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| 336 | There is nothing that can validate cheating, not even in revenge. | DISCUSSION | Independence_BR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 01:27 AM |
| 53 | Criminal Records / RAP sheets = Black Flags of relationships. | DISCUSSION | Independence_BR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Look, a funny meme! ☺️ | REMINDER 👑 | Independence_BR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 11:06 PM |
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| 53 | US-based women who are actively dating/in relationships: Protect your wombDenying the right to abort isn't only against women - It seems to affect women of color with the most force. Not trying to divert the discussion to something about race, but as a woman of color who resides in a deeply racist country (Brazil), it's hard not to point this out. I can't speak for those who live elsewhere but from the news, yeah I get that there's a lot of racism in the US too. Also, this is quite the coincidence, but in the past 24h our supreme court also got a new minister approved… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 03:37 AM |
| 11 | Normalise shaming men with sex and dating app addictions. There’s nothing cool or ‘alpha’ about a man who spends ALL his free time chasing tail like his life depends on itThey do anything to avoid the massive amounts of shame that led to it and that they feel every time they use, which is mostly denying and lying. Exactly. That's why they'll never seek help on their own, they are too scared to even talk about being addicts to porn. Some become addicted to hentai (japanese cartoon porn, in case anyone still doesn't know today...) which is much more embarassing as there are no real women involved, only drawings and quite bad in taste too as there is no boundaries i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 03:24 AM |
| 62 | Porn is the worst template for what real sex is: an exampleLol this scrote is outing himself as pornsick. Porn is why most men are terrible at sex Direct result of patriarchy. It enables them to admit repulsive behavior and still come out on top for some reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 09:13 PM |
| 128 | Porn is the worst template for what real sex is: an exampleSome men must enjoy having things shoved up their ass, so I'll make the assumption that most men I encounter are fine with this according to porn! Sticking a finger up a straight male's ass without announcing it also serves as irrefutable proof they know damn well what consent is! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 09:12 PM |
| 27 | Normalise shaming men with sex and dating app addictions. There’s nothing cool or ‘alpha’ about a man who spends ALL his free time chasing tail like his life depends on itIf a man seems like a prize (well educated, succesful, attractive etc.), why do you think he's still single and not snatched up by someone? Men who have this porn addict mentality never change and if he's well into his late 30s and 40s, he's permanently damaged. Well, that would be a rare sight. Men addicted to porn more often than not are the exatcly opposite of that image - they have the looks and behaviors more closely related to japanese otaku. As for the addiction itself: There are treatmen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:40 PM |
| 77 | Male friends are a myth.I have never in my life had a man try to befriend me who did not end up having romantic or sexual feelings for me. “She’s just a friend” doesn’t work when I know that I was “just a friend” to you too. I avoid forming any kind of friendship with straight males for this reason, only dating. Speaking of, my dating standards are pretty high and, while I do not seek serious engagement from the time being, I wouldn't risk my own well being over... whatever exactly straight males friendship provides. S… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:30 PM |
| 83 | Male friends are a myth.Men don’t seem to understand that it’s not possible to have a platonic relationship with someone if there is sexual/romantic interest on either side. They just see every woman, including their female “friends” as a sexual opportunity. It's worse - some see cousins, sisters and EVEN DAUGHTERS as "sex opportunity". Needless to say, this equates rape in most situations. So yeah, anyone can believe platonic friendships and go around prancing for male "friendship" - I don't and hopefully, never will.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 08:19 PM |
| 8 | It wasn’t and isn’t “a waste”The earlier women quit toxic relationships the better! There is never "too late" to ditch toxic male ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 12:39 AM |
| 44 | Posted in reddit 'Made me smile'. The bar is in hell.they love to cry “wOmeN inItiAte 70% oF diVorCe sO iTs riSky fOr mEn tO maRrY” they never talk about the reason which is caused by them cheating, being lazy, selfish, she’s basically a married single mother - not because he’s sick & vulnerable. Since when do we need a motive to dump their asses? I know I don't - the moment I feel the relationship isn't benefitting me anymore, I ditch. Sure, if marriage enters the equation, you'll need a divorce which is a little complicated, but there is no law … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 01:30 PM |
| 8 | There is nothing that can validate cheating, not even in revenge.Exactly. We don't need to step down to their place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 01:44 AM |
| 55 | Stop having sex with men who can’t master vanilla.I don't think men anywhere would intend to humiliate a female partner unless influenced by porn. I think the mere idea of suggesting this kind of sex is a huge red flag in itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 08:11 PM |
