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Who cares? I don't care if a woman takes a piss next to me. Women probably feel more uncomfortable with dudes in the bathroom with them.
/r/MensRights10/01/20 09:55 PM
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Fredricks was waaaaaàaaaay better. It was practically porn
/r/PussyPassDenied24/10/19 08:29 PM
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Fredricks of Hollywood was the best
/r/PussyPassDenied24/10/19 08:04 PM
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fat? she didnt seem fat to me, but maybe i just like em thicc (im probably too old to have an opinion on her though...)
/r/PussyPassDenied10/10/19 04:32 PM
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my ex kicked a police officer as they were trying to hand cuff her. She had assaulted me earlier. They charged her with assault on an officer as well as on me. I didnt go to court cuz i didnt want her to get in trouble. SO the only charges that stuck were the assualt on the cops. She got 6 months probation. Im a black guy and I know if it was me, i'd be dead or in jail.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/19 02:39 PM
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Reminds me of my ex, hot girl. Hot problems. She too assaulted a police officer after she assualted me. They arrested her. She was mad at me for calling the cops. We had sex later that day after i bailed her out... :\
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/19 02:36 PM
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Depends on if u throw as much judgement as the kid threw punches. Ayo!
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 10:38 PM
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He can throw them, just not effectively. Its easy to swing like one of those "wacky arm" things.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 07:45 PM
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One of our major issues is that we argue from an emotionally charged perspective under the guise that we can talk rationally and end up intellectualizing a lot of the issues. So it becomes a logical tit for tat. Sadly (yes), I have a better grasp on arguments and being able to get someone into a corner with their words, which conversely puts her in a defensive emotional state where she feels vulnerable and defenseless and her ego reacts the only way it thinks it knows to protect her by reverting…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/11/17 03:16 AM
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Its no as simple as that, I've been on the other side telling my friends similar advice in nowhere relationships. This one in particular has some mental instablity that scares me. For my own safety since she knows how to break into my place (we did it together a few times) but more importantly for her own physical well being. Luckily my therapist is also in touch with her therapist, so when I have my next appointment, I can address the recent events and how best to navigate this sticky wicket I …
/r/PussyPassDenied22/11/17 01:59 AM
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Don't give her keys. And don't live on the first floor where she can jump up your balcony and break your glass door window to open the lock.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/17 11:33 PM
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I'm going through this now... Looking back I knew something was off based on a picture. We were seeing each other (aka fucking) for a few weeks and things were fine, linked up on FB and saw her profile pic. It's one of those artistic pics that girls take when they do "photoshoots". The look in her eyes was THE look. Both I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you and kill you in your sleep. She's two different people when she's sober/drunk. Drunk her is hyper aggressive and has assaulted me countless ti…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/17 11:25 PM
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Nick lache must be so happy he didn't stay with that
/r/MGTOW22/09/17 01:14 AM
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The modern day "glamour shots". For the youngins, back in the late 80s and 90s in strip malls you had these photoshoot type places that people went to get "modeling" pics done
/r/PussyPassDenied10/04/17 09:36 PM
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Ideally, if she flakes and doesnt offer when she's free or wants to see you next. its kind of dead in the water. Sure throw out the option, but realize that you're chances are slim. Think about it, if you had a date lined up with a girl you were interested in and somethign came up last minute and you canceled. Would you just leave it at that and let her reschedule? No, you'd say "hey, i'm sorry x thing came up, but I can do tomorrow @ y time. Does that work for you?"
/r/seduction14/03/16 03:27 PM
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I'd say that women are just as self conscious about getting their ego hurt if they were to get rejected by the guy. That, and its not the societal norm for the women to make the first move. I've been picked up a few times at bars by women, they tend to be 7's. Not the chicks I want, but hey I didnt do anything so i'll entertain it. The 7's and less have to be a little more competitive since most guys are oggling the 8+'s and not really going out of their way to talk to Average Andrea.
/r/seduction10/03/16 05:08 PM
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Tons of young German and dutch girls in Puerto Viejo Costa Rica.
/r/seduction05/05/15 02:18 PM
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Not the ones I've met on vacation.
/r/seduction05/05/15 01:20 AM
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Honestly, if you think about it strategically you're still "thinking" about it too much. I envision how his friend just being social to whomever is receptive and the least attractive girls in the groups tend to have less of a front. So it's easy, then you pull the group in. It you can learn one thing about game, it's this. You have to like meeting people. Getting to know then genuinely, not to get shit from men or women. No ulterior motive. Yes, still escalate but it's natural and not a program …
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:38 AM
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My friends told me when I was deep into it that they couldn't talk to me at the bar because my eyes were always on the prowl. After I chilled out chasing tail it was OK, I took my friends words personally and felt bad that I "wasn't there" mentally for them.
/r/seduction21/09/14 09:21 PM
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I'm 34, I was really deep into this a few years back. When I was in "dog" mode. I had two girls that I was seeing that were really hot. The rest were cute girl next door types. Honestly, game got old for me. I realized I was just ego stroking myself. It wasn't until I fucked over two really good girls that I realized I liked having real connections rather than a bunch of one night stands. Don't get me wrong, the skills and ultimately the "outcome" independent attitude has really helped me get be…
/r/seduction10/09/14 08:36 PM
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Short of getting them cosmetically fixed, do this. Practice in a mirror two smiles. One is a playful smirk, with a slight upturn of your lip on whatever side is natural. The eyes are key to smiling. Next. Practice a medium smile. Find whatever you are comfortable with. The reason to practice is for muscle memory. Once you can instantly get on point it will be natural. Get your teeth fixed then do the Cheshire cat over the top exuberance. I had broken my front teeth in HS and hated smiling cuz I …
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:51 PM
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Anytime rando bro. Just realize that your world is not over. I wont say dont go out and get fucked up a lot, but I'm in no position to tell people not to do that. Its just that it can suck you in and make you more fucked up. The worst for me was the nights where I didnt meet/fuck/get a number of a chick. I'd go home and wonder what the fuck was wrong with me, then descend into a "will I ever find someone" vortex of doom. This is despite all the other girls i'd met the weeks/months prior. Just ke…
/r/seduction25/06/14 04:55 PM
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Thanks, it just flowed out of me. Glad it's provided clarity for some
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:49 PM
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Thanks man, there is hope. See it as an opportunity to become a better you
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:48 PM
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I don't think men are as methodical about it as women are. It's my anecdotal evidence and obviously it's not a law of nature.
/r/seduction24/06/14 10:16 PM
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Here's the reasoning that missing. Women when they are unhappy in a relationship will start to withdraw and become more ambivalent. They will be talking to their friends about their problems.. Slowly going through the break up while in the relationship. Men will be oblivious and think things are just in a rough patch and work on "fixing" it rather than listening and being there emotionally. Its dude nature to fix stuff, but women dont want fixing, they want compassion and understanding. When the…
/r/seduction24/06/14 08:18 PM
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Thats pretty on point for someone who really needs a play by play. Im from the school of bar bites/apps/tapas and drinks. Food should be kept light and shareable. Bonus points if you know the place and have good recommendations. If you have a good repore/vibe going, it could be worthy of setting up an instant date. Take a walk to the park and hang out to talk. Dont prolong the evening for the sake of it either, if its winding down dont force it and let it takes its natural course.
/r/seduction03/06/14 05:48 PM
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Basically, get out of your head. Dont memorize lines/routines. Be aware in the moment. What do you like about this girl? She's cool/eclectic? Nice pair of shoes? Great accent pieces of jewelry. I personally like complimenting on the subtle things that most people dont pick up on. If you reverse engineer the way women get dressed, they think about EVERYTHING they have on. Ever watch your girlfriend get dressed and have trouble deciding which bracelete or which pair of shoes? Every girl that is ou…
/r/seduction03/06/14 03:38 PM
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I see him as the kind of guy that would blow through whatever cash he had. The Game portrayed him to be a little unstable. Of course, he may have changed since.
/r/seduction20/05/14 10:14 PM
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I'd say you're right, but you have to be mindful of the fact that some people have particular tastes and types that you may not fit into. For example if you're darker skinned, not everyone is into dating someone outside their race/ethnicity. You can't help that, that should in no way make you feel bad. That is one person out of millions who wasn't into your flavor. I totally advocate the basics: exercise, eat right, groom right, dress right. You do that shit and have your confidence flowing, peo…
/r/seduction20/05/14 10:03 PM
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Pabst blue ribbon. It's now a hipster throw back beer. Same with high life, which actually is my favorite of the shit beers
/r/seduction17/05/14 06:26 AM
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That's pretty much the ticket. Anything that caters to 27+ crowd so they don't feel self conscious. Most of those bars tend to be pricier to weed out the PBR crowd. (I like PBR, bit meant people who can only afford that caliber drink)
/r/seduction16/05/14 08:44 PM
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So that's old now.. Fuck me.. Old for me is mid 40s. I'm 33. Young for me that's datable is 25-30. Fuckable is anything greater than 21.
/r/seduction16/05/14 08:42 PM
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I think you might be the one in need of pre marriage divorce papers. You've got a twisted view of things. I partially agree with a couple things you've said but to think nothing of someone's vulnerability and exploiting it for your own gain is fucked. I'll play along with you. Said girl is having a shit night, got slut shamed. You console her and you fuck her. Let's say you fuck her right too (I doubt it based on your selfish tone). She gets off. Next morning after her buzz has long since worn o…
/r/seduction14/05/14 04:50 PM
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Seriously? Dude I'm not even married in the first place. Secondly, I'm not what would be considered beta, but sure assume that based on my inkling of compassion for someone who had a rough night and not thinking it's right to fuck her for the fuck of it. You do realize, or I hope you will realize, that you don't have to fuck someone just cuz you can. You'll be filling an empty void. Been there done that. That mentality is actually "beta" cuz your fulfilling your insecurity by looking for validat…
/r/seduction14/05/14 04:04 PM
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Not sure. I thought he was joking when he said that
/r/seduction14/05/14 02:17 PM
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For some reason I don't think he did. It seems like they were just being nice to her and giving her a ride home. If a chick is crying at any point in the night, she's clearly vulnerable and I personally wouldn't exploit her in that state for sex to prove a point. Her body language walking out was not that of "let's go rage"
/r/seduction14/05/14 01:46 PM
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Nah, most of the girls i've gone out with afterwards then will eventually offer to split or want to pay. I'll be chivalrous a few times, not all the time. I don have a problem with paying, im financially stable and usually make more than the women i go out with. Paying for drinks or a meal may be a harder hit for them on the wallet.
/r/seduction09/05/14 02:17 PM
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Yes I do. I've done dutch a couple times but it didn't turn out well. Im from the mindset now that if you ask a girl out you should pay. Not saying it has to be expensive, you could get coffee, but you should still pay.
/r/seduction07/05/14 11:34 PM
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I live in a city and i have a rotation of about 3/4 bars that are sexy, have small plates (a couple tapas places), or good mexican place with chips/salsa/bar bites. Its great cuz you're not droppin $100+ bucks on a dinner. My typical date at those places costs around $60. More expensive if we drink more cuz we're vibing, but at that point its a worthy investment.
/r/seduction07/05/14 06:52 PM
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I'd say you're fairly on point. I just think that even confident people tend to still have a bit of ego that can be bruised if someone rebuffs them. Its to me, being confident coupled with not being afraid of someone not liking you. Everyone wants to be liked, but its hard to imagine someone not liking you. Thats the fear that i think newbies have that needs to be overcome. Yes confidence helps, go to the gym if your fat and get ripped. You'll feel much better and that may transcend into your ga…
/r/seduction28/04/14 06:44 PM
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When i first got back into the dating scene and reading this stuff and going out all the time. When i'd see a girl and that old "let me wait for her to send me a sign to approach" thought would come into my head. I'd just say "fuck it" and just start walking over there. Say wahtever, blow yourself out. Its not really about getting THAT particular girl that night, but it helps train that fuck it mentality and developing that outcome independence attitude everyone speaks of. I will admit, this is …
/r/seduction28/04/14 06:41 PM
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I'm finding this conundrum. When you're out with them and you get to know them and you know it's not gonna work out, but you still find them sexually attractive and they like you. When I first started getting into this I'd still fuck them and go from there which would usually lead to a break up. Now I don't even want to fuck them anymore if nothing is really going to happen
/r/seduction11/04/14 02:34 AM
