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Thats also reasonable, but this hitting in self defense is a little hard to prove though.
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 06:45 AM
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Yes. Regardless of is hitting you, the best option is to sometimes take the beating and let the law take it's course. Of course there are situations wherin a sound thrashing can set things straight.
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 06:42 AM
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In today's age, acting defenseless is the way to go, especially if you are man and you are getting assaulted.
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 03:14 AM
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Nah ! The guy should not have hit her. While I am not justifying her hitting the guy, but yeah, she is likely to sustain more serious injuries because she is being hit by the guy (more physical strength and muscle= harder hits). The guy in the video was swinging his arms and man, the girl did get clobbered. Anyways both will probably land up in jail, but dead sure that the guy will get a longer sentence. I think women hitting men are always a bait. The only way is to back off and collect evidenc…
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 03:09 AM
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I don't agree with the black pill ideology because honestly it sounds a lot like whining and a doomsday advocacy. Hardly anyone talks about stuff that can actually be done to improve the current situation. But it is true that if you cannot leverage good looks then you need something else to compensate for the same, for eg a high level of confidence, wealth , status, above average humour , popularity, etc. That being said, it's pretty foolish to think that only good looks will help in having a gr…
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:44 AM
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Step 1 : Be Attractive and Good Looking / Looks Maxing to the highest possible extent. Step 2 : Don't forget rule #1 Step 3 : Be in places where woman frequent Step 4 : Cold Approach women and be prepared for lots of rejections. Step 5 : You will finally figure out what to say and how to talk to women
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:28 AM
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She doesn't see you in a romantic way. Time to find another girl. PS : If she is actually a pretty well-known singer, her social media will usually be bombarded with comments.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:20 AM
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A lot of what you described as a guy thing is a pretty normal behavior among both the genders. Just that ladies may not be as actively seeking a physical intimacy as men are, since the outcome of that is a big deal for women. But if you have trouble finding good guys, i guess you should start looking outside of dating apps. Hang around your friends, or friends who bring their boyfriends along or their other guy friends. Alternatively you can always ask your girl friends about guys that they have…
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:42 AM
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For a guy with 5'10", you are already obese at over 100 KG. You must roughly be somewhat in the 75-80 kg weight range for you to appear decent. Hit the Gym and get the weight under control
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:09 AM
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Which country are you from ? Lot of jokes are not global and need context which could be hard for non natives to follow.
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:16 PM
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Welcome to the Friend zone !!! You are a top tier member !!
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:34 AM
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Seek an honest opinion on how you look. You could be the best guy in the world with the awesomest personality, but if you look like you are a homeless guy, chances are, that no lady will be ever attracted to you.
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:16 AM
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Watching Stand up Comedy. You will always have interesting perspectives. Bonus : no. Of people watching stand up comedies is very less.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:05 PM
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Easy for people with a high degree of self confidence and folks who have received years of positive validation regarding their choices, looks and behavior.
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:44 AM
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Ask them about their experiences and generally how Life is treating them. Make it little humorous though. What places they've been to. Who is the craziest person in their office What books they read and why ? Whats their favorite superhero. . . Lack of conversation topics is not a reason to stop talking with anybody
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:17 AM
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Ok, then someone else will and OP will be left alone.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:14 AM
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If you have made your intentions clear then its not your fault if they start having romantic interest in you if you havent led them on Nevertheless tell the truth and be free.
/r/seduction09/01/22 04:20 AM
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Do you like this girl. If yes tell her that you love her. If you don't, tell her that you don't expect any romance form this relationship. You don't owe anybody anything.
/r/seduction09/01/22 04:15 AM
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She is interested which is why she gave you her number Looks likes she isn't using the apps frequently, which means you guys should call each other once you've build up comfort. Man, ask her out if you are interested in her. Chances are she will say yes.
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:41 AM
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You meet good people when you yourself start being good and feel confident that you are genuinely good. Specifically, you can try meeting men outside social media or on-line dating.
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:32 AM
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Sorry, pull back and focus on someone else or it will be sour grapes all over. Your mental peace will get fucked. So, pull back, stop having any romantic feelings for her. Treat her as you would treat any of your other friends. Other people will see for who you are and you have to explore other options. TLDR : Don't build a friendship just so that you can have her when her current relationship doesn't work out. Sorry, not going to happen.
