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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	I (20M) feel alone after being a victim of reactive abuse by my ex (20F)	support request	IndependentAd763	/r/MenSupportMen	22/09/22 08:31 AM
1	I (20M) feel alone after being a victim of reactive abuse by my ex (20F)	support request	IndependentAd763	/r/MenSupportMen	22/09/22 08:28 AM

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2	Weekend check-in Not doing so great man, been dealing with my abusive ex. I feel so alone, I sit in my bed alone every day and have no friends. I never socialize and im broke because of her. She continues to victimize herself and spread lies about me to friends and family, enjoying her life. I just recently completely cut her out of my life completely and I feel so lost. She completely alienated me during our relationship so now I have no one I’m close with, not even my family. She uses my face on social media t…	/r/MenSupportMen	08/10/22 05:25 AM
9	Feeling used Im really sorry to hear about this bro. There are many reasons why she could have done this. Most likely you’re right. She just wanted the self validation. She also most likely has commitment issues. I had an ex like this. She seemed crazy ab me, but as soon as we had sex she basically ghosted me. She later explained she had commitment issues. Keep ur head up king. It will for sure get better and you’ll no doubt find someone who will be head over heels for you. The right woman will walk into you…	/r/MenSupportMen	23/09/22 08:13 AM
4	I (20M) feel alone after being a victim of reactive abuse by my ex (20F) It honestly sucked so much to hear people calling me an abuser and invalidating my experiences for over a year. She put my brain in a blender for over a year and yet I was the abuser because I shoved her, only because I am a man. I felt so weak compared to her. She ran circles around me and id argue that messing with someones head to that extent is one of the most harmful and cruelest ways to hurt someone. To be honest ive never experienced sexism like that. Ever. But it honestly helps so much a…	/r/MenSupportMen	22/09/22 07:15 PM
7	I (20M) feel alone after being a victim of reactive abuse by my ex (20F) Hey man I really appreciate the reply and kind words. Thinking positively has helped me so so so much throughout this process. One thing I’ve always struggled with is my sense of self worth. Ive always depended on other people complimenting me and giving me attention in order to feel any sort of worth. This experience taught me a lot. Especially going through it on my own. Its currently around three weeks since this happened. I payed the rent and utilities and car insurance with a little help fr…	/r/MenSupportMen	22/09/22 03:59 PM
8	I (20M) feel alone after being a victim of reactive abuse by my ex (20F) Thank you for the kind words man. Im for sure taking it day by day and gradually I feel better not having her here.	/r/MenSupportMen	22/09/22 03:41 PM
7	I (20M) feel alone after being a victim of reactive abuse by my ex (20F) (2/2) And the only thing anyone saw was me pushing her down and all they heard was her yelling as if I was beating her up. They looked at me as if I was insane and a monster and it completely broke me. All this and she wins. She got exactly what she wanted. Im seen as a monster after she mentally abused me. She knew I already struggled with severe anxiety and adhd, yet she still provoked in all the ways she knew would drive me absolutely insane. They all left immediately, my ex grabbing all her …	/r/MenSupportMen	22/09/22 08:32 AM