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Yea I think over time you just realize some people it won't work out with and your not gonna waste your time chasing it. But I'd say prior to a date with a girl I like I def go through that "what would life be like with her" mentality. If it doesn't work out I kind of just let it go and forget.
/r/seduction11/04/14 02:29 AM
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I've lived with women in the past when i was in my early 20's, but they were more the reserved kind. In my early 30's after I got out of a long term relatioship (7years). I got my own place and my neighbors across the hall are young 23 year olds. So 10 years my juinor. I hang out with them periodically, go to house parties, bars, late night, from time to tome. Man, that was some eye opening shit. They were just as raunchy about sex and just general stuff you think women dont really talk about pu…
/r/seduction02/04/14 02:49 PM
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April Fools?
/r/seduction01/04/14 06:04 PM
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Very well put, great experiential advice
/r/seduction23/02/14 01:47 AM
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I posted another post in this thread with a bit of my story, but heed my warning: there is a dark side to this. Get into this for the right reasons and not to fill a void which I think a lot of people do
/r/seduction23/02/14 01:43 AM
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Eh I got laid the most in my most self destructive I don't give a fuck phase. I was drinking a ton and doing a bunch of drugs. I knew how to escalate and wasn't just a sloppy mess (I'm what you would consider a high functioning alcoholic). Despite my success I was still lonely because I didn't care about most of these women and the few that I did I blew it because I was greedy and fucking around on them. (I've been over compensating due to a broken heart from a 7 year relationship that ended) To…
/r/seduction23/02/14 01:38 AM
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Sweden? Im going to Switzerland. I def want to go to Sweden and Norway, but not on this trip.
/r/seduction19/02/14 02:42 PM
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I figure thats going to be the case since the places im going are prime toursisty spots for snowboarding/skiing. We shall see what will unfold. I do better with french women because I can speak it so that might help me out in Chamonix and Geneva
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:25 PM
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Wow man.. you have no idea what you're talking about.. You dont even know me or whether I have AA. Of which I dont, those days are long in the rearview, but thanks. At this point, you've kind of missing the whole point, but are asserting yourself that game is game wherever. I think its a false assumption (I've traveled to many countries and seen different cultures, its not the same shit everywhere) The question was really to see if you had been to those place and how the culture was.. For exampl…
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:24 PM
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Basically referential stories from people who have been there before. cultures make a massive difference on how certain things we do in the US as a norm may be considered offensive You're girls are girls regardless is false. Women in new England vary from Midwestern women, let alone different countries. So yea... No.
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:02 PM
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Mmk buddy
/r/seduction18/02/14 05:50 PM
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You can turn your sarcasm filter off now.
/r/seduction18/02/14 05:46 PM
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Which country?
/r/seduction18/02/14 05:36 PM
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sometimes the most obvious is the least. But yea.. this stuff was just natural based on reading the girls body language and teasing. Some people arent always in tune with that stuff so we cant accept it as commonplace.
/r/seduction12/02/14 08:46 PM
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Also, if you take the rejection too seriously to bruise you're ego, you're going about it wrong. You've already put too much emphasis on what the other person thinks of you. They've in essence taken you're power. I too, like you, just laugh it off
/r/seduction12/02/14 07:22 PM
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Hmm.. whats always worked for me is pretty simple. Once you get her back to your place and you're already making out and starting to heavy pet. You've gotta start ramping it up a bit, start kissing around her ears and neck. She's gonna get so turned on by that point that her own clothes become an impediment that she wants you to take off. This is where, as other have said, you be bold. You start to take off her shirt. Leave her bra on at first to further build up to it. Start making your way dow…
/r/seduction12/02/14 05:23 PM
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Extremely well put.
/r/seduction03/02/14 05:54 PM
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I did this post a 7 year relationship. It's cool for awhile then it just becomes what you do to get your high. I think fuckin in moderation is ideal, but who really wants to do that? I didn't. Two years later, I've got a lot of notches on the belt but I've blown it with a couple really cool women by being too game focused. when I go out, I'm not trying to fuck or get numbers as the primary motive. I don't care about women right now. Im getting back to the basics and being happy without requiring…
/r/seduction22/01/14 02:32 PM
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This happens a lot when you multi date. Especially if you go out on dates and have a few drinks and then you have a follow up date later. Its hard to remember the details and some women will give you shit about it and sometimes they get turned off because they think you dont give a shit. having notes helps a lot here
/r/seduction17/01/14 06:04 PM
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Who in the video though?
/r/seduction12/01/14 03:24 AM
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Which one is he? Spikey dude seemed the most confident
/r/seduction12/01/14 01:54 AM
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And I think women are more conscious of the way they look so rejection plays a huge role in their insecurity
/r/seduction23/12/13 11:57 PM
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Same for me, but i guess i dont seem as mad as you seem to be about it. Its more of a 'whatever', moving on. In the end this is a numbers game, dont waste your time on something that doenst warrant it. Also, be mindful that when you meet someone knew they can be at very interesting points in their relatioship lifecycle. meaning some might have JUST broken up the day before, or it was a long hard break up, had a bad one night stand, etc. So it might not be that the dont like you, but they arent r…
/r/seduction16/12/13 08:02 PM
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Its the majority of people's sticking points, so there are more of us than you think. Even us who are good at it can still get tripped up by a 9/10. I have my comfort zone with 7/8's (cute girl next door types that clean up well), but i get all fucked in the head when a 9/10 (modelsque) comes by. Im just so in awe of the fine piece of ass i'm lose my mind and all smoothness goes out the window. I can still strike up a conversation with them, but my brain doesnt cooperate with me.
/r/seduction04/12/13 04:35 PM
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Ye old outcome independence. You dont care about what happens to her so you're natural. Stupid brain when you like girl. I like girl. Let me act like i think she wants me to act or like the suave james bond. Key is you're acting and not being genuine. I do the same shit. I go into a bit of AFC mode, even though i have no problem talking to them, in the back of my mind i'm like 'shes hot shes hot shes hot' and it fucks with me too.
/r/seduction04/12/13 04:24 PM
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The most I've had concurrent was 3. Didn't tell them about each other, but kept an air of causality about it so they wouldn't get mislead. It's expensive given the juggling. I'm a drinks and light apps guy and that usually costs 55-75 depending on where I go. Then as it gets a little more involved a dinner @100+. Remembering specific stuff gets hard especially if you tend to go out and have dinner drinks. Making sure to clean or hide condom wrappers. I've been busted by a friend of one of the gi…
/r/seduction25/11/13 07:38 PM
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I kino and with certain work women that im cool with but.. squeeze on the torso? I have no idea what you're doing? Dem tits are in the way. You squeezin tits at the off buttplug?
/r/seduction18/11/13 10:17 PM
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Compare Charlie Sheen (48) with George Clooney (52). Which one do you think women would rather bang AND settle down with? I think its about how hard you fuck yourself up. I like to party and i can hang with the best, but Charlie is a whole notha level. Point being you can ride it out for a long time if you take care of yourself (maybe good genes help too)
/r/seduction18/11/13 09:15 PM
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Dude, thats a great age to be single. I'm 33 and i'd say i have a bit more to worry about when it come to social pressure. Im in the same boat you are. I was visiting my parents yesterday and my mom of course asks "so are you seeing anyone". No mom, i'm not seeing one person, i'm seeing multiple and i like it. I too thoroughly enjoy my social life right now, I do think about finding the 'right' one, but if it hasnt happened yet, i'm not going to push to make it happen just because it is what 'sh…
/r/seduction18/11/13 09:10 PM
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I too came to this lifestyle after a LTR breakup. I'd say a lot of guys after they get that real heart break they get that fuck it attitude and initially just want to fuck the pain away. That's what I did. There's still lingering pain but I don't have too many issues getting women now. No pain, no gain
/r/seduction18/11/13 02:46 AM
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I dont think the benefits of smoking to meet women who smoke is even worth it. You may think you cant get addicted (so did i when i was a 'social' smoker at 20), but it happens and it becomes super hard. Smoking is a good way to meet people, both men/women because you already have that commonality, but i really dont think its worth it. Sure, if the girl smokes it can work to your advantage because you can always isolate and go out for a smoke. as for a how.. the typical "hey" works or talk about…
/r/seduction06/11/13 07:35 PM
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The thing for me with time constraints is that if you do the 'hey, i only got a sec because i have to do x' you sometimes dont get to build that much of a rapport for it to be strong. This is assuming your saying like, hey im about to leave but i had to come over and say hi. talk a bit, then you HAVE to leave. Sure she could have been interested in you, but seeing that the conversation was very brief, she would not have made a strong enough connection to be flake proof. I think if you're at a ba…
/r/seduction06/11/13 06:09 PM
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If you really think about it, girls have it harder. They have to hope that a nice confident man approaches them and talks to them. Most of the time they ate getting duds not studs. And when a stud come along who knows how to escalate to get laid they can end up feeling used. Be the stud, be the decider. We have it better. Especially in your 30s IMO.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:58 PM
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What i typically do is just get more distant, still talk and answer texts, but they can sense me withdrawing. Then they bring it up and I say i'm not in the right state for a committed relationship. Some will accept it and move on. Others will be cool with the limited interaction. I've rested many a plane down without killing the passengers. I think I've developed a skill at it. I'm 33 though.
/r/seduction24/10/13 09:19 PM
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Props there buddy, best I've done is a quasi double date. Whispered to my date to meet me in the bathroom, bang in the bathroom, and come out with shit eating grins. Fucking AT the table.. my balls are not so gigantic to pull this off.
/r/seduction23/10/13 05:55 PM
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Practice that shit. Find that right angle of teeth lip combo that works for your face. Lot's 'O gums when you smile? Practice not going as high. Do it a bunch. Your eyes factor into your smile for genuineness as well. Work on that.
/r/seduction01/10/13 11:25 PM
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Breaking up with my ex of 7 years. I kind of fell into it accidentlaly. I went out a lot to bars after we broke up and I didnt give a shit. I'd talk to anyone and i was getting a good amount of one night stands. My buddy who i told about my random outings asked me if I read The Game. I hadnt, so i went and got it. After that i got sucked into this blackhole. It basically vocalized or at least helped me internalize some of the stuff I was doing it so i could do it more on command rather than shee…
/r/seduction27/09/13 07:26 PM
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More upscale bars and lounges. I hate clubs because it's harder to have a conversation and I'm better being able to talk. I can dance but I have never been able to transition dance to bed. Bar to bed easy.
/r/seduction27/09/13 04:23 AM
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True. I think real success comes when you realize she's not feeling you and you don't get your ego bruised. Think of it as progress and have a good time. The best is if you know the deal and bow out before she gets that ugh why is he still here feeling. If you do that then move on and have fun with some girls who feel you. Then they will get flustered.
/r/seduction25/09/13 11:45 PM
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I usually have a bottle of red and a chilled bottle of white. I lead with white usually cuz it's lighter. 90% of the time it goes barely touched.
/r/seduction25/09/13 11:40 PM
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I hear ya, have varies by demo. I'm 33 so it's a diff ballgame. You're on the right track. Calibrate accordingly
/r/seduction25/09/13 11:38 PM
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You put in a movie late night? Like 2:30 -3 am? I guess im not into the false pretense of oh we're watching a movie. If a girl comes back, she knows what the fuck is going on. I just opt for music and some light convo and kino then badaboom cha ching.
/r/seduction25/09/13 09:27 PM
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if she's pressed up against the wall i usually grab both legs and pick her up at which point she usually wraps her legs around my waist. Continue making out with her (or smelling her hair, hovering around her neck before nibbling, kissing, etc), then carry her over to my couch in the living room. The good part about the carry and move is that you cant help but place her on her back since thats the direction its naturally setup to be. If you're not that strong, the put down can probably hang you …
/r/seduction25/09/13 09:24 PM
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Its aggressive and they love it. You better be able to carry her too and not look like a bitch :P
/r/seduction25/09/13 02:08 PM
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Giggidy Gigiidy! Yea, its such a routine for me that its on cruise control. I had ONE girl ask me if I'd done this before because of how well executed it was. I just smirked and kissed her anyway cuz she was horny so ultimatly she didnt care.
/r/seduction25/09/13 01:35 PM
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If she's back at my place solo I would have already been kino'ing prior. Once we walk into my place I ask her if she wants a drink. She'll typically say yes then want use the bathroom. That's when I sexify my place. Turn on my music, dim lights, get drinks. She comes out I give her the drink. Now, if the sexual vibe is ramped up already I'll go in for the kiss. I usually end up pinning her against the wall as we make out. Then once it's purring, double legs swoop and have her wrap her legs aroun…
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:26 PM
1