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:30 AM
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Own it up and joke about it.
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:23 AM
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Patrice O Neal is a comedian and as such an outlier since most people never become a comedian or have a disproportionate amount of humour to cover up their shortcomings. But I agree to the last part. Yes, people can pick up trails of less confidence and come to the conclusion of "well this person hardly has any self respect, so why in the world should I be giving any damn to him/her"
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:19 AM
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If you want to be with girl , then you've gotta stop the other dude coming in between.
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:06 AM
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Game without the support of basic level of good looks is just creepy.
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:05 AM
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They do get away because they are already better than most of the other men around them in terms of looks, style,. Confidence, wealth and influence.
/r/seduction09/01/22 02:43 AM
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Women usually want to soften the blow during rejection since they aren't sure how men would react if given a direct feedback. And for perfectly valid reasons because people are sometimes pure assholes. Also women usually by temperament like more social approval which is why they want to be viewed as being good.
/r/seduction08/01/22 04:16 PM
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When girls say "You lack emotional connection" it means they aren't attracted to you. Its only a play with words to make you feel less miserable and avoid making her look like a bad person for rejecting you. Try meeting with people whom you relate to.
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:48 AM
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Not always. But you can get it if you play your cards rights, provided it is consensual.
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:26 AM
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She probably ghosted you because she could not reject / approve you like she usually does others. There are tons of folks minding their stuff without social media. Ignore and move on
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:05 AM
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Be the most genuinely happy and confident guy. If there is some event like a camp fire or a dance make sure you take the lead. Also dress well. There are ladies that will notice you.
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:13 AM
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Agree on the negative mindset fucking up whatever chances one may have. But if one is average or below average in looks, proper looks maxxing needs to be done. There is an almost universal understanding regarding good looks amongst both genders and it never hurts to look your absolute best.
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:57 AM
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No you won't come across as desperate and annoying. Make sure you convey your intention in a respectful and fun way and how you have come to the conclusion after thinking through it sufficiently. Trust me you will only spare yourself of the untold misery and suffering while you pine for her while she is being kept in dark about your affection for her. After you say, the ball is in her court. Let her decide if she wants to be with a guy who atleast has the balls not give up at the first instance …
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:49 AM
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I guess there is no harm in asking her out once more. Don't apologize and say those regretful nonsense. I guess you are matured enough to find out the reality. And what do you mean by hanging out ? Are you going to events together?, Are you doing some stuff together ? Is she atleast laughing and blushing when you guys talk ? Or is the hanging out limited to saying, Hi Hello types convos that you would normally have with a friend. If yes, then you guys are just talking and not hanging out. So, if…
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:30 AM
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Thanks and read that. Your partner seems confused and not ready for a relationship or has some other issues that is bothering him and needs to be dealt with separately. I guess your statement of being with other guys has definitely hurt him. From what I can infer , you want and are ready for a relationship, but he is not 100% sure. Sorry, but I see no future in this thing that you guys currently have. You guys are both young and I am sure you will be much more happier with a guy that genuinely l…
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:20 AM
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Talk mysteriously and flirty. Talk about stuff that women like hearing about, not how Hayabusa is better than ZX14R . Be a good listener. Have interesting hobbies. If your speaking skills are great,.You can always explore extempore speaking or.stand up comedy. Plus you have to look good as well. Women will start seeing you romantically.
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:09 AM
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I think we may need more information on the argument. Did you guys argue about something you/he cared about deeply and wasn't willing to compromise. ? If yes, then I guess I think it is time for you guys to find better partners that complement you. Anyways you guys aren't communicating openly and seem to be resenting each other, so you know what you should do.
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:45 AM
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How many people have said you look good in the photos ? Dating apps highly favor the people with attractive faces or extremely good photographs , so you might want to consider working on those aspects. Aa always i would recommend to get out of dating apps and meet women in real life. It is hard to reject people in real life than it is online.
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:56 AM
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Your conversational skills and a personality need a revamp since you don't come across as interesting as you seem in your profile.
