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| 2 | What keeps you going after all the L’s?Biggest thing is it’s necessary to take breaks. Never giving up is the main philosophy behind it all but there’s no rules out there. The only goal is what you make, and as long as you aren’t hurting anyone intentionally then there’s no damages done. Take yourself out, have fun, don’t worry about the fine women out there cause they will be out there regardless. When you work up the courage again, try again. Would highly recommend though changing your philosophy of success. It’ll help your mindset… | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Struggling even with women under my "league".. How to find out what women expect you to be?Would highly recommend reading “Practical Female Phycology” by Joseph W. South. Explains the whole game in better detail that’s more comprehensive then most material given by guru’s or other people that have no claims to abide by. | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | How long are you willing to wait for a date?Exactly how long she says lol also I never go to a place I wouldn’t be okay eating at by myself if I ever get stood up. Ligit it’s a “their loss” situation for me if they don’t wanna get grub together 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 11:29 PM |
| 49 | What is some of the worst seduction advice you heard on the internet?“Be yourself” The premise is you need to be authentic and honest. But it’s the worst advice. Most men don’t know if they are lovers or caregivers when it comes to what they have to offer to women. And they often question why they’ll either have difficulties getting laid on one hand or not finding a loyal woman when on the other. You need to become the person “YOU” want to be. And when you are that person and the best option to a women, they’ll make their way to you. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 07:39 PM |
| 0 | How to tell a girl she’s pretty?“Hey, I don’t want anything, just wanted you to know you look pretty and hope you have a great rest of your day” It’s a lot to say but just clears the air with intentions and if they follow up that’s great. But the biggest thing is it just go for it because nobody genuinely cares unless you are in a relationship if you’re out calling other pretty girls pretty. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 07:35 PM |
| 3 | I asked a girl out and she said yes but hasn't messaged yet.Don’t fully rely on a women’s words. They are emotional creatures. They may agree to everything but if they don’t feel emotionally safe or confident with you then you never really dated. So just read the situation and be yourself. But after 6 months of being together then invest more. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps, what's the point?It’s just the algorithm at this point, not you. Stay away from the apps. Go to bars, go to library’s, keep your posture open and keep looking women in the eye, smile, nod for approval of how good looking they are. Either approach or continue to be occupied. It’s better naturally when it happens. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 07:01 PM |
| 1 | What are the girls like in Spain?Didn’t confuse it. But they are connected countries and I was told that a lot of things cross between borders often. So I just heed the warning I was given. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 02:30 AM |
| 1 | When a girl come overThe physiology of women is that they are more the heart of the relationship and men are the head. So the man makes the experience and the woman experiences it or supplies the necessary support to experience it together. When women try to make the decisions it brings out their inner masculine behavior which produces different chemicals in the head that women don’t really enjoy experiencing. In the same sentence, if some core issue happened when younger, the trust for a man to make good decisions … | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Need tips.Find out what makes you tic first. My journey called for finding books on leadership, leaving the introverted nature, and finding out how women operate. You may need to find therapy books to leave behind inner beliefs of childhood wounds or of peoples words that keep repeating. One book that I enjoyed that helped changed my belief was actually learning the skill on how to speed read cause I got 100 books I still need to read. But in the book itself I found I had my own limiting beliefs of thinki… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Need tips.Find out the cause. Read books to build your confidence along with other self help books and make a goal to up your life up with either your finances, your status, or something that helps the community. Then just wait for the clock to swing back in your favor. Be less picky and take what you can till you’re comfortable enough to go to that next level of who you’re talking too. If you are running into girls that are 10’s to 8’s and that makes you nervous, talk to 5’s and start from there. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 03:14 PM |
| 2 | What should I do?Dude, work on your own mental dialogue. Read some self help books, write and get a solid foundation to know that you are the prize. She did softly rejected you cause you are a nice guy but stay positive and move on bro. Another one will come your way if you keep on track. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Need tips.Your gonna have to try to seal the deal soon or softly leave her as a friend. You are approaching friendzone territory. Straight up if you make a move and she rejects that, just take it as a sign and move on. It’s near impossible once a woman categorizes you as a friend to woe them into showing you are lover material. Just psychology. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:44 PM |
| 7 | 4 Dates In, Strong Chemistry, But She Still Thinks It's Too Quick – Need AdviceNgl, some women won’t wanna seal the deal. So you gotta make a move with an ultimatum at some point. There’s nothing wrong with politely saying “bet, next” and moving on. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:38 PM |
| -1 | What are the girls like in Spain?Just breaking it down for those that have no idea what they’ll get into without knowledge of the context of whatever state your guys country is in with how the politics differ. We just have two different realities and from our end it’s near indoctrination. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What are the girls like in Spain?🤗 | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:12 PM |
| 1 | As a girl, how can I up my flirting game?I’d argue that it’s worth the risk to just be the person to intentionally bump into people you are interested in more often. “Slap on the shoulders” to a good joke or “wait initiates contact you are so right!” And put your hand on their shoulder or hand or thigh(thigh is a bit bolder but it’ll send a message to the right guy). Moments where to initiate contact would be like at places to dance, sport game celebrations and failure after bar drinks, be sincere and in the moment about what’s going o… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 02:08 PM |
| 1 | As a girl, how can I up my flirting game?I’d argue against that. Girls do go for guys regardless of intelligence. Generally intelligent guys when they “act like themselves” deal with the inner game aspects that hinder them. You are correct that it’s as simple as go out, make a move and see where it goes essentially. Some of us have to dumb it down cause the moment we get in the zone of talking about ourselves or our favorite subject we ignore body language and interest and the ladies will move on in their mind without saying “not inter… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | The father of my Cold Approach followed meLeave it, if you are in the game, leave. If your trying to get married, then go for it. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:51 AM |