| 55 | Just landed a 6-figure job with a new company. 💅🏼It depends. There's a lot of rich women who behave lapdogs to their employers/brands/etc. They may have money, but said money comes at a cost of what some would call "loyalty". Money can't buy freedom, in fact, most people I see in these situations are pretty much slaves to work. A "loud voice" matters not if you can't speak against people who "own" you by your wage or a business contract. I think this is relevante here, because we shouldn't vinculate womens' freedom to the number on their bank … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 08:06 PM |
| 91 | Porn users will always be NVMMy ex was a porn addict and it influenced his behavior towards women. his male friends don't think its a problem of course Yeah they're also porn addicts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 11:20 PM |
| 87 | Porn users will always be NVMMy only complaint is the term "user" when applied to porn addicts. No one uses porn "recreationally". They use it because their brains are wired to it and they really have very little choice after some point. I used to compare porn with drugs. I don't do it anymore because drugs can have beneficial effects and can be used recreationally, unlike porn, which has 0 (ZERO) benefit for the "user" and is consumed only in order to keep the addiction in check - or not - and never as a form of recreation… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 11:17 PM |
| 48 | Men will date/marry women they aren’t even attracted to/like, if their appearance brings them status.This behavior is also know as "Gold Digging". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Even condom companies say it’s a red flag if a man tells you he can’t feel a thing with a condom onI don't trust them. This is scammy behavior from durex: Condoms are for-males products, which happen to also benefit the women said males fuck. They (brands) couldn't care less about women, however, since they benefit financially from our refusal to have sex with males without condoms, they impersonate/roleplay as females in order to make product placement online. In short they're chasing clout and having females advertise and promote their products for free. Don't fall for this... EDIT: Yeah us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 02:35 AM |
| 9 | PSA: More reasons to turn off your “chat” feature if you’re a user of FDS.I rarely reply. Sometimes with a 😆 or "ok 🤏🍆" They're not sending their own nudes. They're sending shit they dig through the internet/darknet. You're just wasting your time and mental health on them. But, hey, it's your life, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 02:24 AM |
| 12 | PSA: More reasons to turn off your “chat” feature if you’re a user of FDS.Why would any female in good faith add their own pics to Reddit would be anyone's guess. I don't trust this shithole site who has a long history of misoginy and probably never will, no matter what they do in order to pander to their sponsors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 02:23 AM |
| 11 | How do we identify, manage or avoid men who project their fantasies onto women in their lives? When are they dangerous?Full on stalker alert. Are there any bouncers to report him to? Bouncers? No, not bouncers. The police is the one you should go to at the first sign of stalking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:21 AM |
| 37 | How do we identify, manage or avoid men who project their fantasies onto women in their lives? When are they dangerous?Haha this is all great! The blood in the water test reminds me of a story I heard from a college friend. At the beginning of the year, during those coed frat parties, her sorority sisters would designate a sister to act drunk, so they can all observe which guys take advantage of that situation and act shady. There's a few "youtube pranks" like this. The result is as expected - most males tried to take advantage. Although content is often fake on youtube, and the fact no one was arrested kind of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:20 AM |
| 32 | How do we identify, manage or avoid men who project their fantasies onto women in their lives? When are they dangerous?Let him plan -refuse a plan he's suggested, see what he comes up with and how he reacts. If he wants to see you, and likes you, he'll adapt. So would a rap*st. I think this doesn't apply to what OP asked. In fact a man who accepts all very well a cancellation, depending on what/where is cancelled, may be dangerous. Just a heads up. Also, any suspicion of stalking behavior, inform the cops immediately. Stalking almost always precedes sexual abuse and/or violence. Stay safe out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:18 AM |
| 7 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”The thing is, it's hiding genetic things, like a weak chin and jaw. Your kid is going to pop out with those same attributes and it will massively affect their lives. No-one's aghast when their child pops out without glitter eyelids. This is borderline inceldom "blackpill philosphy" 😂 Nonetheless, you're right. As women, we have the moral and biological duty to strenghten the human gene pool by dating and sleeping only with the best males. 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:10 AM |
| 3 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”This made me spit out my tea, thanks for that. If the idiots can’t tell that this is satirical content matching the bullshit they spew every day about women, well, I’ll be damned. Like, you even mentioned it in the post. They’re still mad?! What?! You'd expect they would be actual lurkers 😂 they could learn so much how to treat women by lurking, instead they report content. We're living rent free in their heads 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”Beards are makeup for men! I wish! 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”I’m so sick of the recent facial hair trends. It’s all I see anymore on OLD. I’ve found that I’m really not a huge fan of any kind of facial hair. It’s like they’re trying to cover up their fragile masculinity with a neckbeard. There are tons of other qualities to inspect - Just pay the due attention and you'll see them all. An unattractive male can't stand female scrutiny just because of grown facial hair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:03 AM |
