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Field ReportInfinite-Fault-5854/r/askMRP19/10/24 01:23 AM
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Did she dump you
/r/askMRP25/10/25 09:52 PM
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IOI’s mean shit, I used to work with a girl that was a huge flirt and cock tease, she was just unhappily married, hated/resented her husband and starved of attention. I also picked up a girl one night, without kissing her or getting what you would think was an IOI, she had a bf, wanted to fuck, but didn’t want to do anything she would consider cheating, ie. hold hands, kiss, break the physical barrier until we were back at my place fucking. Go try and fuck someone. If no one will fuck you, it’s …
/r/askMRP24/10/25 09:18 PM
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What’s the Rational Male Line - the only limit to the excuses is the limit of her imaginations
/r/askMRP24/10/25 03:38 AM
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Have you tried fucking someone else, to see if other people will fuck you, or is it only your wife that won’t fuck you?
/r/askMRP23/10/25 08:30 PM
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She just making mouth noises, “Of course I want to her sex, it’s not my fault, I’m a good wife, it’s the door lock, the kids, it’s the…….”
/r/askMRP23/10/25 08:29 PM
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Fix her hormones, and ops wife then steps out and gets a bf
/r/askMRP23/10/25 08:27 PM
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This
/r/askMRP23/10/25 08:26 PM
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Fucking love that
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 07:00 PM
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I want to give credit to the guy, but I won’t be able to find the source. This helped it click for me, you (read most guys here) already give enough comfort, through validation and security. Try only giving comfort through sex from here on. “Do you really love me?” Sex her up. “Do you care about my feelings?” Sex her up
/r/askMRP10/02/25 11:12 AM
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So…….hows that working out for ya
/r/askMRP10/02/25 11:06 AM
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Is this existential crisis over a promise ring? Did you make this up? Your long distance overseas relationship is in trouble, after her pageantry coach scammed her and took off with the money, now things are rocky between you two?
/r/askMRP08/02/25 09:44 PM
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This is good
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/25 07:24 AM
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I either pick it up, because I want a clean house, or ask her to do it. Pointing it out, then doing it is almost the worst response ever, passive aggressive with a dose of supplication.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/25 09:47 PM
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You don’t gain respect from other people, YOU stop letting people treat YOU poorly (in ways YOU don’t like). It’s not about anyone else.
/r/askMRP28/01/25 07:07 PM
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Sidebar, 90% of what you need is in the sidebar bar
/r/TheRedPill26/01/25 10:35 PM
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Gonon
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 06:32 AM
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Push and pull. Even by you telling them, you are playing it. Think of it as a volume knob.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 05:36 PM
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You’ll always play the game(s) to some degree or level, that’s the feline for you. As some of the other comments here have pointed out, it’s up to each man, what games and how he plays them
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/24 07:23 PM
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What do you mean by “in the positive”?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/24 12:04 AM
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By joint account do you mean most couples have our (his) account? You’re moralising when you say it “generally healthy”
/r/askMRP16/11/24 08:07 PM
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Joint account for joint expenses, isn’t terrible at all, given Op and the missus both earn.
/r/askMRP16/11/24 08:03 PM
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Mine asked for a joint bank account a few weeks ago, I don’t know what triggered the request, not important. I said I didn’t think it was necessary to change how we are currently running things. I pay the lions share, she’s a SAHM, works three days a week. She pays for her health insurance, and anything she wants, her Pilates, going out with her sister and mum. Anything outside of the budget which I manage has to brought up. Her initial spluttering “What do you think I’m going to spend it on my …
/r/askMRP16/11/24 08:01 PM
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In the words of the great and wise ‘Meatloaf’ “You took the words right out of my mouth”
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 06:38 PM
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Not even, I probably said something retarded and stepped on my dick
/r/askMRP11/11/24 07:46 PM
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It’s not about the porn It’s not about the Test
/r/askMRP10/11/24 09:08 PM
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Yeah I would get this, and was never sure how to take it. I would get a blast of shit, or some comment 15mins later. I always took it as some low self esteem shit, ‘don’t care got laid/blown’. But it’s a problem
/r/askMRP10/11/24 06:51 PM
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That’s the truth two people in each others pockets, WFH.
/r/askMRP10/11/24 06:48 PM
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The downvotes should give you something to reflect on
/r/askMRP10/11/24 06:47 PM
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Can’t tell if this post was sarcasm or retardation?
/r/askMRP10/11/24 06:46 PM
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Fucking oath, other people and everyone else. Hang on, did Chad write this?