| 1 | She's at yours and says "I'll be leaving soon" - Test, LMR or something else?Lmr, test for your own self control. You gotta let her go and give her space. A week. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Is there actually a seduction community anymore?That style of pick up evolved. It’s around but mostly when it starts and they pick up material and read the fine print of what works and what doesn’t, you’ll find yourself doing what the masters do. Have fantasy stories ready to tell a lady of how great you are, see if she bites the hook, reel it in, bring her home and seal the deal. Has a solid 85% rate of success. And out of the all the baloney they try to sell, all masters getting laid every week and are turning down 10s cause they got over d… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:49 AM |
| 2 | What to do after getting their attention?Your stuck to a routine with the inner game that’s predictable. You gotta be more creative and read body language more, be outcome independent if stuff dies and walk away and say next more often. Don’t forget that you are in a souls like game of closing the deal. That’s what matters. Nothing else matters but closing the deal. Could be an amazing night, but if you aren’t closing, the work is for nothing. So do what you gotta do to get your conference back in check, then try again without the scri… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:41 AM |
| 1 | First date - what had a big impact?Low key, seems like your routine is compromised. Ladies need to know your doing something and that you are a go getter. Have a next plan and your mission be at the forefront of your mind. Either money, status, or a new skill. Put yourself there instead of her and ignore her for a week🤫 watch that impact. The next level is going from alpha 1 to alpha 2 game. Make sure you’re busy if she’s busy. Stick to the same routine with and never be texting more then 3 chicks at a time. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:35 AM |
| 1 | When a girl come overWomen don’t lead and seal the deal. It’s your job. You have to make the decision for her even if she hates it. Men are the ones who seal the deal on relationships. Women seal the deal on sex. Just how it goes. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:16 AM |
| 1 | As a girl, how can I up my flirting game?On the contrary to “obvious hints” and desperation. It’s a judgement call on where they are at. Some men are dumb as rocks and need a rock thrown at them to catch a hint. Being vocal about liking them and wanting to go eat whenever they are free is so essential. Life is about what you can provide for yourself and others. And if you can eat around the people you like in peace, that’s a lot better then most marriages currently. Speaking of which though, use that word to scare away the guys who don… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 07:13 AM |
| -4 | What are the girls like in Spain?Met a girl from Portugal, a true freak in the sheets. Tried to make the long distance relationship thing work from in the states but didn’t last. Know that the customs are very different so you have to be open minded but cautious cause you don’t know who’s in gangs or who may be undercover police or something that’s heavily regulated. Stuffs happening over in Europe that we don’t see. So talk to 5 people in Europe from on here trying to meet friends and have places to visit, and try to find the … | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:39 AM |
| 3 | What does she really want ?She may, other women do ruin marriages for less. You need to be the man in the relationship and have your boundaries even if it ends in divorce. The hell you are in now isn’t worth the dishonor of a woman having your balls in her purse and being a bitch. Get confident, start working out. Ignore her, if she makes the mistake and slips up and cheats, leave. If she hasn’t actually gone out to cheat but is emotionally gone, do the same. Stand up and keep walking cause she can find out the hard way w… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:31 AM |
| 22 | 2025 - tinder platinum worth it over tinder gold?It’s a scam, the algorithm is set for women to get overwhelming options so it spikes them with a pornographic god complex system that makes them think they can sleep with anyone they want as if that’s a complement and allows men to drown in the 5-200 women that may be interest in them based on what value they can bring to the woman. Most women in popular areas just use the men on the app for a free meal they can’t afford, and most men use it to find sex and not a real partnership. Good luck 👍 | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Getting a new GF as a 21 year oldLet me save you time and money my guy. Do your cold approaches, but on the date start your first line with “I don’t wanna waste your time because I know how valuable it is, so if your playing games let’s just leave right now cause I want _______, if your not looking for that, good to meet you.” Legit, will cut your candidates to good girls and materialistá’s that are highly confident. Probably will lose the materilista’s interest because you need money, probably will lose some good girls cause y… | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 06:00 AM |
| 1 | How often would you give somebody a chance?Define forgiveness and define how often you’d forgive yourself for the mistake someone else made. The more you’d allow yourself to be forgiven for that mistake, the more you should be willing to accept people for the flaws they have. Thus, tolerate them as you’d wanna be tolerated. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 05:42 AM |
| 1 | How do i approach girls at the gym ?Just compliment their shoes and tell ‘em you hope they have a good session and walk away. Keep eye contact until you leave. If they continue to talk to you, winner winner chicken dinner. If not, no pressure and on with the next. | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 03:22 PM |
| 5 | What's the Value of Seduction?The biggest thing it actually gives is confidence with consistency into getting through to the woman’s mind. Give the book “Practical Women’s Phycology” -Joseph W. South a read and you’ll see it. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 03:18 AM |
| 1 | "If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be?When it comes to who you are attracting, a “higher class woman” has a specific type that they are looking for. Generally needs to be charismatic, a good leader, have money/resources, and a good reputation. I’m guessing you got that bill. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | "If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be?A whole generation including myself has been indoctrinated to like goth girls. We know exactly what they are about, and generally all of them have badass qualities, good personalities once you get passed the introverted nature of most of them, and they listen to good music in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | How can my friend introduce me to this girl when I'm in vacation there?The best ice breaker to this date is “Hi, my name is __, this is what I do and I just wanted to say ____” Ligit the biggest thing about intros is just getting past building reputation. If a girl knows that you are someone and not a horndog or a crackhead, unless she likes crack of course, this will break the ice for 90% of women | /r/seduction | 05/12/24 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Is long distance ever worth it?If you can afford it, some people can’t afford it physically or mentally | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Specific girl sees me in a patronizing waySoftly say “next” and move on dude. Disrespect is disrespect. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 08:49 AM |
