online dates gab about themselves like they're on speedWell, how do you NOT lose interest in that case? It has happened to me recently, it was a very attractive girl that I knew was super into me, but going to the date she kept talking about her coworkers, her cat and other dumb shit. I ended up completely spacing out and she realized it. Then I just said I was tired and wanted to go to sleep. At that point I had lost all attraction to her. What the fuck is this, I'm not here to be a spectator of your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Surprising feelings about oneitis.I've got self control because I have had none for years and it got me absolutely nowhere. I was the lamest scrub you can think of no more than 2 years ago and it made me depressed. So something had to change. By the way I haven't stopped masturbating, I still do it mainly because I sometimes wake up in the middle of the night and it's the only thing that allows me to go back to sleep asap. I have just stopped porn. Masturbation isn't unhealthy if you do it a couple times a week. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/17 10:29 PM |
| 1 | If my goal is 100% aesthetics and impressing girls, is it better to cut for summer or continue to bulk and cut for the start of college (5'8, 155, 13-14% BF)From my own experience, being shredded for summer time especially if you go to the beach often with groups of girls is the best thing. There's something about a tan and well defined muscles that attracts women. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/17 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Surprising feelings about oneitis.Yep, it really was closure. All my feelings have vanished since and I can honestly she doesn't matter to me anymore. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/17 10:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of meeting former oneitis as friends?Read your comment again. It's extremely condescending and patronizing. I indeed asked for advice and gave you a whole paragraph of context. You decided to ignore all of this context to spit some generic content while assuming so many things. That's not advice, that's just you having some delusion of grandeur dude. The rest of the people here have given me advice, except one who's talking about another chick (???). | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 05:49 AM |
| 1 | About sex and masturbation.I definitely want to be rougher, and I think it would make me cum faster if I fully embraced it but to be honest, but on the other hand I think it's still on the psychological level. I'm more talking about the physical part here. And yeah I have edged in the past, I can last for however long I want to if I want. Can bust in 30s if I want as well. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/17 09:11 PM |
| 2 | About sex and masturbation.Damn there really is a sub for everything. I'll check it out | /r/askTRP | 14/03/17 09:09 PM |
| 3 | About sex and masturbation.I'll give it a shot to be honest, starting now. Can't hurt. But right now it feels like it's more complicated than that, but I could be wrong. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/17 06:08 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of meeting former oneitis as friends?Problem with TRP is that y'all assume that people who ask questions are delusional children. If I wrote specific things in the post there's a reason. I said I didn't want to try anything and that my attraction towards her was past me. I don't expect shit from the meetup, she's just a cool girl that I've always enjoyed hanging out with. If she told me she had a boyfriend I wouldn't give a fuck. She's just one of the people around London that I know and have contacted because I enjoy seeing people… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Girl I just met wants to come visit meNah nevermind, she had posted the comment 5 times so it was about that. And about the girl, I don't know, it's up to how you feel about her, we don't know enough. She'll probably get clingy but she lives abroad so it's not a big deal of she turns out annoying. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Girl I just met wants to come visit meLmao those comments are golden | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 12:02 AM |
| 38 | How to pick up girls if you're good lookingHoly shit, that's exactly what my friend who's like, a god with women used to say. Sometimes we were hanging out with girls and he'd give them a sexy stare and/or some comment, and then he'd turn to me with a grin and tell me "I'm just throwing some fishing nets, and then see who gets caught". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 11:47 AM |
| 4 | How to pick up girls if you're good lookingIt can be heavily skewed depending on your major. When I studied biology, in some specialties the ratio was something like 75:25 which is ridiculously high. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 11:43 AM |
| 6 | How to pick up girls if you're good lookingIt depends on people really, I have a friend who's last time I went on vacation with had a lay count of 300+ at 30 years old. I had never spent enough time with him to know what he was about, but we spent nearly 2 months travelling together and he fucked maybe 10 girls off the top of my head, and he was a bit frustrated. I realized how different you have to be to ever get close to that lay count. Basically he's in constant seduction mode and when he hasn't fucked for a week it's a big deal for h… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Surprising feelings about oneitis.Well, the thing is that I'm going to London with friends next month and she lives nearby, so I let her know, if she answers I'd be glad to see her, just as friends, she's a cool girl. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Surprising feelings about oneitis.I realize that, post was more aimed at how it seems that bottling it isn't always the best course of action when it comes to oneitis. At least when you don't have abundance, which is of course the best thing. