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"They do what I want" - so you just want a useful idiot you can control
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:55 PM
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I mean I believe I'm more attractive at 32 than at 28 simply because I looksmax a lot more now, have better hair, although body wise I'm about the same. However my results went from he ocassional hookup every 2 months or so to radio silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:31 PM
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Well when you were young you were around lots of women and had status due to being in a touring band. And tbh you're just assuming you would do well because you're better off financially but that hasn't been tested. Dating has radically changed in the past decade, hell it got a lot worse even in the last 3-5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:04 PM
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Yeah i legit considered just setting my age to 27 lol, I can probably pass as late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:46 PM
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Never said I was a ladies man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:56 PM
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Honestly I could never do that. I lie by omission, like when the girl starts talking about us "dating" each other I just stay silent lmao. Surprisingly it takes quite a while for them to pop the "well what are we?" question, so I just enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:41 PM
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Apologies champ. Because men in their 30s tend to oofydoofymax and accept relationships where they're complete doormats. When you're young most women don't really care for oofy-doofies since they aren't exciting or useful. But if you get to your 30s and you're at least a 5/10, stay in shape, have a good income and become the archetypical beta boy that she can walk all over then there will be options. If i created a dating profile that includes betabux pics instead of ones with my shirt off then …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:37 PM
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100% of my success was off of dating apps and most of the dates didn't involve alcohol or involved minimal alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:12 PM
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Yes and no, about half of the women I went on dates with there were keen for a hookup but half weren't. And the half who were still wanted something long term. I had way worse success on Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 01:11 PM
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Yup, 90% off of tinder and the rest a mix of hinge and bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:43 PM
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Men who are attractive enough to get casual sex are also attractive enough to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:03 PM
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Yoo Kay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:56 AM
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Lmao I have a top 5% income for the country that I live in
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 09:03 AM
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Good response, agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:04 AM
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Yup, global 10m+ western english speaking city
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:45 PM
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All of my success was hookups and situationships off of dating apps from 23-30, mainly 26-29, this all dried up after 30. I've been a hermit since my mid 20s. I was very social in my late teens and early 20s and had 0 success IRL but also never tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:02 PM
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They don't, but a lot of women in their early to mid 20s don't like to date guys in their 30s. Some do yes, but the proportion isn't as high as people think. Same dating app photos, in the sam city, that got me laid a few years ago give me close to 0 matches now. The only difference is the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:54 PM
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I always wore protection and most of them initiated sex. One tried to convince me to pull my condom off and another literally ripped it off of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:02 PM
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What butthurt guys tell themselves is irrelevant. I'm talking about what actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:01 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:46 PM
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Lol what are you on about
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:46 PM
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Nah I'm early 30s, my slaying era was purely off of dating apps a few years ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:38 PM
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Tbh my entire experience with women has been super weird. A huge amount of women either ignore me or act passive aggressive and hostile, but for some reason there was always a tiny amount that were into me. I got a lot less social in my mid 20s after moving countries but the few times I went out to parties or events I'd get evil eyed by most women but there would usually be one trying to talk to me and stand close to me. It's like I repel the vast majority but there's a tiny minority that are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:22 PM
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I tried using the exact same photos and I get fewer matches now than a few years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:13 PM
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Yeah that could be it tbh, I started doing a lot of skincare to try and reverse it but people guess my age a lot more accurately now than before. I used to get asked to show ID in my mid to late 20s and I don't live in the US so it's 18 to drink here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:10 PM
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Well how does my point not stand then? If I've clearly fallen off in success rate despite my appearance and everything else staying roughly the same. At my absolute peak I was as lonely as I am now, earning less than I am now, same height, body, hair. And I wasn't smashing hotties btw, most of the girls were in the 4-5 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:09 PM
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If his height wasn't important then why did you lead with "short" when you described him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:03 PM
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I had big social circles in university and didn't get any girls, all of my experiences were from dating apps. And not just matches went down but the dates are worse too. And FYI my body count is about 2 dozen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:01 PM
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But I clearly mentioned that I was getting the occasional hookup/situationship in my mid to late 20s and not anymore. And I'm not uglier or fatter now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:55 PM
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Not exactly, my argument is that men who were not good looking enough for casual (i.e. below 7/10) OR NOT 5-6/10 AND attractive enough in other qualities were able to succeed in their youth due to market inefficiency. But in their 30s these men would fail the casual sex looks requirements and the "decent looks + everything else" requirements for long term relationships. Your example perfectly encapsulates my point because the LoL player was short, therefore unattractive, and he had nothing else …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:42 PM
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But you kinda validated my point by saying the young boyfriend was short and the following men were hotter? Yeah I get that you also mean the non-physical qualities improved but so did the physical, which is the most important bit at the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:31 PM
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I've been a professional in the same city for the last 6 years (when I peaked)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:26 PM
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I started in my early 20s and it got noticeably far worse in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:23 PM
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Agreed, baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:14 PM
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I got back into trading so that definitely influenced my analogies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 01:09 PM
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Hahahahahhahha brother either you have an insane face card or this is absolute bs. I’m 5’10, white, full head of hair and in good shape with a 5-6/10 face and I am almost completely invisible to women. This is a massive larp.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:55 AM