| 7 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”Beards are like hair, it needs a lot of maintenance work and products. A bearded man who actually fixes his beard is very attractive to me. Can't say the same for long hair on men though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 03:52 AM |
| 0 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”I say we start our own "No Shave November' and refuse to shave our body hair. Separate the men from the boys with a little leg hair :) Why should we care about what they think 😂 I shave because I always liked it, never to pander to males. I learned it from a very young age not to. Also, I live in a tropical country, but if I lived in a cold country/state, I'd be down to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 03:50 AM |
| 7 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”They think that going a week without watching porn is some kind of superpower in itself. Precisely, because they don't believe in super powers in the first place 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 03:46 AM |
| 14 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”That’s weird. I always heard of November being ‘No Nut November’ where guys genuinely think they get super powers and become god like when they don’t ejaculate. It’s the same with /semenretention but they call women crazy when we view menstruation, pregnancy and our wombs as sacred. It's like they need a reason to stop touching their dicks. And they expect to be treated better for beating their meat only during 11 of the 12 months of the year? 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 03:45 AM |
| 15 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”This post picked up my attention I had to answer immediately. I honestly and utterly disagree with it. I see no reason to "beware beard" and, quite frankly, I'm surprised to see such a suggestion - please do not take this personally. Reasoning follows: Men who are unattractive and actually knows they are already covering for their inferiority, and this also includes (not limited to) donning beards all year around. I'd say the red flag here would be men going out of their style in order to signal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 03:43 AM |
| 10 | Men who are virgins late in life are red flags.Okay that's really a weird story. If a man is still virgin at 30+ it is a red flag, period. "I wasn't the type of person to judge someone for that" was a big mistake on your part. Also, for a man to even confess that they're a virgin at that stage in his life is also a red flag - being too truthful is almost as damaging as being a damn liar. Virgin males - especially >30 y.o. should be avoided for various reasons, from the direct ones - they can't satisfy you and to do the bare minimum they'll s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Calling women insecure/controlling because they don't want their BF to watch pornSociety didn't naturally evolve in men's favor. Men engineered society to benefit them. That's what the quotation marks are for, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:55 AM |
| 21 | Calling women insecure/controlling because they don't want their BF to watch pornI just love to imagine counter-asking a guy to watch porn together and play only videos of men being violated and worse, in the same manner as women are in regular porn, and see how he reacts He may actually enjoy that shit. Be careful haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 01:16 PM |
| 42 | Men are the emotional sex.They're not more emotional, just more impulsive and less rational, and that kind of sums it up. I don't understand why "emotional" takes a bad connotation in these kinds of discussions. How the hell is being emotional/emotive bad? In fact I find it offensive to be considered less emotional than males. Emotions are what makes us human, too. We have to accept that and stop treating it as if it's something that confers weakness to people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 04:44 AM |
| 52 | Calling women insecure/controlling because they don't want their BF to watch porni think its perfectly reasonable for a porn free woman to demand a porn free man. I'll add to that. Even if a woman watches porn (which is rare) she has the right to veto men who watch porn, because porn for males is disgusting and based on the inferiorization of women. The idea of cumshot scenes - or money shot, you know, the scenes where a woman deliberaly receives an ejaculation on the face, having no say in it and being treated as a mere target or object for male pleasure - alone makes clear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 04:38 AM |
| 93 | Calling women insecure/controlling because they don't want their BF to watch pornIf I encounter this I plan to say "Men who watch porn are terrible in bed and their dicks barely work. I want to enjoy myself an have an orgasm, if that is controlling, toxic, or insecure, then so be it" This still counts as a defeat. Any attention directed against pornheads is their gain. Block, delete, cut relations, avoid them like the plague. If you engage with them anyway, I don't suggest provoking them. Remember - they're mentally unstable for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 04:30 AM |
| 101 | Calling women insecure/controlling because they don't want their BF to watch pornWe are insecure when we have standard, and when we don't. When we want a man, and when we don't. When we decide to have children and when we don't. When we put our career first or when we do it later. Women cannot win in this world either way we are doing something wrong to the masses. The point is to live a life away from expectation of others, including males. Especially males... The rules for them are different. Society "evolved" so males have every advantage not only at dating but at the ove… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 04:27 AM |