/r/askMRP10/11/24 06:44 PM
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Dog pissed on rug, now wants new owners. I guess I should buy them a new rug, insert ‘reasons’ why it makes sense = I’m in control of this, because I am making a decision. For what it’s worth everyone else has already suggested it. Lawyer, STFU, Lift, and in my opinion, treat it tactically and facilitate her (your kids) as much as you need to keep in amicable, but no more than that. Is it guilt that has you twisted up in how to treat her? Or fear of her retaliation? There’s enough posts that say…
/r/askMRP10/11/24 06:43 PM
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I don’t mean problem-free, elimination of the reactivity and making matters worse on my part. Having a clearer idea and direction of what I want, though as I write this that’s crap, execution is the issue. I will take it onboard though, I hadn’t considered the “Atlus Shrugged” angle. 100% argued the feelz, I knew the moment I spoke before I could stop my stupid mouth. STFU has forever been my problem. Cheers for your input.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/24 06:29 PM
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Why do the pants matter? I know but do you? (Hint - No More Mr Nice Guy) “I acted cool” Don’t act - Just ask her directly, did you ask her to wear a nice skirt/dress throughout the day, leading up to the day? If you didn’t this is on you, should she know what you like, maybe…. Did you tell her? “Hey would you mind changing into something else?” “I said something like….” What did you say? You know what said, and I imagine it was pretty shit, own it. You pleased with her about how special this one…
/r/askMRP09/11/24 07:47 PM
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The pants wasn’t disrespect, that’s just her testing your resolve regarding the request for a skirt. My wife and I were going out one day, I was dressed and she was in fitness gear. “I’m ready let’s go”, I asked if that was what she was wearing, “What’s wrong it?, we’re just going to the shops!” I simply said “No we’re going out after, I will wait for you to get changed” She carried on about make up, not enough time, some other stuff, I was walking to the study to finish something, I wasn’t real…
/r/askMRP09/11/24 07:37 PM
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And that’s the point, no arguing, no anger. Op has a covert contract, it breathes all through this. I will do Y, she will wear X, we will date smash and have a problem free life.
/r/askMRP09/11/24 07:29 PM
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OYS - 1 Stats: 37yo 6’0ft, 87.3Kgs, 14%BF (Navy), Married 5 together 7, 1 - 2yo. Lifts: GZCLP: BP N/A, DL 112.5kgs, OHP 52.5kgs BR 70kgs SQ 70kgs I want to be better and not make my life anymore difficult, than it otherwise might be. I know I have blind spots and am fucking up in ways I can’t see, and it doesn’t have to be this difficult. Shed the reactionary and self sabotaging nature. My Vision I just want a peaceful calm life. No extra drama or chaos. No outside influence, as can be achieved …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 10:02 AM
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Cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/24 08:58 PM
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Yeah Roger that. Frequency for me isn’t an issue, it’s the quality.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/24 06:20 PM
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You tried to force it, the whole section “No, because you’ve been mean to everybody all day” - You are responding to her = in her frame. If she was being a prick call her on it, or don’t and accept it, or take the kids and not be around her. You waited for an opportunity to ‘show that bitch’, and you showed her, this is how we behave in this family: Him - Be prick to family = No foot lotion Her - Get pissy (silent treatment & day off from adulting) and show him = Couch “Two can play at this new …
/r/askMRP31/10/24 05:05 PM
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What’s that expression - Is this really a problem, or am I focusing on this so I have something I think I can control. That’s why the foot lotion is the centre of the marriage Edit: The foot lotion being the centre of the marriage was a weird sentence to write.
/r/askMRP31/10/24 04:34 PM
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The visual ffs. I can’t unsee any of that. Hey Op, this.
/r/askMRP31/10/24 04:33 PM
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This is where they say constantly game. So do you get hot and heavy in bed before you get up? Light flirty, or get handsy before you walk out the door? Send something sexual throughout the day via text? It’s a volume dial, not an on off switch. Read NMMNG, I can’t remember the chapter about the guy, that escalated so slow as to not get rejected, but I imagine you get the point. She’s going to say no, but she might fuck you. Is this you escalating?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/24 02:47 AM
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Unless your married and have kids, I no longer believe the “I’m so busy/have no time” anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/24 02:41 AM
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I really like that observation about housework and rewarding bad behaviour. I will take that onboard and watch fit when I am doing that.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/24 10:16 AM
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Aftercare?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/24 10:06 AM
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During the weekdays we are pretty busy and not likely to have sex? Huh? What useless shit are you doing, or are you using to tell yourself you are too busy to fuck? How much runway do you need to get it going? I would accept you were rejected, but not even enough time to get rejected….
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/24 09:54 AM
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My understanding, is this is all amoral, in that way morality is entirely separate from the practicality, that’s almost the point. It should obviously go without saying that deceit will drive neuroticism. And deceit for deceits sake isn’t IMO frame and is obviously counter to credibility. But if it’s not in your best interests, then you don’t owe anybody your honesty for the sake of. I’m not sure if I am missing your point. I’m not meaning to.