Hmm.. for me i'd say I tend to find something attractive about them. Their face does not have to be supermodel symmetric and all that. I just find something that is cute. BTW, i'm not talking about girls that are like 6's (yea thats relative), but when i compromise is for a 7. I dont like using number scales, got rid of that when i started getting into this.. iTs Would I or Wouldnt I. Does my penis approve or not. Interesting tidbit from my friday. I have been on a big tits drought. I love a chi…
/r/seduction23/09/13 07:57 PM
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Meh. Don't ask for it like saying can I get your number. Let's get together this week, what's your number. Much better because it's confident and you're dictating not asking
/r/seduction15/09/13 12:45 AM
5

I'm assuming your going out Solo Dolo. Most likely you've been spotted as the single guy by himself at the bar. I'd say its more difficult to open sets when you're running solo. When I go out solo I tend to park in a spot and socialize with the staff or make small talk with people close by. Dont try and buddy buddy them too much but have some sort of discourse with people around you so you dont look like someone who has no social skills. Use opportunities like going to the bathroom or a smoke to…
/r/seduction04/09/13 09:06 PM
3

I think when i was about 20 or so. Post dropping out of college and having to work and live on my own i realized that vital lesson. Your parents arent demi gods. They are people too. They are children who grew up to become adults and carried along their insecurities and their rationalizations. The day you see your parents as your equals but treat them with respect is when you become an adult. IMO.
/r/seduction03/09/13 08:56 PM
1

I had a really tough relationship with my mom growing up. Yet, i'm a pretty big extrovert and socialize extremely well. This is probably due to the fact that we moved around a lot growing up so I had to learn over and over how to make new friends quickly. To this day it has been a godsend of a skill. For work and play. I click with people instantly. Its like i've "known" them forever. The key is listening and asking relevant questions and parlay relevant life stories in common. Builds bonds. So …
/r/seduction03/09/13 08:54 PM
4

I grew up with a super dominant mother, my dad wasnt around so she wore the pants. She demanded FULL attention and was the source of authority on all matters. We FOUGHT like cats and dogs growing up. Not because I didnt respect her, but because she took disciplining to another level. So i was the black sheep between my sister and I. I still feared my mother, but i didnt always listen to her and dealt with the consequences (belt whippings like i was a damn slave). My beef with her was never livin…
/r/seduction03/09/13 08:51 PM
1