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Surprising feelings about oneitis.Zero. I don't do cold approach. I probably should, I just never felt like I wanted to do it. Not because I am scared or anything, I just rarely ever have the desire to go up to a girl and try to seduce her without knowing anything about her. I don't care enough and I'm not sure if I should force myself to do it. Maybe it's something I would enjoy if I tried it | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Marcus Aurelius said - “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”Thanks bro, I've actually ordered one from amazon yesterday already and also a nostril dilatator, because since I've got elbowed, even when my left nostril clears up a bit, it somehow collapses on itself when I breathe, and it doesn't allow air in. I need to get surgery anyway because of the hit, but I have to wait. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/17 10:09 AM |
| 1 | February 24 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadI've been lifting very seriously, and had a close to perfect diet, eating for fuel and not just for pleasure. I had a very unfortunate injury that prompted me to start meditating to avoid going crazy. And it's been good so far, definitely something I want to explore. Also got my driving license! Due to my injury though, no progress has been made romantically and it'll probably have to be this way for a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 09:06 PM |
| 17 | Marcus Aurelius said - “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”I'll tell you something that is happening to me right now. I have a deviated septum and chronic sinusitis. That means that I always had breathing problems, and if you've never had it, the inability to breathe properly is one of the most mentally challenging thing you can experience. Luckily, it's usually alright to bear. But I currently have a cold, I'm on accutane and I got elbowed in the nose playing basket ball 3 days ago. Now the cold means that I have a shit ton of mucus production, accutan… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | If you're failing with girls... do this one thing.Gomad is straight up intoxication. And yes, milk is unhealthy, so a liter of it every day is extremely unhealthy. Especially if you buy low grade milk, it's full of antibiotics and hormones from the food fed to thr cows. Also milk itself, is not suited for digestion and is a major contributing factor to maby inflammatory diseases, increases insulin, messes with hormonal levels etc etc. Anybody with a good idea of health and nutrition stays away from milk and dairy in general. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Guys...I'm beginning to lose faith*Envy | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | If you're failing with girls... do this one thing.I was solely talking about the milk. | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 04:34 PM |
| 2 | If you're failing with girls... do this one thing.No I don't have any advantage. I'm average height and looks as well, and no status or money. Hell I'm even ethnic and look super arabic although I'm indian mixed. Trust me looking arabic these days is a huge disadvantage in every way. And of course, that forced social exposure would help anyone. I met a guy over there who became my travel buddy and he had a lay count of ~200. He still thought it was amazing to live in youth hostels because he was able to experience lots of new social interaction… | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 08:40 AM |
| 1 | If you're failing with girls... do this one thing.That's extremely unhealthy bro. You're much better off working your way up slowly. I was 123 lbs two years ago and I'm 160 now. I never felt like over eating, just slowly changed my eating habits. I started with having a real full breakfast everyday, then eating slightly more carbs every now and then. Now I can eat 3.5k cals of healthy food a day. If I go dirty I can easily eat 5k. | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | If you're failing with girls... do this one thing.Bro, I have been near invisible online my entire life. If I had to go by that standard, I'd deem myself unworthy of women. Actually for a long time I did, 26 years to be exact, but not because of online dating sites, just because I was lacking any self esteem or confidence. Then about 1,5 years ago now, my life took a turn for the better. I went travelling, and I was forced to be around random girls. I quickly realized that I couldn't live like this anymore, being sorry to be who I am, because w… | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 01:08 PM |
| 2 | If you're failing with girls... do this one thing.More action. Do stuff, stop thinking about doing them. | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 09:22 AM |
| 0 | Funny experience last night with beta orbiterHe didn't do much, to be honest. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/17 04:09 AM |
| 3 | 11 steps how to talk lessWell, to be honest, if you're aware that you're uninteresting and stupid, that's good advice. But some people are great conversationalists, and while they shouldn't just talk and talk, they don't really have a reason to talk less if it's something they're great at. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Just started earning money? Want to buy clothes?Absolutely. I always had great body proportions but was too skinny to fill out the clothes. Now I got the bulk, and still got the proportions, and although my wardrobe is still quite lame, I look good in everything. And I look awesome in great clothes, but only got a few pieces. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/17 09:53 PM |
| 5 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.Starting to watch PIMP. Seems like pretty good material so far. Thanks for the links. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 09:23 PM |