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:39 AM
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OP doesn't realise that in order for tattoos to look cool the person themselves has to be cool first.
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:30 AM
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You didn't respond for 1 whole day without you being genuinely busy. Dude, you don't even seem interested in her, why would you want to waste time. Move. On. As for the girl- she probably got her first dose of rejection.
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:11 AM
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Personal Bias. But hang on. If you are a male, i guess you would be better off with a dating coach who is a male. I've seen some dating advice by women on YouTube and other places online and honestly some of the things they suggest could out right reject you. Open for corrections though. Your dating coach should ideally be someone less attractive than you are, this way you can be sure that their success in dating isn't due to their good looks.
/r/seduction07/01/22 12:55 AM
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Depends. I don't use any other social media except WhatsApp and Reddit. And I don't turn on notifications for either of them. So I would ideally respond whenever I use these apps. All the people that know me know that I am best reached on voice call. That being said, the good way to reply is to evaluate how fast she responds. If she responds back to your text (the ones that you initiated, for eg you sent her a link for a funny meme or a video that you guys both could relate to) in under 10 mins,…
/r/seduction07/01/22 12:45 AM
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Technically the answer is almost zero The only way to get out of friendzone is to have a massive and I mean MAASSIVE transformation in your attitude and appearance. The only problem is that it takes a fricking huge amount of time and effort for such transformation and usually you could out grow the romantic feelings by then. Hit the gym, be mysterious and stop talking to her. Hang out with friends who are extroverted and popular and try to be close to the limelight. Do stuff and exciting shit. Y…
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:05 AM
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Ok dude, no need to get worked up so much.. I don't intend that to say that only looks matter , but just want to highlight that looks have a lot of importance and most people who undermine it are usually good looking. I am not insecure, I know what I am good at. I have female friends to whom I have explicitly asked what made them select their partners and almost all of them have said that they thought their partners looked good. Attraction is largely physical and visual and being good looking ma…
/r/seduction15/10/21 07:54 AM
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You are already in the friend zone the moment she seeks advice and sympathy from you.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:42 AM
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Try masturbation or escorts if it is legal in your country.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:41 AM
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Befriend someone who is good with women and hang around them. Observe them. Be a good conversationalist. Watch stand up comedy. Always take dating advice from men who are at par with your looks or below your looks. Dating is skewed in favour of good looking people.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:36 AM
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Romance and relationship at work are usually a bad idea.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:34 AM
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Please follow these and let us know how many women have responded positively to your advances. I guess not more than 3 or 4 . @OP : Please let us know 2 things - Your height Have you been called handsome by women frequently. If yes, the reason that you have no difficulty with women is because of your good looks. The advice is good but it has certain caveats to it. One being that you must have maxxed out your looks, be financially stable to afford meeting women outside and have a place of your ow…
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:29 AM
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Looks first Money second. Women are now financially independent and have stable careers. Hence looks always have higher priority. Plus most guys who are a perfect 10 usually have good financial stability.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:25 AM
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Better to be away from women who are handing out their nudes. Very very high chance that their private pics are being circulated on the internet. It is a terrible decision for both men and women to share nudes and private pictures no matter to whom they are sent.
/r/seduction15/10/21 03:00 AM
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There is a substantial amount of people on dating apps, especially in cities. The dating pool for women has increased exponentially, thus they have larger supply of good looking men than in the times before dating apps came. Yes, I agree, it is harder for women to reject guys in real life as compared to dating apps (sort of the same way that you could abuse a stranger online and probably get away but IRL it would get your ass kicked and have terrible consequences) For dudes with average looks, p…
/r/seduction15/10/21 02:55 AM
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I agree to your points but explain why dudes aren't finding matches on dating apps. They haven't suddenly gone ugly haven't they ??
/r/seduction14/10/21 01:54 PM
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So she has said she isn't ready for a relationship. Hope you have asked why she isn't. If you know the reason and still want to be with her, then you should speak our mind out and let her know how you feel for her. If you don't know the reason, ask her and based on that think whether she would be a good partner for you or not. Are your values and lifestyle similar.
