So last Saturday I went out with a friend and his girlfriend. We had great fun and drunk some beers. Later I suggested to go to a club and both agreed. So I am relitavly new to the city where I am currently living, but I heard one thing: This club is the best place to pick up women. I was never there before and excited if the reputation of the club is real or overestimated.

So we went there and half a hour in the club I realized that it was true. The people who were partying there were all pretty open and the women flirty. First I "warmed myself up" by talking to some male strangers first, and had some nice vonvos with them.

After that I started to approach women. The first two were sitting on a bench and took some selfies, so I asked them if I can join them in taking selfies. They said they already finished but will tell me later if they do another round. It was clear that they were not interested so I did leave them.

Next I was standing outside and talked with a chill dude. He said, his two friends were inside and were chatting with two girls, but he wanted to talk with one too. So I asked which girls he would like and he pointed to three standing 10 meters away. I said I will talk to them for him but honestly had no clue how I should start to conversation. So I just went to them and asked them if they are interested in him and showed him he should come. I tried my best to present him as the ideal man but ultimately rejected and said they all had boyfriends. Maybe they lied there, but who cares.

Inside I saw another girl and wanted to approach her but as I started to talk to her she simply ignored me. Who cares, shit happens.

Some time later I was outside again and saw a girl standing alone there. So I approached her and asked her from how far away a famous club of the city is. So we talked a bit and then suddenly a friend of her came and both started to argue with each other. Honestly I was a little bit shocked of the intensity of their dispute and after I finished my cigarette I said bye to the girls, who were still fighting.

So and know comes the story which relates to the title. I wanted to get a drink and there were two girls standing before me. One was a 6-7/10 ( and she had a really revealing dress, where her tits looked great) and the other easily a 9/10. I first thought maybe I should approach them but I was intimitaded by the 9. I thought she was way out of my league and even though the other girl looked good too I was more interested in her. Afterwards I can say that the 9 gave me signals. She played with her hair and I believed she checked in the corner if 8 am looking at her. After the girls got their drink she looked at me but I passed and ordered my drink. At this point I couldnt believe that she wanted to flirt with me. So I returned to my friends after I got my drink and the girls appeared there too. They talked a little bit with the girlfriend of my friend, they seemingly liked her. I still thought I wouldn't have a chance, so I didn't make anything out of this situation. I went out smoked a cigarette and then wanted to order another drink. Then my friend came and said they wanted to go home. So I joined him and his girlfriend was standing outside. She asked me why I went away, the girls wanted to get to know me. So yes basically I knocked myself out. After that I did leave this place as well because I thought it would be weird to go inside alone now and approach them after my friends are now gone too.

Moral of the story: Don't underestimate yourself or overthink the situation. You could miss a lot of fun. I pushed all signs aside, because I couldn't believe that such a hot girl would consider me as one potential love partner.

EDIT: Restructured the last sentence