| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | How to pick up girls at the club? | Inferno456 | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 09:58 AM | |
| 11 | Got a girls snap+ig at the club, what should my next move be? | Inferno456 | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 07:37 AM | |
| 1 | Gonna use Tinder for the weekend to try and get a hookup, any tips? | Inferno456 | /r/seduction | 31/08/19 06:48 AM | |
| 0 | Tinder girl invited me to watch a horror movie, in uncharted territory and need some advice! | Inferno456 | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 06:29 PM |
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| 2 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.Nice thanks. On what date # do you typically hookup? | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 05:54 AM |
| 9 | Do guys in their early 20s really hook up through Instagram? My friend claims he pulls “7/10” girls but I’m skeptical.How does it work? You just slide in and set up a date and go from there? Or u ask to hookup from the rip | /r/seduction | 10/08/25 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Why am I able to flirt effortlessly while being drunk but not when sober?What’s the point of the Zen story? I dont get it | /r/seduction | 26/03/25 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Haha yea i def overthink it, appreciate ur response 🙏 | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Went home with a 10 after the bar, first time going home with a girl after a night out at all(success story from a long time lurker)25M.Do you remember your exact opening line? That’s what i struggle with | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask out girls that I meet in group/social settings?I feel like u should dm her about something that you talked about (ex: maybe a song or a movie) and start talking a bit first | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 02:11 AM |
| 9 | How to Turn Her On During a DateWhat do you talk about on first dates typically? I’ve been trying to follow FORD but it ends up as boring work/hobby/family talk rather than more intimate flirting | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Picked up girl from House PartyDamn this is great, but I feel like having a car is huge here - what route would you have taken if you didn’t have one? | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)Makes sense, what do you like to do for 2nd or does it vary? | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)What’s your first and second date go-to? Are you doing the same thing everytime or switch it up based off what you think they’ll like? | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Gym girls - here’s how I go success with themNo | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 02:53 PM |
| 27 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?I’m sorry to tell you its inaccurate. Body builders dont even go that low for competitions cuz its literally dangerous for you. The skinniest person you know is probably like 6-7% | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 09:20 PM |
| 43 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?Ur not 4% | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Went out solo todayI think u gotta warm up then by asking a random girl/worker a question like “hey do you happen to know where the nearest bathroom is” to get the social juices flowing | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeDamn this is a nice tip ive never heard before, thanks! | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 04:11 PM |
| 11 | Fundamentals: The Pillars of Maxing Your Dating LifeIs there any way to improve confidence other than therapy? I have a good job, i’m super active and have a solid body and dress well, but i’m just really shy and don’t have past relationship experience so that leads me to not have confidence when talking to women - any way to improve that? Faking confidence doesn’t work that well for me either - and i’m looking for a more mindset shift than just to appear confident | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Never go on Dinner DatesHow do they do this? | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 06:05 PM |
| 1 | What to do when she goes coldYeah that sucks and is pretty lazy tbh | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 01:29 PM |
| 2 | What to do when she goes coldIn a weird spot where we’re both kinda busy rn but still trying to go on dates | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 05:14 AM |
| 6 | Nice Guy texting mistakes to avoidHow would you rephrase #3? It’s still important to ask about her hobbies i feel | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 05:07 AM |
| 8 | What to do when she goes coldThanks for this post, literally going thru this right now lol | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | FR [20Y/male] slept w 3 girls on holiday w the boys in 5 days & how I did itAh thanks, that makes sense. My other question is do you go up to them right in front of their friends? Or do you try to catch them alone? | /r/seduction | 30/08/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | FR [20Y/male] slept w 3 girls on holiday w the boys in 5 days & how I did itWhat’s your opener when you walk up to the girl after you’ve made eye contact and smiled? That’s my biggest issue. Do you compliment them or have a go-to opener? | /r/seduction | 29/08/23 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Having low confidence is by far the least attractive trait a guy can have: how can I get rid of that?I’m kinda similar to you. For me i got a little bit more interested in fashion so I could dress better. That + gym made me feel better in public. If you look good, you feel good | /r/seduction | 17/07/23 04:09 PM |
| 13 | how long did it take you to find out that talking to women is the easiest thing ever?This is really helpful. So instead of asking them a question, occasionally you can turn it into a tease like ur reading them and you ask them if you’re right or not - or something like that at least? | /r/seduction | 25/04/23 05:51 AM |