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:50 AM
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Are you attractive and fit ? If not, the first number you should dial should be of a gym or a style consultant who can guide you to be more good looking. As model, she has no shortage of men swooning over her, so yeah, being good looking is the only way to stand out from other dudes. Then you need good game to keep her interested and be slightly mysterious like it should make her wonder who you are. If you can't do anything I mentioned above, then you should be finding someone who is at par with…
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:39 AM
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Has she explicitly told you that she just wants to be friends with benefits and not a commitment. If no, I think you should tell her and propose to her, don't make it dramatic though. Be bold and also say it in a way that makes her feel it was not unexpected. If she has explicitly told you that she wants only a transactional relationship, then chances are slim that she would want to settle with you. Either ways you should make yourself clear about your expectations. Anything that will happen, wi…
/r/seduction14/10/21 09:13 AM
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Looks maxing can be very different based on what your current situation is. The idea is that you should be in the upper echelons of looks and be better looking than the average dude in the region. For eg. If you are White Caucasian male with 5.5 height, your chances of dating are exponentially high if you change your base from US/Europe to somewhere in Asian countries like India, Thailand, China, Korea etc.
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:49 AM
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I respect your viewpoint, but the harsh reality is that a dude with good looks and average personality will be more successful in dating girls than a dude with average looks and good personality. For a lot of people, looks are a significant part of your personality. So never discount the importance of looks. Anyone who says looks don't matter are either delusional or they want to sell you some improvement programme that will result only in making your wallet lighter. I am not saying that you nee…
/r/seduction14/10/21 07:40 AM
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Height does matter as it is very significant portion of your attractiveness quotient. A general rule of thumb is - as long as you are of the same height or slightly taller than the average height of females in your area, your height will not matter kuch. For eg, If you are a Caucasian male based out of the US, anything above 5,5' should not be disadvantageous. If you are African American maybe some people may perceive 5.5 as short. This is where you have to do looks maxing. Infact , being in sha…
/r/seduction14/10/21 05:33 AM
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Dont let age be a hindrance. Talk to her and see how she is interested romantically in you. If she is mature, you can pretty much expect her to have reasonable decision making skills. But as a 21 yr, she may not be financially stable yet, and if you want things to be a little more serious, this could be a hindrance. Talk to her, ask her viewpoint. You will get a better picture than asking random strangers on Reddit
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:40 AM
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Clean up your SM profile, remove bad photos and upload more of yours that show you doing your stuff or things that you like doing or is interesting. For eg, trekking, working on your business etc.etc. Is there a photo of you two together or in close proximity ? You could use that to bridge a connection. If she didn't find you repulsive back then, she will likely open up to you and talk to you . Don't start trotting off pick up lines and be sexual in the initial stages. You will get branded as cr…
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:30 AM
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There is sense in your point. But the idea of getting cosmetic enhancements are not widely popular in the world is that There are chances that it could go wrong. We all have seen celebrities who tried cosmetic surgeries and ended up looking worse than they looked before. Society somehow seems to consider that focussing on your appearance and how you look is something that is very shallow, which is why a lot of people do put up with poor appearances and obesity by supposedly having a higher moral…
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:21 AM
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Hahaha you are countering yourself when you say '"Biology doesn't say anything about small men not being able to be attractive" but immediately later you say "height (which is genetic and biological) is a clear advantage. Height is a very important part of what constitutes male attractiveness. Which is why all the good looking men in the world have an closer to 6" or above. Exceptions do exist. Height is also important by the fact a large number of women would nt want to date someone shorter tha…
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:17 AM
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I agree to the idea, women are slightly less judgemental and their rejection of men solely for their appearance is lesser in offline dating. Even though, appearances still have a a major contribution in attracting partners. Why is why good-looking people are almost equally successful in both online and offline dating.
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:10 AM
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Hit the gym and be in shape first. I think your natural charisma will work once again.
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:20 PM
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Physical attractiveness is genetic and beyond a point it is impossible to scale up without surgery. Read some biology if you would like to. However it is possible to increase ones relative attractiveness based on location and setting. For eg, if you are 5'6 in Nordic countries then you are short, change location to Singapore /Malaysia, you are of average height.