It sounds so methodical.. Not my vibe. I think when it comes to methods try and understand the principal behind what it's doing and AdLib it with your own flow. You're gonna come off too mechanical and you might get stuck in your head
/r/seduction29/08/13 10:53 PM
3

I dunno, i can carry on conversations for the fuck of it, but i'm always thinking I want to bang them. Assuming im moderately attracted to them in the first place.
/r/seduction16/08/13 09:54 PM
3

8 in two months is pretty respectable. Whats your age demo if you dont mind?
/r/seduction14/08/13 09:32 PM
8

Yea thats true, sometimes you get into layup situations where all you have to do is NOT FUCK UP.
/r/seduction14/08/13 09:31 PM
3

Ditto. I just picture myself jumping out of a plane. Fuck it. Let's go!
/r/seduction28/07/13 05:51 AM
1

Yuppers.
/r/seduction22/07/13 12:11 AM
1

Another nod in the "been there" boat. I was going to write something up like this myself, but you've already covered most. I could go into some of the more technical aspects, but that seems to be adequately covered in this Subreddit. Im just about 2 years out of a LTR with a girl i was with for 7 years. I took me 3 months before i could fathom putting my dick in another chick. After that I just started going out like an animal and was getting lucky by accident. Read The Game, Models, David D, th…
/r/seduction18/07/13 05:43 PM
1

I liked bars, i thrive in them.
/r/seduction01/07/13 07:25 PM
4

As someone who's HR chick was flirting with me hardcore to the point that someone called her out on it. She said we needed space. Funny thing about this is that i was chasing her for about 5 months, then went off and did my own shit, then she pursued HARD CORE for the past month, but i didnt want to fuck her anymore because i did think that work would get affected by it. her boss, my VP of HR who i'm super cool with told me not to fuck her cuz she seemed like a clinger. (I kissed her boss too..)…
/r/seduction01/07/13 07:20 PM
1

Good ol bars, still relevant and having a resurgence the past decade. I knew i was on the right path. My liver may disagree, but my penis is all smiles
/r/seduction01/07/13 07:13 PM
3

Very simple philosophy which is echoed in other self help areas (AA for example). Dont stress about the things you cant change about yourself (height/hair/dick size/etc) and accept that as part of who you are. Work on the tangibles that you can change to make yourself better. aka working out, dressing better, meditating, reading, etc. Shit that makes you better overall. I feel a lot of people are unhappy because they are not like that "other" person they think is better than them. Here's the act…
/r/seduction26/06/13 07:37 PM
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There's the classic chick move: Make eye contact with a guy, turn away giggle to her friends. Saunter over close by and perch up hoping he'll come say hi. When i see this, i'll go and open it immediately.
/r/seduction25/06/13 09:22 PM
1

Also, that budget will not get you far in a major city
/r/seduction20/06/13 11:27 PM
1

Same for me, my phone is cluttered with numbers I've gotten over the past year that I have no idea who they are. I've gotten over 100+ numbers, fucked 24, went on a shit ton of dates, and made out with too to count. There are so many factors that lead to solid connections that it's hard to attribute to one thing in particular. Bottom line: numbers game, but you have to know how to maximize your interactions.
/r/seduction20/06/13 04:38 PM
1

I've gone on a ton of dates and I'd have to say that I think the onus is on the guy to pay on the first date. Future dates are a toss up but go with the expectation of paying. I met these girls at a bar months back and wet were talking about dating and social norms. The topic of paying came up and back then I was a split it guy. She said that if a guy asks her out and expects to split she wouldn't like it and probably not see him again. Take that as it is. You're mileage may vary. I ask, I pay.
/r/seduction19/06/13 11:22 PM
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I go to bars/lounges A LOT and i meet down to earth girls a lot when im out. I tend to go to higher end places that attract an older crowd 26+ so you dont have too many young fickle chicks.
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:50 PM
3

the ones that you see with the typical meatheads are pretty shallow and insecure from my own experience. They do tend to look good, but in a fake type of way. Think JWOW
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:47 PM
2

So basically your more into the euro slim body type.
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:47 PM
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Im pretty much your exact same size (5'11-3/4 & 200lbs) and am pretty jacked as well. I've got pretty decent size arms and my back is kinda wide. When i wear plane tshirts and go out, theres usually some point in the night where girls are drunk enough to say random shit. usually its not the 9/10's its usually the 6/7's that finally give in and gush over something about my physique. I also have a muscular ass which i think by far gets the most looks/compliments. I usually get girl next door types…
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:44 PM
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I disagree, i dont think you should only let them initiate contact. A lot of women are reserved about that becuase it shows their cards or their interest. Or they can just be shy. Im a hug and kisser if i've met them at least once, i'm not even talking about dates. Im talking about someone i met via a friend once before. interesting side note: I kissed my VP of HR on the cheek mid hug. Well i was attempting to kiss her on the cheek and she kissed me on the lips.
/r/seduction10/06/13 07:21 PM
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I typically kiss on the first date. Its not a system, its comfort and reading how we're interacting. If she's being cold or distant, i wouldnt go for a kiss on the lips. If we've had a good time, good laughs, why not see where the bounderies are? It sets up the future interactions from there.
/r/seduction10/06/13 07:19 PM
3

a total blind date? like someone set yo up? If you were talking to someone online and you met up, i'd give a hug because you've built enough repore to warrant familiarity.
/r/seduction10/06/13 07:16 PM
1

Hmm.. over the past year and a half i've had a pretty dramatic change in the way I physically interact with women. If its a complete stranger, i'll shake hand politely and smile. If we get to know each other a bit over the course of an evening. When we part ways, assuming i'm not bringing her home, i'll give her a hug and kiss on the cheek. If its a girl i've meet before at least once, i'll hug and kiss on the cheek. I dont know when i got rid of the 'only hug people you know really well' bit, i…
/r/seduction10/06/13 07:15 PM
1

Di double T O..
/r/seduction05/06/13 10:37 PM
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My thing is i have a tendency of having the talk after we've had sex.. Not literally after, but after we've hooked up once or a few times. I further complicate shit cuz I like cuddling.. Yea..,no bueno. Relationship catnip. I feel bad about it, but i guess I'm more concerned with fucking first then easing it out slowly. I've had a fair amount of success keeping them around after transitioning to fwb's with no ill will.
/r/seduction05/06/13 10:34 PM
1

I do not follow the stupid go out 7 days a week crap. Unless you have no job or school or obligations can you go out that often. I go out alot and its about 4 days a week, sometimes 5. You should at minum go out 3 nights a week. You can do the typical thur-sat, but it may be good to mix up a solo night on a mon-wed, which is a diff crowd or less of a crowd. I live in an area close to a lot of hospitals and I run into nurses all the time on odd days sun-wed cuz their shifts rotate a lot.
/r/seduction03/06/13 09:39 PM
1

I have a buddy whos really good looking and i'll say this: it does help A LOT if you're REALLY good looking. Despite that, he has not perfected his game. He reaches a certain point in the evening when he's gotten a bit tipsy and just gets stupid and waaay to cocky. You have no idea how many girls come up to him only to be taken aback by his behavior. Also, mind you, he does not get the bombshells coming up to him, usually just average girls that are captivated by his looks. I have way better suc…
/r/seduction03/06/13 09:18 PM
1

As an ex IT Security guy, I was only jealous of the field techs because they got to go out and actually see these people who I only knew as username/IP's/Virus Breeders. The ivory tower of engineering does have its pitfalls.. On the plus side, pay and not dealing with retarded users personally.
/r/seduction23/05/13 07:37 PM
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end thread. solution provided.
/r/seduction22/05/13 06:33 PM
1

True words. If I touch and is only once I'll hold a bit longer. The rest is quick contact
/r/seduction21/05/13 11:00 PM
1

I forget at what point I internalized this, but it's just the way I am. I see a familiar door guy, I shake hand arm on shoulder. See my buddies, bro hug. If I come up from behind on them, Vulcan trap grab. I always shake a girls hand with a noble clasp and a smile at first. Touch elbow, lower back touch when talking close. Hugs and kiss cheek to close girlfriends. I used to never do that shit, I don't know if it's because I've read this stuff over the past year or it may have happened spontaneou…
/r/seduction21/05/13 10:58 PM
1

I'll play contrarian, I smoke and drink a shit ton. I also, exercise 4-5 times a week. 6'0 200lbs, pretty solid shape. The key to being capable of drinking and still picking up women is to know where the danger zone is. Know when you hit that line, find the line and stay with it. Turn down shots, dont quicken your pace. Float on that line. I have a high tolerance due to years of practice. Is it good? Is it something to brag about, not really. I just want to let you know that you can still succee…
/r/seduction20/05/13 09:34 PM
1

Who cares man, youre young. People wont remember your night as much as you think they will.
/r/seduction17/05/13 06:07 PM
1