| 17 | Went on a date, kissed, ghosted. Wtf?U said u get back to her 4-5d later | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesMy parents actually did sign me up when I was younger! I think it was a good experience but I forgot most of what I learned lol. Maybe I could try it out again | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excusesWhat’s a legitimate solution to being shy other than therapy? Like I can function normally but I just dont speak much normally, dont need therapy for that | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 01:41 AM |
| 3 | What to do if you're not Witty?No way u serious bro 💀💀 | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 01:45 PM |
| 3 | I finally know what it feels like to touch and be wanted by a woman. Unreal experience.Whatd you say first when you approached her? | /r/seduction | 11/10/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | I (22M) need help conversing with girls in public.I’m also trying to improve my conversation but how I would continue your example is ask her questions like how do you like playing for the team? Whats the hardest part? What position do you play? Etc and let her talk while you listen | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it ok to call a girl out on her bs?So just use text to set up the date? | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 06:12 PM |
| 12 | Advice for a 37 year old virginBrag? The dude asked him how much OP made so he answered it | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | I hate being a virgin as a 21F but I don’t believe in hookup culture. What now?Try Bumble or Hinge, theyre more relationship oriented | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl invited me to watch a horror movie, in uncharted territory and need some advice!Damn you make it sound easy lol. Can u expand more on point 4? How should I initiate physical touch? | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl invited me to watch a horror movie, in uncharted territory and need some advice!Welp that makes it much more complicated… so i have to gauge her body language mainly to see if she wants to engage? | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl invited me to watch a horror movie, in uncharted territory and need some advice!Thanks for the female perspective! So I want to make sure it’s safe to assume she wants to at least make out? Nobody would ask for a movie first date and not… right?? 😅😅 | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl invited me to watch a horror movie, in uncharted territory and need some advice!Appreciate the in-depth advice! But by movie i meant at one of our places not the theater lol. I think most of your advice still applies or can be translated, but do you have any movie-specific advice? Because im guessing the making out goes on during the movie | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl invited me to watch a horror movie, in uncharted territory and need some advice!Sounds good, thanks for the response. How should I ask for one of our places? Should i ask if she has any roommates, if not then i could go to hers? | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you subtly turn a girl on?What’s selective eye contact? | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 04:22 AM |
| 19 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?That’s unpopular? | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !How? Dating apps or in person pickup? | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 05:51 AM |
| 3 | How do I get attractive female friends?I’m friends with a girl I’m not tryna sleep with. Gg | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:54 AM |
| 10 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.This super hot model comes to travel with you and you didnt think about fucking her? | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 06:14 PM |
| 8 | [FIELD REPORT] Hot white girl 30 minute pull.Whats ur ABG opener? And what are some other good general openers? | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Want to get laid fast? The easiest way to attract your local ladiesI have a pretty low body fat, really high metabolism, close to a 6 pack but i feel like my jawline is still pretty bad. Is it just genetics or is there still a big jump needed for me to see an improvement in my jawline? Or are there other factors im missing? | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 05:50 AM |
| 18 | Learn to play an instrument or join a band and it is guaranteed you’ll get laidThis one time at band camp | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Dating App trick for seemingly low interest girlsHow fast do you send that msg? Like off the start or a few msgs in? | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | gym attraction, girls with headphones on.Yet you commented what you thought right before him | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Well I asked out my classmate today.Ur on reddit and saying u have no free time? | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 08:26 PM |
| 16 | I made out with a strangerHow do you do it? Dance first or just straight up ask? | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 04:51 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Not really haha, I’m pretty bad with girls myself but glad I could help and good luck man | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 10:20 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Maybe when you bring up music again you can be like “do you have snap or ig? Maybe i can send u some song recs” (or u can ask her to send u some) | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Do women really approach guys at bars?Appreciate you sharing your advice and input, may try it out next time if I think the girl’s feeling if haha | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Do women really approach guys at bars?What % do you say they take ur hand? I’m still a noob so I’d be pretty embarrassed if they reject it | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 0 | Do women really approach guys at bars?Dang - so dance/makeout first then talk? I just started going to clubs but ive always been tryna do it the other way | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Do women really approach guys at bars?How do you initiate when a girl starts dancing next to you at a club? I made eye contact w a girl and we both slid closer til we were next to each other, I didnt wanna just start talking right away and kill the dancing vibe so I was gonna wait like 3-5m then say something. 2m later she walked away. Should I have just said something as soon as we were next to each other? And if so what are some things I could say at a club? | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Do women really approach guys at bars?Bruhh | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 12:05 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]What’s the best wording to use? “Can I get a kiss?” | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 06:40 AM |