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Dubrovnik is jam packed with tourists and most people from the western balkans have a distinctive look.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:34 PM
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I saw a decent number of guys on their own but barely any women, because the guys either had the experiences I mentioned at hostels, or they did go to hostels and get ignored. Funnily enough it was always the guys shorter and/or worse looking than me who were by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:42 PM
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Not all but most, moving countries and not putting in effort with some of them (although they didn’t either)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:49 AM
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Things changed a lot post Covid, people are far more cutthroat and less willing to give others a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:39 PM
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I literally flew back from Croatia today. I never claimed to have used hostels before.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:39 PM
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Usually mixed or female only
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:35 PM
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You can be agentic all you want but it won’t work if other people don’t see it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:28 PM
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Strange, I’m not even short and you still disagree with me NoShortMen4Me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:27 PM
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I’m in my 30s and never been to a hostel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:07 PM
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I live alone and lost almost all of my friends, people don't talk to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:30 PM
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If it's for safety why are they so eager to go for hot local men for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:09 PM
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Where in the post body did I ever specifically mention I stayed at a hostel?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:57 PM
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Post-Covid the world is a much more cutthroat and looks-obsessed place, I don't have to go to a hostel to know that as an average man you will be ignored. Other men will think you're weird for being there on your own, and women will think you're too unattractive to even interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:57 PM
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It's not made up, I'm basing it on my observations. I don't have to go to a hostel to know how an average man would fare there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:53 PM
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I've never been to a hostel I said that, and why would people gossip about an average or below guy being humiliated? Most likely no one even noticed it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:51 PM
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By average i mean average looks, personality is irrelevant unless it’s really bad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:36 PM
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Because I understand basic social dynamics in 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:12 PM
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Doesn't take a genius to figure out how an average man would be treated at a hostel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:12 PM
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Because I used to have a good social life before I became a recluse, and being neurodivergent comes with a bunch of habits/tells that I don't have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:02 PM
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why go to a social area if you're going to be at best ignored and at worst be humiliated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:50 PM
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Most cities have hostels offering female only rooms
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:32 PM
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Based on my experience in post-university life as an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:26 PM
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Most people don't solo travel to the slums of some god-forsaken city in Ukraine, they stick to city centres of popular cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:26 PM
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If you're a woman or a good looking guy then sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:24 PM
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I'm neurotypical and not awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:22 PM
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Eastern European women are too autistically honest to do that subtly, unless you're talking about gypsies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:20 PM
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Let me put it this way, I'm an average man and most people don't want to talk to me. Only men below me and women who want to sleep with me (which is a once a year occurence)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:19 PM
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Because I understand social dynamics, especially post Covid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:15 PM
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I could walk outside right now and a tree can fall over and kill me, does that mean I should never leave my flat then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:14 PM
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I consider myself average since I'm average height, white in a western country, normal BMI and over the past decade I've slept with 15-20 women off of dating apps and I get approached once in a blue moon at a party. I think that's a pretty standard 5/10 guy experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:13 PM
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There is danger absolutely everywhere. A tree could fall down and kill you in the Vatican City.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:11 PM
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Because it's a waste of time, no one there will actually want to speak with you. And yeah I'm aware that's an issue with men too since by "no one" I do include men and women. I've never actually been to a hostel and I'm a bit too old now (early 30s but can pass as 20s) and the whole thing just sounds like a massive humiliation ritual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:10 PM
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Oh trust me I am, but that also means I'm completely alone too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:09 PM
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They get less tourists yeah, but Hungary, Croatia and even Poland are pretty popular, especially with other EU countries. I was in Dubrovnik this weekend and it was FULL of Americans and Asians, although I bet GoT has a bit to do with that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:06 PM
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Even Iceland has murders, no where is perfectly 100% safe all the time for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:04 PM
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The sex trafficking mostly targets very poor natives or minorities like Gypsies, I’m Romanian and a lot of the trafficking there actually comes from Moldova
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:59 PM
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There are hundreds of millions of people in Europe and it has some of the most visited countries in the world (France, Spain, UK, Italy etc) so OF COURSE some terrible things will happen but the chance is extremely low
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:57 PM
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Super models is an exaggeration, more like top 10% man with an average woman. For her it's an "amazing experience with a local hottie", for him it was a slow Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:53 PM
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"Some men are bad hence avoid all of them" Wonder how people would react if this was about race and not gender...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:52 PM
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I agree, in the scenarios i described above they probably would never talk to each other after the trip is over. But that doesn't change the fact that they had a good time despite it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:51 PM
