There is this goth girl i met on social media. We get along well and we become friends. Now we talk about everything, like about her cat, her previous relationships. There is also this sexual tension in some of her texts, like when she talk about her bodybuilding routine, there is a sexual ring to it. but i dont know how to subtly escalate things from gentleman good friend to dating. I am unable to make this shift. There is all this talk about thing, but reference to me and her is absent. how can i do this? any tips. needs tips to change her perception from seeing me as friends to lover.