| 2 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.Yeah I totally suffer from imposter syndrome. I think I need a good streak of positive experiences to finally get rid of it. It's hard when it's been hardwired into my brain for 26 years. And try to go for the smaller gyms. The gym I'm at now has a small and outdated front, you wouldn't even check it if you passed by. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 08:54 PM |
| 1 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.Good for you? That's irrelevant to the topic. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 08:51 PM |
| 3 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.You're probably the only one yeah, because you're probably the only one who can't read. She paid for the drinks. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 07:00 PM |
| 4 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.I have no idea, just some guys who definitely said stuff to each others about us. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 06:40 PM |
| 14 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.I think why I didn't feel that I could do it confidently was because the context was entirely new to me. I've never been on a formal date, imagine that. I don't even think that it's because she was so hot in retrospective, that didn't really weigh in that. It's just that it was the first that I was in a situation where it was kind of expected of me to seduce her, which felt weird to me. Usually when I feel that I want to seduce a girl, it's an organic process that comes naturally to me, not a se… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 06:36 PM |
| 10 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.Thing is, I'm not actually starved on knowledge. It's just that my inner game isn't there yet and I can't seem to be able to apply it at will. Sometimes I manage, but it's usually with girls that I find are in my league. There was too much at once there, it was the first formal date I've been to, with one of the hottest girls I've met let alone talked to. I had to stick with the basics. It's hard to implement new parameters in a setting that's also entirely new. Usually you get good at something… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 06:31 PM |
| 31 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.That's true, now that I think about it, she really had no reason to say that at all. She must've appreciated me in some way. The thing is that I'm actually really confident that I am an interesting and "special" person. Even when I was at my worst in life I always held that belief and a lot of people have told me this throughout my life. But somehow I can't seem to transition that belief into dating. Like I feel I'm a great person, but when it comes to interacting with girls in the context of se… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 06:26 PM |
| 18 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.Yeah, I'll see where this goes. I don't think I want to contact her again though, at least not before a week or two, if she does then of course I'll reply positively. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 06:20 PM |
| 29 | First date with instagram "celebrity" update.I don't give a flying fuck if the gym members are hot or rich to be honest, I only care about good equipment and good training conditions. I just hate the big brand gyms where staff members are either completely useless or downright rude. And there is usually too much traffic, and not a remarkable atmosphere. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/17 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Girl is sending texts before the date, should I answer or ignore?Yeah I sent that. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 01:13 PM |
| 2 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.Your first comment still doesn't make any sense to me. You're trying to be witty but it's just non sense, might wanna express yourself in simpler turn of phrase. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 11:27 AM |
| 1 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.what? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | I need some advice to give my life purpose and directionIf you're still depressed, I think it's about time you tackle it. We're all different, but there are definitely factors that seem to help everyone affected by depression. Such as being socially active, loneliness is the number one cause of depression. You need to see people and interact with them as often as possible, and throw any excuse not to out of the window. Exercising, as well as being outdoors in general and in the sun. It lifts your mood, balances your hormones and frees your mind. Bein… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 03:04 PM |
| 1 | I need some advice to give my life purpose and directionYeah that's true, it's kind of a stupid question I guess. I think I have an idea of what my purpose could be, but I'm not sure yet how to get there. I need to work on myself first. About 2, you're right as well. I excelled until I met people who were equally gifted but had the will to rise above. I didn't. What I meant is that I'm confident that in a field I would enjoy, I could excel, and it is something that is motivating. I still trust my abilities, although so far they ahve gone to waste, an… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm getting rhinoplasty...I've had that self talk a lot, I'm planning on getting chin and nose surgery next year because I'm on accutane right now and I can't. I think that the best way of handling it is simply owning it. Just be honest about it. Good people will just understand. Some will probably act needlessly shocked, confused whatever. Eventually they will stop giving a shit and you'll never be uncomfortable about it because you were 100% honest from the start. So while it might be more uncomfortable at first to jus… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 12:57 AM |