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If you're an average looking man then the onus is always on you in new environments, and the slightest slip up means people start to ignore you. No room for error.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:49 PM
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Not all of them of course but they almost all have the opportunity to do so and I'm sure a good deal of them act on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:47 PM
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I should've specified that I'm specifically talking about solo travel in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:45 PM
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In Europe? I don't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:45 PM
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I mean this only applies to the how the same gender would interact with the solo traveller. Lets be honest, the guy would also be ignored by female solo travellers too. Also you haven't even touched on the casual sex point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:41 PM
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I specifically said "average" men and women, if your husband is way above average, which I assume he is if you're Chad's mom, then this wouldn't apply to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:40 PM
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Yes but you won't be in the same category for every woman unless you're on the tail ends of the bell curve. If you're around average looking and average height then you'll be category 2 to most women, but there will be a significant minority for whom you'll be category 3 and a much smaller minority where you're category 1. That's why the plight of the average man is so confusing since you can meet a woman who will be incredibly rude to you and another who'll be all over you on the same day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:51 AM
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I think it's really important for a man to experience true desire from a at least a few women to be able to discern the difference between that and betabux desire. I honestly think a lot of men just haven't experienced what it's really like when a woman truly likes you, and therefore they end up getting used by women with ulterior motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:13 PM
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Would you rather: He likes you for how you look and doesn't mind other aspects about you as long as you aren't terribly annoying or crazy. So you just have to take care of your appearance. He thinks you look OK but really likes your confidence, humour, wit, discipline etc so you have to keep all of that up to maintain interest AS WELL AS take care of your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:15 PM
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Well for one your premise is false, although I haven't commented on it yet. That being the vast majority of women in their 20s and I'd argue most of the women in their 30s prioritise physical attraction above all else. Secondly, I'd be much more comfortable with a woman who likes me for who I AM than one who likes me for my continuous performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:02 PM
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But wouldn't you agree that high immediate physical attraction is a stronger foundation? Otherwise if she's attracted to say my humor and I end up going through a period where I'm not in my highest spirits then she'll lose attraction. Whereas keeping my looks in check is far easier so there's a lower chance that she'll lose interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:57 PM
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I think it's condescending if they don't find you attractive enough at first glance (but found others to be) yet still "gives you a chance" due to other factors. It just seems that they aren't that into you to begin with and are deluding themselves because you're a good option overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:29 PM
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Isn't it a bit weird to think that a man you'd date after meeting in real life you probably wouldn't have swiped right on? "I'm not as attracted to you as I was with those few % of men I swiped right on, but I guess you'll do because I got to see your other qualities" - Sounds a bit condescending
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:46 AM
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Looks level and dating potential is linear for women but non-linear for men. An average looking guy is only slightly more advantaged than a below average looking guy, who himself is almost the same level as a genuinely deformed man. At "above average" is where things really start to change. Looks vs potential is exponential for men with gains appearing at around 6/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:04 PM
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Dating is very much a "cross that bridge when you get to it" endeavour for men, and the first bridge is always physical attraction. If you're an average or below average looking guy then it makes sense to focus 99% on looks first so you can get your foot in the door. You can focus on the other areas afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:15 PM
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I agree but just like job applications the power dynamic is a bit different after you get hired. My company has very rigid hiring criteria and we get a flood of graduate applications every year and are extremely selective (like a woman on tinder) but I've been here for years and do a lot less work than I used to and yet I'm not getting fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:44 PM
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Yes it’s critical… after she already finds you very attractive, otherwise it makes no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:09 AM
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If you have to win a woman over with your personality, status or money then she never really wanted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:23 PM
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Keywords are "very rarely". Average men can find relationships but it takes a lot of time and an agonising amount of rejection, so the juice is rarely worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 04:06 PM
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Well consider that most average guys rarely get choosing signals from women. Most women are nice and cordial but are very rarely interested in average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:46 AM
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Make a dating app account with pictures of an average guy and see for yourself, oh wait, dating apps aren't real life right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:52 PM
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Most average men get 0 attention from any women, average or below
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 12:37 PM
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Did most of your female friends feel the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 12:35 PM
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enlighten us then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 10:20 AM
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I also know my ex brother-in-law has no higher education, cannot hold a job, has no money, is 5'5" blading, ginger, overweight with glasses, no personality to speak of Man I hate reading stuff like this. I have a degree, a well paying and not very stressful corporate job, a significant amount of money saved up, 5'10, full head of hair (thanks finasteride), dark blonde hair (used to be ginger), in good shape, 20/20 vision, am reasonably funny. I've been single my entire life apart from a bunch of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 02:14 PM
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2 is a subset of 3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 08:43 AM
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That would explain why they overrate women but not why they underrate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 09:03 AM
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Why do women always gas up their female friends and other women? Constantly saying every girl is beautiful and is a "10" even when that clearly isn't the case? Especially since they rate men very low and talk about how their female friends are dating down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:37 PM
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The nose job should be the last thing you do, ideally you want to start with the lower third of the face since that usually makes your nose less of a problem or actually fixes it in the case of a lefort
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:27 AM
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I really hate the logarithmic PSL scale that caps out at 9 or whatever, but I'd agree top 5% facial attractiveness. Adding in his height and physique the dude is a slayer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:10 AM
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