/r/askMRP30/10/24 09:26 AM
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I will adopt this
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 09:37 PM
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How did you interrupt the sex half way through? Just stopped, some version of this isn’t doing it, you don’t seem into it?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 06:46 PM
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Is that what this is, just lack ‘oneitis’?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 06:44 PM
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I like the container, do you have any reference for that, or another specific example. I think I get it, but I have not seen a situation with it used like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 06:37 PM
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An escape from all the emotions
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 06:35 PM
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You’re deep in your head bud
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/24 06:34 PM
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Your comment sounds a bit moralising, you don’t have to do anything. I agree your word is your bond, but there’s a distinction between honesty and being overly forthright. I think if you’re going to cheat in Ops case, just leave.
/r/askMRP29/10/24 06:18 PM
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It’s greener because someone’s taken the time to make it that way.
/r/askMRP29/10/24 06:12 PM
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You’re standing all day, additional movement, easy weight loss that and lean muscle growth.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/24 03:55 AM
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I’m currently on a 40/20/40 split carbs, fat, protein. I don’t count the burnt calories. I found I could cheat myself justifying that I had burnt stuff. A have my protein shake before gym, and drink one of these for breakfast = 34 egg whites (and this for flavour and it has nearly no calories). That gets me 150grams of protein before I start work.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/24 11:01 PM
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You’re a big boy, are you tracking your calories and macros? As an example, what’s your Carbs/Fats/Proteins? -MyFitnessPal
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/24 07:46 PM
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What’s her weight/size got to do with anything?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/24 07:36 PM
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You mentioned nerd neck and bad posture, not sure what your job is, I found a stand up desk great for these, also easy low hanging fruit for the waistline.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/24 07:27 PM
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Yeah I am looking into mediation again, I have tried a few times, and used the headspace app, but it never stuck.
/r/askMRP25/10/24 05:26 AM
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I have been going over this for days now. It was very out of character. It used to be quite common, if I am honest, it was my default. I don’t want this, I have worked hard to not be like this, but very clearly have not made it to where I want to be. I have started reading ‘Ego is the Enemy’, and cannot put it down. I am surprised at how ignorant I was as to how ego manifests itself. I never thought of rage attacks as the ego. I thought that was just a self control, shitty parenting issue.
/r/askMRP24/10/24 05:55 PM
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I wanted to get it out, and down so that I couldn’t hide from it, a few weeks from now it’s just something I vaguely remember. I don’t want this to be the man I am. If I could make a question out of it, I guess it would be ‘What is the course out?’ Which to some degree it has already helped. I would’ve thought this was an anger and self control issue. Which it is but that also symptom addressing, and not root core. I wouldn’t have thought this was my ego, which it clearly jumped out to everyone …
/r/askMRP19/10/24 05:56 PM
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Yeah I started ‘Ego is the enemy’ last night, I’ll make these both the priority for the next couple of weeks. Oh I’m in doubt on that, this has nothing to do with her, this was completely me fucking up. Yeah I think you’re right, but I don’t know what to do about that. Hating myself and the world.
/r/askMRP19/10/24 05:50 PM
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Yeah Roger that. I usually point s as if laugh at fuckheads like me, and will tell my wife not to be so emotional about it. She said as much later on.
/r/askMRP19/10/24 05:47 PM
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Honestly this is such a huge backslide. I haven’t been like this in so long, pre-married. I have learned to get on top of it, and recognise this way earlier. I think there’s been a lot of instances lately, that individually they are nothing, but you rack them up, and I recognise that I had sorted some shit out, but still have core work to do.
/r/askMRP19/10/24 05:45 PM
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I have been thinking about that. I know where I grew up that was how everyone dealt with their emotions, it was whoever was more aggressive, or had bigger emotions. I know I have a lot of anger, and you are right self control is great, but it’s symptom management, not root cause. Honestly, I can’t say. I think I’m mad at myself, for wanting more, for not having life how I want it. I think ego, and projecting what I think I need to be, vs who I am. Looking back I am completely ashamed and gutted …
/r/askMRP19/10/24 05:42 PM
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Yeah I owned it later on, too late to fix. Yeah nothing to say. No frame in any of that just ego.
/r/askMRP19/10/24 04:19 AM
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Yeah the moment I felt the words leaving, I knew that I was completely fucking up. Not getting drawn into to a stupid argument with some random retard, then ruining my families day, for what? As I said loser and loser moment. STFU was the step, after the fuck up, shouldn’t have even gotten there.
/r/askMRP19/10/24 04:16 AM
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Oh complete fucking loser moment, no doubt
/r/askMRP19/10/24 04:13 AM
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It was retarded to write. It’s on the list to read, I’ll move it up the ladder.
/r/askMRP19/10/24 04:08 AM
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Yeah not my best moment
/r/askMRP19/10/24 04:07 AM
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Wearing Skimpy clothes and prancing around Is it my problem that I don’t want her doing it Got her at 18, I’m the only guy she’s been with
/r/askMRP17/10/24 12:02 AM
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