| 112 | BruhPoopy pants should buy his own tp and move out If he can't even pay for his tp, how would him pay rent 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:36 PM |
| 82 | BruhHe’s jerking off to porn in the bathroom. None of this makes sense. If he's crapping at home, then why wouldn't he shower? Using that much tp everyday is sure to leave his butt sore. Also, if he's jerking off at the bathroom, same - he wouldn't need tp either. I think he's taking the rolls to some other place where he masturbates. Either that or he's stockpiling on tp for price gouging in the future 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:33 PM |
| 47 | An empowered class of people does not have to beg and scramble to maintain control of their means of survival like this.Guaranteed that “woman’s rights” account is run by a man. Almost all are. They just employ women to use their faces to pander to other women, especially girls. The importante of "female traitors" in our midst is greatly underestimated - There's only opression because a good part of the opressed helps them. Believe me when I say a lot of women to their part in mantaining of the status quo - most doesn't even benefit from it, but they do because these news outlets and fake women journals/publicati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:12 PM |
| 7 | An empowered class of people does not have to beg and scramble to maintain control of their means of survival like this.An empowered class of people doesn't have to show their butt for 5 usd, or for free, to anybody and I'm sick of seeing people twisting themselves over pretending that it is the most empowering thing women can do. Right? A pro-male "system" who benefits audiences of men in detriment of women, however a very few women (who happen to either be famous, rich, white or a combination of) make big bucks. Libfems: This is empowerment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 39 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usWhen I have food delivered I use a man's name instead of my real name. I can't do that, but I always order to deliver at the gatehouse (I live in a closed horizontal condo). I don't want anyone I don't know to know where I live inside the condo. Same when I take an uber: Always drop off at the gatehouse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:06 AM |
| 54 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usThis is valuable advice - Never be rude, never panic, never show emotion, just make up a lie that make you less of a potential target. Sadly, men who ask this sort of shit are very low in the rankings of predatism: most are just trying to get lucky and taking chances, but are still predators. Also, ALWAYS report those pests to their companies. We shoudn't take this lightly, as even after we dodge a bullet, other women would be at risk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:02 AM |
| 31 | You don't need a man to live a fulfilling lifeGood man > No Man > Average man. Anything else is just a waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:59 PM |
| 44 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.They especially hate women close to them. Especially those that either birthed them or took care of them. Yes. And when they "came out of the closet" as incels, it is like the announcement they are already a danger to society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:08 AM |
| 74 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.If a child killing mass murderer complains about this subreddit then we are 100% doing something right. Something I've observed and should be a huge red flag for life: Incels who self declare themselves as incels are extremely dangerous and capable of harm. It's like incels are really just pathetic and sad losers who won't let anyone know about their misfortunes. But after some time, some "embrace" that fact and openly admit, is like they don't care about people making fun of them, and so are re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:07 AM |
| 16 | Men should treat you AT LEAST as well as a good employerThere's something that needs to be accounted: Men doesn't respect their bosses, they only pretend to. Because they depend on them, i.e. they get fired if they diss a superior. If a man shows me the same "respect" he shows a superior in his work, I will literally throw him out of my window. I'm not exploiting his labor, I'm dating him. I'm choosing to spend my very valuable time with him, and I don't expect fake respect in exchange, I expect much more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 12:28 PM |
| 34 | Men should treat you AT LEAST as well as a good employerI will add that men should respect you at least as much as they respect their boss. I dated a guy who would set 5 alarms in the morning to make sure he was on schedule and arrived at the job site on time. However with me, he didn't give a shit if he showed up to my house 4 hours late. If a man respects me "the same" as his boss, he's a psychopath. A boss is someone who exploits your labor for his/her own gain. How is that comparable to another human being who voluntarily chooses to spend their l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 9 | If it looks like a duck, swims like a duck, and quacks like a duck, then it probably is a duck.Don't ever swipe on those 'I'm a loyal honest bla bla..' . If they must say what they are, they are NOT!! Better yet - avoid dating apps completely. Online dating is general is predatory against women: You won't find a good person there, and apps just increased the audience to all kinds of bad apples... Avoid it like the plague! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:40 PM |
| 35 | If you're still using dating apps, you're a pickmeBumble is the ultimate pickme app. "Here, we know women already put all the effort into a relationship. Why don't you also talk to the guy first." The illusion of control. There are no good males in dating apps, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:33 PM |
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