| 1 | My life feels wasted and definitely pluggedDo it. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Intimidated by bigger dudes that can beat me up?Do you mean you feel intimidated even when they're not threatening you? Because there's nothing wrong with feeling intimidated by a guy who is much bigger and looks tougher than you are, if he is trying to intimidate you. Personally I'm not, it's just the way I am. Doesn't mean i wouldn't still get absolutely demolished, but I'm not the intimidated type. Some are and it's natural If he's just minding his own business, then you have a problem. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 12:46 AM |
| 2 | My life feels wasted and definitely pluggedYeah the fact that you're an IT guy makes it harder for you to get rid of the PC. It's actually almost impossible to function properly nowadays without access to a PC or internet. Personally I've solved the issue by getting a MacBook Air. I can't game on it, I could but it's not enjoyable as I was a competitive gamer and you ain't competing on that, and I can still browse internet etc smoothly. Maybe find a similar solution, build yourself a workstation that is unfit for gaming, idk. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 12:40 AM |
| 3 | My life feels wasted and definitely pluggedIt's called gaming addiction. I've had that. Now there is something that gaming addicts know, it's that it feels almost automatic, sometimes you're not even gaming because you want to, but just because you don't know what else to do or you're just too lazy to do anything else. I bet half the time you're gaming, you're still not enjoying yourself and you're bored as fuck. And apparently it doesn't make you happy. Gaming is a HUGE time sink. What worked for me was simply removing my computer. I ju… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 12:29 AM |
| 12 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.Alright hijacking top comment. I'll go, and I'll make an update. I don't know why but somehow the fact that so many people think it's a catfish has upset me. To think that I speak so ill of myself that people are pretty much convinced that I'm being scammed on a dating app because a girl is hot, means I'm pathetic as fuck. I'll stop being a little bitch, maybe I'm just her type, maybe I'm low key hot, who knows. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 11:55 PM |
| 1 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.Honestly why would I do that. She didn't seem any less legit than any other girl I've talked to on Tinder, she just happens to be abnormally hot. Plus 3/5 of her Tinder pics aren't on her instagram, and as I said, I doubt a random catfish has access to her instagram account login and password. Conversation didn't seem dodgy at all, I think I just got lucky because my text game was on point. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.If the date goes fine I'll probably pay for the first round anyway, I enjoy paying for people if I have a good time. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 06:42 PM |
| 2 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.Jeez dude, I was just about to text her some dick picks. Hahaha seriously, y'all acting like this is some hollywood type of scam, I'm just gonna get a drink with her, I'm socially aware. If it's not her I'll just walk away, and if it is, I'll just do my best. I have the knowledge of do's and don't's on first date, just not the experience sadly. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 06:38 PM |
| 3 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.I did not "stalk" her social account, it's literally on the Tinder profile, it's a feature. I suspected she was actually making money off instagram judging by her pictures so I clicked on "see more on instagram" to see what she was about. And honestly I find it condescending when you say shit like "chances are this is a scam", or "you're not getting laid anyway". It has some truth to it, but the actual truth is that you don't know shit about what can or cannot happen. I'm and I will be anxious, … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 06:31 PM |
| 2 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.I guess, I'll just fucking go if it's still on come wednesday. All the best that came in my life was when I decided to be bold. Thanks for the heads up | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 04:45 PM |
| 8 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.It's my first date anyway, so I'm gonna be nervous no matter what | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.That's what I thought, but I doubt it honestly, it seemed pretty legit, even her way of speaking since she's foreign, and her recent pictures are in my city. Plus you have to own the instagram account to be able to link it. Also free meal, ticket or whatever, as I said, she obviously has money and my profile is pictures of me outdoors so it doesn't scream money. I think she's just legit, I just think she's gonna be disappointed, because I do look hot in that picture and she probably based her im… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 03:07 PM |
| 9 | Red Pill truths that "Red Pillers" don't want to swallow.Heh, there are outliers, there always have been. My mom is exactly what you read about in The Rational Male Vol II. My sister though, who is particularly beautiful and smart, a true head turner, is totally a unicorn. I think it's because the first guy she ever slept with and went on to marry for 11 years is a natural Chad coupled with a very good person. He essentially embodies the duality of hypergamy in one person, which could explain why my sister has only known a single guy, never had a part… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My first ever pullNothing happened, I actually got a bit flustered but I'm sure she liked it. Felt like she almost let it happen then at last moment changed her mind | /r/seduction | 02/01/17 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Checking in on socially awkward/low prospect guys.. how did the year with women go?It was a bar, not a party. And I was just sitting with a friend smoking outside. Stop finding excuses, and I don't have to suggest something you can actually do or whatever that's summosed to mean. Are you a man or a wimp? Take control of your own life, only you can decide what you want to do, not me or whoever. | /r/seduction | 02/01/17 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Checking in on socially awkward/low prospect guys.. how did the year with women go?Check my submissions in my profile | /r/seduction | 01/01/17 06:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My first ever pullI can't do that. She lives like 500km away and I have 0 reason to go there and I honestly hate texting, or long conversations on social media unless it's extremely entertaining. I'll lose interest really fast. If she wants to do the work she can, I just can't bother with that. | /r/seduction | 01/01/17 04:58 PM |
