So i am currently facing a problem. Recently I started to approach women in bars and clubs, so places where they are flirty. In the beginning I had a push of confidence because after all these years of excuses and hesitation I actually did it: approach completely strange women. So everything was fine and I thought my blockade to approach unknown women is finally gone. But as I said I thought so.

The thing is i can handle rejection. But what I couldn't handle were the missed opportunities. There were some girls in the past few weeks who were interested in me but I wasted my chances by not escalating and so on and so on. And there was the downfall.

Lately my frame went off. As I started my frame was pretty good and I had therefore a nice appearance but I went off tracks. I started to actually not believe in me anymore, growing from evening to evening. Yesterday I went to a club again and I recognized that my blockade was back again.

So the thing is: I don't want to go back to the starting point, wasting more time but it's really difficult in my situation now. What can I do now?