The one thing you cant decipher from his report is the way he said what he said. For example, his comment that was meant to be tongue in cheek to the bartender came off completely fucked, so he got no response. I give you lots of props for doing what you've done cuz its part of your journey, but I hope you are cognizant about HOW you say what you say. Its more important than WHAT you say.
/r/seduction15/05/13 08:44 PM
1

I used to go to an 'old man' bar years ago when i was younger (early 20's) and shoot the shit with the regulars and the staff. There were times when people would bring books to the bar while they ate and drank. I didnt find it too off putting, they'd peer from their book from time to time or listen on a passing conversation. Im pretty good at hooking people when i know they're listening so i can rope them in a convo. Since i never was the person bringing a book, my advice would be not to be so e…
/r/seduction15/05/13 08:38 PM
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haha, sad but true how it works that way at times.
/r/seduction13/05/13 06:47 PM
1

um no, i dont exclude people and say that can or cant come out with us, but whats happened over time is that a core group of guys with similar interests and abilities to meet/talk to women have codified a relationship and we go out together frequently. If someone who doesnt "bring anything to the table" wants to come its fine, but they wouldnt be someone i would be the first on my call/text if i were going out looking for women. Anyhow, it seems like that struck a nerve with you.
/r/seduction13/05/13 01:58 PM
1

Ditto, I roll with a group but usually break off on my own to open. Maybe I'm just selfish and want their full attention.
/r/seduction12/05/13 09:35 PM
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If it's in my neighborhood local bar during the week, I tend to go solo. I know the staff so I have people to talk to. When I go out in the city, I have my crew of guys I game with. Having a solid crew is so key. I don't go out with guys who bring nothing to the table.
/r/seduction12/05/13 07:52 PM
2

usually drunk so/so ones do. I'll report back when a smokeshow walks confidently across the bar and introduces herself to me.
/r/seduction09/05/13 08:39 PM
3

a 9/10 does phase me from time to time, because my brain cant compute how fucking hot they are. Ever have this happen. Walking down the street talking to your friend, gorgeous girl walks by..... silence....... she passes. The conversation picks back up. Shit literally short circuits your brain. You kind of forget what to do.
/r/seduction09/05/13 08:36 PM
3

Along the same lines of BigDickProblems.
/r/seduction09/05/13 08:15 PM
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The chick post up move is hilarious to watch. What usually happens with me is, we're at a bar decently packed. Scopin the scene make eye contact with a girl from across the bar, they quickly look away. Continue convo with friends, 5 minutes later said girl and friend end up within 5 feet of us with their backs turned. Then, boom go in. Its such a passive way of showing interest. Im a decent looking guy (hot or not score from back in the day 8.3-9.2 depending on pic), but i have a buddy i go prow…
/r/seduction09/05/13 08:11 PM
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I will chime in here as well. Same deal, but none of them have overtly said I want to fuck you to me. But when a girl comes up to you with that OAG look in her eyes, you know its going to be an easy kill. All you have to do is not fuck up and you're golden. I love those pleasant surprises, cuz your night just got so easy. You get the outcome you wanted with bare minimum effort.
/r/seduction09/05/13 07:52 PM
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Dude, I had to go deep into your posting past to find your pics. You're not the bottom half of the gene pool, but your online vibe gives off a bit of a defeated attitude. Almost like your hoping your lack of success is hinged on your looks. Do you go out worth that mind set? If so, that could be the issue, you are not being congruent. You've gotta accept you and be comfortable in your own skin. Chicks smell insecurity like sharks smell blood. You may be going out and trying everything you've lea…
/r/seduction01/05/13 02:11 AM
1

Yea face and body. if youre average looking but are a tub of hot jelly, you're probably not going to moisten too many panties. In regards to balding, own it. I started thinning 2 years ago and rather be that guy in denial that hes losing his hair. I've been shaving it ever since. If your feel confident, people dont see you as a bald guy. You are just that charismatic dude. honestly, dont think about your looks too much. If you're an average looking guy, thats not gonna be a problem with meeting …
/r/seduction30/04/13 09:12 PM
1

honestly there is no one thing in particular, its a culmination of different features and aspects of the persons face/body. Symmetry, skin tone, evenness, teeth. Just random shit. Some people get bum luck with the way nature played mr potatoe head
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:58 PM
1

same thing happened to me, i was on your pace at two a month. Its a good pace, i wish i could have produced more though. Oh well, I still had fun.
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:53 PM
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I have yet to pull this feat off, but its primarily a logistics problem. Go out during the day, pull fast. then go out again at night. I cant imagine two separate f'closes in an evening.
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:02 PM
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Wheres the link to the pic, im curious to know what we're dealing with. i'll have to admit that if you're sub 5 you def have an uphill battle if you're not wealthy or a celeb that has high social proof. So thats not to say as someone whos sub 5 wont get laid, but the caliber of women may have to be toned down a notch. One thing is, there def are women out there for everyone across the gamut of looks and skills.
/r/seduction30/04/13 06:46 PM
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I dont have a pinnacle triumph, but i guess speed increase in getting F closes. Fastest meet to fuck was 15 minutes. Another was banging a chick on a roof deck overlooking the city after only knowing her for 30 minutes. Maybe the triumph was the number of girls i fucked in a year since stating this, 22.
/r/seduction30/04/13 05:57 PM
3

Absolutely, do not be a dick. Bring value, dont take value. Be social/charming and nice, but dont fret over what others think of you.
/r/seduction29/04/13 06:17 PM
1

I adopted a mental trick to overcome it. I dont know if you've ever jumped off a bridge or overpass into water. Theres a moment when you're waiting to jump and are kind of scared questioning whether its a good idea. Eventually you get to this "fuck it" im going moment. The first few times it takes awhile to get from fear to fuck it, but once you'd done it enough the "fuck it" jump happens really quickly. You will always be nervous and 'afraid' of what could happen, but before the fear sets in, s…
/r/seduction29/04/13 06:15 PM
1

for utter basics. Not getting wrapped up in the outcome when you're approaching a girl. Secondly, this one really shifted my game. TOUCH her. Lightly, jokingly. Cheers for random shit, high five. elbow touch, hug if something fun happened, pick them up. The thing is, its spontaneous, if youre thinking "should i touch her" you're gonna fuck up cuz it will seem premeditated. Note: some girls if they arent comfortable with you yet might pull back and give you the "dont' touch me". This has happened…
/r/seduction29/04/13 03:58 PM
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To not think about what others think of your or what you're doing. Own yourself, enjoy moving to the beat of your own drummer. Its funny how as children, we do what we want impulsivley, but as we grow into our teens we want to conform to groupthink and cliques. Its terrible becuase it makes you become a sheep to the group and value group social standing over your own self interest. be selfish.
/r/seduction29/04/13 03:34 PM
3

wow.. never knew of that sub. its like a one stop shop for my second fav part on a woman. numero uno is dat cooch.
/r/seduction23/04/13 06:37 PM
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two fingers. Thumb + pointer on my left hand. Snap! Flop goes the titties as they fall out of their nest. I love that feelin! When you master it its like a jedi power.
/r/seduction22/04/13 08:25 PM
1

first date is drinks and apps, keep it light
/r/seduction20/04/13 10:34 PM
1

As a non white guy, I maybe got the "not my type" once. I think it's cuz I can read into the interaction and body language to gauge interest. So I'll tactically find a way to exit the convo and move onto someone more interested. I really don't care though, I'm just out being social and enjoying the interaction.
/r/seduction11/04/13 03:12 PM
1

Dude, i had this happen with this girl i went on a few 'dates/meetups' with. The first night i met her I had her back at my place and top was off. The next time we hooked up, same thing. No sex. The third time, she slept over my place and only let her top off. Dont get me wrong, i know how to escalate and get sex pretty much everytime they're back at my place. I have it down to a science. This girl said verbatim what you said "I barely even know you!" in my head i'm like wtf, we've seen each oth…
/r/seduction08/04/13 08:57 PM
1

Could be a case of being too outcome Dependent. Causing you too put to much emphasis on not fucking up. Master not giving a fuck no matter how hot/cute. Easier said then done, but more practice and more kills under your belt helps a lot
/r/seduction07/04/13 12:47 AM
1

True, I haven't been down there in awhile.
/r/seduction01/04/13 12:52 PM
1

Put a Boston one together
/r/seduction29/03/13 11:06 PM
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Well I envy both of you, I didn't start until I was 31.. (insert confession bear face)
/r/seduction29/03/13 11:05 PM
1

Thanks man
/r/seduction28/03/13 10:21 PM
2

Ultimately whatever is most comfortable and has success for you. I go direct. No need to hide my intentions.
/r/seduction28/03/13 05:38 PM
1

i totally get that, but whats odd is that I have that with someone else, but im still stuck on my ex so i cant push forward with this one. So i continue to play on and the cycle just keeps going and going. Partially i think its cuz our relationship didn't end bad, so i cant "hate" her.
/r/seduction28/03/13 05:18 PM
2