| 1 | What are some simple little things that I can practice to improve talking to women and approaching?Attempt to talk to everyone. Treat everyone equally, understand the difference between talking to communicate and communicating to understand someone. Practicing these skills will boost confidence to just open in conversation with anyone you want too. But also practice saying no to people you don’t wanna talk to. It’s equally important to be able to shut down a conversation especially once you see a red flag. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Hi! Guys just wanted to ask how often do you message a woman your dating? And how to you keep the conversation going?Just wanna say if you are trying to get a girlfriend or a wife then sure. Talk as much as they do. But if you are not looking for those problems and are just looking to meet women and get laid often, space out how often you communicate with them. Be busy, have a life. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Should I tell her my real age?Don’t lie. It’s a big mess of trust when you lie in this regard because it’s factual about you. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Should I Be the One Going to His Place?Yeah. Putting effort however it needs to be is necessary. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 03:22 PM |
| 2 | How to focus on multiple targets at same time : advise needed from expertsBig problem is you are keeping yourself open for multiple targets. Women don’t operate in that manner unless they have feelings for their girl best friend. Super rare scenario. Only focus on the potential of three targets once a week. Time increases women’s desire when distance is there. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 05:57 AM |
| 6 | How to not be seen as a little brotherStop being nice. Have you own opinions about things. Do what you like to do and if someone doesn’t wanna do it with you find someone else who will. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Wanting to give up; what should I doTake a break, find some hobbies that girls show up around. Talk to people normally for a bit. Relax and not try. Give life the power to flow as it does. | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 05:14 AM |
| 6 | Hi! Guys just wanted to ask how often do you message a woman your dating? And how to you keep the conversation going?For true seduction, try your best to limit yourself to message them once a week. And try to space it out always to a week out | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 04:49 AM |
| 2 | How many times should I ask her out?Maybe twice, and that’s a hard maybe. If she politely says that she’s busy then softly say next and move on. There’s plenty of fish in the sea | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How to finally break free of being a loser?Biggest tip is therapy. Just going through it with a therapist that can look at your situation and help make mental steps for you to build away from the loser life and into a more thoughtful and kind life with a better mindset will change everything in a way that nothing else will actually do. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 04:51 PM |
| 7 | "If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be?Don’t look for who you are attracted too, look who’s attracted to you and why, and go from there. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you prioritizeDefinitely get off online dating and do your best to remove online interactions. Being on here consumes a lot more time then you think. If you are at that point where you are in a successful business position, would highly recommend diving deeper into hobbies if they have woman in them. Otherwise would find another hobby if you are really looking for quality woman. The biggest tip I got a few years ago was “My wife that I’ll marry someday won’t be a tinder girl. Hope yours isn’t either.” | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 09:28 PM |
| 2 | How to text women without being boring?That could be the case. It would be really good to read a few self help books that help with mindset, mindfulness and speaking in a compelling manner to put some work into that inner game. Along with listening to podcasts to help with the wording and pronunciation of how those words should echo in the mind. Would highly recommend listening to “The unapologetic man” podcast and of “Become more compelling” podcast to help with framework as well. A few books to read would be “Rich dad poor dad” -Ro… | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 11:21 PM |
| 2 | How to text women without being boring?Gotta find causes in life that you believe in and to have contradictions to other causes that can be fucked up. Also stories of things you’ve accomplished, failures, times when you’ve cared for someone who was close to you, stuff about loved ones, etc | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 10:06 PM |
| 5 | How can you test a girl to see if she would let you get laid/ become fwb?Flirting, and risking rejection with a sexual comment. One of the biggest mistakes guys make is stating off with sexual tension in the wrong time and context. Women want it a little after the first date starts and it’s different from woman to woman, but it’s between that first date and 3rd date or if you bring her home after the second date. Because if a woman decides you are just another guy or a potential lover, that’s going to happen sooner rather then later. Granted you need personality as w… | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 06:27 PM |
| 5 | How to handle girls who “just want to be friends first”There’s a core difference between someone with high standards and someone who’s cowardly to actually shut down something they don’t want. It is urgent that if you really want to seduce a woman and keep seducing women that you softly say next. There’s no point in pursuing someone who doesn’t wanna go at your speed. It’s just gonna save both of your guys time and effort and probably your money to go to someone else who’s going at the same speed. Because remember, as the man you are the prize. The … | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 06:21 PM |
| 23 | How can you test a girl to see if she would let you get laid/ become fwb?Big thing is physical touch and how much eye contact you give. Framework and sexual tension are the two tests to actually see if anyone is down for that type of behavior. But the big kicker is to find out if someone is just worth a ons or a fwb relationship. That takes a bit more work and research. | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How to text women without being boring?Big thing about being interesting in the Phycology end of things is to actually create the space for the other person to talk about what they are passionate about. So essentially, have the ice breakers. After a little bit of small talk from the ice breakers move into some deeper conversations and then always give 10 seconds after someone starts to talk to actually give feedback and always ask “Is there anything more you’d wanna share?”. Ask it in your own way, but that’s essentially it. And if t… | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Don't feel good enough no matter whatThis, wholly agree that this covers the issue that you are dealing with. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Women’s Seduction Subreddit?It would be interesting to help with the process, but we’d have to be on the same page of information on how seduction succeeds, the psychology and characters of both men and women, where the basis of information is being filtered through, and how dating in general is evolving. Because the language barrier between men and women is growing as far as the rich are getting richer and the poor are getting poorer. Depending on if some people are serious about this, I’d put a couple hours a week to hel… | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 06:14 PM |