| 5 | What’s the best way to make girls chase you?How do you be “fun?” I’ve always prided myself on being down to earth but I’ve realized most girls are looking for fun guys and I def am lacking there | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Men who have had lots and lots casual sex. How much do looks matter for getting laid?Sheeeeesh yikes lmao | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 06:46 PM |
| 7 | Epic crash and burn after a k close (this one is gonna hurt to read)Big yikes | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 02:46 AM |
| 6 | How Do I Meet More Fun And Young Single People?“Make friends” that’s the exact thing he’s asking lmfao | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 10:08 PM |
| 57 | Is online dating a waste of time for guys?You said it yourself, she gets to pick and choose on the app | /r/seduction | 02/08/21 04:55 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Any tips on finding something on vacation? Dating apps or just talking to as many girls as you can? | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What's your 'go to' move to sexualise an interaction that's too platonic?Ah ok thanks for the input. I def have a lot to learn lmao. Got any other tips for first dates other than breaking the physical barrier? | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | What's your 'go to' move to sexualise an interaction that's too platonic?Is it normal to hug a girl right when you meet her on the first date? Or is it not that common? | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 04:53 AM |
| 57 | So I went on 5 dates todayDamn gatekeeping a big city in the US? Never seen that one before | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 16 | So I went on 5 dates todayHow do you sit next to her if you’re eating at a restaurant or something? Or is this only for coffee? | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Got a girls number when I wasn’t even trying toHe said do you say it this way or that way and you said “we don’t” lol | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 03:58 PM |
| 40 | Girls don't do things by accidentNice bro you’re the king and everyone else are pussies | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Scared to make moves even when I’m drunkI guess yea. I’ve just never been the type of person to go up to someone random and strike up a conversation, but I feel like it’s just normal to others | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Scared to make moves even when I’m drunkHow do you strike up these conversations? Do you walk up and say hey whats your name? | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | You don’t have to fuck every girlDoesn’t matter still had sex | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 02:55 AM |
| 6 | Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance.Why’re you assuming she’s being a bitch about it? That says more about you. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 12:27 AM |
| 12 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?When you say women appear out of nowhere, do they approach you? Or you get opportunities to approach them | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 03:23 AM |
| 3 | What self improvements you doing during quarantine?What does your meditation consist of? I just started it, and I just sit and focus on breathing for 5 minutes. Is that pretty much it? | /r/seduction | 23/04/20 01:21 AM |
| 1 | I'm focusing on my hobbies and work, but at the end of the day I'm still not content with my romantic lifeYes, I’m asking do you have to cut out fapping entirely or just porn | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | I'm focusing on my hobbies and work, but at the end of the day I'm still not content with my romantic lifeIs fapping to models’ pics fine or is fapping just bad in general for your confidence? | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Daygame > Nightgame: My insight and analysisWhere are some of the places you approach women in the day? I still feel it too awkward to walk up to a random stranger and say hello, i feel like at a party everyone’s open to conversating but during the day they might just be busy | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 11:20 PM |
| 1 | No experience = no confidence, and no confidence = no experienceTalk to her like anyone else, just be polite but extra cheerful + confident | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 11:42 PM |
| 1 | How should I start going out alone?So for small talk with female strangers, it’s mostly for practice? When do you get to the “real” thing then and meet girls that you can actually connect with and get their number? | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 05:11 AM |
| 1 | So what do you say on the approach?The goal is to get her number though right? Cuz if you’re in line or something you won’t likely see her again after the convo? | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | So what do you say on the approach?Not OP but thanks that’s helpful. Where do you go from there though? Do you try to find a mutual topic that you both like and then say oh let’s do X sometime, can I get your number? Is that fine to say to strangers? Even then, it’s way easier said than done as idk if I could do that IRL | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 10:32 PM |
| 1 | So what do you say on the approach?I don’t get this advice. The question is how to talk to a random stranger. Even if I’m polite, if I just start talkingn to a random girl, it’d come off weird no matter what it seems | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 10:30 PM |
| 5 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.Only 30? Damn that’s lower than I thought lmao but also age group is important to state | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 10:27 PM |
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