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:17 PM
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Make sure that you are at your best possible shape as far as grooming goes. Wear nice perfume.
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:12 PM
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Your first post was more honest and realistic. This is just the same stuff. I guess you cannot sell tips for attractiveness and good looks beyond a point, which is why you are promoting stuff like aesthetics. Nothing can compensate for looks in the initial stages of relationship. All romantic relationship need physical attraction at the basic level. Your advice could work if someone is struggling to maintain an ongoing relationship, but for single people, this offers nothing
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:04 PM
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Get to know her. Click a photo of her Then don't show it ot her. Jokes aside. If you want multitude of women chasing you you need to be in the top 10% as far as looks, wealthy, popular and social and sexual market value is concerned.
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:58 PM
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Yet another person that sells dating advice like it's some magic pill. Meh !! Men and women, please don't fall for this.
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:54 PM
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Yes, I agree to the view, that having a good game will help when you are approaching women offline. Yes it's harder to reject someone in person than online. But due to online dating, women have a plethora of options both online and offline, and it purely becomes a demand and supply situation. Online dating is based solely on physical appearance and there is only so much that can be done to alter your appearance. Maybe your cynical viewpoint is because, it's harder for dating coaches to be succes…
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:18 PM
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I agree to your point, there are a lot of good looking douchebags out there that treat women like trash and don't have any sustained relationship. Looks and money, can get you easily into the door. If you have neither of them, it's hard to open the door and get inside.
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:11 PM
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I am not downplaying the importance of game. But game is important after a lady has decided that a man is worth her time. Before that there is no importance of any game. There are scores of men, who are on online dating platforms and still performing really bad in terms of dating. Your advice and guidance would work, if there was no online dating. But women now have access to huge pool of attractive men. If you want me to be more specific, Tell me how game would work for a man who lives in the U…
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:22 PM
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If what you mean by being a "lad" is kind of similar to being masculine, then yes it doesn't hurt to be a bit more masculine. But the urge to be normal, I don't think it is that way. All across animal kingdom the animals put on their best show and try to stand out / be better than others in order to attract partners. Humans are no different to this. PS : I don't think I subscribe 100% to the black pill ideology and it's doomsday verdict that, if you aren't rhe top tier in looks, then dating is n…
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:21 AM
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Do not simp for her. Ask her if she is free for a date. If she is still busy , ask her to tell when she is free. If she likes you, she probably will let you know of a time when she is free. If she is being vague, then she isn't sure of a relationship with you, which is a clear enough signal that you need to be seeing someone else.
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:10 AM
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Then don't complain that women are there only for the money and call them gold diggers. PS : It is close to impossible to show your wealth in online dating, since that "wealthy" look is easy to replicate in photos.
/r/seduction24/08/21 10:07 AM
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I think you should take a risk and try gently nudging he barriers. Don't be overtly sexual and send her dick pics and all. Those are instant red flags. Try keeping the conversation spicy. For a date, invite her over to your house for watching a game or movie . Cook some nice simple but tasty food. See if you spice things up a little bit. Or else plan a date at her house, tell her you will help with cooking. See her response.
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:46 AM
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Try saying (speaking verbally) the same way in your face to face interactions. If you are getting good signals, proceed. If not , build up more rapport. If you are directly Sexual, she may probably see it as being a jerk. Take her out to a date, for eg, don't go the dinner ones, but go to a game of football or baseball, go to a stand up comedy show, sit on the front row. See how the date goes and if things are positive, then take a call whether it's okay to be physical. PS : I am not sure if suc…
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:41 AM
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If she texts you back, good going and ensure it remains playful and funny, even when it's something sexual. You are not friendzoning yourself at the moment.
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:32 AM
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Don't date if you are coworkers. Your career is more important. PS : This lady is playing little hard to get. Give her a couple of more chances. If you haven't got any good hints, then welcome to friend zone.
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:02 AM
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The best dating advice for men is only 3 words. Be more attractive. Good looks are automatically going to improve confidence and bump up your game.
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:00 AM
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Do something adventurous. If amusement parks are open go there. Go on hike, go cycling, go on trek , go bungee jumping. Everyone goes to movies, dinner and that sorta stuff. Be unique, be different. PS : Take your partners consent and also if your health is ok for you to do something adventurous.