| 3 | How Can I Encourage Men to Approach Me?Yeah I agree. Would just wear something like that around the gym or events. Glad to give an idea. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 09:58 PM |
| 9 | How Can I Encourage Men to Approach Me?I think at this point, even though it’ll send pick-me vibes, there was this tik tok video of a guy that had a hat that he made saying “I’m single”. And it was clean, he had his regular gym fit going. But some brave woman approached him after seeing the hat in big bold. So that could just be your next bet to send a more obvious signal. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Does she like me or was she being friendlyYou need to lead the woman you like to the level of intimacy you want to have with her. It’s not a matter of “if she likes me she’ll do this”. That process happens within 7 seconds of seeing each other on if you guys are attractive or compatible. And if not, she softly will either say next or give subtle signals to play the game. And you need to make the first move. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Should I reach out or try to move on?Move on. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 03:58 PM |
| -1 | How to talk to and bond with women in a non-romantic way especially in social settings (college, gym etc) as I do with men?Ligit just talk to them like you would talk to a guy and treat them like you’d treat your homies. If they are too self centered and shallow to not wanna talk to you that’s on them. You are the prize my guy. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Good indication she's single?There isn’t. What you can do though to not get rejected is to ask about family or relationships that matter to them if something’s going on with their boyfriend or family member out of nowhere. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Is seduction really even possible?I did get across to the person who needed to hear that information, yet that is a good point. When teaching someone about it next time I’ll try to use more examples. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Is seduction really even possible?Dm me and I’ll explain it the best I can when I have time. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 12:53 PM |
| 6 | Is seduction really even possible?Just would like to start with you are overthinking “seduction” as a magical phenomenon that could make someone who’s repulsive find someone who’s Godly attractive and make them be attractive to each other like magnets. This isn’t a math equation. It’s a skill, so it goes under different logic and different principles. Just like in a different sense going to the gym and acquiring muscle. I you go to the gym every day of the week thinking you are going to go get bulky like Baki the grappler or lik… | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 12:38 PM |
| 4 | Every woman who tries to get with me has a boyfriend. Why?Definitely consider looking at your outer framework to see if your giving the wrong signals to the wrong women. And also consider your area, along with how you present yourself to people and their women. You might be the 10/10 to woman and you might be showing women that your willing to fit the bill accidentally. Would highly recommend reading “Practical Women’s Phycology” by Joseph W. South to find more detail of the kind of woman you seem to attract. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 10:03 AM |
| 3 | Intimacy adviceWill reply to this when I get home. On the road. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Anyone wanna send a pre-selection text?Friends, if you don’t feel like you are enough therapy and self help books are options. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Intimacy adviceAre you married? | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 09:32 PM |
| 14 | Should I Be More Picky, Even if It Means Fewer Dates?Now someone asked the real question. That’s a great one. The problem with subduction that nobody like to talk about is it literally is using manipulation tactics in a non-toxic way to get what you want. And there’s no harm in it when both parties are looking for the same thing. And in this regard, yes absolute. Be as picky as you wanna be and only seduce women that want to be seduced. And on top of that, never settle for anything less then what you want. It’s most of the worlds problem where we’… | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Have good posture or mirror her's?Have good posture | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Need your guidanceThis is well detailed. To sum up what he said to maybe make it simpler to understand: Work on mental framework. Although I’d highly recommend not going too deep to try and pull a woman from your own job because of the risk, read self help books to help rearrange how you think and move your mind away from self-centered thoughts and and just be in the present. If she’s cute/hot/sexy, think that. And then if you wanna make a move, make a move. If not, simply say “next”. Do your best to practice bei… | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with last minute resistance from 9s and 10sThis follows up for fundamental advantages so much. Thank you 🙏 | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with last minute resistance from 9s and 10sI need to disagree with you on this because of woman’s Phycology. I do agree that yes the game is off if this is a normal occurrence but you may have been in the game so long that you may experience just choosing the right women in general. When you get past the fundamentals and you start to read women’s body language better you can read before they say anything that there’s slight discomfort. And women are raised to trust their gut as much as men are. So it’s very normal in this day and age for… | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 12:51 PM |
| 12 | Dealing with last minute resistance from 9s and 10sLast min resistance is NORMAL. It’s a part of the game. Let them have that safety. Like in American football there’s a time where the two teams stop to set up their defenses again. Let the women have the ability to say no at anytime and have that self control. Big reason on why this is a huge power play is: It shows the woman you have respect. It shows that if something goes wrong you aren’t just focused on sex. It allows her to believe that you are a safe guy and will probably make herself want… | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Question about eye contact.Gotta slow down and play the game right for newbies. When you are playing for so long you lose track that these guys can’t tell a rejection look differently then a “I want you in my room” look. Take your time and be present and aware of your situation, and just choose an eye and be confident. That means more then anything else. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 09:40 PM |
| 13 | NO matches on Tinder. Any help?Get off of apps. They are rigged to just get your money. They do not actually benefit a healthy dating life. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you be yourself if you are just a very friendly guyThe big issue with the advice “Just be yourself” is that often times you try to people please when you are a nice guy. More often then not women look for character in a guy that separates them from the rest. So deny some things that you are truly not okay with. Walk away from a woman that doesn’t meet your actual standards. Etc. be yourself in the worst way possible to not waste either persons time. But if you are trying to make a good impression, step first with your better foot. Hope this help… | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Ideas for non expensive datesLigit walks. Best free idea. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 12:08 PM |