| 30 | [FR] My first ever pullTo be honest that's totally how it went down, but I still pat myself on the back for navigating the interaction quite well thanks to some stuff I learned. Especially going for the kiss right at the start, I would never ever have done that like a year ago. I honestly don't think she'd have shown that much interest if I didn't ignore her at the beginning. | /r/seduction | 01/01/17 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Checking in on socially awkward/low prospect guys.. how did the year with women go?Well I went from 27 years old incel to fucking multiple girls, having a girlfriend for a while, falling in love (non reciprocated though duh), getting out of my shell and having the best year of my life. And first pull from random chick ever yesterday night. And actually hot girls. I went through a bit of downs and ups the past 3 months but I'm still doing so much better. It has rekindled hope for my future, but I still go through periods where all the pain I felt in the past comes back and cree… | /r/seduction | 01/01/17 12:07 PM |
| 3 | What is the best thing you learnt this year ? [2016]That I'm not as worthless as I thought I was, and not destined to be alone despite my tendencies to believe all that. | /r/seduction | 01/01/17 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Can you ever be alpha with a beta face?Well it sure is better to accept yourself as you are, plus it's cheaper. But honestly sometimes if you have a blatant facial deformity that really bothers you, and you have the power to fix it, why not? It is a routine operation with low risks and it can totally change a face, especially in my case. I don't think it'll magically change my life but it'll rid me of a complex, which is a topic I'm tackling this year. Feeling better about my looks. Not to mention that girls definitely care about fac… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/16 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Can you ever be alpha with a beta face?Implants are inferior to actual osteotomy. And for the chin it's relatively "cheap*, jaw surgery is very heavy and insanely expensive and I won't do it. There are techniques I'm currently trying out to enhance the jawline, seems to have some slight effects but it'll take time to be quite noticeable. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/16 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Can you ever be alpha with a beta face?Beard is patchy, but true a very short trim does help | /r/askTRP | 30/12/16 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Can you ever be alpha with a beta face?Well you're right, stupid question deserves stupid answers. I guess I'm just mad I don't look classically handsome. It gets hard when you want to improve but one of the main things holding you back is unfixable bar surgery. I actually booked an appointment with max-fac surgeon. Sliding genioplasty on the menu I think. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 08:50 PM |
| 1 | My friend is a real master of game, here is what I picked up from him.Sorry, had a week off reddit :). He just speaks with his face pretty close to yours, not close enough that you feel like backing up, but closer than usual. And he kinda wraps around you with body language. It's just unusual,he does it with girls too. About the sex comments, it's hard giving a good example because it's situational. But let's say it's stuff like the girl is gonna make a comment about how the movie is too long and he'd say "yeah but, the longer the better right?" with a cheeky smil… | /r/seduction | 28/11/16 12:09 AM |
| 9 | My friend is a real master of game, here is what I picked up from him.You're right, I did realize it after writing the post, but thought I light as well submit. Well I can answer a few of those questions. He's 30, close to 31. He told me it wasn't always like this for him, and that the older he gets the easier it is. Basically he says it's easy mode for him now because he has tons of experience under his belt, and he can charm and seduce any girl that doesn't have extremely high standards of looks/status. In short he's a prime example of practice makes perfect. He… | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Is this unethical?Frankly, I know it sounds like he's being entitled, and selfish, but if you have a good friendship with him and you don't see a future girlfriend in this girl, don't do it. Seriously if you know what being super into someone and seeing her with another dude feels like (it hurts really bad) imagine if that dude is your friend. Then imagine if you know that this dude doesn't even feel for her all that much. Just don't hurt him, even if it's not fair. | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Seddit Community - What are your stories?I don't actually practice game, I have never cold approached. I am just starting the journey, I had never had physical contact with a woman for 26 years, then I travelled last year and let go of my anxiety and had sex, makeouts and a relationship. I was never happier in my life, and I want that to happen again. I actually want to learn seduction because I fell in love last year and I think I could have been with this girl if I had known what to do better. She was not indifferent to me at all. I … | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 09:24 PM |