I hear ya, i keep moving forward wanting to get better. My life all in al lis doing really well. Work is good friends are great, im in shape, but something just seems to elude me. Happiness and fulfillment is this shadowy thing i'm still chasing. On paper i have it all, but yet it doesnt feel like it. I guess that means that theres still more "inner game" to be done.
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:46 PM
2

haha, I did shortly after we broke up. The only reason i saw this pic was because her friend is still my friend on FB (along with like 30 other mutual peeps) so when she was tagged in it, i saw it.. just like that it roped me back in and brought forth all these emotions. Yea, i do cherish the good memories almost to a fault because it ends up overshadowing the problems that we had. Whereas, if i'd remember the bad stuff more often it might keep me from getting nostalgic and yearning to rekindle …
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:43 PM
1

Julien RSD?
/r/seduction27/03/13 03:41 AM
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I would not recommend that book unless you already have a sold grounding in philosophy and can handle reading books that are very verbose and academic in writing style. It's def a classic, but hard read. My 2 cents.
/r/seduction27/03/13 03:40 AM
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I'll third this. I read a bunch of stuff on seddit and analyze it against my experiences and I have to admit, you've distilled it down to the utter basics of it. Good job, it should come in handy for the new guys.
/r/seduction25/03/13 11:31 PM
1

Yea but I guess I dont get how you go from meeting a girl one night. Then next day you follow up with "balh blah blah, i really like you, i htink we get along great. Wanna be exclusive?" I guess maybe there wasn't enough context around how that relationship got started. Were you hooking up for a while, then you went exclusive and it only lasted two more weeks? Edit: Were you fucking her during this time?
/r/seduction21/03/13 08:19 PM
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You considered her a gf after two weeks? What does it take for you to bequeth the title of gf? I was dating/hooking up with a girl for 4 months and I still didnt see her as my gf, even though it turns out I was defacto bf because we did all the coupley stuff.
/r/seduction21/03/13 04:11 PM
1

Haha, same here. Work married guys all want status updates from my weekends. I feel bad if all I had happen was meet a couple girls and got their numbers. Woe is us... :P
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:09 PM
1

I started about 15 months ago after a serious 7 year relationship ended. I was 31 when it ended. My life has changed big time, the longest drought I've had since it's 3 weeks. Banged 21 girls post beak up. I have no problem meeting girls now, in fact, it's hard to juggle multiple. Here's the shit part, it does get addictive cuz it boosts your ego. I find it hard to just go out without the intention of meeting a new girl. It's a habit. I find it hard to commit, but this could be cuz I'm not ready…
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:07 PM
1

Be honest, I went through a couple of those. You end up feeling like a piece of shit for hurting someone. Put your ego aside and let her go without investing anything more emotionally. Hard to let go of a fine piece of ass.. I know the feels.
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:00 PM
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I think he might have a valid point. I'm in the similar boat as you (I'm not white). I dress well (blazer, skinny tie, well fitting pants, nice shoes,watch) always get compliments from women when I'm out on how Iook. Lately, as of the past couple months, I've been giving the player vibe to more and more. I think in coming in too confident since I easily walk up and talk to women and get real buddy buddy and escalate. The interesting thing is that they're not necessarily put off by it, more suspi…
/r/seduction21/03/13 12:54 PM
1

That's eerily reminds me of David D's style. Is that where you got that from
/r/seduction21/03/13 12:42 PM
1

80-100 a night. Cabs, scotch, mixed drinks aren't cheap at the places i go.. Divey cheap bars maybe 60. I don't do clubs, so never really pay covers.
/r/seduction21/03/13 03:22 AM
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I'd like to think that I am, I'm kind and honest with people. The only knock i have on myself is that I have hurt a few girls over the past year by not being super upfront about my intentions. I was a bit greedy by giving them enough to keep them around, but not enough to make them think we're seeing each other exclusively. I genuinely feel bad for them at the way i've treated them. DOnt get me wrong, i was never a dick or mean to them. Thats probably what makes it worse. Oh well, i've learned t…
/r/seduction20/03/13 01:41 PM
1

32 checking in
/r/seduction20/03/13 03:25 AM
2

I think you are me. I adapt to the crowd and person. funny to read someone so similar. Its been working like a machine on auto pilot.
/r/seduction20/03/13 12:28 AM
1

When I'm in a super playful mood the hip check is great and they always hip check you back with a smile. Its a fave of mine. If you're in a crowded bar standing in front of her, light hand on waist lean into her ear and say whatever you were thinking. You can run that back with, "woah, your hair smells great" and lean back in and take a casual wiff. You've basically conditioned her to be comfortable with you leaning in which easily lends itself to a move hair kiss neck move. They eat that shit u…
/r/seduction20/03/13 12:23 AM
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I think being social and having a "fuck it" I'm doing my own thing is the way to start out. Eventually, you'll have success and start stringing some together, then the snowball effect takes over. Realize though that, you may go through done droughts. Don't let it phase you. The better you get the shorter your droughts. My longest in the past year is two weeks. Prior to driving into this, I'd have 3/6/8 month dry spells. keep not giving a fuck and approaching as usual. Once you get a steady rotat…
/r/seduction20/03/13 12:15 AM
1

Hmm.. I tell friends about little things they can do to better close the deal if they ask for it. If not, mums the word.
/r/seduction19/03/13 09:08 PM
2

ditto. I just shrug it off and say, "nah, i'm just social and like meeting new people"
/r/seduction19/03/13 09:04 PM
2

True. I have maybe a 10 bar rotation that i really like becusae its my vibe. There's a local bar i frequent a lot because they make great drinks and i've known the bartenders for years. I've met a good amount of girls and have had a few ONS from there. The people that work there know what the deal is. Recently, i met a girl from there, brought her back to my place and hooked up with her. About a week later i go to the bar and my bartender is telling me how the girls friend was in there a few day…
/r/seduction19/03/13 08:58 PM
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I'll agree with that, i wouldnt say bragging. Its more of a "you have no idea what happened last night, met that girl, blah blah". I have a couple friends I go out with a lot and we just catch each other up on everything. Although, its gotten to the point where, im sort of leading the pack in terms of women, so it comes off too much if i talk about all of them. "Who are you going out wiht tonight.. um.. i think its Kerri, Kristi is on vaca for a week, and Lauren just wants to chill tomorrow. The…
/r/seduction19/03/13 08:51 PM
2

I have to admit, he is pretty smooth with his feet. I like his tempo change, slow/fast moves. All effortless.
/r/seduction15/03/13 05:56 PM
2

Could be, but I think everyone has it to a degree.
/r/seduction09/03/13 02:04 AM
1

neuro linguistic programming. I don't have the titles in front of me, just bought them
/r/seduction09/03/13 02:03 AM
4

At what point in the process you start talking yourself out of it. That's you hitting the border of what you're comfortable doing and therefore start rationalizing a way out of it. "should I go talk to her", nah she looks busy. "should I touch her", nah she might think I'm creepy. Etc. you'll hit the border at numerous steps, its hard to overcome your fear, but it's gotta be done
/r/seduction08/03/13 11:01 PM
9

You should also watch the movie Hitch as another 'player' type movie, he breaks some scenarios down very well.
/r/seduction08/03/13 10:23 PM
2

haha, yea.. stupid steve carrell movies fuckin me up. thanks for the correction. Great movie. That movie kind of inspired me to get into this shit before reading the game. i pretty much cloned a lot of my style after his. Granted im not dropping the serious dough on Armani suits, but i've got a great wardrobe due to that movie. i must have watched it like 10 times.
/r/seduction08/03/13 08:14 PM
1

well that dude in the story is also a med student. Hmm... but honestly man, all from internet dating? Seriously? PM me your profile, i'd like to see what you say in it.
/r/seduction08/03/13 08:13 PM
6

I use that a lot. I typically keep a bottle of white wine in my fridge and some red around. I say i have to most delicious vintage Malbec you've ever had, but im not really being serious about it (i say it jokingly). just gives them a thought to latch onto as to why she's coming home with me. But it all depends on the circumstance. You can go super direct. "Lets get out of here." Grab her hand and walk. This works if you've established comfort, touch, and sexual intent. Did you see Crazy, Stupid…
/r/seduction08/03/13 08:08 PM
1

In order to believe you, i have to suspend my disbelief, but i'll give you the benefit of the doubt. Just so i'm clear, you are strictly internet dating and banging 50+ chicks a year? Are you that Jewish PreMed dude that article was posted on the other day? catfishing chicks on gold digging websites?
/r/seduction08/03/13 07:41 PM
7

Hmm.. I agree, but have to disagree also. For some people being themselves is a problem because they might have some quirky ass traits that need to be worked on.
/r/seduction08/03/13 07:32 PM
40

So Nike was right all along.
/r/seduction08/03/13 07:32 PM
40

Inner game trumps all parlor tricks. Post Edit: I really hate a lot of the terms used in gaming/seduction/PUA etc, but to me inner game is becoming comfortable/grounded/happy with who you are. Ditching all your hangups and just being present in the now. its probably the hardest 'trick' to master, it requires a lot of introspection and breaking life long learned habits in how you speak to yourself internally. I just picked up a couple NLP books to help me consciously change my self-concept. Alway…
/r/seduction08/03/13 06:47 PM
0