| 7 | What improved your first dates the most?Understanding that the nervousness was never gonna go away and they might be as nervous as I am or worse. So just be your best self. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Physical appearance adviceBiggest thing to do is actually watch your food intake. Make sure with all the things you do eat, have a bit more focus on foods that don’t effect your hormones. That will promote healthier body composition including nails and reduce releasing smelly sweat. There is also medicine you can consume that will help reduce the harsh bodily smell. Would have to get back to you on what I saw, but if you google or look on Amazon for bad body odor cleansers or something of that sort it’s worth a try. Once… | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 09:31 PM |
| 5 | How do you respond to rejection texts?It depends on your goal. You can take simple soft rejections in a kind way and leave things open. Hard rejections definitely don’t put any more energy into that person that did reject you because it’s not worth it. Attention and respect go hand in hand and if someone’s not willing to give you a hand they aren’t worth walking with in this life. I’d actually discourage blocking people though. It is a toxic trait that will end up ruining the chance of developing long term relationships. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Can You forgive a Cheater?This. Once you understand the mindset of a cheater or a one time incident there’s no real recovery of a healthy relationship. Would still recommend “forgiving” them because it’s a mature thing to do. Release them from ever doing anything wrong to you and put the energy that could be burnt from hatred into just living your life better because you have the confidence that you separated yourself from a toxic relationship. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 06:14 PM |
| -4 | Is it different if a woman has had 100+ partners compared to a man with an equal amount?It is, cause in reality men are the prize and women are the fuel that keeps a relationship alive. Without a man, the woman has no direction, no status to build upon and no “real” masculine energy to turn into feminine energy. And the thing is when a true feminine woman is in her desired environment and can be safe enough to produce feminine energy it boosts the masculine energy from the man. This is strictly applied to the Heterosexual relationship between a healthy man and a healthy woman. Ther… | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 04:58 PM |
| 10 | How do you guys deal with feeling missed out at dating in highschool, if u have?Honestly you are dodging a huge bullet. The lie about it being important in high school ignores the fact that some people were taken advantage of when they are younger. And now they have a habit they can’t break of not being able to stay in a long term relationship because of a deep routed issue that happened in high school. You should look at it from a different perspective of is this gonna be day one where I make a change in my life to be better then who I am today, or am I going to keep sayin… | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Online dating helpBig thing about dating apps, is that you wanna just use it to meet people. That’s it. Leave your profile alone on there and send em links to your other socials. | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 01:51 AM |
| -3 | Tips for breaking dry spellBiggest tip, lowering your look standards to find someone who’ll fit your personality standards. You might find something of what your looking for if you stop being shallow. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How to start something?Might have missed out on the first arrangement. Sorry bro | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you revive an old text message relationship ?Wouldn’t, there’s plenty of fish in the sea. Move on and be your best self for someone else. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Can approaching girls in the street lead to a relationship?Day approaching, yes, anywhere with a good night life where the streets are safe to women, yes, but in any other occasion heck no. Women get too timid in environments they don’t feel safe in. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Advice on how to flirt as a womanWait you got money 👀 Hey~ 😏 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 03:43 AM |
| 4 | Advice on how to flirt as a woman💞😜 Get it girl | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Expectations for the male 20yo dating experienceLooks only have a small part of it. You gotta figure out on your own how you do flat in the market without fundamentals then go from there. Focus more on having a life and a mission to create a space that’s yours and watch what women wanna join you. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 03:39 AM |
| 0 | What to Dm a female coworker that likes all my Insta stories?Don’t dm at all cause it’s not worth the case..? | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 03:37 AM |
| 5 | Advice on how to flirt as a womanDefinitely would recommend reading romance novels and paying keen attention on when “eyes meet”, that you can mock what kind of woman does what for there own “class”. Like if the woman is more prudish she’ll simply gossip to her friend about the man they look at. Or apply lipstick with intense eye contact, play with jewelry when in light conversations after the approach. Etc. I only understand it as a man that y’all play a souls-like difficulty game in order to be slick to not give off hoe vibes… | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Showing interest in a workplace?Would avoid at all cost | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] Not able to gauge her intentions due to lack of communicationYeah it’s normal. The big thing that men don’t realize is that they can’t seal the deal even though they think they did everything right. There’s lots they can learn if they found the right sources. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 06:34 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] Not able to gauge her intentions due to lack of communicationAnd I’d add too that. If she’s not gonna be lead to do what you wanna do, still softly “next” her. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 06:01 AM |
| 2 | [Serious] Not able to gauge her intentions due to lack of communicationDon’t respond till Saturday when your ready to have her over. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 06:01 AM |
| 3 | [Serious] Not able to gauge her intentions due to lack of communicationUnderstandable. Definitely would advice leaving her on red for a week at a time if she’s not actually putting in effort. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 05:49 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] Not able to gauge her intentions due to lack of communicationHey look. When the right one comes your way and it’s the right time, they make it work together. So if you think she’s “The one to marry” then stick with it. If you are about actual seduction and not ready to really settle down. Softly say not until she’s actually gonna give you a day. Cause you are the prize. Not her. If she’s not ready to put in the work as you are gonna put in to the relationship you want, then bounce cause there really is an ocean full of fish. Doesn’t matter if she’s exotic… | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Why do I get low effort girlsYou need to be a high value man in order to get effort from women, and you need to only care once a week when they are over giving you what you want. Then not care immediately after. Otherwise they’ll think your boyfriend material and will treat you as such. And if they think they can get any man they want, until they want one, they won’t try. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 03:36 AM |