| 1 | How can I cure my ugly duckling syndrome?It's hard, I've gone through that process where my physical appearance visibly improved through grooming and lifestyle and went from invisible to being attractive to women. Honestly what made me actually believe I was finally attractive was basically being chased by a few girls. The problem is as soon as that stopped happening, my beliefs shifted again. I now feel rather unattractive again, although I'm probably the best I've ever been and I even had 2 snaps this week of 2 platonic girl friends … | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 09:14 PM |
| 1 | how many years does it take?Took me a year to be able to hold conversations with girls and have fun with them. I have a friend who seems like he is a natural, but when I asked him, he told me it took him years of practice to become a player. The results are insane though, he's both good looking with insane game and social charisma, he slays like nobody I know. He claims 300 lays and I have seen him get the hottest of girls to melt in his arms in a few minutes. | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Handsomeness Hacks: 52 ways to look more attractive fastWell, hard gaining and paleo at the same time sure is a head scratcher. | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 07:59 PM |
| 10 | Handsomeness Hacks: 52 ways to look more attractive fastEasily one of the biggest points. I dramatically improved my posture last year and 100% of the people believe I have significantly gotten taller, at 27. I mean I went abroad for 12 months and the first reactions of my mom, dad, brother and sister that I have all seen separately were all "Omg you've gotten taller!". (And what the f is that beard lol) Posture of the tongue and neck is also very underrated, I have a weak jaw with a recessed chin, and it's visibly better in a few months of proper to… | /r/seduction | 15/11/16 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Got an HB9 number last night, she was really friendly, texted her last night and didn't get a reply, can this be revived?If she's gotten a lot of numbers, just hope you were the best of them. That's how it works. Useless to text her right now, she's just a random bar girl, hit her up again tomorrow and then move on if she doesn't answer | /r/seduction | 13/11/16 07:30 PM |
| 6 | A Snapchat Guide to Game: How to create captivating storiesI think the post is well thought out and well made. However I'm one of those people who find it rather pathetic when someone is documenting their life on snapchat. Unless someone is travelling somewhere interesting or is doing something awesome, I don't give a shit about what he's up to if it's not adressed to me in particular. Everything else is just a call for attention, period. I have nothing against people who send snapchats, but people who spam their story? It's cringy, it screams narcissis… | /r/seduction | 13/11/16 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Got an HB9 number last night, she was really friendly, texted her last night and didn't get a reply, can this be revived?Just chill, it was just last night, she might've got hammered, and she might just not in be in the mood for texting you right now. If you left a good impression she'll probably reply with something like "sorry we were at X and I was pretty drunk I forgot to respond yesterday, what did you guys do after?". It's probably what her text will be like. If not, hit her up again maybe tomorrow or the day after. | /r/seduction | 13/11/16 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Just a quick tip to somehow assess how attractive you are.Well I'm actually not that afraid of approaching, and I'm not awkward. I just don't enjoy the seduction game that cold approach creates. I have 0 desire to chase after girls to see if they're potentially interested. Like zero. Maybe I'll find that fun one day when I'll be in a different phase of my life. I mean even girls who I know are interested, and I'm interested as well but they like to play games, I just insta next. It happened to me twice, I made out with those girls, we both admitted to … | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick tip to somehow assess how attractive you are.No, I never cold approach, at best I've done warm approaches. I never really gamed to be honest, still new to dating, only met in social setting. | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick tip to somehow assess how attractive you are.Haha who knows, I don't think walking is weird though. | /r/seduction | 10/11/16 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Just a quick tip to somehow assess how attractive you are.Well the fact that they were looking at me the whole time I crossed them means they either noticed me as in "he's worth looking at", or they were just expecting me to acknowledge them and were concerned that I wasn't paying them any attention. Them looking away after I finally check them out usually means "ok he did look at me after all, everything is normal". Sometimes it means other things, but really it's pretty easy to tell what's what. Either way, it means they find you decent enough to ack… | /r/seduction | 10/11/16 09:07 PM |
| 2 | How to stop feeling unworthy?Solid post thank you. Next step is going back to lots of socialising and spending most of my free time outside, it's generally what puts me in a good mindset, when I stay inside too luch, I wither away. | /r/seduction | 09/11/16 10:27 PM |
| 2 | How to stop feeling unworthy?I understand your answer, and I agree with it. It has been the bane of my life. I have irrational fear of many things, and I always gave others too much power over my life by being too afraid of what they think of me. Especially girls. I even am the own catalyst of this, as I minimize any positive influence I receive and literally have my guts knot when something is negative. I believe in everything that is detrimental to me, when the rational thing to do would be to believe in things that help … | /r/seduction | 09/11/16 08:23 PM |
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