You're banging one new girl a week for two years? ! all chicks from the internet? That's pretty ridiculous, so your either close to or at 100 girls in two years... This seems sketchy
/r/seduction08/03/13 12:31 AM
3

Not to sound like a dentist on a seduction forum, but flossing is pretty essential to dental hygiene. It helps prevent gum disease due to plaque build up between your teeth that brushing doesn't always get. no idea why i'm going into this much depth about trash and cleaning your teeth :P /end trash teeth talk
/r/seduction07/03/13 10:06 PM
3

Interesting technique, i'm more of a peeler of their clothes. I love eating pussy so thats where I tease them till they're practically mashing their pussy into my nose. At that point their back is arched and undulating begging for a finger or dick in. The key, as you're well aware of, is teasing. Women love to have their pleasure withheld and then granted. Something about their frustration being eventually satiated drives them bonkers. I'm looking forward to new sexcapades. i still see it as me …
/r/seduction07/03/13 10:04 PM
1

You're right, its not a clean thing. If you obviously dispose of your trash in another trash outside of your bathroom or room, then thats cool. You keep your shit clean. Its just odd, i've never seen it. I live by myself and have a trash in the kitchen, bathroom, and my room. How do you not use a condom or dental floss? Not related, but two things that people typically throw away in a bedroom trash or bathroom trash.
/r/seduction07/03/13 08:49 PM
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Qtips, condoms, tissue, empty wrapper for soap, empty tube of toothpaste, dental floss. Basically whatever is in the bathroom that you're done using. I dunno, just seemed really odd to not have on in the bathroom. I've never seen a bathroom without one.
/r/seduction07/03/13 08:40 PM
3

It does seem like you've frozen that image of your past with your wife and encased it in unobtanium. Sometimes the past keeps us from moving forward. Alas, i wont go all psycho analytical on you, it seems like you're set in your ways for the most part. The married woman part.. I've run into a couple in my travels, but I cant do it. I have this whole do onto others thing, i guess I respect the sanctity of marriage because I know how hard it is to make something work between two people without the…
/r/seduction07/03/13 08:38 PM
1

So you got divorced around 28 and have been splattering the baby batter all over this fine nation. High Five to you kind sir! Do you want to settle down again or are you content with just living the bachelor lifestyle? I love the selfishness of it at times, i dont have to be responsible for thinking as a couple. I was in a 7 year relationship prior and always having to think what she was thinking about what I was doing became a PITA. To half ass answer your question, the number is greater than 2…
/r/seduction07/03/13 07:37 PM
3

True, but maybe the "value" is her feedback? Not sure if someone calling you out on your fuckups and how to do better is worth 6k though. If you're introspective enough, you should be able to objectively see where you fucked up over the course of an evening and adjust accordingly.
/r/seduction07/03/13 07:13 PM
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Yea, i second the who doesnt have a trash can in the bathroom? Where do you put trash? If people dont have a trash can in their bathroom, there's other shit that needs to be worked on before getting laid like cleanliness.
/r/seduction07/03/13 07:04 PM
2

Are you just looking for new strange every weekend or do you follow up with the ones you hooked up with. I figure that could get you through that weekend drought. I hear ya though, 7's and 8's are par for the course for me. 9's and 10's are still unicorns to me. I feel like i'd be a lil bitch if i got a Giesele type girl and go all gaga. But i guess that is another form of lack of abundance mentality. Lack of High Quality Abundance. I guess i'm still in the training wheels stage, i'll keep eatin…
/r/seduction07/03/13 06:52 PM
2

Couple questions for background reference. 1.) How old are you 2.) How long ago did you start? 3.)Where do you live (big city/college town) I'm no where near you're caliber, I started last January when i read the game then stumbled upon this treasure trove of a community. I set goals for myself. I wanted to bang 24 girls in a year, I fell short at 20. 21 and 22 are almost around the corner. I've had some crazy ass nights over the course of the past year. Two notables. Pulled these girls from a s…
/r/seduction07/03/13 06:43 PM
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Im not sure exactly how her 6 tips are any different then whats bleated here 1,000 times. I guess its just another reinforcement from a woman dating coach perspective to add validation? But yea, if you boil it down those are the key ingredients. Im surprised "confidence" wasnt added to the mix, maybe because its a little more transient and difficult to describe because it encompasses a few different things.
/r/seduction07/03/13 06:13 PM
0

Ive been meaning to go to Chicago for the past year, i have some girl friends there that roll with a good gaggle of chicks, so I'm def going there. May even leave Boston to go to Chicago for St. Pattys.
/r/seduction07/03/13 05:35 PM
1

I got into it last January and deep dove into it for three months trying the shit I read. For me, the tricks and routines weren't my cup of tea. Didn't come natural to me. I was already a social guy so I didn't need help with AA. My issue was getting more consistent lays. in retrospect, I lacked good kino escalation. I learned to be more direct. Is this stuff valuable, I believe so, but everyone is coming at it at different levels. It's a little difficult to level set if you have no clue where y…
/r/seduction07/03/13 12:52 AM
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Great advice and observation. BTW, point 6 makes me think you've been to slashdot. Could just be coincidental though.
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:06 PM
2

You're right terms of him having to learn to deal with rejection, but it is an extra mental obstacle to overcome. Just saying, lead with that.
/r/seduction06/03/13 09:03 PM
1

He does have a problem with it, but he is trying to solve it. Hence asking for advice. Telling him to stay within his own race pool doesnt seem to address his problemo buddy.
/r/seduction06/03/13 08:34 PM
2

I dont think thats good advice, because there are other women he could date that have never dated black guys that would actually like him.
/r/seduction06/03/13 08:31 PM
1

I clicked on the link and saw that he comments on the trueplayer sub, never even heard of it. is it more of a urban version of seddit?
/r/seduction06/03/13 08:26 PM
1

Well said. have a boat.
/r/seduction06/03/13 08:22 PM
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I think the stigma you think they think is your main problem. Do you need someone to tell you this: Its OK for you to date white women. It's 2013 and its ok for someone who is a non-cleats black guy to bang white chicks. Go forth and prosper my son!
/r/seduction06/03/13 08:19 PM
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Alright, i'll take a stab at it because I know where you're coming from. My quick back story, i'm of Haitian descent, but i'm on the browner side (mulatto) and get mistaken for everything from hispanic/indian/cape verdian, etc. Growing up it caused an identity issue, but that's a small facet of it. Fast forward to high school, I went to an ALL white high school (I came from south Florida where it was very diversified, so this was a cultural shock). My sister and i were the only two darkies. I pr…
/r/seduction06/03/13 08:09 PM
1

Funny enough if you get good, it's not you who bequeths yourself a player, but those around you. it's a plus and minus. Own it and don't become a douche
/r/seduction05/03/13 12:16 AM
1

5'11-3/4". I never say i'm 6'0. I think i'm a good height, not too short, not too tall. Height doesnt make a diff to me though, as everyone said its all about how your present yourself.
/r/seduction04/03/13 08:11 PM
1

I just watched that video and as someone who's done both the call/text, i have to say his insight into the voicemail actually helped give me some ideas. i typically did the typical "Whats up, its {infiniteBlink}. Just seeing when you're free this week. Gimme a call back when you get a chance" It hardly ever translates to a call back. Sometimes text backs, but Im totally aware of this short coming. Obviously it conveys me in the submissive role by waiting for her to give me time when SHE gets a c…
/r/seduction01/03/13 07:02 PM
1

I like the words backward rationalize together, very oxymoronic.
/r/seduction27/02/13 09:11 PM
0

So you were exclusive with your past gf's before you had sex? I second the how old are you or what part of the country do you live? Do you tend to date very conservative girls?
/r/seduction27/02/13 09:10 PM
2

Yup, what he said. Tis the truth my brotha! mothafuckaaaah (Hank Moody voice)
/r/seduction27/02/13 09:09 PM
1

I dont have a solution, but what typically causes a lisp? is it a muscle memory thing or is it a mental thing like certain neurons not firing right?
/r/seduction27/02/13 08:28 PM
1

haha, then the world is filled with champions. Your response made me chuckle.
/r/seduction27/02/13 03:55 PM
1

Also, if you think you've being very social and out going and as a result end up hitting on a lot of different girls. Girls are extremely perceptive, they will see it. You probably wont even notice how you're acting, but they will see if you're bouncing from girl to girl. Here's is personal note. I have a female coworker, very good looking. We have a very open relationship where we talk about hooking up and what not. This past weekend, she said she met this really good looking guy. She said she …
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:32 PM
1

I think the key to what you say/do is that you've brought it up after fucking them a few times. If you get physical with a woman, they get stronger emotions for you. Its a trust thing for them, they trust you to get intimate so they're more likely to want to take it to the next level. If you haven't hooked up with them, they're not that fully vested in you yet and MAY not see it going in that directions.
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:24 PM
1

You know whats funny about it, its the abundance mentality. There are so many repeated threads/themes in the seduction game, but this one is especially true. When you've got options and you're not desperate waiting for a text back from one chick cuz you've got other lines in the water, it inadvertently tempers your wussieness into that of someone who's got other shit going on. Women just love it, granted they like it because it frustrates the crap out of them. In my 'good guy' mind, i think its …
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:21 PM
2