| 1 | If you get no attention on dating sites does it mean you will get no attention in real life?Lol would have to pay to dig deeper my friend | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Where is this leading us?You’ve gone into Pandora’s box. Think of it this way, what do you “REALLY” want? Have you sat down for two weeks doing nothing and thought of what really makes you enjoy life? Do you enjoy being around your family and friends? Do that. Do you enjoy going on dates and meeting new people? Do that. One of the big problems with philosophy is that we dive too deep into the knowledge of good and evil and eat of that fruit till we die from it. Wouldn’t it be better to just eat of the fruit we bare? | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 02:36 PM |
| 2 | If you get no attention on dating sites does it mean you will get no attention in real life?One of them that will be the actual key is “Practical Women’s Phycology” by Joseph W South. You can also keep an eye on the site “Girls Chase”. They have a podcast that’s all about this. That should be enough resources right at this second to get you started. Because it evolves you have to keep your eye out for core concepts. Good luck on your journey 😁 | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 02:21 PM |
| 2 | If you get no attention on dating sites does it mean you will get no attention in real life?Apps and dating sites are rigged. It’s targeted for men really. The only men that benefit from those sites are 10//10 attractive men that attract even the ugliest milfs to take their shot. But it doesn’t mean there’s no shot at pulling in irl. The biggest problem is that men and woman speak two different dating languages. And ever since the internet came out those languages have separated further and further so unless you’ve had a sister that actually cared about you and taught you everything yo… | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 02:05 PM |
| 2 | How to act if she plays with you - is immature?Getting hella BPD vibes with this one. Unless you know how to handle that, not good for a relationship. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 02:02 PM |
| 1 | does "you give me good emotions" is a good enough evaluation and excuse for a date with a girl?It depends on what you want really. My brain runs a million miles an hour, if my thoughts are over or under that doesn’t effect the fact that I get what I want when I want it. I have my experiences that say this and that and I’m sure yours say otherwise. Not trying to argue, and my reply was meant to be for this stud who we both don’t actually know if his mind is in the right mindset or if he has the framework or if he’s smooth like butter. Doesn’t matter to me. I’m giving what I believe is valu… | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?This | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | does "you give me good emotions" is a good enough evaluation and excuse for a date with a girl?The reason why I’d say the complement gives out a red flag signs is because of what that implies. “You give me good emotions” = “You make me feel good indirectly”. That means once you stop that and eventually it will stop just because of how dopamine works, she’s out the door looking for someone else who makes her “have good emotions” as well. It’s a simple sign of a low self esteem adventure. You can pull and show them the love and care they need while they are there but you don’t wanna invest … | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 03:15 PM |
| -3 | does "you give me good emotions" is a good enough evaluation and excuse for a date with a girl?Wouldn’t go down that way my man. Not that she’s bad but or wouldn’t be an easy lay but that was a weird compliment to receive. Like red flag crazy weird compliment. If you are gonna try to pull her regardless don’t get attached. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 12:51 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys keep going?I’d give up on dating apps. The people who go to look for dates on there don’t look for genuine relationships or dating experiences. The longer you try to practice the successful dating techniques irl that actually work, the more you’ll see the pattern of success. The big thing is to drop what doesn’t work and try something new that does. If you are looking for a genuine relationship then you gotta find something you love doing and stick to that until someone finds you and hope for the best. Sad… | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Wondering whether it's worth it to make another move or notWould highly recommend staying busy and probably cut the loss. If two weeks or a month goes by and she tries to reach out great. If not, oh well. Next. Her loss. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for guys who aren’t attractive?Dm me I’ll explain more later | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How to transfer to a relationship?The problem is how you’re trying to make a relationship with someone you are giving fuck buddy material too. You need to try and find someone who wants a relationship from the start. Girls don’t work like guys do. They read us before we even think if things are going to work out and they risk their reputations to be with us. Not the other way around. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 03:30 PM |
| -1 | Any tips for guys who aren’t attractive?Looks are only 15% of what matters. Confidence, attitude and framework are what really matter. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 03:26 PM |
| 46 | Do you have to tell a girl that you just want to hookup or is it implied?Yea you have to communicate what you are after. If it’s sex, then ask in a respectful way and get declined till you are in the grave because women don’t just want to get average sex for 3 mins till you bust. Woman want an experience my guy. They want someone who wants them and only them. Like they are the only girl that matters even if it is just a one night stand. You need to penetrate their mind that you are a solid guy with a solid source of income, and that if sex happens it happens, but you… | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 04:22 AM |
| 150 | Is it okay to sleep with a girl then lose interest in her after?Girls do it all the time to men. “Buyers remorse” is what it’s called and absolutely it’s okay. But trust me when I say that the person on the other hand is gonna hate that. Other people who aren’t connected at all to the situation will say the same, and friends of either side will be biased. So gamble with whoever at your own risk and always use protection. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 04:05 AM |
| 7 | Girls tell me I’m very attractive but don’t wanna go outThe biggest thing I saw in recent comments is “You thought you’d be called a creep”. I used to think that way too. I was a gamer that did nothing but watch porn and hang with friends and until I got to hang out again my cycle repeated. The best thing you can do rn is probably just start listening to podcasts of things that are relevant to you and on how to communicate with confidence or be more compelling. Those will teach you the basics on how to talk to anyone and not just girls. The second th… | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 11:18 AM |