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:57 AM
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Golden Rule : If the person offering dating advice is more attractive than you, probably none of the tips will work for you. If the guy offering dating advice is less attractive than you are, see in real life if he is able to get women using the trips he is advising you on. If yes , sign up 100%. If it isn't, don't waste money.
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:54 AM
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Try better grooming. The reason why you haven't been able to attract women could be because of how you look. Looks and attractiveness matter much more than you think. Don't listen to female advice on dating ever. There is a substantial difference in the stated preferences and actual preferences for women when it comes to attractiveness. Females are not going to tell you why you cannot attract women because if they told the real truth, probably, you would end up hurt or they fear judgement form t…
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:50 AM
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It feels you re from the subcontinent. I can only give you only advice. Be good looking as much as you can. The fine line between creepiness and flirting is good looks. Max.out your looks, get in shape, join the gym or cross fit,. Wear stylish clothes, get a great haircut and improve your overall hygiene. Then try doing cool stuff, outdoor activities or participate in sport, do well in your class , be the good looking nerd. Don't be in a relationship for the sake of having sex. That's like sayin…
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:44 AM
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Game doesn't matter if you are an extremely good looking person. Game is desirable, but not the mandate. You will probably need good game if you want to sustain the relationship. For dudes who are average looking, game is something that enhances the overall appeal. Game cannot substitute physical attractiveness. For dudes who are below average in looks and are not in the best shape, game doesn't matter to you. Dating Strategies for such individuals are different. There is nothing on the planet t…
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:31 AM
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More power to you.
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:24 AM
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You should always strive to be the better person in any relationship. You are a high value man aren't you ? Tell her that the next meeting is a date .If 2 guys on the next meeting are her friends, then tell them you want only rhe 2 of you and not the friends. If she respectfully denies, then sorry man, you are not being seen romantically by this woman, the attraction is no more, and it's better not to waste any more time on this relationship. If she makes a huge deal out of it and is throwing ta…
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:01 AM
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Step 1 : Be good looking. Step : 2 Read step 1 Step 3: Build some confidence and charisma. Approach her. Find out something that is common. If you guys know each other , if she is throwing some hints when you guys are like talking then try approaching her and tell her how you feel.Because shy or not shy, if she is good looking, she is obviously getting attention from lot of dudes. So be the first and get the first mover advantage.😂😂😂 If she is not giving you any hints or she doesn't even know yo…
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:54 AM
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I think it's difficult to form an opinion without seeing your pictures. Most people rate themselves more attractive than others. If you are average in looks, then avoid online dating unless you want to end up disappointed. I suggest to try out looks maxxing - get in shape, reduce body fat %, groom well, maintain an exceptionally good hygiene, wear good stylish clothes. Then, I would recommend to join any activity based groups like a trekking club, NGO, volunteer work, artistry class. Don't do th…
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:22 AM
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In that case, you are getting someone who is willing to "settle" and someone who is not so high value. You cannot expect success in online dating as a male, of you aren't good looking. Plain simple truth.
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:25 AM
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Men can have an abundance mentality only when they are in the upper echelon as far as good looks go. I mean like 6 ft tall, well built, great dressing style, decent job etc. If you aren't one of these genetically blessed dudes, you can NEVER have an abundance mindset in online dating. Now in western nations over 50% of relationships are formed online and in online dating there is always going to be more men than there are females. And no, apps like Bumble are no different than Tinder or OkCupid.…
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:23 AM
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Looks like, you have been sidelined for someone better, especially if you are not in the leagues of "extremely good looking". I would recommend to continue your search and find someone who is more trustworthy and genuine as a partner. Good Luck.
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:29 PM
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It is possible to be funny without trying too hard Don't be too serious in conversations. Chill relax and let the other person speak. Watch stand up comedy- observe the comedians and their analogies. Listen and enjoy comedy a lot. You will easily find situations in which you can say the similar stuff Here's the good part- very less people watch stand up comedy, so you can almost always get away with saying something funny , unless it's said be really famous comics like Russel Peters, George Carl…
/r/seduction07/05/21 10:04 AM
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