I'll chime in and pretty much repeat what the others have said for added reinforcement. If you're banging a chick on the reg (once a week), to try and keep your distance, but still text periodically, there will come a time where she is gonna get a case of the feels. Its almost counter intuitive because you're thinking "I dont even see her that often, i keep enough communication to keep the light taught, but never enough to really make her feel like we've got something bigger going on". To a girl…
/r/seduction25/02/13 07:07 PM
2

I dont get the "study" stage. Are you reading this for weeks and then going out and trying what you've learned? i go out every weekend, just cuz I want to, so its not like i'm studying then applying. I peek in here to see whats going on, but not to really study. Pick up some tips along the way but always go out
/r/seduction22/02/13 08:53 PM
1

How far have you gotten with her? If you haven't kissed her by now you are dangerously close, if not already, in the friendzone. Sorry man, you've got to escalate and build attraction. If she's not chasing you, she doesn't think about you often and no matter how much more time you put in, it's a losing battle. Read the stuff on here.
/r/seduction12/02/13 11:13 PM
2

They do not exist. Your reality at the moment is you and her. When I'm in the zone, I don't "see" other people. Only the one I'm interested in. Saves you thinking about what other people are thinking. I feel like I have an out of body experience because I don't feel like I'm in the same place as everyone else.
/r/seduction11/02/13 11:55 PM
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Your story reminds me of the fable of kid icarus. You were too confident/naive and ended up blowing it and falling back down to earth. Honestly, as painful as what you went/are going through it will be a huge benefit to your growth overall as a person. That shit is called life. You'll be thankful. You're still young with tons of green fields in front of you.
/r/seduction07/02/13 02:17 PM
1

To me it's saying whatever is on your mind no matter how whimsical, BUT you do have to have a modicum of a filter as narrow as it may be. calibration is an often repeated term and it very much applies. Try not to filter yourself but be aware of the social context. If you aren't aware of where the line is, test it, you'll figure it out.
/r/seduction07/02/13 02:39 AM
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I don't see it so much as a wing is someone who is "lower" than you and adds to.your social value. My dudes I go out with all bring something to the table. We've all got our own style and approach. We're there to create group social value. People see a couple well dressed outwardly friendly dudes and people notice us and want to gravitate. We enjoy our company, but know that our mutual goals are the same. the type of guys I see as "wingmen" are typically guys in relationships.
/r/seduction07/02/13 12:15 AM
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I think you might have a comfort zone issue. You feel uncomfortable socializing with strangers because it feels odd odd to you. So the typical advice given to newbies with AA is to step out of your comfort zone and do a bunch of approaches, not necessarily just to women but people you don't know. Get to enjoy the idea of meeting new people so that you don't feel awkward. Also, if you feel you judge a lot of people that could be where the issue lies. Since you might think people are judging you a…
/r/seduction06/02/13 12:24 AM
3

I don't know how much ball growing you need to do. It should be instinctual. The thing is, if you're nervous, she'll know it and the vibe well get fucked up. Don't be scared of escalating, worst case is you blow it until you get past that hurdle. No sweat. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/02/13 04:20 AM
3

If she asks you back to her place, just keep kissing her passionately. Tease her by pausing and pulling a little bit away. Kiss her cheek then down to her neck. Move her hair to the side and continue to nibble. Grab the base of he hair gently and run your fingers through it and hold. That should ease her into it and make her comfortable and wanting more. Tease tease tease her! Women love to be teased. take her shirt off casually like you've done in numerous time. Continue to kiss her, work the n…
/r/seduction05/02/13 02:13 AM
1

Mine was similar to yours, broke up with gf. My count up to her was 8. I told myself in 2012 I wanted to have sex with 24 new women (not hookup, fuck). I fell short of my goal at 19. One year, was more than double the previous 12 years.. "if I only knew then, what I know now.." At this point, im not sure what I want out of 2013. I would love to have a repeat and then some of 2012, but I think just doing it for a numbers perspective is ultimatly shallow and i've left a few bodies of kind girls in…
/r/seduction04/02/13 09:37 PM
1

I came off a 7 year relationship (last december), I just naturally didnt give a fuck afterwards so getting rejected didnt mean shit to me so i could talk it up with anyone. If we rewind back to prior to my relationship, i was an AFC when it came to doing approaches. Everything had to be just right in order for me to attempt. I wasnt good at escalating and keeping a sexual vibe. I've progressed this year, partially from reading a ton of content in the areas I was deficient at, primarily just cold…
/r/seduction04/02/13 09:26 PM
7

Someone seems like they've read David D's cocky/funny stuff. I believe Attraction is not a choice is his go to mantra.
/r/seduction04/02/13 08:14 PM
1

It's still the same universal truths you learn on your journey. young chicks sometimes are just too flighty and Nieve for me, still fun. My demo is 25-35. I like my women to have lived a bit, it helps grease the convo.
/r/seduction27/01/13 08:56 PM
2

In Boston too, but I'm 32 so my scene is the older lounge upscale bar scene. been killing it this past year. The younger scene isn't my style, I feel like the old guy there (not creepy). When your wearing ties and blazers you can't be at a tshirt jeans bar. There should be some sort of discrete article of clothing that we could use to spot fellow sedditors.
/r/seduction26/01/13 08:50 PM
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I'd say dont do it, for the reasons everyone gives. Things can get messy once the infatuation stage is over and one party is not as into it as they were before. I'm in the midst of dealing with a similar situation as you are with, of all people, an HR rep girl. We flirt a bunch and talk about how nothing can happen between us because I'm one of her direct HR contacts. I think the mere fact that we're putting our primal rage emotions in a cage makes it even more appealing. If i'm sober at work, i…
/r/seduction14/01/13 06:06 PM
2

I think that is a massive one that is a must for any list.
/r/seduction11/01/13 06:59 PM
1

Opinion openers if they're genuine are just what they are. If i'm at a bar with some friends and the conversation dwells onto something that has a womanly influence and we cant agree on the matter. If there are a couple girls close by, not necessarily someone you're interested in, but for the sake of getting a different perspective, I def just throw it out there. i dont even move from where we are, i just say "Hey, blah blah". If they're cool we chit chat for a bit and whatever happens happens, …
/r/seduction11/01/13 04:52 PM
1

yea, because you offered something relevant to the conversation. If you disagree with what I said, might as well muster a little more than half a second to respond 'ignore that guy'. Not because I want to hear it, but because you should contribute something to the convo if you have greater insight to provide.
/r/seduction11/01/13 04:48 PM
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hmm... what is the official definition of pickup? Get her number? fuck her that night? If you talk to a girl for a minute i think you should be able to gauge whether she's into you or not, but pick her up.. eh... i dunno.
/r/seduction10/01/13 09:31 PM
2

yea, they're not bad dude. Just keep em clean, they're your character. Not everyone has cookie cutter teeth. Fix em if they're fucked, but you've got your typical asymetrical teeth.
/r/seduction10/01/13 04:54 PM
1

if they're crooked, get braces. if they're yellow, get whitening treatement (getting super cheap now for laser whitening), if you generally have bad teeth get cosmetic dentistry to put some caps on. I used to be very insecure about my smile, it takes away a massive part of your game if you cant just pop off a big smile in the midst of convo with buddies. It makes it seem like you guys are the fun group, people notice that shit. Be the fun group, then seek out the lades or just be mindful of the …
/r/seduction10/01/13 04:30 PM
1

As a 32 year old man, who came out of a 7 year relationship, just because you're older doesnt mean you dont still think/act purely physical. If i take an honest look at myself and my actions the past year, I feel like im making up for lost time that I was with my ex and trying to fuck the pain away. A year later and the pain is still there. Chasing pussy is like bailing water out of a boat with a hole in it. Im not ready to give up on my boat. I'm coming to 'pick up' from a different angle. i wa…
/r/seduction10/01/13 04:12 PM
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I learned this after about 3 months of reading PUA books and sites. Good nuggets here and there. I think one of the things I learned most in the past year, not sure if i can attribute it to a particular book/style, but ultimately its to have a fuck it non outcome focused attitude. When you dont care what happens when you approach a girl, you lose your AA. When you lose your AA you come off more smooth and confident. You dont derive your self worth from other people. You are comfortable in your o…
/r/seduction09/01/13 08:56 PM
1

Do the two have to be mutually exclusive? You could probably still "pick up", im kinda blah on the phrase. I just consider it being social with women and deriving the outcome I want. If you dont have the time because you're doing your own stuff i understand, but i dont think there's a time when the self improvement completes and then you can formally begin "picking up" again.
/r/seduction09/01/13 08:51 PM
2

Innuendos and strong eye contact. A slight wise ass smirk puts the icing on top.
/r/seduction08/01/13 11:12 PM
1

Made out with a lesbian. Then got a booty call from a cute chick at 130. Good night and morning, minus hangover
/r/seduction05/01/13 12:27 AM
5

Meh on the not drinking part. I still learned a ton despite going out and throwing some back and hitting on women. Just don't get black out drunk and you're fine
/r/seduction04/01/13 11:01 PM
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