| 1 | I need help!Keep things simple, and straight to the point. When you get into a private situation, lead him to a wall and tell him he’s been bad/naughty, go from there. | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Back in the game after a long hiatus and nothing is workingThis is normal. Gotta get back into what’s the new norm. Keep trying new things until you get back in the groove | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Used to be a nice guy with the girl I liked how do I go about something casualToo late, it’s too far gone if you’ve been friends and then try to smash. You gotta establish your intentions early and try to pull sooner or else her assessments of you is gonna lead to being friendzoned | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Some Good Advice About ApproachingPeople are too self centered to care what you think. Meet someone knew, ask questions to show curiosity about them as an individual, care about it and make it personal, and be outcome independent. | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Too manyThe big reason is fear of being hurt again for most men. I’m not quite set up yet but once I get there I just plan to have 3 girls in rotation and keep things on a weeks basis. Make the money I make then hit each one on a weekend, then move on if nothin happens. Being outcome independent is crucial. | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I leave her?Men will always be the bad guy. Woman can’t really comprehend being the problem unless they were raised right. And these days it’s a diamond in the rough if you find someone who was. Just say “I don’t feel the chemistry anymore and that I haven’t for a while. It’s not you, it’s me. It’s time we go our separate ways.” Then do your best to stop giving her attention, time, and effort. Eventually after the opera as you said it will end and she’ll try to find someone else to cling on. Most women with… | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 04:03 PM |
| 11 | Women don't want to meet up because "They don't know me enough"This, just move on. | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 03:18 PM |
| 1 | A bit lostWith women it’s good that you get them to talk more | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 04:21 AM |
| 5 | Has your desire ever clouded your judgement?Big reason to not watch porn. It clouds your judgement and makes you settle for less then what you actually can make yourself to be and what you can actually get if you play your cards right. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 09:35 PM |
| 7 | Where should I go for hookups- Cali or NYC?Both are shit places in my opinion to try to get laid right at this moment. Too close to thanksgiving as the next holiday. Need to wait till New years before choosing between them for higher percentage chance to get laid. You wanna go to either when ladies say “It’s this time of the year or it’s this holiday, imma go get fucked up and get fucked.” Be sure to screen women carefully though. Remember there are skanks out there. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Going to the club tonight for the first timeThis, be outcome independent and go have a good time, talk to as many people as you can. Introduce yourself ask if you can give girls your number. Ask them if they like the club or if they’d rather be somewhere else and lead them if they wanna be lead, or move on if they don’t bite. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Did I screw up a handshake ?Thinking too much and the wrong environment to “attempt to talk”. Next time try to bring her to a bar or somewhere that’s got less noise casually and just try to communicate that “Imma get another drink, would you care to join me?” It’s okay to lead her the wrong way “by accident “ and blame it on thinking it was another way. Be outcome independent and if she says no, thank her kindly, and move on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:24 PM |
| 7 | Do you contact a girl after a night out? She didn’t seem fully sober so would she even remember me?Playing a dangerous game there. For the next one be sure to introduce yourself confidently and try to at least give her your contact info if you think she’s worth seeing again. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Random but does anyone know how to catch a whine in a club without being creepy (how to grind with a girl in a club)Make a move, no. But if a woman is looking for her type on the floor she will. You’d be surprised in the right circumstances how woman will indirectly influence a man to make the move first. That happens constantly and all men that don’t know what to look for miss those signals. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:20 PM |
| 0 | How in god’s name do you ask a woman out?Saw in the reply below that you argued against being inside your head with “but wouldn’t it bother them?” It would if you are creepy about it. Don’t be a creep, just ask the one time and if they don’t bite, smile softly, let them know “alright, hope you have a great day”, and move on. Thinking too much is gonna block you from opening up. Also, if you do watch porn, watch it less. You are gonna have to lead if you are wanting some game or an actual relationship. Would definitely spend time alone … | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Random but does anyone know how to catch a whine in a club without being creepy (how to grind with a girl in a club)Just continually go out to dance and wait for women to come to you. Be outcome independent and go have fun if it’s what you like to do. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 11:31 AM |
| 1 | I’m fresh out of a 3 year relationship, I’ve been going out doing cold approaches, getting tons of numbers, was even able to bring a girl back to my buddy’s, and still can’t seal the deal.Big thing with sealing the deal is women have a natural “stop before its too late” mechanism in their mind because they don’t want buyers remorse the next morning. You can try the seal the deal twice in a night but that second no means no. THIS DOES NOT MEAN TO PANDER CONSISTENTLY TO ANYONE ELSE THAT READS THIS. Women are people who deserve to say yes and no as many times as you do. Be outcome independent, always expect them to say no, and try again an hour later after more conversation. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Fear of coming as a creepWatch less porn, talk to more women. Read books on how people talk, and how to influence others positively. You can change, just believe you can and you will. Does take time to unlearn, but possible. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 12:39 AM |
| -1 | i look good and got a good physique but still no communication skills which is a huge drawbackYour loss in the late game. Respect it though | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 12:36 AM |
| 0 | i look good and got a good physique but still no communication skills which is a huge drawbackYou are young, focus on finishing college and getting real money first. You can buy books on communicating in the meantime that will help you grow out of your shell and bring value to groups. Once women see that and that you are on a mission to finish college they’ll cling to you probably. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 11:31 PM |
| -2 | Virgin at 25 FNah I’m happy to just talk to new people and help others understand dating. I got a kid and child support so I don’t care for sex like that anymore. Too expensive 😆😆 | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Friends firstBad idea. Like 2% chance that if you are friends with a girl it will actually turn into a real relationship. Being friendly is super important, but if you are interested in a girl, you have to understand that if your not being sexually attractive in the way that the woman you are talking to needs so that she gets security that you are the prize, it’s pointless. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 11:21 PM |
| 3 | How to be vulnerable with women?Ligit it doesn’t matter. Just open up about a random bs time in your life where you had to grow through something rough. The bigger part of that picture is to get them to talk about themselves. That’s what women (with high self esteem) like to do. And I guarantee if you succeed in getting them to talk about themselves more without them realizing it, you won’t need to be too vulnerable. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I work on my looks more before cold approaching? Anytime I get a weird reaction from a girl I just think I’m ugly, wtf.Just go to a barber regularly and look into what kind of woman you actually wanna keep in your life and dress accordingly. Dm for more info if you have more questions. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 09:34 PM |
| -5 | Virgin at 25 FDm me so we could have an in depth conversation about maximizing your potential. Cause you are a diamond in the rough and probably more attractive then you think. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | People who get laid,how?Risk | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | No sexual experience: How do I handle sexual conversations in group settings or with peers.Ligit you have the greatest advantage to just make virgin jokes for days until a woman gives you a chance. Just roll with it, an experience woman may give you a chance if she has a heart. Of course if you are her type. Remember that not everyone likes tea, and you may be the greatest cup of tea ever in some categories. Just not her drink. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Help a brethren “slide into the dm”The best opening line is “Hello, my name is ______, what’s your full name if that’s okay to ask?” But always follow up to try to get them to talk about themselves and their interests first. That’s how you pen a women’s mind to show you have some social skills. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 06:23 PM |
| 2 | How to talk to a guy?This is huge. Low key if he isn’t willing to compromise to do something you wanna do it’s gonna set up a lot of things as a potential partner. Pro tip though, if you don’t know what to say, get them to start talking about themselves or their interests. But ask it indirectly if you have the social skills of how. I’m working on that myself so we in that same boat of how to say the right things 😆 | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Need Situationship HelpNot telling, give it suggestions. I don’t like to tell people to do anything. I left management for a reason 😆 You should dm me though so I could give you proper advice to your situation if you choose to share. From the OP’s perspective it seems like he has his own level of confidence to have his options as open as I left them. You may or may not so we should chat. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Need Situationship HelpFb= fuck buddies | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | A Hurdle holding me backFacts | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Need Situationship HelpLove the mindset my dude. Keep it going and never stop. You are real OG 💪 | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Is ok feeling nervous before meeting with some girl?Definitely in America, CA specifically from where I can tell cause it’s where I live. It’s easy to sell your soul if you don’t know what you are signing to make rent. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Need Situationship HelpLow key you should probably just soft next. You deserve someone who’s gonna wanna make time with you and not flake out. If you realllly wanna work things out which I don’t recommend, you gotta up the relationship status. If not FB’s, FWB or an actual relationship, that’s all up to you, but set some ground rules and lead. Otherwise move on. Pro-tip if your gonna try and keep it as FB’s, only message her once a week, and only give her the one chance to hang and bang otherwise move on. Unless for f… | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 01:59 AM |
| 23 | Is ok feeling nervous before meeting with some girl?I’d question if you have a soul if you didn’t feel nervous | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Were you guys nervous when you first went tried to a girl from the club/bar?Absolutely. But the more you do it the less your nerves will effect you | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Approaching Girls Alone: Any Tips for Avoiding Large Friend Groups?The interesting thing about failure is you are able to fail until you succeed. And you are able to allow yourself to fail with no negative consequence. So lose the mindset that failing at anything results in being a failure and watch how much more you’ll succeed at anything. Including getting women. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 04:19 PM |
| 7 | Approaching Girls Alone: Any Tips for Avoiding Large Friend Groups?Big groups are a huge advantage to conquer if you pull it off right. You can always try to get the group in a good mood by offering something of value to the whole group then possibly impressing whoever your originally looking to talk too. Everyone’s a human here so everyone plays by the same rules. Would highly recommend reading “sex signals” by Leil Lowndes, it’ll explain how to never get rejected and 100% determine if the one you look at actually has reciprocal attraction. Once you understand… | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Can we always rely on women's body language and facial expressions?You need to read “Sex signals” by Leil Lowndes. It explains it in further detail. Will give you a lot more hints as well. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | People who do cold approach, any advice from you or suggestion that i can look at?Would highly recommend listening and reading from the masters vs listening to any of us on here. There’s a podcast called Girls Chase that’s pretty good. “The Practical Phycology of Woman” by Joseph South is probably the better book to dive deeper then just cold approach’s. “Sex Signals” by Leil Lowndes is of a woman’s perspective on the signals that woman actually give if they are interested and gives you 100% confidence to never be publicly humiliated ever again by a cold approach by knowing i… | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 02:55 AM |
| 6 | How to give her the best sex of her life?Females have different biological needs then men. Always start slow and always make sure she feels safe. Set the mood like a day or two in advance with her love language first to penetrate her mind and to actually get her in the mood to wanna have sex. Make sure you have a brown or black towel available to grab and put under her if it’s her preference, and be sure on your end that it’s a cheapo deepo that you don’t mind if it gets “a loss in quality from specific activities”. Also have either a … | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | How to transition from a first date to just a fuck buddy?Much thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | How to transition from a first date to just a fuck buddy?Sweet! Which platforms is he on? | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 05:36 PM |
| 7 | How to transition from a first date to just a fuck buddy?“Laid consistently” is my thoughts towards it. | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:57 PM |
| 15 | How to transition from a first date to just a fuck buddy?There’s a great podcast from “Girls Chase” with the man known as “BlackDragon” who goes into depth about establishing “the relationships” you’ll get into with women at the start. It’s known as polyamorous relationships that aren’t that deep. Would highly recommend listening to the whole thing to actually get your answer but here’s a short summary from listening to it twice. You need to establish in the beginning what you are looking for and see if they even agree on your terms “IN THE TALKING PH… | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 01:33 PM |
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